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NARRATOR: Previously...
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RICHARD: I came into this
with high hopes and big dreams,
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and it's ended in a devastating,
shattering way.
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Andrea and Richard
made their heartbreaking exit.
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(EMOTIONALLY) I'll never forget
in my entire life...
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(SOBS)
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And the experiment also bid farewell
to Cassandra and Tristan.
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CASSANDRA: We're ready to accept
that we're just gonna be friends.
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But for some couples...
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Do you feel admiration for Lucinda?
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100%.
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Do you know admiration
is the gateway to love?
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..their love continued to shine
brighter than ever before.
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I never thought
that an experiment like this
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could really work.
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It feels like
we have made a breakthrough.
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Sara continued
to reconnect with Tim.
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We see right through it.
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(TENSE MUSIC)
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I just don't
wanna be involved anymore.
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Cracks appeared for Eden and Jayden.
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She said, "If you don't say
what I tell you to say,
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"I'm done with you
and I'm leaving you."
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What?
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JOHN: Jayden, are you starting
to question
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whether this is
the right person for you?
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It's a hard one. Like, so, yeah.
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NARRATOR: Tonight...
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I'm alive!
Lauren is back.
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And don't say you're just hoping
for a root.
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(LAUGHS)
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Honey, I'm home.
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Our couples pack up and head home
as part of Homestays Week.
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In you go.
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Over two big nights...
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welcome home, sweetie.
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..our newlyweds
discover how their other half lives.
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(BRIGHT MUSIC TURNS SOUR)
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And for some,
it's an eye-opening experience.
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LUCINDA: It's a real bachelor's pad,
this one.
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(YAPS)
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TIMOTHY: She's
not that well trained.
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She pissed on the carpet.
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Why did you lie?
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Hard conversations will be had...
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Did you think
you would get away with it?
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We're not rehashing.
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..as they discuss plans
for life after the experiment.
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I got the impression you were basic.
Yeah.
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Tori comes face-to-face with some of
Jack's most beloved clients...
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I've always kind of been, like,
one of the boys.
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I feel like when I come across
a girl that only has guy friends,
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it's usually because
they're sleeping with all the boys.
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(HARSH MUSIC)
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(PHONE RINGS)
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NARRATOR: But a last minute
disappearing act
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threatens to derail homestays
for Jayden.
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(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
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(BRIGHT MUSIC)
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NARRATOR: It's the morning
after the Commitment Ceremony...
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JACK: Wakey, wakey.
Uh-uh.
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Isn't this great?
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(TORI MUMBLES INCOHERENTLY)
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RIDGE: Babe, I got you a present.
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You're gonna be stupid with this.
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It's in my pants.
(LAUGHS)
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There you go.
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Bet you weren't expecting that.
(LAUGHS)
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After last night's
successful couch session,
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Lucinda and Timothy
are reflecting on their progress
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over the last few weeks.
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LUCINDA: You did really well
last night on the couch.
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Ahh, shit!
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So...
Yeah, it was good.
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Yeah.
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No, I felt the couch session was...
It was OK.
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For Timothy, the past few weeks
have seen a massive breakthrough
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as he is finally
embracing his vulnerabilities.
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TIMOTHY: Lucinda's a rock.
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LUCINDA: I am loving the unravelling
of this gorgeous creature.
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He's SUCH a gorgeous man.
OTHERS: Aw.
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ALL: Oh!
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Oh, Jesus.
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All of these emotional breakthroughs
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have melted the heart
of the once self-proclaimed Tinman.
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TIMOTHY: I don't know what it is.
I don't know what it is.
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I just can't hold myself together.
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I'm 51 years old
and I've never really let anyone in.
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I feel like I've wasted those years.
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I'm just so proud of you
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and watching our journey
and opening,
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and our genuine regard
and enjoyment of each other.
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It was really lovely.
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While Lucinda celebrates
her husband's emotional progress,
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Timothy is feeling drained,
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suffering an emotional hangover,
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exhausted from opening up
over the past few weeks.
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You know,
I did that session yesterday
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and then,
just the last couple of days,
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and I just feel
it's too exhausting for me.
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It's been a really hard few weeks.
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Yeah.
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I know Lu's really happy about me
opening up but I'm just depleted.
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(EXHALES)
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I've gotta get my emotions in check
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and it frustrates me...
(EXHALES)
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I know what they're saying,
I get it.
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But I put things in a box
and I move on.
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Mmm.
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And as much as it's...
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It mightn't be healthy,
it's the way that I can exist.
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Mmm.
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I'm not the sort of person
that talks about my feelings.
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(BLOWS A RASPBERRY)
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It's just such a 'out of left field'
for me.
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There's no question
I've gotten a little bit softer
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but it's trying and taxing,
letting my walls come down.
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I can definitely feel
the pressure of the experiment.
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Even waking up today
after sitting on the couch,
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I can't...
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I don't have the capacity to keep...
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Mmm.
..keep going at this level.
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This is not what I do.
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Like, this is just... Yeah.
Not who you are.
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It's not who I am.
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I just can't
speak the way you speak.
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I know.
I'm completely, like, drained.
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I wanted you to know that
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I'm always a safe place
for you to share and let go,
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and there's no judgement here.
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You can choose
exactly how you are in your life.
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You just do you, you know,
however that is.
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And, if you're happy,
the world's happy around you.
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We all see who you are,
you're awesome.
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I very much appreciate Lucinda
at the moment.
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She's been very, very supportive,
very patient,
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and I've got nothing but
respect for her.
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Yeah.
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NARRATOR: As Timothy reflects
on a difficult but positive week...
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(CHUCKLES)
Here we go.
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..another couple's
surprising session on the couch
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is on everyone's lips.
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Eden and Jayden, oh!
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Yeah, look,
that was really, really bad.
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That was so unexpected.
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TORI: I cried when Jayden and Eden
were on the couch.
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They've been like, the pinup couple
since day one
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and I'm always talking about them,
they're, like, the strongest couple.
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Like, yeah, last night was well off.
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They have been, like...
Their sessions.
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..hiding everything.
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They've been portraying
their relationship as pretty much
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perfect, to everybody.
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It was the first time
they actually opened up.
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But if it's been
happening for weeks.
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Yeah.
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NARRATOR: At the Commitment
Ceremony, Jayden confessed,
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Eden's built up anxiety
from the experiment
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is starting to take its toll
on their relationship.
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Eden just straight up told me
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Sara had
gone out with her ex-boyfriend
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and they were talking
shit about Tim behind his back.
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And when I said, hey, really need
to address the experts with this,
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it needs to come up,
I need to get it off my chest,
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she basically blew up at me
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and said, "If you don't say
what I tell you to say,
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"I'm done with you
and I'm leaving you."
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(TENSE MUSIC)
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(SCRATCHING SOUNDS)
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I honestly don't ever wanna
make you upset.
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And I have done so, so...
Mmm.
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Yeah.
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Yep.
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So, that's it?
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Well, yeah, I guess I said... Like,
I said sorry on the couch last night
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and I said I don't wanna make
you upset and that's what it is.
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Yeah.
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Yep.
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Right.
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It was a pretty
confronting couch session last night
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and I'm a little bit
taken back by it so, yeah.
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Like, obviously I wrote "stay"
for a reason.
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I feel extremely strong about Eden.
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But, you know, every time
I try bringing my feelings up
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and my thoughts with Eden, she
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kind of just shuts me down and
disregards everything that I said.
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I'd like for me to be able to come
to you with the problems or feelings
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and for us to talk about it...
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Yep.
..and not just get shut down.
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We've only got a couple of weeks
left in this experiment.
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When we move out, you know,
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we're not gonna have the experts
to bring it up.
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And I feel like the only way
I can get my voice heard
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is if I bring it up on the couch
like I did last night.
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But...
Yeah.
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..in a couple weeks
when we're out of this,
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I'm not gonna be able to do that
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but I still
wanna get my voice heard.
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I feel like now
I'm too nervous to say anything,
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that you're gonna think
that I'm telling you off.
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You say that
you're scared to SAY anything,
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well, I'm scared to DO anything.
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Every time you have a
problem with something I do...
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Mm-hm.
..I accept it, I apologise for it,
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I learn, and I fix it.
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Mm-hm.
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I just...
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Yeah.
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I don't know. I just feel like
I'm kind of stuck here.
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I don't really know what to do.
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(JAYDEN CRACKS HIS KNUCKLES)
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(EDGY MUSIC)
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(KNUCKLES CRACK)
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(SWEEPING ORCHESTRAL MUSIC
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NARRATOR: With just a couple
of weeks left in the experiment...
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Are you excited to see my home?
Yeah.
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..our couples prepare to set off
on the next chapter,
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Homestay Week.
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Let's go. Homestay's today.
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My bed is THE most comfortable bed
in the world.
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That's what I'm excited about,
you've been talking it up.
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The homestays have always been
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an essential part of the
Married at First Sight experiment.
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JACK: Off to the Goldie. Whoo-hoo!
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I'm actually really looking forward
to showing Tori where I come from.
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I'm gonna turn your snowflake
into a sun emoji.
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What do you think?
I'm not a snowflake.
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I'm excited. I need it.
I wanna get out of here.
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MEL: This is the point where couples
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have the opportunity
to air any grievances
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that need to be put on the table
before final vows.
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LUCINDA: My favourite jacket.
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It's a bit (SEDUCTIVE WHISTLE)
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But also to make that final,
romantic gesture
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to really
demonstrate to their partner
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how they feel.
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JADE: Are you nervous?
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I was way more nervous to marry you.
(LAUGHS)
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I can't wait to go home.
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I feel like
everyone will be so happy for me
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and they'll be like, you finally
found a nice-looking guy.
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And I'll be like... (CLICKS TONGUE)
I did.
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Birdie, birdie.
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Ooh!
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LUCINDA: Thanks, Tim.
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I love
watching your muscles in action.
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(CHUCKLES)
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JACK: Did you pack that sunscreen?
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(CHUCKLES)
Yep.
250
00:12:17,200 --> 00:12:18,640
Well, I've packed some more
for you anyway.
251
00:12:18,680 --> 00:12:19,840
Thanks. Funny.
252
00:12:21,160 --> 00:12:22,800
Yay!
253
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SARA: Thank you.
254
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I'm excited to go home.
255
00:12:29,120 --> 00:12:30,840
NARRATOR: And while
most of the couples
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00:12:30,920 --> 00:12:33,560
are on their way
to see their partner's home turf...
257
00:12:33,600 --> 00:12:34,880
(DOOR CLICKS SHUT)
258
00:12:34,920 --> 00:12:37,080
(CHILLING MUSIC)
259
00:12:39,160 --> 00:12:42,080
NARRATOR: ..one bride
is nowhere to be seen.
260
00:12:47,680 --> 00:12:50,480
After a frosty morning together,
261
00:12:50,560 --> 00:12:54,440
Eden has decided to take
some time away from husband Jayden,
262
00:12:54,480 --> 00:12:55,960
to clear her head.
263
00:12:57,280 --> 00:13:01,600
But with only 90 minutes left until
their flight to the Gold Coast,
264
00:13:01,680 --> 00:13:05,440
Eden has yet to return
to the apartment.
265
00:13:42,160 --> 00:13:44,360
NARRATOR: As their time
to departure closes in...
266
00:13:44,400 --> 00:13:46,000
(PHONE RINGING TONE)
267
00:13:46,080 --> 00:13:49,360
..Jayden is still unable
to get in touch with Eden.
268
00:13:51,440 --> 00:13:53,080
(INDISTINCT RECORDED VOICEMAIL)
269
00:13:55,080 --> 00:13:56,760
(PUBLIC ADDRESS SYSTEM BELL DINGS)
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AIRLINE STAFF (OVER PA): Good
afternoon, ladies and gentlemen.
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Please board the aircraft
at this time...
272
00:14:01,080 --> 00:14:02,880
(ANNOUNCEMENT CONTINUES)
273
00:14:05,560 --> 00:14:06,920
Well, it has to be the go, then.
274
00:14:10,040 --> 00:14:12,640
My wife is nowhere to be seen
275
00:14:14,080 --> 00:14:15,880
so I'm going by myself.
276
00:14:17,480 --> 00:14:20,480
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
277
00:14:29,800 --> 00:14:32,920
NARRATOR: Homestays Week
is officially underway
278
00:14:34,080 --> 00:14:38,120
and husband Jonathan
is already en route to Perth
279
00:14:38,160 --> 00:14:40,200
to meet his wife Lauren
280
00:14:40,240 --> 00:14:42,680
whom he hasn't seen in over a week
281
00:14:42,760 --> 00:14:46,120
after she had
to pause her time in the experiment
282
00:14:46,200 --> 00:14:49,720
to fly back home
for an emergency operation.
283
00:14:51,240 --> 00:14:53,040
I'm alive.
(LAUGHS)
284
00:14:54,680 --> 00:14:57,920
PRODUCER: So, Lauren, how are you?
I'm good. I'm good.
285
00:14:58,920 --> 00:15:01,000
The surgery, it went well.
286
00:15:01,080 --> 00:15:05,960
I had a blood clot in my arm
but it was, like, a full success.
287
00:15:06,040 --> 00:15:09,160
Like, they (MAKES SUCKING SOUND)
sucked that (BLEEP) out
288
00:15:09,200 --> 00:15:10,360
and I'm all good.
289
00:15:12,240 --> 00:15:13,920
It's been so good
being back in Perth.
290
00:15:14,000 --> 00:15:15,920
When you've got, like, your family
and stuff around you
291
00:15:15,960 --> 00:15:17,360
and you're in your own house, like,
292
00:15:17,440 --> 00:15:20,800
I just feel like, I just
feel like myself, like, again.
293
00:15:22,120 --> 00:15:23,560
Pate for Jono.
