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Would you like to inspect the original subtitles? These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: 1 00:00:02,080 --> 00:00:06,760 NARRATOR: Australia's biggest social experiment is drawing to a close, 2 00:00:06,840 --> 00:00:12,600 with eight couples remaining and final vows just two weeks away. 3 00:00:15,920 --> 00:00:16,920 LAUREN: Bye. 4 00:00:17,000 --> 00:00:18,640 JONATHAN: Safe travels. Thank you. 5 00:00:18,720 --> 00:00:23,360 A medical procedure saw Lauren temporarily leave the experiment, 6 00:00:23,400 --> 00:00:26,400 before a fiery dinner party. 7 00:00:26,480 --> 00:00:31,160 I asked Jack, if he was with someone that was more his type, 8 00:00:31,240 --> 00:00:32,920 would he have slept with them by now? 9 00:00:32,960 --> 00:00:34,120 And he said, "Yes, probably." 10 00:00:34,160 --> 00:00:37,240 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 11 00:00:37,280 --> 00:00:38,600 Boom! 12 00:00:38,680 --> 00:00:41,800 Andrea and Richard's heartbreak continues... 13 00:00:41,880 --> 00:00:44,840 Some of the things that she said to me are very hurtful... 14 00:00:44,920 --> 00:00:47,600 ..as the couple fail to find common ground. 15 00:00:47,640 --> 00:00:49,000 (BANGS TABLE) Don't say that! 16 00:00:49,040 --> 00:00:52,280 Listen. Just try, please! 17 00:00:52,360 --> 00:00:56,120 But it was Lucinda and Timothy who stole the show... 18 00:00:56,160 --> 00:00:57,200 (EXPERTS EXCLAIM) 19 00:00:57,280 --> 00:00:59,880 ..as their romantic connections deepened. 20 00:01:02,280 --> 00:01:05,040 But the intensity of facing his feelings... 21 00:01:05,120 --> 00:01:10,800 TIMOTHY: I'm 51 years old and I've never really let anyone in. 22 00:01:10,840 --> 00:01:13,400 ..took an emotional toll on Timothy. 23 00:01:16,360 --> 00:01:17,440 (TIMOTHY CRIES) LUCINDA: Yeah. 24 00:01:19,640 --> 00:01:20,800 Tonight... 25 00:01:20,880 --> 00:01:24,240 JOHN: Stop. We're well over halfway in the experiment. 26 00:01:24,280 --> 00:01:26,360 I'm struggling to buy this. 27 00:01:26,440 --> 00:01:30,880 ..expert John can't hide his exasperation with Tori and Jack... 28 00:01:30,960 --> 00:01:33,200 JACK: Yeah, she makes me feel good. Oh, don't give me 'good'. 29 00:01:33,240 --> 00:01:36,280 ..as he demands only the truth. 30 00:01:36,320 --> 00:01:37,560 Tori, are you for real? 31 00:01:37,640 --> 00:01:39,200 Am I for real? Yes! 32 00:01:42,000 --> 00:01:44,480 We started somewhere very different. 33 00:01:44,560 --> 00:01:49,440 There won't be a dry eye in the room as Richard bares his soul. 34 00:01:49,520 --> 00:01:52,800 The core of my being. I can see it. I can sense it. 35 00:01:52,840 --> 00:01:54,200 When you know, you know. 36 00:01:54,240 --> 00:01:57,200 Richard, you look broken to me. 37 00:01:57,280 --> 00:02:00,880 Yeah, mate... I am pretty broken, yeah. 38 00:02:00,920 --> 00:02:02,800 (CRIES) 39 00:02:04,360 --> 00:02:06,600 Hope is on the horizon... 40 00:02:06,680 --> 00:02:10,080 I saw these two change. It was really nice. 41 00:02:10,160 --> 00:02:13,080 ..as the fight for true love continues. 42 00:02:13,160 --> 00:02:15,360 We have connected on a deeper level... 43 00:02:15,400 --> 00:02:17,080 It's brought us closer together. 44 00:02:17,160 --> 00:02:20,720 ..as Sara continues to win back Tim's trust. 45 00:02:20,760 --> 00:02:22,600 You've clearly, Sara, decided 46 00:02:22,680 --> 00:02:24,880 "I want to make this guy a priority." 47 00:02:24,920 --> 00:02:26,520 We see right through it. 48 00:02:26,600 --> 00:02:31,680 But when Jayden fires his shot at Sara, it backfires, 49 00:02:31,760 --> 00:02:35,280 exposing hidden cracks in his own marriage. 50 00:02:35,360 --> 00:02:38,080 She said, "If you don't say what I tell you to say, 51 00:02:38,160 --> 00:02:40,680 "I'm done with you and I'm leaving you." 52 00:02:40,760 --> 00:02:44,680 Are you starting to question whether this is the right person for you? 53 00:02:46,000 --> 00:02:47,320 Yeah. 54 00:02:48,800 --> 00:02:50,200 SARA: What? 55 00:02:51,720 --> 00:02:54,720 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 56 00:03:02,080 --> 00:03:05,920 It's the morning of the second-last commitment ceremony... 57 00:03:06,000 --> 00:03:07,720 Are you sure you don't want a smoothie? 58 00:03:07,760 --> 00:03:08,880 Got a cup of tea. 59 00:03:08,960 --> 00:03:11,600 ..and with the end of the experiment just around the corner 60 00:03:11,680 --> 00:03:15,400 as well as the all-important final vows ceremony, 61 00:03:15,440 --> 00:03:17,120 Ridge has made a massive step 62 00:03:17,200 --> 00:03:21,560 to take his wife Jade into new relationship territory... 63 00:03:21,600 --> 00:03:23,520 Yeah, like, it's really annoying. 64 00:03:23,600 --> 00:03:26,040 ..by letting Jade squeeze his pimples. 65 00:03:26,120 --> 00:03:28,280 (LAUGHS) Why are you taking deep breaths? 66 00:03:28,360 --> 00:03:29,880 Because I'm trying to breathe through the pain. 67 00:03:29,920 --> 00:03:31,440 (LAUGHS) 68 00:03:31,480 --> 00:03:32,920 Does it hurt? 69 00:03:33,000 --> 00:03:35,240 It does. Well, it doesn't tickle. (LAUGHS) 70 00:03:35,280 --> 00:03:36,600 On a scale of one to ten? 71 00:03:36,640 --> 00:03:38,440 Oh, look, what's ten? Death? 72 00:03:38,520 --> 00:03:40,240 (LAUGHS) Like, a three. 73 00:03:41,520 --> 00:03:43,840 Ridge and I are going good. 74 00:03:43,880 --> 00:03:46,240 We've had a really positive week 75 00:03:46,320 --> 00:03:51,960 and as a surprise the other day, Vi, my daughter, came to see us. 76 00:03:52,000 --> 00:03:54,440 Everything he was doing was so cute 77 00:03:54,520 --> 00:03:56,040 and she was really comfortable with him, 78 00:03:56,080 --> 00:03:57,840 which was really important to me. 79 00:04:00,280 --> 00:04:02,840 Yeah. All good. 80 00:04:04,320 --> 00:04:09,000 I feel like I wouldn't say I'm falling in love just yet 81 00:04:09,080 --> 00:04:12,440 but obviously I do really appreciate the effort he's going to 82 00:04:12,480 --> 00:04:15,400 with both myself and my daughter. 83 00:04:17,920 --> 00:04:21,960 One couple feeling confident after last night's dinner party 84 00:04:22,000 --> 00:04:23,720 is Sara and Tim. 85 00:04:23,800 --> 00:04:25,920 TIM: Dinner parties will be dinner parties... 86 00:04:26,000 --> 00:04:29,800 After defending their relationship as a united front, 87 00:04:29,880 --> 00:04:32,400 the couple are feeling closer than ever. 88 00:04:32,480 --> 00:04:35,000 SARA: I'm feeling good because me and you were a team. 89 00:04:35,080 --> 00:04:39,280 I'm thankful that I had you and I was happy with that. 90 00:04:39,360 --> 00:04:42,080 Obviously, the dinner party was really tough 91 00:04:42,160 --> 00:04:46,440 but it would've been a lot worse had Tim and I not been a united front. 92 00:04:46,520 --> 00:04:48,440 Did I have your back? You did. 93 00:04:48,520 --> 00:04:51,240 You did have my back. Yeah. 94 00:04:51,280 --> 00:04:52,760 Yeah. You were amazing. 95 00:04:52,800 --> 00:04:54,920 And, yeah, thank you for that. 96 00:04:54,960 --> 00:04:56,520 I do appreciate it. 97 00:04:56,560 --> 00:04:57,960 You're welcome. 98 00:04:58,040 --> 00:04:59,600 Obviously, throughout this experience, 99 00:04:59,640 --> 00:05:02,920 like, we haven't had the best time. 100 00:05:03,000 --> 00:05:07,880 You know, Tim was really upset when I emotionally cheated on him. 101 00:05:07,920 --> 00:05:11,480 We have done a huge turnaround. 102 00:05:11,560 --> 00:05:14,440 I feel like obviously we've had our conversations about trust 103 00:05:14,520 --> 00:05:15,840 and what we're gonna do moving forward 104 00:05:15,920 --> 00:05:17,440 and what I need to do moving forward. 105 00:05:17,480 --> 00:05:20,320 He knows that I've made a mistake 106 00:05:20,400 --> 00:05:23,120 and I think the only thing I can do tonight 107 00:05:23,160 --> 00:05:27,640 is show him how sincerely sorry I am 108 00:05:27,680 --> 00:05:29,560 and hear how he's feeling 109 00:05:29,640 --> 00:05:33,800 and I don't want to sit there and make excuses. 110 00:05:33,880 --> 00:05:36,800 I just really want to own it and make sure that he knows 111 00:05:36,880 --> 00:05:39,280 that I'm gonna do everything in my power to fight for it. 112 00:05:41,160 --> 00:05:44,560 Tori and Jack are entering the commitment ceremony tonight 113 00:05:44,600 --> 00:05:46,880 after a difficult feedback week, 114 00:05:46,960 --> 00:05:51,600 where their relationship was put under the microscope more than ever. 115 00:05:51,680 --> 00:05:55,080 Each and every week, there is a lot of noise that Jack and I face 116 00:05:55,120 --> 00:05:56,440 and I'm over it. 117 00:05:56,520 --> 00:05:59,120 And last night, after being grilled by the group 118 00:05:59,200 --> 00:06:01,760 for inconsistencies in their relationship, 119 00:06:01,800 --> 00:06:04,720 Tori shut down the conversation. 120 00:06:04,800 --> 00:06:07,000 I feel like we've spoken this to the (BLEEP) death. 121 00:06:07,080 --> 00:06:12,360 But our sex life, it's absolutely no-one's business 122 00:06:12,440 --> 00:06:14,840 and it's going to remain no-one's business. 123 00:06:14,880 --> 00:06:16,960 I will not speak on it. 124 00:06:17,000 --> 00:06:20,000 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 125 00:06:20,080 --> 00:06:23,600 And this morning, the couple are remaining defiant. 126 00:06:23,640 --> 00:06:25,040 Everyone's had their piece. 127 00:06:25,080 --> 00:06:26,840 Everyone's said their piece 128 00:06:26,920 --> 00:06:28,800 over and over and over and over and over again. 129 00:06:29,960 --> 00:06:32,400 The continuous questions about the same thing 130 00:06:32,440 --> 00:06:34,200 are becoming quite boring, 131 00:06:34,280 --> 00:06:38,440 so much so I prefer not to answer them, 'cause I'm over it. 132 00:06:38,520 --> 00:06:42,720 I feel like we've had to fight to be here, almost, every week. 133 00:06:42,800 --> 00:06:45,000 We've found our position in our relationship 134 00:06:45,080 --> 00:06:46,760 and then it's like we've had to team up 135 00:06:46,840 --> 00:06:48,560 and then get out there and survive. (LAUGHS) 136 00:06:48,600 --> 00:06:50,400 Yeah. 137 00:06:50,480 --> 00:06:52,360 And, hey, I think we've done a bloody good job. 138 00:06:52,400 --> 00:06:53,720 I think we've done a great job. 139 00:06:53,800 --> 00:06:57,080 In an ideal world, I want to sit on the couch, I want them to be, like, 140 00:06:57,160 --> 00:07:01,840 "OK, last night, Tori, you said your piece, you said what you said." 141 00:07:01,920 --> 00:07:04,480 "Good for you guys. Stay or leave?" 142 00:07:04,520 --> 00:07:07,040 (LAUGHS) That's, like, ideal. 143 00:07:07,120 --> 00:07:12,240 I just feel like we've earnt a really positive, boring... 144 00:07:12,280 --> 00:07:14,320 A night off from the heat. 145 00:07:14,360 --> 00:07:16,280 "Are you staying or are you going?" 146 00:07:16,360 --> 00:07:18,480 "Get off the couch." "Get off the couch." 147 00:07:18,520 --> 00:07:19,600 I would love that. 148 00:07:19,680 --> 00:07:21,800 Like, I'll even sit on the ottoman all night 149 00:07:21,880 --> 00:07:25,280 if it means we can have an easy couch session. 150 00:07:30,320 --> 00:07:34,480 Down the hall, in a shock turn of events, 151 00:07:34,560 --> 00:07:39,240 one of the experiment's strongest couples are at a gridlock. 152 00:07:39,280 --> 00:07:42,280 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 153 00:07:44,320 --> 00:07:46,640 EDEN: Honestly, I don't really want to talk to you. 154 00:07:48,960 --> 00:07:50,400 Thanks. 155 00:07:50,480 --> 00:07:53,520 On the drive home from the dinner party last night, 156 00:07:53,560 --> 00:07:55,560 Eden shared a rumour with Jayden 157 00:07:55,640 --> 00:08:01,160 that Sara and her ex were mocking Tim behind his back when they met up. 158 00:08:01,240 --> 00:08:05,480 Apparently, Sara, she's been saying some nasty things. 159 00:08:05,560 --> 00:08:08,320 She and her ex were sort of laughing and having a joke about Tim, 160 00:08:08,400 --> 00:08:10,600 saying things like "He's not the right one for you. 161 00:08:10,640 --> 00:08:11,640 "He's not man enough." 