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Would you like to inspect the original subtitles? These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: 1 00:00:30,914 --> 00:00:33,000 Sam and drew... 2 00:00:35,890 --> 00:00:39,020 There are so many things I want to teach you, 3 00:00:39,090 --> 00:00:43,403 so much advice that fathers pass down to sons, 4 00:00:43,474 --> 00:00:46,883 but if you hear one thing from me... 5 00:00:46,953 --> 00:00:49,840 Hear this-- 6 00:00:49,910 --> 00:00:51,788 You are loved. 7 00:01:12,351 --> 00:01:14,055 My husband, 8 00:01:14,126 --> 00:01:15,794 the father of my two sons, 9 00:01:15,865 --> 00:01:17,290 the love of my life, 10 00:01:17,361 --> 00:01:20,213 died on Christmas day. 11 00:01:20,284 --> 00:01:23,797 He had been sick for two years. 12 00:01:37,088 --> 00:01:40,183 What are you guys doing under here, huh? 13 00:01:41,576 --> 00:01:43,454 Come here. 14 00:01:43,524 --> 00:01:46,307 Come here. I love you so much. 15 00:01:46,378 --> 00:01:48,499 It's gonna be okay, okay? 16 00:01:51,144 --> 00:01:52,639 The earth kept turning 17 00:01:52,709 --> 00:01:54,309 and life went on around us 18 00:01:54,379 --> 00:01:56,013 as though nothing had changed. 19 00:01:56,084 --> 00:01:57,997 But, for me... 20 00:01:58,068 --> 00:02:00,397 Everything had changed. 21 00:02:01,268 --> 00:02:04,538 "Where did he go?" I kept asking myself. 22 00:02:04,608 --> 00:02:07,078 I couldn't reconcile his absence 23 00:02:07,147 --> 00:02:08,330 in my brain. 24 00:02:08,401 --> 00:02:10,730 I wanted to know-- Where did he go? 25 00:02:10,801 --> 00:02:13,444 I felt lost and alone in my own home. 26 00:02:23,430 --> 00:02:26,074 This is harder than it looks. 27 00:02:26,145 --> 00:02:27,256 Ouch. 28 00:02:27,327 --> 00:02:28,091 What? 29 00:02:29,172 --> 00:02:30,319 Just joking. 30 00:02:30,388 --> 00:02:32,510 You're doing a great job. 31 00:02:32,580 --> 00:02:34,250 You rat. 32 00:02:34,320 --> 00:02:37,346 You scared me. 33 00:02:42,705 --> 00:02:44,896 Thank you for taking care of me. 34 00:02:44,967 --> 00:02:47,853 Thank you for letting me take care of you. 35 00:02:51,925 --> 00:02:53,420 Peach? 36 00:02:55,508 --> 00:02:57,421 I can't die on Christmas. 37 00:02:59,996 --> 00:03:02,571 You'll go when you're called. 38 00:03:04,554 --> 00:03:06,571 But I don't think that's today. 39 00:03:07,616 --> 00:03:09,494 Okay? 40 00:03:42,477 --> 00:03:44,738 Happy new year's, pattie. 41 00:03:44,809 --> 00:03:46,094 Are you getting ready for your trip? 42 00:03:46,165 --> 00:03:47,521 Oh! Yes. It's gonna be great. 43 00:03:56,186 --> 00:03:57,715 How are you, Gina? 44 00:03:57,785 --> 00:03:59,350 We want to have you and the boys over 45 00:03:59,421 --> 00:04:00,638 for dinner, okay? 46 00:04:00,708 --> 00:04:02,551 Thank you. 47 00:04:02,621 --> 00:04:04,429 Come on, guys. 48 00:04:05,497 --> 00:04:07,374 Good morning, kell family. 49 00:04:07,445 --> 00:04:10,192 I just wish people would stop doing that. 50 00:04:10,263 --> 00:04:11,341 They care about you. 51 00:04:11,411 --> 00:04:13,601 They just don't know what else to do. 52 00:04:13,672 --> 00:04:16,281 I know, and it's-- I'm so grateful. I just... i-- 53 00:04:16,351 --> 00:04:18,438 Have you-- have you found a replacement for pattie yet? 54 00:04:18,508 --> 00:04:20,595 No, not yet. 55 00:04:20,666 --> 00:04:22,334 Well, I was thinking about applying for the job. 56 00:04:22,405 --> 00:04:24,561 It'd be great to be busy, 57 00:04:24,632 --> 00:04:28,041 and I could be here just in case my boys need me. 58 00:04:28,111 --> 00:04:29,502 You'd be perfect. 59 00:04:29,573 --> 00:04:31,241 Frankly, we'd be lucky to have you. 60 00:04:32,426 --> 00:04:34,546 Okay, boys, let's go. 61 00:04:36,983 --> 00:04:38,269 Bye, guys. 62 00:04:42,746 --> 00:04:44,902 Okay! Hurry up. Go straight to your room. 63 00:04:44,972 --> 00:04:46,711 How can I possibly be late? 64 00:04:46,781 --> 00:04:47,963 I only hit the snooze button twice 65 00:04:48,034 --> 00:04:49,250 and I made instant coffee, 66 00:04:49,321 --> 00:04:51,095 which, by the way, tastes like a brown crayon. 67 00:04:51,166 --> 00:04:52,243 Sorry. 68 00:04:52,314 --> 00:04:53,704 What can I do to help? 69 00:04:53,774 --> 00:04:54,991 Please just give me something to do 70 00:04:55,062 --> 00:04:56,397 so that I do not feel so useless. 71 00:04:56,419 --> 00:04:58,679 Oh, you've already done so much. 72 00:04:58,749 --> 00:05:00,106 Oh, you know what? 73 00:05:00,177 --> 00:05:02,367 There is something you can do. 74 00:05:02,437 --> 00:05:04,211 I want to stop the meal delivery service. 75 00:05:04,282 --> 00:05:06,785 I cannot look at that red cooler on my porch another day. 76 00:05:06,856 --> 00:05:09,256 I can whip out a text, 77 00:05:09,326 --> 00:05:11,239 blast a Facebook post and a tweet, 78 00:05:11,310 --> 00:05:12,352 before you can even stop me. 79 00:05:12,423 --> 00:05:13,744 Thanks. 80 00:05:13,814 --> 00:05:15,275 I just, I want to cook for the boys, 81 00:05:15,345 --> 00:05:16,876 I want things to be as normal as possible. 82 00:05:16,946 --> 00:05:18,998 Of course you do. 83 00:05:19,068 --> 00:05:21,433 They've been so brave. 84 00:05:22,478 --> 00:05:23,868 Please don't cry. 85 00:05:23,939 --> 00:05:25,330 I am not crying. I can't cry. 86 00:05:25,400 --> 00:05:28,009 I am too dehydrated from a lack of caffeine. 87 00:05:29,506 --> 00:05:31,383 Let's go get some coffee. 88 00:05:31,454 --> 00:05:33,540 Yeah. That'd be great. 89 00:05:33,611 --> 00:05:35,245 See you later, pattie! 90 00:05:35,316 --> 00:05:36,323 Bye, you guys! 91 00:05:36,394 --> 00:05:37,367 Bye-bye. 92 00:05:44,905 --> 00:05:47,757 Lesson one. 93 00:05:47,828 --> 00:05:49,636 Always tell the truth. 94 00:05:49,707 --> 00:05:52,246 Be an honest man. 95 00:05:52,316 --> 00:05:54,159 Let your words stand for something. 96 00:05:54,229 --> 00:05:58,403 It isn't always easy to tell the truth, 97 00:05:58,474 --> 00:06:00,039 but, in the long run, 98 00:06:00,109 --> 00:06:01,534 you'll find it's the only way 99 00:06:01,605 --> 00:06:04,597 to live a happy, peaceful life. 100 00:06:22,967 --> 00:06:25,472 Now, everything works around this main calendar. 101 00:06:25,542 --> 00:06:27,559 Red is for national holidays, 102 00:06:27,629 --> 00:06:28,950 green is for religious holidays, 103 00:06:29,021 --> 00:06:31,073 yellow is for half-days and teacher conferences, 104 00:06:31,143 --> 00:06:33,057 and white is for school assemblies. 105 00:06:33,126 --> 00:06:35,213 After each teacher takes attendance, 106 00:06:35,284 --> 00:06:37,893 they will send you their list so you know who's absent 107 00:06:37,962 --> 00:06:41,545 and you record it... here. 108 00:06:42,903 --> 00:06:44,711 I always like to wait a little while, 109 00:06:44,782 --> 00:06:47,982 in case kids straggle in late. 110 00:06:49,479 --> 00:06:51,913 You see what I mean? 111 00:06:53,028 --> 00:06:54,766 That's Michael spehn. 112 00:06:54,837 --> 00:06:56,819 Cathy's still in the hospital. 113 00:06:56,890 --> 00:06:58,107 She is? 114 00:06:58,176 --> 00:07:00,263 She was at Matt's funeral. 115 00:07:00,334 --> 00:07:02,350 They were old school friends. 116 00:07:02,421 --> 00:07:04,438 She was fine then. 117 00:07:04,509 --> 00:07:06,839 Well, she went into the hospital last week 118 00:07:06,909 --> 00:07:07,883 with a headache. 119 00:07:07,953 --> 00:07:09,274 A headache? 120 00:07:09,345 --> 00:07:12,267 Yes! I'm sure she'll be out soon. 121 00:07:13,937 --> 00:07:16,198 I mean, she's young and healthy. 122 00:07:16,268 --> 00:07:18,251 What can happen? 123 00:07:20,722 --> 00:07:23,225 I'm so sorry. That was-- 124 00:07:23,296 --> 00:07:24,479 It's alright. 125 00:07:24,549 --> 00:07:26,184 You're right. I'm sure she'll be fine. 126 00:07:37,283 --> 00:07:39,056 Nobody's hungry? 127 00:07:40,588 --> 00:07:42,117 I miss daddy. 128 00:07:42,188 --> 00:07:44,205 Me too. 129 00:07:47,129 --> 00:07:48,345 Me too. 130 00:07:50,678 --> 00:07:54,155 You know what I think would make this dinner way more yummy? 131 00:07:54,226 --> 00:07:55,721 Some giant marshmallows. 132 00:07:55,792 --> 00:07:57,182 Why don't you guys stay here 133 00:07:57,253 --> 00:07:58,435 and I'm gonna go down to the basement 134 00:07:58,506 --> 00:07:59,478 and see if we have any. 135 00:07:59,549 --> 00:08:00,662 I'll take the elevator. 136 00:08:00,733 --> 00:08:02,679 Ding-dong! 137 00:08:02,750 --> 00:08:05,289 Mm-mm-mm-mm... 138 00:08:06,543 --> 00:08:09,395 Nope, we're all out of marshmallows, 139 00:08:09,465 --> 00:08:11,169 but for little boys who eat their dinner, 140 00:08:11,239 --> 00:08:14,196 there will be ice cream. 141 00:08:16,598 --> 00:08:17,745 Hello? 142 00:08:17,815 --> 00:08:18,823 Are you busy? 143 00:08:18,894 --> 00:08:20,493 Hey, Colleen. 144 00:08:20,564 --> 00:08:22,929 No, no, we're just, uh, we're in the middle of dinner. 145 00:08:22,999 --> 00:08:25,329 Have you heard what happened? 146 00:08:25,400 --> 00:08:26,686 Did I hear what? 147 00:08:26,757 --> 00:08:27,869 It's Cathy spehn. 148 00:08:27,939 --> 00:08:29,156 You guys eat up, okay? 149 00:08:29,227 --> 00:08:30,562 I'll be right back for ice cream. 150 00:08:34,584 --> 00:08:36,045 What happened? 151 00:08:36,116 --> 00:08:38,203 She's... gone. 152 00:08:41,752 --> 00:08:43,526 Matt's old and dear friend, 153 00:08:43,595 --> 00:08:45,195 Cathy spehn, 154 00:08:45,266 --> 00:08:48,013 after less than three weeks since prognosis, 155 00:08:48,084 --> 00:08:50,936 had left behind three motherless children. 156 00:08:55,495 --> 00:08:57,651 You okay, son? 157 00:08:57,721 --> 00:09:00,713 No, dad, I'm not okay. 158 00:09:02,697 --> 00:09:04,922 You will be. 159 00:09:06,698 --> 00:09:09,167 I just feel like I'm forgetting something here, 160 00:09:09,238 --> 00:09:11,533 there's something I should be doing. 161 00:09:11,604 --> 00:09:13,168 It's all done. 162 00:09:13,239 --> 00:09:15,672 There's nothing to worry about. 163 00:09:15,743 --> 00:09:17,934 We just... 164 00:09:18,005 --> 00:09:19,953 We got to get your shoes on 165 00:09:20,022 --> 00:09:23,431 and get you and the kids to the church, okay? 166 00:09:26,042 --> 00:09:28,441 I'll be downstairs. 167 00:09:30,077 --> 00:09:32,478 At first, I couldn't cry. 168 00:09:32,547 --> 00:09:34,460 I was numb... 169 00:09:34,531 --> 00:09:36,896 Tired, empty. 170 00:09:38,532 --> 00:09:41,383 Life had been everything that I had ever hoped for. 171 00:09:42,220 --> 00:09:44,933 The engraving on our wedding rings read: 172 00:09:45,004 --> 00:09:47,751 "Live, love, laughter." 173 00:09:49,073 --> 00:09:50,847 And that was Cathy. 174 00:09:52,727 --> 00:09:54,988 How could I go on without her? 175 00:10:09,497 --> 00:10:11,332 The news of another family suffering 176 00:10:11,375 --> 00:10:12,836 so close to us 177 00:10:12,907 --> 00:10:14,749 sent me back into the darkness. 178 00:10:16,525 --> 00:10:18,576 I kept thinking of Michael spehn 179 00:10:18,647 --> 00:10:20,803 and how shocked he must've been feeling. 180 00:10:22,543 --> 00:10:25,882 I had at least had some time to prepare. 181 00:10:27,345 --> 00:10:29,153 I felt compelled to attend the funeral, 182 00:10:29,224 --> 00:10:31,727 to reach out. 183 00:10:31,798 --> 00:10:35,172 It was as though destiny was drawing us together. 184 00:10:39,679 --> 00:10:41,766 You don't have to be here. 185 00:10:44,968 --> 00:10:46,845 People will understand. 186 00:10:50,638 --> 00:10:52,760 Good morning, Michael. 187 00:10:52,830 --> 00:10:54,082 How are you holding up? 188 00:10:54,152 --> 00:10:56,413 Yeah. I'm fine. 189 00:10:56,483 --> 00:10:57,805 We're all praying for you. 190 00:10:57,875 --> 00:11:00,240 How does that work, exactly? 191 00:11:00,310 --> 00:11:01,493 What do you mean? 192 00:11:01,562 --> 00:11:04,484 I prayed really hard for Cathy to get better. 193 00:11:04,555 --> 00:11:06,572 So what happened? 194 00:11:07,791 --> 00:11:09,077 I mean, I didn't pray hard enough? 195 00:11:09,147 --> 00:11:10,399 Is that it? 196 00:11:10,469 --> 00:11:13,148 Maybe if I did a better job, 197 00:11:13,218 --> 00:11:14,296 I could've changed god's mind 198 00:11:14,366 --> 00:11:15,514 and Cathy wouldn't have died 199 00:11:15,584 --> 00:11:16,626 from an inoperable brain tumor? 200 00:11:16,697 --> 00:11:18,505 Is that it? 201 00:11:18,576 --> 00:11:22,089 Michael, I know you're angry, and I don't blame you, 202 00:11:22,160 --> 00:11:26,890 but you can't assign human logic to divine matters. 203 00:11:26,961 --> 00:11:28,699 "Divine matters"? 204 00:11:28,770 --> 00:11:30,822 Do you know what Cathy said to me 205 00:11:30,893 --> 00:11:32,074 the day before she died? 206 00:11:33,606 --> 00:11:35,901 "Why would I have been given babies 207 00:11:35,972 --> 00:11:38,407 if I wasn't gonna be around to take care of them? 208 00:11:42,930 --> 00:11:44,947 I'm sorry. 209 00:11:45,992 --> 00:11:48,148 Right. Thank you. 210 00:11:52,219 --> 00:11:54,376 She spoke to me at Matt's funeral. 211 00:11:56,951 --> 00:11:58,863 And she invited us over. 212 00:12:01,613 --> 00:12:03,874 We could've been friends. 213 00:12:07,006 --> 00:12:08,918 Gina kell? 214 00:12:11,216 --> 00:12:13,163 Yes? 215 00:12:13,234 --> 00:12:14,485 Are you Gina kell? 216 00:12:14,556 --> 00:12:17,060 Yes. 217 00:12:21,132 --> 00:12:23,184 You're Michael spehn. 218 00:12:26,246 --> 00:12:27,463 I'm so sorry 219 00:12:27,534 --> 00:12:29,063 for your loss. 220 00:12:29,133 --> 00:12:31,081 Thank you for coming. 221 00:12:34,005 --> 00:12:36,160 Can we speak after the service? 222 00:12:36,231 --> 00:12:38,596 For just a moment? 223 00:12:38,667 --> 00:12:41,345 Of course. 224 00:12:41,415 --> 00:12:43,398 Thank you. 225 00:12:55,263 --> 00:12:58,497 So, you're farther along in this process. 226 00:12:58,568 --> 00:13:00,515 Can I ask about your kids? 227 00:13:00,586 --> 00:13:02,568 How they're doing? 228 00:13:02,638 --> 00:13:04,411 You can lie to me. 229 00:13:05,979 --> 00:13:08,726 They're grieving. 