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I'd probably say in the morning of a
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you know, sort of two hours before.

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And if you can find a toilet, then it's
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in there either being sick or, you know,
somewhere. So it's not a locker room

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wank fest or anything like that.

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There goes that fantasy.

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I know.

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Felicia, you've been known to have
bedded several sportsmen.

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Can you tell us who they are?

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Dwight York, Fabian Barthez.

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My ex -boyfriend was Mikel Anton Correa,
Premiership Scottish Fair.

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So were you a football snob or would you
do Sunday League?

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I don't know. What's Sunday League? I
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say yes.

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Now, did you ever have to abstain from
sex because your partner was?

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Yeah, yeah. With my ex -boyfriend, he
had the strict rule that if he had a

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match, he wasn't going to have sex
beforehand.

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And why was that?

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Because his manager told him.

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I mean, with Dwight York as well, the
manager used to tell him, but he didn't

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take any notice of it. And obviously, he
should have sex.

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But he was on the bench quite a lot.

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So that was a rule for the whole team.
No sex. No sex before a match.

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Of all the trainers you've heard about,
who do you think is the strictest? Was

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it Alex Ferguson?

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Definitely the Manchester guy.

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That's Alex Ferguson, isn't it? Yeah,
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He's not.

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So, John, why do you think sports
trainers, if there's no evidence to back

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up, why are they still so strict about
not having sex before a big game?

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I think it's power and control.

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It's a way of trying to influence the
sportsman. It's not evidence -based.

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I think sportsmen in general are a lot
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Normal, like normal office workers or
whatever.

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And also sportsmen can do it more times
as well.

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I agree that sportsmen probably are
going to have better sexual function.

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Physical activity, increasing physical
activity, is the one lifestyle change

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that can really enhance sexual
performance, can enhance erection, and

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20 minutes to 40 minutes of exercise
most days of the week, most men, office

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workers included.

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will be better in bed as a consequence.

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And how about in people's everyday
lives? How does sex affect that?

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Sex is central to the human experience.
And people who are having a satisfying

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sexual life, satisfying intimacy with a
partner, are likely to perform

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better, be happier, be nice to know at
work.

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I think that sex actually has a very
positive effect on...

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Many different aspects of life and on
performance not a negative effect is

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an optimum number of orgasms in any
given period for somebody to be working

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performing at their optimum level I
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Regular sex, regular orgasms are very
beneficial in many, many ways.

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There's a wonderful study called the
Cofilli cohort study where men who have

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orgasm three times a week were 50 % less
likely to die at any given age than

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those who didn't.

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Whilst most men would love to be able to
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to their partners uh it's doctor's
orders i've got to have sex three times

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week unfortunately i think it's more
likely that it's them being fit enough

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have sex uh three times a week is a
marker for how how long they're going to

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live rather than actually having to have
the orgasms thank you all for coming in

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that was great

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so just to

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be clear Having an orgasm before sport
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affect your performance, so we'll leave
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In general, though, having more orgasms
can lead to better emotional and

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physical health.

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Now, please remain seated for part four,
when we'll meet a woman who claims she

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can give you the ultimate female orgasm.

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Welcome back to Sex, How to Do
Everything.

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Now, if you think this sex thing is all
quite simple, men ejaculate and women

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go, ooh, ooh, ah, a lot, with none of
that messy business, well, think again.

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Hi, so I have a problem. I've been
dating this girl for a little while now.

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Every time we're together, fortunately I
know how to help her orgasm.

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Fortunately, not the problem, but when
she does, she's sort of a sprayer, a

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shooter, and it gets all over the
furniture and stuff, and it's kind of

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me out a little.

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Is it going to stain the furniture or
the sheets, or what do I do? So I need

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help. I'm a little weirded out.

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You know, usually the men we get coming
to the store are asking us how they can

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help their girlfriends ejaculate, so you
should actually just feel like a total

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stud. Plus, you ejaculate and make kind
of a mess every time, and it's not a

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problem for her, so you kind of want to
suck it up and deal.

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Maybe just invest in some waterproof
sheets.

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That'll be five cents, please.

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Thank you, guys.

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Thank you.

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They're still very controversial.
According to our next guest, female

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ejaculation is not only possible, but
they think it's possible for all women.

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please meet International Authority on
Female Ejaculation, Deborah Sondahl, and

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female ejaculator, Emma Kennett.

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Thanks for joining us.

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So, Deborah.

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What is female ejaculation?

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Female ejaculation is actually prostatic
fluid from the female prostate.

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And what is the female prostate?

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Same as the male prostate, and all women
have one, as do all men.

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And how do you target it? It surrounds
the urethra and starts at the outside

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opening of the body. So it's just very
easy to find.

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simply just inside the vagina.

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It also circles the outside of the
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So how does female ejaculation happen?

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It happens when the female prostate,
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stimulated. A lot of women do think that
it is urinary incontinence when they

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experience female ejaculation.

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the urge to ejaculate feels like the
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And that is the last thing any woman
wants to do when they're having sex.

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So women have shut down on that urge to
ejaculate, some to the degree that they

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don't really want to even have sex
anymore.

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So Emma, how about you? Did you have any
idea what it was the first time it

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happened to you?

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First time it happened to me, I didn't
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with myself. But then I guess I kind
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um just realized that yes it was
ejaculation not any urine and what about

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boyfriend what did he think about it he
thinks it's just absolutely amazing and

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loves it really and what is it like can
you describe it mind -blowing it's like

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you're not on this world anymore really
do you believe that all women can female

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ejaculate absolutely just like all men
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Now, can you give us three tips for
women who want to try and achieve

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like that? The first tip is to know
where your G -spot is located.

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And for most women, you can actually see
it. You just sit down, spread your

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labia lips, push out with your muscles,
and take a look at your G -spot.

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This is important for women to reclaim
something that we've been told doesn't

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exist.

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And then secondly, spend some time with
your G spot, feeling it with your

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fingers, and see what you feel there.

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And then the third step is to slowly
start to stimulate the G spot. See if

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can notice it grow a little bit with
blood and prosthetic fluid.

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You may feel that urge to pee, and when
you do, you simply push out and let it

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flow.

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So maybe women should try in the bathtub
first, just in case they feel

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uncomfortable. The bathtub is a great
place. So is the garden, the tiled

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the woods.

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Well, thanks. Thank you both so much for
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So here's what we've learned.

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Every woman has a G -spot, and the G
-spot is the female prostate. And,

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according to Debra, every woman can
female ejaculate by massaging their G

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Now, we're not convinced of that last
point, so if you can't, don't feel like

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failure.

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Okay, so let's get a quick reminder of
what we've learned about orgasms

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There's no such thing as a bad orgasm,
but a better orgasm's worth the effort.

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He may prefer the sensation of entering
from behind where he can thrust deeply.

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She might like the control and freedom
of being on top where she determines the

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speed, angle and depth of penetration.

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Or try the coital alignment technique.

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Starting from the missionary position,
he moves up her body leaving just his

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penis tip inside.

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He then moves down again.

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keeping as much bodily contact as
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If you remember only three things from
tonight's show, let them be this.

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One, talk to your partner about what
works for you and what doesn't. Work on

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your sexual satisfaction together.

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Now this might mean more lube and less
jackhammering, and it definitely means

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more faking.

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Two. Remember there's more to the female
orgasm than the clitoris.

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Explore all your pleasure points.

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And finally, while orgasms are a
wonderful thing, they're not the only

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We'd all have a much better time in bed
if we could make sex less goal -oriented

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and more about good, dirty fun.

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So it's time now for you to go and put
into practice everything you've learned.

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Join us again next time for more sex.

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Good night.

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Welcome to Sex, How to Do Everything,
the show where we, Em and Lo, show you

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everything you'll ever need to know
about sex.

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Our purpose is to get you to have great
sex and more of it.

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As sex experts, we get thousands of
inquiries and they all come down to one

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thing, how to have better sex.

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Well, we know how and we're going to
show you. Each show will focus on

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aspects of sex, from the art of
seduction to oral sex, anal sex and

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play. Tonight's show is all about sex
toys.

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There are literally thousands of
different types of sex toys on the

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days. And it seems the Brits are pretty
fond of them. According to a recent

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survey, 53 % of Britons regularly use
some sort of sex toy. That's way more

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the global average of just 20%. The most
common type of sex toy is the vibrator,

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with 49 % of Britons apparently owning
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And it's not just women who use
vibrators. One survey revealed 20 % of

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saying they've used them too.

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Here's what's coming up in tonight's
show.

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We explore the sensual world of his and
her sex toys.

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And meet Samantha Roddick, owner of
Erotic Emporium, Coco de Mer.

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Plus, roving reporters Georgie and
Dougie investigate the sensual potential

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shop -bought and homemade toys.

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If you're one of those people who still
think that sex toys are for creepy men

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in trench coats, so -called frigid
ladies, and losers who can't get a date,

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well, we'd like to invite you into the
21st century.

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In 1994, scientists at the World
Congress of Sexology declared that

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pleasure, including masturbation, is a
source of physical, psychological,

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intellectual, and spiritual well -being.

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And an American study by Chicago's
Berman Center found that women who use

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vibrators experience higher levels of
sexual desire, higher levels of sexual

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satisfaction, and higher rates of
success in achieving orgasm. The great

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about this recent sex toy revolution is
that there are now lots of products to

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choose from that are well made, long
lasting, safe, ergonomic, nice to look

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and they actually get the job done.

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Let's take a look at some of the sex
toys on offer.

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There's a whole range of toys on the
market.

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But not all are created equally.

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Some are good, some are bad, and some
are just plain ugly.

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So M and Lowe have taken some of the
best of the top -selling toys for him

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for her, and put together these
guidelines to getting the best from

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The rabbit is one of Britain's best
-selling toys for women.

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Make sure yours is free of dangerous
toxic chemicals called phthalates.

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Once inserted, the beads rotate and
vibrate, massaging the sensitive outer

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of a woman's vagina.

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Positioned carefully, the rabbit's ears
can simultaneously stimulate the

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clitoral head and shaft.

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The award -winning Rock Chick is
designed to sit against the clitoris and

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G -spot simultaneously.

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The hands -free design allows you to
increase the sensation by rocking

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and forwards.

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At the same time, the bullet vibrator in
the tip will send vibrations running

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from end to end.

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Plenty more to come on Sex, How to Do
Everything.

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Roving reporters Georgie and Dougie test
and rate some of the top sex toys on

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the market.

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Um, out of ten, probably nine, because
it's just,

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it's brilliant.

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Plus, we set out to design and test the
perfect sex toy for women.

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Welcome back. Still to come, we'll be
unveiling the results of the Sex How to

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Everything quest to design the grandest,
most perfect sex toy ever.

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And we'll find out what turned our
roving reporters, Georgie and Dougie, on

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they road -tested some of the top
-selling toys on the market.

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Sales of sex toys have exploded in
recent years, with many high street

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now doing a nice line in erotic
accessories.

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But just what is the regular punter
buying?

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We hit the streets of New York and
London to see what people have stashed

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their bedside drawers.

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So what sex toys do you own? I have one
that's kind of double -sided.

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Some of my friends use it together.

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I own several cock rings and some butt
plugs.

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Yes, I do own a sex toy.

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It's called a Rumpet Rabbit.

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Well, for the first time about a month
ago, somebody stuck a vibrator up my

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And it was the first time ever, and
actually I quite liked it.

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I guess, like, a vibrator. But I haven't
personally used it on myself, you know.

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Just a dildo. It's nice.

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A pink.

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Regular dildo, pocket rocket.

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I have the rabbit.

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It's really, really good, but it's kind
of big.

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I have this blue one that has these
little knobs.

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I have a butt plug that has a tail on
it.

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It's pretty cool.

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What's the strangest thing you've ever
used as a sex toy?

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Vegetables, like quite handy, like a
pencil.

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A couple of months ago, a friend left an
electric toothbrush at my house, and I

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ended up using it as a sex toy, and she
continued to use it to clean her teeth.

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I've used a carrot, a banana, a
cucumber.

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If you want to throw, like, fruit into
the thing, that works well.

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The bottom of an umbrella.

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A shampoo bottle.

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Oh, a water bottle. A chair, a sheet,
and a billboard.

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Our next guest makes it her business to
provide women with top -class sex toys.

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Her view is that if you're spending 150
pounds on shoes but only 10 pounds on a

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sex toy for your vagina, then there's
something seriously wrong with your

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priorities. Please welcome to the studio
founder of one of the world's most

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luxurious high -class sex emporiums,
Coco de Mer, Samantha Roddick.

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Welcome to the show.

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So, Sam, how many sex toys do you own
personally?

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Do I have to count?

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Everything that I make in my shop comes
from a base single desire for me to try

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it. So when you go there, you can
probably find a lot of things that I've

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innovated. So we paid a visit to your
sex store, Coco de Mer, so let's take a

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look.

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Welcome to Coco de Mer. Come this way.

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So let me show you a couple of my
favorite things.

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First off, we have a glass dildo.

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And this is really for all those long
-distance lovers.

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As you see here, you can put a little
drawing or a photograph of your lover

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who works abroad.

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And here you have a little mirror. So
when you're fucking yourself, you can

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their face.

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This is shaped to hit the G spot.

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If you imagine it, whenever you put your
fingers in, they curve. There are no

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straight lines in nature.

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So when you internally put it in, it
curves round to hit your G spot.

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Bonded is one of our biggest sellers at
Coco de Mer.

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One of the most exquisite pieces that we
have is a human hair whip.

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And it has this...

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The visual of it being a lot more
painful than it actually is, so it

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little internal gasp.

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One of the most better looks is, believe
it or not, the spanking paddle,

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right?

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Essentially, after about five minutes of
proper play with this instrument...

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You can get as high as a kite because it
releases so many endorphins within your

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body, a natural high that won't send you
to rehab.

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Coco de Mer is known as the smallest and
most romantic location in London, and I

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can tell you why.

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Simply because we've had multiple
marriage proposals within our shop, and

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show you where.

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In here.

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We have our little peep room, right?

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So you can invite a gentleman in this
room and they can peek at you while

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changing.

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You can imagine lots of naughty things
that are completely consensual happen

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within our changing rooms.

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Some of the toys that you sell, they
could pass as art on the coffee table.

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They're just beautiful.

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Yeah.

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Does that make it feel better for women,
do you think? I think it reflects their

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degree of sophistication in terms of how
they relate to love.

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And, you know, when you want to get
intimate with something, you don't want

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barrier of something looking brutally
ugly and very cheap.

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So how do you persuade people to spend
hundreds of pounds on sex toys when they

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weren't used to doing that before?

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You provide them something they desire.

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A woman shop very differently than men.

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Women need to have multifunctional kind
of idea around buying something

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expensive. So if they can wear it out
and they can display it, if they can

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a multi -use, they can wear it as a
piece of jewellery and it can provide a

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sexual function, they're more likely to
spend a lot more money.

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So do men come to your store to buy toys
for themselves?

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No.

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Always as gifts?

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Yes, well, always to be shared.

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But do you sell toys for men?

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Yes. It's just the women buy them for
their boyfriend.

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Traditionally, sex toys have been made
of... cheap materials made in under

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dubious labor conditions and not so good
for the environment or your body

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necessarily how do your toys compare to
that well everything that i make i try

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to keep it locally made and then we look
at things like our spanking paddles

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being sustainable wood and then our
underwear having organic cottons or hemp

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so forth in it and i just really don't
believe in pleasure being procured by

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somebody else's pain.

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And I think that's where the world is
going, you know, with the consciousness

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the consumer.

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Is it true that sex toys have become
much more popular in recent years?

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I think that everybody's always like
found a way to utilize sex toys, maybe

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sense that the market has become less
taboo and that people are more open

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buying them. But sex toys have been a
huge market for a long time.

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So how do you recommend that people...

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find out what their toy is made of and
where it came from if it's not listed on

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the packaging.

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Go to smaller sex shops. I would say
female -based sex shops in North America

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and England have a lot more concerns
attached to them. I think women

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should be leaders within this field.

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So if the person in the shop doesn't
know the answer, shop somewhere else.

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definitely.

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So do you think the perfect sex toy has
been invented yet, or do you think there

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is such a thing as the perfect sex toy?
Well, if I was to make claim of the

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perfect sex toy, I'd say it's the hands,
it's the tongue, and it's the cock, and

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it's the vagina.

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So everything else just adds variety.

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Well, thank you so much for joining us.
Let's hear it for Samantha Ruddick.

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Here's a look at some more sex toys.

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The prostate massager is designed to
internally stimulate a man's prostate

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via the rectum, as well as externally
stimulate the area between his testicles

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and anus, also known as the perineum.

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These areas contain important pleasure
-sensitive nerve endings that control

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erection, orgasm, and ejaculation.

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Once the lubricated tip of the device
has been slowly inserted into the anus,

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will be drawn naturally up the body.

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where it's designed to seek out the
prostate gland.

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When the man clenches the sphincter
muscles in his anus, the toy will pivot,

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giving him a simultaneous prostate and
perineum massage.

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The male masturbator is one of the
world's top toys for men.

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Once lubricated, the soft flesh -like
material is designed to mimic the feel

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a vagina or anus.

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For a made -to -measure fit, the lid can
be turned to adjust the suction until

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the man's penis is firmly gripped.

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The vibrating cock ring is a great his
-and -hers sex toy.

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Once the soft, stretchy ring has been
looped over the base of the man's shaft,

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the vibrating micro -bullet should be
positioned upwards.

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Switched on, the device will begin to
buzz, stimulating his penis and the

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and clitoris of his partner during
intercourse.

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Just because toys aren't living flesh
doesn't mean you can forgo safety

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precautions. Here are our top safety
tips.

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First, sexually transmitted diseases can
be transferred from one person to

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another via shared toys.

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So either A, dedicate one toy to one
person only. B, make sure it's a non

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-porous toy that can be sterilized
before it changes hands or groins. Or C,

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a condom on it. One fresh condom per
partner per session.

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Next, a sex toy should never be moved
from a bum to a vagina without changing

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condoms or sterilizing it first, unless
you're prepared for a pretty nasty

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bacterial infection.

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Now, don't stick anything up your bum
unless it has a flared base, like this,

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it can't get stuck inside.

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You could end up at the hospital in need
of a very humiliating emergency

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extraction. Avoid soft jelly rubber toys
that contain toxic softening agents

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called phthalates that can seep out.

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Much better choices are non -porous
materials that can be sterilized, such

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steel and aluminum, seamless acrylic,
and our favorite, 100 % silicone.

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And finally, if a toy smells toxic,
starts smoking, has rough seams, gives

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rash, or just doesn't feel right, then
for goodness sake, stop using it.

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Each week we send our roving reporters,
Georgie and Dougie, out and about to

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test the latest in sexual experiences.

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To find out what they've been up to this
week, Georgie and Dougie are here in

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the studio.

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Hi, Georgie. Hi, Dougie.

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So what have you been investigating this
week?

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This week we've been looking at sex
toys, and we decided to start by seeing

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we could come up with ourselves.

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Should we take a look?

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Yeah.

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If you don't want to splash out on
expensive shop -bought toys...

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Why not explore the contents of your
fruit and vegetable basket for some low

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-cost, high -fibre fun?

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Let's launch in with a cucumber, sorry.

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It feels enormous.

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Actually, it feels really big.

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Shall we start off with an allotment?

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Yes.

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But no marrows.

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No marrows. No marrows.

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Because of the bumps and ridges, I think
this would feel really nice to rub

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against them in between my legs.

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Those ones.

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I'm Monica.

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Could you turn it around?

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Like that?

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Like that, yeah.

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And then twist

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it. Twist it.

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It's very stimulating.

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Quite bizarre at the same time.

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Rubbing a corn on the cob on my pussy.

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Let's try your intricately carved
carrot.

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Let's pop a Johnny on it, shall we?

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Let's pop a Georgie on it.

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Actually, that's very well.

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Do I?

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Cool. It was much more interesting that
the cucumber was yummy but quite smooth

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and it was definitely going as it goes
in. It sounds like you're enjoying these

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vegetables. It's that thing that you're
doing that to me, I think. It just feels

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quite naughty.

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I think we should have the banana for
pudding. I'm going to go like this.

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And if we're thinking about my G -spot,
then this is the ideal position for

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stimulating the front wall of my vagina.

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Put some lube on the banana.

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Yes. Okay, I'm just going to be pushing
it in.

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Does this give me special powers, like
Banana Man?

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Maybe I could be Banana Woman.

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The comedy element of bananas, because
they're like your quintessential comedy

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fruit, is preventing me from gaining any
sexual satisfaction.

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I think I'll take that one out.

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So what is

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the appeal of using vegetables in the
bedroom?

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If you don't have anything else to hand
and you want to go beyond...

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I guess, your partner and what he has or
what she has, then vegetables can come

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into it. I think it could be quite fun.

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How common do you think it is for women
to use vegetables as DIY

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dildos? I think probably more common
when they're on their own. I can

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think of a number of times I've gone
scurrying down to the kitchen to see

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I've got down there, but probably more
so as a kind of...

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last resort or on your own or do you
think maybe it might feel like too seedy

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go out and buy a real authentic sex toy
and maybe this is just more organic i

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think that's definitely possible and i
think um yeah it's always something

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wholesome about it so um which one was
your favorite

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I think my favorite was probably, or the
most interesting, was probably the corn

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on the cob because it was bumpy.

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Anything else, the other ones were all
for putting inside, and they all ended

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feeling pretty much the same.

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Different sizes, but...

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sort of another vegetable going in and
the banana seemed like a really bad idea

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that seems like that could break the
condom or scratch inside there i just

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it made me want to cross my legs seeing
that one happen we wouldn't recommend

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that yeah because the sharp edge can
maybe cause a little damage and break

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00:32:02,010 --> 00:32:08,690
condom and yeah probably not a good idea
so dougie have you ever used any object

456
00:32:08,690 --> 00:32:12,860
from around the house I can remember
back in the 80s, a little massage thing

457
00:32:12,860 --> 00:32:14,720
that my mum had in the cupboard.

458
00:32:15,140 --> 00:32:17,980
And I remember it kind of had a
vibration to it.

459
00:32:19,100 --> 00:32:21,560
Something tells me she didn't just use
it on her shoulders either.

460
00:32:21,840 --> 00:32:23,600
No, I think she did.

461
00:32:24,220 --> 00:32:25,240
You hope she did.

462
00:32:25,560 --> 00:32:26,560
Yeah.

463
00:32:27,500 --> 00:32:32,520
Because it was a big block thing for
massaging the skin, not like a small

464
00:32:32,520 --> 00:32:34,960
vibrator. Yeah, I had my first orgasm
with one of those.

465
00:32:35,470 --> 00:32:36,550
The hitachi magic wand?

466
00:32:37,010 --> 00:32:38,690
No, it was, well, similar.

467
00:32:38,890 --> 00:32:41,990
It was one that heated up. It was for,
yeah, aching joints.

468
00:32:42,290 --> 00:32:45,710
Yeah. Yeah. Well, thank you both so much
for coming. We'll see you later.

469
00:32:49,330 --> 00:32:51,770
Lots more still to come on Sex, How to
Do Everything.

470
00:32:53,010 --> 00:32:57,110
After the break, we demonstrate some of
the more unusual sex toys on the market.

471
00:32:58,670 --> 00:33:00,590
And sex toy or dog toy?

472
00:33:00,790 --> 00:33:03,590
Go for it. Test your knowledge in our
exciting new game.

473
00:33:04,350 --> 00:33:05,350
Sex toys.

474
00:33:07,230 --> 00:33:10,170
Keep those batteries on charge. We'll be
back in a few minutes.

475
00:33:21,530 --> 00:33:23,550
Welcome back to Sex, How to Do
Everything.

476
00:33:24,330 --> 00:33:29,110
Coming up, roving reporters Georgie and
Dougie put popular sex toys to the test.

477
00:33:30,730 --> 00:33:34,270
And we investigate some of the more
unusual models on the market.

478
00:33:38,270 --> 00:33:42,190
Now, with so many sex toys on the
market, there are some weird and

479
00:33:42,190 --> 00:33:44,210
designs, shapes and sizes out there.

480
00:33:44,610 --> 00:33:48,290
But you're pretty clued up about all
things related to sex, right? When it

481
00:33:48,290 --> 00:33:51,870
to toys for sex and toys for dogs,
surely you'd know which was which.

482
00:33:52,170 --> 00:33:53,930
Well, we hit the streets to find out.

483
00:34:03,860 --> 00:34:05,520
Is that a toy or a dog toy?

484
00:34:06,400 --> 00:34:07,400
Wrong.

485
00:34:08,739 --> 00:34:09,739
Wrong.

486
00:34:11,980 --> 00:34:14,060
Sex toy. Why?

487
00:34:14,440 --> 00:34:17,159
Don't feel as tough as it would for a
dog toy.

488
00:34:17,520 --> 00:34:19,520
That, I'm afraid, is a dog toy.

489
00:34:19,900 --> 00:34:23,199
You need a much more tapered end if
you're going to be sticking it anywhere

490
00:34:23,199 --> 00:34:24,199
sun don't shine.

491
00:34:24,280 --> 00:34:25,760
Off you go. You ready?

492
00:34:26,800 --> 00:34:27,800
Can you find?

493
00:34:28,560 --> 00:34:30,120
I'm going to go find you.

494
00:34:31,340 --> 00:34:32,860
I think that's a dog toy.

495
00:34:37,360 --> 00:34:41,639
Big dog lead. That is actually a sex
toy. We suppose if you wanted to make

496
00:34:41,639 --> 00:34:44,540
dog your gimp, you could use it, but
that's probably illegal.

497
00:34:46,560 --> 00:34:48,320
Oh, that's disgusting.

498
00:34:49,820 --> 00:34:51,060
A male sex toy?

499
00:34:51,280 --> 00:34:52,018
You're right.

500
00:34:52,020 --> 00:34:54,460
Yeah, I don't know how you'd use it. Oh,
that's vile.

501
00:34:58,200 --> 00:34:59,980
No, that's a dog toy. I'm really
bothered.

502
00:35:01,370 --> 00:35:05,630
You stick your willy through there.
Yeah. And then you turn the vibrator on.

503
00:35:06,210 --> 00:35:07,210
It's not working.

504
00:35:07,390 --> 00:35:09,270
I think too many people have used it.
Oh.

505
00:35:10,090 --> 00:35:11,090
You're right.

506
00:35:11,330 --> 00:35:12,590
Sex toy, yeah.

507
00:35:13,170 --> 00:35:14,170
You're right.

508
00:35:14,510 --> 00:35:15,510
Very good.

509
00:35:15,710 --> 00:35:18,010
It's a butt plug. Use it with lube
always.

510
00:35:18,810 --> 00:35:20,230
Thanks. Remember that.

511
00:35:21,910 --> 00:35:24,370
I think it's something that spanks
people, actually.

512
00:35:24,910 --> 00:35:28,390
You know, that would actually work, but
it's more often you use it, a woman

513
00:35:28,390 --> 00:35:31,550
would put it inside her underwear for a
little all -day action.

514
00:35:32,410 --> 00:35:34,430
And we don't need that one back.

515
00:35:35,830 --> 00:35:37,430
So pick a toy.

516
00:35:37,830 --> 00:35:38,830
Any toy.

517
00:35:41,630 --> 00:35:42,630
Sex.

518
00:35:42,910 --> 00:35:43,910
You're right.

519
00:35:44,210 --> 00:35:46,610
What do you use it for? It came out of
here, you see.

520
00:35:47,130 --> 00:35:49,610
See? It feels pretty good. It's good.

521
00:35:50,310 --> 00:35:51,590
Are you in the mood for sex now?

522
00:35:52,890 --> 00:35:53,890
Yeah.

523
00:35:54,780 --> 00:35:58,660
Tonight we've been looking at sex toys.
Joining us now is a man whose job it is

524
00:35:58,660 --> 00:36:02,400
to test sex toys before they get to
market. So he knows what's fun and what

525
00:36:02,400 --> 00:36:04,680
isn't. Please welcome to the show,
William England.

526
00:36:05,020 --> 00:36:06,020
Hi.

527
00:36:06,980 --> 00:36:08,820
So do you have the best job or what?

528
00:36:09,300 --> 00:36:10,440
Well, apparently so.

529
00:36:10,700 --> 00:36:11,840
It's certainly worn me out.

530
00:36:12,900 --> 00:36:15,540
So what's your number one favorite sex
toy of all time?

531
00:36:15,860 --> 00:36:20,380
Well, so far, probably this, which is
the Roo Boy.

532
00:36:21,400 --> 00:36:22,940
It's a prostate massager.

533
00:36:23,580 --> 00:36:25,060
So show us how it works exactly.

534
00:36:25,340 --> 00:36:26,960
Which end goes in where?

535
00:36:27,180 --> 00:36:31,720
That bit goes in first, which is the
vibrating end.

536
00:36:31,980 --> 00:36:37,600
That's like the thin, and as it goes in,
you can find out exactly, basically,

537
00:36:37,600 --> 00:36:39,080
how your body's working inside.

538
00:36:39,340 --> 00:36:44,620
And you slip it in, that goes in the
perineum and pushes against it, and

539
00:36:44,620 --> 00:36:47,940
find that your anus will grip onto it.

