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NARRATOR: Australia's biggest social
experiment is drawing to a close,
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with eight couples remaining
and final vows just two weeks away.
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LAUREN: Bye.
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JONATHAN: Safe travels.
Thank you.
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A medical procedure saw Lauren
temporarily leave the experiment,
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before a fiery dinner party.
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I asked Jack, if he was with someone
that was more his type,
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would he have slept with them
by now?
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And he said, "Yes, probably."
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(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
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Boom!
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Andrea and Richard's
heartbreak continues...
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Some of the things that she said
to me are very hurtful...
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..as the couple fail
to find common ground.
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(BANGS TABLE) Don't say that!
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Listen. Just try, please!
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But it was Lucinda and Timothy
who stole the show...
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(EXPERTS EXCLAIM)
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..as their romantic connections
deepened.
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But the intensity
of facing his feelings...
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TIMOTHY: I'm 51 years old
and I've never really let anyone in.
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..took an emotional toll on Timothy.
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(TIMOTHY CRIES)
LUCINDA: Yeah.
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Tonight...
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JOHN: Stop. We're well over halfway
in the experiment.
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I'm struggling to buy this.
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..expert John can't hide his
exasperation with Tori and Jack...
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JACK: Yeah, she makes me feel good.
Oh, don't give me 'good'.
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..as he demands only the truth.
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Tori, are you for real?
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Am I for real?
Yes!
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We started somewhere very different.
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There won't be a dry eye in the room
as Richard bares his soul.
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The core of my being.
I can see it. I can sense it.
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When you know, you know.
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Richard, you look broken to me.
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Yeah, mate...
I am pretty broken, yeah.
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(CRIES)
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Hope is on the horizon...
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I saw these two change.
It was really nice.
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..as the fight for true love
continues.
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We have connected
on a deeper level...
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It's brought us closer together.
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..as Sara continues to win back
Tim's trust.
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You've clearly, Sara, decided
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"I want to make this guy
a priority."
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We see right through it.
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But when Jayden fires his shot
at Sara, it backfires,
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exposing hidden cracks
in his own marriage.
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She said, "If you don't say
what I tell you to say,
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"I'm done with you
and I'm leaving you."
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Are you starting to question whether
this is the right person for you?
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Yeah.
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SARA: What?
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(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
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It's the morning of the second-last
commitment ceremony...
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Are you sure you don't want
a smoothie?
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Got a cup of tea.
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..and with the end of the experiment
just around the corner
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as well as the all-important
final vows ceremony,
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Ridge has made a massive step
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to take his wife Jade into
new relationship territory...
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Yeah, like, it's really annoying.
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..by letting Jade
squeeze his pimples.
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(LAUGHS)
Why are you taking deep breaths?
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Because I'm trying to breathe
through the pain.
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(LAUGHS)
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Does it hurt?
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It does. Well, it doesn't tickle.
(LAUGHS)
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On a scale of one to ten?
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Oh, look, what's ten? Death?
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(LAUGHS)
Like, a three.
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Ridge and I are going good.
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We've had a really positive week
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and as a surprise the other day,
Vi, my daughter, came to see us.
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Everything he was doing was so cute
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and she was really comfortable
with him,
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which was really important to me.
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Yeah.
All good.
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I feel like I wouldn't say
I'm falling in love just yet
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but obviously I do really appreciate
the effort he's going to
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with both myself and my daughter.
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One couple feeling confident
after last night's dinner party
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is Sara and Tim.
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TIM: Dinner parties
will be dinner parties...
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After defending their relationship
as a united front,
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the couple are feeling
closer than ever.
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SARA: I'm feeling good
because me and you were a team.
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I'm thankful that I had you
and I was happy with that.
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Obviously, the dinner party
was really tough
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but it would've been a lot worse had
Tim and I not been a united front.
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Did I have your back?
You did.
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You did have my back.
Yeah.
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Yeah. You were amazing.
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And, yeah, thank you for that.
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I do appreciate it.
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You're welcome.
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Obviously,
throughout this experience,
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like, we haven't had the best time.
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You know, Tim was really upset
when I emotionally cheated on him.
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We have done a huge turnaround.
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I feel like obviously we've had
our conversations about trust
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and what we're gonna do
moving forward
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and what I need to do
moving forward.
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He knows that I've made a mistake
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and I think the only thing
I can do tonight
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is show him how sincerely sorry I am
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and hear how he's feeling
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and I don't want to sit there
and make excuses.
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I just really want to own it
and make sure that he knows
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that I'm gonna do everything
in my power to fight for it.
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Tori and Jack are entering
the commitment ceremony tonight
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after a difficult feedback week,
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where their relationship was put
under the microscope more than ever.
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Each and every week, there is a lot
of noise that Jack and I face
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and I'm over it.
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And last night,
after being grilled by the group
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for inconsistencies
in their relationship,
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Tori shut down the conversation.
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I feel like we've spoken this
to the (BLEEP) death.
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But our sex life,
it's absolutely no-one's business
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and it's going to remain
no-one's business.
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I will not speak on it.
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(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
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And this morning,
the couple are remaining defiant.
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Everyone's had their piece.
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Everyone's said their piece
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over and over and over
and over and over again.
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The continuous questions
about the same thing
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are becoming quite boring,
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so much so I prefer not to answer
them, 'cause I'm over it.
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I feel like we've had to fight
to be here, almost, every week.
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We've found our position
in our relationship
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and then it's like we've had to
team up
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and then get out there and survive.
(LAUGHS)
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Yeah.
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And, hey, I think we've done
a bloody good job.
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I think we've done a great job.
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In an ideal world, I want to sit on
the couch, I want them to be, like,
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"OK, last night, Tori, you said
your piece, you said what you said."
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"Good for you guys.
Stay or leave?"
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(LAUGHS) That's, like, ideal.
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I just feel like we've earnt
a really positive, boring...
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A night off from the heat.
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"Are you staying or are you going?"
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"Get off the couch."
"Get off the couch."
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I would love that.
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Like, I'll even sit on the ottoman
all night
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if it means we can have
an easy couch session.
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Down the hall,
in a shock turn of events,
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one of the experiment's strongest
couples are at a gridlock.
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(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
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EDEN: Honestly, I don't really
want to talk to you.
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Thanks.
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On the drive home
from the dinner party last night,
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Eden shared a rumour with Jayden
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that Sara and her ex were mocking Tim
behind his back when they met up.
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Apparently, Sara, she's been saying
some nasty things.
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She and her ex were sort of laughing
and having a joke about Tim,
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saying things like
"He's not the right one for you.
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"He's not man enough."
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Tim is one of my close friends
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and tonight I think he deserves
to know the truth.
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But this morning, Eden and Jayden
have had a huge argument
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over whether to reveal
this information
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at tonight's commitment ceremony
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and an anxious Eden has given
her husband a surprising ultimatum.
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Eden, you know, she's...
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Yeah, she doesn't like
confrontation.
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She doesn't want anyone else to know
what's going on
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and she said,
"If you're gonna tell that story,
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"I'm done with you and I'm leaving,"
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so she's threatening to leave me
and leave the experiment
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and I don't really know what to do.
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Honestly, I don't need to go
in circles.
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This conversation's
going in circles.
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Sweet.
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EDEN: The issues with Sara and Tim
have given me a lot of anxiety
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and a lot of heightened emotions.
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Having information you don't want,
like, it's all pretty exhausting
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and also, Sara's pretty full-on,
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so it's not the most approachable
conversation to have.
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So, yeah, it does make me feel
pretty uncomfortable.
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This isn't the first time
Eden has struggled emotionally
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in the experiment.
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There are big, feisty characters...
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(JACK ARGUES INDISTINCTLY)
Jack! Jack!
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..and, you know,
I don't like all the drama.
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I'm done with this.
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EDEN: It's making me feel anxious.
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Yeah, it's probably been
the hardest week for me
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in the experiment so far.
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MEL: What made it so difficult
for you, Eden?
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Obviously, the whole
'messages from Sara' situation.
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(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
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NARRATOR: And Jayden is concerned
the pressure Eden is feeling
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is taking its toll
on their relationship.
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It's just been a very hard week,
couple of weeks, really, with Eden.
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It's getting to the pointy end
of the experiment now.
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I might not always be
the best partner
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but I feel like a lot of the time
she's taking her stress out on me.
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I feel like, I don't know,
there's a lot of things
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I want to tell the experts and I
want to ask and get some advice on.
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I feel like we just need to
give them everything,
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because at the moment,
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yeah, it doesn't seem to be working,
what I'm doing.
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(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
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Greetings, gents.
TRISTAN: Evening.
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Evening.
MEL: Hello, guys.
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ALESSANDRA: Hi.
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Grab a seat. Settle in.
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(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
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Hello, ladies.
Hi.
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Hi.
Welcome, ladies.
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Come and sit down.
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TORI: Howdy.
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(ANDREA EXHALES)
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Hello, everyone, and welcome to
our commitment ceremony tonight.
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Very excited to see all of you after
having gone through feedback week.
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MEL: And, of course, the first
dinner party after feedback week
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is always a big one.
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You know, you're fresh off the back
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of receiving sometimes some pretty
tricky feedback from your peers
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and you come face-to-face with them
at the dinner party.
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Yes, the dinner party last night
certainly had plenty of fireworks.
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It was emotionally charged, people
got a lot of things off their chest.
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Some people didn't want to talk
about things.
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Tonight, however,
you're not gonna have that luxury
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because at this stage
of the experiment,
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we want to know what's going on
in your relationship
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and what your thoughts are
about the future
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and I'm looking forward to
a lot of growth tonight.
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So, let's get our first couple up
on the couch.
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(TENSE MUSIC)
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Sara and Tim.
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(APPLAUSE)
(BRIGHT MUSIC)
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TIM: Hey, guys.
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Right, you two. Well, we saw you
last week on the couch...
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SARA: Yes.
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..and it was uncomfortable,
to say the least.
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Now, what became clear was that there
was a betrayal that had gone on.
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(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
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What I want to know now
is where you're at.
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Well, I think that, yeah,
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it was a pretty miserable
couch session for us last session.
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I made the decision to be open
to letting Sara make it up to me...
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and I feel like I saw
a very different side to Sara
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than I have
since the start of the experiment.
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She's been very warm,
very affectionate.
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I just feel like she's been kind of
just, like, appreciative of me.
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Well said.
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What do you say that, Sara?
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I think I did nitpick a lot
at the beginning,
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kind of envisioned what a perfect...
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what my perfect match could be
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and made Tim feel like
he wasn't necessarily valued
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in everything that he actually does
bring to the table.
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But, like, as shitty
as this has all been, obviously,
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and obviously more so for Tim,
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it's, in a weird way,
brought us closer together.
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I know that obviously the trust
is not 100% there.
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Can I say something, actually?
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I...
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I'm deeply sorry and I know that
just saying sorry is not enough.
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Hanging out with a past partner
who I had feelings for,
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like, I knew that it was wrong
and I still did it anyways.
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I know that I've done wrong
and I'm deeply sorry,
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so I hope you accept my apology.
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(LAUGHS)
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How do you see yourselves
moving forward now?
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Tim?
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I need her to keep doing
what she's doing.
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It feels like we have made
a breakthrough.
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If she keeps that trajectory going,
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then I feel like
I'll feel much more comfortable
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in being able to trust her again.
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I don't know.
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I never, ever thought
that an experiment like this
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could really work,
280
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but this really forces you
to kind of come together
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in a crazy way.
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(ALESSANDRA LAUGHS)
MEL: Thank you.
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SARA: (LAUGHS) Well, thank you.
Honestly.
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(LUCINDA LAUGHS)
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The body language between you two
is very different.
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(BOTH LAUGH)
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(SCOFFS) Ugh.
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We see right through it.
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(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
290
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We see right through her fake act,
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pretending to like Tim
when she doesn't like Tim at all.
292
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She just wants to stay here
to save her image.
293
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She has made that very clear through
her actions and through her words.
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The act of going out with the ex,
that was the icing on the cake.
295
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But then all I'm hearing is how
she's constantly putting Tim down...
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and how her and the ex-partner
were making fun of Tim
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that night
when they were out together.
298
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That's not true.
That is not true.
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And you do not know that either.
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She just told me and she knows
exactly what was said.
301
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EDEN: Well, I... That's not...
That's not what I said.
302
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That's what you told me.
They were making fun of Tim.
303
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Yeah, but not that night...
I don't know...
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I wasn't there that night.
OK, there were others...
