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Yeah!

- Yeah.
- Today,
I'm meeting Justin's family.

I feel... nervous.

But if they don't accept
their son

falling in love
with a trans woman...

There's just so much
I can hold until I snap.

- Trying to be nice.
- Perfect. Perfect.
I'm leaving.

Anali's dad has no idea
that I even exist.

Well, where does she think
he is right now?

In America, for work.

My brother
is blinded by love.

I am gonna be
over-protective.

Always...

This house
is infected...

I had a life
before I met you.

Is she gonna be
always this jealous?

Am I, like, not gonna be able
to have any conversation
with a woman?

I think since Gino
had a bachelor party already,

we should do
a girls' night.

- He had one?
- They went out...

to a strip club.

I'm trying
to keep it cool
in front of Michelle

but all I wanna do
is go home and face Gino.

He's still guarded with me
about certain things.

Your personal life is private?

Like, I am your personal life.

You are here
for me, in my country.

I wish I would have
found out in England.

'Cause I would not
have been coming
to America.

You give me a chance,
I will make it up to you...

We only have
90 days to get married.

So I really only have
90 days to get over it.

Yeah.

All right.

This fight is one
of the worst fights
we've ever been in.

And, I don't know
how it's gonna affect
the rest of our relationship.

And Sophie says that
she's gonna come home
with me,

so we're gonna get back
to the house,

get away from this Airbnb
and get away

from the idea that
she's just gonna leave.

And I'm just hoping that

she can see that...

no, she's got a good guy.
He just made a mistake.

I'm staying with Rob because

it's not necessarily--
He didn't cheat on me.

He... he did something
he knew would hurt me,
and it sucks.

But I don't think

what he's done

is-- is worth
throwing us away.

Oh.

You look good,
being back in here.

Rob has a lot to prove to me

in order for me
to trust him again

but to be honest,
I just don't know
if he'll do it

or... what I even
need to see from him.

And I just feel like
it's not looking good
in terms of...

us being married
in 90 days.

It doesn't really
look realistic.

You down to put
the ring back on, though?

Is it this finger?

It's the left.

- Yeah.
- Does it fit?

- Yes.
- Leave it on.

Aw.

Don't make that face.

Stop it.
Un-duck that.

All right,
we're getting close.
Watch your step.

Uh, it's a little bit
of a surprise.

I know you like
the beach.

I know you like
these houses over here.

I appreciate you

giving me a chance
to do something
like this for you.

Mm-hmm.

When I woke up today,
Rob surprised me and said

that he has something
planned for me
at the beach

and I should just go
and pack my clothes.

Rob isn't, like, the best
at ideas or surprises

so I'm just really excited
to see what he has
planned for me.

But at the same time,
Rob has really hurt me.

And I'm not someone
that can just forgive things
so easily.

All right,
we're going here.
This blue building.

- Pull it.
- Oh!

I don't like that at all.

That's confusing.

It's super cute.

All right, so,

we're going up these steps
but check out the view
real quick.

- This is so nice.
- Like it?

Yeah, thank you.

- I love the ocean.
- It's super cute.

- We're going up this way.
You wanna lead the way?
- Yeah.

It's really lovely.

Ladies first.

Oh, this is so nice.

It's really cute.

- Yeah.
- You did this for me?

Of course.
You're always talking
about how you...

you want a house
on the beach and...

Yeah, let's settle in.

This is really lovely,
what Rob's done
and everything,

but he thinks that, like,
romanticness equals, like,
something expensive.

Or he has to have
a bunch of money
to do it

when ultimately, like,
just be nicer to me.

It's not really that difficult
to just...

be a bit more sweet,
like, he can very much...

'cause he used to be sweet.

Before I met him,
online, he was saying,

he was sending me
paragraphs of how much

he can't wait to be with me
and he's been struck
by Cupid's arrow.

That's why it's like
I know it's in there.

And sometimes,
I do see it
and I'm really happy.

But it's like
I want it to be consistent.

- You happy?
- I'm very happy.

I'm glad you're happy.

I try to make you happy.

Now you got lipstick
on your mouth.

- I got lipstick
all over my mouth?
- You look beautiful.

- Guess what
this place has?
- What?

It has a bathroom
right down that hallway.

- Does it?
- Yeah.

- Wow.
- Like a whole, like,
a whole new world.

Bathroom's inside.

The bathroom's inside.

I... I figured that
was essential.

I was not gonna find a place
without a bathroom inside.

I don't think there is
any other place that's

- with a bathroom outside.
- Which was, yeah, it wasn't
hard to...

find a place
where the bathroom is inside.

