1 00:00:01,040 --> 00:00:03,920 In previous episodes: 2 00:00:04,000 --> 00:00:07,880 I have bought the engagement ring, and I will propose to him. 3 00:00:07,960 --> 00:00:11,360 But if his family doesn't want you, then? 4 00:00:13,000 --> 00:00:16,320 I hope you accept me with him. 5 00:00:16,400 --> 00:00:19,280 I need time. I don't know. 6 00:00:21,040 --> 00:00:23,200 Your life in seven suitcases. 7 00:00:23,280 --> 00:00:26,160 -How does it feel? - I'm a little disgusted. 8 00:00:26,240 --> 00:00:31,680 To give birth and move to Ethiopia, is very risky. 9 00:00:33,280 --> 00:00:34,880 Bye, grandpa. 10 00:00:34,960 --> 00:00:41,280 I gave up my life in the US to start a new life with Jihoon. 11 00:00:41,360 --> 00:00:45,160 -What are you going to work on? -Can you provide for four people? 12 00:00:45,240 --> 00:00:49,760 I don't have a real job. I work part-time as a courier. 13 00:00:51,360 --> 00:00:53,560 Why are you acting so crazy? 14 00:00:53,640 --> 00:00:56,680 Put it down, Brittany. 15 00:00:56,760 --> 00:00:59,840 I have never seen him like that. It was scary. 16 00:00:59,920 --> 00:01:02,280 What an idiot I am. 17 00:01:16,560 --> 00:01:18,680 BRITTANY, USA YAZAN, JORDAN 18 00:01:34,720 --> 00:01:39,960 I just arrived in Amman, and Yazan and I have a showdown. 19 00:01:40,040 --> 00:01:45,320 I hugged the production team and took out a bottle of tequila. 20 00:01:45,400 --> 00:01:48,200 He stormed out and was ridiculous. 21 00:01:48,280 --> 00:01:53,840 Seeing him act like this now, is worrying- 22 00:01:53,920 --> 00:01:57,560 -but I won't encourage it. 23 00:01:59,360 --> 00:02:02,080 Look at her. She is deceiving me. 24 00:02:05,200 --> 00:02:11,520 You can't behave like this this spring religion, so I'm mad at Brittany. 25 00:02:13,600 --> 00:02:15,680 It is as if she is saying: 26 00:02:15,760 --> 00:02:20,680 “I don't care your habits and traditions." 27 00:02:20,760 --> 00:02:25,840 My parents want me to have someone who know our traditions- 28 00:02:25,920 --> 00:02:27,920 -and respect them. 29 00:02:28,640 --> 00:02:34,720 -Are you going to take my bags? - No, I'm just going. 30 00:02:35,720 --> 00:02:42,080 I love Brittany, and I want to that our relationship should work. 31 00:02:42,160 --> 00:02:46,400 I'll drop her off at the hotel tonight- 32 00:02:46,480 --> 00:02:51,600 -and I hope we can calm down. 33 00:02:56,880 --> 00:03:00,480 I want you to respect me, Brittany. 34 00:03:00,560 --> 00:03:03,520 I do. You don't respect me. 35 00:03:03,600 --> 00:03:09,840 I don't respect you. What you are doing is wrong here. 36 00:03:09,920 --> 00:03:14,840 You want to decide what I should do. You is like my ex. Equally controlling. 37 00:03:14,920 --> 00:03:21,400 You don't respect my culture, but I am expected to respect your culture. 38 00:03:21,480 --> 00:03:25,760 Don't talk now, please. I have a headache. 39 00:03:27,000 --> 00:03:31,720 - I just want... -Don't talk to me, then. Keep quiet. 40 00:03:35,200 --> 00:03:40,040 You act like I'm a Muslim, and know what you expect from me. 41 00:03:40,120 --> 00:03:43,480 - Hang up. That's enough, that's enough. -Remove your hand. 42 00:03:43,560 --> 00:03:48,320 -That's enough. -You embarrassed us in the street. 43 00:03:48,400 --> 00:03:53,160 I am American, I have my culture, just like when you are with your… 44 00:03:53,240 --> 00:03:56,080 - That's enough, that's enough. - Away with the hand. 45 00:03:56,160 --> 00:03:58,160 That's enough! 46 00:04:19,200 --> 00:04:20,800 Do you hear... 47 00:04:21,800 --> 00:04:26,080 -Hello? -What is it? 48 00:04:26,160 --> 00:04:28,840 are you crying 49 00:04:28,920 --> 00:04:34,280 What happened at the airport really bothers me. 50 00:04:35,360 --> 00:04:37,600 She is not in the US now. 51 00:04:37,680 --> 00:04:41,880 She knows it's wrong to touch someone and drinking alcohol. 52 00:04:43,440 --> 00:04:46,880 -Look at me. -Stop. 53 00:04:46,960 --> 00:04:48,960 Put off. 54 00:04:50,400 --> 00:04:52,400 Why are you crying, Brittany? 55 00:04:54,320 --> 00:04:59,400 I'm here all on my own. I don't have one here. 56 00:04:59,480 --> 00:05:03,320 I have changed my life for you, and it's never enough. 57 00:05:03,400 --> 00:05:08,560 I can't be myself. I can't do anything. 