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Before the 90 Days...

I have, like, a month
until my lease is up,

so I think the next step
is move in with you.

Just think
it's probably gonna be

a little bit too much
for us both.

Just take things slow.

I just feel like
when it comes to love

you should lead
with your heart.

I'm so all-in,
pedal to the metal,

and I just hope
by the end of this
she changes her mind.

- Cheers
to Americans in London.
- Yeah.

- Got a drink and I met a gal.
Actually, she was an American.
- Oh.

I invited her
to our little Thanksgiving
that we have going on.

It is strange
to constantly seek
that attention

from other women.

It hurts,

and it makes me worry
for the future.

She is very happy.

- Aww. Your mommy.
- Yeah.

Tell your mom,
"Thank you for that."

I was under the impression
that they might be judgmental.

So if your family
are not the ones

who have the issue
with me being divorced,

is it possible
that's an issue with you?

No.

Life doesn't give you
a certain love, like, twice,

and I don't want
to let him go.

I should be
the most important person
in Gino's life.

- Yeah, after marriage
you would--
- Marriage!

I'm out of here.

And I'm going back to him.

Yeah, I'll show you some...

Go [bleep] yourself.

This is it.

This is it.

- Hallelujah, Meisha.
- Hallelujah.

Meisha and I
have five days left

before her times in Israel
come to an end.

And after the meeting
with my family two days ago,
Meisha is not happy.

Our life,
our sweetness, and our hope.

Every day me and Meisha
pray the rosary together.

I always ask God for wisdom,

and I think I need to do
anything I can

to convince Meisha
that she will accept
my proposal

because I don't want
all this relationship
that I worked so hard...

Are you ready?

Mmm-hmm.

So anywhere you go
in the Dead Sea you can float?

- Anywhere?
- Yeah.

People all over the world
come to Dead Sea.

Look at this. See that?
Look at the view.

Spectacular.

Wow.

- It looks beautiful.
- I love it.

Is that salt, Nicola?

- Yeah.
- Oh!

- Can I taste it?
- No, don't!

- Why?
- Because...

Oh, my God.

- Oy.
- You are...

It reminds me of
a really nasty

overly salted dirty martini.

Oh.

Today I just want Meisha
to rest with me,
to enjoy the time.

I think it will be romantic,

and she start to see
that I am capable
to be affectionate

like the way she wants.

Let's see.

The mud from the Dead Sea
contain lots of mineral

that can heal your skin.

So I hope she will love it.

- Can I? Can I?
- Yes, I want you to.

Okay. All right.

Okay. Oh.

Well, that's
the understatement
of the century, boy.

Okay.

Is the sexiest way to do this?

Why?

I love you, sweetie pie.

Okay.

- I'm gonna go on my stomach.
- Yeah.

- Gentle, not caveman style.
- Caveman style?

- Whoa!
- What?

Can you try not
to be a barbarian?

I am very physically attracted
to Nicola.

That kind of innocence,

that kind of funniness
about him,

and that he does everything
with confidence,

I actually think
it's super sexy.

Yes.

But Nicola is missing
a golden opportunity right now

to make this moment
a little bit flirty and fun.

Putting this Dead Sea mud
on me

like you would spackle a wall.

Okay,
do you want me to do you
really quick?

Do you want
to take these down?

- What's under there?
- No.

I don't think that
he's quite feeling comfortable
and in his element.

Nor do I think
that he really knows,
maybe, what to do.

So the way
that I'm putting this on you,

do you want to, like,
put it on me again anywhere?

- That's not the right answer,
by the way.
- You have to...

Why?

Because you should say,
"Yes, I can't wait
to touch you more."

How about that?

Now what?

- We just, like,
let this, like, dry on us?
- Yes.

You look so beautiful, Meisha.

Do you see
I become more passionate?

I kiss you more often.

Nico,
I have so much grace for you

because
I actually understand you

and I understand
where you've been.

But because you're a virgin,

I also want you
to feel free to come to me
and ask me questions

on, like, the sexual stuff,
like, that...

I just don't want you
to ever feel embarrassed
about something like,

"Oh, I wouldn't know
how to do that."

- About...
- But I know what is woman.

I know how women operate.

- I know everything...
- Mmm.

...but everything have to come
in the right time.

Well, you can't fully know
how a woman operates

because that would
just be impossible.

Yeah, yeah, yeah,

but if I had never
ridden a bike

I can't say I know
how to ride that bike yet.

Sex you learn in Israel
when you are in
the fifth grade.

They explain to you
about woman and men.

So knowledge is a power.

When the time will come
to do sex with Meisha,

I think
I will be ready for it.

So you don't have
any questions?

- Like...
- No, I don't.

In your mind,
when you're married
to a woman,

how often would you want
to make love to her?

- Every day, Meisha.
- Okay.

No.

- Kiss.
- You can do more.

Can you wash me now?
Oh, my gosh, Nicola.

I will make love to her
every day.

Every day because I know
Meisha will love it.

- Okay.
- Yeah.

I think it's super...

You're a machine, Meisha.

- Strip tease and you dancing?
- Yeah.

Yeah, I mean...

- Come here.
- Did I really just see you go,
"I mean?"

Like, "Look at all this?"

I'm just curious,
where did you get
the idea that, like,

dancing for a woman like that
before sexy time

would be, like,
a turn on for her?

When I was young,
the movie with Patrick Swayze.

