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["Without You" by Anthony Blake playing]
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♪ It's so hard knowing that ♪
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♪ No, girl, I am never getting over you… ♪
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[Mark] Congratulations
on making your selections.
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Today is your first date,
and today is gonna be a group date.
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-Oh, wow!
-[all laugh]
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[man 1] Boys, get it!
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Use this time on your date
to really open up
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and embrace this journey that you're on.
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You came here
to get answers to your questions,
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and you owe it to yourself
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to be open to everything
that Temptation Island has to offer.
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Can't wait to hear how it goes.
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-[man 2] All right.
-Thank you, Mark.
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-Woo.
-Mahalo.
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[upbeat music playing]
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I really need to get out of my head
and just be able to enjoy the process
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and not think about
what's going on on Grant's end of things.
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-[Logan] I think it makes it more fun.
-[Ashley] I know. What's a little drama?
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[mellow music playing]
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[blaring]
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["One of a Kind" by Bev Niven playing]
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[fire roaring]
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♪ There's nobody in this world like me ♪
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♪ Making little kisses
Like one, two, three ♪
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♪ Yeah, you know
I'm 'bout to steal the show ♪
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♪ Ooh, yeah… ♪
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To the first dates
here on the island, man.
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-Let's make it a good one.
-[clink]
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-Here we go. Cheers to that.
-[Hashim] Cheers. Aloha! Cheers. Aloha!
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[music continues]
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-[Courtney] First time on a boat?
-[Tyler] On the ocean. First time ever.
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Let's go.
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♪ There's nobody in this world like me… ♪
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First date. First time being on a boat.
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[Courtney] Found it.
Go back. Go. [laughing]
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So this is a lot of firsts for me.
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♪ Steal the show ♪
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♪ Ooh, yeah ♪
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We're just going with the flow. [laughs]
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♪ On me… ♪
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-[man 1] A mai tai.
-[man 2] Cheers.
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-Cheers.
-Cheers to a good time.
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[Natalie] Best first date ever.
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-With the best boys.
-[laughs] Yeah.
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-Cheers.
-Thanks for being my date.
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Thanks for inviting me, honestly.
I was hoping that you were gonna ask me.
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What'd you think
when I put my wristband on you?
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-Uh, I don't know. You were hot.
-[laughs] Done.
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What are you most excited for for the day?
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[Grant] Jumping in the water
and seeing 30-foot stingrays.
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-[Olivia S laughs]
-[Grant] That's crazy.
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I mean, hanging out with you is cool too.
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Duh. And the mai tais. [laughs]
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-[glasses clink]
-To new relationships.
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-Friendships. [giggles]
-Relationships.
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It's great to do a beautiful thing,
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and have a beautiful experience
with a beautiful person next to you.
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And Amiah, to me, is
a little bit more outgoing than Shante is.
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That's what I want Shante to have
that little side of what Amiah has,
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which is let go and have fun
and just be one with the ocean.
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♪ We're watching the sunrise
'Cause we're partying all night ♪
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♪ Not here for a long time ♪
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♪ We're here for a good time, baby… ♪
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Aight. Me and Shante got it off.
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-Good job! Aww!
-We really actually won. [laughs]
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I was hoping I wouldn't be
the only one who missed, but I was.
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-Were you excited to come on a date?
-Oh, yeah, of course.
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I was like, "Please, please, please."
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-[Alexa] Really?
-Yeah.
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-"Please."
-[Quentin] "She hasn't looked at me yet."
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-I'm like--
-I was trying not to look at you. [laughs]
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-[Quentin] You were? [laughs]
-Trying to make it difficult for you.
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Obviously, like,
my heart is still with Lino,
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but I will say it's nice.
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Quentin has this sweet gentleness,
like, a very safe feeling.
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He's a good guy.
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I appreciate you being there for me, and…
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[ice cubes clinking]
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-It's only been, like, 24 hours. [laughs]
-Right? [laughs]
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[mellow music playing]
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-Thank you.
-[Logan] All right, Miss Ash.
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-I'm having a blast.
-Good! I am too.
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I wanted to take you out today
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because I definitely want to see
what's underneath the beautiful face.
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[both laugh]
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-I love the tattoos, the dark features.
-Hmm.
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You're a bit of a mystery,
which I like too. [laughs]
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Yeah, honestly,
you check all the boxes for me as well.
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-[Tayler] Well, thank you.
-So you saying that means a lot to me.
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What are your top qualities
that you're looking for?
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Honestly, like, communication is huge.
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I'm glad you said that.
I feel like communication is
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the number one foundation
of a relationship.
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That's something
that Tyler and I didn't necessarily do.
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Yeah. Honestly, that's just how I've lived
a lot of the stuff I do now.
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Before, I used to--
I'm still shy, obviously.
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Like, it was hard for me to talk to you.
But I'm secure in how I feel about stuff.
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I'm a confident guy. I don't get jealous.
"You don't do this and that."
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'Cause, like, I kinda know my worth
and what I can provide to a relationship.
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-I'm a very stable person.
-That's so attractive.
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-[laughs]
-I definitely wanna get to know you more.
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-I'm intrigued.
-Yeah.
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Like, there's no way that you could
just kind of check this many boxes.
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-[Chris laughs]
-I mean, I'm not seeing any flaws.
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-[laughs] Hence, you know…
-Dude. Man. Mm-mm-mm.
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-Yeah.
-Trouble.
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-Yeah.
-[both laugh]
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["Find Your Love" by Ron A.P. plays]
♪ One time for that love we bout to find ♪
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♪ Two times for that hating left behind ♪
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-[Olivia S] Oh!
-[Grant] Hey!
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-Holy shit.
-This is crazy.
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This is actually insane. [chuckles]
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Okay, maybe I will drink a little bit
so it doesn't spill. [laughs]
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I love a good first experience
with someone.
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I'm very happy to be the first girl
he's on a boat with. [laughing]
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Like, come on,
he's never gonna forget me now.
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[shouts] Whoa! Wow! [laughs]
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I just jumped. I literally just jumped.
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[upbeat music playing]
♪ 'Cause I know what… ♪
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[Ashley] What are your thoughts of,
like, being Mr. Steal Your Girl?
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People are much more apt to run away
from something that's hurting them
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than to go to something
just 'cause it might be better.
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This morning was a lot,
so it's nice to have a big distraction.
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Logan is everything I needed tonight.
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Nothing serious, nothing crazy.
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I feel like I can breathe,
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and it's just a good feeling
to finally feel a little settled here.
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["I Am (Yo Yo Soy)"
by Tie Die Sky playing]
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This morning was really,
really tough for me,
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but, like, now that I'm here
on the boat with Olivia,
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it's flowing easier
than I think it would've
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if I didn't, uh, have that experience
earlier in the day with Ashley.
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But I can't tell whether I'm feeling
better or distracted right now.
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Honestly, uh, it's…
It's really hard to tell.
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♪ I am, I am the best you ever had ♪
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♪ I am, I am the one you want alone ♪
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♪ I am the fire phial when it's dark ♪
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♪ I light up like a spark ♪
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♪ I am, I am the color when it's gray… ♪
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[Grant] I'm trying to trust my heart…
[chuckles] I guess.
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I'm still navigating this.
This is only day two.
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♪ Ooh, I am, I'm so fine ♪
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♪ Will you
Will you say my name, name, name, name ♪
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♪ More at the end again? ♪
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[blaring]
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♪ Hey, baby, que pasa?
Let me take you to the streets, baby ♪
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♪ Hey, baby, que pasa?
All day dancing in the streets with you ♪
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♪ Yeah… ♪
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[Alexa] With Quentin,
he has kind of shown me, like,
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a different side
of how guys can respond to my emotions.
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Not just try to fix it
but to, like, be there for me.
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♪ Ooh, la, la, la
Got me dancing in the streets ♪
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♪ Ooh, la, la, la
Ay, can you feel the heat? ♪
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Going on a date with someone
that is not my boyfriend is pretty weird,
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but I think
the date with Hashim is going well.
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I do really respect the fact that
he's being respectful of my situation.
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It's really cool.
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["I Am (Yo Yo Soy)" continues]
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[Shante] Okay.
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["Real" by Illa Noize playing]
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♪ Seen a lot of women in my lifetime ♪
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♪ But there's something about you
And your bright eyes ♪
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♪ 'Cause I feel like you make time stop ♪
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♪ Yeah, my heartbeat speeds
And your walls won't drop, no… ♪
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How to Get a Man 101 with Kay,
lesson number one.
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-[funky pop music plays]
-[Kay] Pop the champagne.
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Put a couple bows in my hair.
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-[music halts]
-It works.
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[pop music playing]
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-[Reba] Welcome home!
-[women] Hi!
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-Hi!
-Welcome home!
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-[Lino] Aw. Look at this!
-Fellas, get a drink.
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-Champagne for you.
-[Grant] Wow! Look at that.
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-[man 1] Oh, thank you.
-Hi. I'm Kay. Nice to meet you.
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-You guys look awesome.
-[Kay] Say bye to your girlfriends.
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RIP to them.
Hope you enjoyed your last day together.
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-How are you guys?
-Hi. I'm Melissa.
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-[Brion] Brion. Nice to meet you.
-What a welcome.
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-I hope they had fun. But the real party?
-Yeah. Right.
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Like, that was just the pregame.
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♪ Yeah, you can't do it, do it like me… ♪
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[Mia] Girls, go sit down.
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-Take a shower. I got it.
-Yeah, get cleaned up. Take your time.
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We will be here tending to…
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[both] Our men.
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♪ No, you can't do like this… ♪
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The night is young,
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so cheers to being tempted
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at the lingerie slay.
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-[upbeat music playing]
-[all celebrate] Cheers!
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[all] Cheers, guys.
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[awkwardly] Apprehensive cheers.
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-You're giving naughty. I'm giving nice.
-Nice.
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[Alexa] Why are you apprehensive?
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I just came back from a date.
They're trying to steal your heat.
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[exhales forcefully]
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Out of nowhere,
we get hit with all the girls in lingerie.
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I'm really excited to get to know them,
but resisting temptation,
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it's not something I'm new to.
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You gotta stay strong.
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You can only get strawberries
from one person's mouth to another.
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-Oh.
-Oh.
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-Oh.
-Okay.
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This is my cue. [chuckles]
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No judgment. Just not my vibe.
Not my vibe.
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So I'm glad that I went on the date
and it wasn't me in lingerie.
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You can only take a shot
if you lick it off somebody's body.
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-Catch you later.
-[laughs]
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[Natalie] I'm just here to have fun.
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All of them are really cool,
and all of them seem personable.
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Like, I get to know Lino tonight
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and see where
the rest of the experience takes me.
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Whether that's with him
or with someone else.
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Let's have fun.
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-I need a good sober night tonight.
-You need a good--
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-[both laugh loudly]
-You're like, "I'm feeling sober."
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[Tyler] I wanna have fun
'cause they have been waiting for us.
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I am trying to pace myself,
but, you know, it's a lot to take in.
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I'm ready to lick something. [chuckles]
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-I'm down. Are you down? [laughs]
-I don't know what I'm down for.
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[upbeat Latinx music playing]
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♪ Viviendo la vida, sí
We livin' this life… ♪
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[Tayler] Oh my gosh.
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-[Alexa] Home sweet home.
-[Hashim] What's up, everybody?
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Man, it was an emptier house
without the boys.
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-[Hashim] Missed y'all.
-Ladies, how y'all doing?
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-Giovanni. Nice to meet you.
-[Tayler] Nice to meet you.
229
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Little bit of a tough day today.
You know, no date.
230
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But my friends got rejected too,
so can't be too sad. We're in it together.
231
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-Alexa, I'm Dan.
-Hi.
232
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-Hi.
-[Dan] Hello.
233
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-How are you guys?
-[Danny] Guys, what up?
234
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-How was the day?
-[Logan] It was a great time.
235
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-[Danny] Danny. Nice to meet you.
-[Alexa] Again.
236
00:10:44,560 --> 00:10:47,521
[Danny] It's honestly kind of embarrassing
because I'm sitting there,
237
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and Hashim gets picked,
so I'm like, "Oh, okay."
238
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Everyone's around you.
239
00:10:51,067 --> 00:10:53,444
You're standing right in front of me,
I'm like, "Oh."
240
00:10:53,527 --> 00:10:55,279
[Ashley] Maybe I'll keep going
back and forth
241
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and make you guys duel at the end.
242
00:10:56,864 --> 00:10:59,075
-[Danny] That's fine.
-Besties for real. [laughs]
243
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-[chuckles] I'm down.
-You choose each other at the end.
244
00:11:01,661 --> 00:11:04,580
We're kinda like her sugar babies.
