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I don't believe in all that 'I'll show up
for myself, so I'm showing my ass'.

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No, but...

3
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aesthetic forms that emerge from oppression
emerge more often...

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redefined,
such as religious symbols.

5
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Right? Twerking is also possible
take on a new meaning.

6
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Religions are full of patriarchal symbols.

7
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Yes, but context is important.

8
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Got it? Meanings change. Madonna.

9
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If she carries a cross,
that doesn't mean she's Catholic.

10
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That would...
Ofelia, do you know Tamara Tenenbaum?

11
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I know you from here
and I listen to you on the radio.

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Look, a fan, like me.

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You have a tattoo. Show me.

14
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The Star of David. What could this be?

15
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Why do you have that?
Do you like it? Irony?

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It's a memory. What do you mean?

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We talked about it
how symbols change in pop culture.

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Are you Jewish?

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Yes. You too, right?

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Yes...
- Because of your last name.

21
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Real? I didn't know that.

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Because she never writes about it.

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Why not?

24
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It's weird that you never
writes about Judaism, as a Jew.

25
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I find other topics more interesting.

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I don't participate anymore.

27
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What?
- I'm not performing.

28
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Can I have a gin and tonic? A strong one.

29
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One moment. Nice to meet you.

30
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Likewise. Thanks for the discussion.

31
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I'll stay.
- I'm going to my friends.

32
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What happened?
- I wanted to dance, not be an extra.

33
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Did you want a solo performance?
Go dance. It's busy.

34
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My students are here.

35
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They can't see me
as a background dancer.

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I'm going to get dressed.
- Are you serious?

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Yes.

38
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I can't...

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FEDE - HONEY, ARE YOU COMING HOME TO DINNER?

40
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OR DO YOU EAT THERE?

41
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I WILL SAVE SOMETHING FOR YOU.

42
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Did Juana dance?

43
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She doesn't want to dance.
-What's her excuse?

44
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Her neurosis. I'm going home.
- Wait, come here.

45
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This is for you.
Come on, have some and stay.

46
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It's red, you will feel passion.
- Your face is red.

47
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Yes, I was kissing.
You should do too.

48
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I'll pay you later.
- Do it now so I can buy a beer.

49
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Real? You fuck the landlady
and you have to pay?

50
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Mora, come on. She is thirsty.

51
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I keep work and private life separate.

52
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Best. Here. Have fun.
- Bye.

53
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Where does the queen of the rebels come?
tonight?

54
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You never know.

55
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I know about you.

56
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MORA BOUGHT A ROUND.
IT MUST BE LOVE. COME BACK.

57
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Pure freedom does not exist.

58
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Freedom exists in a context,

59
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under certain conditions
and is always relative.

60
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Even our desires are intertwined...

61
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with what people say we shouldn't do.

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Fears, forbidden.

63
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We've been carrying them around for generations.

64
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I only asked
whether you could park safely in that area.

65
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Yes, it was a simple question.

66
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But if you were a man,
you wouldn't ask that.

67
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I get it. I wonder
where that comes from.

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Freedom? Fear?

69
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No one can escape completely...

70
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to the circumstances
because of who you are,

71
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but there is room
where you can do something...

72
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Something...

73
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Right? Writing...

74
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That means doing something with it.

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Camilo, would you like to share what you
have you written? Then we'll talk about it...

76
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Next time.

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I heard your lecture.

78
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Yes? What did you think?
- Very interesting.

79
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You look the same.

80
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Your hair is different.

81
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I hope I can take your subject later.
- Oh, yes.

82
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I teach literature at my old school.

83
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Our old school.

84
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I wanted to give you this.

85
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I'm getting married.

86
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Congratulations.
- Thank you.

87
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You must come to the chuppah.

88
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And also to the party.

89
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Is the date on it? Because I...

90
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You don't have to decide now.
- No, okay.

91
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Good.
- Think about it.

92
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Shabbat shalom.

93
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Shabbat shalom.

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What are you doing?

95
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I want to see where he stands.
- That's not allowed.

96
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It suits you better.

97
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We are only allowed to wear wigs
when we are married.

98
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I'm never getting married.

99
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Can you believe they had a fight
about the existence of the shedim?

100
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What were the shedim?

101
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The shedim. The kobolds, demons...

102
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Give me the bowl. They're not bad.
They don't kill you.

103
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They hide your things.

104
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According to his friend they exist,
not according to his grandfather.

105
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Unfortunately, that was his only friend.

