1 00:00:41,450 --> 00:00:44,245 Rivka, I like the weather from this period. 2 00:00:46,247 --> 00:00:49,792 - What do you think? - You don't want to know. 3 00:00:49,875 --> 00:00:51,335 what do you choose 4 00:00:52,169 --> 00:00:56,924 The best we have. You never know. Isn't that right? Good. 5 00:01:01,637 --> 00:01:03,764 You made cookies. 6 00:01:03,847 --> 00:01:06,392 Honey, come in! 7 00:01:08,644 --> 00:01:12,481 Look at you! A friend's daughter your father's is here. 8 00:01:12,565 --> 00:01:16,819 - Just graduated from Hofstra. - What do you mean by that? 9 00:01:16,902 --> 00:01:19,572 Shut up, honey! It was a last minute thing. 10 00:01:19,613 --> 00:01:21,699 Something last minute set a month ago. 11 00:01:21,740 --> 00:01:23,951 Be kind! 12 00:01:24,034 --> 00:01:26,745 look who showed up in the end! 13 00:01:26,829 --> 00:01:29,206 Martin, make the introductions! 14 00:01:29,290 --> 00:01:31,917 Sure. He is my son, Nelson, and... 15 00:01:32,001 --> 00:01:33,752 Celeste Levitz. 16 00:01:33,836 --> 00:01:34,879 Hello! 17 00:01:35,254 --> 00:01:37,923 - Okay... - I'm fine, Celeste Levitz. 18 00:01:38,215 --> 00:01:40,551 It's my pleasure. 19 00:01:43,804 --> 00:01:45,598 Dinner is served! 20 00:01:45,681 --> 00:01:48,642 Shall we go to the living room? Let's go eat! 21 00:01:49,143 --> 00:01:50,728 Come on, Martin! 22 00:01:50,978 --> 00:01:52,855 It's going to be a great dinner. 23 00:01:54,899 --> 00:01:59,361 COMPETITION FOR THE BRIDE PERFECT JEW 24 00:02:29,767 --> 00:02:34,146 MY SON IS GAY 25 00:02:35,481 --> 00:02:37,983 DAMN MY SON IS A FOOL! 26 00:03:27,867 --> 00:03:31,078 Honey, what do you know about this girl? 27 00:03:31,162 --> 00:03:34,540 Celeste? Lives in Great Neck, she has good parents, she is a member of the club, 28 00:03:34,623 --> 00:03:38,127 has major contributions to the synagogue and she is extremely rich. 29 00:03:38,210 --> 00:03:41,964 Except she's rich, I don't think she's good for Nelson. 30 00:03:42,089 --> 00:03:43,716 - Did you notice that? - Yes. 31 00:03:43,799 --> 00:03:45,468 Why did you invite her here? 32 00:03:45,551 --> 00:03:47,970 What do you mean why did I invite her? You suggested. 33 00:03:48,053 --> 00:03:50,598 I just said Larry Levitz's daughter he came back from school. 34 00:03:50,681 --> 00:03:52,141 You were ready to organize the wedding. 35 00:03:52,224 --> 00:03:55,186 Dad, what about the girls? that you present to me? 36 00:03:55,269 --> 00:03:57,938 Me? It's her fault. I'm not worried about you. 37 00:03:59,273 --> 00:04:03,569 You should know that there is someone in my life 38 00:04:03,652 --> 00:04:05,196 is there 39 00:04:05,529 --> 00:04:07,531 Really? 40 00:04:07,615 --> 00:04:10,910 Mazel, mazel, mazel tov! 41 00:04:10,993 --> 00:04:13,621 - Who is it? - I was going to tell you. 42 00:04:13,704 --> 00:04:16,332 Are you waiting for the Messiah? 43 00:04:16,791 --> 00:04:18,918 Is it something serious? 44 00:04:19,293 --> 00:04:22,296 - Yes. We could say. - Wonderful! 45 00:04:22,671 --> 00:04:25,132 I am very happy. 46 00:04:25,216 --> 00:04:29,637 Mazel tov! When will we meet her? 47 00:04:29,845 --> 00:04:32,807 Shirley, calm down! No one calls the rabbi yet. 48 00:04:33,557 --> 00:04:35,226 Dad is right. 49 00:04:36,477 --> 00:04:39,480 - I'll tell you when I'm ready. - Okay, but I can be happy. 50 00:04:39,855 --> 00:04:41,899 I am very happy. 51 00:04:49,031 --> 00:04:51,492 Angelo, Sybil, sorry for the delay. 52 00:04:51,575 --> 00:04:53,411 - Hello! - Hello! 53 00:04:53,494 --> 00:04:56,580 - How do I look? - Extremely sensual. 54 00:04:56,705 --> 00:04:59,291 - Me too? - You two make a great couple. 55 00:05:01,502 --> 00:05:03,295 - The tickets. - Let's go! 56 00:05:04,213 --> 00:05:07,466 Shirley, leave him alone! He doesn't need you to find him women. 57 00:05:07,550 --> 00:05:11,429 I'm just worried. How many sons will I have in this life? 58 00:05:12,430 --> 00:05:16,225 - With me? None. - I want to know who she is with. 59 00:05:16,308 --> 00:05:19,645 My son is alone in the world. He is alone. 60 00:05:19,729 --> 00:05:22,898 It's nothing. He is a confident, healthy young man. 61 00:05:23,941 --> 00:05:26,610 But who is she? We don't know anything about her. 62 00:05:26,694 --> 00:05:30,489 - He could be my age. - Don't talk nonsense! 63 00:05:30,573 --> 00:05:32,992 That's how they behave now. Young boys with... 64 00:05:33,075 --> 00:05:35,745 Young boys with what? 65 00:05:35,828 --> 00:05:38,414 is she jewish We don't even know if she is Jewish. 66 00:05:38,497 --> 00:05:42,126 Why did I forget to ask him that? How could I? 67 00:05:42,209 --> 00:05:44,462 I have no idea if she is Jewish. 68 00:05:45,546 --> 00:05:49,717 What if she's black? Exactly I need a black man in the family! 69 00:05:50,259 --> 00:05:53,721 I don't care if it's blue purple or green. 70 00:05:53,804 --> 00:05:55,681 Don't be spotted. 71 00:06:22,541 --> 00:06:23,918 who are you 72 00:06:24,001 --> 00:06:27,254 I am Angelo Ferraro. Who do I have the pleasure with? 73 00:06:27,338 --> 00:06:30,174 I'm Mrs. Hirsch. I'm Nelson's mother. 74 00:06:30,508 --> 00:06:32,593 Do you want to see my papers? 75 00:06:32,677 --> 00:06:37,473 - No, sorry. Enter, please! - Thank you. 76 00:06:40,976 --> 00:06:43,396 I thought Nelson was home at this time. 77 00:06:44,980 --> 00:06:47,233 - He just called. - Thank you. 78 00:06:47,316 --> 00:06:49,735 You can also find him at the office, probable. 79 00:06:51,112 --> 00:06:53,155 have we met 80 00:06:53,239 --> 00:06:55,741 I'm Nelson's decorator. 81 00:06:55,825 --> 00:07:00,204 I give him little pointers and I beg you to listen to me. 82 00:07:00,663 --> 00:07:04,250 I didn't see the apartment to look so beautiful. 83 00:07:04,333 --> 00:07:06,085 - Do you believe? - Yes. 84 00:07:06,627 --> 00:07:10,256 Actually, you think you might come at my house 85 00:07:10,339 --> 00:07:11,882 give me some advice 86 00:07:11,966 --> 00:07:15,261 - I would be delighted. - I'd love to. 87 00:07:16,012 --> 00:07:18,389 - Hello, Sybil! - Hello! 88 00:07:18,472 --> 00:07:24,228 Sybil, you are Mrs. Hirsch, Nelson's mother. 89 00:07:25,104 --> 00:07:27,356 Hello! I'm Sybil Williams. 90 00:07:27,440 --> 00:07:30,026 I like it. I've heard a lot about you. 91 00:07:30,109 --> 00:07:31,527 Me too, about you. 92 00:07:31,610 --> 00:07:36,365 I live on the ground floor, and your dear son lets me use his jacuzzi. 93 00:07:36,449 --> 00:07:38,868 Wow? Jacuzzi? 94 00:07:39,243 --> 00:07:43,622 Sybil? I could talk to you in private? 95 00:07:43,706 --> 00:07:49,628 Yes. I wanted to go get it candles for the apartment. Bye! 96 00:07:52,715 --> 00:07:55,217 Sybil, I want to talk. 97 00:08:07,271 --> 00:08:08,648 I'm from California, 98 00:08:08,731 --> 00:08:11,400 and my lips don't adjust New York time. 99 00:08:11,484 --> 00:08:13,402 Yes, I know. 100 00:08:17,740 --> 00:08:19,408 Is there any problem? 101 00:08:19,492 --> 00:08:22,411 No... I don't... 102 00:08:23,120 --> 00:08:28,042 i am fine And you are fine. Thank you very much for everything. 103 00:08:28,459 --> 00:08:32,838 Sure. I was thinking that you would like... You know... 104 00:08:32,922 --> 00:08:35,800 Are you welcome? Not me. I'm not like that. 105 00:08:35,925 --> 00:08:38,594 You don't have to worry for me 106 00:08:39,011 --> 00:08:40,763 I'm not worried. 107 00:08:42,765 --> 00:08:44,850 Have I seen you somewhere before? 108 00:08:45,434 --> 00:08:48,229 Sure. Have you read "Playpen" from this month? 109 00:08:49,272 --> 00:08:51,774 - Yes, "Playpen"! - Yes. 110 00:08:51,857 --> 00:08:53,776 You have a problem with this, Mrs. Hirsch? 111 00:08:53,859 --> 00:08:57,488 No, it's just... It's very interesting. 112 00:08:58,572 --> 00:09:02,326 Do you want to come in with me? There is room for both. 113 00:09:02,410 --> 00:09:04,787 - No. - Nelson and I fit together. 114 00:09:05,663 --> 00:09:08,958 - I'm already very clean. - Okay. 115 00:09:09,041 --> 00:09:13,004 But thank you, you are very kind. Thank you for the invitation. 116 00:09:13,045 --> 00:09:15,256 - Okay. - Maybe, on another occasion. 117 00:09:15,756 --> 00:09:19,176 You and Nelson enter in the jacuzzi together? 118 00:09:19,260 --> 00:09:22,096 All the time. We like it! 119 00:09:22,972 --> 00:09:28,894 But we do more than jacuzzis. We go to the theater, to dance clubs. 120 00:09:28,978 --> 00:09:33,399 - We like to... move. - Yes, movement. 121 00:09:33,482 --> 00:09:37,028 And he takes care of my finances, because I don't know anything about money. 122 00:09:37,486 --> 00:09:42,033 Glad to hear you and Nelson you are so close 123 00:09:42,450 --> 00:09:45,828 I'll let you enjoy the jacuzzi. Continue! 124 00:09:46,287 --> 00:09:47,705 That's what I'm going to do. 125 00:09:52,585 --> 00:09:54,378 - Sybil? - Mrs. Hirsch? 126 00:09:54,462 --> 00:09:57,548 Not. Call me "Shirley". 127 00:09:57,924 --> 00:10:02,136 Sybil, I want to know how do you feel about my son 128 00:10:04,138 --> 00:10:12,146 Nelson is a wonderful man, caring, loving, very likeable. 129 00:10:12,647 --> 00:10:15,274 We feel very good together. 130 00:10:15,358 --> 00:10:18,694 He is really special. 131 00:10:19,278 --> 00:10:22,073 Beautiful! 132 00:10:22,990 --> 00:10:26,869 By the way, which college did you say? that you finished 133 00:10:26,953 --> 00:10:33,167 I didn't say, but if you're interested, it was a private institution. 134 00:10:33,334 --> 00:10:35,378 A private institution! 135 00:10:35,461 --> 00:10:38,839 Yes. Very private. 136 00:10:39,423 --> 00:10:42,885 Very private? Good. Excellent! 137 00:10:43,010 --> 00:10:45,263 It's extraordinary! 138 00:10:48,307 --> 00:10:52,144 Sybil? Is it a Jewish name? I don't think so. 139 00:11:00,987 --> 00:11:02,530 The orders. 140 00:11:07,368 --> 00:11:08,953 Linda! 141 00:11:10,663 --> 00:11:12,123 Linda, this is... 142 00:11:12,748 --> 00:11:14,375 - Hello, Mrs. Hirsch! - Hello! 143 00:11:14,458 --> 00:11:18,379 It's new. okay? Take care of her! Thank you. 144 00:11:18,462 --> 00:11:20,298 Shirley? What... 145 00:11:20,381 --> 00:11:23,342 This, my dear, is Nelson's girlfriend. 146 00:11:24,385 --> 00:11:25,595 Are you welcome? 147 00:11:26,095 --> 00:11:28,055 - Go to the office! - Okay. 148 00:11:39,358 --> 00:11:40,776 Good... 149 00:11:40,860 --> 00:11:44,030 Is Nelson dating a model? 150 00:11:44,113 --> 00:11:47,617 Not only that, she is the star of the month. 151 00:11:47,700 --> 00:11:51,496 As I suspected, I don't think she's Jewish. 152 00:11:51,579 --> 00:11:54,123 - Who cares? - Martin... 153 00:11:54,916 --> 00:11:56,542 How do you know she's not Jewish? 154 00:11:56,626 --> 00:11:59,545 Now I'm coming from his apartment. I met her. 155 00:12:01,172 --> 00:12:04,133 Martin? Put your tongue back in your mouth! 156 00:12:04,217 --> 00:12:07,553 what are you doing Are you breaking into his house? You shouldn't, Shirley. 157 00:12:07,637 --> 00:12:11,974 Don't be ridiculous. A mother does that. I am his mother, and I have every right. 158 00:12:12,058 --> 00:12:13,976 Nelson is 25 years old. He is a mature man. 159 00:12:14,060 --> 00:12:17,271 - I'm still his mother. - You have no right to spy on them. 160 00:12:17,355 --> 00:12:19,774 Don't tell me what rights I have! 161 00:12:20,900 --> 00:12:23,319 Look at her! 162 00:12:25,404 --> 00:12:27,406 You can stop staring now. 163 00:12:27,490 --> 00:12:30,034 A model fell in love by my boy I'm proud of him. 164 00:12:30,076 --> 00:12:31,202 Yes, you are... 165 00:12:31,327 --> 00:12:34,247 - Good morning, Shirley! - Good morning, uncle Moishe! 166 00:12:34,288 --> 00:12:37,083 - Are you going to the toilet? - No. 167 00:12:37,166 --> 00:12:39,335 Give it to me! It's my magazine, Uncle Moishe. 