245
00:11:04,664 --> 00:11:06,707
-You know, so we're kind of--
-She's a little cougar.
246
00:11:06,791 --> 00:11:08,876
Let's say what it is.
A little cougar action in there.
247
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She's a little cougar.
248
00:11:10,002 --> 00:11:14,465
Coming for the cubs here. 22, 22.
Youngest… Youngest cats here.
249
00:11:14,548 --> 00:11:17,968
-And just some killers, just some studs.
-Yeah.
250
00:11:18,052 --> 00:11:18,969
Who could blame her?
251
00:11:19,762 --> 00:11:22,264
[Dan] What was the highlight
of the whole afternoon?
252
00:11:22,848 --> 00:11:24,016
Um…
253
00:11:24,517 --> 00:11:28,479
-[Tayler] When we were dancing on stage.
-Yeah. The date was fun.
254
00:11:28,562 --> 00:11:30,523
[Dan] So was there
ever a thought in your mind,
255
00:11:30,606 --> 00:11:32,566
"What is my boyfriend doing right now?"
256
00:11:32,650 --> 00:11:33,943
-Um…
-Uh…
257
00:11:34,026 --> 00:11:35,569
At the end because I was like,
258
00:11:35,653 --> 00:11:37,738
"If they planned
this most beautiful date for us,
259
00:11:37,822 --> 00:11:39,407
like, what did they plan for the guys?"
260
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Yeah.
261
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-[pop music playing]
-[women chanting] Do it! Do it! Do it!
262
00:11:45,121 --> 00:11:47,873
-[women screaming excitedly]
-Oh! [laughs]
263
00:11:47,957 --> 00:11:51,460
-[woman 1] Woo!
-[women scream excitedly]
264
00:11:51,544 --> 00:11:54,922
During tonight's party,
I'm going to entertain
265
00:11:55,715 --> 00:11:57,550
both Tyler and Brion
266
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to keep my options open. [laughs]
267
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[can hissing]
268
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Holy shit.
269
00:12:05,099 --> 00:12:08,686
-Oh! Woo.
-[women] Oh!
270
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Whoever takes the bait first,
271
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that's where I'll go.
272
00:12:13,816 --> 00:12:15,693
I don't know. It's a toss-up.
273
00:12:15,776 --> 00:12:17,903
-By the way, I enjoyed our day today.
-Oh, I did too.
274
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It was a great day today.
275
00:12:19,780 --> 00:12:22,408
[women chanting] Do it! Do it! Do it!
276
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-[woman 1] Oh!
-[Grant] There you go.
277
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Wow.
278
00:12:26,454 --> 00:12:28,873
Holy shit. [laughs]
279
00:12:29,874 --> 00:12:31,375
[Brion] I'm trying to have fun
280
00:12:31,459 --> 00:12:34,128
but don't cross any boundaries
and keep it respectful,
281
00:12:34,211 --> 00:12:37,131
but if this is day two…
282
00:12:37,214 --> 00:12:39,425
-♪ I'm a savage… ♪
-[all cheering]
283
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-[music halts]
-[woman] Oh!
284
00:12:41,343 --> 00:12:42,511
Oh my God.
285
00:12:42,595 --> 00:12:43,846
[music resumes]
286
00:12:43,929 --> 00:12:46,056
-[all cheering]
-♪ Who can stand me, who can stand me? ♪
287
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♪ I'm a savage… ♪
288
00:12:47,308 --> 00:12:48,893
She's taking it nice and slow.
289
00:12:49,602 --> 00:12:51,729
-[woman 1 giggles]
-Jesus Christ.
290
00:12:51,812 --> 00:12:54,565
-[laughs] He said, "Jesus Christ."
-♪ I will make no apology… ♪
291
00:12:55,149 --> 00:12:56,525
Yeah…
292
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-[woman 2] Oh, not the lick!
-I appreciate you.
293
00:12:59,862 --> 00:13:01,530
-[laughing]
-[women laugh]
294
00:13:01,614 --> 00:13:04,909
Let's make these guys fall
for one of us tonight.
295
00:13:04,992 --> 00:13:06,118
Oh Lord.
296
00:13:06,202 --> 00:13:07,620
-[laughing]
-[exclaims]
297
00:13:08,746 --> 00:13:10,998
[Yamen] So right now,
y'all live in Austin.
298
00:13:11,081 --> 00:13:13,000
-What's next? Yeah.
-What's next?
299
00:13:14,251 --> 00:13:16,295
Well, I actually applied…
300
00:13:16,378 --> 00:13:19,882
Before I came here,
I applied for school to get my master's.
301
00:13:19,965 --> 00:13:21,967
-[Yamen] In nursing?
-Nurse practitioner.
302
00:13:22,051 --> 00:13:23,135
So I can have my own clinic.
303
00:13:23,219 --> 00:13:25,304
I wanna have my own business
and run my own place.
304
00:13:25,888 --> 00:13:28,724
I wanna be my own boss.
I've always wanted to.
305
00:13:28,808 --> 00:13:31,811
-[Yamen] How old are you?
-I'm 28. I'm turning 29 this year.
306
00:13:31,894 --> 00:13:33,562
-[Yamen] When's your birthday?
-July.
307
00:13:34,104 --> 00:13:37,316
-Cancer?
-Yeah, the emotional one. [inhales]
308
00:13:37,399 --> 00:13:39,860
-[Yamen] Yeah.
-This is why this is really hard for me.
309
00:13:39,944 --> 00:13:42,446
-[laughs]
-[women cheering]
310
00:13:42,530 --> 00:13:45,241
[women] Ooh! Ooh!
311
00:13:46,534 --> 00:13:48,619
The whipped cream,
that's a dangerous tool.
312
00:13:48,702 --> 00:13:50,871
Natalie definitely knows
what she's working with,
313
00:13:50,955 --> 00:13:54,041
but it's gonna take more
than a little lingerie and whipped cream
314
00:13:54,124 --> 00:13:55,918
to get me to make a mistake.
315
00:13:56,001 --> 00:13:57,294
[Alex laughs]
316
00:13:59,922 --> 00:14:02,466
It was pretty crazy walking out there
and seeing all of you.
317
00:14:02,550 --> 00:14:05,469
[Tayler] Were you nervous?
How was that experience for you?
318
00:14:05,553 --> 00:14:07,054
Yeah, I mean, I wasn't too nervous,
319
00:14:07,137 --> 00:14:11,350
but I noticed
you have just, like, a gorgeous smile.
320
00:14:11,433 --> 00:14:12,476
-[Tayler] Thank you.
-And…
321
00:14:12,560 --> 00:14:15,729
As I walked by,
and I lined up, and I looked out,
322
00:14:15,813 --> 00:14:19,233
you know, I just… I felt a really warm…
323
00:14:19,316 --> 00:14:21,068
-A warm energy. Um…
-Of course. Yeah.
324
00:14:21,151 --> 00:14:23,237
-And I really picked up on that.
-[Tayler] I love that.
325
00:14:23,320 --> 00:14:25,990
But, yeah, obviously,
you're going through a lot right now.
326
00:14:26,073 --> 00:14:29,076
This is an interesting, crazy experience.
327
00:14:29,159 --> 00:14:33,122
I mean, I feel like for years
I didn't talk about my truth.
328
00:14:33,205 --> 00:14:34,707
I love Tyler,
329
00:14:34,790 --> 00:14:37,877
and I just feel like he obviously has
a lot of insecurity
330
00:14:37,960 --> 00:14:41,088
from his divorce or whatever it may be,
331
00:14:41,171 --> 00:14:44,508
and I just feel like a lot of that
is sometimes projected on me,
332
00:14:44,592 --> 00:14:47,094
but he was the one with the infidelity.
333
00:14:47,177 --> 00:14:50,014
He was the one that,
you know, walked away from the job,
334
00:14:50,097 --> 00:14:53,976
so, like, for ten months now,
he hasn't had a job.
335
00:14:54,059 --> 00:14:57,271
-That falls a lot of responsibility on me.
-For sure.
336
00:14:57,354 --> 00:15:00,941
'Cause I own the house, and I supply
the groceries and things like that.
337
00:15:01,525 --> 00:15:03,819
It being my house, like,
I like things a certain way.
338
00:15:03,903 --> 00:15:06,906
Like the toilet seat.
You're a man. Put the toilet seat down.
339
00:15:06,989 --> 00:15:08,741
-Does he not put it down? Okay.
-[Tayler] No.
340
00:15:08,824 --> 00:15:11,827
And this is something
we've been working on for a year.
341
00:15:11,911 --> 00:15:14,872
Little things like that
in a relationship are really important.
342
00:15:14,955 --> 00:15:15,998
In my opinion.
343
00:15:16,081 --> 00:15:19,001
Tayler is super down-to-earth and open.
344
00:15:19,084 --> 00:15:22,171
I think she realizes
that she deserves better.
345
00:15:22,254 --> 00:15:23,422
So I think, like,
346
00:15:23,505 --> 00:15:27,301
maybe the level
of relationship that I am wanting,
347
00:15:27,384 --> 00:15:29,136
he's not necessarily able to give.
348
00:15:29,219 --> 00:15:30,304
I'm like,
349
00:15:30,387 --> 00:15:32,681
"What are we doing? Why?"
350
00:15:33,432 --> 00:15:35,059
[smooth hip-hop music playing]
351
00:15:35,142 --> 00:15:39,021
How do you feel after today? Honestly,
I was, like, having a really good time.
352
00:15:39,521 --> 00:15:42,441
No, that was awesome, but before the date,
353
00:15:43,776 --> 00:15:45,152
I was having a fucking hard time.
354
00:15:45,235 --> 00:15:50,032
Do you genuinely feel like you want
to be with Ashley, or do you think I--
355
00:15:50,115 --> 00:15:50,950
I think so.
356
00:15:51,033 --> 00:15:54,244
I mean, like, it's been my impression
the last year and a half.
357
00:15:54,328 --> 00:15:57,498
It's been what I've been working towards,
but now that I'm here,
358
00:15:57,581 --> 00:15:59,541
I'm beginning to consider, like,
359
00:16:00,876 --> 00:16:04,755
maybe it's not meant to be
with me and Ashley.
360
00:16:04,838 --> 00:16:06,966
-And I'm… I'm figuring that out.
-Yeah.
361
00:16:07,549 --> 00:16:11,220
♪ To commit my years, my weeks, my days ♪
362
00:16:11,303 --> 00:16:13,055
♪ Only to you… ♪
363
00:16:13,138 --> 00:16:15,557
-I think I'm gonna go… go to bed.
-Yeah. Why don't you?
364
00:16:15,641 --> 00:16:18,811
-[Ashley] I appreciate the conversation.
-[Tayler] I think it's ready to wrap up.
365
00:16:18,894 --> 00:16:20,729
-Honestly, instant connection.
-Absolutely.
366
00:16:21,855 --> 00:16:25,693
-See you in the morning.
-Okay, guys, day was fun. Good night.
367
00:16:26,276 --> 00:16:30,489
♪ Every day witholding so many waves ♪
368
00:16:30,572 --> 00:16:34,201
♪ No matter what the world
And the people say ♪
369
00:16:34,284 --> 00:16:37,329
♪ You know it's true… ♪
370
00:16:37,413 --> 00:16:40,791
-[Olivia S] Did you have fun today, or…?
-Yeah, of course I had fun.
371
00:16:40,874 --> 00:16:43,335
Like, I felt really comfortable with you.
It was really easy.
372
00:16:43,419 --> 00:16:44,962
-[laughs gently]
-Yeah. Yeah.
373
00:16:45,462 --> 00:16:47,506
I don't want him to get confused.
374
00:16:47,589 --> 00:16:51,343
I want him to have
a clear mind on his relationship.
375
00:16:51,427 --> 00:16:55,639
We have a connection. It's pretty evident,
but I'm not gonna force anything.
376
00:16:55,723 --> 00:16:58,475
This situation is complicated.
377
00:16:59,184 --> 00:17:02,187
You're, like, the one
that I think I vibe with the most,
378
00:17:02,271 --> 00:17:05,023
or, like, I think I have
a connection with the most.
379
00:17:06,316 --> 00:17:07,984
[Grant] Connecting with Olivia,
380
00:17:08,068 --> 00:17:11,905
I'm starting to, like, feel bad again
because of how it might make Ashley feel.
381
00:17:12,573 --> 00:17:16,160
We have so many goals
for ourselves as a couple,
382
00:17:16,242 --> 00:17:18,829
and I'm in a pickle now. Huh.
383
00:17:19,413 --> 00:17:22,875
Like, are you leaning towards,
"We're gonna get back together"?
384
00:17:22,958 --> 00:17:26,962
Or are you leaning towards, like,
"There's too many issues. I don't know."
