1 00:00:02,000 --> 00:00:07,000 Downloaded from YTS.MX 2 00:00:08,000 --> 00:00:13,000 Official YIFY movies site: YTS.MX 3 00:01:59,167 --> 00:02:00,333 Oh no. 4 00:02:47,000 --> 00:02:48,958 Is she ready? -She sure is. 5 00:03:04,958 --> 00:03:07,583 There, now you can breathe. 6 00:03:11,667 --> 00:03:13,083 Good morning, Tjalling. 7 00:03:18,708 --> 00:03:21,708 TWENTE UNIVERSITY 8 00:04:03,667 --> 00:04:06,833 It all happened so fast. I still haven't tidied up yet. 9 00:04:13,542 --> 00:04:15,917 The crazy old man walked all the way to Bad Bentheim. 10 00:04:16,042 --> 00:04:19,208 That's what you get with dementia. They run away. 11 00:04:19,333 --> 00:04:20,625 He didn't have dementia. 12 00:04:23,083 --> 00:04:25,708 He was still as bright as a button. 13 00:04:26,750 --> 00:04:28,333 We're ready. 14 00:05:00,125 --> 00:05:01,458 Where's Arend's gun? 15 00:05:01,583 --> 00:05:03,708 Oh, I threw that out last year. 16 00:05:03,833 --> 00:05:06,125 Threw it out? Was he okay with that? 17 00:05:06,250 --> 00:05:09,375 What do you think, no, of course not. -Something could have happened to him. 18 00:05:09,500 --> 00:05:12,083 An old man with a gun is a death trap. 19 00:05:12,208 --> 00:05:16,625 His gun meant everything to him. -It was Grandpa's, did you know that? 20 00:05:17,292 --> 00:05:19,208 And to think, it was an heirloom too. 21 00:05:19,333 --> 00:05:23,667 Old men with old junk only mean trouble. 22 00:05:26,375 --> 00:05:27,667 Let it be. 23 00:05:28,958 --> 00:05:33,000 Well, he didn't turn 89 for nothing. 24 00:05:34,125 --> 00:05:36,292 They've prepared the body. 25 00:05:38,542 --> 00:05:42,250 Mother, they've prepared the body. 26 00:05:43,833 --> 00:05:47,208 And Friday's the cremation? -Friday, yes. But we're burying him. 27 00:05:47,333 --> 00:05:48,708 But he wanted to be cremated. 28 00:05:48,833 --> 00:05:52,292 The graveyard is close by, I'll be able to visit every day. 29 00:05:52,417 --> 00:05:55,458 He will like that as well, don't you think? 30 00:05:57,833 --> 00:06:00,500 You can have whatever you like at the funeral. 31 00:06:00,625 --> 00:06:05,042 Speakers, musicians, clowns, not a problem... 32 00:06:05,167 --> 00:06:08,167 And if it's a cremation, the ashes could be put into fireworks. 33 00:06:09,958 --> 00:06:13,667 There he goes. How symbolic, so beautiful. 34 00:06:13,792 --> 00:06:17,958 And we even have an André Hazes lookalike. 35 00:06:18,417 --> 00:06:20,583 To sing: 'This is the Last Time.' 36 00:06:25,917 --> 00:06:29,958 If you'd like that, I mean. -He wanted a simple cremation. 37 00:06:30,083 --> 00:06:35,458 My mother and I have decided we'd rather bury him. 38 00:06:35,583 --> 00:06:38,167 Your father wanted to be cremated. 39 00:06:38,292 --> 00:06:40,958 The graveyard is in Langeveen and my mother lives nearby. 40 00:06:41,083 --> 00:06:43,917 Gedda, you were there when he said it. -But it isn't practical, Jan. 41 00:06:44,042 --> 00:06:47,417 It's not practical? He's dead, how practical do you want it to be? 42 00:06:47,542 --> 00:06:50,583 By burying him, he's close to Mom and she can visit every day. 43 00:06:50,708 --> 00:06:53,667 Yes, and that's exactly what he didn't want. 44 00:06:53,792 --> 00:06:58,458 Sorry. He wanted to be cremated and have his ashes scattered at the Lorelei. 45 00:06:58,583 --> 00:07:02,583 Oh, scattering his ashes at the Lorelei. You can't take that seriously. 46 00:07:02,708 --> 00:07:05,333 Please, let's not talk about this any longer. 47 00:07:05,458 --> 00:07:07,750 We've already reserved the church for next Friday. 48 00:07:07,875 --> 00:07:10,708 But only the church hall. There won't be a service. 49 00:07:10,833 --> 00:07:13,375 When I'm dead you can do what you want with me. 50 00:07:13,500 --> 00:07:15,375 Heck, throw me in a wheelie bin and put me on the street. 51 00:07:15,500 --> 00:07:19,875 But now I'd like to arrange a simple cremation for my father-in-law. 52 00:07:20,000 --> 00:07:22,250 My husband and I haven't gone over everything yet. 53 00:07:22,375 --> 00:07:24,500 We'll come hack later. 54 00:07:25,250 --> 00:07:28,875 What was that all about? -Your dad knew exactly what he wanted. 55 00:07:29,000 --> 00:07:31,208 He wanted a church service, and a Mass by Mozart. 56 00:07:31,333 --> 00:07:34,000 No, by Perosi. -See, you remember it exactly. 57 00:07:34,125 --> 00:07:35,042 He never went to church. 58 00:07:35,167 --> 00:07:37,250 But it meant something to him, or he wouldn't have said that. 59 00:07:37,375 --> 00:07:40,917 He never went. He even had a fight with that Pastor Visser... 60 00:07:41,042 --> 00:07:42,375 ...and now suddenly in church? 61 00:07:42,458 --> 00:07:46,833 His last wish, you can't argue about that. He's not here anymore. 62 00:07:46,958 --> 00:07:49,083 Then he doesn't care about it either. 63 00:07:49,208 --> 00:07:51,458 I care. -He's my father. 64 00:07:51,583 --> 00:07:54,458 Yes, and because of your mother he lived a meaningless life. 65 00:07:54,583 --> 00:07:58,083 And now he wanted one damn thing. -He wanted a thousand things. 66 00:07:58,208 --> 00:08:01,875 I can't remember any of his requests being granted. 67 00:08:02,000 --> 00:08:04,125 What is this about? 68 00:08:05,167 --> 00:08:06,750 Jan, do you have any requests? 69 00:08:08,458 --> 00:08:12,333 Please let me bury my father. And I hope you can contain yourself. 70 00:08:12,458 --> 00:08:16,292 If you bury him, I'll dig him up myself. 71 00:08:25,333 --> 00:08:30,000 You and Arend have been supporters of Sursum Corda for forty years. 72 00:08:30,125 --> 00:08:32,542 Of course we want to sing a song for him at his funeral. 73 00:08:32,667 --> 00:08:36,917 Thank you, Meijerink. And this is what it should be. 74 00:08:37,042 --> 00:08:40,583 'The Lorelei'. -Yes, he loved that one. 75 00:08:44,417 --> 00:08:46,333 There is a problem. 76 00:08:46,458 --> 00:08:50,250 Right here it says 'pianissimo', which means 'very softly'. 77 00:08:50,375 --> 00:08:51,792 But it doesn't work like that with us. 78 00:08:51,917 --> 00:08:54,167 It's either on or off. 79 00:08:54,292 --> 00:08:56,333 When it's on, it's loud... 80 00:08:56,417 --> 00:08:59,375 ...and when it's off, you don't hear anything. 81 00:09:00,375 --> 00:09:02,417 Turn it on then. 82 00:09:02,542 --> 00:09:04,500 It will be loud. 83 00:09:04,625 --> 00:09:06,333 Doesn't matter. 84 00:09:12,208 --> 00:09:14,000 Guys, you're late. 85 00:09:18,417 --> 00:09:22,167 What are you wearing? -This is what he wanted. 86 00:09:22,292 --> 00:09:23,917 That doesn't mean he should do it. 87 00:09:24,042 --> 00:09:27,125 He's an adult, right? 88 00:09:32,375 --> 00:09:35,708 Congratulations on your new apartment. 89 00:09:35,833 --> 00:09:38,083 Is your little Driekus getting used to Erik? 90 00:09:38,250 --> 00:09:43,083 Yes, it's going well. -They're already very close. 91 00:09:43,208 --> 00:09:46,542 You can't wear that jacket for the photos. Come on, take it off. 92 00:09:46,667 --> 00:09:48,125 Get changed. 93 00:09:48,250 --> 00:09:50,625 Mom, do you still have one of Dad's suit jackets? 94 00:09:50,750 --> 00:09:53,542 Yes, I'll have one somewhere. 95 00:10:09,292 --> 00:10:10,917 Jan? 96 00:10:32,083 --> 00:10:34,250 You can wear it one more time. 97 00:10:39,083 --> 00:10:40,417 Here it comes. 98 00:10:43,583 --> 00:10:49,583 He died in Bad Bentheim. He walked there with his donkey. 99 00:10:49,708 --> 00:10:53,417 Although we don't know how he got that idea exactly. 100 00:10:53,542 --> 00:10:57,875 What's important, Grandpa Arend... 101 00:10:58,000 --> 00:11:00,958 ...you were married to Grandma Sinie for 63 years. 102 00:11:02,542 --> 00:11:03,958 But now you've got peace. 103 00:11:05,542 --> 00:11:09,292 And before we bury you in your final resting place... 104 00:11:09,417 --> 00:11:12,583 ...Sursum Corda will sing the song of the Lorelei... 105 00:11:12,708 --> 00:11:15,833 ...which Grandpa was crazy about. 106 00:11:17,000 --> 00:11:20,958 Grandpa Arend, you were a great man. 107 00:11:23,250 --> 00:11:25,500 Thank you. 108 00:12:26,750 --> 00:12:28,125 What was that all about? -What do you mean? 109 00:12:28,250 --> 00:12:32,583 With our Peter, 'now he's got peace'. My father is dead, and you're laughing? 110 00:12:32,708 --> 00:12:36,917 No, I'm laughing for him. Arend would have loved that. 111 00:12:38,042 --> 00:12:40,625 What's up with Jan? -He's annoyed... 112 00:12:40,750 --> 00:12:42,208 ...because we didn't cremate Grandpa. 113 00:12:42,333 --> 00:12:44,792 Did Grandpa want to be cremated? -Yes. 114 00:12:44,917 --> 00:12:46,167 Why didn't you do that then? 115 00:12:46,292 --> 00:12:49,708 My mother wanted him close to home. -Grandpa didn't know what he wanted. 116 00:12:49,833 --> 00:12:52,125 If you ask a man: What would you like? 117 00:12:52,250 --> 00:12:53,875 He says this and this and this. 118 00:12:54,000 --> 00:12:57,375 And as a woman you say: but did you think about that and that and that? 119 00:12:57,500 --> 00:13:00,542 And he says: Oh no, you're right. 120 00:13:01,333 --> 00:13:04,458 Men don't have a feel for practical things. 121 00:13:04,583 --> 00:13:07,875 They have no idea what they're doing in this world. 122 00:13:10,167 --> 00:13:13,250 And we're here to explain it to them. 123 00:13:21,708 --> 00:13:25,167 This is fraud, do you realize that? 124 00:13:25,333 --> 00:13:27,000 Fraud, why? 125 00:13:27,125 --> 00:13:30,625 The papers are in order, the crematorium accepts it as a cremation... 126 00:13:30,750 --> 00:13:35,042 ...without a ceremony. Nobody will find out. 127 00:13:35,167 --> 00:13:37,917 Someday I'll have to bury the old lady. 128 00:13:38,042 --> 00:13:39,750 And she'll be in an empty grave. 129 00:13:39,875 --> 00:13:43,708 Then nobody will be in her way. 130 00:13:45,000 --> 00:13:46,833 I've never done this in my life. 131 00:13:46,958 --> 00:13:51,042 No, and you've never had this much money in one day. 132 00:14:37,042 --> 00:14:40,250 Father had a nice funeral, Mother. 133 00:14:40,375 --> 00:14:43,292 We got married in that church 63 years ago. 134 00:14:46,042 --> 00:14:48,583 And never argued. 135 00:14:55,458 --> 00:14:56,458 Fair enough... 136 00:14:56,583 --> 00:14:58,750 There's no point in putting that small pan on a big burner. 137 00:14:58,875 --> 00:15:01,125 The flames will go around it. 138 00:15:01,250 --> 00:15:02,292 Great. 139 00:15:02,417 --> 00:15:07,333 He walked all the way to Bad Bentheim. What got into him? 140 00:15:07,458 --> 00:15:09,708 I should have kept a better eye on him. 141 00:15:09,833 --> 00:15:11,125 It's very unusual. 142 00:15:11,250 --> 00:15:13,000 It was irresponsible. 143 00:15:13,125 --> 00:15:16,667 It's also a bit romantic. -You can't say that. 144 00:15:16,792 --> 00:15:18,542 What? 145 00:15:18,667 --> 00:15:20,292 On a day like today. 