162 00:08:11,680 --> 00:08:13,000 Tim is one of my close friends 163 00:08:13,080 --> 00:08:16,600 and tonight I think he deserves to know the truth. 164 00:08:16,680 --> 00:08:20,800 But this morning, Eden and Jayden have had a huge argument 165 00:08:20,880 --> 00:08:23,080 over whether to reveal this information 166 00:08:23,120 --> 00:08:25,400 at tonight's commitment ceremony 167 00:08:25,480 --> 00:08:31,040 and an anxious Eden has given her husband a surprising ultimatum. 168 00:08:32,080 --> 00:08:34,080 Eden, you know, she's... 169 00:08:34,160 --> 00:08:37,640 Yeah, she doesn't like confrontation. 170 00:08:37,720 --> 00:08:39,760 She doesn't want anyone else to know what's going on 171 00:08:39,840 --> 00:08:42,720 and she said, "If you're gonna tell that story, 172 00:08:42,760 --> 00:08:45,400 "I'm done with you and I'm leaving," 173 00:08:45,480 --> 00:08:48,720 so she's threatening to leave me and leave the experiment 174 00:08:48,760 --> 00:08:52,320 and I don't really know what to do. 175 00:08:52,400 --> 00:08:54,640 Honestly, I don't need to go in circles. 176 00:08:54,720 --> 00:08:56,160 This conversation's going in circles. 177 00:08:56,200 --> 00:08:58,080 Sweet. 178 00:08:59,640 --> 00:09:02,520 EDEN: The issues with Sara and Tim have given me a lot of anxiety 179 00:09:02,560 --> 00:09:04,560 and a lot of heightened emotions. 180 00:09:04,640 --> 00:09:08,600 Having information you don't want, like, it's all pretty exhausting 181 00:09:08,640 --> 00:09:11,640 and also, Sara's pretty full-on, 182 00:09:11,720 --> 00:09:15,120 so it's not the most approachable conversation to have. 183 00:09:16,400 --> 00:09:19,640 So, yeah, it does make me feel pretty uncomfortable. 184 00:09:19,720 --> 00:09:23,560 This isn't the first time Eden has struggled emotionally 185 00:09:23,600 --> 00:09:25,800 in the experiment. 186 00:09:25,840 --> 00:09:28,320 There are big, feisty characters... 187 00:09:28,400 --> 00:09:30,360 (JACK ARGUES INDISTINCTLY) Jack! Jack! 188 00:09:30,440 --> 00:09:32,720 ..and, you know, I don't like all the drama. 189 00:09:32,760 --> 00:09:34,600 I'm done with this. 190 00:09:34,640 --> 00:09:36,400 EDEN: It's making me feel anxious. 191 00:09:37,720 --> 00:09:39,640 Yeah, it's probably been the hardest week for me 192 00:09:39,680 --> 00:09:40,800 in the experiment so far. 193 00:09:40,880 --> 00:09:42,800 MEL: What made it so difficult for you, Eden? 194 00:09:42,880 --> 00:09:45,920 Obviously, the whole 'messages from Sara' situation. 195 00:09:45,960 --> 00:09:48,640 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 196 00:09:48,720 --> 00:09:51,960 NARRATOR: And Jayden is concerned the pressure Eden is feeling 197 00:09:52,040 --> 00:09:55,960 is taking its toll on their relationship. 198 00:09:57,040 --> 00:10:01,920 It's just been a very hard week, couple of weeks, really, with Eden. 199 00:10:02,000 --> 00:10:04,280 It's getting to the pointy end of the experiment now. 200 00:10:04,360 --> 00:10:07,840 I might not always be the best partner 201 00:10:07,920 --> 00:10:12,080 but I feel like a lot of the time she's taking her stress out on me. 202 00:10:12,160 --> 00:10:14,200 I feel like, I don't know, there's a lot of things 203 00:10:14,280 --> 00:10:17,240 I want to tell the experts and I want to ask and get some advice on. 204 00:10:17,320 --> 00:10:19,520 I feel like we just need to give them everything, 205 00:10:19,560 --> 00:10:21,400 because at the moment, 206 00:10:21,480 --> 00:10:25,280 yeah, it doesn't seem to be working, what I'm doing. 207 00:10:32,000 --> 00:10:35,000 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 208 00:10:50,880 --> 00:10:52,920 Greetings, gents. TRISTAN: Evening. 209 00:10:53,000 --> 00:10:54,000 Evening. MEL: Hello, guys. 210 00:10:54,040 --> 00:10:55,120 ALESSANDRA: Hi. 211 00:10:55,160 --> 00:10:57,040 Grab a seat. Settle in. 212 00:10:57,080 --> 00:11:00,080 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 213 00:11:08,320 --> 00:11:10,040 Hello, ladies. Hi. 214 00:11:10,120 --> 00:11:11,640 Hi. Welcome, ladies. 215 00:11:11,680 --> 00:11:13,440 Come and sit down. 216 00:11:16,760 --> 00:11:18,240 TORI: Howdy. 217 00:11:20,000 --> 00:11:21,680 (ANDREA EXHALES) 218 00:11:32,920 --> 00:11:37,080 Hello, everyone, and welcome to our commitment ceremony tonight. 219 00:11:37,160 --> 00:11:42,240 Very excited to see all of you after having gone through feedback week. 220 00:11:42,320 --> 00:11:46,480 MEL: And, of course, the first dinner party after feedback week 221 00:11:46,520 --> 00:11:48,120 is always a big one. 222 00:11:50,080 --> 00:11:51,680 You know, you're fresh off the back 223 00:11:51,760 --> 00:11:55,920 of receiving sometimes some pretty tricky feedback from your peers 224 00:11:56,000 --> 00:11:59,280 and you come face-to-face with them at the dinner party. 225 00:11:59,360 --> 00:12:04,160 Yes, the dinner party last night certainly had plenty of fireworks. 226 00:12:04,240 --> 00:12:09,680 It was emotionally charged, people got a lot of things off their chest. 227 00:12:09,760 --> 00:12:13,000 Some people didn't want to talk about things. 228 00:12:14,040 --> 00:12:17,480 Tonight, however, you're not gonna have that luxury 229 00:12:17,560 --> 00:12:20,400 because at this stage of the experiment, 230 00:12:20,480 --> 00:12:23,720 we want to know what's going on in your relationship 231 00:12:23,800 --> 00:12:26,800 and what your thoughts are about the future 232 00:12:26,880 --> 00:12:31,120 and I'm looking forward to a lot of growth tonight. 233 00:12:32,480 --> 00:12:35,200 So, let's get our first couple up on the couch. 234 00:12:35,240 --> 00:12:38,240 (TENSE MUSIC) 235 00:12:40,400 --> 00:12:41,400 Sara and Tim. 236 00:12:41,480 --> 00:12:44,440 (APPLAUSE) (BRIGHT MUSIC) 237 00:12:47,440 --> 00:12:48,600 TIM: Hey, guys. 238 00:12:51,080 --> 00:12:54,360 Right, you two. Well, we saw you last week on the couch... 239 00:12:54,400 --> 00:12:55,600 SARA: Yes. 240 00:12:55,680 --> 00:12:58,720 ..and it was uncomfortable, to say the least. 241 00:12:59,960 --> 00:13:05,560 Now, what became clear was that there was a betrayal that had gone on. 242 00:13:05,600 --> 00:13:08,600 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 243 00:13:08,680 --> 00:13:14,160 What I want to know now is where you're at. 244 00:13:15,440 --> 00:13:18,560 Well, I think that, yeah, 245 00:13:18,640 --> 00:13:22,800 it was a pretty miserable couch session for us last session. 246 00:13:25,120 --> 00:13:31,080 I made the decision to be open to letting Sara make it up to me... 247 00:13:32,680 --> 00:13:36,240 and I feel like I saw a very different side to Sara 248 00:13:36,320 --> 00:13:40,200 than I have since the start of the experiment. 249 00:13:42,480 --> 00:13:45,120 She's been very warm, very affectionate. 250 00:13:45,200 --> 00:13:50,040 I just feel like she's been kind of just, like, appreciative of me. 251 00:13:54,600 --> 00:13:56,000 Well said. 252 00:13:58,240 --> 00:14:00,640 What do you say that, Sara? 253 00:14:00,720 --> 00:14:03,960 I think I did nitpick a lot at the beginning, 254 00:14:04,000 --> 00:14:06,520 kind of envisioned what a perfect... 255 00:14:06,560 --> 00:14:09,040 what my perfect match could be 256 00:14:09,120 --> 00:14:12,360 and made Tim feel like he wasn't necessarily valued 257 00:14:12,440 --> 00:14:14,720 in everything that he actually does bring to the table. 258 00:14:16,200 --> 00:14:20,600 But, like, as shitty as this has all been, obviously, 259 00:14:20,640 --> 00:14:22,360 and obviously more so for Tim, 260 00:14:22,440 --> 00:14:26,760 it's, in a weird way, brought us closer together. 261 00:14:28,120 --> 00:14:32,560 I know that obviously the trust is not 100% there. 262 00:14:32,600 --> 00:14:34,040 Can I say something, actually? 263 00:14:35,560 --> 00:14:37,200 I... 264 00:14:37,280 --> 00:14:41,920 I'm deeply sorry and I know that just saying sorry is not enough. 265 00:14:42,000 --> 00:14:47,000 Hanging out with a past partner who I had feelings for, 266 00:14:47,080 --> 00:14:51,240 like, I knew that it was wrong and I still did it anyways. 267 00:14:51,320 --> 00:14:55,680 I know that I've done wrong and I'm deeply sorry, 268 00:14:55,720 --> 00:14:57,680 so I hope you accept my apology. 269 00:15:01,480 --> 00:15:02,800 (LAUGHS) 270 00:15:02,880 --> 00:15:05,200 How do you see yourselves moving forward now? 271 00:15:05,240 --> 00:15:06,440 Tim? 272 00:15:06,520 --> 00:15:08,320 I need her to keep doing what she's doing. 273 00:15:08,400 --> 00:15:10,000 It feels like we have made a breakthrough. 274 00:15:10,040 --> 00:15:14,800 If she keeps that trajectory going, 275 00:15:14,880 --> 00:15:17,240 then I feel like I'll feel much more comfortable 276 00:15:17,280 --> 00:15:19,360 in being able to trust her again. 277 00:15:26,320 --> 00:15:27,440 I don't know. 278 00:15:27,520 --> 00:15:33,480 I never, ever thought that an experiment like this 279 00:15:33,520 --> 00:15:35,360 could really work, 280 00:15:35,440 --> 00:15:38,880 but this really forces you to kind of come together 281 00:15:38,920 --> 00:15:41,080 in a crazy way. 282 00:15:41,160 --> 00:15:43,840 (ALESSANDRA LAUGHS) MEL: Thank you. 283 00:15:43,920 --> 00:15:46,360 SARA: (LAUGHS) Well, thank you. Honestly. 284 00:15:46,400 --> 00:15:47,720 (LUCINDA LAUGHS) 285 00:15:50,800 --> 00:15:54,520 The body language between you two is very different. 286 00:15:54,560 --> 00:15:56,040 (BOTH LAUGH) 287 00:15:56,080 --> 00:15:58,880 (SCOFFS) Ugh. 288 00:15:58,920 --> 00:16:00,960 We see right through it. 289 00:16:02,520 --> 00:16:04,440 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 290 00:16:04,480 --> 00:16:06,240 We see right through her fake act, 291 00:16:06,320 --> 00:16:09,160 pretending to like Tim when she doesn't like Tim at all. 292 00:16:09,240 --> 00:16:12,000 She just wants to stay here to save her image. 293 00:16:12,080 --> 00:16:14,680 She has made that very clear through her actions and through her words. 294 00:16:17,920 --> 00:16:20,800 The act of going out with the ex, that was the icing on the cake. 295 00:16:20,880 --> 00:16:24,880 But then all I'm hearing is how she's constantly putting Tim down... 296 00:16:26,320 --> 00:16:29,240 and how her and the ex-partner were making fun of Tim 297 00:16:29,320 --> 00:16:30,600 that night when they were out together. 298 00:16:33,320 --> 00:16:35,880 That's not true. That is not true. 299 00:16:35,920 --> 00:16:37,480 And you do not know that either. 300 00:16:39,560 --> 00:16:42,160 She just told me and she knows exactly what was said. 301 00:16:46,040 --> 00:16:48,080 EDEN: Well, I... That's not... That's not what I said. 302 00:16:48,160 --> 00:16:50,800 That's what you told me. They were making fun of Tim. 303 00:16:50,880 --> 00:16:52,560 Yeah, but not that night... I don't know... 304 00:16:52,640 --> 00:16:54,320 I wasn't there that night. OK, there were others... 305 00:16:54,400 --> 00:16:56,240 Her and the ex-partner were making fun of Tim. 306 00:16:56,280 --> 00:16:58,640 That's not what happened. 307 00:16:58,720 --> 00:17:01,280 Again, I don't have any proof of that, so it is what it is. 308 00:17:01,360 --> 00:17:04,160 OK. So, what is it that you told me, then, about her and the ex? 309 00:17:04,240 --> 00:17:05,920 I don't need to go into any more detail. 310 00:17:06,000 --> 00:17:07,760 Well, then, if you don't have the full details, 311 00:17:07,840 --> 00:17:10,000 then it's probably not worth bringing it up and telling me. 312 00:17:12,440 --> 00:17:13,600 (SIGHS) 313 00:17:17,240 --> 00:17:20,240 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 314 00:17:22,040 --> 00:17:24,560 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 315 00:17:24,640 --> 00:17:27,080 What was it that you told me, then, about her and the ex? 316 00:17:27,160 --> 00:17:29,000 EDEN: I don't need to go into any more detail. 