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(birds chirping)
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- Ugh!
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Morris, for your information,
Snoozy's mine!
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You're being a burglar.
Say burglar.
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- Viv, Mommy gave Snoozy
to Morris to help him
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get excited for potty training.
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- Why do you call
yourself Mommy?
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- I... don't know.
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Did you brush your teeth?
- No.
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- Go on, I asked
you three times.
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- Ugh!
(music plays through headphones)
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- Oh, well, well, well,
if it isn't Mr.--
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- Can I have coffee?
- Scruffy head.
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Ah! Blew my timing.
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It was not my best.
- What are you saying?
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- Felix, go brush your hair.
It looks like you got
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a scalp massage.
- I can't hear you.
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- Remove the headphones.
- Dude, take the headphones off.
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(music stops)
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- Okay, I'm going upstairs now.
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- He really needs
to work on his sarcasm.
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- I mean, what was that?
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(Astrid): A big part
of parenting
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is second-guessing
your parenting.
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(James): In avoiding
your parents' mistakes,
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sometimes the pendulum swings
too far the other way.
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(Astrid): Right.
My parents were hands off,
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but maybe I've been
too smothering?
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(James): Mm-hmm, my parents
were too strict.
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And I let the kids
call me "stinky daddy".
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(Astrid): Oh, I came up with
stinky daddy, so uh, that's on
me.
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I'm not loving this tween
attitude on Felix.
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I mean, I'm all for rejecting
authority, just not mine.
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- Yeah. Viv's seeing
a psychologist,
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Morris won't poop in a bucket.
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Are we screwing things up?
- What? No!
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We got this.
We're good parents.
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- Hmm.
(Morris growls)
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- Guys, Morris has
an egg and a knife.
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- How did he get the knife?
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I thought we were out of eggs.
(Morris squeals)
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- Come here, come here. Oh!
- Morris, come here!
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James, the knife, get the knife.
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- Okay, you get the egg.
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(Morris babbles)
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Did you get to fill out
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Viv's ADHD questionnaire
for her session today?
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- No.
I haven't started it.
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But there's-there's time.
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- The ADHD assessment
is a complex
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and involved process
that really wants us
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to fill out like,
a lot of little circles.
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- Viv is six. I asked her
how she's feeling today,
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she said, "Unicorn".
What answers is she
telling the doctor?
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- Well, Shauna would know.
She's a professional
psychologist.
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I'm sure she knows
what Viv means...
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- Shauna.
- ...when she says unicorn.
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- Oh, Shauna.
- It's just a name.
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- I mean, she overpronounces
her words.
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Thinking-G, feeling-G.
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I don't need to hear
the "G" in "ing".
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- Okay.
- Thank you. All right.
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- "Forgets what they're doing,
never, rarely, often, always."
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- I mean, who doesn't forget
what they're doing?
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I forget what I'm doing
in the shower sometimes.
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- You're probably avoiding
the children.
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But Viv forgets what
she's doing often.
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- See, I would say sometimes.
This is it.
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How is a questionnaire
gonna assess Viv?
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We're giving different answers.
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Now, I have been doing
some reading
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about child behaviour and--
- What, wait, when?
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- Okay. I've been following
parenting accounts on Instagram.
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- I love Instagram.
So many good TikToks on there.
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- Viv has trouble
with transitions,
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so why don't we support her
by giving her a simple
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heads up when
a transition's coming?
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Viv, we're leaving
in five minutes!
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- I can't find
my colouring book!
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- Why don't you stop
looking for it in two?
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- What was I looking for?
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- Okay, go ahead,
put me down for an often.
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- Yeah, I'm gonna go
ahead and do that.
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(curious music)
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- You wanna show me your
drawings while we wait?
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- No. Why do we
keep coming here?
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- Well, sweetie,
Shauna is like a doctor
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but for your thoughts
and feelings.
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So, this is just a normal
checkup, but for your brain.
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- When can we get a dog?
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- Okay, you're not
even listening.
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- Shauna!
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I did the drawings
I told you about.
