1 00:02:54,607 --> 00:02:56,870 Elizabeth here. 2 00:03:00,480 --> 00:03:03,744 God. Hold on, Jane. 3 00:03:11,424 --> 00:03:13,357 Hello? 4 00:03:23,937 --> 00:03:25,704 Like that. Got it? 5 00:03:25,705 --> 00:03:28,407 Just relax. You'll be okay. 6 00:03:28,408 --> 00:03:30,432 Okay? 7 00:03:39,419 --> 00:03:41,819 Your dragon mother. 8 00:03:42,589 --> 00:03:44,522 Hello? 8 00:03:51,589 --> 00:03:53,422 Hello? 8 00:03:53,423 --> 00:03:55,211 9 00:05:46,446 --> 00:05:48,146 He's such a jerk. 10 00:05:48,147 --> 00:05:52,105 My mother dies, and he doesn't want me leaving for the funeral. 11 00:05:52,552 --> 00:05:54,152 Don't call my brother a jerk. 12 00:05:54,153 --> 00:05:55,354 You do. 13 00:05:55,355 --> 00:05:58,016 Of course. I'm his sister. 14 00:05:58,091 --> 00:06:00,158 He's not a very good director. 15 00:06:00,159 --> 00:06:02,149 I know. 16 00:06:02,995 --> 00:06:05,630 But he's my younger brother. What am I gonna do?. 17 00:06:05,631 --> 00:06:08,156 Kick his ass?. 18 00:06:11,170 --> 00:06:13,365 Okay. 19 00:06:15,174 --> 00:06:18,143 Mom, why are you so sad?. 20 00:06:18,144 --> 00:06:22,381 Grandma was a total bitch. She treated us like shit. 21 00:06:22,382 --> 00:06:24,750 Jason, where are you learning to talk like this?. 22 00:06:24,751 --> 00:06:26,775 School. 23 00:06:29,956 --> 00:06:32,157 Well, Grandma wasn't all that bad. 24 00:06:32,158 --> 00:06:33,959 She was just... 25 00:06:33,960 --> 00:06:36,690 Well, she was Chinese. 26 00:06:39,966 --> 00:06:41,867 Do you have to go out tonight?. 27 00:06:41,868 --> 00:06:46,271 I'm introducing the new Miss Taiwan to all of Manhattan. 28 00:06:46,272 --> 00:06:47,973 Our families are in mourning... 29 00:06:47,974 --> 00:06:51,109 Darling, I'm not going tomorrow. 30 00:06:51,110 --> 00:06:53,202 Cindy. 31 00:06:54,480 --> 00:06:56,675 My mother's dead. 32 00:06:57,083 --> 00:07:01,286 And your daughter has a dance recital on Friday. Priorities?. 33 00:07:01,287 --> 00:07:03,255 Look, I thought as a family we could... 34 00:07:03,256 --> 00:07:06,657 We could pretend that we actually liked the Dragon Lady?. 35 00:07:08,127 --> 00:07:13,030 Look, we'll come after Emily's recital. 36 00:07:21,674 --> 00:07:26,077 By the way, will your mistress be joining us in Seattle?. 37 00:07:26,078 --> 00:07:28,569 Jane, right?. 38 00:07:34,921 --> 00:07:37,753 So how did Grandma die?. 39 00:07:38,324 --> 00:07:40,689 Oh, Emily... 40 00:07:47,400 --> 00:07:49,993 I'm glad you all decided to come. 41 00:07:51,804 --> 00:07:54,738 Your mother had one request: 42 00:07:54,774 --> 00:07:57,936 A traditional Chinese funeral. 43 00:08:02,615 --> 00:08:04,582 It takes seven days. 44 00:08:04,717 --> 00:08:07,285 Seven days?. We never did that for Dad. 45 00:08:07,286 --> 00:08:09,187 Dad didn't request it, Mother did. 46 00:08:09,188 --> 00:08:10,388 Yeah, but seven days?. 47 00:08:10,389 --> 00:08:13,859 What, your patients can't put off their Botox injections for a week?. 48 00:08:13,860 --> 00:08:17,095 Viola, thank you. We will do everything we can to give Mother... 49 00:08:17,096 --> 00:08:20,531 ...a traditional Chinese funeral. 50 00:08:23,202 --> 00:08:25,370 But how?. We're Americans. 51 00:08:25,371 --> 00:08:27,405 Hey, Alex and I don't even speak Chinese. 52 00:08:27,406 --> 00:08:30,141 Well, Elizabeth, you know something about it, don't you?. 53 00:08:30,142 --> 00:08:31,810 You live in Hong Kong. 54 00:08:31,811 --> 00:08:35,113 No, I really don't know anything about it. Sorry, Viola. 55 00:08:35,114 --> 00:08:39,050 Our mother didn't want us to be raised Chinese, that's why she hired you. 56 00:08:40,720 --> 00:08:47,125 Well, I happen to know a hell of a lot about traditional Chinese funerals. 57 00:08:47,927 --> 00:08:51,294 I was Chinese in a previous life. 58 00:08:52,231 --> 00:08:54,132 Oh, God. Give me a break. 59 00:08:54,133 --> 00:08:57,669 Alex, I've been in this family since you were in diapers. 60 00:08:57,670 --> 00:09:00,263 So please. 61 00:09:01,774 --> 00:09:04,902 You missed her 70th birthday. 62 00:09:05,611 --> 00:09:08,413 I was gonna come over, really. 63 00:09:08,414 --> 00:09:11,109 I just didn't wanna be the only one. 64 00:09:13,352 --> 00:09:16,621 You didn't call. None of you did. 65 00:09:16,622 --> 00:09:19,758 - I mailed a card. - Got here two days late. 66 00:09:19,759 --> 00:09:22,727 Viola, thank you for taking care of her and us. 67 00:09:22,728 --> 00:09:25,397 But you have no right to say any of this. 68 00:09:25,398 --> 00:09:27,299 Your mother had cancer. 69 00:09:27,300 --> 00:09:30,669 - What?. - She never told us. 70 00:09:30,670 --> 00:09:32,933 You never asked her how she felt. 71 00:09:35,441 --> 00:09:36,965 She died alone. 72 00:09:37,009 --> 00:09:39,409 And look at you kids. 73 00:09:39,412 --> 00:09:41,279 Do you ever talk to each other?. 74 00:09:41,280 --> 00:09:43,315 When was the last time you were together?. 75 00:09:43,316 --> 00:09:46,842 Stop that. Enough already. 76 00:09:48,955 --> 00:09:52,356 Elizabeth, why isn't Michael with you?. 77 00:09:52,892 --> 00:09:55,627 We separated almost a year ago. 78 00:09:55,628 --> 00:09:57,529 Just after Sammy died. 79 00:09:57,530 --> 00:09:58,730 I'm sorry. 80 00:09:58,731 --> 00:10:02,267 Look, our mother spent her entire life pitting us against each other... 81 00:10:02,268 --> 00:10:05,003 ...and hardly had a kind word for any of us. 82 00:10:05,004 --> 00:10:09,174 Well, her last words were that she loved you... 83 00:10:09,175 --> 00:10:12,371 ...and hoped you'd forgive her. 84 00:10:16,649 --> 00:10:23,321 Now, the first thing you have to do is get some monks. 85 00:10:23,322 --> 00:10:25,190 Chanting monks. 86 00:10:25,191 --> 00:10:27,488 And why can't you arrange that?. 87 00:10:28,260 --> 00:10:29,561 Okay, fine. 88 00:10:29,562 --> 00:10:31,997 Chanting monks. How many, and where do I get them?. 89 00:10:31,998 --> 00:10:34,499 The temple. I know the place. 90 00:10:34,500 --> 00:10:37,435 According to tradition, children of the deceased... 91 00:10:37,436 --> 00:10:40,772 ...must kneel at the shrine three times a day... 92 00:10:40,773 --> 00:10:45,004 ...10 minutes each, and before bedtime. 93 00:10:46,445 --> 00:10:48,279 Has anyone heard from Meimei?. 94 00:10:48,280 --> 00:10:51,180 Oh, you really think she's gonna come?. 95 00:10:54,920 --> 00:10:57,684 I can't believe she's gone. 96 00:10:58,124 --> 00:11:01,684 The last time we spoke, I hung up on her. 97 00:11:02,795 --> 00:11:04,523 Me too. 98 00:11:06,832 --> 00:11:09,596 I was such a disappointment to her. 99 00:11:09,602 --> 00:11:13,265 Hey, we all were. 100 00:11:15,307 --> 00:11:18,276 I dreamt about this. 101 00:11:18,277 --> 00:11:20,972 It was a nightmare. 102 00:11:20,980 --> 00:11:23,072 Awful. 103 00:11:24,383 --> 00:11:28,046 She had died, and we... 104 00:11:29,755 --> 00:11:33,122 What?. We what?. 105 00:11:35,728 --> 00:11:38,560 We didn't care, Alex. 106 00:11:39,465 --> 00:11:42,263 That was the awful part. 107 00:12:11,897 --> 00:12:15,400 My, my, isn't this a Kodak moment?. 108 00:12:15,401 --> 00:12:17,502 Meimei. Dede. 109 00:12:17,503 --> 00:12:19,537 - Hey. - Where's the body?. 110 00:12:19,538 --> 00:12:21,665 At the funeral parlor. 111 00:12:23,309 --> 00:12:25,343 What's all this?. 112 00:12:25,344 --> 00:12:26,678 A shrine. 113 00:12:26,679 --> 00:12:29,848 Wow, this is so cool. 114 00:12:29,849 --> 00:12:31,883 We don't even have this in China anymore. 115 00:12:31,884 --> 00:12:33,718 - A shrine?. - Yes. 116 00:12:33,719 --> 00:12:36,855 For dead people. Ghosts. 117 00:12:36,856 --> 00:12:39,256 You wanna try this?. 118 00:12:43,496 --> 00:12:45,020 Meimei. 119 00:12:48,567 --> 00:12:51,228 - Mama. - Meimei. 120 00:12:51,403 --> 00:12:53,571 - Meimei. Meimei. - Mommy! 121 00:12:53,572 --> 00:12:56,141 Oh, Mama. 122 00:12:56,142 --> 00:13:00,134 - You left us too soon. - Meimei. 123 00:13:00,913 --> 00:13:03,948 That's really bad acting. 124 00:13:03,949 --> 00:13:06,151 Yeah, Meimei, there are no cameras here. 125 00:13:06,152 --> 00:13:08,085 Get up. 126 00:13:15,394 --> 00:13:17,054 Your mom's dead. 127 00:13:17,329 --> 00:13:21,933 Can't you just try and be nice to each other for once?. 128 00:13:21,934 --> 00:13:24,425 You're not family. 129 00:13:24,570 --> 00:13:27,061 And you're not welcome here. 130 00:13:27,306 --> 00:13:30,570 Alex, you asshole. 131 00:14:09,915 --> 00:14:11,746 You didn't eat a thing. 