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RICHARD: How are you?
ANDREA: Good.
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This is a pretty crazy first date.
(LAUGHTER)
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NARRATOR: When 24 singles
took the biggest leap of faith...
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JADE: He is very nice to look at.
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..some found an instant connection
at the end of the aisle.
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LUCINDA: I think it's going to be
an EXTRAORDINARY adventure.
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But when Stephen was caught flirting
with a hairdresser...
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There was a sexual spark for me
that I've not felt with you.
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..Michael was left
feeling blindsided.
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MICHAEL: I'm upset, I'm hurt, angry.
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I honestly don't know
if I care to salvage it.
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The annual couples' retreat...
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JADE: This is gonna be
an opportunity for us
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to get closer together.
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..saw Lucinda and Timothy
reach new emotional heights.
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LUCINDA: I feel like Tim and I
are really in a beautiful place.
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TRISTAN: I hate pools.
I hate taking my shirt off.
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You've rocked up being, like,
"Oh, look at all the whales here."
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JACK: It's a joke!
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Jack was at the centre
of yet another storm
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when he compared Tristan to a whale.
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I can't support that, Jack.
I cannot support that.
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But it was at the dinner party...
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Tell Tim what you did last weekend,
otherwise we will do it.
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..where Sara was exposed...
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I have never, ever cheated
on a partner!
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You just cheated on me!
This was on the weekend!
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..after it was revealed that she had
been catching up with her ex
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behind Tim's back.
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How many of you at the table
have cheated on a partner?
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Raise your hand!
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Tonight...
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For the first time,
I'm sitting here, thinking,
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"Oh, maybe these two
could actually have something more
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"than a friendship."
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..romantic breakthroughs
will be celebrated...
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There's some kind of possible future
for us.
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Progress.
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..as our couples reach
exciting new milestones.
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JADE: I introduced Ridge
to my daughter.
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It makes me really happy
seeing the way he is with her.
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I was, like, "Oh, I'm falling
in love with you."
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But not everyone will be feeling
the love...
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You look a little bit uncomfortable.
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Um...
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I've thought about this so much.
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(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
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Expert John holds Jack to account.
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"They looked like whales,"
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coming from a personal trainer
who should know better.
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Has Tori finally reached her limit?
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Do you trust Jack?
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(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
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And then...
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This is a pattern
that I have to call out.
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..the experts apply the pressure...
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Why were you meeting up
with your ex?
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..as they ask Sara...
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What kind of a relationship
do you have with your ex?
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..the hard questions.
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I thought you mentioned
that you did hook up with them
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a month before coming onto
the experiment.
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Do you still have feelings
for your ex?
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Um...
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(BRIGHT MUSIC)
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Following a massive week
on the experiment,
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where our couples gained
important perspective at the retreat,
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the fifth commitment ceremony
is almost here
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and some of our couples
are stronger than ever.
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How are you feeling?
I feel great.
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I'm the same.
Just another day, I guess.
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Just another day.
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Ridge and I are good.
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I feel like we're going into
the commitment ceremony strong.
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I feel like
the retreat made us closer
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and I introduced Ridge
to my daughter.
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Everything was perfect.
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They got along well,
which was really important to me,
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so I feel
a lot more comfortable now.
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Aren't you lucky
I'm such a blessing?
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Oh...
(LAUGHS)
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Yep.
(LAUGHS)
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Real lucky right now.
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JADE: Going into tonight,
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I feel like we're connected
on a deeper level.
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I feel good about it
and I feel like we are good.
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Down the corridor, Lucinda
and Timothy are also on a high,
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basking in the afterglow
of Timothy's emotional breakthrough
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at the retreat.
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You are the epitome
of the slow burn.
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You weren't lying. (LAUGHS)
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But we're making lovely progress.
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It may take us into 2026. (LAUGHS)
But I'm holding in there.
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(LAUGHS)
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After an emotional few days,
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Timothy finally trusted Lucinda
enough to lower his guard
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and reveal his true vulnerabilities.
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LUCINDA: I've never seen
that side of Tim.
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It was a real turnaround
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and I just want to, like,
just be in devotion to that.
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(LAUGHS)
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It's been a really beautiful journey
with Tim
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since the retreat, actually.
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There's been
some very lovely openings
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and some walls that have come down.
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I feel, like, more of a softness
and a receptivity to me.
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There is a little bit of flirting.
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There's something in the air.
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I do feel a deep respect and regard
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and a reciprocal, like, love,
like a soul love with Tim.
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What are they gonna talk to us
about?
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Well, I don't know
but I know what I'm gonna tell them
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and that is just, like,
how brave I think you are
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and how awesome it's been to feel
your vulnerability
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and some walls come crumbling down,
you know.
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I had an emotional moment,
which I don't do
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and Lucinda was very thoughtful
and caring, yeah.
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She didn't sort of cut and run.
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She genuinely was worried about me.
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Lucinda was very good about it.
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Yeah.
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You know, I loved watching everybody
just really see you and accept you
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and just being, you know,
the Tim that I see,
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which is just a bloody great bloke.
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Yeah.
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(LAUGHS)
Well, thank you, but, yeah.
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TIMOTHY: Overall, I'm a bit nervous
to unpack some stuff
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but we had a good time
at the retreat.
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Everything's been good.
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But to much of the group, Byron Bay
already feels worlds away...
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overshadowed by last night's
wild dinner party
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and the revelation that Sara
has been visiting an ex-boyfriend.
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ANDREA: You missed a cracker.
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RICHARD: I missed the dinner party.
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It sounds like a blessing
in disguise.
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Like, I did feel really bad for Tim.
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LAUREN: Yeah, so did I.
I did feel bad for Tim.
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Not... Not good.
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Emotional cheating, physical
cheating, it's all the same to me.
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Go back to your ex.
Yeah.
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When I asked her, I was, like,
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"Wait, you just said
that you were dog sitting
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"but then you told Eden
it was a lie,"
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she was, like,
"Well, it wasn't, actually."
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It was, like, "Why did you tell us
that you were?"
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Maybe something happened,
maybe it didn't
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but even if it didn't, like, they're
still texting and planning...
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There's still the lying, though.
Yeah.
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There's, like, lying...
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If it was innocent,
why would she lie about it?
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Sara and Tim spent the night apart...
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and in his solitude,
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Tim has been reeling from
last night's bombshell revelation.
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TIM: I'm just feeling drained.
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The trust has been broken and I was
growing feelings for her, you know.
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And then this news
kind of came out of nowhere
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and, you know,
exploded in my face, really.
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It's crushing.
It's devastating to me to hear that.
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Got my heart broken again
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and I'm just trying to process
everything, you know.
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It feels like it's been
a struggle of a relationship
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this whole way through
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and there was a lot of red flags
from the very beginning.
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I just feel like I know what it's
like to not be over an ex, you know.
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TIM: I feel like I should've just
trusted my gut early on.
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Like, I feel like a fool.
She played me for a fool.
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"You must reveal
your latest correspondence
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"on the device you use most,
your phone."
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I'm happy to share everything.
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I haven't given you a reason not to
trust me, so what's the point?
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So you feel strongly
about not doing it?
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Yeah, I do.
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The concern of mine would be
if you were talking to other guys.
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I'm not.
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I felt like
she had something to hide.
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JOHN: Did you have anything to hide?
No.
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No.
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TIM: It's all just lies.
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She made me doubt myself.
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I've gone along with her crap.
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I knew you were gonna cancel our
date for the third week in a row.
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Don't take things so personally.
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So, what's the genuine reason that
you cancelled on him three times?
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I went out with my girlfriends
on Saturday
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and I wasn't feeling great
on Sunday.
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I was hung over.
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TIM: Now that I'm looking at it,
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this whole time has just been
smoke and mirrors,
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you know, a waste of time.
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I've been led on.
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We will tell him
if you don't tell him, Sara.
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Well, I ran into my ex.
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It was a planned,
pre-meditated date?
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Yes.
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You didn't tell him that you were
going to dinner with him.
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No, I didn't...
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Whatever it was,
you didn't tell Tim...
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(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
(JAYDEN AND SARA ARGUE INDISTINCTLY)
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How many of you at this (BLEEP)
table have cheated on a partner?
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WOMAN: Never.
MAN: I haven't.
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Never.
Raise your (BLEEP) hand!
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(TENSE MUSIC)
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EDEN: Are you good, Tim?
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TIM: No.
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(DISCONNECTS MICROPHONE)
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TIM: I feel like I tried so hard
to meet her needs and expectations
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but now it's pretty obvious, like,
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she definitely doesn't care
about me.
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She didn't even apologise to me.
She didn't even check up on me.
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She didn't even text me last night
to see if I was OK.
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She didn't care
how I felt about this.
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She's just worried about
how she's gonna look.
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NARRATOR: Also at a loss
after last night's dinner party,
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Tori has once again been confronted
by Jack's behaviour
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after Jack referred to Tristan
as a whale on the retreat,
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the latest in a long line
of indiscretions.
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Whoever I've offended, 100%,
I do apologise.
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It isn't who I am.
But it's every week!
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I have made mistakes.
It's a mistake and I've apologised.
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We've got to move on.
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Tori, what will it take for you
to say to him, like, "It's enough"?
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I'm probably, like...like, halfway.
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MEL: Halfway!
ALESSANDRA: Halfway!
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NARRATOR: And while last night
Tori only had 50% tolerance for Jack,
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the reality of her husband's actions
have begun to sink in.
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You know, I did sit there and I did
have Jack's back at the dinner party
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but I kind of like
reflected on the night
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and I really am not OK
with the comment that Jack made
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around the pool to Tristan.
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Like, it was so disrespectful.
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And I think, realising that, I don't
really like what's happened at all.
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You're pissed at me.
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Um...
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I just feel like...
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I think when I really think
about these things
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and I kind of reflect back, like,
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it's just been one thing
after the other.
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I don't want you to be pissed
with me.
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Obviously last night was shit and...
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Like, trust is a big thing, though.
You get that, right?
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Trust is huge. It's, like,
in the top three of my values.
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Like, trust and respect...
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If you do not have trust,
you have nothing.
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So, I get it.
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But it's who I am.
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I make mistakes.
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Do you make mistakes? Bet you do.
That's real life.
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TORI: I know he says he's sorry
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but at this point they are words
and I need, like, hard-core actions.
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I need him to show me
that the things that he's saying,
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he actually means
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because right now, it does have me
questioning my trust for him.
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NARRATOR: Despite being called
a whale on the retreat,
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Tristan is feeling positive going
into tonight's commitment ceremony,
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having made a surprising declaration
to Cassandra.
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TRISTAN: The 'whale' thing sucked,
you know.
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But Cass was amazing
throughout the whole thing.
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She made me feel better about myself
and feel a lot more closer to her,
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so this morning, um...
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I told her I was falling in love.
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This is the girl that
has stood by me, has been patient,
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has waited for me.
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You know, I've never said
"I love you" to anyone,
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which is obviously a very, very big
step, but I'm feeling great.
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Commitment ceremony five.
Five.
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Five. We've done five...
Wow.
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..which is good.
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Five more times on that couch.
Jesus.
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(LAUGHS) How do you feel?
How are you feeling?
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I'm feeling great.
Yeah?
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You know,
like, I'm feeling really good.
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We had a great day yesterday,
we've had a great day today.
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I reckon... I think this is
the most, I guess,
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feeling like we're a team...
Yeah.
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..if that makes sense.
Yeah.
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It's going really well.
277
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Like, it's just we're at that point,
you know.
278
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When it comes to
tonight's commitment ceremony,
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I'm not nervous about it.
280
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I'm just happy to be around her,
to be honest.
281
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As we always do, honey,
we go in together as a team
282
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and then we leave together
as a team.
283
00:14:17,240 --> 00:14:18,600
Yep.
284
00:14:22,600 --> 00:14:28,080
Yeah, so, Tristan has confessed
285
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that he has feelings of love for me.
286
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Anyway, speaking of the time...
Yes.
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..I've gotta go and wipe
the couch...
288
00:14:34,040 --> 00:14:35,320
Yeah.
..as I always, always say.
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Otherwise we can sit and talk
for ages here.
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As I always say, write your truth.
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I feel like we are a team.
292
00:14:45,080 --> 00:14:47,400
Yeah. Um... So...
293
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When Tristan told me
that he loves me...
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Enjoy.
Bye, Tris.
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You look beautiful. The 'yujzh'.
Thank you.
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..um...
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You're very handsome yourself.
Thank you.
298
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Bye.
299
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..Tristan doesn't know this
300
00:15:03,680 --> 00:15:08,680
but I do not love him.
301
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And if I don't love him,
then I should write 'leave'.
302
00:15:19,440 --> 00:15:21,440
It's a huge decision
303
00:15:21,520 --> 00:15:23,360
'cause when you're writing
the word 'leave',
304
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it's like a clear message
that you're giving up
305
00:15:26,840 --> 00:15:32,320
but I have to do
what's best for my heart.
306
00:15:33,560 --> 00:15:36,160
I had strong feelings for Tristan
earlier on.
307
00:15:36,200 --> 00:15:39,040
I tried so hard
308
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and I've been so patient
and I've waited and waited.
