1 00:00:17,027 --> 00:00:18,317 Hello? 2 00:00:18,441 --> 00:00:20,071 Did I wake you, Mina? 3 00:00:22,399 --> 00:00:23,879 I miss you. 4 00:00:25,470 --> 00:00:27,390 It's less than an hour since you left. 5 00:00:27,511 --> 00:00:29,411 Mina, please go out with me. 6 00:00:30,821 --> 00:00:33,531 I'm just tired of being secret. 7 00:00:34,812 --> 00:00:36,562 I need to sleep, Serafin. 8 00:00:37,089 --> 00:00:38,439 Don't hang up. 9 00:00:39,830 --> 00:00:42,010 I will take you back to sleep. 10 00:02:06,819 --> 00:02:10,869 The Bicycle Thief 11 00:02:36,523 --> 00:02:38,463 What are you doing here? 12 00:02:39,282 --> 00:02:40,682 I'm working. 13 00:02:40,802 --> 00:02:42,612 I owe Bartosz for the kitchen. 14 00:02:42,733 --> 00:02:44,933 I thought you wanted to find your dad. 15 00:02:45,375 --> 00:02:46,945 Yes, but... 16 00:02:47,467 --> 00:02:49,337 I also dread it a bit. 17 00:02:49,689 --> 00:02:52,409 Maybe my father will get angry. 18 00:02:52,926 --> 00:02:55,466 It would make his wife sad. 19 00:02:56,229 --> 00:02:57,449 She was very nice. 20 00:02:57,568 --> 00:03:01,858 - Were they mean to you as a kid? - No one was mean to me! 21 00:03:02,461 --> 00:03:04,731 - What are you doing here? - I fucked up. 22 00:03:04,850 --> 00:03:06,730 I fell asleep at work. 23 00:03:07,000 --> 00:03:09,790 - You were with Mina? - Half the night. 24 00:03:11,153 --> 00:03:13,063 Better than no night. 25 00:03:13,466 --> 00:03:15,226 You! Go to work! 26 00:03:15,689 --> 00:03:16,839 Okay. 27 00:03:19,630 --> 00:03:21,450 What kind of place is this? 28 00:03:22,263 --> 00:03:25,663 - A bicycle workshop. - Where do all the bikes come from? 29 00:03:26,275 --> 00:03:29,165 Recycling, bikes left behind... 30 00:03:30,129 --> 00:03:32,009 They're stolen. 31 00:03:32,262 --> 00:03:34,822 - It's not that simple... - Hey, man! Come on! 32 00:03:34,937 --> 00:03:36,057 Yeah, man. 33 00:03:39,236 --> 00:03:40,506 Serafin. 34 00:03:40,987 --> 00:03:43,257 Do you know what this is called in Norwegian? 35 00:03:43,697 --> 00:03:45,147 "Sykkelpumpe." 36 00:03:45,600 --> 00:03:46,700 Serafin. 37 00:03:47,699 --> 00:03:50,819 "Jeg pumper opp deg med min sykkelpumpe." 38 00:03:50,939 --> 00:03:54,489 - What does that mean? - "I'll pump you with my bicycle pump." 39 00:04:09,227 --> 00:04:12,327 I can feel that I don't really want to bring it up. 40 00:04:14,432 --> 00:04:16,982 I don't think that would come naturally. 41 00:04:18,848 --> 00:04:20,908 This is our anniversary year. 42 00:04:21,952 --> 00:04:23,602 We have been looking... 43 00:04:23,722 --> 00:04:26,982 for a suitable gift from us to the neighborhood. 44 00:04:27,352 --> 00:04:30,102 I started thinking about this snail problem. 45 00:04:35,755 --> 00:04:38,175 So we would like to give you a campaign. 46 00:04:38,583 --> 00:04:41,023 "Agents smiles against the sniles." 47 00:04:41,423 --> 00:04:43,583 Pretty catchy, right? 48 00:04:44,409 --> 00:04:47,029 But is it pronounced "snails" or "sniles"? 49 00:04:47,275 --> 00:04:48,545 "Sniles." 50 00:04:48,802 --> 00:04:50,572 Isn't it "snails"? 51 00:04:51,314 --> 00:04:52,794 That's unimportant. 52 00:04:52,909 --> 00:04:55,389 - It's a good rhyme. - I didn't mean to criticize. 53 00:04:55,937 --> 00:04:58,427 So, you'll give us a snail campaign? 54 00:04:58,552 --> 00:05:00,652 Help you organize it. 55 00:05:00,766 --> 00:05:04,646 Cleaning up your garden won't help if your neighbor does nothing. 56 00:05:04,985 --> 00:05:07,115 Snails don't respect property lines. 57 00:05:07,619 --> 00:05:09,849 We have to do this together. 58 00:05:09,972 --> 00:05:12,892 Together, we'll get rid of this nuisance. 59 00:05:13,456 --> 00:05:15,756 This sounds like a great idea. 60 00:05:18,055 --> 00:05:19,265 Splendid. 61 00:05:19,525 --> 00:05:21,755 Anything else you would like to bring up? 62 00:05:22,633 --> 00:05:24,273 No, I don't think... 63 00:05:24,528 --> 00:05:26,788 Actually there is something... 64 00:05:27,263 --> 00:05:31,243 I have been asked to talk to you about. 65 00:05:32,327 --> 00:05:34,987 I'm not sure how to present this. 66 00:05:35,105 --> 00:05:37,565 It can't be that bad. Give it a try. 67 00:05:37,688 --> 00:05:40,128 It's about your viewings. 68 00:05:41,091 --> 00:05:44,861 In a way, you dominate the market here, more or less. 69 00:05:46,172 --> 00:05:50,512 And the same agent organizes all the viewings. 70 00:05:50,633 --> 00:05:53,173 - Mina. She is excellent. - Sure. 71 00:05:53,286 --> 00:05:58,846 But I think some people ask themselves if it always has to be the same agent. 