540
00:36:49,190 --> 00:36:53,010
And that's a vibrating bullet in the
end? That's a vibrating bullet in the

541
00:36:53,010 --> 00:36:58,050
as well, which you can usually, a lot of
people wait until they're almost ready

542
00:36:58,050 --> 00:37:01,910
to orgasm before turning it on, which
will then push them through the

543
00:37:01,910 --> 00:37:05,470
stratosphere. But all the time it's
going to be stimulating the prostate

544
00:37:06,350 --> 00:37:08,790
And you've got a couple of other
favourites there, right?

545
00:37:09,050 --> 00:37:14,130
Yeah, we have this, which is similar,
but it comes with a ball, and this is

546
00:37:14,130 --> 00:37:17,190
solid, whereas this is very soft.

547
00:37:17,690 --> 00:37:21,230
And what's the other toy you have? The
other toy is a masturbation aid.

548
00:37:21,450 --> 00:37:23,050
This is called a Tenga.

549
00:37:23,730 --> 00:37:29,990
And basically, just pull the end off. It
comes ready lubed, and you just slip it

550
00:37:29,990 --> 00:37:32,270
in, and the feeling is unbelievable.

551
00:37:32,950 --> 00:37:34,310
And that's a one -time use?

552
00:37:34,530 --> 00:37:38,970
You can actually use it and then 20
minutes later use it again, but it's not

553
00:37:38,970 --> 00:37:40,310
recommended for the next day.

554
00:37:40,650 --> 00:37:42,550
Assuming you can get it up 20 minutes
later.

555
00:37:44,280 --> 00:37:47,180
So why do you think straight men are
taking more of an interest in toys these

556
00:37:47,180 --> 00:37:52,520
days? Because they're being encouraged
by their female partners to.

557
00:37:53,040 --> 00:37:56,100
It's been very one -sided so far.

558
00:37:56,340 --> 00:38:01,020
And now, especially since Sex and the
City, they're getting their own back.

559
00:38:01,400 --> 00:38:04,680
So what are your top tips for choosing a
toy?

560
00:38:05,200 --> 00:38:11,460
Try to choose toys that either have
instructions on the packaging or the

561
00:38:11,460 --> 00:38:12,460
assistant will tell you.

562
00:38:12,730 --> 00:38:16,290
how to use it. And guys should read the
directions, right?

563
00:38:16,510 --> 00:38:18,750
Even though they hate doing that.

564
00:38:19,210 --> 00:38:20,650
It is paramount.

565
00:38:21,110 --> 00:38:22,950
William, thank you so much for joining
us tonight.

566
00:38:23,310 --> 00:38:23,670
I

567
00:38:23,670 --> 00:38:33,970
need

568
00:38:33,970 --> 00:38:36,470
to confess I feel really guilty.

569
00:38:37,630 --> 00:38:41,870
I'm really addicted to using sex toys,
and it's really upsetting my partner.

570
00:38:41,970 --> 00:38:46,430
He's feeling a lack of intimacy, feeling
like he's not doing it for me.

571
00:38:46,630 --> 00:38:53,510
But I don't want to stop using the sex
toys. I don't want to not enjoy sex,

572
00:38:53,650 --> 00:38:55,190
and I don't want to stop using them.

573
00:38:56,050 --> 00:39:00,190
Well, you shouldn't. Plenty of women
need that extra mechanical oomph to get

574
00:39:00,190 --> 00:39:03,630
them over the orgasmic edge. So there's
really no shame in that.

575
00:39:04,300 --> 00:39:07,820
you should try maybe handing over the
controls to her to give her a sense of

576
00:39:07,820 --> 00:39:09,240
power and participation.

577
00:39:09,920 --> 00:39:12,900
And it wouldn't be a terrible idea if
next time you're masturbating, you just

578
00:39:12,900 --> 00:39:17,120
try and teach yourself how to do it with
your own hands. That way you can teach

579
00:39:17,120 --> 00:39:21,160
her that skill, and also if you ever run
out of batteries, you won't be screwed,

580
00:39:21,320 --> 00:39:22,780
or not screwed, as it were.

581
00:39:24,060 --> 00:39:26,160
Thank you very much. Thank you so much.

582
00:39:31,580 --> 00:39:35,180
Let's meet up with our roving reporters
Georgie and Dougie again and see what

583
00:39:35,180 --> 00:39:36,180
else they've been up to.

584
00:39:36,320 --> 00:39:40,140
And now it's time to check out what's on
offer in the door.

585
00:39:40,380 --> 00:39:41,680
Giddy up, big boy.

586
00:39:44,560 --> 00:39:50,160
We went out to buy and try a range of
Britain's most popular sex toys, so you

587
00:39:50,160 --> 00:39:51,160
don't have to.

588
00:39:53,200 --> 00:39:56,740
I knew about rabbits. They've even got
ducks now.

589
00:39:57,060 --> 00:39:59,120
A veritable zoo in here.

590
00:39:59,900 --> 00:40:03,560
We're now going to test drive each one
and give them a score out of ten.

591
00:40:29,880 --> 00:40:32,380
whole of my pussy because of the cup
-like design.

592
00:40:33,720 --> 00:40:34,920
And that is good.

593
00:40:35,240 --> 00:40:36,240
You're spot on.

594
00:40:37,200 --> 00:40:42,060
The way that this contrasts with a
vibrator or a toy that you would insert

595
00:40:42,060 --> 00:40:47,400
that this stimulates the external
genitalia, which is what's happening

596
00:40:47,400 --> 00:40:52,720
now, getting you ready and really
building up your arousal to the point of

597
00:40:52,720 --> 00:40:54,580
really wanting something inside you.

598
00:40:56,040 --> 00:40:57,840
So what are you going to give this one
out of ten?

599
00:40:59,330 --> 00:41:00,330
Eleven. Eleven.

600
00:41:00,390 --> 00:41:02,830
The big hip. I like this one very much.

601
00:41:03,050 --> 00:41:04,050
I like it too.

602
00:41:06,610 --> 00:41:11,350
So this is a cock ring, but in this case
it's a bull ring. It's got a bull's

603
00:41:11,350 --> 00:41:12,069
head on it.

604
00:41:12,070 --> 00:41:15,950
And it's great for when we're having
intercourse to stimulate both me and

605
00:41:15,950 --> 00:41:21,270
Georgie. And when you turn the vibrator
on, it's stimulating the horns, the

606
00:41:21,270 --> 00:41:22,590
horns here, which is rather like a
rabbit.

607
00:41:22,930 --> 00:41:24,450
So shall we give it a go?

608
00:41:35,760 --> 00:41:39,180
I love it because there's the feeling of
you being inside me and then all that

609
00:41:39,180 --> 00:41:45,860
clitoral stimulation at the same time,
which is perfect.

610
00:41:46,940 --> 00:41:50,280
So, I think this one is going to be a
joint decision.

611
00:41:51,320 --> 00:41:52,820
What should we rate this one out?

612
00:41:53,220 --> 00:41:54,220
10.

613
00:41:56,960 --> 00:41:58,000
What would you say?

614
00:41:58,820 --> 00:42:01,440
I like it. Nine and a half? Nine and a
half.

615
00:42:03,020 --> 00:42:04,820
Okay, we'll go for nine and a half.

616
00:42:08,680 --> 00:42:15,300
So this one is a relatively new design
and it has one button on the end and

617
00:42:15,300 --> 00:42:19,980
every time the button, it does something
slightly different.

618
00:42:20,260 --> 00:42:23,120
It has all these different ways and
patterns of vibrating.

619
00:42:26,040 --> 00:42:27,140
Many of them.

620
00:42:43,210 --> 00:42:48,170
Quite easy to change the settings while
you're holding it inside you.

621
00:42:50,450 --> 00:42:55,070
It's very strong, the vibration, as well
as being a really good size for having

622
00:42:55,070 --> 00:42:59,790
inside, and often you don't get those
two things together. Very intense.

623
00:43:00,470 --> 00:43:01,810
So how would you rate this one?

624
00:43:02,170 --> 00:43:05,290
I would give this sex toy 10 out of 10.

625
00:43:05,710 --> 00:43:10,970
What's unusual is that for a vibrator
that goes inside, it actually has a

626
00:43:11,030 --> 00:43:17,000
very... intense vibration it feels
almost realistic it's this lovely

627
00:43:17,000 --> 00:43:22,960
it's quite smooth um it just works
really really well lovely quality

628
00:43:22,960 --> 00:43:29,900
very well made so i think we should try
something

629
00:43:29,900 --> 00:43:36,440
completely different now okay ah yes now
this is

630
00:43:36,440 --> 00:43:39,900
a vibrator which you can put onto your
tongue

631
00:43:40,710 --> 00:43:45,170
You also put it onto your cock and your
finger, yeah.

632
00:43:45,710 --> 00:43:50,510
It comes in different sized stretchy
bands so that you can wear it on any of

633
00:43:50,510 --> 00:43:51,530
these parts of your body.

634
00:43:51,890 --> 00:43:57,270
It's very small and it has different
sleeves that fit over the vibrating

635
00:43:57,270 --> 00:44:00,030
mechanism and you can use it anywhere on
the body.

636
00:44:00,390 --> 00:44:04,130
So, just stretch it and I'll do it.

637
00:44:04,690 --> 00:44:09,390
And you just hang it like that and then
throw it away.

638
00:44:15,150 --> 00:44:21,830
This combined with Dougie's exquisite
oral skills

639
00:44:21,830 --> 00:44:24,710
is a definite winner. Amazing.

640
00:44:26,310 --> 00:44:29,830
Out of ten...

641
00:44:31,720 --> 00:44:36,820
Probably nine because it's just it's
brilliant and it's completely different

642
00:44:36,820 --> 00:44:40,540
anything we've ever stumbled across
Yeah,

643
00:44:42,320 --> 00:44:49,280
nine Yeah, hold that have a

644
00:44:49,280 --> 00:44:55,780
go in Oh no!

645
00:44:56,340 --> 00:44:57,640
What do you think of that?

646
00:44:59,920 --> 00:45:01,040
That's a bit wrong.

647
00:45:02,240 --> 00:45:05,040
It's a cock with a huge box attached to
it.

648
00:45:07,640 --> 00:45:08,640
Slowly.

649
00:45:12,420 --> 00:45:16,420
Well, I can say I've never seen anything
like this before.

650
00:45:16,840 --> 00:45:17,840
It's definitely unique.

651
00:45:18,020 --> 00:45:24,120
But I think the thing with sex toys is
it's usually you controlling the way

652
00:45:24,120 --> 00:45:27,780
they are going inside you or moving
around on you.

653
00:45:28,650 --> 00:45:35,630
and with this kind of doing its own
thing i couldn't really justify being on

654
00:45:35,630 --> 00:45:42,310
other end of this so our

655
00:45:42,310 --> 00:45:49,310
favorite with a whopping 11 out of 10 is
the passion flower so when

656
00:45:49,310 --> 00:45:54,370
georgie brings toys into the bedroom
like a vibrator or a dildo do you ever

657
00:45:54,370 --> 00:45:58,120
intimidated or is it ever off -putting
for you dougie No, I think I intimidate

658
00:45:58,120 --> 00:45:59,120
them. I'm just kidding.

659
00:46:00,200 --> 00:46:04,800
No, not at all. It's a really great way
to have fun, to have sex play.

660
00:46:05,040 --> 00:46:06,560
It's usually his idea, anyway.

661
00:46:06,900 --> 00:46:10,920
Well, how would you recommend, Georgie,
that women introduce sex toys to their

662
00:46:10,920 --> 00:46:14,180
partners so that they aren't intimidated
or feel like they're going to be

663
00:46:14,180 --> 00:46:18,720
replaced? Some men will feel
intimidated, and if they see something

664
00:46:18,720 --> 00:46:23,440
bigger than them, then they do. They get
really funny about it. But I think

665
00:46:23,440 --> 00:46:25,700
you'd need to probably introduce it
by...

666
00:46:26,080 --> 00:46:29,740
sort of saying mentioning that you have
one first of all because i know a lot of

667
00:46:29,740 --> 00:46:34,480
women sort of secretly have one in the
bedside table but um mentioning you have

668
00:46:34,480 --> 00:46:38,540
one or maybe talking about the wonderful
orgasm that you had with your vibrator

669
00:46:38,540 --> 00:46:42,980
when they were away or something and
then would you like to try it i think

670
00:46:42,980 --> 00:46:47,880
just about them making friends with your
toy and being able to use it as well as

671
00:46:47,880 --> 00:46:51,400
you do and then it's an extension of
them and their love making it's not a

672
00:46:51,400 --> 00:46:55,820
replacement and hand it over and give
them the remote control yes yes And tell

673
00:46:55,820 --> 00:46:58,560
them that vibrators can't cuddle you
after sex either, right?

674
00:46:59,140 --> 00:47:01,560
So what would make the perfect sex toy
for you?

675
00:47:01,820 --> 00:47:08,240
I do like being stimulated externally
and internally at the same time, but

676
00:47:08,240 --> 00:47:12,640
again, rabbits don't really appeal
because I find that too intense. So I

677
00:47:12,640 --> 00:47:18,680
probably a good, strong, quiet
vibration, and then something that

678
00:47:18,680 --> 00:47:21,120
vibrate for popping in at the last
minute.

679
00:47:21,640 --> 00:47:25,440
What would you say to somebody who felt
like it was kind of a seedy thing to do?

680
00:47:27,280 --> 00:47:33,780
I think most women probably have a
friend that's a little more open, you

681
00:47:33,800 --> 00:47:39,240
or less shy. And I would suggest
definitely going with a girlfriend and

682
00:47:39,240 --> 00:47:43,220
kind of having fun with it. First of
all, just going to have a look. But I

683
00:47:43,220 --> 00:47:47,660
having someone with you that is
confident about them or order online.

684
00:47:48,300 --> 00:47:50,440
They can deliver in brown paper
packaging, right?

685
00:47:50,800 --> 00:47:53,680
Order online and then, yeah, it's no
embarrassment.

686
00:47:54,280 --> 00:47:56,220
Well, thank you both so much for coming
in again.

687
00:47:56,540 --> 00:47:58,140
We'll see you next time. Thank you.

688
00:47:58,380 --> 00:47:59,380
We'll see you later.

689
00:47:59,460 --> 00:48:00,460
Georgie and Debbie.

690
00:48:02,720 --> 00:48:04,580
Okay, just to summarize what we've
learned there.

691
00:48:05,160 --> 00:48:08,460
First, tell your partner you have a toy
if you'd like them to use it on you.

692
00:48:09,080 --> 00:48:11,600
Also, involve your partner by giving
them the remote control.

693
00:48:12,020 --> 00:48:16,140
And also, finally, experiment with a
vibrating love ring as a couple.

694
00:48:25,590 --> 00:48:27,350
Let's look at some more sex toy fun.

695
00:48:33,210 --> 00:48:37,030
For the more adventurous, here's our
choice of extreme sex toys.

696
00:48:37,290 --> 00:48:42,110
The double -ended dildo is the perfect
his -and -hers extreme sex toy. The

697
00:48:42,110 --> 00:48:45,510
thinner end is for the vagina, the
larger end is for the anus.

698
00:48:46,110 --> 00:48:48,570
This toy can be used in a variety of
positions.

699
00:48:50,870 --> 00:48:51,870
Front to back.

700
00:48:52,670 --> 00:48:53,670
Face to face.

701
00:48:55,790 --> 00:48:56,790
Back to back.

702
00:48:57,610 --> 00:48:58,850
Whichever works best.

703
00:49:04,430 --> 00:49:08,550
The comb, with its revolutionary design,
looks like no other sex toy.

704
00:49:10,050 --> 00:49:14,690
Its innovative shape means it's only
partially penetrative and can be used in

705
00:49:14,690 --> 00:49:15,690
variety of positions.

706
00:49:17,970 --> 00:49:21,570
It's hands -free and designed to
simulate both men and women.

707
00:49:23,310 --> 00:49:27,970
The cone vibrates and has 16 different
settings with varying speed and pulse

708
00:49:27,970 --> 00:49:28,970
patterns.

709
00:49:30,110 --> 00:49:34,050
The suction cup dildo is a new twist on
a classic sex toy.

710
00:49:34,970 --> 00:49:38,330
Its powerful grip makes it ideal for
using in the shower.

711
00:49:39,030 --> 00:49:43,730
Use a water -resistant, silicon -based
lubricant before enjoying some hands

712
00:49:43,730 --> 00:49:44,730
-free fun.

713
00:49:48,170 --> 00:49:51,570
Whatever position you're in, please
don't go anywhere, as we'll be back

714
00:49:51,570 --> 00:49:53,830
with part four of Sex, How to Do
Everything.

715
00:49:55,230 --> 00:50:02,110
Till to come, we set out to design the
perfect sex toy, plus more his and hers

716
00:50:02,110 --> 00:50:03,110
sex toy advice.

717
00:50:21,100 --> 00:50:25,340
Welcome back to Sex, How to Do
Everything, the late night show about

718
00:50:25,340 --> 00:50:27,440
be better at getting and giving great
sex.

719
00:50:27,980 --> 00:50:32,200
Sex toys are a multi -million pound
industry, but is there such a thing as

720
00:50:32,200 --> 00:50:33,200
perfect toy?

721
00:50:33,580 --> 00:50:37,620
We set out to design the ultimate sex
toy. We wanted to look at not only what

722
00:50:37,620 --> 00:50:39,540
they can do, but also what they look
like.

723
00:50:47,880 --> 00:50:51,700
We hit the streets of London to discover
what women really want from the perfect

724
00:50:51,700 --> 00:50:52,700
sex toy.

725
00:50:54,260 --> 00:50:58,480
The more natural looking it is, the
better it is, I suppose.

726
00:50:58,960 --> 00:51:00,900
I think simplicity is probably the key.

727
00:51:01,300 --> 00:51:04,040
I think if it's overcomplicated, you end
up...

728
00:51:05,140 --> 00:51:09,560
terrifying the person you're with. I
think that they need to be more

729
00:51:09,560 --> 00:51:11,860
like something a little bit more
visually stimulating.

730
00:51:12,320 --> 00:51:18,720
You know, I'm over 50, so lubrication
obviously is an issue for girls my age.

731
00:51:18,900 --> 00:51:24,060
Better colours, more pretty, less
obvious, more discreet. I'm married to a

732
00:51:24,060 --> 00:51:25,800
Jamaican man, I don't need one of those.

733
00:51:26,620 --> 00:51:27,620
Trust me.

734
00:51:31,299 --> 00:51:34,820
We took these words of wisdom to
celebrity designer Fee Doran.

735
00:51:36,020 --> 00:51:38,160
I started looking at exotic flowers.

736
00:51:38,400 --> 00:51:41,080
I mean, they look so phallic, but they
also look really beautiful.

737
00:51:41,320 --> 00:51:43,580
This could be something that's sort of
tied around your wrist, something really

738
00:51:43,580 --> 00:51:46,400
beautiful, like an ornate kind of
bracelet or something.

739
00:51:46,700 --> 00:51:50,460
I sort of split this because this is
that sort of rabbit thing. You could put

740
00:51:50,460 --> 00:51:56,460
lubrication in it that runs through it.
You know, flowers with dew and dripping

741
00:51:56,460 --> 00:51:59,380
out, you know. Now this one, the cock's
a good size, I think.

742
00:51:59,760 --> 00:52:03,680
it's got a little screw here you could
fill it up with lubricant it actually

743
00:52:03,680 --> 00:52:10,020
basically comes this here i found it's
something that's long enough to wear

744
00:52:10,020 --> 00:52:13,500
i'm just trying to keep it away from
looking anything like a toy and just to

745
00:52:13,500 --> 00:52:19,500
make it luxurious and um an orgasmic
beautiful evening with oneself

746
00:52:19,500 --> 00:52:23,760
from feed designs we commissioned a
range of prototypes

747
00:52:25,940 --> 00:52:29,660
When we got the information in, it was
very two -dimensional, and it's our job

748
00:52:29,660 --> 00:52:31,500
to turn that into the 3D form.

749
00:52:32,640 --> 00:52:38,080
So here we're looking at the center line
for the vibrator, and we think it's

750
00:52:38,080 --> 00:52:40,880
going to finish around about here, but
obviously then we've got to get all the

751
00:52:40,880 --> 00:52:42,700
pipe work back up to the pump.

752
00:52:43,560 --> 00:52:46,520
It's been really great fun working on
this project, and we really hope it

753
00:52:46,520 --> 00:52:47,880
some pleasure to those that use it.

754
00:52:49,720 --> 00:52:53,940
With our prototypes fully operational,
we sought the expert opinion of roving

755
00:52:53,940 --> 00:52:55,310
reporter... Georgie.

756
00:52:56,410 --> 00:53:01,310
So, this first one here is called the
Multitasker and straight away I really

757
00:53:01,310 --> 00:53:02,630
like the way that it looks.

758
00:53:03,470 --> 00:53:08,550
But my favourite thing about this, which
I've never come across before, is the

759
00:53:08,550 --> 00:53:10,610
fact that it is self -lubricating.

760
00:53:15,310 --> 00:53:20,430
So I'm going to switch it on because I
like the vibrations and see how that

761
00:53:20,430 --> 00:53:21,430
feels.

762
00:53:24,200 --> 00:53:26,440
So with this one, completely different.

763
00:53:26,740 --> 00:53:28,260
And this one you wear.

764
00:53:28,640 --> 00:53:31,420
And this part at the very end vibrates.

765
00:53:41,420 --> 00:53:44,860
This one is a very beautiful exotic
flower.

766
00:53:45,160 --> 00:53:49,420
So nobody would know that it was
actually a vibrator. And I love this

767
00:53:49,420 --> 00:53:51,200
self -lubricates as well.

768
00:53:55,710 --> 00:53:59,170
Deciding which one was my favorite has
been really, really difficult.

769
00:53:59,470 --> 00:54:04,410
But in the end, I have chosen the exotic
flower.

770
00:54:04,650 --> 00:54:09,170
And this is for many reasons, and really
because we were looking at how they

771
00:54:09,170 --> 00:54:11,750
look, not just how they feel and what
they do.

772
00:54:11,970 --> 00:54:16,790
This one's self -lubricating. You can
wear it. You can adorn your body with

773
00:54:16,990 --> 00:54:19,750
And it just looks really very lovely.

774
00:54:20,110 --> 00:54:21,110
My favorite.

775
00:54:23,180 --> 00:54:27,260
So it seems that while there's no such
thing as the perfect sex toy, in this

776
00:54:27,260 --> 00:54:30,940
case, this one was the winner. Let's get
a quick summary of what we've learned

777
00:54:30,940 --> 00:54:31,940
about sex toys tonight.

778
00:54:33,260 --> 00:54:37,080
Using sex toys is a great way to spice
up your love life, and there's a huge

779
00:54:37,080 --> 00:54:38,420
range of toys to choose from.

780
00:54:38,860 --> 00:54:40,720
Sex toys don't have to be used alone.

781
00:54:41,700 --> 00:54:45,500
Introducing them into partner sex is a
great way to shake up a stale routine.

782
00:54:46,340 --> 00:54:47,720
Lube is a sex toy too.

783
00:54:48,100 --> 00:54:51,140
Be more than generous, especially with
anal toys.

784
00:54:53,440 --> 00:54:58,220
With any toy, take it nice and slow and
remember, if it's uncomfortable, just

785
00:54:58,220 --> 00:54:59,220
stop.

786
00:54:59,400 --> 00:55:03,440
And for electric devices, make sure
you've got enough spare batteries before

787
00:55:03,440 --> 00:55:04,440
start.

788
00:55:05,060 --> 00:55:07,060
So we've learned a lot about sex toys
tonight.

789
00:55:07,700 --> 00:55:11,060
Quality counts for a lot, so be willing
to spend a bit more and make sure it's

790
00:55:11,060 --> 00:55:13,440
made out of a good material, like 100 %
silicone.

791
00:55:13,860 --> 00:55:17,540
Keep your toys clean, store them well,
and if you're going to share, slap a

792
00:55:17,540 --> 00:55:18,439
condom on them.

793
00:55:18,440 --> 00:55:21,900
Keep in mind there are plenty of toys
for boys beyond the blow -up doll, as

794
00:55:21,900 --> 00:55:23,820
as great toys couples can play with
together.

795
00:55:24,240 --> 00:55:27,460
And finally, remember, whoever has the
most sex toys wins.

796
00:55:27,840 --> 00:55:31,580
So if you don't have one already, get
shopping. And if you do, it's time to

797
00:55:31,580 --> 00:55:32,580
switch it on right now.

798
00:55:32,980 --> 00:55:34,960
Join us again next time for more sex.

799
00:55:35,240 --> 00:55:36,240
Good night.

800
00:56:38,960 --> 00:56:43,600
Welcome to Sex, How to Do Everything, a
sophisticated sexual adventure designed

801
00:56:43,600 --> 00:56:45,240
to give you more pleasure.

802
00:56:45,460 --> 00:56:49,520
Our purpose is to get you to have better
sex and more of it.

803
00:56:49,780 --> 00:56:54,600
We'll be looking at anal play, sexual
fantasies, kinky fetishes, spanking,

804
00:56:54,900 --> 00:56:57,420
wanking, and fantastic orgasms.

805
00:56:57,860 --> 00:57:00,980
Tonight's show is all about oral sex.

806
00:57:01,360 --> 00:57:05,940
For some, the most intimate sex there
is, and yet for others, it doesn't even

807
00:57:05,940 --> 00:57:06,908
count.

808
00:57:06,910 --> 00:57:10,930
The ancient Greeks and the Romans
considered oral sex taboo because the

809
00:57:10,930 --> 00:57:12,330
were thought of as unclean.

810
00:57:13,010 --> 00:57:16,690
Thankfully, we live in more enlightened
times, and yet to this day, not

811
00:57:16,690 --> 00:57:17,669
everyone's a fan.

812
00:57:17,670 --> 00:57:22,570
In a recent survey, 25 % of men and
women said they rarely or never give

813
00:57:22,570 --> 00:57:23,690
sex. Why is that?

814
00:57:24,050 --> 00:57:27,630
Well, more than half the men said their
partner doesn't like receiving it, and

815
00:57:27,630 --> 00:57:30,030
nearly half the women said they don't
like giving it.

816
00:57:30,240 --> 00:57:33,560
Tonight we're here to help all you men
and women out there get over any

817
00:57:33,560 --> 00:57:38,280
prejudices or bad habits and show you
how to give and get better oral sex.

818
00:57:38,840 --> 00:57:40,840
Here's what's going on in tonight's
show.

819
00:57:43,260 --> 00:57:48,860
We learn the very best oral sex
techniques for him and

820
00:57:48,860 --> 00:57:51,380
for her.

821
00:57:54,480 --> 00:57:59,540
Our roving reporters, Georgie and
Dougie, reap the benefits of a master

822
00:57:59,540 --> 00:58:06,460
fellatio and we discover how it's
possible for

823
00:58:06,460 --> 00:58:08,520
a man to give himself a blow job

824
00:58:08,520 --> 00:58:15,440
oral sex

825
00:58:15,440 --> 00:58:20,200
isn't just something you can decide not
to be into like say japanese rope

826
00:58:20,200 --> 00:58:24,170
bondage For a lot of people, a lack of
oral is a relationship deal breaker.

827
00:58:24,470 --> 00:58:27,270
So here are five great tips on how to
love it more.

828
00:58:27,830 --> 00:58:32,190
One, if going down feels demeaning to
you, try initiating. It'll make you feel

829
00:58:32,190 --> 00:58:33,190
more in charge.

830
00:58:33,250 --> 00:58:37,230
Plus, nine out of ten people agree that
oral feels twice as nice if you don't

831
00:58:37,230 --> 00:58:38,230
have to ask for it.

832
00:58:38,550 --> 00:58:42,950
Two, do unto others as you would have
them do unto you. But if you like oral

833
00:58:42,950 --> 00:58:46,070
more than your partner, then you'll have
to figure out another way to return the

834
00:58:46,070 --> 00:58:48,170
favor. A half -hour massage, perhaps.

835
00:58:48,730 --> 00:58:52,330
Three. If either one of you is
squeamish, whether about giving or

836
00:58:52,650 --> 00:58:53,890
then just stop in the shower first.

837
00:58:54,270 --> 00:58:57,750
But if you'd rather taste your partner
than their shower gel, then wait an hour

838
00:58:57,750 --> 00:58:58,930
or two before heading downtown.

839
00:58:59,870 --> 00:59:02,890
Four, deep throating is not a
requirement.

840
00:59:03,350 --> 00:59:07,430
Ladies, if you're not a professionally
trained circus sword swallower, then

841
00:59:07,430 --> 00:59:10,310
using two hands to extend your own mouth
is fine.

842
00:59:10,630 --> 00:59:12,490
In fact, that's a requirement.

843
00:59:13,410 --> 00:59:14,410
Finally, five.

844
00:59:14,470 --> 00:59:17,810
If you don't like oral simply because
your partner is clueless down there,

845
00:59:17,810 --> 00:59:18,810
make some noise.

846
00:59:19,110 --> 00:59:22,370
Moans of pleasure will clue them into
what feels good. You can even give them

847
00:59:22,370 --> 00:59:25,130
direction. Just don't make it sound like
you're backseat driving.

848
00:59:26,490 --> 00:59:29,710
Now, as experts in sex, we're asked a
lot of questions.

849
00:59:29,950 --> 00:59:34,270
And one of the biggest ones we get from
men about oral sex is, what should I be

850
00:59:34,270 --> 00:59:35,730
doing when I go down on my partner?