132 00:14:14,486 --> 00:14:17,147 I have to keep my figure. 133 00:14:17,489 --> 00:14:19,650 Ever seen a fat ninja?. 134 00:14:21,060 --> 00:14:22,993 Eat. 135 00:14:30,002 --> 00:14:32,203 I subscribed to your magazine. 136 00:14:32,204 --> 00:14:34,572 I read your column every month. 137 00:14:34,573 --> 00:14:38,804 I saw your last film. It was very good. 138 00:14:41,647 --> 00:14:44,115 No, it wasn't. 139 00:14:49,555 --> 00:14:51,647 Okay. 140 00:14:52,858 --> 00:14:55,053 Liz. 141 00:14:55,494 --> 00:14:58,519 I know you're angry at me. 142 00:14:58,530 --> 00:15:02,295 I'm sorry I didn't come to Sammy's funeral. 143 00:15:02,468 --> 00:15:04,697 I am. 144 00:15:05,304 --> 00:15:08,830 I just... I... 145 00:15:08,974 --> 00:15:11,476 You were on location. It's fine. 146 00:15:11,477 --> 00:15:13,968 No, it's not. 147 00:15:14,179 --> 00:15:17,048 Damn it, Liz, just say how you feel. 148 00:15:17,049 --> 00:15:20,382 All right. It was not fine. 149 00:15:28,727 --> 00:15:31,718 So that's why you and Michael broke up?. 150 00:15:33,332 --> 00:15:36,665 Do you still see him sometimes?. 151 00:15:36,969 --> 00:15:39,871 He flew in from Los Angeles about a month ago... 152 00:15:39,872 --> 00:15:42,140 ...and spent the weekend with me. 153 00:15:42,141 --> 00:15:44,506 Do you still love him?. 154 00:15:45,177 --> 00:15:46,744 You believe in love?. 155 00:15:46,745 --> 00:15:48,179 Oh, Liz. 156 00:15:48,180 --> 00:15:51,080 Absolutely. 157 00:15:51,784 --> 00:15:54,252 You really can't be that naive. 158 00:15:55,387 --> 00:15:58,122 You sound just like Mom. 159 00:15:58,123 --> 00:16:00,488 No, I don't. 160 00:16:00,592 --> 00:16:03,356 Dede and I are planning on having a baby. 161 00:16:05,297 --> 00:16:07,432 You're gonna hate me?. 162 00:16:07,433 --> 00:16:10,197 A baby?. How?. 163 00:16:11,103 --> 00:16:15,061 Sperm. We just need some sperm. 164 00:16:15,174 --> 00:16:18,700 Oh, sperm. Right, of course. 165 00:16:19,111 --> 00:16:21,408 Are you gonna hate me?. 166 00:16:21,880 --> 00:16:25,781 No. Stop asking me that. 167 00:16:26,485 --> 00:16:28,816 Excuse me. 168 00:16:33,225 --> 00:16:35,488 What's with her?. 169 00:16:38,097 --> 00:16:40,131 She lost her son. 170 00:16:40,132 --> 00:16:43,100 Yes, I know that. 171 00:17:24,309 --> 00:17:27,539 I want you to unbutton your shirt. 172 00:17:27,546 --> 00:17:29,747 I want you to feel my tongue... 173 00:17:29,748 --> 00:17:31,949 ...licking across your lips. 174 00:17:31,950 --> 00:17:35,420 My hands slowly sliding up your thigh. 175 00:17:35,421 --> 00:17:39,322 No, not right now. Not right now. 176 00:18:22,134 --> 00:18:24,602 T en minutes. 177 00:18:29,575 --> 00:18:31,476 Viola. 178 00:18:31,477 --> 00:18:35,146 We should go to the funeral home now to, you know, see her. 179 00:18:35,147 --> 00:18:37,648 Well, you will see her on the day of the funeral... 180 00:18:37,649 --> 00:18:39,884 ...when she's all made-up and looking pretty. 181 00:18:39,885 --> 00:18:42,820 Now, those were your mother's wishes... 182 00:18:42,821 --> 00:18:44,989 ...and vanity was her middle name. 183 00:18:44,990 --> 00:18:46,991 What do you think?. Him. 184 00:18:46,992 --> 00:18:48,720 Sperm donor. 185 00:18:50,562 --> 00:18:51,996 Dede, please. 186 00:18:51,997 --> 00:18:54,488 Excuse me. We're trying to make a baby. 187 00:18:55,968 --> 00:18:58,836 - That's disgusting. - What did you say?. 188 00:18:58,837 --> 00:19:00,838 Look who's talking. 189 00:19:00,839 --> 00:19:02,573 Slut. 190 00:19:02,574 --> 00:19:04,475 Why don't you just shut your nasty... 191 00:19:04,476 --> 00:19:05,977 Stop it, all right?. 192 00:19:05,978 --> 00:19:08,605 We're only here seven days. 193 00:19:08,680 --> 00:19:10,948 There is a lot to do in these seven days. 194 00:19:10,949 --> 00:19:13,751 We have to notify friends and relatives. 195 00:19:13,752 --> 00:19:15,987 Cemetery, tombstone. 196 00:19:15,988 --> 00:19:18,923 Things for your mother's afterlife, which we will then burn. 197 00:19:18,924 --> 00:19:22,727 The banquet, the eulogy, some Chinese call it the r�sum�. 198 00:19:22,728 --> 00:19:26,397 And then on the fifth day, people will come and they'll pay their respects... 199 00:19:26,398 --> 00:19:29,100 Embarrassing that you know all of this and we don't. 200 00:19:29,101 --> 00:19:31,068 Isn't it?. 201 00:19:31,403 --> 00:19:33,871 Alex, when is Cindy gonna be here?. 202 00:19:33,872 --> 00:19:36,636 Yeah, where is the ice queen?. 203 00:19:37,276 --> 00:19:40,611 Don't tell me Miss Taiwan 1993 is not coming. 204 00:19:40,612 --> 00:19:44,104 Cindy will be here on the weekend. Emily has a recital. 205 00:19:44,550 --> 00:19:49,350 She didn't wanna come any earlier because she can't stand any of you. 206 00:19:49,755 --> 00:19:52,348 Sometimes I don't blame her. 207 00:19:52,424 --> 00:19:54,653 Whatever. 208 00:20:25,090 --> 00:20:27,692 Just feel the feng shui here. 209 00:20:27,693 --> 00:20:30,795 Look at the sunlight and the view. 210 00:20:30,796 --> 00:20:33,093 It's very nice. 211 00:20:33,232 --> 00:20:35,299 How did Mom find it?. 212 00:20:35,300 --> 00:20:38,302 Mom?. I'm the real-estate agent. 213 00:20:38,303 --> 00:20:39,870 You sell homes to dead people?. 214 00:20:39,871 --> 00:20:43,741 Shut up. Real estate is real estate, okay?. 215 00:20:43,742 --> 00:20:45,810 When these plots came out on the market... 216 00:20:45,811 --> 00:20:48,312 ...I got Mom a really good price. 217 00:20:48,313 --> 00:20:51,714 Plots?. You bought more than one?. 218 00:20:53,118 --> 00:20:55,253 It's tradition for a son and his wife... 219 00:20:55,254 --> 00:20:57,655 ...to be buried next to his mother and father. 220 00:20:57,656 --> 00:20:59,757 Our father was cremated. 221 00:20:59,758 --> 00:21:02,560 Oh, yeah, his ashes ended up in a vacuum cleaner. 222 00:21:02,561 --> 00:21:04,228 By mistake. I was young. 223 00:21:04,229 --> 00:21:07,632 Well, wait a second. What did you say about a son and his wife?. 224 00:21:07,633 --> 00:21:09,967 Mrs. iao bought three plots. 225 00:21:09,968 --> 00:21:13,801 One for her, one for you, one for your wife. 226 00:21:15,073 --> 00:21:16,474 It's tradition. 227 00:21:16,475 --> 00:21:19,310 - Buy two, get one for free. - I've heard of that tradition. 228 00:21:19,311 --> 00:21:21,335 Would you stop?. 229 00:21:22,281 --> 00:21:24,806 My wife and I will not be buried here. 230 00:21:25,217 --> 00:21:28,845 You like this place so much, bury yourself here. 231 00:21:31,089 --> 00:21:33,648 I knew your father. 232 00:21:34,026 --> 00:21:35,584 A powerful man. 233 00:21:36,962 --> 00:21:38,863 That power is yours. 234 00:21:38,864 --> 00:21:41,165 You just don't realize it. 235 00:21:41,166 --> 00:21:43,601 You have a responsibility here. 236 00:21:43,602 --> 00:21:46,332 Funerals are for respect. 237 00:21:46,338 --> 00:21:49,407 You're grieving over your mother now. 238 00:21:49,408 --> 00:21:53,010 That must be why you are not thinking clearly. 239 00:21:53,011 --> 00:21:54,944 Right?. 240 00:21:57,683 --> 00:22:00,344 - Alex. - No. 241 00:22:12,130 --> 00:22:15,599 It's hard to believe you've devoted your whole life to this family... 242 00:22:15,600 --> 00:22:17,835 ...all those years. 243 00:22:17,836 --> 00:22:20,004 Well, I was married young. 244 00:22:20,005 --> 00:22:21,672 Not my doing. 245 00:22:21,673 --> 00:22:24,241 And I was widowed young. 246 00:22:24,242 --> 00:22:25,443 Not my doing. 247 00:22:25,444 --> 00:22:28,145 But here I am. 248 00:22:28,146 --> 00:22:30,113 What about a family of your own?. 249 00:22:30,248 --> 00:22:32,917 Well, there are all kinds of families, Dede. 250 00:22:32,918 --> 00:22:35,920 I would have thought you realized that. 251 00:22:35,921 --> 00:22:37,922 Anyway, this is my family. 252 00:22:37,923 --> 00:22:40,458 And I would do anything for them. 253 00:22:40,459 --> 00:22:42,654 Anything. 254 00:22:43,395 --> 00:22:48,332 Well, I wish I had a mother like you. 255 00:22:49,134 --> 00:22:52,603 Meimei talks about you so much. 256 00:22:55,273 --> 00:22:56,607 Hey, did you see that?. 257 00:22:56,608 --> 00:22:59,844 - What?. - Bedroom curtain upstairs. 258 00:22:59,845 --> 00:23:04,782 Mrs. Xiao's room. It just moved. 259 00:23:04,783 --> 00:23:06,717 No, it's the wind. 260 00:23:06,718 --> 00:23:08,651 Well. 261 00:23:09,721 --> 00:23:11,950 Do you believe in ghosts?. 