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Welcome to Scott Club. 3 00:00:34,080 --> 00:00:37,880 Okay, I really wasn't expecting this. 4 00:00:41,080 --> 00:00:43,560 Three, two, one, go! 5 00:00:46,040 --> 00:00:50,440 A trio of lusty ladies licking tequila shots off my body 6 00:00:50,520 --> 00:00:51,880 in a sex club. 7 00:00:53,160 --> 00:00:56,920 I know it looks pretty steamy, but I am doing this for science. 8 00:00:57,000 --> 00:01:01,080 I'm trying to get the low-down on female sexuality. 9 00:01:01,160 --> 00:01:02,560 This is the land of clits. 10 00:01:02,640 --> 00:01:04,080 The land of clits! 11 00:01:04,720 --> 00:01:08,760 Why is the female sex drive still such a mystery? 12 00:01:08,840 --> 00:01:12,600 This is something I call the Pussy Sandwich. 13 00:01:13,520 --> 00:01:16,600 If this was inside of you, this is not that big, obviously. 14 00:01:16,680 --> 00:01:18,120 It's almost like it's this. 15 00:01:18,200 --> 00:01:22,760 I know from my own love life just how sexual women can be. 16 00:01:26,440 --> 00:01:29,720 So why do straight women seem to have less free 17 00:01:29,800 --> 00:01:31,560 and fulfilling sex lives than men? 18 00:01:31,640 --> 00:01:33,760 And what can we do about it? 19 00:01:33,840 --> 00:01:35,600 Just try to tease your hole. 20 00:01:35,680 --> 00:01:39,120 You want the pussy to, like, want that finger and welcome it in. 21 00:01:39,200 --> 00:01:42,040 Strap on and get ready for some eye-opening stuff. 22 00:01:42,840 --> 00:01:44,600 And no, that is not my orgasm face. 23 00:01:44,680 --> 00:01:47,680 It would be good if you start masturbating now. 24 00:01:57,200 --> 00:01:58,840 Is that good? 25 00:02:00,560 --> 00:02:02,160 Take one, all right. 26 00:02:02,240 --> 00:02:06,640 Are women as horny as men? I am horny... I don't know! 27 00:02:06,720 --> 00:02:10,720 I do think women are less able and are less accepted 28 00:02:10,800 --> 00:02:12,400 to speak about how horny they are. 29 00:02:12,480 --> 00:02:14,760 I think female sexual desire has been repressed. 30 00:02:14,840 --> 00:02:17,680 It's interesting to be able to talk about all these things 31 00:02:17,760 --> 00:02:20,200 and the discovery of the female orgasm. 32 00:02:20,280 --> 00:02:23,840 I've always wanted to learn about it, and I'm sure many others too. 33 00:02:32,360 --> 00:02:34,640 So let's start with the basics. 34 00:02:34,720 --> 00:02:38,720 How do females orgasm? And is it different for males? 35 00:02:42,440 --> 00:02:45,520 I'm in Germany where scientists are making new discoveries 36 00:02:45,600 --> 00:02:47,280 about the big O. 37 00:02:49,720 --> 00:02:53,320 And I'm down for playing guinea pig in the wildest experiment. 38 00:02:54,720 --> 00:02:57,080 We are about to go into a university hospital 39 00:02:57,160 --> 00:03:00,440 where I'm going to masturbate. 40 00:03:02,400 --> 00:03:07,120 Yep, I'm here to have an orgasm and donate it to science. 41 00:03:08,800 --> 00:03:11,800 Husband and wife team Johannes Fuß and Sarah Biedermann 42 00:03:11,880 --> 00:03:15,160 studied the chemical changes in our brains when we cum. 43 00:03:15,800 --> 00:03:17,120 Of course they do. 44 00:03:17,600 --> 00:03:20,920 We realized that there is not much going on 45 00:03:21,000 --> 00:03:22,600 in the whole field of sex research. 46 00:03:24,440 --> 00:03:28,320 There are a lot of people doing neuroscience in the field 47 00:03:28,400 --> 00:03:31,040 but there's not so much exploring of sexuality. 48 00:03:31,800 --> 00:03:34,680 We're assessing neurobiological factors 49 00:03:34,760 --> 00:03:39,000 like chemicals in the brain and how does the body react 50 00:03:39,080 --> 00:03:41,160 to sexual stimuli. 51 00:03:42,040 --> 00:03:43,480 What I want to know is, 52 00:03:43,560 --> 00:03:47,480 what exactly makes us feel so good when we get our rocks off? 53 00:03:47,560 --> 00:03:50,280 - Oh, it is pleasant. - Intimate setting. 54 00:03:50,360 --> 00:03:53,360 There's a bed. It's like a hotel room. 55 00:03:54,040 --> 00:03:55,440 You can have a shower. 56 00:03:55,520 --> 00:03:59,000 I will leave the room and then I would ask you masturbate 57 00:03:59,080 --> 00:04:00,760 for at least ten minutes. 58 00:04:01,760 --> 00:04:04,120 At least? That's a nice amount of time. 59 00:04:05,280 --> 00:04:07,480 If you take longer, that's no problem. 60 00:04:10,400 --> 00:04:12,560 I'm not looking at you because I'm scared. 61 00:04:12,640 --> 00:04:14,480 - You don't... - I'm bad at blood. 62 00:04:15,920 --> 00:04:18,880 Before I get down to some solo sexy time, 63 00:04:18,960 --> 00:04:20,400 I need to give a blood sample. 64 00:04:21,280 --> 00:04:22,600 It's coming out! 65 00:04:25,200 --> 00:04:26,760 Once I hit the big O, 66 00:04:26,840 --> 00:04:29,600 Sarah and Johannes will take another sample to see 67 00:04:29,680 --> 00:04:31,280 what's changed in my blood. 68 00:04:32,560 --> 00:04:36,320 Good. Cara, when you climax, you will just blow the whistle. 69 00:04:36,400 --> 00:04:38,600 Oh, yay. I should always have that whistle. 70 00:04:38,680 --> 00:04:41,240 - I will give this to you, and... - Thank you. 71 00:04:41,320 --> 00:04:44,840 I will come in and take blood very quickly. 72 00:04:44,920 --> 00:04:48,200 Can I let myself settle for a minute, or should I just be like, 73 00:04:48,280 --> 00:04:49,880 "Orgasm! Blow whistle!" 74 00:04:49,960 --> 00:04:52,440 It would be good if you start masturbating now. 75 00:04:53,720 --> 00:04:57,000 And in case I need extra help, sex toys. 76 00:04:58,520 --> 00:05:00,640 Talk about German efficiency. 77 00:05:06,320 --> 00:05:08,960 I have had some weird sexual experiences, 78 00:05:09,040 --> 00:05:11,320 but this is definitely up there. 79 00:05:15,400 --> 00:05:17,320 - So! - I'm okay. 80 00:05:17,400 --> 00:05:19,280 - I'll take your blood now. - Oh! 81 00:05:22,840 --> 00:05:24,160 Masturbation! 82 00:05:27,360 --> 00:05:28,880 Run, Johannes, run! 83 00:05:28,960 --> 00:05:32,320 That blood contains all the secrets of my climax. 84 00:05:32,400 --> 00:05:35,080 Luckily, this man can pipet like a pro 85 00:05:35,160 --> 00:05:39,240 and is back with the results before I can say "Ubergasm". 86 00:05:39,920 --> 00:05:41,560 - Hi, welcome back. - Oh, my gosh. 87 00:05:42,200 --> 00:05:45,000 So tell me, what did you find? What's in there? 88 00:05:45,080 --> 00:05:51,000 We processed your blood and we found that it produced endocannabinoids. 89 00:05:51,640 --> 00:05:56,360 Endocannabinoids are basically your body's own version of cannabis. 90 00:05:56,440 --> 00:06:00,280 - That's what it sounded like. Wow. - Yeah, exactly. 91 00:06:00,360 --> 00:06:03,800 That's why I felt dopey. Is it like cannabis? 92 00:06:03,880 --> 00:06:07,520 The body is producing it's own cannabis-like substance. 