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- In the beginning,
everyone wants to send you
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flowers and donate to,
like, a foundation
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for your dead person.
And they stop calling
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and writing because
they're over it,
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and they expect you
to be over it.
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- When's the last time you went
to your apartment?
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- A little before the funeral.
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- So, like, three months?
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This is our apartment.
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- This is our home.
- This is our home.
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- There's gotta be some things
you want to keep.
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Think about what
makes you happy.
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- Well, nothing makes me happy.
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- You think you knew him,
but you really didn't know him
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as well as you thought.
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- "I keep replaying
the day we met.
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"I couldn't believe it
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"when we realized
'Shawshank Redemption'
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"was both our favorite movie.
And 'Catcher in the Rye'
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"was our favorite book.
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"I came home and pinched myself
until my arm bruised
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"to make sure this day
wasn't a dream.
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"We're soul mates, Becca.
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We were made for each other."
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Griffin was in Kandahar.
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He was setting up
a field hospital
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when he killed by an IED.
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- Thank you for your sacrifice.
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Thank you for
your sacrifice.
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- Thank you for your sacrifice.
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- Being new to LA,
it just means so much to me
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to have found this community.
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I just feel so connected
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to each and every one of you.
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You feel like my family.
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- Thank you.
- Thank you.
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- Leigh. Hi.
- Hey.
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- Claire mentioned
you're a widow too.
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Was your husband
in the military also? Or wife?
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- No, neither.
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- I just moved here
from Pendleton
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so I'm literally driving
around going
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"This is so beautiful."
- Yeah.
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- Venice Beach, Disneyland...
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- I know. It's a great city.
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Sorry, I've got to...
I teach at a class.
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- Oh, I love kids.
What grade?
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- No, it's an exercise...
it's like
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a ballet, yoga, pilates
combo thing.
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- Wow, that sounds amazing.
- Yeah.
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- I haven't worked out once
since Griffin died.
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I'm such a blob.
- Well...
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- What's the name
of the studio?
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- It's called Beautiful Beast.
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- Great name.
- Yeah.
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- Well, you have my number on
the roster.
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You know, I'm totally around.
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See, you know, maybe we could
hang out...
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- Sure, yeah. Running late.
- Okay.
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- Bye.
- Bye.
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- I called her six times.
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- She's not calling
anyone back, Richard.
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- Okay, but I'm her father.
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- She just became a widow
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50 years sooner
than she expected.
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Could you maybe not make this
about you?
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Where's my tea?
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- I just know the power
that you have over her.
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- "Power"?
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Why does someone always have
to be in charge in your mind?
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Why is one of us
always winning?
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Where is my tea?
- It's coming.
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What's going on?
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- I'm just worried about her.
That's all.
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So am I.
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How could something
like this happen
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to someone who's just
so alive?
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- I go over it
and over it in my head.
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Sabrina thought that maybe
we'd make a donation
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in his name to the school
where he taught.
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- She's a class act, your wife.
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How's Evie?
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- Loving school in Ojai.
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Varsity equestrian.
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- How's business?
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- I was hoping to buy
the whole building.
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Fingers crossed
it's still in the cards.
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- But don't you make
your own hand?
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I mean, aren't your cards
something that you control?
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Here you go, ma'am.
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- Thank you.
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I have to go.
I have a delivery at 9:00.
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- Oh, come on.
- Thank you for the tea.
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- I would really like
to see my daughter.
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If you could...
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empower her to return my calls,
I would really appreciate it.
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I will try.
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That's a sexy face.
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- "Nothing is impossible.
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The word itself
says I'm possible."
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- Ew.
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- I know, this Nicholas Sparks
widow group
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keeps sending me
inspirational quotes
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that make me want to burn
the world down.
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- How's that different from
normal you?
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- I'm serious. She put on
the most spectacular show.
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She had this little tear
hanging on her perfect eyelash
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for the entire hour
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and everyone was obsessed
with her.
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- Sounds like she's got it
figured out.
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- Like she's got what
figured out?
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- How to make tragedy
glamorous.
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Like Jackie O.
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- Jules, normal people don't
envy tragedy.
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- Of course they do.
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For the rest of your life,
you're deep.
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It's like you've touched
the edge.
