1 00:00:35,289 --> 00:00:39,729 FOREVER 2 00:00:46,917 --> 00:00:50,196 You can tell me about your first meeting? 3 00:00:55,197 --> 00:00:56,757 It was in the summer. 4 00:00:58,917 --> 00:01:01,957 At some party. 5 00:01:02,917 --> 00:01:06,035 I came there with his close friend. 6 00:01:13,717 --> 00:01:17,517 I wasn't doing well. I just got divorced. 7 00:01:18,237 --> 00:01:22,274 I was too long in a really bad relationship. 8 00:01:26,394 --> 00:01:31,354 I had two small children, which constantly needed me. 9 00:01:33,437 --> 00:01:35,637 Hi. 10 00:01:35,677 --> 00:01:37,957 I'll be right there. I'll just say goodnight to them. 11 00:01:38,197 --> 00:01:42,495 I worked on some projects and tried to apply. 12 00:01:57,672 --> 00:02:01,832 And then suddenly there he was. 13 00:02:13,631 --> 00:02:17,816 The strange thing was that I felt like I knew him. 14 00:02:17,871 --> 00:02:22,791 As if I thought so here you are. 15 00:02:24,557 --> 00:02:28,151 Where have you been all this time? 16 00:02:28,757 --> 00:02:31,757 I've never been with anyone before she didn't have that feeling. 17 00:02:38,729 --> 00:02:42,261 -Hi. -Hi. 18 00:02:42,750 --> 00:02:45,312 I feel like I know you. 19 00:02:45,390 --> 00:02:48,510 -I just feel like I know you. -I see. 20 00:02:49,727 --> 00:02:51,510 So yeah. 21 00:03:04,469 --> 00:03:09,757 All I could think about for months was how to get it 22 00:03:11,949 --> 00:03:16,277 I've been around all the places where I could meet him. 23 00:03:21,277 --> 00:03:23,317 could i have it 24 00:03:23,357 --> 00:03:25,677 That was not at all certain. 25 00:03:26,108 --> 00:03:28,668 Everyone would want that. 26 00:03:30,388 --> 00:03:35,877 I had to prove it. Otherwise, I would never forgive myself. 27 00:03:38,467 --> 00:03:42,507 And so we met one evening they met in the same place. 28 00:05:12,861 --> 00:05:15,181 He was single. 29 00:05:17,221 --> 00:05:19,661 And he had a lot of friends. 30 00:05:25,620 --> 00:05:27,700 I had children. 31 00:05:32,660 --> 00:05:35,757 And he loved them from the first moment. 32 00:06:11,417 --> 00:06:15,097 So that's how it was. 33 00:06:18,817 --> 00:06:22,797 Seven years later 34 00:06:37,456 --> 00:06:38,976 Hello? 35 00:06:39,016 --> 00:06:43,016 Yes. I wrote the proposal yesterday. 36 00:06:43,016 --> 00:06:49,096 Do you need that one too? Okay, I'll call you later, it's chaos. 37 00:06:51,815 --> 00:06:54,775 Get down. 38 00:06:58,535 --> 00:07:00,815 Rejected. 39 00:07:00,815 --> 00:07:04,535 So... Wait. 40 00:07:09,654 --> 00:07:12,414 Also rejected. 41 00:07:13,574 --> 00:07:15,854 Leave it. 42 00:07:20,254 --> 00:07:21,894 hi can you call me 43 00:07:21,894 --> 00:07:23,774 You need to transfer money there is nothing on the card. 44 00:07:23,774 --> 00:07:25,974 Mikael, stop, please. 45 00:07:26,974 --> 00:07:28,814 Hi! 46 00:07:31,174 --> 00:07:33,534 the light or the one with sequins? 47 00:07:33,534 --> 00:07:36,174 I want to poop! 48 00:07:36,334 --> 00:07:39,957 -Then go! -You don't care. 49 00:07:39,997 --> 00:07:42,854 Ludwig? Can you clean the dishwasher? 50 00:07:42,854 --> 00:07:45,717 why me Alma made the mess in the kitchen. 51 00:07:47,894 --> 00:07:50,957 -Here, Stella. - I'm hungry. What's for dinner? 52 00:07:50,997 --> 00:07:55,957 -Dad is picking us up in 45 minutes. - The teacher said that we didn't hand this in. 53 00:07:57,734 --> 00:08:01,534 Stellinka, not this. 54 00:08:01,534 --> 00:08:05,214 -Mom, done... -Almo, will you help him? 55 00:08:05,214 --> 00:08:07,934 -Ugh, I'm not going to wipe his ass. -I'm begging you. 56 00:08:07,974 --> 00:08:11,694 - I don't have time, I have to pack. - Just do as I say. 57 00:08:11,734 --> 00:08:15,254 - I'll go without it. - We'll find something, Ludvig. 58 00:08:15,294 --> 00:08:18,837 You always say that. I didn't have a flyer last time. 59 00:08:18,877 --> 00:08:21,774 - Mom! - See, he doesn't want to help. 60 00:08:21,934 --> 00:08:25,774 - It stinks in there. Shit! - Great, then you take Stella. 61 00:08:35,062 --> 00:08:38,031 You didn't come to pick them up last weekend. 62 00:08:38,031 --> 00:08:40,677 we had a tournament so it didn't work. 63 00:08:40,717 --> 00:08:44,972 It didn't work? You have to agree with me on that. 64 00:08:44,972 --> 00:08:47,259 The children were waiting for you. 65 00:08:47,259 --> 00:08:50,870 You can't do what you want and don't answer the phones. 66 00:08:50,870 --> 00:08:56,286 -Okay, you're ready. -I'm going to get my headphones. 67 00:09:00,738 --> 00:09:03,717 -Go away! - I just want to talk to you. 68 00:09:03,757 --> 00:09:05,637 I said go away. Shut up! 69 00:09:05,677 --> 00:09:08,757 I understand it's hard to see when my dad and I argue like this. 70 00:09:08,757 --> 00:09:13,437 -Get out! -Recover, it hurts. - I said, shut it! 71 00:09:13,477 --> 00:09:18,028 - I didn't do anything. -You are mean and annoying. Go away! 72 00:09:18,028 --> 00:09:21,557 -Enough! You can't do this... -I hate you! 73 00:09:21,972 --> 00:09:27,492 Dad, can I move in with you? I can't take it anymore. 74 00:09:27,532 --> 00:09:30,892 It is not excluded. 75 00:09:31,308 --> 00:09:35,762 - My little girl. Sweetie. -Your mouth stinks. 76 00:09:35,762 --> 00:09:37,532 Well, handsome. 77 00:09:37,572 --> 00:09:40,237 look into my eyes when we say goodbye 78 00:09:52,531 --> 00:09:55,131 Darling, you are forty years old! 79 00:10:01,557 --> 00:10:03,843 Come with me to Barcelona! 80 00:10:03,843 --> 00:10:06,050 i love you 81 00:10:27,368 --> 00:10:29,048 -Hi. -Hi. 82 00:10:34,853 --> 00:10:40,597 I bought woolen underwear for the children. I hope they will. 83 00:10:40,637 --> 00:10:43,879 It was a nice chase. 84 00:10:49,415 --> 00:10:53,767 -How are you? -What would you say? 85 00:10:58,957 --> 00:11:02,797 I guess you understand that it bothers me that you never come when you say 86 00:11:02,837 --> 00:11:08,311 I understand. We overdid it. I didn't do anything with it. 87 00:11:08,311 --> 00:11:11,280 You don't answer my phone. 88 00:11:11,280 --> 00:11:14,997 My battery died. That's stupid. 89 00:11:17,579 --> 00:11:20,949 You are amazing. 90 00:11:22,754 --> 00:11:25,883 Did it go well? Did you manage everything? 91 00:11:25,883 --> 00:11:29,413 It went pretty well. Fact. 92 00:11:29,413 --> 00:11:32,061 I've played with a few people before. So it worked. 93 00:11:32,061 --> 00:11:36,836 But the producer had a little different idea. 94 00:11:36,836 --> 00:11:42,412 So we said it to each other for a while. 95 00:11:42,412 --> 00:11:46,906 I was pretty tight. I wasn't in shape. 96 00:11:46,906 --> 00:11:50,436 I usually sleep badly in hotels, so I was groggy. 97 00:11:50,436 --> 00:11:56,615 It dragged on all day. It was exhausting. 98 00:11:56,615 --> 00:12:00,517 It must be exhausting. Sleep in a hotel and... 99 00:12:04,677 --> 00:12:08,197 god it's great to be home again. 100 00:12:08,237 --> 00:12:15,837 Wednesday was tough. We couldn't think of anything. For hours... 101 00:12:15,877 --> 00:12:19,557 Mikael was in trouble at school. Again. 102 00:12:19,557 --> 00:12:22,884 He threw a rock at the sophomores' window. 103 00:12:22,924 --> 00:12:25,298 They have been asking us for two months for a meeting. 104 00:12:25,298 --> 00:12:27,906 But I said that I have to wait for you 105 00:12:27,906 --> 00:12:30,474 - So that we can go there together. - So yeah. 106 00:12:30,474 --> 00:12:34,637 We will do it. I'm glad you told me. 107 00:12:40,883 --> 00:12:42,677 i like you 108 00:12:43,477 --> 00:12:46,843 - I don't you. -No? 109 00:12:47,443 --> 00:12:50,083 Well, he's stupid. 110 00:13:00,962 --> 00:13:05,917 You are a moron. You leave me here alone. It's hell. 111 00:13:07,122 --> 00:13:10,242 I should report you to the police. 112 00:13:10,282 --> 00:13:14,202 Attempted murder. I almost didn't survive today. 113 00:13:14,242 --> 00:13:16,962 And when I thought that it couldn't get any worse 114 00:13:17,002 --> 00:13:19,322 and finally she made dinner the fire alarm went off. 115 00:13:19,357 --> 00:13:23,602 You hung it so high that I had to put three chairs on top of me. 116 00:13:23,642 --> 00:13:26,842 Unfortunately, I did she saw in the mirror. 117 00:13:26,842 --> 00:13:31,877 And it was such a terrible sight, that you would throw a bow. 118 00:13:33,322 --> 00:13:35,922 i love you 119 00:13:38,962 --> 00:13:40,762 i love you 120 00:13:42,922 --> 00:13:45,282 Honey. 121 00:13:45,402 --> 00:13:49,002 And then today they turned the whole project upside down. 122 00:13:49,042 --> 00:13:52,002 - But no. -Please don't say, but no. 123 00:13:55,082 --> 00:13:57,842 I just don't have it. 124 00:13:57,882 --> 00:14:02,562 You can't jump to conclusions from one attempt. 