1 00:00:00,710 --> 00:00:03,990 Previously on Cherish the Dead. Well, Miss Luma told me that you guys are 2 00:00:03,990 --> 00:00:05,510 looking at different counselors today. 3 00:00:05,830 --> 00:00:06,870 Smart. Smart. 4 00:00:07,070 --> 00:00:10,470 Smart. What made you think we had to come here? What's going on with you? 5 00:00:10,470 --> 00:00:11,470 wrong with me? 6 00:00:11,630 --> 00:00:12,630 Don't you mean us? 7 00:00:12,850 --> 00:00:13,850 I'm sad. 8 00:00:14,150 --> 00:00:18,730 Point it. You know, I have finally found my thing, my purpose. I just want the 9 00:00:18,730 --> 00:00:22,450 way that it used to be. I miss you, gently. I want you to want this for me. 10 00:00:22,730 --> 00:00:26,430 I don't want to answer to you. If I want to be out, I'm going to be out. 11 00:00:26,730 --> 00:00:28,250 It wasn't supposed to go like this. 12 00:00:52,540 --> 00:00:55,220 I miss your calling. 13 00:00:56,420 --> 00:00:59,960 Thanks. But just because I'm good at it don't mean it's my calling. 14 00:01:00,500 --> 00:01:02,680 I'm just doing this because I love Miss Luma. 15 00:01:05,019 --> 00:01:06,660 And her birthday should be perfect. 16 00:01:07,000 --> 00:01:08,000 Everything looks perfect. 17 00:01:10,990 --> 00:01:12,770 Are you putting sugar in Miss Luna's tea? 18 00:01:13,390 --> 00:01:14,390 Yeah, a little. 19 00:01:14,590 --> 00:01:16,870 We sweeten her tea with honey and oranges. 20 00:01:20,250 --> 00:01:21,270 Respectfully, gently. 21 00:01:21,770 --> 00:01:24,930 Things have changed since you last worked here. It's been three years. Her 22 00:01:24,930 --> 00:01:25,970 palate is different. 23 00:01:26,190 --> 00:01:28,210 She doesn't like her tea with oranges. 24 00:01:28,570 --> 00:01:31,230 She does like her tea with sugar. 25 00:01:31,570 --> 00:01:33,110 Just no more sugar, okay? 26 00:01:37,890 --> 00:01:39,310 How would you like it? 27 00:01:39,600 --> 00:01:43,620 If I came to your job in San Francisco and said, the podcast you're producing 28 00:01:43,620 --> 00:01:44,620 a terrible idea. 29 00:01:44,920 --> 00:01:46,400 Well, you know better than that. 30 00:01:46,720 --> 00:01:49,460 Exactly. Because that's your job. 31 00:01:50,720 --> 00:01:52,160 Like her. 32 00:01:52,380 --> 00:01:56,480 I'm about to go get Ms. Luma's dress and stockings, but I'll see you next. Can 33 00:01:56,480 --> 00:01:57,480 you not feel about? 34 00:01:57,680 --> 00:01:59,400 He's feeding our queen poison. 35 00:01:59,740 --> 00:02:02,300 She likes it sweet. She gets it sweet. 36 00:02:03,520 --> 00:02:05,460 Candles placed, lanterns hung. 37 00:02:05,840 --> 00:02:06,840 Billy hungry. 38 00:02:08,160 --> 00:02:10,220 That's completely normal when you're eating for two. 39 00:02:10,460 --> 00:02:13,120 Yeah, she was eating like that when she was only eating for one. 40 00:02:13,880 --> 00:02:14,880 Baby talk. 41 00:02:14,900 --> 00:02:15,980 That is my cue. 42 00:02:16,220 --> 00:02:17,520 I'm going to go grab my bag and then I'm out. 43 00:02:19,300 --> 00:02:21,480 I'm eating my feelings away because you're leaving me. 44 00:02:22,300 --> 00:02:26,000 Moving to the bay. Who's going to go to Lamar's with me? I wanted a natural 45 00:02:26,000 --> 00:02:28,540 birth, but now I'm going to have to take drugs. 46 00:02:29,060 --> 00:02:30,900 Which means my baby's going to have to take drugs. 47 00:02:31,720 --> 00:02:32,720 All because of you. 48 00:02:33,360 --> 00:02:34,380 Only you are. 49 00:02:34,660 --> 00:02:35,860 You need to do two things. 50 00:02:36,300 --> 00:02:37,530 What? Get a doula. 51 00:02:38,070 --> 00:02:41,250 And go upstairs and check and see if Miss Luma needs help with her hair. 52 00:02:41,250 --> 00:02:42,890 gonna be rolling up in here before we know it. 53 00:02:43,910 --> 00:02:45,170 Anything for Miss Luma. 54 00:02:45,590 --> 00:02:46,590 But you? 55 00:02:48,350 --> 00:02:49,350 You're in trouble. 56 00:03:05,520 --> 00:03:06,940 people up to me. 57 00:03:45,330 --> 00:03:46,890 Hello? Wait, what? 58 00:03:47,290 --> 00:03:48,290 Miss Luma. 59 00:03:48,750 --> 00:03:52,070 Miss Luma, somebody told me you were upstairs. 60 00:03:53,530 --> 00:03:55,350 I didn't hear you either. 61 00:03:55,890 --> 00:04:02,750 I rose with the sun, I went to the flower market, and then I went to the 62 00:04:02,750 --> 00:04:05,310 to have my birthday brows done. 63 00:04:05,870 --> 00:04:07,230 Happy birthday. 