1
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i love you
- I love you.

2
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i love you
- I love you so much.

3
00:00:14,764 --> 00:00:17,058
Will you be my wife?

4
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Yes.
- A toast to love.

5
00:00:20,729 --> 00:00:21,896
This is wild.

6
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Finding love
exceeded all my expectations.

7
00:00:28,862 --> 00:00:32,699
This is what a great relationship should look like.

8
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I didn't think I would fall in love
so hard and fast.

9
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You are easy to love.

10
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I'm looking forward to a new adventure.

11
00:00:42,876 --> 00:00:45,502
I know that true love exists.

12
00:00:45,503 --> 00:00:47,379
I don't think you're getting married.

13
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You need a person
that will show you something new.

14
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I want to come with you.
- Stop it.

15
00:00:52,135 --> 00:00:54,095
You might be dangerous to me.

16
00:00:55,055 --> 00:00:56,263
Yes.

17
00:00:56,264 --> 00:00:57,765
Mom was a bitch!

18
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Oh my god.

19
00:00:58,725 --> 00:01:01,894
I have to trust my feelings.
- I hate you.

20
00:01:01,895 --> 00:01:05,397
I thought things were better.
- Excited?

21
00:01:05,398 --> 00:01:09,693
I fully invested in the relationship.
- I've been waiting for this day all my life.

22
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It makes me nervous.
- Not a joker.

23
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This is the most important moment of my life.

24
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IS LOVE BLIND?

25
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{\an8}WOMEN'S RESIDENCES

26
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{\an8}Kappas only.
- Hey, ladies.

27
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{\an8}O-H!

28
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{\an8}I-O!

29
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{\an8}MEN'S RESIDENCES

30
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I do that every season. Now it worked.

31
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Sit down.

32
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Ohio is represented.

33
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He is a proud Ohioan.

34
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Hi everyone.
- Hello.

35
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Hi.

36
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{\an8}I'm Vanessa Lachey.
- I'm Nick Lachey.

37
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{\an8}Welcome to the program.

38
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I want to know why you came along.

39
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I just want to find my best friend.

40
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Beautifully said.

41
00:02:06,543 --> 00:02:09,711
{\an8}Many criticize me
based on my appearance.

42
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{\an8}I'm fine as a bet
but not to present to mother.

43
00:02:13,133 --> 00:02:17,344
{\an8}As a doctor I get fame and mammon.
My wishes come true.

44
00:02:17,345 --> 00:02:21,849
If I don't have a person by my side,
who understands my innermost being is empty.

45
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This is how I take responsibility for my life.
- Oops.

46
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{\an8}I was adopted from China by a white family.

47
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Clear.

48
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My birthmark
was cut more than ten times.

49
00:02:33,987 --> 00:02:35,737
There was a risk of melanoma.

50
00:02:35,738 --> 00:02:40,033
I've been thinking
the physical side my whole life.

51
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Now I get to present for the first time
my character. I'm excited to join.

52
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I focused in my twenties
to grow into the woman of my dreams.

53
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{\an8}Personally,
professionally, spiritually.

54
00:02:53,298 --> 00:02:57,509
{\an8}Now in my thirties I need a man.
I need a husband.

55
00:02:57,510 --> 00:03:01,013
I always say, “Jesus died single.
I don't need to."

56
00:03:01,014 --> 00:03:04,184
That's why I'm here.

57
00:03:06,227 --> 00:03:10,522
Over the next ten days
you finally have a chance to fall in love -

58
00:03:10,523 --> 00:03:12,733
just by your gut.

59
00:03:12,734 --> 00:03:17,487
Appearance, ethnic background,
your roots or your income are a side issue.

60
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If you fall in love and find
your person for the rest of your life, you get engaged.

61
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After that you will finally see
getting engaged for the first time.

62
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Just four weeks later
there is a wedding.

63
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At the altar you do
the most important decision of your life.

64
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Do you say "I will" to a person,
who did you fall in love with blindly?

65
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Or are you saying goodbye to him for good?

66
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Is love really blind?

67
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An age-old question.

68
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I hope you prove
that this is so.

69
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Yes!

70
00:03:55,443 --> 00:03:58,988
The deals are now open.

71
00:04:03,451 --> 00:04:07,162
O-H-I-O!

72
00:04:07,163 --> 00:04:08,206
Let's go, boys.

73
00:04:09,207 --> 00:04:11,292
The first day of the rest of your life.

74
00:04:12,752 --> 00:04:14,753
Let's take care of it.
- Yes!

75
00:04:14,754 --> 00:04:17,256
Let's find love, boys!
- Yeah!

76
00:04:17,257 --> 00:04:18,632
The deals are open!

77
00:04:18,633 --> 00:04:19,592
Bye!

78
00:04:20,176 --> 00:04:22,344
Hi!
- Are you my wife?

79
00:04:22,345 --> 00:04:24,388
{\an8}Are you my husband?

80
00:04:24,389 --> 00:04:27,432
{\an8}First time I have 16 dates
on the same day.

81
00:04:27,433 --> 00:04:30,727
{\an8}You have the voice of a sex operator.

82
00:04:30,728 --> 00:04:32,021
Don't say that.

83
00:04:33,398 --> 00:04:35,399
What do you do in your spare time?

84
00:04:35,400 --> 00:04:40,028
{\an8}There is soccer on Saturday and Sunday.
- That's music to my ears.

85
00:04:40,029 --> 00:04:42,906
{\an8}Why this program?
- I want to find my wife.

86
00:04:42,907 --> 00:04:45,409
{\an8}I thrive in chaos.

87
00:04:45,410 --> 00:04:49,663
{\an8}I don't always want to meet women in a bar.
- Where do you meet them?

88
00:04:49,664 --> 00:04:51,665
At Target.

89
00:04:51,666 --> 00:04:56,878
{\an8}Six of my friends messaged me about this.
At first I couldn't relate.

90
00:04:56,879 --> 00:04:59,798
"Am I that badly single?"
- Yes!

91
00:04:59,799 --> 00:05:05,596
{\an8}The biggest misconception people have is,
that I'm a big fool.

92
00:05:06,639 --> 00:05:10,726
I like art and reading.
And I think I'm a good cook.

93
00:05:10,727 --> 00:05:11,893
Hello.
- Hello.

94
00:05:11,894 --> 00:05:14,063
You won't go hungry. look at me

95
00:05:14,814 --> 00:05:18,400
{\an8}I'm Jordan. what is your name
- I'm Amber.

96
00:05:18,401 --> 00:05:22,404
{\an8}I crave food. I like to cook.
- Yes! I love food too.

97
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I am happy to talk about food.
- What do you prefer to cook?

98
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Breakfast. I have a 7 year old daughter.
- Yeah.

99
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I make him waffles.
- Delicious.

100
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I always make Thanksgiving for my family.
- Great.

101
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I always make a Christmas meal for my family.
- All right.

102
00:05:35,918 --> 00:05:39,129
When I got Emma,
I worked as a nurse.

103
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One Christmas
I couldn't buy the girl presents.

104
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Oh that.

105
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I was stressed and cried.
I called myself.

106
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I have a picture of us
when we lie on the top landing of the stairs.

107
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The girl is so happy
because for children only love matters.

108
00:05:56,981 --> 00:05:59,191
I think the same applies to relationships.

109
00:05:59,192 --> 00:06:03,236
You can make a lot of money,
get a hot woman or man.

110
00:06:03,237 --> 00:06:07,282
But in the end,
if you don't lie together on the upper landing -

111
00:06:07,283 --> 00:06:11,078
laughing when you're being silly
it is equal to nothing.

112
00:06:11,079 --> 00:06:15,500
I hope to find that person here.
- That's what we came for.

113
00:06:16,793 --> 00:06:22,047
{\an8}I usually don't make the best first impression.
No one wants a country house.

114
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"I have a daughter,
so you want a family?"

115
00:06:26,594 --> 00:06:32,516
I want to show my inner self
because I'm funny and…

116
00:06:32,517 --> 00:06:34,560
I have settled in my fields.

117
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It would be wonderful to have someone as my friend
to my super comfortable bed.

118
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Cheers!

119
00:06:44,112 --> 00:06:46,655
Go find your wife.

120
00:06:46,656 --> 00:06:49,866
{\an8}I'm Victor. You can say Vic.
- I'm Christine.

121
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{\an8}We must be here for the same reasons.
- I hope so.

122
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{\an8}I have wanted to get married for a long time.
Sometimes I look in the wrong places.

123
00:06:57,875 --> 00:07:01,670
Let's talk. It's my strongest field.
I came to find my wife.

124
00:07:01,671 --> 00:07:04,172
Where are you from?
- From Brooklyn, New York.

125
00:07:04,173 --> 00:07:06,550
In Columbus, I became an Ohioan.

126
00:07:06,551 --> 00:07:08,760
Did you hear our previous O-H-I-O?

127
00:07:08,761 --> 00:07:10,220
You already know.

128
00:07:10,221 --> 00:07:11,430
what are you doing

129
00:07:11,431 --> 00:07:15,350
I teach at one of the universities in Columbus.
- Really?

130
00:07:15,351 --> 00:07:18,103
What?
- Especially social policy.

131
00:07:18,104 --> 00:07:20,897
We focus on data analytics.

132
00:07:20,898 --> 00:07:22,732
I usually focus on…
- Fun.

133
00:07:22,733 --> 00:07:24,443
It's fun.

134
00:07:24,444 --> 00:07:27,320
Right.
- I approach it with passion.

135
00:07:27,321 --> 00:07:30,407
Awesome.
- What drives and motivates you?

136
00:07:30,408 --> 00:07:33,034
I am a speech therapist.

137
00:07:33,035 --> 00:07:35,620
I just want to keep improving.

138
00:07:35,621 --> 00:07:37,205
Are you a Christian?
- Yes.

139
00:07:37,206 --> 00:07:40,292
Did you tell your parents about this?
- I told my mother.

140
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What did he say?
- He trusts my judgment.

141
00:07:43,004 --> 00:07:45,255
He is excited for me.
- Nice.

142
00:07:45,256 --> 00:07:48,091
How about you?
- My mother trusts my judgment.

143
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It would be best.
- Yep.

144
00:07:50,386 --> 00:07:54,097
{\an8}I want to marry,
because I want a genuine partnership.

145
00:07:54,098 --> 00:07:57,267
I want children
and watch the Super Bowl together.

146
00:07:57,268 --> 00:08:00,520
I want to cook
and make snacks for the kids.

147
00:08:00,521 --> 00:08:03,857
There are friends, family,
dudes, my girl friend.

148
00:08:03,858 --> 00:08:06,443
A Super Bowl home is my fairytale ending.

149
00:08:06,444 --> 00:08:08,528
Can we go on forever?
- Right.

150
00:08:08,529 --> 00:08:10,739
It's nice to talk with men.
- Yeah.

151
00:08:10,740 --> 00:08:12,949
When someone sees me or I see them,

152
00:08:12,950 --> 00:08:19,331
{\an8}assumptions are made automatically right away.
It has been studied. It is inevitable.

153
00:08:19,332 --> 00:08:24,336
I work as a woman in science.
In this test, I can't see the appearance.

154
00:08:24,337 --> 00:08:27,964
I get to know their hearts
and into his soul. That adds up.

155
00:08:27,965 --> 00:08:30,550
My name is Chris.
- I'm Jess.

156
00:08:30,551 --> 00:08:32,594
A man can be absolutely gorgeous.

157
00:08:32,595 --> 00:08:37,891
{\an8}If he mutters something stupid,
her magnificence trembles in my eyes.

158
00:08:37,892 --> 00:08:40,060
Do you have any pets?
- It is.

159
00:08:40,061 --> 00:08:42,270
I have a small stray cat.

160
00:08:42,271 --> 00:08:44,439
It chose you.
- I know.

161
00:08:44,440 --> 00:08:46,191
What is its name?
- Chalupa.

162
00:08:46,192 --> 00:08:51,029
Chalupa! I can't stand it.
I have two English Bulldogs.