294
00:15:27,200 --> 00:15:29,440
I'm excited about Jono
arriving today.
295
00:15:29,520 --> 00:15:31,440
I have actually,
like, semi missed him,
296
00:15:31,480 --> 00:15:33,000
which I didn't think would happen.
297
00:15:33,080 --> 00:15:35,520
But, like, we've been, like, texting
and calling, like, the whole time.
298
00:15:37,000 --> 00:15:40,520
He's just so caring
and he's always checking up on me.
299
00:15:40,560 --> 00:15:42,440
He's just a really good partner
300
00:15:42,520 --> 00:15:45,400
and I've missed, like,
having him around.
301
00:15:46,480 --> 00:15:49,040
I can't wait to show him
what life is like in Perth,
302
00:15:49,080 --> 00:15:50,280
show him a good time,
303
00:15:50,360 --> 00:15:52,440
like, take him out
to some of my favourite restaurants
304
00:15:52,480 --> 00:15:53,720
and meet my friends.
305
00:15:53,800 --> 00:15:55,720
It's a better way of him,
like, getting to know me.
306
00:15:55,800 --> 00:15:59,600
Like, I'm, like, my true self
in this environment.
307
00:16:02,000 --> 00:16:03,400
(LITTLE GASP)
308
00:16:07,680 --> 00:16:09,480
Hi!
How are you doing?
309
00:16:09,560 --> 00:16:11,280
How are you?
Not too bad.
310
00:16:11,920 --> 00:16:13,000
Welcome.
311
00:16:13,080 --> 00:16:15,040
I haven't seen Lauren
for over a week
312
00:16:15,080 --> 00:16:17,040
so it was good to see her again.
313
00:16:17,080 --> 00:16:18,480
How was your flight?
314
00:16:19,160 --> 00:16:21,120
It was pretty easy.
A couple of movies.
315
00:16:22,040 --> 00:16:24,160
Before she left
we were doing really well.
316
00:16:24,240 --> 00:16:26,760
We had just started
being affectionate again.
317
00:16:27,560 --> 00:16:29,400
So, yeah, coming into homestays,
318
00:16:29,480 --> 00:16:32,600
I hope we can just continue
getting back in that direction.
319
00:16:34,640 --> 00:16:36,680
Cheers to you being in Perth...
Thank you for having me.
320
00:16:36,760 --> 00:16:38,320
..and being in my house.
(GLASSES CLINK)
321
00:16:38,400 --> 00:16:40,240
Pleasure.
I'm happy to have you here.
322
00:16:41,040 --> 00:16:42,240
Mmm.
323
00:16:42,320 --> 00:16:45,520
I'm really excited to, like,
show you around, show you Perth.
324
00:16:45,600 --> 00:16:47,600
I just wanna, like, take you
to, like, a nice restaurant,
325
00:16:47,640 --> 00:16:48,960
we'll go for drinks.
326
00:16:49,040 --> 00:16:51,160
I'm really excited about
all the stuff that you've planned.
327
00:16:51,200 --> 00:16:52,280
It looks awesome.
328
00:16:52,360 --> 00:16:53,800
Yeah.
I'm so stoked to come.
329
00:16:55,480 --> 00:16:57,520
It's been good
being reunited with Jono.
330
00:16:57,600 --> 00:16:59,640
When he got here
I was, like, happy to see him.
331
00:17:00,480 --> 00:17:03,200
I think distance definitely
makes the heart grow fonder.
332
00:17:03,280 --> 00:17:05,960
What do you think is
gonna come from our homestay,
333
00:17:06,040 --> 00:17:07,680
and don't say
you're just hoping for a root.
334
00:17:07,720 --> 00:17:09,400
(LAUGHS)
335
00:17:10,360 --> 00:17:13,600
There's more to me
than that nowadays.
336
00:17:14,400 --> 00:17:17,600
Maybe if you ask me 20 years ago.
Um, I...
337
00:17:17,680 --> 00:17:20,560
(INDISTINCT SPEECH)
(LAUGHS)
338
00:17:21,200 --> 00:17:24,760
Right now we are
still having a really good time.
339
00:17:24,840 --> 00:17:29,400
When we last left,
with intimacy,
340
00:17:29,480 --> 00:17:31,560
we were, like, a bit more
affectionate with each other
341
00:17:31,600 --> 00:17:33,040
but, like, nothing else.
342
00:17:33,120 --> 00:17:36,760
I feel like that needs to progress
and maybe on the homestay.
343
00:17:38,920 --> 00:17:41,400
There's a man in my life
that's, like, really important.
344
00:17:41,480 --> 00:17:43,320
Like, he's been with me
for a really long time
345
00:17:43,400 --> 00:17:46,160
and he's actually
in my bed right now.
346
00:17:46,240 --> 00:17:47,680
Mm-hm?
Do you wanna meet him?
347
00:17:47,760 --> 00:17:49,760
(CHUCKLES)
Sure.
348
00:17:49,800 --> 00:17:51,160
OK, come with me.
349
00:17:53,320 --> 00:17:55,000
Who's this?
Big Ted.
350
00:17:56,280 --> 00:17:58,240
I would genuinely say,
like, give him a cuddle,
351
00:17:58,320 --> 00:17:59,720
but, like, I think he might
be a bit scared,
352
00:17:59,760 --> 00:18:01,240
so maybe just shake his hand.
353
00:18:01,280 --> 00:18:02,400
(CHUCKLES)
354
00:18:02,480 --> 00:18:04,200
No, look him in the eyes
when you shake his hand.
355
00:18:04,240 --> 00:18:05,680
Sorry. Sorry, Big Ted.
356
00:18:06,560 --> 00:18:08,480
He looks very serious but he's not.
357
00:18:08,520 --> 00:18:10,120
He's actually a really fun dude.
358
00:18:10,200 --> 00:18:13,200
Big Ted is the number one man
in my life.
359
00:18:13,240 --> 00:18:14,840
He needs to like Jono.
360
00:18:14,880 --> 00:18:16,200
That's more important.
361
00:18:16,280 --> 00:18:18,360
He's looking the other way
'cause he doesn't really like you.
362
00:18:18,440 --> 00:18:19,480
Yeah.
(CHUCKLES)
363
00:18:19,560 --> 00:18:21,320
Look at him. He actually
won't even look at you.
364
00:18:21,400 --> 00:18:22,680
(LAUGHS)
You put him that way.
365
00:18:22,760 --> 00:18:25,320
I did not. He has got his own...
He's his own person.
366
00:18:25,360 --> 00:18:26,520
(LAUGHS)
367
00:18:26,600 --> 00:18:28,960
Maybe one day he'll look at you
in the eyes.
368
00:18:29,040 --> 00:18:31,680
But, like, yeah, if there's
going to be any kind of intimacy...
369
00:18:34,640 --> 00:18:37,440
He's only a little boy,
he can't see anything like that.
370
00:18:38,400 --> 00:18:39,840
But I mean, he's seen some shit.
371
00:18:39,880 --> 00:18:41,240
If this bear could talk...
372
00:18:43,400 --> 00:18:45,280
(CACKLES)
373
00:18:46,440 --> 00:18:48,400
(PACY MUSIC)
374
00:18:48,480 --> 00:18:50,880
NARRATOR: In Melbourne,
Lucinda and Timothy
375
00:18:50,920 --> 00:18:53,960
are arriving at Timothy's apartment,
376
00:18:54,040 --> 00:18:58,400
and Lucinda is thrilled
to see what Timothy has to offer.
377
00:19:00,960 --> 00:19:02,520
(PACY MUSIC SLOWS)
378
00:19:02,600 --> 00:19:04,400
TIMOTHY: OK, here we are.
LUCINDA: Great.
379
00:19:04,920 --> 00:19:06,720
(YAPS)
380
00:19:08,440 --> 00:19:10,280
(QUIRKY MUSIC)
381
00:19:10,320 --> 00:19:11,480
LUCINDA: Tim's home...
382
00:19:11,520 --> 00:19:13,360
it's not quite what I expected.
383
00:19:13,400 --> 00:19:15,640
(QUIRKY MUSIC)
384
00:19:15,680 --> 00:19:16,920
Um...
385
00:19:18,840 --> 00:19:21,080
(LAUGHS)
I don't know what to say.
386
00:19:23,280 --> 00:19:25,240
It's a real bachelor's pad,
this one.
387
00:19:25,280 --> 00:19:26,520
(GASPS)
388
00:19:26,600 --> 00:19:30,160
The wall-to-wall.
It's pretty...
389
00:19:31,280 --> 00:19:33,080
It's pretty tight.
390
00:19:33,120 --> 00:19:34,320
There's not much space.
391
00:19:34,360 --> 00:19:35,880
You can't really swing a cat.
392
00:19:35,920 --> 00:19:38,040
I had to take the doors off here.
393
00:19:38,080 --> 00:19:39,520
Or swing a poodle in there.
394
00:19:40,960 --> 00:19:43,160
I mean, this is
gonna sound a bit judge-y wudge-y,
395
00:19:43,240 --> 00:19:46,160
but it's not the sexiest bedroom
in the world.
396
00:19:46,200 --> 00:19:47,520
(CHUCKLES)
397
00:19:47,600 --> 00:19:49,440
Yeah. Look, we all
do it differently.
398
00:19:50,800 --> 00:19:53,840
My place in Byron Bay
is quite the sanctuary.
399
00:19:53,920 --> 00:19:56,600
It's just very,
like, fresh and airy
400
00:19:56,640 --> 00:19:59,200
and sort of just feels good.
401
00:20:00,360 --> 00:20:02,760
It's a bit of indoor/outdoor living.
402
00:20:02,800 --> 00:20:04,120
You can hear the ocean.
403
00:20:05,080 --> 00:20:07,080
And just lots of spaciousness
404
00:20:07,160 --> 00:20:11,120
and, like,
really, sort of, sumptuous living.
405
00:20:13,080 --> 00:20:14,880
So...
Alright.
406
00:20:14,960 --> 00:20:17,000
Bar.
What's this thing?
407
00:20:17,720 --> 00:20:21,080
It's a juicer.
Oh, my god! What a beast.
408
00:20:22,160 --> 00:20:23,280
That's pretty cool.
409
00:20:23,360 --> 00:20:25,920
Yeah, that's a juicer
and that a photocopier.
410
00:20:25,960 --> 00:20:27,400
Oh, my god!
411
00:20:27,480 --> 00:20:31,520
Why do you have an industrial
photocopier in your lounge room?
412
00:20:32,400 --> 00:20:34,160
I got it on a lease
413
00:20:34,840 --> 00:20:39,480
and when I moved from one office
I actually had two
414
00:20:39,520 --> 00:20:41,480
and I couldn't cancel the lease
415
00:20:41,560 --> 00:20:44,080
so I got the smallest one I could
and this was it.
416
00:20:44,160 --> 00:20:46,600
Right.
(LAUGHS)
417
00:20:48,680 --> 00:20:52,680
Do you guys get a little bit smashed
and do tits and arse and all that?
418
00:20:52,760 --> 00:20:54,120
No. no.
Yeah.
419
00:20:54,200 --> 00:20:55,560
Moving on.
We actually do.
420
00:20:55,640 --> 00:20:58,320
(LAUGHS)
Oh, my god!
421
00:20:58,400 --> 00:21:00,080
That was one of your friends
doing bum...
422
00:21:00,160 --> 00:21:01,680
Yeah. Yeap.
Oh, dear.
423
00:21:02,520 --> 00:21:03,960
It's very Tim.
424
00:21:05,680 --> 00:21:10,040
There's not really
much room for a woman here.
425
00:21:10,120 --> 00:21:13,480
But, do you know what's amazing
about standing here right now?
426
00:21:14,080 --> 00:21:17,880
I can watch
the biggest television in the world,
427
00:21:17,920 --> 00:21:19,600
I can do a bit of computer work,
428
00:21:19,640 --> 00:21:21,120
do a bit of my photocopying,
429
00:21:21,160 --> 00:21:22,560
grab my shoes,
430
00:21:22,600 --> 00:21:23,800
do a bit of fridge and...
431
00:21:23,840 --> 00:21:25,880
Like, it's just the one-stop shop.
432
00:21:26,760 --> 00:21:28,840
Stuffed toys.
433
00:21:28,920 --> 00:21:30,360
Yep.
Who would have thought?
434
00:21:30,400 --> 00:21:32,040
It's convenience.
435
00:21:33,000 --> 00:21:35,000
Well, that's all the toys
for the girls.
436
00:21:36,400 --> 00:21:38,080
Of course.
I thought they were for you.
437
00:21:38,160 --> 00:21:40,360
(LAUGHS)
Of course they're for the dogs.
438
00:21:40,440 --> 00:21:43,480
Did you really think I had
a basket of stuffed toys for myself?
439
00:21:43,520 --> 00:21:44,640
I thought you might.
440
00:21:44,720 --> 00:21:46,360
You thought I'd sit on the couch
and be hugging it.
441
00:21:46,440 --> 00:21:49,000
That looks very Tim.
(BOTH CHUCKLE)
442
00:21:50,200 --> 00:21:52,400
His dogs are utterly divine.
443
00:21:52,440 --> 00:21:54,320
(TOY SQUEAKS)
444
00:21:54,360 --> 00:21:55,680
Get it!
445
00:21:55,720 --> 00:21:57,320
She's not that well trained.
446
00:21:57,400 --> 00:21:59,520
And she pissed on the carpet.
Oh-oh.
447
00:21:59,600 --> 00:22:01,520
I don't think
Matilda's toilet trained.
448
00:22:01,600 --> 00:22:05,560
She's already done
a couple of piddles on the carpet
449
00:22:05,600 --> 00:22:07,160
since we arrived.
450
00:22:07,240 --> 00:22:09,520
I'm not sure the carpet
can take much more.
