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[upbeat percussive music]
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- Tonight on
"The Bachelorette"...
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all: We love New Orleans!
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- There's nothing
but good vibes right now.
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[sweeping music]
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- Truly the happiest girl.
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I think with the right person,
anything is possible.
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- I'm falling in love with you.
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- Nothing but happy tears.
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Very much falling in love.
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[dramatic music]
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- Y'all on the same date
with the same girl right here?
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- Yeah.
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- I don't know
how that's gonna work.
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- I want to get married.
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It's a question
of if that's you.
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- I feel like
time is running out.
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- What the [bleep] is wrong
with me?
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- I'm on the edge of my seat.
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- What you want from me,
I can't give.
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- All hell is gonna
break loose here.
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I'll tell you what.
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- How did we end up here?
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Oh, God, did I send the
absolute wrong person home?
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♪
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[bell dinging]
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[upbeat jazz music]
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♪
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- We're in NOLA, New Orleans.
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We are in the Big Easy.
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This city is so fun.
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I mean, full of people,
full of life, full of history,
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but also, like,
super romantic.
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There's so much.
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The food is literally
the best food ever.
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Crescent City,
let the good times roll.
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Well, they are rolling.
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I mean, listen,
so much to be done here.
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I'm excited to see the guys.
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I can't wait.
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all: We love New Orleans!
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[upbeat music]
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- I love this city,
the architecture.
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There's so much to do.
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I mean, this is really
a perfect city
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to go out and fall in love.
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[all speaking French]
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- I like that.
- Muah!
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- I have very strong feelings
towards Charity.
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I can already see her
being someone
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that I can look at as my wife,
but everyone here feels
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a very strong connection
with her.
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So I just can feel
how there's gonna be
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pressure continuing to build.
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- City, baby, the city.
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- Definitely coming
into this new city
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riding high
on a great one-on-one
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last week with Charity.
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This week, I'm gonna be
very intentional with my time,
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making my connection
a little bit stronger.
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- You know,
this is my journey,
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and this is a pivotal week
going into Hometowns.
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It's a week where
I'm trying to determine
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whose family I'm going to meet.
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Oh, my goodness.
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What that means
to bring someone home
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to meet your family,
are they in a place
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to where they feel confident
and comfortable enough
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to bring me home?
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This is so pretty.
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I have six guys remaining,
and it's going to get down
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to four in a matter of days.
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It's a very, very heavy week,
making difficult decisions.
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I want to maximize
as much time as possible.
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So knowing that I have
four incredible dates planned
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in the most amazing city,
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that--that's a solid week,
if you ask me.
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[laughs]
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- Cheers to you boys
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and strengthening
relationships.
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All the way around.
all: Cheers.
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- Cheers, boys.
- It's a war.
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- Cheers.
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- This is actually, like,
exactly what I imagined
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when you said New Orleans,
though.
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Like, us sitting on the side,
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these type of tables,
looking at the balconies.
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Like, this is the vibe
that I envisioned for sure.
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- I want to have fun tonight.
- Yeah.
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- I'm hoping I get
a one-on-one this week.
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It sucks, like,
not having the one-on-one
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up until this point.
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It would be very nice
to hopefully get a rose
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and bring her back home
to meet my mom.
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So--oh, speak of the devil.
Here, guys.
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- Here we go.
all: Hello.
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- There she is.
- Hi. You guys are cute.
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- We were just talking
about you.
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So funny.
- Crazy.
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- Yeah, we were just
talking about you.
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- Hi. You look cute.
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- You look great.
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- I'm super excited
to see Charity.
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I feel like we had
a really good week last week,
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but definitely playing
from behind a little bit
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just because I haven't had
that one-on-one time yet.
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- This week,
it's gonna be so fun.
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So let's just do a cheers
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to continuing
to develop relationships.
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So cheers!
all: Cheers.
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- You know,
I love New Orleans.
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I've lived here
for seven years.
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I just know everything
about New Orleans.
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This is my stomping grounds,
and this is somewhere
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where I feel
pretty comfortable.
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When was the last time
you've been in New Orleans?
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- It's been, like,
I want to say four years.
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So quite--it's been a minute.
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- I definitely feel
the pressure
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leading into this week, I mean,
considering how far away
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my one-on-one was
until this point.
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I want to get that first date
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just to kind of show Charity
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around this city
that made me a man.
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This place is
very special to me,
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and it's gonna show Charity
who I am.
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- I'm excited. I love NOLA.
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Like, it's a time.
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Obviously, this week,
it's gonna be so fun.
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[horse neighing]
- Whoa.
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Guys, I think we have
something here.
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- There's--this seems
too fitting right now.
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[laughter]
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- Oh, great. [laughs]
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What's this?
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Well, I'm actually not
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just here hanging out
with you guys.
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[horse snorts]
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Although I would love
to stay and chat,
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there actually is a date today.
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- Ooh, right now.
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- Happening right now.
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And going on that date...
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Joey, will you join me?
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- I would love to.
- Okay.
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Well, we're not just
gonna walk to our date.
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There's our ride,
so we're gonna take
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a little carriage around town.
- Yeah?
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- So I think
we're gonna head out.
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- Let's do it.
- All right.
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- Excited.
- Let's go.
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- See you boys later.
- See you guys.
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- Bye, boys.
- Don't have too much fun.
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- Oh, [bleep].
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- And now I'm sad again.
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- This is awesome.
How are you?
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- I'm excited.
- Excited?
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- Yeah.
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[soft music]
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Okay, bye. [laughs]
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♪
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- Can I get another one,
please?
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- Dang it, dude.
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I would've loved to just, like,
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shown her around on that horse.
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You know, everything goes well,
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gets that rose, like, he's--
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he's got a ticket to Hometown.
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- Damn, like, we haven't had
that one-on-one.
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Like, we haven't had that time.
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Like, do you not, like,
want to explore this with me?
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- Just--just trying
to be calm, man.
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I--there's not much more I can
say or do at this point, right?
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- Yeah.
- I mean, what--
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- Totally, I agree.
- We're here for a reason.
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- You can only control
what you can control, yeah.
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- I feel overlooked.
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I have been very, very patient,
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and it's been five weeks,
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but before I introduce her
to my family,
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I need to connect
on a much deeper level.
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I want my chance,
but it might be too late.
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♪
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[horn blaring]
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[jazz music]
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♪
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- I'm stoked.
- I am too.
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- I've never been here,
so I'm excited.
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- I know, that's why I'm like--
it makes it even more sweet.
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- I feel great.
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This is what I've been
waiting for this entire time,
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to have a full day
with Charity.
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This is gonna be
a really cool day,
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and I'm feeling
really good about it.
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Yeah?
- [laughs]
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- There's nothing
but good vibes right now.
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This city has so much history.
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There's just a warmth to it.
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And I'm just excited to get
to explore it with Charity.
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♪
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I mean, the history
in this place...
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- So much.
- It oozes, right?
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Like, it's crazy.
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- I'm a little bit
of a history geek.
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- Are you?
- A little bit.
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I'm not--
- I can tell.
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You're too smart for me.
- [laughs] Am I?
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I picked Joey
for several reasons.
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He's someone that I have
a such strong connection with.
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I envision truly,
like, a life with him.
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So I'm ready to take things
to the next step,
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and having the whole day,
quality time
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will be a good test for us.
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We are in the Big Easy,
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and I truly hope that today
will be super easy,
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like it always has been
with Joey.
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- Charity, like, seriously...
- Yeah.
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- I can't believe how
comfortable I feel around you.
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- I know.
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- I don't get it.
- I said that too.
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I say that all the time.
- I don't understand why,
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but there are some things
that you just can't explain.
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And I just miss you.
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Whenever I see you,
I'm just excited
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to get more time with you.
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So to get this time today
just--it means the world to me.
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- I know. I was like--
I was craving it so much.
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[laughs]
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♪
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["When the Saints Go
Marching In" playing]
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♪
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- Let's do it.
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- Joey is someone who
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I feel very comfortable with.
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He is someone who is
so fun to be around.
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[soft music]
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Introducing you
to some Louisiana cuisine.
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- Oh, so good.
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- I gotta stop saying things.
I'm like--
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[with Southern accent]
"Louisiana." [laughs]
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- I want all that and more.
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My little Southern belle.
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- I just adore
everything about him,
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and he's just a loving person.
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He's open,
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he's a great communicator,
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and with him,
I really do feel really safe.
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Okay, so much to do,
so much to see.
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- Mm.
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- Let's see what the cards
have to say for you guys.
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- Okay.
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- So somebody's manifesting
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to be the star of your life.
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Your world will be complete.
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And you're gonna find balance
in each other.
256
00:08:33,847 --> 00:08:35,615
- It feels natural with her.
257
00:08:35,615 --> 00:08:38,852
Whatever energy I was giving,
she gave it back.
258
00:08:38,852 --> 00:08:41,121
It felt like we were
just walking around town
259
00:08:41,121 --> 00:08:43,223
and doing our own thing,
and there was nothing else
260
00:08:43,223 --> 00:08:45,225
in the world to think about
other than
261
00:08:45,225 --> 00:08:47,394
I'm getting a day to spend
with a girl I care about.
262
00:08:47,394 --> 00:08:50,430
["When the Saints Go
Marching In" playing]
263
00:08:50,430 --> 00:08:51,898
- Oh, just nice and slow.
- [laughs]
264
00:08:51,898 --> 00:08:53,733
- There's something about it
that just makes me feel
265
00:08:53,733 --> 00:08:56,536
like I can just be myself
and not worry about anything.
266
00:08:56,536 --> 00:08:57,737
- I love this.
267
00:08:57,737 --> 00:08:58,838
- I was with my girlfriend.
268
00:08:58,838 --> 00:09:01,074
That's what it felt like.
269
00:09:01,074 --> 00:09:04,010
[sweeping music]
270
00:09:04,010 --> 00:09:05,945
I've had my heart broken
by someone,
271
00:09:05,945 --> 00:09:09,916
and the scariest part is
to fully let yourself feel.
272
00:09:09,916 --> 00:09:11,284
♪
273
00:09:11,284 --> 00:09:13,686
But Charity is worth the risk.
274
00:09:13,686 --> 00:09:15,188
There's a lot of chemistry.
275
00:09:15,188 --> 00:09:18,525
I feel like I just don't want
to stop kissing her.
276
00:09:18,525 --> 00:09:21,261
It's exciting to think
that I'm, for the first time
277
00:09:21,261 --> 00:09:25,131
in my life, the most open
to really finding someone.
278
00:09:25,131 --> 00:09:27,534
I just feel very lucky.
279
00:09:27,534 --> 00:09:28,935
- I'm Charity.
- You're Charity.
280
00:09:28,935 --> 00:09:30,437
- I'm Joey.
- Joey.
281
00:09:30,437 --> 00:09:31,971
Okay, nice to meet you.
- Nice to meet you.
282
00:09:31,971 --> 00:09:33,940
- And so, like, tell me more
about Charity.
283
00:09:33,940 --> 00:09:35,308
Like, what's so special
about her?
284
00:09:35,308 --> 00:09:37,277
- Charity is captivating.
285
00:09:37,277 --> 00:09:38,878
Every time
she walks into a room,
286
00:09:38,878 --> 00:09:41,281
I don't know how she isn't
the person you look at.
287
00:09:41,281 --> 00:09:45,118
So she's got a smile
that brightens anyone's day.
288
00:09:45,118 --> 00:09:47,220
You can definitely
get lost in her eyes
289
00:09:47,220 --> 00:09:48,721
whenever you look at her.
290
00:09:48,721 --> 00:09:51,925
We sit down to this guy
that makes poetry on the spot,
291
00:09:51,925 --> 00:09:54,561
and he's asking a lot
of very deep questions.
292
00:09:54,561 --> 00:09:57,530
- What does it take to go
past the honeymoon phase
293
00:09:57,530 --> 00:09:59,099
and say, like, we're committed
to each other?
294
00:09:59,099 --> 00:10:01,401
- Yeah, obviously, it's, like,
the commitment aspect
295
00:10:01,401 --> 00:10:04,070
of it all, but it's, like,
how you view love.
296
00:10:04,070 --> 00:10:06,473
And from the beginning,
297
00:10:06,473 --> 00:10:09,042
Joey definitely swept me
off my feet.
298
00:10:09,042 --> 00:10:12,912
- Mm.
- He has an infectious energy.
299
00:10:12,912 --> 00:10:16,216
What's so great about this
is that I felt in that moment
300
00:10:16,216 --> 00:10:18,618
that the answers
to these questions
301
00:10:18,618 --> 00:10:21,955
were just flowing like a river.
302
00:10:21,955 --> 00:10:24,390
They just were
so easy to answer.
303
00:10:24,390 --> 00:10:26,092
Today was just, like,
us existing,
304
00:10:26,092 --> 00:10:28,328
and it felt so good.
305
00:10:28,328 --> 00:10:29,829
He never fails
to make me feel seen,
306
00:10:29,829 --> 00:10:31,431
and I'm always happy.
307
00:10:31,431 --> 00:10:32,532
I'm excited.
308
00:10:32,532 --> 00:10:34,400
When I'm not with him,
I miss him.
309
00:10:34,400 --> 00:10:35,468
And that's a sign.
310
00:10:35,468 --> 00:10:36,503
- That's a huge sign.
311
00:10:36,503 --> 00:10:37,770
- It's a huge sign.
- Yeah.
312
00:10:37,770 --> 00:10:39,472
- So I think with him,
it's like I'm always--
313
00:10:39,472 --> 00:10:41,841
I'm craving more because
it just keeps getting better.
314
00:10:41,841 --> 00:10:43,176
- Yeah, wow.
315
00:10:43,176 --> 00:10:45,812
♪
316
00:10:45,812 --> 00:10:46,846
It's yours now.
- Thank you so much.
317
00:10:46,846 --> 00:10:48,381
- Wait a second.
318
00:10:48,381 --> 00:10:49,949
"For Charity and Joey.
319
00:10:49,949 --> 00:10:51,084
"Hold my hand.
320
00:10:51,084 --> 00:10:52,752
"Hold my past and future.
321
00:10:52,752 --> 00:10:54,787
"I sink into you
without thinking.
322
00:10:54,787 --> 00:10:57,023
"It's so easy, I'm scared.
323
00:10:57,023 --> 00:10:58,525
"Could it really be like this?
324
00:10:58,525 --> 00:10:59,726
Caught in the wind..."
325
00:10:59,726 --> 00:11:01,094
Literally.
[both laughing]
326
00:11:01,094 --> 00:11:03,696
"Letting it take us
wherever it needs.
327
00:11:03,696 --> 00:11:06,966
I see myself in your eyes
like I've always been there."
328
00:11:06,966 --> 00:11:08,835
- "Like my heart was
always searching
329
00:11:08,835 --> 00:11:10,770
"for your words
to make it sing.
330
00:11:10,770 --> 00:11:12,238
"So hold my hand.
331
00:11:12,238 --> 00:11:14,174
"I feel the sky breaking open.
332
00:11:14,174 --> 00:11:17,177
This is our chance to breathe
and be everything."
333
00:11:17,177 --> 00:11:18,378
- Love that.
334
00:11:18,378 --> 00:11:21,381
[romantic music]
335
00:11:21,381 --> 00:11:23,216
♪
336
00:11:23,216 --> 00:11:24,551
Inside of my heart
337
00:11:24,551 --> 00:11:27,887
is the happiest it's been
in so long.
338
00:11:27,887 --> 00:11:30,590
Today was 100% one of the best
dates I've ever been on.
339
00:11:30,590 --> 00:11:32,792
I don't know what else
I could have asked for.
340
00:11:32,792 --> 00:11:34,594
I think tonight is gonna
probably uncover
341
00:11:34,594 --> 00:11:37,096
the last couple of big things
that are necessary
342
00:11:37,096 --> 00:11:38,898
to make sure
we are on the same page
343
00:11:38,898 --> 00:11:40,166
before she meets my family.
344
00:11:40,166 --> 00:11:43,102
So tonight's 100% a big deal.
345
00:11:43,102 --> 00:11:44,938
- Oh, perfect.
346
00:11:44,938 --> 00:11:48,575
I want to say thank you
for today.
347
00:11:48,575 --> 00:11:49,876
- Thank you.
348
00:11:49,876 --> 00:11:51,244
Special day,
349
00:11:51,244 --> 00:11:52,378
and a special night to come,
I'm sure.
350
00:11:52,378 --> 00:11:53,446
- I know.
351
00:11:53,446 --> 00:11:56,216
Today was so reassuring
for me.
352
00:11:56,216 --> 00:11:57,784
It was so romantic.
353
00:11:57,784 --> 00:12:01,521
And so tonight is really gonna
consist of, like, me being able
354
00:12:01,521 --> 00:12:04,023
to envision, like, him
truly as a life partner
355
00:12:04,023 --> 00:12:07,460
and what our life is gonna
look like outside of here.
356
00:12:07,460 --> 00:12:10,697
♪
357
00:12:10,697 --> 00:12:12,432
I don't know
what tonight's gonna hold,
358
00:12:12,432 --> 00:12:17,403
but I know that there will be
a lot of very deep questions.
359
00:12:17,403 --> 00:12:21,274
♪
360
00:12:23,276 --> 00:12:25,912
[rumbling]
[bell dinging]
361
00:12:25,912 --> 00:12:28,915
[soft music]
362
00:12:28,915 --> 00:12:31,951
♪
363
00:12:31,951 --> 00:12:33,720
- Today with Joey,
364
00:12:33,720 --> 00:12:36,222
for the whole day
to be so perfect,
365
00:12:36,222 --> 00:12:37,890
it was, like,
an emotional peak.
366
00:12:37,890 --> 00:12:39,058
Like, it's the next level.
367
00:12:39,058 --> 00:12:40,093
It's the next tier.
368
00:12:40,093 --> 00:12:41,194
It's nice, isn't it?
369
00:12:41,194 --> 00:12:43,263
This man could be my husband,
370
00:12:43,263 --> 00:12:45,665
and I see a forever future
with him.
371
00:12:45,665 --> 00:12:48,401
Look in here.
Isn't this cool?
372
00:12:48,401 --> 00:12:50,169
But now it's like,
I'm thinking about
373
00:12:50,169 --> 00:12:51,971
the challenges me and Joey
might face together
374
00:12:51,971 --> 00:12:53,339
at the end of all of this.
375
00:12:53,339 --> 00:12:54,674
Thank you.
376
00:12:54,674 --> 00:12:57,744
And so tonight,
I want to continue
377
00:12:57,744 --> 00:12:59,112
to, like, explore
378
00:12:59,112 --> 00:13:01,080
what our future would
look like together.
379
00:13:01,080 --> 00:13:02,982
How are you?
- I'm better now.
380
00:13:02,982 --> 00:13:04,350
How are you?
- Better.
381
00:13:04,350 --> 00:13:07,520
I am so happy.
382
00:13:07,520 --> 00:13:10,990
Today, obviously,
was such a blast.
383
00:13:10,990 --> 00:13:12,692
- I didn't know
what to expect today,
384
00:13:12,692 --> 00:13:15,094
but I was blown away.
385
00:13:15,094 --> 00:13:17,330
To just feel
how natural it was,
386
00:13:17,330 --> 00:13:20,466
how much it felt just, like,
exactly what I wanted it to be.
387
00:13:20,466 --> 00:13:25,605
- Yeah, our connection has
always been easy for me,
388
00:13:25,605 --> 00:13:29,242
and I'm so grateful
to have you here.
389
00:13:29,242 --> 00:13:30,877
I'm a lucky girl. [laughs]
390
00:13:30,877 --> 00:13:33,346
- I'm a lucky guy.
- I really am.
391
00:13:33,346 --> 00:13:34,681
Um...
392
00:13:34,681 --> 00:13:35,782
with that being said,
393
00:13:35,782 --> 00:13:38,384
I kind of want to talk
about next week.
394
00:13:38,384 --> 00:13:39,719
Um...
395
00:13:39,719 --> 00:13:40,987
Hometowns.
- Mm-hmm.
396
00:13:40,987 --> 00:13:43,256
- And it's a big deal,
and I would love to know,
397
00:13:43,256 --> 00:13:45,758
how would your family feel...
- Yeah.
398
00:13:45,758 --> 00:13:47,593
- About possibly meeting me?
399
00:13:47,593 --> 00:13:48,695
Like...
- Yeah.
400
00:13:48,695 --> 00:13:50,396
Hometowns is a big deal.
- Yeah.
401
00:13:50,396 --> 00:13:53,766
- I would have zero doubts
or worries.
402
00:13:53,766 --> 00:13:56,035
I think they would just be
excited to see me
403
00:13:56,035 --> 00:13:58,805
bring someone home
that I care about so deeply.
404
00:13:58,805 --> 00:14:00,973
But they just don't want
to see me get hurt
405
00:14:00,973 --> 00:14:03,576
'cause they've seen it
in the past, and they know
406
00:14:03,576 --> 00:14:07,080
how much I can really wear
my heart on my sleeve,
407
00:14:07,080 --> 00:14:08,981
and just looking out for me.
- Being protective.
408
00:14:08,981 --> 00:14:10,416
Yeah. Absolutely.
- And being protective.
409
00:14:10,416 --> 00:14:13,619
But it has nothing to do
with how amazing you are
410
00:14:13,619 --> 00:14:15,888
and how lucky I would be
to end out
411
00:14:15,888 --> 00:14:18,124
with you at the end of this,
so...
412
00:14:18,124 --> 00:14:20,460
- With this week
and what it holds,
413
00:14:20,460 --> 00:14:24,063
like, I want to know,
how do you feel about being
414
00:14:24,063 --> 00:14:26,699
in an interracial relationship?
415
00:14:26,699 --> 00:14:29,502
And I want to elaborate
416
00:14:29,502 --> 00:14:31,671
on, like, why
that's so important to me.
417
00:14:31,671 --> 00:14:32,905
- Please do.
418
00:14:32,905 --> 00:14:34,407
- Yeah, like,
just my past relationship
419
00:14:34,407 --> 00:14:36,576
and kind of diving into that.
420
00:14:36,576 --> 00:14:39,379
It was a relationship
that did start off very great,
421
00:14:39,379 --> 00:14:41,848
but I think it was
almost, like, inevitable
422
00:14:41,848 --> 00:14:43,249
that, like,
when we would go out,
423
00:14:43,249 --> 00:14:45,785
like, it's just the things
that, like, you just face.
424
00:14:45,785 --> 00:14:47,286
- Yeah.
- And it's unfortunate,
425
00:14:47,286 --> 00:14:49,789
but like, that's just the times
that we still live in.
426
00:14:49,789 --> 00:14:51,724
And so with this person,
I think it was--
427
00:14:51,724 --> 00:14:54,427
it just boiled down
to the lack of awareness
428
00:14:54,427 --> 00:14:56,062
and, unfortunately, ignorance
429
00:14:56,062 --> 00:14:57,964
of, like,
these things don't matter,
430
00:14:57,964 --> 00:14:59,665
when in fact, they actually do.
