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[cheers and applause]
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- Four newlywed couples
took a daring leap of faith
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to find love.
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They married
complete strangers.
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[cheers and applause]
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[upbeat music]
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Last time,
the honeymoon had concluded,
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and the couples settled into
married life back in Denver.
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♪
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Becca and Austin.
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Can you see love in the future?
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- I already have told him that,
like, I love him as a person.
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- Yeah.
No, I feel the same way.
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- I think you guys
have planted the seeds,
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and you're already
growing in love.
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- Sure.
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♪
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- Clare and Cameron.
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- I feel that religion does not
prepare my children adequately
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for the world
that they're facing.
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- Don't agree,
but I do respect it.
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- We're still finding out
that there's a lot
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we don't know about each other.
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- But I think you guys
have come a long way.
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You know?
- I think so, too.
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♪
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- Emily and Brennan.
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- I just need you to tell me
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if you're physically attracted
to me or not.
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- I just can't.
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- So you just answered
that question
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by, like, not answering
the question.
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[voice breaking] I know, like,
this isn't a reflection on me,
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but it still, like, just
sucks to, like, deal with.
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- I'm still willing to try.
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- Lauren and Orion.
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- I want to follow through
with wanting a divorce.
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♪
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- Lauren, do you want
a divorce?
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- It doesn't matter
what I want.
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[dramatic music]
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♪
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- ♪ You wanted the one
you wanna say... ♪
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- And tonight...
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our couples will get to see
their friends and family
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for the first time
since the wedding.
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- [surfer voice] Oh, dude!
This is totally rad.
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[chuckles]
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- She's hands down
the smartest girl
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I've ever been lucky enough
to be in a relationship with.
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- I'm a bit, like,
worried and upset.
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♪
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- Do whatever it
is that you need.
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- I don't need anything.
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♪
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- I'm, like, ready to,
like, bend on that,
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and I think that he--
I don't know if he is yet.
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♪
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- Don't sit here and
act like you understand.
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- I do [bleep] understand.
- I'm not making excuses.
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Okay, so you're just coming
at me out of woodwork--
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- I haven't said anything.
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I've been asking you
questions, right?
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- Uh-huh.
- Who are you?
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Why are you here?
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- I'm, like--I don't know--
lost, actually.
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♪
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[upbeat music]
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- ♪ It's all or nothing
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- This is
"Married at First Sight."
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- ♪ There's no other way
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♪
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♪ It's all or nothing
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♪
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- ♪ It's what it feels like
when you're sitting ♪
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♪ On top of the world
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♪
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- Happy birthday.
You hungry?
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- Yeah.
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- You still feeling
like lying in bed?
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- Yeah.
- Nice. Do you have a book?
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- Yeah.
- All right.
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What if I made you
breakfast in bed?
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- Yeah.
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- All right.
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Let's do this.
- No, you do this.
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Now, look.
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♪
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You go, honey.
- [chuckles]
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Okay.
- I pay you in kisses?
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♪
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- Boop.
Make it quick.
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Boop. Okay.
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♪
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- After our conversation
with Pastor Cal, you know,
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he urged us not to
wait and to go in
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as soon as possible,
so I decided to move in
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with Emily tomorrow.
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- TGIF--so happy
today is Friday.
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Ready for the weekend.
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Ready to move in tomorrow.
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I have so much to do,
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I feel like,
in order to do that.
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But I'm really excited.
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- And then we have
our housewarming party, so...
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It's gonna be
with all of our friends.
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So we're very excited about
that and excited to show them
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the apartment, so it
should be a good time.
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♪
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- You need to get
in here, Cameron.
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- No.
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- You know, Cameron and I--
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it's very easy and very natural
living with one another.
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Are you sure you don't need,
like, to brush your teeth
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or wash your face
or any of that?
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- I do very little
in the morning,
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to be honest with you.
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- Yeah, I've noticed
you're a night shower.
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I'm a night--or I'm
a morning shower kind of gal.
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- Yep.
- Which works out for us.
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I think the more time
we spend together,
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the more comfortable
we'll feel with one another.
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And so, for me,
that's, like, a foundation
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for attraction to grow.
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- You want some coffee?
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- Okay, that'd be nice.
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♪
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- Hello.
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- Hey.
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- Ah, I'm so happy
we're doing this.
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- It's been a while.
- I know.
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This place is cute.
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So how are you?
- I'm good.
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Yeah, I haven't seen you
in a while.
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I need all the catch-up.
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- The wedding was amazing.
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It was pretty clear
from the beginning
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that, like, we just
have a lot in common.
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And, like, I really
believe it's there.
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Like, we have
everything going for us,
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like, the most important stuff,
like, the values.
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Like, we're just,
like, crazy aligned.
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- That's awesome.
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- And, like, he definitely
was, like, very into me,
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like, the first night
and, like, told me he felt it.
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But then, like,
I was kind of feeling
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towards the end
of the honeymoon,
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things kind of took a turn,
where, like, I was starting
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to like him more.
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- And he wasn't,
like, reciprocating?
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♪
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- It seemed like communication
was a big issue for him.
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He has trouble
opening up in general.
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It kept feeling like...
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I was, like,
carrying the conversation.
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- Yeah.
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- He just doesn't really
open up a lot on camera.
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I know he hates it, but I'm,
like, to some extent, like--
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- You signed up for this and...
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- Yeah, and, like, just got to,
like, just work on opening up.
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♪
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- And you think he does care.
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It's just more, like, being--
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kind of hashing out all these
personal details
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and your guys'
relationship on camera.
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- Yeah, I'm kind of like,
you signed up for this,
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but I was giving him
the benefit of the doubt.
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But I was starting
to get upset--
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like, you should be
doing a little bit better
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on behalf of, like, me
and us, you know?
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- Yeah.
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I think, too,
you and I are similar
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with, like, wanting answers
and reasonings immediately.
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And I think just being patient
with giving him a space
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to communicate
in whatever capacity
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and really, like, think
through feelings and...
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- Yeah.
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So I think moving in,
in general, is going to help.
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- Yeah.
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- I do really think
something's there,
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but I just need to see,
like, some effort.
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- I think just--
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- Relationships are hard.
- Relationships are so hard.
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Yeah.
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- I learned that
through you, too.
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Because, like, I waited
this long for a relationship.
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Like, I really want to give him
the benefit of the doubt,
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and, like, this is
the benefit of the doubt.
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- Yeah.
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- I'm just hoping next week is
little bit lighter emotionally.
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- ♪ Oh, oh, yeah,
hustle for this ♪
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♪
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- ♪ Forever and ever
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♪ Forever
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♪
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- Okay, so I'm about to go
visit Cameron at work.
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I'm going to bring him
a little surprise food,
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hopefully brighten his day,
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bring a little sunshine
to his workday.
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I know nothing about bikes,
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so I think this will be a lot
of learning for me.
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And I know he's very--
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probably very
willing to give me
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a little lesson
on all of the things
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that go on in his shop.
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- ♪ Yeah
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- ♪ I got everything
that I could want ♪
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♪ I'm blessed
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- Hello.
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I brought you a little sammy.
- Thank you.
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- I know you said
you're not that hungry,
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but I ate the other
half, and it's bomb.
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- It's probably fair.
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- Look at you
in your lab jacket.
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- Yes.
- He's doing the--
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Wow, that's, like, official.
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- Yeah, the resin kind
of drips everywhere.
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- I love this.
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This is where you chill?
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- Well, this is where some of
the work is done,
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but the real work is done
in the back.
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- Okay.
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♪
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- So all the bikes you
see need to be fixed,
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except for the ones that
are ready for pickup,
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which are out front.
- Right.
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- Does that make sense?
- I see. I see.
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So you do this all day?
Do you ever get bored?
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- I mean, the nice thing
about repairs
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is every repair is different.
- Right.
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- But it's like
being a surgeon
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and saying, like,
well, you know,
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is every surgery the same?
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Both of my degrees
specialize in carbon fiber.
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I'm now probably one of maybe
five experts
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in the country...
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- Which is--that's rare.
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That's wild.
- Of carbon fiber in bicycles
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and particularly
failures in bicycles.
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- Mm-hmm.
So you're good at it,
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but are you passionate
about it?
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- I am absolutely
passionate about it.
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- mm-hmm.
- And I'm good at it.
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Absolutely.
- Wow.
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- Like, like this--
I mean, this is what
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I very much enjoy.
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- Well, I think this is amazing
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that you're able to run
a business.
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I think that takes a lot.
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And so the fact that you're
able to do it is amazing.
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- Yeah. I have
a little project for us.
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Well...
- Oh, no.
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- It's actually
a big project because--
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- Oh, do you trust me?
- Well, we'll do it together.
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- Oh, Lord.
- Okay.
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Here's some safety glasses.
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- I don't know if you trust me
with these tools.
258
00:09:12,708 --> 00:09:14,000
- Maybe you want to put
your bag down.
259
00:09:14,083 --> 00:09:15,500
- All right, what
are we doing exactly?
260
00:09:15,583 --> 00:09:17,167
- We're gonna
work on this bike.
261
00:09:17,250 --> 00:09:20,000
- [laughs] No.
Okay.
262
00:09:20,083 --> 00:09:25,167
♪
263
00:09:25,250 --> 00:09:26,542
Oh, interesting.
Okay.
264
00:09:26,625 --> 00:09:28,208
- Here's two pairs of gloves.
- Thank you.
265
00:09:28,375 --> 00:09:30,083
♪
266
00:09:30,208 --> 00:09:33,458
How do we look?
- You look very official.
267
00:09:33,542 --> 00:09:35,167
- Thanks.
Let's do it.
268
00:09:35,250 --> 00:09:36,208
- Okay.
- Okay.
269
00:09:36,292 --> 00:09:38,000
- You're gonna undo this.
270
00:09:38,083 --> 00:09:39,042
- This?
- Yeah.
271
00:09:39,125 --> 00:09:41,083
Yep, so you can just pull
from there.
272
00:09:41,167 --> 00:09:43,792
- Jeez. Boom.
- Yeah.
273
00:09:43,875 --> 00:09:45,917
Perfect. Put these to the side.
- All right.
274
00:09:46,000 --> 00:09:48,167
That was cool.
- I will need your help.
275
00:09:48,292 --> 00:09:49,417
You're gonna pull up.
- Yeah.
276
00:09:49,542 --> 00:09:51,125
- Okay. There we go.
Stop, stop, stop.
277
00:09:51,208 --> 00:09:52,708
- [grunts]
Push?
278
00:09:52,792 --> 00:09:54,833
- Okay, we got it.
- Boom.
279
00:09:54,875 --> 00:09:57,000
Nice.
[object clatters]
280
00:09:57,042 --> 00:09:58,833
I'm seeing him
on a whole new level.
281
00:09:58,875 --> 00:10:00,500
It's an attractive trait
282
00:10:00,625 --> 00:10:02,167
to be seeing someone
do something that they love.
283
00:10:02,292 --> 00:10:05,167
And so I really am
hopeful that the more time
284
00:10:05,208 --> 00:10:08,292
we spend together, the more it
could increase the attraction.
285
00:10:08,375 --> 00:10:11,000
- Hold this right here.
- Yep, yep, I can do that.
286
00:10:11,083 --> 00:10:12,500
Sure thing, boss.
287
00:10:12,542 --> 00:10:13,750
♪
288
00:10:13,833 --> 00:10:16,375
- All right,
you're fixing for a raise.
289
00:10:16,458 --> 00:10:18,542
- [laughs]
290
00:10:18,667 --> 00:10:20,417
This is very cool.
291
00:10:20,542 --> 00:10:22,375
♪
292
00:10:22,500 --> 00:10:26,500
- ♪ More than
a thousand times ♪
293
00:10:26,500 --> 00:10:28,375
♪ I've dreamed
about this day ♪
294
00:10:28,375 --> 00:10:31,208
♪ Lord knows I pay my dues
295
00:10:31,292 --> 00:10:33,250
- We have a lot of
surprises in store,
296
00:10:33,375 --> 00:10:35,875
maybe, I don't know
if that's true or not.
297
00:10:35,958 --> 00:10:38,042
But... [laughs]
- [laughing] Just tell me.
298
00:10:38,125 --> 00:10:39,375
- Hi, guys.
299
00:10:39,458 --> 00:10:42,542
all: Hi.
300
00:10:42,625 --> 00:10:45,458
- It is my birthday.
301
00:10:45,542 --> 00:10:47,667
- Hi.
Congratulations.
302
00:10:47,708 --> 00:10:49,417
- I can't believe
that I'm 32 and married,
303
00:10:49,500 --> 00:10:52,000
because 31 was spent single.
304
00:10:52,083 --> 00:10:53,667
[chuckles]
305
00:10:53,750 --> 00:10:55,667
- How is living together?
306
00:10:55,792 --> 00:10:57,375
- I feel like living
together is great.
307
00:10:57,458 --> 00:10:58,708
I like it.
308
00:10:58,792 --> 00:11:00,417
- Like, how is
the communication?
309
00:11:00,542 --> 00:11:01,583
Because I know
when I moved in with my--
310
00:11:01,708 --> 00:11:04,500
there was a disconnect there.
[laughter]
311
00:11:04,583 --> 00:11:06,417
- He's very good
at communicating.
312
00:11:06,500 --> 00:11:07,792
- Really?
313
00:11:07,875 --> 00:11:09,375
- I mean, the bar
is low for men.
314
00:11:09,458 --> 00:11:11,042
No offense to all men.
315
00:11:11,125 --> 00:11:12,667
- Are you having, like,
deep conversations.
316
00:11:12,792 --> 00:11:13,917
Are you talking about kids?
317
00:11:14,042 --> 00:11:15,375
Are you talking
about things like that?
318
00:11:15,500 --> 00:11:16,417
both: Yeah.
- Okay.
319
00:11:16,542 --> 00:11:17,583
- All of it.
- Done.
320
00:11:17,708 --> 00:11:18,875
- Same page?
- Yeah.
321
00:11:18,958 --> 00:11:20,667
- For the most part, yeah.
- Good.
322
00:11:20,792 --> 00:11:22,625
- We differ on religion...
- Okay.
323
00:11:22,708 --> 00:11:25,292
- But, like, it isn't, like,
a glaring negative.
324
00:11:25,375 --> 00:11:27,833
It's just, like, an obstacle
that neither of us--
325
00:11:27,958 --> 00:11:31,167
- Anticipated.
- Yeah, yeah. Yeah.
326
00:11:31,250 --> 00:11:33,917
- But, like, we're
working through that.
327
00:11:34,000 --> 00:11:35,333
- Working on it.
Both: Yeah.
328
00:11:35,458 --> 00:11:36,708
- Sweet.
329
00:11:36,792 --> 00:11:38,333
- I've got
the yellow fin tuna tonight.
330
00:11:38,417 --> 00:11:39,708
- Thank you.
- Thank you.
331
00:11:39,708 --> 00:11:41,667
- So, like, the whole thing
about religion--
332
00:11:41,708 --> 00:11:43,833
Pastor Cal came
over to our place,
333
00:11:43,917 --> 00:11:45,833
and, kind of, like,
opened our eyes
334
00:11:45,958 --> 00:11:47,542
to, like, new ways.
335
00:11:47,542 --> 00:11:49,083
Probably opened
my eyes more than her.
336
00:11:49,167 --> 00:11:51,333
Her eyes are already
just big and open anyway.
337
00:11:51,417 --> 00:11:52,667
[laughter]
So...
338
00:11:52,750 --> 00:11:54,167
- Big open eyes.
339
00:11:54,250 --> 00:11:56,333
- But, like, everything
else lines up.
340
00:11:56,417 --> 00:11:59,917
So it's like, okay,
if this is, like, the one thing
341
00:12:00,000 --> 00:12:01,500
that, like, we
have to navigate through,
342
00:12:01,583 --> 00:12:03,917
then, like, I feel lucky.
- Yeah.
343
00:12:04,000 --> 00:12:05,125
- Yeah.
- That's amazing.
344
00:12:05,208 --> 00:12:06,958
- Yeah.
345
00:12:07,042 --> 00:12:08,333
- All right, you guys, well,
I'm gonna ask the question...
346
00:12:08,458 --> 00:12:10,125
- Oh, no.
347
00:12:10,208 --> 00:12:12,750
- That we're all just begging
to know--how's the sex life?
348
00:12:12,833 --> 00:12:14,500
You guys getting it in
on the reg here?
349
00:12:14,542 --> 00:12:15,667
- No.
- No?
350
00:12:15,792 --> 00:12:18,375
Sorry. Had to ask.
351
00:12:18,458 --> 00:12:20,792
Not very politically correct.
352
00:12:20,875 --> 00:12:22,458
- I'm the slow one.
- You are?
353
00:12:22,542 --> 00:12:23,750
- I am the slow one.
- Oh, good.
354
00:12:23,875 --> 00:12:25,292
- This is very unlike me,
355
00:12:25,375 --> 00:12:27,708
but I've been, like, taking
his lead on things.
356
00:12:27,792 --> 00:12:29,833
But, yeah, I'm
totally fine with it.
357
00:12:29,958 --> 00:12:31,417
- Sorry, I need another drink.