385
00:17:27,046 --> 00:17:30,007
Right now, in this moment, I'm so, like…
386
00:17:30,090 --> 00:17:34,261
Let's say I'm, like…
I'm teeter-tottering in the middle.
387
00:17:34,845 --> 00:17:40,142
Now I'm, like, trying to figure out,
"Is it worth still making it?"
388
00:17:40,225 --> 00:17:43,395
Like, if something's gotta give.
389
00:17:44,563 --> 00:17:48,358
♪ We've just started, we've just started ♪
390
00:17:48,442 --> 00:17:51,236
♪ We've just started… ♪
391
00:17:51,820 --> 00:17:53,155
Well, we're gonna talk about this.
392
00:17:53,238 --> 00:17:55,407
-[Olivia S] I had fun today though.
-[Grant] Me too.
393
00:17:55,491 --> 00:17:58,660
♪ We've just started writing our story ♪
394
00:17:58,744 --> 00:18:05,042
♪ I'm lost in the depths of your love ♪
395
00:18:05,959 --> 00:18:08,754
♪ Ooh… ♪
396
00:18:10,172 --> 00:18:12,174
[lively ballad playing]
397
00:18:13,509 --> 00:18:16,470
♪ You're my guilty pleasure ♪
398
00:18:16,553 --> 00:18:20,224
♪ It's better when we're together ♪
399
00:18:20,307 --> 00:18:25,395
♪ So better than I remember, oh ♪
400
00:18:28,857 --> 00:18:30,317
♪ You're my guilty… ♪
401
00:18:35,531 --> 00:18:37,241
Hey, girl. Talk to me.
402
00:18:38,367 --> 00:18:39,326
What's going on?
403
00:18:45,541 --> 00:18:47,292
[voice breaking] Yeah,
I just need to breathe.
404
00:18:48,502 --> 00:18:52,840
I'm not bothered by, like, seeing Grant
choose whoever the fuck he chose.
405
00:18:52,923 --> 00:18:54,675
-[sighs]
-I hate that.
406
00:18:54,758 --> 00:18:57,386
He's gonna do
what he's gonna do, but it's more like…
407
00:18:57,469 --> 00:18:59,513
[breathes deeply]
…the fact that I've sat here
408
00:18:59,596 --> 00:19:03,350
and, like, allowed him to behave
the way he behaves and, like…
409
00:19:03,433 --> 00:19:05,602
-[sad music plays]
-And still take him back.
410
00:19:05,686 --> 00:19:06,645
Yeah.
411
00:19:09,565 --> 00:19:12,359
I feel like I've been trying
to hold on to Grant so hard
412
00:19:12,442 --> 00:19:13,861
and for so long,
413
00:19:13,944 --> 00:19:16,864
and I just… I can't even understand why.
414
00:19:16,947 --> 00:19:17,823
Like, I love him.
415
00:19:17,906 --> 00:19:20,492
He's great sometimes… [chuckles, sniffles]
416
00:19:20,576 --> 00:19:25,247
…but Grant has put me through
so much shit and so much trauma,
417
00:19:25,330 --> 00:19:28,000
and it's like
now that I've been through all this,
418
00:19:28,083 --> 00:19:29,585
I want it to be worth it,
419
00:19:29,668 --> 00:19:34,173
and I don't wanna lose the relationship
because I feel like I, like, failed.
420
00:19:34,256 --> 00:19:38,802
The only time he gets his ass in gear
and puts in effort is when he's losing me.
421
00:19:39,303 --> 00:19:40,470
Or when we're broken up…
422
00:19:40,554 --> 00:19:42,848
-Such a bad cycle.
-…and he wants to get back together.
423
00:19:43,348 --> 00:19:47,060
I just think I need so much more
than what he's giving.
424
00:19:48,061 --> 00:19:50,564
It's just like,
I've had my shit together for so long.
425
00:19:50,647 --> 00:19:53,567
Like, I work so hard for my career.
I'm in such a good place.
426
00:19:53,650 --> 00:19:55,903
-I'm so financially stable.
-Yeah.
427
00:19:55,986 --> 00:19:58,488
This is, like, the most toxic situation
I've ever been in,
428
00:19:58,572 --> 00:20:00,032
and I can almost guarantee, like,
429
00:20:00,115 --> 00:20:02,451
any relationship he's been in,
this is what he does.
430
00:20:02,534 --> 00:20:03,368
Yeah.
431
00:20:03,452 --> 00:20:07,456
[Ashley] And I'm just giving him
so many opportunities to prove it,
432
00:20:07,539 --> 00:20:10,876
and he is not capable of it.
433
00:20:10,959 --> 00:20:13,128
-[Alexa scoffs]
-[Ashley] I'm never gonna trust him.
434
00:20:13,212 --> 00:20:16,340
He just, like, overpromises
and under delivers all the time,
435
00:20:16,423 --> 00:20:18,884
and it drives me insane.
That's just embarrassing.
436
00:20:18,967 --> 00:20:22,512
-Like, I don't want that guy.
-Yeah. Yeah.
437
00:20:23,138 --> 00:20:24,056
[sniffles]
438
00:20:24,556 --> 00:20:26,516
[Alexa] I'm sorry. Oh God.
439
00:20:28,060 --> 00:20:29,686
You deserve so much.
440
00:20:29,770 --> 00:20:31,897
Like, you know your worth. You know it.
441
00:20:31,980 --> 00:20:32,814
I can see it.
442
00:20:32,898 --> 00:20:34,274
[emotional music playing]
443
00:20:34,358 --> 00:20:37,319
[sighs, sniffs]
444
00:20:37,861 --> 00:20:39,821
[gulps, exhales]
445
00:20:39,905 --> 00:20:43,700
That's why I'm like,
I don't know what I'm holding on to.
446
00:20:43,784 --> 00:20:44,701
Yeah.
447
00:20:46,453 --> 00:20:47,412
[sighs deeply]
448
00:20:49,248 --> 00:20:51,166
-Sorry.
-[Ashley] Just so much… How are you doing?
449
00:20:51,250 --> 00:20:54,544
-[laughs softly]
-[laughs] How am I doing? [sighs]
450
00:20:56,755 --> 00:20:59,007
It's hard for me
to enjoy this beautiful place
451
00:20:59,091 --> 00:21:01,551
when I'm just so, like, in my head.
452
00:21:02,678 --> 00:21:04,179
I feel so dependent on him.
453
00:21:04,680 --> 00:21:08,225
When he's not there, I don't feel fine.
I should be able to feel fine by myself.
454
00:21:08,308 --> 00:21:09,142
Right.
455
00:21:09,226 --> 00:21:15,232
I am so used to bouncing from relationship
to, like, another serious relationship,
456
00:21:15,315 --> 00:21:17,526
and I've never had that time
to be by myself,
457
00:21:18,026 --> 00:21:21,571
and being by myself now
is just so out of my comfort zone.
458
00:21:21,655 --> 00:21:22,656
It's hard.
459
00:21:22,739 --> 00:21:27,536
I need to learn how to not need him,
but it just be like I want him.
460
00:21:27,619 --> 00:21:28,870
Because I… I don't need him.
461
00:21:28,954 --> 00:21:31,164
Like, at one point, like…
[breath shuddering]
462
00:21:31,248 --> 00:21:33,208
…we were strangers, and I was fine.
463
00:21:33,709 --> 00:21:36,920
I have goals. I'm going back to school.
I'll have my own business
464
00:21:37,004 --> 00:21:39,131
I have so many things I can do by myself.
465
00:21:39,214 --> 00:21:41,174
-Like, I don't really need him.
-[softly] Yeah.
466
00:21:41,883 --> 00:21:46,680
♪ I keep on making the same mistake ♪
467
00:21:46,763 --> 00:21:49,516
♪ Over and over and over again… ♪
468
00:21:50,309 --> 00:21:52,644
What do you think you're missing
from your relationship?
469
00:21:52,728 --> 00:21:54,646
[sucks teeth] Um…
470
00:21:54,730 --> 00:21:57,983
I think it's, like, security,
and that's what's hard
471
00:21:58,066 --> 00:22:01,361
because Alexa, you know,
at first, she was seeing other people
472
00:22:01,445 --> 00:22:02,654
at the same time,
473
00:22:02,738 --> 00:22:06,325
and, you know,
just being dishonest with some things.
474
00:22:06,408 --> 00:22:07,617
I'm her first choice now,
475
00:22:07,701 --> 00:22:09,953
and she's the one
who's, like, truly ready and committed,
476
00:22:10,037 --> 00:22:13,457
but I do harbor, like, some resentment
of not being the first choice.
477
00:22:13,540 --> 00:22:15,250
I'm usually always, like, pursued.
478
00:22:15,334 --> 00:22:17,044
-Or get what I want.
-Yeah.
479
00:22:17,127 --> 00:22:18,879
For me, that was like a reality shock.
480
00:22:19,796 --> 00:22:23,091
I still deal with letting go
of some of those things from the past.
481
00:22:23,175 --> 00:22:26,803
I mean, that stuff lingers in your mind,
and you have to work past it.
482
00:22:26,887 --> 00:22:30,307
I still have that deep-seated feeling
of not being valuable enough
483
00:22:30,390 --> 00:22:31,433
or being the second choice.
484
00:22:32,017 --> 00:22:34,603
I just realized
people deserve second chances.
485
00:22:34,686 --> 00:22:37,647
-But I still have second thoughts. Like…
-Yeah.
486
00:22:37,731 --> 00:22:41,735
What if I would have not continued this
because I had resentment?
487
00:22:41,818 --> 00:22:44,071
-Yeah.
-[Lino] Where would my life be?
488
00:22:44,154 --> 00:22:46,448
This experience,
you really need to take it in.
489
00:22:46,531 --> 00:22:49,910
-You really need to make it your own.
-Yeah, and that's what I'm trying to do.
490
00:22:49,993 --> 00:22:51,453
-Live your life.
-[Lino] Yeah.
491
00:22:51,536 --> 00:22:54,414
-[woman 1] I'm just staring so intently.
-[Samantha] This is so good.
492
00:22:54,498 --> 00:22:56,208
[giggles]
493
00:22:57,125 --> 00:22:57,959
[Tyler] Steady.
494
00:22:58,627 --> 00:23:00,128
-[Kay] Yes, sir.
-Yep, steady.
495
00:23:01,922 --> 00:23:02,756
There you go.
496
00:23:03,340 --> 00:23:05,092
You got the fucking lats going.
497
00:23:05,967 --> 00:23:08,470
-You track it perfectly. You work out?
-[breathing heavily]
498
00:23:09,054 --> 00:23:11,139
-[sarcastically] Am I doing it right?
-[laughs]
499
00:23:11,223 --> 00:23:12,599
[sarcastically] What's this for?
500
00:23:12,682 --> 00:23:14,309
[upbeat music playing]
501
00:23:14,393 --> 00:23:17,145
I don't know why
I found that so attractive.
502
00:23:17,646 --> 00:23:18,605
You were faking it.
503
00:23:18,688 --> 00:23:21,858
[Kay] Some girls are funny.
Some girls are hot. I'm both.
504
00:23:22,359 --> 00:23:23,443
Wow. [sniffs]
505
00:23:24,194 --> 00:23:25,904
I did enjoy my date with Courtney,
506
00:23:25,987 --> 00:23:29,449
but I would love to spend
a little bit more alone time with Kay.
507
00:23:29,533 --> 00:23:32,160
Just see if the good times keep rolling.
508
00:23:32,244 --> 00:23:34,162
We're done.
How many sets are you gonna do?
509
00:23:34,246 --> 00:23:35,872
I'm going through it till we're done.
510
00:23:35,956 --> 00:23:38,625
-You'll just keep doing the same things?
-I am nowhere near failure.
511
00:23:38,708 --> 00:23:40,210
That's the only time you grow.
512
00:23:41,920 --> 00:23:45,757
-How do you feel so far?
-I feel good. I feel good.
513
00:23:45,841 --> 00:23:48,135
-I'm getting used to the whole, like…
-[Courtney] Concept?
514
00:23:48,218 --> 00:23:49,845
-Yeah.
-Of diving in?
515
00:23:49,928 --> 00:23:51,555
-Mm-hmm.
-[Courtney] Being vulnerable?
516
00:23:54,850 --> 00:23:57,978
I don't know. I just feel like
love these days is so fucked up.
517
00:23:58,061 --> 00:23:58,895
Yeah.
518
00:23:59,479 --> 00:24:00,439
Are you in love?
519
00:24:00,981 --> 00:24:01,815
Yeah.
520
00:24:02,774 --> 00:24:04,067
I love Shante.
521
00:24:04,151 --> 00:24:07,988
Again, she's not the most sexual person.
She's not the freakiest person.
