1 00:00:07,960 --> 00:00:11,920 Excuse me, I have this really annoying work party in Ex-Saturday. 2 00:00:12,380 --> 00:00:13,380 Oh, I can't go. 3 00:00:13,440 --> 00:00:14,440 But it's compulsory. 4 00:00:14,980 --> 00:00:15,980 For you, baby. 5 00:00:16,100 --> 00:00:18,021 What was you all maybe doing on a Saturday night? 6 00:00:18,420 --> 00:00:20,000 Maybe watching TV with my grandparents. 7 00:00:20,740 --> 00:00:20,960 You all right? 8 00:00:21,140 --> 00:00:21,280 Yeah. 9 00:00:22,020 --> 00:00:23,100 Ryan, this is my boss. 10 00:00:23,520 --> 00:00:24,900 Why did I call you David? 11 00:00:25,660 --> 00:00:26,660 Really nervous. 12 00:00:26,900 --> 00:00:29,640 I thought they'd be drinking and mingling by now. 13 00:00:30,580 --> 00:00:31,580 You needed a distraction. 14 00:00:32,000 --> 00:00:33,360 No, I've not drank it. 15 00:00:33,520 --> 00:00:33,720 Oh, really? 16 00:00:34,220 --> 00:00:35,220 And that says Cheers. 17 00:00:35,520 --> 00:00:36,040 Oh, no, no. 18 00:00:36,540 --> 00:00:36,900 That's from Antonio. 19 00:00:37,400 --> 00:00:38,400 He says Cheers. 20 00:00:40,460 --> 00:00:41,960 You read them perfectly. 21 00:00:42,740 --> 00:00:43,740 Can you read me? 22 00:00:44,500 --> 00:00:45,500 What do I need? 23 00:00:53,380 --> 00:00:54,380 You okay? 24 00:00:54,880 --> 00:00:55,880 I have a boyfriend. 25 00:01:18,480 --> 00:01:19,480 I'm sorry. 26 00:01:22,280 --> 00:01:23,580 I should have told you. 27 00:01:33,180 --> 00:01:34,180 It's okay. 28 00:01:41,100 --> 00:01:43,480 Did you buy this sort of guy? 29 00:01:43,640 --> 00:01:44,860 You can have it. 30 00:01:45,100 --> 00:01:46,800 No, I just end up throwing it away. 31 00:01:47,700 --> 00:01:49,260 I'm going to start again as a bachelor. 32 00:01:49,460 --> 00:01:51,780 I don't want this place to smell like a pathetic sex later. 33 00:01:52,240 --> 00:01:53,240 Chuck it then. 34 00:01:53,620 --> 00:01:54,060 I hate it since. 35 00:01:54,380 --> 00:01:55,380 And so do I. 36 00:01:56,780 --> 00:01:57,140 Wait. 37 00:01:57,600 --> 00:01:58,896 Has I been betting this for no reason? 38 00:01:58,920 --> 00:01:59,460 I thought you liked it. 39 00:01:59,840 --> 00:02:00,940 I thought you liked it. 40 00:02:02,040 --> 00:02:03,040 Wow. 41 00:02:03,140 --> 00:02:06,620 So our apartment's meant like Santa would for two years out of politeness, so... 42 00:02:06,621 --> 00:02:09,740 I guess we didn't really know each other after all, did we? 43 00:02:14,640 --> 00:02:15,880 David, I'm so sorry. 44 00:02:16,500 --> 00:02:17,620 Oh, and I'm just joking. 45 00:02:27,250 --> 00:02:30,750 Hey, you know, um, no Jen from the work. 46 00:02:31,350 --> 00:02:32,350 Yeah? 47 00:02:32,510 --> 00:02:33,550 Yeah, a little short, Jen. 48 00:02:35,170 --> 00:02:36,551 Um... I fucked her. 49 00:02:37,010 --> 00:02:38,010 No. 50 00:02:43,960 --> 00:02:44,960 What? 51 00:02:47,120 --> 00:02:48,120 When? 52 00:02:48,320 --> 00:02:50,740 It was once at the Christmas party. 53 00:02:53,840 --> 00:02:55,920 There's a couple of times in the breadcrumbs as well. 54 00:02:59,320 --> 00:03:00,320 Four than once? 55 00:03:00,880 --> 00:03:02,240 Yeah, like five or six times? 