64 00:04:07,710 --> 00:04:11,270 I love you. I love you too, my dear. 65 00:04:12,330 --> 00:04:13,830 Thanks for being here. 66 00:04:14,310 --> 00:04:15,770 Not just for today. 67 00:04:16,790 --> 00:04:17,790 Always. 68 00:04:20,089 --> 00:04:21,089 Listen. 69 00:04:21,950 --> 00:04:24,230 I need a private moment with you. 70 00:04:24,490 --> 00:04:25,490 Okay. 71 00:04:30,150 --> 00:04:35,430 Gently. I have to tell you that today is my birthday. 72 00:04:36,190 --> 00:04:41,190 And so, I'll do what I want, how I want. 73 00:04:41,920 --> 00:04:43,940 And whenever I want. 74 00:04:44,500 --> 00:04:47,580 All right, Miss Luma. It is your day. 75 00:04:47,820 --> 00:04:51,300 You can do anything you want. You know that. You mean you're okay with that? 76 00:04:51,580 --> 00:04:52,980 Yes. All right. 77 00:04:54,220 --> 00:04:59,860 Well, I miss him, Evan. 78 00:05:00,660 --> 00:05:06,820 I just feel that he should be here. 79 00:05:08,840 --> 00:05:10,740 And so I invited Evan. 80 00:05:14,280 --> 00:05:15,280 I see. 81 00:05:17,180 --> 00:05:18,180 Okay. 82 00:05:19,740 --> 00:05:24,320 Look, I don't know if you know this, but he's actually in Tokyo, Ken Fulton. No, 83 00:05:24,320 --> 00:05:25,320 he's not. 84 00:05:25,480 --> 00:05:27,640 He's in L .A. He arrived last night. 85 00:05:28,960 --> 00:05:30,040 He wanted to come. 86 00:05:33,180 --> 00:05:35,540 How do you know all of this? 87 00:05:36,700 --> 00:05:43,060 Just because the two of you are divorced, it does not mean that he 88 00:05:44,620 --> 00:05:46,580 Being in my heart. 89 00:05:50,060 --> 00:05:51,060 I know. 90 00:05:51,820 --> 00:05:54,280 I never stopped praying for him. 91 00:05:56,060 --> 00:05:58,620 I never stopped thinking about him. 92 00:06:00,020 --> 00:06:03,940 And I don't want to feel guilty about that. 93 00:06:04,320 --> 00:06:06,400 No, you don't have to. 94 00:06:07,400 --> 00:06:08,400 It's okay. 95 00:06:08,620 --> 00:06:09,620 You sure? 96 00:06:13,040 --> 00:06:14,040 Thank you. 97 00:06:14,120 --> 00:06:15,200 Here's Miss Loma. 98 00:06:18,260 --> 00:06:19,260 Good girl. 99 00:06:22,660 --> 00:06:23,660 Ready, Miss Loma? 100 00:06:57,260 --> 00:06:58,260 to Miss Luna's birthday. 101 00:07:00,960 --> 00:07:01,960 Hey, 102 00:07:04,900 --> 00:07:07,140 I like your costume. 103 00:07:07,460 --> 00:07:08,460 Thank you. 104 00:07:09,860 --> 00:07:13,100 You look 105 00:07:13,100 --> 00:07:19,040 great. I love this. Thank you. 106 00:07:23,680 --> 00:07:25,560 Yes, Miss Jacqueline. 107 00:07:29,130 --> 00:07:30,910 You know she can't get enough of mine. 108 00:07:31,210 --> 00:07:32,210 Sugar and spice. 109 00:07:32,510 --> 00:07:33,510 Ancient sensation. 110 00:07:34,010 --> 00:07:38,290 Butter, rum, coconut cake. Okay, is that one cake name or that's all three of 111 00:07:38,290 --> 00:07:42,610 them? Girl, you know it's just one. Stop playing and give yourself a break. I'm 112 00:07:42,610 --> 00:07:43,610 going to save mine for dessert. 113 00:07:43,730 --> 00:07:45,190 This is for Ben and Danita. Okay. 114 00:07:56,810 --> 00:07:59,130 It looks great. Oh, my. I got everything online. 115 00:07:59,470 --> 00:08:01,110 Oh, it looks like Peppa. That's what's coming. 116 00:08:01,450 --> 00:08:03,510 Oh, I like those tracks. 117 00:08:03,810 --> 00:08:04,649 Mm -hmm. 118 00:08:04,650 --> 00:08:07,070 Shoe. Oh, Kim Todd writing. 119 00:08:07,890 --> 00:08:09,130 Can't tell you nothing. 120 00:08:10,210 --> 00:08:11,210 Wait a minute. 121 00:08:11,390 --> 00:08:12,590 Y 'all color coordinated? 122 00:08:13,170 --> 00:08:15,270 Oh, yeah. Yeah, my baby hooked us up. 123 00:08:16,070 --> 00:08:17,170 Oh, you know what? 124 00:08:17,590 --> 00:08:19,070 We need a picture. Oh, yeah. 125 00:08:19,630 --> 00:08:21,790 This ain't going to happen every day. 126 00:08:22,010 --> 00:08:23,370 Let me take one. 127 00:08:23,610 --> 00:08:24,730 Hold on. 128 00:08:25,810 --> 00:08:26,810 All right. 129 00:08:27,350 --> 00:08:29,110 One, two, three. 130 00:08:30,350 --> 00:08:31,610 Can I get another one? 131 00:08:32,890 --> 00:08:34,770 Can I get one more? 132 00:08:35,370 --> 00:08:36,950 Just looking at those lips. 133 00:08:37,330 --> 00:08:38,570 Whoa, whoa, whoa. Okay. 134 00:08:40,830 --> 00:08:42,809 Hey, Ms. Lemon dress fit? 135 00:08:43,010 --> 00:08:46,270 Nope. She spoke Biden her time in order to make a proper entrance. 