125 00:14:02,602 --> 00:14:07,162 can you stop it I have nothing to offer them. 126 00:14:07,202 --> 00:14:10,602 You can't think like that. You have a lot. 127 00:14:10,682 --> 00:14:13,882 you are strong you care about the truth 128 00:14:13,882 --> 00:14:18,722 You could have chosen an easier path. You didn't do it. That's why I like you. 129 00:14:18,722 --> 00:14:22,877 You can do it, you just have to believe it. Try to see it from a distance. 130 00:14:24,162 --> 00:14:28,962 From a distance you forever work and therefore I can't do anything. 131 00:14:29,002 --> 00:14:32,517 I can't do it if I have forever all children. I'm exhausted. 132 00:14:32,557 --> 00:14:35,037 I can't concentrate on work. 133 00:14:35,077 --> 00:14:40,863 I'm canceling one appointment this week after all, because of everything, because of the dentist... 134 00:14:40,863 --> 00:14:43,677 It doesn't work. I can't concentrate on the work. 135 00:14:43,717 --> 00:14:48,002 I'll be home for two weeks now so you can work. 136 00:14:48,002 --> 00:14:50,157 Two weeks? are you kidding me 137 00:14:51,717 --> 00:14:55,816 we agreed that you will stop traveling now. 138 00:14:55,816 --> 00:15:00,277 -It wasn't tight. -It was. Did you take another job? 139 00:15:00,317 --> 00:15:03,359 With your requests it was not certain. 140 00:15:03,359 --> 00:15:05,887 If something works out. And we have to have some income. 141 00:15:05,887 --> 00:15:10,342 -So you just counted on it, that I can't do it? -No, stop it. 142 00:15:10,342 --> 00:15:13,151 I said clearly that I don't want it like this! 143 00:15:13,151 --> 00:15:18,367 I don't have time or space to breathe. I can't prove it like this. 144 00:15:18,367 --> 00:15:22,099 You're not the only one working. We have to find another solution. 145 00:15:22,099 --> 00:15:25,877 I can't back down now. It's in a fortnight. 146 00:15:25,917 --> 00:15:28,957 I keep interrupting something. So now you just do it. 147 00:15:28,997 --> 00:15:35,237 This is completely frivolous. I will never get a job again. 148 00:15:31,237 --> 00:15:35,381 So at least you try how i feel 149 00:17:13,675 --> 00:17:15,877 Yes, I understand. 150 00:17:19,357 --> 00:17:24,557 I like to hear that. 151 00:17:26,797 --> 00:17:29,634 Of course. 152 00:17:31,834 --> 00:17:33,954 Sure. 153 00:17:33,994 --> 00:17:37,314 That's a good idea. 154 00:17:37,634 --> 00:17:39,914 Agreement. 155 00:17:43,154 --> 00:17:45,637 I completely agree. 156 00:17:46,274 --> 00:17:50,957 We really care. I'm glad we're working on it. 157 00:17:50,994 --> 00:17:53,074 All right. 158 00:17:54,394 --> 00:17:57,074 You with that school do you deal over the phone? 159 00:17:57,074 --> 00:18:02,154 Yes, we really appreciate it. Really? 160 00:18:02,354 --> 00:18:06,394 -We have to pull together. -We will solve it together. 161 00:18:06,394 --> 00:18:10,434 - I'll handle it for her. She will definitely be happy. -Can you put it down? 162 00:18:10,434 --> 00:18:14,474 Great, we'll keep in touch. I'm glad we discussed it. 163 00:18:14,474 --> 00:18:18,154 -Can you hang up? -We have a plan. Goodbye. 164 00:18:18,994 --> 00:18:21,834 What the hell are you doing? I'm talking to someone here! 165 00:18:21,834 --> 00:18:25,794 Did you talk to them over the phone? 166 00:18:26,354 --> 00:18:30,914 - Solved? -And why not. They called themselves. 167 00:18:30,914 --> 00:18:34,717 You said we were putting it off too long and that we need to talk. 168 00:18:34,757 --> 00:18:38,154 yes i said that we need to talk. 169 00:18:38,154 --> 00:18:41,554 We've been putting it off because that you were gone for months 170 00:18:41,554 --> 00:18:44,997 I said I was waiting for you so we can both be there. 171 00:18:45,037 --> 00:18:48,674 - Don't you understand that this is important? -Is it really such a science? 172 00:18:48,674 --> 00:18:51,554 I don't have to with you ask everything. 173 00:18:51,554 --> 00:18:57,834 I've been putting it off because of you. But you totally miss me. 174 00:18:57,834 --> 00:19:02,554 Calm down. we agreed that someone from the village will judge it. 175 00:19:02,634 --> 00:19:04,277 Then it won't be up to us. 176 00:19:11,193 --> 00:19:15,757 - Did you agree on this? -Yeah. 177 00:19:15,797 --> 00:19:21,313 You can't just make it up when I'm not around. 178 00:19:22,193 --> 00:19:24,793 doesn't need to be judged. 179 00:19:24,793 --> 00:19:30,237 You have no idea what she needs right now. Are you a complete moron? 180 00:19:30,277 --> 00:19:34,233 are you You just can't do this! 181 00:19:34,233 --> 00:19:39,237 You can't march in here to do this and not even ask me. 182 00:19:39,277 --> 00:19:41,873 why did you do that 183 00:19:43,433 --> 00:19:45,957 can you answer me 184 00:19:45,997 --> 00:19:49,833 why did you do that Are you completely out of your ass, what do I think? 185 00:19:49,833 --> 00:19:52,793 Go to hell! 186 00:19:53,073 --> 00:19:57,473 Stop it! Can't you see I'm trying to help you? 187 00:19:57,473 --> 00:20:01,873 I'm trying to do something right. I can't take this anymore! 188 00:21:38,746 --> 00:21:40,808 Marie? 189 00:21:42,264 --> 00:21:44,077 what is 190 00:21:45,418 --> 00:21:49,017 It doesn't work that way. 191 00:21:50,959 --> 00:21:53,668 What do you mean? 192 00:21:53,668 --> 00:21:58,884 It doesn't work. Someone has to help you with that anger. 193 00:21:59,694 --> 00:22:01,756 -Help? -Yes. 194 00:22:01,756 --> 00:22:06,197 Some anger management course or something like that. 195 00:22:06,892 --> 00:22:08,917 I can't handle this. 196 00:22:08,957 --> 00:22:11,746 I don't either. 197 00:22:13,546 --> 00:22:16,666 -I'm serious. - Me too. 198 00:22:17,026 --> 00:22:21,197 Me no anger management course i don't need But maybe you do? 199 00:22:23,386 --> 00:22:29,306 the way you treat me it destroys me. 200 00:22:29,746 --> 00:22:33,717 My behavior? Your behavior is destroying me. 201 00:22:33,757 --> 00:22:38,906 You're angry too. Look at yourself. You're furious. 202 00:22:46,077 --> 00:22:52,317 You're not serious. I have to change because you messed something up? 203 00:22:52,825 --> 00:22:56,585 And besides, you're at least as angry like me 204 00:22:58,745 --> 00:23:00,465 Hello? 205 00:23:30,983 --> 00:23:33,423 Who wants yogurt? 206 00:23:33,423 --> 00:23:36,623 -I! - Please. 207 00:23:36,783 --> 00:23:39,477 But no. Do you see it? 208 00:23:41,703 --> 00:23:46,303 can you wipe it Thank you. That's a big help. 209 00:23:47,663 --> 00:23:51,543 It got a little confusing. Do you want milk too? 210 00:23:51,983 --> 00:23:55,463 Good morning. There is coffee in the kettle. Take it. 211 00:23:56,983 --> 00:23:59,023 Mom! 212 00:24:00,503 --> 00:24:03,743 - Mom! -Stella! 213 00:24:10,542 --> 00:24:14,102 - Michael. We have to go. - So yeah. 214 00:24:15,702 --> 00:24:17,462 Come on. 215 00:24:21,902 --> 00:24:24,862 - Dad... - Yeah. 216 00:24:25,142 --> 00:24:28,062 Let's go, Mikael. 217 00:24:29,022 --> 00:24:31,662 So come on. 218 00:24:33,222 --> 00:24:35,502 -This. - Let's go. 219 00:24:39,462 --> 00:24:41,462 I am willing to work on myself. You know that. 220 00:24:41,462 --> 00:24:44,597 But I won't accept that you will not participate in it. 221 00:24:46,422 --> 00:24:49,502 Wait for dad. 222 00:24:54,461 --> 00:24:57,461 Don't you want a divorce? 223 00:25:08,940 --> 00:25:11,540 Do you want a divorce? 224 00:25:13,140 --> 00:25:15,940 For God's sake, answer me. 225 00:25:22,539 --> 00:25:25,419 Dad is going. 226 00:25:32,698 --> 00:25:36,058 -Who wants to go to bed? -I... 227 00:25:41,617 --> 00:25:44,937 Are you going to sleep here? 228 00:25:45,837 --> 00:25:49,757 I have a headache. I need to sleep. 229 00:25:50,937 --> 00:25:56,337 -Can't we talk? - I can't do it now, Marie. 230 00:25:56,537 --> 00:25:59,037 Can't we at least sleep together? 231 00:25:59,077 --> 00:26:01,817 I have to get myself together. I'm not well. 232 00:26:01,817 --> 00:26:04,697 I can't just change. 233 00:26:05,417 --> 00:26:08,897 You know how tight I am. I can't do it. 234 00:26:08,897 --> 00:26:11,257 You wake up the kids. 235 00:26:12,897 --> 00:26:16,977 We'll talk about it tomorrow. It's already late. 236 00:26:16,977 --> 00:26:20,617 -Did you meet someone else? - Not at all. 237 00:26:22,257 --> 00:26:24,657 So what is it about? 238 00:26:25,337 --> 00:26:29,297 -What's going on? - We'll talk tomorrow. 239 00:26:29,657 --> 00:26:33,337 We need to sleep. Please. 240 00:27:12,614 --> 00:27:15,557 I can't stand this. 241 00:27:15,597 --> 00:27:19,054 I can't last here like this. 242 00:27:19,334 --> 00:27:22,814 -Okay, no. - So not? 243 00:27:32,853 --> 00:27:34,893 I'm leaving. 244 00:27:34,893 --> 00:27:38,173 Until you figure out what you want. The children will be with you. 245 00:27:38,173 --> 00:27:41,293 - So yeah. - So yeah? 246 00:27:41,413 --> 00:27:42,373 So yeah. 247 00:27:44,173 --> 00:27:49,333 Do you think this is a good solution? Am I leaving? 