56 00:03:03,620 --> 00:03:04,620 Six. 57 00:03:08,430 --> 00:03:12,012 You make me feel like absolute shit for the past week, 58 00:03:12,013 --> 00:03:15,590 and you've been having a fucking affair this whole time? 59 00:03:16,270 --> 00:03:17,350 Well, having a affair? 60 00:03:18,490 --> 00:03:20,450 No, we weren't sneaking around and meeting up. 61 00:03:20,610 --> 00:03:22,850 We just fucked every now and then, thought of some steam. 62 00:03:23,390 --> 00:03:26,650 What, and then we just come home and act like everything was fine? 63 00:03:27,090 --> 00:03:28,090 Everything was fine. 64 00:03:28,950 --> 00:03:29,950 I love you. 65 00:03:31,210 --> 00:03:33,586 Listen to me and her, we didn't have any chemistry or anything like that. 66 00:03:33,610 --> 00:03:37,350 We've got to know you know it, hectic everything can get my work sometimes, right? 67 00:03:37,730 --> 00:03:38,890 Sometimes you need a release. 68 00:03:40,470 --> 00:03:41,990 I guess she just really likes to fuck. 69 00:03:42,130 --> 00:03:46,030 Can you please stop saying fucked and fucking? 70 00:03:46,530 --> 00:03:47,530 That's all it was. 71 00:03:47,810 --> 00:03:49,530 Emma, I'm doing this to let you up the hook. 72 00:03:49,930 --> 00:03:52,450 See, this is why I didn't tell you because I knew you'd be hurt. 73 00:03:53,430 --> 00:03:55,587 Well, you could have avoided that by not sticking 74 00:03:55,588 --> 00:03:58,530 your dick in some fucking random nurse six times. 75 00:03:58,650 --> 00:03:59,650 Shh. 76 00:04:00,990 --> 00:04:02,610 Come on, we had no sex no more than you. 77 00:04:02,890 --> 00:04:04,410 Oh, it's all my fault. 78 00:04:04,650 --> 00:04:05,090 I didn't say that. 79 00:04:05,170 --> 00:04:06,170 Literally just did. 80 00:04:06,790 --> 00:04:08,550 So you were fucking this nurse because what? 81 00:04:09,010 --> 00:04:09,990 I didn't feel like it. 82 00:04:09,991 --> 00:04:10,790 I didn't say that. 83 00:04:10,910 --> 00:04:11,910 I don't twist it. 84 00:04:12,050 --> 00:04:13,050 I'm not blaming you. 85 00:04:13,410 --> 00:04:14,506 I just want to give you context. 86 00:04:14,530 --> 00:04:14,750 That's all. 87 00:04:14,790 --> 00:04:15,790 Context? 88 00:04:15,850 --> 00:04:19,030 I mean, this isn't a thesis or a dissertation, David. 89 00:04:19,470 --> 00:04:21,191 I don't need footnotes on why you're a cunt. 90 00:04:22,330 --> 00:04:24,070 Hey, hey, I may have fucked someone. 91 00:04:24,330 --> 00:04:25,330 Yes, I did. 92 00:04:26,270 --> 00:04:29,170 But you had an emotional relationship with someone and you fucked them. 93 00:04:29,350 --> 00:04:30,590 That's a pretty big deal to me. 94 00:04:31,490 --> 00:04:32,490 We both did what we did. 95 00:04:33,650 --> 00:04:36,090 It's not a competition about who's the biggest asshole, is it? 96 00:04:36,270 --> 00:04:37,610 Spoiler alert, it's you. 97 00:04:38,250 --> 00:04:39,450 I didn't tell you to hurt you. 98 00:04:39,490 --> 00:04:41,530 I just don't want you to go around hurting yourself. 99 00:04:41,750 --> 00:04:42,910 You can hate me all you like. 100 00:04:43,530 --> 00:04:44,530 I mean, I don't hate you. 101 00:04:47,310 --> 00:04:48,810 Well, I do hate you. 102 00:05:15,580 --> 00:05:17,300 How long have you been sitting out here for? 103 00:05:17,560 --> 00:05:18,840 About two and a half cigarettes. 