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welcome to the take PhD course if you've
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bought this course which you obviously
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have congratulations you're going to
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change your life for the better I know
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exactly what I'm talking about I'm
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[ __ ] certified I know I don't look
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like a pimp right now I look like a
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[ __ ] but I just finished training I
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don't owe you [ __ ] when I
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suppose so whatever I actually went out
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of my way and bought a whiteboard
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that's some genuine effort but the only
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pen I have is green which is going to be
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difficult
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for you to see so we're not going to use
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the white board we're going to put
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Graphics in the video instead which is
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more effort
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should charge double for this [ __ ]
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anyway
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so
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me I'm going to teach you from the
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ground up how to get it done
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I was thinking if I was going to do like
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modular videos like little modules on
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each thing of how to do it or just do
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one long video it's actually quite
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difficult it's almost like imagine
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you're the best baker in the world and
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someone comes to you and says
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teach me how to bake well the first
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thing you're going to do is go okay
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we'll bake what bake a cake bake bread
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in an oven or on a fire or how long do I
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have what are the ingredients like the
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first thing the master Baker is going to
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do masturbate or Master Baker is going
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to ask you loads of questions because
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baking is such an all-encompassing art
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it's very difficult to just explain
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everything and pimping is very much the
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same it's very difficult for me to just
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explain absolutely everything the whole
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360 degrees but I'm gonna try anyway and
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for that reason I'm not going to do
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modules I'm not going to break it down
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to little videos what I'm just going to
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do is I'm just going to [ __ ] lay down
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some knowledge
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for the next long time and your ass
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needs to get a pen and a [ __ ] paper
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and pay attention if you have to watch
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this video over and over and over again
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fine if you have to watch this video and
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understand that there's certain parts of
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it you need to tweak to fit your
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particular style fine I'm not saying
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that this is going to be absolutely not
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really rigid but it is going to be a
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fails a fail-proof system that's what
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it's absolutely going to be because
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there are some rules which are Ironclad
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can't be broken and some rules are as
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exceptions too so there's gonna be a
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whole bunch of talking here so if you
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haven't gone pissed go piss get some
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[ __ ] popcorn buckle up this is lesson
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one in your pimpability degree all right
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let's start with the basics
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the basics are as follows and like I
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said when you're watching this video
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there's going to be some rules which are
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telling you which are iron clad and
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can't be broken and sometimes there's
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exceptions to the rules I've read a lot
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of a lot of the manic Spirit [ __ ]
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and sometimes they say if you [ __ ] her
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on the first date she ain't worth [ __ ]
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that's not true I've had girls who have
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[ __ ] in the first date who weren't
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worth [ __ ] and I've had girls who have
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[ __ ] in the first date I was with for
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two or three years and they were
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fiercely loyal to me and they were
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fantastic girlfriends so
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that is a rule which has exceptions but
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there are some rules
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with no exceptions like oh my girl has
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male friends they're just her friend no
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not allowed that is a rule that can
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never ever ever that cannot be broken if
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you've got your chick on Lock and she's
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in love with you she ain't interested in
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talking to no other [ __ ] dude about
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Game of Thrones or some dumb [ __ ] she's
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interested in talking to you and you
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only
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so like I said I'm gonna do a lot of
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talking here and what I want you to do
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is pay a lot of attention and especially
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pause this video if I'm giving you
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examples I'm talking about things try
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and apply them to your own life or why
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you while you're where you've tried
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things in your own life or your own