317 00:17:29,080 --> 00:17:30,880 OK, well, if you don't have the full details, 318 00:17:30,960 --> 00:17:33,240 then it's probably not worth bringing it up and telling me. 319 00:17:36,080 --> 00:17:39,360 There's no point in saying it because there's no proof. 320 00:17:39,440 --> 00:17:42,160 Where did you see or hear it from? Sara. 321 00:17:42,240 --> 00:17:45,400 She said it to you or she showed you it? 322 00:17:45,440 --> 00:17:47,880 Uh... I think she said it. 323 00:17:47,960 --> 00:17:49,120 No... And what did she say? 324 00:17:49,200 --> 00:17:50,960 There's no point 'cause I don't have any proof, 325 00:17:51,000 --> 00:17:52,520 so I just want to drop that, please. 326 00:17:52,600 --> 00:17:55,480 Well, if you don't have any proof, why would you say it to me? 327 00:17:55,520 --> 00:17:59,360 (TENSE MUSIC) 328 00:17:59,400 --> 00:18:01,120 'Cause I didn't like it. 329 00:18:02,960 --> 00:18:05,480 Well, I didn't like it either but you did say something along... 330 00:18:05,560 --> 00:18:07,320 Yeah. I mean, she's spoken badly about Tim. 331 00:18:07,360 --> 00:18:09,160 That's the bottom line. 332 00:18:10,240 --> 00:18:14,000 No. That's not what happened. 333 00:18:15,480 --> 00:18:17,640 I just don't want to be involved anymore. 334 00:18:17,680 --> 00:18:21,080 (TENSE MUSIC) 335 00:18:26,000 --> 00:18:29,880 Jayden, you have to let people have a chance. 336 00:18:29,920 --> 00:18:31,120 We are all doing it differently 337 00:18:31,200 --> 00:18:33,280 and we're all just doing the best that we can here. 338 00:18:35,000 --> 00:18:38,840 We're not all as lucky as you and Eden or Jack and Tori 339 00:18:38,880 --> 00:18:40,520 or Jade and Ridge, 340 00:18:40,560 --> 00:18:42,520 who have gotten paired with people 341 00:18:42,600 --> 00:18:44,800 who have just gotten on like a house on fire. 342 00:18:51,280 --> 00:18:53,280 Some of us actually have to go through struggles 343 00:18:53,320 --> 00:18:54,600 to get to this point, 344 00:18:54,640 --> 00:18:57,800 so it's not just black-and-white. 345 00:18:59,360 --> 00:19:00,680 It's hardship. 346 00:19:01,880 --> 00:19:04,880 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 347 00:19:07,400 --> 00:19:12,240 These guys are feeling like the group is against them 348 00:19:12,320 --> 00:19:16,480 and, yes, we've got specific evidence of a betrayal 349 00:19:16,520 --> 00:19:18,000 that happened with the ex 350 00:19:18,080 --> 00:19:21,400 but outside of that, we've got two people 351 00:19:21,440 --> 00:19:25,040 that are just trying to get along. 352 00:19:25,080 --> 00:19:26,200 RICHARD: Yep. Yep. 353 00:19:26,280 --> 00:19:28,480 That's what I'd say. LUCINDA: Absolutely. 354 00:19:28,560 --> 00:19:33,240 Sara's acknowledged she did the wrong thing catching up with an ex 355 00:19:33,280 --> 00:19:34,480 amongst friends 356 00:19:34,520 --> 00:19:38,040 and has apologised profusely. 357 00:19:38,080 --> 00:19:39,480 I saw these two change. 358 00:19:39,560 --> 00:19:43,320 I've spent more time with them than anyone present here 359 00:19:43,360 --> 00:19:45,480 and I saw the change in them. 360 00:19:45,560 --> 00:19:49,120 I saw them on the weekend. They were giddy. 361 00:19:49,200 --> 00:19:53,080 It made me feel sick. Like, 'cause it was really nice. 362 00:19:53,120 --> 00:19:55,840 Something really did change. 363 00:19:57,320 --> 00:19:58,960 Well, Tim, if we go to you now, 364 00:19:59,040 --> 00:20:01,680 Jayden said something there about the betrayal 365 00:20:01,760 --> 00:20:04,960 around seeing the ex behind your back. 366 00:20:05,040 --> 00:20:09,040 Now you've had a week to rebuild your relationship. 367 00:20:09,120 --> 00:20:12,000 How are you feeling about this woman beside you 368 00:20:12,080 --> 00:20:13,600 and about your relationship right now? 369 00:20:15,880 --> 00:20:18,200 Look, to be honest, I've still got confused... 370 00:20:18,240 --> 00:20:19,680 I'm still confused. 371 00:20:19,720 --> 00:20:21,240 I've got conflicting emotions 372 00:20:21,320 --> 00:20:26,720 but after this last sort of, like, five to six days... 373 00:20:27,880 --> 00:20:32,440 if she keeps that trajectory going, 374 00:20:32,520 --> 00:20:34,840 then I feel like I'll feel much more comfortable 375 00:20:34,880 --> 00:20:36,560 in being able to trust her again. 376 00:20:38,040 --> 00:20:41,480 Well, let's go to the decision. Stay or leave? 377 00:20:41,560 --> 00:20:44,040 And we're gonna go with you first, Sara. 378 00:20:44,080 --> 00:20:48,080 Well, it's been a journey 379 00:20:48,160 --> 00:20:51,440 and I still really, really want to make it up to Tim 380 00:20:51,520 --> 00:20:55,640 and I also kind of want to prove everybody wrong as well... 381 00:20:58,640 --> 00:21:00,040 so I'm staying. 382 00:21:00,120 --> 00:21:01,280 'Stay' it is. (APPLAUSE) 383 00:21:01,320 --> 00:21:03,480 Gotcha. 384 00:21:03,520 --> 00:21:06,240 And for you, Tim? 385 00:21:06,280 --> 00:21:07,400 Mmm. 386 00:21:07,480 --> 00:21:09,640 I'm gonna stay. (APPLAUSE) 387 00:21:13,440 --> 00:21:15,280 You know what's interesting there, 388 00:21:15,360 --> 00:21:20,120 is that in this experiment, when one says stay and the other says leave, 389 00:21:20,160 --> 00:21:21,760 you do have a week to turn it around 390 00:21:21,840 --> 00:21:26,720 and time and time again, we do see couples who commit that can do it, 391 00:21:26,800 --> 00:21:31,680 so that is absolutely one of the key drivers as to why we do this. 392 00:21:32,960 --> 00:21:35,800 It exposes your intentions. 393 00:21:35,880 --> 00:21:41,840 And you've clearly, Sara, decided "I want to make this guy a priority." 394 00:21:41,880 --> 00:21:44,160 Well, I can't emphasise enough 395 00:21:44,240 --> 00:21:49,480 that you've gotta keep doing this heavy lifting, because it's working. 396 00:21:49,560 --> 00:21:51,400 If something's working, keep doing it. 397 00:21:51,440 --> 00:21:52,680 Yeah. 398 00:21:52,760 --> 00:21:54,520 We'll see you next time. Well done, guys. 399 00:21:54,600 --> 00:21:56,560 Thank you. Thanks, guys. 400 00:21:56,600 --> 00:21:57,720 Appreciate it. 401 00:21:57,760 --> 00:22:00,080 (APPLAUSE) 402 00:22:02,800 --> 00:22:06,560 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 403 00:22:06,640 --> 00:22:08,920 ALESSANDRA: Our next couple up on the couch... 404 00:22:16,120 --> 00:22:18,160 Lucinda and Timothy. 405 00:22:18,240 --> 00:22:20,240 Nice. (APPLAUSE) 406 00:22:22,040 --> 00:22:24,040 I just whispered to Tim, I said, 407 00:22:24,120 --> 00:22:27,040 "And next on the couch is Lucinda and Timothy." 408 00:22:27,120 --> 00:22:28,680 MEL: Oh! (LAUGHTER) 409 00:22:28,760 --> 00:22:33,840 First things first, I wanted to get into what we saw at the dinner party. 410 00:22:33,880 --> 00:22:35,600 (LAUGHS) Yeah. 411 00:22:35,680 --> 00:22:37,520 Last night, there was... It shocked me. 412 00:22:37,600 --> 00:22:39,880 There was a shock kiss... MEL: There was a kiss! 413 00:22:39,960 --> 00:22:42,240 ..that I want to get into. (LAUGHS) Oh, yep. 414 00:22:42,320 --> 00:22:44,440 What was that? It surprised me too. 415 00:22:44,480 --> 00:22:45,720 (LAUGHS) 416 00:22:45,760 --> 00:22:48,720 What happened there? Tell us. 417 00:22:48,800 --> 00:22:51,240 Well, I mean, I think I had a proud moment 418 00:22:51,280 --> 00:22:52,680 where I just couldn't hold back 419 00:22:52,720 --> 00:22:54,040 and I kissed him on the cheek. 420 00:22:54,120 --> 00:22:57,880 I just, you know... I was just proud of him, I don't know. 421 00:22:57,960 --> 00:22:59,800 And then, yeah, you just turned around and... 422 00:22:59,880 --> 00:23:02,440 And then you just couldn't help yourself, Timothy. 423 00:23:02,480 --> 00:23:04,160 (OTHERS LAUGH) 424 00:23:05,360 --> 00:23:07,520 Look, Lucinda was... You know, she was great. 425 00:23:07,560 --> 00:23:11,680 And it felt right. 426 00:23:11,760 --> 00:23:13,680 (OTHERS LAUGH) (APPLAUSE) 427 00:23:13,720 --> 00:23:15,280 EDEN: Yay! 428 00:23:16,400 --> 00:23:17,600 (WOLF WHISTLE) 429 00:23:19,360 --> 00:23:22,920 Timothy, I know that you were very emotional after that. 430 00:23:24,120 --> 00:23:26,960 Can you walk us through what happened? 431 00:23:27,040 --> 00:23:29,400 Jeez, you're starting... You're starting pretty rough, eh? 432 00:23:29,440 --> 00:23:30,800 Um... 433 00:23:30,840 --> 00:23:33,480 I mean, Lu is... 434 00:23:33,520 --> 00:23:35,520 She's as patient as hell 435 00:23:35,600 --> 00:23:39,440 because, you know, the first, I'd say, you know, 436 00:23:39,520 --> 00:23:45,720 half the experiment, I wasn't the easiest to, you know...to be with. 437 00:23:45,800 --> 00:23:49,440 This whole time, I've been closed off. 438 00:23:52,360 --> 00:23:55,560 And then, when we kissed, 439 00:23:55,600 --> 00:23:59,480 I realised that I'm 51 years old 440 00:23:59,520 --> 00:24:03,160 and I've never really let anyone in 441 00:24:03,240 --> 00:24:07,280 and I thought to myself, "I've wasted those years." 442 00:24:08,560 --> 00:24:11,360 Yeah, it just got the best of me. 443 00:24:12,800 --> 00:24:18,240 Yeah. My... My emotions got the best of me, yeah. 444 00:24:20,160 --> 00:24:22,600 I think for the first part of the experiment... 445 00:24:22,680 --> 00:24:28,000 I sort of feel I might have skated by on a bit of humour 446 00:24:28,080 --> 00:24:33,760 and as it's gone on, it's gotten a little bit, you know, tougher 447 00:24:33,800 --> 00:24:36,480 in other ways for...for me. 448 00:24:36,520 --> 00:24:38,120 Yeah. 449 00:24:38,200 --> 00:24:40,640 So, allowing yourself to be vulnerable, 450 00:24:40,720 --> 00:24:43,600 is this something you're just now starting to experience? 451 00:24:43,640 --> 00:24:45,600 Very much so. Yeah. Yeah. 452 00:24:46,640 --> 00:24:50,160 That... That emotional side, I look at it as... 453 00:24:51,720 --> 00:24:53,360 Maybe it's a stupid way of looking at it 454 00:24:53,440 --> 00:24:55,680 but I look at it as kind of like a weakness. 455 00:24:55,720 --> 00:24:57,880 Is that what you were taught? 456 00:24:57,920 --> 00:24:59,320 Yeah. 457 00:24:59,400 --> 00:25:02,840 Reason I ask this is because in Latino culture, in my culture, 458 00:25:02,880 --> 00:25:04,760 it is very much that way... 459 00:25:07,000 --> 00:25:09,640 and really, it's interesting 460 00:25:09,720 --> 00:25:12,680 because there's so much about my experience here 461 00:25:12,720 --> 00:25:14,360 professionally in Australia 462 00:25:14,400 --> 00:25:16,120 and trying to understand culture 463 00:25:16,160 --> 00:25:18,400 and so many things are different 464 00:25:18,480 --> 00:25:20,200 but some things are very, very similar. 465 00:25:20,280 --> 00:25:26,200 And this thing with men and holding back feelings... 466 00:25:29,160 --> 00:25:32,280 and not expressing emotions so easily 467 00:25:32,360 --> 00:25:37,720 and holding yourself to such rigid restraints and barriers 468 00:25:37,800 --> 00:25:42,320 is very similar to what I see back home. 469 00:25:42,400 --> 00:25:46,760 But I have to say, I think I am 100% convinced 470 00:25:46,800 --> 00:25:48,640 that vulnerability is a superpower. 471 00:25:48,720 --> 00:25:50,520 (CLICKS FINGERS) It makes you strong... 472 00:25:50,600 --> 00:25:52,360 I so agree. ..and brave and courageous. 473 00:25:57,920 --> 00:26:01,400 Timothy, when was the last time in general, 474 00:26:01,440 --> 00:26:02,800 like, aside from last night... 475 00:26:02,880 --> 00:26:06,800 When was the last time that you felt emotional and cried like that? 476 00:26:11,160 --> 00:26:12,480 Outside of, you know, 477 00:26:12,560 --> 00:26:15,600 the circumstances of a couple of months ago, like, years. 478 00:26:15,640 --> 00:26:18,040 I just... I just don't do it. 479 00:26:18,120 --> 00:26:21,320 Or... And if I did do it, I wouldn't... 480 00:26:21,400 --> 00:26:23,400 Nobody would... Ever know. 481 00:26:23,440 --> 00:26:25,040 Nobody would ever know. Yeah. 482 00:26:26,360 --> 00:26:27,520 OK. 483 00:26:28,960 --> 00:26:32,520 So, I wonder... I know Lucinda came to you and... 484 00:26:32,600 --> 00:26:34,760 Yeah. ..was with you. 485 00:26:34,840 --> 00:26:37,640 What was that experience like, to be able to have her there 486 00:26:37,720 --> 00:26:42,160 and kind of hold space for you and allow you to express yourself? 