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I mean, obviously,
I don't think like that,
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but people milk their stories
for a reason.
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You should come to a meeting.
- No. No, thank you.
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- You'll see.
We're good at sharing.
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I tell the best stories.
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I have this one
about how I partied so hard
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I puked on Questlove.
Always kills.
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- You shouldn't
be proud of that.
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- It's my best story.
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- Leigh, would you please
call your father
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so that he stops bothering me?
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Texting doesn't count.
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- I don't want
to call him or anyone.
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- She's got an ironclad excuse.
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- Feel like I get
at least six months.
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- I'd say more.
- One call. Ten minutes.
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- If dad wanted to have
a better relationship with me,
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he could have been nicer to
Matt when he was alive.
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- Your father loved Matt.
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- Okay, I'm sorry,
were you not at my wedding
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when he came up to me
20 minutes before the ceremony
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to let me know that it was okay
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if I were having
second thoughts?
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- He would have done
that with anyone.
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That's what dads do.
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- Whatever, we can pretend
like that's reality.
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- So we're starting
class pass today.
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We don't make any money
from these people.
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We just want to hook 'em in
so that they buy a package,
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which we need big time,
so be extra nice.
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Okay?
Everybody got that?
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Nice with a cherry on top.
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- She's talking to you.
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- Pretty sure
she's talking to you.
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- Feels like
I'm talking to myself.
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Put your phones down.
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Go and get some sun.
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- Hi! I made it.
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- You did.
Jules, this...
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- Oh, I know.
Yeah, we've been hanging.
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Becca's so excited
to take your class.
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- This place is amazing.
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The light and the colors.
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Griff and I painted
our entire house warm colors
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so it always felt so cozy.
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- Wait, oh, my God.
Leigh's obsessed with color.
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She's always talking my ear off
about the power of chartreuse.
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You guys are like
the same person.
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- Hi, Mia Powell.
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It's my first time.
I'm on class pass.
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- Hey, Mia.
What's up?
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Let's get you set up.
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- It's my first time too.
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Don't go easy on me though.
Kick my ass.
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I'm ready to sweat.
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- 18, 19, 20.
Inhale, down.
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And exhale into boat.
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Come on, ladies,
I want to see you
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holding the position.
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And we're moving into
plank leg raises.
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20 reps, right leg.
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And leg up. And in. Leg up.
And in.
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If anyone planks, we will
start counting again.
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And up. And in. Six up. And in.
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Don't be the one
who lets everyone down.
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Or I'll start over again.
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And up. And in.
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No one gives up.
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- What the hell
happened in there?
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- I just wanted everyone
to give it their all.
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- Well, you certainly
got that, didn't you?
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- Yeah.
- It wasn't Leigh's fault.
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She told us to listen
to our bodies.
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- I did. I said that.
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- Do you want to grab a juice?
It's my treat.
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- Can't.
I've got a class at 2:00.
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- No, you don't.
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- I feel amazing.
It's the endorphins.
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You're lucky it's your job
to create endorphins
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three times a day.
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- Yeah, I don't feel
particularly lucky.
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- Are you a person of faith?
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- N-not... no.
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- Well, it helps.
Going to church every week.
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Checking in with God.
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- I mean, I still wonder why
he did this to me,
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but then I realize there's
a purpose to my life now.
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That's what my pastor says.
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- Your pastor thinks
that God made your husband die
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so that you can have a purpose?
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- I think he just means
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God doesn't give us
anything we can't handle.
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- I hear that a lot,
but I'm not quite sure
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what it means.
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- I think it means
we all have wells of strength
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we didn't realize we had.
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- Wasn't that interesting
what Claire was saying?
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About how self care
is so important
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and how we need to take care
of ourselves right now.
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- I was actually kind of
spacing out at group.
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Well, she was talking about
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this thing called skin hunger.
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- There were these studies
on monkeys and orphans
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who were never touched
and it made them go crazy.
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Griffin was deployed
for five months before he died.
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I don't even know the last time
I was touched that way.
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I think it's so important
to listen to Claire.
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I think we need
to take care of ourselves
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right now,
even though we don't want to...
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Korean spa on Western
where you can get massages
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and dip into
these little pools.
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And it's two for one Tuesdays
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so I made an appointment
for us at 8:00.