851
00:59:36,290 --> 00:59:40,490
So come now into our sex, how to do
everything garden of love, where Laura

852
00:59:40,490 --> 00:59:42,050
Ricardo will show you the right
techniques.

853
00:59:44,440 --> 00:59:49,620
Cunnilingus, or oral sex on a woman, is
all about pleasing her. And it really is

854
00:59:49,620 --> 00:59:53,200
worth making sure you take your time to
learn how to do it really well.

855
00:59:53,440 --> 00:59:56,660
Here are M and Lowe's top techniques for
great cunnilingus.

856
00:59:57,100 --> 01:00:01,880
Break down her inhibitions and stimulate
her desire for oral sex by nuzzling,

857
01:00:01,960 --> 01:00:05,760
kiffing, licking, and sucking the
outlying areas of her vagina.

858
01:00:06,100 --> 01:00:10,820
But remember never to blow into her in
case dangerous air bubbles enter her

859
01:00:10,820 --> 01:00:15,690
bloodstream. Get everything wet with a
wide, flat tongue and lick slowly from

860
01:00:15,690 --> 01:00:20,090
the vaginal entrance to the clitoris.
Lick up and down the center, then the

861
01:00:20,090 --> 01:00:21,970
sides, then from side to side.

862
01:00:26,010 --> 01:00:30,030
Try tracing circles or the alphabet over
her clitoris with your tongue.

863
01:00:38,090 --> 01:00:41,010
With a stiff tongue, shake your head
back and forth.

864
01:00:41,310 --> 01:00:42,930
Or you could try nibbling for variation.

865
01:00:45,290 --> 01:00:51,170
Key sensitive areas worth paying
attention to are just under the clitoral

866
01:00:51,470 --> 01:00:57,510
the urethral opening, the vaginal
opening, and her perineum, as there are

867
01:00:57,510 --> 01:00:58,510
nerve endings there.

868
01:01:02,630 --> 01:01:06,690
More from Laura and Ricardo later when
they show how to give the finest

869
01:01:06,690 --> 01:01:07,690
fellatio.

870
01:01:17,060 --> 01:01:23,240
Terrible. My boyfriend was going down on
me a couple of weeks ago and I fell

871
01:01:23,240 --> 01:01:27,820
asleep. But when I woke up, he was still
going for it.

872
01:01:28,600 --> 01:01:34,100
So he doesn't actually know. I haven't
been able to tell him. I'm really not

873
01:01:34,100 --> 01:01:35,100
sure what to do.

874
01:01:36,100 --> 01:01:40,380
Well, you should definitely feel guilty
about it, but don't ever, ever, ever

875
01:01:40,380 --> 01:01:44,320
tell him. Yeah, this is one of those
situations like when your friend asks

876
01:01:44,320 --> 01:01:48,400
if your bum looks big in jeans, where
it's perfectly acceptable to lie your

877
01:01:48,400 --> 01:01:49,400
out.

878
01:01:49,420 --> 01:01:55,300
So in the future, either politely
decline any offers of oral, or else have

879
01:01:55,300 --> 01:01:56,300
of coffee first.

880
01:01:57,000 --> 01:01:58,520
Thank you very much. Thank you.

881
01:02:02,800 --> 01:02:06,520
Plenty more coming up on Sex, How to Do
Everything. Our intrepid roving

882
01:02:06,520 --> 01:02:10,580
reporters get involved in some tongue
-twisting exercises designed to develop

883
01:02:10,580 --> 01:02:11,580
oral expertise.

884
01:02:11,800 --> 01:02:16,000
And we see if the little art project can
help one lady overcome her indifference

885
01:02:16,000 --> 01:02:17,000
to cunnilingus.

886
01:02:28,420 --> 01:02:30,540
Welcome back to Sex, How to Do
Everything.

887
01:02:31,040 --> 01:02:32,940
Tonight's show is all about oral sex.

888
01:02:33,440 --> 01:02:37,820
So to come, we find out why designer
vagina is the latest term on everyone's

889
01:02:37,820 --> 01:02:42,600
lips. And our roving reporter, Georgie,
finds out how kitty tongue licks will

890
01:02:42,600 --> 01:02:45,400
make her boyfriend, Dougie, feel like
the cat that got the cream.

891
01:02:47,900 --> 01:02:52,080
Now, the number one thing most men say
they'd like more of in their sex life is

892
01:02:52,080 --> 01:02:56,360
blowjobs. But before we give you any
more tips, we wanted to find out just

893
01:02:56,360 --> 01:02:57,360
much you know already.

894
01:02:57,960 --> 01:03:01,340
So we hit the streets of New York and
London to find out who has the most

895
01:03:01,340 --> 01:03:02,620
knowledge about giving head.

896
01:03:10,060 --> 01:03:11,660
Can you give us any oral tactics?

897
01:03:12,160 --> 01:03:15,200
I'm sort of too embarrassed to go there.

898
01:03:15,560 --> 01:03:18,460
You know, I'm always like, no, don't do
that, get away.

899
01:03:19,040 --> 01:03:24,080
Wording out the alphabet with your
tongue on the clitoris. Little nibble,

900
01:03:24,080 --> 01:03:27,460
sock. Little pull, little bite, little
push, little blow.

901
01:03:27,720 --> 01:03:28,720
Definitely a blow.

902
01:03:28,920 --> 01:03:29,980
You know, take your time.

903
01:03:30,340 --> 01:03:32,320
Make out like you're enjoying it, even
if you're not.

904
01:03:32,580 --> 01:03:34,740
Yeah, it works. As long as you get all
the way to the bed.

905
01:03:35,480 --> 01:03:36,820
Do you think ABCs?

906
01:03:37,260 --> 01:03:38,260
Hey.

907
01:03:38,640 --> 01:03:39,640
Hey.

908
01:03:39,800 --> 01:03:42,120
Hey. Do you have any oral sex tips?

909
01:03:42,740 --> 01:03:43,740
Oral sex tips?

910
01:03:43,940 --> 01:03:44,940
Go from the side.

911
01:03:45,560 --> 01:03:50,780
Don't go from the bottom. It gets very
sloppy. I have an easier time orgasming

912
01:03:50,780 --> 01:03:53,520
if I'm receiving oral sex.

913
01:03:53,960 --> 01:03:55,460
I would say tongue and fingers.

914
01:03:55,940 --> 01:03:56,940
Absolutely.

915
01:03:57,640 --> 01:03:58,640
Requirements.

916
01:03:58,820 --> 01:04:00,640
Do you have any oral sex tips?

917
01:04:00,900 --> 01:04:02,060
Take my dentures out.

918
01:04:02,280 --> 01:04:03,560
Give them a gummy.

919
01:04:03,760 --> 01:04:04,760
They'll love that.

920
01:04:04,780 --> 01:04:10,040
Go around the top for quite a while and
then suddenly into more of a deep break.

921
01:04:10,360 --> 01:04:13,420
There's this whole thing at the moment
with deep broken and stuff like that.

922
01:04:13,420 --> 01:04:15,800
if you can go all the way to the base.
Personally,

923
01:04:16,700 --> 01:04:19,300
I think it's all in the end and it's not
really in the base.

924
01:04:31,330 --> 01:04:35,270
I don't need to date anyone. I can suck
my own dick. I can rim my own ass.

925
01:04:35,710 --> 01:04:36,710
You cannot.

926
01:04:36,950 --> 01:04:41,030
Sometimes we'll have another friend join
in and, you know, join maybe a train,

927
01:04:41,270 --> 01:04:43,630
kind of like a blowjob train.

928
01:04:43,950 --> 01:04:45,270
I'm really good at all this.

929
01:04:45,610 --> 01:04:49,430
I think that I feel very confident in
it. You want me to suck my dick on the

930
01:04:49,430 --> 01:04:50,910
street? Just get in the yoga position.

931
01:04:51,170 --> 01:04:52,850
I'll suck my dick right here on the
street.

932
01:04:53,150 --> 01:04:57,830
I'm laying on my back, and then one
person's kind of laying on the side, and

933
01:04:57,830 --> 01:05:00,750
then another person's kind of laying on
his side. Can you get the visual of

934
01:05:00,750 --> 01:05:03,030
that? I usually have to do a little bit
of meditation.

935
01:05:04,670 --> 01:05:07,890
I don't know, I guess you're not
familiar with yoga, but...

936
01:05:07,890 --> 01:05:11,990
I

937
01:05:11,990 --> 01:05:21,630
think

938
01:05:21,630 --> 01:05:23,390
he still had a couple more inches to go
there.

939
01:05:23,650 --> 01:05:29,190
Yeah. I did like that one tip about
lightly blowing onto the vagina, but

940
01:05:29,190 --> 01:05:32,570
at home never blow actually into the
vagina. Very dangerous.

941
01:05:33,290 --> 01:05:36,590
But we get a lot of correspondence from
women who dread giving head because

942
01:05:36,590 --> 01:05:38,210
they're worried they're not doing it
right.

943
01:05:38,630 --> 01:05:42,770
Follow these top tips, though, and
you'll soon be enjoying giving BJs

944
01:05:42,770 --> 01:05:44,090
much as he likes receiving them.

945
01:05:51,210 --> 01:05:53,350
The bet oral comes out of the blue.

946
01:05:55,830 --> 01:05:59,970
For most men, a spontaneous blowjob is
something that would never be refused.

947
01:06:12,910 --> 01:06:14,490
Start off teasing slowly.

948
01:06:14,990 --> 01:06:18,630
Lick from the base to the head in one
stroke or lots of little ones.

949
01:06:19,130 --> 01:06:21,410
Make sure to get the shaft good and wet.

950
01:06:25,090 --> 01:06:28,490
Blow gently from the head of the penis
to the testicles and back.

951
01:06:29,630 --> 01:06:32,930
After the teasing, keep your lips in
constant contact with the penis.

952
01:06:33,130 --> 01:06:37,050
Just breathe in when your mouth is at
the top and breathe out as you move your

953
01:06:37,050 --> 01:06:38,050
lips down the shaft.

954
01:06:38,430 --> 01:06:41,670
Try one hand around the shaft as an
extension of your mouth.

955
01:06:41,950 --> 01:06:44,470
and get your hand and mouth going in the
same motion.

956
01:06:45,810 --> 01:06:51,310
For variation of sensations, try hot tea
followed by iced water in your mouth.

957
01:06:54,130 --> 01:06:58,650
Also arousing is to try stroking his
nipples or perhaps putting a finger up

958
01:06:58,650 --> 01:07:03,770
bottom. Alternatively, keep both hands
free by using a butt plug or anal beads.

959
01:07:05,110 --> 01:07:10,090
As you get near the end, he'll want a
bit more speed, suction and a firmer

960
01:07:12,590 --> 01:07:15,030
All you need to do is decide how to
finish.

961
01:07:16,450 --> 01:07:19,630
With a spit, a swallow, or a handjob.

962
01:07:22,870 --> 01:07:26,490
Another good point is that it's really
important to be in the right frame of

963
01:07:26,490 --> 01:07:30,630
mind. Yes, if you think you're good at
going down, then you probably are.

964
01:07:31,390 --> 01:07:35,130
Now, our informal research has led us to
conclude that when it comes to oral

965
01:07:35,130 --> 01:07:36,790
sex, you are what you eat.

966
01:07:37,290 --> 01:07:40,710
And it's infinitely better to work on
the scent and taste of your naughty bits

967
01:07:40,710 --> 01:07:44,690
from the inside out, rather than just
dousing them with irritating perfumes,

968
01:07:44,690 --> 01:07:45,910
soaps, and potions.

969
01:07:46,370 --> 01:07:51,610
So try cutting out coffee, cigarettes,
junk food, and of course drugs.

970
01:07:52,070 --> 01:07:55,790
And definitely cut out the veggie
that'll make anyone's leaves smell like

971
01:07:55,790 --> 01:07:57,370
cardboard? Asparagus.

972
01:07:57,950 --> 01:08:01,970
And if you're really serious about
improving your taste down there, you

973
01:08:01,970 --> 01:08:05,650
try cutting back on beer, meat, and
spicy foods too.

974
01:08:06,400 --> 01:08:10,120
But it's not all bad news. Our guinea
pigs in the field tell us that lots of

975
01:08:10,120 --> 01:08:14,800
water and lots of fresh fruit, like
kiwi, strawberries, and most especially

976
01:08:14,800 --> 01:08:17,620
pineapple, can all improve your personal
flavor.

977
01:08:17,960 --> 01:08:20,460
And a daily pinch or two of cinnamon may
help, too.

978
01:08:21,140 --> 01:08:25,720
Sure, the science is a little flimsy on
this topic, but hey, if you follow this

979
01:08:25,720 --> 01:08:29,939
diet, you'll be a lot healthier. And
there's no doubt that will improve your

980
01:08:29,939 --> 01:08:30,939
life.

981
01:08:31,210 --> 01:08:35,270
Now, even in these enlightened times,
some women feel dissatisfied with their

982
01:08:35,270 --> 01:08:40,189
vaginas. The awful term designer vagina
has even entered our vocabulary, for

983
01:08:40,189 --> 01:08:41,189
goodness sake.

984
01:08:41,250 --> 01:08:45,310
One man, though, is making a stand and
helping women feel better about their

985
01:08:45,310 --> 01:08:47,290
bits. All in the name of art.

986
01:08:50,010 --> 01:08:52,310
Vaginas come in all different shapes and
sizes.

987
01:08:52,569 --> 01:08:53,810
No two are the same.

988
01:08:54,410 --> 01:08:59,529
However, not all women love their
vaginas. And as it's not easily

989
01:08:59,529 --> 01:09:01,649
woman's vagina can remain a mystery to
her.

990
01:09:02,210 --> 01:09:07,090
Sadly, as a result, many women feel
uncomfortable about oral sex and avoid

991
01:09:07,090 --> 01:09:08,710
instead of actively enjoying it.

992
01:09:09,830 --> 01:09:13,910
Experimental sculptor Jamie McCartney
wants to change all that and make women

993
01:09:13,910 --> 01:09:15,930
lose their inhibitions about their
vaginas.

994
01:09:16,450 --> 01:09:20,490
He's been moulding and collecting
women's bits for his Design a Vagina art

995
01:09:20,490 --> 01:09:21,490
project.

996
01:09:22,210 --> 01:09:27,710
I started this project about a year ago.
In that time, I'd managed to cast about

997
01:09:27,710 --> 01:09:28,710
40...

998
01:09:30,910 --> 01:09:35,350
I've discovered that women were just as
uncomfortable with their genitals and

999
01:09:35,350 --> 01:09:38,410
just as sort of nervous about them as
men are.

1000
01:09:39,189 --> 01:09:43,290
The reason for doing this was to sort of
show whatever they've got is normal.

1001
01:09:46,029 --> 01:09:51,370
Vagina number 40 in Jamie's project and
today's Fannycaster volunteer is 22

1002
01:09:51,370 --> 01:09:52,470
-year -old Naomi Warren.

1003
01:09:53,000 --> 01:09:56,000
The first time I had oral sex was with
one of my first boyfriends.

1004
01:09:56,240 --> 01:09:59,740
I remember him telling me it looked
horribly like an ax wound and he didn't

1005
01:09:59,740 --> 01:10:03,340
really want to go down there at all,
which was fine, but I kind of thought

1006
01:10:03,340 --> 01:10:06,700
everyone would have that same thought
and not want to go anywhere near me, so

1007
01:10:06,700 --> 01:10:10,440
put me off for a while and didn't end up
doing that for a long time. I know a

1008
01:10:10,440 --> 01:10:14,000
lot of women have issues. A lot of women
don't want anyone going down near their

1009
01:10:14,000 --> 01:10:15,000
vagina at all.

1010
01:10:15,460 --> 01:10:18,760
I'm really excited to see what it will
look like in an individual way and

1011
01:10:18,760 --> 01:10:21,300
especially I'm looking forward to being
part of the art piece as well.

1012
01:10:22,280 --> 01:10:24,940
The first thing we're going to do is
obviously you need to take off your

1013
01:10:24,940 --> 01:10:27,840
trousers. Yes, I will. But just the
bottom half.

1014
01:10:32,520 --> 01:10:39,300
The stuff that I use is what dentists
use to cast your teeth.

1015
01:10:40,340 --> 01:10:45,260
It's kind of designed to go on and in
the body so it'll be safe, basically.

1016
01:10:48,620 --> 01:10:52,440
It just feels like I've just dived into
a swimming pool full of jelly.

1017
01:10:55,080 --> 01:10:57,480
I'm trying not to laugh too much in case
it starts wibbling around.

1018
01:10:59,800 --> 01:11:00,800
Okay.

1019
01:11:04,320 --> 01:11:05,320
That is nice.

1020
01:11:05,580 --> 01:11:06,478
Is that better?

1021
01:11:06,480 --> 01:11:07,940
Yes. It's like a heat pack.

1022
01:11:08,400 --> 01:11:09,400
Lovely.

1023
01:11:10,400 --> 01:11:11,920
I could lie here all day now.

1024
01:11:13,180 --> 01:11:17,740
That's going to sit about two or three
minutes, and then we'll have you.

1025
01:11:18,470 --> 01:11:19,470
Out of there.

1026
01:11:23,690 --> 01:11:24,690
Okay, right.

1027
01:11:25,410 --> 01:11:27,810
It's about ready to take off, so...
Okay.

1028
01:11:28,130 --> 01:11:29,210
I'm just going to peel this off.

1029
01:11:30,730 --> 01:11:31,870
Take some of this.

1030
01:11:33,110 --> 01:11:34,110
That is done.

1031
01:11:34,270 --> 01:11:35,810
Excellent. And there.

1032
01:11:37,050 --> 01:11:39,970
There's your... It's a girl.

1033
01:11:40,710 --> 01:11:45,290
That's really good. So that's in
reverse, so you'll kind of put the

1034
01:11:45,290 --> 01:11:47,470
and that creates the... Yeah, that's
awesome.

1035
01:11:48,240 --> 01:11:49,340
And surprisingly symmetrical.

1036
01:11:51,100 --> 01:11:55,000
After the mould's set, Jamie makes a
plaster cast and adds the finishing

1037
01:11:55,000 --> 01:11:56,720
touches. There we have it.

1038
01:11:57,200 --> 01:11:58,200
Number 40.

1039
01:11:58,400 --> 01:12:03,340
The first panel. So when this is done, I
stick it in the panel and then it's

1040
01:12:03,340 --> 01:12:04,820
ready to go up.

1041
01:12:06,920 --> 01:12:11,140
It's time for the grand unveiling of
Jamie's designer vagina project at the

1042
01:12:11,140 --> 01:12:15,600
Impure Gallery in Brighton. But is Naomi
ready to see her bitch displayed in

1043
01:12:15,600 --> 01:12:16,600
public?

1044
01:12:17,690 --> 01:12:20,010
Hiya. Hiya. I've come to see the
finished product.

1045
01:12:20,310 --> 01:12:23,770
Ah, yes. Well, we've hidden it for now.
Yes. I would have thought that might be

1046
01:12:23,770 --> 01:12:25,210
it. Are you ready?

1047
01:12:25,470 --> 01:12:26,470
I think so.

1048
01:12:30,550 --> 01:12:31,550
Okay, have a look.

1049
01:12:33,570 --> 01:12:34,570
Wow.

1050
01:12:37,370 --> 01:12:38,370
Oh, that's great.

1051
01:12:38,950 --> 01:12:39,950
What are you thinking?

1052
01:12:40,670 --> 01:12:42,410
I like that a lot. Yeah?

1053
01:12:43,710 --> 01:12:44,710
Wow, that's amazing.

1054
01:12:45,500 --> 01:12:47,180
I can't believe how different they all
are.

1055
01:12:47,680 --> 01:12:50,880
Although I'd have no idea how to find
mine in this for that whatsoever.

1056
01:12:51,520 --> 01:12:53,820
Yeah, have a good look. Check it out and
see what you think.

1057
01:12:55,340 --> 01:12:57,700
So far, Jamie's cast 40 vaginas.

1058
01:12:59,800 --> 01:13:03,240
Face to face with all of them, can Naomi
recognise her own?

1059
01:13:09,280 --> 01:13:10,820
Um, is it the first one?

1060
01:13:11,420 --> 01:13:13,280
First one? Yeah. Yeah, bingo.

1061
01:13:13,820 --> 01:13:15,180
That's really bizarre.

1062
01:13:15,400 --> 01:13:17,440
I would never have thought that that's
what it would look like. That's really

1063
01:13:17,440 --> 01:13:20,420
cool. Can I touch it? Yeah, go ahead. Is
that wrong?

1064
01:13:20,720 --> 01:13:21,720
No, no, go ahead.

1065
01:13:22,440 --> 01:13:23,440
Wow.

1066
01:13:25,160 --> 01:13:26,160
That's quite bizarre.

1067
01:13:26,200 --> 01:13:29,200
I always expected most things to look
kind of this kind of shape.

1068
01:13:29,500 --> 01:13:33,560
Yeah. But I've probably just been
reading too much porn. It's nice to know

1069
01:13:33,560 --> 01:13:36,840
it's all different and I'm different as
well, so there can't be anything wrong

1070
01:13:36,840 --> 01:13:37,719
with me.

1071
01:13:37,720 --> 01:13:40,780
Absolutely not. I mean, it's good to
know this is already dispelling that

1072
01:13:40,780 --> 01:13:42,660
then, so that it's working.

1073
01:13:45,740 --> 01:13:48,780
It was good, actually. I was a bit
worried the past couple of days,

1074
01:13:48,780 --> 01:13:51,220
what it was going to look like. But no,
it was really good, and I like the piece

1075
01:13:51,220 --> 01:13:54,780
in general. Just seeing the whole
variation has made me feel very normal

1076
01:13:54,780 --> 01:13:56,080
my axe wound.

1077
01:13:56,880 --> 01:14:01,440
It's great. I don't feel that I'm at all
different to any other women out there,

1078
01:14:01,520 --> 01:14:02,520
and everyone's going to be different
anyway.

1079
01:14:03,120 --> 01:14:06,180
I'm fine now. I'm going to go away with
a smile on my face today.

1080
01:14:07,380 --> 01:14:11,560
Joining us now to talk more about this
subject are sculptor Jamie McCartney and

1081
01:14:11,560 --> 01:14:14,200
clinical psychologist Dr. Cecilia De
Felici.

1082
01:14:14,860 --> 01:14:18,440
Welcome to the show. Thank you very
much. Thank you. It's nice to be here.

1083
01:14:20,000 --> 01:14:23,980
Jamie, what do you think the effect of
your work has had on women like Naomi?

1084
01:14:24,300 --> 01:14:27,000
I think it's been a really positive
experience for those women that have

1085
01:14:27,000 --> 01:14:31,800
back and seen their casts, which isn't
the majority, I must say, because it's

1086
01:14:31,800 --> 01:14:34,660
all anonymous. It's meant to be, and so
they all go into the pile and get mixed

1087
01:14:34,660 --> 01:14:38,300
up, unless they're specifically going to
come back and have a look. But, yeah, I

1088
01:14:38,300 --> 01:14:40,800
think it's been a very positive
experience for most women.

1089
01:14:41,310 --> 01:14:44,790
One of the things that strikes me about
this piece of work is the fact that

1090
01:14:44,790 --> 01:14:47,330
women are going to be able to have a
look at all of these different vulvas.

1091
01:14:47,690 --> 01:14:51,210
And one of the questions I asked Jamie
earlier was that do any of the women

1092
01:14:51,350 --> 01:14:55,910
oh, I wish mine looked like that? Do
women have an ideal sort of vulva that

1093
01:14:55,910 --> 01:14:56,910
think they should look like?

1094
01:14:57,260 --> 01:14:59,680
Well, they do. That's the thing. You
know, women do come in and they see

1095
01:14:59,680 --> 01:15:02,760
casts lying around or the completed
piece. And they go, oh, yeah, someone

1096
01:15:02,800 --> 01:15:03,800
oh, I wish mine was like that.

1097
01:15:04,040 --> 01:15:07,860
And then all these kind of
misconceptions. Oh, that must be a

1098
01:15:07,860 --> 01:15:09,140
and that must be a really old person.

1099
01:15:09,400 --> 01:15:12,800
And there's no relation, actually. In
fact, the one they always point out

1100
01:15:12,800 --> 01:15:15,160
that must be really young is actually
one of the oldest people in the thing.

1101
01:15:15,240 --> 01:15:19,620
Wow. So there are all these
misconceptions about what genitals are

1102
01:15:19,620 --> 01:15:20,620
look like.

1103
01:15:20,680 --> 01:15:24,620
Dr. Tachilia, why do you think so many
women are hung up about?

1104
01:15:25,670 --> 01:15:27,190
their vulva and their labia.

1105
01:15:27,930 --> 01:15:31,030
Historically, women's sexuality has
always been somewhat persecuted.

1106
01:15:31,470 --> 01:15:34,790
We know this over time. And that there's
something, you know, even the

1107
01:15:34,790 --> 01:15:37,730
Victorians thought it was unnatural for
women to want to have sex. And there was

1108
01:15:37,730 --> 01:15:40,710
all that lie back and think of England
stuff that we had going on over here. I

1109
01:15:40,710 --> 01:15:43,390
don't know whether you have something
similar in the States. But, you know,

1110
01:15:43,410 --> 01:15:47,270
it's... why should you be ashamed of
your body parts and what i really loved

1111
01:15:47,270 --> 01:15:51,590
about jamie's work is the fact that it
makes it very beautiful and very

1112
01:15:51,590 --> 01:15:55,390
accessible because it's not
gynecological so you can look at a

1113
01:15:55,390 --> 01:15:58,390
it doesn't feel like you're either
looking at porn or looking at something

1114
01:15:58,390 --> 01:16:01,650
that's really gynecological and a bit
medical you can actually really get a

1115
01:16:01,650 --> 01:16:06,410
sense of the beauty of the vulva and how
how different they all are like faces

1116
01:16:06,410 --> 01:16:10,210
they're all so unique And how do you
think women's insecurity about the way

1117
01:16:10,210 --> 01:16:13,690
look down there affects their ability to
enjoy all sex?

1118
01:16:14,350 --> 01:16:18,970
A lot of women have a real hang -up
about it and they don't want men to go

1119
01:16:18,970 --> 01:16:22,110
on them. They think that they're going
to not smell nice or that it's not going

1120
01:16:22,110 --> 01:16:26,010
to look nice. And if you don't get
positive feedback the first time, first

1121
01:16:26,010 --> 01:16:27,990
times, and I was struck by that
beautiful girl.

1122
01:16:28,250 --> 01:16:31,590
The guy said it looked like an axe had
been taken to her or something. I mean,

1123
01:16:31,630 --> 01:16:36,290
how traumatising is that going to be for
a woman to have that said to her? You

1124
01:16:36,290 --> 01:16:39,270
wouldn't want anyone to go near you if
you heard that. So I think the fact that

1125
01:16:39,270 --> 01:16:43,230
people aren't generous and they're not
saying, it's beautiful, I love it, does

1126
01:16:43,230 --> 01:16:47,310
it feel... good because people aren't
communicating you don't really know and

1127
01:16:47,310 --> 01:16:51,890
that's why communication and sex is so
important and do you think men judge

1128
01:16:51,890 --> 01:16:57,490
vaginas as harshly as women do um
actually i don't think so at all i think

1129
01:16:57,490 --> 01:17:01,550
is a real misconception men who i've
spoken to and i've shown them you know

1130
01:17:01,550 --> 01:17:07,290
pieces it's all fascinating for them but
everyone has a different idea about

1131
01:17:07,290 --> 01:17:11,820
what it is that they like It's not the
kind of necessary this kind of

1132
01:17:11,820 --> 01:17:17,340
Hollywood pussy that everyone wants to
get butchered to look like I mean you'd

1133
01:17:17,340 --> 01:17:20,100
be surprised some guys are like well
really like that. I like someone to get

1134
01:17:20,100 --> 01:17:25,920
teeth into and Women don't seem to know
this so it's quite interesting If they

1135
01:17:25,920 --> 01:17:30,460
just said the word pussy so I have to
ask yeah, what words are there any words

1136
01:17:30,460 --> 01:17:34,690
that you hate because both of us Can't
stand that word. I mean, I think, well,

1137
01:17:34,730 --> 01:17:37,790
we're just wondering if you don't like
the word because pussy is kind of a

1138
01:17:37,790 --> 01:17:42,170
pejorative term in the States. You know,
you're a pussy, it's a nasty word. I

1139
01:17:42,170 --> 01:17:45,710
think over here it's got much more
gentle connotations, you know, it's very

1140
01:17:45,710 --> 01:17:50,810
of playboy, 70s, 80s, you know. Yeah, a
bit playboy. Yeah, yeah, it's quite

1141
01:17:50,810 --> 01:17:52,590
nice. There are many words I really
don't like.

1142
01:17:55,570 --> 01:17:59,590
Probably, but, you know, I guess I keep
using the same one. So, just to recap

1143
01:17:59,590 --> 01:18:03,530
what we've learned. Understand that
vulvas are as different as faces.

1144
01:18:04,070 --> 01:18:06,750
And that you should love what you've
got. Hurrah to that!

1145
01:18:07,070 --> 01:18:09,430
Well, thank you both so much for joining
us this evening.