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current situation and see how they fit
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I'm very open for questions comments if
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you have any particular questions or
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comments you want to come at me with
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drop me an email there's no problem at
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all so we're gonna start at the very
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very beginning which is the overview of
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the sexual Marketplace that we currently
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live in
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we currently live in a sexual
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Marketplace which is extremely difficult
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for men
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and it is getting harder and harder it
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is knocking easier it's getting harder
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and harder because women biologically
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are programmed to share an alpha male
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now I say this and this is what's
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actually interesting to me a lot of the
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Manistee of stuff the 21 convention
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stuff all this [ __ ] it's talking about
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how women are wrong and women need to be
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fixed I don't necessarily think that's
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the case if you can position yourself in
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the correct place
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you'll have more than enough women
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so by the way the sexual Marketplace
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works is if you're in the wrong place
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you don't have enough women but if
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you're in the right place you have too
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many women I have more women than I can
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see I by the time I [ __ ] all the girls
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I need to [ __ ] to keep my my normal
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rotation going I don't have time to go
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on a date every night is planned every
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night I'm looking at my phone and I've
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got four choices and I'm like where am I
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going to stay and that's not just
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because I've got money because it's been
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like this before I had money I've had
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money for six seven years it was exactly
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the same before I had money I've always
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had too many women because I understand
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where to position myself so the first
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thing I want you guys to do is a lot of
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this red pill stuff is anti-women
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the way that women are hyper game is and
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they don't like the way that it works
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and women only want this and it's really
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negative you are not going to be
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successful with girls if you hate girls
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you need to get that [ __ ] out your head
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and you've got to change your mindset
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where you don't like how women think I
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don't like how women think women do this
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women do that women think a particular
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way and that's fine if you know the
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rules to the game if you can bend the
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rules or you can put yourself in the
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right position so that the rules of the
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game favor you then you should be very
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happy women think a particular way
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so a lot like I said a lot of this red
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pill stuff is trying to change the way
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women think trying to say that women
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think a certain way and this is wrong
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and like there's a new convention coming
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out 22 convention make women great again
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about how to make women great if women
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were completely Fair like men and every
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woman just got one guy the worst of fun
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in being a g where's the fun and having
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all these chicks well how come I have so
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many I only have so many because a whole
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bunch of dudes out there were none
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that's the way the world works so I'm
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going to teach you to be in my position
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so you need to get rid of any hate or
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resentment you have towards women get
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rid of that [ __ ] out that's the first
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thing you all do when you understand
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women better you'll understand why they
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do what they do and you'll understand
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how to position yourself so it suits you
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so the sexual Marketplace is very
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difficult for men and the reason it's
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difficult for men is because men have
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one weapon
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in the battle for sex and that is
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attention
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all you can give a female is attention
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right
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let me take my jacket off quickly
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before I take my jack off let me just uh
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remind you this watch called slurry
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Grand that upsets you get your money up
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um
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so all you have is your attention so the
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basics of the sexual Marketplace are as
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follows
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you give your attention to a woman to
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get sex
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and the woman gives you her sex to keep
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getting your attention
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attention and to sex and sex into
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attention that's how it works men give