305
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Her and the ex-partner
were making fun of Tim.
306
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That's not what happened.
307
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Again, I don't have any proof
of that, so it is what it is.
308
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OK. So, what is it that you told me,
then, about her and the ex?
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I don't need to go into
any more detail.
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Well, then, if you don't have
the full details,
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then it's probably not worth
bringing it up and telling me.
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(SIGHS)
313
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(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
314
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(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
315
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What was it that you told me, then,
about her and the ex?
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EDEN: I don't need to go into
any more detail.
317
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OK, well, if you don't have
the full details,
318
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then it's probably not worth
bringing it up and telling me.
319
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There's no point in saying it
because there's no proof.
320
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Where did you see or hear it from?
Sara.
321
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She said it to you
or she showed you it?
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Uh... I think she said it.
323
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No...
And what did she say?
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There's no point
'cause I don't have any proof,
325
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so I just want to drop that, please.
326
00:17:52,600 --> 00:17:55,480
Well, if you don't have any proof,
why would you say it to me?
327
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(TENSE MUSIC)
328
00:17:59,400 --> 00:18:01,120
'Cause I didn't like it.
329
00:18:02,960 --> 00:18:05,480
Well, I didn't like it either
but you did say something along...
330
00:18:05,560 --> 00:18:07,320
Yeah. I mean, she's spoken badly
about Tim.
331
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That's the bottom line.
332
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No. That's not what happened.
333
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I just don't want to be involved
anymore.
334
00:18:17,680 --> 00:18:21,080
(TENSE MUSIC)
335
00:18:26,000 --> 00:18:29,880
Jayden, you have to let people
have a chance.
336
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We are all doing it differently
337
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and we're all just doing the best
that we can here.
338
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We're not all as lucky
as you and Eden or Jack and Tori
339
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or Jade and Ridge,
340
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who have gotten paired with people
341
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who have just gotten on
like a house on fire.
342
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Some of us actually have to go
through struggles
343
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to get to this point,
344
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so it's not just black-and-white.
345
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It's hardship.
346
00:19:01,880 --> 00:19:04,880
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
347
00:19:07,400 --> 00:19:12,240
These guys are feeling like
the group is against them
348
00:19:12,320 --> 00:19:16,480
and, yes, we've got specific evidence
of a betrayal
349
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that happened with the ex
350
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but outside of that,
we've got two people
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that are just trying to get along.
352
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RICHARD: Yep. Yep.
353
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That's what I'd say.
LUCINDA: Absolutely.
354
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Sara's acknowledged she did the
wrong thing catching up with an ex
355
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amongst friends
356
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and has apologised profusely.
357
00:19:38,080 --> 00:19:39,480
I saw these two change.
358
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I've spent more time with them
than anyone present here
359
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and I saw the change in them.
360
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I saw them on the weekend.
They were giddy.
361
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It made me feel sick.
Like, 'cause it was really nice.
362
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Something really did change.
363
00:19:57,320 --> 00:19:58,960
Well, Tim, if we go to you now,
364
00:19:59,040 --> 00:20:01,680
Jayden said something there
about the betrayal
365
00:20:01,760 --> 00:20:04,960
around seeing the ex
behind your back.
366
00:20:05,040 --> 00:20:09,040
Now you've had a week
to rebuild your relationship.
367
00:20:09,120 --> 00:20:12,000
How are you feeling about
this woman beside you
368
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and about your relationship
right now?
369
00:20:15,880 --> 00:20:18,200
Look, to be honest,
I've still got confused...
370
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I'm still confused.
371
00:20:19,720 --> 00:20:21,240
I've got conflicting emotions
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but after this last sort of, like,
five to six days...
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if she keeps that trajectory going,
374
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then I feel like
I'll feel much more comfortable
375
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in being able to trust her again.
376
00:20:38,040 --> 00:20:41,480
Well, let's go to the decision.
Stay or leave?
377
00:20:41,560 --> 00:20:44,040
And we're gonna go with you first,
Sara.
378
00:20:44,080 --> 00:20:48,080
Well, it's been a journey
379
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and I still really, really want to
make it up to Tim
380
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and I also kind of want to prove
everybody wrong as well...
381
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so I'm staying.
382
00:21:00,120 --> 00:21:01,280
'Stay' it is.
(APPLAUSE)
383
00:21:01,320 --> 00:21:03,480
Gotcha.
384
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And for you, Tim?
385
00:21:06,280 --> 00:21:07,400
Mmm.
386
00:21:07,480 --> 00:21:09,640
I'm gonna stay.
(APPLAUSE)
387
00:21:13,440 --> 00:21:15,280
You know what's interesting there,
388
00:21:15,360 --> 00:21:20,120
is that in this experiment, when one
says stay and the other says leave,
389
00:21:20,160 --> 00:21:21,760
you do have a week to turn it around
390
00:21:21,840 --> 00:21:26,720
and time and time again, we do see
couples who commit that can do it,
391
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so that is absolutely one of the key
drivers as to why we do this.
392
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It exposes your intentions.
393
00:21:35,880 --> 00:21:41,840
And you've clearly, Sara, decided
"I want to make this guy a priority."
394
00:21:41,880 --> 00:21:44,160
Well, I can't emphasise enough
395
00:21:44,240 --> 00:21:49,480
that you've gotta keep doing this
heavy lifting, because it's working.
396
00:21:49,560 --> 00:21:51,400
If something's working,
keep doing it.
397
00:21:51,440 --> 00:21:52,680
Yeah.
398
00:21:52,760 --> 00:21:54,520
We'll see you next time.
Well done, guys.
399
00:21:54,600 --> 00:21:56,560
Thank you.
Thanks, guys.
400
00:21:56,600 --> 00:21:57,720
Appreciate it.
401
00:21:57,760 --> 00:22:00,080
(APPLAUSE)
402
00:22:02,800 --> 00:22:06,560
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
403
00:22:06,640 --> 00:22:08,920
ALESSANDRA: Our next couple
up on the couch...
404
00:22:16,120 --> 00:22:18,160
Lucinda and Timothy.
405
00:22:18,240 --> 00:22:20,240
Nice.
(APPLAUSE)
406
00:22:22,040 --> 00:22:24,040
I just whispered to Tim, I said,
407
00:22:24,120 --> 00:22:27,040
"And next on the couch
is Lucinda and Timothy."
408
00:22:27,120 --> 00:22:28,680
MEL: Oh!
(LAUGHTER)
409
00:22:28,760 --> 00:22:33,840
First things first, I wanted to get
into what we saw at the dinner party.
410
00:22:33,880 --> 00:22:35,600
(LAUGHS) Yeah.
411
00:22:35,680 --> 00:22:37,520
Last night, there was...
It shocked me.
412
00:22:37,600 --> 00:22:39,880
There was a shock kiss...
MEL: There was a kiss!
413
00:22:39,960 --> 00:22:42,240
..that I want to get into.
(LAUGHS) Oh, yep.
414
00:22:42,320 --> 00:22:44,440
What was that?
It surprised me too.
415
00:22:44,480 --> 00:22:45,720
(LAUGHS)
416
00:22:45,760 --> 00:22:48,720
What happened there? Tell us.
417
00:22:48,800 --> 00:22:51,240
Well, I mean,
I think I had a proud moment
418
00:22:51,280 --> 00:22:52,680
where I just couldn't hold back
419
00:22:52,720 --> 00:22:54,040
and I kissed him on the cheek.
420
00:22:54,120 --> 00:22:57,880
I just, you know... I was
just proud of him, I don't know.
421
00:22:57,960 --> 00:22:59,800
And then, yeah,
you just turned around and...
422
00:22:59,880 --> 00:23:02,440
And then you just couldn't help
yourself, Timothy.
423
00:23:02,480 --> 00:23:04,160
(OTHERS LAUGH)
424
00:23:05,360 --> 00:23:07,520
Look, Lucinda was...
You know, she was great.
425
00:23:07,560 --> 00:23:11,680
And it felt right.
426
00:23:11,760 --> 00:23:13,680
(OTHERS LAUGH)
(APPLAUSE)
427
00:23:13,720 --> 00:23:15,280
EDEN: Yay!
428
00:23:16,400 --> 00:23:17,600
(WOLF WHISTLE)
429
00:23:19,360 --> 00:23:22,920
Timothy, I know that you were
very emotional after that.
430
00:23:24,120 --> 00:23:26,960
Can you walk us through
what happened?
431
00:23:27,040 --> 00:23:29,400
Jeez, you're starting...
You're starting pretty rough, eh?
432
00:23:29,440 --> 00:23:30,800
Um...
433
00:23:30,840 --> 00:23:33,480
I mean, Lu is...
434
00:23:33,520 --> 00:23:35,520
She's as patient as hell
435
00:23:35,600 --> 00:23:39,440
because, you know, the first,
I'd say, you know,
436
00:23:39,520 --> 00:23:45,720
half the experiment, I wasn't the
easiest to, you know...to be with.
437
00:23:45,800 --> 00:23:49,440
This whole time,
I've been closed off.
438
00:23:52,360 --> 00:23:55,560
And then, when we kissed,
439
00:23:55,600 --> 00:23:59,480
I realised that I'm 51 years old
440
00:23:59,520 --> 00:24:03,160
and I've never really let anyone in
441
00:24:03,240 --> 00:24:07,280
and I thought to myself,
"I've wasted those years."
442
00:24:08,560 --> 00:24:11,360
Yeah, it just got the best of me.
443
00:24:12,800 --> 00:24:18,240
Yeah. My... My emotions
got the best of me, yeah.
444
00:24:20,160 --> 00:24:22,600
I think for the first part
of the experiment...
445
00:24:22,680 --> 00:24:28,000
I sort of feel I might have
skated by on a bit of humour
446
00:24:28,080 --> 00:24:33,760
and as it's gone on, it's gotten
a little bit, you know, tougher
447
00:24:33,800 --> 00:24:36,480
in other ways for...for me.
448
00:24:36,520 --> 00:24:38,120
Yeah.
449
00:24:38,200 --> 00:24:40,640
So, allowing yourself
to be vulnerable,
450
00:24:40,720 --> 00:24:43,600
is this something you're just now
starting to experience?
451
00:24:43,640 --> 00:24:45,600
Very much so. Yeah. Yeah.
452
00:24:46,640 --> 00:24:50,160
That... That emotional side,
I look at it as...
453
00:24:51,720 --> 00:24:53,360
Maybe it's a stupid way
of looking at it
454
00:24:53,440 --> 00:24:55,680
but I look at it
as kind of like a weakness.
455
00:24:55,720 --> 00:24:57,880
Is that what you were taught?
456
00:24:57,920 --> 00:24:59,320
Yeah.
457
00:24:59,400 --> 00:25:02,840
Reason I ask this is because
in Latino culture, in my culture,
458
00:25:02,880 --> 00:25:04,760
it is very much that way...
459
00:25:07,000 --> 00:25:09,640
and really, it's interesting
460
00:25:09,720 --> 00:25:12,680
because there's so much
about my experience here
461
00:25:12,720 --> 00:25:14,360
professionally in Australia
462
00:25:14,400 --> 00:25:16,120
and trying to understand culture
463
00:25:16,160 --> 00:25:18,400
and so many things are different
464
00:25:18,480 --> 00:25:20,200
but some things
are very, very similar.
465
00:25:20,280 --> 00:25:26,200
And this thing with men
and holding back feelings...
466
00:25:29,160 --> 00:25:32,280
and not expressing emotions so easily
467
00:25:32,360 --> 00:25:37,720
and holding yourself
to such rigid restraints and barriers
468
00:25:37,800 --> 00:25:42,320
is very similar
to what I see back home.
469
00:25:42,400 --> 00:25:46,760
But I have to say,
I think I am 100% convinced
470
00:25:46,800 --> 00:25:48,640
that vulnerability is a superpower.
471
00:25:48,720 --> 00:25:50,520
(CLICKS FINGERS)
It makes you strong...
472
00:25:50,600 --> 00:25:52,360
I so agree.
..and brave and courageous.
473
00:25:57,920 --> 00:26:01,400
Timothy, when was the last time
in general,
474
00:26:01,440 --> 00:26:02,800
like, aside from last night...
475
00:26:02,880 --> 00:26:06,800
When was the last time that you felt
emotional and cried like that?
476
00:26:11,160 --> 00:26:12,480
Outside of, you know,
477
00:26:12,560 --> 00:26:15,600
the circumstances of a couple of
months ago, like, years.