262 00:23:12,424 --> 00:23:14,516 No. 263 00:23:14,826 --> 00:23:17,495 Maybe I don't. I don't. Do you?. 264 00:23:17,496 --> 00:23:19,691 Definitely. 265 00:23:22,534 --> 00:23:25,525 I need to smoke a joint. 266 00:23:44,890 --> 00:23:47,221 Ten minutes. 267 00:23:47,659 --> 00:23:50,361 So does that mean we can eat?. 268 00:23:50,362 --> 00:23:54,195 Yes, and I made your favorite: pizza. 269 00:23:56,301 --> 00:23:58,102 - Hi. - Hi. 270 00:23:58,103 --> 00:23:59,303 What's your name?. 271 00:23:59,304 --> 00:24:01,405 Bruce Lee. 272 00:24:01,406 --> 00:24:02,740 Bruce Lee?. 273 00:24:02,741 --> 00:24:05,232 What can I say?. My parents are big fans. 274 00:24:07,846 --> 00:24:09,973 Let's talk. 275 00:24:10,215 --> 00:24:11,807 Come. 276 00:24:36,107 --> 00:24:38,576 - Hello? - Hello, Michael?. 277 00:24:38,577 --> 00:24:41,341 So lesbians, huh?. 278 00:24:41,413 --> 00:24:44,211 - Yes, we are. - Yes. 279 00:24:44,216 --> 00:24:46,617 And you are a monk. 280 00:24:46,618 --> 00:24:49,954 A Kalupa monk. We can have sex. 281 00:24:49,955 --> 00:24:53,117 Hey, Bruce, this is not about sex. 282 00:24:55,060 --> 00:24:56,360 No sex?. 283 00:24:56,361 --> 00:24:57,695 No sex. 284 00:24:57,696 --> 00:24:59,925 But how?. 285 00:25:05,270 --> 00:25:08,739 Right. Of course. 286 00:25:11,743 --> 00:25:13,870 I'm gonna have to think about this. 287 00:25:37,269 --> 00:25:38,569 Meimei?. 288 00:25:38,570 --> 00:25:40,571 Yes. And you are?. 289 00:25:40,572 --> 00:25:42,373 Chow Lin. 290 00:25:42,374 --> 00:25:45,843 Do you have any idea what time it is?. People are still asleep. 291 00:25:45,844 --> 00:25:49,609 In Beijing, they are awake. 292 00:25:51,750 --> 00:25:53,979 I'm a friend of your mother's. 293 00:25:56,621 --> 00:25:58,383 You can get my bag. 294 00:26:05,130 --> 00:26:07,393 Banana. 295 00:26:08,767 --> 00:26:11,167 Potassium. 296 00:26:12,971 --> 00:26:15,632 Good for digestion. 297 00:26:17,409 --> 00:26:21,011 You mother sent me photo of yours... 298 00:26:21,012 --> 00:26:26,050 ...and videos of your awful movies. 299 00:26:26,051 --> 00:26:29,884 I know you all your life. 300 00:26:31,189 --> 00:26:33,384 Chow Lin. 301 00:26:35,961 --> 00:26:39,328 Oh, I am so glad that you have come. 302 00:26:41,800 --> 00:26:44,301 Oh, I'm the person who called you. 303 00:26:44,302 --> 00:26:46,070 Viola. 304 00:26:46,071 --> 00:26:47,972 Oh, Viola. 305 00:26:47,973 --> 00:26:52,843 The Jewish lady who can make the best dumplings in the world. 306 00:26:52,844 --> 00:26:55,079 Oh, is it?. 307 00:26:55,080 --> 00:26:57,548 Would you like something to eat?. 308 00:26:57,549 --> 00:26:58,816 American food. 309 00:26:58,817 --> 00:27:02,486 I want to eat like a pig. 310 00:27:02,487 --> 00:27:06,479 - Come then. - Like a pig. 311 00:27:10,795 --> 00:27:13,354 Outdoing yourself. 312 00:27:56,641 --> 00:27:59,276 No good bagels in Beijing. 313 00:27:59,277 --> 00:28:02,079 No good pancakes, no bacon. 314 00:28:02,080 --> 00:28:05,783 I dream about a Burger King. 315 00:28:05,784 --> 00:28:07,584 Burger King. 316 00:28:07,585 --> 00:28:10,246 Meimei dreams about Burger King too. 317 00:28:13,591 --> 00:28:18,187 Oh, here you go. Drink this. 318 00:28:18,963 --> 00:28:20,987 - Just drink and... - Yeah. 319 00:28:25,870 --> 00:28:27,871 Happy to meet you. 320 00:28:27,872 --> 00:28:30,738 Finally, an honor. 321 00:28:32,477 --> 00:28:39,109 Now I go have a good poo. 322 00:28:41,119 --> 00:28:43,587 - Go, go. - Oh, I'll take you to your room. 323 00:28:45,290 --> 00:28:47,280 Who is that?. 324 00:28:48,226 --> 00:28:50,627 One of China's most celebrated pianists. 325 00:28:50,628 --> 00:28:52,329 - You're kidding. - No. 326 00:28:52,330 --> 00:28:53,964 Mother met him in Rome. 327 00:28:53,965 --> 00:28:55,864 Oh, Rome. 328 00:28:56,201 --> 00:28:57,768 Mom went to Rome?. 329 00:28:57,769 --> 00:28:59,937 Yeah, before you were born, I went with her. 330 00:28:59,938 --> 00:29:01,572 School vacation. 331 00:29:01,573 --> 00:29:03,273 Oh, so you know this guy?. 332 00:29:03,274 --> 00:29:05,042 I was just a child. 333 00:29:05,043 --> 00:29:07,636 Liz, you were never just a child. 334 00:29:08,680 --> 00:29:10,948 You know, I like Chow Lin. 335 00:29:10,949 --> 00:29:15,476 Anyone who has an appetite like that, it's passionate. 336 00:29:16,187 --> 00:29:17,721 I'll get it. 337 00:29:17,722 --> 00:29:19,623 Today's day two, so we need... 338 00:29:19,624 --> 00:29:21,992 No, I thought it was day three. 339 00:29:21,993 --> 00:29:24,828 - Officially, it's day two. - But in truth, it's day three. 340 00:29:24,829 --> 00:29:26,797 It's day two. 341 00:29:26,798 --> 00:29:28,432 Look who's here. 342 00:29:28,433 --> 00:29:30,730 It's Michael. 343 00:29:30,735 --> 00:29:32,035 Hello, Michael. 344 00:29:32,036 --> 00:29:34,003 Hi. 345 00:29:38,009 --> 00:29:39,910 Thanks for coming. 346 00:29:39,911 --> 00:29:42,504 Mother always liked you. 347 00:29:43,581 --> 00:29:45,115 I don't know why. 348 00:29:45,116 --> 00:29:47,311 Me neither. 349 00:29:47,452 --> 00:29:52,322 You know, of all the kids... 350 00:29:52,323 --> 00:29:55,225 ...you're the only one who calls her Mother. 351 00:29:55,226 --> 00:29:57,717 What?. Is that a problem?. 352 00:29:57,996 --> 00:30:01,761 Liz, she's your mom. 353 00:30:04,302 --> 00:30:07,134 Look, I didn't come here for her. 354 00:30:07,405 --> 00:30:09,839 I came for you. 355 00:30:10,108 --> 00:30:12,166 For us. 356 00:30:20,952 --> 00:30:23,613 Mother's gone. 357 00:30:24,823 --> 00:30:27,621 Sammy's gone. 358 00:30:27,692 --> 00:30:30,994 And he's not coming back. 359 00:30:30,995 --> 00:30:33,230 There's no blame. 360 00:30:33,231 --> 00:30:35,562 There's no blame. 361 00:30:35,767 --> 00:30:39,998 Come on. Some love. 362 00:31:01,693 --> 00:31:04,027 Hey, baby. 363 00:31:04,028 --> 00:31:06,330 Aren't you done?. 364 00:31:06,331 --> 00:31:09,233 It's been a while. 365 00:31:09,234 --> 00:31:11,429 Hello?. 366 00:31:17,909 --> 00:31:20,900 Sorry, I... 367 00:31:21,379 --> 00:31:24,448 It's not something I can just, you know, turn on like a faucet. 368 00:31:24,449 --> 00:31:25,649 Isn't it?. 369 00:31:25,650 --> 00:31:31,121 No, I need inspiration or activity. 370 00:31:31,122 --> 00:31:37,652 Well, you just have to imagine like this. 371 00:31:39,898 --> 00:31:43,734 I told you. We're not gonna have sex. 372 00:31:43,735 --> 00:31:49,104 But you'll just have to imagine. 373 00:31:49,374 --> 00:31:52,069 Imagine. 374 00:32:01,686 --> 00:32:03,020 I'm sorry. 375 00:32:03,021 --> 00:32:05,989 I tried. I did. I just... 376 00:32:06,257 --> 00:32:09,393 It's okay. Thanks. 377 00:32:09,394 --> 00:32:11,695 I thought about it a lot last night. 378 00:32:11,696 --> 00:32:15,532 And I figured, I might as well be, you know, useful. 379 00:32:15,533 --> 00:32:18,135 I mean, we're not here to celebrate death. 380 00:32:18,136 --> 00:32:21,002 It's about celebrating life. 381 00:32:21,406 --> 00:32:24,374 Maybe one day, we can all have dim sum together. 382 00:32:25,777 --> 00:32:27,077 Meimei. 383 00:32:27,078 --> 00:32:29,446 Do you know the direct translation of dim sum?. 384 00:32:29,447 --> 00:32:31,081 No. 385 00:32:31,082 --> 00:32:33,072 It means "touch the heart. " 386 00:32:37,121 --> 00:32:40,089 So cute. 387 00:33:05,483 --> 00:33:08,885 Oh, by the way, Liz, Mom liked the Benz SUV. 388 00:33:08,886 --> 00:33:10,120 Really?. 389 00:33:10,121 --> 00:33:12,589 The G500 costs more than a hundred grand. 390 00:33:12,590 --> 00:33:14,791 We're not buying a real car. 391 00:33:14,792 --> 00:33:17,995 Oh, right. Sorry. 392 00:33:17,996 --> 00:33:20,230 I always thought this was an odd custom. 393 00:33:20,231 --> 00:33:23,633 Buy all this stuff, and then you just burn it. 394 00:33:23,634 --> 00:33:25,668 Yeah, but I love the idea of Mom... 395 00:33:25,669 --> 00:33:28,138 taking all this stuff with her into the afterlife. 396 00:33:28,139 --> 00:33:30,340 Okay. Get the G500. 397 00:33:30,341 --> 00:33:31,875 She really liked her Jag. 398 00:33:31,876 --> 00:33:33,710 Why don't we just get that?. 399 00:33:33,711 --> 00:33:36,013 What?. An old car?. 400 00:33:36,014 --> 00:33:39,415 And have people think we're being disrespectful?. 401 00:33:39,450 --> 00:33:40,984 So, what do you think?. 402 00:33:40,985 --> 00:33:44,321 Should we get the Jag convertible or the Benz SUV?. 403 00:33:44,322 --> 00:33:45,522 Buy both. 404 00:33:45,523 --> 00:33:46,957 For your mother, right?. 