1146
01:18:14,350 --> 01:18:16,210
Still to come on Sex, how to do
everything.

1147
01:18:16,530 --> 01:18:20,350
We find out what happened when our
roving reporter Georgie left boyfriend

1148
01:18:20,350 --> 01:18:23,750
at home for the day and attended a
workshop on oral sex with her friend

1149
01:18:23,750 --> 01:18:24,750
Stephanie.

1150
01:18:25,100 --> 01:18:29,320
And we meet a man whose ability to give
oral sex stretches further than most.

1151
01:18:41,020 --> 01:18:43,640
Welcome back to Sex, How to Do
Everything.

1152
01:18:44,400 --> 01:18:47,840
Tonight, we're looking at how to give
and receive better oral sex.

1153
01:18:48,280 --> 01:18:52,600
Still to come, our roving reporter
Georgie learns to give boyfriend Dougie

1154
01:18:52,600 --> 01:18:53,800
blowjob of a lifetime.

1155
01:18:54,460 --> 01:18:59,200
And we debate the pros and cons of the
most well -known number in sex, 69.

1156
01:19:04,540 --> 01:19:08,260
69 is great when the guy's on the bottom
and the girl's on top. I think it can

1157
01:19:08,260 --> 01:19:10,760
be good depending on who you've got,
because if you've got someone that's

1158
01:19:10,760 --> 01:19:11,760
and that's wrong...

1159
01:19:12,000 --> 01:19:14,920
and you're giving them great pleasure,
it's just not fair. You're having your

1160
01:19:14,920 --> 01:19:19,920
muff pie, and she's enjoying the
sausage, and if it's the other way

1161
01:19:19,920 --> 01:19:22,800
a little more difficult, you know, you
could be in there, but you might be

1162
01:19:22,800 --> 01:19:24,520
choking her a little bit if you're on
top.

1163
01:19:25,020 --> 01:19:26,740
For me, there are no problems with it.

1164
01:19:26,980 --> 01:19:32,840
I wouldn't say it's my favourite
position. I mean... I mean, you look at

1165
01:19:32,840 --> 01:19:35,180
feet and stuff, I don't know, I want to
see the face as well.

1166
01:19:37,120 --> 01:19:39,840
You can't really shout to them, but
Noah...

1167
01:19:40,170 --> 01:19:41,170
I've been low on.

1168
01:19:41,250 --> 01:19:42,750
Nope, nope, nope. Too rough.

1169
01:19:43,490 --> 01:19:46,210
It's personal but impersonal, if you
know what I mean.

1170
01:19:47,250 --> 01:19:48,490
It's not always the best view.

1171
01:19:49,010 --> 01:19:50,270
I'm all about equal rights.

1172
01:19:50,730 --> 01:19:55,330
So if you cover all the bases,
everybody's happy. At the end of the

1173
01:19:55,330 --> 01:19:56,530
know you're good for another 69.

1174
01:19:57,190 --> 01:20:02,970
So, Lo, tell me this. What could
possibly be any better than

1175
01:20:02,970 --> 01:20:07,590
providing each other the kind of
stimulation that's almost guaranteed to

1176
01:20:07,590 --> 01:20:08,810
orgasm for a lot of people?

1177
01:20:09,430 --> 01:20:14,490
Yeah, but simultaneous orgasms in this
position are about as common as

1178
01:20:14,730 --> 01:20:18,690
Because it's hard to lose yourself in
the experience of receiving it when

1179
01:20:18,690 --> 01:20:22,730
busy giving it. I mean, I like
multitasking at the office, but in bed?

1180
01:20:23,430 --> 01:20:26,650
But experimenting with a 69 can make you
feel young again.

1181
01:20:27,310 --> 01:20:30,510
Um, do you really want to be having the
kind of sex you had as a teenager?

1182
01:20:30,850 --> 01:20:32,630
Okay, well how about this? This is the
real killer.

1183
01:20:33,090 --> 01:20:37,650
A 69 is like an all -access pass to your
partner's naughty bits.

1184
01:20:38,850 --> 01:20:41,330
Bum, perineum, balls, everything.

1185
01:20:42,270 --> 01:20:46,670
Yeah, but you know, Em, that for a lot
of people, watching their partner go

1186
01:20:46,670 --> 01:20:47,770
on them is the best part.

1187
01:20:48,070 --> 01:20:49,910
With 69, where's the view?

1188
01:20:51,070 --> 01:20:54,270
Hey, at least with a 69, you never have
to bicker over who's turn it is.

1189
01:20:55,150 --> 01:20:56,150
Good point.

1190
01:20:56,510 --> 01:21:00,130
Okay, you win. But I still think a 69 is
kind of like communism.

1191
01:21:00,630 --> 01:21:03,070
Good in theory, not so good in practice.

1192
01:21:03,760 --> 01:21:08,040
So there you have it. You should
definitely keep the 69 in your

1193
01:21:08,040 --> 01:21:09,040
sexual moves.

1194
01:21:09,220 --> 01:21:10,700
But only on bank holidays.

1195
01:21:16,260 --> 01:21:20,600
To find out more about learning to love
the blowjob, we enlisted the help of our

1196
01:21:20,600 --> 01:21:22,680
super sex sleuth, Georgie and Dougie.

1197
01:21:23,100 --> 01:21:26,740
Each week, our young lovers go out and
about and test the latest in sexual

1198
01:21:26,740 --> 01:21:31,480
experiences. Hi, Georgie. Hi, Dougie.
Hello. Hi. So what have you been up to

1199
01:21:31,480 --> 01:21:32,409
this week?

1200
01:21:32,410 --> 01:21:35,770
Well, this week it was all about oral
sex, so I went off to meet an

1201
01:21:35,770 --> 01:21:40,990
internationally renowned sex instructor
called Midori, and she taught me and my

1202
01:21:40,990 --> 01:21:43,750
best friend a few top tips on oral sex.

1203
01:21:44,050 --> 01:21:45,610
Well, let's take a look, shall we?

1204
01:21:46,730 --> 01:21:51,750
I've come along today with my friend
Stephanie to meet Midori and learn how

1205
01:21:51,750 --> 01:21:53,350
give great oral sex.

1206
01:21:55,140 --> 01:22:00,380
Today we're going to cover my class,
Joystick Secrets. So first thing we're

1207
01:22:00,380 --> 01:22:05,580
going to do is the approach. And for
this, I need one of you guys to wear

1208
01:22:05,580 --> 01:22:06,580
and be my boyfriend.

1209
01:22:07,180 --> 01:22:08,540
Yeah, you can be our boyfriend.

1210
01:22:09,520 --> 01:22:10,520
Stephanie,

1211
01:22:11,060 --> 01:22:12,880
tell me, how does it feel having a cook?

1212
01:22:13,460 --> 01:22:14,460
Oh, it feels quite exciting.

1213
01:22:15,280 --> 01:22:17,760
You see why we're holding on to them.

1214
01:22:19,940 --> 01:22:23,380
So the approach, it'll look something
like this.

1215
01:23:12,799 --> 01:23:14,380
Wow. How inspiring.

1216
01:23:15,600 --> 01:23:17,940
Let's break it down from the top. The
approach.

1217
01:23:18,220 --> 01:23:19,680
Hands on the inner thigh.

1218
01:23:20,660 --> 01:23:21,900
And eye contact.

1219
01:23:22,560 --> 01:23:27,880
So much about the eye contact. And from
his perspective, I'm all eyes, mouth,

1220
01:23:28,280 --> 01:23:34,780
breath. Nice view of my body. My butt
looks smaller and my legs look longer.

1221
01:23:34,780 --> 01:23:36,780
with the hands on the inner thigh.

1222
01:23:38,750 --> 01:23:43,530
Very, very sensitive area for men that's
often neglected and a nice erogenous

1223
01:23:43,530 --> 01:23:50,170
zone. You're also going to be
controlling for any unauthorized

1224
01:23:50,790 --> 01:23:52,750
And you're in charge of it.

1225
01:23:52,970 --> 01:23:54,730
Would you like to try that?

1226
01:23:55,030 --> 01:23:56,590
I would like to try that. Great.

1227
01:23:57,250 --> 01:24:04,250
Okay. Go for a tiger's prowling
approach, keeping the eye contact,

1228
01:24:04,250 --> 01:24:05,770
time. You look great.

1229
01:24:06,460 --> 01:24:07,700
Nice undulation.

1230
01:24:09,420 --> 01:24:11,560
Good eye contact.

1231
01:24:12,620 --> 01:24:14,740
Hands on your thigh.

1232
01:24:15,360 --> 01:24:17,500
Good turn on spot.

1233
01:24:19,880 --> 01:24:21,380
Very good.

1234
01:24:22,040 --> 01:24:24,720
Legs slide along his package.

1235
01:24:25,320 --> 01:24:32,180
Yeah, it's a little standing footsie.
And you're going to make a little

1236
01:24:32,180 --> 01:24:33,260
turning move.

1237
01:24:33,640 --> 01:24:35,540
Like crossing over. Yep.

1238
01:24:36,490 --> 01:24:37,490
And turn.

1239
01:24:39,930 --> 01:24:44,430
And pull his cock between your thighs
and squeeze.

1240
01:24:45,870 --> 01:24:47,210
How is it for you?

1241
01:24:47,510 --> 01:24:48,630
It's really quite sexy.

1242
01:24:49,970 --> 01:24:52,430
Good view, huh?

1243
01:24:54,650 --> 01:25:00,350
Condoms can be sexy and fun. If anyone
tells you otherwise, they just don't

1244
01:25:00,350 --> 01:25:05,030
how to put it on in a fun way. Put it on
your index finger.

1245
01:25:05,740 --> 01:25:12,600
just like this good if you see the rim
clearly that's correct if it

1246
01:25:12,600 --> 01:25:17,120
looks like a stocking cap where you
don't see the rim then it's on the wrong

1247
01:25:17,120 --> 01:25:21,380
with the finger pointing to the back of
the throat we're going to put the condom

1248
01:25:21,380 --> 01:25:26,300
rim on the outside of the teeth
literally held between the teeth and the

1249
01:25:26,300 --> 01:25:33,220
now with your mouth you're going to push

1250
01:25:33,220 --> 01:25:34,220
your lips

1251
01:25:34,670 --> 01:25:39,250
And then using your lip power, roll it
on to the cock.

1252
01:25:39,830 --> 01:25:40,830
Okay?

1253
01:25:41,610 --> 01:25:43,630
There you go.

1254
01:25:44,230 --> 01:25:48,230
And you don't have to go all the way in.
You just need to get it over the head.

1255
01:25:48,370 --> 01:25:51,950
And once you get it over the head, what
you do is then what I call the

1256
01:25:51,950 --> 01:25:52,950
harmonica.

1257
01:25:53,910 --> 01:25:57,790
Or modification, blues harmonica with
the hand.

1258
01:26:01,330 --> 01:26:03,670
And next, more mouth technique.

1259
01:26:04,470 --> 01:26:11,170
So with the lollipop, lower lip, very
fleshy, feels good for both of you. Just

1260
01:26:11,170 --> 01:26:12,830
drag, it's just dragging along.

1261
01:26:17,250 --> 01:26:18,250
Good.

1262
01:26:18,450 --> 01:26:20,030
Next, kitty tongue licks.

1263
01:26:20,390 --> 01:26:24,290
Okay, you know how kitties, when
drinking milk, okay?

1264
01:26:26,190 --> 01:26:27,950
Try it slow, try it fast.

1265
01:26:30,530 --> 01:26:33,070
You know the lip movement for more?

1266
01:26:33,800 --> 01:26:38,620
Pursing your lips in a more, more.

1267
01:26:39,180 --> 01:26:40,180
Got that?

1268
01:26:41,220 --> 01:26:42,580
That's a good set of motion.

1269
01:26:43,280 --> 01:26:47,200
I think gag reflex is something that's
part of the concern with deep throating

1270
01:26:47,200 --> 01:26:51,320
and other oral test techniques.
Definitely, yeah. Yeah. Put your

1271
01:26:51,320 --> 01:26:56,820
your mouth and make a closed mouth yawn.

1272
01:26:58,660 --> 01:26:59,660
Hmm.

1273
01:27:03,690 --> 01:27:05,570
Your throat opens up, huh? It does.

1274
01:27:05,790 --> 01:27:09,250
And relaxes. Get it all the way down
then without having any gouging.

1275
01:27:09,810 --> 01:27:14,930
Okay, we've covered a lot of material
today. I want you to do your homework.

1276
01:27:15,450 --> 01:27:17,670
And I want really good results.

1277
01:27:18,090 --> 01:27:19,590
Do you have any other questions?

1278
01:27:19,970 --> 01:27:24,830
I think a question that may be on a lot
of people's lips is when it comes down

1279
01:27:24,830 --> 01:27:26,830
to it, spit or swallow?

1280
01:27:27,050 --> 01:27:30,070
Maybe some nights you're not in the mood
to swallow.

1281
01:27:30,970 --> 01:27:37,570
In which case, let it flow all over you
in a beautiful,

1282
01:27:37,650 --> 01:27:39,390
sexy drench.

1283
01:27:39,810 --> 01:27:41,230
Let it be a pearl shower.

1284
01:27:41,570 --> 01:27:42,590
A pearl shower.

1285
01:27:43,050 --> 01:27:44,330
Yeah. Thank you.

1286
01:27:46,110 --> 01:27:47,370
Hello. Hello.

1287
01:27:48,610 --> 01:27:52,970
Hi. Hi. And how was it? Fantastic. She
was an inspiration.

1288
01:27:53,670 --> 01:27:54,670
So what have you learned?

1289
01:27:56,520 --> 01:28:01,240
I've learnt some great new angles for
taking you deeper into my mouth.

1290
01:28:03,020 --> 01:28:08,380
And how to tantalise you with some
tigress moves before I even get there.

1291
01:28:08,640 --> 01:28:11,380
Wow. The rest is a surprise for later.

1292
01:28:11,740 --> 01:28:14,020
Ooh, I definitely need to leave you two
to it now, I think.

1293
01:28:14,260 --> 01:28:15,260
Bye -bye.

1294
01:28:15,620 --> 01:28:16,620
Bye.

1295
01:28:20,910 --> 01:28:25,790
I remember Midori saying, always
elongate your body, you want your legs

1296
01:28:25,790 --> 01:28:30,990
behind you. And I think you fall into
the role of being very feline and being

1297
01:28:30,990 --> 01:28:32,790
tigress and approaching your prey.

1298
01:28:35,710 --> 01:28:38,150
The approach was incredible.

1299
01:28:38,670 --> 01:28:43,630
It was very difficult to maintain eye
contact when her body was moving in such

1300
01:28:43,630 --> 01:28:44,630
sexy way.

1301
01:28:49,960 --> 01:28:55,260
I think it was a chance for me to kind
of say, I'm doing this for you. It's

1302
01:28:55,260 --> 01:29:00,340
a kind of saucy gift. And I think that
way he's able to kind of relax and I'm

1303
01:29:00,340 --> 01:29:02,420
able to kind of do my thing.

1304
01:29:12,840 --> 01:29:14,460
Well, how lucky am I?

1305
01:29:14,840 --> 01:29:18,240
That was absolutely delicious.

1306
01:29:19,600 --> 01:29:20,600
Thank you, Midori.

1307
01:29:20,700 --> 01:29:22,700
More importantly, thank you, Georgie.

1308
01:29:23,340 --> 01:29:24,340
Thank you.

1309
01:29:27,180 --> 01:29:30,220
So, why did you want to take the class
with Midori?

1310
01:29:30,740 --> 01:29:35,160
Well, when I heard that these classes
existed, I just had a strong feeling of

1311
01:29:35,160 --> 01:29:39,120
wanting to try it. And I think anything
where you can improve on something that

1312
01:29:39,120 --> 01:29:42,160
you already love with a passion has got
to be a good thing.

1313
01:29:42,400 --> 01:29:43,760
And what was she like as a teacher?

1314
01:29:44,160 --> 01:29:48,440
She was so comfortable talking about
sex, and I think that's the first step

1315
01:29:48,440 --> 01:29:49,660
made us feel comfortable.

1316
01:29:49,960 --> 01:29:54,280
And she's very saucy with it, as well as
just being a really, really good

1317
01:29:54,280 --> 01:29:57,300
teacher. Yeah, she made you believe that
that daughter was actually a penis.

1318
01:29:57,560 --> 01:29:58,560
Yeah, I know.

1319
01:29:59,400 --> 01:30:02,200
So, Dougie, how were her lessons?

1320
01:30:02,620 --> 01:30:04,900
I really enjoyed it, if you could tell.

1321
01:30:05,600 --> 01:30:08,120
So how important is receiving oral sex
to you?

1322
01:30:08,460 --> 01:30:11,060
I love it, and I think Georgie does as
well.

1323
01:30:12,120 --> 01:30:15,800
I think it's integral into the whole
lovemaking. It just kind of happens, it

1324
01:30:15,800 --> 01:30:19,660
flows, and Georgie does it very well.

1325
01:30:20,100 --> 01:30:23,180
So, Georgie, have you ever had any hang
-ups about giving oral sex?

1326
01:30:23,520 --> 01:30:25,880
Giving oral sex, no, absolutely not.

1327
01:30:26,180 --> 01:30:27,540
Why do you think some women do?

1328
01:30:28,240 --> 01:30:33,180
I think that's often down to a bad
experience and what Midori would call

1329
01:30:33,180 --> 01:30:38,900
unauthorized thrusting. So I think you
have maybe one experience where you're

1330
01:30:38,900 --> 01:30:43,430
not feeling in control and it... you
know and it goes too deep and then you

1331
01:30:43,430 --> 01:30:47,330
of think that that's it and you'll never
you're always kind of on your toes and

1332
01:30:47,330 --> 01:30:51,010
i think that really affects a lot of
women not feeling that they know what's

1333
01:30:51,010 --> 01:30:55,010
going to happen next and midori says
that she has some tricks to help people

1334
01:30:55,010 --> 01:31:00,390
overcome that did you find that helpful
it was helpful and i think there are a

1335
01:31:00,390 --> 01:31:04,970
couple of things that spring to mind and
that is if you're about to give head

1336
01:31:04,970 --> 01:31:09,870
and you have your i think the thing was
to have your hands in contact with the

1337
01:31:09,870 --> 01:31:14,590
guy dies or here because that way you're
in control you're not holding him down

1338
01:31:14,590 --> 01:31:21,350
but the idea is that you want to be on
top you certainly don't want want it the

1339
01:31:21,350 --> 01:31:25,570
other way around and i think grabbing on
your hand yeah so on the whole spit

1340
01:31:25,570 --> 01:31:31,630
swallow or finish with a hand job where
do you fall oh it's never occurred to me

1341
01:31:31,630 --> 01:31:36,870
to spit i think that to me the idea is
abhorrent and really insulting to the

1342
01:31:36,870 --> 01:31:37,990
person that you're

1343
01:31:39,180 --> 01:31:43,640
that you're giving this wonderful gift
to, and in return they're giving. It's a

1344
01:31:43,640 --> 01:31:47,680
culmination of the whole process, and I
think... Do you agree, Dougie? Would you

1345
01:31:47,680 --> 01:31:48,900
be insulted if someone spat?

1346
01:31:49,620 --> 01:31:51,200
I think, why?

1347
01:31:51,520 --> 01:31:52,760
You know, why are they doing that?

1348
01:31:53,460 --> 01:31:59,160
I love it that Georgie does what I kind
of... She said to me before, kind of an

1349
01:31:59,160 --> 01:32:00,160
honouring thing.

1350
01:32:00,860 --> 01:32:05,340
It's just beautiful. And I think if you
don't want to swallow it, you

1351
01:32:05,340 --> 01:32:09,000
shouldn't... have it happen in your
mouth because there's ways of getting

1352
01:32:09,000 --> 01:32:13,400
to the very end and then you know nicely
finishing with your hand rather than

1353
01:32:13,400 --> 01:32:19,540
going oh just not not nice let's say if
georgie somehow could miraculously

1354
01:32:19,540 --> 01:32:24,820
ejaculate semen you do the same for her
what Yeah, absolutely.

1355
01:32:25,060 --> 01:32:30,120
I mean, I think, just think about when,
perhaps when I'm performing cunnilingus

1356
01:32:30,120 --> 01:32:34,520
on Georgie. I mean, I don't... I'm
producing fluid and scenarios a lot of

1357
01:32:34,520 --> 01:32:36,320
time. Yeah, I'm not there with a cartoon
on my left or something.

1358
01:32:38,420 --> 01:32:39,420
Well,

1359
01:32:39,740 --> 01:32:43,420
thank you so much, Georgie and Dougie.
We'll see you next week. Thank you.

1360
01:32:43,420 --> 01:32:44,420
you.

1361
01:32:53,960 --> 01:32:57,120
I was in college, and I was home for the
weekend, and I was at my dad's house,

1362
01:32:57,240 --> 01:33:03,020
and his girlfriend, who he's
incidentally still dating, offered me a

1363
01:33:03,880 --> 01:33:08,300
I never received a blowjob. I didn't
really pursue it, and I have never told

1364
01:33:08,300 --> 01:33:11,320
dad about that. I just still feel weird
about it.

1365
01:33:11,660 --> 01:33:15,460
You shouldn't feel too bad. You didn't
do anything wrong, but you should

1366
01:33:15,460 --> 01:33:19,140
probably owe it to your dad to tell him
the truth about his girlfriend's

1367
01:33:19,140 --> 01:33:21,120
seriously disturbed behavior.

1368
01:33:23,530 --> 01:33:27,130
And probably best to get her in here
because she is the one that needs to

1369
01:33:27,130 --> 01:33:28,490
confess. Thank you.

1370
01:33:33,630 --> 01:33:36,950
Time now for a quick recap of the
techniques we've learned tonight.

1371
01:33:39,110 --> 01:33:42,010
For many men, fellatio is their number
one fantasy.

1372
01:33:43,290 --> 01:33:46,450
Start by kissing and licking his penis
to get it good and wet.

1373
01:33:46,730 --> 01:33:50,710
Then keep your tongue moving,
alternating between long strokes and

1374
01:33:50,710 --> 01:33:51,679
little ones.

1375
01:33:51,680 --> 01:33:54,700
Focus on the area between the shaft and
the end of the penis.

1376
01:33:55,100 --> 01:33:59,340
When he's approaching orgasm, use more
speed, suction, and a firmer grip.

1377
01:33:59,720 --> 01:34:03,460
Guys, let her know when you're about to
climb out, so she can decide whether to

1378
01:34:03,460 --> 01:34:05,560
spit, swallow, or finish with a hand
job.

1379
01:34:08,340 --> 01:34:12,460
When you go down on her, make sure
everything's good and wet by licking

1380
01:34:12,460 --> 01:34:16,740
from the vaginal entrance to the
clitoris. Lick up and down and side to

1381
01:34:17,620 --> 01:34:19,720
Trace shapes over the clitoris with your
tongue.

1382
01:34:20,810 --> 01:34:24,690
As she gets more turned on, keep a
steady stroke, building up speed and

1383
01:34:24,690 --> 01:34:27,770
pressure. And don't forget, patience is
a virtue.

1384
01:34:32,230 --> 01:34:34,690
Don't miss part four of Sex, How to Do
Everything.

1385
01:34:34,950 --> 01:34:38,430
We'll be joined by one man who never has
to worry whether women like giving

1386
01:34:38,430 --> 01:34:39,870
blowjobs. He can do it himself.

1387
01:34:41,270 --> 01:34:42,270
That's not easy.

1388
01:34:42,430 --> 01:34:44,690
Give it a go and see how far you get
during the break.

1389
01:34:56,110 --> 01:34:57,950
Welcome back to Sex, How to Do
Everything.

1390
01:34:58,290 --> 01:35:02,270
Now, we all know manual sex is something
you can do by yourself, in front of a

1391
01:35:02,270 --> 01:35:03,530
partner and with a partner.

1392
01:35:03,790 --> 01:35:05,250
But what about oral sex?

1393
01:35:05,770 --> 01:35:08,750
Surely it takes at least two to tango
when it comes to giving head.

1394
01:35:09,030 --> 01:35:10,150
Not for our next guest.

1395
01:35:10,350 --> 01:35:14,070
Please welcome to the show, autophilicio
expert Al Eingang.

1396
01:35:17,850 --> 01:35:23,230
So Al, how and when did you discover
this unusual ability?

1397
01:35:24,650 --> 01:35:27,230
I think I started when I was 11,
probably.

1398
01:35:28,990 --> 01:35:35,510
And being a, you know, horny 11 -year
-old, it just seems sort of a natural

1399
01:35:35,510 --> 01:35:38,910
thing to do for me. And you think it's
something anyone could do? Well, women

1400
01:35:38,910 --> 01:35:40,650
can't. That's for sure.

1401
01:35:41,110 --> 01:35:42,210
Definitely not all men.

1402
01:35:43,650 --> 01:35:46,570
But I think a surprisingly large number
could if they...

1403
01:35:47,210 --> 01:35:50,190
we're willing to put the time and the
effort into it. We always assumed it was

1404
01:35:50,190 --> 01:35:53,290
an urban myth when anyone said they
could do this. Like, how is it possible?

1405
01:35:53,650 --> 01:35:55,410
It's just a matter of flexibility,
really.

1406
01:35:55,970 --> 01:36:00,270
I have a genetic condition that makes me
extra, extra flexible. Can you show us

1407
01:36:00,270 --> 01:36:01,830
how you'd get into one of these
positions?

1408
01:36:02,250 --> 01:36:03,250
Sure, no problem.

1409
01:36:04,810 --> 01:36:07,670
This is the plow position in yoga.

1410
01:36:08,610 --> 01:36:09,630
And it's my favorite.

1411
01:36:12,550 --> 01:36:14,170
So this is the basic position.

1412
01:36:15,690 --> 01:36:18,830
And then you can use your hands up here
to push down.

1413
01:36:19,870 --> 01:36:23,790
And it's very helpful to have a wall or
a ledge back here so you can use the

1414
01:36:23,790 --> 01:36:25,950
power of your legs to push down.

1415
01:36:26,210 --> 01:36:27,210
You are flexible.

1416
01:36:28,510 --> 01:36:30,550
Do you have to have a big penis to do
this?

1417
01:36:30,770 --> 01:36:33,830
I have a big penis, which I'm very happy
with. I was going to say that, which

1418
01:36:33,830 --> 01:36:34,830
begs the question.

1419
01:36:35,110 --> 01:36:38,670
The only advantage to having a big penis
is that...

1420
01:36:39,180 --> 01:36:42,180
You know, if I have an 8 -inch penis, I
get to it 2 inches sooner than someone

1421
01:36:42,180 --> 01:36:44,700
with a 6 -inch penis. So it's a little
bit easier in that sense.

1422
01:36:45,480 --> 01:36:46,480
Okay.

1423
01:36:46,640 --> 01:36:47,840
Is that enough? Is it hurting?

1424
01:36:50,240 --> 01:36:52,420
Those positions look kind of
uncomfortable.

1425
01:36:52,800 --> 01:36:56,760
The thing about this and about any other
kind of sex is it has a kind of an

1426
01:36:56,760 --> 01:36:59,080
aesthetic effect.

1427
01:36:59,360 --> 01:37:02,820
So you're able to withstand things that
you wouldn't ordinarily do.

1428
01:37:03,020 --> 01:37:04,140
Well, let's have a look at you in
action.

1429
01:37:05,040 --> 01:37:06,640
Solo sucking is an extreme sport.

1430
01:37:07,370 --> 01:37:14,190
So my top tip number one is always take
the time to learn to

1431
01:37:14,190 --> 01:37:15,190
stretch.

1432
01:37:15,430 --> 01:37:20,310
Taking a yoga class is great, but a
stretching class at the gym, maybe not

1433
01:37:20,310 --> 01:37:21,310
as good.

1434
01:37:21,690 --> 01:37:24,470
And while you're doing it, be careful.
It's easy to get excited and hurt

1435
01:37:24,470 --> 01:37:28,850
yourself. Top tip number two, don't
worry too much about penis size.

1436
01:37:29,690 --> 01:37:33,330
Having an 8 -inch cock like mine, the
only advantage is that you get to it

1437
01:37:33,330 --> 01:37:35,510
quicker. My top tip number three.

1438
01:37:36,030 --> 01:37:40,450
There are many different positions, so
if at first you don't succeed, I suggest

1439
01:37:40,450 --> 01:37:43,610
trying a simple position like the seated
C that many men find easiest.

1440
01:38:28,650 --> 01:38:29,990
That was a good short session.

1441
01:38:31,130 --> 01:38:32,910
Not quite as long as I usually like.

1442
01:38:33,730 --> 01:38:34,850
But it sure felt great.

1443
01:38:35,390 --> 01:38:39,230
And to all the men out there, if you
always want to know that there's someone

1444
01:38:39,230 --> 01:38:42,630
who can give you a great blowjob, I
recommend Solofan.

1445
01:38:46,270 --> 01:38:47,270
Holy shit.

1446
01:38:48,970 --> 01:38:50,990
I don't feel quite the same.

1447
01:38:51,830 --> 01:38:53,890
Now, before any guys at home...

1448
01:38:54,600 --> 01:38:59,800
Pull their back or hurt their neck
attempting this what tips could you give

1449
01:38:59,800 --> 01:39:00,860
if they wanted to try?