146 00:15:30,500 --> 00:15:32,208 Wait a minute. 147 00:15:32,333 --> 00:15:35,708 Now you two can figure out if the pan should be on the one burner... 148 00:15:35,833 --> 00:15:40,375 ...or on the other, okay? Good luck. 149 00:15:58,958 --> 00:16:04,000 It went nicely. I don't regret it. What was that, with the eggs? 150 00:16:04,125 --> 00:16:07,750 I'm happy we did it like this. Much better actually. 151 00:16:07,875 --> 00:16:12,250 And my mother coped well, right, Jan? 152 00:16:13,250 --> 00:16:16,125 What did you say? -That Mom coped well. 153 00:16:16,250 --> 00:16:17,958 Definitely. 154 00:16:18,083 --> 00:16:22,000 The choir sang beautifully as well, Jan. -What? 155 00:16:22,125 --> 00:16:25,667 The choir sang beautifully. -Yes, it was loud and clear. 156 00:16:25,792 --> 00:16:29,125 Actually, the whole family was... 157 00:16:29,250 --> 00:16:32,208 Jan, I'm talking to you. 158 00:16:34,625 --> 00:16:37,750 I've got some apple pie left. -I only wanted a cookie. 159 00:16:37,875 --> 00:16:39,458 The apple pie needs to be eaten. 160 00:16:43,833 --> 00:16:47,833 Here. Check these bills. You can pay them straight away. 161 00:16:47,958 --> 00:16:52,417 Bit of an odd day for that, isn't it? -Now you've got time for it. 162 00:16:55,708 --> 00:16:58,792 Are you comfortable here? -I'm fine. 163 00:16:58,917 --> 00:17:03,500 Here, look, that's much better. 164 00:17:03,625 --> 00:17:05,750 Would you like a drink with that, tea or something? 165 00:17:05,875 --> 00:17:09,667 No thanks, I'm fine. -You have to drink enough. 166 00:17:15,542 --> 00:17:18,250 I'll bring you a cup of tea. 167 00:17:28,375 --> 00:17:32,208 A nice cup of tea. Have you got everything you need now? 168 00:17:32,708 --> 00:17:35,375 Gedda, you know that better than I do. 169 00:17:47,708 --> 00:17:49,917 Miffy's Bicycle. 170 00:17:50,042 --> 00:17:54,000 Look. Miffy is with two Fs and a Y. 171 00:17:54,750 --> 00:17:57,000 Do you see that? 172 00:17:58,958 --> 00:18:01,500 Oh, that must be your father. Five minutes early. 173 00:18:04,750 --> 00:18:07,125 Hello. -Hello. 174 00:18:10,333 --> 00:18:13,667 Hi Driekus, are you coming with Daddy? 175 00:18:13,792 --> 00:18:16,250 Mark, don't teach him dialect. He needs to speak Dutch properly. 176 00:18:16,375 --> 00:18:20,083 So, can't he learn French later because he needs to speak English properly? 177 00:18:20,208 --> 00:18:23,417 Come on, Driekus, we're going to get some ice cream. 178 00:18:25,500 --> 00:18:27,417 Hey, Mark. 179 00:18:27,542 --> 00:18:30,292 If you're going to the whores, don't take Driekus. 180 00:18:30,375 --> 00:18:32,833 Liesbeth, was that really necessary? 181 00:18:34,500 --> 00:18:37,125 Sorry. -Are you still so mad at me? 182 00:18:37,250 --> 00:18:39,792 Extremely mad. 183 00:18:39,917 --> 00:18:44,542 You have Erik now, he's very different. -Thank God for that, he's honest. 184 00:18:44,667 --> 00:18:48,083 Are you coming, it's ten to seven. Inside Out is on. 185 00:18:49,042 --> 00:18:50,042 Liesbeth. 186 00:18:50,167 --> 00:18:53,875 I'll watch it later online, all right? -Okay. 187 00:18:55,375 --> 00:18:57,000 Very different. 188 00:19:01,500 --> 00:19:04,750 Do I have to look at that all day? -What? Isn't it beautiful? 189 00:19:04,875 --> 00:19:07,917 Unusual. Very unusual. 190 00:19:08,042 --> 00:19:10,917 That's Twents dialect for ugly, I know that by now. 191 00:19:11,000 --> 00:19:14,375 Look, what if we... -What if we... 192 00:19:14,500 --> 00:19:18,667 Shall we both hang up the same amount? -No, it doesn't have to be that precise. 193 00:19:18,792 --> 00:19:20,917 I'll get some tools. 194 00:19:22,875 --> 00:19:25,500 Liesbeth, don't run. A spiral staircase can't handle that. 195 00:19:25,625 --> 00:19:28,167 What would you like? -'Pankokens.' 196 00:19:28,292 --> 00:19:30,917 What? -Pancakes. 197 00:19:31,042 --> 00:19:32,917 No, it's not the right weather for that. 198 00:19:33,042 --> 00:19:35,958 I know, but you asked what I would like. 199 00:19:36,083 --> 00:19:39,042 I fancy some Thai food. -No, I don't want Thai food. 200 00:19:40,083 --> 00:19:41,875 Well, you say what I would like, then. 201 00:19:42,000 --> 00:19:44,875 Pizza? -Then I would love some pizza. 202 00:19:45,000 --> 00:19:47,667 All right. I'll order some. 203 00:19:49,583 --> 00:19:52,500 Oh, and... -Yes? 204 00:19:54,083 --> 00:19:56,167 I wanted to say something. But I've forgotten. 205 00:19:56,292 --> 00:19:57,667 Oh, good. 206 00:20:00,125 --> 00:20:03,042 Liesbeth... -Yes, spiral staircase. 207 00:20:10,833 --> 00:20:13,833 An, I didn't want any chewing gum. 208 00:20:13,958 --> 00:20:15,125 Why would you open your mouth then? 209 00:20:15,250 --> 00:20:18,417 I'm going to your mother's, see if Arend's donkey is all right. 210 00:20:18,542 --> 00:20:22,125 Put some old trousers on, then. -These trousers will be fine. 211 00:20:22,250 --> 00:20:24,667 Just do it, or I'll have to wash everything again. 212 00:20:24,792 --> 00:20:28,208 If the trousers get dirty I'll wash them myself, and iron them. 213 00:20:28,333 --> 00:20:31,333 That's my job and ironing has to be done properly. 214 00:20:31,458 --> 00:20:34,042 I'm keeping these trousers on. 215 00:20:59,583 --> 00:21:02,750 The Lorelei. -Yes, we bought it in Rüdesheim. 216 00:21:02,875 --> 00:21:04,458 On your honeymoon? -Yes. 217 00:21:04,583 --> 00:21:06,167 The first and last time you were away from home. 218 00:21:06,292 --> 00:21:11,583 Yes, and then we went to the Lorelei. He thought it was so beautiful. 219 00:21:11,708 --> 00:21:14,917 He even wanted us to scatter his ashes there. 220 00:21:15,042 --> 00:21:17,125 Oh, that would've been beautiful. -What? 221 00:21:17,250 --> 00:21:19,625 To go to the Lorelei together and then scatter his ashes. 222 00:21:19,750 --> 00:21:23,125 You can't take that seriously. -That's what Gedda said. 223 00:21:23,250 --> 00:21:26,125 What a hassle. A man like that in the cold water. 224 00:21:26,250 --> 00:21:29,083 No, you can't do that to him. -But if that's what he wanted? 225 00:21:29,208 --> 00:21:33,292 Oh Jan, what does a man know about what he wants. 226 00:22:01,333 --> 00:22:04,125 From the Lorelei to Rüdesheim. 227 00:22:07,125 --> 00:22:10,833 The holy Hildegard von Bingen. 228 00:22:13,292 --> 00:22:16,000 And here lie her legs. 229 00:22:19,375 --> 00:22:22,625 What's the deal with the legs of Saint Hildegard? 230 00:22:22,750 --> 00:22:24,292 Ah, there's Gedda. 231 00:22:25,250 --> 00:22:28,875 I saw you leaving without your coat, and you're on the bike. 232 00:22:31,000 --> 00:22:33,167 I found Arend's scrapbook. 233 00:22:33,292 --> 00:22:35,917 Where did you find that? -In the stable, with the donkey. 234 00:22:36,042 --> 00:22:39,042 Oh. As far as I'm concerned, you can throw it away. 235 00:22:39,167 --> 00:22:42,292 Then I'll keep it. But what's the deal with the legs? 236 00:22:42,417 --> 00:22:44,792 It's just a chest full of bones. 237 00:22:44,917 --> 00:22:46,958 Bones? -Yes, bones. 238 00:22:47,417 --> 00:22:51,750 Relics. -of Hildegard von Bingen. 239 00:22:51,875 --> 00:22:55,458 And my father found it hilarious to call them 'the real legs'... 240 00:22:55,583 --> 00:22:57,875 ...instead of 'the relics' of Saint Hildegard. 241 00:22:58,000 --> 00:22:59,417 He had lots of those little jokes. 242 00:22:59,542 --> 00:23:03,042 He also said: When I'm 65, I'll walk to Rüdesheim. 243 00:23:03,167 --> 00:23:05,792 To 'the real legs of Saint Hildegard'. -Yes. 244 00:23:05,917 --> 00:23:11,167 See, I didn't know that. And did you always stop him? 245 00:23:11,875 --> 00:23:14,792 Thank God I always knew how to talk him out of it. 246 00:23:14,917 --> 00:23:18,083 It was just that last time I failed. 247 00:23:18,208 --> 00:23:20,000 Yes, otherwise he'd have reached 400. 248 00:23:20,125 --> 00:23:27,208 Oh, Jan, that's not nice. It's thanks to Mother that Father turned 89. 249 00:23:27,333 --> 00:23:30,500 I told him: you already saw that chest a long time ago, didn't you? 250 00:23:30,625 --> 00:23:34,333 But if you're so keen to see it one more time... 251 00:23:34,458 --> 00:23:38,333 ...we'll go together, on a coach tour. 252 00:23:38,458 --> 00:23:41,583 But he insisted on walking. 253 00:23:41,708 --> 00:23:44,667 Well then, let him walk. -Oh, there's no point. 254 00:23:44,792 --> 00:23:47,792 No point, maybe, but it makes sense. 255 00:23:48,750 --> 00:23:50,875 I don't see the difference. 256 00:23:51,000 --> 00:23:52,375 You can also want something yourself. 257 00:23:52,500 --> 00:23:56,000 I'm going to get the groceries. Dinner's ready at 19:00. 258 00:23:56,417 --> 00:24:01,625 Gedda takes good care of you, Jan. You should count yourself lucky. 259 00:24:08,000 --> 00:24:09,750 Hello. 260 00:24:09,875 --> 00:24:10,875 You're late. 261 00:24:11,000 --> 00:24:13,250 Late? -You said you'd be home at 19:30. 262 00:24:13,375 --> 00:24:15,167 It's almost 19:45. 263 00:24:15,875 --> 00:24:17,375 It's busy at the newspaper. 264 00:24:17,500 --> 00:24:20,625 Willem Alexander's coming to the Uni. -Does that have to take so long? 265 00:24:20,750 --> 00:24:22,458 'Dat he'j mangs.' -What does that mean? 266 00:24:22,625 --> 00:24:26,542 That happens sometimes. Lovely. -I've called you four times. 267 00:24:26,667 --> 00:24:29,667 My phone's off when I'm in a meeting. 268 00:24:29,792 --> 00:24:32,542 Changing the subject, would you mind looking after Driekus this Thursday? 269 00:24:32,667 --> 00:24:35,458 I have to go to Antwerp, to the paper supplier. 270 00:24:35,583 --> 00:24:39,375 Haven't you just been there? -That's the thing. 271 00:24:39,500 --> 00:24:42,833 They don't want to lower the price, So I've got to put some pressure on. 272 00:24:42,958 --> 00:24:46,792 How long will you be gone for? -Two days and two nights. 273 00:24:46,917 --> 00:24:48,958 Two days and two nights for one appointment? 274 00:24:49,083 --> 00:24:50,292 Yes. 275 00:24:52,750 --> 00:24:55,833 Liesbeth, you've got to be honest with me. 276 00:24:55,958 --> 00:24:57,667 What the hell are you thinking about? 277 00:25:01,542 --> 00:25:05,042 No, sorry... Forget it. I'm sorry. 278 00:25:11,167 --> 00:25:12,792 Fine. 279 00:25:14,417 --> 00:25:16,167 We're taking turns nicely. -Where are you going? 280 00:25:16,292 --> 00:25:18,250 I'm going to Café Central. -Oh, nice. 281 00:25:18,375 --> 00:25:20,042 I'll go with you. 282 00:25:20,167 --> 00:25:21,958 I'll go with you? 283 00:25:22,083 --> 00:25:25,875 You don't like the café. - I don't like the Café Central, no. 284 00:25:26,000 --> 00:25:28,583 But we're going to another café. 285 00:25:28,708 --> 00:25:30,917 I want to go to Café Central. 