168 00:12:39,418 --> 00:12:40,461 - Yours? - Yes. 169 00:12:40,503 --> 00:12:42,797 Good. Take it home! 170 00:12:42,880 --> 00:12:45,716 Don't leave it here if you want for your husband to work 171 00:12:45,800 --> 00:12:48,136 so we can feed you and the rest of the family. 172 00:12:48,261 --> 00:12:51,639 I thought we were pretty rich so that Martin doesn't have to work much anymore 173 00:12:51,722 --> 00:12:53,599 and take it easier. 174 00:12:53,724 --> 00:12:55,601 We are not that rich for him to waste time 175 00:12:55,685 --> 00:12:59,188 reading that mess during the program. 176 00:12:59,272 --> 00:13:01,149 You are done with the transport for Japan? 177 00:13:01,232 --> 00:13:04,443 go look you will see that it is almost ready. 178 00:13:05,736 --> 00:13:07,530 You will miss him. 179 00:13:07,613 --> 00:13:09,991 I don't know why I still work for him. 180 00:13:10,116 --> 00:13:13,119 Don't be mean. He only has you. 181 00:13:13,202 --> 00:13:15,621 And it pays you very well, 182 00:13:15,705 --> 00:13:18,541 and one day you will inherit all his business. 183 00:13:18,624 --> 00:13:21,127 One day ? do you think I don't think he'll ever die. 184 00:13:21,169 --> 00:13:23,796 - We all die. - Not him either. 185 00:13:23,880 --> 00:13:27,550 - He is 80 years old. - For him, it's middle age. 186 00:13:30,052 --> 00:13:33,389 - Do you know? I think they like her. - Yes? 187 00:13:33,473 --> 00:13:36,392 - I thought she was a good girl. - Wonderful! 188 00:13:36,517 --> 00:13:40,980 - How do we explain to him about her? - Who cares? What does it matter? 189 00:13:41,063 --> 00:13:43,191 If Uncle Moishe ever finds out 190 00:13:43,274 --> 00:13:45,318 that your son is getting married with a non-jew 191 00:13:45,401 --> 00:13:49,530 model, "Playpen" star of the month, he will replace you on the spot. 192 00:13:49,614 --> 00:13:52,533 He will call his lawyer and will change his will. 193 00:13:52,617 --> 00:13:54,786 What do you want me to do, Shirley? 194 00:13:54,869 --> 00:13:57,747 as usual do what you know best. 195 00:13:57,830 --> 00:13:59,081 It doesn't do anything. 196 00:14:00,792 --> 00:14:02,502 - Marty? - Yes? 197 00:14:02,585 --> 00:14:07,757 - Come here to a real man. - I'm here, with real difficulties. 198 00:14:08,174 --> 00:14:10,968 Do you have time for a game of poker? 199 00:14:11,052 --> 00:14:14,013 Not. Shirley and I are busy tonight 200 00:14:15,348 --> 00:14:17,266 Are you hitting on him tonight? 201 00:14:17,391 --> 00:14:21,729 I don't think anyone heard you from the hall. Jesus, Max! 202 00:14:21,813 --> 00:14:24,107 It's not all about sex. 203 00:14:24,190 --> 00:14:26,734 You are getting old. 204 00:14:30,530 --> 00:14:32,448 You have nothing to worry about. 205 00:14:32,532 --> 00:14:37,161 Your father lived to be 103 years old, having sex around the clock. 206 00:14:37,245 --> 00:14:41,707 You are obsessed with this subject. Like Uncle Moishe the octogenarian. 207 00:14:41,791 --> 00:14:43,584 Uncle Moishe still can? 208 00:14:43,668 --> 00:14:45,128 You like this subject, I see. 209 00:14:45,211 --> 00:14:51,300 He likes women with delicate bones, as long as they come with a lot of money. 210 00:14:51,384 --> 00:14:53,803 Money can buy anything. 211 00:14:53,886 --> 00:14:55,263 I can't buy love, Max. 212 00:14:55,346 --> 00:14:57,265 Because you don't spend enough. 213 00:14:57,348 --> 00:14:59,183 I'm talking about true love, max. 214 00:14:59,225 --> 00:15:02,395 Marty, money can buy anything. 215 00:15:02,478 --> 00:15:06,274 - What are you saying, that I bought your sister? - Are you kidding me? It was a special offer. 216 00:15:09,527 --> 00:15:13,781 How is the nephew, the boy Nelson? Still wreaking havoc in real estate? 217 00:15:13,865 --> 00:15:15,783 Yes. It's good, thanks. 218 00:15:15,867 --> 00:15:17,577 Sex? 219 00:15:17,994 --> 00:15:21,164 Yes. I think so. Certainly. 220 00:15:21,247 --> 00:15:23,416 Like father, like son... 221 00:15:24,667 --> 00:15:28,546 I thought a lot and... 222 00:15:28,629 --> 00:15:32,216 I think it's time you knew about my life 223 00:15:32,300 --> 00:15:34,802 yes dear I know everything about her. 224 00:15:34,886 --> 00:15:37,847 What? No! Mom, you're not listening to me. 225 00:15:38,473 --> 00:15:41,976 There is no she in my life. 226 00:15:42,060 --> 00:15:47,440 yes dear Martin, where is he? my mac ultra moisturizing cream ? 227 00:15:48,024 --> 00:15:50,610 I can't believe it your father uses my creams. 228 00:15:51,152 --> 00:15:53,321 He thinks I'm rejuvenating him. 229 00:15:53,404 --> 00:15:56,616 Men are so stupid! Creams these only work on women. 230 00:15:57,575 --> 00:15:59,660 Anyway, what were we talking about? 231 00:15:59,702 --> 00:16:01,704 Yes. I warn you... 232 00:16:01,746 --> 00:16:08,211 I will start a whole campaign, to introduce her to the whole family. 233 00:16:08,544 --> 00:16:10,630 Maybe not the whole family. 234 00:16:10,713 --> 00:16:13,966 Do you know something? You can invite her at your cousin's wedding tomorrow. 235 00:16:14,050 --> 00:16:16,803 - Mother... - Or better not. I don't know. 236 00:16:16,886 --> 00:16:21,182 It's very hard for me to tell you, and you don't make my situation any easier. 237 00:16:21,265 --> 00:16:23,643 yes dear 238 00:16:24,143 --> 00:16:29,315 - I'm... - Andrea, where is my brush? Here it is! 239 00:16:29,816 --> 00:16:33,903 Andrea, did you use my brush? This is not my hair. 240 00:16:33,986 --> 00:16:36,239 No, leave me alone! 241 00:16:36,322 --> 00:16:39,033 Mother, please listen to me! 242 00:16:39,117 --> 00:16:43,079 You have no idea what your IQ level is I have to do in this house! 243 00:16:43,454 --> 00:16:45,331 Okay, go on! 244 00:16:45,415 --> 00:16:48,501 Mom, I'm... gay. 245 00:16:48,584 --> 00:16:51,796 God! again, your mother is tortured! 246 00:16:51,879 --> 00:16:56,509 Where are my tweezers? darling, i'm late I'm hysterical. 247 00:16:56,634 --> 00:16:58,886 Let's talk about it tomorrow, okay? 248 00:16:58,970 --> 00:17:02,056 sending you love hugs and kisses. 249 00:17:02,140 --> 00:17:05,059 Send her my love your girlfriend, okay? 250 00:17:06,394 --> 00:17:09,772 i love you Bye! 251 00:17:13,401 --> 00:17:14,485 Not bad. 252 00:17:22,869 --> 00:17:24,162 Hello! 253 00:17:24,954 --> 00:17:26,998 Hello! 254 00:17:27,248 --> 00:17:28,958 what do you have 255 00:17:29,042 --> 00:17:30,793 It's about the mother. 256 00:17:30,877 --> 00:17:34,339 As I always said, it's about your mother. 257 00:17:36,466 --> 00:17:38,760 I tried to tell him about us today. 258 00:17:39,218 --> 00:17:40,970 And? 259 00:17:41,054 --> 00:17:43,556 She was too caught up in her own world to listen to me. 260 00:17:43,640 --> 00:17:46,643 It's not the end of the world. 261 00:17:47,685 --> 00:17:50,980 When I tell him and he screams... it will be the end of the world. 262 00:17:52,106 --> 00:17:54,108 It's not a big deal, stay calm. 263 00:17:56,402 --> 00:17:58,529 There is something else. 264 00:17:59,155 --> 00:18:02,742 He wants to introduce Sybil to the entire Hirsch family. 265 00:18:03,368 --> 00:18:05,036 Tomorrow, at the wedding. 266 00:18:08,331 --> 00:18:10,083 Wait! 267 00:18:10,166 --> 00:18:12,335 Aren't you taking me to the wedding? 268 00:18:12,418 --> 00:18:13,503 I didn't say that. 269 00:18:13,628 --> 00:18:16,673 We agreed to let each other know families before my birthday. 270 00:18:16,756 --> 00:18:18,841 I know, but... 271 00:18:19,384 --> 00:18:22,637 Maybe it should let's look at things differently. 272 00:18:23,096 --> 00:18:27,725 You don't think we should tell them parents that we are gay first 273 00:18:28,184 --> 00:18:29,852 and let them digest this? 274 00:18:29,936 --> 00:18:33,564 Then when I'm ready to fully accept 275 00:18:34,357 --> 00:18:36,818 let's tell them about us. 276 00:18:38,278 --> 00:18:41,281 Do you know something? I can be mean too. Take Sybil! 277 00:18:48,329 --> 00:18:51,374 It's too early. They are not ready. 278 00:18:52,750 --> 00:18:56,879 Sometimes... I feel like the whole world she's not ready 279 00:19:08,516 --> 00:19:14,105 Hey...Cowboy! 280 00:19:22,030 --> 00:19:24,073 It's your birthday soon. 281 00:19:25,575 --> 00:19:27,452 what do you want to do 282 00:19:29,203 --> 00:19:31,039 you remembered 283 00:19:33,625 --> 00:19:36,127 Laced fox... 284 00:19:38,922 --> 00:19:42,425 I want to have breakfast at Brennan's, 285 00:19:42,508 --> 00:19:45,595 then I want to have dinner at Antoine's, 286 00:19:45,678 --> 00:19:47,680 after which I want to go to the club. 287 00:19:47,764 --> 00:19:52,143 i want to dance with you until we can't anymore. 288 00:19:53,228 --> 00:19:57,523 Or... We can celebrate here. 289 00:19:58,483 --> 00:20:01,194 In a pleasant and intimate atmosphere. 290 00:20:02,654 --> 00:20:04,697 In the apartment? 291 00:20:05,657 --> 00:20:08,910 yes in the apartment where no one sees us. 292 00:20:08,993 --> 00:20:10,912 That's great, Nelson! 293 00:20:12,830 --> 00:20:14,540 That's not what I meant. 294 00:20:25,802 --> 00:20:27,470 Get out, Romeo! 295 00:20:30,306 --> 00:20:32,976 You will suffocate there. 296 00:20:40,650 --> 00:20:44,487 As for me, I consider you out and you can't go back in. 297 00:20:44,571 --> 00:20:46,281 I won't leave you. 298 00:20:53,872 --> 00:20:56,708 I'm going to blow and knock the door down. 299 00:20:57,417 --> 00:20:59,043 Angel? 300 00:20:59,878 --> 00:21:03,381 It's not funny anymore. Open the door immediately! 301 00:21:03,923 --> 00:21:05,508 Come on! 302 00:21:35,330 --> 00:21:37,123 Good. 303 00:21:38,041 --> 00:21:39,834 you can come with me 304 00:21:41,753 --> 00:21:43,296 Tomorrow. 305 00:21:45,006 --> 00:21:46,591 At the wedding. 306 00:21:48,468 --> 00:21:49,719 Thank you. 307 00:21:50,553 --> 00:21:52,722 God, what am I wearing? 308 00:22:18,373 --> 00:22:21,668 Martin? Come a little! to see you 309 00:22:22,377 --> 00:22:24,921 - What is it? - You can't wear that shirt, dear. 310 00:22:25,046 --> 00:22:27,966 You wore it last week, at Aunt Sandy's funeral. 311 00:22:30,677 --> 00:22:32,720 wedding, funeral, what is the difference 312 00:22:32,804 --> 00:22:34,097 what did you say 313 00:22:34,180 --> 00:22:36,057 Yes, I'm changing. 314 00:22:38,977 --> 00:22:40,687 What are you looking at? 315 00:22:40,770 --> 00:22:43,523 Your last decision was to marry 316 00:22:46,401 --> 00:22:48,570 Whatever it is... it can't wait until after the wedding? 317 00:22:48,653 --> 00:22:52,031 Mom, I'm coming to the wedding with someone special to me. 318 00:22:52,115 --> 00:22:55,994 How good! I know everyone they will be glad to meet her. 319 00:22:56,119 --> 00:22:58,830 I would like you to tell him what does it mean to be jewish 320 00:22:58,872 --> 00:23:02,292 - He is coming to a Jewish wedding. - No, mom, you don't understand. 321 00:23:02,375 --> 00:23:04,752 Good. Don't be late! i love you 322 00:23:08,715 --> 00:23:11,092 do you like me in red 323 00:23:11,176 --> 00:23:14,053 Not. You adore me in red. 324 00:23:18,057 --> 00:23:21,769 You always miss me and usually I'm waiting for you. 325 00:23:21,853 --> 00:23:23,605 Don't pack, I'm coming! 326 00:23:23,688 --> 00:23:26,149 - I hate weddings. - Shut up! 327 00:23:26,983 --> 00:23:28,985 What are you wearing? 328 00:23:29,068 --> 00:23:33,031 I buy you nice clothes, and never wear them. 329 00:23:34,157 --> 00:23:35,450 Incredible! 330 00:23:40,205 --> 00:23:44,834 He comes with her, so that's clear that he wants to introduce her to the family, 331 00:23:44,918 --> 00:23:46,961 so he has serious intentions. 332 00:23:47,045 --> 00:23:51,299 If he has serious intentions, we must have too. 333 00:23:51,883 --> 00:23:54,636 I say let's make it all public. 334 00:23:54,677 --> 00:23:58,598 Maybe it's time to announce the engagement. 335 00:23:59,057 --> 00:24:03,144 He is my son. She is his fiancee. 336 00:24:03,228 --> 00:24:05,730 No, she's not Jewish. 