358
00:12:31,500 --> 00:12:34,167
So is there anything I can get
for everyone while I'm up?
359
00:12:34,208 --> 00:12:35,542
- I'm good.
Thank you for asking.
360
00:12:35,625 --> 00:12:36,625
- All set, Austin. Thank you.
361
00:12:36,708 --> 00:12:38,167
Right as his food comes.
362
00:12:38,208 --> 00:12:40,542
- Well, you'll love this.
- Thank you.
363
00:12:40,708 --> 00:12:41,917
- Um...
364
00:12:42,000 --> 00:12:43,708
I [bleep] love him.
365
00:12:43,792 --> 00:12:45,958
- Aw.
- He's fantastic.
366
00:12:46,042 --> 00:12:48,833
Oh, my God, he's talkative.
He's inquisitive. He's smart.
367
00:12:48,958 --> 00:12:51,042
I think we can let the whole
Jesus thing, you know--
368
00:12:51,125 --> 00:12:52,500
I think we can deal
with it, right?
369
00:12:52,583 --> 00:12:54,292
[laughter]
- We are...
370
00:12:54,375 --> 00:12:55,667
Yeah, it's definitely--
371
00:12:55,750 --> 00:12:56,875
- And it seems to be working.
- Yeah.
372
00:12:57,000 --> 00:12:58,500
- Like, I think
it's opening you up,
373
00:12:58,542 --> 00:12:59,750
and it's opening him a lot.
374
00:12:59,833 --> 00:13:01,375
I mean, and that's,
like, all you--
375
00:13:01,500 --> 00:13:02,917
In any relationship,
I think that's all you want,
376
00:13:03,000 --> 00:13:04,625
is, like, more openness.
377
00:13:04,625 --> 00:13:05,833
More acceptance of the fact
378
00:13:05,917 --> 00:13:08,125
that you're, like,
getting that is huge.
379
00:13:08,208 --> 00:13:09,167
- Yeah.
380
00:13:09,292 --> 00:13:10,958
- Is it feeling,
like, really romantic?
381
00:13:11,042 --> 00:13:13,042
Like, are you falling in love?
382
00:13:13,125 --> 00:13:16,208
- I wouldn't say we're falling
in love yet.
383
00:13:16,333 --> 00:13:18,167
- Okay.
- But...
384
00:13:18,208 --> 00:13:20,500
- Do you say "I love you"?
- No.
385
00:13:20,583 --> 00:13:21,708
♪
386
00:13:21,792 --> 00:13:24,167
- Before he comes back,
387
00:13:24,167 --> 00:13:26,417
how do you really feel
about not having sex with him?
388
00:13:26,542 --> 00:13:28,708
- [chuckles]
389
00:13:28,833 --> 00:13:30,417
He's the first guy that
I've been with, like,
390
00:13:30,500 --> 00:13:33,167
as an adult that, like,
doesn't just want to jump
391
00:13:33,292 --> 00:13:34,875
to that right away.
392
00:13:34,958 --> 00:13:37,042
First, I was like, oh, my God,
he's not attracted to me.
393
00:13:37,125 --> 00:13:38,500
Or, like, there's
something wrong.
394
00:13:38,583 --> 00:13:40,167
- Yeah.
395
00:13:40,208 --> 00:13:43,042
- But, like, I think he
needs time, but I'm ready.
396
00:13:43,167 --> 00:13:45,458
Like, I think it's
just up to him.
397
00:13:45,542 --> 00:13:47,542
- ♪ Yeah, it's been too long
398
00:13:52,250 --> 00:13:55,333
- ♪ I just wanna do something
that I ain't never did ♪
399
00:13:55,375 --> 00:13:57,125
♪ I just might
400
00:13:57,208 --> 00:13:59,375
- This is the last
day I'm moving stuff
401
00:13:59,458 --> 00:14:01,125
for a really long time.
402
00:14:01,208 --> 00:14:04,042
♪
403
00:14:04,125 --> 00:14:06,458
- It's great.
- Yeah, I love it.
404
00:14:06,542 --> 00:14:10,000
After the events
of this week,
405
00:14:10,042 --> 00:14:12,083
I think it's just really
important for us both
406
00:14:12,167 --> 00:14:14,292
to, like, be able to,
like, move on,
407
00:14:14,375 --> 00:14:16,542
and, like, set this best up
for success.
408
00:14:16,625 --> 00:14:18,958
♪
409
00:14:19,042 --> 00:14:21,417
Oh, my God, all my folding.
- Sorry.
410
00:14:21,500 --> 00:14:25,000
And this is all kitchen stuff?
- Yeah.
411
00:14:25,042 --> 00:14:27,375
I felt like this
was, like, moderate.
412
00:14:27,458 --> 00:14:29,250
Like, I've done worse.
413
00:14:29,333 --> 00:14:31,417
- [chuckles]
414
00:14:31,542 --> 00:14:32,500
♪
415
00:14:32,542 --> 00:14:34,333
[sighs]
416
00:14:34,375 --> 00:14:37,625
♪
417
00:14:37,708 --> 00:14:39,333
- Okay.
418
00:14:39,375 --> 00:14:41,500
♪
419
00:14:41,583 --> 00:14:44,917
- And there's more.
Wow.
420
00:14:45,000 --> 00:14:47,167
- I told you I had, like,
seven of everything.
421
00:14:47,250 --> 00:14:48,458
♪
422
00:14:48,542 --> 00:14:50,292
- Holy [bleep].
423
00:14:50,375 --> 00:14:54,458
- I just think that I just have
way more stuff than he does.
424
00:14:54,542 --> 00:14:56,958
- Holy [bleep].
425
00:14:57,042 --> 00:14:59,083
Now I think I understand
where all your money goes.
426
00:14:59,167 --> 00:15:01,417
Nope.
Not doing it. Nope.
427
00:15:01,500 --> 00:15:03,167
Nope, nope, nope.
428
00:15:03,250 --> 00:15:05,333
- [whispering] Definitely
stressing him out a little bit.
429
00:15:05,417 --> 00:15:06,333
♪
430
00:15:06,375 --> 00:15:08,042
- All right.
431
00:15:08,125 --> 00:15:10,500
She brought about 18 things
of stuff, and I had about 2.
432
00:15:10,542 --> 00:15:12,292
♪
433
00:15:12,375 --> 00:15:14,833
And it's just really
overwhelming
434
00:15:14,875 --> 00:15:16,625
because I've been
on a slower pace.
435
00:15:16,708 --> 00:15:19,500
Can I have this little section?
- Yeah, that's all you.
436
00:15:19,542 --> 00:15:21,833
- But I'm really
hopeful that, you know,
437
00:15:21,917 --> 00:15:24,250
living together now
helps us get closer.
438
00:15:24,333 --> 00:15:26,667
You know, I set
a goal for myself
439
00:15:26,708 --> 00:15:28,750
that I would never
be divorced,
440
00:15:28,875 --> 00:15:30,750
and I don't really know
what else to do.
441
00:15:30,833 --> 00:15:34,125
So this is, you know,
a big step for us.
442
00:15:34,208 --> 00:15:35,458
♪
443
00:15:35,542 --> 00:15:38,167
We got to figure out
our new morning routine.
444
00:15:38,250 --> 00:15:40,250
- You shower at 7:15.
That's all you.
445
00:15:40,333 --> 00:15:41,958
- And it's usually
a pretty quick shower
446
00:15:42,042 --> 00:15:43,708
unless I have some processing
to do, then it's...
447
00:15:43,833 --> 00:15:45,083
- You take long
showers, actually, but--
448
00:15:45,167 --> 00:15:47,833
- It can go pretty long.
- I love that for you.
449
00:15:47,875 --> 00:15:50,208
Yeah. Yeah.
450
00:15:50,292 --> 00:15:52,375
I never put together
in Mexico,
451
00:15:52,500 --> 00:15:54,625
like, he was doing
a lot of processing.
452
00:15:54,708 --> 00:15:57,000
I just was like, wow, this guy
takes extremely long showers.
453
00:15:57,042 --> 00:15:59,833
But I'm like, ooh,
should I be concerned
454
00:15:59,875 --> 00:16:01,250
when you're taking
longer showers?
455
00:16:01,333 --> 00:16:03,167
I'm happy you decided
to move in today.
456
00:16:03,250 --> 00:16:04,667
- How do you think
it's gonna be?
457
00:16:04,708 --> 00:16:07,000
I mean, we've never, like,
lived with someone before.
458
00:16:07,083 --> 00:16:09,250
- I think it'll be fine.
- Yeah.
459
00:16:09,250 --> 00:16:11,750
- But if you get annoyed, want
to give me, like, a warning?
460
00:16:11,833 --> 00:16:14,708
Like, when you're taking longer
showers versus shorter ones?
461
00:16:14,792 --> 00:16:17,042
[laughter]
462
00:16:17,167 --> 00:16:19,250
- ♪ Just going
through the motions ♪
463
00:16:19,333 --> 00:16:21,917
♪ Pretending
it was all golden ♪
464
00:16:22,000 --> 00:16:25,000
♪ We both know it was broken
465
00:16:25,083 --> 00:16:27,625
♪ No repair, no repair
466
00:16:27,708 --> 00:16:29,333
- Hey, hey, what's up, man?
- How's it going?
467
00:16:29,458 --> 00:16:30,917
♪
468
00:16:31,000 --> 00:16:32,917
- [muffled speech]
- How you been?
469
00:16:33,000 --> 00:16:35,167
- Hey, guys.
- Hey, girl, hey.
470
00:16:35,250 --> 00:16:36,042
♪
471
00:16:36,125 --> 00:16:39,083
So how you doing?
472
00:16:39,167 --> 00:16:40,792
- Can I sip my water first?
473
00:16:40,875 --> 00:16:43,167
- That's cool.
- Sure. Let's do it.
474
00:16:43,292 --> 00:16:45,125
I wish it was whiskey
or something, but...
475
00:16:45,208 --> 00:16:48,833
[giggles]
Too early for whiskey.
476
00:16:48,958 --> 00:16:50,375
- You know, I've been better.
477
00:16:50,458 --> 00:16:52,708
- Oh, man.
478
00:16:52,792 --> 00:16:54,208
Well...
479
00:16:54,292 --> 00:16:56,083
- How's everything
kind of been going?
480
00:16:56,167 --> 00:16:57,583
I know it's kind of been rough.
481
00:16:57,667 --> 00:17:00,000
- Yeah, I mean,
because now I'm divorced.
482
00:17:00,083 --> 00:17:02,250
- Yeah.
- [chuckles]
483
00:17:02,333 --> 00:17:05,250
Yeah, it feels strange.
484
00:17:05,333 --> 00:17:08,500
But, you know, I told her,
and, you know,
485
00:17:08,583 --> 00:17:10,500
kind of what I have been
saying is, you know,
486
00:17:10,583 --> 00:17:12,625
losing the romantic
interest, you know,
487
00:17:12,708 --> 00:17:15,458
I feel like it would be really
unfair to continue on
488
00:17:15,542 --> 00:17:17,167
being one foot in,
one foot out.
489
00:17:17,292 --> 00:17:18,208
♪
490
00:17:18,292 --> 00:17:20,500
- How's the family doing?
491
00:17:20,500 --> 00:17:23,292
Like, what are they
thinking about it?
492
00:17:23,375 --> 00:17:27,000
- So, you know, I told my mom,
my sister, about, you know,
493
00:17:27,042 --> 00:17:29,000
the kind of things
that have transpired.
494
00:17:29,083 --> 00:17:32,375
And, I mean,
honestly, they were just
495
00:17:32,500 --> 00:17:35,875
more disappointed in the fact
that I didn't get
496
00:17:35,958 --> 00:17:38,333
what I wanted
out of this process.
497
00:17:38,417 --> 00:17:40,875
- Right, a wife.
- A wife, yeah.
498
00:17:40,958 --> 00:17:43,667
- Getting a divorce
wasn't really my choice,
499
00:17:43,750 --> 00:17:47,833
but I definitely support
him in his decision.
500
00:17:47,875 --> 00:17:52,542
- How do you feel about, you
know, where you are right now?
501
00:17:52,667 --> 00:17:54,167
- I feel like I've been
through, like, all
502
00:17:54,250 --> 00:17:56,042
the emotions at this point.
503
00:17:56,125 --> 00:17:59,042
You know, my favorite
form of defense is humor.
504
00:17:59,125 --> 00:18:00,875
So I feel like
I definitely attacked it
505
00:18:00,958 --> 00:18:02,875
with a lot of humor.
506
00:18:02,958 --> 00:18:06,000
Then I was angry.
Then I was sad.
507
00:18:06,042 --> 00:18:08,167
Then I was mad again.
508
00:18:08,250 --> 00:18:12,292
And then I was like, okay,
let me sit in these emotions,
509
00:18:12,292 --> 00:18:14,625
because one thing
I know is that anger
510
00:18:14,708 --> 00:18:16,167
is very surface level.
511
00:18:16,250 --> 00:18:19,042
So I wanted to just
feel all the feelings,
512
00:18:19,167 --> 00:18:20,958
and it was very uncomfortable.
513
00:18:21,042 --> 00:18:24,500
And I think what I feel
the most is just...
514
00:18:24,583 --> 00:18:27,833
a lot of pain
and a lot of resentment.
515
00:18:27,875 --> 00:18:30,833
- So do you see yourself...
516
00:18:30,917 --> 00:18:33,458
like, even being on the lookout
517
00:18:33,542 --> 00:18:37,208
or being open
to meeting somebody else?
518
00:18:37,292 --> 00:18:39,833
- Honestly, not right now.
- Yeah.
519
00:18:39,917 --> 00:18:42,000
- Not right now.
You know, because--
520
00:18:42,125 --> 00:18:44,375
- It's kind of killed
it for you, huh?
521
00:18:44,458 --> 00:18:46,375
- I wouldn't say
it killed it for me.
522
00:18:46,458 --> 00:18:50,375
There was just a lot of genuine
feelings for Lauren, you know.
523
00:18:50,375 --> 00:18:52,167
Like, at the start...
- Oh, I see.
524
00:18:52,250 --> 00:18:54,625
- You know, kind of taking
off with everything.
525
00:18:54,708 --> 00:18:58,500
So, no, I can't really see
myself jumping into anything
526
00:18:58,542 --> 00:19:00,833
super fast or right away...
527
00:19:00,917 --> 00:19:02,292
♪
528
00:19:02,375 --> 00:19:04,125
Just because--
I don't know, man.
529
00:19:04,125 --> 00:19:06,333
This is--this hurts, so...
- yeah.
530
00:19:06,458 --> 00:19:08,875
- So I'm trying to, like,
take the lessons from this,
531
00:19:08,958 --> 00:19:10,708
I guess.
532
00:19:10,792 --> 00:19:13,958
I understand why it didn't
work out, but you know me--
533
00:19:13,958 --> 00:19:15,833
I'm always like,
it can work out, though.
534
00:19:15,875 --> 00:19:17,542
Like, it can work out.
535
00:19:17,625 --> 00:19:19,875
And it just sucks to know
that I didn't have a partner
536
00:19:19,958 --> 00:19:21,875
who was like, it can work out.
537
00:19:21,958 --> 00:19:23,250
He was, like, more so caught up
538
00:19:23,333 --> 00:19:25,333
on the ways
it wasn't working out,
539
00:19:25,458 --> 00:19:28,125
instead of, like, trying
to come back to this
540
00:19:28,208 --> 00:19:29,417
in a way that it could.
541
00:19:29,542 --> 00:19:31,042
- Look, effort is
a two-way street.
542
00:19:31,125 --> 00:19:32,542
- Mm-hmm.
543
00:19:32,625 --> 00:19:36,292
- If one person is
doing all the work,
544
00:19:36,375 --> 00:19:38,333
then nothing's really
gonna get done.
545
00:19:38,375 --> 00:19:41,292
- You can't control how
other people receive you.
546
00:19:41,375 --> 00:19:44,708
You can just offer
them the opportunity
547
00:19:44,833 --> 00:19:47,583
to love you and care for you.
548
00:19:47,667 --> 00:19:50,875
But you can't, you know,
control how they do that.
549
00:19:50,958 --> 00:19:55,042
If there's not forgiveness
and willingness in a marriage,
550
00:19:55,125 --> 00:19:56,500
then that [bleep]'s
not gonna work.
551
00:19:56,583 --> 00:19:58,000
♪
552
00:19:58,083 --> 00:20:01,833
- Them affirming me that
I didn't fail in this marriage,
553
00:20:01,917 --> 00:20:04,333
for me, it helps me not take
all of this so personal.
554
00:20:04,375 --> 00:20:06,750
It helps me be able
to move on from this.
555
00:20:06,833 --> 00:20:09,375
- At the end of the day,
you still a bad bitch.
556
00:20:09,458 --> 00:20:11,750
You still have got money.
557
00:20:11,833 --> 00:20:13,542
You still going to be fly,
go on trips,
558
00:20:13,625 --> 00:20:15,333
and do everything
that Lauren does.
559
00:20:15,417 --> 00:20:18,000
It doesn't even matter
what he's going to say.
560
00:20:18,083 --> 00:20:20,167
It's not you.