286 00:25:31,042 --> 00:25:32,583 Oh, Jan... 287 00:25:36,583 --> 00:25:38,208 Come on. 288 00:25:42,500 --> 00:25:44,750 It's nice, just the two of us, right? -Yes. 289 00:25:44,875 --> 00:25:46,000 I knew it. 290 00:25:46,125 --> 00:25:49,042 High Tea for two. Here you are. 291 00:25:49,167 --> 00:25:55,292 We've got to leave on time. At 17:00 we can see the urologist. 292 00:25:55,417 --> 00:25:58,083 A 'piss doctor'? -Please, Jan. 293 00:25:58,208 --> 00:26:00,208 You're constantly complaining that you're suffering. 294 00:26:00,333 --> 00:26:02,250 It's not that bad. -It is... 295 00:26:02,375 --> 00:26:04,958 ...and I'm suffering from it, too. So I'm also doing this for me. 296 00:26:05,083 --> 00:26:06,958 I'm a doctor myself. 297 00:26:07,083 --> 00:26:11,125 A vet, Jan. That's something else entirely. 298 00:26:11,250 --> 00:26:15,625 Gedda, listen. 299 00:26:15,750 --> 00:26:21,167 It's really nice that you arrange and organize everything for me... 300 00:26:21,292 --> 00:26:24,208 ...but there is such a thing as too much. 301 00:26:26,667 --> 00:26:28,875 Nonsense. -Why is that nonsense? 302 00:26:30,083 --> 00:26:32,000 That's what I wrote my dissertation on. 303 00:26:32,125 --> 00:26:34,000 When women arrange the practical matters... 304 00:26:34,125 --> 00:26:37,292 ...men feel better and live longer. 305 00:26:37,417 --> 00:26:38,625 Magna cum laude. 306 00:26:41,833 --> 00:26:44,208 Here, your scone. 307 00:26:57,875 --> 00:27:01,208 Almost nothing comes out, you said? -And he hardly feels anything anymore. 308 00:27:01,333 --> 00:27:04,792 Please, you don't have to rub the girl's face in it. 309 00:27:04,917 --> 00:27:07,667 Jan, that girl is the doctor, and you've got a problem. 310 00:27:07,792 --> 00:27:13,083 And when he ejaculates there's no power at all, so it just dribbles out. 311 00:27:13,208 --> 00:27:15,375 Gedda, please. 312 00:27:15,542 --> 00:27:19,083 And what does come out... Well, a drop is an overstatement. 313 00:27:20,375 --> 00:27:22,208 Really? 314 00:27:23,625 --> 00:27:26,583 Then I should examine you. You can get undressed. 315 00:27:31,000 --> 00:27:33,000 Is it okay if an intern observes? 316 00:27:33,083 --> 00:27:34,417 Of course, not a problem. 317 00:27:34,542 --> 00:27:36,375 Is that necessary? 318 00:27:36,500 --> 00:27:39,333 Don't be embarrassed, she's used to it. 319 00:27:39,500 --> 00:27:41,417 Yes, but I'm not. 320 00:27:41,542 --> 00:27:45,042 Just as I thought. They can't do anything about it, I'll have to live with it. 321 00:27:45,167 --> 00:27:46,667 We shouldn't have come here. 322 00:27:46,792 --> 00:27:49,667 Now at least we tried. 323 00:27:49,792 --> 00:27:52,917 Wait for me, please. I have to go to the toilet. 324 00:27:57,833 --> 00:28:00,708 Mr. Sanderink? -Hi, Ilse. 325 00:28:00,833 --> 00:28:02,917 What are you doing here? 326 00:28:03,042 --> 00:28:05,875 Nothing special. What about you? 327 00:28:06,667 --> 00:28:11,750 The doctor says Peter's sperm is very slow. 328 00:28:13,625 --> 00:28:18,667 Oh, right. Grandpa would say: 'good slouw'. 329 00:28:18,792 --> 00:28:23,958 Oh, sorry. -Is there any hope? 330 00:28:24,083 --> 00:28:27,917 If you want to give us grandchildren, you'll have to think of something else. 331 00:28:28,042 --> 00:28:34,792 May I ask you, Mr. Sanderink, Jan, to keep this between us? 332 00:28:34,917 --> 00:28:38,917 Nobody needs to know. -Thank you... Dad. 333 00:28:40,542 --> 00:28:44,500 All the best, love. Stay strong. 334 00:28:45,500 --> 00:28:48,000 I'm going to Café Central tonight. I could use a drink. 335 00:28:48,083 --> 00:28:51,917 I get that, but tonight isn't possible. I invited Ria and Bert Dammink. 336 00:28:52,042 --> 00:28:54,208 Oh no, did you really invite them? -Yes, I had to. 337 00:28:54,333 --> 00:28:57,250 They're good people and Bert is a good colleague of mine. 338 00:28:57,375 --> 00:28:59,750 Scrabble again? -Yes, we're playing Scrabble. 339 00:28:59,875 --> 00:29:01,792 They just love that. 340 00:29:01,917 --> 00:29:04,542 Oh well, what's one more thing. 341 00:29:05,625 --> 00:29:07,750 Look. Penguin. 342 00:29:08,417 --> 00:29:11,208 So, thanks to my mother my father reached the age of 89. 343 00:29:11,333 --> 00:29:13,375 What about you, Jan, how old was your father? 344 00:29:13,500 --> 00:29:16,083 His father died at 45, Jan never really knew his father. 345 00:29:16,208 --> 00:29:19,000 I was barely... -You were barely four years old. 346 00:29:19,125 --> 00:29:21,375 Just imagine, you don't really have any memories then. 347 00:29:21,500 --> 00:29:23,458 I wouldn't say that... -That's true. 348 00:29:23,583 --> 00:29:25,792 My father died early as well. What was it your father had? 349 00:29:25,917 --> 00:29:30,042 His father lived extremely unhealthily, and his mother did nothing about it. 350 00:29:30,167 --> 00:29:31,542 Yes, but otherwise he would have... 351 00:29:31,667 --> 00:29:34,417 That doesn't say anything. My father was very athletic and died suddenly. 352 00:29:34,542 --> 00:29:37,667 I just wanted to say that, you can... -Bert, your turn. 353 00:29:40,458 --> 00:29:43,875 Vorce. -Vorce? That's not a word. 354 00:29:44,000 --> 00:29:48,750 Oh, yes it is. Divorce. 355 00:29:48,875 --> 00:29:51,250 Beautiful. 356 00:29:59,375 --> 00:30:01,667 Jan, I know that you weren't looking forward to tonight... 357 00:30:01,792 --> 00:30:04,667 ...but you could have opened your mouth a little bit more. 358 00:30:04,792 --> 00:30:06,875 Me? -Yes. You barely said a thing. 359 00:30:07,000 --> 00:30:10,458 You could have been a bit more talkative. 360 00:30:10,583 --> 00:30:13,583 Can you believe that Ria is okay with them splitting up... 361 00:30:13,708 --> 00:30:18,250 ...after everything she's done for him? I would never have agreed to it. 362 00:30:18,375 --> 00:30:21,625 For marriage you need two people. For divorce only one has to want it. 363 00:30:21,750 --> 00:30:25,292 Marriage is an arrangement between two people, to which you both agree. 364 00:30:25,417 --> 00:30:29,708 If you do end up splitting up, I think you should both agree to that as well. 365 00:30:29,833 --> 00:30:33,375 And what if Bert thinks: if [ go on with Ria like this, I'll go crazy? 366 00:30:33,500 --> 00:30:35,042 Then he shouldn't have married her. 367 00:30:37,542 --> 00:30:39,042 And what if I tell you right now... 368 00:30:39,167 --> 00:30:40,958 ...that I want a divorce? 369 00:30:43,875 --> 00:30:46,833 Jan... 370 00:30:46,958 --> 00:30:50,125 Don't talk nonsense, my dear. 371 00:30:54,083 --> 00:30:58,542 We belong together, we'll never be rid of each other. 372 00:31:02,458 --> 00:31:04,417 Did you pay those bills? 373 00:31:04,542 --> 00:31:07,167 I'll do it next week. 374 00:31:07,292 --> 00:31:11,167 Didn't I ask you to pay them straight away? You had them in your hands. 375 00:31:11,292 --> 00:31:15,083 Next week is early enough. -But you had them in your hands. 376 00:31:15,208 --> 00:31:16,833 There's plenty of time. 377 00:31:19,542 --> 00:31:23,708 Why can't you just say: Yes, Gedda, you're right... 378 00:31:23,833 --> 00:31:26,667 ...I should have paid them straight away. 379 00:31:29,500 --> 00:31:31,917 Yes, Gedda, you're right... 380 00:31:32,042 --> 00:31:35,792 ...I should have paid them straight away. 381 00:31:35,917 --> 00:31:38,125 Is that so difficult? 382 00:32:19,458 --> 00:32:22,500 Who's there? -Room service. 383 00:32:29,500 --> 00:32:35,417 Hi. I thought, if you're staying in such a nice hotel, we could make a night of it. 384 00:32:40,000 --> 00:32:43,375 But where's Driekus? -With his father. 385 00:32:45,625 --> 00:32:48,000 What a surprise. 386 00:32:48,958 --> 00:32:51,667 Did you sleep well, honey? Great. 387 00:32:53,625 --> 00:32:55,458 I had a dream. -Oh, really? 388 00:32:55,583 --> 00:32:59,917 About you. -How about that? And... 389 00:33:00,042 --> 00:33:02,125 It got a bit wild. -Oh, really? 390 00:33:02,250 --> 00:33:05,333 We were here, in the Kitchen, as we are now. 391 00:33:05,458 --> 00:33:09,833 I ripped all your clothes off. I lay you down on the kitchen table. 392 00:33:09,958 --> 00:33:13,417 I got a chair. I sat down in front of you, and I thought: 393 00:33:13,542 --> 00:33:16,417 Now I'm just going to enjoy Gedda. 394 00:33:16,542 --> 00:33:18,875 And then? 395 00:33:19,000 --> 00:33:23,417 And then you said: first go and put your old clothes on. 396 00:33:26,000 --> 00:33:29,542 Is it really that difficult for you, being with me? 397 00:33:32,000 --> 00:33:33,792 You didn't take my advice to heart, I hope? 398 00:33:33,917 --> 00:33:36,875 Well, I can tell you... 399 00:33:37,000 --> 00:33:40,917 ...I first went and put my old clothes on. 400 00:33:41,042 --> 00:33:44,083 You can be a real loser at times. 401 00:33:44,208 --> 00:33:47,875 Do you know what your problem is? You take on too much of what I say. 402 00:33:48,000 --> 00:33:50,833 You shouldn't do as I say as much. 403 00:33:56,875 --> 00:34:00,750 No, Jan. You shouldn't put the cheese knife on the cheese like that. 404 00:34:00,875 --> 00:34:02,625 Why not? -It's unhygienic. 405 00:34:02,750 --> 00:34:04,917 Unhygienic? -You've had your fingers on it. 406 00:34:05,042 --> 00:34:08,917 But I held the cheese as well, so what's the difference? 407 00:34:13,375 --> 00:34:14,750 That's how we do it. 408 00:34:37,125 --> 00:34:40,625 Hey, we have two hedge trimmers, you know. 409 00:34:40,750 --> 00:34:43,292 Oh, then we can throw one away. -For God's sake. 410 00:34:43,458 --> 00:34:45,167 That was a joke. Come on. 411 00:34:45,292 --> 00:34:48,958 For weeks you've promised me you'll trim the conifers, but you don't do it. 412 00:34:49,083 --> 00:34:53,958 Then I end up doing it myself. Here, I refuse to do any more. 413 00:34:54,083 --> 00:34:56,792 I'll trim them tomorrow. 414 00:34:56,917 --> 00:35:01,417 I have to go, by the way. I have to be at the petting zoo by 15:00. 415 00:35:02,750 --> 00:35:06,000 Your glasses are here on the piano. -Gedda, I know that. 416 00:35:06,125 --> 00:35:08,500 I know you. You'd forget them. -No, I won't forget them. 417 00:35:08,625 --> 00:35:11,583 And did you find the disinfectant? -Yes, I found it. 418 00:35:11,708 --> 00:35:13,708 Was it in the car? -Yes. 419 00:35:13,833 --> 00:35:15,625 So you found it. -Yes. 420 00:35:15,750 --> 00:35:17,292 Because you'd lost it. -I've got it. 421 00:35:17,417 --> 00:35:21,042 So you're sure about that? -My God, how often do I have to say it? 422 00:35:21,583 --> 00:35:23,500 I'm only trying to help. 423 00:35:28,833 --> 00:35:30,833 Jan, put on a jacket. 424 00:35:30,958 --> 00:35:33,875 In this weather? -Yes, you never know. Take it with you. 425 00:35:40,542 --> 00:35:42,667 Jan? 426 00:35:44,958 --> 00:35:47,667 What are you thinking about? 