405 00:33:46,958 --> 00:33:49,459 She'll only die once. Give her the best. 406 00:33:49,460 --> 00:33:51,028 Give her everything. 407 00:33:51,029 --> 00:33:54,564 Give her $ 1 million. I'll pay for shipping and handling. 408 00:33:54,565 --> 00:33:56,396 Shipping and handling?. 409 00:33:56,701 --> 00:33:58,502 We all are from Taipei. 410 00:33:58,503 --> 00:34:00,437 Oh, we need all the stuff, like soon. 411 00:34:00,438 --> 00:34:03,507 Yeah, so you never heard of FedEx?. 412 00:34:03,508 --> 00:34:05,342 We'll take the G500. 413 00:34:05,343 --> 00:34:06,843 And the million dollars. 414 00:34:06,844 --> 00:34:08,945 Oh, and we need a house. 415 00:34:08,946 --> 00:34:11,481 Why don't we just take a picture of Mom's house?. 416 00:34:11,482 --> 00:34:13,383 Oh, no, no, bad luck. 417 00:34:13,384 --> 00:34:15,385 Then no one would want to buy her house. 418 00:34:15,386 --> 00:34:17,621 - Oh, we're not selling it. - We're not?. 419 00:34:17,622 --> 00:34:20,157 - Dad's will. He wanted us to keep it. - Why?. 420 00:34:20,158 --> 00:34:23,093 It's not even the house we grew up in. 421 00:34:23,094 --> 00:34:25,095 Now that house had class. 422 00:34:25,096 --> 00:34:27,431 Who wants to live in the McMansion?. 423 00:34:27,432 --> 00:34:28,632 I don't. 424 00:34:28,633 --> 00:34:32,125 - Dad bought that for Mom out of guilt. - Guilt?. 425 00:34:32,537 --> 00:34:35,505 Okay, so, what else?. Maid, butler?. 426 00:34:35,506 --> 00:34:37,808 No, I refuse to burn people. 427 00:34:37,809 --> 00:34:39,743 Even if they are made out of cardboard. 428 00:34:39,744 --> 00:34:41,945 No maid, no butler. Fine, what else?. 429 00:34:41,946 --> 00:34:45,210 I got my phoenix and dragon. They're on sale. 430 00:34:46,484 --> 00:34:49,111 You break, you buy, huh?. 431 00:34:49,854 --> 00:34:54,124 Hey, guys, these would hardly fit a child, let alone a grown woman. 432 00:34:54,125 --> 00:34:56,460 Well, they made them fit, didn't they?. 433 00:34:56,461 --> 00:34:57,761 Breaking the bones. 434 00:34:57,762 --> 00:35:00,564 Binding the feet so tight that they wouldn't grow. 435 00:35:00,565 --> 00:35:04,159 Disgusting. I'll stick to high heels. 436 00:35:09,841 --> 00:35:13,176 Look, I have a letter. Never mailed. 437 00:35:13,177 --> 00:35:15,612 Written in Mother's handwriting to her mother. 438 00:35:15,613 --> 00:35:17,410 She had a mother?. 439 00:35:18,382 --> 00:35:19,649 Oh, my God. 440 00:35:19,650 --> 00:35:21,551 - What?. - Mother's name. 441 00:35:21,552 --> 00:35:23,644 What?. Linda?. 442 00:35:23,921 --> 00:35:25,689 Her Chinese name. 443 00:35:25,690 --> 00:35:26,890 It wasn't Linda?. 444 00:35:26,891 --> 00:35:28,483 It's Ling Yuen. 445 00:35:29,494 --> 00:35:30,927 That sounds beautiful. 446 00:35:30,928 --> 00:35:32,262 What does it mean?. 447 00:35:32,263 --> 00:35:34,531 Highest cloud in the sky. 448 00:35:34,532 --> 00:35:37,091 It means strength. 449 00:35:37,902 --> 00:35:39,426 Well, read the letter. 450 00:35:39,670 --> 00:35:41,438 Okay. 451 00:35:41,439 --> 00:35:43,740 Oh, my. Look at this. 452 00:35:43,741 --> 00:35:47,277 I gave this to her. Mother's Day. 453 00:35:47,278 --> 00:35:49,713 I made it in the third grade. 454 00:35:49,714 --> 00:35:51,875 I can't believe she kept it. 455 00:35:51,883 --> 00:35:53,083 Or this. 456 00:35:53,084 --> 00:35:55,452 Oh, God. Twilly Bear. 457 00:35:55,453 --> 00:35:57,387 Hello. My name's Twilly Bear. 458 00:35:57,388 --> 00:36:00,857 - Twilly Bear?. - Alex slept with it till the 1 Oth grade. 459 00:36:00,858 --> 00:36:03,792 - Shut up. - Hey. 460 00:36:05,696 --> 00:36:07,925 - I didn't know this. - What?. 461 00:36:09,200 --> 00:36:11,101 We didn't know any of this. 462 00:36:11,102 --> 00:36:13,229 What is it?. 463 00:36:13,738 --> 00:36:17,474 During China's famine, Mother was 16. 464 00:36:17,475 --> 00:36:19,772 In love. 465 00:36:20,077 --> 00:36:22,112 Her mother wanted her to marry someone... 466 00:36:22,113 --> 00:36:25,715 ...in one of those arranged marriages. 467 00:36:25,716 --> 00:36:28,952 So she ran away to Hong Kong. 468 00:36:28,953 --> 00:36:35,559 Her boyfriend was supposed to meet her, but he never made it. 469 00:36:35,560 --> 00:36:39,062 Killed while crossing the Pearl River. 470 00:36:39,063 --> 00:36:41,097 That's so sad. 471 00:36:41,098 --> 00:36:42,499 What else?. 472 00:36:42,500 --> 00:36:48,632 In Hong Kong, she met a gentleman much older than her. 473 00:36:49,407 --> 00:36:53,076 Wasn't sure she loved him, but he was kind. 474 00:36:53,077 --> 00:36:54,277 Dad?. 475 00:36:54,278 --> 00:36:59,583 She grew to love him, and they moved here to Seattle. 476 00:36:59,584 --> 00:37:02,719 And lived happily ever after. 477 00:37:02,720 --> 00:37:04,621 Not quite. 478 00:37:04,622 --> 00:37:09,960 I remember the arguments right after you were born. 479 00:37:09,961 --> 00:37:11,428 Dad had other women. 480 00:37:11,429 --> 00:37:13,089 He did?. 481 00:37:14,999 --> 00:37:18,368 I saw him with a few of them. 482 00:37:18,369 --> 00:37:20,268 A few?. 483 00:37:22,640 --> 00:37:25,005 He said he still loved Mom though. 484 00:37:26,777 --> 00:37:30,013 Well, of course he did. 485 00:37:30,014 --> 00:37:34,484 Is that what you tell yourself after you're done with your mistresses?. 486 00:37:34,485 --> 00:37:36,686 - Meimei. - Oh, come on. 487 00:37:36,687 --> 00:37:39,623 A big, successful doctor like Alex gonna tell us... 488 00:37:39,624 --> 00:37:41,791 ...that he doesn't have mistresses?. 489 00:37:41,792 --> 00:37:43,994 I'm not gonna tell you anything. 490 00:37:43,995 --> 00:37:45,829 Good for you. 491 00:37:45,830 --> 00:37:49,065 Why break the family tradition of secrets and lies?. 492 00:37:49,066 --> 00:37:50,700 Guys, can we cut this out?. 493 00:37:50,701 --> 00:37:55,171 I mean, we have to write a eulogy about a woman we clearly didn't know. 494 00:37:55,172 --> 00:37:57,970 What are we gonna say?. 495 00:41:37,328 --> 00:41:39,420 Here you go. 496 00:42:00,084 --> 00:42:02,711 - I win. - I let you win. 497 00:42:03,254 --> 00:42:05,278 Because you're old. 498 00:42:09,193 --> 00:42:11,160 He's a good boy. 499 00:42:11,161 --> 00:42:12,795 Where's his father?. 500 00:42:12,796 --> 00:42:14,456 Ask Mrs. Xiao. 501 00:42:15,399 --> 00:42:18,101 She made me break up with the only man I've ever loved. 502 00:42:18,102 --> 00:42:19,830 Why?. 503 00:42:21,372 --> 00:42:23,339 He wasn't Chinese, was he?. 504 00:42:27,444 --> 00:42:29,078 We were gonna get married... 505 00:42:29,079 --> 00:42:32,742 ...but when Mom made up her mind about something... 506 00:42:32,883 --> 00:42:35,785 Yes, I know. 507 00:42:35,786 --> 00:42:39,847 What are you doing here, really?. 508 00:42:42,960 --> 00:42:46,095 Viola says your mother wanted me to be here... 509 00:42:46,096 --> 00:42:50,362 ...so I'm here. 510 00:42:51,235 --> 00:42:53,327 You loved her, didn't you?. 511 00:43:12,790 --> 00:43:14,814 Hey. 512 00:43:18,062 --> 00:43:20,730 Can't believe you still jog. 513 00:43:20,731 --> 00:43:23,324 I can't believe you stopped. 514 00:43:26,770 --> 00:43:30,239 We're choosing a tombstone today. 515 00:43:34,044 --> 00:43:36,603 Want me to be there for that?. 516 00:43:39,083 --> 00:43:41,244 No. 517 00:43:42,086 --> 00:43:44,679 You really don't have to. 518 00:43:45,289 --> 00:43:50,726 Look, you asked me to come. I came. 519 00:43:50,794 --> 00:43:53,990 But don't push me away again. 520 00:43:54,264 --> 00:43:59,224 Liz, it's okay to miss Sam. 521 00:44:00,270 --> 00:44:02,897 I miss him every day. 522 00:44:03,841 --> 00:44:08,011 But, Liz, we have to move on with our lives. 523 00:44:08,012 --> 00:44:12,744 Please, let me back in for good. 524 00:44:12,983 --> 00:44:15,610 - Please, Liz. - No. 525 00:44:20,624 --> 00:44:23,693 Okay, so if it were my mother... 526 00:44:23,694 --> 00:44:27,730 ...nothing would be too big or too expensive. 527 00:44:27,731 --> 00:44:30,099 Look at this lovely marble altar. 528 00:44:30,100 --> 00:44:32,669 You could erect a statue to your mother on that. 529 00:44:32,670 --> 00:44:34,694 Stunning. 530 00:44:35,272 --> 00:44:38,775 I have a friend, he's a sculptor. I could get you a deal. 531 00:44:38,776 --> 00:44:41,574 If it were my mother... 532 00:44:43,947 --> 00:44:45,915 ...I would have a portrait done. 533 00:44:45,916 --> 00:44:50,716 Not as she was when she... You know. But how she is in my dreams. 534 00:44:51,288 --> 00:44:53,723 You can mount it on that marble flat there. 535 00:44:53,724 --> 00:44:55,316 Beautiful. 