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- Hi.
- Come on.

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

This trip is important
because I wanna feel

that I'm making
the right choice

giving a second chance
at love.

Are you scared that
they're gonna be able to tell

I used to be a man?

Okay. Well, that's better

than a man or trans
or a dude or--

You're my priority,
so I quit my job.

If I had known that Gino
was gonna quit his job,

I would have never had
this plastic surgery.

Baby, you spent $10,000
on butt implants?

Well, you quit your job
without telling me.

This is exactly
the [bleep] kind of

that I'm worried about
with you, is you're spending
my [bleep] money

on unnecessary [bleep].

We need this
money, okay?

That makes me sad.

Manuel's mom
has been thinking

that he is out working
in Guayaquil,

when in reality he's been
in the States with me.

My kids would never leave
without telling me goodbye.

You didn't say goodbye
and you lied.

I'm gonna be questioning
some things about him.

He says he's in
for the long haul.

You all in my phone.

- Oh.
- Who is that?

Not... I don't know.

I would
describe myself

as a very jealous person.

Like, I'm very honest
about it, I know I'm jealous.

But at the same time, it's
like Rob hasn't necessarily

been the most loyal fiance.

We only have 90 days

to decide if we're gonna be
together, if this is like it.

Every time you try to act
like that was cheating,

that's bull[bleep] because
I haven't ever cheated on you.

Coco.

Coco. Pss-pss-pss.

Where is my baby?

Oh, my gosh.

Now you know how to do it.

Last night after we got home
from the massage,

Gino barely spoken to me,

and he has been giving me
the cold treatment.

I know that he's mad,
he's disappointed

because he told me
that I am selfish.

Coco.

Do you miss Panama
and your aunties?

You're gonna go home, okay?

And maybe he's right.

What I did was very selfish
on my part.

But it's done.

I'm really disappointed

and angry with Jasmine
right now.

I sent her $4,000
to buy a wedding dress,

and she comes back
and tells me

she got butt implants

with the money I sent her.

I feel really betrayed
by Jasmine.

To me, she's like
thinking of herself,

and that the wedding
doesn't matter to her,

and she lied to me about it.

What else is she lying
to me about?

This first week
here in Michigan has been
very tough.

It just feels like a mess.

But meanwhile,
I'm freaking out

because I might not being
able to bring my kids

to the United States
because I am not working,

so I cannot be the sponsor
for my kids.

It needs to be Gino

because the only income

that we were gonna have
was his job,

but now that is gone

because he feel that it was
gonna be a good idea

just to spend time with me.

One of
the things that I feel
the most guilty about

is me accepting $2,000...

That then became a gift

to get my butt implant.

Gino doesn't like Dane,

doesn't trust on him,

doesn't want him close to me

as a friend or anything.

- I have good news.
- Tell me.

Fantastic.

I'm excited
we're gonna be neighbors.

Out of all the buildings
in freaking Panama,

you gotta pick the one
that your ex is in.

Are you?

I'm outta here.

Right there, bitch.

[bleep] whore.

When Gino learned

that I still have
a friendship with Dane,

he completely disagree with it

and ask me to cut it
because he sees him

as competition.

But in reality, there's
nothing to worry about.

Honestly, I see Dane
as a brother.

You know, he's always
willing to help.

I wanna be honest
but I'm not stupid.

If I tell him right now

that Dane contributed

to my butt implant surgery,

we are gonna have
big problems.

I will eventually tell Gino,

but not now.

♪ All over the place
In my mind ♪

♪ Like a rumble ♪

♪ Rumble in my head ♪

Why? It's not like
you've done anything

for her to wanna
fight you or anything.

- Yeah.
- We should be good.

Sophie arrived to the US
a couple days ago,

and it's been
pretty up and down.

We've had huge things

about online cheating

and just bickering and
fighting about stupid stuff.

But I don't wanna dwell
on that negative stuff.

We got a long journey
in this process,

so I'm trying to keep
things positive,

and tonight we're gonna meet
up with my sister Victoria.

Anything I should talk
to her about

or shouldn't that will,
like, help the conversation?

I mean, be positive,

talk about maybe you can't
wait to meet

the rest of the family,
you know, things like that.

Don't act shy.

Just act like...
Act like you--

You can't just say,
"Don't act shy."

- I'm shy.
- Don't act shy, like,

just try to be open,
try to be honest, you know?

Sophie's only met
Victoria two times.

They really haven't gotten
to know each other very well,

but I think Victoria thinks
she's a really sweet girl.

She thinks
that she's genuine.

Victoria's a party planner
and she's actually offered

to plan our wedding for us.

So whatever she thinks of
Sophie, it can't be that bad.

All right.
So when you meet Victoria,

don't make eye contact immediately.

She can get pretty aggressive.

Are you being serious?

Yeah.

Actually.

- Huh?
- Are you being serious?

Nah.

I'm very nervous
to meet Rob's sister

just because I haven't really
seen her in a while.

And it's like now
she'll talk to me

not just as Rob's girlfriend,
she's going to talk to me

as, you know, someone that's
gonna marry her brother.

So I don't know
if she's gonna judge me

or she's gonna try
and grill me, but yeah.

I'm a bit nervous.

- Hi.
- Hi.

- Hey, yo.
- How are you guys?

- How you doing?
- Well, you're fine.

Hold on one second. Hi.

- Hi, love.
- How are you?

I'm good. You?

You're finally here.

I know, it's crazy.

I'm so excited.

I'm so excited for you.

Are you, like,
so happy to be here?

- Yeah. It's really crazy...
- Finally.

It's been so long.

