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These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: 1 00:00:02,000 --> 00:00:07,000 Downloaded from YTS.MX 2 00:00:08,000 --> 00:00:13,000 Official YIFY movies site: YTS.MX 3 00:00:52,052 --> 00:00:54,532 [happy music] 4 00:03:03,226 --> 00:03:04,271 - Grady, Grady. 5 00:03:07,883 --> 00:03:09,537 There you are. 6 00:03:09,711 --> 00:03:13,541 Hey, mail these to the Holy City Heartbreakers. 7 00:03:16,370 --> 00:03:17,327 Better get a move on. 8 00:03:17,501 --> 00:03:19,982 [happy music] 9 00:03:32,342 --> 00:03:33,082 - Grady. 10 00:03:33,256 --> 00:03:34,214 - Oh hey Andre. 11 00:03:34,388 --> 00:03:35,519 - You still driving Coley? 12 00:03:35,693 --> 00:03:38,174 - More like she's driving me. 13 00:03:38,348 --> 00:03:40,132 - You wouldn't be the first. 14 00:03:40,307 --> 00:03:41,308 - Nope. 15 00:04:05,984 --> 00:04:07,247 - Hello. 16 00:04:07,421 --> 00:04:08,770 Whoa. 17 00:04:08,944 --> 00:04:11,294 Sorry, I didn't mean to startle you. 18 00:04:11,468 --> 00:04:13,078 Not used to seeing you here on Tuesdays. 19 00:04:13,253 --> 00:04:14,254 Everything alright? 20 00:04:14,428 --> 00:04:15,559 - Oh, yes, no, 21 00:04:17,866 --> 00:04:21,130 I mean I should be sitting here praying 22 00:04:21,304 --> 00:04:23,175 but I'm just thinking. 23 00:04:23,350 --> 00:04:25,526 Pastor Rodney, would you have a minute to talk? 24 00:04:25,700 --> 00:04:26,831 - Of course. 25 00:04:27,005 --> 00:04:28,442 Let me sit over here 26 00:04:28,616 --> 00:04:31,401 and you tell me what's on your mind. 27 00:04:32,576 --> 00:04:35,187 - Every year my college sorority has a reunion. 28 00:04:35,362 --> 00:04:35,971 - Okay. 29 00:04:39,453 --> 00:04:41,672 Holy City Heartbreakers, 30 00:04:41,846 --> 00:04:46,198 hoo, sounds more like a roller derby team than a sorority. 31 00:04:46,373 --> 00:04:47,635 - Well, that's just what we called ourselves. 32 00:04:47,809 --> 00:04:49,332 Charleston is the holy city 33 00:04:49,506 --> 00:04:51,595 and we weren't a sorority, 34 00:04:51,769 --> 00:04:55,338 we were just a bunch of girls who hung out together. 35 00:04:55,512 --> 00:04:57,384 - Says here you were the cougars, too. 36 00:04:57,558 --> 00:04:59,516 - That is the College of Charleston's mascot. 37 00:04:59,690 --> 00:05:01,562 - The famous fighting cougars. 38 00:05:01,736 --> 00:05:04,869 This sounds like it's gonna be one heck of a weekend. 39 00:05:05,043 --> 00:05:06,741 - Stop it, seriously. 40 00:05:08,438 --> 00:05:11,398 Last year, I decided I was never gonna go again. 41 00:05:11,572 --> 00:05:15,227 They all just act like a bunch of silly teenagers 42 00:05:15,402 --> 00:05:17,273 and make me feel like I don't fit in 43 00:05:17,447 --> 00:05:19,231 and when I try to talk about my faith, 44 00:05:19,406 --> 00:05:23,453 it's like, well, like you Italians say, forget about it. 45 00:05:23,627 --> 00:05:24,846 - I guess that's what the Italians would say 46 00:05:25,020 --> 00:05:26,238 but my family is Portuguese 47 00:05:26,413 --> 00:05:27,414 but please go on. 48 00:05:27,588 --> 00:05:28,415 - Oh no. 49 00:05:29,459 --> 00:05:32,767 Well they just make fun of me, harass me, 50 00:05:33,811 --> 00:05:35,422 bring up stories from the past. 51 00:05:35,596 --> 00:05:38,207 - Well, I don't think God expects you to go anywhere 52 00:05:38,381 --> 00:05:41,210 where you feel foolish and don't fit in. 53 00:05:41,384 --> 00:05:42,254 - True. 54 00:05:42,429 --> 00:05:44,169 But then there's Gracie. 55 00:05:44,344 --> 00:05:45,649 You would love Gracie. 56 00:05:45,823 --> 00:05:48,217 She just recently became a Christian. 57 00:05:48,391 --> 00:05:49,436 She's the sweetest little thing, 58 00:05:49,610 --> 00:05:51,046 mother to three girls. 59 00:05:51,220 --> 00:05:53,353 I can't let an innocent sheep like that 60 00:05:53,527 --> 00:05:55,224 go to the wolves by herself. 61 00:05:55,398 --> 00:05:57,313 I mean, not that my friends are wolves, 62 00:05:57,487 --> 00:05:58,532 well Coley maybe, 63 00:05:58,706 --> 00:06:00,316 well she's just crazy fun 64 00:06:00,490 --> 00:06:02,318 but she has a drinking problem 65 00:06:02,492 --> 00:06:05,582 and it's destroyed most of her life. 66 00:06:05,756 --> 00:06:08,368 - I know what that's like. 67 00:06:08,542 --> 00:06:11,240 Often happens to people who drink obsessively. 68 00:06:11,414 --> 00:06:14,678 - Yeah and everybody sees it but nobody says anything. 69 00:06:14,852 --> 00:06:16,288 They just egg her on. 70 00:06:16,463 --> 00:06:18,508 It's like, Patrice just makes it worse 71 00:06:18,682 --> 00:06:19,988 which is so crazy 72 00:06:20,162 --> 00:06:21,381 because when Patrice isn't with us, 73 00:06:21,555 --> 00:06:23,078 she's a totally different person. 74 00:06:23,252 --> 00:06:25,254 She's very politically active and she's a poet 75 00:06:25,428 --> 00:06:28,431 and she thinks that white men have suppressed society 76 00:06:28,605 --> 00:06:32,217 and Coley thinks men make the world go round. 77 00:06:32,392 --> 00:06:34,350 - Well don't we? 78 00:06:34,524 --> 00:06:35,177 - Hardly. 79 00:06:36,787 --> 00:06:38,615 And then there's Glen. 80 00:06:38,789 --> 00:06:41,444 - Glen, okay well whoa wait, let's slow down here a second. 81 00:06:41,618 --> 00:06:44,795 So there's Glen, so you've got a guy in a sorority too? 82 00:06:44,969 --> 00:06:46,406 - No, Glen is a woman. 83 00:06:46,580 --> 00:06:48,190 She's incredible. 84 00:06:48,364 --> 00:06:51,411 She does more for people than most Christians I know 85 00:06:51,585 --> 00:06:53,456 but she thinks that doing good deeds 86 00:06:53,630 --> 00:06:55,589 is what puts you into heaven. 87 00:06:55,763 --> 00:06:57,808 - I wonder where she read that. 88 00:06:57,982 --> 00:07:00,594 Let me ask you a question. 89 00:07:00,768 --> 00:07:02,422 When you were in college, 90 00:07:02,596 --> 00:07:03,901 were you a Christian? 91 00:07:04,075 --> 00:07:05,512 - Well I was raised in the church 92 00:07:05,686 --> 00:07:08,645 but I didn't feel a personal connection 93 00:07:09,864 --> 00:07:13,476 and then when I got to college temptation was everywhere 94 00:07:13,650 --> 00:07:17,349 and I fell in with the wrong crowd, drinking, 95 00:07:17,524 --> 00:07:19,003 things I'm not proud of 96 00:07:19,177 --> 00:07:22,442 but by the time my senior year came around 97 00:07:22,616 --> 00:07:24,095 I got involved with Campus Crusade for Christ 98 00:07:24,269 --> 00:07:27,838 and I've been walking with the Lord ever since. 99 00:07:28,012 --> 00:07:31,363 - You have an amazing testimony, you do 100 00:07:31,538 --> 00:07:33,365 and you know what I think? 101 00:07:33,540 --> 00:07:35,629 I think you've already made up your mind about going. 102 00:07:35,803 --> 00:07:36,586 - I have? 103 00:07:37,544 --> 00:07:39,415 - I think you have 104 00:07:39,589 --> 00:07:41,722 and I know finances are tight. 105 00:07:41,896 --> 00:07:44,289 You got a babysitter for the weekend? 106 00:07:44,464 --> 00:07:46,466 - But I'll find one. 107 00:07:46,640 --> 00:07:49,338 - Boy, you know I sure could 108 00:07:49,512 --> 00:07:51,383 use two more helping hands around here. 109 00:07:51,558 --> 00:07:52,994 - You mean the same helping hands 110 00:07:53,168 --> 00:07:54,735 that set off the fire extinguisher 111 00:07:54,909 --> 00:07:55,910 in the prayer meeting last week? 112 00:07:56,084 --> 00:07:57,912 - You'd be doing me a favor. 113 00:07:58,086 --> 00:07:59,435 I've got to visit my nieces and nephews in a couple weeks, 114 00:07:59,609 --> 00:08:00,349 I need the practice. 115 00:08:00,523 --> 00:08:01,350 - Are you sure? 116 00:08:01,524 --> 00:08:03,047 - Yeah, absolutely. 117 00:08:03,221 --> 00:08:04,875 - Pastor Rodney, thank goodness I found you, 118 00:08:05,049 --> 00:08:06,398 Emily Campbell's on the phone, 119 00:08:06,573 --> 00:08:08,792 her mother's taken a turn for the worse. 120 00:08:08,966 --> 00:08:10,315 Family'd like to speak with you. 121 00:08:10,490 --> 00:08:11,969 - Okay, excuse me. 122 00:08:12,883 --> 00:08:14,494 I'll pray for you. 123 00:08:16,017 --> 00:08:18,367 So make arrangements for the boys. 124 00:08:18,541 --> 00:08:20,543 - Arrangements, the boys? 125 00:08:21,544 --> 00:08:22,893 - Yeah, Sara's boys. 126 00:08:23,067 --> 00:08:24,373 - Her boys? 127 00:08:24,547 --> 00:08:25,548 - I'll be watching 'em for the weekend. 128 00:08:25,722 --> 00:08:27,681 - Oh bless your heart, pastor. 129 00:08:27,855 --> 00:08:29,465 Isn't that nice? 130 00:08:29,639 --> 00:08:31,946 [happy music] 131 00:08:33,600 --> 00:08:35,515 - You love Pastor Hot Rod, 132 00:08:35,689 --> 00:08:38,474 you love Pastor Heart Rod, 133 00:08:38,648 --> 00:08:40,824 you love Pastor Heart! 134 00:08:40,998 --> 00:08:42,652 - Quit it, please. 135 00:08:42,826 --> 00:08:45,394 - You are worse than my husband and kids together. 136 00:08:45,568 --> 00:08:47,918 - Oh, but not worse than Sara's kids. 137 00:08:48,092 --> 00:08:51,487 I'm just dying to know how that's going. 138 00:08:51,661 --> 00:08:53,489 I could just see those boys now 139 00:08:53,663 --> 00:08:57,014 chasing that pastor around with frogs and snakes. 140 00:08:57,188 --> 00:08:59,016 - It's going just fine, thank you very much, 141 00:08:59,190 --> 00:09:00,714 my kids adore him. 142 00:09:00,888 --> 00:09:04,239 He is a man after god's own heart and mine. 143 00:09:06,589 --> 00:09:07,808 - Men are only after one thing 144 00:09:07,982 --> 00:09:08,809 and it's not your heart. 145 00:09:08,983 --> 00:09:10,419 Where is my drink? 146 00:09:10,593 --> 00:09:12,682 - Get your lazy behind up and help me. 147 00:09:12,856 --> 00:09:14,423 - [Patrice] I'm not the maid 148 00:09:14,597 --> 00:09:16,468 and besides my behind is not as big as yours. 149 00:09:16,643 --> 00:09:18,079 - [Coley] It is too. 150 00:09:18,253 --> 00:09:20,647 - [Patrice] What am I saying, yes it is? 151 00:09:20,821 --> 00:09:24,607 - Honey, you're the one that has a big butt. 152 00:09:31,092 --> 00:09:33,137 - You have been on that phone all morning. 153 00:09:33,311 --> 00:09:34,443 What is going on? 154 00:09:34,617 --> 00:09:36,401 - Oh, I have to make a call. 155 00:09:36,576 --> 00:09:37,968 - What is going on? 156 00:09:38,142 --> 00:09:39,840 - We're remodeling the women's shelter 157 00:09:40,014 --> 00:09:43,626 and it's fundraising issues with the city non-stop. 158 00:09:45,106 --> 00:09:46,498 - I don't know how you do it. 159 00:09:46,673 --> 00:09:48,675 - Oh well, it's a joy. 160 00:09:50,372 --> 00:09:52,809 - Hey, congratulations on your son. 161 00:09:52,983 --> 00:09:55,507 I hear he's gonna be serving our country. 162 00:09:55,682 --> 00:09:57,074 That is so brave of him. 163 00:09:57,248 --> 00:10:00,077 Have you been praying for his safety? 164 00:10:01,296 --> 00:10:03,690 - I'm gonna make that call. 165 00:10:06,301 --> 00:10:10,131 - I shouldn't have said anything about praying. 166 00:10:11,611 --> 00:10:12,568 I blew it. 167 00:10:12,742 --> 00:10:14,091 - No, it's okay. 168 00:10:14,265 --> 00:10:15,484 She really did have to make the call. 169 00:10:15,658 --> 00:10:17,704 You didn't blow anything. 170 00:10:23,971 --> 00:10:26,495 - Hey, what's up with her? 171 00:10:26,669 --> 00:10:29,193 - Nothing happens in this town that I don't know about 172 00:10:29,367 --> 00:10:30,891 and I know all about it. 173 00:10:31,065 --> 00:10:32,544 - Well, you better not be holding out on me. 174 00:10:32,719 --> 00:10:34,808 I'm the only one here who likes you. 175 00:10:34,982 --> 00:10:35,809 - What are you talking about? 176 00:10:35,983 --> 00:10:37,767 Sara and Gracie love me. 177 00:10:37,941 --> 00:10:40,509 - Ptth, they're Christians, they don't know any better, 178 00:10:40,683 --> 00:10:41,771 they love everybody. 179 00:10:41,945 --> 00:10:43,860 - And Glen adores me. 180 00:10:44,034 --> 00:10:46,558 - Glen adores the money that you give 181 00:10:46,733 --> 00:10:47,821 to the women's shelter. 182 00:10:47,995 --> 00:10:49,823 - Well, what's wrong with that? 183 00:10:49,997 --> 00:10:51,302 I pride myself on having the kind of friends money can buy. 184 00:10:51,476 --> 00:10:54,523 - Oh come on, don't go playing the fool. 185 00:10:54,697 --> 00:10:56,220 - I may be a fool 186 00:10:56,394 --> 00:10:58,005 but I'm the only fool that read your last book. 187 00:10:58,179 --> 00:10:59,702 A book of poems. 188 00:10:59,876 --> 00:11:00,877 You didn't even bother to rhyme half of them. 189 00:11:01,051 --> 00:11:03,488 Where is that thing? 190 00:11:03,663 --> 00:11:04,707 - You try reading my book 191 00:11:04,881 --> 00:11:07,623 with that fake sugary accent. 192 00:11:07,797 --> 00:11:09,756 - Oh no, let go, let go. 193 00:11:10,670 --> 00:11:12,106 - Let it go. 194 00:11:12,280 --> 00:11:13,803 - I'll let it go, just let go of my hair. 195 00:11:13,977 --> 00:11:16,240 - I'll let go of your hair, you put it down. 196 00:11:16,414 --> 00:11:17,894 Now you tell me about Glen. 197 00:11:18,068 --> 00:11:19,243 - Well I was going to till you pulled my hair. 198 00:11:19,417 --> 00:11:20,505 - Hey. 199 00:11:20,680 --> 00:11:22,769 - Hey, Glen, come on in 200 00:11:24,118 --> 00:11:26,033 and you want to look at Patrice's new 201 00:11:26,207 --> 00:11:27,817 exciting book of poems? 202 00:11:27,991 --> 00:11:30,211 - Oh great, now you're giving my party gift away. 203 00:11:30,385 --> 00:11:32,300 - Oh it's alright, I've already read it. 204 00:11:32,474 --> 00:11:34,650 I keep up on all of you. 205 00:11:34,824 --> 00:11:36,826 - [Gracie] These homes are so beautiful. 206 00:11:37,000 --> 00:11:38,654 - [Sara] I know. 207 00:11:38,828 --> 00:11:40,438 - [Gracie] Where do people get so much money from? 208 00:11:40,612 --> 00:11:44,573 - Maybe they all have rich ex-husbands like Coley. 209 00:11:44,747 --> 00:11:46,836 - Speaking of which, 210 00:11:47,010 --> 00:11:49,709 you don't have to talk about it if you don't want. 211 00:11:49,883 --> 00:11:52,015 Have you heard from Scott? 212 00:11:53,756 --> 00:11:54,365 - Once. 213 00:11:57,412 --> 00:11:59,414 I blame myself, you know. 214 00:12:03,157 --> 00:12:07,248 I keep thinking maybe if I'd been a better Christian. 