536 00:44:55,559 --> 00:44:57,593 I have a friend. He's a painter. 537 00:44:57,594 --> 00:44:59,857 I can get you a deal. 538 00:45:01,965 --> 00:45:03,866 I like this one. 539 00:45:03,867 --> 00:45:06,369 - Oh, if it were my mother... - She's not your mother. 540 00:45:06,370 --> 00:45:08,738 She's my mother. She's our mother. 541 00:45:08,739 --> 00:45:10,866 Got that?. 542 00:45:14,878 --> 00:45:17,146 Alex, are you all right?. 543 00:45:17,147 --> 00:45:19,205 I'm fine. 544 00:45:20,851 --> 00:45:23,019 I like the simple white marble tombstone. 545 00:45:23,020 --> 00:45:24,987 It's tasteful. 546 00:45:24,988 --> 00:45:27,046 Agreed?. 547 00:45:27,925 --> 00:45:30,593 - Can you get me a deal on that?. - Oh, of course, yes. 548 00:45:30,594 --> 00:45:31,794 Great. 549 00:45:31,795 --> 00:45:34,456 Meimei, show him to the door, please. 550 00:45:45,476 --> 00:45:48,344 Alex, what are you doing?. 551 00:45:48,345 --> 00:45:50,506 Alex. 552 00:46:06,130 --> 00:46:08,359 I'm sorry. 553 00:46:10,534 --> 00:46:15,095 I used to hate Dad for cheating on Mom, for hurting her. 554 00:46:15,873 --> 00:46:19,536 I used to tell myself I'd never become like him. 555 00:46:23,147 --> 00:46:26,449 Here I am, I'm just like him. 556 00:46:26,450 --> 00:46:31,649 While Mom's looking down, she knows I'm a liar... 557 00:46:32,990 --> 00:46:36,857 ...a cheat, and my wife hates me. 558 00:46:37,661 --> 00:46:41,528 - Well, there are reasons why we do... - I can't rationalize. 559 00:46:46,570 --> 00:46:49,300 Where do I go from here?. 560 00:46:51,909 --> 00:46:57,346 Well, do you love Cindy?. 561 00:46:57,347 --> 00:47:00,281 Really love her?. 562 00:47:00,851 --> 00:47:03,251 I used to. 563 00:47:04,021 --> 00:47:06,455 Could you love her again?. 564 00:47:07,124 --> 00:47:09,285 I want to. 565 00:47:10,027 --> 00:47:12,051 Why?. 566 00:47:12,796 --> 00:47:15,025 Why do you want to?. 567 00:47:21,738 --> 00:47:24,607 Look, we have to be at Mrs. Sun's in 20 minutes, okay?. 568 00:47:24,608 --> 00:47:26,405 We really need to go. 569 00:48:10,854 --> 00:48:13,254 I want to sing it at the funeral. 570 00:48:13,323 --> 00:48:15,057 It was your mother's favorite. 571 00:48:15,058 --> 00:48:16,923 It's very nice. 572 00:48:17,861 --> 00:48:21,489 I had no idea that Mother liked that song. 573 00:48:22,065 --> 00:48:25,735 Mrs. Sun, you are mom's favorite dressmaker, so... 574 00:48:25,736 --> 00:48:29,772 Her only dressmaker, wasn't I?. 575 00:48:29,773 --> 00:48:31,540 Of course. 576 00:48:31,541 --> 00:48:35,704 And so we need you to make her last dress. 577 00:48:38,048 --> 00:48:43,485 Back in China, the daughters make the last dress. 578 00:48:45,289 --> 00:48:47,381 Well, this isn't China. 579 00:48:47,391 --> 00:48:49,792 What my sister really means to say is that... 580 00:48:49,793 --> 00:48:51,555 You're the actress. 581 00:48:51,561 --> 00:48:53,961 I think you mean lesbian. 582 00:48:55,065 --> 00:48:57,300 She's the one who slept with a black man. 583 00:48:57,301 --> 00:48:59,535 Elizabeth is the one whose son passed away... 584 00:48:59,536 --> 00:49:01,404 ...and Alex here has a mistress. 585 00:49:01,405 --> 00:49:03,406 We know what our mom thought of us... 586 00:49:03,407 --> 00:49:06,375 ...so can we just be done with the gossip?. 587 00:49:06,643 --> 00:49:09,845 We're giving her exactly what she wanted. 588 00:49:09,846 --> 00:49:13,849 A traditional Chinese funeral and a traditional Chinese dress. 589 00:49:13,850 --> 00:49:16,511 So are you in or are you out?. 590 00:49:17,321 --> 00:49:18,988 I like you. 591 00:49:18,989 --> 00:49:22,058 Your mother was proud of you. 592 00:49:22,059 --> 00:49:24,584 All of you. 593 00:49:25,395 --> 00:49:27,363 She wouldn't shut up. 594 00:49:27,364 --> 00:49:30,900 " My son, the doctor. My daughter, the journalist. 595 00:49:30,901 --> 00:49:35,895 My daughter in real estate and the movie star. " 596 00:49:39,276 --> 00:49:45,147 I will make the dress, and it will be beautiful. 597 00:49:45,148 --> 00:49:47,775 Just like your mother. 598 00:49:58,795 --> 00:50:01,030 I am so confused. 599 00:50:01,031 --> 00:50:04,633 I thought I knew what to say in this eulogy, but now... 600 00:50:04,634 --> 00:50:07,436 How could she have been so proud of us to everyone else?. 601 00:50:07,437 --> 00:50:11,207 While with us, she was so... 602 00:50:11,208 --> 00:50:12,775 Bitchy?. 603 00:50:12,776 --> 00:50:17,847 Selfish, cruel, rude, manipulative?. 604 00:50:17,848 --> 00:50:20,543 Dictatorial?. 605 00:50:20,884 --> 00:50:23,284 Saving face. 606 00:51:50,040 --> 00:51:52,474 Do you believe in destiny?. 607 00:51:53,176 --> 00:51:55,337 Yes. 608 00:51:55,378 --> 00:51:57,175 You?. 609 00:51:57,447 --> 00:51:59,505 Yes. 610 00:52:01,518 --> 00:52:05,510 I believe each of us is connected. 611 00:52:08,358 --> 00:52:11,486 Without even realizing it. 612 00:52:18,568 --> 00:52:24,301 Just like the ingredients in a wonderful meal. 613 00:52:25,642 --> 00:52:28,702 I believe you're strong. 614 00:52:29,179 --> 00:52:33,115 I believe I am in love. 615 00:52:36,520 --> 00:52:39,121 Liz, dinner's ready. 616 00:52:39,122 --> 00:52:41,385 I'll be right down. 617 00:52:42,359 --> 00:52:44,520 Michael. 618 00:52:45,562 --> 00:52:47,893 I don't blame you. 619 00:52:48,131 --> 00:52:52,192 And I'm sorry I can't always express myself. 620 00:52:52,435 --> 00:52:55,904 It's just gonna take a little more time, okay?. 621 00:52:56,239 --> 00:52:58,036 Okay. 622 00:52:58,675 --> 00:53:00,836 I'm not going anywhere. 623 00:53:04,114 --> 00:53:05,740 Meimei. 624 00:53:06,049 --> 00:53:07,573 Hey. 625 00:53:07,584 --> 00:53:13,488 I just want you to know that, well, I could always try again. 626 00:53:13,557 --> 00:53:16,192 You know, if you want me to. 627 00:53:16,193 --> 00:53:17,693 Yes. 628 00:53:17,694 --> 00:53:20,424 Okay. That'd be nice. 629 00:53:20,564 --> 00:53:22,691 Thank you. 630 00:53:22,732 --> 00:53:24,722 Well, great. 631 00:53:24,935 --> 00:53:26,168 See you tomorrow?. 632 00:53:26,169 --> 00:53:27,897 See you tomorrow. 633 00:53:28,171 --> 00:53:31,071 - Good night. - Good night. 634 00:53:34,945 --> 00:53:37,379 Good night, Bruce. 635 00:53:38,381 --> 00:53:40,246 Good night. 636 00:53:51,428 --> 00:53:52,995 Is it hot?. 637 00:53:52,996 --> 00:53:55,555 No, it's great. 638 00:53:59,502 --> 00:54:02,104 Oh, my God. Good. 639 00:54:02,105 --> 00:54:05,574 Have we just corrupted a monk?. 640 00:54:11,114 --> 00:54:14,550 Your mother made me the executrix of her estate. 641 00:54:14,551 --> 00:54:16,619 Why you?. You're not even family. 642 00:54:16,620 --> 00:54:18,220 Alex, Viola is family. 643 00:54:18,221 --> 00:54:19,555 Yeah, but I'm the son. 644 00:54:19,556 --> 00:54:20,789 Isn't that sexist?. 645 00:54:20,790 --> 00:54:21,991 Okay, fine. Forget it. 646 00:54:21,992 --> 00:54:23,759 I'm sorry, Viola. Please continue. 647 00:54:23,760 --> 00:54:26,195 Okay, I just thought this would be a good time... 648 00:54:26,196 --> 00:54:29,732 ...to go over the contents of her will, seeing that you all seem... 649 00:54:29,733 --> 00:54:31,834 ...to be in a pretty good place. 650 00:54:31,835 --> 00:54:35,168 - Yeah, sure, so, what do we get?. - Nothing. 651 00:54:35,538 --> 00:54:37,273 - Nothing?. - Nothing?. 652 00:54:37,274 --> 00:54:38,941 - Nothing?. - Nothing?. 653 00:54:38,942 --> 00:54:41,110 Well, the house is yours. It's all of yours. 654 00:54:41,111 --> 00:54:42,711 Comes from your father's will. 655 00:54:42,712 --> 00:54:44,947 What about life insurance?. Other investments. 656 00:54:44,948 --> 00:54:46,515 The gold, the jewelry?. 657 00:54:46,516 --> 00:54:48,884 She felt thanks to your father's inheritance... 658 00:54:48,885 --> 00:54:51,053 ...you were all in pretty good shape. 659 00:54:51,054 --> 00:54:53,784 I don't believe this. 660 00:54:53,990 --> 00:54:58,694 So she gave everything to the Pacific Coast Community Center. 661 00:54:58,695 --> 00:55:03,029 - The what?. - The Pacific Coast Community Center. 662 00:55:03,133 --> 00:55:05,401 - Your mother believed in charity. - She did?. 663 00:55:05,402 --> 00:55:07,736 Don't you tell me what my mother believed. 664 00:55:07,737 --> 00:55:09,805 Well, I think it's a pretty good idea. 665 00:55:09,806 --> 00:55:13,509 You know what?. Mom's will doesn't really surprise me. 666 00:55:13,510 --> 00:55:15,978 I mean, when it came to us, she was so cheap. 