309
00:15:42,680 --> 00:15:45,160
And I never, ever
want to hurt Tristan.
310
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I always want to make him happy
311
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but I feel very strongly
that I know for certain
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that I do not love this man
313
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and I always come back
to the same answer.
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NARRATOR: As our couples
complete the final touches
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before tonight's
commitment ceremony...
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there is an unexpected knock
on Tim's door.
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Hi.
318
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Can I come in?
319
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When Sara entered the experiment,
320
00:16:24,920 --> 00:16:28,360
she did so struggling to exit
the toxic hold
321
00:16:28,400 --> 00:16:30,520
of her previous relationship,
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having gone back and forth
for six years.
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SARA: When I was with my ex,
324
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he ended up cheating on me multiple
times with multiple women...
325
00:16:44,080 --> 00:16:49,400
but I just kept going back to him
for, like, four or five years.
326
00:16:51,120 --> 00:16:56,280
Even though it was toxic
and childish and manipulative,
327
00:16:56,360 --> 00:17:01,280
he had an emotional pull over me
and I couldn't help myself.
328
00:17:01,360 --> 00:17:04,200
It was one of the reasons
I wanted to do this experiment
329
00:17:04,280 --> 00:17:05,960
'cause I wanted to get out
of those...
330
00:17:07,040 --> 00:17:10,080
yeah, those toxic patterns
with my ex.
331
00:17:10,120 --> 00:17:12,000
I want to be better.
332
00:17:12,080 --> 00:17:15,600
I want to do everything that I can
to show Tim that.
333
00:17:17,560 --> 00:17:20,640
I just want you to know that
I know that what I did was wrong
334
00:17:20,720 --> 00:17:22,640
and I'm taking full ownership
for it.
335
00:17:23,800 --> 00:17:24,880
I am.
336
00:17:32,840 --> 00:17:33,840
(SIGHS)
337
00:17:36,440 --> 00:17:38,640
I don't really know what to say,
to be honest.
338
00:17:43,360 --> 00:17:46,560
You know, for you to do
something like this,
339
00:17:46,640 --> 00:17:49,400
like, you want to wear a cute dress
for your ex, like, come on.
340
00:17:49,440 --> 00:17:52,000
I didn't wear a cute dress.
341
00:17:54,120 --> 00:17:56,400
That's not even the point. Like...
No.
342
00:17:56,480 --> 00:18:01,240
It's part of the point, is, like,
you asking Eden for a cute dress
343
00:18:01,320 --> 00:18:02,560
'cause you're gonna see your ex
tonight.
344
00:18:02,640 --> 00:18:04,200
I asked her for a shirt.
Like, that's...
345
00:18:04,280 --> 00:18:07,200
I asked her for a shirt.
I didn't say a cute dress.
346
00:18:08,760 --> 00:18:11,680
She's trying to apologise
and then she's bringing up excuses,
347
00:18:11,760 --> 00:18:14,560
instead of being, like, "Look,
I'm sorry it was the wrong thing."
348
00:18:14,640 --> 00:18:17,720
To me, it just seems like
she's upset she got caught.
349
00:18:17,760 --> 00:18:19,200
She's just deflecting.
350
00:18:21,600 --> 00:18:24,080
I was pretty disappointed
the way that you acted last night.
351
00:18:26,800 --> 00:18:29,080
You obviously didn't care about
how I felt.
352
00:18:29,120 --> 00:18:32,600
You didn't care about my feelings.
353
00:18:32,680 --> 00:18:34,360
You just left.
You didn't check up on me.
354
00:18:36,640 --> 00:18:39,560
Look, that's not the point.
Like, I don't...
355
00:18:39,640 --> 00:18:43,440
Like, I am not getting
into the details, Tim.
356
00:18:43,520 --> 00:18:46,520
Today's not about, like,
what happened last night.
357
00:18:46,560 --> 00:18:48,120
I don't want to defend myself.
358
00:18:48,200 --> 00:18:50,480
That's why I'm saying...
Then don't. Just admit it.
359
00:18:50,560 --> 00:18:52,800
Stop saying,
"Oh, that's not the point."
360
00:18:52,880 --> 00:18:54,000
I did...
"That's not the point."
361
00:18:54,080 --> 00:18:55,200
I am admitting it, Tim!
Alright.
362
00:18:55,280 --> 00:18:57,120
Well, stop saying that those
all things aren't the point.
363
00:18:57,200 --> 00:18:59,880
You just want to have your result
that you want.
364
00:18:59,920 --> 00:19:01,560
OK. I can't do this.
365
00:19:02,680 --> 00:19:06,360
Because I feel like I'm trying to.
I'm saying I'm owning it.
366
00:19:06,440 --> 00:19:08,440
I'm saying that I'm sorry and...
Apologies...
367
00:19:08,520 --> 00:19:11,080
If you want to apologise to someone,
don't defend yourself.
368
00:19:11,160 --> 00:19:13,760
Just apologise and take it.
I need to go.
369
00:19:13,840 --> 00:19:15,800
Yeah, exactly. And you're doing it
again. You're running away.
370
00:19:15,880 --> 00:19:17,480
Tim, stop yelling at me.
It's cowardly behaviour.
371
00:19:17,560 --> 00:19:19,240
Stop yelling at me.
I'm not yelling at you.
372
00:19:19,320 --> 00:19:20,480
I'm telling you
your cowardly behaviour...
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00:19:20,560 --> 00:19:21,840
I'm done.
..because you're just running away.
374
00:19:21,880 --> 00:19:23,040
You don't want to own it.
375
00:19:23,080 --> 00:19:26,080
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
376
00:19:29,040 --> 00:19:32,680
(DOOR OPENS AND CLOSES)
377
00:19:42,840 --> 00:19:45,160
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
378
00:19:45,240 --> 00:19:47,160
ALESSANDRA: Hello.
JOHN: Greetings, gents.
379
00:19:47,200 --> 00:19:48,760
MEL: Evening.
380
00:19:50,280 --> 00:19:51,920
Hello. Hi.
381
00:19:53,120 --> 00:19:55,400
Come grab a seat. Settle in.
382
00:20:02,040 --> 00:20:04,480
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
Evening, ladies.
383
00:20:04,520 --> 00:20:06,480
Hello, ladies.
384
00:20:08,960 --> 00:20:11,960
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
385
00:20:20,000 --> 00:20:23,120
Well, welcome, everybody,
to the fifth commitment ceremony.
386
00:20:24,600 --> 00:20:29,160
We are well and truly getting into
the heart of the experiment now
387
00:20:29,240 --> 00:20:35,320
and last night at the dinner party,
it was explosive, to say the least.
388
00:20:36,440 --> 00:20:39,920
Now, we'll get into all of that
and more
389
00:20:40,000 --> 00:20:44,120
but also, you're coming off the back
of a couples' retreat,
390
00:20:44,200 --> 00:20:47,080
where you got to spend time with
different couples.
391
00:20:48,520 --> 00:20:50,920
You got to see yourself
in a new setting.
392
00:20:52,320 --> 00:20:54,800
And tonight we're going to hear
393
00:20:54,880 --> 00:20:58,520
how your relationships
have been put to the test
394
00:20:58,560 --> 00:21:01,840
and what the future is going to hold.
395
00:21:04,120 --> 00:21:06,760
So, let's get our first couple
up on the couch...
396
00:21:06,800 --> 00:21:09,800
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
397
00:21:11,400 --> 00:21:13,560
MEL: Lucinda and Timothy.
398
00:21:13,600 --> 00:21:15,440
Whoo! Mama and Papa!
399
00:21:15,520 --> 00:21:18,280
(APPLAUSE)
Whoo!
400
00:21:18,360 --> 00:21:19,640
Hello.
LUCINDA: Hello.
401
00:21:19,720 --> 00:21:21,640
Hello, you two.
TIMOTHY: How we going?
402
00:21:21,720 --> 00:21:22,840
How are you?
Welcome.
403
00:21:22,880 --> 00:21:24,000
How you doing?
404
00:21:25,160 --> 00:21:27,320
Well, you're looking very cute
and fun together tonight.
405
00:21:27,400 --> 00:21:28,880
Aw, thank you.
Thank you.
406
00:21:30,360 --> 00:21:32,040
Tell us about the retreat.
407
00:21:32,120 --> 00:21:34,280
You start.
No, you always start.
408
00:21:34,360 --> 00:21:35,840
No, you first.
Go on. You start.
409
00:21:35,920 --> 00:21:39,320
It was tough. It was...
Yeah, it was tough for me.
410
00:21:40,600 --> 00:21:42,560
What was tough about it?
411
00:21:42,600 --> 00:21:44,880
(EXHALES) I hate saying this.
412
00:21:44,920 --> 00:21:47,000
I sort of...
413
00:21:47,080 --> 00:21:51,280
I sort of had a bit of a breakdown,
like, just a...just a bit of a...
414
00:21:51,360 --> 00:21:53,560
A breakthrough. A breakthrough.
Yeah.
415
00:21:53,600 --> 00:21:55,760
I call it a breakdown. Yeah.
416
00:21:58,040 --> 00:22:00,080
What happened?
417
00:22:00,120 --> 00:22:02,640
It was just...
418
00:22:02,680 --> 00:22:04,640
We were playing a card game
419
00:22:04,720 --> 00:22:06,400
and there was a couple of questions
in there
420
00:22:06,480 --> 00:22:09,160
that sort of triggered something
inside me.
421
00:22:11,200 --> 00:22:13,680
What did it trigger inside you?
422
00:22:13,720 --> 00:22:16,960
(EXHALES)
423
00:22:17,040 --> 00:22:22,680
Just incredible, like, sadness.
Yeah. Yeah.
424
00:22:27,440 --> 00:22:29,400
And what was the sadness about?
425
00:22:30,440 --> 00:22:32,160
Um...
426
00:22:34,400 --> 00:22:36,760
Family. Yeah, family. Yep.
427
00:22:38,800 --> 00:22:44,760
I felt like I was
the most lonely person there.
428
00:22:48,120 --> 00:22:50,520
'Cause I've got no family left.
429
00:22:50,600 --> 00:22:57,080
So I left and it took me a while
to sort of compose myself
430
00:22:57,120 --> 00:22:59,640
and come back to the retreat,
431
00:22:59,680 --> 00:23:03,000
but Lucinda was really good.
432
00:23:05,480 --> 00:23:08,840
How did it feel knowing that she was
there by your side?
433
00:23:08,880 --> 00:23:10,680
(EXHALES)
434
00:23:14,240 --> 00:23:19,680
It was...
It was really nice because, um...
435
00:23:26,000 --> 00:23:27,320
(EXHALES)
436
00:23:43,280 --> 00:23:44,680
Um...
437
00:23:44,760 --> 00:23:50,600
I really appreciated
that she was really there for me.
438
00:23:51,680 --> 00:23:54,520
She had my back.
439
00:23:54,560 --> 00:23:57,040
It's everything,
440
00:23:57,120 --> 00:24:03,080
because I haven't had that feeling
in a really long time.
441
00:24:03,120 --> 00:24:04,760
Yeah.
442
00:24:05,880 --> 00:24:07,480
This is a big deal for you.
443
00:24:07,520 --> 00:24:08,880
Yeah.
444
00:24:08,960 --> 00:24:14,600
Lucinda, what was it like for you
being by his side during all of this?
445
00:24:14,640 --> 00:24:17,320
Yeah, I'm just so proud of Tim.
446
00:24:17,360 --> 00:24:19,440
Yeah.
447
00:24:19,520 --> 00:24:24,040
It's just been amazing to watch some
of the walls come down, I suppose.
448
00:24:24,120 --> 00:24:25,800
They didn't tell you about
the big hug.
449
00:24:25,880 --> 00:24:27,720
They had a melted hug.
CASSANDRA: Melting hug.
450
00:24:27,800 --> 00:24:30,640
Oh, they did the melted hug.
Finally!
451
00:24:30,720 --> 00:24:33,280
LUCINDA: It was one of my favourite
hugs of my life.
452
00:24:33,360 --> 00:24:34,560
ALESSANDRA: Really?
TIM: Yeah.
453
00:24:36,640 --> 00:24:39,200
We kind of came to this crescendo
454
00:24:39,280 --> 00:24:44,040
and vulnerability to me
is the bravest thing, you know,
455
00:24:44,120 --> 00:24:47,480
so I've just felt, like,
a more softness
456
00:24:47,560 --> 00:24:51,880
and a more opening
in just Tim's energy and presence.
457
00:24:51,960 --> 00:24:55,440
It's really lovely, the kindness
that's just in the field.
458
00:24:55,520 --> 00:24:58,720
There's a lot of respect, regard,
no defences.
459
00:24:58,800 --> 00:25:02,760
We're just sort of flowing very
easily together, aren't we, Tim?
460
00:25:02,840 --> 00:25:05,680
We actually just get on
like a house on fire.
461
00:25:05,760 --> 00:25:09,760
It's... We do...
We do get along really, really well.
462
00:25:09,840 --> 00:25:12,640
It's just the laughs, isn't it?
Yeah.
