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- Synced and corrected by chamallow -
- www.MY-SUBS.com -
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Hey, sexy sirens. Welcome to Scott Club.
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Okay, I really wasn't expecting this.
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Three, two, one, go!
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A trio of lusty ladies licking
tequila shots off my body
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in a sex club.
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I know it looks pretty steamy,
but I am doing this for science.
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I'm trying to get the
low-down on female sexuality.
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This is the land of clits.
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The land of clits!
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Why is the female sex
drive still such a mystery?
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This is something I
call the Pussy Sandwich.
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If this was inside of you,
this is not that big, obviously.
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It's almost like it's this.
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I know from my own love life
just how sexual women can be.
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So why do straight women
seem to have less free
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and fulfilling sex lives than men?
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And what can we do about it?
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Just try to tease your hole.
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You want the pussy to, like, want
that finger and welcome it in.
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Strap on and get ready
for some eye-opening stuff.
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And no, that is not my orgasm face.
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It would be good if you
start masturbating now.
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Is that good?
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Take one, all right.
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Are women as horny as men?
I am horny... I don't know!
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I do think women are less
able and are less accepted
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to speak about how horny they are.
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I think female sexual
desire has been repressed.
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It's interesting to be able
to talk about all these things
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and the discovery of the female orgasm.
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I've always wanted to learn about
it, and I'm sure many others too.
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So let's start with the basics.
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How do females orgasm? And
is it different for males?
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I'm in Germany where scientists
are making new discoveries
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about the big O.
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And I'm down for playing guinea
pig in the wildest experiment.
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We are about to go into
a university hospital
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where I'm going to masturbate.
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Yep, I'm here to have an
orgasm and donate it to science.
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Husband and wife team Johannes
Fuß and Sarah Biedermann
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studied the chemical changes
in our brains when we cum.
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Of course they do.
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We realized that there
is not much going on
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in the whole field of sex research.
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There are a lot of people
doing neuroscience in the field
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but there's not so much
exploring of sexuality.
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We're assessing neurobiological factors
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like chemicals in the brain
and how does the body react
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to sexual stimuli.
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What I want to know is,
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what exactly makes us feel so
good when we get our rocks off?
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- Oh, it is pleasant.
- Intimate setting.
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There's a bed. It's like a hotel room.
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You can have a shower.
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I will leave the room and
then I would ask you masturbate
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for at least ten minutes.
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At least? That's a nice amount of time.
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If you take longer, that's no problem.
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I'm not looking at
you because I'm scared.
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- You don't...
- I'm bad at blood.
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Before I get down to
some solo sexy time,
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I need to give a blood sample.
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It's coming out!
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Once I hit the big O,
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Sarah and Johannes will
take another sample to see
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what's changed in my blood.
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Good. Cara, when you climax,
you will just blow the whistle.
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Oh, yay. I should
always have that whistle.
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- I will give this to you, and...
- Thank you.
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I will come in and
take blood very quickly.
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Can I let myself settle for a
minute, or should I just be like,
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"Orgasm! Blow whistle!"
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It would be good if you
start masturbating now.
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And in case I need extra help, sex toys.
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Talk about German efficiency.
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I have had some weird
sexual experiences,
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but this is definitely up there.
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- So!
- I'm okay.
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- I'll take your blood now.
- Oh!
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Masturbation!
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Run, Johannes, run!
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That blood contains all
the secrets of my climax.
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Luckily, this man can pipet like a pro
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and is back with the results
before I can say "Ubergasm".
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- Hi, welcome back.
- Oh, my gosh.
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So tell me, what did you
find? What's in there?
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We processed your blood and we found
that it produced endocannabinoids.
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Endocannabinoids are basically
your body's own version of cannabis.
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- That's what it sounded like. Wow.
- Yeah, exactly.
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That's why I felt dopey.
Is it like cannabis?
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The body is producing it's
own cannabis-like substance.
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- Wow.
- And it makes you kind of high
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after masturbation.
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And just like cannabinoid
chemicals in plants,
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endo-cannabinoids in our
bodies can be a brilliant upper.
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A bit like that feeling after a workout
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or a runner's high.
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Does that happen to everyone?
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We know from research that
roughly 80 percent of people
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had such an increase
of endo-cannabinoids
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after masturbation to orgasm.
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- Is it men and women? Both have...
- Yeah.
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We think that's why sex feels so good.
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I feel fantastic.
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What a great journey! Thank you, guys.
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- Thank you for participating.
- Heroes of sex!
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Heroes of sex!
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Wow! Orgasm produce endo-cannabinoids.
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That is hot news!
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And even better, Sarah
and Johannes found
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that males and females
can both hit the same high.
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So it stands to reason
that men and women
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should be having equally
mind-blowing sex, right?
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Well, prepare for a shock.
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I came across a very interesting study
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that said that 95 percent of
straight men orgasm during sex.
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But only 65 percent of straight
women orgasm during sex.
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I think that number is very high
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and most women I've
asked also agree with me.
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They say it's probably more
around ten, 15, 20 percent,
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but again, who knows?
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This tragic state of affairs
is called the Orgasm Gap.
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And for the benefit of
people with vaginas and clits,
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I want to know how to close it.
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Wish me luck!
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I'm using a lot of
different terms in this film.
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But whether you identify
as a woman or non-binary,
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own a vulva or a clit,
we're talking about you.
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And for decades, thanks to
prudish and patriarchal attitudes,
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you've been missing out on pleasure.
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We look back on times when
we used to wear corsets
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and showing an ankle was
something like female flirting.
