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Do you forgive me, or do you
think you ever will?

I mean, I forgive you.

I haven't forgotten
what you did,

but I forgive you.

But we're actually
together now.

I'm in America.
You have no excuse.

Like, I'm here, you know?

So I'm, like...
If you do anything like it,

like, I'm gonna be gone.

You're real.

Nick, being from South Korea,

he's really coming
into a strange situation.

I'm the only one.

That's overwhelming.

Oh.

How did you and Daniel
come to accept my life,

my life, who I am?

I was like,
"Do you expect me
to send money down there,

like, every month?"

And he was like, "Well, yeah."
And I was like, "How much?"

- And he was like, "300."
- $300?

We are on a limited time
before the 90 days are up,

and we need to learn
how to coexist

if we're gonna make it.

Where's he going?

Wow.

Oh, look. I see grapes.

Yeah, many greats here.

And we are here.

I need
a glass of wine.

Yeah.

- Oh, it's so cold.
- Okay.

Here we go.

Yeah.

Do you think we could capture

some sweet moments together?

I hope so, too.

Today, Nikki and I
are going to romantic place.

If she behaves, maybe we can
have sex the second time.

Oh, we're finally here.

Oh, it's nice and toasty.

Oh, I love it.

Let's check out this room.

Pink bedsheets.

And I think we have
some closets over here.

His and hers, right?

That side.

No, that side,
like we have at your house.

You're on that side,
I'm on this side.

- Yeah.
- Yes.

I really, truly feel
like our relationship

is a rollercoaster ride,

and sometimes I want
to get off and throw up,

and sometimes I want
to get back on it again.

But I think to myself,
"You know what?

Time is of the essence."

Ha.

So I want to actually just
enjoy my time with him,

because I do love him so much.

Yes.

Here? This one.

Okay.

- Cheers, babe.
- To our new beginning,

or old beginning,
I don't know.

- This is a continuation
to a new beginning.
- Yeah.

- A new special
moment for us.
- Yes.

How do you think about it?

I don't think anybody gets it.

Like, they just... I mean,

I still can't believe
that we're here again.

Shut up.

You always have
something stupid to say.

So, are you gonna
get ready for bed?

- Yeah.
- No.

I'm just testing
how it's work.

No, no, no, no, no.

No.

Maybe after dinner,
we can have some sexy time.

Maybe, it's been about a week.

It's true.

I know Nikki really wants sex,

but for my mental,
it's not working like that.

If Nikki fight with me,
I go a few steps back.

But at this trip,
of course I want to try.

Oh, hello.
Who are they?

Who are these two girls?

Ready to lose?

You're ready to lose.

- I'm never ready to lose.
- I'm ready to win.

I've already won.

- Alrighty there.
- Because I got you.

I can't lose, baby.
Because I got you, baby.

Okay, where do we get
our shoes at?

Tonight we're gonna meet up
with Ty and Tor'i

at the bowling alley.

I'd say bowling's actually
pretty big in England.

Like, 'cause in England,

there's not a lot of
outdoorsy stuff to do

because the weather's so bad,

so, like,
bowling's pretty popular.

It's like something
to do indoors.

Sophie and I have gone
bowling before,

and I like when she actually
releases the ball

because the ball's heavy.

There's a...
there's a reflex jiggle.

I was wearing jeans.

You can still see
the reflex jiggle.

I only know
my England size. Hold on.

I need a 10-and-a-half.

and she needs to work out
her English London sizes.

In American size.

Those big feet.

Do you have,
um, six-point-five

Yeah.

We call it six-and-a-half.

American is, like,
adopted from England.

And yet, you told me
you originally fell for me

because of the way I sound.

Yeah, I think you sound nice.

You like the way
the English sounds.

I'm saying British is like...

You like the way--

...Americans speak British
from England.

Oi.

That's so bad.

Turn... turn off the telly.

Rob's English accent
is rubbish.

He thinks it's good,
but it's--

You're taking the piss.

That's awful.

Oh.

Just like y'all
to start without me.

- Yeah, yeah.
- Glad you could make it, bro.

- You look all flashy
and stylish.
- I appreciate you.

- Hi.
- I like your jacket.

Hey, take that off.

You don't need to be looking
like me anyways.

You and Rob are twinning.

- Twinning.
- I know.

- I mean, yeah, we're twinning.
- Twinning it up.

Good to see you.

I'm all right.

I feel like
it depends on the game.

- They have bowling in England.
- Do they?

- Yeah, they got bowling
all over the place.
- Oh, my bad.

I love anything,
like, competitive.

So like anything,
like any type of games,

I just always
want to beat Rob,

because like I'm great
at a lot of things.

That's absolutely not true.

She just talks a big game,

but no, she's definitely not
a better bowler than me,

and she's not better
at any sport than me.

False. Tennis.
I'm way better than you.

Okay, you're better
at me than tennis

because I've never
played tennis.

- Start it off. Y'all ready?
- Start her off.