106
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Sarita Levy invited me
for her wedding.

107
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Real? How did she find you?

108
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At university. She attends lectures there.

109
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You never told me that.

110
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I didn't know you wanted to hear gossip.

111
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Did you know she was getting married?
- Naturally.

112
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Her poor parents were desperate.

113
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Are you going there?

114
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For nothing.
- Don't be so mean.

115
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Here are my notes.
Can I have it?

116
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Why do you want that?

117
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Are you going to write about the purity laws?

118
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It can be a good topic.

119
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That people in the 21st century
menstruating women are still unclean.

120
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Stop it.

121
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Don't write about that, Tami, please.

122
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You're talking about my neighbors,
my patients.

123
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Sit down and eat your dessert.
- I have to go.

124
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Don't play 'bonzo' journalist.

125
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It's Gonzo, with a 'g'.
- Gonzo, that's fine too.

126
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Are you going to radio?
- To university.

127
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Girls, I don't want to sound dramatic,

128
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but do you find Mora
also a bit toxic?

129
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You saw her, Tam.
Be honest, what do you think?

130
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I don't want to worry.

131
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I don't want to worry.

132
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You already do that, Lau.

133
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Just a little about last night.

134
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Do I hide my origins?

135
00:10:03,812 --> 00:10:06,481
When someone asks about my youth,
I'm not lying

136
00:10:06,606 --> 00:10:08,856
but I don't have to answer either.

137
00:10:09,067 --> 00:10:12,154
After all, it is a story
that I didn't choose.

138
00:10:12,279 --> 00:10:14,573
I don't want to take advantage of it either.

139
00:10:14,698 --> 00:10:16,283
'Poor Jews...' And so on.

140
00:10:16,408 --> 00:10:19,161
'The Jew who her origins
has been overcome.'

141
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Who cares? What do you think?

142
00:10:21,913 --> 00:10:23,457
Lau, you're just toxic.

143
00:10:23,582 --> 00:10:26,293
Tam, you're such a snob sometimes,

144
00:10:26,418 --> 00:10:28,795
why don't you want to
talk about your past?

145
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I may be toxic, but you're hiding
your origins all your life.

146
00:10:32,674 --> 00:10:34,635
Can I have an answer?

147
00:10:34,760 --> 00:10:40,140
Now that we're honest,
I should have danced yesterday, right?

148
00:10:40,265 --> 00:10:43,060
Be honest.
It's been bothering me all day.

149
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We can talk about it
at the Butler lecture.

150
00:10:47,314 --> 00:10:51,151
Of course you should have danced.
You never dare at the last minute.

151
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I'm going straight from work.

152
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Yes, new. The painting too.

153
00:10:59,743 --> 00:11:02,287
But you haven't hung that up yet.
- No.

154
00:11:02,412 --> 00:11:04,081
Is she here?
- Yes.

155
00:11:04,206 --> 00:11:05,624
Hi.
- Hello.

156
00:11:05,749 --> 00:11:06,833
Surprise.

157
00:11:06,958 --> 00:11:08,585
I'll be right there.
- Hi, honey.

158
00:11:08,710 --> 00:11:10,128
TAM - FORGOTTEN FAMILY DINNER.

159
00:11:10,253 --> 00:11:12,881
We admire all the news.
- How are you?

160
00:11:13,006 --> 00:11:14,675
It's been a while.
- Yes.

161
00:11:14,800 --> 00:11:16,916
Long time ago.
-The house is beautiful.

162
00:11:17,042 --> 00:11:18,053
Yes, right?
- Yes.

163
00:11:18,178 --> 00:11:19,388
What a surprise.

164
00:11:19,513 --> 00:11:21,556
LAURA - YOU'RE NOT GOING TO SEE JUDITH BUTLER?

165
00:11:21,681 --> 00:11:23,892
I told you,
it's no surprise.

166
00:11:24,017 --> 00:11:25,519
MAKE UP AN EXCUSE AND COME.

167
00:11:27,396 --> 00:11:30,065
A wedding card? Who are Sarah and David?

168
00:11:30,899 --> 00:11:34,861
Sara is a school friend.
They got David for her.

169
00:11:35,779 --> 00:11:36,780
What do you mean?

170
00:11:36,905 --> 00:11:40,909
If you're 29 and a virgin like Sarita,
they will find a man for you.

171
00:11:41,493 --> 00:11:43,056
Does that still happen?

172
00:11:45,122 --> 00:11:46,581
But we're not going.