163
00:08:51,030 --> 00:08:55,992
Only a mother can love that baby.
- Lovely. The uglier the better.

164
00:08:55,993 --> 00:08:59,955
What do you do for a living?
- I'm an infectious disease doctor.

165
00:08:59,956 --> 00:09:01,998
I work in a hospital.
- All right.

166
00:09:01,999 --> 00:09:07,128
During Covid I saw in the intensive care unit
people dying every day.

167
00:09:07,129 --> 00:09:10,298
Damn it. So you were on the front line.
- Yeah.

168
00:09:10,299 --> 00:09:15,679
You worked at the hospital during that time,
when outsiders messed up -

169
00:09:15,680 --> 00:09:19,057
and you saw the people there,
it sure was tough.

170
00:09:19,058 --> 00:09:20,308
It was difficult.

171
00:09:20,309 --> 00:09:23,603
I was in Kuwait for a year
and nine months in the desert.

172
00:09:23,604 --> 00:09:25,438
I was in the Black Hawk unit.

173
00:09:25,439 --> 00:09:32,529
With age, you want to be better
and live in a better society.

174
00:09:32,530 --> 00:09:33,780
Absolutely.

175
00:09:33,781 --> 00:09:35,700
You live like that, which is awesome.

176
00:09:36,284 --> 00:09:38,868
I'm actually divorced.
- All right.

177
00:09:38,869 --> 00:09:41,746
I only mention it because

178
00:09:41,747 --> 00:09:45,166
that at that time
I watched people die.

179
00:09:45,167 --> 00:09:46,918
I came home and collapsed.

180
00:09:46,919 --> 00:09:51,298
My partner was supposed to be my refuge.

181
00:09:51,299 --> 00:09:54,218
Suddenly he didn't know how to support me.

182
00:09:55,428 --> 00:09:59,139
And my ex-husband is a really good person.

183
00:09:59,140 --> 00:10:05,562
But our concept of marriage,
about the role of the spouse, were extreme.

184
00:10:05,563 --> 00:10:08,691
It showed me a lot about myself.

185
00:10:09,483 --> 00:10:16,406
I have a full, active,
a fun, loving, awesome life.

186
00:10:16,407 --> 00:10:19,618
It would be nice to share it with someone.

187
00:10:19,619 --> 00:10:23,831
I want to share it with my best friend.
- That's awesome, Chris.

188
00:10:25,124 --> 00:10:28,335
{\an8}In modern dating
only the heat matters.

189
00:10:28,336 --> 00:10:30,962
We compare height, weight and muscles.

190
00:10:30,963 --> 00:10:32,505
what is your name
- Chris.

191
00:10:32,506 --> 00:10:34,090
{\an8}Chris, I'm Brianna.

192
00:10:34,091 --> 00:10:36,051
What should a man look like?

193
00:10:36,052 --> 00:10:40,305
I don't exaggerate my height,
because the truth dawns on the first date.

194
00:10:40,306 --> 00:10:42,307
I'm Breezy to my friends.
- All right.

195
00:10:42,308 --> 00:10:45,810
Sounds good, Breezy.
- How do you relax?

196
00:10:45,811 --> 00:10:49,064
Jujutsu usually helps
to balance myself.

197
00:10:49,065 --> 00:10:51,858
I've done Ironmans.
I like triathlons.

198
00:10:51,859 --> 00:10:53,860
Wow.
- I like to be active.

199
00:10:53,861 --> 00:10:57,155
I like to do something tough,
which others avoid.

200
00:10:57,156 --> 00:10:59,574
"I don't want to!" I will do it with pleasure.

201
00:10:59,575 --> 00:11:03,370
The guy is crazy.
- In the mornings, I take an ice bath at home.

202
00:11:03,371 --> 00:11:06,456
The water is one degree.
It's the biggest challenge of my day.

203
00:11:06,457 --> 00:11:08,875
At the end of the day, I don't care about anything anymore.

204
00:11:08,876 --> 00:11:10,669
That's damn charming.

205
00:11:10,670 --> 00:11:14,297
You thirst for challenges and challenge yourself.
- Damn right.

206
00:11:14,298 --> 00:11:15,965
I'll make you laugh too.

207
00:11:15,966 --> 00:11:18,510
If you don't want to, I will motivate you.
- Yes!

208
00:11:18,511 --> 00:11:20,679
I'll do my best.
- That's what we need.

209
00:11:20,680 --> 00:11:22,347
I respect that a lot.

210
00:11:22,348 --> 00:11:25,684
I competed in cheerleading
and I played softball.

211
00:11:25,685 --> 00:11:27,686
What position did you play?

212
00:11:27,687 --> 00:11:29,562
I was a pitcher.

213
00:11:29,563 --> 00:11:32,065
Oops. Can you get me off the field?

214
00:11:32,066 --> 00:11:34,485
Indeed. I say that with certainty.

215
00:11:35,986 --> 00:11:37,195
No doubt about it.

216
00:11:37,196 --> 00:11:40,156
I'm hot.
We are a competitive group of friends.

217
00:11:40,157 --> 00:11:42,951
Is this so?
- You'd probably fit in.

218
00:11:42,952 --> 00:11:44,953
Yeah. I agree.

219
00:11:44,954 --> 00:11:47,622
Why did you come?
- How long do we have?

220
00:11:47,623 --> 00:11:50,167
{\an8}Shall we make this a therapy session?

221
00:11:57,425 --> 00:12:01,052
Love is deeper than physical attraction.

222
00:12:01,053 --> 00:12:04,764
I've felt it. I know that.
We joke with my friends,

223
00:12:04,765 --> 00:12:07,183
that we met average rums.

224
00:12:07,184 --> 00:12:11,604
It's cruel, but why do we give
average rumours, break our hearts?

225
00:12:11,605 --> 00:12:13,648
what is your name
- I'm Brianna.

226
00:12:13,649 --> 00:12:14,733
Brianna?

227
00:12:14,734 --> 00:12:17,152
Yes, but I'm called Breezy.

228
00:12:17,153 --> 00:12:20,530
{\an8}Where does the name come from?
- I've been Breezy since I was little.

229
00:12:20,531 --> 00:12:23,241
Breezy is an outrageously cool nickname.

230
00:12:23,242 --> 00:12:25,744
Yes. who are you
- I'm Connor.

231
00:12:25,745 --> 00:12:27,912
Connor? Aren't there cool nicknames?

232
00:12:27,913 --> 00:12:29,330
My last name is Spies.

233
00:12:29,331 --> 00:12:31,916
I am often Spies to my friends.
- Awesome.

234
00:12:31,917 --> 00:12:34,377
Breezy and Spies. Sounds cool.

235
00:12:34,378 --> 00:12:37,589
Breeze and Spies.
- Tell me something about yourself.

236
00:12:37,590 --> 00:12:39,507
I went to school in Michigan.

237
00:12:39,508 --> 00:12:42,343
So are you Wolverine?
- I am.

238
00:12:42,344 --> 00:12:44,555
That's the hottest news of the day.

239
00:12:45,264 --> 00:12:49,476
I'm looking for someone who slow dances,
but when "Mr. Brightside" comes…

240
00:12:49,477 --> 00:12:53,188
Oh good time.
You said that song, I'm just…

241
00:12:53,189 --> 00:12:57,442
I studied in Michigan.
I famously sang it in the stadium.

242
00:12:57,443 --> 00:13:00,236
It's my all time favorite.
- Crazy.

243
00:13:00,237 --> 00:13:03,531
I put three stars next to your name.

244
00:13:03,532 --> 00:13:07,452
Did you graduate from Michigan?
- No, but I hate Ohio University.

245
00:13:07,453 --> 00:13:09,746
I studied at OU. I'm from Cleveland.

246
00:13:09,747 --> 00:13:12,832
My father grew up in Minneapolis.
- I lived there.

247
00:13:12,833 --> 00:13:16,419
I added two more stars.
- I'm super active.

248
00:13:16,420 --> 00:13:18,546
I played in a broomball league.

249
00:13:18,547 --> 00:13:20,048
You don't!
- Yeah.

250
00:13:20,049 --> 00:13:21,508
It's a fun sport.

251
00:13:21,509 --> 00:13:25,637
I'm going skiing.
- Oh my god. Skiing is great.

252
00:13:25,638 --> 00:13:28,640
There are stars.
We both like skiing.

253
00:13:28,641 --> 00:13:32,435
You now have the most stars. Clear.
- Oh, Connor.

254
00:13:32,436 --> 00:13:34,562
Why did I tell you?
- Nice for us.

255
00:13:34,563 --> 00:13:36,147
Let's get married.

256
00:13:36,148 --> 00:13:37,190
Connor?

257
00:13:37,191 --> 00:13:41,402
A couple of weeks after getting married
we are going on a skiing honeymoon.

258
00:13:41,403 --> 00:13:43,446
Ski trip.
- I'm serious.

259
00:13:43,447 --> 00:13:46,574
That sounds awesome
from seven weeks.

260
00:13:46,575 --> 00:13:49,494
Can you imagine?
- I'll say it straight...

261
00:13:49,495 --> 00:13:52,580
You already live it to the fullest.
The universe hears.

262
00:13:52,581 --> 00:13:53,873
I can imagine that.

263
00:13:53,874 --> 00:13:58,628
Great to hear.
- Stupid. I put a lot of stars on you.

264
00:13:58,629 --> 00:14:01,423
{\an8}I am looking for my credit partner.
I want someone by my side.

265
00:14:03,843 --> 00:14:08,221
Maybe we'll sing "Mr. Brightside" at karaoke
with the encouragement of our friends.

266
00:14:08,222 --> 00:14:12,016
On Sunday we lounge on the couch
without saying a word.

267
00:14:12,017 --> 00:14:15,395
We hold hands,
we order food and stare at Netflix.

268
00:14:15,396 --> 00:14:17,897
Mom knows what she wants. Jukoliste.

269
00:14:17,898 --> 00:14:20,568
That's what I'm looking for.
- Let's do this.

270
00:14:24,029 --> 00:14:25,280
Hello?
- Hello.

271
00:14:25,281 --> 00:14:27,031
Who are you?
- I'm Connor.

272
00:14:27,032 --> 00:14:28,366
Connor, I'm Emma.

273
00:14:28,367 --> 00:14:29,576
Emma?
- Emma.

274
00:14:29,577 --> 00:14:32,120
{\an8}That's a nice name.
- Did I win?

275
00:14:32,121 --> 00:14:35,790
{\an8}I won't admit it, but I already put a star
next to your name.

276
00:14:35,791 --> 00:14:37,458
Nice.
- I didn't say that.

277
00:14:37,459 --> 00:14:39,210
I didn't hear it.
- Good.

278
00:14:39,211 --> 00:14:44,258
My mother says, "I love you,
but you would be quiet sometimes."

279
00:14:45,092 --> 00:14:48,177
It honestly isn't
bad advice.

280
00:14:48,178 --> 00:14:50,680
Keep going, Connor. Disappoint your mother.

281
00:14:50,681 --> 00:14:53,766
I've been doing it for 31 years.
What do you do for a living?

282
00:14:53,767 --> 00:14:57,186
I'm in retail.
I work in a fashion company.

283
00:14:57,187 --> 00:14:59,148
What about you?
- I sell waste containers.

284
00:15:01,317 --> 00:15:03,026
For real?
- I swear it.

285
00:15:03,027 --> 00:15:04,402
You don't.
- Believe it.

286
00:15:04,403 --> 00:15:08,948
What kind of waste containers?
- Such big ones for companies.

287
00:15:08,949 --> 00:15:13,661
We would really live in the middle of garbage
without waste containers.

288
00:15:13,662 --> 00:15:18,374
Thanks to you, the environment is clean.
- Are you flattering me because you like me?

289
00:15:18,375 --> 00:15:20,586
I put your profession next to the star.

290
00:15:22,004 --> 00:15:23,713
You already have three stars.

291
00:15:23,714 --> 00:15:28,468
My sister thinks I'm joking.
"Well, I got Emma as my wife."

292
00:15:28,469 --> 00:15:30,345
I like garbage cans.
- Weld.