Easy access.

Yeah. That is nice.

I'm not gonna say
it's a turn-on 'cause
like, it's like,

a bathroom is normal.

But, yeah,
I'm very glad

there is a bathroom
inside the house.

And the view
is so nice.

Let's go out here
and soak it up
a little bit.

The beach.
The sailboats.

The waves.

- That's a lot better view
than your apartment.
- Yeah, well.

Thank you,
I appreciate it.

- Glad you do.
- I like when you do
stuff like this for me.

I do wish I could do
more of this type of stuff.

- Yeah. Yeah.
- I try when I can, you know.

So you just...
you just keep
working with me

and lovin' me
and I'll always try my best
to do stuff for you.

I appreciate you.

My engineering
paid off.

That's why I went
to college.

So I can do
stuff like this.

Yesterday,
I walked in the house

and Jasmine, she had
all this stuff that she found
in my house.

You know, pictures
of my exes,

uh, Valentines' cards.

I mean,
she was really upset

because she found this stuff
and I didn't get rid of it
before she got here.

You know. And I don't think
she should be getting upset.

Uh, this is, this is like
my past relationships.

Why would you get upset
about that?

I just hope
it gets better.

I really do.

Where is your dad?

What is that?

These are the steps
for Coco.

So he doesn't have
to jump on the bed anymore.

So how was
the nail salon?

It was nice.

I would love... to know

about something.

Um, I would love to know

what you did
the day before I arrive...

Day before you arrived.

- The day before you arrived?
- Yeah.

I didn't go out
the day before you arrived.

Um, what about
you spending time

with Dana, Anthony?

You talking about
my bachelor party?

What's... what's up
with that?

So number one thing,
you didn't tell me

you have a bachelor's party.

And I get it.
Because I have one,

it's fair you have one.
But why didn't you tell me?

Uh, well...

honestly, I didn't want you
to be pissed off or upset

preparing to come
to the United States,

uh, because I'm going out
on a bachelor party

which to me is very normal
here in the United States,
if you're getting married

to go out
for a bachelor party.

- Okay.
- Mm-hmm.

Stupid excuse
but okay.

- Uh, when were you planning...
- I don't think it's stupid.

- I'm already here.
I've been here for a while.
- Yeah.

When were you
planning to tell me?

I, you know,
I wasn't really...

going to tell you
unless you asked.
I mean...

If you had asked me
about it,

- I'd be more than happy to...
- How the heck
would I ask about you?

How would I know?

What did you do?
You went with your family.

- But-- Be more specific.
- I went with my family.

- Where? Where?
- Big deal.

We went to a strip club.

And a lot of people
have bachelor parties,

by the way,
in my country,
in strip clubs.

Did you enjoy it?

I didn't even ask
for any dances.

I didn't touch
any girls.

Whoo!

Oh! Hello!

Let's see what you got.

I wasn't that bad
of a boy.

I was with my family.

This is a fun night out
before you come.

Why are you so upset
about that?

It's your freakin' attitude,
you know?

And it has been like this same
for three [bleep] years.

I always have to discover
from other people.

- All the time.
- What's my attitude?

You careless!

Like, "Oh, you got mad.
You shouldn't.

- You shouldn't get mad."
- Yeah, you shouldn't be.

Why are you upset?

But I am!
Because you lie
to me, Gino!

- All the time!
You're hiding things!
- Lied to you?

- That's up to you.
- I don't wanna marry you
because I don't--

I-- I can't marry
someone that

- gets upset, like,
and angry like you.
- I-- I...

You're way over-reacting.

You're way
out of control.

I think you need some help
is what I think.

That's what I think.

- You're way over-reacting
about a stupid bachelor party.
- No, I need--

I need a ticket back--

- A once-in-a-lifetime
bachelor party...
- I need a ticket back.

...that you're getting
this upset.

I need a ticket
back to Panama.

- That's up to you.
- Okay.

I'm not joking, Gino.

- Okay.
- I'm not joking.

You act like
I cheated on you or something.

This is something--
That's the way it feels!

- I didn't--
- That's the way
it feels, Gino!

I'm tired of having
to tell you that

I'm sorry for the way
that you make me feel!

- And-- Okay. All right.
- Here. Take-- Take that.

- Thanks.
- Take that [bleep].
I don't want it.

Give it
to someone else.

Okay.

Yeah, I don't
want you here--

I know you don't
want me!

If you're so angry--

- You make me angry!
- Let me finish
my sentence.

I can't speak to you,
I can't talk--

- you, Gino.
- Okay.

It's crazy, you know.