93 00:06:07,600 --> 00:06:10,240 - Wow. - And it makes you kind of high 94 00:06:10,320 --> 00:06:11,720 after masturbation. 95 00:06:12,440 --> 00:06:15,400 And just like cannabinoid chemicals in plants, 96 00:06:15,480 --> 00:06:18,720 endo-cannabinoids in our bodies can be a brilliant upper. 97 00:06:18,800 --> 00:06:21,120 A bit like that feeling after a workout 98 00:06:21,200 --> 00:06:22,800 or a runner's high. 99 00:06:22,880 --> 00:06:24,320 Does that happen to everyone? 100 00:06:25,200 --> 00:06:28,640 We know from research that roughly 80 percent of people 101 00:06:28,720 --> 00:06:30,800 had such an increase of endo-cannabinoids 102 00:06:30,880 --> 00:06:32,480 after masturbation to orgasm. 103 00:06:32,560 --> 00:06:36,200 - Is it men and women? Both have... - Yeah. 104 00:06:36,280 --> 00:06:38,800 We think that's why sex feels so good. 105 00:06:38,880 --> 00:06:40,960 I feel fantastic. 106 00:06:42,160 --> 00:06:44,240 What a great journey! Thank you, guys. 107 00:06:44,880 --> 00:06:46,920 - Thank you for participating. - Heroes of sex! 108 00:06:47,000 --> 00:06:48,760 Heroes of sex! 109 00:06:50,720 --> 00:06:54,120 Wow! Orgasm produce endo-cannabinoids. 110 00:06:54,200 --> 00:06:55,920 That is hot news! 111 00:06:56,560 --> 00:06:58,520 And even better, Sarah and Johannes found 112 00:06:58,600 --> 00:07:01,880 that males and females can both hit the same high. 113 00:07:10,000 --> 00:07:12,720 So it stands to reason that men and women 114 00:07:12,800 --> 00:07:15,800 should be having equally mind-blowing sex, right? 115 00:07:16,880 --> 00:07:19,280 Well, prepare for a shock. 116 00:07:20,400 --> 00:07:22,480 I came across a very interesting study 117 00:07:22,560 --> 00:07:25,800 that said that 95 percent of straight men orgasm during sex. 118 00:07:27,320 --> 00:07:29,840 But only 65 percent of straight women orgasm during sex. 119 00:07:31,320 --> 00:07:33,160 I think that number is very high 120 00:07:33,240 --> 00:07:35,760 and most women I've asked also agree with me. 121 00:07:35,840 --> 00:07:38,840 They say it's probably more around ten, 15, 20 percent, 122 00:07:38,920 --> 00:07:40,320 but again, who knows? 123 00:07:41,240 --> 00:07:45,240 This tragic state of affairs is called the Orgasm Gap. 124 00:07:45,320 --> 00:07:48,480 And for the benefit of people with vaginas and clits, 125 00:07:48,560 --> 00:07:50,960 I want to know how to close it. 126 00:07:51,040 --> 00:07:52,520 Wish me luck! 127 00:07:55,600 --> 00:07:58,320 I'm using a lot of different terms in this film. 128 00:07:58,880 --> 00:08:01,880 But whether you identify as a woman or non-binary, 129 00:08:01,960 --> 00:08:05,560 own a vulva or a clit, we're talking about you. 130 00:08:06,080 --> 00:08:10,200 And for decades, thanks to prudish and patriarchal attitudes, 131 00:08:10,280 --> 00:08:12,560 you've been missing out on pleasure. 132 00:08:13,360 --> 00:08:16,120 We look back on times when we used to wear corsets 133 00:08:16,200 --> 00:08:20,200 and showing an ankle was something like female flirting. 134 00:08:20,280 --> 00:08:22,200 It's come a long way since then. 135 00:08:22,280 --> 00:08:25,880 I still always felt a lot of shame about being a woman. 136 00:08:26,400 --> 00:08:27,960 Shame about my vagina, 137 00:08:28,040 --> 00:08:30,480 and to kind of put shame in female sexuality 138 00:08:30,560 --> 00:08:32,160 is really dangerous. 139 00:08:41,720 --> 00:08:43,640 In many countries worldwide, 140 00:08:43,720 --> 00:08:47,120 talking about female sexuality is still taboo, 141 00:08:47,760 --> 00:08:49,240 including here, in Lebanon. 142 00:08:50,160 --> 00:08:53,480 There's definitely one thing that unites all Arab countries... 143 00:08:54,960 --> 00:08:57,240 ... the culture of shame regarding the female body. 144 00:08:59,600 --> 00:09:02,240 It's very deeply embedded. 145 00:09:02,320 --> 00:09:04,480 Women grow up with a fear around sex. 146 00:09:05,120 --> 00:09:07,040 Sura and Hala have agreed to speak to us... 147 00:09:08,520 --> 00:09:10,240 ... anonymously. 148 00:09:10,840 --> 00:09:14,520 We always say, women are expected to be very sexually attractive 149 00:09:14,600 --> 00:09:16,280 but not sexually active. 150 00:09:17,160 --> 00:09:19,320 You're not the one in control of your own body 151 00:09:19,400 --> 00:09:21,160 who gets to call the shots. 152 00:09:21,240 --> 00:09:23,520 Society does, culture does. 153 00:09:23,600 --> 00:09:26,360 And so that causes women to totally disassociate 154 00:09:26,440 --> 00:09:28,000 from their own bodies. 155 00:09:29,680 --> 00:09:33,160 These two women are bringing much-needed change 156 00:09:33,240 --> 00:09:36,480 by starting a sexual wellness brand called Mauj. 157 00:09:45,440 --> 00:09:48,240 Who's reading the video chart? 158 00:09:49,440 --> 00:09:53,040 Openly encouraging female pleasure without getting shut down 159 00:09:53,120 --> 00:09:54,760 is a massive challenge. 160 00:09:55,800 --> 00:09:59,760 So Mauj created a video series where the most intimate of women stories 161 00:09:59,840 --> 00:10:03,000 are read out by volunteers, called Hakuatis. 162 00:10:07,080 --> 00:10:09,960 Hakuati means storyteller in Arabic. 163 00:10:10,040 --> 00:10:15,280 This was typically a role that only men used to play in society. 164 00:10:16,280 --> 00:10:21,960 So we came up with the idea of flipping Hakuatia into the feminine. 165 00:10:22,040 --> 00:10:25,840 I felt cold, so he put his arms around me to warm me up. 166 00:10:26,480 --> 00:10:31,040 Suddenly he grabbed my hand and put it on his penis. 167 00:10:31,760 --> 00:10:35,960 We really wanted to find a way to start to share women's stories 168 00:10:36,040 --> 00:10:40,520 when it came to everything related to their body, sexuality, 169 00:10:40,600 --> 00:10:43,680 masturbation, and sexual pleasure. 170 00:10:43,760 --> 00:10:47,560 If they speak up, there's a risk that their families might hurt them. 171 00:10:48,120 --> 00:10:50,600 I've always been an advocate for women's rights. 172 00:10:50,680 --> 00:10:54,680 This was an opportunity for me to publicly speak up 173 00:10:54,760 --> 00:10:56,680 about a cause I believe in. 174 00:10:56,760 --> 00:11:00,720 Warmth and wetness. 175 00:11:00,800 --> 00:11:05,320 My fingers kept moving, in and out, around. 176 00:11:05,400 --> 00:11:09,640 I opened my legs wider as my fingers hit that spot. 177 00:11:09,720 --> 00:11:11,800 It's harder for them to hear stories 178 00:11:11,880 --> 00:11:14,320 that celebrate pleasure and orgasm. 179 00:11:14,400 --> 00:11:16,240 There's still this shame of, like, 180 00:11:16,320 --> 00:11:19,120 "I don't necessarily want to be associated with that." 181 00:11:19,200 --> 00:11:23,720 They're still not yet at the level of public discourse as easy 182 00:11:23,800 --> 00:11:26,280 as some of the stories around pain. 183 00:11:29,920 --> 00:11:34,320 Mauj is dedicated to helping de-stigmatize female sexuality. 