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Rendezvous, a little nest for two
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Just up the road from True Love Avenue
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The skies are blue
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And winter daisies bloom
where old plants grew
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I'll stay for you
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And we will wait to see the sunrise
with a top of hill of gold
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And we will kiss beneath the ruby rain...
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Oh, we will hear the wind before the call
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Catch flying stars before they fall
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Someday
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When skies are blue
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Will you meet me there on True Love Avenue
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We will kiss beneath the ruby rain again
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And when the wildflower bends, oh,
with the wind
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We'll see the red sunrise
on True Love Avenue
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Will you meet me there on True Love Avenue
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We will kiss beneath the ruby rain again
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And when the wildflower bends, oh
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With the wind we'll see the red...
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...begin today our celebration
of the sacrament of baptism.
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We pray for these children,
set them free from original sin
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make them a temple of your glory
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and send the Holy Spirit
to dwell with them.
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We ask this through Christ our Lord. Amen.
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- Look at Jenny with that baby.
- Reject sin.
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- Don't start, Rose.
- Start what?
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You know.
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Well, look at her.
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And that clock has started ticking.
What's she waiting for?
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- A husband.
- I know that, Eddie.
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I just don't understand why
she hasn't found anybody yet.
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Profess your faith in Jesus Christ.
This is the faith of the church.
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This is the faith in which these children
are about to be baptized.
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- Do you reject Satan?
- I do.
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- And all his empty promises?
- I do.
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- And all his works?
- I do.
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You have to answer.
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What if I don't believe in Satan?
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Or that all the works
attributed to him are evil?
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Oh, just answer, will you?
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I do.
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- What was that all about?
- I don't know.
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She feels guilty about something.
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Guilty? About what?
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I don't know.
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But she feels guilty.
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And the bread's on top of the microwave
and it goes in the blue basket.
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I know where the bread goes, Mom.
I used to live here remember?
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- And I already put it in the red basket.
- But I always serve it in the blue basket.
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- They're exactly the same.
- But... they aren't.
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They're two different colors.
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Okay, I'll put the bread
in the blue basket.
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- Where's Jenny?
- Who knows?
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- Mom and I are doing all this ourselves.
- I offered to help.
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We don't want your help, it's your day.
And it's almost done anyway.
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Hey, where you been?
I got somebody I want you to meet.
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I don't have time, I have to
help Mom and Anne with the food.
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No, you don't, you can help us clean up.
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All you have to do is say hello.
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Hey, Tommy, I want you
to meet my sister Jenny.
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It's nice to meet you. Your brother's
told me so much about you.
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Tommy just transferred here
from our New York office.
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New York, that's a big change.
But I'm sure you'll love Cleveland.
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It's got a very rich cultural heritage.
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I've got to leave but... would it be
alright if I called you sometime?
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Yeah. Sure. Sure.
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- Yeah, don't bother calling.
- Why not?
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She won't call back.
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- Strike 43.
- Oh, shut up, Anne.
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I don't know why we keep trying.
That guy is cute.
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If you keep on being so picky
you're going to end up alone.
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You know... did it ever occur
to you that I might actually be
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in a relationship with somebody?
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No, are you?
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It doesn't matter if I am or I'm not.
Why does everybody always assume I'm not?
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Because you never bring anybody home
and you never mention it.
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The only people we've ever met
are your roommate
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and that pack of friends
you do everything with.
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If there is somebody,
what's wrong with him?
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He's married, isn't he?
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- She said it?
- No, but she didn't deny it.
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And I could tell from her face.
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I just don't believe
she'd do something like that.
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I hope he doesn't have kids.
Do you know how long it's been going on?
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What are you doing out there, Frankie?
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Just making some phone calls.
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She's not going to tell me anything.
I have everything she wants.
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Two kids and a husband.
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I know.
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I am not involved with a married man.
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Good.
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Not that you're going to do
what I say anymore.
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At your age what you do
is... is your business.
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Like me. Sitting here.
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Having a quiet smoke
that nobody needs to know about.
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Have I ever told on you?
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No.
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That Anne has such a big mouth.
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If she has to gossip about something
she should at least get her story straight.
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You should leave Anne alone.
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You don't know what it's like
being married to a guy like Frankie.
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I don't know what it's like
to be married at all.
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- You sound like that's what you want.
- Doesn't everybody?
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I guess.
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It's probably why they don't always do it
for the right reasons.
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What's the right reasons?
Somebody's got your back?
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What are you, a Marine?
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No, it's because you...
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you meet the right person.
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And when you meet the right person,
you... you go the distance.
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And let me tell you about the distance.
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Everybody changes.
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But if you're with the right person
and they change...
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you meet the right person all over again.
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Well, Anne did get something right.
I am seeing somebody.
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Yeah? Who?
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Just somebody but...
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it is the right person.
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So when's the wedding?
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I don't know.
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And I'm cold. Going in, okay?
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Okay.
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- Jenny?
- Yeah?
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Come here, I wanna talk to you.
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Anne got it all wrong. I told her she
didn't know anything about my private life,
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not that I was dating a married man.
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Oh, well, I'm glad to hear that.
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- You believe me just like that?
- Of course I believe you.
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You never lie.
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You know... it's time for you to start
thinking about what you want.
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- What?
- The china or the crystal.
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I'm giving the silver
to Michael and Lorraine
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so you and Anne have to decide who wants
the china and who wants the crystal.
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- You mean when you're dead?
- Yes.
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You know I don't wanna have
this conversation, Mom.
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Well, maybe not but this isn't something
you can just leave till the last minute.
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What are you doing? I'll drop the glasses.
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I love you, Mom.
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I love you too.
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But if you don't let go there won't be
any glasses to give away.
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The truth is I'm hoping
you take the crystal.
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Why?
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Anne's like your father, they're careless.
It'll all be broken in a month.
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But you take care of your things.
You're like me.
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What makes you think the guy
isn't serious about her?
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I don't know. She...
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she didn't wanna talk about it.
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I'm a fireman, you know, I know men.
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I can hear these guys on the phone
stringing these girls along.
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I'm telling you, even if she's ready,
this guy hasn't stepped up to the plate
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and she doesn't think he's going to.
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I wonder why she didn't tell me.
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Oh, she didn't really tell me,
it just kind of...
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slipped out,
and then she was sorry it did.
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She's always been so secretive.
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Not when she was little.
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She was really open when she was little.
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Yeah. She was.
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I wonder what happened.
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Who knows?
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Potato chips?
Bad time at the old homestead?
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It was okay.
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You didn't have the traditional
fight with your sister?
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No, but we came close. She told everyone
I was dating a married man.
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And your brother didn't try
to fix you up again?
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He did. With a very cute guy this time.
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I need to talk to you.
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I hope you wanna talk about
getting another roommate in here
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because I don't think I can afford
this place much longer if we don't.
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No, that's not it.
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I've decided...
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I want to get married.
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And have a family.
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I never thought I would hear you say that.
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What happened?
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I was talking with my dad tonight
and the things he said, it...
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it made me realize how much I'm missing.
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Did you tell him who you wanna marry?
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No.
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Well, don't you think you should tell them
you're marrying me before the ceremony?
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Marian's daughter is back in rehab.
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Son-in-law disappeared
and they have the grandchildren.
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Poor Marian.
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It's her own fault,
she never put the time in.
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- We've been lucky with our kids, Ellen.
- It wasn't luck. It was hard work.
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Who else is gonna teach them
right from wrong?
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This would look good on Anne.
I'll get two.
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How are she and Frankie doing?
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Oh, the same, and she has to put up
with that family of his too.
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That girl's got her crosses to bear.
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- Has Karen found a job?
- Not yet.
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It's hard with two kids.
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I said I'd take care of them,
but she is a good mother.
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- She wants to be with them.
- What about Bobby?
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Well, he can't...
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take a job while he's trying to raise
money to open his own repair shop.
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It takes all his energy.
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But at least they are a happy couple
and that's the most important thing.
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- How's Jenny?
- Jenny's fine.
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And I think she's finally found someone.
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- No! Is it serious?
- I think it is.
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She said she wants to talk
to us about something.
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Then it's serious.
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The guy's a bum, that's all I know.
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- How do you know that?
- Because we haven't met him.
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What kind of guy doesn't want
to meet his girlfriend's family?
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- A bum.
- Yeah.
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- What's he do?
- I don't know.
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She doesn't talk about him.
I don't even know his name.
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Anyway she does say she's got
something important to tell us.
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Well, it sounds like this is it.
He popped the question.
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- Maybe.
- It could be okay, Eddie.
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Jenny's a good girl.
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You know, you gotta lose some weight.
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Why? I don't climb ladders anymore.
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- They'll bust you.
- Yeah, well.
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You coming over for a drink later?
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Ellen and I wouldn't miss
your anniversary party.
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Little taste.
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More onions. Okay. I'll see ya later.
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Alright.
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No, I'm not okay. I'm still... carsick.
Once it starts it just doesn't stop.
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You're not carsick,
you're just afraid to go in there.
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So what if I am?
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So you won't be able to do this
if you're going in ashamed of who you are.
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I'm not, I'm not ashamed of who I am.
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You always say that,
but I'm still kind of confused
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as to why you've told everybody
except your family.
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Because they... they live in a small
world and they like it in there
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and I've just never found
the right time to...
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drop the bomb.
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You've been lying for a long time.
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That's what you're really afraid of.
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When you tell them it's gonna change
the way they see you.
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- You need to do this on your own.
- What?
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It's between you and your parents.
I'll just be in the way.
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Just call me when it's done.
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- Jenny?
- Yeah. It's me.
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Yeah, I know. Where's Kitty?
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Oh, she... she had to go
'cause there was...
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an emergency at the school. Yeah, I think.
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- What kind of emergency?
- A flood.
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A flood?
What's she gonna do about a flood?
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- I don't know. Happy anniversary.
- Oh, thank you.
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00:14:58,640 --> 00:14:59,800
- Alright, come on.
- Okay.
246
00:14:59,920 --> 00:15:03,800
- Jenny's here, everybody.
- Finally Jenny's here.
247
00:15:03,920 --> 00:15:06,820
- Jenny.
- Where's Kitty?
248
00:15:06,920 --> 00:15:09,180
She had to take care
of a flood at the school.
249
00:15:09,280 --> 00:15:10,760
What does Kitty know about floods?
250
00:15:10,880 --> 00:15:14,000
Can I talk to you upstairs?
There's something I need to tell you.
251
00:15:26,480 --> 00:15:28,920
Please say something, Jenny.
252
00:15:31,960 --> 00:15:34,020
We thought you were going
to tell us you're getting married.
253
00:15:34,120 --> 00:15:38,020
But it doesn't look like that now.
What happened, honey, did you break up?
254
00:15:38,120 --> 00:15:39,840
No.
255
00:15:40,520 --> 00:15:42,680
Then what is it?
256
00:15:44,160 --> 00:15:47,460
- What do you wanna tell me?
- This isn't gonna be easy for you.
257
00:15:47,560 --> 00:15:50,100
- Are you sick?
- No.