58 00:05:11,760 --> 00:05:16,560 This is how I didn't want to the reunion with Yazan would be. 59 00:05:16,640 --> 00:05:20,120 I doubt it if the move is the right thing to do. 60 00:05:27,000 --> 00:05:31,080 I have given up so much to live in Jordan with Yazan. 61 00:05:32,600 --> 00:05:37,600 I left my career, I left my comfortable lifestyle. 62 00:05:37,680 --> 00:05:43,800 I can hardly believe that Yazan behaves like this. 63 00:05:44,600 --> 00:05:47,520 -Come in here. - Get my bags. 64 00:05:47,600 --> 00:05:51,200 -Can't you help me? - No, I won't help you. 65 00:05:56,080 --> 00:05:59,360 Okay. I'm going home. 66 00:06:00,680 --> 00:06:03,320 Brittany is going to sleep in a hotel. 67 00:06:03,400 --> 00:06:08,240 I can't sleep in the same hotel because we are not married yet. 68 00:06:31,800 --> 00:06:38,120 Seeing him act like that, because i hugged someone- 69 00:06:38,200 --> 00:06:44,240 -and because I bought booze... I'm not going to drink on the street. 70 00:06:45,320 --> 00:06:48,120 It wasn't supposed to be like this. 71 00:06:49,720 --> 00:06:53,520 - Hope you have a nice stay. -Good night. 72 00:06:55,280 --> 00:07:01,840 I thought I knew who he was. He was very affectionate- 73 00:07:01,920 --> 00:07:05,920 -he never yelled at me, never be controlling. 74 00:07:08,040 --> 00:07:14,440 I was going to tell Yazan that I still married to my ex- 75 00:07:14,520 --> 00:07:20,200 -but considering how he exactly reacted over nothing- 76 00:07:20,280 --> 00:07:25,080 -I definitely feel worried over telling him. 77 00:07:34,880 --> 00:07:37,800 DEAVAN AGE 23, SALT LAKE CITY, UTAH 78 00:07:42,760 --> 00:07:47,400 I'm on my way to Korea to move there for the second time. 79 00:07:47,720 --> 00:07:51,440 I'm moving there permanently with both our children. 80 00:07:51,520 --> 00:07:55,560 Everyone is tired and sleeping- 81 00:07:55,640 --> 00:08:00,800 -but I have to be awake, and make sure the children are well. 82 00:08:00,880 --> 00:08:04,000 ELICIA DEAVAN'S MOTHER 83 00:08:04,080 --> 00:08:08,720 Mother will come with me, and I hope that she will realise- 84 00:08:08,800 --> 00:08:12,200 - that I have made the right decision. 85 00:08:12,280 --> 00:08:16,800 I'm scared because I'm giving up my family, my friends- 86 00:08:16,880 --> 00:08:19,480 -my comfortable life, which I fought for. 87 00:08:19,560 --> 00:08:21,720 SALT LAKE CITY -SEOUL = 944 MILES 88 00:08:21,800 --> 00:08:24,880 I hope that Jihoon can support us. 89 00:08:29,640 --> 00:08:33,320 SOUTH KOREA 90 00:08:40,520 --> 00:08:42,960 Deavan is coming to Korea today. 91 00:08:43,040 --> 00:08:48,680 I haven't met her in two months. 92 00:08:48,760 --> 00:08:52,640 Jihoon! I told you to do that earlier. 93 00:08:52,720 --> 00:08:54,720 Put off. 94 00:08:56,000 --> 00:09:00,000 See how he packs. He just pushes everything in. 95 00:09:02,240 --> 00:09:06,320 I have lived with my parents whole life- 96 00:09:06,400 --> 00:09:11,120 -but now I'm packing to move to an apartment- 97 00:09:11,200 --> 00:09:14,920 -with Deavan, Drascilla and Taeyang. 98 00:09:15,920 --> 00:09:18,360 Finally, he will move out. 99 00:09:20,640 --> 00:09:23,800 I hope that Deavan stays in Korea. 100 00:09:26,440 --> 00:09:32,040 -How are you? -I want to die. My mouth is so dry. 101 00:09:32,120 --> 00:09:36,040 The most important thing is that she adjusting to the new life here. 102 00:09:36,120 --> 00:09:42,120 She doesn't make an effort to be lovable. 103 00:09:44,440 --> 00:09:48,680 It is important that you teach her these things. 104 00:09:51,280 --> 00:09:57,160 Deavan is not the perfect one the daughter-in-law my mother hoped for. 105 00:09:58,160 --> 00:10:02,280 Both mom and Deavan are strong women. 106 00:10:02,360 --> 00:10:07,080 I hope they don't quarrel. I hope. 107 00:10:08,840 --> 00:10:13,080 -Where are you going to live? -In the Banghwa-dong area. 108 00:10:13,160 --> 00:10:17,760 Deavan found the apartment online, and paid for one month. 109 00:10:17,840 --> 00:10:21,320 Why did Deavan find the apartment and not you? 110 00:10:25,120 --> 00:10:28,520 How big is it? 111 00:10:28,600 --> 00:10:32,400 I haven't been there, but it is probably small. 112 00:10:32,480 --> 00:10:35,280 Imagine my mother-in-law in Korea: 113 00:10:35,360 --> 00:10:40,640 “My daughter has married in another country and they live in a small apartment." 