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EDITH FILM PRESENTS
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IN COOPERATION WITH
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It isn't all sunshine.
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The lows can be pretty low.
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When I think about the teenagers
I used to work with...
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And of course-
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when I think about my daughter-
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and how she is-
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and what she looks like now.
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Last time you said
you'd try to contact her once more.
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You know what my ex thinks of that.
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She's managed to sabotage
my relationship with Pinja.
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Maybe you shouldn't give up
on the idea just yet.
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What about work?
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You agree you're a bit overqualified
foryour cleaning job.
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The problem is that I'm too honest.
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I don't know how to keep
my mouth shut at job interviews.
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I still dream of helping people
through my work.
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In some way.
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How do you see
your chances with men?
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Of course I'd like to find a man.
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He'd just have to be... exceptional.
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On the otherhand...
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...ordinary?
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Maarit, this is ourlast session, -
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so I want to be
as open as possible.
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I'm sure
you've heard the expression-
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"You can't make an omelet
without breaking eggs."
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If youwant a man, find one.
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And ifyou want to see
your daughter, go ring her doorbell.
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Don't hide yourself from people
forthe rest of your life.
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Life's too short for that.
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I think ourtime is up.
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Good luck.
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Thanks.
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Thank you for everything.
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A FILM BYSIMO HALINEN
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OPEN UPTO ME
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PRODUCED BY
LIISA PENTTILÄ
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WRITTEN AND DIRECTED BY
SIMO HALINEN
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Listen. What's your name?
- Maarit.
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I have to close my office
and fly to Spain.
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My father had a heart attack.
Could you tell your boss -
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I won't need cleaning
forthe next two weeks. - Okay.
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Make sure you double-lock the door.
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Drop this key into the maintenance
company's mail slot. - Okay.
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Hi.
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I'm sorry. The door was open.
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I'm a little late. I had trouble
finding the right entrance.
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Sami Suutari.
- Maarit Majantie.
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You're not Anna-Liisa?
- No. Anna-Liisa had to travel.
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She'll be back in two weeks.
- Oh shit.
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Can you give me a glass of water?
- Sure.
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Please sit down.
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Are you Anna-Liisa's assistant?
- Y... yes.
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My wife goes to her
and I was thinking...
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Do you have experience
with marital crises?
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From a man's perspective.
- Why?
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You have a moment to talk?
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I haven't slept in three days.
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It's that bad?
- Yes.
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Sure, we can have a chat.
If you want.
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That would be great.
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Please, come in.
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I've felt fora long time
I'm just a compromise to Julia, -
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someone she tries to live with.
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So you're both teachers
at the same school?
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Yes, I teach
physical education and health.
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Julia teaches math and chemistry.
She's also the vice-principal.
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You said
your wife can be manipulating.
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If you could change one thing
about your wife, what would it be?
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What would I change?
- Yes.
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Maybe...
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I'd like Julia to be a little...
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...less demanding.
- Less demanding?
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She can't relax even on weekends.
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We have to spend every single
moment on personal development-
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or quality time with the family, -
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renovating the house
or writing shopping lists.
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She won't give me or the kids
a moment's rest.
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Did you marry a control freak?
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Yes, I think that's the reason
I'm sitting here.
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These days when we go to bed...
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What happens?
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Nothing.
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Except that we both feel shitty.
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I haven't told this to anyone, but-
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I've always been sensitive
in that way-
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that I was never that macho,
mechanical go-getter in bed.
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I experienced a lot offailures
in sex when I was young.
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But then I met Julia and
everything worked out great.
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But I still knew
this was a sore spot for me.
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What is?
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I don't feel safe
if the woman doesn't...
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...Iove you?
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Yes.
- Sami.
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It's a fine and rare
quality in a man -
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when love and sex go hand in hand.
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But for some reason, -
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the world isn't an easy place
fora man who feels that way.
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I always thought therapy was
about talking about your mom.
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We can do that next time.
- Thursday at five, right?
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You play soccer?
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I actually coach our U-18 team.
- That's a fine sport.
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You like to watch it?
- Yeah. I played, too.
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Oh. Which team?
- FC Jaro.
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I didn't know
they had a women's team.
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I played in the men's team.
- As a woman?
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No.
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You used to be... a man?
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I probably should've told you
right away.
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If youwant to cancel Thursday...
- No. No. Absolutely not.
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Alright then.
Good luck in the game.
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Cover the wing.
- Yup.
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Thanks.
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Is Anna-Liisa here?
I go to her on Tuesdays, but-
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herphone is switched off.
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You didn't get here-mail?
- No.
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She'll be out of town fortwo weeks.
Herfather is very ill.
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Oh crap. - Anna-Liisa wanted me
to make sure the door is locked.
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Are you family?
- No.
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I'm her colleague.
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Jaana... Korhonen.
- Julia Holma.
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Since you're her colleague,
maybe you can help me.
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Can we talk?
- Sure, why not.
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Can we keep this between us?
I don't want to interfere -
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in Anna-Liisa's
patient relationships. - Sure.
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My husband and I
are going through a crisis.
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I asked him to come
and meet Anna-Liisa with me.
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I'd feel more confident
about ourfuture -
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if my husband found
somebody to talk to.
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But Sami has no friends,
except his soccer buddies.
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So Sami is your husband?
- Yes.
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Julia.
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It's lovely you're looking for help
foryour husband.
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But don't you think it would be
better ifhe found it himself?
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Maybe you should just let go ofhim
and see what happens?
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Maybe his eyes will open-
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when he sees you're no longer
afraid oflosing him.
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Teo, what's the problem?
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Take the balls with you.
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Red wine and pizza. On a Tuesday?
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I got a feeling today.
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Maybe we should
take it a little easier.
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We should relax.
Our home isn't a prison, is it?
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No, it isn't.
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Are the kids asleep?
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I'll go take a shower.
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It was amazing.
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It was as if Julia read my thoughts.
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Foronce, she was relaxed.
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When I went to take a shower,
she offered to wash my back.
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We had a lot offun.
- Including sex?
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It wasn't just the sex.
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We felt the same way
we did when we first met.
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I think we'll get over this crisis
ifwe work on it a little.
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I'm glad I can help.
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Can I call you
if I feel the need to talk?
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Okay.
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I guess our time is up.
- Right.
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Thanks. Thanks a lot.
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Excuse me, -
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but you live in the northern part
of town? -Yes. In Malminkartano.
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You came by car?
- You need a ride?
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If it's no trouble.
- No trouble at all.
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So you played for FC Jaro?
- Two seasons.
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I played for FC Kuusysi
in the early 90s.
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I think you guys once edged us
out of the Finnish Cup.
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1992! I remember
that game very well. - No way.
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What position?
- I was a fullback.
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No friggin' way!
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So you were the one who tripped me
in the box during injury time?
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I was about to break through!
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Sami. First of all,
we were fighting for the ball.