258
00:15:50,200 --> 00:15:53,020
Then what is it, honey?
What could possibly be so hard for me?
259
00:15:53,120 --> 00:15:55,080
I'm gay.
260
00:15:56,320 --> 00:15:57,760
What?
261
00:15:59,160 --> 00:16:01,320
I'm gay, Mom.
262
00:16:02,480 --> 00:16:04,240
You're...
263
00:16:07,000 --> 00:16:08,680
What?
264
00:16:08,880 --> 00:16:11,040
I'm a lesbian.
265
00:16:11,600 --> 00:16:13,100
I'm gay.
266
00:16:13,200 --> 00:16:15,000
But...
267
00:16:15,920 --> 00:16:18,140
But what about the guy?
268
00:16:18,240 --> 00:16:21,400
There is no guy. There's never been a guy.
269
00:16:21,520 --> 00:16:23,440
All these years...
270
00:16:23,560 --> 00:16:26,000
you made them up and I...
271
00:16:26,320 --> 00:16:28,760
I just went along with it.
272
00:16:31,160 --> 00:16:32,700
But...
273
00:16:32,800 --> 00:16:35,480
But I don't... I don't understand.
274
00:16:38,800 --> 00:16:41,260
How long have you known this?
275
00:16:41,360 --> 00:16:43,960
- Always.
- And I missed it?
276
00:16:44,080 --> 00:16:46,140
How did... how could I miss
something like this?
277
00:16:46,240 --> 00:16:49,960
You wanted to. You didn't want
to know and I knew that.
278
00:16:50,520 --> 00:16:54,220
Didn't you ever wonder why you
never met any of these boyfriends?
279
00:16:54,320 --> 00:16:56,480
You always broke up
with them before I could.
280
00:16:56,600 --> 00:16:59,320
No, I didn't. I just...
281
00:16:59,440 --> 00:17:02,200
let you think what you wanted to think.
282
00:17:02,320 --> 00:17:05,500
I thought you were...
you were waiting. I...
283
00:17:05,600 --> 00:17:09,160
- For what?
- I thought...
284
00:17:10,840 --> 00:17:13,340
- What did we do wrong?
- Nothing.
285
00:17:13,440 --> 00:17:18,320
You didn't do anything wrong.
This is just... how I am.
286
00:17:18,440 --> 00:17:22,960
But you're... but you're...
you're like me, you know?
287
00:17:23,600 --> 00:17:27,040
We even like the same things. I always...
288
00:17:27,160 --> 00:17:31,320
- I always thought you were like me.
- That hasn't changed.
289
00:17:31,600 --> 00:17:35,380
I am like you.
I'm still the same person, Mom.
290
00:17:35,480 --> 00:17:37,200
No.
291
00:17:37,560 --> 00:17:39,720
You're not.
292
00:17:40,920 --> 00:17:44,200
You've been lying to me for years.
293
00:17:51,520 --> 00:17:54,260
Your father will have to know
and you should tell him.
294
00:17:54,360 --> 00:17:58,840
I was going to tell you both at the same
time but everybody was staring at me.
295
00:18:00,240 --> 00:18:02,760
He needs to know before...
296
00:18:03,240 --> 00:18:05,640
before I tell everybody else.
297
00:18:07,080 --> 00:18:10,780
- You're telling other people?
- I have to tell Anne and Michael.
298
00:18:10,880 --> 00:18:13,400
I'm going to tell everybody.
299
00:18:14,160 --> 00:18:16,360
Kitty and I wanna get married, Mom.
300
00:18:21,480 --> 00:18:23,700
You're marrying your roommate?
301
00:18:23,800 --> 00:18:26,200
She's not my roommate.
302
00:18:26,320 --> 00:18:29,520
We've been partners
for five years now and...
303
00:18:29,840 --> 00:18:33,080
- we wanna start a family.
- A family?
304
00:18:33,200 --> 00:18:36,720
Yeah. It's what you're always
talking about, isn't it?
305
00:18:37,200 --> 00:18:40,120
And we want a big wedding.
With everybody there.
306
00:18:40,240 --> 00:18:43,700
Friends and family. We want a wedding
like Anne and Michael had.
307
00:18:43,800 --> 00:18:47,800
I want... I want you and Dad
to give me away.
308
00:18:50,840 --> 00:18:53,120
Do what you're gonna do.
309
00:18:53,400 --> 00:18:56,840
But I'm asking you, for my sake...
310
00:18:57,120 --> 00:18:59,280
not to tell everybody else.
311
00:18:59,400 --> 00:19:01,400
Not yet.
312
00:19:01,800 --> 00:19:03,520
Why?
313
00:19:04,880 --> 00:19:07,440
'Cause if you do, nothing
will ever be the same again.
314
00:19:07,560 --> 00:19:10,480
Nothing is the same anymore, Mom.
315
00:19:10,600 --> 00:19:13,940
Maybe not for you but...
but your life isn't here anymore
316
00:19:14,040 --> 00:19:17,740
and if you don't like what happens
you can go away. I can't.
317
00:19:17,840 --> 00:19:20,220
This place, these people...
318
00:19:20,320 --> 00:19:24,200
they're my life and I have to stay here.
I have to live with them.
319
00:19:24,560 --> 00:19:28,820
Oh, I love you, Jenny.
Nothing could ever change that.
320
00:19:28,920 --> 00:19:33,440
But I have a life too and you
can't just change my life on me.
321
00:19:39,840 --> 00:19:42,640
It's not like I'm living
in the past, I'm not.
322
00:19:42,760 --> 00:19:45,780
I know times have changed,
anything goes these days.
323
00:19:45,880 --> 00:19:49,120
I read the papers, I watch TV.
324
00:19:50,280 --> 00:19:55,180
But... but I don't know personally,
anybody in this neighborhood
325
00:19:55,280 --> 00:19:57,560
whose children have...
326
00:19:58,400 --> 00:20:00,200
you know...
327
00:20:02,160 --> 00:20:05,840
- Maybe they all left.
- What?
328
00:20:05,960 --> 00:20:08,240
The neighborhood,
maybe they left the neighborhood.
329
00:20:08,360 --> 00:20:11,020
- I'm sure they did.
- And the lying, all that lying.
330
00:20:11,120 --> 00:20:15,100
Even though I know why you did it,
it's still a hard pill to swallow.
331
00:20:15,200 --> 00:20:18,060
And now a wedding.
332
00:20:18,160 --> 00:20:20,280
Starting a family.
333
00:20:20,400 --> 00:20:22,180
I mean...
334
00:20:22,280 --> 00:20:26,220
we're... we're ordinary people,
not, you know... rebels.
335
00:20:26,320 --> 00:20:28,140
Neither am I.
336
00:20:28,240 --> 00:20:31,640
I just want what you gave
Anne and Michael.
337
00:20:33,800 --> 00:20:36,500
I only did this because of you.
338
00:20:36,600 --> 00:20:37,680
What?
339
00:20:37,800 --> 00:20:42,760
You told me if you meet the right person
you should go the distance, and I did.
340
00:20:44,720 --> 00:20:46,780
I met the right person.
341
00:20:46,880 --> 00:20:48,200
Kitty.
342
00:20:49,840 --> 00:20:52,760
That's why I asked her to marry me
and now you're asking me...
343
00:20:52,880 --> 00:20:55,600
to hide it from my own family.
344
00:20:56,840 --> 00:20:59,500
If you tell them you'll hurt your mother.
345
00:20:59,600 --> 00:21:02,320
If I don't it will hurt me.
346
00:21:03,760 --> 00:21:06,040
What would you do?
347
00:21:08,080 --> 00:21:09,880
I don't know.
348
00:21:30,160 --> 00:21:32,320
Will someone please tell me
what's going on here?
349
00:21:33,360 --> 00:21:36,480
- You really wanna know?
- Why else would I ask?
350
00:21:41,360 --> 00:21:43,840
The married man and I broke up.
351
00:21:45,000 --> 00:21:47,440
I knew I was right about that.
352
00:21:49,520 --> 00:21:51,280
How come?
353
00:21:51,960 --> 00:21:55,480
He decided to stay with his wife.
354
00:21:55,760 --> 00:21:58,140
Well, I'm sorry, Jens. But...
355
00:21:58,240 --> 00:22:01,560
he sounds like a bastard to me.
I think you dodged a bullet.
356
00:22:02,160 --> 00:22:05,620
You don't wanna spend the rest
of your life living with a liar, do you?
357
00:22:05,720 --> 00:22:07,660
No.
358
00:22:07,760 --> 00:22:10,200
But sometimes you have to.
359
00:22:10,320 --> 00:22:14,400
- I'll fill the water glasses.
- I knew I was right about the married man.
360
00:22:33,760 --> 00:22:35,320
Well?
361
00:22:35,760 --> 00:22:38,160
- You did it.
- I did it.
362
00:22:38,280 --> 00:22:41,100
- Are you... okay?
- Yeah.
363
00:22:41,200 --> 00:22:45,020
Even though I lied to my sister. I am.
364
00:22:45,120 --> 00:22:46,880
Thanks.
365
00:22:47,080 --> 00:22:49,800
Telling my parents feels like...
366
00:22:50,120 --> 00:22:52,600
being let out of prison.
367
00:22:55,320 --> 00:22:56,900
Look...
368
00:22:57,000 --> 00:23:01,680
if you've changed your mind
about getting married...
369
00:23:01,960 --> 00:23:04,080
I'm okay with that.
370
00:23:04,720 --> 00:23:07,720
Why would I change my mind
about getting married?
371
00:23:08,720 --> 00:23:12,500
Your family. I know how important
they are to you.
372
00:23:12,600 --> 00:23:16,380
No. My family is not marrying you, I am.
373
00:23:16,480 --> 00:23:18,060
And I have never been more certain
374
00:23:18,160 --> 00:23:21,760
about anything in my entire life
than I am about marrying you.
375
00:23:34,960 --> 00:23:37,360
I wonder who proposed.
376
00:23:38,200 --> 00:23:40,160
She did.
377
00:23:40,880 --> 00:23:42,800
She did.
378
00:23:43,800 --> 00:23:47,920
She said... "Kitty, will you marry me?"
379
00:23:49,480 --> 00:23:51,920
"Kitty, let's start a family."
380
00:23:53,920 --> 00:23:57,280
All these years living a secret life.
381
00:24:01,680 --> 00:24:03,740
I thought I knew her.
382
00:24:03,840 --> 00:24:06,640
Then I find out I don't know her at all.
383
00:24:08,720 --> 00:24:10,480
She's...
384
00:24:10,920 --> 00:24:14,420
She's the same person. She just
left a few things out, that's all.
385
00:24:14,520 --> 00:24:19,360
Eddie, what she left out is who she is.
Being private isn't the same as lying.
386
00:24:19,840 --> 00:24:24,280
Well, you just asked her to keep on lying
so let's stop talking about the lying part.
387
00:24:24,400 --> 00:24:27,960
I never asked her to lie. All I did
was ask her not to tell everybody.
388
00:24:28,080 --> 00:24:30,480
She didn't have to lie to Anne.
