1 00:00:49,680 --> 00:00:52,480 Definitely leave the light lying out, especially in a day or minute. 2 00:00:52,820 --> 00:00:54,320 Well, a bit later. Keep you warm in a minute. 3 00:00:54,580 --> 00:00:55,580 Yeah. 4 00:00:57,340 --> 00:00:58,640 Anything going on over the weekend? 5 00:00:59,400 --> 00:01:01,080 Um, no, not much, yeah. 6 00:01:01,700 --> 00:01:05,060 Just going out to a... hopefully to a jazz spot. 7 00:01:05,420 --> 00:01:07,260 Oh, nice. Yeah, I've got a few friends going together. 8 00:01:07,580 --> 00:01:08,559 Oh, that'd be great. 9 00:01:08,560 --> 00:01:11,840 Always. Yeah, no, we've got a quiet weekend. 10 00:01:12,320 --> 00:01:13,420 Yeah? Yeah. 11 00:01:13,740 --> 00:01:15,260 You watching anything special at the moment? 12 00:01:15,960 --> 00:01:18,520 Um, not really, no. 13 00:01:21,280 --> 00:01:22,660 Okay, have a good weekend. 14 00:01:23,260 --> 00:01:24,260 Yeah, yeah. 15 00:01:25,360 --> 00:01:28,820 See you later. I'm going to head off. See you on Monday. 16 00:01:29,680 --> 00:01:30,920 You had enough? 17 00:01:31,500 --> 00:01:32,500 Huh? You had enough? 18 00:01:32,740 --> 00:01:34,600 Well, yeah, you know, it's the weekend. 19 00:01:35,220 --> 00:01:36,480 Just give me a second. 20 00:01:36,900 --> 00:01:37,900 Okay. 21 00:02:33,160 --> 00:02:38,700 I don't think so. I mean, he's probably going to cook something, you know. 22 00:02:39,020 --> 00:02:40,560 He likes doing a bit of fiddling. 23 00:02:40,860 --> 00:02:41,860 What's your special milk? 24 00:02:42,380 --> 00:02:46,300 Spaghetti. He likes a kind of spaghetti with a sort of, you know... 25 00:02:47,570 --> 00:02:51,210 Carbonara or Bolognese, something like that. 26 00:02:51,810 --> 00:02:55,650 What about you? What are you going to be getting up to? I was just saying I have 27 00:02:55,650 --> 00:02:56,650 a few friends getting together. 28 00:02:57,090 --> 00:02:58,250 Going out for a music gig. 29 00:02:58,550 --> 00:03:00,190 Oh, that's good. 30 00:03:00,490 --> 00:03:02,430 No, I know I need it. What kind of music? 31 00:03:02,710 --> 00:03:06,290 A bit of jazz. Oh, lovely. God, I haven't listened to jazz for ages. Do 32 00:03:06,290 --> 00:03:07,290 anything? No. 33 00:03:09,390 --> 00:03:10,390 Do you? 34 00:03:10,890 --> 00:03:12,690 Saxophone. How did you know? 35 00:03:13,320 --> 00:03:15,220 I mean, I've had, like, three lessons. 36 00:03:15,500 --> 00:03:16,138 Have you? 37 00:03:16,140 --> 00:03:20,120 Really? Yeah, it's not like I can... There'll be no tunes coming out. 38 00:03:20,740 --> 00:03:21,740 Just a load of noise. 39 00:03:22,220 --> 00:03:25,160 Well, you might have to get yourself a gig, and then I'll come and watch you. 40 00:03:25,500 --> 00:03:27,880 Well, if you're coming, then I'll definitely get one organised for you. 41 00:03:29,120 --> 00:03:32,280 Oh, thanks, everybody, for all of this. 42 00:03:32,720 --> 00:03:35,200 Really nice of you. Really lovely. Thank you. 43 00:03:36,360 --> 00:03:37,420 Oh, good. 44 00:03:37,780 --> 00:03:38,920 Yeah, have a good evening. 45 00:03:39,600 --> 00:03:40,600 Thanks. Thank you. 46 00:04:12,460 --> 00:04:13,460 Come on, John, John. 47 00:04:27,200 --> 00:04:28,200 John? 48 00:04:29,000 --> 00:04:30,200 Oh! Hooray! 49 00:04:34,540 --> 00:04:35,540 Oh, 50 00:04:36,660 --> 00:04:38,940 no, please, not the song again. 51 00:04:39,240 --> 00:04:40,240 Come on. 52 00:04:42,120 --> 00:04:43,120 Wait, wait, wait. 53 00:04:43,800 --> 00:04:49,180 I'm looking forward to this today. Oh, darling. 54 00:04:49,480 --> 00:04:50,480 Oh, darling. 55 00:04:50,620 --> 00:04:51,940 Cheers. Cheers. 56 00:04:52,160 --> 00:04:53,160 Thank you. 57 00:04:53,240 --> 00:04:55,480 Can we skip that bit? 58 00:04:56,040 --> 00:04:58,740 It's your birthday. Of course we can't skip that bit. 59 00:05:00,000 --> 00:05:01,000 Right, 60 00:05:02,240 --> 00:05:03,240 do you want to eat? 61 00:05:03,340 --> 00:05:06,340 Yeah? Okay, well, get in on. 62 00:05:08,460 --> 00:05:09,460 Who am I? 63 00:05:12,730 --> 00:05:13,730 Okay. 64 00:05:16,810 --> 00:05:17,810 Cheers. 65 00:05:19,190 --> 00:05:21,510 To... To you. 66 00:05:21,770 --> 00:05:23,310 To... Miracle Maria. 67 00:05:23,650 --> 00:05:25,130 Maria the Miracle. 