Oh!

- Aw.
- Bad start.

Are you cooking
over there?

- Whoo!
- Ah.

Uh-oh.

Aye, I broke a nail, though.

Aye, that's what's up.

- Came to play, baby.
- Nice.

It's been good.
Just been chilling.

I don't have much to do
because I can't work, so...

- I hear you. I hear you.
- I just be at the house.

Yeah.

Hey, Sophie, what's all this
going-through-phone stuff?

I heard you was going
through Rob's phone.

Why you was up there
in the phone like that?

Because did he not tell you
what he did?

I mean, that's what y'all do?

It's your turn.

Basically, if you haven't
told them properly,

he was online on,
like, Snapchat,

and he was getting nudes
and videos from girls,

and he was, like, you know,
sexting them, like, back

and telling them, like, "Oh,
like, your ass is so amazing."

This, that.

You didn't tell them?

Do I need to dive into
every detail of what it was?

I should not have responded.

Yes, bro, because I'm
forming an opinion,

an unfair opinion, based off
of what you're giving me.

I don't know why.

If you're giving me
half the story... Okay, bro.

- I don't know why you're
forming that unfair opinion.
- Oh, okay.

Because I said I was wrong.

The conversation took a
little bit of a turn, though.

It did.

I think it was
that Leo energy.

- Big Leo energy, I mean,
- Big Leo energy.

Rob didn't tell us
the full story.

I'd say the whole
going through phone thing

just ain't a healthy thing,

- and it ain't
a healthy situation.
- I agree,

- I don't want to do that,
but I also--
- Yeah.

I'm trying to be like,
how can I gain trust?

Like, I'd need to know

I'm not gonna find
any more videos.

I'm not gonna find anything,
and it's like,

this is what helps me kind of
try to get the trust back.

Because if I still resent him,
I'm not gonna marry him.

Understood.

I mean, that gives me
major respect for you, Sophie,

for still being here and
still saying, "You know what?

I'm gonna stick it out with
you," and that says a lot.

I feel like my blood
leaked into the water,

and all the sharks was like,
"Oh

here we go,
it's feeding time."

That basically made me
feel like, "Okay,

nothing I've done
has fixed this.

Nothing I've done
has made this better,

regardless of how much
I've tried, regardless.

Doesn't matter."

I don't get it.

And the last thing I want
to be is the person

who just doesn't get it.

If everything I think
is just wrong,

is Sophie just right
to come at me,

is Tor'i and Ty
right in feeling

like I deliberately
left out information?

I don't know. I don't know.

I'm pretty lost
after this whole situation.

Baby.

I told my fiance, Citra,
about my drug past.

I've never had
anyone believe in me

the way she believes in me.

Me and Citra have not
had sex yet.

Has there been any girls
that you [bleep] around with?

Uh-huh.

So I applied for the K-1 visa,

and you already bitches.

♪ Wish always
we could be heroes ♪

♪ It didn't tell us that
we were supposed to say ♪

♪ We'd chase the life
on the high road ♪

♪ It just takes that cross
without grace ♪

My name's Sam.

I'm from Cameron, Missouri.

I am 30 years old.

♪ 'Cause you can't
hide the shadow ♪

♪ Without the song ♪

I'm sleeping
in my car these days

because I'm working
double shifts,

and it's an hour each way,
so it's easier to take a nap

than just do
that whole commute.

- All good, have a good day.
- Thank you. You too.

I work for an online retailer,

stocking like a dock worker, basically.

It's definitely not
my career choice,

but I don't have any options
because of my past.

Back when I was 15, I got
addicted to pain medicine,

and I stayed addicted to it
for quite a few years.

Being addicted to opiates,

it makes you, like,
a really cold, numb person,

so I never had a real
relationship that lasted.

And it made life really hard.

But jobs, if you're sick
every other day,

it's hard to commit
to anything,

and trying to get drugs,
like buy drugs on the street,

getting burned, it's just
a dirty, ugly world.

When I was around 22,
I got clean and sober,

and it's been
almost 10 years now,

and yeah, at times
that's even been a struggle.

I've relapsed a few times,

but now it's more important
than ever that I stay clean,

because my fiance
is coming soon.

Her name's Citra. She's 26
and from West Java, Indonesia.

♪ Just take me for a ride ♪

Citra has the most
beautiful open heart.

She doesn't judge you,
and she's just the most kind,

calm, patient person
I've ever met.

Hi, baby. I love you,
and I miss you.

I met Citra
on an online dating app
over three years ago.

Citra reached out to me first,
and I thought she was hot,

but, like, I didn't
get attached right away,

but it was just
really easy to talk to her

with some flirting in there.

Not only, like, she has
just the best personality.

I love a nice big butt,
and she's got that big butt.

♪ The bigger the boom,
the bigger the bang ♪

Oh, I've been
dreaming for so long,

of squeezing that butt
and just, like, slapping it.

She's got what I like.