389
00:24:30,960 --> 00:24:33,280
And now that she's ready to tell
the whole world the truth,
390
00:24:33,400 --> 00:24:36,380
we're just supposed to go along with it.
391
00:24:36,480 --> 00:24:38,220
You remember our daughter
Jenny, don't you?
392
00:24:38,320 --> 00:24:40,340
Guess what,
she's a completely different person.
393
00:24:40,440 --> 00:24:42,520
Yeah, well, let's just drop it, okay,
394
00:24:42,640 --> 00:24:46,480
because you know, she's doing what
you wanted her to do and that's that.
395
00:24:50,640 --> 00:24:53,520
We have a life too, don't we?
396
00:24:53,640 --> 00:24:55,020
Yes.
397
00:24:55,120 --> 00:24:57,880
This isn't just about her.
398
00:24:58,000 --> 00:24:59,760
No.
399
00:25:02,520 --> 00:25:05,080
What do you think I should have done?
400
00:25:06,440 --> 00:25:09,960
All you can do... is what you do.
401
00:25:11,400 --> 00:25:13,040
What?
402
00:25:13,160 --> 00:25:16,180
All you can do... is what you do.
403
00:25:16,280 --> 00:25:18,200
What does that mean?
404
00:25:18,320 --> 00:25:21,040
It means what it means.
405
00:25:31,400 --> 00:25:33,080
Hello?
406
00:25:33,200 --> 00:25:36,820
- Hi, Mom. It's me.
- Jenny. How are you?
407
00:25:36,920 --> 00:25:40,240
- I'm good, how are you?
- I'm fine.
408
00:25:44,240 --> 00:25:48,240
- How are things?
- Great. Things are great.
409
00:25:48,360 --> 00:25:50,840
How are things with you?
410
00:25:50,960 --> 00:25:53,760
Things are great.
411
00:25:55,760 --> 00:25:57,320
Well...
412
00:25:57,440 --> 00:26:00,300
I... I better go.
413
00:26:00,400 --> 00:26:03,800
Okay, dear. Have a nice day.
414
00:26:04,880 --> 00:26:07,100
You have a nice day too.
415
00:26:07,200 --> 00:26:08,720
I love you.
416
00:26:09,680 --> 00:26:11,720
Love you too.
417
00:26:33,680 --> 00:26:35,960
Why are we doing this? I'm freezing.
418
00:26:36,080 --> 00:26:40,720
- It was your idea to get more exercise.
- No, it wasn't. It was Jenny's.
419
00:26:40,840 --> 00:26:42,880
Okay, I'm done.
420
00:26:43,920 --> 00:26:47,800
- How is Jenny by the way?
- Jenny... Jenny's fine.
421
00:26:49,320 --> 00:26:52,620
She looked strange
at your anniversary party.
422
00:26:52,720 --> 00:26:55,540
- Did she?
- Unhappy.
423
00:26:55,640 --> 00:26:57,600
I didn't see it.
424
00:27:00,120 --> 00:27:03,280
Anne told Karen about the married man.
425
00:27:03,480 --> 00:27:04,840
Anne has a big mouth.
426
00:27:04,960 --> 00:27:09,320
They weren't gossiping.
Our girls are like sisters.
427
00:27:10,760 --> 00:27:13,680
- Did you ever meet him?
- No.
428
00:27:13,800 --> 00:27:16,380
Well, at least it's over.
429
00:27:16,480 --> 00:27:19,040
Anyway, that's what Karen said.
430
00:27:20,480 --> 00:27:23,160
- It is, isn't it?
- What?
431
00:27:23,280 --> 00:27:25,240
Over.
432
00:27:25,360 --> 00:27:27,200
Yes.
433
00:27:28,920 --> 00:27:31,960
Why are you acting so weird?
434
00:27:32,080 --> 00:27:35,120
- How am I acting weird?
- All secretive.
435
00:27:35,240 --> 00:27:38,620
Like, I'm sticking my nose
in your business.
436
00:27:38,720 --> 00:27:42,360
We've been talking to each other
about everything for 45 years
437
00:27:42,480 --> 00:27:47,280
- and Jenny is like one of my own.
- I know that, Ellen. I know.
438
00:27:47,400 --> 00:27:51,160
Then why are you acting
like I'm a busybody?
439
00:27:51,280 --> 00:27:54,000
I'm upset.
440
00:27:55,720 --> 00:27:58,120
About the married man.
441
00:27:59,720 --> 00:28:02,200
It's probably just a phase.
442
00:28:03,600 --> 00:28:06,520
Is it somebody she works with?
443
00:28:07,200 --> 00:28:11,240
- Not her boss?
- No, not her boss. It's another...
444
00:28:12,160 --> 00:28:13,580
Another social worker.
445
00:28:13,680 --> 00:28:17,000
- Any kids?
- No, no kids, let's go.
446
00:28:17,440 --> 00:28:19,720
Well, that's a blessing.
447
00:28:20,680 --> 00:28:23,100
Oh, don't worry too much, Rose.
448
00:28:23,200 --> 00:28:26,560
She's gonna be fine, she's got you.
449
00:28:35,760 --> 00:28:39,200
- Dad. What are you doing here?
- Well, I was in the neighborhood.
450
00:28:39,760 --> 00:28:41,940
You never come over here.
451
00:28:42,040 --> 00:28:45,840
Well, I... I had to buy some equipment.
452
00:28:45,960 --> 00:28:48,020
What kind of equipment
do they sell around here?
453
00:28:48,120 --> 00:28:51,680
Well, you know, just equipment stuff.
It's not worth talking about.
454
00:28:51,800 --> 00:28:53,920
You wanna have some lunch
or is this a bad time for you?
455
00:28:54,040 --> 00:28:56,440
No, I'm starving...
456
00:28:56,560 --> 00:28:59,540
and it is always a bad time around here.
457
00:28:59,640 --> 00:29:02,700
The last stop for kids nobody wants and...
458
00:29:02,800 --> 00:29:07,160
- I'm supposed to find homes for them all.
- Well, you always do.
459
00:29:09,200 --> 00:29:11,960
You have too high an opinion of me, Dad.
460
00:29:16,720 --> 00:29:19,100
Michael's coming around to help
re-build the fence next week.
461
00:29:19,200 --> 00:29:20,460
- Yeah, he mentioned that.
- Yeah.
462
00:29:20,560 --> 00:29:22,620
What about Anne and Frankie,
you seen them?
463
00:29:22,720 --> 00:29:25,040
Not in a couple of weeks.
464
00:29:25,400 --> 00:29:29,580
They're... they're going away next weekend
they asked us to look after the kids.
465
00:29:29,680 --> 00:29:32,460
But we've got the bowling tournament so...
466
00:29:32,560 --> 00:29:35,340
so I guess they'll ask
Michael and Lorraine.
467
00:29:35,440 --> 00:29:37,420
They asked us.
468
00:29:37,520 --> 00:29:41,200
Well... those kids are crazy about you.
469
00:29:41,320 --> 00:29:46,160
No, it's Kitty that they love.
She's really fantastic with kids.
470
00:29:48,280 --> 00:29:52,180
So... it's almost Turkey Day.
Your favorite holiday.
471
00:29:52,280 --> 00:29:55,840
Yeah, I hope I can cook
one as good as Mom does.
472
00:29:56,640 --> 00:29:59,340
Well, you're gonna cook your own?
473
00:29:59,440 --> 00:30:00,600
Yeah.
474
00:30:01,840 --> 00:30:04,400
Yeah, Kitty and I are gonna have
a couple friends over.
475
00:30:07,440 --> 00:30:09,300
So...
476
00:30:09,400 --> 00:30:11,800
what do you want, Jenny?
477
00:30:13,280 --> 00:30:15,520
What do I want?
478
00:30:17,240 --> 00:30:19,240
Don't you know?
479
00:30:20,040 --> 00:30:21,760
Ribs.
480
00:30:22,240 --> 00:30:24,020
- What?
- Yeah. I know how much you love ribs.
481
00:30:24,120 --> 00:30:28,700
I was thinking maybe, you know,
Chinese but if you want ribs...
482
00:30:28,800 --> 00:30:30,740
I'm happy with that.
483
00:30:30,840 --> 00:30:33,460
Yeah, yeah, ribs. Let's do ribs then.
484
00:30:33,560 --> 00:30:35,660
- Okay.
- Okay.
485
00:30:35,760 --> 00:30:37,520
Come on.
486
00:30:38,440 --> 00:30:41,000
She's always been here for Thanksgiving.
487
00:30:42,480 --> 00:30:44,640
Not this year.
488
00:30:48,000 --> 00:30:52,320
I don't get what you mean when you say...
she looks happy.
489
00:30:53,200 --> 00:30:57,960
I mean, she looks happy. What else
does happy mean, it means happy.
490
00:30:58,800 --> 00:31:02,160
How can she be happy
with everything that's going on?
491
00:31:07,360 --> 00:31:09,800
This is bad, Rose.
492
00:31:10,120 --> 00:31:13,920
- What's bad?
- Wanting her to be unhappy.
493
00:31:15,480 --> 00:31:19,340
I don't want her to be unhappy.
Why would I want that?
494
00:31:19,440 --> 00:31:21,720
Because we are.
495
00:31:34,680 --> 00:31:37,440
I couldn't believe that they're screaming,
"My baby, my baby,"
496
00:31:37,560 --> 00:31:40,860
I climb all the way up to the top of
the stairs, and all I find is a dead cat.
497
00:31:40,960 --> 00:31:42,680
- Jesus.
- Who was that?
498
00:31:42,800 --> 00:31:45,240
The two bull dykes on the top floor.
499
00:31:45,360 --> 00:31:47,760
- Don't call them that.
- What?
500
00:31:47,880 --> 00:31:50,240
- Bull dykes, don't call them bull dykes.
- Why not?
501
00:31:50,440 --> 00:31:52,940
Because they're people, that's why.
People like you and me.
502
00:31:53,040 --> 00:31:56,760
Oh, I'm sorry, I should have said
the two bull people on the top floor.
503
00:32:00,200 --> 00:32:04,360
- What's eating him?
- Bobby, just let it go. Eddie.
504
00:32:04,920 --> 00:32:07,040
Eddie, listen.
505
00:32:07,640 --> 00:32:10,440
Ellen told me what Jenny wanted
to talk to you guys about.
506
00:32:10,560 --> 00:32:13,220
- I'm sorry.
- How does Ellen know?
507
00:32:13,320 --> 00:32:15,980
Well, you know...
stuff gets around, but, you know,
508
00:32:16,080 --> 00:32:19,320
I'll be there if you ever want
to punch this asshole's lights out.
509
00:32:19,440 --> 00:32:23,240
- Punch Kitty?
- The married guy's name is Kitty?
510
00:32:24,560 --> 00:32:28,240
Yeah, yeah, yeah. Ted... Ted Kitty.
511
00:32:36,720 --> 00:32:39,340
- Mrs. Farrell?
- Oh, my God!
512
00:32:39,440 --> 00:32:42,580
- Barbara Ellen, you scared me!
- I'm so sorry. Do you remember me?