293
00:15:30,346 --> 00:15:32,722
What will you do for the rest of your life?

294
00:15:32,723 --> 00:15:35,224
{\an8}I used to be insecure about my scars.

295
00:15:35,225 --> 00:15:37,602
{\an8}On a date, it was the elephant in the living room.

296
00:15:37,603 --> 00:15:41,981
People stared and didn't ask,
which was uncomfortable.

297
00:15:41,982 --> 00:15:45,903
Here the physical appearance is erased.

298
00:15:46,487 --> 00:15:48,154
Hello?
- Hello.

299
00:15:48,155 --> 00:15:51,157
How is it going?
- Really great.

300
00:15:51,158 --> 00:15:53,868
There is something wonderful and exciting about that.

301
00:15:53,869 --> 00:15:55,995
{\an8}Who are you?
- I'm Mike. What about you?

302
00:15:55,996 --> 00:15:58,039
Mike, I'm Emma.
- Nice to meet you.

303
00:15:58,040 --> 00:15:59,582
Same words.

304
00:15:59,583 --> 00:16:02,251
Tell us about your dating experiences.

305
00:16:02,252 --> 00:16:06,714
I've been single for about a year.
And I want to get married.

306
00:16:06,715 --> 00:16:11,135
I like that commitment,
the journey of a lifetime.

307
00:16:11,136 --> 00:16:13,096
We celebrate our love.

308
00:16:13,097 --> 00:16:15,640
Absolutely. I want children.
- Yeah.

309
00:16:15,641 --> 00:16:19,185
When we've done enough
together as a married couple,

310
00:16:19,186 --> 00:16:21,562
we swear our love to the baby.

311
00:16:21,563 --> 00:16:27,151
I want to find the right partner.
But kids change the whole dynamic.

312
00:16:27,152 --> 00:16:29,821
Yeah. I know I want children.
- Yes.

313
00:16:29,822 --> 00:16:33,408
They don't necessarily have to come right away.

314
00:16:33,409 --> 00:16:37,328
I'm not absolutely sure about the kids.

315
00:16:37,329 --> 00:16:39,205
Clear.
- I still won't say no.

316
00:16:39,206 --> 00:16:44,461
I know many have severe baby fever.
I just don't know yet.

317
00:16:45,504 --> 00:16:48,465
I appreciate you being honest. Thanks.

318
00:16:49,049 --> 00:16:52,176
I am adopted.
I don't know my biological relatives.

319
00:16:52,177 --> 00:16:56,180
I don't know if I will inherit it
medical problems.

320
00:16:56,181 --> 00:16:58,141
{\an8}That's what I fear about having a child.

321
00:16:58,142 --> 00:17:02,855
I was raised by a white family.
They are the best example of love…

322
00:17:03,856 --> 00:17:08,443
But right now
I'm not ready to reveal it.

323
00:17:08,444 --> 00:17:15,283
I don't think you can understand it,
before you get to know me.

324
00:17:15,284 --> 00:17:18,662
Sometimes you don't even understand it yourself.

325
00:17:22,374 --> 00:17:24,792
{\an8}Who is there?
- I'm Steven.

326
00:17:24,793 --> 00:17:26,878
{\an8}Steven.
- Who's there?

327
00:17:26,879 --> 00:17:28,629
Emma.
- Emma.

328
00:17:28,630 --> 00:17:33,801
I'll tell you straight away that I'm not going to dive in right away
to the deep end and hard questions.

329
00:17:33,802 --> 00:17:36,888
With a smart person
a reciprocal flap is created.

330
00:17:36,889 --> 00:17:38,848
Stay on your toes.
- Be quick.

331
00:17:38,849 --> 00:17:40,016
It is absolute.

332
00:17:40,017 --> 00:17:43,394
How do you have fun?
- I like spending time with my dog.

333
00:17:43,395 --> 00:17:50,151
It's 12 years old. We go to breweries.
I look forward to it seeing my fiance.

334
00:17:50,152 --> 00:17:56,574
I found my dog ​​on a Facebook adoption page.
It became my best friend.

335
00:17:56,575 --> 00:18:00,621
If we move to humans,
could you ever adopt a child?

336
00:18:03,457 --> 00:18:09,003
Yeah, I'm…

337
00:18:09,004 --> 00:18:13,883
If we think about children,
now i want to find the right partner for that.

338
00:18:13,884 --> 00:18:15,802
But…
- Perfect answer.

339
00:18:15,803 --> 00:18:19,347
Adoption is definitely an option.

340
00:18:19,348 --> 00:18:23,643
So many children deserve
and needs love, and…

341
00:18:23,644 --> 00:18:28,439
Many men here… Maybe I'm wrong.
They immediately ask about the mother of their children.

342
00:18:28,440 --> 00:18:29,607
So.

343
00:18:29,608 --> 00:18:33,069
I think I'll bet after this
to male friend activities.

344
00:18:33,070 --> 00:18:37,698
Not many men have the same
father or grandfather like mine.

345
00:18:37,699 --> 00:18:38,699
So.

346
00:18:38,700 --> 00:18:41,285
They miss out on a lot.

347
00:18:41,286 --> 00:18:45,248
At my grandparents
is the best love story in the world.

348
00:18:45,249 --> 00:18:48,501
Oh my gosh.
Can you tell me that or shall we come back to it?

349
00:18:48,502 --> 00:18:51,671
I have time for you.
My grandfather was in WWII.

350
00:18:51,672 --> 00:18:54,799
He was in the French army
towards the end of the war.

351
00:18:54,800 --> 00:18:58,344
He always went to the teller.
They spoke a different language.

352
00:18:58,345 --> 00:18:59,929
The woman became my grandmother.

353
00:18:59,930 --> 00:19:03,224
My grandfather once went to see him.
and pointed to the clock.

354
00:19:03,225 --> 00:19:06,394
"Meet me here at this time."
- And no.

355
00:19:06,395 --> 00:19:08,146
It was the healthiest marriage.

356
00:19:08,147 --> 00:19:11,524
Oh that.
I love love stories and love.

357
00:19:11,525 --> 00:19:14,652
You don't hear that anymore.
- Not like that.

358
00:19:14,653 --> 00:19:16,779
Now we just nod in agreement.

359
00:19:16,780 --> 00:19:19,031
Pointing to a non-existent clock?

360
00:19:19,032 --> 00:19:21,576
Pointing at the screen?
- I'm dancing here alone.

361
00:19:21,577 --> 00:19:24,495
Dancing is wonderful. I danced for 12 years.
- Oops.

362
00:19:24,496 --> 00:19:28,666
I taught at the College for pensioners
hip hop and fitness dance.

363
00:19:28,667 --> 00:19:30,960
Why is that the cutest thing in the world?

364
00:19:30,961 --> 00:19:34,630
My parents came home from a date
and danced in the kitchen.

365
00:19:34,631 --> 00:19:38,009
Same with us. Some hear about love,
i saw it

366
00:19:38,010 --> 00:19:39,927
That's wonderful.

367
00:19:39,928 --> 00:19:43,472
{\an8}The first fitting day.
Some made me laugh -

368
00:19:43,473 --> 00:19:47,018
{\an8}and my heart to flutter.
I don't want to spell this.

369
00:19:47,019 --> 00:19:50,814
But it is very likely
that my future husband is here.

370
00:19:54,109 --> 00:19:55,360
{\an8}He said yes!

371
00:19:57,362 --> 00:19:59,405
They have crazy energy.

372
00:19:59,406 --> 00:20:01,824
This is harder than snogging at a bar.

373
00:20:01,825 --> 00:20:04,535
Maybe we'll all get engaged.
- I like Kevan.

374
00:20:04,536 --> 00:20:06,412
{\an8}Do a few stand out?
- Yeah.

375
00:20:06,413 --> 00:20:08,789
I have eight boyfriends.

376
00:20:08,790 --> 00:20:11,334
Everyone said they wanted a family.

377
00:20:11,335 --> 00:20:15,297
{\an8}“I have a daughter.
Is the family still interested?"

378
00:20:15,923 --> 00:20:18,758
{\an8}I liked Amber with the kid.

379
00:20:18,759 --> 00:20:22,094
{\an8}I'm already thinking of places,
where we go on a skiing trip.

380
00:20:22,095 --> 00:20:23,889
"We're both delusional."

381
00:20:24,932 --> 00:20:28,101
Cheers to finding love, boys.
- Let's go.

382
00:20:38,403 --> 00:20:39,862
{\an8}Come on guys.

383
00:20:39,863 --> 00:20:43,157
what are you doing Look the part.
- Start taking it already.

384
00:20:43,158 --> 00:20:45,743
The eggs are ready. I finish the bacon.

385
00:20:45,744 --> 00:20:48,705
I appreciate this.
- Of course. I enjoyed this.

386
00:20:51,625 --> 00:20:53,876
{\an8}Did you take the naps?
- Yeah.

387
00:20:53,877 --> 00:20:56,462
{\an8}I heard your giggle.
- Maybe I giggled in my sleep.

388
00:20:56,463 --> 00:20:59,298
{\an8}Maybe you dreamed about us.
- Maybe.

389
00:20:59,299 --> 00:21:02,134
{\an8}He doesn't even know our names.
- I know.

390
00:21:02,135 --> 00:21:04,637
I know everyone's name now.
- Listen.

391
00:21:04,638 --> 00:21:07,223
Priyanka, Amanda, Keya.

392
00:21:07,224 --> 00:21:08,767
Who is Amanda?

393
00:21:09,935 --> 00:21:11,186
Aren't you Amanda?

394
00:21:11,937 --> 00:21:13,105
Amber!

395
00:21:14,439 --> 00:21:15,440
You are a fuckboy.

396
00:21:17,484 --> 00:21:20,194
{\an8}Amber!

397
00:21:20,195 --> 00:21:25,866
{\an8}Good time. This experiment
is frankly quite absurd.

398
00:21:25,867 --> 00:21:28,703
This is like being in a dark tunnel.

399
00:21:28,704 --> 00:21:32,248
But I can see the other side
sunshine so…

400
00:21:32,249 --> 00:21:36,043
I came to find my light.
My light, my love, my husband.

401
00:21:36,044 --> 00:21:39,880
{\an8}What would you like to know more about me?

402
00:21:39,881 --> 00:21:41,424
What is your favorite movie?

403
00:21:41,425 --> 00:21:44,720
<i>Interstellar</i> is in the lead.
- All right.

404
00:21:45,304 --> 00:21:48,389
<i>In love and basketball</i> is great.

405
00:21:48,390 --> 00:21:50,975
No offense, but it's a lousy movie.

406
00:21:50,976 --> 00:21:52,226
What?

407
00:21:52,227 --> 00:21:55,855
It's not good.
I get that it's nostalgic.

408
00:21:55,856 --> 00:21:57,481
Great actors.
- Yeah.

409
00:21:57,482 --> 00:22:00,609
But in terms of the story…

410
00:22:00,610 --> 00:22:04,238
Playing for love
and that jerk is ridiculous.

411
00:22:04,239 --> 00:22:06,532
That point is…
- Not interested.

412
00:22:06,533 --> 00:22:10,536
That point is corny.
I agree with you on the ending.

413
00:22:10,537 --> 00:22:12,663
My favorite movie is <i>Love Jones</i>.

414
00:22:12,664 --> 00:22:13,998
Really?
- Yeah.

415
00:22:13,999 --> 00:22:17,418
Their love story
was so unusual.

416
00:22:17,419 --> 00:22:22,798
I liked that they took their time
to work on himself -

417
00:22:22,799 --> 00:22:27,595
and then got back together.
It was somehow so romantic.

418
00:22:27,596 --> 00:22:30,222
That's the best.
- Yes.

419
00:22:30,223 --> 00:22:36,729
I have been single for about 2.5 years.
My ex just wasn't right for me.

420
00:22:36,730 --> 00:22:39,440
That's understandable.
- That's right.

421
00:22:39,441 --> 00:22:42,943
But he taught a lot.
I learned to be more patient.

422
00:22:42,944 --> 00:22:46,697
I had tough conversations when it was difficult.
- Yes.