463
00:25:12,720 --> 00:25:15,120
We just actually live
to crack each other up...
464
00:25:15,200 --> 00:25:16,320
Yeah.
..at this point.
465
00:25:17,480 --> 00:25:18,760
JOHN: You know,
466
00:25:18,840 --> 00:25:22,560
I think the first time
I've seen the two of you
467
00:25:22,640 --> 00:25:26,480
with a chance of it actually going
romantic is right now...
468
00:25:29,760 --> 00:25:32,560
because you come in angry,
with the pointy finger,
469
00:25:32,600 --> 00:25:34,600
yelling and bellowing at everybody,
470
00:25:34,640 --> 00:25:36,840
but that's just you being scared.
471
00:25:39,680 --> 00:25:42,000
And this couples' retreat,
472
00:25:42,080 --> 00:25:46,560
actually, you got vulnerable,
you opened up,
473
00:25:46,640 --> 00:25:49,840
you let Lucinda get close to you...
Yep.
474
00:25:49,920 --> 00:25:52,800
She's a patient woman, Lucinda.
Very patient. Yep.
475
00:25:52,880 --> 00:25:55,280
And for the first time,
I'm sitting here thinking,
476
00:25:55,360 --> 00:25:57,320
"Oh, maybe these two..."
(LAUGHS)
477
00:25:57,400 --> 00:26:00,480
.."could actually have something more
than a friendship."
478
00:26:05,640 --> 00:26:08,840
MEL: Let's get to the decision.
Lucinda first.
479
00:26:10,120 --> 00:26:13,480
So, Tim, yes, I've enjoyed you
so much the last week!
480
00:26:13,520 --> 00:26:15,280
(VOICE CRACKS) It's so precious!
481
00:26:15,320 --> 00:26:18,920
And I have said 'stay'.
482
00:26:18,960 --> 00:26:20,160
(APPLAUSE)
483
00:26:20,240 --> 00:26:23,680
And I've got some more brick walls
exploding and...
484
00:26:23,720 --> 00:26:25,160
Aw!
485
00:26:25,240 --> 00:26:27,720
..and a request for, you know,
just a hug a day.
486
00:26:27,760 --> 00:26:29,400
Yeah.
487
00:26:30,680 --> 00:26:36,400
Um, yeah, since the retreat,
we haven't had one hiccup.
488
00:26:36,480 --> 00:26:37,440
Mmm.
It's been...
489
00:26:37,520 --> 00:26:40,400
Yeah, it's been good.
So I wrote 'stay'.
490
00:26:40,480 --> 00:26:42,560
Wonderful.
WOMAN: Yeah!
491
00:26:42,640 --> 00:26:44,480
(APPLAUSE)
Wonderful.
492
00:26:44,520 --> 00:26:47,920
And, Tim, definition of courage.
493
00:26:48,000 --> 00:26:49,840
Yes.
Thanks.
494
00:26:49,920 --> 00:26:52,360
JOHN: But we're gonna need you
to be even more courageous.
495
00:26:52,440 --> 00:26:53,520
Yeah.
Mmm.
496
00:26:53,600 --> 00:26:56,760
You're gonna need to give her
minimum one hug a day.
497
00:26:56,800 --> 00:26:58,680
Alright.
498
00:26:58,760 --> 00:27:01,480
Now, that's what she said.
She wants it.
499
00:27:01,520 --> 00:27:03,240
She certainly deserves it.
500
00:27:03,320 --> 00:27:07,680
And that is a very practical way
to get this going.
501
00:27:07,760 --> 00:27:09,800
You can go back to the group.
Well done.
502
00:27:09,880 --> 00:27:12,640
MEL: Well done, you guys.
(CHEERING AND APPLAUSE)
503
00:27:17,120 --> 00:27:19,640
(BOTH LAUGH)
JAYDEN: He deserves it.
504
00:27:19,680 --> 00:27:21,160
TIMOTHY: Tonight was tough,
505
00:27:21,240 --> 00:27:25,560
but with Lucinda next to me,
I do feel stronger.
506
00:27:27,240 --> 00:27:32,080
NARRATOR: Coming up, Tristan is hit
with Cassandra's true feelings...
507
00:27:32,160 --> 00:27:34,760
So, I decided to put it all
on the line and I was, like,
508
00:27:34,800 --> 00:27:36,320
"Oh, I'm falling in love with you."
509
00:27:36,400 --> 00:27:39,200
ALESSANDRA: I have to say, Cassandra,
you look a little bit uncomfortable.
510
00:27:40,520 --> 00:27:41,680
Um...
511
00:27:43,280 --> 00:27:44,720
TORI: Oh...
512
00:27:46,840 --> 00:27:50,400
NARRATOR: And Sara goes head-to-head
with the experts.
513
00:27:50,480 --> 00:27:52,880
What kind of a relationship
do you have with your ex?
514
00:27:52,920 --> 00:27:55,200
It's a friendship.
515
00:27:55,240 --> 00:27:57,520
Friends don't get naked.
516
00:27:58,880 --> 00:28:01,840
You did that a month before
the experiment started.
517
00:28:01,880 --> 00:28:03,760
What was your question?
518
00:28:13,800 --> 00:28:16,240
Can we have our next couple tonight?
519
00:28:16,280 --> 00:28:19,280
(PENSIVE MUSIC)
520
00:28:22,560 --> 00:28:24,240
Eden and Jayden.
521
00:28:24,280 --> 00:28:25,640
MAN: Whoo! Jayden!
522
00:28:28,160 --> 00:28:31,520
(PENSIVE MUSIC)
523
00:28:31,600 --> 00:28:34,200
Hello, you two.
EDEN: Hello.
524
00:28:34,280 --> 00:28:36,040
JAYDEN: Team.
How are you guys?
525
00:28:36,120 --> 00:28:40,080
We're very well, but we're more
interested in how you guys are doing.
526
00:28:43,480 --> 00:28:45,160
To be honest,
we've had a very rough week.
527
00:28:45,200 --> 00:28:48,920
(TENSE MUSIC)
528
00:28:48,960 --> 00:28:51,120
It sounds like it.
529
00:28:51,200 --> 00:28:53,040
Yeah, it's probably been
the hardest week for me
530
00:28:53,080 --> 00:28:54,240
in the experiment so far.
531
00:28:54,320 --> 00:28:56,960
What made it so difficult for you,
Eden?
532
00:28:59,760 --> 00:29:02,840
Obviously the whole
'messages from Sara' situation.
533
00:29:02,920 --> 00:29:08,160
Sara sent me a message
and asked for an outfit to borrow.
534
00:29:08,200 --> 00:29:10,400
She wanted something to wear.
535
00:29:10,440 --> 00:29:11,880
I asked her where she was going.
536
00:29:13,280 --> 00:29:15,000
I sat with Jayden. He saw my phone.
537
00:29:15,080 --> 00:29:16,800
And she said, "I'm going to see
my ex-boyfriend."
538
00:29:20,800 --> 00:29:23,400
What we learnt was that Jayden
and my morals and principles
539
00:29:23,440 --> 00:29:24,440
align exactly...
540
00:29:26,320 --> 00:29:29,480
however, the way we would go
about things was quite different.
541
00:29:29,560 --> 00:29:34,520
Jayden wanted Tim to know
immediately after it happened.
542
00:29:34,560 --> 00:29:36,280
I didn't want to stop him
543
00:29:36,360 --> 00:29:40,160
from doing what he would want to do
in this situation
544
00:29:40,240 --> 00:29:43,520
but then I also just felt
so uncomfortable doing it.
545
00:29:43,600 --> 00:29:47,280
I felt like if I didn't
bring it out, I would lose Jayden.
546
00:29:47,360 --> 00:29:50,080
I get a little bit of anxiety
as it is
547
00:29:50,160 --> 00:29:52,280
and it just snowballed it
to be worse and worse.
548
00:29:53,800 --> 00:29:57,880
Like, I kind of thought anyone
should know, like, straight away.
549
00:29:59,120 --> 00:30:03,360
I've been in that position so many
times before and I know how I felt.
550
00:30:04,680 --> 00:30:06,000
I didn't want Tim to feel that.
551
00:30:07,880 --> 00:30:10,880
So, the longer you wait,
the worse it's gonna get.
552
00:30:16,160 --> 00:30:20,040
I just felt like in any...
whatever I decided to do,
553
00:30:20,080 --> 00:30:21,600
I was never gonna win out of it.
554
00:30:21,680 --> 00:30:24,120
It was a lose/lose situation
in every possible way.
555
00:30:25,200 --> 00:30:28,000
I honestly truly thought
that everyone in the room
556
00:30:28,080 --> 00:30:31,040
would be, like, "You're so
untrustworthy for doing this."
557
00:30:31,120 --> 00:30:33,720
TIM: I really appreciate you guys
coming to me with the information.
558
00:30:37,760 --> 00:30:39,640
Yeah.
Yeah, of course.
559
00:30:39,720 --> 00:30:42,120
It was hard for you to step out,
Eden.
560
00:30:42,200 --> 00:30:43,680
But it was just bringing...
Yeah.
561
00:30:43,760 --> 00:30:46,680
..doing the right thing, so I
appreciate both of you for doing it.
562
00:30:46,720 --> 00:30:48,080
Thanks, Tim.
563
00:30:49,680 --> 00:30:54,240
So, what did that angst do for
the two of you in terms of conflict?
564
00:30:54,280 --> 00:30:55,880
What happened there for you?
565
00:30:55,960 --> 00:30:58,280
We... We were...
We were fighting a lot.
566
00:31:00,800 --> 00:31:05,160
And my anxiety was as worse as it's
been in a long, long, long time.
567
00:31:06,480 --> 00:31:08,520
ALESSANDRA: Coming out of it
on the other side,
568
00:31:08,600 --> 00:31:13,800
having chosen to be upfront
and clear to Tim,
569
00:31:13,880 --> 00:31:16,320
what does this do
to the relationship now?
570
00:31:16,360 --> 00:31:17,880
Where do you guys stand now?
571
00:31:19,720 --> 00:31:22,240
I personally feel like
we're stronger than ever now.
572
00:31:23,720 --> 00:31:26,440
I think that
there's a lot of trust built.
573
00:31:27,520 --> 00:31:30,400
We know our morals are the same...
574
00:31:32,120 --> 00:31:35,600
and I know that even though
maybe he didn't help in the moment,
575
00:31:35,680 --> 00:31:37,880
Jayden really, really, really wants
to help
576
00:31:37,960 --> 00:31:41,000
and I don't think I've ever had
someone that wants to help that...
577
00:31:42,160 --> 00:31:43,520
so it was very nice.
578
00:31:43,560 --> 00:31:44,560
Wow.
579
00:31:44,640 --> 00:31:46,360
You ain't ever been
with the big dog, eh?
580
00:31:46,440 --> 00:31:47,680
(LAUGHS)
But you are now.
581
00:31:47,720 --> 00:31:48,720
(LAUGHS)
582
00:31:48,800 --> 00:31:51,160
We're gonna hear your decisions,
guys.
583
00:31:51,200 --> 00:31:53,320
Alright. This is not a hard one.
584
00:31:53,400 --> 00:31:54,880
Let's just go. Come on.
Very easy one.
585
00:31:54,960 --> 00:31:55,960
Yeah, let's go.
We're ready.
586
00:31:56,040 --> 00:31:58,280
Let's start with you, Jayden...
We already know what it's gonna be.
587
00:31:58,360 --> 00:32:00,040
Oh, there it is.
Did you do five hearts?
588
00:32:00,120 --> 00:32:02,080
Oh, and all the love!
One, two, three, four, five.
589
00:32:02,160 --> 00:32:04,800
Five hearts. OK.
(APPLAUSE)
590
00:32:06,320 --> 00:32:08,440
And I've got 'stay' as well,
also with five hearts.
591
00:32:08,520 --> 00:32:10,800
Oh! Matching five hearts.
Five hearts.
592
00:32:10,840 --> 00:32:12,040
A quick one.
593
00:32:13,960 --> 00:32:15,720
Well done, guys.
594
00:32:15,760 --> 00:32:17,880
Yes. Thank you. Well done.
595
00:32:17,920 --> 00:32:20,920
(APPLAUSE)
596
00:32:22,400 --> 00:32:25,760
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
597
00:32:25,800 --> 00:32:28,040
ALESSANDRA: Next up on the couch...
598
00:32:32,040 --> 00:32:33,840
Tristan and Cassandra.
599
00:32:34,840 --> 00:32:37,840
(PENSIVE MUSIC)
600
00:32:38,920 --> 00:32:40,960
(LAUGHS) Come on, honey.
601
00:32:41,000 --> 00:32:43,400
Don't leave Cass behind, Tristan.
602
00:32:43,440 --> 00:32:45,600
(LAUGHS)
603
00:32:45,640 --> 00:32:47,480
Oh, come on, honey. We're over here.
604
00:32:48,840 --> 00:32:50,280
MEL: Very eager.
605
00:32:50,360 --> 00:32:54,240
You're so enthusiastic about
reaching the couch, Tristan.
606
00:33:00,680 --> 00:33:02,480
How have you guys been?