68 00:05:29,010 --> 00:05:32,350 That won't be long. 69 00:05:34,170 --> 00:05:35,450 I don't know. 70 00:05:58,909 --> 00:06:00,070 Really? Really? 71 00:06:00,790 --> 00:06:01,790 Come on. 72 00:06:02,570 --> 00:06:03,570 No. 73 00:06:09,050 --> 00:06:10,870 Just bring the nut a little bit. 74 00:06:11,990 --> 00:06:12,929 Come on. 75 00:06:12,930 --> 00:06:13,930 No. 76 00:06:16,730 --> 00:06:17,730 Not now. 77 00:06:17,950 --> 00:06:18,950 Maria, not now. 78 00:06:19,650 --> 00:06:20,650 Really? 79 00:06:21,910 --> 00:06:22,910 All right, come on. 80 00:06:23,270 --> 00:06:25,430 No, come on. No, come on. Maria! 81 00:06:26,010 --> 00:06:27,010 Maria! 82 00:06:28,510 --> 00:06:30,410 I didn't mean not at all. 83 00:06:30,750 --> 00:06:32,770 It doesn't matter. It's fine. Not now. 84 00:06:33,250 --> 00:06:33,969 I'm not OK. 85 00:06:33,970 --> 00:06:35,490 A spaghetti by the nose is fine. 86 00:06:35,950 --> 00:06:38,910 I don't understand where that comes from. 87 00:06:39,190 --> 00:06:40,890 Oh, please, John, enough. 88 00:06:42,830 --> 00:06:43,950 Just leave it. 89 00:06:44,490 --> 00:06:47,790 What do you mean, where does it come from? What kind of a stupid question is 90 00:06:47,790 --> 00:06:51,190 that? Where does that feeling come from? We've been perfectly all right up till 91 00:06:51,190 --> 00:06:54,550 now. Yes, we have. We've been fine. We've had a nice... Don't worry, I 92 00:06:54,910 --> 00:06:57,850 the boat again. We've made love. We've made it beautiful. It doesn't matter. 93 00:06:58,170 --> 00:07:00,930 It's romantic and lovely. John, please. 94 00:07:01,450 --> 00:07:04,450 No. It doesn't make it... It 95 00:07:04,450 --> 00:07:11,450 didn't seem like the Maria I 96 00:07:11,450 --> 00:07:12,690 know. Okay. 97 00:07:13,010 --> 00:07:14,670 It seemed like a different Maria. 98 00:07:15,200 --> 00:07:18,600 Didn't? Oh, right. Was it a different Maria? No, it wasn't. It's this Maria. 99 00:07:18,860 --> 00:07:19,860 This is Maria. 100 00:07:19,920 --> 00:07:23,280 This is Maria. This is Maria who wants to go like that sometimes. 101 00:07:23,500 --> 00:07:27,080 Who wants to take my clothes off in the kitchen. Who wants to have sex with my 102 00:07:27,080 --> 00:07:28,440 husband. That isn't planned. 103 00:07:29,220 --> 00:07:32,380 Well, I didn't... Is that so much to ask? I gave you exactly what you didn't 104 00:07:32,380 --> 00:07:35,660 want. Oh, you're talking rubbish. I just wanted to have sex. I'm perfectly 105 00:07:35,660 --> 00:07:40,240 capable of romantic sex. Yes, lovemaking. Just not in the kitchen. 106 00:07:40,520 --> 00:07:41,540 You just wanted a fuck. 107 00:07:42,160 --> 00:07:43,560 And what's wrong with that? 108 00:07:43,930 --> 00:07:48,450 It's got to be all, you know, glowy, beautiful music. It can be beautiful 109 00:07:48,450 --> 00:07:51,990 It can be candlelit. It can be romantic on your birthday. 110 00:07:52,310 --> 00:07:55,450 Yes, and? But I don't want a dirty fuck. 111 00:07:55,670 --> 00:07:56,670 Right, fine. 112 00:07:56,770 --> 00:07:58,330 I'm not a dirty fucker. 113 00:07:58,550 --> 00:07:59,550 Thank you. 114 00:09:22,760 --> 00:09:23,760 Is there any hummus? 115 00:09:24,200 --> 00:09:27,320 Just keep digging, you'll see something. 116 00:09:31,580 --> 00:09:34,120 Ah. Oh, yeah. 117 00:09:37,560 --> 00:09:38,480 I 118 00:09:38,480 --> 00:09:44,980 fancied a little 119 00:09:44,980 --> 00:09:45,980 dip. 120 00:09:51,910 --> 00:09:52,910 I can do it. 121 00:09:53,610 --> 00:09:55,550 It's not about opening the hummus. 122 00:09:55,850 --> 00:09:56,850 Put it down. 123 00:09:57,730 --> 00:10:00,310 Oh, I thought you were helping me to open the hummus. 124 00:10:04,430 --> 00:10:11,430 What I was trying to say through the door when you were in 125 00:10:11,430 --> 00:10:13,230 the bath is that I really love you. 126 00:10:13,930 --> 00:10:18,770 I just want you to know that and just always hang on to that. 127 00:10:19,010 --> 00:10:20,030 I love you too. 128 00:10:21,130 --> 00:10:22,570 I really do love you, too. 129 00:10:23,050 --> 00:10:24,049 Are we okay? 130 00:10:24,050 --> 00:10:25,310 Yeah, we're good. 131 00:10:25,870 --> 00:10:27,350 Yeah? Are we going to have a nice afternoon? 