431
00:14:59,665 --> 00:15:00,800
- Yeah.
432
00:15:00,800 --> 00:15:04,103
- And I just didn't see
that effort.
433
00:15:04,103 --> 00:15:06,706
- I could sit here and ask
a million questions,
434
00:15:06,706 --> 00:15:09,175
but it wouldn't change
the fact of what
435
00:15:09,175 --> 00:15:11,844
it would feel like to actually
be put in that instance.
436
00:15:11,844 --> 00:15:13,980
- It's not something
that I want to say
437
00:15:13,980 --> 00:15:15,114
it's gonna be easy,
'cause it's not.
438
00:15:15,114 --> 00:15:16,449
Like...
- It's not.
439
00:15:16,449 --> 00:15:18,584
- Even as an individual,
like, without a partnership,
440
00:15:18,584 --> 00:15:21,053
like, navigating life
as a Black woman,
441
00:15:21,053 --> 00:15:22,989
it's not something
I ever want to apologize for
442
00:15:22,989 --> 00:15:24,524
'cause that's who I am.
443
00:15:24,524 --> 00:15:27,960
And the person that I'm with
should be willing and wanting
444
00:15:27,960 --> 00:15:31,330
to embrace all of that,
know more, educate themselves,
445
00:15:31,330 --> 00:15:35,668
and attempt to try to truly...
446
00:15:35,668 --> 00:15:37,770
- Just to try to listen
and learn...
447
00:15:37,770 --> 00:15:40,773
- Yeah. Yeah.
- Because I do want kids.
448
00:15:40,773 --> 00:15:43,509
I do want to build
a life together.
449
00:15:43,509 --> 00:15:46,078
And if that's going to be
the case,
450
00:15:46,078 --> 00:15:49,048
it's as much going to be part
of my story as it is yours.
451
00:15:49,048 --> 00:15:50,316
- Absolutely.
452
00:15:50,316 --> 00:15:51,784
- But I can also understand
with the fact
453
00:15:51,784 --> 00:15:54,120
that I have never dated
a Black woman,
454
00:15:54,120 --> 00:15:56,322
and the idea
of bringing you home,
455
00:15:56,322 --> 00:15:58,291
I know my family. Like...
- Yeah.
456
00:15:58,291 --> 00:16:00,760
- They understand
that love is love.
457
00:16:00,760 --> 00:16:03,429
They truthfully look at
what's on the inside.
458
00:16:03,429 --> 00:16:06,098
And they're the most loving
people I know in this world.
459
00:16:06,098 --> 00:16:07,934
And if they don't see that
in you...
460
00:16:07,934 --> 00:16:09,735
- Yeah.
- Then they're crazy.
461
00:16:09,735 --> 00:16:10,837
- Mm-hmm.
462
00:16:10,837 --> 00:16:12,638
- But I don't think
it's something
463
00:16:12,638 --> 00:16:15,508
I'll be able to learn until we
try to conquer that together.
464
00:16:15,508 --> 00:16:18,144
- Yeah.
- And I do see you
465
00:16:18,144 --> 00:16:21,514
for the entirety
of who you are,
466
00:16:21,514 --> 00:16:23,516
and I never want you
to doubt that
467
00:16:23,516 --> 00:16:25,585
I can be someone
like that for you.
468
00:16:25,585 --> 00:16:26,586
- Thank you.
469
00:16:26,586 --> 00:16:27,720
That...
470
00:16:29,322 --> 00:16:31,424
That means a lot.
471
00:16:31,424 --> 00:16:32,425
- I mean every word.
472
00:16:32,425 --> 00:16:33,426
- I know.
473
00:16:33,426 --> 00:16:35,528
I...[sniffles]
474
00:16:35,528 --> 00:16:36,896
[groans softly]
475
00:16:40,333 --> 00:16:43,302
[soft music]
476
00:16:43,302 --> 00:16:45,738
♪
477
00:16:45,738 --> 00:16:47,473
[sighs]
478
00:16:47,473 --> 00:16:48,808
It's, like, scary sometimes.
479
00:16:48,808 --> 00:16:49,809
I'm sorry.
480
00:16:49,809 --> 00:16:50,810
- No, it's real.
481
00:16:50,810 --> 00:16:52,245
- Thank you.
482
00:16:52,245 --> 00:16:54,947
- Do you want a hug?
- Yeah, yeah.
483
00:16:54,947 --> 00:16:56,282
Of course I cry.
484
00:16:56,282 --> 00:17:03,356
♪
485
00:17:03,823 --> 00:17:05,191
Don't want to get makeup
on your shirt.
486
00:17:05,191 --> 00:17:06,292
- You're good.
- [laughs]
487
00:17:06,292 --> 00:17:07,960
- This is a good shirt.
488
00:17:07,960 --> 00:17:11,964
♪
489
00:17:11,964 --> 00:17:13,499
Take your time.
- I know.
490
00:17:13,499 --> 00:17:14,901
- You're okay.
491
00:17:14,901 --> 00:17:16,569
♪
492
00:17:16,569 --> 00:17:19,805
- I think sometimes, like,
I let my fears
493
00:17:19,805 --> 00:17:22,041
of what I've seen
and what I've witnessed
494
00:17:22,041 --> 00:17:24,977
and what the world is,
495
00:17:24,977 --> 00:17:27,313
like, it's overwhelming
at times.
496
00:17:27,313 --> 00:17:30,216
But I think
with the right person,
497
00:17:30,216 --> 00:17:32,485
it's like,
anything is possible,
498
00:17:32,485 --> 00:17:36,856
and love will truly triumph
over everything.
499
00:17:36,856 --> 00:17:38,124
♪
500
00:17:38,124 --> 00:17:40,693
Joey's fantastic.
501
00:17:40,693 --> 00:17:44,130
He's giving me
literally so much.
502
00:17:44,130 --> 00:17:45,998
It's just like,
it's one of those things
503
00:17:45,998 --> 00:17:47,300
that you know it's right.
504
00:17:47,300 --> 00:17:50,236
And we got
nothing but happy tears.
505
00:17:50,236 --> 00:17:52,371
[laughs, sniffles]
506
00:17:52,371 --> 00:17:54,240
Really happy, happy tears.
507
00:17:54,240 --> 00:17:55,975
♪
508
00:17:55,975 --> 00:17:57,777
Mm-hmm.
509
00:17:57,777 --> 00:17:59,579
This is, like, the first time
I've cried like this.
510
00:17:59,579 --> 00:18:02,748
So that says a lot.
511
00:18:02,748 --> 00:18:04,951
♪
512
00:18:04,951 --> 00:18:06,586
Um, kay.
513
00:18:06,586 --> 00:18:07,920
♪
514
00:18:07,920 --> 00:18:11,157
Joey, tonight you just continue
to blow me away
515
00:18:11,157 --> 00:18:14,060
with just being able
to hold space for me,
516
00:18:14,060 --> 00:18:17,129
to have conversations
that sometimes are
517
00:18:17,129 --> 00:18:19,732
uncomfortable for me
or difficult.
518
00:18:19,732 --> 00:18:24,737
And you're just someone that
really makes me feel so seen.
519
00:18:24,737 --> 00:18:28,274
And...
520
00:18:28,274 --> 00:18:30,910
I don't take it
for granted at all.
521
00:18:30,910 --> 00:18:33,412
I'm so hopeful,
522
00:18:33,412 --> 00:18:37,750
and I'm excited
to get that chance, hopefully,
523
00:18:37,750 --> 00:18:39,585
to meet your family.
524
00:18:39,585 --> 00:18:40,820
♪
525
00:18:40,820 --> 00:18:47,093
And so, Joey,
will you accept this rose?
526
00:18:47,093 --> 00:18:48,094
- Absolutely.
527
00:18:48,094 --> 00:18:49,562
- Thank you.
528
00:18:49,562 --> 00:18:51,564
Yay.
529
00:18:51,564 --> 00:18:53,132
- I'm so excited.
530
00:18:53,132 --> 00:18:55,601
When she pins this rose on me,
531
00:18:55,601 --> 00:18:57,436
which I know means
so much to her...
532
00:18:57,436 --> 00:18:58,571
- Perfect.
533
00:18:58,571 --> 00:19:00,206
♪
534
00:19:00,206 --> 00:19:02,808
- What better time to tell her
how I'm truthfully feeling,
535
00:19:02,808 --> 00:19:06,112
the fact that I can really see
a finish line with her.
536
00:19:06,112 --> 00:19:09,782
And as much as
it's something that's scary,
537
00:19:09,782 --> 00:19:11,117
I have to be true to myself.
538
00:19:11,117 --> 00:19:13,085
I have to tell her how I feel,
539
00:19:13,085 --> 00:19:15,254
because if I don't,
I'll always regret it.
540
00:19:15,254 --> 00:19:17,289
This rose means
just one step closer
541
00:19:17,289 --> 00:19:18,424
to getting to this end
542
00:19:18,424 --> 00:19:21,160
and telling you
how much you mean to me.
543
00:19:21,160 --> 00:19:23,529
♪
544
00:19:23,529 --> 00:19:25,765
I would be crazy
not to tell you
545
00:19:25,765 --> 00:19:28,701
that I am falling in love
with you.
546
00:19:28,701 --> 00:19:29,835
♪
547
00:19:29,835 --> 00:19:31,270
- Thank you.
548
00:19:31,270 --> 00:19:33,706
♪
549
00:19:33,706 --> 00:19:37,343
- I do feel ready for love,
and I have no doubt
550
00:19:37,343 --> 00:19:40,279
that together,
we can handle anything.
551
00:19:40,279 --> 00:19:42,114
This is something
I truthfully want,
552
00:19:42,114 --> 00:19:44,016
and I want it with Charity.
553
00:19:44,016 --> 00:19:45,518
♪
554
00:19:45,518 --> 00:19:47,987
Today was everything I could
have imagined and more,
555
00:19:47,987 --> 00:19:51,390
and I'm super, super excited
to see what next week holds.
556
00:19:51,390 --> 00:19:52,391
[horse neighing]
557
00:19:52,391 --> 00:19:53,993
Oh.
- Go for a little ride?
558
00:19:53,993 --> 00:19:54,994
[laughs]
559
00:19:54,994 --> 00:19:56,328
- Finish it out right, huh?
560
00:19:56,328 --> 00:19:57,963
- You're always gonna--
I'm gonna need your help.
561
00:19:57,963 --> 00:19:59,265
- Of course.
562
00:19:59,265 --> 00:20:00,566
- Hopefully, I can get up here.
Thank you.
563
00:20:00,566 --> 00:20:01,934
- Yeah. Take your time.
- Ooh.
564
00:20:01,934 --> 00:20:04,503
I'm looking at myself
like, Charity Lawson, like,
565
00:20:04,503 --> 00:20:05,838
someone told you tonight
566
00:20:05,838 --> 00:20:07,840
that they are falling in love
with you.
567
00:20:07,840 --> 00:20:09,575
♪
568
00:20:09,575 --> 00:20:11,677
Not you asking them,
569
00:20:11,677 --> 00:20:14,313
not you begging them--
570
00:20:14,313 --> 00:20:16,115
like, because they wanted to.
571
00:20:16,115 --> 00:20:19,151
[sweeping music]
572
00:20:19,151 --> 00:20:21,287
♪
573
00:20:21,287 --> 00:20:23,122
I feel this, like,
level of connection
574
00:20:23,122 --> 00:20:25,891
that seems inseparable.
575
00:20:25,891 --> 00:20:28,094
I am falling in love with him.
576
00:20:28,094 --> 00:20:31,097
[soft music]
577
00:20:31,097 --> 00:20:35,234
♪
578
00:20:35,234 --> 00:20:38,771
- Gentlemen,
how are we feeling right now?
579
00:20:38,771 --> 00:20:40,139
- He's been out there
for a long time.
580
00:20:40,139 --> 00:20:41,440
I wonder what they're up to.
581
00:20:41,440 --> 00:20:42,541
- I don't even want
to think about it,
582
00:20:42,541 --> 00:20:45,277
because I know they be kissing.
583
00:20:45,277 --> 00:20:47,179
[laughter]
584
00:20:47,179 --> 00:20:48,447
- [groans]
585
00:20:48,447 --> 00:20:49,682
[knock on door]
586
00:20:49,682 --> 00:20:51,317
- Oh, [bleep].
587
00:20:51,317 --> 00:20:53,419
- Go see what it is.
- Go get it.
588
00:20:53,419 --> 00:20:55,121
- Oh, drum roll.
589
00:20:55,121 --> 00:20:56,388
- I would say I don't think
I've ever been
590
00:20:56,388 --> 00:20:58,290
more nervous
to receive a date card.
591
00:20:58,290 --> 00:21:00,159
If it's a group date, like,
592
00:21:00,159 --> 00:21:02,361
I don't want my name
to be on it, like, at all.
593
00:21:02,361 --> 00:21:03,529
[tense music]
594
00:21:03,529 --> 00:21:05,765
I feel like I need
that one-on-one time
595
00:21:05,765 --> 00:21:07,032
before going into next week.
596
00:21:07,032 --> 00:21:08,701
Like, next week's Hometowns.
597
00:21:08,701 --> 00:21:10,236
♪
598
00:21:10,236 --> 00:21:11,704
Introducing Charity
to my family
599
00:21:11,704 --> 00:21:13,439
is something that I don't
take lightly at all.
600
00:21:13,439 --> 00:21:15,407
I believe that
the reason I'm still here
601
00:21:15,407 --> 00:21:17,076
is 'cause Charity's feeling
the same way about me
602
00:21:17,076 --> 00:21:18,177
as I'm feeling about her.
603
00:21:18,177 --> 00:21:20,746
♪
604
00:21:20,746 --> 00:21:22,782
That one-on-one's gonna be
the catalyst for us.
605
00:21:22,782 --> 00:21:24,683
Like, getting
that one-on-one time
606
00:21:24,683 --> 00:21:25,918
I think is gonna take
our relationship
607
00:21:25,918 --> 00:21:26,919
to the next level.
608
00:21:26,919 --> 00:21:29,321
♪
609
00:21:29,321 --> 00:21:31,157
Like, that's
what I'm striving for.
610
00:21:31,157 --> 00:21:32,591
Like, I'm really hopeful
for it.
611
00:21:32,591 --> 00:21:33,959
♪
612
00:21:33,959 --> 00:21:37,463
- "Sean...
613
00:21:37,463 --> 00:21:38,664
and Tanner."
614
00:21:38,664 --> 00:21:42,768
♪
615
00:21:42,768 --> 00:21:45,004
"It's time to get clarity.
616
00:21:45,004 --> 00:21:46,572
"Meet me in the bayou.
617
00:21:46,572 --> 00:21:49,108
Love, Charity."
618
00:21:49,108 --> 00:21:51,710
♪
619
00:21:51,710 --> 00:21:53,846
- How do we manage this?
620
00:21:53,846 --> 00:21:55,447
- Just like, I mean--
621
00:21:55,447 --> 00:21:57,416
- Oh, dude, we just--
622
00:21:57,416 --> 00:21:59,118
oh, [bleep].
623
00:21:59,118 --> 00:22:01,887
- I know, I know. I know.
624
00:22:01,887 --> 00:22:03,455
- One of us is gonna go
to Hometowns
625
00:22:03,455 --> 00:22:04,456
without having a one-on-one,
626
00:22:04,456 --> 00:22:05,791
and one of us is gonna go home.
627
00:22:05,791 --> 00:22:06,792
- Yeah.
628
00:22:06,792 --> 00:22:09,328
- Oh, wow, dude.
629
00:22:09,328 --> 00:22:10,763
Oh, man.
630
00:22:10,763 --> 00:22:12,498
I just don't know
how to process this.
631
00:22:12,498 --> 00:22:13,999
I really don't.
632
00:22:13,999 --> 00:22:16,101
I opened up,
put my heart on the line,
633
00:22:16,101 --> 00:22:18,604
and now I'm here.
634
00:22:18,604 --> 00:22:20,639
I'm confused.
635
00:22:20,639 --> 00:22:22,408
I'm upset.
636
00:22:22,408 --> 00:22:23,409
I'm bummed.
637
00:22:23,409 --> 00:22:25,511
I'm pissed.
638
00:22:25,511 --> 00:22:26,846
I'm gonna go
to the bathroom right now.
639
00:22:26,846 --> 00:22:28,047
[indistinct chatter]
640
00:22:28,047 --> 00:22:30,683
[dramatic music]
641
00:22:30,683 --> 00:22:33,018
I don't know how I'm gonna
go through this, man.
642
00:22:33,018 --> 00:22:34,320
I don't know
what we're gonna do.
643
00:22:34,320 --> 00:22:35,321
I don't know how
it's gonna work.
644
00:22:35,321 --> 00:22:36,455
I don't know how to act.
645
00:22:36,455 --> 00:22:37,456
I don't know
how to think right now.
646
00:22:37,456 --> 00:22:38,858
This is [bleep], dude.
647
00:22:38,858 --> 00:22:40,559
Oh, my God.
648
00:22:40,559 --> 00:22:43,696
I put my heart out there
every single week.
649
00:22:43,696 --> 00:22:45,431
I end up not getting
a one-on-one.
650
00:22:45,431 --> 00:22:47,666
I get a [bleep] two-on-one.
651
00:22:47,666 --> 00:22:48,834
One person gets a rose,
652
00:22:48,834 --> 00:22:49,802
and they're bringing
Charity home
653
00:22:49,802 --> 00:22:50,936
without a one-on-one.
654
00:22:50,936 --> 00:22:52,171
And one person's going home.
655
00:22:52,171 --> 00:22:54,540
♪
656
00:22:57,509 --> 00:22:59,612
[horn blaring]
657
00:22:59,612 --> 00:23:02,648
[bell dinging]
658
00:23:04,583 --> 00:23:06,685
[suspenseful music]
659
00:23:06,685 --> 00:23:09,154
- Charity threw me
a curveball this week.
660
00:23:09,154 --> 00:23:12,391
I was so hopeful
to get just the validation
661
00:23:12,391 --> 00:23:13,525
in a one-on-one.
662
00:23:13,525 --> 00:23:15,394
♪
663
00:23:15,394 --> 00:23:17,329
So when I didn't get that,
664
00:23:17,329 --> 00:23:20,566
I felt a little bit
just overlooked again.
665
00:23:20,566 --> 00:23:22,568
♪
666
00:23:22,568 --> 00:23:25,504
At this point, I am definitely
playing from behind.
667
00:23:25,504 --> 00:23:27,006
♪
668
00:23:27,006 --> 00:23:30,075
But feelings I feel
for Charity are real.
669
00:23:30,075 --> 00:23:33,913
She could be the one for me,
honestly.
670
00:23:33,913 --> 00:23:35,781
So I'm showing up for her.
671
00:23:35,781 --> 00:23:37,783
♪
672
00:23:37,783 --> 00:23:40,386
- I don't know
how we got here,
673
00:23:40,386 --> 00:23:41,921
don't know how I ended up
674
00:23:41,921 --> 00:23:43,789
in this situation
where it's literally
675
00:23:43,789 --> 00:23:45,991
one guy is walking out of this
with a rose
676
00:23:45,991 --> 00:23:47,993
and going to Hometowns,
the other guy is going home.
677
00:23:47,993 --> 00:23:51,430
♪
678
00:23:51,430 --> 00:23:53,232
I haven't felt this way
about someone in a long time,
679
00:23:53,232 --> 00:23:54,400
so I'm gonna trust my gut.
680
00:23:54,400 --> 00:23:56,101
I'm gonna trust my feelings.
681
00:23:56,101 --> 00:23:58,203
But like, I wish
it was just me and Charity.
682
00:23:58,203 --> 00:23:59,805
♪
683
00:23:59,805 --> 00:24:02,541
I know it could work,
and I feel so great about us.
684
00:24:02,541 --> 00:24:03,976
I feel confident
bringing her home
685
00:24:03,976 --> 00:24:05,878
'cause I can see a future
with her at the end.
686
00:24:05,878 --> 00:24:09,281
I don't think I've ever felt
this strongly about a girl.
687
00:24:09,281 --> 00:24:10,449
The last time I felt that,
688
00:24:10,449 --> 00:24:11,750
I fell in love
with that person.
689
00:24:11,750 --> 00:24:12,818
So today is huge.
690
00:24:14,887 --> 00:24:16,155
- I really want that rose.
691
00:24:16,155 --> 00:24:17,690
Like, I really do.
692
00:24:17,690 --> 00:24:20,125
I'm gonna go into
my competitive mode
693
00:24:20,125 --> 00:24:21,627
and be like,
"I'm going to win."
694
00:24:21,627 --> 00:24:23,462
[dramatic twangy music]
695
00:24:23,462 --> 00:24:24,763
[birds calling]
696
00:24:24,763 --> 00:24:29,635
♪
697
00:24:29,635 --> 00:24:30,636
- Hello.
698
00:24:30,636 --> 00:24:31,770
- Hello. How are you?
699
00:24:31,770 --> 00:24:32,905
- Hi. I'm good.
How are you?
700
00:24:32,905 --> 00:24:34,239
- How are you?
You look amazing.
701
00:24:34,239 --> 00:24:35,874
- Thank you. So do you.
- Love the green.
702
00:24:35,874 --> 00:24:37,509
- Thank you--
we're matching a little.
703
00:24:37,509 --> 00:24:38,544
- How you doing?
- Different shade.
704
00:24:38,544 --> 00:24:40,045
Hi.
705
00:24:40,045 --> 00:24:41,513
How are you?
- I'm good.
706
00:24:41,513 --> 00:24:42,815
- Good. Okay.
707
00:24:42,815 --> 00:24:45,617
Thank you for joining me today
in the bayou.
708
00:24:45,617 --> 00:24:48,520
I know today is, like,
not a convenient thing,
709
00:24:48,520 --> 00:24:50,656
but I don't really want
to focus on that.
710
00:24:50,656 --> 00:24:53,692
Like, I just want
to have a good time
711
00:24:53,692 --> 00:24:56,161
and try and embrace
all that comes with today.
712
00:24:56,161 --> 00:24:58,063
So let's go, boys.
713
00:24:58,063 --> 00:24:59,798
- Let's do it.
- All right, let's do it.
714
00:24:59,798 --> 00:25:02,434
- I don't know what
today is gonna bring.
715
00:25:02,434 --> 00:25:05,070
I'm hopeful. I'm terrified.
I'm excited.
716
00:25:05,070 --> 00:25:06,205
- How's it going?
717
00:25:07,406 --> 00:25:10,576
- I woke up coming off
of cloud nine from last night,
718
00:25:10,576 --> 00:25:12,778
but coming in today,
I don't know.
719
00:25:12,778 --> 00:25:14,546
It's a completely
different feeling.