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It's come a long way since then.
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I still always felt a lot
of shame about being a woman.
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Shame about my vagina,
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and to kind of put
shame in female sexuality
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is really dangerous.
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In many countries worldwide,
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talking about female
sexuality is still taboo,
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including here, in Lebanon.
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There's definitely one thing
that unites all Arab countries...
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... the culture of shame
regarding the female body.
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It's very deeply embedded.
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Women grow up with a fear around sex.
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Sura and Hala have
agreed to speak to us...
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... anonymously.
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We always say, women are expected
to be very sexually attractive
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but not sexually active.
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You're not the one in
control of your own body
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who gets to call the shots.
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Society does, culture does.
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And so that causes women
to totally disassociate
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from their own bodies.
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These two women are
bringing much-needed change
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by starting a sexual
wellness brand called Mauj.
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Who's reading the video chart?
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Openly encouraging female
pleasure without getting shut down
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is a massive challenge.
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So Mauj created a video series where
the most intimate of women stories
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are read out by
volunteers, called Hakuatis.
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Hakuati means storyteller in Arabic.
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This was typically a role that
only men used to play in society.
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So we came up with the idea of
flipping Hakuatia into the feminine.
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I felt cold, so he put his
arms around me to warm me up.
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Suddenly he grabbed my hand
and put it on his penis.
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We really wanted to find a way
to start to share women's stories
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when it came to everything
related to their body, sexuality,
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masturbation, and sexual pleasure.
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If they speak up, there's a risk
that their families might hurt them.
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I've always been an
advocate for women's rights.
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This was an opportunity
for me to publicly speak up
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about a cause I believe in.
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Warmth and wetness.
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My fingers kept moving,
in and out, around.
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I opened my legs wider as
my fingers hit that spot.
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It's harder for them to hear stories
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that celebrate pleasure and orgasm.
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There's still this shame of, like,
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"I don't necessarily want
to be associated with that."
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They're still not yet at the
level of public discourse as easy
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as some of the stories around pain.
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Mauj is dedicated to helping
de-stigmatize female sexuality.
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It's very difficult to find
pleasure products in the Arab world.
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You can't buy a vibrator.
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They created a new device called Deem.
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What's really special about Deem is
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that it is the first product of its kind
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designed by and for Arab women.
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But breaking taboos can be risky.
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So being discrete is
incredibly important.
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We wanted Deem to be accessible
and available to every woman,
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even women practicing
their religious belief
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of not engaging in any
penetration before marriage.
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We get asked a lot why our first
product is a pleasure product.
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And our answer is,
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"Because what's more taboo
than female pleasure?"
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Taboos around female sexuality
exist in many more places worldwide.
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And that, lovely people,
is holding women back.
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I'm in Japan where it's
actually against the law
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to show female genitalia.
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Step up radical artist Rokudenashiko.
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Or should that be, paddler?
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In 2014, she decided to
challenge Japanese censorship
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around female sexuality
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by creating a canoe
modeled on her own vulva.
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As you do.
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- Hello.
- Hello.
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- Nice to meet you.
- Thank you so much.
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So... That's so cool! Oh, my gosh!
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I really want to row in
the vagina canoe, though.
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Rokudenashiko's also
been rocking the boat
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with her vag-tastic miniatures.
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Is this a real mold of a vagina?
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- My vagina.
- That's your vagina!
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Now I understand, yes.
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Why did you start making vagina art?
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Pussy is a very taboo subject in Japan,
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and I'm trying to change that
perception and make it more fun.
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When my art was featured on a news site
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I received a lot of backlash.
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I was told, "Vaginas
are dirty and smelly,
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don't make things like that."
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- Crazy. Crazy!
- Crazy!
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Originally, in Japan, a lot
of mythology featured pussies
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and no one was bothered by it.
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Western Christian culture
arrived, sex became taboo.
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Now images of vaginas are censored,
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as if it's something you shouldn't see.
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If someone sees this work
and laughs at how silly it is
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I hope to give people the
opportunity to question
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why pussies are forbidden.
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But it wasn't much of a laugh
when Rokodenashiko was arrested
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for breaking Japan's obscenity laws.
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Luckily she didn't have to go to prison
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but had to pay a pretty hefty
fine of nearly 4,000 Dollars.
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You're very inspiring. What
you're doing is amazing.
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Yay!
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Let's disrupt the
patriarchy! Whoo! Okay, cool.
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Today I'm going to make my own vag art.
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Okay. Now let's make a mold of a pussy.
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Step one, whip up some clay.
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I can see why you have nice arms now.
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Yay.
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See you later!
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What? Surely you didn't think I
was going to show you that bit.
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- I'll start!
- Do you want to hold it?
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Stop looking at it!
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What? I get really nervous! My vagina...
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Oh, my God!
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Very cute!
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Very pretty!
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- Oh, my God! I'm gonna cry!
- Very nice.
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It's done!
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So, I've made the mold
with help, of course.
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It was successful, I hope.
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It was a bit of cracking, but, you know?
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Now for a bit of vagazzeling.
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I never thought I
would do this. For sure.
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You don't usually face
your pussy, do you?
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I can eat dinner having my
own pussy in front of me.
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This is so fun. I'm so glad I did this.
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It's really sweet, I love it.
I'm really proud of what I made.
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So, wanna know which
plaster master piece is mine?
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Is it the moon landing?
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The sandy bottom beach sea?
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Or the golf course? Hole in one!
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Sorry to let you down, but
you're never gonna know.
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I admire Rokudenashiko's openness,
but my privates stay private.