607
00:33:02,520 --> 00:33:04,200
TRISTAN: Big week.
608
00:33:04,280 --> 00:33:07,280
The retreat, it was, like,
really tough for me mentally.
609
00:33:10,360 --> 00:33:12,880
But I feel like we're doing
really well.
610
00:33:12,960 --> 00:33:14,640
Like, we actually had
a massive breakthrough.
611
00:33:16,360 --> 00:33:17,680
OK.
612
00:33:17,760 --> 00:33:21,120
Yeah. So, for a while,
I've been, like...
613
00:33:21,200 --> 00:33:23,040
I've got weird special feelings,
right?
614
00:33:23,120 --> 00:33:25,360
This is the first time
I've ever had them with a girl,
615
00:33:25,440 --> 00:33:28,040
because all I need is someone to
kind of accept me who I am
616
00:33:28,120 --> 00:33:30,080
and that's what she's done
the whole time.
617
00:33:30,160 --> 00:33:32,520
So I decided to put it
all on the line.
618
00:33:32,600 --> 00:33:35,720
I was really nervous.
I was shitting balls, actually.
619
00:33:35,800 --> 00:33:39,400
And I was, like, "Oh, I'm falling
in love with you."
620
00:33:39,440 --> 00:33:42,720
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
621
00:33:42,760 --> 00:33:44,240
That's what I feel like it is.
622
00:33:46,560 --> 00:33:49,480
And then I was really scared 'cause
she was gonna run away and then...
623
00:33:49,560 --> 00:33:52,040
And then she didn't run away,
which is awesome.
624
00:33:56,000 --> 00:33:58,560
So, did you say
"I'm falling in love with you"
625
00:33:58,640 --> 00:34:00,680
because you feel like
you are falling in love... Yes.
626
00:34:00,760 --> 00:34:04,080
..or because you want to express
how much you REALLY like her?
627
00:34:05,240 --> 00:34:06,960
No, 'cause I'm falling in love.
628
00:34:09,560 --> 00:34:11,960
You ARE falling in love?
629
00:34:12,040 --> 00:34:14,880
Yeah, it's the first time I've said
"I'm falling in love."
630
00:34:17,120 --> 00:34:19,440
I was so nervous. I was scared.
631
00:34:19,520 --> 00:34:22,760
But it, like, great first, you know.
Like, fantastic first.
632
00:34:24,000 --> 00:34:27,000
(TENSE MUSIC)
633
00:34:35,040 --> 00:34:36,400
So, I don't regret it at all...
634
00:34:39,160 --> 00:34:42,200
because she's a special one
and you guys did well,
635
00:34:42,240 --> 00:34:44,680
so thank you for that.
636
00:34:44,720 --> 00:34:47,480
(PENSIVE MUSIC)
637
00:34:47,560 --> 00:34:51,000
I have to say, Cassandra,
you look a little bit uncomfortable.
638
00:34:53,920 --> 00:34:56,920
(PENSIVE MUSIC)
639
00:35:13,360 --> 00:35:16,840
Tristan, you ARE falling in love.
640
00:35:18,080 --> 00:35:20,480
Yeah, it's the first time
I said "I'm falling in love..."
641
00:35:22,240 --> 00:35:25,240
because she's a special one
and you guys did well.
642
00:35:26,880 --> 00:35:30,440
I have to say, Cassandra,
you look a little bit uncomfortable.
643
00:35:32,440 --> 00:35:34,160
Um...
644
00:35:37,440 --> 00:35:39,040
Yeah. Um...
645
00:35:41,360 --> 00:35:42,840
He... He's... I... I didn't want...
646
00:35:44,760 --> 00:35:49,360
I really wish
that I felt the same way back.
647
00:35:52,400 --> 00:35:54,240
That's probably why I feel
uncomfortable.
648
00:35:54,280 --> 00:35:55,720
Um...
649
00:35:55,760 --> 00:35:57,400
OK.
650
00:36:01,040 --> 00:36:03,320
(TENSE MUSIC)
651
00:36:03,360 --> 00:36:06,520
Um...but it's not there.
652
00:36:06,560 --> 00:36:09,560
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
653
00:36:14,240 --> 00:36:17,120
Do you see that as a possibility
in this relationship,
654
00:36:17,200 --> 00:36:19,280
for you to grow that kind of feelings
at this point?
655
00:36:19,320 --> 00:36:21,800
Do you see it or not?
656
00:36:21,840 --> 00:36:23,200
Um...
657
00:36:24,240 --> 00:36:26,440
Right now, I...I'm not sure.
658
00:36:26,480 --> 00:36:29,480
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
659
00:36:29,520 --> 00:36:32,080
I've thought about it a lot.
660
00:36:34,240 --> 00:36:36,360
But the relationships
that I've been in,
661
00:36:36,440 --> 00:36:40,360
when there's love there, you just
want to be around that person.
662
00:36:40,440 --> 00:36:42,480
You want to message them,
you want to call them,
663
00:36:42,560 --> 00:36:45,000
you want to talk to them,
you want to be in their space,
664
00:36:45,080 --> 00:36:48,280
you want to eat with them
and I was, like, we, like...
665
00:36:48,360 --> 00:36:53,680
We don't... We rarely kiss
and it's hard and I just...
666
00:36:53,760 --> 00:36:56,000
I don't underst...
Like, it can be very confusing.
667
00:36:56,080 --> 00:36:59,120
So you're not convinced of the type
of love he's expressing?
668
00:36:59,160 --> 00:37:01,360
It's...
669
00:37:01,440 --> 00:37:05,520
Yeah, I feel like his version
of love is different to...
670
00:37:07,680 --> 00:37:09,640
mine, maybe.
671
00:37:09,680 --> 00:37:11,880
OK.
672
00:37:11,920 --> 00:37:14,200
Alright.
673
00:37:14,240 --> 00:37:19,120
Let's go to the decision. Tristan.
674
00:37:20,640 --> 00:37:24,480
Well, you can't say
you're falling in love with someone
675
00:37:24,560 --> 00:37:27,920
and not actually say 'stay',
so I have said 'stay'.
676
00:37:27,960 --> 00:37:30,680
(APPLAUSE)
677
00:37:32,280 --> 00:37:35,080
I, um... Do I do my turn now?
678
00:37:35,120 --> 00:37:36,440
Please, Cass.
679
00:37:36,480 --> 00:37:37,960
OK. Um...
680
00:37:38,000 --> 00:37:39,720
What do I want to say?
681
00:37:40,960 --> 00:37:43,120
I'm so... I'm just frozen.
682
00:37:43,160 --> 00:37:44,440
Um...
683
00:37:50,560 --> 00:37:54,760
I've thought about this so much...
684
00:37:57,320 --> 00:38:00,280
and I...
685
00:38:01,480 --> 00:38:03,760
I feel like you've just...
686
00:38:03,800 --> 00:38:05,440
you have pushed me away quite a bit,
687
00:38:05,520 --> 00:38:08,640
like, emotionally, mentally
and physically.
688
00:38:08,680 --> 00:38:10,040
Um...
689
00:38:10,080 --> 00:38:12,400
And I've...I've tried
690
00:38:12,480 --> 00:38:16,120
and I just don't have
the same feelings for you.
691
00:38:16,160 --> 00:38:17,560
TORI: Oh...
692
00:38:21,080 --> 00:38:25,560
Maybe I think we are better
as friends and I put 'leave'.
693
00:38:25,600 --> 00:38:27,120
Leave.
694
00:38:27,160 --> 00:38:28,400
Mmm.
695
00:38:28,440 --> 00:38:30,040
RIDGE: Oooh.
696
00:38:31,560 --> 00:38:33,080
(LUCINDA SIGHS)
697
00:38:36,080 --> 00:38:39,160
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
698
00:38:40,640 --> 00:38:42,040
(CASSANDRA SIGHS)
699
00:38:47,560 --> 00:38:48,600
It's alright, honey.
700
00:38:48,680 --> 00:38:50,480
We'll have a great seven days,
you know,
701
00:38:50,560 --> 00:38:54,680
see what can happen in seven days
and then, um...we'll go from there.
702
00:38:54,720 --> 00:38:56,280
You guys were great. Um...
703
00:38:56,360 --> 00:38:58,760
JOHN: Hold on, Tristan.
Hold on. Hold on.
704
00:38:58,800 --> 00:38:59,880
(SIGHS) Yep.
705
00:39:03,560 --> 00:39:08,160
I see Cassandra
slipping through your fingers.
706
00:39:10,160 --> 00:39:13,760
And we know she's great,
but you're gonna lose her.
707
00:39:16,200 --> 00:39:18,520
But there's no...
I'm also just, like...
708
00:39:18,600 --> 00:39:21,120
I... I do try. Like, every...
Every...
709
00:39:21,200 --> 00:39:23,120
I know you try.
And I just don't know...
710
00:39:23,200 --> 00:39:25,760
At this point, I just don't know
how I can do any more.
711
00:39:25,840 --> 00:39:28,680
Like, I'm leaning in...
I'm trying to lean in and do this.
712
00:39:28,720 --> 00:39:29,840
I'm trying to kind of...
713
00:39:29,920 --> 00:39:31,960
And that's what you guys
have got to figure out.
714
00:39:32,040 --> 00:39:37,200
You've had us for six weeks, seven
weeks telling you exactly what to do.
715
00:39:37,280 --> 00:39:42,920
Now it's on you guys
to pull it together or get out.
716
00:39:42,960 --> 00:39:44,640
Copy that.
717
00:39:46,360 --> 00:39:48,800
For now,
you can go back to the group.
718
00:39:48,880 --> 00:39:50,640
Thanks for having us. Thanks, guys.
Thank you.
719
00:39:50,720 --> 00:39:54,160
(APPLAUSE)
LUCINDA: Love you, guys.
720
00:39:54,200 --> 00:39:55,320
JACK: Well done, guys.
721
00:39:55,360 --> 00:39:56,960
TRISTAN: I feel a bit blindsided.
722
00:39:57,040 --> 00:39:59,240
That's the first time I've ever said
I love someone
723
00:39:59,280 --> 00:40:01,800
and she wrote 'leave'.
724
00:40:01,840 --> 00:40:05,000
(SAD MUSIC)
725
00:40:07,960 --> 00:40:09,440
Oh, Jesus.
726
00:40:09,520 --> 00:40:11,040
TRISTAN: I thought
we were making progress.
727
00:40:11,120 --> 00:40:14,320
I guess I was off.
I guess I was on the wrong page.
728
00:40:14,400 --> 00:40:18,560
I'll still give it 110% for the week
because I don't want to lose her
729
00:40:18,640 --> 00:40:21,840
but I'm just a bit more confused
than ever, to be honest.
730
00:40:24,680 --> 00:40:27,600
MEL: Our next couple
up on the couch...
731
00:40:27,640 --> 00:40:30,640
(TENSE MUSIC)
732
00:40:34,320 --> 00:40:35,840
..is Andrea and Richard.
733
00:40:35,920 --> 00:40:38,120
(CHEERS)
TIMOTHY: Grandpa and Aunty.
734
00:40:38,200 --> 00:40:40,520
RICHARD: Right. Grandpa. Yes.
(LAUGHS)
735
00:40:42,120 --> 00:40:43,440
They clap. I have to.
736
00:40:43,520 --> 00:40:44,720
MEL: Hello.
Hello.
737
00:40:44,760 --> 00:40:46,280
Hello.
738
00:40:46,360 --> 00:40:51,000
Richie, you were unwell
on the retreat, I understand.
739
00:40:51,080 --> 00:40:52,400
I was unwell on the retreat...
OK.
740
00:40:52,440 --> 00:40:53,760
..and I've been unwell for a week.
741
00:40:53,840 --> 00:40:56,680
You know, it's the old 'in sickness
and in health', you know,
742
00:40:56,760 --> 00:40:58,280
that kind of part
of the marriage vow.
743
00:40:58,360 --> 00:40:59,800
Right.
Getting it all.
744
00:40:59,880 --> 00:41:02,680
That's the bit that we've been
challenged with and facing.
745
00:41:02,760 --> 00:41:04,240
You've been putting it to the test?
Yeah.
746
00:41:04,320 --> 00:41:07,800
I actually really like sick Richie.
(LAUGHS) And why is that?
747
00:41:07,840 --> 00:41:11,560
He was just quieter and cute.
748
00:41:13,560 --> 00:41:14,560
(LUCINDA LAUGHS)
749
00:41:14,640 --> 00:41:16,560
And... (LAUGHS) I got to, like,
look after him...
750
00:41:16,600 --> 00:41:17,960
I mean, he's cute all the time.
751
00:41:18,000 --> 00:41:19,160
He is cute all the time
752
00:41:19,240 --> 00:41:21,080
but he was just this, like,
this little baby cute
753
00:41:21,160 --> 00:41:23,960
and I could, like, nurture a little
bit and it was kind of nice.
754
00:41:24,040 --> 00:41:26,160
Not quite sure how that lands
for you, Richie.
755
00:41:28,480 --> 00:41:30,840
Yeah, no, it doesn't look good.