720
00:25:14,546 --> 00:25:16,615
- I welcome you all
to Cajun Pride Swamp Tours.
721
00:25:16,615 --> 00:25:17,950
We'll go take a look
at a few gators,
722
00:25:17,950 --> 00:25:19,218
ride through the back and all.
723
00:25:19,218 --> 00:25:20,252
Y'all ready for it?
- Let's do it.
724
00:25:20,252 --> 00:25:21,253
- Sounds good.
- Sure.
725
00:25:21,253 --> 00:25:22,521
- Let's go take a look well.
726
00:25:22,521 --> 00:25:25,491
[mellow country music]
727
00:25:25,491 --> 00:25:27,693
♪
728
00:25:27,693 --> 00:25:29,161
Y'all with the same girl
right here?
729
00:25:29,161 --> 00:25:30,295
- Yeah.
730
00:25:30,295 --> 00:25:31,363
- I don't know how
that's gonna work.
731
00:25:31,363 --> 00:25:32,531
- I--neither do I.
732
00:25:32,531 --> 00:25:34,166
- We don't either.
- Yeah, yeah, right.
733
00:25:34,166 --> 00:25:36,201
- [laughs]
- One at a time, for sure.
734
00:25:36,201 --> 00:25:39,304
[laughter]
735
00:25:39,304 --> 00:25:41,974
♪
736
00:25:41,974 --> 00:25:43,609
They got a gator over here
to the left.
737
00:25:43,609 --> 00:25:44,610
Look at this one.
738
00:25:44,610 --> 00:25:45,744
Now, see how they blend in?
739
00:25:45,744 --> 00:25:48,247
- Today, I have two good guys,
740
00:25:48,247 --> 00:25:51,083
and I'm trying to gauge
between, like,
741
00:25:51,083 --> 00:25:52,651
someone who could be
a boyfriend
742
00:25:52,651 --> 00:25:55,421
versus someone who could be
a husband.
743
00:25:55,421 --> 00:25:56,555
- There's so many gators.
I can't get over it.
744
00:25:56,555 --> 00:25:57,656
- I know.
There's a lot more
745
00:25:57,656 --> 00:25:58,657
than I thought
there was gonna be.
746
00:25:58,657 --> 00:25:59,658
- Totally.
747
00:25:59,658 --> 00:26:00,993
- When I think about Sean,
748
00:26:00,993 --> 00:26:02,861
he's sweet, he's thoughtful.
749
00:26:02,861 --> 00:26:05,431
He's really, like, embracing
all that this is.
750
00:26:05,431 --> 00:26:06,932
- Look at the big one,
the big male.
751
00:26:06,932 --> 00:26:08,967
Now, what do you got,
four females there with him?
752
00:26:08,967 --> 00:26:10,235
- It seems like
he's got it made, huh?
753
00:26:10,235 --> 00:26:11,270
- Yeah.
- Yeah.
754
00:26:11,270 --> 00:26:13,072
But like, is that enough
755
00:26:13,072 --> 00:26:16,008
for me to feel like
this is my person?
756
00:26:16,008 --> 00:26:17,643
With Tanner,
it's like, he is someone
757
00:26:17,643 --> 00:26:19,511
that I am holding out
a lot of hope with.
758
00:26:19,511 --> 00:26:20,512
- Can we feed them?
759
00:26:20,512 --> 00:26:22,114
- Yeah, right, one time.
760
00:26:22,114 --> 00:26:23,449
[laughter]
761
00:26:23,449 --> 00:26:26,151
- I want things
to really work with Tanner.
762
00:26:26,151 --> 00:26:27,719
I see a lot,
763
00:26:27,719 --> 00:26:31,423
but is Tanner going
to be able to show me
764
00:26:31,423 --> 00:26:33,959
he's not afraid to open up?
765
00:26:33,959 --> 00:26:35,794
- There's a 10-foot one
on the side right here.
766
00:26:35,794 --> 00:26:36,795
Look.
- Oh, yeah.
767
00:26:36,795 --> 00:26:38,030
Oh, he's a big one.
768
00:26:38,030 --> 00:26:39,565
- Sometimes the big ones eat
the little ones.
769
00:26:39,565 --> 00:26:40,599
- Oh, no.
770
00:26:40,599 --> 00:26:41,834
- Oh, yeah.
771
00:26:41,834 --> 00:26:43,635
[laughter]
772
00:26:43,635 --> 00:26:45,637
- Coming into this,
I was feeling some type of way.
773
00:26:45,637 --> 00:26:47,806
- One like this,
probably 25 years old.
774
00:26:47,806 --> 00:26:49,208
- You know, it's definitely
not what I wanted.
775
00:26:49,208 --> 00:26:50,642
It's not what I expected,
776
00:26:50,642 --> 00:26:52,344
but I'll take what I can get
at this point.
777
00:26:52,344 --> 00:26:54,713
- We got--we got a lot
of gators on my golf course
778
00:26:54,713 --> 00:26:55,714
down in Florida,
like, big ones.
779
00:26:55,714 --> 00:26:56,915
- Do you?
- Yeah, 'cause it's
780
00:26:56,915 --> 00:26:58,250
a nature preserve,
so you can't remove them.
781
00:26:58,250 --> 00:26:59,585
So they can get
as big as they want.
782
00:26:59,585 --> 00:27:01,487
- Sean's definitely
more vocal than I am,
783
00:27:01,487 --> 00:27:05,090
and it's clear that he wants
to win this competition
784
00:27:05,090 --> 00:27:06,358
of today against me.
785
00:27:06,358 --> 00:27:07,826
- Land, I'll take him all day.
786
00:27:07,826 --> 00:27:09,027
Like, water, I don't want to be
in the water with them.
787
00:27:09,027 --> 00:27:10,028
- No, no.
- Yup, yup.
788
00:27:10,028 --> 00:27:11,263
- Better U-turn. Move along.
789
00:27:11,263 --> 00:27:12,331
- That'd be a worthy opponent
right there.
790
00:27:12,331 --> 00:27:13,332
- Take him. Take him.
791
00:27:13,332 --> 00:27:14,333
- I don't think so.
792
00:27:14,333 --> 00:27:15,300
[laughter]
793
00:27:15,300 --> 00:27:16,435
- Charity's a rock star.
794
00:27:16,435 --> 00:27:18,871
I'm happy to be here with her.
795
00:27:18,871 --> 00:27:20,072
Not so much Sean.
796
00:27:20,072 --> 00:27:21,607
- Y'all got to be 18 or 21
797
00:27:21,607 --> 00:27:23,142
to see the next--
right before right here.
798
00:27:23,142 --> 00:27:25,210
[laughter]
- I know. Oh, I see.
799
00:27:25,210 --> 00:27:26,378
[laughter]
800
00:27:26,378 --> 00:27:27,412
- That's so funny.
801
00:27:27,412 --> 00:27:29,781
- They're embracing the moment.
802
00:27:29,781 --> 00:27:31,450
- The truth is,
Sean and Charity,
803
00:27:31,450 --> 00:27:33,152
you know, they've been
hitting it off today.
804
00:27:33,152 --> 00:27:35,587
So I need to step up my game
with Charity.
805
00:27:35,587 --> 00:27:40,225
I want to get there,
but the clock is ticking.
806
00:27:40,225 --> 00:27:41,593
- Okay, here's a special treat
807
00:27:41,593 --> 00:27:42,761
when we're down the Bayou Park.
808
00:27:42,761 --> 00:27:44,263
Watch this.
- Oh, wow.
809
00:27:44,263 --> 00:27:45,964
- Yeah, that's how
we do that over here.
810
00:27:45,964 --> 00:27:47,132
[indistinct cheers]
811
00:27:47,132 --> 00:27:48,534
[laughter]
812
00:27:48,534 --> 00:27:49,568
- Now, eating crawfish,
813
00:27:49,568 --> 00:27:51,403
you pull the tail
like this here.
814
00:27:51,403 --> 00:27:52,404
You see, you hold it up
815
00:27:52,404 --> 00:27:53,906
like a shot glass.
816
00:27:53,906 --> 00:27:55,240
- Oh, God. No way.
817
00:27:55,240 --> 00:27:56,675
[laughs] No way.
818
00:28:04,483 --> 00:28:05,851
[laughter]
819
00:28:07,886 --> 00:28:09,454
- I'm loving this crawfish,
honestly.
820
00:28:12,291 --> 00:28:14,026
[laughs] Yeah.
821
00:28:14,026 --> 00:28:15,127
♪
822
00:28:15,127 --> 00:28:17,062
- I want
to acknowledge today
823
00:28:17,062 --> 00:28:20,365
and say thank you guys
once again for being here.
824
00:28:20,365 --> 00:28:22,100
Like, there is
a dinner tonight,
825
00:28:22,100 --> 00:28:25,437
and I would absolutely love it
if you guys would join me.
826
00:28:25,437 --> 00:28:26,438
- Yeah.
- Yeah, of course.
827
00:28:26,438 --> 00:28:27,573
- Of course.
- Perfect.
828
00:28:27,573 --> 00:28:28,807
- Today was not ideal.
829
00:28:28,807 --> 00:28:30,108
Like, it was cool,
830
00:28:30,108 --> 00:28:31,510
but it just would have
been better
831
00:28:31,510 --> 00:28:33,111
if it was just me and Charity,
you know?
832
00:28:33,111 --> 00:28:35,080
But it's the hand I was dealt,
833
00:28:35,080 --> 00:28:36,348
and every time I speak to her,
834
00:28:36,348 --> 00:28:38,050
I feel like
our connection grows.
835
00:28:38,050 --> 00:28:40,986
So I'm not gonna let some
silly little two-on-one date,
836
00:28:40,986 --> 00:28:42,721
like, get in the way
of, like, that end goal,
837
00:28:42,721 --> 00:28:44,423
like, the end vision for me.
838
00:28:44,423 --> 00:28:48,126
- I think we should get going
and prepare for tonight.
839
00:28:48,126 --> 00:28:49,728
Perfect.
- Let's do it.
840
00:28:49,728 --> 00:28:52,798
- Today was a lot better
than what I expected.
841
00:28:52,798 --> 00:28:55,167
I had two great companions.
842
00:28:55,167 --> 00:28:56,468
- Let me talk to her
real quick.
843
00:28:56,468 --> 00:28:58,103
I'm leaving.
- You're leaving?
844
00:28:58,103 --> 00:29:00,472
- Yes.
- Okay, thank you.
845
00:29:00,472 --> 00:29:03,175
You are just gonna make it
so known, and I love that.
846
00:29:03,175 --> 00:29:05,077
♪
847
00:29:05,077 --> 00:29:06,378
Thank you so much.
- Yeah.
848
00:29:06,378 --> 00:29:08,180
- I definitely don't feel
great right now.
849
00:29:08,180 --> 00:29:09,848
♪
850
00:29:09,848 --> 00:29:13,418
Charity, she's definitely
building momentum with Sean.
851
00:29:13,418 --> 00:29:16,521
I don't want our relationship
to end, but it's scary.
852
00:29:16,521 --> 00:29:18,390
I mean, it really could end
here tonight.
853
00:29:18,390 --> 00:29:19,458
- I'll see you tonight,
all right?
854
00:29:19,458 --> 00:29:21,727
- Thank you.
- Yeah, of course.
855
00:29:21,727 --> 00:29:23,829
- [whispering] Sweetie boy.
856
00:29:23,829 --> 00:29:26,698
Okay, that was so sweet.
857
00:29:26,698 --> 00:29:28,233
Why? He's so sweet.
858
00:29:28,233 --> 00:29:30,369
♪
859
00:29:30,369 --> 00:29:32,704
- After today,
I feel really great,
860
00:29:32,704 --> 00:29:34,706
and I'm excited for tonight
to hopefully put us
861
00:29:34,706 --> 00:29:36,241
in a good spot moving forward.
862
00:29:36,241 --> 00:29:38,410
The end goal is to get a rose,
863
00:29:38,410 --> 00:29:39,778
bring Charity back
to meet my family.
864
00:29:39,778 --> 00:29:41,079
That's--that's the goal.
865
00:29:41,079 --> 00:29:42,748
It's--it's what I'm hoping for.
866
00:29:42,748 --> 00:29:46,451
♪
867
00:29:48,420 --> 00:29:50,289
[horn blaring]
868
00:29:50,289 --> 00:29:52,824
[bell dinging]
869
00:29:52,824 --> 00:29:54,293
[bird cawing]
870
00:29:54,293 --> 00:29:55,294
- Hi, Charity.
871
00:29:55,294 --> 00:29:56,695
- Hello.
- Stunning, as always.
872
00:29:56,695 --> 00:29:58,730
- You look amazing.
- How are you?
873
00:29:58,730 --> 00:30:00,565
- Good, how are you?
- Good.
874
00:30:00,565 --> 00:30:03,201
This whole day was a weird
just situation,
875
00:30:03,201 --> 00:30:05,470
weird predicament
for everyone to be in.
876
00:30:05,470 --> 00:30:07,072
Two guys, one of me.
877
00:30:07,072 --> 00:30:09,341
Thank you guys for a good day.
It was great.
878
00:30:09,341 --> 00:30:12,244
Obviously, it was not
the best circumstances,
879
00:30:12,244 --> 00:30:15,547
but I really do appreciate,
you know, the little moments,
880
00:30:15,547 --> 00:30:16,848
the big moments, like...
881
00:30:16,848 --> 00:30:20,152
While this whole day has
been a little chaotic...
882
00:30:20,152 --> 00:30:23,288
Let's head inside.
We have a dinner to get to.
883
00:30:23,288 --> 00:30:26,692
Tonight it's important
for me to hopefully get
884
00:30:26,692 --> 00:30:27,893
the clarity I need.
885
00:30:27,893 --> 00:30:29,528
- This is so pretty.
- Oh, it's gorgeous.
886
00:30:29,528 --> 00:30:31,363
Like, this is a Hometown rose,
887
00:30:31,363 --> 00:30:35,100
and I know for me
how much family means.
888
00:30:35,100 --> 00:30:36,568
Ooh.
- Ooh, all right.
889
00:30:36,568 --> 00:30:38,570
- All right, this is fancy.
- This is so cute.
890
00:30:38,570 --> 00:30:40,939
- It's a lot of weight,
if you want the truth.
891
00:30:40,939 --> 00:30:42,207
- Ooh.
892
00:30:42,207 --> 00:30:43,909
- For me, the last thing I want
893
00:30:43,909 --> 00:30:45,410
to have to wake up with
894
00:30:45,410 --> 00:30:47,713
is a regret of,
oh, God, did I send
895
00:30:47,713 --> 00:30:50,682
the absolute wrong person home?
896
00:30:50,682 --> 00:30:53,118
I think today showed me a lot.
897
00:30:53,118 --> 00:30:56,488
It showed me, despite
how uncomfortable today was,
898
00:30:56,488 --> 00:30:58,056
you embraced it all,
899
00:30:58,056 --> 00:31:00,492
and I want to spend tonight
900
00:31:00,492 --> 00:31:02,828
getting that clarity
that I need.
901
00:31:02,828 --> 00:31:06,298
So I hope you guys
lean into tonight
902
00:31:06,298 --> 00:31:10,235
and really just meet me
exactly where I'm at.
903
00:31:10,235 --> 00:31:11,503
Cheers.
- Cheers.
904
00:31:11,503 --> 00:31:12,738
[glasses clinking]
- There you go.
905
00:31:12,738 --> 00:31:14,406
- Cheers, Sean.
- Cheers, Tanner.
906
00:31:14,406 --> 00:31:15,974
[quirky music]
907
00:31:15,974 --> 00:31:17,075
- Delish.
- Pretty good wine.
908
00:31:17,075 --> 00:31:18,076
- Not bad.
- Yeah.
909
00:31:18,076 --> 00:31:19,378
- Um, with that,
910
00:31:19,378 --> 00:31:20,746
we're gonna kick things off.
911
00:31:20,746 --> 00:31:23,081
Um, Tanner, if you don't mind,
912
00:31:23,081 --> 00:31:24,783
uh, me and Sean are gonna chat.
913
00:31:24,783 --> 00:31:26,017
- Sounds good.
- Yeah, perfect.
914
00:31:26,017 --> 00:31:27,386
Thank you.
- Yep.
915
00:31:27,386 --> 00:31:28,653
♪
916
00:31:28,653 --> 00:31:30,188
- Okay.
- I'm coming closer.
917
00:31:30,188 --> 00:31:31,189
- Yeah, you sure can.
918
00:31:31,189 --> 00:31:32,557
- Yeah.
- How are you doing?
919
00:31:32,557 --> 00:31:33,558
- I'm good.
- Good.
920
00:31:33,558 --> 00:31:34,659
- How are you?
Yeah.
921
00:31:34,659 --> 00:31:35,660
- It's been a day.
922
00:31:35,660 --> 00:31:36,661
I think I don't really know
923
00:31:36,661 --> 00:31:37,929
how I'm feeling right now.
924
00:31:37,929 --> 00:31:40,966
Our time, like, obviously
hasn't been maximized.
925
00:31:40,966 --> 00:31:42,067
- Yeah.
926
00:31:42,067 --> 00:31:44,002
- And knowing
what's on the line,
927
00:31:44,002 --> 00:31:46,671
how do you feel, you know,
going into next week?
928
00:31:46,671 --> 00:31:49,174
Like, meeting family,
how would you feel about that?
929
00:31:49,174 --> 00:31:52,110
- Yeah, I really want
the opportunity for you
930
00:31:52,110 --> 00:31:54,012
to interact with them,
because my family's so special
931
00:31:54,012 --> 00:31:55,380
and they mean the world to me.
932
00:31:55,380 --> 00:31:57,115
Like, as soon as I bring you
back into those doors,
933
00:31:57,115 --> 00:31:59,317
like, you are gonna feel
the love and support
934
00:31:59,317 --> 00:32:00,685
that I've felt my entire life.
935
00:32:00,685 --> 00:32:01,887
- Yeah, yeah.
936
00:32:01,887 --> 00:32:03,288
- And like,
the scary point is, like,
937
00:32:03,288 --> 00:32:04,756
I might get crushed
at the end of this,
938
00:32:04,756 --> 00:32:06,358
but like, that's a risk
that I'm, like,
939
00:32:06,358 --> 00:32:08,660
100%, like, willing to take.
940
00:32:08,660 --> 00:32:10,562
♪
941
00:32:10,562 --> 00:32:12,531
- Charity has a huge
decision to make.
942
00:32:12,531 --> 00:32:14,132
She's got one rose.
943
00:32:14,132 --> 00:32:16,568
There's two guys here.
944
00:32:16,568 --> 00:32:19,004
Honestly,
I'm a little bit scared.
945
00:32:19,004 --> 00:32:20,071
♪
946
00:32:20,071 --> 00:32:22,307
I mean,
Sean's a confident guy.
947
00:32:22,307 --> 00:32:23,809
There's no doubt about that.
948
00:32:23,809 --> 00:32:25,410
- I look back to Oceanside
and remember how I felt
949
00:32:25,410 --> 00:32:26,978
looking at that pier
at the sunset.
950
00:32:26,978 --> 00:32:28,980
Like, that's something I want
to recreate every day with you.
951
00:32:28,980 --> 00:32:30,515
♪
952
00:32:30,515 --> 00:32:33,952
- It's clear that Charity sees
something in Sean.
953
00:32:33,952 --> 00:32:36,955
But honestly,
it has nothing to do with me.
954
00:32:36,955 --> 00:32:39,524
I'm gonna worry about
what I can control.
955
00:32:39,524 --> 00:32:41,726
I'm going in there
completely open and honest.
956
00:32:41,726 --> 00:32:43,929
- Thank you for today
and this convo.
957
00:32:43,929 --> 00:32:45,363
Like, it means a lot.
958
00:32:45,363 --> 00:32:47,933
So I want you to know,
like, it's--it's weighing,
959
00:32:47,933 --> 00:32:49,167
and weighing in a good way.
960
00:32:49,167 --> 00:32:50,235
So...okay.
- Good.
961
00:32:50,235 --> 00:32:51,403
All right, a kiss.
962
00:32:51,403 --> 00:32:54,539
♪
963
00:32:54,539 --> 00:32:57,275
- I'm super hopeful that
we can really dive deep.
964
00:32:57,275 --> 00:32:58,777
♪
965
00:32:58,777 --> 00:33:00,011
I'm going into
that conversation
966
00:33:00,011 --> 00:33:01,947
with a fully open heart,
967
00:33:01,947 --> 00:33:03,915
and I'm gonna lay it all
out there.
968
00:33:03,915 --> 00:33:07,752
It's 100% make it
or break it tonight.
969
00:33:07,752 --> 00:33:08,887
- How are you doing?
970
00:33:08,887 --> 00:33:10,222
- I'm good right now.
- Okay.
971
00:33:10,222 --> 00:33:12,224
- Like, I'm in a good spot,
but I have to say, like,
972
00:33:12,224 --> 00:33:14,159
I feel like I--I'm gonna come
a little bit closer.
973
00:33:14,159 --> 00:33:15,193
- Yeah. [laughs]
974
00:33:15,193 --> 00:33:16,361
- Um...
975
00:33:16,361 --> 00:33:18,430
I have my guards up, you know?
- Yeah.
976
00:33:18,430 --> 00:33:21,233
- And a lot of it's just
because of past relationships.
977
00:33:21,233 --> 00:33:22,367
- Mm-hmm.
978
00:33:22,367 --> 00:33:23,902
- I mean,
I had a serious relationship,
979
00:33:23,902 --> 00:33:26,171
you know, when I was, like, 24
for three years.
980
00:33:26,171 --> 00:33:27,339
- Mm-hmm.
981
00:33:27,339 --> 00:33:29,674
- And we got in
one little argument,
982
00:33:29,674 --> 00:33:31,142
and she flew down to Florida
983
00:33:31,142 --> 00:33:32,811
and, like, just, like,
never came back.
984
00:33:32,811 --> 00:33:35,280
- Oh, no.
- Like, fully got, like,
985
00:33:35,280 --> 00:33:37,249
ghosted in, like,
the most random, weird way.
986
00:33:37,249 --> 00:33:39,017
- Oh, my gosh. Yeah.
987
00:33:39,017 --> 00:33:41,152
- So, like, that sucks.
- Mm-hmm.
988
00:33:41,152 --> 00:33:44,422
- But since then,
I just kind of put my walls up
989
00:33:44,422 --> 00:33:47,626
and trying to protect my peace
kind of, like, at all costs.
990
00:33:47,626 --> 00:33:48,994
- Mm-hmm.
991
00:33:48,994 --> 00:33:51,062
- But I realize, like,
that's not gonna be forever,
992
00:33:51,062 --> 00:33:52,364
and that's not
what I want forever.
993
00:33:52,364 --> 00:33:53,632
- Yeah.