132 00:10:27,630 --> 00:10:28,289 Of course we are. 133 00:10:28,290 --> 00:10:30,570 Do you want me to open the hummus? No, you don't. 134 00:10:31,190 --> 00:10:34,110 I've been opening hummus by myself for years. 135 00:10:36,890 --> 00:10:37,890 Let me do the others. 136 00:10:38,670 --> 00:10:42,630 I absolutely can't open the hummus. Yes, you can. Come on. No, I've done it. 137 00:10:42,650 --> 00:10:43,629 I've done it now. 138 00:10:43,630 --> 00:10:46,010 Take a knife to it if you can't. That's what I do. 139 00:10:47,130 --> 00:10:48,130 Anyway, I've got... 140 00:10:49,640 --> 00:10:54,920 I've got things to do that involve flour and things. 141 00:10:55,600 --> 00:10:58,240 We'll enter Bake Off. 142 00:10:58,460 --> 00:11:00,120 No, no, no. We've done this. 143 00:11:00,380 --> 00:11:03,640 We did birthday yesterday. 144 00:11:04,040 --> 00:11:07,960 The children haven't done it. They don't need cake. They're not six and eight. 145 00:11:10,260 --> 00:11:15,640 I'm just saying, we're going to have a late lunch. We're going to have nice 146 00:11:15,640 --> 00:11:17,840 wine. We're going to have the kids here. 147 00:11:18,430 --> 00:11:22,290 We're going to celebrate the birthday, I'll open my presents. We don't need a 148 00:11:22,290 --> 00:11:23,290 cake. 149 00:11:24,330 --> 00:11:27,970 I'll just have candles on top that I've got to blow out and be embarrassed 150 00:11:27,970 --> 00:11:30,710 again, all over again, after work. 151 00:11:31,830 --> 00:11:35,970 We don't need a cake. I'm just trying to celebrate you. 152 00:11:36,190 --> 00:11:39,610 You don't need to do anything to try and celebrate me. 153 00:11:40,510 --> 00:11:42,570 Whatever I do just turns to dust. 154 00:11:42,890 --> 00:11:43,890 No, it doesn't. 155 00:11:49,070 --> 00:11:51,770 Come and eat hummus with me and drink your wine. 156 00:11:52,430 --> 00:11:57,570 You don't have to do anything else to make me happy. 157 00:11:58,830 --> 00:12:00,870 I'm perfectly happy. 158 00:12:01,630 --> 00:12:02,630 Ah! 159 00:12:04,970 --> 00:12:05,970 Good. 160 00:12:07,550 --> 00:12:08,550 Yay! 161 00:12:09,390 --> 00:12:11,150 The cavalry have arrived! 162 00:12:11,770 --> 00:12:12,910 Come in! 163 00:12:13,350 --> 00:12:14,350 Happy birthday! 164 00:12:14,590 --> 00:12:16,450 Hello, darling. 165 00:12:16,950 --> 00:12:17,950 How you doing? Come in. 166 00:12:20,360 --> 00:12:22,860 to see you. You must be David. 167 00:12:23,560 --> 00:12:25,340 It's so nice to meet you. 168 00:12:53,840 --> 00:12:56,700 Thank you, thank you. I never have to hear that song again. Speech, speech, 169 00:12:56,800 --> 00:12:57,860 speech, speech, speech! 170 00:12:58,860 --> 00:13:03,760 Oh, God, they sung it at work yesterday. I just wanted the ground to open up and 171 00:13:03,760 --> 00:13:09,980 disappear. And then I got back yesterday and then Dad started singing it to me. 172 00:13:09,980 --> 00:13:14,740 Why didn't her husband sing to his wife's shock? He did get me a really 173 00:13:14,740 --> 00:13:16,140 painting. Isn't that nice? 174 00:13:16,420 --> 00:13:17,940 Yeah, that's nice. 175 00:13:18,260 --> 00:13:19,500 So, how's things going? 176 00:13:19,740 --> 00:13:22,700 How long have you two been seeing each other? 177 00:13:23,120 --> 00:13:24,620 About five, five -ish months. 178 00:13:24,820 --> 00:13:25,820 Oh, wow. 179 00:13:26,280 --> 00:13:28,100 That's a fair old while, isn't it? 180 00:13:28,400 --> 00:13:30,000 And how long have we been together? 181 00:13:30,360 --> 00:13:31,360 Oh, God, nothing. 182 00:13:31,780 --> 00:13:32,780 So let's go there. 183 00:13:34,200 --> 00:13:38,200 How long have you been now? Oh, my God. Well, 13. 184 00:13:40,040 --> 00:13:45,860 I don't mind saying 31 years. Oh, thank you. You're doing well already. 185 00:13:46,260 --> 00:13:48,100 So which bit of Ireland are you from? 186 00:13:48,700 --> 00:13:49,700 I'm from Dublin. 187 00:13:49,850 --> 00:13:51,790 Right. Yeah. I was born and raised in Dublin. 188 00:13:52,010 --> 00:13:56,510 Yeah. But I have family in Canada. I have family... Oh. Yeah, over in 189 00:13:56,690 --> 00:13:57,609 Oh, wow. 190 00:13:57,610 --> 00:14:01,310 Yeah. My dad actually lives over there now. My mum is in Ireland. Are they not 191 00:14:01,310 --> 00:14:02,310 together anymore? 