522
00:24:08,071 --> 00:24:10,782
-But she's a great-hearted person.
-[Courtney] You'd like her to be?
523
00:24:11,283 --> 00:24:12,909
[Brion] I don't know.
I just love a good threesome.
524
00:24:12,993 --> 00:24:15,203
But she does have
a lot of great qualities.
525
00:24:15,287 --> 00:24:17,747
[Courtney] You don't think
you can have the best of both worlds?
526
00:24:18,290 --> 00:24:21,501
-Is there… I don't think that's ever--
-You don't think so? What?
527
00:24:21,585 --> 00:24:23,795
-No one will be the best of both worlds.
-Yeah, they can.
528
00:24:23,879 --> 00:24:24,921
-[Courtney] They can.
-No.
529
00:24:25,005 --> 00:24:27,883
She's basically asking me if, you know,
530
00:24:27,966 --> 00:24:30,552
"Do you feel as though
your girl is on your level?"
531
00:24:30,635 --> 00:24:31,761
You know what I'm saying?
532
00:24:31,845 --> 00:24:35,932
And I think Shante is beautiful.
I think she's amazing and incredible,
533
00:24:36,016 --> 00:24:38,518
but it's who she is as a person
that makes her.
534
00:24:38,602 --> 00:24:41,855
She can cook. She makes me laugh.
I feel comfortable. I can talk to her.
535
00:24:41,938 --> 00:24:43,148
I think she's out of my league.
536
00:24:43,231 --> 00:24:45,942
Honestly, to have someone who is beautiful
537
00:24:46,026 --> 00:24:49,362
and loyal and faithful's incredible to me.
You don't see it often.
538
00:24:49,446 --> 00:24:52,240
There's always something you compromise
in a relationship. Yeah.
539
00:24:52,324 --> 00:24:56,328
And I feel like sometimes people try
to look for, like, the perfect fit.
540
00:24:56,912 --> 00:24:58,872
You know?
Sometimes it's not gonna be perfect.
541
00:24:58,955 --> 00:25:01,249
Sometimes you gotta shape it up
and make it work.
542
00:25:01,333 --> 00:25:02,542
-[Courtney] Yeah.
-You know?
543
00:25:02,626 --> 00:25:03,502
So…
544
00:25:04,211 --> 00:25:09,216
♪ The weight of it all ♪
545
00:25:09,299 --> 00:25:15,597
♪ It hits my chest as I fall… ♪
546
00:25:16,473 --> 00:25:19,309
Shante, have you thought
a lot about the future?
547
00:25:20,143 --> 00:25:24,773
-If he were to step out or something.
-[Shante] Yeah.
548
00:25:24,856 --> 00:25:26,775
-This is y'all's second round.
-[Shante] Yeah.
549
00:25:26,858 --> 00:25:30,487
If either of us cross the boundary we set,
it's a done deal.
550
00:25:30,570 --> 00:25:33,823
Yeah. There's no coming back.
There's no "third time's the charm."
551
00:25:33,907 --> 00:25:36,368
-No, that would just be too hard.
-[Tayler] Yeah.
552
00:25:37,702 --> 00:25:40,747
Our goal is to move in with each other
at the end of this.
553
00:25:41,414 --> 00:25:44,251
-And there's a line that you can't cross.
-[Tayler] Absolutely.
554
00:25:44,334 --> 00:25:47,254
And I just hope that he can stay true that
555
00:25:47,337 --> 00:25:49,673
because that's the most important part.
556
00:25:50,173 --> 00:25:52,592
I don't know
if it was cold feet on his end or what,
557
00:25:52,676 --> 00:25:56,888
but he chose to go after someone else
and then came quickly back.
558
00:25:56,972 --> 00:25:57,806
It hurts.
559
00:25:57,889 --> 00:26:01,017
It's disheartening.
It devalues you for a second.
560
00:26:01,101 --> 00:26:06,189
Um, it makes you feel like
all of the time you put in was a waste.
561
00:26:06,273 --> 00:26:08,358
[gentle music playing]
562
00:26:08,441 --> 00:26:10,652
[Shante] You don't ever want that feeling
563
00:26:10,735 --> 00:26:14,948
from someone that you put
so much trust and, um, time into,
564
00:26:15,031 --> 00:26:18,368
so it's definitely something
I don't ever wanna feel again.
565
00:26:18,451 --> 00:26:20,287
I mean, it's high risk, high reward.
566
00:26:20,370 --> 00:26:22,497
I know. Really is.
567
00:26:23,164 --> 00:26:24,541
What about you and Tyler?
568
00:26:25,041 --> 00:26:28,920
To be honest, like, coming up here
and going through this process,
569
00:26:29,004 --> 00:26:32,132
it definitely put
a little bit of a strain, you know?
570
00:26:32,215 --> 00:26:33,717
And we started arguing.
571
00:26:33,800 --> 00:26:37,304
Like, our biggest thing is
the butting heads, and I just feel like
572
00:26:37,387 --> 00:26:40,682
maybe he's over there enjoying
that it's light, and it's airy.
573
00:26:40,765 --> 00:26:42,934
-I'm not over here like…
-[Shante] That's the scary part.
574
00:26:43,018 --> 00:26:44,936
[mellow music plays]
575
00:26:45,020 --> 00:26:47,147
To be honest,
I'm feeling a little bit of guilt.
576
00:26:47,230 --> 00:26:49,566
I'm not as carefree
as he would like me to be.
577
00:26:50,150 --> 00:26:53,653
I have gotten super controlling in a way.
578
00:26:53,737 --> 00:26:55,071
Super type A
579
00:26:55,155 --> 00:26:58,408
because I was crushed
when I saw Tyler cheat,
580
00:26:58,491 --> 00:27:02,454
and those insecurities
never usually go away.
581
00:27:02,954 --> 00:27:05,457
[voice breaking] You put me
in this position to be this way,
582
00:27:05,540 --> 00:27:07,751
and then you end up hating me for it.
583
00:27:07,834 --> 00:27:09,210
[crying] How is that fair?
584
00:27:10,128 --> 00:27:11,504
I don't fucking get it.
585
00:27:11,588 --> 00:27:13,506
It's just really… It's emotional.
586
00:27:13,590 --> 00:27:14,924
I just feel emotional.
587
00:27:15,425 --> 00:27:17,552
♪ It's an easier way to you ♪
588
00:27:18,553 --> 00:27:20,889
♪ When you'e smiling like you do ♪
589
00:27:21,931 --> 00:27:24,184
♪ And you're moving like you move ♪
590
00:27:25,310 --> 00:27:28,938
♪ Oh, it's an easier way, easier way ♪
591
00:27:29,022 --> 00:27:29,981
♪ It's an easier way ♪
592
00:27:30,065 --> 00:27:31,775
[Tyler] When's the last time
you had gelato?
593
00:27:32,567 --> 00:27:36,988
I had gelato in Miami
for the first time, like, uh, last year.
594
00:27:37,072 --> 00:27:38,073
Last year?
595
00:27:39,658 --> 00:27:41,409
Just a small scoop
of the carrot cake, please.
596
00:27:41,493 --> 00:27:43,453
Not even gonna try?
You're just diving right in?
597
00:27:43,536 --> 00:27:44,579
[Kay] Oh yeah. No.
598
00:27:44,663 --> 00:27:46,915
-You already know.
-Trust your intuition.
599
00:27:48,041 --> 00:27:50,752
There is something
about Kay that's very appealing.
600
00:27:50,835 --> 00:27:52,170
I'm at the point right now
601
00:27:52,253 --> 00:27:55,840
where I just wanna welcome
any positive vibes and… and pursue that.
602
00:27:56,466 --> 00:27:58,968
I do love the outfit.
You got your favorite color going on too.
603
00:27:59,052 --> 00:28:00,345
-I know.
-[Tyler] Spoon matches.
604
00:28:00,428 --> 00:28:01,721
Very aesthetically pleasing.
605
00:28:03,181 --> 00:28:05,517
So I wanna know, like,
it's so weird, first impressions.
606
00:28:05,600 --> 00:28:09,104
Am I what you expected
when you first saw me?
607
00:28:09,187 --> 00:28:12,107
Honestly, no. You know,
I didn't really know what to expect.
608
00:28:12,190 --> 00:28:13,775
It's hard with that many girls.
609
00:28:13,858 --> 00:28:15,819
-Like, I think she'll be like this.
-[Tyler] Yeah.
610
00:28:15,902 --> 00:28:19,280
I'm still trying to remember names,
but, um, to be honest with you,
611
00:28:19,364 --> 00:28:21,866
that first day, you know,
it was great with Courtney,
612
00:28:21,950 --> 00:28:27,372
but we really didn't even have, like,
the same banter as, like, me and you have.
613
00:28:27,455 --> 00:28:28,957
-[mellow music playing]
-We're…
614
00:28:29,999 --> 00:28:31,084
like this.
615
00:28:31,167 --> 00:28:32,794
-Was that a vibing thing?
-[Kay] Yeah.
616
00:28:34,337 --> 00:28:38,883
You know, it's also a strange experience,
like, feeling so understood.
617
00:28:40,009 --> 00:28:43,596
I feel like Tayler thinks
that she knows me, like, so well,
618
00:28:44,347 --> 00:28:47,684
but honestly
I have felt a little bit unappreciated.
619
00:28:49,978 --> 00:28:52,772
People, I feel like, look at "what if"
as such a negative thing,
620
00:28:52,856 --> 00:28:55,775
but I feel like
"what if" should always be positive.
621
00:28:55,859 --> 00:28:59,446
Like, what if it's way better than I even
could've ever imagined it was gonna be?
622
00:28:59,529 --> 00:29:00,989
-Two sides to one coin.
-[Kay] Yeah.
623
00:29:01,072 --> 00:29:04,868
Or, like, what if it all works out,
and you get everything you ever wanted?
624
00:29:04,951 --> 00:29:06,870
[gentle acoustic music playing]
625
00:29:08,121 --> 00:29:10,999
Honestly, I hate to say it,
but I'm having a lot of fun right now.
626
00:29:11,082 --> 00:29:12,250
You hate to say it?
627
00:29:12,333 --> 00:29:15,253
-God forbid!
-No, I don't wanna be, like, cheesy.
628
00:29:15,336 --> 00:29:17,297
Or, like, you think
I'm just saying shit to say it.
629
00:29:17,380 --> 00:29:19,340
-No, yeah.
-Honestly, this was a lot of fun.
630
00:29:20,049 --> 00:29:22,051
-I'm learning a lot, and that's… Yeah.
-Yeah.
631
00:29:23,344 --> 00:29:27,766
I may be… may be getting close
to a guy, like, on day three,
632
00:29:27,849 --> 00:29:30,518
which is not what I was expecting at all.
633
00:29:31,311 --> 00:29:34,439
He's a good guy. I hate to say it.
Hope it doesn't come off in the wrong way,
634
00:29:34,522 --> 00:29:37,484
but I'm forgetting
that he's here with a girlfriend.
635
00:29:38,526 --> 00:29:41,196
Yeah, it honestly
couldn't be going better.
636
00:29:41,279 --> 00:29:42,322
[both laughing]
637
00:29:42,405 --> 00:29:44,741
[Tyler] I love that you're just making
a huge mess right now.
638
00:29:45,325 --> 00:29:47,327
[upbeat pop music playing]
639
00:29:47,410 --> 00:29:49,662
♪ You're my favorite sound ♪
640
00:29:49,746 --> 00:29:53,583
♪ When I look at you
I hear my heart pound ♪
641
00:29:54,083 --> 00:29:56,586
-♪ Baby, you're like a sound… ♪
-[men] Yeah.
642
00:29:56,669 --> 00:29:58,671
-Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
-[Danny] Come on, man!
643
00:29:59,255 --> 00:30:00,215
Come on.
644
00:30:00,757 --> 00:30:01,883
Ladies.
645
00:30:01,966 --> 00:30:04,677
We have a very
fun evening planned for y'all.
646
00:30:04,761 --> 00:30:07,472
We want y'all to feel like
the queens that y'all are.
647
00:30:07,555 --> 00:30:10,141
Gio, we got a couple other things.
What are we gonna do?
648
00:30:10,225 --> 00:30:12,769
We got some games, baby.
Let's enjoy the night. Woo!
649
00:30:12,852 --> 00:30:14,312
-Let's go! Let's go!
-[cheering]
650
00:30:14,395 --> 00:30:16,606
We're going to give the ladies
a good time today, right?
651
00:30:16,689 --> 00:30:19,984
They were a little down,
a little sad, a little, you know…
652
00:30:20,068 --> 00:30:21,444
[mock sobbing]
653
00:30:21,528 --> 00:30:23,947
Geno! [mock sobbing]
654
00:30:24,614 --> 00:30:27,784
I don't know what Ashley's guy's name is.