136 00:08:46,710 --> 00:08:47,710 Unquote. Wow. 137 00:08:47,950 --> 00:08:48,950 That's my girl. 138 00:09:40,750 --> 00:09:41,890 Nick is looking for you. 139 00:09:42,790 --> 00:09:43,930 Here I come. 140 00:09:49,050 --> 00:09:50,050 Wonderful. 141 00:09:55,710 --> 00:10:02,310 So, Evan, there he is, fresh from 142 00:10:02,310 --> 00:10:03,310 Tokyo. 143 00:10:03,670 --> 00:10:05,750 Oh, man. 144 00:10:06,490 --> 00:10:08,250 Oh, so good to see you, man. 145 00:10:08,730 --> 00:10:10,870 You said you were visiting, bro. I got so hyped. 146 00:10:11,070 --> 00:10:12,070 Thank you, man. 147 00:10:12,210 --> 00:10:15,210 It's so nice to be welcomed back with all this love. 148 00:10:15,470 --> 00:10:16,470 And respect. 149 00:10:16,510 --> 00:10:18,150 Hey, thank you, bro. I appreciate that. 150 00:10:20,130 --> 00:10:21,130 That's your gift. 151 00:10:21,830 --> 00:10:25,350 Oh, man, you didn't have to do that. Come on. Definitely had to, man. 152 00:10:25,750 --> 00:10:27,430 I owe you everything. 153 00:10:27,770 --> 00:10:29,610 No, man, look. I didn't give you a job. 154 00:10:30,050 --> 00:10:31,050 You earned it. 155 00:10:32,030 --> 00:10:33,030 Started with you. 156 00:10:34,310 --> 00:10:35,310 You and Jen. 157 00:10:36,280 --> 00:10:38,140 You know I used to have a crush on her back in the day, right? 158 00:10:38,400 --> 00:10:39,400 Yeah, I figured. 159 00:10:40,440 --> 00:10:46,180 It's crazy. Crushing on her, it made me brush my teeth and keep my one pair of 160 00:10:46,180 --> 00:10:47,180 jeans fresh. 161 00:10:48,620 --> 00:10:49,620 Get that knowledge. 162 00:10:50,820 --> 00:10:53,900 Because I always wanted to have something intellectual to talk to her 163 00:10:53,900 --> 00:10:54,799 know? 164 00:10:54,800 --> 00:11:01,420 Yeah. Well, the respect is mutual, all right? I mean, she thinks the world of 165 00:11:01,420 --> 00:11:03,380 you. She's proud of you. I'm proud of you. 166 00:11:03,900 --> 00:11:06,120 Hey, man, you're doing big things, bro. Big things. 167 00:11:07,640 --> 00:11:09,400 Oh, always, brother. 168 00:11:09,600 --> 00:11:10,600 I'm so proud of you. 169 00:11:16,200 --> 00:11:19,480 One moment. 170 00:11:22,320 --> 00:11:25,600 Excuse me, Miss Divine. 171 00:11:25,900 --> 00:11:31,880 My name is Ben, and I don't mean to interrupt, but I am... 172 00:11:32,620 --> 00:11:34,000 A big, big fan. 173 00:11:34,340 --> 00:11:35,640 I loved you. 174 00:11:36,100 --> 00:11:37,520 Oh, did you? 175 00:11:38,100 --> 00:11:40,580 And what part did I play in that film? 176 00:11:41,360 --> 00:11:42,980 Are you testing me right now? 177 00:11:44,020 --> 00:11:45,020 Pigfoot Mary? 178 00:11:45,620 --> 00:11:52,120 That was my girl. Oh, you are really a fan. Oh, I really am. Well, my pleasure 179 00:11:52,120 --> 00:11:56,480 to meet you. My pleasure. Listen, is there anything I can get you while you 180 00:11:56,480 --> 00:12:00,300 wait? I guess Miss Luma just needs a little bit more time. 181 00:12:00,650 --> 00:12:06,290 more time my eyes she's waiting to make an appearance and i'm not mad at her 182 00:12:06,290 --> 00:12:13,170 it's a lost art luma always was great at the dramatic entrance what other 183 00:12:13,170 --> 00:12:18,430 kind of interest is there to make right absolutely oh absolutely i gotta say you 184 00:12:18,430 --> 00:12:21,370 look fantastic oh you let go 185 00:12:37,680 --> 00:12:38,680 Oh, yeah. 186 00:13:28,270 --> 00:13:29,270 Oh, 187 00:13:29,490 --> 00:13:30,610 and you look even better. 188 00:13:30,830 --> 00:13:32,670 Well, of course, today is my day. 189 00:14:00,240 --> 00:14:03,280 There will never be a celebration without the two of you. 190 00:14:05,280 --> 00:14:06,280 Together. 191 00:14:30,250 --> 00:14:32,370 I'm here. That's right. And vertical. 192 00:14:32,610 --> 00:14:33,610 And so are you. 193 00:14:34,870 --> 00:14:38,030 How are you, honey? Oh, I'm better now. 194 00:14:38,390 --> 00:14:40,510 You only tell us this before electricity. 195 00:14:41,670 --> 00:14:43,310 I don't tell anybody that. 196 00:14:47,990 --> 00:14:48,470 And 197 00:14:48,470 --> 00:14:56,310 we've 198 00:14:56,310 --> 00:14:57,310 been down the road. 199 00:14:57,690 --> 00:14:58,690 More than once. 200 00:15:00,010 --> 00:15:04,610 Serious time. Long and winding road. Wait a minute. When your brother left 201 00:15:04,770 --> 00:15:06,130 he said... 1998. 