994
00:33:53,632 --> 00:33:55,233
[soft music]
995
00:33:55,233 --> 00:33:57,002
- I don't think I've felt
this excited in a long time
996
00:33:57,002 --> 00:33:59,271
in this process
because, like, honestly,
997
00:33:59,271 --> 00:34:02,507
it went so well,
I feel on a high right now.
998
00:34:02,507 --> 00:34:03,975
I feel great
about our conversation.
999
00:34:03,975 --> 00:34:05,977
I feel great about us,
which is awesome.
1000
00:34:05,977 --> 00:34:08,046
- I relate in a sense of
1001
00:34:08,046 --> 00:34:11,182
probably not receiving love
in the best ways.
1002
00:34:11,182 --> 00:34:12,884
I got so lost
in that relationship,
1003
00:34:12,884 --> 00:34:14,319
I did not know who I was.
1004
00:34:14,319 --> 00:34:17,255
And if I look back now, like,
the person who I was then
1005
00:34:17,255 --> 00:34:19,024
is completely different.
1006
00:34:19,024 --> 00:34:21,293
- Yeah, I mean,
that all made you who you are.
1007
00:34:21,293 --> 00:34:24,362
- Mm-hmm.
- And I mean, you're beautiful.
1008
00:34:24,362 --> 00:34:26,031
- Thank you.
1009
00:34:26,031 --> 00:34:27,032
- Tanner's a great guy.
1010
00:34:27,032 --> 00:34:28,433
Like, he is a good guy.
1011
00:34:28,433 --> 00:34:29,534
- I'm just so happy I met you.
1012
00:34:29,534 --> 00:34:30,535
I mean,
you're an amazing person.
1013
00:34:30,535 --> 00:34:31,603
- Oh, thank you.
1014
00:34:31,603 --> 00:34:33,471
♪
1015
00:34:33,471 --> 00:34:36,474
- But honestly,
I'm not worried about him.
1016
00:34:36,474 --> 00:34:37,976
I put my heart out there.
1017
00:34:37,976 --> 00:34:40,011
That's all you can do
in this situation.
1018
00:34:40,011 --> 00:34:41,947
And I feel great about it.
1019
00:34:41,947 --> 00:34:43,415
And now it's just
up to Charity.
1020
00:34:43,415 --> 00:34:47,719
♪
1021
00:34:49,354 --> 00:34:50,722
- It's 11:40.
1022
00:34:50,722 --> 00:34:52,190
The guys still aren't back.
1023
00:34:52,190 --> 00:34:54,025
Charity must know
who she's gonna be
1024
00:34:54,025 --> 00:34:55,427
sending home at this point.
1025
00:34:55,427 --> 00:34:58,063
So I've just been
extremely tested,
1026
00:34:58,063 --> 00:35:01,199
and it's really taxing me
right now, you know.
1027
00:35:01,199 --> 00:35:02,400
She has to explore
connections,
1028
00:35:02,400 --> 00:35:03,735
but at the same time,
you know,
1029
00:35:03,735 --> 00:35:05,103
I'm holding on to something
that happened
1030
00:35:05,103 --> 00:35:08,106
four weeks ago,
which feels like,
1031
00:35:08,106 --> 00:35:09,808
you know,
six months at this point.
1032
00:35:09,808 --> 00:35:11,276
[knock on door]
1033
00:35:11,276 --> 00:35:12,877
all: Oh.
- I got it.
1034
00:35:12,877 --> 00:35:14,245
I got it.
1035
00:35:14,245 --> 00:35:16,047
- Charity needs to meet
my parents,
1036
00:35:16,047 --> 00:35:18,350
so I need to get
that one-on-one time,
1037
00:35:18,350 --> 00:35:20,318
that time here in New Orleans,
you know?
1038
00:35:20,318 --> 00:35:23,321
[tense music]
1039
00:35:23,321 --> 00:35:26,358
♪
1040
00:35:26,358 --> 00:35:28,927
- "Dotun,
my heart's racing for you.
1041
00:35:28,927 --> 00:35:31,630
Meet me at sunrise. Charity."
1042
00:35:31,630 --> 00:35:35,567
♪
1043
00:35:35,567 --> 00:35:38,837
- Sounds like you're gonna be
up early, bro.
1044
00:35:38,837 --> 00:35:40,372
- It's not that
I'm not happy for Dotun.
1045
00:35:40,372 --> 00:35:41,973
It's just I don't know
what that [bleep] means.
1046
00:35:41,973 --> 00:35:43,208
♪
1047
00:35:43,208 --> 00:35:45,577
Can't really focus on
your actual relationship
1048
00:35:45,577 --> 00:35:49,014
when just this [bleep]
just keeps taking over.
1049
00:35:49,014 --> 00:35:50,582
It confuses me that I just
don't have a one-on-one
1050
00:35:50,582 --> 00:35:51,583
here in New Orleans.
1051
00:35:51,583 --> 00:35:54,285
This is not cool at all.
1052
00:35:54,285 --> 00:35:56,421
Like, I'm actually here
for a Charity.
1053
00:35:56,421 --> 00:35:57,756
Like, I'm not about
to just act like
1054
00:35:57,756 --> 00:35:59,424
it's all peaches and cream
out here.
1055
00:35:59,424 --> 00:36:00,892
It's not.
1056
00:36:00,892 --> 00:36:02,894
Yeah, I'm [bleep] pissed.
1057
00:36:02,894 --> 00:36:05,030
[sighs]
1058
00:36:05,030 --> 00:36:08,366
[bells dinging]
1059
00:36:08,366 --> 00:36:12,404
♪
1060
00:36:12,404 --> 00:36:14,039
- [sighs]
1061
00:36:14,039 --> 00:36:16,074
This is so hard.
1062
00:36:16,074 --> 00:36:17,976
I really don't have an answer
to who I'm sending home.
1063
00:36:17,976 --> 00:36:19,444
I don't know right now.
1064
00:36:19,444 --> 00:36:21,379
Hi. Hello.
1065
00:36:21,379 --> 00:36:23,715
It's scary knowing
I have to make a decision.
1066
00:36:23,715 --> 00:36:25,083
♪
1067
00:36:25,083 --> 00:36:26,985
It's intimidating for myself
1068
00:36:26,985 --> 00:36:30,522
to--to hopefully make
the right decision.
1069
00:36:30,522 --> 00:36:31,790
♪
1070
00:36:31,790 --> 00:36:33,692
I'm, like--I'm getting,
like, a stress rash
1071
00:36:33,692 --> 00:36:34,993
because I don't know.
1072
00:36:34,993 --> 00:36:41,199
♪
1073
00:36:41,199 --> 00:36:43,568
I don't know.
1074
00:36:43,568 --> 00:36:45,403
I really don't know.
1075
00:36:45,403 --> 00:36:48,440
♪
1076
00:36:55,280 --> 00:36:56,981
Um... [clears throat]
1077
00:36:56,981 --> 00:37:00,018
[soft suspenseful music]
1078
00:37:00,018 --> 00:37:01,619
♪
1079
00:37:01,619 --> 00:37:04,622
This rose not only symbolizes
1080
00:37:04,622 --> 00:37:10,428
where I feel like I'm at
with our connection,
1081
00:37:10,428 --> 00:37:12,564
but it symbolizes
the importance
1082
00:37:12,564 --> 00:37:16,201
of what next week holds.
1083
00:37:16,201 --> 00:37:21,339
I feel like the best decision
for me in this moment...
1084
00:37:21,339 --> 00:37:23,141
is to...
1085
00:37:23,141 --> 00:37:28,880
♪
1086
00:37:28,880 --> 00:37:31,549
Not hand out a rose tonight.
1087
00:37:34,753 --> 00:37:35,954
Put her down.
1088
00:37:35,954 --> 00:37:37,856
- [sighs, laughs]
1089
00:37:37,856 --> 00:37:39,157
- That is that.
1090
00:37:39,157 --> 00:37:41,793
Um...I'm so grateful.
1091
00:37:41,793 --> 00:37:43,528
I'm grateful
for both of you all,
1092
00:37:43,528 --> 00:37:46,564
and I hope,
1093
00:37:46,564 --> 00:37:49,100
with the remaining
of our time here,
1094
00:37:49,100 --> 00:37:53,371
we will get exactly
what we are all looking for.
1095
00:37:53,371 --> 00:37:55,940
So I'll see you both very soon.
1096
00:37:55,940 --> 00:37:57,108
- Sounds good.
- Yeah.
1097
00:37:57,108 --> 00:37:58,476
Thank you guys so much.
1098
00:37:58,476 --> 00:38:00,145
- Yeah. Thanks, Charity.
1099
00:38:00,145 --> 00:38:01,246
♪
1100
00:38:01,246 --> 00:38:02,480
- Goodness. Okay.
1101
00:38:02,480 --> 00:38:03,681
Thank you so much.
- Yeah, of course.
1102
00:38:03,681 --> 00:38:05,216
Take all the time you need.
1103
00:38:05,216 --> 00:38:07,218
- I feel good after tonight.
1104
00:38:07,218 --> 00:38:08,753
Given the cards I was dealt,
1105
00:38:08,753 --> 00:38:10,522
today couldn't have gone
better for me.
1106
00:38:10,522 --> 00:38:11,623
- Thank you so much.
1107
00:38:11,623 --> 00:38:12,724
- Of course. Thank you.
1108
00:38:12,724 --> 00:38:14,826
- Charity needs more time.
1109
00:38:14,826 --> 00:38:17,162
She told us exactly
what it was,
1110
00:38:17,162 --> 00:38:20,031
and she respects us both enough
to give us both more time.
1111
00:38:20,031 --> 00:38:21,299
- Thank you guys.
I'll see you all soon.
1112
00:38:21,299 --> 00:38:22,333
- Bye.
- Bye.
1113
00:38:22,333 --> 00:38:24,135
- See you soon.
1114
00:38:24,135 --> 00:38:25,570
- Sean's not doing
too good right now.
1115
00:38:25,570 --> 00:38:28,807
He's, uh, clearly upset.
1116
00:38:28,807 --> 00:38:30,041
You all right?
1117
00:38:30,041 --> 00:38:32,210
- Yeah, dude, it's like...
1118
00:38:32,210 --> 00:38:33,344
you just never know, bro.
1119
00:38:33,344 --> 00:38:35,280
You just never know.
1120
00:38:35,280 --> 00:38:39,217
Like, I was just banking on
and, like, hoping and praying
1121
00:38:39,217 --> 00:38:41,786
to get a rose on my chest
before a Rose Ceremony.
1122
00:38:41,786 --> 00:38:42,987
♪
1123
00:38:42,987 --> 00:38:44,589
But yet here I am without it.
1124
00:38:44,589 --> 00:38:46,257
So yeah, dude, I'm upset.
1125
00:38:46,257 --> 00:38:47,425
Like, I don't understand
1126
00:38:47,425 --> 00:38:48,693
how you can be happy
in this situation.
1127
00:38:48,693 --> 00:38:50,261
Like, I am not happy.
1128
00:38:50,261 --> 00:38:53,698
- We knew that she was
gonna need some time, man.
1129
00:38:53,698 --> 00:38:54,899
We knew that this hard--
1130
00:38:54,899 --> 00:38:56,201
this was gonna be hard on her.
1131
00:38:56,201 --> 00:38:57,869
- I just don't know
what that looks like for us.
1132
00:38:57,869 --> 00:38:59,070
Like, that's the scary part.
1133
00:38:59,070 --> 00:39:00,672
Like, I don't know
what it looks like.
1134
00:39:00,672 --> 00:39:02,173
- Yeah, I have no idea.
1135
00:39:02,173 --> 00:39:03,741
- Like, I could not have been
more clear in the words
1136
00:39:03,741 --> 00:39:06,678
I used about how confident
I am in us.
1137
00:39:06,678 --> 00:39:08,413
Like, now I'm questioning
everything.
1138
00:39:08,413 --> 00:39:12,050
It's like, how can I be
so sure of something
1139
00:39:12,050 --> 00:39:15,320
and still have this girl
unsure about us?
1140
00:39:15,320 --> 00:39:17,455
- I know we probably
both wanted
1141
00:39:17,455 --> 00:39:18,857
the validation to get chosen.
1142
00:39:18,857 --> 00:39:21,526
- A little bit more confused,
truthfully.
1143
00:39:21,526 --> 00:39:23,294
- It's all right
to feel like that.
1144
00:39:23,294 --> 00:39:30,301
♪
1145
00:39:34,138 --> 00:39:37,742
[lively music]
1146
00:39:37,742 --> 00:39:39,744
[bell dinging]
1147
00:39:39,744 --> 00:39:45,950
♪
1148
00:39:45,950 --> 00:39:49,053
- Last night was a very
emotional night for me.
1149
00:39:49,053 --> 00:39:51,289
I could not reach a decision
1150
00:39:51,289 --> 00:39:52,891
on who I was gonna give
the rose to.
1151
00:39:52,891 --> 00:39:54,926
But coming into today,
honestly,
1152
00:39:54,926 --> 00:39:58,162
I'm just gonna embrace
all that today brings,
1153
00:39:58,162 --> 00:40:00,331
clear my mind, have fun.
1154
00:40:00,331 --> 00:40:03,534
So we are here
at the Crescent City Classic.
1155
00:40:03,534 --> 00:40:06,170
This is a huge event
in New Orleans.
1156
00:40:06,170 --> 00:40:08,773
So many people run
and attend this thing.
1157
00:40:08,773 --> 00:40:10,742
Come on. Hurry up.
1158
00:40:10,742 --> 00:40:13,211
I am taking Dotun
on today's date,
1159
00:40:13,211 --> 00:40:15,747
and we're gonna have
a good day.
1160
00:40:15,747 --> 00:40:17,749
- What's up?
- Hello.
1161
00:40:17,749 --> 00:40:19,517
- Oh...
- I'm so happy.
1162
00:40:19,517 --> 00:40:20,752
- Get on up here.
1163
00:40:20,752 --> 00:40:22,186
- Are you excited for today?
- Mm-hmm.
1164
00:40:22,186 --> 00:40:24,155
- We're gonna have so much fun.
- Yes, let's get it.
1165
00:40:24,155 --> 00:40:25,657
- Oh, my goodness.
Okay, do you have any idea?
1166
00:40:25,657 --> 00:40:28,293
Obviously, like, whoa,
we're dressed in athletic.
1167
00:40:28,293 --> 00:40:29,394
- Yeah.
1168
00:40:29,394 --> 00:40:30,628
- What do you think
we're doing?
1169
00:40:30,628 --> 00:40:32,730
- I think we're gonna go
for a very long run.
1170
00:40:32,730 --> 00:40:33,765
[both laughing]
1171
00:40:33,765 --> 00:40:35,166
- We are.
It's a marathon.
1172
00:40:35,166 --> 00:40:37,268
But with us, like,
we're just gonna have fun.
1173
00:40:37,268 --> 00:40:40,438
Um, but I do have some
cute outfits for us to put on.
1174
00:40:40,438 --> 00:40:42,073
[both laughing]
- Of course.
1175
00:40:42,073 --> 00:40:43,274
- So this is your bag.
1176
00:40:43,274 --> 00:40:44,742
- Okay, thank you.
1177
00:40:44,742 --> 00:40:47,211
- It's a fun run,
and I'm emphasizing
1178
00:40:47,211 --> 00:40:49,714
the fun part of it,
because I don't run.
1179
00:40:49,714 --> 00:40:50,815
[laughs]
1180
00:40:50,815 --> 00:40:52,150
So now we get to do it
together.
1181
00:40:52,150 --> 00:40:53,484
- With a tutu though.
1182
00:40:53,484 --> 00:40:55,153
- Isn't this cute?
- [laughs]
1183
00:40:55,153 --> 00:40:57,255
- I love that
you're embracing this.
1184
00:40:57,255 --> 00:40:58,790
So I think Dotun is
1185
00:40:58,790 --> 00:41:00,558
the perfect person
for this date.
1186
00:41:00,558 --> 00:41:01,993
- I'm kind of feeling this.
1187
00:41:01,993 --> 00:41:03,094
I'm kind of feeling this.
- It's cute.
1188
00:41:03,094 --> 00:41:04,495
- Look at this.
- I love it.
1189
00:41:04,495 --> 00:41:07,131
Me and Dotun have already
conquered, I feel like, a lot.
1190
00:41:07,131 --> 00:41:08,700
We jumped off a bridge.
1191
00:41:08,700 --> 00:41:10,001
Ooh.
1192
00:41:10,001 --> 00:41:12,270
And you know,
Dotun makes me feel happy.
1193
00:41:12,270 --> 00:41:13,671
- [laughing]
1194
00:41:13,671 --> 00:41:15,907
- And so today,
I'm really looking forward
1195
00:41:15,907 --> 00:41:17,475
to us just letting loose
1196
00:41:17,475 --> 00:41:19,444
and to have the whole day
1197
00:41:19,444 --> 00:41:21,813
to where I can just embrace
his playful side
1198
00:41:21,813 --> 00:41:23,614
and him see my goofy side.
1199
00:41:23,614 --> 00:41:25,149
Like, it's gonna be
good for us.
1200
00:41:25,149 --> 00:41:27,452
- I'd like to give
a very special welcome
1201
00:41:27,452 --> 00:41:30,221
to first-time
Crescent City Classic racer,
1202
00:41:30,221 --> 00:41:32,657
the Bachelorette,
Charity Lawson!
1203
00:41:32,657 --> 00:41:34,525
And it looks like she has
a very special someone
1204
00:41:34,525 --> 00:41:35,793
running with her.
- I know!
1205
00:41:35,793 --> 00:41:38,329
- That's her date, Dotun.
- Yay!
1206
00:41:38,329 --> 00:41:39,530
- New Orleans!
1207
00:41:39,530 --> 00:41:40,898
- No, you too.
- What do you think, guys?
1208
00:41:40,898 --> 00:41:42,433
You think they'll make it
to the finish line together?
1209
00:41:42,433 --> 00:41:43,668
- We will.
1210
00:41:43,668 --> 00:41:45,470
- Good luck to you guys.
1211
00:41:45,470 --> 00:41:48,072
Three, two, one.
1212
00:41:48,072 --> 00:41:50,074
[air horn blaring]
1213
00:41:50,074 --> 00:41:51,642
- Whoo!
- Oh, God, I'm tripping.
1214
00:41:51,642 --> 00:41:52,844
I can't see!
[laughter]
1215
00:41:52,844 --> 00:41:55,546
[upbeat music]
1216
00:41:55,546 --> 00:41:57,682
Oh, my God. No way.
1217
00:41:57,682 --> 00:41:58,850
No way.
- Very nice.
1218
00:41:58,850 --> 00:42:00,518
I feel very special,
1219
00:42:00,518 --> 00:42:02,653
and I feel like me and Charity
are really connecting
1220
00:42:02,653 --> 00:42:05,656
for her to pick me for two
one-on-ones back to back.
1221
00:42:05,656 --> 00:42:07,992
And so many firsts are
happening on this journey.
1222
00:42:07,992 --> 00:42:10,395
I've never run a marathon,
never wore a tutu.
1223
00:42:10,395 --> 00:42:12,030
But I'm embracing it.
I'm loving it.
1224
00:42:12,030 --> 00:42:13,197
I actually like this.
1225
00:42:13,197 --> 00:42:14,732
- This is not how people,
like, do races.
1226
00:42:14,732 --> 00:42:16,100
- No.
- But I don't care.
1227
00:42:16,100 --> 00:42:17,568
- I really don't care
what I'm doing
1228
00:42:17,568 --> 00:42:19,137
as long as Charity is involved.
1229
00:42:19,137 --> 00:42:22,073
And today, it's already been
off to such a great start.
1230
00:42:22,073 --> 00:42:23,941
- I can't wait till we detour
and get a drink.
1231
00:42:23,941 --> 00:42:26,010
- Same, same.
Already thinking.
1232
00:42:26,010 --> 00:42:27,478
- Already.
1233
00:42:27,478 --> 00:42:29,480
♪
1234
00:42:29,480 --> 00:42:33,384
- So how are you feeling
after last night?
1235
00:42:33,384 --> 00:42:36,788
I know that was not maybe
the easiest group date setting.
1236
00:42:36,788 --> 00:42:39,657
- Yeah, um,
the date wasn't as weird
1237
00:42:39,657 --> 00:42:41,859
as I thought it was gonna be,
to be honest.
1238
00:42:41,859 --> 00:42:44,529
I think I handled it
much better than Sean did,
1239
00:42:44,529 --> 00:42:46,130
just 'cause
he was kind of freaking out.
1240
00:42:46,130 --> 00:42:47,532
- Yeah.
- He was just kind of
1241
00:42:47,532 --> 00:42:48,933
in his head all day.
1242
00:42:48,933 --> 00:42:51,002
- Yeah, I came back last night,
1243
00:42:51,002 --> 00:42:53,271
and I was sad,
and I was a little upset.
1244
00:42:53,271 --> 00:42:54,939
Like, I'm sad
I didn't get a rose, like,
1245
00:42:54,939 --> 00:42:56,741
and I think
that's a really real emotion
1246
00:42:56,741 --> 00:42:57,875
to have in that situation.
1247
00:42:57,875 --> 00:43:00,178
And it makes it
really difficult
1248
00:43:00,178 --> 00:43:02,113
when you come back
after a two-on-one,
1249
00:43:02,113 --> 00:43:03,314
me and Tanner are still here.
1250
00:43:03,314 --> 00:43:04,715
And then I see Dotun's name
on the card,
1251
00:43:04,715 --> 00:43:06,050
and then he had
a one-on-one last week.
1252
00:43:06,050 --> 00:43:07,485
I haven't had a one-on-one yet,
1253
00:43:07,485 --> 00:43:09,153
but two guys here have had two.
- Dotun has had two.
1254
00:43:09,153 --> 00:43:10,154
For sure.
1255
00:43:10,154 --> 00:43:11,522
- The date sucked.
1256
00:43:11,522 --> 00:43:13,024
But like, what kept me going
through it all
1257
00:43:13,024 --> 00:43:14,459
was the possibility of getting
1258
00:43:14,459 --> 00:43:16,060
that ultimate validation
of a rose
1259
00:43:16,060 --> 00:43:17,395
before going to Hometowns.
1260
00:43:17,395 --> 00:43:18,863
And that would tell me
that she's feeling
1261
00:43:18,863 --> 00:43:20,832
the same way about me
as I'm feeling about her.
1262
00:43:20,832 --> 00:43:23,801
But I walked away
from last night without a rose,
1263
00:43:23,801 --> 00:43:26,137
and that's scary.
1264
00:43:26,137 --> 00:43:28,840
- Do you feel like you had
enough time to talk about
1265
00:43:28,840 --> 00:43:30,308
all the things that
you wanted to talk about
1266
00:43:30,308 --> 00:43:32,009
with her individually?