How is it having her here?

Like, finally here?

I'm very relieved
that she's here, but like now

we have so much... So much
other stuff to figure out

and we're also not gonna wait
until the last day. So...

Oh, you're doing it sooner?

- Yeah, I mean,
we're not gonna wait till...
- Bro.

- ...the last day of--
- You... I'm not...

You're not even
in my calendar yet.

You gotta talk to her
about that.

I feel like
I wanna do just like

- a basic courthouse thing.
- Yeah.

Like, I want to do obviously
not like the huge ceremony.

But, like,
definitely something

because it's still like,
you know,

official kind of
like getting married-ish.

Yeah. Like,
I wanna make it special,

- you know what I mean?
- Yes.

Even though
it's like there's time

and there's pressure,
like, it doesn't have to be,

like, feel rushed.

That makes it a lot more,
like, stressful, to be honest.

But, like,
it would also be nice, like,

I'd rather look back
and say I had a nice,

you know, wedding
rather than just a rushed one.

On the flip side,
though, it could be
a nice distraction

from not being able
to go anywhere

and, like, do stuff at home,
you know what I mean?

Like, we can work
on that together

and, like, it might be...
It might help you mentally

because you'll, like,
have something to work on.

Yeah, by the time
we're in month three,

you might be bored to death.

She won't be because she's
gonna be planning a wedding.

There you go.

- Are you ready to get married?
- I mean, it's--

There's pressure
and there's...

Like, there's no pressure,
and there is like

a ton of pressure,
you know what I mean?

Yeah, obviously
because of the countdown,

that's why.
Because it's not like,

you know, we'll have more
time, we don't have more time.

If we're not ready within
90 days, it's like that's it.

Like, I have to leave
if we're not ready.

So it's like
there's more pressure

for, like, for me than Rob.

Um, but yeah, I mean,
I think we're ready though,

- I feel like. Yeah.
- That's good, that's good.

Have you guys
thought about kids?

- Yeah,
we wanna have kids.
- Are they in the plan? Like--

We're gonna have kids,
like, one day.

- Okay.
- Yeah.

When do you want to have kids?

I mean, we haven't really had,

like, this conversation, obviously.

Wait, you guys
are gonna get married

and you haven't had
this conversation?

I mean, we've...
I feel like we've

touched base on it,
like, in general.

Well, that's kind of huge.

We'll have kids,
um, in the future.

Like,
to be honest, like,

I don't think I actually
want to be pregnant.

What does that even mean?

I don't wanna be pregnant.

So you don't wanna have kids?

If I don't ever want kids,

is that a problem with you?

Because right now where
my head's at, that's the case,

if I'm being honest with you.

Is that, like, a problem
for you or...

Yeah.

Yeah.

I mean,
we both thought
we were on the same page.

That's the problem,
is you guys

never had this conversation.

There was a lot of assuming
and thinking,

but nobody talked.

I don't really know
how I'm doing right now.

Kinda just...

I feel like, um...

Yeah, I just don't... I don't
really... I have no idea.

I don't know
how I'm doing right now.

Sophie just rocked
my entire belief in her

and what we can have.

And it's like, what else?

What's the next thing
that you're gonna tell me

that you really don't want or
you really don't care about.

I don't want it to just be me
and Sophie forever.

Like, I really saw there
being more to that.

I really put my heart
into that.

Yeah.

Being intimate
is a very big part

of making
our relationship work.

And sometimes I just feel like
he doesn't even try.

You sit here and act
like an

when I get you a brand new
cell phone

and you tell me
essentially to kick rocks

because it
wasn't early enough.

Not to be a butt-face,

but I really don't have space

for stupid conversations.

You want respect?
You give respect.

That's how this works here.

Now my lips looks like
your lips.

Yeah.

Where is this guy?

There he is.

There you are.

Come on, honey, I wanna go
check out your place.

And I think this...

So, do I look...

too out there, over-the-top?

Or do I look super-hot
and you're like,

"Wow, this is my woman."

- Not a cartoon.
- Okay, movie, movie.

- Probably like
a James Bond movie.
- Okay, okay, movie,

- yes, like James Bond.
- Stop pushing my buttons.

Come in, baby.

Okay.

What is that?

What's the G-button?

Are you talking about G-spot?

Oh, my God.

I can't.

I want you
to make first step.

Okay.

Step and welcome.

Here the lighting.

Cute.

I'll show you
the toilet.

So this
is the bathroom...

Yeah. Impressive.
You remember?

- ...that you were working on?
- Yeah.

So money
is a thing between us.

I did agree I would help him.

Before this trip,
he asked to borrow some money

to fix the bathroom
and I sent it to him

and I see that it went in...

You know, the money went
for good things

because he did repair
the bathroom.

And I'm happy
because it actually shows

that he cared to make me
feel more comfortable

while I'm staying with him.

- Yeah.
- Here we can make the shower.

- Okay.
- Yeah. We have to close this.

And you fixed
the water pressure, right?

- Yes. Now, it's...
- Show me.

- Look, it's like this.
- Perfect.

- Okay.
- Okay.

What else?
Show me the kitchen.

Yes.

Here. Like in your apartment,

I have a rules of apartments.

- Very good.
- Yeah.

See, that's why we're meant
to be together

because we have
the same values.

Okay.

And we can go here.

And this is my bed.

- This is my bed.
- And our bed.

Okay. It's our bed now.

You can
put the light on.

- Cute.
- Yeah.

All right. I got to unpack.

Just, I need to take a break.

- I love it.
- Yeah.

It's nice.

Being that I'm in an overseas relationship,

there's just so much
you can do for someone.

