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MAN: Number eight!
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There you go, just walk normal.
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NARRATOR: Selection for the SAS...
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..is a test like no other.
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There are absolutely no prizes here.
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The prize is finding out
who you really are.
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Move!
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(BLEEP) listen
to simple instructions.
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A new group of celebrity recruits
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have volunteered
to put their privileged lives behind.
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You're about to get tear-gassed.
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I'm a lifeguard.
You look like a fucking Viking.
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In my eyes,
if you're not first you're last.
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Your place is questionable
in this course!
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Fight.
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They'll be put through a tougher,
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more intense selection course
than ever before.
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We're going to get to the bottom
of who they really are.
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Lean back, lean back.
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Go!
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Break, break, break, break!
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Hey!
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Oh.
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Let's go!
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This is it, this is it.
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Let's (BLEEP) go!
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The most brutal test so far...
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Oh, shit, come on, team.
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Let's go.
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..drives one recruit.
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This is (BLEEP) it.
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..to cheat.
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What the (BLEEP) are you doing?
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Koby.
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Cheat!
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Plus...
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I almost was on the street
with my three kids.
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So that was pretty shameful.
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..their darkest secrets...
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I walk around with it every day
and it's killing me.
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..will be reviled.
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My sister battled
with mental health.
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She's gone now
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and I kind of regret
not being there for her more.
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What would you like, guys?
Porridge or an egg?
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It's dawn on day nine
of SAS Selection
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and yet another intense day begins...
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Just get out of the way, bro,
when you've had your food.
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..as duty recruit
number two, Koby, serves breakfast...
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This way, Kob, serve yourself last.
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..everyone's exhausted and on edge.
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Mate, stop telling me what,
you stand there, I'm doing it.
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It's the order.
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When it's your turn,
you can stand back there
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and I tell you.
OK, just don't tell me.
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It's the order, mate,
you have to serve yourself last.
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Hey, let's stop bickering, guys.
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You've got to serve yourself last,
that's what they said.
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Yeah, I don't give a (BLEEP), bra,
just shut your mouth.
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Jesus, alright.
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Yea, but, bra,
I'm just trying to do me best, bra.
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I'm not trying to, I'm not,
I'm not going to get the...
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Just make sure
there's enough for you.
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I feel like I'm going to faint,
Jett,
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and you're telling me what to do.
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You're all grubbing and snatching,
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Jett, Jett,
you didn't get another one.
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Appreciate it.
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Jett, sorry for swearing at you,
buddy.
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I didn't mean it.
I'm starving and I feel sick.
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Hey, everyone's
on a little bit of edge.
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I'm just playing,
just playing by the rules, mate.
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That's all I'm doing.
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I know but Koby's rules
ain't getting the smallest.
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Let's have the good lord bless us,
brother.
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You want to have a crack, bra?
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I'm not very good at it, bra.
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That's alright, mate,
it doesn't matter, bra.
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Dear, Lord, thank you for this food.
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Thank you for the strength
that you've given us
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over the next few days,
bless us, give us strength,
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courage and resilience
to get through the next 24 hours
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and be together as one, amen.
Amen, that's it, brother.
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Right, everyone jump on the wagons,
let's go.
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As the recruits head out
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for another punishing day
on the course...
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Find us some food
to eat off the land, bra.
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Right, all this roadkill, cuz,
looking (BLEEP) tasty, bra.
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Trees or something.
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They must dig deep
to find the confidence
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to confront
their next combat challenge.
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In the special forces,
you have to believe in yourself.
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It's not about the physical.
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It's all about having the confidence
to commit to a decision.
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You need to be confident.
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You need to know
what you're capable of
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and sometimes you need to push
that to the forefront of everything
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to prove to everyone
that you can get the job done.
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Confidence is your ability
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to perform
in any given task or situation.
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Lack of confidence in the SF world
leads to doubt,
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leads to hesitation,
all of which costs lives.
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I want you all to turn around
and watch the demonstration.
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In the ultimate test of confidence,
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the recruits must fall backwards
off a 10m high platform,
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entering the murky water vertically,
headfirst.
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How does this relate to our world?
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This relates to standing on the back
of an aircraft,
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jumping into the midnight sky
when go cannot be replaced with no.
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You've got about three seconds
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before it starts going
into hesitation, self-doubt,
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all that kind of stuff.
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Means you won't do it.
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So think about that today, OK,
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you're all going to get a chance
to go through that process.
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Any questions?
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ALL: No, staff.
OK.
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Number two, with me.
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First to have his confidence
tested...
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..is 'Bra Boy', Koby Abberton.
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Being a pro professional surfer
at a young age,
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you know, I won my first contest
at 17 years old.
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Let's go number two, let's move.
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I've tortured my body
with big wave surfing.
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I've been in a lot of situations
where I've hurt myself.
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When I call you forward,
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you're going to go
to the end of the board,
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you're going to look
over to see,
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if it's clear to see
where you're going to land.
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Yes, staff.
Yes, staff.
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You're going to address me.
Yes, staff.
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Thank you.
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I was surfing
a really big wave
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at Desert Point in Indonesia
and it picked me up
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and threw me in the air
and I landed on dry reef.
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Feet together.
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Hands by your side.
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We done the X-ray
and I had a broken back.
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When I say go,
you'll put your hands over chest.
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Fall backwards. Stay rigid.
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Do not tilt your hand back,
do you not tilt it forward.
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I'm telling you.
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Very simple detail.
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Stand...
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Well, listen to me.
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You trust in me
and have confidence in yourself.
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Do you understand me?
Yep.
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Yes?
Yes, staff.
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Well, we're not going to break
your back now, are ya?
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No.
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I've lived a life of torture
in some sort of way
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of pushing my body to its limits
and it's starting to show now.
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Stand by.
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I'm constantly in pain,
most days of my life.
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Go.
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Majorly overcompensated.
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Suck it up number two.
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Away you go.
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Having hit the water with his face
and torso, Koby has failed.
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Growing up as the son of
Grant and Lisa Curry Kenny,
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you're kind of given this label...
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I don't want any (BLEEP) swan dives
off you?
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Do you understand me?
Yes, staff.
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..but you can obviously
try and make your own path
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and try and be your own person.
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Please, staff.
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I just see myself
as a normal person.
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When people ask me what I do,
I just say I'm a lifeguard.
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Stand tall for this
and look forward.
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Do not break that position.
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I think people probably get the idea
that I am confident...
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Stand by.
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..but I like to think of myself
as an overachiever.
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I set my standards very high.
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Go!
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Not bad, not bad.
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Away you go.
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Hitting the water headfirst,
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number seven, Jett,
has passed the task.
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Land on your head.
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Alright, let's go.
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I think what's really going to be
of benefit to me as an actor...
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Let's move.
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..is my preparation.
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Clear your mind.
You're good at that.
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I know when I'm prepared.
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I have immense competence
'cause I've led films before.
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It's a lot of pressure...
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Go ahead.
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..so you've got to put the work in.
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I'm by your side.
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You might see me doing
a lot of breathing exercises,
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because I just know that
it's about me centring myself
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and then I will perform to my best.
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He'll levitate off.
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Go!
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He looked like
he'd been shot mid-air.
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You felt that, didn't you?
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Just at the end, staff.
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Let's go!
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Tilting his head
and landing on his back,
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number nine, Dan, fails.
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How do you think you did?
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I started well
and I felt my core disengage
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right before the end, staff,
so I feel I bailed out a little bit.
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Total bag of shit.
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Hurry up, number four.
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Running was never
what I wanted to do in life.
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But once I realised
it was something I was good at,
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I set out to try
and do the best you could...
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Let's go, move.
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..so either a world record
or the Olympic gold medal,
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I just think, you know,
if you're going to do something,
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do it well.
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Don't make a song
and dance about it.
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Just get it done.
Put your feet together.
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I think this is likely to be
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one of the hardest things
I've ever done in my life,
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which is also why I wanted to do it.
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Do not break that position
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because you will (BLEEP)
yourself up.
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To have a new challenge
and to think
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my kids might think I'm cool
'cause Mum conquered the course.
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Stand by.
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Go!
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Good, number four.
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Away you go.
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Number four, Jana, conquers the task.
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The backwards dive...
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Oh!
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..is an awesome confidence test.
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Hold that position
until that massive head
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hits the water is that understood?
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Understood, staff.
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Go!
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Good.
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Do you have the confidence
not only in the DS...
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Oh, he led with his ass.
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..but more importantly in yourself?
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You have to just stand there,
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stiff as a board
and simply fall backwards.
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Good, number 11.
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I'd like to say
that I'm a pretty confident person.
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You know, I have been able
to overcome a lot of things
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that I've, you know,
been through in the past.
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Put your feet together.
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When my mum was inducted
into federal parliament,
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I, you know, gave her a quick call
and I said,
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"Mum what's your favourite quote?"
And she told me,
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"Nothing is impossible
to those who see the invisible."
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Look forward, stay straight
and fall backwards.
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So in my life, you know,
I try to envision that.
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Go.
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Oh.
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Yeah, you're winded
'cause you didn't listen.
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With a painful belly flop
into the murky water.
257
00:11:16,880 --> 00:11:19,840
Number 18, Jessica, has failed.
258
00:11:21,160 --> 00:11:24,160
Move your little legs!
259
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Last to have her confidence tested
260
00:11:27,280 --> 00:11:30,840
is number eight,
actress, Isabelle Cornish.
261
00:11:30,880 --> 00:11:32,360
Face me.
262
00:11:32,400 --> 00:11:35,080
Being a young woman
in the modelling industry
263
00:11:35,120 --> 00:11:37,880
definitely did affect my confidence.
264
00:11:37,920 --> 00:11:40,120
Confidence, easy right?
265
00:11:40,720 --> 00:11:42,400
Number eight, easy right?
Yes, staff.
266
00:11:42,440 --> 00:11:43,760
Yeah?
267
00:11:43,800 --> 00:11:46,160
Going through
a difficult period of time
268
00:11:46,200 --> 00:11:48,080
and struggling
with my mental health.
269
00:11:48,120 --> 00:11:49,920
I like lost a part of myself.
270
00:11:49,960 --> 00:11:52,440
Do not tilt your head back,
do you tilt it forward.
271
00:11:52,480 --> 00:11:55,800
I would never take away anything
that I went through
272
00:11:55,840 --> 00:11:58,560
or that I learned
'cause it now drives me.
273
00:11:58,600 --> 00:12:00,640
It's what makes me, like,
just keep pushing
274
00:12:00,680 --> 00:12:02,880
and what is making me
do this course.
275
00:12:02,920 --> 00:12:04,520
Hold that position.
276
00:12:04,560 --> 00:12:06,680
Do not break it at any stage.
277
00:12:07,680 --> 00:12:08,680
Stand by.
278
00:12:09,560 --> 00:12:10,680
Go.
279
00:12:17,280 --> 00:12:18,920
Oh.
280
00:12:19,960 --> 00:12:23,200
Massive hesitation there.
Absolute shite.
281
00:12:23,240 --> 00:12:27,360
That's what happens when you have
no confidence in yourself.
282
00:12:27,400 --> 00:12:31,400
Lacking commitment in the dive
means a failed attempt.
283
00:12:32,480 --> 00:12:37,000
I don't think I've ever been pushed
completely to my limit.
284
00:12:37,040 --> 00:12:39,880
But I think a really
high-stress situation
285
00:12:39,920 --> 00:12:43,320
where you've got no control
over your circumstance
286
00:12:43,360 --> 00:12:44,960
would be very hard for me.
287
00:12:45,640 --> 00:12:48,200
So, I guess that's when
I doubt myself the most.
288
00:12:50,000 --> 00:12:51,960
Very simple instructions up there,
wasn't it?
289
00:12:52,000 --> 00:12:53,280
ALL: Yes, staff.
290
00:12:53,320 --> 00:12:57,200
Trust in what I have to say
and have confidence in yourselves.
291
00:12:58,520 --> 00:13:03,280
Number eight, I could see
it wasn't in your face.