[mock sobbing] "Paul!"
655
00:30:27,867 --> 00:30:29,244
[mock whimpering]
656
00:30:29,828 --> 00:30:33,832
Right? So we're gonna give the ladies
a good little pool party, a little soirée.
657
00:30:33,915 --> 00:30:34,999
Nice little vibe.
658
00:30:35,083 --> 00:30:38,419
-[Danny] Got you a vodka drink.
-[Ashley] You're a superstar. Thank you.
659
00:30:39,045 --> 00:30:39,921
They know me.
660
00:30:40,505 --> 00:30:44,968
With Grant, I just picture him
being out of sight, out of mind
661
00:30:45,051 --> 00:30:47,053
and just being his happy-go-lucky self.
662
00:30:47,554 --> 00:30:50,765
So I definitely need
to start focusing on my happiness,
663
00:30:50,849 --> 00:30:54,519
and I just need
to find myself again and chill out.
664
00:30:55,061 --> 00:30:57,814
Cheers to some respectful, fine-ass men.
665
00:30:57,897 --> 00:30:59,774
-[women] Amen!
-[all] Cheers!
666
00:30:59,858 --> 00:31:00,692
[woman 1] Yes!
667
00:31:01,192 --> 00:31:03,194
[lively music playing]
668
00:31:08,783 --> 00:31:11,786
-How many kids do you want?
-I've always said two.
669
00:31:11,870 --> 00:31:15,039
I grew up really, like, independent,
670
00:31:15,123 --> 00:31:18,209
so I'm trying to instill those values
in my daughter now too.
671
00:31:18,293 --> 00:31:21,588
I've only brought two girls around to her.
672
00:31:21,671 --> 00:31:23,715
It even took a while
673
00:31:24,549 --> 00:31:28,636
for Ashley to warm up to the idea
of, like, being around my daughter,
674
00:31:28,720 --> 00:31:32,557
which is understandable,
but, like, I'm not entirely sure
675
00:31:32,640 --> 00:31:39,022
if she has those motherly, nurturing,
loving, caring, patient qualities
676
00:31:39,105 --> 00:31:40,523
that is required.
677
00:31:40,607 --> 00:31:44,444
It would be hard for her
to just switch that on, I feel, randomly.
678
00:31:44,527 --> 00:31:46,779
[Grant] Maybe it's taken this
for me to realize
679
00:31:46,863 --> 00:31:49,407
I think that's something
some people have and some people don't.
680
00:31:49,490 --> 00:31:52,452
-[Kay] Yeah.
-[upbeat music playing]
681
00:31:52,535 --> 00:31:54,329
-[women] Cheers!
-[Shante exclaims]
682
00:31:54,829 --> 00:31:57,665
-Everyone touch my glass or get out.
-[woman 1] Good health.
683
00:31:57,749 --> 00:31:59,417
[Ashley] Wait, I wanna push someone in.
684
00:31:59,500 --> 00:32:00,335
[man yells]
685
00:32:00,418 --> 00:32:02,962
[Tayler screams]
686
00:32:03,046 --> 00:32:06,591
Y'all was killing at the little luau.
Come on, man. Y'all got this.
687
00:32:07,133 --> 00:32:08,927
-Look.
-Oh yeah.
688
00:32:09,010 --> 00:32:10,887
[Alexa] We did the pull. [laughs]
689
00:32:10,970 --> 00:32:13,222
With Quentin,
I know I took him on a first date,
690
00:32:13,306 --> 00:32:14,223
and it was really fun.
691
00:32:14,307 --> 00:32:17,810
He was definitely interested in me,
but now I really need to focus on myself,
692
00:32:17,894 --> 00:32:20,855
and I just think
it's purely a friend vibe.
693
00:32:20,939 --> 00:32:22,023
[laughs]
694
00:32:22,106 --> 00:32:24,067
I don't know. Is that mean?
695
00:32:24,734 --> 00:32:26,110
♪ Baby… ♪
696
00:32:26,194 --> 00:32:27,570
[woman screams]
697
00:32:27,654 --> 00:32:30,698
♪ Work your body, honey
Work your body, honey ♪
698
00:32:30,782 --> 00:32:34,243
♪ Baby, baby… ♪
699
00:32:34,327 --> 00:32:36,287
I want a lap dance.
Someone give me a lap dance.
700
00:32:36,371 --> 00:32:38,414
-[men] Whoo!
-♪ Let me give you something… ♪
701
00:32:38,498 --> 00:32:40,291
[Hashim] We need some chairs!
702
00:32:40,375 --> 00:32:42,752
[women cheer and scream excitedly]
703
00:32:42,835 --> 00:32:45,880
[whispers] I love you, Lino. [laughs]
704
00:32:45,964 --> 00:32:47,548
I love you. [laughing]
705
00:32:47,632 --> 00:32:51,219
-[all cheering]
-[women screaming]
706
00:32:53,888 --> 00:32:56,057
Put my little fresh, breezy lap dance out.
707
00:32:58,184 --> 00:33:00,728
-[screams]
-♪ Let me give you something… ♪
708
00:33:00,812 --> 00:33:01,813
[screams]
709
00:33:01,896 --> 00:33:03,856
♪ The world will never give… ♪
710
00:33:03,940 --> 00:33:06,734
[screams and laughs]
711
00:33:07,318 --> 00:33:10,113
-[exhales deeply]
-[all cheering]
712
00:33:10,196 --> 00:33:13,241
I should've got a tip, honestly.
They should've been just spraying money.
713
00:33:13,324 --> 00:33:15,284
[Alexa] Okay, okay, okay.
714
00:33:15,368 --> 00:33:18,162
They did loosen up a little bit today!
715
00:33:18,246 --> 00:33:19,664
[party music playing]
716
00:33:19,747 --> 00:33:23,334
Making some progress, you guys.
We're, uh… Yeah.
717
00:33:23,418 --> 00:33:25,211
-[all cheer]
-[Tayler] Yamen, dude.
718
00:33:25,294 --> 00:33:28,589
He is just great vibes all around.
719
00:33:28,673 --> 00:33:29,966
[laughing]
720
00:33:31,050 --> 00:33:32,927
-[women scream]
-[water splashes]
721
00:33:33,594 --> 00:33:36,014
♪ A little more closer
A little more love for me… ♪
722
00:33:36,097 --> 00:33:37,098
Oh my God!
723
00:33:37,682 --> 00:33:40,059
♪ Ooh, sex me up… ♪
724
00:33:40,768 --> 00:33:43,730
♪ Yeah, I hear the whispers
Trust me, I'm not trippin'… ♪
725
00:33:43,813 --> 00:33:44,897
[woman] Yeah!
726
00:33:44,981 --> 00:33:47,984
-♪ All my ladies gotta feel this… ♪
-[women screaming excitedly]
727
00:33:48,067 --> 00:33:51,320
♪ Whether you're bossing men
Lookin' fine, but you call the shots… ♪
728
00:33:51,404 --> 00:33:54,490
Don't you back away from me.
I see what's going on.
729
00:33:54,574 --> 00:33:56,617
-[Grant] I'm being good.
-Can you not handle the heat?
730
00:33:56,701 --> 00:33:58,953
-I'm not…
-[Natalie] It doesn't look like you can.
731
00:33:59,037 --> 00:34:01,080
Grant was kinda giving me
that back-and-forth.
732
00:34:01,164 --> 00:34:04,834
Like, I love…
Personality really shines through for me.
733
00:34:05,501 --> 00:34:08,795
I'm kinda teasing him a little bit,
and he's picking up on it.
734
00:34:08,880 --> 00:34:12,175
I constantly surprise myself,
so we're gonna see what happens. [laughs]
735
00:34:12,257 --> 00:34:15,053
-[Natalie] Oh! [laughs]
-[Grant] I'm just fine.
736
00:34:15,136 --> 00:34:16,179
♪ Yes, I am her ♪
737
00:34:16,262 --> 00:34:17,346
♪ I'm her ♪
738
00:34:18,222 --> 00:34:20,058
♪ Yes, I am her, I am her… ♪
739
00:34:20,141 --> 00:34:21,476
One thing about us…
740
00:34:21,559 --> 00:34:24,187
[both] We know how to dance.
741
00:34:24,270 --> 00:34:27,273
-[hip-hop music playing]
-[men] Oh!
742
00:34:27,356 --> 00:34:29,609
-[Brion] Oh, they got a plan!
-[Tyler] Choreography!
743
00:34:29,692 --> 00:34:33,154
-[laughs] Okay.
-♪ Turn me on… ♪
744
00:34:33,237 --> 00:34:35,114
-[Natalie] Wanna dance with me?
-♪ Hey! Hey! ♪
745
00:34:38,076 --> 00:34:40,786
-♪ I am number one on your roster… ♪
-[Natalie giggles]
746
00:34:41,370 --> 00:34:43,039
[Grant] Natalie's really confident.
747
00:34:43,121 --> 00:34:44,331
She, uh, struts it well,
748
00:34:44,415 --> 00:34:50,170
and obviously, I'm connecting with Olivia,
but, uh, curious to see what her story is.
749
00:34:50,254 --> 00:34:51,297
[laughs]
750
00:34:51,380 --> 00:34:54,884
I don't wanna go too crazy,
but if you get me alone in your room…
751
00:34:54,967 --> 00:34:56,844
-[Grant] Oh really?
-[Natalie giggles]
752
00:34:56,928 --> 00:35:00,306
-Oh! Yeah, Kay for the solo.
-[cheering] Whoa!
753
00:35:00,389 --> 00:35:05,228
This is the perfect opportunity
for me to mark my territory here.
754
00:35:05,311 --> 00:35:07,563
I got this. Let me do the damn thing.
755
00:35:07,647 --> 00:35:09,524
-[sexy pop music playing]
-Okay!
756
00:35:09,607 --> 00:35:13,111
-Look at Tyler. She's about to kill it.
-The confidence. The confidence.
757
00:35:13,194 --> 00:35:15,446
-Oh!
-[Grant] Oh shit!
758
00:35:15,530 --> 00:35:17,198
-[women cheering]
-What?
759
00:35:18,074 --> 00:35:21,786
♪ I get enchanted by your ways ♪
760
00:35:21,869 --> 00:35:25,832
♪ Sweetest temptation… ♪
761
00:35:25,915 --> 00:35:26,749
[giggles]
762
00:35:27,250 --> 00:35:28,668
Oh my Lord.
763
00:35:29,919 --> 00:35:32,130
-Tyler.
-[music pauses]
764
00:35:32,672 --> 00:35:33,965
Buddy. [scoffs]
765
00:35:34,048 --> 00:35:38,052
You're trouble. You're trouble.
[inhales] You're trouble.
766
00:35:39,011 --> 00:35:40,179
You play with me, huh?
767
00:35:40,263 --> 00:35:41,264
[Kay] Just a little.
768
00:35:41,347 --> 00:35:43,349
[sexy pop music continues]
769
00:35:45,184 --> 00:35:47,311
Come on. Come on, Kay.
770
00:35:48,229 --> 00:35:49,814
Oh shit.
771
00:35:52,275 --> 00:35:53,359
Wow, baby.
772
00:35:54,944 --> 00:35:57,905
-[Brion] Oh, put you down.
-♪ You can't break the willing… ♪
773
00:35:57,989 --> 00:36:00,074
-Okay.
-Wow.
774
00:36:00,158 --> 00:36:01,909
Kay fucking stole the show.
775
00:36:02,785 --> 00:36:05,246
I feel like she was gunning for me,
and I'm flattered.
776
00:36:05,329 --> 00:36:08,541
Honestly, I feel like tonight
has been really harmless, you know?
777
00:36:08,624 --> 00:36:12,795
I've been to the club with Tayler before,
and I feel like she's a lot like Kay
778
00:36:12,879 --> 00:36:15,756
in the way that she would've
stole the show at the last moment.
779
00:36:15,840 --> 00:36:18,009
-Here's one that I haven't asked you yet.
-Okay.
780
00:36:18,092 --> 00:36:21,012
-Another hard question.
-What were your rules coming into this?
781
00:36:21,846 --> 00:36:23,973
It was honestly just physical boundaries.
782
00:36:24,056 --> 00:36:26,434
Like, holding hands was okay
because if we're on a date--
783
00:36:26,517 --> 00:36:28,895
Oh, I don't remember
my hand being held today.
784
00:36:28,978 --> 00:36:32,273
-Hey, it's the first date. [laughs]
-Okay. Okay.
785
00:36:32,356 --> 00:36:34,775
You didn't give me a room tour today.
Side note.
786
00:36:34,859 --> 00:36:36,527
I'll give you a room tour tonight,
honestly.