104 00:05:26,390 --> 00:05:27,530 I have to finish it. 105 00:05:27,670 --> 00:05:28,870 They really fucking expensive. 106 00:05:30,470 --> 00:05:31,550 You're a grand human being? 107 00:05:32,570 --> 00:05:32,870 Am I? 108 00:05:32,871 --> 00:05:35,910 I'm sorry. 109 00:05:36,930 --> 00:05:41,670 I just... I came here to say I'm so sorry for involving you and all this shit. 110 00:05:43,930 --> 00:05:44,930 That's a lot of stories. 111 00:05:46,570 --> 00:05:47,830 I only spoke when I'm stressed. 112 00:05:48,910 --> 00:05:50,670 And I know it's gross, and I'm going to quit. 113 00:05:51,630 --> 00:05:54,530 The irony is if I cough up a lung, I'm going to end up in the ER, 114 00:05:54,870 --> 00:05:58,371 and then I'm going to have to see you, David, again, so yeah, I really should quit. 115 00:05:59,730 --> 00:06:00,890 So it didn't go well then? 116 00:06:02,810 --> 00:06:07,290 Well, I've got all my shit in the back of my car, so... as well as expected. 117 00:06:07,990 --> 00:06:08,990 Where are you going? 118 00:06:10,030 --> 00:06:11,030 I don't know. 119 00:06:17,580 --> 00:06:18,980 You know, he could've just told me. 120 00:06:21,460 --> 00:06:24,960 If it makes you feel better, he was fucking some nurse from once. 121 00:06:38,340 --> 00:06:39,500 You can't prepare it. 122 00:06:40,500 --> 00:06:42,640 I'm gross, but I'm not a complete asshole. 123 00:06:42,641 --> 00:06:43,641 Yeah, 124 00:07:00,770 --> 00:07:02,170 I didn't think that popped through. 125 00:07:06,280 --> 00:07:07,280 I should go. 126 00:07:07,760 --> 00:07:08,940 What are you doing out here? 127 00:07:09,320 --> 00:07:10,360 It cost out here a day. 128 00:07:10,640 --> 00:07:11,760 Come on, sort it out inside. 129 00:07:13,100 --> 00:07:14,100 All right. 130 00:07:14,960 --> 00:07:16,800 Come on, she'll be offended if you don't. 131 00:07:25,120 --> 00:07:26,820 Emily, this is my nan, Lorna. 132 00:07:27,600 --> 00:07:28,600 Hello, Emily. 133 00:07:29,800 --> 00:07:30,800 Come on in. 134 00:07:31,280 --> 00:07:33,091 You're much prettier when you're not carrying 135 00:07:33,092 --> 00:07:34,580 your shoes up the stairs at three hours. 136 00:07:34,600 --> 00:07:35,880 I'm going to tell you what I am. 137 00:07:37,260 --> 00:07:39,420 Did he tell you we're having a bit of a party? 138 00:07:39,820 --> 00:07:40,820 No, he did not. 139 00:07:41,180 --> 00:07:42,180 That's my 50th. 140 00:07:42,340 --> 00:07:43,340 Not my birthday. 141 00:07:44,540 --> 00:07:46,800 I'm a little bit older than 50. 142 00:07:47,360 --> 00:07:50,000 Tell you who's going to be very excited to see you. 143 00:07:52,800 --> 00:07:53,800 Morgan? 144 00:07:54,520 --> 00:07:55,520 This is Emily. 145 00:07:56,060 --> 00:07:57,060 This is Morgan. 146 00:07:57,260 --> 00:07:58,260 Nice to meet you, Emily. 147 00:07:58,380 --> 00:07:58,840 Nice to meet you. 148 00:07:59,240 --> 00:07:59,740 Happy anniversary. 149 00:07:59,741 --> 00:08:01,200 Oh, thank you. 150 00:08:01,460 --> 00:08:03,741 Look, Emily, I hope you're so up to drinks in the kitchen. 151 00:08:03,860 --> 00:08:04,440 And a baby boy. 152 00:08:04,580 --> 00:08:05,400 You'll get some music. 