423
00:22:46,698 --> 00:22:50,785
I want to get married and have children.
You don't have to guess my feelings.

424
00:22:50,786 --> 00:22:53,245
I don't leave it to guesswork.

425
00:22:53,246 --> 00:22:56,082
So.
- I learned a very important lesson.

426
00:22:56,083 --> 00:22:59,210
It's a phenomenal lesson.
I feel like…

427
00:22:59,211 --> 00:23:01,088
Kudos to your ex.

428
00:23:01,588 --> 00:23:03,256
Oh yes.

429
00:23:06,134 --> 00:23:08,260
{\an8}Keya is down-to-earth and relaxed.

430
00:23:08,261 --> 00:23:11,848
He could maybe become my best friend.

431
00:23:13,433 --> 00:23:18,312
{\an8}But when I hear Tyler's voice,
I'm getting excited.

432
00:23:18,313 --> 00:23:20,689
"I've been waiting for this date."

433
00:23:20,690 --> 00:23:23,401
Goodbye.
- How are you feeling, Tyler?

434
00:23:23,402 --> 00:23:26,028
Good! It's really nice to talk to you.

435
00:23:26,029 --> 00:23:28,239
It's nice to talk to you too.

436
00:23:28,240 --> 00:23:30,366
I write a diary and reflect.

437
00:23:30,367 --> 00:23:33,911
I ask myself and my partner
on the other side -

438
00:23:33,912 --> 00:23:38,791
questions required for marriage.
I don't know what they are yet.

439
00:23:38,792 --> 00:23:41,544
But tonight will help with that.
- Exactly.

440
00:23:41,545 --> 00:23:44,714
Have you journaled here?
- I am.

441
00:23:45,841 --> 00:23:47,633
You write.
- Yeah.

442
00:23:47,634 --> 00:23:49,553
What are you writing about me?

443
00:23:51,763 --> 00:23:58,520
Ideally, I can lean on my husband
and think of solutions together.

444
00:23:59,229 --> 00:24:02,022
Same.
I want to bounce ideas around with someone else.

445
00:24:02,023 --> 00:24:03,732
Yeah.
- He's my best friend.

446
00:24:03,733 --> 00:24:06,569
My partner, my person.
- Sounds good.

447
00:24:06,570 --> 00:24:10,156
One question is…
I live in Columbus.

448
00:24:10,157 --> 00:24:11,699
You live in Cinci.
- Yeah.

449
00:24:11,700 --> 00:24:13,534
How would we solve it?

450
00:24:13,535 --> 00:24:17,913
This is a unique experiment.
Maybe I'll find my husband here.

451
00:24:17,914 --> 00:24:22,168
It would be wonderful to find someone willing to move.

452
00:24:22,169 --> 00:24:26,088
But if we are talking about my husband,
it takes priority.

453
00:24:26,089 --> 00:24:29,592
If I have to go to Columbus,
To Cleveland, Alaska…

454
00:24:29,593 --> 00:24:30,509
Yes.

455
00:24:30,510 --> 00:24:33,471
I'll do what I have to
to be with my partner.

456
00:24:33,472 --> 00:24:35,556
I believe in the power of marriage.

457
00:24:35,557 --> 00:24:37,683
Thanks for that.
- Yeah.

458
00:24:37,684 --> 00:24:39,393
But your ambition.

459
00:24:39,394 --> 00:24:42,730
At the end of the day, this is it
to serve you.

460
00:24:42,731 --> 00:24:48,736
In my work, a very small percentage
can reach the same level as me.

461
00:24:48,737 --> 00:24:52,740
I got in one
in a business environment to management level -

462
00:24:52,741 --> 00:24:55,868
before I turned thirty.
It was wild.

463
00:24:55,869 --> 00:24:58,662
Yeah.
- I still remained myself.

464
00:24:58,663 --> 00:25:03,792
I would say to a little girl like me,
that character is secondary.

465
00:25:03,793 --> 00:25:07,171
This has nothing to do with personality
or adaptability.

466
00:25:07,172 --> 00:25:11,050
"Be yourself."
I say the same to all girls.

467
00:25:11,051 --> 00:25:16,263
We all have stories,
where we feel we are lacking.

468
00:25:16,264 --> 00:25:19,642
My greatest achievement is

469
00:25:19,643 --> 00:25:24,438
that I got to my current position
staying true to myself.

470
00:25:24,439 --> 00:25:26,023
Yeah.
- That's great.

471
00:25:26,024 --> 00:25:30,694
It may be unwise to leave
my current professional environment.

472
00:25:30,695 --> 00:25:34,615
And I wouldn't want to do that
because I thrive there.

473
00:25:34,616 --> 00:25:39,787
But love is so important.
That's probably the priority in my life now.

474
00:25:39,788 --> 00:25:43,415
It goes beyond my professional career.
It's my and my husband's decision.

475
00:25:43,416 --> 00:25:47,379
If we choose to do so,
it is our joint decision.

476
00:25:51,007 --> 00:25:56,095
Based on our discussions
you have that something.

477
00:25:56,096 --> 00:25:58,974
Yeah. That's nice to hear.

478
00:26:02,102 --> 00:26:03,727
We do this for real.

479
00:26:03,728 --> 00:26:05,813
That's true.
- Yeah.

480
00:26:05,814 --> 00:26:11,193
Some of us get engaged.

481
00:26:11,194 --> 00:26:13,404
Some get married.
- Yes.

482
00:26:13,405 --> 00:26:16,490
It can also apply to me… So what?

483
00:26:16,491 --> 00:26:19,743
You can. That's why I'm here.

484
00:26:19,744 --> 00:26:22,330
I appreciate you immensely.

485
00:26:25,333 --> 00:26:26,418
Yeah.

486
00:26:31,923 --> 00:26:33,841
{\an8}Who is there?
- Ashley.

487
00:26:33,842 --> 00:26:35,969
{\an8}What's up? I'm Alex.
- Hello, Alex.

488
00:26:36,553 --> 00:26:40,556
{\an8}I don't approach women
without the initial physical attraction.

489
00:26:40,557 --> 00:26:42,349
I admit my mistake now.

490
00:26:42,350 --> 00:26:47,521
Maybe I didn't give women a chance,
that would suit me.

491
00:26:47,522 --> 00:26:50,858
I am excited about the potential of the experiment.

492
00:26:50,859 --> 00:26:55,237
I want to be so understood
that we are on the same page about everything.

493
00:26:55,238 --> 00:26:59,284
We finish each other's sentences.
We know each other inside out.

494
00:26:59,868 --> 00:27:01,660
This wall hypnotizes me.

495
00:27:01,661 --> 00:27:05,581
I focus on it and think about how you look.

496
00:27:05,582 --> 00:27:08,917
I'm trying to get a face
your words and your voice.

497
00:27:08,918 --> 00:27:13,213
"What do you look like?"
I stare at the wall and feel dizzy.

498
00:27:13,214 --> 00:27:15,507
Fuck me already.
- Apparently.

499
00:27:15,508 --> 00:27:20,512
I can say that I think the same about you.
Your voice appeals to me. I like it.

500
00:27:20,513 --> 00:27:23,766
I'm curious about your appearance.
- I don't give any hints.

501
00:27:23,767 --> 00:27:26,268
I'll try to figure it out myself.

502
00:27:26,269 --> 00:27:29,063
No hints about appearance.
- Sorry. I didn't think.

503
00:27:29,064 --> 00:27:31,357
Do you like to kiss?

504
00:27:31,358 --> 00:27:33,609
I haven't received bad feedback.

505
00:27:33,610 --> 00:27:36,612
I guess I'm pretty good.
But then you say.

506
00:27:36,613 --> 00:27:39,323
I'm really critical.
- Are you?

507
00:27:39,324 --> 00:27:41,825
I'm a great kisser.
- Are you?

508
00:27:41,826 --> 00:27:43,202
I'm insane.

509
00:27:43,203 --> 00:27:45,329
That's a risk going forward.
- Yes.

510
00:27:45,330 --> 00:27:50,126
If we sleep next to each other,
do you own all the blankets?

511
00:27:51,753 --> 00:27:56,757
Probably. That's my strategy.
My blankets so you have to come close.

512
00:27:56,758 --> 00:27:58,008
That's good.

513
00:27:58,009 --> 00:28:00,386
I'm mean.
- Big or small spoon?

514
00:28:00,387 --> 00:28:01,804
I like both.

515
00:28:01,805 --> 00:28:06,934
I love being held,
but sometimes I can spoon you too.

516
00:28:06,935 --> 00:28:09,228
That's wonderful.
- Men are funny.

517
00:28:09,229 --> 00:28:12,898
You secretly want to be a little spoon.
- Probably.

518
00:28:12,899 --> 00:28:16,443
That's for sure.
- Annoying you know. You are right.

519
00:28:16,444 --> 00:28:20,239
Yes.
- Do you like massage? Are you a fan?

520
00:28:20,240 --> 00:28:22,950
Well, yeah.
- What question is that? Of course.

521
00:28:22,951 --> 00:28:25,369
It is a way for a man to express his desire.

522
00:28:25,370 --> 00:28:29,540
"I'll rub your back for ten seconds."

523
00:28:29,541 --> 00:28:32,793
We know your secret.
- I have to come up with new ones.

524
00:28:32,794 --> 00:28:34,002
I know that.

525
00:28:34,003 --> 00:28:37,381
Sex is important to me.
I like the physical connection.

526
00:28:37,382 --> 00:28:40,926
It's like celebrating it,
that we are close.

527
00:28:40,927 --> 00:28:44,805
At this point… Let me explain.
- Wait. "We celebrate here."

528
00:28:44,806 --> 00:28:49,519
I don't mean that. I get fired up about it too…

529
00:28:50,228 --> 00:28:53,272
I want feedback.
Tell me what feels good.

530
00:28:53,273 --> 00:28:55,441
Do you like to talk naughty?
- Oh my god.

531
00:28:55,442 --> 00:28:57,818
Yes. Absolutely.
- Take it easy.

532
00:28:57,819 --> 00:29:00,654
I'll try. I was freaking out.
- Calm down.

533
00:29:00,655 --> 00:29:03,198
So do I. Don't worry.
- Yeah.

534
00:29:03,199 --> 00:29:06,577
You are dangerous. We have a problem.
- Be good.

535
00:29:06,578 --> 00:29:08,537
Thanks. That…

536
00:29:08,538 --> 00:29:13,084
{\an8}My father thinks I choose wrong,
but I am ready to be a wife.

537
00:29:13,752 --> 00:29:16,003
Let's go back. Bye.
- Sounds good.

538
00:29:16,004 --> 00:29:18,130
I like talking to Alex.

539
00:29:18,131 --> 00:29:23,678
We have sexual chemistry.
I already want to test it.

540
00:29:24,429 --> 00:29:25,763
Sorry, Mom and Dad.

541
00:29:25,764 --> 00:29:28,432
{\an8}I'm really sweating.

542
00:29:28,433 --> 00:29:30,393
I'm going to freshen up my bottom.

543
00:29:34,022 --> 00:29:35,105
Must be open.

544
00:29:35,106 --> 00:29:39,985
That's what I told myself when I came here,
and that's what I strive for.

545
00:29:39,986 --> 00:29:42,446
Because on the streets, I…

546
00:29:42,447 --> 00:29:46,575
I'm not, or I wasn't open.

547
00:29:46,576 --> 00:29:48,702
That's why we came.
- It's simple.

548
00:29:48,703 --> 00:29:53,583
{\an8}It's been great with Emma.
We have darkness on every level.

549
00:29:54,167 --> 00:29:58,337
Some women want children right away, some don't.

550
00:29:58,338 --> 00:30:00,339
I definitely want children.

551
00:30:00,340 --> 00:30:02,842
I'll take the baseball team, for example. No.

552
00:30:04,052 --> 00:30:07,346
I'll say it straight now,
that I'm really confused.

553
00:30:07,347 --> 00:30:10,724
Yes, as it should be.
You meet many men.

554
00:30:10,725 --> 00:30:12,518
So.
- I understand.