248 00:27:49,333 --> 00:27:53,517 You came up with that. If you need it, fine. 249 00:27:54,373 --> 00:27:57,053 I just can't last in this house when it's like this. 250 00:27:57,053 --> 00:28:00,853 I understand that. Just do what's best for you. 251 00:28:00,853 --> 00:28:04,213 so you think that this is the best for me? 252 00:29:04,729 --> 00:29:08,569 Mikael, do you think I'm very angry? 253 00:29:08,609 --> 00:29:13,969 -No. -Marie, leave him out of it. 254 00:29:15,449 --> 00:29:19,249 - Mikael, does mom seem angry? -Stop it. 255 00:29:19,409 --> 00:29:23,169 he would tell me if you thought so. 256 00:29:48,647 --> 00:29:53,007 Can you at least give me a hug? 257 00:30:05,446 --> 00:30:07,726 i love you 258 00:30:16,285 --> 00:30:19,405 Shit... You are such a mess. 259 00:30:20,045 --> 00:30:21,285 Scary... 260 00:31:02,242 --> 00:31:06,762 - Thank you. You are very nice. - Glad it happened. 261 00:31:07,922 --> 00:31:12,042 - I'll call you. Good luck. -Thanks. You too. 262 00:31:57,119 --> 00:32:02,399 This is Sigmund. I can't talk now. Please leave a message. 263 00:32:07,158 --> 00:32:11,558 I can't talk now. Please leave a message. 264 00:32:24,197 --> 00:32:27,957 Is anger destroying your family relationships? 265 00:32:27,957 --> 00:32:31,637 He will help you Brøset's anger management method. 266 00:32:31,637 --> 00:32:34,997 It can be used by anyone over the age of 18, who has anger issues... 267 00:32:34,997 --> 00:32:37,397 and violent expressions towards your loved ones. 268 00:32:37,397 --> 00:32:39,917 Any type of violent behavior can be changed. 269 00:32:39,917 --> 00:32:45,357 The problem needs to be solved, before disrupting family relationships. 270 00:32:52,716 --> 00:32:54,516 Give it a break. 271 00:33:04,115 --> 00:33:06,915 -Hi. -What are you doing here? 272 00:33:06,995 --> 00:33:12,035 I just wanted to see you. How about going for coffee? 273 00:33:12,035 --> 00:33:15,595 Don't come here. It's embarrassing. 274 00:33:15,595 --> 00:33:18,955 What's so embarrassing that I came to greet you? 275 00:33:18,955 --> 00:33:21,515 Just go away mom! 276 00:33:21,515 --> 00:33:25,835 Don't you understand how it hurts me? I'm just trying to be nice. 277 00:33:25,835 --> 00:33:29,675 You don't have to talk to me like that. At least you can hug me. 278 00:33:29,675 --> 00:33:32,555 I don't want you to come here. Is it so hard to understand? 279 00:33:32,555 --> 00:33:35,795 And why not? I never come here. 280 00:33:35,795 --> 00:33:39,915 This is so scary that someone stops here? 281 00:33:39,915 --> 00:33:45,315 I never follow you to school. I thought you would like it. 282 00:33:45,315 --> 00:33:48,355 God, that's a bummer that your mother came to greet you. 283 00:33:48,355 --> 00:33:51,235 -Terrible embarrassment! - You're crazy, mom. 284 00:33:51,235 --> 00:33:55,355 So go! Just go! Help yourself! 285 00:34:00,834 --> 00:34:06,354 Alma, I'm sorry. It was stupid. It didn't work, sorry. 286 00:34:23,233 --> 00:34:28,193 This is Sigmund. I can't talk now. Please leave a message. 287 00:34:28,193 --> 00:34:30,873 Hi, it's me. 288 00:34:31,513 --> 00:34:35,393 I just wanted to know how are you doing 289 00:34:36,553 --> 00:34:42,113 And if you go to town tomorrow could you get me the eczema cream? 290 00:34:42,113 --> 00:34:46,753 It's on the top shelf in the bathroom, on the left. 291 00:34:47,393 --> 00:34:49,953 It itches a lot. 292 00:34:49,953 --> 00:34:53,953 More than normal. I don't know what it is. 293 00:34:53,953 --> 00:34:58,953 I can't sleep. I guess I'll have to see a doctor. 294 00:34:59,513 --> 00:35:04,593 couldn't you call me or write? 295 00:35:08,352 --> 00:35:12,512 I forgot to take it socks and panties. 296 00:35:12,512 --> 00:35:16,432 If you could take them from me too. So yeah. 297 00:35:17,792 --> 00:35:20,272 Good. 298 00:35:23,912 --> 00:35:27,112 Darling 299 00:36:25,228 --> 00:36:29,348 I have a meeting right now. I only found the blue panties. 300 00:36:29,348 --> 00:36:32,828 I know you don't like them very much but there was a terrible chirp in the morning. 301 00:36:32,828 --> 00:36:36,668 And this is the cream, right? 302 00:36:37,508 --> 00:36:41,868 Have you figured out what you want yet? 303 00:36:43,468 --> 00:36:48,428 I think we need both some time and space. 304 00:36:48,428 --> 00:36:52,868 It's important to me now define nothing. 305 00:36:55,188 --> 00:36:58,508 -I have to go back there. -But... 306 00:36:58,508 --> 00:37:01,908 You have to treat Mikael's wart. Once a week. 307 00:37:01,908 --> 00:37:04,908 -The solution is in the bathroom on the shelf. -I already did that. 308 00:37:04,908 --> 00:37:10,068 And a thermos too. When I washed her after a school trip, she stank. 309 00:37:10,068 --> 00:37:14,228 You have to take it apart and rinse with boiling water. 310 00:37:14,228 --> 00:37:16,508 -Okay, I'll do it. -And... 311 00:37:16,508 --> 00:37:20,988 I never got around to to give you this 312 00:37:23,108 --> 00:37:25,268 You have to read it. 313 00:37:29,428 --> 00:37:32,028 I haven't found a babysitter yet. But I will do it. 314 00:37:32,028 --> 00:37:35,108 for you to know what awaits us 315 00:37:35,508 --> 00:37:38,268 When we're together again. 316 00:37:38,628 --> 00:37:44,228 That vacation is already paid for. So you can take someone else with you. 317 00:37:49,747 --> 00:37:53,987 -I have to go back. - I was looking forward to working again. 318 00:37:53,987 --> 00:37:56,267 But I can't do it in this situation. 319 00:37:56,307 --> 00:37:59,027 And if I don't have a job to get sick leave, I won't have money. 320 00:37:59,027 --> 00:38:01,627 Then you'll have to pay all accounts. 321 00:38:01,627 --> 00:38:04,627 I should be back then so that I don't lose my job too. 322 00:38:04,627 --> 00:38:07,907 -I really want to work. -I know. 323 00:38:07,947 --> 00:38:11,587 I don't understand why you are doing this. I don't get it. 324 00:38:13,187 --> 00:38:18,147 - We can't discuss it now. -Am I not good enough for you anymore? 325 00:38:18,147 --> 00:38:21,907 If I got better so you wouldn't do this? 326 00:38:21,907 --> 00:38:25,987 But I can't get better. I can't do it. 327 00:38:25,987 --> 00:38:29,307 I'm really trying. I'm completely exhausted. 328 00:38:29,307 --> 00:38:33,227 I sacrificed everything what i dreamed about 329 00:38:33,387 --> 00:38:35,987 -I'm complete shit. -Don't beat yourself up. 330 00:38:35,987 --> 00:38:41,187 -I'm worthless. -Don't do it, please. 331 00:38:41,907 --> 00:38:46,067 When I go to a course with people, who beat children or in psychiatry, 332 00:38:46,107 --> 00:38:48,747 so will you want me? Just tell me what to do! 333 00:38:48,747 --> 00:38:52,147 I'm so horrible that I don't even know this. 334 00:38:52,147 --> 00:38:55,507 look at me I'm going back inside. 335 00:38:55,507 --> 00:39:01,067 You have to pull yourself together. Talk to someone. It will help you. 336 00:40:11,542 --> 00:40:15,062 He won't leave you. 337 00:40:15,222 --> 00:40:19,342 I don't believe that. It just needs a little space. 338 00:40:19,342 --> 00:40:21,702 I don't know. 339 00:40:23,022 --> 00:40:26,022 i feel that anything can happen. 340 00:40:26,022 --> 00:40:30,262 As if I didn't know him anymore. I don't understand what he's up to. 341 00:40:30,262 --> 00:40:33,662 Never a long relationship before you he didn't have 342 00:40:33,662 --> 00:40:36,462 And then he met Dracula. 343 00:40:36,462 --> 00:40:40,022 That was a bit unlucky. 344 00:40:40,742 --> 00:40:43,662 But seriously. He doesn't have the experience you have. 345 00:40:43,662 --> 00:40:46,742 With children and previous relationships. 346 00:40:46,742 --> 00:40:50,142 -Has he had any relationships before? -Yeah, half a year. 347 00:40:50,142 --> 00:40:53,462 But a situation like this he hasn't experienced yet. 348 00:40:53,462 --> 00:40:56,182 When must one strive to make it work. 349 00:40:56,182 --> 00:40:59,902 -I think you need therapy. -But he doesn't want therapy. 350 00:40:59,902 --> 00:41:02,077 He wants me to change. 351 00:41:03,142 --> 00:41:05,902 He can't say this. 352 00:41:06,742 --> 00:41:10,262 He would have to say it in front of a third person. 353 00:41:10,262 --> 00:41:14,542 If she's so afraid reveal yourself to someone else 354 00:41:14,542 --> 00:41:17,422 he must be hiding something. 355 00:41:17,422 --> 00:41:20,502 Has he ever been to therapy? No. 356 00:41:20,502 --> 00:41:22,662 Are they talking about it with their friends? 357 00:41:22,662 --> 00:41:25,942 He doesn't vent a lot of things. Except with me. 358 00:41:25,942 --> 00:41:30,342 If she really wants to leave you a mediator is mandatory. 359 00:41:30,342 --> 00:41:33,702 When you have children and want a divorce. 360 00:41:33,702 --> 00:41:38,302 - He might nod at that. -That's the minimum. 