292
00:13:03,320 --> 00:13:04,840
It was going in (BLEEP) one ear
and out the other
293
00:13:04,880 --> 00:13:07,520
'cause you were too worried
about the consequence
294
00:13:07,560 --> 00:13:08,800
of what's going to happen.
295
00:13:09,720 --> 00:13:10,880
Number two.
Yep.
296
00:13:10,920 --> 00:13:12,320
You had distractions
in your (BLEEP) head.
297
00:13:12,360 --> 00:13:13,680
Agree, staff.
298
00:13:14,160 --> 00:13:16,960
Number 18,
just overthinking everything.
299
00:13:17,920 --> 00:13:21,440
This tells us about
each and every one of you
300
00:13:21,480 --> 00:13:22,960
now moving forward.
301
00:13:23,000 --> 00:13:24,440
Have you got confidence
in yourselves
302
00:13:24,480 --> 00:13:26,880
and now you know
amongst the group...
303
00:13:28,280 --> 00:13:29,880
..who to have confidence in.
304
00:13:31,560 --> 00:13:34,960
Get into the wagons and (BLEEP)
out my sight, move, go, move!
305
00:13:38,520 --> 00:13:41,920
I want to know what your ashamed of,
I need to know everything like that.
306
00:13:41,960 --> 00:13:45,800
The recruits
reveal their deepest secrets.
307
00:13:45,840 --> 00:13:49,040
I found myself unable to put food
on the table for three kids
308
00:13:49,080 --> 00:13:52,560
because I decided
to chase success again.
309
00:13:52,600 --> 00:13:55,040
I'm very insecure
about being a immigrant,
310
00:13:55,080 --> 00:13:57,640
a South African with coloured skin
in an Anglo country.
311
00:13:57,680 --> 00:13:59,640
I don't want to be
that angry black man anymore.
312
00:14:00,360 --> 00:14:03,640
My sister battled with mental health
for 15 years.
313
00:14:03,680 --> 00:14:06,360
I kind of regret
not being there for her more.
314
00:14:13,520 --> 00:14:15,800
I tell ya a story about Russ,
315
00:14:15,840 --> 00:14:18,480
when we first done the, like,
'Bra Boys' thing.
316
00:14:18,520 --> 00:14:19,600
Yeah.
317
00:14:19,640 --> 00:14:22,240
I wanted to get Russel
to narrate it, yeah?
318
00:14:22,280 --> 00:14:23,280
Yeah.
319
00:14:23,320 --> 00:14:24,960
I started getting this bloke
calling me.
320
00:14:25,000 --> 00:14:26,120
Yeah.
321
00:14:26,160 --> 00:14:27,160
"It's Russel Crowe,"
322
00:14:27,200 --> 00:14:28,840
I'm like, "Mate, just (BLEEP) off,
alright?"
323
00:14:28,880 --> 00:14:30,440
I just don't know who this is.
324
00:14:31,120 --> 00:14:32,480
"I don't know
if it's one of the boys,
325
00:14:32,520 --> 00:14:34,480
"just leave me alone."
326
00:14:34,520 --> 00:14:35,680
Here's Rusty.
327
00:14:35,720 --> 00:14:38,400
I went to his house
and I took my manager there.
328
00:14:38,440 --> 00:14:41,200
My manager
doesn't drink or smoke.
329
00:14:41,240 --> 00:14:42,520
Next thing I look across at him
330
00:14:42,560 --> 00:14:44,200
and he's smoking joints
and drinking beers, mate.
331
00:14:44,240 --> 00:14:46,120
No way, no way.
332
00:14:46,160 --> 00:14:50,080
Russel comes out in a,
the, what's the gladiator mask.
333
00:14:50,120 --> 00:14:51,320
The mask, no, he didn't.
334
00:14:51,360 --> 00:14:54,480
I'm like, start going,
"Where's the gladiator mask?"
335
00:14:54,520 --> 00:14:55,800
Ah, we're wrestling and shit,
336
00:14:55,840 --> 00:14:58,120
like, you know,
having the best time ever.
337
00:14:58,160 --> 00:15:02,560
And my manager just starts going
ah, laughing his head off, bra,
338
00:15:02,600 --> 00:15:05,000
just starts projectile vomiting,
bra.
339
00:15:05,040 --> 00:15:07,160
No, your manager did?
340
00:15:08,320 --> 00:15:10,960
All over Russel's house, bro.
341
00:15:11,000 --> 00:15:12,800
Just looking at him.
342
00:15:12,840 --> 00:15:15,280
But Russel's run back in his room,
bra,
343
00:15:15,320 --> 00:15:16,560
and I'm just like,
344
00:15:16,600 --> 00:15:19,240
"Mate, spew in your shirt
right now, guys."
345
00:15:19,280 --> 00:15:23,120
He's like tucking
his shirt in, ah.
346
00:15:23,160 --> 00:15:25,480
I'm wiping it up,
I'm trying to hide it
347
00:15:25,520 --> 00:15:28,600
and Russel walks in and goes,
"I've got video cameras everywhere."
348
00:15:29,840 --> 00:15:30,840
No.
349
00:15:30,880 --> 00:15:32,240
We had the best time, that was it.
350
00:15:32,280 --> 00:15:36,320
While Koby tells stories
of his celebrity life,
351
00:15:36,360 --> 00:15:38,280
Isabelle withdraws from the group...
352
00:15:39,440 --> 00:15:43,320
..after failing her first test
of confidence in the task.
353
00:15:43,360 --> 00:15:47,080
I can be quite extroverted,
but I can be really introverted too.
354
00:15:47,960 --> 00:15:50,880
When I have had time to, you know,
rest and rejuvenate
355
00:15:50,920 --> 00:15:53,680
and then I'm a very
extroverted person
356
00:15:53,720 --> 00:15:58,960
but when things get stripped away
from what makes me thrive,
357
00:15:59,000 --> 00:16:00,480
I will go introvert
358
00:16:00,520 --> 00:16:02,480
and you won't get anything
out of me.
359
00:16:05,440 --> 00:16:06,640
Number eight!
360
00:16:06,680 --> 00:16:10,240
To find out why
she's lacking confidence,
361
00:16:10,280 --> 00:16:13,120
the DS summon her for questioning.
362
00:16:13,160 --> 00:16:14,640
Turn to your left,
put your hands out.
363
00:16:14,680 --> 00:16:18,400
"Isabelle, who's the youngest sister
of actress Abby Cornish,
364
00:16:18,440 --> 00:16:22,160
"reveals her battle with body image
in the modelling industry.
365
00:16:23,440 --> 00:16:26,880
"Diagnosed with ADHD
at the age of 26."
366
00:16:45,600 --> 00:16:47,000
You're alright?
367
00:16:47,840 --> 00:16:48,880
Yes, staff.
368
00:16:48,920 --> 00:16:50,040
How are you getting on?
369
00:16:50,720 --> 00:16:51,880
I'm learning a lot.
370
00:16:52,720 --> 00:16:54,200
That's a start I suppose, isn't it?
371
00:16:55,240 --> 00:16:56,480
How are you finding it?
372
00:16:57,480 --> 00:16:58,960
Challenging...
373
00:17:01,280 --> 00:17:03,520
..the unexpected
is coming every day.
374
00:17:03,560 --> 00:17:06,520
Everything that I've never
experienced is how I'm finding out.
375
00:17:06,560 --> 00:17:12,480
There's this interesting article
about you being diagnosed with ADHD.
376
00:17:12,520 --> 00:17:13,520
Mm-hm.
377
00:17:13,560 --> 00:17:14,800
How old are you now?
378
00:17:14,839 --> 00:17:15,920
26.
379
00:17:15,960 --> 00:17:17,400
So that wasn't long ago right?
380
00:17:17,440 --> 00:17:19,599
It wasn't long ago
but I've known that I have
381
00:17:19,640 --> 00:17:21,160
some sort of ADHD my whole life.
382
00:17:21,200 --> 00:17:22,480
Talk to me about that.
383
00:17:23,680 --> 00:17:25,560
It's just,
I've always been different.
384
00:17:25,599 --> 00:17:28,200
Says who? Yourself?
385
00:17:28,240 --> 00:17:29,320
Yeah.
OK.
386
00:17:29,360 --> 00:17:30,760
Yeah, yeah,
I've always just felt different
387
00:17:30,800 --> 00:17:32,800
and, you know, that's always been
OK with me.
388
00:17:32,840 --> 00:17:34,560
Yeah, that's OK.
389
00:17:34,600 --> 00:17:36,000
And...
390
00:17:40,800 --> 00:17:42,520
Why is it making you emotional?
391
00:17:48,160 --> 00:17:50,200
I mean,
there's definitely, you know,
392
00:17:50,240 --> 00:17:51,640
all layers of my past,
393
00:17:51,680 --> 00:17:53,840
there's definitely emotions
connected to them.
394
00:17:53,880 --> 00:17:54,920
I can see that.
395
00:17:54,960 --> 00:17:56,000
And like, yeah.
396
00:17:56,040 --> 00:17:57,400
And what sort of emotions?
397
00:18:05,160 --> 00:18:07,280
I'm not really sure, it's just like,
398
00:18:07,320 --> 00:18:09,600
I guess the emotions
that come up for me
399
00:18:09,640 --> 00:18:12,640
is just emotions from, like,
being a young girl
400
00:18:12,680 --> 00:18:14,600
and struggling and not knowing why
401
00:18:14,640 --> 00:18:18,040
and I feel like those are the things
that come up for me.
402
00:18:18,080 --> 00:18:19,600
What have you struggled with?
403
00:18:21,480 --> 00:18:23,560
I had an eating disorder
when I was younger.
404
00:18:27,240 --> 00:18:30,160
And then I've just struggled
with always,
405
00:18:30,200 --> 00:18:31,400
yeah, feeling different.
406
00:18:31,440 --> 00:18:33,120
OK, OK.
407
00:18:33,880 --> 00:18:37,080
Feeling different,
not feeling, like, I fit in,
408
00:18:37,120 --> 00:18:38,280
just...
409
00:18:40,400 --> 00:18:42,040
..yeah, just feeling just like,
410
00:18:42,080 --> 00:18:44,120
I just don't fit
into the normal world.
411
00:18:45,120 --> 00:18:47,320
You say that you're OK with it now?
412
00:18:47,360 --> 00:18:48,800
It doesn't seem like that you are,
413
00:18:48,840 --> 00:18:51,520
it seems like you're still battling
with yourself a little bit.
414
00:18:53,160 --> 00:18:55,680
What triggers those, those emotions?
415
00:18:55,720 --> 00:18:57,320
Is there a trigger there?
416
00:18:57,360 --> 00:18:58,360
That's happened or is it just?
417
00:18:58,400 --> 00:18:59,920
I guess it's the label.
The label.
418
00:18:59,960 --> 00:19:00,960
The label, yeah.
419
00:19:01,000 --> 00:19:03,440
I find that label hard
because ADHD is,
420
00:19:03,480 --> 00:19:05,240
you're different,
you like to different things...
421
00:19:05,280 --> 00:19:06,920
Exactly.
..you've got a different mind-set,
422
00:19:06,960 --> 00:19:08,520
you've got a different way
of tackling things.
423
00:19:08,560 --> 00:19:11,520
So I wouldn't label that
too harshly on yourself.
424
00:19:11,560 --> 00:19:15,120
Exactly, and that's what I think
I struggled with was that.
425
00:19:15,160 --> 00:19:16,520
Yeah, trying to...
426
00:19:16,560 --> 00:19:18,120
When that came to light,
427
00:19:18,160 --> 00:19:19,760
when someone said to you,
"You've got ADHD,"
428
00:19:19,800 --> 00:19:21,080
you were like, "Uh-huh?"
429
00:19:21,120 --> 00:19:22,840
It was like, it was almost like,
oh, now I understand
430
00:19:22,880 --> 00:19:24,920
why I've struggled
but then it was, like, a relief
431
00:19:24,960 --> 00:19:27,600
but then it was like, oh,
it was like baggage with the relief.