1450
01:39:01,200 --> 01:39:04,420
Yoga is very very helpful any kind of
stretching is helpful, but yoga is

1451
01:39:04,420 --> 01:39:08,400
especially good because it Tends to be
gentler so if you had to choose between

1452
01:39:08,400 --> 01:39:11,780
giving yourself a handjob and giving
yourself a blowjob Which is better

1453
01:39:11,780 --> 01:39:16,360
myself a blowjob is certainly more
intense But you know they both have

1454
01:39:16,360 --> 01:39:20,060
charms Do you think that you give
yourself a better blowjob than someone

1455
01:39:20,060 --> 01:39:22,200
could you know if somebody else is
giving me a blowjob?

1456
01:39:23,210 --> 01:39:26,390
You know, sometimes it's great.
Sometimes there's too much teeth.

1457
01:39:26,390 --> 01:39:29,710
their technique isn't all that great.
They don't really understand what's

1458
01:39:29,710 --> 01:39:30,710
to feel best for me.

1459
01:39:30,790 --> 01:39:33,010
And I, you know, obviously know what's
going to feel best for me.

1460
01:39:33,270 --> 01:39:35,110
Do you think more men should taste their
own semen?

1461
01:39:35,350 --> 01:39:36,228
Oh, absolutely.

1462
01:39:36,230 --> 01:39:42,550
That's just inconceivable to me that a
man could reach adulthood and not have

1463
01:39:42,550 --> 01:39:43,550
tasted his semen.

1464
01:39:43,610 --> 01:39:45,650
So how does this talent affect your day
-to -day life?

1465
01:39:46,590 --> 01:39:49,210
Well, I've been able to make my living
from it for 20 years.

1466
01:39:49,490 --> 01:39:52,410
Really? I have seven videos that I've
made over the years.

1467
01:39:52,810 --> 01:39:56,750
Are they instructional or erotic?
Erotic. I always felt that if there was

1468
01:39:56,750 --> 01:39:59,690
something you were good at, that you
really enjoyed and you can make your

1469
01:39:59,690 --> 01:40:03,310
from it, what could be better than that?
And how long does it take you to

1470
01:40:03,310 --> 01:40:07,510
orgasm? When do you do it? I usually
spend at least an hour, if not longer,

1471
01:40:07,590 --> 01:40:08,409
sometimes two.

1472
01:40:08,410 --> 01:40:09,410
Wow. Really?

1473
01:40:09,490 --> 01:40:12,830
Yeah. So we have to ask, when you're
giving yourself a blowjob, do you spit

1474
01:40:12,830 --> 01:40:13,830
swallow?

1475
01:40:15,290 --> 01:40:17,450
Both, depending on the occasion.

1476
01:40:18,170 --> 01:40:20,130
And I don't feel insulted if I spit.

1477
01:40:21,650 --> 01:40:23,950
Well, Al, thanks so much for coming in
tonight.

1478
01:40:24,170 --> 01:40:25,170
Thank you.

1479
01:40:28,250 --> 01:40:31,490
So, let's recap what we've learned today
about oral sex.

1480
01:40:31,810 --> 01:40:35,530
You can learn to do it better, and you
can learn to like it better.

1481
01:40:36,290 --> 01:40:39,430
Think, initiate, reciprocate, and
appreciate.

1482
01:40:40,010 --> 01:40:44,430
Also, remember to be safe and wrap your
packages before you give them to anyone

1483
01:40:44,430 --> 01:40:46,450
new. And eat pineapple!

1484
01:40:47,520 --> 01:40:49,560
Join us again next time for more sex.

1485
01:40:50,060 --> 01:40:51,060
Good night.

1486
01:41:52,620 --> 01:41:57,820
Welcome to Sex, How to Do Everything,
the show where we, Em and Lo, show you

1487
01:41:57,820 --> 01:41:59,500
everything you'll need to know about
sex.

1488
01:42:00,180 --> 01:42:04,820
As experts in sex, we get thousands of
inquiries, and they all come down to one

1489
01:42:04,820 --> 01:42:06,940
thing, how to have better sex.

1490
01:42:07,220 --> 01:42:09,660
Well, we know how, and we're going to
show you.

1491
01:42:09,920 --> 01:42:14,040
Over the coming weeks, we'll be bringing
you specialist shows on sex toys, anal

1492
01:42:14,040 --> 01:42:15,740
sex, and kinky fetish play.

1493
01:42:16,640 --> 01:42:20,060
Tonight's show is all about sex you can
do with your hands.

1494
01:42:22,510 --> 01:42:24,330
Horrible term, fingering.

1495
01:42:24,650 --> 01:42:28,730
That's why we prefer the term manual
sex, whether on yourself or a partner.

1496
01:42:28,910 --> 01:42:34,530
According to a truechristian .com study,
masturbation costs American businesses

1497
01:42:34,530 --> 01:42:41,010
at least $3 .14 billion in lost
productivity every month because people

1498
01:42:41,010 --> 01:42:42,010
wanking at work.

1499
01:42:42,390 --> 01:42:43,630
That's supposed to make us feel guilty.

1500
01:42:43,870 --> 01:42:44,870
I know.

1501
01:42:44,890 --> 01:42:49,250
Well, there will be no guilt about
getting to know yourself on this show.

1502
01:42:49,250 --> 01:42:51,030
guilt whatsoever, only pleasure.

1503
01:42:51,680 --> 01:42:54,380
Here's a quick rundown of tonight's not
-so -guilty pleasures.

1504
01:42:56,260 --> 01:43:01,820
On tonight's sex how to do everything,
we explore the sensual world of his and

1505
01:43:01,820 --> 01:43:02,880
hers hand jobs.

1506
01:43:03,320 --> 01:43:07,140
Plus, fun for one in surprising everyday
situations.

1507
01:43:07,640 --> 01:43:12,300
Our roving reporters, real -life couple
Georgie and Dougie, investigate

1508
01:43:12,300 --> 01:43:14,940
inflatable friends and cyber dildonics.

1509
01:43:15,300 --> 01:43:19,420
Later, we meet the woman behind the
world's biggest masturbation event.

1510
01:43:19,930 --> 01:43:23,310
and discover what it takes to become the
European wanking champion.

1511
01:43:24,010 --> 01:43:27,970
It was discolored, it was distorted,
there was like scarring and everything

1512
01:43:27,970 --> 01:43:28,970
this. It was painful.

1513
01:43:31,410 --> 01:43:35,490
So tonight we're celebrating the joys of
doing it by hand and showing you that

1514
01:43:35,490 --> 01:43:39,430
masturbation is proper sex, not simply
the poor relation of intercourse. So

1515
01:43:39,430 --> 01:43:43,290
don't dismiss it. There's no shame in
masturbation and it's honestly not just

1516
01:43:43,290 --> 01:43:44,290
for teenagers.

1517
01:43:44,730 --> 01:43:48,190
Now, when you talk to people about sex
for a living like we do, you get a

1518
01:43:48,190 --> 01:43:52,170
good sense of what people do and don't
do. And one thing we can't believe a lot

1519
01:43:52,170 --> 01:43:54,730
of women still don't do is masturbate
regularly.

1520
01:43:55,510 --> 01:44:00,070
According to a recent survey by British
scientists, only 37 % of women

1521
01:44:00,070 --> 01:44:01,610
masturbate from time to time.

1522
01:44:02,050 --> 01:44:03,050
That's not a lot.

1523
01:44:03,430 --> 01:44:06,270
But the benefits are numerous for both
women and men.

1524
01:44:06,590 --> 01:44:10,190
Number one, it automatically works out
your pelvic floor muscles, which aids

1525
01:44:10,190 --> 01:44:11,210
future genital health.

1526
01:44:11,730 --> 01:44:15,470
Number two, it releases endorphins which
help fight stress in the blues.

1527
01:44:16,270 --> 01:44:20,650
Three, it lets you explain to your
partner how best to give you an orgasm.

1528
01:44:20,890 --> 01:44:24,490
it's a great way to indulge the
naughtier fantasies that you'd never

1529
01:44:24,490 --> 01:44:25,970
that you don't want to share with a
partner.

1530
01:44:26,770 --> 01:44:31,150
Five, with enough practice, orgasm via
masturbation is pretty much guaranteed.

1531
01:44:31,530 --> 01:44:33,210
Not always the case with partner sex.

1532
01:44:33,610 --> 01:44:36,710
And six, this one's kind of obvious, but
it just feels good.

1533
01:44:37,840 --> 01:44:40,600
Hopefully that's enough to get your hand
down your pants sooner rather than

1534
01:44:40,600 --> 01:44:44,380
later. So come with us now to our garden
of love to learn how to give your man

1535
01:44:44,380 --> 01:44:45,660
the ultimate handjob.

1536
01:44:48,920 --> 01:44:52,440
Here are Em and Lo's top tips on giving
your man a handjob.

1537
01:44:53,400 --> 01:44:56,780
Wash your hands, manicure your nails,
and remove any rings.

1538
01:44:57,780 --> 01:45:00,420
Use a man -made lubricant to keep things
slick.

1539
01:45:03,740 --> 01:45:05,780
Run your fingers inside his boxes.

1540
01:45:07,690 --> 01:45:10,510
Caress his thighs, bottom, and pubic
hair.

1541
01:45:12,350 --> 01:45:15,990
Make contact with the genitals, but
lightly and slowly with fingertips.

1542
01:45:18,050 --> 01:45:21,570
Switch to a full -handed grip, but only
upward strokes.

1543
01:45:23,590 --> 01:45:25,610
Squeeze and pulsate gently.

1544
01:45:29,950 --> 01:45:34,750
Closer to orgasm, he may prefer you to
focus on the top half of his penis while

1545
01:45:34,750 --> 01:45:35,750
picking up speed.

1546
01:45:43,240 --> 01:45:45,840
Here are some of our favorite techniques
for you to try.

1547
01:45:47,300 --> 01:45:49,580
Rub the penis between your flat palms.

1548
01:45:54,720 --> 01:45:56,420
Cup the balls in one hand.

1549
01:45:56,680 --> 01:45:59,580
Start the other hand with an inverted
grip at the base.

1550
01:46:00,000 --> 01:46:03,140
When you get to the top, roll your palm
over the head.

1551
01:46:05,620 --> 01:46:09,760
Put your hands around the shaft with
your fingers interlocked and your thumbs

1552
01:46:09,760 --> 01:46:11,340
overlapping on the opposite side.

1553
01:46:11,840 --> 01:46:13,000
Move up and down.

1554
01:46:14,600 --> 01:46:17,660
Form an OK signal with your thumb and
index finger.

1555
01:46:18,060 --> 01:46:21,080
Twist each hand back and forth up and
down the shaft.

1556
01:46:21,780 --> 01:46:23,440
Alternate moves with each hand.

1557
01:46:24,920 --> 01:46:28,900
Focus on the underside ridge of his
shaft and massage it with the pads of

1558
01:46:28,900 --> 01:46:33,480
thumbs. Cup the head in your palm and
pretend you're polishing the top of a

1559
01:46:33,480 --> 01:46:34,480
walking stick.

1560
01:46:37,020 --> 01:46:38,520
After his orgasm...

1561
01:46:38,760 --> 01:46:42,800
Loosen your grip and resist the urge to
keep playing with his penis because it

1562
01:46:42,800 --> 01:46:43,800
will be very sensitive.

1563
01:46:51,120 --> 01:46:55,000
Still to come on tonight's masturbation
special, our roving reporters get

1564
01:46:55,000 --> 01:46:57,040
familiar with the latest in high -tech
handwork.

1565
01:46:58,400 --> 01:47:02,660
And we show you the best techniques when
lending your lady a hand on the road to

1566
01:47:02,660 --> 01:47:03,660
orgasm.

1567
01:47:13,840 --> 01:47:19,820
Welcome back coming up on sex how to do
everything We learn some more manual

1568
01:47:19,820 --> 01:47:26,460
techniques to drive your partner wild We
discover new ways to incorporate

1569
01:47:26,460 --> 01:47:28,660
masturbation into your everyday life

1570
01:47:28,660 --> 01:47:35,380
And meet the woman behind the

1571
01:47:35,380 --> 01:47:37,000
world's biggest masturbation event

1572
01:47:39,370 --> 01:47:43,810
The craziest thing I've seen was a woman
who was trying to promote the use of a

1573
01:47:43,810 --> 01:47:46,910
particular kind of a sex toy that's like
a pogo stick with a dildo on it.

1574
01:47:52,990 --> 01:47:57,830
Now, as experts in sex, we get asked a
lot of questions about masturbation. And

1575
01:47:57,830 --> 01:48:01,430
the number one question we're asked on
this topic is, how much masturbation is

1576
01:48:01,430 --> 01:48:02,430
too much?

1577
01:48:02,530 --> 01:48:06,130
To which we reply, as long as you're
showing up for work, you're not rubbing

1578
01:48:06,130 --> 01:48:08,490
yourself raw, and you're calling your
mom once a week.

1579
01:48:08,830 --> 01:48:12,590
There's no such thing as too much. To
get some idea of numbers, though, we

1580
01:48:12,590 --> 01:48:16,090
pounded the streets of London and New
York to find out how often people are

1581
01:48:16,090 --> 01:48:17,090
really doing it.

1582
01:48:24,590 --> 01:48:26,010
How often do you masturbate?

1583
01:48:26,410 --> 01:48:27,430
Not often.

1584
01:48:28,030 --> 01:48:30,650
Honestly, because I think it's more fun
with someone else.

1585
01:48:30,890 --> 01:48:31,890
A couple times a week.

1586
01:48:32,490 --> 01:48:33,850
Once a week, is that often?

1587
01:48:34,130 --> 01:48:35,650
Maybe twice a week.

1588
01:48:36,110 --> 01:48:39,150
Like, maybe every three days, maybe, or
every other day.

1589
01:48:39,450 --> 01:48:41,450
Very rarely, if at all.

1590
01:48:41,710 --> 01:48:45,870
I was raised a very strict Catholic, and
I still have problems with it.

1591
01:48:46,150 --> 01:48:51,350
Okay, when you're a Catholic, if you
think about it, you pull to the thin of

1592
01:48:51,350 --> 01:48:54,130
actually doing it. So I thought, I might
as well actually do it.

1593
01:48:54,530 --> 01:48:57,930
Obviously, you're going to wank every
day, and you're like, I mean, me, I wank

1594
01:48:57,930 --> 01:49:00,730
two or three times a day. As long as
it's more than two times a day, I'm

1595
01:49:01,130 --> 01:49:02,730
About five times a day.

1596
01:49:03,250 --> 01:49:04,390
About five times a day.

1597
01:49:05,660 --> 01:49:08,240
What's the weirdest place you've
masturbated in?

1598
01:49:08,780 --> 01:49:09,980
In the car on the way to work.

1599
01:49:10,220 --> 01:49:11,600
At an English garden shop.

1600
01:49:11,840 --> 01:49:14,620
My mom walking in on me, going down on
myself.

1601
01:49:14,940 --> 01:49:18,680
I was about 14, and I had a favorite
cemetery.

1602
01:49:19,340 --> 01:49:23,180
I couldn't straighten out, though, so
when she walked in, I kind of had to

1603
01:49:23,180 --> 01:49:25,400
tip over sideways, and it was very, very
awkward.

1604
01:49:26,110 --> 01:49:29,970
And probably everybody's jerked off in a
cemetery, I'm sure, but to me it was,

1605
01:49:29,970 --> 01:49:31,510
like, really hot.

1606
01:49:31,750 --> 01:49:35,210
Actually, last weekend, in a taxi with
an electric toothbrush.

1607
01:49:36,390 --> 01:49:37,450
The swimming pool.

1608
01:49:37,770 --> 01:49:41,070
On a bench in my mate's back garden. On
a train from Manchester to Cambridge.

1609
01:49:41,490 --> 01:49:44,430
South Corden train station toilet.

1610
01:49:44,850 --> 01:49:49,990
I was with some ladies, boobies, in a
hospital, so I was waiting for the

1611
01:49:50,010 --> 01:49:53,050
like, ten minutes ago, so I thought,
fuck it, it's a girlfriend.

1612
01:49:54,070 --> 01:49:56,770
If there wasn't just any random lady,
that would be horrible.

1613
01:49:56,990 --> 01:49:57,990
Put in a bed probably.

1614
01:49:58,550 --> 01:50:00,530
Try and keep those things indoors, you
know.

1615
01:50:04,130 --> 01:50:08,530
Now guys, we're going to let you in on
three steps to unraveling the mystery of

1616
01:50:08,530 --> 01:50:09,530
what women want.

1617
01:50:10,110 --> 01:50:13,930
Understand and embrace what we're about
to tell you and you will become a sex

1618
01:50:13,930 --> 01:50:15,170
god in your woman's eyes.

1619
01:50:15,790 --> 01:50:16,890
Okay, step one.

1620
01:50:17,550 --> 01:50:20,930
Stop thinking of handwork on her as
foreplay. Think of it as sex.

1621
01:50:21,150 --> 01:50:25,130
For many women, it's far more effective
than intercourse and eliciting orgasms.

1622
01:50:25,310 --> 01:50:28,490
Think about how much more control and
range of motion you have with your

1623
01:50:28,490 --> 01:50:29,449
than your penis.

1624
01:50:29,450 --> 01:50:33,350
Then consider how crucial her clitoris
and perhaps her G -spot are to her

1625
01:50:33,350 --> 01:50:38,830
orgasms. Step number two, make sure her
orgasm comes first because after an

1626
01:50:38,830 --> 01:50:41,390
orgasm is when she's really up for
further stimulation.

1627
01:50:42,360 --> 01:50:46,940
And finally, step three, keep up the
manual sex on her during all other forms

1628
01:50:46,940 --> 01:50:51,100
sex, whether intercourse, oral, or anal.
We're mostly talking about clitoral

1629
01:50:51,100 --> 01:50:54,820
massage here, or also known as clitage,
stimulating the clitoris with your

1630
01:50:54,820 --> 01:50:56,020
fingers, leg, or penis.

1631
01:50:56,360 --> 01:51:00,720
That will ensure greater pleasure and a
greater chance of orgasm for her. So

1632
01:51:00,720 --> 01:51:04,800
here's a quick guide to handwork on her,
courtesy of Laura and Ricardo, over in

1633
01:51:04,800 --> 01:51:05,800
the garden.

1634
01:51:09,360 --> 01:51:14,300
Just because Manuel plays traditionally
a lonesome part -time, there's nothing

1635
01:51:14,300 --> 01:51:16,240
to say you can't bring two to the party.

1636
01:51:20,020 --> 01:51:24,440
Make sure your hands are clean and soft,
and your nails are short and smooth.

1637
01:51:27,860 --> 01:51:32,780
Use a high -quality water or silicon
-based lubricant to add to her natural

1638
01:51:32,780 --> 01:51:33,780
wetness.

1639
01:51:36,400 --> 01:51:38,840
Make sure she's aroused and engorged.

1640
01:51:39,100 --> 01:51:42,940
by stimulating outlying erogenous zones
working your way in.

1641
01:51:43,800 --> 01:51:46,080
Run your fingers through her pubic hair.

1642
01:51:46,900 --> 01:51:50,820
Place your hand from her pubic bone to
her perineum and apply pressure.

1643
01:51:53,800 --> 01:51:55,960
Stroke her outer and inner labia.

1644
01:51:56,340 --> 01:52:01,640
Move your finger from her clitoral head
down to the perineum and back, avoiding

1645
01:52:01,640 --> 01:52:03,440
the anus as this can lead to infection.

1646
01:52:05,080 --> 01:52:08,520
Try a rapid side -to -side movement
across her clitoral head.

1647
01:52:09,000 --> 01:52:11,460
Ask whether she likes it soft or hard.

1648
01:52:12,440 --> 01:52:17,740
Then try tracing your finger in a
circular motion around and closing in

1649
01:52:17,740 --> 01:52:18,740
clitoral head.

1650
01:52:21,820 --> 01:52:26,320
Poke, stroke, and put pressure on
various highly sensitive spots within

1651
01:52:26,320 --> 01:52:32,440
vaginal canal, like the G -spot,
perineal sponge, A -spot,

1652
01:52:32,440 --> 01:52:35,820
and cul -de -sac to see what she likes.

1653
01:52:45,960 --> 01:52:50,980
To find the G -spot, as she lies on her
back, place a pillow under her bottom.

1654
01:52:51,380 --> 01:52:56,500
Insert one or two fingers about five
centimetres in and up, as if aiming

1655
01:52:56,500 --> 01:52:57,500
the pubic bone.

1656
01:52:57,880 --> 01:53:02,120
Feel for a rough, ridged area on the
front or upper wall of the vagina.

1657
01:53:02,560 --> 01:53:07,860
Curve your fingers in a come -hither
gesture and massage firmly and steadily.

1658
01:53:15,340 --> 01:53:18,960
So remember, don't go in there like
gangbusters. Definitely warm up first.

1659
01:53:25,260 --> 01:53:29,320
When it comes to manual sex, we all know
that men's hands are constantly

1660
01:53:29,320 --> 01:53:31,220
tinkering away with that thing down
there.

1661
01:53:31,500 --> 01:53:35,500
But for women, self -love can be a far
more subtle, intricate, and often

1662
01:53:35,500 --> 01:53:36,500
internal experience.

1663
01:53:36,800 --> 01:53:40,400
For men, self -pleasure is best done at
home, behind closed doors.

1664
01:53:40,740 --> 01:53:43,120
But women can afford to be a little more
adventurous.

1665
01:53:44,040 --> 01:53:48,780
Here then is a very light -hearted look
at incorporating masturbation into your

1666
01:53:48,780 --> 01:53:49,780
everyday life.

1667
01:53:55,720 --> 01:53:57,560
First up, the bicycle.

1668
01:54:02,680 --> 01:54:07,660
It's environmentally friendly and can
provide hands -free pleasure through a

1669
01:54:07,660 --> 01:54:13,000
combination of crotch -on -saddle
friction and bumpy terrain.

1670
01:54:22,130 --> 01:54:24,290
You're late for that very important
date.

1671
01:54:25,430 --> 01:54:29,430
But why not have some fun on the way and
sample the delights of a black cab's

1672
01:54:29,430 --> 01:54:30,430
engine vibrations?

1673
01:54:39,730 --> 01:54:40,870
Thanks for the ride, mate.

1674
01:54:43,690 --> 01:54:46,810
Next up, a horse.

1675
01:54:47,350 --> 01:54:50,090
The clitoris has as many nerve endings
as the penis.

1676
01:54:50,730 --> 01:54:53,770
and the labia tube becomes engorged with
blood during arousal.

1677
01:54:54,250 --> 01:54:58,010
So pressure and friction exerted on both
can lead to orgasms.

1678
01:55:09,690 --> 01:55:12,050
You've lied to your boss and taken the
day off sick.

1679
01:55:12,810 --> 01:55:17,170
Daytime TV has put your brain on
standby, and you wish to broaden your

1680
01:55:17,750 --> 01:55:18,810
Why not try reading?

1681
01:55:19,420 --> 01:55:22,320
Your partner has left her celebrity
magazines lying around.

1682
01:55:25,660 --> 01:55:27,700
Hmm, celebrities.

1683
01:55:30,140 --> 01:55:31,660
And it's not even cheating.

1684
01:55:36,520 --> 01:55:38,260
The shower and you're naked.

1685
01:55:38,780 --> 01:55:41,980
Always a handy precursor to sex, but
you're on your own.

1686
01:55:42,740 --> 01:55:45,140
Except for your hand and some soapy
products.

1687
01:55:50,030 --> 01:55:51,030
Cue the inevitable.

1688
01:55:55,970 --> 01:55:59,630
Opening your fridge could open a whole
window of masturbatory opportunities.

1689
01:56:02,510 --> 01:56:03,550
Find a melon.

1690
01:56:07,550 --> 01:56:10,490
Then hollow before carefully inserting
the old chap.

1691
01:56:18,400 --> 01:56:19,940
Remember to dispose of care.

1692
01:56:34,080 --> 01:56:36,640
Hi, I have a little problem with porn.

1693
01:56:37,220 --> 01:56:43,340
I watch a lot of it on my computer. I
have DVDs and I jerk off to it like

1694
01:56:43,340 --> 01:56:46,960
times a day. I can't really do anything
else without first relieving myself.

1695
01:56:47,630 --> 01:56:51,790
And, you know, I treated my wife as a
sex object in the past.

1696
01:56:52,610 --> 01:56:56,670
So I think, you know, she wasn't too
happy about that. But I do it at work,

1697
01:56:56,710 --> 01:57:00,490
I look at porn and I download. And I
even jumped off at work, you know, with

1698
01:57:00,490 --> 01:57:01,790
coworkers in the next cubicle.

1699
01:57:02,130 --> 01:57:03,550
We hope you wash your hands afterward.

1700
01:57:03,850 --> 01:57:07,910
Yeah, that's just unprofessional and
possibly unhygienic.

1701
01:57:08,210 --> 01:57:10,470
Your basic porn consumption is generally
okay.

1702
01:57:10,690 --> 01:57:15,250
But it sounds like it is interfering
with your life and living it well. So

1703
01:57:15,250 --> 01:57:16,570
to put yourself on a porn diet.

1704
01:57:17,320 --> 01:57:21,100
You can even install some shame software
on your computer that sends a list of

1705
01:57:21,100 --> 01:57:24,980
the history of where you visited to your
loved ones. You should try to find a

1706
01:57:24,980 --> 01:57:28,620
porn addict, a support group, and maybe
read some feminist literature.

1707
01:57:32,180 --> 01:57:38,680
A 2004 study found that a history of
high ejaculation frequency,

1708
01:57:39,000 --> 01:57:44,160
that's over 21 times a month, was
related to a decreased frequency of

1709
01:57:44,160 --> 01:57:48,630
cancer. Well, scientists in white lab
coats didn't invent prostate massagers

1710
01:57:48,630 --> 01:57:49,630
nothing.

1711
01:57:49,690 --> 01:57:52,130
Don't be scared. This one's a little
big, but they do come smaller.

1712
01:57:52,370 --> 01:57:57,550
Now, they're made to promote prostate
health by massaging the gland directly

1713
01:57:57,550 --> 01:58:01,370
the rectum, with this bit here, and
indirectly via the perineum, with this

1714
01:58:01,370 --> 01:58:06,590
here. But once users discovered how good
it actually felt to use, it became one

1715
01:58:06,590 --> 01:58:09,110
of the most successful male sex toys
ever.

1716
01:58:10,050 --> 01:58:12,770
So masturbation is apparently good for
men's health.

1717
01:58:13,000 --> 01:58:17,580
And now scientific research has shown
it's good for women too. A recent study

1718
01:58:17,580 --> 01:58:22,100
has found women who masturbate score
higher on self -esteem indexes than

1719
01:58:22,100 --> 01:58:26,160
who don't. And they also have better
body image and less sexual anxiety.

1720
01:58:26,660 --> 01:58:31,120
Our next guest has been promoting the
life -enhancing qualities of

1721
01:58:31,120 --> 01:58:32,120
for many years.

1722
01:58:32,540 --> 01:58:37,560
Dr. Carol Queen is a pioneering sex
educator and organizer of one of the

1723
01:58:37,560 --> 01:58:42,380
most outrageous charity events, the
annual Masturbate -a -thon in San

1724
01:58:50,240 --> 01:58:53,680
This too is science, although it
probably doesn't sound like it while

1725
01:58:53,680 --> 01:58:57,730
watching Sadie masturbate. But the fact
that your nerve endings... Like to be

1726
01:58:57,730 --> 01:58:59,270
surprised in masturbation?

1727
01:59:00,350 --> 01:59:03,990
Inconverteble. And if it takes you
longer to talk, that's good.

1728
01:59:06,690 --> 01:59:12,030
So you organize a masturbate -a -thon
every year in honor of National

1729
01:59:12,030 --> 01:59:13,030
Masturbation Month.

1730
01:59:13,270 --> 01:59:17,430
That's right. We've been doing this for
several years, and it's sort of what it

1731
01:59:17,430 --> 01:59:21,650
sounds like. It's a charity event with
masturbation, and they raise money for

1732
01:59:21,650 --> 01:59:27,050
charity. through masturbating either by
time, by number of orgasms, or just by

1733
01:59:27,050 --> 01:59:31,790
participating. So what is the etiquette
at the live masturbate -a -thon in terms

1734
01:59:31,790 --> 01:59:37,070
of nudity and perhaps clean -up,
especially for the guys and maybe for

1735
01:59:37,070 --> 01:59:39,170
the women who are female ejaculators?

1736
01:59:39,650 --> 01:59:43,810
There are a handful of etiquette rules
that are actually pretty basic. One is

1737
01:59:43,810 --> 01:59:45,630
clean up your space when you're
finished.

1738
01:59:45,850 --> 01:59:48,730
And we've got materials for people to do
that and people to help.

1739
01:59:49,610 --> 01:59:51,230
Don't go grabbing other people.

1740
01:59:52,220 --> 01:59:57,960
and put at least some kind of erotic
garb on or non -street clothes wear.

1741
01:59:57,960 --> 02:00:02,500
run around the place in your tracksuit
staring at people.

1742
02:00:02,720 --> 02:00:06,520
So what's the craziest masturbation
technique you've seen at this event?

1743
02:00:06,780 --> 02:00:11,340
The craziest thing I've seen was a woman
who was trying to promote the use of a

1744
02:00:11,340 --> 02:00:14,500
particular kind of a sex toy that's like
a pogo stick with a dildo on it.