361 00:41:53,421 --> 00:41:57,501 - Maria and Sigmund? -Yes. 362 00:41:57,821 --> 00:41:59,581 Good morning. 363 00:42:00,461 --> 00:42:02,701 Come on. 364 00:42:04,661 --> 00:42:08,981 So Sigmund says, that he feels that he has no space. 365 00:42:08,981 --> 00:42:12,501 And that he feels trapped. Am I understanding this correctly? 366 00:42:12,501 --> 00:42:18,381 Yes. It destroys me. I don't know. 367 00:42:18,381 --> 00:42:24,261 It's hard to know now. So maybe I need space. 368 00:42:24,261 --> 00:42:25,741 Do you need space? You're still working. 369 00:42:25,741 --> 00:42:28,781 And I'm all alone. I'm exhausted. 370 00:42:28,781 --> 00:42:31,381 You have a lot of space. How can you say this? 371 00:42:31,381 --> 00:42:34,821 We agreed that I would finally work and you will fight at home. 372 00:42:34,821 --> 00:42:39,381 You take the job anyway, I say cancel it and you want a divorce! 373 00:42:39,381 --> 00:42:41,301 Where the hell are we? 374 00:42:41,341 --> 00:42:44,221 i understand that you have a lot on your mind, Marie. 375 00:42:44,221 --> 00:42:48,021 But we can focus first on you, Sigmund? 376 00:42:48,021 --> 00:42:50,901 -Is it okay, Marie? -Yes. 377 00:42:50,901 --> 00:42:56,741 Why is it difficult for you to get space, which one do you need? 378 00:42:56,741 --> 00:43:00,021 That's not so easy to say. 379 00:43:00,181 --> 00:43:03,981 Something else is private space and something else work. 380 00:43:03,981 --> 00:43:08,381 You have at least one of them I don't have any. 381 00:43:08,741 --> 00:43:14,181 Maria intervenes in everything it's everywhere. 382 00:43:14,181 --> 00:43:17,461 I don't know how to explain it. 383 00:43:17,781 --> 00:43:22,861 I don't feel good anywhere. 384 00:43:22,861 --> 00:43:26,261 I have no way to join. I have no place at home. 385 00:43:26,261 --> 00:43:29,941 There is no room for anyone now. It's a really hectic time. 386 00:43:29,941 --> 00:43:34,581 I'm getting quite interested what say you Sigmund 387 00:43:34,581 --> 00:43:38,501 Why is it so hard for you? make that space? 388 00:43:38,701 --> 00:43:42,341 I don't know if it's hard. 389 00:43:42,461 --> 00:43:47,461 But what do you mean? That you don't get that space? 390 00:43:47,461 --> 00:43:51,501 We are forever in conflict. 391 00:43:51,501 --> 00:43:55,021 Especially when I'm trying make space for yourself. 392 00:43:55,021 --> 00:43:58,861 Are conflicts difficult for you? 393 00:43:58,861 --> 00:44:01,621 Yes, they are exhausting. 394 00:44:01,621 --> 00:44:05,501 You think it's just Marie's fault that you don't have enough space? 395 00:44:05,501 --> 00:44:09,061 Or you can do something about it you alone 396 00:44:09,061 --> 00:44:14,741 I don't know that. I really don't know what to say right now. 397 00:44:14,741 --> 00:44:18,141 There's so much anger that I can't see clearly 398 00:44:18,141 --> 00:44:22,101 Sure, one gets angry when everything is still on him. 399 00:44:22,101 --> 00:44:26,821 -That's not fair. -There's a lot on me too. 400 00:44:26,821 --> 00:44:30,261 I took care of your children from a previous relationship. 401 00:44:30,261 --> 00:44:32,981 That costs something too. 402 00:44:32,981 --> 00:44:35,181 Are we going to count this too? 403 00:44:35,181 --> 00:44:39,261 Of course I appreciate it what do you do for older kids 404 00:44:39,261 --> 00:44:44,181 But the fact that you came to us it cost us something too. 405 00:44:44,181 --> 00:44:47,621 If only I had them now I would have a lot of time and freedom. 406 00:44:47,621 --> 00:44:50,101 We just have to survive this phase. 407 00:44:50,101 --> 00:44:52,421 Children are small we don't have a babysitter. 408 00:44:52,421 --> 00:44:55,661 We don't have grandparents to help we have uncertain finances. 409 00:44:55,661 --> 00:44:58,381 With four children we must stick together 410 00:44:58,381 --> 00:45:00,621 You can't get out of it when the going gets tough. 411 00:45:00,621 --> 00:45:04,981 - I was divorced once... -This is from the winter holidays. 412 00:45:05,781 --> 00:45:07,381 Did you record it? 413 00:45:07,381 --> 00:45:09,901 we can't leave when he doesn't have a jumpsuit! 414 00:45:09,901 --> 00:45:12,621 It was the only thing which you were in charge of! 415 00:45:12,621 --> 00:45:16,941 But you don't care! Fuck it! 416 00:45:16,941 --> 00:45:20,221 It's taken out of context. You can't let it go like this. 417 00:45:20,221 --> 00:45:22,821 Good. i think that we don't have to listen to it now. 418 00:45:22,821 --> 00:45:25,421 my god 419 00:45:28,181 --> 00:45:32,381 you never get angry Sigmund? 420 00:45:32,381 --> 00:45:35,381 No... I don't know. 421 00:45:35,901 --> 00:45:41,501 You will definitely get angry when Marie is angry with you. 422 00:45:42,261 --> 00:45:47,581 If you don't know you're angry so maybe there will be a problem in that too. 423 00:45:47,581 --> 00:45:52,341 But you understand that your anger affects him? 424 00:45:52,341 --> 00:45:54,221 That's just the distance. 425 00:45:54,221 --> 00:45:59,061 I don't think if I go to an anger management course, it will be resolved. 426 00:45:59,061 --> 00:46:02,461 I understand it's hard for you fend for yourself. 427 00:46:02,461 --> 00:46:06,221 But it feels weird to download so that you have more space. 428 00:46:06,221 --> 00:46:10,061 When you already have more space than me 429 00:46:10,061 --> 00:46:16,941 We have to work this out together and I am willing to go to therapy. Together. 430 00:46:16,941 --> 00:46:20,661 I'm not ready for that yet. 431 00:46:22,701 --> 00:46:28,941 We're running out of time soon so let's close it somehow. 432 00:46:29,101 --> 00:46:34,781 I would like to explain and summarize, what phase are we in now 433 00:46:35,101 --> 00:46:39,501 Marie, you on this relationship, you want to work Is that so? 434 00:46:39,541 --> 00:46:43,261 And Sigmund, what do you think now 435 00:46:44,101 --> 00:46:50,181 I'm not sure if i want to continue 436 00:46:50,661 --> 00:46:55,821 But you have to say something. I can't live with this uncertainty. 437 00:46:55,821 --> 00:47:00,461 You have to be able to say if you want to try to fix it or not. 438 00:47:02,701 --> 00:47:06,581 This is horrible. I have nothing to cling to. 439 00:47:06,581 --> 00:47:08,701 I can't leave the place. 440 00:47:08,701 --> 00:47:12,341 This is hard for Maria. I understand that. 441 00:47:12,341 --> 00:47:17,301 He wants to go back home and put things in order. 442 00:47:17,301 --> 00:47:20,861 -Yes. -Yes, I understand. 443 00:47:21,221 --> 00:47:25,981 We could set a deadline when will you give Maria a clear answer? 444 00:47:25,981 --> 00:47:28,341 All right. 445 00:47:28,541 --> 00:47:32,821 What would you say? A day or a week? 446 00:47:32,821 --> 00:47:36,941 It would be good to so she doesn't have to wait too long. 447 00:47:37,181 --> 00:47:41,261 I can express myself within a few days. 448 00:47:41,261 --> 00:47:47,021 Great. So until Wednesday evening? 449 00:47:47,581 --> 00:47:50,421 Is that okay with you, Marie? 450 00:47:59,820 --> 00:48:03,380 In any case, we'll meet here on Thursday. 451 00:48:03,380 --> 00:48:06,037 And let's talk a little more, what awaits you next 452 00:48:06,077 --> 00:48:09,700 together, or each separately. 453 00:48:09,700 --> 00:48:12,620 I think it's important. 454 00:48:16,660 --> 00:48:20,077 I apologize. are we done I think they're calling me from work. 455 00:48:25,099 --> 00:48:29,979 You wouldn't help me with any personal data? 456 00:48:30,259 --> 00:48:31,637 Sure. 457 00:48:55,257 --> 00:48:59,177 He said he would reply to me by today until evening, but nothing yet. 458 00:48:59,177 --> 00:49:03,777 He will surely answer you. He normally keeps his promises, doesn't he? 459 00:49:03,777 --> 00:49:08,537 That's right. Besides the marital one. 460 00:49:08,537 --> 00:49:14,057 It will be fine. I can only think of... 461 00:49:16,176 --> 00:49:20,616 I don't know. What do you think he will write? 462 00:49:22,296 --> 00:49:29,376 Try not to think about it. Breathe deeply. 463 00:49:29,416 --> 00:49:33,616 Try to get some sleep. He loves you. I know that. 464 00:49:33,616 --> 00:49:38,936 If he leaves you, he's a moron. And that's not him. 465 00:49:45,277 --> 00:49:50,237 I have to go to sleep. Could you not answer me? 466 00:50:08,917 --> 00:50:13,013 I fell asleep with Stella. I just wrote you an email. 467 00:50:24,692 --> 00:50:26,932 Dear Mary, 468 00:50:27,172 --> 00:50:31,732 First of all I would like to thank you for all the beautiful moments together. 469 00:50:32,652 --> 00:50:35,292 It meant a lot to me. 470 00:50:37,572 --> 00:50:42,852 But you have to prepare yourself that I will leave this relationship. 471 00:51:28,889 --> 00:51:33,289 This is Sigmund. I can't talk now. Please leave a message. 