215 00:12:08,771 --> 00:12:09,903 I mean at the beginning of our marriage, 216 00:12:10,077 --> 00:12:11,643 he would come to church with me 217 00:12:11,818 --> 00:12:15,082 and then it was like as my faith got stronger, 218 00:12:15,256 --> 00:12:16,910 he got more angry. 219 00:12:17,867 --> 00:12:19,739 He'd throw things around 220 00:12:20,957 --> 00:12:24,221 and accuse me of being a holy roller. 221 00:12:24,395 --> 00:12:26,615 He said when I wanted to home school the boys 222 00:12:26,789 --> 00:12:28,835 that was the last straw but 223 00:12:30,488 --> 00:12:34,014 then I found out he'd been having an affair 224 00:12:35,319 --> 00:12:36,538 the whole time. 225 00:12:38,758 --> 00:12:39,367 - Ugh. 226 00:12:42,849 --> 00:12:43,458 - Um... 227 00:12:44,807 --> 00:12:45,765 - I'm so sorry. 228 00:12:49,812 --> 00:12:53,903 - Maybe I wasn't good enough, you know, at anything? 229 00:12:56,993 --> 00:12:59,082 He'd stay awake all night on the computer 230 00:12:59,256 --> 00:13:01,563 and I'd be alone in the bed. 231 00:13:05,349 --> 00:13:06,481 I'm so lonely. 232 00:13:08,222 --> 00:13:09,876 I still pray for him, 233 00:13:10,833 --> 00:13:13,705 I'm trying not to be too bitter. 234 00:13:13,880 --> 00:13:17,666 It's hard seeing the boys grow up without a dad. 235 00:13:17,840 --> 00:13:20,060 - What about Pastor Rodney? 236 00:13:21,365 --> 00:13:23,846 He would make a great dad. 237 00:13:24,020 --> 00:13:27,894 - No preacher's gonna marry a divorced woman, come on. 238 00:13:31,245 --> 00:13:34,204 But still there's some times when I, 239 00:13:34,378 --> 00:13:38,469 I look into his eyes and I think he feels the same way I do 240 00:13:41,951 --> 00:13:43,779 but then nothing happens. 241 00:13:43,953 --> 00:13:45,433 - Hello, what do you mean nothing happens? 242 00:13:45,607 --> 00:13:48,392 He's watching your boys for the weekend. 243 00:13:48,566 --> 00:13:52,875 I don't know, I think something good might happen. 244 00:13:54,877 --> 00:13:59,012 - Oh Gracie, you're so cute but you're so naive. 245 00:14:03,190 --> 00:14:05,148 - Patrice, I wanted to talk to you 246 00:14:05,322 --> 00:14:07,194 about doing a poetry reading 247 00:14:07,368 --> 00:14:09,457 at the woman's shelter fundraiser. 248 00:14:09,631 --> 00:14:12,112 It is the biggest event that keeps our doors open 249 00:14:12,286 --> 00:14:15,898 and your poetry, Patrice, it is powerful. 250 00:14:17,247 --> 00:14:19,989 - You hear that, finally a voice of reason. 251 00:14:20,163 --> 00:14:21,991 - And I guess it was real reasonable 252 00:14:22,165 --> 00:14:24,776 nearly yanking the hair right out my head. 253 00:14:24,951 --> 00:14:26,953 - I always thought it was a weave. 254 00:14:27,127 --> 00:14:28,693 - Okay, y'all are giving me a headache. 255 00:14:28,868 --> 00:14:30,304 I'm going upstairs, 256 00:14:30,478 --> 00:14:33,873 just talk amongst yourselves while I'm gone. 257 00:14:36,658 --> 00:14:39,879 - [Gracie] Did I ever tell you my dad had a problem? 258 00:14:40,053 --> 00:14:42,794 - I don't ever remember you talking about your dad. 259 00:14:42,969 --> 00:14:44,840 Your mama never seemed like the kind of woman 260 00:14:45,014 --> 00:14:46,494 who would be with a man like that. 261 00:14:46,668 --> 00:14:48,757 She always seemed like the perfect mother to me. 262 00:14:48,931 --> 00:14:50,237 We all loved her like she was ours, 263 00:14:50,411 --> 00:14:52,282 asking her for advice. 264 00:14:52,456 --> 00:14:55,198 - Yeah, she's pretty amazing alright. 265 00:14:56,547 --> 00:14:59,420 She just got mixed up with the wrong guy. 266 00:14:59,594 --> 00:15:02,771 That's probably why she never remarried. 267 00:15:02,945 --> 00:15:04,860 But I never knew my dad, 268 00:15:05,034 --> 00:15:07,558 I just remember waiting for him, 269 00:15:08,951 --> 00:15:13,086 waiting and waiting and waiting on the doorstep. 270 00:15:16,045 --> 00:15:18,526 Years later, I would make up stories about him to my friends 271 00:15:18,700 --> 00:15:21,094 like he was a military hero, 272 00:15:21,268 --> 00:15:23,400 away in some exotic place. 273 00:15:24,967 --> 00:15:28,536 - It must've been hard growing up without a dad. 274 00:15:28,710 --> 00:15:32,322 - I always felt like there was something missing in me 275 00:15:32,496 --> 00:15:36,022 and I kept thinking if I find the right man, 276 00:15:36,979 --> 00:15:39,112 if I have perfect children, 277 00:15:39,286 --> 00:15:41,027 I kept thinking if I had the right house, 278 00:15:41,201 --> 00:15:42,680 had the right cars, 279 00:15:42,854 --> 00:15:46,119 that that missing feeling would just disappear 280 00:15:46,293 --> 00:15:47,729 but it never did. 281 00:15:49,644 --> 00:15:53,126 One day, I walked past this mirror, 282 00:15:53,300 --> 00:15:56,129 that pretty gold one in the hallway 283 00:15:57,695 --> 00:16:00,437 and I saw myself holding the baby 284 00:16:03,223 --> 00:16:05,747 and I looked like a dead soul. 285 00:16:10,273 --> 00:16:12,493 I couldn't see my physical self 286 00:16:12,667 --> 00:16:15,148 just that condition of my soul. 287 00:16:19,674 --> 00:16:20,980 And it was scary. 288 00:16:26,028 --> 00:16:28,335 That's when I called you 289 00:16:28,509 --> 00:16:30,467 and you brought me back. 290 00:16:32,165 --> 00:16:35,995 - No, I am so glad you felt like you could call me 291 00:16:38,040 --> 00:16:41,000 but I'm not the one who brought you back and you know that. 292 00:16:41,174 --> 00:16:42,784 - I know. 293 00:16:42,958 --> 00:16:46,005 I feel like if Coley and Patrice know about my new faith, 294 00:16:46,179 --> 00:16:47,528 they're gonna make fun of me. 295 00:16:47,702 --> 00:16:49,878 They already make fun of my husband. 296 00:16:50,052 --> 00:16:51,488 I know he works a lot, I know, 297 00:16:51,662 --> 00:16:52,663 and he's demanding 298 00:16:52,837 --> 00:16:54,361 but he is an amazing father. 299 00:16:56,102 --> 00:17:00,845 He's the kind of father that I always dreamed of having. 300 00:17:01,020 --> 00:17:01,629 - And now, 301 00:17:03,109 --> 00:17:06,634 now you know the love of a heavenly father. 302 00:17:08,114 --> 00:17:09,811 He'll always come home. 303 00:17:11,552 --> 00:17:13,554 That's who you were waiting for 304 00:17:13,728 --> 00:17:16,470 on the steps when you were little. 305 00:17:16,644 --> 00:17:19,473 That's who you were missing. 306 00:17:19,647 --> 00:17:23,085 That's that hole that you felt like you could never fill. 307 00:17:23,259 --> 00:17:27,350 God has known you and loved you before time, Gracie. 308 00:17:29,265 --> 00:17:32,094 He whispered your name into your mother's ear 309 00:17:32,268 --> 00:17:35,184 and he called you Grace, amazing Grace. 310 00:17:41,103 --> 00:17:42,583 - [Gracie] Thanks. 311 00:17:49,459 --> 00:17:52,114 [dog barking] 312 00:18:14,702 --> 00:18:15,703 - [Coley] Well this is something 313 00:18:15,877 --> 00:18:18,445 most people don't see every day. 314 00:18:19,837 --> 00:18:22,710 - I remember trying some of these on back in college. 315 00:18:22,884 --> 00:18:24,973 - Behind my back, all y'all did. 316 00:18:25,147 --> 00:18:26,148 - Oh, Glen never did. 317 00:18:26,322 --> 00:18:29,499 - Let me show you how it's done. 318 00:18:29,673 --> 00:18:30,544 Yes. 319 00:18:31,806 --> 00:18:33,373 This is gonna be fun. 320 00:18:33,547 --> 00:18:35,418 Now, when are you going 321 00:18:37,203 --> 00:18:38,682 to get those two adorable girls of yours 322 00:18:38,856 --> 00:18:42,295 started down the right path, Gracie? 323 00:18:42,469 --> 00:18:44,079 Do you know where self esteem comes from? 324 00:18:44,253 --> 00:18:45,776 - From within. 325 00:18:45,950 --> 00:18:47,648 - Don't be ridiculous, that's a bunch of bunkie, 326 00:18:47,822 --> 00:18:50,085 it comes from achieving things 327 00:18:50,259 --> 00:18:52,000 and there's no better way 328 00:18:52,174 --> 00:18:55,743 to teach confidence and poise to your girls 329 00:18:55,917 --> 00:18:58,006 than through pageants. 330 00:18:58,180 --> 00:19:01,009 - I've seen some of those kid pageants on TV 331 00:19:01,183 --> 00:19:02,489 and they look like a train wreck. 332 00:19:02,663 --> 00:19:05,144 - Okay and so do gymnastic events 333 00:19:05,318 --> 00:19:08,059 and track meets and football practice. 334 00:19:08,234 --> 00:19:09,670 Close. 335 00:19:09,844 --> 00:19:12,151 You just don't see the fathers out there 336 00:19:12,325 --> 00:19:14,283 pushing their sons to be number one 337 00:19:14,457 --> 00:19:17,504 or the mothers all upset behind the scenes. 338 00:19:17,678 --> 00:19:20,115 Life is a competition. 339 00:19:20,289 --> 00:19:23,597 - I never understood the bond between you two. 340 00:19:23,771 --> 00:19:27,688 You're so different when she's not around. 341 00:19:27,862 --> 00:19:31,387 - When I first came to the College of Charleston, 342 00:19:31,561 --> 00:19:32,388 I was lost. 343 00:19:33,433 --> 00:19:35,652 My home was far from there. 344 00:19:36,784 --> 00:19:38,699 And I walk into this door 345 00:19:38,873 --> 00:19:42,137 and there she is sitting there all loud and blonde 346 00:19:42,311 --> 00:19:43,399 and I stop in my tracks 347 00:19:44,922 --> 00:19:47,751 and she's thinking, you look like you just saw a ghost, 348 00:19:47,925 --> 00:19:49,057 honey, put your bags down 349 00:19:49,231 --> 00:19:50,493 and let's walk these halls 350 00:19:50,667 --> 00:19:52,234 and show these schools who's boss 351 00:19:52,408 --> 00:19:55,237 and I looked at her like she was crazy. 352 00:19:55,411 --> 00:19:57,196 But I put my bags down 353 00:19:57,370 --> 00:19:58,458 and off we went. 354 00:20:00,721 --> 00:20:03,332 That woman, she gave me a voice 355 00:20:03,506 --> 00:20:05,682 before I even thought I knew I had one. 356 00:20:05,856 --> 00:20:08,207 - Well there is only one Coley. 357 00:20:08,381 --> 00:20:10,078 - That's for sure. 358 00:20:10,252 --> 00:20:12,559 - There's been some incidents, 359 00:20:12,733 --> 00:20:16,389 one or two, with Coley at numerous events. 360 00:20:18,782 --> 00:20:20,306 - All you Charleston folk do 361 00:20:20,480 --> 00:20:23,222 is just do your little fundraisers 362 00:20:23,396 --> 00:20:25,224 and stab each other in the back. 363 00:20:25,398 --> 00:20:27,661 - Now I never say a word about anyone ever. 364 00:20:27,835 --> 00:20:30,229 - Yes, I know because you're old money mommy and daddy 365 00:20:30,403 --> 00:20:32,143 taught you better. 366 00:20:32,318 --> 00:20:36,235 - I only say this from one Charleston heart to another. 367 00:20:36,409 --> 00:20:38,585 She doesn't go out anymore, 368 00:20:38,759 --> 00:20:40,413 she's become a recluse 369 00:20:40,587 --> 00:20:42,328 but she still sends a check, 370 00:20:42,502 --> 00:20:45,331 I guess as some form of apology. 371 00:20:46,288 --> 00:20:47,985 - Listen, it gives them 372 00:20:48,159 --> 00:20:51,598 what old money, back stabbing, bony booty horse faces 373 00:20:53,948 --> 00:20:54,992 something to talk about, 374 00:20:55,166 --> 00:20:56,429 no offense to you, of course. 375 00:20:56,603 --> 00:20:58,082 - Oh, no offense taken, my friend. 376 00:20:58,257 --> 00:20:59,258 - Good. 377 00:21:01,825 --> 00:21:03,479 - It's a wonderful thing 378 00:21:03,653 --> 00:21:06,439 for daughters and mothers to share. 379 00:21:06,613 --> 00:21:08,658 I would rather put my kids in a pageant 380 00:21:08,832 --> 00:21:10,660 than on some soccer field 381 00:21:10,834 --> 00:21:14,490 with some lunatic coaching and molding their little minds. 382 00:21:15,361 --> 00:21:17,667 Besides, not every child is cut out 383 00:21:17,841 --> 00:21:19,800 for academics or sports. 384 00:21:22,455 --> 00:21:24,631 - Never thought of it that way. 385 00:21:24,805 --> 00:21:27,155 - Well, think of it this way, 386 00:21:27,329 --> 00:21:29,113 if you had a champion thoroughbred, 387 00:21:29,288 --> 00:21:32,247 would you stick it out in a field with a bunch of donkeys? 388 00:21:32,421 --> 00:21:33,770 - Uh no I wouldn't, 389 00:21:36,599 --> 00:21:37,644 if I had a thoroughbred, 390 00:21:37,818 --> 00:21:39,298 I wouldn't stick it in a field 391 00:21:39,472 --> 00:21:40,821 with a bunch of donkeys. 392 00:21:40,995 --> 00:21:42,344 - Exactly, okay, well there you go. 393 00:21:42,518 --> 00:21:44,912 Maybe you need to call me more often. 394 00:21:45,086 --> 00:21:47,306 Don't get your head all twisted around 395 00:21:47,480 --> 00:21:49,438 with that Christian kool aid. 396 00:21:49,612 --> 00:21:51,658 I see you two talking. 397 00:21:51,832 --> 00:21:52,702 Now don't get me wrong, 398 00:21:52,876 --> 00:21:54,574 Sara is a wonderful girl, 399 00:21:54,748 --> 00:21:58,229 she's just got some crazy ideas about life. 400 00:21:58,404 --> 00:22:00,231 I mean I believe Jesus is the son of God 401 00:22:00,406 --> 00:22:02,277 and he came down from heaven and all that stuff 402 00:22:02,451 --> 00:22:06,325 but you don't have to go telling everybody about it. 403 00:22:06,499 --> 00:22:07,064 Look at you, 404 00:22:08,414 --> 00:22:10,851 you make a beautiful pageant queen, 405 00:22:11,025 --> 00:22:13,332 almost as beautiful as me. 406 00:22:14,333 --> 00:22:15,159 Now I'm warning you, 407 00:22:15,334 --> 00:22:17,161 I'm not gonna stop 408 00:22:17,336 --> 00:22:19,512 until you get those adorable girls of yours in the circuit. 409 00:22:19,686 --> 00:22:20,556 They'll win everything they enter. 410 00:22:20,730 --> 00:22:22,602 - What if they lose? 411 00:22:22,776 --> 00:22:24,778 Then they'll feel awful. 412 00:22:26,040 --> 00:22:29,043 - Well I wouldn't know, I never lost. 413 00:22:30,653 --> 00:22:33,482 Now, let's you and me go upstairs 414 00:22:33,656 --> 00:22:35,876 and be beauty queen winners. 415 00:22:36,050 --> 00:22:36,920 - Oh no. 416 00:22:37,094 --> 00:22:38,139 - Come on! 417 00:22:38,313 --> 00:22:39,009 - I have to go take a shower 418 00:22:39,183 --> 00:22:39,923 and take a nap. 419 00:22:40,097 --> 00:22:40,881 I'm really tired. 420 00:22:41,055 --> 00:22:42,361 - Oh Gracie, 421 00:22:42,535 --> 00:22:43,971 okay listen, don't be a runner up, 422 00:22:44,145 --> 00:22:46,669 you are a real winner, you are. 423 00:22:51,065 --> 00:22:51,979 That a girl 424 00:23:22,444 --> 00:23:25,099 - Coley, again, I won't have it! 425 00:23:28,450 --> 00:23:29,930 - Angie, don't you think this is a little harsh? 426 00:23:30,104 --> 00:23:31,627 She's just a child. 