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- Exciting-G!
While I was waiting-G for you,
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I got your cocoa, Viv.
- Sorry we're late again.
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Traffic was stupid.
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- Ugh, Toronto traffic
is maddening-G.
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- Yeah. Hey um, can I talk
to you for a moment?
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Uh, so I was just wondering
how the evaluation was going?
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You know, Viv doesn't
really tell us much.
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What she does share
is sometimes made up,
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you know, she's invisible,
or she's the president
of the driveway, or...
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I'm wondering is the information
you're getting reliable?
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- I am getting-G information
from a lot of sources,
including-G, you.
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Have you done your
questionnaires?
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- Yeah, I finished 'em.
Sorry they took so long.
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- Oh!
- They are...
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- Okay.
- Sorry, that one
has coffee on it.
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And butter.
Can I just ask,
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how do you know what's ADHD
and what's just like, a kid?
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- I promise, I know
what I'm doing-G.
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(Astrid sighs)
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- Oh, so close!
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- So close.
Can that be the last one?
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- Go for the Kawhi bounce.
Check this out.
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Is this the dagger?
(James groans)
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Hey, how come you're
so boring today?
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- I'm just trying to figure out
what these Gero benefits get me.
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- I'll tell you what they do
not cover is electrolysis.
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And electrolysis is not
what I thought it was.
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- We think Viv might have ADHD.
Or I do.
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Astrid thinks she's too
young to be diagnosed.
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- When I was a kid,
I was diagnosed as gifted.
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- Oh.
- I wasn't.
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- Oh no? You...
- The real gifted kids
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would bully me in Latin.
It was no bueno .
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Really did a number on my head.
Just be careful.
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- The building is on fire!
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- 'K, so we should
leave then, yeah?
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- Not literally on fire.
But the flames of progress
will scorch us.
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You know Yennefer
from The Witcher?
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- I... do not.
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- That kind of fire.
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- 'K, well, speaking
of being burned,
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I'm trying to figure out
these Gero benefits and
I was wondering--
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- This is no time to book
a foot massage, James.
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Mr. Gero has hired Fintekoaly
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to automate checkouts
at Gero's Groceries.
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We could be next.
- What is Fintekoaly?
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- They're a tech company
from Finland.
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(clicks tongue)
- Okay, that checks out.
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- Gero's wants to replace us
with software.
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We will fight
the rise of machines.
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We'll eat at our desks, work
through breaks, wear diapers.
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- Oh.
- We are gonna outsmart
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their artificial intelligence.
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(footsteps thud away)
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(hands clap sharply)
Get to work, Beth!
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- Oof.
- Starting to feel
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a lot like my gifted days.
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- How many days was that?
- Like, four.
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(curious music)
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- Man jugglers.
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Okay, like some jugglers are
impressive because of danger,
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like they're juggling axes
or fire.
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Oh, uh, you don't have to take
notes for this, by the way.
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- Oh, I'm not.
I stopped listening
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after you said street magicians
are important.
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Just trying to discredit
all of child psychology.
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- Is this for work?
- Uh, no.
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I'll finish my work later,
after I start it.
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I'm trying to find if this
doctor has any bad reviews,
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or pharmaceutical ties,
or recorded Karen moments.
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- I've got an update.
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I have an address, tax records,
and I'm her LinkedIn friend.
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I'm really starting
to understand this woman.
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- Okay, I'm looking for some
dirt, not to steal her identity.
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- Oh, she's so good.
You'd be surprised
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how many times
she's catfished me.
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- Is it 15?
- It's 15!
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- What have you learned
about Shauna?
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Illegitimate degree?
History of fraud?
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Is she always wrong?
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- She's well liked,
respected, and she donates
to a donkey rescue.
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- Aw.
- I know.
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But maybe I can find some
dirt on her Spotify.
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- Ooh!
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(James): Sometimes,
we need to have like,
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a private conversation
in front of our children.
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(Astrid): So, we have
to speak in a coded language
we call Parentuguese.
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- You guys get it too.
End pieces still avail.