472 00:51:36,409 --> 00:51:38,289 Mom! 473 00:51:40,649 --> 00:51:45,449 I can't stand this. I can't stand it. 474 00:52:01,568 --> 00:52:04,397 get ready to that I will leave this relationship. 475 00:52:05,048 --> 00:52:07,757 get ready to that I will leave this relationship. 476 00:52:07,968 --> 00:52:11,008 get ready to that I will leave this relationship. 477 00:52:11,208 --> 00:52:14,568 get ready to that I will leave this relationship. 478 00:52:39,086 --> 00:52:44,286 This is Sigmund. I can't talk now. Please leave a message. 479 00:52:44,286 --> 00:52:47,486 I hate that you don't pick it up. I'm going home for the kids. 480 00:52:47,486 --> 00:52:49,966 Go wherever you want. I can do without you. 481 00:52:49,966 --> 00:52:53,846 But before the children, about you I won't say a word. 482 00:52:53,846 --> 00:52:57,806 I hope you will be happy. I won't be in this hole anymore. 483 00:52:57,806 --> 00:52:59,886 I'm going home and we'll end it. 484 00:52:59,886 --> 00:53:03,886 Please at least confirm that you received this message. 485 00:53:14,845 --> 00:53:17,317 Cool. You can keep the children. 486 00:53:27,644 --> 00:53:30,844 What? Did he really write this? 487 00:53:32,604 --> 00:53:35,957 So... Cool. 488 00:53:38,677 --> 00:53:42,164 I'm so sorry that it is like this. 489 00:53:42,164 --> 00:53:47,524 I'll just have to walk through horrible hell. 490 00:53:48,604 --> 00:53:51,844 I can handle it. I have a lot of work anyway. 491 00:53:51,844 --> 00:53:57,084 I have to clean the bathroom and send a few emails. 492 00:53:57,164 --> 00:54:01,644 Should I stand still? 493 00:54:01,684 --> 00:54:05,644 I'll take a toothbrush. I can sleep here tonight. 494 00:54:05,684 --> 00:54:11,204 You're very nice, but I can handle it. There is no need. 495 00:54:11,284 --> 00:54:14,284 -Are you sure? - I can handle it. 496 00:54:14,284 --> 00:54:19,084 But if you changed your mind, so you call me do you promise 497 00:54:19,084 --> 00:54:23,684 - Do you promise? I'll call. - Come on. 498 00:54:38,603 --> 00:54:41,723 -Good morning. -Good morning. 499 00:54:41,883 --> 00:54:44,363 We must wait for Sigmund. 500 00:54:44,363 --> 00:54:48,563 He just texted me that he won't come. 501 00:54:48,563 --> 00:54:52,323 -Did he write that? And why doesn't he come? - He didn't write that. 502 00:54:55,003 --> 00:54:56,597 Shit. 503 00:54:59,443 --> 00:55:04,677 But when we have time you could still go on. 504 00:55:06,403 --> 00:55:07,557 Alone? 505 00:55:08,523 --> 00:55:12,243 Maybe you'll get something out of it. Who knows? 506 00:55:14,083 --> 00:55:18,477 Apparently it turned out a little differently, than you expected. 507 00:55:19,643 --> 00:55:25,763 I don't know why I'm sitting here when he needs it. 508 00:55:26,963 --> 00:55:31,157 He just snaps out of it and won't do anything? 509 00:55:31,197 --> 00:55:37,677 You'll do your share, whether he comes here or not. 510 00:55:39,082 --> 00:55:42,642 But it's not important to you what is he doing now 511 00:55:42,642 --> 00:55:45,602 You have to take care of yourself now and for his own life. 512 00:55:45,602 --> 00:55:49,882 You have to focus on to settle your affairs. 513 00:55:49,882 --> 00:55:52,877 What you have inside you. 514 00:55:54,922 --> 00:55:57,717 what do you mean what do i have in me 515 00:55:57,757 --> 00:56:01,557 That's the big question. 516 00:56:02,242 --> 00:56:06,482 We should focus on what role do you play in it? 517 00:56:06,482 --> 00:56:12,842 I? He wants to leave. Do you think I provoked it? 518 00:56:12,842 --> 00:56:19,517 - Do you think so? -No. I don't know what you mean. 519 00:56:19,557 --> 00:56:24,522 So for this situation do you have no responsibility? 520 00:56:24,522 --> 00:56:28,362 Probably yes. I probably have a small part in it. 521 00:56:28,362 --> 00:56:32,562 But it doesn't matter much now, when he wants a divorce. 522 00:56:32,562 --> 00:56:34,357 All right. 523 00:56:35,082 --> 00:56:40,157 So let's start with yours a small share. 524 00:56:44,841 --> 00:56:47,881 - So yeah. -Last time you told me 525 00:56:47,881 --> 00:56:52,281 that he came back from work and immediately wanted to take another. 526 00:56:52,281 --> 00:56:57,281 And that he called the school without discussing it with you beforehand. 527 00:56:57,281 --> 00:57:00,521 And then suddenly he wanted a divorce. 528 00:57:00,521 --> 00:57:02,121 Yes. 529 00:57:02,841 --> 00:57:07,721 - Won't you tell me one more time? - After all, I already told you. 530 00:57:07,721 --> 00:57:12,641 Yes. But try saying it one more time. 531 00:57:13,281 --> 00:57:18,601 tell me how he got home after being gone for six weeks. 532 00:57:21,080 --> 00:57:25,360 I was very tired. I filled the dishwasher. 533 00:57:25,360 --> 00:57:28,160 And he just walked in the door. 534 00:57:28,920 --> 00:57:32,920 And what happens when you see him? How do you feel? 535 00:57:32,920 --> 00:57:37,560 I'm glad to see him. i love him I feel that. 536 00:57:39,000 --> 00:57:41,560 And then? 537 00:57:42,400 --> 00:57:47,040 He is happy. He comes to me, wants to hug me. 538 00:57:47,040 --> 00:57:52,640 I leave the dishes and go to him. Give me a hug. 539 00:57:52,800 --> 00:57:57,640 -Are you hugging him too? -Not very long. 540 00:57:58,480 --> 00:58:01,440 Don't you want to hug him? 541 00:58:02,320 --> 00:58:05,320 Not really. 542 00:58:06,200 --> 00:58:09,880 Why don't you want to hug him when you like to see him so much? 543 00:58:12,520 --> 00:58:17,360 - I don't know. -And what happens then? 544 00:58:17,400 --> 00:58:20,680 He starts helping me with the dishes. 545 00:58:23,160 --> 00:58:26,160 Are you missing something? 546 00:58:26,680 --> 00:58:31,680 When you stop hugging him what will he do 547 00:58:33,600 --> 00:58:39,920 I don't know. Maybe there is a little surprised or sad. 548 00:58:40,760 --> 00:58:42,440 And you? 549 00:58:43,920 --> 00:58:46,760 I turn away. 550 00:58:46,760 --> 00:58:49,640 In what way? 551 00:58:50,920 --> 00:58:57,200 -I don't know. -Why are you turning away like that? 552 00:59:00,239 --> 00:59:03,719 I want him to feel bad. 553 00:59:03,719 --> 00:59:06,279 why do you want to make him feel bad? 554 00:59:06,279 --> 00:59:10,639 -I don't know. -Because he did something? 555 00:59:10,639 --> 00:59:15,559 -Yes, he left us. - But did you agree on that? 556 00:59:15,559 --> 00:59:19,399 -Yes. -And you agreed. 557 00:59:19,399 --> 00:59:24,677 -Yes. -So why do you want him to feel bad? 558 00:59:28,398 --> 00:59:30,518 I don't know. 559 00:59:35,718 --> 00:59:37,877 And what happens then? 560 00:59:40,518 --> 00:59:45,118 -He starts talking about work. -Does he like to share it with you? 561 00:59:45,118 --> 00:59:49,118 -Yes. He's happy about it. He narrates. -And you? 562 00:59:49,118 --> 00:59:52,478 I don't like it. I want him to stop. 563 00:59:52,478 --> 00:59:54,198 -Why? -I don't know. 564 00:59:54,198 --> 00:59:58,198 It just makes me uncomfortable. I'll cut him off. 565 00:59:58,198 --> 00:59:59,397 And what do you say? 566 00:59:59,437 --> 01:00:03,918 Mikael was in trouble at school. Again. 567 01:00:03,918 --> 01:00:10,917 You want him to feel that he is responsible for Mikael's problems? 568 01:00:11,757 --> 01:00:15,757 I know it's not their fault. 569 01:00:15,797 --> 01:00:20,197 But you still want to make him feel that he does. 570 01:00:20,357 --> 01:00:22,917 -Yes. -Why? 571 01:00:23,117 --> 01:00:28,677 Because it happened while he was gone. Because he wasn't here with me. 572 01:00:28,677 --> 01:00:32,677 You think in that situation could he have done anything differently? 573 01:00:35,157 --> 01:00:36,997 No. 574 01:00:38,517 --> 01:00:42,917 But you still want to feel guilty. 575 01:00:43,597 --> 01:00:45,037 Yes. 576 01:00:45,917 --> 01:00:47,677 Why? 577 01:00:49,957 --> 01:00:53,597 why do you want to make him feel bad? 578 01:01:01,036 --> 01:01:07,316 You will think of other situations, where did you want him to feel like this? 579 01:01:16,995 --> 01:01:21,915 Try to remember the times when did you act like that 580 01:01:26,834 --> 01:01:28,554 are you well 581 01:02:01,392 --> 01:02:08,072 With joy I know we'll get lucky 582 01:02:08,432 --> 01:02:15,952 As long as I'm here I live with joy 583 01:02:16,671 --> 01:02:20,191 I'm simply an optimist 584 01:02:23,831 --> 01:02:26,591 What is happening in this situation? 585 01:02:26,591 --> 01:02:29,991 I don't want to dance because it doesn't do me any good. 586 01:02:29,991 --> 01:02:32,431 I feel stupid. 587 01:02:32,591 --> 01:02:36,911 When he sees that I'm happy he will laugh at me 588 01:02:36,911 --> 01:02:39,237 I don't want to fool around like that. 589 01:02:42,591 --> 01:02:46,111 -Show me, I'll do it. -That's good. 590 01:02:46,111 --> 01:02:49,111 It's not worth it. You don't know what's whose anyway. 