Yeah, it's crazy.

This happens
all the time.

It's starting
to wear me out.

She's always
threatening to leave.

It's getting to become
too much... for me.

'Cause my life
shouldn't be like that.

Yeah.

I'm worried.
I don't know
a lot about them.

♪ You can be my champion ♪

♪ Properly ♪

Mm.

I've never thought
about going to US.

I think like America
is something too far away.

Oh!
Always smiling.

- Very cute.
- Let's go say hello!

So I'm willing to go
to US for her.

Uh, I think
we should go through
security first.

Okay.

♪ Love those who shake
Like there's no tomorrow ♪

♪ I can't stand still ♪

♪ I got the boogie, yeah

Yeah.

- Yay!
- Hey!

- There they are. Kevin.
- We finally
meet you.

You're real!

Yeah, glad
to meet you, too!

Ah, let me
give you a hug.

How are you?

- Very well.
- So glad you made it!

I thought it wasn't
gonna happen!

You look just the same
as I picture.

You know what I mean?

- You look the same, too.
- Oh, yeah? Okay.

- Except you're real.
Like, you are real.
- Uh... Ah!

Not just this made-up
person Devin had.

Nick being from South Korea,

he's really coming
into a strange situation.

The primary concerns
that I have about
their relationship

is just the unknowns
about how they interact
in person.

We're looking forward
to figuring that out

since we're all gonna be
under one roof together.

Their relationship's
in front of us.

So if they have an argument,
we're gonna be seeing
and hearing it.

Okay, okay.

There's so much
going on in my head.

Uh, there's so many things
I have to take in.

- Gonna get it?
- Is that yours?
Is that it?

- Yeah, that's it
right there.
- Yeah, yeah.

I'm the only one.
That's overwhelming.

- I have no idea
where the car's at.
- It's up here to the right.

- Yeah, this is not a safe town
that we're in.
- Really?

- It is day one.
- Yeah.

- My day one...
- You know what that means?

I think he's saying
he wants to make it longer
than day one.

Yeah.

This is day one of 90 days
until we have to get married.

It's something that...

Thank you.

All right. Let's go.

I don't know about him,
it still hasn't, like, set in
completely, yet, for me.

The second we came off
that plane,

that's when the clock
started ticking.

Okay, baby.
We're getting closer
to my parents' house, and...

We have a lot to,
like, work on, like, after.

Right now, I'm just
gonna live in the moment.

- What?
- First time.

First time in my life
I see how cows
each other here.

Okay, baby, this is
my parents' house.

Okay.

I definitely feel like
it's the wrong energy to
go and see his family

after we had a huge
blow-up in the car.

Justin made such a big deal
about how I look,
making me feel a little bit,

you know, insecure.

Go straight ahead.

But for the sake of tonight,
we both need to put our
differences to the side,

and try to make it
a better vibe for us
to meet his family.

Hi.

Oh, look at the dog.
- Jessica! Jessica!

- Nicole,
this is my stepfather.
- Hi.

Daniel.

Nice to meet you.

Meeting with my parents,
they are, like,
older generation.

Mom!

That's her son, you know,
and the way that it went down

and the way we broke up,
it's still a little
nerve-racking,

and it's a little
uncomfortable for me.

And now I'm nervous
if she forgive this all.

Wow!

Wow!

How are you?
How you been?

She will show you
the pictures of our family.

Who is
this cute boy?

Aw!

- She kept it.
- This is terrible photo.

Justin Timberlake.

She kept our photo.

- It's...
- At least she didn't
rip it up.

- She could've...
- No, no, no.

- Look, she starting.
- Burn it.

No, no, she starting,
and then she stop.

No, you probably did it.

This one,
I don't have,
I don't have this photo.

Maia, it means,
like, it means a lot

that you still kept my photos
and our photos together
from many years ago.

I'm very happy that
you didn't close your heart
and have your mind open

for us to try again.

She say
she don't forget nothing.

How do you think
it's going right now?

- You like it?
- Like it? I like it.

So how do you think
it's going with your mom?

Yeah?

Yes.

Justin has put
a lot on the line

for even being with me
in the first place.

I can tell that Justin
has been preparing
his parents to accept me,

which I love, you know,
'cause that shows
how much he loves me.

It means a lot to me.

I'll try not to be
so difficult with you

and try to be
more understanding.

- Okay.
- Okay.

We're supposed to be
having a wedding
in 70 something days,

and you're arguing
over coffee?

What the
is going on?

We are not on
the same wavelength right now.

It's, like, scaring me
at how ignorant this is.

So, my love, we're gonna
be gone, like, all day.