A year in, we fully started
letting each other in

and just telling everything.

I told Citra
about my drug past.

She still looked past all that
and, like, loved me.

When I didn't love myself.

I've never had
anyone believe in me

the way she believes in me.

After two years, we finally
met face-to-face in Indonesia.

Oh, my God!

Finally, my heart
was racing so much.

It was the best
trip of my life.

It was just,
like, surreal.

Like, you know this person,

but you kind of
feel like you don't,

but you're already
kissing and hugging,

and the bond just...
It built pretty quick.

I knew I wanted
to propose to her.

I didn't have money
for a ring,

but I got on one knee.

When she said yes, I felt
like a million-dollar man

just on top of the world.

And I found his profile,

and then I was like,
"His face is so young,

but his profile says
that he was 26."

Hey, Sam.

Just got off work?

Yeah.

Growing up, my mom's side were
really religious, Christian.

I live with my dad now

and he doesn't believe
in any kind of God at all.

He heavily believes in aliens.

And he's just waiting for them
to pick him up.

Part of me thinks
it's kind of silly,

but I've seen a UFO.

It was some white
little circle in the sky

with four lime green lights,

so I believe it's possible.

All of that kind of led me
to be an atheist.

I'm nervous
because I definitely think

it's gonna be hard to live
by the strict things

that they have to live by.

I'm not gonna be able to drink

and even just Ramadan
where you fast till sundown,

that alone makes me hurt.

So I hope I can do it

because I know
there's gonna be no wedding

if I don't convert.

Baby.

Just getting stuff together
and ready for you.

A few days?

Citra's dad, Herman.

He's a police officer

and doesn't want there
to be a whole lot of time

of me and her being
in the same house

because he worries
that we'll have sex.

Me and Citra
have not had sex yet.

We've kissed and all that,
but in Muslim culture,

you can't sex
till marriage like that.

It's just, uh-uh.

He's a policeman and like,

I don't know if it's
because he's Muslim,

there's just something like,

I love you like a son,
but I'll [beep] kill you.

That's awfully quick.

There's so much stress

because I gotta
please her dad,

make sure he feels
comfortable like with me

and like knowing I'm gonna
take care of her,

getting the wedding together
and converting.

If I don't get
everything done,

it's gonna make me look like
I'm not a man to her dad

and she'll just end up going
back with him to Indonesia.

Well, we'll figure all that
stuff out, okay, baby?

Be safe.

Just hurry up
and get here, okay?

Okay.

I love you.

With everything going on,
all the damn pressure,

like, I don't know how the
hell I'm gonna pull this off.

This is a statue
of a Confederate soldier.

Right.

Manuel.

"Mucha walla walla,"
his favorite statement.

You're talking too much.

♪ You can give me
all your troubles ♪

♪ And nothing but bad news ♪

♪ You can take all my money ♪

- Are you kidding?
- No.

- No?
- No.

♪ Ever since I found my baby ♪

♪ I ain't got the blues ♪

It was such a
long flight from Korea.

We decided to stay
in a hotel near the airport

and then drive
back home today.

Hey, good morning.

Yeah, ready, let's go.

My first impression of Devin's
parents are they are nice.

Oh, it's real heavy.

I think Nick has
the right to be worried.

If I was in his situation,
moving to Korea,

I'd probably feel
a little bit worried too.

Take in all the large
tall buildings now

because once we cross
over the bridge,

- you won't see any for
- Yeah.

a long, long time.

This is the
Mississippi River.

Yeah, welcome to your
new home state.

It is possible.

Yes, there are
a few alligators.

Which is very different from--

Most of America is like that.

That's not the America
we are thinking about.

So kind of scary.

Wow.

We're home!

Her house really big.

Most of Korean house
is apartment.

Looks like she's so rich
compared to that.

Hello.

Oh, hello, guys.

I live with my parents,
but also with my sisters.

And then my brother, Kaden.

- Can I give you a hug?
- Yeah.

Let me give you a hug.

Nice to meet you, Kaden.

How many people
are in the house?

Like six, was there
six people in the house?

So it's gonna be a bit awkward

and it will be difficult
to have some privacy.

Can you give me a tour please?

He's waited a long time
to get here, so.

The living room.

This is
the kitchen in here.

I think Nick being here,

I'm sure he's
very overwhelmed.

Our room is over here.

Ooh.

I think it's good, yeah.

Devin is never one to show
a whole lot of emotion,

but I think she's very excited

to finally be
in the same place again,

and the same time zone again.

I'm glad to be here with you.

You know?

Ow!

- Come on.
- Yeah.

Take a look around.

Today, Devin wants me
to see Searcy.

- Wow.
- Mine's right over there.

Over there?

- Is that the one?
- Yeah, I did this one here.

What is it?

Yeah,
we're in White County.

It's not talking about
skin color.

- Are you sure?
- It's just-- Yeah.

Okay.

Searcy is
a pretty small town.

Searcy is majority white.