591 01:02:49,111 --> 01:02:52,551 - I know. I will do it. -When you put it together, 592 01:02:52,551 --> 01:02:55,231 I have panties at Mikael's and Ludvig gets Stella's pants. 593 01:02:55,231 --> 01:02:58,871 You don't even know wool from cotton. 594 01:02:58,871 --> 01:03:01,591 But I know. Sit down. I will do it. 595 01:03:01,591 --> 01:03:05,477 No! You're not here forever. You don't know what's whose. 596 01:03:05,517 --> 01:03:10,397 In the end, I have to do it myself. It just adds work to me. 597 01:03:12,591 --> 01:03:14,831 All right. Whose is this? 598 01:03:14,831 --> 01:03:18,271 - Yours? -Sure, mine. 599 01:03:20,391 --> 01:03:23,671 Well done, Sigmund. So look. 600 01:03:24,311 --> 01:03:28,231 Will it fit? It's Mikaela. 601 01:03:28,431 --> 01:03:30,431 What about this? 602 01:03:32,511 --> 01:03:35,231 These are Alma's pants. 603 01:03:35,231 --> 01:03:39,791 It's pajamas. Ludwig's pajamas. can you see 604 01:03:42,950 --> 01:03:48,437 I think you knew it's been a long time since he left you. 605 01:04:01,157 --> 01:04:07,149 I don't get it. You did so much for that relationship. 606 01:04:07,549 --> 01:04:11,669 You are the vulnerable one. He is the one who wants to leave. 607 01:04:11,669 --> 01:04:16,229 Maybe I expected it because I know it from childhood. 608 01:04:16,229 --> 01:04:19,109 Dad left mom. Oh ever since I've been so afraid of it 609 01:04:19,109 --> 01:04:22,709 that him subconsciously I'm getting out of that relationship. 610 01:04:22,709 --> 01:04:24,829 Why would you do that? 611 01:04:24,909 --> 01:04:27,829 Maybe I'm trying to him somehow to keep 612 01:04:27,829 --> 01:04:32,077 You try to keep him by that you push him away? 613 01:04:33,429 --> 01:04:39,069 When she feels guilty, 614 01:04:39,109 --> 01:04:43,189 will think that I'm better than him 615 01:04:43,869 --> 01:04:49,309 And then he'll think that he is lucky to have me 616 01:04:49,309 --> 01:04:52,189 And that he must stay with me. 617 01:04:52,189 --> 01:04:59,389 So I try to make him feel worse than me. 618 01:04:59,709 --> 01:05:04,549 And he didn't figure it out how terrible i really am 619 01:05:05,149 --> 01:05:09,909 You're kidding me. 620 01:05:10,629 --> 01:05:14,109 don't you think that you are worse than him? 621 01:05:14,629 --> 01:05:18,829 You are great. 622 01:05:21,669 --> 01:05:24,589 I like you very much. 623 01:05:26,789 --> 01:05:30,029 Sorry. That sweater really bites. 624 01:05:30,029 --> 01:05:33,949 -He is very biting. That sweater. -Seriously? 625 01:05:38,188 --> 01:05:40,268 All right. 626 01:06:02,466 --> 01:06:05,786 You were always afraid that the other will leave you? 627 01:06:07,426 --> 01:06:10,348 what happens when he leaves you? 628 01:06:11,109 --> 01:06:13,631 I will die. 629 01:06:14,031 --> 01:06:20,236 - Will you die? -Yes. Or I'll disappear. 630 01:06:22,196 --> 01:06:24,878 Why? 631 01:06:25,238 --> 01:06:28,479 Because he takes everything with him what is good in my life 632 01:06:28,479 --> 01:06:31,481 Nothing will remain. 633 01:06:32,522 --> 01:06:37,637 So if it's just you left... Isn't that good enough? 634 01:06:39,487 --> 01:06:43,250 All that is good is it tied to him? 635 01:06:43,971 --> 01:06:46,253 In a way, yes. 636 01:06:46,253 --> 01:06:49,335 In a way, he is what is good for me 637 01:06:51,898 --> 01:06:54,837 I really don't understand why is he with me 638 01:06:58,863 --> 01:07:01,984 But sooner or later he'll figure it out. 639 01:07:04,187 --> 01:07:07,790 When he has time, to create space for himself. 640 01:07:08,390 --> 01:07:11,472 Or to be with other people. 641 01:07:11,472 --> 01:07:16,836 He will see that he is much better be there than with me. 642 01:07:22,824 --> 01:07:24,679 Hi. 643 01:07:25,664 --> 01:07:27,464 my little girl 644 01:07:29,384 --> 01:07:32,024 At least you could do your hair. 645 01:07:32,064 --> 01:07:35,605 Good morning. Here you are. 646 01:07:36,224 --> 01:07:39,424 -Father is late, I heard. -Yes. 647 01:07:39,864 --> 01:07:44,864 Today we want to talk about Alma. You did really well this semester. 648 01:07:44,864 --> 01:07:49,024 I was very impressed what did you do? 649 01:07:49,024 --> 01:07:52,464 And you create a good one in the classroom atmosphere. 650 01:07:52,464 --> 01:07:55,424 You are kind, cheerful and caring. 651 01:07:55,424 --> 01:07:58,304 And you hand in your assignments on time. 652 01:07:58,304 --> 01:08:02,357 Have you seen her workbook? It is superbly crafted. 653 01:08:02,397 --> 01:08:06,344 I haven't seen that one. Why didn't you show it to me? 654 01:08:06,904 --> 01:08:12,184 I don't have to check her assignments. He always has everything in order. 655 01:08:12,224 --> 01:08:14,424 That's true. 656 01:08:14,624 --> 01:08:17,304 Other parents complain at class meetings. 657 01:08:17,304 --> 01:08:21,824 How kids don't do homework. 658 01:08:21,824 --> 01:08:25,264 How does he have to keep chasing them. 659 01:08:25,264 --> 01:08:29,544 I never chased you. You do everything by yourself. 660 01:08:29,584 --> 01:08:33,504 You won't ask for help or advice. It's great. 661 01:08:33,504 --> 01:08:38,357 Exactly. Isn't that a little too much for you, Alma? 662 01:08:38,397 --> 01:08:40,357 I don't mind. 663 01:08:42,144 --> 01:08:44,944 That will be your father. 664 01:08:45,144 --> 01:08:48,184 That's him. A second. I'll come get him. 665 01:08:55,623 --> 01:08:58,143 - It's going great. -Why are you talking about it? 666 01:08:58,143 --> 01:09:01,903 -About what? -That you don't follow the site. Can't you just shut up? 667 01:09:01,903 --> 01:09:06,143 I meant that you are single. I'm not even allowed to praise you? 668 01:09:06,143 --> 01:09:09,063 -Just don't talk about it anymore. - After all, it's true. 669 01:09:09,063 --> 01:09:12,183 I've never been to those sites. I don't have to. You do what you have to. 670 01:09:12,183 --> 01:09:14,863 You have a good one. It sure would it was very exhausting. 671 01:09:14,863 --> 01:09:17,263 - Come on. -Why would you bother? 672 01:09:17,263 --> 01:09:20,583 -Why are you saying this? -You're horrible, mom. 673 01:09:20,583 --> 01:09:23,703 You don't understand anything. do you want to work hard and endure everything. 674 01:09:23,703 --> 01:09:27,063 But I'm not like you. You don't need anything from anyone. 675 01:09:27,063 --> 01:09:31,343 You like it this way but i'm not like you 676 01:09:35,462 --> 01:09:37,382 Hi. 677 01:09:38,302 --> 01:09:42,022 Just to summarize, what did we say here 678 01:09:42,022 --> 01:09:46,662 Alma is doing great in learning and in the collective. 679 01:09:46,662 --> 01:09:48,222 Great. 680 01:10:17,060 --> 01:10:21,020 Maria Kristin and Erlend live here. 681 01:10:21,900 --> 01:10:24,060 I'm coming! 682 01:10:30,739 --> 01:10:34,499 Hi. is that you 683 01:10:34,619 --> 01:10:37,819 I thought to myself that I will stop. 684 01:10:37,979 --> 01:10:42,899 Marinka. how are you doing baby girl 685 01:10:43,259 --> 01:10:46,299 - But yeah... - Just keep going. 686 01:10:46,619 --> 01:10:50,179 Fortunately, you are strong That's you. 687 01:10:50,179 --> 01:10:53,139 You are like me. You always were. 688 01:10:53,139 --> 01:10:56,539 Women in our family it can withstand almost anything. 689 01:10:56,539 --> 01:11:04,298 I actually think about it often what strong women there are in our family. 690 01:11:04,418 --> 01:11:09,098 Mom, me, you, Alma... 691 01:11:10,298 --> 01:11:16,778 I also often think about those years with my dad and the divorce. 692 01:11:17,498 --> 01:11:22,637 Of course it was difficult. But I got over it. She got 693 01:11:22,677 --> 01:11:26,778 And you have the same power within you. It will be fine again, Marie. 694 01:11:26,778 --> 01:11:29,898 It will be fine. It will be. 695 01:11:32,538 --> 01:11:38,298 - I brought you this. - What will it be? 696 01:11:38,698 --> 01:11:42,058 Just such a gift. Nothing special. 697 01:11:42,258 --> 01:11:44,818 There's a lot of paper on it. 698 01:11:44,938 --> 01:11:49,538 It's from that nice store here in the street I know you like him. 699 01:11:49,538 --> 01:11:52,218 -I see. -Of course you can return it. 700 01:11:52,218 --> 01:11:56,258 I wanted the taste she talked about then in London. do you remember 701 01:11:56,258 --> 01:12:00,018 -Seriously? I don't remember that. -Yeah. 702 01:12:00,018 --> 01:12:02,698 You liked it very much. You said it. 703 01:12:02,698 --> 01:12:06,437 So yeah, but you know what? I stopped drinking black tea completely. 704 01:12:06,477 --> 01:12:09,538 His teeth turn yellow. That's not fun at my age. 705 01:12:09,538 --> 01:12:12,258 You won't enjoy anything. 706 01:12:12,258 --> 01:12:16,018 My neighbor she was having her teeth whitened. 707 01:12:16,018 --> 01:12:18,397 Apparently that's the fashion now. Teeth whitening. 