555
00:30:12,519 --> 00:30:15,270
You surprised me a little.

556
00:30:15,271 --> 00:30:18,857
I liked your vibe on the first date,
but it wasn't…

557
00:30:18,858 --> 00:30:21,902
Help, that sounds terrible.

558
00:30:21,903 --> 00:30:24,613
Just say it.
- I thought I'd like to get to know you.

559
00:30:24,614 --> 00:30:27,241
But certainty didn't hit right away.

560
00:30:27,242 --> 00:30:29,535
So.
- You seemed nice.

561
00:30:29,536 --> 00:30:32,871
You were funny and made me relax.

562
00:30:32,872 --> 00:30:36,500
I think you are really observant.

563
00:30:36,501 --> 00:30:40,087
It will make you feel supported.

564
00:30:40,088 --> 00:30:42,047
I like it.

565
00:30:42,048 --> 00:30:44,717
That was nice to hear.
- It came from ChatGPT.

566
00:30:47,679 --> 00:30:50,097
Jeez.
- Glad you laugh at my jokes.

567
00:30:50,098 --> 00:30:52,725
You are funny. How so?
- I know. Thanks.

568
00:30:54,227 --> 00:31:00,357
You've been high on my list all along.
Since our first date, actually.

569
00:31:00,358 --> 00:31:03,527
I think you are absolutely amazing.

570
00:31:03,528 --> 00:31:07,865
I feel like I can be myself.
- Yes.

571
00:31:07,866 --> 00:31:09,867
And your voice is beautiful.

572
00:31:09,868 --> 00:31:11,369
Thanks.
- Yeah.

573
00:31:11,953 --> 00:31:15,163
What makes you suspicious
in having children?

574
00:31:15,164 --> 00:31:19,334
It's my inner battle,
because I have a crazy family.

575
00:31:19,335 --> 00:31:25,007
I really don't know
why don't I want it for myself sometimes.

576
00:31:25,008 --> 00:31:28,385
But that would be great
create a life and have children.

577
00:31:28,386 --> 00:31:31,598
I just don't want to commit to it now.
- Yes.

578
00:31:32,974 --> 00:31:36,018
I want to get married. I don't want kids right away.

579
00:31:36,019 --> 00:31:39,021
I want to enjoy marriage
with my wife.

580
00:31:39,022 --> 00:31:45,235
I want to explore each other.
I like to travel and achieve goals.

581
00:31:45,236 --> 00:31:47,195
Then when we are satisfied,

582
00:31:47,196 --> 00:31:50,157
we start a new journey
in our life together.

583
00:31:50,158 --> 00:31:54,328
We bring a child into the world,
because it is part of us.

584
00:31:54,329 --> 00:32:00,167
We leave a piece of ourselves on earth
in the person we created together.

585
00:32:00,168 --> 00:32:03,462
He is our child.
- That is beautifully expressed.

586
00:32:03,463 --> 00:32:07,007
I'm not trying to change your mind
or pressure you into anything.

587
00:32:07,008 --> 00:32:09,051
I promise it.
- Yeah, no.

588
00:32:09,052 --> 00:32:10,719
And I really appreciate…

589
00:32:10,720 --> 00:32:17,225
You gave me a new perspective
without minimizing my feelings.

590
00:32:17,226 --> 00:32:21,980
If I find the right person,
it may happen, but I guarantee nothing.

591
00:32:21,981 --> 00:32:27,236
If I'm in love with you
and you are my wife, I…

592
00:32:27,946 --> 00:32:32,658
I don't know. i feel like
that it would be a bad place.

593
00:32:32,659 --> 00:32:38,997
Now I have to choose my beloved wife
and between having a child.

594
00:32:38,998 --> 00:32:40,500
It's heartbreaking.

595
00:32:45,797 --> 00:32:48,423
Damn, that was embarrassing.

596
00:32:48,424 --> 00:32:50,550
And not.
- It was a joke.

597
00:32:50,551 --> 00:32:54,514
I want to see you tomorrow.
I don't know if you'll put me on your list.

598
00:32:55,807 --> 00:32:57,933
No, I…

599
00:32:57,934 --> 00:33:01,561
I will definitely fit you in.

600
00:33:01,562 --> 00:33:04,773
No need to tell.
If we meet tomorrow, great.

601
00:33:04,774 --> 00:33:06,734
If we don't, I understand.

602
00:33:07,318 --> 00:33:10,070
No hard feelings.
- You know I'm kidding.

603
00:33:10,071 --> 00:33:12,198
You are close to the top.

604
00:33:12,782 --> 00:33:14,449
You don't have to tell.

605
00:33:14,450 --> 00:33:19,914
I just wanted to make sure you knew.
You are really at the top of my list.

606
00:33:21,582 --> 00:33:23,458
I will give confirmation.

607
00:33:23,459 --> 00:33:26,170
And it feels good. Thanks.

608
00:33:27,839 --> 00:33:30,800
Enjoy the rest of your evening.
- Same, dude.

609
00:33:31,384 --> 00:33:33,427
Glad you said "damn".
- Hello.

610
00:33:33,428 --> 00:33:34,429
Just said thanks.

611
00:33:35,430 --> 00:33:39,266
You are not in the friend zone. Don't worry.
- I know. Good night.

612
00:33:39,267 --> 00:33:40,851
Good night.

613
00:33:40,852 --> 00:33:42,144
I like Mike.

614
00:33:42,145 --> 00:33:44,104
Feelings develop between us.

615
00:33:44,105 --> 00:33:46,690
{\an8}But there is a lot to consider here.

616
00:33:46,691 --> 00:33:50,111
{\an8}This is a wild ride.

617
00:33:50,695 --> 00:33:53,488
I used to tell women,
what they want to hear.

618
00:33:53,489 --> 00:33:56,867
I don't want to do that to you
or to anyone here.

619
00:33:56,868 --> 00:33:59,119
But every time we come here…

620
00:33:59,120 --> 00:34:01,038
Yes.
- The rest doesn't matter.

621
00:34:01,039 --> 00:34:03,248
I don't even think about you talking to others.

622
00:34:03,249 --> 00:34:06,918
I know the situation.
But I trust what we have now.

623
00:34:06,919 --> 00:34:09,421
I trust where we are.

624
00:34:09,422 --> 00:34:12,632
You're starting to mean something to me.
- Yes.

625
00:34:12,633 --> 00:34:17,722
The conversation breaks down,
but it has felt really superficial.

626
00:34:19,140 --> 00:34:22,517
I can only see similarities
to my first relationship.

627
00:34:22,518 --> 00:34:23,602
So.

628
00:34:23,603 --> 00:34:25,437
It was easy and fun.

629
00:34:25,438 --> 00:34:28,940
We didn't bite anything,
until we were drunk.

630
00:34:28,941 --> 00:34:33,737
It felt mediocre.
I'm not looking for a mediocre relationship here.

631
00:34:33,738 --> 00:34:37,700
And it doesn't apply to the two of us,
but I'm afraid that…

632
00:34:38,201 --> 00:34:43,414
If neither of us dares to open up
and pat each other, it feels...

633
00:34:45,166 --> 00:34:49,337
It's a repeat of the past,
and i don't want it.

634
00:34:50,838 --> 00:34:52,548
And I don't want to either.

635
00:34:54,092 --> 00:34:56,593
Many of my relationships…

636
00:34:56,594 --> 00:34:57,761
Oh damn.

637
00:34:57,762 --> 00:35:00,098
Many times you get bored with it,

638
00:35:05,144 --> 00:35:07,979
that I don't feel like I'm enough.

639
00:35:07,980 --> 00:35:13,235
The people I try with
usually leave.

640
00:35:13,236 --> 00:35:16,113
Are you afraid of getting hurt again?

641
00:35:16,114 --> 00:35:17,364
Yeah.

642
00:35:17,365 --> 00:35:19,117
Well, I can tell…

643
00:35:20,284 --> 00:35:24,621
I feel it in many ways on different levels.
That's what happened.

644
00:35:24,622 --> 00:35:29,043
you love someone
and he can get away with it just like that.

645
00:35:32,213 --> 00:35:36,216
I want to tell you that I'm not going to run away.

646
00:35:36,217 --> 00:35:39,219
You always feel that I'm going all out.
- Yes.

647
00:35:39,220 --> 00:35:42,097
You don't have to think,
am i committed.

648
00:35:42,098 --> 00:35:45,016
I'm not going anywhere.
- Yeah.

649
00:35:45,017 --> 00:35:46,893
I will never abandon you.

650
00:35:46,894 --> 00:35:51,481
You've given me everything
what could I ask for so far.

651
00:35:51,482 --> 00:35:54,152
Be a little kinder to yourself.

652
00:35:55,319 --> 00:35:56,571
Thanks.

653
00:36:02,743 --> 00:36:08,039
{\an8}Me and Connor's journey
has been frivolous and easy.

654
00:36:08,040 --> 00:36:13,587
Today he was able to open up to me.

655
00:36:13,588 --> 00:36:17,175
It was a great twist.

656
00:36:17,758 --> 00:36:21,136
I have a relationship with Mike and Connor.

657
00:36:21,137 --> 00:36:23,597
How are you?
- Hello!

658
00:36:23,598 --> 00:36:26,975
And then there's Steven. He's a goofy boy.

659
00:36:26,976 --> 00:36:28,560
{\an8}What are you wearing?

660
00:36:28,561 --> 00:36:32,355
{\an8}I have brown leather pants,
white high heels -

661
00:36:32,356 --> 00:36:35,525
and lavender colored
off-the-shoulder blouse.

662
00:36:35,526 --> 00:36:41,072
I have a nice cream colored one,
rough collared shirt and red short…

663
00:36:41,073 --> 00:36:44,951
Or the shirt is shorter than usual.

664
00:36:44,952 --> 00:36:48,496
Which magazine would you be?

665
00:36:48,497 --> 00:36:49,998
<i>GQ.</i>

666
00:36:49,999 --> 00:36:51,625
That's good.
- Yeah.

667
00:36:51,626 --> 00:36:54,711
For <i>Men's Health</i>
have to throw the shirt away.

668
00:36:54,712 --> 00:36:55,629
So.

669
00:36:55,630 --> 00:36:58,424
I've always wanted to
As a Hanes trouser model.

670
00:36:59,008 --> 00:37:02,260
That's awesome.
- As long as I'm babbling.

671
00:37:02,261 --> 00:37:03,929
I know, you're stupid.

672
00:37:03,930 --> 00:37:06,640
I like our dates.
- Likewise.

673
00:37:06,641 --> 00:37:09,976
But only one is chosen here.
- That's it.

674
00:37:09,977 --> 00:37:11,853
I will not take more than one husband.

675
00:37:11,854 --> 00:37:14,981
If you were my husband,

676
00:37:14,982 --> 00:37:18,944
I thought a little
how in serious situations…

677
00:37:18,945 --> 00:37:22,572
Can I be kidding?
I was joking about the kalsar model.

678
00:37:22,573 --> 00:37:27,036
I know when it's okay to joke
and fool around. I'm really deep.

679
00:37:28,371 --> 00:37:32,082
Clear. I'm still trying to figure out…

680
00:37:32,083 --> 00:37:33,209
Where do I light up?

681
00:37:34,126 --> 00:37:35,335
So.

682
00:37:35,336 --> 00:37:38,421
I want you to be
vulnerable and open up.

683
00:37:38,422 --> 00:37:41,007
And I'm not asking you to cry.

684
00:37:41,008 --> 00:37:44,135
Want a sad Steve?
Am I a Sensitive Sensei?

685
00:37:44,136 --> 00:37:47,639
Hey, I'm leaving. That was horrible.

686
00:37:47,640 --> 00:37:50,392
I have a playlist called that on my phone.

687
00:37:50,393 --> 00:37:52,310
And not.
- It's a crying list.

688
00:37:52,311 --> 00:37:55,105
I can't stand it. I'm crazy. I hate that word.

689
00:37:55,106 --> 00:37:58,149
"Sensei"?
- Yeah. I don't know. It's weird.