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And then I thought...
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- Sorry,
can I ask you something?
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- Yeah.
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- Do you know your husband's
passcode to his phone?
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- Of course, doesn't everyone?
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I mean,
otherwise I'd wonder
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who he was texting
that he didn't want me to see.
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I mean, but I also think
it's so important
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to have our own lives
and be independent.
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- Look, um...
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I know that...
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you think we have
a lot in common
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because we're both widows
and not 70,
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but to be honest
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I-I really don't
want new friends.
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I don't want to feel pressured
to respond to messages,
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and say yes to plans,
and hear your stories that,
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frankly, make me feel terrible
about my life.
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And I would rather be
angry and mean
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when I feel like it because
that's what I need right now.
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- I didn't...
- No, I'm... so...
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You are Jackie O
and I am Courtney Love.
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And Jackie O and Courtney Love
are not friends.
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Not in any universe.
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- What do I want to manifest?
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I am a successful
businesswoman.
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My daughters are independent
and thriving.
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I have a wonderful partner
who fulfills all of my needs,
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emotional, spiritual...
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sexual.
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- Mom.
You have to read this review.
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- What?
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- Kay, "The teacher went mental
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and screamed at us so much
I literally puked."
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We should put that on a sign.
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Classes so tough
we'll make you puke.
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- No. No. No.
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If this is the first review
that comes up,
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I mean,
we'll just go out of business.
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- Mom, it's fine.
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Tons of people love us.
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- Those people
don't write reviews.
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Maybe I should just take her
off the schedule.
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Lacey keeps asking
for more classes.
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- Okay, Leigh's hardly doing
any already.
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It's not fair.
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- Jules, how do you not get
how bad this is?
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- Why are you yelling at me?
It's her fault.
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I'm the good child for
the first time ever.
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- This review,
it can't stay up.
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Oh, God.
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- Can I get you started
with something to drink?
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- Hey.
Didn't...
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Were you at Beautiful Beast
yesterday?
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- Were you in that class?
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The teacher was
a total psychopath.
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My mom actually owns
that place.
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00:12:47,809 --> 00:12:50,228
- Oh, right, I remember you.
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She should really fire
that girl.
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You guys are gonna have
a lawsuit or something.
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- Yeah. I'll tell her.
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Hey, I'd love to comp
you some classes.
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- Yeah,
I'm never going back there.
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- Yeah.
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We're a small studio,
women-owned,
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and even one review
like that can really
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take a dump on our ratings.
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Is there any way
you could take it down?
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- Are you serious right now?
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00:13:15,379 --> 00:13:18,047
It wasn't just that girl.
The music sucked.
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And the ladies
were all Lulu Lemmings.
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00:13:19,925 --> 00:13:23,135
And the photos in the lobby
were body-shaming propaganda.
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00:13:23,136 --> 00:13:24,637
I workout to feel better
about myself
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and I left feeling worse.
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You read my review.
What did you do? Stalk me?
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- Of course not.
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00:13:32,980 --> 00:13:35,398
But if I wanted to,
I could talk about
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how dirty my fork is
or how rude my server Mia was.
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Oh but, you know,
that wouldn't be fair
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to someone who depends
on her tips.
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- You know what?
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Just so you don't key my car,
fine.
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I'll take it down.
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Happy?
- Thank you.
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Thank you.
- Yep.
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- No, I swear, if
you were to cut her open
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she would bleed glitter.
318
00:14:01,133 --> 00:14:03,050
- Oh, my God. Block her.
Block her number.
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00:14:03,051 --> 00:14:06,095
- Yeah, I know.
- Do it.
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00:14:06,096 --> 00:14:07,764
- God.
321
00:14:08,932 --> 00:14:11,058
- So I have some news.
322
00:14:12,436 --> 00:14:15,439
- Ryan and I are engaged.
323
00:14:16,607 --> 00:14:18,691
- Wow.
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00:14:18,692 --> 00:14:20,693
Congratulations.
325
00:14:20,694 --> 00:14:22,403
- We're actually looking
at venues right now.
326
00:14:22,404 --> 00:14:24,739
There's this cool place
downtown
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00:14:24,740 --> 00:14:26,282
that has an opening in, like,
a month.