You can help them financially,

you can support them
on the phone,

but then there's the other
elements of a relationship

when you're together finally.

Let's go.

Being intimate
is a very big part

of making our relationship
work too.

And sometimes I just feel like
he doesn't even try.

I think here
you can put your clothes.

If you're truly
in love with somebody,

you prove your love.

You make love to the person.

That's just always
been forever that.

It makes me feel rejected

and that's a problem for me.

And this is why I'm here.

Are you gonna shower me?

Okay.

Yeah.

We woke up this morning,
everything was fine.

And Manuel's been telling me

that he can't get
the Internet

on his Ecuadorian phone.

And I felt really,
really bad about it.

So I call up
my cell phone company

and I'm like,
"Hey, let's get an estimate

of how much it's gonna be
to get him a new phone."

They're like, "It's not
even gonna be this much.

We'll do, like, a free
two-day express shipping.

We're waiving
the activation fee."

All of these things.
I'm like, "Yes.

That's amazing. That's
amazing. Let's do it."

Order the phone,
I tell him, and he goes,

"That's not early enough.

I need Internet."

And I was like,
"Okay, so what...

- Do you want me to cancel it?"
-"Yeah."

Then just walks away.

I deserve an apology.

You want
Internet specifically
on your phone.

My question is,
why you need Internet so bad?

I've got an iPhone, I've got
an iPad, I've got a computer.

The whole house
runs on Internet.

Whoever you need to talk to
for these next two days

while waiting for your phone,
you could talk to.

Manuel...

This is ridiculous.
- Yeah.

Manuel.

All right.
This is the stupidest conversation

I think I've ever had.

I feel like
I'm losing brain cells.

Manuel...

Manuel, Manuel.

Yeah, [bleep] you
because that was
absolutely ridiculous.

That was absolutely ridiculous.

You sit here and act
like an

when I get you a brand new
cell phone

and you tell me essentially
to kick rocks

because it wasn't early enough.

So yes, that was not nice
for you to say.

You want respect,
you give respect.

That's how this works here.

We are
not meditating.

I am not sharing
spiritual space with you

and your nasty-ass attitude.

That's for sure.

- Okay.
- Okay.

Growing pains
like on steroids.

We're getting to know
each other

and we are hitting
some rough patches.

- Bye, Ashley.
- Ciao, Manuel.

He's [bleep] ridiculous.

I'm done. I'm done
with this conversation

and not to be a butt-face,

but I really don't have space
for stupid conversations.

When I first met Devin...

She's the first white girl
I've dated.

If Devin blows this up,

my family won't let me
go to US

and it's gonna destroy
my whole life.

I don't know what the
I'm gonna do with my life

if I don't ever have kids.

even Jay-Z
and Beyonce got kids.

It's like, if I wanted
to not have kids,

I'd probably be
a player forever.

- Babe.
- Just leave me alone
for a little bit.

♪ Show me how you do it ♪

I was born and raised
in Korea.

So I would...

It sometimes sound stupid.

No.

Come on. Oh, there you go.

There you go.
Drag it, drag it, drag it.

There you go.

Oh, I got this piggy.

Whoa, look at this. It's cute.

And when I first met Devin
in Australia, uh...

And I felt so lucky.

♪ If you don't know about me ♪

♪ Well, I'm about
To show you ♪

♪ If you don't know about me ♪

♪ Well, I'm about
To show you ♪

Let's dig in.

Devin is definitely
introvert person.

So when I first met her...

But after we spend
quite a lot of time...

And it was fun.

Like just for fun

to make me laugh and...

Yeah, something like that.

Devin calls me monkey
and I call her a piggy

because she's cute
and a little chubby.

I felt kind of bad,

but it's just saying
Devin is cute.

I've dated Devin
for two years

when I was Australia.

So we got engaged

and applied for the K-1 visa.

So what I know
is there's nothing.

I'm kind of worried about it.

There's not
much diversity there.

There's no Korean community,

no Korean restaurant
and store.

Devin told me there are quite
a lot of racists there.

...but today, Devin,
she's flying to Korea.

She always wanted
to come to Korea

and see what it's like.

So I'm excited
to show her around

and this is a secret,

but I'm going
to propose her in Korea.

When we got engaged
and apply for the K-1 visa...

But I wanna
propose her properly.

But in Korea,
we need permission,

approval from our family
and parents

before I get married.

If Devin blows this up,

my family
won't let me go to US

and it's gonna destroy
my whole life.

If you legitimately

do not see children
in your future at all,

like ever, that is something
you need to be

completely honest
with yourself about.

Yeah.

I'm kind of in shock.

If I hadn't asked
that question about the kids,

I don't know if they would've
talked about it.

I'm just...
I'm just kind of...

I don't...
I honestly, I don't even know.

For me, it is definitely
more the pregnancy thing,

and even a scare of like,
can I even have kids?

'Cause when I was 15
they found like a,

there was a teratoma cyst
in my left ovary.

Um, which obviously,

if they didn't find it
in time,

I would've died.
Like, it's quite serious.

So they had to do surgery.

Like that's why I literally
have, like, scars

- on my stomach from like--
- Wow.

They told me that, like,
there was a possibility

that it could mess up my eggs.

So since then it's like,
would I rather, you know,

be like, "Oh, yeah, like
I'm gonna be a mom one day."

And then be told, "Actually,
you can't have kids."

- 'Cause that's devastating.
- Yeah.

For me, it was easier
to just be like, you know,

"Actually I might not
even wanna be pregnant."

So it's like
I've kind of accepted it.

I feel like Sophie knows
what the [bleep]...