690
00:37:58,150 --> 00:38:00,443
I don't want to throw this back.

691
00:38:00,444 --> 00:38:03,321
But can you visit?
difficult conversations -

692
00:38:03,322 --> 00:38:06,032
or face me without detour?

693
00:38:06,033 --> 00:38:09,661
Yes. It will be uncomfortable,
but i'm ready…

694
00:38:09,662 --> 00:38:14,582
Maybe you don't want kids, and that's okay.
But can you open up completely?

695
00:38:14,583 --> 00:38:18,628
Because I feel
that I can talk freely about myself.

696
00:38:18,629 --> 00:38:19,587
So.

697
00:38:19,588 --> 00:38:23,091
Could you reveal to me
your deepest secrets?

698
00:38:23,092 --> 00:38:24,426
I hope so.

699
00:38:24,427 --> 00:38:27,971
I want that eventually
the other knows me truly.

700
00:38:27,972 --> 00:38:31,599
I'm trying to figure something out
what could I tell or share.

701
00:38:31,600 --> 00:38:34,394
I'm not afraid to tell. We can dig deep.

702
00:38:34,395 --> 00:38:37,439
Yeah, Steven. Six days to decide.

703
00:38:37,440 --> 00:38:40,276
I have to pull myself together.
- Right.

704
00:38:41,319 --> 00:38:42,861
That would be fun.

705
00:38:42,862 --> 00:38:44,071
It would be so.

706
00:38:45,281 --> 00:38:50,076
{\an8}I have a strong connection
to all three men.

707
00:38:50,077 --> 00:38:54,123
I didn't believe in the program when I left
being in this position.

708
00:38:57,501 --> 00:38:59,669
{\an8}Geez, how cute.

709
00:38:59,670 --> 00:39:00,837
A small candle.

710
00:39:00,838 --> 00:39:03,632
These are like real dates.

711
00:39:04,216 --> 00:39:05,342
Yes.

712
00:39:05,343 --> 00:39:09,596
I get from you day by day
a more accurate overall picture.

713
00:39:09,597 --> 00:39:10,513
So?

714
00:39:10,514 --> 00:39:13,725
I want to see you and your face.
I want to touch you.

715
00:39:13,726 --> 00:39:16,144
I want to smell you the most.
- I understand.

716
00:39:16,145 --> 00:39:18,355
Guess what I'm waiting for in Mexico?

717
00:39:18,356 --> 00:39:20,774
What?
- Coffee tequila.

718
00:39:20,775 --> 00:39:23,193
I haven't tasted it.
- Oh, yukra.

719
00:39:23,194 --> 00:39:24,694
Tequila knows trouble.

720
00:39:24,695 --> 00:39:25,862
Do you smoke?

721
00:39:25,863 --> 00:39:27,739
I don't.

722
00:39:27,740 --> 00:39:29,491
What about you?
- I don't.

723
00:39:29,492 --> 00:39:31,034
Have you ever smoked?

724
00:39:31,035 --> 00:39:34,496
I am before.
Yeah, but I don't really smoke.

725
00:39:34,497 --> 00:39:38,124
Same.
- I smoked a little in high school.

726
00:39:38,125 --> 00:39:40,001
What about you?
- Yes.

727
00:39:40,002 --> 00:39:42,045
I tried in high school. I didn't like it.

728
00:39:42,046 --> 00:39:45,715
I tried it a couple of times in college.
I wasn't excited.

729
00:39:45,716 --> 00:39:48,593
I got the inscription when I was 18 years old.

730
00:39:48,594 --> 00:39:49,969
Really? Why?

731
00:39:49,970 --> 00:39:51,221
I had a cloud.

732
00:39:51,222 --> 00:39:54,849
I got a lawyer
and I got the sulfur erased. It was a mess.

733
00:39:54,850 --> 00:39:58,436
I also had an entry that was erased.

734
00:39:58,437 --> 00:40:00,146
For real?
- Yeah.

735
00:40:00,147 --> 00:40:03,108
Why?
- Possession of marijuana. So.

736
00:40:03,109 --> 00:40:04,777
You just have to.

737
00:40:07,488 --> 00:40:09,114
We are made for each other.

738
00:40:09,115 --> 00:40:11,908
Funny.
Any other run-ins with the law?

739
00:40:11,909 --> 00:40:13,827
Nothing crazy.
- All right.

740
00:40:13,828 --> 00:40:18,665
But at times in my youth
I felt drawn and participated -

741
00:40:18,666 --> 00:40:22,502
to foolishness in my community.

742
00:40:22,503 --> 00:40:26,423
How old did you start…
- I was about 14.

743
00:40:26,424 --> 00:40:27,382
All right.

744
00:40:27,383 --> 00:40:32,262
When I was maybe 18 and about to go to college,
things were already changing.

745
00:40:32,263 --> 00:40:35,807
But I felt guilty
that I continued the lifestyle…

746
00:40:35,808 --> 00:40:39,477
There is no need to normalize such a thing.

747
00:40:39,478 --> 00:40:43,523
I'm afraid I'll feel guilty
in the future.

748
00:40:43,524 --> 00:40:47,944
My mother is kinky. He lived in want
and he was not taken care of.

749
00:40:47,945 --> 00:40:52,323
He has experienced traumatic things
literally his whole life.

750
00:40:52,324 --> 00:40:55,577
When that time comes,
I'm afraid of feeling guilty

751
00:40:55,578 --> 00:40:58,913
that I didn't do enough
or could do enough.

752
00:40:58,914 --> 00:41:03,835
But he also caused trauma
to their children and grandchildren.

753
00:41:03,836 --> 00:41:07,422
We have a role in our own lives as well.

754
00:41:07,423 --> 00:41:08,798
So.

755
00:41:08,799 --> 00:41:12,219
And…
Unfortunately, my mother has not recovered.

756
00:41:13,179 --> 00:41:15,263
I've put him in therapy.

757
00:41:15,264 --> 00:41:17,390
He doesn't know how much longer he has to live.

758
00:41:17,391 --> 00:41:21,353
He doesn't want to dig up horrors
in the last years of his life.

759
00:41:22,062 --> 00:41:26,567
It would benefit everyone,
if he even tried.

760
00:41:27,568 --> 00:41:30,278
He just wants to love his mother.
- Yes.

761
00:41:30,279 --> 00:41:33,698
It's tough. Same with my dad.

762
00:41:33,699 --> 00:41:39,329
He wasn't the best dad when I was little.

763
00:41:39,330 --> 00:41:43,500
One of my strongest memories is,
when I was maybe ten.

764
00:41:43,501 --> 00:41:47,045
We were driving home from somewhere.
I remember the car throwing leaves.

765
00:41:47,046 --> 00:41:49,255
My father fell asleep at the wheel while driving.

766
00:41:49,256 --> 00:41:50,757
Clear.

767
00:41:50,758 --> 00:41:54,177
Someone reported a tossing car.

768
00:41:54,178 --> 00:41:56,387
"There's a child on board."
- Yeah.

769
00:41:56,388 --> 00:42:00,392
When we were stopped, my father gave
a pillbox to hide.

770
00:42:00,976 --> 00:42:03,270
Oh shit.
- It's sad because...

771
00:42:03,854 --> 00:42:06,648
My father must be inside
a decent person.

772
00:42:06,649 --> 00:42:10,985
He just has had
adversity in their lives.

773
00:42:10,986 --> 00:42:12,862
Right.
- I mourn for him.

774
00:42:12,863 --> 00:42:15,198
He missed my sister and me.

775
00:42:15,199 --> 00:42:16,824
You still turned out great.

776
00:42:16,825 --> 00:42:19,285
So. My sister is amazing too.

777
00:42:19,286 --> 00:42:21,038
Did you forgive your father?

778
00:42:21,956 --> 00:42:22,956
Yes?

779
00:42:22,957 --> 00:42:23,957
I don't know.

780
00:42:23,958 --> 00:42:27,085
I mean, probably not.
- Yes.

781
00:42:27,086 --> 00:42:30,046
And there's nothing to it.

782
00:42:30,047 --> 00:42:33,174
I didn't think I would be sensitized to anything.

783
00:42:33,175 --> 00:42:38,930
I thought I had a good grip,
and clearly isn't.

784
00:42:38,931 --> 00:42:40,807
You have a good grip.

785
00:42:40,808 --> 00:42:44,520
You became sensitive because you are human. Nothing else.

786
00:42:45,104 --> 00:42:46,312
So.
- Yeah.

787
00:42:46,313 --> 00:42:50,817
Our stepfather lived with us when I was young.

788
00:42:50,818 --> 00:42:54,321
He always had an alcohol problem.
I didn't like it.

789
00:42:54,905 --> 00:43:00,660
I remember one night.
The sounds of a fight could be heard from the other room.

790
00:43:00,661 --> 00:43:02,036
I went to the door…

791
00:43:02,037 --> 00:43:04,582
My mother opened the door…

792
00:43:05,165 --> 00:43:07,917
I remember a hand grabbing her hair.

793
00:43:07,918 --> 00:43:09,794
Then the door closed.

794
00:43:09,795 --> 00:43:12,463
It was the scariest thing I had ever seen.

795
00:43:12,464 --> 00:43:15,049
I was young. I didn't know what to do.

796
00:43:15,050 --> 00:43:16,634
I felt weak.

797
00:43:16,635 --> 00:43:21,055
I was the only boy in the house.
I was basically the man of the house.

798
00:43:21,056 --> 00:43:25,018
I ran to my sister's room. "Deidre!"

799
00:43:25,019 --> 00:43:27,562
Deidre isn't kidding. He's a little pit bull.

800
00:43:27,563 --> 00:43:30,481
He is undeniably protective of his loved ones.

801
00:43:30,482 --> 00:43:34,652
He pressed through the door and lay down,

802
00:43:34,653 --> 00:43:39,532
what would you do to a man
if he still touches our mother.

803
00:43:39,533 --> 00:43:40,743
Even so…

804
00:43:41,702 --> 00:43:45,038
I forgive that man.

805
00:43:45,039 --> 00:43:48,417
Do you think your mother has recovered from it?

806
00:43:49,001 --> 00:43:50,376
Yeah, it is.
- Is it?

807
00:43:50,377 --> 00:43:52,295
My mother is strong.

808
00:43:52,296 --> 00:43:55,007
I got the guy out
and I drove him to his travels.

809
00:43:56,175 --> 00:44:00,678
It's been a long time.
I know mom has gotten better.

810
00:44:00,679 --> 00:44:04,932
It sounds like you have in your life
good women, good people.

811
00:44:04,933 --> 00:44:07,310
Yes. You get along with them.

812
00:44:07,311 --> 00:44:08,686
So.

813
00:44:08,687 --> 00:44:13,692
I was thinking today.
I wrote, “I can't see him.

814
00:44:14,193 --> 00:44:17,362
But I see him
this invisible woman.

815
00:44:17,363 --> 00:44:21,199
He believes in God.
He is intelligent and caring.

816
00:44:21,200 --> 00:44:22,743
He is tenacious.

817
00:44:23,744 --> 00:44:28,081
He is kind, loyal and confident.
He has a good vibe.

818
00:44:28,082 --> 00:44:32,001
He's a real softie.
He has good taste in music.

819
00:44:32,002 --> 00:44:36,005
She is warm and beautiful.
He deserves everything.

820
00:44:36,006 --> 00:44:37,383
She's Christine."

821
00:44:44,932 --> 00:44:47,600
It was beautiful.
- That's what I think of you.

822
00:44:47,601 --> 00:44:50,853
I appreciate that.
When dating in real life -

823
00:44:50,854 --> 00:44:55,441
men "fall in love with me",
because I'm good on paper.

824
00:44:55,442 --> 00:44:57,069
They didn't love me.

825
00:44:57,653 --> 00:44:59,404
They didn't know me.

826
00:44:59,405 --> 00:45:03,908
Crazy how in such a short time
you feel like you know me and you understand me.

827
00:45:03,909 --> 00:45:07,870
Yes.
- It is valuable to hear your words.