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So what does that say about me?
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I feel, as a model, as
someone who sells their image,
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my vagina is the one
private thing I have.
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That's the thing that I decide
who sees it, when, how, why.
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- But I thank you so much...
- Thank you for what?
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For what you've done! I'm
gonna tell people about your art
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and spread the message
of vagina positivity.
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So much fun! I had so much
fun with my vagina today.
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I mean, this job really
suits me perfectly,
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because the things I
get to do are just so me.
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Best time ever!
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She's trying to spread
a selfless message
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of people, and women
specifically, to love themselves
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from something that has
put so much shame on.
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And that is seen as a criminal offense?
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It's mind-blowing.
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Culture has a lot to answer for.
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Shame, taboo, even prison.
It's all about control.
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But that's not the only reason
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women of the world aren't
getting their kicks.
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A vital part of our anatomy
has been rudely overlooked.
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Until just a few decades ago,
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people thought the clitoris was
this tiny, tricky to access button,
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hard to stimulate and generally
less of a big deal than the penis.
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Nearly 30 years after
the moon landings...
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It's one small step for man...
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... the clitoris was finally
mapped in 1998 by a woman.
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And what a revelation
that was! It's massive,
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with three times more
nerves than the penis.
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It's time the clitoris was given
the recognition it deserves.
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Meet New Yorker Sophia
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who is on what she calls,
"a Cliteracy campaign".
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Cliteracy is my attempt to blast
the clitoris into public awareness.
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Using large scale,
using text, using neon.
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It all began when she found out
that her grandma, a mother of five,
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had never once had an orgasm.
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People with clits are
having not a lot of orgasms,
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whether its their clits
being externally excised
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or its being shamed, the clit
has this ability for pleasure,
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and it's not getting that.
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So I thought, "Someone needs
to call bullshit on this."
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I put a lot of attention
into how I design the clits
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because I feel like that's
the most important part.
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I mean, it feels good, it's beautiful,
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and also to see, and not
to look closely at it.
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There are very few depictions
of it that are actually specific,
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it's usually just this
round sort of blob.
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But if you actually look closely
at the glands, it is a shape,
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and it's also very
diverse, person to person.
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All this knowledge
about the mysterious clit
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is just blowing my mind.
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It's about time I saw
it in all its glory.
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This is the land of clits.
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The land of clits!
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My focus is drawn straight to the booty.
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So these are these porcelain
sculptures that I made
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in order to honor this part of the body
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that is often so shamed.
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And I just think,
everyone should be a, like,
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in awe of how amazing clits are
but also being drawn to the glands
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because there's a ton of nerves.
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There's 8,000 nerves
here. This part activates
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and then everything else engorges...
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- This is erectile tissue.
- Wow.
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Basically the same amount of
erectile tissue as the penis.
335
00:21:09,560 --> 00:21:11,600
Also, we wake up with morning wood.
336
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We don't even have words
for a clit erection.
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- Crazy, huh?
- That's true.
338
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Like, when you wake up, but
you call it morning wood?
339
00:21:18,480 --> 00:21:20,480
- You call it that?
- We should make new words.
340
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If this was inside of me...
This is obviously not that big.
341
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It's almost like this
orientation, which is really funny,
342
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but it's just so we understand it.
343
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It's so confusing because it's
never been drawn in its anatomy.
344
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I will always draw
penises on things as a joke
345
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because I think it's funny
and I'm really bad at drawing.
346
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But it's so true. I would
never draw a vagina, you know?
347
00:21:41,640 --> 00:21:46,320
I'm just drawing a penis comic.
Wohoo, that's funny! It's not.
348
00:21:46,400 --> 00:21:49,600
Well, we're taught to think
that penises are hilarious
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and, like, cool.
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A clit is just, like, "Oh,
you can't find it, ha, ha!"
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You know, having sex with other women
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where I realize how much more
sensitive women are than they think.
353
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When you take your time and
you are super slow and soft,
354
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you see how much more nerves
there are than in the penis.
355
00:22:04,240 --> 00:22:06,640
It's crazy. It's a beautiful organ.
356
00:22:06,720 --> 00:22:08,960
Exactly. I mean, my son is 19 months old
357
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and he will never not know what
a clit is. I'm proud about that.
358
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- You know what I'm saying?
- Yes!
359
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A huge part of the so-called orgasm gap
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is that women have been told to
keep silent about their sexuality.
361
00:22:33,600 --> 00:22:36,000
But I do think things are changing.
362
00:22:36,080 --> 00:22:38,920
- Is it just on or off?
- It has two speeds.
363
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Fast and faster.
364
00:22:40,840 --> 00:22:44,720
- It's just really like...
- Okay, we'll plug it in.
365
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I'll show you.
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especially within black communities.
369
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So, as much as I love a bit of sex talk,
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I'm respectfully sitting this one out.
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Black women in particular are undergoing
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this incredible revolution right now.
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And I think sexual identity is
a huge part of that revolution,
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knowing what feels good and
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and not silencing ourselves.
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My mom gave me my first
vibrator for Christmas.
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She's like, "I don't need to now
what you're doing or with whom,
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just as long as you're getting it in."
387
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It's honestly just having
conversations with a lot of women
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who have never had orgasms.
389
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Sometimes I'm still like, "Wow."
390
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And if you thought you
didn't need a sex toy
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well, listen and learn.
392
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- Hey, everyone.
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Hey, this is Shadae's
first sex toy experience.
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- You popped the cherries.
- Yes.
395
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you bringing toys into the room?