451
00:22:10,760 --> 00:22:12,040
Wow.
452
00:22:14,080 --> 00:22:15,520
These are apple trees.
453
00:22:15,600 --> 00:22:17,360
Oh, apples.
Yeah.
454
00:22:17,400 --> 00:22:18,760
This is an almond tree.
455
00:22:19,400 --> 00:22:20,600
Wow.
Like, the nut.
456
00:22:20,640 --> 00:22:21,800
Oh, wow.
457
00:22:21,880 --> 00:22:23,440
It's a little fruit orchard
out here.
458
00:22:23,520 --> 00:22:25,760
LUCINDA: But I'm grateful
to be here.
459
00:22:26,400 --> 00:22:28,840
I'm certainly
going to enjoy this homestay
460
00:22:28,880 --> 00:22:30,720
and come with a big heart
461
00:22:30,800 --> 00:22:34,440
and keep it really light, and,
you know, fun and no pressure.
462
00:22:35,680 --> 00:22:39,080
Amazing. I didn't even know
blowup spas existed.
463
00:22:39,160 --> 00:22:43,760
I mean, it's another insight into
another aspect of Tim, being here,
464
00:22:43,800 --> 00:22:45,560
so I just wanna get to know that
465
00:22:45,640 --> 00:22:50,040
and see if I can fit into his life
after the experiment.
466
00:22:50,720 --> 00:22:51,840
Yep.
467
00:23:01,040 --> 00:23:04,280
NARRATOR: Outside Eden's
family apartment on the Gold Coast,
468
00:23:04,360 --> 00:23:07,920
Jayden is
waiting for his wife to arrive
469
00:23:08,000 --> 00:23:11,320
after she missed her flight
to their hometown this morning
470
00:23:11,360 --> 00:23:13,560
while trying to clear her head.
471
00:23:14,520 --> 00:23:16,240
Eden was really upset today.
472
00:23:18,080 --> 00:23:20,280
Very anxious and very worked up.
473
00:23:20,360 --> 00:23:23,040
She decided to go out just
to get her thoughts back together
474
00:23:23,080 --> 00:23:24,440
and then,
475
00:23:24,520 --> 00:23:26,480
yeah, she missed her flight
this morning.
476
00:23:28,120 --> 00:23:30,000
I was pretty excited
to come up here with her
477
00:23:30,040 --> 00:23:31,560
and, you know, do it together.
478
00:23:31,640 --> 00:23:34,080
We were
talking about if for so long.
479
00:23:34,160 --> 00:23:36,560
But now I had to fly up here
by myself.
480
00:23:36,640 --> 00:23:39,160
I've spoken to her
and she's on the next flight now.
481
00:23:39,200 --> 00:23:40,360
She's almost here.
482
00:23:41,240 --> 00:23:43,520
I think Eden's head is just
all over the shop at the moment
483
00:23:43,600 --> 00:23:46,440
but I'm just gonna not try
and dwell on the past.
484
00:23:46,520 --> 00:23:48,200
Just try, you know,
focus on the future
485
00:23:48,280 --> 00:23:50,200
and focus on having a good time
while we're here.
486
00:23:55,800 --> 00:23:56,920
NARRATOR: Coming up...
487
00:23:56,960 --> 00:24:00,600
Lucinda finds out some hard truths.
488
00:24:00,680 --> 00:24:03,320
LUCINDA: What do you know about Tim
in a relationship?
489
00:24:03,360 --> 00:24:04,560
MAN: He's a doter.
490
00:24:04,600 --> 00:24:06,440
He loves to take care of.
491
00:24:07,600 --> 00:24:12,040
I'm starting to realise
I want a lot more for myself.
492
00:24:16,920 --> 00:24:19,920
(SOMBRE MUSIC)
493
00:24:28,960 --> 00:24:33,600
NARRATOR: Eden and Jayden's homestay
is off to a less than ideal start
494
00:24:33,640 --> 00:24:36,320
as Eden missed her flight,
495
00:24:36,400 --> 00:24:39,800
leaving Jayden anxiously
awaiting her arrival
496
00:24:39,880 --> 00:24:42,400
to their hometown
on the Gold Coast.
497
00:25:05,120 --> 00:25:06,480
You made it.
498
00:25:08,240 --> 00:25:11,240
(EXPECTANT MUSIC)
499
00:25:13,240 --> 00:25:14,960
Yeah. Waiting for (BLEEP) ages.
500
00:25:16,840 --> 00:25:19,360
I'll need to go get the keys.
Three hours later, how about we go?
501
00:25:22,320 --> 00:25:24,280
Yeah, it was
a bit of a chaotic morning.
502
00:25:26,360 --> 00:25:31,720
I was pretty upset and I needed time
apart from him about how I feel.
503
00:25:32,320 --> 00:25:33,800
And, yeah...
504
00:25:35,920 --> 00:25:37,520
(EXHALES)
505
00:25:41,760 --> 00:25:43,000
(SUITCASES CLATTER)
(GRUNTS)
506
00:25:43,080 --> 00:25:44,960
I feel like we've
been bickering quite a bit
507
00:25:45,000 --> 00:25:46,520
over the last couple of weeks.
508
00:25:46,560 --> 00:25:47,920
(EXHALES)
509
00:25:47,960 --> 00:25:49,560
Oh! OK.
510
00:25:50,640 --> 00:25:52,440
And that upset me
511
00:25:53,720 --> 00:25:56,040
because my feelings for Jayden
are quite genuine.
512
00:25:58,520 --> 00:26:00,880
I definitely think
our issues need to be addressed
513
00:26:00,920 --> 00:26:02,720
in order for us to resolve them.
514
00:26:03,760 --> 00:26:05,520
Alrighty, what do I wear?
515
00:26:06,560 --> 00:26:09,480
NARRATOR: After a cold arrival
to the homestays...
516
00:26:09,560 --> 00:26:13,760
EDEN (HAPPILY): Yay!
Come on, Cubby! Come on! Yay!
517
00:26:13,840 --> 00:26:16,560
..Eden and Jayden decide
to clear the air
518
00:26:16,600 --> 00:26:19,080
with a stroll along the beach.
519
00:26:19,120 --> 00:26:20,520
Ready, set...
520
00:26:24,320 --> 00:26:25,640
Good boy.
521
00:26:27,240 --> 00:26:30,280
I feel like
I shut down conversations
522
00:26:30,320 --> 00:26:32,320
that are, like, rehashing the past.
523
00:26:33,080 --> 00:26:34,960
Come on.
Come here, Cub.
524
00:26:35,000 --> 00:26:36,200
Good boy.
525
00:26:37,640 --> 00:26:39,320
Oh, he came to me.
Good boy.
526
00:26:39,400 --> 00:26:41,360
He came to me, eh.
(CHUCKLES)
527
00:26:41,400 --> 00:26:42,920
My new best friend.
528
00:26:43,000 --> 00:26:47,040
I don't think bringing up
the same incidences from the past
529
00:26:47,080 --> 00:26:48,640
helps us to move forward.
530
00:26:50,040 --> 00:26:51,080
Up. Up.
531
00:26:51,120 --> 00:26:53,640
Good boy. Good boy.
532
00:26:55,320 --> 00:26:59,120
I just wanna apologise
and then move on
533
00:26:59,200 --> 00:27:01,720
because our relationship
is very important to me,
534
00:27:01,800 --> 00:27:04,040
so I'd be pretty shattered
if it didn't work out.
535
00:27:05,680 --> 00:27:07,160
(JAYDEN SIGHS)
How are you feeling?
536
00:27:07,240 --> 00:27:12,280
I think the first, like, four or six
weeks I felt like this is easy...
537
00:27:12,360 --> 00:27:13,920
Breezed through it.
..like, this is so fine.
538
00:27:14,000 --> 00:27:16,560
And then I think when all, like,
the outside noise
539
00:27:16,600 --> 00:27:17,880
and everything kind of came
540
00:27:17,960 --> 00:27:19,840
and I think the retreat
became really hectic,
541
00:27:19,920 --> 00:27:22,200
that's where
it became really hard for me...
542
00:27:22,240 --> 00:27:23,240
Yeah.
543
00:27:23,320 --> 00:27:25,600
..and I was quite stressed
and uncomfortable all of the time...
544
00:27:25,680 --> 00:27:26,920
Really?
..over the last two weeks.
545
00:27:27,000 --> 00:27:28,200
(LAUGHS)
You don't say.
546
00:27:28,280 --> 00:27:31,400
But I think, like, being back here
it's just really nice to...
547
00:27:31,440 --> 00:27:32,520
Yeah.
548
00:27:32,600 --> 00:27:34,800
..feel back to, like, who I am,
as well.
549
00:27:34,840 --> 00:27:36,440
I also just think that
550
00:27:36,520 --> 00:27:39,480
we've both got out all of annoyances
about each other...
551
00:27:39,520 --> 00:27:40,640
Yeah, I know.
552
00:27:40,720 --> 00:27:42,920
And it's just, like,
time to do what we have to do
553
00:27:42,960 --> 00:27:44,160
to not annoy each other.
554
00:27:44,240 --> 00:27:45,600
Do what we said we were gonna do?
Yeah.
555
00:27:45,680 --> 00:27:47,240
And do what
the experts told us to do, really.
556
00:27:47,320 --> 00:27:49,040
Yeah, and then move on.
Yeah. I kind of...
557
00:27:49,080 --> 00:27:50,400
And not dwell on it.
558
00:27:52,240 --> 00:27:54,680
For us, a lot
of our little disagreements
559
00:27:54,760 --> 00:27:56,720
were pretty little so we...
And we never addressed them.
560
00:27:56,800 --> 00:27:59,200
Yeah. We didn't really address 'em,
'cause they were so little.
561
00:27:59,240 --> 00:28:00,280
(CHUCKLES)
562
00:28:00,360 --> 00:28:02,440
But last week had
gotten to a point where, OK,
563
00:28:02,520 --> 00:28:04,680
they're getting
a little bit bigger each week.
564
00:28:04,760 --> 00:28:06,920
That was really,
really getting to me.
565
00:28:08,120 --> 00:28:09,360
I'm sorry for snapping.
566
00:28:09,440 --> 00:28:10,880
I know I need to not snap.
Yeah.
567
00:28:10,960 --> 00:28:12,680
I've... Yeah, I've said this,
like, ten times...
568
00:28:12,760 --> 00:28:14,480
Yeah.
So, yeah. It is what it is.
569
00:28:16,040 --> 00:28:17,440
Right.
I can't change the past.
570
00:28:17,520 --> 00:28:19,280
I've already done it
so I just need to try not to snap.
571
00:28:19,360 --> 00:28:20,640
I'm not asking you to change
the past.
572
00:28:20,720 --> 00:28:22,320
We're just discussing it
because the experts,
573
00:28:22,400 --> 00:28:24,160
they want us to talk about it
some more so, instead of
574
00:28:24,240 --> 00:28:26,480
just trying to apologise and
shut the whole conversation down...
575
00:28:26,560 --> 00:28:28,040
I'm not.
I just don't know what else to say.
576
00:28:28,080 --> 00:28:29,240
I'm just saying I'm sorry.
577
00:28:29,320 --> 00:28:31,480
I know, we're just discussing it
because that's what they want.
578
00:28:31,560 --> 00:28:33,320
Yeah, Yeah. So, I'm saying
I'm sorry for snapping,
579
00:28:33,400 --> 00:28:34,760
and I need to try
not to snap in the future.
580
00:28:34,800 --> 00:28:35,840
Yeah.
581
00:28:35,920 --> 00:28:37,520
I don't really know
what else to say though.
582
00:28:38,840 --> 00:28:40,120
But, yeah.
Yeah.
583
00:28:41,320 --> 00:28:42,680
Um...
584
00:28:42,760 --> 00:28:44,640
I'm trying
to talk out things with Eden,
585
00:28:44,680 --> 00:28:45,720
go over her problems
586
00:28:45,800 --> 00:28:47,720
and talk about
how we're going to move forward
587
00:28:47,800 --> 00:28:50,120
but all she wants to do
is apologise.
588
00:28:50,200 --> 00:28:52,480
That way she can move straight on
and it doesn't get talked about.
589
00:28:53,720 --> 00:28:54,960
You know what the experts are like.
590
00:28:55,040 --> 00:28:57,040
They ask us to talk
about these things and be open.
591
00:28:57,800 --> 00:28:59,240
They definitely didn't ask us
592
00:28:59,320 --> 00:29:01,640
to rehash the same situations
ten times though
593
00:29:01,680 --> 00:29:02,840
so I won't be doing that.
594
00:29:04,840 --> 00:29:06,280
I'm not doing that.
595
00:29:07,480 --> 00:29:08,840
JAYDEN: I care for Eden a lot.
596
00:29:09,840 --> 00:29:12,440
I'm head over heels and I really
do want things to work out with her.
597
00:29:14,480 --> 00:29:16,080
But we can't move forward
598
00:29:16,160 --> 00:29:18,560
if we can't talk things out
when they happen.
599
00:29:18,600 --> 00:29:20,680
(FRAUGHT MUSIC)
600
00:29:22,880 --> 00:29:24,760
(BRIGHT MUSIC)
601
00:29:24,840 --> 00:29:27,800
NARRATOR: In Perth,
Lauren is taking Jonathan
602
00:29:27,880 --> 00:29:31,360
to meet her best friend Mackenzie
for the first time,
603
00:29:31,440 --> 00:29:34,080
as she was
unable to attend their wedding.
604
00:29:34,160 --> 00:29:36,440
LAUREN: So, off we go, hey?
(JONATHAN CHUCKLES)
605
00:29:36,480 --> 00:29:38,520
About to meet Mackenzie.