114 00:10:40,720 --> 00:10:43,960 “Divorce yourselves. We're going back to the US." 115 00:10:44,040 --> 00:10:46,960 Don't worry about it. 116 00:10:47,040 --> 00:10:52,400 My mother doesn't understand. She hasn't met Deavan's mother, Elicia. 117 00:10:52,480 --> 00:10:54,480 Explosive. 118 00:10:55,920 --> 00:10:57,600 Elicia is hot. 119 00:11:00,000 --> 00:11:02,840 It will be fun to meet her. 120 00:11:02,920 --> 00:11:07,640 She seems to be my complete opposite. 121 00:11:07,720 --> 00:11:10,440 I feel a lot of pressure- 122 00:11:10,520 --> 00:11:17,200 -because I want to prove it to Deavan and Elicia that I work hard. 123 00:11:18,200 --> 00:11:22,480 -Make a lot of money? -You have to work harder now. 124 00:11:22,560 --> 00:11:28,120 When you work, think Taeyang and Drascilla. 125 00:11:28,200 --> 00:11:30,080 And think of your wife. 126 00:11:30,160 --> 00:11:35,240 If that doesn't work, can you help me with some money? 127 00:11:38,720 --> 00:11:41,400 I get a headache. 128 00:11:42,440 --> 00:11:46,360 It seems to have become a habit for him to ask for my help. 129 00:11:46,440 --> 00:11:50,440 It worries me. 130 00:11:51,880 --> 00:11:55,920 - You are my first born. I have to. - I will pay back. 131 00:11:56,000 --> 00:11:59,040 -Promise. -Help me, if needed. 132 00:11:59,120 --> 00:12:01,600 Now we have our fingers crossed. 133 00:12:03,440 --> 00:12:08,160 Now it feels like i can breathe again- 134 00:12:08,240 --> 00:12:12,440 - because my parents will help me. 135 00:12:12,520 --> 00:12:19,480 You are married now. You need to tighten up. 136 00:12:34,240 --> 00:12:36,480 HOURS AGE 34, DALLAS, TEXAS 137 00:12:45,440 --> 00:12:51,280 My name is Tim. I am 34 years old and live in Dallas, Texas, with my cat Pepino. 138 00:12:53,680 --> 00:12:56,440 How are you, kid? Good. 139 00:12:59,360 --> 00:13:02,120 -Hello. -Hello to you. 140 00:13:02,200 --> 00:13:07,160 I was born in Iowa, raised in Alabama and now I live in Texas- 141 00:13:07,240 --> 00:13:12,760 -but I feel that I am a very typical American. 142 00:13:12,840 --> 00:13:16,040 Hamburgers, hot dogs, 4th of July. 143 00:13:20,560 --> 00:13:25,360 Pepe supports me and I take him everywhere. 144 00:13:27,760 --> 00:13:30,160 -Hello. -How is it? 145 00:13:30,240 --> 00:13:35,040 -Good. Looking for something? - We are moving abroad soon... 146 00:13:35,120 --> 00:13:40,240 ...and I have to buy some things to him, as a necklace or harness. 147 00:13:40,320 --> 00:13:43,800 I need a cage that I can have on the plane. 148 00:13:43,880 --> 00:13:46,760 He will be with me in the cabin. 149 00:13:46,840 --> 00:13:49,840 I suffer from anxiety and depression- 150 00:13:49,920 --> 00:13:53,920 -and I got him as an emotional support. 151 00:13:54,000 --> 00:13:59,840 Some say that the dog is man's best friend For me it's Pepino. 152 00:13:59,920 --> 00:14:02,920 He knows when I'm having a bad day. 153 00:14:03,000 --> 00:14:08,920 He comes to me when I need him most of all. I love him. 154 00:14:09,000 --> 00:14:14,200 -How long is the journey? -8-10 hours with the stopover. 155 00:14:14,280 --> 00:14:18,560 It's a long way from Texas. Okay. 156 00:14:18,640 --> 00:14:21,560 I can't fly with my cat. 157 00:14:21,640 --> 00:14:28,240 Growing up I didn't drink and I didn't take any drugs. 158 00:14:28,320 --> 00:14:33,440 I was called Ostpinnen. That's fine because I resemble a cheese stick. 159 00:14:37,200 --> 00:14:39,200 I do. 160 00:14:42,720 --> 00:14:45,880 Crikey. -You are so talented. 161 00:14:47,440 --> 00:14:51,680 Come on buddy, let's go. 162 00:14:51,760 --> 00:14:56,040 When I had graduated from high school I started partying more. 163 00:14:56,120 --> 00:15:01,920 Then I entered a road where I didn't think about my future. 164 00:15:02,000 --> 00:15:04,400 Then I hit rock bottom. 165 00:15:04,480 --> 00:15:10,200 I was arrested for carjacking when I was about 24 years old. 166 00:15:12,240 --> 00:15:16,160 I was inside for 28 days and received a three-year suspended sentence. 167 00:15:16,240 --> 00:15:21,720 It made me think about who I am where and where I was. 168 00:15:21,800 --> 00:15:27,440 I sharpened my skills and started studying again, at the University of Iowa. 169 00:15:27,520 --> 00:15:29,560 There I met Melyza. 