328
00:14:26,283 --> 00:14:27,992
- Ooh, that's fast.
329
00:14:27,993 --> 00:14:30,953
And you guys,
you got engaged last night?
330
00:14:30,954 --> 00:14:32,997
- Um... No.
331
00:14:32,998 --> 00:14:35,918
It was late June.
332
00:14:36,793 --> 00:14:39,504
- So just after Matt...
- Yeah.
333
00:14:42,633 --> 00:14:45,259
- Actually that was sort of
part of it.
334
00:14:45,260 --> 00:14:48,554
We both realized
that life is short.
335
00:14:48,555 --> 00:14:50,848
Why wait?
You know, why not
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00:14:50,849 --> 00:14:53,684
become each other's person now?
337
00:14:53,685 --> 00:14:55,728
I haven't, like,
posted about it or anything
338
00:14:55,729 --> 00:14:58,272
because I didn't want you
to feel pressure.
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00:14:58,273 --> 00:15:00,900
Like, you, you know,
had to be happy for me.
340
00:15:00,901 --> 00:15:02,818
- Of course I'm happy for you.
341
00:15:02,819 --> 00:15:04,195
- Thanks, lady.
342
00:15:04,196 --> 00:15:05,863
- But what about...
343
00:15:05,864 --> 00:15:08,659
when he was texting
that pastry chef?
344
00:15:09,952 --> 00:15:11,953
- That was, like,
nine months ago.
345
00:15:11,954 --> 00:15:14,121
- But aren't you afraid that
that's gonna happen again?
346
00:15:14,122 --> 00:15:16,207
- No,
because we worked through that.
347
00:15:16,208 --> 00:15:17,625
- So you're saying
that you trust him enough
348
00:15:17,626 --> 00:15:19,001
in order to pledge eternal...
349
00:15:19,002 --> 00:15:20,503
- Yes.
- Okay.
350
00:15:20,504 --> 00:15:22,381
- Because we worked through it.
- Okay.
351
00:15:26,343 --> 00:15:28,886
Look, I know that you're going
through a hard time right now,
352
00:15:28,887 --> 00:15:30,805
but the best friend
code of conduct
353
00:15:30,806 --> 00:15:33,516
is to at least pretend
to be excited for me
354
00:15:33,517 --> 00:15:35,810
and maybe not trash my fiancé
355
00:15:35,811 --> 00:15:37,687
because he made one mistake
one time.
356
00:15:37,688 --> 00:15:39,730
- So are you just...
you're leaving?
357
00:15:39,731 --> 00:15:41,858
- I've like 20 pieces to edit
before the end of the day.
358
00:15:41,859 --> 00:15:45,028
- Okay.
- I'll catch you later, okay?
359
00:15:49,533 --> 00:15:51,242
- So I'm in my office,
360
00:15:51,243 --> 00:15:53,744
and this is, like,
six or seven months ago, right.
361
00:15:53,745 --> 00:15:56,581
And, uh...
and Tamara Shue walks in.
362
00:15:56,582 --> 00:15:58,291
You guys know who she is,
right?
363
00:15:58,292 --> 00:16:00,334
- She's the CEO of Cerberus.
- I know who she is...
364
00:16:00,335 --> 00:16:01,919
- Shh. Shh. Go.
365
00:16:01,920 --> 00:16:04,630
- So she asks if I can help her
366
00:16:04,631 --> 00:16:06,299
debug her program.
I'm serious.
367
00:16:07,843 --> 00:16:10,261
I'm serious.
- Debug the program.
368
00:16:10,262 --> 00:16:12,221
- Debug her program
is what she said.
369
00:16:12,222 --> 00:16:13,931
So she's sitting right across
from me
370
00:16:13,932 --> 00:16:16,058
and, I swear to God,
she just, like,
371
00:16:16,059 --> 00:16:17,643
starts "Basic Instincting" me.
372
00:16:17,644 --> 00:16:18,770
What?
373
00:16:18,770 --> 00:16:20,022
- That did not happen.
374
00:16:20,023 --> 00:16:21,814
- Yes, it did happen.
375
00:16:21,815 --> 00:16:24,192
- Daniel, you're supposed
to be telling a truth or a lie.