230 00:13:08,796 --> 00:13:11,092 They just miss their dad, but... 231 00:13:11,162 --> 00:13:13,735 They really are okay. 232 00:13:15,268 --> 00:13:20,276 Cathy had talked about Matt. 233 00:13:20,347 --> 00:13:22,155 I have to tell you something. 234 00:13:22,226 --> 00:13:23,547 Um... 235 00:13:23,618 --> 00:13:26,330 The day before Cathy passed, she... 236 00:13:26,401 --> 00:13:30,158 She said, "Michael, call Gina kell." 237 00:13:30,228 --> 00:13:31,514 What? 238 00:13:31,585 --> 00:13:32,975 She was very weak, 239 00:13:33,046 --> 00:13:36,002 but she was adamant about it. 240 00:13:36,873 --> 00:13:39,899 She wanted me to teach your boys how to play basketball. 241 00:13:39,970 --> 00:13:42,161 I-I coach at stoney creek high. 242 00:13:44,215 --> 00:13:46,301 That's incredible. 243 00:13:48,111 --> 00:13:50,267 That's the kind of woman that she was. 244 00:13:52,460 --> 00:13:56,182 It's such a wonderful picture of her in there. 245 00:13:56,253 --> 00:13:57,538 Did you take it? 246 00:13:57,609 --> 00:13:59,278 Yeah. Yeah, I did. 247 00:13:59,349 --> 00:14:01,539 It's, uh, mullet lake. 248 00:14:01,610 --> 00:14:05,401 Um, Cathy's parents have a cottage up there. 249 00:14:05,472 --> 00:14:08,220 It's from a couple summers ago. 250 00:14:08,290 --> 00:14:10,307 It was her favorite place. 251 00:14:13,101 --> 00:14:16,370 I know it doesn't feel like it right now, but... 252 00:14:16,441 --> 00:14:19,188 It does get easier. 253 00:14:23,607 --> 00:14:26,599 You know, I-i sat with her, after she passed, 254 00:14:26,670 --> 00:14:29,521 and, uh... 255 00:14:29,591 --> 00:14:31,052 I don't know, 256 00:14:31,123 --> 00:14:34,253 I-I just wanted to talk to her and-and say goodbye. 257 00:14:34,323 --> 00:14:36,514 I did the same thing. 258 00:14:37,803 --> 00:14:40,516 But she-- she, uh, she wasn't there. 259 00:14:40,586 --> 00:14:42,464 You know? 260 00:14:46,048 --> 00:14:49,317 You're really blessed to have a lot of friends. 261 00:14:50,536 --> 00:14:53,249 Some of them, I've known my whole life. 262 00:14:55,825 --> 00:14:58,016 I know you and I just met, 263 00:14:58,086 --> 00:15:00,416 but I feel like you're the only person here that I know. 264 00:15:01,879 --> 00:15:03,756 The only person that really knows me. 265 00:15:06,018 --> 00:15:08,662 Michael? You ready to go? 266 00:15:08,732 --> 00:15:10,749 Oh. Uh... 267 00:15:10,820 --> 00:15:12,037 Thank you. 268 00:15:12,107 --> 00:15:15,028 You know, thanks for, um, for talking to me. 269 00:15:15,099 --> 00:15:16,281 Of course. 270 00:15:16,352 --> 00:15:18,195 - Can you excuse me? - Sure. 271 00:15:24,423 --> 00:15:25,918 It's okay. 272 00:15:36,783 --> 00:15:39,287 Sunshine, but cooler, low-70s tomorrow. 273 00:15:39,358 --> 00:15:40,540 Wednesday's also sunny, 274 00:15:40,610 --> 00:15:42,314 but starting to warm up to mid-70s. 275 00:15:42,385 --> 00:15:45,341 And by thursday/friday, we're back to normal temperatures. 276 00:15:45,412 --> 00:15:47,254 Next update at the top of the hour. 277 00:15:47,325 --> 00:15:48,438 Morning. 278 00:15:48,509 --> 00:15:50,455 Morning, Michael. 279 00:15:58,424 --> 00:16:01,171 Oh, I moved the cups over so they're closer to the sink. 280 00:16:02,739 --> 00:16:04,477 Okay. 281 00:16:06,809 --> 00:16:09,069 Charlotte! Jack! Danny! Let's go! 282 00:16:09,140 --> 00:16:10,391 Oh, Larry and your dad 283 00:16:10,462 --> 00:16:11,922 took them to the park to feed the ducks. 284 00:16:11,993 --> 00:16:14,497 They spend far too much time inside. 285 00:16:15,542 --> 00:16:17,837 Oh, and I'm taking them for haircuts this afternoon, 286 00:16:17,907 --> 00:16:19,506 so don't worry about that. 287 00:16:19,577 --> 00:16:20,654 Okay. 288 00:16:20,725 --> 00:16:22,812 Careful! The floor is wet. 289 00:16:23,926 --> 00:16:25,839 - Thanks. - Uh-huh. 290 00:16:34,016 --> 00:16:35,441 See you later. 291 00:16:35,512 --> 00:16:36,485 Alright, sweetie. I'll see you later. 292 00:16:36,556 --> 00:16:37,598 Bye. 293 00:16:37,669 --> 00:16:38,572 Bye, guys. 294 00:16:40,905 --> 00:16:43,340 It's okay, sweetie. 295 00:16:43,409 --> 00:16:44,661 Hey, Dave. You okay? 296 00:16:44,732 --> 00:16:46,366 Christina's been away all weekend. 297 00:16:46,436 --> 00:16:47,792 She's visiting her mom. 298 00:16:47,863 --> 00:16:49,080 I just have to hang on till after lunch, 299 00:16:49,151 --> 00:16:51,306 and she'll be home. What a nightmare. 300 00:16:51,377 --> 00:16:52,906 - You're doing great. - Thanks. 301 00:16:52,977 --> 00:16:54,821 I'm sorry, man. I shouldn't have said-- 302 00:16:54,891 --> 00:16:56,108 No. Hey, no. It's okay. 303 00:16:56,178 --> 00:16:58,056 It's okay. 304 00:16:59,101 --> 00:17:00,769 Hey, Mrs. kell. 305 00:17:00,840 --> 00:17:02,057 How are you, Mr. spehn? 306 00:17:02,128 --> 00:17:04,702 Oh... hello. 307 00:17:06,094 --> 00:17:08,006 Man, I hate that look. 308 00:17:08,077 --> 00:17:09,572 People just want to help. 309 00:17:09,643 --> 00:17:11,416 Well, that's the problem. There's just too much help. 310 00:17:11,486 --> 00:17:12,703 I mean, my mother-in-law's basically-- 311 00:17:12,774 --> 00:17:13,921 She's-- She's taken over my house. 312 00:17:13,992 --> 00:17:15,139 She's doing my laundry. 313 00:17:15,209 --> 00:17:17,574 She folds my underwear! 314 00:17:17,645 --> 00:17:19,697 Well, you have to tell people what you need. 315 00:17:19,767 --> 00:17:21,540 Say "I love you, and I appreciate you, 316 00:17:21,611 --> 00:17:22,724 "but I'm a grown man. 317 00:17:22,794 --> 00:17:24,046 I can fold my own underwear." 318 00:17:24,116 --> 00:17:26,550 You make it sound so easy. 319 00:17:26,621 --> 00:17:28,742 Nothing about this is easy. 320 00:17:29,648 --> 00:17:31,630 Well, someone actually dropped this off at the office 321 00:17:31,700 --> 00:17:32,847 for me today-- 322 00:17:32,918 --> 00:17:34,100 "how to raise a healthy daughter 323 00:17:34,171 --> 00:17:36,571 without a father." 324 00:17:36,641 --> 00:17:38,553 Uh, you don't have a daughter. 325 00:17:38,624 --> 00:17:39,562 - Exactly. - Ah! 326 00:17:39,633 --> 00:17:40,989 Hey, Michael. 327 00:17:41,060 --> 00:17:42,589 Pastor Karl, hey. 328 00:17:42,660 --> 00:17:43,842 I just dropped my kids off. 329 00:17:43,913 --> 00:17:44,851 How are you? 330 00:17:44,922 --> 00:17:46,869 Yeah. I'm good. 331 00:17:46,940 --> 00:17:48,922 Well, I'm here, if you need to talk. 332 00:17:48,992 --> 00:17:51,252 Thank you. You know, I'm not much of a church guy, so. 333 00:17:51,323 --> 00:17:53,097 Thanks. 334 00:17:59,082 --> 00:18:00,681 Wonder what's for dessert. 335 00:18:00,751 --> 00:18:02,629 I got juice. 336 00:18:02,700 --> 00:18:04,578 Mm-mm. 337 00:18:04,648 --> 00:18:06,317 I'm not thirsty. 338 00:18:07,501 --> 00:18:09,553 You guys eat what you can, 339 00:18:09,624 --> 00:18:11,989 then you can head outside to play, okay? 340 00:18:14,077 --> 00:18:16,128 Here you go, dear. 341 00:18:16,199 --> 00:18:17,903 Oh, Jill. You didn't-- You didn't have to do that. 342 00:18:17,974 --> 00:18:19,329 No, no, no. It's no problem. 343 00:18:19,400 --> 00:18:20,721 Michael, I think it's time 344 00:18:20,792 --> 00:18:22,322 to talk about-- 345 00:18:22,392 --> 00:18:24,409 What? This is again? 346 00:18:24,558 --> 00:18:25,844 You have to-- 347 00:18:25,915 --> 00:18:26,958 ...Make plans. 348 00:18:27,029 --> 00:18:28,280 Yes, you keep saying that. 349 00:18:28,351 --> 00:18:30,437 Just listen to him for a minute, Michael. 350 00:18:32,247 --> 00:18:34,438 It's been a couple of months now, 351 00:18:34,509 --> 00:18:35,656 and as the people 352 00:18:35,726 --> 00:18:37,639 who love you most in this world, 353 00:18:37,709 --> 00:18:39,483 we have to talk about what's next. 354 00:18:39,554 --> 00:18:41,292 Dessert is next. 355 00:18:41,363 --> 00:18:44,597 Putting the kids to bed is next. 356 00:18:44,668 --> 00:18:45,780 And you want to know 357 00:18:45,851 --> 00:18:47,903 what I'm gonna do for the next five years? 358 00:18:47,974 --> 00:18:49,850 I'm sorry, but I don't know. 359 00:18:49,921 --> 00:18:51,973 Have you thought about our suggestion? 360 00:18:52,043 --> 00:18:53,782 Moving to Chicago 361 00:18:53,853 --> 00:18:55,188 and buying a house with my sister 362 00:18:55,210 --> 00:18:56,496 to raise our kids? 363 00:18:56,566 --> 00:18:57,992 It makes a lot of sense! 364 00:18:58,063 --> 00:18:59,314 No. 365 00:18:59,385 --> 00:19:02,758 I love my sister, but no. 366 00:19:02,829 --> 00:19:04,950 I don't know what I'm gonna do next, 367 00:19:05,021 --> 00:19:07,804 but I know what I am not going to do-- 368 00:19:07,874 --> 00:19:09,996 I am not gonna change anything else for those kids. 369 00:19:10,065 --> 00:19:11,979 I'm not taking them out of their home! 370 00:19:12,049 --> 00:19:13,091 Okay. Okay. 371 00:19:13,162 --> 00:19:15,040 We'll figure it out. 372 00:19:15,111 --> 00:19:16,919 I'll come by in the morning 373 00:19:16,989 --> 00:19:18,346 and get them off to school, 374 00:19:18,415 --> 00:19:19,528 and pick them up after, 375 00:19:19,599 --> 00:19:20,990 and if you like, 376 00:19:21,060 --> 00:19:22,102 Larry and I could move in 377 00:19:22,173 --> 00:19:23,112 for a little bit with you. 378 00:19:23,183 --> 00:19:24,260 We sure could! 379 00:19:24,331 --> 00:19:25,373 No. 380 00:19:25,443 --> 00:19:27,357 Thank you. 381 00:19:27,427 --> 00:19:29,723 Thank you, but no. 382 00:19:29,792 --> 00:19:32,436 We're just trying to fit into our new roles. 383 00:19:32,507 --> 00:19:35,184 We don't have new roles. 384 00:19:35,255 --> 00:19:37,272 We all have the same roles... 385 00:19:37,860 --> 00:19:40,295 Just one of us is missing. 386 00:19:40,366 --> 00:19:42,000 Excuse me. 387 00:19:44,714 --> 00:19:45,896 Hey! 388 00:19:45,967 --> 00:19:47,497 Can I give you a hand? 389 00:19:47,567 --> 00:19:49,236 I can't look at this cooler anymore. 390 00:19:49,307 --> 00:19:50,600 This thing's like a death flag. 391 00:19:50,629 --> 00:19:52,680 Well, can I, uh, call someone 392 00:19:52,751 --> 00:19:54,003 to come pick all this stuff up? 393 00:19:54,039 --> 00:19:55,464 Thanks. 394 00:19:55,534 --> 00:19:56,577 Look, I appreciate all the help, 395 00:19:56,648 --> 00:19:58,073 but things are under control here. 396 00:19:58,144 --> 00:20:00,231 Are you sure? I've seen you cook. 397 00:20:00,302 --> 00:20:02,178 I'll learn. 398 00:20:06,703 --> 00:20:08,407 Yeah. 399 00:20:08,477 --> 00:20:10,320 Okay, let's do it. 400 00:20:11,573 --> 00:20:13,243 Daddy? 401 00:20:13,313 --> 00:20:14,703 What's going on? 402 00:20:14,774 --> 00:20:15,852 Read it. 403 00:20:15,922 --> 00:20:17,279 Okay... 404 00:20:18,462 --> 00:20:20,862 "I, daddy spehn, 405 00:20:20,933 --> 00:20:23,854 "promise to never, ever... 406 00:20:23,925 --> 00:20:24,898 "Forever, 407 00:20:24,969 --> 00:20:26,846 "marry again 408 00:20:26,917 --> 00:20:28,725 "unless my darling three children, 409 00:20:28,796 --> 00:20:31,056 "Charlotte, Jack and Danny agree. 410 00:20:31,126 --> 00:20:33,596 "If you, daddy spehn, marry without our approval, 411 00:20:33,666 --> 00:20:35,440 "you will have to face us 412 00:20:35,511 --> 00:20:38,223 "crying, mad, shouting... 413 00:20:38,294 --> 00:20:39,406 And more"? 414 00:20:40,972 --> 00:20:43,266 Well! I mean, thank you for putting in the consequences. 415 00:20:44,104 --> 00:20:45,425 What made you guys decide to write this? 416 00:20:45,496 --> 00:20:46,608 Jaclyn's parents got a divorce 417 00:20:46,678 --> 00:20:48,834 and her dad married Mrs. binkow. 418 00:20:48,905 --> 00:20:50,609 The lady who lives with 75 cats? 419 00:20:50,680 --> 00:20:51,617 It's actually four. 420 00:20:51,688 --> 00:20:53,218 Oh, really? 421 00:20:54,611 --> 00:20:57,254 I will sign this, but... 422 00:20:57,325 --> 00:21:00,386 I'm gonna have my lawyer take a look at it first. 423 00:21:05,954 --> 00:21:09,292 Good? Good. Alright, come on. Let's eat. 424 00:21:26,759 --> 00:21:28,880 Oh. I forgot my backpack. 425 00:21:28,951 --> 00:21:30,863 Yeah. I got it. I got it. 426 00:21:39,989 --> 00:21:41,240 I was thinking that we could just 427 00:21:41,311 --> 00:21:42,666 get rid of all of this clutter, 428 00:21:42,737 --> 00:21:44,239 and line this wall here with benches, 429 00:21:44,302 --> 00:21:45,972 so people can sit and talk. 430 00:21:46,043 --> 00:21:47,190 I think we should get Starbucks 431 00:21:47,259 --> 00:21:49,033 to come in and open up a branch. 432 00:21:49,104 --> 00:21:50,007 People could have coffee, 433 00:21:50,078 --> 00:21:51,712 browse through magazines. 434 00:21:51,783 --> 00:21:52,825 Starbucks in church? 435 00:21:52,896 --> 00:21:54,043 You got a better plan? 436 00:21:54,114 --> 00:21:55,261 Well, anything is a better plan. 437 00:21:55,331 --> 00:21:57,070 I mean, arson is a better plan. 438 00:21:57,141 --> 00:21:58,775 Look at this carpet! This is disgusting. 439 00:21:58,845 --> 00:22:01,001 I think we start right here and get rid of this. 440 00:22:01,072 --> 00:22:02,567 - Ew... - Hey! 441 00:22:02,637 --> 00:22:03,680 What's going on? 442 00:22:03,751 --> 00:22:05,733 Wh-- oh! Hello. Hi. 443 00:22:05,804 --> 00:22:07,891 We're just, uh, actually redoing the atrium. 444 00:22:07,961 --> 00:22:09,630 We finally have a budget now 445 00:22:09,701 --> 00:22:11,230 and a committee, 446 00:22:11,301 --> 00:22:12,413 so we just need a plan. 447 00:22:12,484 --> 00:22:14,049 I want to make it a coffee lounge. 448 00:22:14,119 --> 00:22:15,649 Gina here wants to set it on fire. 449 00:22:16,763 --> 00:22:18,015 Ladies. Hey, Michael. 450 00:22:18,085 --> 00:22:19,963 Pastor. 451 00:22:20,034 --> 00:22:21,285 I hear you've been taking a course 452 00:22:21,356 --> 00:22:23,094 over at the college, in, uh, design? 453 00:22:23,165 --> 00:22:25,390 Uh, yeah, I mean, 454 00:22:25,461 --> 00:22:26,887 it's just something I can take online. 455 00:22:26,958 --> 00:22:28,870 Always kind of had an interest, so... 456 00:22:28,941 --> 00:22:30,366 That's great. 457 00:22:30,436 --> 00:22:31,688 I should probably go. 458 00:22:31,758 --> 00:22:33,010 I mean, you're from Chicago, though, right? 