72 00:06:03,804 --> 00:06:05,744 Is this because she is short? 73 00:06:06,819 --> 00:06:07,929 Short? 74 00:06:08,189 --> 00:06:10,929 Because that's a kind of debate we should rise above. 75 00:06:11,051 --> 00:06:12,581 What debate? 76 00:06:12,695 --> 00:06:15,005 I didn't say anything. 77 00:06:15,877 --> 00:06:17,527 What do you mean? 78 00:06:17,718 --> 00:06:19,758 That she is short. If that's the issue. 79 00:06:19,877 --> 00:06:21,587 I just feel that... 80 00:06:23,542 --> 00:06:25,062 I just... 81 00:06:25,332 --> 00:06:27,082 It's like this: 82 00:06:28,109 --> 00:06:31,089 I have to live up to certain principles. 83 00:06:31,481 --> 00:06:33,611 That's just the way I am. 84 00:06:33,734 --> 00:06:36,254 When I look at myself in the mirror, 85 00:06:36,532 --> 00:06:39,282 I have to see certain principles. 86 00:06:39,399 --> 00:06:41,349 Fine. I feel the same way! 87 00:06:41,471 --> 00:06:43,561 But, it's like... 88 00:06:44,070 --> 00:06:47,760 These people are taking good care of their apartments. 89 00:06:47,943 --> 00:06:49,653 These are our homes. 90 00:06:49,769 --> 00:06:52,669 So, we are entitled to ask this question. 91 00:06:53,326 --> 00:06:57,016 This is a bit weird. Why don't we just drop the issue? 92 00:06:57,144 --> 00:06:59,124 Yes. But I just felt that I was... 93 00:07:00,303 --> 00:07:02,123 Sorry about that. - Me too. 94 00:07:24,191 --> 00:07:25,281 Hello? 95 00:07:26,625 --> 00:07:27,965 Are you okay? 96 00:07:29,059 --> 00:07:30,909 Yes. I'm fine. 97 00:07:35,222 --> 00:07:36,762 Are you sure? 98 00:07:40,408 --> 00:07:42,328 I think you should lie down a bit. 99 00:07:42,454 --> 00:07:44,824 It's those snails. They're everywhere. 100 00:07:45,959 --> 00:07:47,709 Let me follow you inside. 101 00:07:48,636 --> 00:07:51,726 - Come on. I'm a doctor. - You're a doctor? 102 00:07:59,816 --> 00:08:01,366 Sit down for a while. 103 00:08:04,797 --> 00:08:06,457 What a nice place. 104 00:08:06,724 --> 00:08:08,154 You think so? 105 00:08:10,311 --> 00:08:11,861 Authentic. 106 00:08:12,420 --> 00:08:13,530 Nice. 107 00:08:15,989 --> 00:08:19,319 - Do you live here on your own? - No, with my husband. 108 00:08:20,463 --> 00:08:24,503 - He should help you with the raking. - He doesn't like garden work much. 109 00:08:25,148 --> 00:08:27,148 I'll get you a glass of water. 110 00:08:44,030 --> 00:08:46,530 Who is your family doctor? - Schreiner. 111 00:08:46,769 --> 00:08:49,169 - At Majorstuen. - I know him. 112 00:08:50,216 --> 00:08:52,016 Are you happy with him? 113 00:08:52,268 --> 00:08:53,788 You could switch to me. 114 00:08:53,908 --> 00:08:57,008 Would be more practical, with your doctor close by. 115 00:08:58,127 --> 00:09:02,337 - Wouldn't it make him sad? - Not at all. It happens all the time. 116 00:09:02,838 --> 00:09:04,788 I leave my phone number here. 117 00:09:07,962 --> 00:09:09,932 Call me if you need me. 118 00:09:11,410 --> 00:09:12,680 Goodbye. 119 00:09:22,910 --> 00:09:26,260 - What did that horrible person want? - She wasn't horrible. 120 00:09:26,466 --> 00:09:29,036 - She helped me. - I see. 121 00:09:29,554 --> 00:09:31,954 Henry. We have to talk. 122 00:09:33,451 --> 00:09:37,191 We have to sit down like adults, and figure out how to do this. 123 00:09:38,381 --> 00:09:39,711 Do what? 124 00:09:40,484 --> 00:09:42,104 Organize things. 125 00:09:43,077 --> 00:09:45,957 To make the best out of it for both of us. 126 00:09:52,011 --> 00:09:55,611 I think you could probably call home once every six months. 127 00:09:56,810 --> 00:10:00,110 Not that I myself was very good at calling home, but... 128 00:10:05,531 --> 00:10:06,851 Listen, Mum, 129 00:10:08,478 --> 00:10:11,178 I don't really know how to say this, but... 130 00:10:12,682 --> 00:10:13,982 Are you pregnant? 131 00:10:15,798 --> 00:10:18,598 You are! You're pregnant! 132 00:10:19,089 --> 00:10:20,519 How nice! 133 00:10:20,816 --> 00:10:24,706 I thought you lost your psychic powers when you got me? 134 00:10:25,277 --> 00:10:26,577 Yes, I did. 135 00:10:26,878 --> 00:10:28,578 I'm just guessing. 136 00:10:33,862 --> 00:10:35,862 Do you know who the father is? 137 00:10:38,035 --> 00:10:39,505 Hey, you... 138 00:10:41,607 --> 00:10:44,887 How will you support yourself now? When you lose your ability? 139 00:10:45,061 --> 00:10:47,191 - Does that always happen? - Yes. 140 00:10:47,419 --> 00:10:48,729 Usually it does. 141 00:10:48,853 --> 00:10:52,043 - You lost it, right? - Don't worry about it. 142 00:10:52,249 --> 00:10:54,629 - Try to look forward to it. - Right. 143 00:10:56,199 --> 00:10:57,819 Did it just vanish? 