192 00:14:02,350 --> 00:14:04,670 No, they're not. They were together for... 193 00:14:05,500 --> 00:14:09,880 20 years or so. Where do you think you'll settle? 194 00:14:10,220 --> 00:14:13,120 Where do you feel like home is? 195 00:14:13,380 --> 00:14:14,380 I don't know. 196 00:14:15,280 --> 00:14:16,840 I'm just curious. 197 00:14:17,340 --> 00:14:18,420 Where are you going to put it? 198 00:14:19,140 --> 00:14:21,520 Come on, you've got to make a decision. 199 00:14:21,960 --> 00:14:26,940 Where will you hang your hat? He doesn't know. 200 00:14:27,700 --> 00:14:29,640 He can hang his hat wherever he wants. 201 00:14:30,000 --> 00:14:33,980 He might hang it here for a bit and then there for a bit. 202 00:14:35,340 --> 00:14:40,160 What inside is your home? That's what I'm saying. What spiritually is your 203 00:14:40,160 --> 00:14:41,640 Yes, it is a big question. 204 00:14:41,900 --> 00:14:46,260 It is an important question, isn't it? I guess. 205 00:14:46,780 --> 00:14:50,780 Do you have any? Some people don't know and might never find where they're going 206 00:14:50,780 --> 00:14:54,060 to hang their hats. And that's the great thing about their lives. They'll just 207 00:14:54,060 --> 00:14:58,240 be roaming around and they're not looking for a place to hang their hat. 208 00:14:58,240 --> 00:15:01,800 they're very happy not hanging their hat. If you remember this time, wherever 209 00:15:01,800 --> 00:15:03,080 hang my hats, my home. 210 00:15:03,300 --> 00:15:04,420 You can roam. 211 00:15:06,540 --> 00:15:09,160 You've got your whole life ahead of you. You can roam... What? 212 00:15:09,440 --> 00:15:12,600 You've got your whole life ahead of you. You roam as much as you wish. 213 00:15:14,680 --> 00:15:21,380 Sooner or later, you'll... It's a real theme for this weekend, 214 00:15:21,480 --> 00:15:23,240 isn't it? What? Who calmed down? 215 00:15:24,120 --> 00:15:25,120 Goodness me. 216 00:15:25,260 --> 00:15:27,120 Well, I mean, honestly, it's... 217 00:15:27,760 --> 00:15:31,780 Sorry, the last 24 hours have been like this. 218 00:15:33,040 --> 00:15:36,660 We're at loggerheads about where we should be, where we want to be, where we 219 00:15:36,660 --> 00:15:40,560 want to go, what we want to do, what kind of adventure we want, what 220 00:15:40,560 --> 00:15:42,480 kind of fantasy. What are you on about? 221 00:15:43,720 --> 00:15:49,720 I'd just like to say, in a very calm and collected way, that nobody's at 222 00:15:49,720 --> 00:15:51,260 loggerheads at all. 223 00:15:51,540 --> 00:15:53,040 Well, I'm not. 224 00:15:54,680 --> 00:15:56,860 I've just been saying, you know. 225 00:15:57,440 --> 00:16:03,660 Come on, maybe we could do something and travel or we look at 226 00:16:03,660 --> 00:16:08,880 what we've got so that we are not just... Yeah, yeah. 227 00:16:09,120 --> 00:16:10,840 ...stayed. But anyway. 228 00:16:11,120 --> 00:16:14,240 Anyway, look, tuck in and get yourself some food. There's plenty of food. 229 00:16:15,320 --> 00:16:19,200 I'll use a fork. Oh, thank you. 230 00:16:19,640 --> 00:16:22,560 France or Italy? 231 00:16:22,760 --> 00:16:25,180 Ooh. I don't know, whatever you think. 232 00:16:25,480 --> 00:16:30,020 I'm not a... connoisseur of animal works. I'll leave them with you. You can 233 00:16:30,020 --> 00:16:35,080 decide which European country you can travel to. Thank you. 234 00:16:36,160 --> 00:16:39,280 So we've, I don't know what, we've found a place. 235 00:16:39,700 --> 00:16:40,840 Oh, stop. 236 00:16:41,120 --> 00:16:42,420 Stop. Hot news. 237 00:16:42,640 --> 00:16:46,080 Hot news. Breaking news. No, no, no. It's not hot news. 238 00:16:46,740 --> 00:16:49,680 It's not hot news. Just Philippa and I have found a place. 239 00:16:50,300 --> 00:16:51,300 Oh, wow. 240 00:16:52,140 --> 00:16:55,700 Nothing's happened yet. But I didn't know you were going from that kind of, 241 00:16:55,700 --> 00:16:57,760 know, we'll live here for a bit, maybe. It's about the right time. 242 00:16:58,960 --> 00:17:00,380 We've been together five years. 243 00:17:00,640 --> 00:17:03,300 How old are you now, 27, 28? 