513
00:32:42,680 --> 00:32:45,560
Of course, I remember you.
You went to school with Jenny.
514
00:32:45,680 --> 00:32:48,700
And you didn't scare me,
I was just staring at this dress.
515
00:32:48,800 --> 00:32:51,860
It's beautiful, isn't it?
It's not right on me.
516
00:32:51,960 --> 00:32:54,980
- You're getting married?
- Yeah. I'm meeting my mother inside.
517
00:32:55,080 --> 00:32:58,160
- How's Jenny?
- Jenny is just great.
518
00:32:58,280 --> 00:33:00,700
I haven't seen her since high school.
Is she married?
519
00:33:00,800 --> 00:33:03,980
No. No, she isn't. No.
520
00:33:04,080 --> 00:33:06,940
She's just... completely caught up...
521
00:33:07,040 --> 00:33:10,080
in her career,
she's... she's a social worker.
522
00:33:10,480 --> 00:33:12,600
She handles very disturbed children.
523
00:33:12,720 --> 00:33:15,500
Complicated cases,
the ones no one else can touch.
524
00:33:15,600 --> 00:33:17,180
She's wonderful at it.
525
00:33:17,280 --> 00:33:20,240
- I guess some women are just like that.
- Like what?
526
00:33:20,360 --> 00:33:23,880
More caught up in their work
than their emotions. Born career gals.
527
00:33:24,160 --> 00:33:26,580
I don't... I don't know
what makes you think that...
528
00:33:26,680 --> 00:33:31,000
career gals don't have emotions.
Jenny is picky even about food.
529
00:33:31,120 --> 00:33:33,840
But she has strong emotions
and not throwing herself
530
00:33:33,960 --> 00:33:37,140
at the first person that comes along is
a sign of character. Not a lack of emotion.
531
00:33:37,240 --> 00:33:39,000
- I'm sure.
- The truth is...
532
00:33:39,120 --> 00:33:43,260
Jenny is... is very involved with
a highly respected man in her field
533
00:33:43,360 --> 00:33:45,460
and I wouldn't be surprised
if it led to a wedding.
534
00:33:45,560 --> 00:33:47,640
- So you don't need to worry about Jenny.
- I wasn't.
535
00:33:47,760 --> 00:33:51,220
No, of course not. Why would you be?
536
00:33:51,320 --> 00:33:54,300
You know, my mother's waiting for me
inside Mrs. Farrell, so I better go.
537
00:33:54,400 --> 00:33:57,100
It was very nice to see you,
Barbara Ellen. All the best.
538
00:33:57,200 --> 00:33:59,480
Thank you, Mrs. Farrell.
539
00:34:09,720 --> 00:34:11,460
You're late.
540
00:34:11,560 --> 00:34:13,240
I know.
541
00:34:13,680 --> 00:34:16,020
- You take 90?
- Yeah.
542
00:34:16,120 --> 00:34:19,080
- What time?
- 4:30.
543
00:34:19,520 --> 00:34:22,160
You never take 90 after 4:00,
you know that.
544
00:34:22,280 --> 00:34:25,400
- Always take Carnegie.
- It's longer.
545
00:34:25,520 --> 00:34:29,200
Less traffic.
I always take Carnegie after 4:00.
546
00:34:34,640 --> 00:34:36,660
It's my fault, isn't it?
547
00:34:36,760 --> 00:34:39,080
You're the one who took 90.
548
00:34:40,200 --> 00:34:42,800
I mean Jenny. It's my fault.
549
00:34:43,640 --> 00:34:47,240
I know they say,
it's how you're born now, but...
550
00:34:47,640 --> 00:34:49,880
I don't know, I wonder.
551
00:34:50,000 --> 00:34:52,400
And I was her role model.
I'm what she's rejecting.
552
00:34:52,520 --> 00:34:56,880
Now, don't hog all the glory, Rose.
I'm the man she grew up around.
553
00:34:57,000 --> 00:34:59,800
If she's rejecting anybody, it's me.
554
00:35:04,240 --> 00:35:06,140
I know you.
555
00:35:06,240 --> 00:35:08,200
Excuse me?
556
00:35:08,400 --> 00:35:10,860
I know you, and I know
what you're thinking.
557
00:35:10,960 --> 00:35:14,260
- What's that?
- You're blaming me.
558
00:35:14,360 --> 00:35:16,880
- What for?
- The lying!
559
00:35:17,000 --> 00:35:21,440
I'm not blaming you for lying. I'm...
I'm just doing what you wanna do.
560
00:35:21,560 --> 00:35:24,180
- Why do you keep saying that?
- Because it's true.
561
00:35:24,280 --> 00:35:28,120
Then... then let's do what you wanna do,
Eddie. You never say what you wanna do.
562
00:35:28,240 --> 00:35:30,840
- What do you wanna do?
- I wanna eat my dinner in peace and quiet.
563
00:35:30,960 --> 00:35:33,720
- That's what I wanna do.
- No, it isn't!
564
00:35:33,840 --> 00:35:36,940
You... you... you want me to be
the bad guy, that's what you want.
565
00:35:37,040 --> 00:35:38,420
It's always been that way.
566
00:35:38,520 --> 00:35:41,720
I look like the bad guy when all I'm doing
is exactly what you wanna do,
567
00:35:41,840 --> 00:35:44,520
but I end up getting blamed for it!
568
00:35:59,280 --> 00:36:01,680
I kind of like that it's not white.
569
00:36:01,920 --> 00:36:04,120
Looks like a cantaloupe.
570
00:36:05,320 --> 00:36:07,640
What about that?
571
00:36:07,920 --> 00:36:11,560
Oh, my gosh, that dress
would be perfect on you.
572
00:36:17,720 --> 00:36:21,400
- Jenny!
- I love that. I love it.
573
00:36:21,520 --> 00:36:24,240
All these dresses are so beautiful.
574
00:36:24,360 --> 00:36:26,240
Well, you gotta pick the one
you love the best
575
00:36:26,360 --> 00:36:28,600
because you only get married once.
576
00:36:32,680 --> 00:36:35,600
Oh, my gosh, I love this one.
577
00:36:35,720 --> 00:36:38,440
This is the dress for me. I love this.
578
00:36:38,560 --> 00:36:41,120
I never thought we'd be doing this.
579
00:36:41,240 --> 00:36:42,800
- Did you?
- No.
580
00:37:02,600 --> 00:37:05,100
I may have grown up
in a trailer park, Bryce,
581
00:37:05,200 --> 00:37:09,300
but I'm warning you... if I don't get
Worthing Manor in the divorce
582
00:37:09,400 --> 00:37:12,640
- everyone will know about you.
- Hello?
583
00:37:12,880 --> 00:37:15,040
Anne. What're you doing here?
584
00:37:15,160 --> 00:37:19,020
- Are you busy?
- No, just... ironing.
585
00:37:19,120 --> 00:37:20,880
Camilla told Bryce...
586
00:37:21,000 --> 00:37:24,920
if she doesn't get Worthington Manor in the
divorce settlement, she'll expose his past.
587
00:37:25,040 --> 00:37:28,480
- I saw Jenny this morning.
- Oh, yeah. Where?
588
00:37:28,600 --> 00:37:31,960
- Nordstrom.
- Oh, was there a sale?
589
00:37:32,080 --> 00:37:34,880
No. Something happened.
590
00:37:35,720 --> 00:37:38,380
I don't know if I should tell you...
591
00:37:38,480 --> 00:37:40,240
but...
592
00:37:41,000 --> 00:37:45,280
I figured somebody else will sooner or
later so it's better if it comes from me.
593
00:37:47,040 --> 00:37:50,120
She was outside
the bridal suite with Kitty.
594
00:37:50,600 --> 00:37:52,780
They're a couple, Mom.
595
00:37:52,880 --> 00:37:55,960
They were kissing each other in public.
596
00:38:00,440 --> 00:38:02,940
I should've gone up to them, but I...
597
00:38:03,040 --> 00:38:06,580
was so blown away, I couldn't and then
I didn't know what to do. If I should...
598
00:38:06,680 --> 00:38:08,180
if I should tell you or not tell you.
599
00:38:08,280 --> 00:38:12,120
And then I thought, well, you should
know before anybody else does.
600
00:38:12,240 --> 00:38:15,200
How could we have missed it
all these years?
601
00:38:15,760 --> 00:38:19,840
No boyfriends, hanging out
with all those girls all the time.
602
00:38:20,680 --> 00:38:24,320
And it looked like they were
picking out wedding dresses, Mom.
603
00:38:25,040 --> 00:38:27,280
Wedding dresses!
604
00:38:27,600 --> 00:38:29,880
They probably were.
605
00:38:30,480 --> 00:38:32,720
They're getting married.
606
00:38:32,840 --> 00:38:34,480
What?
607
00:38:36,880 --> 00:38:39,040
They're getting married.
608
00:38:39,720 --> 00:38:41,900
- You knew about them?
- Yeah.
609
00:38:42,000 --> 00:38:45,480
- Since when?
- Since...
610
00:38:46,360 --> 00:38:48,760
our anniversary party.
611
00:38:49,680 --> 00:38:53,020
So all that stuff about the married man
was a pack of lies?
612
00:38:53,120 --> 00:38:54,920
It...
613
00:38:56,440 --> 00:38:58,760
It wasn't the truth.
614
00:38:59,760 --> 00:39:03,180
- You two and your conspiracies.
- Conspiracies?
615
00:39:03,280 --> 00:39:05,680
When we were growing up,
you and little miss perfect
616
00:39:05,800 --> 00:39:10,380
belonged to a club I couldn't join.
It didn't bother Michael, he was the boy.
617
00:39:10,480 --> 00:39:12,980
But I was the outsider and I still am.
618
00:39:13,080 --> 00:39:15,580
You were never the outsider
even when you wanted to be.
619
00:39:15,680 --> 00:39:17,720
- Wanted to be!
- You were always testing us.
620
00:39:17,840 --> 00:39:20,640
Breaking the rules to see
what would happen. Jenny was easy.
621
00:39:20,760 --> 00:39:23,740
You have never loved me
as much as you love Jenny!
622
00:39:23,840 --> 00:39:25,880
That is not true!
623
00:39:26,000 --> 00:39:28,980
- Oh, I love all my children the same.
- No, you don't!
624
00:39:29,080 --> 00:39:32,540
God, if you did
you wouldn't have lied to me.
625
00:39:32,640 --> 00:39:34,480
You made a fool out me!
626
00:39:34,600 --> 00:39:37,240
Letting me go on and on
about all that married man bullshit
627
00:39:37,360 --> 00:39:39,440
just to keep your secrets!
628
00:39:39,560 --> 00:39:41,900
As usual, the two of you against me.
629
00:39:42,000 --> 00:39:44,480
What kind of love is that?
630
00:40:03,240 --> 00:40:06,100
Mom. Whatever you've got
to tell me you gotta tell me fast.
631
00:40:06,200 --> 00:40:08,340
I've gotta be in court in an hour,
and you wouldn't believe it.
632
00:40:08,440 --> 00:40:11,400
This couple left their 5-year-old
son locked in their apartment
633
00:40:11,520 --> 00:40:13,420
while they went on vacation,
and now of course they...