432
00:19:27,640 --> 00:19:28,720
Mm, yeah.
433
00:19:30,080 --> 00:19:32,240
So talk to me
about this eating disorder.
434
00:19:32,280 --> 00:19:33,480
Have you still got it?
435
00:19:33,520 --> 00:19:34,680
No, no.
436
00:19:34,720 --> 00:19:36,120
No, did you have it growing up,
did you?
437
00:19:36,160 --> 00:19:39,840
Yeah, I got it when
I went into the modelling industry.
438
00:19:39,880 --> 00:19:43,320
A little period after acting
and that kind of started it all.
439
00:19:43,360 --> 00:19:44,400
Got you.
440
00:19:44,440 --> 00:19:46,040
And it was, like,
a bit of a coping mechanism,
441
00:19:46,080 --> 00:19:47,440
I feel like, as well,
442
00:19:47,480 --> 00:19:49,040
and that's why they say
a lot of the time
443
00:19:49,080 --> 00:19:51,240
that ADHD thing and eating disorders
come hand in hand.
444
00:19:51,280 --> 00:19:53,960
It was something that,
if I controlled that,
445
00:19:54,000 --> 00:19:56,520
then I didn't have to think about
my emotions and things like that.
446
00:19:56,560 --> 00:19:59,800
So, yeah,
so I had the eating disorder
447
00:19:59,840 --> 00:20:03,520
for about a year when I was younger
and then I stopped those habits.
448
00:20:03,560 --> 00:20:07,960
I just realised one day that, that,
that's not me.
449
00:20:08,920 --> 00:20:12,320
I just lost everything that I loved,
450
00:20:12,360 --> 00:20:14,600
just kind of like,
I just lost sight of that.
451
00:20:14,640 --> 00:20:15,760
Collapsed, yeah.
452
00:20:15,800 --> 00:20:18,280
And then when I came out of that
and I realised that,
453
00:20:18,320 --> 00:20:21,040
I was just like, (BLEEP),
like, this is my like, life,
454
00:20:21,080 --> 00:20:22,880
I'm going to do everything
that I want to do.
455
00:20:22,920 --> 00:20:24,440
Mm-hm.
456
00:20:24,480 --> 00:20:27,760
And since that,
like, you know, I'm just,
457
00:20:27,800 --> 00:20:31,280
I feel like I've just become such
a bigger, better version of myself.
458
00:20:32,160 --> 00:20:33,520
Good.
459
00:20:33,560 --> 00:20:35,040
And again the more you experience,
460
00:20:35,080 --> 00:20:36,440
the more life experience
that you have,
461
00:20:36,480 --> 00:20:39,600
the more resilience you get,
the tougher you'll become. OK?
462
00:20:39,640 --> 00:20:41,560
So, don't label yourself.
463
00:20:41,600 --> 00:20:43,320
Don't let others label you
464
00:20:43,360 --> 00:20:45,800
because what we see
is a very, very capable woman.
465
00:20:45,840 --> 00:20:47,240
Definitely.
466
00:20:47,280 --> 00:20:48,400
Guard!
467
00:20:51,400 --> 00:20:53,880
We can take things
that we go through in our struggles
468
00:20:53,920 --> 00:20:56,640
and we can turn them into power.
469
00:20:58,200 --> 00:20:59,200
I like her.
470
00:20:59,240 --> 00:21:00,680
Yeah.
I want to see her at the end.
471
00:21:00,720 --> 00:21:01,920
I hope so.
472
00:21:01,960 --> 00:21:06,160
Back in the day I was scared
to be vulnerable, but now, no.
473
00:21:06,200 --> 00:21:09,000
A lot of power
comes from vulnerability,
474
00:21:09,040 --> 00:21:11,600
saying like,
this is me, this is my struggle,
475
00:21:11,640 --> 00:21:15,040
this is what I'm going through
and I'm still showing up
476
00:21:15,080 --> 00:21:18,960
and I am being open
about everything
477
00:21:19,000 --> 00:21:20,760
and that to me is empowering...
478
00:21:20,800 --> 00:21:21,880
OK, here we go.
479
00:21:21,920 --> 00:21:23,520
..that to me is healing
480
00:21:23,560 --> 00:21:26,160
and this is what makes me
who I am today.
481
00:21:40,280 --> 00:21:41,720
7:35.
482
00:21:42,640 --> 00:21:45,280
Mess room,
that includes you, Gandalf.
483
00:21:48,080 --> 00:21:50,520
In another test of confidence,
484
00:21:50,560 --> 00:21:56,120
the DS have summoned the recruits
to uncover and confront
485
00:21:56,160 --> 00:21:58,000
the traumas of their past.
486
00:21:58,040 --> 00:22:00,280
Alright, listen in.
It's important that we communicate.
487
00:22:01,400 --> 00:22:04,160
It's important
that we're honest with each other.
488
00:22:04,200 --> 00:22:06,320
We know each other inside out.
489
00:22:08,760 --> 00:22:10,040
I want to know
about your weaknesses.
490
00:22:10,080 --> 00:22:11,920
I want to know about
your insecurities.
491
00:22:11,960 --> 00:22:14,000
I want to know
what you're ashamed of.
492
00:22:15,720 --> 00:22:18,080
So, when a weakness presents itself,
guess what?
493
00:22:18,120 --> 00:22:21,200
That's the other person's strength,
they come in and they take charge.
494
00:22:22,840 --> 00:22:24,560
And ultimately that's what
humanity's all about,
495
00:22:24,600 --> 00:22:26,000
is being there for each other.
496
00:22:27,680 --> 00:22:29,440
When I call your number out,
you're going to come out,
497
00:22:29,480 --> 00:22:31,320
you're going to tell us
what you're most ashamed of.
498
00:22:33,560 --> 00:22:35,240
Everyone must be honest
with each other.
499
00:22:35,280 --> 00:22:36,400
Number 11.
500
00:22:36,440 --> 00:22:38,640
If you're honest with yourself,
501
00:22:38,680 --> 00:22:42,080
then you can process
what needs to be processed.
502
00:22:42,120 --> 00:22:44,680
You can acknowledge
what you've already done
503
00:22:44,720 --> 00:22:46,080
and you can move forward.
504
00:22:47,280 --> 00:22:48,680
Family is my world.
505
00:22:48,720 --> 00:22:50,760
It's my priority.
It's my everything
506
00:22:50,800 --> 00:22:53,520
and I had a dream to become
a professional tennis player
507
00:22:53,560 --> 00:22:56,120
and my family, you know,
put everything on the line,
508
00:22:56,160 --> 00:22:59,560
my father had a good job
in the bank business
509
00:22:59,600 --> 00:23:03,120
and quit because he said,
510
00:23:03,160 --> 00:23:05,560
you know he wanted to help me
fulfil my dreams,
511
00:23:05,600 --> 00:23:08,400
so he let go of his dreams
and he worked very hard
512
00:23:08,440 --> 00:23:11,320
and was lucky enough to fulfil
my dreams, you know,
513
00:23:11,360 --> 00:23:15,200
and the good news was
that I could take care of my family,
514
00:23:15,240 --> 00:23:16,680
so they don't have to work again.
515
00:23:16,720 --> 00:23:19,760
No one, you know, my father
or my mother didn't have to work,
516
00:23:19,800 --> 00:23:24,360
but, you know, I got into
a touch situation with injuries
517
00:23:24,400 --> 00:23:26,800
where everything stopped
'cause when you're an athlete,
518
00:23:26,840 --> 00:23:28,360
the last thing
you want to think about,
519
00:23:28,400 --> 00:23:29,920
you know, they always say,
520
00:23:29,960 --> 00:23:32,160
"Save for a rainy day,
save for a rainy day."
521
00:23:32,200 --> 00:23:35,320
And if you, I feel like,
522
00:23:35,360 --> 00:23:38,120
you're weak if you feel like
you might get injured
523
00:23:38,160 --> 00:23:39,920
and you have to have something
to back to,
524
00:23:39,960 --> 00:23:42,120
you know, that's a sign of weakness.
525
00:23:42,160 --> 00:23:43,440
You can't think that way
526
00:23:43,480 --> 00:23:45,200
because you,
you're going to keep going
527
00:23:45,240 --> 00:23:46,920
and you're going to get back
from injuries
528
00:23:46,960 --> 00:23:48,160
and you're going to be OK.
529
00:23:48,200 --> 00:23:49,800
I remember having
my sixth knee surgery
530
00:23:49,840 --> 00:23:52,560
and out for a few months,
couldn't afford much.
531
00:23:52,600 --> 00:23:56,600
Actually I had to ask friends
just to shop for food
532
00:23:56,640 --> 00:23:59,280
but we would always, like,
seven days in a row
533
00:23:59,320 --> 00:24:00,840
we would have this cabbage pasta
534
00:24:00,880 --> 00:24:02,560
that ends up being
one of my favourites bits.
535
00:24:02,600 --> 00:24:05,000
My mum calls it
poor people's food
536
00:24:05,040 --> 00:24:06,360
because it's just so simple.
537
00:24:06,400 --> 00:24:10,600
It's just cabbage,
put some spices and pasta.
538
00:24:11,800 --> 00:24:13,680
I felt very much ashamed
539
00:24:13,720 --> 00:24:16,360
because they gave their dream for me
540
00:24:16,400 --> 00:24:19,040
and my responsibility
was to look after them.
541
00:24:19,080 --> 00:24:23,080
You know, I was in a dark place
and depression.
542
00:24:25,000 --> 00:24:27,840
There's no greater pain
in my heart
543
00:24:27,880 --> 00:24:32,320
than watching my loved ones suffer
because of my actions.
544
00:24:40,720 --> 00:24:43,480
Number 18, come out.
545
00:24:51,320 --> 00:24:53,240
Something I'm probably
most ashamed about
546
00:24:53,280 --> 00:24:57,760
was, 2019 I tried to commit suicide.
547
00:25:01,160 --> 00:25:05,440
Instantly, obviously, I regret that.
548
00:25:06,520 --> 00:25:08,520
More so the fact
because I've got my son
549
00:25:08,560 --> 00:25:11,240
and that I could of left him
without a mother.
550
00:25:18,280 --> 00:25:21,040
I got to a point
where I was so low in my life
551
00:25:21,080 --> 00:25:23,840
that I couldn't talk to anybody
about how I was feeling.
552
00:25:24,680 --> 00:25:27,640
So, I thought that, you know,
the easy way out
553
00:25:27,680 --> 00:25:29,280
would be the right way
but it wasn't.
554
00:25:30,400 --> 00:25:31,520
So...
555
00:25:32,480 --> 00:25:34,400
..that's part of, you know,
the reason why I'm here
556
00:25:34,440 --> 00:25:37,120
is to find myself
and to grow as a person
557
00:25:37,160 --> 00:25:38,640
and to learn from my past.
558
00:25:44,200 --> 00:25:47,440
When I'm at home,
I have a vision board
559
00:25:47,480 --> 00:25:50,280
and on that vision board
heavily features my little boy.
560
00:26:00,200 --> 00:26:01,840
Before I came in here, especially...
561
00:26:03,040 --> 00:26:04,560
..I would scroll through photos
562
00:26:04,600 --> 00:26:07,960
just to try to really put...
563
00:26:09,680 --> 00:26:13,920
..many images of him and my partner
in my head as I can.
564
00:26:15,120 --> 00:26:18,960
And I just, every photo,
it's like I see us fishing,
565
00:26:19,000 --> 00:26:21,160
I see what he's wearing,
I speak to him on face mic,
566
00:26:21,200 --> 00:26:25,120
and every single moment
is just in my soul
567
00:26:25,160 --> 00:26:26,440
'cause I was there.
568
00:26:27,120 --> 00:26:29,600
And it was the time
when he was born,
569
00:26:29,640 --> 00:26:32,000
and I just look at the photos
and I was there,
570
00:26:32,040 --> 00:26:34,200
I wasn't, I mean,
571
00:26:34,240 --> 00:26:38,640
I was in the photos
but I wasn't there.