667 00:55:15,979 --> 00:55:17,913 And she was cheap with you too, Viola. 668 00:55:17,914 --> 00:55:20,516 I don't know why you stuck with her all these years. 669 00:55:20,517 --> 00:55:22,718 Because I loved her. 670 00:55:22,719 --> 00:55:25,119 Because I loved all of you. 671 00:55:26,122 --> 00:55:28,249 I still do. 672 00:55:33,330 --> 00:55:36,165 I have to go to the airport to pick up Cindy and Emily. 673 00:55:36,166 --> 00:55:37,633 You want me to go with you?. 674 00:55:37,634 --> 00:55:39,362 No, it's okay. 675 00:56:08,698 --> 00:56:10,699 You took that picture. 676 00:56:10,700 --> 00:56:12,468 Remember?. 677 00:56:12,469 --> 00:56:14,436 Near the Vatican. 678 00:56:23,346 --> 00:56:27,077 I hope you didn't come to shame the memory of my mother. 679 00:56:27,417 --> 00:56:30,385 No. Never. 680 00:56:39,062 --> 00:56:42,497 I never told anyone after all this time. 681 00:56:42,832 --> 00:56:45,834 I think that's why she criticized me the least. 682 00:56:45,835 --> 00:56:48,326 Because she was afraid of me. 683 00:56:48,505 --> 00:56:51,667 No. Grateful. 684 00:56:51,708 --> 00:56:53,800 You keep the secret. 685 00:57:18,101 --> 00:57:19,966 Cindy. 686 00:57:27,310 --> 00:57:29,573 I'm sorry. 687 00:57:30,547 --> 00:57:33,174 I wanna start over. 688 00:57:50,967 --> 00:57:53,094 We're here. 689 00:57:56,573 --> 00:57:58,740 Cindy. 690 00:57:58,741 --> 00:58:00,809 Emily. 691 00:58:00,810 --> 00:58:02,711 Welcome. 692 00:58:02,712 --> 00:58:04,146 Hello, Victoria. 693 00:58:04,147 --> 00:58:07,639 It's nice to see that some things remain constant. 694 00:58:09,018 --> 00:58:10,586 Bitch. 695 00:58:10,587 --> 00:58:12,054 What did she just say?. 696 00:58:12,055 --> 00:58:14,614 She said, "Bitch. " 697 00:58:44,254 --> 00:58:46,517 I'm pregnant. 698 00:58:49,859 --> 00:58:52,623 Liz. 699 00:59:30,967 --> 00:59:32,801 Here, Mom. 700 00:59:32,802 --> 00:59:36,100 You take care of Sammy for us. 701 00:59:43,046 --> 00:59:45,013 Go ahead. 702 01:00:18,915 --> 01:00:20,939 Mom... 703 01:00:23,086 --> 01:00:25,520 ...meet Dede. 704 01:00:26,589 --> 01:00:29,956 I think you'd really like her. 705 01:02:05,555 --> 01:02:07,522 Dede. 706 01:02:10,660 --> 01:02:12,752 Here you go. 707 01:02:13,996 --> 01:02:15,530 That's a lot. 708 01:02:15,531 --> 01:02:17,931 Well, it's been a while. 709 01:02:18,501 --> 01:02:20,662 Thank you. 710 01:02:22,338 --> 01:02:24,100 I've had an epiphany. 711 01:02:24,373 --> 01:02:26,465 I'm not a monk. 712 01:02:26,976 --> 01:02:28,602 But you are a monk. 713 01:02:28,811 --> 01:02:31,379 Inside, I'm not. 714 01:02:31,380 --> 01:02:33,215 Not anymore. 715 01:02:33,216 --> 01:02:34,983 That's my epiphany. 716 01:02:34,984 --> 01:02:37,042 Shoot. 717 01:02:38,888 --> 01:02:40,655 Am I going to hell for this?. 718 01:02:40,656 --> 01:02:41,990 No. 719 01:02:41,991 --> 01:02:45,858 Dede, I wanna thank you. And Meimei, really. 720 01:02:45,928 --> 01:02:49,158 I became a monk for all the wrong reasons. 721 01:02:49,332 --> 01:02:53,201 To please my parents, to please everyone else but me. 722 01:02:53,202 --> 01:02:56,102 And that's not a good way to live. 723 01:02:56,205 --> 01:02:58,940 The honesty that you and Meimei have... 724 01:02:58,941 --> 01:03:03,178 ...and the way you just live your lives openly without apology... 725 01:03:03,179 --> 01:03:05,909 ...I find it inspirational. 726 01:03:06,149 --> 01:03:09,451 I wanna get married. I wanna have lots of children. 727 01:03:09,452 --> 01:03:13,410 And I hope that one of them will be yours and Meimei's. 728 01:03:14,957 --> 01:03:17,891 I'm not gonna be coming back tomorrow. 729 01:03:19,095 --> 01:03:23,759 So please tell Meimei that I said goodbye. 730 01:03:23,833 --> 01:03:25,527 You can tell her yourself. 731 01:03:26,035 --> 01:03:27,968 No. 732 01:03:28,604 --> 01:03:31,038 It's better this way. 733 01:03:41,851 --> 01:03:43,648 I'm pregnant. 734 01:03:46,088 --> 01:03:50,251 When you came to Hong Kong a month or so ago, that one night. 735 01:03:54,797 --> 01:03:57,060 Aren't you gonna say something?. 736 01:03:59,869 --> 01:04:02,166 Thank you, God. 737 01:04:22,592 --> 01:04:24,125 Hey, Meimei. 738 01:04:24,126 --> 01:04:26,228 I've been looking all over for you. 739 01:04:26,229 --> 01:04:28,094 Look. 740 01:04:28,264 --> 01:04:31,324 The monk has delivered. 741 01:04:35,504 --> 01:04:37,062 - Stop. - Are you okay?. 742 01:04:37,540 --> 01:04:39,107 I found this on my pillow. 743 01:04:39,108 --> 01:04:41,303 From whom?. 744 01:04:43,312 --> 01:04:45,780 My mother. 745 01:04:45,948 --> 01:04:47,972 What did she say?. 746 01:04:49,719 --> 01:04:51,887 Meimei, are you okay?. 747 01:04:51,888 --> 01:04:53,980 No. 748 01:04:56,025 --> 01:04:59,327 No, I'm not okay. 749 01:04:59,328 --> 01:05:01,029 Meimei, what is it?. 750 01:05:01,030 --> 01:05:02,656 Meimei. 751 01:05:06,135 --> 01:05:08,466 What is going on?. 752 01:05:09,438 --> 01:05:15,277 This letter, which says time to tell the truth. 753 01:05:15,278 --> 01:05:16,945 The truth?. 754 01:05:16,946 --> 01:05:20,882 I am Meimei's... 755 01:05:20,917 --> 01:05:22,850 ...father. 756 01:05:25,721 --> 01:05:28,348 Holy cow. 757 01:05:28,824 --> 01:05:30,882 Meimei. 758 01:05:32,528 --> 01:05:34,655 Meimei. 759 01:05:35,264 --> 01:05:40,360 Your mother and I loved each other. 760 01:05:40,603 --> 01:05:43,772 We keep it a secret for you. 761 01:05:43,773 --> 01:05:45,640 Shut up! 762 01:05:45,641 --> 01:05:47,309 Shut up! 763 01:05:47,310 --> 01:05:49,644 Don't you talk to me. 764 01:05:49,645 --> 01:05:51,976 Don't you dare. 765 01:05:52,148 --> 01:05:56,184 My whole life has been a lie. 766 01:05:56,185 --> 01:05:57,709 Meimei! 767 01:05:58,487 --> 01:06:00,545 Meimei! 768 01:06:15,871 --> 01:06:18,601 Mom! 769 01:06:34,056 --> 01:06:36,992 Why didn't you tell me?. 770 01:06:36,993 --> 01:06:39,627 Why didn't you say something?. 771 01:06:39,628 --> 01:06:41,618 Why?. 772 01:06:41,964 --> 01:06:44,898 Why?. 773 01:06:47,636 --> 01:06:50,127 Meimei, it's okay. 774 01:06:54,010 --> 01:06:56,205 It's all right. 775 01:07:05,054 --> 01:07:08,250 Why did you never tell me?. 776 01:07:09,025 --> 01:07:12,460 Mother made me promise not to. 777 01:07:14,597 --> 01:07:17,190 Everyone else knew?. 778 01:07:17,333 --> 01:07:19,733 Even Dad?. 779 01:07:20,603 --> 01:07:23,264 Dad suspected. 780 01:07:24,707 --> 01:07:27,709 Everyone suspected. 781 01:07:27,710 --> 01:07:30,508 No one knew for sure. 782 01:07:32,982 --> 01:07:36,383 Things aren't so black and white. 783 01:07:36,886 --> 01:07:41,189 No, they certainly aren't. 784 01:07:41,190 --> 01:07:44,682 Saving face. 785 01:07:45,528 --> 01:07:48,656 Saving face. 786 01:07:49,832 --> 01:07:52,667 I hate that expression. 787 01:07:52,668 --> 01:07:54,692 Yeah. 788 01:07:54,804 --> 01:07:57,101 Me too. 789 01:07:57,206 --> 01:07:59,936 So Chinese. 790 01:08:01,043 --> 01:08:04,444 We are Chinese. 791 01:08:06,482 --> 01:08:10,247 Yes. We are. 792 01:09:11,947 --> 01:09:14,349 - Good morning. - Good morning. 793 01:09:14,350 --> 01:09:17,485 I'm gonna make myself a pot of coffee. Would you like a cup?. 794 01:09:17,486 --> 01:09:20,355 - I don't drink coffee, thank you. - Okay. 795 01:09:20,356 --> 01:09:23,691 So today is day five, right?. 796 01:09:23,692 --> 01:09:25,760 Where guests come to pay their respects?. 797 01:09:25,761 --> 01:09:26,961 Yes. 798 01:09:26,962 --> 01:09:28,897 I'm sure you have everything organized. 799 01:09:28,898 --> 01:09:32,367 Well, I think organization is about respect. 800 01:09:32,668 --> 01:09:35,737 Well, I'm really good at preparing food. 801 01:09:35,738 --> 01:09:37,906 - Maybe I can help. - Well, it's already done. 802 01:09:37,907 --> 01:09:39,941 Victoria knows a nice seafood restaurant. 803 01:09:39,942 --> 01:09:41,142 They have a buffet. 804 01:09:41,143 --> 01:09:43,578 Oh, my God. A buffet?. 805 01:09:43,579 --> 01:09:47,982 That's so tacky, but again, it is Victoria. 806 01:09:47,983 --> 01:09:51,975 You know, you're not Miss Taiwan anymore. 807 01:09:52,054 --> 01:09:53,254 I'm sorry, excuse me?. 808 01:09:53,255 --> 01:09:56,815 You heard what I said. I said you're not Miss Taiwan anymore. 809 01:09:56,825 --> 01:09:59,160 I think you have forgotten your place. 810 01:09:59,161 --> 01:10:02,230 My place is with this family. 811 01:10:02,231 --> 01:10:04,722 Where is yours?. 812 01:10:05,401 --> 01:10:08,503 Cindy, your mother-in-law wanted one thing. 