828
00:45:07,871 --> 00:45:11,083
Of course.
It's easy for you to say these things.

829
00:45:17,840 --> 00:45:22,552
Funny how hard it is to find a person,
who shares the same morality.

830
00:45:22,553 --> 00:45:27,306
He also has a good job.
Family oriented, educated, whatever.

831
00:45:27,307 --> 00:45:31,769
How hard is it to find a person,
that meets your wishes.

832
00:45:31,770 --> 00:45:36,858
He is ready for what you want,
at the same time as you.

833
00:45:36,859 --> 00:45:39,485
Right.
- Besides, it has energy.

834
00:45:39,486 --> 00:45:45,199
The connection and chemistry is there.
It has spark and love.

835
00:45:45,200 --> 00:45:49,662
It seems almost impossible,
but it's starting to feel real.

836
00:45:49,663 --> 00:45:50,913
That's true.

837
00:45:50,914 --> 00:45:54,417
I don't want to say cornist,
that you were made for me, but…

838
00:45:54,418 --> 00:45:56,086
You can say that too.

839
00:45:56,795 --> 00:45:58,964
This just feels…

840
00:46:01,383 --> 00:46:03,634
I don't know. This is unbelievable.

841
00:46:03,635 --> 00:46:05,387
I quite agree.

842
00:46:19,860 --> 00:46:21,152
{\an8}Question.
- Yeah.

843
00:46:21,153 --> 00:46:24,489
{\an8}Are you talking to Emma or…
- I don't. What about you?

844
00:46:24,490 --> 00:46:28,034
I didn't know if he was your number one.
- There isn't. No problem.

845
00:46:28,035 --> 00:46:29,619
He is my number one.
- Is it?

846
00:46:29,620 --> 00:46:30,995
Yeah.
- I understand.

847
00:46:30,996 --> 00:46:33,498
{\an8}Emma feels energetic and bubbly.

848
00:46:33,499 --> 00:46:36,709
I appreciate it,
that he wants to get to know you more deeply.

849
00:46:36,710 --> 00:46:39,921
Maybe she doesn't want kids,
but I'm looking for a wife.

850
00:46:39,922 --> 00:46:42,007
We're not looking for a baby-making machine here.

851
00:46:43,008 --> 00:46:44,468
Let's go. Good luck guys.

852
00:46:46,678 --> 00:46:48,387
What is your ring size?

853
00:46:48,388 --> 00:46:51,725
{\an8}You'll figure it out.
- All right. You are always so mysterious.

854
00:46:52,309 --> 00:46:54,227
No, but it leads to things.

855
00:46:54,228 --> 00:46:56,479
Clear.
- I have small hands.

856
00:46:56,480 --> 00:46:59,900
That leads me to another conclusion, but...

857
00:47:00,484 --> 00:47:03,236
You said we wouldn't dig deep.

858
00:47:03,237 --> 00:47:05,363
Let go.
- Are we ready?

859
00:47:05,364 --> 00:47:06,698
I'll start here.

860
00:47:08,242 --> 00:47:11,869
I was adopted when I was 3 years old.
- All right.

861
00:47:11,870 --> 00:47:15,706
I meant to reveal it,
when you talked about adoption.

862
00:47:15,707 --> 00:47:17,750
But I…
- You would have said...

863
00:47:17,751 --> 00:47:20,294
It was the perfect intro.
- It wasn't.

864
00:47:20,295 --> 00:47:23,881
I don't want a fun fact about it.
My parents are my family.

865
00:47:23,882 --> 00:47:30,304
my family is my family
and I don't feel the need to find out my origins.

866
00:47:30,305 --> 00:47:32,890
Were you adopted with your siblings?

867
00:47:32,891 --> 00:47:35,017
No. I am alone.

868
00:47:35,018 --> 00:47:40,399
Of course it reveals something about you,
which you may not have told yet.

869
00:47:41,942 --> 00:47:46,362
I'm a bit of a mentalist, if you haven't noticed.
- I don't like your guesses.

870
00:47:46,363 --> 00:47:47,780
Don't like it?

871
00:47:47,781 --> 00:47:50,658
I don't like you guessing my looks.

872
00:47:50,659 --> 00:47:53,286
It's not about your looks.
- Right?

873
00:47:53,287 --> 00:47:56,039
No, I…
- I'm trying to get to know you completely.

874
00:47:56,623 --> 00:47:58,833
I have taken this process…

875
00:47:58,834 --> 00:48:00,460
A little shy? In hiding?

876
00:48:03,213 --> 00:48:05,381
You know how I feel about adoption.

877
00:48:05,382 --> 00:48:09,218
Do you feel like you want to…

878
00:48:09,219 --> 00:48:11,721
I know you're not sure if you want kids.

879
00:48:11,722 --> 00:48:18,145
But would you like to adopt,
because you know what it's like?

880
00:48:21,023 --> 00:48:24,233
If I wanted children, I would want to adopt.

881
00:48:24,234 --> 00:48:25,944
So. That's where it came from.

882
00:48:27,154 --> 00:48:31,033
The purpose is to tell
open about things, right?

883
00:48:35,954 --> 00:48:38,998
I wanted to participate in the program,

884
00:48:38,999 --> 00:48:45,087
because I like the idea
that the physical side is removed from the equation.

885
00:48:45,088 --> 00:48:49,175
do you feel
that people are only interested in looks?

886
00:48:49,176 --> 00:48:51,803
Yeah, so…

887
00:48:59,853 --> 00:49:02,688
are you there
- I was just thinking...

888
00:49:02,689 --> 00:49:04,733
Processes.
- Yes.

889
00:49:05,943 --> 00:49:10,404
Birthmark covered as a baby
my whole arm.

890
00:49:10,405 --> 00:49:11,530
Clear.

891
00:49:11,531 --> 00:49:16,411
The probability of melanoma was high.
I had ten surgeries.

892
00:49:18,372 --> 00:49:23,376
I wasn't even seven yet.
Attempts were made to remove birthmarks.

893
00:49:23,377 --> 00:49:26,421
The biggest one was in my hand.

894
00:49:26,922 --> 00:49:30,467
But I have birthmarks
all over my body.

895
00:49:30,968 --> 00:49:33,886
They are reviewed every year.

896
00:49:33,887 --> 00:49:40,184
I struggled with it in my childhood.

897
00:49:40,185 --> 00:49:42,728
It felt like an elephant in the living room.

898
00:49:42,729 --> 00:49:46,107
It doesn't stop me from doing anything.

899
00:49:46,108 --> 00:49:49,485
But it has made an impact
to people's perception of dating.

900
00:49:49,486 --> 00:49:52,238
It affects how I am perceived.

901
00:49:52,239 --> 00:49:54,115
In childhood and…

902
00:49:54,116 --> 00:49:56,450
When you go swimming?
- Yes.

903
00:49:56,451 --> 00:49:58,786
Yeah, it's just something…

904
00:49:58,787 --> 00:50:01,956
Those two things are part of me.
They are both…

905
00:50:01,957 --> 00:50:05,042
Influenced by…
- They affected life. I don't know…

906
00:50:05,043 --> 00:50:08,422
Yes.
- Did you get sad?

907
00:50:11,550 --> 00:50:12,883
Yeah.

908
00:50:12,884 --> 00:50:15,971
It seems you don't want to
more questions about it now.

909
00:50:16,722 --> 00:50:20,057
I'll cheer you up. Do you want me to cheer you up?

910
00:50:20,058 --> 00:50:23,728
I'll show you how in depth
i can tell about my life.

911
00:50:23,729 --> 00:50:26,647
I will tell you about my first kiss. At the ready?
- All right.

912
00:50:26,648 --> 00:50:29,984
I went to AMC in the kasi class
With a girl named Fallon.

913
00:50:29,985 --> 00:50:31,861
Clear.
- We went to a movie.

914
00:50:31,862 --> 00:50:34,697
I was nervous.
I had heard from my friends,

915
00:50:34,698 --> 00:50:39,410
how they poked around the park
in the sixth or standing grade.

916
00:50:39,411 --> 00:50:41,704
I wondered. I bloomed late.

917
00:50:41,705 --> 00:50:45,666
We went to AMC
and Barnes and Noble next door.

918
00:50:45,667 --> 00:50:48,377
We listened to music
from the same headphones.

919
00:50:48,378 --> 00:50:50,880
Both had irons. We were an ugly sight.

920
00:50:50,881 --> 00:50:54,634
We said we liked each other
and we bagged.

921
00:50:56,011 --> 00:50:58,054
Cute.
- That was really cute.

922
00:50:58,055 --> 00:51:02,475
Tell me about your first kiss.
- It wasn't memorable. I was in high school.

923
00:51:02,476 --> 00:51:03,976
Ohhh.

924
00:51:03,977 --> 00:51:09,649
Yeah. I was in high school and I fucked a boy.

925
00:51:10,150 --> 00:51:12,526
I didn't remember it.
- "High School Boy".

926
00:51:12,527 --> 00:51:14,571
Nice. Deep.
- Yeah, it was…

927
00:51:15,489 --> 00:51:18,532
do you want to tell
how did you lose your virginity

928
00:51:18,533 --> 00:51:19,992
It happened in college.

929
00:51:19,993 --> 00:51:22,829
I thought I was late too.

930
00:51:23,789 --> 00:51:26,415
God, you win here.
- I don't like this.

931
00:51:26,416 --> 00:51:31,462
I don't like having a schedule.
Everyone is on their own journey.

932
00:51:31,463 --> 00:51:34,090
So. It felt like my friends were ahead.

933
00:51:34,091 --> 00:51:40,304
I didn't date in high school.
I wasn't hard on dating.

934
00:51:40,305 --> 00:51:42,349
That's why in college…

935
00:51:43,892 --> 00:51:48,521
It wasn't romantic.
I started talking to this guy.

936
00:51:48,522 --> 00:51:50,482
We liked each other and we just…

937
00:51:51,650 --> 00:51:53,275
We did it.
- Did you do it?

938
00:51:53,276 --> 00:51:55,653
Was it freshman year or something?

939
00:51:55,654 --> 00:51:58,656
I thought I'd go.

940
00:51:58,657 --> 00:52:03,077
We liked each other. "Let's try then."

941
00:52:03,078 --> 00:52:05,539
So were you 19 or 20?

942
00:52:06,998 --> 00:52:10,668
Mine is beautiful.
It's like <i>From the Pages of Love</i>.

943
00:52:10,669 --> 00:52:13,379
I dated a girl for a year. I loved him.

944
00:52:13,380 --> 00:52:16,132
I remember how we watched a love movie.

945
00:52:16,133 --> 00:52:18,717
Light flooded in. We lay on the floor.

946
00:52:18,718 --> 00:52:21,554
He wanted to tell me he loved me.

947
00:52:21,555 --> 00:52:25,516
He appreciated it,
how I waited and didn't push.

948
00:52:25,517 --> 00:52:26,600
So.

949
00:52:26,601 --> 00:52:30,229
He kissed me
and said he was ready for sex.

950
00:52:30,230 --> 00:52:33,023
Sex was beautiful.
It was like from that movie.

951
00:52:33,024 --> 00:52:36,402
It was like <i>Pages of Love</i>
virginity scene.

952
00:52:36,403 --> 00:52:39,822
The next morning we put everywhere.

953
00:52:39,823 --> 00:52:42,741
But…
- I haven't seen that movie.

954
00:52:42,742 --> 00:52:44,451
Come on.
- I'm not.

955
00:52:44,452 --> 00:52:47,580
Did you not see the abandoned house floor scene?
- I don't.

956
00:52:47,581 --> 00:52:50,166
The woman is laid on the creaking wooden floor…

957
00:52:50,167 --> 00:52:52,793
I'm not.
- Rachel McAdams can't refuse.

958
00:52:52,794 --> 00:52:54,962
I haven't seen it.

959
00:52:54,963 --> 00:52:59,091
For real. Check it out.
Can't believe it's not on your list.

960
00:52:59,092 --> 00:53:01,427
Didn't girls talk about it in high school?

961
00:53:01,428 --> 00:53:05,056
Every one of my girlfriends
watched that movie with me.