572
00:26:40,880 --> 00:26:42,680
I wasn't there because of my ego.
573
00:26:43,720 --> 00:26:45,360
I was thinking
about the next meeting,
574
00:26:45,400 --> 00:26:47,360
the next this, the next that.
575
00:26:47,400 --> 00:26:49,040
Whatever it is in my mind
and I'm thinking,
576
00:26:49,080 --> 00:26:50,880
(BLEEP), I'm just trying to provide
for my family
577
00:26:50,920 --> 00:26:54,000
and just the outside pressures
that I,
578
00:26:54,040 --> 00:26:55,920
or perceived pressures
that I put on myself.
579
00:26:55,960 --> 00:26:57,080
So...
580
00:26:58,320 --> 00:27:03,000
..I had to pick something
I was ashamed for, it's time.
581
00:27:04,280 --> 00:27:05,560
It's time.
582
00:27:06,760 --> 00:27:08,720
I wasn't there because of my ego
583
00:27:08,760 --> 00:27:10,640
and that's why I do the work
every day.
584
00:27:16,840 --> 00:27:21,440
Mine's not so much a,
anything that I'm ashamed about.
585
00:27:21,480 --> 00:27:24,160
With one of them,
the others more about me,
586
00:27:24,200 --> 00:27:26,600
a weakness that I have as a man.
587
00:27:26,640 --> 00:27:30,320
And I'm very insecure about,
you know,
588
00:27:30,360 --> 00:27:32,920
being an immigrant South African
with coloured skin
589
00:27:32,960 --> 00:27:34,600
in an Anglo country
590
00:27:34,640 --> 00:27:37,840
and I carry a huge chip
on my shoulder about that.
591
00:27:37,880 --> 00:27:41,520
The constantly proving myself
and my self-worth,
592
00:27:41,560 --> 00:27:43,560
it's just what we inherited
as South African's
593
00:27:43,600 --> 00:27:44,920
being a part of the Apartheid.
594
00:27:44,960 --> 00:27:46,880
I inherited it from my father
595
00:27:46,920 --> 00:27:50,040
and I walk around with it every day
and it's killing me.
596
00:27:52,120 --> 00:27:53,520
It's really killing me
597
00:27:53,560 --> 00:27:55,200
and every day I try
and put out love
598
00:27:55,240 --> 00:27:57,480
and overcompensate with my love
and my friendship
599
00:27:57,520 --> 00:27:59,920
because I don't want to be
that angry back man anymore.
600
00:28:02,200 --> 00:28:03,560
I don't want to be that.
601
00:28:04,040 --> 00:28:05,240
So, that's me.
602
00:28:13,960 --> 00:28:15,360
Number 16.
603
00:28:20,400 --> 00:28:22,480
I've had a lot of personal issues
going on
604
00:28:22,520 --> 00:28:25,200
which then
turn me to drink and drugs.
605
00:28:25,240 --> 00:28:28,120
I caused a lot of pain for my mum,
she doesn't deserve that.
606
00:28:28,160 --> 00:28:30,400
She's a great mother.
I love her to bits.
607
00:28:31,160 --> 00:28:33,600
I caused pain
for all my three brothers,
608
00:28:33,640 --> 00:28:37,040
I love more than this world
and, you know, on top of that,
609
00:28:37,080 --> 00:28:39,400
it stopped me seeing my kids
as much as I'd want.
610
00:28:40,640 --> 00:28:42,720
And that's the biggest pain
in my life at the moment.
611
00:28:42,760 --> 00:28:45,240
I've let my addictive personality
take me to the wrong road.
612
00:28:49,840 --> 00:28:51,560
I think I've been,
613
00:28:51,600 --> 00:28:53,560
probably the last five
to seven years,
614
00:28:53,600 --> 00:28:58,200
a pretty average son,
brother, uncle,
615
00:28:58,240 --> 00:29:00,480
and more recently boyfriend.
616
00:29:00,520 --> 00:29:01,520
So...
617
00:29:03,040 --> 00:29:06,200
..as much as I understood
the pressures and the commitment
618
00:29:06,240 --> 00:29:08,960
it took to become
a professional footballer
619
00:29:09,000 --> 00:29:11,400
and get the best out of myself,
620
00:29:11,440 --> 00:29:14,520
I think the collateral damage
with that is your family
621
00:29:14,560 --> 00:29:20,120
and that's definitely one thing
that I've recognised recently
622
00:29:20,160 --> 00:29:22,480
and the people
that are always going to be there,
623
00:29:22,520 --> 00:29:23,800
are always your family.
624
00:29:28,600 --> 00:29:32,240
My mental health suffered
a few years ago
625
00:29:32,280 --> 00:29:33,720
and when I came out of that,
626
00:29:33,760 --> 00:29:35,880
I realised I'd lost my friends
and my family
627
00:29:35,920 --> 00:29:38,920
and everything that was,
mattered the most to me.
628
00:29:38,960 --> 00:29:40,480
Since that time,
629
00:29:40,520 --> 00:29:43,280
I work on strong relationships
with my family
630
00:29:43,320 --> 00:29:44,920
and my friends constantly.
631
00:29:49,760 --> 00:29:51,880
I think my most shameful moment
632
00:29:51,920 --> 00:29:55,040
was in my final year
of medical school.
633
00:29:55,080 --> 00:29:58,840
I budgeted, well, I thought
was I budgeted well for my family
634
00:29:58,880 --> 00:30:01,360
as a single mum with three kids
to get through medical school
635
00:30:01,400 --> 00:30:05,600
and then found myself
unable to pay the mortgage,
636
00:30:05,640 --> 00:30:06,680
unable to pay,
637
00:30:06,720 --> 00:30:08,080
put food on the table
for my three kids
638
00:30:08,120 --> 00:30:11,720
because I decided
to chase success again.
639
00:30:13,120 --> 00:30:16,080
So, I had to go cap in hand
to my old 70-year-old parents
640
00:30:16,120 --> 00:30:18,240
and ask for money
to survive that year,
641
00:30:18,280 --> 00:30:22,440
but it's fairly humiliating
to think at 30 something years old,
642
00:30:22,480 --> 00:30:24,280
I almost was on the street
with my three kids.
643
00:30:24,320 --> 00:30:26,080
You know, all this success,
what does it mean
644
00:30:26,120 --> 00:30:27,760
if you can't provide
for your family?
645
00:30:28,560 --> 00:30:30,520
So that was pretty shameful.
646
00:30:30,560 --> 00:30:33,000
And I'm a bit nervous to admit
that to people.
647
00:30:35,040 --> 00:30:36,360
That's it.
648
00:30:39,840 --> 00:30:42,960
My sister battled with mental health
for 15 years
649
00:30:43,000 --> 00:30:45,760
but for me it was kind of just like
why are you doing this to yourself?
650
00:30:45,800 --> 00:30:48,040
Jett Kenny's inner turmoil.
651
00:30:48,080 --> 00:30:50,240
Everyone wants to do
the best they can
652
00:30:50,280 --> 00:30:52,680
for the people that they love,
but was I a good enough brother?
653
00:30:58,200 --> 00:30:59,720
Number two, let's go.
654
00:31:00,760 --> 00:31:03,440
In an emotional honesty test,
655
00:31:03,480 --> 00:31:07,480
the recruits open up
about their personality anguish.
656
00:31:10,560 --> 00:31:14,480
So we made a documentary
about my life
657
00:31:14,520 --> 00:31:16,400
and my brother's lives.
658
00:31:16,920 --> 00:31:18,960
In the opening scene
I said that
659
00:31:19,000 --> 00:31:22,640
my little brother's dad
hit with me a baseball bat
660
00:31:22,680 --> 00:31:24,320
but he didn't hit me
with a baseball bat.
661
00:31:24,360 --> 00:31:26,240
He chased me out the door
with a baseball bat.
662
00:31:26,280 --> 00:31:27,920
I walked in
and they were using drugs
663
00:31:27,960 --> 00:31:31,000
and they chose me,
664
00:31:31,040 --> 00:31:32,200
they chose drugs over me
665
00:31:32,240 --> 00:31:34,000
and chased me out the door
with a baseball bat
666
00:31:34,040 --> 00:31:36,880
but for some reason in the doc
when I was asked about it.
667
00:31:36,920 --> 00:31:38,480
I said that he hit me.
668
00:31:38,520 --> 00:31:40,640
I think it might affect
my brother's relationship
669
00:31:40,680 --> 00:31:42,360
with my dad and it kind of burns me.
670
00:31:42,400 --> 00:31:45,760
And I've never told him that.
671
00:31:47,160 --> 00:31:52,440
And I think it hurt him,
so it sucks, but it's what it is.
672
00:31:52,480 --> 00:31:55,360
He was a piece of shit but, yeah.
673
00:31:55,400 --> 00:31:56,760
Amen.
674
00:32:01,600 --> 00:32:02,920
Number seven, let's go.
675
00:32:09,720 --> 00:32:11,240
(BLEEP), god.
676
00:32:15,800 --> 00:32:19,120
I guess the biggest thing in my life
is never feeling good enough.
677
00:32:19,880 --> 00:32:22,640
I've set my standards very high,
678
00:32:22,680 --> 00:32:26,880
but if I don't get to them I just,
I put it all back on myself.
679
00:32:28,320 --> 00:32:30,840
And I let that affect me heaps.
680
00:32:32,400 --> 00:32:37,000
I guess a way I kind of
became like that was with my sister,
681
00:32:37,040 --> 00:32:40,960
she battled with mental health
for 15 years
682
00:32:41,000 --> 00:32:43,760
but for me it was kind of just like,
why are you doing this to yourself?
683
00:32:43,800 --> 00:32:45,120
I never fully understood it.
684
00:32:47,400 --> 00:32:50,600
My sister, Jamie,
did struggle with mental health.
685
00:32:50,640 --> 00:32:52,640
We did everything we could do
as a family
686
00:32:52,680 --> 00:32:54,760
and for Jamie to try
and bring her out of it
687
00:32:54,800 --> 00:32:57,080
but unfortunately
that wasn't the case.
688
00:32:58,880 --> 00:33:01,800
She got told she wasn't
going to make it till 30,
689
00:33:01,840 --> 00:33:03,360
she got to 33.
690
00:33:03,400 --> 00:33:04,680
And...
691
00:33:05,720 --> 00:33:09,640
..I guess, there was one thing
I said at her funeral.
692
00:33:10,760 --> 00:33:13,160
I'm not going to say it
'cause it was very personal
693
00:33:13,200 --> 00:33:17,400
but I remember saying it to her
the night that she asked me,
694
00:33:18,360 --> 00:33:21,360
this question,
and I gave her the honest truth
695
00:33:21,400 --> 00:33:23,760
and I was hoping
that was the harsh reality
696
00:33:23,800 --> 00:33:24,920
that she needed.
697
00:33:26,240 --> 00:33:29,640
Hearing it
from her younger brother,
698
00:33:29,680 --> 00:33:32,960
but she's gone now.
699
00:33:33,000 --> 00:33:38,280
I kind of regret not being for her,
not being there for her more.
700
00:33:39,080 --> 00:33:41,560
To me, it was like,
you have the willpower
701
00:33:41,600 --> 00:33:44,480
to change your life
and to turn things around,
702
00:33:44,520 --> 00:33:45,880
but that is me.
703
00:33:45,920 --> 00:33:47,240
I can't speak for someone
704
00:33:47,280 --> 00:33:49,160
who is going through mental
health issues
705
00:33:49,200 --> 00:33:51,080
because I've never been there.
706
00:33:52,880 --> 00:33:57,680
If I feel like I've (BLEEP) up,
then I'm in a different place.
707
00:33:57,720 --> 00:34:00,880
And that's something
that I really struggle with
708
00:34:00,920 --> 00:34:03,760
and I like to set my standards high
709
00:34:03,800 --> 00:34:07,280
but again
when I don't achieve them, it shows.