606
00:29:38,600 --> 00:29:40,360
I'm excited!
(LAUGHS)
607
00:29:40,400 --> 00:29:41,840
(SQUEALS)
608
00:29:41,920 --> 00:29:43,760
This will be fun.
Yeah, it's gonna be fun.
609
00:29:44,400 --> 00:29:48,120
Today we're meeting up
with my best friend Mackenzie.
610
00:29:50,480 --> 00:29:52,520
The hot seat.
(LAUGHS)
611
00:29:52,600 --> 00:29:54,920
We've been friends for, like,
over 15 years
612
00:29:54,960 --> 00:29:56,880
and she's like a sister to me.
613
00:29:56,960 --> 00:29:59,040
And, yeah, I'm just really
excited for her to meet Jono.
614
00:29:59,120 --> 00:30:01,120
When the two of us get together
it's like...
615
00:30:02,160 --> 00:30:04,880
I just feel sorry
for whoever the other person is.
616
00:30:04,920 --> 00:30:06,040
(CHUCKLES)
617
00:30:06,080 --> 00:30:07,840
(BURST OF EDGY MUSIC)
618
00:30:07,880 --> 00:30:09,160
I'm nervous.
619
00:30:09,240 --> 00:30:13,120
Lauren has described Mackenzie
as being just like her,
620
00:30:13,160 --> 00:30:14,600
only more full-on.
621
00:30:14,640 --> 00:30:15,840
Yes.
622
00:30:17,200 --> 00:30:18,680
Like, I'm really
looking forward to today
623
00:30:18,760 --> 00:30:21,680
but also part of me
is just a bit like, oh, god.
624
00:30:23,120 --> 00:30:24,800
Where is she?
Ooh, that's good.
625
00:30:24,840 --> 00:30:26,640
What angle is she coming from?
626
00:30:27,600 --> 00:30:30,360
(BIRDS SCREECH)
627
00:30:30,400 --> 00:30:31,920
(HIGH-PITCHED WHISTLE)
628
00:30:32,880 --> 00:30:34,840
(BIRDS SCREECH)
(CHUCKLES)
629
00:30:46,400 --> 00:30:47,760
Oh, Jono.
630
00:30:49,320 --> 00:30:50,440
(BLEEP)
631
00:30:51,280 --> 00:30:53,680
This is crazy. Like, this is wild.
632
00:30:54,280 --> 00:30:56,240
Mack knows, like,
everything that's been going on.
633
00:30:56,320 --> 00:30:57,800
Like,
she gets a play-by-play of, like,
634
00:30:57,840 --> 00:30:59,400
every second of the experiment.
635
00:30:59,440 --> 00:31:01,840
Her opinion is, like, paramount.
636
00:31:02,600 --> 00:31:04,720
It's really
important that she likes Jono.
637
00:31:04,800 --> 00:31:06,720
And if she doesn't,
if she thinks he's loser
638
00:31:06,800 --> 00:31:08,920
then, we've
gotta put Jono in the bin.
639
00:31:10,240 --> 00:31:11,760
Poor Jono.
640
00:31:12,640 --> 00:31:14,800
I'm actually so excited
for you guys to meet
641
00:31:14,880 --> 00:31:16,440
'cause I feel like
you'll get along.
642
00:31:16,480 --> 00:31:17,640
Oh, that's good.
643
00:31:19,720 --> 00:31:21,840
MACKENZIE: It's just from,
like, screenshots of messages
644
00:31:21,880 --> 00:31:23,200
and all that kind of stuff.
645
00:31:23,280 --> 00:31:26,600
Like, he's seeming not that, like,
interesting.
646
00:31:26,640 --> 00:31:28,680
Doesn't stand up for himself, her.
647
00:31:28,720 --> 00:31:30,000
Bit of a nark.
648
00:31:32,960 --> 00:31:34,520
Yeah. Nothing, like, amazing.
649
00:31:35,600 --> 00:31:37,160
Except for in bed.
650
00:31:37,200 --> 00:31:39,120
My expectation's not high.
651
00:31:39,800 --> 00:31:40,840
Like, as...
652
00:31:41,840 --> 00:31:43,160
Like, as low as that.
653
00:31:43,200 --> 00:31:45,160
Like, as low as it gets, you know.
654
00:31:45,200 --> 00:31:46,640
I can see her!
655
00:31:46,680 --> 00:31:48,880
(PACY MUSIC)
656
00:31:49,960 --> 00:31:54,200
Lauren and Jono, right match?
No. No.
657
00:31:54,280 --> 00:31:57,400
I don't think you'd naturally
match them together, would you?
658
00:32:06,840 --> 00:32:08,200
I can see her!
659
00:32:10,680 --> 00:32:12,760
You look so good!
(LAUGHS)
660
00:32:15,840 --> 00:32:18,080
Lauren, she needs
to be kept on her toes.
661
00:32:18,160 --> 00:32:21,120
She needs someone
that can handle the wrath.
662
00:32:21,200 --> 00:32:22,720
Jono, hi.
Hey, Mackenzie. How are you going?
663
00:32:22,800 --> 00:32:24,360
How are you going?
Nice to meet you.
664
00:32:24,440 --> 00:32:27,320
I don't think, like,
I don't think he's that.
665
00:32:27,400 --> 00:32:28,600
Cheers, guys.
Cheers.
666
00:32:28,680 --> 00:32:29,840
(GLASSES CLINK)
Cheers.
667
00:32:29,920 --> 00:32:31,120
Nice to meet you.
You too.
668
00:32:31,160 --> 00:32:32,400
He could just be totally different.
669
00:32:32,480 --> 00:32:34,440
Or maybe he's just boring her.
We'll see.
670
00:32:36,000 --> 00:32:37,520
So, talk me through it, guys.
671
00:32:39,800 --> 00:32:41,840
LAUREN: OK, well,
the wedding day was so fun.
672
00:32:41,920 --> 00:32:44,720
Like, there was chemistry,
we got along really well.
673
00:32:44,760 --> 00:32:46,120
And then obviously, yeah,
674
00:32:46,200 --> 00:32:48,200
it just kind of came crashing down
at one point.
675
00:32:48,240 --> 00:32:49,560
Shocker.
676
00:32:50,360 --> 00:32:53,920
We'd have, like, a few good weeks
and then a few horrible weeks,
677
00:32:53,960 --> 00:32:55,360
and it was just, like, up and down.
678
00:32:56,240 --> 00:32:58,360
I feel like the thing that's our
biggest issue right now
679
00:32:58,400 --> 00:33:00,040
is our energy doesn't match.
680
00:33:01,040 --> 00:33:02,920
He's, like, soft spoken
and he's quite gentle.
681
00:33:05,960 --> 00:33:09,480
I need you to, like, really,
like, challenge me.
682
00:33:10,680 --> 00:33:12,480
I don't know.
683
00:33:12,560 --> 00:33:15,040
I'm gonna rip you apart.
It's not gonna be good.
684
00:33:15,120 --> 00:33:17,960
And that was something that
I struggled, just having a partner.
685
00:33:18,040 --> 00:33:20,240
You give me no passion.
You give me nothing.
686
00:33:20,320 --> 00:33:23,080
You just give me, like,
like, autopilot.
687
00:33:23,120 --> 00:33:24,920
(FRAUGHT MUSIC)
688
00:33:24,960 --> 00:33:27,280
I need to see opinions on things
689
00:33:27,320 --> 00:33:28,960
and feelings about things
690
00:33:29,040 --> 00:33:31,120
and heightened emotions
about some things,
691
00:33:31,160 --> 00:33:32,800
and let's get angry.
692
00:33:32,840 --> 00:33:34,800
He's, like, a good person.
693
00:33:34,880 --> 00:33:37,600
Like, a good,
a genuinely good human.
694
00:33:37,680 --> 00:33:42,600
But, like, I, from the start,
have said, like,
695
00:33:42,680 --> 00:33:45,640
I need someone that's gonna, like,
stand up and, like, stand up for me
696
00:33:45,720 --> 00:33:48,720
and you know, be assertive and,
like, confident. All this stuff.
697
00:33:48,800 --> 00:33:53,480
I just felt like I needed, like,
a teammate who's gonna back me.
698
00:33:53,520 --> 00:33:55,320
And so it kind of continued.
699
00:33:55,400 --> 00:33:57,720
Like, I just had it in my mind
that Jono wasn't backing me
700
00:33:57,800 --> 00:34:00,240
so it was like, any situation
that would arise I'd be, like,
701
00:34:00,280 --> 00:34:01,920
thinking that you were against me.
702
00:34:03,280 --> 00:34:07,000
Are you always this kind of calm
and reserved?
703
00:34:07,080 --> 00:34:09,000
Like, when you've been with someone
longer, you know,
704
00:34:09,040 --> 00:34:10,200
and you're more comfortable,
705
00:34:10,280 --> 00:34:12,800
is there, like, have you been,
I don't know...
706
00:34:12,880 --> 00:34:15,200
Angry?
(LAUGHS)
707
00:34:15,280 --> 00:34:16,600
Or...
I love that you say it like that.
708
00:34:16,680 --> 00:34:18,120
No but I'm asking...
Is she meaning angry?
709
00:34:18,200 --> 00:34:19,360
Like, yeah.
OK.
710
00:34:19,400 --> 00:34:20,680
Angry, tough.
711
00:34:21,760 --> 00:34:25,440
I was actually, when I was 20,
I was super aggressive
712
00:34:25,520 --> 00:34:27,760
and abrasive to the point
where it was bad.
713
00:34:27,840 --> 00:34:30,840
So I tried for, like, 20 years
to not be like that.
714
00:34:33,440 --> 00:34:35,960
My fight style is, like, yelling
and, like...
715
00:34:36,040 --> 00:34:37,920
You know what I'm like.
Dude, you don't need to tell me.
716
00:34:38,000 --> 00:34:39,120
Yeah, exactly.
(LAUGHS)
717
00:34:39,160 --> 00:34:40,960
I'm crazy, but...
718
00:34:41,040 --> 00:34:45,400
But I like the calm side and I don't
want you to be, like, aggressive.
719
00:34:45,480 --> 00:34:49,320
I was always concerned that maybe
I was a little too much for Jono.
720
00:34:50,280 --> 00:34:54,480
Can you handle that moment,
her at her fieriest.
721
00:34:54,520 --> 00:34:56,000
A hundred percent.
722
00:34:57,720 --> 00:34:59,760
I feel like
we're both different people.
723
00:35:00,800 --> 00:35:02,960
You do need someone
who's a bit calmer.
724
00:35:03,920 --> 00:35:07,400
I see, like,
so much hope there for us.
725
00:35:11,040 --> 00:35:12,600
At the beginning of the experiment,
726
00:35:12,680 --> 00:35:16,960
I felt like maybe Jono is, like,
a bit, like, too soft,
727
00:35:17,040 --> 00:35:20,080
and so I feel like I really
kind of went hard on him.
728
00:35:21,840 --> 00:35:23,560
Yeah, I probably should have
just learnt from him.
729
00:35:24,400 --> 00:35:26,800
OK, I'm going to go
to the little men's room.
730
00:35:26,880 --> 00:35:28,400
Don't say that.
Oh, my god!
731
00:35:30,560 --> 00:35:32,600
So, the pressure's on.
What do you think?
732
00:35:34,960 --> 00:35:36,400
Do you think he's enough?
733
00:35:39,600 --> 00:35:40,800
Yep.
Really?
734
00:35:40,880 --> 00:35:43,560
Yeah.
This is huge. Huge.
735
00:35:44,840 --> 00:35:47,000
Way better.
Way better than I thought.
736
00:35:47,080 --> 00:35:49,200
So, I've got your seal of approval?
Yep.
737
00:35:49,960 --> 00:35:51,880
He's good because,
like, he calms me.
738
00:35:51,920 --> 00:35:52,920
You can tell.
739
00:35:53,000 --> 00:35:55,520
I reckon you can tell in his eyes
that he's, like, comfortable.
740
00:35:55,600 --> 00:35:58,800
I reckon if you, like,
take it down a notch.
741
00:35:58,880 --> 00:36:02,680
I've known you for 15 years and you
still sometimes make me so anxious.
742
00:36:02,760 --> 00:36:04,240
Do I?
God, yes.
743
00:36:06,400 --> 00:36:07,760
Do you like him?
Yeah.
744
00:36:07,840 --> 00:36:08,880
Do you?
Yeah.
745
00:36:08,960 --> 00:36:11,280
Oh, my god! I can't be...
I honestly didn't know.
746
00:36:11,360 --> 00:36:13,800
I reckon you've just gotta
give him a little bit more of a go.
747
00:36:14,720 --> 00:36:17,320
I am surprised.
Mack's like, "No, he's amazing.
748
00:36:17,400 --> 00:36:19,880
"You just need to, like,
realise that."
749
00:36:21,240 --> 00:36:24,440
I actually was like,
if Macca doesn't approve
750
00:36:24,520 --> 00:36:26,280
or, like,
doesn't think he's right for me,
751
00:36:26,320 --> 00:36:28,040
like, I would be done.
752
00:36:28,080 --> 00:36:30,640
And she literally was like...
753
00:36:30,680 --> 00:36:32,080
What did you say?
754
00:36:32,120 --> 00:36:33,480
(LAUGHS)
755
00:36:34,320 --> 00:36:36,960
I'm glad that today went well
with Macca and Jono.
756
00:36:37,000 --> 00:36:38,120
I've loved it.
757
00:36:38,200 --> 00:36:41,600
Like, I'm proud to have him with me
and, like, introduce him to people
758
00:36:41,680 --> 00:36:46,080
and yeah, it really, like,
gives me the warm fuzzies.
759
00:36:49,200 --> 00:36:51,400
You weirdly look
into each other's eyes.