427 00:35:52,000 --> 00:35:55,167 Oh, Sanderink, I'm so glad you're here. 428 00:35:55,292 --> 00:35:57,625 It's the goat. -The goat? 429 00:35:57,750 --> 00:35:59,917 Yes. -What's wrong with the goat? 430 00:36:00,542 --> 00:36:04,125 She's acting so strangely. -Strangely? 431 00:36:05,208 --> 00:36:07,625 When it's a bit windy... 432 00:36:07,750 --> 00:36:09,958 ...she stares up at the branches of the trees... 433 00:36:10,083 --> 00:36:13,292 ...and then she keeps on moving her head... 434 00:36:16,833 --> 00:36:19,583 ...from side to side. 435 00:36:24,500 --> 00:36:27,083 Look, she's doing it again. 436 00:36:29,125 --> 00:36:30,792 Is she in pain? 437 00:36:30,917 --> 00:36:33,125 No, I don't think so. 438 00:36:34,125 --> 00:36:35,750 Do you know what I think? 439 00:36:38,542 --> 00:36:40,583 Tell me. 440 00:36:40,708 --> 00:36:43,375 I think she has Alzheimer's. 441 00:36:45,583 --> 00:36:47,042 Alzheimer's? 442 00:36:47,167 --> 00:36:49,708 Yes, dementia. 443 00:36:49,833 --> 00:36:52,875 A goat with Alzheimer's. I've never heard of that before. 444 00:36:53,000 --> 00:36:57,250 My father had it too, and that's just how he looked. 445 00:36:57,375 --> 00:36:59,958 So, there's something new. 446 00:37:00,083 --> 00:37:05,375 Dementia. I'll have a think about it. 447 00:37:40,625 --> 00:37:43,292 I warned you. 448 00:37:43,417 --> 00:37:45,833 Was there anything particular at the petting zoo? 449 00:37:45,958 --> 00:37:48,917 They had a goat. 450 00:37:49,042 --> 00:37:53,042 And the volunteer there thought that she... 451 00:37:53,167 --> 00:37:54,583 ...had broken something. 452 00:37:54,708 --> 00:37:58,083 But I just needed to trim her hooves. 453 00:37:58,250 --> 00:38:00,542 I'll take a quick bath and then I'll pay those bills. 454 00:38:00,667 --> 00:38:06,292 Yes, please do. And it'll be nice weather tomorrow, so you can trim the conifers. 455 00:38:06,417 --> 00:38:09,208 The conifers? -Yes, the conifers. 456 00:38:09,333 --> 00:38:12,250 The conifers. -You know what conifers are, don't you? 457 00:38:14,792 --> 00:38:18,875 Yes, conifers. They're those things you put next to one another... 458 00:38:19,000 --> 00:38:22,458 ...50 that people can't see in. -Exactly. 459 00:38:22,583 --> 00:38:25,333 Good. And when are we getting them? 460 00:38:25,458 --> 00:38:27,750 Getting them? You've been trimming them for 25 years. 461 00:38:29,542 --> 00:38:31,125 Have I really? 462 00:38:32,625 --> 00:38:34,750 They never tell me anything. 463 00:38:42,125 --> 00:38:44,333 Jan, what are you doing? 464 00:38:44,458 --> 00:38:46,083 Cup of coffee for in the bath. 465 00:38:50,667 --> 00:38:52,583 What were you thinking? 466 00:39:13,083 --> 00:39:15,750 There, the bills. 467 00:39:41,875 --> 00:39:46,333 TO THE MAYOR 468 00:39:51,958 --> 00:39:55,333 What are you doing? -Making a smoothie. 469 00:39:57,042 --> 00:39:59,375 Give me that. 470 00:40:00,875 --> 00:40:04,500 You are totally out of it. 471 00:40:04,625 --> 00:40:07,417 Where are you going? -To my father and mother's. 472 00:40:07,542 --> 00:40:10,708 Jan, stop it. I really don't like this. 473 00:40:10,833 --> 00:40:12,625 I'm allowed to go to my father and mother's, aren't I? 474 00:40:12,750 --> 00:40:14,625 Your father and mother are dead. 475 00:40:15,625 --> 00:40:17,708 Are my father and mother dead? 476 00:40:20,917 --> 00:40:22,875 They never tell me anything. 477 00:40:24,625 --> 00:40:26,208 I'll be right back. 478 00:40:27,917 --> 00:40:29,792 Try it out. 479 00:40:29,917 --> 00:40:34,542 Just cycle around the block. See if you like it. 480 00:40:35,958 --> 00:40:37,875 Thanks for the bike. 481 00:41:01,792 --> 00:41:05,250 Look at that, breakfast in bed. What did I do to deserve that? 482 00:41:05,375 --> 00:41:08,208 We have something to celebrate. Look. 483 00:41:13,125 --> 00:41:16,458 You're kidding me. Would you believe it. -Great, isn't it? 484 00:41:16,583 --> 00:41:18,917 I have no idea what it says. 485 00:41:20,167 --> 00:41:23,500 Mobility of more than fifty percent. 486 00:41:23,625 --> 00:41:25,833 You've got the best sperm there is. 487 00:41:25,958 --> 00:41:28,000 Are you serious? Me? 488 00:41:28,125 --> 00:41:30,000 I've also spoken to the urologist. 489 00:41:30,125 --> 00:41:35,125 And she said your sperm were so fast, they flew through the lab. 490 00:41:35,250 --> 00:41:40,042 She couldn't keep them under the microscope. They were so lively. 491 00:41:42,208 --> 00:41:46,958 We just have to do it more often. That's all. 492 00:41:47,083 --> 00:41:49,208 There are worse things. 493 00:42:36,917 --> 00:42:40,250 Just a minute, Ria. 494 00:42:49,667 --> 00:42:54,542 So, I've trimmed them right back. We won't have to do them again for a while. 495 00:43:07,708 --> 00:43:10,375 May we take a look in your shed? -Excuse me? 496 00:43:10,500 --> 00:43:12,917 Yes, take a look in your shed. 497 00:43:34,083 --> 00:43:37,583 I'll make an appointment at the hospital. -Are you sick? 498 00:43:37,708 --> 00:43:40,417 For a memory test. -Is there something wrong with your mind? 499 00:43:40,542 --> 00:43:44,708 Not with mine. But there's more than one person living in this house. 500 00:43:48,583 --> 00:43:50,792 Go ahead. -After you. 501 00:43:50,917 --> 00:43:52,833 After you. -It's all yours. 502 00:43:53,583 --> 00:43:55,375 Jan, calm down, will you. 503 00:43:55,542 --> 00:43:57,958 That woman wouldn't get in the elevator. 504 00:43:58,083 --> 00:44:00,333 Jan... I'm sorry, ma'am. 505 00:44:00,458 --> 00:44:03,375 It's okay. - I say. 506 00:44:04,875 --> 00:44:08,542 Problems with short-term memory and not being able to handle money any more. 507 00:44:08,667 --> 00:44:11,083 An obsession with cremation. 508 00:44:13,042 --> 00:44:16,792 First, a couple of general questions before we get down to the problem. 509 00:44:18,292 --> 00:44:20,167 What's your name? -Johannes Gerardus... 510 00:44:20,292 --> 00:44:23,042 No, I was asking your husband. - I beg your pardon. 511 00:44:24,458 --> 00:44:26,333 What is your name? 512 00:44:27,583 --> 00:44:29,750 What are you called? 513 00:44:29,875 --> 00:44:31,917 What are you called? 514 00:44:32,042 --> 00:44:33,958 What you're called. 515 00:44:35,083 --> 00:44:36,792 What I'm called. 516 00:44:40,083 --> 00:44:43,792 I'm not that well-educated. -Think about it. 517 00:44:46,333 --> 00:44:49,292 Mrs. Sanderink, I really have a problem here. 518 00:44:49,417 --> 00:44:53,458 Who's the one with the problem here? I thought that we had the problem? 519 00:44:53,583 --> 00:44:55,625 I have to do an MMSE test one-to-one... 520 00:44:55,750 --> 00:44:59,333 ...80 I'm going to ask you to go and have a cup of coffee in the cafeteria. 521 00:45:02,750 --> 00:45:04,292 Thank you. 522 00:45:04,417 --> 00:45:06,125 Bye, nurse. 523 00:45:10,000 --> 00:45:12,250 Could you repeat after me? 524 00:45:12,375 --> 00:45:16,125 And now this and now that. 525 00:45:18,250 --> 00:45:20,792 And now this and now that. 526 00:45:23,375 --> 00:45:28,042 And could you repeat after me: 'Beaucoup de klamme jotte amme wieme kneutje?" 527 00:45:31,208 --> 00:45:35,583 You can't, can you? They don't teach you anything at school these days. 528 00:45:37,417 --> 00:45:41,042 He'll be having an EEG and a CT and all sorts of other tests... 529 00:45:42,292 --> 00:45:45,042 ...but it looks like it's Alzheimer's. 530 00:45:45,167 --> 00:45:48,167 So, you'll have to talk to Dad about what he wants. 531 00:45:48,292 --> 00:45:51,750 What he wants? What could he want, then? 532 00:45:51,875 --> 00:45:56,708 It could well be that he wants to arrange something before it gets worse. 533 00:45:56,833 --> 00:45:59,583 I'll arrange everything for him. 534 00:45:59,708 --> 00:46:02,875 So really everything will just be the same. Or not, Mom? 535 00:46:06,708 --> 00:46:10,792 Here are your prostate pills. The pasta is in the oven. 536 00:46:10,917 --> 00:46:12,542 Memory exercises. 537 00:46:12,667 --> 00:46:16,000 And in case you can't remember all that, I've written it all down here. 538 00:46:17,250 --> 00:46:20,792 And you're not going anywhere. Understood? 539 00:46:20,917 --> 00:46:23,542 I have to see my patients. -I've called to tell them you're sick. 540 00:46:23,667 --> 00:46:25,042 Are you crazy? Why would you do that? 541 00:46:25,167 --> 00:46:29,250 Jan, you can't work in this state. -For God's sake. 542 00:46:29,375 --> 00:46:31,667 And to be on the safe side, I'm taking your car keys with me. 543 00:46:31,792 --> 00:46:35,708 You'll stay at home today. - I don't understand. 544 00:46:35,833 --> 00:46:38,083 Exactly. 545 00:46:38,208 --> 00:46:42,125 I have to go. Willem-Alexander's coming to the University and I have to be there. 546 00:46:42,250 --> 00:46:45,708 Willem-Alexander? -Willem-Alexander, yes. Ring a bell? 547 00:46:47,958 --> 00:46:50,458 Yes, that's our King. 548 00:46:52,000 --> 00:46:55,875 I used to sit in his lap when I was a little girl. 549 00:46:57,292 --> 00:47:02,125 Okay, it'll be fine. Where are my keys? 550 00:47:02,250 --> 00:47:04,958 On the mantelpiece. 551 00:47:09,667 --> 00:47:11,125 I'll be back as soon as I can. 552 00:47:42,083 --> 00:47:43,542 Thank you. 553 00:47:49,167 --> 00:47:52,167 Sweetheart, come here a minute. -What is it? I have to go to yoga. 554 00:47:52,292 --> 00:47:55,000 Yeah, yeah, just one second. -Quickly then. 555 00:47:55,125 --> 00:47:57,708 I've measured our paintings. -Measured them? 556 00:47:57,833 --> 00:47:59,500 Yeah, the surface areas. 557 00:47:59,625 --> 00:48:01,958 We agreed that we'd both hang the same amount of paintings on the wall. 558 00:48:02,083 --> 00:48:05,208 Half with your paintings and half with mine. 559 00:48:05,333 --> 00:48:08,958 I've measured the surface areas of your paintings... 560 00:48:09,083 --> 00:48:12,125 ...and then my paintings... 561 00:48:12,250 --> 00:48:14,000 Er... yeah? 562 00:48:14,125 --> 00:48:18,625 It turns out that I can hang up another 20 by 30 cm painting. 563 00:48:19,792 --> 00:48:23,417 Okay. As far as I'm concerned, you can hang a painting that's 2.5 meters... 564 00:48:23,542 --> 00:48:24,958 No, I don't agree with you. 565 00:48:25,083 --> 00:48:28,417 In a good relationship you make good agreements and stick to them. 566 00:48:28,542 --> 00:48:31,375 If you slack off straight away, it won't be long before it goes wrong. 567 00:48:31,500 --> 00:48:35,375 Right. I'm going to yoga. -Sure, have fun. 568 00:48:35,500 --> 00:48:37,917 What time will you be back? -Late. I'm going to the pub. 569 00:48:38,042 --> 00:48:39,917 Oh, who with? -No idea. 570 00:48:40,042 --> 00:48:42,625 Text me, to let me know where you are, and when you'll be home. 571 00:48:42,750 --> 00:48:45,042 I'm just going to have a drink somewhere. 