I forgot the name.

- Yes.
- I'm so grossed out.

- Why?
- Oh, my God.

Come on, Meisha,
I'm trying to be sexy

- Okay.
- and you're ignoring me now.

No, we do not do
Dirty Dancing movies.

I think
I am changing for Meisha
by showing her affection,

but she always complain.

She always looking
for some reason
why I'm not good.

It's bothering me.

- Shall we go?
- Yes.

Shall we go rest?

I don't think
I can make her happy,

and that's make me to feel
not secure in her love.

So, yeah, I worry.

Didn't you say
you wanted to, like,
make the corn creamy?

Babe, I only know
how to make rice,
and grilled chicken...

- ...and steamed broccoli.
- You told me
you liked cooking.

Yeah, I mean,
I cook when I have to,

- but I don't know how
to cook very well.
- All right.

- That's why
I'm relying on you.
- All right.

Cool. Awesome.

Can I at least give you,
can you be, like...

- ...my glamorous assistant?
- Yes, assistant.

- Yes, absolutely. 100%.
- Okay, cool.

- If you could
wash this for me...
- Okay.

What do you normally do

while the food
is being cooked?

Probably sip whiskey
and, I don't know, talk smack.

I don't know. Yeah.

All right, so you just want me
just massaging it in...

- ...right?
- I would start, like,
under the skin.

How do I do that?
Where do I go?

- Just peel up?
- Like, you have
to, like, lift it.

So, like, under here, right?
- Yeah, that's right.

Get in there
nice and deep like.

Here we go.

Okay, give me
some of the butter.

You like that?
You like watching me do this?

- Stop!
- What?

This making you jealous

- of the turkey here,
sweetheart?
- Shut up!

I'm not that jealous.

Trust me, I don't have
any feelings for this turkey.

- It's...
- For real?

- Yeah, there's...
- Are you gonna start
talking to the turkey

and, like, it invite over
for, like, Thanksgiving?

And ask him to stay?

- And, you know,
form a connection?
- No.

Uh, no.

- And offer him drinks?
- No.

No, you're
the only bird I need.

I'm still a little shocked
that Christian invited a woman

to come to our house
for Thanksgiving dinner.

I'm just gonna jam
some more butter in there.

Luckily, she's got other plans
and is not coming,

but I wish
that he could recognize

that chatting
to random women in a bar

makes me feel
incredibly insecure
and self-conscious.

- So Jane's coming over today.
- Mmm-hmm.

Is it just gonna be
the three of us?

- Yeah.
- Should I be nervous,

like, the fact that
she might not give me
a second chance

after the last time
that we met?

I mean, of course, like,
she probably didn't have
the best first impression

of, like, you
and maybe us as a couple.

Last night
we had been intimate,

and you make it, like,
such a big important part

of us going forward
as a couple,

and the next day
you suddenly change your tune.

I mean, why would I
have sex with you last night
and express those feelings,

and then lie?

- Well, you kind of did.
- But you kind of did.

Now you're questioning me
when I'm telling you
the truth.

I'll just be on my best
little boy behavior today.

- Do you best effort
and I'm sure she'll be fine.
- Cool

Oh, she's here.

Cool.

Hello!

Thank you for coming.

I know.

If it's super dry tell me.

- Well, happy Thanksgiving!
- Oh, hello.

Oh, fantastic.

I brought some cheese
because we are in England.

Okay. Lovely, lovely.

What do you say
I crack the wine
and we pour ourselves a glass?

- Yeah, I'll pour them for us.
- Yeah.

Jane has a pretty bad
impression of me,

but I'm hoping I'll be able
to change her mind.

You know, I don't want her
poisoning Cleo's idea of me

just based off
this one situation.

- Thank you.
- Thanks. Thank you.

If I go home
and all she hears is,

"Oh, you got to break up
with this guy.

He is a manipulator,
he's a gaslighter,
he's a dick."

You know, if she's gonna
have that in her ear
the whole time,

it's honestly just gonna
make our relationship
pretty sour.

- Cheers.
- Cheers.

- Cheers.
- Thank you
for joining us tonight.

- Guys, everyone
has to look in the eyes.
- Thanks for inviting me.

That's the Italian way.

- Whenever you cheer
you have to--
- Oh!

It's also European way.

- You do that too, yeah.
- Is it? All right.

- So cheers.
- You have to go like cheers.

I'm always looking
at the glasses

to make sure
I'm not breaking 'em.

Come in really hot with it,
you know?

To smash the glass?

Well, you know,
you get a little drunk,

and then you're like, "Yeah,"

and you throw 'em in there.

And you break, like,
a beer stein or something.

Yeah.

Cool.

The first time
when I met Christian

my impression
was quite hostile,

a little bit controlling,
maybe a little bit aggressive.

He tends to convince Cleo
of his beliefs

and putting the blame on her.

He just wants to be right,
and he just wants
the last word.

So are we just
removing the skin...

- ...or are we just
eating it off the bone?
- You definitely want the skin.

- The skin's,
like, the best bit.
- The skin's the best part.

But Cleo's smitten.
She really likes the guy.

And I tried to come
to this Thanksgiving
with an open mind.

- So are you supposed to, like,
put sides on the plates?
- Yeah, just get going.

- You just, yeah.
- Do you want some?

- I mean,
we've waited long enough.
- You can just, like, yeah.