760
00:36:51,480 --> 00:36:52,880
What is that?
(LAUGHS)
761
00:36:54,080 --> 00:36:55,960
I avoid that at all costs.
762
00:36:56,040 --> 00:36:58,280
That's cute. That's cute.
(LAUGHS)
763
00:37:04,240 --> 00:37:05,440
NARRATOR: In Melbourne,
764
00:37:05,520 --> 00:37:09,880
Timothy and Lucinda have organised
a catch up with Timothy's friends,
765
00:37:09,920 --> 00:37:11,560
Rachel and Shane.
766
00:37:11,640 --> 00:37:15,160
So, you two have been getting along
pretty well from what I've heard.
767
00:37:15,240 --> 00:37:18,320
LUCINDA: So well. Haven't we?
Yeah. We've had no issues.
768
00:37:18,400 --> 00:37:22,080
It's been quite a beautiful journey,
the last couple of weeks, actually.
769
00:37:22,160 --> 00:37:26,560
Homestay is about figuring out
whether, you know, you can coexist.
770
00:37:26,640 --> 00:37:30,240
And, I've been on my own
for so long.
771
00:37:30,320 --> 00:37:32,520
The man cave just doesn't know
what to do with the woman.
772
00:37:32,560 --> 00:37:34,000
(LAUGHTER)
773
00:37:35,120 --> 00:37:36,680
I'm happy to be back in Melbourne.
774
00:37:36,760 --> 00:37:39,920
It's a place that I feel safe and
it's a place that I feel at home.
775
00:37:40,000 --> 00:37:42,840
But I am definitely
feeling overwhelmed today
776
00:37:42,880 --> 00:37:44,840
with somebody else in my space.
777
00:37:45,840 --> 00:37:48,120
I do get stuck in my ways so...
778
00:37:48,160 --> 00:37:49,400
And you like routine,
779
00:37:49,480 --> 00:37:52,960
and you've felt really flat back
here, haven't you, since yesterday.
780
00:37:53,000 --> 00:37:54,120
Really? Why?
781
00:37:54,200 --> 00:37:56,720
I just haven't had, like,
just a break.
782
00:37:58,080 --> 00:38:00,440
What, you just emotionally
exhausted? Is that what it is?
783
00:38:00,520 --> 00:38:02,960
I was heavy leaving Sydney,
coming back.
784
00:38:03,880 --> 00:38:07,120
I was, you know,
I was carrying baggage from Sydney
785
00:38:07,200 --> 00:38:10,920
and then I get in and it's just,
it's just pressure.
786
00:38:10,960 --> 00:38:12,800
I put pressure on myself.
787
00:38:14,160 --> 00:38:16,120
You're emotionally drained.
I think that's what it is.
788
00:38:16,160 --> 00:38:17,240
LUCINDA: Mmm.
789
00:38:17,960 --> 00:38:21,080
I thought coming to Melbourne
would make me feel better,
790
00:38:21,120 --> 00:38:24,720
but just talking and...
791
00:38:26,120 --> 00:38:28,800
about my feelings and emotions,
792
00:38:28,840 --> 00:38:30,400
and digging into things,
793
00:38:30,440 --> 00:38:32,040
it's just exhausting.
794
00:38:33,120 --> 00:38:34,680
I just need time.
795
00:38:35,720 --> 00:38:38,800
I just need, I just need space.
796
00:38:39,480 --> 00:38:40,880
You know?
797
00:38:40,960 --> 00:38:43,000
LUCINDA: I was quite excited
the last couple of weeks
798
00:38:43,080 --> 00:38:45,000
'cause his walls
were starting to come down.
799
00:38:45,080 --> 00:38:47,880
Yeah.
And I was like, oh, my gosh.
800
00:38:47,960 --> 00:38:49,840
I love it that you
got to see that side of him.
801
00:38:49,920 --> 00:38:51,280
I know.
I love that.
802
00:38:52,040 --> 00:38:53,560
You don't love it?
No, hate it.
803
00:38:53,600 --> 00:38:55,520
I love it that you got to see that.
804
00:38:55,600 --> 00:38:57,240
I've been very grateful
to see that.
805
00:38:57,320 --> 00:39:00,760
Yep. You broke
through all your walls
806
00:39:00,840 --> 00:39:05,040
and you came out
and showed Lucinda and...
807
00:39:05,120 --> 00:39:07,880
He's so beautiful.
..everybody, who you really are.
808
00:39:07,960 --> 00:39:09,720
It's one of your greatest qualities.
Exactly.
809
00:39:09,800 --> 00:39:11,920
No, don't like it. Hate it.
You have empathy in spades.
810
00:39:12,000 --> 00:39:13,360
RACHEL AND LUCINDA: Yeah.
Hated it.
811
00:39:13,400 --> 00:39:15,520
And nobody gets to see it, usually.
812
00:39:15,600 --> 00:39:16,760
So...
Yeah.
813
00:39:16,840 --> 00:39:19,400
Why can't you embrace it,
that's what people love about you?
814
00:39:19,440 --> 00:39:20,760
I do know. Yeah.
815
00:39:20,800 --> 00:39:22,360
I just wanna get away from it.
816
00:39:22,400 --> 00:39:25,040
And the experiment is all about it.
817
00:39:25,120 --> 00:39:26,560
It's a sign of weakness to you,
isn't it.
818
00:39:26,640 --> 00:39:27,880
Yeah, 100%.
Yes.
819
00:39:27,960 --> 00:39:30,000
And I think it's the opposite.
Absolutely.
820
00:39:30,080 --> 00:39:31,200
I think it's courage...
Yep.
821
00:39:31,280 --> 00:39:36,760
..vulnerability and, you know,
opening those parts of yourself.
822
00:39:37,840 --> 00:39:38,880
Yeah. Anyway.
823
00:39:38,960 --> 00:39:40,560
I'm really, really proud of you
for that.
824
00:39:40,640 --> 00:39:42,720
It's what we like to see.
(LAUGHTER)
825
00:39:43,320 --> 00:39:44,680
Yes.
826
00:39:44,760 --> 00:39:47,880
I don't see any negatives
to you opening up.
827
00:39:47,920 --> 00:39:50,000
All I see is the positives.
828
00:39:50,040 --> 00:39:51,880
I just can't function like that.
829
00:39:52,760 --> 00:39:55,960
But I just think that
if you did it more often,
830
00:39:56,040 --> 00:39:58,040
it wouldn't
be so pent-up inside of you.
831
00:39:58,640 --> 00:40:00,360
I just think
it's a healthier way to live.
832
00:40:00,400 --> 00:40:01,560
Yeah.
833
00:40:01,640 --> 00:40:03,320
I don't want you
to feel ashamed of it
834
00:40:03,400 --> 00:40:05,600
I want you to embrace it
and I want you to do it more.
835
00:40:06,680 --> 00:40:11,760
Clearly everyone likes emotional Tim
but Tim doesn't like emotional Tim.
836
00:40:13,720 --> 00:40:14,800
Yeah.
837
00:40:15,880 --> 00:40:18,800
NARRATOR: While Timothy and Rachel
excuse themselves,
838
00:40:18,880 --> 00:40:22,920
Lucinda takes the opportunity
to learn more about Timothy.
839
00:40:23,000 --> 00:40:25,760
LUCINDA: What do you know about Tim
in relationship?
840
00:40:25,840 --> 00:40:27,520
What's worked for Tim...
Mmm.
841
00:40:27,560 --> 00:40:30,640
..is he's a doter.
842
00:40:31,560 --> 00:40:34,560
(EDGY MUSIC)
843
00:40:35,840 --> 00:40:37,640
He loves to take care of.
844
00:40:40,280 --> 00:40:41,720
OK.
Yeah.
845
00:40:43,160 --> 00:40:44,880
He loves to...
846
00:40:48,640 --> 00:40:50,400
have somebody to nurture.
847
00:40:52,480 --> 00:40:55,720
And be the protector.
848
00:40:55,800 --> 00:40:57,040
OK.
Yeah.
849
00:40:57,120 --> 00:40:58,320
Yep.
Yeah.
850
00:40:59,480 --> 00:41:02,440
I'm surprised to hear that.
851
00:41:02,520 --> 00:41:06,280
For the right woman, Tim would be
open to showing up in all the ways P
852
00:41:06,320 --> 00:41:07,960
protecting, providing.
853
00:41:08,000 --> 00:41:10,000
Has that been my experience? No.
854
00:41:10,080 --> 00:41:13,960
I mean, I would love a, you know,
a protector
855
00:41:14,040 --> 00:41:17,760
and a gorgeous man nurturing,
you know, me.
856
00:41:17,840 --> 00:41:22,680
And somebody that, you know,
holds space for me and protects me.
857
00:41:22,760 --> 00:41:27,280
And, yeah, I mean, those qualities
seem, yeah, it's beautiful.
858
00:41:28,000 --> 00:41:32,840
Where I'm at in my life, I don't
want some casual situation-ship,
859
00:41:34,080 --> 00:41:39,360
where I am sort of
not even getting my basic needs met.
860
00:41:39,400 --> 00:41:41,680
I'm a strong, independent woman
861
00:41:41,760 --> 00:41:44,360
but I'm very much
in my feminine as well,
862
00:41:44,440 --> 00:41:48,560
and, you know, I do like
feeling that I'm celebrated,
863
00:41:48,600 --> 00:41:50,080
that I'm desired.
864
00:41:50,120 --> 00:41:51,280
Yeah.
865
00:41:51,360 --> 00:41:54,080
And that I'm valued,
that I'm assured.
866
00:41:54,160 --> 00:41:56,240
Just knowing
that somebody's got my back
867
00:41:56,280 --> 00:41:58,160
and they're really into me.
868
00:41:58,200 --> 00:42:01,760
I absolutely know what I want
869
00:42:01,840 --> 00:42:04,080
and it's a little bit
bittersweet to say
870
00:42:04,160 --> 00:42:06,520
but at this stage
I'm starting to realise
871
00:42:07,680 --> 00:42:09,640
I want a lot more for myself.
872
00:42:10,480 --> 00:42:11,760
NARRATOR: Coming up...
873
00:42:11,840 --> 00:42:13,600
What else has been
going on with the relationship?
874
00:42:13,680 --> 00:42:15,520
(LAUGHS)
Jayden's brother Mitch
875
00:42:15,600 --> 00:42:19,440
gets to the bottom
of Eden and Jayden's relationship.
876
00:42:19,480 --> 00:42:21,320
Eden's not great with the sort of
877
00:42:21,400 --> 00:42:23,360
the confrontation
of just having disagreements.
878
00:42:23,440 --> 00:42:26,280
But we're still close
and everything's still good so...
879
00:42:26,360 --> 00:42:28,360
If I was being
controlled by a woman,
880
00:42:28,400 --> 00:42:29,440
I would...
881
00:42:29,520 --> 00:42:31,040
That'd be me (WHISTLES)
see you later.
882
00:42:35,040 --> 00:42:36,480
NARRATOR: On the Gold Coast,
883
00:42:36,560 --> 00:42:40,280
after an uncomfortable chat
about their issues,
884
00:42:40,320 --> 00:42:42,560
Eden and Jayden are getting ready
885
00:42:42,640 --> 00:42:47,880
to have a barbecue lunch with
Jayden parents, at his family home.
886
00:42:47,960 --> 00:42:51,240
I haven't seen Jayden's parents
since the wedding day.
887
00:42:51,320 --> 00:42:53,480
I just feel like
there's gonna be a lot of pressure.
888
00:42:53,560 --> 00:42:55,600
All the families are
asking us how we're going.
889
00:42:55,680 --> 00:42:56,960
FATHER: OK.
MITCH: Let's go.
890
00:42:57,000 --> 00:42:58,120
Do it.
891
00:42:58,200 --> 00:43:00,320
NARRATOR: Joining them
is Jayden's brother Mitch...
892
00:43:00,400 --> 00:43:01,680
Hello.
How are you?
893
00:43:01,760 --> 00:43:04,040
JAYDEN: Oh, the big E.
Oh, the little E.
894
00:43:04,120 --> 00:43:06,440
The big E. What's happening?
What's going on, mate?
895
00:43:06,520 --> 00:43:07,600
I'm cool.
Good to see you.
896
00:43:07,680 --> 00:43:08,840
Hello.
How are you, darl.
897
00:43:08,920 --> 00:43:10,120
Mwah. How are you?
Good. How are you?
898
00:43:10,200 --> 00:43:11,360
Good, thank you.
How are you, mate?
899
00:43:11,440 --> 00:43:13,160
Good to see you again.
Good to see you, mate.
900
00:43:13,240 --> 00:43:15,840
NARRATOR: And Eden's father Phil.
Hello.
901
00:43:15,920 --> 00:43:18,640
EDEN: So, the last few days
had been really tense.
902
00:43:19,920 --> 00:43:21,800
But I also think,
we've talked about it,
903
00:43:21,880 --> 00:43:23,720
it doesn't need to be talked about
again now.
904
00:43:23,760 --> 00:43:25,240
We can move forward from it.
905
00:43:27,560 --> 00:43:29,120
You guys have done well
to get this far.
906
00:43:29,200 --> 00:43:30,320
Yeah, we did.
Yeah.
907
00:43:30,400 --> 00:43:33,920
There are a lot of couples that are
leaving, arguing, having problems.
908
00:43:34,000 --> 00:43:35,400
So I think we're doing...
We're alright.
909
00:43:35,480 --> 00:43:37,120
We're not perfect.
You're not perfect.
910
00:43:37,160 --> 00:43:38,320
(EDEN CHUCKLES)
911
00:43:38,400 --> 00:43:40,360
No couple is perfect.
Yeah, exactly.
912
00:43:40,440 --> 00:43:42,560
Let's sit down while the old boy
cooks the barbecue, eh?