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I was always in my mind thinking
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that men may find it
a little intimidating.
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There's something so powerful
about being able to please yourself
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- without anyone else.
- Right.
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First time using it, I was like,
"Damn, this feels so much easier."
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control over my orgasms.
402
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Now I know what I need
403
00:24:40,360 --> 00:24:43,480
whereas before, so often
in my sex experiences,
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I relied on men.
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Today I got liberated.
406
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It felt really freeing to
have that type of discourse
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among women that look like me
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and that remind me of myself.
409
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I'm Lisa. For me it's exploring
different types of toys
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with my partner and then even going
shopping for toys with my partner
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to create that ease.
412
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I had the Double Trouble.
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And I got to do it with my partner.
414
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And, you know, he would hold it and
I was able to have three orgasms,
415
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- like, back to back to back.
- Yeah.
416
00:25:23,080 --> 00:25:26,840
Growing up as a black girl,
being told not to do things,
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you know, we're being limited.
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Sexual pleasure is for ultimate freedom.
419
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I feel like I've been able
to be my complete self,
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including my sexuality, with my partner.
421
00:25:40,320 --> 00:25:42,480
I'm not used to using
vibrators internally,
422
00:25:42,560 --> 00:25:44,160
- it's more like, clit.
- Yes.
423
00:25:44,240 --> 00:25:47,080
I had an amazing, magical orgasm,
424
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and I pulled it out and looked
at it, and I was like, "Wow!"
425
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This is the way.
426
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It was interesting to see
427
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because I'm used to seeing it
on a dick, I'm not used to...
428
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- Or penis.
- Yeah.
429
00:26:03,360 --> 00:26:05,680
There's times when I'm
like, "I'm gonna pee myself."
430
00:26:05,760 --> 00:26:07,640
But I just had to squirt.
431
00:26:07,720 --> 00:26:11,000
So my orgasms are
getting better as I age.
432
00:26:12,160 --> 00:26:14,960
I can't wait to see how
they are in the future.
433
00:26:16,880 --> 00:26:19,880
It's no secret I do love a sex toy,
434
00:26:19,960 --> 00:26:22,482
because honestly, if you're
waiting for someone else
435
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to give you a hand,
436
00:26:23,640 --> 00:26:26,360
it can all be a bit touch and go.
437
00:26:27,040 --> 00:26:28,880
Love you guys so much.
438
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Master interview, take two.
439
00:26:34,280 --> 00:26:39,000
For me, the earliest ideas I ever
got towards sex were, you know,
440
00:26:40,080 --> 00:26:44,000
man plus woman, dick
plus vagina equals orgasm.
441
00:26:44,760 --> 00:26:47,400
I don't want to go into the
art of making a woman cum,
442
00:26:47,480 --> 00:26:50,760
but it's just a lot more
complicated and a lot more fun.
443
00:26:50,840 --> 00:26:54,640
I do feel that generally men are
not equipped with the right tools
444
00:26:54,720 --> 00:26:58,000
to be able to handle
women, especially sexually.
445
00:26:58,080 --> 00:26:59,400
I mean, I get it.
446
00:26:59,480 --> 00:27:02,200
It's a lot more complicated
for a woman to have to tell you,
447
00:27:02,280 --> 00:27:05,480
"You're not doing it right. Sit
down and listen to what I say."
448
00:27:05,560 --> 00:27:07,760
It's an ego killer which
most men can't handle.
449
00:27:12,680 --> 00:27:15,720
Look, I might be unfair
to single men here,
450
00:27:15,800 --> 00:27:17,960
so let's make sure I'm
not missing anything
451
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by getting a 101 on the
power packed in our pants.
452
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Sexpert Marieke Dewitte will love
to get into the juicy details.
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00:27:30,720 --> 00:27:33,360
Let's start off with a casual question.
454
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Is there any difference between
the male and female orgasm?
455
00:27:36,240 --> 00:27:38,000
Why is the gap so big?
456
00:27:38,080 --> 00:27:40,680
We know that men and women
do not differ in the capacity
457
00:27:40,760 --> 00:27:42,880
to reach orgasm, to experience pleasure,
458
00:27:42,960 --> 00:27:45,960
but only a few women,
less than 30 percent,
459
00:27:46,040 --> 00:27:48,320
can actually climax via penetration
460
00:27:48,400 --> 00:27:50,040
and that's often where it goes wrong.
461
00:27:50,120 --> 00:27:51,880
We don't get the right stimulation.
462
00:27:51,960 --> 00:27:54,080
The clitoris is the female sex organ,
463
00:27:54,160 --> 00:27:56,560
not the vagina. The
vagina is a birth channel.
464
00:27:56,640 --> 00:27:58,760
- Drop the mic right there!
- Yeah, exactly!
465
00:27:58,840 --> 00:28:01,560
I mean, it is much less
sensitive than the clitoris
466
00:28:01,640 --> 00:28:02,960
which is a good thing
467
00:28:03,040 --> 00:28:04,840
or giving childbirth would be horrible.
468
00:28:04,920 --> 00:28:06,960
- Oh, my God!
- It would be the end of humanity.
469
00:28:07,040 --> 00:28:10,960
So the idea that women have less
sexual desire than men is wrong.
470
00:28:11,040 --> 00:28:13,480
They just don't get the
right sexual stimulation.
471
00:28:15,040 --> 00:28:18,680
Physically, the duration of
an orgasm is really short.
472
00:28:18,760 --> 00:28:22,120
It takes about 20, 25 seconds in women
473
00:28:22,200 --> 00:28:24,320
and about five to 25 seconds in men.