184 00:11:36,240 --> 00:11:40,920 It's very difficult to find pleasure products in the Arab world. 185 00:11:41,480 --> 00:11:43,840 You can't buy a vibrator. 186 00:11:45,080 --> 00:11:48,240 They created a new device called Deem. 187 00:11:49,880 --> 00:11:52,280 What's really special about Deem is 188 00:11:52,360 --> 00:11:54,350 that it is the first product of its kind 189 00:11:54,351 --> 00:11:56,240 designed by and for Arab women. 190 00:11:57,800 --> 00:12:00,080 But breaking taboos can be risky. 191 00:12:00,160 --> 00:12:03,360 So being discrete is incredibly important. 192 00:12:03,880 --> 00:12:06,880 We wanted Deem to be accessible and available to every woman, 193 00:12:06,960 --> 00:12:10,640 even women practicing their religious belief 194 00:12:10,720 --> 00:12:13,680 of not engaging in any penetration before marriage. 195 00:12:14,520 --> 00:12:17,400 We get asked a lot why our first product is a pleasure product. 196 00:12:18,240 --> 00:12:19,680 And our answer is, 197 00:12:19,760 --> 00:12:22,280 "Because what's more taboo than female pleasure?" 198 00:12:26,840 --> 00:12:32,040 Taboos around female sexuality exist in many more places worldwide. 199 00:12:32,120 --> 00:12:35,600 And that, lovely people, is holding women back. 200 00:12:42,000 --> 00:12:45,120 I'm in Japan where it's actually against the law 201 00:12:45,200 --> 00:12:47,120 to show female genitalia. 202 00:12:52,760 --> 00:12:56,200 Step up radical artist Rokudenashiko. 203 00:12:56,280 --> 00:12:58,080 Or should that be, paddler? 204 00:13:00,080 --> 00:13:03,880 In 2014, she decided to challenge Japanese censorship 205 00:13:03,960 --> 00:13:05,520 around female sexuality 206 00:13:05,600 --> 00:13:08,800 by creating a canoe modeled on her own vulva. 207 00:13:10,240 --> 00:13:11,720 As you do. 208 00:13:13,600 --> 00:13:14,920 - Hello. - Hello. 209 00:13:16,400 --> 00:13:18,240 - Nice to meet you. - Thank you so much. 210 00:13:18,320 --> 00:13:21,480 So... That's so cool! Oh, my gosh! 211 00:13:21,560 --> 00:13:25,160 I really want to row in the vagina canoe, though. 212 00:13:27,840 --> 00:13:30,320 Rokudenashiko's also been rocking the boat 213 00:13:30,400 --> 00:13:33,000 with her vag-tastic miniatures. 214 00:13:35,080 --> 00:13:37,600 Is this a real mold of a vagina? 215 00:13:37,680 --> 00:13:39,680 - My vagina. - That's your vagina! 216 00:13:40,440 --> 00:13:42,280 Now I understand, yes. 217 00:13:42,360 --> 00:13:44,480 Why did you start making vagina art? 218 00:13:45,120 --> 00:13:49,360 Pussy is a very taboo subject in Japan, 219 00:13:49,440 --> 00:13:53,880 and I'm trying to change that perception and make it more fun. 220 00:13:53,960 --> 00:13:58,280 When my art was featured on a news site 221 00:13:58,360 --> 00:14:00,600 I received a lot of backlash. 222 00:14:00,680 --> 00:14:02,800 I was told, "Vaginas are dirty and smelly, 223 00:14:02,880 --> 00:14:04,720 don't make things like that." 224 00:14:04,800 --> 00:14:06,520 - Crazy. Crazy! - Crazy! 225 00:14:07,400 --> 00:14:13,040 Originally, in Japan, a lot of mythology featured pussies 226 00:14:13,960 --> 00:14:15,440 and no one was bothered by it. 227 00:14:16,120 --> 00:14:21,200 Western Christian culture arrived, sex became taboo. 228 00:14:21,280 --> 00:14:25,200 Now images of vaginas are censored, 229 00:14:26,000 --> 00:14:29,120 as if it's something you shouldn't see. 230 00:14:30,200 --> 00:14:34,520 If someone sees this work and laughs at how silly it is 231 00:14:34,600 --> 00:14:40,600 I hope to give people the opportunity to question 232 00:14:40,800 --> 00:14:45,040 why pussies are forbidden. 233 00:14:45,120 --> 00:14:49,040 But it wasn't much of a laugh when Rokodenashiko was arrested 234 00:14:49,120 --> 00:14:52,840 for breaking Japan's obscenity laws. 235 00:14:53,520 --> 00:14:55,880 Luckily she didn't have to go to prison 236 00:14:55,960 --> 00:15:00,080 but had to pay a pretty hefty fine of nearly 4,000 Dollars. 237 00:15:02,200 --> 00:15:04,960 You're very inspiring. What you're doing is amazing. 238 00:15:05,040 --> 00:15:06,400 Yay! 239 00:15:07,440 --> 00:15:10,600 Let's disrupt the patriarchy! Whoo! Okay, cool. 240 00:15:12,880 --> 00:15:15,880 Today I'm going to make my own vag art. 241 00:15:17,000 --> 00:15:19,560 Okay. Now let's make a mold of a pussy. 242 00:15:22,000 --> 00:15:23,760 Step one, whip up some clay. 243 00:15:24,480 --> 00:15:26,360 I can see why you have nice arms now. 244 00:15:27,360 --> 00:15:28,840 Yay. 245 00:15:28,920 --> 00:15:30,520 See you later! 246 00:15:30,600 --> 00:15:33,760 What? Surely you didn't think I was going to show you that bit. 247 00:15:35,880 --> 00:15:37,640 - I'll start! - Do you want to hold it? 248 00:15:37,720 --> 00:15:39,360 Stop looking at it! 249 00:15:41,320 --> 00:15:44,240 What? I get really nervous! My vagina... 250 00:15:44,320 --> 00:15:45,920 Oh, my God! 251 00:15:46,000 --> 00:15:47,320 Very cute! 252 00:15:49,240 --> 00:15:50,680 Very pretty! 253 00:15:50,760 --> 00:15:53,680 - Oh, my God! I'm gonna cry! - Very nice. 254 00:15:54,480 --> 00:15:56,160 It's done! 255 00:15:59,880 --> 00:16:02,760 So, I've made the mold with help, of course. 256 00:16:02,840 --> 00:16:04,400 It was successful, I hope. 257 00:16:04,480 --> 00:16:06,680 It was a bit of cracking, but, you know? 258 00:16:07,840 --> 00:16:10,000 Now for a bit of vagazzeling. 259 00:16:12,000 --> 00:16:15,400 I never thought I would do this. For sure. 260 00:16:15,480 --> 00:16:20,960 You don't usually face your pussy, do you? 261 00:16:22,080 --> 00:16:26,960 I can eat dinner having my own pussy in front of me. 262 00:16:27,040 --> 00:16:29,440 This is so fun. I'm so glad I did this. 263 00:16:29,520 --> 00:16:32,880 It's really sweet, I love it. I'm really proud of what I made. 264 00:16:32,960 --> 00:16:36,240 So, wanna know which plaster master piece is mine? 265 00:16:37,120 --> 00:16:39,000 Is it the moon landing? 266 00:16:39,080 --> 00:16:42,120 The sandy bottom beach sea? 267 00:16:42,200 --> 00:16:45,160 Or the golf course? Hole in one! 268 00:16:47,640 --> 00:16:51,000 Sorry to let you down, but you're never gonna know. 269 00:16:51,080 --> 00:16:56,040 I admire Rokudenashiko's openness, but my privates stay private. 270 00:16:58,600 --> 00:17:00,160 So what does that say about me? 271 00:17:00,760 --> 00:17:05,480 I feel, as a model, as someone who sells their image, 272 00:17:05,560 --> 00:17:09,880 my vagina is the one private thing I have. 273 00:17:09,960 --> 00:17:15,600 That's the thing that I decide who sees it, when, how, why. 274 00:17:15,680 --> 00:17:18,040 - But I thank you so much... - Thank you for what? 275 00:17:18,120 --> 00:17:21,600 For what you've done! I'm gonna tell people about your art 276 00:17:21,680 --> 00:17:24,320 and spread the message of vagina positivity. 