She knows what I want.

She's known that I want a kid.

I told her...
How do I... How do you...

How does a man talk about
what his kids' names would be

and then she's gonna act
like she doesn't remember that

and act like she didn't know
I would want kids?

It just sounds [bleep] stupid.

We're pretty far into this

for her to not know maybe,
maybe not.

Like, it's not that
type of thing.

It's like,
do you want 'em or not?

Do you see yourself
having kids or not?

Does Robert know that?

Um, I know Rob knows
that I have had surgery

when I was...
'Cause he's asked

about, obviously,
the scar on my stomach.

Um, but I don't think
he knows that it's affected,

like, my eggs
or anything like that.

I honestly think that

that conversation
needs to happen...

Yeah.

...if you want
this relationship

to go further.

The reasons behind me
not wanting kids

has a lot to do
with medical issues,

which I don't really tell,
you know, anyone.

It's a... It's a very
personal, like matter for me.

Rob does know
some stuff about it.

I guess he's never
really asked,

"Does that affect you
having kids?"

Like, if someone
who really wants kids,

I just feel like
that would be the first thing

you'd kind of wonder like,
is everything okay there?

And when we both ask
about each other's future,

it's the same thing.

Me and him living inland
with animals.

Never one of us has mentioned
"with a couple kids."

Like usually that's, you know,

genuinely in the conversation.

Not once has he ever
mentioned kids.

Not one time
in this whole three years.

I'm gonna just go check on him
at least

to make sure he's all right.

All right.

Are you okay?

Am I okay?

Can you stop for a sec?
Can you just stop?

I'm trying to have a serious
conversation with you.

I feel like you done hit me
over the head

with this [bleep] like,
and then you're trying to act

like you have no idea
that I would want kids.

I just don't wanna talk
about this at a,

like, arcade place.

Like it's not really the place

- to have this conversation.
- Well, how are we supposed
to enjoy the arcade?

I understand that Rob
is in shock

about what I've said,

but I'm also in shock
by the way he's acting.

It seems like he hates me.

And it's crazy
how something like that

can just go so sideways.

I said one thing
and he's looking at me like

he's ready to walk away
and leave.

I've never seen him
look at me like that before.

It's like
a very upsetting situation

and I don't really know
how we're supposed to,

I guess, make up from this.

I don't know what the
I'm gonna do with my life

if I don't ever have kids.

I don't know
what Sophie saw us doing

with our later years.

Like, all right,
we want to grind,

we want to gold chase
right now.

And then what?

Even Jay-Z
and Beyonce got kids.

It's like, I don't wanna be
single forever.

If I wanted to not have kids,

I'd probably be
a player forever.

Just leave me alone
for a little bit.

Baby, I'm home.

You always criticize me.

I'm tired of it.

You're not gonna control
my style,

my hair looks, and my makeup.

That's disgusting.

Good morning, baby.

Good morning, sweetie.

I'm so tired.

Waking up next to Justin

my first morning
in Chisinau, Moldova

makes me feel whole again.

You know, I felt like I was
missing part of my heart

and feels good
to be held at night

and cuddled by a guy
with nice, strong muscles.

So, what are we gonna
do today?

Of course I like parks.

Okay.

What?

You said you're gonna walk me
in the park like a dog.

Yeah.

Well, you're too much.

Well, I need...

I need to go
and, uh, get ready.

It's probably gonna
take me about...

- How much?
- ...like an hour,
hour-and-a-half,

maybe a little bit more.

- What?
- Yeah.

Baby, I like
when you look more natural.

That is, for me,
looking more natural.

When I get done up,
it takes about three hours.

Yeah?

They like me.

No, they will not.
Stop playing.

I have to do my makeup.

Okay.

No sexual activity.

Um, we were both exhausted.

We ate dinner

and um, I think we passed out
around 7:00 p.m.

Honestly, I just don't know
what the plan is gonna be

about who makes the first move

of being intimate together.

But I think
Justin's priorities

are a little, you know,
mix-matched.

So, I don't know,
you know, so we'll see.

And don't forget the bacon
and some eggs.

Okay.

Mm-hmm.

So...

You can have...

You want no makeup,
you want natural,

go date a Russian girl.

You know,
from the very beginning,

17 years ago I wore makeup
and I still wear makeup

and that's never gonna change.

So why are you asking?

Why are you telling me this?

It's like he wants to mold me

or to conform me
into this person that I'm not.

Justin changed
his whole character

when he found out
that I was trans.

Like literally changed
to someone very macho.

Like trying
to make me submissive.

It makes me upset.

I just don't understand
because 17 years ago

I wore makeup.

You never said anything.

Now I'm getting
a little bit older.

And I see many kinds
of makeups.

So, you know about makeup?

- A little.
- No, you don't.

- How it's look up...
- No, you don't.

- ...on the face and the girls.
- No, you don't.

You're not a makeup artist.
Okay?

I am a makeup artist
and this is my aesthetic.

This is what I do.

At the end of the day,
you're not gonna control

my style, my hair looks,
and my makeup.

Like--

Hmm. I think
that that's pretty much--

And this is
what I'm talking about.

When you wanna be a jokester,

you think everything is funny.

- It's like...
- Not everything.

- Nothing.
- I'm trying to be...

- I'm trying to be serious.
- Our life is not funny.

I can't figure him
out sometimes.

I really can't.

It doesn't seem like
he wants to work

or try to make it better.

And everything is a joke.

I feel he's not taking
our relationship seriously.

Give me a hug.

A little hug.

He is walking
not in a man's pace.

He's walking
in a child's pace.