(LAUGHS)
756
00:41:30,920 --> 00:41:32,800
Yeah, well, it's interesting
because there's...
757
00:41:34,280 --> 00:41:36,760
I mean, I take that. Great.
758
00:41:36,840 --> 00:41:41,400
You know, very nice, but, you know,
when I'm sick, I'm half myself...
759
00:41:41,480 --> 00:41:42,480
Mm-hm.
..you know.
760
00:41:42,560 --> 00:41:45,560
I'm not my boisterous,
energetic, usual self,
761
00:41:45,640 --> 00:41:50,360
so if that's what Andy prefers,
then what does that mean?
762
00:41:52,480 --> 00:41:55,240
I didn't say I prefer.
I just said I like you...
763
00:41:55,320 --> 00:41:56,360
OK. OK. OK.
..like that.
764
00:41:56,440 --> 00:41:57,400
OK.
Yeah.
765
00:41:57,480 --> 00:41:59,360
And whilst I take the joke about...
Yeah.
766
00:41:59,440 --> 00:42:01,040
"..I like him better
when he's sick..."
767
00:42:01,080 --> 00:42:02,160
Yes. That's a joke.
768
00:42:02,240 --> 00:42:06,400
..but perhaps the message there is
Andy's more nurturing, softer side
769
00:42:06,480 --> 00:42:11,560
is able to come out when you are
perhaps a little bit less Richie.
770
00:42:11,600 --> 00:42:13,760
And that's fine, yeah?
771
00:42:13,840 --> 00:42:16,480
Our relationship, though,
as I see it,
772
00:42:16,560 --> 00:42:19,320
like, we're far into
the experiment now.
773
00:42:19,400 --> 00:42:22,520
We haven't kissed
for over six weeks.
774
00:42:26,960 --> 00:42:30,640
Like, we haven't had
an intimate kiss for over six weeks.
775
00:42:30,720 --> 00:42:32,880
So, is all of this
getting in the way of that?
776
00:42:35,320 --> 00:42:37,960
I don't know. That connection
hasn't been made to me.
777
00:42:38,000 --> 00:42:39,720
I'm not really sure what's going on.
778
00:42:42,160 --> 00:42:47,680
Andy, from your position,
was it that moment on the couch
779
00:42:47,760 --> 00:42:50,560
when Richie was very open
about your sex life,
780
00:42:50,600 --> 00:42:53,480
was that the turning point for you?
781
00:42:53,560 --> 00:42:57,440
That was pretty horrible for me,
yeah.
782
00:42:57,480 --> 00:43:02,400
But I have tried to get past that
783
00:43:02,480 --> 00:43:05,280
and we've had
a few other little things
784
00:43:05,320 --> 00:43:07,840
that sort of make me pull back.
785
00:43:09,040 --> 00:43:12,960
So, yeah, I haven't felt like that.
786
00:43:14,920 --> 00:43:17,000
Can you put your finger on why?
787
00:43:17,040 --> 00:43:18,680
Yeah.
788
00:43:18,760 --> 00:43:22,160
I don't know why either.
The mood, the tone, the...
789
00:43:24,400 --> 00:43:29,680
the...not the softness
and that sort of thing.
790
00:43:29,720 --> 00:43:31,600
Are you hearing that, Richie?
791
00:43:33,040 --> 00:43:36,280
(LAUGHS) Well, I mean,
I've sat on this couch
792
00:43:36,360 --> 00:43:40,040
and I've been told by Andy a number
of times how nice a person I am
793
00:43:40,120 --> 00:43:44,720
and how supportive I've been for her
and how patient and how...
794
00:43:44,800 --> 00:43:49,200
I mean, you've used all those words.
Isn't that soft and kind and nice?
795
00:43:52,240 --> 00:43:53,600
And then it's been turned on me
796
00:43:53,680 --> 00:43:56,560
and now suddenly
I'm this bombastic guy and...
797
00:43:56,600 --> 00:43:58,280
OK.
798
00:44:02,320 --> 00:44:04,880
Guys, I've gotta say,
799
00:44:04,960 --> 00:44:09,680
there's a real disconnect
between the two of you
800
00:44:09,760 --> 00:44:14,440
and I don't think you're listening
to each other at the moment.
801
00:44:18,240 --> 00:44:20,920
You know, this seems like a really
pivotal point for the two of you.
802
00:44:23,200 --> 00:44:25,320
We've seen the energy
between the two of you.
803
00:44:25,360 --> 00:44:27,360
We know that you like each other.
804
00:44:29,160 --> 00:44:31,280
You can't continue in this way.
805
00:44:33,880 --> 00:44:35,680
We're gonna go to the decision.
806
00:44:38,800 --> 00:44:40,440
I'm choosing to stay.
It's stay.
807
00:44:40,520 --> 00:44:42,160
Good.
(APPLAUSE)
808
00:44:43,800 --> 00:44:46,680
Well, also, in the same way,
obviously I chose stay as well...
809
00:44:46,760 --> 00:44:47,720
Yeah.
That's a big stay.
810
00:44:47,800 --> 00:44:49,640
..because we're not going...
A big, strong stay.
811
00:44:49,680 --> 00:44:52,200
(APPLAUSE)
812
00:44:52,240 --> 00:44:53,480
Alright, you two.
813
00:44:53,560 --> 00:44:56,080
Well, this is about
coming back together
814
00:44:56,120 --> 00:44:58,040
and giving each other that feedback
815
00:44:58,120 --> 00:44:59,760
about what's working
and what's not working,
816
00:44:59,840 --> 00:45:04,240
really listening to each other and
noticing how that dynamic changes.
817
00:45:04,320 --> 00:45:08,080
Hopefully, there might be
some more kissing this week.
818
00:45:08,120 --> 00:45:09,440
Let's hope.
819
00:45:09,520 --> 00:45:10,960
Thank you, guys.
Alright. Thank you.
820
00:45:11,040 --> 00:45:12,120
JOHN: Good luck, guys.
Alright.
821
00:45:12,200 --> 00:45:13,640
Thank you.
(APPLAUSE)
822
00:45:18,320 --> 00:45:22,320
RICHARD: I'm a bit frustrated
by that, to be honest.
823
00:45:22,400 --> 00:45:25,400
I don't really know where I stand
with Andy.
824
00:45:25,480 --> 00:45:30,160
But all I want to do is get our
relationship back to where it was.
825
00:45:32,320 --> 00:45:33,720
NARRATOR: Still to come...
826
00:45:33,800 --> 00:45:37,800
Jack, I'm at a point now
where I'm almost lost for words.
827
00:45:37,880 --> 00:45:41,880
..a fed-up expert John
holds Jack to account.
828
00:45:41,960 --> 00:45:44,840
It's not good enough
coming from a personal trainer,
829
00:45:44,880 --> 00:45:46,200
who should know better.
830
00:45:46,240 --> 00:45:49,200
And Sara tries to make amends.
831
00:45:49,280 --> 00:45:51,840
I'm gonna do everything in my power
to make Tim my priority.
832
00:45:51,880 --> 00:45:53,280
I don't care what you guys think.
833
00:45:53,320 --> 00:45:54,840
There's still a lot to unpack.
834
00:45:54,920 --> 00:45:56,880
Sorry, can I just finish
what I was saying?
835
00:45:58,280 --> 00:45:59,840
I was just getting to a point.
836
00:46:08,960 --> 00:46:10,720
Alright, next up on the couch...
837
00:46:16,760 --> 00:46:18,360
Jonathan and Lauren.
838
00:46:18,400 --> 00:46:21,400
(APPLAUSE)
839
00:46:22,920 --> 00:46:23,880
Hey, guys.
LAUREN: Hey.
840
00:46:23,920 --> 00:46:24,920
JONATHAN: Hey, guys.
841
00:46:28,160 --> 00:46:31,920
So, how was the couples' retreat
for you both?
842
00:46:32,000 --> 00:46:35,720
I'd say the last days of the retreat
were really good for us.
843
00:46:35,800 --> 00:46:40,000
We sat by the pool and had some of
the best, longest chats we've had.
844
00:46:40,080 --> 00:46:44,960
We just sat there and we literally
just, like, laughed the whole time.
845
00:46:45,000 --> 00:46:46,320
Like, we started talking, like...
846
00:46:46,400 --> 00:46:49,880
there's some kind of possible future
for us,
847
00:46:49,920 --> 00:46:51,480
which we've never really done.
848
00:46:51,520 --> 00:46:52,520
Yeah.
849
00:46:52,600 --> 00:46:54,920
In the last few days,
we've sort of been holding hands
850
00:46:55,000 --> 00:46:58,160
and actually sitting close
to each other when we do...
851
00:46:58,240 --> 00:46:59,480
Yeah.
..sort I think, like...
852
00:46:59,560 --> 00:47:01,160
WOMAN: Aw!
(LAUGHS)
853
00:47:01,200 --> 00:47:03,560
I love it. Progress.
854
00:47:03,600 --> 00:47:04,960
Always happy with progress.
855
00:47:05,000 --> 00:47:07,920
Let's go to the decision.
856
00:47:08,000 --> 00:47:10,000
Lauren.
OK.
857
00:47:11,040 --> 00:47:13,640
I wrote 'stay'
with an exclamation mark.
858
00:47:13,720 --> 00:47:16,120
Oh, wow.
Enthusiastic 'stay'. I like it.
859
00:47:16,160 --> 00:47:17,720
I like it.
860
00:47:17,760 --> 00:47:19,400
Jonathan.
861
00:47:19,440 --> 00:47:21,880
I had the best three days,
862
00:47:21,960 --> 00:47:24,720
so I think it's going well
and I'd like to stay.
863
00:47:24,800 --> 00:47:26,320
(APPLAUSE)
(LAUGHTER)
864
00:47:26,360 --> 00:47:28,240
Thanks, guys.
865
00:47:28,280 --> 00:47:29,480
Thank you so much.
866
00:47:29,520 --> 00:47:30,560
JOHN: Jade and Ridge.
867
00:47:30,600 --> 00:47:33,560
(APPLAUSE)
868
00:47:37,000 --> 00:47:38,840
Well, let's get straight into it.
Couples' retreat.
869
00:47:38,920 --> 00:47:41,120
I feel like the couples' retreat
was great.
870
00:47:41,200 --> 00:47:43,360
We had the best time. (LAUGHS)
Literally the best time.
871
00:47:43,440 --> 00:47:46,320
Like, I don't look at anyone
the way I look at Jade.
872
00:47:46,400 --> 00:47:48,800
I've always said, the next girl
who comes along
873
00:47:48,880 --> 00:47:50,360
who has everything I want
in a partner,
874
00:47:50,440 --> 00:47:53,280
I'm gonna give everything
that I have and that's Jade.
875
00:47:53,360 --> 00:47:55,480
I mean, these are big feelings...
Mmm. Definitely.
876
00:47:55,560 --> 00:47:57,200
..Ridge. Big feelings.
I'm, like, an 8.2.
877
00:47:57,280 --> 00:47:59,520
She's only 6.5
and she thinks she likes me more.
878
00:47:59,560 --> 00:48:00,760
Can you believe that?
879
00:48:00,800 --> 00:48:02,720
(LAUGHTER)
880
00:48:02,800 --> 00:48:05,360
Ridge and I are definitely
in a good place.
881
00:48:05,440 --> 00:48:09,560
And I introduced Ridge
to my daughter.
882
00:48:09,600 --> 00:48:11,960
We went to the zoo.
883
00:48:12,000 --> 00:48:13,200
Obviously, I was flattered
884
00:48:13,280 --> 00:48:15,520
that she even wanted me to go
and meet her daughter
885
00:48:15,560 --> 00:48:17,080
but I was always ready for it.
886
00:48:17,160 --> 00:48:21,040
It made me really happy
seeing the way he is with her.
887
00:48:22,280 --> 00:48:25,880
Well, it's just wonderful to hear.
888
00:48:27,240 --> 00:48:29,200
Let's go to the decision.
889
00:48:29,280 --> 00:48:33,680
Stay or leave?
Let's go with you first, Ridge.
890
00:48:33,760 --> 00:48:35,240
Stay.
Good.
891
00:48:35,280 --> 00:48:37,640
(APPLAUSE)
892
00:48:37,720 --> 00:48:40,160
Jade, what have you got?
Stay or leave?
893
00:48:40,200 --> 00:48:43,440
I have 'stay'.
894
00:48:43,480 --> 00:48:44,800
(APPLAUSE)
895
00:48:44,880 --> 00:48:46,760
And with that,
you can go back to the group.
896
00:48:46,840 --> 00:48:48,360
MEL: Thanks, guys.
ALESSANDRA: Have a good week.
897
00:48:48,400 --> 00:48:51,160
(APPLAUSE)
898
00:48:53,160 --> 00:48:54,880
Let's get our next couple up.
899
00:48:54,920 --> 00:48:58,840
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
900
00:48:58,880 --> 00:49:00,240
Michael and Stephen.
901
00:49:00,320 --> 00:49:02,160
(APPLAUSE)
JACK: Go, boys.
902
00:49:05,000 --> 00:49:06,040
MICHAEL: Hey, hey.
MEL: Hello.