459 00:22:33,080 --> 00:22:34,297 Yeah. West Side. 460 00:22:34,368 --> 00:22:36,315 I'm a southsider. Cubbies fan my whole life. 461 00:22:36,386 --> 00:22:38,333 I'm fine. 462 00:22:38,403 --> 00:22:39,760 Thank you. 463 00:22:44,110 --> 00:22:45,326 Poor Michael. 464 00:22:45,397 --> 00:22:48,074 You should call him. 465 00:22:48,145 --> 00:22:49,432 And say what? 466 00:22:49,502 --> 00:22:51,971 I don't know. Take him for a coffee? 467 00:22:52,042 --> 00:22:53,329 It's good to talk to someone 468 00:22:53,399 --> 00:22:54,755 who's going through the same things you are. 469 00:22:54,825 --> 00:22:56,773 That's why I joined weight watchers. 470 00:22:56,844 --> 00:22:58,199 Funny. 471 00:22:58,270 --> 00:23:00,321 It's not gonna happen. 472 00:23:02,062 --> 00:23:03,070 Ow! Ow-ow-ow-ow! 473 00:23:03,141 --> 00:23:04,392 You can't toast the bread. 474 00:23:04,463 --> 00:23:05,540 It'll be gross by lunch. 475 00:23:05,611 --> 00:23:06,862 By the way, you have one brown sock 476 00:23:06,933 --> 00:23:07,906 and one black sock on. 477 00:23:07,977 --> 00:23:08,950 Yeah. 478 00:23:09,020 --> 00:23:11,177 I know. New style. 479 00:23:11,248 --> 00:23:13,229 Mom buys the soft bread and she cuts off 480 00:23:13,300 --> 00:23:14,691 the outside. 481 00:23:14,762 --> 00:23:16,430 He means the crust. It's fine. It'll taste the same. 482 00:23:16,501 --> 00:23:17,474 No, it won't! 483 00:23:17,545 --> 00:23:18,754 Yes, it will! Don't be a baby! 484 00:23:18,797 --> 00:23:19,387 No, it won't! 485 00:23:19,458 --> 00:23:20,709 Okay, no yelling! 486 00:23:20,780 --> 00:23:22,067 Oh, Jack, come on. You gotta get dressed. 487 00:23:22,137 --> 00:23:23,430 We gotta leave in a few minutes. 488 00:23:23,459 --> 00:23:24,920 I don't want to go to school. 489 00:23:24,989 --> 00:23:26,415 Okay, look. I don't have time for that today, guys. 490 00:23:26,486 --> 00:23:27,807 I've got a meeting in an hour and I can't be late. 491 00:23:27,878 --> 00:23:29,059 I have to bring 492 00:23:29,130 --> 00:23:30,311 cookies to school today for our party. 493 00:23:30,382 --> 00:23:32,469 What? Agh! 494 00:23:32,540 --> 00:23:33,931 You should've told me! 495 00:23:34,001 --> 00:23:35,322 I did! Three times! 496 00:23:35,393 --> 00:23:36,297 Look at the fridge. 497 00:23:39,463 --> 00:23:42,002 Okay, okay. Um... 498 00:23:43,360 --> 00:23:44,959 Here. There we go. 499 00:23:45,030 --> 00:23:46,316 Perfect. 500 00:23:46,387 --> 00:23:48,543 Alright, there you go. You're all set. 501 00:23:48,613 --> 00:23:50,700 These are crackers! 502 00:23:50,770 --> 00:23:52,474 Mommy always baked cookies 503 00:23:52,545 --> 00:23:54,700 when it was my turn to bring them. 504 00:23:54,771 --> 00:23:55,744 I'm not going! 505 00:23:55,815 --> 00:23:56,998 You ruined it! 506 00:23:57,067 --> 00:23:58,354 He didn't do it on purpose! 507 00:23:58,425 --> 00:23:59,815 Yes, he did! It's ruined! He did it on purpose! 508 00:23:59,886 --> 00:24:00,754 I did not! 509 00:24:00,825 --> 00:24:02,077 Jack! Go get dressed! 510 00:24:02,147 --> 00:24:03,260 Everybody, we're leaving in five minutes. 511 00:24:03,330 --> 00:24:04,442 I want mommy! 512 00:24:04,513 --> 00:24:05,591 Don't be stupid! 513 00:24:05,661 --> 00:24:06,774 She's dead and she's not coming back! 514 00:24:06,844 --> 00:24:08,269 Charlotte, don't! 515 00:24:08,340 --> 00:24:09,905 I want mommy! 516 00:24:09,975 --> 00:24:11,610 I want mommy! 517 00:24:11,680 --> 00:24:13,384 - It's okay-- - Dad! Do something! 518 00:24:13,455 --> 00:24:14,776 - Okay, just-- - I want mommy! 519 00:24:14,847 --> 00:24:16,515 Danny! Come back! 520 00:24:16,586 --> 00:24:17,629 Charlotte! 521 00:24:17,700 --> 00:24:20,517 I want mommy! 522 00:24:20,587 --> 00:24:23,126 - Shh! Look at me. - No! I want mommy! 523 00:24:23,197 --> 00:24:24,552 I know, I know. 524 00:24:24,623 --> 00:24:25,666 What do you need? Hey. 525 00:24:25,737 --> 00:24:26,779 - What do you-- - I want-- 526 00:24:26,849 --> 00:24:28,936 - Shh. Shh. I know. - ...Mommy! 527 00:24:29,007 --> 00:24:30,676 - I know. Shh, shh. - I want mommy. 528 00:24:30,746 --> 00:24:33,146 I want mommy. I want mommy. 529 00:24:33,216 --> 00:24:35,685 It's okay. It's okay. It's okay. 530 00:24:35,756 --> 00:24:36,973 I want mommy. 531 00:24:37,044 --> 00:24:38,017 It's okay, it's okay. 532 00:24:38,088 --> 00:24:39,199 Hey, Michael! 533 00:24:39,270 --> 00:24:40,800 Danny doesn't have a lunch. 534 00:24:40,871 --> 00:24:41,983 Ah, no worries! 535 00:24:42,054 --> 00:24:43,444 We always have extra for kids who forget. 536 00:24:43,515 --> 00:24:45,253 Didn't forget. I just made it wrong. 537 00:24:45,324 --> 00:24:47,410 I'm late. I'm sorry. 538 00:25:22,212 --> 00:25:23,707 I failed. 539 00:25:23,778 --> 00:25:25,482 How so? 540 00:25:27,257 --> 00:25:29,865 Cathy, she got sick so fast. 541 00:25:30,876 --> 00:25:35,258 The cancer just stole her away from me, and I just... 542 00:25:35,329 --> 00:25:36,789 I couldn't stop it. 543 00:25:38,112 --> 00:25:39,712 They would just be so much better off 544 00:25:39,782 --> 00:25:41,068 if she were here and I-- 545 00:25:41,139 --> 00:25:43,782 Hey. She would be saying exactly the same thing 546 00:25:43,852 --> 00:25:45,660 if she was sitting here and you were gone. 547 00:25:46,845 --> 00:25:48,653 I saw a video once 548 00:25:48,724 --> 00:25:51,053 of the waves coming ashore 549 00:25:51,124 --> 00:25:53,663 during the Tsunami in the Indian ocean. 550 00:25:55,786 --> 00:26:00,343 People were just doing regular, ordinary thing.. 551 00:26:02,605 --> 00:26:04,762 And this giant wall of water came crashing in, 552 00:26:04,832 --> 00:26:06,988 just destroying everything in its path. 553 00:26:08,659 --> 00:26:11,163 And there was no stopping it. 554 00:26:11,234 --> 00:26:12,659 That's... 555 00:26:12,730 --> 00:26:15,199 That's just how I feel. 556 00:26:15,269 --> 00:26:17,356 Michael, there was nothing you could do. 557 00:26:17,426 --> 00:26:21,044 You couldn't stop what happened to your family, 558 00:26:21,115 --> 00:26:24,384 but you can control what you do next. 559 00:26:24,454 --> 00:26:27,063 You can gather your kids around you 560 00:26:27,133 --> 00:26:28,733 and you can love 'em, 561 00:26:28,803 --> 00:26:31,691 and you can guide them out of the darkness. 562 00:26:32,874 --> 00:26:34,195 But how do I do that? 563 00:26:34,266 --> 00:26:36,074 You stay connected. 564 00:26:36,144 --> 00:26:38,613 It's real common for men 565 00:26:38,684 --> 00:26:41,049 to hunker down and go it alone, 566 00:26:41,120 --> 00:26:44,737 especially when the high tide of grief starts to rise. 567 00:26:44,808 --> 00:26:46,894 But if you stay connected to your family 568 00:26:46,964 --> 00:26:48,495 and this community, 569 00:26:48,565 --> 00:26:51,208 you're gonna find your way. 570 00:26:54,254 --> 00:26:56,340 I've got to go. 571 00:26:56,411 --> 00:26:58,393 Alright. 572 00:27:19,730 --> 00:27:22,374 Michael? Hey! 573 00:27:22,444 --> 00:27:23,766 Gina! Hey! 574 00:27:23,837 --> 00:27:27,558 Hey. It's good to see you. 575 00:27:27,629 --> 00:27:28,950 Yeah! You too. 576 00:27:29,020 --> 00:27:30,237 Oh, I can see that you got your mother-in-law 577 00:27:30,308 --> 00:27:32,533 to stop doing your laundry. 578 00:27:32,604 --> 00:27:33,751 Yes! They finally left. 579 00:27:33,821 --> 00:27:35,073 Wait. How'd you know that? 580 00:27:35,144 --> 00:27:36,395 Well... 581 00:27:36,466 --> 00:27:38,552 Judging by the pink tint to your shirt, 582 00:27:38,623 --> 00:27:41,684 you're either doing a walk for the cure later, 583 00:27:41,754 --> 00:27:43,423 or you've been mixing whites with reds. 584 00:27:43,494 --> 00:27:45,232 Huh. 585 00:27:46,312 --> 00:27:48,503 Well, truth is, I'd rather do these things wrong 586 00:27:48,573 --> 00:27:49,790 than have a bunch of people hovering over me. 587 00:27:49,860 --> 00:27:51,112 Mm. I get it. 588 00:27:51,183 --> 00:27:52,538 I got this neighbor 589 00:27:52,609 --> 00:27:53,790 and she wanted to bring dinner over for us. 590 00:27:53,861 --> 00:27:55,774 I said no, she insisted. 591 00:27:55,845 --> 00:27:57,514 So I raced home from basketball practice, 592 00:27:57,584 --> 00:27:59,219 you know, with the kids, 593 00:27:59,289 --> 00:28:01,306 and there's a pizza sitting on my doorstep. 594 00:28:01,376 --> 00:28:03,637 I can order my own pizza. 595 00:28:03,708 --> 00:28:04,889 That's true. 596 00:28:04,960 --> 00:28:07,116 I know, but why would someone do that? 597 00:28:07,187 --> 00:28:08,160 It's insulting. 598 00:28:08,231 --> 00:28:09,761 You know what? It's like... 599 00:28:09,830 --> 00:28:11,326 It's like she thinks I can't even take care of my own family. 600 00:28:11,397 --> 00:28:12,682 I don't think she meant that. 601 00:28:12,753 --> 00:28:14,214 I don't know. 602 00:28:14,284 --> 00:28:16,510 It's like life just keeps throwing me curve balls. 603 00:28:16,581 --> 00:28:18,285 I don't need to hit a home run, 604 00:28:18,355 --> 00:28:21,102 just a decent pitch would be appreciated. 605 00:28:21,173 --> 00:28:23,085 Then take the walk. 606 00:28:23,156 --> 00:28:25,103 I'm sorry, what? 607 00:28:25,174 --> 00:28:26,878 Stop swinging at all this junk. 608 00:28:26,949 --> 00:28:29,000 Ignore some of these curve balls, 609 00:28:29,070 --> 00:28:30,217 and just take the walk. 610 00:28:30,288 --> 00:28:32,549 Make it to first base 611 00:28:32,620 --> 00:28:35,750 and just see what happens. 612 00:28:35,820 --> 00:28:38,986 Nobody takes my metaphor and just throws it back on me. 613 00:28:40,482 --> 00:28:42,534 Oh... here we go. 614 00:28:42,605 --> 00:28:44,447 Did your kids put this on the list? 615 00:28:44,518 --> 00:28:46,431 They said it was the "healthy" kind? 616 00:28:46,501 --> 00:28:47,440 Maybe. 617 00:28:55,721 --> 00:28:57,112 It's alright. It was a rookie mistake. 618 00:28:57,182 --> 00:28:59,478 You're new to the shopping list. 619 00:29:01,010 --> 00:29:03,166 Separate your colors. 620 00:29:05,602 --> 00:29:07,097 Thanks! 621 00:29:31,765 --> 00:29:33,922 "I'd like to get our families together 622 00:29:33,992 --> 00:29:35,278 "for dinner and to talk. 623 00:29:35,349 --> 00:29:37,226 "I have a few things to give your children-- 624 00:29:37,297 --> 00:29:39,558 "resources and such. 625 00:29:39,629 --> 00:29:42,585 "You can email me or call me anytime. 626 00:29:42,656 --> 00:29:44,602 "Good night. Peace. 627 00:29:44,673 --> 00:29:46,168 Gina kell." 628 00:29:55,389 --> 00:29:57,858 "Thanks for the note. 629 00:29:57,929 --> 00:29:59,076 "That would be nice. 630 00:29:59,146 --> 00:30:01,094 "I'm sure my kids would love it. 631 00:30:01,165 --> 00:30:04,191 Careful about the call-me-anytime stuff. 632 00:30:04,260 --> 00:30:07,565 "My "anytimes" these days are well into the wee hours. 633 00:30:07,636 --> 00:30:09,061 "I'd love to talk, 634 00:30:09,132 --> 00:30:10,836 "but you'd better give me some proper hours to call. 635 00:30:10,906 --> 00:30:12,958 Thanks, Michael." 636 00:30:19,187 --> 00:30:21,865 "Anytime means anytime. 637 00:30:21,935 --> 00:30:23,604 "If you think you're the only one up at 3:00 A.M., 638 00:30:23,675 --> 00:30:25,030 you're fooling yourself." 639 00:30:27,641 --> 00:30:29,205 "How's Friday night? 640 00:30:29,276 --> 00:30:33,242 I'll cook." 641 00:30:38,253 --> 00:30:40,930 "I have a virtual food bank. 642 00:30:41,001 --> 00:30:43,471 "Everyone pitched in and bought me a freezer. 643 00:30:43,540 --> 00:30:45,731 "I have four casseroles, three lasagnas, 644 00:30:45,802 --> 00:30:48,028 "some spicy vegan bean dish, 645 00:30:48,098 --> 00:30:50,289 "and some unidentifiable chicken dishes 646 00:30:50,360 --> 00:30:51,785 that are very good." 647 00:30:53,213 --> 00:30:55,717 I'll bring a salad. 648 00:30:59,450 --> 00:31:01,154 "Chicken sounds good. 649 00:31:01,224 --> 00:31:03,484 I'll bring a salad." 650 00:31:13,888 --> 00:31:16,149 I hope I'm doing the right thing. 651 00:31:16,219 --> 00:31:18,966 Give me strength. 652 00:31:19,037 --> 00:31:20,184 Come on! They're here! 653 00:31:20,255 --> 00:31:21,924 Go, go, go, go! 654 00:31:21,994 --> 00:31:24,081 Hi! 655 00:31:24,152 --> 00:31:25,647 Want to go play upstairs? 656 00:31:25,717 --> 00:31:26,795 Sure! 657 00:31:28,014 --> 00:31:29,126 Hey! 658 00:31:29,196 --> 00:31:30,552 Hey. 659 00:31:30,623 --> 00:31:32,118 Wow... 660 00:31:32,189 --> 00:31:33,997 How do they do that? 661 00:31:34,067 --> 00:31:36,189 Kids, they just 662 00:31:36,259 --> 00:31:38,972 know that they belong together. 663 00:31:39,043 --> 00:31:40,294 How are they doing? 664 00:31:40,365 --> 00:31:42,069 Oh. Uh... 665 00:31:42,139 --> 00:31:43,669 Well, they cry a lot, 666 00:31:43,739 --> 00:31:46,035 and then we talk about Cathy, 667 00:31:46,105 --> 00:31:48,261 and things are better for a little while, 668 00:31:48,332 --> 00:31:50,383 and it all just starts again. 669 00:31:50,454 --> 00:31:52,158 How are your kids doing? 670 00:31:52,229 --> 00:31:53,480 Pretty much the same. 671 00:31:53,551 --> 00:31:55,672 Sam's having nightmares, 672 00:31:55,743 --> 00:31:57,689 and, some days, drew doesn't want 673 00:31:57,760 --> 00:31:59,708 to let me out of his sight, 674 00:31:59,813 --> 00:32:02,839 but they're coming along. 675 00:32:02,909 --> 00:32:04,474 I thought you were bringing a salad? 676 00:32:04,545 --> 00:32:05,692 Oh, I did. 677 00:32:05,762 --> 00:32:07,257 I brought a pasta salad, a fruit salad, 678 00:32:07,328 --> 00:32:08,684 a potato salad. You know. 679 00:32:08,755 --> 00:32:10,250 I got some bread 680 00:32:10,320 --> 00:32:11,572 and some things for the kids. 681 00:32:11,642 --> 00:32:14,494 I'm Italian! 682 00:32:14,565 --> 00:32:16,755 Oh! Okay. 683 00:32:16,826 --> 00:32:18,809 Ahh. 684 00:32:18,879 --> 00:32:20,269 Mm. Smells really good! 685 00:32:20,340 --> 00:32:22,253 Yeah. Oh, thanks. You know what? 686 00:32:22,324 --> 00:32:23,923 It's actually pretty good. 687 00:32:23,994 --> 00:32:26,706 This woman in church, she, uh... 688 00:32:26,777 --> 00:32:27,750 Oh! Oh, the woman with the little tiny dog 689 00:32:27,821 --> 00:32:29,420 who has the little outfits? 