277 00:17:25,040 --> 00:17:28,640 So much fun! I had so much fun with my vagina today. 278 00:17:29,360 --> 00:17:31,440 I mean, this job really suits me perfectly, 279 00:17:31,520 --> 00:17:35,120 because the things I get to do are just so me. 280 00:17:37,000 --> 00:17:38,320 Best time ever! 281 00:17:38,400 --> 00:17:41,120 She's trying to spread a selfless message 282 00:17:41,200 --> 00:17:44,640 of people, and women specifically, to love themselves 283 00:17:45,200 --> 00:17:47,720 from something that has put so much shame on. 284 00:17:48,320 --> 00:17:51,680 And that is seen as a criminal offense? 285 00:17:52,320 --> 00:17:53,640 It's mind-blowing. 286 00:17:54,640 --> 00:17:57,000 Culture has a lot to answer for. 287 00:17:57,080 --> 00:18:01,600 Shame, taboo, even prison. It's all about control. 288 00:18:02,440 --> 00:18:03,960 But that's not the only reason 289 00:18:04,040 --> 00:18:06,720 women of the world aren't getting their kicks. 290 00:18:06,800 --> 00:18:10,280 A vital part of our anatomy has been rudely overlooked. 291 00:18:15,080 --> 00:18:17,520 Until just a few decades ago, 292 00:18:17,600 --> 00:18:21,920 people thought the clitoris was this tiny, tricky to access button, 293 00:18:22,000 --> 00:18:26,480 hard to stimulate and generally less of a big deal than the penis. 294 00:18:28,960 --> 00:18:31,400 Nearly 30 years after the moon landings... 295 00:18:31,480 --> 00:18:33,800 It's one small step for man... 296 00:18:35,000 --> 00:18:39,480 ... the clitoris was finally mapped in 1998 by a woman. 297 00:18:41,080 --> 00:18:44,760 And what a revelation that was! It's massive, 298 00:18:44,840 --> 00:18:48,440 with three times more nerves than the penis. 299 00:18:58,640 --> 00:19:02,520 It's time the clitoris was given the recognition it deserves. 300 00:19:03,440 --> 00:19:04,800 Meet New Yorker Sophia 301 00:19:04,880 --> 00:19:08,400 who is on what she calls, "a Cliteracy campaign". 302 00:19:10,600 --> 00:19:13,760 Cliteracy is my attempt to blast the clitoris into public awareness. 303 00:19:16,320 --> 00:19:20,120 Using large scale, using text, using neon. 304 00:19:20,200 --> 00:19:25,200 It all began when she found out that her grandma, a mother of five, 305 00:19:25,280 --> 00:19:27,920 had never once had an orgasm. 306 00:19:28,000 --> 00:19:31,000 People with clits are having not a lot of orgasms, 307 00:19:31,080 --> 00:19:34,280 whether its their clits being externally excised 308 00:19:34,360 --> 00:19:39,200 or its being shamed, the clit has this ability for pleasure, 309 00:19:39,280 --> 00:19:40,680 and it's not getting that. 310 00:19:40,760 --> 00:19:43,360 So I thought, "Someone needs to call bullshit on this." 311 00:19:54,560 --> 00:19:58,280 I put a lot of attention into how I design the clits 312 00:19:58,360 --> 00:20:02,200 because I feel like that's the most important part. 313 00:20:02,840 --> 00:20:04,560 I mean, it feels good, it's beautiful, 314 00:20:04,640 --> 00:20:07,480 and also to see, and not to look closely at it. 315 00:20:08,600 --> 00:20:11,800 There are very few depictions of it that are actually specific, 316 00:20:11,880 --> 00:20:15,040 it's usually just this round sort of blob. 317 00:20:15,560 --> 00:20:19,480 But if you actually look closely at the glands, it is a shape, 318 00:20:19,560 --> 00:20:22,400 and it's also very diverse, person to person. 319 00:20:26,800 --> 00:20:28,960 All this knowledge about the mysterious clit 320 00:20:29,040 --> 00:20:31,520 is just blowing my mind. 321 00:20:31,600 --> 00:20:34,480 It's about time I saw it in all its glory. 322 00:20:35,400 --> 00:20:36,920 This is the land of clits. 323 00:20:37,000 --> 00:20:38,680 The land of clits! 324 00:20:39,600 --> 00:20:42,160 My focus is drawn straight to the booty. 325 00:20:42,240 --> 00:20:44,960 So these are these porcelain sculptures that I made 326 00:20:45,040 --> 00:20:47,080 in order to honor this part of the body 327 00:20:47,160 --> 00:20:49,040 that is often so shamed. 328 00:20:49,120 --> 00:20:51,600 And I just think, everyone should be a, like, 329 00:20:51,680 --> 00:20:55,760 in awe of how amazing clits are but also being drawn to the glands 330 00:20:55,840 --> 00:20:57,320 because there's a ton of nerves. 331 00:20:57,400 --> 00:21:00,200 There's 8,000 nerves here. This part activates 332 00:21:00,280 --> 00:21:02,080 and then everything else engorges... 333 00:21:02,160 --> 00:21:04,240 - This is erectile tissue. - Wow. 334 00:21:06,720 --> 00:21:09,480 Basically the same amount of erectile tissue as the penis. 335 00:21:09,560 --> 00:21:11,600 Also, we wake up with morning wood. 336 00:21:11,680 --> 00:21:13,680 We don't even have words for a clit erection. 337 00:21:13,760 --> 00:21:15,120 - Crazy, huh? - That's true. 338 00:21:15,200 --> 00:21:18,400 Like, when you wake up, but you call it morning wood? 339 00:21:18,480 --> 00:21:20,480 - You call it that? - We should make new words. 340 00:21:20,560 --> 00:21:23,640 If this was inside of me... This is obviously not that big. 341 00:21:23,720 --> 00:21:27,560 It's almost like this orientation, which is really funny, 342 00:21:27,640 --> 00:21:29,360 but it's just so we understand it. 343 00:21:29,440 --> 00:21:32,560 It's so confusing because it's never been drawn in its anatomy. 344 00:21:32,640 --> 00:21:34,880 I will always draw penises on things as a joke 345 00:21:34,960 --> 00:21:37,560 because I think it's funny and I'm really bad at drawing. 346 00:21:37,640 --> 00:21:41,560 But it's so true. I would never draw a vagina, you know? 347 00:21:41,640 --> 00:21:46,320 I'm just drawing a penis comic. Wohoo, that's funny! It's not. 348 00:21:46,400 --> 00:21:49,600 Well, we're taught to think that penises are hilarious 349 00:21:49,680 --> 00:21:51,200 and, like, cool. 350 00:21:51,280 --> 00:21:53,800 A clit is just, like, "Oh, you can't find it, ha, ha!" 351 00:21:53,880 --> 00:21:55,640 You know, having sex with other women 352 00:21:55,720 --> 00:21:58,680 where I realize how much more sensitive women are than they think. 353 00:21:58,760 --> 00:22:01,360 When you take your time and you are super slow and soft, 354 00:22:01,440 --> 00:22:04,160 you see how much more nerves there are than in the penis. 355 00:22:04,240 --> 00:22:06,640 It's crazy. It's a beautiful organ. 356 00:22:06,720 --> 00:22:08,960 Exactly. I mean, my son is 19 months old 357 00:22:09,040 --> 00:22:12,400 and he will never not know what a clit is. I'm proud about that. 358 00:22:12,480 --> 00:22:14,080 - You know what I'm saying? - Yes! 359 00:22:23,600 --> 00:22:26,640 A huge part of the so-called orgasm gap 360 00:22:26,720 --> 00:22:30,160 is that women have been told to keep silent about their sexuality. 361 00:22:33,600 --> 00:22:36,000 But I do think things are changing. 