572 00:48:45,167 --> 00:48:47,458 If I die, I'll send you a text. 573 00:48:47,583 --> 00:48:50,542 What time will you be back? I have to be up really early tomorrow. 574 00:48:50,667 --> 00:48:53,833 If you're tired, go to bed. I'll crawl in next to you. 575 00:48:53,958 --> 00:48:56,500 What did you say? -Bye. 576 00:48:57,125 --> 00:49:02,417 You can always call me, if need be. -Fine, I will. 577 00:49:02,542 --> 00:49:04,542 Has something happened? 578 00:49:04,667 --> 00:49:08,333 Where on earth were you? -At my father and mother's. Why? 579 00:49:08,458 --> 00:49:11,958 You were gone. -Yes, and now I'm back again. 580 00:49:12,042 --> 00:49:15,250 Gedda has sacrificed her whole life for you, Jan. 581 00:49:15,375 --> 00:49:20,083 And the only thing she wants is that you listen to her a bit. 582 00:49:20,208 --> 00:49:23,500 We can work this out together, Jan, but you won't manage it just by taking pills. 583 00:49:23,625 --> 00:49:24,750 No. 584 00:49:24,875 --> 00:49:27,667 It'd be better to put him in a home. -Mom, please. 585 00:49:27,792 --> 00:49:30,542 A home? What kind of home? 586 00:49:30,667 --> 00:49:35,417 Don't worry, we'll think of something. -Good. 587 00:49:36,000 --> 00:49:38,417 Just get rid of that halfwit. 588 00:49:42,833 --> 00:49:48,167 Here you are. Have a good evening. -Yeah, you too. Thank you. 589 00:49:50,542 --> 00:49:53,792 Erik has called twelve times. 590 00:50:19,333 --> 00:50:23,083 Oh my God. You scared me to death. 591 00:50:24,625 --> 00:50:27,750 I said you should just go to bed, didn't I? 592 00:50:27,875 --> 00:50:32,250 I've called you 16 times, and left 12 voicemail messages. 593 00:50:32,417 --> 00:50:34,583 That's rather a lot, isn't it, Erik? 594 00:50:34,708 --> 00:50:36,125 Whose jacket is this? 595 00:50:36,250 --> 00:50:39,333 What? -This. This jacket. 596 00:50:39,458 --> 00:50:41,625 That's your jacket. -Did you have Mark over? 597 00:50:41,750 --> 00:50:44,458 Is this Mark's? -That's your jacket. 598 00:50:44,583 --> 00:50:47,292 If you don't start acting normal pretty soon, I'm sleeping in the spare room. 599 00:50:47,417 --> 00:50:51,958 Fine, do that. If you don't do it, I will. 600 00:50:53,333 --> 00:50:55,750 Very well. You never wear that jacket. 601 00:50:55,875 --> 00:50:58,875 And you're going to sleep in the spare room. 602 00:51:34,750 --> 00:51:38,042 It doesn't get any crazier than this. You've locked me out. 603 00:51:38,167 --> 00:51:43,042 Gedda, what kind of madness is this? 604 00:51:44,875 --> 00:51:47,250 Open up. 605 00:51:51,333 --> 00:51:54,292 Open up, for God's sake. 606 00:51:55,208 --> 00:51:59,375 Jan, what are you doing? You should be across the road. 607 00:52:00,875 --> 00:52:05,333 What are you doing in my house? With my wife. Dirty old man. Bugger off. 608 00:52:05,458 --> 00:52:10,417 I'll knock the daylights out of you. Gedda, open the door. 609 00:52:19,042 --> 00:52:20,458 Go sit down, Dad. 610 00:52:20,583 --> 00:52:23,458 I'd rather he was in the Ariëns House, then I could visit more often. 611 00:52:23,583 --> 00:52:25,917 But he insisted on going to Almelo. -Well, that's where he was born. 612 00:52:26,042 --> 00:52:29,792 I think it's something to do with Antoon, too. They've known each other for ages. 613 00:52:29,917 --> 00:52:31,500 So I agreed to it. 614 00:52:31,625 --> 00:52:35,000 Antoon can also keep an eye on him. Can't he, Jan? 615 00:52:35,125 --> 00:52:37,833 What do you think? Will they be home? -Who? 616 00:52:37,958 --> 00:52:39,333 My father and mother? 617 00:52:56,083 --> 00:53:02,042 Jan, do you still remember Antoon? He's now the administrator here. 618 00:53:04,333 --> 00:53:07,708 You know each other from Utrecht. -Utrecht? 619 00:53:07,833 --> 00:53:10,833 Yeah, you studied there. -Ah, how nice. 620 00:53:12,417 --> 00:53:14,750 Go sit down, Jan. 621 00:53:22,750 --> 00:53:27,167 Jan, do you agree to staying in a locked ward? 622 00:53:27,250 --> 00:53:29,750 A locked ward? 623 00:53:31,875 --> 00:53:34,625 I think that would be lovely. -Lovely? 624 00:53:34,750 --> 00:53:37,417 Yes, then they can't steal anything from you. 625 00:53:40,667 --> 00:53:43,417 Well, that's sorted then. 626 00:53:43,542 --> 00:53:45,417 I'll come by every day. 627 00:53:45,542 --> 00:53:48,458 Here are some lecithin bars. They're good for your memory. 628 00:53:48,583 --> 00:53:52,917 And throat lozenges in case you cough. Here's your phone. My number's in there. 629 00:53:53,042 --> 00:53:57,000 You'll get your prostate pills from the nurse. I hope I have your pyjamas. 630 00:53:57,125 --> 00:54:03,042 I'll also ask the kitchen if they'll take your dietary requirements into account. 631 00:54:18,458 --> 00:54:22,750 But don't you worry. Nothing can happen to you here. 632 00:54:23,750 --> 00:54:26,000 Sweetheart. 633 00:54:28,083 --> 00:54:31,167 But you have to do what they say. Will you do that? 634 00:54:39,292 --> 00:54:41,167 What an awful condition. 635 00:54:50,125 --> 00:54:52,292 You are such an asshole. 636 00:54:53,250 --> 00:54:59,042 Pretending to have dementia. It doesn't get any crazier than this. 637 00:54:59,167 --> 00:55:02,542 What do you want to achieve by this? -No idea. But I had to do something. 638 00:55:02,667 --> 00:55:05,542 I'd almost say that you must have dementia to do this. 639 00:55:05,667 --> 00:55:08,417 We have waiting lists from here to Tokyo. 640 00:55:08,542 --> 00:55:11,708 I squeezed you in, which I'm absolutely not allowed to do. 641 00:55:13,000 --> 00:55:15,208 Why don't you just get a divorce, Jan? 642 00:55:15,333 --> 00:55:18,708 Get divorced? From Gedda? 643 00:55:18,833 --> 00:55:22,667 If it wasn't for Gedda, I'd have been dead for 35 years. You know that. 644 00:55:22,792 --> 00:55:25,125 Do you mean because of Karin? In that accident? 645 00:55:25,250 --> 00:55:28,958 Karin and our little Annemiek, both gone in one fell swoop. 646 00:55:29,083 --> 00:55:31,708 You could have carried me away in a box. I was reduced to nothing. 647 00:55:31,833 --> 00:55:36,375 I stood here twice in the Nijrees forest with a rope in my hands. 648 00:55:36,500 --> 00:55:38,250 I know how bad you were then. 649 00:55:38,375 --> 00:55:40,792 Well then. And Gedda got me through all that. 650 00:55:40,917 --> 00:55:43,125 'Now we're going to do this, and now we're going to do that... 651 00:55:43,250 --> 00:55:45,792 And now you do this like this and that like that." And I needed that. 652 00:55:45,917 --> 00:55:49,125 But she just never stopped. -No. 653 00:55:49,250 --> 00:55:52,500 She's still doing it. -Yes, she's stifling me. 654 00:55:52,625 --> 00:55:56,667 Yes, she does do that. -But she did save my life. 655 00:55:56,792 --> 00:56:02,458 And you don't just leave a woman who loves you that much. 656 00:56:02,583 --> 00:56:03,792 No matter how much she drives you crazy. 657 00:56:03,917 --> 00:56:05,875 I don't want to get involved in this. 658 00:56:06,000 --> 00:56:08,125 Have a look around, see how nice this place is. 659 00:56:08,250 --> 00:56:11,250 I'll talk to you tomorrow. Go. 660 00:56:19,667 --> 00:56:24,833 Hello, sir. -Ah. Hello, ma'am. 661 00:56:24,958 --> 00:56:28,250 Where are you from? - I was born in Almelo. 662 00:56:29,833 --> 00:56:33,625 You're from Almelo? So am I. 663 00:56:33,750 --> 00:56:36,625 Which elementary school did you go to? 664 00:56:36,750 --> 00:56:39,833 Oh, it was very elementary. 665 00:56:39,958 --> 00:56:45,125 Yes. I learned just enough to be able to misunderstand everything. 666 00:56:47,417 --> 00:56:50,500 I'm Jan. -I'm not allowed to die. 667 00:56:50,625 --> 00:56:53,750 No, that's not allowed. -Those managers say I can't die. 668 00:56:53,875 --> 00:56:59,208 Really? -I'm a member of the Euthanasia Society. 669 00:56:59,333 --> 00:57:03,292 I'm also a member of the Euthanasia Society. 670 00:57:07,667 --> 00:57:11,667 I'm a member of the Carnival Society. The Papsleef'n. 671 00:57:11,792 --> 00:57:16,375 The Papsleef'n. Then you must come from Geesteren. I'm Jan. 672 00:57:16,500 --> 00:57:19,333 My husband cheated on me. -Jan. 673 00:57:20,542 --> 00:57:22,750 That's why he's locked me up in here. 674 00:57:25,000 --> 00:57:27,542 Do you know the way to Kloosteres Street? 675 00:57:27,667 --> 00:57:28,667 Kloosteres Street? 676 00:57:28,792 --> 00:57:31,792 Yes, I have to go to Kloosteres Street. 677 00:57:53,042 --> 00:57:55,417 There. -Lovely. 678 00:57:56,333 --> 00:57:59,000 And, is the food good here? 679 00:57:59,125 --> 00:58:02,917 Do you know what it is? It's all mixed up together. 680 00:58:03,042 --> 00:58:05,042 With the fair in Tubbergen. 681 00:58:05,167 --> 00:58:08,083 My father and mother too. Sometimes. 682 00:58:08,208 --> 00:58:11,417 Buying eggs, in Vasse. Not always. 683 00:58:11,542 --> 00:58:13,708 It's all so mixed up, and all that. 684 00:58:13,833 --> 00:58:18,542 What a strange, stupid story. I don't understand a word of it. 685 00:58:18,667 --> 00:58:22,875 No, as if you always... with your... 686 00:58:25,958 --> 00:58:31,333 It's a lovely home, but all the food is steamed. 687 00:58:31,417 --> 00:58:36,167 And I think that's an omission. 688 00:58:39,958 --> 00:58:42,000 I know what that is. 689 00:58:42,125 --> 00:58:47,625 Really? What is it then? Omission. 690 00:58:49,500 --> 00:58:53,292 One of my brothers was a priest. He was once in the omission. 691 00:58:53,417 --> 00:58:55,875 In Venezuela, with the native Indians. 692 00:59:07,208 --> 00:59:09,583 What are they? 693 00:59:09,708 --> 00:59:12,708 They're the bombardments. -What? 694 00:59:12,833 --> 00:59:16,667 Bombardments. -Bombar. 695 00:59:16,792 --> 00:59:19,083 ...dement. -Dement? 696 00:59:19,208 --> 00:59:22,833 Yes. Does that mean anything to you? Dement? 697 00:59:22,958 --> 00:59:27,583 That's those poor sods, those demented people. You should feel sorry for them. 698 00:59:29,292 --> 00:59:32,500 Tomorrow, both legs are coming off. 699 00:59:32,625 --> 00:59:36,833 I don't think it will be that bad. -Both legs. Completely off. 700 00:59:36,958 --> 00:59:42,917 Ah, dear, really? Both legs off? -Both of them. Completely off. 701 00:59:43,042 --> 00:59:47,542 I'd give you one of my legs if I could. 702 00:59:47,667 --> 00:59:50,500 Both of them. But I'm not allowed to die. 703 00:59:50,625 --> 00:59:54,167 I've signed a euthanasia statement, but it makes no difference. 704 00:59:54,292 --> 00:59:56,958 Oh, but the good Lord never left anyone in the lurch. 705 00:59:57,083 --> 00:59:58,958 I've also signed an euthanasia statement. 706 00:59:59,083 --> 01:00:02,667 You don't need to. The good Lord will come and fetch you himself. 707 01:00:02,792 --> 01:00:06,458 I can sit and wait patiently for the good Lord... 708 01:00:06,583 --> 01:00:08,833 ...but I think it's a waste of my time. 709 01:00:10,375 --> 01:00:13,167 It's better not to be born. 710 01:00:13,292 --> 01:00:18,000 Come on, Koelman, we should all be a bit more optimistic. 