478
00:26:15,640 --> 00:26:18,040
I just... I just don't do it.
479
00:26:18,120 --> 00:26:21,320
Or... And if I did do it,
I wouldn't...
480
00:26:21,400 --> 00:26:23,400
Nobody would...
Ever know.
481
00:26:23,440 --> 00:26:25,040
Nobody would ever know. Yeah.
482
00:26:26,360 --> 00:26:27,520
OK.
483
00:26:28,960 --> 00:26:32,520
So, I wonder...
I know Lucinda came to you and...
484
00:26:32,600 --> 00:26:34,760
Yeah.
..was with you.
485
00:26:34,840 --> 00:26:37,640
What was that experience like,
to be able to have her there
486
00:26:37,720 --> 00:26:42,160
and kind of hold space for you
and allow you to express yourself?
487
00:26:42,240 --> 00:26:47,240
Yeah, you know, she...
she really helped me last night.
488
00:26:47,280 --> 00:26:48,640
Yeah. Yeah.
489
00:26:48,680 --> 00:26:51,640
And, yeah, it was...
490
00:26:51,680 --> 00:26:54,440
It was... It was really nice.
491
00:26:54,480 --> 00:26:56,920
Yeah. Yeah.
492
00:26:58,320 --> 00:26:59,800
Yeah.
493
00:27:07,920 --> 00:27:11,880
Lucinda, listening to Tim speak
494
00:27:11,960 --> 00:27:16,320
here in front of all of us
so openly about this experience,
495
00:27:16,360 --> 00:27:17,520
how does that make you feel?
496
00:27:17,600 --> 00:27:22,520
Yeah, I just really hear Tim
and how hard it is for him
497
00:27:22,600 --> 00:27:27,200
and it's just awesome
to see the walls crumble
498
00:27:27,280 --> 00:27:30,640
and his tenderness,
his tender heart.
499
00:27:30,680 --> 00:27:33,120
I love it.
500
00:27:33,160 --> 00:27:36,000
So, let me ask you this, Lucinda.
501
00:27:36,040 --> 00:27:38,920
Do you feel admiration for Timothy?
502
00:27:39,000 --> 00:27:42,040
Absolutely.
Absolutely.
503
00:27:42,080 --> 00:27:43,720
So much admiration.
504
00:27:43,760 --> 00:27:45,560
Do you feel admiration for Lucinda?
505
00:27:45,600 --> 00:27:46,840
100%.
506
00:27:48,000 --> 00:27:50,920
You do know admiration
is the gateway to love?
507
00:27:52,040 --> 00:27:54,920
Good to know. I didn't know that.
508
00:27:55,000 --> 00:27:58,040
And it's really interesting because
you've been very adamant, Timothy,
509
00:27:58,080 --> 00:27:59,800
from the beginning of this experiment
510
00:27:59,840 --> 00:28:02,040
that you're a slow-burn man...
511
00:28:02,120 --> 00:28:03,160
Oh...
(LAUGHTER)
512
00:28:03,240 --> 00:28:05,120
..but...
Yeah.
513
00:28:05,160 --> 00:28:06,440
..I'm observing you here now.
514
00:28:06,520 --> 00:28:09,600
The dynamic
is so drastically different
515
00:28:09,640 --> 00:28:11,280
and it's so lovely to observe
516
00:28:11,320 --> 00:28:13,960
and then you topped it off yesterday
517
00:28:14,040 --> 00:28:17,400
with just, you know, that cute little
spontaneous kiss...
518
00:28:17,440 --> 00:28:18,440
Yeah.
519
00:28:18,520 --> 00:28:21,280
..and I wonder, how do you feel
towards Lucinda, Timothy?
520
00:28:27,000 --> 00:28:30,800
Yeah, look, what happened
last night,
521
00:28:30,880 --> 00:28:33,000
I don't know whether
it throws a spanner in the works
522
00:28:33,040 --> 00:28:35,600
but it...it's unexpected.
523
00:28:35,640 --> 00:28:38,400
Which bit? Kiss or the crying?
524
00:28:38,480 --> 00:28:40,560
Well, the whole thing.
Yeah.
525
00:28:40,640 --> 00:28:42,120
I've just gotta wrap my head
around it.
526
00:28:42,200 --> 00:28:43,320
Yeah.
Yeah.
527
00:28:43,360 --> 00:28:45,880
But it feels really good. Yeah.
528
00:28:52,040 --> 00:28:55,080
OK, so I think we should go to
the decision, you guys.
529
00:28:55,120 --> 00:28:56,200
Mm-hm.
530
00:28:56,240 --> 00:28:57,960
Timothy, you go first.
531
00:28:58,000 --> 00:28:59,520
Stay or leave?
532
00:29:02,320 --> 00:29:03,640
I just want to...
533
00:29:03,720 --> 00:29:06,680
You know,
I really appreciate what you did.
534
00:29:08,280 --> 00:29:09,480
Yeah.
535
00:29:09,520 --> 00:29:12,280
So, yeah, I've...
536
00:29:12,320 --> 00:29:15,320
I've said 'stay'.
537
00:29:15,400 --> 00:29:16,960
(APPLAUSE)
With a smile.
538
00:29:17,000 --> 00:29:18,360
With a smile.
539
00:29:19,520 --> 00:29:20,520
Lucinda?
540
00:29:21,720 --> 00:29:24,400
Yeah, I'm just, you know, here,
541
00:29:24,480 --> 00:29:28,560
loving the...I don't know,
unravelling of Tim,
542
00:29:28,600 --> 00:29:30,160
so, yeah, it's staying,
543
00:29:30,240 --> 00:29:32,640
with two balloons
just bobbing in the wind...
544
00:29:32,680 --> 00:29:33,680
(APPLAUSE)
545
00:29:33,760 --> 00:29:35,000
..celebrating each other
and ourselves.
546
00:29:37,800 --> 00:29:43,120
We are absolutely loving the
connection that is literally palpable
547
00:29:43,200 --> 00:29:46,840
and I am very proud of seeing
that you're allowing yourself
548
00:29:46,920 --> 00:29:51,960
to feel your emotions
and to feel safe with Lucinda...
549
00:29:52,040 --> 00:29:54,880
makes me personally and I know all of
us very, very happy.
550
00:29:54,960 --> 00:29:57,680
We're proud of you too, Papa.
You're the vibe.
551
00:29:57,760 --> 00:30:00,320
Well done, big fella.
Well done! Well done!
552
00:30:00,400 --> 00:30:02,320
(APPLAUSE)
Thank you so much, you guys.
553
00:30:02,400 --> 00:30:04,240
You can go back to the couch.
Thanks, guys.
554
00:30:04,320 --> 00:30:06,920
Have a great week.
Thank you. Thanks, everyone.
555
00:30:15,280 --> 00:30:16,520
NARRATOR: Coming up...
556
00:30:16,560 --> 00:30:18,600
Tonight, you are going to open up.
557
00:30:18,680 --> 00:30:22,000
..expert John makes his frustration
clear with Jack.
558
00:30:22,080 --> 00:30:26,240
I need to know how you feel about
Tori, 'cause I'm not buying it.
559
00:30:26,320 --> 00:30:31,200
Then the fairytale romance
at breaking point.
560
00:30:31,280 --> 00:30:34,600
I don't know if Eden
is everything that I thought.
561
00:30:35,880 --> 00:30:37,240
Are you good?
Oh...
562
00:30:42,040 --> 00:30:45,040
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
563
00:30:47,360 --> 00:30:49,880
And next up on the couch...
564
00:30:53,760 --> 00:30:54,840
is Johnno.
565
00:30:54,880 --> 00:30:57,080
TRISTAN: Oh, Johnno!
566
00:30:57,120 --> 00:30:58,680
WOMAN: (CHANTS) Johnno! Johnno!
567
00:30:58,760 --> 00:31:00,640
Quite the round of applause there
for you, Johnno.
568
00:31:00,720 --> 00:31:02,480
I think it's 'cause
I'm all by myself.
569
00:31:02,560 --> 00:31:05,720
Oh, well, welcome to the couch solo.
Thank you.
570
00:31:05,800 --> 00:31:08,960
How is Lauren?
Lauren is good.
571
00:31:09,000 --> 00:31:10,160
She's out of hospital.
572
00:31:10,240 --> 00:31:12,560
She's back at home
and feeling better.
573
00:31:12,640 --> 00:31:15,960
The operation was a success.
Great.
574
00:31:16,000 --> 00:31:18,120
And now she's home resting, so...
575
00:31:18,200 --> 00:31:22,440
It's been very quiet
without her around.
576
00:31:22,480 --> 00:31:23,880
I'll bet.
577
00:31:23,960 --> 00:31:27,000
I'm definitely missing
that big energy.
578
00:31:27,080 --> 00:31:30,800
But they say distance
makes the heart grow fonder, so...
579
00:31:30,880 --> 00:31:33,040
Yeah.
Yeah.
580
00:31:33,120 --> 00:31:37,360
We've been keeping in touch
every day, messages and phone calls.
581
00:31:37,440 --> 00:31:40,800
And we've made, like, a list
of restaurants we want to go to.
582
00:31:40,880 --> 00:31:45,080
So, yeah, we love getting out
and trying new food and wine
583
00:31:45,160 --> 00:31:48,280
and we went out to dinner
just before she left
584
00:31:48,320 --> 00:31:49,800
and we just had the best night,
585
00:31:49,880 --> 00:31:51,560
so I'm really excited
about those sorts of things.
586
00:31:51,640 --> 00:31:55,880
But just having her companionship
again, I'm looking forward to it.
587
00:31:55,960 --> 00:31:59,360
Alright. Well, why don't we go
to the decision?
588
00:31:59,440 --> 00:32:01,840
Obviously, there's only one of you
on the couch to give a decision.
589
00:32:01,920 --> 00:32:03,800
(LAUGHS)
We'll start with you.
590
00:32:03,880 --> 00:32:05,480
Oh, OK.
(LAUGHTER)
591
00:32:05,520 --> 00:32:08,160
I'm gonna stay...
592
00:32:08,240 --> 00:32:09,200
Ah.
..'cause...
593
00:32:09,240 --> 00:32:10,240
Wonderful.
594
00:32:12,000 --> 00:32:15,760
I am happy to share that I have it
on good authority...
595
00:32:15,800 --> 00:32:16,960
Yes.
596
00:32:17,040 --> 00:32:18,920
..that Miss Lauren
would also like to stay.
597
00:32:19,000 --> 00:32:20,440
OK. Good.
(CASSANDRA LAUGHS)
598
00:32:20,520 --> 00:32:22,680
(APPLAUSE)
Wonderful.
599
00:32:22,720 --> 00:32:25,320
Well, look, give our best to Lauren.
600
00:32:25,400 --> 00:32:27,120
I hope she feels better
really, really soon...
601
00:32:27,200 --> 00:32:30,480
Yeah, I will do.
..and all the best for your reunion.
602
00:32:30,560 --> 00:32:32,360
Thanks, guys.
Thanks, Johnno.
603
00:32:32,440 --> 00:32:34,960
See you.
(APPLAUSE)
604
00:32:35,000 --> 00:32:36,240
WOMAN: Good job, Johno.
605
00:32:36,280 --> 00:32:38,080
ALESSANDRA: Next up on the couch...
606
00:32:40,000 --> 00:32:41,520
Cass and Tristan.
607
00:32:42,880 --> 00:32:45,880
(APPLAUSE)
608
00:32:49,040 --> 00:32:50,680
MEL: Hello.
Hello.
609
00:32:50,720 --> 00:32:51,880
Hey, guys.
610
00:32:53,480 --> 00:32:57,320
So, last week, Cass,
you wrote 'leave'.
611
00:32:57,400 --> 00:33:00,280
CASS: Yes.
Tristan, you wrote 'stay'.
612
00:33:02,160 --> 00:33:05,400
And you also said
you were in love with Cass.
613
00:33:05,440 --> 00:33:07,480
Yeah.
614
00:33:07,520 --> 00:33:10,000
So, where are we today?
615
00:33:12,360 --> 00:33:13,880
My fears kind of happened.
616
00:33:15,800 --> 00:33:17,680
I told someone
I was falling in love with them
617
00:33:17,760 --> 00:33:19,800
and then I guess
I got kind of rejected.
618
00:33:22,080 --> 00:33:25,160
And then I just, you know,
kind of just retreated.
619
00:33:27,160 --> 00:33:30,440
So, you distanced yourself
from Cass this week?