Rico,
what are we doing, honey?

We don't get on the table.
Get off the table.

You know we don't get
on the table.

♪ Look me in the eyes ♪

♪ When you patronize ♪

We need to go get coffee,
so I don't wanna hear your
mouth about it.

So, I have
a lot of errands to run today.

And I'm taking Manuel with me
so I can get him
out of the house a little bit.

It's incredibly important
for Manuel to start to feel
here at home in the US,

no matter how much
he's missing his family
in Ecuador,

because this is his new home.

Fine.

Okay?

Manuel...

- Manuel, Manuel...
- Yeah?

- Yes.
- Yeah.

I don't
even know what
we're arguing about. I don't.

And I feel like
I'm not doing anything wrong.
I'm just living.

And he is just picking
at things.

Hey.

I'm just calling you
because I'm on
the verge of tears,

and I just need to,
like, chill.

He's pissy right now.
He's carrying on and on
about the coffee.

Yes.

And I...
Drinking too much coffee.

It's, like, so stupid.

Yeah, he's right next to me.

What
world are you living in?
And is this gonna be my world?

Maybe it's something
bigger than coffee,
and it's, like, scaring me

at how ignorant
this [bleep] is,
I'm not even gonna lie.

Yeah.

We're supposed to be
having a wedding
in 70 something days,

and you're arguing
over coffee?
What the [bleep] is going on?

Part of me
wants to turn around.

We are not on the same
wavelength right now.

90 days is not even close
to enough time to assess
the situation.

I wanna get through this.
I wanna marry him,
but on some real [bleep].

It's moments like these
where I'm like, "Am I
in over my head?"

Like, I'm not even
joking right now.
Like, deadass.

Surprise! It's a pool.

Oh!

Okay.

Whoa, whoa, whoa!
What the [bleep] are
you doing? Hold on, now.

Okay.

Mmm-hmm.

I think Anali
and Brandi need to spend
more time with each other.

I think it's weird
to have her, kind of,

insulting and not
getting along with my fiance

because, you know,
I love my sister,
but I also love Anali.

It, kind of, like, snaps me
back to reality, like,
"Oh, we need to resolve this."

The pigs are very stressed.

Ooh, this is so nice.

He thinks that, like,
romanticness equals
something expensive.

Do you forgive me? Or...

Do you think you ever will?

I don't, like, want
the same thing that happened
the last time

to happen again.

Let's go outside,
'cause I'mma get
this fire started.

And we can have a drink
and eat some dinner.

♪ I don't care about
your credentials ♪

♪ I don't care
about who you know ♪

♪ All I know
is we got potential ♪

♪ Like a flame
Now we're on our way ♪

I gotta figure out
how to get this thing started.

- Hey!
- Oh, you did it.

Hey, your boy got talent.

Good job.

Oh, wow and it's blowing
right at me, I love it.

Yeah. Yeah,
look, the glass is warm.

- Here's yours.
- What did you get for food?

Well, when it comes to
the food...

I wanted to show you
that I know you.

I found chicken korma.

Oh!

I love Indian food.
It's like my favorite.

So it does mean a lot to me
that Rob's chosen like a meal
that he knows I love

and not just like
what he wants.

So, I appreciate him
like really
putting in the effort.

I feel really bad
about everything...

and I just didn't feel like...

I don't know
if I'll ever feel
like I've done enough.

But I just feel like,
I wanted to do more

to show you that I'm sorry

and hopefully,

make you happy
and keep you happy.

Like, you can't just act
like nothing happened,
you know?

I'm not gonna act
like nothing happened.

'Cause you hurt me a lot.

I'm sorry and I know that
and I'm...

not gonna act
like nothing happened.

I know it was stupid
and ignorant

to think
there was a difference
or that there was...

levels of what's appropriate
and what's not.

None of it was appropriate.

Um, and I'm sorry.

I'm sorry that...

I allowed anything like that
to go down.

Do you forgive me or...

do you think you ever will?

Hmm...

I mean, I forgive you,

I haven't forgotten
what you did
but I forgive you.

I'm serious about
like what I need.

And if anything
like this happens again,

like, I'm leaving,
like, I'm not,

you know,
we're actually together now,

I'm in America,
you have no excuse, like,

I have no reason to give you
the benefit of the doubt,

like, I'm here, you know?

So, if you do anything like it
like, I'm gonna be gone.

Without a doubt in my mind,
I don't want anybody else

and I haven't
wanted anybody else

since I knew,
since I met Sophie.

But, yeah, I am definitely
kicking myself

that I was,
that I've made any mistakes

along the way.