It's for sure him.
561
00:20:20,292 --> 00:20:22,125
And let him know that it's him.
562
00:20:22,208 --> 00:20:23,417
And hopefully
it's the last time
563
00:20:23,500 --> 00:20:25,375
you see
his mother[bleep] ass.
564
00:20:25,458 --> 00:20:26,292
♪
565
00:20:30,167 --> 00:20:31,208
- ♪ What we gonna buy today?
566
00:20:31,208 --> 00:20:32,333
♪ What we gonna buy today?
567
00:20:32,458 --> 00:20:34,292
♪ I'm trying to ball,
let's hit the mall ♪
568
00:20:34,375 --> 00:20:35,792
♪ Maybe I'll buy the place
569
00:20:35,875 --> 00:20:37,458
- Wow, this store
is, like, so fun,
570
00:20:37,542 --> 00:20:39,667
I could just have
myself a time here.
571
00:20:39,750 --> 00:20:41,417
- Wow.
572
00:20:41,500 --> 00:20:44,792
- So let's focus and think
about what we want our theme
573
00:20:44,875 --> 00:20:47,542
for our housewarming party
tomorrow to be.
574
00:20:47,625 --> 00:20:50,833
- Okay.
So we could do wigs.
575
00:20:50,917 --> 00:20:53,000
We could do--
- Wigs?
576
00:20:53,042 --> 00:20:54,500
- Yeah.
577
00:20:54,583 --> 00:20:56,042
- Um...
- I like the idea.
578
00:20:56,125 --> 00:20:57,708
- Okay.
I feel like it's different.
579
00:20:57,792 --> 00:20:59,208
- Yeah.
580
00:20:59,292 --> 00:21:00,750
- I feel like I'm gonna
channel my inner Becca
581
00:21:00,875 --> 00:21:01,875
with some pink hair.
582
00:21:02,000 --> 00:21:03,458
- [grunts]
583
00:21:03,542 --> 00:21:04,583
♪
584
00:21:04,667 --> 00:21:05,750
Transformation.
585
00:21:05,833 --> 00:21:08,250
- You look like a Smurf--
a cute Smurf.
586
00:21:08,333 --> 00:21:11,167
Do you feel like that is--
- Probably not, no.
587
00:21:11,208 --> 00:21:14,208
- I look Gothic as [bleep].
This is a huge change for me.
588
00:21:14,292 --> 00:21:16,333
- You always wanted
to be a redhead.
589
00:21:16,417 --> 00:21:19,458
I don't know.
I kind of feel like myself.
590
00:21:19,542 --> 00:21:20,792
No?
591
00:21:20,875 --> 00:21:22,500
- I think this fun party
is exactly what we need
592
00:21:22,583 --> 00:21:24,167
'cause it was a big week.
593
00:21:24,208 --> 00:21:26,500
We moved in, like,
we're moving forward
594
00:21:26,625 --> 00:21:28,792
and, like, on from everything
that happened this week.
595
00:21:28,875 --> 00:21:32,083
And so I'm just, like, very,
like, optimistic and hopeful
596
00:21:32,167 --> 00:21:33,542
about tomorrow.
597
00:21:33,625 --> 00:21:35,625
I feel like you look
good as a blonde.
598
00:21:35,708 --> 00:21:37,625
- [laughs] This is majestic.
[both laughing]
599
00:21:37,708 --> 00:21:39,167
It just feels natural.
I don't know.
600
00:21:39,208 --> 00:21:40,833
- Oh, my God.
601
00:21:40,875 --> 00:21:42,833
The fact he decided to do
something like this
602
00:21:42,917 --> 00:21:46,833
says that he is gonna try
and he cares enough about me
603
00:21:46,875 --> 00:21:48,375
to, like, have some fun,
604
00:21:48,500 --> 00:21:51,958
and, like, I'm so ready to,
like, put this week behind us.
605
00:21:52,042 --> 00:21:53,917
- That's a good one.
I like it.
606
00:21:54,042 --> 00:21:55,667
- It's very red.
Okay.
607
00:21:55,708 --> 00:21:57,625
I feel like we're setting
the tone for our own party.
608
00:21:57,708 --> 00:21:59,292
- I know.
- It's gonna be so funny
609
00:21:59,417 --> 00:22:01,208
having serious conversations
in these.
610
00:22:01,333 --> 00:22:03,250
- Yeah, I think
I'm gonna take mine off.
611
00:22:03,375 --> 00:22:04,792
I was just thinking about that.
- No.
612
00:22:04,875 --> 00:22:06,917
Once the wig is on tomorrow,
you can't take the wig off.
613
00:22:07,042 --> 00:22:08,708
- You think?
- 100%.
614
00:22:08,708 --> 00:22:10,500
I feel like this is gonna,
like, loosen the vibe.
615
00:22:10,583 --> 00:22:11,917
- Yeah.
616
00:22:12,000 --> 00:22:14,500
- And I just think it's gonna
make the week better
617
00:22:14,583 --> 00:22:17,667
and just allow us
to, like, move on.
618
00:22:17,708 --> 00:22:20,458
- I'm just happy I decided
that I wanted to move in.
619
00:22:20,542 --> 00:22:22,583
Too much time
apart is not good.
620
00:22:22,667 --> 00:22:24,417
- Now I understand,
like, why they pressed you
621
00:22:24,500 --> 00:22:25,958
to move in right away.
622
00:22:26,042 --> 00:22:29,167
I think, I was, like,
okay with it initially.
623
00:22:29,292 --> 00:22:30,792
But, like, after Pastor Cal
624
00:22:30,875 --> 00:22:33,000
and realizing, like,
we have time, but we don't.
625
00:22:33,042 --> 00:22:34,292
- Yeah.
- Like, this...
626
00:22:34,375 --> 00:22:36,417
is, like, gonna make
a big difference.
627
00:22:36,500 --> 00:22:39,250
- I'm just glad you trusted me
to figure it out.
628
00:22:39,375 --> 00:22:40,542
So...
- Progress.
629
00:22:40,625 --> 00:22:41,750
- Yeah.
630
00:22:41,833 --> 00:22:43,500
- That really did
mean a lot to me
631
00:22:43,583 --> 00:22:45,750
and that you want to do
a wig party, too.
632
00:22:45,833 --> 00:22:48,167
Just going all-in.
- Going all-in.
633
00:22:48,250 --> 00:22:50,667
♪
634
00:22:50,750 --> 00:22:52,667
- ♪ There ain't nothing
to it ♪
635
00:22:52,708 --> 00:22:56,375
♪ Celebrate your life
now that it's yours ♪
636
00:22:56,500 --> 00:22:58,500
- Ooh. Uh-oh.
[device squeaks]
637
00:22:58,583 --> 00:23:01,667
We are having friends over...
638
00:23:01,750 --> 00:23:04,375
We cannot drink
anything that is in a cup.
639
00:23:04,375 --> 00:23:05,625
It should be a lot of fun.
640
00:23:05,750 --> 00:23:07,250
Cameron's just
getting the food,
641
00:23:07,250 --> 00:23:09,208
and I'm just kind of
setting up the place,
642
00:23:09,292 --> 00:23:11,500
getting it clean
before everybody comes over.
643
00:23:11,667 --> 00:23:14,708
[air hisses,
music distorts and fades]
644
00:23:14,792 --> 00:23:16,000
[laughs]
645
00:23:16,042 --> 00:23:19,042
♪
646
00:23:19,125 --> 00:23:20,875
- What you looking at?
647
00:23:20,875 --> 00:23:23,333
- I'm trying to show you
my charcuterie board.
648
00:23:23,458 --> 00:23:24,792
- It's cute.
649
00:23:24,792 --> 00:23:27,042
- All right.
Is this, like, the wing it?
650
00:23:27,167 --> 00:23:29,500
Just go down and see what they
have, or do we need a list?
651
00:23:29,542 --> 00:23:31,125
- Well, let's get, like--
652
00:23:31,208 --> 00:23:33,292
- We need jams,
crackers, apples.
653
00:23:33,375 --> 00:23:34,750
♪
654
00:23:34,833 --> 00:23:36,458
- Are you making
the charcuterie board?
655
00:23:36,542 --> 00:23:37,792
- I thought we were.
656
00:23:37,875 --> 00:23:39,542
I thought this was
a teammate situation.
657
00:23:39,625 --> 00:23:41,375
- No, I actually
would love to see
658
00:23:41,458 --> 00:23:43,167
what your charcuterie board
would look like.
659
00:23:43,208 --> 00:23:44,667
♪
660
00:23:44,708 --> 00:23:46,625
- ♪ Don't think
you're ready for me ♪
661
00:23:46,708 --> 00:23:48,708
♪
662
00:23:48,833 --> 00:23:52,625
- [surfer voice] Oh, dude!
This is totally rad.
663
00:23:52,708 --> 00:23:55,167
[chuckles]
- [laughing]
664
00:23:55,292 --> 00:23:58,042
Are my bangs too low?
Are they okay?
665
00:23:58,125 --> 00:23:59,667
This is so gnarly.
666
00:23:59,708 --> 00:24:01,833
I feel like I can go
[bleep] ride a wave.
667
00:24:01,917 --> 00:24:05,500
- Ew, I hate this accent.
[laughter]
668
00:24:05,583 --> 00:24:07,667
- [normal voice] I think
I'm gonna take the wig off now.
669
00:24:07,750 --> 00:24:10,250
So, if, like, something
happens, just let me know.
670
00:24:10,333 --> 00:24:11,583
Oh, sh--how long was I out?
671
00:24:11,667 --> 00:24:12,875
What just happened?
- I feel like--
672
00:24:13,000 --> 00:24:14,083
- I just, like, blacked
out the last ten minutes.
673
00:24:14,208 --> 00:24:16,292
What happened?
674
00:24:16,375 --> 00:24:19,333
- Jimmy happened.
- Really? Who's Jimmy?
675
00:24:19,375 --> 00:24:21,167
- [chuckles] We love
riding the wave.
676
00:24:21,250 --> 00:24:22,917
- Dope.
677
00:24:23,000 --> 00:24:25,250
- I'm excited for us
just to, like, have fun
678
00:24:25,333 --> 00:24:26,833
and just bring
our friends all together.
679
00:24:26,917 --> 00:24:29,167
We got some glow sticks,
yo-yos, some tiny hands.
680
00:24:29,292 --> 00:24:32,000
Says a lot that he let me
get tiny hands for $1.50 apiece
681
00:24:32,042 --> 00:24:33,667
on a tight budget.
682
00:24:33,708 --> 00:24:36,167
- I literally look like Simba.
I don't know if I can...
683
00:24:36,208 --> 00:24:38,583
- And I think we really both
deserve some fun tonight.
684
00:24:38,708 --> 00:24:40,167
So, yeah, I'm really hoping
this is, like, a good,
685
00:24:40,292 --> 00:24:41,958
relaxing, fun atmosphere.
686
00:24:42,042 --> 00:24:43,333
♪
687
00:24:43,375 --> 00:24:44,833
- All right, let's
see Veronica be born.
688
00:24:44,875 --> 00:24:47,208
Does she have an accent
or what?
689
00:24:47,333 --> 00:24:50,208
- So, yeah, when you greet them
as Jimmy, I'll be like...
690
00:24:50,292 --> 00:24:51,833
[British accent]
Hello, I'm Veronica.
691
00:24:51,875 --> 00:24:53,458
- Oh, that's good.
- How are you today?
692
00:24:53,542 --> 00:24:54,792
- That works.
693
00:24:54,875 --> 00:24:57,250
- Welcome to our party.
- Ah.
694
00:24:57,333 --> 00:25:00,667
- Please go pick a wig
and drink a lot.
695
00:25:00,750 --> 00:25:04,667
Tiny hands are encouraged.
- [laughs]
696
00:25:04,792 --> 00:25:06,500
I like it. That works.
- [normal voice] Yeah.
697
00:25:06,542 --> 00:25:08,208
- Veronica and Jimmy.
698
00:25:08,292 --> 00:25:10,542
♪
699
00:25:10,625 --> 00:25:11,875
- Honey, I'm home.
700
00:25:11,958 --> 00:25:13,958
[door closes]
- With the food or no?
701
00:25:17,083 --> 00:25:19,500
If I had known
that this wasn't covered,
702
00:25:19,542 --> 00:25:21,042
I would have done it.
703
00:25:21,042 --> 00:25:23,667
- We're gonna have food.
We're in Downtown Denver.
704
00:25:23,750 --> 00:25:26,125
- Yeah, but why--but do we--
705
00:25:26,208 --> 00:25:29,583
This is very last-minute.
It's stressing me out.
706
00:25:29,667 --> 00:25:32,625
That was your one job, Cameron,
one job.
707
00:25:32,708 --> 00:25:35,083
Yeah, that is.
- It's going to go everywhere.
708
00:25:35,208 --> 00:25:36,917
- It's fine.
[laughs]
709
00:25:37,000 --> 00:25:39,875
- One of these pops,
you'll see these
710
00:25:39,958 --> 00:25:42,208
for the rest of our lives.
- Just don't pop them.
711
00:25:42,292 --> 00:25:44,625
- But they're going to pop.
That's what balloons do.
712
00:25:44,708 --> 00:25:46,667
- If this is a bigger
concern to you than the fact
713
00:25:46,750 --> 00:25:48,958
that we don't have food, then
I don't know what to tell you.
714
00:25:49,042 --> 00:25:51,667
♪
715
00:25:51,833 --> 00:25:53,542
- I'm gonna go change.
- All right.
716
00:25:53,625 --> 00:25:55,333
- Okay?
- Cool.
717
00:25:55,417 --> 00:25:57,125
- So good luck
with the balloons.
718
00:25:57,208 --> 00:25:59,833
[air whooshes]
719
00:25:59,917 --> 00:26:03,542
Me having not arrived
with any food
720
00:26:03,667 --> 00:26:06,375
has probably added
to Clare's stress levels.
721
00:26:06,458 --> 00:26:08,792
But I'm doing my best,
722
00:26:08,875 --> 00:26:11,458
and I hope that it
doesn't ruin the night.
723
00:26:11,542 --> 00:26:12,708
♪
724
00:26:12,708 --> 00:26:15,708
So there's an empanada place.
725
00:26:15,833 --> 00:26:17,333
- Yeah, so do you
want to do that?
726
00:26:17,417 --> 00:26:19,000
I mean--
- I mean, that's what I'll do.
727
00:26:19,083 --> 00:26:21,125
I mean, it's a place
where there's, like, pre--
728
00:26:21,208 --> 00:26:22,458
♪
729
00:26:22,542 --> 00:26:24,167
- [laughs]
730
00:26:24,250 --> 00:26:26,583
- Where there's pre-made food.
731
00:26:26,667 --> 00:26:28,417
- Uh-huh.
732
00:26:28,500 --> 00:26:30,167
- And we can pick up
a variety of stuff.
733
00:26:30,292 --> 00:26:34,083
- So we have two hours
till the guests arrive.
734
00:26:34,167 --> 00:26:36,667
So what is our plan?
735
00:26:36,792 --> 00:26:39,542
I think we should order ahead
and just have it ready.
736
00:26:39,625 --> 00:26:42,500
- I can, but it will
just be older food
737
00:26:42,583 --> 00:26:44,583
as opposed to fresher food.
- Okay.
738
00:26:44,667 --> 00:26:45,958
What is your
anything but the cup?
739
00:26:46,042 --> 00:26:47,333
- Uh--
740
00:26:47,417 --> 00:26:48,792
- You didn't bring
your own thing?
741
00:26:48,875 --> 00:26:49,833
- Well, I was supposed
to bring...
742
00:26:49,958 --> 00:26:51,958
- Cameron.
- Folgers, you know, big--
743
00:26:52,042 --> 00:26:53,750
- Well, then figure
something out here.
744
00:26:53,875 --> 00:26:55,667
- Yep.
I'm gonna find something.
745
00:26:55,750 --> 00:26:57,000
- How unprepared are you?
746
00:26:57,042 --> 00:26:58,292
Sorry, but, truly,
I didn't think
747
00:26:58,375 --> 00:27:00,000
that you were this unprepared.
748
00:27:00,083 --> 00:27:01,500
- [sighs] I know.
749
00:27:01,583 --> 00:27:03,167
I'm just
the best husband, aren't I?
750
00:27:03,250 --> 00:27:04,625
♪
751
00:27:04,708 --> 00:27:07,083
- It's a pretty simple duty.
752
00:27:07,208 --> 00:27:10,625
And I know--so you said, like,
T-Lo's not coming.
753
00:27:10,708 --> 00:27:13,375
Like, so why?
754
00:27:13,458 --> 00:27:15,292
Did he just say
he didn't want to come?
755
00:27:15,375 --> 00:27:16,833
- I had a couple friends
coming...
756
00:27:16,875 --> 00:27:18,625
- Mm-hmm.
- But they're just tied up,
757
00:27:18,708 --> 00:27:21,125
getting ready for their trip,
so they can't make it.
758
00:27:21,208 --> 00:27:23,583
And I bet your friends are more
fun than mine, anyway.
759
00:27:23,708 --> 00:27:25,792
So it probably works out.
- I don't know about that.