337 00:24:05,814 --> 00:24:10,401 Yes, it was on the cover of the magazine "Playpen" last week. 338 00:24:10,485 --> 00:24:16,282 No, it's not just a model, but the model of the year. 339 00:24:16,825 --> 00:24:20,328 My sister-in-law Sophie passed out. 340 00:24:20,412 --> 00:24:25,792 You pick her up from the bottom. Uncle Moishe leaves angrily. 341 00:24:25,875 --> 00:24:28,503 Next week, you're unemployed. 342 00:24:28,586 --> 00:24:30,922 The question is: "Are we happy?" 343 00:24:31,047 --> 00:24:34,843 The answer is... If Nelson is happy, and we are. 344 00:24:52,402 --> 00:24:55,071 - Where is Nelson? - It's about to arrive. 345 00:24:55,155 --> 00:24:57,365 - Hello! - Hello, Max! 346 00:24:57,449 --> 00:24:59,033 So? 347 00:24:59,159 --> 00:25:01,161 Soon. He will arrive soon. 348 00:25:01,244 --> 00:25:03,955 Shirley, you look wonderful. I like your outfit. 349 00:25:04,038 --> 00:25:07,417 Thank you Max. Why don't you buy them Sophie a new dress? 350 00:25:07,500 --> 00:25:09,878 He just bought me one. This. 351 00:25:10,295 --> 00:25:11,546 I'm sorry. 352 00:25:11,755 --> 00:25:17,552 Max, Sophie, I want you to be ready, because Nelson doesn't come alone. 353 00:25:17,635 --> 00:25:21,347 It comes with someone special. 354 00:25:21,723 --> 00:25:24,350 Mazel tov! Who is lucky? 355 00:25:24,476 --> 00:25:25,810 They both are. 356 00:25:25,852 --> 00:25:28,688 I hope you got it heart medications. 357 00:25:29,064 --> 00:25:32,776 - You didn't tell me he had someone. - I didn't know. 358 00:25:32,859 --> 00:25:35,111 - What do you mean you didn't know? - Simply! 359 00:25:36,154 --> 00:25:38,782 Now I know, and so do you. 360 00:25:38,865 --> 00:25:42,369 When you know, everyone knows. 361 00:25:43,286 --> 00:25:44,829 Her name is Sybil. 362 00:25:44,913 --> 00:25:47,707 - Sybil? A non-Jew? - How did you know? 363 00:25:47,749 --> 00:25:50,043 What else would a Sybil be? Non-Jewish. 364 00:25:50,627 --> 00:25:53,004 It's on the cover of "Playpen" magazine. 365 00:25:53,088 --> 00:25:55,048 - No! - Well, yes. 366 00:25:55,090 --> 00:26:00,178 She's the model on the cover of "Playpen", the best in a decade. 367 00:26:00,261 --> 00:26:01,805 - No! - Well, yes. 368 00:26:01,888 --> 00:26:03,890 - What does he do? - I'm not sure. 369 00:26:03,973 --> 00:26:06,851 Nelson, with a model? Where did he find it? 370 00:26:06,976 --> 00:26:09,646 I don't know, but I'm glad he found it. 371 00:26:09,729 --> 00:26:13,817 Max, what does "Playpen" model mean? 372 00:26:13,858 --> 00:26:15,860 Something you will never be. 373 00:26:15,902 --> 00:26:20,073 Come on, Max! You talk too much. You keep mouthing off. 374 00:26:20,115 --> 00:26:23,952 Max, why don't you buy for Sophie a new dress? 375 00:26:24,035 --> 00:26:27,831 You don't have children. What do you do with all the money? Do you take them to the grave with you? 376 00:26:28,039 --> 00:26:30,500 Buy your wife a new dress! 377 00:26:30,583 --> 00:26:33,628 Max, you get it that the girl is not Jewish? 378 00:26:33,712 --> 00:26:34,796 How do you know? 379 00:26:34,879 --> 00:26:38,425 How to be a Jewish Sybil? Doesn't sound Jewish to me. 380 00:26:38,508 --> 00:26:39,926 Who is not Jewish? 381 00:26:40,427 --> 00:26:43,263 - Uncle Moishe! - Who is not Jewish? 382 00:26:43,346 --> 00:26:44,931 The president. 383 00:26:45,015 --> 00:26:48,101 - Where is Nelson? Has it arrived? - No, it wasn't enough. 384 00:26:48,518 --> 00:26:50,562 what is your problem 385 00:26:51,604 --> 00:26:54,816 Uncle Moishe can do it of any Yom Kippur day. 386 00:26:54,941 --> 00:26:57,819 Yes, and look at my dear stupid sister-in-law! 387 00:26:57,902 --> 00:27:00,572 He is already telling the whole congregation about Nelson. 388 00:27:02,866 --> 00:27:05,785 It has arrived. who is with him 389 00:27:06,870 --> 00:27:09,247 He is the painter, the decorator. 390 00:27:09,622 --> 00:27:12,917 - What are you doing here? - How should I know? I didn't invite him. 391 00:27:13,001 --> 00:27:14,294 Hey! 392 00:27:14,419 --> 00:27:16,046 - Hello! - Finally! 393 00:27:16,129 --> 00:27:18,089 Hello! 394 00:27:18,173 --> 00:27:20,550 - Where is... - Hello, mother! 395 00:27:21,051 --> 00:27:23,136 - Hello, Mrs. Hirsch! - Hello! 396 00:27:25,764 --> 00:27:29,309 - Dad, you haven't met Angelo. - Your mother told me. Decorator? 397 00:27:29,392 --> 00:27:32,103 - Yes. It gives me great pleasure. - Yes, me too. 398 00:27:32,187 --> 00:27:34,981 - Let me show you where you get your kippa. - She's Andrea, Nelson's sister. 399 00:27:35,065 --> 00:27:37,150 - He would have realized, father. - Okay. 400 00:27:37,233 --> 00:27:38,485 - Hello! - Hello! 401 00:27:38,568 --> 00:27:41,488 I thought you were coming with the model. 402 00:27:41,988 --> 00:27:45,075 Not. I told you that I'm coming with someone special. 403 00:27:45,158 --> 00:27:48,536 Sybil is special, but not that special. 404 00:27:49,955 --> 00:27:53,249 But is he coming? We are all waiting for it. 405 00:27:53,333 --> 00:27:55,627 - Who? - Sybil. 406 00:27:58,505 --> 00:27:59,673 He couldn't come. 407 00:27:59,756 --> 00:28:01,758 ladies and gentlemen, Baruch Hashem 408 00:28:01,841 --> 00:28:03,927 the wedding is about to begin. 409 00:28:04,052 --> 00:28:06,721 - I think we're going in. - I will miss it. 410 00:28:06,930 --> 00:28:09,599 I don't know if you have something like that. 411 00:28:09,683 --> 00:28:12,560 I brought one. Thank you. 412 00:28:12,644 --> 00:28:14,604 - Where did you get it? - I did it. 413 00:28:14,688 --> 00:28:17,065 - Look at you! did you do it - Yes. do you like 414 00:28:17,148 --> 00:28:20,527 - Yes. I have never seen one like it. - Thank you. 415 00:28:20,610 --> 00:28:24,531 - Yes. is it good - Yes, it's perfect, if you feel like it. 416 00:28:24,614 --> 00:28:26,992 You'd make a fortune selling them. talk later 417 00:29:00,817 --> 00:29:04,738 Good. Put it on your right finger! 418 00:29:06,031 --> 00:29:08,074 Repeat after me! 419 00:29:42,859 --> 00:29:44,861 Mom, I'm gay. 420 00:29:48,531 --> 00:29:50,200 Mom, I'm gay. 421 00:29:52,494 --> 00:29:54,579 I'm gay. 422 00:30:13,056 --> 00:30:14,724 - Martin... - Sorry. 423 00:30:14,808 --> 00:30:17,936 - Nelson wants to tell you something. - What? 424 00:30:19,396 --> 00:30:22,566 Dad, I'm gay. 425 00:30:22,941 --> 00:30:26,319 Good. It's very good. Good. 426 00:30:29,281 --> 00:30:33,827 - Your son is gay. - What did you say? 427 00:30:33,910 --> 00:30:37,831 - He said he was gay, dad. - Andrea, please! 428 00:30:37,914 --> 00:30:41,793 Is the rabbi gay? Yes, and the Pope is Jewish. 429 00:30:41,877 --> 00:30:44,588 - Is the rabbi gay? - Shut up there! 430 00:30:48,884 --> 00:30:50,176 Marty? 431 00:30:50,260 --> 00:30:53,263 - Nelson just told me he's gay. - What? 432 00:30:53,346 --> 00:30:57,184 - He's gay. your son - What are you talking about? 433 00:30:57,267 --> 00:30:59,686 What am I talking about? He's gay. He's gay. 434 00:30:59,769 --> 00:31:02,355 - Shirley, we are in a synagogue. - He said it. 435 00:31:02,772 --> 00:31:07,194 Your son is trying to tell you he's gay. 436 00:31:30,008 --> 00:31:31,676 Mazel tov! 437 00:31:54,074 --> 00:31:59,955 - Martin, you are drunk. - Not yet, but I'm in a hurry. 438 00:31:59,996 --> 00:32:01,331 Pour me too! 439 00:32:06,753 --> 00:32:08,421 More. 440 00:32:12,926 --> 00:32:17,222 - I don't know, it's usually very visible. - I know, right? 441 00:32:17,264 --> 00:32:22,435 At the decorator Angelo it is visible, but not to my boy Nelson. 442 00:32:22,561 --> 00:32:24,938 Have you ever noticed anything? 443 00:32:25,230 --> 00:32:30,694 - Well, he's very sensitive. - Now it's more than that. 444 00:32:32,445 --> 00:32:35,323 You thought he was going to get married with a parachute from a porno magazine. 445 00:32:35,407 --> 00:32:38,034 Don't worry about that now. Happy? 446 00:32:38,118 --> 00:32:40,287 Happy? Do I look happy? 447 00:32:40,412 --> 00:32:44,791 Do you think I'm happy? am i happy No, I'm not! 448 00:32:47,210 --> 00:32:51,006 - Alas, my son is gay! - Enough, enough! 449 00:32:51,089 --> 00:32:56,803 - That's it, I'm not talking about it anymore! - What are you doing? 450 00:32:57,345 --> 00:32:59,222 - I'm tired of everything! - Stop it! 451 00:32:59,306 --> 00:33:01,683 Damn it! I don't want to think anymore. 452 00:33:01,766 --> 00:33:03,602 Let's watch football! 453 00:33:07,063 --> 00:33:08,732 My boys! 454 00:33:11,610 --> 00:33:14,154 - Do you know you're crazy? - I know. 455 00:33:19,201 --> 00:33:20,827 dear 456 00:33:22,913 --> 00:33:24,915 Football doesn't make me happy. 457 00:33:30,003 --> 00:33:32,798 Researcher Melvin Reardon, from Fresno State University, 458 00:33:32,881 --> 00:33:38,887 claims that 43% of teenagers they declare themselves gay, lesbian, bisexual 459 00:33:38,970 --> 00:33:41,139 or they doubt themselves sexual orientation. 460 00:33:41,181 --> 00:33:44,267 Catholic bishops in the country ask parents of gay children 461 00:33:44,309 --> 00:33:46,353 to show his love for their sons and daughters 462 00:33:46,394 --> 00:33:50,107 and to admit that the orientation homosexual is generally 463 00:33:50,190 --> 00:33:53,819 a gift acquired at birth, it's not a choice. 464 00:33:53,902 --> 00:33:55,987 - Catholic bishops say this? - Shut up! 465 00:33:56,071 --> 00:33:59,074 There is clear evidence that homosexuality is crazy 466 00:33:59,157 --> 00:34:00,992 among young people throughout the country. 467 00:34:01,076 --> 00:34:03,370 It tells us more Correspondence Alice Gerble. 468 00:34:03,453 --> 00:34:07,999 On campuses across the country, the phrase "gay until graduation" 469 00:34:08,083 --> 00:34:11,586 is used to describe those who experience gay sex. 470 00:34:11,670 --> 00:34:14,506 You recently changed name from John in Jan. 471 00:34:14,548 --> 00:34:15,924 Can you tell us the reason? 472 00:34:16,049 --> 00:34:19,136 I was living a lie. I showed my true face. 473 00:34:19,219 --> 00:34:23,014 Changing my name from John in Jan, I feel whole. 474 00:34:23,098 --> 00:34:26,476 What do you think about the controversy? around your decision? 475 00:34:26,560 --> 00:34:30,063 I felt no hostility. It's about freedom. 476 00:34:30,147 --> 00:34:32,649 Freedom to make decisions that bring you happiness. 477 00:34:32,733 --> 00:34:33,942 Thank you very much, Jan. 478 00:34:34,025 --> 00:34:38,155 That's the situation, folks. Being gay has become cool. 479 00:34:38,238 --> 00:34:40,532 Live streamed by Alice Gerble. 480 00:34:42,743 --> 00:34:45,787 What the hell happened to the world how long were we at the wedding? 481 00:34:45,871 --> 00:34:47,664 The world hasn't changed overnight marty 482 00:34:47,748 --> 00:34:51,418 - We just weren't paying attention. - I don't understand. 483 00:34:51,501 --> 00:34:53,420 How did he get on this path? 484 00:34:54,212 --> 00:34:57,382 Why... Do you think it was my fault? 485 00:34:57,466 --> 00:34:59,176 - I don't think so. - Me neither. 486 00:34:59,259 --> 00:35:01,553 When we were kids, we wanted to to have sex with everything I caught. 487 00:35:01,636 --> 00:35:04,097 - What were you catching? - Everything that wore a skirt. 488 00:35:05,223 --> 00:35:07,476 - What if it's because of his books? - What books? 489 00:35:07,559 --> 00:35:10,604 The books you wanted me to read standing in the head 490 00:35:10,687 --> 00:35:13,356 about "sumokutro"? 491 00:35:13,440 --> 00:35:16,860 - Kamasutra! - Kamasutra, 101 positions. 492 00:35:16,943 --> 00:35:18,528 I think I've tried them all. 493 00:35:18,612 --> 00:35:22,866 If one evening I left the door open, and he came to the door? 494 00:35:22,949 --> 00:35:25,952 You think he got scared if he saw us 495 00:35:26,036 --> 00:35:27,204 It scared me. 496 00:35:29,373 --> 00:35:31,958 - What is happening to our boy? - I don't know either. 497 00:35:32,709 --> 00:35:34,669 - Maybe it's your fault. - Me? 498 00:35:34,753 --> 00:35:35,837 Yes, you. 499 00:35:35,879 --> 00:35:38,256 - Why are you talking about me? - About your relatives. 