362 00:22:36,080 --> 00:22:38,920 - Is it just on or off? - It has two speeds. 363 00:22:39,440 --> 00:22:40,760 Fast and faster. 364 00:22:40,840 --> 00:22:44,720 - It's just really like... - Okay, we'll plug it in. 365 00:22:44,800 --> 00:22:46,160 I'll show you. 366 00:22:46,240 --> 00:22:47,600 PENDA N'DIAYE FOUNDER, PRO HOE 367 00:22:47,680 --> 00:22:51,600 Penda N'diaye brings women together to share the secrets of pleasure, 368 00:22:51,680 --> 00:22:54,040 especially within black communities. 369 00:22:54,120 --> 00:22:57,120 So, as much as I love a bit of sex talk, 370 00:22:57,200 --> 00:22:59,400 I'm respectfully sitting this one out. 371 00:23:00,200 --> 00:23:02,280 Black women in particular are undergoing 372 00:23:02,360 --> 00:23:04,040 this incredible revolution right now. 373 00:23:04,120 --> 00:23:07,360 And I think sexual identity is a huge part of that revolution, 374 00:23:07,440 --> 00:23:10,960 knowing what feels good and not accepting anything less. 375 00:23:14,840 --> 00:23:17,520 Today, the women are giving their inside stories 376 00:23:17,600 --> 00:23:19,480 on some homework pender set 377 00:23:20,040 --> 00:23:23,040 to test drive a bunch of new sex toys. 378 00:23:24,480 --> 00:23:26,840 Once you understand the capacity of your pleasure, 379 00:23:26,920 --> 00:23:28,880 you can use that to inform who we are 380 00:23:28,960 --> 00:23:31,240 and not silencing ourselves. 381 00:23:31,800 --> 00:23:35,800 So I'm really glad that all of you are joining me in this journey 382 00:23:35,880 --> 00:23:39,800 of pleasure and feeling good, and you're down for the sex toys 383 00:23:39,880 --> 00:23:41,440 that are here. 384 00:23:44,600 --> 00:23:46,720 My mom gave me my first vibrator for Christmas. 385 00:23:46,800 --> 00:23:49,880 She's like, "I don't need to now what you're doing or with whom, 386 00:23:49,960 --> 00:23:52,520 just as long as you're getting it in." 387 00:23:53,400 --> 00:23:56,800 It's honestly just having conversations with a lot of women 388 00:23:56,880 --> 00:23:59,040 who have never had orgasms. 389 00:23:59,120 --> 00:24:00,960 Sometimes I'm still like, "Wow." 390 00:24:01,040 --> 00:24:03,280 And if you thought you didn't need a sex toy 391 00:24:03,360 --> 00:24:05,640 well, listen and learn. 392 00:24:06,480 --> 00:24:08,680 - I'm Shadae. - Hey, everyone. 393 00:24:08,760 --> 00:24:12,040 Hey, this is Shadae's first sex toy experience. 394 00:24:12,120 --> 00:24:13,680 - You popped the cherries. - Yes. 395 00:24:15,880 --> 00:24:19,200 How do your partners feel about you bringing toys into the room? 396 00:24:19,280 --> 00:24:21,080 I was always in my mind thinking 397 00:24:21,160 --> 00:24:23,160 that men may find it a little intimidating. 398 00:24:23,240 --> 00:24:26,720 There's something so powerful about being able to please yourself 399 00:24:26,800 --> 00:24:30,240 - without anyone else. - Right. 400 00:24:30,320 --> 00:24:34,920 First time using it, I was like, "Damn, this feels so much easier." 401 00:24:35,000 --> 00:24:37,880 And I felt like I had more control over my orgasms. 402 00:24:37,960 --> 00:24:40,280 Now I know what I need 403 00:24:40,360 --> 00:24:43,480 whereas before, so often in my sex experiences, 404 00:24:43,560 --> 00:24:44,960 I relied on men. 405 00:24:47,160 --> 00:24:49,040 Today I got liberated. 406 00:24:49,120 --> 00:24:53,400 It felt really freeing to have that type of discourse 407 00:24:53,480 --> 00:24:55,720 among women that look like me 408 00:24:55,800 --> 00:24:58,000 and that remind me of myself. 409 00:24:58,080 --> 00:25:02,160 I'm Lisa. For me it's exploring different types of toys 410 00:25:02,240 --> 00:25:06,960 with my partner and then even going shopping for toys with my partner 411 00:25:07,040 --> 00:25:08,360 to create that ease. 412 00:25:08,440 --> 00:25:11,160 I had the Double Trouble. 413 00:25:12,560 --> 00:25:14,200 And I got to do it with my partner. 414 00:25:14,280 --> 00:25:18,960 And, you know, he would hold it and I was able to have three orgasms, 415 00:25:19,040 --> 00:25:20,600 - like, back to back to back. - Yeah. 416 00:25:23,080 --> 00:25:26,840 Growing up as a black girl, being told not to do things, 417 00:25:26,920 --> 00:25:28,440 you know, we're being limited. 418 00:25:28,520 --> 00:25:31,920 Sexual pleasure is for ultimate freedom. 419 00:25:32,000 --> 00:25:34,840 I feel like I've been able to be my complete self, 420 00:25:35,680 --> 00:25:39,320 including my sexuality, with my partner. 421 00:25:40,320 --> 00:25:42,480 I'm not used to using vibrators internally, 422 00:25:42,560 --> 00:25:44,160 - it's more like, clit. - Yes. 423 00:25:44,240 --> 00:25:47,080 I had an amazing, magical orgasm, 424 00:25:47,160 --> 00:25:50,680 and I pulled it out and looked at it, and I was like, "Wow!" 425 00:25:52,640 --> 00:25:54,160 This is the way. 426 00:25:55,160 --> 00:25:56,680 It was interesting to see 427 00:25:56,760 --> 00:25:59,400 because I'm used to seeing it on a dick, I'm not used to... 428 00:25:59,480 --> 00:26:01,240 - Or penis. - Yeah. 429 00:26:03,360 --> 00:26:05,680 There's times when I'm like, "I'm gonna pee myself." 430 00:26:05,760 --> 00:26:07,640 But I just had to squirt. 431 00:26:07,720 --> 00:26:11,000 So my orgasms are getting better as I age. 432 00:26:12,160 --> 00:26:14,960 I can't wait to see how they are in the future. 433 00:26:16,880 --> 00:26:19,880 It's no secret I do love a sex toy, 434 00:26:19,960 --> 00:26:22,482 because honestly, if you're waiting for someone else 435 00:26:22,483 --> 00:26:23,560 to give you a hand, 436 00:26:23,640 --> 00:26:26,360 it can all be a bit touch and go. 437 00:26:27,040 --> 00:26:28,880 Love you guys so much. 438 00:26:30,480 --> 00:26:31,960 Master interview, take two. 439 00:26:34,280 --> 00:26:39,000 For me, the earliest ideas I ever got towards sex were, you know, 440 00:26:40,080 --> 00:26:44,000 man plus woman, dick plus vagina equals orgasm. 441 00:26:44,760 --> 00:26:47,400 I don't want to go into the art of making a woman cum, 442 00:26:47,480 --> 00:26:50,760 but it's just a lot more complicated and a lot more fun. 443 00:26:50,840 --> 00:26:54,640 I do feel that generally men are not equipped with the right tools 444 00:26:54,720 --> 00:26:58,000 to be able to handle women, especially sexually. 445 00:26:58,080 --> 00:26:59,400 I mean, I get it. 446 00:26:59,480 --> 00:27:02,200 It's a lot more complicated for a woman to have to tell you, 447 00:27:02,280 --> 00:27:05,480 "You're not doing it right. Sit down and listen to what I say." 448 00:27:05,560 --> 00:27:07,760 It's an ego killer which most men can't handle. 449 00:27:12,680 --> 00:27:15,720 Look, I might be unfair to single men here, 450 00:27:15,800 --> 00:27:17,960 so let's make sure I'm not missing anything 451 00:27:18,040 --> 00:27:21,280 by getting a 101 on the power packed in our pants. 