710
00:34:07,320 --> 00:34:08,520
So...
711
00:34:11,679 --> 00:34:13,920
Everyone wants to do
the best they can
712
00:34:13,960 --> 00:34:16,080
for the people that they love,
713
00:34:16,120 --> 00:34:19,159
but when you can't,
it makes you question yourself.
714
00:34:19,199 --> 00:34:21,000
Like, was I a good enough brother?
715
00:34:25,000 --> 00:34:26,600
It takes a lot to get me to cry
716
00:34:26,639 --> 00:34:32,159
but I cried at Jamie's funeral
and the night she passed away.
717
00:34:38,239 --> 00:34:41,400
That's my older sister,
of course I'm going to miss her.
718
00:34:43,920 --> 00:34:46,239
These regrets,
719
00:34:46,280 --> 00:34:51,080
these things that we're ashamed of,
we can draw strength from them.
720
00:34:51,120 --> 00:34:55,480
There's always a positive to be had,
out of a negative.
721
00:34:56,400 --> 00:34:59,760
That's how we come out on top.
722
00:35:01,720 --> 00:35:06,520
But if we ignore failure,
you're ignoring life.
723
00:35:06,560 --> 00:35:08,160
Embrace it.
Use it to your advantage.
724
00:35:08,200 --> 00:35:09,440
Learn from it.
Grow from it.
725
00:35:09,480 --> 00:35:11,080
Become a better version
of who you are.
726
00:35:14,560 --> 00:35:16,680
This is so important
727
00:35:16,720 --> 00:35:22,040
because it will bring you together,
whether you realise it or not.
728
00:35:22,920 --> 00:35:25,160
And over the next couple of days...
729
00:35:25,960 --> 00:35:28,880
..you're going to need to know
each other inside out,
730
00:35:28,920 --> 00:35:32,040
pick each other up and use...
731
00:35:35,120 --> 00:35:36,360
..whatever insecurities,
732
00:35:36,400 --> 00:35:38,920
weaknesses that you have
to your advantage
733
00:35:38,960 --> 00:35:41,880
'cause the moment
you cut that all out of your life,
734
00:35:41,920 --> 00:35:44,280
is you cutting out 30%
of who you are.
735
00:35:44,320 --> 00:35:48,520
Rather than going in that 100%
of who you are.
736
00:35:51,080 --> 00:35:52,520
Away you go, let's go.
737
00:35:57,880 --> 00:35:58,920
Push it, Jess.
738
00:35:58,960 --> 00:36:00,080
I'm pushing!
739
00:36:00,120 --> 00:36:02,000
A physical test of confidence...
740
00:36:02,040 --> 00:36:03,720
This is it. Let's go.
741
00:36:03,760 --> 00:36:06,160
..sees some recruits play dirty...
742
00:36:06,200 --> 00:36:07,720
Let's break their spirit.
743
00:36:07,760 --> 00:36:09,000
What the (BLEEP) are you doing?
744
00:36:09,040 --> 00:36:10,240
Blatant cheating.
745
00:36:10,280 --> 00:36:12,120
It's not really a win, is it,
if you cheated?
746
00:36:12,160 --> 00:36:13,760
..and others are pushed.
747
00:36:13,800 --> 00:36:15,040
I'm taking one for the team, staff.
748
00:36:15,080 --> 00:36:16,200
..too far.
749
00:36:16,240 --> 00:36:17,440
I'm a liability to the team.
750
00:36:17,480 --> 00:36:18,720
Think about what you're doing.
751
00:36:28,240 --> 00:36:32,840
Deep in the mountain bushland,
the recruits are about to perform
752
00:36:32,880 --> 00:36:36,440
one of the most arduous
SAS exercises,
753
00:36:36,480 --> 00:36:40,880
testing their confidence
in a team against team mission.
754
00:36:40,920 --> 00:36:42,840
Get out, get your Bergens on.
755
00:36:42,880 --> 00:36:45,160
Make your way down to the DS,
move, quick.
756
00:36:46,080 --> 00:36:47,880
Quick as you can, let's go.
757
00:36:48,600 --> 00:36:50,240
OK, I'm going to put you
into two teams.
758
00:36:50,280 --> 00:36:51,800
Red team, listen out.
759
00:36:51,840 --> 00:36:56,160
Team leader, eight, number eight,
team leader, red team.
760
00:36:56,840 --> 00:36:59,320
After failing in the back fall task,
761
00:36:59,360 --> 00:37:04,480
DS Billy has chosen number eight,
Isabelle, to lead team red.
762
00:37:05,360 --> 00:37:07,080
A chance to redeem herself.
763
00:37:07,800 --> 00:37:11,800
Team leader, blue team, number two.
764
00:37:11,840 --> 00:37:17,600
Like Isabelle, duty recruit, Koby,
also failed the previous task
765
00:37:17,640 --> 00:37:20,200
and is made leader of team blue.
766
00:37:20,920 --> 00:37:25,000
OK, you are a part
of a recovery patrol.
767
00:37:25,040 --> 00:37:27,960
You've got to get vital equipment
768
00:37:28,000 --> 00:37:31,520
from this location,
back into safe borders.
769
00:37:31,560 --> 00:37:32,680
Understand me?
770
00:37:32,720 --> 00:37:34,280
ALL: Yes, staff.
771
00:37:34,320 --> 00:37:36,960
Along a 6km bush track,
772
00:37:37,000 --> 00:37:41,320
each team must carry
or drag a 50-kilo tyre,
773
00:37:41,360 --> 00:37:44,320
representing a vital
ammunitions cache
774
00:37:44,360 --> 00:37:48,760
to a checkpoint
where two extra caches are hidden.
775
00:37:48,800 --> 00:37:52,240
All, before lugging them
to a final rendezvous.
776
00:37:52,880 --> 00:37:57,160
The first team to arrive
will be declared the winner.
777
00:37:57,200 --> 00:38:00,800
"Your rendezvous is that prominent
single track coming in
778
00:38:00,840 --> 00:38:02,400
"from that left-hand side."
779
00:38:02,440 --> 00:38:04,720
The caches will be marked
with a red symbol. Understand?
780
00:38:04,760 --> 00:38:06,000
Yes, staff.
781
00:38:06,040 --> 00:38:07,600
It'll obviously be
coloured coded, yeah.
782
00:38:07,640 --> 00:38:08,680
OK.
783
00:38:08,720 --> 00:38:10,560
So, you need to stay alert
as you're covering the ground
784
00:38:10,600 --> 00:38:12,840
to keep your wits about you
as you're moving.
785
00:38:12,880 --> 00:38:15,040
You (BLEEP) put a rock up their ass,
anybody that's lacking,
786
00:38:15,080 --> 00:38:16,440
you keep the team together
787
00:38:16,480 --> 00:38:17,960
and you move as fast
as you possibly can.
788
00:38:18,000 --> 00:38:19,640
Do you understand?
Yes, staff.
789
00:38:19,680 --> 00:38:24,280
I'm a natural-born leader,
but I love a team environment.
790
00:38:24,320 --> 00:38:25,320
Let's go.
791
00:38:26,080 --> 00:38:28,000
Let's go, guys.
792
00:38:28,040 --> 00:38:31,640
Go, grab onto the rope
and let's pull.
793
00:38:31,680 --> 00:38:34,000
I believe that communication
and trust
794
00:38:34,040 --> 00:38:36,520
will be really important
on this course.
795
00:38:36,560 --> 00:38:38,680
Get into the channel, let's go.
796
00:38:38,720 --> 00:38:40,880
Pull team, come on.
797
00:38:40,920 --> 00:38:42,320
Push it, Jess!
798
00:38:42,360 --> 00:38:44,160
I'm (BLEEP) pushing!
799
00:38:44,200 --> 00:38:45,560
Ah!
800
00:38:46,600 --> 00:38:50,560
The long-haul task is
a way of moving heavy kit
801
00:38:50,600 --> 00:38:52,280
over difficult terrain...
802
00:38:52,320 --> 00:38:55,120
Let's go. Motivation.
Speed.
803
00:38:55,160 --> 00:38:56,400
Come on.
Aggression.
804
00:38:57,120 --> 00:38:58,520
..in a war zone,
805
00:38:58,560 --> 00:39:02,200
you're expected to lug loads,
and loads and loads ammunition
806
00:39:02,240 --> 00:39:03,400
up to a high point.
807
00:39:03,440 --> 00:39:04,640
Let's go!
808
00:39:04,680 --> 00:39:06,120
Carry on.
Get a good rhythm.
809
00:39:06,160 --> 00:39:07,200
Come on.
810
00:39:07,240 --> 00:39:09,320
..so with gun position, it's got
what it needs to support you
811
00:39:09,360 --> 00:39:12,640
when you then go back down
and start doing an assault.
812
00:39:12,680 --> 00:39:14,120
Come on guys, pull!
813
00:39:14,160 --> 00:39:15,560
Just keep going.
814
00:39:15,600 --> 00:39:19,520
It's brutal. It hurts.
Your hips hurt. You're back hurts.
815
00:39:19,560 --> 00:39:21,000
You're trying to move
at the best speed
816
00:39:21,040 --> 00:39:22,880
because you've got an enemy
that are coming at you.
817
00:39:22,920 --> 00:39:24,680
It's not nice
but it needs to be done
818
00:39:24,720 --> 00:39:25,880
as quickly as possible.
819
00:39:26,680 --> 00:39:27,960
Let's go.
820
00:39:31,440 --> 00:39:36,440
Straining against the combined
150kg weight of the tyre,
821
00:39:36,480 --> 00:39:39,280
the chain and four Bergens.
822
00:39:39,320 --> 00:39:40,680
Just keep going.
823
00:39:40,720 --> 00:39:42,560
Try and find the flat spots.
824
00:39:42,600 --> 00:39:45,200
Koby's blue team take an early lead.
825
00:39:45,920 --> 00:39:47,400
Come on, team,
826
00:39:47,440 --> 00:39:49,640
that's what you need
some (BLEEP) aggression.
827
00:39:49,680 --> 00:39:51,080
Just keep this lead!
828
00:39:51,120 --> 00:39:54,320
On the left side,
OK, we're looking for a cache.
829
00:39:54,360 --> 00:39:56,360
Right here, guys.
830
00:39:57,280 --> 00:39:58,640
Start looking around.
831
00:39:59,600 --> 00:40:00,760
Better care.
832
00:40:02,280 --> 00:40:04,720
As they search
for the two hidden caches...
833
00:40:04,760 --> 00:40:06,920
This is the RV,
start looking for your bit of kit.
834
00:40:06,960 --> 00:40:08,560
Is it on that?
835
00:40:08,600 --> 00:40:11,280
We're looking for a tyre
with a blue mark.
836
00:40:11,320 --> 00:40:14,520
..leading Koby struggles
to guide his team.
837
00:40:16,840 --> 00:40:18,000
(BLEEP) me.
838
00:40:20,280 --> 00:40:21,680
Raider.
839
00:40:22,400 --> 00:40:24,800
With no direction from Koby,
840
00:40:24,840 --> 00:40:29,680
number seven, Jett,
and number four, Jana, take control.
841
00:40:29,720 --> 00:40:30,960
There's a blue tyre.
842
00:40:31,000 --> 00:40:32,800
We found blue, we found blue.
843
00:40:32,840 --> 00:40:34,440
Come on then, let's get up here.
Come on.
844
00:40:34,480 --> 00:40:35,760
Let's go.
845
00:40:35,800 --> 00:40:37,040
Finding the first cache...
846
00:40:37,080 --> 00:40:38,320
You (BLEEP) looked straight at it.
847
00:40:38,360 --> 00:40:39,640
Get out of the way, let me roll it.
848
00:40:39,680 --> 00:40:40,920
Push it on top. Throw it on.
849
00:40:40,960 --> 00:40:43,240
..then as they attach it
to the chain...
850
00:40:43,280 --> 00:40:45,600
Come on, let's move.
Blues in this lead.
851
00:40:45,640 --> 00:40:46,960
Let's go.