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Second, the minute
you realized you lost the ball, -
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you dove like
a marine archaeologist.
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I always thought
that if I ever met the guy...
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Now you have.
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Yeah. You've made quite a journey.
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You had someone who stood by you
through the process? - Nope.
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You live by yourself?
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I'm still waiting for the right one.
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The right man.
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I imagine you'd find one easily.
You're an attractive woman.
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Sami. I need to tell you
something important.
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Go ahead.
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Can we go some place and sit down?
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Sami, when you have
extra practice, -
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I have to hire
a substitute formy son.
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Dad...
- Stay out of this!
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I wanted Teo to come because
he usually organizes ourdefense.
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But that's alright.
I won't punish him forthat.
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Sami, I can see what kind of
man you are. I respect you.
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You're a man
who came to talk to a man.
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Teo. You're going
to practice tomorrow.
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Thanks.
- No problem.
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Okay, tell me.
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Maybe it's better
if you don't contact me again, -
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at least not for therapy.
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Two Desperatas.
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Thanks.
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Why not?
- Because I'm not a therapist.
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Are you joking?
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I have a degree in social work.
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I worked as a school counselor
forten years. Now I have to clean.
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The day we met
I was cleaning Anna-Liisa's office.
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I was trying on herclothes
when you suddenly showed up.
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That's how I ended up
playing the role of a therapist.
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I really wanted to help you.
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You're a nice man.
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I like you.
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I like you a lot.
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Please forgive me.
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The subject of this course
is close to your hearts:
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Sexuality.
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Isn't it close to your heart, too?
- It is.
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Julia doesn't give you any?
- Julia does, but do I?
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Teo, did you get the book?
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Did you?
- I didn't have time.
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Well, I've been thinking -
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we could try to talk about
the subject a bit more openly.
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We could discuss desires and wishes
that are a bit more marginal.
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But we'll start by talking about
the most common form, -
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the one without which
mankind wouldn't exist.
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Animal sex?
- C'mon, guys.
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Goddammit, guys!
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Seriously,
what do you know about sex?
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What do you know about love?
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What do you know
aboutbeing a man ora woman-
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who longs to be touched?
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Tell me.
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Sami.
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I'd like to ask you forsomething.
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Please don't tell anyone what I did.
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Why would I tell anyone?
- I don't know.
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It was a shitty thing to do.
- Don't worry about it.
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Maarit.
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I'm teaching sexuality
in health education.
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Would you be interested
in telling me about yourself?
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I'd like to open
my students' eyes to minorities.
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I don't feel like
I'm part of a minority.
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But we can try.
- That would be great.
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I don't know how easy it will be
to talk about my past with you.
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I had a crush on you.
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Call me tomorrow.
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WOMENS' SHELTER
STAFF
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Your references look really good.
There's just one thing.
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00:27:46,031 --> 00:27:49,467
We google ourapplicants
for safety reasons, -
250
00:27:50,369 --> 00:27:53,634
but I couldn't find anything
about Maarit Majantie.
251
00:27:54,506 --> 00:27:56,201
I changed my first name.
252
00:27:57,376 --> 00:28:03,440
Ithas to do with a process
I've undergone recently.
253
00:28:04,716 --> 00:28:07,207
Regarding my sexual identity.
254
00:28:08,587 --> 00:28:10,054
Okay.
255
00:28:10,789 --> 00:28:13,280
But this process wouldn't stop you-
256
00:28:13,492 --> 00:28:16,188
from giving
a hundred percent at work?
257
00:28:16,461 --> 00:28:18,986
I wouldn'thave applied
forthis ifit did.
258
00:28:19,998 --> 00:28:22,694
We're pretty open minded here, -
259
00:28:23,001 --> 00:28:25,526
but we'll still have
to think about it.
260
00:28:25,737 --> 00:28:27,568
I'll need to talk to my boss.
261
00:28:28,207 --> 00:28:29,799
I'm sure you understand -
262
00:28:30,042 --> 00:28:33,273
that shelter workers face
difficult situations at work.
263
00:28:34,379 --> 00:28:37,348
I'll call you in any case.
- Thanks.
264
00:28:46,992 --> 00:28:49,688
Good job, Teo!
265
00:28:50,162 --> 00:28:51,789
Hit the showers, guys!
266
00:29:02,174 --> 00:29:03,664
Good work.
267
00:29:04,376 --> 00:29:06,003
Who are you, by the way?
268
00:29:07,346 --> 00:29:09,007
I'm an old friend of Sami's.
269
00:29:09,248 --> 00:29:11,375
Are you a psychologist or something?
270
00:29:11,583 --> 00:29:14,143
I heard you and Sami talk
in my dad's pizzeria.
271
00:29:14,386 --> 00:29:16,320
You said something about therapy.
272
00:29:16,488 --> 00:29:19,286
I help Sami with the coaching stuff.
273
00:29:19,591 --> 00:29:22,458
Just between you and me.
274
00:29:30,202 --> 00:29:31,669
Don't get mad, but-
275
00:29:32,804 --> 00:29:34,635
are you a man orwoman?
276
00:29:35,540 --> 00:29:39,203
What do you mean? - You kind of
dig your body a little too much.
277
00:29:39,411 --> 00:29:42,039
The way Finnish women neverdo.
278
00:29:43,715 --> 00:29:46,081
Is there something wrong
with my body?
279
00:29:46,285 --> 00:29:47,775
Why shouldn't I dig it?
280
00:29:48,086 --> 00:29:50,987
Would it be better
if I moved like a wrestler? - No.
281
00:29:51,256 --> 00:29:53,247
I just meant you have a cool vibe.
282
00:30:01,466 --> 00:30:03,229
So, where do you want to go?
283
00:30:06,405 --> 00:30:08,236
What do you want to know?
284
00:30:08,473 --> 00:30:14,503
You could tell me
how Maarit became Maarit.
285
00:30:15,914 --> 00:30:17,381
Okay.
286
00:30:19,484 --> 00:30:23,818
I remember sitting under
the kitchen table when I was five.
287
00:30:24,623 --> 00:30:27,421
Abba's "Honey, Honey"
was playing on the radio.
288
00:30:29,594 --> 00:30:35,430
I was looking at my mom's legs
and suddenly I realized I'm a girl.
289
00:30:39,538 --> 00:30:42,803
I also realized
I had to hide it from everyone.
290
00:30:45,510 --> 00:30:49,378
My sexual fantasies were
really confusing fora long time.
291
00:30:52,084 --> 00:30:55,611
There were a lot of things
I didn't even dare to think about.
292
00:30:56,221 --> 00:31:00,214
At sixteen I had a crush
on a girl named Oona.
293
00:31:00,992 --> 00:31:04,189
We ended up in bed and
I had this strange feeling-
294
00:31:05,030 --> 00:31:09,467
that I was a girl
and Oona was a boy.
295
00:31:10,802 --> 00:31:13,737
And that it was okay for her, too.