But I do love him.

So, I'm going
to think positively

that my relationship
is gonna work,

that I want it to work,

and I'm gonna do everything
possible to make it work.

They called nine times.

Like that's weird, Ashley.

It's weird.

I didn't know
who you guys were

when he was over in Ecuador.

Now you're blowing him up?

I'd be a fool
to not think about the fact

that Manuel might be
coming here on my back

so he could meet up
with his family.

And leave you?

Don't like it.

It's messy.

♪ I just do it for myself ♪

♪ I don't need no one else ♪

♪ And they say I'm sick
But I don't do this ♪

♪ For my health ♪

♪ It's all about me ♪

♪ All about me ♪

♪ I can walk in your shoes ♪

♪ But it's not about you ♪

Hi.

- How are you?
- How are you?

I'm good. You?

- I've been better.
- Okay.

We are here
at the park right now

because Manuel and I got

into kind
of an explosive argument.

So, called my sister to vent

and talk me off the ledge, really.

- Thanks for meeting me.
- No problem.

Yeah, when you called me
you just kind of

- sounded a little upset.
- I don't...

I don't know if he's adjusting
or not adjusting well.

Wait, I'm sorry.

Is that a hickey on your neck?

- Ashley.
- I don't...

- I don't know what it is.
- No. Stop.

Is that a hickey?

- What is that?
- I don't know.

No, show me.
Don't try to hide it up.

I don't know what it is.

You see that part's fine.

Okay.

Yeah, I know.
I mean it's kind of--

- It's just the communication.
- Yeah.

When you called me
and it's only been two days,

I was like,
"Yeah, something's up."

Let's sit,
like, right here.

- It's beautiful.
- Mm-hmm.

I wanna see what's on my neck.

Let me see your phone.

Okay.

Oh, God.

- We're just gonna--
- You're bad.

I told you, that part is fine.

- I'm telling mom.
- This...

I mean the sex
should be great.

Here's what's
not great though.

Okay. I tell him,

I'm like, "Babe,
your phone's coming on Monday

or Tuesday all set up."

And then he goes, "Ugh,
that's not early enough."

Like, "thank you"
should have been

- the first thing
out of his mouth.
- Thank you.

I'm not sitting here
like, "You need to thank me

and like bow down to me."

But it just could have been
very simply,

-"Thanks, babe.
Appreciate you."
- Yeah.

- That's it.
- Yeah.

The fact that we couldn't try
to work through this

and I had to leave my space,
red flag for me.

You know, you have to...

You have to work through it.

You can't just walk away
when things get hard.

- And--
- He told me when I left,
he goes,

"Make sure you come back
in a better mood."

- Ooh.
- I'm telling you.

And then he's like, "Yeah,
you're all like saying

like [bleep] you duh, duh,
duh, duh, duh."

And I was like,
"And I meant what I said,

- you."
- Cursing him out, Ashley?

Sisi, I meant what I said.

You were cursing him out?

Sisi, how? Okay.

Did he...
Did he understand you?

He repeated back,
"[bleep] you."

Ashley is quick to react.

She goes from zero
to one hundred

really, really fast.

She's fire.

She's magic, she's fire.

And, you know,
they're both alphas.

We'll see how things
work out for them,

but it's gonna be a lot
of learning curves.

Was he, like, frustrated

that he couldn't talk
to his family?

- Is that why?
- He can talk to his family.

On your device?

- On... Yeah.
- Okay.

When he says,

"I need Internet now,"

he needs Internet
on his phone.

That's what he's saying.

But why, though?

Why is it so important
for you to get Internet

on your phone, specifically?

Do you think
he was like, I don't know.

What were you gonna say?

Say it, say it.

That just makes me nervous.

Is he, like, planning

something with his family?

I'd be a fool
to not think about the fact

that Manuel might be
coming here on my back

so he could meet up
with his family.

- And leave you?
- I would be...
And leave me.

I would be a fool
to not think about that.

He has family
in New York City.

He has family in Newark.

Does that worry you?

It didn't until
his people started calling

so aggressively.

I guess his mom gave them
my phone number

because we still can't get
his phone up

and working in America.

So they've been blowing up
my phone to talk to him.

They called nine times.

Like, that's weird, Ashley.

- Isn't that weird?
- It's weird.

- That's what I'm saying.
- It's weird.

Why are you calling so much?

I didn't know
who you guys were

when he was over in Ecuador.

Now you're blowing him up?

Interesting.

I've never met them.

I've never FaceTimed
with them.

I don't know their names.

I did not think
that they'd be calling me.

I'm glad that
he has people close by

so he doesn't feel
like he's alone.

But I also want him
to remember

- what he's here for.
- Yeah.

He's not here for them.

He's on a K-1 visa.

He is here
for this relationship.

They are secondary.

I'm not saying
this man is here for a visa.

I truly believe he loves me,

but I also believe

that if things don't work out

and if we don't get married,

he has no intention
of going back to Ecuador.

Damn.

I support her.

I love...
I love who she loves,

but based off
some of the red flags

that I'm getting from him,

I don't know if he's
a fit partner for her yet.

You know, thing...
People switch up.

When they show you
who they are,

you believe them,
and I feel like

he's definitely showing
who he is.

So I think they need to get
to know each other more

before something
like marriage.

I'm just shocked
that you blew all that money

on a cosmetic procedure
that you don't even need,

and you lied to me about it.

I feel betrayed by Jasmine.
For the last year and a half,

I've been busting my ass
to save money.

When is she gonna
do something for us?

But you have to understand
that you lie to me, baby,

because hiding
the truth is lying.