I just wish
I could take it all back.

I'm still gonna
check your phone

till I can trust you again.

That's fine.

Every time that
you'd think about...

my mistakes from the past...

remind yourself about
our potential future.

Okay.

I'm definitely hopeful
for the future
of the relationship.

And I don't,
I don't feel like...

I'm gonna find somebody
who's closer to what I want

than who Sophie is.

You know, she is who I want

and her personality
is what I want.

The person that I see, us,

you know, her being
and who we are
10 years from now,

I feel like that...
that works.

What she wants in life,
what I want in life,

work.

Who she is,
who I am work.

As long as we can push out
all the negative things,

we will work
and I feel confident in that.

Okay, make a toast to me.

Okay.

Just to me.
Not us, to me.

I won't jump off a building
if I didn't have you.

- You would.
- But I might go live
in a Hobbit hole.

- If you didn't have me
in your life?
- Cheers!

Yeah,
I'd go live in the woods

in a hole in the ground.

You'd see me covered
in like moss.

Collecting wood.

That's kind of romantic.

- In Rob's way that's romantic.
- That's the real love--

That's my love right there.

Hello!

Aww.

Oh, my goodness.
That looks so good.

So, we have about
four more months

before the K-1 Visa
is approved.

And how are you gonna feel
him leaving again?

I know you must feel
a little bit nervous.

Hmm.

When I came back
from United States...

- Hmm.
- ...for the first time,
I was very upset

and very worried.

It made me upset, too.

I really, like,
at that moment, I tried.

Don't be sad.

Okay. Okay.

I don't wanna make this
like so emotional.

Like, I want this
to be a happy moment.

I don't wanna like,
relive the past

because it's making...

it's making her upset.

We've a lot like...

we've a lot of people.

Our feelings are invested

and other people's feelings
are invested

and our parent's feelings
are invested

and our friend's feelings
are invested

and everyone's feelings
are invested.

And, Um...

I don't, like, want
the same thing that happened
the last time

to happen again.

Well, well, well.

Hi.

I know I was kind
of a turd the last time.

Is that what you call it?

♪ I ask myself how ♪

♪ Is there someone else? ♪

♪ Try to crush his heart ♪

♪ Act like I'm too cool ♪

- In five minutes.
- Five minutes.

Yeah.

Okay.

♪ I might be young ♪

♪ But I'm a little bit
old too ♪

Wow.

Good job, chiqui.

All right, Mama.
Me and Anali are gonna go now.

Well, be careful driving.

Me and Anali are headed
to Indiana this weekend

for some alone time.

We're also gonna visit
my sister Brandi
while we're up there.

Coco, chunker boy,

you're a chunker boy.

You chunky boy.

- You chunky-- Oh!
- Yeah.

Just about every
part of our relationship

has reconnected by now

but the one thing
that's missing
is our intimacy.

But me and Anali
are gonna be away from home.

We're gonna be alone
in a hotel room.

Hopefully,
things happen when...

you know, we're alone
and mom's not in the house.

You know, maybe
this might be the time.

Hopefully.

Brandi has invited me
and Anali to an orchard.

I don't know if apple picking
is a thing in Peru.

But it is an American thing

and me and my sister
used to come
to this apple orchard.

So, I have fond childhood
memories of this place.

Brandi and Anali meeting
for a second time
is really important to me.

Because I care about them
both very much.

But I do know that Brandi
is a type of person that will

cut someone off in the family
if she doesn't like them.

But I'm not just gonna
send Anali packing

because my sister
doesn't like her.

Like, they have to get along.

Well, well, well.

- Hi.
- Hello.

- We meet again.
- Yup.

- How are you guys?
- Appreciate the empty bucket.

You're welcome.

- Hi. How are you?
- I'm fine. You?

Good. Good.

I wanted Anali
and Clayton to come here today

because after how things
went last time,

I feel bad...

a little bit.

A lot. Um...

I just thought that
this would be a nice place

and it's like
a childhood memory,

so, maybe he will forget
how big of a bitch
I was being.

I didn't react
the way I wanted to last time.

But it was like an information
overload all at once,

finding all of this stuff out.

But I want him to be happy.

So, I plan to keep my doubts

to myself the best that I can.

Because I still have a lot.

All the good apples
are up high

and I'm short,
so I can't get 'em.

Which one do you want?

I didn't get your height.

Thank you guys
for coming today.

Because I know I was kind
of a turd the last time.

Is that what you call it?

Turd?

I mean, it's okay. Yeah.

Okay.

Um...

Thanks for that.

Makes her feel better.