427 00:23:33,150 --> 00:23:36,937 - She has to learn that second place is worthless. 428 00:23:37,111 --> 00:23:41,420 If you're not first place, you're nothing, period. 429 00:23:45,032 --> 00:23:48,078 And you know what I'm saying is true. 430 00:23:48,992 --> 00:23:50,690 - She's just a child. 431 00:23:52,518 --> 00:23:56,609 Give her a chance to grow and follow her dreams. 432 00:23:56,783 --> 00:23:58,306 - She has her dreams 433 00:23:58,480 --> 00:24:02,005 and she doesn't want to settle for second place. 434 00:24:02,179 --> 00:24:04,312 She wants to win, be first, 435 00:24:04,486 --> 00:24:06,314 everyone wants to win. 436 00:24:06,488 --> 00:24:09,186 - Not when you're five years old. 437 00:24:10,710 --> 00:24:14,627 No one cares about those contests, they don't. 438 00:24:14,801 --> 00:24:17,847 They don't, I mean it's more for the parents anyways. 439 00:24:18,021 --> 00:24:19,632 The kids could care less. 440 00:24:19,806 --> 00:24:22,678 - You don't even know what you're talking about. 441 00:24:22,852 --> 00:24:25,768 You're second place just like Coley. 442 00:24:27,030 --> 00:24:28,641 You'll never be a real winner 443 00:24:28,815 --> 00:24:31,818 'cause you ain't got it in you. 444 00:24:31,992 --> 00:24:33,950 You're nothing, nothing! 445 00:24:43,917 --> 00:24:46,180 You ain't even a real daddy. 446 00:25:01,848 --> 00:25:04,154 [sad music] 447 00:25:18,908 --> 00:25:22,433 - Oh get that thing off your head please. 448 00:25:22,608 --> 00:25:23,652 - Thank you. 449 00:25:23,826 --> 00:25:25,393 - [Gracie] Coley will be mad. 450 00:25:25,567 --> 00:25:27,351 - Well let Coley be the queen of crazy crowns, 451 00:25:27,526 --> 00:25:29,049 I don't care. 452 00:25:29,223 --> 00:25:31,138 - I can hear you. 453 00:25:31,312 --> 00:25:34,054 - Well look at you, miss everything. 454 00:25:34,228 --> 00:25:35,272 Where's your tiara? 455 00:25:35,446 --> 00:25:37,492 - How Christian of you to ask. 456 00:25:37,666 --> 00:25:39,668 Is that any way for a wannabe preacher's wife to talk? 457 00:25:39,842 --> 00:25:41,452 - Oh you know I'm speaking the truth. 458 00:25:41,627 --> 00:25:44,412 You have been the queen of everything. 459 00:25:44,586 --> 00:25:45,674 And I say it with love. 460 00:25:45,848 --> 00:25:48,155 - Well I say this with love, 461 00:25:49,852 --> 00:25:51,811 this needs more red wine. 462 00:25:53,247 --> 00:25:56,076 - Hey, have you talked to Pastor Hot Rod? 463 00:25:56,250 --> 00:25:58,426 - Well just text messages. 464 00:25:58,600 --> 00:26:00,384 But it's good, 465 00:26:00,559 --> 00:26:03,474 we both decided that we should focus on the task at hand. 466 00:26:03,649 --> 00:26:05,999 He doesn't want me to worry. 467 00:26:07,348 --> 00:26:08,479 - He doesn't want to get your hopes up, 468 00:26:08,654 --> 00:26:10,090 is what he's really saying. 469 00:26:10,264 --> 00:26:12,048 - Coley, don't say that. 470 00:26:12,222 --> 00:26:16,096 I think it's like watching a romance novel come to life. 471 00:26:16,270 --> 00:26:20,491 - Oh look, the president of South Carolina 472 00:26:20,666 --> 00:26:22,450 is here on official business. 473 00:26:22,624 --> 00:26:24,452 Where's your briefcase? 474 00:26:24,626 --> 00:26:28,761 Y'all look like y'all are off to a United Nations summit. 475 00:26:28,935 --> 00:26:32,503 - Falling in love is just the most amazing thing. 476 00:26:32,678 --> 00:26:34,114 Are you and pastor gonna have a big wedding? 477 00:26:34,288 --> 00:26:35,158 - What, no! 478 00:26:35,332 --> 00:26:36,638 - [Coley] Can I be in it. 479 00:26:36,812 --> 00:26:38,945 - Oh of course, you'd be the waitress. 480 00:26:39,119 --> 00:26:40,599 - Don't jinx it. 481 00:26:42,339 --> 00:26:44,167 - Are you up for this? 482 00:26:44,341 --> 00:26:47,910 - Oh, can't be any different than any other year. 483 00:26:48,084 --> 00:26:50,609 An obligation is an obligation. 484 00:26:50,783 --> 00:26:52,175 - Nope, I mean the controversy. 485 00:26:52,349 --> 00:26:53,786 - Did Coley tell you something? 486 00:26:53,960 --> 00:26:56,310 Nothing is going on, nothing. 487 00:26:57,354 --> 00:26:59,095 - Coley knows nothing. 488 00:26:59,269 --> 00:27:00,270 She pretends to know 489 00:27:00,444 --> 00:27:02,098 but she doesn't know a thing 490 00:27:02,272 --> 00:27:03,099 but I do. 491 00:27:08,757 --> 00:27:10,890 - I'm not doing anything wrong. 492 00:27:11,064 --> 00:27:13,588 He's an internet friend. 493 00:27:13,762 --> 00:27:17,418 He's an American professor working in China. 494 00:27:19,942 --> 00:27:23,119 - Glen, you are playing with fire here. 495 00:27:24,904 --> 00:27:27,602 Let me tell you something one Charleston heart to another, 496 00:27:27,776 --> 00:27:31,127 you have spent your entire life empowering women, 497 00:27:31,301 --> 00:27:32,346 helping people, 498 00:27:32,520 --> 00:27:33,564 not just you but your family, 499 00:27:33,739 --> 00:27:34,696 and what, you're gonna blow it 500 00:27:34,870 --> 00:27:36,959 for some internet romance? 501 00:27:38,004 --> 00:27:40,093 You are better than this, Glen. 502 00:27:40,267 --> 00:27:42,748 - Well yeah obviously I'm not. 503 00:27:44,184 --> 00:27:45,925 - Well if you won't think of yourself, 504 00:27:46,099 --> 00:27:47,840 think of your family. 505 00:27:48,014 --> 00:27:49,493 - Okay stop. 506 00:27:49,668 --> 00:27:52,018 You have no idea what it's like to be me. 507 00:27:52,192 --> 00:27:54,585 Do you have any idea how hard it is 508 00:27:54,760 --> 00:27:57,066 to keep up this house of cards? 509 00:27:58,807 --> 00:28:02,942 I have a mother who constantly criticizes everything I do 510 00:28:05,118 --> 00:28:09,209 and a husband who constantly cheats behind my back 511 00:28:11,777 --> 00:28:15,171 and a child leaving or the Air Force Academy 512 00:28:17,783 --> 00:28:19,872 and the whole family in an uproar 513 00:28:20,046 --> 00:28:21,830 because he decided not to go to West Point 514 00:28:22,004 --> 00:28:23,223 and telling me how I failed 515 00:28:23,397 --> 00:28:24,703 'cause I did not teach him 516 00:28:24,877 --> 00:28:27,357 the importance of family tradition. 517 00:28:28,881 --> 00:28:32,058 I went to college, I graduated in three years, 518 00:28:32,232 --> 00:28:34,930 I spent four years in the Peace Corps, 519 00:28:35,104 --> 00:28:38,281 I came home, I married the man that I was supposed to 520 00:28:38,455 --> 00:28:39,935 and now I spend my days 521 00:28:40,109 --> 00:28:44,157 trying to make other people's lives better. 522 00:28:44,331 --> 00:28:45,724 I deserve this. 523 00:28:47,116 --> 00:28:48,335 I deserve this. 524 00:28:50,032 --> 00:28:52,382 I'm not doing anything wrong. 525 00:29:01,087 --> 00:29:02,001 He hears me 526 00:29:06,309 --> 00:29:08,790 and he writes me these words 527 00:29:10,531 --> 00:29:12,838 that every woman should hear 528 00:29:16,755 --> 00:29:18,887 at least once in her life. 529 00:29:23,500 --> 00:29:25,851 And now, I am watching my son 530 00:29:26,852 --> 00:29:29,376 do all the things I taught him 531 00:29:31,334 --> 00:29:34,773 and I do not want him to end up like this, 532 00:29:34,947 --> 00:29:36,252 you know, holding on to a phone 533 00:29:36,426 --> 00:29:38,820 for some small piece of happiness. 534 00:29:40,822 --> 00:29:43,694 - Oh I'm so sorry, I am so sorry. 535 00:29:43,869 --> 00:29:45,566 - No, no, I'm sorry. 536 00:29:46,959 --> 00:29:49,048 Oh I am sorry, I'm sorry. 537 00:29:52,181 --> 00:29:56,229 Well I guess if I was gonna have a lapse in better judgment 538 00:29:59,406 --> 00:30:01,234 it should be with you. 539 00:30:03,889 --> 00:30:05,499 - It's funny 540 00:30:05,673 --> 00:30:08,763 because I always thought that your life was perfect, 541 00:30:08,937 --> 00:30:10,765 everything handed to you, 542 00:30:10,939 --> 00:30:12,680 that you could never relate to me 543 00:30:12,854 --> 00:30:15,726 or anything that I would be going through, 544 00:30:15,901 --> 00:30:20,209 trying to be a banker, the token one in the company, 545 00:30:20,383 --> 00:30:21,689 so you have to be better, 546 00:30:21,863 --> 00:30:23,386 you have to be smarter 547 00:30:23,560 --> 00:30:24,910 than most everyone that you ever work with, 548 00:30:25,084 --> 00:30:26,650 that you encounter, 549 00:30:26,825 --> 00:30:30,872 but my soul is that of an activist, of a poet, 550 00:30:31,046 --> 00:30:33,701 and I can't do what I want to do, 551 00:30:33,875 --> 00:30:35,834 I can't live the dream I want to live 552 00:30:36,008 --> 00:30:39,707 so I sacrifice family and I sacrifice the things I need 553 00:30:39,881 --> 00:30:42,014 because that's what we do. 554 00:30:45,887 --> 00:30:48,672 - We are not that far apart. 555 00:30:48,847 --> 00:30:50,500 - I think 556 00:30:50,674 --> 00:30:52,198 my life might be a little better than yours right now. 557 00:30:52,372 --> 00:30:53,155 Sorry. 558 00:30:58,421 --> 00:31:02,295 - Dear Lord, thank you for the time that you've given us 559 00:31:02,469 --> 00:31:04,819 to be together this weekend. 560 00:31:04,993 --> 00:31:06,734 Thank you for all our blessings 561 00:31:06,908 --> 00:31:09,258 because we are so blessed. 562 00:31:09,432 --> 00:31:11,391 Please continue to watch over these precious women 563 00:31:11,565 --> 00:31:14,176 and keep our hearts open to you. 564 00:31:15,612 --> 00:31:16,483 Amen. 565 00:31:17,919 --> 00:31:18,964 - [All] Amen. 566 00:31:20,966 --> 00:31:22,968 - Sure smells good. 567 00:31:23,142 --> 00:31:25,753 Mama's been in the kitchen. 568 00:31:25,927 --> 00:31:27,842 - I tried to make that sauce so many times 569 00:31:28,016 --> 00:31:29,409 but I must be doing something wrong. 570 00:31:29,583 --> 00:31:31,498 The kids hate it. 571 00:31:31,672 --> 00:31:34,631 - Coley, we've heard about your son, 572 00:31:35,502 --> 00:31:36,416 quite the football star, 573 00:31:36,590 --> 00:31:38,592 a linebacker, 230 pounds. 574 00:31:40,072 --> 00:31:42,030 - How is your boy doing? 575 00:31:42,204 --> 00:31:43,031 You haven't mentioned him at all. 576 00:31:43,205 --> 00:31:44,250 - Are we gonna sit around 577 00:31:44,424 --> 00:31:46,252 and talk a bunch of nonsense? 578 00:31:46,426 --> 00:31:48,341 Now we all know Robert has poisoned that child against me. 579 00:31:48,515 --> 00:31:51,779 Besides, whoever heard of eating Italian food 580 00:31:51,953 --> 00:31:54,260 without a glass of red wine? 581 00:31:54,434 --> 00:31:55,435 Let's get this party started. 582 00:31:55,609 --> 00:31:57,350 500 bucks a bottle. 583 00:31:57,524 --> 00:31:59,352 - You know me. - I'm good. 584 00:31:59,526 --> 00:32:01,832 - [Female] We have a long drive. 585 00:32:02,007 --> 00:32:03,269 - Patrice, don't let me down. 586 00:32:03,443 --> 00:32:04,574 - Maybe later. 587 00:32:07,447 --> 00:32:09,884 - Hey, I have an idea, 588 00:32:10,058 --> 00:32:13,192 why don't we open our gifts before we eat? 589 00:32:13,366 --> 00:32:14,845 Every year it's the same thing. 590 00:32:15,020 --> 00:32:16,064 Let's do something different. 591 00:32:16,238 --> 00:32:18,806 - Great. - Okay, let's do it. 592 00:32:18,980 --> 00:32:20,503 - What are y'all looking at me for? 593 00:32:20,677 --> 00:32:22,897 I'm not a party pooper or hangry. 594 00:32:23,071 --> 00:32:24,768 - Coley, you always give the best gifts. 595 00:32:24,943 --> 00:32:26,945 Why don't you start? 596 00:32:27,119 --> 00:32:30,861 Show all of us bourgeoisie gift givers who's boss. 597 00:32:31,036 --> 00:32:32,472 - For a second there, 598 00:32:32,646 --> 00:32:34,517 you sounded like the old Sara I used to know. 599 00:32:34,691 --> 00:32:36,911 Alright, everybody stay put, 600 00:32:37,085 --> 00:32:38,608 I'll be right back. 601 00:32:40,959 --> 00:32:42,134 - Oh, good job. 602 00:32:48,357 --> 00:32:52,013 - Alright, fellow Holy City Heartbreakers, 603 00:32:52,753 --> 00:32:54,407 may I present to you, 604 00:32:54,581 --> 00:32:57,845 fresh off the perfume assembly line of Gay Parade, 605 00:32:58,019 --> 00:33:01,240 not yet available in the United States, 606 00:33:01,414 --> 00:33:02,371 Sweet Carolina. 607 00:33:02,545 --> 00:33:03,938 - Oh! - Coley! 608 00:33:04,112 --> 00:33:05,809 - You all have one in your bag. 609 00:33:05,984 --> 00:33:07,246 - [Female] Thank you. 610 00:33:07,420 --> 00:33:08,856 - Don't you love me? 611 00:33:09,030 --> 00:33:09,900 - Yes. 612 00:33:10,075 --> 00:33:11,424 - Top that. 613 00:33:11,598 --> 00:33:14,383 - Coley, I can't top you, you know that. 614 00:33:14,557 --> 00:33:16,429 I think everybody here knows what my gift is, 615 00:33:16,603 --> 00:33:18,126 my latest book. 616 00:33:18,300 --> 00:33:20,215 - And your writing is wonderful, thank you. 617 00:33:20,389 --> 00:33:23,436 - And Patrice will be doing a reading 618 00:33:25,046 --> 00:33:26,917 at the women's shelter fundraiser 619 00:33:27,092 --> 00:33:29,877 and it will be held at the Charleston Yacht Club 620 00:33:30,051 --> 00:33:31,922 and I hope that all of you will attend. 621 00:33:32,097 --> 00:33:35,013 Patrice is truly an inspiring woman. 622 00:33:37,058 --> 00:33:41,062 Speaking of, if you will all fill out your cards, 623 00:33:42,368 --> 00:33:43,891 you'll receive a year's subscription 624 00:33:44,065 --> 00:33:45,893 to Sweet Southern Society magazine. 625 00:33:46,067 --> 00:33:47,764 - Wait a minute, wait, wait, 626 00:33:47,938 --> 00:33:51,507 you mean you want us to fill out the cards for you? 627 00:33:51,681 --> 00:33:55,294 What are you so busy doing that you can't? 628 00:33:55,468 --> 00:33:56,469 - I love that magazine. 629 00:33:56,643 --> 00:33:57,992 Thank you, Glen. 630 00:33:58,166 --> 00:33:58,949 - Thank you, Glen. 631 00:33:59,124 --> 00:33:59,863 - Thank you, Glen. 632 00:34:00,038 --> 00:34:00,908 - You're welcome. 633 00:34:01,082 --> 00:34:02,562 - Thank you, Glen. 634 00:34:03,737 --> 00:34:06,131 - Well, I guess it's my turn. 635 00:34:08,350 --> 00:34:11,092 It's been my turn for awhile. 636 00:34:11,266 --> 00:34:14,487 I just haven't had the right words. 637 00:34:14,661 --> 00:34:17,577 Would you all please turn your picture frames over? 638 00:34:17,751 --> 00:34:19,057 - Oh, alright. 639 00:34:21,102 --> 00:34:25,193 Oh my, somebody packed on a few pounds since last year. 640 00:34:26,107 --> 00:34:28,109 - It's beautiful, Gracie. 