474
00:28:24,400 --> 00:28:27,400
And in general, it takes longer
for women to reach orgasm.
475
00:28:27,480 --> 00:28:30,640
For some women, actually, if
you continue to stimulate them,
476
00:28:30,720 --> 00:28:32,160
they also continue to climax,
477
00:28:32,240 --> 00:28:35,280
so that's why women can
have multiple orgasms.
478
00:28:37,640 --> 00:28:39,920
The clitoris is actually a small penis.
479
00:28:40,000 --> 00:28:41,880
It includes the glands and the forehead,
480
00:28:41,960 --> 00:28:43,640
it gets swollen during arousal.
481
00:28:43,720 --> 00:28:46,240
So, in a way, women have on the inside
482
00:28:46,320 --> 00:28:47,920
what men have on the outside.
483
00:28:48,000 --> 00:28:51,360
Most women know that the clitoris
obviously needs to be stimulated
484
00:28:51,440 --> 00:28:55,480
but do they think that penetrative
sex is it that will make them...
485
00:28:55,560 --> 00:28:59,320
Well, we maybe have sex in a way
that fits the male sexual script.
486
00:28:59,400 --> 00:29:00,720
For a long time
487
00:29:00,800 --> 00:29:03,080
sex has been studied from
a biological perspective.
488
00:29:03,160 --> 00:29:05,560
Biologists study sex as reproduction.
489
00:29:05,640 --> 00:29:07,920
So we know a lot about
the penis and so on
490
00:29:08,000 --> 00:29:11,680
- because that's for reproduction.
- That's the one giving the juice.
491
00:29:11,760 --> 00:29:15,080
If we think about the female orgasm
and the female sexual response,
492
00:29:15,160 --> 00:29:17,600
there's so much we don't know yet
493
00:29:17,680 --> 00:29:21,840
because we constantly have this
male gaze looking at sexuality.
494
00:29:21,920 --> 00:29:23,720
- Totally.
- But it's also about
495
00:29:23,800 --> 00:29:25,920
focusing on your own sexual pleasure.
496
00:29:26,000 --> 00:29:28,880
And that's also something
that is difficult for women
497
00:29:28,960 --> 00:29:31,560
because we're socialized to prioritize
498
00:29:31,640 --> 00:29:33,040
the pleasure of the partner.
499
00:29:37,360 --> 00:29:39,640
Women, remember those words!
500
00:29:39,720 --> 00:29:42,160
Put your own pleasure first!
501
00:29:42,240 --> 00:29:45,040
Actually, I am something
of an expert in that.
502
00:29:46,120 --> 00:29:48,560
One of my earliest
memories is masturbating,
503
00:29:48,640 --> 00:29:50,480
but I didn't know it
was anything sexual.
504
00:29:50,560 --> 00:29:52,120
It was just, "This feels good!
505
00:29:52,200 --> 00:29:55,080
Why would I not touch there
to feel better about life?"
506
00:29:55,160 --> 00:29:57,000
It just made sense.
507
00:29:57,080 --> 00:30:00,000
But I do think that
there's just a lot more fear
508
00:30:00,080 --> 00:30:02,440
about talking about
women touching themselves.
509
00:30:02,520 --> 00:30:05,520
But just because I think men
can go around and be like,
510
00:30:05,600 --> 00:30:07,480
"Yeah, I just came
nine times today, bro!
511
00:30:07,560 --> 00:30:09,560
I can't even walk!" And
they're like, "Sick!"
512
00:30:09,640 --> 00:30:11,760
"Well, I touch myself."
They're like, "Gross."
513
00:30:21,320 --> 00:30:25,000
Ah, the "m" word! Masturbation.
514
00:30:25,080 --> 00:30:27,000
Probably one of the
best things we can do
515
00:30:27,080 --> 00:30:29,000
to get that orgasm count up for women.
516
00:30:30,000 --> 00:30:33,920
Knowing what feels good can make it
a lot easier to tell someone else.
517
00:30:35,000 --> 00:30:39,960
So I'm on my way to, wait for
it, a group masturbation class.
518
00:30:40,040 --> 00:30:43,520
Only in New York. I mean,
at this point, why not?
519
00:30:44,560 --> 00:30:47,480
I'm Lola Jean, and I am a sex educator.
520
00:30:47,560 --> 00:30:49,000
I like to call it...
521
00:30:49,080 --> 00:30:52,840
A masturbation class if more of
like a yolk class for your bits.
522
00:30:55,880 --> 00:30:57,840
Sitting in a room full of women...
523
00:30:58,520 --> 00:31:00,760
I'm not gonna lie, I
sat next to my friend
524
00:31:00,840 --> 00:31:03,080
and masturbated next to
each other, but that's it.
525
00:31:03,160 --> 00:31:04,560
I'm terrified.
526
00:31:05,480 --> 00:31:06,960
- Hello.
- Hi.
527
00:31:07,040 --> 00:31:09,440
- So you're here for the workshop?
- Oh, yes.
528
00:31:10,440 --> 00:31:12,760
If not, we're all in
for a little surprise.
529
00:31:14,000 --> 00:31:15,840
- This is like my house!
- Oh, really?
530
00:31:17,160 --> 00:31:19,200
- Is anyone nervous?
- Yeah.
531
00:31:21,520 --> 00:31:24,880
I'm very curious, and if
there's anything I can learn
532
00:31:24,960 --> 00:31:29,040
and feel less shame about having
a vagina, that would be great.