The reason
why I acted so crazy

- the last time is because...
- Mm-hmm.

...I just feel like it kind
of was like all at once.

What? I mean, I--

Like, everything was just
an information overload

and it just like
made me emotional.

And so, I'm not gonna
take it out on you,
'cause you're my...

-"baby."
- Mm-hmm.

So you take it out on her?

I mean, yeah,
it's not fair but...

I just always...

see you as like...

my 12-year old little brother.

Okay. I'm gonna read you
what she wrote.

"For me, it was very difficult

to leave my country,
mainly for my mother

because she is in
very delicate health

and without someone
to accompany her.

So when you said that...

I was just here
for a green card,

I really wanted to cry
at that moment,

because it was hard for me
to leave my mother alone.

And I really wanted
Clayton to be in Peru but...

for my leaving my family
was not easy."

I'm sorry. That makes me sad.

Eww, I hate crying.

It's making me sad
to hear about her mom

because I...

only have my mom.

And so, especially being

overseas
and not being there for her...

I couldn't imagine.

She's here for like
a bigger reason
than what you think.

Like, it's basically
our relationship.

She's here for a bigger reason
than just...

- like citizenship or...
- I hope so.

I mean,
you both deserve love.

Brandi's finally starting
to get know the Anali I know.

The one that she should have
known the first time

had she just asked
normal questions.

And I'm just really excited
to move forward.

Uh...

It's been mostly okay,
just hard to...

have like private time.

Eww.

Gross.

Well, I mean how did you do it
when you're still living
with mom and...

you got pregnant
with Brooklyn.

No. Sorry.

- Yeah.
- Holy [bleep] Brandi.

Rob is not listening to me.

I'm hoping my mum
could put some sense into him.

Hi. Good.

♪ Hey, baby ♪

♪ Don't you dare
try to change me ♪

It's like a bar,
like brewery type place

in like Downtown, LA.

Just cause like,
if I call you
when I'm at Rob's,

he can hear our conversation

and there's no like privacy.

So I just came like here

to call you.

It's not to get away from Rob.

There's no privacy.

It's not sad.

It's literally just
a change of scenery.

I'm gonna give him a chance.

'Cause, obviously, like,

this is not
a normal relationship,

and it's not like
he was doing that
while we was together

in the same house,
we was apart for like
eight months or whatever.

This is the last chance.

This is like, "I'm here now.
This is a relationship.

I was accepted," like,

there's no problems,
so it's like this is it.

Go on.

I know he wasn't real cheating
because I tracked his phone

and he doesn't know
and he was always
just in his house.

It's not like
I ever was,
"Give me your location."

Basically, I felt
unsafe one time in a taxi

and me and Rob
shared locations
to make sure I was safe

and then he stupidly
never turned his off.

And I just
never told him that

I had it the whole time.

He still doesn't know
I have his location.

He still doesn't know.

Don't tell him.
No one tell him.

It's been like three years
I've had it.

But that's how I know
he's never cheated
in real life,

so it makes me feel better.

Yeah, I know. Don't do that.

You can't be mean
to Rob when you're here.

Like, you have to try
to get along with him,
you know.

I'm a bit nervous
that my mum's gonna
cause problems

between me and Rob

just because I know that like,

Rob and my mum don't have
the best relationship.

My mum used to visit me
while I was staying
in Mexico with Rob.

They would have
little arguments and tiffs

because my mum would see
how Rob was talking to me

and she didn't like it.

And then like Rob would see

me and my mum
having our usual like,

we have
little arguments, too,

but it's not like serious

and he didn't like it.

And so I think they just...

both were sticking up
for me to each other

and it would cause them
to argue.

Yeah, you too.
I'll speak to you soon.

Bye. Bye-bye.

I don't think
she's a100 percent at peace

with "I'm gonna be
with this man forever."

So, honestly,

I'm kind of hoping
that my mum is able to

tell him like what he should
be doing for me.

'Cause he's not
listening to me

and I'm hoping my mum
could put some sense into him

and, you know, that's
his problem to deal with.

Me and Anali haven't
had sex in over a month.

Chiqui, chiqui.

But I'm hoping that
tonight that changes.

Mm?

No.

No.

I can see how much
you love your son

and I just want you to know
that he's in good hands
with me.

Do we have your blessing
to get married?

Are you okay now, Maya?

If you're not close
to your mother, this is...

Mother feel pain.

Yeah.

I can see how much you love
your son, and I just want you

to know that he's in
good hands with me.

How did you find it inside
yourselves to accept me
being trans?

Because I know culture.