376
00:16:24,193 --> 00:16:25,943
- Yeah, not some seventh grade
fantasy.
377
00:16:25,944 --> 00:16:28,362
- You've got such a tell.
You just can't stop grinning.
378
00:16:28,363 --> 00:16:30,281
Which is why you can never
go to Vegas.
379
00:16:33,577 --> 00:16:37,330
- My turn.
- Okay.
380
00:16:37,331 --> 00:16:39,707
Truth or lie.
Truth or lie.
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00:16:39,708 --> 00:16:41,542
Truth or lie.
382
00:16:41,543 --> 00:16:43,962
Truth or...
383
00:16:45,631 --> 00:16:47,298
- Okay.
384
00:16:47,299 --> 00:16:50,927
So when I was
a junior in high school.
385
00:16:50,928 --> 00:16:53,137
Danny and I...
386
00:16:53,138 --> 00:16:56,390
had this SAT tutor
named Cassie.
387
00:16:56,391 --> 00:16:58,100
- Cassie!
- Yeah.
388
00:16:58,101 --> 00:17:00,354
She was probably around,
I don't know, 27, 28.
389
00:17:02,231 --> 00:17:04,649
And it was the night before
the SATS
390
00:17:04,650 --> 00:17:06,734
and I was nervous.
391
00:17:06,735 --> 00:17:08,528
Super nervous.
392
00:17:08,529 --> 00:17:10,696
And Cassie says, "The only
thing to do tonight
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00:17:10,697 --> 00:17:12,240
is to relax."
And I'm like,
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00:17:12,241 --> 00:17:13,658
"I can't."
Because I'm me.
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00:17:13,659 --> 00:17:15,910
And she says,
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00:17:15,911 --> 00:17:17,995
"Come with me."
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00:17:17,996 --> 00:17:21,040
- So we drive
to Bridgeburn Park,
398
00:17:21,041 --> 00:17:23,835
back behind the restrooms,
you know.
399
00:17:23,836 --> 00:17:26,587
There's this red-haired mom
and her baby on the swings
400
00:17:26,588 --> 00:17:30,174
and she looked at us and...
401
00:17:30,175 --> 00:17:33,344
they left like they knew
we were up to something.
402
00:17:33,345 --> 00:17:36,097
And Cassie pulls out a joint
403
00:17:36,098 --> 00:17:38,266
and takes a drag...
- Nice.
404
00:17:38,267 --> 00:17:40,017
- And leans over
405
00:17:40,018 --> 00:17:43,479
and blows smoke into my mouth.
406
00:17:45,399 --> 00:17:46,899
- And as she does this
407
00:17:46,900 --> 00:17:49,986
she licks my lips just
the tiniest bit.
408
00:17:52,948 --> 00:17:54,615
- It was the hottest thing
that ever happened to me.
409
00:17:54,616 --> 00:17:56,367
- Yeah.
410
00:17:56,368 --> 00:17:59,036
- Little did I know
how much hotness I had to come.
411
00:18:03,208 --> 00:18:04,709
- Lucky man.
412
00:18:04,710 --> 00:18:07,170
- You... you never,
you never told me that.
413
00:18:07,171 --> 00:18:09,213
- Yeah, that's 'cause
it never happened.
414
00:18:10,883 --> 00:18:12,466
- Come on, man.
415
00:18:16,263 --> 00:18:19,682
- Leigh, you're in trouble.
- Why?
416
00:18:19,683 --> 00:18:21,392
- That was way too good.
417
00:18:21,393 --> 00:18:23,687
- Planned it.
418
00:18:34,114 --> 00:18:36,282
- Did you see this?
419
00:18:36,283 --> 00:18:38,910
What she said.
- What who said?
420
00:18:38,911 --> 00:18:41,537
- That girl.
Jules, she updated her review
421
00:18:41,538 --> 00:18:43,372
to say that
"One of the teachers
422
00:18:43,373 --> 00:18:46,084
followed me to my place
of business and threatened me."
423
00:18:47,044 --> 00:18:48,711
- I was trying
to fix Leigh's mess.
424
00:18:48,712 --> 00:18:50,546
She's the one
that made her puke.
425
00:18:50,547 --> 00:18:52,840
It's one bad review.
Who cares?