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their attention to get sex women give
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sex to get attention that's how it
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should work but the reason the sexual
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Marketplace is so [ __ ] because there's
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too many women out there who get
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attention without giving sex so
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previously not too long ago men didn't
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give a [ __ ] about a girl they weren't
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banging they didn't care why would you
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care about girl you don't [ __ ] she did
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nothing to you you don't see her but now
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with Instagram you've got girls with
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millions of Faller followers millions of
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men are giving her validation millions
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of men are liking her comments and
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comment and and liking her posts and
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commenting on her [ __ ] and telling her
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she's beautiful and Fox Zero of them so
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that skewed up the whole thing now it's
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all [ __ ] because you got chicks
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getting unlimited male attention without
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having to give their sex out and that's
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why the sexual Marketplace is getting
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difficult because it's the whole [ __ ]
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the whole [ __ ] game the fair equation
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has been completely skewed male
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attention is suffering from
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hyperinflation
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whereas male attention isn't worth [ __ ]
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anymore 50 60 years ago if you were
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talking to a girl or you took her on a
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date or you bought her flowers it meant
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something buy a [ __ ] flowers now she
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doesn't give [ __ ] what the [ __ ] does she
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care she gets Unlimited inboxes in her
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[ __ ] Instagrams you can get flowers
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anytime she wants she doesn't [ __ ]
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care none of that means anything
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so that's a sexual Marketplace so the
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number one game as a man is you need to
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attach some value to your attention
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your attention has to become more
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valuable because you have two choices
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I'm assuming you [ __ ] are smart
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I don't know all of you who've bought
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this I know some of you have bought this
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some of you might be dumb
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but if something hyperinflates the
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choices are as follows imagine a
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currency of a currency hyperinflates you
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either do something to restore the value
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of that currency
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or you give a lot more currency to get
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what you want so my question to you is
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if male attention is in hyperinflation
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do you want to give loads loads loads
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loads more attention to try and get laid
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or do you want to attach a value to your
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attention so that you don't have to give
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very much at all but you get what you
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want the problem with giving loads loads
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loads loads more is you might not get
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laid and then guess where you end up a
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[ __ ] friend zone that's complicated
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we're really good friends
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[Laughter]
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took it to the movies every time she
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called me I was there every time she
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felt sad I was there and this [ __ ] is
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sitting there going well he's there
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anytime I want him and I don't have to
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[ __ ] him so why would I [ __ ] him and she
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has a [ __ ] some guy who doesn't give
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a [ __ ] about her and you're sitting
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there going why would she [ __ ] the guy
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who clearly doesn't like her because the
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guy who doesn't like her his attention
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has a value because she can't get it
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very easily just like her currency the
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only attention anything only has a value
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through scarcity so when you want to
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attach a value to your attention you
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have to limit the attention you give a
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female
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you cannot be running through the Earth
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throwing attention everywhere for
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[ __ ] free and expect a girl to give a
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[ __ ] that she's getting to me if she
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knows you give attention to every hoe
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that walks she doesn't give a [ __ ] about
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your attention
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that's the reality this is why girls
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like bad boys it's not because bad boys
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are [ __ ] well partially it's because
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bad boys are [ __ ] but it's not
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actually the fact they're [ __ ] it's
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the fact that they'll tell the girl to
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[ __ ] off or they'll say to a girl I
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don't want to talk to you anymore or
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they know that getting attention from
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this particular man isn't free and easy
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this guy will get rid of he's giving me
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attention and he told he got rid of that
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other girl or he ignores that girl but