1745
02:00:14,820 --> 02:00:18,920
Ouch! Yeah, it was... That doesn't sound
safe. We asked people to be very

1746
02:00:18,920 --> 02:00:23,860
cautious. We hear from a lot of women
who worry that using a vibrator is going

1747
02:00:23,860 --> 02:00:28,100
to desensitize them to sex with their
partners, their boyfriends, their

1748
02:00:28,100 --> 02:00:32,840
girlfriends, might numb them or damage
them in some way. So what do you say to

1749
02:00:32,840 --> 02:00:36,720
them? The kernel of truth to that is
that if you press a vibrator up against

1750
02:00:36,720 --> 02:00:40,380
yourself for a length of time, the
pressure of the vibrator starts to make

1751
02:00:40,380 --> 02:00:44,000
feel a little numb. And then people go,
oh my God, I'm losing sensitivity, I'm

1752
02:00:44,000 --> 02:00:47,640
numb. Not remembering that they have
just had an enormous orgasm, so they

1753
02:00:47,640 --> 02:00:52,050
haven't lost sensitivity at all. The
majority of women, maybe 70%, don't come

1754
02:00:52,050 --> 02:00:53,050
during partner sex.

1755
02:00:53,450 --> 02:00:57,890
So if they are orgasming with a
vibrator, they are not taking away from

1756
02:00:57,890 --> 02:01:02,390
partner sex experience. They are
learning how to become more orgasmic,

1757
02:01:02,390 --> 02:01:05,670
over time can be transferred into
partner sex.

1758
02:01:06,010 --> 02:01:09,570
So how many orgasms would you say you
get in the average masturbation session?

1759
02:01:11,050 --> 02:01:12,050
About five.

1760
02:01:12,790 --> 02:01:13,790
Yeah, about five.

1761
02:01:14,760 --> 02:01:18,440
I'm really easily orgasmic, but I have
to say, I started out being completely

1762
02:01:18,440 --> 02:01:19,500
non -orgasmic.

1763
02:01:19,760 --> 02:01:25,260
Over time, as I got more and more and
more interested in sexuality, I

1764
02:01:25,260 --> 02:01:30,420
on myself more. I mean, I really think
that that is why. I really learned to

1765
02:01:30,420 --> 02:01:33,440
take masturbation seriously, and I
learned to take it seriously really from

1766
02:01:33,440 --> 02:01:35,200
beginning because that was how I learned
to come.

1767
02:01:35,500 --> 02:01:38,080
Wow, I feel like an underachiever. Oh,
no.

1768
02:01:38,680 --> 02:01:43,840
Now, where is the strangest place you've
ever indulged in a little self -love?

1769
02:01:45,309 --> 02:01:49,470
Probably the strangest place I have ever
masturbated is in a drive -thru in

1770
02:01:49,470 --> 02:01:52,990
between ordering and getting up to the
window to pick up my burger.

1771
02:01:53,970 --> 02:01:55,490
So I had to really hurry.

1772
02:01:55,710 --> 02:01:58,130
And you were driving or in the passenger
seat? No, I was the passenger, thank

1773
02:01:58,130 --> 02:02:01,710
goodness. Because you have to go around
a curve there. I masturbate and go

1774
02:02:01,710 --> 02:02:02,710
around a curve at the same time.

1775
02:02:02,930 --> 02:02:05,350
I don't think I'm that good a driver. I
think I might be that good a

1776
02:02:05,350 --> 02:02:06,350
masturbator.

1777
02:02:16,600 --> 02:02:23,520
So I've been married for six months and
my husband, I really enjoy masturbating.

1778
02:02:23,880 --> 02:02:27,520
And he thinks that he should be able to
satisfy me and he wants me to stop

1779
02:02:27,520 --> 02:02:29,120
masturbating. What should I do?

1780
02:02:29,760 --> 02:02:32,800
Well, you're right to enjoy it and you
should keep on enjoying it.

1781
02:02:33,040 --> 02:02:36,940
Tell your husband that studies have
actually shown that the more you

1782
02:02:36,960 --> 02:02:41,260
the higher your libido will be, in which
case... the more sex you'll want to

1783
02:02:41,260 --> 02:02:43,220
have and the better sex will be with
your husband.

1784
02:02:43,540 --> 02:02:46,240
And you can also explain to him that
it's not like you're choosing between

1785
02:02:46,240 --> 02:02:48,860
and the other. You're not choosing to
masturbate instead of having sex with

1786
02:02:48,900 --> 02:02:51,580
It's just a way that you'd like to have
a little me time, like sitting on the

1787
02:02:51,580 --> 02:02:54,100
couch and reading a book. A really dirty
book.

1788
02:02:54,660 --> 02:02:55,820
That'll be five cents, please.

1789
02:02:56,240 --> 02:02:57,240
Thanks.

1790
02:03:01,930 --> 02:03:04,150
Still to come on sex, how to do
everything.

1791
02:03:04,350 --> 02:03:08,370
We'll be following our roving reporters,
Georgie and Dougie, as they find out

1792
02:03:08,370 --> 02:03:10,970
how technology can lend a hand with
manual sex.

1793
02:03:11,250 --> 02:03:15,330
But before we take a short break, a
recent survey revealed British men take

1794
02:03:15,330 --> 02:03:18,250
average of 60 strokes to orgasm during
masturbation.

1795
02:03:18,510 --> 02:03:21,190
Well, you've now got three minutes to
find out if that's true.

1796
02:03:31,290 --> 02:03:33,610
Welcome back to Sex, How to Do
Everything.

1797
02:03:34,190 --> 02:03:38,490
Still to come on tonight's show about
manual sex, we're joined by a man who's

1798
02:03:38,490 --> 02:03:41,650
entered the record book for his marathon
masturbation session.

1799
02:03:42,030 --> 02:03:46,530
You do what no one else on the continent
can do, and you basically just wank for

1800
02:03:46,530 --> 02:03:49,610
as long as you can and try and come as
many times as you possibly can as well.

1801
02:03:50,070 --> 02:03:53,970
And we find out from our roving
reporters how new technology can give

1802
02:03:53,970 --> 02:03:56,330
meaning to the term mutual masturbation.

1803
02:04:02,280 --> 02:04:05,940
Now tonight, what we really want to show
is that masturbation is perfectly

1804
02:04:05,940 --> 02:04:09,440
normal. It's actually good for you, and
you should take time to do it more.

1805
02:04:09,740 --> 02:04:14,300
But before we look up more ways to do
it, we thought we'd ask you to show us

1806
02:04:14,300 --> 02:04:15,660
your best wanking technique.

1807
02:04:34,120 --> 02:04:35,120
Just like this.

1808
02:04:35,720 --> 02:04:36,820
Keeps everyone happy.

1809
02:04:37,560 --> 02:04:39,160
Stop, and then start again.

1810
02:04:39,740 --> 02:04:41,340
It depends if I'm in your magazine.

1811
02:04:41,580 --> 02:04:43,280
Yeah, yeah. I don't know. Be
adventurous.

1812
02:04:43,640 --> 02:04:49,760
Maybe rub the tip of it. Maybe start
with a bit of finger action, and if I

1813
02:04:49,760 --> 02:04:51,060
could, I'd probably sip it.

1814
02:04:52,540 --> 02:04:54,700
Maybe the squid stuff.

1815
02:04:55,380 --> 02:04:56,780
Everyone likes a good squid wing.

1816
02:04:57,700 --> 02:05:00,320
Making sure you get it all down there.
That's where I'm sensitive as well.

1817
02:05:00,780 --> 02:05:03,960
Down all the way up and down like that,
and then as you're climaxing, holding

1818
02:05:03,960 --> 02:05:05,520
the bottom and going to the top like
that.

1819
02:05:06,000 --> 02:05:08,460
My fingernails. I would probably tickle
him.

1820
02:05:09,120 --> 02:05:10,120
Tickle him.

1821
02:05:10,520 --> 02:05:11,580
And then I'd go like this.

1822
02:05:16,820 --> 02:05:21,660
When it comes to giving manuals to a
lady, I'd give it like this.

1823
02:05:22,640 --> 02:05:23,640
Maybe a bit of this.

1824
02:05:23,920 --> 02:05:24,920
On the outside.

1825
02:05:25,880 --> 02:05:26,880
Wow.

1826
02:05:27,660 --> 02:05:31,460
Maybe a little nosy. A little nose
action in there.

1827
02:05:31,860 --> 02:05:33,340
It would be like this.

1828
02:05:34,100 --> 02:05:37,340
And it would be like this. And then it
would be like this.

1829
02:05:37,700 --> 02:05:39,900
And then like this. Hold on!

1830
02:05:40,420 --> 02:05:41,420
I'll do something like this.

1831
02:05:43,560 --> 02:05:48,100
Pushing down on the top to pleasure with
the top part of your hand here.

1832
02:05:48,460 --> 02:05:49,640
On the clitoris.

1833
02:05:49,980 --> 02:05:52,460
Using the thumb inside to push up.

1834
02:05:52,830 --> 02:05:55,110
So they're pushing the sexual area on
each other.

1835
02:05:55,450 --> 02:05:56,450
What do you think?

1836
02:06:01,030 --> 02:06:04,730
To talk about this subject further, we
are joined now in the studio by clinical

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02:06:04,730 --> 02:06:07,090
psychologist Dr. Cecilia DeFelici.

1838
02:06:07,450 --> 02:06:08,450
Welcome to the show.

1839
02:06:08,690 --> 02:06:10,490
Thank you very much for having me on.

1840
02:06:11,030 --> 02:06:14,830
Now, what are some of the differences
between men and women psychologically

1841
02:06:14,830 --> 02:06:16,010
it comes to masturbation?

1842
02:06:16,250 --> 02:06:20,190
I think the way that men fantasize about
masturbation is different from the way

1843
02:06:20,190 --> 02:06:24,630
that women do. We know that men often
think about repressed or unfulfilled

1844
02:06:24,630 --> 02:06:28,250
sexual desires, so naughty things,
things that perhaps they feel a little

1845
02:06:28,250 --> 02:06:31,530
guilty about. Whereas we know that women
tend to fantasize about...

1846
02:06:32,120 --> 02:06:35,880
experiences that they've really enjoyed,
things that they know, and that really

1847
02:06:35,880 --> 02:06:39,600
turns them on as well. And we also know
that men are much more stimulated by

1848
02:06:39,600 --> 02:06:44,320
visual stimuli than women are. So they
like a lot of porn. They like to see

1849
02:06:44,320 --> 02:06:48,360
of naked women, lots of men on women
action, lots of women on women action.

1850
02:06:48,360 --> 02:06:51,540
what are some of the psychological
benefits of masturbation for men and

1851
02:06:51,950 --> 02:06:55,510
It keeps you grounded, it keeps you in
touch with yourself, it keeps you in

1852
02:06:55,510 --> 02:06:59,130
touch with what's important and
valuable. It also means that your

1853
02:06:59,130 --> 02:07:02,690
isn't just about your sexuality, your
libido is about all your creativity, all

1854
02:07:02,690 --> 02:07:05,870
of your energy that you're putting out
into the world. So masturbation and

1855
02:07:05,870 --> 02:07:10,090
that release, de -stressing, releasing
lots of feel -good hormones into the

1856
02:07:10,090 --> 02:07:13,410
brain, all of these things are
incredibly psychologically healthy.

1857
02:07:14,060 --> 02:07:17,080
And are there physical benefits too? The
physical benefits are really

1858
02:07:17,080 --> 02:07:21,160
interesting. We know, for example, that
if men masturbate a couple of times a

1859
02:07:21,160 --> 02:07:24,620
week more than they normally do, which
is their frequency is about three to

1860
02:07:24,620 --> 02:07:25,620
five...

1861
02:07:26,300 --> 02:07:30,420
what's that should i say orgasms a week
um and if they raise that between five

1862
02:07:30,420 --> 02:07:35,220
and seven it actually has a
cardiovascular um help so that they you

1863
02:07:35,220 --> 02:07:38,420
likely to have heart attack and so
what's great about masturbating is it

1864
02:07:38,420 --> 02:07:42,880
your blood pressure so after you've
orgasmed your blood pressure is nice and

1865
02:07:42,880 --> 02:07:44,440
and that's very very healthy

1866
02:07:45,290 --> 02:07:49,970
Now, psychologically speaking, is there
such a thing as too much masturbation or

1867
02:07:49,970 --> 02:07:51,070
even too little?

1868
02:07:51,390 --> 02:07:55,250
The idea of too much masturbation comes
often from men who feel guilty about the

1869
02:07:55,250 --> 02:07:57,470
fact that they're masturbating. And that
might be because they're in a

1870
02:07:57,470 --> 02:08:00,790
relationship and they feel that they
shouldn't be masturbating. If they get

1871
02:08:00,790 --> 02:08:05,630
caught, they can feel very bad about
that. With too little masturbation, I

1872
02:08:05,630 --> 02:08:09,150
that can also be a problem because if
you're not expressing yourself sexually,

1873
02:08:09,290 --> 02:08:12,150
if you're not in a relationship, and in
this country there's about 6 million

1874
02:08:12,150 --> 02:08:16,080
people who are single, if they're not
expressing... themselves sexually, then

1875
02:08:16,080 --> 02:08:19,440
they're kind of losing out from all the
benefits that we just talked about.

1876
02:08:19,860 --> 02:08:23,160
Guilt with masturbation is usually
associated with women.

1877
02:08:23,580 --> 02:08:25,060
So why do you think that is?

1878
02:08:26,540 --> 02:08:30,440
It's a very good question, isn't it? I
mean, for me personally, I think a lot

1879
02:08:30,440 --> 02:08:32,220
it is about the way I was conditioned.

1880
02:08:32,460 --> 02:08:34,400
So I do feel guilty about masturbating.

1881
02:08:34,680 --> 02:08:38,440
I had a mother who didn't like me to
touch myself. And if she caught me with

1882
02:08:38,440 --> 02:08:42,120
hands down my panties when I was a
little girl, she would smack me and tell

1883
02:08:42,120 --> 02:08:45,080
off and tell me not to do it. And then
she went through this weird stage where

1884
02:08:45,080 --> 02:08:48,880
she'd sort of sniff my fingers, which
made me feel so ashamed. Oh, my God.

1885
02:08:49,260 --> 02:08:53,480
Even now I feel so ashamed about it. And
then I was packed off to a convent

1886
02:08:53,480 --> 02:08:55,940
where we used to have to wear knickers
in the bath and we had to get undressed.

1887
02:08:55,980 --> 02:08:59,240
under our dressing gowns and we weren't
allowed to show our bodies and so I

1888
02:08:59,240 --> 02:09:03,080
think I was conditioned really early on
in life not to touch my body, that

1889
02:09:03,080 --> 02:09:07,440
touching my body was a really bad thing.
Now I'm not alone in this. I know that

1890
02:09:07,440 --> 02:09:11,780
out there there are thousands of people,
boys as well as girls, who were told by

1891
02:09:11,780 --> 02:09:13,440
their parents, don't touch your body.

1892
02:09:13,680 --> 02:09:17,560
And so I think guilt actually starts to
become ingrained in you and you feel

1893
02:09:17,560 --> 02:09:20,760
guilty about something that you should
never feel guilty about. Your body

1894
02:09:20,760 --> 02:09:24,000
belongs to you, it's yours and you can
do what you like with it.

1895
02:09:24,540 --> 02:09:26,640
So do you have any masturbation tips to
share with us?

1896
02:09:27,280 --> 02:09:28,960
Well, I wish I was better at it myself.

1897
02:09:30,030 --> 02:09:32,750
Be relaxed. Find somewhere quiet and
private.

1898
02:09:32,970 --> 02:09:37,350
Maybe a little glass of wine or
something. Maybe a little bit of

1899
02:09:37,350 --> 02:09:41,130
something to stimulate you so that you
can start to get it turned on. And also

1900
02:09:41,130 --> 02:09:46,310
play with your nipples. Your nipples
have a direct link to your clitoris. So

1901
02:09:46,310 --> 02:09:50,150
play with your nipples. Squeeze them.
That will really help as well. And lots

1902
02:09:50,150 --> 02:09:52,450
rubbing and changing pressure as well.

1903
02:09:52,690 --> 02:09:56,090
Well, thank you so much, Cecilia. We
really appreciate you coming.

1904
02:10:06,220 --> 02:10:10,480
Each week, our intrepid roving
reporters, Georgie and Dougie, test a

1905
02:10:10,480 --> 02:10:12,820
of new sexual experiences and
techniques.

1906
02:10:13,640 --> 02:10:17,300
To find out what they've been up to this
week, please welcome Georgie and Dougie

1907
02:10:17,300 --> 02:10:18,300
to the studio.

1908
02:10:19,040 --> 02:10:20,040
Hi, guys.

1909
02:10:20,360 --> 02:10:24,760
So, it's been quite a tricky task coming
up with something for you to do that

1910
02:10:24,760 --> 02:10:27,220
wasn't just masturbating at home all
week.

1911
02:10:27,580 --> 02:10:29,000
So, what did you come up with?

1912
02:10:29,540 --> 02:10:33,700
Well, we went out to find some classic
masturbation aids as well as some

1913
02:10:33,700 --> 02:10:34,700
-edge ones, too.

1914
02:10:35,020 --> 02:10:36,180
All right, well, let's take a look.

1915
02:10:41,780 --> 02:10:43,500
Debbie, a man in a box.

1916
02:10:43,760 --> 02:10:46,280
I might not miss you as much as I
thought I would.

1917
02:10:47,220 --> 02:10:51,600
You can do anything you want. I like it
every way, every day.

1918
02:10:53,060 --> 02:10:56,560
Do me now. I want you inside me.

1919
02:10:56,960 --> 02:10:58,620
Deeper. Give it to me.

1920
02:10:58,840 --> 02:11:00,180
I think she wants it.

1921
02:11:00,500 --> 02:11:02,340
I think she wants it.

1922
02:11:16,290 --> 02:11:19,010
Hello. Hello. Did I wake you up?

1923
02:11:19,750 --> 02:11:21,250
No, I'm still awake.

1924
02:11:21,490 --> 02:11:23,610
I can't sleep. I miss you.

1925
02:11:23,830 --> 02:11:25,050
I miss you too.

1926
02:11:25,690 --> 02:11:28,750
When are you coming home? I've got no
one to play with.

1927
02:11:29,030 --> 02:11:31,870
I can't come home for a few days. It's
absolute torture.

1928
02:11:32,570 --> 02:11:35,410
I'm counting down the hours. I'll see
you soon.

1929
02:11:35,650 --> 02:11:37,330
I love you, darling. Goodbye.

1930
02:11:37,990 --> 02:11:38,990
Goodbye.

1931
02:11:46,040 --> 02:11:47,800
Inviting Anus. Interesting.

1932
02:11:54,220 --> 02:11:58,980
Where do you get your themes done?

1933
02:12:12,720 --> 02:12:14,920
I think this is supposed to go in before
I blow.

1934
02:12:17,480 --> 02:12:20,440
There we are, magnificent.

1935
02:12:22,500 --> 02:12:23,780
And it vibrates.

1936
02:12:28,920 --> 02:12:32,300
I'm not entirely sure what I'm supposed
to do with this.

1937
02:12:33,860 --> 02:12:39,720
I'm looking at his mouth now and I'm not
sure I have the apparatus to put in

1938
02:12:39,720 --> 02:12:40,720
here.

1939
02:12:43,720 --> 02:12:44,720
Nice to smell.

1940
02:12:44,860 --> 02:12:49,720
Just the whole plastic pill, the smell,
the scary face.

1941
02:12:50,600 --> 02:12:54,900
I don't think I'll be trying that. It
kind of looks a bit scary and very, very

1942
02:12:54,900 --> 02:12:57,300
veiny. It doesn't have an inviting anus.

1943
02:12:58,200 --> 02:13:00,740
And it doesn't have any feet, toes.

1944
02:13:01,620 --> 02:13:02,920
The breast is quite good.

1945
02:13:03,620 --> 02:13:07,640
It's just not the same. It's not duggy.
And I think I'd rather wait for the real

1946
02:13:07,640 --> 02:13:08,640
thing.

1947
02:13:09,480 --> 02:13:10,660
It's OK with me.

1948
02:13:14,100 --> 02:13:18,240
So, dolls aren't really for me, and I'm
sure they're not much of a turn -on for

1949
02:13:18,240 --> 02:13:22,280
Dougie either, but there is one thing we
picked up the other day that I am

1950
02:13:22,280 --> 02:13:23,860
really looking forward to trying.

1951
02:13:24,180 --> 02:13:28,860
The inventors of this gadget claim to
have found a solution to our problem.

1952
02:13:29,640 --> 02:13:34,460
Cyber -dildonics. The theory's been
around for over 30 years now, but only

1953
02:13:34,460 --> 02:13:38,440
recently, due to advances in technology,
has the theory been put into practice.

1954
02:13:39,040 --> 02:13:41,360
Once the connection has been
established...

1955
02:13:41,820 --> 02:13:46,460
The person at the other end has complete
control over your vibrator or your

1956
02:13:46,460 --> 02:13:47,680
masturbatory sleeve.

1957
02:13:48,440 --> 02:13:50,180
Georgie, are you ready to give it a go?

1958
02:13:50,500 --> 02:13:52,120
Just try and stop me.

1959
02:13:53,140 --> 02:13:55,900
Now I'm going to put the sleeve on now.

1960
02:14:16,970 --> 02:14:19,990
A whole variety of settings, I've
noticed.

1961
02:14:27,070 --> 02:14:28,570
Can't wait to see you.

1962
02:14:29,470 --> 02:14:30,550
Is that good?

1963
02:14:34,470 --> 02:14:35,850
It's getting crazy.

1964
02:14:36,690 --> 02:14:38,230
Big no -no. Okay,

1965
02:14:39,670 --> 02:14:41,050
I'm stopping now.

1966
02:14:41,730 --> 02:14:42,730
Okay.

1967
02:14:43,490 --> 02:14:44,670
Mark's out of ten.

1968
02:14:45,330 --> 02:14:47,230
Probably for me, three.

1969
02:14:47,810 --> 02:14:51,930
It was fun getting in contact with
Georgie, but, you know, that's just a

1970
02:14:52,330 --> 02:14:57,050
And as far as the masturbatory sleeve
goes, it wasn't that comfortable.

1971
02:14:57,850 --> 02:15:01,210
And the only thing that Georgie was in
control of was the vibration.

1972
02:15:01,910 --> 02:15:05,190
And that wasn't that great a sensation
anyway.

1973
02:15:05,490 --> 02:15:06,490
That was...

1974
02:15:09,100 --> 02:15:09,659
It was hectic.

1975
02:15:09,660 --> 02:15:13,260
There was kind of a lot of things going
on at the same time. There's looking

1976
02:15:13,260 --> 02:15:18,560
here and talking and doing this and
controlling the other person. So, for

1977
02:15:18,560 --> 02:15:21,940
was fun, but too much going on. Bit of a
three -ring circus.

1978
02:15:23,180 --> 02:15:24,960
I think I'll be using these from now on.

1979
02:15:25,940 --> 02:15:29,100
So, Dougie, it was pretty clear from
that why somebody wouldn't want to use a

1980
02:15:29,100 --> 02:15:32,020
sex doll, but can you think of any
reason why somebody would want to use a

1981
02:15:32,020 --> 02:15:33,060
as a masturbation aid?

1982
02:15:34,000 --> 02:15:38,140
No. I thought, you know, it was a
massive turn -off.

1983
02:15:38,440 --> 02:15:41,820
So, Georgia, you seemed a little bit
taken aback by the size of the doll's

1984
02:15:41,820 --> 02:15:43,860
appendage. You weren't even tempted to
try it out?

1985
02:15:44,100 --> 02:15:45,500
It's just very long and thin.

1986
02:15:45,720 --> 02:15:50,360
It was kind of, I think, I think it was
how it was hard and then these great

1987
02:15:50,360 --> 02:15:56,180
ropey veins around it. So, no, it was so

1988
02:15:56,180 --> 02:16:00,100
far flung from what I'm used to that,
no.

1989
02:16:00,820 --> 02:16:04,600
That was more than realistically veiny,
I think.

1990
02:16:06,280 --> 02:16:12,440
now how much did those dolls cost you uh
it was about 60 60 pounds around that

1991
02:16:12,440 --> 02:16:19,380
mark so georgie how did the
cyberdiodonics work

1992
02:16:19,380 --> 02:16:25,960
out for you for me anything with wires
and computers in the bedroom is it's

1993
02:16:25,960 --> 02:16:30,560
not where i'm coming from i've found it
quite abhorrent You're not a tech geek?

1994
02:16:30,840 --> 02:16:37,020
I am absolutely not. I've just bought my
first computer ever. I'm so far from

1995
02:16:37,020 --> 02:16:41,920
being excited about technological
advances when it comes to masturbation.

1996
02:16:41,920 --> 02:16:47,139
really fun to try. I kind of thought,
wow, this is really cutting edge. But

1997
02:16:47,139 --> 02:16:51,980
it came down to it, it was just... And
what did it feel like for both of you?

1998
02:16:52,059 --> 02:16:54,540
What was the actual sensation and why
was it uncomfortable?

1999
02:16:54,940 --> 02:16:55,940
How was it uncomfortable?

2000
02:16:56,639 --> 02:17:01,620
plenty of lube on and used plenty of
lube in the device, but it was just

2001
02:17:01,620 --> 02:17:07,700
weird. It's like a big purple slug. It's
like sliding into a big purple slug.

2002
02:17:08,320 --> 02:17:14,600
Well, I wouldn't know what that feels
like. Now, could it be useful for, you

2003
02:17:14,600 --> 02:17:17,820
know, some couples are shy about phone
sex, they don't know what to say. If

2004
02:17:17,820 --> 02:17:20,500
they're in that situation, would this be
something that might be helpful to

2005
02:17:20,500 --> 02:17:25,139
them? I think if they're shy about phone
sex, then actually being there

2006
02:17:25,900 --> 02:17:30,120
on the webcam is probably going to be
difficult for them as well but you

2007
02:17:30,120 --> 02:17:33,620
also you can you can write to each other
at the same time but how you're

2008
02:17:33,620 --> 02:17:39,219
supposed to hold something masturbate
and write saucy messages at the same

2009
02:17:39,219 --> 02:17:45,020
is quite beyond me do you georgie do you
prefer to masturbate in front of each

2010
02:17:45,020 --> 02:17:48,559
other or do you prefer to masturbate
each other when you're together both for

2011
02:17:48,559 --> 02:17:53,020
different reasons i think but i i
certainly it's not just when we're away

2012
02:17:53,020 --> 02:17:54,040
each other i think it's

2013
02:17:54,870 --> 02:17:58,309
Brilliant way of letting your partner
know how you want to be touched.

2014
02:17:58,570 --> 02:18:03,309
And I think you can feel shy at first,
but then if you do it together, I think

2015
02:18:03,309 --> 02:18:08,190
it's very sexy and this is what works
for me. It's been wonderful meeting you

2016
02:18:08,190 --> 02:18:09,490
again. Thank you so much.

2017
02:18:10,090 --> 02:18:12,350
And good luck with the next
investigation.

2018
02:18:13,129 --> 02:18:15,930
Big hand for our roving reporters,
Georgie and Dougie.

2019
02:18:20,200 --> 02:18:23,680
Let's remind ourselves of some of those
manual techniques we've been learning

2020
02:18:23,680 --> 02:18:24,680
about tonight.

2021
02:18:27,200 --> 02:18:31,219
Start with clean hands, short nails and
lots of lube.

2022
02:18:31,879 --> 02:18:36,139
For him, use a full -handed grip and cup
his balls with your other hand.

2023
02:18:36,540 --> 02:18:38,959
Pick up speed as he approaches orgasm.

2024
02:18:39,600 --> 02:18:44,379
After he ejaculates, loosen your grip
and resist the temptation to keep

2025
02:18:45,420 --> 02:18:46,559
For her...

2026
02:18:46,889 --> 02:18:51,590
Stroke the outer and inner labia before
stimulating the clitoral head using side

2027
02:18:51,590 --> 02:18:53,350
-to -side or circular motions.

2028
02:18:54,070 --> 02:18:58,309
Find a G -spot about 5 centimeters in on
the front wall of the vagina.

2029
02:18:58,730 --> 02:19:03,510
Feel for a rough, ridged area and
massage it firmly and steadily.

2030
02:19:04,330 --> 02:19:06,450
Still to come on Sex, How to Do
Everything.

2031
02:19:06,920 --> 02:19:11,540
We're joined by a man who could outwank
us all, the European record holder for

2032
02:19:11,540 --> 02:19:13,660
the longest ever masturbation session.

2033
02:19:13,959 --> 02:19:18,799
If people wanted to take your lead and
become the new champion, do you have any

2034
02:19:18,799 --> 02:19:19,799
tips for them?

2035
02:19:21,320 --> 02:19:25,260
Practice. Lots and lots of practice. I
put 13 years of dedication and hard work

2036
02:19:25,260 --> 02:19:26,500
into my trophy there.

2037
02:19:26,799 --> 02:19:29,379
Keep practicing what you've been
learning. We'll be right back.

2038
02:19:38,860 --> 02:19:42,799
Welcome back to the final part of
tonight's Sex, How to Do Everything.