620
00:33:30,520 --> 00:33:31,960
Yes.
OK.
621
00:33:34,560 --> 00:33:38,720
Cass, how did that make you feel?
622
00:33:40,240 --> 00:33:45,120
Sad and, I guess,
maybe a bit disappointed.
623
00:33:47,000 --> 00:33:48,880
But then, having some time apart,
624
00:33:48,960 --> 00:33:52,160
we spent this week
reflecting on our relationship
625
00:33:52,240 --> 00:33:58,960
and last night, we decided
we're ready to accept
626
00:33:59,000 --> 00:34:00,360
that we're just gonna be friends.
627
00:34:03,080 --> 00:34:04,840
We just kind of had a chat about it.
628
00:34:04,920 --> 00:34:06,400
It was, like,
"Where are we actually at?"
629
00:34:07,520 --> 00:34:08,560
We talked about it.
630
00:34:08,640 --> 00:34:10,320
It felt like
a bit like closure to me,
631
00:34:10,400 --> 00:34:12,640
like, it's like we both
kind of were on the same page,
632
00:34:12,680 --> 00:34:13,840
if that makes sense.
633
00:34:18,320 --> 00:34:21,480
How was the conversation for you,
Cass, the closure one,
634
00:34:21,560 --> 00:34:24,720
where you guys decided
that you're better off as friends?
635
00:34:24,760 --> 00:34:27,120
Oh, just sad.
636
00:34:28,320 --> 00:34:30,480
I did have hope a little
in the back of my mind
637
00:34:30,520 --> 00:34:33,160
for something wonderful to happen.
638
00:34:34,600 --> 00:34:38,760
I came in here for a husband.
639
00:34:38,840 --> 00:34:42,520
That's... I wanted love.
I didn't want to go home without it.
640
00:34:44,040 --> 00:34:46,840
But it doesn't work out that way.
That's life.
641
00:34:51,160 --> 00:34:55,680
Alright.
So, let's go to this decision.
642
00:34:57,320 --> 00:34:59,000
Cass first.
643
00:35:00,120 --> 00:35:02,240
I think the next woman
that will be with you
644
00:35:02,320 --> 00:35:06,040
will be the luckiest woman
in the world to have you,
645
00:35:06,120 --> 00:35:07,120
so I wrote...
She wrote 'stay'!
646
00:35:07,200 --> 00:35:09,560
(BOTH LAUGH)
Yeah.
647
00:35:09,600 --> 00:35:11,080
Yeah.
648
00:35:12,560 --> 00:35:13,880
So, 'leave'.
649
00:35:13,920 --> 00:35:15,560
Tristan?
650
00:35:15,600 --> 00:35:17,040
Cass, you broke my heart
651
00:35:17,120 --> 00:35:20,320
but I'm glad you were the one
who broke my heart, you know.
652
00:35:20,400 --> 00:35:22,880
You were the first person I've told
I'm falling in love for...
653
00:35:22,960 --> 00:35:25,480
And either way, it didn't work out,
you're stuck in my life forever
654
00:35:25,560 --> 00:35:27,600
and maybe a little bit longer,
I can work on myself
655
00:35:27,680 --> 00:35:30,480
and maybe we can reconnect in
the future, so I said stay...leave.
656
00:35:30,560 --> 00:35:31,920
(LAUGHS)
Sadly.
657
00:35:40,160 --> 00:35:45,280
I would like for you guys to have
the opportunity to tell one another
658
00:35:45,360 --> 00:35:48,640
what you have meant to each other
in this process.
659
00:35:48,720 --> 00:35:51,560
Oh...
We've practised the eye contact.
660
00:35:51,640 --> 00:35:53,080
And we've got it.
Excellent.
661
00:35:54,240 --> 00:35:57,480
My ex-wife Cass...
(LAUGHTER)
662
00:36:01,040 --> 00:36:03,320
I know I say this all the time
663
00:36:03,400 --> 00:36:05,720
but I am the luckiest dude
to get matched with you.
664
00:36:05,760 --> 00:36:07,200
Like, easy.
665
00:36:07,280 --> 00:36:10,800
You have been patient, you have been
kind, you have listened
666
00:36:10,880 --> 00:36:15,240
but overall, you are genuine
and you mean everything to me.
667
00:36:15,280 --> 00:36:17,360
Oh, Trist! Oh, my gosh.
668
00:36:19,240 --> 00:36:24,640
You have just shown me so much fun
669
00:36:24,680 --> 00:36:26,440
and laughter and light
670
00:36:26,520 --> 00:36:32,160
and I feel so amazing and warm to
have been with you on this journey.
671
00:36:32,240 --> 00:36:36,160
You've meant so much to me
and seeing you grow
672
00:36:36,240 --> 00:36:38,920
and when you do love yourself,
gosh, you're amazing!
673
00:36:38,960 --> 00:36:40,400
(LAUGHS)
674
00:36:40,480 --> 00:36:45,280
And I will cherish this journey
with you till the end of time.
675
00:36:45,320 --> 00:36:48,320
(BRIGHT MUSIC PLAYS)
676
00:36:51,200 --> 00:36:53,440
JOHN: Well, look, obviously,
the two of you,
677
00:36:53,480 --> 00:36:54,960
it's sad, it's disappointing,
678
00:36:55,040 --> 00:36:57,240
you know, love slipped through
your fingers here,
679
00:36:57,280 --> 00:36:59,920
but you've given it your all.
680
00:37:00,000 --> 00:37:02,560
We appreciate all that you've done
for us, by the way.
681
00:37:02,640 --> 00:37:03,880
Oh, yeah.
We really do.
682
00:37:03,960 --> 00:37:05,320
Thank you so much
for this experiment.
683
00:37:05,400 --> 00:37:08,200
All the best, guys.
Thanks, guys.
684
00:37:08,280 --> 00:37:10,960
We did it!
(APPLAUSE)
685
00:37:11,040 --> 00:37:13,480
LUCINDA: We love you, guys.
TRISTAN: Thanks, guys.
686
00:37:18,200 --> 00:37:20,240
Our next couple up on the couch...
687
00:37:22,120 --> 00:37:23,520
Eden and Jayden.
688
00:37:23,560 --> 00:37:26,880
(APPLAUSE)
689
00:37:26,920 --> 00:37:29,920
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
690
00:37:30,000 --> 00:37:31,400
Hello, hello.
MEL: Hello.
691
00:37:31,440 --> 00:37:32,640
Good evening.
692
00:37:39,640 --> 00:37:42,800
How was feedback week?
693
00:37:42,880 --> 00:37:48,200
Feedback week, in itself, it wasn't
really much of a challenge for us.
694
00:37:48,280 --> 00:37:50,800
It was just the week itself.
OK.
695
00:37:50,880 --> 00:37:52,800
We're getting to the end
of this experiment now.
696
00:37:52,880 --> 00:37:54,480
We've been here
for nine or ten weeks
697
00:37:54,560 --> 00:37:57,200
and I feel like everyone
is kind of feeling the pressure
698
00:37:57,240 --> 00:37:58,840
of this experiment.
699
00:37:58,920 --> 00:38:00,040
I think everyone feels
that pressure.
700
00:38:00,120 --> 00:38:01,720
EDEN: Yeah.
Some more than others.
701
00:38:03,240 --> 00:38:04,240
I think, you know,
702
00:38:04,320 --> 00:38:06,480
Eden is one of those people
who really feels the pressure.
703
00:38:08,120 --> 00:38:13,320
And I feel like this week
I'm copping the brunt of it.
704
00:38:18,040 --> 00:38:19,360
How's that? Tell me...
705
00:38:19,400 --> 00:38:20,600
Well, it's just...
706
00:38:20,640 --> 00:38:23,240
It's been kind of a long time coming
707
00:38:23,320 --> 00:38:25,520
and there's just a couple of things
that have happened...
708
00:38:28,080 --> 00:38:30,160
that have led to this.
709
00:38:30,200 --> 00:38:31,240
Most recently...
710
00:38:31,280 --> 00:38:33,600
As I said before, like, Eden told me
711
00:38:33,680 --> 00:38:35,400
that Sara had gone out
with her ex-boyfriend
712
00:38:35,480 --> 00:38:38,720
and they were talking shit about Tim
behind his back.
713
00:38:42,360 --> 00:38:44,400
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
714
00:38:44,480 --> 00:38:47,080
And when I said, "Hey, I really need
to address the experts with this,
715
00:38:47,160 --> 00:38:49,760
"it needs to come up,
I need to get it off my chest,"
716
00:38:49,840 --> 00:38:52,160
she wanted me to basically lie
and she said,
717
00:38:52,200 --> 00:38:53,680
"Well, you can't say that
718
00:38:53,760 --> 00:38:56,480
"because then Sara will know
that I can't keep a secret."
719
00:38:57,760 --> 00:38:59,520
And I said,
"Eden, I don't feel right lying.
720
00:38:59,560 --> 00:39:00,720
"I want to tell the truth."
721
00:39:00,800 --> 00:39:03,560
And she basically blew up at me
and said,
722
00:39:03,640 --> 00:39:06,280
"If you don't say
what I tell you to say,
723
00:39:06,360 --> 00:39:10,160
"I'm done with you
and I'm leaving you."
724
00:39:10,200 --> 00:39:13,320
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
725
00:39:13,360 --> 00:39:15,760
SARA: What?
726
00:39:28,320 --> 00:39:31,320
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
727
00:39:32,880 --> 00:39:34,360
She basically blew up at me
and said...
728
00:39:35,720 --> 00:39:37,840
"If you don't say
what I tell you to say,
729
00:39:37,920 --> 00:39:40,520
"I'm done with you
and I'm leaving you."
730
00:39:40,560 --> 00:39:43,640
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
731
00:39:43,680 --> 00:39:45,880
SARA: What?
732
00:39:45,920 --> 00:39:48,920
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
733
00:39:52,240 --> 00:39:56,680
That didn't sit right for me,
because for me, I view...
734
00:39:56,720 --> 00:39:58,000
It's basically an ultimatum.
735
00:39:58,080 --> 00:40:03,440
I feel it's like,
OK, I've got two choices.
736
00:40:03,520 --> 00:40:06,920
Either I do something that I find
morally wrong, which is lie,
737
00:40:06,960 --> 00:40:08,040
or I lose my wife.
738
00:40:12,800 --> 00:40:15,000
Yeah, it just got to me.
739
00:40:16,880 --> 00:40:19,680
It might not be a huge lie,
it might not be a huge deal
740
00:40:19,720 --> 00:40:21,440
but I tried to communicate
741
00:40:21,520 --> 00:40:24,120
and I just felt like she didn't
really care about how I felt
742
00:40:24,200 --> 00:40:25,920
or what I wanted -
it was all about,
743
00:40:26,000 --> 00:40:27,880
"No, you've got to say this,
you've gotta support me,
744
00:40:27,920 --> 00:40:28,920
"otherwise I'm done."
745
00:40:33,840 --> 00:40:36,360
That's a lot.
746
00:40:36,440 --> 00:40:38,880
I didn't realise you were feeling
that way
747
00:40:38,960 --> 00:40:42,720
or that this kind of dynamic
was going on with you guys.
748
00:40:42,800 --> 00:40:45,440
I'm actually very glad
that you've brought it up
749
00:40:45,520 --> 00:40:48,240
because it allows us maybe
to help out a little bit.
750
00:40:48,280 --> 00:40:49,520
Mmm.
751
00:40:49,560 --> 00:40:52,560
Eden, why did you ask Jayden to lie?
752
00:40:53,640 --> 00:40:56,360
I think I was scared.
I was scared of...
753
00:40:56,440 --> 00:40:58,440
I mean, we all knew
how anxious I was
754
00:40:58,480 --> 00:41:00,480
about the whole topic to begin with
755
00:41:00,520 --> 00:41:02,240
and then he was straight away...
756
00:41:02,320 --> 00:41:04,280
you know, he wanted to bring it out
straight away,
757
00:41:04,360 --> 00:41:06,840
and it was, like, "I'm gonna
do this, I'm gonna do that"
758
00:41:06,920 --> 00:41:10,560
and it made me so anxious
and so uncomfortable.
759
00:41:10,640 --> 00:41:13,960
But for me, it wasn't an ultimatum
of "I'll leave you."
760
00:41:14,040 --> 00:41:17,600
It was "I want to go home
from this," not from him.
761
00:41:18,640 --> 00:41:21,680
Maybe that's not what you meant...
Maybe it come across wrong, yeah.