500 00:35:38,382 --> 00:35:41,968 My relatives? Please! Don't be ridiculous! 501 00:35:42,052 --> 00:35:45,764 Grandma had 11 children. Someone had sex. 502 00:35:45,889 --> 00:35:49,142 Yes, but admit that men there are freaks in your family. 503 00:35:49,226 --> 00:35:51,520 Weird? They are not freaks. 504 00:35:51,603 --> 00:35:55,232 They are successful business people, with large families. 505 00:35:55,315 --> 00:35:57,567 Really? Half of the boys from the family there are keys. 506 00:35:57,651 --> 00:35:59,986 Asta spune ceva despre ei. I don't know what. 507 00:36:00,070 --> 00:36:02,447 - Iar ceilalți sunt discutabili. - Debatable? 508 00:36:02,489 --> 00:36:05,492 - Yes. De exemplu, fratele tău, Max. - Max? Don't touch him! 509 00:36:05,575 --> 00:36:08,078 - Intri pe teritoriul psihozei. - Exactly. 510 00:36:08,161 --> 00:36:11,915 - Fratele meu Max e un om minunat. - Care nu poate face copii. 511 00:36:11,998 --> 00:36:14,292 True! But he's a virile man. 512 00:36:14,376 --> 00:36:18,463 E un bărbat care-şi face veacul la un club pentru bărbați. 513 00:36:18,547 --> 00:36:20,590 - And you! - Not for that reason. 514 00:36:20,674 --> 00:36:24,553 Dar fratele tău, Eddie ? Are 47 de ani, dar nu e însurat. 515 00:36:24,636 --> 00:36:26,263 Eddie is 45 years old. 516 00:36:26,346 --> 00:36:27,806 - He is 47! - Okay. 517 00:36:27,889 --> 00:36:29,558 What about your cousin Seymour? 518 00:36:29,683 --> 00:36:31,727 - Leave Seymour alone! - Seymour is 42 years old. 519 00:36:31,810 --> 00:36:36,398 He was not married. It lives in San Francisco and he's an actor! 520 00:36:36,481 --> 00:36:37,983 - Yes. - They are your relatives. 521 00:36:38,066 --> 00:36:39,985 Don't mess with my relatives! 522 00:36:40,027 --> 00:36:42,988 Dad could lift 150 kg. 523 00:36:43,113 --> 00:36:46,867 He lifted the bottom of 150 kg his wife's. 524 00:36:46,950 --> 00:36:49,745 - At least it was a woman's ass! - Leave me alone ! 525 00:36:49,828 --> 00:36:52,372 - I tell you... - What? 526 00:36:52,456 --> 00:36:55,167 I'm telling you about men from my family. 527 00:36:55,250 --> 00:36:58,795 Dad had sex until he died. Have you forgotten how he died? 528 00:36:58,879 --> 00:37:01,256 How can I forget? With the secretary for 20 years. 529 00:37:01,340 --> 00:37:02,382 - Exactly! - Yes! 530 00:37:02,424 --> 00:37:04,551 That fool would have been better off if he was gay. 531 00:37:04,634 --> 00:37:07,846 And his brother, Uncle Moishe, at 80 years old 532 00:37:07,929 --> 00:37:09,556 he's still the biggest womanizer from Brooklyn. 533 00:37:09,640 --> 00:37:12,559 I wish you were too a bit like Uncle Moishe. 534 00:37:12,643 --> 00:37:14,186 What are you talking about? 535 00:37:14,311 --> 00:37:18,315 I don't want to hurt you Marty but in recent months 536 00:37:19,941 --> 00:37:23,445 nothing happened. 537 00:37:24,196 --> 00:37:25,864 Do you think I've lost it? 538 00:37:25,906 --> 00:37:30,577 I don't think you lost it but he is resting, he is retired. 539 00:37:30,661 --> 00:37:33,372 He's retired, you say? Hold this! 540 00:37:33,664 --> 00:37:35,999 You want to know what men are like from my family? 541 00:37:36,083 --> 00:37:40,963 I'll show you how I am. This is a man from my family! 542 00:37:41,004 --> 00:37:42,339 what is this A threat? 543 00:37:42,422 --> 00:37:45,968 Take it as you want! Just start your engine, baby! 544 00:37:46,051 --> 00:37:49,221 Hi, this is my family! 545 00:37:49,304 --> 00:37:53,558 Get your ass up here! Get on! 546 00:37:53,642 --> 00:37:56,770 - Should I call the emergency room? - Call whoever you want, they won't help you. 547 00:37:56,937 --> 00:37:59,523 - Okay, I got it. - Come here! 548 00:38:04,945 --> 00:38:07,072 If I knew it would come to this, 549 00:38:07,155 --> 00:38:10,075 I wish we found out about Nelson earlier. 550 00:38:20,085 --> 00:38:24,631 - I don't have a gay bone in my body. - No. I want more. 551 00:38:24,715 --> 00:38:27,301 - What? - I want more. 552 00:38:27,384 --> 00:38:31,138 To get an idea, i need more 553 00:38:35,851 --> 00:38:38,186 - It doesn't work like that. - Well, yes. 554 00:38:38,270 --> 00:38:39,896 - My hand. - Move it! 555 00:38:40,022 --> 00:38:41,607 Come here! 556 00:38:43,859 --> 00:38:46,570 Good. Did you want more? You get more. 557 00:38:55,329 --> 00:38:56,580 God! 558 00:39:05,380 --> 00:39:07,674 - Hello, Mr. Hirsch! - Hello! 559 00:39:20,520 --> 00:39:22,356 It's very colorful. 560 00:39:22,439 --> 00:39:23,899 I'm glad you like it. 561 00:39:24,107 --> 00:39:26,526 I didn't say I like it but that it is colored. 562 00:39:27,110 --> 00:39:30,989 - These clothes are worn now. - Wow? 563 00:39:31,823 --> 00:39:33,367 It's wonderful. 564 00:40:02,771 --> 00:40:04,147 Sorry. 565 00:40:08,735 --> 00:40:10,195 Sorry. 566 00:40:24,585 --> 00:40:26,587 Why do I have to do this? 567 00:40:26,670 --> 00:40:28,171 Because you are homophobic. 568 00:40:28,255 --> 00:40:30,340 Because I didn't like it Nudleman's shirt? 569 00:40:30,424 --> 00:40:32,426 Come on, honey, forget about Noodleman! 570 00:40:32,509 --> 00:40:36,847 You have to go in, face the fear, otherwise, you won't be able to cope with such a thing. 571 00:40:38,765 --> 00:40:42,394 Go! Come on! i love you 572 00:40:42,477 --> 00:40:44,188 If I'm not out in ten minutes, call the police! 573 00:40:44,271 --> 00:40:45,480 I promise. 574 00:40:46,273 --> 00:40:48,817 Good. Be nice! 575 00:41:04,291 --> 00:41:07,085 The gentleman at the end offers you a drink. 576 00:41:08,670 --> 00:41:11,048 I don't want anything from him. 577 00:41:21,016 --> 00:41:23,977 - I don't live far from here. - Are we welcome? 578 00:41:25,062 --> 00:41:27,356 If you want an engagement ring, i am not suitable 579 00:41:27,439 --> 00:41:29,566 - No. - But if you want to have fun... 580 00:41:29,650 --> 00:41:34,780 No. No offense, but i'm not like you 581 00:41:34,863 --> 00:41:39,618 It's nothing. Opposite poles attract and i like older men. 582 00:41:39,701 --> 00:41:42,329 - I'm not that old. - Are you sensitive? 583 00:41:42,371 --> 00:41:45,874 Not. I'm not here to... 584 00:41:46,416 --> 00:41:50,212 I came to document myself. 585 00:41:51,547 --> 00:41:55,008 Sorry, professor. Let me let me know if you need a sample. 586 00:41:55,342 --> 00:41:57,177 I'll be back to see what you're up to. 587 00:41:57,386 --> 00:41:59,054 I can't wait. 588 00:42:05,811 --> 00:42:08,438 Jesus! I apologize. 589 00:42:08,564 --> 00:42:12,526 It was better back in the day when courting was fashionable. 590 00:42:12,609 --> 00:42:15,320 Now it's just fast food. 591 00:42:16,363 --> 00:42:18,240 My name is Skip. 592 00:42:19,032 --> 00:42:22,494 Don't ask me where it comes from it's not an abbreviation 593 00:42:22,578 --> 00:42:24,913 nothing is short with me. 594 00:42:26,665 --> 00:42:28,667 - What is your name ? - Martin. 595 00:42:28,750 --> 00:42:32,504 - Can I call you "Marty"? - Tell me what you want, Skippy. 596 00:42:33,005 --> 00:42:34,506 I'm not... 597 00:42:34,631 --> 00:42:37,968 I wouldn't mind to be the saddle of your bike. 598 00:42:43,724 --> 00:42:46,477 I have to get away from you. Sorry. 599 00:43:54,461 --> 00:43:56,338 Martin? 600 00:43:57,423 --> 00:43:58,715 God! 601 00:43:58,799 --> 00:44:00,676 - Martin Hirsch? - I don't know you. 602 00:44:00,759 --> 00:44:02,803 Honey, I don't care whether you know the girl or not. 603 00:44:02,886 --> 00:44:04,847 - Stop pretending to be me! - Sorry. 604 00:44:04,930 --> 00:44:07,516 Martin, it's me. 605 00:44:07,599 --> 00:44:08,934 Martin... 606 00:44:09,601 --> 00:44:12,646 Martin! Martin Hirsch! 607 00:44:12,729 --> 00:44:14,606 I know you're there. 608 00:44:15,315 --> 00:44:17,735 Martin, it's me, Noodleman. 609 00:44:21,572 --> 00:44:23,240 Let's leave it. 610 00:44:25,993 --> 00:44:27,411 Be careful! 611 00:44:35,794 --> 00:44:37,504 Jesus! 612 00:44:39,882 --> 00:44:41,341 Damn it! 613 00:44:48,640 --> 00:44:51,727 - Start! Quick! - Darling? what's going on 614 00:44:51,810 --> 00:44:55,773 - Don't ask! Start! - What's going on? Good. Calm down. 615 00:44:55,814 --> 00:44:58,692 Are you kidding me with this music? Has everyone turned gay? 616 00:44:58,776 --> 00:44:59,902 What happened there? 617 00:44:59,943 --> 00:45:03,072 - Shirley, I saw Max there. - Have you seen Max? 618 00:45:03,155 --> 00:45:05,949 - Two guys approached me. - Wait a minute... Can we? 619 00:45:06,033 --> 00:45:09,078 - Go back to Max! - I saw him there. 620 00:45:09,536 --> 00:45:12,206 Max, my brother? He has been married for 20 years. 621 00:45:12,289 --> 00:45:14,375 Many married men go in bars like this, Shirley. 622 00:45:14,458 --> 00:45:15,542 They are called "bisexuals". 623 00:45:15,584 --> 00:45:19,254 - Max, bisexual? Don't be ridiculous! - I saw him. And Noodleman. 624 00:45:19,296 --> 00:45:24,134 - Noodleman? From the office? - Yes. In a dress. He saw me! 625 00:45:24,218 --> 00:45:27,805 Is everyone there? And Nelson? The decorator? 626 00:45:27,888 --> 00:45:31,350 No, Nelson is not like them. He is totally different. 627 00:45:31,433 --> 00:45:34,311 Nelson's problem is that he doesn't understand women. 628 00:45:34,353 --> 00:45:36,980 Or maybe he didn't find it a woman to understand him. 629 00:45:37,106 --> 00:45:41,527 Women don't understand men. That's probably why I end up like this. 630 00:45:41,610 --> 00:45:43,570 how? What you say makes no sense. 631 00:45:43,654 --> 00:45:46,240 Why are they so gay? You should have seen that place, Shirley! 632 00:45:46,323 --> 00:45:48,826 He was full of eyes. I think it's because... 633 00:45:48,909 --> 00:45:51,412 I think it's because of the fashion how men are treated by women. 634 00:45:51,495 --> 00:45:55,207 It's the greatest madness that you said. 635 00:45:55,249 --> 00:45:58,335 You really upset me and I get angry. 636 00:45:58,377 --> 00:46:01,213 - I'd rather have a drink with Skippy. - You better do that. 637 00:46:01,296 --> 00:46:04,008 - Who is Skippy? - The guy who came to me. 638 00:46:04,091 --> 00:46:05,843 - What? - You sent me there. 639 00:46:05,926 --> 00:46:08,762 You wanted me to face my fears. Look what happened! 640 00:46:08,804 --> 00:46:11,056 - What happened? - It was really thrilling. 641 00:46:11,140 --> 00:46:14,435 - What? - It was... forbidden, but tempting. 642 00:46:14,518 --> 00:46:16,228 Martin, stop! 643 00:46:16,311 --> 00:46:19,064 It was unpleasant and strange, but also erotic. 644 00:46:19,148 --> 00:46:21,775 - Erotic? - Yes. Extremely. 645 00:46:21,859 --> 00:46:24,403 - I feel sick. No! - Maybe I'm gay. 646 00:46:24,486 --> 00:46:26,905 - Maybe you are. - Maybe I am. 647 00:46:27,031 --> 00:46:32,911 The whole world is gay. I'm gay ! Until death! 648 00:46:37,958 --> 00:46:42,880 - I'm gay ! Until death! - Marty! 649 00:46:42,963 --> 00:46:47,885 I'm lost forever because I'm gay to death. 650 00:46:48,010 --> 00:46:50,387 - Marty! - I'm gay ! 651 00:46:50,471 --> 00:46:53,182 - What are you doing? - I'm gay. 652 00:46:53,265 --> 00:46:57,353 - Marty, come back! you make me puke - God, help us! 653 00:46:57,436 --> 00:46:59,605 - You're crazy. - What are we doing? 654 00:46:59,688 --> 00:47:03,776 - I can't stand this. I enter. - Give us a sign! 655 00:47:03,859 --> 00:47:05,027 Anything! 656 00:47:08,530 --> 00:47:09,740 Thank you, God! 657 00:47:11,909 --> 00:47:14,578 Our son's life has become a big joke for you. 658 00:47:14,662 --> 00:47:16,455 No, it's just that... 659 00:47:18,624 --> 00:47:21,960 From your point of view, this is happening to someone else 660 00:47:22,044 --> 00:47:25,339 and you can handle the situation just laughing at her. 661 00:47:25,422 --> 00:47:28,258 - I'm not laughing. - You can't accept it. 662 00:47:29,301 --> 00:47:31,804 - Do you know why it happens to us? - Why? 663 00:47:31,887 --> 00:47:32,972 In case you forgot, 664 00:47:33,180 --> 00:47:35,683 whatever happens to the children it happens to you. 665 00:47:35,766 --> 00:47:38,352 Listen! Good, it happens to me. It happens to you. 666 00:47:38,435 --> 00:47:40,229 What do you think we can do? 667 00:47:41,105 --> 00:47:46,777 First, we can try to find out who our son is 668 00:47:46,819 --> 00:47:50,906 how he lives his life who are his friends 669 00:47:50,948 --> 00:47:53,450 We have to enter his world. 