690 00:32:29,490 --> 00:32:30,985 - Yes! - The matching outfits? 691 00:32:31,056 --> 00:32:32,482 Yeah, yeah. She's cooked for us, too. 692 00:32:32,552 --> 00:32:33,525 Oh, man! 693 00:32:33,596 --> 00:32:34,778 She's actually a really good cook. 694 00:32:34,849 --> 00:32:36,761 Yeah. Think she makes those outfits herself? 695 00:32:36,832 --> 00:32:38,848 Why, I mean, she must, right? 696 00:32:38,919 --> 00:32:40,136 Because they're a little bit weird! 697 00:32:40,206 --> 00:32:41,563 I think so. 698 00:32:42,281 --> 00:32:44,715 Um... 699 00:32:44,786 --> 00:32:46,177 Oh! There's this other woman, 700 00:32:46,247 --> 00:32:48,160 who leaves us a cake every week, 701 00:32:48,230 --> 00:32:49,934 and she's in the choir, 702 00:32:50,005 --> 00:32:53,065 but she's got this really weird, awful voice, 703 00:32:53,136 --> 00:32:55,138 and they keep giving her solos, and she's just... 704 00:32:55,154 --> 00:32:57,032 I know exactly who you're talking about. 705 00:32:57,103 --> 00:32:57,937 - It's awkward. - Very. 706 00:32:58,007 --> 00:32:59,049 What should I do? 707 00:32:59,120 --> 00:33:00,093 Uh... 708 00:33:00,846 --> 00:33:01,681 Why don't I cut the bread? 709 00:33:01,751 --> 00:33:02,724 Do you have a knife? 710 00:33:02,795 --> 00:33:04,012 Yeah. No, no. I'll-- I'll-- um... 711 00:33:04,083 --> 00:33:05,090 - Grab a knife? - That drawer. 712 00:33:05,161 --> 00:33:06,100 - I'll-- - Okay. 713 00:33:06,170 --> 00:33:08,883 ...get into this. 714 00:33:10,206 --> 00:33:11,701 Got it? 715 00:33:13,824 --> 00:33:16,050 Alright, char, you sit here. 716 00:33:16,120 --> 00:33:20,051 Boys, grab a seat wherever you would like. 717 00:33:20,122 --> 00:33:21,373 Thanks, pal. 718 00:33:30,455 --> 00:33:31,985 Oh... 719 00:33:32,055 --> 00:33:34,107 It's okay. 720 00:33:40,092 --> 00:33:43,222 So, does anyone know why our families are having dinner 721 00:33:43,293 --> 00:33:45,067 together tonight? 722 00:33:46,737 --> 00:33:48,649 Well, it's because 723 00:33:48,720 --> 00:33:51,816 we're all going through the same thing, 724 00:33:51,886 --> 00:33:53,694 and... 725 00:33:53,765 --> 00:33:56,617 We thought that it would be good to get together 726 00:33:56,688 --> 00:34:01,557 and to support each other, talk and just share our feelings. 727 00:34:04,917 --> 00:34:06,029 Excuse me. 728 00:34:07,457 --> 00:34:09,375 Would anyone else like to share their feelings? 729 00:34:10,727 --> 00:34:13,091 And on that note, okay! 730 00:34:13,162 --> 00:34:14,274 Dig in! 731 00:34:25,061 --> 00:34:27,600 You don't have to do that. 732 00:34:27,671 --> 00:34:29,896 We don't make guests clean up dishes at the house. 733 00:34:29,967 --> 00:34:31,183 After the dinner we just went through, 734 00:34:31,253 --> 00:34:33,514 we are hardly guests at this point. 735 00:34:33,585 --> 00:34:35,045 - Dad! - Yeah? 736 00:34:35,116 --> 00:34:37,619 Can we play "ball of peril"? 737 00:34:37,690 --> 00:34:40,716 Oh. Uh, it's a spehn family game. 738 00:34:40,787 --> 00:34:41,934 Uh... not now, guys. 739 00:34:42,005 --> 00:34:43,221 We have guests, okay? 740 00:34:43,291 --> 00:34:45,204 Maybe in a bit. 741 00:34:45,275 --> 00:34:47,848 No! No, don't let us stop you. 742 00:34:47,919 --> 00:34:49,936 Uh... well, but the thing is-- 743 00:34:50,006 --> 00:34:50,979 Oh, ho, ho! 744 00:34:51,050 --> 00:34:52,197 Whoa! 745 00:34:52,268 --> 00:34:53,624 If you feel the ball, you must freeze! 746 00:34:53,695 --> 00:34:55,885 Run from me! 747 00:35:03,088 --> 00:35:04,896 - Ah! - Ooh, ooh! 748 00:35:07,159 --> 00:35:09,246 Don't even try to understand. 749 00:35:09,315 --> 00:35:10,254 Boys. 750 00:35:10,325 --> 00:35:11,333 Yeah! 751 00:35:15,578 --> 00:35:17,073 Don't tackle! 752 00:35:17,144 --> 00:35:19,683 Oh! 753 00:35:21,667 --> 00:35:24,449 Ahh! 754 00:35:27,591 --> 00:35:28,634 It just got out of control 755 00:35:28,703 --> 00:35:29,886 before I knew what happened. 756 00:35:29,957 --> 00:35:31,765 It's actually taken on a life of its own. 757 00:35:31,835 --> 00:35:33,052 You need to just think positively 758 00:35:33,122 --> 00:35:34,666 and decide that you can overcome this. 759 00:35:34,688 --> 00:35:35,626 You'll be stronger in the end 760 00:35:35,697 --> 00:35:36,774 for having tried. 761 00:35:36,845 --> 00:35:37,888 Oh... 762 00:35:37,959 --> 00:35:39,454 Mm-hmm. 763 00:35:39,524 --> 00:35:40,776 Well, this is-- Uh, was... 764 00:35:40,846 --> 00:35:42,689 Charlotte's favorite dress. 765 00:35:42,759 --> 00:35:45,472 I'll tell ya, I don't know what I'm doing wrong. 766 00:35:45,543 --> 00:35:46,656 I mean, it's not my first rodeo. 767 00:35:46,726 --> 00:35:48,429 I did my own laundry in college. 768 00:35:48,500 --> 00:35:49,787 Well, yeah, but in college, 769 00:35:49,857 --> 00:35:50,900 you probably had jeans and t-shirts 770 00:35:50,971 --> 00:35:52,257 and sweatshirts. 771 00:35:52,327 --> 00:35:53,266 Now you have a little girl, 772 00:35:53,336 --> 00:35:54,553 who has a wool-knit dress 773 00:35:54,624 --> 00:35:55,562 that should be hand-washed in cold water 774 00:35:55,632 --> 00:35:56,571 and hung to dry. 775 00:35:56,642 --> 00:35:57,893 Mm-hmm. 776 00:35:57,964 --> 00:35:59,424 Maybe I should just let my mother-in-law 777 00:35:59,495 --> 00:36:00,780 keep doing my wash. 778 00:36:00,851 --> 00:36:02,555 What? Where is your dignity, man? 779 00:36:02,626 --> 00:36:04,190 You can do this! Come on! 780 00:36:04,261 --> 00:36:05,234 I'm going to get you started. 781 00:36:05,305 --> 00:36:07,183 No, look, I can't ask you to help. 782 00:36:07,253 --> 00:36:08,505 No, no. This isn't charity. 783 00:36:08,576 --> 00:36:09,723 This is quid PRO quo. 784 00:36:09,792 --> 00:36:11,392 Oh, really? What do you mean? 785 00:36:11,463 --> 00:36:12,854 Some day... 786 00:36:12,924 --> 00:36:14,593 And that day may never come... 787 00:36:14,664 --> 00:36:16,611 I may ask you to do a service for me. 788 00:36:16,682 --> 00:36:18,385 Until that day, 789 00:36:18,456 --> 00:36:19,568 accept this justice 790 00:36:19,639 --> 00:36:21,447 as a gift on my daughter's wedding day. 791 00:36:21,518 --> 00:36:22,839 The godfather! 792 00:36:22,910 --> 00:36:24,231 - Godfather! - Nice! 793 00:36:24,301 --> 00:36:26,109 Very good. 794 00:36:27,398 --> 00:36:28,579 Bye! Thanks! 795 00:36:28,650 --> 00:36:29,762 - Bye! - See you. 796 00:36:29,833 --> 00:36:31,293 - Bye! - Thanks for coming, guys. 797 00:36:31,364 --> 00:36:33,242 Thanks for having us. 798 00:36:35,504 --> 00:36:37,207 Oh! 799 00:36:38,426 --> 00:36:41,765 I wanted to give you guys these. 800 00:36:41,836 --> 00:36:45,697 It's a book where you can put pictures and... memories. 801 00:36:45,768 --> 00:36:47,436 Really, whatever you want. 802 00:36:47,507 --> 00:36:48,793 My boys made one for their dad. 803 00:36:48,864 --> 00:36:50,219 Cool! 804 00:36:50,290 --> 00:36:51,820 Did you know my mom? 805 00:36:51,891 --> 00:36:53,907 I met her. 806 00:36:53,978 --> 00:36:56,796 She was so pretty. 807 00:36:56,866 --> 00:36:58,257 You look just like her. 808 00:36:59,475 --> 00:37:01,492 Alright, well, good night. 809 00:37:01,563 --> 00:37:03,127 Good night. 810 00:37:03,198 --> 00:37:05,180 Thanks. 811 00:37:05,251 --> 00:37:06,642 Thanks for the books! 812 00:37:06,712 --> 00:37:08,798 You're welcome. 813 00:37:08,869 --> 00:37:10,573 Here you go. 814 00:37:10,644 --> 00:37:12,556 Thanks. 815 00:37:15,376 --> 00:37:16,974 Thank you for tonight. 816 00:37:17,045 --> 00:37:18,679 Thank you. 817 00:37:18,750 --> 00:37:21,219 It's been a long time since my kids laughed like this. 818 00:37:21,290 --> 00:37:23,898 Mm. Yeah. Mine too. 819 00:37:23,969 --> 00:37:26,821 Drive safely. Bye, guys! 820 00:37:26,891 --> 00:37:27,934 - Take care. - Bye! 821 00:37:36,702 --> 00:37:38,093 Bye! See you at school! 822 00:38:06,137 --> 00:38:07,875 Well, hey, Charlotte, how are you? 823 00:38:07,946 --> 00:38:09,302 I'm good. 824 00:38:09,372 --> 00:38:10,902 What's up? 825 00:38:12,051 --> 00:38:13,164 Um, I was wondering 826 00:38:13,234 --> 00:38:14,937 if you could help me with something. 827 00:38:15,008 --> 00:38:16,851 Well, I sure hope so! 828 00:38:18,384 --> 00:38:20,330 I think I need a bra, 829 00:38:20,401 --> 00:38:22,175 but I don't know what size. 830 00:38:22,245 --> 00:38:25,479 I can absolutely help you with that, sweetheart. 831 00:38:25,550 --> 00:38:26,906 Come here. 832 00:38:26,977 --> 00:38:28,750 Yeah. 833 00:38:28,821 --> 00:38:30,740 We can go shopping together, if you want, okay? 834 00:38:37,171 --> 00:38:39,014 What are you doing up there? 835 00:38:39,084 --> 00:38:41,518 Hey! I'm measuring for the new plans. 836 00:38:41,589 --> 00:38:44,198 So you and Colleen have a new plan? 837 00:38:44,268 --> 00:38:46,076 Well, mm, yeah, 838 00:38:46,147 --> 00:38:49,034 the pastor didn't exactly love our first few suggestions. 839 00:38:49,104 --> 00:38:50,495 I'm kind of not surprised. 840 00:38:50,566 --> 00:38:52,026 Yeah. 841 00:38:52,096 --> 00:38:55,018 The challenge is coming up with, uh, a theme. 842 00:38:56,341 --> 00:38:58,218 Well, uh... 843 00:38:58,289 --> 00:39:00,724 What about making the space somewhere to celebrate 844 00:39:00,795 --> 00:39:03,437 all the people who keep it relevant and alive? 845 00:39:03,508 --> 00:39:05,594 Ah! Now, that's a plan. I love it. 846 00:39:05,665 --> 00:39:06,916 Me too. 847 00:39:06,987 --> 00:39:09,491 Hey, maybe Michael could help us design it. 848 00:39:09,562 --> 00:39:11,266 Oh... um, maybe. 849 00:39:13,006 --> 00:39:16,763 Sure. Yeah. I'm sure I could pull a few ideas together. 850 00:39:16,834 --> 00:39:18,015 Perfect. 851 00:39:20,869 --> 00:39:22,538 Hey, listen, thank you so much 852 00:39:22,608 --> 00:39:26,226 for helping Charlotte with her, uh, situation. 853 00:39:26,296 --> 00:39:27,443 Apparently, there are some things 854 00:39:27,514 --> 00:39:28,557 that a man can't do. 855 00:39:28,628 --> 00:39:30,853 Yeah. That was my pleasure. 856 00:39:30,924 --> 00:39:33,567 Do you remember the quid PRO quo we discussed? 857 00:39:33,638 --> 00:39:34,785 I do. 858 00:39:34,856 --> 00:39:36,281 "The thing that you may ask 859 00:39:36,351 --> 00:39:37,429 may never come." 860 00:39:38,995 --> 00:39:40,914 But you don't want me to whack someone, do you? 861 00:39:41,848 --> 00:39:44,700 Not gonna be that simple. 862 00:39:44,771 --> 00:39:47,414 I mean, it did say "some assembly required." 863 00:39:48,876 --> 00:39:51,624 Wow! Uh... yeah. 864 00:39:51,695 --> 00:39:52,807 Some assembly 865 00:39:52,877 --> 00:39:54,512 and a degree in mechanical engineering. 866 00:39:54,582 --> 00:39:56,390 Matt was really good at this kind of thing. 867 00:39:56,461 --> 00:39:57,712 Yeah. Well, look. 868 00:39:57,783 --> 00:39:59,348 I'm willing to tackle it, 869 00:39:59,418 --> 00:40:01,053 but I'm gonna need some assistance. 870 00:40:01,123 --> 00:40:02,792 Do you know any strong men 871 00:40:02,863 --> 00:40:04,114 willing to work long hours 872 00:40:04,185 --> 00:40:06,306 for literally no pay whatsoever? 873 00:40:06,377 --> 00:40:07,628 Hmm... oh! 874 00:40:07,699 --> 00:40:09,333 Never gonna make it in the union! 875 00:40:09,404 --> 00:40:10,411 Let's do this. 876 00:40:10,482 --> 00:40:11,351 Alright, have fun! 877 00:40:11,422 --> 00:40:12,777 Okay, great. 878 00:40:14,066 --> 00:40:15,908 What is this? 879 00:40:15,979 --> 00:40:18,414 - It's a bunkbed! - What? 880 00:40:18,484 --> 00:40:20,536 Alright, help me out. 881 00:40:25,512 --> 00:40:28,155 Alright, now, this is important information. 882 00:40:28,226 --> 00:40:32,052 This information may someday save your lives. 883 00:40:32,123 --> 00:40:34,487 "Righty-tighty, lefty-loosey." 884 00:40:34,558 --> 00:40:35,775 Come on. Say it with me. 885 00:40:35,845 --> 00:40:38,140 Righty-tighty, lefty-loosey! 886 00:40:38,211 --> 00:40:39,776 Yes, my men! 887 00:40:40,804 --> 00:40:41,985 Okay, you guys, tonight, 888 00:40:42,056 --> 00:40:43,725 we're gonna start bubba in the one spot, 889 00:40:43,796 --> 00:40:45,631 "d" in the two, chopper, you're in the three. 890 00:40:45,640 --> 00:40:47,344 Boots, you in the four, and Charlie, you're in the five. 891 00:40:47,414 --> 00:40:48,943 Offensively, we are in the 41, 892 00:40:49,014 --> 00:40:51,241 I want to see a lot of post-touches and x-cuts. 893 00:40:51,310 --> 00:40:52,736 Defensively, we're gonna cougar all day. 894 00:40:52,807 --> 00:40:54,650 - Got it? - Yes! Go! 895 00:40:54,720 --> 00:40:55,658 Alright, on three! 896 00:40:55,729 --> 00:40:57,015 One... two... three! 897 00:40:57,086 --> 00:40:58,860 - Whoo! - Go get 'em! 898 00:41:00,043 --> 00:41:01,086 Pass! 899 00:41:01,157 --> 00:41:03,173 Come on, guys! 900 00:41:03,244 --> 00:41:05,296 I'm open! 901 00:41:05,366 --> 00:41:07,140 Take a look! Take a look! 902 00:41:07,211 --> 00:41:08,183 Come on! 903 00:41:12,812 --> 00:41:14,586 He is just so great with the kids. 904 00:41:14,656 --> 00:41:16,673 I know, right? 905 00:41:16,743 --> 00:41:19,560 Did you know that Matt played basketball 906 00:41:19,631 --> 00:41:21,127 for Cathy's dad? 907 00:41:21,196 --> 00:41:22,135 Really? 908 00:41:22,206 --> 00:41:23,318 Over here! 909 00:41:23,388 --> 00:41:26,310 Ho! 910 00:41:26,381 --> 00:41:27,702 It's so good 911 00:41:27,773 --> 00:41:29,545 for your kids to have a male figure around. 912 00:41:29,616 --> 00:41:31,112 We are just friends. 913 00:41:31,183 --> 00:41:33,234 Our families just need each other right now. 914 00:41:33,304 --> 00:41:34,764 That's all this is. 915 00:41:34,835 --> 00:41:36,295 I didn't say anything. 916 00:41:36,366 --> 00:41:37,867 Good! Because there's nothing to say. 917 00:41:37,932 --> 00:41:39,218 We're gonna be spending the summer in Colorado 918 00:41:39,289 --> 00:41:40,610 at my parents' house. 919 00:41:40,681 --> 00:41:41,896 Not even gonna see each other 920 00:41:41,967 --> 00:41:43,844 for a couple of months. After that, who knows? 921 00:41:43,881 --> 00:41:45,133 Shoot! Shoot! Shoot! 922 00:41:45,203 --> 00:41:46,594 Oh! So close! 