All language subtitles for Planet Sex With Cara Delevingne S01E03 720p ganool-en

We are ready.

Nat, how do you feel?

I would like to know, what is it
that brings you all to orgasm?

Yes. The more fingers, the better.
I'll probably ask you for more.

So, here I am in Barcelona
on my first ever porn shoot.

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Whoo!

The porn industry is estimated
to be worth up to a whopping

a hundred billion dollars a year,
with more web traffic than

Netflix, Amazon
and Twitter combined.

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Oh! Oh! This is horrible.

And I worry about the impact it's
having on the people who use it.

Whoa! Like, this image is crazy.

So is there an alternative?

They're hugging. It's great.

Can I find porn I feel good about?

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OK...

Every day, there are
hundreds of millions of visits

to porn sites across the world.

With most people watching it
on their mobile devices,

porn is now more accessible
than ever,

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And it wasn't until...
I don't know, a couple of years ago

when I just started
trying to masturbate without it.

And it was hard.
And without a sex toy, too.

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a lot less respect or a way worse
sexual relationship with myself.

Porn is quite intense, and I think
it can be quite scary

when it gives young people
a very skewed way of

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were hentai, Japanese,
lesbian and MILF.

But things can get pretty extreme.

In 2020, around 40% of porn
on Xvideos and Pornhub

included acts
of physical aggression.

I've seen a lot of porn
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So am I always going to
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Erika Lust creates films that
are radically different to the free,

easily accessible stuff
you find on most porn websites.

She takes
a totally ethical approach,

but I wonder -
what does that really mean?

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And what was it about mainstream
porn that is a problem? Mm-hm.

Well, for me it's the whole
kind of system, I think.

I think that most of the people
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Punish fucking. When you watch
women having sex with these men

or whatever, you can tell
they're not turned on. It's crazy.

With mainstream porn today, they are
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So here, what do we see?

We see two big men and we see a very
young girl. She looks so young.

If we read the tag line, it says,

"Tiny teen destroyed
by two giant black dudes."

And this is an example of
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So gross. Here's another
really good example.

This is about "lesbian beauty
tries her first cock and loves it".

And what is this about?
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and they're like, but that's
their favourite one to watch

because it's safer
than the other ones.

Well, I'm like, "It's not really
lesbian sex, either,"

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Look at the language. This is...
There's no end to it.

And then I have an example that
you are not going to like at all.

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because I want to change
porn culture. I also seen how this

independent movement around porn
has grown since I started.

I never even considered or thought
that there was female directors

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film-making, because that's
the only way we're going to be

able to see the perspective shift.

What she showed me
was, yeah, really horrifying.

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porn I'm hoping that I can
finally feel good about.

I was completely desensitised
by the porn I'd watched.

In my mind, the dangerous part, it's
a lot of female objectification,

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I speak to a lot of women
and they have the same feeling,

and it's horrible. There's
so much shame involved in that.

And you can't ever unsee
any of that stuff.

There's a lot of weird shit
in the world!

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But when it comes to
erotic depictions of women,

oh, dear, it can be
pretty dark and degrading.

Akihabara is the beating heart
of Japan's manga industry,

worth around $5 billion a year.

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and hardcore, hentai.

And I'm sensing
two main themes here...

..wildly oversized breasts and
the sexualisation of schoolgirls,

and both creep me out.

Whoa! Like, this image is crazy!

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But I've been told
there's an erotic manga subculture

that's way more appealing
to women and less degrading.

Stay with me here. Yes, Boys Love
is gay sex between men

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two people who are giving
AND receiving pleasure.

Obviously, BL has
a really positive influence.

Do you hope it reaches
a wider audience?

And what do you think
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And I kind of wish there was
a middle ground that straight men

could be into that wasn't so sexual.

We can draw anime.

I think we need more stuff
like Japan's Boy's Love comics...

..sexy stories that reflect the full
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For me, what I want to capture
is raw, true, real-life intimacy.

The things that I find
extremely sexy are the forbidden,

like English repression
in terms of sexuality.

You know, I remember
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and more lately, that Bridgerton
porn kind of side. See? See?