153 00:08:05,600 --> 00:08:05,720 Yeah. 154 00:08:06,140 --> 00:08:07,140 Come on. 155 00:08:07,620 --> 00:08:08,720 Oh, Ian. 156 00:08:10,320 --> 00:08:11,320 Baby boy, huh? 157 00:08:11,640 --> 00:08:12,640 Looks cute. 158 00:08:12,960 --> 00:08:13,960 Yeah. 159 00:08:17,900 --> 00:08:18,900 Wow. 160 00:08:19,000 --> 00:08:20,680 Did we walk all the way back to the 1980s? 161 00:08:20,880 --> 00:08:21,020 Yeah. 162 00:08:21,640 --> 00:08:22,640 This was my mum's room. 163 00:08:23,500 --> 00:08:26,340 See, there's a good parents. 164 00:08:26,920 --> 00:08:31,420 My mum turned my bedroom into a sewing room while I was still moving my things out. 165 00:08:31,421 --> 00:08:32,640 Is she any good at it? 166 00:08:33,020 --> 00:08:34,020 Fuck, no. 167 00:08:34,280 --> 00:08:35,860 It's been many rooms since then. 168 00:08:36,300 --> 00:08:39,580 Think of any white woman hobby, and I guarantee it's been that room at least once. 169 00:08:40,000 --> 00:08:41,140 Right, booking, quilting. 170 00:08:41,540 --> 00:08:42,540 You know it. 171 00:08:42,720 --> 00:08:45,120 Last time I was there, it was an interior design studio. 172 00:08:45,420 --> 00:08:48,900 I think she thinks having kids held her back from her true calling. 173 00:08:56,100 --> 00:08:57,440 What are we working with here? 174 00:09:04,620 --> 00:09:05,620 Oh. 175 00:09:06,320 --> 00:09:07,940 See where you get your taste from? 176 00:09:08,600 --> 00:09:09,900 Nothing here past 1992. 177 00:09:15,620 --> 00:09:16,640 Oh, there you are. 178 00:09:17,340 --> 00:09:17,900 You came. 179 00:09:18,220 --> 00:09:18,500 Of course. 180 00:09:19,140 --> 00:09:20,480 Any excuse for a few wines? 181 00:09:21,480 --> 00:09:22,140 Hello, this is Ellen. 182 00:09:22,440 --> 00:09:23,140 She's my work friend. 183 00:09:23,460 --> 00:09:23,540 Hi. 184 00:09:24,000 --> 00:09:25,000 My work friend. 185 00:09:25,080 --> 00:09:25,540 Listen to me. 186 00:09:25,660 --> 00:09:27,941 Makes it sound like I'm a 25-year-old intern or something. 187 00:09:29,640 --> 00:09:30,960 So, how do you know the family? 188 00:09:31,620 --> 00:09:34,820 Oh, Lorna and I know each other from the Salvation Army volunteer weekends. 189 00:09:35,400 --> 00:09:37,940 I got Ryan, his interview at the firm we work at. 190 00:09:39,380 --> 00:09:40,380 Sorry. 191 00:09:41,500 --> 00:09:42,700 Do you mind now? 192 00:09:43,160 --> 00:09:43,600 I'll be back. 193 00:09:43,840 --> 00:09:44,840 Yeah. 194 00:09:49,650 --> 00:09:52,140 Do you still want these under the couch? 195 00:09:55,340 --> 00:09:56,500 Not mine. 196 00:09:57,340 --> 00:09:58,540 What the fuck? 197 00:10:00,340 --> 00:10:01,680 She seems nice. 198 00:10:02,500 --> 00:10:04,340 Yeah, she is. 199 00:10:05,220 --> 00:10:05,520 But? 200 00:10:06,060 --> 00:10:07,760 But it's complicated. 201 00:10:08,400 --> 00:10:09,780 You're a forensic accountant. 202 00:10:10,180 --> 00:10:11,320 You deal with complicated everyday. 203 00:10:11,321 --> 00:10:13,780 Yeah, this is different. 204 00:10:14,480 --> 00:10:16,860 Something's only complicated until you understand it. 205 00:10:17,120 --> 00:10:18,120 You put some music on. 206 00:10:22,360 --> 00:10:23,280 Oh, thanks. 207 00:10:23,380 --> 00:10:24,380 No. 208 00:10:26,020 --> 00:10:27,500 Not hers, I swear. 