173
00:11:46,706 --> 00:11:48,542
We will send a gift.

174
00:11:48,667 --> 00:11:51,044
Best. Take the bread with you.
- Good.

175
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Do they remain virgins until marriage?

176
00:11:54,589 --> 00:11:56,174
Yes.

177
00:11:56,299 --> 00:11:58,051
Are you serious?
- A toast?

178
00:11:58,760 --> 00:12:01,680
We're done.
- Thank you.

179
00:12:01,805 --> 00:12:03,807
I thought we wouldn't see you...

180
00:12:03,932 --> 00:12:06,101
until Christmas.
- But here we are.

181
00:12:06,226 --> 00:12:07,644
Cheers.
- Cheers.

182
00:12:07,769 --> 00:12:10,332
We don't impose ourselves, we miss you.

183
00:12:30,250 --> 00:12:32,169
Why don't you want to go to the wedding?

184
00:12:32,294 --> 00:12:34,379
Are you afraid of seeing your people?

185
00:12:36,256 --> 00:12:38,300
I just find it boring.

186
00:12:41,261 --> 00:12:42,661
You're scared.

187
00:12:46,349 --> 00:12:48,018
Do you find long hair sexy?

188
00:12:49,394 --> 00:12:51,188
Your hair drives me wild.

189
00:12:59,821 --> 00:13:01,221
I'm on my period.

190
00:13:02,032 --> 00:13:04,701
I don't care.
- Are you sure?

191
00:13:56,253 --> 00:13:57,653
CLEANLINESS LAWS.

192
00:14:04,135 --> 00:14:05,535
Come to bed.

193
00:14:07,222 --> 00:14:09,160
I have cramps. I'll come later.

194
00:14:09,641 --> 00:14:12,329
Are you sure? Would you like a cup of tea?
- No.

195
00:14:13,061 --> 00:14:15,124
Thank you.
- I'll wait for you.

196
00:14:22,821 --> 00:14:26,533
'During the unclean days of the woman
her husband is forbidden...

197
00:14:26,658 --> 00:14:30,161
'to show her affection,
like by kissing her.

198
00:14:30,745 --> 00:14:34,374
'He is not allowed to have any contact
with the woman's blood.

199
00:14:35,333 --> 00:14:39,921
'Blood is understood to mean:
any red-colored discharge.

200
00:14:40,672 --> 00:14:43,717
'A woman is considered unclean...

201
00:14:43,842 --> 00:14:47,095
'from the moment
that her period starts...

202
00:14:47,220 --> 00:14:50,724
'until the moment when
she bathes in the mikveh water...

203
00:14:50,849 --> 00:14:53,287
'to complete the cleansing ritual.

204
00:14:53,852 --> 00:14:58,315
'She is not allowed during this period
get in touch with her husband.'

205
00:15:01,151 --> 00:15:04,279
I need a book of pictures.

206
00:15:08,366 --> 00:15:12,912
But I don't know if they are allowed to take pictures
of adult private things.

207
00:15:15,040 --> 00:15:18,960
Maybe they will be pictures
of dirty underwear.

208
00:15:57,457 --> 00:15:58,857
LEFTOVERS

209
00:16:17,686 --> 00:16:19,086
What is it?

210
00:16:19,396 --> 00:16:20,796
Do you regret it?

211
00:16:22,482 --> 00:16:24,401
What? Come on, let's go.

212
00:16:29,364 --> 00:16:30,949
You stay with the men.

213
00:16:31,074 --> 00:16:33,159
I'm going to the women.
- Excuse me?

214
00:16:33,910 --> 00:16:36,538
We still talk about binary genders.

215
00:16:36,663 --> 00:16:39,332
Will you leave me alone?
- Only?

216
00:16:40,458 --> 00:16:43,461
You belong to them. Have fun.

217
00:16:48,758 --> 00:16:49,968
How are you?
- Hi.

218
00:16:50,093 --> 00:16:51,493
Thank you.

219
00:17:05,900 --> 00:17:08,695
Long time ago. How are you?
with your husband? Children?

220
00:17:08,820 --> 00:17:10,572
Good.
- Great.

221
00:17:10,697 --> 00:17:14,075
I hear you're getting married.
- Yes, I've known him for a few months.

222
00:17:14,200 --> 00:17:15,491
Are you getting married?
- Yes.

223
00:17:15,617 --> 00:17:16,631
Real?

224
00:17:16,757 --> 00:17:17,771
Congratulations.