170 00:15:35,400 --> 00:15:41,360 Melyza is my girlfriend. She is 29 years old, and lives in Medellin, Colombia. 171 00:15:46,040 --> 00:15:50,920 Melyza is incredibly beautiful. She has very long legs. 172 00:15:51,000 --> 00:15:58,240 She has a really nice ass. I'm getting a little warm. 173 00:16:00,000 --> 00:16:06,000 I met Melyza in a bar where I worked when I was in college. 174 00:16:06,080 --> 00:16:08,720 There were more people courting her. 175 00:16:08,800 --> 00:16:12,920 The other guys tried to flirt, and I'm bad at it. 176 00:16:15,200 --> 00:16:21,520 I'm very lazy, but I actually think she fell for it. 177 00:16:23,240 --> 00:16:28,400 Now we go. We go out. Come on, buddy. 178 00:16:30,320 --> 00:16:33,560 Melyza was an au pair in Iowa when I met her. 179 00:16:33,640 --> 00:16:35,840 I fell in love with her immediately. 180 00:16:37,280 --> 00:16:42,600 Come again. Good guy. 181 00:16:44,760 --> 00:16:49,320 But she had to move to Boston a week later- 182 00:16:49,400 --> 00:16:52,120 -and work as an au pair. 183 00:16:52,200 --> 00:16:57,280 We continued to meet even though we lived in different cities. 184 00:16:57,360 --> 00:17:02,040 A year later Melyza returned to Colombia to finish school. 185 00:17:07,000 --> 00:17:10,720 -Hello. -Hello. How is it? 186 00:17:12,880 --> 00:17:16,880 -How was your day? -Good. Completely finished. Just finished work. 187 00:17:16,960 --> 00:17:20,480 You're still pretty. 188 00:17:20,560 --> 00:17:24,760 When you want to start planning a future with someone else- 189 00:17:24,840 --> 00:17:29,280 -the distance becomes a wall which is impossible to get past. 190 00:17:29,360 --> 00:17:33,280 Are you ready? I will come to you in a week. 191 00:17:33,360 --> 00:17:36,720 - It will be great fun. -Pepe wants to see you again. 192 00:17:36,800 --> 00:17:40,600 - You long for him too. -Yes. 193 00:17:42,120 --> 00:17:47,680 But I'm nervous about you will move here and we will live together. 194 00:17:52,600 --> 00:17:58,200 It was so awful last time, and I fear it will be repeated- 195 00:17:58,280 --> 00:18:03,720 - and that we will have to go through all that again. I don't want that. 196 00:18:06,360 --> 00:18:08,360 We have argued a lot. 197 00:18:08,440 --> 00:18:15,120 We are fighting. We are going through crazy hard things. 198 00:18:15,200 --> 00:18:20,840 The fact that Melyza does not move here depends on something I'm not proud of. 199 00:18:26,640 --> 00:18:31,200 If the two of us live together- 200 00:18:31,280 --> 00:18:36,000 -I hope it will be better for our relationship. 201 00:18:38,200 --> 00:18:41,320 It will be difficult to move to Colombia- 202 00:18:41,400 --> 00:18:47,920 -but it gives me and Melyza the best the opportunity to start our life together. 203 00:18:58,560 --> 00:19:01,280 KENNETH, 57 YEARS, ST. PETERSBURG, FLORIDA 204 00:19:02,640 --> 00:19:08,840 What are you doing, Coopie? Will you help me pack? 205 00:19:08,920 --> 00:19:12,800 -How's it going in here? - It works. 206 00:19:12,880 --> 00:19:17,080 -What is all this? - My face and hair products. 207 00:19:17,160 --> 00:19:23,480 -Oh my God. How do you feel? -Sorry. 208 00:19:23,560 --> 00:19:27,800 -Yes. - I want to go, but still not. 209 00:19:32,320 --> 00:19:34,560 The day has finally arrived. 210 00:19:34,640 --> 00:19:41,520 I will leave life which I have had for 57 years. 211 00:19:42,520 --> 00:19:46,520 I'm taking a gamble and moving to Mexico. 212 00:19:47,760 --> 00:19:54,000 But I really believe that Armando and i will make it. 213 00:19:56,160 --> 00:20:00,000 I will miss this crazy guy. 214 00:20:00,080 --> 00:20:03,760 I will miss you when I get frustrated. 215 00:20:03,840 --> 00:20:08,440 Send him in to you, so I get a moment to myself. 216 00:20:08,520 --> 00:20:10,720 You'll make it. 217 00:20:10,800 --> 00:20:15,920 I feel guilty about leaving my children and my grandson. 218 00:20:16,000 --> 00:20:20,760 I've never felt like this. You are very happy- 219 00:20:20,840 --> 00:20:27,800 -but at the same time very sad. Me probably have to go to therapy after this. 220 00:20:29,560 --> 00:20:32,920 Now we're going to carry some things down, Coop. 221 00:20:38,200 --> 00:20:42,080 Just put it there. I have to wrap it up. 222 00:20:42,160 --> 00:20:45,440 -Hello! -Hello! 