209 00:10:28,560 --> 00:10:31,040 If they're not yours, I don't know who's. 210 00:10:33,500 --> 00:10:34,500 Aaron, Robert. 211 00:10:37,730 --> 00:10:39,050 Don't you do this. 212 00:10:39,270 --> 00:10:40,270 I want to put on girls. 213 00:10:40,510 --> 00:10:41,530 Do you remember that? 214 00:10:41,790 --> 00:10:43,110 I remember that when it came out. 215 00:11:28,500 --> 00:11:28,860 That's what I'm talking about. 216 00:11:28,861 --> 00:11:29,480 Thanks so much for coming. 217 00:11:29,840 --> 00:11:30,840 Thanks for coming. 218 00:11:31,200 --> 00:11:32,200 Enjoy. 219 00:11:35,740 --> 00:11:36,960 See you, Matt, Uncle Ian. 220 00:11:37,780 --> 00:11:38,220 Great, Uncle. 221 00:11:38,780 --> 00:11:39,360 He's not bad. 222 00:11:39,520 --> 00:11:40,000 I wouldn't say great. 223 00:11:40,440 --> 00:11:42,600 It makes it sound like he's never said that one before. 224 00:11:43,180 --> 00:11:44,180 You coming tomorrow? 225 00:11:44,540 --> 00:11:45,860 Are you going to be up for it? 226 00:11:46,100 --> 00:11:46,860 I'm always up for it. 227 00:11:46,980 --> 00:11:47,980 It's my job. 228 00:11:48,160 --> 00:11:49,160 This is mid-street. 229 00:11:49,440 --> 00:11:50,840 And you can blame this lovely girl. 230 00:11:51,540 --> 00:11:52,620 You should bring her along. 231 00:11:53,080 --> 00:11:54,320 It wouldn't make much of a day. 232 00:11:55,260 --> 00:11:56,260 Where are we going? 233 00:11:56,820 --> 00:11:59,040 Uncle Ian is revering in at the uniting church. 234 00:12:00,520 --> 00:12:01,520 Oh, my gosh. 235 00:12:01,760 --> 00:12:04,120 I have just been swearing at you this whole time. 236 00:12:04,180 --> 00:12:05,180 I'm so sorry. 237 00:12:05,520 --> 00:12:06,140 He doesn't give a shit. 238 00:12:06,440 --> 00:12:06,760 It's true. 239 00:12:07,060 --> 00:12:08,060 I don't give a shit. 240 00:12:08,640 --> 00:12:10,056 Don't worry, he's not trying to convert. 241 00:12:10,080 --> 00:12:10,400 You are anything. 242 00:12:10,580 --> 00:12:11,580 That's not true. 243 00:12:11,740 --> 00:12:12,860 I tried to convert everyone. 244 00:12:13,180 --> 00:12:14,860 Wouldn't be much of a minister if I didn't. 245 00:12:15,020 --> 00:12:16,060 Oh, I'll give you. 246 00:12:16,180 --> 00:12:17,580 There's nothing to convert me from. 247 00:12:17,860 --> 00:12:19,140 I am the daughter of heathens. 248 00:12:19,520 --> 00:12:19,740 Excellent. 249 00:12:19,741 --> 00:12:22,380 All my most successful converts have been heathens. 250 00:12:26,490 --> 00:12:27,490 You okay? 251 00:12:28,290 --> 00:12:29,290 Yes. 252 00:12:30,730 --> 00:12:31,730 Yes. 253 00:12:32,170 --> 00:12:33,970 It was lovely to meet you. 254 00:12:34,110 --> 00:12:35,310 It was lovely to meet you too. 255 00:12:44,610 --> 00:12:45,610 She's... interesting. 256 00:12:46,590 --> 00:12:47,590 Cheers. 257 00:12:52,790 --> 00:12:54,090 Thory's undies are mine. 258 00:12:55,070 --> 00:12:56,070 I forgot. 259 00:13:12,340 --> 00:13:13,640 You look a little bit lost. 260 00:13:14,700 --> 00:13:17,520 I'm just really not used to these family things. 261 00:13:18,680 --> 00:13:19,860 You don't have family? 