1267
00:43:32,009 --> 00:43:34,011
- Yeah, we had a really good
conversation.
1268
00:43:34,011 --> 00:43:35,646
Like, when I left
that conversation,
1269
00:43:35,646 --> 00:43:38,049
I thought our relationship
was in, like, the perfect spot
1270
00:43:38,049 --> 00:43:39,550
going into next week, right?
1271
00:43:39,550 --> 00:43:40,685
- Right.
- 'Cause when I think about
1272
00:43:40,685 --> 00:43:42,053
next week in Hometowns, like,
1273
00:43:42,053 --> 00:43:44,155
it's like I look towards,
like, the future.
1274
00:43:44,155 --> 00:43:45,923
I look towards,
can I see an engagement?
1275
00:43:45,923 --> 00:43:46,924
Can I see my wife?
1276
00:43:46,924 --> 00:43:48,192
And like,
I'm getting to the point
1277
00:43:48,192 --> 00:43:49,894
where I'm seeing that
very clearly.
1278
00:43:49,894 --> 00:43:51,429
Joey's gotten two one-on-ones.
1279
00:43:51,429 --> 00:43:52,663
Dotun's gotten two one-on-ones.
1280
00:43:52,663 --> 00:43:55,299
So why am I feeling
this strongly,
1281
00:43:55,299 --> 00:43:56,601
but I'm not getting
the validation
1282
00:43:56,601 --> 00:43:58,035
that other people are getting?
1283
00:43:58,035 --> 00:43:59,670
Now it becomes
even more scary.
1284
00:43:59,670 --> 00:44:03,107
Like, I'm feeling very insecure
about, like, our relationship,
1285
00:44:03,107 --> 00:44:05,576
and that's not something I want
to feel going into Hometowns.
1286
00:44:05,576 --> 00:44:07,145
♪
1287
00:44:07,145 --> 00:44:08,146
- How are you feeling?
1288
00:44:08,146 --> 00:44:09,780
- I'm feeling great.
1289
00:44:09,780 --> 00:44:11,582
Just a smitten kitten always.
1290
00:44:11,582 --> 00:44:12,650
- [laughs]
1291
00:44:12,650 --> 00:44:15,586
all: Bachelorette!
Bachelorette!
1292
00:44:15,586 --> 00:44:17,088
[cheers and applause]
- Hi.
1293
00:44:17,088 --> 00:44:18,523
- Hello.
- From the Classic.
1294
00:44:18,523 --> 00:44:21,058
Thank you so much.
- Oh, my goodness. Thank you.
1295
00:44:21,058 --> 00:44:22,927
- The energy here
is just so upbeat.
1296
00:44:22,927 --> 00:44:24,362
Everybody's so friendly.
1297
00:44:24,362 --> 00:44:26,230
Meeting all the characters
in NOLA
1298
00:44:26,230 --> 00:44:27,932
with the wonderful Charity,
1299
00:44:27,932 --> 00:44:29,367
it was just so much fun.
1300
00:44:29,367 --> 00:44:30,868
- Next month,
I'm married 58 years.
1301
00:44:30,868 --> 00:44:32,470
- Thank you.
- You're married for 58--
1302
00:44:32,470 --> 00:44:33,704
- 58 years.
1303
00:44:33,704 --> 00:44:34,805
- Oh, my goodness.
1304
00:44:34,805 --> 00:44:36,040
- So I wish you the very best.
1305
00:44:36,040 --> 00:44:37,675
- Oh, wait, I want to know,
1306
00:44:37,675 --> 00:44:39,577
what do you feel like
is your secret?
1307
00:44:39,577 --> 00:44:40,745
- My secret?
- Yeah, the best--
1308
00:44:40,745 --> 00:44:42,613
- Two words: "Yes, dear."
1309
00:44:42,613 --> 00:44:44,315
[laughter]
1310
00:44:44,315 --> 00:44:46,551
- So never--
never argue with me.
1311
00:44:46,551 --> 00:44:48,252
Never--
- Never argue.
1312
00:44:48,252 --> 00:44:51,088
- Today, Dotun just embraced
everything.
1313
00:44:51,088 --> 00:44:53,224
It was like us just chilling.
1314
00:44:53,224 --> 00:44:54,625
- He's a professional.
1315
00:44:54,625 --> 00:44:56,627
- Now, that's the single best
bite of food in town.
1316
00:44:56,627 --> 00:44:57,962
- Mmm, oh, my God.
1317
00:44:57,962 --> 00:44:59,330
- Even if you're kissing him,
it's still better.
1318
00:44:59,330 --> 00:45:00,731
- [laughs]
- Listen.
1319
00:45:00,731 --> 00:45:02,767
We were having fun,
like, talking to people.
1320
00:45:02,767 --> 00:45:04,101
He's so interactive.
1321
00:45:04,101 --> 00:45:05,403
both: Thank you so much.
- Take care of that girl now.
1322
00:45:05,403 --> 00:45:06,504
- I will. I got you.
1323
00:45:06,504 --> 00:45:07,972
- If not,
they got people behind you.
1324
00:45:07,972 --> 00:45:10,274
- It's 10 out of 10
all the way around.
1325
00:45:10,274 --> 00:45:11,609
You're such a trooper.
1326
00:45:11,609 --> 00:45:13,744
- Yeah, that's what
it's all about, you know?
1327
00:45:13,744 --> 00:45:16,647
[cheers and applause]
1328
00:45:16,647 --> 00:45:19,050
[upbeat music]
1329
00:45:19,050 --> 00:45:20,218
- Gotta put our hands up.
- Oh, my goodness.
1330
00:45:20,218 --> 00:45:21,219
Whoo!
1331
00:45:21,219 --> 00:45:22,620
Yay, we made it!
- Let's go!
1332
00:45:22,620 --> 00:45:23,688
[cheers and applause]
1333
00:45:23,688 --> 00:45:24,789
- Finally.
1334
00:45:24,789 --> 00:45:26,257
- Whoo!
1335
00:45:26,257 --> 00:45:28,259
Congratulations, Charity!
1336
00:45:28,259 --> 00:45:30,494
♪
1337
00:45:30,494 --> 00:45:33,497
[cheers and applause]
1338
00:45:33,497 --> 00:45:35,066
- We did good.
1339
00:45:35,066 --> 00:45:36,300
You're looking at top two.
1340
00:45:36,300 --> 00:45:37,401
[both laughing]
1341
00:45:37,401 --> 00:45:38,436
25,000 people around us.
1342
00:45:38,436 --> 00:45:39,503
- Top two in the nation, yeah.
1343
00:45:39,503 --> 00:45:40,871
- Exactly, but this is 1 and 2.
1344
00:45:40,871 --> 00:45:42,240
- Whoo!
- Okay, I'm out of breath.
1345
00:45:42,240 --> 00:45:44,075
Where's the water?
1346
00:45:44,075 --> 00:45:46,444
I don't think I could have
made it across the finish line
1347
00:45:46,444 --> 00:45:47,712
without him.
1348
00:45:47,712 --> 00:45:50,281
- Yes, whenever I was down,
she pushed me.
1349
00:45:50,281 --> 00:45:52,149
Whenever she was down,
I tried to push her.
1350
00:45:52,149 --> 00:45:54,051
- Mm-hmm.
- That's how we made it.
1351
00:45:54,051 --> 00:45:56,587
- How are you feeling
after today?
1352
00:45:56,587 --> 00:45:57,989
- I'm so happy to be here.
- Yeah.
1353
00:45:57,989 --> 00:45:59,056
- I am so happy.
1354
00:45:59,056 --> 00:46:00,858
I will take this
every single time.
1355
00:46:00,858 --> 00:46:02,593
- I think as much as, like,
1356
00:46:02,593 --> 00:46:06,397
this was, like, a very
stimulating, like, activity,
1357
00:46:06,397 --> 00:46:09,634
it--it was so, like,
just refreshing to see
1358
00:46:09,634 --> 00:46:11,302
how, like,
just natural we were.
1359
00:46:11,302 --> 00:46:12,436
- We're on the same page there.
1360
00:46:12,436 --> 00:46:13,904
And like...
- I think we are.
1361
00:46:13,904 --> 00:46:15,873
- I feel very confident with
everything that's to come.
1362
00:46:15,873 --> 00:46:17,308
So...
- Happy.
1363
00:46:17,308 --> 00:46:20,144
[romantic music]
1364
00:46:20,144 --> 00:46:22,647
- From the start
of this morning to now,
1365
00:46:22,647 --> 00:46:27,118
this was the most normal
and real-world type of day
1366
00:46:27,118 --> 00:46:28,619
that I've had in a long time.
1367
00:46:28,619 --> 00:46:31,122
And to get to spend that
with Charity is awesome.
1368
00:46:31,122 --> 00:46:34,859
So tonight I just can't wait
to pour my heart out
1369
00:46:34,859 --> 00:46:37,295
and let her know what
I've been dying to tell her.
1370
00:46:37,295 --> 00:46:39,764
It's scary,
but it's really exciting,
1371
00:46:39,764 --> 00:46:42,199
because what if she doesn't
feel the same way?
1372
00:46:42,199 --> 00:46:43,467
I would be heartbroken.
1373
00:46:43,467 --> 00:46:46,270
♪
1374
00:46:47,238 --> 00:46:49,540
[bright music]
1375
00:46:49,540 --> 00:46:52,109
[horn blaring]
1376
00:46:52,109 --> 00:46:58,482
♪
1377
00:46:58,482 --> 00:46:59,550
- The clearance.
1378
00:46:59,550 --> 00:47:00,618
- Yeah, I know.
[both laughing]
1379
00:47:00,618 --> 00:47:01,852
See that? I'm, like, worried.
1380
00:47:01,852 --> 00:47:02,987
I'm like...
1381
00:47:02,987 --> 00:47:04,655
Today with Charity,
1382
00:47:04,655 --> 00:47:06,657
I had a blast
from start to finish.
1383
00:47:06,657 --> 00:47:08,893
I've never really felt
stronger about a person
1384
00:47:08,893 --> 00:47:11,662
in a short amount of time or
even in a long amount of time.
1385
00:47:11,662 --> 00:47:14,432
And it's just not something
I've experienced before.
1386
00:47:14,432 --> 00:47:17,635
And so part of all of this
is really scary.
1387
00:47:17,635 --> 00:47:19,637
My heart is saying,
like, this is the person
1388
00:47:19,637 --> 00:47:21,572
that's probably for you,
1389
00:47:21,572 --> 00:47:23,074
but the head is
pretty much saying,
1390
00:47:23,074 --> 00:47:25,076
"Hey, it's all happening
so fast.
1391
00:47:25,076 --> 00:47:26,510
Be careful,"
1392
00:47:26,510 --> 00:47:29,480
because I may leave
this process heartbroken.
1393
00:47:29,480 --> 00:47:31,849
So on both ends,
it's terrifying.
1394
00:47:31,849 --> 00:47:33,517
It only gets more scary.
1395
00:47:33,517 --> 00:47:37,221
But tonight I want her to know
just really how I'm feeling.
1396
00:47:37,221 --> 00:47:38,322
- How are you?
1397
00:47:38,322 --> 00:47:39,557
[both laughing]
1398
00:47:39,557 --> 00:47:40,758
- Feeling good.
- Good.
1399
00:47:40,758 --> 00:47:42,059
- Yeah, a long day.
1400
00:47:42,059 --> 00:47:43,961
- A long day.
- But happy to be here.
1401
00:47:43,961 --> 00:47:45,596
Happy to have dinner with you.
- We sure did.
1402
00:47:45,596 --> 00:47:47,465
- How are you feeling?
- I'm feeling good.
1403
00:47:47,465 --> 00:47:51,068
Just excited for this time
in a pivotal week,
1404
00:47:51,068 --> 00:47:53,704
a week of looking
into the future
1405
00:47:53,704 --> 00:47:56,474
of what next week brings
with Hometowns.
1406
00:47:56,474 --> 00:47:58,642
And so I really want
to start off with,
1407
00:47:58,642 --> 00:48:01,679
um, you know,
me potentially coming home
1408
00:48:01,679 --> 00:48:04,181
to meet your family
is a big deal.
1409
00:48:04,181 --> 00:48:06,884
And I want to know,
how do you feel
1410
00:48:06,884 --> 00:48:09,320
about where you're at
in bringing me home?
1411
00:48:09,320 --> 00:48:11,255
And then secondly,
for your family,
1412
00:48:11,255 --> 00:48:14,859
how would they feel
about me walking in?
1413
00:48:14,859 --> 00:48:15,860
[both laughing]
1414
00:48:15,860 --> 00:48:17,561
Hello.
1415
00:48:17,561 --> 00:48:18,963
- Good questions. Uh...
1416
00:48:18,963 --> 00:48:20,965
I'm really excited
for them to meet you.
1417
00:48:20,965 --> 00:48:23,601
I've been excited for them
to meet you since day one.
1418
00:48:23,601 --> 00:48:28,472
But the truth is,
it's scary as hell, right?
1419
00:48:28,472 --> 00:48:30,608
And every week is
scary as hell.
1420
00:48:30,608 --> 00:48:33,210
And it's this weird mix
of emotions of excitement...
1421
00:48:33,210 --> 00:48:35,045
- Mm-hmm.
- But also, like, fear,
1422
00:48:35,045 --> 00:48:36,781
and like--and I'm sure,
because you've been
1423
00:48:36,781 --> 00:48:38,616
on the other end of this
before, right?
1424
00:48:38,616 --> 00:48:40,718
And you know, so I've been,
like, trying to think of, like,
1425
00:48:40,718 --> 00:48:43,320
why--what makes this
such a scary experience?
1426
00:48:43,320 --> 00:48:46,690
And I think
it all kind of stems from,
1427
00:48:46,690 --> 00:48:48,726
like, this fear of failure
that I've had.
1428
00:48:48,726 --> 00:48:50,428
[soft music]
1429
00:48:50,428 --> 00:48:52,997
My life has always been
this kind of weird thing
1430
00:48:52,997 --> 00:48:56,667
where any time
I've really wanted something...
1431
00:48:56,667 --> 00:48:57,735
- Mm-hmm.
1432
00:48:57,735 --> 00:48:59,270
- And then, like, I went for it
1433
00:48:59,270 --> 00:49:01,338
and I had high hopes,
1434
00:49:01,338 --> 00:49:04,275
it just always felt like
I was never given it,
1435
00:49:04,275 --> 00:49:06,110
and I fell flat on my face.
1436
00:49:06,110 --> 00:49:08,813
And so I think that always led
to this fear of failure.
1437
00:49:08,813 --> 00:49:10,047
- Yeah.
1438
00:49:10,047 --> 00:49:12,416
- And so that's
what I'm realizing
1439
00:49:12,416 --> 00:49:15,219
this fear is now
that's coming up, right?
1440
00:49:15,219 --> 00:49:16,954
- I mean,
I'm right there with you
1441
00:49:16,954 --> 00:49:19,824
when it comes to the fears
of, like, I am terrified
1442
00:49:19,824 --> 00:49:22,626
because it feels so good,
and it feels so right.
1443
00:49:22,626 --> 00:49:24,595
And it's like,
what the hell am I missing?
1444
00:49:24,595 --> 00:49:25,663
Like...
- Yeah.
1445
00:49:25,663 --> 00:49:26,997
- Am I, like,
missing something?
1446
00:49:26,997 --> 00:49:29,333
But like, I don't--like,
I don't want to think that.
1447
00:49:29,333 --> 00:49:31,368
And I think, like,
we both deserve that.
1448
00:49:31,368 --> 00:49:33,904
Like, you deserve,
like, to feel that.
1449
00:49:33,904 --> 00:49:35,806
I deserve to feel, like, good,
1450
00:49:35,806 --> 00:49:37,641
to feel confident
and not have to sit here
1451
00:49:37,641 --> 00:49:39,143
and be like,
1452
00:49:39,143 --> 00:49:40,945
is there something
I should be doubting?
1453
00:49:40,945 --> 00:49:41,946
Is, like, what--
- Yeah.
1454
00:49:41,946 --> 00:49:43,080
- Am I doubting myself?
1455
00:49:43,080 --> 00:49:44,081
Like, no, I don't want to.
1456
00:49:44,081 --> 00:49:45,216
Like, I know
1457
00:49:45,216 --> 00:49:46,884
this is exactly
what I prayed for.
1458
00:49:46,884 --> 00:49:48,319
This is exactly what I've--
1459
00:49:48,319 --> 00:49:51,222
I've truly opened my heart up
to receive.
1460
00:49:51,222 --> 00:49:53,324
- Yeah.
- But that's the risk
1461
00:49:53,324 --> 00:49:55,226
that I--I'm taking.
1462
00:49:55,226 --> 00:49:57,761
- Um, that makes me feel
a lot better, first of all.
1463
00:49:57,761 --> 00:49:59,363
- Mm-hmm. Yeah.
1464
00:49:59,363 --> 00:50:02,333
- I'm learning how to unlearn
these things from you,
1465
00:50:02,333 --> 00:50:04,802
and that is
so important for me.
1466
00:50:04,802 --> 00:50:06,103
And I didn't realize it
1467
00:50:06,103 --> 00:50:07,371
until I came here
on this journey.
1468
00:50:07,371 --> 00:50:08,639
I really didn't.
1469
00:50:08,639 --> 00:50:11,609
And so I'm learning,
sometimes a good thing
1470
00:50:11,609 --> 00:50:13,143
is just a good thing.
- Exactly.
1471
00:50:13,143 --> 00:50:14,979
- It's--that's okay.
- And just letting it be that.
1472
00:50:14,979 --> 00:50:16,614
- Just letting it be that.
- Letting it be--yeah.
1473
00:50:16,614 --> 00:50:17,882
[soft music]
1474
00:50:17,882 --> 00:50:19,750
I'm so happy.
1475
00:50:19,750 --> 00:50:22,019
Like, Dotun being
so comfortable
1476
00:50:22,019 --> 00:50:25,623
and opening up about his fears
1477
00:50:25,623 --> 00:50:27,691
in relationships and love.
1478
00:50:27,691 --> 00:50:33,030
I have a million things
that I'm feeling
1479
00:50:33,030 --> 00:50:35,232
because this lets me know
1480
00:50:35,232 --> 00:50:37,334
that I'm getting
the best of Dotun.
1481
00:50:37,334 --> 00:50:38,669
♪
1482
00:50:38,669 --> 00:50:41,305
He makes me so happy.
1483
00:50:41,305 --> 00:50:43,674
- Um, you know, when I think
about my--my heart
1484
00:50:43,674 --> 00:50:47,344
and my brain,
there's this conflict going on.
1485
00:50:47,344 --> 00:50:49,880
My heart is, like,
totally in this thing,
1486
00:50:49,880 --> 00:50:54,151
and you have pretty much
taken it and ran with it.
1487
00:50:54,151 --> 00:50:55,886
Then the brain is like,
no, like, you don't--
1488
00:50:55,886 --> 00:50:56,887
like, what are you
talking about?
1489
00:50:56,887 --> 00:50:58,022
You don't deserve that.
1490
00:50:58,022 --> 00:50:59,557
Like, no,
you can't have a fairy tale.
1491
00:50:59,557 --> 00:51:01,058
That doesn't really exist.
1492
00:51:01,058 --> 00:51:04,562
Um, but I'm really working on
1493
00:51:04,562 --> 00:51:07,064
um, just listening
to my heart more...
1494
00:51:07,064 --> 00:51:08,499
- Yeah.
- And letting it open up,
1495
00:51:08,499 --> 00:51:11,135
right, and just really
1496
00:51:11,135 --> 00:51:13,370
putting my ear to my heart
and listening.
1497
00:51:13,370 --> 00:51:15,172
Uh, my heart is
pretty much screaming
1498
00:51:15,172 --> 00:51:17,207
that I'm definitely falling
in love with you at this point.
1499
00:51:17,207 --> 00:51:19,743
So, um, in light of that,
1500
00:51:19,743 --> 00:51:21,412
I know it's--it's--
it's--it's--[laughs]
1501
00:51:21,412 --> 00:51:22,646
It's crazy for me to say...
- You just saw my face.
1502
00:51:22,646 --> 00:51:24,081
- But it's very real.
1503
00:51:24,081 --> 00:51:26,216
- My whole face and body
just lit up.
1504
00:51:26,216 --> 00:51:27,518
Like, you don't understand.
1505
00:51:27,518 --> 00:51:31,555
Um, like, I feel so good,
and, like, that is like--
1506
00:51:31,555 --> 00:51:33,123
not that it's what
I needed to hear,
1507
00:51:33,123 --> 00:51:34,658
but it is
what I needed to hear.
1508
00:51:34,658 --> 00:51:36,293
And...
- Yeah.
1509
00:51:36,293 --> 00:51:38,896
- Like, I--
I am truly listening.
1510
00:51:38,896 --> 00:51:42,833
Like, my face, I'm--
I feel like I got electrocuted
1511
00:51:42,833 --> 00:51:44,101
a little bit,
but in the absolute best--
1512
00:51:44,101 --> 00:51:45,336
[laughs] Best way.
- Yeah.
1513
00:51:45,336 --> 00:51:47,271
- Like, and truly, like,
1514
00:51:47,271 --> 00:51:49,506
thank you so much,
and thank you.
1515
00:51:49,506 --> 00:51:52,509
[romantic music]
1516
00:51:52,509 --> 00:51:53,944
♪
1517
00:51:53,944 --> 00:51:58,983
Dotun tells me that
he is falling in love with me,
1518
00:51:58,983 --> 00:52:04,221
and I am overjoyed,
over the moon.
1519
00:52:04,221 --> 00:52:08,292
Tonight,
it has felt so magical.
1520
00:52:08,292 --> 00:52:11,028
It's literally, like,
the best feeling,
1521
00:52:11,028 --> 00:52:13,797
like, truly
the best feeling ever.
1522
00:52:13,797 --> 00:52:14,898
[clears throat]
1523
00:52:14,898 --> 00:52:16,667
- [sighs]
1524
00:52:16,667 --> 00:52:19,570
- Okay, um...
1525
00:52:19,570 --> 00:52:22,706
when I look at
the day we had today,
1526
00:52:22,706 --> 00:52:25,342
when I look at
every single moment
1527
00:52:25,342 --> 00:52:30,614
that we've had up
until this point,
1528
00:52:30,614 --> 00:52:31,815
it all makes sense.
1529
00:52:31,815 --> 00:52:33,751
- Yeah.
1530
00:52:33,751 --> 00:52:38,222
- And I can't in the words,
like, say how you make me feel.
1531
00:52:38,222 --> 00:52:41,291
Just know that it's--
it's a million good things.
1532
00:52:41,291 --> 00:52:42,292
- Yeah.
1533
00:52:42,292 --> 00:52:45,095
- And Dotun,
1534
00:52:45,095 --> 00:52:47,731
will you accept this rose?