813 01:10:08,504 --> 01:10:11,439 That this family would come together finally and for real... 814 01:10:11,440 --> 01:10:13,975 ...and I'd like to believe that that can happen. 815 01:10:13,976 --> 01:10:15,943 Wouldn't you?. 816 01:10:22,017 --> 01:10:25,884 You know, it's difficult to forgive. 817 01:10:26,055 --> 01:10:27,555 I know. 818 01:10:27,556 --> 01:10:32,360 I think forgiveness is just about the hardest thing in the world to do. 819 01:10:32,361 --> 01:10:34,262 And I hope you find a way to do it... 820 01:10:34,263 --> 01:10:38,631 ...or you're gonna be one unhappy person. 821 01:11:24,079 --> 01:11:26,206 So?. 822 01:11:26,749 --> 01:11:28,841 So?. 823 01:11:29,285 --> 01:11:31,810 Starting over?. 824 01:11:31,887 --> 01:11:34,082 Clean slate. 825 01:11:48,671 --> 01:11:55,542 Meimei, meeting you completes my life. 826 01:11:57,379 --> 01:12:00,746 And completely changes mine. 827 01:12:11,293 --> 01:12:15,251 I'm not gonna make any more cheap chop-chop movies. 828 01:12:15,731 --> 01:12:18,232 What are you going to do?. 829 01:12:18,233 --> 01:12:20,668 I have no idea. 830 01:12:20,669 --> 01:12:23,899 So does that frighten you?. 831 01:12:24,106 --> 01:12:26,164 No. 832 01:12:27,776 --> 01:12:30,511 I don't know what to call you. 833 01:12:30,512 --> 01:12:33,674 My name is Chow Lin. 834 01:12:52,901 --> 01:12:54,669 Only one chanting monk?. 835 01:12:54,670 --> 01:12:57,161 So cheap. 836 01:13:02,511 --> 01:13:04,946 May I have your autograph?. 837 01:13:04,947 --> 01:13:06,647 - Do you like kung fu movies?. - Yes. 838 01:13:06,648 --> 01:13:10,948 Every Friday, your mother came to me to buy fresh flowers. 839 01:13:11,220 --> 01:13:13,521 One of my best customers. 840 01:13:13,522 --> 01:13:15,990 Cheap but loyal. 841 01:13:17,459 --> 01:13:19,093 These flowers. 842 01:13:19,094 --> 01:13:20,995 Not from my place. 843 01:13:20,996 --> 01:13:23,064 Oh, I'm sorry. 844 01:13:23,065 --> 01:13:25,897 My sister Victoria got them from down the street. 845 01:13:27,669 --> 01:13:30,838 - Obviously. - Would you like something to eat?. 846 01:13:30,839 --> 01:13:32,897 Please. 847 01:13:33,709 --> 01:13:36,074 Come. Sit down. 848 01:13:36,111 --> 01:13:41,115 Your mama paid my husband's medical bills for two years. 849 01:13:41,116 --> 01:13:42,984 Well, how did you know her?. 850 01:13:42,985 --> 01:13:47,387 Your mother volunteered at the Pacific Coast Community Center. 851 01:13:47,823 --> 01:13:49,290 You didn't know that?. 852 01:13:49,291 --> 01:13:52,692 Well, our mama's full of surprises. 853 01:13:59,568 --> 01:14:04,061 You know, over a hundred people have come by since this morning. 854 01:14:04,406 --> 01:14:07,500 See, Grandma wasn't that bad. 855 01:14:08,076 --> 01:14:11,012 No. I guess not. 856 01:14:11,013 --> 01:14:13,781 Hey, what are they gonna say about us?. 857 01:14:13,782 --> 01:14:16,050 When we're dead and gone?. 858 01:14:16,051 --> 01:14:18,041 They'll say we tried. 859 01:14:18,153 --> 01:14:20,450 We tried. 860 01:14:23,926 --> 01:14:27,195 - So I heard people talking shit. - Talking shit?. 861 01:14:27,196 --> 01:14:29,397 You know, about you, Grandma and Meimei. 862 01:14:29,398 --> 01:14:33,034 Kids hear everything. Because we're shorter, we're under the radar screen. 863 01:14:33,035 --> 01:14:35,837 Oh, of course. 864 01:14:35,838 --> 01:14:38,704 So related, you and me?. 865 01:14:38,874 --> 01:14:40,942 In a way. Is that a problem?. 866 01:14:40,943 --> 01:14:43,343 No, no, it's cool. 867 01:14:43,745 --> 01:14:45,346 Want to learn something cool?. 868 01:14:45,347 --> 01:14:48,416 - What is it?. - I teach you tai chi. 869 01:14:48,417 --> 01:14:49,951 Wow, like in the movies?. 870 01:14:49,952 --> 01:14:52,086 - Alexander. - Thank you, Mrs. Sun. 871 01:14:52,087 --> 01:14:54,953 - Victoria. - Thank you. 872 01:14:55,390 --> 01:14:57,517 Meimei. 873 01:14:57,526 --> 01:14:59,293 Elizabeth. 874 01:14:59,294 --> 01:15:01,896 Tradition. It's important. 875 01:15:01,897 --> 01:15:03,931 Yes, it is. 876 01:15:03,932 --> 01:15:06,093 Thank you. 877 01:15:06,401 --> 01:15:08,459 Goodbye. 878 01:15:11,874 --> 01:15:14,408 - Thank you, ladies. - Take care. 879 01:15:14,409 --> 01:15:16,672 Goodbye. 880 01:15:24,620 --> 01:15:26,954 Speaking of tradition... 881 01:15:26,955 --> 01:15:32,093 ...I seem to recall a long-standing challenge... 882 01:15:32,094 --> 01:15:36,931 ...between Alex and I, and Victoria and Elizabeth. 883 01:15:36,932 --> 01:15:39,267 - Shall we?. - Oh, no, no, no. 884 01:15:39,268 --> 01:15:41,035 Elizabeth shouldn't play. 885 01:15:41,036 --> 01:15:42,730 Why not?. 886 01:15:44,006 --> 01:15:45,540 Ask her. 887 01:15:45,541 --> 01:15:47,201 Why not?. 888 01:15:48,143 --> 01:15:50,133 Are you...?. 889 01:15:54,483 --> 01:15:57,051 - Oh, God. - Oh, my God. 890 01:15:57,052 --> 01:15:59,554 God had something to do with it. 891 01:15:59,555 --> 01:16:02,523 And Michael made a slight contribution. 892 01:16:13,168 --> 01:16:15,169 I've sent the last monk home. 893 01:16:15,170 --> 01:16:18,264 It is now time for serenity and prayer. 894 01:16:18,874 --> 01:16:23,778 According to the old ways at the end of the period of mourning... 895 01:16:23,779 --> 01:16:28,783 ...the soul of the departed comes back one more time. 896 01:16:28,784 --> 01:16:32,253 I would like you to kneel at the shrine... 897 01:16:34,923 --> 01:16:37,857 ...and close your eyes... 898 01:16:38,360 --> 01:16:43,126 ...and see her in your soul. 899 01:16:56,111 --> 01:16:58,476 Now, can you see her?. 900 01:17:15,364 --> 01:17:19,766 I'm here with you, my children. 901 01:17:33,315 --> 01:17:36,841 Even when she's dead she freaks me out. 902 01:17:37,219 --> 01:17:40,620 But am I dead?. 903 01:17:42,357 --> 01:17:44,688 Alexander. 904 01:17:44,760 --> 01:17:47,455 You look so serious. 905 01:17:49,131 --> 01:17:52,600 Well, I need to sit. 906 01:18:02,878 --> 01:18:05,573 Please have a seat. 907 01:18:12,721 --> 01:18:14,255 Okay. 908 01:18:14,256 --> 01:18:17,491 You are all angry. 909 01:18:17,492 --> 01:18:22,430 But look, I am dying. 910 01:18:22,431 --> 01:18:24,523 Liver cancer. 911 01:18:25,767 --> 01:18:29,566 The doctors gave me six months. 912 01:18:32,941 --> 01:18:37,445 Do you think I wanted to die like Mrs. Chiu?. 913 01:18:37,446 --> 01:18:42,747 Never a kind word from her children until she was gone. 914 01:18:44,119 --> 01:18:47,179 Do you think I wanted to die like your father?. 915 01:18:47,656 --> 01:18:50,181 Full of regret. 916 01:18:50,559 --> 01:18:52,390 No. 917 01:18:53,195 --> 01:18:57,392 I wanted to bring my family together. 918 01:18:57,599 --> 01:18:59,266 I know. 919 01:18:59,267 --> 01:19:01,902 I haven't been the best of mothers... 920 01:19:01,903 --> 01:19:07,568 ...but I hope I can manage to fix it. 921 01:19:07,676 --> 01:19:10,211 I want to tell you how I feel... 922 01:19:10,212 --> 01:19:15,046 ...and I want to hear how you really feel. 923 01:19:18,987 --> 01:19:23,991 What you've done here is an example of just how manipulative... 924 01:19:23,992 --> 01:19:28,394 ...selfish, arrogant, and controlling you are. 925 01:19:29,765 --> 01:19:32,833 - It's a beginning. - I'm not finished. 926 01:19:32,834 --> 01:19:38,038 And I don't believe for one moment that you wanna hear how we feel. 927 01:19:38,039 --> 01:19:40,174 - Alex, we were just trying... - Don't. 928 01:19:40,175 --> 01:19:41,709 You cannot rationalize this. 929 01:19:41,710 --> 01:19:44,512 But dying is never rational. 930 01:19:44,513 --> 01:19:46,981 Nor is your monstrous ego. 931 01:19:47,449 --> 01:19:49,883 But I did this for you, Alex. 932 01:19:50,652 --> 01:19:57,148 Mother, you're so full of yourself that you actually believe that. 933 01:20:02,931 --> 01:20:05,296 Anyone else?. 934 01:20:05,333 --> 01:20:07,234 Congratulations. 935 01:20:07,235 --> 01:20:10,171 Very dramatic. Very Chinese. 936 01:20:10,172 --> 01:20:11,539 See?. She understands. 937 01:20:11,540 --> 01:20:13,073 No, I don't. 938 01:20:13,074 --> 01:20:15,676 You've put us through a great deal of pain. 939 01:20:15,677 --> 01:20:17,878 You too, Viola. 940 01:20:17,879 --> 01:20:19,680 Are you angry?. 941 01:20:19,681 --> 01:20:24,015 I am exceedingly pissed off. 942 01:20:27,022 --> 01:20:33,360 Well, these are certainly not the reactions I was expecting. 943 01:20:33,361 --> 01:20:34,962 What did you expect?. 944 01:20:34,963 --> 01:20:38,499 That we'd all fall at your feet and be grateful you're still alive?. 