634
00:40:13,520 --> 00:40:15,620
- Anne knows.
- Knows what?
635
00:40:15,720 --> 00:40:18,840
About you and Kitty.
She saw you this morning at Nordstrom.
636
00:40:18,960 --> 00:40:23,600
She's... she's very angry
about being lied to.
637
00:40:25,560 --> 00:40:28,060
I know I got it wrong, I know.
638
00:40:28,160 --> 00:40:31,900
But... ever since
you were a little girl...
639
00:40:32,000 --> 00:40:34,000
I've thought about your wedding.
640
00:40:34,120 --> 00:40:38,440
I imagined helping you pick out
your silver and flatware, your china
641
00:40:38,560 --> 00:40:40,620
and helping you pick out your dress.
642
00:40:40,720 --> 00:40:42,620
Now, I don't even know
if you'll wear a dress.
643
00:40:42,720 --> 00:40:46,460
Maybe you'll wear a suit or maybe you'll
wear a dress and Kitty will wear a suit...
644
00:40:46,560 --> 00:40:49,360
- We're both wearing dresses.
- And where will you get married?
645
00:40:49,480 --> 00:40:53,660
- Not in the church, it won't allow it.
- That doesn't mean God won't allow it.
646
00:40:53,760 --> 00:40:55,880
The thing is...
647
00:40:56,240 --> 00:41:00,120
I'm not good at making things up.
648
00:41:00,240 --> 00:41:02,680
When I cook I use a cookbook.
649
00:41:02,800 --> 00:41:05,020
And the way you dance,
I don't like dancing like that.
650
00:41:05,120 --> 00:41:09,200
I like steps. I like...
I like dances with steps.
651
00:41:09,320 --> 00:41:11,940
- Like, that one, you know that one...
- The conga line?
652
00:41:12,040 --> 00:41:14,700
- Yeah.
- It doesn't have steps.
653
00:41:14,800 --> 00:41:18,460
Well, but I always do the same ones.
654
00:41:18,560 --> 00:41:20,620
I love the conga line.
655
00:41:20,720 --> 00:41:24,620
I know the steps to that one
but I don't know the steps to this one.
656
00:41:24,720 --> 00:41:28,240
And you think I do? Really?
657
00:41:28,360 --> 00:41:30,960
I don't like making it up as I go along
any more than you do,
658
00:41:31,080 --> 00:41:33,300
but I don't have a choice.
659
00:41:33,400 --> 00:41:38,540
Oh, Mom, you can pretend all you want,
that nothing has changed. But I have.
660
00:41:38,640 --> 00:41:42,740
And I'm not lying about
who I am to anybody...
661
00:41:42,840 --> 00:41:45,160
ever again. Not even for you.
662
00:41:45,520 --> 00:41:47,840
Because if I do...
663
00:41:48,120 --> 00:41:51,960
I'll ruin what's good in me.
664
00:41:52,720 --> 00:41:57,560
You... you raised me
to... to do the right thing.
665
00:41:57,680 --> 00:41:59,900
And be proud of myself.
666
00:42:00,000 --> 00:42:03,400
Don't you want me
to be that person anymore?
667
00:42:09,360 --> 00:42:13,800
The lying is over. You and Dad are gonna
have to make up your mind about me
668
00:42:13,920 --> 00:42:15,940
because I am getting married...
669
00:42:16,040 --> 00:42:17,740
and I'm going to have children.
670
00:42:17,840 --> 00:42:20,820
I'm going to have a happy and full life.
671
00:42:20,920 --> 00:42:23,800
And I'm not hiding it... anymore.
672
00:42:23,920 --> 00:42:27,520
So if you can't handle that it'll have
to be your problem from now on.
673
00:42:27,640 --> 00:42:29,480
Not mine.
674
00:43:09,200 --> 00:43:11,140
- You knew?
- Well, I...
675
00:43:11,240 --> 00:43:13,520
I mean, not for sure, but yeah, I knew.
676
00:43:14,720 --> 00:43:16,880
Since when?
677
00:43:18,040 --> 00:43:20,000
High school.
678
00:43:21,640 --> 00:43:25,280
Well, then why were you always
trying to set me up with your friends?
679
00:43:25,400 --> 00:43:27,720
Mom and Dad asked me to.
680
00:43:30,600 --> 00:43:34,800
Well, in case you're wondering
they are not coming to the wedding.
681
00:43:36,040 --> 00:43:38,680
And you don't have to either
if you don't want to.
682
00:43:38,800 --> 00:43:40,920
Why wouldn't I want to come
to your wedding?
683
00:43:41,040 --> 00:43:42,680
Because it doesn't stop there.
684
00:43:42,800 --> 00:43:45,360
We want a family,
and I'm sure you do not approve.
685
00:43:45,480 --> 00:43:47,600
God, Jenny.
686
00:43:48,200 --> 00:43:51,260
Sometimes you are really dim.
I mean, has it ever occurred to you
687
00:43:51,360 --> 00:43:55,420
that if you spend your life,
lying to people about who you are...
688
00:43:55,520 --> 00:43:57,480
you never get to know who they are.
689
00:43:58,280 --> 00:44:00,540
Look, I don't disapprove. Okay?
690
00:44:00,640 --> 00:44:04,000
I'm coming to your wedding.
You're my sister.
691
00:44:08,240 --> 00:44:11,420
You know, I just... I really
was dreading telling you.
692
00:44:11,520 --> 00:44:14,700
- Why?
- Because you're the most like Mom and Dad.
693
00:44:14,800 --> 00:44:17,600
No, I'm not, Jenny.
694
00:44:19,440 --> 00:44:21,200
You are.
695
00:45:08,240 --> 00:45:10,040
So?
696
00:45:11,280 --> 00:45:14,360
- I'm sorry.
- For what, being the favorite?
697
00:45:14,480 --> 00:45:15,340
What?
698
00:45:15,440 --> 00:45:17,720
Do you think you'd be getting away
with this if you weren't?
699
00:45:17,840 --> 00:45:22,000
First of all, this isn't a stunt, Anne.
This is my life.
700
00:45:22,120 --> 00:45:24,860
Secondly, I'm not getting away
with anything.
701
00:45:24,960 --> 00:45:29,280
I am nobody's favorite, not anymore.
So you need to just... get over it.
702
00:45:30,880 --> 00:45:33,160
Feeling unloved is not something
you just get over.
703
00:45:33,280 --> 00:45:36,060
Yes. It is. You just have to grow up.
704
00:45:36,160 --> 00:45:38,580
Why did you come here, Jenny,
to pick a fight?
705
00:45:38,680 --> 00:45:40,480
No.
706
00:45:41,320 --> 00:45:45,560
No, I... I wanted to say I was sorry
for not telling you.
707
00:45:45,960 --> 00:45:48,660
I wanted to, but Mom, couldn't handle it.
708
00:45:48,760 --> 00:45:51,260
We're sisters!
Why didn't you tell me years ago?
709
00:45:51,360 --> 00:45:54,060
Come on, Anne. We never really shared
our secrets with one another.
710
00:45:54,160 --> 00:45:55,480
And for good reason.
711
00:45:55,600 --> 00:45:59,960
Instead of just coming to me when you
saw me with Kitty you ran straight to Mom.
712
00:46:01,200 --> 00:46:02,520
Fair enough.
713
00:46:05,000 --> 00:46:07,880
- Can I come in?
- No.
714
00:46:08,440 --> 00:46:11,720
You'll over excite the kids,
and Frankie's asleep.
715
00:46:15,480 --> 00:46:17,720
But have a seat.
716
00:46:25,680 --> 00:46:28,960
- So there's something I wanna ask you...
- My wedding gown won't fit you.
717
00:46:30,120 --> 00:46:32,960
I don't wanna wear your wedding gown.
718
00:46:34,200 --> 00:46:37,560
I wanted to know
if you would be my maid of honor.
719
00:46:37,800 --> 00:46:40,300
If you don't want to, it's okay but...
720
00:46:40,400 --> 00:46:42,840
it would mean a lot to me if you would.
721
00:46:45,280 --> 00:46:48,600
- You want me to be your maid of honor?
- Well, yeah.
722
00:46:48,720 --> 00:46:51,100
I was yours, and you're my sister.
723
00:46:51,200 --> 00:46:53,200
I know, but...
724
00:46:55,360 --> 00:46:59,000
I don't know. I always felt like...
725
00:47:00,520 --> 00:47:03,720
you acted like I wasn't in your league.
726
00:47:03,920 --> 00:47:06,640
Anne... it was never that.
727
00:47:06,760 --> 00:47:09,680
Okay, it was never that. I just...
728
00:47:10,160 --> 00:47:14,320
I was in hiding. And I just really couldn't
afford to get close to you.
729
00:47:15,040 --> 00:47:16,760
Dad!
730
00:47:18,840 --> 00:47:23,080
I can't talk about this...
right now. I have to go.
731
00:47:23,600 --> 00:47:25,200
Okay.
732
00:47:25,320 --> 00:47:27,640
I'll call you later, okay?
733
00:47:29,800 --> 00:47:32,840
- How long have you been with Kitty?
- 5 years.
734
00:47:34,480 --> 00:47:37,560
When I saw you kissing,
you looked really...
735
00:47:38,360 --> 00:47:40,520
really happy.
736
00:47:45,600 --> 00:47:48,040
That grass is completely dead.
737
00:47:49,840 --> 00:47:51,840
It's winter.
738
00:47:52,480 --> 00:47:54,640
Yeah, I know, but...
739
00:47:54,920 --> 00:47:57,920
it's always dead. Even in the spring.
740
00:48:01,560 --> 00:48:03,740
Dad! Dad!
741
00:48:03,840 --> 00:48:05,800
I gotta go.
742
00:48:07,000 --> 00:48:08,920
Frankie!
743
00:48:10,040 --> 00:48:12,920
- What are you doing?
- I don't have any cash.
744
00:48:13,040 --> 00:48:15,580
Get it out of the bank like I do.
I'm not an ATM.
745
00:48:15,680 --> 00:48:17,820
Why are you all dressed up?
Where are you going?
746
00:48:17,920 --> 00:48:21,260
Didn't I tell you? Pete called.
He wants to talk to me about something.
747
00:48:21,360 --> 00:48:24,240
- Business probably.
- Business?
748
00:48:24,360 --> 00:48:27,920
You and Pete are unarmed security guards.
749
00:48:28,560 --> 00:48:31,200
Don't wait up. You know Pete.
750
00:48:32,560 --> 00:48:35,160
Why don't you ever water the grass?
751
00:48:35,720 --> 00:48:37,340
Why would I water the grass in the winter?
752
00:48:37,440 --> 00:48:41,120
Because you never water it even
in the summer and it's always dead.
753
00:48:41,240 --> 00:48:42,760
If it bothers you so much,
why don't you water it?
754
00:48:42,880 --> 00:48:44,680
Because it's not my job!
755
00:48:44,800 --> 00:48:48,840
I do everything else around here!
You could at least do that!