We've toiled
over this all day.
We're starving.

- You just, you get going.
- Let's go for it.

So, usually, Thanksgiving,
is it, like, a big thing?

Yeah, my family
has probably about 15
to 20 people that come.

So then I guess this is
a very small Thanksgiving

- what you would
usually expect.
- It's literally

the smallest Thanksgiving
I've ever had.

Well, Christian did invite
another person last night.

I did, yeah.

You don't know anyone here.

Cleo was in class

so I was just kind of
moseying around.

I found a pub.

I just sparked conversation
with a gal.

She was an American.

And then I ended up
inviting her.

Fortunately, or unfortunately,
I don't know how
she would see it,

but she was going
back to Belgium.

Did you meet any guys
at the bar?

Uh, not really.

Everybody else was kind of
moving through,

and she was the only one
that was, like, alone.

So, you know, I was alone
and she was alone,

so I figured I'd start
a conversation with her.

Yeah, of course.

I mean, it's just that,
you know,

women are half of the people
on the planet.

- You know...
- And they just happen to be

the half
that he does talk to so far.

Yep. Yeah.
It's just a coincidence.

- Can I get
some more wine?
- Yeah, for sure.

Here I am, trying to make
a good impression

to her friend
that already doesn't like me.

And she feels the need
to bring up something

that makes me look like
a bad person,

even though Cleo and I
have already had
a conversation about it.

I don't feel like
I've done anything.

I feel like
I have to defend myself,

and it's getting
a little hot in here.

Hi.

- Hello.
- How are you?

I'm feeling pretty anxious.

Meeting friends is like
walking into war.

You have to fight
for acceptance.

Statler said she wanted
to, like, move in with me.

That's a lot isn't it?

I just worry that there's
some co-dependency.

Are you still upset?

No, I can't.

No, I can't.

- Why?
- Because I can't.

I need to release this energy.

I definitely
take responsibility
for our argument in Brasov.

You know, I feel really bad
that I said

such hurtful things to Razvan.

So I feel like it's kind of
up to me to show him, like,

I do still want
this relationship.

I do still want
to be with you.

I'm happy that Razvan
is responding positively
to my effort.

I don't know
if he is just doing it
to smooth things over

because I'm meeting his family,

but I really can't
picture my life without him.

So I hope that things
just continue to get better.

Oh, my gosh,
look at the mountains.

Do you speak English?

What is a curse?

- Hmm?
- Or how do you...

Yeah.

What?

I'm just kidding.

Yeah.

So, are you still upset?

Uh...

I am still not upset.
I am just confused.

But I'm more good, and...

I'm not asking you to pretend.

Obviously, I want you
to be house you are.

Like, your true self
right now.

Okay. That's fine.
Let's just take it day by day.

Is that what you're saying?

Okay.

Okay.

I feel like it's gonna be
a lot harder than I thought

to convince Razvan
that we do have
a future together

and our relationship
is worth fighting for.

We are here.

It's really bad timing
to be going to meet
Razvan's family.

If this trip doesn't go well

I don't know
if our relationship
can withstand that.

We have already
been through so much

that this just
might be the thing
that breaks us completely.

Are you excited
to meet my friends tonight?

- Hell yeah. Gonna get lit.
- Yeah?

Whatever that means.

Statler's been in England
for over a week,

and the last few days
have been quite difficult.

Finding out
that Statler had cheated

in other relationships
in the past,

she's been talking to her ex,

and then telling me
that she wants
to move in with me

just completely threw me off.

♪ Taxi ♪

- Party bus?
- Yeah.

- Let's get the party started.
- Hiya.

But it feels like
we're on the same page now.

And I want Statler
to be a big part of my life,

and one of the biggest parts
of my life

is Statler
getting to know my friends.

Just a fun night out
with a bunch
of British people.

- You love British people.
- Yeah.

What is it you like
about British people?

- The accent, I guess.
- That's it?

I don't know.
I guess I just got tired
of American women.

- They're all...
- Because you're been
through them all?

That.

I'm feeling pretty anxious.

Meeting friends is like
walking into war.

I hate it.
It's miserable.

You have to fight
for acceptance.

Let's go. Let's do it.

- Hi.
- Hi.

- Hello.
- How are you?

- Hi. I'm Georgia.
Nice to meet you.
- Nice to meet you.

- Hi. I'm Statler.
- Are you okay?

Yeah, yeah, good.

Hello.

I'm hoping that tonight
really goes well.

Linzi and Georgia
are very protective over me.

- Okay, are we sitting down?
- Yeah, yeah.

So I do think that
they'll really want to know
all the details,

the ins and outs of the whole
of our relationship.

Yes, please.

Thank you.

Where abouts in America
are you from then?

- Texas. Texas.
- Oh, yeah, you did say.

- Sorry.
- Yeah, Texas, yeah.

So what have you been doing
since you've been here?

I want to know.

Yeah. I met your dad.

- I met your dad.
- Yeah.

How was that?

- Meeting her dad,
that's pretty serious.
- Yeah.

- Yeah,
that was good.
- It was nice.

Yeah.

Dempsey...

It's actually
right around the corner,
isn't it?

- Yeah.
- Uh-huh.

Uh, haven't told her yet.

It was gonna be a surprise
but I'm taking her
to Edin-borrow.

- Edin-borrow!
- Edin-borrow?

How do y'all say it?
- Edinburgh.