708 01:12:18,437 --> 01:12:22,418 I have a lot of work today so this wasn't completely planned. 709 01:12:22,418 --> 01:12:27,978 The neighbor's water leaked. I had to help her with that. 710 01:12:27,978 --> 01:12:34,298 Plus I have a lot of stress with concert hall tickets. 711 01:12:34,298 --> 01:12:38,898 And Are me this week he called at least a hundred times. 712 01:12:38,898 --> 01:12:42,498 Because of the big anniversary our association. 713 01:12:42,498 --> 01:12:46,258 -I see. -Here's a list of things to do. 714 01:12:46,258 --> 01:12:49,658 There is such a thing that it is almost impossible to live here. 715 01:12:49,658 --> 01:12:53,378 I wanted to put everything on the floor but nothing fits there anymore. 716 01:12:53,378 --> 01:12:57,658 And you are your stuff from the soil she didn't take it either. 717 01:12:57,658 --> 01:13:00,378 -Everything is still lying there. - I can take it away. 718 01:13:00,378 --> 01:13:02,858 I will believe that when i see it 719 01:13:04,698 --> 01:13:08,418 I can still have green tea. 720 01:13:08,618 --> 01:13:12,138 This one is excellent. 721 01:13:12,298 --> 01:13:15,578 And look at that cute little box. 722 01:13:15,698 --> 01:13:20,858 She is cute. Don't you want to take your seat? 723 01:13:24,337 --> 01:13:27,057 We can switch. I would sit in your place. 724 01:13:27,057 --> 01:13:30,177 As you wish. 725 01:13:30,257 --> 01:13:34,617 But you don't want to sit down to your old place? 726 01:13:36,937 --> 01:13:40,297 You always sat there. Like a queen. 727 01:13:40,297 --> 01:13:44,777 You always wanted to sit here. So you don't have to help. 728 01:13:44,777 --> 01:13:50,097 And Erlend and I did everything. We jumped around you. 729 01:13:50,097 --> 01:13:54,777 And you sat like a princess and she was waiting for us to serve you. 730 01:13:54,777 --> 01:13:59,177 That's how it was. Would you like a piece of caramel cheese? 731 01:13:59,777 --> 01:14:04,537 -Little girl. can you I'll bring bread. -No. 732 01:14:05,537 --> 01:14:09,537 Why are you talking about that seat at the table? What are you trying to say? 733 01:14:09,537 --> 01:14:13,257 -About what? - About me just sitting here. 734 01:14:13,257 --> 01:14:16,097 And you do everything for me. 735 01:14:16,097 --> 01:14:18,457 That's just how it was. 736 01:14:18,457 --> 01:14:21,377 But why are you telling me now? What do you want to achieve? 737 01:14:21,377 --> 01:14:24,657 That was just fun. 738 01:14:24,657 --> 01:14:28,777 She was happy to be served. 739 01:14:28,977 --> 01:14:34,637 You were such a prima donna. 740 01:14:34,677 --> 01:14:37,537 This is nothing new. 741 01:14:37,537 --> 01:14:42,337 - Do you find it funny? -For God's sake, have a little sense of humor. 742 01:14:42,337 --> 01:14:46,577 Does everything have to be such a drama? 743 01:14:47,137 --> 01:14:51,337 When you stop laughing you will have nothing left. 744 01:14:51,417 --> 01:14:53,457 Little girl. 745 01:14:53,617 --> 01:14:59,697 I bought it in the delicatessen next door great cheese. can you 746 01:15:00,937 --> 01:15:05,297 Are you really trying to tell me that I wanted too much from you? 747 01:15:05,297 --> 01:15:12,777 Actually, I really do she looked a bit like a maid. 748 01:15:13,496 --> 01:15:17,296 -Sometimes. That's true. -In what sense? 749 01:15:17,296 --> 01:15:23,616 You were just like that. You had a hard time setting boundaries. 750 01:15:23,616 --> 01:15:27,616 You were actually quite demanding. Really. 751 01:15:30,576 --> 01:15:33,496 So let's look at it. 752 01:15:43,615 --> 01:15:46,015 Mom? 753 01:15:50,695 --> 01:15:54,055 - Mom. -Yes. What is it again? 754 01:15:54,975 --> 01:15:58,735 I think it's not good for you when you give me something 755 01:15:58,735 --> 01:16:03,255 what do you mean I do nothing but give. 756 01:16:03,255 --> 01:16:06,775 All these years I was alone with you. 757 01:16:07,055 --> 01:16:11,935 If you didn't notice what I gave you so it really surprises me. 758 01:16:11,935 --> 01:16:16,215 - I'm not saying you didn't give me anything. -No. So what do you say? 759 01:16:16,295 --> 01:16:19,575 I was all alone with you two. 760 01:16:19,575 --> 01:16:23,575 When dad ran away. Drunk and desperate. 761 01:16:23,735 --> 01:16:30,375 I'm in the kitchen every night she was crying with exhaustion. 762 01:16:30,375 --> 01:16:32,615 I know that. 763 01:16:32,615 --> 01:16:38,695 I was so unhappy then. It was a bad dream. 764 01:16:40,135 --> 01:16:43,175 I can't begin to think about it. 765 01:16:43,175 --> 01:16:47,055 I wouldn't do that today. That's for sure. 766 01:16:47,455 --> 01:16:50,895 I'm not saying that you didn't give anything 767 01:16:50,895 --> 01:16:52,615 -No? - I say... 768 01:16:52,615 --> 01:16:57,175 that I think it's not good for you when you give me something 769 01:16:57,175 --> 01:17:00,855 -What do you think, please? -That it doesn't do you any good to give something. 770 01:17:00,855 --> 01:17:05,535 It doesn't do you any good either to receive something 771 01:17:05,535 --> 01:17:08,375 -Like the tea I gave you. -Yes? 772 01:17:08,375 --> 01:17:11,095 I think you were not happy that you got it from me. 773 01:17:11,095 --> 01:17:14,455 What are you talking about? I was very happy. 774 01:17:14,455 --> 01:17:16,655 -Seriously? -Yes, she was. 775 01:17:16,655 --> 01:17:20,375 -And how did you show it? -I hate these interrogations. 776 01:17:20,375 --> 01:17:22,735 This is exactly what I hate about you. 777 01:17:22,735 --> 01:17:25,775 Now you're telling me you don't like me. That you hate me in a way. 778 01:17:25,815 --> 01:17:28,455 - Stop it. -Like you're forever mad at me. 779 01:17:28,455 --> 01:17:32,535 Like you want me gone. To make me not feel good. 780 01:17:32,535 --> 01:17:35,615 as if you want to make me feel miserable 781 01:17:35,615 --> 01:17:38,735 Maybe you felt this anger even towards dad. 782 01:17:38,735 --> 01:17:42,815 Before he died he said you laughed at him and that it made him uncomfortable. 783 01:17:42,815 --> 01:17:47,135 -Although it was still good. -He has something to say! 784 01:17:47,135 --> 01:17:50,655 Maybe you wouldn't if you knew what you were doing. 785 01:17:50,695 --> 01:17:54,175 watch your mouth Marie! 786 01:17:54,215 --> 01:17:56,495 Be so kind! 787 01:17:56,495 --> 01:17:59,255 I think you want to to make me feel miserable. 788 01:17:59,295 --> 01:18:02,775 I wish you would think too sometimes on the other. 789 01:18:02,775 --> 01:18:06,695 But you never cared. It's still just me, me, me! 790 01:18:06,695 --> 01:18:10,615 When you came today, I was thinking: "That's so sweet. 791 01:18:10,615 --> 01:18:17,855 He might ask me: How are you? Aren't you tired? Don't you need help?" 792 01:18:17,855 --> 01:18:20,335 But anyway, you don't do that. 793 01:18:20,335 --> 01:18:25,135 Your brother does. He is gentle and caring. 794 01:18:25,135 --> 01:18:28,535 When you were little he covered me when i was tired 795 01:18:28,535 --> 01:18:31,575 You never did anything like that. You're not like that. 796 01:18:31,575 --> 01:18:34,855 Can't you see that you are about me don't you want to remember anything good? 797 01:18:34,855 --> 01:18:39,695 You don't want what I'm giving you. I can never make you happy. 798 01:18:39,695 --> 01:18:43,135 Why could you never believe that I have something good in me? 799 01:18:43,135 --> 01:18:45,895 That I wish you the best. 800 01:18:45,895 --> 01:18:49,255 That I'm not bad that I have a good heart 801 01:18:49,255 --> 01:18:52,975 Like I'm not good enough for you whatever i do 802 01:18:52,975 --> 01:18:59,175 I understood that I live with a voice, who tells me I'm terrible. 803 01:18:59,255 --> 01:19:04,375 And to no avail. It's deep in my chest here. 804 01:19:04,375 --> 01:19:06,575 Good. 805 01:19:06,735 --> 01:19:11,375 And that's my fault too? 806 01:19:11,455 --> 01:19:14,575 I'm not saying it's your fault, Mom. But maybe... 807 01:19:14,575 --> 01:19:18,735 I guess I can't take it anymore, Marie. I'm completely exhausted. 808 01:19:18,735 --> 01:19:22,655 I was so glad when you came. But you only came to criticize me. 809 01:19:22,655 --> 01:19:24,655 I'm only human. 810 01:19:24,655 --> 01:19:28,695 I'm not a machine and I can't handle everything. 811 01:19:28,695 --> 01:19:33,455 I'll go for a walk. When you finish, you can leave. 812 01:19:33,455 --> 01:19:35,455 I can't take that much criticism. 813 01:19:35,455 --> 01:19:39,815 Maybe others around you do but i don't 814 01:20:22,317 --> 01:20:24,997 how are you doing 815 01:20:26,372 --> 01:20:29,372 Pretty good. 816 01:20:33,372 --> 01:20:37,092 I was thinking about what we discussed last time. 817 01:20:37,092 --> 01:20:40,572 That you feel like the bad guy. 818 01:20:40,572 --> 01:20:46,012 The one who can't give. That must be painful for you. 819 01:20:50,571 --> 01:20:56,291 It's not that... painful. It is... 820 01:20:56,891 --> 01:20:58,971 It's cool. 821 01:20:59,811 --> 01:21:02,091 I see? 822 01:21:02,771 --> 01:21:07,211 A lot of people are on it much worse than me. 823 01:21:07,211 --> 01:21:12,411 But that doesn't mean that it doesn't hurt you either. 