487 00:26:42,240 --> 00:26:47,240 Yeah, you know, she... she really helped me last night. 488 00:26:47,280 --> 00:26:48,640 Yeah. Yeah. 489 00:26:48,680 --> 00:26:51,640 And, yeah, it was... 490 00:26:51,680 --> 00:26:54,440 It was... It was really nice. 491 00:26:54,480 --> 00:26:56,920 Yeah. Yeah. 492 00:26:58,320 --> 00:26:59,800 Yeah. 493 00:27:07,920 --> 00:27:11,880 Lucinda, listening to Tim speak 494 00:27:11,960 --> 00:27:16,320 here in front of all of us so openly about this experience, 495 00:27:16,360 --> 00:27:17,520 how does that make you feel? 496 00:27:17,600 --> 00:27:22,520 Yeah, I just really hear Tim and how hard it is for him 497 00:27:22,600 --> 00:27:27,200 and it's just awesome to see the walls crumble 498 00:27:27,280 --> 00:27:30,640 and his tenderness, his tender heart. 499 00:27:30,680 --> 00:27:33,120 I love it. 500 00:27:33,160 --> 00:27:36,000 So, let me ask you this, Lucinda. 501 00:27:36,040 --> 00:27:38,920 Do you feel admiration for Timothy? 502 00:27:39,000 --> 00:27:42,040 Absolutely. Absolutely. 503 00:27:42,080 --> 00:27:43,720 So much admiration. 504 00:27:43,760 --> 00:27:45,560 Do you feel admiration for Lucinda? 505 00:27:45,600 --> 00:27:46,840 100%. 506 00:27:48,000 --> 00:27:50,920 You do know admiration is the gateway to love? 507 00:27:52,040 --> 00:27:54,920 Good to know. I didn't know that. 508 00:27:55,000 --> 00:27:58,040 And it's really interesting because you've been very adamant, Timothy, 509 00:27:58,080 --> 00:27:59,800 from the beginning of this experiment 510 00:27:59,840 --> 00:28:02,040 that you're a slow-burn man... 511 00:28:02,120 --> 00:28:03,160 Oh... (LAUGHTER) 512 00:28:03,240 --> 00:28:05,120 ..but... Yeah. 513 00:28:05,160 --> 00:28:06,440 ..I'm observing you here now. 514 00:28:06,520 --> 00:28:09,600 The dynamic is so drastically different 515 00:28:09,640 --> 00:28:11,280 and it's so lovely to observe 516 00:28:11,320 --> 00:28:13,960 and then you topped it off yesterday 517 00:28:14,040 --> 00:28:17,400 with just, you know, that cute little spontaneous kiss... 518 00:28:17,440 --> 00:28:18,440 Yeah. 519 00:28:18,520 --> 00:28:21,280 ..and I wonder, how do you feel towards Lucinda, Timothy? 520 00:28:27,000 --> 00:28:30,800 Yeah, look, what happened last night, 521 00:28:30,880 --> 00:28:33,000 I don't know whether it throws a spanner in the works 522 00:28:33,040 --> 00:28:35,600 but it...it's unexpected. 523 00:28:35,640 --> 00:28:38,400 Which bit? Kiss or the crying? 524 00:28:38,480 --> 00:28:40,560 Well, the whole thing. Yeah. 525 00:28:40,640 --> 00:28:42,120 I've just gotta wrap my head around it. 526 00:28:42,200 --> 00:28:43,320 Yeah. Yeah. 527 00:28:43,360 --> 00:28:45,880 But it feels really good. Yeah. 528 00:28:52,040 --> 00:28:55,080 OK, so I think we should go to the decision, you guys. 529 00:28:55,120 --> 00:28:56,200 Mm-hm. 530 00:28:56,240 --> 00:28:57,960 Timothy, you go first. 531 00:28:58,000 --> 00:28:59,520 Stay or leave? 532 00:29:02,320 --> 00:29:03,640 I just want to... 533 00:29:03,720 --> 00:29:06,680 You know, I really appreciate what you did. 534 00:29:08,280 --> 00:29:09,480 Yeah. 535 00:29:09,520 --> 00:29:12,280 So, yeah, I've... 536 00:29:12,320 --> 00:29:15,320 I've said 'stay'. 537 00:29:15,400 --> 00:29:16,960 (APPLAUSE) With a smile. 538 00:29:17,000 --> 00:29:18,360 With a smile. 539 00:29:19,520 --> 00:29:20,520 Lucinda? 540 00:29:21,720 --> 00:29:24,400 Yeah, I'm just, you know, here, 541 00:29:24,480 --> 00:29:28,560 loving the...I don't know, unravelling of Tim, 542 00:29:28,600 --> 00:29:30,160 so, yeah, it's staying, 543 00:29:30,240 --> 00:29:32,640 with two balloons just bobbing in the wind... 544 00:29:32,680 --> 00:29:33,680 (APPLAUSE) 545 00:29:33,760 --> 00:29:35,000 ..celebrating each other and ourselves. 546 00:29:37,800 --> 00:29:43,120 We are absolutely loving the connection that is literally palpable 547 00:29:43,200 --> 00:29:46,840 and I am very proud of seeing that you're allowing yourself 548 00:29:46,920 --> 00:29:51,960 to feel your emotions and to feel safe with Lucinda... 549 00:29:52,040 --> 00:29:54,880 makes me personally and I know all of us very, very happy. 550 00:29:54,960 --> 00:29:57,680 We're proud of you too, Papa. You're the vibe. 551 00:29:57,760 --> 00:30:00,320 Well done, big fella. Well done! Well done! 552 00:30:00,400 --> 00:30:02,320 (APPLAUSE) Thank you so much, you guys. 553 00:30:02,400 --> 00:30:04,240 You can go back to the couch. Thanks, guys. 554 00:30:04,320 --> 00:30:06,920 Have a great week. Thank you. Thanks, everyone. 555 00:30:15,280 --> 00:30:16,520 NARRATOR: Coming up... 556 00:30:16,560 --> 00:30:18,600 Tonight, you are going to open up. 557 00:30:18,680 --> 00:30:22,000 ..expert John makes his frustration clear with Jack. 558 00:30:22,080 --> 00:30:26,240 I need to know how you feel about Tori, 'cause I'm not buying it. 559 00:30:26,320 --> 00:30:31,200 Then the fairytale romance at breaking point. 560 00:30:31,280 --> 00:30:34,600 I don't know if Eden is everything that I thought. 561 00:30:35,880 --> 00:30:37,240 Are you good? Oh... 562 00:30:42,040 --> 00:30:45,040 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 563 00:30:47,360 --> 00:30:49,880 And next up on the couch... 564 00:30:53,760 --> 00:30:54,840 is Johnno. 565 00:30:54,880 --> 00:30:57,080 TRISTAN: Oh, Johnno! 566 00:30:57,120 --> 00:30:58,680 WOMAN: (CHANTS) Johnno! Johnno! 567 00:30:58,760 --> 00:31:00,640 Quite the round of applause there for you, Johnno. 568 00:31:00,720 --> 00:31:02,480 I think it's 'cause I'm all by myself. 569 00:31:02,560 --> 00:31:05,720 Oh, well, welcome to the couch solo. Thank you. 570 00:31:05,800 --> 00:31:08,960 How is Lauren? Lauren is good. 571 00:31:09,000 --> 00:31:10,160 She's out of hospital. 572 00:31:10,240 --> 00:31:12,560 She's back at home and feeling better. 573 00:31:12,640 --> 00:31:15,960 The operation was a success. Great. 574 00:31:16,000 --> 00:31:18,120 And now she's home resting, so... 575 00:31:18,200 --> 00:31:22,440 It's been very quiet without her around. 576 00:31:22,480 --> 00:31:23,880 I'll bet. 577 00:31:23,960 --> 00:31:27,000 I'm definitely missing that big energy. 578 00:31:27,080 --> 00:31:30,800 But they say distance makes the heart grow fonder, so... 579 00:31:30,880 --> 00:31:33,040 Yeah. Yeah. 580 00:31:33,120 --> 00:31:37,360 We've been keeping in touch every day, messages and phone calls. 581 00:31:37,440 --> 00:31:40,800 And we've made, like, a list of restaurants we want to go to. 582 00:31:40,880 --> 00:31:45,080 So, yeah, we love getting out and trying new food and wine 583 00:31:45,160 --> 00:31:48,280 and we went out to dinner just before she left 584 00:31:48,320 --> 00:31:49,800 and we just had the best night, 585 00:31:49,880 --> 00:31:51,560 so I'm really excited about those sorts of things. 586 00:31:51,640 --> 00:31:55,880 But just having her companionship again, I'm looking forward to it. 587 00:31:55,960 --> 00:31:59,360 Alright. Well, why don't we go to the decision? 588 00:31:59,440 --> 00:32:01,840 Obviously, there's only one of you on the couch to give a decision. 589 00:32:01,920 --> 00:32:03,800 (LAUGHS) We'll start with you. 590 00:32:03,880 --> 00:32:05,480 Oh, OK. (LAUGHTER) 591 00:32:05,520 --> 00:32:08,160 I'm gonna stay... 592 00:32:08,240 --> 00:32:09,200 Ah. ..'cause... 593 00:32:09,240 --> 00:32:10,240 Wonderful. 594 00:32:12,000 --> 00:32:15,760 I am happy to share that I have it on good authority... 595 00:32:15,800 --> 00:32:16,960 Yes. 596 00:32:17,040 --> 00:32:18,920 ..that Miss Lauren would also like to stay. 597 00:32:19,000 --> 00:32:20,440 OK. Good. (CASSANDRA LAUGHS) 598 00:32:20,520 --> 00:32:22,680 (APPLAUSE) Wonderful. 599 00:32:22,720 --> 00:32:25,320 Well, look, give our best to Lauren. 600 00:32:25,400 --> 00:32:27,120 I hope she feels better really, really soon... 601 00:32:27,200 --> 00:32:30,480 Yeah, I will do. ..and all the best for your reunion. 602 00:32:30,560 --> 00:32:32,360 Thanks, guys. Thanks, Johnno. 603 00:32:32,440 --> 00:32:34,960 See you. (APPLAUSE) 604 00:32:35,000 --> 00:32:36,240 WOMAN: Good job, Johno. 605 00:32:36,280 --> 00:32:38,080 ALESSANDRA: Next up on the couch... 606 00:32:40,000 --> 00:32:41,520 Cass and Tristan. 607 00:32:42,880 --> 00:32:45,880 (APPLAUSE) 608 00:32:49,040 --> 00:32:50,680 MEL: Hello. Hello. 609 00:32:50,720 --> 00:32:51,880 Hey, guys. 610 00:32:53,480 --> 00:32:57,320 So, last week, Cass, you wrote 'leave'. 611 00:32:57,400 --> 00:33:00,280 CASS: Yes. Tristan, you wrote 'stay'. 612 00:33:02,160 --> 00:33:05,400 And you also said you were in love with Cass. 613 00:33:05,440 --> 00:33:07,480 Yeah. 614 00:33:07,520 --> 00:33:10,000 So, where are we today? 615 00:33:12,360 --> 00:33:13,880 My fears kind of happened. 616 00:33:15,800 --> 00:33:17,680 I told someone I was falling in love with them 617 00:33:17,760 --> 00:33:19,800 and then I guess I got kind of rejected. 618 00:33:22,080 --> 00:33:25,160 And then I just, you know, kind of just retreated. 619 00:33:27,160 --> 00:33:30,440 So, you distanced yourself from Cass this week? 620 00:33:30,520 --> 00:33:31,960 Yes. OK. 621 00:33:34,560 --> 00:33:38,720 Cass, how did that make you feel? 622 00:33:40,240 --> 00:33:45,120 Sad and, I guess, maybe a bit disappointed. 623 00:33:47,000 --> 00:33:48,880 But then, having some time apart, 624 00:33:48,960 --> 00:33:52,160 we spent this week reflecting on our relationship 625 00:33:52,240 --> 00:33:58,960 and last night, we decided we're ready to accept 626 00:33:59,000 --> 00:34:00,360 that we're just gonna be friends. 627 00:34:03,080 --> 00:34:04,840 We just kind of had a chat about it. 628 00:34:04,920 --> 00:34:06,400 It was, like, "Where are we actually at?" 629 00:34:07,520 --> 00:34:08,560 We talked about it. 630 00:34:08,640 --> 00:34:10,320 It felt like a bit like closure to me, 631 00:34:10,400 --> 00:34:12,640 like, it's like we both kind of were on the same page, 632 00:34:12,680 --> 00:34:13,840 if that makes sense. 633 00:34:18,320 --> 00:34:21,480 How was the conversation for you, Cass, the closure one, 634 00:34:21,560 --> 00:34:24,720 where you guys decided that you're better off as friends? 635 00:34:24,760 --> 00:34:27,120 Oh, just sad. 636 00:34:28,320 --> 00:34:30,480 I did have hope a little in the back of my mind 637 00:34:30,520 --> 00:34:33,160 for something wonderful to happen. 638 00:34:34,600 --> 00:34:38,760 I came in here for a husband. 639 00:34:38,840 --> 00:34:42,520 That's... I wanted love. I didn't want to go home without it. 640 00:34:44,040 --> 00:34:46,840 But it doesn't work out that way. That's life. 641 00:34:51,160 --> 00:34:55,680 Alright. So, let's go to this decision. 642 00:34:57,320 --> 00:34:59,000 Cass first. 643 00:35:00,120 --> 00:35:02,240 I think the next woman that will be with you 644 00:35:02,320 --> 00:35:06,040 will be the luckiest woman in the world to have you, 645 00:35:06,120 --> 00:35:07,120 so I wrote... She wrote 'stay'! 646 00:35:07,200 --> 00:35:09,560 (BOTH LAUGH) Yeah. 647 00:35:09,600 --> 00:35:11,080 Yeah. 648 00:35:12,560 --> 00:35:13,880 So, 'leave'. 649 00:35:13,920 --> 00:35:15,560 Tristan? 650 00:35:15,600 --> 00:35:17,040 Cass, you broke my heart 651 00:35:17,120 --> 00:35:20,320 but I'm glad you were the one who broke my heart, you know. 652 00:35:20,400 --> 00:35:22,880 You were the first person I've told I'm falling in love for... 653 00:35:22,960 --> 00:35:25,480 And either way, it didn't work out, you're stuck in my life forever 654 00:35:25,560 --> 00:35:27,600 and maybe a little bit longer, I can work on myself 655 00:35:27,680 --> 00:35:30,480 and maybe we can reconnect in the future, so I said stay...leave. 656 00:35:30,560 --> 00:35:31,920 (LAUGHS) Sadly. 