641 00:34:29,154 --> 00:34:32,548 - Y'all have been my family since college, 642 00:34:33,462 --> 00:34:35,203 my Charleston hearts, 643 00:34:36,161 --> 00:34:38,032 and I know that some of you 644 00:34:38,206 --> 00:34:40,948 have noticed a little bit of a change in me in the last year 645 00:34:41,122 --> 00:34:43,168 and no, I'm not pregnant, 646 00:34:44,256 --> 00:34:48,086 but there is someone new in my life, a new man, 647 00:34:51,176 --> 00:34:53,091 and his name is Jesus 648 00:34:54,614 --> 00:34:57,225 and he has made me a new person. 649 00:34:59,575 --> 00:35:01,621 I can't even find the words to describe 650 00:35:01,795 --> 00:35:06,365 all the things that he's done for me in my life. 651 00:35:06,539 --> 00:35:07,366 I was dead 652 00:35:10,456 --> 00:35:12,110 and now I'm alive. 653 00:35:14,503 --> 00:35:15,287 Sorry. 654 00:35:18,203 --> 00:35:19,117 Born again, 655 00:35:20,770 --> 00:35:22,207 freed of my sins, 656 00:35:23,382 --> 00:35:26,254 I still don't know all of god's missions for my life 657 00:35:26,428 --> 00:35:27,734 but maybe it's as simple 658 00:35:27,908 --> 00:35:31,390 as just sharing with all of you girls. 659 00:35:31,564 --> 00:35:35,655 But all I know is that God has made me a whole new person, 660 00:35:37,178 --> 00:35:38,266 a better person. 661 00:35:39,311 --> 00:35:40,268 I feel free. 662 00:35:42,227 --> 00:35:44,620 - Gracie, as Jesus would tell you, 663 00:35:45,752 --> 00:35:49,190 well done, good and faithful servant. 664 00:35:49,364 --> 00:35:50,974 - Thank you. 665 00:35:51,149 --> 00:35:53,151 - I'm so proud of you. 666 00:35:54,195 --> 00:35:55,153 Oh! 667 00:35:55,327 --> 00:35:58,112 [thunder clapping] 668 00:35:58,286 --> 00:36:00,245 Well, it looks like God is speaking. 669 00:36:00,419 --> 00:36:03,073 - Yes, I didn't now that God was a woman. 670 00:36:03,248 --> 00:36:04,553 I'd be signing up too. 671 00:36:04,727 --> 00:36:05,685 - Don't worry, give it time, 672 00:36:05,859 --> 00:36:07,077 we're praying for you. 673 00:36:07,252 --> 00:36:08,166 - Now I've always gone to church. 674 00:36:08,340 --> 00:36:09,384 - I did when I was little. 675 00:36:09,558 --> 00:36:10,559 - Okay, this isn't a revival. 676 00:36:10,733 --> 00:36:12,039 Sara, pass out those bibles now, 677 00:36:12,213 --> 00:36:13,736 the food's getting cold. 678 00:36:13,910 --> 00:36:17,131 - Yeah, you know what I got you, let's eat. 679 00:36:17,305 --> 00:36:20,352 [thunder clapping] 680 00:36:26,445 --> 00:36:28,795 - Rainy night in Charleston, 681 00:36:32,277 --> 00:36:34,453 rainy night in Charleston. 682 00:36:37,891 --> 00:36:40,459 - Coley, baby, come on, let's go, 683 00:36:40,633 --> 00:36:43,113 I think it's time for you to go upstairs. 684 00:36:43,288 --> 00:36:44,071 - Do you want me to help you? 685 00:36:44,245 --> 00:36:45,638 - Just take this please. 686 00:36:45,812 --> 00:36:48,118 - No, it's okay, it's okay, I got her. 687 00:36:48,293 --> 00:36:49,163 Why don't you guys go to bed? 688 00:36:49,337 --> 00:36:50,643 I'll just take her up. 689 00:36:50,817 --> 00:36:53,428 Come on, I got it, it's okay, 690 00:36:53,602 --> 00:36:54,560 Sara's going to bed, 691 00:36:54,734 --> 00:36:55,691 say goodnight to Sara now. 692 00:36:55,865 --> 00:36:56,692 - [Coley] Goodnight, Sara. 693 00:36:56,866 --> 00:36:57,954 - Goodnight, Coley. 694 00:36:58,128 --> 00:36:59,086 - [Coley] Goodnight, everybody. 695 00:36:59,260 --> 00:37:00,522 We're going night night now. 696 00:37:01,654 --> 00:37:03,221 I love everybody. 697 00:37:50,659 --> 00:37:53,923 - [Patrice] I'm on the road to recovery. 698 00:37:59,755 --> 00:38:02,584 [thunder clapping] 699 00:38:10,375 --> 00:38:12,768 [slow music] 700 00:38:35,356 --> 00:38:36,357 - Come in. 701 00:38:36,531 --> 00:38:38,185 - Ah, there's the queen of mean. 702 00:38:38,359 --> 00:38:39,708 - What are you talking about? 703 00:38:39,882 --> 00:38:42,232 Is that any way to talk to a dying woman? 704 00:38:42,407 --> 00:38:44,713 - Dying woman, are you kidding me? 705 00:38:44,887 --> 00:38:47,020 You're hungover, that's all. 706 00:38:48,500 --> 00:38:51,851 Glen had to leave early, she left you a note. 707 00:38:52,025 --> 00:38:55,245 - She does every year, ingrate. 708 00:38:55,420 --> 00:38:58,901 - Glen loves you, we all love you, Coley. 709 00:38:59,075 --> 00:39:03,123 You have got to do something about your drinking. 710 00:39:04,559 --> 00:39:06,256 - You know what, hold on a second, 711 00:39:06,431 --> 00:39:09,303 let me check my social calendar. 712 00:39:09,477 --> 00:39:13,351 Fundraiser at MUSC, fundraiser at the women's center, 713 00:39:15,483 --> 00:39:17,267 huh, look right here, 714 00:39:17,442 --> 00:39:20,880 it's an AA meeting two weeks from tonight. 715 00:39:21,054 --> 00:39:25,493 No seriously though, I have tried AA, couple of times. 716 00:39:25,667 --> 00:39:28,366 Anyway, let's talk about more important things. 717 00:39:28,540 --> 00:39:30,237 - Honey, what could be more important than your health? 718 00:39:30,411 --> 00:39:31,717 - Money, of course. 719 00:39:35,851 --> 00:39:36,635 Open it. 720 00:39:41,857 --> 00:39:43,424 And don't go telling the others. 721 00:39:43,598 --> 00:39:46,645 You know you've always been my favorite. 722 00:39:48,473 --> 00:39:49,952 I want you to take that money 723 00:39:50,126 --> 00:39:51,432 and I want you to publish yourself a new book. 724 00:39:51,606 --> 00:39:52,781 - Honey, I don't self publish anymore, 725 00:39:52,955 --> 00:39:55,567 I have a publisher and an agent. 726 00:39:59,832 --> 00:40:01,007 You're too much. 727 00:40:01,181 --> 00:40:02,530 - I know, thank you. 728 00:40:02,704 --> 00:40:03,749 - No, but seriously, 729 00:40:03,923 --> 00:40:05,707 you really need to do something. 730 00:40:05,881 --> 00:40:09,537 - Ah, please, we've had a nice weekend, okay? 731 00:40:11,670 --> 00:40:12,584 - Okay fine 732 00:40:12,758 --> 00:40:14,455 but let's make a deal. 733 00:40:15,456 --> 00:40:18,328 You go to meetings, I'll follow up. 734 00:40:18,503 --> 00:40:20,766 If not, I'm dragging you to Betty Ford immediately. 735 00:40:20,940 --> 00:40:22,463 - Oh no, anybody but her, please. 736 00:40:22,637 --> 00:40:24,334 I met Betty one time at this fundraiser-- 737 00:40:24,509 --> 00:40:27,773 - Okay, wait, wait, wait, wait, stop. 738 00:40:27,947 --> 00:40:28,861 I know you. 739 00:40:32,691 --> 00:40:34,083 - And I know you. 740 00:40:35,563 --> 00:40:37,086 Come give me a hug. 741 00:40:39,480 --> 00:40:43,571 Okay, drive safe, the weather man said there's storms. 742 00:40:44,485 --> 00:40:45,486 Love you. 743 00:40:55,017 --> 00:40:56,323 - Okay, be safe, 744 00:40:56,497 --> 00:40:58,760 you know you're my favorite, 745 00:40:58,934 --> 00:41:00,719 don't tell the others. 746 00:41:03,069 --> 00:41:05,985 - She told me to use mine to get the girls into pageants. 747 00:41:06,159 --> 00:41:07,508 - Of course. 748 00:41:07,682 --> 00:41:08,683 You don't even want to know 749 00:41:08,857 --> 00:41:10,424 what she told me to use mine for 750 00:41:10,598 --> 00:41:12,382 but it's going straight to the church nursery. 751 00:41:12,557 --> 00:41:13,949 - You need those for the boys. 752 00:41:14,123 --> 00:41:15,951 - No, God will provide. 753 00:41:17,039 --> 00:41:17,953 - I love you. 754 00:41:18,127 --> 00:41:19,128 - I love you. 755 00:41:20,739 --> 00:41:21,957 Be safe. 756 00:41:22,131 --> 00:41:23,350 - Be safe. 757 00:41:23,524 --> 00:41:24,525 I'll miss you. 758 00:41:24,699 --> 00:41:25,483 - You too. 759 00:41:27,572 --> 00:41:28,486 - I'll see you soon. 760 00:41:28,660 --> 00:41:30,400 - [Sara] Okay. 761 00:41:30,575 --> 00:41:33,621 [grand orchestra music] 762 00:42:06,175 --> 00:42:08,047 - [Reporter] A terrible thunderstorm this morning. 763 00:42:08,221 --> 00:42:10,876 We've had over 315 lightning strikes 764 00:42:11,050 --> 00:42:12,921 just in the last hour. 765 00:42:13,095 --> 00:42:16,882 And there was an accident on Highway 17 south of Charleston. 766 00:42:17,056 --> 00:42:19,449 The South Carolina highway patrol has confirmed 767 00:42:19,624 --> 00:42:21,060 that only a single car was involved 768 00:42:21,234 --> 00:42:23,802 and one fatality has been reported. 769 00:42:23,976 --> 00:42:26,892 Grace Williams of Newport, South Carolina. 770 00:42:27,066 --> 00:42:31,810 According to SCHP, the accident occurred at about 11:17 a.m. 771 00:42:31,984 --> 00:42:33,028 when her vehicle went off the road 772 00:42:33,202 --> 00:42:35,814 and crashed into the guard rail. 773 00:42:38,077 --> 00:42:40,558 [sad music] 774 00:43:26,168 --> 00:43:28,606 - [Coley] Life is a competition. 775 00:43:28,780 --> 00:43:32,087 - I just feel like putting so much importance on beauty 776 00:43:32,261 --> 00:43:33,132 isn't good. 777 00:43:48,234 --> 00:43:52,325 - It's a wonderful thing for daughters and mothers to share. 778 00:43:59,898 --> 00:44:01,639 - Again Coley! 779 00:44:01,813 --> 00:44:05,077 If you're not first place, you're nothing! 780 00:44:22,355 --> 00:44:23,530 - Don't you want to go to your salon 781 00:44:23,704 --> 00:44:25,924 and do something with your? 782 00:44:27,752 --> 00:44:30,972 - I'm not gonna tell him, I'm not gonna. 783 00:45:01,394 --> 00:45:03,788 - Will you please go with me? 784 00:45:05,746 --> 00:45:08,967 - I told you already, it's your friend. 785 00:45:19,455 --> 00:45:20,543 - I assume you sent flowers 786 00:45:20,718 --> 00:45:22,589 on behalf of the entire family? 787 00:45:22,763 --> 00:45:23,721 - Of course. 788 00:45:27,855 --> 00:45:30,075 Why don't you come with me? 789 00:45:32,730 --> 00:45:34,993 - What an odd question. 790 00:45:35,167 --> 00:45:36,385 Why would I go? 791 00:45:37,343 --> 00:45:38,170 - For me. 792 00:45:40,041 --> 00:45:42,391 - I'm here for you every day. 793 00:46:13,945 --> 00:46:16,904 - Oh Grady, it's been a long time. 794 00:46:17,949 --> 00:46:19,211 How you doing? 795 00:46:19,385 --> 00:46:21,779 - I'm alright but she's not so good. 796 00:46:29,264 --> 00:46:30,962 I got you, I got you. 797 00:46:32,311 --> 00:46:33,268 Here's Glen. 798 00:46:34,835 --> 00:46:35,793 - Glen. 799 00:46:35,967 --> 00:46:37,882 [sobbing] 800 00:46:43,844 --> 00:46:45,454 - Oh, you look pretty. 801 00:46:46,934 --> 00:46:47,892 - Thank you. 802 00:46:50,111 --> 00:46:51,112 - Okay, come on, 803 00:46:51,286 --> 00:46:53,332 you and I are gonna do this. 804 00:46:53,506 --> 00:46:56,901 You just walk with me, just go with me, 805 00:46:57,075 --> 00:46:58,119 just go slow. 806 00:47:02,863 --> 00:47:04,996 [sobbing] 807 00:47:21,142 --> 00:47:21,926 - Hey. 808 00:47:25,190 --> 00:47:28,149 Is it okay if we all keep calling you mama? 809 00:47:28,323 --> 00:47:29,281 - Oh please. 810 00:47:36,157 --> 00:47:37,289 - Look at you. 811 00:47:39,944 --> 00:47:42,947 Here, let me help you, I'll take her. 812 00:47:44,644 --> 00:47:46,689 It'd be an honor. 813 00:47:46,864 --> 00:47:47,473 Hey. 814 00:47:50,955 --> 00:47:52,478 Sweet, sweet girl. 815 00:47:59,398 --> 00:48:00,965 - If anyone would like to come forward now 816 00:48:01,139 --> 00:48:02,967 and share a few words. 817 00:48:17,416 --> 00:48:20,375 - The name of this poem is Graceful. 818 00:48:27,252 --> 00:48:29,471 Graceful as a summer's rain 819 00:48:30,429 --> 00:48:32,953 sliding down a window pane, 820 00:48:33,127 --> 00:48:35,869 graceful as a bright resting light 821 00:48:36,043 --> 00:48:39,307 who says I do every day of her life, 822 00:48:39,481 --> 00:48:42,441 graceful as a mother's applause 823 00:48:42,615 --> 00:48:44,922 while tiny ballerina bows, 824 00:48:46,358 --> 00:48:49,187 to little Lindsey, Jackie, Sydney, 825 00:48:53,626 --> 00:48:55,933 a mother's love never ends 826 00:48:57,325 --> 00:49:00,372 and heaven's grace will see you through. 827 00:49:01,503 --> 00:49:04,550 Rely on the strength she gave to you. 828 00:49:06,639 --> 00:49:09,468 When only the memory of her love remains, 829 00:49:09,642 --> 00:49:13,080 go on living each precious day gracefully. 830 00:49:31,011 --> 00:49:34,319 - Hey everyone, I'm Craig, worship and music leader 831 00:49:34,493 --> 00:49:36,321 at Gracie's church. 832 00:49:36,495 --> 00:49:38,323 A few weeks ago we played a new song 833 00:49:38,497 --> 00:49:40,064 and she said that she really loved it 834 00:49:40,238 --> 00:49:42,980 so I thought that it would be a great thing 835 00:49:43,154 --> 00:49:45,330 to play today for her. 836 00:49:45,504 --> 00:49:47,462 I know she's listening. 837 00:49:56,254 --> 00:50:00,345 A day feels like forever until it's gone 838 00:50:05,176 --> 00:50:09,267 You're left with only memories 839 00:50:11,312 --> 00:50:15,447 Every moment's precious and we know 840 00:50:18,319 --> 00:50:22,454 The next one's never guaranteed 841 00:50:26,284 --> 00:50:30,462 I'm only passing through this place 842 00:50:33,073 --> 00:50:36,816 Very soon I will be on my way 843 00:50:40,037 --> 00:50:43,562 'Cause this is not my home 844 00:50:43,736 --> 00:50:47,348 It's not where I belong 845 00:50:47,522 --> 00:50:51,483 Someday soon I'll be set free 846 00:50:54,747 --> 00:50:58,316 And the father calls me home 847 00:50:58,490 --> 00:51:02,102 I bow before the storm 848 00:51:02,276 --> 00:51:05,932 Worship for eternity 849 00:51:06,106 --> 00:51:09,936 I know that you'll be missing me 850 00:51:10,110 --> 00:51:12,852 Please be strong 851 00:51:13,722 --> 00:51:16,856 This is not my home 852 00:51:20,294 --> 00:51:23,428 This is not my home 853 00:51:38,312 --> 00:51:40,271 - Hey Sara, I can take the baby now. 854 00:51:40,445 --> 00:51:41,228 Thank you. 855 00:51:46,190 --> 00:51:48,453 - We'll see you back at the house, okay? 856 00:51:48,627 --> 00:51:51,412 - Y'all sure you don't need family time alone? 857 00:51:51,586 --> 00:51:54,328 - You girls are our family. 858 00:51:54,502 --> 00:51:56,025 Winston and I decided he and the girls 859 00:51:56,200 --> 00:51:57,592 will go to the burial site 860 00:51:57,766 --> 00:52:00,769 but we'll see you at the house, okay? 861 00:52:05,470 --> 00:52:06,775 - See you there. 862 00:52:14,609 --> 00:52:18,135 It was a beautiful service, it was Grace. 863 00:52:20,224 --> 00:52:22,835 And your poem, Patrice, I loved it. 864 00:52:25,316 --> 00:52:27,622 - It's that song, so beautiful. 