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[cheers and applause]

♪ Let’s go

- Hello, everyone,

and welcome to the "Married
at First Sight Afterparty."

I’m your host,
Keshia Knight Pulliam.

And tonight I’m sitting
down with Emily, Orion,

and special guest

Clint Webb

from "Married at First Sight"
season 16.

[laughter]
Hey!

- Snaps for Clint.
- Yeah.

- Welcome to the show, guys.

- Hi.
It’s nice to see you again.

- It’s so good to see you.
Okay, listen, listen, listen.

I have to start
with you, Clint.

How does it feel
to be back and be

on the other side of things?
- Oh, my God.

To, like, be able to
do the role reversal...

- Yes.

- And be able to
critique these folks?

- Yes, and this is the thing--
you can really critique them

because you lived
the experience.

Like, I feel like this--
- Let’s be nice, though.

- Not only critique, but
I think you can also offer

them some really great advice.
- You know it. Yep.

[laughter]
- So how are you guys doing?

Are you excited?
- Doing good.

I’m excited, yeah.
I’m happy to see everybody.

It’s great to meet Clint.
- Okay.

How about you with Barbie pink?
I love it.

- Thank you.

I feel honored to be
sitting in the middle

of these two great guys.

Great to meet Clint,
as Orion said.

Good to have, like,
another perspective,

I think, especially
through the honeymoons.

And, yeah, happy to be here.
- Okay.

Clint, so any updates?
You dating?

What’s going on?
Got a girlfriend?

- I’ve been dating
since the show ended,

and we’re looking
at moving in together.

- Ooh! Wait, time-out.
Back up.

- Congratulations.
- You can’t glaze over that

- Back it up.
- So you have a girlfriend now?

- Yes, my girlfriend--
yes, we are a couple.

- Okay.

- And we’ve thrown
the moniker on it.

- Got it. This is a whole
show in itself--

catching up to
what you’re up to.

But let’s just bring it back

to "Married at First Sight
Afterparty."

So, all right, we just finished
watching tonight’s episode,

and I can’t wait to
hear all the gossip

about your honeymoon.

And on that note, things
got a little tense

between Lauren and Orion.

So tonight’s signature
cocktail is called

the "Feeling the Heat, Honey."

This sweet and spicy cocktail
contains gin...

- Cheers.
- Lemon juice,

and spicy honey simple syrup.

Cheers, everyone.
Cheers.

- Oh, cheers.
- Mm-hmm.

- Cheers.
Delicious.

- Well, let’s dive
into tonight’s episode.

Well, Emily,

your honeymoon had barely begun

when you encountered
a slippery situation.

Let’s take a look at this clip.

♪

- Last night while
we were in the shower,

I left the shower
to go get more towels.

And when I took a turn,
I took a tumble.

You didn’t hear the big kaboom?
[laughter]

We did take, like,
the PG-13 shower.

That was the most unclothed
we’ve been

because we’re
just not there yet.

We haven’t had the sex talk.

So, like, taking it slow
while still being together.

- You know we got to talk about
the elephant in the room.

- What?

- You’re like, yeah, so we
were in the shower last night--

- Oh, yeah. Okay.
- Uh-huh.

- Yeah, so it was
very, very PG.

We had our bathing suits on.
- Okay, so...

- And then the floors,
I will say, were slippery.

Do you agree?
- Yeah, they were slippery.

- Thank you.
Floors were very slippery.

Yeah, I just completely ate
it around the corner.

And I didn’t want to kill
the vibe or be dramatic.

- Yeah. No, I get it.
- You know?

- I mean, I understand.
- There’s a lot to manage.

- So are you allowing him
to make the first move?

- He made the first move
on the wedding night, so...

- Oh, wait, wait. Time-out.
What do you mean he made

the first move
on the wedding night?

- We made out the first--
- Okay.

- The wedding night.

And I talked to some of his
friends, like, my bridesmaids.

Everyone’s like, you should
let him make the first move.

- Okay.

- We just had a steady
make-out situation happening.