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he talks to me that is value so the
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number one thing you want to do in the
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current sexual Marketplace is attach
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value to your attention so how do you do
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that now
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this is we're going to get into internal
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factors factors you can do as a person
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and external factors there are a lot of
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factors you can't control
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I don't want to [ __ ]
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what's the shitty expression teach
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grandmother to suck eggs or some dumb
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[ __ ] I don't want to State the obvious
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but obviously if you have a profile as a
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high value male your attention is
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instinctively more valuable so we're
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talking about attaching value to your
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attention and we're going to do that by
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limiting your attention but you can also
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attach value to your attention with the
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obvious things you already know go to
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the gym get in shape dress well have
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money all these basic things but I'm not
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here to tell you that because that
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doesn't help you you've bought this
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course on how to get girls I can't sit
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here and go get a Lambo because I ain't
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a [ __ ] answer that's stupid but I'm
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saying if you do those things it will
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absolutely help you because it makes you
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a higher value person it means and a
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girl is more interested in you could say
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well a lot of the time it just Sparks
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their curiosity my experience with money
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is that girls don't care about money but
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they care about how you've made it
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girls don't care about money but they're
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like
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where does he get this money from
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they're curious about it so it's some
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Intrigue there and with entry your
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attention once again increases so those
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are all the things you already know if
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you don't know to go to the gym get some
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money that uh well then you're an idiot
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you know all those things we're not
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going to talk about them we're going to
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talk about the things you can do without
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increasing your bank balance
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so
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increasing the value of your attention
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so as follows
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I don't know your current situation but
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I guarantee there's a bunch of girls in
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your phone who you're talking to or
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attempting to talk to who you've never
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[ __ ] and you never stand a chance of
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[ __ ]
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why are you talking to her
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why are you giving your attention away
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for free
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why are you devaluing yourself
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and that's a mistake so for this reason
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anytime we're giving our attention to a
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woman we need to aim for progression
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progression towards the end goal if you
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find a woman sexually attractive I know
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the [ __ ] modern world tells you
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that's a bad thing but it's not a bad
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thing there's nothing wrong with finding
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a woman attractive and there's nothing
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wrong with wanting to sleep with a woman
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there's nothing wrong with that that is
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your end goal and every move you make
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every bit of attention you give has to
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be progressing towards that goal you
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cannot just flounder in a sea of giving
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out your attention you end up in the
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[ __ ] friend zone so
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like I said just like with the bakery
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example there's a million things I need
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to teach you guys I can teach you guys
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approaching [ __ ] on the street and
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teach you guys how to do things in the
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club and and teaching these things
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without experience is extremely
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difficult so to keep this easy what I'm
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going to do is I'm going to give you
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some iron-clad steps that you can do in
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the next two weeks so you can [ __ ] a
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[ __ ] brand new girl you never [ __ ] so
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you know that I know what I'm talking
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about because a lot of this stuff I need
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to show you in person there's a lot of
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other modules Etc we're going to keep
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this very simple we live in the world of
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the internet
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so
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first thing you can do to start getting
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laid today is your number one tool to
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get laid is Instagram
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Instagram is the new dating [ __ ] app
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[ __ ] Tinder I mean tinder's okay the
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problem with Tinder is if you're gonna
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do Tinder or natural swipe or get some
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girls but every girl on Tinder is as