852
00:40:47,000 --> 00:40:49,880
..Jana locates the final cache.
853
00:40:49,920 --> 00:40:51,640
It's over there.
You got it, Jana?
854
00:40:51,680 --> 00:40:53,080
Yep.
855
00:40:53,120 --> 00:40:54,840
(BLEEP) me.
856
00:40:54,880 --> 00:40:56,560
This is next level, bra.
857
00:40:56,600 --> 00:40:58,600
Let's move, let's move.
858
00:40:58,640 --> 00:41:00,120
Come on.
859
00:41:01,240 --> 00:41:06,040
Now, with all three caches,
the chain and full Bergens.
860
00:41:06,080 --> 00:41:12,000
The blue team are pulling 250kg
with a torturous 2km left
861
00:41:12,040 --> 00:41:13,400
to the finish line.
862
00:41:14,920 --> 00:41:16,160
Come on, guys.
863
00:41:18,280 --> 00:41:20,920
Catch them, catch them.
Come on team.
864
00:41:20,960 --> 00:41:22,520
Let's go.
865
00:41:22,560 --> 00:41:24,000
Not far behind,
866
00:41:24,040 --> 00:41:26,400
Isabelle's red team
reach the checkpoint.
867
00:41:26,440 --> 00:41:27,920
Stop.
Quick, come in.
868
00:41:27,960 --> 00:41:29,920
OK, we've got to go left,
left down this track.
869
00:41:29,960 --> 00:41:32,000
Three people left down this track.
870
00:41:32,040 --> 00:41:35,040
(CROSS TALKING)
871
00:41:35,080 --> 00:41:37,320
Oh, I need more one person down
the track.
872
00:41:37,360 --> 00:41:39,920
Go, Jess, until you find the cache.
873
00:41:39,960 --> 00:41:42,560
With clear instruction
from number eight, Isabelle...
874
00:41:42,600 --> 00:41:44,440
WOMAN: C'mon team.
MAN: Here's OK.
875
00:41:44,480 --> 00:41:45,880
One, two, three.
876
00:41:45,920 --> 00:41:47,000
MAN: Tally the red mark.
877
00:41:47,040 --> 00:41:48,720
..red team quickly navigate...
878
00:41:48,760 --> 00:41:50,040
Cache on the top.
879
00:41:50,080 --> 00:41:51,760
Let's get the next cache,
on your left go.
880
00:41:51,800 --> 00:41:53,440
Here, here.
881
00:41:53,480 --> 00:41:55,600
Come on, guys.
Get ready to receive.
882
00:41:55,640 --> 00:41:57,400
..and find both caches.
883
00:41:57,440 --> 00:41:59,320
Give it here, let's go.
884
00:42:00,640 --> 00:42:02,520
This is where we need to catch up.
885
00:42:02,560 --> 00:42:04,880
In a show of brute strength,
886
00:42:04,920 --> 00:42:08,680
number 16, NRL star Sam Burgess,
887
00:42:08,720 --> 00:42:11,920
takes the weight of the last cache
to himself
888
00:42:11,960 --> 00:42:14,480
in order to speed up
the pursuit.
889
00:42:14,520 --> 00:42:15,880
Come on.
890
00:42:15,920 --> 00:42:18,640
I'm open to see
where I can push myself.
891
00:42:19,680 --> 00:42:23,000
You know, I have a lot of respect
for the DS
892
00:42:23,040 --> 00:42:24,720
and what they've done
and where they've been.
893
00:42:24,760 --> 00:42:25,920
Let's go.
894
00:42:25,960 --> 00:42:27,640
I want to look those guys
in the eyes
895
00:42:27,680 --> 00:42:29,200
at the end of the course
and shake their hand...
896
00:42:29,240 --> 00:42:30,320
Come on!
897
00:42:30,360 --> 00:42:31,720
..and have their respect.
898
00:42:31,760 --> 00:42:32,760
Let's go!
899
00:42:32,800 --> 00:42:34,040
Come on, we're nearly getting there.
900
00:42:34,080 --> 00:42:35,680
I want to go deeper
into myself again
901
00:42:35,720 --> 00:42:37,720
and I don't ever want to go
in that place
902
00:42:37,760 --> 00:42:40,160
where I've been
in the last 18 months.
903
00:42:40,200 --> 00:42:42,640
Let's go!
904
00:42:42,680 --> 00:42:44,440
Come on,
if you can get a little lift there
905
00:42:44,480 --> 00:42:46,240
at the back, it'll help us.
906
00:42:46,280 --> 00:42:48,760
I'm hoping that I unlock something
again inside me.
907
00:42:48,800 --> 00:42:50,640
I'll relight that fire
that's always been inside me
908
00:42:50,680 --> 00:42:51,920
since a young kid.
909
00:42:51,960 --> 00:42:53,600
Swing it. Talk to 'em.
Move 'em.
910
00:42:53,640 --> 00:42:55,200
Here we go, one step,
one step at a time.
911
00:42:55,240 --> 00:42:56,440
Motivate them.
912
00:42:56,480 --> 00:42:58,520
With Sam's sheer brawn.
913
00:42:58,560 --> 00:43:01,440
The red team is in spitting distance
of the blue team.
914
00:43:02,840 --> 00:43:04,160
Right, number two.
915
00:43:04,200 --> 00:43:05,640
Clear that (BLEEP) obstacle.
916
00:43:05,680 --> 00:43:06,680
Good point, good point.
917
00:43:06,720 --> 00:43:07,960
Sort the obstacle, go!
918
00:43:08,000 --> 00:43:09,720
Come on,
let's start using your brain.
919
00:43:09,760 --> 00:43:12,760
Come on, you've got more
in the tank than that, come on.
920
00:43:12,800 --> 00:43:13,960
Come on.
921
00:43:14,000 --> 00:43:16,760
As Koby clears the way
for his blue team...
922
00:43:17,960 --> 00:43:19,120
Come on!
923
00:43:19,160 --> 00:43:21,840
Guys, Koby, help with pulling
until we get past it.
924
00:43:21,880 --> 00:43:23,280
Let's go, bro.
925
00:43:23,320 --> 00:43:29,040
..he also replaces the obstacle
in a bid to slow down the red team.
926
00:43:29,080 --> 00:43:30,400
Koby.
927
00:43:31,320 --> 00:43:32,680
Come on then.
928
00:43:32,720 --> 00:43:34,200
Come on, they're catching.
929
00:43:37,120 --> 00:43:38,760
What the (BLEEP) are you doing?
930
00:43:38,800 --> 00:43:40,120
What the (BLEEP) are you doing?
931
00:43:40,160 --> 00:43:41,200
Come on, team.
932
00:43:41,240 --> 00:43:42,560
Hey.
933
00:43:43,200 --> 00:43:45,480
Come on guys,
let's break their spirit.
934
00:43:58,960 --> 00:44:00,560
Sort the obstacle, go.
935
00:44:00,600 --> 00:44:02,000
Yank it out of the way.
936
00:44:02,040 --> 00:44:05,080
In front by the barest margin,
blue team leader, Koby...
937
00:44:05,120 --> 00:44:06,360
Pull all the way.
938
00:44:06,400 --> 00:44:09,280
..has cleared a fallen branch
to make way for his team...
939
00:44:10,080 --> 00:44:11,200
Let's go, guys.
940
00:44:13,160 --> 00:44:16,520
..but then replaces it to
slow down the red team...
941
00:44:17,840 --> 00:44:19,160
Seven, come on!
942
00:44:19,200 --> 00:44:21,600
Eight, nine, ten.
943
00:44:21,640 --> 00:44:22,880
Branch!
944
00:44:22,920 --> 00:44:24,200
What the (BLEEP) are you doing?
945
00:44:24,240 --> 00:44:25,480
..causing Sam...
946
00:44:25,520 --> 00:44:27,000
Come on, team.
Hey!
947
00:44:27,040 --> 00:44:29,080
..to stumble and fall.
948
00:44:30,680 --> 00:44:32,480
Get up.
949
00:44:32,520 --> 00:44:36,160
I think if we're going to do well
as a collective on this course
950
00:44:36,200 --> 00:44:38,440
then we'll need an element
of trust between us.
951
00:44:38,480 --> 00:44:39,960
Let's get back on that train.
952
00:44:40,000 --> 00:44:41,400
I'm all about pushing the boundaries
953
00:44:41,440 --> 00:44:44,360
but just blatant cheating
than yeah,
954
00:44:44,400 --> 00:44:46,440
it's not really a win, is it,
if you cheated to get a win.
955
00:44:46,480 --> 00:44:47,600
It's not really a win.
956
00:44:47,640 --> 00:44:50,120
Number 18. Grab this tyre.
957
00:44:50,800 --> 00:44:53,040
Right, put that
on number 18's head.
958
00:44:54,040 --> 00:44:56,840
Let's go, come on.
Right. That's it.
959
00:44:56,880 --> 00:44:58,520
Now's your opportunity
to catch this (BLEEP).
960
00:44:58,560 --> 00:45:00,440
Let's go, let's go now.
Let's go lot, let's go you lot.
961
00:45:00,480 --> 00:45:02,160
Come on, team.
One foot in front of the other.
962
00:45:02,200 --> 00:45:03,640
Let's go, let's go!
Pull team.
963
00:45:03,680 --> 00:45:05,000
Go, go, go!
964
00:45:05,040 --> 00:45:06,800
Don't stop, team, keep pulling.
965
00:45:06,840 --> 00:45:08,480
Let's go, team.
We've got this.
966
00:45:08,520 --> 00:45:10,680
Motivating her red team,
967
00:45:10,720 --> 00:45:13,760
Isabelle pushes to make up
the lost ground.
968
00:45:14,520 --> 00:45:15,640
Pull!
969
00:45:15,680 --> 00:45:16,960
Ignore the pain!
Let's keep going.
970
00:45:17,000 --> 00:45:18,320
Come on, team.
Let's go.
971
00:45:18,360 --> 00:45:21,600
Confidence means to me
believing in yourself.
972
00:45:21,640 --> 00:45:24,560
And I've got some one-liners
that run over in my head.
973
00:45:24,600 --> 00:45:25,840
Here we go.
Get a good rhythm.
974
00:45:25,880 --> 00:45:27,240
Keep pulling.
Come one. Come on.
975
00:45:27,280 --> 00:45:29,120
You know, it's like,
you can do this Issy.
976
00:45:29,160 --> 00:45:31,360
You're capable of anything
that you believe...
977
00:45:31,400 --> 00:45:33,040
Let's run, let's run, let's run.
978
00:45:33,080 --> 00:45:37,760
..and move forward, just keep going,
rebound, rebound, rebound.
979
00:45:37,800 --> 00:45:39,040
Let's get past them.
980
00:45:39,080 --> 00:45:41,520
Now just a few metres
from Koby's blue team...
981
00:45:41,560 --> 00:45:42,600
Clear that shit.
982
00:45:42,640 --> 00:45:44,880
..as they stop
to clear another obstacle.
983
00:45:46,440 --> 00:45:49,400
Isabelle's red team drive past them.
984
00:45:50,040 --> 00:45:51,680
Let's get past them.
985
00:45:51,720 --> 00:45:53,720
Go, go, go! Don't stop, team.
986
00:45:53,760 --> 00:45:55,760
This is it, this is it!
987
00:45:55,800 --> 00:45:57,400
Let's (BLEEP) go! Let's go!
988
00:45:57,440 --> 00:45:59,160
Let's push, let's push.
989
00:45:59,200 --> 00:46:00,880
Taking the lead for the first time.
990
00:46:00,920 --> 00:46:02,040
Go!
991
00:46:02,080 --> 00:46:03,640
Let's not let them pass,
let's not let them pass.
992
00:46:03,680 --> 00:46:06,120
Good, good.
Run, run, run, run.
993
00:46:06,160 --> 00:46:07,160
Run, run, run.
994
00:46:07,200 --> 00:46:09,720
We've got the lead now.
This is it now.