711 01:00:18,125 --> 01:00:19,708 Of course not. 712 01:00:21,375 --> 01:00:23,500 Well, cheers, then. 713 01:00:23,625 --> 01:00:26,458 Yes, here's to many more years. 714 01:01:14,125 --> 01:01:17,250 My husband cheated on me. 715 01:01:23,958 --> 01:01:25,458 I'll just take you back to bed. 716 01:01:25,583 --> 01:01:28,583 I want to get out. I want to go home. 717 01:01:28,708 --> 01:01:31,292 Let's get you to bed for a good night's sleep. 718 01:01:31,417 --> 01:01:35,583 I want to go to my wife. Let me go. 719 01:01:55,708 --> 01:01:58,750 I can't get my dress in my pants. 720 01:02:01,125 --> 01:02:04,000 Bare legs. -'Bread and jam'. 721 01:02:21,292 --> 01:02:24,792 Now that was a laugh, wasn't it? We could laugh for two whole weeks. 722 01:02:29,708 --> 01:02:33,542 Ah, ma'am, your clothes are all mussed. 723 01:02:33,667 --> 01:02:36,000 Here we go again. 724 01:02:40,583 --> 01:02:42,667 Oh, Jan... 725 01:02:44,417 --> 01:02:46,583 A whole week... 726 01:02:49,750 --> 01:02:52,333 ...without one another. 727 01:02:52,458 --> 01:02:54,500 How can you stand it? 728 01:02:56,333 --> 01:03:00,000 So, love. How are you finding it here? 729 01:03:01,208 --> 01:03:04,333 Do you maybe know if they take Jan's dietary requirements into account? 730 01:03:05,667 --> 01:03:08,708 I don't know very much. That's bad, isn't it? 731 01:03:08,833 --> 01:03:11,833 My husband cheated on me. 732 01:03:11,958 --> 01:03:16,292 But I don't carry a grudge because I believe in God. 733 01:03:16,417 --> 01:03:20,458 The Bible says: whoever does wrong, will be repaid for his wrong. 734 01:03:22,542 --> 01:03:24,500 That's what I'm waiting for. 735 01:03:28,708 --> 01:03:33,583 What's the matter, Mrs. ten Cate? -It's because of those bullshit pills. 736 01:03:33,708 --> 01:03:36,375 What's wrong with your shit? 737 01:03:39,208 --> 01:03:42,250 Could you take me to the Kloosteres Street later? 738 01:03:45,750 --> 01:03:47,292 Do you like it here? 739 01:03:47,417 --> 01:03:52,333 Do you know what it is, Antoon? No one here wants something from me. 740 01:03:53,500 --> 01:03:55,875 And that's been really good for me. 741 01:03:56,000 --> 01:04:00,708 That's good, because I've asked to see the CT scans. 742 01:04:00,833 --> 01:04:03,333 And I've already discussed it with the radiologist. 743 01:04:03,458 --> 01:04:08,333 And it appears that there is a cerebral atrophy. 744 01:04:08,458 --> 01:04:12,375 Yes. So keep in mind, Jan... 745 01:04:12,500 --> 01:04:15,917 ...that you really do have Alzheimer's. -You're not serious. 746 01:04:17,167 --> 01:04:19,542 No. I'm not serious. 747 01:04:19,667 --> 01:04:22,792 Oh Lord, you scared me. 748 01:04:22,917 --> 01:04:26,333 Good. That's exactly what I wanted to do. 749 01:04:26,458 --> 01:04:30,000 Now you'll realize what you're doing to us. Gedda, the children and me. 750 01:04:33,167 --> 01:04:34,833 Let's agree to this, Jan. 751 01:04:36,167 --> 01:04:39,458 I'll give you one week to find a solution... 752 01:04:39,583 --> 01:04:42,625 ...to this problem you've created. 753 01:04:42,750 --> 01:04:44,167 Thank you. 754 01:04:45,083 --> 01:04:49,375 This morning I told Gedda that it would be better for your treatment... 755 01:04:49,500 --> 01:04:52,250 ...if she doesn't come visit you in the upcoming week. 756 01:04:52,375 --> 01:04:58,833 Because otherwise, you'd keep wanting to go home, as it were. 757 01:04:58,958 --> 01:05:00,958 Cheers. 758 01:05:07,708 --> 01:05:12,833 But you're not staying here. You're going to think about it away from here. 759 01:05:12,958 --> 01:05:14,000 I understand. 760 01:05:26,292 --> 01:05:29,500 Mrs. Haarman. -Yes? 761 01:05:29,625 --> 01:05:33,208 Are you coming with me? -Where to? 762 01:05:33,292 --> 01:05:35,167 To Kloosteres Street. 763 01:05:35,292 --> 01:05:38,208 To Kloosteres Street? -Yes. 764 01:05:38,333 --> 01:05:42,167 Are you crazy? What's there for me to do in the Kloosteres Street? 765 01:05:55,167 --> 01:05:59,333 I don't even want to think about what would happen if someone found out. 766 01:05:59,458 --> 01:06:01,000 No one will find out. 767 01:06:04,292 --> 01:06:07,875 Are you crazy? No photos. Get out of here. 768 01:06:08,000 --> 01:06:10,000 Thank you, Poorthuis. -Yes, you're welcome. 769 01:06:10,125 --> 01:06:12,417 But I'm never doing this again. 770 01:06:15,917 --> 01:06:19,625 If I don't see you with a coffin, then it is with an urn. 771 01:06:22,417 --> 01:06:25,167 I think we need to talk. 772 01:06:25,792 --> 01:06:27,417 Lovely. 773 01:06:34,708 --> 01:06:38,583 I wanted to make some tea with rum. But I couldn't find any tea. 774 01:06:43,000 --> 01:06:45,125 I'm Julia. -Jan. 775 01:06:45,250 --> 01:06:47,667 Cheers. 776 01:06:49,625 --> 01:06:51,500 Could you stand over there? 777 01:06:56,750 --> 01:06:58,333 Do you live here alone? 778 01:06:59,708 --> 01:07:00,917 Usually, yes. 779 01:07:05,292 --> 01:07:07,042 You know how it is with guys. 780 01:07:07,667 --> 01:07:10,708 At first it's hallelujah and everything is great. 781 01:07:10,833 --> 01:07:12,250 But then they become complacent. 782 01:07:12,750 --> 01:07:16,083 They assume that you'll organize everything for them. Do all the work. 783 01:07:16,208 --> 01:07:20,292 From the clothes that they have to wear, to where we'll go on vacation. 784 01:07:22,125 --> 01:07:23,708 I can't be bothered with all that. 785 01:07:24,708 --> 01:07:27,542 I want a lover, not a child. 786 01:07:30,417 --> 01:07:32,708 What's the matter? Am I whining? 787 01:07:32,833 --> 01:07:35,458 No, not at all. 788 01:07:41,917 --> 01:07:47,375 She was a doctor, cosmologist, visionary, theologian, philosopher... 789 01:07:47,500 --> 01:07:52,042 ...botanist, and as a nun, she wrote about the female orgasm. 790 01:07:52,167 --> 01:07:53,833 That she did. 791 01:07:53,958 --> 01:07:55,792 In the 12th century. 792 01:07:55,917 --> 01:07:59,125 A strong woman. Just like Gedda. 793 01:07:59,250 --> 01:08:00,917 And she composed. 794 01:08:01,042 --> 01:08:04,208 Yes, beautiful music. Arend thought so too. 795 01:08:04,333 --> 01:08:07,583 You must have gotten along quite well with your father-in-law. 796 01:08:07,708 --> 01:08:12,375 I wouldn't say that. I felt sorry for him. 797 01:08:12,500 --> 01:08:14,292 And are you going to scatter his ashes all by yourself? 798 01:08:16,750 --> 01:08:19,208 Don't worry. I'm not coming with you. 799 01:08:21,167 --> 01:08:23,083 It's not like I can bring Gedda. 800 01:08:30,000 --> 01:08:33,875 Are the pictures on there? From hoisting up the coffin? 801 01:08:36,458 --> 01:08:39,625 They were on there. I've already erased them. 802 01:08:44,250 --> 01:08:47,375 I always had to bake pancakes for Liesbeth as well, when she was young. 803 01:08:47,500 --> 01:08:50,667 She still prefers to eat... -Would she have trouble with this? 804 01:08:50,792 --> 01:08:52,875 With scattering the ashes? 805 01:08:53,875 --> 01:08:56,125 No, she's made of different stuff. 806 01:08:58,125 --> 01:08:59,583 Well then. 807 01:09:07,917 --> 01:09:12,833 I've got a delicious rabbit in the freezer. You could have had it tomorrow. 808 01:09:12,958 --> 01:09:14,750 Are you trying to tempt me with a rabbit? 809 01:09:14,875 --> 01:09:18,833 Yes, have you finally caught on? You're a bit slow on the uptake. 810 01:09:18,958 --> 01:09:21,417 Thanks for everything. 811 01:09:21,583 --> 01:09:24,292 Thank you for all that you've done. 812 01:09:44,792 --> 01:09:47,417 Hey, partner. 813 01:10:26,542 --> 01:10:30,167 My husband has cheated on me. 814 01:11:54,833 --> 01:11:56,917 You can wear it one more time. 815 01:12:22,125 --> 01:12:24,042 Yes, I've just bought it. 816 01:12:26,417 --> 01:12:28,250 Nice. 817 01:12:30,458 --> 01:12:34,292 I've had an extensive text from Dad. -From Dad? He still knows how 10 text? 818 01:12:34,417 --> 01:12:36,583 He sure does. 819 01:12:36,708 --> 01:12:40,208 It's for you too, he said. But he was afraid to send it to you. 820 01:12:40,333 --> 01:12:44,250 You once told Dad that Erik goes through your phone messages. Here. 821 01:12:46,167 --> 01:12:49,833 He wants us to go to him. He's in Germany. 822 01:12:49,958 --> 01:12:52,750 Germany? -Yes, Bad Bentheim. 823 01:12:57,833 --> 01:13:00,667 Is there something wrong? Has someone texted you? 824 01:13:00,792 --> 01:13:04,167 No, this is Peter's phone. -Oh, what are you reading then? 825 01:13:05,750 --> 01:13:09,125 The news site. -Oh. 826 01:13:13,375 --> 01:13:16,833 You're going to Germany for two days? -Yes, with Peter. 827 01:13:16,958 --> 01:13:20,000 But why? Where are you going to? 828 01:13:20,125 --> 01:13:23,833 We don't know exactly where yet. We're just going on a trip as brother and sister. 829 01:13:23,958 --> 01:13:26,000 I think it's really strange. Your brother as your alibi. 830 01:13:26,125 --> 01:13:28,792 Alibi for what? -For something I don't want to think about. 831 01:13:28,917 --> 01:13:32,750 What's this I hear, Liesbeth. You're going on a trip with Peter this weekend? 832 01:13:32,875 --> 01:13:34,667 I can't say I agree to this. 833 01:13:34,792 --> 01:13:38,000 Is that an option? -You're much too easy about it. 834 01:13:38,125 --> 01:13:41,083 And why should I make it difficult? 835 01:13:41,208 --> 01:13:43,542 Liesbeth has misunderstood something. 836 01:13:43,667 --> 01:13:47,292 She's in a relationship with Erik and So you have to abide by certain rules. 837 01:13:47,417 --> 01:13:51,667 This just isn't right. You should say where you're going to. 838 01:13:53,000 --> 01:13:56,583 And you should be more interested in what Peter is doing. 839 01:13:59,625 --> 01:14:04,042 Liesbeth, you're throwing that applesauce in the jar like it falls out of a cow's ass. 840 01:14:04,167 --> 01:14:08,375 Now you're licking your fingers. Next you will be touching the applesauce with them. 841 01:14:08,500 --> 01:14:11,667 Let me do it. Or we'll still be here by Christmas. 842 01:14:11,792 --> 01:14:13,750 No, Mrs. Sanderink. Let Liesbeth do it. 843 01:14:13,875 --> 01:14:15,792 A top journalist who knows exactly what she wants... 844 01:14:15,917 --> 01:14:17,917 ...can surely put applesauce in a jar? 845 01:14:18,042 --> 01:14:23,333 Hey kids, don't get married be a little shrewder 846 01:14:23,458 --> 01:14:29,000 you'll only get trapped in the pettiness of another 847 01:14:29,125 --> 01:14:33,667 and that other can go nowhere because of you alone 848 01:14:33,792 --> 01:14:38,917 and the name of this jailer is: 'scared of being on your own' 849 01:14:39,042 --> 01:14:42,083 Where did that come from? 850 01:14:42,208 --> 01:14:43,500 I read it somewhere. 