225
00:17:17,897 --> 00:17:19,080
Thank you.
- Happy for you.

226
00:17:19,205 --> 00:17:20,665
Juana, Rufele's cousin...

227
00:17:20,790 --> 00:17:22,834
Yes.
- Has a jewelry store.

228
00:17:22,959 --> 00:17:26,129
Tami Tenenbaum, in the flesh.

229
00:17:26,755 --> 00:17:29,591
Shirley. Sarita's niece.

230
00:17:32,260 --> 00:17:35,198
Shirley Plotka.
- I'm Shirley Klimovsky now.

231
00:17:35,597 --> 00:17:37,056
Oh yes, you're married.

232
00:17:38,600 --> 00:17:40,000
Not you?

233
00:17:40,393 --> 00:17:43,605
Sorry, maybe you're covering up
your hair just doesn't.

234
00:17:43,811 --> 00:17:46,480
No, I live with my boyfriend.

235
00:17:47,358 --> 00:17:48,614
He's downstairs.

236
00:17:48,860 --> 00:17:50,260
Ah.

237
00:18:41,454 --> 00:18:43,123
FEDE - IS THIS HEBREW?

238
00:18:43,248 --> 00:18:45,041
TAM - NO, ARAMIC.

239
00:18:55,134 --> 00:18:57,720
FEDE
WHAT LANGUAGE DID YOU LEARN AT SCHOOL?

240
00:19:02,976 --> 00:19:04,853
TAM - HEBREW.

241
00:19:06,062 --> 00:19:08,106
Look at her and say:

242
00:19:08,231 --> 00:19:09,983
You are...
- You are...

243
00:19:10,108 --> 00:19:11,109
Connected to me...

244
00:19:11,234 --> 00:19:12,351
FEDE - WHAT DO THEY SAY?

245
00:19:12,477 --> 00:19:13,485
With this ring...

246
00:19:13,611 --> 00:19:14,654
TAM - PROMISES?

247
00:19:14,779 --> 00:19:16,489
According to the religion of Moses...

248
00:19:16,614 --> 00:19:17,949
FEDE - DO THEY KNOW ARAMIC?

249
00:19:18,074 --> 00:19:19,078
And Israel...

250
00:19:19,204 --> 00:19:20,789
TAM - I THINK NOT...

251
00:19:22,745 --> 00:19:25,999
FEDE - SO THEY DON'T KNOW
WHAT DO THEY PROMISE EACH OTHER?

252
00:19:28,001 --> 00:19:31,064
I belong to my beloved.
And my beloved me.

253
00:19:33,214 --> 00:19:35,675
The rings, a circle like life...

254
00:19:35,800 --> 00:19:37,761
Who is the one with the pink hair?

255
00:19:37,886 --> 00:19:39,888
Tami Tenenbaum. Ruth's daughter.

256
00:19:40,680 --> 00:19:42,891
Wait, wasn't she dead?
- No.

257
00:19:43,016 --> 00:19:45,891
She had overdosed, right?
- From what?

258
00:19:46,144 --> 00:19:47,854
Ketamine, cocaine, who knows?

259
00:19:47,979 --> 00:19:50,667
She looks terrible.
Really lost.

260
00:19:59,657 --> 00:20:01,409
Congratulations.

261
00:20:43,117 --> 00:20:46,037
Tamara, I think
is there something wrong with your son?

262
00:20:46,162 --> 00:20:47,562
There, your son.

263
00:21:00,009 --> 00:21:01,803
You're not allowed to come here, Fede.

264
00:21:01,928 --> 00:21:06,724
How did you get that child?
- I paid him to guide me.

265
00:21:06,849 --> 00:21:10,228
Can we go?
Enough anthropological observation.

266
00:21:10,353 --> 00:21:13,398
Nothing happens to the men.
- Already?

267
00:21:14,607 --> 00:21:16,234
Wait until dessert.

268
00:21:16,734 --> 00:21:21,239
You hate kosher food. Come on.
Chocolate and whiskey in bed.

269
00:21:21,364 --> 00:21:23,992
No, don't.
You can't touch me here.

270
00:21:24,117 --> 00:21:26,953
Sorry.
- I'll take some notes, then we'll go.

271
00:21:27,078 --> 00:21:30,748
Write this: You are infamous.
Heard you overdosed.

272
00:21:30,873 --> 00:21:33,084
They don't know
whether it was ketamine or cocaine.

273
00:21:33,209 --> 00:21:35,128
Great. You are a legend.
- What?