452 00:27:25,560 --> 00:27:28,560 Sexpert Marieke Dewitte will love to get into the juicy details. 453 00:27:30,720 --> 00:27:33,360 Let's start off with a casual question. 454 00:27:33,440 --> 00:27:36,160 Is there any difference between the male and female orgasm? 455 00:27:36,240 --> 00:27:38,000 Why is the gap so big? 456 00:27:38,080 --> 00:27:40,680 We know that men and women do not differ in the capacity 457 00:27:40,760 --> 00:27:42,880 to reach orgasm, to experience pleasure, 458 00:27:42,960 --> 00:27:45,960 but only a few women, less than 30 percent, 459 00:27:46,040 --> 00:27:48,320 can actually climax via penetration 460 00:27:48,400 --> 00:27:50,040 and that's often where it goes wrong. 461 00:27:50,120 --> 00:27:51,880 We don't get the right stimulation. 462 00:27:51,960 --> 00:27:54,080 The clitoris is the female sex organ, 463 00:27:54,160 --> 00:27:56,560 not the vagina. The vagina is a birth channel. 464 00:27:56,640 --> 00:27:58,760 - Drop the mic right there! - Yeah, exactly! 465 00:27:58,840 --> 00:28:01,560 I mean, it is much less sensitive than the clitoris 466 00:28:01,640 --> 00:28:02,960 which is a good thing 467 00:28:03,040 --> 00:28:04,840 or giving childbirth would be horrible. 468 00:28:04,920 --> 00:28:06,960 - Oh, my God! - It would be the end of humanity. 469 00:28:07,040 --> 00:28:10,960 So the idea that women have less sexual desire than men is wrong. 470 00:28:11,040 --> 00:28:13,480 They just don't get the right sexual stimulation. 471 00:28:15,040 --> 00:28:18,680 Physically, the duration of an orgasm is really short. 472 00:28:18,760 --> 00:28:22,120 It takes about 20, 25 seconds in women 473 00:28:22,200 --> 00:28:24,320 and about five to 25 seconds in men. 474 00:28:24,400 --> 00:28:27,400 And in general, it takes longer for women to reach orgasm. 475 00:28:27,480 --> 00:28:30,640 For some women, actually, if you continue to stimulate them, 476 00:28:30,720 --> 00:28:32,160 they also continue to climax, 477 00:28:32,240 --> 00:28:35,280 so that's why women can have multiple orgasms. 478 00:28:37,640 --> 00:28:39,920 The clitoris is actually a small penis. 479 00:28:40,000 --> 00:28:41,880 It includes the glands and the forehead, 480 00:28:41,960 --> 00:28:43,640 it gets swollen during arousal. 481 00:28:43,720 --> 00:28:46,240 So, in a way, women have on the inside 482 00:28:46,320 --> 00:28:47,920 what men have on the outside. 483 00:28:48,000 --> 00:28:51,360 Most women know that the clitoris obviously needs to be stimulated 484 00:28:51,440 --> 00:28:55,480 but do they think that penetrative sex is it that will make them... 485 00:28:55,560 --> 00:28:59,320 Well, we maybe have sex in a way that fits the male sexual script. 486 00:28:59,400 --> 00:29:00,720 For a long time 487 00:29:00,800 --> 00:29:03,080 sex has been studied from a biological perspective. 488 00:29:03,160 --> 00:29:05,560 Biologists study sex as reproduction. 489 00:29:05,640 --> 00:29:07,920 So we know a lot about the penis and so on 490 00:29:08,000 --> 00:29:11,680 - because that's for reproduction. - That's the one giving the juice. 491 00:29:11,760 --> 00:29:15,080 If we think about the female orgasm and the female sexual response, 492 00:29:15,160 --> 00:29:17,600 there's so much we don't know yet 493 00:29:17,680 --> 00:29:21,840 because we constantly have this male gaze looking at sexuality. 494 00:29:21,920 --> 00:29:23,720 - Totally. - But it's also about 495 00:29:23,800 --> 00:29:25,920 focusing on your own sexual pleasure. 496 00:29:26,000 --> 00:29:28,880 And that's also something that is difficult for women 497 00:29:28,960 --> 00:29:31,560 because we're socialized to prioritize 498 00:29:31,640 --> 00:29:33,040 the pleasure of the partner. 499 00:29:37,360 --> 00:29:39,640 Women, remember those words! 500 00:29:39,720 --> 00:29:42,160 Put your own pleasure first! 501 00:29:42,240 --> 00:29:45,040 Actually, I am something of an expert in that. 502 00:29:46,120 --> 00:29:48,560 One of my earliest memories is masturbating, 503 00:29:48,640 --> 00:29:50,480 but I didn't know it was anything sexual. 504 00:29:50,560 --> 00:29:52,120 It was just, "This feels good! 505 00:29:52,200 --> 00:29:55,080 Why would I not touch there to feel better about life?" 506 00:29:55,160 --> 00:29:57,000 It just made sense. 507 00:29:57,080 --> 00:30:00,000 But I do think that there's just a lot more fear 508 00:30:00,080 --> 00:30:02,440 about talking about women touching themselves. 509 00:30:02,520 --> 00:30:05,520 But just because I think men can go around and be like, 510 00:30:05,600 --> 00:30:07,480 "Yeah, I just came nine times today, bro! 511 00:30:07,560 --> 00:30:09,560 I can't even walk!" And they're like, "Sick!" 512 00:30:09,640 --> 00:30:11,760 "Well, I touch myself." They're like, "Gross." 513 00:30:21,320 --> 00:30:25,000 Ah, the "m" word! Masturbation. 514 00:30:25,080 --> 00:30:27,000 Probably one of the best things we can do 515 00:30:27,080 --> 00:30:29,000 to get that orgasm count up for women. 516 00:30:30,000 --> 00:30:33,920 Knowing what feels good can make it a lot easier to tell someone else. 517 00:30:35,000 --> 00:30:39,960 So I'm on my way to, wait for it, a group masturbation class. 518 00:30:40,040 --> 00:30:43,520 Only in New York. I mean, at this point, why not? 519 00:30:44,560 --> 00:30:47,480 I'm Lola Jean, and I am a sex educator. 520 00:30:47,560 --> 00:30:49,000 I like to call it... 521 00:30:49,080 --> 00:30:52,840 A masturbation class if more of like a yolk class for your bits. 522 00:30:55,880 --> 00:30:57,840 Sitting in a room full of women... 523 00:30:58,520 --> 00:31:00,760 I'm not gonna lie, I sat next to my friend 524 00:31:00,840 --> 00:31:03,080 and masturbated next to each other, but that's it. 525 00:31:03,160 --> 00:31:04,560 I'm terrified. 526 00:31:05,480 --> 00:31:06,960 - Hello. - Hi. 527 00:31:07,040 --> 00:31:09,440 - So you're here for the workshop? - Oh, yes. 528 00:31:10,440 --> 00:31:12,760 If not, we're all in for a little surprise. 529 00:31:14,000 --> 00:31:15,840 - This is like my house! - Oh, really? 530 00:31:17,160 --> 00:31:19,200 - Is anyone nervous? - Yeah. 531 00:31:21,520 --> 00:31:24,880 I'm very curious, and if there's anything I can learn 532 00:31:24,960 --> 00:31:29,040 and feel less shame about having a vagina, that would be great. 533 00:31:30,400 --> 00:31:34,360 Okay, so how many of you have been masturbating the same way 534 00:31:34,440 --> 00:31:37,440 since you were, like, seven, or whenever you started? 535 00:31:38,040 --> 00:31:39,600 - No. - Definitely. 536 00:31:39,680 --> 00:31:42,240 - The same way? - Yeah, doing the same thing. 537 00:31:42,320 --> 00:31:44,440 Like humping your pillow, humping your hand... 538 00:31:44,520 --> 00:31:49,440 I've only once spent really an hour 539 00:31:50,240 --> 00:31:51,920 really making love to myself, 540 00:31:52,000 --> 00:31:55,320 like touching every part of my body, like, I cried. 