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[ __ ] someone else a tinder's been around
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for four years now they [ __ ] dudes from
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Tinder before you know only real Ratchet
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[ __ ] are left on there really maybe
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if they're newly single or something you
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might find something good on Tinder I've
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done it I found good girls on Tinder but
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in general what you want is Instagram
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the reason Instagram's so fantastic is
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because women sit on Instagram all
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[ __ ] day the only problem with
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Instagram is that they get unlimited
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inboxes from guys
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saying [ __ ] so how do you make your
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inbox more appealing than anyone else's
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inbox
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so I want to talk about some inbox game
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that's the thing first thing you need to
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do is start your Instagram page you can
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see on my Instagram I have my particular
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angle and that is money obviously I play
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The Fighter thing
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and also what I try and do with every
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single post is a degree of intrigue
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Intrigue is super important in the
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sexual Marketplace because intrigue
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it attaches a value to your attention
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because you instantly become interested
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so imagine you work in Starbucks
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your job you're a Starbucks
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if a girl says what do you do you can
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say I work at Starbucks or you can say
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uh well I say while I was high level at
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Starbucks I was high level management
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and now they put me in as a mystery
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worker I'm making a [ __ ] I'm off the top
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of my [ __ ] head I'm telling you what
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I do a lot of works at Starbucks my girl
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would be like what do you mean it's like
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oh well I was high level management and
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then what they do is they send me around
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the different Starbucks stores to just
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work as a normal person but what I do
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support back to the high level
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management about how the store is being
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run and if the manager is competent and
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did it all of a sudden you sound like a
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[ __ ] spy you're now James Bond of
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Starbucks
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you were a barista loser now you're
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James Bond
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that's how you gotta put a spin on
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things really I've never heard of that
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so of course if you've heard of it then
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it wouldn't work no one knows about it
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so I moved from store to store
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now all of a sudden you're an
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interesting person bam you go up a spin
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on things then you're sitting I think
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well if I say that maybe she can expect
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me to have money no she doesn't
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oh so you get paid a lot oh yeah I get
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paid good money but you know I'm looking
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after my cousin she had a car crash or
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my cousin I'm putting my cousin through
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college make up some [ __ ] look we
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live in a world where you cannot play
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fair anymore when you walk down the
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streets nowadays and someone wants to
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mug you it can't be all right let's have
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a fair duel one-on-one if you win
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there's no more fair people gonna run it
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from behind and stab you you can't play
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fair anymore and with violence or in the
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sexual Marketplace you can't place there
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if you work in Starbucks and you are
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broke you now are high level management
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on a secret Starbucks mission to find
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the worst Starbucks employees as a spy
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and the reason you have no money is
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because you're putting your sick cousin
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through college that is how you have to
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play the game all of a sudden you're an
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interesting person from a barista to
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James Bond the philanthropist that's how
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you're going to be doing things whatever
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your job is now it may be a little bit
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interesting but I guarantee you can put
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a spin on it and one of the most
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important things you can do is never
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give away all the information
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because there is nothing as interesting
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that you can say as what she can think
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of herself
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so girls ask me all the time well I do I
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do loads of different things I don't
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tell them I say oh yeah you know I'm
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just working why work are you doing lots
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of just making money
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that's that's the answer they sit there
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and think he's an assassin is he a spy
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is he is he this how come he has this
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car let them go through all the crazy
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ideas in their head because they'll