913
00:43:43,680 --> 00:43:46,000
EDEN: I just don't wanna
keep rehashing things
914
00:43:46,080 --> 00:43:48,360
and just have a nice family barbecue
with Jayden's family.
915
00:43:49,160 --> 00:43:51,840
Because I definitely
want to make a good impression.
916
00:43:51,920 --> 00:43:54,720
I see a strong future
with Jayden and I
917
00:43:54,800 --> 00:43:57,160
so I don't want his family
not to like me.
918
00:43:59,120 --> 00:44:02,680
JAYDEN'S MUM: So, how's
the homestay been at your place?
919
00:44:04,400 --> 00:44:06,160
EDEN: Yeah, it's actually been good.
920
00:44:06,200 --> 00:44:07,440
It's been nice.
921
00:44:11,320 --> 00:44:12,680
We had a good time.
922
00:44:12,760 --> 00:44:15,160
Are you excited that you're
getting to the end or nervous?
923
00:44:15,200 --> 00:44:16,480
Excited.
924
00:44:17,080 --> 00:44:18,440
They've got two more weeks to go
925
00:44:18,520 --> 00:44:19,960
and then you've
got a big decision to make.
926
00:44:20,000 --> 00:44:21,760
JAYDEN: Yeah.
927
00:44:21,840 --> 00:44:23,400
I don't think
it's that much of a decision
928
00:44:23,480 --> 00:44:25,280
unless something huge
happens in the next two weeks.
929
00:44:25,320 --> 00:44:26,520
Yeah.
930
00:44:30,080 --> 00:44:32,480
Homestays is a big thing,
definitely.
931
00:44:32,560 --> 00:44:34,680
You get to see, like,
the true colours of a person.
932
00:44:36,200 --> 00:44:38,640
What else has been going on
with the relationship?
933
00:44:38,680 --> 00:44:40,200
Any negatives?
934
00:44:41,000 --> 00:44:42,360
(EDEN CLEARS HER THROAT)
935
00:44:43,240 --> 00:44:45,400
JAYDEN: Oh, yeah, there's negatives.
Mmm?
936
00:44:45,960 --> 00:44:47,520
(LAUGHS AWKWARDLY)
937
00:44:48,560 --> 00:44:50,080
The last two or three weeks is where
938
00:44:50,160 --> 00:44:52,120
we've come into, like,
a little bit of trouble, I think.
939
00:44:52,160 --> 00:44:53,240
Yeah.
940
00:44:53,320 --> 00:44:57,480
I feel like
there's obviously things we both do
941
00:44:57,520 --> 00:44:58,920
that annoy each other.
942
00:45:00,640 --> 00:45:03,840
But, yeah,
we figured it out in the end.
943
00:45:03,920 --> 00:45:05,560
(LAUGHS AWKWARDLY)
Yeah.
944
00:45:05,600 --> 00:45:06,840
So, what's it about, like...
945
00:45:08,360 --> 00:45:09,960
Like, were you actually...
946
00:45:10,040 --> 00:45:11,280
I mean...
Yeah.
947
00:45:11,360 --> 00:45:14,560
Yeah, Eden's not great
with sort of the confrontation
948
00:45:14,640 --> 00:45:16,360
of just having disagreements
or arguments.
949
00:45:16,440 --> 00:45:18,120
No.
I'd rather just not have them.
950
00:45:18,160 --> 00:45:19,480
Yeah.
951
00:45:20,920 --> 00:45:23,560
But we're still close
and everything's still good so...
952
00:45:27,080 --> 00:45:29,960
Eden again
shutting down conversations.
953
00:45:30,040 --> 00:45:31,760
I wanted the kind
of family interaction,
954
00:45:31,840 --> 00:45:33,680
you know, talking about this,
talking about that,
955
00:45:33,760 --> 00:45:36,680
expressing our feelings
and talking about the problem
956
00:45:36,720 --> 00:45:38,200
and get, you know, their take
957
00:45:38,280 --> 00:45:40,160
and their
perspective on our relationship.
958
00:45:40,200 --> 00:45:41,520
But I can't.
959
00:45:47,480 --> 00:45:51,760
EDEN: I think obviously I've been,
I guess, getting snappy with things
960
00:45:51,800 --> 00:45:52,920
in the last couple of weeks.
961
00:45:53,000 --> 00:45:54,680
Just, you know,
it just happens sometimes
962
00:45:54,720 --> 00:45:56,600
and I need to stop doing it.
963
00:45:56,640 --> 00:45:58,520
So, as long as we both work towards
964
00:45:58,600 --> 00:46:00,120
the things
that are upsetting each other...
965
00:46:00,200 --> 00:46:02,320
'Cause we're both doing things
that are upsetting each other,
966
00:46:02,400 --> 00:46:04,120
so we both need
to try and do better with them...
967
00:46:04,200 --> 00:46:06,040
Yeah.
..moving forward.
968
00:46:06,080 --> 00:46:07,320
Yep.
969
00:46:07,400 --> 00:46:09,120
Obviously we still
have a really close bond
970
00:46:09,200 --> 00:46:12,160
and we still
really like each other so...
971
00:46:12,240 --> 00:46:13,960
Yeah.
Yeah.
972
00:46:14,000 --> 00:46:15,920
Guess what. No-one's perfect.
973
00:46:16,000 --> 00:46:17,280
Exactly. Yeah.
Yeah.
974
00:46:19,680 --> 00:46:22,520
NARRATOR: Having not gotten
the answers he was after...
975
00:46:22,560 --> 00:46:23,800
(MITCH GROANS)
976
00:46:23,880 --> 00:46:26,240
..Jayden's brother Mitch
wants to get to the bottom
977
00:46:26,320 --> 00:46:30,160
of what's going on with Jayden
in his relationship.
978
00:46:30,240 --> 00:46:32,240
Tell me what's been going on
with you. How's it all going?
979
00:46:32,280 --> 00:46:33,600
Eden is, like, really struggling.
980
00:46:33,640 --> 00:46:35,920
She gets, like, mad social anxiety.
981
00:46:36,000 --> 00:46:37,280
So, we're going to...
Yeah?
982
00:46:37,320 --> 00:46:38,560
..like, the retreat.
983
00:46:38,640 --> 00:46:40,240
She knows there's
gonna be lots of people there.
984
00:46:40,320 --> 00:46:42,560
She just freaks out and she's, like,
crying, all that kind of stuff,
985
00:46:42,640 --> 00:46:44,120
which is fine,
I'm learning to deal with it.
986
00:46:44,200 --> 00:46:46,920
But, like, now, that paired with
being in the experiment for so long
987
00:46:47,000 --> 00:46:48,640
it's building up and it's, like,
got to the point
988
00:46:48,720 --> 00:46:50,200
where she's starting
to take it out on me,
989
00:46:50,280 --> 00:46:51,720
being real snappy
and stuff like that.
990
00:46:52,800 --> 00:46:55,280
Everything that I try and bring up
or try and talk to her about
991
00:46:55,360 --> 00:46:57,400
she shuts down
and shuts down the conversation.
992
00:46:57,480 --> 00:46:59,080
She doesn't
wanna talk about these things.
993
00:46:59,160 --> 00:47:00,560
Why not?
I dunno.
994
00:47:00,600 --> 00:47:02,480
She's just, like, I don't know.
995
00:47:02,560 --> 00:47:04,200
Maybe she knows
she's done the wrong thing,
996
00:47:04,240 --> 00:47:05,400
and she'll, you know,
997
00:47:05,480 --> 00:47:07,720
she'll try and get out of it by
just shutting down the conversation.
998
00:47:07,800 --> 00:47:09,960
Well, you've just gotta say to her,
no, we're talking about it.
999
00:47:10,920 --> 00:47:12,280
I'm just a little bit concerned.
1000
00:47:12,360 --> 00:47:13,880
I mean, there can
definitely be issues
1001
00:47:13,960 --> 00:47:17,000
and I think Eden's trying to hide
as much stuff as she possibly can.
1002
00:47:17,080 --> 00:47:20,160
In any relationship you wanna
be able to be yourself and...
1003
00:47:20,200 --> 00:47:23,000
and speak your mind, and be open,
1004
00:47:23,080 --> 00:47:25,000
so, when you can't do that
it dims your light.
1005
00:47:25,040 --> 00:47:26,480
So, yeah.
1006
00:47:27,440 --> 00:47:29,560
And then there was
the whole thing where...
1007
00:47:29,600 --> 00:47:32,160
Like, I do so much things for her
1008
00:47:32,240 --> 00:47:34,800
but she ended up turning around
and getting really angry
1009
00:47:34,840 --> 00:47:37,480
and blowing up and saying,
1010
00:47:37,560 --> 00:47:39,320
"Well, why don't you just
do something nice for me
1011
00:47:39,360 --> 00:47:40,840
"for once in your life?"
1012
00:47:41,840 --> 00:47:45,600
So, it was making it very hard
for me trying to deal with that.
1013
00:47:45,680 --> 00:47:47,880
I want to address the doubts,
fix it,
1014
00:47:47,960 --> 00:47:51,240
so that me and Eden
will stay strong for a long time.
1015
00:47:51,960 --> 00:47:54,480
Yeah. That's a hard position
to be in.
1016
00:47:54,520 --> 00:47:55,520
Yeah.
1017
00:47:55,560 --> 00:47:56,960
I know you're not me but man,
1018
00:47:57,040 --> 00:47:59,440
I would struggle if I
had a woman trying to control me.
1019
00:47:59,520 --> 00:48:00,880
Yeah.
I'd just...
1020
00:48:01,800 --> 00:48:02,960
I'd, yeah.
Yeah.
1021
00:48:03,000 --> 00:48:04,640
I'd be biting it now, straight away.
1022
00:48:05,800 --> 00:48:07,960
I think Jayden, he just needs
to nip it in the bud.
1023
00:48:08,040 --> 00:48:10,200
And yeah, sort it out quickly,
because
1024
00:48:10,280 --> 00:48:13,360
if I was being
controlled by a woman I would...
1025
00:48:13,440 --> 00:48:15,400
That'd be me (WHISTLES)
See you later.
1026
00:48:15,440 --> 00:48:17,280
Yeah. It's shitty but...
1027
00:48:18,440 --> 00:48:19,840
Mmm.
1028
00:48:20,960 --> 00:48:22,560
NARRATOR: Coming up...
1029
00:48:22,640 --> 00:48:25,560
LUCINDA: This whole experience
I haven't felt welcome.
1030
00:48:25,600 --> 00:48:27,240
I've tried my best.
1031
00:48:27,280 --> 00:48:29,000
But Tim, you haven't let me in.
1032
00:48:29,040 --> 00:48:30,320
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1033
00:48:30,360 --> 00:48:31,680
TIMOTHY: I don't know what you want.
1034
00:48:31,760 --> 00:48:34,320
I'm just... I can't.
There's too many words.
1035
00:48:35,880 --> 00:48:37,480
I've got nothing left.
1036
00:48:46,800 --> 00:48:48,120
NARRATOR: In Perth,
1037
00:48:48,160 --> 00:48:50,080
after receiving the seal of approval
1038
00:48:50,160 --> 00:48:54,360
from best friend Mackenzie
yesterday, Lauren and Jonathan
1039
00:48:54,440 --> 00:48:57,920
are waking up feeling much closer
in their relationship.
1040
00:48:58,880 --> 00:49:01,280
Yes, we consummated the homestay.
1041
00:49:01,320 --> 00:49:03,000
It'd been a long, long while.
1042
00:49:03,080 --> 00:49:04,840
I think it'd been, like,
since the honeymoon.
1043
00:49:04,880 --> 00:49:06,400
(CHUCKLES)
1044
00:49:07,280 --> 00:49:09,040
LAUREN: Jono.
JONATHAN: Yo?
1045
00:49:09,080 --> 00:49:11,080
Lemon hat or Coopers hat?
1046
00:49:14,200 --> 00:49:16,120
I think the most
pivotal part of homestays
1047
00:49:16,160 --> 00:49:18,160
is obviously Jono meeting Mackenzie.
1048
00:49:18,240 --> 00:49:20,720
JONATHAN: I think the lemon hat.
The lemon hat?
1049
00:49:20,760 --> 00:49:22,120
The lemon hat's fun.
1050
00:49:22,200 --> 00:49:26,240
LAUREN: And her liking him and
giving him the tick of approval.
1051
00:49:26,280 --> 00:49:27,880
That's been really important
1052
00:49:27,960 --> 00:49:32,240
because it made me realise
that I have been hard on him.
1053
00:49:32,320 --> 00:49:34,120
I should probably
put my wedding ring on.
1054
00:49:34,160 --> 00:49:35,840
(CHUCKLES)
1055
00:49:35,920 --> 00:49:37,560
LAUREN: At the beginning
of the experiment
1056
00:49:37,640 --> 00:49:41,040
I just didn't think
that Jono and I were a good match
1057
00:49:41,120 --> 00:49:44,400
and so I just
wasn't making any kind of effort.
1058
00:49:44,440 --> 00:49:45,800
A lemon for a lemon.
1059
00:49:47,720 --> 00:49:50,360
But as time's gone on and we've
gotten to know each other more...
1060
00:49:52,080 --> 00:49:54,640
Ooh, look at the water!
It's amazing.
1061
00:49:54,680 --> 00:49:55,880
How good is it.
1062
00:49:57,080 --> 00:49:59,320
..I'm realising that, like,
Jono has all these amazing qualities
1063
00:49:59,360 --> 00:50:00,920
that I need in a person.
1064
00:50:01,000 --> 00:50:03,160
I need to cleanse my sins.
I need to baptise myself.
1065
00:50:03,240 --> 00:50:05,440
(LAUGHS)
I feel the ocean is good for that.