296
00:31:14,373 --> 00:31:17,865
I felt somehow... liberated.
297
00:31:18,543 --> 00:31:22,104
And that I didn't have to be
afraid of that feeling.
298
00:31:24,349 --> 00:31:27,284
There's something important
you should understand.
299
00:31:27,486 --> 00:31:30,319
I've neverwanted to be
cured of my feelings, -
300
00:31:31,323 --> 00:31:33,257
only of my body.
301
00:31:34,993 --> 00:31:36,585
I thought that maybe-
302
00:31:36,795 --> 00:31:40,094
I just wasn't trying
hard enough to be a man.
303
00:31:41,500 --> 00:31:43,798
So I decided to try harder.
304
00:31:46,071 --> 00:31:48,631
I started taking soccerseriously.
305
00:31:49,141 --> 00:31:51,405
I enlisted in the army
as a volunteer.
306
00:31:51,576 --> 00:31:54,568
I got married and
started a family really quick.
307
00:31:56,882 --> 00:32:00,648
What about your wife? Did she know?
308
00:32:03,755 --> 00:32:06,724
I lived a double life
successfully for over ten years.
309
00:32:09,161 --> 00:32:12,358
I loved my wife and daughter.
310
00:32:14,599 --> 00:32:18,660
But I knew I was lying to myself-
311
00:32:19,671 --> 00:32:22,333
in the most important area
of my life.
312
00:32:23,375 --> 00:32:25,366
I longed to be touched, -
313
00:32:27,746 --> 00:32:30,044
but I couldn't let anyone touch me-
314
00:32:32,083 --> 00:32:37,316
because the body that longed
for the touch didn't exist.
315
00:32:39,424 --> 00:32:41,255
Except if I faked it.
316
00:32:44,763 --> 00:32:47,027
I don't know if you understand.
317
00:32:48,200 --> 00:32:49,963
Maybe I do.
318
00:33:27,305 --> 00:33:28,670
Call me.
319
00:34:19,791 --> 00:34:21,281
What's going on?
320
00:34:22,093 --> 00:34:25,620
Huh? - I'm starting to think
you have a mistress or something.
321
00:34:28,500 --> 00:34:29,990
Do you?
322
00:34:31,303 --> 00:34:32,668
No.
323
00:34:35,006 --> 00:34:38,942
I started therapy.
- Oh.
324
00:34:39,778 --> 00:34:44,010
That's great.
Are you seeing Anna-Liisa?
325
00:34:44,549 --> 00:34:46,278
I was going to, but then I...
326
00:34:47,919 --> 00:34:51,446
Would it be okay
if this was my thing?
327
00:34:52,324 --> 00:34:55,191
At least tell me ifit's
a man orwoman. - Awoman.
328
00:34:55,460 --> 00:34:57,121
What's hername?
329
00:35:01,032 --> 00:35:02,363
Maarit.
330
00:35:02,867 --> 00:35:05,233
Watch out for transference.
- Trans what?
331
00:35:05,503 --> 00:35:09,234
It's when the patient falls in love
with the therapist. - Oh.
332
00:35:10,575 --> 00:35:14,170
Maarit is fifty and has a mustache,
so you don't have to worry.
333
00:35:15,513 --> 00:35:17,572
Love can be blind to a mustache.
334
00:35:19,751 --> 00:35:21,275
That's what they say.
335
00:35:39,904 --> 00:35:41,371
Hello?
336
00:35:44,743 --> 00:35:46,938
Yes, I am. But that's my old name.
337
00:35:53,251 --> 00:35:54,980
Is it about my daughter?
338
00:35:58,556 --> 00:36:00,615
I'm sure you can tell me...
339
00:36:07,666 --> 00:36:11,295
I understand. I have Thursday off.
340
00:36:12,137 --> 00:36:13,798
I'll be there.
341
00:36:30,755 --> 00:36:34,691
I'm here to see Officer Haapoja.
- Third dooron the left.
342
00:36:37,162 --> 00:36:40,495
Alright, Mauritz. Maarit.
343
00:36:40,799 --> 00:36:45,065
The thing is, after you left town, -
344
00:36:46,137 --> 00:36:51,404
we've heard people
say all kinds of things.
345
00:36:51,910 --> 00:36:54,504
We ignored the talk
fora long time.
346
00:36:55,246 --> 00:36:58,374
But not too long ago, -
347
00:36:58,550 --> 00:37:01,610
Matias Nykvist and
his parents contacted us.
348
00:37:02,087 --> 00:37:05,955
Matias talked about an incident
he witnessed on a school field trip.
349
00:37:06,124 --> 00:37:08,649
It had to do with you
and his cousin Johannes.
350
00:37:08,993 --> 00:37:12,622
Matias came back
to the sauna to get his towel.
351
00:37:12,931 --> 00:37:18,335
He heard you and Johannes
talking in the dressing room.
352
00:37:18,503 --> 00:37:19,868
I rememberthat.
353
00:37:20,638 --> 00:37:25,439
Matias says you encouraged Johannes
to become a homosexual.
354
00:37:28,880 --> 00:37:35,046
Is it true? - I have never
encouraged anyone to do anything.
355
00:37:35,420 --> 00:37:38,583
I listened to what the teenagers
had on their minds and -
356
00:37:38,790 --> 00:37:41,657
told them to think
about their actions carefully.
357
00:37:41,926 --> 00:37:45,589
You already knew then
that youwere a transsexual, right?
358
00:37:46,498 --> 00:37:52,630
I'm transgender. - Are you
interested in men or women or both?
359
00:37:53,838 --> 00:37:55,669
What are you getting at?
360
00:37:57,008 --> 00:38:01,377
Matias told us
he stopped and listened to you-
361
00:38:01,546 --> 00:38:05,107
because it all started to sound
so strange. - What did?
362
00:38:05,350 --> 00:38:07,079
He heard heavy breathing.
363
00:38:08,553 --> 00:38:11,420
Youwhispered and
Johannes breathed heavily.
364
00:38:12,757 --> 00:38:17,592
I comforted him. He wasn't
breathing heavily. He was crying.
365
00:38:17,796 --> 00:38:20,321
Matias said he peeked
through the window.
366
00:38:20,532 --> 00:38:23,296
You were holding
Johannes in yourarms-
367
00:38:23,501 --> 00:38:27,460
and Johannes was breathing heavily.
- There was nothing sexual in it.
368
00:38:27,672 --> 00:38:30,664
But you admit you touched him?
- Yes, but...
369
00:38:30,875 --> 00:38:33,935
Ayoung naked boy
awakened the woman in you?
370
00:38:34,245 --> 00:38:37,078
I would never do
anything like that!
371
00:38:42,453 --> 00:38:44,421
Why don't you ask Johannes?
372
00:38:45,790 --> 00:38:47,451
Johannes is dead.
373
00:38:51,596 --> 00:38:54,292
He was found three weeks ago
underthe bridge.