Your culture here in
your country is very not open

to accepting people like me.

So how did you and Daniel
come to accept my life,

my life, who I am?

That's true.

Okay.

So I think I know the answer,
but I really just want

to double-check
with both of you.

So we do.

Do we have your blessing
to get married?

Okay.

Thank you. Thank you.

Tell her I'm very happy
to have this moment

with them to celebrate
our engagement.

Are you coming?
You will come?

- She said no.
- Shut up!

I feel really happy that
we got to see your family

and that I got the blessing
that I wanted to get

from his mom.

That meant the world
to me.

It was a sweet moment
and I'll cherish that.

♪ You don't need
to be scared of hunger ♪

♪ Everybody's hungry
for love ♪

Hello. Checking in.

I'm really relieved
that things went well

with Brandi today, but that
wasn't the only reason

I wanted to get away
this weekend.

Okay, chiqui, um...

Okay.

I wanted to book a romantic
night at a hotel because

me and Anali haven't had sex
in over a month.

Okay.

Being sexually frustrated
is uncomfortable.

It's normal to have sex
in a relationship.

It's normal to not have sex
for short periods of time,

but when it's abnormal behavior,

it's something
you take notice of.

Anali has been
talking about...

wanting to do massages
when we get to the US.

Well, now she is here
in the US,

so I think tonight's
massage is going to be

what gets the romance flowing
with me and Anali.

I'm hoping these
little doodads

will get her in the mood
as well.

I forgot the most important
thing, believe it or not,

because friction
is not your friend.

And this Rubik's Cube
is in case she falls asleep

and I get bored.

She won't see this here.

Definitely not.

Okay.

Chiqui, chiqui.

Hi.

Hi.

Mm-hmm.

Okay.

♪ Ah, yeah, you need
some good love ♪

♪ And a good night... ♪

Love you.

Mmm. No.

♪ Let me know you closer
Come on, come on ♪

♪ I can't wait for...
Your touch ♪

Mmm?

No.

No.

Yeah.

I think that I'm being patient
with Anali about

not having sex because
she doesn't like
to be pressured.

And especially when
it comes to sex,

I don't want to pressure her
at all.

I want it to just happen.

But sex is an important
part of any relationship,

especially when we've been
so accustomed to having sex

whenever we are together.

Given that she's here now
and it's not happening,

it's just weird.

I'm having
revelations in real time

how much his family
depends on him.

Where are you going?

Okay.

- Hello.
- Hi, Manuel.

- Hi, guys.
- I missed you.

I missed you.

- You look so cute.
- Thank you.

- How are you?
- Good to see you.

I am so excited
to update you guys.

I'm excited, too.
I'm excited to be here.

- I've never even...
- I'm excited about
this candle place.

I'm excited to be here, too.

Ooh.

Let's do it.

- I smell it already.
- Wow.

Mmm.

Oh, God.

Okay, perfect.

- Thank you.
- Thank you so much.

- Let me know
if you have questions.
- I will.

I'm gonna start over there.

After Manuel and I got into
this huge fight in the car,

I am now realizing that
we have a lot of work to do.

It feels like sometimes
we're on the same page

in the bedroom,
but when we're not
in the bedroom,

we're, like, not
on the same page.

Whipped cream.

Mmm.

I love whipped cream.

This makes me think of
nasty things.

We didn't get to know
each other

like your average couple.

If you think about
your average couple,

they have a lot of time,
relatively speaking,

to get to know the ins
and outs of that person

and how that person works.

Even when we met initially,
we were always around

his family or we were around
my friends.

We were always
in group settings.

So getting to know each other
one-on-one

and how we work
from day to day,

I think that's what's
going on.

You know, we kind
of moved backwards.

Okay.

So, you're gonna blend
your oils together.

It's a combination
of the oils,

whatever ratios you want,
so smell as you go.

- Okay.
- All right.

And when we're done,
we just call you back over?

Yeah, yeah. Shout
if you start smelling

and you're not loving it,
I'm here to help.

- Shout if you need me.
- Okay.

He said that you explained it
so well.

All right.

He said, if it's bad,
I don't understand anything.

So I think he's saying
thank you.

I'm gonna start
with wild currant.

- I'm gonna start with
this goji berry.
- Okay.

So what else have you guys
done so far for, like,
wedding planning?

Um, we are super close
to a final head count.

It's looking like it's gonna
be closer to 30.

And we ordered his suit
that's coming on Tuesday.

We're getting it going.
I'm excited.

I'm really excited.

He doesn't like it.

He doesn't like anything.
I like it.

It's like, everything
you do, he's like, no.