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settle on the one they like the most no
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matter what I no matter what I make up
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or what lie I tell it's not gonna be as
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interesting as what they can imagine it
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could be so you need to have some
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Intrigue there don't be afraid to put a
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spin on your [ __ ] that's the first thing
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and your Instagram page needs to reflect
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that my Instagram page very clearly
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makes me look like Russian mob
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millionaire pure gangster
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is that true yeah but still it's done in
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a very particular way so that when girls
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look at my page they go who the [ __ ] is
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like where is he getting all these
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where's he getting this why is he there
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I'm tagging all these weird locations
542
00:17:45,120 --> 00:17:46,380
what's he doing
543
00:17:46,380 --> 00:17:49,919
and also there's a very fine line here
544
00:17:49,919 --> 00:17:51,539
you've got to be careful but I have
545
00:17:51,539 --> 00:17:53,700
girls on my Instagram page because I'm
546
00:17:53,700 --> 00:17:54,840
telling you this
547
00:17:54,840 --> 00:17:57,000
no girl wants to [ __ ] the guy that
548
00:17:57,000 --> 00:17:58,919
doesn't get girls they all want to [ __ ]
549
00:17:58,919 --> 00:18:00,360
the guy that other girls want to [ __ ]
550
00:18:00,360 --> 00:18:02,940
because women are purely [ __ ] evil
551
00:18:02,940 --> 00:18:04,440
when it comes to taking a guy off other
552
00:18:04,440 --> 00:18:06,600
dudes a guy a guy off other chicks they
553
00:18:06,600 --> 00:18:08,460
love that [ __ ] so you don't want to do
554
00:18:08,460 --> 00:18:10,020
too much you don't want to try and be
555
00:18:10,020 --> 00:18:12,059
like a budget Dan Bilzerian but you do
556
00:18:12,059 --> 00:18:13,380
want to make it clear that you roll with
557
00:18:13,380 --> 00:18:16,440
chicks especially hot ones even if she's
558
00:18:16,440 --> 00:18:18,360
your friend or some [ __ ] put a picture
559
00:18:18,360 --> 00:18:20,640
on there ain't gonna hurt you who's she
560
00:18:20,640 --> 00:18:23,520
oh someone I know once again Intrigue
561
00:18:23,520 --> 00:18:25,200
your girlfriend I didn't say she's my
562
00:18:25,200 --> 00:18:27,360
girlfriend it says someone I know
563
00:18:27,360 --> 00:18:31,500
oh okay lay it down let them know like I
564
00:18:31,500 --> 00:18:32,640
said this is a lot of talking so you
565
00:18:32,640 --> 00:18:33,900
have a pen and paper make some [ __ ]
566
00:18:33,900 --> 00:18:36,120
notes find a girl take a picture get
567
00:18:36,120 --> 00:18:38,220
that [ __ ] done your Instagram page has
568
00:18:38,220 --> 00:18:40,620
to be interesting you have maybe half a
569
00:18:40,620 --> 00:18:41,400
second
570
00:18:41,400 --> 00:18:43,919
send an inbox to a girl she's going to
571
00:18:43,919 --> 00:18:46,140
look at your page you have maybe half a
572
00:18:46,140 --> 00:18:47,640
second to impress her
573
00:18:47,640 --> 00:18:49,559
for me it's easy now about cars and [ __ ]
574
00:18:49,559 --> 00:18:51,539
but you know what girls even care about
575
00:18:51,539 --> 00:18:54,179
cars bro girls don't give a [ __ ] they
576
00:18:54,179 --> 00:18:55,919
don't care about Lambos and [ __ ] the
577
00:18:55,919 --> 00:18:57,000
number of times I've had girls go
578
00:18:57,000 --> 00:18:58,440
lambo's uncomfortable come get me into
579
00:18:58,440 --> 00:18:59,580
BMW
580
00:18:59,580 --> 00:19:02,039
they don't care I mean yeah it's good
581
00:19:02,039 --> 00:19:03,240
for an Instagram page but in general
582
00:19:03,240 --> 00:19:04,919
they don't care so you need to put
583
00:19:04,919 --> 00:19:06,419
together an Instagram
584
00:19:06,419 --> 00:19:08,760
which is appealing to females
585
00:19:08,760 --> 00:19:11,039
you're a full-grown [ __ ] man if
586
00:19:11,039 --> 00:19:12,240
you're a full-grown man you don't care
587
00:19:12,240 --> 00:19:14,100
about likes and you don't care about
588
00:19:14,100 --> 00:19:16,679
keeping your Instagram updated so if you
589
00:19:16,679 --> 00:19:19,500
only have your five or six best pictures
590
00:19:19,500 --> 00:19:22,500
and that's all you have there do that
591
00:19:22,500 --> 00:19:25,260
don't keep updating every day with new
592
00:19:25,260 --> 00:19:27,179
pictures of you and your friend drunk
593
00:19:27,179 --> 00:19:29,520
because no one gives a [ __ ] bro no one
594
00:19:29,520 --> 00:19:31,020
cares and it's making you look a dick
595
00:19:31,020 --> 00:19:33,140
and it's damaging your [ __ ] potential
596
00:19:33,140 --> 00:19:35,760
construct an Instagram front page
597
00:19:35,760 --> 00:19:38,039
because I ain't gonna scroll down first
598
00:19:38,039 --> 00:19:40,559
five or six pictures that make a girl be
599
00:19:40,559 --> 00:19:43,980
interested in you one way or another
600
00:19:43,980 --> 00:19:45,120
I don't care if you guys get protection
601
00:19:45,120 --> 00:19:47,039
professional photographer I don't care
602
00:19:47,039 --> 00:19:48,720
if you have to rent a car I don't care
603
00:19:48,720 --> 00:19:49,799
if you have to [ __ ] I don't care what
604
00:19:49,799 --> 00:19:51,600
lie you have to tell I don't give a [ __ ]
605
00:19:51,600 --> 00:19:54,059
you should know look at my Instagram put
606
00:19:54,059 --> 00:19:55,500
something together that is interesting
607
00:19:55,500 --> 00:19:57,360
I've used the money angle if you haven't
608
00:19:57,360 --> 00:19:59,340
got the money angle you know what chicks
609
00:19:59,340 --> 00:20:02,700
love travel do the travel angle [ __ ]
610
00:20:02,700 --> 00:20:04,320
right now book something go on holiday
611
00:20:04,320 --> 00:20:06,120
spend two days taking loads of photos
612
00:20:06,120 --> 00:20:07,980
next to rocks and oceans and [ __ ]
613
00:20:07,980 --> 00:20:09,960
and do the travel angle that's that's
614
00:20:09,960 --> 00:20:12,419
cheap and then Bang You're a traveling
615
00:20:12,419 --> 00:20:13,740
guy or girls like travel it's
616
00:20:13,740 --> 00:20:14,880
interesting to them because they all
617
00:20:14,880 --> 00:20:16,380
want to [ __ ] travel for free because
618
00:20:16,380 --> 00:20:18,660
they're all scared so
619
00:20:18,660 --> 00:20:20,160
put an Instagram page together that's
620
00:20:20,160 --> 00:20:22,620
interesting and don't update it all the
621
00:20:22,620 --> 00:20:24,299
time with shitty photos do not update
622
00:20:24,299 --> 00:20:25,799
your Instagram very often if you haven't
623
00:20:25,799 --> 00:20:27,780
got amazing things to put on there that
624
00:20:27,780 --> 00:20:30,240
is your [ __ ] shop window that's your
625
00:20:30,240 --> 00:20:32,100
portal to the chicks you can inbox a
626
00:20:32,100 --> 00:20:33,000
chick that's the first thing you're
627
00:20:33,000 --> 00:20:34,919
gonna look at that's all you've got do
628
00:20:34,919 --> 00:20:36,000
not give a [ __ ] about keeping people
629
00:20:36,000 --> 00:20:37,260
updated with your life because no one
630
00:20:37,260 --> 00:20:38,700
[ __ ] cares about your [ __ ] life
631
00:20:38,700 --> 00:20:42,660
anyway this is the absolute hard reality
632
00:20:42,660 --> 00:20:44,400
another thing you don't want to do if
633
00:20:44,400 --> 00:20:45,840
you look on my Instagram there's a
634
00:20:45,840 --> 00:20:47,340
picture of me with four guys who love
635
00:20:47,340 --> 00:20:48,539
the jacket before we do some work in
636
00:20:48,539 --> 00:20:50,460
London we're clearly Russian mob so
637
00:20:50,460 --> 00:20:51,419
that's a lot
638
00:20:51,419 --> 00:20:53,220
if you're clearly Mafia or you're
639
00:20:53,220 --> 00:20:55,380
looking like a g you're allowed but in
640
00:20:55,380 --> 00:20:58,740
general groups of pictures of men
641
00:20:58,740 --> 00:21:00,960
are no I'm telling you some solid no-nos
642
00:21:00,960 --> 00:21:03,320
for Instagram
643
00:21:03,900 --> 00:21:06,740
because
644
00:21:07,020 --> 00:21:08,760
living in the animal kingdom is always
645
00:21:08,760 --> 00:21:11,100
little shitty weak animals that are in
646
00:21:11,100 --> 00:21:14,160
huge groups pray like [ __ ] Buffalo
647
00:21:14,160 --> 00:21:15,720
whatever even though they're strong the
648
00:21:15,720 --> 00:21:17,160
prey the things that get hunted are
649
00:21:17,160 --> 00:21:18,900
always in big groups the hunters are
650
00:21:18,900 --> 00:21:20,160
like one or two
651
00:21:20,160 --> 00:21:23,340
Hunters are like lone soldiers you don't
652
00:21:23,340 --> 00:21:25,380
see [ __ ] 20 hungers together if you
653