374
00:38:56,801 --> 00:38:59,326
When a young person
takes his own life, -
375
00:39:00,505 --> 00:39:02,496
we startlooking for reasons.
376
00:39:03,908 --> 00:39:06,570
And the most likely suspect
is the person-
377
00:39:07,445 --> 00:39:09,936
who tried to help him, right?
378
00:39:10,882 --> 00:39:14,147
At the moment we don't have
the evidence to press charges.
379
00:39:14,385 --> 00:39:16,580
But we'll continue
the investigation.
380
00:39:16,821 --> 00:39:19,449
If I were you,
I'd choose my company carefully.
381
00:40:17,782 --> 00:40:19,374
May I come in?
382
00:40:29,494 --> 00:40:31,155
This is for you.
383
00:40:36,034 --> 00:40:37,968
The SIM card is inside.
384
00:40:39,537 --> 00:40:41,061
I'll pay the bills.
385
00:40:41,706 --> 00:40:45,870
Yourmom told me not to call you.
386
00:40:48,112 --> 00:40:51,377
You might want to hide it
and keep the volume off.
387
00:40:54,886 --> 00:40:57,411
I just came from the police station.
388
00:40:59,223 --> 00:41:02,454
They wanted to ask
about Johannes Pöyhönen.
389
00:41:04,329 --> 00:41:06,263
I didn't know he died.
390
00:41:07,665 --> 00:41:12,398
Johannes's cousin Matias
has told lies to the police.
391
00:41:13,237 --> 00:41:17,367
And now they think
I'm somehow guilty of his suicide.
392
00:41:18,509 --> 00:41:20,602
Even though it's just the opposite.
393
00:41:23,581 --> 00:41:27,881
Did you ever talk to Johannes?
- Sometimes.
394
00:41:38,863 --> 00:41:40,262
Pinja.
395
00:41:41,632 --> 00:41:46,069
I don't expect you to think of me
as your father anymore.
396
00:41:48,039 --> 00:41:50,132
I mean, how could you.
397
00:41:50,641 --> 00:41:52,836
But there's one thing
I want to tell you.
398
00:41:54,178 --> 00:41:57,670
Inside I'm the same person
I've always been.
399
00:42:04,122 --> 00:42:05,487
Hi!
400
00:42:12,296 --> 00:42:14,161
Pinja, please go to your room.
401
00:42:20,571 --> 00:42:24,166
I can't look at you. - I didn't know
whether to come as a man or a woman.
402
00:42:24,409 --> 00:42:27,572
You shouldn't have come as either.
- I had no choice.
403
00:42:29,714 --> 00:42:33,150
How are you?
- How am I?
404
00:42:33,785 --> 00:42:36,948
Just when the rumors stopped,
they started up again.
405
00:42:37,121 --> 00:42:40,386
Only this time it's worse.
- They're lies. You know that.
406
00:42:40,558 --> 00:42:42,082
Talking is bad enough.
407
00:42:42,293 --> 00:42:45,262
No man is ever going to touch me.
408
00:42:45,463 --> 00:42:47,931
Pirjo.
- You have to go.
409
00:42:48,499 --> 00:42:50,364
And don't contact Pinja.
410
00:42:50,701 --> 00:42:52,726
This has been pure hell forher.
411
00:43:46,124 --> 00:43:49,116
Sorry. My boss gave me a hard time.
412
00:43:49,360 --> 00:43:52,261
It's 0-0. You didn't miss anything.
413
00:44:00,571 --> 00:44:05,736
Number5 played in FC KaPs
four years ago. I coached him.
414
00:44:06,010 --> 00:44:08,945
Wow. So you kind of discovered him.
415
00:44:11,082 --> 00:44:13,550
Sort of. Look!
416
00:44:32,503 --> 00:44:34,164
Nice being at a game.
417
00:44:46,484 --> 00:44:48,418
What kind of wine do you like?
418
00:44:49,320 --> 00:44:51,788
I don't care. As long as it's red.
419
00:44:52,823 --> 00:44:54,450
I thought so.
420
00:45:54,885 --> 00:45:58,218
We'll only do what feels
comfortable. Okay? - Okay.
421
00:47:21,138 --> 00:47:24,630
He's a lot less inhibited
and more active in bed.
422
00:47:24,875 --> 00:47:29,505
Although I'm a bit confused
about him going to therapy, -
423
00:47:31,048 --> 00:47:32,845
but I'm also relieved.
424
00:47:33,117 --> 00:47:36,814
You sound as if something
is still bothering you.
425
00:47:37,555 --> 00:47:41,821
I still don't enjoy it that much.
With Sami.
426
00:47:45,196 --> 00:47:47,687
There's something between us.
427
00:47:49,367 --> 00:47:51,835
I just don't know
if it's because of me or him.
428
00:47:52,903 --> 00:47:58,933
Other men look at you too
Anyone can see it's true
429
00:47:59,677 --> 00:48:06,173
But this can work, I can reckon
430
00:48:07,752 --> 00:48:11,449
I won't leave you alone
for a second
431
00:49:19,290 --> 00:49:23,659
Tell me. Did you say something
to the police about my dad?
432
00:49:26,664 --> 00:49:28,996
Tell me what it was.
433
00:49:29,767 --> 00:49:32,463
Did my dad do something to Johannes?
434
00:49:33,404 --> 00:49:35,201
Orwas it someone else?
435
00:49:40,244 --> 00:49:42,235
Youruncle, perhaps?
436
00:49:42,446 --> 00:49:44,038
Get the hell out of here.
437
00:50:38,035 --> 00:50:41,698
Pinja! I've sent you
at least twenty text messages!
438
00:50:42,406 --> 00:50:44,840
I know why Johannes killed himself.
439
00:50:48,746 --> 00:50:50,111
Hello?
440
00:51:17,074 --> 00:51:18,439
Hi.
441
00:51:19,276 --> 00:51:21,767
You remember me?
- Sure.
442
00:51:24,348 --> 00:51:27,317
How are you?
- I'm good.
443
00:51:27,718 --> 00:51:30,243
You're a psychologist, right?
444
00:51:31,589 --> 00:51:33,887
School counselor, actually.
445
00:51:35,159 --> 00:51:38,686
Can I buy you a cup of coffee?
- Okay.
446
00:51:42,132 --> 00:51:43,565
Let me guess.
447
00:51:44,234 --> 00:51:45,997
You want to talk about girls.
448
00:51:52,576 --> 00:51:55,443
Teo, you can ask me
anything you want.
449
00:52:16,467 --> 00:52:17,957
Hi.
- Hi.
450
00:52:24,475 --> 00:52:25,840
Look.
451
00:52:28,545 --> 00:52:31,946
Girls are sending him smoke signals
and he just sits alone.
452
00:52:32,116 --> 00:52:35,449
I wonder what's wrong with him.
- Maybe he likes boys more.