760
00:27:25,875 --> 00:27:28,000
They are pretty fun.
They are pretty fun.
761
00:27:28,042 --> 00:27:29,583
♪
762
00:27:29,667 --> 00:27:31,833
- I'm gonna order the food.
- Okay.
763
00:27:31,917 --> 00:27:33,958
♪
764
00:27:34,042 --> 00:27:35,417
- Oh, f...
765
00:27:35,500 --> 00:27:36,833
[object clatters]
766
00:27:36,875 --> 00:27:39,042
- What happened?
What did you do?
767
00:27:39,125 --> 00:27:41,500
- This doesn't let you
select a time, so...
768
00:27:41,542 --> 00:27:43,625
- Oh, it doesn't?
- Nope.
769
00:27:43,708 --> 00:27:46,875
I'm picking them up
in 15 minutes apparently.
770
00:27:46,958 --> 00:27:48,917
- Well, then why don't
you wait to order it, then?
771
00:27:49,042 --> 00:27:51,375
- Well--
- Or you already put it in?
772
00:27:51,500 --> 00:27:53,042
- [scoffs] Yeah.
773
00:27:55,125 --> 00:27:57,000
Clare is...
774
00:27:57,083 --> 00:27:59,083
she's seeming quite stressed,
775
00:27:59,208 --> 00:28:02,167
and I don't think
it's about food.
776
00:28:02,250 --> 00:28:05,167
I'm thinking it's got maybe
something to do
777
00:28:05,208 --> 00:28:07,708
with her being nervous
about me meeting her friends,
778
00:28:07,792 --> 00:28:09,292
maybe something like that.
779
00:28:09,375 --> 00:28:10,708
♪
780
00:28:10,792 --> 00:28:12,792
- I mean, I always like
to be prepared.
781
00:28:12,875 --> 00:28:14,500
And so the fact that
we aren't right now,
782
00:28:14,542 --> 00:28:16,167
a little stressed about it.
783
00:28:16,208 --> 00:28:18,792
♪
784
00:28:22,708 --> 00:28:25,042
- ♪ There's nothing
better than us ♪
785
00:28:25,042 --> 00:28:28,458
♪
786
00:28:28,542 --> 00:28:29,708
- There we go.
787
00:28:29,833 --> 00:28:31,667
Do you want to cut
the cheese on that?
788
00:28:31,708 --> 00:28:33,417
- Sure.
- These too?
789
00:28:33,500 --> 00:28:36,333
Some of them might just, like,
crumble, and that's fine.
790
00:28:36,417 --> 00:28:38,917
You know what I'm saying?
- I know what you're saying.
791
00:28:39,000 --> 00:28:40,708
- You get what
I'm putting down?
792
00:28:40,792 --> 00:28:42,292
- I smell what
you're stepping in.
793
00:28:42,375 --> 00:28:44,083
[knock at door]
794
00:28:48,375 --> 00:28:50,292
- Hello.
- Hello, friend.
795
00:28:50,375 --> 00:28:52,333
- I come bearing gifts...
- Oh, look at all these--
796
00:28:52,375 --> 00:28:53,833
- And merriment.
797
00:28:53,917 --> 00:28:55,417
- I'm surprised
it didn't break.
798
00:28:55,542 --> 00:28:56,542
- Me too, actually.
- Yeah.
799
00:28:56,625 --> 00:28:58,167
- Derik.
both: Hi.
800
00:28:58,208 --> 00:28:59,833
- How are you?
- Good. How are you?
801
00:28:59,917 --> 00:29:02,333
- Look what Derik brought us.
- Wow.
802
00:29:02,375 --> 00:29:03,875
- This place is sweet.
803
00:29:04,000 --> 00:29:05,333
[knock at door]
- More friends.
804
00:29:05,417 --> 00:29:06,667
- Derik.
- Hi.
805
00:29:06,708 --> 00:29:08,667
- Hello.
- This is Gina.
806
00:29:08,750 --> 00:29:10,167
- Hi.
- I just washed my hands.
807
00:29:10,208 --> 00:29:11,500
They're wet.
- Yeah, he's nice.
808
00:29:11,625 --> 00:29:12,750
- Lauren.
- Nice to meet you. I'm Derik.
809
00:29:12,875 --> 00:29:14,208
- Ooh. So cute.
So this is the spot?
810
00:29:14,292 --> 00:29:15,833
- Oh, yeah, this is it.
Yep, yep.
811
00:29:15,958 --> 00:29:17,667
- What do we got here, Becca?
812
00:29:17,708 --> 00:29:19,500
- We got a spread.
We got some cheese.
813
00:29:19,625 --> 00:29:21,458
We got some chocolate.
We got some meat.
814
00:29:21,542 --> 00:29:22,833
- Nuts.
- We got some nuts.
815
00:29:22,958 --> 00:29:24,458
- Chocolate.
- We got some--
816
00:29:24,542 --> 00:29:27,500
They're garlic herb cashews,
which are quite divine.
817
00:29:27,583 --> 00:29:29,333
- Yum.
Okay.
818
00:29:29,375 --> 00:29:31,167
- I'm excited
for our first party.
819
00:29:31,292 --> 00:29:33,875
I think our friends
will get along. I think...
820
00:29:33,958 --> 00:29:36,042
Our friends at
the wedding got along great.
821
00:29:36,042 --> 00:29:37,250
♪
822
00:29:37,375 --> 00:29:40,125
So I'm sure the same
will happen tonight.
823
00:29:40,208 --> 00:29:42,000
- Do you want to watch me grill
a hot dog?
824
00:29:42,083 --> 00:29:44,333
- We would love to watch
you grill hot dogs.
825
00:29:44,375 --> 00:29:46,375
- Fantastic.
This is gonna be a lot of fun.
826
00:29:46,458 --> 00:29:48,583
- Like, the importance
that our friends play
827
00:29:48,667 --> 00:29:50,958
in our life is so similar.
828
00:29:51,042 --> 00:29:53,042
And to, like, have
that connection
829
00:29:53,125 --> 00:29:54,833
and prioritize our friends--
830
00:29:54,875 --> 00:29:57,000
like, to have that both from
each of us is awesome.
831
00:29:57,042 --> 00:30:00,000
- [mouth full] Let's go.
[both giggling]
832
00:30:00,042 --> 00:30:03,000
♪
833
00:30:03,125 --> 00:30:06,208
As some of her closest friends,
834
00:30:06,208 --> 00:30:08,000
what do I need to know
about her?
835
00:30:08,042 --> 00:30:09,917
What about her ex-boyfriends?
What are they like?
836
00:30:10,000 --> 00:30:11,750
What do I need to avoid
to not become one?
837
00:30:11,833 --> 00:30:13,208
- Ah...
- That's a great question.
838
00:30:13,292 --> 00:30:15,667
Definitely, like,
open communication,
839
00:30:15,792 --> 00:30:17,208
'cause I think she's had
issues before
840
00:30:17,292 --> 00:30:19,875
where she just
really wants to, like--
841
00:30:19,958 --> 00:30:21,500
if you're having an issue--
842
00:30:21,583 --> 00:30:22,917
discuss it right away.
- Yeah.
843
00:30:23,042 --> 00:30:24,875
- And I think some issues
she's had in the past were
844
00:30:24,875 --> 00:30:26,875
her previous partners
weren't willing to, like,
845
00:30:26,958 --> 00:30:28,667
talk through those issues.
846
00:30:28,750 --> 00:30:30,542
Then she kind of
just bottles it up,
847
00:30:30,625 --> 00:30:32,458
and it, like, kind
of eats at her.
848
00:30:32,542 --> 00:30:34,000
♪
849
00:30:34,042 --> 00:30:35,500
- Well, thanks for coming.
- Yeah.
850
00:30:35,583 --> 00:30:37,208
I'll say this about Austin.
851
00:30:37,292 --> 00:30:39,292
He can be a tough nut
to crack sometimes.
852
00:30:39,375 --> 00:30:41,083
- Mm. Mm-hmm.
- How has that been going?
853
00:30:41,167 --> 00:30:42,542
[chuckles]
- I think, like--
854
00:30:42,667 --> 00:30:44,083
It's funny to hear that,
855
00:30:44,167 --> 00:30:46,583
because, like,
he's been really open.
856
00:30:46,708 --> 00:30:49,208
I think it's good so far.
857
00:30:49,292 --> 00:30:51,333
We're building, like,
a really solid friendship,
858
00:30:51,458 --> 00:30:54,833
and, obviously, we also think
the other person's cute,
859
00:30:54,875 --> 00:30:57,000
which also doesn't hurt.
- [laughs]
860
00:30:57,083 --> 00:30:58,833
- You know
what a good friend he is.
861
00:30:58,917 --> 00:31:00,375
You don't know
about his make-out abilities,
862
00:31:00,458 --> 00:31:02,500
but I can tell you
that both are great.
863
00:31:02,542 --> 00:31:04,750
[laughs]
- Cool.
864
00:31:04,833 --> 00:31:06,708
Good to know.
I was really curious, actually.
865
00:31:06,833 --> 00:31:08,500
- I know.
- [laughing]
866
00:31:08,583 --> 00:31:10,667
- I knew that was one of the
things you wanted to ask me.
867
00:31:10,750 --> 00:31:13,292
- I mean, I am curious--
is there anything that, like,
868
00:31:13,375 --> 00:31:15,375
you haven't gotten
from him, err...?
869
00:31:15,458 --> 00:31:17,250
- Well, I think...
870
00:31:17,333 --> 00:31:19,500
I think that there are
times when he'll say,
871
00:31:19,583 --> 00:31:21,750
but, like, very eloquently,
I'm not ready to talk
872
00:31:21,833 --> 00:31:23,208
about that just yet.
873
00:31:23,292 --> 00:31:24,708
But, like, give me a few days,
874
00:31:24,833 --> 00:31:27,000
and, like, let's circle
back to this.
875
00:31:27,083 --> 00:31:28,667
And we do...
- Interesting.
876
00:31:28,750 --> 00:31:30,167
- And he's ready,
and he's there.
877
00:31:30,292 --> 00:31:32,083
- I was always
hoping for the best,
878
00:31:32,167 --> 00:31:34,083
and I've been, like, really
blown away, actually...
879
00:31:34,167 --> 00:31:36,125
- Yeah.
- In terms of you as a person,
880
00:31:36,125 --> 00:31:38,250
in terms of how well
you guys seem to get along.
881
00:31:38,333 --> 00:31:40,917
You know, I really
value my relationship,
882
00:31:41,000 --> 00:31:42,667
and I see a lot of
the things that I really like
883
00:31:42,792 --> 00:31:44,750
out of my relationship with my
wife that, like, you guys have.
884
00:31:44,833 --> 00:31:47,375
Just, like, a lot of the same
things that you've been saying
885
00:31:47,500 --> 00:31:49,458
are the things that I remember
telling, like, my friends
886
00:31:49,542 --> 00:31:51,042
when I first met her--
just be, like, it's so easy.
887
00:31:51,167 --> 00:31:52,875
We're really like
the same person.
888
00:31:52,958 --> 00:31:54,167
We care about the same things.
889
00:31:54,292 --> 00:31:55,833
And it's been really
cool to watch.
890
00:31:55,958 --> 00:31:57,500
Yeah, from the outside anyway.
- Yeah, thank you.
891
00:31:57,542 --> 00:32:00,125
I mean, it's been awesome to
meet his people
892
00:32:00,208 --> 00:32:01,417
because, like, it validates--
893
00:32:01,500 --> 00:32:02,750
Like, I'm over here
894
00:32:02,833 --> 00:32:04,500
just thinking, like,
he's this great guy.
895
00:32:04,500 --> 00:32:05,917
Like, this is so great.
896
00:32:06,000 --> 00:32:07,500
How did I get so lucky?
Like, all of these things.
897
00:32:07,542 --> 00:32:09,667
And then, like, there's like
that moment where you're like,
898
00:32:09,708 --> 00:32:11,500
is he, like,
actually a con artist?
899
00:32:11,542 --> 00:32:12,958
And then I meet his friends.
900
00:32:13,042 --> 00:32:15,042
- I said this at your wedding.
- Mm-hmm.
901
00:32:15,167 --> 00:32:17,333
I was like, she's very lucky.
- Yeah.
902
00:32:17,375 --> 00:32:19,292
- [laughs] And I mean that.
- Yeah. Yeah.
903
00:32:19,375 --> 00:32:20,625
- [laughs]
- I think I'm very lucky, too.
904
00:32:20,708 --> 00:32:21,958
- Yeah.
- For sure.
905
00:32:21,958 --> 00:32:24,333
- She seemed
very excited about you.
906
00:32:24,375 --> 00:32:26,000
- Yeah.
- And, like, she chose
907
00:32:26,083 --> 00:32:27,875
this process
because it was all-in,
908
00:32:27,958 --> 00:32:29,917
and why not go for it?
So I'm, like...
909
00:32:30,000 --> 00:32:31,958
- That was. like,
my mentality as well.
910
00:32:32,042 --> 00:32:33,583
- Yeah.
- I mean, it is very all-in.
911
00:32:33,667 --> 00:32:34,917
You just, like, go
straight in, and you're, like,
912
00:32:35,042 --> 00:32:36,542
all of a sudden married.
913
00:32:36,542 --> 00:32:38,833
Like, so many issues,
like, don't even have a chance
914
00:32:38,917 --> 00:32:40,333
to, like, present themselves.
- Yeah.
915
00:32:40,417 --> 00:32:42,500
- Like, as you guys
know, and, like,
916
00:32:42,583 --> 00:32:45,000
our religion and faith doesn't
really, like, line up.
917
00:32:45,083 --> 00:32:46,792
- Mm-hmm.
- But, like, that is a hurdle
918
00:32:46,875 --> 00:32:50,250
that, like, will take time
to jump over.
919
00:32:50,333 --> 00:32:52,375
- I'm sure you know
that Austin is Christian.
920
00:32:52,500 --> 00:32:54,042
I don't know
how many conversations
921
00:32:54,167 --> 00:32:55,708
you've had with him about that.
922
00:32:55,792 --> 00:32:57,833
But I think, so far, that's
been our biggest difference.
923
00:32:57,875 --> 00:32:59,417
- Yeah.
924
00:32:59,542 --> 00:33:03,333
You know, that is an
interesting aspect of all this,
925
00:33:03,375 --> 00:33:06,333
because, you know, I've known
him for, like, 14 years,
926
00:33:06,417 --> 00:33:09,125
and it's rarely come up
with us.
927
00:33:09,208 --> 00:33:11,708
So, like, I consider
myself an atheist,
928
00:33:11,708 --> 00:33:13,583
you know, and he's still
one of my best friends.
929
00:33:13,667 --> 00:33:15,250
- Right.
930
00:33:15,333 --> 00:33:17,125
- It's strange for me because
I've really only heard
931
00:33:17,208 --> 00:33:19,000
this come up recently...
- Mm-hmm.
932
00:33:19,167 --> 00:33:20,542
- When he's been really,
I guess, coming up
933
00:33:20,625 --> 00:33:22,417
with the fact that, like,
what does his religion mean
934
00:33:22,500 --> 00:33:23,875
around marriage specifically?
- Mm-hmm.
935
00:33:23,958 --> 00:33:25,583
- Like, to me
at least anyway,
936
00:33:25,667 --> 00:33:28,375
it doesn't really seem like
a way that he makes choices,
937
00:33:28,500 --> 00:33:30,083
you know what I mean?
- Yeah, yeah.
938
00:33:30,208 --> 00:33:31,458
- It's just been, like,
this belief system
939
00:33:31,542 --> 00:33:33,083
that is there
but doesn't, like--
940
00:33:33,167 --> 00:33:34,708
isn't a primary driver
of his life.
941
00:33:34,792 --> 00:33:36,333
- Right.
942
00:33:36,417 --> 00:33:38,042
- We're still getting to
know one another as a person.
943
00:33:38,042 --> 00:33:39,708
- Yes, for sure.
944
00:33:39,792 --> 00:33:41,875
- And then we'll figure out,
like, the big, big issues.
945
00:33:41,958 --> 00:33:43,833
- Yeah.
- So...
946
00:33:43,917 --> 00:33:46,292
- I think I'm more okay
with it now, like,
947
00:33:46,375 --> 00:33:47,958
seeing the person that he is.
948
00:33:48,042 --> 00:33:49,792
And, like, obviously,
one of the bigger issues
949
00:33:49,792 --> 00:33:52,667
that I have with religion is
when it infiltrates,
950
00:33:52,708 --> 00:33:55,958
like, how they treat and see
other people in a negative way.
951
00:33:56,042 --> 00:33:58,167
And Austin isn't that way.
952
00:33:58,250 --> 00:34:02,583
And so I think I'm, like, ready
to, like, bend on that.
953
00:34:02,667 --> 00:34:04,583
And I think that he--
954
00:34:04,667 --> 00:34:07,292
I don't know if he is yet
or will be.
955
00:34:07,375 --> 00:34:09,208
[chuckles]
956
00:34:09,292 --> 00:34:10,500
♪
957
00:34:10,583 --> 00:34:13,750
- ♪ Watch out,
I'm coming through ♪
958
00:34:13,833 --> 00:34:16,167
♪ Stacking up a W
959
00:34:16,208 --> 00:34:17,833
- Cheers.