865 00:52:29,711 --> 00:52:31,017 - It's wonderful, isn't it? 866 00:52:31,191 --> 00:52:32,801 I keep humming it. 867 00:52:32,975 --> 00:52:36,762 I can't get over it, it's beautiful and the message, 868 00:52:36,936 --> 00:52:39,373 all about our eternal home. 869 00:52:39,547 --> 00:52:42,246 - The message of god's love and salvation. 870 00:52:42,420 --> 00:52:46,337 - It's starting to make sense to me for the first time. 871 00:52:46,511 --> 00:52:48,034 - Really honey? 872 00:52:48,208 --> 00:52:48,817 - Yeah. 873 00:52:49,949 --> 00:52:51,603 - Isn't it beautiful 874 00:52:52,865 --> 00:52:54,127 when God starts to-- 875 00:52:54,301 --> 00:52:56,782 - Oh stop, please don't start again. 876 00:52:56,956 --> 00:53:00,177 That's all we've been hearing for the last half an hour. 877 00:53:00,351 --> 00:53:02,701 - Coley, there's nothing wrong 878 00:53:02,875 --> 00:53:05,399 with talking about God at a time like this. 879 00:53:05,573 --> 00:53:06,661 - That's all we've been hearing from you 880 00:53:06,835 --> 00:53:09,316 for the last 20 years, Sara. 881 00:53:09,490 --> 00:53:10,796 - No, no, Coley. 882 00:53:12,450 --> 00:53:13,538 - Excuse me. 883 00:53:13,712 --> 00:53:16,018 - You've had enough, stop. 884 00:53:16,193 --> 00:53:17,106 - What is the matter, 885 00:53:17,281 --> 00:53:18,282 what are you doing? 886 00:53:18,456 --> 00:53:19,544 - [Glen] Stop! 887 00:53:19,718 --> 00:53:20,806 - You stupid. 888 00:53:22,982 --> 00:53:26,115 Do you think you're better than me 889 00:53:26,290 --> 00:53:29,728 because you do so much for the community, 890 00:53:29,902 --> 00:53:33,340 when the only good you do is for yourself? 891 00:53:35,734 --> 00:53:37,083 At least Sara lives for God. 892 00:53:37,257 --> 00:53:39,825 You, you live as if you are God. 893 00:53:40,913 --> 00:53:42,175 - I am not listening to this. 894 00:53:42,349 --> 00:53:44,395 You, you're just drunk again. 895 00:53:45,700 --> 00:53:47,136 - [Coley] At least I don't live a double life. 896 00:53:47,311 --> 00:53:49,269 - Listen, you are way out of line here, Coley. 897 00:53:49,443 --> 00:53:52,446 - You're the biggest hypocrite of all, Patrice. 898 00:53:52,620 --> 00:53:56,537 Social injustice and the whole black thing, ha, 899 00:53:56,711 --> 00:53:59,279 you grew up in Marietta, Georgia. 900 00:54:00,367 --> 00:54:03,196 You might as well be 1,000 miles from Atlanta. 901 00:54:03,370 --> 00:54:04,241 I grew up closer to the hood 902 00:54:04,415 --> 00:54:05,851 than any of y'all. 903 00:54:06,025 --> 00:54:09,507 - Coley, look at me, look at me, we love you, 904 00:54:14,294 --> 00:54:16,122 we love you. 905 00:54:16,296 --> 00:54:17,210 - No you don't. 906 00:54:17,384 --> 00:54:18,472 - [Sara] We love you. 907 00:54:18,646 --> 00:54:20,431 - No you don't, no you don't! 908 00:54:20,605 --> 00:54:22,041 No! 909 00:54:22,215 --> 00:54:24,130 You wish it'd been me instead of Gracie. 910 00:54:24,304 --> 00:54:25,436 - No! - Yes you do. 911 00:54:25,610 --> 00:54:26,611 - No! 912 00:54:26,785 --> 00:54:28,265 - Yes you do, all of you do. 913 00:54:28,439 --> 00:54:29,266 You wish it'd been me. 914 00:54:29,440 --> 00:54:30,919 - Oh this is coming 915 00:54:31,093 --> 00:54:33,139 from some dark place inside of you, sweetie 916 00:54:33,313 --> 00:54:34,227 and it's not you. 917 00:54:34,401 --> 00:54:36,316 Please, look at me. 918 00:54:36,490 --> 00:54:37,361 - Get off me. 919 00:54:37,535 --> 00:54:38,449 - Stop. 920 00:54:38,623 --> 00:54:39,885 - Get off me. 921 00:54:40,059 --> 00:54:42,670 Of course you wish you'd been me 922 00:54:42,844 --> 00:54:46,761 because deep inside, you know there isn't a God. 923 00:54:47,893 --> 00:54:50,765 So it may as well have been me. 924 00:54:50,939 --> 00:54:54,291 You can spray as much perfume on it as you want, 925 00:54:54,465 --> 00:54:58,251 it's not gonna change the fact that she's dead. 926 00:54:58,425 --> 00:55:00,906 And you all know it, she's dead. 927 00:55:02,995 --> 00:55:04,344 - [Sara] Coley. 928 00:55:04,518 --> 00:55:06,738 - You stupid bible thumper. 929 00:55:18,053 --> 00:55:21,448 - Go after her, somebody, go after her. 930 00:55:31,502 --> 00:55:32,807 - I'm at a loss for words. 931 00:55:32,981 --> 00:55:35,767 Did you see Gracie's mother's face? 932 00:55:35,941 --> 00:55:39,901 As if she hasn't already been through enough already. 933 00:55:40,075 --> 00:55:42,339 Do you think we stayed long enough? 934 00:55:42,513 --> 00:55:44,253 I couldn't take it anymore. 935 00:55:44,428 --> 00:55:47,953 It's just more bad news on top of bad news. 936 00:55:49,389 --> 00:55:52,827 - Yeah well, I'm never speaking to Coley again, I'm done. 937 00:55:53,001 --> 00:55:55,613 - I barely speak to her as it is. 938 00:55:55,787 --> 00:55:59,530 She had a similar meltdown at the hospital fundraiser. 939 00:55:59,704 --> 00:56:01,619 - Well Sara can deal with her now. 940 00:56:01,793 --> 00:56:03,229 I mean nothing short of a miracle 941 00:56:03,403 --> 00:56:05,666 is gonna help her turn her life around. 942 00:56:05,840 --> 00:56:06,885 - All this talk about God 943 00:56:07,059 --> 00:56:09,931 and all this Christian thing, 944 00:56:10,105 --> 00:56:13,935 you know in some ways, I think Coley is right. 945 00:56:14,109 --> 00:56:15,459 Life is short. 946 00:56:17,722 --> 00:56:19,332 I'm sick of it. 947 00:56:19,506 --> 00:56:21,203 - Sick of what, living? 948 00:56:21,378 --> 00:56:22,379 - No. 949 00:56:23,858 --> 00:56:24,946 Thank you. 950 00:56:25,120 --> 00:56:26,295 - Thanks. 951 00:56:26,470 --> 00:56:27,471 - Okay. 952 00:56:28,820 --> 00:56:30,038 - No, not living. 953 00:56:31,518 --> 00:56:34,913 I'm sick of living for everyone else. 954 00:56:35,087 --> 00:56:38,395 I am not gong to miss out on anymore of life 955 00:56:38,569 --> 00:56:40,484 because of everybody else's rules. 956 00:56:40,658 --> 00:56:41,528 - So what are you gonna do, 957 00:56:41,702 --> 00:56:42,573 start living like her? 958 00:56:42,747 --> 00:56:44,488 - No, like me, for me, 959 00:56:47,447 --> 00:56:50,015 for the way I see right and wrong. 960 00:56:51,538 --> 00:56:54,759 - Well I don't know about right and wrong 961 00:56:54,933 --> 00:56:58,545 but that song is really pulling at my heart. 962 00:57:00,678 --> 00:57:04,682 I keep remembering how happy and alive Gracie was 963 00:57:06,031 --> 00:57:06,901 at our last dinner 964 00:57:07,075 --> 00:57:08,947 and it made me think, 965 00:57:09,121 --> 00:57:10,514 what do I have? 966 00:57:12,907 --> 00:57:15,040 No kids, no nothing, just, 967 00:57:19,958 --> 00:57:22,569 just my words written onto books 968 00:57:23,744 --> 00:57:26,355 and it makes me think I don't know 969 00:57:26,530 --> 00:57:28,967 but there has to be something more. 970 00:57:29,141 --> 00:57:30,098 - Don't cry. 971 00:57:31,883 --> 00:57:34,538 Look, you save all those words 972 00:57:37,541 --> 00:57:39,630 for when you're not hurting. 973 00:57:45,549 --> 00:57:47,072 - You do the same. 974 00:57:50,771 --> 00:57:53,600 [doorbell ringing] 975 00:57:59,998 --> 00:58:02,914 - Girls, what are y'all doing here? 976 00:58:05,177 --> 00:58:06,918 - We want our grandma. 977 00:58:07,962 --> 00:58:10,008 - She's right here, sweetie. 978 00:58:11,183 --> 00:58:14,099 Why don't we all sit down and talk? 979 00:58:15,753 --> 00:58:16,754 "Eyes into the hills" 980 00:58:16,928 --> 00:58:19,496 "who once come with my help. 981 00:58:19,670 --> 00:58:22,020 "My help cometh from the Lord 982 00:58:22,194 --> 00:58:24,588 "who made heaven and Earth. 983 00:58:25,589 --> 00:58:27,329 "He will not let thy foot slip 984 00:58:27,504 --> 00:58:29,375 "and he will not slumber, 985 00:58:29,549 --> 00:58:32,509 "he who watches over thee. 986 00:58:32,683 --> 00:58:34,685 "Behold, he will not slumber nor sleep, 987 00:58:34,859 --> 00:58:36,948 "he watches over Israel." 988 00:58:40,038 --> 00:58:43,171 [inspirational music] 989 00:58:51,876 --> 00:58:52,703 Is he in? 990 00:58:52,877 --> 00:58:53,834 - Uh huh. 991 00:58:54,008 --> 00:58:54,792 - Oh good. 992 00:59:05,585 --> 00:59:08,936 - Deacon Ray, hey, it's Daisy at the church. 993 00:59:09,110 --> 00:59:11,591 You want to give me a call when you get a chance? 994 00:59:11,765 --> 00:59:13,462 There's some things going on around here 995 00:59:13,637 --> 00:59:15,508 I think you should know about. 996 00:59:15,682 --> 00:59:16,814 - Everyone went to that playground, 997 00:59:16,988 --> 00:59:18,816 his family is is in need now 998 00:59:18,990 --> 00:59:20,426 and it's gonna benefit everyone so-- 999 00:59:20,600 --> 00:59:22,123 - Is now a bad time? 1000 00:59:22,297 --> 00:59:23,777 - No, come on in, come on in. 1001 00:59:23,951 --> 00:59:25,431 Hey Ron, let me call you right back, alright? 1002 00:59:25,605 --> 00:59:27,172 Yeah, look, thanks. 1003 00:59:28,695 --> 00:59:30,392 Hey, how are you? 1004 00:59:30,567 --> 00:59:31,829 - Good. 1005 00:59:32,003 --> 00:59:34,092 I mean God is good. 1006 00:59:34,266 --> 00:59:37,443 - Yes and that cake is good it looks like. 1007 00:59:37,617 --> 00:59:39,097 - [Sara] Here, here. 1008 00:59:39,271 --> 00:59:40,620 - That looks beautiful, thank you so much. 1009 00:59:40,794 --> 00:59:42,970 - Thank you for taking care of the boys. 1010 00:59:43,144 --> 00:59:46,147 I have never seen them so well behaved in all my life. 1011 00:59:46,321 --> 00:59:47,496 I don't know what you did to them. 1012 00:59:47,671 --> 00:59:49,107 - Well you know what they say, 1013 00:59:49,281 --> 00:59:52,458 spare the rod, spoil the child. 1014 00:59:52,632 --> 00:59:54,678 [laughs] 1015 00:59:55,809 --> 00:59:57,811 Come on, sit down, sit down. 1016 00:59:58,769 --> 00:59:59,987 You alright, everything alright? 1017 01:00:00,161 --> 01:00:02,511 - Oh I wouldn't even be able 1018 01:00:02,686 --> 01:00:04,949 to know how to answer that question. 1019 01:00:05,123 --> 01:00:07,081 I have so much going on. 1020 01:00:10,258 --> 01:00:13,261 - Hey, what do you say we get a bite? 1021 01:00:14,828 --> 01:00:16,961 We can talk about the boys 1022 01:00:18,353 --> 01:00:19,616 and how my weekend went with them? 1023 01:00:19,790 --> 01:00:22,183 - Yeah, sure, let's do it, let's go. 1024 01:00:22,357 --> 01:00:23,228 - No, I don't mean now. 1025 01:00:23,402 --> 01:00:25,622 I mean you know tomorrow, 1026 01:00:28,799 --> 01:00:29,930 an official bite, 1027 01:00:32,106 --> 01:00:33,455 maybe tomorrow around noon 1028 01:00:33,630 --> 01:00:35,240 if that's okay with you. 1029 01:00:35,414 --> 01:00:36,763 I'll pick you up. 1030 01:00:38,852 --> 01:00:40,724 - You mean like a date? 1031 01:00:43,770 --> 01:00:46,817 Oh, you mean like an official bite? 1032 01:00:50,255 --> 01:00:51,082 - Yeah. 1033 01:00:52,039 --> 01:00:54,825 - Yeah, we could do that, yeah. 1034 01:00:56,827 --> 01:00:58,350 - I'd love that. 1035 01:00:58,524 --> 01:01:02,136 - Yeah because you have been a great pastor 1036 01:01:02,310 --> 01:01:05,966 and so we could go get a bite, go for a bite. 1037 01:01:09,056 --> 01:01:13,147 - You know Sara, I hope that I've been a good friend to you. 1038 01:01:14,758 --> 01:01:18,109 You can call me Rod or Rodney, if you like, 1039 01:01:18,283 --> 01:01:21,199 you know, whichever one you like better. 1040 01:01:21,373 --> 01:01:25,029 - I like them both very much, the names. 1041 01:01:25,203 --> 01:01:28,467 Okay, yeah, a bite, tomorrow, tomorrow. 1042 01:01:30,904 --> 01:01:32,123 - Tomorrow, noon, I'll pick you up. 1043 01:01:32,297 --> 01:01:33,951 Thanks for the cake. 1044 01:01:41,915 --> 01:01:43,221 - I'll see you tomorrow. 1045 01:01:43,395 --> 01:01:44,918 - Tomorrow? 1046 01:01:45,092 --> 01:01:47,747 You coming back here tomorrow? 1047 01:01:47,921 --> 01:01:50,010 Well isn't that nice? 1048 01:01:50,184 --> 01:01:51,708 Bless your heart. 1049 01:02:05,069 --> 01:02:07,985 - Oh, look at you, you look pretty. 1050 01:02:08,159 --> 01:02:09,856 - I want a hamburger. 1051 01:02:11,858 --> 01:02:14,078 - I couldn't find a babysitter. 1052 01:02:14,252 --> 01:02:15,296 - That's okay. 1053 01:02:15,470 --> 01:02:16,080 - Yeah. 1054 01:02:16,254 --> 01:02:17,908 - Yeah. 1055 01:02:18,082 --> 01:02:20,737 You know what, let's forget about that restaurant, 1056 01:02:20,911 --> 01:02:22,608 I think I got a better idea. 1057 01:02:22,782 --> 01:02:23,652 - Okay. 1058 01:02:23,827 --> 01:02:24,828 - Yeah. 1059 01:02:28,309 --> 01:02:30,224 Now watch this. 1060 01:02:30,398 --> 01:02:32,836 [happy music] 1061 01:03:02,953 --> 01:03:05,825 - [Larry] After all, I've been on you about that for awhile. 1062 01:03:05,999 --> 01:03:07,479 I hope you can get it done by noon today-- 1063 01:03:07,653 --> 01:03:09,786 - Okay, Larry, Larry, give me a minute okay? 1064 01:03:09,960 --> 01:03:10,961 Thanks. 1065 01:03:13,920 --> 01:03:15,879 Hey, what's going on? 1066 01:03:16,836 --> 01:03:19,317 - He's here, in Charleston. 1067 01:03:19,491 --> 01:03:20,492 - [Patrice] Who's here? 1068 01:03:20,666 --> 01:03:22,929 - My internet friend, Mark. 1069 01:03:24,148 --> 01:03:25,976 He's here on business for two weeks. 1070 01:03:26,150 --> 01:03:28,805 - Oh yeah, monkey business. 1071 01:03:28,979 --> 01:03:29,980 - I'm serious. 1072 01:03:30,154 --> 01:03:32,286 He's got an important job. 1073 01:03:34,201 --> 01:03:36,813 The man is fluent in Arabic and Chinese. 1074 01:03:36,987 --> 01:03:38,162 He's working with the Air Force, 1075 01:03:38,336 --> 01:03:40,164 it's all top secret. 1076 01:03:40,338 --> 01:03:42,688 - Okay, is hanky panky the same in Chinese 1077 01:03:42,862 --> 01:03:44,821 as it is in English? 1078 01:03:44,995 --> 01:03:46,213 Have you seen him yet? 1079 01:03:46,387 --> 01:03:47,867 - Not yet. 1080 01:03:48,041 --> 01:03:51,436 I was thinking about the fundraiser next week, 1081 01:03:53,046 --> 01:03:56,745 maybe you could bring him as your guest. 1082 01:03:56,920 --> 01:03:59,705 - No, no, there's no way 1083 01:03:59,879 --> 01:04:01,838 I'm going to walk into a poetry reading 1084 01:04:02,012 --> 01:04:03,883 about social justice 1085 01:04:04,057 --> 01:04:05,406 with a white guy hanging on my arm. 1086 01:04:05,580 --> 01:04:06,843 I'm sorry, no. 1087 01:04:07,017 --> 01:04:08,670 - He wouldn't be hanging on your arm. 1088 01:04:08,845 --> 01:04:10,281 He'd be your escort. 