223 00:20:45,520 --> 00:20:51,800 You brought your 'Nubis. -Come here. i love you Thank you for coming. 224 00:20:51,880 --> 00:20:54,840 -Hello, 'Nubis. -Hello. 225 00:20:54,920 --> 00:21:00,520 We are happy that he will be moving to be with someone he loves. 226 00:21:02,440 --> 00:21:06,240 But we will not meet him for a long time. 227 00:21:06,320 --> 00:21:09,000 You can't just look past. 228 00:21:09,600 --> 00:21:13,080 It is difficult to understand that it's real now. 229 00:21:14,240 --> 00:21:17,920 -Give me a hug, Coopie. - Then say goodbye to grandpa. 230 00:21:18,000 --> 00:21:23,480 -Hello, grandpa. -You know I love you. 231 00:21:23,560 --> 00:21:26,360 -Yes. -Can I have a kiss? 232 00:21:26,440 --> 00:21:30,600 Give me a kiss. can you give me a kiss 233 00:21:31,760 --> 00:21:34,440 A thousand thanks. 234 00:21:36,280 --> 00:21:40,200 -Okay. -Everything alright? -No. 235 00:21:49,320 --> 00:21:53,280 -I'll call you tonight. Okay? -Yes. 236 00:22:03,560 --> 00:22:09,000 - It's grandpa. It's calm. - We can't see grandpa anymore. 237 00:22:10,600 --> 00:22:12,800 I love you, dad. 238 00:22:22,720 --> 00:22:24,720 See you again. 239 00:22:27,240 --> 00:22:30,320 -I love you. - Now I'm going to drive. 240 00:22:30,400 --> 00:22:32,920 -I love you. -I love you more. 241 00:22:33,000 --> 00:22:35,720 - Say hello, Cooper. -Hello then. 242 00:22:35,800 --> 00:22:40,160 -I love you, Coopie. - He's sad. 243 00:22:40,240 --> 00:22:43,520 He's leaving. He says hello then. 244 00:22:52,720 --> 00:22:57,080 - Look, Cooper. Wave. -Hello then. 245 00:23:17,200 --> 00:23:22,280 I am very sorry about leaving my children. And Coop. 246 00:23:32,200 --> 00:23:34,560 Busier than I thought. 247 00:23:48,600 --> 00:23:51,400 ARIEL, AGE 28, PRINCETON, NEW JERSEY 248 00:23:52,480 --> 00:23:58,000 I arrive in Dubai. I'm tired after a flight of twelve hours. 249 00:23:59,680 --> 00:24:02,000 Mom comes with me to Ethiopia- 250 00:24:02,080 --> 00:24:06,880 - because I'm moving there to live with my boyfriend, Biniyam. 251 00:24:06,960 --> 00:24:10,920 DUBAI -ADDIS ABABA = 251 MILES 252 00:24:12,080 --> 00:24:17,560 This is the biggest and riskiest decision of my life. 253 00:24:17,640 --> 00:24:22,800 I hope Biniyam understands what I sacrifice to be with him. 254 00:24:23,800 --> 00:24:25,720 Towards the next gate. 255 00:24:25,800 --> 00:24:28,760 - How are you feeling, Ari? -Excited. 256 00:24:28,840 --> 00:24:33,120 He will see that your belly has gotten bigger. 257 00:24:39,360 --> 00:24:43,240 ETHIOPIA 258 00:25:04,640 --> 00:25:11,320 My name is Biniyam and I live in Addis Ababa in Ethiopia. I am 29 years old. 259 00:25:12,240 --> 00:25:17,040 I live with my brother and his wife in a one bedroom house. 260 00:25:18,560 --> 00:25:20,920 I sleep in the living room. 261 00:25:23,800 --> 00:25:25,360 I am the youngest. 262 00:25:25,440 --> 00:25:30,800 My family takes care of me because my parents died when i was young. 263 00:25:33,000 --> 00:25:36,520 I was thirteen or fourteen years old. 264 00:25:37,560 --> 00:25:42,920 I know they both died of disease, but I don't know exactly how. 265 00:25:45,560 --> 00:25:49,320 Suddenly we had nothing. 266 00:25:52,320 --> 00:25:57,960 But I have done everything myself to get me to where I am today. 267 00:26:00,480 --> 00:26:04,280 I have many jobs. I am a personal trainer. 268 00:26:07,320 --> 00:26:12,520 I'm a dancer in a nightclub, and I do the martial art MMA. 269 00:26:22,760 --> 00:26:27,880 I love MMA, and that's how I met Ari. 270 00:26:33,200 --> 00:26:35,800 I met Ari on the way to training. 271 00:26:37,080 --> 00:26:40,680 She was in Ethiopia and waited for a taxi. 272 00:26:40,760 --> 00:26:44,320 She talked to me first. I gave her a sign. 273 00:26:44,400 --> 00:26:47,240 "Can I have your number?" "Yes." 274 00:26:48,680 --> 00:26:52,160 She has beautiful eyes and a beautiful smile. 275 00:26:52,240 --> 00:26:56,840 She is so different compared to other girls. 