903
00:49:06,120 --> 00:49:07,640
ALESSANDRA: Hi.
Hi.
904
00:49:10,280 --> 00:49:12,720
JOHN: Well, you two,
last time we saw you on the couch,
905
00:49:12,800 --> 00:49:15,080
it was clear that, Stephen,
you were gonna step up
906
00:49:15,160 --> 00:49:18,920
and we are very keen to know
how it all went.
907
00:49:20,240 --> 00:49:21,640
Um...
908
00:49:21,720 --> 00:49:24,320
Yeah, that kind of went downhill
quickly. (LAUGHS)
909
00:49:26,960 --> 00:49:28,560
We had a publicity shoot
910
00:49:28,640 --> 00:49:33,960
and there was a little spark that
Stephen had with the hairdresser.
911
00:49:34,000 --> 00:49:35,840
Oh.
912
00:49:35,920 --> 00:49:39,280
And on the way home, I was, like,
"Was there any feelings there?
913
00:49:39,360 --> 00:49:41,160
"Was there any attraction?"
I was told no.
914
00:49:41,240 --> 00:49:43,600
Only to fast-forward
a few hours later
915
00:49:43,680 --> 00:49:45,920
to find out
that there was a spark there
916
00:49:46,000 --> 00:49:48,800
and that he will never see
anything here,
917
00:49:48,880 --> 00:49:52,040
so it was basically,
like, a hard no.
918
00:49:56,480 --> 00:50:00,480
What made you decide "I'm gonna tell
him about this spark, come clean"?
919
00:50:00,560 --> 00:50:05,840
For me, when I felt that spark,
it was like a light bulb moment.
920
00:50:05,880 --> 00:50:07,520
I was, like, that's what's missing.
921
00:50:07,600 --> 00:50:11,920
And, yeah, I felt like
it was just a lie for me
922
00:50:12,000 --> 00:50:14,360
to go on another minute
without voicing that.
923
00:50:16,560 --> 00:50:20,280
I was blown away because I'm trying
to grow something deeper
924
00:50:20,320 --> 00:50:21,640
than just a spark
925
00:50:21,720 --> 00:50:24,680
but you didn't give me a chance
to build anything deeper
926
00:50:24,760 --> 00:50:27,560
because you got distracted
in a heartbeat.
927
00:50:27,640 --> 00:50:31,120
I think that I have always
been honest.
928
00:50:31,160 --> 00:50:34,600
I have never felt a spark
929
00:50:34,640 --> 00:50:37,840
and I don't want to lead you on
930
00:50:37,920 --> 00:50:41,040
and there have been many times where
we are getting along really well
931
00:50:41,080 --> 00:50:43,280
and that misleads you.
932
00:50:43,360 --> 00:50:45,800
Michael, what's it been like for you
on the receiving end of it
933
00:50:45,840 --> 00:50:47,120
throughout this experiment?
934
00:50:47,160 --> 00:50:49,360
Look, it really crushed me.
935
00:50:51,960 --> 00:50:55,520
Like, I've come into this
with an open heart, open mind,
936
00:50:55,560 --> 00:50:56,760
wanting to give it my all.
937
00:50:56,840 --> 00:51:02,240
I'm absolutely defeated,
I'm deflated and I'm exhausted now.
938
00:51:06,480 --> 00:51:07,880
We've gotta go to the decision.
939
00:51:09,080 --> 00:51:11,240
Stephen, let's go with you first.
940
00:51:11,280 --> 00:51:13,840
Stay or leave - what do you reckon?
941
00:51:13,880 --> 00:51:15,600
Yeah, look, I...
942
00:51:15,640 --> 00:51:19,080
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
943
00:51:19,160 --> 00:51:23,080
I think, you know,
it's time to call...call it.
944
00:51:27,560 --> 00:51:30,000
Michael, stay or leave?
945
00:51:32,880 --> 00:51:34,920
I don't feel like you ever tried.
946
00:51:35,000 --> 00:51:37,400
I don't feel like you ever showed up
here to try.
947
00:51:37,480 --> 00:51:39,080
I feel like you got here
immediately,
948
00:51:39,160 --> 00:51:42,080
was, like, "I don't like you,
I'm ready to go."
949
00:51:42,160 --> 00:51:44,120
You kept your foot at the exit
the entire time.
950
00:51:46,040 --> 00:51:49,800
I've always been a fighter
and I've given everything my all...
951
00:51:51,800 --> 00:51:55,320
but sometimes you have to keep
your head held high, so...
952
00:51:56,800 --> 00:51:58,680
LAUREN: No!
LUCINDA: Mmm.
953
00:52:01,480 --> 00:52:03,680
..yeah, I've decided
it's time to go.
954
00:52:03,760 --> 00:52:06,720
Michael, I know how much
you wanted this...
955
00:52:08,320 --> 00:52:11,720
so we are absolutely devastated
that it hasn't worked out.
956
00:52:12,840 --> 00:52:16,360
But in saying that, even the way
you've handled this situation tonight
957
00:52:16,440 --> 00:52:19,120
has just shown everybody
your integrity.
958
00:52:19,200 --> 00:52:21,800
We've loved having you
as part of the experiment.
959
00:52:21,840 --> 00:52:23,560
We wish you all the very best.
960
00:52:23,640 --> 00:52:25,880
You can go back to the group.
Thank you guys so much.
961
00:52:25,960 --> 00:52:27,600
Honestly, thank you so much.
(APPLAUSE)
962
00:52:29,400 --> 00:52:33,560
I came into this wanting to give it
my all and I did.
963
00:52:33,640 --> 00:52:36,720
I've felt extreme highs,
I've felt extreme lows
964
00:52:36,760 --> 00:52:38,760
but I'm grateful for the experiment.
965
00:52:38,840 --> 00:52:42,320
It feels good to go back home
knowing I'm a stronger person.
966
00:52:42,400 --> 00:52:45,120
ALESSANDRA: Our next couple
up on the couch...
967
00:52:45,160 --> 00:52:48,560
(TENSE MUSIC)
968
00:52:50,280 --> 00:52:51,840
Tori and Jack.
969
00:52:51,920 --> 00:52:53,480
JACK: (BLEEP)!
(APPLAUSE)
970
00:52:55,280 --> 00:52:57,280
MEL: Hello.
Hello.
971
00:52:57,320 --> 00:52:59,400
Hey, guys.
972
00:52:59,480 --> 00:53:04,160
I had a chance to observe you guys
last night and a lot was going on.
973
00:53:05,520 --> 00:53:09,600
I'd like to hear from you,
how do you sum it all up,
974
00:53:09,680 --> 00:53:11,880
the couples' retreat
and everything that's gone down?
975
00:53:11,960 --> 00:53:15,960
Yeah, look, it's been a tough one.
(CLEARS THROAT)
976
00:53:16,040 --> 00:53:18,520
We've, um...
definitely had our issues.
977
00:53:18,560 --> 00:53:20,600
We were hoping couples' retreat
978
00:53:20,680 --> 00:53:23,000
would be a good time
and a jolly time
979
00:53:23,040 --> 00:53:24,760
but I've come under fire again.
980
00:53:27,240 --> 00:53:28,840
Um...
981
00:53:28,880 --> 00:53:30,280
Yeah, Tori's pretty pissed with me.
982
00:53:32,120 --> 00:53:34,520
JOHN: It shows.
Yeah.
983
00:53:37,520 --> 00:53:42,360
I just feel like it's just been
one thing after the other with Jack.
984
00:53:44,640 --> 00:53:46,880
Last night at the dinner party,
985
00:53:46,960 --> 00:53:50,160
the whole thing regarding
the 'whale' comment,
986
00:53:50,200 --> 00:53:53,840
it was just really off-putting
987
00:53:53,920 --> 00:53:58,000
and I think Jack said sorry
quite a bit
988
00:53:58,080 --> 00:54:01,440
but I'm at a point where I need,
like, firm action.
989
00:54:01,520 --> 00:54:05,200
ALESSANDRA: It's interesting because
what we saw at the dinner party
990
00:54:05,240 --> 00:54:08,120
was a very united front again.
991
00:54:08,200 --> 00:54:10,680
I feel like last night
we were very united
992
00:54:10,720 --> 00:54:13,640
and then, when we got home,
993
00:54:13,720 --> 00:54:17,840
I did have a moment of, like,
"Hold up."
994
00:54:19,200 --> 00:54:24,440
I don't condone this behaviour.
Like, I don't stand for any of this.
995
00:54:24,480 --> 00:54:26,080
Yeah, exactly.
996
00:54:27,600 --> 00:54:32,880
JOHN: Jack, I'm at a point now
where I'm almost lost for words.
997
00:54:32,920 --> 00:54:35,680
'Cause let's just reflect.
998
00:54:37,560 --> 00:54:41,200
We've got you
coming into this experiment
999
00:54:41,240 --> 00:54:44,360
in a cloud of suspicion
1000
00:54:44,440 --> 00:54:47,880
that you've got an ex-girlfriend
on the outside.
1001
00:54:49,800 --> 00:54:52,680
You then use a 'muzzle' comment
during the dinner party.
1002
00:54:56,280 --> 00:55:01,160
You then mention -
and it's hard for me to say -
1003
00:55:01,200 --> 00:55:04,920
that if there's a partner swap,
1004
00:55:05,000 --> 00:55:07,760
they're going to go to have sex
with your partner.
1005
00:55:11,120 --> 00:55:13,600
And when you think I might be done,
I'm not.
1006
00:55:13,640 --> 00:55:16,800
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1007
00:55:28,360 --> 00:55:34,320
We've got you coming into this
experiment in a cloud of suspicion
1008
00:55:34,400 --> 00:55:36,520
that you've got an ex-girlfriend
on the outside.
1009
00:55:37,920 --> 00:55:41,240
You then use a 'muzzle' comment
during a dinner party.
1010
00:55:41,320 --> 00:55:44,000
I don't want to go on
but I will go on.
1011
00:55:47,160 --> 00:55:52,720
You then mention
that if there's a partner swap,
1012
00:55:52,800 --> 00:55:55,200
they're gonna get to have sex
with your partner.
1013
00:55:55,240 --> 00:55:57,960
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1014
00:55:58,040 --> 00:55:59,960
And when you think I might be done,
I'm not...
1015
00:56:00,960 --> 00:56:02,960
because there's other things here.
1016
00:56:07,440 --> 00:56:13,040
You top it off with a comment
when you're at a pool
1017
00:56:13,080 --> 00:56:15,080
that they looked like whales.
1018
00:56:16,600 --> 00:56:19,240
And this, frankly,
is coming from a personal trainer
1019
00:56:19,280 --> 00:56:20,520
who should know better.
1020
00:56:24,160 --> 00:56:25,560
It's not good enough.
1021
00:56:27,720 --> 00:56:29,960
What I do see tonight
that's different
1022
00:56:30,000 --> 00:56:35,640
is that Tori has cottoned on to you.
1023
00:56:35,720 --> 00:56:39,040
Your body language says
"We're in deep trouble"
1024
00:56:39,120 --> 00:56:44,240
and I'm at a point now
where I'm almost lost for words.
1025
00:56:45,760 --> 00:56:48,040
I've gotta clean my act up.
1026
00:56:49,160 --> 00:56:51,800
And I can only,
moving forward from here...
1027
00:56:51,840 --> 00:56:53,800
I know you're distant from me.
1028
00:56:53,840 --> 00:56:55,400
Last night was shit
1029
00:56:55,480 --> 00:56:59,040
and I want to make it up to you
and everyone else as well.
1030
00:56:59,120 --> 00:57:03,600
No more shady comments,
no more shitty acts
1031
00:57:03,680 --> 00:57:06,480
and I want to get through this
and focus on us
1032
00:57:06,560 --> 00:57:09,320
and show you
what I think the real me is.
1033
00:57:11,400 --> 00:57:16,480
ALESSANDRA: Tori, do you trust Jack?
1034
00:57:16,520 --> 00:57:19,520
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1035
00:57:26,160 --> 00:57:27,280
Do you trust me?
1036
00:57:32,680 --> 00:57:37,920
That... That element of trust is,
like, in question, yeah.
1037
00:57:39,560 --> 00:57:41,440
OK.
1038
00:57:42,840 --> 00:57:45,680
I think that's basically
my biggest concern.
1039
00:57:45,720 --> 00:57:49,560
Pay attention to what you're seeing.
1040
00:57:49,600 --> 00:57:51,840
People will show you who they are
1041
00:57:51,920 --> 00:57:57,480
and they can be very intelligent and
know better, but it's how they act.
1042
00:57:57,520 --> 00:57:59,480
You're seeing behaviours.
1043
00:58:02,200 --> 00:58:06,280
So, let's find out your decision
this week, starting with you, Jack.
1044
00:58:06,320 --> 00:58:08,600
I'm staying.
1045
00:58:08,640 --> 00:58:11,640
(TENSE MUSIC)
1046
00:58:16,000 --> 00:58:17,040
Tori?
1047
00:58:17,080 --> 00:58:18,400
Um...
1048
00:58:18,440 --> 00:58:21,440
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1049
00:58:28,320 --> 00:58:32,800
Like I said before,
I don't need to hear any more.