144 00:10:57,937 --> 00:10:59,797 From one day to the next? 145 00:11:00,486 --> 00:11:02,006 Little by little. 146 00:11:03,233 --> 00:11:06,423 The more you grew in my belly, the less I was able to see. 147 00:11:07,049 --> 00:11:08,229 Really? 148 00:11:10,871 --> 00:11:14,281 Neither one of us ever chose this, right? 149 00:11:14,712 --> 00:11:17,402 But now you've gotten rid of the problem. I'm sure of it. 150 00:11:18,567 --> 00:11:21,407 You know who the father is, don't you? 151 00:11:21,532 --> 00:11:23,272 I can see you do! 152 00:11:24,063 --> 00:11:26,703 Hey... Everything's all right. 153 00:11:39,117 --> 00:11:40,337 Tomasz. 154 00:11:41,113 --> 00:11:43,533 She wants to meet me today. 155 00:11:43,653 --> 00:11:46,353 - She wants to meet me today! - That's great! 156 00:11:49,153 --> 00:11:50,623 Okay, guys! 157 00:11:59,127 --> 00:12:00,347 First class. 158 00:12:01,755 --> 00:12:02,905 Garbage. 159 00:12:05,101 --> 00:12:06,321 Second class. 160 00:12:08,417 --> 00:12:09,777 Packing. 161 00:12:11,489 --> 00:12:12,589 Wait! 162 00:12:13,667 --> 00:12:17,267 I've got an identical one in Poland! 163 00:12:17,514 --> 00:12:19,984 - Garbage. - What? This is a good bike. 164 00:12:20,100 --> 00:12:21,500 No, it's old. 165 00:12:21,618 --> 00:12:24,058 - Nobody will buy it. Next. - Then give it to me. 166 00:12:29,047 --> 00:12:30,447 First class. 167 00:12:32,182 --> 00:12:33,502 Second class. 168 00:12:34,071 --> 00:12:35,451 First class. 169 00:12:39,294 --> 00:12:41,644 What should we start off with today? 170 00:12:42,091 --> 00:12:43,491 I'm not sure. 171 00:12:43,606 --> 00:12:46,506 Maybe we could look at our proximate goals? 172 00:12:47,312 --> 00:12:49,792 But first I'd like to say that I hardly... 173 00:12:50,540 --> 00:12:53,590 slept at all last night. - Thinking too much? 174 00:12:53,924 --> 00:12:55,354 I was editing. 175 00:12:55,695 --> 00:12:58,735 How exciting. I guess time flies by fast. 176 00:12:59,617 --> 00:13:01,797 And afterwards, I didn't feel tired at all. 177 00:13:01,924 --> 00:13:02,994 So... 178 00:13:06,208 --> 00:13:09,008 That's the way it usually goes. And now I'm tired. 179 00:13:09,237 --> 00:13:11,387 I'm sure that won't be a problem. 180 00:13:11,507 --> 00:13:15,147 There's one thing we can discuss right away. 181 00:13:15,518 --> 00:13:17,768 - Fine with me. - It's your session. 182 00:13:18,483 --> 00:13:21,033 To be honest, we have felt a bit stupid. 183 00:13:21,749 --> 00:13:24,679 We talked about this at home last night. 184 00:13:26,109 --> 00:13:29,799 We have gone to therapy with you for nearly a year now. 185 00:13:31,040 --> 00:13:34,300 We both feel it has been really good for us. 186 00:13:35,619 --> 00:13:40,349 I sound like we would like to quit. But that's not what it's about at all. 187 00:13:42,163 --> 00:13:45,363 Because you've been outstanding, Knut Egil. You're... 188 00:13:46,317 --> 00:13:47,717 You're just fabulous. 189 00:13:50,171 --> 00:13:51,841 We just feel that... 190 00:13:53,894 --> 00:13:56,254 We don't want to use your time... 191 00:13:57,410 --> 00:13:59,510 on the wrong premises. 192 00:14:00,507 --> 00:14:03,367 - We want to... - Anitra. Jørgen. 193 00:14:04,224 --> 00:14:08,074 These walls have heard things which you can't begin to imagine. 194 00:14:08,734 --> 00:14:11,124 The point is, 195 00:14:11,238 --> 00:14:14,898 Jørgen and I have decided to go our own ways. 196 00:14:17,556 --> 00:14:21,006 And we feel like we should discuss this with you... 197 00:14:21,360 --> 00:14:22,970 in these sessions. 198 00:14:23,271 --> 00:14:25,741 Where we stand, and where we're going. 199 00:14:25,856 --> 00:14:28,726 - It doesn't feel quite right. - Have you decided? 200 00:14:28,999 --> 00:14:30,079 Yes. 201 00:14:30,201 --> 00:14:32,751 We have been looking for new apartments. 202 00:14:33,500 --> 00:14:34,770 For a while. 203 00:14:35,853 --> 00:14:38,053 - For a while? - Just a few months. 204 00:14:38,812 --> 00:14:40,082 So... 205 00:14:43,017 --> 00:14:46,137 Then, you haven't been honest with me regarding... 206 00:14:46,764 --> 00:14:48,764 the specification of goals. 207 00:14:51,503 --> 00:14:54,843 - Shame on you. - Well, it's not carved in rock. 208 00:14:55,226 --> 00:14:56,916 Actually, it is. 209 00:14:57,410 --> 00:14:59,250 But we are who we are. 210 00:14:59,366 --> 00:15:01,886 But it's a bit silly to sit here and play-act. 211 00:15:02,009 --> 00:15:04,689 We have spent a lot of time on setting this up together. 