657 00:35:40,160 --> 00:35:45,280 I would like for you guys to have the opportunity to tell one another 658 00:35:45,360 --> 00:35:48,640 what you have meant to each other in this process. 659 00:35:48,720 --> 00:35:51,560 Oh... We've practised the eye contact. 660 00:35:51,640 --> 00:35:53,080 And we've got it. Excellent. 661 00:35:54,240 --> 00:35:57,480 My ex-wife Cass... (LAUGHTER) 662 00:36:01,040 --> 00:36:03,320 I know I say this all the time 663 00:36:03,400 --> 00:36:05,720 but I am the luckiest dude to get matched with you. 664 00:36:05,760 --> 00:36:07,200 Like, easy. 665 00:36:07,280 --> 00:36:10,800 You have been patient, you have been kind, you have listened 666 00:36:10,880 --> 00:36:15,240 but overall, you are genuine and you mean everything to me. 667 00:36:15,280 --> 00:36:17,360 Oh, Trist! Oh, my gosh. 668 00:36:19,240 --> 00:36:24,640 You have just shown me so much fun 669 00:36:24,680 --> 00:36:26,440 and laughter and light 670 00:36:26,520 --> 00:36:32,160 and I feel so amazing and warm to have been with you on this journey. 671 00:36:32,240 --> 00:36:36,160 You've meant so much to me and seeing you grow 672 00:36:36,240 --> 00:36:38,920 and when you do love yourself, gosh, you're amazing! 673 00:36:38,960 --> 00:36:40,400 (LAUGHS) 674 00:36:40,480 --> 00:36:45,280 And I will cherish this journey with you till the end of time. 675 00:36:45,320 --> 00:36:48,320 (BRIGHT MUSIC PLAYS) 676 00:36:51,200 --> 00:36:53,440 JOHN: Well, look, obviously, the two of you, 677 00:36:53,480 --> 00:36:54,960 it's sad, it's disappointing, 678 00:36:55,040 --> 00:36:57,240 you know, love slipped through your fingers here, 679 00:36:57,280 --> 00:36:59,920 but you've given it your all. 680 00:37:00,000 --> 00:37:02,560 We appreciate all that you've done for us, by the way. 681 00:37:02,640 --> 00:37:03,880 Oh, yeah. We really do. 682 00:37:03,960 --> 00:37:05,320 Thank you so much for this experiment. 683 00:37:05,400 --> 00:37:08,200 All the best, guys. Thanks, guys. 684 00:37:08,280 --> 00:37:10,960 We did it! (APPLAUSE) 685 00:37:11,040 --> 00:37:13,480 LUCINDA: We love you, guys. TRISTAN: Thanks, guys. 686 00:37:18,200 --> 00:37:20,240 Our next couple up on the couch... 687 00:37:22,120 --> 00:37:23,520 Eden and Jayden. 688 00:37:23,560 --> 00:37:26,880 (APPLAUSE) 689 00:37:26,920 --> 00:37:29,920 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 690 00:37:30,000 --> 00:37:31,400 Hello, hello. MEL: Hello. 691 00:37:31,440 --> 00:37:32,640 Good evening. 692 00:37:39,640 --> 00:37:42,800 How was feedback week? 693 00:37:42,880 --> 00:37:48,200 Feedback week, in itself, it wasn't really much of a challenge for us. 694 00:37:48,280 --> 00:37:50,800 It was just the week itself. OK. 695 00:37:50,880 --> 00:37:52,800 We're getting to the end of this experiment now. 696 00:37:52,880 --> 00:37:54,480 We've been here for nine or ten weeks 697 00:37:54,560 --> 00:37:57,200 and I feel like everyone is kind of feeling the pressure 698 00:37:57,240 --> 00:37:58,840 of this experiment. 699 00:37:58,920 --> 00:38:00,040 I think everyone feels that pressure. 700 00:38:00,120 --> 00:38:01,720 EDEN: Yeah. Some more than others. 701 00:38:03,240 --> 00:38:04,240 I think, you know, 702 00:38:04,320 --> 00:38:06,480 Eden is one of those people who really feels the pressure. 703 00:38:08,120 --> 00:38:13,320 And I feel like this week I'm copping the brunt of it. 704 00:38:18,040 --> 00:38:19,360 How's that? Tell me... 705 00:38:19,400 --> 00:38:20,600 Well, it's just... 706 00:38:20,640 --> 00:38:23,240 It's been kind of a long time coming 707 00:38:23,320 --> 00:38:25,520 and there's just a couple of things that have happened... 708 00:38:28,080 --> 00:38:30,160 that have led to this. 709 00:38:30,200 --> 00:38:31,240 Most recently... 710 00:38:31,280 --> 00:38:33,600 As I said before, like, Eden told me 711 00:38:33,680 --> 00:38:35,400 that Sara had gone out with her ex-boyfriend 712 00:38:35,480 --> 00:38:38,720 and they were talking shit about Tim behind his back. 713 00:38:42,360 --> 00:38:44,400 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 714 00:38:44,480 --> 00:38:47,080 And when I said, "Hey, I really need to address the experts with this, 715 00:38:47,160 --> 00:38:49,760 "it needs to come up, I need to get it off my chest," 716 00:38:49,840 --> 00:38:52,160 she wanted me to basically lie and she said, 717 00:38:52,200 --> 00:38:53,680 "Well, you can't say that 718 00:38:53,760 --> 00:38:56,480 "because then Sara will know that I can't keep a secret." 719 00:38:57,760 --> 00:38:59,520 And I said, "Eden, I don't feel right lying. 720 00:38:59,560 --> 00:39:00,720 "I want to tell the truth." 721 00:39:00,800 --> 00:39:03,560 And she basically blew up at me and said, 722 00:39:03,640 --> 00:39:06,280 "If you don't say what I tell you to say, 723 00:39:06,360 --> 00:39:10,160 "I'm done with you and I'm leaving you." 724 00:39:10,200 --> 00:39:13,320 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 725 00:39:13,360 --> 00:39:15,760 SARA: What? 726 00:39:28,320 --> 00:39:31,320 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 727 00:39:32,880 --> 00:39:34,360 She basically blew up at me and said... 728 00:39:35,720 --> 00:39:37,840 "If you don't say what I tell you to say, 729 00:39:37,920 --> 00:39:40,520 "I'm done with you and I'm leaving you." 730 00:39:40,560 --> 00:39:43,640 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 731 00:39:43,680 --> 00:39:45,880 SARA: What? 732 00:39:45,920 --> 00:39:48,920 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 733 00:39:52,240 --> 00:39:56,680 That didn't sit right for me, because for me, I view... 734 00:39:56,720 --> 00:39:58,000 It's basically an ultimatum. 735 00:39:58,080 --> 00:40:03,440 I feel it's like, OK, I've got two choices. 736 00:40:03,520 --> 00:40:06,920 Either I do something that I find morally wrong, which is lie, 737 00:40:06,960 --> 00:40:08,040 or I lose my wife. 738 00:40:12,800 --> 00:40:15,000 Yeah, it just got to me. 739 00:40:16,880 --> 00:40:19,680 It might not be a huge lie, it might not be a huge deal 740 00:40:19,720 --> 00:40:21,440 but I tried to communicate 741 00:40:21,520 --> 00:40:24,120 and I just felt like she didn't really care about how I felt 742 00:40:24,200 --> 00:40:25,920 or what I wanted - it was all about, 743 00:40:26,000 --> 00:40:27,880 "No, you've got to say this, you've gotta support me, 744 00:40:27,920 --> 00:40:28,920 "otherwise I'm done." 745 00:40:33,840 --> 00:40:36,360 That's a lot. 746 00:40:36,440 --> 00:40:38,880 I didn't realise you were feeling that way 747 00:40:38,960 --> 00:40:42,720 or that this kind of dynamic was going on with you guys. 748 00:40:42,800 --> 00:40:45,440 I'm actually very glad that you've brought it up 749 00:40:45,520 --> 00:40:48,240 because it allows us maybe to help out a little bit. 750 00:40:48,280 --> 00:40:49,520 Mmm. 751 00:40:49,560 --> 00:40:52,560 Eden, why did you ask Jayden to lie? 752 00:40:53,640 --> 00:40:56,360 I think I was scared. I was scared of... 753 00:40:56,440 --> 00:40:58,440 I mean, we all knew how anxious I was 754 00:40:58,480 --> 00:41:00,480 about the whole topic to begin with 755 00:41:00,520 --> 00:41:02,240 and then he was straight away... 756 00:41:02,320 --> 00:41:04,280 you know, he wanted to bring it out straight away, 757 00:41:04,360 --> 00:41:06,840 and it was, like, "I'm gonna do this, I'm gonna do that" 758 00:41:06,920 --> 00:41:10,560 and it made me so anxious and so uncomfortable. 759 00:41:10,640 --> 00:41:13,960 But for me, it wasn't an ultimatum of "I'll leave you." 760 00:41:14,040 --> 00:41:17,600 It was "I want to go home from this," not from him. 761 00:41:18,640 --> 00:41:21,680 Maybe that's not what you meant... Maybe it come across wrong, yeah. 762 00:41:21,760 --> 00:41:23,240 The way you said it was very... Yeah. 763 00:41:23,280 --> 00:41:24,680 Yeah. 764 00:41:24,760 --> 00:41:26,640 Let's talk about the ultimatum. Mmm. 765 00:41:26,720 --> 00:41:29,560 Do you understand that that's not something positive 766 00:41:29,600 --> 00:41:30,800 for the relationship? 767 00:41:30,840 --> 00:41:31,920 No, definitely not. 768 00:41:32,000 --> 00:41:34,400 You're putting the relationship on the line. 769 00:41:36,600 --> 00:41:39,600 (TENSE MUSIC) 770 00:41:44,800 --> 00:41:45,920 But aside from that, 771 00:41:46,000 --> 00:41:49,160 Jayden just mentioned there's been other instances also causing... 772 00:41:49,240 --> 00:41:51,040 Yeah. ..Jayden to feel uncomfortable. 773 00:41:51,080 --> 00:41:52,960 Am I correct? 774 00:41:54,040 --> 00:41:59,320 Yeah, I guess we are getting to the pointy end of the... 775 00:41:59,400 --> 00:42:01,440 Mmm. ..this experiment. 776 00:42:01,480 --> 00:42:03,160 And Eden is struggling a lot 777 00:42:03,240 --> 00:42:06,280 and I feel like I'm just trying so hard in this relationship. 778 00:42:06,360 --> 00:42:10,480 But a lot of my efforts are kind of just going... 779 00:42:10,560 --> 00:42:12,360 Yeah. ..brushed under the rugs, like... 780 00:42:12,400 --> 00:42:13,800 Yeah. 781 00:42:21,680 --> 00:42:22,760 I do... 782 00:42:22,800 --> 00:42:24,960 Um.. (BLEEP). 783 00:42:25,040 --> 00:42:26,320 Sorry. It's alright. 784 00:42:26,360 --> 00:42:27,520 Yeah. 785 00:42:27,560 --> 00:42:28,920 (BLEEP). 786 00:42:29,000 --> 00:42:30,440 Are you good? Oh... 787 00:42:30,480 --> 00:42:32,000 (BLEEP). 788 00:42:43,360 --> 00:42:44,720 Oh, shit. 789 00:42:44,760 --> 00:42:47,040 Um... Yeah. 790 00:42:49,680 --> 00:42:50,760 Um... 791 00:42:50,840 --> 00:42:52,960 Yeah, when Eden has a problem with something, 792 00:42:53,040 --> 00:42:57,040 like, I make a lot of effort for her 'cause, like, I do really like her. 793 00:42:58,560 --> 00:43:01,680 Like, with the anxiety, 794 00:43:01,760 --> 00:43:03,960 I'm trying my best to learn how to deal with that. 795 00:43:04,040 --> 00:43:07,040 And then, like, all the things I do for you, 796 00:43:07,120 --> 00:43:09,600 like, get flowers, like, five times... 797 00:43:09,640 --> 00:43:11,720 Like, this is materialistic stuff... 798 00:43:12,960 --> 00:43:14,480 Oh, sorry. 799 00:43:14,560 --> 00:43:17,680 ..um, like, the flowers five times a week... 800 00:43:17,760 --> 00:43:21,320 Like, I made a dog into a pillow because she was missing her dog. 801 00:43:21,400 --> 00:43:25,400 I'm (BLEEP) taking her out for dinner every weekend, 802 00:43:25,480 --> 00:43:28,080 like, writing her a list of things I like about her... 803 00:43:28,160 --> 00:43:29,560 Yep. ..and every week... 804 00:43:29,640 --> 00:43:31,880 Every morning, I wake up and I'll write something on it. 805 00:43:31,920 --> 00:43:33,120 That way, when she wakes up, 806 00:43:33,200 --> 00:43:36,120 it's the first thing that she sees and then... (CLEARS THROAT) 807 00:43:36,200 --> 00:43:38,920 the other day, because I wouldn't do one thing, 808 00:43:38,960 --> 00:43:41,960 you blew up at me and you said, 809 00:43:42,040 --> 00:43:45,200 "Why don't you just do something..." Sorry. 810 00:43:45,280 --> 00:43:49,480 "Why don't you do something nice for me for once in your life?" 811 00:43:56,160 --> 00:43:57,840 I'm sorry. That was very harsh. I'm very sorry. 812 00:43:57,920 --> 00:43:59,400 It's not deserved. "For once in your life." 813 00:43:59,480 --> 00:44:00,960 That is disregarding all the nice things that... 814 00:44:01,040 --> 00:44:02,000 Yeah. ..I've done. 815 00:44:02,080 --> 00:44:04,600 I'm sorry. That's uncalled for. It's not... That's not nice at all. 816 00:44:04,680 --> 00:44:06,560 And when I try and bring this up with you... 817 00:44:06,640 --> 00:44:07,800 Yeah. ..you just... 818 00:44:07,840 --> 00:44:09,320 You brush it under the rug. 819 00:44:09,400 --> 00:44:11,680 You're just, like, "No, it's not a problem." 820 00:44:11,720 --> 00:44:12,720 Mmm. 821 00:44:12,760 --> 00:44:15,760 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 822 00:44:18,120 --> 00:44:20,120 That got to me and that's, like, 823 00:44:20,200 --> 00:44:24,480 "(BLEEP), I don't know if Eden is everything that I thought." 