1050
00:58:32,840 --> 00:58:34,160
I need to see.
1051
00:58:37,920 --> 00:58:40,480
And in order to see that,
I need to stay.
1052
00:58:40,520 --> 00:58:43,520
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1053
00:58:57,480 --> 00:59:01,280
Tori, I insist,
1054
00:59:01,320 --> 00:59:05,640
you just have to observe people.
1055
00:59:05,680 --> 00:59:07,360
They will show you.
1056
00:59:08,760 --> 00:59:10,880
Pay attention to what you're seeing.
1057
00:59:12,880 --> 00:59:14,040
Sure.
1058
00:59:14,080 --> 00:59:15,880
Have a good week.
1059
00:59:15,960 --> 00:59:18,240
Thank you.
Thank you. (CLEARS THROAT)
1060
00:59:18,280 --> 00:59:20,040
(APPLAUSE)
1061
00:59:20,120 --> 00:59:24,240
TORI: It's going to be
a pivotal week
1062
00:59:24,280 --> 00:59:27,080
because the trust has been shaken.
1063
00:59:27,160 --> 00:59:29,680
"Like, I know you're sorry.
You've said it. That's great.
1064
00:59:29,760 --> 00:59:32,080
"Love that for you."
Now I need to see it.
1065
00:59:35,640 --> 00:59:37,480
Let's get our next couple up.
1066
00:59:40,960 --> 00:59:42,000
Sara and Tim.
1067
00:59:42,040 --> 00:59:45,040
(APPLAUSE)
1068
00:59:46,960 --> 00:59:49,960
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1069
00:59:54,640 --> 00:59:56,880
Well, let's get straight into it,
shall we?
1070
01:00:01,440 --> 01:00:03,760
That dinner party...
1071
01:00:08,440 --> 01:00:13,120
Uh, Sara, what happened?
1072
01:00:14,360 --> 01:00:19,000
Basically, yeah, we came in
pretty good from the retreat.
1073
01:00:19,040 --> 01:00:20,520
Very good.
1074
01:00:20,600 --> 01:00:23,200
Yeah, probably the best
we've ever been.
1075
01:00:23,280 --> 01:00:28,480
And then Jayden and Eden
pulled us aside and said,
1076
01:00:28,560 --> 01:00:30,160
"Is there something
you want to tell Tim
1077
01:00:30,200 --> 01:00:31,640
"about what you did on the weekend?"
1078
01:00:31,720 --> 01:00:37,400
I told Tim that I met up
with my ex-boyfriend, um...
1079
01:00:38,800 --> 01:00:42,040
Yeah, that was...
that was what happened.
1080
01:00:42,080 --> 01:00:45,080
(TENSE MUSIC)
1081
01:00:48,160 --> 01:00:51,440
So, help me understand this.
Why were you meeting up with your ex?
1082
01:00:54,080 --> 01:00:57,840
There was no specific reason
behind it. Um...
1083
01:01:02,120 --> 01:01:04,520
What kind of relationship
do you have with your ex?
1084
01:01:04,560 --> 01:01:06,840
It's a friendship.
1085
01:01:10,000 --> 01:01:13,680
So, how long have you been
not going out with him for?
1086
01:01:13,720 --> 01:01:14,840
Six years.
1087
01:01:16,120 --> 01:01:19,040
But throughout those six years,
you've been seeing him on and off?
1088
01:01:19,080 --> 01:01:20,400
Yes.
1089
01:01:20,480 --> 01:01:22,200
So you've kind of been
going out with him
1090
01:01:22,280 --> 01:01:26,640
but not in a classic
stereotypical way.
1091
01:01:28,280 --> 01:01:32,520
For the first four years after, yes.
1092
01:01:32,560 --> 01:01:35,760
After that, no.
1093
01:01:35,800 --> 01:01:37,800
We didn't hook up after that.
1094
01:01:37,880 --> 01:01:40,040
I thought you mentioned
that you did hook up with him
1095
01:01:40,120 --> 01:01:42,480
a month before
coming onto the experiment.
1096
01:01:42,520 --> 01:01:45,800
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1097
01:01:45,840 --> 01:01:48,280
Yes. Yes, I did.
1098
01:01:50,360 --> 01:01:52,640
So it hasn't been two years?
1099
01:01:52,720 --> 01:01:54,120
Um...
Just to clarify.
1100
01:01:54,200 --> 01:01:55,400
Yes. Yes, correct.
OK.
1101
01:02:08,040 --> 01:02:10,160
We didn't hook up after that.
1102
01:02:10,240 --> 01:02:12,680
I thought you mentioned
that you did hook up with him
1103
01:02:12,760 --> 01:02:14,800
a month before
coming onto the experiment.
1104
01:02:18,160 --> 01:02:20,400
Yes. Yes, I did.
1105
01:02:23,160 --> 01:02:25,520
So it hasn't been two years?
1106
01:02:25,600 --> 01:02:27,080
Um...
Just to clarify.
1107
01:02:27,160 --> 01:02:28,840
Yes. Yes, correct.
OK.
1108
01:02:32,200 --> 01:02:36,640
Sara, a very important point.
1109
01:02:36,680 --> 01:02:39,720
Friends don't get naked and have sex.
1110
01:02:43,720 --> 01:02:46,240
You did that a month before
the experiment started.
1111
01:02:46,280 --> 01:02:49,280
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1112
01:02:50,720 --> 01:02:52,600
What was your question?
1113
01:02:52,640 --> 01:02:55,640
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1114
01:03:00,160 --> 01:03:02,800
Eden, what were the texts
that made you feel suspicious?
1115
01:03:04,800 --> 01:03:07,800
Well, she said "I'm going to see
my ex" and then she wrote "Shh."
1116
01:03:08,960 --> 01:03:11,880
She was asking for a dress.
She said she wanted to look good.
1117
01:03:11,960 --> 01:03:14,920
Sara, if you're just friends,
why would you want to borrow a dress
1118
01:03:14,960 --> 01:03:16,000
to meet your ex?
1119
01:03:17,840 --> 01:03:20,000
JAYDEN: 'Cause he's not
just a friend.
1120
01:03:21,880 --> 01:03:23,160
Um...
1121
01:03:23,240 --> 01:03:27,240
I actually wanted him to know
that I was doing well.
1122
01:03:27,280 --> 01:03:28,440
TIM: And that's the confusing part,
1123
01:03:28,520 --> 01:03:30,960
is, like, you know, if you wanted
to show that you're doing good,
1124
01:03:31,040 --> 01:03:32,600
you would've been proud
to bring me there.
1125
01:03:37,040 --> 01:03:38,400
So, the question has to be asked,
1126
01:03:38,480 --> 01:03:40,200
do you still have feelings
for your ex?
1127
01:03:40,240 --> 01:03:42,080
No, and I told Tim that.
1128
01:03:43,280 --> 01:03:45,560
Because your behaviour
says otherwise.
1129
01:03:46,840 --> 01:03:49,680
I mean, you guys can keep
saying that, but I know how I feel.
1130
01:03:56,000 --> 01:03:59,520
So, if he's just a friend,
why didn't you tell Tim about it?
1131
01:03:59,560 --> 01:04:02,360
Did you think you'd get away with it?
1132
01:04:06,000 --> 01:04:07,000
Yep.
1133
01:04:07,080 --> 01:04:09,320
If Eden didn't say anything, there's
no way you would've said anything.
1134
01:04:09,400 --> 01:04:10,360
Yeah.
No chance.
1135
01:04:10,440 --> 01:04:12,440
Mm-hm.
This is my time on the couch.
1136
01:04:12,520 --> 01:04:14,840
This isn't a dinner party,
thank you.
1137
01:04:18,520 --> 01:04:20,880
Sara, I'm looking at
your body language right now
1138
01:04:20,960 --> 01:04:25,320
and you seem very reserved, guarded,
almost like, um...
1139
01:04:27,280 --> 01:04:28,840
you don't want to be answering
these questions.
1140
01:04:32,240 --> 01:04:33,480
Well, personally,
1141
01:04:33,560 --> 01:04:36,840
I don't understand why everyone
is having an opinion right now.
1142
01:04:36,920 --> 01:04:38,440
You're just sorry
that you got caught,
1143
01:04:38,480 --> 01:04:39,840
not actually sorry for what you did.
1144
01:04:39,880 --> 01:04:42,280
Sorry, guys, my turn. Thanks.
1145
01:04:44,240 --> 01:04:48,640
Tim, what impact did it have on you?
Take us there.
1146
01:04:49,960 --> 01:04:51,920
Um... Yeah, it was devastating.
1147
01:04:53,080 --> 01:04:55,240
We went through some turmoil
at the retreat
1148
01:04:55,320 --> 01:04:57,760
and we came back out
in a really good place
1149
01:04:57,840 --> 01:05:01,160
and to hear that,
I was...I was really hurt.
1150
01:05:01,240 --> 01:05:04,080
But to me, it's been
a bigger-picture sort of thing.
1151
01:05:04,120 --> 01:05:06,800
The whole experiment,
1152
01:05:06,880 --> 01:05:12,440
I just haven't felt like
Sara's wanted to be here with me.
1153
01:05:14,760 --> 01:05:16,720
I don't think she really likes me.
1154
01:05:18,440 --> 01:05:22,040
She doesn't even, like, value me
as a person in her life.
1155
01:05:23,400 --> 01:05:26,760
Do you think anything physically
happened between Sara and her ex?
1156
01:05:29,280 --> 01:05:30,960
I'm not too sure.
1157
01:05:31,040 --> 01:05:35,240
Like, initially, I thought,
for sure, definitely, she did.
1158
01:05:35,320 --> 01:05:39,800
But, you know, the problem is
I'll never actually know.
1159
01:05:39,840 --> 01:05:42,400
I've danced this dance before
1160
01:05:42,480 --> 01:05:46,000
and I'm very patient
and I'm forgiving
1161
01:05:46,080 --> 01:05:48,880
but, like, I've done it before
and I just get hurt.
1162
01:05:48,960 --> 01:05:54,040
You know, this just...
just pushed me further down
1163
01:05:54,080 --> 01:05:56,480
and killed my self-esteem.
1164
01:06:00,600 --> 01:06:05,320
One of the big issues that we saw
as experts at the dinner party, Sara,
1165
01:06:05,360 --> 01:06:07,520
was that you didn't relate to Tim.
1166
01:06:11,080 --> 01:06:12,760
You didn't talk to him.
1167
01:06:12,840 --> 01:06:16,040
You didn't really get
his point of view
1168
01:06:16,120 --> 01:06:18,160
or a sense of
where he was coming from.
1169
01:06:18,240 --> 01:06:20,360
I actually...
I tried to pull Tim aside once
1170
01:06:20,440 --> 01:06:22,360
and he didn't want to come
speak to me.
1171
01:06:22,440 --> 01:06:26,440
Sara, this is a pattern
that I have to call out.
1172
01:06:26,480 --> 01:06:30,640
You deceived and betrayed Tim.
1173
01:06:32,000 --> 01:06:35,000
You're the one storming out
and not saying sorry.
1174
01:06:35,040 --> 01:06:37,520
There is a problem with that.
1175
01:06:39,000 --> 01:06:41,920
I didn't know what to do.
I honestly didn't know what to do.
1176
01:06:41,960 --> 01:06:44,800
What about say sorry?
1177
01:06:46,280 --> 01:06:48,040
Yeah, absolutely.
1178
01:06:48,080 --> 01:06:50,920
Why didn't you?
1179
01:06:52,680 --> 01:06:54,400
I don't know.
1180
01:06:56,800 --> 01:06:58,920
You just left me. You just...
1181
01:06:59,000 --> 01:07:01,800
I heard this news,
you were just defending yourself
1182
01:07:01,840 --> 01:07:03,160
and you just left me.
1183
01:07:03,240 --> 01:07:04,960
Yeah, I get it.
Everyone wanted answers.
1184
01:07:05,040 --> 01:07:06,640
The group wanted to hold you
accountable,
1185
01:07:06,720 --> 01:07:10,400
but you left and then you didn't
even follow up with me.
1186
01:07:10,480 --> 01:07:12,520
You didn't even text me to see,
"Are you OK?"
1187
01:07:12,600 --> 01:07:17,000
You know, and so, for me, like,
what do you think that shows me?
1188
01:07:17,080 --> 01:07:20,160
It's just kind of drilling in
the fact that I feel like...
1189
01:07:20,240 --> 01:07:24,680
Like, what are we even here for,
you know what I mean? Like...
1190
01:07:26,920 --> 01:07:29,160
I want to be with someone
who wants to be with me.
1191
01:07:32,640 --> 01:07:35,280
One of the things
that you have complained about
1192
01:07:35,320 --> 01:07:37,080
throughout this experiment
1193
01:07:37,160 --> 01:07:40,440
is that the communication
doesn't work.
1194
01:07:42,040 --> 01:07:44,320
You say that Tim needs to step up.
1195
01:07:44,400 --> 01:07:47,000
And what I saw last night
at the dinner party
1196
01:07:47,080 --> 01:07:51,920
gave me the answer
to why he doesn't step up,
1197
01:07:52,000 --> 01:07:57,080
because your fight style
is combative and it's aggressive...