262 00:13:20,280 --> 00:13:20,580 I do. 263 00:13:21,140 --> 00:13:22,220 Just not like this. 264 00:13:24,800 --> 00:13:26,020 It's okay to feel lost. 265 00:13:26,820 --> 00:13:29,666 I mean, it's not comfortable, but, you know, 266 00:13:29,667 --> 00:13:32,561 sometimes it clears the path for new things to happen. 267 00:13:39,280 --> 00:13:41,400 I was with someone else when I met him. 268 00:13:42,320 --> 00:13:42,800 Really? 269 00:13:42,801 --> 00:13:48,460 I mean, life rarely gives you what you want when you actually want it. 270 00:13:48,940 --> 00:13:49,940 What happened? 271 00:13:50,580 --> 00:13:51,580 No. 272 00:13:52,120 --> 00:13:53,120 Oh. 273 00:13:53,440 --> 00:13:54,740 Drama and heartache. 274 00:13:56,180 --> 00:13:59,580 But what's the alternative when you feel something so strongly? 275 00:14:02,880 --> 00:14:08,340 You know, one of the best things about getting older, you realise that the things 276 00:14:08,341 --> 00:14:11,980 you worry about now aren't going to matter in the future. 277 00:14:40,680 --> 00:14:42,440 A lunch break in my cup of tea. 278 00:14:48,360 --> 00:14:49,360 Speeches! 279 00:14:50,000 --> 00:14:51,000 Speeches, everybody! 280 00:14:55,300 --> 00:14:55,900 Hey, guys. 281 00:14:56,100 --> 00:14:59,020 I just want to welcome you to Morgan and Lorna's 50th wedding anniversary. 282 00:15:01,900 --> 00:15:03,500 Some of you have come a long way. 283 00:15:03,860 --> 00:15:08,120 Some from Victoria, New South Wales, Jim and Kate, coming down from Townsville, 284 00:15:08,280 --> 00:15:08,820 the three-day drive. 285 00:15:09,100 --> 00:15:10,100 Thank you. 286 00:15:10,420 --> 00:15:11,889 All the rest of you drive about five or ten 287 00:15:11,890 --> 00:15:14,301 minutes, which is not nearly as impressive. 288 00:15:14,480 --> 00:15:17,060 But I, myself, just wandered up from underneath the house. 289 00:15:19,400 --> 00:15:23,160 When I was born, Morgan and Lorna had already been married for 16 years. 290 00:15:24,040 --> 00:15:25,560 And they'd been married my whole life. 291 00:15:25,760 --> 00:15:28,340 And I can't imagine it any other way. 292 00:15:28,580 --> 00:15:29,700 They do everything together. 293 00:15:30,140 --> 00:15:31,140 Literally. 294 00:15:32,240 --> 00:15:33,640 Pop will go with none of the shops. 295 00:15:33,800 --> 00:15:37,320 You just sit on the couch outside, came out, and wait for her to do her thing. 296 00:15:37,321 --> 00:15:39,380 Has nothing to do, hates shopping. 297 00:15:40,240 --> 00:15:41,600 But he'll just sit there and wait. 298 00:15:42,520 --> 00:15:44,340 Even before he had a phone to scroll on. 299 00:15:46,720 --> 00:15:50,906 I remember when I was about nine or ten, and I was sitting 300 00:15:50,907 --> 00:15:53,601 with him on the couch waiting for what seemed like hours. 301 00:15:55,640 --> 00:15:59,340 And I wanted to go to the bookstore to the shoe shop, or I can't remember. 302 00:16:00,760 --> 00:16:03,060 And he said, no, he wouldn't let me go. 303 00:16:04,140 --> 00:16:05,540 This is where she knows we are. 304 00:16:06,860 --> 00:16:08,220 This is where we're going to wait. 305 00:16:10,180 --> 00:16:11,380 And now he does have a phone. 306 00:16:12,080 --> 00:16:14,093 And if he wanted to, he could wander off and 307 00:16:14,094 --> 00:16:15,660 do his own thing and call her or something. 