1535
00:52:47,731 --> 00:52:50,601
- Yes, Charity, I will.
1536
00:52:52,236 --> 00:52:53,871
[quietly] Get up in there.
- [laughs softly]
1537
00:52:53,871 --> 00:52:54,972
[soft music]
1538
00:52:54,972 --> 00:52:55,973
Perfect.
1539
00:52:55,973 --> 00:52:58,342
♪
1540
00:52:58,342 --> 00:52:59,843
I'm just, like, so happy.
1541
00:52:59,843 --> 00:53:01,612
Obviously,
I've got this rose on my chest,
1542
00:53:01,612 --> 00:53:03,914
and so that's a guarantee
to Hometown,
1543
00:53:03,914 --> 00:53:05,582
which is a huge deal,
1544
00:53:05,582 --> 00:53:06,917
but one that
I've been looking forward to
1545
00:53:06,917 --> 00:53:07,951
for quite a while now.
1546
00:53:07,951 --> 00:53:10,421
So I am just feeling like
1547
00:53:10,421 --> 00:53:12,056
this is getting more real
and real.
1548
00:53:12,056 --> 00:53:14,858
And you really couldn't ask
for a better experience
1549
00:53:14,858 --> 00:53:16,226
and a better person
to do this with.
1550
00:53:16,226 --> 00:53:20,597
♪
1551
00:53:20,597 --> 00:53:23,000
- Tonight went far better
1552
00:53:23,000 --> 00:53:26,570
than what I imagined
coming into it.
1553
00:53:26,570 --> 00:53:28,772
Dotun, he does feel like
that person...
1554
00:53:28,772 --> 00:53:29,773
[sniffles]
1555
00:53:29,773 --> 00:53:32,643
That could be exactly who
1556
00:53:32,643 --> 00:53:36,547
I would navigate
this life with.
1557
00:53:36,547 --> 00:53:38,248
Oh, so pretty.
1558
00:53:38,248 --> 00:53:39,850
- I know.
1559
00:53:39,850 --> 00:53:41,085
- [laughs]
1560
00:53:41,085 --> 00:53:42,352
- It's very, very special,
very special.
1561
00:53:42,352 --> 00:53:44,788
- Just for us
to just have a moment.
1562
00:53:44,788 --> 00:53:45,956
- Okay.
1563
00:53:45,956 --> 00:53:50,661
♪
1564
00:53:50,661 --> 00:53:53,597
Tonight was very special.
1565
00:53:53,597 --> 00:53:55,899
I am just really enjoying
just being able
1566
00:53:55,899 --> 00:53:59,303
to just express myself
wholly and fully.
1567
00:53:59,303 --> 00:54:00,971
It's clear that
I'm falling in love with her.
1568
00:54:00,971 --> 00:54:04,641
It really is,
which is pretty crazy to say.
1569
00:54:04,641 --> 00:54:06,410
And I can't reiterate
how wild that is.
1570
00:54:06,410 --> 00:54:09,046
But you know, the heart wants
what it wants,
1571
00:54:09,046 --> 00:54:11,749
and the connection
is just so strong.
1572
00:54:11,749 --> 00:54:15,886
♪
1573
00:54:15,886 --> 00:54:17,821
- Truly the happiest girl.
1574
00:54:17,821 --> 00:54:19,590
♪
1575
00:54:19,590 --> 00:54:21,125
- Happiest boy.
1576
00:54:21,125 --> 00:54:22,359
- [laughs]
1577
00:54:22,359 --> 00:54:29,399
♪
1578
00:54:37,574 --> 00:54:38,675
- How are you feeling?
1579
00:54:38,675 --> 00:54:39,943
- I can't tell you
how tough it is
1580
00:54:39,943 --> 00:54:41,945
watching people go on dates
all week,
1581
00:54:41,945 --> 00:54:44,848
you know, watching Joey go off
on a horse-drawn carriage.
1582
00:54:44,848 --> 00:54:47,084
I love the guy, but damn,
I wish that was me.
1583
00:54:47,084 --> 00:54:48,886
[knock on door]
1584
00:54:48,886 --> 00:54:50,454
- And here we go.
- Here we go.
1585
00:54:50,454 --> 00:54:51,889
[laughter]
- You go grab it, Joey.
1586
00:54:51,889 --> 00:54:53,056
I don't feel like reading
right now.
1587
00:54:53,056 --> 00:54:54,291
- I got it.
1588
00:54:54,291 --> 00:54:55,793
[tense music]
1589
00:54:55,793 --> 00:54:57,895
- Everybody wants
a one-on-one date,
1590
00:54:57,895 --> 00:55:02,366
so people are nervous as hell
when they hear that knock.
1591
00:55:02,366 --> 00:55:05,202
♪
1592
00:55:05,202 --> 00:55:07,805
- My heart's beating so fast.
1593
00:55:07,805 --> 00:55:09,773
We're all very nervous.
1594
00:55:09,773 --> 00:55:12,276
♪
1595
00:55:12,276 --> 00:55:14,778
I'm really trying to think
about the possibilities
1596
00:55:14,778 --> 00:55:18,215
of getting a one-on-one,
because this date could mean
1597
00:55:18,215 --> 00:55:19,583
I'm going to Hometowns
with her.
1598
00:55:19,583 --> 00:55:21,552
♪
1599
00:55:21,552 --> 00:55:23,787
So I want to show her
my passion for the city.
1600
00:55:23,787 --> 00:55:25,789
I want to show her
this piece of me
1601
00:55:25,789 --> 00:55:27,925
that's just so near and dear
to my growth
1602
00:55:27,925 --> 00:55:29,459
and just my entire life.
1603
00:55:29,459 --> 00:55:36,300
♪
1604
00:55:36,300 --> 00:55:37,601
- Aaron.
1605
00:55:39,703 --> 00:55:41,672
Xavier.
1606
00:55:43,574 --> 00:55:45,175
Tanner.
1607
00:55:48,212 --> 00:55:49,313
Sean.
1608
00:55:49,313 --> 00:55:50,514
- [clicks tongue]
1609
00:55:50,514 --> 00:55:54,551
- "Next stop, Hometowns.
Charity."
1610
00:55:54,551 --> 00:55:57,554
[soft music]
1611
00:55:57,554 --> 00:56:01,758
♪
1612
00:56:01,758 --> 00:56:03,660
- Another group date.
1613
00:56:03,660 --> 00:56:07,497
The only person that has a rose
is, uh, Joey over there.
1614
00:56:07,497 --> 00:56:09,566
Dotun, we're--we don't know.
1615
00:56:09,566 --> 00:56:12,035
But if he comes back,
1616
00:56:12,035 --> 00:56:14,938
that would leave two roses
remaining going to Hometowns.
1617
00:56:14,938 --> 00:56:16,807
And there's four people
on this date.
1618
00:56:16,807 --> 00:56:20,978
So two of us are gonna be
going to Hometowns.
1619
00:56:20,978 --> 00:56:22,646
Two of us are gonna be
going home.
1620
00:56:22,646 --> 00:56:25,449
♪
1621
00:56:25,449 --> 00:56:27,517
Kind of scary, but...
1622
00:56:27,517 --> 00:56:29,152
I haven't gotten
the one-on-one.
1623
00:56:29,152 --> 00:56:31,655
I've gotten pretty much
zero validation,
1624
00:56:31,655 --> 00:56:33,190
like, this entire journey.
1625
00:56:33,190 --> 00:56:34,558
Yet I'm still here, and like,
1626
00:56:34,558 --> 00:56:37,294
it's just very confusing.
1627
00:56:37,294 --> 00:56:39,830
It's all, like, boiling up
inside of me
1628
00:56:39,830 --> 00:56:41,265
and, like, trying
not to come out.
1629
00:56:41,265 --> 00:56:42,499
I'm trying to suppress it.
1630
00:56:42,499 --> 00:56:44,101
I'm trying to be
in the moment,
1631
00:56:44,101 --> 00:56:46,637
but if she throws a rose
on Dotun's chest...
1632
00:56:46,637 --> 00:56:48,538
[scoffs]
1633
00:56:48,538 --> 00:56:49,806
All hell is gonna
break loose here.
1634
00:56:49,806 --> 00:56:51,041
I'll tell you what.
1635
00:56:51,041 --> 00:56:52,676
I didn't expect Dotun
to get a one-on-one
1636
00:56:52,676 --> 00:56:53,877
after getting one last week.
1637
00:56:53,877 --> 00:56:55,178
Like, that's for damn sure.
1638
00:56:55,178 --> 00:56:56,713
I didn't--truly,
I didn't expect you
1639
00:56:56,713 --> 00:56:57,915
to get a one-on-one...
- I didn't either.
1640
00:56:57,915 --> 00:56:59,716
- This week either,
especially 'cause
1641
00:56:59,716 --> 00:57:02,552
Aaron is from--
from New Orleans, right?
1642
00:57:02,552 --> 00:57:05,789
♪
1643
00:57:05,789 --> 00:57:06,857
Yeah, that's Dotun.
1644
00:57:06,857 --> 00:57:07,891
Okay.
1645
00:57:09,993 --> 00:57:11,094
- What up?
- Hey.
1646
00:57:11,094 --> 00:57:12,496
- What's going on?
- What's up?
1647
00:57:12,496 --> 00:57:13,997
- What's good?
- What's up?
1648
00:57:19,069 --> 00:57:20,437
- How we doing?
- [sighs]
1649
00:57:20,437 --> 00:57:22,005
- Good.
- Yeah, doing good, doing good.
1650
00:57:22,005 --> 00:57:24,308
Um, another really cool day.
1651
00:57:24,308 --> 00:57:25,842
We ran, like, a half marathon.
1652
00:57:25,842 --> 00:57:27,010
They apparently do this
every year.
1653
00:57:27,010 --> 00:57:28,011
It's the something classic--
1654
00:57:28,011 --> 00:57:29,012
- Crescent City Classic.
1655
00:57:29,012 --> 00:57:30,414
- There we go.
1656
00:57:30,414 --> 00:57:32,316
And so yeah, you just
kind of run through the city,
1657
00:57:32,316 --> 00:57:35,185
and you know, people give you
beers and water.
1658
00:57:35,185 --> 00:57:37,154
And you're just drinking beers
and water and oysters.
1659
00:57:37,154 --> 00:57:39,256
And so--but then
we took it easy.
1660
00:57:39,256 --> 00:57:40,857
Obviously, Charity is not,
like, a runner either,
1661
00:57:40,857 --> 00:57:43,860
so we just kind of toasted
and just ran on the tippy toes,
1662
00:57:43,860 --> 00:57:45,128
something light.
1663
00:57:45,128 --> 00:57:47,531
Everybody in the city
is just so nice, man.
1664
00:57:47,531 --> 00:57:48,899
- I'm confused.
1665
00:57:48,899 --> 00:57:49,967
I'm frustrated.
1666
00:57:49,967 --> 00:57:51,435
I'm mad.
1667
00:57:51,435 --> 00:57:52,769
[sighs]
1668
00:57:52,769 --> 00:57:53,971
It hurts.
1669
00:57:53,971 --> 00:57:57,808
How can I envision
a future with Charity
1670
00:57:57,808 --> 00:57:59,576
when I'm still not getting
the validation
1671
00:57:59,576 --> 00:58:00,811
for any of that?
1672
00:58:00,811 --> 00:58:02,913
So it definitely
makes you think, like,
1673
00:58:02,913 --> 00:58:04,848
am I feeling things
that she's not?
1674
00:58:04,848 --> 00:58:06,717
But I don't know
what else to do.
1675
00:58:06,717 --> 00:58:07,818
♪
1676
00:58:07,818 --> 00:58:09,886
- Sean, he's seeing, like,
1677
00:58:09,886 --> 00:58:11,788
people come before him,
1678
00:58:11,788 --> 00:58:13,523
getting more time.
1679
00:58:13,523 --> 00:58:17,561
He really [bleep]
likes her a lot.
1680
00:58:17,561 --> 00:58:21,631
And I'm worried
he might do something crazy.
1681
00:58:21,631 --> 00:58:23,900
♪
1682
00:58:25,836 --> 00:58:27,604
[crickets chirping]
1683
00:58:27,604 --> 00:58:30,607
[tense music]
1684
00:58:30,607 --> 00:58:33,910
- [sighs]
1685
00:58:33,910 --> 00:58:36,380
I'm struggling to, like,
gather myself right now.
1686
00:58:36,380 --> 00:58:37,981
I don't know how
to, like, handle this.
1687
00:58:37,981 --> 00:58:40,851
I truly don't,
because tonight,
1688
00:58:40,851 --> 00:58:42,486
Dotun got the rose.
1689
00:58:42,486 --> 00:58:44,621
Dotun got his validation,
1690
00:58:44,621 --> 00:58:47,891
and it just is so confusing
1691
00:58:47,891 --> 00:58:50,861
to feel so strongly
about a girl
1692
00:58:50,861 --> 00:58:53,997
and go through this entire
process with no validation
1693
00:58:53,997 --> 00:58:55,599
and still feel the confidence.
1694
00:58:55,599 --> 00:58:58,101
♪
1695
00:58:58,101 --> 00:58:59,836
This is the tipping point
where I feel like
1696
00:58:59,836 --> 00:59:01,538
I need and deserve
some answers
1697
00:59:01,538 --> 00:59:03,306
in terms of, where
does she stand in all this?
1698
00:59:03,306 --> 00:59:05,208
♪
1699
00:59:05,208 --> 00:59:06,977
I am envisioning things
past Hometowns,
1700
00:59:06,977 --> 00:59:08,478
past an engagement.
1701
00:59:08,478 --> 00:59:10,847
I'm envisioning, like,
a future life with Charity.
1702
00:59:10,847 --> 00:59:12,883
♪
1703
00:59:12,883 --> 00:59:14,718
[light knocking]
1704
00:59:14,718 --> 00:59:18,121
I am seeing my wife, like,
the mother of my children.
1705
00:59:18,121 --> 00:59:19,322
I'm seeing all these things.
1706
00:59:19,322 --> 00:59:21,191
Like, that's why
I feel comfortable
1707
00:59:21,191 --> 00:59:22,793
bringing you home to my family.
1708
00:59:22,793 --> 00:59:24,661
♪
1709
00:59:24,661 --> 00:59:26,596
Hello.
- Hi.
1710
00:59:26,596 --> 00:59:28,465
- Can I come in?
- Absolutely.
1711
00:59:28,465 --> 00:59:30,901
- How are you?
- I'm good. How are you?
1712
00:59:30,901 --> 00:59:33,170
- Like, where do I stand
in this?
1713
00:59:33,170 --> 00:59:35,005
Like, where do you see me
right now?
1714
00:59:35,005 --> 00:59:37,507
Like, I just want to know
that answer.
1715
00:59:37,507 --> 00:59:38,875
So I didn't come here
for no reason,
1716
00:59:38,875 --> 00:59:39,976
but I do want
to check in on you.
1717
00:59:39,976 --> 00:59:41,078
Like, how are you feeling
with everything?
1718
00:59:41,078 --> 00:59:43,947
I know last night, like,
was tough...
1719
00:59:43,947 --> 00:59:45,315
- It was a lot.
- Obviously.
1720
00:59:45,315 --> 00:59:46,450
- Last night was a lot.
1721
00:59:46,450 --> 00:59:48,785
- Yeah, of course.
- Um...
1722
00:59:48,785 --> 00:59:51,221
a lot of, like,
conflicting emotions
1723
00:59:51,221 --> 00:59:54,991
and still very much
in processing all of that
1724
00:59:54,991 --> 00:59:57,961
and trying to make sense
of it all.
1725
00:59:57,961 --> 00:59:59,496
- Yeah, that's what I wanted
to come talk to you about.
1726
00:59:59,496 --> 01:00:00,697
- Okay.
- Yeah.
1727
01:00:00,697 --> 01:00:02,732
Last night, um, you know,
1728
01:00:02,732 --> 01:00:05,068
I left that two-on-one date,
1729
01:00:05,068 --> 01:00:07,037
and I had, like,
a lot of emotions
1730
01:00:07,037 --> 01:00:08,572
that I don't think
I necessarily shared.
1731
01:00:08,572 --> 01:00:09,706
- Okay.
1732
01:00:09,706 --> 01:00:11,007
- And I woke up this morning,
and like,
1733
01:00:11,007 --> 01:00:12,175
something was telling me,
like, I kind of
1734
01:00:12,175 --> 01:00:13,310
had to tell you
how I was feeling.
1735
01:00:13,310 --> 01:00:14,444
- Okay.
1736
01:00:14,444 --> 01:00:15,612
- Because the thing for me
is, like,
1737
01:00:15,612 --> 01:00:17,414
my confidence in us, like,
has not wavered.
1738
01:00:17,414 --> 01:00:20,117
Like, since Oceanside,
like, that's where I feel like
1739
01:00:20,117 --> 01:00:21,418
our relationship
really took off.
1740
01:00:21,418 --> 01:00:22,552
And I feel a lot more
connected to you.
1741
01:00:22,552 --> 01:00:23,820
- Right. Mm-hmm.
1742
01:00:23,820 --> 01:00:25,989
- But like, I haven't had
a one-on-one,
1743
01:00:25,989 --> 01:00:28,525
and I haven't had
the validation
1744
01:00:28,525 --> 01:00:30,627
of getting a rose on my chest
before a Rose Ceremony.
1745
01:00:30,627 --> 01:00:31,661
- Yeah.
1746
01:00:31,661 --> 01:00:33,263
- So like, last night, like,
1747
01:00:33,263 --> 01:00:34,531
you were holding up the rose,
1748
01:00:34,531 --> 01:00:36,800
and you were speaking
to Tanner and myself,
1749
01:00:36,800 --> 01:00:39,102
and then you put it back down.
1750
01:00:39,102 --> 01:00:40,837
Like, I was sad.
- Mm.
1751
01:00:40,837 --> 01:00:42,239
- Like, I was disappointed.
1752
01:00:42,239 --> 01:00:45,575
It's tough to see you, like,
put down that rose
1753
01:00:45,575 --> 01:00:48,845
and then for it to not
to go, like, on my chest.
1754
01:00:48,845 --> 01:00:50,180
- I came in, like, not sure
1755
01:00:50,180 --> 01:00:51,948
which, like, way
I was gonna go,
1756
01:00:51,948 --> 01:00:53,950
and I don't want
to hand out a rose
1757
01:00:53,950 --> 01:00:57,087
if I'm not confident
in which route
1758
01:00:57,087 --> 01:00:59,022
or which direction
I'm gonna take.
1759
01:00:59,022 --> 01:01:02,859
And this rose, obviously,
it holds so much weight.
1760
01:01:02,859 --> 01:01:05,395
And for me to make
a decision prematurely
1761
01:01:05,395 --> 01:01:07,964
would be doing a disservice
to both of you...
1762
01:01:07,964 --> 01:01:09,666
- Yeah.
- But also myself.
1763
01:01:09,666 --> 01:01:12,068
And in that moment,
I was like, okay,
1764
01:01:12,068 --> 01:01:14,504
I'm so conflicted right now.
How do I do this?
1765
01:01:14,504 --> 01:01:15,639
- Mm-hmm.
- And I couldn't.
1766
01:01:15,639 --> 01:01:17,174
- And I totally respect
that side of it.
1767
01:01:17,174 --> 01:01:19,342
- Yeah, mm-hmm.
- But like, I wanted
1768
01:01:19,342 --> 01:01:23,413
to, like, bring you back home,
like, feeling incredibly good
1769
01:01:23,413 --> 01:01:25,749
about, like,
where you stand in this,
1770
01:01:25,749 --> 01:01:27,817
because like,
it means so much to me
1771
01:01:27,817 --> 01:01:29,085
to bring someone home
to my family.
1772
01:01:29,085 --> 01:01:31,021
Only one girl
in my entire life has met--
1773
01:01:31,021 --> 01:01:33,990
to like, I would have gotten
on a plane,
1774
01:01:33,990 --> 01:01:35,525
flew it to New York,
and brought you back
1775
01:01:35,525 --> 01:01:37,360
to my family tomorrow.
1776
01:01:37,360 --> 01:01:39,129
Like, that's how good I felt,
and to, like,
1777
01:01:39,129 --> 01:01:42,632
still not get that--the rose,
like, it's tough.
1778
01:01:42,632 --> 01:01:45,835
And like, I need an answer,
and that's why I'm coming here.
1779
01:01:45,835 --> 01:01:47,103
I just want to make sure
you're aware,
1780
01:01:47,103 --> 01:01:49,339
because the reason why
I'm telling you all this,
1781
01:01:49,339 --> 01:01:50,540
the reason why I'm here,
the reason why
1782
01:01:50,540 --> 01:01:51,942
I feel so passionate about this
1783
01:01:51,942 --> 01:01:53,543
and the reason why we've had
this conversation tonight
1784
01:01:53,543 --> 01:01:55,679
is 'cause, like,
1785
01:01:55,679 --> 01:01:57,781
I'm totally in the process
of falling in love with you.
1786
01:01:57,781 --> 01:01:59,516
And that's why that rose meant
so much to me.
1787
01:01:59,516 --> 01:02:00,884
- Mm-hmm.
1788
01:02:00,884 --> 01:02:02,018
[whispering] Thank you.
1789
01:02:02,018 --> 01:02:03,987
♪
1790
01:02:03,987 --> 01:02:05,989
[sighs]
1791
01:02:09,693 --> 01:02:13,630
Honestly, like, you have,
from the beginning,
1792
01:02:13,630 --> 01:02:14,831
have shown me so much
1793
01:02:14,831 --> 01:02:18,368
and shown me
who you are as a person.
1794
01:02:19,636 --> 01:02:23,540
But looking at it all
and understanding, like,
1795
01:02:23,540 --> 01:02:26,042
the magnitude of everything,
1796
01:02:26,042 --> 01:02:28,578
this week,
when I look at it all,
1797
01:02:28,578 --> 01:02:31,514
it's like, there are...
1798
01:02:31,514 --> 01:02:34,150
connections that are stronger.
- Yeah.
1799
01:02:35,318 --> 01:02:37,354
But like,
there's also the part of me
1800
01:02:37,354 --> 01:02:41,291
that knows that--what we can do
with the one-on-one time.
1801
01:02:41,291 --> 01:02:43,627
So I don't want you
to give up on us
1802
01:02:43,627 --> 01:02:45,195
because we haven't had
at this point--
1803
01:02:45,195 --> 01:02:46,296
because I think
this is something
1804
01:02:46,296 --> 01:02:47,297
we should explore further.
1805
01:02:47,297 --> 01:02:48,531
Like, I feel confident that
1806
01:02:48,531 --> 01:02:50,734
with the one-on-one time,
we can get there.
1807
01:02:50,734 --> 01:02:52,669
- [sighs]
1808
01:02:59,709 --> 01:03:00,877
We're here.
1809
01:03:00,877 --> 01:03:02,145
Um...