670 00:47:53,534 --> 00:47:57,162 Marty, we have to enter his world and try to understand it, 671 00:47:57,454 --> 00:47:59,707 to become a family again. 672 00:47:59,790 --> 00:48:03,961 Yes, I was in his world today and I think I've had enough. 673 00:48:04,044 --> 00:48:05,963 - Marty? - What? 674 00:48:06,046 --> 00:48:08,716 If our son is gay, 675 00:48:08,799 --> 00:48:11,343 we have to learn let's live with it. 676 00:48:11,427 --> 00:48:14,013 - I know. - He's our son. 677 00:48:14,138 --> 00:48:16,390 I know. 678 00:48:43,334 --> 00:48:45,586 I didn't know. 679 00:48:46,879 --> 00:48:48,547 What? 680 00:48:48,631 --> 00:48:51,342 You are so cunning, little devil! 681 00:49:01,101 --> 00:49:03,938 - Martin? - Yes? Hello! 682 00:49:04,438 --> 00:49:08,108 Martin, I present to you on Emmitt Bernstein. 683 00:49:08,150 --> 00:49:13,239 He is the secretary of an organization, National Gay Society. 684 00:49:13,322 --> 00:49:16,867 - What society? - National Gay Society. 685 00:49:16,951 --> 00:49:19,328 - Do you allow me? - Yes. 686 00:49:19,787 --> 00:49:22,831 It's a gay organization. We fight for our rights. 687 00:49:22,915 --> 00:49:24,291 We print brochures. 688 00:49:24,416 --> 00:49:26,085 We also have our own newspaper. 689 00:49:27,211 --> 00:49:28,963 Hello! 690 00:49:29,046 --> 00:49:31,048 Do we do that? Very good. 691 00:49:31,632 --> 00:49:33,926 I'm Emmitt's friend, Lance Smith. 692 00:49:34,009 --> 00:49:37,972 I am a member of the commission and editor-in-chief of the "Gayzette" newspaper. 693 00:49:38,514 --> 00:49:40,099 - How? - "Gayzette". 694 00:49:40,432 --> 00:49:42,518 "Gayzette"... 695 00:49:42,560 --> 00:49:43,852 Cute! 696 00:49:44,395 --> 00:49:48,232 Nice to meet you. I'm Martin Hirsch. 697 00:49:48,315 --> 00:49:51,026 Nice to meet you, Marty. Can I call you "Marty"? 698 00:49:51,110 --> 00:49:52,736 I don't know, can I call you "Lancy"? 699 00:49:53,571 --> 00:49:54,947 Stop it! 700 00:49:55,030 --> 00:49:57,866 She is Margaret, who knew you were coming. 701 00:49:57,950 --> 00:49:59,743 - Hello, guys! - Okay. 702 00:50:00,119 --> 00:50:02,663 So you two are... 703 00:50:04,999 --> 00:50:08,168 - He is very young to be an editor. - And very beautiful. 704 00:50:08,294 --> 00:50:09,837 Thank you. Thank you both. 705 00:50:09,920 --> 00:50:13,007 - You have a pretty face. - Actually, he is 32 years old. 706 00:50:13,090 --> 00:50:16,302 - She looks 18. - Yesterday was his birthday. 707 00:50:16,427 --> 00:50:19,763 - Congratulations! - He seems to have just reached the age of majority. 708 00:50:20,055 --> 00:50:23,183 - Happy birthday! - I like you. Thank you. 709 00:50:23,267 --> 00:50:29,440 These gentlemen came here today to discuss what it's like to be... 710 00:50:29,481 --> 00:50:33,402 Okay, I understand what you're doing. Good. 711 00:50:33,485 --> 00:50:35,863 Tell us what it's like to be... 712 00:50:35,946 --> 00:50:38,115 Come on, tell us what it's like to be... 713 00:50:38,282 --> 00:50:40,492 You can say it. Gay. 714 00:50:40,576 --> 00:50:43,579 Yes, that's the word which I was desperately looking for. 715 00:50:43,662 --> 00:50:45,623 - They know about Nelson. - I'm excited. 716 00:50:45,706 --> 00:50:48,459 - Do you both know that your son is gay? - Yes. 717 00:50:48,542 --> 00:50:51,128 - And it comes as a surprise. - Yes, a small one. 718 00:50:51,212 --> 00:50:52,922 - It takes a little getting used to. - A little. 719 00:50:52,963 --> 00:50:55,049 I remember my parents when I told them. 720 00:50:55,132 --> 00:50:56,509 - They got sick. - I imagine. 721 00:50:56,550 --> 00:50:58,969 Bad for good. As if someone had died. 722 00:50:59,053 --> 00:51:00,888 He died. I know the feeling. 723 00:51:01,472 --> 00:51:04,892 We thought that we'd better find out 724 00:51:05,392 --> 00:51:10,022 what to expect what happens between... You know... 725 00:51:11,440 --> 00:51:15,110 Margaret, tell Andrea that we don't want children tonight! 726 00:51:15,194 --> 00:51:18,072 - Let's not be disturbed. - We don't want to be disturbed. 727 00:51:18,155 --> 00:51:21,075 So that's what you wanted to do? Good. Do you want to know how we feel? 728 00:51:21,158 --> 00:51:24,245 - We're telling you honestly. Terrible. - Marty! 729 00:51:24,370 --> 00:51:26,247 - We are shocked. Disappoint. - It's not like that. 730 00:51:26,330 --> 00:51:29,708 If she were honest, she would tell you that she is downright horrified. 731 00:51:29,792 --> 00:51:31,669 - I'm not crazy. - It's a nightmare for the family. 732 00:51:31,752 --> 00:51:33,587 It's a temporary nightmare. 733 00:51:33,671 --> 00:51:37,216 We're not even sure if nelson really is... 734 00:51:37,258 --> 00:51:38,759 - Gay, Mrs. Hirsch. - Yes. 735 00:51:38,843 --> 00:51:40,845 excuse me You have a guest. 736 00:51:40,928 --> 00:51:42,680 who? God! 737 00:51:43,764 --> 00:51:47,685 - God! It's God! - I was in the area. Am I disturbing you ? 738 00:51:47,810 --> 00:51:50,896 No, it's perfect. You couldn't do better. 739 00:51:51,021 --> 00:51:52,523 - I'm very happy. - I'm full. 740 00:51:52,648 --> 00:51:53,816 Why? Get it! 741 00:51:53,899 --> 00:51:56,944 Uncle Moishe, come and stay between Emmitt and Lancy, 742 00:51:57,611 --> 00:52:00,156 who are shirley's friends 743 00:52:00,239 --> 00:52:02,575 - She invited them. - They are not friends, but associates. 744 00:52:02,700 --> 00:52:05,536 They are associated He is uncle Moishe, my boss. 745 00:52:05,619 --> 00:52:10,374 I hope you are happy now. The two of them... I belong to a gay club. 746 00:52:11,375 --> 00:52:14,712 A gay club. do you understand He has no idea. 747 00:52:14,837 --> 00:52:16,797 They are married, uncle Moishe, you don't have to... 748 00:52:16,839 --> 00:52:19,175 Margaret, will you get me a vodka, please? 749 00:52:19,258 --> 00:52:20,843 Triple dose. 750 00:52:20,926 --> 00:52:25,556 Mr. Hirsch, what do you think about sex education in state schools? 751 00:52:25,639 --> 00:52:27,808 Sex education? 752 00:52:27,892 --> 00:52:29,351 I've always wanted to to ask him that. 753 00:52:29,435 --> 00:52:33,147 I think girls should encouraged to remain virgins 754 00:52:33,272 --> 00:52:35,858 until marriage just like in the old days. 755 00:52:35,941 --> 00:52:37,234 I agree with you. 756 00:52:37,318 --> 00:52:39,862 What about the boys? Do you encourage masturbation? 757 00:52:39,945 --> 00:52:43,240 Not. There are other ways to learn about sex. 758 00:52:43,324 --> 00:52:45,868 Guys should to go to brothels. 759 00:52:45,951 --> 00:52:47,411 God! Moses! 760 00:52:47,495 --> 00:52:50,372 - Didn't you do it when you were young? - I don't. 761 00:52:50,456 --> 00:52:53,000 I don't think they did uncle Moishe. They were not at the brothel. 762 00:52:53,083 --> 00:52:54,585 Martin, do we have a problem? 763 00:52:54,668 --> 00:52:58,005 I think prostitutes are kinda gross. 764 00:52:58,088 --> 00:53:00,591 There is nothing healthier than a healthy prostitute 765 00:53:00,633 --> 00:53:03,260 for a healthy sex life. 766 00:53:03,761 --> 00:53:06,013 Don't you agree, Martin? 767 00:53:06,555 --> 00:53:09,433 I do my best to pretend that I'm on another planet. 768 00:53:09,517 --> 00:53:11,143 I worry about Nelson, you know? 769 00:53:11,227 --> 00:53:14,438 Nelson! He is a healthy child 770 00:53:15,272 --> 00:53:17,942 and there are no problems with Nelson's sex education. 771 00:53:18,025 --> 00:53:19,235 Correct. 772 00:53:24,115 --> 00:53:25,533 Hello! 773 00:53:26,867 --> 00:53:28,119 Come in! 774 00:53:28,744 --> 00:53:29,995 Thank you. 775 00:53:30,871 --> 00:53:33,874 - For you. - Thank you. I love orchids. 776 00:53:33,958 --> 00:53:36,085 - I'm glad. - Just like I love Nelson. 777 00:53:36,168 --> 00:53:39,713 - Give me your clothes! Good. - Okay. 778 00:53:41,966 --> 00:53:44,802 - The apartment looks great. - Come in! Feel at home. 779 00:53:45,261 --> 00:53:47,221 Nelly, your parents have come! 780 00:53:53,227 --> 00:53:56,564 - My table doesn't look so good. - Yes. 781 00:53:56,647 --> 00:53:58,315 - Hello, dear! - Hello! 782 00:54:02,653 --> 00:54:05,156 Make yourselves comfortable. what are you drinking 783 00:54:05,239 --> 00:54:07,992 I'll wait until dinner. I'll drink wine then. 784 00:54:08,075 --> 00:54:09,452 I want a double whiskey. 785 00:54:09,493 --> 00:54:12,079 - Marty? - I'm coming to dinner. 786 00:54:13,080 --> 00:54:16,834 I warn you. I put very little salt. 787 00:54:16,917 --> 00:54:18,753 You are very clever, Angelo. 788 00:54:19,128 --> 00:54:21,672 - Isn't that right, Marty? - What? It's extraordinary. 789 00:54:23,215 --> 00:54:28,387 - Do you use salt substitute? - No. It leaves a strange aftertaste. 790 00:54:28,471 --> 00:54:29,555 Yes, I know. 791 00:54:29,680 --> 00:54:31,682 - Serve yourself! - I'll take one. 792 00:54:31,766 --> 00:54:35,394 - Come on, Marty, take it too! - I'll get it later. 793 00:54:35,478 --> 00:54:37,813 - No, take one! - Later. 794 00:54:38,898 --> 00:54:40,566 Delicious! 795 00:54:41,567 --> 00:54:44,904 I admit, it takes a long time until your appetizers come out well. 796 00:54:44,945 --> 00:54:49,533 It takes me as much as it takes me to put on my gym suit. 797 00:54:50,701 --> 00:54:52,328 I disliked it. 798 00:54:53,579 --> 00:54:55,331 Did you hear the thing about the hall? 799 00:54:55,373 --> 00:54:58,751 Yes, Marty. Be nice, please. 800 00:54:58,876 --> 00:55:02,421 - I didn't put an appetizer in my bag. - Stop it! 801 00:55:04,757 --> 00:55:06,801 - Do you want more? - No, thank you. 802 00:55:06,842 --> 00:55:10,304 - Dad? - He's going to have a coffee. Thank you. 803 00:55:19,021 --> 00:55:20,398 Thank you. 804 00:55:26,070 --> 00:55:28,698 - Are you drinking a digestif? - No, thank you. 805 00:55:28,781 --> 00:55:29,865 Good. 806 00:55:31,701 --> 00:55:34,745 - Angelo, the food was wonderful. - Thank you. 807 00:55:36,580 --> 00:55:38,499 She was very good. Thank you. 808 00:55:39,750 --> 00:55:41,127 Thank you. 809 00:55:41,377 --> 00:55:43,129 Listen... 810 00:55:44,922 --> 00:55:48,008 How can I explain why I am like this 811 00:55:48,092 --> 00:55:50,970 better than you explain why are you like that? 812 00:55:51,095 --> 00:55:54,890 - I think I can explain why I am like that. - Marty, shut up, please! 813 00:55:54,974 --> 00:55:57,268 You must understand 814 00:55:58,728 --> 00:56:00,771 that it has nothing to do with you two. 815 00:56:01,605 --> 00:56:03,190 I am what I am. 816 00:56:03,399 --> 00:56:05,317 I've been like this for as long as I know myself, 817 00:56:05,401 --> 00:56:07,778 probably since I was born. 818 00:56:07,862 --> 00:56:10,281 - We understand. - I don't think I understand. 819 00:56:10,406 --> 00:56:13,784 Marty, please shut up! Not now. 820 00:56:13,868 --> 00:56:18,497 What else can I tell you besides why did you read, hear or see? 821 00:56:21,375 --> 00:56:23,377 I'm gay. 822 00:56:23,461 --> 00:56:26,547 I don't steal. I don't do drugs. 823 00:56:26,630 --> 00:56:29,342 I don't kill. I'm just gay. 824 00:56:29,425 --> 00:56:35,097 I don't think I should be dishonest with me just so you can be good. 825 00:56:36,140 --> 00:56:41,812 I want to be honest with myself, as Angelo is honest with him. 826 00:56:42,563 --> 00:56:45,566 - Can I say how I feel? - Not now, it's not the time. 827 00:56:45,650 --> 00:56:47,485 No, mother. Now is the time. 828 00:56:47,610 --> 00:56:49,487 - Yes. - Shut up! 829 00:56:49,570 --> 00:56:51,656 Mom, let him say it what does he have to say! 830 00:56:51,781 --> 00:56:54,241 Angelo, I can talk just with my son please 831 00:56:54,325 --> 00:56:56,952 Not. Sit down, Angelo! 