533
00:31:30,400 --> 00:31:34,360
Okay, so how many of you have
been masturbating the same way
534
00:31:34,440 --> 00:31:37,440
since you were, like, seven,
or whenever you started?
535
00:31:38,040 --> 00:31:39,600
- No.
- Definitely.
536
00:31:39,680 --> 00:31:42,240
- The same way?
- Yeah, doing the same thing.
537
00:31:42,320 --> 00:31:44,440
Like humping your pillow,
humping your hand...
538
00:31:44,520 --> 00:31:49,440
I've only once spent really an hour
539
00:31:50,240 --> 00:31:51,920
really making love to myself,
540
00:31:52,000 --> 00:31:55,320
like touching every part
of my body, like, I cried.
541
00:31:55,400 --> 00:31:59,160
That's the thing, nothing
is weird or abnormal,
542
00:31:59,240 --> 00:32:02,800
because if you know your button,
oh, my God, you know your thing!
543
00:32:02,880 --> 00:32:06,080
That's amazing to have, and maybe
there's more buttons to figure out.
544
00:32:06,160 --> 00:32:08,760
We're trying to find
different pathways to pleasure.
545
00:32:08,840 --> 00:32:11,320
This is my vulva, but
not my actual vulva
546
00:32:11,400 --> 00:32:13,800
because its eerily and bright red.
547
00:32:13,880 --> 00:32:16,320
So, there's something I
call the pussy sandwich,
548
00:32:16,400 --> 00:32:19,640
and that's where you're gonna
take the outer and inner labia
549
00:32:19,720 --> 00:32:22,240
between your index
finger and your thumb.
550
00:32:22,320 --> 00:32:25,320
The chopsticking of the clitoris
is when you're gonna take
551
00:32:25,400 --> 00:32:28,880
an inverted peace sign and it's
going to go on the inner labia.
552
00:32:28,960 --> 00:32:32,280
So knuckling is something
that's gonna look like drumming,
553
00:32:32,360 --> 00:32:34,280
but it's going to be with our knuckles.
554
00:32:34,360 --> 00:32:36,760
and we can do that kind
of around the inner labia.
555
00:32:36,840 --> 00:32:39,840
This one is called the motorcycle rub.
556
00:32:39,920 --> 00:32:43,480
So you're two middle fingers,
your middle finger and your ring
557
00:32:43,560 --> 00:32:48,320
will be inside of the vagina and
you're gonna rub the motorcycle.
558
00:32:48,400 --> 00:32:51,440
There's one that we're gonna go
back to a lot and change it up,
559
00:32:51,520 --> 00:32:54,320
and that's going from the
bottom of the vulva to the top.
560
00:32:54,400 --> 00:32:56,160
Looks nice with my pants.
561
00:32:56,800 --> 00:32:58,160
Really goes well.
562
00:32:58,240 --> 00:33:00,200
I'm gonna get so self-conscious
563
00:33:00,280 --> 00:33:03,160
because in my mind I'm like, "I
just want the lights to be off."
564
00:33:03,240 --> 00:33:06,040
- Can you...
- Or my face to be covered.
565
00:33:08,800 --> 00:33:10,280
Despite the safe space,
566
00:33:10,360 --> 00:33:12,520
I still feel like I need to wear a mask.
567
00:33:16,840 --> 00:33:20,280
Close your eyes and take
a few breaths in and out.
568
00:33:20,360 --> 00:33:22,960
And now we're gonna
make a pussy sandwich.
569
00:33:23,560 --> 00:33:26,560
Masturbation is just another
healthy part of our life,
570
00:33:26,640 --> 00:33:30,400
and there's so much we can gain from
it that actually has nothing to do
571
00:33:30,480 --> 00:33:33,760
with pleasure or
orgasm. It can be stress,
572
00:33:33,840 --> 00:33:36,120
to relieve cramps or a headache.
573
00:33:36,680 --> 00:33:41,000
And as soon as we start
removing that stigma,
574
00:33:41,080 --> 00:33:43,880
the dirtiness, and the same,
the more we can start enjoying
575
00:33:43,960 --> 00:33:46,120
the actual benefits of masturbation
576
00:33:46,200 --> 00:33:50,000
instead of trying to assign
morality to what it means.
577
00:33:50,080 --> 00:33:54,400
Look, I revved, chopsticked and
sandwiched for a full-on hour
578
00:33:54,480 --> 00:33:57,560
and it was kind of sexy, but
it also felt weird for me.
579
00:33:57,640 --> 00:34:00,360
And what I definitely
didn't do was orgasm.
580
00:34:00,440 --> 00:34:03,080
Yet somehow I feel utterly changed.
581
00:34:03,160 --> 00:34:06,600
It is a very brave thing to
come to a class and masturbate
582
00:34:06,680 --> 00:34:09,080
with a group of strangers.
What was that like?
583
00:34:09,160 --> 00:34:11,400
It's the bravest thing I've ever done.
584
00:34:11,480 --> 00:34:14,800
I liked the normalizing aspect and
that we're all just laying here,
585
00:34:14,880 --> 00:34:19,320
it was just much more
exploratory, it felt really safe.
586
00:34:19,400 --> 00:34:21,520
I've never masturbated
in front of anyone ever
587
00:34:21,600 --> 00:34:23,840
apart from when I did
it in bed with my friend.
588
00:34:24,520 --> 00:34:26,240
I can't believe that I did it.
589
00:34:27,280 --> 00:34:30,360
But... I haven't actually used my hand
590
00:34:30,440 --> 00:34:34,000
to touch myself in so long.