1810
01:03:04,614 --> 01:03:07,651
I can go on and on...
1811
01:03:07,651 --> 01:03:11,154
truly all night about...
1812
01:03:11,154 --> 01:03:13,490
everything that you are.
1813
01:03:13,490 --> 01:03:16,493
[somber music]
1814
01:03:16,493 --> 01:03:18,395
♪
1815
01:03:18,395 --> 01:03:22,032
But as of right now
and what this is
1816
01:03:22,032 --> 01:03:23,867
and where I'm at...
1817
01:03:23,867 --> 01:03:26,169
♪
1818
01:03:26,169 --> 01:03:28,104
What you...
1819
01:03:28,104 --> 01:03:31,308
♪
1820
01:03:31,308 --> 01:03:33,510
Want from me,
1821
01:03:33,510 --> 01:03:38,682
I can't give, and I'm...
1822
01:03:38,682 --> 01:03:42,085
very fearful of not being able
to get there.
1823
01:03:42,085 --> 01:03:47,557
♪
1824
01:03:47,557 --> 01:03:50,393
I don't--
I don't think that I--I can.
1825
01:03:50,393 --> 01:03:52,562
♪
1826
01:03:52,562 --> 01:03:55,365
And I know that's not
what you want to hear, but...
1827
01:03:55,365 --> 01:04:02,372
♪
1828
01:04:07,510 --> 01:04:10,246
That's just--
that's just what it is.
1829
01:04:10,246 --> 01:04:11,748
♪
1830
01:04:11,748 --> 01:04:12,749
I'm sorry.
1831
01:04:12,749 --> 01:04:14,751
I really am so sorry.
1832
01:04:14,751 --> 01:04:18,722
♪
1833
01:04:18,722 --> 01:04:20,323
Can I walk you out?
1834
01:04:20,323 --> 01:04:27,364
♪
1835
01:04:29,299 --> 01:04:30,767
I'm sorry.
1836
01:04:30,767 --> 01:04:32,035
♪
1837
01:04:32,035 --> 01:04:34,170
- [whispering indistinctly]
- Yeah.
1838
01:04:34,170 --> 01:04:36,973
♪
1839
01:04:36,973 --> 01:04:38,208
- I feel heartbroken.
1840
01:04:38,208 --> 01:04:40,009
♪
1841
01:04:40,009 --> 01:04:41,244
I feel crushed.
1842
01:04:41,244 --> 01:04:44,748
I feel--I feel confused.
1843
01:04:44,748 --> 01:04:46,983
Like, dude, I don't get it.
1844
01:04:46,983 --> 01:04:48,585
- I'm sorry.
1845
01:04:48,585 --> 01:04:50,120
♪
1846
01:04:50,120 --> 01:04:52,389
You deserve so much more.
1847
01:04:52,389 --> 01:04:53,523
[crying]
1848
01:04:53,523 --> 01:04:54,624
- That's all right.
1849
01:04:54,624 --> 01:04:56,726
I tried everything I could have
1850
01:04:56,726 --> 01:05:00,430
to, like, express how I felt
1851
01:05:00,430 --> 01:05:02,499
and why I felt that way.
1852
01:05:02,499 --> 01:05:04,934
And it just wasn't enough, man.
1853
01:05:04,934 --> 01:05:06,169
[dramatic music]
1854
01:05:06,169 --> 01:05:09,038
I'm walking away from here
1855
01:05:09,038 --> 01:05:11,941
with such incredible feelings
about this girl.
1856
01:05:11,941 --> 01:05:13,943
What happened?
1857
01:05:13,943 --> 01:05:17,414
I saw a future with her.
1858
01:05:17,414 --> 01:05:20,049
♪
1859
01:05:20,049 --> 01:05:21,551
Oh, my God.
1860
01:05:21,551 --> 01:05:23,420
♪
1861
01:05:23,420 --> 01:05:24,687
[sobs]
1862
01:05:24,687 --> 01:05:27,457
♪
1863
01:05:29,426 --> 01:05:32,295
[soft music]
1864
01:05:32,295 --> 01:05:35,632
[birds chirping]
1865
01:05:35,632 --> 01:05:37,267
♪
1866
01:05:37,267 --> 01:05:41,070
- This week has brought a lot
of highs and a lot of lows.
1867
01:05:41,070 --> 01:05:43,106
Two fantastic
one-on-one dates.
1868
01:05:43,106 --> 01:05:48,645
And then last night,
I decided to send Sean home.
1869
01:05:48,645 --> 01:05:49,946
♪
1870
01:05:49,946 --> 01:05:52,715
[bell dinging]
1871
01:05:52,715 --> 01:05:56,286
- All right,
first streetcar experience.
1872
01:05:56,286 --> 01:05:59,122
- Today is my last day
in New Orleans.
1873
01:05:59,122 --> 01:06:01,124
[rumbling]
1874
01:06:01,124 --> 01:06:06,930
And on this three-on-one
is Tanner, Xavier, and Aaron.
1875
01:06:06,930 --> 01:06:08,631
The three guys
that are remaining,
1876
01:06:08,631 --> 01:06:11,534
they're all--
they're all strong.
1877
01:06:11,534 --> 01:06:14,237
I can't even predict
what's going to happen today.
1878
01:06:14,237 --> 01:06:18,241
And I'm trying to, like,
come in with an open mind,
1879
01:06:18,241 --> 01:06:20,143
open heart, good attitude.
1880
01:06:20,143 --> 01:06:23,179
But it's weighing on me, truly.
1881
01:06:23,179 --> 01:06:24,314
♪
1882
01:06:24,314 --> 01:06:25,482
- Thank you.
1883
01:06:25,482 --> 01:06:27,550
- I will be handing out
two roses,
1884
01:06:27,550 --> 01:06:31,821
and that rose means
I want to meet your family,
1885
01:06:31,821 --> 01:06:33,890
a decision that will be
transformative
1886
01:06:33,890 --> 01:06:37,193
for the remainder of my life,
their life too.
1887
01:06:37,193 --> 01:06:38,595
♪
1888
01:06:38,595 --> 01:06:40,530
Hello.
1889
01:06:40,530 --> 01:06:41,764
Hi, boys.
- How are you?
1890
01:06:41,764 --> 01:06:43,099
- Good. How are you?
1891
01:06:43,099 --> 01:06:44,100
- The lavender is great.
- Amazing.
1892
01:06:44,100 --> 01:06:45,268
- Thank you.
1893
01:06:45,268 --> 01:06:47,704
I am afraid
of making a mistake.
1894
01:06:47,704 --> 01:06:51,140
So that's not something
that I want to mess up.
1895
01:06:51,140 --> 01:06:52,976
♪
1896
01:06:52,976 --> 01:06:56,880
Today, it's a lot,
and it holds a lot of weight.
1897
01:06:56,880 --> 01:06:59,482
Obviously, I have a very
important decision to make.
1898
01:06:59,482 --> 01:07:02,352
There's two roses,
and that means, like,
1899
01:07:02,352 --> 01:07:03,820
obviously,
I'll be saying goodbye
1900
01:07:03,820 --> 01:07:06,289
to one of you all today.
1901
01:07:06,289 --> 01:07:09,025
And that absolutely
terrifies me.
1902
01:07:09,025 --> 01:07:14,330
But like, I want to feel
as comfortable and confident
1903
01:07:14,330 --> 01:07:16,466
knowing, like,
the decision that I make today
1904
01:07:16,466 --> 01:07:19,903
is the absolute best decision.
1905
01:07:19,903 --> 01:07:22,272
And so with that being said,
1906
01:07:22,272 --> 01:07:23,840
Aaron, would you like
to go chat?
1907
01:07:23,840 --> 01:07:25,975
- Yes, let's go chat.
- Perfect.
1908
01:07:25,975 --> 01:07:27,977
Excuse us.
1909
01:07:27,977 --> 01:07:31,014
- This week has been so
up and down, mostly down.
1910
01:07:31,014 --> 01:07:32,282
I didn't get a one-on-one.
1911
01:07:32,282 --> 01:07:34,183
I didn't get a rose guaranteed
coming into this.
1912
01:07:34,183 --> 01:07:37,687
But I truly think that we have
a really strong connection,
1913
01:07:37,687 --> 01:07:39,589
and I feel like
I'm ready to introduce
1914
01:07:39,589 --> 01:07:40,623
Charity to my family.
1915
01:07:40,623 --> 01:07:42,025
- Let's chat.
1916
01:07:42,025 --> 01:07:43,560
- Today,
it's a lot of pressure,
1917
01:07:43,560 --> 01:07:47,897
but it means a lot to receive
that rose from her this week
1918
01:07:47,897 --> 01:07:49,432
more than any other week.
1919
01:07:49,432 --> 01:07:51,000
- How are you doing?
1920
01:07:51,000 --> 01:07:53,870
- Uh, you know, I'm okay.
1921
01:07:53,870 --> 01:07:55,071
You know, I'll say that
1922
01:07:55,071 --> 01:07:56,506
I'm so happy to be here
in New Orleans,
1923
01:07:56,506 --> 01:07:58,241
but this is probably
one of the hardest weeks
1924
01:07:58,241 --> 01:07:59,842
of my life, honestly.
1925
01:07:59,842 --> 01:08:04,047
Emotionally, I found myself
in a very low spot.
1926
01:08:04,047 --> 01:08:06,249
- Yeah.
- It's really been painful
1927
01:08:06,249 --> 01:08:08,284
having to watch guys get
their chance,
1928
01:08:08,284 --> 01:08:10,787
and you know,
after I've talked to them,
1929
01:08:10,787 --> 01:08:13,790
and it's like, of course,
like, you had a good time.
1930
01:08:13,790 --> 01:08:15,258
Like, you get
that post-Charity glow.
1931
01:08:15,258 --> 01:08:16,292
We all talk about that too.
1932
01:08:16,292 --> 01:08:17,961
- [laughs] Oh.
- Yeah.
1933
01:08:17,961 --> 01:08:19,662
They come back happy, and it's
like, oh, that's great.
1934
01:08:19,662 --> 01:08:20,663
- Yeah.
- And it's like,
1935
01:08:20,663 --> 01:08:21,864
I wish that was me.
1936
01:08:21,864 --> 01:08:23,132
But honestly,
1937
01:08:23,132 --> 01:08:24,667
the only thing that helped me
get through it
1938
01:08:24,667 --> 01:08:26,402
is just our time together.
1939
01:08:26,402 --> 01:08:28,705
And literally
everything I've done,
1940
01:08:28,705 --> 01:08:29,939
the only reason why I'm here,
1941
01:08:29,939 --> 01:08:32,041
the only reason why
I wanted to go through
1942
01:08:32,041 --> 01:08:34,711
that emotional hiccup
is because of you.
1943
01:08:34,711 --> 01:08:36,245
- Mm-hmm.
- And I truly mean that.
1944
01:08:36,245 --> 01:08:37,347
- Yeah, I believe it.
1945
01:08:37,347 --> 01:08:38,748
[laughs]
- Yeah. [laughs]
1946
01:08:38,748 --> 01:08:39,949
[soft music]
1947
01:08:39,949 --> 01:08:41,217
- We probably assume
1948
01:08:41,217 --> 01:08:42,385
Aaron's getting one of these.
1949
01:08:42,385 --> 01:08:44,087
- I'd be surprised
if he didn't.
1950
01:08:44,087 --> 01:08:46,923
- You know, I think she's
taking this very seriously,
1951
01:08:46,923 --> 01:08:50,126
and she's taking her time
on every decision she makes,
1952
01:08:50,126 --> 01:08:52,362
which is, like, the smartest,
most mature way to handle it.
1953
01:08:52,362 --> 01:08:53,763
You know?
- Right.
1954
01:08:53,763 --> 01:08:55,765
- You know, she clearly sees
something in all of us.
1955
01:08:55,765 --> 01:08:57,667
- Yeah.
- So...
1956
01:08:57,667 --> 01:08:59,302
- Knowing, like, next week,
1957
01:08:59,302 --> 01:09:00,903
potentially, like,
meeting family, like,
1958
01:09:00,903 --> 01:09:03,506
do you feel like, despite
having a week like this,
1959
01:09:03,506 --> 01:09:06,075
a week as frustrating for you,
1960
01:09:06,075 --> 01:09:08,144
do you think that it affects us
1961
01:09:08,144 --> 01:09:10,613
at any--like,
in any way for you?
1962
01:09:10,613 --> 01:09:13,549
- [laughs] No. No.
- Okay. [laughs]
1963
01:09:13,549 --> 01:09:17,253
At this point,
I have a certain feeling
1964
01:09:17,253 --> 01:09:19,455
about each person
that's still here.
1965
01:09:19,455 --> 01:09:21,190
Oh, goodness,
let's have a seat.
1966
01:09:21,190 --> 01:09:22,325
- All right.
1967
01:09:22,325 --> 01:09:23,993
- But anything can change
in a matter of
1968
01:09:23,993 --> 01:09:26,629
a conversation that will
make me possibly feel
1969
01:09:26,629 --> 01:09:28,898
a little bit more confident
in my decision-making.
1970
01:09:28,898 --> 01:09:30,867
- It's very scary
to think that, like,
1971
01:09:30,867 --> 01:09:32,669
our first one-on-one
would be, like--
1972
01:09:32,669 --> 01:09:33,903
- In Hometown--yeah.
1973
01:09:33,903 --> 01:09:35,438
- In Pittsburgh,
introducing you to my family.
1974
01:09:35,438 --> 01:09:36,739
- Yeah. Mm-hmm.
1975
01:09:36,739 --> 01:09:39,409
- But I will tell you this.
I mean, like,
1976
01:09:39,409 --> 01:09:40,543
I've envisioned it...
- Mm-hmm.
1977
01:09:40,543 --> 01:09:42,011
- And I can see you
coming home.
1978
01:09:42,011 --> 01:09:44,547
And I can see it being
an amazing time.
1979
01:09:44,547 --> 01:09:45,815
- Yeah.
1980
01:09:45,815 --> 01:09:47,884
Right now, it's a weird pull
1981
01:09:47,884 --> 01:09:49,318
between feeling confident
1982
01:09:49,318 --> 01:09:53,056
but also feeling
I'm a little nervous
1983
01:09:53,056 --> 01:09:55,958
to have to make a decision.
1984
01:09:55,958 --> 01:09:57,326
♪
1985
01:09:57,326 --> 01:09:58,961
- It's scary, marriage
1986
01:09:58,961 --> 01:10:04,400
and that whole thing
of comfortability.
1987
01:10:04,400 --> 01:10:06,636
And normally, I would--
like, at this stage,
1988
01:10:06,636 --> 01:10:09,605
I would guard those feelings.
1989
01:10:09,605 --> 01:10:11,207
It scares me.
1990
01:10:11,207 --> 01:10:13,376
You know?
- It is scary.
1991
01:10:13,376 --> 01:10:15,044
You never know when
you're gonna talk to her again.
1992
01:10:15,044 --> 01:10:17,113
Like, this could be
the last time
1993
01:10:17,113 --> 01:10:18,514
depending on how
the conversation goes.
1994
01:10:18,514 --> 01:10:19,949
So you really gotta leave it
all out there.
1995
01:10:19,949 --> 01:10:21,317
- Yeah.
1996
01:10:21,317 --> 01:10:23,653
I'm feeling nervous
and a lot of anxious
1997
01:10:23,653 --> 01:10:25,588
because I know
what's on the line.
1998
01:10:25,588 --> 01:10:27,957
- [laughing]
1999
01:10:27,957 --> 01:10:31,861
- I really, really like
Charity,
2000
01:10:31,861 --> 01:10:34,330
and I want to fall in love
with her.
2001
01:10:34,330 --> 01:10:35,398
♪
2002
01:10:35,398 --> 01:10:36,766
But at the same time, like,
2003
01:10:36,766 --> 01:10:39,435
I want to tell her
who I am wholeheartedly
2004
01:10:39,435 --> 01:10:41,204
so that there are no surprises
2005
01:10:41,204 --> 01:10:43,906
and no question about
who this person is after this.
2006
01:10:43,906 --> 01:10:46,909
- I know we came off
of last week on a one-on-one.
2007
01:10:46,909 --> 01:10:48,144
- Mm-hmm.
- And I know, like,
2008
01:10:48,144 --> 01:10:51,514
our chemistry, like,
what we have is crazy.
2009
01:10:51,514 --> 01:10:52,849
- Crazy.
- But it's like--
2010
01:10:52,849 --> 01:10:54,250
[both laughing]
2011
01:10:54,250 --> 01:10:58,087
So I felt like I was coming
from last week on a high
2012
01:10:58,087 --> 01:11:01,758
and feeling so confident
and, like, sure about you.
2013
01:11:01,758 --> 01:11:03,259
And I want to know, like,
2014
01:11:03,259 --> 01:11:05,061
did this week change that
for you?
2015
01:11:05,061 --> 01:11:06,796
Or how do you feel?
2016
01:11:06,796 --> 01:11:10,133
- What I've been thinking about
is, you know,
2017
01:11:10,133 --> 01:11:12,235
you're looking for
your forever partner.
2018
01:11:12,235 --> 01:11:13,536
- Yeah.
2019
01:11:13,536 --> 01:11:15,938
- And today,
I just wanted to, you know,
2020
01:11:15,938 --> 01:11:18,608
be fully transparent,
be fully honest,
2021
01:11:18,608 --> 01:11:19,642
everything, 'cause, like,
2022
01:11:19,642 --> 01:11:20,977
you don't have no time
to waste.
2023
01:11:20,977 --> 01:11:22,545
I don't have no time to waste.
- I don't. No way.
2024
01:11:22,545 --> 01:11:27,116
- And so I think, for me,
like, um, it scares me
2025
01:11:27,116 --> 01:11:29,786
to, you know, genuinely, like,
2026
01:11:29,786 --> 01:11:33,156
commit all myself
to one person forever.
2027
01:11:33,156 --> 01:11:34,924
That--that idea scares me.
2028
01:11:34,924 --> 01:11:36,592
- Mm.
- But doing it--
2029
01:11:36,592 --> 01:11:37,593
- Why?
2030
01:11:37,593 --> 01:11:40,296
- 'Cause just like...
2031
01:11:40,296 --> 01:11:43,166
[tense music]
2032
01:11:43,166 --> 01:11:46,936
That scares me,
because it's something
2033
01:11:46,936 --> 01:11:48,437
I've never done before.
2034
01:11:48,437 --> 01:11:49,839
And I want to do it once,
2035
01:11:49,839 --> 01:11:50,873
and I want to do it right.
2036
01:11:50,873 --> 01:11:52,241
- Yeah.
- You know?
2037
01:11:52,241 --> 01:11:53,309
- Yeah.
- There has to be
2038
01:11:53,309 --> 01:11:55,845
no doubt in that.
2039
01:11:55,845 --> 01:11:57,213
- Mm-hmm.
2040
01:11:57,213 --> 01:11:58,514
Okay.
2041
01:11:58,514 --> 01:12:01,350
- I know that I want
to get engaged.
2042
01:12:01,350 --> 01:12:02,752
I know I want to get married.
2043
01:12:02,752 --> 01:12:05,855
It's a question of
if that's you, you know,
2044
01:12:05,855 --> 01:12:08,090
and so, like,
I've been running, like,
2045
01:12:08,090 --> 01:12:11,460
every single moment between us
2046
01:12:11,460 --> 01:12:15,064
and, like, trying to gain
any sense of clarity.
2047
01:12:15,064 --> 01:12:18,067
And I don't know, like,
what that thing is
2048
01:12:18,067 --> 01:12:21,237
that's gonna make me be able
to fall in love.
2049
01:12:21,237 --> 01:12:23,673
It's just gonna happen.
2050
01:12:23,673 --> 01:12:25,508
- Mm-hmm.
- But...
2051
01:12:25,508 --> 01:12:27,376
um...
2052
01:12:27,376 --> 01:12:28,678
do I think I can get there?
2053
01:12:28,678 --> 01:12:30,046
Yes.
2054
01:12:30,046 --> 01:12:35,918
If you're the one,
I don't want to pass that up.
2055
01:12:35,918 --> 01:12:37,820
- Mm-hmm.
- You know what I mean?
2056
01:12:37,820 --> 01:12:41,123
But previously, it has scared
the [bleep] out of me.
2057
01:12:41,123 --> 01:12:43,826
- [laughs] That makes sense.
2058
01:12:43,826 --> 01:12:45,494
- I think I needed
to tell her that
2059
01:12:45,494 --> 01:12:48,264
'cause I want to be honest
with her.
2060
01:12:48,264 --> 01:12:50,700
I think Charity really
appreciates
2061
01:12:50,700 --> 01:12:53,903
how much
I'm trying to be open,
2062
01:12:53,903 --> 01:12:57,440
and I feel stronger
about our connection
2063
01:12:57,440 --> 01:13:00,776
and stronger about that
she could be the person
2064
01:13:00,776 --> 01:13:02,111
I've been waiting for.
2065
01:13:02,111 --> 01:13:03,412
- Hey.
- Hello.
2066
01:13:03,412 --> 01:13:05,481
- Hello.
2067
01:13:05,481 --> 01:13:07,683
- I fully believe that
that rose could be mine.
2068
01:13:07,683 --> 01:13:11,220
Like, you know,
I feel like it--it's mine.
2069
01:13:11,220 --> 01:13:12,388
♪
2070
01:13:12,388 --> 01:13:14,357
[clears throat]
2071
01:13:14,357 --> 01:13:16,425
- Um...
2072
01:13:16,425 --> 01:13:20,897
I recognize that
this week has been heavy,
2073
01:13:20,897 --> 01:13:27,870
but I am valuing this rose
2074
01:13:27,870 --> 01:13:30,039
with what it holds
2075
01:13:30,039 --> 01:13:32,508
and what it means
with meeting families
2076
01:13:32,508 --> 01:13:37,580
and being confident in moving
forward in our relationship.
2077
01:13:37,580 --> 01:13:39,649
♪
2078
01:13:39,649 --> 01:13:41,817
And so...
2079
01:13:41,817 --> 01:13:43,519
[clears throat]
2080
01:13:43,519 --> 01:13:46,889
Aaron, will you accept
this rose?
2081
01:13:46,889 --> 01:13:49,158
- 100%,
I will accept this rose.
2082
01:13:49,158 --> 01:13:51,761
♪
2083
01:13:51,761 --> 01:13:53,229
- That went--sorry.
2084
01:13:53,229 --> 01:13:54,563
I didn't mean to flash...
2085
01:13:54,563 --> 01:13:57,133
- Yeah, put it
wherever you want.
2086
01:13:57,133 --> 01:13:58,167
- There we go.
2087
01:13:58,167 --> 01:13:59,368
- Awesome.
Thank you so much.
2088
01:13:59,368 --> 01:14:00,703
- Mm-hmm.