- Cheers.
960
00:34:17,875 --> 00:34:19,792
To our first party.
- Yeah.
961
00:34:19,875 --> 00:34:21,667
[knock at door]
962
00:34:21,708 --> 00:34:23,333
Ooh.
- Whoo.
963
00:34:23,417 --> 00:34:24,792
Yes!
964
00:34:24,875 --> 00:34:27,292
♪
965
00:34:27,375 --> 00:34:29,875
Do you want to open the door?
- Sure.
966
00:34:29,958 --> 00:34:32,792
all: Hello.
967
00:34:32,875 --> 00:34:34,875
- What's going on?
- Hey.
968
00:34:35,000 --> 00:34:36,958
- Wow, you're so tan.
969
00:34:37,042 --> 00:34:38,875
- Hi, I'm Kiara.
- Brennan. Nice to meet you.
970
00:34:38,958 --> 00:34:40,917
- Nice to meet you.
Oh, my God.
971
00:34:41,042 --> 00:34:43,125
- Brennan. Nice to meet you.
- Alex.
972
00:34:43,208 --> 00:34:45,500
- Welcome in, girls.
973
00:34:45,542 --> 00:34:48,125
- It's perfect.
- I love the tiny hands.
974
00:34:48,208 --> 00:34:50,250
Tiny hands
are my favorite thing.
975
00:34:50,333 --> 00:34:52,083
- All her.
- Was this Emily?
976
00:34:52,167 --> 00:34:54,833
- What do you guys want?
Wine, seltzer, vodka, Coke--
977
00:34:54,875 --> 00:34:58,250
- Vodka sounds good for me.
- I wish we got one tiny hand.
978
00:34:58,333 --> 00:35:01,583
That was my bad.
- No, this is hilarious.
979
00:35:01,667 --> 00:35:02,958
- Thank you.
980
00:35:03,042 --> 00:35:04,917
♪
981
00:35:05,000 --> 00:35:07,500
all: Cheers.
- Thank you guys for coming.
982
00:35:07,583 --> 00:35:09,167
- Thanks for having us.
- Thanks for having us.
983
00:35:09,208 --> 00:35:10,542
- Isn't this place nice?
- Mm-hmm.
984
00:35:10,667 --> 00:35:12,000
- I brought 2 things.
- Hundreds of pounds--
985
00:35:12,083 --> 00:35:13,167
- She brought 18 things.
- His face was like--
986
00:35:13,333 --> 00:35:14,875
I didn't tell him that--
987
00:35:14,958 --> 00:35:16,333
- How come you only
brought 2 things?
988
00:35:16,375 --> 00:35:18,000
- Because that's
what we needed.
989
00:35:18,125 --> 00:35:20,125
[chuckling] And she
brought 18 other things.
990
00:35:20,208 --> 00:35:21,833
- How was the move-in?
- It was fun.
991
00:35:21,917 --> 00:35:25,583
I moved in my stuff from
downstairs, mostly by myself.
992
00:35:25,667 --> 00:35:27,083
- That's so nice of you.
993
00:35:27,167 --> 00:35:28,792
- It must've been a pain
lugging it all up.
994
00:35:28,875 --> 00:35:31,625
- Yeah, and with a bad wrist--
I was just on a mission.
995
00:35:31,708 --> 00:35:33,000
♪
996
00:35:33,042 --> 00:35:34,333
[knock at door]
997
00:35:34,375 --> 00:35:35,833
♪
998
00:35:35,917 --> 00:35:37,333
- There they are.
- Hello.
999
00:35:37,375 --> 00:35:39,458
- There they are.
You guys remember Emily.
1000
00:35:39,542 --> 00:35:41,333
What up?
- Thank you, thank you.
1001
00:35:41,417 --> 00:35:42,875
- Did you guys notice
the wig selection?
1002
00:35:42,958 --> 00:35:43,917
- I did.
- Nice to meet you.
1003
00:35:44,000 --> 00:35:45,250
Chris.
- Hi, I'm Kiara.
1004
00:35:45,333 --> 00:35:46,667
- Alex, Kiara.
- Nice to meet you.
1005
00:35:46,708 --> 00:35:48,333
- Kiara?
- Kiara, yes.
1006
00:35:48,458 --> 00:35:50,167
- So these are both, like,
some of my closest friends.
1007
00:35:50,208 --> 00:35:51,875
And then, yeah, they're
my closest friends.
1008
00:35:51,958 --> 00:35:53,417
- So they were at the wedding,
so that's the difference.
1009
00:35:53,542 --> 00:35:54,833
- Yeah.
- You guys were not.
1010
00:35:54,917 --> 00:35:56,292
- We haven't met. Yeah.
- Mm-hmm.
1011
00:35:56,375 --> 00:35:58,167
- So you might have guessed, it
is a wig party.
1012
00:35:58,250 --> 00:35:59,542
- Everyone create
your own persona.
1013
00:35:59,667 --> 00:36:01,667
- What? Wait. Why?
- This is, like...
1014
00:36:01,750 --> 00:36:04,333
- 'Cause it'll be funny, Alex.
We're having fun, Alex.
1015
00:36:04,417 --> 00:36:05,792
This is fun.
- All right.
1016
00:36:05,875 --> 00:36:08,167
- All right. How we doing?
- I feel attacked.
1017
00:36:08,250 --> 00:36:10,083
[laughter]
1018
00:36:10,167 --> 00:36:12,708
- Your wig already
fits you perfectly.
1019
00:36:12,792 --> 00:36:14,750
- I've got a really
average-size head,
1020
00:36:14,833 --> 00:36:16,333
so things tend to fit.
1021
00:36:16,417 --> 00:36:18,333
- I look like I'm coming
out of my mother's womb.
1022
00:36:18,417 --> 00:36:20,667
- [chuckles] I am reborn.
- Yeah.
1023
00:36:20,750 --> 00:36:23,167
- Mullet boys right here--
Joe Dirt style.
1024
00:36:23,250 --> 00:36:25,500
- Okay, yeah, unfortunately,
I'll be wearing the pink.
1025
00:36:25,625 --> 00:36:28,083
- [laughing] This is
truly not acceptable.
1026
00:36:28,167 --> 00:36:29,542
- I have no words.
1027
00:36:29,625 --> 00:36:31,708
- I feel like I am
in drag right now.
1028
00:36:31,792 --> 00:36:33,042
- Oh, you guys look great.
1029
00:36:33,042 --> 00:36:34,500
[surfer voice]
Love it. So sick.
1030
00:36:34,583 --> 00:36:35,792
I'm Jimmy.
1031
00:36:35,875 --> 00:36:37,583
If anyone wants to ride a wave,
just let me know,
1032
00:36:37,708 --> 00:36:39,375
because I want to get
a [bleep] wave.
1033
00:36:39,500 --> 00:36:41,042
- I think you should try
this one.
1034
00:36:41,125 --> 00:36:43,583
- I honestly think I have to
because I can't see anything.
1035
00:36:43,667 --> 00:36:45,167
- Do I keep this on?
- Oh, my God.
1036
00:36:45,250 --> 00:36:46,458
- The pink's cute.
- Very fun, guys.
1037
00:36:46,542 --> 00:36:47,833
- I thought I looked
genuinely good in them.
1038
00:36:47,917 --> 00:36:49,208
- The pink is good.
1039
00:36:49,333 --> 00:36:51,208
- Emily is one
of our best friends,
1040
00:36:51,292 --> 00:36:54,500
and Emily is, like, 100% in.
1041
00:36:54,625 --> 00:36:57,667
Like, her whole self
has been thrown into this.
1042
00:36:57,750 --> 00:36:59,833
I think my biggest
concern would be--
1043
00:36:59,917 --> 00:37:03,375
he's, like, not willing
to, like, give it his all.
1044
00:37:03,458 --> 00:37:04,750
♪
1045
00:37:04,833 --> 00:37:07,208
- Wow, Brennan.
- [laughs]
1046
00:37:07,208 --> 00:37:10,333
- Neither of us have met you...
- Yes.
1047
00:37:10,417 --> 00:37:12,167
- Till this moment.
- [normal voice] Yeah.
1048
00:37:12,250 --> 00:37:14,833
It's true, and now you're
seeing my alternate form
1049
00:37:14,917 --> 00:37:16,542
and everything already.
- Yeah, your alter ego.
1050
00:37:16,625 --> 00:37:18,667
- Day one.
- No, we just want Brennan.
1051
00:37:18,750 --> 00:37:21,667
- Well, it's kind of hard
when Jimmy's pressing.
1052
00:37:21,750 --> 00:37:24,292
- Let's just put Jimmy
to the side for a sec.
1053
00:37:24,375 --> 00:37:26,458
- Eh, okay, I'll try.
- All right.
1054
00:37:26,542 --> 00:37:28,750
- Ooh, I feel like this is
an interrogation session.
1055
00:37:28,875 --> 00:37:31,625
- Yeah, this is very homey,
like a job interview.
1056
00:37:31,708 --> 00:37:33,958
- I feel very pressured
right now.
1057
00:37:34,042 --> 00:37:36,417
- How is the pressure from
everything else, though?
1058
00:37:36,500 --> 00:37:38,333
- Uh...
- Is that good?
1059
00:37:38,417 --> 00:37:40,292
- It definitely
has, like, hit this week.
1060
00:37:40,375 --> 00:37:42,208
I mean, I didn't have
any reservations, really,
1061
00:37:42,208 --> 00:37:44,167
until this week,
1062
00:37:44,250 --> 00:37:47,292
but part of me
does question, like,
1063
00:37:47,292 --> 00:37:49,583
is he ready for this
sort of commitment?
1064
00:37:49,708 --> 00:37:51,583
♪
1065
00:37:51,667 --> 00:37:53,708
- Tell us about you, Brennan.
1066
00:37:53,833 --> 00:37:56,458
What made you...
1067
00:37:56,542 --> 00:37:58,083
do the thing?
- Yeah.
1068
00:37:58,167 --> 00:38:00,375
So I was find myself, like,
going on, like, a lot of dates
1069
00:38:00,458 --> 00:38:02,792
and just wasn't going
anywhere, you know.
1070
00:38:02,875 --> 00:38:05,958
I always just felt like there
was something missing, and--
1071
00:38:06,042 --> 00:38:08,500
- What was missing?
- A partner to do it all with.
1072
00:38:08,542 --> 00:38:11,542
Like, I was living my life and
wasn't doing it with anyone.
1073
00:38:11,625 --> 00:38:13,667
And that's why
I wanted to do this.
1074
00:38:13,750 --> 00:38:15,708
- What I will say,
like, about Emily, like,
1075
00:38:15,833 --> 00:38:17,625
she is super supportive.
1076
00:38:17,708 --> 00:38:20,375
She's kind of like a backbone.
1077
00:38:20,458 --> 00:38:22,042
Like, I feel like she's being
1078
00:38:22,125 --> 00:38:23,667
a backbone for you.
- Mm-hmm.
1079
00:38:23,750 --> 00:38:26,167
- And I don't know
much about you...
1080
00:38:26,292 --> 00:38:27,792
- Yeah.
- Or heard much about you
1081
00:38:27,875 --> 00:38:30,167
that, like, you're being
a backbone for her.
1082
00:38:30,292 --> 00:38:31,667
- Right.
- Do you know what I mean?
1083
00:38:31,750 --> 00:38:34,583
Like, how do you
plan on doing that?
1084
00:38:34,667 --> 00:38:36,625
- Yeah, I feel like
I'm a very supportive person,
1085
00:38:36,708 --> 00:38:38,917
like, where I give
more than I receive,
1086
00:38:39,000 --> 00:38:41,292
but I don't really expect that.
1087
00:38:41,375 --> 00:38:43,125
You know, I give
'cause I want to give.
1088
00:38:43,208 --> 00:38:45,792
So I definitely, you know, plan
on doing that for her as well.
1089
00:38:45,875 --> 00:38:47,500
♪
1090
00:38:47,542 --> 00:38:51,917
- Like, you say you're more
giving than you receive.
1091
00:38:52,000 --> 00:38:53,917
But you...
1092
00:38:54,000 --> 00:38:57,417
Did you help her move
all her [bleep] upstairs?
1093
00:38:57,500 --> 00:38:59,750
[scoffs]
I would expect my partner to--
1094
00:38:59,833 --> 00:39:01,958
- You got to understand
like what this is, though.
1095
00:39:02,042 --> 00:39:04,333
I mean, like...
1096
00:39:04,375 --> 00:39:06,500
If this was real life,
I should 100% help her move.
1097
00:39:06,542 --> 00:39:07,833
- This is real life, though.
- We would be--
1098
00:39:07,875 --> 00:39:09,167
♪
1099
00:39:09,250 --> 00:39:10,167
- Holy [bleep].
1100
00:39:10,250 --> 00:39:12,000
♪
1101
00:39:12,083 --> 00:39:15,833
- Like, I think maybe
you're failing to understand,
1102
00:39:15,917 --> 00:39:17,042
this is real life.
1103
00:39:17,125 --> 00:39:20,000
Like, you guys
got married, right?
1104
00:39:20,042 --> 00:39:23,208
- Mm-hmm.
- And I'm...
1105
00:39:23,292 --> 00:39:24,875
♪
1106
00:39:24,958 --> 00:39:27,917
A bit, like, worried
and upset, to be honest.
1107
00:39:28,042 --> 00:39:29,667
- Why?
1108
00:39:29,667 --> 00:39:31,583
- I just think that
she deserves a world,
1109
00:39:31,667 --> 00:39:35,042
and I'm not so sure...
- Mm-hmm.
1110
00:39:35,125 --> 00:39:38,542
- That you're giving that
to her.
1111
00:39:38,625 --> 00:39:40,583
♪
1112
00:39:40,708 --> 00:39:42,333
- Yeah, I feel like
there's an instance
1113
00:39:42,375 --> 00:39:43,792
that you're talking about.
1114
00:39:43,875 --> 00:39:45,833
- Dude, I don't want to call
you out, but, also, like,
1115
00:39:45,917 --> 00:39:48,708
her just taking
everything out of the oven
1116
00:39:48,875 --> 00:39:50,167
and preparing it.
1117
00:39:50,250 --> 00:39:51,500
- Do you need help, Emily?
- Me?
1118
00:39:51,583 --> 00:39:53,292
- Do you need help?
- No.
1119
00:39:53,375 --> 00:39:55,083
- She has an extra hand.
[chuckles]
1120
00:39:55,208 --> 00:39:56,833
Clap for her.
1121
00:39:56,917 --> 00:39:58,958
♪
1122
00:39:58,958 --> 00:40:00,667
- And I'm like, hey,
do you need help?
1123
00:40:00,750 --> 00:40:04,042
I almost was, like, looking
at you when I said that.
1124
00:40:04,125 --> 00:40:06,500
- Wait, I pulled everything
out of the oven.
1125
00:40:06,583 --> 00:40:09,208
- What are those?
- Churros and mini wieners.
1126
00:40:09,333 --> 00:40:11,250
- Yum.
- What was the second thing?
1127
00:40:11,333 --> 00:40:12,667
- Mini wieners?
- Oh.
1128
00:40:12,750 --> 00:40:14,167
- And put it all
on platters and--
1129
00:40:14,208 --> 00:40:15,375
- I didn't put it
on the platters,
1130
00:40:15,458 --> 00:40:16,833
but I took it all
out of the oven.
1131
00:40:16,917 --> 00:40:18,833
- Excellent. You took it
out of the oven, but--
1132
00:40:18,917 --> 00:40:20,667
- So you're saying because
you put it on the platters,
1133
00:40:20,750 --> 00:40:22,333
that's a whole different--
- Yeah. I feel--
1134
00:40:22,417 --> 00:40:23,958
- I think it's like
a partnership.
1135
00:40:24,042 --> 00:40:25,833
- Because I pulled it out, but
I didn't put it on a platter,
1136
00:40:25,875 --> 00:40:27,750
that you're coming
at me for that?
1137
00:40:27,833 --> 00:40:29,625
- I feel like you're getting,
like, kind of like stuck in,
1138
00:40:29,708 --> 00:40:33,167
like, the, you know, like the
details of random scenarios,
1139
00:40:33,208 --> 00:40:35,792
but at the end of the day--
1140
00:40:35,875 --> 00:40:38,417
- I'm, like,
at a loss, actually.
1141
00:40:38,500 --> 00:40:40,083
- Like, you--
- Wait, no, no.
1142
00:40:40,083 --> 00:40:41,792
So all the, like--
1143
00:40:41,875 --> 00:40:44,750
So all the setup, everything
you didn't see doesn't apply?
1144
00:40:44,833 --> 00:40:46,292
The only thing
that you're concerned about
1145
00:40:46,417 --> 00:40:47,833
is that I didn't--
1146
00:40:47,875 --> 00:40:49,500
- No, that's not the only thing
I'm concerned about.
1147
00:40:49,542 --> 00:40:50,958
I'm making an example.
- Okay.
1148
00:40:51,042 --> 00:40:53,750
- I'm making an example
of her plating everything,
1149
00:40:53,833 --> 00:40:55,292
and you just standing there.