- Just had a steady make-out?
- Mm-hmm.

- Understood, understood.

I know you’re saying you’re
letting him take the lead.

So I noticed that you are
very willing to compromise.

- Mm-hmm.

- Like, you’ve said
it a couple times.

Like, that willingness
to compromise

and meet in the middle--

do you feel that from
your husband also?

- So it’s a little tricky
and not as, like,

a black-and-white situation...
- Okay.

- Just because I’ve never
been in a relationship.

So I’m also kind of navigating
this for the first time.

And the first night,

we further discussed that.
- Uh-huh.

- And there’s a lot of
things I’m not aware of.

So he pointed out, like, Emily,
you got champagne for yourself,

like, didn’t pour it for me.
- Ah.

- The littlest of things that
I’m just not used to doing.

And I’m trying to take
some of his feedback...

- Right.
- Weave it in

while also,
like, learning on the fly.

- So, Clint, what is
your impression of Emily?

- As far as
the relationship goes,

you’re very much looking

into, like, how can I improve
this situation?

How can I be accommodating?
- Mm-hmm.

- Like, that shows--
even though you haven’t been

in a serious
relationship, it shows,

like, you understand
how to be in one.

- Yeah.
- So question--

after the whole
shower incident--

because Brennan clearly
didn’t know that

you’d fallen and hurt yourself.

- Which I don’t know how,
because it was, like, boom.

- Really?
- Yeah.

- What did y’all do
the rest of the night?

- We did a lot of hot tubbing.
- Okay.

- Where we, like, created
our tub time

where we just kind of talked
about everything

and, I think,
covered a lot of ground.

- Oh, that’s, like, a thing--
tub time.

- Yeah, it’s a thing
for our little squad.

- Yep. Yep.
- Okay, tell me about tub time.

- Heard all about tub time.

- Tub time is where it was,
like, our safe space

just to, like,
let it all out on the table.

Like, it really allows us
to open up to one another.

- Okay, okay.

So we’ve gotten
all into, you know,

Emily and Brennan’s shower.

So y’all taking
any showers yet?

What y’all doing over there?
What y’all doing in your suite?

[laughter]

- We had so many
tubs and showers.

- We really did.

- We were really
set up for success.

- Yeah. When we got there,
Lauren and I, we actually

split up the floors,
like, you know,

just for bathroom privacy.

And that was just so we
could, like, spread out

all of our stuff
and kind of just--

I don’t know, just get ready
the way we get ready

instead of being in
each other’s way.

I think that was more so
just a convenience thing.

- Okay. Well, I am enjoying
watching the both of you

get to know your spouses.

When you marry a stranger,
it’s never too soon

to talk about family planning.

And, Orion, this was the topic
you and Lauren

didn’t waste any time
on diving into.

Take a look at this clip.

- You know, only one kid.
- One kid.

- One kid.
But open for adoption.

both: Open for adoption.
- Yeah.

- Which I think is,
honestly, really amazing.

Well, you know, I think
you’d make a great mother.

And, honestly, you know, I say
that confidently,

you know, knowing you
for as short as I have.

- I know, right?
- But, no, just--

You’re very warm.
I don’t know.

As a kid, I definitely
needed that growing up.

So, you know, just that
alone, I know that

you’re just
years ahead of anybody else.

[both chuckle]

- That was quite
a sexy location.

- Where was that?
- That was...

It was near the Aqua Bar.

- Y’all’s honeymoon
looks like "Waterworld 2.0."

[laughter]

- And wasn’t it all-inclusive?
- And it was all-inclusive.

- You got all-inclusive...
- It was super nice.

- "All you can drink" tequila.
- Rocking the bracelets.

- Oh, yeah.

- And bracelets that let
you do what you want to do.

- Charge it up.
- Come on, now.

- No, the resort
was super nice.

It was good.
- It was fun.

- So, like, what do you
feel like in this moment?

Is this crazy?

Like, just three days ago,
you didn’t even have a wife.