- We're going to Edinburgh?
- We're going
to Edinburgh.

- Yeah.
- That's so cute.

No, I have not.

- Yeah.
- Have you got, like,
an itinerary?

Do you know what you're doing?

I've planned everything

- Aww.
- and it involves mostly sex.

The only thing
I'm good at is sex.

- Is it?
- Yeah.

It's not the only thing
you're good at.

- Really? Why?
- Because I've had a lot of it.

Okay...

Yeah, I'm very open sexually.

Have sex in a group setting,
go to, like, a sex party,
go to a sex club,

have sex in as many places
as you can.

When Statler
was talking about her sex life

I was like, "Oh, my God,
I can't even believe
she's saying that."

Like...

Maybe it's an American thing
to be so, like, sexually free?
I'm not entirely sure.

But she definitely seems
way out there

compared to Dempsey
on that front,

so it will be interesting
to see where that goes.

So how long
have you two been speaking
before you came over to here?

Seven months.

Seven months
of being pen pals?

Seven.

How are you
making that work then?

Yeah.

Yeah, it's overwhelming a lot, honestly.

It's a lot, yeah.

So now, like,
Statler said she wanted
to, like, move in with me.

I mean, that's a lot,
isn't it?

No,
we didn't discuss it. Yeah.

I think it was meant
to be, like, a cute thing
on Valentine's night

where Statler was like,

"I'm just gonna, like,
I've got a month left
on my lease

and then I'm gonna
move straight in with you."

Typical lesbian move.

So it is a move here
because you want
to move to England anyway...

- ...or is it an--
- No, this place is miserable.
It's [bleep] cold.

I don't wanna be here.

But for her I would.

- Oh, okay.
- Yeah.

Yeah, I feel awkward.

These are new people
and, you know, I get nervous
around new people.

When I get nervous,
sometimes something
just comes into my mind

and it just
leaves through my mouth.

Not on purpose.

It's just I'm word vomiting everything

and I am not
making myself look good.

This entire situation
is extremely embarrassing.

Okay, well,
I have to use the toilets.

It's a number one. Not...

- Okay.
- Not that anyone
needed to know that.

Do you think she was awkward,
or do you think
she was all right...

...or what did you think?

What do you think?

No, she's really, really nice.

She looks after me
in, like, a lot of ways.

Um...

I think, like,
take things slow
and enjoy it for what it is.

- Yeah.
- And maybe just
move over here.

And it doesn't even have
to be the same town.

- Like, make it exciting.
Make it fun.
- Yeah.

Like, just get to know
each other a bit more.

You're so independent,
and I feel like, you know,

with Statler
I just worry that there's,
wanting to move in so quickly,

there's some co-dependency.

Sometimes I do question

whether we are
actually compatible.

I am more reserved sexually
than Statler is.

And Statler's co-dependency
does worry me

because I love my own space
and I'm so comfortable
being on my own.

I don't think
I would be happy long-term

if I feel like
I'm being suffocated.

I feel like there's just a lot
of red flags there

and I really need
to be careful.

All these fights
are wearing me out.

You're sitting there

telling me that you cheated
with your ex?

I don't think you should be
yelling like you were
about cheating on me.

Is that true?

All these fights
are wearing me out

and this one just really took
a lot out of me.

Like, you're sitting there
telling me

that you cheated with your ex?

And you [bleep] him
and it was good?

This is how Jasmine
can be though, at times,

is, you know,
she can get upset,

and then she says
something really awful
that she doesn't mean.

At least, that's what I hope.

I don't know.

But I do know if I don't try
to work things out
with Jasmine right now

I will regret it, I'm sure,
the rest of my life.

This isn't the way
I was hoping for my trip
to turn out.

I don't think you should be...

...yelling like you were
about cheating on me.

That is a big deal.

Is that true?

No. I told you that
because I'm very hurt.

Because you find it okay

to say that I'm not
the most important person

in your life.

Being as important
as my family before marriage,
that's pretty important.

But that's not enough for me.

So you're leaving tomorrow.

Just let's take
separate ways...

...and let's be over.

All right. So you're basically
saying you're giving up,

and that's that.

Yes.

So you've told me before
that this is done and over.

And it wasn't over.

So how is this different?

Because before I thought that

we could actually save
this relationship

and we could actually
make things work.

Like, and the...
for the love that I have you,

I wanted to believe
those things, you know, but,

that's not
gonna happen, Gino.

I don't feel loved.

I don't feel appreciated.

I don't feel like
it is worth it

to leave all my life behind
here in Panama

to go to the United States
to be with a person
that doesn't love me.

All you do
is to complain about me,

to compare me to you family,

to just let me know
and throw into my face

that they're more important
than me.

'Cause you would
choose them, okay.

I said you were
equally important.

I don't wanna be
equally important!

- I need a man...
- Before marriage...

I need a man
that love me this much,

that's gonna tell me that you
are the most important

- person in this world.
- Yeah, after marriage

- I would say...
I'd be willing to say.
- I don't need marriage!

I will never love someone
the way I loved, you know.

I know that for a fact.

But he's never gonna
prioritize me over his family because...

...he doesn't see me
as family.

So I won't be able to survive
this relationship any longer.

Hmm.

Just pick up your things.

I want you to go
and I want you
to leave me alone.

I'm breaking up with you.

And you can look at it as
whatever you want it.

You can hate me for this.