There are people here
who probably aren't
as tolerant,

who were born here,
live here, and die here,

and haven't been exposed to

very much culture other than
what we have here in town.

Yeah.

Uh, so you know how
the United States
had a Civil War?

Yeah.

Yes. Yes.

- Right.
- Okay.

That's, that's... Okay. Okay.

He's a baby.

Uh, he does.

We're on a double date
with my best friends

Solly and Alysia.

And Manuel gets upset
and storms out

because he doesn't like
the questions being
asked of him.

That's really what
comes down to it.

I think Manuel has a tendency
to be unreasonable.

I think Manuel is
very used to getting his way.

His favorite statement.

"You're talking too much."

- Is this normal?
Does he do this normally?
- I...

I mean, he's run off before
since he's been here.

He's just not used to
being questioned

the way he's been questioned,
like, he's just used to,

"It is what it is,
and that's what it is."

It is...
We need to... Ashley.

Ashley.

I understand you wanna
run after your man right now.

I get that.

Sometimes, you just gotta
let him go.

When things get tough,

it's not time to run away.

And if she thinks
it's gonna get better
with marriage,

she'll be in
for a rude awakening.

- Yeah.
- For sure.

I think this just
confirms everything that

I'd already thought
that he, I think that--

Yeah, nevermind.

That he's kind of a man child.

Manuel.

Okay, Manuel.

Yeah, okay.

Yes.

Okay.

Yeah.

Manuel.

Manuel, I understand--

Okay, that's fine.

We don't need to talk anymore
about the friends.

I was naive to think
that Manuel would apologize

for being a jerk to my friends
and running off.

Instead, he's doubling down,

being a bit of a jerk,
and being dismissive.

Can I marry somebody
who wants nothing to do
with my friends,

but also wants me to have
nothing to do with his family?

'Cause that's kinda how
I'm feeling in this moment.

Probably not. And no,
I don't know what to do.

Like, you know about
the online cheating
that he did.

He did it again.

And it's kind of ruined
our trust again.

I feel like this might be
something that,

now there's something
he didn't know about me.

It could be, like,

the final thing
that breaks us.

What was it,
like, 3:00 am?

That's when you wanna
make love to me, at 3:00?

He was finally horny
at that moment,

and he gave it to me.
Like, it's just not

special to me.

Do you feel like because
you're the one with the penis

and you have inserted
to the vagina,

that it's only
up to your decision

of when you wanna do it?

Hi!

Yeah, I'm good.
How are you?

It's been,
like, a little bit crazy.

Like, with somethings with,
like, me and Rob.

But, like, I love it here
so far, so yeah.

I'm calling my friend
from London, Maya,

just to kind of
get some advice

and tell her what's going on
with the whole

Rob and the cheating thing.

It's nice to have support,

and just kind of have
someone there for me

to help me out with
what it is I should do.

Um, like, you know about
the online cheating
that he did.

And like, you were like,

"How do you know he's
not gonna do it again," right?

He did it again.

Yeah, the exact same thing

he did before,
he did it again.

Yeah.

Uh, I hate how you have
good points.

Uh, I've, I don't think...

Mmm.

He is trying
to make it up to me, though.

Like, he just booked us
a really nice beach house,

where it was just me and him,
and we spent the night together.

Yeah. Shouldn't I think
with my heart?

Is that not better?

Yeah.

No, I feel you.
I mean, there is, like,

you know, we do have
quite a few problems
that we need to sort out.

Obviously,
because of everything
that's going on,

I haven't really had
the opportunity to tell him.

Yeah.

Right, yeah.

Hopefully, he'll be, like,
accepting and, like,
supportive of it.

I know Maya is right
and he does deserve to know,

because it's kind of,
like, now or never.

But me and Rob have
already gone through
so much together

and had so many issues,

and those things that
I didn't know about Rob.

And I feel like
this might be something that,

now there's something
he didn't know about me,

it could be, like,
the final thing
that breaks us.

We have some intimate moments.

- Niko, help her.
- Okay.

I'm afraid to touch
because my nails
are so long,

they're making holes
in the dough.

Yeah. Mmm.

Before we sleep,
if Nikki writing something,

- it's, like, so loudly.
- Oh, oh, my goodness.

- So loudly. Annoying.
- He can play his chess, okay?

- Sit there and play in here.
- Yes, without nails.

- Like...
- No, you hear, ding, ding.

All the moves that you make,
but yet I'm like...

- On my phone, and he's like...
- Yeah.

"Baby, can you stop?
It's too much."

It's true, true.
I'm like, "Wait, what?"

Do any Moldovan man cook...

For the woman?

For the woman
in Moldova?

What?

Of course, yes.

And when the man want to do

- some nice things for woman...
- Uh-huh.

- ...he is cooked.
- Yeah?

Yeah.

- You haven't cooked for me.
You reheat stuff for me.
- The potatoes.

- Baby.
- Yeah?

- Finish please.
- Okay.

I'll be watching you.