Baby, it's not the same thing.

Coco.

- Hi.
- Hi.

What you doing?

I was just reading some news.

Well, I really feel like

I really need to talk to you.

I'm very sad to be honest,
because you're mad at me.

We cannot continue
just like ignoring each other.

I'm just shocked that...

the money that I gave to you

for your wedding dress...

and you blew
all that money on a...

on a cosmetic procedure
that you don't even need,

and you lied to me about it.

Yeah. I feel really betrayed
by Jasmine.

For the last year and a half,
I've been busting my ass

to save money to buy a dress

and she spends it

on butt implants for herself.

I mean, when is she gonna do
something for us?

I feel very bad
to make you feel that way.

I was never intended
to make you feel...

like you're feeling.

But you have to understand,
too, that you lie to me, baby,

because hiding the truth
is lying.

You know...

Baby, it's not the same thing.

I was quitting my job
to be with you and support you

- when you come here.
- Yeah, but that's the thing.

If you have told me this,
like, you quit your job,

that we were under
a very tight budget

when I was in Panama

instead of waiting
until I arrive here,

I promise I would never spend
this money.

But that's the thing,
I did it thinking to myself

that you were working,
that we were okay,

that I would have time
to replace the money.

I mean, I regret
having the surgery,

I do, but I cannot, like,
"Okay doctor,

take out the implants
and give me the money."

I wish I could.

If that were possible,

trust me, I will.

What's gonna happen when we...

If we were to get married

and you are spending,
spending, spending money

like crazy
on these cosmetic procedures

that you don't even need?

I don't see myself
the way you see me.

I have always deal
with this problem.

Like, I am very insecure

when it comes to my body.

I'm sorry for being like this.

I wanted to look so pretty
for you, baby.

Like, I work so hard
at the gym.

Um, I'm eating healthy
all the time.

Um, you know,
but the reflection that I see

in the mirror doesn't match,

you know, the reality.

Like, I don't see myself
like a pretty woman.

I'm highly insecure
and I was so scared,

like, now that I got
so skinny...

- Baby, you're--
- ...and I lost my ass,

you wouldn't love me.

You don't have
to change all this stuff.

I like you the way you are.

Like, you're beautiful
the day I met you,

why do you have to keep doing
all these procedures?

Baby, but I'm trying my best.

I just took away
my hair extension

that I used to spend thousands
and thousands of dollars.

- Baby, you're--
- And embrace my natural hair

- that I hated
because I'm losing it.
- I love your natural hair.

It's beautiful.

I love the way
your hair is now.

And I'm very insecure
about my hair.

It means a lot having Gino
complimenting my hair

and telling me
how beautiful I look.

It really just helps
with my self-esteem a lot.

You're beautiful
the way you are.

Don't you see?

You're beautiful.

I knew that Jasmine
had some insecurities.

Um, but I don't know,
maybe she struggles with it

more than I know.

At least she apologized,
because honestly,

she doesn't apologize to me
very often, to be honest.

She's being honest with me
and it gives me hope

that maybe she's not gonna lie
to me anymore.

We just have to, like,

stop hiding things
from each other.

Um, it would prevent
a lot of pain,

suffering in the, you know, future.

'Cause otherwise
our relationship's gonna

- go down the drain.
- No, I want...

No, no, don't say that.

Don't say
"down the drain." No.

I want us to have a happy

and healthy relationship.

You're my happiness.

I want that, too.

I agree that honesty
is super important

if we really wanna make
this relationship work.

And that means
that I will eventually

have to come clean,

but now it's not the time.

Are you excited?

I'm excited, too.

...but I don't care.

He likes
to keep pieces of his
life separate

and it makes me wonder.

It does.

♪ I will never let you go ♪

I'm nervous and excited
at the same time.

And I can't wait to see her.

Are you excited?

I'm excited, too.

That sounds weird,
but I can't wait.

It's not easy to...

But talking on the phone is...

is nothing. I wanna...

I wanna touch her
and feel her, you know?

We haven't seen each other
in a while.

So when we see each
other in person...

it can be different, you know?

But, um, I just can't wait
to see her, you know?

I just... going crazy.

My name is Devin. I'm 24,

and I live in
Searcy, Arkansas.

All good?

When I see Nick,
I definitely feel emotional.

It's been a long time

and there were points
where we weren't sure

if it was even
gonna happen or not.

So now that it's finally here,

I don't even really know
exactly how to feel about it.

It's still processing.

Yeah.

Seeing Nick cry like this,

it's pretty sweet

because he never cries

or anything, so...

Didn't you cry, too?

Well, yeah,
but I cry all the time.

Okay.

This is for you.

Look at this, piggy.

Look at that.

Exactly, uh, just like you.

Look at that.

Yeah, piggy.

- Piggy. You like it?
- Mm-hmm.

Yes.

Nick insists that piggy
is a term of endearment.

But in America,
it'd be considered

extremely rude to, like,
call someone a piggy.

Um...

So I think he knows, but--

I know, but we are different.

You know what I mean?

No.

- Are you okay?
- Yeah.

- Tired?
- Are you okay?

What do you want to eat?

You don't know?

Let's get outta here.

The main reason
we came to Korea

was for me to meet Nick's
parents for the first time.

So, you know,
even with all the excitement

that I'm still a little
nervous about that.

We've already gone through
a lot to get to this point.

So it would ruin everything

if his parents didn't like me.

Do you think your parents
will like me?

It's okay to be nervous,

'cause, uh, I'll be the same

when I see your family.

But you'll be there
for me, yeah?

And I'll be there for you.

Come here.

Welcome to Korea.