923 00:41:53,388 --> 00:41:54,953 It was good for the boys 924 00:41:55,023 --> 00:41:57,388 to get away from home and see life from a distance. 925 00:41:57,459 --> 00:42:00,068 The outdoors and the quiet time 926 00:42:00,137 --> 00:42:02,711 gave me time to find a sense of peace. 927 00:42:05,218 --> 00:42:06,643 Come on, guys. 928 00:42:06,714 --> 00:42:08,007 I really want to go play hockey. 929 00:42:08,035 --> 00:42:10,227 Oh, home, sweet home. 930 00:42:17,743 --> 00:42:19,689 I am so exhausted. 931 00:42:19,760 --> 00:42:21,011 Are we going shopping? 932 00:42:21,082 --> 00:42:22,403 No, definitely not. 933 00:42:22,474 --> 00:42:23,830 We'll go tomorrow. 934 00:42:23,901 --> 00:42:26,092 We still have a few days before school starts. 935 00:42:36,565 --> 00:42:39,138 Hello? 936 00:42:39,209 --> 00:42:40,738 Oh, hi, Michael. 937 00:42:41,853 --> 00:42:44,565 Yeah, no, we literally just walked through the door. 938 00:42:46,202 --> 00:42:47,523 - Yes! - Yes. Please? 939 00:42:47,593 --> 00:42:49,297 That sounds great. 940 00:42:49,368 --> 00:42:50,376 No, no, we're not tired. 941 00:42:50,446 --> 00:42:52,464 Yes! 942 00:42:59,319 --> 00:43:01,649 Did you order your kids new school uniforms yet? 943 00:43:01,719 --> 00:43:04,328 Was I supposed to do that? Ohh! 944 00:43:04,398 --> 00:43:06,868 Charlotte probably grew three inches this summer 945 00:43:06,938 --> 00:43:08,397 and Danny's at least one size bigger 946 00:43:08,434 --> 00:43:10,486 and Jack's shoes are too small. 947 00:43:10,556 --> 00:43:11,599 How could you possibly know that? 948 00:43:11,669 --> 00:43:13,269 Ah, it's a mom thing. 949 00:43:13,340 --> 00:43:14,661 Cathy knew. 950 00:43:14,731 --> 00:43:17,027 Yes, she did. 951 00:43:27,083 --> 00:43:28,368 Good morning. 952 00:43:28,439 --> 00:43:30,143 Hey! Good morning! 953 00:43:30,214 --> 00:43:31,570 Good morning. 954 00:43:31,640 --> 00:43:33,483 Ah, gentlemen, good morning. 955 00:43:33,554 --> 00:43:34,513 - Hello. - Good morning. 956 00:43:34,562 --> 00:43:35,536 Good morning. 957 00:43:35,606 --> 00:43:37,067 Good morning, Gina. 958 00:43:37,138 --> 00:43:39,328 Ah, the spehns! 959 00:43:39,398 --> 00:43:41,242 - Good morning. - Sam! Drew! Wait up! 960 00:43:41,313 --> 00:43:43,364 - Hi, pastor. How's things? - Really well. Yourself? 961 00:43:43,435 --> 00:43:44,547 - I'm good. Thank you. - Excellent. 962 00:43:44,617 --> 00:43:46,147 This is a surprise. 963 00:43:46,218 --> 00:43:48,478 It feels good to be back in church today. 964 00:43:48,549 --> 00:43:49,662 I guess we're sitting together? 965 00:43:49,731 --> 00:43:51,609 I guess so! 966 00:43:53,594 --> 00:43:55,019 Go on. Go, go, go. 967 00:43:55,090 --> 00:43:57,872 - Let's play volleyball! - Okay. 968 00:44:00,830 --> 00:44:02,255 Here you go. 969 00:44:02,326 --> 00:44:04,726 Thanks. 970 00:44:04,797 --> 00:44:06,256 That's Matt and his three best friends. 971 00:44:06,327 --> 00:44:07,822 They grew up together. 972 00:44:07,893 --> 00:44:09,249 They put on a golf tournament 973 00:44:09,320 --> 00:44:11,024 to raise money for charity in Matt's name last year. 974 00:44:11,093 --> 00:44:12,867 They're gonna do it again this year. 975 00:44:12,938 --> 00:44:15,094 That's great. 976 00:44:17,052 --> 00:44:19,139 This is a video diary that Matt made of himself 977 00:44:19,209 --> 00:44:20,844 for the boys, 978 00:44:20,914 --> 00:44:24,149 lessons that a father would want to teach his sons. 979 00:44:24,219 --> 00:44:26,063 Wow. 980 00:44:26,132 --> 00:44:27,663 Have you watched them? 981 00:44:27,733 --> 00:44:31,142 I started, but... 982 00:44:31,212 --> 00:44:34,030 I just can't really finish it yet. 983 00:44:35,909 --> 00:44:36,987 I-I better go see what's going on. 984 00:44:37,058 --> 00:44:38,762 Wait. 985 00:44:38,832 --> 00:44:39,910 Just give them a minute. 986 00:44:39,980 --> 00:44:42,623 I just want them to play fair. 987 00:44:42,694 --> 00:44:43,771 Trust me. 988 00:44:43,842 --> 00:44:44,989 They play in the backyard, 989 00:44:45,060 --> 00:44:46,269 but it's also where they learn 990 00:44:46,278 --> 00:44:47,911 to negotiate and compromise. 991 00:44:47,982 --> 00:44:48,851 You guys-- 992 00:44:51,739 --> 00:44:52,817 Don't deny them the opportunity 993 00:44:52,887 --> 00:44:54,591 to work it out themselves. 994 00:44:54,662 --> 00:44:56,679 Just trust me. 995 00:44:56,749 --> 00:44:59,880 The backyard can be a magical place. 996 00:44:59,951 --> 00:45:02,594 Who cares? 997 00:45:04,126 --> 00:45:05,516 How did you know that? 998 00:45:05,586 --> 00:45:07,673 It's a dad thing. 999 00:45:08,962 --> 00:45:10,874 I'm sure Matt knew it, too. 1000 00:45:10,945 --> 00:45:12,579 You're right. 1001 00:45:12,650 --> 00:45:13,797 He did. 1002 00:45:23,470 --> 00:45:25,312 Trick-or-treat! 1003 00:45:25,383 --> 00:45:27,957 Cathy loved Halloween. 1004 00:45:28,028 --> 00:45:29,662 Matt was too sick 1005 00:45:29,732 --> 00:45:30,879 to go trick-or-treating last Halloween, 1006 00:45:30,950 --> 00:45:33,558 so we stayed home and just gave out candy. 1007 00:45:33,629 --> 00:45:36,063 I can't believe that was 10 months ago. 1008 00:45:36,134 --> 00:45:38,290 Sometimes, it seems like yesterday, 1009 00:45:38,361 --> 00:45:39,786 and, sometimes, it seems like forever. 1010 00:45:39,856 --> 00:45:42,395 You're doing great. 1011 00:45:42,466 --> 00:45:45,109 And I must say, I really like your costume. 1012 00:45:45,179 --> 00:45:46,153 Oh! Thank you. 1013 00:45:46,223 --> 00:45:47,544 The boys dressed me. 1014 00:45:47,615 --> 00:45:48,415 - Mm-hmm! - I'm a linebacker. 1015 00:45:48,485 --> 00:45:50,328 Yeah, very convincing. 1016 00:45:50,398 --> 00:45:51,719 And by convincing, 1017 00:45:51,790 --> 00:45:53,959 I mean you look absolutely nothing like a linebacker. 1018 00:45:54,017 --> 00:45:55,268 What're you talking about? I look good! 1019 00:45:55,339 --> 00:45:57,043 I wore this to target today 1020 00:45:57,113 --> 00:45:58,504 and I got asked out by a total stranger. 1021 00:45:58,575 --> 00:46:00,487 Who was it? 1022 00:46:00,558 --> 00:46:02,645 I'll kill him! 1023 00:46:02,714 --> 00:46:03,793 Are you jealous? 1024 00:46:03,862 --> 00:46:05,253 Yes! 1025 00:46:05,324 --> 00:46:07,285 I go to target all the time, nobody asks me out. 1026 00:46:08,594 --> 00:46:11,516 If I saw you at target, I'd probably ask you out, too. 1027 00:46:11,587 --> 00:46:14,056 Are you flirting with a linebacker? 1028 00:46:14,127 --> 00:46:16,318 Yes. 1029 00:46:16,387 --> 00:46:18,161 And if you said yes, 1030 00:46:18,232 --> 00:46:20,527 I would probably take you to an Italian restaurant. 1031 00:46:20,598 --> 00:46:21,709 Oh, really? 1032 00:46:21,780 --> 00:46:23,414 Listen, just because you're Italian 1033 00:46:23,485 --> 00:46:24,598 doesn't mean you're the only one 1034 00:46:24,669 --> 00:46:26,268 that knows good Italian food. 1035 00:46:26,338 --> 00:46:27,485 Chuck E. Cheese? 1036 00:46:27,556 --> 00:46:28,668 Ho-ho-ho! 1037 00:46:28,739 --> 00:46:30,652 Luigi's. 1038 00:46:30,722 --> 00:46:32,425 We should go there for dinner. 1039 00:46:32,496 --> 00:46:33,713 You can judge for yourself. 1040 00:46:33,784 --> 00:46:35,557 Alright, I'll take you up on that offer. 1041 00:46:35,628 --> 00:46:38,375 Great! I'll pick you up at 7:30. 1042 00:46:38,446 --> 00:46:41,158 Alright, come on, guys! Last house! 1043 00:46:42,030 --> 00:46:44,032 - Wait for me, wait for me. - What just happened? 1044 00:46:45,195 --> 00:46:46,204 It's not a date. 1045 00:46:46,274 --> 00:46:47,212 I know. 1046 00:46:47,283 --> 00:46:48,360 It's just dinner. 1047 00:46:48,431 --> 00:46:49,891 More of a bet or a dare, really. 1048 00:46:49,962 --> 00:46:51,109 I totally agree. 1049 00:46:51,180 --> 00:46:52,431 I mean, it's not about dressing up. 1050 00:46:52,502 --> 00:46:53,649 It's just I don't have anything that fits. 1051 00:46:53,720 --> 00:46:54,901 I have not bought new clothes in two years. 1052 00:46:54,972 --> 00:46:56,327 You should buy something new! 1053 00:46:56,398 --> 00:46:57,789 I should! 1054 00:46:57,859 --> 00:46:59,528 But not because it's a date, because it's so not. 1055 00:46:59,599 --> 00:47:00,538 I couldn't agree more. 1056 00:47:00,608 --> 00:47:02,103 Or less. 1057 00:47:09,063 --> 00:47:11,010 I mean, it's important to do something nice 1058 00:47:11,081 --> 00:47:12,506 for yourself once in a while. 1059 00:47:12,577 --> 00:47:13,724 This is just good grooming. 1060 00:47:13,794 --> 00:47:16,298 It's a matter of hygiene. Nothing special. 1061 00:47:18,526 --> 00:47:20,265 Oh! No. Not my color. 1062 00:47:20,335 --> 00:47:21,343 I agree. 1063 00:47:21,414 --> 00:47:22,387 Or is it? 1064 00:47:22,458 --> 00:47:24,335 Um... hmm. I agree. 1065 00:47:24,405 --> 00:47:26,283 No. Definitely not. 1066 00:47:27,294 --> 00:47:28,928 Trying too hard? 1067 00:47:28,999 --> 00:47:30,945 I don't think so. I like it! 1068 00:47:31,016 --> 00:47:34,077 No. You're right. Trying way too hard. 1069 00:47:36,826 --> 00:47:37,730 Too young? Too old? 1070 00:47:37,800 --> 00:47:39,644 Oh, no. I-- 1071 00:47:39,715 --> 00:47:42,010 You're totally right. 1072 00:47:47,751 --> 00:47:50,151 That's it. 1073 00:47:50,221 --> 00:47:51,682 I agree. 1074 00:47:51,752 --> 00:47:53,212 You know what? It's a nice look for going out 1075 00:47:53,283 --> 00:47:54,709 for dinner at night 1076 00:47:54,779 --> 00:47:57,352 with a friend that you really care about. 1077 00:47:57,423 --> 00:47:58,327 Yeah! 1078 00:47:59,859 --> 00:48:01,527 This is a date, isn't it? 1079 00:48:01,598 --> 00:48:03,546 Yes. 1080 00:48:03,616 --> 00:48:05,772 I am a 36-year-old mom going out on her first date. 1081 00:48:05,843 --> 00:48:08,277 The first date that I have been on in 15 years. 1082 00:48:08,347 --> 00:48:10,017 The last time I went out on a date, 1083 00:48:10,088 --> 00:48:10,886 men were boys. 1084 00:48:10,957 --> 00:48:12,104 They still are! 1085 00:48:12,175 --> 00:48:14,330 Just breathe, Gina. 1086 00:48:14,401 --> 00:48:15,340 Suck in the oxygen... 1087 00:48:16,523 --> 00:48:19,062 Just let it out. Just breathe. 1088 00:48:19,133 --> 00:48:20,524 Okay. You're right. 1089 00:48:20,594 --> 00:48:21,811 This is... 1090 00:48:21,882 --> 00:48:23,216 Yeah, I think I'm going to faint. 1091 00:48:23,274 --> 00:48:24,595 Really good. 1092 00:48:38,895 --> 00:48:41,608 Feels weird to be out without the children. 1093 00:48:41,679 --> 00:48:43,104 Oh, we could see if they have any in the back 1094 00:48:43,174 --> 00:48:44,878 they could loan us. 1095 00:48:44,949 --> 00:48:46,374 Thank you. 1096 00:48:52,150 --> 00:48:53,228 Hello. My name is Sarah 1097 00:48:53,299 --> 00:48:54,898 and I'll be your server tonight. 1098 00:48:54,969 --> 00:48:56,742 Hey, Sarah. How are you? 1099 00:48:56,812 --> 00:48:58,760 I'm great, thanks. How are you? 1100 00:48:58,830 --> 00:49:01,126 We are weak from hunger. 1101 00:49:01,196 --> 00:49:03,701 I mean, I can barely make out the words on the menu. 1102 00:49:03,770 --> 00:49:05,063 How about some warm bread, then? 1103 00:49:05,093 --> 00:49:06,762 That would be great, thanks. 1104 00:49:08,816 --> 00:49:10,763 What? 1105 00:49:10,834 --> 00:49:12,746 Oh, you were sweet to the waitress. 1106 00:49:13,861 --> 00:49:14,799 And...? 1107 00:49:14,869 --> 00:49:16,086 I like that. 1108 00:49:16,157 --> 00:49:17,548 Oh. 1109 00:49:17,618 --> 00:49:18,765 Okay. 1110 00:49:18,836 --> 00:49:20,018 I mean, things like 1111 00:49:20,088 --> 00:49:21,479 being nice to a waitress gives you points. 1112 00:49:21,550 --> 00:49:23,184 It's like the right shoes. 1113 00:49:23,255 --> 00:49:24,714 You know, you wear right shoes, you get points. 1114 00:49:24,785 --> 00:49:26,002 You wear the wrong shoes 1115 00:49:26,072 --> 00:49:27,741 could be a deal-breaker. 1116 00:49:27,812 --> 00:49:29,863 Or-or-or dirt under your fingernails. 1117 00:49:29,934 --> 00:49:31,012 Or hair. 1118 00:49:31,082 --> 00:49:32,229 - Hair? - Oh, yeah! 1119 00:49:32,300 --> 00:49:33,865 Too much of anything is just bad. 1120 00:49:33,935 --> 00:49:36,161 You know, too much hair gel, too much blow-drying, 1121 00:49:36,232 --> 00:49:37,135 too much of a comb-over-- 1122 00:49:37,206 --> 00:49:38,457 How am I Doin'? 1123 00:49:38,528 --> 00:49:40,510 Uh, so far, so good. 1124 00:49:40,580 --> 00:49:41,623 Oh, whew! 1125 00:49:41,694 --> 00:49:43,189 Yeah. I mean, we will have to see 1126 00:49:43,260 --> 00:49:44,650 how you do with the dessert tray. 1127 00:49:44,721 --> 00:49:46,981 Wait. I have to do dessert, too? 1128 00:49:47,052 --> 00:49:48,582 - Oh, totally! - Oh! 1129 00:49:48,652 --> 00:49:51,121 Ordering dessert, even if the woman says no, 1130 00:49:51,192 --> 00:49:52,547 is key. 1131 00:49:52,618 --> 00:49:54,844 Now, listen, I'm only telling you this 1132 00:49:54,914 --> 00:49:57,167 because I trust you're not gonna abuse the information. 1133 00:49:59,299 --> 00:50:00,759 Great. 1134 00:50:00,830 --> 00:50:01,941 We're ready to order. 1135 00:50:02,012 --> 00:50:03,960 We'll take everything on the dessert tray. 1136 00:50:04,030 --> 00:50:05,525 And then, also-- 1137 00:50:05,596 --> 00:50:07,544 Do you know somewhere that I can get my shoes shined? 1138 00:50:07,613 --> 00:50:09,700 Because, um, apparently, if they have scuffs on them, 1139 00:50:09,771 --> 00:50:11,649 this relationship's over. 1140 00:50:13,076 --> 00:50:15,475 We'll just hear about the specials, please. 1141 00:50:25,288 --> 00:50:28,001 That was a wonderful Italian restaurant. 1142 00:50:28,071 --> 00:50:30,158 Thank you. That means a lot, 1143 00:50:30,229 --> 00:50:32,662 coming from an authentic Italian person. 1144 00:50:38,648 --> 00:50:40,908 Well... good night. 1145 00:50:42,023 --> 00:50:43,761 Good night. 1146 00:50:43,832 --> 00:50:44,945 You should go. 1147 00:50:45,014 --> 00:50:46,093 I'm leaving. 1148 00:50:46,163 --> 00:50:47,171 You should. 1149 00:50:47,242 --> 00:50:49,294 I am. 1150 00:51:06,012 --> 00:51:07,995 You're going. 1151 00:51:29,958 --> 00:51:32,219 Good. Okay. 1152 00:51:33,298 --> 00:51:35,419 Is it gonna be finished in time for Christmas? 