308 00:16:15,840 --> 00:16:16,220 But he doesn't. 309 00:16:16,320 --> 00:16:19,000 He just sits there and tags her in a couple of dozen Facebook posts. 310 00:16:20,280 --> 00:16:21,280 Dirty memes. 311 00:16:24,340 --> 00:16:26,540 And then she gets home later that night in the hearts. 312 00:16:26,860 --> 00:16:29,300 Every single one of them to let him know that she's seen her. 313 00:16:31,660 --> 00:16:34,380 When they first met, they'd known each other from around the traps. 314 00:16:34,381 --> 00:16:35,381 But they were talked. 315 00:16:36,880 --> 00:16:39,758 And then one day at a working bee, Pop was on lunch and he 316 00:16:39,759 --> 00:16:42,260 was making a cup of tea, and he decided to make that one. 317 00:16:43,300 --> 00:16:44,300 And she said, thank you. 318 00:16:44,301 --> 00:16:45,341 And they started chatting. 319 00:16:46,520 --> 00:16:49,300 And by the end of the chat, he'd asked her out on a date. 320 00:16:50,340 --> 00:16:52,100 And then two months later, they were married. 321 00:16:56,160 --> 00:16:58,540 I don't think you've made a cup of tea ever since, have you? 322 00:16:58,680 --> 00:16:59,680 No. 323 00:17:01,460 --> 00:17:02,460 Anyway. 324 00:17:03,180 --> 00:17:04,300 Take some more, that's mine. 325 00:17:08,620 --> 00:17:10,120 Thank you all for coming. 326 00:17:12,260 --> 00:17:16,941 We don't usually celebrate this day, but 50 years is 327 00:17:16,942 --> 00:17:20,660 a long time and we haven't had one of these since... 328 00:17:21,700 --> 00:17:24,020 Well, you know, it's... yes, it's been a while. 329 00:17:24,880 --> 00:17:25,880 And... 330 00:17:28,140 --> 00:17:29,600 Don't really know what to say. 331 00:17:30,140 --> 00:17:35,840 Oh, I guess I'd want to thank my beautiful wife for putting up with me. 332 00:17:36,300 --> 00:17:37,400 Thank you, Lorna. 333 00:17:39,660 --> 00:17:41,200 Yeah, thank you for coming. 334 00:17:41,820 --> 00:17:43,000 It means a lot. 335 00:17:45,600 --> 00:17:51,280 So, have a drink for us, and you can have one for Nora too. 336 00:17:53,200 --> 00:17:54,200 Yeah. 337 00:17:55,520 --> 00:17:56,520 Yeah, all right. 338 00:17:56,980 --> 00:17:58,280 Thank you. 339 00:18:00,340 --> 00:18:01,420 It's beautiful, darling. 340 00:18:38,210 --> 00:18:39,550 She looks so young. 341 00:18:39,910 --> 00:18:40,910 Well, she was young. 342 00:18:41,430 --> 00:18:42,750 15 there, that seemed together. 343 00:18:43,870 --> 00:18:47,510 A week before her 16th birthday was an ideal, of course. 344 00:18:48,150 --> 00:18:49,450 But she was good with him. 345 00:18:51,090 --> 00:18:52,090 Very sweet. 346 00:18:52,330 --> 00:18:53,810 She had a beautiful voice, too. 347 00:18:54,630 --> 00:18:55,070 Really? 348 00:18:55,350 --> 00:18:58,970 Yeah, she sang in the choir, loudest one there. 349 00:18:59,410 --> 00:19:04,850 And not a show off, nothing like that, but... You just knew who it was coming from. 350 00:19:06,990 --> 00:19:08,110 That's what I miss the most. 351 00:19:10,230 --> 00:19:15,791 I used to sit in my chair in the afternoon and hear a singing term when he was little. 352 00:19:16,990 --> 00:19:18,850 She's the only one who could put him to sleep. 