1198
01:07:58,680 --> 01:08:02,800
and Tim is too scared
to mention anything
1199
01:08:02,880 --> 01:08:07,600
and when an issue does come up, Sara,
we saw what happened.
1200
01:08:07,680 --> 01:08:11,440
There's not an apology, there's not
a sense of remorse or accountability.
1201
01:08:14,080 --> 01:08:16,200
If that doesn't change,
1202
01:08:16,280 --> 01:08:20,360
it's gonna make it very hard
for someone to date you.
1203
01:08:20,400 --> 01:08:22,600
I see that.
1204
01:08:24,400 --> 01:08:26,400
I don't know if you do.
I do.
1205
01:08:27,920 --> 01:08:29,000
Yep.
1206
01:08:30,840 --> 01:08:33,840
Yeah, I think what we're seeing now
is not how you're always like.
1207
01:08:33,920 --> 01:08:39,680
Behind closed doors, I feel like
you're a lot more on Tim
1208
01:08:39,760 --> 01:08:41,640
and I think if you were like that
more often...
1209
01:08:41,720 --> 01:08:43,440
Can I just say something on that?
Um...
1210
01:08:45,480 --> 01:08:47,000
I get it,
1211
01:08:47,080 --> 01:08:50,080
because
for a lot of this experiment,
1212
01:08:50,160 --> 01:08:53,880
I saw a lot of things
that I felt I didn't want
1213
01:08:53,960 --> 01:08:57,240
but obviously there's a lot that
I need to work on as well.
1214
01:08:57,280 --> 01:08:58,320
Um...
1215
01:08:58,400 --> 01:09:02,680
I'm worrying about Tim and I right
now and about how I feel about Tim,
1216
01:09:02,720 --> 01:09:05,000
but I'm gonna deal with it with Tim.
1217
01:09:06,960 --> 01:09:10,680
Yeah, I feel like there's still
a lot to unpack about, like, this...
1218
01:09:10,760 --> 01:09:12,720
Sorry, can I just finish
what I was saying?
1219
01:09:12,760 --> 01:09:16,520
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1220
01:09:16,560 --> 01:09:17,560
Yeah, well...
1221
01:09:17,640 --> 01:09:20,600
I was just getting to a point
and now I don't know where I was at.
1222
01:09:24,680 --> 01:09:27,400
Um... What was I saying?
1223
01:09:27,440 --> 01:09:28,920
Um...
1224
01:09:30,760 --> 01:09:33,760
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1225
01:09:39,720 --> 01:09:43,640
I'm worrying about Tim and I right
now and about how I feel about Tim,
1226
01:09:43,680 --> 01:09:46,120
but I'm gonna deal with it with Tim.
1227
01:09:47,240 --> 01:09:50,960
Yeah, I feel like there's still
a lot to unpack about, like, this...
1228
01:09:51,040 --> 01:09:53,000
Sorry, can I just finish
what I was saying?
1229
01:09:53,040 --> 01:09:56,800
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1230
01:09:56,880 --> 01:10:00,720
I was just getting to a point
and now I don't know where I was at.
1231
01:10:03,240 --> 01:10:05,960
Um... What was I saying?
1232
01:10:06,000 --> 01:10:07,080
Um...
1233
01:10:09,080 --> 01:10:11,800
So, yes, I know what it looks like
to everybody.
1234
01:10:11,880 --> 01:10:14,760
I get that and I know you guys
aren't gonna believe me.
1235
01:10:14,840 --> 01:10:18,000
I'm gonna do everything in my power
to make Tim my priority.
1236
01:10:18,080 --> 01:10:22,200
I don't care what you guys think.
I just want to focus on him.
1237
01:10:22,280 --> 01:10:23,720
STEPHEN: Can I make
a quick observation
1238
01:10:23,760 --> 01:10:25,240
with what I just saw you do?
1239
01:10:27,040 --> 01:10:31,400
So, you just gave this big spiel to
us all about how your priority's Tim
1240
01:10:31,440 --> 01:10:33,400
and you are gonna put him first,
1241
01:10:33,480 --> 01:10:36,400
but when he tried to speak,
you shut him down.
1242
01:10:36,440 --> 01:10:38,160
Thank you, Stephen.
1243
01:10:38,200 --> 01:10:39,320
When?
1244
01:10:39,360 --> 01:10:40,720
Just... Just now.
1245
01:10:40,800 --> 01:10:42,080
Just then?
Just now.
1246
01:10:42,160 --> 01:10:43,120
MICHAEL: Yeah, you did.
Yeah.
1247
01:10:43,200 --> 01:10:44,600
Oh, when he started talking...
Yeah.
1248
01:10:44,680 --> 01:10:46,760
But I was speaking.
I know.
1249
01:10:46,840 --> 01:10:49,200
But I think what the experts
have just said
1250
01:10:49,280 --> 01:10:52,640
is that you're so worried
about being in the right
1251
01:10:52,680 --> 01:10:54,040
and getting your point across
1252
01:10:54,120 --> 01:10:56,960
that when your partner, who's your
priority that you've just said,
1253
01:10:57,040 --> 01:11:01,600
tried to speak, you shut him down
so you could get your point across.
1254
01:11:02,760 --> 01:11:05,080
JADE: Your first initial reaction
should've been, like,
1255
01:11:05,120 --> 01:11:06,640
"I'm so sorry."
1256
01:11:06,720 --> 01:11:08,760
Like, at this point, if you stay...
I think...
1257
01:11:08,840 --> 01:11:10,560
..it feels like you're staying
for yourself,
1258
01:11:10,640 --> 01:11:13,040
because if you respected
and cared for him,
1259
01:11:13,120 --> 01:11:14,920
you wouldn't drag him along
for the ride.
1260
01:11:15,000 --> 01:11:16,520
RIDGE: 100%.
WOMAN: Yeah.
1261
01:11:16,560 --> 01:11:18,120
Thank you, everybody.
1262
01:11:22,920 --> 01:11:24,160
Alright.
1263
01:11:24,240 --> 01:11:27,040
Well, this has been raw
and emotional,
1264
01:11:27,080 --> 01:11:28,360
but it was always gonna be.
1265
01:11:28,440 --> 01:11:31,360
Now we've gotta find out
your decision.
1266
01:11:31,400 --> 01:11:34,280
Stay or leave? You first, Tim.
1267
01:11:36,360 --> 01:11:38,720
TIM: I mean, I feel like an idiot
1268
01:11:38,800 --> 01:11:40,640
and I feel like I'm being taken
for a ride
1269
01:11:40,720 --> 01:11:46,680
and I feel like, you know, I want to
be respected and loved and liked.
1270
01:11:46,760 --> 01:11:51,160
And I deserve to have my self-esteem
pulled up in a relationship,
1271
01:11:51,200 --> 01:11:53,480
as opposed to pushed down.
1272
01:11:53,560 --> 01:11:56,000
So there's a lot of things
that are left unsaid
1273
01:11:56,080 --> 01:11:59,640
but anyway,
obviously the trust has been broken
1274
01:11:59,680 --> 01:12:02,480
and, yeah, I have to leave.
1275
01:12:06,600 --> 01:12:09,560
Sara, over to you. Stay or leave?
What have you got?
1276
01:12:12,680 --> 01:12:16,640
Well, I frankly don't care
what everybody else says.
1277
01:12:16,680 --> 01:12:19,320
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1278
01:12:19,360 --> 01:12:21,840
I know what I want to do.
1279
01:12:21,880 --> 01:12:24,880
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1280
01:12:28,160 --> 01:12:29,520
So I'm staying.
1281
01:12:30,920 --> 01:12:33,920
(SAD MUSIC PLAYS)
1282
01:12:46,480 --> 01:12:47,840
OK.
1283
01:12:47,920 --> 01:12:50,680
As you know, if someone says 'stay'
and the other person says 'leave',
1284
01:12:50,760 --> 01:12:54,080
then they have a week
to turn it around.
1285
01:12:54,120 --> 01:12:56,480
A betrayal has occurred.
1286
01:12:56,520 --> 01:12:59,440
You, Sara, have to win him back.
1287
01:12:59,520 --> 01:13:04,840
That is your mindset, that is your
attitude, that is your priority.
1288
01:13:06,160 --> 01:13:11,560
Turn to him and tell him what you're
gonna do and how you're gonna do it
1289
01:13:11,600 --> 01:13:16,320
to repair what you smashed apart.
1290
01:13:17,920 --> 01:13:20,040
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1291
01:13:20,080 --> 01:13:22,280
(EXHALES) You've put me on the spot.
1292
01:13:22,320 --> 01:13:23,920
Um...
1293
01:13:26,880 --> 01:13:28,320
Tim...
1294
01:13:29,720 --> 01:13:32,680
I hope you can give me the chance
1295
01:13:32,760 --> 01:13:35,360
to show you
that I really want to be here.
1296
01:13:40,800 --> 01:13:41,920
OK.
1297
01:13:48,480 --> 01:13:50,840
(TENSE MUSIC)
1298
01:14:02,160 --> 01:14:05,200
(TENSE MUSIC)
1299
01:14:08,080 --> 01:14:11,400
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1300
01:14:14,680 --> 01:14:15,920
(SOFTLY) Yeah.
1301
01:14:19,560 --> 01:14:23,720
You've only got one week to turn
it around and I believe you can.
1302
01:14:23,800 --> 01:14:26,160
But you've got to walk
a very different walk.
1303
01:14:27,800 --> 01:14:29,040
We'll see you next time.
1304
01:14:29,120 --> 01:14:30,880
You can go back to the group.
Good luck.
1305
01:14:30,920 --> 01:14:34,040
(APPLAUSE)
1306
01:14:35,720 --> 01:14:37,920
SARA: Right now,
I feel disappointed.
1307
01:14:37,960 --> 01:14:39,880
I feel guilt.
1308
01:14:42,160 --> 01:14:44,800
But I don't care
what the group thinks of me.
1309
01:14:44,880 --> 01:14:49,520
I don't care if they like me or not
because I'm here for Tim.
1310
01:14:54,320 --> 01:14:55,680
NARRATOR: Tomorrow night...
1311
01:14:55,720 --> 01:14:57,240
Here we go.
1312
01:14:57,280 --> 01:14:58,520
No way!
1313
01:14:58,560 --> 01:15:00,560
..it's feedback week...
1314
01:15:00,600 --> 01:15:02,560
This week is all about feedback
1315
01:15:02,640 --> 01:15:04,400
from those within the bubble
of the experiment.
1316
01:15:04,480 --> 01:15:06,840
LUCINDA: (LAUGHS)
It's gonna be explosive.
1317
01:15:06,880 --> 01:15:08,560
..where over two big nights,
1318
01:15:08,640 --> 01:15:12,040
our couples will devise tasks
for each other...
1319
01:15:12,120 --> 01:15:15,400
"Write five questions
to ask Sara and Tim."
1320
01:15:15,480 --> 01:15:18,520
..and give advice
on each other's marriages.
1321
01:15:18,600 --> 01:15:20,080
The task has to be...
Share...
1322
01:15:20,160 --> 01:15:21,720
Sleep in the same bed.
..sleep together. Yes!
1323
01:15:21,800 --> 01:15:24,800
LUCINDA: Come on, big fella.
(TIM EXHALES)
1324
01:15:28,320 --> 01:15:30,600
"Can you not figure out
what size pants you wear?"
1325
01:15:33,000 --> 01:15:35,800
"Do you realise you look purple?"
1326
01:15:35,880 --> 01:15:39,240
And Lauren is ready to come
face-to-face with Jack.
1327
01:15:39,320 --> 01:15:41,280
I'm gonna push his buttons
until he pops.
1328
01:15:41,360 --> 01:15:45,600
If he goes low in his questions
for us, I'll go lower.
1329
01:15:45,680 --> 01:15:48,160
What she's done
is disgusting behaviour. It's wrong.
1330
01:15:48,240 --> 01:15:50,160
There's more to the story
than meets the eye
1331
01:15:50,240 --> 01:15:51,920
and I'm gonna get to the bottom
of it.
1332
01:15:52,000 --> 01:15:54,840
But Jayden and Eden's
hard-hitting questions...
1333
01:15:54,880 --> 01:15:56,240
I need you to back off.
1334
01:15:56,280 --> 01:15:57,480
No, I'm not backing off.
1335
01:15:57,520 --> 01:16:00,120
..push Sara to breaking point.
1336
01:16:00,200 --> 01:16:02,800
If Tim did that to you, would you be
able to trust him again?
1337
01:16:02,880 --> 01:16:04,720
"Are the messages to your ex
still on your phone
1338
01:16:04,760 --> 01:16:06,280
"and if they are, can Tim see them
1339
01:16:06,360 --> 01:16:07,640
"and if they aren't,
why aren't they?
1340
01:16:07,720 --> 01:16:10,520
"Have you sent a message to your ex
in the last two or three weeks?"
1341
01:16:13,080 --> 01:16:15,520
Leave me alone! Stop!
1342
01:16:20,680 --> 01:16:23,640
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