274
00:21:35,253 --> 00:21:37,547
Are you the drug addict?
- No.

275
00:21:37,672 --> 00:21:39,799
Can you excuse me for a moment?

276
00:21:39,924 --> 00:21:42,343
Do you want even more money?
- I have to pee.

277
00:21:42,468 --> 00:21:44,304
He has to pee.
- That's why...

278
00:21:44,429 --> 00:21:46,431
What are you doing here, darling?

279
00:21:48,683 --> 00:21:52,645
Fede, Shirley. Shirley, Fede.

280
00:21:52,770 --> 00:21:56,900
How are you?
- He's my friend, remember?

281
00:21:57,025 --> 00:21:59,944
He was upset. It made you cry, right?

282
00:22:00,069 --> 00:22:02,405
He was looking for you and he brought you.

283
00:22:02,530 --> 00:22:04,073
No problem.
- Thank you.

284
00:22:04,198 --> 00:22:05,783
We were just about to leave.

285
00:22:05,908 --> 00:22:06,951
No.
- Yes.

286
00:22:07,076 --> 00:22:11,331
Yes, but what a party. Thank you
for the invite, it was great.

287
00:22:11,456 --> 00:22:15,001
Are you leaving now?
The dancing has just begun.

288
00:22:15,126 --> 00:22:16,526
Aren't you participating?

289
00:22:17,837 --> 00:22:19,714
Don't you want to dance with Sarita?

290
00:22:22,008 --> 00:22:25,678
Jewish food is strange. The aftertaste...
Do you have any chewing gum?

291
00:22:25,803 --> 00:22:27,305
The taxi is almost there.

292
00:22:29,098 --> 00:22:32,518
Have you ordered it yet?
- Yeah, why? Do you want to take the bus?

293
00:22:35,730 --> 00:22:37,130
I want to stay.

294
00:22:37,982 --> 00:22:39,382
What?

295
00:22:41,360 --> 00:22:44,110
I'm tired of it
always leave so early.

296
00:22:44,864 --> 00:22:46,264
What do you mean, early?

297
00:22:47,950 --> 00:22:51,120
Before I want to leave.

298
00:22:53,790 --> 00:22:55,500
I have to do the mitzvah.

299
00:22:57,835 --> 00:23:01,335
The mitzvah? Do you speak Aramaic now?
- Dancing with the bride.

300
00:23:01,839 --> 00:23:04,634
What shall we do?
- I don't want...

301
00:23:04,759 --> 00:23:07,720
I don't want to force you into anything.

302
00:23:09,388 --> 00:23:10,848
Should I cancel the taxi?
- No.

303
00:23:10,973 --> 00:23:12,350
Yes.
- No, don't.

304
00:23:12,475 --> 00:23:15,978
I'll tell you what I want to do.
You don't have to stay.

305
00:23:18,481 --> 00:23:21,317
I'll wait in a bar.
- Don't wait for me.

306
00:23:21,442 --> 00:23:24,654
Don't. Otherwise I can go dancing

307
00:23:24,779 --> 00:23:27,824
but I think all the time
the fact that you wait.

308
00:23:27,949 --> 00:23:30,324
I don't want anyone waiting for me.

309
00:23:34,747 --> 00:23:36,147
The taxi is here.

310
00:23:37,792 --> 00:23:39,192
Have fun.

311
00:25:52,093 --> 00:25:53,493
Do you need help?

312
00:25:53,928 --> 00:25:55,328
No, thanks.

313
00:26:06,315 --> 00:26:09,068
FEDE - THIS FEELS STRANGE.
I DON'T KNOW WHAT IS THERE.

314
00:26:09,193 --> 00:26:11,988
I LOVE YOU.

315
00:26:29,839 --> 00:26:31,507
I want to ask you something.

316
00:26:36,053 --> 00:26:37,453
Sara.

317
00:26:38,097 --> 00:26:42,143
If you want to escape, I'll help you.
- No, I don't want to leave.

318
00:26:44,061 --> 00:26:45,999
You have to tell me about sex.

319
00:26:47,857 --> 00:26:50,067
How...
- Of course, you've never...

320
00:26:50,192 --> 00:26:51,777
No.
- Good.

321
00:26:51,902 --> 00:26:55,072
How are you?
I don't know what to do.

322
00:26:55,573 --> 00:26:58,200
Does he start? Should I start?

323
00:26:59,285 --> 00:27:00,786
Naturally.