756
00:48:49,320 --> 00:48:51,440
I gotta go.
757
00:49:03,440 --> 00:49:08,320
I don't understand why she hasn't called.
I've left 6 messages, you've left 4.
758
00:49:08,440 --> 00:49:10,960
- 5.
- 5.
759
00:49:12,000 --> 00:49:14,780
Just things went
a little too far, that's all.
760
00:49:14,880 --> 00:49:17,100
She'll call when she calms down.
761
00:49:17,200 --> 00:49:20,120
You weren't there, Eddie.
I've never seen her like that.
762
00:49:20,240 --> 00:49:22,560
No, no. She'll calm down.
763
00:49:22,680 --> 00:49:25,840
What's she gonna do? Never call us again?
764
00:49:36,200 --> 00:49:39,440
I don't... I don't wanna go in there.
765
00:49:44,200 --> 00:49:46,560
I want you here.
766
00:49:58,000 --> 00:50:00,080
Hi, everybody.
767
00:50:03,000 --> 00:50:06,220
- Kitty.
- Hi. Mrs. Farrell, Mr. Farrell.
768
00:50:06,320 --> 00:50:07,500
Jen.
769
00:50:07,600 --> 00:50:10,260
When you didn't call back,
I didn't think you were coming.
770
00:50:10,360 --> 00:50:14,480
Of course I was coming.
Mrs. McMahan was my favorite neighbor.
771
00:50:16,160 --> 00:50:20,060
- Kitty, you remember Mr. and Mrs. O'Leary.
- Oh, yes. Yes, nice to see you again.
772
00:50:20,160 --> 00:50:23,620
Nice to see you, Kitty.
Kitty is Jenny's roommate.
773
00:50:23,720 --> 00:50:26,160
- Oh, right.
- Kitty isn't my roommate, Mrs. O'Leary.
774
00:50:26,280 --> 00:50:29,200
She is my partner,
and we've been together 5 years.
775
00:50:29,480 --> 00:50:31,840
We're getting married.
776
00:50:31,960 --> 00:50:36,000
We're a little bit old fashioned so we figured
we'd tie the knot before starting a family.
777
00:50:38,560 --> 00:50:39,860
Can I talk to you a minute?
778
00:50:39,960 --> 00:50:42,560
- I was just gonna go in...
- I wanna talk first.
779
00:50:46,960 --> 00:50:48,700
What are you doing?
Are you trying to hurt your mother?
780
00:50:48,800 --> 00:50:52,080
- How am I hurting her?
- By making a scene at a funeral.
781
00:50:52,200 --> 00:50:54,140
Stutzman's is a place for grief.
782
00:50:54,240 --> 00:50:57,020
If you wanna humiliate your mother,
go try and do it someplace else.
783
00:50:57,120 --> 00:51:00,560
I'm sorry if telling people who I am
and how I live is humiliating.
784
00:51:00,680 --> 00:51:04,040
But I am not gonna pretend to be somebody
else anymore just to make you feel okay.
785
00:51:04,360 --> 00:51:07,600
Why is it always about you?
It's about her too.
786
00:51:07,720 --> 00:51:11,280
We called you over and over again,
why didn't you reply?
787
00:51:11,400 --> 00:51:14,040
How do you think she felt when you walked
away from her in the arcade the other day?
788
00:51:14,160 --> 00:51:17,720
Why is it always about her?
Isn't there a you in this?
789
00:51:17,840 --> 00:51:21,680
Why don't you stop hiding behind Mom
and tell me how it's about you?
790
00:51:21,800 --> 00:51:26,240
Well, I will... I will tell you
about how I feel. It's not how I live.
791
00:51:26,360 --> 00:51:29,040
I don't understand any of it.
And I don't understand you.
792
00:51:29,160 --> 00:51:31,820
You're getting married, but I...
793
00:51:31,920 --> 00:51:33,660
I don't know who's who.
794
00:51:33,760 --> 00:51:36,400
- Who's who?
- Yeah, yeah. You're both feminine girls.
795
00:51:36,520 --> 00:51:40,260
And I don't know. I don't know who's...
I don't know what you do.
796
00:51:40,360 --> 00:51:44,400
- What we do?
- And I don't want to. I just...
797
00:51:44,520 --> 00:51:47,480
I mean, you're my daughter and...
I just don't wanna think about it.
798
00:51:47,600 --> 00:51:49,940
I mean, I spend enough time
at that firehouse. Men are animals.
799
00:51:50,040 --> 00:51:52,980
It's what they think about
when they look at porno movies.
800
00:51:53,080 --> 00:51:56,620
But if you were marrying a guy, I wouldn't
think about it. I'd know what you do.
801
00:51:56,720 --> 00:51:59,020
When I was a kid, I used to hate
to think about you and Mom in bed.
802
00:51:59,120 --> 00:52:02,040
It gave me the creeps,
so I think I know how you feel.
803
00:52:02,160 --> 00:52:05,660
Let me put your mind at rest. Hey, Kitty.
804
00:52:05,760 --> 00:52:09,360
My dad wants to know
if one of us straps it on in bed.
805
00:52:14,440 --> 00:52:16,160
I'm so sorry, Dad.
She's a little bit funny.
806
00:52:16,280 --> 00:52:19,080
She doesn't like to tell people
what she does or doesn't do in bed!
807
00:52:20,000 --> 00:52:22,620
I don't know who you are anymore.
808
00:52:22,720 --> 00:52:25,240
And I don't know if I care.
809
00:52:25,680 --> 00:52:29,580
- What's happened to you?
- I'll tell you what's happened. I grew up.
810
00:52:29,680 --> 00:52:33,340
I used to care so much about what the two
of you thought but not anymore. Why would I?
811
00:52:33,440 --> 00:52:35,940
How dare you talk to me
about meeting the right person.
812
00:52:36,040 --> 00:52:38,480
Do you know who you meet
every time you or Mom change?
813
00:52:38,840 --> 00:52:41,960
The same couple of lying cowards.
814
00:52:42,080 --> 00:52:45,200
From now on, I only care
about what I think and what I do.
815
00:52:45,320 --> 00:52:47,440
And if you don't like it,
then you can get out of my life.
816
00:52:47,560 --> 00:52:50,300
Believe me, I will not miss you,
it will be a relief.
817
00:52:50,400 --> 00:52:54,520
If all you can do is tolerate me
I will be happier when you're gone.
818
00:53:18,880 --> 00:53:23,640
Well, it was nice... seeing you all again.
819
00:53:25,480 --> 00:53:27,640
I have to go.
820
00:53:43,800 --> 00:53:47,400
- Your mother will come around.
- No, she won't.
821
00:53:47,680 --> 00:53:52,500
They never do or say anything without
the other and now he'll never come around.
822
00:53:52,600 --> 00:53:56,520
- Give him time.
- You don't know him.
823
00:53:57,280 --> 00:53:59,880
He lets a lot of stuff go but...
824
00:54:00,160 --> 00:54:02,340
I called him out tonight. I...
825
00:54:02,440 --> 00:54:07,560
I made him look like a fool in public
and now he'll never get over that, and...
826
00:54:07,680 --> 00:54:12,520
he hardly ever shuts the door
but when he does, it stays shut.
827
00:54:13,160 --> 00:54:17,800
Not that I care. Because I'm not
apologizing to anybody for anything.
828
00:54:21,040 --> 00:54:23,760
We have to talk about this, Eddie.
829
00:54:24,720 --> 00:54:28,640
I already told you. I got nothing to say.
830
00:54:28,800 --> 00:54:30,640
I'm not trying to defend her.
She said ter...
831
00:54:30,760 --> 00:54:35,700
Rose. Are you deaf? I just told you,
I've got nothing to say. I mean it.
832
00:54:35,800 --> 00:54:39,320
So don't bring it up with me again. Ever.
833
00:54:46,440 --> 00:54:47,740
Rose.
834
00:54:47,840 --> 00:54:49,880
- Rose.
- Shit!
835
00:54:50,000 --> 00:54:51,860
Rose.
836
00:54:51,960 --> 00:54:54,320
Hi, Ellen. Hi.
837
00:54:54,720 --> 00:54:56,580
I've been so worried.
838
00:54:56,680 --> 00:54:59,240
I left messages all week,
but you never called back.
839
00:54:59,360 --> 00:55:01,500
- Are you okay?
- I'm fine.
840
00:55:01,600 --> 00:55:06,380
How can you be fine after that
disgraceful incident at Stutzman's?
841
00:55:06,480 --> 00:55:10,540
The things she said were... unforgivable.
842
00:55:10,640 --> 00:55:13,660
I just hope you're not blaming
yourselves for any of this because...
843
00:55:13,760 --> 00:55:16,240
you've both been great parents.
844
00:55:16,680 --> 00:55:19,180
Did you know about them before?
845
00:55:19,280 --> 00:55:20,920
We knew before.
846
00:55:21,320 --> 00:55:24,340
I'd have lied about the married man too.
847
00:55:24,440 --> 00:55:28,120
Well, you're doing the right thing.
848
00:55:29,480 --> 00:55:32,720
- What am I doing?
- Turning your back on all of it.
849
00:55:35,360 --> 00:55:37,800
I can't talk now, Ellen, I have to go.
850
00:55:37,920 --> 00:55:41,800
Christmas will be hard, but just remember
you're doing the right thing.
851
00:55:41,960 --> 00:55:45,320
And any time you wanna talk,
I'm right here.
852
00:55:58,720 --> 00:56:02,640
- Hey, Eddie. How you doing?
- Yeah. I'm fine.
853
00:56:12,560 --> 00:56:16,020
Did you tell the guys what happened
at Stutzman's the other day?
854
00:56:16,120 --> 00:56:18,900
No. Come on, Eddie.
855
00:56:19,000 --> 00:56:22,140
I'd never talk about your private business
with anybody. You know that.
856
00:56:22,240 --> 00:56:25,460
They don't... they don't know
anything. But...
857
00:56:25,560 --> 00:56:29,200
Listen, Eddie, I gotta tell you.
I think this whole thing stinks.
858
00:56:29,320 --> 00:56:31,060
As good as you and Rose have been
859
00:56:31,160 --> 00:56:34,520
this is the way Jenny turns around
and pays you back?
860
00:56:35,720 --> 00:56:37,880
Yeah. I don't wanna talk about it.
861
00:56:38,000 --> 00:56:40,560
No. Okay.
862
00:56:43,240 --> 00:56:46,240
You know, it's funny. Her name is Kitty.
863
00:56:48,040 --> 00:56:49,440
What?
864
00:56:49,840 --> 00:56:51,260
The girl's name is Kitty.
865
00:56:51,360 --> 00:56:55,080
I mean, first Jenny was with a married
man, and his name was Kitty.
866
00:56:55,280 --> 00:56:57,760
Now, her name is Kitty.
867
00:57:16,880 --> 00:57:18,380
Hello.
868
00:57:18,480 --> 00:57:20,640
Hi, honey.
869
00:57:21,440 --> 00:57:23,320
Hi, Mom. What's up?
870
00:57:24,440 --> 00:57:27,320
Nothing, I just called to see how you are.