787
00:36:36,611 --> 00:36:40,698
I don't know what it is about Kay,
but I feel like today is Kay's day for me,
788
00:36:40,781 --> 00:36:42,783
so I'm thinking to myself,
789
00:36:42,867 --> 00:36:44,785
"Is this breaking any boundaries
790
00:36:44,869 --> 00:36:47,121
that Tay and I set
going into this experience?"
791
00:36:47,205 --> 00:36:48,581
and I don't think so.
792
00:36:48,664 --> 00:36:52,919
It feels like, I don't know,
a good way to end the night. [laughs]
793
00:36:53,753 --> 00:36:54,670
Oh shit.
794
00:36:54,754 --> 00:36:56,255
[Kay] Is yours the best?
795
00:36:56,339 --> 00:36:58,466
[Tyler] Yeah, honestly.
Well, it depends what you like.
796
00:36:59,091 --> 00:37:00,760
Okay. Ladies first.
797
00:37:01,344 --> 00:37:02,178
T-daddy.
798
00:37:03,304 --> 00:37:04,639
They love the blondes.
799
00:37:05,348 --> 00:37:06,974
-Give everybody a chance.
-[utensils clink]
800
00:37:07,058 --> 00:37:08,267
[laughs]
801
00:37:08,351 --> 00:37:11,395
-[Kay] Don't fall for me.
-[Tyler] It's the slippers, so…
802
00:37:12,063 --> 00:37:15,358
-So we're gonna take a left.
-She said, "Don't fall for me."
803
00:37:15,441 --> 00:37:17,902
She said that just now? No way.
804
00:37:18,527 --> 00:37:19,820
Oh my God.
805
00:37:19,904 --> 00:37:21,697
-What the fuck?
-Yeah.
806
00:37:22,198 --> 00:37:25,493
Oh my. The pink Vans, the green Vans,
Why have you not pulled these out yet?
807
00:37:25,576 --> 00:37:27,912
I'm waiting for, like, a special moment.
808
00:37:27,995 --> 00:37:29,622
I made him show me his bedroom
809
00:37:29,705 --> 00:37:34,126
because, obvious reasons,
I want to be in his bedroom with him.
810
00:37:34,210 --> 00:37:36,337
-This is so cool.
-Isn't it?
811
00:37:36,420 --> 00:37:39,632
You have so many spots to journal
and think about life and stuff.
812
00:37:39,715 --> 00:37:40,800
[Grant] Literally, yeah.
813
00:37:40,883 --> 00:37:42,301
[Kay] It was a good stepping stone.
814
00:37:42,385 --> 00:37:44,470
Even though we can be secluded somewhere,
815
00:37:44,553 --> 00:37:46,973
it's just a different vibe
when it's in the bedroom.
816
00:37:47,848 --> 00:37:51,519
If I get scared and have nightmares,
I won't break any of your rules.
817
00:37:51,602 --> 00:37:53,896
You'll just find me right here
when you wake up.
818
00:37:53,980 --> 00:37:56,983
[upbeat music playing]
819
00:38:00,236 --> 00:38:02,196
Listen, that's my element.
820
00:38:02,280 --> 00:38:04,198
I… I see. I saw.
821
00:38:04,282 --> 00:38:06,450
-Look at you.
-[Courtney] Hey. [laughs]
822
00:38:06,534 --> 00:38:09,787
You're funny. You're obviously stunning.
823
00:38:10,371 --> 00:38:11,747
-Uh…
-Thank you. [chuckles]
824
00:38:11,831 --> 00:38:14,875
I definitely wanna get to know you,
like, way more.
825
00:38:14,959 --> 00:38:17,420
Like, I can just feel the… [clicks tongue]
826
00:38:17,920 --> 00:38:19,005
…the sexual tension.
827
00:38:19,088 --> 00:38:22,008
I just don't know how to act on it.
828
00:38:22,091 --> 00:38:25,136
-Obviously the sexual tension is there.
-[Courtney] Is there.
829
00:38:25,219 --> 00:38:27,138
-Right, you know.
-[laughs] It's there.
830
00:38:27,221 --> 00:38:29,265
Right. It's there. We can't deny it.
831
00:38:29,348 --> 00:38:31,017
But at the same time…
832
00:38:31,726 --> 00:38:34,020
-I still do love Shante.
-Yeah.
833
00:38:34,103 --> 00:38:36,856
At the end of the day,
like, that's still my person,
834
00:38:36,939 --> 00:38:38,316
and it's scary
835
00:38:38,899 --> 00:38:41,610
when I don't have to think
about not being closed off.
836
00:38:41,694 --> 00:38:43,195
With you, it's just like…
837
00:38:43,863 --> 00:38:45,364
-Effortless.
-It's natural.
838
00:38:45,448 --> 00:38:46,907
It's 'cause I want the best for you.
839
00:38:46,991 --> 00:38:48,617
-Yeah.
-[Courtney] I wanna make that clear.
840
00:38:48,701 --> 00:38:51,078
-I'm here to help you.
-[Brion] Mm-hmm.
841
00:38:51,162 --> 00:38:53,122
-Whatever that looks like.
-[Brion] Right.
842
00:38:53,205 --> 00:38:57,126
If that turns into something more, yay.
843
00:38:57,209 --> 00:38:59,253
If it's just to, you know, to figure out
844
00:38:59,337 --> 00:39:03,341
what you wanna do
in your relationship currently, yay.
845
00:39:03,424 --> 00:39:05,676
-[Brion] Right.
-But I'm here to help you right now.
846
00:39:06,552 --> 00:39:10,681
I feel for Brion. I do.
I get it because I've been there myself.
847
00:39:10,765 --> 00:39:12,475
I'm physically attracted to him,
848
00:39:12,558 --> 00:39:16,520
and granted, while I'm here
for him to grow and learn,
849
00:39:16,604 --> 00:39:18,731
I want it to be known, "I am into you."
850
00:39:18,814 --> 00:39:20,983
"If you wanna make a move, make a move."
851
00:39:22,735 --> 00:39:23,861
Just like that.
852
00:39:23,944 --> 00:39:28,908
Being on this island
has been so eye-opening for me,
853
00:39:28,991 --> 00:39:34,038
but I've never had an opportunity
to really ask these questions. Right?
854
00:39:34,121 --> 00:39:37,124
And, like, are you a great match for me?
855
00:39:37,792 --> 00:39:40,419
-Am I?
-You ask these questions. We don't know.
856
00:39:40,503 --> 00:39:43,005
-Only time will tell.
-Only time will tell?
857
00:39:43,089 --> 00:39:45,007
Are we here just to have sexual tension?
858
00:39:45,091 --> 00:39:47,009
-No, we're here to grow.
-Right. Right.
859
00:39:47,093 --> 00:39:49,762
It's respecting her at the end of the day.
860
00:39:49,845 --> 00:39:52,681
-But at the same time, it's--
-Not being closed off.
861
00:39:52,765 --> 00:39:56,435
-It's still the beginning.
-Room tour over. [sighs]
862
00:39:56,519 --> 00:39:59,647
-I can't wait to see you again very soon.
-Are you impressed?
863
00:39:59,730 --> 00:40:01,524
-Are you impressed, honestly?
-Yeah.
864
00:40:01,607 --> 00:40:04,151
-[Tyler] Hopefully I keep impressing you.
-This is my room too now.
865
00:40:04,235 --> 00:40:07,571
-[Tyler] Yeah, we'll talk more about that.
-♪ If you're looking for a summer love ♪
866
00:40:07,655 --> 00:40:09,031
♪ Summer love ♪
867
00:40:10,032 --> 00:40:12,952
♪ Summer love, summer love ♪
868
00:40:13,035 --> 00:40:15,162
♪ I'll be waiting… ♪
869
00:40:15,246 --> 00:40:17,248
-[Grant] What's up, bro?
-[Lino] How are you feeling?
870
00:40:17,331 --> 00:40:19,417
-[Grant] Good. How are you doing?
-[Lino] Pretty good.
871
00:40:19,500 --> 00:40:21,627
-Last night was fun.
-I didn't give in to temptation.
872
00:40:21,710 --> 00:40:23,421
-[Lino] There you go.
-Which is what matters.
873
00:40:23,504 --> 00:40:25,965
-Exactly.
-[lounge music playing]
874
00:40:26,048 --> 00:40:27,967
[Grant] Are you concerned
what Tayler might be thinking
875
00:40:28,050 --> 00:40:29,343
seeing what you were doing?
876
00:40:29,427 --> 00:40:31,595
Perception is reality at this point.
877
00:40:32,221 --> 00:40:33,180
Do you like him?
878
00:40:33,722 --> 00:40:36,809
Yeah, our conversations are so easy
every time we talk.
879
00:40:37,643 --> 00:40:41,439
For me, I'll start getting feelings quick,
and I felt that right away.
880
00:40:41,522 --> 00:40:44,984
So I kinda had that, like,
little butterfly feeling in my stomach.
881
00:40:45,067 --> 00:40:47,236
I feel like that could escalate quickly.
882
00:40:47,319 --> 00:40:51,323
Even though yesterday I did make
a few advancements in my connections,
883
00:40:51,407 --> 00:40:54,452
I kinda was thinking about Tayler
through the day.
884
00:40:54,535 --> 00:40:59,373
I still have the same agenda
that I had when I landed on this island.
885
00:40:59,457 --> 00:41:02,710
We did come here together,
and the goal is still to leave together.
886
00:41:03,419 --> 00:41:06,005
[gentle pop music playing]
♪ You hold my hand… ♪
887
00:41:12,303 --> 00:41:14,096
-What's up, guys? Hey!
-[man 1] Hey.
888
00:41:14,805 --> 00:41:16,015
-Mark!
-[man 2] Oh, what?
889
00:41:16,098 --> 00:41:18,642
Listen, I need a couple minutes
with the guys.
890
00:41:18,726 --> 00:41:20,728
-[women] Okay. Yeah.
-All right. Thanks.
891
00:41:20,811 --> 00:41:22,897
-[Grant] Bye, guys. Thank you.
-[women] Bye.
892
00:41:22,980 --> 00:41:23,939
Bye.
893
00:41:25,065 --> 00:41:27,443
Sorry to break up
what was obviously a vibe.
894
00:41:27,526 --> 00:41:28,777
Just wanted to stop by
895
00:41:28,861 --> 00:41:32,781
to let you four know that tonight
we're gonna have our first bonfire.
896
00:41:32,865 --> 00:41:33,699
[tense music playing]
897
00:41:33,782 --> 00:41:35,117
-All right.
-[exhales]
898
00:41:35,201 --> 00:41:37,786
[Mark] This is where
we'll talk about your journey so far,
899
00:41:37,870 --> 00:41:40,873
and you'll watch clips
of your partner's experiences
900
00:41:40,956 --> 00:41:42,666
on the other side of the island.
901
00:41:43,292 --> 00:41:45,169
And the same goes for your girlfriends.
902
00:41:45,252 --> 00:41:47,546
They'll also get a glimpse
of your time here.
903
00:41:47,630 --> 00:41:49,840
-That's scary.
-[Mark] I know it makes your heart pound.
904
00:41:50,466 --> 00:41:53,052
And all I'll say to you guys is
we'll get through it together.
905
00:41:53,135 --> 00:41:53,969
Appreciate it.
906
00:41:54,595 --> 00:41:57,223
-[exhales sharply]
-I'll see you guys tonight.
907
00:41:57,306 --> 00:41:59,141
-Thanks so much.
-[Brion] Jesus Christ.
908
00:41:59,767 --> 00:42:03,020
I wasn't expecting that. I thought
I had more time to mentally prepare.
909
00:42:03,103 --> 00:42:04,939
There's a lot of things I could see.
910
00:42:05,022 --> 00:42:07,816
I can't know for sure
if Ashley has broken any boundaries,
911
00:42:07,900 --> 00:42:10,027
and I'm gonna find that out tonight.
912
00:42:10,110 --> 00:42:11,529
Tonight's bonfire is huge.
913
00:42:11,612 --> 00:42:14,990
I'm more worried about
how she's painting our relationships.
914
00:42:15,074 --> 00:42:18,077
[scoffs] I'm worried
about the same thing, bro.
915
00:42:18,577 --> 00:42:20,955
I mean, I gave some ammunition, probably,
916
00:42:21,789 --> 00:42:24,458
but I think whatever is gonna happen
is for the best.
917
00:42:25,209 --> 00:42:28,045
[Brion] The bombshell of a lifetime,
first bonfire.
918
00:42:28,754 --> 00:42:32,299
Clips just rolled in my head
of shit where I'm not even thinking,
919
00:42:32,383 --> 00:42:34,468
I just say this.
I do that. I say this. I do that.
920
00:42:35,177 --> 00:42:38,889
It's gonna be interesting, boys.