762
00:41:21,760 --> 00:41:23,240
The way you said it was very...
Yeah.
763
00:41:23,280 --> 00:41:24,680
Yeah.
764
00:41:24,760 --> 00:41:26,640
Let's talk about the ultimatum.
Mmm.
765
00:41:26,720 --> 00:41:29,560
Do you understand that
that's not something positive
766
00:41:29,600 --> 00:41:30,800
for the relationship?
767
00:41:30,840 --> 00:41:31,920
No, definitely not.
768
00:41:32,000 --> 00:41:34,400
You're putting the relationship
on the line.
769
00:41:36,600 --> 00:41:39,600
(TENSE MUSIC)
770
00:41:44,800 --> 00:41:45,920
But aside from that,
771
00:41:46,000 --> 00:41:49,160
Jayden just mentioned there's been
other instances also causing...
772
00:41:49,240 --> 00:41:51,040
Yeah.
..Jayden to feel uncomfortable.
773
00:41:51,080 --> 00:41:52,960
Am I correct?
774
00:41:54,040 --> 00:41:59,320
Yeah, I guess we are getting
to the pointy end of the...
775
00:41:59,400 --> 00:42:01,440
Mmm.
..this experiment.
776
00:42:01,480 --> 00:42:03,160
And Eden is struggling a lot
777
00:42:03,240 --> 00:42:06,280
and I feel like I'm just trying
so hard in this relationship.
778
00:42:06,360 --> 00:42:10,480
But a lot of my efforts
are kind of just going...
779
00:42:10,560 --> 00:42:12,360
Yeah.
..brushed under the rugs, like...
780
00:42:12,400 --> 00:42:13,800
Yeah.
781
00:42:21,680 --> 00:42:22,760
I do...
782
00:42:22,800 --> 00:42:24,960
Um.. (BLEEP).
783
00:42:25,040 --> 00:42:26,320
Sorry.
It's alright.
784
00:42:26,360 --> 00:42:27,520
Yeah.
785
00:42:27,560 --> 00:42:28,920
(BLEEP).
786
00:42:29,000 --> 00:42:30,440
Are you good?
Oh...
787
00:42:30,480 --> 00:42:32,000
(BLEEP).
788
00:42:43,360 --> 00:42:44,720
Oh, shit.
789
00:42:44,760 --> 00:42:47,040
Um... Yeah.
790
00:42:49,680 --> 00:42:50,760
Um...
791
00:42:50,840 --> 00:42:52,960
Yeah, when Eden has a problem
with something,
792
00:42:53,040 --> 00:42:57,040
like, I make a lot of effort for her
'cause, like, I do really like her.
793
00:42:58,560 --> 00:43:01,680
Like, with the anxiety,
794
00:43:01,760 --> 00:43:03,960
I'm trying my best to learn
how to deal with that.
795
00:43:04,040 --> 00:43:07,040
And then, like, all the things
I do for you,
796
00:43:07,120 --> 00:43:09,600
like, get flowers, like,
five times...
797
00:43:09,640 --> 00:43:11,720
Like, this is materialistic stuff...
798
00:43:12,960 --> 00:43:14,480
Oh, sorry.
799
00:43:14,560 --> 00:43:17,680
..um, like, the flowers
five times a week...
800
00:43:17,760 --> 00:43:21,320
Like, I made a dog into a pillow
because she was missing her dog.
801
00:43:21,400 --> 00:43:25,400
I'm (BLEEP) taking her out
for dinner every weekend,
802
00:43:25,480 --> 00:43:28,080
like, writing her a list of things
I like about her...
803
00:43:28,160 --> 00:43:29,560
Yep.
..and every week...
804
00:43:29,640 --> 00:43:31,880
Every morning, I wake up
and I'll write something on it.
805
00:43:31,920 --> 00:43:33,120
That way, when she wakes up,
806
00:43:33,200 --> 00:43:36,120
it's the first thing that she sees
and then... (CLEARS THROAT)
807
00:43:36,200 --> 00:43:38,920
the other day,
because I wouldn't do one thing,
808
00:43:38,960 --> 00:43:41,960
you blew up at me and you said,
809
00:43:42,040 --> 00:43:45,200
"Why don't you just do something..."
Sorry.
810
00:43:45,280 --> 00:43:49,480
"Why don't you do something nice
for me for once in your life?"
811
00:43:56,160 --> 00:43:57,840
I'm sorry. That was very harsh.
I'm very sorry.
812
00:43:57,920 --> 00:43:59,400
It's not deserved.
"For once in your life."
813
00:43:59,480 --> 00:44:00,960
That is disregarding
all the nice things that...
814
00:44:01,040 --> 00:44:02,000
Yeah.
..I've done.
815
00:44:02,080 --> 00:44:04,600
I'm sorry. That's uncalled for.
It's not... That's not nice at all.
816
00:44:04,680 --> 00:44:06,560
And when I try and bring this up
with you...
817
00:44:06,640 --> 00:44:07,800
Yeah.
..you just...
818
00:44:07,840 --> 00:44:09,320
You brush it under the rug.
819
00:44:09,400 --> 00:44:11,680
You're just, like,
"No, it's not a problem."
820
00:44:11,720 --> 00:44:12,720
Mmm.
821
00:44:12,760 --> 00:44:15,760
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
822
00:44:18,120 --> 00:44:20,120
That got to me and that's, like,
823
00:44:20,200 --> 00:44:24,480
"(BLEEP), I don't know if Eden
is everything that I thought."
824
00:44:26,000 --> 00:44:28,720
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
825
00:44:44,560 --> 00:44:46,120
For someone
to turn around and just say,
826
00:44:46,200 --> 00:44:48,960
"Why don't you do something nice
for me for once in your life..."
827
00:44:50,360 --> 00:44:52,600
Because basically nothing...
828
00:44:52,640 --> 00:44:55,000
That got to me and that's, like,
829
00:44:55,080 --> 00:44:59,600
"(BLEEP), I don't know if Eden
is everything that I thought."
830
00:45:04,600 --> 00:45:07,600
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
831
00:45:07,680 --> 00:45:10,600
JOHN: Jayden,
are you starting to question
832
00:45:10,680 --> 00:45:13,160
whether this is the right person
for you?
833
00:45:13,200 --> 00:45:16,200
(PENSIVE MUSIC)
834
00:45:21,000 --> 00:45:24,720
It's just... It's...
It's a hard one.
835
00:45:24,760 --> 00:45:26,840
Like... Yeah, it's a hard one.
836
00:45:28,200 --> 00:45:29,920
So, yeah.
837
00:45:34,600 --> 00:45:40,200
Can I ask, do you feel
that you're not good enough,
838
00:45:40,240 --> 00:45:41,680
that you can't measure up?
839
00:45:41,720 --> 00:45:42,760
Yeah.
840
00:45:42,800 --> 00:45:44,480
I'm doing my best.
841
00:45:44,520 --> 00:45:46,320
Clearly, I'm not good enough
842
00:45:46,400 --> 00:45:48,240
'cause I can't do much better
than I am now...
843
00:45:48,320 --> 00:45:51,040
You are good enough. You definitely
are good enough, I promise you that.
844
00:45:51,080 --> 00:45:52,360
I'm sorry.
845
00:45:56,240 --> 00:45:59,320
Now, Eden, that's...that's big.
Mmm.
846
00:45:59,400 --> 00:46:01,600
I mean, what he's saying to you is...
Yeah.
847
00:46:01,680 --> 00:46:03,120
.."I'm into you and..."
Mmm.
848
00:46:03,200 --> 00:46:05,720
.."I don't feel like
I'm ever good enough for you."
849
00:46:05,800 --> 00:46:07,960
Yeah. I don't ever want him
to feel that way.
850
00:46:09,560 --> 00:46:12,160
I didn't realise the severity of it
until now.
851
00:46:12,240 --> 00:46:13,920
Like, I'm clearly very emotional
about it
852
00:46:13,960 --> 00:46:15,200
'cause I'm really into him too
853
00:46:15,280 --> 00:46:16,960
and I don't want him to feel
that way.
854
00:46:17,000 --> 00:46:18,320
(CRIES)
855
00:46:26,160 --> 00:46:29,160
(ROUSING MUSIC)
856
00:46:33,000 --> 00:46:34,400
(BLEEP)
Cry...
857
00:46:34,480 --> 00:46:36,040
I know. Sorry.
I'm sorry.
858
00:46:38,200 --> 00:46:41,840
OK, guys.
You're at a real crossroads here.
859
00:46:43,840 --> 00:46:45,960
You're at a crisis point
860
00:46:46,040 --> 00:46:52,000
and we've not seen this type of
stand-off between the two of you
861
00:46:52,040 --> 00:46:54,480
at any stage in this experiment.
862
00:46:55,760 --> 00:47:00,240
It's like we've got finally
the curtains pulled back
863
00:47:00,320 --> 00:47:06,160
and we're looking at the real
relationship between the two of you
864
00:47:06,200 --> 00:47:10,280
and you've got some big challenges.
865
00:47:10,360 --> 00:47:14,160
But you're both very upset,
which means you care about each other
866
00:47:14,200 --> 00:47:16,520
and that pleases me immensely.
867
00:47:18,280 --> 00:47:19,800
Let's go to the decision.
868
00:47:21,200 --> 00:47:24,400
Stay or leave?
Let's go with you first, Eden.
869
00:47:26,200 --> 00:47:28,040
Obviously, there's differences
870
00:47:28,120 --> 00:47:29,800
but they're things
that I want to work through
871
00:47:29,880 --> 00:47:33,320
because I'm very into Jayden,
so I've written 'stay'.
872
00:47:33,360 --> 00:47:35,880
(APPLAUSE)
873
00:47:37,040 --> 00:47:39,160
Jayden, what have you got -
stay or leave?
874
00:47:39,240 --> 00:47:42,160
We've got a lot to work on,
so, yeah, let's work.
875
00:47:42,200 --> 00:47:45,200
(APPLAUSE)
876
00:47:46,680 --> 00:47:49,000
MEL: OK, guys,
it's time to get to work.
877
00:47:50,320 --> 00:47:53,920
You guys came out of the gates
at the beginning of the experiment
878
00:47:53,960 --> 00:47:56,040
hard and fast, didn't you,
879
00:47:56,120 --> 00:47:58,560
and you went straight into it and
it was really intense really quickly
880
00:47:58,640 --> 00:48:00,480
and you were in
a bit of a love bubble
881
00:48:00,560 --> 00:48:04,480
and where you've arrived at now
is some realness.
882
00:48:04,520 --> 00:48:05,760
Yeah.
883
00:48:05,800 --> 00:48:08,520
So this is, you know, in many ways,
884
00:48:08,600 --> 00:48:12,040
a starting point
for the real relationship here.
885
00:48:12,080 --> 00:48:13,880
It's time to communicate
886
00:48:13,960 --> 00:48:16,480
as well as communicate
about your communication.
887
00:48:16,520 --> 00:48:17,520
Yeah.
888
00:48:17,600 --> 00:48:20,520
You know, when I say this to you,
how does that feel for you?
889
00:48:20,600 --> 00:48:24,120
Overcommunicate.
Yeah.
890
00:48:24,200 --> 00:48:27,960
Simple little techniques
will get you through this
891
00:48:28,040 --> 00:48:32,360
but make no mistake, you cannot have
this gridlock anymore.
892
00:48:32,400 --> 00:48:34,360
Now you've got a blueprint.
893
00:48:34,400 --> 00:48:35,880
Do the work.
894
00:48:35,920 --> 00:48:37,920
And we'll see you next time.
895
00:48:38,000 --> 00:48:39,760
ALESSANDRA: Have a good week.
JAYDEN: Thanks, guys.
896
00:48:39,840 --> 00:48:42,640
MEL: Good on you, guys. Well done.
(APPLAUSE)
897
00:48:46,160 --> 00:48:47,160
ANDREA: Good session.
898
00:48:47,240 --> 00:48:48,880
(BLEEP).
Really good.
899
00:48:48,920 --> 00:48:51,520
You did good. You did good.
900
00:48:51,560 --> 00:48:54,560
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
901
00:48:57,080 --> 00:49:00,960
MEL: Our next couple on the couch,
Jade and Ridge.
902
00:49:01,000 --> 00:49:03,520
(APPLAUSE)
903
00:49:03,600 --> 00:49:06,240
Hello.
ALESSANDRA: Hello.
904
00:49:06,280 --> 00:49:08,040
Hi.