You're gonna get this
on your face.

Nikki doesn't cook.
Nikki doesn't clean.

I mean the woman in the U.S.A.

doesn't do anything.
I didn't know.

Niko, open your mouth.

- Okay.
- Nikki, open your mouth.

Let's try. Catch it.

- No.
- No?

- I want something else
in my mouth, not that.
- Okay.

But here, different.

The woman is great cook,

and they keep house clean,

and support the man.

Many things.

And then you want to
make love with that woman.

- Thank you. Bon appétito!
- Spasibo.

Oh!

It looks amazing!

It is so--

- Ooh,
there's cottage cheese.
- Mmm!

Very, very, very,
very interesting.

Last night, when we finally,

you know, got ready for bed,

I thought that
we would have some

sexy time together.

And, no.

But then, I don't know,
in the middle of the night,

we had a moment.

What was it, like,
3:00 am? Really?

That's when you wanna
make love to me, at 3:00?

At 3:00 a.m.?

Come on.

I think it's so selfish

the way his mind thinks
on his time to make love
to me.

It's not special to me.

So, like, please give me
a serious answer because
it is going...

it keeps running
in my head, like...

...us not being intimate more

and you not [bleep] me,
like, is that...
like, literally,

the thing in my head is that
it's because I'm trans.

Or is this just normal
for you?

I'm sorry.

So, basically, you're saying
when I [bleep] out it's like a
man?

I can't. I hate you.

- But you understand me?
- Yeah, I do.

If I'm gonna stay
in this relationship with you

I need to see something more.

We've been engaged
for a year, babe.

A year. And you still
don't have, like, "engaged",

- even just the word engaged
on your social media.
- Baby...

I know. I know.

Social media
can be the destruction
in any relationship.

It doesn't matter
if it's long distance or not.

I feel like when two people
love each other you should be
on both social media pages,

and I've posted him
all over my social media

because I'm truly in love
with him

but what I don't understand
is after all this time,
after being engaged

and he doesn't put me on
to his social media.
That bothers me.

I don't... I think any woman
would be bothered by that.

I see the sacrifice
that you're making
for our relationship,

I just can't be in the dark
in your life.

I can't be a secret
to anyone's re...
Like, in a relationship.

I know.

I'm so happy.

- You finally put "engaged".
Yes.
- Yay.

I'm very happy.

I'm so happy.

- Thank you so much.
- You're welcome.

Okay, um...

This is what
we call ghetto ways...

...but, okay.

I'm taking you
to a place for food

that is really, really, really
popular in Rochester.

Yes.

After what
happened the other night
with my friends...

It's been tough,
but at this point
we have two options.

Wave the white flag
and surrender

or keep pushing forward
and try to make this work.

So, today, we're gonna try to
do some wedding planning

'cause I do wanna try
to make it to the altar.

And as an added bonus
for Manuel

I'm gonna show him Rochester's
very own Garbage Plate.

Are you excited to try
your first Garbage Plate?

He's gonna have
such a bad diarrhea.

Hi!

Um, okay, so, can you
explain to us what's in
a Garbage Plate?

Of course, yeah, no problem.

So, it comes on a plate
and we have two sides
on the bottom.

Typically, there are, like,
home fries and mac salad.

Those are the two
most popular sides.

And then,
on top of that goes two meats.

Usually, cheeseburgers
or hotdogs.

And then,
on top of that is

meat sauce,
mustard and onions.

He's...
he's gonna see.

Yeah, it does, eh?

We will take two.

- Two?
- Yeah.

- Thank you
so much.
- You're welcome.

Okay, so,
we decided

to get married
in Florida because
Florida's beautiful.

We met in
a traveling experience

so why wouldn't we get hitched
in a traveling experience?

As soon
as Manuel proposed

I'm immediately getting
the wedding invitations,

buying my wedding dress.

So, like, team too much.
Hashtag team too much.

I know it, I own it,
I don't care.

Take me or hate me,
don't care.

Okay, round trip.

It's more than
Manuel wants to spend

but it's also the only time
we're getting married.

So, I'm totally fine going
into a little bit of debt

for something we'll both
remember forever.
Fine with it.

After taxes and
then there's two people,
like that's--

I hate when you
make that face.

I, literally, hate when
you make that face.

It's such this st...
stank ass face.

This is America.
Everything's expensive.

Like, it is so cheap
to live in Ecuador.

So, no matter what he looks at
his jaw is dropping
at the price.

Whether it's eggs
or a plane ticket and
everything in between,

he's like, "Why are we
spending money on this?"

'Cause we have to live.

Manuel sending
money home

and us figuring out
what's appropriate
to send home

is gonna be something
that we're gonna be working on

for the rest
of our relationship.

I might get emotional.
I can feel it coming.

Because it's, like,
well, could this go back
to his family?

And then it's, like,
no, it's like the way
that I wanna live my life.