Are we allowed to drink there? [laughs]
921
00:42:38,973 --> 00:42:41,684
♪ And let the games begin ♪
922
00:42:43,435 --> 00:42:46,855
♪ Let the games begin… ♪
923
00:42:46,939 --> 00:42:49,108
[Ashley] We have the first bonfire.
924
00:42:49,191 --> 00:42:54,280
I truly don't think Grant would have done
anything physical at this point,
925
00:42:54,363 --> 00:42:56,865
but my stomach is in my fucking ass.
926
00:42:56,949 --> 00:42:59,201
I can't believe
I signed up for a situation
927
00:42:59,285 --> 00:43:02,538
where these girls are gonna be
throwing themselves at the men.
928
00:43:03,038 --> 00:43:05,624
[Shante] I'm feeling pretty optimistic.
929
00:43:05,708 --> 00:43:07,167
Um, I love Brion.
930
00:43:07,251 --> 00:43:10,504
I don't think
he's crossed any lines or boundaries,
931
00:43:10,588 --> 00:43:16,385
but they were aggressive girls,
so I hope that he's able to stay strong.
932
00:43:16,885 --> 00:43:20,306
♪ The secrets lie and monsters creep ♪
933
00:43:20,389 --> 00:43:25,060
♪ You'll never get the best of me… ♪
934
00:43:25,144 --> 00:43:27,855
I knew this day was coming,
but… [inhales forcefully]
935
00:43:27,938 --> 00:43:28,814
…it's hard.
936
00:43:28,897 --> 00:43:31,692
We were pretty open about
not putting restrictions on each other,
937
00:43:31,775 --> 00:43:33,694
but that doesn't mean it's no-holds-barred
938
00:43:33,777 --> 00:43:35,904
and you can go ahead
and do whatever you want.
939
00:43:36,989 --> 00:43:38,532
[Tyler] Got to remember she's an adult.
940
00:43:38,616 --> 00:43:41,869
She's her own person,
so I'm just ready to see what's going on.
941
00:43:42,494 --> 00:43:46,373
♪ Let the games begin… ♪
942
00:43:49,543 --> 00:43:50,377
[music stops]
943
00:43:50,461 --> 00:43:52,463
-[pensive music playing]
-[Grant] Here we go, fellas.
944
00:43:54,590 --> 00:43:55,424
Tonight's the night.
945
00:43:57,092 --> 00:43:57,968
Nervous?
946
00:43:58,469 --> 00:44:00,304
I got a little pit in my stomach.
I won't lie.
947
00:44:00,387 --> 00:44:01,347
Heart's racing.
948
00:44:02,723 --> 00:44:05,643
I'm scared to see
Ashley disrespecting me more,
949
00:44:05,726 --> 00:44:08,854
siding with these guys,
calling me arrogant.
950
00:44:08,937 --> 00:44:12,858
There's a possibility that I'm gonna see
a look on her face of, like, you know,
951
00:44:12,941 --> 00:44:15,069
"Oh shit." Like, "This is real."
952
00:44:17,488 --> 00:44:19,198
-[Grant] Ready, guys?
-[Brion] Let's do this.
953
00:44:19,865 --> 00:44:20,699
Let's do it.
954
00:44:22,117 --> 00:44:23,118
[exhales forcefully]
955
00:44:23,202 --> 00:44:26,246
♪ We'll ride ♪
956
00:44:26,330 --> 00:44:30,751
♪ Through the eye ♪
957
00:44:32,169 --> 00:44:37,591
♪ Of the storm ♪
958
00:44:37,675 --> 00:44:41,762
♪ Of the storm ♪
959
00:44:42,346 --> 00:44:44,682
[Brion] I don't think
Shante is doing anything physical.
960
00:44:45,265 --> 00:44:48,602
I just don't think that's who she is,
but I'm nervous.
961
00:44:48,686 --> 00:44:51,313
She's probably opening up already
and saying,
962
00:44:51,397 --> 00:44:54,817
"Hey, Brion makes me feel like this.
Brion will do this in a relationship."
963
00:44:55,943 --> 00:44:58,529
[Tyler] I know there's a lot
going on internally right now.
964
00:44:58,612 --> 00:45:02,908
These bonfires are a kind of a beast.
You just don't know what you're gonna see.
965
00:45:02,991 --> 00:45:05,369
[dramatic music playing]
966
00:45:07,287 --> 00:45:09,790
-What's up, fellas?
-Hey, Mark.
967
00:45:11,250 --> 00:45:12,793
[music stops]
968
00:45:13,377 --> 00:45:15,379
[Grant exhales forcefully, sniffs]
969
00:45:15,462 --> 00:45:16,547
[Brion sighs] Man.
970
00:45:17,047 --> 00:45:19,591
-Welcome to your first bonfire…
-[Lino sighs]
971
00:45:19,675 --> 00:45:21,301
…where you're gonna see clips.
972
00:45:21,385 --> 00:45:23,053
It's not the whole story.
973
00:45:23,804 --> 00:45:25,097
-It's a glimpse.
-Yeah.
974
00:45:25,681 --> 00:45:28,892
What it will do is
evoke an emotion, a feeling.
975
00:45:28,976 --> 00:45:30,102
Or not.
976
00:45:31,270 --> 00:45:32,104
[sighs]
977
00:45:32,187 --> 00:45:35,482
And that's where
some of your answers can come from.
978
00:45:36,108 --> 00:45:36,942
[softly] Yeah.
979
00:45:37,443 --> 00:45:38,736
Let's get into it.
980
00:45:38,819 --> 00:45:40,529
[suspenseful music playing]
981
00:45:43,157 --> 00:45:44,908
Okay, Grant. Here we go.
982
00:45:47,244 --> 00:45:49,580
[Ashley] I just think I need so much more…
983
00:45:49,663 --> 00:45:51,498
-Yeah.
-…than what he's giving.
984
00:45:51,582 --> 00:45:54,168
This is the most toxic situation
I've ever been in,
985
00:45:54,251 --> 00:45:55,669
and I can almost guarantee, like,
986
00:45:55,753 --> 00:45:58,213
any relationship he's been in,
this is what he does.
987
00:45:58,297 --> 00:45:59,131
[Alexa] Yeah.
988
00:45:59,214 --> 00:46:03,135
And I'm just giving him
so many opportunities to prove it,
989
00:46:03,218 --> 00:46:06,263
and he is not capable of it.
990
00:46:06,346 --> 00:46:07,347
[Alexa scoffs]
991
00:46:07,431 --> 00:46:08,891
[Ashley] I'm never gonna trust him.
992
00:46:08,974 --> 00:46:11,935
He just, like, overpromises
and under delivers all the time,
993
00:46:12,019 --> 00:46:13,395
and it drives me insane.
994
00:46:13,479 --> 00:46:14,646
That's just embarrassing.
995
00:46:14,730 --> 00:46:17,858
-Like, I don't want that guy.
-[Alexa] Yeah. Yeah.
996
00:46:17,941 --> 00:46:20,402
[tense music plays]
997
00:46:20,486 --> 00:46:22,446
-What did you hear?
-[Grant] Um…
998
00:46:22,529 --> 00:46:26,116
I mean, she's…
she's complained about, you know,
999
00:46:26,200 --> 00:46:28,494
me not being able
to prove myself to her.
1000
00:46:28,577 --> 00:46:30,704
That's kind of why… why we're here.
1001
00:46:31,705 --> 00:46:34,208
Hearing her say,
"I'm never gonna trust him,"
1002
00:46:34,958 --> 00:46:36,293
and it's "just embarrassing,"
1003
00:46:36,376 --> 00:46:37,795
and "I don't want that guy"…
1004
00:46:39,296 --> 00:46:40,297
[exhales forcefully]
1005
00:46:42,341 --> 00:46:43,926
It's… It's, uh…
1006
00:46:45,093 --> 00:46:47,888
I haven't understood
her point of view for so long,
1007
00:46:47,971 --> 00:46:49,848
and at the final bonfire,
1008
00:46:49,932 --> 00:46:52,518
I'm going to, you know, see if she's grown
1009
00:46:52,601 --> 00:46:54,561
and if she's able to let go
of that resentment
1010
00:46:54,645 --> 00:46:57,356
and give me that miracle thing
that I thought, you know,
1011
00:46:57,439 --> 00:46:59,525
uh, could possibly happen,
1012
00:46:59,608 --> 00:47:01,318
but I don't know.
1013
00:47:02,277 --> 00:47:06,365
So much of this language
you just had was "She, she, she, she,"
1014
00:47:06,448 --> 00:47:08,700
and then we come to this understanding.
1015
00:47:08,784 --> 00:47:12,704
"If I prove to you that I'm trustworthy,
then transactionally we can move forward,"
1016
00:47:12,788 --> 00:47:17,042
which is not as organic
as I'd like to see a relationship become.
1017
00:47:17,125 --> 00:47:18,210
Better, maybe,
1018
00:47:19,086 --> 00:47:22,631
is to look at why there has been
any transgressions in the first place.
1019
00:47:22,714 --> 00:47:23,549
Right.
1020
00:47:23,632 --> 00:47:29,179
What is it that you would like to work on
that has you be less discontent?
1021
00:47:30,138 --> 00:47:31,890
But right now, we work on you.
1022
00:47:33,433 --> 00:47:34,852
-Can you do that?
-Yeah.
1023
00:47:35,352 --> 00:47:37,312
[Mark] Okay. I know who's next.
1024
00:47:37,396 --> 00:47:39,147
Brion, are you cool?
1025
00:47:39,231 --> 00:47:40,774
Oh God. [sighs]
1026
00:47:40,858 --> 00:47:43,986
-It's all right, bro. We're here for you.
-[Brion grunts]
1027
00:47:44,945 --> 00:47:48,198
-[percussion music playing]
-[women screaming excitedly]
1028
00:48:04,965 --> 00:48:07,259
[eerie tone plays]
1029
00:48:08,927 --> 00:48:10,971
-[pensive music playing]
-Okay.
1030
00:48:11,054 --> 00:48:12,890
What does that mean? What did you see?
1031
00:48:12,973 --> 00:48:14,683
Her having fun.
1032
00:48:14,766 --> 00:48:15,893
Um…
1033
00:48:15,976 --> 00:48:17,853
I'm glad he didn't touch her ass…
1034
00:48:17,936 --> 00:48:21,565
-[men laugh]
-…but I kind of wanted to see that.
1035
00:48:22,149 --> 00:48:23,442
I'm so outgoing
1036
00:48:24,151 --> 00:48:26,778
and her coming here,
it forces her to do that.
1037
00:48:27,654 --> 00:48:30,198
Right now, it just feels like it's Brion,
1038
00:48:30,282 --> 00:48:32,200
and Shante's attached at the hip
at all times
1039
00:48:32,284 --> 00:48:33,702
and didn't have her own personality.
1040
00:48:33,785 --> 00:48:35,662
So I want her to have
her own friends, own vibe,
1041
00:48:35,746 --> 00:48:38,624
I want people to separate us sometimes.
1042
00:48:38,707 --> 00:48:40,500
I'm coming here, and I'm changing,
1043
00:48:40,584 --> 00:48:43,295
and I'm being more open,
and I'm starting to question, like,
1044
00:48:43,378 --> 00:48:46,632
"Is this relationship right for me?"
1045
00:48:46,715 --> 00:48:49,885
Like, I've been so sexual,
and she's so not sexual
1046
00:48:49,968 --> 00:48:52,846
that I've tried to, like,
come down a little bit.
1047
00:48:52,930 --> 00:48:55,641
But then I'm hearing you can have both.
1048
00:48:55,724 --> 00:48:59,770
Do I need to bring it down,
or am I valid in my feelings?
1049
00:48:59,853 --> 00:49:02,981
We think, sometimes,
that it's about, again, discipline.
1050
00:49:03,482 --> 00:49:05,943
"I love her, so I'm gonna give up stuff."
1051
00:49:06,026 --> 00:49:10,197
That's different than a love
that's so full
1052
00:49:10,280 --> 00:49:12,574
that those things become less important.
1053
00:49:12,658 --> 00:49:13,867
-Yeah.
-Right.
1054
00:49:14,409 --> 00:49:16,203
But when our heart isn't sure,
1055
00:49:16,870 --> 00:49:18,747
it's going to make us act out…
1056
00:49:18,830 --> 00:49:19,665
Mm-hmm.
1057
00:49:19,748 --> 00:49:23,961
…until you get real with it,
face it head-on and get resolved.
1058
00:49:24,044 --> 00:49:28,382
It's scary to think about,
but I guess that's… that's why we're here.
1059
00:49:29,675 --> 00:49:32,177
-Lino, you're up.
-I'm ready.