2039
02:19:43,120 --> 02:19:45,959
Now we're going to meet a man with a
remarkable claim to fame.

2040
02:19:46,240 --> 02:19:49,800
Ladies and gentlemen, please put your
hands together and welcome Mr. Daniel

2041
02:19:49,800 --> 02:19:54,440
Craig, Britain's record -breaking
masturbator. Also joining us is sexual

2042
02:19:54,440 --> 02:19:56,020
physician Dr. John Dean.

2043
02:19:56,360 --> 02:19:57,580
Welcome to the show, gentlemen.

2044
02:19:57,920 --> 02:19:58,920
Hi.

2045
02:20:00,820 --> 02:20:01,820
So, Daniel.

2046
02:20:01,920 --> 02:20:06,500
Yes. How do you win the title of
European Masturbation Champion?

2047
02:20:07,160 --> 02:20:11,380
You do what no one else in the continent
can do, and you basically just wank for

2048
02:20:11,380 --> 02:20:14,480
as long as you can and try and come as
many times as you possibly can as well.

2049
02:20:14,620 --> 02:20:18,040
And how long was that, and how many
times did you climb it? I managed to do

2050
02:20:18,040 --> 02:20:20,180
seven orgasms in seven and a half hours.

2051
02:20:20,600 --> 02:20:22,020
That sounds so painful.

2052
02:20:22,380 --> 02:20:25,540
What are the effects of doing that for
seven and a half hours?

2053
02:20:25,760 --> 02:20:29,860
I mean, during the time it was slightly
painful, but afterwards, for the next

2054
02:20:29,860 --> 02:20:33,900
couple of weeks, it was discolored, it
was distorted, there was, like, scarring

2055
02:20:33,900 --> 02:20:34,900
and everything like this.

2056
02:20:35,760 --> 02:20:37,600
painful, but it's better now.

2057
02:20:38,160 --> 02:20:40,620
So what made you take part in a
masturbate -a -thon?

2058
02:20:40,900 --> 02:20:44,400
A friend got me onto the idea of it, and
it was to raise money for this HIV

2059
02:20:44,400 --> 02:20:48,680
foundation. And I thought, okay,
brilliant, I couldn't run a marathon for

2060
02:20:48,680 --> 02:20:51,400
miles, but I can sure knock one off
quite well.

2061
02:20:52,260 --> 02:20:53,480
You know your skill set.

2062
02:20:54,300 --> 02:20:59,040
So if you were going to teach someone
how to have the perfect wank, what would

2063
02:20:59,040 --> 02:21:00,040
you tell them?

2064
02:21:00,050 --> 02:21:03,450
I would have to show them. I'd have to
sit them down and start off in front of

2065
02:21:03,450 --> 02:21:07,330
them myself and show them how to tease
themselves until they go from flattered

2066
02:21:07,330 --> 02:21:10,870
into the erect position, how to start
off slowly, just to slowly build

2067
02:21:10,870 --> 02:21:12,170
up and pumping back and forth.

2068
02:21:12,810 --> 02:21:15,270
Occasionally, if you want to, get your
left hand involved, you know, shake

2069
02:21:15,270 --> 02:21:18,210
yourself, tweak your nipples, grab your
balls, do whatever it is, stick a thumb

2070
02:21:18,210 --> 02:21:22,150
up your bumhole, whatever gets you off,
and just show them how to do it and do

2071
02:21:22,150 --> 02:21:24,010
it and do it, and then eventually
just...

2072
02:21:24,270 --> 02:21:28,390
Show them how the speeds you speed up
before you come and just slightly, you

2073
02:21:28,390 --> 02:21:31,290
know, give it a little squeeze, give it
a shake, whatever it is that does it for

2074
02:21:31,290 --> 02:21:34,670
you. Just try and explain to them just
to find out for themselves.

2075
02:21:35,370 --> 02:21:37,710
And are you planning on defending your
title?

2076
02:21:38,530 --> 02:21:42,310
I'd love to. I'd absolutely love to go
and see if there's any up and comers who

2077
02:21:42,310 --> 02:21:45,510
think they can take off my crown. But I
don't think anyone's really brave enough

2078
02:21:45,510 --> 02:21:46,349
to try.

2079
02:21:46,350 --> 02:21:48,110
No one can touch that record.

2080
02:21:48,330 --> 02:21:51,990
No, the person who came second after me
was four hours behind me.

2081
02:21:52,570 --> 02:21:55,970
So you could have stopped after five
hours? I didn't want to. I wanted the

2082
02:21:55,970 --> 02:21:57,250
record. Wow.

2083
02:21:58,010 --> 02:22:02,790
If people wanted to take your lead and
become the new champion, do you have any

2084
02:22:02,790 --> 02:22:03,790
tips for them?

2085
02:22:05,370 --> 02:22:09,250
Practice. Lots and lots of practice. I
put 13 years of dedication and hard work

2086
02:22:09,250 --> 02:22:10,470
into my trophy there.

2087
02:22:11,190 --> 02:22:14,770
So for everybody, but it is different
for everybody. What works for me

2088
02:22:14,770 --> 02:22:18,210
necessarily work for another gent
walking down the street. So just explore

2089
02:22:18,210 --> 02:22:20,930
yourself as much as you can. Spend some
good time to get to know you.

2090
02:22:22,510 --> 02:22:25,930
What's better, wanking or sex with a
partner?

2091
02:22:26,730 --> 02:22:30,490
Good sex always beats good masturbation,
every time.

2092
02:22:30,770 --> 02:22:32,490
What about good wanking and bad sex?

2093
02:22:32,890 --> 02:22:34,030
Oh, then the wanking wins.

2094
02:22:34,790 --> 02:22:38,270
I have met girls and I've been like,
look, please stop.

2095
02:22:39,170 --> 02:22:42,870
I'll finish myself off, which is
normally what the woman says in most

2096
02:22:42,870 --> 02:22:44,150
I've had it the other way around.

2097
02:22:44,560 --> 02:22:48,780
Now, Dr. John Dean, do you approve of a
masturbation marathon?

2098
02:22:49,460 --> 02:22:55,100
I don't think I really have a view on a
masturbation marathon, although I think

2099
02:22:55,100 --> 02:22:58,540
that raising money for charitable causes
is commendable.

2100
02:22:58,860 --> 02:23:01,860
But can masturbating for that long be
healthy? Are there any negative effects?

2101
02:23:01,880 --> 02:23:02,880
No, I don't think it is.

2102
02:23:03,480 --> 02:23:05,880
Masturbation is a perfectly healthy
activity.

2103
02:23:06,440 --> 02:23:11,180
It is something which everybody, every
infant, every child is left to their own

2104
02:23:11,180 --> 02:23:15,800
devices and not pressured to stop. doing
it by their parents will do quite

2105
02:23:15,800 --> 02:23:16,800
happily.

2106
02:23:17,920 --> 02:23:21,500
Masturbation is healthy as long as it
doesn't take over your life. And I

2107
02:23:21,500 --> 02:23:26,280
with the amount of time, effort, and
probably training that Daniel put into

2108
02:23:26,300 --> 02:23:30,340
that's not healthy. And I'm sure he
agrees with me, it's not healthy either.

2109
02:23:30,740 --> 02:23:35,220
So you're a champion when it comes to
yourself. Do you think you're equally as

2110
02:23:35,220 --> 02:23:36,220
good at masturbating women?

2111
02:23:36,400 --> 02:23:39,880
Better. I spend a lot more time and
practice on women than I have on myself.

2112
02:23:40,590 --> 02:23:41,369
No way.

2113
02:23:41,370 --> 02:23:42,550
That's a lot of time.

2114
02:23:42,750 --> 02:23:46,930
It is. When I started wanking myself, I
started reading porn. I started reading

2115
02:23:46,930 --> 02:23:47,930
all about sex.

2116
02:23:48,110 --> 02:23:51,310
I started reading The Joy of Sex when I
was 11 because I really wanted to find

2117
02:23:51,310 --> 02:23:55,690
out the complete intimacy of a woman
because I've heard so many women

2118
02:23:55,690 --> 02:23:57,710
complaining that their fellas can't do
it properly.

2119
02:23:58,210 --> 02:24:00,590
I mean, I'm a hairdresser, so I stand
there and listen to women all day

2120
02:24:00,590 --> 02:24:03,910
complaining about their boyfriends,
their men, how they can't do it, how

2121
02:24:03,910 --> 02:24:07,730
toys are always so much better. So I
don't want to be one of those boyfriends

2122
02:24:07,730 --> 02:24:09,410
one of those men that all the women are
complaining about.

2123
02:24:10,000 --> 02:24:12,540
So can you talk us through it with your
technique on women?

2124
02:24:12,800 --> 02:24:16,380
It clearly depends on the woman, because
some women only come from clitoral

2125
02:24:16,380 --> 02:24:20,740
stimulation. So if I find out they're
clitoral stimulated, then I'll put my

2126
02:24:20,740 --> 02:24:22,680
in between the legs, take a quick little
rub.

2127
02:24:22,900 --> 02:24:26,980
If I get a slight sign back, if there's
a slight change in breath, how they're

2128
02:24:26,980 --> 02:24:30,420
speaking, or a slight coloration on
their chest, then I think, okay, we're

2129
02:24:30,420 --> 02:24:31,279
okay here.

2130
02:24:31,280 --> 02:24:34,020
Sometimes it doesn't work. Sometimes it
tickles. They start giggling or

2131
02:24:34,020 --> 02:24:35,760
something like this, which is quite
funny.

2132
02:24:36,060 --> 02:24:37,620
So then I'll go for penetration.

2133
02:24:40,460 --> 02:24:41,460
penetration orgasm.

2134
02:24:42,000 --> 02:24:46,160
With your hands? With my fingers, yeah.
One, two fingers, however many the

2135
02:24:46,160 --> 02:24:47,460
individual girl can do.

2136
02:24:48,040 --> 02:24:52,180
Some girls I've met, you can go five
fingers and go for hours and hours and

2137
02:24:52,180 --> 02:24:53,180
hours and nothing will happen.

2138
02:24:53,420 --> 02:24:57,280
Some girls I've met who just can't
physically have an orgasm. No matter

2139
02:24:57,280 --> 02:24:58,700
do, they've never been able to produce
themselves.

2140
02:24:58,960 --> 02:25:02,720
I can't do it to them and that's the
most frustrating thing in the world.

2141
02:25:02,980 --> 02:25:04,960
You can imagine how frustrating it is
for her.

2142
02:25:06,750 --> 02:25:09,430
Thank you very much. Thanks so much for
joining us today. Pleasure.

2143
02:25:19,210 --> 02:25:24,530
Manual sex is not just foreplay. It is
sex, and it's often crucial to a woman's

2144
02:25:24,530 --> 02:25:28,890
orgasm. And masturbation is a good
thing, and it's good for you, too.

2145
02:25:29,410 --> 02:25:30,730
So do it often.

2146
02:25:30,970 --> 02:25:35,150
As long as it doesn't take over your
life, good night. Join us again next

2147
02:25:35,150 --> 02:25:36,150
for more sex.

2148
02:26:42,540 --> 02:26:47,200
Welcome to Sex, How to Do Everything,
the show where we, Em and Lo, show you

2149
02:26:47,200 --> 02:26:48,680
everything you should know about sex.

2150
02:26:48,940 --> 02:26:52,680
Our purpose is to get you to do it
better and have more of it.

2151
02:26:53,160 --> 02:26:57,600
As experts in sex, we get thousands of
inquiries, and they all come down to one

2152
02:26:57,600 --> 02:26:59,580
thing, how to have better sex.

2153
02:26:59,840 --> 02:27:02,320
Well, we know how, and we're going to
show you.

2154
02:27:02,560 --> 02:27:06,020
Over the course of this series, we'll be
bringing you specialist shows on

2155
02:27:06,020 --> 02:27:11,180
everything from the art of seduction to
oral sex, anal sex, and kinky fetish

2156
02:27:11,180 --> 02:27:12,180
play.

2157
02:27:12,430 --> 02:27:17,090
Tonight's show is all about orgasms, a
subject close to my heart.

2158
02:27:17,630 --> 02:27:22,750
Now, the average male orgasm lasts 8
seconds, while the average female orgasm

2159
02:27:22,750 --> 02:27:23,970
lasts 20 seconds.

2160
02:27:24,710 --> 02:27:30,090
89 % of men say they achieve orgasm most
of the time. I knew it wasn't 100%. I

2161
02:27:30,090 --> 02:27:32,090
know. But here's the bad news.

2162
02:27:32,290 --> 02:27:38,310
The number for women is only 42%. So our
aim is to get all of you out there to

2163
02:27:38,310 --> 02:27:40,110
experience regular orgasms.

2164
02:27:40,330 --> 02:27:43,560
Tonight... We're aiming for 100 % for
both men and women.

2165
02:27:43,820 --> 02:27:46,080
Here's what's coming up in tonight's
show.

2166
02:27:47,040 --> 02:27:51,520
You'll be receiving exclusive training
from Laura and Ricardo, who will show

2167
02:27:51,520 --> 02:27:56,520
how to perform specific sexual
techniques to improve orgasms for both

2168
02:27:56,520 --> 02:27:57,520
women.

2169
02:27:57,660 --> 02:28:01,640
You'll be meeting our very own sex, how
to do everything, roving reporters,

2170
02:28:01,920 --> 02:28:06,800
Georgie and Dougie, a real -life young
couple who are going to bravely road

2171
02:28:06,800 --> 02:28:08,260
a new medical procedure.

2172
02:28:08,920 --> 02:28:14,600
that claims to improve the female orgasm
and you'll be getting a comprehensive

2173
02:28:14,600 --> 02:28:20,020
guide to what some people believe is the
ultimate orgasm for women female

2174
02:28:20,020 --> 02:28:25,720
ejaculation so here's a few things we
think you should know first an orgasm is

2175
02:28:25,720 --> 02:28:30,840
an orgasm is an orgasm different people
climax in different ways there's no

2176
02:28:30,840 --> 02:28:35,840
right or wrong way to have an orgasm so
don't get too hung up on different types

2177
02:28:35,840 --> 02:28:39,480
as long as what you're doing feels good
to you That's all that matters.

2178
02:28:40,200 --> 02:28:45,300
Next, porn movies are a terrible place
to learn about orgasms. That piston

2179
02:28:45,300 --> 02:28:48,480
thrusting that you see in those films,
it's not the one route to everyone's

2180
02:28:48,480 --> 02:28:52,400
climax. And yours doesn't have to be
this screaming, moaning, hair -tossing

2181
02:28:52,400 --> 02:28:56,100
affair. Yours might just be a slight
whimper and a little rolling back of the

2182
02:28:56,100 --> 02:28:57,100
eyes in the head.

2183
02:28:57,720 --> 02:29:01,820
Also, when we talk about orgasms during
sex, we don't just mean during

2184
02:29:01,820 --> 02:29:06,280
intercourse. Plenty of women require the
kind of stimulation that a penis just

2185
02:29:06,280 --> 02:29:07,280
isn't capable of.

2186
02:29:07,520 --> 02:29:11,420
Some women need oral sex, some women
need handwork, and some need their

2187
02:29:11,420 --> 02:29:15,480
battery -operated friend to get the
permanent smile on their face. And

2188
02:29:15,480 --> 02:29:16,480
no shame in that.

2189
02:29:17,300 --> 02:29:19,120
Finally, no faking.

2190
02:29:19,460 --> 02:29:22,740
Because when you fake, you give your
partner a false impression of what turns

2191
02:29:22,740 --> 02:29:25,800
you on. And then how are they ever going
to make the earth move for you?

2192
02:29:27,290 --> 02:29:31,210
Now, as experts, we find that what women
want to know is, how do I have an

2193
02:29:31,210 --> 02:29:35,410
orgasm? And what men want to know is,
how do I give women orgasms?

2194
02:29:35,710 --> 02:29:38,230
Which is why the focus of tonight's show
is on women.

2195
02:29:38,450 --> 02:29:42,570
That said, we think everyone, women and
men, could benefit from taking a bit of

2196
02:29:42,570 --> 02:29:43,770
the mystery out of orgasm.

2197
02:29:44,090 --> 02:29:48,350
So come with us now to our Garden of
Pleasure, where Laura and Ricardo begin

2198
02:29:48,350 --> 02:29:51,630
unveil the secrets to better loving,
orgasms and all.

2199
02:29:57,040 --> 02:30:01,400
Here are Emmen Lowe's tips on how
orgasms can be improved with just a few

2200
02:30:01,400 --> 02:30:02,400
techniques.

2201
02:30:09,600 --> 02:30:14,100
Delaying climax for him will help make
sure she's fully aroused and ready for

2202
02:30:14,100 --> 02:30:17,340
orgasm, and heighten sexual tension for
both of you.

2203
02:30:18,200 --> 02:30:22,360
Men can learn to delay the moment of
orgasm by practicing on their own.

2204
02:30:22,760 --> 02:30:24,980
Bring yourself to the brink of orgasm.

2205
02:30:25,240 --> 02:30:28,000
Then back off until you're under
control. Then repeat.

2206
02:30:31,160 --> 02:30:32,840
Then try this with your partner.

2207
02:30:34,900 --> 02:30:37,860
When approaching orgasm, stop for a
moment.

2208
02:30:38,180 --> 02:30:39,520
Try changing position.

2209
02:30:39,860 --> 02:30:44,920
Or switch to manual or oral sex to delay
climax and increase the power of the

2210
02:30:44,920 --> 02:30:46,040
eventual orgasm.

2211
02:30:47,200 --> 02:30:51,000
At the point of climax, enhance the
sensation of your orgasm.

2212
02:30:51,310 --> 02:30:55,530
By using your hands to spread the energy
released during sex throughout your

2213
02:30:55,530 --> 02:30:56,530
bodies.

2214
02:31:02,690 --> 02:31:04,770
And always remember to breathe.

2215
02:31:05,810 --> 02:31:08,550
Many people hold their breath at the
point of orgasm.

2216
02:31:08,930 --> 02:31:13,310
But breathing deeply ensures plenty of
blood is flowing to those sensitive

2217
02:31:13,310 --> 02:31:15,470
endings, heightening every sensation.

2218
02:31:22,120 --> 02:31:25,740
As we've already said, all good sex
doesn't have to end in a big bang. But

2219
02:31:25,740 --> 02:31:27,840
tonight, we're here to show you how it
can.

2220
02:31:28,360 --> 02:31:31,960
There'll be more from Laura and Ricardo
later when they show us some of the best

2221
02:31:31,960 --> 02:31:36,520
positions and techniques for women and
men to achieve orgasm. So, stick around

2222
02:31:36,520 --> 02:31:40,160
because we'll be meeting a woman who
says she can teach us how to have the

2223
02:31:40,160 --> 02:31:45,840
ultimate orgasm. And we investigate the
claim that a little prick can make a big

2224
02:31:45,840 --> 02:31:47,000
impact on your vagina.

2225
02:31:58,480 --> 02:32:02,800
Welcome back to sex how to do everything
the only show guaranteed to make you

2226
02:32:02,800 --> 02:32:08,380
better at sex if you pay attention Still
to learn on sex how to do everything

2227
02:32:08,380 --> 02:32:13,740
our young couple of sex investigators
Georgie and Dougie Examine the new G

2228
02:32:13,740 --> 02:32:20,100
procedure to improve the female orgasm
Laura and Ricardo give us a second

2229
02:32:20,100 --> 02:32:25,340
in orgasmic lovemaking and We uncover
the secrets to what some people think is

2230
02:32:25,340 --> 02:32:26,900
the ultimate female orgasm

2231
02:32:27,650 --> 02:32:28,650
Female ejaculation.

2232
02:32:30,690 --> 02:32:34,310
Since we're asked about orgasms all the
time, we thought we'd turn the tables

2233
02:32:34,310 --> 02:32:38,170
and ask just how important orgasms are
to you. And whether there is any

2234
02:32:38,170 --> 02:32:42,090
difference between the great British
orgasm and the big O in the Big Apple.

2235
02:32:49,810 --> 02:32:53,070
How important is it for you to always
have an orgasm during sex?

2236
02:32:53,660 --> 02:32:55,180
I would say it's imperative, really.

2237
02:32:55,520 --> 02:32:56,359
I can go without.

2238
02:32:56,360 --> 02:33:00,540
I'm fine with it. It's nice, but it's
not going to affect what I think of them

2239
02:33:00,540 --> 02:33:03,760
or affect, I don't think. I'll just not
do it and have a ham sandwich or

2240
02:33:03,760 --> 02:33:04,980
something. It doesn't always happen,
right?

2241
02:33:06,540 --> 02:33:07,540
Take it.

2242
02:33:07,920 --> 02:33:09,640
How important is it?

2243
02:33:09,960 --> 02:33:10,799
Pretty important.

2244
02:33:10,800 --> 02:33:12,620
I try to, every time.

2245
02:33:12,860 --> 02:33:14,620
The end result is very important.

2246
02:33:14,900 --> 02:33:17,980
Otherwise, I'll just be like, come on,
you know, what am I supposed to do now?

2247
02:33:18,790 --> 02:33:22,490
How important is it for your partner to
have an orgasm during intercourse?

2248
02:33:22,970 --> 02:33:25,770
Extremely important. If she's not happy,
then I'm not happy. Depends which

2249
02:33:25,770 --> 02:33:27,170
partner I've got, male or female.

2250
02:33:27,890 --> 02:33:29,850
But for the female, I think it's very
important.

2251
02:33:30,250 --> 02:33:33,590
I think it's important for both sexes to
be orgasmed.

2252
02:33:35,290 --> 02:33:38,430
If I come, that's important to me. If he
comes, that's fine.

2253
02:33:39,440 --> 02:33:42,620
Have you ever faked an orgasm? Yeah, I
have, yeah. I ain't gonna lie.

2254
02:33:43,120 --> 02:33:46,380
Sometimes you've got to, just to make
him feel better about himself.

2255
02:33:46,880 --> 02:33:49,480
Only because it was awkward and it was
going on for a bit long.

2256
02:33:49,800 --> 02:33:52,580
For guys, it's hard to fake. If you're
having a good time, you're having a good

2257
02:33:52,580 --> 02:33:53,760
time. Faked an orgasm.

2258
02:33:54,060 --> 02:33:58,260
That would be rather tricky and
complicated, but no, no.

2259
02:33:58,900 --> 02:34:00,140
Have you ever faked an orgasm?

2260
02:34:00,700 --> 02:34:01,780
Yeah. Yeah.

2261
02:34:02,440 --> 02:34:03,760
I hope not with me.

2262
02:34:04,000 --> 02:34:06,600
I tended to, um, kind of...

2263
02:34:16,990 --> 02:34:21,090
So there's a whole lot of faking going
on on both sides of the pond.

2264
02:34:21,650 --> 02:34:26,710
Now listen, we're no fans of fancy terms
for different types of orgasm. For us,

2265
02:34:26,710 --> 02:34:31,110
an orgasm is an orgasm is an orgasm. But
we do think the more you know about a

2266
02:34:31,110 --> 02:34:34,250
woman's body, the more chance you'll
have of finding the key spots that might

2267
02:34:34,250 --> 02:34:35,199
get her off.

2268
02:34:35,200 --> 02:34:40,320
So we decided to ask the red -blooded
American male, where is the G -spot, the

2269
02:34:40,320 --> 02:34:41,880
most famous spot of all?

2270
02:34:47,220 --> 02:34:53,880
Let's see, if I was extending myself
into the area, I would try to attempt to

2271
02:34:53,880 --> 02:34:56,240
get there.

2272
02:34:56,760 --> 02:34:59,680
And this general...

2273
02:35:00,840 --> 02:35:01,840
and vibrate.

2274
02:35:01,940 --> 02:35:03,860
That's actually going in the tushy.

2275
02:35:04,220 --> 02:35:08,820
That's going in the tushy? Yeah. This is
the vaginal canal right here. Well, is

2276
02:35:08,820 --> 02:35:09,820
this a guy or a girl?

2277
02:35:10,840 --> 02:35:12,280
I guess it's in there. I don't know.

2278
02:35:13,900 --> 02:35:18,200
Well, you've actually gone in the
bladder, so you probably want to back

2279
02:35:18,200 --> 02:35:20,100
aim more towards the vaginal canal.

2280
02:35:20,520 --> 02:35:23,380
Let me know where to start. It kind of
looks like the Grand Canyon.

2281
02:35:23,580 --> 02:35:24,519
We'll give you a hint.

2282
02:35:24,520 --> 02:35:26,760
Can you pinpoint the G -spot for us?

2283
02:35:27,920 --> 02:35:29,710
Yes. Is my daughter turned away?

2284
02:35:34,130 --> 02:35:35,150
That's pretty good.

2285
02:35:35,350 --> 02:35:38,390
I'd say that's a little bit too far
inside.

2286
02:35:38,950 --> 02:35:41,350
It's where my experience has shown it to
be for me.

2287
02:35:41,750 --> 02:35:46,990
Not on me, but for me. Your wife could
point you in either direction.

2288
02:35:47,230 --> 02:35:51,310
But actually, what feels best for her
might be up higher.

2289
02:35:51,550 --> 02:35:53,210
She's a screamer, what can I tell you?

2290
02:35:53,450 --> 02:35:54,450
Nice!

2291
02:35:54,550 --> 02:35:55,770
Right this area here.

2292
02:35:56,970 --> 02:35:58,930
Yeah, that's really good. I'm impressed.

2293
02:35:59,370 --> 02:36:00,370
Oh, hell.

2294
02:36:00,670 --> 02:36:01,670
There.

2295
02:36:02,270 --> 02:36:06,190
Oh, way off, buddy. Way, way off. I
don't even know what that is.

2296
02:36:07,450 --> 02:36:09,590
Here's a vaginal canal.

2297
02:36:09,910 --> 02:36:12,870
Okay. G -spot's about one or two inches
inside on the front wall.

2298
02:36:13,130 --> 02:36:14,290
Okay. So right around there.

2299
02:36:14,830 --> 02:36:16,830
I hope this is not going to be shown in
America.

2300
02:36:17,630 --> 02:36:18,890
It's going to ruin my reputation.

2301
02:36:22,990 --> 02:36:25,910
So it seems like a lot of you out there
still need a quick anatomy lesson.

2302
02:36:26,210 --> 02:36:30,510
So the G spot, it lies about two inches
inside the vaginal canal on the upper

2303
02:36:30,510 --> 02:36:35,490
front wall. Now the G spot usually
responds to firm, steady pressure in a

2304
02:36:35,490 --> 02:36:36,490
hither gesture.

2305
02:36:36,810 --> 02:36:41,150
Now, for some women, this leads to
orgasms galore. But for others, it's

2306
02:36:41,150 --> 02:36:44,010
an annoying sensation. It feels a bit
like you have to wee. And for still

2307
02:36:44,010 --> 02:36:45,850
others, it's downright uncomfortable.

2308
02:36:46,690 --> 02:36:51,010
Now, if you are in the latter category,
there are some other great spots for you

2309
02:36:51,010 --> 02:36:52,010
to look out for.

2310
02:36:52,110 --> 02:36:55,670
There's the A spot, deep inside the
vaginal canal. Again, on the upper wall,

2311
02:36:55,670 --> 02:36:58,850
way past the G spot. For some women,
it's great for lubrication.

2312
02:36:59,150 --> 02:37:04,210
Then there's the perineal sponge, which
can be stimulated on the back wall of

2313
02:37:04,210 --> 02:37:07,430
the vagina, kind of opposite where the G
-spot is, or you can get to it

2314
02:37:07,430 --> 02:37:11,850
indirectly via the perineum. And of
course, let's not forget the all

2315
02:37:11,850 --> 02:37:15,630
clitoris. The clitoral head is just the
tip of the iceberg of the clitoris,

2316
02:37:15,630 --> 02:37:19,150
which is actually a network of nerves
which extends throughout her entire

2317
02:37:19,150 --> 02:37:20,150
genital region.

2318
02:37:20,290 --> 02:37:23,590
It's very, very important for many
women's orgasms.

2319
02:37:24,110 --> 02:37:28,590
Another good anatomy tip, your pelvic
floor muscles wrap around all your good

2320
02:37:28,590 --> 02:37:33,170
bits down there. And if you exercise
them through kegels, they actually can

2321
02:37:33,170 --> 02:37:37,550
really help your orgasms. So here's how
to do your kegels. You know when you

2322
02:37:37,550 --> 02:37:40,170
have to wee and you hold it? Well,
squeeze those muscles.

2323
02:37:40,370 --> 02:37:44,770
Contract, release, contract, and hold.
Do several repetitions throughout the

2324
02:37:44,770 --> 02:37:47,910
day, and you'll really notice a
difference in the power of your orgasms.

2325
02:37:51,400 --> 02:37:53,900
Most men like the sensation of deep
penetration.

2326
02:37:56,220 --> 02:37:58,520
A great position for this is the doggy.

2327
02:38:05,360 --> 02:38:09,800
This sensation can be improved if she
leans forward into the half -doggy.

2328
02:38:10,440 --> 02:38:13,780
Her vaginal canal lengthens and you can
thrust even deeper.

2329
02:38:15,180 --> 02:38:18,980
Be careful not to thrust too deep,
though, as you might hit the cervix.

2330
02:38:19,640 --> 02:38:20,640
Be gentle.

2331
02:38:20,950 --> 02:38:22,930
and aim downwards towards her G spot.