1089 01:04:11,238 --> 01:04:14,372 - Glen, I don't know about this. 1090 01:04:14,546 --> 01:04:15,808 - Please say you will. 1091 01:04:15,982 --> 01:04:18,506 Patrice, you're my only friend. 1092 01:04:20,465 --> 01:04:22,771 Don't back out on me. 1093 01:04:22,946 --> 01:04:26,036 You know how hard my life is. 1094 01:04:26,210 --> 01:04:28,342 - There's something, I don't know, 1095 01:04:28,516 --> 01:04:30,431 there's something wrong about this. 1096 01:04:30,605 --> 01:04:31,693 - What's so wrong? 1097 01:04:31,868 --> 01:04:33,304 I just want to meet him. 1098 01:04:33,478 --> 01:04:35,828 Men and women can't be friends or talk? 1099 01:04:36,002 --> 01:04:36,829 - You're not friends, 1100 01:04:37,003 --> 01:04:38,613 you don't even know him, 1101 01:04:38,787 --> 01:04:40,920 he's just a bunch of words on a computer screen. 1102 01:04:41,094 --> 01:04:42,400 - People read your poetry 1103 01:04:42,574 --> 01:04:44,271 and feel like they know you 1104 01:04:44,445 --> 01:04:45,359 without every meeting you. 1105 01:04:45,533 --> 01:04:46,883 How's this any different? 1106 01:04:47,057 --> 01:04:47,927 - I don't know. 1107 01:04:48,101 --> 01:04:50,060 Ever since Grace died, 1108 01:04:50,234 --> 01:04:52,453 I've been rethinking my whole life. 1109 01:04:52,627 --> 01:04:55,892 I keep picturing how Gracie was 1110 01:04:56,066 --> 01:05:00,157 the last time we saw her at our last dinner together. 1111 01:05:01,636 --> 01:05:04,074 I don't know, I don't know what's right anymore, 1112 01:05:04,248 --> 01:05:05,423 I don't know what the truth is. 1113 01:05:05,597 --> 01:05:07,077 - What is right? 1114 01:05:08,034 --> 01:05:09,949 What do you mean right? 1115 01:05:10,123 --> 01:05:12,909 And the truth, it's what you make it. 1116 01:05:13,083 --> 01:05:14,823 Listen to me, Patrice, 1117 01:05:14,998 --> 01:05:19,176 the bible, it's just a book about white people 1118 01:05:19,350 --> 01:05:21,482 trying to feel good about themselves. 1119 01:05:21,656 --> 01:05:23,441 It's a lot of self righteousness. 1120 01:05:23,615 --> 01:05:25,878 - No, I don't know about that, see, 1121 01:05:26,052 --> 01:05:28,925 I just, it's about the oppressed race 1122 01:05:29,099 --> 01:05:32,276 and god's power, that's what I feel it's about. 1123 01:05:32,450 --> 01:05:35,018 It's much like my own poetry, 1124 01:05:36,062 --> 01:05:38,543 only God is the great equalizer. 1125 01:05:40,284 --> 01:05:42,764 It's not about color or race, 1126 01:05:42,939 --> 01:05:44,636 it's about forgiveness. 1127 01:05:46,029 --> 01:05:47,813 I'm seeing whole different book here now. 1128 01:05:47,987 --> 01:05:49,467 - You've been talking to Sara. 1129 01:05:49,641 --> 01:05:52,383 - No mam, I have not but I might. 1130 01:05:53,993 --> 01:05:56,300 I just want to get my life right. 1131 01:05:56,474 --> 01:05:58,824 - Patrice, your life is fine the way it is. 1132 01:05:58,998 --> 01:06:00,826 You are a good person. 1133 01:06:01,000 --> 01:06:02,480 You remember that. 1134 01:06:05,004 --> 01:06:07,093 - I just don't know anymore. 1135 01:06:09,269 --> 01:06:10,618 - [Rodney] I think the boys enjoyed that 1136 01:06:10,792 --> 01:06:12,794 more than the restaurant, don't you think? 1137 01:06:12,969 --> 01:06:14,927 - Oh, I know they did. 1138 01:06:15,101 --> 01:06:17,016 - [Rodney] Do you feel like desert? 1139 01:06:17,190 --> 01:06:18,191 - No, you? 1140 01:06:19,192 --> 01:06:22,065 - No, I'm good, I'm good with this. 1141 01:06:23,631 --> 01:06:27,374 - [Sara] Can I ask you kind of a personal question? 1142 01:06:27,548 --> 01:06:28,419 - Sure. 1143 01:06:30,203 --> 01:06:33,076 - What made you become a pastor? 1144 01:06:34,207 --> 01:06:38,168 - Well, I came to the Lord at eight years old. 1145 01:06:40,083 --> 01:06:41,084 - Eight? 1146 01:06:41,258 --> 01:06:42,520 - Yep. 1147 01:06:42,694 --> 01:06:45,044 - Well then there's hope for my boys yet. 1148 01:06:45,218 --> 01:06:48,091 - Yes, your boys remind me a lot of my brother and I. 1149 01:06:48,265 --> 01:06:52,051 We're around the same number of years apart. 1150 01:06:59,058 --> 01:07:02,192 - So what happened when you were eight? 1151 01:07:05,412 --> 01:07:08,241 - Well, a couple of friends of mine and I 1152 01:07:08,415 --> 01:07:12,071 went into a local five and dime store 1153 01:07:12,245 --> 01:07:15,814 and saw some candy, didn't have any change, 1154 01:07:18,208 --> 01:07:22,212 grabbed a handful and ran out of that place 1155 01:07:22,386 --> 01:07:24,214 and went down the street, 1156 01:07:24,388 --> 01:07:26,085 I was scared to death, 1157 01:07:26,259 --> 01:07:27,608 I thought somebody was gonna jump out 1158 01:07:27,782 --> 01:07:28,696 and grab my shoulder 1159 01:07:28,870 --> 01:07:30,002 and off to jail I'd go. 1160 01:07:30,176 --> 01:07:31,569 - I bet. 1161 01:07:31,743 --> 01:07:33,005 Don't tell that to my boys. 1162 01:07:33,179 --> 01:07:35,094 I don't want them getting any ideas. 1163 01:07:35,268 --> 01:07:37,009 That is unless of course you did go to jail. 1164 01:07:37,183 --> 01:07:40,665 - No, I went to church on Wednesday, Thursday and Sunday 1165 01:07:42,232 --> 01:07:45,409 because my father was a true blue bible believer 1166 01:07:45,583 --> 01:07:48,499 and he was gonna make sure that we got the message. 1167 01:07:48,673 --> 01:07:51,067 - You and I grew up in the same family. 1168 01:07:51,241 --> 01:07:55,593 - Yeah well, only I never really got the message. 1169 01:07:55,767 --> 01:07:59,336 I could never figure out why we went to church so much, 1170 01:07:59,510 --> 01:08:00,554 why we had to go 1171 01:08:00,728 --> 01:08:03,122 but that night was different. 1172 01:08:04,689 --> 01:08:08,040 I remember sitting in my seat in church 1173 01:08:08,214 --> 01:08:11,348 and I had tears rolling down my cheeks 1174 01:08:12,610 --> 01:08:15,178 and that candy was in my pocket 1175 01:08:17,180 --> 01:08:19,225 felt like it weighed 100 pounds 1176 01:08:19,399 --> 01:08:21,967 and then the minister said, 1177 01:08:22,141 --> 01:08:26,319 "Anyone out there who'd like to ask for forgiveness 1178 01:08:26,493 --> 01:08:29,235 "and live a life with Jesus Christ, please come forward." 1179 01:08:29,409 --> 01:08:31,629 And I couldn't get out of my seat quick enough. 1180 01:08:31,803 --> 01:08:34,501 I ran forward and I kneeled 1181 01:08:34,675 --> 01:08:37,809 and when I came face to face with him, 1182 01:08:40,333 --> 01:08:42,553 my hands were shaking, 1183 01:08:42,727 --> 01:08:45,208 and I handed over the candy. 1184 01:08:46,165 --> 01:08:47,558 - You poor thing. 1185 01:08:48,646 --> 01:08:50,430 - And he looked at me, 1186 01:08:52,432 --> 01:08:55,435 he just wiped the tears off my cheeks 1187 01:08:56,480 --> 01:08:58,395 and he gave me a big hug 1188 01:08:59,439 --> 01:09:01,093 and he lifted me in the air 1189 01:09:01,267 --> 01:09:03,617 and I tell you at that moment, 1190 01:09:03,791 --> 01:09:05,750 I felt pure forgiveness, 1191 01:09:07,578 --> 01:09:08,927 pure, pure love, 1192 01:09:10,842 --> 01:09:14,933 and I guess that's why they call it the good news. 1193 01:09:17,196 --> 01:09:18,197 Ever since that day, 1194 01:09:18,371 --> 01:09:19,372 I just wanted to spread the word 1195 01:09:19,546 --> 01:09:20,808 to anybody who'd listen 1196 01:09:20,982 --> 01:09:23,333 and I took my bible anywhere I went. 1197 01:09:23,507 --> 01:09:25,161 - You gave me chills. 1198 01:09:26,423 --> 01:09:29,513 - Impressions, when you're young, boy. 1199 01:09:30,862 --> 01:09:33,647 - I wish it was that clear for me. 1200 01:09:35,867 --> 01:09:39,000 I mean I don't know what God has planned for my life, 1201 01:09:39,175 --> 01:09:41,307 what he wants me to do, 1202 01:09:41,481 --> 01:09:42,787 what my path is. 1203 01:09:45,572 --> 01:09:49,010 Lately, I think he wants me to reach out to Coley 1204 01:09:49,185 --> 01:09:51,187 and Patrice and Glen 1205 01:09:51,361 --> 01:09:53,493 and bring them closer to God. 1206 01:09:55,321 --> 01:09:56,844 But I don't know how. 1207 01:09:57,715 --> 01:09:59,717 I've tried, 1208 01:09:59,891 --> 01:10:03,721 I send them emails and literature and all that but you know. 1209 01:10:03,895 --> 01:10:07,594 - Yeah, well sorry, emails and literature 1210 01:10:07,768 --> 01:10:10,728 are something that can really turn people off, you know, 1211 01:10:10,902 --> 01:10:12,382 it's just not personal enough. 1212 01:10:12,556 --> 01:10:13,339 - Yeah. 1213 01:10:14,253 --> 01:10:16,255 - I got a better idea. 1214 01:10:17,430 --> 01:10:19,563 Why don't you go visit? 1215 01:10:19,737 --> 01:10:21,173 Why not? 1216 01:10:21,347 --> 01:10:22,740 It's the perfect time, 1217 01:10:22,914 --> 01:10:24,785 their hearts are open, 1218 01:10:24,959 --> 01:10:26,700 I'll watch your boys for you. 1219 01:10:26,874 --> 01:10:28,224 - You will not. 1220 01:10:28,398 --> 01:10:29,573 - I will, I would love to watch 'em. 1221 01:10:29,747 --> 01:10:31,227 We have such a great time. 1222 01:10:31,401 --> 01:10:34,230 - You are so amazing with them, Pastor Rod. 1223 01:10:34,404 --> 01:10:37,624 - I thought you could call me Rod or Rodney 1224 01:10:37,798 --> 01:10:41,106 and cut out the amazing part, too. 1225 01:10:41,280 --> 01:10:44,544 I mean, nah, maybe leave that in. 1226 01:10:44,718 --> 01:10:47,678 - Okay, alright, well Rod or Rodney, 1227 01:10:50,855 --> 01:10:52,335 can I ask you, 1228 01:10:52,509 --> 01:10:54,641 you're so great with kids, 1229 01:10:55,599 --> 01:10:57,862 have you ever been married? 1230 01:10:59,994 --> 01:11:01,213 - I really have been married 1231 01:11:01,387 --> 01:11:03,607 to the holy word and the church 1232 01:11:03,781 --> 01:11:06,566 I just haven't married a woman yet. 1233 01:11:07,828 --> 01:11:10,962 - Well, maybe one day you'll marry me. 1234 01:11:17,751 --> 01:11:18,709 - Hey mom. 1235 01:11:18,883 --> 01:11:19,623 - Yeah? 1236 01:11:19,797 --> 01:11:20,798 - I'm thirsty. 1237 01:11:20,972 --> 01:11:22,800 - Let me take care of that. 1238 01:11:33,463 --> 01:11:35,291 - Maybe one day I will. 1239 01:11:46,084 --> 01:11:49,609 - Well maybe you'll marry me one day. 1240 01:11:49,783 --> 01:11:52,438 [happy music] 1241 01:12:06,452 --> 01:12:09,194 - I was just thinking we should take a trip to Hotlanta 1242 01:12:09,368 --> 01:12:10,282 and here you are. 1243 01:12:10,456 --> 01:12:11,762 This is amazing. 1244 01:12:13,459 --> 01:12:14,721 - You've been on my heart and mind 1245 01:12:14,895 --> 01:12:16,941 for the last two weeks, Patrice. 1246 01:12:17,115 --> 01:12:20,858 - There are so many times I've been meaning to call you 1247 01:12:21,032 --> 01:12:23,469 but I haven't had the courage. 1248 01:12:25,471 --> 01:12:29,257 I haven't felt that good about myself. 1249 01:12:29,432 --> 01:12:32,783 - You, who is so bold in everything you do, 1250 01:12:34,828 --> 01:12:37,353 not good about yourself? 1251 01:12:37,527 --> 01:12:40,356 - Sometimes that boldness covers up other things, 1252 01:12:40,530 --> 01:12:41,357 believe me. 1253 01:12:43,533 --> 01:12:44,882 - I don't think I ever told you about this 1254 01:12:45,056 --> 01:12:48,364 but when I was younger I met this man, 1255 01:12:50,409 --> 01:12:54,500 he was so handsome, Harvard Business School grad and white, 1256 01:12:56,459 --> 01:12:59,679 and I fell head over heels in love with him 1257 01:13:00,854 --> 01:13:02,334 and it took a lot of courage for me 1258 01:13:02,508 --> 01:13:05,337 to bring him around my family. 1259 01:13:05,511 --> 01:13:09,385 You know how proud they are about our black heritage. 1260 01:13:11,387 --> 01:13:12,866 He kept telling me 1261 01:13:13,040 --> 01:13:14,738 it doesn't matter if a person's black or white, 1262 01:13:14,912 --> 01:13:17,305 what really matters is true love, 1263 01:13:17,480 --> 01:13:19,264 only his love wasn't so true 1264 01:13:19,438 --> 01:13:21,788 because a few days after he took me to meet his family, 1265 01:13:21,962 --> 01:13:24,574 I never heard from him again. 1266 01:13:25,488 --> 01:13:26,924 He got some job up in New York 1267 01:13:27,098 --> 01:13:28,665 and lost my number. 1268 01:13:30,144 --> 01:13:32,190 I was devastated and lost 1269 01:13:33,583 --> 01:13:37,500 and it changed the way I felt about other people 1270 01:13:38,936 --> 01:13:41,504 but mainly it changed the way 1271 01:13:42,766 --> 01:13:44,724 how I felt about myself. 1272 01:13:46,465 --> 01:13:47,379 - I'm sorry. 1273 01:13:47,553 --> 01:13:48,815 - No, I'm sorry. 1274 01:13:48,989 --> 01:13:51,339 I'm sorry it took Gracie's death 1275 01:13:51,514 --> 01:13:53,690 for me to really get to the truth. 1276 01:13:54,995 --> 01:13:57,389 That's when I started reading the bible, 1277 01:13:57,563 --> 01:13:59,609 the bible that you gave me, 1278 01:13:59,783 --> 01:14:03,569 and for the first time, I felt love, real love. 1279 01:14:07,530 --> 01:14:08,705 - Yeah and peace, 1280 01:14:11,664 --> 01:14:14,014 especially at a time like this. 1281 01:14:14,188 --> 01:14:15,538 - Yeah. 1282 01:14:15,712 --> 01:14:18,889 - God has his reasons for doing things 1283 01:14:19,063 --> 01:14:21,587 that we don't always understand 1284 01:14:23,546 --> 01:14:24,938 like losing Gracie. 1285 01:14:28,594 --> 01:14:29,987 One day when we meet in heaven, 1286 01:14:30,161 --> 01:14:32,424 we'll understand his reasons 1287 01:14:32,598 --> 01:14:34,121 and it will all make sense 1288 01:14:35,688 --> 01:14:39,779 and we'll see all the times when he was watching over us 1289 01:14:39,953 --> 01:14:41,520 and protecting us 1290 01:14:42,521 --> 01:14:43,653 and loving us. 1291 01:14:46,830 --> 01:14:49,485 - I believe that, I really do. 1292 01:14:51,661 --> 01:14:53,750 Okay, so what's next? 1293 01:14:53,924 --> 01:14:54,968 I don't know how this works. 1294 01:14:55,142 --> 01:14:57,667 - Well keep reading your bible 1295 01:14:57,841 --> 01:15:00,539 and find a church, I'll help you. 1296 01:15:02,193 --> 01:15:06,153 Actually, our church every month has a ceremony, 1297 01:15:07,807 --> 01:15:09,896 a baptism ceremony for new believers 1298 01:15:10,070 --> 01:15:11,768 and it's this Sunday. 1299 01:15:12,682 --> 01:15:14,466 You could come if you want to 1300 01:15:14,640 --> 01:15:17,556 and be baptized by Pastor Rodney. 