824 00:44:26,000 --> 00:44:28,720 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 825 00:44:44,560 --> 00:44:46,120 For someone to turn around and just say, 826 00:44:46,200 --> 00:44:48,960 "Why don't you do something nice for me for once in your life..." 827 00:44:50,360 --> 00:44:52,600 Because basically nothing... 828 00:44:52,640 --> 00:44:55,000 That got to me and that's, like, 829 00:44:55,080 --> 00:44:59,600 "(BLEEP), I don't know if Eden is everything that I thought." 830 00:45:04,600 --> 00:45:07,600 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 831 00:45:07,680 --> 00:45:10,600 JOHN: Jayden, are you starting to question 832 00:45:10,680 --> 00:45:13,160 whether this is the right person for you? 833 00:45:13,200 --> 00:45:16,200 (PENSIVE MUSIC) 834 00:45:21,000 --> 00:45:24,720 It's just... It's... It's a hard one. 835 00:45:24,760 --> 00:45:26,840 Like... Yeah, it's a hard one. 836 00:45:28,200 --> 00:45:29,920 So, yeah. 837 00:45:34,600 --> 00:45:40,200 Can I ask, do you feel that you're not good enough, 838 00:45:40,240 --> 00:45:41,680 that you can't measure up? 839 00:45:41,720 --> 00:45:42,760 Yeah. 840 00:45:42,800 --> 00:45:44,480 I'm doing my best. 841 00:45:44,520 --> 00:45:46,320 Clearly, I'm not good enough 842 00:45:46,400 --> 00:45:48,240 'cause I can't do much better than I am now... 843 00:45:48,320 --> 00:45:51,040 You are good enough. You definitely are good enough, I promise you that. 844 00:45:51,080 --> 00:45:52,360 I'm sorry. 845 00:45:56,240 --> 00:45:59,320 Now, Eden, that's...that's big. Mmm. 846 00:45:59,400 --> 00:46:01,600 I mean, what he's saying to you is... Yeah. 847 00:46:01,680 --> 00:46:03,120 .."I'm into you and..." Mmm. 848 00:46:03,200 --> 00:46:05,720 .."I don't feel like I'm ever good enough for you." 849 00:46:05,800 --> 00:46:07,960 Yeah. I don't ever want him to feel that way. 850 00:46:09,560 --> 00:46:12,160 I didn't realise the severity of it until now. 851 00:46:12,240 --> 00:46:13,920 Like, I'm clearly very emotional about it 852 00:46:13,960 --> 00:46:15,200 'cause I'm really into him too 853 00:46:15,280 --> 00:46:16,960 and I don't want him to feel that way. 854 00:46:17,000 --> 00:46:18,320 (CRIES) 855 00:46:26,160 --> 00:46:29,160 (ROUSING MUSIC) 856 00:46:33,000 --> 00:46:34,400 (BLEEP) Cry... 857 00:46:34,480 --> 00:46:36,040 I know. Sorry. I'm sorry. 858 00:46:38,200 --> 00:46:41,840 OK, guys. You're at a real crossroads here. 859 00:46:43,840 --> 00:46:45,960 You're at a crisis point 860 00:46:46,040 --> 00:46:52,000 and we've not seen this type of stand-off between the two of you 861 00:46:52,040 --> 00:46:54,480 at any stage in this experiment. 862 00:46:55,760 --> 00:47:00,240 It's like we've got finally the curtains pulled back 863 00:47:00,320 --> 00:47:06,160 and we're looking at the real relationship between the two of you 864 00:47:06,200 --> 00:47:10,280 and you've got some big challenges. 865 00:47:10,360 --> 00:47:14,160 But you're both very upset, which means you care about each other 866 00:47:14,200 --> 00:47:16,520 and that pleases me immensely. 867 00:47:18,280 --> 00:47:19,800 Let's go to the decision. 868 00:47:21,200 --> 00:47:24,400 Stay or leave? Let's go with you first, Eden. 869 00:47:26,200 --> 00:47:28,040 Obviously, there's differences 870 00:47:28,120 --> 00:47:29,800 but they're things that I want to work through 871 00:47:29,880 --> 00:47:33,320 because I'm very into Jayden, so I've written 'stay'. 872 00:47:33,360 --> 00:47:35,880 (APPLAUSE) 873 00:47:37,040 --> 00:47:39,160 Jayden, what have you got - stay or leave? 874 00:47:39,240 --> 00:47:42,160 We've got a lot to work on, so, yeah, let's work. 875 00:47:42,200 --> 00:47:45,200 (APPLAUSE) 876 00:47:46,680 --> 00:47:49,000 MEL: OK, guys, it's time to get to work. 877 00:47:50,320 --> 00:47:53,920 You guys came out of the gates at the beginning of the experiment 878 00:47:53,960 --> 00:47:56,040 hard and fast, didn't you, 879 00:47:56,120 --> 00:47:58,560 and you went straight into it and it was really intense really quickly 880 00:47:58,640 --> 00:48:00,480 and you were in a bit of a love bubble 881 00:48:00,560 --> 00:48:04,480 and where you've arrived at now is some realness. 882 00:48:04,520 --> 00:48:05,760 Yeah. 883 00:48:05,800 --> 00:48:08,520 So this is, you know, in many ways, 884 00:48:08,600 --> 00:48:12,040 a starting point for the real relationship here. 885 00:48:12,080 --> 00:48:13,880 It's time to communicate 886 00:48:13,960 --> 00:48:16,480 as well as communicate about your communication. 887 00:48:16,520 --> 00:48:17,520 Yeah. 888 00:48:17,600 --> 00:48:20,520 You know, when I say this to you, how does that feel for you? 889 00:48:20,600 --> 00:48:24,120 Overcommunicate. Yeah. 890 00:48:24,200 --> 00:48:27,960 Simple little techniques will get you through this 891 00:48:28,040 --> 00:48:32,360 but make no mistake, you cannot have this gridlock anymore. 892 00:48:32,400 --> 00:48:34,360 Now you've got a blueprint. 893 00:48:34,400 --> 00:48:35,880 Do the work. 894 00:48:35,920 --> 00:48:37,920 And we'll see you next time. 895 00:48:38,000 --> 00:48:39,760 ALESSANDRA: Have a good week. JAYDEN: Thanks, guys. 896 00:48:39,840 --> 00:48:42,640 MEL: Good on you, guys. Well done. (APPLAUSE) 897 00:48:46,160 --> 00:48:47,160 ANDREA: Good session. 898 00:48:47,240 --> 00:48:48,880 (BLEEP). Really good. 899 00:48:48,920 --> 00:48:51,520 You did good. You did good. 900 00:48:51,560 --> 00:48:54,560 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 901 00:48:57,080 --> 00:49:00,960 MEL: Our next couple on the couch, Jade and Ridge. 902 00:49:01,000 --> 00:49:03,520 (APPLAUSE) 903 00:49:03,600 --> 00:49:06,240 Hello. ALESSANDRA: Hello. 904 00:49:06,280 --> 00:49:08,040 Hi. 905 00:49:10,360 --> 00:49:12,400 How have you been this week, guys? 906 00:49:12,440 --> 00:49:13,840 RIDGE: We've been well. 907 00:49:13,920 --> 00:49:17,320 We had a really good week, probably one of the better weeks we've had 908 00:49:17,360 --> 00:49:18,680 since the start of the experiment. 909 00:49:19,800 --> 00:49:23,120 This week, Jade's daughter, Vi, was here and that's a big thing 910 00:49:23,200 --> 00:49:26,720 because the more time I spend with both of them, I'm getting to a point 911 00:49:26,800 --> 00:49:29,800 where I can see Jade and I can make this something into the future. 912 00:49:31,200 --> 00:49:32,280 It's getting serious. 913 00:49:33,600 --> 00:49:34,920 It's fantastic. 914 00:49:35,000 --> 00:49:39,920 Jade, obviously, as a mum, you know, you've got little Vi to look out for 915 00:49:40,000 --> 00:49:42,640 and it's so important that you can protect her 916 00:49:42,720 --> 00:49:45,040 and protect, you know, you and her as a family unit. 917 00:49:45,080 --> 00:49:48,440 And I guess for you, Ridge, 918 00:49:48,520 --> 00:49:53,600 you've taken this on board with such openness and maturity. 919 00:49:53,680 --> 00:49:56,520 This is exactly what we want for you guys. 920 00:49:56,600 --> 00:50:00,160 What's your feeling, Jade, about bringing him into your home? 921 00:50:01,680 --> 00:50:03,560 That, I'm not worried about. 922 00:50:03,600 --> 00:50:05,400 He's been fitting into my life. 923 00:50:05,480 --> 00:50:09,200 And this week he did, like, a packed lunch for Vi. 924 00:50:09,280 --> 00:50:12,640 I don't think I've ever actually told Ridge this 925 00:50:12,720 --> 00:50:17,200 but when I am doing her school lunch, I'll always write, like, 926 00:50:17,280 --> 00:50:19,240 little notes like, "Have a good day. 927 00:50:19,320 --> 00:50:21,280 "Remember to always be kind to everyone." 928 00:50:21,360 --> 00:50:23,960 Like, just little things for her to read. 929 00:50:24,040 --> 00:50:27,720 And when Ridge made her sandwich, he wrote "Have a good day" 930 00:50:27,800 --> 00:50:32,440 and then put an R with a love heart, so that was really nice to see. 931 00:50:33,960 --> 00:50:35,280 Beautiful. 932 00:50:36,680 --> 00:50:38,960 Let's go to the decision, shall we? 933 00:50:39,000 --> 00:50:41,720 I think we'll start with Ridge. 934 00:50:41,760 --> 00:50:43,920 I'm going to stay. 935 00:50:44,000 --> 00:50:46,000 Oh... Fabulous. (APPLAUSE) 936 00:50:46,040 --> 00:50:47,520 (LAUGHS) Thank you. 937 00:50:47,560 --> 00:50:48,680 With an X. 938 00:50:48,720 --> 00:50:50,040 And Jade? 939 00:50:51,040 --> 00:50:53,000 You got an X too! 940 00:50:53,080 --> 00:50:55,160 Aw, lots of kisses. Thanks, darling. 941 00:50:55,240 --> 00:50:57,000 (APPLAUSE) Beautiful. 942 00:50:57,040 --> 00:50:59,440 Alright, you guys, good on you. 943 00:50:59,520 --> 00:51:00,840 Thank you. Thank you. 944 00:51:00,880 --> 00:51:01,960 Thanks, guys. 945 00:51:02,000 --> 00:51:03,960 (APPLAUSE) 946 00:51:05,200 --> 00:51:06,720 Good job, babe. 947 00:51:06,760 --> 00:51:08,560 JOHN: Let's get our next couple up. 948 00:51:08,600 --> 00:51:11,080 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 949 00:51:11,120 --> 00:51:12,200 Jack and Tori. 950 00:51:12,240 --> 00:51:15,280 (APPLAUSE) 951 00:51:16,600 --> 00:51:18,080 MEL: Hello. ALESSANDRA: Hi. 952 00:51:19,200 --> 00:51:20,720 JACK: Oh... 953 00:51:20,760 --> 00:51:22,600 Right, you two. 954 00:51:26,720 --> 00:51:30,200 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 955 00:51:30,280 --> 00:51:33,640 We've talked about many of your indiscretions, Jack, in the past. 956 00:51:36,320 --> 00:51:38,720 Well, I'm not going there this time. 957 00:51:40,240 --> 00:51:43,960 I'm not interested in online articles or previous girlfriends... 958 00:51:45,520 --> 00:51:47,440 or things that you've said in past dinner parties. 959 00:51:49,240 --> 00:51:52,120 The only thing I'm interested in with you two... 960 00:51:54,120 --> 00:51:56,600 is what's going on in your relationship... 961 00:51:58,720 --> 00:52:01,440 because I've become very bored. 962 00:52:03,480 --> 00:52:05,720 Tonight, you are going to open up. 963 00:52:10,080 --> 00:52:11,600 Jack, I'm gonna start with you. 964 00:52:12,800 --> 00:52:16,160 I need to know how you feel about Tori. 965 00:52:16,200 --> 00:52:18,800 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 966 00:52:20,720 --> 00:52:22,400 'Cause I'm not buying it. 967 00:52:30,080 --> 00:52:33,080 (TENSE MUSIC) 968 00:52:36,840 --> 00:52:39,200 Tonight, you are going to open up. 969 00:52:43,560 --> 00:52:45,000 Jack, I'm gonna start with you. 970 00:52:46,280 --> 00:52:49,480 I need to know how you feel about Tori. 971 00:52:55,800 --> 00:52:57,400 'Cause I'm not buying it. 972 00:53:01,840 --> 00:53:03,880 What aren't you buying, John? 973 00:53:03,920 --> 00:53:06,440 (TENSE MUSIC) 974 00:53:06,480 --> 00:53:08,400 How do you feel about Tori? 975 00:53:08,440 --> 00:53:10,120 I like her a lot. 976 00:53:12,080 --> 00:53:14,160 Yeah, I'm developing serious feelings for Tori. 977 00:53:16,520 --> 00:53:19,200 What do you mean "serious feelings"? 978 00:53:19,240 --> 00:53:22,000 (LAUGHS) I just feel like... 979 00:53:22,080 --> 00:53:24,440 Yeah, she makes me... makes me feel good. 980 00:53:24,520 --> 00:53:26,400 She makes me feel... Oh, don't give me 'good'. 981 00:53:28,720 --> 00:53:30,400 Far too long in this experiment 982 00:53:30,480 --> 00:53:33,680 for words like 'good', 'OK', 'alright', 'not bad'. 983 00:53:33,720 --> 00:53:36,280 I need real responses from you. 984 00:53:37,520 --> 00:53:40,640 Feelings. Um... (LAUGHS) 985 00:53:40,720 --> 00:53:43,360 Something I've told Tori a few times, 986 00:53:43,440 --> 00:53:46,520 like, I'm actually sleeping really well. 987 00:53:51,600 --> 00:53:54,760 Tori, do you feel really special and desired 988 00:53:54,840 --> 00:53:58,040 when he says he can sleep well at night? 989 00:53:58,120 --> 00:54:02,640 I feel like you can describe it a bit better than that. 990 00:54:02,720 --> 00:54:04,560 I've never been asked about my feelings like that before. 991 00:54:04,600 --> 00:54:06,360 Um... 992 00:54:07,400 --> 00:54:09,400 What does she do to you on the inside? 