426
00:18:52,841 --> 00:18:55,301
There's a margin for error
in running a business.
427
00:18:55,302 --> 00:18:57,011
You always tell me that.
428
00:18:57,012 --> 00:19:00,056
- No. No. Jules, there is
no margin for error anymore.
429
00:19:00,057 --> 00:19:03,143
The margin for error
got spent on rehab.
430
00:19:07,439 --> 00:19:09,566
- Why didn't you tell me that?
431
00:19:13,403 --> 00:19:15,655
- I was glad to do it
and you're in recovery,
432
00:19:15,656 --> 00:19:17,198
and that's what's important.
433
00:19:17,199 --> 00:19:19,450
But, Jules,
you're getting too old
434
00:19:19,451 --> 00:19:21,285
to be pulling
these kind of stunts.
435
00:19:21,286 --> 00:19:23,913
- Of course,
it was me that messed up.
436
00:19:23,914 --> 00:19:25,706
- Jules!
- It always comes back to me.
437
00:19:25,707 --> 00:19:30,169
- You cannot follow our clients
to their workplaces.
438
00:19:30,170 --> 00:19:32,964
I would have thought
that was obvious.
439
00:19:32,965 --> 00:19:35,258
And I am plenty mad
at your sister.
440
00:19:35,259 --> 00:19:37,593
But in case you hadn't noticed,
her husband...
441
00:19:37,594 --> 00:19:39,513
- Just died.
442
00:19:40,472 --> 00:19:42,599
I know.
443
00:19:43,308 --> 00:19:45,518
Jules, I'm s...
444
00:20:08,667 --> 00:20:11,377
- Look, we go in.
Have a nice pleasant dinner.
445
00:20:11,378 --> 00:20:13,588
Ask your dad about the wine.
446
00:20:13,589 --> 00:20:16,507
- We ask Evie
some horse questions.
447
00:20:16,508 --> 00:20:20,970
We ask Sabrina about
the landing probe on Mars,
448
00:20:20,971 --> 00:20:22,597
or whatever she's working on.
449
00:20:22,598 --> 00:20:25,016
And that's it.
We go home.
450
00:20:25,017 --> 00:20:27,018
And I'll be there
the whole time, pretending
451
00:20:27,019 --> 00:20:29,478
this is exactly where I want
to be on a Tuesday night.
452
00:20:29,479 --> 00:20:31,063
- Emphasis on "pretend."
- So what?
453
00:20:31,064 --> 00:20:33,108
We all pretend all the time.
- We do?
454
00:20:35,027 --> 00:20:37,695
What do you pretend?
- I don't know.
455
00:20:37,696 --> 00:20:39,238
- Like what?
456
00:20:39,239 --> 00:20:41,115
- All right,
I pretend I love teaching.
457
00:20:41,116 --> 00:20:43,159
On a lot of days I don't.
458
00:20:43,160 --> 00:20:46,037
I pretend I...
459
00:20:46,038 --> 00:20:48,457
I don't notice when people
stare at us at restaurants.
460
00:20:50,042 --> 00:20:52,627
I pretend...
461
00:20:52,628 --> 00:20:55,379
getting up in the morning
isn't as hard it is some days.
462
00:20:55,380 --> 00:20:57,633
I...
463
00:20:58,884 --> 00:21:00,843
I pretend I'm totally cool
with having sex with one person
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00:21:00,844 --> 00:21:02,595
for the rest of my life.
Should I go on?
465
00:21:02,596 --> 00:21:04,972
- No, definitely not.
- Well, you pretend too.
466
00:21:04,973 --> 00:21:06,933
That's marriage.
That's being a person.
467
00:21:06,934 --> 00:21:10,186
- I guess, but I just don't
feel like pretending right now.
468
00:21:10,187 --> 00:21:12,063
- Leigh.
469
00:21:12,064 --> 00:21:14,273
Got to let that go.
470
00:21:14,274 --> 00:21:16,776
- Okay, that's easy for you to
say 'cause he's not your dad.
471
00:21:16,777 --> 00:21:18,903
- No, my dad never wanted
to be in the same room as me,
472
00:21:18,904 --> 00:21:21,072
and now that he's dead,
he never has to ever again.
473
00:21:21,073 --> 00:21:22,532
- Okay.