276 00:26:56,920 --> 00:27:01,720 She supports me like no one else has done. 277 00:27:02,720 --> 00:27:08,040 We didn't think about having children, but we fell down on the bed. 278 00:27:08,120 --> 00:27:11,200 What does it mean to fall off the bed? 279 00:27:12,360 --> 00:27:16,240 That you sleep together, romantically. 280 00:27:19,920 --> 00:27:26,240 And now we have a baby on the way. It will be fun to be a father again. 281 00:27:35,560 --> 00:27:42,000 Today I'm going to meet Brook and Firezer. He's working on my song. 282 00:27:43,960 --> 00:27:49,040 The situation, guys? How about you? 283 00:27:49,120 --> 00:27:55,120 It's called "Yene Yene". It's about me, Baby Cool. 284 00:27:55,200 --> 00:27:59,120 -We are working on the song for you. - We listen to it. 285 00:28:01,760 --> 00:28:06,280 My mother called me baby. Everyone here calls me Baby Cool. 286 00:28:19,800 --> 00:28:25,000 -Okay. Now we record some vocals. -We are testing. 287 00:28:32,200 --> 00:28:34,880 Good. There it sat. 288 00:28:40,680 --> 00:28:44,120 I started my music career recently. 289 00:28:44,200 --> 00:28:49,240 I have recorded eight songs, but they are not on any album yet. 290 00:28:49,320 --> 00:28:52,520 The one he just did sounds great now. 291 00:29:04,360 --> 00:29:06,360 Good enough. 292 00:29:08,080 --> 00:29:13,840 -What else happens? -Ari will come tomorrow. 293 00:29:14,440 --> 00:29:18,920 -Are you scared? Are you scared? -Yes. She wants to give birth to the baby here. 294 00:29:19,000 --> 00:29:25,400 -Yes? - Then I want to propose to Ari. 295 00:29:25,480 --> 00:29:31,640 Just make sure you don't commit same mistake again. 296 00:29:33,400 --> 00:29:36,480 My ex-wife was from the US. 297 00:29:36,560 --> 00:29:42,120 I was with her 6-8 months, then she got pregnant. 298 00:29:42,200 --> 00:29:46,160 We were married for four years. 299 00:29:46,240 --> 00:29:51,920 My ex-wife went back to the US with my son. 300 00:29:52,000 --> 00:29:58,480 I am so sorry for my son. He doesn't know me anymore. 301 00:30:02,480 --> 00:30:08,880 My ex never trusted me. Ari understands me. She trusts me. 302 00:30:08,960 --> 00:30:11,760 That's the difference. 303 00:30:11,840 --> 00:30:18,640 Honestly, I'm scared. His ex was also an American girl. 304 00:30:18,720 --> 00:30:22,680 She was nice, but she changed. 305 00:30:22,760 --> 00:30:29,440 I didn't see him smile for a year, so how can we trust this one? 306 00:30:34,040 --> 00:30:38,040 Only God is with you, so… That's all I can say. 307 00:30:44,160 --> 00:30:46,440 HOURS AGE 34, DALLAS, TEXAS 308 00:30:48,920 --> 00:30:53,120 I'm moving to Colombia in a week to my girlfriend Melyza- 309 00:30:53,200 --> 00:30:58,800 -and tonight I'm going to have some fun with my friends before I move. 310 00:30:58,880 --> 00:31:01,000 -Hello! -The situation? 311 00:31:01,080 --> 00:31:03,400 -Hello! -How are you? 312 00:31:03,480 --> 00:31:06,880 My friends don't know that I'm moving permanently- 313 00:31:06,960 --> 00:31:11,320 - and I don't know how they will react. 314 00:31:11,400 --> 00:31:16,920 But they met Melyza here last year, and they loved her. 315 00:31:17,000 --> 00:31:19,160 I hope they will be happy. 316 00:31:19,240 --> 00:31:22,320 -Ready? -See what you can do. 317 00:31:38,080 --> 00:31:41,800 - It was a long time ago. Bowl. -Bowl. 318 00:31:47,200 --> 00:31:53,920 I have big news for you. Me will be moving to Colombia in a week. 319 00:31:54,000 --> 00:31:57,680 I will be so happy that you can be together. 320 00:31:57,760 --> 00:32:02,920 When Melyza visited here, we got great contact. She is amazing. 321 00:32:03,000 --> 00:32:07,240 It is the right step both for him and for Melyza. 322 00:32:07,320 --> 00:32:10,520 I hope it goes well. 323 00:32:10,600 --> 00:32:12,920 Was it your idea to move there? 324 00:32:13,000 --> 00:32:18,000 I know your thought was that she would move here. 325 00:32:19,320 --> 00:32:25,680 A few things have happened in ours relationship, which has changed it. 326 00:32:28,080 --> 00:32:35,080 Biggest reason why I move is that I was unfaithful. 327 00:32:41,680 --> 00:32:48,240 Last year was the distance between me and Melyza very hard. 328 00:32:48,320 --> 00:32:54,560 I felt alone. I was working with the girl I cheated on. 329 00:32:54,640 --> 00:32:57,800 It started with us just talking. 