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So, I understand
how somebody could think
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they have the thing,
but not actually have the thing.
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- What thing?
- Felix, finish your dinner.
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Viv, come on, sit down, please.
Sit down and finish your dinner.
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I was also thinking
about the thing.
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- Gus' parents let him
drink mochaccinos.
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- That's insane.
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So, at first I thought
S was BS,
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but I did some digging
and it turns out
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that S knows everything there
is to know about the thing.
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Now, S does really like
the Red Hot Chili Peppers,
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but I'm willing
to let that one go.
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- You know, Ennis
thought he had a thing
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and he didn't have it.
- Huh?
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- I mean, it's not the same
thing, but like, still.
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- Can I get a thing?
- Can it be a dog?
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- Viv, back in your seat.
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I asked you twice already.
- Ugh.
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- You know, everyone I work
with has some form of the thing.
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And they all say that S is
the best thing for the thing.
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- Gus says mochaccinos are lit.
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- Gus says the cutest things
I've ever heard.
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(laughing)
- Wow, wow, wow, wow.
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- Viv, back in your seat.
Sit down.
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- Why doesn't Morris have
to sit at the table?
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- Well, because Morris
is in a high chair.
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- He's gone.
- What?
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- He's got the knife
and egg again.
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- What? How?
Where does he keep
finding the eggs?
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- Thank you for being-G on time.
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- We are looking forward
to diving in and listening.
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And also talking,
where appropriate.
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We're-we're great. Thank you
for... You didn't ask.
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I-I'm sorry, I'm just a little
nervous because the...
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See, my mother left me
when I was young.
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- Yeah, ah, ah, ah, ah.
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I see you nudging
in your own trauma, Mr. Sneaky.
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We're here to talk
about Viv today.
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- Yes, you're right.
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I'll just stuff that back...
back, back, back down.
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- Um, we're really
looking forward to hearing
your expert opinion.
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- So, Viv definitely has ADHD.
- Says who?
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- My comprehensive
clinical assessment.
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- Uh, yeah, no,
we're... we're listening.
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- Yes. So, she is so bright
and personable, okay?
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She is very advanced in reading,
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she has great humour
and empathy.
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But as you can see,
here is the typical range
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of behaviour for a kid
her age, okay?
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And these spikes here
show where she is classically
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a clinical ADHD kid.
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Difficulty with
executive functions.
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I know the charts
can be confusing.
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- No, I look at charts
all day, so I, yeah, I see.
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(soft music)
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- Okay.
So, we'll put her in therapy,
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um, once a month or once a week.
- You could.
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I don't know how much help
that would be at her age.
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I would highly recommend meds.
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I think you will notice
a huge difference
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once we get the correct dosage.
- I'm sorry, no, no.
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Absolutely not.
- Well, we said we would listen
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to the expert's advice.
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- But this is brain
altering meds.
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(sighs)
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- Okay, you have
a tough decision
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hanging-G over you,
so let's discuss it.
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- Oh, we're gonna discuss it
so you can talk us into drugs
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like we're at one of your
Chili Pepper concerts?
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I don't think so.
- All right.
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Do you have a method
for making tough decisions?
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- Ahem.
- We tend to do
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a little bit of a "rock, paper,
scissors" kinda thing.
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That we...
- Which we would never do
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in a situation like this.
- No, we would not do...
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- Because the stakes
are so much higher.
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- Right.
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(curious music)
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- Here we go.
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(both): Pancakes!
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- Yes, this is a remix
version of Mommy's famous
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buttermilk pancakes with no
sugar, or flour, or buttermilk.
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- What?
- Hmm, and what will this solve?
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- Well, according
to my research--
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- Social media sites?
- Yes, highly reputable
Momfluencers.
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- Right, right, right.
- There are certain ingredients
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that trigger ADHD symptoms
more than others,
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so kids love pancakes,
they're obviously never gonna
taste the difference.
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This is egg, banana,
and they're good, I think.
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- M'kay.
- This tastes like punishment.