453
00:52:37,121 --> 00:52:38,611
He's not gay.
454
00:52:39,556 --> 00:52:42,957
He's just good-looking.
Girls make him nervous.
455
00:52:43,193 --> 00:52:46,128
I'm not saying
he doesn't like girls.
456
00:52:46,664 --> 00:52:48,825
That would be the worst alternative.
457
00:52:49,466 --> 00:52:53,630
What? - I read somewhere that
bisexuals are the most deceptive.
458
00:52:55,172 --> 00:52:56,867
You may be right.
459
00:52:57,675 --> 00:52:59,370
That's a shame.
460
00:52:59,910 --> 00:53:02,743
In the old days,
boys his age would go to a brothel -
461
00:53:03,047 --> 00:53:06,039
and professionals taught them
how to satisfy a woman.
462
00:53:06,917 --> 00:53:09,477
Now we all sit
on a therapist's couch.
463
00:53:12,156 --> 00:53:13,748
Are you seeing Maarit today?
464
00:53:15,292 --> 00:53:17,624
I hope it won't be
another late night.
465
00:54:02,673 --> 00:54:06,200
I saw your goalie today.
- Teo?
466
00:54:07,244 --> 00:54:09,542
I bumped into him
at the railway station.
467
00:54:09,747 --> 00:54:11,715
He wanted to talk over coffee.
468
00:54:13,784 --> 00:54:17,481
You don't have to worry.
He thinks we're just friends.
469
00:54:20,557 --> 00:54:24,015
Does he know you're?
- He could tell right away.
470
00:54:24,528 --> 00:54:26,359
Unlike some.
471
00:54:33,704 --> 00:54:35,672
What did you talk about?
472
00:54:36,073 --> 00:54:38,564
He feels underpressure with sex.
473
00:54:38,876 --> 00:54:42,277
He likes girls, but he'd like
to try all kinds of things.
474
00:54:42,513 --> 00:54:45,277
Group sex. Olderwomen. Boys.
475
00:54:54,458 --> 00:54:55,982
Are you mad at me?
476
00:54:56,827 --> 00:54:58,260
No.
477
00:54:59,463 --> 00:55:01,431
I miss my old job.
478
00:55:01,832 --> 00:55:04,528
That's why
I wanted to talk with Teo.
479
00:55:05,169 --> 00:55:06,796
I understand that.
480
00:55:14,211 --> 00:55:18,079
What are you doing next weekend?
- Nothing special. Why?
481
00:55:18,515 --> 00:55:21,416
It's my birthday.
- How old will you be?
482
00:55:21,819 --> 00:55:23,878
Twenty-eight.
483
00:55:25,489 --> 00:55:29,789
Last time you said
you'd like to go somewhere with me.
484
00:55:30,027 --> 00:55:34,293
Out of town.
- Why not.
485
00:55:38,001 --> 00:55:39,696
I'll have to think about it.
486
00:55:49,446 --> 00:55:53,075
Do you have to work too hard
at your dad's pizzeria? - No.
487
00:55:55,485 --> 00:55:57,544
Are girls teasing you?
488
00:55:58,255 --> 00:55:59,552
No.
489
00:56:02,926 --> 00:56:05,520
Is Sami too hard on you in soccer?
- No.
490
00:56:06,830 --> 00:56:10,129
Whatever it is, I won't accept this.
491
00:56:11,902 --> 00:56:14,462
You were one
of my best students last year.
492
00:56:15,072 --> 00:56:18,405
You have to retake the test.
Make sure you study hard.
493
00:56:19,243 --> 00:56:20,574
Okay?
494
00:56:23,213 --> 00:56:25,238
What did you tell your wife?
495
00:56:26,250 --> 00:56:29,048
I told her I'm going to see
my old soccer buddies.
496
00:56:29,453 --> 00:56:31,444
That's true, in a way.
497
00:56:46,503 --> 00:56:48,471
I think that's enough.
498
00:57:08,859 --> 00:57:10,349
Happy birthday.
499
00:57:11,929 --> 00:57:13,294
Thanks.
500
00:57:58,909 --> 00:58:02,504
A GT for the lady. What would
you like? -A vodka tonic, please.
501
00:58:16,360 --> 00:58:20,660
Here you go, Prince Valiant.
The drinks are on the house.
502
00:58:23,333 --> 00:58:24,698
Thanks.
503
00:58:30,540 --> 00:58:33,168
We're in the company of friends.
504
00:58:48,125 --> 00:58:49,615
Let's go to ourroom.
505
00:58:52,462 --> 00:58:54,430
I'd like to dance some more.
506
00:58:58,802 --> 00:59:00,326
I'd like to go.
507
00:59:02,372 --> 00:59:03,669
Okay.
508
00:59:07,878 --> 00:59:11,177
What happened?
- Nothing.
509
00:59:28,865 --> 00:59:33,029
Seriously. If something's
bothering you, tell me.
510
00:59:34,137 --> 00:59:35,661
Okay.
511
00:59:35,872 --> 00:59:38,204
You intruded
on my life pretty quickly.
512
00:59:41,578 --> 00:59:43,375
Sometimes I wonder...
513
00:59:44,681 --> 00:59:47,946
...if you realize
where your boundaries are.
514
00:59:51,788 --> 00:59:54,655
I want to live like everybody else.
515
00:59:56,159 --> 00:59:59,185
You can't expect people
to think of you -
516
01:00:01,131 --> 01:00:03,964
as an ordinary person.
- Who do you mean?
517
01:00:04,167 --> 01:00:07,534
For example... You talked to Teo.
- I haven't told him anything.
518
01:00:07,737 --> 01:00:10,069
I still don't think
it was a good idea.
519
01:00:10,373 --> 01:00:12,671
You think
I shouldn't have helped him?
520
01:00:14,578 --> 01:00:18,674
Are you afraid I'll spread some
minority bacteria in your team?
521
01:00:18,915 --> 01:00:23,284
No, but it's hard for him as it is.
522
01:00:23,487 --> 01:00:27,651
You might confuse him even more.
523
01:00:31,695 --> 01:00:33,185
Whoa.
524
01:00:36,099 --> 01:00:38,966
I thought you'd be
the last person to think of me-
525
01:00:40,403 --> 01:00:42,303
as some sort of a threat.
526
01:00:45,342 --> 01:00:49,335
Nice birthday party.
- C'mon.
527
01:00:51,014 --> 01:00:52,413
What is it?
528
01:00:52,682 --> 01:00:55,310
Okay. I'll tell you.
This was a test.
529
01:00:55,619 --> 01:00:59,316
To see if you can relax with me
a hundred kilometers from home.
530
01:00:59,489 --> 01:01:02,686
You failed.
- I'm not going to argue with you.
531
01:01:03,026 --> 01:01:05,586
When I met you and
you told me about yourself, -
532
01:01:05,795 --> 01:01:07,626
I thought you were a good man.