244 00:17:03,660 --> 00:17:04,980 And what does that mean? 245 00:17:05,420 --> 00:17:09,260 It's a good time to start thinking about those things. It's a good time to stop 246 00:17:09,260 --> 00:17:13,619 living, is it? No. It's a good time to say, OK, let's stop now. 247 00:17:13,940 --> 00:17:16,359 Did we stop living when we were 27? 248 00:17:16,680 --> 00:17:19,079 Well, there's that debate. We lived in a... 249 00:17:20,010 --> 00:17:24,750 It's a chapter, isn't it? You turn the page and you move into the next chapter. 250 00:17:24,750 --> 00:17:28,190 Yeah, but you need to think about the next. Thank you. Yes, that's my failure. 251 00:17:28,510 --> 00:17:31,290 I know. I'm just saying, you know, don't rush. How much is the deposit? 252 00:17:32,250 --> 00:17:33,690 No, don't ask that. 253 00:17:33,930 --> 00:17:34,930 Why not? 254 00:17:35,030 --> 00:17:36,350 I don't want to tell you. 255 00:17:37,450 --> 00:17:39,810 They're looking for like a 15 % deposit or something. 256 00:17:40,030 --> 00:17:44,130 Okay. Are you all right with that? Yeah, yeah, we're good. You got that? 257 00:17:44,570 --> 00:17:45,710 Yeah, we're good for it. 258 00:17:46,080 --> 00:17:47,220 You've always been good with money, haven't you? 259 00:17:47,780 --> 00:17:48,780 Planting it away. 260 00:17:49,120 --> 00:17:50,500 Planting it away. I'm not sure about that. 261 00:17:50,820 --> 00:17:51,819 Spend it. 262 00:17:51,820 --> 00:17:53,920 Spend it. Go wild and spend it. 263 00:17:55,420 --> 00:17:57,560 Get your place. 264 00:17:57,780 --> 00:18:00,380 Thanks for that reckless advice, Mum. I'll bear that in mind. 265 00:18:00,720 --> 00:18:02,780 You can always rely on me to be reckless. 266 00:18:03,500 --> 00:18:04,600 Cheers. Cheers. 267 00:18:05,720 --> 00:18:09,220 To the birthday girl. To your... To mortgages. 268 00:18:09,460 --> 00:18:13,760 Yeah, to mortgages for your home. To your home and to Philippa. 269 00:18:14,110 --> 00:18:15,830 Thank you. Good for you. 270 00:18:16,090 --> 00:18:18,490 It feels like the right thing to be doing. Good. 271 00:18:18,750 --> 00:18:21,510 As long as it's the right thing for you, that's important. 272 00:18:22,390 --> 00:18:25,190 That's good. That's really good. It's lovely, isn't it? 273 00:18:26,290 --> 00:18:28,090 Is she pregnant? 274 00:18:30,590 --> 00:18:31,910 Better not be. Is she? 275 00:18:32,540 --> 00:18:37,320 She is? No, she's not. But you're thinking not pregnant. Better fucking 276 00:18:37,400 --> 00:18:40,580 because I can't wait to be an auntie. That's what I call an adventure anyway. 277 00:18:40,740 --> 00:18:42,280 That's very exciting news. 278 00:18:42,560 --> 00:18:44,060 Congratulations. Good luck. 279 00:18:44,280 --> 00:18:46,640 Good luck. Perhaps it all goes well for you. 280 00:18:48,600 --> 00:18:51,820 How are you guys? What's going on? 281 00:18:52,820 --> 00:18:53,820 Well, 282 00:18:54,160 --> 00:19:00,380 we might go to Canada for a bit, see how we like it. Oh, God, that's amazing. 283 00:19:01,120 --> 00:19:05,340 Yeah, yeah, and you know David got family out there from like it's got 284 00:19:05,340 --> 00:19:09,700 there Yeah, I'd love to introduce it all my cousins. My cool cousins out in 285 00:19:09,700 --> 00:19:11,200 Toronto. And just see what it brings. 286 00:19:11,440 --> 00:19:16,280 Yeah, I can like a gorgeous lake with mountains. 287 00:19:16,700 --> 00:19:17,920 Girls going to Canada! 288 00:19:18,900 --> 00:19:20,840 You're excited then, that's good. 289 00:19:21,200 --> 00:19:23,800 When are you guys thinking of going? 290 00:19:24,000 --> 00:19:28,260 We're thinking even getting a little cheeky bus. Yeah, maybe going around. 291 00:19:28,260 --> 00:19:29,260 do you mean a bus? 292 00:19:29,980 --> 00:19:34,260 Like maybe rent out a bus and kind of just go along the parks. Oh, that's so 293 00:19:34,260 --> 00:19:35,700 good. That's so good. 294 00:19:36,840 --> 00:19:42,280 I was telling Dad yesterday about this woman that I used to know who, long 295 00:19:42,280 --> 00:19:43,280 short, every year. 296 00:19:43,780 --> 00:19:44,780 What? 297 00:19:45,040 --> 00:19:47,860 The woman who went through America in a burger van. 298 00:19:48,160 --> 00:19:51,000 Is that the one? No, it wasn't a burger van. Why are you so judgmental about 299 00:19:51,000 --> 00:19:54,520 that? I'm not. I've just heard this story many times. Sorry, you carry on. 300 00:19:54,940 --> 00:19:57,680 There was this woman. I didn't know her very well. Friend of a friend. 