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- No, instead of being light
and fluffy like a pancake,
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these are wet and squishy, mm,
like a... mistake.
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(Morris babbles)
(pancake flops to floor)
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- Can I have some maple syrup?
- I don't know.
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Does it have sugar in it?
- I hope so.
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- I'll just have toast.
- Okay, let's wrap it up.
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Come on, guys,
you're gonna be late. Let's go.
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But the toast.
- Come on, come on.
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- Go on, go on.
- Let's go, let's go, let's go.
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I know there are studies
about how ADHD meds work.
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How many weird pancake
studies are there?
283
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- We don't even know
what the drugs do.
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What if they make her
a zombie or not Viv?
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(Morris babbles)
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- Ah, time for a change.
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What's all this about?
- Oh, I decided to try
that tapas place.
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- Well, isn't tapas
like a bunch of little
shared plates for sharing?
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- Yeah, but I got
the bachelor's tapas.
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It's like a bunch of one-night
stands for your mouth.
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And I won't be calling
any of them back.
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What do you have there?
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00:11:40,399 --> 00:11:42,835
- Oh, I've got a cold,
grey pancake. Wanna share?
294
00:11:42,902 --> 00:11:44,570
- Did your kids
make that for you?
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00:11:44,637 --> 00:11:47,406
Is it Father's Day?
Oh, I gotta text my dad.
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- No, Viv's got ADHD and
the doctor's recommending meds
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and Astrid's not into it.
So, we're trying this thing
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where we remove the joy from
our food to see if that helps.
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- Pff.
- So, if an optometrist
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tells you that you need glasses,
you'd say,
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"Thanks for the advice, Doc,
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00:12:00,419 --> 00:12:02,188
but I think I'll try an enema."
(scoffs)
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Stupid.
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00:12:03,422 --> 00:12:04,757
- What do you know
about it, Beth?
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00:12:04,824 --> 00:12:06,258
- Yeah, Beth, what do you know?
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- Try "everything".
I happen to have ADHD,
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unlike you two goons. And IBS.
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And sometimes depression,
astigmatism, fibromyalgia,
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and I'm prone
to getting carsickly.
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I've been on meds
practically my whole life.
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I wouldn't be here
today without them.
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- So, do your ADHD meds,
do they like,
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turn you into a zombie, at all,
or like, extinguish your spark?
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- Sorry, what do I look like,
"Girl, Interrupted"?
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00:12:29,615 --> 00:12:31,951
Do you guys even know
what I do on the weekends?
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Hello? I'm a majorette!
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You ever seen a zombie
twirl a baton?
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Eh, no.
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- What's the deal, she can just
hear everything we're saying?
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- Are we screaming?
We're being quiet, right?
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00:12:42,561 --> 00:12:43,829
- It's acoustics,
is that the deal?
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- Look, if you're so worried
about side effects,
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00:12:45,731 --> 00:12:47,800
why not test them out
on yourself first.
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These wear off
after like, eight hours.
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(curious music)
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- Uh, I'm so sorry.
This is all I had.
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I didn't know you'd be
joining us for lunch, Astrid.
328
00:13:03,115 --> 00:13:05,417
- I haven't seen you
since your trip to Europe.
329
00:13:05,484 --> 00:13:06,919
- I've been practicing
on Duolingo.
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I was able to fire people
in four languages.
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Sei licenziato, Tommaso
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- I'm sure that felt very
authentic to Tommaso.
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- Grazie.
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00:13:17,763 --> 00:13:19,298
- Astrid, do you
have a headache?
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00:13:19,365 --> 00:13:20,966
Oh, you look like
you have a headache.
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00:13:21,033 --> 00:13:22,501
That face you're making.
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00:13:22,902 --> 00:13:25,604
- Nope.
(sighing)
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Viv's doctor wants us
to give her meds,
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which James agrees with,
which is crazy, right?
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00:13:30,342 --> 00:13:34,213
- Totally crazy. I hear
reiki and exercise are best.
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- You can't sweat out ADHD.