945 01:20:38,500 --> 01:20:41,560 - Well, yes. - Don't hold your breath. 946 01:20:42,270 --> 01:20:46,140 Perhaps I should have just remained dead. 947 01:20:46,141 --> 01:20:48,370 That would have been a wise decision. 948 01:20:59,054 --> 01:21:01,722 Do you know how much I love your daughter?. 949 01:21:01,723 --> 01:21:05,726 Yes, I think I do, and it warms my heart. 950 01:21:05,727 --> 01:21:08,929 Welcome to our crazy family. 951 01:21:08,930 --> 01:21:10,231 Thank you. 952 01:21:10,232 --> 01:21:13,567 But I want to know how you did it. 953 01:21:13,568 --> 01:21:15,069 Yeah. 954 01:21:15,070 --> 01:21:18,539 Well, it's a big house. 955 01:21:18,573 --> 01:21:24,511 There's a hidden room off my bedroom with its own bathroom. 956 01:21:24,512 --> 01:21:28,916 And Viola kept me informed of all the comings and goings... 957 01:21:28,917 --> 01:21:33,979 ...and of course, I did overhear a thing or two myself. 958 01:21:34,456 --> 01:21:37,186 - Brilliant. - Yes. 959 01:21:38,994 --> 01:21:41,495 Loose ends, you know. 960 01:21:41,496 --> 01:21:45,295 And here's my favorite loose end. 961 01:21:47,068 --> 01:21:49,970 I should be angry with you. 962 01:21:49,971 --> 01:21:52,371 Maybe a little bit. 963 01:21:54,042 --> 01:21:57,044 What do we do about Alexander?. 964 01:21:57,045 --> 01:21:59,672 I will talk to him. 965 01:22:01,816 --> 01:22:04,318 - Oh, excuse me. - I hope you're not upset with me. 966 01:22:04,319 --> 01:22:08,016 It's a call from the set. I have to answer it. 967 01:22:08,757 --> 01:22:10,357 Hello?. 968 01:22:10,358 --> 01:22:12,092 Hi, is this Dede Chan? 969 01:22:12,093 --> 01:22:14,128 Yes, it is. 970 01:22:14,129 --> 01:22:15,396 Who's calling?. 971 01:22:15,397 --> 01:22:17,398 I'm your brother's assistant director. 972 01:22:17,399 --> 01:22:19,533 Your brother has just had a heart attack... 973 01:22:19,534 --> 01:22:21,869 ...on the set here in Los Angeles. 974 01:22:21,870 --> 01:22:25,498 They've taken him to Peterson Memorial Hospital. 975 01:22:25,674 --> 01:22:30,201 He's stable, and they're keeping him under observation for now. 976 01:22:32,847 --> 01:22:35,315 Alexander. 977 01:22:36,618 --> 01:22:39,052 Leave me alone, Mom. 978 01:22:39,387 --> 01:22:41,787 Alexander... 979 01:22:42,757 --> 01:22:45,521 You are not your father. 980 01:22:46,061 --> 01:22:49,663 You have made mistakes, and I have too. 981 01:22:49,664 --> 01:22:54,100 But my children are not mistakes. 982 01:22:54,269 --> 01:22:58,671 They are the best thing that ever happened to me. 983 01:23:01,176 --> 01:23:04,845 You have been angry for a long time. 984 01:23:04,846 --> 01:23:10,351 The past few days, I've felt that anger lift. 985 01:23:10,352 --> 01:23:15,186 Wouldn't it be nice if you could always live like that?. 986 01:23:20,228 --> 01:23:23,026 Our handsome boy. 987 01:23:23,198 --> 01:23:29,762 I did this hoping for happiness for all of us. 988 01:23:30,538 --> 01:23:33,240 If it is selfish for a mother... 989 01:23:33,241 --> 01:23:38,645 ...who wants to love her children one last time... 990 01:23:38,646 --> 01:23:42,741 ...then I am that selfish woman. 991 01:23:51,192 --> 01:23:53,717 I love you too, Mom. 992 01:24:13,815 --> 01:24:16,383 Are you sure you don't want me to come with you?. 993 01:24:16,384 --> 01:24:19,352 I'm packed. I'm ready. 994 01:24:21,890 --> 01:24:24,620 No, Meimei, it's okay. 995 01:24:24,926 --> 01:24:26,627 Dede, I mean it. 996 01:24:26,628 --> 01:24:28,262 Meimei, stay here. 997 01:24:28,263 --> 01:24:30,898 How many times do I have to tell you this?. 998 01:24:30,899 --> 01:24:33,700 Baby, your brother had a heart attack. 999 01:24:33,701 --> 01:24:35,302 That's serious. 1000 01:24:35,303 --> 01:24:37,237 I wanna be there for you. 1001 01:24:37,238 --> 01:24:40,908 I understand, but your family needs you. 1002 01:24:40,909 --> 01:24:42,433 You stay here. 1003 01:24:43,611 --> 01:24:46,046 I love you, Dede Chan. 1004 01:24:46,047 --> 01:24:48,572 I love you too. 1005 01:24:49,651 --> 01:24:51,812 Come on, go. 1006 01:24:52,987 --> 01:24:55,114 You go on, baby. 1007 01:25:01,396 --> 01:25:07,201 Guys, I don't wanna make excuses for what your mother and Viola did. 1008 01:25:07,202 --> 01:25:08,669 I mean, look at us. 1009 01:25:08,670 --> 01:25:12,139 We're here, we're talking. 1010 01:25:12,340 --> 01:25:15,943 And, you know, I think I do recall... 1011 01:25:15,944 --> 01:25:18,503 ...hearing some laughter. 1012 01:25:20,849 --> 01:25:26,013 I mean, isn't it better that all this happened before we die?. 1013 01:25:28,890 --> 01:25:31,654 Before she dies?. 1014 01:25:32,994 --> 01:25:37,364 I think that Dede did the right thing going there, don't you?. 1015 01:25:37,365 --> 01:25:41,101 I mean, you'd do the same thing for your brother. I know you would. 1016 01:25:41,102 --> 01:25:43,504 And he would do the same for you. 1017 01:25:43,505 --> 01:25:45,029 No question. 1018 01:25:57,719 --> 01:26:01,120 Does he always eat like this?. 1019 01:26:02,056 --> 01:26:03,784 Always. 1020 01:26:05,059 --> 01:26:07,026 Mom?. 1021 01:26:07,795 --> 01:26:10,525 I don't want you to die. 1022 01:26:10,698 --> 01:26:12,790 Neither do I. 1023 01:26:21,042 --> 01:26:24,170 Thank you, Victoria. 1024 01:26:25,980 --> 01:26:28,175 And Meimei... 1025 01:26:29,551 --> 01:26:31,643 ...I'm sorry about Dede's brother. 1026 01:26:32,220 --> 01:26:34,347 Thank you. 1027 01:26:34,455 --> 01:26:37,858 Oh, I almost forgot. We're gonna have to cancel the banquet tomorrow. 1028 01:26:37,859 --> 01:26:40,224 No, we should still do it. 1029 01:26:40,328 --> 01:26:43,456 As a celebration of life. 1030 01:26:43,565 --> 01:26:45,089 Your life. 1031 01:26:53,007 --> 01:26:55,776 Michael, I've always liked you. 1032 01:26:55,777 --> 01:26:58,011 I don't know why. 1033 01:26:58,012 --> 01:27:00,776 Probably just to make Alex jealous. 1034 01:27:08,823 --> 01:27:13,594 You know, Mom, I don't think any of us ever really knew you until this week. 1035 01:27:13,595 --> 01:27:16,620 Yeah, you are smarter than you look. 1036 01:27:18,099 --> 01:27:20,533 Thank you. 1037 01:27:21,769 --> 01:27:24,430 As for you... 1038 01:27:24,672 --> 01:27:27,140 ...bravo. 1039 01:27:32,480 --> 01:27:35,540 - Bravo. - Bravo. 1040 01:28:28,836 --> 01:28:32,271 I want to say something to Mrs. Xiao. 1041 01:28:33,975 --> 01:28:38,502 That dress is worth a lot more than what I charged your kids. 1042 01:28:39,113 --> 01:28:44,414 And I think what you did this week for your children was great. 1043 01:28:45,286 --> 01:28:48,355 Now, do you think my kids would fall for it?. 1044 01:28:48,356 --> 01:28:49,690 Oh, no. 1045 01:28:49,691 --> 01:28:52,716 Your children are too smart. 1046 01:28:57,165 --> 01:28:59,360 That's funny. 1047 01:29:08,843 --> 01:29:11,778 Thank you, everyone, for coming. 1048 01:29:11,779 --> 01:29:15,415 For those who came to the house and gave money... 1049 01:29:15,416 --> 01:29:19,152 ...Victoria will make sure that you get it all back. 1050 01:29:19,153 --> 01:29:21,951 But I will keep the dress. 1051 01:29:24,692 --> 01:29:27,594 This is such a beautiful sendoff. 1052 01:29:27,595 --> 01:29:32,532 You have made this old lady very, very happy. 1053 01:29:36,971 --> 01:29:42,170 Facing death changes everything. 1054 01:29:45,113 --> 01:29:50,915 So dragon lady no more. 1055 01:29:51,719 --> 01:29:54,517 Life is so fragile. 1056 01:29:55,423 --> 01:29:58,959 We must cherish each day... 1057 01:29:58,960 --> 01:30:04,056 ...and all those who have a place in our hearts. 1058 01:30:04,465 --> 01:30:08,958 Next week, I will leave for China... 1059 01:30:08,970 --> 01:30:12,303 ...with Mr. Chow Lin. 1060 01:30:13,975 --> 01:30:18,434 I will die where I was born. 1061 01:30:19,447 --> 01:30:22,313 But before I do... 1062 01:30:22,683 --> 01:30:28,052 ...I hope to take care of some unfinished business. 1063 01:30:28,589 --> 01:30:33,025 If there's any advice I can give, it is: 1064 01:30:33,127 --> 01:30:36,721 Don't leave things till it's too late. 1065 01:30:47,542 --> 01:30:52,172 Well, let's dance. 1066 01:31:15,336 --> 01:31:17,204 Mr. Wang, can I ask you something?. 1067 01:31:17,205 --> 01:31:18,872 Of course. 1068 01:31:18,873 --> 01:31:22,706 You're licensed by the state... 1069 01:31:23,277 --> 01:31:25,779 ...so how could you do this with my mom?. 1070 01:31:25,780 --> 01:31:28,874 Victoria, we're Chinese.