1153 00:51:35,490 --> 00:51:36,776 Well, I hope so. 1154 00:51:36,846 --> 00:51:37,959 I mean, all the artwork's still at the printers. 1155 00:51:38,030 --> 00:51:39,525 Yeah, but we have less than two months. 1156 00:51:39,595 --> 00:51:40,395 I don't think we're gonna make it. 1157 00:51:40,465 --> 00:51:41,681 Think positively! 1158 00:51:41,752 --> 00:51:42,934 I positively don't think 1159 00:51:43,005 --> 00:51:44,465 we're gonna make it. 1160 00:51:48,989 --> 00:51:50,554 Can Sam and me stay over? 1161 00:51:50,624 --> 00:51:52,154 Please? Can they? 1162 00:51:52,224 --> 00:51:53,928 Well, it's "Sam and i." 1163 00:51:53,999 --> 00:51:55,668 I don't know. 1164 00:51:55,738 --> 00:51:57,199 I mean, were you guys invited? 1165 00:51:57,270 --> 00:51:59,251 Dad? Can they? 1166 00:51:59,322 --> 00:52:00,365 Please? 1167 00:52:00,436 --> 00:52:01,583 Yeah! Of course. 1168 00:52:01,653 --> 00:52:02,939 Right? 1169 00:52:03,010 --> 00:52:04,644 I don't mind. 1170 00:52:04,715 --> 00:52:06,258 - Yes! Awesome! - Let's go to my room. 1171 00:52:07,776 --> 00:52:09,654 Looks like we're having a sleepover. Hmm. 1172 00:52:09,725 --> 00:52:12,368 Yes, it does. 1173 00:52:12,438 --> 00:52:13,481 Mom? 1174 00:52:13,552 --> 00:52:15,221 Are you gonna stay, too? 1175 00:52:15,291 --> 00:52:16,543 Oh, no, sweetie. 1176 00:52:16,613 --> 00:52:18,248 Adults don't have sleepovers. 1177 00:52:22,076 --> 00:52:24,197 All alone on a Friday night. 1178 00:52:24,268 --> 00:52:26,110 What will I do with myself? 1179 00:52:26,181 --> 00:52:29,103 Oh, yeah, big sacrifice. 1180 00:52:29,174 --> 00:52:32,756 I might need some ice cream, a movie, a nice long bath... 1181 00:52:32,826 --> 00:52:35,504 It's gonna be a hardship, but I will survive. 1182 00:52:35,575 --> 00:52:39,436 Uh, well, I'd invite you to stay... 1183 00:52:39,507 --> 00:52:41,662 No. I will be back in the morning. You have fun. 1184 00:52:41,733 --> 00:52:43,681 Well, I'll make pancakes. 1185 00:52:43,751 --> 00:52:46,812 Okay. That's great. 1186 00:52:46,882 --> 00:52:49,421 Is this really as easy as it seems? 1187 00:52:49,492 --> 00:52:50,569 Or... 1188 00:52:50,640 --> 00:52:52,378 It's impossible. 1189 00:52:53,806 --> 00:52:55,022 Um... 1190 00:52:55,093 --> 00:52:57,006 Care to test the waters? 1191 00:52:57,077 --> 00:52:58,536 What do you mean? 1192 00:52:58,607 --> 00:53:00,311 Veteran's day is coming up. 1193 00:53:00,382 --> 00:53:01,633 We have a three-day weekend. 1194 00:53:01,704 --> 00:53:04,452 We could all go on vacation. 1195 00:53:04,521 --> 00:53:08,348 The whole crazy bunch of us. 1196 00:53:08,418 --> 00:53:10,436 You want to travel somewhere with five children? 1197 00:53:10,506 --> 00:53:12,035 Yeah! Why not? 1198 00:53:13,568 --> 00:53:16,871 It would be really nice to have a sign. 1199 00:53:18,021 --> 00:53:19,690 Something to tell us 1200 00:53:19,761 --> 00:53:21,220 we're headed in the right direction. 1201 00:53:21,257 --> 00:53:23,412 Mm. 1202 00:53:23,483 --> 00:53:25,013 Okay, I tell you what. 1203 00:53:25,084 --> 00:53:27,414 You write a list of all the reasons this can't work, 1204 00:53:27,484 --> 00:53:28,631 I'll do the same, 1205 00:53:28,702 --> 00:53:30,997 and tomorrow, we'll exchange lists. 1206 00:53:32,146 --> 00:53:33,154 Alright. 1207 00:53:33,225 --> 00:53:34,476 Deal. 1208 00:53:34,547 --> 00:53:36,286 Deal. 1209 00:54:07,460 --> 00:54:09,790 Nothing. 1210 00:54:09,861 --> 00:54:11,773 I guess we're on! 1211 00:54:14,070 --> 00:54:16,156 ♪ She'll be coming around the mountain ♪ 1212 00:54:16,193 --> 00:54:17,757 ♪ When she comes ♪ 1213 00:54:17,828 --> 00:54:19,184 Yee-haw! 1214 00:54:19,255 --> 00:54:20,923 ♪ She'll be coming around the mountain ♪ 1215 00:54:20,994 --> 00:54:21,898 ♪ When she comes ♪ 1216 00:54:21,968 --> 00:54:23,289 Yee-haw! 1217 00:54:23,360 --> 00:54:25,412 ♪ She'll be coming around the mountain ♪ 1218 00:54:25,483 --> 00:54:27,604 ♪ She'll be coming around the mountain ♪ 1219 00:54:27,674 --> 00:54:29,301 ♪ She'll be coming around the mountain ♪ 1220 00:54:29,344 --> 00:54:30,212 ♪ When she comes ♪ 1221 00:54:30,283 --> 00:54:31,570 Yee-haw! 1222 00:54:31,640 --> 00:54:33,344 ♪ She'll be driving six white horses ♪ 1223 00:54:33,415 --> 00:54:35,084 ♪ When she comes ♪ 1224 00:54:37,241 --> 00:54:38,702 You know, some of these big trees 1225 00:54:38,773 --> 00:54:40,477 are hundreds of years old! 1226 00:54:40,547 --> 00:54:45,417 The grand-daddies of all living things on the planet. 1227 00:54:47,123 --> 00:54:51,331 The forest is one huge extended family. 1228 00:54:51,402 --> 00:54:55,228 They depend on each other to survive. 1229 00:54:55,299 --> 00:54:58,394 Cool. 1230 00:54:58,465 --> 00:55:00,899 This was the perfect place to be, 1231 00:55:00,970 --> 00:55:03,439 away from all the sad reminders... 1232 00:55:03,509 --> 00:55:05,457 A place where we could laugh. 1233 00:55:14,121 --> 00:55:15,755 Oh! Isn't that cool? 1234 00:55:15,826 --> 00:55:17,634 Wow! 1235 00:55:21,253 --> 00:55:23,548 Ooh! 1236 00:55:23,619 --> 00:55:24,662 Awesome. 1237 00:55:24,733 --> 00:55:26,124 - Hi! - Hey. How you doing? 1238 00:55:31,448 --> 00:55:32,942 I'm gonna sleep really good tonight. 1239 00:55:33,013 --> 00:55:34,578 This is us. 1240 00:55:36,352 --> 00:55:37,918 Why don't you take this one? 1241 00:55:37,988 --> 00:55:39,797 And maybe Charlotte can go there... 1242 00:55:39,866 --> 00:55:41,884 And you want to sleep there? 1243 00:55:42,929 --> 00:55:44,215 Sam and drew? 1244 00:55:44,285 --> 00:55:45,676 Okay, thanks. 1245 00:55:45,746 --> 00:55:46,894 Okay, I'll go here. 1246 00:55:46,964 --> 00:55:48,598 Guys, this is awesome! 1247 00:55:48,669 --> 00:55:49,886 Yeah, cool! 1248 00:55:49,957 --> 00:55:52,390 There's only, uh... 1249 00:55:52,461 --> 00:55:53,887 - What? - Only six. 1250 00:55:53,958 --> 00:55:56,705 Oh. Uh... I'll-- I'll sleep in the hammock. 1251 00:55:56,776 --> 00:55:58,444 Great! Okay. 1252 00:55:58,515 --> 00:56:00,567 That's perfect. Alright, you guys. 1253 00:56:00,637 --> 00:56:02,411 Get your sleeping bags out and your pillows 1254 00:56:02,482 --> 00:56:04,011 and let's make our beds. 1255 00:56:04,082 --> 00:56:05,646 - So many bugs. - Yeah. 1256 00:56:11,389 --> 00:56:13,231 ♪ My paddle's keen and bright ♪ 1257 00:56:13,302 --> 00:56:15,110 ♪ Flashing with silver ♪ 1258 00:56:15,181 --> 00:56:17,406 ♪ Follow the wild goose flight ♪ 1259 00:56:17,477 --> 00:56:19,668 ♪ Dip, dip and swing ♪ 1260 00:56:19,739 --> 00:56:21,790 ♪ Dip, dip and swing her back ♪ 1261 00:56:21,860 --> 00:56:24,225 ♪ Flashing with silver ♪ 1262 00:56:24,296 --> 00:56:26,383 ♪ Follow the wild goose flight ♪ 1263 00:56:26,453 --> 00:56:28,609 ♪ Dip, dip and swing ♪ 1264 00:56:28,680 --> 00:56:31,149 ♪ Dip, dip and swing her back... ♪ 1265 00:56:31,220 --> 00:56:33,619 Okay, tonight, I'm taking the hammock. 1266 00:56:33,690 --> 00:56:35,845 No, no, I'm getting used to it. 1267 00:56:35,916 --> 00:56:37,029 It's molding to my body. 1268 00:56:37,100 --> 00:56:39,082 Emphasis on "mold." 1269 00:56:39,152 --> 00:56:40,056 Hey! 1270 00:56:40,127 --> 00:56:41,586 Go, go, go, go, go! 1271 00:56:41,657 --> 00:56:44,648 This all feels very familiar. 1272 00:56:44,719 --> 00:56:46,701 What? 1273 00:56:46,772 --> 00:56:48,127 I mean, we're missing the theme song, 1274 00:56:48,198 --> 00:56:50,563 but I think we're the Brady bunch. 1275 00:56:51,747 --> 00:56:52,998 I think you're right. 1276 00:56:57,244 --> 00:56:58,529 And there it is. 1277 00:56:58,600 --> 00:57:00,234 What? 1278 00:57:00,305 --> 00:57:02,218 Right there... 1279 00:57:02,288 --> 00:57:04,515 That sign you were looking for. 1280 00:57:18,676 --> 00:57:22,884 ♪ Things get done when you're working together ♪ 1281 00:57:22,955 --> 00:57:26,850 ♪ Give it all you got and add some fun for goodness measure ♪ 1282 00:57:26,921 --> 00:57:29,077 ♪ If you need a hand ♪ 1283 00:57:29,148 --> 00:57:31,164 ♪ Then I think it's much better ♪ 1284 00:57:31,235 --> 00:57:33,147 ♪ 'Cause things get done ♪ 1285 00:57:33,218 --> 00:57:36,244 ♪ When you're workin'... ♪ 1286 00:57:36,315 --> 00:57:39,097 ♪ Workin' together ♪ 1287 00:57:39,168 --> 00:57:40,768 There we go. Great. 1288 00:57:40,837 --> 00:57:44,281 ♪ Workin' together yeah ♪ 1289 00:57:44,351 --> 00:57:45,777 ♪ I tried to do it on my own.. ♪ 1290 00:57:45,848 --> 00:57:47,343 Want me to do this? 1291 00:57:47,414 --> 00:57:49,186 It's fine, I can-- no. 1292 00:57:49,257 --> 00:57:50,161 Oh, okay. 1293 00:57:52,214 --> 00:57:54,475 ♪ Then you stepped up to my side ♪ 1294 00:57:54,546 --> 00:57:56,562 ♪ Felt so good I almost cried ♪ 1295 00:57:56,633 --> 00:57:59,033 ♪ There's nothing else that I can't do ♪ 1296 00:57:59,104 --> 00:58:02,582 ♪ So step aside I'm Comin' through ♪ 1297 00:58:02,652 --> 00:58:06,826 ♪ Things get done when you're working together ♪ 1298 00:58:06,897 --> 00:58:10,410 ♪ Give it all you got and add some fun for good measure ♪ 1299 00:58:10,481 --> 00:58:12,219 Hey, alright. 1300 00:58:12,290 --> 00:58:15,594 ♪ If you need a hand then I think it's much better ♪ 1301 00:58:15,664 --> 00:58:18,343 ♪ 'Cause things get done when you're workin' ♪ 1302 00:58:18,412 --> 00:58:22,518 ♪ Workin' together workin' together ♪ 1303 00:58:22,862 --> 00:58:26,236 Now that... Is officially our family song. 1304 00:58:28,081 --> 00:58:30,516 Are we a family? 1305 00:58:30,586 --> 00:58:32,081 Well, uh... 1306 00:58:32,152 --> 00:58:34,691 What would you think if we were? 1307 00:58:34,761 --> 00:58:37,474 What would you guys think if... 1308 00:58:37,545 --> 00:58:39,178 One day... 1309 00:58:39,249 --> 00:58:40,813 We decided to get married? 1310 00:58:40,884 --> 00:58:42,554 Can we get a dog? 1311 00:58:42,624 --> 00:58:43,806 Whoa! Slow down. 1312 00:58:43,877 --> 00:58:44,884 Where would we live? 1313 00:58:44,955 --> 00:58:46,311 Can we share a room? 1314 00:58:51,809 --> 00:58:54,486 Aw... 1315 00:58:56,958 --> 00:58:58,905 What... what's going on? 1316 00:58:58,976 --> 00:58:59,845 What's happening? 1317 00:58:59,916 --> 00:59:02,385 A legal matter. 1318 00:59:02,455 --> 00:59:03,846 No! No, no, no, no, no, no. No. 1319 00:59:03,917 --> 00:59:05,446 No! No, no. No. 1320 00:59:05,517 --> 00:59:06,594 We have to tear it up! 1321 00:59:06,665 --> 00:59:07,708 Absolutely not. 1322 00:59:07,778 --> 00:59:08,786 But you signed it. 1323 00:59:08,857 --> 00:59:09,864 It's okay. 1324 00:59:09,935 --> 00:59:11,291 But you could go to jail! 1325 00:59:11,362 --> 00:59:13,170 Trust me. I promise you. Okay? 1326 00:59:13,241 --> 00:59:14,422 - Okay. - Okay? 1327 00:59:14,493 --> 00:59:15,362 - Okay. - Okay? 1328 00:59:15,432 --> 00:59:17,310 It's between us. 1329 00:59:17,381 --> 00:59:19,294 I want to keep this forever. 1330 00:59:19,364 --> 00:59:20,372 Okay. 1331 00:59:20,443 --> 00:59:22,146 Come on. Let's go back to dinner. 1332 00:59:25,035 --> 00:59:28,235 Thanks, you guys. That was so much fun! 1333 00:59:31,019 --> 00:59:33,349 Bye, guys! 1334 00:59:33,420 --> 00:59:35,367 Okay, you guys, upstairs. Let's go, get ready for bed. 1335 00:59:35,438 --> 00:59:36,898 - Hey, dad? - Yeah, buddy? 1336 00:59:36,969 --> 00:59:38,638 What are we gonna call Mrs. kell? 1337 00:59:38,708 --> 00:59:42,048 Oh. Um... 1338 00:59:42,117 --> 00:59:43,578 What do you want to call her? 1339 00:59:43,648 --> 00:59:45,387 I don't know. 1340 00:59:45,458 --> 00:59:48,831 I already have a mom. She's in heaven. 1341 00:59:50,085 --> 00:59:51,963 Oh. Um... 1342 00:59:53,147 --> 00:59:55,128 Come here, Jack. 1343 00:59:59,374 --> 01:00:01,426 Jack, let me tell you 1344 01:00:01,497 --> 01:00:04,488 something that your mom taught me. 1345 01:00:04,559 --> 01:00:07,306 Now, your heart is full of love for your mom, 1346 01:00:07,377 --> 01:00:09,289 and it always will be. 1347 01:00:09,359 --> 01:00:11,794 What mom used to say, you know, 1348 01:00:11,865 --> 01:00:13,499 about growing new hearts? 1349 01:00:13,604 --> 01:00:15,238 That's real, buddy. 1350 01:00:15,309 --> 01:00:17,604 You know, and when 1351 01:00:17,675 --> 01:00:19,587 you meet someone new to love, 1352 01:00:19,658 --> 01:00:22,406 it's like you grow a whole new heart 1353 01:00:22,477 --> 01:00:25,745 that just fills with love for that person. 1354 01:00:25,816 --> 01:00:27,867 You don't take love away 1355 01:00:27,938 --> 01:00:30,164 from anyone else, like your mom. 1356 01:00:30,234 --> 01:00:33,191 Okay? That's yours to keep forever. 1357 01:00:33,209 --> 01:00:35,157 Does that make sense? 1358 01:00:35,262 --> 01:00:36,792 Good. 1359 01:00:36,863 --> 01:00:37,976 So really, I mean, it doesn't matter 1360 01:00:38,045 --> 01:00:40,167 if you call us mom or dad, 1361 01:00:40,237 --> 01:00:42,533 or Mrs. kell or... 1362 01:00:42,603 --> 01:00:44,690 Phyllis. 1363 01:00:45,395 --> 01:00:47,135 We love you, Jack. 1364 01:00:48,701 --> 01:00:49,744 Good night, buddy. 1365 01:00:49,814 --> 01:00:51,274 Good night, dad. 1366 01:00:51,345 --> 01:00:52,562 Good night, Jack. 1367 01:00:52,633 --> 01:00:55,067 Good night, Phyllis. 1368 01:01:06,280 --> 01:01:08,158 Good night, Phyllis. 1369 01:01:08,229 --> 01:01:10,245 Good night. 1370 01:01:15,213 --> 01:01:16,881 Alright, you guys, come on. 1371 01:01:19,005 --> 01:01:20,917 Come on, come on. You're gonna be late! 1372 01:01:20,987 --> 01:01:22,935 Come on. 1373 01:01:23,006 --> 01:01:24,327 Have a good day, alright? 1374 01:01:24,397 --> 01:01:26,762 - Bye. - See you, sweetie. 1375 01:01:26,833 --> 01:01:28,885 Alright, well... 1376 01:01:28,955 --> 01:01:30,033 I'll call you later. 1377 01:01:30,104 --> 01:01:30,868 - Okay. - Alright. Bye. 1378 01:01:30,938 --> 01:01:33,268 Alright. 1379 01:01:38,731 --> 01:01:40,505 Good morning! 1380 01:01:40,576 --> 01:01:41,861 Good morning! 1381 01:01:41,932 --> 01:01:43,358 How was your weekend? 1382 01:01:43,428 --> 01:01:44,610 Oh, it was fantastic. 1383 01:01:44,681 --> 01:01:45,863 It was actually great. How was yours? 