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00:13:36,115 --> 00:13:38,017
Do you remember Barb Huang,
our vet, who developed
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Foreign Accent Syndrome
right after her dental surgery?
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00:13:40,653 --> 00:13:43,289
- She wasn't really Irish?
- Her daughter had terrible
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psoriasis until
she started taking anti-organ
rejecting pills.
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- Mom, that's not
the same thing.
347
00:13:48,427 --> 00:13:50,095
- Why? It's medicine
and it helped her.
348
00:13:50,162 --> 00:13:51,997
Take it from a nurse,
drugs work.
349
00:13:52,064 --> 00:13:55,201
(door closing)
- Hey, sorry I am late.
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00:13:55,267 --> 00:13:58,938
I was recruiting some hotshot
crocheters at a retirement home.
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00:13:59,004 --> 00:14:02,775
- Bo, when you had your mental
breakdown, did you take drugs?
352
00:14:02,842 --> 00:14:05,077
- Thanks for
bringing it up. Yes.
353
00:14:05,144 --> 00:14:07,313
- Oh.
- But they didn't work.
354
00:14:07,379 --> 00:14:11,617
Meditation, peyote,
and a trip to Joshua Tree
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00:14:11,684 --> 00:14:13,819
was what realigned my life.
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00:14:14,486 --> 00:14:16,488
- The right meds are effective.
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00:14:16,555 --> 00:14:18,023
- But with side effects.
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00:14:18,090 --> 00:14:20,926
- Stop complicating
this with nuance.
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00:14:21,527 --> 00:14:24,196
Okay, I should go.
- Okay.
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00:14:25,097 --> 00:14:26,765
- Can I take some
of this meat home?
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00:14:26,832 --> 00:14:28,634
- I'll get you a doggy bag.
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00:14:28,701 --> 00:14:30,736
(curious music)
363
00:14:30,803 --> 00:14:33,205
- My mouth is so dry.
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00:14:33,839 --> 00:14:35,274
Ennis?
365
00:14:35,774 --> 00:14:37,643
You feel a bit clammy,
a bit headachey?
366
00:14:37,710 --> 00:14:39,545
- Actually, I've never felt
quite so clear in my life.
367
00:14:39,612 --> 00:14:41,547
I don't know why I was avoiding
doing work for so long.
368
00:14:41,614 --> 00:14:43,916
It is very interesting,
and a little bit fun.
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00:14:43,983 --> 00:14:47,152
- My stomach hurts.
I don't think Beth's meds
are agreeing with me.
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00:14:47,620 --> 00:14:50,522
- Gentlemen. Thank you
for taking the threat
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00:14:50,589 --> 00:14:53,525
of Fintekoaly seriously
and working so hard today.
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00:14:53,592 --> 00:14:55,294
- Marla, I am in the zone.
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00:14:55,361 --> 00:14:57,263
- You're gonna have to stay
in the zone for the next
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00:14:57,329 --> 00:14:59,265
few months at least.
I'm proud of you, Ennis.
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00:14:59,331 --> 00:15:01,333
(man): Proud of him?
His parents aren't
even proud of him.
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00:15:01,400 --> 00:15:03,269
- What are you looking at?
Get back to work.
377
00:15:04,069 --> 00:15:06,171
- How's the science experiment
going, boys?
378
00:15:06,238 --> 00:15:07,706
- I feel gross.
- Well, that'll teach you
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00:15:07,773 --> 00:15:09,241
to take meds that
aren't prescribed for you.
380
00:15:09,308 --> 00:15:10,843
- You're the one
who said it was okay.
381
00:15:10,910 --> 00:15:12,945
- Hey, how long does
this medication take
before it wears off?
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00:15:13,012 --> 00:15:15,314
I'd like to go pick up some of
those intellectual babes in HR
383
00:15:15,381 --> 00:15:17,549
before I turn back
into a pineapple.
384
00:15:18,384 --> 00:15:20,786
- Ooh, I think it might have
already happened, my man.
385
00:15:21,253 --> 00:15:23,756
- Oh.
- There he is.