591
00:34:34,080 --> 00:34:38,160
Because, again, I feel really,
like, so much shame around my vagina.
592
00:34:38,240 --> 00:34:40,720
"My vagina is not like
other girls I've slept with."
593
00:34:40,800 --> 00:34:44,680
You masturbated in front
of people and you survived.
594
00:34:44,760 --> 00:34:47,840
It's like, "Oh, that's nice,
it's actually quite soft!
595
00:34:47,920 --> 00:34:49,880
Oh, my God, I feel great, I feel nice."
596
00:34:49,960 --> 00:34:52,320
- Thank you.
- Absolutely.
597
00:34:52,400 --> 00:34:55,480
Take what you learned here,
go home, be by yourself.
598
00:34:55,560 --> 00:34:57,760
Be in an area that's comfortable for you
599
00:34:57,840 --> 00:35:00,480
and continue to explore
and do these things.
600
00:35:02,280 --> 00:35:06,160
I think I'm learning a lot from
everyone I've met so far, for sure.
601
00:35:07,760 --> 00:35:11,160
It's making me be a lot more
open in my own personal life.
602
00:35:11,240 --> 00:35:13,760
In my mind, the most
important thing about life
603
00:35:13,840 --> 00:35:15,440
is connections with other humans,
604
00:35:15,520 --> 00:35:19,000
and I haven't even begun to have
enough conversations like this
605
00:35:19,080 --> 00:35:20,720
with enough people.
606
00:35:20,800 --> 00:35:22,720
But we can learn so
much from each other.
607
00:35:23,400 --> 00:35:26,320
Sexuality! Yes.
608
00:35:37,760 --> 00:35:41,320
Here we are, heading for
the climax of my journey
609
00:35:41,400 --> 00:35:45,560
to understand women's sexuality
and unlock female pleasure.
610
00:35:46,440 --> 00:35:49,240
I've already put myself
out there like never before
611
00:35:49,320 --> 00:35:52,000
but tonight I'm going all the way.
612
00:35:52,680 --> 00:35:55,480
I'm off to a women-only sex party
613
00:35:55,560 --> 00:35:59,960
to see what happens when everyone's
free to explore their raw sexuality
614
00:36:00,040 --> 00:36:01,760
with no inhibitions.
615
00:36:01,840 --> 00:36:04,200
And more importantly, no men.
616
00:36:05,320 --> 00:36:07,120
We've got lots of newbies tonight.
617
00:36:08,760 --> 00:36:11,560
Always at least over 80
percent are first-timers.
618
00:36:11,640 --> 00:36:14,800
So keep your eyes peeled for anyone
that looks a little bit unsure.
619
00:36:16,200 --> 00:36:20,120
After everything I've learned, am
I brave enough to shed the shame
620
00:36:20,200 --> 00:36:22,960
and put my sexual desires
out there in public?
621
00:36:24,440 --> 00:36:26,440
I'm not gonna lie, I'm pretty nervous,
622
00:36:26,520 --> 00:36:28,520
so I've asked my
friend Elena to join me.
623
00:36:29,680 --> 00:36:31,640
When we were talking
about it, she was like,
624
00:36:31,720 --> 00:36:35,280
"Yeah, I'd be so down for watching
women get off with each other
625
00:36:35,360 --> 00:36:37,160
but I would be a bit more awkward."
626
00:36:37,240 --> 00:36:40,200
There is that one three-way
with another girl and guy,
627
00:36:40,280 --> 00:36:43,200
but that was really it.
That was my one brush.
628
00:36:43,280 --> 00:36:44,760
That's my most straight friend.
629
00:36:45,320 --> 00:36:49,560
Financial advisor Genevieve
set up Skirt Club in 2014
630
00:36:49,640 --> 00:36:52,040
to host sex parties for women.
631
00:36:52,800 --> 00:36:57,480
It now has 18,000 members
in cities all over the world.
632
00:36:58,160 --> 00:37:00,160
Nice to meet you,
darling, how are you doing?
633
00:37:00,240 --> 00:37:02,480
- Pleasure! Nice to meet you.
- How are you doing?
634
00:37:02,560 --> 00:37:05,120
Welcome to Skirt Club.
Consent is a huge thing.
635
00:37:05,200 --> 00:37:08,640
And remember, like you, a lot of
women are here for the first time.
636
00:37:08,720 --> 00:37:10,920
So they're nervous, okay?
637
00:37:11,000 --> 00:37:13,320
They may not have ever
kissed a woman before.
638
00:37:14,400 --> 00:37:18,960
Some women here are straight,
some gay, some bi, some pan.
639
00:37:19,720 --> 00:37:22,480
But most are just curious and horny.
640
00:37:23,480 --> 00:37:25,760
- What's your name?
- I'm Bella.
641
00:37:26,360 --> 00:37:29,240
- I love that!
- Yeah? You're welcome.
642
00:37:32,720 --> 00:37:35,800
Okay, sexy sirens,
welcome to Skirt Club.
643
00:37:39,600 --> 00:37:42,200
We believe in the power
of the feminine here.
644
00:37:42,280 --> 00:37:46,120
Skirt Club is a safe space for
you to explore all of your desires.
645
00:37:46,200 --> 00:37:49,800
We're gonna take good care of
you. Your pleasure is paramount.
646
00:37:49,880 --> 00:37:51,840
That is the key to the gate to heaven.
647
00:37:51,920 --> 00:37:54,120
- Yeah!
- Welcome!
648
00:37:54,200 --> 00:37:56,720
If you do feel uncomfortable,
I'm the consent fairy,
649
00:37:56,800 --> 00:37:58,280
so come and find me.