But in the future,
you will thank me

because I believe that this
is the best decision.

Walk away.

Well, if that's what
you want me to... to do,

then that's probably
what I should do.

Yes, that's what
I want you to do. Yes.

Just do it,
and forget about me.

Well, I probably should go.

So...

Bye.

I just don't wanna go.

I don't wanna
go right now, but...

...she... she doesn't seem
to want to make amends
with me.

We're just...
We're not getting anywhere.

Um, it makes me, you know...

You know, how... how much
does she really love me?
I don't know.

Yeah, I can't stay here.

It's over.

Yes, honey babe.

Hey!

- Hello.
- Come up on the boat.

But I want to show David
how well I can sign.

I wish I had being
more confident with sign

from the very start.

What we're gonna do here
is we're gonna do snorkeling.

So here,
this is a shallow part.

Okay.

And how about drinks, ma'am?

A wine.

Okay.

A red wine, sir.

Here's the chicken wings.

And your rib-eye steak, sir.

Enjoy your meal, ma'am, sir.

In the back of my mind,
I'm still thinking about
that conversation

with my friends last night.

Yeah, I'm clingy
in a relationship.

I want my person next to me
all the time.

I want to move in quickly.

- Are you ready
for Scotland?
- Yay!

Geez.

You sure are
with all your hats.

I don't know
what to wear.

I don't know what we're doing.

I don't know where
we're going.

I hate it.

You're, like, already packed.

Well, I've just thrown
quite a few things in.

- Are you packed?
- No, I haven't even started.

Uh, here's a sock.

Here's a...

Today, I'm surprising Dempsey
with a trip for her birthday.

She knows that we're going
to Edinburgh in Scotland.

But she doesn't have a clue
where we're staying
or anything else.

Being a bit scatty, Statler.
Can you just, like, get ready?

What...
What does scatty mean?

Like, you're just acting
all over the place.

So I'm holding my breath,
not saying anything,

and waiting
for the big reveal!

Do you have window cleaner?

What would you need
window cleaner for?

I need you to come and pack.

- Yeah.
- Yeah, please.

I know I didn't
come off super well
to her friends last night.

So there's a lot of pressure
that I'm feeling.

And that kind of gets
my ADHD going.

Your lighters
are different here.

My time with Dempsey
is about to come to an end.

I'm changing the bags.

And I can admit
that I've been putting
a lot of pressure on her

to increase the speed
in our relationship.

- It's gonna be
a long drive.
- Is it?

- Yeah.
- Luckily, you are doing
the driving.

Since I don't know
how to drive on the wrong side
of the road.

So this trip to Scotland
feels like my last chance
to prove to Dempsey

that I can live in the moment

and put that
on the backburner.

Think about that later.

Just enjoy
each other's company.

- 'Cause I'm pulling out
the wrong way today.
- Yeah, it's on the wrong side.

Do you go around
the roundabouts wrong?

- Do you have roundabouts?
- We don't really
have roundabouts.

Because there's different...

I mean, we have
these occasionally.

Like, to get on the highway
or whatever.

But it's not every other road.

I mean, y'all have it, like,

the roundabouts are
every freakin' road
you're just [mimics retching].

I'm looking forward
to spending quality time

just me and Statler
with no distractions.

But in the back of my mind,
I'm still thinking about
that conversation

with my friends last night.

It makes me anxious
that Statler can be

really intense
in relationships.

I don't ever want us
to be in a toxic

or unhealthy situation.

That would be nice, yeah.

Because, you know,
I just feel like I just made
a total ass of myself

by, like, word vomiting.

Well, they did say
that you could just
be codependent.

Saying I'm codependent.

Yeah, I'm clingy
in a relationship.

Maybe it's not
a horrible thing.

I want my person next to me
all the time.

I wanna spend my life
with them all the time.

I wanna move in quickly.

That's the kinda love I want.

Maybe it's a love language.

Maybe you call it codependency.

At least I'm not
lying to myself.

Yeah, I get it.

When you look up
the definition
of codependency,

I don't really see the problem
in wanting to hang out

with the person that you're
in love with most of the time.

I'm still hoping that Dempsey
changes her mind

about me moving in with her.

So, it's just, like,
I don't need any more voices

telling her that she's moving
too quickly in all of this.

So you see that place
to your right over there?

Yeah.

- That castle.
- A castle.

That's where we're staying.

In a castle.

For my queen.

Sick.

We're staying in a castle!

Happy birthday, Princess.

Oh, my God.

Thank you.

- I'm Dempsey.
- Welcome. Nice to meet you.

I'm overwhelmed.

And I can't believe
that Statler has booked
a full castle

for me to stay in
for my birthday.

Inside, all the staircases
are, like,

circular, and they go
up and up.

- Holy cow!
- This in insane.

And then we see
the living room,

and it's absolutely huge.

It's, like, bigger
than my caravan,
just one room.

Would you like me to take you
up to your bedroom
to show you...

- Yeah.
- ...to your room?

- Yes, please.
- Heck yeah.

It's just magical.

It just feels like
such a dream.
It doesn't feel true.

Wow, this is incredible!

So your wardrobe is there,
and the light switch
for your wardrobe

- is above the door.
- Thank you so much.

Get out. That's amazing.

Happy birthday.

Ooh. Hot.

Dempsey's thrilled, overjoyed.

I don't think I've ever
seen her this happy.