212 00:15:10,881 --> 00:15:13,131 Everything going on in this room... 213 00:15:13,835 --> 00:15:16,485 is based on confidence. That's our foundation. 214 00:15:16,607 --> 00:15:20,157 - We're not sitting here for my sake. - We're sorry. 215 00:15:21,599 --> 00:15:23,989 We should have told you earlier, but... 216 00:15:24,388 --> 00:15:27,118 It just got more and more difficult. 217 00:15:27,235 --> 00:15:29,525 That's what happens when you postpone things. 218 00:15:30,888 --> 00:15:33,688 Maybe we can learn something from this too. 219 00:15:34,742 --> 00:15:37,932 It's not like we've been 100 percent sure all the time. 220 00:15:38,602 --> 00:15:41,812 Well, at the start I thought: "No way." 221 00:15:42,481 --> 00:15:43,851 But, then, 222 00:15:44,758 --> 00:15:46,968 after some sessions with you, 223 00:15:47,088 --> 00:15:50,628 you made me, or us, feel that... 224 00:15:52,151 --> 00:15:54,791 "Yes! We might be able to make it." 225 00:15:55,617 --> 00:15:57,127 There have been... 226 00:15:58,070 --> 00:16:02,060 There have been moments here, when I have felt that... 227 00:16:02,521 --> 00:16:05,891 "Anitra, now it's time to go home and get it together." 228 00:16:06,194 --> 00:16:08,404 I have often thought that... 229 00:16:08,878 --> 00:16:11,308 we should have started seeing you a bit earlier. 230 00:16:12,418 --> 00:16:16,798 Because, this therapy has given me... 231 00:16:17,274 --> 00:16:19,674 a totally different perspective... 232 00:16:20,819 --> 00:16:22,899 of many things. 233 00:16:24,629 --> 00:16:26,819 I have often thought... 234 00:16:27,533 --> 00:16:29,713 "I'm so dumb." 235 00:16:32,037 --> 00:16:36,487 "All these weird, destructive thoughts in my head..." 236 00:16:36,611 --> 00:16:42,251 "If we had only contacted Knut Egil a little bit earlier..." 237 00:16:42,760 --> 00:16:47,120 "Then, things might have looked different now." 238 00:16:47,590 --> 00:16:50,060 But there's not much we can do about it now. 239 00:16:50,342 --> 00:16:52,742 I just hope that, 240 00:16:53,207 --> 00:16:55,047 if I or Jørgen... 241 00:16:55,485 --> 00:16:57,895 find another partner, 242 00:16:58,569 --> 00:17:01,079 that we can come and see you at an early stage. 243 00:17:02,059 --> 00:17:04,209 I would like to contact you... 244 00:17:04,452 --> 00:17:06,472 as soon as I meet someone. 245 00:17:07,324 --> 00:17:09,184 Before we get stuck. 246 00:17:09,302 --> 00:17:12,152 You mean, both of you, with your new partners? 247 00:17:13,392 --> 00:17:15,312 Does that sound strange? 248 00:17:15,688 --> 00:17:17,008 Well... 249 00:17:17,133 --> 00:17:20,523 We should consider this when it actually happens. 250 00:17:21,274 --> 00:17:22,934 You just have to feel it out. 251 00:17:23,052 --> 00:17:26,672 If it feels wrong to you, we won't do it that way. 252 00:17:30,947 --> 00:17:32,117 May I? 253 00:17:34,213 --> 00:17:36,373 Let's have a two minute break. 254 00:17:37,021 --> 00:17:39,571 I'll make use of the opportunity to go and pee. 255 00:18:11,013 --> 00:18:12,153 Lighter. 256 00:18:15,349 --> 00:18:16,889 That was really sad. 257 00:18:17,245 --> 00:18:18,725 It's just the way things are. 258 00:18:18,854 --> 00:18:21,704 Feel free to come around on your own. 259 00:18:22,781 --> 00:18:24,911 I can see this may be hard for you. 260 00:18:25,028 --> 00:18:26,348 Five puffs. 261 00:18:39,197 --> 00:18:41,407 It just goes straight through me these days. 262 00:18:42,663 --> 00:18:44,183 Your body reacts. 263 00:18:47,278 --> 00:18:51,118 When I think about it now, I realize this must feel weird. 264 00:18:51,536 --> 00:18:52,826 I'm so sorry. 265 00:18:52,951 --> 00:18:55,611 Many people have a hard time. You're not the only ones. 266 00:18:55,831 --> 00:18:58,181 No, I mean regarding you. 267 00:19:00,780 --> 00:19:03,320 What I said about coming back to you... 268 00:19:04,321 --> 00:19:06,911 Who knows, maybe it will happen. 269 00:19:07,418 --> 00:19:10,278 - Pretty soon. - Just make an appointment. 270 00:19:10,581 --> 00:19:13,131 Will I still be in the system? 271 00:19:13,378 --> 00:19:14,918 I don't really know. 272 00:19:15,799 --> 00:19:17,949 I'll have to find out. - Great. 273 00:19:30,840 --> 00:19:33,810 What do you think? Do you want to quit these sessions? 274 00:19:33,993 --> 00:19:38,383 - We need you more than ever. - Yes, there's a lot to sort out. 275 00:19:39,046 --> 00:19:40,816 Concerning Jens Christian, 276 00:19:41,895 --> 00:19:45,075 and all kinds of things. - Then we'd better adjust our goals. 277 00:19:45,199 --> 00:19:46,759 Can you manage? 