2089
01:14:00,703 --> 01:14:02,371
- I literally can't stop
smiling, honestly.
2090
01:14:02,371 --> 01:14:04,073
I mean, God, like, this is
2091
01:14:04,073 --> 01:14:06,842
the biggest moment
in this journey thus far.
2092
01:14:06,842 --> 01:14:08,711
- All right, see you soon.
2093
01:14:08,711 --> 01:14:10,246
- Bye, Charity.
- Bye.
2094
01:14:10,246 --> 01:14:11,847
- Man, I'm just super pumped.
2095
01:14:11,847 --> 01:14:14,383
I'm taking Charity
to Houston, Texas.
2096
01:14:14,383 --> 01:14:15,418
♪
2097
01:14:15,418 --> 01:14:16,485
- Million different scenarios
2098
01:14:16,485 --> 01:14:17,486
is running through my head.
2099
01:14:17,486 --> 01:14:18,754
- I know.
2100
01:14:18,754 --> 01:14:20,523
Every time when I speak
2101
01:14:20,523 --> 01:14:23,092
from pure honesty to a woman,
2102
01:14:23,092 --> 01:14:24,860
it puts doubt in their head.
2103
01:14:24,860 --> 01:14:27,196
I want to know if she wants
to meet my parents.
2104
01:14:27,196 --> 01:14:28,698
I want to show her
my hometown.
2105
01:14:28,698 --> 01:14:30,700
I want to just know my fate.
2106
01:14:30,700 --> 01:14:32,068
♪
2107
01:14:32,068 --> 01:14:33,736
- There's one rose left.
2108
01:14:33,736 --> 01:14:35,438
I'm just truly happy that
2109
01:14:35,438 --> 01:14:37,340
that conversation went
the way it did.
2110
01:14:37,340 --> 01:14:39,041
I mean, I'm pretty confident
that I'm gonna get a rose
2111
01:14:39,041 --> 01:14:41,577
just because we have a ton
of momentum right now.
2112
01:14:41,577 --> 01:14:43,612
♪
2113
01:14:43,612 --> 01:14:45,081
- Um...
2114
01:14:45,081 --> 01:14:46,349
♪
2115
01:14:46,349 --> 01:14:49,452
Obviously, this is
the last Hometown rose,
2116
01:14:49,452 --> 01:14:52,121
and I want you guys
to know, like,
2117
01:14:52,121 --> 01:14:54,623
this is actually, um,
2118
01:14:54,623 --> 01:14:58,094
the hardest thing that
I've had to ever do.
2119
01:14:59,729 --> 01:15:02,765
And for that reason, like, I--
2120
01:15:02,765 --> 01:15:04,867
I won't be giving out
a rose right now.
2121
01:15:04,867 --> 01:15:06,702
[soft music]
2122
01:15:06,702 --> 01:15:09,538
I will see you both tonight,
2123
01:15:09,538 --> 01:15:11,707
and we'll go from there, okay?
2124
01:15:11,707 --> 01:15:13,209
Okay.
- Sounds good.
2125
01:15:13,209 --> 01:15:15,478
- Right now,
I'm absolutely torn,
2126
01:15:15,478 --> 01:15:17,279
and I have no idea.
2127
01:15:17,279 --> 01:15:19,749
And that's where
the fear comes in of, like,
2128
01:15:19,749 --> 01:15:22,218
am I making the right choice?
2129
01:15:22,218 --> 01:15:23,219
♪
2130
01:15:23,219 --> 01:15:25,154
I'm trying to not make
2131
01:15:25,154 --> 01:15:26,922
the wrong decision.
2132
01:15:26,922 --> 01:15:29,258
It's terrifying.
2133
01:15:29,258 --> 01:15:33,396
♪
2134
01:15:35,364 --> 01:15:37,133
[tense music]
2135
01:15:37,133 --> 01:15:39,135
[bell dinging]
2136
01:15:39,135 --> 01:15:45,141
♪
2137
01:15:45,141 --> 01:15:46,642
- [sighs]
2138
01:15:46,642 --> 01:15:48,244
♪
2139
01:15:48,244 --> 01:15:49,478
- [sighs]
2140
01:15:49,478 --> 01:15:50,780
♪
2141
01:15:50,780 --> 01:15:53,916
Going into tonight,
I'm overwhelmed.
2142
01:15:53,916 --> 01:15:56,318
A lot is at stake--
meeting families
2143
01:15:56,318 --> 01:15:59,855
and truly, like, being
on one knee in three weeks.
2144
01:15:59,855 --> 01:16:01,957
Like, this is my future.
2145
01:16:01,957 --> 01:16:04,193
[sighs]
2146
01:16:04,193 --> 01:16:06,595
There is one rose left,
2147
01:16:06,595 --> 01:16:12,101
and I have two guys remaining,
Tanner and Xavier.
2148
01:16:12,101 --> 01:16:13,469
♪
2149
01:16:13,469 --> 01:16:15,838
My indecisiveness has
hurt me in the past
2150
01:16:15,838 --> 01:16:18,841
with past relationships,
2151
01:16:18,841 --> 01:16:22,478
and it's scary knowing
I have to make a decision.
2152
01:16:22,478 --> 01:16:24,046
[soft music]
2153
01:16:24,046 --> 01:16:26,282
But I think I know
what I need to do.
2154
01:16:26,282 --> 01:16:28,984
[dramatic music]
2155
01:16:28,984 --> 01:16:32,955
My gut is telling me
to go with what feels right,
2156
01:16:32,955 --> 01:16:36,459
and I feel
an immense level of sadness.
2157
01:16:36,459 --> 01:16:38,194
My heart is aching.
2158
01:16:38,194 --> 01:16:45,201
♪
2159
01:16:46,135 --> 01:16:47,603
[knocking lightly]
2160
01:16:47,603 --> 01:16:49,004
Tonight will not be easy.
2161
01:16:49,004 --> 01:16:50,906
♪
2162
01:16:50,906 --> 01:16:52,808
[sighs]
2163
01:16:54,276 --> 01:16:55,411
Hey.
- Hello.
2164
01:16:55,411 --> 01:16:56,412
- Can I come in and chat?
2165
01:16:56,412 --> 01:16:57,680
- Come on--come on in.
2166
01:16:57,680 --> 01:16:58,881
- Hey.
2167
01:17:01,517 --> 01:17:02,918
Do you care where I sit?
2168
01:17:02,918 --> 01:17:04,453
- Yeah, go for it.
- Okay.
2169
01:17:04,453 --> 01:17:06,055
- You look amazing, as always.
2170
01:17:06,055 --> 01:17:08,023
- So do you.
2171
01:17:08,023 --> 01:17:09,625
[both sighing]
2172
01:17:09,625 --> 01:17:10,993
How are you?
2173
01:17:10,993 --> 01:17:12,128
- I'm good.
- Okay.
2174
01:17:12,128 --> 01:17:13,129
- How are you?
2175
01:17:13,129 --> 01:17:14,663
- Um, I'm okay.
2176
01:17:14,663 --> 01:17:15,931
Um...
2177
01:17:16,966 --> 01:17:20,936
With everything this week,
like, it was just a lot for me.
2178
01:17:21,670 --> 01:17:26,709
And I think, you know,
2179
01:17:26,709 --> 01:17:28,677
you being so open
and honest with me
2180
01:17:28,677 --> 01:17:32,681
about how you felt
about next week,
2181
01:17:32,681 --> 01:17:37,186
and like, I constantly think
about, like, what-ifs.
2182
01:17:37,186 --> 01:17:38,354
And...
- Me too.
2183
01:17:38,354 --> 01:17:39,822
- Mm-hmm.
- That's all I've been doing.
2184
01:17:39,822 --> 01:17:41,957
- Mm-hmm.
2185
01:17:41,957 --> 01:17:43,626
It's hard.
2186
01:17:45,227 --> 01:17:46,362
I'm sorry.
2187
01:17:46,362 --> 01:17:47,963
- I got you. You're good.
2188
01:17:47,963 --> 01:17:49,298
- [sniffles]
2189
01:17:49,298 --> 01:17:51,467
It's hard because, um...
2190
01:17:51,467 --> 01:17:53,169
[soft music]
2191
01:17:53,169 --> 01:17:55,771
Like, it just pains me
to, like, try to make sense
2192
01:17:55,771 --> 01:17:57,439
of what next week
would look like...
2193
01:17:57,439 --> 01:17:59,542
- [sighs] Yeah.
- Um, going into your, like,
2194
01:17:59,542 --> 01:18:02,511
hometown
and meeting your family.
2195
01:18:02,511 --> 01:18:04,380
Realistically,
they probably would have
2196
01:18:04,380 --> 01:18:06,015
so many questions
about, like, what it--
2197
01:18:06,015 --> 01:18:07,149
like, what is this,
2198
01:18:07,149 --> 01:18:10,085
and how did we end up here?
2199
01:18:10,085 --> 01:18:11,554
To your family, like,
2200
01:18:11,554 --> 01:18:15,424
and to you, like,
it's just not fair.
2201
01:18:15,424 --> 01:18:19,094
And I mean,
if you really look at it,
2202
01:18:19,094 --> 01:18:20,896
it's like, in three weeks,
like,
2203
01:18:20,896 --> 01:18:22,731
someone's getting
on their knee.
2204
01:18:22,731 --> 01:18:24,733
And it's like,
does that make sense?
2205
01:18:24,733 --> 01:18:26,969
Like, does it--
would it make sense for us?
2206
01:18:26,969 --> 01:18:30,739
And like, I came here
to express my heart
2207
01:18:30,739 --> 01:18:34,076
and why this is so hard for me
2208
01:18:34,076 --> 01:18:36,312
'cause I want to, like,
be able to--
2209
01:18:36,312 --> 01:18:37,379
I'm sorry.
2210
01:18:37,379 --> 01:18:38,514
[sniffles]
- Don't be sorry.
2211
01:18:38,514 --> 01:18:40,583
It's okay.
2212
01:18:40,583 --> 01:18:44,253
- Like, I want to be able
to, like, not be the person
2213
01:18:44,253 --> 01:18:46,722
that lets you down
or not be the person
2214
01:18:46,722 --> 01:18:48,824
that, like, contributes
to, like, some sort of pain.
2215
01:18:48,824 --> 01:18:50,559
And like, I struggle
so much with that.
2216
01:18:50,559 --> 01:18:53,495
Like, it really does pain me,
2217
01:18:53,495 --> 01:18:58,767
because you are truly
an incredible person, and...
2218
01:18:58,767 --> 01:18:59,735
- Thanks, Charity.
2219
01:18:59,735 --> 01:19:00,903
You are too.
2220
01:19:00,903 --> 01:19:03,906
- [crying]
2221
01:19:03,906 --> 01:19:05,541
- It's okay.
2222
01:19:05,541 --> 01:19:08,310
- [sniffles]
This is really hard.
2223
01:19:08,310 --> 01:19:09,311
- Come on. It's all right.
2224
01:19:09,311 --> 01:19:10,813
- [sniffling]
- Come on.
2225
01:19:10,813 --> 01:19:14,049
♪
2226
01:19:14,049 --> 01:19:16,252
- We gave this
everything we got,
2227
01:19:16,252 --> 01:19:19,655
and I think that's
what hurts the most.
2228
01:19:19,655 --> 01:19:21,724
♪
2229
01:19:21,724 --> 01:19:23,892
- Is it okay if I walk you out?
2230
01:19:23,892 --> 01:19:27,563
- It sucks, 'cause it's like,
she felt the same way I felt.
2231
01:19:27,563 --> 01:19:30,666
So she--I know that.
2232
01:19:30,666 --> 01:19:32,001
- I'm sorry.
2233
01:19:32,001 --> 01:19:34,270
- That's okay.
2234
01:19:34,270 --> 01:19:36,939
She's just got
such a big heart,
2235
01:19:36,939 --> 01:19:39,041
so that's why I was trying
to be as strong as possible
2236
01:19:39,041 --> 01:19:40,509
'cause I didn't want
to let her know
2237
01:19:40,509 --> 01:19:42,611
how much it, you know,
it hurt me too.
2238
01:19:42,611 --> 01:19:46,315
♪
2239
01:19:46,315 --> 01:19:47,483
- All right.
2240
01:19:47,483 --> 01:19:48,517
- I know
it was really hard on her.
2241
01:19:48,517 --> 01:19:49,752
- Bye.
2242
01:19:49,752 --> 01:19:51,320
♪
2243
01:19:51,320 --> 01:19:53,289
And it's hard on me too.
2244
01:19:53,289 --> 01:19:54,990
It's hard on me too.
2245
01:19:54,990 --> 01:19:57,693
♪
2246
01:19:57,693 --> 01:19:59,862
And I've said it once,
and I'll say it every day,
2247
01:19:59,862 --> 01:20:01,730
but that girl deserves
the world, man.
2248
01:20:01,730 --> 01:20:03,966
She's special.
2249
01:20:03,966 --> 01:20:06,935
[somber music]
2250
01:20:06,935 --> 01:20:11,740
♪
2251
01:20:11,740 --> 01:20:13,609
[soft music]
2252
01:20:13,609 --> 01:20:15,844
- [sighs]
2253
01:20:15,844 --> 01:20:18,247
♪
2254
01:20:18,247 --> 01:20:20,082
I don't know how
tonight's gonna go.
2255
01:20:20,082 --> 01:20:22,718
♪
2256
01:20:22,718 --> 01:20:25,421
Everything that
I was completely honest
2257
01:20:25,421 --> 01:20:29,224
about committing
to one person forever,
2258
01:20:29,224 --> 01:20:31,226
that's a legit fear.
2259
01:20:31,226 --> 01:20:35,297
♪
2260
01:20:35,297 --> 01:20:37,199
- Hello.
- Hello.
2261
01:20:37,199 --> 01:20:38,667
- How are you?
- I'm well.
2262
01:20:38,667 --> 01:20:40,636
I'm well. How are you?
- Good.
2263
01:20:40,636 --> 01:20:44,406
- I definitely know, like, how
I feel about Charity and I.
2264
01:20:44,406 --> 01:20:47,276
I've been so ready for Charity
to meet my parents.
2265
01:20:47,276 --> 01:20:51,513
If I didn't get a rose tonight,
I would feel crushed.
2266
01:20:51,513 --> 01:20:56,051
- I want to start off
by saying
2267
01:20:56,051 --> 01:21:01,724
that this week has been
incredibly difficult for me.
2268
01:21:01,724 --> 01:21:04,793
It's a week where
I've been on the fence
2269
01:21:04,793 --> 01:21:06,962
about a lot of things
2270
01:21:06,962 --> 01:21:09,732
and a week where
I had to learn to just
2271
01:21:09,732 --> 01:21:13,535
trust my gut and trust my heart
2272
01:21:13,535 --> 01:21:16,672
of what feels right
and what feels the best.
2273
01:21:18,040 --> 01:21:20,776
Um, so...
2274
01:21:20,776 --> 01:21:23,779
[tense music]
2275
01:21:23,779 --> 01:21:30,853
♪
2276
01:21:32,855 --> 01:21:36,892
I just sent Tanner home,
2277
01:21:36,892 --> 01:21:40,295
and I have one rose left
to give out.
2278
01:21:40,295 --> 01:21:42,498
♪
2279
01:21:42,498 --> 01:21:46,168
And quite frankly, like,
2280
01:21:46,168 --> 01:21:47,870
I don't have to give
this rose out.
2281
01:21:47,870 --> 01:21:53,976
♪
2282
01:21:53,976 --> 01:21:58,013
But it's something
that I want to do.
2283
01:21:58,013 --> 01:22:01,016
I want to meet your family.
2284
01:22:01,016 --> 01:22:05,521
Our one-on-one date
opened my eyes a lot
2285
01:22:05,521 --> 01:22:08,157
to who you are as a person.
2286
01:22:08,157 --> 01:22:10,759
There's so much more
I want to learn.
2287
01:22:10,759 --> 01:22:16,899
So, Xavier, will you accept
this rose?
2288
01:22:16,899 --> 01:22:18,500
- 1,000%.
2289
01:22:18,500 --> 01:22:20,035
- [laughs]
2290
01:22:20,035 --> 01:22:22,738
[soft music]
2291
01:22:22,738 --> 01:22:24,440
Perfect. Thank you.
2292
01:22:24,440 --> 01:22:28,210
♪
2293
01:22:28,210 --> 01:22:29,778
- I'm just so happy.
2294
01:22:29,778 --> 01:22:33,081
This rose means
everything to me.
2295
01:22:33,081 --> 01:22:35,918
I can't wait for her
to meet my family,
2296
01:22:35,918 --> 01:22:39,054
and I'm ready
to keep this train going
2297
01:22:39,054 --> 01:22:40,622
so that I can fall in love.
2298
01:22:40,622 --> 01:22:42,090
I know this is crazy.
2299
01:22:42,090 --> 01:22:43,125
- Mm-hmm.
2300
01:22:43,125 --> 01:22:45,060
- But I'm ready.
2301
01:22:45,060 --> 01:22:49,498
♪
2302
01:22:49,498 --> 01:22:52,000
- I decided to give
Xavier the rose tonight
2303
01:22:52,000 --> 01:22:55,971
because what me and Xavier have
is something special.
2304
01:22:55,971 --> 01:22:57,906
♪
2305
01:22:57,906 --> 01:22:59,908
I can't deny
how I feel about him.
2306
01:22:59,908 --> 01:23:01,443
Like, it is strong.
2307
01:23:01,443 --> 01:23:05,848
He is someone that I do
and want to see a future with.
2308
01:23:05,848 --> 01:23:07,983
♪
2309
01:23:07,983 --> 01:23:10,652
I feel like obviously
there's a lot for me to learn
2310
01:23:10,652 --> 01:23:14,289
from meeting his family,
but time will only tell
2311
01:23:14,289 --> 01:23:17,459
if my decision is
the right decision.
2312
01:23:17,459 --> 01:23:19,795
♪
2313
01:23:19,795 --> 01:23:21,830
- Next week on
"The Bachelorette"...
2314
01:23:21,830 --> 01:23:24,099
[laughter]
2315
01:23:24,099 --> 01:23:25,701
- Hello!
2316
01:23:25,701 --> 01:23:27,169
- Nobody got your back
like family.
2317
01:23:27,169 --> 01:23:29,505
- Life is not measured
by time.
2318
01:23:29,505 --> 01:23:31,573
- I really feel like
I'm falling in love with you.
2319
01:23:31,573 --> 01:23:33,108
- It's measured in moments.
2320
01:23:33,108 --> 01:23:35,110
- Let it get to your
right hand, commit.
2321
01:23:35,110 --> 01:23:37,145
- Oh, my God.
I almost hit you!
2322
01:23:37,145 --> 01:23:40,048
I hope he sees how special
he makes me feel.
2323
01:23:40,048 --> 01:23:41,850
What a great day!
2324
01:23:41,850 --> 01:23:43,785
- It's almost been
somewhat of a fairy tale.
2325
01:23:43,785 --> 01:23:45,921
- My whole face is wet.
2326
01:23:45,921 --> 01:23:48,223
- Love unconditionally,
2327
01:23:48,223 --> 01:23:50,359
no matter how high it is
or how low.
2328
01:23:50,359 --> 01:23:53,629
- I'm hopeful,
but I'm a little nervous.
2329
01:23:53,629 --> 01:23:55,330
Someone's family's opinion
2330
01:23:55,330 --> 01:23:56,565
could really, like,
shift the trajectory.
2331
01:23:56,565 --> 01:23:57,566
- Yeah.
2332
01:23:57,566 --> 01:23:59,067
- I know Joey very well.
2333
01:23:59,067 --> 01:24:02,070
How confident are you that
you have the genuine Joey?
2334
01:24:02,070 --> 01:24:05,974
Something didn't feel
100% right.
2335
01:24:05,974 --> 01:24:08,377
- If Aaron proposed
to you today,
2336
01:24:08,377 --> 01:24:09,545
what would be your answer?
2337
01:24:09,545 --> 01:24:10,979
[dramatic music]
2338
01:24:10,979 --> 01:24:12,481
- Do you feel like, as a mom,
2339
01:24:12,481 --> 01:24:14,683
that he is truly ready
2340
01:24:14,683 --> 01:24:17,185
to be a husband,
to be a father?
2341
01:24:17,185 --> 01:24:19,087
- I'm gonna be very honest.
2342
01:24:19,087 --> 01:24:20,622
♪
2343
01:24:20,622 --> 01:24:22,024
- She's not looking at me.
2344
01:24:22,024 --> 01:24:23,825
She's just crying.
Like, was that a goodbye?
2345
01:24:23,825 --> 01:24:25,827
- The one person
that I say goodbye to
2346
01:24:25,827 --> 01:24:28,196
is not going to see this
coming.
2347
01:24:28,196 --> 01:24:29,631
What am I doing?
2348
01:24:29,631 --> 01:24:31,433
This just doesn't make sense.
2349
01:24:31,433 --> 01:24:34,102
- It could be the last night
that I see Charity.
2350
01:24:34,102 --> 01:24:36,171
- You deserve, like,
the absolute best.
2351
01:24:36,171 --> 01:24:39,341
I don't want to do this.
2352
01:24:39,341 --> 01:24:40,542
It's not right.
2353
01:24:40,542 --> 01:24:44,012
♪
2354
01:24:44,012 --> 01:24:47,015
[suspenseful music]
2355
01:24:47,015 --> 01:24:54,089
♪
2356
01:24:55,524 --> 01:24:58,460
As difficult as it is,
2357
01:24:58,460 --> 01:25:00,596
this rose not only symbolizes
2358
01:25:00,596 --> 01:25:03,432
where I feel like I'm at
with our connection,
2359
01:25:03,432 --> 01:25:05,500
it symbolizes the importance
2360
01:25:05,500 --> 01:25:07,069
of what next week holds.
2361
01:25:07,069 --> 01:25:10,238
♪
2362
01:25:10,238 --> 01:25:14,009
I realized tonight showed me
so much.
2363
01:25:14,009 --> 01:25:15,410
[sighs]
2364
01:25:15,410 --> 01:25:19,081
♪
2365
01:25:19,081 --> 01:25:20,482
With that being said,
2366
01:25:20,482 --> 01:25:23,785
I feel like the best decision
for me in this moment
2367
01:25:23,785 --> 01:25:26,855
is to not hand out
a rose tonight.
2368
01:25:26,855 --> 01:25:29,124
♪
2369
01:25:29,124 --> 01:25:32,461
[phone ringing]
2370
01:25:32,461 --> 01:25:34,229
- Trent, Charity did not
hand out a rose
2371
01:25:34,229 --> 01:25:35,297
to either of the men,
2372
01:25:35,297 --> 01:25:37,165
so do not pull the luggage.
2373
01:25:37,165 --> 01:25:40,335
I repeat,
do not pull the luggage.
2374
01:25:40,335 --> 01:25:44,039
♪
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