995
00:46:09,760 --> 00:46:11,240
This is it!
Come on, team.
996
00:46:11,280 --> 00:46:12,960
This is it.
We're nearly there.
997
00:46:13,000 --> 00:46:14,360
Let's go!
998
00:46:14,400 --> 00:46:15,600
Come on, team!
999
00:46:15,640 --> 00:46:17,320
Come on, everything guys!
1000
00:46:17,360 --> 00:46:19,480
Now behind in the race
1001
00:46:19,520 --> 00:46:22,560
and with a finish line
just 1km ahead...
1002
00:46:22,600 --> 00:46:24,720
Come on, let's use the hill.
1003
00:46:24,760 --> 00:46:28,240
..blue leader, Koby,
struggles to inspire his team.
1004
00:46:35,560 --> 00:46:36,960
I'll try and lead us.
1005
00:46:37,000 --> 00:46:39,320
Number seven, 'Ironman',
Jett Kenny...
1006
00:46:39,360 --> 00:46:40,920
Give me some chain, man.
1007
00:46:40,960 --> 00:46:42,760
..takes control of the team.
1008
00:46:42,800 --> 00:46:44,880
If there's someone
that I can question
1009
00:46:44,920 --> 00:46:46,880
their way of doing things...
1010
00:46:46,920 --> 00:46:49,200
Stay on the left tyre track, go!
1011
00:46:49,240 --> 00:46:50,480
Come on.
1012
00:46:50,520 --> 00:46:53,160
..I will happily step forward
if I have to.
1013
00:46:53,200 --> 00:46:56,720
Alright, little hill, come on,
let's go a little fast.
1014
00:46:56,760 --> 00:46:59,400
The biggest thing that will stress
me out is incompetence.
1015
00:46:59,440 --> 00:47:00,960
Go, go, go.
1016
00:47:02,040 --> 00:47:03,920
Come on, come on.
1017
00:47:03,960 --> 00:47:06,200
If there's a weak link in the team
1018
00:47:06,240 --> 00:47:08,720
and I if there are people
who I know
1019
00:47:08,760 --> 00:47:10,920
who are just
not giving it their all.
1020
00:47:10,960 --> 00:47:13,400
Then I don't want to be held back
by someone else.
1021
00:47:17,600 --> 00:47:19,080
Koby, we need you on the chain.
1022
00:47:19,120 --> 00:47:20,680
Oh, bra, you just told me
to go back there!
1023
00:47:20,720 --> 00:47:21,880
(BLEEP) no, I didn't.
1024
00:47:21,920 --> 00:47:23,560
Oi, oi, hey.
In there!
1025
00:47:23,600 --> 00:47:24,880
Come on guys, let's stay as a team.
1026
00:47:24,920 --> 00:47:26,920
(BLEEP) gaps too small, let's go.
1027
00:47:27,720 --> 00:47:31,400
With the blue team now gaining ground
under Jett's leadership...
1028
00:47:32,160 --> 00:47:34,080
Come on, guys, let's run.
1029
00:47:34,120 --> 00:47:35,640
Let's give it everything we've got.
1030
00:47:35,680 --> 00:47:40,160
..Isabelle's red team make their
final push to the finish line.
1031
00:47:40,200 --> 00:47:41,520
We're sprinting.
1032
00:47:41,560 --> 00:47:44,040
We're going to sprint
all the way in.
1033
00:47:44,080 --> 00:47:46,760
We're nearly there.
Once the tyre stops, you're in.
1034
00:47:46,800 --> 00:47:48,200
Stop!
1035
00:47:49,080 --> 00:47:52,840
Coming first,
the red team start to recover...
1036
00:47:52,880 --> 00:47:54,440
Good effort, good effort.
1037
00:47:54,480 --> 00:47:56,360
..as the blue team
approach the finish line...
1038
00:47:57,520 --> 00:47:58,920
Careful.
1039
00:48:00,240 --> 00:48:02,440
..and cross in second place.
1040
00:48:02,480 --> 00:48:03,800
Line up here.
1041
00:48:03,840 --> 00:48:05,320
OK, line up to the left.
1042
00:48:06,600 --> 00:48:09,040
Right, stand here,
line up in front of me.
1043
00:48:09,080 --> 00:48:11,000
And pin you're (BLEEP) ears back.
1044
00:48:15,600 --> 00:48:18,320
Red team dug deep,
believed in themselves,
1045
00:48:18,360 --> 00:48:19,720
got their second wind,
1046
00:48:19,760 --> 00:48:21,640
the team leader
started to motivate them
1047
00:48:21,680 --> 00:48:22,680
and get them together.
1048
00:48:22,720 --> 00:48:26,520
They started to pull together,
so (BLEEP) well done, OK?
1049
00:48:26,560 --> 00:48:28,080
You're only as good
as your last job.
1050
00:48:28,120 --> 00:48:29,280
This was your last job.
1051
00:48:31,800 --> 00:48:34,560
There's nothing worse
than a bunch of headless chickens
1052
00:48:34,600 --> 00:48:35,680
all (BLEEP) arguing,
1053
00:48:35,720 --> 00:48:37,360
'cause all you're doing then
is burning energy,
1054
00:48:37,400 --> 00:48:39,320
wasting time,
and it goes to rat shit
1055
00:48:39,360 --> 00:48:42,360
and the proof of that was, you lot.
1056
00:48:42,400 --> 00:48:44,920
You had it together
when you're up the front.
1057
00:48:44,960 --> 00:48:46,080
OK.
1058
00:48:46,120 --> 00:48:47,960
It was all together,
as soon your (BLEEP) with challenge,
1059
00:48:48,000 --> 00:48:51,400
that challenge is now the enemy
on your ass and you gave up.
1060
00:48:53,520 --> 00:48:55,720
Red team, form two ranks in front.
1061
00:48:55,760 --> 00:48:56,920
We're not finished.
1062
00:48:56,960 --> 00:48:59,440
Now we've got to get back,
don't we, let's go.
1063
00:49:01,200 --> 00:49:03,640
As punishment for losing the task...
1064
00:49:03,680 --> 00:49:04,800
Move!
1065
00:49:04,840 --> 00:49:08,240
..the blue team
must now run the 6km
1066
00:49:08,280 --> 00:49:10,840
back to the transport vehicles,
1067
00:49:10,880 --> 00:49:13,440
while the red team
wait to be picked up.
1068
00:49:13,480 --> 00:49:16,680
I told you this morning,
we're going to wrap things up.
1069
00:49:16,720 --> 00:49:17,800
Now move.
1070
00:49:19,480 --> 00:49:22,400
Having pushed so hard in the task,
1071
00:49:22,440 --> 00:49:25,480
taking over the leadership
of the team
1072
00:49:25,520 --> 00:49:31,480
and now having to run back,
Jett is drained of all energy.
1073
00:49:31,520 --> 00:49:34,200
Move, run, move.
1074
00:49:35,120 --> 00:49:36,960
Number seven, you (BLEEP) move,
1075
00:49:37,000 --> 00:49:38,400
what the (BLEEP)
are you doing at the back?
1076
00:49:38,440 --> 00:49:39,840
I'm struggling, staff.
Move.
1077
00:49:39,880 --> 00:49:41,640
When you suffer a loss...
1078
00:49:41,680 --> 00:49:43,160
Move, number seven.
1079
00:49:43,200 --> 00:49:45,360
..is when you don't have those wins
under your belt
1080
00:49:45,400 --> 00:49:47,240
and the confidence
starts to play on your mind
1081
00:49:47,280 --> 00:49:48,640
and you get a bit flustered.
1082
00:49:48,680 --> 00:49:50,880
Number seven, what the (BLEEP)
are you doing at the back?
1083
00:49:50,920 --> 00:49:52,920
I'm sorry, staff.
What are you doing?
1084
00:49:52,960 --> 00:49:55,400
Don't be (BLEEP) sorry,
what are you doing at the back?
1085
00:49:55,440 --> 00:49:56,760
I'm absolutely (BLEEP), staff.
1086
00:49:57,320 --> 00:49:59,720
I think the only thing
that's going to make me quit,
1087
00:49:59,760 --> 00:50:02,800
will be physically
not being able to continue.
1088
00:50:02,840 --> 00:50:04,720
Your (BLEEP) place is questionable
on this course.
1089
00:50:04,760 --> 00:50:06,320
I'm taking one for the team staff.
1090
00:50:06,360 --> 00:50:08,840
I'm a liability to the team
and I know that, staff.
1091
00:50:08,880 --> 00:50:10,720
Think about what you're doing.
1092
00:50:11,880 --> 00:50:14,920
The thoughts that are going to
get me through mentally,
1093
00:50:14,960 --> 00:50:16,880
I think will just be my family.
1094
00:50:18,720 --> 00:50:22,280
Three, two, one.
1095
00:50:22,320 --> 00:50:24,280
(BLEEP) off!
Sorry, staff.
1096
00:50:27,640 --> 00:50:32,680
Finding the strength to carry on,
Jett reaches the end.
1097
00:50:36,480 --> 00:50:37,920
I'd like to think that mentally,
1098
00:50:37,960 --> 00:50:40,880
I will be able
to get through most things,
1099
00:50:40,920 --> 00:50:43,520
I'd like to hope it's going to take
a lot for me to quit...
1100
00:50:44,680 --> 00:50:46,720
..and to be honest,
I hope I don't quit
1101
00:50:46,760 --> 00:50:49,400
because I will see that
as a failure.
1102
00:50:49,440 --> 00:50:51,360
I had my number in my hand,
like hold it out to him.
1103
00:50:51,400 --> 00:50:52,760
Which one is that?
1104
00:50:52,800 --> 00:50:55,480
Why, aye, fix that, bra.
1105
00:50:56,240 --> 00:50:57,480
You're an Ironman.
1106
00:50:57,520 --> 00:50:59,080
You are not a liability.
1107
00:51:07,120 --> 00:51:08,640
MAN: Kid, that was hard, that.
1108
00:51:08,680 --> 00:51:10,040
Oh, (BLEEP).
1109
00:51:10,080 --> 00:51:12,680
After a punishing test
of their confidence,
1110
00:51:12,720 --> 00:51:16,560
the exhausted recruits
take time to recover.
1111
00:51:16,600 --> 00:51:19,000
You're a weapon, mate, you're...
1112
00:51:21,040 --> 00:51:23,280
I can't believe you only said
you went 95%.
1113
00:51:23,320 --> 00:51:25,200
I saw you drag it.
My legs, mate.
1114
00:51:25,960 --> 00:51:27,760
We had a few, yeah.
1115
00:51:30,600 --> 00:51:34,080
Oh, no, we just, we,
the technique we, yeah, no we...
1116
00:51:34,120 --> 00:51:35,200
It was cooked.
1117
00:51:35,240 --> 00:51:36,560
..'cause, you know
how you guys had a flat.
1118
00:51:36,600 --> 00:51:37,600
Yeah.
1119
00:51:37,640 --> 00:51:38,640
We needed to do that.
1120
00:51:38,680 --> 00:51:40,040
How it keeps falling off,
we didn't adjust,
1121
00:51:40,080 --> 00:51:41,520
we just, we were (BLEEP).
1122
00:51:41,560 --> 00:51:43,280
Yeah.
1123
00:51:43,320 --> 00:51:45,920
I was saying to Koby,
he was like tired as hell.
1124
00:51:45,960 --> 00:51:47,280
He was the team leader, right?
1125
00:51:47,320 --> 00:51:50,040
Yeah and he's like sitting
at the back of the tyres pushing.
1126
00:51:50,080 --> 00:51:51,880
I was like we'll rotate,
we'll go, like,
1127
00:51:51,920 --> 00:51:53,880
front to back
and make our way up the chain,
1128
00:51:53,920 --> 00:51:55,280
keep doing that.
1129
00:51:55,320 --> 00:51:57,840
But he spent a lot of time
at the back like pushing the tyres
1130
00:51:57,880 --> 00:51:59,360
which didn't really do anything.