1301 01:15:18,557 --> 01:15:21,517 - Ooh, well yes then, I'd love to. 1302 01:15:23,736 --> 01:15:27,000 - Somebody pinch me, I must be dreaming. 1303 01:15:29,046 --> 01:15:30,395 - Thank you. 1304 01:15:30,569 --> 01:15:32,353 - [Sara] I'm so glad I came. 1305 01:15:32,528 --> 01:15:33,529 - Me too. 1306 01:15:37,054 --> 01:15:39,883 [doorbell ringing] 1307 01:15:47,717 --> 01:15:51,024 - Oh hey, she's waiting for you upstairs. 1308 01:15:52,809 --> 01:15:55,942 - Grady, how about a hello and a hug? 1309 01:15:56,116 --> 01:15:58,336 - You girls drive me crazy. 1310 01:16:12,568 --> 01:16:13,351 - Come in. 1311 01:16:13,525 --> 01:16:14,744 Oh, it's just you. 1312 01:16:17,137 --> 01:16:19,052 - Well, who were you expecting? 1313 01:16:19,226 --> 01:16:20,837 - Well, Blake Shelton of course 1314 01:16:21,011 --> 01:16:23,927 but he appears to be running a little late. 1315 01:16:24,101 --> 01:16:25,102 - Get out of this bed. 1316 01:16:25,276 --> 01:16:26,190 - I am sick and running a fever. 1317 01:16:26,364 --> 01:16:27,844 - You are not sick. 1318 01:16:29,280 --> 01:16:31,761 Did you have something you wanted to say to me? 1319 01:16:31,935 --> 01:16:34,938 - I thought I said it with the check. 1320 01:16:36,113 --> 01:16:37,636 I'm sorry though. 1321 01:16:40,639 --> 01:16:42,902 - Well that's better, not much. 1322 01:16:45,296 --> 01:16:48,386 - I am trying to change my evil ways. 1323 01:16:49,692 --> 01:16:51,955 I even went to a couple AA meetings. 1324 01:16:52,129 --> 01:16:53,957 - Yeah, you get anything out of 'em? 1325 01:16:54,131 --> 01:16:55,436 - Yeah, they gave me a chip, 1326 01:16:55,611 --> 01:16:57,743 it says one day at a time. 1327 01:16:57,917 --> 01:17:01,051 It just doesn't seem to be working very well. 1328 01:17:01,225 --> 01:17:03,749 - Well how 'bout I take you to church instead? 1329 01:17:03,923 --> 01:17:06,056 - Oh no, I'm already gong through menopause. 1330 01:17:06,230 --> 01:17:08,841 That would really bring on the hot flashes, no. 1331 01:17:09,015 --> 01:17:10,321 - Coley, I'm serious. 1332 01:17:10,495 --> 01:17:12,976 I've never seen you like this before. 1333 01:17:13,150 --> 01:17:15,805 You can't go on like this. 1334 01:17:15,979 --> 01:17:18,285 You've hurt a lot of people. 1335 01:17:19,809 --> 01:17:21,811 - Yeah, I suppose I have. 1336 01:17:24,117 --> 01:17:26,859 But what else is new, right? 1337 01:17:27,033 --> 01:17:29,557 It seems to be my area of expertise, 1338 01:17:29,732 --> 01:17:31,864 just like I hurt my son. 1339 01:17:32,038 --> 01:17:33,344 - It's not too late. 1340 01:17:34,824 --> 01:17:37,914 Coley, all things are possible with God. 1341 01:17:39,959 --> 01:17:43,006 This straight out of his word. 1342 01:17:43,180 --> 01:17:46,923 All things including mending your broken past, 1343 01:17:47,837 --> 01:17:48,925 your relationship with Bobby, 1344 01:17:49,099 --> 01:17:50,013 all of it. 1345 01:17:50,187 --> 01:17:51,362 - I miss Bobby. 1346 01:17:52,668 --> 01:17:54,670 [sobbing] 1347 01:17:54,844 --> 01:17:56,454 I miss him so much. 1348 01:18:00,980 --> 01:18:03,679 But I can't face it without boos. 1349 01:18:03,853 --> 01:18:06,029 I can't do anything without it 1350 01:18:06,203 --> 01:18:07,378 and I've tried. 1351 01:18:08,684 --> 01:18:09,946 It's impossible. 1352 01:18:11,208 --> 01:18:13,079 - All things are possible with God. 1353 01:18:13,253 --> 01:18:14,864 - Maybe for some. 1354 01:18:16,866 --> 01:18:18,563 - Please let me help you. 1355 01:18:18,737 --> 01:18:19,999 - You know what, 1356 01:18:20,173 --> 01:18:22,741 I've got a bad headache right now 1357 01:18:22,915 --> 01:18:26,614 but thank you for coming by, really, I appreciate it. 1358 01:18:26,789 --> 01:18:29,661 - Don't go breaking my heart right now, I need you. 1359 01:18:29,835 --> 01:18:31,010 - I need you too 1360 01:18:32,446 --> 01:18:36,712 and I won't let you down, I'll call, really I will. 1361 01:18:38,888 --> 01:18:41,804 Now you go on and get out of here now. 1362 01:19:06,393 --> 01:19:08,265 - [Male] Miss Dorothy Rutledge? 1363 01:19:08,439 --> 01:19:09,701 - Who's asking? 1364 01:19:09,875 --> 01:19:10,528 - FBI, mam. 1365 01:19:11,790 --> 01:19:13,705 We have reason to believe that your daughter 1366 01:19:13,879 --> 01:19:15,751 may be seeing a man named Mark Johnson. 1367 01:19:15,925 --> 01:19:17,317 I thought you should know 1368 01:19:17,491 --> 01:19:18,623 that he's under federal investigation 1369 01:19:18,797 --> 01:19:20,320 and that anybody involved with him 1370 01:19:20,494 --> 01:19:22,758 could be subject to the same type of trouble. 1371 01:19:22,932 --> 01:19:23,454 - Trouble? 1372 01:19:24,977 --> 01:19:28,459 - Danger mam, a con artist of the worst kind. 1373 01:19:39,905 --> 01:19:40,601 - Hey there, Fred. 1374 01:19:40,776 --> 01:19:42,299 - Look at you. 1375 01:19:42,473 --> 01:19:45,345 Why don't you have a seat right down next to me? 1376 01:19:45,519 --> 01:19:48,609 - That's alright, I'm just waiting on my good friend, vodka. 1377 01:19:48,784 --> 01:19:49,785 - Straight up? 1378 01:19:49,959 --> 01:19:52,744 - You know I've never liked ice. 1379 01:19:52,918 --> 01:19:53,876 It's too cold. 1380 01:19:54,050 --> 01:19:55,399 - Make that two. 1381 01:19:56,922 --> 01:19:59,229 - [Bartender] I could do it. 1382 01:20:04,060 --> 01:20:05,931 - You had some visitors today. 1383 01:20:06,105 --> 01:20:07,715 - I did, who? 1384 01:20:07,890 --> 01:20:10,370 - Two gentlemen from the FBI. 1385 01:20:10,544 --> 01:20:12,198 - What are you talking about? 1386 01:20:12,372 --> 01:20:14,157 - Well, they told me that my daughter was dumb enough 1387 01:20:14,331 --> 01:20:15,419 to have an internet affair 1388 01:20:15,593 --> 01:20:18,074 with a professional con artist. 1389 01:20:18,944 --> 01:20:20,250 You were one of 26, 1390 01:20:21,555 --> 01:20:22,905 four of them live right here in Charleston, 1391 01:20:23,079 --> 01:20:25,081 all waiting to meet him. 1392 01:20:25,995 --> 01:20:26,952 How special. 1393 01:20:28,171 --> 01:20:29,694 If he thought 1394 01:20:29,868 --> 01:20:31,348 he wasn't gonna get a big enough check from 'em, 1395 01:20:31,522 --> 01:20:32,653 he would pickpocket their purses 1396 01:20:32,828 --> 01:20:33,872 while they were dining out 1397 01:20:34,046 --> 01:20:35,700 and by the time they realized, 1398 01:20:35,874 --> 01:20:39,356 there would be $25,000 in hotel and restaurant charges 1399 01:20:39,530 --> 01:20:41,314 on their credit cards. 1400 01:20:42,272 --> 01:20:43,795 Where did you think 1401 01:20:43,969 --> 01:20:45,710 that the two of you would go for dinner tonight 1402 01:20:45,884 --> 01:20:47,407 on your dollar 1403 01:20:47,581 --> 01:20:50,410 and no one in this town would recognize you? 1404 01:20:50,584 --> 01:20:52,369 Of course, you didn't think about that 1405 01:20:52,543 --> 01:20:56,808 because your family name means absolutely nothing to you. 1406 01:20:56,982 --> 01:20:59,071 - Mother, that's not true. 1407 01:21:00,072 --> 01:21:01,508 - How long do you think it's gonna be 1408 01:21:01,682 --> 01:21:05,034 before everybody in this town knows about this? 1409 01:21:05,208 --> 01:21:06,818 Maybe if you'd be a better wife 1410 01:21:06,992 --> 01:21:08,559 to the husband that you have living here, 1411 01:21:08,733 --> 01:21:10,517 the two of you wouldn't go tramping around town 1412 01:21:10,691 --> 01:21:12,824 leaving your dirty laundry in everybody else's backyard. 1413 01:21:12,998 --> 01:21:15,653 - Mother, stop it, just stop it, 1414 01:21:16,915 --> 01:21:19,004 just once, just once I wish, 1415 01:21:21,920 --> 01:21:24,357 I wish that you would shut up. 1416 01:21:26,969 --> 01:21:28,057 - Where are you going? 1417 01:21:28,231 --> 01:21:30,363 - [Glen] None of your business. 1418 01:21:32,322 --> 01:21:33,889 [knocking on window] 1419 01:21:34,063 --> 01:21:35,760 - Are you with the blonde lady? 1420 01:21:35,934 --> 01:21:37,109 - Yes, I am. - You need to come in, 1421 01:21:37,283 --> 01:21:38,676 I need some help. 1422 01:21:41,635 --> 01:21:43,811 - [Rodney] Just feel free to say what's on your mind, 1423 01:21:43,986 --> 01:21:45,378 that's what we're here for. 1424 01:21:45,552 --> 01:21:48,033 - It's just really hard to understand. 1425 01:21:50,427 --> 01:21:54,170 I have spent my whole life trying to be good. 1426 01:21:58,000 --> 01:22:01,003 I've never deliberately sinned 1427 01:22:01,177 --> 01:22:04,180 or tried to hurt anyone else. 1428 01:22:04,354 --> 01:22:06,878 And still I am sitting here 1429 01:22:07,052 --> 01:22:10,273 and I am watching my whole life fall apart 1430 01:22:11,970 --> 01:22:13,929 and every good thing that I have ever done 1431 01:22:14,103 --> 01:22:15,713 has led me nowhere. 1432 01:22:18,977 --> 01:22:20,370 And then when I finally decided 1433 01:22:20,544 --> 01:22:23,025 that I was sick of being good, 1434 01:22:25,114 --> 01:22:27,377 I still get walked all over. 1435 01:22:28,508 --> 01:22:31,990 - Glen, only you and God know the truth. 1436 01:22:34,123 --> 01:22:36,125 You don't have to answer to me or anybody else 1437 01:22:36,299 --> 01:22:39,563 but let me just ask you one question, 1438 01:22:39,737 --> 01:22:41,304 have you ever told a lie? 1439 01:22:41,478 --> 01:22:43,132 - Of course. 1440 01:22:43,306 --> 01:22:45,264 - Have you ever used the lord's name in vain? 1441 01:22:45,438 --> 01:22:46,962 - Everyone has. 1442 01:22:47,136 --> 01:22:48,876 - Do you know that the bible says 1443 01:22:49,051 --> 01:22:51,488 that if you look at another person in lust 1444 01:22:51,662 --> 01:22:55,448 that you are guilty in your heart of adultery? 1445 01:22:58,060 --> 01:23:00,366 - But everyone does those things? 1446 01:23:00,540 --> 01:23:02,151 - That is exactly right 1447 01:23:02,325 --> 01:23:05,110 and that is why Jesus sacrificed his life for us 1448 01:23:05,284 --> 01:23:06,807 so that we wouldn't have to spend an eternity 1449 01:23:06,982 --> 01:23:08,244 separated from God. 1450 01:23:08,418 --> 01:23:10,376 He took on our sin. 1451 01:23:10,550 --> 01:23:11,987 - But what is sin? 1452 01:23:15,294 --> 01:23:17,862 And I don't like the idea of a God 1453 01:23:18,036 --> 01:23:19,690 who sends people to hell. 1454 01:23:19,864 --> 01:23:24,390 - Sin is when you go directly against god's holy word, 1455 01:23:24,564 --> 01:23:27,002 against his holy commandments. 1456 01:23:28,177 --> 01:23:29,656 - So you're saying 1457 01:23:33,138 --> 01:23:36,141 that God is the only truly good thing 1458 01:23:38,622 --> 01:23:40,798 and we can never be good enough 1459 01:23:42,278 --> 01:23:46,369 but he's given us a way out despite all of our sinning 1460 01:23:48,632 --> 01:23:49,459 so what? 1461 01:23:53,158 --> 01:23:55,291 Being good is a waste of time? 1462 01:23:55,465 --> 01:23:58,337 - No, no, no, being good is good, 1463 01:23:58,511 --> 01:24:01,210 being good works for society, it's great 1464 01:24:01,384 --> 01:24:02,211 but what we're really talking about here 1465 01:24:02,385 --> 01:24:04,387 is faith in Jesus Christ. 1466 01:24:06,780 --> 01:24:11,046 - I'm really tired of trying to figure it out on my own. 1467 01:24:12,221 --> 01:24:13,135 I'm exhausted. 1468 01:24:15,833 --> 01:24:19,402 But I know that there has to be a better way 1469 01:24:22,231 --> 01:24:23,971 I just don't know whether this is it 1470 01:24:24,146 --> 01:24:28,280 and I just don't know if Jesus Christ is the only way. 1471 01:24:28,454 --> 01:24:32,545 - Glen, nobody walks through those church doors by mistake, 1472 01:24:33,546 --> 01:24:34,547 nobody. 1473 01:24:34,721 --> 01:24:37,159 Lord is calling out for you, 1474 01:24:37,333 --> 01:24:39,900 right now reaching out for you. 1475 01:24:40,075 --> 01:24:41,946 - I'll think about it, 1476 01:24:42,120 --> 01:24:43,208 I'll think about it 1477 01:24:43,382 --> 01:24:45,993 and I'll maybe do some reading. 1478 01:24:46,168 --> 01:24:49,736 - Don't just think about it, pray about it. 1479 01:24:52,217 --> 01:24:54,132 Listen to your heart. 1480 01:24:55,090 --> 01:24:56,352 It'll tell you. 1481 01:24:58,441 --> 01:25:00,965 Read the bible I gave you. 1482 01:25:01,139 --> 01:25:05,100 You know Patrice is getting baptized here Sunday. 1483 01:25:06,536 --> 01:25:09,408 - I knew she'd been talking to you. 1484 01:25:12,498 --> 01:25:15,762 Wait, I was baptized when I was a child. 1485 01:25:19,114 --> 01:25:20,680 - Mmhmm, yeah, me too, 1486 01:25:22,421 --> 01:25:25,642 that was our parents commitment to raise us in the faith 1487 01:25:25,816 --> 01:25:28,993 but as adults, it's our choice 1488 01:25:29,167 --> 01:25:33,650 so baptism is publicly proclaiming your faith in Jesus 1489 01:25:33,824 --> 01:25:35,391 as our savior. 1490 01:25:35,565 --> 01:25:39,308 And all you need to do that is the faith part. 1491 01:25:44,182 --> 01:25:46,576 - Help me with my lack of faith. 1492 01:25:49,492 --> 01:25:51,798 - Okay. - Good gracious girl. 1493 01:25:53,496 --> 01:25:56,760 Glen, could we pray with you right now? 1494 01:26:00,198 --> 01:26:02,809 - Alright, let's pray with Glen. 1495 01:26:05,290 --> 01:26:06,596 Dear holy father, 1496 01:26:06,770 --> 01:26:09,338 thank you for bringing Glen here today. 1497 01:26:09,512 --> 01:26:11,427 Pray that you'll guide her 1498 01:26:11,601 --> 01:26:14,125 like you guided her into this church, 1499 01:26:14,299 --> 01:26:16,301 you'll guide her on her way 1500 01:26:17,694 --> 01:26:19,652 to a life in your faith. 1501 01:26:21,350 --> 01:26:23,787 Praise in Jesus's name, amen. 1502 01:26:27,269 --> 01:26:30,185 - Drugs, alcohol, possible overdose. 1503 01:26:37,714 --> 01:26:39,672 - Take good care of her. 1504 01:26:48,681 --> 01:26:50,292 - What do you think? 1505 01:26:50,466 --> 01:26:53,991 Do you think we got through to her a little bit? 1506 01:26:57,386 --> 01:27:00,258 Thank you assistant pastor. 1507 01:27:00,432 --> 01:27:02,826 - Thank you assistant friend. 1508 01:27:05,611 --> 01:27:07,091 [phone ringing] 1509 01:27:07,265 --> 01:27:09,136 Oh, I should take this. 1510 01:27:09,311 --> 01:27:10,442 It might be Daisy, she's got the boys. 1511 01:27:10,616 --> 01:27:11,400 Hello? 