278 00:19:48,559 --> 00:19:51,199 I feel completely wasted. But, okay... 279 00:19:51,412 --> 00:19:55,012 Maybe it's a better idea to have a fresh start next time. 280 00:19:55,873 --> 00:19:57,273 In that case, 281 00:19:57,393 --> 00:20:00,113 I have a little something I would like to talk about. 282 00:20:02,257 --> 00:20:05,207 I've been in this business for many years now, 283 00:20:05,579 --> 00:20:08,119 and I feel the need for a little variation. 284 00:20:08,833 --> 00:20:11,563 A year ago I started further education, 285 00:20:11,683 --> 00:20:13,783 which may form part of a PhD. 286 00:20:14,948 --> 00:20:17,368 - In addition to your job? - Yes. 287 00:20:17,776 --> 00:20:20,136 But it leads to long evenings. 288 00:20:20,979 --> 00:20:24,359 So we might also be in need of a family therapist! 289 00:20:24,658 --> 00:20:28,268 I'm writing an article related to my studies. 290 00:20:28,456 --> 00:20:32,616 I think it may be published in a quality magazine called: 291 00:20:33,504 --> 00:20:35,004 The Family Therapist. 292 00:20:37,893 --> 00:20:40,933 In this article, I make use of case examples... 293 00:20:41,572 --> 00:20:43,092 from my practice. 294 00:20:43,837 --> 00:20:46,297 Behind your backs, I have used your case... 295 00:20:46,422 --> 00:20:48,242 as an illustrative example. 296 00:20:48,355 --> 00:20:52,345 Of course I was going to check with you if it's OK. 297 00:20:53,027 --> 00:20:54,877 If not, we'll just drop it. 298 00:20:55,813 --> 00:20:57,873 We have nothing against that. 299 00:20:58,416 --> 00:21:01,176 No. I kind of regard that as an... 300 00:21:02,127 --> 00:21:03,317 An honor. 301 00:21:04,235 --> 00:21:05,935 But why did you pick us? 302 00:21:06,792 --> 00:21:10,382 It has to do with the way you have approached all this. 303 00:21:10,790 --> 00:21:13,340 The way you relate to your own lives, 304 00:21:13,840 --> 00:21:16,470 and your partner's emotions. 305 00:21:17,772 --> 00:21:19,272 I find it exemplary. 306 00:21:20,212 --> 00:21:23,032 In that sense, you're some of the best I've had. 307 00:21:23,295 --> 00:21:25,875 This actually made me feel glad. 308 00:21:26,986 --> 00:21:29,016 Those were nice words. 309 00:21:29,775 --> 00:21:30,955 Thank you. 310 00:21:31,843 --> 00:21:33,343 I'm going running now. 311 00:21:33,707 --> 00:21:35,647 I should go, too. 312 00:21:37,698 --> 00:21:41,148 - Why don't you come with me? - No, I don't have the energy. 313 00:21:44,005 --> 00:21:46,105 - Getting heavy? - No, I'm fine. 314 00:21:46,476 --> 00:21:49,026 You just go. I can go for a round a bit later. 315 00:23:47,359 --> 00:23:49,819 - Beautiful creatures. - Yes. 316 00:23:50,300 --> 00:23:51,500 They are. 317 00:23:53,994 --> 00:23:56,604 You always run the same round here? 318 00:23:56,966 --> 00:23:58,196 No! 319 00:23:58,317 --> 00:23:59,977 Not exactly the same, but... 320 00:24:00,820 --> 00:24:02,190 It's nice here. 321 00:24:09,104 --> 00:24:10,714 You're not alone. 322 00:24:17,300 --> 00:24:19,100 What's that supposed to mean? 323 00:24:21,742 --> 00:24:23,892 Exactly what you want it to mean. 324 00:24:54,269 --> 00:24:56,149 - Hello? - Hi. 325 00:24:56,266 --> 00:25:00,206 It's about the ad on the Ullevål Hageby billboard. 326 00:25:00,613 --> 00:25:02,203 I was just wondering if... 327 00:25:03,247 --> 00:25:05,057 If I've reached the right number. 328 00:25:19,419 --> 00:25:20,449 Hello. 329 00:25:21,903 --> 00:25:25,473 - Does Dr. Karianne Vindenes live here? - She's not at home. 330 00:25:25,590 --> 00:25:29,240 - Any other adults at home? - Yes, Hugo is here. 331 00:25:31,338 --> 00:25:32,748 Nice place. 332 00:25:33,202 --> 00:25:35,562 - You think so? - Don't you? 333 00:25:36,256 --> 00:25:38,076 Well, I guess it's... 334 00:25:38,934 --> 00:25:40,274 It's nice enough. 335 00:25:40,698 --> 00:25:41,788 Hugo? 336 00:25:42,425 --> 00:25:43,855 Could you...? 337 00:25:45,521 --> 00:25:46,621 Hi. 338 00:25:49,413 --> 00:25:50,773 May I help you? 339 00:25:50,890 --> 00:25:54,870 - Your wife came by today... - You're Kiran, aren't you? 340 00:25:55,841 --> 00:25:57,021 Yes. 341 00:25:57,411 --> 00:25:58,961 My old teacher. 342 00:25:59,426 --> 00:26:01,386 - Is that right? - Yes. 343 00:26:02,857 --> 00:26:04,997 Would you like a glass of red wine? 344 00:26:05,123 --> 00:26:07,673 - At this time? - Yes. Just a small one. 345 00:26:08,514 --> 00:26:10,764 - Well, yes... - Please, sit down. 346 00:26:18,086 --> 00:26:21,176 I usually don't intrude on people this way, 347 00:26:21,296 --> 00:26:23,296 but your wife came by. 348 00:26:24,154 --> 00:26:25,964 I'm sorry if she... 349 00:26:26,895 --> 00:26:29,855 She can be a bit harsh at times. Look at this. 350 00:26:33,246 --> 00:26:34,836 Where are you? 351 00:26:35,374 --> 00:26:36,914 I'm right there. 