Go me.

She's just
so peaceful, and beautiful,

and kind, and sweet,
and, oh, amazing.

And I think she deserves
to feel like a queen tonight.

I think that's okay.
What do you think?

Yeah,
I think that's good.

Romantic.

Straight out of a movie.

I think we bring out
the best in each other.

I just think we have,

like, we're still learning
about each other.

Yeah. But everything
I'm learning so far
is really good.

Yeah, me too.

Your sweet.

I'm super happy
in this moment.

It's just very romantic.

Upon reflection,
I think that Statler,

when she has fallen
for somebody,

that she literally
puts everything
into the relationship.

And there's nothing wrong
with that.

It's nice to get away from it.

Just me and you,
without, like, distractions

of work and people.

Statler makes me
feel security.

She makes me feel really safe.

She makes me happy.

She makes me feel complete.

I don't feel pressure
to be with Statler.

I wanna be with Statler.
I love her.

And so maybe I shouldn't
be pushing away

the happily ever after
that I've always wanted.

Happy birthday, Dempsey.

Thank you, Statler.

Hello, honey.

I'm introducing Amanda
to my parents.

I am a little bit nervous.

Ask your mother
why her and your ex-wife
didn't get along.

He felt that...
that she doesn't love him.

It's so beautiful!

I feel like I'm getting
more and more nervous.

You are? Let me see your hand.

No, they're so sweaty!

Let me see.

Oh my God, like...

Stop it.

Oh, my God.

Today I am introducing Amanda
to my parents

and my brother.
I am a little bit nervous.

Right now, we are not

completely in
our best situation.

But I still feel hopeful that

things will be better
between us.

So I hope Amanda tries to...

to make a good impression
for my parents.

Why are you nervous?

I don't know.
I mean, I didn't...

bring any girl for long time.

I'm the first girl
since your ex-wife?

Yes.

And I told myself

for a long period of time

I will not bring someone else.

In case things, like, go bad
and you don't want them

- to know or something?
- Yeah.

Does that mean you don't think

things are gonna go bad?

Well I want to...
things go good.

Razvan has
told me that

his ex-wife and his mom
did not get along at all.

So, like,
that's added pressure,

because in my mind
I'm thinking,

"Why didn't his mom like her?

Like, what did she do that

made that relationship
bad between them?"

And also, too, we're not
in that good of a place.

I don't want his mom
or his dad

to kind of pick up
on our tension

and, like, not think that
I'm right for their son.

Go in front.

Hey!

Ah!

Hi!

Aww.

How are you?

Good, how are you?

- Ciao.
- Ciao.

- Hi.
- How are you?

Hey, aww.

- Ciao.
- Ciao.

Ask her if she wants me
to help her with anything.

- No, no, no.
- No.

This is chicken soup
and the noodles are made home.

And those are cabbage.

With the chicken.

Bon appétit.

It's really good.

Mmm.

- So good.
- Um...

Uh, how do you say "good?"

- Buna?
- Yeah.

So, she knows that
you have two childrens.

My children are
so good, well-behaved,

so it's easy sometimes because
they're so good.

It's very important
to have good children.

You will be forever young
if you have good children.

Oh, yeah.

This might be weird,

but ask your mother

why her and your ex-wife
didn't get along that well.

Why do you want to know that?

I want to hear from...

It's simple.

We didn't communicate no more.

When I was trying to tell
my point of view

and say things,
she didn't hear me.

He felt that
she doesn't love me.

They have been hurt.

Sorry.

Do you think we match?

Well, I don't know.

You told me different things.

- No, I didn't.
- Yes, you did.

Couple of days ago you told
me exactly, we don't match.

That was the same.

How was that?

It was good, I liked it.

- It was good?
- It was good, yeah.

You like?

What?

With my ex-wife,

I felt like she wanted me
to be something else.

Hmm.

It reminds me
the problems

that I have with Amanda.

Sometimes when I'm with her...

...if I'm doing
something wrong,

we will get another fight.

And when we argue,

I don't see in her eyes, love.

And I don't see that
she wants to be with me.

I was hoping this relationship
will be different, but...

I don't know.
It's not a nice feeling.

I was not expecting this.

And I was...
I was surprised.

I'm engaged.

I'm so happy.

♪ Your eyes make
It so hard to lie ♪

♪ Then leave it all behind ♪

♪ Don't leave it
Till morning comes ♪

♪ We've nowhere to hide ♪

♪ But there's a million... ♪

♪ A million miles to run ♪

When I tell you,
I love you,

I don't hear it back,
"Oh, Nicola, I love you too."

Well...

So, we right now,
we are heading to where?

- And... Yeah.
- Pontius Pilate.

Oh.

Oh, my gosh.

Today,
I'm going to take Meisha

to very important place.

It's mean that we will go

from where Jesus
carried the cross,

until the place
where he was crucified.

Nicola,
like you rent this, or...

- Yeah.
- Or what do you do with this?

- No, I'm going to rent this.
- Okay. So should we tip?

Should we tip the guy
a little bit?

- Yeah, I am.
- Okay.

Oh, my gosh.

- So you're actually
carrying this...
- Yeah.

- ...down the pathway
that Jesus carried the cross?
- Yeah.

- Oi, oi, oi.
- Do you want to help me?

I don't feel worthy
to do this.

The 14 stations of the Cross.

It's an unreal experience

for a Catholic, especially
a Catholic living in America.