871
00:57:27,440 --> 00:57:31,020
- Fine, and you?
- I'm fine. How are the kids?
872
00:57:31,120 --> 00:57:32,480
Fine.
873
00:57:32,960 --> 00:57:35,040
And... Frankie?
874
00:57:35,520 --> 00:57:37,520
Frankie's fine.
875
00:57:37,640 --> 00:57:41,160
Mom, did you call for a reason
'cause I'm standing in the...
876
00:57:41,280 --> 00:57:42,900
driveway, and it's raining.
877
00:57:43,000 --> 00:57:45,800
And I have a pile of groceries
and a sleeping baby.
878
00:57:46,120 --> 00:57:49,040
No. No reason, it's not...
raining here yet though.
879
00:57:49,160 --> 00:57:51,860
I just called to say hello.
880
00:57:51,960 --> 00:57:54,120
Okay. I'll call you back later.
881
00:57:54,240 --> 00:57:57,440
- I love you, Anne.
- Yeah, okay, bye.
882
00:58:35,080 --> 00:58:38,000
Okay. What do you think?
883
00:58:39,920 --> 00:58:41,240
It's perfect.
884
00:58:41,840 --> 00:58:43,820
I've always dreamed
of wearing a dress like this.
885
00:58:43,920 --> 00:58:46,120
Oh, you look beautiful.
886
00:58:52,680 --> 00:58:55,340
Well, now I don't know
who looks more beautiful.
887
00:58:55,440 --> 00:58:58,000
- Is this a double wedding?
- Yes.
888
00:58:59,160 --> 00:59:03,120
Then I'll leave you alone to think. I know
you'll want to come back with your mothers.
889
00:59:06,600 --> 00:59:11,000
This dress isn't right. It's not right.
It's too traditional.
890
00:59:11,600 --> 00:59:14,960
- Well, what's wrong with traditional?
- You wanna wear the tux?
891
00:59:18,880 --> 00:59:21,420
My mother's not here either, Jenny.
892
00:59:21,520 --> 00:59:23,280
I know.
893
00:59:23,400 --> 00:59:28,080
Your mother's in Portland. Mine is 20
minutes up the road in rush hour traffic.
894
00:59:52,680 --> 00:59:54,600
- Tell me something.
- If it's about Mom, I don't wanna hear it.
895
00:59:54,720 --> 00:59:57,640
It's not about Mom.
I know you live in a condo...
896
00:59:57,760 --> 01:00:01,040
but if you had grass
would it be dead or alive?
897
01:00:03,120 --> 01:00:04,940
It would be alive.
898
01:00:05,040 --> 01:00:07,100
Just as I thought.
899
01:00:07,200 --> 01:00:10,840
Happy people do not have dead grass.
900
01:00:19,080 --> 01:00:21,360
I quit the bowling team.
901
01:00:22,640 --> 01:00:24,400
Why?
902
01:00:25,280 --> 01:00:27,680
They're talking behind my back.
903
01:00:30,360 --> 01:00:32,440
Can you do that?
904
01:00:33,040 --> 01:00:34,400
- Do what?
- Quit the bowling team.
905
01:00:34,520 --> 01:00:36,440
You're the treasurer.
906
01:00:36,880 --> 01:00:39,600
Yes. I can do that.
907
01:00:42,160 --> 01:00:44,880
Don't you wanna know
what they're saying behind my back?
908
01:00:48,640 --> 01:00:50,360
No.
909
01:00:53,120 --> 01:00:56,480
You can't just not talk about this, Eddie!
910
01:01:04,720 --> 01:01:07,400
We've lost our daughter!
911
01:01:30,400 --> 01:01:34,000
- Hello.
- Hi, Anne. It's me.
912
01:01:34,120 --> 01:01:36,480
- Hi, Mom. How are you?
- I'm fine.
913
01:01:36,760 --> 01:01:40,080
Doing a little... house work.
914
01:01:40,200 --> 01:01:43,260
- How are you?
- Oh, I'm fine.
915
01:01:43,360 --> 01:01:46,380
How about Frankie and the kids? They okay?
916
01:01:46,480 --> 01:01:47,900
They're fine.
917
01:01:48,000 --> 01:01:51,260
Have you seen Michael and Lorraine at all?
918
01:01:51,360 --> 01:01:55,480
For God's sake, Mom, if you wanna know
how Jenny is, call her. Don't call me.
919
01:01:55,760 --> 01:01:57,900
I know that's what all
these calls are about.
920
01:01:58,000 --> 01:02:00,580
Listen, there's something I...
921
01:02:00,680 --> 01:02:03,200
I have to do. I'll call you later, okay?
922
01:02:03,560 --> 01:02:05,360
Okay. I love you, Anne.
923
01:02:05,480 --> 01:02:08,800
Oh, my God. Will you please stop saying that,
it's turned into your personal greeting!
924
01:02:08,960 --> 01:02:13,260
- I'm sorry. I just wanted you to know.
- Yeah. I know, I know, I know, I know.
925
01:02:13,360 --> 01:02:16,480
We all love each other,
and I have to go. Goodbye.
926
01:04:36,480 --> 01:04:39,660
And they never talk about it. Not a word.
927
01:04:39,760 --> 01:04:42,220
I wouldn't either if it was my daughter.
928
01:04:42,320 --> 01:04:45,240
They were such good parents.
929
01:04:45,520 --> 01:04:47,960
Well, they must have done something wrong.
930
01:04:48,080 --> 01:04:50,680
We've all had problems with our kids,
but nothing like this.
931
01:04:50,800 --> 01:04:53,580
I really feel sorry for them.
932
01:04:53,680 --> 01:04:55,580
And this wedding is embarrassing enough
933
01:04:55,680 --> 01:04:58,740
but those two are planning
on having children.
934
01:04:58,840 --> 01:05:02,420
How can they have a normal life
growing up in that house?
935
01:05:02,520 --> 01:05:04,460
It isn't right.
936
01:05:04,560 --> 01:05:08,080
Since when did you two become such
big experts on what's normal and right?
937
01:05:08,200 --> 01:05:11,160
Rose. We didn't mean anything.
We're just worried about you.
938
01:05:11,280 --> 01:05:14,220
Tell me, Marion. Is it normal
and right for your daughter
939
01:05:14,320 --> 01:05:18,260
to get pregnant by every passing stranger
and leave you to raise the kids?
940
01:05:18,360 --> 01:05:22,160
Or for... for Karen and her bum
of a husband to never get a job
941
01:05:22,280 --> 01:05:26,480
and... and rob you and Denny of every
last penny of your retirement savings!
942
01:05:26,600 --> 01:05:30,220
That's all normal and right just because
the men sleep with women!
943
01:05:30,320 --> 01:05:32,540
And the women sleep with men!
944
01:05:32,640 --> 01:05:35,540
But Jenny, who is... who is... who is...
945
01:05:35,640 --> 01:05:39,700
is generous and kind
and has never hurt anyone...
946
01:05:39,800 --> 01:05:44,760
isn't normal and right, because she
wants to marry the woman she loves.
947
01:05:45,600 --> 01:05:49,080
Jenny is good. And I love her.
948
01:05:49,200 --> 01:05:52,140
And the only thing
that isn't normal and right is...
949
01:05:52,240 --> 01:05:54,220
is me turning my back on that.
950
01:05:54,320 --> 01:05:57,920
Oh, my... Oh, my God.
951
01:06:22,760 --> 01:06:24,000
Hello.
952
01:06:24,120 --> 01:06:27,240
It's Mom. Can you come down?
953
01:06:49,680 --> 01:06:51,880
I saw a dress.
954
01:06:53,040 --> 01:06:55,020
Months ago, I saw a wedding dress.
955
01:06:55,120 --> 01:06:57,840
I knew you'd look good in.
You still might be able to get it.
956
01:07:02,640 --> 01:07:05,080
I'm sorry, Jenny.
957
01:07:05,920 --> 01:07:08,920
I'm so sorry for all of it.
958
01:07:10,040 --> 01:07:14,320
And if you'll let me. I'd like to help you
pick out your wedding dress.
959
01:07:15,280 --> 01:07:18,360
I wanna be part of your marriage.
960
01:07:19,080 --> 01:07:23,400
I wanna be part of everything
you do for the rest of your life.
961
01:08:00,240 --> 01:08:03,280
- You're late. You take 90 again?
- No. I took Carnegie.
962
01:08:03,400 --> 01:08:09,240
Oh, well. Traffic on Carnegie
can be pretty bad after 3:00 too.
963
01:08:09,360 --> 01:08:11,840
I wasn't stuck in traffic.
964
01:08:12,960 --> 01:08:15,280
I was with Jenny.
965
01:08:19,480 --> 01:08:22,320
I want us to be a part of the wedding.
966
01:08:32,840 --> 01:08:36,320
We've always done everything together
for as long as we've been married.
967
01:08:37,360 --> 01:08:39,040
But...
968
01:08:40,160 --> 01:08:42,680
I'll do this alone if I have to.
969
01:08:49,040 --> 01:08:51,920
- At least talk to me about it.
- No.
970
01:08:53,120 --> 01:08:54,920
No.
971
01:08:56,840 --> 01:08:59,320
No, you've made your choice,
I've made mine.
972
01:08:59,440 --> 01:09:02,160
I don't wanna explain it to anybody.
973
01:09:38,680 --> 01:09:41,500
- What are you so happy about, Eddie?
- What?
974
01:09:41,600 --> 01:09:44,040
Nothing. Just a joke.
975
01:10:02,600 --> 01:10:06,480
- Why isn't Denny O'Leary here today?
- He changed his shift yesterday.
976
01:10:06,600 --> 01:10:11,120
- How come?
- I don't know. Said it was personal.
977
01:10:12,560 --> 01:10:15,420
I've been on with him
since we were probies together.
978
01:10:15,520 --> 01:10:19,480
Lieutenant said he asked to change his
shift and wouldn't take no for an answer.
979
01:10:24,360 --> 01:10:27,640
I've known him since we were
in first grade together.
980
01:10:27,760 --> 01:10:29,200
- Oh, yeah?
- Yeah.
981
01:10:29,320 --> 01:10:31,560
That's a long time.
982
01:10:35,880 --> 01:10:38,040
Yeah. It is.
983
01:10:48,040 --> 01:10:50,300
- What's that?
- Oh, look, you're awake.
984
01:10:50,400 --> 01:10:52,280
- What?
- Get up. I want to show you something.
985
01:10:52,400 --> 01:10:54,680
Are you crazy? Do you have any idea
what time I went to bed last night?
986
01:10:54,800 --> 01:10:56,840
I said, get up.
987
01:10:56,960 --> 01:10:59,080
Look outside.
988
01:11:05,080 --> 01:11:06,520
At what?
989
01:11:06,640 --> 01:11:09,280
- The grass.
- What about the grass?
990
01:11:10,320 --> 01:11:12,080
It's green.
991
01:11:12,680 --> 01:11:14,780
You think I care what color the grass is?
992
01:11:14,880 --> 01:11:18,160
No. I don't.