So, for me, inspiration
comes from all over the place -

a great story or an interesting
character or a location

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"..sex in a space like that."
Erika you're the best.

I cannot wait to work with you.

It's going to be amazing.
Thank you so much.

I've realised that not all porn
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Germany, meet Gandalf.

Welcome in Berlin.

Thanks!

This not-too-shabby Trabi
will be dropping me

at the Schwules, or gay, Museum.

It looks pretty ordinary,

but this place owns the biggest
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I think that porn is particularly
important for LGBTQI people

because you have very little
representation of queer people

in mainstream media to begin with.

OK, so here we are.

Oh, wow.
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And if we go over here...

..many VHS tapes!

Wow! The Pizza Boy 2!

Oh, my God. There's a lot
of dicks and asses,

there's not a lot of women
back here. No, it's not.

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by a German director, Wieland Speck.

So, the idea here is that
everybody pretended there were no

condoms, you know,
so you saw people kissing.

And then it came to the fucking, and
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So the idea is
to make using a condom sexy.

When you have a representation
of queer people,

maybe they are, like,
allowed to hold hands,

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What is happening here? Why is he
so bad at this? I don't know.

Why's there so much air at the end?
I've never seen that done before.

THEY LAUGH
Oh, my God!

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They are drag queens. The drag
queens are beating up the skinheads.

Yeah, I've never been to Berlin
and done anything like this,

so it's been really amazing.
I love Berlin!

Yay! That's a wrap for Berlin.
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So I would just like to see
more diversity in the people that

write the porn, the people
that direct the porn,

the people that are in the porn.
I just want it to be real.

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It's something that you reach for
to help you in what you need,

what you rely on.
Whoa, was I addicted to porn?

I wouldn't watch it
every day, for sure.

I wouldn't need to have
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but new research is making
scientists think again.

The University of California,
San Diego is the site of some

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For him, there's one question
more important than any other -

can you REALLY get addicted to porn?

For majority of people, pornographic
watching is just an entertainment.

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not how much, but how do you watch
and when do you watch?

The average age of patients we've
seen in treatment is around 27.

So, usually, they have been
watching pornography

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brains of people who struggle
with problematic pornography use

with those who use porn
but never experience any problems.

These tests compare the brain
activity of problematic porn

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One is related to
their ventral striatum.

This is a reward circuit,
and it becomes super sensitive

for all the triggers
related to pornography watching.

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And this is linked
to less grey matter volume

in the prefrontal cortex.
This is this part of the brain.

When we compare
problematic pornography users

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We should have
around 40% grey matter,

but problematic porn users
have less.

And less grey matter is linked to
addiction, although it's not clear

whether lower grey matter is a
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by the World Health Organization
as a clinical condition.

That means people have
better access to

treatment like antidepressants
and psychotherapy.

It's very difficult to quit porn
once you develop this

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So, the good news for
porn and substance addicts

is that brain function
can bounce back.

I'm back in horny-porny,
Spainy Barcelona.

Ah!

I love those ideas.

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I feel like exploring
time periods and group sex.

I've always been obsessed
with the '60s and '70s,

the way everything looked
but also the sexual revolution,

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And we should find some good music
to set kind of the ambience.

Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes! Is it all
female or male? I think everyone.

The idea of taking it outside the
conventional standard of what sex

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For me, I think that porn is
really lacking in the female voice

or at least different voices,
different points of view.

So much porn, but so much of it
is on the same narrative.

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of what love or intimacy
should look like.

Manhattan - I've heard it's home
to another pioneering woman

offering an alternative
to the mainstream porn industry,

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You roll first. For me, wow,
this is love - real, sexy love.

MakeLoveNotPorn is a paid
subscription video platform

launched by the entrepreneur
Cindy Gallop.

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We are the world's first and only
user-generated, human-curated

social sex video sharing platform.

And forget the unreal, filtered
porn-perfect bodies on

so many mainstream sites.

Real-world sex is
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casually, recreationally for sex.

And I'm deliberately very vocal
about all of that because

I realised I was experiencing
what happens when today's

total freedom of access to hardcore
porn online meets our society's

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I thought, gosh, if I'm experiencing
this, other people must be as well.