202 00:15:06,450 --> 00:15:09,430 I left Quincy in charge of you. 203 00:15:09,970 --> 00:15:12,970 I said, no, you mean the opposite. 204 00:15:13,910 --> 00:15:16,070 I'll be in charge of Quincy. 205 00:15:16,310 --> 00:15:21,270 But you have daughters that take good care of you. Oh, God, I love them. I 206 00:15:21,690 --> 00:15:22,710 I know that. 207 00:15:22,970 --> 00:15:24,790 Six girls. That's why I don't have no hair. 208 00:15:51,120 --> 00:15:52,120 Hi, I'm Evan. 209 00:15:54,040 --> 00:15:55,820 How you been? 210 00:15:56,740 --> 00:15:57,740 I'm good. 211 00:15:58,900 --> 00:16:00,420 Oh, you look fantastic. 212 00:16:01,100 --> 00:16:02,280 Thank you. You too. 213 00:16:02,740 --> 00:16:04,280 I can't believe it. 214 00:16:04,640 --> 00:16:05,640 Hey. 215 00:16:06,440 --> 00:16:10,280 Oh, may I? 216 00:16:11,600 --> 00:16:12,600 Congratulations. 217 00:16:13,860 --> 00:16:15,760 That is a lucky kid. 218 00:16:16,300 --> 00:16:17,580 I'm the lucky one. 219 00:16:25,070 --> 00:16:29,090 I know I'm hormonal, but I'm so mad at y 'all. 220 00:16:29,810 --> 00:16:32,670 You two were supposed to grow old together and inspire the rest of us. 221 00:16:33,730 --> 00:16:37,110 This baby may not have come the old -fashioned way, but I still believe in 222 00:16:37,510 --> 00:16:38,810 You two gave me that hope. 223 00:16:39,070 --> 00:16:42,910 Hey, it just wasn't in the cards. It's okay. It's okay. She's been super 224 00:16:42,910 --> 00:16:43,950 emotional all day. 225 00:16:45,730 --> 00:16:48,530 Never mind. I'm okay. 226 00:16:49,830 --> 00:16:51,490 No, thanks. I already ate. 227 00:16:52,010 --> 00:16:53,010 It's for Miss Luma. 228 00:16:54,320 --> 00:16:56,660 I was literally just coming in to make her a plate. 229 00:16:57,920 --> 00:17:02,300 Yeah. Or Philip gently thinks nobody can take care of Miss Luna the way that she 230 00:17:02,300 --> 00:17:06,420 can. Well, she is really good at it. That part. 231 00:17:06,740 --> 00:17:09,700 Oh, you probably got nanny cans set up so you can watch her from up north. 232 00:17:09,980 --> 00:17:11,599 Can I do that? 233 00:17:12,079 --> 00:17:13,079 Is it legal? 234 00:17:13,500 --> 00:17:14,500 Tiddly, you crazy. 235 00:17:15,440 --> 00:17:17,400 So, up north? 236 00:17:17,940 --> 00:17:18,940 Yeah. 237 00:17:19,060 --> 00:17:20,060 I'm moving. 238 00:17:21,060 --> 00:17:23,400 I'm running a new podcast division for... 239 00:17:23,660 --> 00:17:24,920 Everyday citizen media. 240 00:17:28,140 --> 00:17:29,140 That's big. 241 00:17:29,520 --> 00:17:30,520 Yeah. 242 00:17:30,760 --> 00:17:32,820 I know I'm going to be working in San Francisco. 243 00:17:33,340 --> 00:17:34,680 Got a loft in Oakland. 244 00:17:35,100 --> 00:17:36,100 Damn. 245 00:17:36,560 --> 00:17:40,540 Congratulations. I mean, you're moving to San Fran. 246 00:17:41,240 --> 00:17:42,520 It's kind of crazy, right? 247 00:17:43,680 --> 00:17:46,800 Supposedly I'm working on the 44th floor, which is going to take some 248 00:17:46,800 --> 00:17:49,900 used to, but I'm already nervous about it. 249 00:17:51,879 --> 00:17:53,580 Focus on the views, not the height. 250 00:17:54,280 --> 00:17:55,280 That's like a plane. 251 00:17:57,640 --> 00:17:58,700 I'll take that advice. 252 00:17:59,560 --> 00:18:00,560 Enjoy the views. 253 00:18:01,380 --> 00:18:02,380 Thank you for that. 254 00:18:06,600 --> 00:18:08,920 So how are you out there? Oh. How's Tokyo? 255 00:18:09,240 --> 00:18:10,240 Hey, Jet. 256 00:18:10,440 --> 00:18:13,560 Just so you know, this is the hottest party I've ever been to. 257 00:18:14,120 --> 00:18:18,520 Right? I am so dead right now. I mean, freaking Quincy Jones is breathing the 258 00:18:18,520 --> 00:18:19,760 same air as us. 259 00:18:20,330 --> 00:18:23,870 Color purple, the whiz, we are the world. The mere fact that he worked with 260 00:18:23,870 --> 00:18:24,870 Allen. 261 00:18:24,890 --> 00:18:26,570 Who's Duke Allen? 262 00:18:30,650 --> 00:18:33,030 Blasphemy. You about to get canceled, Duke. 263 00:18:33,570 --> 00:18:34,309 See ya. 264 00:18:34,310 --> 00:18:35,390 I'm gonna go cut that cake. 265 00:18:35,850 --> 00:18:38,050 Ooh, you know I love Loretta Devine. 266 00:18:38,490 --> 00:18:40,950 Gently, can I take a picture with her? No, you can't. 267 00:18:41,390 --> 00:18:43,530 She's here to celebrate her friend, no paparazzi. 