993 00:54:11,040 --> 00:54:13,120 You've stitched me up here. 994 00:54:13,160 --> 00:54:14,400 Um... 995 00:54:17,120 --> 00:54:18,320 Yeah, I like you a lot. 996 00:54:18,360 --> 00:54:19,600 Oh, come on. 997 00:54:23,360 --> 00:54:25,680 She helps you sleep? You like her a lot? 998 00:54:27,360 --> 00:54:28,880 Here's the thing. 999 00:54:28,920 --> 00:54:32,000 Nine weeks into this experiment 1000 00:54:32,080 --> 00:54:36,400 and I'm not getting a sense of your feeling... 1001 00:54:38,120 --> 00:54:40,640 and even whether you're genuine about it. 1002 00:54:43,000 --> 00:54:44,840 And if I'm not sure about it, 1003 00:54:44,920 --> 00:54:49,280 it worries me that Tori may not know where she stands with you. 1004 00:54:52,760 --> 00:54:55,960 Mel, your husband... MEL: Mmm. 1005 00:54:57,160 --> 00:55:00,800 ..when you ask him what sort of feelings he has for you, 1006 00:55:00,840 --> 00:55:02,520 what might he say? 1007 00:55:02,600 --> 00:55:08,760 He might say "I feel deeply connected to you." 1008 00:55:08,800 --> 00:55:11,920 He says I'm his soulmate. 1009 00:55:13,280 --> 00:55:17,080 He says he can stop looking 'cause he's found me. 1010 00:55:19,200 --> 00:55:21,440 That's the kind of things that my husband would say to me. 1011 00:55:21,520 --> 00:55:24,080 Yeah. So you can hear, it's deeper than... 1012 00:55:24,120 --> 00:55:25,200 Yeah. 1013 00:55:25,280 --> 00:55:28,040 ..you know, "I feel nice" or "I sleep well at night." 1014 00:55:28,120 --> 00:55:30,720 I am struggling to describe how I feel. 1015 00:55:30,760 --> 00:55:31,840 JOHN: Stop. 1016 00:55:36,440 --> 00:55:39,600 I heard a revelation at the dinner party last night 1017 00:55:39,640 --> 00:55:41,960 that came from feedback week. 1018 00:55:42,000 --> 00:55:43,320 You were involved in it, Jade. 1019 00:55:43,400 --> 00:55:47,440 Tell us what was said between you and Jack. 1020 00:55:47,480 --> 00:55:51,040 (TENSE MUSIC) 1021 00:55:51,120 --> 00:55:54,640 JADE: So, I said, "If you were paired with someone 1022 00:55:54,680 --> 00:55:57,720 "who was, like, more your type, 1023 00:55:57,800 --> 00:55:59,480 "would you have slept with them by now?" 1024 00:55:59,520 --> 00:56:01,280 And he said, "Yes, probably." 1025 00:56:05,160 --> 00:56:09,120 Mmm. What does that mean? 1026 00:56:10,200 --> 00:56:11,640 No. No. 1027 00:56:11,680 --> 00:56:13,800 What does it mean when you say, 1028 00:56:13,880 --> 00:56:16,880 "If I was paired with someone who was more my type, 1029 00:56:16,960 --> 00:56:19,280 "I would have slept with her early on in the experiment"? 1030 00:56:19,320 --> 00:56:21,160 It's not that clean-cut. 1031 00:56:23,120 --> 00:56:24,680 Here's my point. 1032 00:56:24,720 --> 00:56:26,840 You said yes 1033 00:56:26,920 --> 00:56:32,400 and what I'm hearing tonight is that you have warm feelings, that... 1034 00:56:32,440 --> 00:56:33,440 I do. 1035 00:56:33,520 --> 00:56:35,200 ..things are going in the right direction with Tori. 1036 00:56:35,280 --> 00:56:38,640 That is not the answer that corresponds to that. 1037 00:56:38,680 --> 00:56:40,360 What you're saying is, 1038 00:56:40,440 --> 00:56:44,880 "If she was more my type, I would've had sex with her." 1039 00:56:44,920 --> 00:56:46,640 I'm asking, why isn't she your type? 1040 00:56:48,560 --> 00:56:50,640 She IS my type. 1041 00:56:53,080 --> 00:56:56,640 Jade, what's your perspective on that feedback and what was said? 1042 00:56:56,720 --> 00:56:59,840 Personally, if I was in Tori's position, 1043 00:56:59,920 --> 00:57:02,480 I would feel like my partner didn't like me. 1044 00:57:04,920 --> 00:57:08,200 Tori, that answer... 1045 00:57:10,200 --> 00:57:12,200 is not what we expect 1046 00:57:12,280 --> 00:57:16,200 from a guy that's saying "I'm attracted to you," 1047 00:57:16,280 --> 00:57:20,200 who is warm, connected, thinking about a future. 1048 00:57:20,240 --> 00:57:24,200 So I'm struggling to buy this. 1049 00:57:25,960 --> 00:57:28,480 Tori, let me ask you, how did that make you feel, 1050 00:57:28,560 --> 00:57:30,760 when you heard his answer to that feedback question? 1051 00:57:30,800 --> 00:57:33,800 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1052 00:57:37,040 --> 00:57:39,240 I felt like, "Yeah, fair enough." 1053 00:57:42,800 --> 00:57:44,760 "Fair enough"? Really? 1054 00:57:46,240 --> 00:57:49,840 Did you not want him to say, "Tori's the one for me"? 1055 00:57:51,960 --> 00:57:53,920 I have strong feelings towards Jack. 1056 00:57:54,000 --> 00:57:56,240 Am I gonna sit here and say I'm in love with Jack? 1057 00:57:56,280 --> 00:57:57,680 I'm not in love with Jack. 1058 00:57:57,760 --> 00:58:00,520 But he does make me feel quite safe and quite secure 1059 00:58:00,560 --> 00:58:04,160 and he does allow me to be me. 1060 00:58:04,200 --> 00:58:06,360 Tori, are you for real? 1061 00:58:09,000 --> 00:58:10,400 Am I for real? 1062 00:58:10,440 --> 00:58:11,560 Yes! 1063 00:58:11,600 --> 00:58:14,160 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1064 00:58:20,640 --> 00:58:25,720 Did you not want him to say, "Tori's the one for me"? 1065 00:58:25,760 --> 00:58:28,160 I have strong feelings towards Jack. 1066 00:58:28,240 --> 00:58:30,480 Am I gonna sit here and say I'm in love with Jack? 1067 00:58:30,520 --> 00:58:31,760 I'm not in love with Jack. 1068 00:58:31,840 --> 00:58:34,520 He does make me feel quite safe and quite secure 1069 00:58:34,560 --> 00:58:37,680 and he does allow me to be me. 1070 00:58:37,720 --> 00:58:39,680 Tori, are you for real? 1071 00:58:42,600 --> 00:58:44,120 Am I for real? 1072 00:58:44,160 --> 00:58:45,280 Yes! 1073 00:58:45,320 --> 00:58:46,880 Yeah, I'm for real. 1074 00:58:46,920 --> 00:58:48,440 Safe and secure? 1075 00:58:48,520 --> 00:58:50,440 (LAUGHS) Yeah. 1076 00:58:50,520 --> 00:58:53,600 After what has been going on throughout this experiment 1077 00:58:53,680 --> 00:58:56,840 with Jack's behaviour towards women, towards people in the group, 1078 00:58:56,880 --> 00:58:57,960 towards you? 1079 00:58:59,920 --> 00:59:01,640 Do I accept his wrongdoings? No. 1080 00:59:03,400 --> 00:59:05,600 But I don't hold them against him. 1081 00:59:06,840 --> 00:59:09,640 (TENSE MUSIC) 1082 00:59:09,720 --> 00:59:16,040 Tori, when he makes statements about women like "Muzzle your woman..." 1083 00:59:16,080 --> 00:59:17,280 Mm-hm. 1084 00:59:17,360 --> 00:59:19,840 ..that doesn't make you feel any less safe or secure, 1085 00:59:19,920 --> 00:59:22,720 it doesn't dilute your feelings toward him at all? 1086 00:59:22,800 --> 00:59:26,600 No, because I know that, at the core, that that is not him. 1087 00:59:28,520 --> 00:59:32,560 I know where I stand with Jack, Jack knows where he stands with me. 1088 00:59:38,720 --> 00:59:40,960 I guess what we're noticing here 1089 00:59:41,040 --> 00:59:45,160 is that the things he says and does ARE him. 1090 00:59:45,200 --> 00:59:47,440 He's showing you who he is. 1091 00:59:47,480 --> 00:59:49,400 They're not separate from him. 1092 00:59:49,440 --> 00:59:51,080 This is part of the whole. 1093 00:59:53,040 --> 00:59:55,840 I don't agree with the things that Jack's said and done 1094 00:59:55,920 --> 00:59:59,440 but that doesn't mean that I can't be by his side. 1095 01:00:03,600 --> 01:00:05,600 Outside of safe and secure... 1096 01:00:07,000 --> 01:00:08,800 'cause friends can make you feel safe and secure... 1097 01:00:10,720 --> 01:00:14,400 intimately, where do you stand now with Jack? 1098 01:00:14,480 --> 01:00:16,320 We are intimate. We are sexually intimate. 1099 01:00:16,360 --> 01:00:17,720 We just have not done the deed. 1100 01:00:19,560 --> 01:00:22,000 It's a bit awkward talking about it week on week. 1101 01:00:22,040 --> 01:00:23,040 It's (BLEEP) stupid. 1102 01:00:26,320 --> 01:00:28,440 I do genuinely feel like... 1103 01:00:30,120 --> 01:00:32,880 we're both ready to have sex. 1104 01:00:34,200 --> 01:00:36,080 But there is a lot of pressure 1105 01:00:36,160 --> 01:00:38,720 and I know everyone's feeling it and that's fine. 1106 01:00:38,800 --> 01:00:42,280 But, like, we are asked the same question every single week 1107 01:00:42,360 --> 01:00:44,760 and I almost don't want to do it... (LAUGHS) 1108 01:00:44,840 --> 01:00:46,720 ..'cause I don't want to give anyone the satisfaction. 1109 01:00:52,280 --> 01:00:54,160 Let me tell you why it comes up every week, 1110 01:00:54,240 --> 01:01:00,160 because the way in which Jack handles certain situations 1111 01:01:00,200 --> 01:01:02,360 week on week on week 1112 01:01:02,400 --> 01:01:05,400 suggests he's not attracted. 1113 01:01:05,440 --> 01:01:07,440 No, I disagree with that. 1114 01:01:07,520 --> 01:01:11,720 And I've got a litany of behaviours that say otherwise, Jack. 1115 01:01:11,760 --> 01:01:12,960 No. 1116 01:01:13,040 --> 01:01:15,120 I feel like, yeah, I've dropped the ball 1117 01:01:15,200 --> 01:01:17,560 and Tori's seen, like, the worst of me and... 1118 01:01:17,640 --> 01:01:21,200 Tori, if you've seen the worst of Jack, how do you feel towards him? 1119 01:01:21,240 --> 01:01:23,360 Let it rip. (LAUGHS) 1120 01:01:23,440 --> 01:01:27,200 Um... I have seen the worst of Jack and he can be... 1121 01:01:28,280 --> 01:01:29,800 stubborn and quite... 1122 01:01:29,880 --> 01:01:31,760 LUCINDA: I would say the word 'cruel'. 1123 01:01:35,240 --> 01:01:36,280 OK. That's your word. 1124 01:01:39,480 --> 01:01:41,680 Tori, do you see a future with Jack? 1125 01:01:41,760 --> 01:01:43,920 I do see a future with Jack. Why? 1126 01:01:44,000 --> 01:01:46,560 Why? Yeah. 1127 01:01:48,320 --> 01:01:51,640 I think Jack is...would... Not 'would'. 1128 01:01:51,720 --> 01:01:54,680 I think...well, no, on the outside, I think he would fit into my world 1129 01:01:54,760 --> 01:01:56,480 and I think I would fit into his world 1130 01:01:56,560 --> 01:02:01,320 and I think coming into this, I wanted someone to do life with me 1131 01:02:01,400 --> 01:02:03,560 and I feel like you are absolutely that person. 1132 01:02:05,640 --> 01:02:08,640 (TENSE MUSIC) 1133 01:02:12,720 --> 01:02:17,720 Tori, I'm concerned that you are focusing a lot on protecting him 1134 01:02:17,760 --> 01:02:21,080 and your relationship 1135 01:02:21,160 --> 01:02:23,960 and you're not really paying attention to yourself. 1136 01:02:27,360 --> 01:02:30,760 You were talking before about feeling safe and secure with him 1137 01:02:30,840 --> 01:02:34,280 and I think that's what I'm having trouble with here... 1138 01:02:36,480 --> 01:02:39,720 because I feel like I've seen glimpses of your insight, 1139 01:02:39,760 --> 01:02:41,960 whether it's been the group 1140 01:02:42,040 --> 01:02:44,240 or whether it's been Jack saying or doing something 1141 01:02:44,320 --> 01:02:46,200 that I know you're not comfortable with. 1142 01:02:48,040 --> 01:02:52,200 Respectfully, I am my first priority 1143 01:02:52,280 --> 01:02:54,640 and I will always be my first priority. 1144 01:02:56,120 --> 01:02:58,240 I spend every day with this person. Yeah. 1145 01:02:58,280 --> 01:03:00,000 I know who this person is. 1146 01:03:00,080 --> 01:03:03,680 I don't waste my time. I don't like people wasting my time. 1147 01:03:03,760 --> 01:03:07,720 And I don't know how else I can articulate that 1148 01:03:07,760 --> 01:03:09,240 or how else I can put that 1149 01:03:09,320 --> 01:03:12,560 for it to be palatable for the group to understand. 1150 01:03:12,640 --> 01:03:14,600 Yeah. He is a good person. 1151 01:03:17,160 --> 01:03:20,160 And if you were not... If you didn't want to be here... 1152 01:03:20,200 --> 01:03:21,200 I wouldn't be here. 1153 01:03:21,280 --> 01:03:23,120 ..if you didn't feel safe, if you didn't feel respected... 1154 01:03:23,200 --> 01:03:25,440 I would not be here. You best believe I wouldn't be here. 1155 01:03:25,520 --> 01:03:28,360 ..if you didn't think I was into you, I wouldn't want you to be here. 1156 01:03:32,240 --> 01:03:35,240 Well, on that note, we're gonna go to the decision. 