301 00:19:58,090 --> 00:20:01,450 Every year. She was married, happily married, happy, had kids. 302 00:20:01,650 --> 00:20:05,130 Everything was great. It wasn't because she was trying to rock the home boat or 303 00:20:05,130 --> 00:20:06,130 anything like that. 304 00:20:06,810 --> 00:20:09,110 Every year, she took herself off. 305 00:20:09,330 --> 00:20:12,050 She flew to New York. She hired a big motorhome. 306 00:20:12,350 --> 00:20:17,850 And she drove across America. On her own. To L .A. On her own. Through the 307 00:20:17,850 --> 00:20:19,270 desert. That's fucking cool. 308 00:20:19,570 --> 00:20:22,610 Look, I'll just keep... I'm just going to take five down. 309 00:20:22,890 --> 00:20:26,730 I'll just... Sorry, go on. What I was saying was... 310 00:20:27,240 --> 00:20:34,040 That I just started to feel that you want every day to be, not your birthday, 311 00:20:34,260 --> 00:20:39,600 for Christ's sake, but every day should be something, you know, you should feel 312 00:20:39,600 --> 00:20:41,180 that you're having your best life. 313 00:20:41,580 --> 00:20:45,420 That's it. That's what I'm meaning to say. You should feel that you're having 314 00:20:45,420 --> 00:20:50,980 your best life or your best possible life, whatever that means to you. You, 315 00:20:51,260 --> 00:20:52,560 fabulous. 316 00:20:54,000 --> 00:20:58,120 off to you thinking of going to Canada for a bit maybe it'll work out maybe it 317 00:20:58,120 --> 00:21:04,600 won't but you're open amazing you you're having the best the life that you want 318 00:21:04,600 --> 00:21:11,100 you know you've made a choice that's very no but you know what I'm saying and 319 00:21:11,100 --> 00:21:18,000 I respect that I respect that no I'm joking your choices are different 320 00:21:18,000 --> 00:21:20,140 and I'm just saying that 321 00:21:22,380 --> 00:21:23,960 There's such a lot. 322 00:21:27,340 --> 00:21:31,560 There's nothing wrong with this. There's so much a lot I haven't done. 323 00:21:52,880 --> 00:21:53,880 I'm just scared, I think. 324 00:21:55,200 --> 00:21:56,220 I'm coming in. 325 00:21:57,560 --> 00:22:04,140 There's absolutely... There's absolutely nothing to be scared of. 326 00:22:04,500 --> 00:22:05,680 Are you OK, Mum? 327 00:22:05,940 --> 00:22:06,940 Yeah, I'm good. 328 00:22:08,140 --> 00:22:09,240 I'm good, actually. 329 00:22:09,480 --> 00:22:11,040 I really am good. 330 00:22:11,620 --> 00:22:14,660 That seems a bit... No, no, no. 331 00:22:15,060 --> 00:22:16,920 I wish I could go to Canada. 332 00:22:17,400 --> 00:22:20,700 You should go to Canada. I know, you see, that's my point. 333 00:22:22,030 --> 00:22:28,990 is my point exactly I don't feel remotely old you 334 00:22:28,990 --> 00:22:34,950 know I really don't I mean god forbid there might come a day when I am 335 00:22:34,950 --> 00:22:41,210 incapacitated when I my who knows what knees hips but 336 00:22:41,210 --> 00:22:47,750 at the moment I feel absolutely alive and 337 00:22:47,750 --> 00:22:50,250 capable and fit 338 00:22:51,560 --> 00:22:52,560 I feel fit. 339 00:22:52,940 --> 00:22:58,200 I feel... I 340 00:22:58,200 --> 00:23:02,320 feel... 341 00:23:02,320 --> 00:23:06,360 Sorry. 342 00:23:09,240 --> 00:23:10,240 What's wrong? 343 00:23:10,860 --> 00:23:11,860 Nothing. 344 00:23:13,120 --> 00:23:17,600 It's just nice to say it to somebody who listens. 345 00:23:24,400 --> 00:23:25,400 full of potential. 346 00:23:29,020 --> 00:23:36,000 I don't want to think any aspect of my life is 347 00:23:36,000 --> 00:23:37,000 over. 348 00:23:37,560 --> 00:23:38,399 It's not. 349 00:23:38,400 --> 00:23:39,740 I know. I know. 350 00:23:40,620 --> 00:23:42,120 I really know that. 351 00:23:43,500 --> 00:23:44,720 I know it isn't. 352 00:23:46,840 --> 00:23:48,480 And I'm not going to let it be. 353 00:23:50,340 --> 00:23:51,560 I'm not going to. 354 00:23:53,040 --> 00:23:54,040 Let it be over. 355 00:23:56,740 --> 00:23:59,340 As I've got a lot to give. 356 00:24:03,660 --> 00:24:05,020 Are you off? 357 00:24:05,360 --> 00:24:06,360 Yeah, I'm off. 358 00:24:06,740 --> 00:24:08,020 How are you? 359 00:24:08,480 --> 00:24:09,480 Hi, darling. 