And, I am so
grateful to Nicola

for bringing me here
and showing me this.

- Oh, my gosh.
- Just think how Jesus
carried the cross.

And all uphill.

Look.

- Oh, are we-- We're entering
here right now?
- Yeah.

'Kay. Duck, duck.
Duck it down. Duck it down.

You're gonna hit the cross.
There we go.

- Can we leave this here now?
- Yeah.

Nobody will touch it, Meisha.

Okay.

- Okay, let's go.
- Let's go.

So, right now,
Nicola and I are walking

- to the 14 station
of the Cross.
- 14 station of the Cross.

Our entire relationship,
our entire seven years

has been built on talking
about our faith
and religion in Christianity.

So now we're
actually in this place.

And for as hard as it's been,
it's really beautiful
and moving.

- You like it?
- It's so amazing.

- Can I get an Irish--
- Can you do it? Can you
come and do it, Meisha?

No.
Can you say,

"Can I get an Irish cream
cappuccino, extra hot
with whipped cream?"

That's, if they don't do it.

- They will. Good luck.
- Okay.

- May the force be with you.
- Oh, my God.

Meisha trip to Israel
is coming to an end.

And I was thinking
to propose to her.

But, I am nervous
if she will say yes to me.

Because, you know,
about all her complain

that I'm not affectionate,
I'm not caring
about her too much.

- Oh la la la la.
- Oh, my gosh.

If she is not
sure in her love...

What do you think
about my love to you?

- Bringing me my coffee? Okay.
- Yeah.

- Going on this way.
- That was very--

Waiting for the mozzarella.

- Waiting for the Irish cream.
- You know what
you're supposed to do?

You're supposed to give
from you heart
and never even mention it.

- No. But sometimes
you need to say...
- Not keep tabs.

- words from a woman...
- Thank you so much

- for bringing...
- that I love you.
Look how...

...for ordering my coffee
and bringing it to this table.

- Thank you,
- Mmm, I think you just said
it because I told you.

Saying I love you...

But here's the thing.

When I tell you I love you,

I don't hear it back Meisha
saying, "Oh, Nicola,
I love you too."

I don't hear it.

That's not true.

...and you did not say,
"Oh, Nicola, I love you" back.

I love you [indistinct].

Okay.

Or even in Jerusalem.

When I tell you I love you,
and even I gave you a kiss.

But you didn't say back,
"Nicola, I love you."

- Have you had
a good day, Meisha?
- That-- Yes.

- And I love you so much.
Give me a kiss.
- Aw. Mmm.

When I was talking
to you in the phone...

all the day,
"Nicola, I love you."

All the day,
"Nicola, when we
going to get married?"

Well...

Certain times when I
haven't said I love you back,

I didn't even realize
that I hadn't.

So... So then,
if I have fallen
short in that regard,

number one, I apologize.

And number two,

since I got here,

it's been a different Nicola,

that I've been dealing with.

So...

I've been very...

uncertain and worried

about what things
were looking like.

So now, I change?

Now I'm the one
that's trying
to tell you, "Meisha...

love me more?"

Well, Nicola,
I love you very much.

Thanks to God
for that, Meisha.

Do you believe
that I love you?

Yeah, I do believe
that you love me.

Was there hesitation there?

Not really hesitation,
but I do believe
that you love me.

Well...

I love you.
There's no question.

And I'm sorry
if you didn't hear that.

Because you know as well
as I do that I will happily

say that everyday, all day.

But, you know,
we still have the...

hurdle of the annulment.

I think... I think
the annulment
will be solved soon.

Yeah.

As long you love me...

all the other things
will be solved.

Yeah.

Nicola and I have
been doing much better
over the past days.

But it is still hard
for me to take down

some of these walls
that I started to put up.

Especially because
we don't know when or if

the annulment
is going to be granted.

I have no doubt
that I love this person.

But, it's going
to take some work.

And there is so much
uncertainty about our future.

Can everything
be fixed in the time
that I have remaining?

The answer is no.
We don't have time for that.

But is there enough
time for me to see

such light in our situation,

that I think
that it's worth
fighting for,

it's worth trying to fix
on the road ahead?

Um, and that's what I'm
trying to discern right now.

It's not like,
I seek out only
women to talk to.

No, absolutely not. No.

What?

This is really hard to believe
that Christian runs, um,
a serious relationship.

I am afraid that might
not end well.

I hate feeling like,
I'm doing something wrong
by just, like, being myself.

Okay, I'm so sorry.
I'm just... I'm sorry.

But, you know...

It's not like,
I seek out only
women to talk to.

I just hope that you
can understand,
it's not anything weird.

You know, I just
don't have any...

I'm never...
I'm not uncomfortable
speaking with women.

I just speak to them
just like they're a person,
because they are.

Uh, I'm just very social.

Um, I like to spark
conversations. I feel like,
awkward if I'm like...

in a situation where I'm like,
not talking to somebody.

You know what I'm saying?
I feel like, kind of like a...
like a pressure cooker.

Like, I start to...
You know, I get, like...

I gotta say something
to somebody. You know.

But that's just
'cause I'm very,
you know, extroverted.

When Christian first told me
that he'd invited this woman
to come to our house,

I didn't really have
a moment to like, pause
and like, truly understand.

And I was probably a little
bit more bothered about it
than I was letting on.

I don't want
to start a conflict.