Now you’re talking
about the kids.

- It was a wild
conversation to have.

And, honestly, it is still
kind of wild to me, you know?

I was married, you know?

I have a wife,
and we’re talking

about kids and the future
and everything else.

But, you know,
it’s exciting.

- The kids conversation
is an important one to have

because you’re aligning

what your big bucket-list
priorities are in your life.

- Oh, yeah.
- Right?

You’re not only learning
about your spouse,

but what is important
to your future.

- Yeah.

- And you’re emotionally
connecting in this moment,

and I think that’s so cool.
- Yeah.

- That was a really
great day for Lauren and I.

That was--

After that was when
we started to get real intimate

and touchy with each other,
you know, just after that.

- So you start talking about
kids, then you started, like,

let’s practice on a kid.
- Yeah.

- Emily, have you and Brennan
talked anything about kids?

Or what are the serious topics

you guys have addressed
at this point?

- We kind of skimmed
the surface, I feel like,

on everything.

I feel like Brennan and I are
very aligned

on big-value things.
- Okay.

- We’re both, like,
politically aligned,

have similar,
like, work ethics.

We’re similar
with our families.

He has one sibling.
I have a sibling.

I think we both identify
as the black sheep.

And so we’re open to creating
our own new traditions

and kind of not following

what has been done
with our family in the past.

- So you and
Brennan tossed back

quite a few shots during
your tequila tasting

on tonight’s episode.

Let’s watch that back.

♪

- Are we supposed to
drink the whole thing?

- Yes.
- Oh. Oh!

[glasses clink]
- Salud.

- Uh-oh.

♪

Mmm.

- Okay, maybe we take
a little break.

- Hey, no, no, no.
No, no, no, no.

You’re gonna do all of these.
- Cheers.

[glasses clink]

♪

Hmm.
Not bad.

I think we balance
each other out.

- Yeah, like, we’re similar,

but we do have our own
personalities.

It works with each other.

Like, I’m really emotional.
- Sometimes I get sappy.

- Oh, you have emotions?
both: Sap.

- Where does sap--
like, down here?

- It’s like,
probably to the left

next to the dessert section...
[laughter]

- If I’m being honest.

♪

- Brennan definitely
was keeping up with you

with those shots of tequila.

He tried.
You had him beat a little bit.

- I do love mezcal.
It’s an acquired taste.

[laughter]

- But I think it
was our first time

to, like, kind of get tipsy
drunk with one another.

- Yeah, and you learn
a lot about a person

when you’ve had, you know,
one too many shots.

- Yeah. It was a good
first date, too,

’cause I think it just
continued to open

the gates of conversation.
- Got it. Got it.

So is this the first time

that you’ve kind of seen
the more fun side of him

versus the serious side?

- This is definitely
the first time,

like, we’re
both letting loose together.

- Okay.
- Like, even at the wedding--

I love wine.

I had wine in my
hand at all times.

He didn’t really
drink that much.

Like, it’s kind of,
like, a control thing.

Like he doesn’t like to be,
like, out of control.

- Oh, he doesn’t like
to feel out of control.

- Yeah, and kind of likes to
have control of the situation.

- So, Clint, what’s
your take on this?

- Emily and Brennan, like,
now you guys are drinking.

You’re having fun.
The inhibitions are down.

The guard is down.

You guys are really learning
about each other.

And I think that’s something
to, like, build upon--

not just the drinking part,

but I feel like just
the communication.

I think you can show them,
like, the lightheartedness...

- Balance.

- Yeah, of the relationship.
- Okay. Okay.

- That’s what I’m feeling.
That’s what I’m feeling.

Okay, Orion, things got a
little heated

between you and Lauren
on tonight’s episode,

and it wasn’t because
of the Jacuzzi.

Take a look at this clip.

♪

- I’ve used terms that--
when I was younger

that I didn’t even know
were derogatory.

- "Redskin"?

- No, I don’t think I’ve ever
used that language, but like...

- Yeah.
- Yeah.