It's, you know, I can't live
my life necessarily
in that way

because I have to think about
what could go back

and I feel like
he doesn't want to, either

because he's thinking of
what could go back to
his family,

so, we're both sitting
in this space
of feeling guilty.

And so, I'm doing the best
that I can

when I'm navigating through
waters I've never swam in.

Swirl it
in your mouth,
give it some air.

This is for you.

Okay, this is wine.

Rohan, you are
the love therapist.

Too much information
but all right.

What do South Korean people
think of Americans?

Oh, my.

Are you serious?

Him calling her piggy,
I wish he wouldn't do that.

Thank you.

Yes, baby.
I'm excited, too.

Hello.

- Hi. Oh, wow,
you speak English.
- I'm Rohan. Yes, I do.

- Hi. Rohan. Nice to meet you.
- My name is Nikki

- and that's my fiancé, Justin.
- Fantastic.

Welcome to our tasting room.

We're gonna have some
nice wines today.

You know,
I've never done
a wine tasting before.

That's perfect.
That means I can say anything

and you're gonna
believe it, right?

Possibly, but probably
not because I'm from New York,
so, yeah.

We will start with our
sauvignon blanc.

My first impression was
interesting couple.

We're still a conservative
country here.

Generally speaking
you will not find, in Moldova,

um, a much older woman
with a younger guy.

Then we're gonna have
a cabernet sauvignon rosé.

I'd like to describe this one
as the essence of summer.

But this has got, like,
these beautiful peachy,

- golden hues, pink.
- Beautiful.

- I love pink.
My favorite color.
- Smells like summer.

Mmm.

What do you think, baby?

- You like this one?
- Uh...

Keep drinking.

All right.

When people do wine tastings

yeah, it's common to get
a little drunk or tipsy.

- It's good.
- So, when you age wine
in an oak barrel--

Why not.

It is a tasting.
But people do tend to drink
rather than taste.

All right.

By the seventh wine
people aren't really
listening to me.

You gotta train
your palate, actually.

That's another way to do it.

Shall we move
to the next wine, then?

We've got a deep ruby here.

- Hints of pomegranate.
- I do. I smell it.

This is for you.

Okay, this is wine.

- Tonight, hopefully
we can get busy.
- Okay.

Too much information
but all right.

The wine tasting
we have the full energy
of love

and this is why we drink
a lot of wine.

I like this.

I thought so.
It's pink, sweet.

It's pink like what, baby?

Um,
pink like your lips, I think.

Exactly... both of them.

What do you mean
don't eat you? I can eat you
whenever I want.

Wine is the universal
liquid lubricant.

If you wanna
put it that way.

I am so plastered right now.

- Sounds like your...
- Baby, we're not ending.

- What?
- ...your relationship's
stronger than ever.

- Amazing.
- Until the hangover tomorrow.

Rohan, you are
the love therapist.

Uh-oh.

- Hey.
- How're y'all doing?

- Did you bring
your fish cooker?
- Yeah.

I got it. You wanna help me
get it real quick?

- It's too heavy for me.
Hi, Katrina.
- Hey.

Our friends Kevin
and Michelle are coming over
for a fish fry.

We're excited
for them to meet Nick.

This thing's heavy.

So far things are going okay.
He's been helpful.

Cleans up after himself.

Even though I'm sure
it's stressful on him

it really lets us
get to know him, personally,

so that we know
how he's gonna treat her
for the long term.

- Hey.
- Oh, hi.

- I'm Nick. Nice to meet you.
- Ah,
how're you doing?

Good. How are you?

- Hi, Nick.
- Michelle.

- So nice
to meet you.
- Nice to meet you.

- Hey, girl.
- What's up?

Catfish.

Why don't you come over, Nick,
and we'll show you how to cook
some fish.

So, basically,
we are having fish and chips?

Basically, yeah.

Southern fish
and chips.

And then we just
ease it down in the grease.

You can go ahead
and get this one ready.

Lay that in there.
You're getting pretty good
at that.

- Ooh, smell that...
- No.

...Smell the fish.

Very soft. Tender.

Yeah, yeah, it is.

- Do you like it?
- Yeah, I like it.

What do South Korean people
think of Americans?

Uh...

Oh, my.

I don't think that way...

No offense.

Unhealthy food is much cheaper

- than healthy food.
- Ah.

Or some people are just lazy.

And it's easier
to drive through and
get something than

- to cook.
- What do you think?

You're lazy so you always get
your fast food for lunch.

- Are you serious?
- Look at this.

I'm just saying the truth.

Him calling
her piggy concerns me.

Even though Devin acts as if
it doesn't bother her

I don't want her
deep down inside
actually, be bothered by that.

Say nice things.

- Beautiful.
- Nice things? Ah, okay.

It's too late.

The piggy nickname
is something

that has been a very long
ongoing battle

that I've very much
given up on.

So, tradition, since we cooked

- everybody else
gets to clean up.
- Okay, yeah.

See ya.

So, we really had
a good time tonight but...

that... that's kind of
a big deal what we
were talking about.