386
00:15:23,822 --> 00:15:25,858
- Oh, I've just been
typing gibberish.
387
00:15:34,333 --> 00:15:36,435
- You awake?
- Yeah.
388
00:15:36,502 --> 00:15:39,438
I'm just thinking about
all the ways we could
screw up Viv's life,
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00:15:39,505 --> 00:15:41,674
before I close my eyes and have
actual nightmares about it.
390
00:15:41,740 --> 00:15:44,877
- I know! I can't figure it
out either. I feel awful.
391
00:15:44,944 --> 00:15:46,578
But also, I might be coming down
392
00:15:46,645 --> 00:15:48,280
from those ADHD meds,
so I'm not sure.
393
00:15:48,347 --> 00:15:49,782
- So, after being a guinea pig,
394
00:15:49,848 --> 00:15:51,083
you still wanna give her
the meds?
395
00:15:51,150 --> 00:15:53,919
- I don't know,
I don't know, I don't know.
396
00:15:53,986 --> 00:15:56,755
(sighs)
Maybe they'll help her?
397
00:15:56,822 --> 00:15:58,257
- Yeah.
398
00:15:58,324 --> 00:16:00,960
I know, it just feels so wrong.
399
00:16:01,026 --> 00:16:03,963
- Hi. I can't sleep.
400
00:16:04,029 --> 00:16:08,434
I think it's because
I took a sip of Dad's
coffee this morning.
401
00:16:09,068 --> 00:16:11,136
- I didn't give it to him.
You know how many half-finished
402
00:16:11,203 --> 00:16:12,638
cups of coffee
we leave around here?
403
00:16:12,705 --> 00:16:15,474
(Astrid sighs)
- Is Viv sick?
404
00:16:15,541 --> 00:16:18,143
I heard you guys talking
about medicine.
405
00:16:18,210 --> 00:16:20,713
- No, everything's fine, pal.
406
00:16:20,779 --> 00:16:24,116
- Yeah, I mean, there are
some geopolitical problems
happening globally.
407
00:16:24,183 --> 00:16:25,918
- James.
- Yeah.
408
00:16:25,985 --> 00:16:27,553
- Viv got moved
to the front of the class
409
00:16:27,619 --> 00:16:29,421
at school for being
a distraction.
410
00:16:29,488 --> 00:16:32,358
She thinks she's in trouble.
- She's not in trouble.
411
00:16:32,424 --> 00:16:34,460
Everything is fine, pal.
- Mm-hmm.
412
00:16:34,526 --> 00:16:37,863
You're a good brother
for being worried about
your sister, you know that?
413
00:16:37,930 --> 00:16:39,365
Come here.
414
00:16:39,431 --> 00:16:41,166
Eh, there we go, there we go.
415
00:16:41,233 --> 00:16:43,969
There it is, there it is.
(groans)
416
00:16:44,036 --> 00:16:47,740
Put an arm up, there.
- Oh, okay, okay. Yeah.
417
00:16:47,806 --> 00:16:49,641
- Okay, okay.
(groans)
418
00:16:49,708 --> 00:16:51,610
- Can I listen to a podcast?
419
00:16:51,677 --> 00:16:53,145
- Uh, no, you can go to bed.
420
00:16:53,212 --> 00:16:55,381
But I will not check on you
for 10 minutes.
421
00:16:59,251 --> 00:17:02,654
He hugged back.
- Still our little guy.
422
00:17:02,721 --> 00:17:05,290
- Yeah.
- Stinks a bit.
423
00:17:05,991 --> 00:17:07,826
(ping-pong ball bouncing)
424
00:17:07,893 --> 00:17:08,761
- Ah, man!
425
00:17:08,827 --> 00:17:09,762
- One!
- Oh!
426
00:17:09,828 --> 00:17:11,397
(cheering)
Oh, my God!
427
00:17:11,463 --> 00:17:13,499
- Morris is down for his nap
which gives us between
428
00:17:13,565 --> 00:17:16,335
10 and 200 minutes
to play a board game
or shoot a movie trailer.