268 00:18:44,230 --> 00:18:45,230 Okay. 269 00:18:47,880 --> 00:18:49,860 Come with me to take a picture with Loretta Devine. No. 270 00:18:50,920 --> 00:18:52,260 You ain't kicking me out. 271 00:18:53,040 --> 00:18:54,040 Ash. 272 00:19:01,680 --> 00:19:02,680 What's up? 273 00:19:03,380 --> 00:19:04,380 What's up? 274 00:19:07,980 --> 00:19:09,680 What? You know what. 275 00:19:12,140 --> 00:19:13,140 It's done. 276 00:19:16,260 --> 00:19:18,280 Well, I gotta say, it is nice seeing him. 277 00:19:18,560 --> 00:19:19,560 Hell yeah. 278 00:19:20,640 --> 00:19:23,680 I know I'm hormonal, but that brother came back looking fine as hell. 279 00:19:28,520 --> 00:19:29,980 You been thinking about him? 280 00:19:30,200 --> 00:19:31,200 No! 281 00:19:31,520 --> 00:19:32,660 You need to stop. 282 00:19:32,880 --> 00:19:34,120 Get your little butt out of here. 283 00:19:34,700 --> 00:19:36,360 Come on. You might think about that. 284 00:19:47,980 --> 00:19:48,980 Hey, Ben. 285 00:19:49,900 --> 00:19:50,900 How you been? 286 00:20:01,080 --> 00:20:02,500 Left without saying goodbye. 287 00:20:07,500 --> 00:20:08,500 Yeah, I know. 288 00:20:11,480 --> 00:20:12,540 We just... 289 00:20:19,920 --> 00:20:20,920 I didn't know what to say. 290 00:20:25,020 --> 00:20:26,340 Never thought you'd leave her. 291 00:20:29,500 --> 00:20:30,500 I know. 292 00:20:32,420 --> 00:20:33,900 But we couldn't make it work. 293 00:20:35,040 --> 00:20:36,040 God, we tried. 294 00:20:36,360 --> 00:20:38,700 It was amicable, but we really did try to... No. 295 00:20:42,160 --> 00:20:43,160 Don't do that. 296 00:20:46,120 --> 00:20:47,820 There ain't nothing you can say to me. 297 00:21:07,970 --> 00:21:13,650 Thank you all for coming out to celebrate one of the best people to walk 298 00:21:13,650 --> 00:21:14,650 planet. 299 00:21:16,170 --> 00:21:19,610 God got it right for Ms. Luma, didn't he, y 'all? 300 00:21:20,050 --> 00:21:21,050 Yes. 301 00:21:21,690 --> 00:21:26,270 Now, I know many of you would love to give a speech because Ms. Luma has 302 00:21:26,270 --> 00:21:30,310 every single person in this room in some way. You're her friend, her neighbor, 303 00:21:30,570 --> 00:21:31,570 student. 304 00:21:32,280 --> 00:21:33,280 Her stylist. 305 00:21:33,760 --> 00:21:35,760 Or she's fussed at you about something. 306 00:21:36,380 --> 00:21:40,440 I could go on about Miss Luma all night, but we ain't got all night. 307 00:21:40,700 --> 00:21:45,420 So I asked one of her longest and dearest friends to say it for all of us. 308 00:21:45,800 --> 00:21:47,020 Mr. Quincy Jones. 309 00:21:49,180 --> 00:21:52,560 I knew you were going to ask, so I wrote some words here. 310 00:21:53,320 --> 00:21:56,600 To my beloved and cherished Luma Langston. 311 00:21:57,180 --> 00:21:58,180 Where to begin? 312 00:21:59,020 --> 00:22:01,160 She's a great friend, one of the best. 313 00:22:01,680 --> 00:22:05,980 One I've shared countless memories with. One memory in particular stands out. 314 00:22:06,260 --> 00:22:08,760 I took Luma out on a date once. 315 00:22:08,960 --> 00:22:09,959 Just once? 316 00:22:09,960 --> 00:22:10,960 Only once. 317 00:22:12,540 --> 00:22:16,260 Had to be about mid -60s or something. 318 00:22:16,540 --> 00:22:21,260 We went to a cool, cool spot to listen to my good friend Mary McKeever. 319 00:22:21,460 --> 00:22:23,080 And that's the Kayla, her husband. 320 00:22:23,320 --> 00:22:26,940 So we get in and I get her a cup of tea because I know she don't drink. 321 00:22:28,820 --> 00:22:30,880 I know a lot of people, so I... 322 00:22:31,240 --> 00:22:34,720 I get to talking and mingling and hanging and everything else. 323 00:22:35,100 --> 00:22:36,700 And I get back and she's gone. 324 00:22:37,240 --> 00:22:40,380 I try to teach people how to treat you. 325 00:22:41,420 --> 00:22:47,540 Anyway, I go to the after party at Bella Fonte's house. 326 00:22:47,900 --> 00:22:49,100 Who's front and center? 327 00:22:49,320 --> 00:22:50,320 Loma. 328 00:22:51,040 --> 00:22:52,080 You got it, baby. 329 00:22:52,660 --> 00:22:54,200 I will never forget it. 330 00:22:54,580 --> 00:22:56,040 Stop me in my tracks. 331 00:22:56,400 --> 00:22:58,960 The way the light hit her beautiful face. 332 00:22:59,800 --> 00:23:00,800 Right where it lives. 333 00:23:01,400 --> 00:23:02,580 She was radiant. 