It was just kinda
uncomfortable kinda big deal.

What part?

- What is her nickname?
- He calls her piggy but he...
yeah, piggy.

- Piggy?
- Oh, so he was serious?

It would be tough
if I had to do this.
I mean, with--

With 90 days
to get to know somebody

that's gonna be married
to your daughter

who possibly will be the
father to your grandchildren.

It's something
that we've thought about

that is just not...
we have not discussed it
with them, yet.

Things are happening
so fast that--

There's not been
a whole lot of time
to slow down.

I'm worried about finding out
that he's gonna be
a good person.

That he's gonna
treat her right, you know.

We've... we've gotta hurry up
and make that decision

'cause it's getting here
pretty quick.

When Nick calls Devin Piggy
I do not, uh, think

that he understands
the impact.

Especially, in our culture,

it being in America where
weight is such a huge deal

and women struggle
with it everyday.

I need to have a
heart-to-heart with Nick

about how I expect
my daughter to be treated.

That way there's no questions
in the future.

He knows in...
He knows how I feel.

I understand how
important it is for Manuel to
send money back to his family.

But I also don't think
it's fair for me to not get

the wedding
that I've been dreaming about.

I decided
we were gonna go to the beach
and hang out.

And just kind of,
relieve some tension.

We spent a lot of time
in our apartment,
surrounded by a lot of city.

And I wanna show him
some more of, you know,

the naturaleza,
as Manuel likes to call it.

And, there--
We can make a home here.

He can be comfortable here.

We'll come here more often.

There are definitely things

that Manuel and I are not
gonna be able to resolve

before we make
it to wedding day.

They're just too heavy
to unpack.

There's too much going on.

I understand how
important it is

for Manuel to send
money back to his family.
I totally get it.

But I also don't think
it's fair for me
to not get the wedding

that I've been dreaming about.

We just need to communicate
and figure how to compromise,

which we haven't been
too good at lately.

Ontario?

I know you
must really, really,
really miss home.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Mmm-hmm.

You have
to understand too, babe.

I had a life before you came.

And I adjusted my life
to get you here.

So there are certain
parts of my life

that I might not
want to adjust.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Yeah.

I'm really
glad that you're
telling me this.

Because it helps me
understand you a bit more.

And it helps me understand
why you get frustrated

and maybe why you feel alone.

Okay. Let's go.

You look like a baby.

I'm so happy.

Everyday we'll come here.

Today I'm about to tell Rob
that I'm bisexual.

I'm not really
looking forward to it.

I don't know what this is.

But it doesn't...
It doesn't feel like
it's gonna be a good thing.

Sophie.

Are you crying?

♪ Check what I'm saying ♪

♪ 'Cause I ain't playing ♪

♪ Thought you a winner
But you were faking ♪

♪ I'm on a row now ♪

♪ You ain't amazing ♪

♪ Check your perfection ♪

♪ Think you need saving ♪

So today, Sophie and I
are gonna go ring shopping.

Uh, we're just getting our

actual wedding bands.

And it doesn't
need to be fancy.

But, uh, yeah.

We have to--
We need to get that.

Oh, gosh.

Uh...

Today I'm about to tell Rob

that I am bisexual.

So, I'm not really
looking forward to it.

I've been putting
off for so long.

I'm just hoping that,
like, he can't--
Like, he can take it well.

And doesn't freak
out with me, I guess.

- Hey.
- Hey, babe.

- What's up?
- You look nice.

Should I look basic?
You look nice.

I want a rose gold one.

Try not to spend a bunch.

Obviously this whole...
This whole process
is on a budget, but...

- Um, hopefully we--
- How much?

- Don't worry about it.
- Five thousand.

Five thousand?

Girl, we wouldn't have half
the conversations we've had

in the last two
and a half months, if I had
a budget of five grand,

right here, right now.

Mine will be five
years can be like one.

Anyways, you see
something you like...

you can ask me.

And we'll see what we can do.

I'm excited.

Yeah,
I'm excited too.

Are you ready?

All right. Let's go.

Okay.
One second. Hold on.

Okay.

What?

Sophie.

Am I supposed
to come out there?

No. Just wait inside.

- Huh?
- No.

Babe.

Are you crying?

What can possibly...

You all right?

Anxiety about what?

Huh?

What's up? What's the...
What's going on?

I mean, nobody wants
to be told that there's
something they don't know.

Then what is it?

Telling Rob
is actually seeming

a lot harder than I
thought it would be.

Like, I have
all these, like...

It's like these rush
of feelings come through.

Like, it's just--
It's a difficult thing
to come out.

And I know I'm not gay.
But it's like...
It's still my sexuality.

So, it feels kind
of the same as like...

It's such a personal thing.

And like, you never
know how someone
is gonna take that.

Okay.

Okay.

Okay.

You're bi?

I don't even know
what to say to that.

My head... is still spinning.

I need lots of water and food.