429
00:17:16,402 --> 00:17:18,937
- Movie trailer!
- Viv, what do you wanna do?
430
00:17:19,004 --> 00:17:20,939
- Uh, I didn't hear
what you said.
431
00:17:21,006 --> 00:17:23,175
That's okay, um...
- That's okay.
432
00:17:23,242 --> 00:17:24,576
- Seriously?
433
00:17:24,643 --> 00:17:27,613
This is why I keep getting
in trouble at school.
434
00:17:27,679 --> 00:17:30,149
Why do I keep doing this?!
- Hey, hey.
435
00:17:30,215 --> 00:17:32,051
You're not in trouble, kiddo.
436
00:17:33,085 --> 00:17:34,620
(sighing)
437
00:17:34,686 --> 00:17:36,989
Um, okay.
438
00:17:37,556 --> 00:17:39,491
So, Viv, remember when
you went to see Shauna,
439
00:17:39,558 --> 00:17:42,327
you guys were playing the games?
- And drink hot chocolate.
440
00:17:42,394 --> 00:17:46,799
- She learned something
about you that might um,
change things a bit.
441
00:17:47,366 --> 00:17:51,970
- Viv, you have ADHD.
- It's a totally normal thing.
442
00:17:52,805 --> 00:17:55,140
- It just means that your brain
works a bit differently.
443
00:17:55,207 --> 00:17:57,309
- I know that.
Four kids in my class have it.
444
00:17:57,376 --> 00:17:58,977
- Six kids in my class have it.
445
00:17:59,044 --> 00:18:02,748
And this one kid has anxiety.
And this other kid has red hair.
446
00:18:03,882 --> 00:18:07,719
- Okay. Um, do you have
any questions?
447
00:18:07,786 --> 00:18:10,622
- Do you know if egg rolls
have eggs in them?
448
00:18:10,689 --> 00:18:13,292
- Okay, I think she's handling
this pretty well.
449
00:18:13,358 --> 00:18:15,294
- Can I be done the meeting?
- Me too.
450
00:18:15,360 --> 00:18:17,596
- Okay.
- Okay, kids, yeah.
451
00:18:19,765 --> 00:18:21,400
They handled that better
than we did.
452
00:18:21,467 --> 00:18:23,902
- Oh, we are handling it great.
(James sighs)
453
00:18:23,969 --> 00:18:27,072
Just trying to help Viv
navigate a thing that
we barely understand.
454
00:18:27,139 --> 00:18:29,174
- Yeah, but I actually have an
idea that'll help Viv navigate,
455
00:18:29,241 --> 00:18:31,710
that you're not gonna like.
- Is it pills?
456
00:18:31,777 --> 00:18:33,612
- It's worse?
457
00:18:35,013 --> 00:18:39,017
- Sometimes, you ask yourself,
am I doing something wrong-G.
458
00:18:39,084 --> 00:18:41,987
No! The frontal lobe
is responsible
459
00:18:42,054 --> 00:18:43,822
for our executive
functions, okay?
460
00:18:43,889 --> 00:18:46,058
And is underdeveloped
in people with ADHD.
461
00:18:46,125 --> 00:18:48,093
So, it is the parents' job
462
00:18:48,160 --> 00:18:51,864
to act as the executive
functioning-G for the child.
463
00:18:51,930 --> 00:18:55,267
The brain continues
to develop until age 28.
464
00:18:55,334 --> 00:18:56,602
- That, that actually
makes sense
465
00:18:56,668 --> 00:18:58,937
because I was very
self-destructive until I was 28.
466
00:18:59,004 --> 00:19:00,606
Which is about the time
my mother came back--
467
00:19:00,672 --> 00:19:02,307
- No, no, no.
Mommy, no.
468
00:19:02,374 --> 00:19:05,110
- Yep, yep, yep.
- But destruction can lead
469
00:19:05,177 --> 00:19:07,012
to a very rough road.
470
00:19:07,079 --> 00:19:10,349
But also breeds creation.