334 00:23:03,800 --> 00:23:05,960 Holding court with Miriam. 335 00:23:06,180 --> 00:23:09,340 A house full of folks. Told my buddy Dizzy. 336 00:23:09,740 --> 00:23:13,180 I said, Miriam McKeever was the empress of South African song. 337 00:23:13,480 --> 00:23:17,420 And Luma Langston was the queen of the night. As you can see. 338 00:23:19,480 --> 00:23:20,620 I'm never wrong. 339 00:23:21,860 --> 00:23:24,000 Well, you weren't wrong that night. 340 00:23:30,380 --> 00:23:31,720 Here comes the cake, y 'all. 341 00:23:34,860 --> 00:23:37,060 Happy birthday. 342 00:23:38,260 --> 00:23:39,260 Well, 343 00:23:41,280 --> 00:23:42,280 I will. 344 00:23:42,680 --> 00:23:46,260 Happy birthday to you. 345 00:23:47,660 --> 00:23:48,820 Happy birthday. 346 00:24:16,340 --> 00:24:20,520 I made it! 347 00:24:25,540 --> 00:24:32,060 You outdid yourself tonight, kid. 348 00:24:32,700 --> 00:24:35,180 Fabulous job, as always. Thank you, Barbara. 349 00:24:35,480 --> 00:24:38,000 Take care of my Miss Luma for me. Always. 350 00:24:39,050 --> 00:24:40,290 Best of luck in San Fran. 351 00:24:41,530 --> 00:24:42,529 Night, Evan. 352 00:24:42,530 --> 00:24:43,530 Night. 353 00:24:44,990 --> 00:24:46,530 Thank you, little tipsy. You bet. 354 00:24:46,870 --> 00:24:48,590 See, now that's how you throw a party. 355 00:24:48,870 --> 00:24:51,330 Thank you for having us, Chitlin. It was fantastic. 356 00:24:51,750 --> 00:24:52,750 Thank you, sir. Really was. 357 00:24:52,870 --> 00:24:55,510 Thank you, sir. Yes. As well. Nice meeting you, Mr. Rivers. 358 00:24:56,270 --> 00:25:00,330 Thank you so much for being here, Mr. Vine. I know I meant a lot to Ms. Vina. 359 00:25:01,360 --> 00:25:04,440 It's an honor to celebrate such an incredible woman. 360 00:25:04,740 --> 00:25:08,080 Girl, I laughed, I cried, and I ate good, too. 361 00:25:09,100 --> 00:25:11,980 Look at the two of you. You're just cute as can be. 362 00:25:13,460 --> 00:25:15,460 You make a beautiful couple. 363 00:25:17,760 --> 00:25:21,020 Well, it was a pleasure meeting you, Mr. Vaughn. Oh, yes. 364 00:25:21,220 --> 00:25:22,900 The pleasure's all yours. 365 00:25:24,560 --> 00:25:25,560 Okay, 366 00:25:26,920 --> 00:25:27,920 that was unbelievable. 367 00:25:28,810 --> 00:25:30,610 How many times have you watched Wayne Dex hell? 368 00:25:30,910 --> 00:25:32,790 Her and Gregory Hines? Fifty times. 369 00:25:33,070 --> 00:25:34,070 Probably more than that. 370 00:25:34,930 --> 00:25:37,610 Would you like to have dinner tonight? 371 00:25:38,150 --> 00:25:42,310 It's just some leftovers, collard greens and cornbread, some candied yams, 372 00:25:42,410 --> 00:25:46,390 potato salad, fried chicken, peach cobbler, and a few slices of ham. 373 00:25:46,790 --> 00:25:47,589 Yum, yum. 374 00:25:47,590 --> 00:25:52,110 I would love to, but I got too much stuff to do around here. Maybe some 375 00:25:52,110 --> 00:25:57,190 time. Oh, well, to be honest, I have no business eating any of that as big as I 376 00:25:57,190 --> 00:25:59,940 am. My wife was a bigger woman, too. Oh. 377 00:26:00,200 --> 00:26:02,640 I like a woman with some meat on her bones. Oh. 378 00:26:02,880 --> 00:26:03,880 Oh. 379 00:26:05,380 --> 00:26:06,420 That sigh. 380 00:26:07,640 --> 00:26:08,640 Gosh. 381 00:26:11,140 --> 00:26:12,260 I miss that. 382 00:26:13,240 --> 00:26:14,240 Me, too. 383 00:26:16,620 --> 00:26:17,620 How you been? 384 00:26:18,900 --> 00:26:19,900 I'm actually good. 385 00:26:20,700 --> 00:26:23,240 You know, Japan has revived something in me. 386 00:26:23,940 --> 00:26:25,220 I love to hear that. 387 00:26:26,670 --> 00:26:29,570 Yeah, you know, I've always wanted to see other parts of the world. 388 00:26:29,970 --> 00:26:32,770 And that culture is so dynamic, so rich. 389 00:26:33,030 --> 00:26:36,910 And the opportunities for technology is blazing. 390 00:26:37,590 --> 00:26:41,450 That innovation blows my mind every day. 391 00:26:44,110 --> 00:26:45,110 How are you? 392 00:26:46,910 --> 00:26:47,910 Smooth. 393 00:26:49,070 --> 00:26:50,070 It's major. 394 00:26:50,270 --> 00:26:51,270 Oh, yes. 395 00:26:51,790 --> 00:26:53,270 It definitely is. 396 00:26:53,970 --> 00:26:54,970 Definitely. 397 00:26:55,850 --> 00:26:56,850 It's a dream job. 398 00:26:57,770 --> 00:26:59,630 It's a dream I never even knew to dream. 