1150
00:40:55,375 --> 00:40:57,167
Like, that's my point.
1151
00:40:57,292 --> 00:40:58,583
- I'm just saying, like--
- No, no.
1152
00:40:58,667 --> 00:41:00,042
It seems like you're coming
at me and not asking,
1153
00:41:00,208 --> 00:41:01,667
did you help her set up--
1154
00:41:01,750 --> 00:41:03,417
- Listen, like, that's
one of my best friends.
1155
00:41:03,542 --> 00:41:05,167
- I get that.
- Of course, I'm gonna--
1156
00:41:05,250 --> 00:41:06,583
- But it seems like
you're attacking
1157
00:41:06,667 --> 00:41:08,417
rather than trying to
understand and get to know.
1158
00:41:08,417 --> 00:41:10,125
- No, I am fully
trying to understand...
1159
00:41:10,208 --> 00:41:11,958
- Okay.
- Why did you do this?
1160
00:41:12,042 --> 00:41:14,333
♪
1161
00:41:14,417 --> 00:41:16,208
Listen, at the end of the day,
1162
00:41:16,292 --> 00:41:19,167
I know this whole--
1163
00:41:19,208 --> 00:41:21,708
like, it's a lot more
1164
00:41:21,792 --> 00:41:24,042
that goes on
in the background, obviously.
1165
00:41:24,125 --> 00:41:25,375
- Yeah.
1166
00:41:25,458 --> 00:41:27,708
- But, to me, like,
let's be serious.
1167
00:41:27,833 --> 00:41:31,333
Like, why have you decided to
get married at first sight?
1168
00:41:31,417 --> 00:41:32,667
I'm not sure--
1169
00:41:32,750 --> 00:41:33,875
- I'm gonna answer
your question.
1170
00:41:33,958 --> 00:41:35,833
I'm trying to understand
the attack, though.
1171
00:41:35,917 --> 00:41:38,042
Is it that that's, like, making
you feel like you have
1172
00:41:38,167 --> 00:41:40,375
to ask me, like, my integrity
of why I'm doing the show?
1173
00:41:40,458 --> 00:41:41,625
- No, you don't like filming.
- No, no, no.
1174
00:41:41,708 --> 00:41:43,458
- You've made
miserable to film.
1175
00:41:43,542 --> 00:41:44,875
- [laughs] Miserable to film?
- No, no, no, no.
1176
00:41:44,958 --> 00:41:46,708
- You have.
- No, no, no. Hold on.
1177
00:41:46,792 --> 00:41:48,792
- That's what she told you?
No, no. I'm just get--
1178
00:41:48,875 --> 00:41:51,792
- Man, so angry.
Let's all relax for a second.
1179
00:41:51,875 --> 00:41:53,875
- I've met you guys
for an hour,
1180
00:41:53,958 --> 00:41:55,792
and you guys are coming at me
like it's nobody's business.
1181
00:41:55,875 --> 00:41:57,375
- Excuse me. Okay, listen.
- No, no, no, no.
1182
00:41:57,500 --> 00:41:58,958
Let's take a deep breath,
because Emily told you
1183
00:41:59,042 --> 00:42:00,750
some [bleep],
and you guys came in hot.
1184
00:42:00,833 --> 00:42:02,625
- Emily didn't tell me [bleep].
- Okay.
1185
00:42:02,708 --> 00:42:04,333
So you're just coming at me
out of the woodwork?
1186
00:42:04,375 --> 00:42:05,542
- I haven't said anything.
1187
00:42:05,625 --> 00:42:07,208
I've been asking you
questions, right?
1188
00:42:07,333 --> 00:42:08,458
- Uh-huh. Mm-hmm.
1189
00:42:08,542 --> 00:42:10,083
- So the question is--
1190
00:42:10,167 --> 00:42:12,417
You're married
to one of my best friends.
1191
00:42:12,542 --> 00:42:14,083
- Yeah.
- So who are--
1192
00:42:14,167 --> 00:42:17,125
Like, in my mind,
it's like, who are you?
1193
00:42:17,208 --> 00:42:18,917
Why are you here?
1194
00:42:19,042 --> 00:42:20,750
♪
1195
00:42:20,833 --> 00:42:22,875
And you can't give that to me.
1196
00:42:23,000 --> 00:42:24,625
- [scoffs]
1197
00:42:28,833 --> 00:42:29,833
What answer
are you looking for?
1198
00:42:29,958 --> 00:42:31,542
I'm just curious.
- I'm sorry, what?
1199
00:42:31,625 --> 00:42:33,583
- What answer
are you looking for?
1200
00:42:33,667 --> 00:42:35,500
Because I told you I'm here
1201
00:42:35,542 --> 00:42:37,083
because I felt
like something was missing.
1202
00:42:37,208 --> 00:42:39,375
And I'm here because
I want a romantic partner
1203
00:42:39,458 --> 00:42:41,083
that I can do life with.
- Perfect.
1204
00:42:41,167 --> 00:42:44,542
- But do you think, like,
you're emotionally ready
1205
00:42:44,625 --> 00:42:46,833
to, like, have
those conversations
1206
00:42:46,917 --> 00:42:50,167
and open up, like, fully and
like, let your guard down?
1207
00:42:50,208 --> 00:42:51,833
- I think so.
1208
00:42:51,875 --> 00:42:54,792
And I feel like I've done,
like, a decent job at it.
1209
00:42:54,875 --> 00:42:57,458
I know she wants me to be more
emotional and open up more,
1210
00:42:57,542 --> 00:42:58,875
so I'm trying.
1211
00:42:59,000 --> 00:43:00,792
I feel like we made
a lot of progress.
1212
00:43:00,875 --> 00:43:02,833
I'm not perfect, and, you know,
I can't be everything
1213
00:43:02,875 --> 00:43:05,167
she wants day one,
but, you know, hopefully
1214
00:43:05,208 --> 00:43:06,750
one day we'll get there.
1215
00:43:06,833 --> 00:43:09,417
- I do think, like,
you have good intentions.
1216
00:43:09,500 --> 00:43:13,000
I just am not sure that you...
1217
00:43:13,125 --> 00:43:15,958
like,
have the emotional capacity.
1218
00:43:16,042 --> 00:43:17,917
Like, I've dated guys
like that.
1219
00:43:18,000 --> 00:43:19,083
- So should I just quit now?
Is that what you're saying?
1220
00:43:19,208 --> 00:43:20,417
both: No.
1221
00:43:20,500 --> 00:43:22,000
- It's not there,
should I just quit?
1222
00:43:22,083 --> 00:43:23,792
- No. What? That's not what
I'm saying at all.
1223
00:43:23,875 --> 00:43:25,625
To me, there's no hostility
coming at you.
1224
00:43:25,708 --> 00:43:27,292
It's just genuinely,
like, being concerned
1225
00:43:27,375 --> 00:43:29,042
for, like, a good friend.
1226
00:43:29,042 --> 00:43:32,000
And your reactions
1227
00:43:32,125 --> 00:43:36,167
are, like, wild to me,
in my opinion.
1228
00:43:36,250 --> 00:43:37,875
♪
1229
00:43:37,958 --> 00:43:40,250
Like, you knew that you were
gonna get married
1230
00:43:40,375 --> 00:43:41,667
and be with someone.
1231
00:43:41,750 --> 00:43:43,333
You were gonna
move in with them,
1232
00:43:43,417 --> 00:43:44,875
and it was gonna
be, like, intensive.
1233
00:43:44,958 --> 00:43:47,167
Like, it's super intense.
It's not, like, all fun--
1234
00:43:47,250 --> 00:43:50,292
- I'm still here.
- Yeah.
1235
00:43:50,375 --> 00:43:52,125
- I mean, see, you don't
think that's an attack,
1236
00:43:52,208 --> 00:43:53,875
but it's, like, those
are digging words.
1237
00:43:53,958 --> 00:43:55,667
Like, I'm literally
sitting in front of you,
1238
00:43:55,792 --> 00:43:57,833
like, just taking hits
for what--Like, why?
1239
00:43:57,917 --> 00:43:59,375
- Listen, I wasn't--
1240
00:43:59,500 --> 00:44:01,500
- I'm here trying to make a
relationship with my girl.
1241
00:44:01,542 --> 00:44:02,917
- Brennan, listen.
- See? Like...
1242
00:44:03,000 --> 00:44:04,542
[chuckles] And then you go
back, and you're like--
1243
00:44:04,625 --> 00:44:06,708
You know, like, don't sit here
and act like you understand.
1244
00:44:06,792 --> 00:44:08,333
I'm not making excuses.
1245
00:44:08,375 --> 00:44:10,750
- Well, I do [bleep] understand
that you have signed up
1246
00:44:10,833 --> 00:44:12,875
for something,
and you are now married
1247
00:44:12,958 --> 00:44:13,917
to one of our best friends.
1248
00:44:14,042 --> 00:44:15,458
And that's where
we're coming at.
1249
00:44:15,542 --> 00:44:17,958
- I don't know you, so...
1250
00:44:18,042 --> 00:44:20,083
- You're right,
you don't know me.
1251
00:44:20,167 --> 00:44:22,958
And, like, that's exactly why
we're here, to get to know you.
1252
00:44:23,042 --> 00:44:25,875
And it feels like you're being
resistant to that.
1253
00:44:25,958 --> 00:44:29,083
- [chuckles]
- And you're, like--that's my--
1254
00:44:29,167 --> 00:44:31,750
- I am, because you're saying
these, like, big words
1255
00:44:31,833 --> 00:44:33,167
when you know me
for 20 minutes.
1256
00:44:33,250 --> 00:44:34,792
- You're right.
I don't know you that well.
1257
00:44:34,875 --> 00:44:36,583
But to me, it's like--
1258
00:44:36,708 --> 00:44:38,417
- But we are trying
to get to know you.
1259
00:44:38,417 --> 00:44:39,833
- Yeah.
- Like, this is my opinion.
1260
00:44:39,917 --> 00:44:42,125
You can hate me for it,
but it's like,
1261
00:44:42,208 --> 00:44:44,667
resistance
is what I, like, feel.
1262
00:44:44,792 --> 00:44:46,667
- It's like
emotionally guarded.
1263
00:44:46,708 --> 00:44:47,875
- I'm trying.
1264
00:44:47,958 --> 00:44:50,500
- And you just seem
super resistant.
1265
00:44:50,583 --> 00:44:52,625
- To what?
- To everything.
1266
00:44:52,708 --> 00:44:53,875
- Everything, okay.
1267
00:44:53,958 --> 00:44:55,542
- It's not attacking you.
1268
00:44:55,625 --> 00:44:59,167
It's just, like, dude,
like, I'm concerned.
1269
00:44:59,208 --> 00:45:02,083
♪
1270
00:45:02,167 --> 00:45:05,292
- ♪ So come, come
and live this moment ♪
1271
00:45:05,375 --> 00:45:07,583
♪ Like it's all we got
1272
00:45:07,583 --> 00:45:08,917
♪ Cheers to that
1273
00:45:09,000 --> 00:45:11,833
- Did you warm up the food?
- What do you mean?
1274
00:45:11,917 --> 00:45:14,375
- Did you warm up
the food in the oven?
1275
00:45:14,458 --> 00:45:16,625
- I mean, the oven is warm.
- No, you didn't.
1276
00:45:16,708 --> 00:45:18,167
It's okay.
1277
00:45:18,250 --> 00:45:20,167
- The oven is at--
Put your hand in there.
1278
00:45:20,250 --> 00:45:22,083
[oven door opens]
The food's not--
1279
00:45:22,167 --> 00:45:23,833
- Yeah, it's cold.
[chuckles] That's okay.
1280
00:45:23,875 --> 00:45:25,667
We'll just put this on to--
1281
00:45:25,792 --> 00:45:27,542
- The oven was just on,
like, 20 minutes ago.
1282
00:45:27,708 --> 00:45:29,583
[oven beeping]
- Oh.
1283
00:45:29,708 --> 00:45:31,833
- I think it's pretty dry.
1284
00:45:31,958 --> 00:45:33,542
- Oh, is that why you--
Oh, okay.
1285
00:45:33,667 --> 00:45:36,667
- I mean, I took a look at it,
and it looks several days old.
1286
00:45:36,708 --> 00:45:38,667
- [laughs] Oh, no.
1287
00:45:38,708 --> 00:45:40,542
Hey, guys, welcome
to our housewarming party.
1288
00:45:40,625 --> 00:45:41,917
The food is five hours old.
1289
00:45:42,042 --> 00:45:45,583
- I mean, look at the nachos.
They are--
1290
00:45:45,708 --> 00:45:47,083
- You're right,
and that was my bad.
1291
00:45:47,167 --> 00:45:49,042
We should have waited
to get the food,
1292
00:45:49,167 --> 00:45:51,750
because I was so wanting to
prepare ahead that I was like,
1293
00:45:51,833 --> 00:45:53,458
yeah, let's get it now.
1294
00:45:53,458 --> 00:45:56,875
And like in reality, you know,
it's five hours old.
1295
00:45:56,958 --> 00:45:59,000
But I'm still gonna eat it
because I'm hungry.
1296
00:45:59,042 --> 00:46:00,833
Are you gonna eat?
- I'm gonna have some.
1297
00:46:00,875 --> 00:46:04,125
[knock at door]
1298
00:46:04,208 --> 00:46:05,042
- Yoo-hoo.
1299
00:46:05,125 --> 00:46:06,500
- Hi.
1300
00:46:06,625 --> 00:46:08,250
- Hey, how are you?.
- Good to see you.
1301
00:46:08,250 --> 00:46:09,500
I'm good. How are you?
1302
00:46:09,625 --> 00:46:11,000
- Look at you,
you brought your pot.
1303
00:46:11,042 --> 00:46:12,500
- Mm-hmm.
- Oh, we love that.
1304
00:46:12,542 --> 00:46:13,917
- Do not drink out of a cup.
1305
00:46:14,042 --> 00:46:15,958
- Okay, so, Amy...
- Nice to meet you.
1306
00:46:16,042 --> 00:46:17,917
- This is my husband, Cameron.
- Hey, nice to meet you.
1307
00:46:18,000 --> 00:46:19,833
- [laughs]
- Amy?
1308
00:46:19,833 --> 00:46:21,750
- Yeah. Yeah.
- Yeah. Got it.
1309
00:46:21,833 --> 00:46:24,000
- Yeah, we got treats,
we got yummies.
1310
00:46:24,083 --> 00:46:25,708
- Yeah, we got plenty of food.
- This is beautiful.
1311
00:46:25,708 --> 00:46:27,042
- Look at my drink.
1312
00:46:27,208 --> 00:46:29,167
- [laughs]
- It was a frozen marg,
1313
00:46:29,250 --> 00:46:31,167
and now it just looks like
water, which is sad.
1314
00:46:31,208 --> 00:46:34,042
- Put it on the stove?
- Yeah. That's what he said.
1315
00:46:34,125 --> 00:46:36,000
My friends are, like,
everything to me.
1316
00:46:36,083 --> 00:46:38,708
And so I really hope that
my friends like Cameron.
1317
00:46:38,792 --> 00:46:40,667
That would ease
my anxiety a lot.
1318
00:46:40,708 --> 00:46:43,375
I think I would just be, like,
more open.
1319
00:46:43,458 --> 00:46:45,792
I was like, I'm a little scared
that I'm gonna be in a room
1320
00:46:45,875 --> 00:46:47,333
with three therapists.
1321
00:46:47,375 --> 00:46:48,917
He's like, normally,
that would not settle--
1322
00:46:49,000 --> 00:46:50,292
well, he didn't say scared.
- Oh, yeah.
1323
00:46:50,375 --> 00:46:52,000
- But he said--
- This will be fun.
1324
00:46:52,042 --> 00:46:53,667
- Yeah. He said--he was like,
most people wouldn't be
1325
00:46:53,708 --> 00:46:55,917
comfortable with that.
1326
00:46:56,000 --> 00:46:58,083
- I'm completely comfortable.
1327
00:46:58,167 --> 00:47:00,667
- [laughs]
1328
00:47:00,750 --> 00:47:02,167
♪
1329
00:47:02,208 --> 00:47:04,000
- Distant.
both: Distant?
1330
00:47:04,042 --> 00:47:05,833
- Yeah.
both: Yeah.
1331
00:47:05,917 --> 00:47:07,708
- Does he know you're on this?
- No.
1332
00:47:07,708 --> 00:47:09,625
- [gasps]
- Really?
1333
00:47:09,625 --> 00:47:13,500
- What would you like to tell
a man who's on his deathbed?
1334
00:47:13,583 --> 00:47:15,000
- Oh.
1335
00:47:15,042 --> 00:47:17,000
- Is that a conversation
that you want to have?
1336
00:47:17,083 --> 00:47:19,250
- Oh, wow, okay, first of all,
did not realize
1337
00:47:19,375 --> 00:47:20,542
either of those things.
1338
00:47:20,625 --> 00:47:21,917
I didn't know you
didn't tell him,
1339
00:47:22,000 --> 00:47:23,333
and I didn't know that
he was sick, so I'm sorry.