471
00:19:10,415 --> 00:19:12,484
You know who said that?
472
00:19:12,551 --> 00:19:14,720
Red Hot Chili Peppers.
473
00:19:14,786 --> 00:19:17,456
- Yeah, they also said
Catholic schoolgirls rule.
474
00:19:17,523 --> 00:19:19,458
Pretty gross.
- Okay, we don't...
475
00:19:19,525 --> 00:19:21,994
we don't need to...
- All right, I'm gonna give you
476
00:19:22,060 --> 00:19:27,799
some tools and techniques
to help Viv realize
her full potential.
477
00:19:27,866 --> 00:19:30,936
The first technique
is called scaffolding-G.
478
00:19:31,470 --> 00:19:32,938
Scaffolding-G.
479
00:19:33,005 --> 00:19:37,075
Okay, so you take all of
the things in your house.
480
00:19:37,142 --> 00:19:39,144
(Astrid): It's a good thing kids
don't need perfect parents,
481
00:19:39,211 --> 00:19:40,579
because there aren't any.
(James): Exactly.
482
00:19:40,646 --> 00:19:42,781
I let Felix watch
part of a John Wick movie
483
00:19:42,848 --> 00:19:44,716
before bed once
and he was not ready.
484
00:19:44,783 --> 00:19:46,451
(Astrid): What?
Why did you do that, James?
485
00:19:46,518 --> 00:19:48,020
Of course he wasn't
ready for John Wick.
486
00:19:48,086 --> 00:19:51,223
(James): I'm just illustrating
that we are not perfect.
487
00:19:51,290 --> 00:19:52,524
- Oh, yeah!
488
00:19:52,591 --> 00:19:54,126
(James): Anyway, you learn
from your mistakes.
489
00:19:54,193 --> 00:19:55,928
(Astrid): And what you do learn
is mostly useless
490
00:19:55,994 --> 00:19:58,163
for the next kid 'cause they're
a completely different person.
491
00:19:58,230 --> 00:20:00,232
(James): But you get better
at learning.
492
00:20:06,438 --> 00:20:07,940
- No way!
- We're thinking of unionizing.
493
00:20:08,006 --> 00:20:10,075
- Oh wow, is that possible?
- Yeah, well, if there wasn't
494
00:20:10,142 --> 00:20:12,077
people dragging us back,
like Brenda.
495
00:20:12,144 --> 00:20:13,845
Brenda, who steals
peoples' routines.
496
00:20:13,912 --> 00:20:15,747
And her routine
is really hack,
497
00:20:15,814 --> 00:20:18,250
even though she stole it
from me. It wasn't hack
when I was doing it.
498
00:20:18,317 --> 00:20:20,219
- Like, she wrecked it
because she stole it from you?
499
00:20:20,285 --> 00:20:22,287
- Yeah, because she's putting
her Brenda spin on it.
500
00:20:22,354 --> 00:20:25,390
You know what?
It's really actually getting
really dramatic around there.
501
00:20:25,457 --> 00:20:27,092
And you'd think, with all
the batons twirling around,
502
00:20:27,159 --> 00:20:29,194
there'd be a few more
broken legs, but there's not.
503
00:20:29,261 --> 00:20:31,763
But there will be.
- You know...
504
00:20:33,832 --> 00:20:36,268
Lunch has been over for hours.
505
00:20:37,436 --> 00:20:40,639
- But anyway, Gail, my mentor.
She's gonna get us to nationals.
506
00:20:40,706 --> 00:20:42,407
- Right. Is she the one
that went missing?
507
00:20:42,474 --> 00:20:44,476
- No, that was my first mentor.
- Sorry.
508
00:20:44,543 --> 00:20:45,744
- And I have been
cleared for that.
509
00:20:45,811 --> 00:20:47,012
I've got an alibi.
- I believe you.
510
00:20:47,079 --> 00:20:49,047
- I shouldn't say too much here.
- Okay.
511
00:20:49,114 --> 00:20:52,351
♪♪
512
00:21:21,079 --> 00:21:23,248
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