533
01:01:07,831 --> 01:01:10,425
Sensitive, brave and genuine.
534
01:01:11,134 --> 01:01:14,069
You were a wreck and I helped you.
535
01:01:14,404 --> 01:01:17,965
Butnow that you got
yourerection back, thanks to me, -
536
01:01:18,141 --> 01:01:20,200
you changed.
- That's bullshit.
537
01:01:22,779 --> 01:01:25,373
I wonder what you wanted
from me afterall.
538
01:01:26,349 --> 01:01:29,716
Are you one of those men
who want to have sexwith a freak-
539
01:01:29,920 --> 01:01:32,718
because they're
so fucking sexually confused?
540
01:01:33,557 --> 01:01:35,548
Don't expect me to call you.
541
01:01:35,792 --> 01:01:37,760
Don't expect me to help you -
542
01:01:37,928 --> 01:01:40,988
when you call crying
about your cold-hearted wife.
543
01:01:44,801 --> 01:01:49,295
I was ready to give you as much
or as little as you wanted.
544
01:01:50,073 --> 01:01:53,440
I only wanted
you to respect my feelings.
545
01:01:54,511 --> 01:01:56,672
Apparently it was too much to ask.
546
01:02:11,127 --> 01:02:14,119
Greece has weighed
substantial budget cuts-
547
01:02:14,331 --> 01:02:17,391
that are required
forthe EU bailout loan.
548
01:02:17,567 --> 01:02:20,536
Could you put music on?
- The riots in Athens are...
549
01:02:20,737 --> 01:02:23,171
Any kind of music.
550
01:02:27,611 --> 01:02:29,010
Yes.
551
01:03:44,587 --> 01:03:45,986
Hi!
552
01:03:47,123 --> 01:03:49,353
I thought you were
coming back tomorrow.
553
01:03:51,328 --> 01:03:54,354
I got tired of
the guys horsing around.
554
01:03:54,964 --> 01:03:57,797
Dad!
- I'll be there in a minute.
555
01:04:23,026 --> 01:04:24,687
Do you love me?
556
01:04:28,631 --> 01:04:30,189
Of course.
557
01:04:31,501 --> 01:04:34,402
Why? Of course I love you.
558
01:04:51,454 --> 01:04:53,217
I'll go check on the kids.
559
01:04:59,763 --> 01:05:01,253
Oh, one thing.
560
01:05:02,265 --> 01:05:04,130
I quit therapy.
561
01:05:24,421 --> 01:05:26,787
Did you borrow mascara
from your dad?
562
01:05:27,090 --> 01:05:28,717
Nice tranny look.
563
01:05:28,992 --> 01:05:31,688
Did yourdad teach you
how to put makeup on?
564
01:05:33,596 --> 01:05:37,123
Is she mute because
he screwed hertoo?
565
01:05:37,734 --> 01:05:40,396
Didn't he like boys more?
566
01:05:40,737 --> 01:05:42,227
Look at her.
567
01:05:59,756 --> 01:06:01,383
Bye bye.
568
01:06:40,029 --> 01:06:41,428
Excuse me.
569
01:06:42,098 --> 01:06:44,794
We met two weeks ago
at Anna-Liisa's door.
570
01:06:47,003 --> 01:06:50,564
I don't remember.
- I do.
571
01:06:50,840 --> 01:06:53,502
Why did you tell me
youwere a therapist?
572
01:06:55,211 --> 01:06:58,703
Do therapists make so little money
they have to clean too?
573
01:07:00,617 --> 01:07:04,951
I know a thing or two
about psychotherapy.
574
01:07:05,889 --> 01:07:08,653
But no,
I'm not a licensed therapist.
575
01:07:10,660 --> 01:07:14,152
I have a feeling
I need to talk to Anna-Liisa.
576
01:07:15,598 --> 01:07:17,031
Julia!
577
01:07:28,111 --> 01:07:31,205
What's your name?
- Maarit. Maarit Majantie.
578
01:07:33,550 --> 01:07:34,915
Maarit?
579
01:07:36,819 --> 01:07:40,152
Don't tell me you know my husband.
Sami.
580
01:07:41,791 --> 01:07:45,090
My husband has been going
to a therapist named Maarit.
581
01:07:47,797 --> 01:07:52,029
Did you tell him too
you're a therapist?
582
01:07:52,635 --> 01:07:55,160
I told him the truth
almost right away.
583
01:07:55,572 --> 01:07:58,507
And it pretty much
ended then and there.
584
01:07:58,741 --> 01:08:01,175
What kind of therapy
did you give him?
585
01:08:02,111 --> 01:08:03,772
Well, let's just say-
586
01:08:04,714 --> 01:08:08,445
I opened
some emotional locks in him.
587
01:08:08,985 --> 01:08:11,476
I'm sure you've noticed them too.
588
01:08:13,489 --> 01:08:15,081
You're a cleaner.
589
01:08:15,625 --> 01:08:17,149
You wantme to believe-
590
01:08:17,360 --> 01:08:20,022
that Sami has opened up
about our marriage to you?
591
01:08:20,263 --> 01:08:21,628
Yeah.
592
01:08:22,098 --> 01:08:25,329
Or maybe he was
interested in me only because-
593
01:08:26,369 --> 01:08:28,360
I'm a transgender woman.
594
01:08:39,616 --> 01:08:41,015
Teo, focus!
595
01:08:42,051 --> 01:08:44,110
Good job, Teo! Get it!
596
01:09:57,193 --> 01:09:59,525
Did you have sex with her?
597
01:10:03,433 --> 01:10:05,230
Did you fuck her?
598
01:10:10,807 --> 01:10:13,742
Sami, why?
599
01:10:16,179 --> 01:10:19,444
I thought we were both
working to save our marriage.
600
01:10:20,283 --> 01:10:23,081
I thought
you finally wanted me in bed.
601
01:10:23,286 --> 01:10:25,117
Now I have to go
get tested for AIDS!
602
01:10:25,321 --> 01:10:28,313
You don't have to worry about that.
- Forfuck's sake!
603
01:10:30,159 --> 01:10:33,356
That person is dangerous.
She should be locked up.
604
01:10:33,930 --> 01:10:35,454
What were you thinking?
605
01:10:35,631 --> 01:10:37,963
I don't know.
I've been pretty confused.
606
01:10:38,201 --> 01:10:39,566
How confused?
607
01:10:40,636 --> 01:10:43,469
Were you thinking of
playing house with Maarit?
608
01:10:43,673 --> 01:10:47,006
And introducing her to our kids
as their new stepmother?
609
01:10:47,844 --> 01:10:49,675
Afreak like that would be happy-
610
01:10:49,879 --> 01:10:53,440
if she got to feel motherly
feelings. - She has a child.
611
01:10:54,083 --> 01:10:55,812
That's fucking gross.
612
01:10:59,388 --> 01:11:02,084
You realize how repulsive
you look to me now?