399 00:27:01,870 --> 00:27:03,410 It's incredible to hear you say that. 400 00:27:03,670 --> 00:27:04,670 Yeah. 401 00:27:04,850 --> 00:27:09,950 When Miss Loomis' podcast took off and we got funded for multiple seasons, 402 00:27:09,950 --> 00:27:12,510 people started coming my way and eventually other companies. 403 00:27:13,110 --> 00:27:14,730 It was a three -way bidding war. 404 00:27:15,010 --> 00:27:16,010 Damn. 405 00:27:17,290 --> 00:27:18,970 I found your calling. 406 00:27:19,250 --> 00:27:20,250 I guess. 407 00:27:25,000 --> 00:27:26,100 I wonder if it was worth it. 408 00:27:30,680 --> 00:27:32,640 Did pursuing this career break us? 409 00:27:36,580 --> 00:27:38,640 I think that it was broken long before that. 410 00:27:40,120 --> 00:27:41,460 That wasn't what it was about. 411 00:27:43,720 --> 00:27:46,840 I wasn't on the same page as I thought I was from Joe. 412 00:27:48,440 --> 00:27:51,300 I gave myself more credit. 413 00:27:51,900 --> 00:27:54,660 And I deserved when it came to how I was loving you. 414 00:27:56,480 --> 00:27:57,480 I was selfish. 415 00:27:58,840 --> 00:27:59,840 I was, too. 416 00:28:00,600 --> 00:28:02,660 In ways I didn't even know at the time. 417 00:28:06,180 --> 00:28:07,180 Look at us. 418 00:28:07,540 --> 00:28:10,020 Talking. Like whole adults. 419 00:28:12,180 --> 00:28:13,960 I guess we had to grow up. 420 00:28:14,620 --> 00:28:15,620 Yeah. 421 00:28:15,940 --> 00:28:17,600 We raised each other, I think. 422 00:28:18,080 --> 00:28:19,160 I think that, too. 423 00:28:20,340 --> 00:28:21,340 Hey. 424 00:28:21,620 --> 00:28:24,660 Things are winding down. Me and Miss Jacqueline made a lot of progress in the 425 00:28:24,660 --> 00:28:27,300 kitchen. She's going to take some of that leftover food to the L .A. Mission 426 00:28:27,300 --> 00:28:30,200 downtown. Ain't that much left, though. Folks ain't good. 427 00:28:30,780 --> 00:28:33,020 Ooh, them chicken wings with the honey glaze. Ooh, right? 428 00:28:33,500 --> 00:28:37,340 I got all the paper and stuff into the recycling bin, so y 'all want me to 429 00:28:37,340 --> 00:28:38,340 taking down the decoration? 430 00:28:38,400 --> 00:28:40,220 No, you can leave them up for the folks who are left. 431 00:28:40,460 --> 00:28:41,460 I'll do it later. 432 00:28:41,540 --> 00:28:42,540 I bet. 433 00:28:43,020 --> 00:28:45,100 I'm going to head out then. Work due tomorrow. 434 00:28:45,880 --> 00:28:47,480 Love y 'all. See you, brother. 435 00:28:48,540 --> 00:28:49,540 My man. 436 00:28:49,780 --> 00:28:50,669 Peace out. 437 00:28:50,670 --> 00:28:51,670 Good seeing you, bud. 438 00:28:51,710 --> 00:28:54,970 Hey, I Ubered here, so are you going to my mom's later tonight? 439 00:28:57,130 --> 00:29:01,350 Uh... You need any help finishing up here? 440 00:29:04,230 --> 00:29:05,950 Actually, I'll just catch you tomorrow. 441 00:29:09,310 --> 00:29:10,310 I'm good. 442 00:29:10,690 --> 00:29:13,950 Just gonna check on her, see if she needs anything else. 443 00:29:14,410 --> 00:29:17,310 Get the rest of these folks on out of here. It's been a long day. 444 00:29:18,990 --> 00:29:20,350 A long, beautiful day. 445 00:29:21,590 --> 00:29:25,030 Well, I guess I'll say my goodbyes. 446 00:29:26,270 --> 00:29:27,270 Yes. 447 00:29:31,790 --> 00:29:37,750 Miss Luma, thank you for letting me come to your party. 448 00:29:39,110 --> 00:29:41,430 I didn't let you come to my party. 449 00:29:42,510 --> 00:29:46,070 You knew you had to be here, and I am so grateful. 450 00:29:46,830 --> 00:29:49,070 That you remembered me. Of course. 451 00:29:49,610 --> 00:29:50,630 You look great. 452 00:29:52,850 --> 00:29:53,910 I'll see you soon. 453 00:29:54,210 --> 00:29:55,210 God bless you. 454 00:29:59,730 --> 00:30:00,730 You okay? 455 00:30:01,510 --> 00:30:05,290 I missed you. 456 00:30:05,710 --> 00:30:06,710 I missed you. 457 00:30:06,890 --> 00:30:08,890 I'm going to miss you even more. 458 00:30:09,190 --> 00:30:12,390 Look, I promise I will come by to see you before I fly out. 459 00:30:44,480 --> 00:30:48,980 Um, maybe we can connect before we both leave, huh? Yeah. 460 00:30:50,140 --> 00:30:51,440 Let's definitely try. 461 00:31:18,020 --> 00:31:19,020 Let's go. 462 00:31:57,780 --> 00:31:59,440 Anything else you need tonight? 463 00:31:59,900 --> 00:32:05,600 No. I've got Jeopardy and Wheel of Fortune. 