474
00:21:22,533 --> 00:21:24,408
- Richard's not perfect,
but he's trying.
475
00:21:24,409 --> 00:21:25,661
He wants to spend time
with you.
476
00:21:25,662 --> 00:21:27,495
That's something.
477
00:21:34,253 --> 00:21:36,462
- Seriously?
We're going home?
478
00:21:36,463 --> 00:21:38,256
- Yeah.
479
00:21:38,257 --> 00:21:39,757
I'll just send him
a text message
480
00:21:39,758 --> 00:21:41,843
that something came up.
481
00:21:41,844 --> 00:21:44,637
- You hold people to
impossibly high standards.
482
00:21:44,638 --> 00:21:46,890
No one's ever gonna pass
your test.
483
00:22:10,080 --> 00:22:11,998
How are you?
484
00:22:11,999 --> 00:22:14,542
Um...
485
00:22:14,543 --> 00:22:16,752
I think I'm stuck in
whatever stage it is
486
00:22:16,753 --> 00:22:18,296
when you're a raging bitch
to everyone
487
00:22:18,297 --> 00:22:20,131
within a ten mile radius.
488
00:22:20,132 --> 00:22:21,549
- Apparently that whole
489
00:22:21,550 --> 00:22:23,634
Kubler-Ross stages
of grief thing...
490
00:22:23,635 --> 00:22:25,344
Bullshit.
491
00:22:25,345 --> 00:22:26,930
- Yeah.
492
00:22:28,140 --> 00:22:29,975
- I, um...
493
00:22:32,019 --> 00:22:33,896
I actually came
to ask you something.
494
00:22:34,897 --> 00:22:36,190
- Shoot.
495
00:22:38,400 --> 00:22:40,485
- Why did you cheat on Mom?
496
00:22:42,946 --> 00:22:44,990
Just tell me the truth.
497
00:22:46,158 --> 00:22:48,284
- Talked about it enough in
therapy by now.
498
00:22:48,285 --> 00:22:50,078
I got it down.
499
00:22:52,206 --> 00:22:54,166
Started when I got fired.
500
00:22:55,334 --> 00:22:58,378
It was the first time anything
like that ever happened to me.
501
00:23:00,464 --> 00:23:02,465
And it was...
502
00:23:02,466 --> 00:23:04,675
it was unfair.
503
00:23:04,676 --> 00:23:06,470
Also humiliating.
504
00:23:08,388 --> 00:23:10,765
I...
505
00:23:10,766 --> 00:23:13,477
I had no idea something like
that could happen.
506
00:23:14,728 --> 00:23:16,438
For me, it was just...
507
00:23:18,398 --> 00:23:20,609
Well, it was a huge loss.
508
00:23:21,944 --> 00:23:23,946
And I lashed out.
509
00:23:24,821 --> 00:23:27,199
Hard.
510
00:23:29,284 --> 00:23:32,370
- And people say
I take after Mom.
511
00:23:34,998 --> 00:23:37,875
Sometimes when a person drowns,
they thrash around so much,
512
00:23:37,876 --> 00:23:41,045
they bring down anyone
trying to rescue 'em.
513
00:23:41,046 --> 00:23:43,257
Even if they don't mean to.
514
00:23:46,510 --> 00:23:49,137
So why you asking
me this now?
515
00:23:50,806 --> 00:23:52,933
- I just needed to know.
516
00:24:13,745 --> 00:24:15,121
- I'm calling the cops.
517
00:24:15,122 --> 00:24:17,540
- No, I just need, like,
two minutes.
518
00:24:17,541 --> 00:24:19,585
Okay. Two.
519
00:24:23,338 --> 00:24:25,756
My brother-in-law died
3 1/2 months ago.
520
00:24:25,757 --> 00:24:28,176
Matt was the glue
that held us together.
521
00:24:28,177 --> 00:24:30,303
I mean, everyone was just
better when he was around.
522
00:24:30,304 --> 00:24:33,389
And that girl, the teacher,
523
00:24:33,390 --> 00:24:35,808
she's my sister.
524
00:24:35,809 --> 00:24:37,895
Matt was her husband.