1066
00:50:05,520 --> 00:50:07,440
Yeah.
It can wash away anything.
1067
00:50:07,480 --> 00:50:08,560
Totally.
1068
00:50:08,640 --> 00:50:11,960
Yesterday Mackenzie
gave me the two thumbs up.
1069
00:50:13,640 --> 00:50:15,600
Yeah, things are going really well.
1070
00:50:16,640 --> 00:50:18,760
We're having fun, we're laughing.
1071
00:50:20,080 --> 00:50:23,040
We had a bit of a
cuddle in the water which was nice.
1072
00:50:24,440 --> 00:50:26,760
Homestays has
been really good for us.
1073
00:50:26,800 --> 00:50:28,560
We're becoming more affectionate.
1074
00:50:28,600 --> 00:50:30,240
I'm really happy.
1075
00:50:30,280 --> 00:50:31,680
(CHUCKLES)
1076
00:50:31,760 --> 00:50:34,000
This is gonna be so yummy.
Yeah, I know.
1077
00:50:34,920 --> 00:50:36,880
NARRATOR: Knowing that
the way to Lauren's heart
1078
00:50:36,920 --> 00:50:38,560
is through her stomach,
1079
00:50:38,640 --> 00:50:43,520
Jonathan wants to impress his wife
by showing of his culinary skills.
1080
00:50:43,600 --> 00:50:46,880
Oh, baby, look at that.
Yeah...
1081
00:50:46,920 --> 00:50:49,400
That gets me (BLEEP) horny.
1082
00:50:49,440 --> 00:50:51,240
(CHUCKLES)
1083
00:50:52,600 --> 00:50:55,040
JONATHAN: Lauren and I
are just really happy.
1084
00:50:55,120 --> 00:50:57,960
I feel closer to Lauren now
than I ever have.
1085
00:50:58,600 --> 00:51:00,200
I do really like her.
1086
00:51:01,840 --> 00:51:03,960
I've never been with a man
that can cook.
1087
00:51:06,360 --> 00:51:08,280
I've never been with a chick
who can cook.
1088
00:51:08,320 --> 00:51:09,400
Really?
1089
00:51:09,480 --> 00:51:11,080
Well, you've
found the love of your life.
1090
00:51:11,120 --> 00:51:12,760
(LAUGHS)
1091
00:51:13,560 --> 00:51:15,400
I just hope every day from now on
1092
00:51:15,480 --> 00:51:18,000
Lauren and I
just get a bit closer together.
1093
00:51:18,080 --> 00:51:21,600
I can see what the future looks like
so yeah, I'm really excited.
1094
00:51:21,640 --> 00:51:22,920
(CHUCKLES)
1095
00:51:23,680 --> 00:51:25,000
LAUREN: Mmm.
JONATHAN: Is it good?
1096
00:51:25,040 --> 00:51:26,280
It's really good.
1097
00:51:28,160 --> 00:51:30,560
I've had so much fun
in the last couple of days.
1098
00:51:31,360 --> 00:51:32,520
It's been good, hey.
1099
00:51:32,560 --> 00:51:33,760
It's been awesome.
1100
00:51:33,840 --> 00:51:37,840
As soon as I got here you just
looked beautiful and happy.
1101
00:51:37,880 --> 00:51:39,200
And just looked nice.
1102
00:51:41,040 --> 00:51:44,880
If we can
keep going in the same trajectory
1103
00:51:44,920 --> 00:51:46,720
I guess we'll become a lot closer.
1104
00:51:46,760 --> 00:51:48,320
(CHUCKLES)
1105
00:51:48,400 --> 00:51:52,320
One of my personalities could
come out and change their mind so...
1106
00:51:53,160 --> 00:51:54,840
Yeah.
1107
00:51:54,880 --> 00:51:56,320
It's been a really good homestay.
1108
00:51:56,400 --> 00:51:58,360
Like, we've really
enjoyed each other's company.
1109
00:51:58,400 --> 00:51:59,880
We've had no issues.
1110
00:51:59,960 --> 00:52:01,400
We've just been
getting along really well.
1111
00:52:01,440 --> 00:52:02,560
I like this one.
1112
00:52:02,640 --> 00:52:04,560
Whatever one this one is,
the last couple of days...
1113
00:52:04,640 --> 00:52:06,120
I don't know what this one is.
(LAUGHTER)
1114
00:52:06,160 --> 00:52:07,960
..if she can hang around a bit more.
1115
00:52:08,960 --> 00:52:12,120
At the rate I am now,
I want to stay together.
1116
00:52:12,200 --> 00:52:16,880
I'm realising that, like, I've got
someone that I need instead of want.
1117
00:52:18,000 --> 00:52:20,360
It's like now I'm interested in,
like, making it work.
1118
00:52:21,800 --> 00:52:23,640
There could be a future for us.
1119
00:52:23,720 --> 00:52:25,840
Imagine, like,
that's the rest of your life.
1120
00:52:26,600 --> 00:52:28,560
Well, it is 'cause you married me.
1121
00:52:30,480 --> 00:52:32,640
Suck shit.
(LAUGHS)
1122
00:52:35,040 --> 00:52:36,440
(TRAM BELL DINGS)
1123
00:52:38,160 --> 00:52:39,400
NARRATOR: In Melbourne,
1124
00:52:39,480 --> 00:52:43,000
despite his friends encouraging him
to open up yesterday,
1125
00:52:43,080 --> 00:52:47,760
Timothy is still not used to
having another person in his home.
1126
00:52:48,960 --> 00:52:52,080
And Lucinda is
feeling the distance between them.
1127
00:52:53,480 --> 00:52:54,880
I'm feeling for Tim.
1128
00:52:54,960 --> 00:52:58,840
I think he's having
a huge emotional release hangover,
1129
00:52:58,880 --> 00:53:00,480
a vulnerability hangover
1130
00:53:00,560 --> 00:53:02,880
for all that he's been processing
the last week or two.
1131
00:53:06,320 --> 00:53:09,520
And I'm just very wary.
1132
00:53:09,560 --> 00:53:11,920
Is there anything I can do, Tim?
1133
00:53:12,000 --> 00:53:14,960
And, you know,
I don't wanna poke the bear
1134
00:53:15,040 --> 00:53:19,040
because emotions and feelings
aren't his natural domain.
1135
00:53:20,520 --> 00:53:25,040
Nice to do a little tidy up
of the garden.
1136
00:53:25,080 --> 00:53:26,400
Yeah.
1137
00:53:27,320 --> 00:53:28,960
What happens when you go away, hey?
1138
00:53:29,040 --> 00:53:30,800
All your plants die.
Everything dies.
1139
00:53:30,840 --> 00:53:31,920
Aw.
1140
00:53:32,960 --> 00:53:34,280
How are you feeling?
1141
00:53:35,240 --> 00:53:36,880
I'm flat today.
1142
00:53:43,000 --> 00:53:44,600
(COUGHS)
Honestly?
1143
00:53:44,640 --> 00:53:45,800
Yeah, not good.
1144
00:53:47,240 --> 00:53:50,320
Homestays, from my understanding,
is supposed to be fun,
1145
00:53:50,400 --> 00:53:56,040
and you get to show your life
and be exciting.
1146
00:53:56,120 --> 00:54:01,160
Homestays, yeah,
it's just not comfortable for me.
1147
00:54:01,200 --> 00:54:02,720
What's going on?
1148
00:54:02,760 --> 00:54:04,360
Yeah, just feel flat.
1149
00:54:04,440 --> 00:54:06,200
What do you feel flat about?
Don't know.
1150
00:54:07,280 --> 00:54:10,080
Some mornings I just wanna
get up and just say nothing,
1151
00:54:10,160 --> 00:54:14,600
and I get in these moods
where I just need, I need my space.
1152
00:54:14,680 --> 00:54:18,200
And I don't even
have my space here now.
1153
00:54:19,560 --> 00:54:24,080
I think with the week of it
just being emotionally draining
1154
00:54:24,120 --> 00:54:26,960
and then coming back,
1155
00:54:29,480 --> 00:54:33,440
I do need a lot of alone,
like, alone time.
1156
00:54:34,160 --> 00:54:37,680
Sometimes I just wanna be,
you know, me and the dogs.
1157
00:54:37,760 --> 00:54:39,640
You know?
I get it.
1158
00:54:40,320 --> 00:54:42,200
They don't talk.
Yep.
1159
00:54:42,240 --> 00:54:43,560
(CHUCKLES)
1160
00:54:43,640 --> 00:54:46,360
It's really good
that you can articulate it
1161
00:54:46,440 --> 00:54:49,360
and this is what you're feeling,
and it's totally fine.
1162
00:54:50,280 --> 00:54:52,640
You've been really opening up
with vulnerability
1163
00:54:52,720 --> 00:54:55,080
and it's not your natural domain,
and that's exhausting...
1164
00:54:55,160 --> 00:54:57,120
Yeah.
And I get it. I do.
1165
00:54:57,160 --> 00:54:58,280
Yeah.
1166
00:54:58,360 --> 00:54:59,880
Clear your head a bit.
Just go for a walk. Yeah.
1167
00:54:59,960 --> 00:55:01,520
Yeah.
I just need to clear my...
1168
00:55:01,600 --> 00:55:03,760
Yeah.
Clear my head so...
1169
00:55:05,560 --> 00:55:06,840
Yeah.
1170
00:55:06,920 --> 00:55:09,800
Yeah. It's a bit,
it's a bit hard for him.
1171
00:55:10,800 --> 00:55:12,400
(DOOR SHUTS)
1172
00:55:12,440 --> 00:55:13,760
There's a part of me
1173
00:55:13,840 --> 00:55:16,680
that has been quite excited
the last couple of weeks,
1174
00:55:16,760 --> 00:55:20,720
oh, walls are coming down,
let's keep on that continuum.
1175
00:55:22,680 --> 00:55:27,280
But it's a little bit
of an accordion, you know?
1176
00:55:28,120 --> 00:55:31,400
Walls come down then, you know,
walls come up.
1177
00:55:31,480 --> 00:55:37,080
Tim is somebody that really
needs a lot of space to himself.
1178
00:55:37,160 --> 00:55:41,000
The best thing I can do is
just leave him be a bit today.
1179
00:55:43,040 --> 00:55:45,680
NARRATOR: As dusk
begins to settle...
1180
00:55:45,720 --> 00:55:47,360
(PHONE RINGS)
1181
00:55:50,600 --> 00:55:52,560
AUTOMATED VOICE: You have
reached the message bank of...
1182
00:55:52,640 --> 00:55:55,800
..Lucinda is home alone
in Timothy's apartment
1183
00:55:55,840 --> 00:55:58,960
while Timothy is out with a friend.
1184
00:55:59,040 --> 00:56:01,640
Tim said, "I'm just going
to go out for an hour."
1185
00:56:02,360 --> 00:56:07,760
It's been a FEW hours and
there's been no communication since.
1186
00:56:08,880 --> 00:56:10,760
Hanging out with a friend all night
1187
00:56:10,840 --> 00:56:14,480
really speaks volumes that it's
about him not wanting to see me.
1188
00:56:16,480 --> 00:56:19,360
Shane's words
keep ringing in my ear.
1189
00:56:20,920 --> 00:56:25,320
SHANE VOICE: What's worked for Tim
is he's a doter.
1190
00:56:26,280 --> 00:56:28,640
He loves to take care of.
1191
00:56:30,560 --> 00:56:34,360
He loves to be the protector.
1192
00:56:36,680 --> 00:56:38,640
LUCINDA: I don't see Tim
making much effort.
1193
00:56:39,800 --> 00:56:43,320
I do want to do my life
with somebody that is willing
1194
00:56:43,400 --> 00:56:45,360
and wanting to do their life
with me.
1195
00:56:48,080 --> 00:56:49,360
Cookie.
1196
00:56:50,160 --> 00:56:53,760
I wanted to come here
with all the love and joy
1197
00:56:53,840 --> 00:56:56,800
but being at homestay,
I'm feeling abandoned.
1198
00:56:57,920 --> 00:56:59,480
It is disappointing.
1199
00:57:00,120 --> 00:57:03,400
It feels like
he's a little bit put out
1200
00:57:03,440 --> 00:57:05,080
by me being here at the moment.
1201
00:57:06,200 --> 00:57:09,000
I just don't know
where to go from here.
1202
00:57:15,480 --> 00:57:18,000
(SUBDUED MUSIC)
1203
00:57:19,200 --> 00:57:22,800
NARRATOR: Last night,
Timothy returned home late
1204
00:57:22,840 --> 00:57:25,000
after catching up with a friend...
1205
00:57:25,040 --> 00:57:26,320
(EXHALES)
1206
00:57:26,400 --> 00:57:29,840
..despite telling Lucinda
he needed some time alone.
1207
00:57:31,520 --> 00:57:35,240
Last night I just felt
quite abandoned in his apartment
1208
00:57:35,280 --> 00:57:36,520
with his dogs.
1209
00:57:36,560 --> 00:57:38,440
I, yeah, it was disappointing.
1210
00:57:40,240 --> 00:57:41,720
(CAR DOOR CLOSES)
1211
00:57:41,800 --> 00:57:43,880
In an effort
to talk things through with Timothy,
1212
00:57:43,960 --> 00:57:46,880
Lucinda has
organised a private picnic.
1213
00:57:50,080 --> 00:57:52,240
(FIRE CRACKLES)
1214
00:57:54,080 --> 00:57:57,320
Most of the homestay's
been pretty minimal chips.
1215
00:57:57,360 --> 00:57:58,560
Yeah.
1216
00:57:58,640 --> 00:58:02,520
With a dribbling of gravy,
like, just kind of sloppy drops,
1217
00:58:02,560 --> 00:58:05,560
and I haven't felt that welcomed.