650
00:38:01,040 --> 00:38:02,440
Please make sure to be safe,
651
00:38:02,520 --> 00:38:05,080
have conscious communication
with each other.
652
00:38:05,160 --> 00:38:08,040
If it's not a "hell, yes," it's a no.
653
00:38:08,800 --> 00:38:12,840
I appreciate the fact that every
single person that's showed up
654
00:38:12,920 --> 00:38:15,560
is gorgeous in every
way, shape, or form.
655
00:38:16,160 --> 00:38:18,920
We're all here for the same
purpose. To enjoy each other.
656
00:38:22,560 --> 00:38:25,360
So, good people, this
is just a little taste
657
00:38:25,440 --> 00:38:28,840
of what women can get up to
when they've let go of shame,
658
00:38:28,920 --> 00:38:30,800
left their inhibitions behind
659
00:38:30,880 --> 00:38:33,480
and feel free to
explore their sexuality.
660
00:38:34,080 --> 00:38:35,880
I think I'm gonna like this.
661
00:38:43,120 --> 00:38:45,600
I've always known that
I've been bisexual.
662
00:38:45,680 --> 00:38:48,160
I am married, I have a family,
663
00:38:48,240 --> 00:38:52,400
but there's a part
of me that needs more.
664
00:38:52,960 --> 00:38:58,320
And I have the position
right now to have both,
665
00:38:58,400 --> 00:39:00,200
and it's amazing.
666
00:39:00,280 --> 00:39:03,640
It makes me feel powerful.
I've never felt that before.
667
00:39:09,760 --> 00:39:11,920
And as the evening hots up,
668
00:39:12,000 --> 00:39:14,600
well, so do I.
669
00:39:14,680 --> 00:39:17,280
Three, two, one, go!
670
00:39:17,960 --> 00:39:21,520
This is tequila shots, Skirt club style.
671
00:39:21,600 --> 00:39:24,280
It's a lot of fun.
672
00:39:28,120 --> 00:39:31,280
Women doing this together,
that's an amazing thing.
673
00:39:31,360 --> 00:39:33,880
It makes you feel super, super safe.
674
00:39:34,640 --> 00:39:37,360
People are here to enjoy
themselves, lift each other up,
675
00:39:37,440 --> 00:39:39,000
appreciate each other.
676
00:39:39,080 --> 00:39:42,440
I feel really truly free.
677
00:39:49,840 --> 00:39:51,760
It's been such a tense formation for me
678
00:39:51,840 --> 00:39:54,200
because I come from a really
conservative background
679
00:39:54,280 --> 00:39:58,960
with, you know, like, long skirts
and, like, really crazy catholic,
680
00:39:59,040 --> 00:40:02,280
and Skirt Club really gave me
the opportunity to express myself.
681
00:40:04,240 --> 00:40:07,760
One of my fantasies is to have
sex with several women at once.
682
00:40:07,840 --> 00:40:10,320
You know, like five,
six women laying on a bed
683
00:40:10,400 --> 00:40:12,360
going down on each other.
684
00:40:14,320 --> 00:40:16,680
That's definitely amazing.
685
00:40:24,240 --> 00:40:27,080
You don't have to be a lesbian.
You don't have to be anything.
686
00:40:27,160 --> 00:40:29,600
You just do whatever you
want. You can be bi-curious.
687
00:40:29,680 --> 00:40:32,000
You can be married, you
can be... It doesn't matter.
688
00:40:32,080 --> 00:40:34,680
There's no label on it, so
Skirt Club opens the door.
689
00:40:34,760 --> 00:40:38,560
Girls are generally so
focused on pleasuring the male.
690
00:40:38,640 --> 00:40:42,320
Here it's all about girls and
their pleasure and their right
691
00:40:42,400 --> 00:40:43,760
to own that.
692
00:40:45,280 --> 00:40:46,760
What happened next?
693
00:40:46,840 --> 00:40:50,400
Well, I'm gonna let that be the
only mystery left in this show.
694
00:41:01,760 --> 00:41:03,840
What I've learned about
female sexuality is
695
00:41:03,920 --> 00:41:05,680
there is so much left we need to learn.
696
00:41:06,240 --> 00:41:09,080
I honestly think that most
people know more about space
697
00:41:09,160 --> 00:41:11,280
than the inner workings
of the female orgasm.
698
00:41:12,160 --> 00:41:14,640
I had to come face to
face with my own vagina,
699
00:41:14,720 --> 00:41:16,640
had an orgasm for science,
700
00:41:16,720 --> 00:41:19,800
and attempted to masturbate
in a room full of strangers
701
00:41:19,880 --> 00:41:21,880
which I never thought I would do.
702
00:41:21,960 --> 00:41:25,680
What this has made me feel is
we need to fight for equality
703
00:41:25,760 --> 00:41:27,480
and pleasure more than ever.
704
00:41:27,560 --> 00:41:30,600
We deserve equal pleasure.
We deserve orgasms!
705
00:41:30,680 --> 00:41:32,040
Who doesn't want that?
706
00:41:32,120 --> 00:41:34,440
There is all this pleasure right there
707
00:41:34,520 --> 00:41:36,200
and it's still left unexplored.
708
00:41:37,360 --> 00:41:40,120
Having a clitoris is a super power.
709
00:41:40,200 --> 00:41:44,080
So let's become superheroes
and shout it from the rooftops!
710
00:41:44,600 --> 00:41:45,920
Vaginas!
711
00:41:48,000 --> 00:41:53,000
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