♪ You got me
Breathing underwater ♪

♪ Underwater ♪

♪ Baby, when you're around ♪

♪ Oh, I can do anything ♪

♪ I can't lie ♪

♪ I'm into you
I can't hide ♪

♪ From the truth ♪

♪ You caught my eye ♪

So,
I'm making dinner

and these people have been
calling me like crazy.

I'm just trying to figure out
like who they are

and what's up
and what's going on with that.

We still
can't get his phone up

and working in America.

So I guess his mom
gave them my phone number,

so it's been really intense.

I have no clue
who these people are.

I just know that they're
family members of Manuel

and that they're
in New York City.

Okay.

Yeah.

Manuel,
he has a lot of family
in New York.

I thought that he had some,
but Mercy said...

And it makes me
wonder whether or not
he's using me

for a green card.

It does.

Pretty much
the way I see it

is if Manuel ever wanted
to, like, leave

and take a bus to New York,
he could.

He could bounce out.

He'd eat.

He'd figure it out.

That's what it sounds like

with the amount
of family he has

just five hours away from me.

Bye.

I don't see anything
in your mind

that you even wanna spend,
like, intimate time with me.

Justin, this is something
that you do

when two people live
with each other.

I haven't seen you
in nine months.

Like you act like you have
another woman.

- Please...
- No.

You act like you have
another woman though.

Baby, my sneaker...

Can you tie it for me, please?

Okay. So how far is the park
from here?

Today I bring the Nikki

as in one of the beautiful
parks at Chisinau.

They have ice cream.

- I want ice cream.
- Yes. You like?

How about... I want
some cotton candy

and I want ice cream.

- Yes. My favorite.
- Okay.

Okay.

Can I get one?

Ah, I just got ice cream
on my face.

Can you lick it?

Lick it.

It's too much
you make-up here.

- I can't.
- What? But it's cute.

No, no, no.

- No intention. No, no.
- Come on.

- I don't have a...
- I don't want to eat...

- Well, I don't have a napkin.
- ...makeup.

I don't have a napkin.

I give it to you.

No, I don't...

- Wait, wait, wait.
- Come here.

Just lick it.

Oh, my God.

Can you believe my fiance
wouldn't lick my face?

Thank you.

Let's go.

I think
it's such a beautiful gesture

to take me to the park
in Moldova,

because the last time
we were in Moldova

16 or 17 years ago,

he brought me to a park
for my first engagement.

And here, some games.

- Okay.
- What is this?

- The first thing is...
You see?
- Yes.

All the pieces
are on the places.

Okay.

And I put it here.

Yes.

And try to put
all the pieces here.

Are you trying to test
how smart I am?

No, no, no.

This is just games for brain.

I will play with you often.

Justin likes chess.

So I don't find it odd

that he likes puzzles,
I guess.

I think I deserve
a little bit more.

I would've probably liked
a picnic with some wine.

Why are you testing

- how much of an airhead I am?
- No.

I don't know if this
is one of Justin's moves,

bringing a woman to a park,
playing puzzles.

Maybe that's why he was still
single at 36 years old,

because obviously
that hasn't worked for him.

Wait, hold up.

I think I got it.

- Yeah. You see?
Only one game...
- Yes.

...and you smarter.

Okay. What other games
are we gonna play?

Hide the hotdog?

Let's go work
on our relationship, honey.

Let's go to the house.

We're... No,
you're not sleeping, honey.

Okay.

I haven't seen you
in nine months.

That means, like,
being with you intimately

and stuff like that.
Do you even want to?

Because it doesn't seem
like you do.

I want you, babe.

Let's talk about it.

Nevermind.

Jump.

Would you rather play chess
than make love?

Is that...
Does that excite you more?

I don't think you, like,
really appreciate

like a beautiful,
gorgeous woman being with you.

- No, babe.
- I haven't seen you
in nine months.

Like, you act like you have
another woman.

- Please...
- No.

You act like you have
another woman though.

I mean, if you don't like
being with me,

then why are you even with me?

I mean, honestly
when I get here

- and there's no spark, um--
- Excuse me. Spark?

What's mean spark?

Okay. Flash.

Flash in your soul,
in your heart.

- Yes. Yes.
- In your...

- Got it.
- ...penis.

That's a spark.

You know, when you feel
something inside you

and you wanna make love
to the woman

that you're marrying
in the future.

Like, after a
nine-month break,

it makes me question
his love for me.

I always with you, I'm trying
to be the nice with you.

Why you want always to fight?

I don't understand
your position.

Justin, this is something
that you do

when two people live
with each other.

So it's like, I don't see
anything in your mind

that you even wanna spend,
like, intimate time with me.

And that's like, it...

That bothers me
because it's not just now...

No, it's not just now,
it's other times too.

If you're not sexually
attracted to me,

why are you with me?

But when you say,
"Baby, I need money.

Baby, I need help."
I'm there, right?

Can we just pack this?
I wanna go.

Honestly, I just feel like
if you're not wanting to be

with me intimately,
I feel rejected.

And when I feel rejected,
I start feeling

that you're not in love
with me

or there's someone else

that you're screwing
when I'm not around.

Okay.

Mm-hmm.

- Okay.
- Okay.

I understand.

- Can we go?
- Yes, let's go.

Couples make love
and you don't do that with me.

What do you mean, I won't?
I won't...

Physically or--

Yes, honey. That...

Yes, there's many elements
that go into a relationship.

Can we just go?

Can we go?

Of course, we can go.

- Listen,
I'm gonna tell--
- Okay. Okay.