851 01:14:44,500 --> 01:14:49,083 Listen, Erik. I'm going on a trip with my brother. 852 01:14:49,208 --> 01:14:53,375 I can't tell you where we're going. I'll be back the day after tomorrow. 853 01:14:57,917 --> 01:14:58,917 No. 854 01:14:59,458 --> 01:15:00,792 Take it. 855 01:15:01,417 --> 01:15:02,417 No. 856 01:15:03,042 --> 01:15:04,125 Take it. 857 01:15:04,292 --> 01:15:05,125 No. 858 01:15:11,625 --> 01:15:13,458 Why don't you say something? 859 01:15:13,583 --> 01:15:15,625 What? I don't see the problem. 860 01:15:15,750 --> 01:15:18,917 Okay, fine, then you can all just do exactly what you want. 861 01:15:19,042 --> 01:15:23,417 Exactly. That seems like the best idea. -What a fuss. 862 01:15:31,750 --> 01:15:33,833 I still don't get it. 863 01:15:33,958 --> 01:15:37,208 I didn't know you found it so difficult living with Mom. 864 01:15:38,208 --> 01:15:42,583 They're playing nicely. Before you know it, he'll be mounting her. 865 01:15:43,833 --> 01:15:46,375 You don't need to worry about that. 866 01:15:46,500 --> 01:15:49,083 He's castrated. He's impotent. 867 01:15:50,500 --> 01:15:52,625 I can relate to that. 868 01:15:52,750 --> 01:15:54,292 No, you're not impotent. 869 01:15:54,417 --> 01:15:56,458 You're infertile. That's different. 870 01:16:01,958 --> 01:16:03,458 What do you mean by that? 871 01:16:05,333 --> 01:16:09,375 Just... Nothing. Nothing in particular. 872 01:16:10,833 --> 01:16:14,167 I just wanted to say that you aren't impotent. 873 01:16:14,292 --> 01:16:16,167 You said infertile. 874 01:16:18,375 --> 01:16:21,542 You've seen the sperm test, haven't you? 875 01:16:21,667 --> 01:16:22,958 You have too, right? 876 01:16:24,333 --> 01:16:27,792 Ilse showed me something, yes. 877 01:16:27,917 --> 01:16:31,167 But I could see on the computer that she'd photoshopped it. 878 01:16:32,917 --> 01:16:36,708 They can put sperm cells in a centrifuge. 879 01:16:36,833 --> 01:16:40,000 We recently wrote an article about it in the newspaper. 880 01:16:43,375 --> 01:16:46,833 Here, enjoy. 881 01:16:48,083 --> 01:16:50,375 So they really did go then? 882 01:16:50,500 --> 01:16:52,792 Yes, and they wouldn't say where they were going. 883 01:16:52,917 --> 01:16:55,083 And you have no idea where they are? 884 01:16:55,208 --> 01:16:58,625 Very strange. -They'll be fine. Leave them be. 885 01:16:58,750 --> 01:17:01,708 Don't say that we don't know where they are too quickly. 886 01:17:01,833 --> 01:17:05,292 Liesbeth's telephone shows you exactly where she is. 887 01:17:05,417 --> 01:17:08,792 It's family sharing. Share your location. It's quite normal to have it these days. 888 01:17:08,917 --> 01:17:12,417 Wait a minute. Doesn't she have to switch it on too, on her phone? 889 01:17:12,542 --> 01:17:16,000 Yes, I did that for her. -No. 890 01:17:16,125 --> 01:17:18,917 What do you mean, no? If something happens to her, I'll know where she is. 891 01:17:19,042 --> 01:17:21,125 No, you can't do that. That's taking it too far. 892 01:17:21,250 --> 01:17:24,542 What do you mean? It's about helping someone else. 893 01:17:25,333 --> 01:17:28,625 I don't want anything to do with this. 894 01:17:28,750 --> 01:17:30,958 Oh, look. We've got them. 895 01:17:47,917 --> 01:17:52,083 And you, Liesje? I guess it's also not going so well with you either, or is it? 896 01:17:52,208 --> 01:17:53,833 No, it's not great. 897 01:17:53,958 --> 01:17:58,000 If it carries on like this, I'll also be pretending I have dementia in 30 years. 898 01:17:58,083 --> 01:17:59,833 Why did you fall for Erik? 899 01:17:59,958 --> 01:18:05,750 Mark was always cheating on me. And I thought: this one is different. 900 01:18:07,583 --> 01:18:10,667 I was on the train, on the way to the Lorelei. 901 01:18:10,792 --> 01:18:12,417 The Lorelei? 902 01:18:12,542 --> 01:18:15,583 I got off at Bad Bentheim. I thought: perhaps the children will want to join me. 903 01:18:15,708 --> 01:18:17,458 What did you want to do at the Lorelei? 904 01:18:17,583 --> 01:18:19,083 Scatter his ashes. 905 01:18:19,208 --> 01:18:21,000 Look. 906 01:18:21,125 --> 01:18:22,583 What have you got in there? 907 01:18:22,708 --> 01:18:24,667 Your Grandpa is in there. 908 01:18:24,792 --> 01:18:25,917 We buried Grandpa. 909 01:18:26,042 --> 01:18:28,750 Which he absolutely didn't want. -Are his ashes really in there? 910 01:18:28,875 --> 01:18:31,208 So Grandpa isn't in the graveyard? 911 01:18:31,333 --> 01:18:34,583 He was there for one hour and then he went to the crematorium. 912 01:18:34,708 --> 01:18:37,750 This can't get any crazier. Does Mom know about this? 913 01:18:38,875 --> 01:18:40,792 No. 914 01:18:40,917 --> 01:18:43,875 Do you mean to say that Grandma and Mom stand by an empty grave every day? 915 01:18:44,000 --> 01:18:46,292 They should have done what Arend wanted. 916 01:18:46,417 --> 01:18:48,083 Grandpa is dead. How can he want anything? 917 01:18:48,208 --> 01:18:50,500 That doesn't matter. A last request is a last request. 918 01:18:50,625 --> 01:18:53,458 It does matter. Grandma wanted him close to home. 919 01:18:53,583 --> 01:18:55,125 And that's exactly what he didn't want. 920 01:18:55,250 --> 01:18:58,542 You're deceiving your own wife. - I don't agree with you. 921 01:18:58,667 --> 01:19:01,292 That dementia thing was deception. You're right about that. 922 01:19:01,417 --> 01:19:05,333 But I said to your Mom: If you bury him, I'll personally dig him up again. 923 01:19:05,458 --> 01:19:08,375 That's exactly what I did. -What business of yours is my Grandpa? 924 01:19:08,500 --> 01:19:10,917 I'm married to your mother. -That's your own fault. 925 01:19:11,000 --> 01:19:14,833 Peter, calm down now. -I'm taking Grandpa home. 926 01:19:17,708 --> 01:19:20,958 Peter, you're drunk. -Leave me alone. 927 01:19:21,083 --> 01:19:23,042 Get in the car. 928 01:19:24,167 --> 01:19:26,583 Okay. Let's agree to this. 929 01:19:26,708 --> 01:19:29,667 The three of us will put Grandpa's urn in the grave. 930 01:19:29,792 --> 01:19:33,000 Then he's in there when someone visits him and he has also been cremated. 931 01:19:33,125 --> 01:19:35,333 But Grandpa wanted to be as far away as possible. 932 01:19:35,458 --> 01:19:38,250 His ashes scattered at the Lorelei and taken away by the Rhine. 933 01:19:38,375 --> 01:19:41,458 You always did know how to exaggerate. -I'm not exaggerating. 934 01:19:41,583 --> 01:19:42,875 Then I'll put him in the grave myself. 935 01:19:43,000 --> 01:19:47,042 Can't you understand: a person is also allowed to want something. 936 01:19:47,167 --> 01:19:50,833 That's what Grandpa should have done while he was alive. Just like you. 937 01:19:50,958 --> 01:19:52,875 You're even more impotent than I am. 938 01:19:53,000 --> 01:19:57,250 Always trying to outsmart Mom and to run away. 939 01:19:57,375 --> 01:19:58,625 That's what you're good at. 940 01:19:58,750 --> 01:20:00,958 You're married to Ilse, you got lucky. 941 01:20:01,083 --> 01:20:05,000 That's ridiculous. If you can't find a nice partner, don't get married. 942 01:20:05,125 --> 01:20:06,708 Whoa, just a minute. 943 01:20:06,833 --> 01:20:10,625 For the love of God, you married Mom. What did you expect? 944 01:20:14,667 --> 01:20:17,333 Here. This is where you two belong. 945 01:20:17,458 --> 01:20:22,583 With the donkeys. Look at that. You're both as stupid as these donkeys. 946 01:20:23,667 --> 01:20:25,667 No, no. -They can leave just like that. 947 01:20:25,792 --> 01:20:29,208 As free as can be. Yet the stupid lumps still stay where they are. 948 01:20:29,333 --> 01:20:34,792 Leave them alone. -Go on, stupid beasts, outside. Be free. 949 01:20:34,917 --> 01:20:36,667 We'll get into trouble for this. 950 01:20:36,792 --> 01:20:41,917 What are you gawping at? Now you're scared again, aren't you? 951 01:20:42,042 --> 01:20:46,292 You've sat on your ass for 35 years just staring dumbly around you. 952 01:20:46,417 --> 01:20:48,875 Mom never took your freedom away. 953 01:20:49,000 --> 01:20:51,375 You never had any freedom in you in the first place. 954 01:20:56,458 --> 01:20:58,958 Let him go. Everything is going wrong anyway. 955 01:20:59,083 --> 01:21:02,125 Peter... -Go on. 956 01:21:26,917 --> 01:21:30,042 What now, Dad? Do you now know what you want? 957 01:21:30,625 --> 01:21:32,000 With Mom and all? 958 01:21:32,583 --> 01:21:35,250 I still don't know what I want. 959 01:21:35,375 --> 01:21:38,042 I would say: ask your Mom. 960 01:21:38,167 --> 01:21:40,000 But I do know what I don't want. 961 01:21:40,125 --> 01:21:43,167 To follow in Grandpa's footsteps. -Right. 962 01:21:43,292 --> 01:21:46,833 Arend should have done what he wanted to do much earlier. 963 01:21:46,958 --> 01:21:50,333 Do you know what he really wanted? -A cremation and his ashes at the Lorelei. 964 01:21:51,792 --> 01:21:53,500 No, before that. 965 01:21:54,458 --> 01:21:58,042 He wanted to walk to the real legs of Saint Hildegard. 966 01:21:58,167 --> 01:22:00,875 To the what? -He really does have dementia. 967 01:22:02,708 --> 01:22:07,500 And that's what I'm going to do. I'm going to finish what Arend started. 968 01:22:08,750 --> 01:22:11,917 I'm going to walk to the real legs of Saint Hildegard. 969 01:22:13,458 --> 01:22:16,417 I think that Dad has been hit on the head by a windmill. 970 01:22:17,292 --> 01:22:19,500 I'd have liked to have explained it to you, but the taxi's here. 971 01:22:19,625 --> 01:22:20,917 Taxi? 972 01:22:26,083 --> 01:22:29,042 It can't get any crazier than this. 973 01:22:30,250 --> 01:22:31,792 One German and one Dutch. 974 01:22:31,917 --> 01:22:34,125 That's what you get close to the border. 975 01:22:34,250 --> 01:22:36,333 I'll take the blame. -Are you nuts? 976 01:22:36,458 --> 01:22:38,292 You caused this mess, that's true, but... 977 01:22:38,417 --> 01:22:40,458 ... I have dementia. They'll let me go. 978 01:22:40,583 --> 01:22:44,500 Just get out of here with Grandpa. Otherwise we'll be in even more trouble. 979 01:22:44,625 --> 01:22:48,208 But don't do anything silly with Grandpa. I've weighed him. 980 01:23:06,375 --> 01:23:08,000 You stole those donkeys. 981 01:23:08,125 --> 01:23:10,458 I didn't steal them, I set them free. 982 01:23:10,583 --> 01:23:12,750 So you're their savior? 983 01:23:12,875 --> 01:23:14,708 I'm the great donkey savior, yes. 984 01:23:14,833 --> 01:23:18,042 And the Good Lord summoned me to free all the donkeys in the world. 985 01:23:19,958 --> 01:23:22,875 Oh yes, and I also have to visit the real legs of Saint Hildegard. 986 01:23:23,000 --> 01:23:25,792 Yeah, right. 987 01:23:30,542 --> 01:23:32,750 Wait here, please. 988 01:23:40,500 --> 01:23:42,792 I am so angry. 