1340
00:47:23,417 --> 00:47:25,667
- Very sick.
- I'm very sorry to hear that.
1341
00:47:25,708 --> 00:47:27,333
That's really heavy stuff.
1342
00:47:27,417 --> 00:47:30,292
[dramatic music]
1343
00:47:34,708 --> 00:47:36,375
♪
1344
00:47:36,458 --> 00:47:39,208
Well, what would he think
if he knew?
1345
00:47:40,875 --> 00:47:42,417
- I don't know, honestly.
1346
00:47:42,500 --> 00:47:43,833
- Really?
- Yeah.
1347
00:47:43,917 --> 00:47:45,958
- Okay, we don't have
to go there.
1348
00:47:45,958 --> 00:47:48,500
It's really strange to me
that he's bringing up
1349
00:47:48,583 --> 00:47:52,333
really heavy things in public
1350
00:47:52,417 --> 00:47:54,333
or, you know,
in front of people,
1351
00:47:54,417 --> 00:47:56,500
when he won't even do
that with me
1352
00:47:56,583 --> 00:47:58,250
in private.
1353
00:47:58,333 --> 00:48:00,500
I'm just really confused,
honestly.
1354
00:48:00,625 --> 00:48:03,792
I feel like he doesn't trust
me enough to just, like...
1355
00:48:03,875 --> 00:48:05,958
tell me,
and that's weird to me.
1356
00:48:06,042 --> 00:48:07,417
I don't know.
1357
00:48:07,500 --> 00:48:09,042
We are married.
- Mm-hmm.
1358
00:48:09,125 --> 00:48:10,583
- And I think it's true,
like, that most people
1359
00:48:10,708 --> 00:48:12,625
wouldn't be comfortable.
[doorbell rings]
1360
00:48:12,708 --> 00:48:14,958
- I had something--
- Ah.
1361
00:48:17,125 --> 00:48:19,542
- [chuckles] My sister.
- [grunting] You're late.
1362
00:48:19,667 --> 00:48:21,000
Where your cup?
1363
00:48:21,083 --> 00:48:23,083
- Oh, we have brought two,
actually.
1364
00:48:23,167 --> 00:48:25,292
- Wait. Guys, those are
literally actually cups.
1365
00:48:25,375 --> 00:48:28,833
- No, they're deli containers.
- [laughs] Hello, hello, hello.
1366
00:48:28,917 --> 00:48:30,708
- Hi, congratulations.
- Thank you.
1367
00:48:30,833 --> 00:48:32,292
- Yeah, congratulations.
1368
00:48:32,375 --> 00:48:33,833
- You guys are about
to meet my husband.
1369
00:48:33,875 --> 00:48:35,333
- There he is.
1370
00:48:35,375 --> 00:48:37,042
- And also, you'll check
out the new place.
1371
00:48:37,125 --> 00:48:38,667
- Hey, girl.
- Hi.
1372
00:48:38,708 --> 00:48:40,167
- Yo, what's up?
1373
00:48:40,250 --> 00:48:41,833
- I'm Ross. Great to meet you.
- How are you?
1374
00:48:41,917 --> 00:48:43,625
- I'm good. How are you doing?
- Cameron.
1375
00:48:43,708 --> 00:48:45,083
- Cameron. Rob.
Nice to meet you.
1376
00:48:45,167 --> 00:48:47,167
- I'm gonna get you
guys a margarita.
1377
00:48:47,208 --> 00:48:48,375
Do you guys want
a strawberry marg?
1378
00:48:48,458 --> 00:48:49,958
- Sure.
1379
00:48:50,042 --> 00:48:51,292
- 'Cause that's
the only flavor we got.
1380
00:48:51,375 --> 00:48:53,292
- Okay. Well, no, we don't.
- Oh, okay. I'm sorry.
1381
00:48:53,375 --> 00:48:54,667
- Cameron. We have--
- I'm sorry.
1382
00:48:54,708 --> 00:48:56,583
- Strike one.
[laughter]
1383
00:48:56,667 --> 00:48:58,167
- No, no, no, no, no.
1384
00:48:58,250 --> 00:49:00,917
We're on the secondhand
strikes at this point.
1385
00:49:01,042 --> 00:49:02,417
- Oh.
- Yeah, don't you worry.
1386
00:49:02,542 --> 00:49:04,500
- Okay, so sorry.
Sorry to interrupt, but--
1387
00:49:04,542 --> 00:49:07,500
[blender whirring]
1388
00:49:07,583 --> 00:49:10,208
♪
1389
00:49:10,292 --> 00:49:14,917
Okay, cheers to this new
home, my new husband--
1390
00:49:15,000 --> 00:49:17,708
wild to stay still--
and to friends.
1391
00:49:17,792 --> 00:49:20,458
all: Cheers.
1392
00:49:20,542 --> 00:49:22,333
- Can you pass me a plate?
- Absolutely.
1393
00:49:22,417 --> 00:49:24,750
- Thanks, gorge.
- Absolutely. [laughs]
1394
00:49:24,833 --> 00:49:27,000
- How's it going?
1395
00:49:27,083 --> 00:49:29,000
- Marriage has
been a wild ride.
1396
00:49:29,042 --> 00:49:30,833
It's been--
1397
00:49:31,000 --> 00:49:33,333
[laughs] I've felt literally
every single emotion
1398
00:49:33,417 --> 00:49:35,292
that I could possibly feel,
and it's like--
1399
00:49:35,292 --> 00:49:37,292
- Do I have to, like, pull out
the feelings wheel, and--
1400
00:49:37,375 --> 00:49:38,875
- Yeah, that feelings wheel,
exactly.
1401
00:49:38,958 --> 00:49:40,417
- And how is that for you, Cam?
1402
00:49:40,542 --> 00:49:44,333
How do you handle Clare's
emotions, numerous as they are?
1403
00:49:44,375 --> 00:49:46,667
- [laughs] Hey.
1404
00:49:46,750 --> 00:49:48,417
- I think--
I think pretty well.
1405
00:49:48,500 --> 00:49:52,250
I mean, I give her
the whole standoffish...
1406
00:49:52,375 --> 00:49:54,167
and then I come back later
and say sorry.
1407
00:49:54,292 --> 00:49:56,958
You know, it kind of
just works out, right?
1408
00:49:57,042 --> 00:49:59,208
- Pretty healthy, I would say.
1409
00:49:59,333 --> 00:50:03,167
- I mean, 'cause if I engage,
it just, you know...
1410
00:50:03,292 --> 00:50:05,167
- But Clare's always right,
is what you're saying.
1411
00:50:05,208 --> 00:50:06,667
- Yeah.
Isn't that correct, though?
1412
00:50:06,750 --> 00:50:08,042
- I'm not gonna disagree
with that.
1413
00:50:08,125 --> 00:50:09,208
- Exactly.
1414
00:50:09,292 --> 00:50:11,000
- I'm not gonna disagree
with that.
1415
00:50:11,042 --> 00:50:12,958
- What made you want to
do this whole process?
1416
00:50:13,042 --> 00:50:14,667
- Good question.
1417
00:50:14,708 --> 00:50:17,333
- I mean, I...
1418
00:50:17,417 --> 00:50:20,000
I've always wanted
to be married.
1419
00:50:20,042 --> 00:50:21,542
- Mm-hmm.
- I was single.
1420
00:50:21,625 --> 00:50:24,958
I didn't have any, like,
immediate relationship baggage
1421
00:50:25,042 --> 00:50:26,583
that I was, like,
worried about, you know,
1422
00:50:26,667 --> 00:50:29,625
bringing into a marriage
or anything like that.
1423
00:50:29,708 --> 00:50:32,375
And I was financially stable.
1424
00:50:32,458 --> 00:50:34,292
I just looked
at all the things,
1425
00:50:34,375 --> 00:50:36,167
and I was like, I think
it's the right time
1426
00:50:36,208 --> 00:50:39,542
in my life for this commitment
of marriage.
1427
00:50:39,625 --> 00:50:42,708
And there was
nothing that said no...
1428
00:50:42,708 --> 00:50:44,917
- Mm-hmm.
- So, you know...
1429
00:50:45,000 --> 00:50:47,000
And I'm an adventurous
kind of person, and--
1430
00:50:47,083 --> 00:50:48,792
- Do you regret it?
1431
00:50:48,875 --> 00:50:51,125
♪
1432
00:50:51,208 --> 00:50:53,083
- [chuckles]
1433
00:50:53,167 --> 00:50:55,208
- I would say, um...
1434
00:50:55,292 --> 00:50:57,833
I will never get married
at first sight again,
1435
00:50:57,917 --> 00:51:00,583
but I'm very happy
I did this time.
1436
00:51:00,667 --> 00:51:01,958
- Oh, good answer.
1437
00:51:02,042 --> 00:51:03,417
- Right, because
marriage is for life.
1438
00:51:03,500 --> 00:51:05,375
- What does your
family think of it?
1439
00:51:05,458 --> 00:51:08,167
- Well, the family
that know about it,
1440
00:51:08,208 --> 00:51:09,833
they are very supportive.
- Oh.
1441
00:51:09,917 --> 00:51:11,708
We've learned a lot tonight.
- Mm-hmm.
1442
00:51:11,833 --> 00:51:13,333
- And we're learning
even more.
1443
00:51:13,417 --> 00:51:15,333
- Clare's friends
are all therapists.
1444
00:51:15,375 --> 00:51:20,208
So I know that they
will psychoanalyze me.
1445
00:51:20,333 --> 00:51:23,917
But it's very helpful to get
advice outside of my bubble
1446
00:51:24,042 --> 00:51:25,958
and just, you know, hear
their thoughts
1447
00:51:26,042 --> 00:51:27,667
on what we're going through.
1448
00:51:27,750 --> 00:51:29,833
- So how have things been?
1449
00:51:29,917 --> 00:51:33,750
- Uh...bumpy.
- Bumpy.
1450
00:51:33,833 --> 00:51:35,542
- I'd say is fair, yeah.
1451
00:51:35,625 --> 00:51:37,292
Um...
1452
00:51:37,292 --> 00:51:40,458
but, um, I mean, I think
every day I spend with Clare,
1453
00:51:40,542 --> 00:51:42,208
I get deeper and deeper
feelings for her,
1454
00:51:42,292 --> 00:51:44,417
because I really do like her.
1455
00:51:44,500 --> 00:51:46,208
She's hands down
1456
00:51:46,208 --> 00:51:48,333
the smartest girl
I've ever been lucky enough
1457
00:51:48,417 --> 00:51:50,125
to be in a relationship with.
1458
00:51:50,208 --> 00:51:52,167
- There are several things
that I really enjoy.
1459
00:51:52,208 --> 00:51:55,000
He's, you know, very smart,
as you can pick up on.
1460
00:51:55,083 --> 00:51:56,833
- Mm-hmm.
- He's very educated.
1461
00:51:56,958 --> 00:51:58,667
I respect him so much
as a person,
1462
00:51:58,750 --> 00:52:03,125
and I know he respects me,
but sometimes I wonder, like,
1463
00:52:03,250 --> 00:52:04,833
is it enough?
- Mm-hmm.
1464
00:52:04,875 --> 00:52:08,667
- Like, is this enough
to make a lifelong marriage?
1465
00:52:08,708 --> 00:52:11,208
- Right now it's, like,
super-weird feelings
1466
00:52:11,292 --> 00:52:16,083
because I feel like
I'm maybe bearing more
1467
00:52:16,167 --> 00:52:19,125
of the emotional struggle
in this moment,
1468
00:52:19,208 --> 00:52:21,958
just, like. really kind
of feeling like I'm sinking
1469
00:52:22,042 --> 00:52:23,500
versus swimming.
1470
00:52:23,542 --> 00:52:24,375
♪
1471
00:52:28,250 --> 00:52:29,708
- Um...
- Like, what do you mean?
1472
00:52:29,708 --> 00:52:30,542
Like, what happened?
1473
00:52:30,917 --> 00:52:34,250
- So, I mean, just to kind
of say what's on my mind--
1474
00:52:34,333 --> 00:52:39,500
the topic of religion came up.
1475
00:52:39,583 --> 00:52:43,708
And I am open to having
a partner of any religion.
1476
00:52:43,708 --> 00:52:46,833
But just--I would never want
to raise my children religious.
1477
00:52:46,917 --> 00:52:48,375
- Right.
1478
00:52:48,458 --> 00:52:50,167
- Clare, obviously, feels
differently about that.
1479
00:52:50,208 --> 00:52:52,417
- He is very anti-religion.
1480
00:52:52,500 --> 00:52:55,667
Thinks like, if we were to
raise our kids religious,
1481
00:52:55,750 --> 00:52:58,333
it would completely,
like, brainwash them.
1482
00:52:58,417 --> 00:53:00,333
- Mm-hmm.
- And I just don't see it
1483
00:53:00,333 --> 00:53:02,667
that way just because I have
had personal experiences
1484
00:53:02,750 --> 00:53:04,167
with my own faith.
1485
00:53:04,250 --> 00:53:05,917
- I think all you can do is
just be as open
1486
00:53:06,000 --> 00:53:07,333
as you possibly can.
- Totally.
1487
00:53:07,458 --> 00:53:10,125
- Try to let go
of some of the stress.
1488
00:53:10,125 --> 00:53:11,292
- Yeah.
- And as far as the kids thing,
1489
00:53:11,375 --> 00:53:13,042
it's like, in most situations,
1490
00:53:13,125 --> 00:53:15,000
there's a compromise
that can be made.
1491
00:53:15,083 --> 00:53:17,000
But that's a tough
one to compromise on.
1492
00:53:17,125 --> 00:53:18,417
- What do you do?
1493
00:53:18,500 --> 00:53:20,667
- You know, I don't
think you and Clare
1494
00:53:20,750 --> 00:53:22,500
need to say right now
that there's no way
1495
00:53:22,583 --> 00:53:24,208
that you could make that work.
1496
00:53:24,292 --> 00:53:26,667
Not every--Relationship
isn't always honeymoon phase,
1497
00:53:26,750 --> 00:53:28,375
love, love, love,
everything is great.
1498
00:53:28,458 --> 00:53:29,792
It takes a lot of effort.
1499
00:53:29,875 --> 00:53:31,750
It can be really daunting
to try and find
1500
00:53:31,875 --> 00:53:33,667
some middle ground on.
1501
00:53:33,750 --> 00:53:36,208
But, you know, keep exploring,
like, your romantic connection
1502
00:53:36,333 --> 00:53:37,917
and, like, maybe,
like, what brought you
1503
00:53:38,000 --> 00:53:39,208
to this experience.
- Yeah.
1504
00:53:39,333 --> 00:53:41,417
- Like, this already
was something
1505
00:53:41,500 --> 00:53:43,875
that you wouldn't normally do.
1506
00:53:43,958 --> 00:53:45,917
So really, like, lean
into that.
1507
00:53:46,042 --> 00:53:47,917
Like, just see where
that leads you,
1508
00:53:48,000 --> 00:53:50,083
and I think both of you
would surprise each other
1509
00:53:50,167 --> 00:53:51,333
with where you go.
1510
00:53:51,458 --> 00:53:53,333
- Cameron's interesting.
1511
00:53:53,375 --> 00:53:55,167
You know, it's great
to get to know him.
1512
00:53:55,292 --> 00:53:56,625
He's a lot of fun.
1513
00:53:56,708 --> 00:53:58,333
I feel like he--
1514
00:53:58,458 --> 00:54:01,500
he has a lot of really valid
and important feelings
1515
00:54:01,542 --> 00:54:03,333
and things to say,
but it doesn't feel
1516
00:54:03,375 --> 00:54:05,250
like he always knows
how to say them.
1517
00:54:05,333 --> 00:54:06,667
And just knowing
Clare, you know,
1518
00:54:06,792 --> 00:54:09,542
I do wonder how that's
gonna work out for them.
1519
00:54:09,542 --> 00:54:11,792
- We just have, like,
very different
1520
00:54:11,875 --> 00:54:13,833
foundational backgrounds.
1521
00:54:13,875 --> 00:54:15,792
When he brought up his dad...
- Mm-hmm.
1522
00:54:15,875 --> 00:54:18,417
- The way that he just, like,
ripped that
1523
00:54:18,500 --> 00:54:21,250
out of, like, nowhere, like,
I would have liked to have
1524
00:54:21,375 --> 00:54:23,125
that conversation
without you there
1525
00:54:23,208 --> 00:54:25,167
so that we could actually talk
about it
1526
00:54:25,250 --> 00:54:26,667
instead of being
in, like, a social setting
1527
00:54:26,792 --> 00:54:28,333
where it's like,
we're eating cookies,
1528
00:54:28,417 --> 00:54:29,542
and all of a sudden, you say,
1529
00:54:29,625 --> 00:54:31,417
my dad is, like,
on his deathbed.
1530
00:54:31,500 --> 00:54:32,833
Like, that really
threw me for a loop.
1531
00:54:32,958 --> 00:54:34,333
I was like, whoa.
- Me too.
1532
00:54:34,417 --> 00:54:36,000
- As you know, like,
family is very important.
1533
00:54:36,083 --> 00:54:37,583
- Yeah.