360 00:24:10,780 --> 00:24:11,780 Thank you. 361 00:24:12,120 --> 00:24:13,700 Lovely to meet you. 362 00:24:15,440 --> 00:24:16,920 Lovely, lovely to meet you. 363 00:24:17,320 --> 00:24:18,400 Really lovely. 364 00:24:18,700 --> 00:24:19,700 Yeah, delighted. 365 00:24:19,920 --> 00:24:21,240 How are you, darling? 366 00:24:21,540 --> 00:24:22,540 Thank you. 367 00:24:30,700 --> 00:24:32,420 Bye, drive carefully. 368 00:24:33,100 --> 00:24:36,320 Take care. Oh yeah, don't forget that. 369 00:24:36,560 --> 00:24:38,120 Happy birthday, Mum. Thank you. 370 00:24:38,480 --> 00:24:40,580 Bye -bye. 371 00:24:58,700 --> 00:25:00,240 He's really lovely, isn't he? 372 00:25:00,780 --> 00:25:01,920 Well done, Alice. 373 00:25:03,520 --> 00:25:04,580 This is great. 374 00:25:10,140 --> 00:25:16,960 Well, I might be waving her off to Canada for a while. 375 00:25:19,500 --> 00:25:20,940 Good on her. 376 00:25:21,980 --> 00:25:23,300 That's all I can say. 377 00:25:31,470 --> 00:25:32,470 Yes? No? 378 00:25:32,850 --> 00:25:33,850 Hello? 379 00:25:33,970 --> 00:25:35,390 Suddenly you've got nothing to say. 380 00:25:35,870 --> 00:25:37,230 That's kind of weird. 381 00:25:38,350 --> 00:25:40,630 Had a lot to say earlier, that's for sure. 382 00:25:43,110 --> 00:25:47,050 Well, actually, let me rephrase that. A lot to criticise earlier. 383 00:25:48,010 --> 00:25:49,010 As in me. 384 00:25:49,650 --> 00:25:51,490 What are we doing with this? Chuck it? 385 00:25:51,690 --> 00:25:52,870 Just leave it. I'll do it. 386 00:26:00,170 --> 00:26:02,090 I said leave it, I'll do it. I'm just putting it down. 387 00:26:02,290 --> 00:26:08,310 Yeah, just put it down and then I'll put some music on and have myself a jolly 388 00:26:08,310 --> 00:26:10,050 old time and deal with it all. 389 00:26:17,450 --> 00:26:21,150 Actually, how fucking dare you do that in front of my children? 390 00:26:21,430 --> 00:26:25,750 How dare you patronise me? Leave my cards alone. 391 00:26:26,030 --> 00:26:27,750 I'm just going to put them on the... Well, I'll do it. 392 00:26:29,200 --> 00:26:31,560 Looking at what's been written, it's been written for me. 393 00:26:32,720 --> 00:26:35,520 Can I have nothing that's mine? Me, me, me. 394 00:26:35,720 --> 00:26:38,320 Aye, aye, aye. Yes, because it's my birthday. 395 00:26:38,740 --> 00:26:40,660 Not that you'd know that with you. 396 00:26:41,320 --> 00:26:45,300 Criticise, criticise, criticise. Everything I said today has picked me up 397 00:26:45,300 --> 00:26:49,140 Everything I've done in the last 24 hours is for your birthday. Thank God 398 00:26:49,140 --> 00:26:55,580 and David have got some kind of understanding of what it was I was 399 00:26:55,580 --> 00:26:57,660 say. Don't call me stupid in front of my children. No way. 400 00:26:58,040 --> 00:26:59,160 That's not happening. It's called you stupid. 401 00:27:00,340 --> 00:27:06,100 Whereas you, everything I said was, you know, oh, well, look, she wants to do 402 00:27:06,100 --> 00:27:09,300 this. And what's she saying? Like, I mean, really? 403 00:27:09,620 --> 00:27:13,500 It's like I'm not allowed to say anything. You want me to put on a 404 00:27:13,500 --> 00:27:14,700 jacket in the morning? 405 00:27:16,180 --> 00:27:17,220 It's unbelievable. 406 00:27:29,520 --> 00:27:31,080 Leave me alone for a bit. Just leave me alone. 407 00:27:32,700 --> 00:27:33,700 Fine. 408 00:27:34,700 --> 00:27:37,160 Just burn it off, all right? Just burn it off. 409 00:27:38,100 --> 00:27:40,920 Fucking pissed off with not being listened to. 410 00:27:44,940 --> 00:27:46,800 Just drink. Just have a drink, Maria. 411 00:27:47,000 --> 00:27:48,000 Just have a drink. 412 00:27:49,000 --> 00:27:50,000 Have a drink. 413 00:28:01,040 --> 00:28:03,140 I really hate it. I know you hate it. Yeah, good. 414 00:28:03,920 --> 00:28:06,860 Oh, good. Good that I hate it. Is that your intention? Is that what you're 415 00:28:06,860 --> 00:28:12,020 trying to do? If you actually stopped and analysed what's happened and what 416 00:28:12,020 --> 00:28:15,780 reaction has been, I think you might realise that it's not stupid. 417 00:28:16,160 --> 00:28:21,500 All that's happened, listen to me, all that's happened in the last 24 hours is 418 00:28:21,500 --> 00:28:26,740 that I've said, God forbid me, I've said a few things. 