This is too much for me
going up this hill.

What-- What are you doing?

I thought you were gonna
put me on your back.

I loved my night
together with Justin.

That was lots of fun.

But, today I feel
so hungover.

Mmm. Smells good.

My mind and my body
need a rest.

Mmm.

I am not present.

Oh, my head is spinning.

Mmm.

Oh.

Cheers, my darling.

Mmm.

What kind
of meat is this?

Mmm...

- What?
- No. I don't know.

- Hard to say in English.
- Mouse meat?

This is like beef.
Some beef.
Some good meat.

It looks... They, all three
of them looks
suspicious to me.

What meat is this?

I don't know.
I think pork.

Mmm. Yeah, but
what of the pork?

Please don't tell me
it's like butt,
like butt [bleep],

or something.

- Or intestine. I don't know.
- You like it?

Uh-uh.
Can't eat that.

Oh, I'm excited
for horseback riding today.

I wish I was riding you
on a horse.

Okay.

- Really?
- Yes.

At 3 a.m.

That's why I was like...
that's not...

- That's not how I
want to do it.
- So, okay.

At least let me be awake.

So I can look
at your beautiful face.

And feel your body.

Not be like...

So, would you rather
just be friends?

Would you rather just be--

Why? It would... like...

Because...

you don't... I don't have
sex with my friends.

And you really just,
really have sex with me.

So, it's almost
like we're friends.

You have friendly
sex with your friend?

Um...

You do?
You have...
You have that?

Really? Really?

While we've been together?

Come on, Igor.
Don't lie to me.

Because there was times
where I was reaching you
and you're upset.

Like, you were angry.
Like I was bothering you.

It just feels like that.

I'm not saying that you are.

But I'm saying that sometimes
it just feels like that.

That you were not answering,

if you were with someone.

- No. Bitch vibes
is not coming.
- Yeah.

It's because you're...
You're like

tiptoeing around the answer.
But it's fine.

I wanna be able to trust,
you know, Justin.

And obviously I do,
if I came back to him,

after 17... you know,
15 years.

But, um...

you know, guys are always
gonna be guys.

And little does he
keep forgetting,

is that I used to be a boy.

And I still have that part
of the brain working.

And I know what guys think,
before they think it.

So if he thinks he's gonna
pull one over me, he just not.

Is there anyone since
we've been talking...

that you had sex with,
slept with?

I mean,
now is the time to tell me.

I'm not gonna judge you.

So?

Has there been any girls
that you [bleep] around with?

Which was when to you?

So you feel that that was
the most serious
time in August?

It wasn't for Mexico?

Okay. 'Kay, then?

Uh-huh.

So before that,
you were
other girls?

Say yes or no.

So I applied
for the K-1 visa in June.

And you were already
bitches?

Are you serious?

And it wasn't until August
with the ring,

that's when you
got serious, 100%?

And you stopped having
sex with other girls?

I... I'm really holding
myself back,

from like, jumping
over this table.

So, like, I'm literally...

I knew it. I [bleep] knew it.

I knew it. I [bleep] knew it.

I knew you were [bleep].

I knew you were not
being [bleep] faithful.

Oh. We were already
talking seriously.

Now I understand.
Now I clearly understand,

why you don't wanna
make love to me.

It all makes sense.

I had already
filed the K-1 visa.

So for him
to literally tell me

that he was sticking his
in other women...

all the way up until
the engagement, no...

Unacceptable.

And I don't know if I
wanna go forward with
the engagement at this point.

I'm [bleep] done.

I'm out of here.

Next time
on 90 Day Fiancé...

- Oh.
- Baby,
does it feel like Panama?

I wanna take this off.

What are you doing?

Wow.

I am so happy to be here.

But at the same time,
it just constantly

reminds me of how
much I miss Panama

and my family.

Whoa.
Stop trying to steal
from this. Ow.

I'm not intimidated.

Heart's beating like
a thousand miles a minute.

Feeling pretty nervous,
waiting on Citra.

I'm just like, really worried,

we're not gonna have
that same connection,

when I was out there.

Baby.

You call my daughter,
Devin, piggy.

Devin never really
appears as upset,
as what she really is.

But I know her body language.

We're in a mini-disaster
right now.

Devin, what's going on?

I don't need to ever worry
that I'm gonna go
cheat on you with a woman.

'Cause that's--
I would never do that.

The fact that she's
only now realizing
that she's bisexual...

what does that mean
for our relationship?

If my girl gets
to [bleep] somebody else,

- then I get to
somebody else.
- No. You will never...

You will never get
to [bleep] someone else.

- So we should better--
- In my whole life, I will
never be okay with that.

- Then neither will you.
- Even you saying
is disgusting.

I will never
be okay with that.

You don't think
that applying for K-1 visa,
that's not serious stuff?

Huh? You thought
that was a [bleep] joke?

And you're still bitches.

It's different if you
make an agreement.

We have a open relationship.

No, that was never discussed.