905
00:49:10,360 --> 00:49:12,400
How have you been this week, guys?
906
00:49:12,440 --> 00:49:13,840
RIDGE: We've been well.
907
00:49:13,920 --> 00:49:17,320
We had a really good week, probably
one of the better weeks we've had
908
00:49:17,360 --> 00:49:18,680
since the start of the experiment.
909
00:49:19,800 --> 00:49:23,120
This week, Jade's daughter, Vi,
was here and that's a big thing
910
00:49:23,200 --> 00:49:26,720
because the more time I spend with
both of them, I'm getting to a point
911
00:49:26,800 --> 00:49:29,800
where I can see Jade and I can make
this something into the future.
912
00:49:31,200 --> 00:49:32,280
It's getting serious.
913
00:49:33,600 --> 00:49:34,920
It's fantastic.
914
00:49:35,000 --> 00:49:39,920
Jade, obviously, as a mum, you know,
you've got little Vi to look out for
915
00:49:40,000 --> 00:49:42,640
and it's so important
that you can protect her
916
00:49:42,720 --> 00:49:45,040
and protect, you know, you and her
as a family unit.
917
00:49:45,080 --> 00:49:48,440
And I guess for you, Ridge,
918
00:49:48,520 --> 00:49:53,600
you've taken this on board
with such openness and maturity.
919
00:49:53,680 --> 00:49:56,520
This is exactly what we want
for you guys.
920
00:49:56,600 --> 00:50:00,160
What's your feeling, Jade,
about bringing him into your home?
921
00:50:01,680 --> 00:50:03,560
That, I'm not worried about.
922
00:50:03,600 --> 00:50:05,400
He's been fitting into my life.
923
00:50:05,480 --> 00:50:09,200
And this week he did, like,
a packed lunch for Vi.
924
00:50:09,280 --> 00:50:12,640
I don't think I've ever
actually told Ridge this
925
00:50:12,720 --> 00:50:17,200
but when I am doing her school
lunch, I'll always write, like,
926
00:50:17,280 --> 00:50:19,240
little notes like,
"Have a good day.
927
00:50:19,320 --> 00:50:21,280
"Remember to always be kind
to everyone."
928
00:50:21,360 --> 00:50:23,960
Like, just little things
for her to read.
929
00:50:24,040 --> 00:50:27,720
And when Ridge made her sandwich,
he wrote "Have a good day"
930
00:50:27,800 --> 00:50:32,440
and then put an R with a love heart,
so that was really nice to see.
931
00:50:33,960 --> 00:50:35,280
Beautiful.
932
00:50:36,680 --> 00:50:38,960
Let's go to the decision, shall we?
933
00:50:39,000 --> 00:50:41,720
I think we'll start with Ridge.
934
00:50:41,760 --> 00:50:43,920
I'm going to stay.
935
00:50:44,000 --> 00:50:46,000
Oh... Fabulous.
(APPLAUSE)
936
00:50:46,040 --> 00:50:47,520
(LAUGHS) Thank you.
937
00:50:47,560 --> 00:50:48,680
With an X.
938
00:50:48,720 --> 00:50:50,040
And Jade?
939
00:50:51,040 --> 00:50:53,000
You got an X too!
940
00:50:53,080 --> 00:50:55,160
Aw, lots of kisses.
Thanks, darling.
941
00:50:55,240 --> 00:50:57,000
(APPLAUSE)
Beautiful.
942
00:50:57,040 --> 00:50:59,440
Alright, you guys, good on you.
943
00:50:59,520 --> 00:51:00,840
Thank you.
Thank you.
944
00:51:00,880 --> 00:51:01,960
Thanks, guys.
945
00:51:02,000 --> 00:51:03,960
(APPLAUSE)
946
00:51:05,200 --> 00:51:06,720
Good job, babe.
947
00:51:06,760 --> 00:51:08,560
JOHN: Let's get our next couple up.
948
00:51:08,600 --> 00:51:11,080
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
949
00:51:11,120 --> 00:51:12,200
Jack and Tori.
950
00:51:12,240 --> 00:51:15,280
(APPLAUSE)
951
00:51:16,600 --> 00:51:18,080
MEL: Hello.
ALESSANDRA: Hi.
952
00:51:19,200 --> 00:51:20,720
JACK: Oh...
953
00:51:20,760 --> 00:51:22,600
Right, you two.
954
00:51:26,720 --> 00:51:30,200
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
955
00:51:30,280 --> 00:51:33,640
We've talked about many of your
indiscretions, Jack, in the past.
956
00:51:36,320 --> 00:51:38,720
Well, I'm not going there this time.
957
00:51:40,240 --> 00:51:43,960
I'm not interested in online articles
or previous girlfriends...
958
00:51:45,520 --> 00:51:47,440
or things that you've said
in past dinner parties.
959
00:51:49,240 --> 00:51:52,120
The only thing I'm interested in
with you two...
960
00:51:54,120 --> 00:51:56,600
is what's going on
in your relationship...
961
00:51:58,720 --> 00:52:01,440
because I've become very bored.
962
00:52:03,480 --> 00:52:05,720
Tonight, you are going to open up.
963
00:52:10,080 --> 00:52:11,600
Jack, I'm gonna start with you.
964
00:52:12,800 --> 00:52:16,160
I need to know how you feel
about Tori.
965
00:52:16,200 --> 00:52:18,800
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
966
00:52:20,720 --> 00:52:22,400
'Cause I'm not buying it.
967
00:52:30,080 --> 00:52:33,080
(TENSE MUSIC)
968
00:52:36,840 --> 00:52:39,200
Tonight, you are going to open up.
969
00:52:43,560 --> 00:52:45,000
Jack, I'm gonna start with you.
970
00:52:46,280 --> 00:52:49,480
I need to know how you feel
about Tori.
971
00:52:55,800 --> 00:52:57,400
'Cause I'm not buying it.
972
00:53:01,840 --> 00:53:03,880
What aren't you buying, John?
973
00:53:03,920 --> 00:53:06,440
(TENSE MUSIC)
974
00:53:06,480 --> 00:53:08,400
How do you feel about Tori?
975
00:53:08,440 --> 00:53:10,120
I like her a lot.
976
00:53:12,080 --> 00:53:14,160
Yeah, I'm developing
serious feelings for Tori.
977
00:53:16,520 --> 00:53:19,200
What do you mean "serious feelings"?
978
00:53:19,240 --> 00:53:22,000
(LAUGHS) I just feel like...
979
00:53:22,080 --> 00:53:24,440
Yeah, she makes me...
makes me feel good.
980
00:53:24,520 --> 00:53:26,400
She makes me feel...
Oh, don't give me 'good'.
981
00:53:28,720 --> 00:53:30,400
Far too long in this experiment
982
00:53:30,480 --> 00:53:33,680
for words like 'good',
'OK', 'alright', 'not bad'.
983
00:53:33,720 --> 00:53:36,280
I need real responses from you.
984
00:53:37,520 --> 00:53:40,640
Feelings. Um... (LAUGHS)
985
00:53:40,720 --> 00:53:43,360
Something I've told Tori
a few times,
986
00:53:43,440 --> 00:53:46,520
like, I'm actually sleeping
really well.
987
00:53:51,600 --> 00:53:54,760
Tori, do you feel really special
and desired
988
00:53:54,840 --> 00:53:58,040
when he says
he can sleep well at night?
989
00:53:58,120 --> 00:54:02,640
I feel like you can describe it
a bit better than that.
990
00:54:02,720 --> 00:54:04,560
I've never been asked about
my feelings like that before.
991
00:54:04,600 --> 00:54:06,360
Um...
992
00:54:07,400 --> 00:54:09,400
What does she do to you
on the inside?
993
00:54:11,040 --> 00:54:13,120
You've stitched me up here.
994
00:54:13,160 --> 00:54:14,400
Um...
995
00:54:17,120 --> 00:54:18,320
Yeah, I like you a lot.
996
00:54:18,360 --> 00:54:19,600
Oh, come on.
997
00:54:23,360 --> 00:54:25,680
She helps you sleep?
You like her a lot?
998
00:54:27,360 --> 00:54:28,880
Here's the thing.
999
00:54:28,920 --> 00:54:32,000
Nine weeks into this experiment
1000
00:54:32,080 --> 00:54:36,400
and I'm not getting a sense
of your feeling...
1001
00:54:38,120 --> 00:54:40,640
and even whether you're genuine
about it.
1002
00:54:43,000 --> 00:54:44,840
And if I'm not sure about it,
1003
00:54:44,920 --> 00:54:49,280
it worries me that Tori may not know
where she stands with you.
1004
00:54:52,760 --> 00:54:55,960
Mel, your husband...
MEL: Mmm.
1005
00:54:57,160 --> 00:55:00,800
..when you ask him what sort of
feelings he has for you,
1006
00:55:00,840 --> 00:55:02,520
what might he say?
1007
00:55:02,600 --> 00:55:08,760
He might say
"I feel deeply connected to you."
1008
00:55:08,800 --> 00:55:11,920
He says I'm his soulmate.
1009
00:55:13,280 --> 00:55:17,080
He says he can stop looking
'cause he's found me.
1010
00:55:19,200 --> 00:55:21,440
That's the kind of things
that my husband would say to me.
1011
00:55:21,520 --> 00:55:24,080
Yeah.
So you can hear, it's deeper than...
1012
00:55:24,120 --> 00:55:25,200
Yeah.
1013
00:55:25,280 --> 00:55:28,040
..you know, "I feel nice"
or "I sleep well at night."
1014
00:55:28,120 --> 00:55:30,720
I am struggling to describe
how I feel.
1015
00:55:30,760 --> 00:55:31,840
JOHN: Stop.
1016
00:55:36,440 --> 00:55:39,600
I heard a revelation
at the dinner party last night
1017
00:55:39,640 --> 00:55:41,960
that came from feedback week.
1018
00:55:42,000 --> 00:55:43,320
You were involved in it, Jade.
1019
00:55:43,400 --> 00:55:47,440
Tell us what was said
between you and Jack.
1020
00:55:47,480 --> 00:55:51,040
(TENSE MUSIC)
1021
00:55:51,120 --> 00:55:54,640
JADE: So, I said,
"If you were paired with someone
1022
00:55:54,680 --> 00:55:57,720
"who was, like, more your type,
1023
00:55:57,800 --> 00:55:59,480
"would you have slept with them
by now?"
1024
00:55:59,520 --> 00:56:01,280
And he said, "Yes, probably."
1025
00:56:05,160 --> 00:56:09,120
Mmm. What does that mean?
1026
00:56:10,200 --> 00:56:11,640
No. No.
1027
00:56:11,680 --> 00:56:13,800
What does it mean when you say,
1028
00:56:13,880 --> 00:56:16,880
"If I was paired with someone
who was more my type,
1029
00:56:16,960 --> 00:56:19,280
"I would have slept with her
early on in the experiment"?
1030
00:56:19,320 --> 00:56:21,160
It's not that clean-cut.
1031
00:56:23,120 --> 00:56:24,680
Here's my point.
1032
00:56:24,720 --> 00:56:26,840
You said yes
1033
00:56:26,920 --> 00:56:32,400
and what I'm hearing tonight is
that you have warm feelings, that...
1034
00:56:32,440 --> 00:56:33,440
I do.
1035
00:56:33,520 --> 00:56:35,200
..things are going
in the right direction with Tori.
1036
00:56:35,280 --> 00:56:38,640
That is not the answer
that corresponds to that.
1037
00:56:38,680 --> 00:56:40,360
What you're saying is,
1038
00:56:40,440 --> 00:56:44,880
"If she was more my type,
I would've had sex with her."
1039
00:56:44,920 --> 00:56:46,640
I'm asking, why isn't she your type?
1040
00:56:48,560 --> 00:56:50,640
She IS my type.
1041
00:56:53,080 --> 00:56:56,640
Jade, what's your perspective
on that feedback and what was said?
1042
00:56:56,720 --> 00:56:59,840
Personally,
if I was in Tori's position,
1043
00:56:59,920 --> 00:57:02,480
I would feel like my partner
didn't like me.
1044
00:57:04,920 --> 00:57:08,200
Tori, that answer...
1045
00:57:10,200 --> 00:57:12,200
is not what we expect
1046
00:57:12,280 --> 00:57:16,200
from a guy that's saying
"I'm attracted to you,"
1047
00:57:16,280 --> 00:57:20,200
who is warm, connected,
thinking about a future.
1048
00:57:20,240 --> 00:57:24,200
So I'm struggling to buy this.