832 00:56:57,536 --> 00:57:01,916 Mom, I want you to accept it Angelo as part of the family. 833 00:57:01,999 --> 00:57:03,709 That's how I feel about him. 834 00:57:04,669 --> 00:57:06,962 I have a suggestion. 835 00:57:08,089 --> 00:57:11,425 Take it slow, you never know. 836 00:57:13,177 --> 00:57:16,097 Mom, I know. 837 00:57:17,515 --> 00:57:19,016 We know. 838 00:57:20,768 --> 00:57:24,021 How do you know? You have only just begun your life. 839 00:57:24,105 --> 00:57:26,691 How do you know about "us"? 840 00:57:26,774 --> 00:57:28,943 How do you know about yourself? 841 00:57:29,026 --> 00:57:31,737 Honey, it's too early. 842 00:57:33,280 --> 00:57:35,366 Think about it! 843 00:57:35,449 --> 00:57:37,535 Do I have to repeat that to you? 844 00:57:38,160 --> 00:57:40,871 Angelo is not the first. 845 00:57:41,789 --> 00:57:43,791 Were there others? 846 00:57:46,627 --> 00:57:48,421 Yes... 847 00:57:49,422 --> 00:57:51,048 Marty? 848 00:57:51,132 --> 00:57:53,634 - Marty, are you okay? - No. 849 00:57:54,135 --> 00:57:58,055 Listen, Nelson, let's do it a walk, okay? Like father and son. 850 00:57:58,139 --> 00:57:59,807 - Are you okay, Angelo? - Yes. 851 00:57:59,890 --> 00:58:03,102 - What are you doing? - I'm talking to my son. is it ok 852 00:58:03,185 --> 00:58:05,187 It's not okay at all. 853 00:58:05,271 --> 00:58:07,898 Too bad, because I'm going to do it anyway. 854 00:58:07,982 --> 00:58:09,150 - Where are you going? - I don't know. 855 00:58:09,233 --> 00:58:11,611 I want to talk to my son as between men. 856 00:58:12,111 --> 00:58:13,988 - I'll be back. - Okay. 857 00:58:16,741 --> 00:58:18,200 Thank you. 858 00:58:20,953 --> 00:58:22,580 do you have vodka 859 00:58:35,509 --> 00:58:37,845 - Dad? - Yes. 860 00:58:37,929 --> 00:58:41,682 It's like you wanted to have a discussion. I can barely hear myself thinking. 861 00:58:42,975 --> 00:58:45,895 You like this place. It's our place. I used to come here often. 862 00:58:46,103 --> 00:58:48,189 It is the place where we were of the same opinion. 863 00:58:48,731 --> 00:58:52,234 Yes, I was of the same opinion, but on different subjects. 864 00:58:52,318 --> 00:58:53,861 Are you welcome? 865 00:58:53,945 --> 00:58:56,989 You liked the match, I liked the players. 866 00:59:00,201 --> 00:59:01,535 Thank you. 867 00:59:08,793 --> 00:59:12,922 You want me and your mother should we simply accept this? 868 00:59:13,464 --> 00:59:17,635 It's clear you didn't accept it right away, otherwise, you told us earlier. 869 00:59:21,806 --> 00:59:25,518 Nelson, if you would come to me earlier, 870 00:59:25,601 --> 00:59:27,979 together, we would have solved it. 871 00:59:28,521 --> 00:59:32,358 Dad, that's exactly why I didn't come earlier. 872 00:59:32,441 --> 00:59:35,319 There is nothing to fix. I'm not broken. 873 00:59:40,741 --> 00:59:43,202 Do you know some of them are gay? 874 00:59:44,495 --> 00:59:47,331 Their only problem is that they cannot say. 875 01:00:02,430 --> 01:00:04,682 Marty, why are we doing this? 876 01:00:04,765 --> 01:00:07,602 They say the guy is an expert. He is the best in his industry. 877 01:00:07,685 --> 01:00:10,521 I think wisdom and his knowledge 878 01:00:10,605 --> 01:00:12,899 they will help us change everything. 879 01:00:12,982 --> 01:00:16,110 Good. I'll give it a chance. 880 01:00:17,320 --> 01:00:19,530 A child is born. 881 01:00:19,614 --> 01:00:22,533 Mother is caring, gentle. 882 01:00:22,617 --> 01:00:26,662 She is nursing the baby for four to five months. 883 01:00:26,746 --> 01:00:30,041 She gives it to the child love and peace 884 01:00:30,082 --> 01:00:32,084 everything the child needs. 885 01:00:32,126 --> 01:00:36,130 Suddenly, a change occurs in the child's life. 886 01:00:36,214 --> 01:00:40,343 Mom wants to live again, to become productive. 887 01:00:40,426 --> 01:00:44,972 He has no time for the boy as before. 888 01:00:45,056 --> 01:00:46,974 The little boy feels lost. 889 01:00:47,058 --> 01:00:51,479 Love and security are gone which he was used to. 890 01:00:51,562 --> 01:00:54,482 His mother is no longer with him. 891 01:00:54,565 --> 01:00:58,110 So the boy goes to father 892 01:00:58,194 --> 01:01:01,447 beside him, find lost love. 893 01:01:01,531 --> 01:01:05,535 The boy falls in love with his father. 894 01:01:06,077 --> 01:01:08,830 The boy grows up and remembers 895 01:01:08,913 --> 01:01:13,751 that with another man found contentment. 896 01:01:15,419 --> 01:01:16,963 Forgive me! 897 01:01:18,589 --> 01:01:23,386 Doctor, if you decide to come back in Medicine, I pay for your schooling. 898 01:01:23,970 --> 01:01:27,223 This can only be a theory. 899 01:01:27,306 --> 01:01:29,642 I understand, but you are not sure. 900 01:01:29,725 --> 01:01:31,185 Nobody is. 901 01:01:31,310 --> 01:01:32,979 What about breastfeeding? 902 01:01:33,104 --> 01:01:36,691 I breastfed my son until three. 903 01:01:36,774 --> 01:01:39,152 - Three months? - No, three years. 904 01:01:40,778 --> 01:01:41,988 what is it 905 01:01:43,906 --> 01:01:49,954 There is evidence that excessive breastfeeding can completely hunch a boy, 906 01:01:50,037 --> 01:01:53,291 and he can no longer create a normal relationship with another woman. 907 01:01:53,374 --> 01:01:57,044 Yes, mom said you were a bit excessive with him when he was little. 908 01:01:57,128 --> 01:01:59,630 - She said it because she's your mother. - Okay. 909 01:01:59,714 --> 01:02:01,132 That's very interesting, doctor. 910 01:02:01,215 --> 01:02:06,220 You say it's possible I'm guilty that my son has become gay? 911 01:02:07,847 --> 01:02:09,557 - Well... - What is it? 912 01:02:09,640 --> 01:02:13,811 Dr. Freud, who the hell do you think you are, scumbag cretin? 913 01:02:13,895 --> 01:02:17,315 - Okay, Shirley. - No! Mr. Penis is envious. 914 01:02:17,398 --> 01:02:19,901 What do you know about love? a mother for her son? 915 01:02:20,067 --> 01:02:22,487 - You have ten minutes left. - I request that your authorization be withdrawn. 916 01:02:22,570 --> 01:02:24,614 are you sure He will keep it that way. 917 01:02:24,697 --> 01:02:27,575 Do you know what I gave my son? I gave him everything. 918 01:02:27,658 --> 01:02:29,869 - Write a check. - I loved him very much. 919 01:02:29,952 --> 01:02:32,872 Do you know something? I don't think so that you slept with a woman 920 01:02:32,955 --> 01:02:35,291 - I don't think you even have a penis. - It started... 921 01:02:35,374 --> 01:02:37,043 - I'm sending you the invoice. - Good idea! 922 01:02:37,126 --> 01:02:41,506 - I left. Stupid fool! - I thought it was good. Good. 923 01:02:46,385 --> 01:02:48,346 I came to see Martin Hirsch. 924 01:02:48,429 --> 01:02:50,389 - Martin Hirsch? - Yes. 925 01:02:50,932 --> 01:02:53,768 - Second door on the right. - Okay. Thank you. 926 01:03:06,447 --> 01:03:08,699 - Hello! Come in! - Hello! 927 01:03:09,408 --> 01:03:11,119 - Come in! - Thank you. 928 01:03:14,747 --> 01:03:17,917 Thank you, Sybil, for coming. Can I call you "Sybil"? 929 01:03:17,959 --> 01:03:19,877 - Of course. - Call me "Marty". 930 01:03:19,961 --> 01:03:21,462 Okay, Marty. 931 01:03:21,546 --> 01:03:24,799 Do you want to take off your… Make yourself comfortable? 932 01:03:24,882 --> 01:03:26,801 Yes. Sure. 933 01:03:27,593 --> 01:03:30,805 By the way, it's your wife very cute and adorable. 934 01:03:30,888 --> 01:03:34,392 - Thank you. - Attractive and sexy. 935 01:03:34,600 --> 01:03:36,561 Yes, it's a force of nature. 936 01:03:36,644 --> 01:03:38,563 - Some kind of hurricane. - Yes. 937 01:03:38,896 --> 01:03:40,857 - Take a seat, please! - Sure. 938 01:03:40,898 --> 01:03:43,151 - Can I serve you something? - No, thank you. 939 01:03:44,402 --> 01:03:48,489 You're probably wondering why did i call you 940 01:03:48,573 --> 01:03:49,657 Yes. 941 01:03:50,283 --> 01:03:52,285 I'm trying to find my words. 942 01:03:52,326 --> 01:03:54,704 Maybe I should say it... 943 01:03:57,331 --> 01:04:01,711 It's kind of hard for me to figure out what to say. 944 01:04:06,591 --> 01:04:08,760 Maybe it's better to say it bluntly. 945 01:04:08,843 --> 01:04:11,345 - Yes, say it! - Okay. 946 01:04:11,429 --> 01:04:16,017 You think it would be possible like you and my son nelson... 947 01:04:19,312 --> 01:04:23,357 That would be wonderful if you and my son had... 948 01:04:26,194 --> 01:04:28,529 If you and him somehow... 949 01:04:28,613 --> 01:04:32,075 - Do you want me to give it to Nelson? - Yes. 950 01:04:32,158 --> 01:04:33,201 I know how it sounds. 951 01:04:35,036 --> 01:04:37,622 No chance. 952 01:04:38,081 --> 01:04:39,707 - No? - No. 953 01:04:39,791 --> 01:04:41,626 He's a very nice boy, don't you think? 954 01:04:41,709 --> 01:04:47,256 Yes. It's very beautiful and charming. And... 955 01:05:36,472 --> 01:05:38,182 And? 956 01:05:39,100 --> 01:05:40,643 Gay. 957 01:05:41,019 --> 01:05:42,645 Yes. There's more to it. 958 01:05:42,729 --> 01:05:46,274 - You knew that, right? - I know. Look what I'm thinking... 959 01:05:46,941 --> 01:05:51,446 Sybil, you are very beautiful. 960 01:05:51,529 --> 01:05:54,490 You are very sexy. I hope you don't mind me saying it. 961 01:05:54,949 --> 01:05:56,617 - Thank you. - I would like to see Nelson... 962 01:05:56,701 --> 01:06:00,621 I don't want to see but if you and nelson could... 963 01:06:01,372 --> 01:06:04,125 Then with a woman like you 964 01:06:04,208 --> 01:06:08,588 maybe my boy will turn around to another direction. 965 01:06:08,671 --> 01:06:12,467 Not. I don't think it will happen. 966 01:06:12,967 --> 01:06:16,471 we like each other but as friends. 967 01:06:16,554 --> 01:06:19,349 Your friendship cannot deepen 10-15 minutes? 968 01:06:19,390 --> 01:06:20,975 He is my only son. 969 01:06:21,100 --> 01:06:22,894 Can you imagine how I would feel? 970 01:06:22,977 --> 01:06:27,774 I think you are the only woman who was closest to him. 971 01:06:27,857 --> 01:06:32,695 Maybe... I'm begging you, Sybil. I get on my knees and beg you. 972 01:06:32,779 --> 01:06:34,614 If you... Okay. 973 01:06:35,281 --> 01:06:37,033 - Are you okay? - No. 974 01:06:37,075 --> 01:06:39,494 Sorry. I apologize. 975 01:06:39,577 --> 01:06:41,371 It's nothing. 976 01:06:41,454 --> 01:06:43,956 That's exactly what I'm talking about. 977 01:06:44,040 --> 01:06:47,251 If only my boy were near of you, as I am now 978 01:06:47,335 --> 01:06:50,088 if his body were stuck to you, how is my body now 979 01:06:50,171 --> 01:06:53,091 if it touched you if he were by your side 980 01:06:53,174 --> 01:06:56,010 if he could see your eyes skin, hair, 981 01:06:56,094 --> 01:07:00,723 if he could see your lips he couldn't resist you. 982 01:07:01,766 --> 01:07:03,601 No chance. 983 01:07:05,687 --> 01:07:07,063 Good. 984 01:07:08,106 --> 01:07:10,316 - Are you okay? - I'm fine. 985 01:07:10,400 --> 01:07:13,528 Thanks for considering it. Thank you very much. 986 01:07:14,195 --> 01:07:17,365 - Thank you. - Sorry for the misunderstanding. 987 01:07:17,448 --> 01:07:19,993 - It's nothing. Bye! - Bye! 988 01:07:27,250 --> 01:07:28,459 It went well. 989 01:07:32,338 --> 01:07:33,881 - Excuse me. - It's nothing. 990 01:07:33,965 --> 01:07:36,301 Wait a minute... Do I know you? 991 01:07:36,384 --> 01:07:41,973 - I don't think so. I have to... - I saw you. In the men's room. 992 01:07:42,724 --> 01:07:44,976 No, I haven't been before in the men's room so far. 993 01:07:45,518 --> 01:07:48,396 But the picture does not reflect the reality. 994 01:07:49,230 --> 01:07:54,527 You are the embodiment of beauty as God saw you. 995 01:07:56,321 --> 01:07:58,281 Come here! 996 01:08:03,620 --> 01:08:05,163 This is a real man. 997 01:08:18,468 --> 01:08:20,303 do we have coffee Good. 998 01:08:20,386 --> 01:08:22,013 Good morning, Martin! 