541 00:31:55,400 --> 00:31:59,160 That's the thing, nothing is weird or abnormal, 542 00:31:59,240 --> 00:32:02,800 because if you know your button, oh, my God, you know your thing! 543 00:32:02,880 --> 00:32:06,080 That's amazing to have, and maybe there's more buttons to figure out. 544 00:32:06,160 --> 00:32:08,760 We're trying to find different pathways to pleasure. 545 00:32:08,840 --> 00:32:11,320 This is my vulva, but not my actual vulva 546 00:32:11,400 --> 00:32:13,800 because its eerily and bright red. 547 00:32:13,880 --> 00:32:16,320 So, there's something I call the pussy sandwich, 548 00:32:16,400 --> 00:32:19,640 and that's where you're gonna take the outer and inner labia 549 00:32:19,720 --> 00:32:22,240 between your index finger and your thumb. 550 00:32:22,320 --> 00:32:25,320 The chopsticking of the clitoris is when you're gonna take 551 00:32:25,400 --> 00:32:28,880 an inverted peace sign and it's going to go on the inner labia. 552 00:32:28,960 --> 00:32:32,280 So knuckling is something that's gonna look like drumming, 553 00:32:32,360 --> 00:32:34,280 but it's going to be with our knuckles. 554 00:32:34,360 --> 00:32:36,760 and we can do that kind of around the inner labia. 555 00:32:36,840 --> 00:32:39,840 This one is called the motorcycle rub. 556 00:32:39,920 --> 00:32:43,480 So you're two middle fingers, your middle finger and your ring 557 00:32:43,560 --> 00:32:48,320 will be inside of the vagina and you're gonna rub the motorcycle. 558 00:32:48,400 --> 00:32:51,440 There's one that we're gonna go back to a lot and change it up, 559 00:32:51,520 --> 00:32:54,320 and that's going from the bottom of the vulva to the top. 560 00:32:54,400 --> 00:32:56,160 Looks nice with my pants. 561 00:32:56,800 --> 00:32:58,160 Really goes well. 562 00:32:58,240 --> 00:33:00,200 I'm gonna get so self-conscious 563 00:33:00,280 --> 00:33:03,160 because in my mind I'm like, "I just want the lights to be off." 564 00:33:03,240 --> 00:33:06,040 - Can you... - Or my face to be covered. 565 00:33:08,800 --> 00:33:10,280 Despite the safe space, 566 00:33:10,360 --> 00:33:12,520 I still feel like I need to wear a mask. 567 00:33:16,840 --> 00:33:20,280 Close your eyes and take a few breaths in and out. 568 00:33:20,360 --> 00:33:22,960 And now we're gonna make a pussy sandwich. 569 00:33:23,560 --> 00:33:26,560 Masturbation is just another healthy part of our life, 570 00:33:26,640 --> 00:33:30,400 and there's so much we can gain from it that actually has nothing to do 571 00:33:30,480 --> 00:33:33,760 with pleasure or orgasm. It can be stress, 572 00:33:33,840 --> 00:33:36,120 to relieve cramps or a headache. 573 00:33:36,680 --> 00:33:41,000 And as soon as we start removing that stigma, 574 00:33:41,080 --> 00:33:43,880 the dirtiness, and the same, the more we can start enjoying 575 00:33:43,960 --> 00:33:46,120 the actual benefits of masturbation 576 00:33:46,200 --> 00:33:50,000 instead of trying to assign morality to what it means. 577 00:33:50,080 --> 00:33:54,400 Look, I revved, chopsticked and sandwiched for a full-on hour 578 00:33:54,480 --> 00:33:57,560 and it was kind of sexy, but it also felt weird for me. 579 00:33:57,640 --> 00:34:00,360 And what I definitely didn't do was orgasm. 580 00:34:00,440 --> 00:34:03,080 Yet somehow I feel utterly changed. 581 00:34:03,160 --> 00:34:06,600 It is a very brave thing to come to a class and masturbate 582 00:34:06,680 --> 00:34:09,080 with a group of strangers. What was that like? 583 00:34:09,160 --> 00:34:11,400 It's the bravest thing I've ever done. 584 00:34:11,480 --> 00:34:14,800 I liked the normalizing aspect and that we're all just laying here, 585 00:34:14,880 --> 00:34:19,320 it was just much more exploratory, it felt really safe. 586 00:34:19,400 --> 00:34:21,520 I've never masturbated in front of anyone ever 587 00:34:21,600 --> 00:34:23,840 apart from when I did it in bed with my friend. 588 00:34:24,520 --> 00:34:26,240 I can't believe that I did it. 589 00:34:27,280 --> 00:34:30,360 But... I haven't actually used my hand 590 00:34:30,440 --> 00:34:34,000 to touch myself in so long. 591 00:34:34,080 --> 00:34:38,160 Because, again, I feel really, like, so much shame around my vagina. 592 00:34:38,240 --> 00:34:40,720 "My vagina is not like other girls I've slept with." 593 00:34:40,800 --> 00:34:44,680 You masturbated in front of people and you survived. 594 00:34:44,760 --> 00:34:47,840 It's like, "Oh, that's nice, it's actually quite soft! 595 00:34:47,920 --> 00:34:49,880 Oh, my God, I feel great, I feel nice." 596 00:34:49,960 --> 00:34:52,320 - Thank you. - Absolutely. 597 00:34:52,400 --> 00:34:55,480 Take what you learned here, go home, be by yourself. 598 00:34:55,560 --> 00:34:57,760 Be in an area that's comfortable for you 599 00:34:57,840 --> 00:35:00,480 and continue to explore and do these things. 600 00:35:02,280 --> 00:35:06,160 I think I'm learning a lot from everyone I've met so far, for sure. 601 00:35:07,760 --> 00:35:11,160 It's making me be a lot more open in my own personal life. 602 00:35:11,240 --> 00:35:13,760 In my mind, the most important thing about life 603 00:35:13,840 --> 00:35:15,440 is connections with other humans, 604 00:35:15,520 --> 00:35:19,000 and I haven't even begun to have enough conversations like this 605 00:35:19,080 --> 00:35:20,720 with enough people. 606 00:35:20,800 --> 00:35:22,720 But we can learn so much from each other. 607 00:35:23,400 --> 00:35:26,320 Sexuality! Yes. 608 00:35:37,760 --> 00:35:41,320 Here we are, heading for the climax of my journey 609 00:35:41,400 --> 00:35:45,560 to understand women's sexuality and unlock female pleasure. 610 00:35:46,440 --> 00:35:49,240 I've already put myself out there like never before 611 00:35:49,320 --> 00:35:52,000 but tonight I'm going all the way. 612 00:35:52,680 --> 00:35:55,480 I'm off to a women-only sex party 613 00:35:55,560 --> 00:35:59,960 to see what happens when everyone's free to explore their raw sexuality 614 00:36:00,040 --> 00:36:01,760 with no inhibitions. 615 00:36:01,840 --> 00:36:04,200 And more importantly, no men. 616 00:36:05,320 --> 00:36:07,120 We've got lots of newbies tonight. 617 00:36:08,760 --> 00:36:11,560 Always at least over 80 percent are first-timers. 618 00:36:11,640 --> 00:36:14,800 So keep your eyes peeled for anyone that looks a little bit unsure. 619 00:36:16,200 --> 00:36:20,120 After everything I've learned, am I brave enough to shed the shame 620 00:36:20,200 --> 00:36:22,960 and put my sexual desires out there in public? 621 00:36:24,440 --> 00:36:26,440 I'm not gonna lie, I'm pretty nervous, 622 00:36:26,520 --> 00:36:28,520 so I've asked my friend Elena to join me. 623 00:36:29,680 --> 00:36:31,640 When we were talking about it, she was like, 624 00:36:31,720 --> 00:36:35,280 "Yeah, I'd be so down for watching women get off with each other 625 00:36:35,360 --> 00:36:37,160 but I would be a bit more awkward." 