989 01:23:45,000 --> 01:23:48,208 How are things here? Is there a donkey savior here, too? 990 01:23:48,333 --> 01:23:51,625 My father can't help it. He's got Alzheimer's. 991 01:23:51,750 --> 01:23:55,542 Alzheimer's? -He's in a nursing home in Almelo. 992 01:23:55,667 --> 01:24:00,292 Name and number of the nursing home and the doctor who's responsible there. 993 01:24:03,000 --> 01:24:04,583 Could you come with me, please? 994 01:24:06,208 --> 01:24:07,625 Hello. 995 01:24:08,833 --> 01:24:10,042 Hello. 996 01:24:16,375 --> 01:24:19,583 I've been thinking about it... 997 01:24:19,708 --> 01:24:23,583 ...and I do want to stay with you, but a couple of things have to change. 998 01:24:23,708 --> 01:24:26,000 How many things are we talking about? 999 01:24:33,750 --> 01:24:37,000 When we're getting intimate, total focus - tidy up - keys in the key drawer 1000 01:24:37,125 --> 01:24:38,167 53. 1001 01:24:38,833 --> 01:24:41,125 Yeah, right. 1002 01:24:41,208 --> 01:24:43,292 It's thanks to your husband that we found you. 1003 01:24:43,417 --> 01:24:44,917 Before something terrible happened. 1004 01:24:45,042 --> 01:24:46,917 Those donkeys could have gotten onto the railway tracks. 1005 01:24:47,042 --> 01:24:48,167 He had no idea where we were. 1006 01:24:48,292 --> 01:24:51,167 Can we go now? Will that be all? 1007 01:24:51,292 --> 01:24:53,917 Yes, if you'll just sign here. 1008 01:24:55,542 --> 01:24:58,167 What did you mean by: he found us? 1009 01:24:58,292 --> 01:25:03,083 Your husband is pretty good with certain modern technical gadgets. 1010 01:25:03,750 --> 01:25:05,917 [ Don't understand. 1011 01:25:06,042 --> 01:25:07,625 Your telephone sends out coordinates. 1012 01:25:07,750 --> 01:25:11,333 If you had told me where you were going, I wouldn't have had to do this. 1013 01:25:11,417 --> 01:25:13,208 Do you mean to say you spied on me? 1014 01:25:13,333 --> 01:25:15,458 No, I just wanted you to be safe. 1015 01:25:15,583 --> 01:25:18,333 Oh my God, I live with the KGB. 1016 01:25:18,458 --> 01:25:20,792 Just calm down, will you. -No, you should calm down. 1017 01:25:20,917 --> 01:25:23,375 Calm down. First let's make sure that you can go home. 1018 01:25:23,500 --> 01:25:26,250 And then we'll talk some more, like civilized people. 1019 01:25:28,083 --> 01:25:30,000 There's nothing else to talk about. 1020 01:25:32,417 --> 01:25:35,292 In a good relationship, you agree on... -Shut up. 1021 01:25:35,375 --> 01:25:37,958 You can't just walk off like that. -You can be quiet, too. 1022 01:25:38,083 --> 01:25:42,667 Either leave me alone or arrest me right now. 1023 01:25:42,792 --> 01:25:44,792 Arrest her. 1024 01:25:45,625 --> 01:25:48,833 Where are you going? -Just check the coordinates. 1025 01:25:50,125 --> 01:25:52,542 I've never heard such a strange story. 1026 01:25:52,667 --> 01:25:56,000 So that vet pretends to have dementia so that he can get away from his wife? 1027 01:25:56,125 --> 01:25:58,917 And I'm supposed to believe that? 1028 01:25:59,042 --> 01:26:02,458 Great nursing home you have in Almelo. You could get into trouble for this. 1029 01:26:08,250 --> 01:26:10,875 But thanks for the information, doctor. 1030 01:26:14,542 --> 01:26:18,917 I've spoken to the Krönnenzommer in Hellendoorn. We're taking you back. 1031 01:26:19,042 --> 01:26:22,250 Krönnenzommer in Hellendoorn? I'm in the Jan Janshuis in Almelo. 1032 01:26:22,417 --> 01:26:25,750 Oh? How is that possible? That you suddenly know where you live? 1033 01:26:28,417 --> 01:26:32,958 It's unbelievable that you used the nursing home to get away from your wife. 1034 01:27:21,542 --> 01:27:23,708 Yeah, I... -Never mind. 1035 01:27:25,667 --> 01:27:27,833 I don't want to know. 1036 01:27:42,875 --> 01:27:45,292 Have I really made your father so desperate? 1037 01:27:45,417 --> 01:27:48,250 He's also a wimp, let's be honest. 1038 01:27:49,875 --> 01:27:52,708 There I am with my "Magna cum laude'. 1039 01:27:54,417 --> 01:27:56,000 What should we do with Grandpa? 1040 01:27:56,167 --> 01:27:58,167 With Grandpa? 1041 01:27:58,292 --> 01:28:01,625 Shall we put him back in the grave today? Together? 1042 01:28:03,000 --> 01:28:05,583 Scatter his ashes, for all I care. At the Lorelei. 1043 01:28:05,708 --> 01:28:07,625 Just a minute, you can't be serious. 1044 01:28:07,750 --> 01:28:09,458 I am serious. 1045 01:28:10,917 --> 01:28:14,333 That is what my father wanted. -Wouldn't that be deceiving Grandma? 1046 01:28:15,292 --> 01:28:18,792 My mother solemnly promised to cremate my father... 1047 01:28:18,917 --> 01:28:22,125 ...and scatter his ashes at the Lorelei. And she didn't do that. 1048 01:28:23,375 --> 01:28:25,375 So who's deceiving who? 1049 01:28:31,083 --> 01:28:33,375 Ilse is back. 1050 01:28:36,000 --> 01:28:41,167 Peter. Look. Isn't that lovely? -Lovely. 1051 01:28:41,292 --> 01:28:43,958 Lovely, isn't it? -What is it? 1052 01:28:44,083 --> 01:28:48,625 A photo of the ultrasound. We're having a little baby. 1053 01:28:48,750 --> 01:28:51,750 You're expecting? -Yes. 1054 01:28:51,875 --> 01:28:55,958 Ilse, that's wonderful. Mom's here too. 1055 01:28:57,833 --> 01:29:00,708 Mom. You're going to be a Grandma. 1056 01:29:02,125 --> 01:29:06,708 Oh, boy oh boy. Oh, Ilse. 1057 01:29:16,958 --> 01:29:18,583 And how are you? 1058 01:29:21,417 --> 01:29:23,250 You no longer have a son-in-law. 1059 01:29:23,375 --> 01:29:26,208 Have you ditched the stickler? 1060 01:29:26,333 --> 01:29:28,917 Erik and I have split up. 1061 01:29:30,250 --> 01:29:33,250 "The nest fell out of the tree? -Yeah. 1062 01:29:38,083 --> 01:29:41,292 Every time I come here, Ilse is out gallivanting. 1063 01:29:42,417 --> 01:29:44,250 So? 1064 01:29:44,333 --> 01:29:46,000 You don't think... 1065 01:29:49,833 --> 01:29:53,542 Ilse belongs with me. Mom, listen. 1066 01:29:53,667 --> 01:29:57,708 For the rest of my life, I'm either the sucker whose wife cheated on him... 1067 01:29:57,833 --> 01:30:00,625 ...or I can be a happy dad. 1068 01:30:00,750 --> 01:30:03,000 Ilse found a way. 1069 01:30:04,125 --> 01:30:06,750 And if I were you, I'd take a page out of my book. 1070 01:30:40,958 --> 01:30:43,583 I can't help it. 1071 01:30:43,708 --> 01:30:46,333 When I hear this song, I always have to cry. 1072 01:30:49,458 --> 01:30:53,000 Oh, God, now he's starting to talk as well. 1073 01:31:38,417 --> 01:31:39,792 Hi, Gedda. 1074 01:31:42,917 --> 01:31:44,583 You're back home? 1075 01:31:49,417 --> 01:31:50,625 I'm sorry. 1076 01:31:51,875 --> 01:31:53,625 I'm sorry too. 1077 01:31:55,583 --> 01:31:56,750 And what now? 1078 01:31:57,375 --> 01:32:00,208 I'm going to get Arend's donkey in a bit. 1079 01:32:01,875 --> 01:32:04,875 Are you going to the real legs of Saint Hildegard? 1080 01:32:06,000 --> 01:32:07,917 I'm going to the bones of Hildegard. 1081 01:32:10,292 --> 01:32:12,667 There's no point, but it makes sense, right? 1082 01:32:12,792 --> 01:32:14,167 Yes. 1083 01:32:14,292 --> 01:32:17,000 Will you light a candle for us? 1084 01:32:18,833 --> 01:32:21,250 Thank you for saying that. 1085 01:32:22,375 --> 01:32:24,167 Before I forget. 1086 01:32:25,208 --> 01:32:29,542 Here's your bank card. -Thank you. 1087 01:32:31,292 --> 01:32:33,708 Can I help you pack? -No, that's not necessary. 1088 01:32:33,833 --> 01:32:36,792 So you don't forget to take anything? -No. 1089 01:32:36,917 --> 01:32:42,292 Can't I help you with anything? So you don't think later... 1090 01:32:44,750 --> 01:32:49,375 I think it's really nice that you are doing what my father would have wanted. 1091 01:32:52,250 --> 01:32:56,458 Are you drinking that disgusting slop again? I'll make you a nice coffee. 1092 01:33:06,333 --> 01:33:09,250 Gedda... 1093 01:33:10,333 --> 01:33:12,292 ...listen to me. 1094 01:33:14,667 --> 01:33:18,208 I was reduced to nothing and you saved me. 1095 01:33:18,333 --> 01:33:20,625 You helped me get back on track... 1096 01:33:20,750 --> 01:33:23,542 ...but that was 35 years ago. 1097 01:33:24,542 --> 01:33:27,250 You don't need to save me anymore 1098 01:33:27,417 --> 01:33:30,458 Once the engine is running, you shouldn't keep turning the starter. 1099 01:33:30,583 --> 01:33:32,917 Or everything will get clogged up. 1100 01:33:33,042 --> 01:33:35,000 The bendix catches onto the flywheel. 1101 01:33:35,125 --> 01:33:37,042 And then the starter breaks. 1102 01:33:38,958 --> 01:33:40,000 That's far too technical for me. 1103 01:33:42,250 --> 01:33:43,833 Let's put it this way: 1104 01:33:43,958 --> 01:33:48,042 There isn't a man in the world who loves his wife as much as I love you. 1105 01:33:48,167 --> 01:33:49,542 Yes, and there isn't 2 woman who loves... 1106 01:33:49,667 --> 01:33:54,333 Yes, and there isn't a woman who loves... Yes, of course. 1107 01:33:54,458 --> 01:33:58,042 But you can also have too much of a good thing. 1108 01:33:58,833 --> 01:34:04,000 If you put two blocks of firewood firmly on top of one another, the fire goes out. 1109 01:34:04,125 --> 01:34:09,667 But if you lay them loosely, partly touching and partly apart... 1110 01:34:10,667 --> 01:34:13,583 ...then they will burn like greased lightning. 1111 01:34:13,708 --> 01:34:17,500 There's nothing I would like more, when I return from Saint Hildegard... 1112 01:34:17,625 --> 01:34:20,042 ...than to come back to you. 1113 01:34:20,167 --> 01:34:23,417 And to grow old and grey together. 1114 01:34:23,542 --> 01:34:26,167 But please, my love: 1115 01:34:27,208 --> 01:34:29,625 Let me breathe. 1116 01:34:34,333 --> 01:34:37,125 And now you have to say something. 1117 01:34:37,250 --> 01:34:39,542 Something short, something sweet. 1118 01:34:44,042 --> 01:34:47,792 Perhaps, we could have had something great together... 1119 01:34:51,208 --> 01:34:53,458 ...but you broke something, Jan. 1120 01:34:59,875 --> 01:35:01,583 Something has snapped in me. 1121 01:35:03,375 --> 01:35:07,792 And to now say: you have to say something sweet, something lovely... 1122 01:35:10,083 --> 01:35:12,958 That's not a solution, Jan. 1123 01:35:13,083 --> 01:35:16,542 And I get it. I really do. 1124 01:35:16,667 --> 01:35:20,833 You used to be happy with me. But what made you happy before, now stifles you. 1125 01:35:22,583 --> 01:35:24,250 But what you want from me, that's not who I am... 1126 01:35:24,375 --> 01:35:26,917 ...have ever been, or ever will be. 1127 01:35:28,750 --> 01:35:33,000 Growing old and grey together for me is: on or off. 1128 01:35:33,125 --> 01:35:35,625 And if it's on, it's this. 1129 01:35:35,750 --> 01:35:37,792 And if it's off, there's nothing. 1130 01:35:40,708 --> 01:35:43,208 No pianissimo. 1131 01:35:43,333 --> 01:35:46,167 I don't have that button. 1132 01:35:47,667 --> 01:35:49,750 I'm sorry, Jan. 1133 01:36:18,292 --> 01:36:19,917 Good morning. 1134 01:37:32,250 --> 01:37:33,750 Arend. 1135 01:38:57,708 --> 01:38:59,333 Ma...