525
00:24:39,062 --> 00:24:40,688
Look, I don't know
526
00:24:40,689 --> 00:24:42,773
if you've ever
lost anyone suddenly
527
00:24:42,774 --> 00:24:45,360
and had your entire worldview
just fall apart over night.
528
00:24:50,949 --> 00:24:52,659
So you get it?
529
00:24:53,660 --> 00:24:55,828
Like, you lose this person
530
00:24:55,829 --> 00:24:57,580
who meant so much to you
531
00:24:57,581 --> 00:25:00,708
and you start spinning out
in all these weird ways
532
00:25:00,709 --> 00:25:02,628
because you don't even know
who you are anymore.
533
00:25:09,968 --> 00:25:12,512
My sister's in freefall.
534
00:25:12,513 --> 00:25:15,389
And she just needs some time
535
00:25:15,390 --> 00:25:17,893
to turn everything
right side up again.
536
00:25:19,394 --> 00:25:21,729
I know you think
basically everyone
537
00:25:21,730 --> 00:25:24,649
in my family is crazy
at this point,
538
00:25:24,650 --> 00:25:27,109
but if you could
just give us a break
539
00:25:27,110 --> 00:25:30,781
and take down that review...
540
00:25:33,033 --> 00:25:35,661
I can do that.
541
00:25:40,582 --> 00:25:42,209
Thank you.
542
00:26:24,209 --> 00:26:25,961
- Hi.
543
00:26:39,433 --> 00:26:41,267
You had this perfect marriage
544
00:26:41,268 --> 00:26:44,062
and your husband died a hero.
545
00:26:44,980 --> 00:26:49,359
And mine died for nothing.
546
00:26:52,571 --> 00:26:55,365
And I'm beginning to think
I didn't even know him.
547
00:27:00,329 --> 00:27:03,206
I shouldn't have yelled
at you.
548
00:27:03,207 --> 00:27:05,000
I'm sorry.
549
00:27:07,252 --> 00:27:11,840
I'm just mad all the time.
550
00:27:17,012 --> 00:27:19,389
- That letter that I read.
551
00:27:21,183 --> 00:27:23,727
He wrote it after I told him
I wanted a divorce.
552
00:27:25,812 --> 00:27:28,064
But nobody wants to hear that.
553
00:27:28,065 --> 00:27:31,651
People just want to hear about
this amazing marriage
554
00:27:31,652 --> 00:27:33,612
that I didn't actually have.
555
00:27:35,155 --> 00:27:37,156
And I'm trying to stay positive
556
00:27:37,157 --> 00:27:39,408
because people like me
better that way,
557
00:27:39,409 --> 00:27:41,410
but I just feel like
such a fake all the time.
558
00:27:41,411 --> 00:27:44,121
And you're so honest
about everything,
559
00:27:44,122 --> 00:27:47,668
and I just,
I wish I could be like you.
560
00:27:48,877 --> 00:27:51,128
- Shaw and Urwin?
561
00:27:51,129 --> 00:27:53,257
Tables six and seven.
562
00:29:12,294 --> 00:29:14,879
- I can't believe that
you're already dating again.
563
00:29:14,880 --> 00:29:17,173
- Ugh, I know.
It all happened so fast.
564
00:29:17,174 --> 00:29:19,842
I think I'm in love.
- Seriously, you got a dog?
565
00:29:19,843 --> 00:29:23,638
- Jules, get in here?
- Oh, that's not good.
566
00:29:23,639 --> 00:29:25,556
- You were supposed to watch
him while I took a shower.
567
00:29:25,557 --> 00:29:27,141
- I got distracted
for like a second.
568
00:29:27,142 --> 00:29:28,935
- But this is what I mean
by not responsible enough
569
00:29:28,936 --> 00:29:31,103
to own a dog.
- I'd like to talk to you
570
00:29:31,104 --> 00:29:34,273
about something.
571
00:29:34,274 --> 00:29:36,067
- Mm-kay.
572
00:29:36,068 --> 00:29:38,027
- What they told me in rehab
is the hardest part
573
00:29:38,028 --> 00:29:40,196
about staying sober
is the fact that
574
00:29:40,197 --> 00:29:43,115
the people in your life don't
believe you can change.
575
00:29:43,116 --> 00:29:45,327
But I didn't think
that'd be you guys.
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