626 00:36:37,240 --> 00:36:40,200 There is that one three-way with another girl and guy, 627 00:36:40,280 --> 00:36:43,200 but that was really it. That was my one brush. 628 00:36:43,280 --> 00:36:44,760 That's my most straight friend. 629 00:36:45,320 --> 00:36:49,560 Financial advisor Genevieve set up Skirt Club in 2014 630 00:36:49,640 --> 00:36:52,040 to host sex parties for women. 631 00:36:52,800 --> 00:36:57,480 It now has 18,000 members in cities all over the world. 632 00:36:58,160 --> 00:37:00,160 Nice to meet you, darling, how are you doing? 633 00:37:00,240 --> 00:37:02,480 - Pleasure! Nice to meet you. - How are you doing? 634 00:37:02,560 --> 00:37:05,120 Welcome to Skirt Club. Consent is a huge thing. 635 00:37:05,200 --> 00:37:08,640 And remember, like you, a lot of women are here for the first time. 636 00:37:08,720 --> 00:37:10,920 So they're nervous, okay? 637 00:37:11,000 --> 00:37:13,320 They may not have ever kissed a woman before. 638 00:37:14,400 --> 00:37:18,960 Some women here are straight, some gay, some bi, some pan. 639 00:37:19,720 --> 00:37:22,480 But most are just curious and horny. 640 00:37:23,480 --> 00:37:25,760 - What's your name? - I'm Bella. 641 00:37:26,360 --> 00:37:29,240 - I love that! - Yeah? You're welcome. 642 00:37:32,720 --> 00:37:35,800 Okay, sexy sirens, welcome to Skirt Club. 643 00:37:39,600 --> 00:37:42,200 We believe in the power of the feminine here. 644 00:37:42,280 --> 00:37:46,120 Skirt Club is a safe space for you to explore all of your desires. 645 00:37:46,200 --> 00:37:49,800 We're gonna take good care of you. Your pleasure is paramount. 646 00:37:49,880 --> 00:37:51,840 That is the key to the gate to heaven. 647 00:37:51,920 --> 00:37:54,120 - Yeah! - Welcome! 648 00:37:54,200 --> 00:37:56,720 If you do feel uncomfortable, I'm the consent fairy, 649 00:37:56,800 --> 00:37:58,280 so come and find me. 650 00:38:01,040 --> 00:38:02,440 Please make sure to be safe, 651 00:38:02,520 --> 00:38:05,080 have conscious communication with each other. 652 00:38:05,160 --> 00:38:08,040 If it's not a "hell, yes," it's a no. 653 00:38:08,800 --> 00:38:12,840 I appreciate the fact that every single person that's showed up 654 00:38:12,920 --> 00:38:15,560 is gorgeous in every way, shape, or form. 655 00:38:16,160 --> 00:38:18,920 We're all here for the same purpose. To enjoy each other. 656 00:38:22,560 --> 00:38:25,360 So, good people, this is just a little taste 657 00:38:25,440 --> 00:38:28,840 of what women can get up to when they've let go of shame, 658 00:38:28,920 --> 00:38:30,800 left their inhibitions behind 659 00:38:30,880 --> 00:38:33,480 and feel free to explore their sexuality. 660 00:38:34,080 --> 00:38:35,880 I think I'm gonna like this. 661 00:38:43,120 --> 00:38:45,600 I've always known that I've been bisexual. 662 00:38:45,680 --> 00:38:48,160 I am married, I have a family, 663 00:38:48,240 --> 00:38:52,400 but there's a part of me that needs more. 664 00:38:52,960 --> 00:38:58,320 And I have the position right now to have both, 665 00:38:58,400 --> 00:39:00,200 and it's amazing. 666 00:39:00,280 --> 00:39:03,640 It makes me feel powerful. I've never felt that before. 667 00:39:09,760 --> 00:39:11,920 And as the evening hots up, 668 00:39:12,000 --> 00:39:14,600 well, so do I. 669 00:39:14,680 --> 00:39:17,280 Three, two, one, go! 670 00:39:17,960 --> 00:39:21,520 This is tequila shots, Skirt club style. 671 00:39:21,600 --> 00:39:24,280 It's a lot of fun. 672 00:39:28,120 --> 00:39:31,280 Women doing this together, that's an amazing thing. 673 00:39:31,360 --> 00:39:33,880 It makes you feel super, super safe. 674 00:39:34,640 --> 00:39:37,360 People are here to enjoy themselves, lift each other up, 675 00:39:37,440 --> 00:39:39,000 appreciate each other. 676 00:39:39,080 --> 00:39:42,440 I feel really truly free. 677 00:39:49,840 --> 00:39:51,760 It's been such a tense formation for me 678 00:39:51,840 --> 00:39:54,200 because I come from a really conservative background 679 00:39:54,280 --> 00:39:58,960 with, you know, like, long skirts and, like, really crazy catholic, 680 00:39:59,040 --> 00:40:02,280 and Skirt Club really gave me the opportunity to express myself. 681 00:40:04,240 --> 00:40:07,760 One of my fantasies is to have sex with several women at once. 682 00:40:07,840 --> 00:40:10,320 You know, like five, six women laying on a bed 683 00:40:10,400 --> 00:40:12,360 going down on each other. 684 00:40:14,320 --> 00:40:16,680 That's definitely amazing. 685 00:40:24,240 --> 00:40:27,080 You don't have to be a lesbian. You don't have to be anything. 686 00:40:27,160 --> 00:40:29,600 You just do whatever you want. You can be bi-curious. 687 00:40:29,680 --> 00:40:32,000 You can be married, you can be... It doesn't matter. 688 00:40:32,080 --> 00:40:34,680 There's no label on it, so Skirt Club opens the door. 689 00:40:34,760 --> 00:40:38,560 Girls are generally so focused on pleasuring the male. 690 00:40:38,640 --> 00:40:42,320 Here it's all about girls and their pleasure and their right 691 00:40:42,400 --> 00:40:43,760 to own that. 692 00:40:45,280 --> 00:40:46,760 What happened next? 693 00:40:46,840 --> 00:40:50,400 Well, I'm gonna let that be the only mystery left in this show. 694 00:41:01,760 --> 00:41:03,840 What I've learned about female sexuality is 695 00:41:03,920 --> 00:41:05,680 there is so much left we need to learn. 696 00:41:06,240 --> 00:41:09,080 I honestly think that most people know more about space 697 00:41:09,160 --> 00:41:11,280 than the inner workings of the female orgasm. 698 00:41:12,160 --> 00:41:14,640 I had to come face to face with my own vagina, 699 00:41:14,720 --> 00:41:16,640 had an orgasm for science, 700 00:41:16,720 --> 00:41:19,800 and attempted to masturbate in a room full of strangers 701 00:41:19,880 --> 00:41:21,880 which I never thought I would do. 702 00:41:21,960 --> 00:41:25,680 What this has made me feel is we need to fight for equality 703 00:41:25,760 --> 00:41:27,480 and pleasure more than ever. 704 00:41:27,560 --> 00:41:30,600 We deserve equal pleasure. We deserve orgasms! 705 00:41:30,680 --> 00:41:32,040 Who doesn't want that? 706 00:41:32,120 --> 00:41:34,440 There is all this pleasure right there 707 00:41:34,520 --> 00:41:36,200 and it's still left unexplored. 708 00:41:37,360 --> 00:41:40,120 Having a clitoris is a super power. 709 00:41:40,200 --> 00:41:44,080 So let's become superheroes and shout it from the rooftops! 710 00:41:44,600 --> 00:41:45,920 Vaginas! 711 00:41:48,000 --> 00:41:53,000 - Synced and corrected by chamallow - - www.MY-SUBS.com - 59025

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