824 01:21:28,450 --> 01:21:31,890 I probably can't today talk so much 825 01:21:33,130 --> 01:21:37,210 I didn't sleep at all. I am very... 826 01:21:37,970 --> 01:21:40,770 - Tired. -Good. 827 01:21:40,770 --> 01:21:45,770 -Do you want to quit? -I'm so tired I can't think. 828 01:21:45,770 --> 01:21:50,437 - I guess I need to rest. -You can rest here. 829 01:21:54,049 --> 01:21:58,009 I have the couch here. Don't you want to lie down? 830 01:21:58,009 --> 01:22:00,289 - I can't do that. -Why not? 831 01:22:00,289 --> 01:22:06,089 -That would be weird, wouldn't it? -It's up to you, of course. 832 01:22:06,249 --> 01:22:09,329 You are here at work. You definitely don't want to waste time. 833 01:22:09,329 --> 01:22:11,397 It would spoil it for you the whole working day. 834 01:22:12,209 --> 01:22:17,969 Yes, but I that time I want to dedicate to you now. 835 01:22:17,969 --> 01:22:21,889 If you need to rest, I would like to make it possible for you. 836 01:22:23,289 --> 01:22:26,169 Will you accept it from me? 837 01:22:26,169 --> 01:22:30,369 You are tired. And what you need is here. 838 01:22:32,969 --> 01:22:36,889 You can rest here with me. 839 01:22:37,209 --> 01:22:39,529 If you want. 840 01:22:47,368 --> 01:22:49,408 So yeah. 841 01:23:01,607 --> 01:23:04,407 That's care. 842 01:23:12,366 --> 01:23:15,006 That was very nice. 843 01:23:19,726 --> 01:23:22,646 I'll sit here with you. 844 01:23:22,646 --> 01:23:26,846 That's not necessary. You sure have a lot of work to do. 845 01:23:26,846 --> 01:23:31,486 Don't worry about me. I'll be better soon. 846 01:23:32,006 --> 01:23:34,646 I'm not going anywhere. 847 01:23:37,486 --> 01:23:43,926 I can sit here and watch you. Or I can look out the window. 848 01:23:43,926 --> 01:23:46,646 But I'll keep an eye on you. 849 01:23:49,526 --> 01:23:54,806 I'm glad that I have the opportunity to do so. 850 01:24:02,045 --> 01:24:05,565 Rooster... I'm just tired. 851 01:24:06,165 --> 01:24:08,525 No wonder. 852 01:24:16,684 --> 01:24:20,284 I'm sorry I'm just really tired. 853 01:24:21,237 --> 01:24:23,677 That's okay. 854 01:24:30,523 --> 01:24:34,363 is it normal that you feel this way, Marie. 855 01:24:37,283 --> 01:24:40,523 I apologize. 856 01:24:41,483 --> 01:24:45,683 I don't know what is wrong with me. I didn't sleep at all. 857 01:24:50,242 --> 01:24:53,362 I'm not normally like that. I don't know... 858 01:25:35,199 --> 01:25:40,319 You are such an idiot. Terrible fool... 859 01:25:40,479 --> 01:25:42,439 You are an idiot. 860 01:25:43,799 --> 01:25:47,479 i hate you 861 01:25:47,599 --> 01:25:52,119 You are horrible. i hate you 862 01:28:03,470 --> 01:28:06,110 Are you... 863 01:28:09,430 --> 01:28:12,150 Are you... 864 01:28:18,109 --> 01:28:21,469 You're... perfectly fine. 865 01:28:24,109 --> 01:28:26,669 Are you... 866 01:28:29,549 --> 01:28:32,309 You are a good person. 867 01:28:33,869 --> 01:28:37,229 I couldn't tell you before. 868 01:28:37,909 --> 01:28:40,029 Because... 869 01:28:41,309 --> 01:28:44,589 I felt miserable. 870 01:28:48,589 --> 01:28:51,189 my little girl 871 01:28:54,109 --> 01:28:56,949 You have a good heart. 872 01:29:02,148 --> 01:29:04,708 You deserve... 873 01:29:06,228 --> 01:29:10,668 You deserve love. 874 01:29:14,627 --> 01:29:17,387 You can have her. 875 01:29:18,347 --> 01:29:22,907 You are amazing. You are... amazing. 876 01:29:25,667 --> 01:29:30,747 it's ok that you need love 877 01:29:33,506 --> 01:29:36,186 You are amazing. 878 01:29:42,145 --> 01:29:44,865 i love you 879 01:29:50,464 --> 01:29:53,064 i love you 880 01:32:04,895 --> 01:32:06,935 Hi! 881 01:32:07,575 --> 01:32:09,375 Hi! 882 01:32:09,535 --> 01:32:12,695 Baby girl! come to me 883 01:32:35,253 --> 01:32:36,373 Hi. 884 01:32:36,373 --> 01:32:37,693 Hi. 885 01:32:50,492 --> 01:32:52,012 Hi. 886 01:32:54,132 --> 01:32:56,972 You are completely stupid. 887 01:33:03,131 --> 01:33:05,931 Do you know I think you're stupid? 888 01:33:06,011 --> 01:33:08,691 Yeah, I know. 889 01:33:12,211 --> 01:33:16,091 You're forever tired and you claim that you have an important job in Oslo. 890 01:33:16,091 --> 01:33:20,251 But you have no job. You are a complete zero. 891 01:33:20,251 --> 01:33:23,011 You shouldn't have had children at all. 892 01:33:23,011 --> 01:33:25,531 I want to move in with my dad. It's much better there. 893 01:33:25,531 --> 01:33:29,171 He is nice. Not as scary as you. 894 01:33:29,171 --> 01:33:32,331 it's ok that you want it 895 01:33:32,531 --> 01:33:36,051 i understand that you want it 896 01:33:44,450 --> 01:33:47,210 - Mom. -Almo. 897 01:33:49,810 --> 01:33:52,490 my little girl 898 01:33:56,490 --> 01:33:59,930 is it normal that you feel this way 899 01:34:24,208 --> 01:34:28,608 They are closed here so we have to find something else. 900 01:34:37,327 --> 01:34:38,727 There? 901 01:34:48,726 --> 01:34:50,086 Good morning. 902 01:34:57,165 --> 01:35:00,685 I'll just have a soda and a coffee. Cappuccino. 903 01:35:00,685 --> 01:35:02,565 me too 904 01:35:08,324 --> 01:35:13,364 I don't really have much to say. You wanted to meet. 905 01:35:17,163 --> 01:35:21,603 But say what you need. I will listen. 906 01:35:42,921 --> 01:35:46,001 I might cry. 907 01:35:48,441 --> 01:35:52,561 But not because that I would be sad now 908 01:35:52,561 --> 01:35:57,441 And I don't want you to feel guilty when I speak 909 01:36:00,160 --> 01:36:03,760 i want you to know that if you want to leave 910 01:36:03,760 --> 01:36:05,440 so you can 911 01:36:06,280 --> 01:36:09,440 You don't have to feel bad. 912 01:36:09,640 --> 01:36:14,160 if this is it what do you need 913 01:36:14,760 --> 01:36:17,760 you should do it. 914 01:36:19,640 --> 01:36:25,560 you don't have to worry that I can't do it. 915 01:36:25,720 --> 01:36:28,200 Because I can do it. 916 01:36:31,480 --> 01:36:33,520 I can handle it. 917 01:36:34,720 --> 01:36:40,280 Lately I've realized what a fear I had 918 01:36:41,520 --> 01:36:45,720 I was terribly afraid that you will leave me 919 01:36:47,360 --> 01:36:51,080 And it was so hard for me to say. 920 01:36:51,320 --> 01:36:52,960 Thee. 921 01:36:55,600 --> 01:36:59,880 I was terribly afraid that I will be left alone. 922 01:37:00,840 --> 01:37:04,960 Which I hated so much. 923 01:37:13,599 --> 01:37:16,959 I just want to apologize to you. 924 01:37:17,279 --> 01:37:21,799 That I didn't believe that you care about me 925 01:37:22,039 --> 01:37:26,039 And she made you feel guilty. 926 01:37:26,039 --> 01:37:29,159 That I criticized you. 927 01:37:31,159 --> 01:37:33,279 And she hung on you. 928 01:37:33,439 --> 01:37:37,399 It is vital to me... 929 01:37:38,239 --> 01:37:41,879 sort this out. 930 01:37:42,759 --> 01:37:48,839 In a way it is what happened, actually also a gift. 931 01:37:52,798 --> 01:37:56,278 I really wish to be together 932 01:37:56,278 --> 01:37:59,318 But now I understand... 933 01:38:00,838 --> 01:38:03,918 That I don't want it... 934 01:38:04,678 --> 01:38:08,678 I don't want it if you don't want it. 935 01:38:09,478 --> 01:38:12,478 When we're not together... 936 01:38:15,118 --> 01:38:18,838 It's okay too. 937 01:38:19,318 --> 01:38:23,198 I can still live a good life. 938 01:38:24,558 --> 01:38:27,118 Without you. 939 01:38:29,958 --> 01:38:31,438 Thanks. 940 01:38:32,478 --> 01:38:34,158 You're welcome. 941 01:38:46,397 --> 01:38:50,517 So I'll have to deal with that their own problems. 942 01:38:51,037 --> 01:38:55,437 But I understand that we are in this together. 943 01:38:56,077 --> 01:39:00,957 And that I have to deal with with his share. 944 01:39:00,957 --> 01:39:06,157 I also know I didn't tell you what i really need 945 01:39:06,437 --> 01:39:11,477 I think it was dangerous to feel what I need 946 01:39:20,396 --> 01:39:23,676 - I have to go now. - So yeah. 947 01:39:29,475 --> 01:39:31,635 So yeah. 948 01:39:38,954 --> 01:39:41,114 - Well, hello. -Hi. 949 01:40:15,832 --> 01:40:17,072 Hi. 950 01:40:20,512 --> 01:40:21,712 Hi. 951 01:40:25,232 --> 01:40:27,712 how are you doing 952 01:40:37,111 --> 01:40:42,151 It is dangerous for me. Accepting the love you give me 953 01:40:44,351 --> 01:40:46,791 I'm afraid of it. 954 01:40:47,711 --> 01:40:49,671 What are you afraid of? 955 01:40:51,591 --> 01:40:55,911 If I let you to hug me... 956 01:40:55,911 --> 01:41:00,831 -I think you will leave me. - Is this what you think? 957 01:41:02,351 --> 01:41:05,271 you think that i will leave you 958 01:41:10,390 --> 01:41:11,870 Come on. 959 01:41:16,271 --> 01:41:17,631 Come on.