1218
00:58:05,600 --> 00:58:06,640
Very sweet.
1219
00:58:07,480 --> 00:58:10,800
I haven't felt that
he's really wanted to be around me.
1220
00:58:10,840 --> 00:58:12,040
Cool. Cool.
1221
00:58:12,080 --> 00:58:13,480
Nice one.
1222
00:58:13,560 --> 00:58:18,120
I get the vibe
he really can't be bothered.
1223
00:58:20,880 --> 00:58:23,000
(CRUNCHING SOUND)
1224
00:58:28,600 --> 00:58:29,720
Um...
1225
00:58:36,960 --> 00:58:38,080
OK.
1226
00:58:38,160 --> 00:58:40,240
Obviously there's
something going on.
1227
00:58:40,280 --> 00:58:41,640
So, what's going on?
1228
00:58:42,400 --> 00:58:46,880
Last night you said to me,
"I'm going away for one hour,"
1229
00:58:46,960 --> 00:58:49,680
and you were back seven
or eight hours later, you know.
1230
00:58:49,720 --> 00:58:52,080
I felt hurt about that, Tim.
1231
00:58:52,160 --> 00:58:55,640
I just felt, sort of,
not communicated with.
1232
00:58:55,720 --> 00:58:59,120
And it was my understanding
you didn't want to see anybody.
1233
00:58:59,200 --> 00:59:02,800
And that's why I gave you the time
with the dogs. You know?
1234
00:59:02,840 --> 00:59:04,680
But it did... It just felt...
1235
00:59:05,960 --> 00:59:09,160
I didn't feel considered, you know,
in that.
1236
00:59:12,280 --> 00:59:16,280
Well, you know,
the way that I see homestays...
1237
00:59:16,320 --> 00:59:17,320
Mmm?
1238
00:59:17,400 --> 00:59:21,120
Is you, sort of, you come here
and come into...
1239
00:59:21,200 --> 00:59:22,560
..and see my life.
Mmm.
1240
00:59:22,640 --> 00:59:25,480
But when we got in,
we got into Melbourne,
1241
00:59:25,520 --> 00:59:26,800
I wasn't feeling good.
1242
00:59:26,880 --> 00:59:28,520
And that's fine.
I was drained.
1243
00:59:28,600 --> 00:59:31,040
It just felt
a little bit like a contradiction
1244
00:59:31,120 --> 00:59:33,680
because you said you
didn't want to see anybody
1245
00:59:33,760 --> 00:59:36,240
and you just really
wanted to be left alone.
1246
00:59:38,680 --> 00:59:41,040
You were feeling really low-energy
1247
00:59:41,120 --> 00:59:44,040
and I just wanted to support that,
all of that.
1248
00:59:50,120 --> 00:59:53,080
In this whole experience
I haven't felt welcome.
1249
00:59:54,280 --> 00:59:55,600
I've tried my best
1250
00:59:55,680 --> 00:59:59,360
to come into your world and get
to know you in all the ways.
1251
00:59:59,400 --> 01:00:01,440
But Tim, you haven't let me in.
1252
01:00:02,440 --> 01:00:03,600
I...
1253
01:00:03,680 --> 01:00:05,520
I've barely
been let into your world.
1254
01:00:05,600 --> 01:00:09,040
You've been giving me
this whole energy of,
1255
01:00:09,080 --> 01:00:11,840
I'm a hindrance to your space.
1256
01:00:11,920 --> 01:00:15,680
And I don't want to poke you
or ask too many questions
1257
01:00:15,760 --> 01:00:19,080
because I know you get sensitive
and the walls come up.
1258
01:00:20,720 --> 01:00:22,360
Like, sometimes
you're damned if you do
1259
01:00:22,440 --> 01:00:24,240
and you're damned if you don't
with you.
1260
01:00:27,520 --> 01:00:29,960
I told you I'm flat.
I told you last week.
1261
01:00:30,000 --> 01:00:31,800
And that's what I get so shitty at.
1262
01:00:31,880 --> 01:00:35,880
It's like, everyone wants you
to be all this emotional thing
1263
01:00:35,960 --> 01:00:37,560
but you don't want
the other side of it,
1264
01:00:37,600 --> 01:00:39,120
which is draining.
1265
01:00:39,200 --> 01:00:44,040
But Tim, these last two months,
you're often feeling flat or...
1266
01:00:44,120 --> 01:00:47,920
Like, I find you very moody,
generally.
1267
01:00:48,840 --> 01:00:51,720
And I get it's tough for you
but at the same time,
1268
01:00:51,760 --> 01:00:54,160
I need to have fun, enjoy.
1269
01:00:54,240 --> 01:00:55,920
Well then, you know what?
Then absolutely.
1270
01:00:56,000 --> 01:00:59,440
Then be free, and just be happy
because it ain't my life.
1271
01:00:59,520 --> 01:01:02,480
I've got problems.
I don't need to look for them.
1272
01:01:03,360 --> 01:01:05,360
I get that, Tim.
I'm not here to say...
1273
01:01:05,440 --> 01:01:07,600
I just don't think you do get it.
OK.
1274
01:01:07,680 --> 01:01:08,880
That's my thoughts.
OK.
1275
01:01:08,960 --> 01:01:13,440
I don't think you do.
I'm not into this emotional journey.
1276
01:01:15,120 --> 01:01:16,480
I didn't expect that I'd have
1277
01:01:16,560 --> 01:01:18,640
to go through all of that
on the experiment.
1278
01:01:26,480 --> 01:01:28,880
I didn't think
I'd have to dig that deep.
1279
01:01:34,400 --> 01:01:35,960
Lu's an emotional person.
1280
01:01:36,040 --> 01:01:38,000
She loves
talking about her feelings.
1281
01:01:40,960 --> 01:01:44,000
And digging into
all this emotional side,
1282
01:01:46,640 --> 01:01:48,800
it's confronting, it's...
1283
01:01:50,560 --> 01:01:52,640
It's just not comfortable for me.
1284
01:01:54,400 --> 01:01:57,400
(SOMBRE MUSIC)
1285
01:02:01,880 --> 01:02:04,720
I've got my own way
of dealing with stuff.
1286
01:02:08,760 --> 01:02:13,000
That's what I've been taught from,
yeah, a long time ago.
1287
01:02:17,440 --> 01:02:20,440
(SOMBRE MUSIC CONTINUES)
1288
01:02:24,360 --> 01:02:26,720
You know what? I should have
never dug into last week.
1289
01:02:26,760 --> 01:02:28,120
I'm actually...
1290
01:02:28,160 --> 01:02:30,160
Um, I'm just (BLEEP).
1291
01:02:32,480 --> 01:02:33,680
I don't know what you want.
1292
01:02:33,760 --> 01:02:36,080
I'm just... I can't...
There's too many words.
1293
01:02:36,120 --> 01:02:37,400
I just... I can't.
1294
01:02:37,440 --> 01:02:39,280
I don't know what else to do.
1295
01:02:39,360 --> 01:02:41,480
I don't know what to say.
I've got no words.
1296
01:02:43,560 --> 01:02:45,520
(TIM SIGHS)
1297
01:02:48,160 --> 01:02:49,760
Eugh! (BLEEP) me.
1298
01:02:55,560 --> 01:02:57,080
Eugh!
1299
01:03:00,000 --> 01:03:03,000
(DESOLATE MUSIC)
1300
01:03:04,640 --> 01:03:06,280
I've got nothing left.
1301
01:03:08,280 --> 01:03:09,560
I'm just over it.
1302
01:03:14,480 --> 01:03:15,640
LUCINDA: Hey, Tim.
1303
01:03:15,720 --> 01:03:17,680
It doesn't...
I just don't wanna (BLEEP) talk!
1304
01:03:18,880 --> 01:03:20,280
(BLEEP) me!
1305
01:03:21,440 --> 01:03:24,440
(FRAUGHT MUSIC)
1306
01:03:31,960 --> 01:03:33,480
TIMOTHY: (BLEEP) me.
1307
01:03:35,840 --> 01:03:37,360
I'm gonna catch an Uber. I'm going.
1308
01:03:37,400 --> 01:03:39,200
I'm out. I'm done.
1309
01:03:43,240 --> 01:03:46,240
(GENTLE MUSIC)
1310
01:03:55,880 --> 01:03:57,880
The Tinman is back.
1311
01:03:58,880 --> 01:04:00,240
Yep.
1312
01:04:01,960 --> 01:04:03,440
(EXHALES)
1313
01:04:08,640 --> 01:04:14,880
I think at the heart and soul of it,
emotional language is not Tim's jam.
1314
01:04:18,040 --> 01:04:22,240
He's sort of tried it on for size
and he's decided it's not for him.
1315
01:04:26,360 --> 01:04:31,440
I feel deeply for him
that he does not have the capacity.
1316
01:04:34,480 --> 01:04:37,720
Those gates around his heart
and soul,
1317
01:04:37,760 --> 01:04:40,200
it must be really lonely, you know?
1318
01:04:40,240 --> 01:04:42,000
And, like, what an ache.
1319
01:04:42,080 --> 01:04:44,960
(EMOTIONALLY)
Like, what a sad state of affairs.
1320
01:04:48,160 --> 01:04:50,560
I'm not angry. I'm not.
1321
01:04:53,680 --> 01:04:55,040
Am I disappointed?
1322
01:04:55,120 --> 01:04:57,600
Well, you know, maybe a little bit,
you know,
1323
01:04:57,640 --> 01:05:00,000
'cause I held hope in moments.
1324
01:05:02,200 --> 01:05:06,160
But I deserve better than this.
I do.
1325
01:05:06,200 --> 01:05:09,080
(PURPOSEFUL MUSIC)
1326
01:05:09,160 --> 01:05:13,400
I've worked very hard
to be the woman I am.
1327
01:05:17,560 --> 01:05:20,320
This is not what I want for me
in partnership.
1328
01:05:24,040 --> 01:05:27,200
I am not gonna superimpose myself
1329
01:05:27,280 --> 01:05:30,560
upon somebody
that doesn't want or celebrate me.
1330
01:05:30,600 --> 01:05:33,600
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1331
01:05:34,280 --> 01:05:37,600
I do adore Tim. I do, you know,
wish and hope for the best.
1332
01:05:39,800 --> 01:05:44,400
But what I'm getting
and what he's got to give,
1333
01:05:45,280 --> 01:05:46,800
respectfully, it's not for me.
1334
01:05:48,920 --> 01:05:53,600
I am defining what I want in my life
1335
01:05:53,640 --> 01:05:56,360
and it's very different to this.
1336
01:05:59,840 --> 01:06:02,160
I know what I've done.
I know what I've given.
1337
01:06:03,600 --> 01:06:05,280
I know I have done my best.
1338
01:06:05,320 --> 01:06:07,360
(BURST OF FRAUGHT MUSIC)
1339
01:06:08,480 --> 01:06:09,640
NARRATOR: Tomorrow night...
1340
01:06:09,720 --> 01:06:11,640
Tim called me.
He said, "Somebody rescue me."
1341
01:06:11,680 --> 01:06:12,760
(LAUGHS)
1342
01:06:12,840 --> 01:06:17,200
..homestays continue
and Tim's friend Ben is back.
1343
01:06:17,280 --> 01:06:19,320
SARA: He's just
incredibly inappropriate.
1344
01:06:19,400 --> 01:06:20,880
Why did you lie?
Um...
1345
01:06:20,960 --> 01:06:22,560
Did you think
you would get away with it?
1346
01:06:22,600 --> 01:06:23,640
I feel like I...
1347
01:06:23,720 --> 01:06:25,440
Why'd you flare your nostrils
when you said that?
1348
01:06:25,520 --> 01:06:27,120
I don't like
when you interrupt a story.
1349
01:06:28,000 --> 01:06:31,440
But will Ben's pot-stirring
derail Sara and Tim?
1350
01:06:31,480 --> 01:06:32,480
(CRYING)
1351
01:06:32,560 --> 01:06:34,840
We've spoken about this
so many times.
1352
01:06:34,880 --> 01:06:36,880
I've been trying so hard, Tim.
1353
01:06:37,680 --> 01:06:38,800
Oh, jeez.
1354
01:06:39,360 --> 01:06:41,160
(SIGHS)
Don't roll your eyes.
1355
01:06:41,240 --> 01:06:45,000
Is Ridge proving
too immature for Jade's family?
1356
01:06:45,040 --> 01:06:46,280
That's my biggest concern.
1357
01:06:51,920 --> 01:06:53,680
JACK: Five more.
Five?
1358
01:06:53,720 --> 01:06:55,120
Push, push, push.
1359
01:06:55,200 --> 01:06:58,520
Tori's visit to the Gold Coast
goes from bad...
1360
01:06:58,600 --> 01:07:01,120
I got the impression you're basic.
Yeah.
1361
01:07:01,160 --> 01:07:02,400
..to worse.
1362
01:07:02,480 --> 01:07:04,800
Anyone that makes their coffee order
their personality
1363
01:07:04,840 --> 01:07:06,320
is not my kind of person.
1364
01:07:06,360 --> 01:07:07,840
Um... No.
1365
01:07:07,920 --> 01:07:12,680
..as she comes face-to-face with
Jack's nearest and dearest...
1366
01:07:12,720 --> 01:07:13,880
clients.
1367
01:07:13,960 --> 01:07:16,040
I feel like when I come across
a girl that only has guy friends
1368
01:07:16,120 --> 01:07:18,760
it's usually because
they're sleeping with all the boys.
1369
01:07:18,800 --> 01:07:21,120
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1370
01:07:21,160 --> 01:07:23,120
TORI: Jack wasn't backing me up.
1371
01:07:23,200 --> 01:07:25,600
Right now I'm questioning
my relationship with Jack.
1372
01:07:27,320 --> 01:07:30,280
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