00:21:25,380 --> 00:21:27,000
think you and all your 20 friends are
654
00:21:27,000 --> 00:21:29,640
cool with your beers 20 guy oh picture
655
00:21:29,640 --> 00:21:32,159
no one gives a [ __ ] and if a girl looks
656
00:21:32,159 --> 00:21:33,659
at she's not gonna know which one is you
657
00:21:33,659 --> 00:21:36,179
and instinctively she's going to think
658
00:21:36,179 --> 00:21:39,840
Baya loser you on your own or you and
659
00:21:39,840 --> 00:21:42,419
someone else two guys three guys Max
660
00:21:42,419 --> 00:21:44,640
bang I'm a G you don't even have [ __ ]
661
00:21:44,640 --> 00:21:46,679
big groups of things next thing do not
662
00:21:46,679 --> 00:21:47,940
put any pictures of you with your mouth
663
00:21:47,940 --> 00:21:50,580
open that soy face [ __ ] is taking over
664
00:21:50,580 --> 00:21:52,080
the world you know when everyone guys
665
00:21:52,080 --> 00:21:53,520
are uncomfortable In Their Skin So they
666
00:21:53,520 --> 00:21:55,020
take a picture and they go like
667
00:21:55,020 --> 00:21:57,179
or some [ __ ] there's that's been
668
00:21:57,179 --> 00:21:58,919
scientifically proven in primates
669
00:21:58,919 --> 00:22:02,159
monkeys they they open their mouth as a
670
00:22:02,159 --> 00:22:04,320
sign of submission primates who draw our
671
00:22:04,320 --> 00:22:06,299
closest cousin when the alpha male
672
00:22:06,299 --> 00:22:08,280
monkey turns up he's got pissed off face
673
00:22:08,280 --> 00:22:10,140
and the other monkeys when they see him
674
00:22:10,140 --> 00:22:12,480
they kind of Go and show their t as
675
00:22:12,480 --> 00:22:14,100
saying like it's a submission thing like
676
00:22:14,100 --> 00:22:16,080
don't hurt me and nowadays if you look
677
00:22:16,080 --> 00:22:18,539
at [ __ ] a Democrat or a liberal or
678
00:22:18,539 --> 00:22:20,400
something doesn't support Trump all of
679
00:22:20,400 --> 00:22:21,539
their pictures they've got their [ __ ]
680
00:22:21,539 --> 00:22:23,580
mouth open the reason they do that is
681
00:22:23,580 --> 00:22:26,580
instinctually it's a submissive sign
682
00:22:26,580 --> 00:22:28,679
please the world don't hurt me and women
683
00:22:28,679 --> 00:22:31,799
detect that [ __ ] and it's not
684
00:22:31,799 --> 00:22:34,020
it's not attractive in any way get rid
685
00:22:34,020 --> 00:22:35,520
of that [ __ ] look about your business
686
00:22:35,520 --> 00:22:37,080
you're a full-grown [ __ ] man you're
687
00:22:37,080 --> 00:22:38,280
gonna look pissed off don't look about
688
00:22:38,280 --> 00:22:39,360
your business look like you know what
689
00:22:39,360 --> 00:22:40,620
you're doing like you know where you're
690
00:22:40,620 --> 00:22:41,580
going like you're doing something
691
00:22:41,580 --> 00:22:43,679
worthwhile nobody is doing anything
692
00:22:43,679 --> 00:22:46,200
worthwhile going like this
693
00:22:46,200 --> 00:22:47,580
it's [ __ ] girls don't want to see
694
00:22:47,580 --> 00:22:48,960
you [ __ ] happy having a great time
695
00:22:48,960 --> 00:22:50,400
laughing you're not five years old
696
00:22:50,400 --> 00:22:52,559
you're a [ __ ] full-grown man looking
697
00:22:52,559 --> 00:22:53,820
for a man's gonna take care of her
698
00:22:53,820 --> 00:22:56,100
looking for a [ __ ] serious G so put
699
00:22:56,100 --> 00:22:57,539
that [ __ ] together build an Instagram
700
00:22:57,539 --> 00:22:59,700
page even if you can only get five good
701
00:22:59,700 --> 00:23:01,740
photos that's enough never update again
702
00:23:01,740 --> 00:23:03,539
because girls don't check when the vote
703
00:23:03,539 --> 00:23:05,400
was posted you think a girl sees a good
704
00:23:05,400 --> 00:23:06,659
picture and goes
705
00:23:06,659 --> 00:23:08,520
oh that was posted six months ago they
706
00:23:08,520 --> 00:23:10,320
don't give a [ __ ] they look on your
707
00:23:10,320 --> 00:23:12,120
[ __ ] page oh okay I'll reply to him
708
00:23:12,120 --> 00:23:15,000
don't get a good couple good pictures
709
00:23:15,000 --> 00:23:18,240
that's that next stage what do you inbox
710
00:23:18,240 --> 00:23:19,919
the woman that makes you different from
711
00:23:19,919 --> 00:23:22,020
everyone else now everyone watching this
712
00:23:22,020 --> 00:23:24,179
I'm sure you've already inboxed loads of
713
00:23:24,179 --> 00:23:26,100
girls on Instagram I don't know what you
714
00:23:26,100 --> 00:23:27,179
particularly said
715
00:23:27,179 --> 00:23:29,039
I'll tell you what I will say and I'll
716
00:23:29,039 --> 00:23:32,520
give you screenshot examples so
717
00:23:32,520 --> 00:23:36,059
a lot of men say hey how are you
718
00:23:36,059 --> 00:23:37,860
hey how are you [ __ ] she doesn't even
719
00:23:37,860 --> 00:23:39,780
know who the [ __ ] you are why would she
720
00:23:39,780 --> 00:23:41,640
give a [ __ ] about telling you how she is
721
00:23:41,640 --> 00:23:43,919
she knows you don't care you don't care
722
00:23:43,919 --> 00:23:46,860
and she gets that 30 times a day so she
723
00:23:46,860 --> 00:23:48,720
doesn't care that's a bad idea
724
00:23:48,720 --> 00:23:51,539
you are beautiful isn't bad but it
725
00:23:51,539 --> 00:23:52,980
leaves you open for loads of [ __ ]
726
00:23:52,980 --> 00:23:55,500
testing leaves you open for I know or
727
00:23:55,500 --> 00:23:59,280
LOL or some kind of sarcastic [ __ ] that
728
00:23:59,280 --> 00:24:00,840
they reply to you that makes you look
729
00:24:00,840 --> 00:24:02,220
like a dick and you gotta instantly
730
00:24:02,220 --> 00:24:04,559
fight to prove your manhood my message
731
00:24:04,559 --> 00:24:06,240
will go you're beautiful and so go I've
732
00:24:06,240 --> 00:24:08,700
had it like before LOL
733
00:24:08,700 --> 00:24:10,559
as in laughing and they're like what's
734
00:24:10,559 --> 00:24:12,419
funny and then they can ignore you then
735
00:24:12,419 --> 00:24:13,620
you look a [ __ ] you're a beautiful
736
00:24:13,620 --> 00:24:15,659
LOL what's up and then you get blanked
737
00:24:15,659 --> 00:24:16,980
you've got to be careful how you set
738
00:24:16,980 --> 00:24:18,120
this [ __ ] up because women are looking
739
00:24:18,120 --> 00:24:19,440
to [ __ ] test you as soon as they can
740
00:24:19,440 --> 00:24:21,179
women are looking to turn on you and
741
00:24:21,179 --> 00:24:23,100
give you some [ __ ] to see how you react
742
00:24:23,100 --> 00:24:25,140
to them straight away so in my
743
00:24:25,140 --> 00:24:26,820
experience what I find
744
00:24:26,820 --> 00:24:29,159
raises intrigue
745
00:24:29,159 --> 00:24:31,980
it inspires them to respond and also
746
00:24:31,980 --> 00:24:33,720
makes it extremely difficult for them to
747
00:24:33,720 --> 00:24:36,780
[ __ ] test me is I ask where they are so
748
00:24:36,780 --> 00:24:38,280
what I do and you're gonna see a
749
00:24:38,280 --> 00:24:39,659
screenshot in a second
750
00:24:39,659 --> 00:24:41,400
I live in Bucharest Romania but it
751
00:24:41,400 --> 00:24:42,299
doesn't matter if I'm in London
752
00:24:42,299 --> 00:24:44,760
Bucharest Moscow anywhere I am I just
753
00:24:44,760 --> 00:24:45,659
say
754
00:24:45,659 --> 00:24:48,120
Bucharest question mark or a Moscow
755
00:24:48,120 --> 00:24:50,159
question mark or London question mark
756
00:24:50,159 --> 00:24:53,280
sometimes because like I said Intrigue
757
00:24:53,280 --> 00:24:55,919
I'll put a completely pointless emoji on
758
00:24:55,919 --> 00:24:56,820
the end
759
00:24:56,820 --> 00:24:59,520
some cherries or an orange or a
760
00:24:59,520 --> 00:25:01,140
strawberry because it doesn't mean
761
00:25:01,140 --> 00:25:02,100
anything
762
00:25:02,100 --> 00:25:03,360
so the girl's sitting there she's
763
00:25:03,360 --> 00:25:04,559
scrolling through how are you you're
764
00:25:04,559 --> 00:25:06,360
sexy how are you you're sexy how are you
765
00:25:06,360 --> 00:25:09,900
sexy Bucharest strawberry [ __ ] yeah I am
766
00:25:09,900 --> 00:25:11,520
in Bucharest then they start to think
767
00:25:11,520 --> 00:25:13,500
why does he want to know where I am like
768
00:25:13,500 --> 00:25:15,600
does he want to [ __ ] me does he has he
769
00:25:15,600 --> 00:25:17,280
seen me does he have something of
770
00:25:17,280 --> 00:25:19,320
interest for me and they usually reply
771
00:25:19,320 --> 00:25:21,360
yeah why or yeah
772
00:25:21,360 --> 00:25:22,919
because they're interested they're like
773
00:25:22,919 --> 00:25:24,059
well what the [ __ ] what does he want to
774
00:25:24,059 --> 00:25:25,260
know for
775
00:25:25,260 --> 00:25:27,120
so that that's how you get the instant
776
00:25:27,120 --> 00:25:29,039
response in my experience I've done a
777
00:25:29,039 --> 00:25:31,080
lot like I said about PhD
778
00:25:31,080 --> 00:25:33,059
bought this course for a [ __ ] reason
779
00:25:33,059 --> 00:25:35,400
I know what to do in my experience it's
780
00:25:35,400 --> 00:25:37,020
the best message to send of course not
781
00:25:37,020 --> 00:25:39,120
every girl's gonna reply but the ones
782
00:25:39,120 --> 00:25:41,220
who do you've already from the first
783
00:25:41,220 --> 00:25:43,679
question raise some kind of intrigue
784
00:25:43,679 --> 00:25:44,940
because they want to know why you want
785
00:25:44,940 --> 00:25:46,559
to talk to them they're a bit like um
786