999 01:08:23,056 --> 01:08:24,933 I want to meet his parents. 1000 01:08:25,016 --> 01:08:27,560 - Whose parents are you? - Angelo's. 1001 01:08:27,727 --> 01:08:29,687 I don't think I'm ready. 1002 01:08:29,771 --> 01:08:32,440 It's time, Martin. 1003 01:08:32,857 --> 01:08:37,528 I want to meet his family. Surely he will also want to meet us. 1004 01:08:37,612 --> 01:08:40,949 Why? To find out who the bride is and who will pay for the wedding? 1005 01:08:41,407 --> 01:08:45,078 Martin, it's clear that our son he decided to sit at his house. 1006 01:08:45,161 --> 01:08:47,580 Yeah, well, I don't think it's been established in the Heavens. 1007 01:08:47,664 --> 01:08:49,374 Maybe it is. 1008 01:08:49,457 --> 01:08:54,504 Maybe it is and is the only answer which I find acceptable now. 1009 01:08:54,587 --> 01:08:56,547 - I want to meet his parents. - God! 1010 01:08:56,631 --> 01:08:59,926 I'm Nelson's mother and I have every right. 1011 01:08:59,968 --> 01:09:02,887 You can know them after they have a heart attack and die. 1012 01:09:02,971 --> 01:09:05,348 - Martin, please! - We're going. I am excited. 1013 01:09:05,431 --> 01:09:07,725 - It's important. - Definitely. It's the happiest day. 1014 01:09:07,809 --> 01:09:09,811 I love you, Martin. 1015 01:09:09,894 --> 01:09:11,354 Kill me now! 1016 01:09:11,896 --> 01:09:15,775 - Please just get to know them. - No! 1017 01:09:15,858 --> 01:09:17,569 I would like to meet her Nelson's mother. 1018 01:09:17,652 --> 01:09:20,154 - Why? - To be able to talk to her. 1019 01:09:20,238 --> 01:09:21,990 Maybe I share his feelings. 1020 01:09:22,073 --> 01:09:24,909 I find it cute that she suggested we meet. 1021 01:09:24,951 --> 01:09:26,995 He tells me what kind of soul he has. 1022 01:09:28,871 --> 01:09:30,582 Come on, dad! 1023 01:09:31,416 --> 01:09:35,378 I don't like how they treated you and how he treats his son. 1024 01:09:35,420 --> 01:09:38,339 Come on! I'm cooking something good right here at home. 1025 01:09:38,756 --> 01:09:41,092 What is this, engagement party? 1026 01:09:41,175 --> 01:09:43,094 If we are to meet them... it won't be in our house. 1027 01:09:43,177 --> 01:09:48,766 No! Not in our house and not in our neighborhood. 1028 01:09:48,850 --> 01:09:51,436 - Then where? - You want to meet them. 1029 01:09:51,519 --> 01:09:54,230 They are Italians. what do you say of an Italian restaurant? 1030 01:09:54,314 --> 01:09:57,901 An Italian restaurant? What do you want me to be assassinated? 1031 01:09:57,984 --> 01:09:59,277 What are you talking about? 1032 01:09:59,360 --> 01:10:03,531 Honey, we are Sicilians. If it's in the family, I'm dead. 1033 01:10:03,573 --> 01:10:06,284 - I'm going to sleep with the fishes. - Carmine, stop! 1034 01:10:06,367 --> 01:10:08,995 Your blood pressure rises and give us both a heart attack. 1035 01:10:09,078 --> 01:10:11,873 We will get to know them. Where do you want to do it? 1036 01:10:11,915 --> 01:10:14,334 They are Jews, right? Let's choose Chinese food. 1037 01:10:14,459 --> 01:10:16,878 Your father wouldn't go in in a Chinese restaurant. 1038 01:10:16,961 --> 01:10:19,797 - He can meet a lot of people. - What about sushi? 1039 01:10:20,173 --> 01:10:23,593 Leave it alone! The Japanese are buying from us, they are excluded. 1040 01:10:23,676 --> 01:10:26,471 Besides, I hate anything raw. 1041 01:10:26,512 --> 01:10:29,557 If he's still breathing throw it in the ocean! 1042 01:10:29,599 --> 01:10:33,603 And not to hear about the restaurant Vietnamese, Korean and Thai, 1043 01:10:33,686 --> 01:10:38,733 because they all buy from Hirsch. Everything Asian is unacceptable. 1044 01:10:38,816 --> 01:10:41,069 Don't think about French. 1045 01:10:41,152 --> 01:10:44,739 Italian food is too heavy, and the Mexican one blows me away. 1046 01:10:48,618 --> 01:10:50,537 - Take off your coat! - We don't stay long. 1047 01:10:50,620 --> 01:10:51,913 Yes. 1048 01:10:51,996 --> 01:10:54,541 - Hello! - Hello! 1049 01:10:54,624 --> 01:10:57,919 - I hope I didn't keep you waiting. - No. I just arrived. 1050 01:10:58,002 --> 01:10:59,337 He is my husband, Martin. 1051 01:10:59,462 --> 01:11:01,047 - Marty. - Hello! Teresa. 1052 01:11:01,130 --> 01:11:04,592 - My friends call me "Terry". - I'll call you "Terry" too. 1053 01:11:04,676 --> 01:11:06,135 He is my husband, Carmine. 1054 01:11:06,219 --> 01:11:08,596 - I like it. - I'm fine, Carmine. 1055 01:11:09,138 --> 01:11:10,765 She is our daughter, Andrea. 1056 01:11:10,849 --> 01:11:14,018 She is adorable. He is our beautiful son, Anthony. 1057 01:11:14,102 --> 01:11:16,563 What are you doing, beautiful son? 1058 01:11:16,646 --> 01:11:18,439 - Hello! - I like it. 1059 01:11:18,898 --> 01:11:21,192 - Shall we sit down? - Yes. 1060 01:11:26,948 --> 01:11:28,533 what are you drinking 1061 01:11:29,033 --> 01:11:30,827 God! what are you doing 1062 01:11:31,077 --> 01:11:32,704 - Say it! - Thank you. 1063 01:11:32,787 --> 01:11:35,415 A glass of white wine, please. 1064 01:11:35,498 --> 01:11:37,375 We don't have wine, only vodka. 1065 01:11:38,042 --> 01:11:40,628 Strawberry dardaiquiri? 1066 01:11:40,712 --> 01:11:42,672 No ma'am, just vodka. 1067 01:11:43,047 --> 01:11:46,593 Then I want vodka on ice, please 1068 01:11:46,676 --> 01:11:51,973 I want vodka too. I want it simple slightly chilled, with two olives. 1069 01:11:52,056 --> 01:11:54,934 - Okay, just vodka. - I don't think he has even heard of olives. 1070 01:11:55,101 --> 01:11:56,936 - Sir? - Me? 1071 01:11:57,020 --> 01:11:59,564 - Bring me a Russian beer! - Me too, still beer. 1072 01:12:00,356 --> 01:12:02,734 - Just vodka. - Just vodka! 1073 01:12:03,026 --> 01:12:05,278 It looks like a broken board. 1074 01:12:05,528 --> 01:12:07,780 - I want vodka. - No, you drink cola. 1075 01:12:08,490 --> 01:12:11,576 - I want vodka. - No, she drinks what he drinks. 1076 01:12:11,659 --> 01:12:12,702 No vodka. 1077 01:12:12,785 --> 01:12:14,996 - Do you want a bottle? - Yes, let's get a bottle. 1078 01:12:15,079 --> 01:12:16,581 Vodka, just vodka. 1079 01:12:16,664 --> 01:12:20,001 That brand? what brand is it Just vodka. 1080 01:12:20,335 --> 01:12:22,170 I hope the food is good. 1081 01:12:23,213 --> 01:12:26,758 I want to thank you that you suggested we meet like this. 1082 01:12:26,841 --> 01:12:28,927 How pretty you are! Did you hear that, Martin? 1083 01:12:29,010 --> 01:12:30,553 Yes, it's nice. 1084 01:12:30,637 --> 01:12:34,432 Honestly, I'm glad that Nelson and Angelo did not come, 1085 01:12:34,516 --> 01:12:38,353 so we can talk more openly what to talk about 1086 01:12:38,436 --> 01:12:40,897 I agree. 1087 01:12:40,980 --> 01:12:45,026 I brought some pictures of Angelo since he was little. 1088 01:12:45,110 --> 01:12:47,779 I also brought pictures of Nelson. 1089 01:12:47,904 --> 01:12:49,614 - Can we order? - Yes, come on... 1090 01:12:49,697 --> 01:12:52,700 - My stomach is gnawing. - What's the hurry? We have all evening. 1091 01:12:52,784 --> 01:12:55,537 - Let's order. - Martin, relax. 1092 01:12:55,578 --> 01:12:57,580 Here is Angelo when he was one year old. 1093 01:12:57,664 --> 01:13:01,292 - God, it's great! - Thank you. 1094 01:13:01,417 --> 01:13:03,128 Marty, isn't that great? 1095 01:13:03,211 --> 01:13:05,922 Yes. It's empty. why is he on his stomach with your ass exposed? 1096 01:13:06,005 --> 01:13:09,634 Stop it! This is how they are photographed one-year-old children. 1097 01:13:09,759 --> 01:13:12,512 This is Nelson's labar mitzvah. 1098 01:13:12,595 --> 01:13:14,639 It's very beautiful. 1099 01:13:14,722 --> 01:13:16,266 Carmine, look! 1100 01:13:16,349 --> 01:13:19,310 He looks a little pale with that long hair. You say it's a girl. 1101 01:13:19,394 --> 01:13:22,147 He was only 13 years old. Boys don't shave at 13. 1102 01:13:22,272 --> 01:13:23,773 I started at eight years old. 1103 01:13:23,857 --> 01:13:26,484 He started shaving his back at eight years old. 1104 01:13:26,568 --> 01:13:29,154 Here is Angelo when he was shared. 1105 01:13:29,654 --> 01:13:30,947 Beautiful! 1106 01:13:31,364 --> 01:13:33,658 This is Nelson in high school. 1107 01:13:33,741 --> 01:13:36,077 Yes. Isn't it beautiful? Look! 1108 01:13:38,037 --> 01:13:39,372 Do you want to tell us too? 1109 01:13:39,456 --> 01:13:42,208 I don't think so. I don't think you want to hear it what can i say 1110 01:13:42,292 --> 01:13:43,793 - No, say it! - What exactly? 1111 01:13:43,877 --> 01:13:45,420 You have a problem with my child. 1112 01:13:45,503 --> 01:13:48,089 I didn't say he had something your child 1113 01:13:48,173 --> 01:13:49,549 - You said something. - Marty? 1114 01:13:49,632 --> 01:13:52,719 - I didn't say anything. - Marty, I'd like to dance. 1115 01:13:52,802 --> 01:13:54,429 I don't think you can dance like that, honey. 1116 01:13:54,512 --> 01:13:56,014 Do you want a picture of my son? 1117 01:13:56,055 --> 01:14:00,560 This is Angelo, feather category champion. 1118 01:14:00,685 --> 01:14:03,438 - He's my boy. - Is it when you land on your feet? 1119 01:14:03,521 --> 01:14:05,106 Will you give me some vodka, please? 1120 01:14:05,190 --> 01:14:09,486 Do you want to see my athletic son? On skis? It's almost Olympic. 1121 01:14:09,569 --> 01:14:13,364 Almost Olympic? I didn't know that you get a medal for it. 1122 01:14:13,448 --> 01:14:18,078 What do we have here? Your son was a cheerleader. 1123 01:14:18,453 --> 01:14:20,872 What about the picture of your son in the skirt? 1124 01:14:20,955 --> 01:14:23,249 It wasn't a skirt, it was playing a role. 1125 01:14:23,333 --> 01:14:27,545 - He played Julius Caesar in high school. - Condolences! 1126 01:14:27,629 --> 01:14:29,672 It started in high school. I'm sorry. 1127 01:14:29,756 --> 01:14:31,257 what is your problem 1128 01:14:31,341 --> 01:14:34,427 My child didn't know he was gay before he met yours. 1129 01:14:34,511 --> 01:14:36,805 I think your son converted him. 1130 01:14:36,888 --> 01:14:41,226 Dad, you don't make a gay man, as if you were Dr. Frankenstein. 1131 01:14:41,309 --> 01:14:43,311 People are born gay or not. 1132 01:14:43,395 --> 01:14:45,730 You better listen to your daughter. Let me ask you something. 1133 01:14:45,814 --> 01:14:49,359 How do you know that your son was not a poponar before he met mine? 1134 01:14:49,442 --> 01:14:52,195 - I don't know what a... - Poponar. 1135 01:14:52,278 --> 01:14:55,699 - What the hell is a poponar? - Homosexual said badly. 1136 01:14:55,782 --> 01:14:58,368 It would be perfect for Jerry Springer's show. 1137 01:14:58,451 --> 01:15:00,787 We could also make some money. 1138 01:15:00,870 --> 01:15:03,081 - It's better than Springer. - Yes! 1139 01:15:21,725 --> 01:15:24,811 - Shirley, what are you doing? - What is it? 1140 01:15:25,311 --> 01:15:27,272 - Shirley! - What do you want? 1141 01:15:27,355 --> 01:15:29,691 It's electric. If you want gas, it's down. 1142 01:15:30,358 --> 01:15:32,944 What, you want me to get down on my knees? 1143 01:15:33,028 --> 01:15:34,195 It's not a bad idea. 1144 01:15:34,612 --> 01:15:37,365 Listen. What can you do... 1145 01:15:37,949 --> 01:15:40,702 If you want to kill yourself, can you take me with you 1146 01:15:40,785 --> 01:15:42,287 Darling... 1147 01:15:46,583 --> 01:15:49,461 I would like to go up in a boat 1148 01:15:50,211 --> 01:15:54,507 to sail, to find an island and be free. 1149 01:15:54,591 --> 01:15:57,844 There are no such islands. 1150 01:15:57,927 --> 01:16:00,472 I mean there is but they are extremely expensive. 1151 01:16:00,555 --> 01:16:03,016 - You know what I'm saying. - Yes. 1152 01:16:03,975 --> 01:16:08,188 You are a very nice man. 1153 01:16:15,320 --> 01:16:17,238 Where did your mind go? 1154 01:16:17,822 --> 01:16:19,616 what is it 1155 01:16:19,699 --> 01:16:22,911 I want to know what you think. 