962
00:53:05,557 --> 00:53:08,142
I haven't seen it.
- I set expectations.

963
00:53:08,143 --> 00:53:13,355
I'm just saying what I want.
- I march to the beat of my own drum, Steven.

964
00:53:13,356 --> 00:53:17,735
I don't need others to dictate.

965
00:53:17,736 --> 00:53:19,487
Who is in charge here?

966
00:53:20,947 --> 00:53:23,408
I feel like you closed off from me.

967
00:53:24,534 --> 00:53:28,287
You wanted to bite deep. I did it.

968
00:53:28,288 --> 00:53:32,750
I told about the first kiss, about my virginity.
You just answer "high school boy".

969
00:53:32,751 --> 00:53:34,668
But it was.

970
00:53:34,669 --> 00:53:38,714
The first kiss is something else
like a kiss with a boy in college.

971
00:53:38,715 --> 00:53:42,760
Yeah, my first kiss wasn't special.
That's my story.

972
00:53:42,761 --> 00:53:46,764
I wasn't wanted in high school.
I only qualified in college.

973
00:53:46,765 --> 00:53:49,559
Clear.
- Do you think that…

974
00:53:51,436 --> 00:53:54,647
I grab the first one,
who cares about me?

975
00:53:54,648 --> 00:53:56,149
And…

976
00:53:57,108 --> 00:54:00,237
Those boys didn't care about me
and i…

977
00:54:04,824 --> 00:54:10,537
I don't believe
that they deserve to be mentioned.

978
00:54:10,538 --> 00:54:11,748
Clear.

979
00:54:12,332 --> 00:54:14,333
Sorry, I'm listening…
- I feel...

980
00:54:14,334 --> 00:54:16,377
For this discussion, I will take another.

981
00:54:16,378 --> 00:54:22,175
And a comment about that -

982
00:54:22,676 --> 00:54:24,385
from late blooming.

983
00:54:24,386 --> 00:54:27,389
Comments like that annoy me.

984
00:54:28,098 --> 00:54:31,309
And the fact that you're interrupting was…

985
00:54:31,893 --> 00:54:33,686
I don't… Alright.

986
00:54:33,687 --> 00:54:38,524
To tell you the truth, I didn't stop.
No need to blame me for this.

987
00:54:38,525 --> 00:54:42,778
I'm sorry, but I'm telling you how I feel.
- You can say you don't like it.

988
00:54:42,779 --> 00:54:44,905
You don't see my reaction here.

989
00:54:44,906 --> 00:54:46,907
I don't.
- I was very focused.

990
00:54:46,908 --> 00:54:49,285
I listened seriously.
- Yeah.

991
00:54:49,286 --> 00:54:52,871
Now you make it look like
like I reacted wrongly.

992
00:54:52,872 --> 00:54:53,789
No.

993
00:54:53,790 --> 00:54:57,251
I think I react matter-of-factly to everything.
- I just don't believe...

994
00:54:57,252 --> 00:54:59,169
That you can get there?
- Yes.

995
00:54:59,170 --> 00:55:02,757
I just believe that my connection…

996
00:55:03,717 --> 00:55:06,052
Are stronger with others.
- Yes.

997
00:55:06,970 --> 00:55:09,889
And it's just... Nothing.

998
00:55:10,390 --> 00:55:12,934
I don't think we're right for each other.

999
00:55:14,394 --> 00:55:15,395
Never mind.

1000
00:55:16,771 --> 00:55:17,772
Clear.

1001
00:55:25,864 --> 00:55:26,990
That was it.

1002
00:55:28,658 --> 00:55:30,201
{\an8}Hey, crumb.

1003
00:55:31,286 --> 00:55:32,120
And not.

1004
00:55:36,291 --> 00:55:38,001
Oh, honey.

1005
00:55:38,835 --> 00:55:40,503
That doesn't work for me.

1006
00:55:41,129 --> 00:55:43,423
{\an8}God season.

1007
00:55:44,132 --> 00:55:47,010
{\an8}I opened up to him -

1008
00:55:47,594 --> 00:55:53,933
my story. And I don't want to make myself
victim, but I know…

1009
00:55:54,934 --> 00:55:58,020
You did nothing wrong.
- I know my worth. I know that.

1010
00:55:58,021 --> 00:56:00,105
You did exactly as you should.

1011
00:56:00,106 --> 00:56:02,983
You opened up about your story.
- I tried my best, but…

1012
00:56:02,984 --> 00:56:05,319
That was right. You did it Emma's way.

1013
00:56:05,320 --> 00:56:07,654
I'm sorry it happened that way.

1014
00:56:07,655 --> 00:56:11,201
Now I'm afraid to go on my next date.

1015
00:56:22,003 --> 00:56:25,964
{\an8}I am blessed to have found Christine
in this experiment.

1016
00:56:25,965 --> 00:56:29,259
{\an8}I am amazed,
excited and in love.

1017
00:56:29,260 --> 00:56:32,596
{\an8}I was in a serious car accident.

1018
00:56:32,597 --> 00:56:35,974
{\an8}I broke my neck and back in many places.

1019
00:56:35,975 --> 00:56:40,813
I took angel wings right on my upper back.

1020
00:56:40,814 --> 00:56:45,901
It tells about my protection
and my blessings.

1021
00:56:45,902 --> 00:56:47,528
By the grace of god.
- Yes.

1022
00:56:47,529 --> 00:56:48,570
Jeez.

1023
00:56:48,571 --> 00:56:52,409
Do you still follow your ex on Facebook?
- Not my actual ex.

1024
00:56:54,035 --> 00:56:55,536
What does that mean?

1025
00:56:55,537 --> 00:56:59,039
There are a few of my dates
for a couple of years, but no.

1026
00:56:59,040 --> 00:57:01,750
May I ask the same?
- The answer is a quick no.

1027
00:57:01,751 --> 00:57:03,168
Clear.
- Yeah.

1028
00:57:03,169 --> 00:57:05,212
Clear. That's good.

1029
00:57:05,213 --> 00:57:08,841
Did you date similar people
with people in your past?

1030
00:57:08,842 --> 00:57:11,552
They were feminine and intelligent women.

1031
00:57:11,553 --> 00:57:13,720
What about appearance?
- Culture?

1032
00:57:13,721 --> 00:57:15,139
So.

1033
00:57:15,140 --> 00:57:16,223
All sorts of.

1034
00:57:16,224 --> 00:57:21,019
I've seriously dated black women,
white, latino.

1035
00:57:21,020 --> 00:57:25,023
New York is exposed
for different cultures and ethnicities.

1036
00:57:25,024 --> 00:57:28,485
Heart matters.
Are our values ​​aligned?

1037
00:57:28,486 --> 00:57:31,363
Cultural elements
don't weigh that much.

1038
00:57:31,364 --> 00:57:33,324
Clear.
- What about you?

1039
00:57:33,908 --> 00:57:39,246
Same. And I wouldn't want to meet anyone
having a sharply defined type.

1040
00:57:39,247 --> 00:57:41,081
That is true.

1041
00:57:41,082 --> 00:57:42,040
Yep.

1042
00:57:42,041 --> 00:57:44,251
Why do you want to get married?

1043
00:57:44,252 --> 00:57:49,840
Family is one aspect.
But it is beautiful to merge into one.

1044
00:57:49,841 --> 00:57:56,222
I can clearly feel that your heart
is genuine, kind and loving.

1045
00:57:56,723 --> 00:57:58,265
It's a gift.
- Thank you.

1046
00:57:58,266 --> 00:58:02,561
Is there anything else
what should we tell?

1047
00:58:02,562 --> 00:58:08,192
If there was something important and critical,
I would have already asked.

1048
00:58:08,193 --> 00:58:10,861
I think I would complement you well.

1049
00:58:10,862 --> 00:58:12,905
I would complement you too.

1050
00:58:12,906 --> 00:58:17,534
When I face it head on,
what i think about you

1051
00:58:17,535 --> 00:58:20,204
what i know about you
and i feel for you

1052
00:58:20,205 --> 00:58:26,001
I can't wear it otherwise
like saying i love you

1053
00:58:26,002 --> 00:58:27,461
I love you too.

1054
00:58:27,462 --> 00:58:28,880
i love you

1055
00:58:30,131 --> 00:58:31,381
Me too you.

1056
00:58:31,382 --> 00:58:35,594
We got an opportunity in Sope
to break our habits.

1057
00:58:35,595 --> 00:58:38,347
We express ourselves
and we talk about our feelings.

1058
00:58:38,348 --> 00:58:42,851
I wrote a prayer in the morning,
which I want to share with you.

1059
00:58:42,852 --> 00:58:44,395
Yes, please.
- I'm standing.

1060
00:58:44,979 --> 00:58:46,855
I stand with you.

1061
00:58:46,856 --> 00:58:48,941
“Dear Heavenly Father.

1062
00:58:48,942 --> 00:58:53,112
We come to you to pray.
We ask for lasting love,

1063
00:58:53,696 --> 00:58:59,284
patience and understanding,
and the desire to grow deeper.

1064
00:58:59,285 --> 00:59:04,748
Let us open our hearts and minds
on this unique journey,

1065
00:59:04,749 --> 00:59:08,252
as we continue on our path to marriage."

1066
00:59:08,253 --> 00:59:10,712
Amen.
- Amen and let's go.

1067
00:59:10,713 --> 00:59:13,800
I wrote it many times.

1068
00:59:14,384 --> 00:59:17,052
It was beautiful.

1069
00:59:17,053 --> 00:59:20,847
You are like a dream come true, Did you know that?
- I feel the same way.

1070
00:59:20,848 --> 00:59:23,059
I want you in my life forever.

1071
00:59:25,270 --> 00:59:26,729
Do you hear?
- Yeah.

1072
00:59:28,815 --> 00:59:30,732
I can't see you, but I see you.

1073
00:59:30,733 --> 00:59:33,026
I know.

1074
00:59:33,027 --> 00:59:34,571
Christine Louise Hamilton.

1075
00:59:37,198 --> 00:59:39,075
Will you be my wife?

1076
00:59:43,663 --> 00:59:44,747
Of course I will.

1077
00:59:47,750 --> 00:59:50,378
Yes!
- Of course I will.

1078
00:59:54,215 --> 00:59:55,591
This is just the beginning.

1079
00:59:55,592 --> 00:59:57,135
That's right.

1080
00:59:59,345 --> 01:00:00,429
i love you

1081
01:00:00,430 --> 01:00:02,390
Me too you.

1082
01:00:11,983 --> 01:00:13,066
How are you?

1083
01:00:13,067 --> 01:00:15,320
how did it go
- I have a wife.

1084
01:00:24,287 --> 01:00:25,245
Look!

1085
01:00:25,246 --> 01:00:26,913
A new rose!

1086
01:00:26,914 --> 01:00:30,125
He loves you immensely.

1087
01:00:30,126 --> 01:00:32,044
Oh well, anyway.

1088
01:00:32,045 --> 01:00:33,671
Goodness.

1089
01:00:37,967 --> 01:00:41,345
{\an8}I am a strong and independent woman.
I don't need a man.

1090
01:00:41,346 --> 01:00:43,805
I'm excited to sleep with a man.

1091
01:00:43,806 --> 01:00:47,184
I fart a lot more.
I don't know if I fart in my sleep.

1092
01:00:47,185 --> 01:00:49,479
Oh my god. Yes.
- Maybe I just don't sleep.

1093
01:00:50,855 --> 01:00:52,190
Oh damn.

1094
01:00:54,734 --> 01:00:55,984
What do I do?

1095
01:00:55,985 --> 01:00:57,487
Oh shit.

1096
01:00:59,280 --> 01:01:00,531
What happened?

1097
01:01:01,908 --> 01:01:04,159
Can't believe I did that.

1098
01:01:04,160 --> 01:01:06,746
Clear. I know. You are scared.

1099
01:01:08,665 --> 01:01:10,375
You have to go.

1100
01:01:49,622 --> 01:01:51,541
{\an8}Subtitling: Katariina Uusitupa