And I realised I'd uncovered a huge,
global social issue. Incredible.

So, this video is by Goddess Erica,
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when we can expand the definition
of real-world sex.

Tantric kissing was something

we hadn't had until this video,
which was really exiting.

This isn't making me, like, horny.
Even though it's not NOT making me

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It's like... It's just so backwards
about what people believe.

It's pretty obvious to me why this
real-world content is so appealing.

But why, I wonder, would anyone want
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Oh, my God. Amazing.

That video made me feel
so much more than I expected.

Like, I actually felt like I wanted
to cry, cos it made me really want

to kiss someone that I felt
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beautiful, beautiful.
That's one of the nice things

with MakeLoveNotPorn, because I
always like to think that, you know,

with mainstream pornography,
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"This is so great." Thank you!

I think Cindy's platform
is ethical, real and raunchy.

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She teaches porn literacy
to young people -

in a nutshell, how to think
critically about mainstream porn

that requires one or two clicks
and no subscriptions.

As a health educator working in
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meant to define me
or explain who I am.

I started watching porn
when I was fairly young.

That's how I was introduced to sex.
Yeah. How old?

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Then I started
becoming more curious.

I was able to stumble upon
porn websites,

and that was around the age of ten.

I was, like, 14 or so. "I know
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Like when you touch someone's hand
for a long period of time,

it will turn on their whole body.
Like, just to show that the whole

body of a woman is a sexual organ.

Teaching pornography literacy
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getting pregnant,
how to not contract an infection.

A lot of my students
are using mainstream pornography

as the main instruction manual.
That is normalising the lack

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We need to help
young people understand

that this shit is not real.

I think a lot of teenage boys
think that they'll be a pizza

delivery boy and they'll just
go to a house one day

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and their parents won't tell them
and their teachers won't speak

to them about what sex is.
That's all they know.

I think the whole porn industry
needs to just take a step up

and go up a level, because porn
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Ready?

We are on the way back in Barcelona
to watch Erika direct

the porn film
loosely based on my fantasies.

So I'm very excited.

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where we actually get to know
the performers.

The cool bubble around here, please.

So professional. So cool!

Now, I know that Erika's films
are all about inclusivity,

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Bishop, what do you think?

THEY LAUGH

My back is actually
quite a sensitive space,

but, like, impact play
is actually fine.

I'm pretty into giving,

so, like, blow jobs, rimming,
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I'm pretty easy with
almost everything, minus anal sex

and playing with my nipples.
They're too sensitive to touch.

And I also would like to know, what
is it that brings you all to orgasm?

Yeah. OK, well, in that case,
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Thank you. And cut.

I love this, because I think that
makes the whole statement, I think.

James Bond.
James Bond! My Bond girl.

It looks unbelievable.

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what makes them reach an orgasm,
what makes them comfortable,

what makes them uncomfortable.
Just making my dreams come true

in terms of what it should be.
After filming sex personally,

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We're going to talk about
the light and the best angles

and the best places and that.
Right, so then they can...

But then when we start,
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Yes!

Sexy!

Yes! That looks great.

As the director, I'm really trying
always to prioritise women

when I'm searching for people.
I can see the difference.

I can see how they focus
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the story you want to tell.

That is a wrap. We have a wrap.

Whoo!

So ends my time
with Lady Lust and team.

Always good to go out with a bang.

Thank you!

It wasn't that strange, was it?
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There's boundaries,
respect and care.

No-one's exploited
and everyone's included.

I came in kind of like,
"Why would you pay for porn?"

You pay for an experience,
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That's the most important thing, cos
you get really attached to them all.

I was like, "Yeah, go! Come! Whoo!"

I don't know. That was amazing.
I'm like, "Ah, you get it."

I want to high-five all of them.
It was wonderful.

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that I knew it was in real life.

If I had seen that kind of porn when
I was a teenager or kid, I would've

felt more respected and asked for
what I wanted as a woman a lot more.

The first time
I asked a man for what

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There is a healthy way
that porn can be made and watched,

ranging from, like, amateur porn,
Cindy Gallop, MakeLoveNotPorn,

or Erika Lust, an ethical feminist,
but more equality-type porn.

But the problem