613
01:11:04,360 --> 01:11:07,420
Get out of here. Don't come back.
614
01:11:08,197 --> 01:11:10,097
We're done.
615
01:11:10,433 --> 01:11:13,231
You'll need a court order
to see the kids. - Please.
616
01:11:13,469 --> 01:11:15,960
Get out! Go!
617
01:11:21,444 --> 01:11:22,877
Juliet?
618
01:11:24,580 --> 01:11:27,276
We were doing Romeo and Juliet
in drama class.
619
01:11:27,517 --> 01:11:29,576
I was Juliet. Johannes was Romeo.
620
01:11:32,288 --> 01:11:35,746
"Juliet, I'll leave now.
I can't stand my fatheranymore."
621
01:11:36,492 --> 01:11:39,256
"I guess you know
what he does to me."
622
01:11:41,097 --> 01:11:42,997
"Make the play a good one."
623
01:11:43,199 --> 01:11:45,667
"And say hi to your dad
in Helsinki."
624
01:11:46,402 --> 01:11:50,668
"He was the only one
who tried to help me. - Romeo."
625
01:11:52,809 --> 01:11:54,538
Johannes gave this to you?
626
01:11:55,244 --> 01:11:58,270
I found it in my pocket
afterthe last rehearsal.
627
01:11:59,882 --> 01:12:02,214
I wrote about it in my diary.
628
01:12:03,586 --> 01:12:06,111
I don't want to accuse anybody, -
629
01:12:06,389 --> 01:12:09,415
but I want people to stop
telling lies about my dad.
630
01:12:17,633 --> 01:12:21,034
Lfit's okay with you, I'd like
to keep this letter. Thanks.
631
01:12:38,387 --> 01:12:41,618
Thls is a very unfortunate
situation forme as well.
632
01:12:41,824 --> 01:12:44,452
I should actually
report you to the police.
633
01:12:45,094 --> 01:12:48,461
But since this therapist
orthe couple you deceived -
634
01:12:48,664 --> 01:12:51,098
don't want to go to the police, -
635
01:12:51,334 --> 01:12:53,393
I'll temper justice with mercy.
636
01:12:54,203 --> 01:12:56,865
Why would you do
something like that?
637
01:12:58,007 --> 01:13:01,943
You know this will affect your
status as a job applicant, right?
638
01:13:04,747 --> 01:13:06,715
I'm really sorry.
639
01:13:08,050 --> 01:13:15,650
Don't pretend to be something
you can't or don't want to be.
640
01:13:16,459 --> 01:13:18,154
And forthe boys especially:
641
01:13:18,361 --> 01:13:23,264
Those oiled, shaved chicks
on porn sites are far from reality.
642
01:13:27,870 --> 01:13:29,303
Sorry.
643
01:13:30,339 --> 01:13:33,274
Is anyone brave enough to tell us-
644
01:13:33,509 --> 01:13:38,071
what is the most important thing
when two men and women have sex?
645
01:13:41,250 --> 01:13:43,946
I mean when two people, -
646
01:13:44,787 --> 01:13:48,723
a man and a woman,
for example, have sex.
647
01:13:56,999 --> 01:13:59,467
Teo. Please tell us-
648
01:14:00,469 --> 01:14:04,735
what you think
is the most important thing in sex.
649
01:14:07,677 --> 01:14:09,076
I don't know.
650
01:14:09,278 --> 01:14:12,270
Could it be... a good old anal fuck?
651
01:14:14,817 --> 01:14:17,809
Do you have experience
in the act you mentioned?
652
01:14:19,722 --> 01:14:23,852
I mean, it's a way for gay men-
653
01:14:24,260 --> 01:14:28,594
to show they want to be
submissive to their partner.
654
01:14:29,999 --> 01:14:32,524
Well, do you?
- No.
655
01:14:33,202 --> 01:14:36,467
Then don't talk like that
if you can't stand by your words.
656
01:14:37,373 --> 01:14:41,104
Maybe we'll discuss birth control
next if there are no questions.
657
01:14:43,846 --> 01:14:48,408
Yes? - What about transsexuals?
Where do you fuck them?
658
01:14:53,055 --> 01:14:55,250
I don't know.
- Are you sure?
659
01:14:58,160 --> 01:15:01,186
Teo. Out.
660
01:15:05,401 --> 01:15:06,800
Out!
661
01:15:10,873 --> 01:15:13,706
My cell phone.
- Don't even think about it. Out.
662
01:15:52,915 --> 01:15:54,280
Hi!
663
01:15:57,486 --> 01:15:59,454
You need a ride?
664
01:16:02,391 --> 01:16:04,188
I'm a gentleman.
665
01:16:06,996 --> 01:16:12,332
You need extra money?
A hundred euros for fifteen minutes.
666
01:16:20,509 --> 01:16:23,444
My wife had a stroke a yearago.
667
01:16:24,213 --> 01:16:27,239
My evenings tend to be lonely.
668
01:16:27,783 --> 01:16:31,583
I've been thinking about finding
someone for a long-term thing.
669
01:16:31,754 --> 01:16:33,619
But I don't want a Russian woman.
670
01:16:36,592 --> 01:16:38,423
I can't do this.
671
01:16:38,694 --> 01:16:40,093
Stop.
672
01:16:40,629 --> 01:16:42,028
Stop.
673
01:16:42,932 --> 01:16:44,297
Stop.
674
01:16:51,073 --> 01:16:55,009
If you need money,
I can give it to you anyway.
675
01:17:28,110 --> 01:17:29,509
Yes?
676
01:17:32,114 --> 01:17:35,550
No, I'm not in a hurry.
On the contrary.
677
01:17:37,653 --> 01:17:39,416
It would be different-
678
01:17:39,588 --> 01:17:42,751
if there was something disturbing
in your appearance.
679
01:17:42,992 --> 01:17:44,653
But I see an educated person-
680
01:17:44,994 --> 01:17:47,792
with the right degree
and experience for the job.
681
01:17:50,199 --> 01:17:53,691
So you don't see
my sexual status as a problem?
682
01:17:54,136 --> 01:17:57,162
Our customers have other things
to worry about.
683
01:17:58,207 --> 01:18:01,768
Tell me something. Do you hate men?
- No.
684
01:18:04,547 --> 01:18:06,378
I don't hate men.
685
01:18:08,484 --> 01:18:12,545
I just never felt I was one of them.
686
01:18:12,922 --> 01:18:15,482
That world was
totally foreign to me.
687
01:18:15,758 --> 01:18:17,350
From the inside.
688
01:18:17,860 --> 01:18:20,158
I ask the same question
from everyone.
689
01:18:20,362 --> 01:18:23,525
Anyone who works here
must have their emotions in check.
690
01:18:23,799 --> 01:18:28,702
I think I can see things
also from the man's point of view.
691
01:18:30,372 --> 01:18:32,203
I can imagine that.
692
01:18:32,408 --> 01:18:34,603
I've interviewed seven applicants.