1060
00:49:32,260 --> 00:49:35,013
-[Mark] Okay, here we go.
-[Alexa] I… I don't need him.
1061
00:49:35,097 --> 00:49:37,391
Like, at one point, like…
[breath shuddering]
1062
00:49:37,474 --> 00:49:39,476
…we were strangers, and I was fine.
1063
00:49:40,060 --> 00:49:43,021
I have goals. I'm going back to school.
I'll have my own business.
1064
00:49:43,105 --> 00:49:45,440
I have so many things I can do by myself.
1065
00:49:45,524 --> 00:49:47,025
Like, I don't really need him.
1066
00:49:47,109 --> 00:49:48,402
[tense music playing]
1067
00:49:52,280 --> 00:49:53,115
I mean…
1068
00:49:53,198 --> 00:49:54,992
[breathes in, then inhales deeply]
1069
00:49:55,867 --> 00:49:58,537
-That's definitely news to me.
-That's news to you.
1070
00:49:58,620 --> 00:50:01,623
-A hundred percent.
-She just said she wanted to get married.
1071
00:50:01,707 --> 00:50:04,793
Yeah, I mean,
this is the woman who came here secure,
1072
00:50:04,876 --> 00:50:06,294
wanting to be engaged
1073
00:50:06,378 --> 00:50:09,548
and we came to this island
for me to gain that clarity and security,
1074
00:50:09,631 --> 00:50:11,466
and now she's saying she doesn't need me.
1075
00:50:12,884 --> 00:50:15,012
We think we know someone until we don't.
1076
00:50:16,763 --> 00:50:18,390
She does need you, man.
1077
00:50:18,473 --> 00:50:22,144
You know, she's talking about
going back to school, opening a business.
1078
00:50:22,227 --> 00:50:24,730
Those things weren't even
in her mind before me.
1079
00:50:25,522 --> 00:50:29,151
She has this mindset
because I'm the one that pushed her there.
1080
00:50:29,234 --> 00:50:31,028
And she put me through the wringer
1081
00:50:31,111 --> 00:50:33,113
for the first few months
of our relationship.
1082
00:50:33,697 --> 00:50:36,450
You told me about the infidelity
in the first part of your relationship,
1083
00:50:36,533 --> 00:50:40,037
then you said, "We've worked through it."
I'm gonna offer to you that you haven't.
1084
00:50:40,704 --> 00:50:44,207
-Obviously. [chuckles]
-That may actually not be hurting you.
1085
00:50:44,958 --> 00:50:48,170
That may actually be the thing
you're hanging your hat on
1086
00:50:48,253 --> 00:50:50,088
because of other things
you haven't looked at.
1087
00:50:50,756 --> 00:50:52,507
I've been so versatile with her,
1088
00:50:52,591 --> 00:50:55,969
willing to uproot my life
to further her career,
1089
00:50:56,053 --> 00:50:58,472
and you feel like
you have no control and that…
1090
00:51:00,057 --> 00:51:02,309
-Exactly.
-That's the beginning of this for you.
1091
00:51:02,392 --> 00:51:05,479
-This is your journey, Lino.
-I agree. It is my journey.
1092
00:51:05,562 --> 00:51:07,355
I need to fully experience it,
1093
00:51:07,439 --> 00:51:09,608
and I need to
lean in to those aspirations.
1094
00:51:09,691 --> 00:51:12,569
Because we think
it's about the other person…
1095
00:51:13,153 --> 00:51:13,987
It's about me.
1096
00:51:14,071 --> 00:51:15,322
…and it rarely is.
1097
00:51:16,031 --> 00:51:16,865
I agree.
1098
00:51:18,075 --> 00:51:19,576
-Good job.
-[Lino sighs]
1099
00:51:19,659 --> 00:51:20,827
Tyler.
1100
00:51:21,870 --> 00:51:23,455
-Ready?
-I'm ready.
1101
00:51:23,538 --> 00:51:24,372
[Mark] Okay.
1102
00:51:25,290 --> 00:51:27,000
[Tayler] He was the one
with the infidelity.
1103
00:51:27,084 --> 00:51:29,836
He was the one
that, you know, walked away from the job,
1104
00:51:29,920 --> 00:51:33,256
so, like, for ten months now,
he hasn't had a job.
1105
00:51:33,840 --> 00:51:37,135
-That falls a lot of responsibility on me.
-[Case] For sure.
1106
00:51:37,219 --> 00:51:38,512
Because I own the house,
1107
00:51:38,595 --> 00:51:40,931
and I've supplied the groceries
and things like that.
1108
00:51:41,515 --> 00:51:43,975
It being my house,
I like things a certain way.
1109
00:51:44,059 --> 00:51:47,104
Like the toilet seat.
You're a man. Put the toilet seat down.
1110
00:51:47,187 --> 00:51:49,106
-[Case] Does he not put it down?
-[Tayler] No.
1111
00:51:49,189 --> 00:51:51,983
This is something
we've been working on for a year.
1112
00:51:52,067 --> 00:51:55,195
Little things like that
in a relationship are really important.
1113
00:51:55,278 --> 00:51:56,238
In my opinion.
1114
00:51:56,321 --> 00:51:57,656
-[Tayler] I think…
-[sighs angrily]
1115
00:51:57,739 --> 00:52:01,284
…maybe the level
of relationship that I am wanting,
1116
00:52:01,368 --> 00:52:03,787
he's not necessarily able to give.
1117
00:52:06,039 --> 00:52:06,998
Talk to me.
1118
00:52:07,082 --> 00:52:09,042
[pensive music playing]
1119
00:52:09,126 --> 00:52:11,419
Tell me what you saw.
Tell me what you're feeling.
1120
00:52:11,503 --> 00:52:14,840
She's used
me not putting the toilet seat down
1121
00:52:15,757 --> 00:52:19,261
to prove that I'm not thoughtful
in the relationship.
1122
00:52:19,344 --> 00:52:22,597
Honestly, I just feel like she's trying
to tear me down and paint a picture of me.
1123
00:52:22,681 --> 00:52:26,226
I can do 99 things right,
but if I do one thing wrong,
1124
00:52:26,309 --> 00:52:27,811
she uses that as ammunition
1125
00:52:27,894 --> 00:52:31,439
to prove that my character is flawed,
and I don't value her.
1126
00:52:31,523 --> 00:52:32,524
And that's just not true.
1127
00:52:33,108 --> 00:52:35,610
And that's why I feel like
we've been arguing the past year.
1128
00:52:35,694 --> 00:52:38,905
It's like she can't see past
this tiny stuff. Like, I'm done.
1129
00:52:38,989 --> 00:52:40,615
I'm done with that anger.
1130
00:52:40,699 --> 00:52:42,701
Anger, I get.
1131
00:52:43,869 --> 00:52:48,373
There's also a feeling behind the anger
that it hurts when you're not heard.
1132
00:52:48,456 --> 00:52:50,709
-Hurts when you're…
-Yeah. Not valued.
1133
00:52:50,792 --> 00:52:53,420
Not valued. Okay, I'll buy that.
1134
00:52:53,503 --> 00:52:58,800
I am just now at a place in my life
where I'm valuing myself, you know,
1135
00:52:58,884 --> 00:53:00,844
and I'm looking for that encouragement
1136
00:53:01,636 --> 00:53:04,931
and to have a team member
to see that value and push me forward.
1137
00:53:05,015 --> 00:53:07,893
You've already had one situation
that didn't work out the way you wanted.
1138
00:53:08,685 --> 00:53:10,478
It almost feels like two now.
1139
00:53:10,562 --> 00:53:13,690
You don't have to make any decisions
for the future of your life right now.
1140
00:53:13,773 --> 00:53:14,900
It's not the time.
1141
00:53:15,483 --> 00:53:17,402
What you do get to look at
is how you're feeling
1142
00:53:17,485 --> 00:53:20,739
and how often you've felt that way.
1143
00:53:21,323 --> 00:53:24,075
I'm just honestly wanting
to kind of walk away right now.
1144
00:53:26,203 --> 00:53:28,788
You know, but I…
I'm trusting this process,
1145
00:53:28,872 --> 00:53:32,417
and I'm trusting that
y'all are going to help me through this.
1146
00:53:32,500 --> 00:53:33,668
We're here for you, man.
1147
00:53:33,752 --> 00:53:36,087
I'm hoping
that at least these guys and you
1148
00:53:37,047 --> 00:53:39,090
will at least show me some value.
1149
00:53:39,174 --> 00:53:41,885
This is your chance
to figure out what Tyler needs.
1150
00:53:42,802 --> 00:53:45,722
And if you're meant to be together,
it's going to work out.
1151
00:53:46,264 --> 00:53:49,601
I don't feel that right now,
but… I trust you.
1152
00:53:52,979 --> 00:53:56,524
Well, congratulations, guys.
You made it through your first bonfire.
1153
00:53:57,317 --> 00:53:59,152
[gentle music playing]
1154
00:53:59,236 --> 00:54:01,446
Tomorrow, you're gonna make a selection
1155
00:54:01,529 --> 00:54:03,281
of who you wanna go
on your next date with,
1156
00:54:03,990 --> 00:54:06,660
and when you make that decision,
you get to ask them.
1157
00:54:07,410 --> 00:54:09,704
I look forward to seeing where you are
when I see you again.
1158
00:54:09,788 --> 00:54:12,582
-[men] Thanks, Mark.
-[exhales sharply]
1159
00:54:12,666 --> 00:54:14,042
[Brion] Oh my goodness.
1160
00:54:14,834 --> 00:54:15,710
Good night, guys.
1161
00:54:15,794 --> 00:54:16,962
Good night, Mark.
1162
00:54:17,587 --> 00:54:21,633
[Tyler] Jesus Christ. Toilet seat?
Couldn't come up with something better?
1163
00:54:21,716 --> 00:54:23,885
I feel bad 'cause I feel like
1164
00:54:23,969 --> 00:54:25,845
some of them got hit
with a Louisville Slugger,
1165
00:54:27,222 --> 00:54:28,723
and I got hit with a feather.
1166
00:54:30,058 --> 00:54:34,604
I thought the next step was engagement,
and now I'm hearing she doesn't need me,
1167
00:54:34,688 --> 00:54:36,898
and how can you say you don't need me
1168
00:54:36,982 --> 00:54:39,526
but you've been choosing me
this whole time?
1169
00:54:40,026 --> 00:54:43,571
To have these doubts now… [sighs]
…it could change my life completely.
1170
00:54:43,655 --> 00:54:44,614
Y'all all right?
1171
00:54:45,657 --> 00:54:46,491
I don't know.
1172
00:54:47,075 --> 00:54:48,785
-Weird space?
-I don't know either right now.
1173
00:54:48,868 --> 00:54:50,954
-Yeah, a little.
-Weird space, yeah.
1174
00:54:51,830 --> 00:54:54,708
I've let Ashley get away with
treating me like this
1175
00:54:54,791 --> 00:54:57,210
because I felt bad about a mistake.
1176
00:54:57,294 --> 00:54:59,879
If she's not going to accept me,
I'm accepting that,
1177
00:55:00,380 --> 00:55:03,258
but I know that I deserve
someone who cares.
1178
00:55:04,134 --> 00:55:06,553
[voice breaking] I really don't know
where I'm going from here…
1179
00:55:06,636 --> 00:55:07,679
[clears throat]
1180
00:55:08,305 --> 00:55:12,309
…because I do love her,
and I do care for her, you know.
1181
00:55:12,392 --> 00:55:13,518
So it's just like…
1182
00:55:14,477 --> 00:55:16,187
I'm not perfect but, like,
1183
00:55:16,688 --> 00:55:18,064
it's… it's just not fair.
1184
00:55:18,648 --> 00:55:23,069
[introspective pop music playing]
♪ It's only getting harder to breathe ♪
1185
00:55:23,153 --> 00:55:26,448
♪ To breathe, to breathe ♪
1186
00:55:26,531 --> 00:55:28,616
♪ You got me on the line ♪
1187
00:55:28,700 --> 00:55:31,077
♪ And I feel I cannot fight it ♪
1188
00:55:31,161 --> 00:55:34,664
♪ Watching me sip your poison ♪
1189
00:55:36,166 --> 00:55:38,084
♪ You got me on the line ♪
1190
00:55:38,168 --> 00:55:41,046
♪ And I feel I cannot fight it ♪
1191
00:55:41,129 --> 00:55:43,590
♪ Your kisses taste like poison ♪
1192
00:55:45,967 --> 00:55:47,761
♪ My heart has been destroyed ♪
1193
00:55:47,844 --> 00:55:50,638
♪ And I know that you've enjoyed it ♪
1194
00:55:50,722 --> 00:55:53,725
♪ Watching me sip your poison… ♪