419 00:28:27,260 --> 00:28:32,360 about not being blinkered, about seizing the day, about having freedom to do 420 00:28:32,360 --> 00:28:38,400 anything that we want to do. That is all I've said. And you've taken such great 421 00:28:38,400 --> 00:28:43,800 umbrage to it, which is one thing. I'm trying to understand it. Oh, really? I 422 00:28:43,800 --> 00:28:49,040 not understand it. Well, then why don't you ever say to me, why don't you say to 423 00:28:49,040 --> 00:28:50,720 me in a calm, quiet way? 424 00:28:51,420 --> 00:28:53,560 Please tell me what you mean, Maria. 425 00:28:53,900 --> 00:28:56,480 Please tell me what you're feeling. 426 00:28:56,780 --> 00:29:01,540 You always fight me whenever I try and... No, I don't fight you. I'm 427 00:29:01,540 --> 00:29:04,460 you now. Every time I try to speak to you, you fight me. I'm fighting you now 428 00:29:04,460 --> 00:29:06,380 because of the way you behave today. 429 00:29:07,000 --> 00:29:11,960 I was not allowed to say things to my children. I was not allowed to share my 430 00:29:11,960 --> 00:29:12,960 feelings with them. 431 00:29:13,060 --> 00:29:14,800 You said plenty to them. And why shouldn't I? 432 00:29:15,240 --> 00:29:16,320 Why shouldn't I? 433 00:29:16,640 --> 00:29:17,640 At my cost. 434 00:29:18,060 --> 00:29:23,460 Why? It's me saying that I might want to have some freedom and have an adventure 435 00:29:23,460 --> 00:29:25,300 at your cost. 436 00:29:26,760 --> 00:29:27,920 Why is it? 437 00:29:28,820 --> 00:29:33,320 Because every time I challenge it, you take the piss out of me. It was you who 438 00:29:33,320 --> 00:29:34,840 was taking the piss out of me. 439 00:29:35,100 --> 00:29:39,720 I started to tell them the story about my friend and you said, oh, here we go. 440 00:29:39,920 --> 00:29:42,580 Here's this story about this woman who's it. 441 00:29:42,780 --> 00:29:43,840 One crush. 442 00:29:44,280 --> 00:29:46,380 Everything I said, one crush. 443 00:29:47,240 --> 00:29:48,240 And I'm not. 444 00:29:48,720 --> 00:29:50,560 to be crushed by you or anybody! 445 00:31:35,820 --> 00:31:42,320 I'm going to apologise because I don't see why I should have to. 446 00:31:47,460 --> 00:31:48,760 I don't want to shout. 447 00:31:49,380 --> 00:31:51,380 I don't like shouting, but... 448 00:31:51,380 --> 00:31:58,260 I would 449 00:31:58,260 --> 00:32:00,980 like it if you could understand that... 450 00:32:05,680 --> 00:32:07,320 What we did when we were young. 451 00:32:09,120 --> 00:32:16,040 We got this home and we had the children and we absolutely did it. 452 00:32:18,560 --> 00:32:22,980 But there was so much that I didn't do. 453 00:32:23,440 --> 00:32:29,560 Things I really achingly wanted to do and just 454 00:32:29,560 --> 00:32:31,200 couldn't do them. 455 00:32:34,220 --> 00:32:35,400 And now... 456 00:32:37,770 --> 00:32:39,390 We don't have those responsibilities. 457 00:32:40,290 --> 00:32:46,670 And I'm not in my late 20s or early 30s, but I am absolutely 458 00:32:46,670 --> 00:32:48,910 in my prime. 459 00:32:52,290 --> 00:32:53,370 My prime. 460 00:32:58,910 --> 00:33:03,050 And I'm not going to waste it. 461 00:33:07,660 --> 00:33:09,280 I'm going to do this with or without you. 462 00:35:21,319 --> 00:35:22,319 Sorry, John. 463 00:35:29,800 --> 00:35:30,800 Please. 464 00:36:21,130 --> 00:36:25,210 Nice room, very bachelory. You know, 465 00:36:26,530 --> 00:36:33,150 the big TV and the big sofa and that's kind of 466 00:36:33,150 --> 00:36:34,830 all you need. 467 00:36:35,930 --> 00:36:37,070 All you need indeed. 468 00:36:38,170 --> 00:36:39,170 Why are you here? 469 00:36:39,810 --> 00:36:40,930 Why am I here? 470 00:36:43,370 --> 00:36:49,570 Well, because there's this thing that passes between... 471 00:36:50,030 --> 00:36:56,710 two people and I think it's passing between us. 472 00:37:00,270 --> 00:37:07,250 And I'm not going to pretend it's not happening. 473 00:37:10,410 --> 00:37:13,590 And I want it. 474 00:38:44,760 --> 00:38:45,760 Hey. 475 00:38:47,260 --> 00:38:48,260 Hey. 476 00:41:22,920 --> 00:41:23,920 Maria. 477 00:42:52,060 --> 00:42:53,120 Wasn't sure if you were coming back.