1384 01:01:45,933 --> 01:01:46,871 Restful, thank you. 1385 01:01:46,942 --> 01:01:48,020 Good! 1386 01:01:48,090 --> 01:01:49,063 - Hey! - Hey. 1387 01:01:49,134 --> 01:01:50,664 Hi. I brought you coffee. 1388 01:01:50,735 --> 01:01:51,952 Oh! Thank you. 1389 01:01:52,022 --> 01:01:53,378 Can we talk? 1390 01:01:53,449 --> 01:01:54,325 Yeah, sure. What's up? 1391 01:01:54,387 --> 01:01:55,848 Can we talk outside? 1392 01:01:55,919 --> 01:01:56,962 I'm dying for a cigarette. 1393 01:01:57,032 --> 01:01:59,049 You don't smoke. 1394 01:01:59,119 --> 01:02:01,137 Just trust me. 1395 01:02:09,905 --> 01:02:12,304 I mean, I don't want to be judgmental... 1396 01:02:12,375 --> 01:02:13,975 So what's going on? 1397 01:02:14,046 --> 01:02:15,922 How was the ranch? 1398 01:02:15,993 --> 01:02:17,489 Oh! It was just great. 1399 01:02:17,559 --> 01:02:19,402 Really, the kids got along so great. 1400 01:02:19,473 --> 01:02:21,351 It was just effortless. 1401 01:02:21,421 --> 01:02:23,507 Wonderful, Gina. I'm so happy for you. 1402 01:02:23,578 --> 01:02:26,187 Thank you. So what's the matter? 1403 01:02:26,257 --> 01:02:29,353 Um, people are talking. 1404 01:02:29,423 --> 01:02:32,345 They think that things are moving too fast, 1405 01:02:32,415 --> 01:02:33,806 that maybe it's too soon 1406 01:02:33,877 --> 01:02:36,937 for you and Michael to be quite so connected. 1407 01:02:37,008 --> 01:02:40,034 Even some of the kids are making comments. 1408 01:02:41,566 --> 01:02:42,573 Uh... 1409 01:02:42,644 --> 01:02:45,426 And what do you think? 1410 01:02:45,785 --> 01:02:47,801 I'm happy for you, 1411 01:02:47,872 --> 01:02:49,366 but it's only been a year, Gina. 1412 01:02:49,437 --> 01:02:51,872 I-I just... take it easy 1413 01:02:51,943 --> 01:02:55,003 with this whole "blue birds of happiness" routine. 1414 01:02:55,074 --> 01:02:56,882 Your kids need all the support 1415 01:02:56,952 --> 01:02:58,900 this place can give them right now. 1416 01:02:58,971 --> 01:03:00,953 I'm-- I'm just saying. 1417 01:03:02,936 --> 01:03:05,579 I really appreciate the heads-up. 1418 01:03:05,650 --> 01:03:07,981 You're a good friend, Colleen. 1419 01:03:46,601 --> 01:03:48,409 Ahh! Hey, you guys! 1420 01:03:49,975 --> 01:03:51,714 Come on, upstairs. You gotta get ready for school! 1421 01:03:51,784 --> 01:03:52,743 Come on! Go, go, go, go! 1422 01:03:52,793 --> 01:03:53,836 Thank you so much for doing this. 1423 01:03:53,907 --> 01:03:55,054 I've just been spread a little thin, 1424 01:03:55,124 --> 01:03:56,480 and I really needed this. 1425 01:03:56,550 --> 01:03:57,733 Could I talk to you about something, Michael? 1426 01:03:57,803 --> 01:03:59,542 Uh, yeah, of course, anything. 1427 01:03:59,613 --> 01:04:03,404 - See you soon, grandpa! - Thanks for everything. 1428 01:04:03,474 --> 01:04:04,691 The kids talked to us 1429 01:04:04,761 --> 01:04:07,126 about Gina kell and her children, 1430 01:04:07,197 --> 01:04:09,352 about becoming a family. 1431 01:04:09,423 --> 01:04:11,371 What about it? 1432 01:04:11,441 --> 01:04:13,041 Do you think 1433 01:04:13,111 --> 01:04:15,302 it's wise, so soon after losing Cathy? 1434 01:04:15,373 --> 01:04:17,912 I mean, the kids might need more time. 1435 01:04:17,982 --> 01:04:19,164 Did the kids say something? 1436 01:04:19,235 --> 01:04:20,278 Are they upset? 1437 01:04:20,348 --> 01:04:21,565 No, it's just that... 1438 01:04:21,636 --> 01:04:22,713 They've had to deal with so much change 1439 01:04:22,784 --> 01:04:24,175 in their young lives. 1440 01:04:24,244 --> 01:04:25,531 Do you think they're ready 1441 01:04:25,602 --> 01:04:27,479 to accept someone taking their mother's place? 1442 01:04:27,550 --> 01:04:30,402 No! Gina is not taking Cathy's place. 1443 01:04:30,473 --> 01:04:31,550 She-- no one could ever do that. 1444 01:04:31,621 --> 01:04:33,080 Look, Michael. 1445 01:04:33,151 --> 01:04:34,542 I know how difficult it is for you 1446 01:04:34,613 --> 01:04:35,829 to raise three children on your own, 1447 01:04:35,900 --> 01:04:39,066 and how lonely you must be, but-- 1448 01:04:39,135 --> 01:04:40,735 Gina's vulnerable as well. 1449 01:04:40,806 --> 01:04:43,241 I mean, she might need more time to get her own life together. 1450 01:04:43,310 --> 01:04:45,258 We just want you to think about the impact 1451 01:04:45,329 --> 01:04:48,702 that this could have on all the children 1452 01:04:48,773 --> 01:04:50,998 if-- if it doesn't work out. 1453 01:04:53,818 --> 01:04:56,982 And what if the kids get attached to Gina, 1454 01:04:57,053 --> 01:04:59,140 and then they lose her, too? 1455 01:06:01,627 --> 01:06:03,296 I am so sorry I'm late. 1456 01:06:03,366 --> 01:06:05,000 No problem. Good to see you. 1457 01:06:05,071 --> 01:06:06,601 Oh, you too. Between working at the school 1458 01:06:06,672 --> 01:06:08,897 and we're redoing the atrium, and it's just busy. 1459 01:06:08,968 --> 01:06:10,255 - It's all good. - Crazy busy! 1460 01:06:10,324 --> 01:06:11,507 So good to see you. 1461 01:06:11,578 --> 01:06:12,898 Have a seat. 1462 01:06:12,969 --> 01:06:14,430 Thanks. 1463 01:06:14,500 --> 01:06:16,760 Oh, hey! Tell drew and Sam 1464 01:06:16,831 --> 01:06:18,152 I scored some lions' tickets 1465 01:06:18,223 --> 01:06:19,543 so we have a date coming up. 1466 01:06:19,614 --> 01:06:21,596 They will be thrilled. 1467 01:06:21,667 --> 01:06:23,023 Gentlemen, lady, 1468 01:06:23,094 --> 01:06:24,658 welcome to the first meeting 1469 01:06:24,728 --> 01:06:27,023 to discuss the Matt kell memorial golf tournament. 1470 01:06:27,094 --> 01:06:29,111 I'm happy to say we have our corporate sponsors 1471 01:06:29,182 --> 01:06:31,825 and we hope to double what we raised last year. 1472 01:06:31,896 --> 01:06:33,913 - Nice! - Great. 1473 01:06:33,984 --> 01:06:35,235 That's amazing. Matt would just be so proud 1474 01:06:35,306 --> 01:06:37,044 of all the work you guys are doing. 1475 01:06:37,115 --> 01:06:38,714 And since this will be an annual event, 1476 01:06:38,784 --> 01:06:42,019 we formally need to create a non-profit organization. 1477 01:06:42,090 --> 01:06:44,767 And the money we raise will go to families, 1478 01:06:44,838 --> 01:06:46,786 like yours, who were affected by cancer. 1479 01:06:46,856 --> 01:06:49,952 The four of us will make up the board of trustees. 1480 01:06:50,023 --> 01:06:53,083 Now, we need to come up with a name. 1481 01:06:53,154 --> 01:06:54,718 Well... 1482 01:06:54,789 --> 01:06:56,667 I've actually been thinking about that a lot, 1483 01:06:56,737 --> 01:06:59,241 and I'd really like to call it 1484 01:06:59,312 --> 01:07:02,407 the "new day foundation for families 1485 01:07:02,478 --> 01:07:06,025 in honor of Matt kell and Cathy spehn." 1486 01:07:06,096 --> 01:07:07,695 I don't get it. 1487 01:07:07,766 --> 01:07:11,071 Gina, this is Matt's foundation. 1488 01:07:11,141 --> 01:07:13,818 Yeah, and the golf outing 1489 01:07:13,889 --> 01:07:16,254 is something that can remain in his name, 1490 01:07:16,325 --> 01:07:17,750 but I'd really like this foundation 1491 01:07:17,821 --> 01:07:19,142 to be in both of their names. 1492 01:07:19,212 --> 01:07:22,134 Right. I, uh... ahem. 1493 01:07:22,205 --> 01:07:25,335 Yeah, it just doesn't feel right to me. 1494 01:07:26,693 --> 01:07:28,709 C-Cathy's family 1495 01:07:28,780 --> 01:07:31,075 went through the same thing that we did. 1496 01:07:31,146 --> 01:07:33,232 Right, but we're not Cathy's best friends. 1497 01:07:33,303 --> 01:07:37,373 I mean, Matt was like-- He was like our brother. 1498 01:07:37,443 --> 01:07:39,217 We're doing this for him and his boys. 1499 01:07:40,470 --> 01:07:42,766 I know you and Michael spehn 1500 01:07:42,836 --> 01:07:44,922 have been becoming friends, but... 1501 01:07:44,993 --> 01:07:46,314 Well, it's actually more than that, Marty. 1502 01:07:46,385 --> 01:07:47,497 No matter. 1503 01:07:47,568 --> 01:07:49,063 I don't want a foundation 1504 01:07:49,134 --> 01:07:52,090 named after anyone but Matt. 1505 01:07:58,562 --> 01:08:00,404 Is everybody done with their homework? 1506 01:08:00,475 --> 01:08:01,762 Yeah. 1507 01:08:01,832 --> 01:08:03,625 - The boys are outside, playing. - Oh, good. 1508 01:08:03,642 --> 01:08:06,006 Alright. Let's just get this chicken out of the oven, 1509 01:08:06,077 --> 01:08:09,173 'cause your dad is gonna be home in a second. 1510 01:08:09,243 --> 01:08:10,703 Alright. 1511 01:08:12,235 --> 01:08:13,904 You put nuts into the sauce. 1512 01:08:13,974 --> 01:08:16,375 No one in our family likes that. 1513 01:08:16,444 --> 01:08:17,905 Oh, but I did it last time, 1514 01:08:17,976 --> 01:08:19,227 and everyone thought it was great. 1515 01:08:19,298 --> 01:08:21,141 It's just that's not the way we do it. 1516 01:08:21,212 --> 01:08:22,393 My mom knew that. 1517 01:08:23,438 --> 01:08:25,664 Because she was your mom, 1518 01:08:25,734 --> 01:08:27,820 and she knew everything there possibly was 1519 01:08:27,891 --> 01:08:29,352 to know about you guys, 1520 01:08:29,422 --> 01:08:30,743 because she loved you more than anything. 1521 01:08:30,814 --> 01:08:33,213 It's no big deal. I don't want any. 1522 01:08:36,807 --> 01:08:38,302 Hey! 1523 01:08:38,372 --> 01:08:39,624 Something smells good. 1524 01:08:39,695 --> 01:08:41,781 Yeah. Dinner's ready. 1525 01:08:41,852 --> 01:08:44,530 I think I'm just gonna, um... 1526 01:08:44,601 --> 01:08:47,487 Uh, get my boys and go home for an early night. 1527 01:08:47,558 --> 01:08:49,610 Hey, you guys! Let's go! 1528 01:08:50,759 --> 01:08:51,766 Is something wrong? 1529 01:08:51,837 --> 01:08:52,914 No. No, no. 1530 01:08:52,985 --> 01:08:54,376 Everything's fine. 1531 01:08:54,447 --> 01:08:55,907 I just, um, you know, I want to give them a bath 1532 01:08:55,978 --> 01:08:57,159 and get to bed early. 1533 01:08:57,230 --> 01:08:59,873 Alright. How was the foundation lunch? 1534 01:08:59,943 --> 01:09:02,517 It was okay. 1535 01:09:02,587 --> 01:09:05,022 The guys only want to put it in Matt's name. 1536 01:09:05,093 --> 01:09:06,100 Ah. 1537 01:09:06,171 --> 01:09:07,318 Tsk. 1538 01:09:07,389 --> 01:09:09,023 Ah, I'm not... 1539 01:09:09,094 --> 01:09:11,667 It's not surprising. 1540 01:09:11,738 --> 01:09:13,616 Yeah. I'm just really disappointed. 1541 01:09:16,643 --> 01:09:18,034 Alright, you guys. Let's go. 1542 01:09:18,105 --> 01:09:19,565 Change of plans. 1543 01:09:19,636 --> 01:09:21,688 Goodbye. Goodbye. 1544 01:09:23,637 --> 01:09:24,888 - Bye. - Bye. 1545 01:09:25,724 --> 01:09:29,377 I know how to cook three things. 1546 01:09:29,446 --> 01:09:30,559 Really? That's great! 1547 01:09:30,630 --> 01:09:32,021 But, uh, why are you telling me this? 1548 01:09:32,091 --> 01:09:33,760 We don't need Mrs. kell to cook dinner for us. 1549 01:09:33,831 --> 01:09:34,734 I can do it. 1550 01:09:57,116 --> 01:09:59,828 We should wait for Michael and the kids. 1551 01:09:59,899 --> 01:10:01,150 They already left. 1552 01:10:01,221 --> 01:10:03,063 They did? 1553 01:10:03,134 --> 01:10:04,560 Hey, are you sure? 1554 01:10:04,631 --> 01:10:06,439 'Cause we were supposed to 1555 01:10:06,510 --> 01:10:08,282 go buy their Christmas tree with them. 1556 01:10:08,353 --> 01:10:10,648 Yeah. Their grandma took them home. 1557 01:10:12,424 --> 01:10:15,380 Oh. 1558 01:10:15,451 --> 01:10:18,094 Okay, well, let's get you guys home, 1559 01:10:18,164 --> 01:10:20,633 'cause we've got to hem your angel costumes, right? 1560 01:10:27,732 --> 01:10:28,983 Hop in. 1561 01:10:29,054 --> 01:10:30,932 Hey. Sorry about today. 1562 01:10:31,003 --> 01:10:32,428 I got so busy 1563 01:10:32,498 --> 01:10:34,620 and then Cathy's parents came by. 1564 01:10:34,691 --> 01:10:37,751 I understand. 1565 01:10:37,822 --> 01:10:40,569 We went to a tree farm and cut down our own tree. 1566 01:10:40,640 --> 01:10:42,656 It's kind of a family tradition. 1567 01:10:42,727 --> 01:10:45,300 Well, that sounds like fun. 1568 01:10:45,371 --> 01:10:47,840 Actually, uh... 1569 01:10:47,911 --> 01:10:49,302 Cathy's parents 1570 01:10:49,372 --> 01:10:51,807 want us to come up to mullet lake for Christmas. 1571 01:10:51,878 --> 01:10:54,347 Really? But I thought that we were... 1572 01:10:54,417 --> 01:10:56,052 They were thinking 1573 01:10:56,122 --> 01:10:58,452 it'd be a nice time to get everyone together. 1574 01:10:58,523 --> 01:11:02,871 They want to scatter Cathy's ashes at the lake. 1575 01:11:02,941 --> 01:11:05,132 I think Cathy would like that. 1576 01:11:06,803 --> 01:11:08,611 Of course. 1577 01:11:08,682 --> 01:11:10,769 Yeah, I understand. 1578 01:11:10,838 --> 01:11:12,369 You do understand? 1579 01:11:12,439 --> 01:11:13,691 It's just that... 1580 01:11:13,761 --> 01:11:15,465 I thought that-- 1581 01:11:15,536 --> 01:11:17,657 You're gonna miss the opening of the atrium 1582 01:11:17,728 --> 01:11:18,910 a-and the pageant. 1583 01:11:18,980 --> 01:11:20,093 I know, 1584 01:11:20,163 --> 01:11:21,659 but it's Cathy's parents, you know. 1585 01:11:21,729 --> 01:11:25,485 They really want to be around the kids this Christmas. 1586 01:11:25,556 --> 01:11:27,469 Uh, you know what? 1587 01:11:27,538 --> 01:11:29,799 I've actually been thinking, um... 1588 01:11:32,097 --> 01:11:36,480 Maybe we need to take some time and just think about things. 1589 01:11:37,837 --> 01:11:39,994 For the kids' sake. 1590 01:11:40,064 --> 01:11:42,534 I agree. 1591 01:11:42,604 --> 01:11:44,725 You're okay with it? 1592 01:11:44,795 --> 01:11:47,404 Yeah. I mean, I'm gonna have my parents and sister 1593 01:11:47,475 --> 01:11:49,074 and Matt's mom and sister around, 1594 01:11:49,144 --> 01:11:52,762 so I'm gonna have a full house and... 1595 01:11:52,833 --> 01:11:54,362 I mean, it's not gonna be an easy holiday 1596 01:11:54,433 --> 01:11:55,476 for any of us. 1597 01:11:55,547 --> 01:11:58,050 It's only been a year. 1598 01:11:58,121 --> 01:11:59,999 I'm glad you'll have your family around you. 1599 01:12:00,069 --> 01:12:01,599 Yeah, and after Christmas, 1600 01:12:01,670 --> 01:12:03,130 we're probably gonna go up to my folks' place 1601 01:12:03,200 --> 01:12:05,983 until after new year's, so... 1602 01:12:07,167 --> 01:12:09,636 So that's it? 1603 01:12:13,047 --> 01:12:15,029 I guess so. 1604 01:12:18,439 --> 01:12:20,491 Goodbye, Gina. 1605 01:12:20,561 --> 01:12:22,892 Goodbye, Michael. 