1156 01:16:24,371 --> 01:16:27,332 I don't want to hear any more nonsense about boats and islands. 1157 01:16:28,500 --> 01:16:33,129 We already live on an island. 1158 01:16:33,213 --> 01:16:39,177 Our love is like an island just ours. 1159 01:16:40,011 --> 01:16:42,889 I already told the parents. What more do you want? 1160 01:16:44,224 --> 01:16:46,518 It's not enough, dear. 1161 01:16:47,352 --> 01:16:51,982 i love you and I want to take the next step. 1162 01:16:53,483 --> 01:16:55,151 Do you know what we talked about? 1163 01:17:18,216 --> 01:17:19,968 Sophie, on what channel? 1164 01:17:20,051 --> 01:17:22,429 Marty, turn on the TV! I'm on TV. 1165 01:17:22,512 --> 01:17:24,347 - Who? - How who? Our boys. 1166 01:17:24,431 --> 01:17:27,017 - What? - Channel 5. Turn it on! 1167 01:17:27,684 --> 01:17:30,228 A gay couple living together 1168 01:17:30,312 --> 01:17:34,649 managed to solve a problem very controversial in recent years. 1169 01:17:34,733 --> 01:17:38,278 Nelson Hirsch and Angelo Ferraro get the governor's approval 1170 01:17:38,361 --> 01:17:40,488 and the director of the Department New York State Health 1171 01:17:40,655 --> 01:17:42,198 for adopting a child. 1172 01:17:42,282 --> 01:17:46,536 The two gay men adopt a child which they will raise together. 1173 01:17:46,745 --> 01:17:49,539 How about the opposition against your decision? 1174 01:17:49,623 --> 01:17:52,584 We are grateful to God 1175 01:17:52,667 --> 01:17:55,462 that we live in this country wonderful and brave, 1176 01:17:55,545 --> 01:17:59,674 that allows us to live free, according to our own beliefs. 1177 01:17:59,758 --> 01:18:02,135 We want to have the same rights like any family. 1178 01:18:02,177 --> 01:18:03,511 Yes, I mean to have children. 1179 01:18:03,595 --> 01:18:07,390 I just haven't decided yet whether they will be Jews or Catholics. 1180 01:18:07,474 --> 01:18:09,225 He must be Jewish. 1181 01:18:09,768 --> 01:18:12,270 You've heard Nelson Hirsch and Angelo Ferraro, 1182 01:18:12,354 --> 01:18:14,356 two happy fathers. 1183 01:18:14,689 --> 01:18:16,191 Close it! 1184 01:18:17,776 --> 01:18:20,904 GAY COUPLE WANTS TO ADOPT 1185 01:18:21,696 --> 01:18:23,698 Good morning, Mr. Hirsch! 1186 01:18:45,553 --> 01:18:47,681 - Shirley! - Hello, Sophie! 1187 01:18:47,764 --> 01:18:50,392 what are you doing You don't call, you don't write. 1188 01:18:50,475 --> 01:18:53,311 We won't see you again you and marty. 1189 01:18:53,395 --> 01:18:55,647 We have a good reason, Sophie. 1190 01:18:55,730 --> 01:18:58,817 - What's new? - What's new? 1191 01:18:58,900 --> 01:19:03,154 What do you say about the news? You didn't call me. 1192 01:19:03,280 --> 01:19:06,449 Sophie, you know I don't watch the news. I don't know what you saw. 1193 01:19:06,533 --> 01:19:10,412 Congratulations! Finally, you are a grandmother! 1194 01:19:10,537 --> 01:19:15,000 Nelson made a baby, and I didn't know he had someone. 1195 01:19:15,083 --> 01:19:18,837 Sophie, you know how to say it in Yiddish "go to hell"? 1196 01:19:20,463 --> 01:19:24,843 Yes, but I prefer to tell you: "Go to hell!" 1197 01:19:24,926 --> 01:19:26,595 Shirley! 1198 01:19:27,304 --> 01:19:29,097 Sophie, leave me alone! 1199 01:19:29,639 --> 01:19:36,605 Be serious, Shirley! Listen! Everyone knows about Nelson. 1200 01:19:36,688 --> 01:19:41,192 you must be brave to face the reality of life. 1201 01:19:41,276 --> 01:19:44,988 I don't know. I don't know why... 1202 01:19:45,488 --> 01:19:49,409 Sophie, you don't understand what I'm going through. 1203 01:19:49,492 --> 01:19:52,621 Martin doesn't understand what's going on. 1204 01:19:53,038 --> 01:19:55,415 You don't know how much I suffer. 1205 01:19:55,498 --> 01:20:00,921 - I know. I've been living with this for 20 years. - I know. 1206 01:20:01,463 --> 01:20:03,465 Do you know about Max? 1207 01:20:03,548 --> 01:20:07,177 Yes. I found out recently and I'm sorry. 1208 01:20:07,260 --> 01:20:08,970 I'm sorry. 1209 01:20:09,054 --> 01:20:11,598 - It's not that serious. - Stop it! 1210 01:20:11,681 --> 01:20:15,227 From time to time, he goes to the club. 1211 01:20:15,310 --> 01:20:18,230 I can't believe it. I can't believe it's true. 1212 01:20:18,355 --> 01:20:21,566 You learn to live with it and move on. 1213 01:20:21,650 --> 01:20:25,695 All that matters is for people to be happy. 1214 01:20:28,114 --> 01:20:29,574 I'm sorry. 1215 01:20:29,783 --> 01:20:34,204 When the phone rings, I feel like I'm filing testify in my son's defense. 1216 01:20:34,287 --> 01:20:36,456 Yes. I don't answer the phone anymore. 1217 01:20:36,540 --> 01:20:41,670 And when they don't call, I know there are a thousand of them of people desperate to call me. 1218 01:20:41,711 --> 01:20:44,589 I will avoid family for the rest of my life. 1219 01:20:45,006 --> 01:20:47,342 - Shirley... - And no phone. 1220 01:20:47,425 --> 01:20:50,387 Don't let him know my numbers. 1221 01:20:50,512 --> 01:20:53,765 I can't handle it, Marty. I'm not brave enough. 1222 01:20:54,683 --> 01:20:56,101 Don't answer! 1223 01:20:57,561 --> 01:20:59,396 Hello? 1224 01:20:59,479 --> 01:21:02,232 Sophie? Yes. 1225 01:21:02,774 --> 01:21:05,402 Am I live? Marty, I'm live. 1226 01:21:09,906 --> 01:21:11,074 Thank you Jack. 1227 01:21:11,199 --> 01:21:14,786 I'm Christine Anderson and broadcast live from the center. 1228 01:21:14,870 --> 01:21:18,039 behind me until 30 minutes ago, 1229 01:21:18,123 --> 01:21:21,960 a peaceful protest was taking place, which degenerated very quickly 1230 01:21:22,043 --> 01:21:24,045 in something at the opposite pole. 1231 01:21:24,129 --> 01:21:27,799 As far as we know, the police have been there since morning 1232 01:21:27,883 --> 01:21:31,219 and reinforcements are being sent now, because they are needed. 1233 01:21:31,928 --> 01:21:35,474 At the heart of the controversy lies adoption of a child 1234 01:21:35,557 --> 01:21:40,103 by a gay couple, young people Nelson Hirsch and Angelo Ferraro. 1235 01:21:40,187 --> 01:21:42,022 Equal rights! 1236 01:21:44,566 --> 01:21:47,569 God hates gays! 1237 01:21:49,654 --> 01:21:51,323 To the little ones! 1238 01:21:54,618 --> 01:21:57,537 You are angry because nobody she won't have a baby with you. 1239 01:21:57,621 --> 01:21:59,789 Excuse me, please. I have to find my son. 1240 01:22:01,124 --> 01:22:03,794 Here you were! Hello, dear! 1241 01:22:04,753 --> 01:22:07,172 Hi Nelson! Did you start this? 1242 01:22:07,214 --> 01:22:09,758 God! My sister-in-law is coming. 1243 01:22:09,883 --> 01:22:14,346 I saw the boy on TV. I thought I could be of use. 1244 01:22:14,429 --> 01:22:16,139 Come on, come here! 1245 01:22:16,556 --> 01:22:18,683 How many people! 1246 01:22:18,809 --> 01:22:21,603 God hates gays! 1247 01:22:23,480 --> 01:22:25,649 Equal rights! 1248 01:22:25,732 --> 01:22:27,317 - God! - Excuse us. 1249 01:22:27,442 --> 01:22:28,985 Hi Terry! 1250 01:22:29,069 --> 01:22:31,238 - Are you okay? - Dad, what are you doing here? 1251 01:22:31,321 --> 01:22:32,531 What do you think? 1252 01:22:32,614 --> 01:22:34,991 - Look, look! - Do we have action? 1253 01:22:35,450 --> 01:22:37,035 - Are you ready? - For what? 1254 01:22:37,577 --> 01:22:41,540 Do you see the bald guy? Which looks like a pool ball? 1255 01:22:41,581 --> 01:22:43,291 - Do you take care of him? - No, it's yours. 1256 01:22:43,667 --> 01:22:45,836 - A bunch of idiots? - Yes, it's genetic. 1257 01:22:45,919 --> 01:22:47,712 Do you want to fight? 1258 01:22:51,550 --> 01:22:55,262 - Don't get ahead of me, I hope. - No. We have Nicky. are you ready 1259 01:22:55,345 --> 01:22:58,181 Individuals demand it. Let's go! Come on, Carmine! 1260 01:22:58,265 --> 01:23:00,225 - Do you want to fight? - Come on! 1261 01:23:01,351 --> 01:23:03,770 - Say "always be". - Good. Always be! 1262 01:23:09,943 --> 01:23:14,489 Yes, Nicky. On him! Hit him! 1263 01:23:14,614 --> 01:23:15,991 Leave me, monkey! 1264 01:23:16,491 --> 01:23:17,951 Break it! 1265 01:23:20,662 --> 01:23:22,456 Let me tell you something, watermelon head. 1266 01:23:22,539 --> 01:23:25,751 Stay out of my neighborhood and keep your remarks to yourself! 1267 01:23:25,834 --> 01:23:27,836 It's like you said it's mine! 1268 01:23:29,004 --> 01:23:31,715 - Are you okay? - No. 1269 01:23:31,798 --> 01:23:34,301 Let me repeat it to you. if i see you again 1270 01:23:34,384 --> 01:23:38,180 me and my friend send you in Sicily with two separate vessels. 1271 01:23:38,346 --> 01:23:39,681 - Are you hurt? - I'm fine. 1272 01:23:39,765 --> 01:23:41,892 - It's good, he's brave. - I'm fine. 1273 01:23:41,975 --> 01:23:45,437 excuse me Madam? Would you like to talk to us please? 1274 01:23:45,520 --> 01:23:47,898 my husband was hurt i have to go 1275 01:23:47,981 --> 01:23:50,108 Tell us why you came! 1276 01:23:50,192 --> 01:23:53,653 Well, I... Just a minute, okay? 1277 01:23:55,781 --> 01:23:57,491 My place is here. 1278 01:23:57,574 --> 01:24:03,455 These people are my family. I'm Shirley. Shirley Hirsch. 1279 01:24:03,789 --> 01:24:09,920 I am the proud mother of my son, Nelson. 1280 01:24:10,796 --> 01:24:14,716 And I am the proud grandmother my nephew's 1281 01:24:14,800 --> 01:24:17,511 the child of Nelson and Angelo. 1282 01:24:17,552 --> 01:24:21,681 I am very happy that I am here today. 1283 01:24:21,723 --> 01:24:23,475 Very happy. 1284 01:24:23,934 --> 01:24:26,895 Do you want to pass them on? something for the viewers? 1285 01:24:26,978 --> 01:24:28,271 Yes. 1286 01:24:28,397 --> 01:24:32,943 I want them to know that they have the right 1287 01:24:33,026 --> 01:24:36,446 to love whomever they choose, 1288 01:24:36,530 --> 01:24:39,991 that I can love anyone. 1289 01:24:40,075 --> 01:24:42,285 Thank you. Goodbye! I have to go. 1290 01:24:43,078 --> 01:24:47,457 Very exciting! He transmitted Christine Anderson. You have the connection, Jack. 1291 01:26:00,739 --> 01:26:02,658 Everyone comes out. 1292 01:26:02,866 --> 01:26:04,326 Good. 1293 01:26:04,409 --> 01:26:07,371 Both families to come up the stairs. 1294 01:26:07,871 --> 01:26:10,040 - Both families. - Okay. 1295 01:26:10,123 --> 01:26:11,458 The Hirsch family, here. 1296 01:26:11,583 --> 01:26:15,754 - It's beautiful. Snoring. - The Ferraro family, here. 1297 01:26:16,380 --> 01:26:18,632 To see the beautiful child. 1298 01:26:20,008 --> 01:26:21,968 - Great! - Are we proud? 1299 01:26:22,094 --> 01:26:24,888 - Smile! - It's good. Stay that way! 1300 01:26:24,971 --> 01:26:28,976 - What are you doing here ? - Stop! Nobody moves. 1301 01:26:29,643 --> 01:26:31,770 This boy will be circumcised. 1302 01:26:31,895 --> 01:26:33,230 Who is this madman? 1303 01:26:33,313 --> 01:26:37,567 - It's uncle Moishe. Say hello to him! - Hello, uncle Moishe! 1304 01:26:37,693 --> 01:26:41,279 This boy belongs from my family. He will be circumcised. 1305 01:26:41,363 --> 01:26:43,407 You're going to circumcise him on the church steps? 1306 01:26:43,490 --> 01:26:44,616 Where else? It's perfect. 1307 01:26:44,700 --> 01:26:47,327 Why do you want to cut it? The boy it needs the whole organ. 1308 01:26:47,869 --> 01:26:49,454 Who is speaking ! 1309 01:26:49,538 --> 01:26:51,873 Who is the father of this child? 1310 01:26:51,957 --> 01:26:53,291 He. 1311 01:26:53,500 --> 01:26:54,960 And mom? 1312 01:26:56,545 --> 01:26:58,046 He. 1313 01:26:58,297 --> 01:27:00,632 - What? - Moishe, enter the picture! 1314 01:27:00,716 --> 01:27:03,135 Moishe, let me explain... 1315 01:27:03,927 --> 01:27:05,721 I have a unique perspective. 1316 01:27:05,887 --> 01:27:08,473 - Come on, good people! - Everyone smile widely! 1317 01:27:08,974 --> 01:27:10,475 Smile! 1318 01:27:10,642 --> 01:27:14,021 - Big smiles. One, two... - The kitty, uncle Moishe! 1319 01:28:06,740 --> 01:28:11,370 You watched the feature film MY SON IS GAY