324
00:27:02,204 --> 00:27:03,604
Listen,

325
00:27:04,206 --> 00:27:05,606
it's just...

326
00:27:06,625 --> 00:27:08,669
like buying new shoes.

327
00:27:09,920 --> 00:27:13,424
You have to break them in...

328
00:27:14,300 --> 00:27:15,927
and get used to them.

329
00:27:16,052 --> 00:27:20,348
Wear them once, twice and keep it up.

330
00:27:20,473 --> 00:27:24,226
You shouldn't get frustrated.

331
00:27:25,186 --> 00:27:27,772
If you get blisters at the beginning,

332
00:27:28,439 --> 00:27:31,234
is that normal?
- But I don't want blisters.

333
00:27:31,359 --> 00:27:32,759
You do want them.

334
00:27:33,194 --> 00:27:34,594
Believe me.

335
00:27:37,323 --> 00:27:38,723
Sarita...

336
00:27:41,786 --> 00:27:43,412
You have such beautiful hair.

337
00:27:45,289 --> 00:27:46,689
Your hair.

338
00:27:48,000 --> 00:27:49,400
Your hair...

339
00:27:52,296 --> 00:27:55,424
Come, I'll fasten your veil.
It suits you so well.

340
00:28:01,597 --> 00:28:03,410
Have you been to the mikveh?

341
00:28:03,682 --> 00:28:05,082
Naturally.

342
00:28:09,480 --> 00:28:10,880
How is that?

343
00:28:12,024 --> 00:28:13,424
What do you mean?

344
00:28:14,693 --> 00:28:16,320
I've never been.

345
00:28:16,987 --> 00:28:19,300
My mother never went. She is a widow.

346
00:28:19,782 --> 00:28:21,182
What do you want to know?

347
00:28:22,326 --> 00:28:23,726
Everything.

348
00:28:24,829 --> 00:28:26,392
Are you going to write about this?

349
00:28:28,249 --> 00:28:29,749
No, it's for myself.

350
00:28:32,711 --> 00:28:34,111
It was yesterday.

351
00:28:34,505 --> 00:28:38,193
You go the day before your wedding.
You are not allowed to have your period.

352
00:28:38,634 --> 00:28:43,197
I have to have my period every month
to be able to have sex with my husband again.

353
00:28:49,061 --> 00:28:50,461
And what is it like?

354
00:28:52,189 --> 00:28:53,589
It's...

355
00:28:54,358 --> 00:28:56,152
A tiny swimming pool.

356
00:28:57,445 --> 00:28:58,845
Like a spa?

357
00:29:00,114 --> 00:29:01,739
I've never been there.

358
00:29:04,034 --> 00:29:05,434
And?

359
00:29:06,537 --> 00:29:07,937
You go in naked.

360
00:29:08,664 --> 00:29:10,249
No underwear, nothing.

361
00:29:10,374 --> 00:29:12,501
The whole body, from head to toe.

362
00:29:12,626 --> 00:29:15,876
Every inch of your body
needs to be cleaned.

363
00:29:20,426 --> 00:29:22,845
Are you there alone?

364
00:29:23,345 --> 00:29:25,973
No, there is a lady
with her eyes closed.

365
00:29:26,098 --> 00:29:28,225
She doesn't see you. She's far away.

366
00:29:29,894 --> 00:29:31,294
And what do you feel?

367
00:29:32,730 --> 00:29:34,815
I thought I wouldn't feel anything.

368
00:29:36,358 --> 00:29:37,796
But you do feel something.

369
00:29:39,236 --> 00:29:41,614
When the water reaches your waist

370
00:29:43,199 --> 00:29:45,117
and then your tits,

371
00:29:45,743 --> 00:29:49,079
you feel a cold that turns into heat.

372
00:29:52,583 --> 00:29:54,210
I thought about my husband.

373
00:29:56,170 --> 00:29:57,570
And at the same time

374
00:29:58,506 --> 00:30:00,069
I thought of my mother.

375
00:30:02,301 --> 00:30:03,701
And my grandmother.

376
00:30:04,637 --> 00:30:07,598
To all the women who came before me.

377
00:30:09,391 --> 00:30:11,641
They had done exactly the same thing.

378
00:30:13,687 --> 00:30:15,606
An endless chain.

379
00:30:45,719 --> 00:30:46,971
FEDE - EVERYTHING OKAY?

380
00:30:47,096 --> 00:30:50,349
I'M WAITING FOR YOU.

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