993
01:11:22,840 --> 01:11:25,840
- What are you doing?
- Packing your stuff. You're moving out.
994
01:11:25,960 --> 01:11:27,640
- What?
- I don't wanna be married to you anymore.
995
01:11:27,760 --> 01:11:31,640
I would leave, but I don't think it's good
to move the kids so you have to go.
996
01:11:31,760 --> 01:11:33,660
Come on, Anne,
I know things haven't been...
997
01:11:33,760 --> 01:11:37,040
Stop. I'm not interested
in anything you have to say.
998
01:11:37,160 --> 01:11:38,800
You can't just kick me out
without talking about it.
999
01:11:38,920 --> 01:11:41,020
Why would we start talking now.
We haven't talked in years!
1000
01:11:41,120 --> 01:11:42,800
'Cause I have a right to know
why you're doing this.
1001
01:11:42,920 --> 01:11:45,180
- The grass.
- The grass?
1002
01:11:45,280 --> 01:11:49,420
Yes. When I looked
at the dead grass, I realized...
1003
01:11:49,520 --> 01:11:54,540
I was unhappy. Happy people
don't have dead grass.
1004
01:11:54,640 --> 01:11:57,820
And... and then it was like,
the chicken and the egg.
1005
01:11:57,920 --> 01:12:02,360
I couldn't figure out which came first.
Happiness or green grass.
1006
01:12:03,560 --> 01:12:08,600
So I started watering it. And the more
I started watering it, the happier I felt.
1007
01:12:11,320 --> 01:12:13,840
And then it came back to life.
1008
01:12:16,360 --> 01:12:20,320
I don't blame you for kicking
Frankie out. The guy's a bum. But...
1009
01:12:20,440 --> 01:12:22,640
you know, grass is grass.
1010
01:12:22,760 --> 01:12:27,180
No, it's not. You don't have dead grass.
Michael doesn't have dead grass.
1011
01:12:27,280 --> 01:12:29,460
- No.
- Happy people don't.
1012
01:12:29,560 --> 01:12:33,760
And I never saw it until Jenny
came over and she was so happy.
1013
01:12:34,360 --> 01:12:37,540
I saw the dead grass for the first time.
1014
01:12:37,640 --> 01:12:41,080
I'll be right back.
I just have to change my order.
1015
01:12:41,560 --> 01:12:45,520
She wouldn't have dead grass
any more than you would, Dad.
1016
01:12:46,200 --> 01:12:49,120
She doesn't settle for less either.
1017
01:12:53,720 --> 01:12:55,620
I don't know where to seat anyone.
1018
01:12:55,720 --> 01:12:58,420
We're having twice as many
as we planned on having.
1019
01:12:58,520 --> 01:13:02,520
I know. Does it really matter? Isn't everyone
just gonna be moving around anyway?
1020
01:13:02,640 --> 01:13:04,080
Yeah.
1021
01:13:09,160 --> 01:13:11,680
It's my father's birthday today.
1022
01:13:12,200 --> 01:13:15,260
- Oh, yeah?
- Yeah.
1023
01:13:15,360 --> 01:13:18,640
They're throwing a party for him
at my parents' house.
1024
01:13:21,200 --> 01:13:23,960
- I'm gonna take a break, okay?
- Sure.
1025
01:13:33,040 --> 01:13:35,340
He should know. I should tell him.
1026
01:13:35,440 --> 01:13:38,300
Michael should tell him.
He's the one doing it.
1027
01:13:38,400 --> 01:13:40,820
I don't wanna put... I don't wanna put...
1028
01:13:40,920 --> 01:13:42,960
What are you guys talking about?
1029
01:13:43,200 --> 01:13:44,920
Nothing.
1030
01:13:45,760 --> 01:13:47,540
Are you sure?
1031
01:13:47,640 --> 01:13:50,360
Yeah. No, I'll tell him.
1032
01:13:54,400 --> 01:13:56,840
Hey, listen, Dad...
1033
01:13:58,760 --> 01:14:02,640
Jenny asked me to walk her down the aisle.
1034
01:14:04,440 --> 01:14:06,880
And I said yes.
1035
01:16:48,600 --> 01:16:52,260
- What are you staring at?
- Nothing.
1036
01:16:52,360 --> 01:16:55,280
I saw Rose leave for the wedding.
She looked pretty.
1037
01:16:55,560 --> 01:16:57,880
That is not a real wedding.
1038
01:16:58,000 --> 01:17:01,880
Okay. I saw them leave
for the fake wedding.
1039
01:17:03,080 --> 01:17:04,340
No sign of Eddie.
1040
01:17:04,440 --> 01:17:06,640
Well, at least he's got
his head screwed on right.
1041
01:17:06,760 --> 01:17:08,520
Honey.
1042
01:17:08,640 --> 01:17:11,120
We were there the night Jenny was born.
1043
01:17:11,600 --> 01:17:14,560
We'd always thought
that we'd be at her wedding.
1044
01:17:15,240 --> 01:17:18,960
What makes you think two women
getting dressed up in wedding gowns
1045
01:17:19,080 --> 01:17:23,600
and prancing down some hotel aisle
is the same as getting married?
1046
01:17:25,800 --> 01:17:28,080
Jenny does.
1047
01:17:28,200 --> 01:17:29,840
What?
1048
01:17:30,520 --> 01:17:33,040
Jenny makes me think it.
1049
01:18:21,640 --> 01:18:25,220
- What are you doing here?
- I saw you drive up and...
1050
01:18:25,320 --> 01:18:27,680
door was unlocked so...
1051
01:18:29,080 --> 01:18:30,800
Look...
1052
01:18:32,240 --> 01:18:36,280
Maybe Ellen deserved it. I mean,
we both know how she can get.
1053
01:18:36,400 --> 01:18:39,700
But you know, Rose said
some bad things to her and...
1054
01:18:39,800 --> 01:18:42,040
when something really bothers me...
1055
01:18:42,200 --> 01:18:46,240
I'm like you. You know, I... I dig in.
1056
01:18:49,000 --> 01:18:52,040
We've known each other a long time and...
1057
01:18:52,160 --> 01:18:54,800
if I don't dig myself out...
1058
01:18:55,280 --> 01:18:57,240
I lose.
1059
01:18:57,520 --> 01:19:00,720
And that's why I'm here.
To dig myself out.
1060
01:19:01,720 --> 01:19:03,880
How do you do that?
1061
01:19:05,440 --> 01:19:09,780
I don't know. I never had to do it before.
1062
01:19:09,880 --> 01:19:12,900
I guess I start with me, I mean...
1063
01:19:13,000 --> 01:19:15,120
and that's why I'm here.
1064
01:19:15,240 --> 01:19:18,400
To dig myself out of me.
1065
01:19:35,480 --> 01:19:38,140
Are you sure that this isn't too much?
This dress isn't too much?
1066
01:19:38,240 --> 01:19:40,600
- It's a beautiful dress.
- Okay.
1067
01:19:40,720 --> 01:19:41,960
Eddie!
1068
01:19:42,680 --> 01:19:45,960
I don't know if you want me here, but...
1069
01:19:46,400 --> 01:19:48,180
I decided to come.
1070
01:19:48,280 --> 01:19:51,960
- Why wouldn't I want you here?
- Well, I...
1071
01:19:52,680 --> 01:19:54,740
I turned my back on you.
1072
01:19:54,840 --> 01:19:56,720
Oh, Dad, I...
1073
01:19:56,840 --> 01:20:00,620
I know how hard it is for you
to accept who I am, and...
1074
01:20:00,720 --> 01:20:04,440
I lied for so long, and then, I said those
horrible things and I made you angry.
1075
01:20:04,560 --> 01:20:07,420
No, no, no.
This has nothing to do with it. I...
1076
01:20:07,520 --> 01:20:09,720
I wasn't angry. I...
1077
01:20:10,120 --> 01:20:12,640
I walked away because...
1078
01:20:14,040 --> 01:20:16,400
Because I was hurt.
1079
01:20:17,120 --> 01:20:20,100
You said you wanted me out of your life
and you'd be relieved when I was gone.
1080
01:20:20,200 --> 01:20:23,960
You said... you said you...
1081
01:20:24,080 --> 01:20:26,360
you wouldn't miss me.
1082
01:20:26,640 --> 01:20:28,660
Me.
1083
01:20:28,760 --> 01:20:30,760
You wouldn't miss me.
1084
01:20:33,000 --> 01:20:35,280
I'm your dad.
1085
01:20:36,360 --> 01:20:40,660
Nobody has ever loved you
more than me, and nobody ever will.
1086
01:20:40,760 --> 01:20:43,200
How could you not miss me?
1087
01:20:45,200 --> 01:20:47,060
You see...
1088
01:20:47,160 --> 01:20:48,780
when...
1089
01:20:48,880 --> 01:20:51,760
when people hurt me, I...
1090
01:20:52,360 --> 01:20:55,000
I don't talk about it. I...
1091
01:20:55,880 --> 01:20:58,080
I walk away.
1092
01:20:58,920 --> 01:21:01,440
I always walk away.
1093
01:21:01,600 --> 01:21:03,400
But...
1094
01:21:04,600 --> 01:21:06,920
I can't walk away from you.
1095
01:21:09,000 --> 01:21:10,460
So...
1096
01:21:10,560 --> 01:21:12,960
if that's okay...
1097
01:21:16,400 --> 01:21:18,720
You're my daughter.
1098
01:21:19,080 --> 01:21:22,480
And I would like to walk you
down the aisle.
1099
01:22:25,800 --> 01:22:28,240
Living in a moment I would die for.
1100
01:22:29,280 --> 01:22:34,760
These words best describe every minute
of everyday of the last five years.
1101
01:22:34,880 --> 01:22:38,620
That's why I'm standing in front
of our family and our friends...
1102
01:22:38,720 --> 01:22:42,080
but most importantly, in front of you...
1103
01:22:43,280 --> 01:22:46,300
and in the presence of God to vow...
1104
01:22:46,400 --> 01:22:48,900
to be your faithfully committed...
1105
01:22:49,000 --> 01:22:51,200
lifetime companion.
1106
01:23:58,200 --> 01:24:00,720
Do you know what I mean
about the grass, Aaron?
1107
01:24:00,840 --> 01:24:02,960
Yes, I do.
1108
01:24:03,520 --> 01:24:06,500
When I move away and sell that house...
1109
01:24:06,600 --> 01:24:09,500
that grass will die and I know it will.
1110
01:24:09,600 --> 01:24:11,520
But my grass...
1111
01:24:11,640 --> 01:24:15,300
the grass that is inside of me
will always be green.
1112
01:24:15,400 --> 01:24:18,560
- Do you know what I mean?
- I do.
1113
01:24:18,680 --> 01:24:21,060
- Are you a lesbian?
- No.
1114
01:24:21,160 --> 01:24:22,960
Good.
1115
01:24:24,040 --> 01:24:25,760
That's mine.
1116
01:26:19,640 --> 01:26:23,660
Okay, everybody. This is it.
It's time for the conga line.
1117
01:26:23,760 --> 01:26:27,600
Oh, my God! I love the conga line!