330 00:32:57,880 --> 00:33:04,320 It went so far that we had sex. 331 00:33:05,640 --> 00:33:10,160 I don't even know what to say. This is so… 332 00:33:10,240 --> 00:33:15,600 I'm so mad at you right now. I want to hit you for her. 333 00:33:21,400 --> 00:33:24,680 I know Melyza. She is so kind- 334 00:33:24,760 --> 00:33:30,240 -and he has to fight extra hard to gain Melyza's forgiveness. 335 00:33:30,320 --> 00:33:33,800 Are you moving to make it up to her? 336 00:33:33,880 --> 00:33:38,560 Maybe not to make up for it, but it made her say: 337 00:33:38,640 --> 00:33:43,360 “I don't want to move here anymore. I don't want to leave my family." 338 00:33:43,440 --> 00:33:48,680 But she trusts you so much that she wants to be with you? 339 00:33:49,840 --> 00:33:55,440 She will doubt. If I'm to regain her trust- 340 00:33:55,520 --> 00:33:58,520 -I have to show that I'm betting everything. 341 00:33:58,600 --> 00:34:04,320 It will be a long journey, but she is worth it. 342 00:34:06,560 --> 00:34:11,440 I want to say that I hope so works, but I'm so mad at you now. 343 00:34:13,920 --> 00:34:16,800 It is reasonable. 344 00:34:16,880 --> 00:34:19,840 He doesn't deserve her. 345 00:34:19,920 --> 00:34:26,200 You just destroyed all trust that she had for you. 346 00:34:31,480 --> 00:34:36,360 I hope that what I have planned to do… 347 00:34:39,000 --> 00:34:45,760 ...can make me deserve her. Right now I don't deserve her. 348 00:34:48,960 --> 00:34:52,680 I don't expect for her to trust me again- 349 00:34:52,760 --> 00:34:58,640 -but everything I do now, I do because I really mean it. 350 00:34:58,720 --> 00:35:03,440 I really want to do the right thing- 351 00:35:03,520 --> 00:35:09,880 - to show that I deserve her again. 352 00:35:13,880 --> 00:35:18,360 -I just have to earn it. -Yes. And it will be difficult. 353 00:35:22,960 --> 00:35:26,240 I hope I can make it work. 354 00:35:38,240 --> 00:35:40,760 JIHOON 29 YEARS OLD, SEOUL, SOUTH KOREA 355 00:35:46,600 --> 00:35:52,160 Deavan, Drascilla, Taeyang and Elicia lands in Korea. 356 00:35:52,240 --> 00:35:57,440 I am happy. My parents are coming to the airport to meet them. 357 00:35:59,240 --> 00:36:02,640 JUNG and HONG JU JIHOON'S PARENTS 358 00:36:03,880 --> 00:36:05,440 This is killing me. 359 00:36:09,200 --> 00:36:12,600 I'm obviously very nervous. 360 00:36:12,680 --> 00:36:16,640 Elicia is a very angry person- 361 00:36:16,720 --> 00:36:21,960 -so I wonder about my parents and Deavan's mother will agree. 362 00:36:23,560 --> 00:36:27,200 -I feel sick. - Because you're nervous? 363 00:36:36,800 --> 00:36:40,600 -They are here! -I see them. They are here! 364 00:36:43,440 --> 00:36:45,560 See how many things they have. 365 00:36:45,640 --> 00:36:48,840 -I'm here, Drascilla! -Who is it? 366 00:36:48,920 --> 00:36:51,960 -Give him a hug. - It's me. 367 00:36:53,160 --> 00:36:55,800 DRASCILLA JIHOON'S DAUGHTER 368 00:36:56,800 --> 00:36:59,960 How have you been? I feel fine. And you? 369 00:37:00,040 --> 00:37:02,520 A hug. -Hello. 370 00:37:02,600 --> 00:37:08,360 I didn't know that Jihoon's parents would come. I am not satisfied. 371 00:37:10,640 --> 00:37:14,840 My father, my mother, my other mother. 372 00:37:14,920 --> 00:37:18,440 - Others... What then? -Second mother. 373 00:37:18,520 --> 00:37:21,200 We are fleet and disgusting. 374 00:37:21,280 --> 00:37:25,080 Jihoon's parents would not like this meet my mother 375 00:37:29,360 --> 00:37:31,840 Come here, come here. 376 00:37:31,920 --> 00:37:35,000 Nice to meet you. - She's suffocating me. 377 00:37:37,240 --> 00:37:41,480 Elicia hugged me very tightly. It was lovely. 378 00:37:43,000 --> 00:37:49,240 I have never left the US, so this is all new to me. 379 00:37:49,320 --> 00:37:51,680 Yes. 380 00:37:51,760 --> 00:37:55,360 -What are they talking about? -I don't know. 381 00:37:55,440 --> 00:37:59,880 In Korea, in-laws are like this… But she is like this… 382 00:38:01,760 --> 00:38:03,920 Our car is coming. 383 00:38:04,000 --> 00:38:07,280 - Yellow car. - Yellow car. 384 00:38:08,680 --> 00:38:10,680 It's a bus, Grandma! 385 00:38:14,840 --> 00:38:17,480 - Now we go. -Air conditioning? 386 00:38:17,560 --> 00:38:19,040 Wait, wait. No. 387 00:38:19,120 --> 00:38:23,200 I am exhausted. I have traveled 22 hours with two children. 388 00:38:23,280 --> 00:38:26,800 The seat is not big enough. 