- I'm gonna tell you something.
- Next ten minutes--

- I'm gonna tell you something...
- What?

...and you can...
And you can take it
for whatever it is.

Okay.

If something doesn't change,
and, like, seriously,

I think this is so beautiful,
yes, thank you.

But literally, you have
within, like, 48 hours

to change my mind
or I'm literally leaving.

Okay? And that's the last time
you're ever gonna see me.

I'm so done with your...

Like, making everything a joke
and something that I'm--

Yes, I'm very serious.

There's so many
emotions inside

that have been holding inside
of me for so long

with my relationship
with Justin.

But, like, now,
being here in the moment

and speaking to him in person
and seeing that it's, like,

reality is hitting me
in my face.

Like, "Oh, my God,
he really is cold to me."

He has never put me
on his social media.

He has never even wanted me
to come to here.

It makes me feel
like I am a secret.

It makes me feel like
he's ashamed of me.

It makes me feel
so many feelings

that I should not feel,

and I don't deserve that.

I deserve more.

I'm... I'm just, like,
so over this [bleep].

I thought this was
gonna change with us

and it's just not.

And I have to have hope

and never have doubts
of our relationship,

but whether he chooses
to jump in

and work on it with me

or emotionally check out
like he always does

and run away, we'll see.

Just at least let me, like,
think about things too,
you know.

I could not walk down
the aisle today.

I couldn't do that.

It would be a lie,

because my heart
is really torn right now.

I'll be back.

- Hi.
- I'm heading out.

- I just wanted to say bye.
- Bye.

How are you feeling about...

everything right now?

Just got a lot to process.

Yeah.

I mean, like,
I'm kind of taken aback

by that whole conversation,
you know.

I wasn't expecting that.

Like, you would think
that that's something

you guys talked about
in the beginning.

I really feel like it was...

It's definitely been
put out there.

But then you asked...

And I guess
she didn't hear it.

...the question,
"Do you want children"?

I feel like
if I'm telling you

what I would name my kids,

obviously I want kids.

Yeah.

She did tell me...

I don't know
how much she told you,

but she confided in me
a little bit

that it's more
like a medical...

Like it's a legitimate
medical fear

that, like,
she fears for her life.

So, like,
I just want you to listen

with an open heart,
because the one thing

a woman's body is supposed
to do is have children.

So when you feel like that's
been taken away from you,

you guys just need to have
that conversation.

But I'm here
for both of you guys.

I love both of you.

All right. I love you.

- All right. I love you too.
- I'll talk to you soon, okay?

- Drive home safe.
- All right. Bye.

I guess we will have
to talk about it.

Sophie... Sophie's gonna have
to say something.

She's gonna have
to help me understand

what I should be
thinking right now.

So what's up? You ready to go?

Yeah.

Because I could not
walk down the aisle today.

I couldn't do that.

It would be a lie.

Because my heart
is really torn right now.

And that's not fair
to me or her.

Is there heating
in this car?

Freezing.

I feel like, you know,

he's making me out
to be like a villain

because I've said
something as crazy as,

"Oh, I don't want kids."
When it's like, you know...

This isn't... I'm not
obliged to have children.

It's not, you know,
"If you're in a relationship,

you have to have kids."

You don't. No one does.

I still want to be with Rob

even though
he's acting like this,

I still feel the same.

But it kind of looks like
his feelings towards me,

even just by saying something,
has completely switched.

This is what he does.

He's heard something
he doesn't like,

he's shutting down.

He doesn't wanna listen
to me or understand

my personal reasons

as to why
I don't want children.

And I just want him to,

I guess, just listen to me
and give me the time I need

and understand
where I'm coming from.

But it just feels like
he hates me right now

and he doesn't really care
what I have to say.

Right now,
I'm overly exhausted,

so I really don't have
the energy to, like,

speak about something
this big.

So it's like, I feel like
tomorrow I can give you, like,

you know, my full energy
and after, like...

Just at least let me, like,
think about things too,
you know.

So, yeah,
I'm just gonna get some sleep.

And I think you should,
as well.

Okay.

I don't know
how she can sleep.

I know I'm not gonna sleep.

All I'm gonna think about
is wondering

what's gonna happen
with my life.

- I'll be back.
- Mm-hmm.

Rome, come on.

Next time,
on 90 Day Fiance...

Today, I look at
myself in the mirror.

I was super red and I got
scared like, "What is this?"

What is causing this is,
like, the house is very dirty.

You were living
in a dirty apartment

with mice in it.

What mice, you [bleep] idiot?

- What mice? You're very...
- Your apartment--

- ...disrespectful.
- Your apartment--

You're very disrespectful.

Oh, little French pig.

I love my Guinea pigs a lot,

but they're not
my only roommates.

I also have two Chihuahuas.

My mom lives
in a walk-in closet,

but my fiancee Anali
got issued her K-1 visa

and she's gonna be arriving
to the US very soon.

But I'm worried
about how Anali would react

if she were to arrive today.

Surprise.

It's kind of big day.

The first time
you're gonna see my parents.

I can't marry someone
my family doesn't like.

Okay.

So tomorrow you wanna go
to the gym?

Why would it be better for me

than the gym
that you've been going to

that you don't want me
going to?

Okay. Stop.

You don't put me first ever.

Who the
do you think you are?

Bye, little child.

I'm not perfect,

but I'm definitely
not trying to [bleep] me

with nobody else but you.

I just want you.
I want you in my life.

It's just a lot and I just...
He's disgusting right now

and I just don't wanna be,
like, anywhere near him.

I just feel very trapped
and very alone.

I don't have anywhere to go.

What am I supposed to do now?