1512 01:27:15,882 --> 01:27:16,709 What? 1513 01:27:21,758 --> 01:27:22,541 No. 1514 01:27:23,934 --> 01:27:26,241 Okay, I'll be right there. 1515 01:27:28,417 --> 01:27:29,722 - What happened? 1516 01:27:31,289 --> 01:27:32,159 - It's Coley. 1517 01:27:32,334 --> 01:27:34,249 She's in the hospital. 1518 01:27:36,947 --> 01:27:38,209 She took an overdose of pills 1519 01:27:38,383 --> 01:27:40,690 and they're trying to revive her. 1520 01:27:43,258 --> 01:27:44,868 I can't do this again. 1521 01:27:47,697 --> 01:27:49,525 I can't do this again. 1522 01:27:50,700 --> 01:27:52,702 - Listen, I'm going to drive you 1523 01:27:52,876 --> 01:27:55,705 and everything's gonna be alright. 1524 01:27:55,879 --> 01:27:59,143 Okay, I promise you, everything's gonna be alright. 1525 01:27:59,317 --> 01:28:01,276 Let's go, come on, let's go. 1526 01:28:01,450 --> 01:28:03,713 [tense music] 1527 01:28:09,762 --> 01:28:10,589 - [Doctor] Are you family? 1528 01:28:10,763 --> 01:28:11,547 - Yes. 1529 01:28:12,852 --> 01:28:14,680 - Well, she's a very lucky lady. 1530 01:28:14,854 --> 01:28:18,293 Her blood alcohol alone was close to killing her 1531 01:28:18,467 --> 01:28:21,165 and she had 30 pills in her stomach. 1532 01:28:21,339 --> 01:28:24,255 I'm not so sure this wasn't a suicide attempt. 1533 01:28:24,429 --> 01:28:27,780 - No, no, I know here, she wouldn't do that. 1534 01:28:31,480 --> 01:28:32,872 She just got confused 1535 01:28:33,046 --> 01:28:34,396 and she didn't know how many she took. 1536 01:28:34,570 --> 01:28:37,921 - Well, my advice to her is to stay here 1537 01:28:38,095 --> 01:28:39,401 and get some medical attention, 1538 01:28:39,575 --> 01:28:42,534 mostly psychological at this point. 1539 01:28:42,708 --> 01:28:45,624 She's going to need help, serious help. 1540 01:28:45,798 --> 01:28:47,278 - May we go in to see her now? 1541 01:28:47,452 --> 01:28:50,325 - Two at a time, no longer than five minutes, 1542 01:28:50,499 --> 01:28:51,761 she needs rest. 1543 01:28:54,329 --> 01:28:56,287 - Well you two go first. 1544 01:28:56,461 --> 01:28:57,680 - Okay. 1545 01:28:57,854 --> 01:28:58,637 - Okay. 1546 01:29:03,990 --> 01:29:08,430 - I hear you're going to be baptized this weekend. 1547 01:29:08,604 --> 01:29:09,648 - Yeah, I am. 1548 01:29:14,653 --> 01:29:15,437 - Me too. 1549 01:29:22,835 --> 01:29:25,360 - That looks like it. 1550 01:29:25,534 --> 01:29:28,145 [machine beeping] 1551 01:29:41,463 --> 01:29:42,464 - Coley. 1552 01:29:45,075 --> 01:29:45,902 - Hey Sara. 1553 01:29:49,035 --> 01:29:50,428 - Oh thank 1554 01:29:52,604 --> 01:29:54,476 We've been praying for you all night. 1555 01:29:54,650 --> 01:29:56,303 Everybody's here 1556 01:29:56,478 --> 01:29:59,655 but Pastor Rodney and Patrice, even Glen. 1557 01:30:02,571 --> 01:30:03,572 - I'm real sorry, 1558 01:30:04,921 --> 01:30:07,706 I didn't mean to give everybody a fright. 1559 01:30:07,880 --> 01:30:10,535 - We're just glad you're here. 1560 01:30:13,625 --> 01:30:15,540 - Sara, would you step out in the hall? 1561 01:30:15,714 --> 01:30:18,935 I'd like to talk to Pastor Rodney alone. 1562 01:30:27,770 --> 01:30:28,553 - Okay. 1563 01:30:33,515 --> 01:30:34,603 I love you. 1564 01:30:40,130 --> 01:30:42,349 - How are you doing? 1565 01:30:42,524 --> 01:30:43,220 - I'm here. 1566 01:30:44,656 --> 01:30:46,658 - Yeah, you sure are. 1567 01:30:46,832 --> 01:30:48,878 You sure have a lot of friends out there 1568 01:30:49,052 --> 01:30:50,575 who care about you. 1569 01:30:51,663 --> 01:30:53,796 - You don't know me from anybody. 1570 01:30:53,970 --> 01:30:56,712 - Well, I do know something about you. 1571 01:30:56,886 --> 01:30:58,975 I know you just asked me to stay here 1572 01:30:59,149 --> 01:31:00,498 because there's something in your heart 1573 01:31:00,672 --> 01:31:03,588 that's looking for a deeper meaning. 1574 01:31:04,981 --> 01:31:06,417 I may not know you personally 1575 01:31:06,591 --> 01:31:09,638 but Jesus knows every hair on your head. 1576 01:31:13,468 --> 01:31:14,338 - Yeah, me too. 1577 01:31:14,512 --> 01:31:16,253 - Yeah, I'll bet you do. 1578 01:31:18,081 --> 01:31:21,563 - Pastor, you probably never met anybody 1579 01:31:24,653 --> 01:31:26,959 quite like me before, right? 1580 01:31:29,135 --> 01:31:31,355 - Well, matter of fact 1581 01:31:31,529 --> 01:31:35,011 I do know someone who drank an awful lot, 1582 01:31:35,185 --> 01:31:37,796 yep, she was pretty like you too 1583 01:31:38,754 --> 01:31:40,973 and had three kids, 1584 01:31:41,147 --> 01:31:43,367 had great husband, 1585 01:31:43,541 --> 01:31:45,674 nice place in the suburbs, 1586 01:31:46,588 --> 01:31:47,893 she wasn't happy 1587 01:31:48,067 --> 01:31:50,809 'cause all she wanted to do was drink. 1588 01:31:50,983 --> 01:31:53,638 And one day she just vanished, 1589 01:31:56,032 --> 01:31:59,514 left those kids behind, family behind, 1590 01:31:59,688 --> 01:32:03,779 met some fella who made a lot of promises to her 1591 01:32:03,953 --> 01:32:05,302 and had some money, 1592 01:32:06,695 --> 01:32:08,523 she partied and partied and partied 1593 01:32:08,697 --> 01:32:11,917 till the parties got smaller and smaller 1594 01:32:12,091 --> 01:32:14,224 till there was no one left 1595 01:32:16,052 --> 01:32:17,836 and Carol was her name 1596 01:32:21,057 --> 01:32:22,667 and Carol ended up 1597 01:32:22,841 --> 01:32:26,802 in a cheap seven dollar a night motel room drinking 1598 01:32:26,976 --> 01:32:27,803 all alone 1599 01:32:29,239 --> 01:32:31,676 and her kids wanted to see her 1600 01:32:34,157 --> 01:32:36,855 but she just refused to see them. 1601 01:32:43,122 --> 01:32:46,082 And she ended up passing away alone. 1602 01:32:48,127 --> 01:32:49,825 - Well that's not me. 1603 01:32:51,740 --> 01:32:53,568 - No, that's my mom. 1604 01:33:00,357 --> 01:33:02,577 - I don't want that to be me. 1605 01:33:02,751 --> 01:33:03,578 - It's not gonna be you. 1606 01:33:03,752 --> 01:33:05,231 - Help me, pastor. 1607 01:33:07,277 --> 01:33:08,713 Please help me, 1608 01:33:09,758 --> 01:33:11,498 I don't want to do this anymore. 1609 01:33:11,673 --> 01:33:13,022 - It's okay, you're not alone, 1610 01:33:13,196 --> 01:33:15,198 you're not gonna do this alone, okay? 1611 01:33:15,372 --> 01:33:17,722 You got friends here, 1612 01:33:17,896 --> 01:33:19,985 you got me here any time you want to talk to me. 1613 01:33:20,159 --> 01:33:21,073 - Okay. 1614 01:33:21,247 --> 01:33:22,684 - Okay? 1615 01:33:22,858 --> 01:33:24,163 I brought you a little present, okay, 1616 01:33:24,337 --> 01:33:26,035 this is gonna help you more than me. 1617 01:33:26,209 --> 01:33:28,951 You don't have to read the whole thing 1618 01:33:29,125 --> 01:33:31,518 but just open it from time to time 1619 01:33:31,693 --> 01:33:33,216 when you feel like you need 1620 01:33:33,390 --> 01:33:36,088 to talk to somebody that might give you comfort. 1621 01:33:36,262 --> 01:33:37,524 - I will. 1622 01:33:37,699 --> 01:33:38,613 - Okay. 1623 01:33:38,787 --> 01:33:39,614 - Okay. 1624 01:33:39,788 --> 01:33:41,050 Thank you pastor. 1625 01:33:41,224 --> 01:33:41,964 - Okay. 1626 01:33:42,138 --> 01:33:43,574 - Okay. 1627 01:33:43,748 --> 01:33:46,185 - Alright, I'll send in your friends. 1628 01:33:46,359 --> 01:33:47,447 - Okay. 1629 01:33:47,622 --> 01:33:48,231 - Okay. 1630 01:34:09,339 --> 01:34:10,253 - Hey boys. 1631 01:34:17,826 --> 01:34:19,654 Did y'all mind your manners for Miss Daisy? 1632 01:34:19,828 --> 01:34:20,655 - [Male] Yes, mam. 1633 01:34:20,829 --> 01:34:22,526 - Okay, good. 1634 01:34:22,700 --> 01:34:25,268 Go inside, I'll get your breakfast in a minute. 1635 01:34:25,442 --> 01:34:26,704 Daisy, I'm so sorry, 1636 01:34:26,878 --> 01:34:28,837 it was a crazy night 1637 01:34:29,011 --> 01:34:31,709 and we all wound up spending it at the hospital. 1638 01:34:31,883 --> 01:34:35,800 - No Sara, I'm the one who has to say I'm sorry. 1639 01:34:41,458 --> 01:34:44,591 When Pastor Rodney first showed up 10 years ago, 1640 01:34:44,766 --> 01:34:47,029 I thought hallelujah, 1641 01:34:47,203 --> 01:34:49,466 this is an answer to prayer, 1642 01:34:50,728 --> 01:34:54,340 not the kind of prayer that you're thinking. 1643 01:34:57,213 --> 01:35:01,260 When I saw the two of you alone together at the church, 1644 01:35:02,914 --> 01:35:07,005 I knew in my heart that God hadn't heard my prayer. 1645 01:35:11,401 --> 01:35:14,665 Then you walked in the church offices that day 1646 01:35:14,839 --> 01:35:16,798 with a beautiful cake and smile on your face 1647 01:35:16,972 --> 01:35:19,931 and jealousy just filled my heart 1648 01:35:21,106 --> 01:35:25,197 and I picked up the phone and I called Deacon Ray. 1649 01:35:28,374 --> 01:35:30,594 You know what a busy body he is. 1650 01:35:30,768 --> 01:35:32,248 - Daisy. 1651 01:35:32,422 --> 01:35:34,903 - Just everything took on a life of its own 1652 01:35:35,077 --> 01:35:38,297 and now they're a lot of people in an uproar 1653 01:35:39,821 --> 01:35:43,694 wondering what a divorced woman with two kids 1654 01:35:43,868 --> 01:35:47,089 is doing hanging out with a single pastor. 1655 01:35:51,354 --> 01:35:54,836 I've been up all night reading my bible. 1656 01:35:57,012 --> 01:35:59,188 I asked God to forgive me. 1657 01:36:00,450 --> 01:36:03,540 Now I'm asking you to forgive me too. 1658 01:36:07,239 --> 01:36:09,807 - Daisy, why did you do that? 1659 01:36:12,810 --> 01:36:14,116 - I was jealous. 1660 01:36:16,248 --> 01:36:18,381 Please, please forgive me. 1661 01:36:21,950 --> 01:36:24,082 - Of course I forgive you. 1662 01:36:26,258 --> 01:36:28,217 Of course I forgive you. 1663 01:36:40,838 --> 01:36:44,624 - Hey Sara, Sara, hey I wanted to talk to you 1664 01:36:44,799 --> 01:36:46,017 after the service. 1665 01:36:46,191 --> 01:36:48,759 - Oh I heard, I already know. 1666 01:36:48,933 --> 01:36:50,413 - You heard what? 1667 01:36:50,587 --> 01:36:52,807 - Well I can read the writing on the wall. 1668 01:36:52,981 --> 01:36:55,897 I gotta go, the service is starting. 1669 01:36:59,857 --> 01:37:01,946 - What is she talking about? 1670 01:37:02,991 --> 01:37:04,427 Church family, 1671 01:37:04,601 --> 01:37:07,822 this has been a day of celebration, amen. 1672 01:37:10,389 --> 01:37:11,738 And we're going to continue that celebration 1673 01:37:11,913 --> 01:37:14,350 by baptizing the new souls 1674 01:37:14,524 --> 01:37:16,352 that have committed themselves 1675 01:37:16,526 --> 01:37:18,310 to a life with Christ. 1676 01:37:23,489 --> 01:37:24,316 You ready? 1677 01:37:26,405 --> 01:37:28,973 [soft music] 1678 01:37:44,902 --> 01:37:49,733 Coley Phillips, in the name of the father, the son 1679 01:37:49,907 --> 01:37:52,910 and the holy spirit, I baptize you. 1680 01:38:05,227 --> 01:38:07,969 [upbeat music] 1681 01:38:12,147 --> 01:38:15,150 When he rises, you have risen 1682 01:38:15,324 --> 01:38:19,328 Embrace this life you've given 1683 01:38:19,502 --> 01:38:22,722 The old has gone 1684 01:38:22,897 --> 01:38:26,465 The new has come 1685 01:38:26,639 --> 01:38:29,860 The new has come 1686 01:38:30,034 --> 01:38:32,907 The new has come 1687 01:38:34,517 --> 01:38:37,389 The new has come 1688 01:38:39,130 --> 01:38:42,003 The old has gone 1689 01:38:43,134 --> 01:38:46,746 The new has come 1690 01:38:46,921 --> 01:38:49,619 The new has come 1691 01:38:50,663 --> 01:38:53,579 The new has come 1692 01:38:55,581 --> 01:38:58,933 And the old has gone 1693 01:39:00,108 --> 01:39:02,937 The new has come 1694 01:39:12,990 --> 01:39:16,907 And the old has gone 1695 01:39:17,081 --> 01:39:19,954 The new has come 1696 01:39:29,572 --> 01:39:31,226 - Will you marry me? 1697 01:39:33,097 --> 01:39:34,229 - [Female] What? 1698 01:39:36,622 --> 01:39:39,408 [uplifting music] 1699 01:39:47,024 --> 01:39:48,286 - Are you serious? 1700 01:39:49,157 --> 01:39:50,985 - Yeah, I'm serious. 1701 01:39:54,336 --> 01:39:54,989 - Yes. 1702 01:39:55,163 --> 01:39:56,903 - Yes, yes? 1703 01:39:57,078 --> 01:39:58,079 - Yes. 1704 01:39:58,253 --> 01:40:00,429 [upbeat music] 1705 01:40:00,603 --> 01:40:03,606 [audience applause] 1706 01:40:04,999 --> 01:40:07,871 We rise as you have risen 1707 01:40:08,045 --> 01:40:12,093 Embrace this life you've given 1708 01:40:12,267 --> 01:40:15,009 The old has gone 1709 01:40:15,183 --> 01:40:18,447 And the new has come 1710 01:40:19,448 --> 01:40:22,842 The new has come 1711 01:40:23,017 --> 01:40:25,715 The new has come 1712 01:40:27,151 --> 01:40:30,024 The new has come 1713 01:40:31,808 --> 01:40:35,203 And the old has gone 1714 01:40:36,073 --> 01:40:39,424 The new has come 1715 01:40:39,598 --> 01:40:42,471 The new has come 1716 01:40:44,125 --> 01:40:46,518 [soft music] 1717 01:40:58,530 --> 01:41:02,665 A day feels like forever till it's gone 1718 01:41:06,538 --> 01:41:10,673 And you're left with only memories 1719 01:41:12,240 --> 01:41:15,504 Every moment's precious 1720 01:41:17,549 --> 01:41:21,684 And we know the next one's never guaranteed 1721 01:41:27,124 --> 01:41:31,215 We're only passing through this place 1722 01:41:34,349 --> 01:41:38,527 And very soon I will be on my way 1723 01:41:41,399 --> 01:41:45,360 'Cause this is not my home 1724 01:41:45,534 --> 01:41:49,015 It's not where I belong 1725 01:41:49,190 --> 01:41:53,107 One day soon I'll be set free 1726 01:41:56,588 --> 01:42:00,114 When the father calls me home 1727 01:42:00,288 --> 01:42:03,682 I'll bow before a stone 1728 01:42:03,856 --> 01:42:08,122 And worship for eternity 1729 01:42:08,296 --> 01:42:11,951 I know that you'll be missing me 1730 01:42:12,126 --> 01:42:15,085 But please be strong 1731 01:42:15,259 --> 01:42:19,133 'Cause this is not my home 1732 01:42:22,875 --> 01:42:24,921 Oh no 1733 01:42:33,495 --> 01:42:37,151 When the tears are falling 1734 01:42:39,283 --> 01:42:41,459 Rest alone 1735 01:42:43,157 --> 01:42:46,421 I will never cry again 1736 01:42:47,509 --> 01:42:51,643 When you feel you can't keep going 1737 01:42:53,210 --> 01:42:57,040 'Cause your heart is broken 1738 01:42:57,214 --> 01:43:00,957 Remember this is not the end 1739 01:43:02,524 --> 01:43:06,658 'Cause life is full of pain of sin 1740 01:43:10,401 --> 01:43:14,492 And forever's where we'll meet again 115650

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