- And so for me
1534
00:54:37,667 --> 00:54:40,292
to be with someone
where it seems like his family
1535
00:54:40,375 --> 00:54:44,167
is not as maybe involved...
- Mm-hmm.
1536
00:54:44,250 --> 00:54:45,833
- I just have a hard
time with that.
1537
00:54:45,917 --> 00:54:47,000
- Yeah.
1538
00:54:47,083 --> 00:54:49,333
♪
1539
00:54:49,417 --> 00:54:51,500
- ♪ Do it for the love of me
1540
00:54:51,542 --> 00:54:53,250
♪ Whoa, oh, oh, oh, oh
1541
00:54:53,333 --> 00:54:55,167
- ♪ Hey
- ♪ Whoa, oh
1542
00:54:55,250 --> 00:54:57,292
- I love when our friends
hang out.
1543
00:54:57,375 --> 00:54:58,542
- Yeah?
- I'd like to do it more often.
1544
00:54:58,667 --> 00:54:59,792
- You think they all
liked each other?
1545
00:54:59,875 --> 00:55:01,125
- Yeah.
1546
00:55:01,208 --> 00:55:02,208
- You think they
want to hang out more?
1547
00:55:02,292 --> 00:55:03,083
- Yeah.
- With each other?
1548
00:55:03,208 --> 00:55:04,167
- Yeah.
- And us?
1549
00:55:04,250 --> 00:55:05,625
- Yeah.
- Nice. Me too.
1550
00:55:05,708 --> 00:55:07,750
- You think so, too?
- I think so, too.
1551
00:55:07,833 --> 00:55:09,667
- I think that means
we're good people.
1552
00:55:09,708 --> 00:55:11,125
- Does it mean
we're good people?
1553
00:55:11,208 --> 00:55:12,667
- Yeah.
1554
00:55:12,750 --> 00:55:14,333
- Or does it just mean
we carry good company?
1555
00:55:14,458 --> 00:55:16,417
And what does that mean
for our relationship?
1556
00:55:16,500 --> 00:55:18,667
- Ah, this is a lot
over pizza, but--
1557
00:55:18,708 --> 00:55:20,333
[both chuckle]
1558
00:55:20,375 --> 00:55:22,583
I think it means good things
for our relationship.
1559
00:55:22,667 --> 00:55:25,333
I think to know that we have,
like, a good community
1560
00:55:25,417 --> 00:55:27,333
behind us--and I told Derik
it's almost like having,
1561
00:55:27,417 --> 00:55:29,000
like, references
for each other,
1562
00:55:29,042 --> 00:55:31,208
where it's like, I know
that you're a good person,
1563
00:55:31,292 --> 00:55:33,792
and if other people have been
in your life for that long,
1564
00:55:33,875 --> 00:55:36,333
like, obviously,
I can do it, too.
1565
00:55:36,458 --> 00:55:39,167
[both laughing]
That sounded bad.
1566
00:55:39,208 --> 00:55:41,042
Like, if they've
put up with it...
1567
00:55:41,125 --> 00:55:43,292
- [chuckles]
I guess you can, too.
1568
00:55:43,375 --> 00:55:45,042
You are married
to it now, so...
1569
00:55:45,167 --> 00:55:46,417
- Mm-hmm. I think I--
1570
00:55:46,500 --> 00:55:49,083
I also just really
enjoy your friends,
1571
00:55:49,167 --> 00:55:51,917
which is always nice, because,
like, in past relationships
1572
00:55:52,000 --> 00:55:54,292
when I have to go hang out
with their friends, I'm like...
1573
00:55:54,375 --> 00:55:56,167
[groans]
- Oh, really?
1574
00:55:56,167 --> 00:55:57,667
- Yeah.
- That sucks.
1575
00:55:57,708 --> 00:55:59,875
- Well, good for you.
You have good friends.
1576
00:55:59,958 --> 00:56:01,250
- I do have good friends.
1577
00:56:01,375 --> 00:56:02,750
- Derik said that religion
in the past
1578
00:56:02,833 --> 00:56:04,667
hasn't really been
an issue for Austin.
1579
00:56:04,750 --> 00:56:06,208
It could be that Austin's
maybe just growing stronger
1580
00:56:06,292 --> 00:56:08,458
in his faith right now.
1581
00:56:08,542 --> 00:56:11,542
I'm not sure
exactly what that means,
1582
00:56:11,625 --> 00:56:13,292
but I just don't want to push.
1583
00:56:13,375 --> 00:56:14,833
I don't want to push too hard.
1584
00:56:14,875 --> 00:56:18,542
But, more importantly,
I just want to get intimacy
1585
00:56:18,542 --> 00:56:21,292
to work and try to get us
to a place
1586
00:56:21,375 --> 00:56:23,792
where we both feel connected.
1587
00:56:23,875 --> 00:56:26,083
I think what's next for us
is just having fun,
1588
00:56:26,167 --> 00:56:29,333
because I think that's where
our intimacy will come from.
1589
00:56:29,417 --> 00:56:31,208
♪
1590
00:56:31,292 --> 00:56:34,167
- Well, that was fun.
- [muffled] I agree.
1591
00:56:34,250 --> 00:56:36,333
- [laughs]
- We'll do it again.
1592
00:56:36,375 --> 00:56:37,667
- I would totally it that.
1593
00:56:37,708 --> 00:56:39,292
both:
We should do it again.
1594
00:56:39,375 --> 00:56:41,125
- Yep.
- Tomorrow.
1595
00:56:41,208 --> 00:56:42,250
- No.
1596
00:56:42,333 --> 00:56:43,833
- The next day.
1597
00:56:43,917 --> 00:56:45,250
- S-sure.
1598
00:56:45,375 --> 00:56:46,792
♪
1599
00:56:46,875 --> 00:56:48,958
Probably should've opened up.
There we go.
1600
00:56:49,042 --> 00:56:51,042
♪
1601
00:56:55,042 --> 00:56:56,875
[smooth music]
1602
00:56:56,875 --> 00:56:58,917
♪
1603
00:56:59,042 --> 00:57:01,250
- I feel like I needed that.
Did you have fun?
1604
00:57:01,333 --> 00:57:03,250
- Yeah.
I like your friends a lot.
1605
00:57:03,375 --> 00:57:04,833
They're all very smart.
1606
00:57:04,917 --> 00:57:06,792
You had a good time?
1607
00:57:06,875 --> 00:57:09,875
- Well, okay, I feel
like there are some things
1608
00:57:09,958 --> 00:57:13,542
that you say, like--
that you said in that group
1609
00:57:13,667 --> 00:57:15,333
that we haven't discussed,
you and I.
1610
00:57:15,458 --> 00:57:17,458
- Yeah.
1611
00:57:17,542 --> 00:57:19,833
- So, like, that to me took me
by surprise, honestly,
1612
00:57:19,958 --> 00:57:20,833
some of the information.
1613
00:57:20,958 --> 00:57:23,167
I'm just taken
aback a little bit.
1614
00:57:23,208 --> 00:57:24,333
- Okay.
1615
00:57:24,417 --> 00:57:25,875
- I just wanted
to let you know.
1616
00:57:25,958 --> 00:57:27,875
♪
1617
00:57:27,958 --> 00:57:29,667
- Okay.
1618
00:57:29,708 --> 00:57:31,625
- So...
1619
00:57:31,708 --> 00:57:33,167
- Well, she asked,
so I told her.
1620
00:57:33,292 --> 00:57:37,125
- No, I know, but, I mean,
I have asked about your past.
1621
00:57:37,208 --> 00:57:38,542
- Do your parents know, though?
1622
00:57:38,625 --> 00:57:39,708
- About this?
- Yes.
1623
00:57:39,833 --> 00:57:41,667
- Yeah, so the plan is...
- Uh-huh.
1624
00:57:41,708 --> 00:57:43,500
- Is that we go back,
1625
00:57:43,542 --> 00:57:45,917
and we have a second wedding
in New Zealand.
1626
00:57:46,000 --> 00:57:47,250
- I love that.
So they can be there.
1627
00:57:47,333 --> 00:57:48,667
- If you want, yeah.
1628
00:57:48,708 --> 00:57:51,542
- So I don't know,
that just kind of--
1629
00:57:51,625 --> 00:57:53,875
I was like, wow, we've not had
that conversation,
1630
00:57:53,958 --> 00:57:56,042
so I'm surprised he's bringing
it up at this time
1631
00:57:56,167 --> 00:57:57,917
and this moment.
1632
00:57:58,000 --> 00:58:01,125
- I tend to open up
more in a relationship,
1633
00:58:01,208 --> 00:58:04,875
but right now I feel
like I'm stuck between a rock
1634
00:58:05,000 --> 00:58:06,208
and a hard place.
1635
00:58:06,333 --> 00:58:08,667
I have feelings for her.
I do like her.
1636
00:58:08,750 --> 00:58:12,750
But there's no real expression
of feelings towards me.
1637
00:58:12,833 --> 00:58:15,875
There's no chance of intimacy.
1638
00:58:15,958 --> 00:58:19,875
It's very difficult
to build a relationship,
1639
00:58:19,958 --> 00:58:23,333
a marriage with someone,
given the circumstances.
1640
00:58:23,458 --> 00:58:25,792
- I'll just sit here...
1641
00:58:25,875 --> 00:58:27,500
do whatever it is
that you need.
1642
00:58:27,542 --> 00:58:29,250
- I don't need anything.
1643
00:58:29,375 --> 00:58:30,667
- I just feel like you don't
want to put the mental energy
1644
00:58:30,750 --> 00:58:32,208
into it right now.
1645
00:58:32,292 --> 00:58:33,667
And I'm understanding
of that, so...
1646
00:58:33,750 --> 00:58:35,000
- Yeah, definitely.
- That's fair.
1647
00:58:35,125 --> 00:58:41,333
♪
1648
00:58:41,375 --> 00:58:45,167
[upbeat music]
1649
00:58:45,167 --> 00:58:46,167
- I love your friends.
1650
00:58:46,208 --> 00:58:47,708
- Yeah.
- I don't know.
1651
00:58:47,833 --> 00:58:49,500
I feel like they definitely
really understand you,
1652
00:58:49,542 --> 00:58:51,167
which was good to hear.
1653
00:58:51,250 --> 00:58:53,667
- Mm-hmm.
- And then my friends...
1654
00:58:53,708 --> 00:58:56,500
- It did not go as well,
I will say.
1655
00:58:56,625 --> 00:58:58,583
I think, like, your friends
1656
00:58:58,667 --> 00:59:00,625
pretty much, like,
came at me unfairly.
1657
00:59:00,708 --> 00:59:04,792
They questioned my drive,
1658
00:59:04,875 --> 00:59:08,667
so I obviously defended myself,
1659
00:59:08,792 --> 00:59:10,875
and they didn't like that
very much.
1660
00:59:10,958 --> 00:59:12,917
They called it being defensive.
1661
00:59:13,000 --> 00:59:15,000
And I think there's
a huge difference
1662
00:59:15,042 --> 00:59:17,625
between being defensive
and standing up for yourself.
1663
00:59:17,708 --> 00:59:20,792
And I just wasn't gonna
let them attack me
1664
00:59:20,875 --> 00:59:22,750
and, like, come at my character
1665
00:59:22,833 --> 00:59:24,708
without me standing up
for myself.
1666
00:59:24,792 --> 00:59:26,667
- Yeah, and, like, I would hope
you'd say that.
1667
00:59:26,708 --> 00:59:28,083
And, like, I'm sorry,
they did that,
1668
00:59:28,167 --> 00:59:29,917
but I will say, like,
on the flip side,
1669
00:59:30,042 --> 00:59:32,042
like, I think at the end of
the day, they're just, like--
1670
00:59:32,042 --> 00:59:33,375
they care about me.
1671
00:59:33,500 --> 00:59:35,708
But even though I wasn't there,
1672
00:59:35,792 --> 00:59:37,417
like, I don't think
that's, like, fair
1673
00:59:37,500 --> 00:59:38,917
that you got treated that way.
1674
00:59:39,000 --> 00:59:41,625
I wouldn't want your friends
to treat me like that.
1675
00:59:41,708 --> 00:59:44,083
I do think, like, my friends
are a reflection of me.
1676
00:59:44,167 --> 00:59:47,333
So I really think
it's because they care.
1677
00:59:47,375 --> 00:59:49,042
- Yeah.
1678
00:59:49,167 --> 00:59:52,917
- And so, if that came off
in a bad way to you, I'm sorry.
1679
00:59:53,000 --> 00:59:54,792
- You have nothing
to apologize for.
1680
00:59:54,875 --> 00:59:56,000
♪
1681
00:59:56,083 --> 00:59:57,833
Tonight I was just hoping
for no drama,
1682
00:59:57,917 --> 01:00:00,000
and that was not the case,
unfortunately.
1683
01:00:00,083 --> 01:00:02,000
But I think, you know,
what I was doing
1684
01:00:02,042 --> 01:00:04,417
was standing up
for myself and my marriage.
1685
01:00:04,500 --> 01:00:06,958
I just--I hope
our next interaction,
1686
01:00:07,042 --> 01:00:09,167
they come from more
of a, you know,
1687
01:00:09,250 --> 01:00:11,833
trying to understand,
rather than, you know,
1688
01:00:11,917 --> 01:00:14,500
this is it,
and this is my judgment on you.
1689
01:00:14,625 --> 01:00:16,875
The reality is,
Emily was very supportive,
1690
01:00:16,958 --> 01:00:18,625
and I give her a lot of credit
1691
01:00:18,708 --> 01:00:21,083
for how she's acted
in this type of moment.
1692
01:00:21,208 --> 01:00:25,083
So I appreciated her having
my back in that situation.
1693
01:00:25,167 --> 01:00:27,583
All we can do is go up
from here, right?
1694
01:00:27,667 --> 01:00:29,250
- We just...
1695
01:00:29,375 --> 01:00:31,292
- Growth trajectory.
1696
01:00:31,375 --> 01:00:34,542
- ♪ I waited
1697
01:00:34,625 --> 01:00:38,333
♪ And I waited for so long
1698
01:00:38,417 --> 01:00:41,792
♪
1699
01:00:41,875 --> 01:00:44,917
- Hi, friends!
- Look who it is.
1700
01:00:45,000 --> 01:00:47,042
- Next time
on "Married at First Sight"...
1701
01:00:47,167 --> 01:00:49,792
- I am head over heels...
- Don't make me cry.
1702
01:00:49,875 --> 01:00:52,083
Don't do it.
[chuckles]
1703
01:00:52,167 --> 01:00:54,708
- Our couples examine
just what it will take
1704
01:00:54,792 --> 01:00:56,167
to fall in love.
1705
01:00:56,250 --> 01:00:57,500
- You pegged me.
- Yes.
1706
01:00:57,542 --> 01:00:59,000
- Let's make this sexual.
1707
01:00:59,083 --> 01:01:01,292
Let's create sexual tension
in this nonsexual game.
1708
01:01:01,375 --> 01:01:02,833
- [chuckles]
1709
01:01:02,875 --> 01:01:04,708
- I'm talking to her, though.
- Yeah, I know.
1710
01:01:04,833 --> 01:01:06,000
- Let -me talk to her.
- Yeah, I get you.
1711
01:01:06,042 --> 01:01:08,333
- Okay, so let me talk to her.
- So...
1712
01:01:08,417 --> 01:01:09,500
- Brennan,
I'm talking to Emily.
1713
01:01:09,583 --> 01:01:10,792
Thank you.
- Yeah, I'm just helping.
1714
01:01:10,875 --> 01:01:12,833
- She doesn't need
your help, though.
1715
01:01:12,917 --> 01:01:14,375
♪
1716
01:01:14,458 --> 01:01:17,333
- I still need time to, like,
work through certain things
1717
01:01:17,417 --> 01:01:19,292
that, like, could like,
really tear us apart.
1718
01:01:19,375 --> 01:01:20,667
♪
1719
01:01:20,750 --> 01:01:22,167
- [crying] It's really hard.
1720
01:01:22,250 --> 01:01:23,750
- Do you see a future with me?
- Well, you're not--
1721
01:01:23,875 --> 01:01:25,333
Let me finish.
- Do you see a future with me?
1722
01:01:25,417 --> 01:01:26,792
- Cutting me off really does
piss me off--I'm sorry.
1723
01:01:26,875 --> 01:01:27,833
- Is there an answer?
1724
01:01:27,917 --> 01:01:30,125
♪
1725
01:01:30,208 --> 01:01:32,417
- Okay, do you see
why I'm getting frustrated?
1726
01:01:32,500 --> 01:01:35,500
- I don't understand why it
just got so serious so fast.
1727
01:01:35,583 --> 01:01:37,083
♪
1728
01:01:37,167 --> 01:01:38,833
- [crying] For you to say
that I failed this marriage
1729
01:01:38,958 --> 01:01:40,875
and I failed you,
when all I've been doing
1730
01:01:40,875 --> 01:01:43,000
is assuring you
that you haven't failed...
1731
01:01:43,083 --> 01:01:44,583
♪
1732
01:01:44,667 --> 01:01:47,542
[sighs, sobbing]
1733
01:01:47,625 --> 01:01:51,208
♪
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