389 00:38:26,880 --> 00:38:30,400 I want to go to the apartment and sleep. 390 00:38:30,480 --> 00:38:34,640 No, no, no danger. I can manage. 391 00:38:34,720 --> 00:38:38,480 -Close the door and send the address. - Now we go. 392 00:38:38,560 --> 00:38:43,120 It's Bang-Wha, Bang-Wha-Dong amused He looks it up for you. 393 00:38:43,200 --> 00:38:46,640 What are we talking about? Shall we go? 394 00:38:52,240 --> 00:38:55,360 -Stop, stop, stop! -Mom, stop. 395 00:38:55,440 --> 00:38:58,520 - They drive like this. -Why am I sitting here at the front? 396 00:38:58,600 --> 00:39:00,960 We want to go home. 397 00:39:01,040 --> 00:39:05,640 We haven't even come out of the parking lot, and mom is angry. 398 00:39:05,720 --> 00:39:10,120 We have an hour to drive, so it will be a long drive. 399 00:39:12,600 --> 00:39:15,480 Eleven. 400 00:39:15,560 --> 00:39:20,600 Is that a tree over there? 401 00:39:20,680 --> 00:39:22,800 How are you, mom? 402 00:39:22,880 --> 00:39:26,920 No. Your mother drives very close other cars. All the time. 403 00:39:27,000 --> 00:39:30,520 Good thing mom doesn't know swear words. 404 00:39:33,800 --> 00:39:37,920 Everyone seems to be in a bad mood, mother. 405 00:39:38,000 --> 00:39:40,880 -Tell them to look out. -Yes. 406 00:40:09,600 --> 00:40:12,320 Why are the streets so small? 407 00:40:13,520 --> 00:40:16,320 You probably can't turn here. 408 00:40:16,400 --> 00:40:18,360 My God. 409 00:40:18,440 --> 00:40:22,280 We will die. My God. 410 00:40:23,800 --> 00:40:28,320 We drive on the street where the apartment will be located. 411 00:40:28,400 --> 00:40:32,720 It doesn't look like it like what I have seen of Korea. 412 00:40:35,200 --> 00:40:36,760 My God. 413 00:40:36,840 --> 00:40:40,360 Mom has never traveled outside the US. 414 00:40:40,440 --> 00:40:45,560 I knew it would be difficult to make her comfortable here. 415 00:40:47,800 --> 00:40:50,800 This place doesn't look so good, Jihoon. 416 00:40:50,880 --> 00:40:54,240 -Just follow the instructions. -We will die. 417 00:40:54,320 --> 00:40:58,720 -This place doesn't seem very good. -Where are we? Huh? 418 00:41:02,760 --> 00:41:08,760 I only see small streets, darkness, dirt. 419 00:41:08,840 --> 00:41:12,360 No sign of a park or even grass. 420 00:41:14,160 --> 00:41:17,320 We can't drive through here. 421 00:41:20,360 --> 00:41:25,600 Maybe I'm a spoiled American, but I don't want to stay here. 422 00:41:35,360 --> 00:41:40,360 This place... You should have checked it before you got it. 423 00:41:42,800 --> 00:41:45,520 Where are we? Where is the house? 424 00:41:45,600 --> 00:41:48,400 -Here. -Is this the new house? 425 00:41:48,480 --> 00:41:50,640 Yes. 426 00:41:50,720 --> 00:41:54,200 A real ---area? 427 00:41:55,280 --> 00:41:59,640 Very good. Now I'm completely losing my mind. 428 00:42:08,880 --> 00:42:11,920 In the next section: 429 00:42:12,000 --> 00:42:17,560 I just came to Ethiopia with my mom, and we're going to see the apartment. 430 00:42:17,640 --> 00:42:19,240 How is it? 431 00:42:20,880 --> 00:42:24,200 I hate it. No toilet seat. 432 00:42:24,280 --> 00:42:27,360 The bathroom looks like in the "Saw" movies. 433 00:42:29,800 --> 00:42:33,680 When will I see the divorce papers? 434 00:42:33,760 --> 00:42:36,960 If Sumit lied about that he would divorce- 435 00:42:37,040 --> 00:42:40,080 -I have to leave the relationship. 436 00:42:40,160 --> 00:42:43,600 Don't leave me, my boy. 437 00:42:43,680 --> 00:42:47,920 I'm sick of not knowing what that happens when I bring Kenny home. 438 00:42:48,000 --> 00:42:52,680 I hope you will welcome us, together. 439 00:42:54,440 --> 00:42:58,920 I'm nervous for you. Do you think that she can put it behind her? 440 00:42:59,000 --> 00:43:00,480 I don't know. 441 00:43:00,560 --> 00:43:04,720 Sometimes I think that Tim makes a big mistake. 442 00:43:04,800 --> 00:43:09,960 As a woman I had forgiven it, but I had it in the back of my mind. 443 00:43:10,040 --> 00:43:12,400 Stay a couple of months. 444 00:43:12,480 --> 00:43:18,720 I have nothing to return to, but I have nothing here either. 445 00:43:18,800 --> 00:43:22,280 I go when my mother goes. 446 00:43:26,200 --> 00:43:30,200 Translation: Magnus Blixtberg www.btistudios.com