But, I feel like,
this is something

I should be asking
him questions about.

No, absolutely not. No.

- What?
- But you invited her over.

Yeah, to be... to be
with you and I
and Jane as well.

You know,
that's like, isn't that

go a ways, like,
show you that it wasn't
anything nefarious?

- Like...
- I mean it's just
a little strange.

If I was in a bar,

and I was sitting there alone,

and guys sat next to me,

and started talking to me,
my assumption

would be that the guy
is potentially
interested in me.

- Would that be your
assumption too?
- 100%.

It's weird. I just...
I guess, I don't ever
consider that like...

I don't know. I don't...
I don't think
about it in those terms.

And I hate feeling like

I'm doing something wrong
by just like, being myself.

- I wouldn't do
something that--
- I mean...

And just, you know,
spontaneously went there,
sat next to her,

that would probably
be crossing a line for me.

I just feel really icky
right now. I just feel
like, really icky, like...

it's either you have
trust me or you don't.

But like, it would take some
work for me to be like,

okay, Cleo doesn't really
appreciate when I have
conversations with strangers,

that happen to be women.

That's not what I've said.

- That's really putting
it completely out of context.
- Okay.

All right. Does anyone
want some more cheese?

- No, I'm good.
- I'm set. I'm totally
set on cheese.

It's quite late.
I think, um...

I have some work
tomorrow as well. So...

It's really hard to believe
that Christian runs, um,
a serious relationship.

Because Cleo is trying
to voice her concerns,

but again, Christian
is very defensive.

Even if Cleo wants it to,

I really don't think
Christian will stop
approaching women in a bar.

It's because that's what
he has been doing
his entire life.

And, I feel...

Yeah, I...
I am afraid that might
not end well.

Well, it's really great
spending some more time.

- Yeah.
- And getting to know
you a bit more.

Yeah. Yes, definitely, yeah.
You definitely got to know me

- a little bit more.
- Thank you so much for coming.
Come, I'll come with you.

I'll walk you to the door.

- Sounds good.
- Thank you.

Have a good night, Jane.
- Good night.

Good night. See you.

- Safe journey, okay?
- Good night.

- Yes, you too.
Good night, Cleo.
- Bye.

- Hey.
- Hey.

- How you feeling?
- Uh, I'm good.
How about you?

Uh, well, I mean,
I definitely felt like I was
getting put in the hot seat.

This is definitely the most
uncomfortable Thanksgiving
that I've ever had.

I don't think I've ever
had a Thanksgiving
where I was singled out

as the, you know,
the bad guy and told,

you know, you're kind of,
the [bleep], aren't you?

Jane thinks I'm a womanizer,

and kind of a [bleep] boy.

I was really hoping
to just have
an opportunity to get her...

you know, have Jane
get to know me

without having
the third degree.

After we had already
talked about this stuff.

It's like, I don't know,
I didn't feel very
comfortable, like,

literally crawling
out of my skin
that whole time.

- Like, feeling like I had
to defend myself.
- Okay. I'm really sorry.

I'm genuinely very sorry.

It made me, like,
think that you thought that...

- like what I was doing
was, like, nefarious...
- No, I just... I know...

...or not innocent.

We talked
about the fact
that you're very social

and that you're
a social butterfly
and that I knew for sure.

But for you
to have literally, like,
sit next to women

that are alone and...

- you know, kind of...
- See. This is the thing,

it's like, now... [chuckles].
Oh, God.

- It's like, making me seem
like, I'm like, seeking out
- Like I'm...

- lone women at bars...
- No.

...all the time
to have conversation with.

Okay, I'm so sorry.
I'm just... I'm sorry.

I just feel like,
anything I say, it's gonna
make you feel worse.

- I'm just gonna...
- No. Well...

Here's the thing,
is we need to talk
about it, Cleo.

I feel like, if I were to say,

"Okay. You know, I'll stop
talking with women at bars."

Like, I'm admitting
that I was doing
something wrong...

I'm not willing to do that,

because I don't feel
like I've been doing
anything wrong.

Now I'm trying
to be open and transparent
and communicate,

and she walks on me.

How am I gonna be able
to be with somebody
who I can't even talk to?

Or I can't even
tell how I feel.

I don't know if I can go on,
if this is gonna continue.

Next time on
Before the 90 Days...

- Oh, my God.
- What? No, continue.

You like it last night.

Last night, we had sex,

I think four times.

She grabbed me
and said to me,

"You need to
me right now."

I really, really, really
care about you a lot.

Are you listening
to what I'm saying to you?

I just don't want to leave
without letting her know

exactly how I feel.

There's nothing
in the way that I approach
women at a bar,

that would lead
them to think that
I'm hitting on them.

So I feel like I have
nothing to be guilty about.

If someone thinks
that Christian's sad about his
interactions with women

were definitely
red flags to me,

and I am worried
about faithfulness.

Are you still gonna
be able to trust me,
you think?

I don't wanna lose you.

We've known each other
for two and a half years now.

And, it's like something
that we can't overcome.

I want to save
our relationship.
I really do.

But...

I'm not really feeling
like anything's gonna change.

Seriously?

Dang.

I don't know if I want kids.

If you want
different things,

this seven months
and her coming out here,

could just be a waste of time.

I will have a child
at some point,

whether I do
it on my own or not.

If you
had to have kids,

I don't think it would
work between us.