1049
00:57:25,960 --> 00:57:28,480
Tori, let me ask you,
how did that make you feel,
1050
00:57:28,560 --> 00:57:30,760
when you heard his answer
to that feedback question?
1051
00:57:30,800 --> 00:57:33,800
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1052
00:57:37,040 --> 00:57:39,240
I felt like, "Yeah, fair enough."
1053
00:57:42,800 --> 00:57:44,760
"Fair enough"? Really?
1054
00:57:46,240 --> 00:57:49,840
Did you not want him to say,
"Tori's the one for me"?
1055
00:57:51,960 --> 00:57:53,920
I have strong feelings towards Jack.
1056
00:57:54,000 --> 00:57:56,240
Am I gonna sit here and say
I'm in love with Jack?
1057
00:57:56,280 --> 00:57:57,680
I'm not in love with Jack.
1058
00:57:57,760 --> 00:58:00,520
But he does make me feel quite safe
and quite secure
1059
00:58:00,560 --> 00:58:04,160
and he does allow me to be me.
1060
00:58:04,200 --> 00:58:06,360
Tori, are you for real?
1061
00:58:09,000 --> 00:58:10,400
Am I for real?
1062
00:58:10,440 --> 00:58:11,560
Yes!
1063
00:58:11,600 --> 00:58:14,160
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1064
00:58:20,640 --> 00:58:25,720
Did you not want him to say,
"Tori's the one for me"?
1065
00:58:25,760 --> 00:58:28,160
I have strong feelings towards Jack.
1066
00:58:28,240 --> 00:58:30,480
Am I gonna sit here and say
I'm in love with Jack?
1067
00:58:30,520 --> 00:58:31,760
I'm not in love with Jack.
1068
00:58:31,840 --> 00:58:34,520
He does make me feel quite safe
and quite secure
1069
00:58:34,560 --> 00:58:37,680
and he does allow me to be me.
1070
00:58:37,720 --> 00:58:39,680
Tori, are you for real?
1071
00:58:42,600 --> 00:58:44,120
Am I for real?
1072
00:58:44,160 --> 00:58:45,280
Yes!
1073
00:58:45,320 --> 00:58:46,880
Yeah, I'm for real.
1074
00:58:46,920 --> 00:58:48,440
Safe and secure?
1075
00:58:48,520 --> 00:58:50,440
(LAUGHS)
Yeah.
1076
00:58:50,520 --> 00:58:53,600
After what has been going on
throughout this experiment
1077
00:58:53,680 --> 00:58:56,840
with Jack's behaviour towards women,
towards people in the group,
1078
00:58:56,880 --> 00:58:57,960
towards you?
1079
00:58:59,920 --> 00:59:01,640
Do I accept his wrongdoings? No.
1080
00:59:03,400 --> 00:59:05,600
But I don't hold them against him.
1081
00:59:06,840 --> 00:59:09,640
(TENSE MUSIC)
1082
00:59:09,720 --> 00:59:16,040
Tori, when he makes statements about
women like "Muzzle your woman..."
1083
00:59:16,080 --> 00:59:17,280
Mm-hm.
1084
00:59:17,360 --> 00:59:19,840
..that doesn't make you feel
any less safe or secure,
1085
00:59:19,920 --> 00:59:22,720
it doesn't dilute your feelings
toward him at all?
1086
00:59:22,800 --> 00:59:26,600
No, because I know that,
at the core, that that is not him.
1087
00:59:28,520 --> 00:59:32,560
I know where I stand with Jack,
Jack knows where he stands with me.
1088
00:59:38,720 --> 00:59:40,960
I guess what we're noticing here
1089
00:59:41,040 --> 00:59:45,160
is that the things he says and does
ARE him.
1090
00:59:45,200 --> 00:59:47,440
He's showing you who he is.
1091
00:59:47,480 --> 00:59:49,400
They're not separate from him.
1092
00:59:49,440 --> 00:59:51,080
This is part of the whole.
1093
00:59:53,040 --> 00:59:55,840
I don't agree with the things
that Jack's said and done
1094
00:59:55,920 --> 00:59:59,440
but that doesn't mean
that I can't be by his side.
1095
01:00:03,600 --> 01:00:05,600
Outside of safe and secure...
1096
01:00:07,000 --> 01:00:08,800
'cause friends can make you feel
safe and secure...
1097
01:00:10,720 --> 01:00:14,400
intimately, where do you stand now
with Jack?
1098
01:00:14,480 --> 01:00:16,320
We are intimate.
We are sexually intimate.
1099
01:00:16,360 --> 01:00:17,720
We just have not done the deed.
1100
01:00:19,560 --> 01:00:22,000
It's a bit awkward talking about it
week on week.
1101
01:00:22,040 --> 01:00:23,040
It's (BLEEP) stupid.
1102
01:00:26,320 --> 01:00:28,440
I do genuinely feel like...
1103
01:00:30,120 --> 01:00:32,880
we're both ready to have sex.
1104
01:00:34,200 --> 01:00:36,080
But there is a lot of pressure
1105
01:00:36,160 --> 01:00:38,720
and I know everyone's feeling it
and that's fine.
1106
01:00:38,800 --> 01:00:42,280
But, like, we are asked
the same question every single week
1107
01:00:42,360 --> 01:00:44,760
and I almost don't want to do it...
(LAUGHS)
1108
01:00:44,840 --> 01:00:46,720
..'cause I don't want to give
anyone the satisfaction.
1109
01:00:52,280 --> 01:00:54,160
Let me tell you why it comes up
every week,
1110
01:00:54,240 --> 01:01:00,160
because the way in which
Jack handles certain situations
1111
01:01:00,200 --> 01:01:02,360
week on week on week
1112
01:01:02,400 --> 01:01:05,400
suggests he's not attracted.
1113
01:01:05,440 --> 01:01:07,440
No, I disagree with that.
1114
01:01:07,520 --> 01:01:11,720
And I've got a litany of behaviours
that say otherwise, Jack.
1115
01:01:11,760 --> 01:01:12,960
No.
1116
01:01:13,040 --> 01:01:15,120
I feel like, yeah,
I've dropped the ball
1117
01:01:15,200 --> 01:01:17,560
and Tori's seen, like,
the worst of me and...
1118
01:01:17,640 --> 01:01:21,200
Tori, if you've seen the worst of
Jack, how do you feel towards him?
1119
01:01:21,240 --> 01:01:23,360
Let it rip. (LAUGHS)
1120
01:01:23,440 --> 01:01:27,200
Um... I have seen the worst of Jack
and he can be...
1121
01:01:28,280 --> 01:01:29,800
stubborn and quite...
1122
01:01:29,880 --> 01:01:31,760
LUCINDA: I would say the word
'cruel'.
1123
01:01:35,240 --> 01:01:36,280
OK. That's your word.
1124
01:01:39,480 --> 01:01:41,680
Tori, do you see a future with Jack?
1125
01:01:41,760 --> 01:01:43,920
I do see a future with Jack.
Why?
1126
01:01:44,000 --> 01:01:46,560
Why?
Yeah.
1127
01:01:48,320 --> 01:01:51,640
I think Jack is...would...
Not 'would'.
1128
01:01:51,720 --> 01:01:54,680
I think...well, no, on the outside,
I think he would fit into my world
1129
01:01:54,760 --> 01:01:56,480
and I think I would fit into
his world
1130
01:01:56,560 --> 01:02:01,320
and I think coming into this,
I wanted someone to do life with me
1131
01:02:01,400 --> 01:02:03,560
and I feel like you are
absolutely that person.
1132
01:02:05,640 --> 01:02:08,640
(TENSE MUSIC)
1133
01:02:12,720 --> 01:02:17,720
Tori, I'm concerned that you are
focusing a lot on protecting him
1134
01:02:17,760 --> 01:02:21,080
and your relationship
1135
01:02:21,160 --> 01:02:23,960
and you're not really
paying attention to yourself.
1136
01:02:27,360 --> 01:02:30,760
You were talking before about
feeling safe and secure with him
1137
01:02:30,840 --> 01:02:34,280
and I think that's what
I'm having trouble with here...
1138
01:02:36,480 --> 01:02:39,720
because I feel like
I've seen glimpses of your insight,
1139
01:02:39,760 --> 01:02:41,960
whether it's been the group
1140
01:02:42,040 --> 01:02:44,240
or whether it's been Jack saying
or doing something
1141
01:02:44,320 --> 01:02:46,200
that I know
you're not comfortable with.
1142
01:02:48,040 --> 01:02:52,200
Respectfully, I am my first priority
1143
01:02:52,280 --> 01:02:54,640
and I will always be
my first priority.
1144
01:02:56,120 --> 01:02:58,240
I spend every day with this person.
Yeah.
1145
01:02:58,280 --> 01:03:00,000
I know who this person is.
1146
01:03:00,080 --> 01:03:03,680
I don't waste my time.
I don't like people wasting my time.
1147
01:03:03,760 --> 01:03:07,720
And I don't know how else
I can articulate that
1148
01:03:07,760 --> 01:03:09,240
or how else I can put that
1149
01:03:09,320 --> 01:03:12,560
for it to be palatable for the group
to understand.
1150
01:03:12,640 --> 01:03:14,600
Yeah.
He is a good person.
1151
01:03:17,160 --> 01:03:20,160
And if you were not...
If you didn't want to be here...
1152
01:03:20,200 --> 01:03:21,200
I wouldn't be here.
1153
01:03:21,280 --> 01:03:23,120
..if you didn't feel safe,
if you didn't feel respected...
1154
01:03:23,200 --> 01:03:25,440
I would not be here.
You best believe I wouldn't be here.
1155
01:03:25,520 --> 01:03:28,360
..if you didn't think I was into
you, I wouldn't want you to be here.
1156
01:03:32,240 --> 01:03:35,240
Well, on that note,
we're gonna go to the decision.
1157
01:03:35,320 --> 01:03:40,080
Stay or leave?
And we're gonna go with you, Jack.
1158
01:03:40,120 --> 01:03:42,200
I will stay.
1159
01:03:42,280 --> 01:03:43,520
Show me.
Strong stay.
1160
01:03:43,560 --> 01:03:44,640
It's a strong stay.
1161
01:03:46,000 --> 01:03:47,520
Tori, you're up. Stay or leave?
1162
01:03:47,560 --> 01:03:48,600
I said 'stay'.
1163
01:03:54,120 --> 01:03:55,120
OK.
1164
01:03:55,200 --> 01:03:56,960
Well, look,
I think what comes out tonight
1165
01:03:57,040 --> 01:04:00,400
is that there has been
inconsistencies,
1166
01:04:00,440 --> 01:04:02,520
which we'll always call out.
1167
01:04:02,600 --> 01:04:06,560
If there are behaviours going on
in a relationship
1168
01:04:06,640 --> 01:04:10,680
that don't match what you're saying
in terms of your feelings,
1169
01:04:10,720 --> 01:04:11,960
you need to know about it.
1170
01:04:13,520 --> 01:04:15,760
Go back to the group.
1171
01:04:15,800 --> 01:04:18,040
(APPLAUSE)
1172
01:04:19,600 --> 01:04:22,600
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1173
01:04:35,280 --> 01:04:38,360
Our last couple up on the couch...
1174
01:04:38,400 --> 01:04:40,160
MEL: Andrea and Richard.
1175
01:04:40,240 --> 01:04:42,920
(APPLAUSE)
(ANDREA CLEARS THROAT)
1176
01:04:44,560 --> 01:04:46,080
Evening.
RICHARD: Guys.
1177
01:04:46,160 --> 01:04:47,120
Hello.
Good evening.
1178
01:04:49,680 --> 01:04:50,960
Well, you two...
1179
01:04:53,600 --> 01:04:57,360
You've had a big week.
Yeah.
1180
01:04:57,440 --> 01:05:01,160
We saw things really escalate
between the two of you last night...
1181
01:05:01,200 --> 01:05:02,200
Yeah.
1182
01:05:02,280 --> 01:05:04,320
And, in fact, Andy,
it's the first time we've seen you
1183
01:05:04,360 --> 01:05:07,000
really, really become quite angry
1184
01:05:07,080 --> 01:05:10,280
and just stand up and really express
how you're feeling.
1185
01:05:10,320 --> 01:05:11,680
Yeah.
1186
01:05:13,120 --> 01:05:18,320
We're really keen to understand
where things are at between you now.
1187
01:05:20,320 --> 01:05:22,000
Andy, why don't we start with you?