353 00:19:19,550 --> 00:19:20,550 Nobody else could. 354 00:19:21,010 --> 00:19:22,010 Problem child. 355 00:19:22,370 --> 00:19:24,010 No, no, no, no. 356 00:19:24,770 --> 00:19:25,910 He was just like her. 357 00:19:26,230 --> 00:19:29,190 They both picked up on the same things. 358 00:19:30,830 --> 00:19:38,171 Both joined the same frequency, I think, but he was better equipped for it, though. 359 00:19:42,070 --> 00:19:43,530 She's got lost somewhere. 360 00:19:47,680 --> 00:19:48,980 Don't know what went wrong. 361 00:19:51,640 --> 00:19:52,640 I wish I did. 362 00:19:55,040 --> 00:19:56,640 Oh, look, I'm sorry. 363 00:19:57,140 --> 00:19:59,200 This is not a very good introduction, too, isn't it? 364 00:19:59,440 --> 00:20:00,440 What is? 365 00:20:18,990 --> 00:20:20,910 That was a beautiful speech. 366 00:20:24,450 --> 00:20:25,890 I'm sorry about your mum. 367 00:20:27,650 --> 00:20:28,650 I had no idea. 368 00:20:32,610 --> 00:20:34,190 She was 19 when she died. 369 00:20:36,990 --> 00:20:39,510 She was in and out of trouble and ended up dying of an overdose. 370 00:20:41,690 --> 00:20:43,570 Didn't I tell you she was 15 when she had me? 371 00:20:45,070 --> 00:20:46,130 She was a baby. 372 00:20:47,030 --> 00:20:48,030 I wouldn't go that far. 373 00:20:48,110 --> 00:20:51,610 Most 15-year-olds on out, shoplifting and partying and doing drugs, while I said, 374 00:20:51,750 --> 00:20:53,710 baby, is at home with these stressed grandparents. 375 00:20:55,230 --> 00:20:56,270 Do you know what happened? 376 00:20:57,950 --> 00:21:00,690 She escaped rehab, went missing for a couple of weeks. 377 00:21:01,570 --> 00:21:02,570 Not like in the movies. 378 00:21:02,990 --> 00:21:06,270 Just some random teen camp out in the country. 379 00:21:07,690 --> 00:21:09,110 I took her there a couple of times. 380 00:21:09,950 --> 00:21:11,190 At first it was all good. 381 00:21:11,890 --> 00:21:14,750 She was apparently very serious about being responsible for a while. 382 00:21:15,530 --> 00:21:16,810 And obviously that didn't stick. 383 00:21:18,530 --> 00:21:20,970 The second time I guess she just couldn't take it. 384 00:21:23,870 --> 00:21:25,890 And said she really didn't want to go that time. 385 00:21:28,210 --> 00:21:30,710 And so she jumped a fence and took off one night. 386 00:21:40,440 --> 00:21:43,780 I found her a couple of weeks later in the city in some random house. 387 00:21:45,080 --> 00:21:46,960 I said she'd probably die in a few days earlier. 388 00:21:50,720 --> 00:21:51,720 Yeah. 389 00:22:00,720 --> 00:22:05,520 Yeah, Nan told me once she felt like a sense of relief in the end. 390 00:22:08,520 --> 00:22:12,320 They'd been waiting years for that phone call, years of constant anxiety and worry. 391 00:22:12,680 --> 00:22:13,680 And then it was over. 392 00:22:16,780 --> 00:22:18,520 And she was sad, of course, but relieved. 393 00:22:21,380 --> 00:22:22,600 What about your grandpa? 394 00:22:23,360 --> 00:22:24,360 I don't know. 395 00:22:24,520 --> 00:22:26,760 I think we all just remember her differently. 396 00:23:10,510 --> 00:23:11,510 I should go. 397 00:23:15,090 --> 00:23:16,190 I'd like you to stay. 398 00:23:34,150 --> 00:23:35,810 I just want you to be happy.