693
01:18:34,877 --> 01:18:39,371
You seem the most experienced
and motivated. When can you start?
694
01:18:42,484 --> 01:18:44,714
Is Monday okay? Eight o'clock?
695
01:18:46,388 --> 01:18:47,753
Yes.
696
01:18:48,791 --> 01:18:50,850
Good. I'll see you then.
697
01:18:54,196 --> 01:18:56,687
Remember to bring your tax card.
- I will.
698
01:19:23,392 --> 01:19:27,328
Mom, listen.
I can't talk about Sami right now.
699
01:19:28,030 --> 01:19:30,828
Make sure
the kids go to bed on time.
700
01:19:32,501 --> 01:19:33,832
Okay.
701
01:19:58,327 --> 01:20:00,318
What are you doing here?
- Is Sami home?
702
01:20:00,496 --> 01:20:02,191
He doesn't live here anymore.
703
01:20:02,464 --> 01:20:06,195
He confiscated my phone. It'd
be friggin' nice to have it back.
704
01:20:06,368 --> 01:20:08,461
You want to call someone?
705
01:20:08,904 --> 01:20:12,840
Yeah. My dad's waiting for me
at the pizzeria. - Come on in.
706
01:20:19,048 --> 01:20:21,016
You look like a drowned rat.
707
01:20:21,350 --> 01:20:24,046
I'll throw your clothes
in the dryer. - I'm okay.
708
01:20:24,253 --> 01:20:28,087
Take your jacket and jeans off.
You'II get sick.
709
01:20:28,490 --> 01:20:30,082
I'm serious.
710
01:20:45,040 --> 01:20:46,507
I want the photos.
711
01:20:49,611 --> 01:20:52,546
You took photos of me.
I want them deleted.
712
01:20:55,050 --> 01:20:56,381
Fine.
713
01:20:59,888 --> 01:21:01,412
Wait here.
714
01:21:02,725 --> 01:21:05,751
I'll be there in half an hour.
Bye.
715
01:21:06,528 --> 01:21:08,655
Here you go. Now yourpants are hot.
716
01:21:20,175 --> 01:21:21,437
What?
717
01:21:21,910 --> 01:21:25,209
Do you think I'm scary? As a woman.
718
01:21:27,082 --> 01:21:30,210
No. Notreally.
719
01:21:32,321 --> 01:21:33,652
Good.
720
01:21:57,045 --> 01:21:58,535
Hold me.
721
01:22:00,516 --> 01:22:02,814
I've had a terrible week.
722
01:22:14,196 --> 01:22:16,187
You feel so good.
723
01:22:35,117 --> 01:22:36,448
Teo, I don't...
724
01:22:41,290 --> 01:22:42,757
I don't know...
725
01:22:46,762 --> 01:22:49,253
Okay, they're deleted.
726
01:22:50,999 --> 01:22:54,662
Was there anything else?
- You could apologize.
727
01:22:54,870 --> 01:22:56,565
Why should I apologize?
728
01:22:56,839 --> 01:23:00,138
Why the fuck
did you tell Julia everything?
729
01:23:00,342 --> 01:23:03,072
Your wife told me
she was going to the police.
730
01:23:03,378 --> 01:23:06,836
I couldn't protect you anymore
and risk my reputation.
731
01:23:07,182 --> 01:23:11,619
It felt good, actually.
I finally stood up for myself.
732
01:23:11,887 --> 01:23:16,256
You destroyed my marriage
and my relationship with my kids!
733
01:23:16,492 --> 01:23:21,293
And you're saying you felt good!
- You knew what you got into.
734
01:23:21,497 --> 01:23:25,365
Don't tell me I ruined your
marriage. You did that yourself.
735
01:23:25,534 --> 01:23:27,126
Fucking therapist!
736
01:23:27,336 --> 01:23:30,134
You're a real genius
at twisting words!
737
01:23:31,640 --> 01:23:34,006
Open the door!
- Sami, calm down! Sami!
738
01:23:35,878 --> 01:23:37,402
Sami, listen!
739
01:23:40,849 --> 01:23:43,943
Sami, calm down! - Can't you see
what you lured me into?
740
01:23:44,286 --> 01:23:46,311
You ruined my life!
- Listen!
741
01:24:02,838 --> 01:24:04,237
Sami.
742
01:24:06,575 --> 01:24:12,377
Hitting me doesn't change the fact
that you had a crush on me.
743
01:24:39,374 --> 01:24:41,069
Are you okay?
744
01:24:46,848 --> 01:24:48,611
Are you?
745
01:24:49,651 --> 01:24:51,448
Yeah.
746
01:24:54,089 --> 01:24:55,784
See you at school.
747
01:24:57,593 --> 01:24:59,288
See you at school.
748
01:26:04,326 --> 01:26:05,623
Pinja.
749
01:26:15,837 --> 01:26:19,466
Does your mom know you're here?
- I called herfrom the train.
750
01:26:20,709 --> 01:26:24,702
I would've fixed myself up
if I knew you were coming.
751
01:26:25,247 --> 01:26:28,011
You don't have to change
clothes back and forth.
752
01:26:29,217 --> 01:26:30,775
You mustbe hungry.
753
01:26:30,986 --> 01:26:33,386
You've been sitting
on the train all night.
754
01:26:34,589 --> 01:26:38,582
I'll get my coat and we'll go
to the mall and get something.
755
01:26:42,864 --> 01:26:44,456
Don't go anywhere.
756
01:26:57,746 --> 01:27:00,738
I came to get my work stuff,
if that's okay.
757
01:27:16,264 --> 01:27:18,789
I was hoping
things wouldn't end this way.
758
01:27:26,041 --> 01:27:27,770
What I said about the kids...
759
01:27:30,512 --> 01:27:33,072
Of course they need theirfather.
760
01:27:37,385 --> 01:27:41,219
As hard as this is,
at the same time I'm relieved.
761
01:27:44,025 --> 01:27:46,619
We don't have to act happy anymore.
762
01:28:51,259 --> 01:28:58,461
The rumors about you and Johannes.
They stopped.
763
01:29:00,468 --> 01:29:05,462
How come?
- Well, they just did.
764
01:29:06,174 --> 01:29:08,836
Rumors don't just stop.
765
01:29:09,277 --> 01:29:14,112
I showed the police a letter
Johannes wrote a day before he died.
766
01:29:17,052 --> 01:29:19,612
Johannes told
a thing or two about his dad.
767
01:29:22,090 --> 01:29:24,183
You went to the police station?
768
01:29:25,527 --> 01:29:27,620
To defend me?
769
01:29:28,697 --> 01:29:30,130
Yes.
770
01:29:46,615 --> 01:29:48,549
Dad, your makeup is running.
771
01:32:22,871 --> 01:32:25,965
Translated by Aretta Vähälä
Proofread by Rich Lyons
771
01:32:26,305 --> 01:32:32,941
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