I was going to say,
what have you been doing

to make sure that he is nice
and comfortable here?

We've been cooking a lot.

I mean, I think,
let him tell it,

and he would say he's doing
more of the cooking,
because he kind of

is doing more of the cooking.

I think what I mean to say is
that I'm providing the food.

Because, you know,
I eat like a bird.

So there's a lot more food
in my house these days.

- Yeah.
- Right.

So last time we hung out,
we were talking about,

like, he wanted, like,
$250 or something to send.

We sent some money
to his family. Yeah.

How are you feeling about
all that?

Sending money back home
to Ecuador

has been a source
of tension for us.

I think it's a cultural thing.

I don't really know what
that's like to have

to take care of a parent
financially or a child
or a sister

or anybody financially.

He does.

And so it is a point
of tension

because I don't fully
understand it.

And I also wasn't given much
time to understand it either.

This is something he has done
without me for 30 years.

So the only thing he wants
is to be able to help them.

I knew Manuel was not just
gonna leave his family

high and dry,
but I didn't know how much

they depended on him.

Like, how do you feel about
that coming out of her pocket?

He said, a part of him
feels bad because

it's work from her
and it's her money.

He said, if she can help me
now with time, I can help her.

Essentially, he's saying,
I hope I can pay you back.

I hope to marry this person,
and this person has children.

So that's number one,
you know?

So I got that coming in,
but I didn't realize

- how deep it was.
- Mm-hmm.

The baby's mother isn't really
around like she needs

to be, so the financial care

leans quite heavily on Manuel.

I knew this was gonna be
like a monthly bill,

but I didn't know how much.
I know, I saw your eyes.

- It's gonna be a monthly bill.
- It's a monthly, yeah.

It's gonna be a monthly bill.

I have
a question.

Yeah.

So I was like, okay, so, like,
do you expect me to send money

down there, like, every month?

And he was like, well, yeah.
And I was like, how much?

And he's like,
you want numbers?

And I was like, yeah.
And he was like, like, 300.

- $300?
- A month.

So he's saying, okay...

He said, I pay what
I need to pay.

He goes, there's money for me,
there's money for them.

If they need more money,
then they're gonna get
more money,

whatever it is they need.

I definitely see the pressure
that he's under.

I definitely see what
he's going through.

However, I don't think
it should fall on
Ashley's shoulders.

I feel like this should
have been established

- before he got here.
- Yes.

Since you've been here,
it seems like you're making

your family more of a priority
than Ashley.

So why are you here?

Did she know that?

It's not the same.

He said the dog and the cat
cost more...

The dog and that cat
cost more than this.

You're talking about your mom,
your step dad,

your brother, your sister,
your aunty.

- Everybody needs
Ashley's money, not you.
- That's a lot for Ashley.

- Manuel.
- Okay, where are you going?

He's saying she thinks
it's easy. She thinks
it's easy.

I don't think
it's easy.

I think you're putting
a lot of pressure on her.

He's like I would prefer
to pay the vet $300...

Where's he going?

Wow.

I aggressively underestimated
how intense this process is.

In Ecuador, when we get
into an argument,

we can hang up the phone.

He can go dick around
and do whatever the

he wants and choose not
to answer or whatever.

But I think it's a different
beast when you're in it.

- He's a baby.
- I'm gonna go see
about Manuel.

I am incredibly sad
and emotional and frustrated

and [bleep] tired.

I don't know where
we go from here.

He's going to have
to acclimate.

It's going to be hard.
It's going to be difficult.

But if your goal here
is to make a family

and to do this, then we got
to get used to it.

That's crazy.

Next time on
90 Day Fiance.

- Baby.
- Hi, baby.

I told my fiance, Citra,
about my drug past.

She still looked past
all that.

Citra's dad, Herman,
he's a police officer,

and it's just a little
nerve-racking

and it's just I've been
keeping kind of a secret
from Citra,

so I'm worried that
when I tell her

and she tells her dad
that he's gonna forbid her

from marrying me.

Manuel...

I'm not shocked
that he walked out.

I think Manuel has a tendency
to be unreasonable.

I think Manuel is very used
to getting his way.

Uh...

Oh, my.

Are you serious?

Look at this.

Him calling her piggy, I wish
he wouldn't do that.

Today, I'm about to tell Rob
that I'm bisexual.

I'm not really looking
forward to it.

It's like these rush of
feelings come through.

Sophie, are you crying?

Has there been any girls
that you [bleep] around with?

Oh.

So before that, you were
other girls.

I [bleep] knew it.

You are not being faithful.

I'm out of here.