1131
00:52:02,080 --> 00:52:03,520
Number seven.
1132
00:52:09,040 --> 00:52:12,160
With a confident display
of leadership in the task
1133
00:52:12,200 --> 00:52:15,320
and then a sudden attempt to VW,
1134
00:52:15,360 --> 00:52:19,920
the DS have questions
for number, seven, Jett Kenny.
1135
00:52:28,600 --> 00:52:32,400
Right, first and foremost,
1136
00:52:32,440 --> 00:52:35,600
take me back to your meltdown.
1137
00:52:35,640 --> 00:52:36,880
You know what I mean?
1138
00:52:36,920 --> 00:52:38,640
I do know what you mean, staff.
1139
00:52:38,680 --> 00:52:40,320
I'm taking one for the team, staff.
1140
00:52:40,360 --> 00:52:42,720
I'm a liability to the team
and I know that, staff.
1141
00:52:42,760 --> 00:52:44,200
Think about what you're doing.
1142
00:52:47,320 --> 00:52:50,160
What was going through your head?
1143
00:52:50,920 --> 00:52:54,960
I felt like as soon as I was
going to become a liability,
1144
00:52:55,640 --> 00:52:57,720
I probably didn't deserve
to be there.
1145
00:52:59,920 --> 00:53:02,320
Because in my head I've failed.
1146
00:53:03,600 --> 00:53:06,920
Were you told by one of us
that you were the liability?
1147
00:53:06,960 --> 00:53:08,040
No, staff.
1148
00:53:08,080 --> 00:53:09,560
I put that in my head.
1149
00:53:09,600 --> 00:53:12,520
So you're planting your own seed
of doubt, is in your head.
1150
00:53:12,560 --> 00:53:14,800
Do you feel like
you're not good enough?
1151
00:53:14,840 --> 00:53:16,320
Where does it come from?
1152
00:53:16,360 --> 00:53:18,520
I mean, I guess I know
my physical limits.
1153
00:53:18,560 --> 00:53:21,000
The whole point of coming here
is to see
1154
00:53:21,040 --> 00:53:23,720
how far you can push yourself,
not see where your barriers are.
1155
00:53:23,760 --> 00:53:24,920
Yeah.
1156
00:53:24,960 --> 00:53:28,000
I would say today
when you hit that wall,
1157
00:53:28,040 --> 00:53:30,200
you've overcome
a barrier by gritting your teeth,
1158
00:53:30,240 --> 00:53:32,240
looking at your number
and putting it back on your arm.
1159
00:53:32,280 --> 00:53:35,440
And that's something
I've over the years
1160
00:53:35,480 --> 00:53:39,160
of growing up in the sport,
sort of my coaches and my dad
1161
00:53:39,200 --> 00:53:42,000
have sort of, like,
just because something happens,
1162
00:53:42,040 --> 00:53:44,240
you go all the way
through to the end
1163
00:53:44,280 --> 00:53:45,920
and you're going to learn
from those mistakes.
1164
00:53:45,960 --> 00:53:47,240
That's exactly right.
1165
00:53:48,280 --> 00:53:50,400
Is your father a big motivation
in your life?
1166
00:53:50,440 --> 00:53:51,640
He is.
He is.
1167
00:53:51,680 --> 00:53:52,760
He is, I feel like...
1168
00:53:52,800 --> 00:53:54,600
Is it because of him
you're in the sport or?
1169
00:53:54,640 --> 00:53:58,280
Yes, so dad was,
well, start by saying,
1170
00:53:58,320 --> 00:54:00,040
big sort of name.
1171
00:54:00,080 --> 00:54:02,200
He was a hard worker,
same as my mum.
1172
00:54:02,240 --> 00:54:03,560
Both went to the Olympics,
1173
00:54:03,600 --> 00:54:06,760
just and massive inspirations
in my life.
1174
00:54:07,480 --> 00:54:08,880
They're still present in your life?
1175
00:54:08,920 --> 00:54:10,400
Very much so.
Good.
1176
00:54:10,440 --> 00:54:14,920
They, yeah,
family's a big thing for us.
1177
00:54:16,600 --> 00:54:19,680
And then the only thing
that really affects me emotionally
1178
00:54:19,720 --> 00:54:21,040
is seeing them upset.
1179
00:54:21,680 --> 00:54:24,800
I remember with my sister
passing in September,
1180
00:54:25,640 --> 00:54:28,800
we're all sitting there around
the hospital bed with her,
1181
00:54:28,840 --> 00:54:30,440
saying our last goodbyes
1182
00:54:30,480 --> 00:54:34,120
and I just remember seeing them
sitting there,
1183
00:54:34,160 --> 00:54:37,200
holding her hand,
just being like,
1184
00:54:37,240 --> 00:54:38,960
"What more could we have done?"
1185
00:54:41,600 --> 00:54:43,000
Mum said it perfectly,
1186
00:54:43,040 --> 00:54:46,440
she was fighting a demon
in her head, or demons,
1187
00:54:46,480 --> 00:54:48,440
but unfortunately the demons
got her in the end.
1188
00:54:48,480 --> 00:54:50,920
She beat some away
but then more had come back.
1189
00:54:52,480 --> 00:54:53,880
It was good in a way
1190
00:54:53,920 --> 00:54:56,080
because it was almost like
her suffering was over.
1191
00:54:58,120 --> 00:55:01,400
So, she battled on
for another eight and a half,
1192
00:55:01,440 --> 00:55:03,440
nine hours from when I last saw her.
1193
00:55:03,480 --> 00:55:05,080
From when they took
the life support off
1194
00:55:05,120 --> 00:55:06,720
and that's what she was,
1195
00:55:06,760 --> 00:55:11,240
she was a fighter from day one
until the very end.
1196
00:55:13,320 --> 00:55:15,120
You just said one thing
right there
1197
00:55:15,160 --> 00:55:17,960
which you need to take with you.
1198
00:55:19,080 --> 00:55:20,720
That she was a fighter.
1199
00:55:20,760 --> 00:55:21,960
She was.
1200
00:55:22,640 --> 00:55:24,880
That will be a huge motivator
1201
00:55:24,920 --> 00:55:27,760
'cause I would (BLEEP)
live the legacy for her.
1202
00:55:27,800 --> 00:55:29,840
Yeah, that came to my head today,
staff,
1203
00:55:29,880 --> 00:55:32,040
when we were pulling those tyres.
1204
00:55:32,080 --> 00:55:35,040
I was just like every step
is just one more step
1205
00:55:35,080 --> 00:55:38,080
and it was just in my,
in the back of my mind,
1206
00:55:38,120 --> 00:55:40,280
it was just,
my sister's kind of there.
1207
00:55:41,440 --> 00:55:44,160
What you've got to remember
1208
00:55:44,200 --> 00:55:46,600
is not taking that armband off...
1209
00:55:46,640 --> 00:55:47,640
Yeah.
1210
00:55:47,680 --> 00:55:51,120
..when times are looking difficult
or you're facing failure.
1211
00:55:51,160 --> 00:55:53,400
Yeah.
That's called resilience.
1212
00:55:53,440 --> 00:55:56,600
Taking that off is never knowing
how far you could have got.
1213
00:55:56,640 --> 00:55:58,120
Yeah, yeah.
And you'll always wonder.
1214
00:55:58,160 --> 00:55:59,240
Yeah.
1215
00:55:59,280 --> 00:56:01,680
Now get your head back
in the game now, OK?
1216
00:56:03,200 --> 00:56:04,320
Guard.
1217
00:56:06,880 --> 00:56:11,440
Everyone knew Jamie as the bubbly,
bright person that she was.
1218
00:56:11,480 --> 00:56:14,000
But when you've got to live
with mental health every single day,
1219
00:56:14,040 --> 00:56:15,920
it's not always sunshine
and rainbows.
1220
00:56:15,960 --> 00:56:19,600
It's the dark storm
and the rain that comes with it.
1221
00:56:19,640 --> 00:56:22,720
Like, it's my eldest sister,
I still love her.
1222
00:56:22,760 --> 00:56:24,520
But you can only offer so much.
1223
00:56:26,760 --> 00:56:29,320
When it comes down to anyone
with mental health,
1224
00:56:29,360 --> 00:56:31,400
you don't really know
what they're going through
1225
00:56:31,440 --> 00:56:32,600
and you never will.
1226
00:56:33,520 --> 00:56:35,240
How you doing, Jett?
I'm alright.
1227
00:56:35,280 --> 00:56:37,040
I've set a high standard for myself
1228
00:56:37,080 --> 00:56:39,200
and I've just got to try
and live by it.
1229
00:56:39,240 --> 00:56:40,840
It doesn't have to be perfect.
Yeah.
1230
00:56:40,880 --> 00:56:42,320
You can't, that's not possible.
1231
00:56:42,360 --> 00:56:44,560
No, I know and it's,
there's never been pressure
1232
00:56:44,600 --> 00:56:47,080
from Mum or Dad in anyway.
1233
00:56:47,120 --> 00:56:48,640
I know which is a beautiful thing,
1234
00:56:48,680 --> 00:56:50,560
but I know that you push
that pressure on yourself.
1235
00:56:50,600 --> 00:56:51,800
Yeah.
Am I right?
1236
00:56:51,840 --> 00:56:53,000
Yeah, I mean.
1237
00:56:53,040 --> 00:56:54,640
It's the same thing for me,
if my son played tennis,
1238
00:56:54,680 --> 00:56:55,920
I almost don't want him
to play tennis.
1239
00:56:55,960 --> 00:56:57,200
Yeah.
1240
00:56:57,240 --> 00:56:59,040
'Cause I don't want the pressure
of people looking at him
1241
00:56:59,080 --> 00:57:00,800
because that's what
they're doing to you.
1242
00:57:00,840 --> 00:57:02,040
I guarantee it.
Yeah.
1243
00:57:02,080 --> 00:57:03,760
Well, it's like when I was a kid,
I was never just Jett.
1244
00:57:03,800 --> 00:57:05,400
I was always Jett Kenny.
Of course, of course.
1245
00:57:05,440 --> 00:57:06,960
Like I always had
my last name associated
1246
00:57:07,000 --> 00:57:08,680
because of who Mum and Dad were,
1247
00:57:08,720 --> 00:57:10,800
and again, I,
1248
00:57:10,840 --> 00:57:13,240
like I got bullied at school
and stuff like that
1249
00:57:13,280 --> 00:57:15,120
for who my parents were
and everything.
1250
00:57:15,160 --> 00:57:16,440
It's (BLEEP) jealously.
1251
00:57:16,480 --> 00:57:18,560
That's just made me who I am today.
1252
00:57:19,440 --> 00:57:22,360
I'd like to think that I believe
in myself a fair bit.
1253
00:57:22,400 --> 00:57:24,840
But at the same time,
1254
00:57:24,880 --> 00:57:29,160
it's a matter
of not having done anything
1255
00:57:29,200 --> 00:57:31,360
to warrant heaps of self-belief.
1256
00:57:31,920 --> 00:57:34,440
In terms of filling the shoes
of my parents.
1257
00:57:34,480 --> 00:57:38,320
I don't think that's anything
that can ever be replicated.
1258
00:57:38,360 --> 00:57:39,880
I'll just tell you right now.
1259
00:57:39,920 --> 00:57:41,320
Life is tough enough.
Yeah.
1260
00:57:41,360 --> 00:57:44,080
Why beat yourself up as well?
Yeah.
1261
00:57:44,120 --> 00:57:45,840
You've got your own journey.
Yeah.
1262
00:57:45,880 --> 00:57:48,200
You've got your own,
everyone's got their own journey.
1263
00:57:48,240 --> 00:57:51,640
I think for me, it's trying to be
the best person I can be.
1264
00:57:51,680 --> 00:57:55,920
Trying to be, the person
my mum and dad raised me to be.
1265
00:57:55,960 --> 00:57:59,720
I don't need the accolades or medals
or praise from other people.
1266
00:57:59,760 --> 00:58:04,280
I'm very content
with doing my family proud.
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