2332
02:38:24,330 --> 02:38:27,870
Use your free hands to stimulate her
clitoris or bottom.

2333
02:38:32,850 --> 02:38:37,570
The cowgirl, with her on top, is the
most female orgasm friendly position.

2334
02:38:45,470 --> 02:38:51,950
You can improve your cowgirl technique
by leaning back, which will bring his

2335
02:38:51,950 --> 02:38:55,730
penis to the front wall of your vagina,
and he may just hit your G -spot.

2336
02:39:06,530 --> 02:39:09,990
Then, try leaning forward and grinding
your hips back and forth.

2337
02:39:10,390 --> 02:39:13,110
This will give you more labial and
clitoral stimulation.

2338
02:39:24,170 --> 02:39:28,290
So ladies, you can see the importance of
taking charge of your own orgasm. You

2339
02:39:28,290 --> 02:39:31,610
should never feel bad about doing
whatever you have to do to get to your

2340
02:39:32,570 --> 02:39:37,090
Now, if you input the word sex into a
well -known search engine, it comes up

2341
02:39:37,090 --> 02:39:40,770
with about 747 million entries.

2342
02:39:41,110 --> 02:39:44,870
And that means there are an awful lot of
sexual experiences, techniques, and

2343
02:39:44,870 --> 02:39:45,990
products out there to investigate.

2344
02:39:46,450 --> 02:39:50,390
So we thought we needed a hand and have
recruited our very own Sex Have to Do

2345
02:39:50,390 --> 02:39:52,930
Everything roving reporters to try some
of them out for us.

2346
02:39:53,190 --> 02:39:57,100
Yep. Our adventurous young couple,
Georgie and Dougie, will be road testing

2347
02:39:57,100 --> 02:40:01,860
everything you can imagine, along with
some things you probably can't. So let's

2348
02:40:01,860 --> 02:40:05,180
meet our intrepid sex sleuth, Georgie
and Dougie. Welcome to the show.

2349
02:40:05,600 --> 02:40:09,960
Hello. So what did you decide to road
test this week?

2350
02:40:10,240 --> 02:40:14,640
Well, this week I wanted to try a
controversial procedure. It's designed

2351
02:40:14,640 --> 02:40:19,060
enhance the female orgasm, and it's
called the G -Shot. Should we take a

2352
02:40:19,240 --> 02:40:20,240
Yes.

2353
02:40:20,640 --> 02:40:22,180
What can we do for you?

2354
02:40:24,500 --> 02:40:27,040
I'm here to try your t -shirt.

2355
02:40:27,280 --> 02:40:30,460
Do you get clitoral orgasm? Yes.

2356
02:40:31,240 --> 02:40:34,500
What about vaginal orgasm? That's more
unusual.

2357
02:40:34,720 --> 02:40:39,580
I tend to need clitoral stimulation in
order to have an orgasm. Fine, okay.

2358
02:40:39,840 --> 02:40:42,040
This is the model of a female pelvis.

2359
02:40:42,980 --> 02:40:49,120
Somewhere at the front of the vaginal
wall, there is a very sensitive area.

2360
02:40:49,660 --> 02:40:51,600
So what we do is...

2361
02:40:51,840 --> 02:40:57,660
We give an injection to that area to
enlarge it to about the size of a 10p

2362
02:40:57,900 --> 02:41:02,380
We use a special collagen specifically
designed for this process.

2363
02:41:02,880 --> 02:41:06,140
Is there anything you want to ask me
before we go to the next stage?

2364
02:41:07,020 --> 02:41:10,360
Normally, before enlargement, how big?

2365
02:41:10,740 --> 02:41:12,020
A few millimeters.

2366
02:41:13,140 --> 02:41:17,360
How long do I have to wait before we can
have sex?

2367
02:41:17,840 --> 02:41:20,740
Four hours. After that, you can have
sex. Four hours.

2368
02:41:21,440 --> 02:41:27,980
wow that's great thank you we're going
to the examination room now okay thank

2369
02:41:27,980 --> 02:41:33,380
you thank you i'll see you later a

2370
02:41:33,380 --> 02:41:40,220
little bit nervous right now obviously
uh georgie is

2371
02:41:40,220 --> 02:41:47,000
in there uh having the procedure done
and um yeah quite excited to see her

2372
02:41:47,000 --> 02:41:49,220
um she's okay and then

2373
02:41:50,270 --> 02:41:52,090
If everything's okay, have some fun
later.

2374
02:41:57,290 --> 02:41:58,290
Hello, lovely.

2375
02:42:01,130 --> 02:42:02,130
Ooh.

2376
02:42:07,230 --> 02:42:08,570
How was that? Fine.

2377
02:42:09,030 --> 02:42:10,170
Yeah? Yeah. Straightforward?

2378
02:42:10,410 --> 02:42:11,630
Very straightforward. No pain?

2379
02:42:12,110 --> 02:42:13,110
No. No.

2380
02:42:13,630 --> 02:42:14,730
I mean, no.

2381
02:42:15,290 --> 02:42:18,950
You feel nothing yet? Second, like
having any injection.

2382
02:42:30,779 --> 02:42:33,600
Oh, Geordie, four hours to go. What are
we going to do?

2383
02:42:51,760 --> 02:42:57,800
I think that with my enhanced G -spot, I
certainly have a lot more awareness of

2384
02:42:57,800 --> 02:43:04,440
where it is. I think it's much easier to
locate it manually as well.

2385
02:43:04,580 --> 02:43:08,560
And in this way, I feel that orgasm will
be a lot easier to achieve, or

2386
02:43:08,560 --> 02:43:12,860
certainly the kind of orgasms that
derive from internal stimulation.

2387
02:43:13,740 --> 02:43:17,180
Which position works best for the G
-spot?

2388
02:43:18,180 --> 02:43:20,180
I would say any angle.

2389
02:43:20,890 --> 02:43:26,570
where the front wall of your vagina is
stimulated by the penis, so from behind,

2390
02:43:26,830 --> 02:43:31,030
certainly, which is what we
affectionately like to call doggy style.

2391
02:43:32,170 --> 02:43:37,610
If it's fingers, it would be a come
-hither action. It's a sort of anything

2392
02:43:37,610 --> 02:43:43,190
stimulates the front wall of the vagina.
So that certainly was very, very

2393
02:43:43,190 --> 02:43:47,310
intensely pleasurable. It's a surge of
sensation.

2394
02:43:51,460 --> 02:43:54,860
First of all, we have to ask, why did
you want to get this done?

2395
02:43:55,960 --> 02:44:01,400
I thought that it would be a great
opportunity to try something that I

2396
02:44:01,400 --> 02:44:06,880
ever heard of before and something that
sounded new and exciting and that could

2397
02:44:06,880 --> 02:44:12,220
possibly be like a magic orgasm button,
I guess. So I just wanted to try that.

2398
02:44:12,440 --> 02:44:17,220
Why would you let someone come near your
vagina with such a big needle?

2399
02:44:18,800 --> 02:44:25,720
I think it was, it just seemed like an
exciting opportunity to try it. And

2400
02:44:25,720 --> 02:44:27,860
what was sex like the first time after
the injection?

2401
02:44:28,720 --> 02:44:33,520
It was very exciting because we had this
new thing to try.

2402
02:44:33,760 --> 02:44:37,780
It was kind of let's get back and kind
of road test this and see if it works.

2403
02:44:39,280 --> 02:44:43,980
So it was exciting in that way, but
apart from I guess it was a slightly

2404
02:44:43,980 --> 02:44:46,380
heightened sense, but it was more the
kind of...

2405
02:44:47,000 --> 02:44:50,380
Being able to get our hands on each
other again, I think. So big question,

2406
02:44:50,380 --> 02:44:54,400
you have an orgasm? Not right after I'd
had it done, well, four hours after I

2407
02:44:54,400 --> 02:44:55,400
had it done.

2408
02:44:55,920 --> 02:45:00,280
Probably just because of the procedure,
it kind of needed a little time.

2409
02:45:00,760 --> 02:45:02,820
And have your orgasms felt different
since then?

2410
02:45:03,100 --> 02:45:08,760
A couple of them were far more intense,
with more of an internal, deep,

2411
02:45:08,860 --> 02:45:10,780
resonating kind of orgasm.

2412
02:45:11,290 --> 02:45:16,690
But it's not the magic orgasm button I
thought it would be. So how did it make

2413
02:45:16,690 --> 02:45:18,050
your body feel different?

2414
02:45:18,330 --> 02:45:20,790
Certainly a greater awareness of my G
-spot.

2415
02:45:21,710 --> 02:45:27,650
But in other ways, I would say it's
probably I'm finding that my

2416
02:45:27,650 --> 02:45:32,110
clitoral sensation is somewhat
decreased. I don't know if that's

2417
02:45:32,110 --> 02:45:32,849
with it.

2418
02:45:32,850 --> 02:45:34,290
That's a bummer. Yeah.

2419
02:45:35,230 --> 02:45:37,550
So were there any other negative side
effects?

2420
02:45:38,350 --> 02:45:44,510
Yeah, I sometimes have a sensation of
needing to pee Quite quite often

2421
02:45:44,510 --> 02:45:49,490
not certainly since the procedure, but
not negative I mean even that in itself

2422
02:45:49,490 --> 02:45:53,950
can be quite so Dougie. How did it feel
differently for you?

2423
02:45:54,410 --> 02:46:00,590
I? Would say there was there's no
differences still fantastic having sex

2424
02:46:00,590 --> 02:46:07,110
Georgie as you could see and and No
difference to me

2425
02:46:07,980 --> 02:46:09,680
But it was great fun.

2426
02:46:09,940 --> 02:46:10,980
Would you do it again?

2427
02:46:11,240 --> 02:46:16,380
No, I don't think I would. I think once
is enough because it's quite invasive.

2428
02:46:16,960 --> 02:46:23,800
And there are other ways which are more
nurturing and can be part of foreplay

2429
02:46:23,800 --> 02:46:28,260
between two people or just to do with
encouraging people to explore themselves

2430
02:46:28,260 --> 02:46:34,920
more. And there are certainly a myriad
of other ways of doing it rather than in

2431
02:46:34,920 --> 02:46:36,400
that procedural kind of way.

2432
02:46:37,130 --> 02:46:38,290
So can you give us a recap?

2433
02:46:38,770 --> 02:46:42,170
Yes, the G -Shot is available on Harley
Street.

2434
02:46:42,430 --> 02:46:48,290
It costs £800 and it has been documented
in some women that it may draw more

2435
02:46:48,290 --> 02:46:54,070
attention to the G -Spots and increase
vaginal orgasms. But I would say

2436
02:46:54,070 --> 02:46:59,150
prolonged arousal and taking time to
gently explore and it will burst into

2437
02:46:59,150 --> 02:47:02,990
anyway. Yeah, we would say with the
possible side effects, we definitely

2438
02:47:02,990 --> 02:47:04,670
wouldn't recommend it ourselves.

2439
02:47:05,010 --> 02:47:08,330
Yeah, there are definitely a lot more
natural ways that you can work on

2440
02:47:08,330 --> 02:47:12,630
improving your orgasm. Well, thank you
so much, Dougie and Georgie, for giving

2441
02:47:12,630 --> 02:47:13,750
it a shot, so to speak.

2442
02:47:14,530 --> 02:47:17,230
Well, we look forward to seeing you next
time. Thank you.

2443
02:47:20,790 --> 02:47:26,390
So to come on Sex, How to Do Everything,
we ask a famous seducer of sportsmen if

2444
02:47:26,390 --> 02:47:28,750
their lust for love left them with legs
of lead.

2445
02:47:29,160 --> 02:47:33,500
We'll also show you why the cat is a
great alternative to the doggy. That's

2446
02:47:33,500 --> 02:47:34,660
coital alignment technique.

2447
02:47:35,000 --> 02:47:39,840
And we'll whet your appetite with what
some claim is the ultimate orgasm,

2448
02:47:39,840 --> 02:47:40,840
ejaculation.

2449
02:47:51,240 --> 02:47:55,640
Welcome back to Sex, How to Do
Everything, a comprehensive guide to,

2450
02:47:55,840 --> 02:48:00,000
How to do everything better. And tonight
we're having better orgasms. Lots of

2451
02:48:00,000 --> 02:48:04,340
them. So in the next half hour, we'll
uncover the immense power of the orgasm.

2452
02:48:06,220 --> 02:48:11,260
Our evening class continues with Laura
and Ricardo showing us the CAT. That's

2453
02:48:11,260 --> 02:48:12,660
the coital alignment technique.

2454
02:48:12,880 --> 02:48:15,100
And it's one of the best ways for women
to climax.

2455
02:48:16,140 --> 02:48:20,140
We get the results of our field study
into how orgasm affects sporting

2456
02:48:20,140 --> 02:48:21,140
performance.

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02:48:21,320 --> 02:48:25,300
And we learn how to achieve what some
people think is the ultimate female

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02:48:25,300 --> 02:48:26,300
orgasm.

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02:48:26,900 --> 02:48:30,820
Marina Lindbergh is the creator of the
Orgasm Diet, which she claims has

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02:48:30,820 --> 02:48:33,460
her to orgasm over 100 times a day.

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02:48:34,200 --> 02:48:38,780
Before she discovered this diet and
wrote her book, Marina rarely had

2462
02:48:38,800 --> 02:48:42,980
But by eating lots of protein, dark
chocolate, and tons of fish oil, Marina

2463
02:48:42,980 --> 02:48:46,580
she has raised her testosterone levels.
And this, she believes, is one of the

2464
02:48:46,580 --> 02:48:48,880
keys to becoming super orgasmic.

2465
02:48:50,510 --> 02:48:54,390
So we've heard that you can climax
within 10 seconds. Is that true? Yeah.

2466
02:48:55,130 --> 02:48:58,370
I can have like 50 in a row.

2467
02:49:15,710 --> 02:49:17,390
Like that. That was fast.

2468
02:49:18,350 --> 02:49:19,430
No, I'm fast.

2469
02:49:20,000 --> 02:49:22,740
I'm fast, that's what I'm saying. I come
on penetration.

2470
02:49:23,180 --> 02:49:26,580
So you wrote a book called The Orgasm
Diet so you could share the love. Tell

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02:49:26,580 --> 02:49:30,800
about this diet and how you came upon
it. I started doing things to be more

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02:49:30,800 --> 02:49:35,800
healthy and eat better, and I became
spontaneously orgasmic. So I isolated

2473
02:49:35,800 --> 02:49:39,960
elements and figured out what was
causing it and then told other women,

2474
02:49:39,960 --> 02:49:41,020
tried it and had the same result.

2475
02:49:41,600 --> 02:49:44,540
So what are some of the foods that are
part of this diet?

2476
02:49:45,360 --> 02:49:50,640
Well, mostly it's fish oil. It's high in
omega -3 fatty acids, EPA and DHA.

2477
02:49:50,860 --> 02:49:55,080
We evolved eating a lot of omega -3
fatty acids in our diet.

2478
02:49:55,360 --> 02:49:59,360
So I'm a vegetarian, I don't eat fish,
and I eat a lot of soy. Does that mean

2479
02:49:59,360 --> 02:50:00,840
that my sex life should be terrible?

2480
02:50:01,260 --> 02:50:06,060
Not exactly, but you really do want to
cut out tofu, soy milk, things like

2481
02:50:06,120 --> 02:50:07,140
and substitute something else.

2482
02:50:07,680 --> 02:50:08,880
Why? What's the effect?

2483
02:50:09,220 --> 02:50:10,580
It kills your testosterone.

2484
02:50:11,040 --> 02:50:12,200
So what's your personal best?

2485
02:50:12,810 --> 02:50:15,170
Definitely low hundreds, I would say.
Maybe high hundreds.

2486
02:50:15,430 --> 02:50:17,990
I could keep going. I could have another
one right now, too.

2487
02:50:18,250 --> 02:50:19,250
Yes, please.

2488
02:50:20,090 --> 02:50:23,910
I'll have to sort of get in the right
mood because I'm excited about talking

2489
02:50:23,910 --> 02:50:27,330
with you. I have to sort of relax and
think about men.

2490
02:50:34,530 --> 02:50:41,450
I wasn't sure I was going to be able to

2491
02:50:41,450 --> 02:50:42,450
do it.

2492
02:50:42,520 --> 02:50:43,179
That was it?

2493
02:50:43,180 --> 02:50:45,700
Yeah, I mean, it's not that. I'm used to
hiding them.

2494
02:50:46,200 --> 02:50:48,280
Do you ever just abstain for a day?

2495
02:50:48,680 --> 02:50:53,220
Well, after I ovulate for two days, the
ability goes away. Or if I'm coming down

2496
02:50:53,220 --> 02:50:54,780
with a cold, it goes away too.

2497
02:50:55,160 --> 02:50:59,180
And you think definitely any woman can
gain this power?

2498
02:50:59,800 --> 02:51:04,000
She has to have good testosterone to
begin with, good total testosterone, but

2499
02:51:04,000 --> 02:51:06,820
will help. And, yeah, it's that easy.

2500
02:51:08,300 --> 02:51:09,840
Well, thanks, Marina, for coming.

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02:51:10,060 --> 02:51:11,060
No pun intended.

2502
02:51:11,990 --> 02:51:13,490
My pleasure. I enjoyed it.

2503
02:51:13,750 --> 02:51:17,830
Now, if you don't fancy fish oil, try
our simpler route to orgasm.

2504
02:51:18,150 --> 02:51:22,210
Let's see how Ricardo and Laura get to
grips with the big cat in our little old

2505
02:51:22,210 --> 02:51:23,128
love jungle.

2506
02:51:23,130 --> 02:51:27,390
The cat, as you may know, stands for
coital alignment technique, and it's the

2507
02:51:27,390 --> 02:51:31,650
best way for a lot of women and the only
way for some to achieve orgasm during

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02:51:31,650 --> 02:51:32,650
intercourse.

2509
02:51:39,340 --> 02:51:43,860
One of the best positions for the female
orgasm is the cat or coital alignment

2510
02:51:43,860 --> 02:51:44,860
technique.

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02:51:51,780 --> 02:51:53,360
Start in the missionary position.

2512
02:51:53,820 --> 02:51:58,140
Put your arms under her armpits and hold
her shoulders to create as much full

2513
02:51:58,140 --> 02:51:59,500
body contact as you can.

2514
02:52:00,260 --> 02:52:05,420
Pull your body up towards her head with
your body gently resting on hers until

2515
02:52:05,420 --> 02:52:06,780
your pelvises are aligned.

2516
02:52:11,180 --> 02:52:15,560
She then tips her pelvis away until only
the tip of the penis is still in her

2517
02:52:15,560 --> 02:52:16,560
vagina.

2518
02:52:17,640 --> 02:52:22,100
Much of the shaft and base of the penis
will now be pushing against her external

2519
02:52:22,100 --> 02:52:23,520
genitalia and clitoris.

2520
02:52:25,040 --> 02:52:29,500
She then tilts her hips up at the same
time as you move down and your whole

2521
02:52:29,500 --> 02:52:30,840
penis fully enters her.

2522
02:52:39,440 --> 02:52:44,220
Repeat this hip rocking action, keeping
as much full -on contact as possible.

2523
02:52:48,100 --> 02:52:52,600
The goal is to keep a constant pressure
rubbing the area between her pubic bone

2524
02:52:52,600 --> 02:52:53,920
and her vaginal opening.

2525
02:53:05,450 --> 02:53:08,570
Bitch of a position to get the hang of,
but well worth the effort if you put in

2526
02:53:08,570 --> 02:53:10,610
the time to figure it out. Amen, sister.

2527
02:53:11,570 --> 02:53:15,890
So the orgasm. We talk about it, read
about it, and there are probably

2528
02:53:15,890 --> 02:53:17,570
of people having one right now.

2529
02:53:18,210 --> 02:53:21,630
But when we are having that special
moment, what is actually happening to

2530
02:53:21,630 --> 02:53:23,230
bodies and how do we feel afterwards?

2531
02:53:23,610 --> 02:53:27,210
We took to the streets to ask you if
having an orgasm makes you perform

2532
02:53:27,210 --> 02:53:28,350
outside the bedroom.

2533
02:53:28,920 --> 02:53:31,880
It's great. You wake up, you feel a bit
more positive about the day.

2534
02:53:32,140 --> 02:53:34,620
An orgasm in the morning does inspire my
writing.

2535
02:53:34,880 --> 02:53:36,620
It really helps me with my art, yeah.

2536
02:53:36,840 --> 02:53:41,620
You just go into work and you're so much
more, you know, ecstatic and happy.

2537
02:53:41,840 --> 02:53:48,260
So I was this morning, so... But what of
that hoary old chestnut that sex before

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02:53:48,260 --> 02:53:50,040
sport inhibits an athlete's performance?

2539
02:53:50,960 --> 02:53:55,480
Olympic gold medal winner Linford
Christie agrees. He reckons not having

2540
02:53:55,480 --> 02:53:56,580
makes you more aggressive.

2541
02:53:57,210 --> 02:54:00,890
But legendary footballer and womanizer
George Best said it never affected his

2542
02:54:00,890 --> 02:54:05,450
performance. So we decided to settle the
debate once and for all by testing

2543
02:54:05,450 --> 02:54:10,910
ordinary people's sporting prowess
before and after Climax. Just for fun,

2544
02:54:10,910 --> 02:54:11,910
course.

2545
02:54:13,290 --> 02:54:15,970
South London, an international athletics
arena.

2546
02:54:16,310 --> 02:54:21,450
Four people, three men and a woman
competing in the ultimate physical

2547
02:54:21,450 --> 02:54:23,010
against each other and themselves.

2548
02:54:23,770 --> 02:54:27,870
testing their body's athletic
performance both pre - and post -orgasm.

2549
02:54:30,810 --> 02:54:35,090
Me personally, I don't think sex or any
sport event actually matters.

2550
02:54:37,890 --> 02:54:42,830
My last orgasm I had was about seven
days ago, and it was with someone.

2551
02:54:45,790 --> 02:54:50,050
My last orgasm was three days ago with
my current boyfriend, who I'm with now.

2552
02:54:50,110 --> 02:54:51,110
It was a bummer.

2553
02:54:53,960 --> 02:54:58,560
The last time I had an orgasm is about a
week ago now, last Friday, and

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02:54:58,560 --> 02:55:00,620
depressingly, I gave it to myself.

2555
02:55:01,000 --> 02:55:02,180
We've met the contestants.

2556
02:55:02,420 --> 02:55:04,760
Now let the pre -orgasm games begin.

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02:55:07,080 --> 02:55:10,680
On your marks, get set, go.

2558
02:55:11,400 --> 02:55:15,560
The contestants first took part in a 60
-metre hurdles dash, immediately

2559
02:55:15,560 --> 02:55:17,980
followed by about as intense circuit
training.

2560
02:55:22,660 --> 02:55:26,840
Exertion's over, let's look at the
contestants' pre -orgasmic combined

2561
02:55:26,840 --> 02:55:27,840
and circuit times.

2562
02:55:28,880 --> 02:55:33,320
Coming in first is amateur boxer Oliver,
followed by Sunday League footballer

2563
02:55:33,320 --> 02:55:37,260
Andy, with keen jogger Debbie and couch
potato Anthony lagging behind.

2564
02:55:40,720 --> 02:55:44,800
Post -race, our contestants are allowed
one hour to get back to their pre -race

2565
02:55:44,800 --> 02:55:45,800
fitness level.

2566
02:55:45,840 --> 02:55:49,260
Then it's over to the pavilion, where
there's no more rest for the wicked.

2567
02:55:50,090 --> 02:55:51,790
Time for them to unburden themselves.

2568
02:55:53,150 --> 02:55:54,530
All in the name of science.

2569
02:55:57,870 --> 02:56:01,290
While they get busy, here are some facts
about the orgasm.

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02:56:02,450 --> 02:56:08,050
The longest recorded female orgasm was
43 seconds and consisted of 25 separate

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02:56:08,050 --> 02:56:09,050
contractions.

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02:56:11,330 --> 02:56:15,590
The average time for a man to recover
from his orgasm and be able to have sex

2573
02:56:15,590 --> 02:56:16,790
again is 30 minutes.

2574
02:56:17,070 --> 02:56:19,270
This is known as the refractory period.

2575
02:56:36,650 --> 02:56:41,410
After periods of abstinence, an
ejaculation can be up to six

2576
02:56:41,410 --> 02:56:42,730
just over a teaspoonful.

2577
02:56:44,550 --> 02:56:48,770
Post -orgasm, how will our contestants
fare as once more we put them through

2578
02:56:48,770 --> 02:56:49,810
their sporting paces?

2579
02:56:50,290 --> 02:56:54,470
Will it be with heavy legs and heavy
hearts, or will there be a newfound

2580
02:56:54,470 --> 02:56:55,309
in their step?

2581
02:56:55,310 --> 02:56:56,690
Go! And they're off.

2582
02:56:57,390 --> 02:57:01,050
Thrusting forward over the hurdles,
there appears to be no adverse effects.

2583
02:57:02,570 --> 02:57:04,090
Well, maybe for some.

2584
02:57:06,050 --> 02:57:09,690
Sex machine Oliver, on the other hand,
seems full of vim and vigor.

2585
02:57:13,510 --> 02:57:16,430
And to think this man has come twice in
the last six hours.

2586
02:57:16,790 --> 02:57:17,790
Quite remarkable.

2587
02:57:24,270 --> 02:57:25,650
And so to the reckoning.

2588
02:57:25,910 --> 02:57:29,510
Has there been a change in our
contestants' performance post -orgasm?

2589
02:57:35,340 --> 02:57:38,320
All of the men's post -orgasm
performance here was slower.

2590
02:57:47,040 --> 02:57:51,600
Whereas our female contestant, Debbie,
actually improved her performance post

2591
02:57:51,600 --> 02:57:53,280
-orgasm by five seconds.

2592
02:57:57,360 --> 02:58:02,280
So men who want to up their game should
maybe think about delaying their orgasms

2593
02:58:02,280 --> 02:58:03,980
till after the sporting event.

2594
02:58:09,040 --> 02:58:13,660
And women, if you want your man to help
with anything strenuous, then make sure

2595
02:58:13,660 --> 02:58:15,440
you ask him, please sex.

2596
02:58:17,280 --> 02:58:18,340
Completely shagged out.

2597
02:58:18,660 --> 02:58:19,660
A bit hard work.

2598
02:58:19,820 --> 02:58:22,020
Just, yeah, really, really, really
tired.

2599
02:58:22,400 --> 02:58:24,840
A bit tired. Then the handjob took it
out on me.

2600
02:58:28,660 --> 02:58:33,900
To tell us more about their orgasms and
how well they perform, please welcome an

2601
02:58:33,900 --> 02:58:37,840
actress and model who has scored with
many sporting legends, Alicia Duval.

2602
02:58:38,350 --> 02:58:43,630
a man who was integral to Wales' 2008
Six Nations winning squad, Lee Byrne,

2603
02:58:43,630 --> 02:58:47,790
sexual physician, Dr John Dean, who is
here to tell us how an orgasm affects

2604
02:58:47,790 --> 02:58:49,370
your performance in everyday life.

2605
02:58:49,650 --> 02:58:50,650
Welcome to the show.

2606
02:58:52,010 --> 02:58:57,270
So, John, what do you make of our
unscientific findings, the ones that

2607
02:58:57,270 --> 02:58:58,009
just seen?

2608
02:58:58,010 --> 02:59:01,010
Well, I think they're the happiest
research subject that I've ever seen.

2609
02:59:01,290 --> 02:59:03,650
But how about the results? Is there any
truth in the results?

2610
02:59:04,310 --> 02:59:07,470
This is a subject that has been
researched and...

2611
02:59:07,720 --> 02:59:12,900
The evidence is that sporting
performance is not significantly

2612
02:59:13,180 --> 02:59:15,460
So, Lee, how about you? Do you believe
in sex before sport?

2613
02:59:16,020 --> 02:59:20,900
Well, some coaches do have a ban on sex
before games, but certainly rugby

2614
02:59:20,900 --> 02:59:25,580
doesn't happen. You know, I certainly
wouldn't believe in having sex before

2615
02:59:25,580 --> 02:59:29,400
games, and every time I've done it, I've
gone out and had a man of the match, so

2616
02:59:29,400 --> 02:59:30,460
it can't be that bad, I suppose.

2617
02:59:32,000 --> 02:59:34,900
We've heard that the Welsh have been
doing pretty well this year. They won

2618
02:59:34,900 --> 02:59:38,480
Grand Slam. Was sex before sport
anyone's secret weapon?

2619
02:59:39,740 --> 02:59:44,140
No, obviously the girlfriends and the
wives were banned from the hotel, so it

2620
02:59:44,140 --> 02:59:47,660
was quite difficult. Obviously there's
other ways to do it, like masturbate, so

2621
02:59:47,660 --> 02:59:51,360
I suppose that's what we were doing.
Obviously we won the Grand Slam, so we

2622
02:59:51,360 --> 02:59:52,360
couldn't have done it anyhow.

2623
02:59:52,480 --> 02:59:54,760
So a good wank before the game is maybe
in order.

2624
02:59:55,900 --> 02:59:57,160
You've done it before a game?

2625
02:59:58,030 --> 03:00:01,590
I have to confess, yeah, I have, yeah.
And what's the shortest time before a

2626
03:00:01,590 --> 03:00:02,910
game that you've missed?