But, no, I’ve actually never--

I don’t even know what
redskin means, honestly.

Oh.
[chuckles] I do.

I just looked at your face.

♪

I didn’t--
- That was a little rough.

- I’m sorry.
That was a little--

I’m sorry.
That was rough?

- A little bit. yeah.
- Yeah?

I’m sorry.
- A little bit.

- I wasn’t making
a joke necessarily,

but I’m sorry
I even, like, fed into...

that hurt for
you and that pain

for you and your community.

- [chuckles] I don’t know.

You know, things like
that, it’s just--

it’s not a joke.

- Okay, we got
to unpack this, Orion.

- Okay.
- We got to unpack this.

Seeing it back tonight,

do you feel any differently

about it than you did
in the moment?

- No.
- Okay.

- No, And the reason I say no
is because hearing

the word "redskin"...

I don’t know. It feels
like the floor falls out.

- All right, let me give
you a different perspective.

- Okay.
- Right before this,

you admitted to having used
the N-word.

- I did.

- And she gave you grace
and understanding.

- Mm-hmm.

- So that’s why I feel
like some grace

was deserved in that situation.

It wasn’t done in
a way of malice.

- I know. I know that as well.
- Okay.

- I was just having
my own internal battle of--

I don’t really know
how to respond to this.

And a lot of it had to do

with the fact that there were
two cameras on us.

- Okay.
- But, you know, our producer--

he was nice enough to kind
of cut, let everybody leave,

and I sat on that balcony
for about two and a half hours.

- Okay.

What were you going through
in that moment?

- [exhales deeply]

♪

Looking to give Lauren grace...

- Mm-hmm.
- In any way that I could.

- Let me interrupt real quick.
Let me just stop.

When it comes to people

who have been
and felt marginalized,

you’re speaking to someone,
out of everyone who’s there,

who very much understands

what you’ve gone through
in your history.

She does empathize

because she’s had
the exact same experience.

- Yeah. And I understand.
- Yeah.

- And, honestly, this is not
something I hold against her.

- I do think you did hold it
against her, though.

You’re saying you didn’t,
but in that clip,

and especially
’cause Lauren’s not here,

I would say that you absolutely
held that against her.

And to her point,
having someone

who can relate with you,

I feel like you showed her
absolutely no empathy

or compassion,
even though she knew,

like, you were offended,
and she was trying

in every way, shape,
or form there

to make you feel heard and seen

and also...

just help put rationale

behind something
she knew upset you.

- Yeah.

You know, it is hard because it
is a sensitive topic.

And because
her and I are strangers,

there was just--there
was more gravity to it

that I wasn’t ready for.

- I feel like you
really shut down.

You were so seated
in your feelings

and how offended you were

that you no longer connected
to her olive branch.

- Yeah. Looking back on it now,
it was really hard

to see the olive branch
being extended

in the way that it was.

And I was very clouded in my
own feelings in that moment.

It was hard just to get myself
through that.

- Well, I’m glad that
we were able to have

this conversation.

Stuff happens.

It’s not the fact
that it happens,

it’s how you move through it.

Clint, anything you’d
like to add to this?

- What I saw,
just as an observer,

is an emotional response.

And I think...

if you set that aside

and be like,
this is an emotional response,

let me try to, like, talk
through this and see what

the true intent
of the conversation is,

I think you could have had
a really nice moment...

- Yeah.
- To see the similarities

between the two cultures...
- Yeah.

- And that you could
bond in that moment.

So I understand--emotions
can do a hell of things

to the human condition--
it’s tough.

- And it’s everybody.
- It’s everyone.

- Like, you’re not alone
in this.

Clare and Cameron’s marriage
is certainly off

to an intriguing twist,

and I’m curious to hear
your thoughts

on this moment
from their honeymoon.

Let’s watch it back.

♪

- Oh, yeah.
- Oh, wow.

- Now, that is a boy
who is ready to paddleboard.

- [chuckles]

I don’t even know what to say.