352 00:26:38,464 --> 00:26:40,674 I remember him vaguely. 353 00:26:40,960 --> 00:26:44,670 I have to tell you this. You were a fantastic teacher. 354 00:26:46,329 --> 00:26:47,789 - No... - Yes. 355 00:26:47,906 --> 00:26:49,956 Seriously. Of all my teachers, 356 00:26:50,263 --> 00:26:52,913 you've had the greatest impact on my life. 357 00:26:54,937 --> 00:26:58,227 - You must have been a special case. - Not at all. 358 00:26:58,666 --> 00:27:01,216 Many people feel the same way about you. 359 00:27:04,178 --> 00:27:06,358 Nice of you to tell me this. 360 00:27:21,796 --> 00:27:23,366 Is everything okay? 361 00:27:24,556 --> 00:27:27,276 This was just a bit unexpected. 362 00:27:27,534 --> 00:27:29,224 It's so long ago. 363 00:27:31,244 --> 00:27:34,754 Life as a pensioner is not always that easy. 364 00:27:35,336 --> 00:27:37,226 All the idleness. 365 00:27:39,543 --> 00:27:41,183 Was I a strict teacher? 366 00:27:42,947 --> 00:27:44,117 No. 367 00:27:44,330 --> 00:27:45,660 Angry? 368 00:27:46,433 --> 00:27:48,223 Not that I can recall. 369 00:27:51,685 --> 00:27:53,785 - That's an interesting ring. - Yes. 370 00:27:54,369 --> 00:27:56,139 An old family patent. 371 00:27:56,349 --> 00:27:59,899 You're the ball bearing kid! I remember you now. 372 00:28:03,926 --> 00:28:05,926 Is that how you make a living? 373 00:28:06,660 --> 00:28:08,120 Yes, in a way. 374 00:28:12,431 --> 00:28:14,581 I didn't come to Oslo to steal bikes. 375 00:28:15,904 --> 00:28:18,234 I also have other things to do. 376 00:28:20,606 --> 00:28:22,086 I've got a date. 377 00:28:46,524 --> 00:28:48,304 Hey... What?! 378 00:29:31,013 --> 00:29:33,383 What do you want to talk about, my son? 379 00:29:35,204 --> 00:29:37,324 I slept with a woman. 380 00:29:37,569 --> 00:29:39,059 A Norwegian woman. 381 00:29:39,178 --> 00:29:40,708 Outside marriage. 382 00:29:41,253 --> 00:29:42,533 And I have... 383 00:29:43,237 --> 00:29:45,387 a pregnant girlfriend at home. 384 00:29:46,696 --> 00:29:50,096 This is serious, but, it is commendable that you confess. 385 00:29:51,758 --> 00:29:53,338 She is clairvoyant. 386 00:29:54,742 --> 00:29:56,242 She can see things. 387 00:29:56,582 --> 00:29:58,062 Clairvoyant? 388 00:29:58,266 --> 00:29:59,716 She sees things. 389 00:30:00,095 --> 00:30:02,485 That's why I couldn't resist. 390 00:30:02,817 --> 00:30:04,027 How then? 391 00:30:04,256 --> 00:30:06,276 She told me it would happen. 392 00:30:06,399 --> 00:30:09,349 She just said that to get you into bed with her. 393 00:30:09,959 --> 00:30:12,369 No, she really is clairvoyant. 394 00:30:13,401 --> 00:30:15,581 Those things are just humbug. 395 00:30:15,872 --> 00:30:18,222 Anything else you want to talk about? 396 00:30:21,300 --> 00:30:23,650 I used my penis to measure something. 397 00:30:25,958 --> 00:30:27,248 Your penis? 398 00:30:28,230 --> 00:30:30,390 In a cabin. A kitchen. 399 00:30:31,602 --> 00:30:34,252 - Are you a craftsman? - No, I'm a linguist. 400 00:30:35,033 --> 00:30:36,293 I see. 401 00:30:37,333 --> 00:30:40,513 It's kind of hard to explain, the penis incident. 402 00:30:41,701 --> 00:30:43,031 Sounds insignificant. 403 00:30:43,372 --> 00:30:44,842 So, it's okay? 404 00:30:45,571 --> 00:30:48,661 It sounds slightly unhygienic, but I don't think it's a sin. 405 00:30:50,342 --> 00:30:53,292 - Why are you here in Norway? - To find my father. 406 00:30:53,480 --> 00:30:55,160 He is Norwegian. 407 00:30:55,498 --> 00:30:57,098 Have you found him? 408 00:30:57,324 --> 00:30:59,224 I think I know who he is. 409 00:30:59,517 --> 00:31:01,217 Do you miss your father? 410 00:31:03,990 --> 00:31:05,450 No. 411 00:31:05,730 --> 00:31:08,030 But he owes me money. 412 00:31:09,699 --> 00:31:12,339 He has avoided paying it the last 28 years. 413 00:31:12,458 --> 00:31:14,518 Yes, then it piles up. 414 00:31:17,808 --> 00:31:19,838 Are you going to seek citizenship? 415 00:31:20,743 --> 00:31:23,003 No... I haven't thought about it. 416 00:31:23,270 --> 00:31:24,500 Consider it. 417 00:31:24,940 --> 00:31:28,480 It will give you the right to Norwegian social security. 418 00:31:29,391 --> 00:31:30,691 Really? 419 00:31:30,956 --> 00:31:33,086 I'm just telling you, so you'll know. 420 00:31:33,207 --> 00:31:36,027 But I don't want to break up his family. 421 00:31:36,778 --> 00:31:38,928 It's a pity, but it's not a sin. 422 00:31:39,425 --> 00:31:41,815 Maybe his wife will leave him. 423 00:31:42,481 --> 00:31:44,931 He should have thought of that earlier. 