464 00:32:07,300 --> 00:32:09,260 So you're juggling two men, huh? 465 00:32:10,560 --> 00:32:12,460 I guess that's who I am. 466 00:32:14,620 --> 00:32:16,260 Happy birthday, my queen. 467 00:32:19,560 --> 00:32:21,220 Thank you, my Jeopardy. 468 00:32:22,890 --> 00:32:24,350 You're a blessing to me. 469 00:33:03,280 --> 00:33:04,980 You scared me. I didn't know you were still here. 470 00:33:05,420 --> 00:33:06,820 Oh, I was out back talking. 471 00:33:07,040 --> 00:33:08,040 To who? 472 00:33:10,560 --> 00:33:11,560 To him. 473 00:33:12,080 --> 00:33:13,860 You're leaving me. And guess what? 474 00:33:14,320 --> 00:33:16,500 Phil's going to come with me to Lamar's classes. 475 00:33:21,340 --> 00:33:23,680 That sounds freaking amazing. 476 00:33:24,720 --> 00:33:29,120 I'm going to clean all this tomorrow, and don't even worry about it. Yeah, I'm 477 00:33:29,120 --> 00:33:30,940 going to try to put a dent in it tonight. 478 00:33:32,080 --> 00:33:32,989 Thank you. 479 00:33:32,990 --> 00:33:35,670 Thank you. Well, I'm going to drive Rico home. 480 00:33:37,070 --> 00:33:40,630 So do you mind looking after Miss Luma while I'm gone? It won't be long. No, I 481 00:33:40,630 --> 00:33:41,209 don't mind. 482 00:33:41,210 --> 00:33:42,250 All right. Thank you. 483 00:33:43,310 --> 00:33:44,830 I'll go grab my car. 484 00:33:46,630 --> 00:33:48,350 I'm very confused. 485 00:33:48,610 --> 00:33:50,250 I've never been more confused. 486 00:33:50,710 --> 00:33:52,110 I call you in the morning. 487 00:33:52,470 --> 00:33:53,710 Wow. Okay, girl. 488 00:33:54,230 --> 00:33:55,250 Phil. Yeah? 489 00:33:55,470 --> 00:33:56,470 Don't worry about rushing. 490 00:33:56,970 --> 00:33:59,550 Okay. Luma's good, so y 'all take your time. 491 00:34:01,030 --> 00:34:02,030 Thanks, Jet Li. 492 00:34:09,840 --> 00:34:10,840 What's out for dinner? 493 00:34:25,780 --> 00:34:26,780 Hi. 494 00:34:27,400 --> 00:34:28,400 Hi. 495 00:34:31,580 --> 00:34:35,739 I, um... I couldn't leave you. 496 00:34:38,420 --> 00:34:39,420 Without it. 497 00:34:39,719 --> 00:34:40,820 Mess to deal with. 498 00:34:41,040 --> 00:34:42,360 Oh, yeah. 499 00:34:43,260 --> 00:34:45,400 That's kind of you. 500 00:34:46,540 --> 00:34:48,600 But it's manageable. You didn't have to come back. 501 00:34:48,900 --> 00:34:49,900 Well, I'm here. 502 00:34:50,560 --> 00:34:51,560 Can I help? 503 00:34:53,820 --> 00:34:54,820 Of course. 504 00:34:56,139 --> 00:34:57,139 Thank you. 505 00:36:17,009 --> 00:36:18,250 How are your parents? 506 00:36:18,530 --> 00:36:22,450 Oh, that's to tell you that my mom is a minister now? 507 00:36:22,730 --> 00:36:23,730 Yeah. 508 00:36:23,870 --> 00:36:28,690 I bet she felt like she owed God one for getting me out the picture. Oh, that's 509 00:36:28,690 --> 00:36:29,690 cold. 510 00:36:30,050 --> 00:36:31,590 And inaccurate, by the way. 511 00:36:32,290 --> 00:36:33,290 Is it, though? 512 00:36:34,790 --> 00:36:41,490 My mom didn't... None of my family wanted us to get a divorce. 513 00:36:42,540 --> 00:36:45,800 I just called my dad the other day, and he's like, did you talk to Gentry yet? 514 00:36:47,260 --> 00:36:48,280 Johnny's the homie. 515 00:36:49,700 --> 00:36:50,780 Hold up, hold up. 516 00:36:52,260 --> 00:36:53,260 Wait a minute. 517 00:36:54,540 --> 00:36:55,860 There's a lot left in here. 518 00:36:56,440 --> 00:37:02,340 Well, let not a drop go to waste, my dear. Sweet news right here. Sweet 519 00:37:02,340 --> 00:37:03,340 of the gods. 520 00:37:03,820 --> 00:37:06,020 It's $150 for a bottle. 521 00:37:06,320 --> 00:37:08,820 No, we got to drink it immediately. 522 00:37:10,640 --> 00:37:11,760 Dude, it's like $150. 523 00:37:12,240 --> 00:37:14,340 I know. I'm splurged out for my little balloon. 524 00:37:34,040 --> 00:37:35,580 Is this weird? 525 00:37:39,420 --> 00:37:40,420 What? 526 00:37:45,190 --> 00:37:46,270 Do divorced people do this? 527 00:37:48,790 --> 00:37:51,150 I'm guessing they do, because we're here now. 528 00:37:56,850 --> 00:38:01,190 How did we get here? 529 00:38:07,770 --> 00:38:09,910 Maybe we didn't fight hard enough for each other. 530 00:38:17,580 --> 00:38:19,460 Maybe we shouldn't have even had to fight. 531 00:38:24,520 --> 00:38:26,220 It's a lot of maybes. 532 00:38:32,980 --> 00:38:34,020 But no regrets. 533 00:38:37,620 --> 00:38:40,740 No regrets. 534 00:39:07,050 --> 00:39:08,350 We're ruling the world.