1606 01:13:24,132 --> 01:13:27,366 Like almost everything good in our lives, 1607 01:13:27,436 --> 01:13:30,636 this place came to us because of you. 1608 01:13:31,611 --> 01:13:35,159 You wanted us to come back here, and so we have. 1609 01:13:36,083 --> 01:13:38,030 And today... 1610 01:13:38,101 --> 01:13:41,091 We commit your ashes to this lake forever. 1611 01:13:44,850 --> 01:13:47,249 We will love you always. 1612 01:13:48,817 --> 01:13:51,042 God bless you, my love. 1613 01:14:02,455 --> 01:14:05,097 Where are Mr. spehn and the kids? 1614 01:14:05,168 --> 01:14:06,768 They went to see their grandma and grandpa 1615 01:14:06,839 --> 01:14:08,403 for Christmas. 1616 01:14:08,474 --> 01:14:10,560 Well, what about us? 1617 01:14:10,631 --> 01:14:12,195 Well, we have a lot to do, too. 1618 01:14:12,266 --> 01:14:13,796 I mean, it's Christmas Eve. 1619 01:14:13,867 --> 01:14:15,813 You got your grandmas coming over, 1620 01:14:15,884 --> 01:14:17,762 and tonight we have the Christmas pageant. 1621 01:14:17,833 --> 01:14:18,736 I'm an angel! 1622 01:14:18,807 --> 01:14:20,719 Yes, you are. 1623 01:14:20,790 --> 01:14:22,216 I want Charlotte 1624 01:14:22,286 --> 01:14:25,311 and Jack and Danny to be angels, too. 1625 01:14:25,382 --> 01:14:27,295 I do, too, sweetie, 1626 01:14:27,366 --> 01:14:29,869 but I don't think it's gonna happen this year. 1627 01:14:32,306 --> 01:14:33,488 Finish up. 1628 01:14:40,203 --> 01:14:41,699 I love Turkey. 1629 01:14:41,770 --> 01:14:46,361 Your mom made the best Turkey in the whole family. 1630 01:14:47,510 --> 01:14:49,457 Oh, she was a wonderful cook. 1631 01:14:50,711 --> 01:14:52,797 Oh... 1632 01:14:54,920 --> 01:14:58,469 Mm! I saved all her recipes for you. 1633 01:15:04,454 --> 01:15:07,027 Dad, I want to go home. 1634 01:15:07,098 --> 01:15:08,940 We're supposed to be angels 1635 01:15:09,011 --> 01:15:10,645 and I got a costume and everything. 1636 01:15:10,716 --> 01:15:11,898 Yeah, I know, pal, I know. 1637 01:15:11,968 --> 01:15:13,047 You'll be a angel next year, okay? 1638 01:15:13,116 --> 01:15:15,725 What's he talking about, Michael? 1639 01:15:15,795 --> 01:15:18,613 Uh, Christmas pageant. 1640 01:15:18,684 --> 01:15:21,674 How is Santa gonna know we're here? 1641 01:15:21,745 --> 01:15:23,066 Drew and I were gonna stay up all night. 1642 01:15:23,137 --> 01:15:24,805 I know. 1643 01:15:24,876 --> 01:15:25,989 When your mom was a little girl, 1644 01:15:26,060 --> 01:15:27,868 she used to stay up all night long 1645 01:15:27,938 --> 01:15:29,154 to see Santa, 1646 01:15:29,225 --> 01:15:30,616 until she realized he simply won't come 1647 01:15:30,686 --> 01:15:31,973 until you fall asleep. 1648 01:15:37,367 --> 01:15:39,140 I'm glad we're here. 1649 01:15:39,210 --> 01:15:40,706 This is mom's favorite place, 1650 01:15:40,776 --> 01:15:42,585 so it should be our favorite place. 1651 01:15:42,655 --> 01:15:44,359 That's true, sweetheart. 1652 01:15:44,429 --> 01:15:46,551 Mm. She loved it here. 1653 01:15:51,527 --> 01:15:54,901 We just have be at the church by 6:00 for a short rehearsal. 1654 01:16:01,860 --> 01:16:04,956 Are you still seeing Michael spehn? 1655 01:16:06,279 --> 01:16:08,504 Oh. No, we're just friends. 1656 01:16:08,575 --> 01:16:11,984 It just felt like it was too soon 1657 01:16:12,054 --> 01:16:13,270 to be involved with a man. 1658 01:16:13,341 --> 01:16:15,254 Gina... 1659 01:16:15,325 --> 01:16:17,932 I watched you take care of my son for three years. 1660 01:16:18,003 --> 01:16:21,099 You were his hope, his support, 1661 01:16:21,169 --> 01:16:22,978 his love. 1662 01:16:23,048 --> 01:16:25,308 He would want you and the boys to be happy. 1663 01:16:27,014 --> 01:16:29,588 Does Michael make you happy? 1664 01:16:31,015 --> 01:16:32,685 He does. 1665 01:16:39,992 --> 01:16:41,939 Would you mind if I just took a break? 1666 01:16:42,010 --> 01:16:43,783 Of course, sweetheart. 1667 01:16:45,002 --> 01:16:46,810 We'll take care of the boys. 1668 01:16:49,524 --> 01:16:50,950 Thank you. 1669 01:16:56,692 --> 01:17:00,031 Lesson number six. 1670 01:17:00,102 --> 01:17:02,362 Treat women with respect. 1671 01:17:02,432 --> 01:17:07,546 Cherish and hold dear the woman that you love 1672 01:17:07,616 --> 01:17:10,330 and never miss an opportunity 1673 01:17:10,399 --> 01:17:13,287 to tell your mom how much you love her. 1674 01:17:14,574 --> 01:17:16,905 Oh, Matt. 1675 01:17:16,976 --> 01:17:19,235 Tell me what to do. 1676 01:17:25,186 --> 01:17:26,229 Nana? 1677 01:17:26,300 --> 01:17:27,585 Mm-hmm? 1678 01:17:27,656 --> 01:17:29,708 I miss mom every day. 1679 01:17:29,779 --> 01:17:31,413 So do I, sweetheart. 1680 01:17:31,483 --> 01:17:33,639 I'll never stop missing her 1681 01:17:33,710 --> 01:17:35,170 and I will never love anyone as much as her. 1682 01:17:35,241 --> 01:17:37,397 I know, baby. 1683 01:17:37,468 --> 01:17:39,555 I was only being nice to Mrs. kell 1684 01:17:39,624 --> 01:17:41,781 because she was nice to me and Jack and Danny, 1685 01:17:41,852 --> 01:17:45,503 but if you want, I'll never speak to her again. 1686 01:17:45,574 --> 01:17:48,148 Honey, why would I want that? 1687 01:17:48,218 --> 01:17:49,435 I heard you tell daddy 1688 01:17:49,505 --> 01:17:50,479 that if we liked Mrs. kell, 1689 01:17:50,549 --> 01:17:51,870 it might hurt mom, 1690 01:17:51,941 --> 01:17:54,167 and that Mrs. kell might leave us, too. 1691 01:17:55,489 --> 01:17:57,507 You heard us talking and... 1692 01:17:57,577 --> 01:17:59,455 Oh, sweetheart! 1693 01:17:59,526 --> 01:18:01,716 I didn't mean that. I... 1694 01:18:01,787 --> 01:18:04,012 Charlotte, sit down. I want to talk to you. 1695 01:18:06,171 --> 01:18:07,700 Your mommy 1696 01:18:07,771 --> 01:18:09,579 would do anything in her power 1697 01:18:09,650 --> 01:18:12,885 to make you and your brothers and your daddy happy. 1698 01:18:14,208 --> 01:18:16,259 The next person I want to talk about 1699 01:18:16,330 --> 01:18:19,008 may or may not even exist. 1700 01:18:19,078 --> 01:18:22,035 Your mom may want to remarry another man. 1701 01:18:22,105 --> 01:18:26,141 If she loves and respects someone enough to marry him 1702 01:18:26,211 --> 01:18:27,497 after I pass away, 1703 01:18:27,568 --> 01:18:29,828 then I love and respect that guy, too. 1704 01:18:29,899 --> 01:18:32,194 I know your mom. 1705 01:18:32,265 --> 01:18:34,525 I know her values. 1706 01:18:34,596 --> 01:18:36,787 If she remarries, 1707 01:18:36,857 --> 01:18:40,301 she's going to marry someone I approve of. 1708 01:18:40,371 --> 01:18:44,476 Treat him with the love and compassion 1709 01:18:44,546 --> 01:18:47,607 like you would if I were still alive. 1710 01:18:51,261 --> 01:18:53,139 Thank you. 1711 01:18:53,210 --> 01:18:55,749 Thank you. 1712 01:18:55,818 --> 01:19:01,280 I want you and your brothers and your daddy, 1713 01:19:01,351 --> 01:19:03,368 each one of you, 1714 01:19:03,438 --> 01:19:05,872 to grow a new heart. 1715 01:19:07,439 --> 01:19:10,221 Okay? Just like mommy used to say. 1716 01:19:10,292 --> 01:19:12,239 I will, too. 1717 01:19:13,945 --> 01:19:15,927 Michael? 1718 01:19:17,250 --> 01:19:18,397 Michael? 1719 01:19:18,468 --> 01:19:20,172 Yeah? What's going on? 1720 01:19:20,243 --> 01:19:21,354 Uh, get the boys. 1721 01:19:21,425 --> 01:19:22,676 We need to get you home. 1722 01:19:22,747 --> 01:19:25,217 What do you mean? What about supper? 1723 01:19:25,287 --> 01:19:26,747 No, no, no. Forget about that. 1724 01:19:26,818 --> 01:19:30,644 Your kids and Gina's are gonna be angels in church 1725 01:19:30,715 --> 01:19:33,462 and we have to get them there on time. 1726 01:19:33,533 --> 01:19:34,923 We'll eat on the road! 1727 01:19:34,994 --> 01:19:37,499 What? It's 4:00! It's a two-and-half-hour drive. 1728 01:19:37,568 --> 01:19:39,203 We might not make it. 1729 01:19:39,273 --> 01:19:40,420 I know, it's crazy, 1730 01:19:40,491 --> 01:19:42,926 but we're gonna try. 1731 01:19:43,840 --> 01:19:46,414 Come on! Let's go. 1732 01:19:51,147 --> 01:19:52,538 Are we there yet? 1733 01:19:52,607 --> 01:19:54,137 No! Not yet. 1734 01:19:54,208 --> 01:19:55,807 We have to be there by 7:00. 1735 01:19:55,878 --> 01:19:57,234 It's okay. We're gonna make it. 1736 01:19:57,305 --> 01:19:59,321 Okay. 1737 01:20:00,688 --> 01:20:01,661 That was the exit for the church. 1738 01:20:01,732 --> 01:20:02,879 We missed it. 1739 01:20:02,950 --> 01:20:04,828 Where are we going? 1740 01:20:04,898 --> 01:20:07,228 Just need to stop by the house for a second. 1741 01:20:12,204 --> 01:20:15,404 Mary and Joseph had nowhere to stay 1742 01:20:15,475 --> 01:20:18,884 and it was almost time for their baby to be born. 1743 01:20:21,007 --> 01:20:23,093 The innkeeper in town 1744 01:20:23,164 --> 01:20:25,946 said that they could take shelter in the barn 1745 01:20:26,017 --> 01:20:28,069 with the animals. 1746 01:20:28,139 --> 01:20:30,051 Out in the fields, 1747 01:20:30,122 --> 01:20:31,721 an angel of the lord-- 1748 01:20:31,792 --> 01:20:33,322 - ...appeared to the Shepherds-- - Go ahead! 1749 01:20:33,393 --> 01:20:36,523 ...who were guarding their flocks by night. 1750 01:20:36,593 --> 01:20:38,018 The angel announced 1751 01:20:38,089 --> 01:20:42,299 that the savior had been born in the town of Bethlehem. 1752 01:20:42,369 --> 01:20:44,873 The Shepherds decided to travel to Bethlehem 1753 01:20:44,943 --> 01:20:47,795 to see the Christ-child. 1754 01:20:47,866 --> 01:20:51,935 Suddenly, a great host of angels 1755 01:20:52,006 --> 01:20:56,354 appeared and began singing praises to god. 1756 01:20:58,199 --> 01:21:02,407 The angels began to spread the word 1757 01:21:02,478 --> 01:21:06,305 that the Christ-child was born. 1758 01:21:06,375 --> 01:21:13,333 ♪ Oh, night divine ♪ 1759 01:21:18,170 --> 01:21:24,849 ♪ Oh, night divine ♪ 1760 01:21:24,919 --> 01:21:27,597 - Hey! The spehns are here! - The spehns are here! 1761 01:21:49,134 --> 01:21:50,664 Oh... 1762 01:21:51,300 --> 01:21:53,108 Merry Christmas. 1763 01:21:54,362 --> 01:21:56,135 Merry Christmas. 1764 01:21:58,049 --> 01:22:00,206 Do you remember when we saw the double rainbow? 1765 01:22:00,277 --> 01:22:03,128 Well, I've been thinking about that. 1766 01:22:03,199 --> 01:22:07,895 And the rain, it just fell so hard on our lives... 1767 01:22:09,636 --> 01:22:10,887 But it seems to me 1768 01:22:10,957 --> 01:22:13,810 that the light has cut through 1769 01:22:13,880 --> 01:22:15,201 and it has given us colors 1770 01:22:15,272 --> 01:22:17,463 that we could never have even imagined before. 1771 01:22:18,960 --> 01:22:20,350 This life, 1772 01:22:20,421 --> 01:22:23,586 you know, it can be even more beautiful than before. 1773 01:22:24,770 --> 01:22:26,891 And that doesn't betray Matt 1774 01:22:26,962 --> 01:22:29,639 or Cathy. 1775 01:22:29,710 --> 01:22:31,901 I-it honors them. 1776 01:22:31,972 --> 01:22:33,919 I know. 1777 01:22:33,990 --> 01:22:36,459 And I love you. 1778 01:22:36,530 --> 01:22:38,650 I love you, too. 1779 01:22:41,609 --> 01:22:44,600 And I have to ask you a question. 1780 01:22:55,177 --> 01:22:57,125 Will you marry me? 1781 01:23:03,563 --> 01:23:04,884 She said yes! 1782 01:23:21,828 --> 01:23:24,507 - Whoo! - Oh! 1783 01:23:37,981 --> 01:23:39,997 ♪ There is hope ♪ 1784 01:23:40,068 --> 01:23:42,467 ♪ And there is laughter ♪ 1785 01:23:42,538 --> 01:23:44,555 ♪ There are blue skies ♪ 1786 01:23:44,626 --> 01:23:46,921 ♪ After rain ♪ 1787 01:23:46,992 --> 01:23:50,609 ♪ You have come into my life ♪ 1788 01:23:50,680 --> 01:23:51,931 ♪ I know ♪ 1789 01:23:52,002 --> 01:23:54,749 ♪ That I can love again ♪ 1790 01:23:54,820 --> 01:23:58,472 ♪ There is something in your smile ♪ 1791 01:23:58,543 --> 01:24:02,126 ♪ Reaching deep inside of me ♪ 1792 01:24:02,195 --> 01:24:06,509 ♪ This was meant to happen ♪ 1793 01:24:06,580 --> 01:24:11,031 ♪ This was meant to be ♪ 1794 01:24:13,503 --> 01:24:18,826 ♪ All the colors of the rainbow ♪ 1795 01:24:20,949 --> 01:24:24,461 ♪ Are dancing in the sun ♪ 1796 01:24:24,532 --> 01:24:28,602 ♪ The best is yet to come ♪ 1797 01:24:30,342 --> 01:24:34,899 ♪ All the colors of the rainbow ♪ 1798 01:24:36,431 --> 01:24:41,023 ♪ Are telling me that you're the one ♪ 1799 01:24:41,093 --> 01:24:46,937 ♪ A whole new life has just begun ♪ 1800 01:24:53,932 --> 01:24:56,609 Friends, please be seated. 1801 01:24:58,454 --> 01:25:00,158 Today, 1802 01:25:00,228 --> 01:25:03,776 seven people are coming together to form a family. 1803 01:25:03,847 --> 01:25:06,073 And today is also 1804 01:25:06,143 --> 01:25:08,543 the greatest example 1805 01:25:08,613 --> 01:25:12,021 of turning mourning into dancing that I have ever seen. 1806 01:25:12,092 --> 01:25:13,900 I know 1807 01:25:13,971 --> 01:25:16,405 that Matt and Cathy are here, 1808 01:25:16,476 --> 01:25:18,110 and they are happy 1809 01:25:18,181 --> 01:25:20,511 and they are proud of all of you. 1810 01:25:20,581 --> 01:25:23,573 Dearly beloved, 1811 01:25:23,644 --> 01:25:25,869 we are gathered here today 1812 01:25:25,940 --> 01:25:29,452 to witness the joining of Michael and Gina 1813 01:25:29,523 --> 01:25:30,983 in holy matrimony. 1814 01:25:31,054 --> 01:25:33,558 And children-- 1815 01:25:33,629 --> 01:25:35,088 Do you promise 1816 01:25:35,159 --> 01:25:37,280 to take Gina and Michael as your mom and dad, 1817 01:25:37,351 --> 01:25:39,437 and love them and honor them, 1818 01:25:39,508 --> 01:25:41,386 and keep them in sickness and health, 1819 01:25:41,456 --> 01:25:43,195 for as long as you all shall live? 1820 01:25:43,265 --> 01:25:45,039 - Yes! - I do! 1821 01:25:47,963 --> 01:25:53,459 ♪ All the colors of the rainbow ♪ 1822 01:25:54,886 --> 01:25:58,852 ♪ Are dancing in the sun ♪n ♪ 1823 01:25:58,991 --> 01:26:06,888 ♪ The very best is yet to come ♪ 123096

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