424 00:33:04,538 --> 00:33:05,678 Hi. 425 00:33:08,072 --> 00:33:10,422 - How was your day? - Good. Very good. 426 00:33:11,125 --> 00:33:13,025 - And yours? - Normal. 427 00:33:21,925 --> 00:33:24,055 It's a very nice place. 428 00:33:24,177 --> 00:33:25,557 Not snobbish. 429 00:33:25,847 --> 00:33:26,887 I like that. 430 00:33:28,665 --> 00:33:30,535 - Hi. - One Coke, please. 431 00:33:32,344 --> 00:33:34,684 A Coke for me too, then. 432 00:33:36,180 --> 00:33:38,240 Sure you're not hungry? 433 00:33:38,601 --> 00:33:40,851 - I can afford it. - I have to work. 434 00:33:42,468 --> 00:33:43,518 Okay. 435 00:33:54,049 --> 00:33:56,459 Mina, I was flying today. 436 00:33:56,741 --> 00:33:59,981 - Flying? - Yes. Flying inside. 437 00:34:01,796 --> 00:34:03,866 Last night was so... 438 00:34:04,581 --> 00:34:07,711 It was wonderful. For me too, but... 439 00:34:08,013 --> 00:34:10,113 I don't know how to say this, but, 440 00:34:10,229 --> 00:34:12,969 this has been going a bit further than I thought. 441 00:34:13,593 --> 00:34:15,543 I'm not sure about this, Serafin. 442 00:34:16,409 --> 00:34:18,959 I don't understand... 443 00:34:19,075 --> 00:34:21,975 I shouldn't have let it go this far. I'm sorry for that. 444 00:34:22,769 --> 00:34:24,439 Is it too fast for you? 445 00:34:24,564 --> 00:34:27,024 Please tell me. We can take it slower. 446 00:34:27,143 --> 00:34:28,263 No. 447 00:34:28,521 --> 00:34:30,491 I just don't think it's right. 448 00:34:31,021 --> 00:34:32,281 Right? 449 00:34:33,214 --> 00:34:34,594 Right for me. 450 00:34:37,336 --> 00:34:40,496 But we have fun together. We are laughing. 451 00:34:40,622 --> 00:34:42,532 But it's a feeling. I... 452 00:34:43,912 --> 00:34:45,152 I think... 453 00:34:45,526 --> 00:34:46,876 No, I know, 454 00:34:47,646 --> 00:34:50,136 that we are not meant to be. 455 00:34:52,550 --> 00:34:53,930 But why? 456 00:34:54,615 --> 00:34:55,945 What's wrong? 457 00:34:56,248 --> 00:34:57,618 I don't know. 458 00:35:00,596 --> 00:35:02,816 - Am I too tall? - No. 459 00:35:03,440 --> 00:35:05,050 I like that you're tall. 460 00:35:06,759 --> 00:35:08,969 It went too far. I'm sorry. 461 00:35:09,162 --> 00:35:12,112 It just felt so good. The way you were calling, 462 00:35:12,359 --> 00:35:14,789 and flirting with me. All that. 463 00:35:16,373 --> 00:35:18,123 You made me feel special. 464 00:35:19,325 --> 00:35:20,865 You are special. 465 00:35:22,348 --> 00:35:25,398 You are the most wonderful person I have ever met. 466 00:35:26,909 --> 00:35:28,199 Serafin... 467 00:35:31,251 --> 00:35:33,961 Is that a class thing? 468 00:35:34,654 --> 00:35:37,254 - I don't know. - Because that is stupid. 469 00:35:39,330 --> 00:35:41,560 - Kiss me, Mina. - Please, Serafin. 470 00:35:42,076 --> 00:35:43,306 One kiss. 471 00:35:44,428 --> 00:35:45,618 Come on. 472 00:35:57,034 --> 00:35:59,494 Was there any class in that kiss? 473 00:36:00,538 --> 00:36:02,588 Don't try to convince me. 474 00:36:02,791 --> 00:36:05,711 Because I don't understand. You like me. 475 00:36:06,590 --> 00:36:07,900 I like you. 476 00:36:08,347 --> 00:36:12,127 Last night was just perfect, and now... 477 00:36:12,939 --> 00:36:15,519 Is it because of what I do and where I come from? 478 00:36:15,639 --> 00:36:17,589 I can't answer all this, I... 479 00:36:19,241 --> 00:36:21,611 You're just not my dream, Serafin. 480 00:36:26,530 --> 00:36:27,790 I'm sorry. 481 00:36:32,467 --> 00:36:33,837 I have to go. 482 00:36:35,573 --> 00:36:37,383 I need to see you again. 483 00:36:37,561 --> 00:36:39,281 It's not a very good idea. 484 00:36:39,403 --> 00:36:43,103 Please, Mina, I need to see you again. We cannot end like this. 485 00:37:19,260 --> 00:37:20,680 - Hi. - Hi. 486 00:37:20,949 --> 00:37:22,189 Come in. 487 00:37:31,804 --> 00:37:32,954 Okay. 488 00:37:33,074 --> 00:37:34,534 Now try G major. 489 00:37:40,939 --> 00:37:43,009 Take it easy. You'll manage well. 490 00:37:43,604 --> 00:37:45,524 - You think so? - I'm positive. 491 00:37:46,119 --> 00:37:50,269 We'll take the time we need. But practice at home. 492 00:37:50,387 --> 00:37:54,237 I don't know if I'll practice that much at home. I feel that I... 493 00:37:55,492 --> 00:37:58,682 I'd like this to be more my thing. 494 00:37:58,921 --> 00:38:01,381 - Musical shyness? - Maybe. 495 00:38:01,500 --> 00:38:05,790 No problem. You can come here at any time and practice, if you want. 496 00:38:25,366 --> 00:38:27,366 You live in this neighborhood? 497 00:38:27,625 --> 00:38:29,525 In the Askeladdveien Street. 