1157 01:03:35,320 --> 01:03:40,080 Stay or leave? And we're gonna go with you, Jack. 1158 01:03:40,120 --> 01:03:42,200 I will stay. 1159 01:03:42,280 --> 01:03:43,520 Show me. Strong stay. 1160 01:03:43,560 --> 01:03:44,640 It's a strong stay. 1161 01:03:46,000 --> 01:03:47,520 Tori, you're up. Stay or leave? 1162 01:03:47,560 --> 01:03:48,600 I said 'stay'. 1163 01:03:54,120 --> 01:03:55,120 OK. 1164 01:03:55,200 --> 01:03:56,960 Well, look, I think what comes out tonight 1165 01:03:57,040 --> 01:04:00,400 is that there has been inconsistencies, 1166 01:04:00,440 --> 01:04:02,520 which we'll always call out. 1167 01:04:02,600 --> 01:04:06,560 If there are behaviours going on in a relationship 1168 01:04:06,640 --> 01:04:10,680 that don't match what you're saying in terms of your feelings, 1169 01:04:10,720 --> 01:04:11,960 you need to know about it. 1170 01:04:13,520 --> 01:04:15,760 Go back to the group. 1171 01:04:15,800 --> 01:04:18,040 (APPLAUSE) 1172 01:04:19,600 --> 01:04:22,600 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1173 01:04:35,280 --> 01:04:38,360 Our last couple up on the couch... 1174 01:04:38,400 --> 01:04:40,160 MEL: Andrea and Richard. 1175 01:04:40,240 --> 01:04:42,920 (APPLAUSE) (ANDREA CLEARS THROAT) 1176 01:04:44,560 --> 01:04:46,080 Evening. RICHARD: Guys. 1177 01:04:46,160 --> 01:04:47,120 Hello. Good evening. 1178 01:04:49,680 --> 01:04:50,960 Well, you two... 1179 01:04:53,600 --> 01:04:57,360 You've had a big week. Yeah. 1180 01:04:57,440 --> 01:05:01,160 We saw things really escalate between the two of you last night... 1181 01:05:01,200 --> 01:05:02,200 Yeah. 1182 01:05:02,280 --> 01:05:04,320 And, in fact, Andy, it's the first time we've seen you 1183 01:05:04,360 --> 01:05:07,000 really, really become quite angry 1184 01:05:07,080 --> 01:05:10,280 and just stand up and really express how you're feeling. 1185 01:05:10,320 --> 01:05:11,680 Yeah. 1186 01:05:13,120 --> 01:05:18,320 We're really keen to understand where things are at between you now. 1187 01:05:20,320 --> 01:05:22,000 Andy, why don't we start with you? 1188 01:05:23,760 --> 01:05:26,160 I'm feeling pretty devastated, actually. 1189 01:05:27,320 --> 01:05:31,680 I've had a really frustrating week, 1190 01:05:31,720 --> 01:05:33,840 where I feel like... 1191 01:05:33,920 --> 01:05:37,400 well, I know that Richie has not been listening to me 1192 01:05:37,440 --> 01:05:38,560 and hearing what I'm saying. 1193 01:05:40,600 --> 01:05:42,600 I feel sad... 1194 01:05:44,760 --> 01:05:49,640 because we were good, we were working on stuff. 1195 01:05:51,640 --> 01:05:53,000 We'd have bumps. 1196 01:05:53,080 --> 01:05:58,200 We'd go back a bit, but I was here and I was open and trying 1197 01:05:58,240 --> 01:06:03,320 and Richie spent last week 1198 01:06:03,360 --> 01:06:05,320 telling me I'm being dishonest 1199 01:06:05,360 --> 01:06:09,600 and that I'm not trying. 1200 01:06:12,960 --> 01:06:17,320 Richard, from your perspective, is this an accurate description? 1201 01:06:17,400 --> 01:06:21,400 From my perspective, it's not a totally accurate description, no. 1202 01:06:22,520 --> 01:06:25,160 The thing is, is when I'm asked what's going on, 1203 01:06:25,240 --> 01:06:28,440 why isn't this relationship moving forward, why isn't it building, 1204 01:06:28,480 --> 01:06:30,480 you know, Andy gets really upset 1205 01:06:30,560 --> 01:06:32,040 when I start saying things like that, yeah? 1206 01:06:34,120 --> 01:06:35,640 And I appreciate that, 1207 01:06:35,720 --> 01:06:37,880 but I have to also say what I have to say 1208 01:06:37,920 --> 01:06:39,440 and what I'm feeling, you know. 1209 01:06:39,520 --> 01:06:43,040 And to say to someone "You're not listening to me" 1210 01:06:43,120 --> 01:06:45,560 is kind of like saying "You're wrong." 1211 01:06:45,600 --> 01:06:47,360 Like, "You're in the wrong here." 1212 01:06:47,400 --> 01:06:48,720 (SIGHS) 1213 01:06:49,920 --> 01:06:51,480 So, we don't agree. 1214 01:06:51,560 --> 01:06:53,960 Yeah, we just don't, you know... Exactly right. 1215 01:06:55,440 --> 01:06:58,320 JOHN: There's a real disconnect between you two 1216 01:06:58,360 --> 01:07:01,960 and we've seen this for a long time. 1217 01:07:02,040 --> 01:07:05,280 Richard, what do you think your role has been 1218 01:07:05,320 --> 01:07:08,560 in getting you to this place? 1219 01:07:10,120 --> 01:07:14,360 I know I'm quite full-on, I'm quite intense and I'm very self-expressed. 1220 01:07:15,640 --> 01:07:17,920 Even when I type on a keyboard, I (BLEEP) type like that 1221 01:07:18,000 --> 01:07:19,360 and, yeah, I'm like that... That's true. 1222 01:07:19,440 --> 01:07:20,400 ..you know. It's very loud. 1223 01:07:20,440 --> 01:07:21,760 I'm like that, you know. 1224 01:07:21,800 --> 01:07:23,720 So, I reflect on that 1225 01:07:23,800 --> 01:07:28,320 and I go, "Well, that's something that comes across wrong and badly" 1226 01:07:28,400 --> 01:07:30,640 and I think in this case it probably has a little bit. 1227 01:07:32,400 --> 01:07:35,360 And I know I could've been more patient. 1228 01:07:37,160 --> 01:07:41,160 So, I could've been that guy, super cool, "Yeah, whatever, no worries." 1229 01:07:41,240 --> 01:07:45,000 I didn't because I didn't want to be here as just good mates. 1230 01:07:45,080 --> 01:07:47,360 I mean, we're getting on, and we're having so much fun together... 1231 01:07:47,440 --> 01:07:51,920 Some of the couples here are in that space and they fought to get THERE, 1232 01:07:52,000 --> 01:07:54,480 but we started somewhere very different. 1233 01:07:56,040 --> 01:07:57,280 Like, so different. 1234 01:08:00,400 --> 01:08:02,680 Richie, we didn't know each other those first two weeks. 1235 01:08:04,120 --> 01:08:05,960 We didn't know each other. 1236 01:08:06,000 --> 01:08:08,840 It was chemistry. It was lovely. 1237 01:08:08,920 --> 01:08:11,080 And then we settle into a relationship, 1238 01:08:11,120 --> 01:08:13,480 we get to know each other 1239 01:08:13,520 --> 01:08:16,160 and there's things I don't like... 1240 01:08:18,480 --> 01:08:20,800 ..there's things you don't like and we're trying to navigate that. 1241 01:08:20,840 --> 01:08:23,840 (SAD MUSIC) 1242 01:08:30,360 --> 01:08:34,520 Richard, you look pretty broken to me. 1243 01:08:34,560 --> 01:08:36,080 Yeah, mate, well... 1244 01:08:38,480 --> 01:08:39,960 (SIGHS) 1245 01:08:40,000 --> 01:08:42,120 I am pretty broken, yeah. 1246 01:08:42,200 --> 01:08:46,640 I came into this experiment with high hopes and big dreams 1247 01:08:46,720 --> 01:08:48,840 and a skip in my step and a smile on my face 1248 01:08:48,920 --> 01:08:51,520 and I was, "Here we go, buddy," you know, 1249 01:08:51,600 --> 01:08:55,760 and it's ended in a devastating, shattering way. 1250 01:08:59,120 --> 01:09:01,240 The thing is, my gut's been telling me 1251 01:09:01,320 --> 01:09:04,240 that she hasn't been into me for a long time. 1252 01:09:04,280 --> 01:09:07,480 I can see it. I can sense it. 1253 01:09:11,080 --> 01:09:14,320 You know, like... Like, when you know, you know. 1254 01:09:22,000 --> 01:09:25,440 At the core of my being is a feeling that I'm a bad person. 1255 01:09:28,320 --> 01:09:29,800 You know, I... 1256 01:09:29,840 --> 01:09:32,320 I'm on this planet 1257 01:09:32,400 --> 01:09:35,000 to make a positive contribution to people and their lives - 1258 01:09:35,040 --> 01:09:37,120 that's through my work and what I do 1259 01:09:37,200 --> 01:09:39,640 and that's what I believe and that's what I'm about. 1260 01:09:40,840 --> 01:09:43,280 So, in that sense, I've failed massively, you know, 1261 01:09:43,320 --> 01:09:45,920 with this lovely woman, you know. 1262 01:09:45,960 --> 01:09:47,440 (SIGHS) 1263 01:09:48,720 --> 01:09:50,920 It just feels really, um... 1264 01:09:50,960 --> 01:09:52,200 (CRIES) 1265 01:09:57,360 --> 01:10:00,000 Yeah, man, it just feels really hard and really tough, you know. 1266 01:10:00,040 --> 01:10:01,200 Really, really tough. 1267 01:10:01,240 --> 01:10:04,240 (SAD MUSIC) 1268 01:10:08,400 --> 01:10:10,000 MEL: OK, you two. 1269 01:10:10,080 --> 01:10:12,120 I think it's time for us to go to the decision. 1270 01:10:12,160 --> 01:10:13,160 OK. 1271 01:10:13,240 --> 01:10:14,880 Andrea, we'll start with you. Yep. 1272 01:10:16,480 --> 01:10:18,240 It's probably no shock to anyone. 1273 01:10:20,880 --> 01:10:24,600 Richie and I have agreed to just leave. 1274 01:10:26,160 --> 01:10:28,520 I've written 'leave' too as well. Yeah. 1275 01:10:28,560 --> 01:10:31,560 (SAD MUSIC) 1276 01:10:37,160 --> 01:10:38,320 OK? 1277 01:10:41,280 --> 01:10:42,920 WOMAN: Oh... 1278 01:10:49,160 --> 01:10:52,520 Before I let you go, I just want to give you both the opportunity 1279 01:10:52,600 --> 01:10:55,360 to say any last thoughts to each other. 1280 01:10:55,440 --> 01:10:59,960 Honestly, I had the best time with you, Richie, 1281 01:11:00,000 --> 01:11:04,400 and I have so many happy memories. 1282 01:11:04,440 --> 01:11:06,280 Yeah. 1283 01:11:08,000 --> 01:11:09,840 Richard? 1284 01:11:09,880 --> 01:11:11,280 I will say to Andy 1285 01:11:11,360 --> 01:11:16,080 that those ten days that we spent together, I will never forget... 1286 01:11:16,120 --> 01:11:19,560 never forget in my entire life. 1287 01:11:23,960 --> 01:11:25,880 (CRIES) It was so good. Yeah. 1288 01:11:30,440 --> 01:11:32,800 It was so (BLEEP) great. 1289 01:11:35,800 --> 01:11:37,520 The whole, yeah... 1290 01:11:37,600 --> 01:11:40,720 I mean, that's it, so, what a win, you know. 1291 01:11:40,800 --> 01:11:43,840 If I walk away with that, that's...that's a win for me 1292 01:11:43,880 --> 01:11:45,640 and I'll take that any day, yeah. 1293 01:11:47,960 --> 01:11:49,560 Thank you so much. 1294 01:11:49,640 --> 01:11:50,600 You're welcome. Mmm. 1295 01:11:50,640 --> 01:11:51,960 Thank you. 1296 01:11:52,000 --> 01:11:55,000 (APPLAUSE) 1297 01:11:55,040 --> 01:11:57,040 NARRATOR: Tomorrow night... 1298 01:11:57,080 --> 01:11:58,280 I'm alive! (LAUGHS) 1299 01:11:58,320 --> 01:12:00,080 ..Lauren is back. 1300 01:12:02,600 --> 01:12:04,600 And don't say you're just hoping for a root. 1301 01:12:04,640 --> 01:12:06,000 (LAUGHS) 1302 01:12:07,160 --> 01:12:08,360 RIDGE: Honey, I'm home. 1303 01:12:08,440 --> 01:12:13,440 Our couples pack up and head home as part of homestays week. 1304 01:12:13,480 --> 01:12:14,800 In you go! 1305 01:12:14,840 --> 01:12:16,280 Over two big nights... 1306 01:12:16,360 --> 01:12:18,600 (TIM LAUGHS) SARA: Welcome home, sweetie. 1307 01:12:18,680 --> 01:12:22,520 ..our newlyweds discover how their other half live. 1308 01:12:24,200 --> 01:12:28,320 And for some, it's an eye-opening experience. 1309 01:12:28,400 --> 01:12:30,080 LUCINDA: It's a real bachelor's pad, this one. 1310 01:12:30,120 --> 01:12:31,280 (BARKS) 1311 01:12:31,360 --> 01:12:32,880 TIMOTHY: She's not that well trained. 1312 01:12:32,920 --> 01:12:34,400 She pissed on the carpet. 1313 01:12:36,200 --> 01:12:37,440 Why did you lie? 1314 01:12:37,480 --> 01:12:39,720 Hard conversations will be had... 1315 01:12:39,800 --> 01:12:41,480 Did you think you would get away with it? 1316 01:12:41,520 --> 01:12:42,720 We're not rehashing. 1317 01:12:43,880 --> 01:12:48,440 ..as they discuss plans for life after the experiment. 1318 01:12:57,200 --> 01:13:00,000 I got the impression you were basic. WOMAN: Yeah. 1319 01:13:01,280 --> 01:13:06,280 Tori comes face to face with some of Jack's most beloved clients... 1320 01:13:06,360 --> 01:13:08,680 I've always kind of been, like, one of the boys. 1321 01:13:08,760 --> 01:13:11,360 I feel like when I come across a girl that only has guy friends, 1322 01:13:11,440 --> 01:13:14,080 it's usually because they're sleeping with all the boys. 1323 01:13:15,920 --> 01:13:17,400 (RINGING TONE) 1324 01:13:17,440 --> 01:13:19,960 But a last-minute disappearing act 1325 01:13:20,040 --> 01:13:23,600 threatens to derail homestays for Jayden. 1326 01:13:29,560 --> 01:13:31,200 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1327 01:13:35,920 --> 01:13:38,880 Captioned by AI-Media ai-media.tv 97106

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