1188
01:05:23,760 --> 01:05:26,160
I'm feeling pretty devastated,
actually.
1189
01:05:27,320 --> 01:05:31,680
I've had a really frustrating week,
1190
01:05:31,720 --> 01:05:33,840
where I feel like...
1191
01:05:33,920 --> 01:05:37,400
well, I know that Richie
has not been listening to me
1192
01:05:37,440 --> 01:05:38,560
and hearing what I'm saying.
1193
01:05:40,600 --> 01:05:42,600
I feel sad...
1194
01:05:44,760 --> 01:05:49,640
because we were good,
we were working on stuff.
1195
01:05:51,640 --> 01:05:53,000
We'd have bumps.
1196
01:05:53,080 --> 01:05:58,200
We'd go back a bit, but I was here
and I was open and trying
1197
01:05:58,240 --> 01:06:03,320
and Richie spent last week
1198
01:06:03,360 --> 01:06:05,320
telling me I'm being dishonest
1199
01:06:05,360 --> 01:06:09,600
and that I'm not trying.
1200
01:06:12,960 --> 01:06:17,320
Richard, from your perspective,
is this an accurate description?
1201
01:06:17,400 --> 01:06:21,400
From my perspective, it's not
a totally accurate description, no.
1202
01:06:22,520 --> 01:06:25,160
The thing is,
is when I'm asked what's going on,
1203
01:06:25,240 --> 01:06:28,440
why isn't this relationship moving
forward, why isn't it building,
1204
01:06:28,480 --> 01:06:30,480
you know, Andy gets really upset
1205
01:06:30,560 --> 01:06:32,040
when I start saying things
like that, yeah?
1206
01:06:34,120 --> 01:06:35,640
And I appreciate that,
1207
01:06:35,720 --> 01:06:37,880
but I have to also say
what I have to say
1208
01:06:37,920 --> 01:06:39,440
and what I'm feeling, you know.
1209
01:06:39,520 --> 01:06:43,040
And to say to someone
"You're not listening to me"
1210
01:06:43,120 --> 01:06:45,560
is kind of like saying
"You're wrong."
1211
01:06:45,600 --> 01:06:47,360
Like, "You're in the wrong here."
1212
01:06:47,400 --> 01:06:48,720
(SIGHS)
1213
01:06:49,920 --> 01:06:51,480
So, we don't agree.
1214
01:06:51,560 --> 01:06:53,960
Yeah, we just don't, you know...
Exactly right.
1215
01:06:55,440 --> 01:06:58,320
JOHN: There's a real disconnect
between you two
1216
01:06:58,360 --> 01:07:01,960
and we've seen this for a long time.
1217
01:07:02,040 --> 01:07:05,280
Richard, what do you think
your role has been
1218
01:07:05,320 --> 01:07:08,560
in getting you to this place?
1219
01:07:10,120 --> 01:07:14,360
I know I'm quite full-on, I'm quite
intense and I'm very self-expressed.
1220
01:07:15,640 --> 01:07:17,920
Even when I type on a keyboard,
I (BLEEP) type like that
1221
01:07:18,000 --> 01:07:19,360
and, yeah, I'm like that...
That's true.
1222
01:07:19,440 --> 01:07:20,400
..you know.
It's very loud.
1223
01:07:20,440 --> 01:07:21,760
I'm like that, you know.
1224
01:07:21,800 --> 01:07:23,720
So, I reflect on that
1225
01:07:23,800 --> 01:07:28,320
and I go, "Well, that's something
that comes across wrong and badly"
1226
01:07:28,400 --> 01:07:30,640
and I think in this case
it probably has a little bit.
1227
01:07:32,400 --> 01:07:35,360
And I know I could've been
more patient.
1228
01:07:37,160 --> 01:07:41,160
So, I could've been that guy, super
cool, "Yeah, whatever, no worries."
1229
01:07:41,240 --> 01:07:45,000
I didn't because I didn't want to be
here as just good mates.
1230
01:07:45,080 --> 01:07:47,360
I mean, we're getting on, and we're
having so much fun together...
1231
01:07:47,440 --> 01:07:51,920
Some of the couples here are in that
space and they fought to get THERE,
1232
01:07:52,000 --> 01:07:54,480
but we started somewhere
very different.
1233
01:07:56,040 --> 01:07:57,280
Like, so different.
1234
01:08:00,400 --> 01:08:02,680
Richie, we didn't know each other
those first two weeks.
1235
01:08:04,120 --> 01:08:05,960
We didn't know each other.
1236
01:08:06,000 --> 01:08:08,840
It was chemistry. It was lovely.
1237
01:08:08,920 --> 01:08:11,080
And then we settle into
a relationship,
1238
01:08:11,120 --> 01:08:13,480
we get to know each other
1239
01:08:13,520 --> 01:08:16,160
and there's things I don't like...
1240
01:08:18,480 --> 01:08:20,800
..there's things you don't like
and we're trying to navigate that.
1241
01:08:20,840 --> 01:08:23,840
(SAD MUSIC)
1242
01:08:30,360 --> 01:08:34,520
Richard, you look pretty broken
to me.
1243
01:08:34,560 --> 01:08:36,080
Yeah, mate, well...
1244
01:08:38,480 --> 01:08:39,960
(SIGHS)
1245
01:08:40,000 --> 01:08:42,120
I am pretty broken, yeah.
1246
01:08:42,200 --> 01:08:46,640
I came into this experiment
with high hopes and big dreams
1247
01:08:46,720 --> 01:08:48,840
and a skip in my step
and a smile on my face
1248
01:08:48,920 --> 01:08:51,520
and I was, "Here we go, buddy,"
you know,
1249
01:08:51,600 --> 01:08:55,760
and it's ended
in a devastating, shattering way.
1250
01:08:59,120 --> 01:09:01,240
The thing is,
my gut's been telling me
1251
01:09:01,320 --> 01:09:04,240
that she hasn't been into me
for a long time.
1252
01:09:04,280 --> 01:09:07,480
I can see it. I can sense it.
1253
01:09:11,080 --> 01:09:14,320
You know, like...
Like, when you know, you know.
1254
01:09:22,000 --> 01:09:25,440
At the core of my being
is a feeling that I'm a bad person.
1255
01:09:28,320 --> 01:09:29,800
You know, I...
1256
01:09:29,840 --> 01:09:32,320
I'm on this planet
1257
01:09:32,400 --> 01:09:35,000
to make a positive contribution
to people and their lives -
1258
01:09:35,040 --> 01:09:37,120
that's through my work and what I do
1259
01:09:37,200 --> 01:09:39,640
and that's what I believe
and that's what I'm about.
1260
01:09:40,840 --> 01:09:43,280
So, in that sense,
I've failed massively, you know,
1261
01:09:43,320 --> 01:09:45,920
with this lovely woman, you know.
1262
01:09:45,960 --> 01:09:47,440
(SIGHS)
1263
01:09:48,720 --> 01:09:50,920
It just feels really, um...
1264
01:09:50,960 --> 01:09:52,200
(CRIES)
1265
01:09:57,360 --> 01:10:00,000
Yeah, man, it just feels really hard
and really tough, you know.
1266
01:10:00,040 --> 01:10:01,200
Really, really tough.
1267
01:10:01,240 --> 01:10:04,240
(SAD MUSIC)
1268
01:10:08,400 --> 01:10:10,000
MEL: OK, you two.
1269
01:10:10,080 --> 01:10:12,120
I think it's time for us to go
to the decision.
1270
01:10:12,160 --> 01:10:13,160
OK.
1271
01:10:13,240 --> 01:10:14,880
Andrea, we'll start with you.
Yep.
1272
01:10:16,480 --> 01:10:18,240
It's probably no shock to anyone.
1273
01:10:20,880 --> 01:10:24,600
Richie and I have agreed
to just leave.
1274
01:10:26,160 --> 01:10:28,520
I've written 'leave' too as well.
Yeah.
1275
01:10:28,560 --> 01:10:31,560
(SAD MUSIC)
1276
01:10:37,160 --> 01:10:38,320
OK?
1277
01:10:41,280 --> 01:10:42,920
WOMAN: Oh...
1278
01:10:49,160 --> 01:10:52,520
Before I let you go, I just want to
give you both the opportunity
1279
01:10:52,600 --> 01:10:55,360
to say any last thoughts
to each other.
1280
01:10:55,440 --> 01:10:59,960
Honestly, I had the best time
with you, Richie,
1281
01:11:00,000 --> 01:11:04,400
and I have so many happy memories.
1282
01:11:04,440 --> 01:11:06,280
Yeah.
1283
01:11:08,000 --> 01:11:09,840
Richard?
1284
01:11:09,880 --> 01:11:11,280
I will say to Andy
1285
01:11:11,360 --> 01:11:16,080
that those ten days that we spent
together, I will never forget...
1286
01:11:16,120 --> 01:11:19,560
never forget in my entire life.
1287
01:11:23,960 --> 01:11:25,880
(CRIES) It was so good.
Yeah.
1288
01:11:30,440 --> 01:11:32,800
It was so (BLEEP) great.
1289
01:11:35,800 --> 01:11:37,520
The whole, yeah...
1290
01:11:37,600 --> 01:11:40,720
I mean, that's it,
so, what a win, you know.
1291
01:11:40,800 --> 01:11:43,840
If I walk away with that,
that's...that's a win for me
1292
01:11:43,880 --> 01:11:45,640
and I'll take that any day, yeah.
1293
01:11:47,960 --> 01:11:49,560
Thank you so much.
1294
01:11:49,640 --> 01:11:50,600
You're welcome.
Mmm.
1295
01:11:50,640 --> 01:11:51,960
Thank you.
1296
01:11:52,000 --> 01:11:55,000
(APPLAUSE)
1297
01:11:55,040 --> 01:11:57,040
NARRATOR: Tomorrow night...
1298
01:11:57,080 --> 01:11:58,280
I'm alive! (LAUGHS)
1299
01:11:58,320 --> 01:12:00,080
..Lauren is back.
1300
01:12:02,600 --> 01:12:04,600
And don't say
you're just hoping for a root.
1301
01:12:04,640 --> 01:12:06,000
(LAUGHS)
1302
01:12:07,160 --> 01:12:08,360
RIDGE: Honey, I'm home.
1303
01:12:08,440 --> 01:12:13,440
Our couples pack up and head home
as part of homestays week.
1304
01:12:13,480 --> 01:12:14,800
In you go!
1305
01:12:14,840 --> 01:12:16,280
Over two big nights...
1306
01:12:16,360 --> 01:12:18,600
(TIM LAUGHS)
SARA: Welcome home, sweetie.
1307
01:12:18,680 --> 01:12:22,520
..our newlyweds discover
how their other half live.
1308
01:12:24,200 --> 01:12:28,320
And for some,
it's an eye-opening experience.
1309
01:12:28,400 --> 01:12:30,080
LUCINDA: It's a real bachelor's pad,
this one.
1310
01:12:30,120 --> 01:12:31,280
(BARKS)
1311
01:12:31,360 --> 01:12:32,880
TIMOTHY: She's not
that well trained.
1312
01:12:32,920 --> 01:12:34,400
She pissed on the carpet.
1313
01:12:36,200 --> 01:12:37,440
Why did you lie?
1314
01:12:37,480 --> 01:12:39,720
Hard conversations will be had...
1315
01:12:39,800 --> 01:12:41,480
Did you think
you would get away with it?
1316
01:12:41,520 --> 01:12:42,720
We're not rehashing.
1317
01:12:43,880 --> 01:12:48,440
..as they discuss plans
for life after the experiment.
1318
01:12:57,200 --> 01:13:00,000
I got the impression you were basic.
WOMAN: Yeah.
1319
01:13:01,280 --> 01:13:06,280
Tori comes face to face with some of
Jack's most beloved clients...
1320
01:13:06,360 --> 01:13:08,680
I've always kind of been, like,
one of the boys.
1321
01:13:08,760 --> 01:13:11,360
I feel like when I come across
a girl that only has guy friends,
1322
01:13:11,440 --> 01:13:14,080
it's usually because they're
sleeping with all the boys.
1323
01:13:15,920 --> 01:13:17,400
(RINGING TONE)
1324
01:13:17,440 --> 01:13:19,960
But a last-minute disappearing act
1325
01:13:20,040 --> 01:13:23,600
threatens to derail homestays
for Jayden.
1326
01:13:29,560 --> 01:13:31,200
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1327
01:13:35,920 --> 01:13:38,880
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