498 00:38:30,853 --> 00:38:33,773 The light conditions are better here. 499 00:38:34,495 --> 00:38:36,145 Not much of a difference. 500 00:38:36,273 --> 00:38:39,403 30 minutes in the morning, 30 minutes in the evening. It makes a difference. 501 00:38:55,482 --> 00:38:59,242 Mina. I think we're making a big mistake. 502 00:38:59,357 --> 00:39:01,287 You coming here is a mistake. 503 00:39:01,652 --> 00:39:03,102 This is my job! 504 00:39:07,224 --> 00:39:10,784 Is it your dream, Mina? This house? 505 00:39:11,834 --> 00:39:13,334 Leave now! 506 00:39:16,646 --> 00:39:20,466 Write your name on the list, if you want to bid. 507 00:39:22,295 --> 00:39:24,375 - Thanks for the talk. - It was nice. 508 00:39:47,464 --> 00:39:48,714 Hello... 509 00:39:49,991 --> 00:39:53,281 - Hi. Are you Mr. Kiran? - Yes. 510 00:39:54,109 --> 00:39:56,769 My name is Tomasz Novak. 511 00:39:57,562 --> 00:40:00,432 May I have a word with you? 512 00:40:01,497 --> 00:40:03,547 - You want to talk to me? - Yes. 513 00:40:04,024 --> 00:40:05,604 Why not? 514 00:40:07,785 --> 00:40:09,895 Maybe we should sit down and talk? 515 00:40:10,018 --> 00:40:11,758 Yes. I'd like to. 516 00:40:14,019 --> 00:40:17,189 I come from the city of Kraków. In Poland. 517 00:40:17,535 --> 00:40:18,875 Do you know it? 518 00:40:19,287 --> 00:40:21,477 I have been there many times. 519 00:40:21,716 --> 00:40:23,266 Beautiful city. 520 00:40:24,200 --> 00:40:25,660 My mother, she... 521 00:40:25,890 --> 00:40:28,970 She used to work in Auschwitz as a guide, 522 00:40:29,088 --> 00:40:30,598 for many years. 523 00:40:31,069 --> 00:40:32,379 Elzbieta Novak. 524 00:40:32,786 --> 00:40:35,486 - Elisabeth. - Elisabeth? 525 00:40:35,814 --> 00:40:37,904 I think I remember her. 526 00:40:38,986 --> 00:40:40,186 Pretty woman? 527 00:40:40,306 --> 00:40:41,956 - Laughing a lot? - Yes. 528 00:40:42,109 --> 00:40:43,469 Yes. That's her. 529 00:40:44,255 --> 00:40:45,475 This... 530 00:40:45,675 --> 00:40:46,905 This is her. 531 00:40:47,376 --> 00:40:49,386 And this is you! 532 00:40:49,841 --> 00:40:51,271 Look at that. 533 00:40:52,368 --> 00:40:53,888 So much younger. 534 00:40:55,616 --> 00:40:57,886 Of course I remember her. 535 00:40:59,476 --> 00:41:00,876 How is she doing? 536 00:41:01,228 --> 00:41:02,708 She's doing fine. 537 00:41:02,830 --> 00:41:05,200 - She lives in Kraków still? - Yes. 538 00:41:08,026 --> 00:41:09,426 Can I keep it? 539 00:41:11,016 --> 00:41:12,436 Of course. 540 00:41:13,463 --> 00:41:15,963 But there is one more thing. 541 00:41:18,956 --> 00:41:22,216 This picture was taken in 1985. 542 00:41:23,154 --> 00:41:25,184 And nine months later, 543 00:41:25,876 --> 00:41:27,246 I was born. 544 00:41:31,201 --> 00:41:35,021 My mother has given me reasons to believe that... 545 00:41:37,199 --> 00:41:39,369 You are my father. 546 00:41:50,876 --> 00:41:53,726 That's the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard! 547 00:41:54,355 --> 00:41:57,675 - I'm sorry if this comes as a shock. - A shock? 548 00:41:58,284 --> 00:42:00,054 It's just nonsense! 549 00:42:00,165 --> 00:42:03,665 - Maybe we can talk more later? - I never screwed a Pole. 550 00:42:04,031 --> 00:42:07,681 - I didn't get that... - I have never fucked your mother! 551 00:42:08,304 --> 00:42:10,004 And now I have to leave. 552 00:42:20,610 --> 00:42:22,330 - Hi. - Hi. 553 00:42:23,038 --> 00:42:25,208 - It's freezing cold out there. - Yes. 554 00:42:26,066 --> 00:42:27,676 Don't catch a cold. 555 00:42:28,340 --> 00:42:29,880 What are you watching? 556 00:42:30,631 --> 00:42:31,791 Nothing. 557 00:42:32,304 --> 00:42:34,154 Just something that was on. 558 00:42:37,479 --> 00:42:39,729 - I'll go have a shower. - Go ahead. 559 00:42:41,721 --> 00:42:43,221 I'll be right here. 560 00:42:58,376 --> 00:42:59,576 Turid? 561 00:43:06,240 --> 00:43:07,450 Turid? 562 00:43:34,852 --> 00:43:35,952 Turid... 563 00:43:38,112 --> 00:43:39,282 Turid! 564 00:43:57,796 --> 00:43:59,116 Tomasz? 565 00:44:02,207 --> 00:44:03,777 How did it go? 566 00:44:05,241 --> 00:44:06,591 Not so well. 567 00:44:06,949 --> 00:44:08,349 What about you? 568 00:44:08,594 --> 00:44:10,354 Not very well. 569 00:44:14,406 --> 00:44:16,606 Have we got a place to sleep tonight? 570 00:44:16,733 --> 00:44:18,573 You'll probably go to Anneli. 571 00:44:18,748 --> 00:44:20,418 No, no... 572 00:44:29,333 --> 00:44:31,253 Could you imagine living here? 573 00:44:31,454 --> 00:44:32,654 Yes. 574 00:44:32,843 --> 00:44:34,263 Couldn't you? 575 00:44:34,777 --> 00:44:36,567 Yes, of course.