You look like a...dad.
[laughs]

- I usually make
the first move,

but she keeps making jokes

about my lack
of fashion sense.

And in this moment, my feeling
is that she doesn’t feel

comfortable enough with me yet.

So, I’m waiting.

- What did y’all
think of his getup?

What do y’all think
of his outfit?

- I mean, Brennan and I walked
back from our breakfast,

and I was just
like, oh, my God.

- I thought he worked
at the resort.

[laughter]
- I can see that. Clint.

- He looks like Bill Murray
from "Caddyshack" to me.

- That’s the--
I was trying to place it.

Thank you for placing it.

You know, that’s
our generation.

They are like,
what is "Caddyshack"?

- Yeah, they probably
don’t even know Bill Murray?

- Yeah. Okay, good, you know
the movie,

’cause a lot of times
some of my references

go over y’all’s head...
- The gopher.

- ’Cause--yes, he
is trying to get the--

Listen, it’s all in fun.

My thing is this--

if that is your look,
you have got to own it, Cam.

- And he did.
- He didn’t, like, own it.

It’s okay.

- I also don’t think Clare
was making fun of him.

That was, like, kind
of a projection on his end.

Like, she was laughing,
like, making light of it,

but that was not
making fun of him.

We actually, like--didn’t
we call him our mascot?

Like, we embraced Cam.
- Yeah, we did.

- His SPF 100.
His stupid little carry-on.

Also, like, Clare’s,
like, the most chill--

That would not bother
her whatsoever.

She honestly probably, like,
likes it more than someone

who would dressed nice,
honestly.

- Got it. So, Clint,
I’m gonna come back to you.

I have to say, when I was
watching this episode,

I couldn’t help but think about
you and Gina’s trajectory...

- Yeah.
- And how it’s kind of parallel

so far with Cameron
and Clare’s.

It’s almost like
it keeps missing.

Like, does that make sense?
- Yeah.

- Like, both of them are kind
of trying in their own way,

and then it just kind of falls
short a little bit.

- Yeah. Yeah, I mean--
yeah, I understand

falling short, for sure.
- Yeah.

- I think when you
look at things on paper

with Gina and I--
- Uh-huh.

- And probably it’s the same
in their scenario--

there’s a lot of things
that make a lot of sense.

But until you actually
put those pieces together

and see how they interact,
you don’t know.

- Right. Absolutely.

So, Clint, ’cause you also
married a stranger...

- Yep, I did.
- What is your biggest piece

of advice
for these new spouses?

- God, just lead
with curiosity,

because you don’t really know
your spouse at this point.

And it’s all just trying
to learn

and understand who they are

and how you guys
can find that common language,

because everybody’s speaking
a different language

at this point, right?
both: Yeah.

- So it’s just so much
understanding at this point

and not trying to prejudge,
’cause there’s a lot to digest.

- Absolutely.
- Yeah, yeah.

- Well, take those
words of wisdom

from a vet who has been
through this process.

Clint, thank you so much.
- [chuckles]

All right, well, that covers
tonight’s episode,

but the honeymoons
continue next week

on a brand-new episode
of "Married at First Sight."

Here’s a sneak peek.

♪

- Next time...

the honeymoon
continues to heat up.

♪

- Atta girl!
Good job!

- If we continue
to let that happen,

it would be
a very disastrous situation.

- Yeah.

- Trust, for me, is one of
the biggest things I look for,

and I feel like you’re really
starting to earn my trust.

- So I’m not in the circle yet?

- How do you feel
that I had sex two months ago?

- Being honest, uh...

it kind of took sex
off the table for me.

♪

- Okay.

Listen, you all
don’t waste any time

digging into the deep stuff.

Emily, Orion, Clint, thank you
guys so much for joining me

at the "Afterparty."

I hope to see you
all again very soon.

I’m Keshia Knight Pulliam.

And to everyone at home,
this has been

the "Married at First Sight
Afterparty."

We’ll see you next time.

- ♪ Come on, come on,
come on, come on ♪

♪ ’Cause life should be
a party ♪