00:25:46,559 --> 00:25:48,419
that's interesting so we're going to
787
00:25:48,419 --> 00:25:50,220
play through an example here of a girl
788
00:25:50,220 --> 00:25:51,900
I'm going to look at my phone or the
789
00:25:51,900 --> 00:25:53,220
graphics up in the video because we're
790
00:25:53,220 --> 00:25:56,400
[ __ ] professionals me my boy James
791
00:25:56,400 --> 00:25:57,840
James so
792
00:25:57,840 --> 00:26:01,260
here's a very perfect example
793
00:26:01,260 --> 00:26:06,240
chick a nine Paul Bucharest hey yes
794
00:26:06,240 --> 00:26:09,659
my reply why do I never see you where
795
00:26:09,659 --> 00:26:11,159
are you hiding
796
00:26:11,159 --> 00:26:12,480
that's my reply
797
00:26:12,480 --> 00:26:14,400
because once again
798
00:26:14,400 --> 00:26:16,980
it's it's some Intrigue it's an easy
799
00:26:16,980 --> 00:26:19,260
women like easy conversation what women
800
00:26:19,260 --> 00:26:21,419
don't want to do for a guy they don't
801
00:26:21,419 --> 00:26:24,120
know and have never met is think
802
00:26:24,120 --> 00:26:25,679
if a woman has to sit there and go what
803
00:26:25,679 --> 00:26:26,820
do I reply
804
00:26:26,820 --> 00:26:28,559
they ain't going to reply if a woman
805
00:26:28,559 --> 00:26:30,120
looks at her phone and if she hasn't got
806
00:26:30,120 --> 00:26:32,400
something instantly she wants to say she
807
00:26:32,400 --> 00:26:33,900
ain't gonna say anything because she has
808
00:26:33,900 --> 00:26:36,059
so many messages a day as a woman that
809
00:26:36,059 --> 00:26:37,740
if you don't get inspired to instantly
810
00:26:37,740 --> 00:26:38,820
type something back you're not going to
811
00:26:38,820 --> 00:26:40,500
type anything so if you just say
812
00:26:40,500 --> 00:26:41,820
something boring go look at it and leave
813
00:26:41,820 --> 00:26:43,559
you on red you've got to write something
814
00:26:43,559 --> 00:26:45,299
that makes them instantly reply so I
815
00:26:45,299 --> 00:26:46,740
said why do I never see you where are
816
00:26:46,740 --> 00:26:47,640
you hiding
817
00:26:47,640 --> 00:26:49,200
and the reason I say that in a very
818
00:26:49,200 --> 00:26:50,340
particular way is because it's extremely
819
00:26:50,340 --> 00:26:53,159
easy for them 99 of them say I'm not
820
00:26:53,159 --> 00:26:55,080
hiding that's what nearly every one of
821
00:26:55,080 --> 00:26:57,960
them says I'm not hiding all of them
822
00:26:57,960 --> 00:27:00,419
what did this [ __ ] say let me check
823
00:27:00,419 --> 00:27:02,580
I'm not high oh no she actually this
824
00:27:02,580 --> 00:27:04,799
[ __ ] said she was hiding so there we go
825
00:27:04,799 --> 00:27:07,620
I'm hiding in work right now don't have
826
00:27:07,620 --> 00:27:09,539
much free time also note is I put
827
00:27:09,539 --> 00:27:11,100
cherries on there when I said why where
828
00:27:11,100 --> 00:27:13,200
are you hiding why did I put cherries
829
00:27:13,200 --> 00:27:15,240
who the [ __ ] knows your guess is as good
830
00:27:15,240 --> 00:27:16,919
as mine friend it just makes my messages
831
00:27:16,919 --> 00:27:18,360
different because no one gets messages
832
00:27:18,360 --> 00:27:19,919
with cherries
833
00:27:19,919 --> 00:27:21,419
if you [ __ ] start putting
834
00:27:21,419 --> 00:27:22,380
cherries and your messages and I'll come
835
00:27:22,380 --> 00:27:24,120
over and beat the [ __ ] out of you It's
836
00:27:24,120 --> 00:27:26,100
My Thing choose a different fruit
837
00:27:26,100 --> 00:27:28,200
anyway they don't get messages with
838
00:27:28,200 --> 00:27:30,419
cherries so it's like the [ __ ] cherries
839
00:27:30,419 --> 00:27:32,100
when girls say to me why do you put
840
00:27:32,100 --> 00:27:33,900
cherries on the messages I I always say
841
00:27:33,900 --> 00:27:36,179
who doesn't like cherries
842
00:27:36,179 --> 00:27:37,980
and they're like LOL true
843
00:27:37,980 --> 00:27:39,179
so that's how you get out the Cherry
844
00:27:39,179 --> 00:27:40,500
thing so if you choose strawberries and
845
00:27:40,500 --> 00:27:41,700
a [ __ ] gets fresh over the strawberries
846
00:27:41,700 --> 00:27:42,659
you can say well who doesn't like
847
00:27:42,659 --> 00:27:43,799
strawberries [ __ ] with the [ __ ]
848
00:27:43,799 --> 00:27:46,500
strawberries are good calm yourself down
849
00:27:46,500 --> 00:27:48,779
so that's what that is I'm hiding work
850
00:27:48,779 --> 00:27:50,580
right now I don't have much time
851
00:27:50,580 --> 00:27:53,760
I said what work do you do break Hearts
852
00:27:53,760 --> 00:27:56,100
what that's [ __ ] smoothly let's move
853
00:27:56,100 --> 00:27:58,620
that so what I'm doing there is giving
854
00:27:58,620 --> 00:28:00,840
her a compliment so there ain't no ugly
855
00:28:00,840 --> 00:28:01,919
[ __ ] out there who are breaking
856
00:28:01,919 --> 00:28:04,320
hearts only hot girls break Hearts so
857
00:28:04,320 --> 00:28:05,640
what I'm basically saying is your heart
858
00:28:05,640 --> 00:28:08,159
but I'm saying in a Smooth Operator kind
859
00:28:08,159 --> 00:28:10,260
of way because I'm a [ __ ] G
860
00:28:10,260 --> 00:28:12,299
so what do you do for work break Hearts
861
00:28:12,299 --> 00:28:14,400
I say that because it's a compliment she
862
00:28:14,400 --> 00:28:16,980
replies I do that in my free time smiley
863
00:28:16,980 --> 00:28:17,760
face
864
00:28:17,760 --> 00:28:21,000
and I put for fun and then I would say
865
00:28:21,000 --> 00:28:23,279
good thing I'm strong I'm not afraid so
866
00:28:23,279 --> 00:28:24,539
once again I'm establishing some
867
00:28:24,539 --> 00:28:25,679
dominance there I've given her a
868
00:28:25,679 --> 00:28:27,480
compliment but I'm also letting her know
869
00:28:27,480 --> 00:28:30,120
I'm the [ __ ] like I said everyone has
870
00:28:30,120 --> 00:28:31,559
to have their own unique style I'm not
871
00:28:31,559 --> 00:28:33,600
saying to say exactly what I say what
872
00:28:33,600 --> 00:28:35,100
I'm trying to explain to you is why I do
873
00:28:35,100 --> 00:28:36,360
it I put the cherries because it makes
874
00:28:36,360 --> 00:28:38,279
my messages unique I ask where they are
875
00:28:38,279 --> 00:28:39,480
that's the one thing I would recommend
876
00:28:39,480 --> 00:28:41,580
everyone start with if you want to [ __ ]
877
00:28:41,580 --> 00:28:42,720
a girl and you're in [ __ ] Grand
878
00:28:42,720 --> 00:28:45,059
Rapids Michigan go on Instagram type in
879
00:28:45,059 --> 00:28:46,919
Grand Rapids Michigan see some dick Head
880
00:28:46,919 --> 00:28:48,360
Hoes who have tagged themselves and
881
00:28:48,360 --> 00:28:49,620
messaged them and say Grand Rapids
882
00:28:49,620 --> 00:28:51,900
question mark and go why just say oh I
883
00:28:51,900 --> 00:28:53,520
never see you around where you're hiding
884
00:28:53,520 --> 00:28:55,320
it's a good opener that's the opener you
885
00:28:55,320 --> 00:28:56,580
can take but the rest of it has to be
886
00:28:56,580 --> 00:28:58,679
you you can't pretend to be anyone other
887
00:28:58,679 --> 00:29:00,900
than yourself impersonating someone else
888
00:29:00,900 --> 00:29:02,279
is not going to work in the long term
889
00:29:02,279 --> 00:29:04,260
however
890
00:29:04,260 --> 00:29:05,640
you gotta be yourself you gotta be
891
00:29:05,640 --> 00:29:07,260
yourself in the right way you can't just
892
00:29:07,260 --> 00:29:08,640
you've got to put things in the right
893
00:29:08,640 --> 00:29:10,260
angle so I'm explaining why I do what I
894
00:29:10,260 --> 00:29:12,000
do and you need to listen to this
895
00:29:12,000 --> 00:29:14,520
understand why I'm doing what I do and
896
00:29:14,520 --> 00:29:16,740
apply it to your own style don't copy me
897
00:29:16,740 --> 00:29:19,260
word for [ __ ] word
898
00:29:19,260 --> 00:29:21,539
she says a good thing I'm strong I'm not
899
00:29:21,539 --> 00:29:23,460
afraid she goes I'm just kidding I'm not
900
00:29:23,460 --> 00:29:25,440
that bad to break hearts
901
00:29:25,440 --> 00:29:27,360
then what did I say
902
00:29:27,360 --> 00:29:30,120
then then I asked her how old she was
903
00:29:30,120 --> 00:29:32,880
I always ask how old they are
904
00:29:32,880 --> 00:29:34,440
I don't know why it's something they
905
00:29:34,440 --> 00:29:36,120
always seem to reply to
906
00:29:36,120 --> 00:29:38,279
no matter what they say
907
00:29:38,279 --> 00:29:40,559
whether it's 30 or [ __ ] and unless
908
00:29:40,559 --> 00:29:42,840
they're really young if they're above 20
909
00:29:42,840 --> 00:29:44,580
between the age of 20 and 30. if they're
910
00:29:44,580 --> 00:29:46,020
a teenager I usually say oh you're young
911
00:29:46,020 --> 00:29:47,760
I'm an old man but if they're like
912
00:29:47,760 --> 00:29:50,220
whatever her age was
913
00:29:50,220 --> 00:29:53,340
screenshots properly I say that's a good
914
00:29:53,340 --> 00:29:54,960
age you're old enough to have fun yet
915
00:29:54,960 --> 00:29:56,580
young enough to be smart sorry young
916
00:29:56,580 --> 00:29:58,020
enough to have fun but old enough to be
917
00:29:58,020 --> 00:29:59,820
smart I always say that girls like that
918
00:29:59,820 --> 00:30:00,899
line because it makes them sound like
919
00:30:00,899 --> 00:30:03,059
well yeah I'm 23 I'm old enough to be
920
00:30:03,059 --> 00:30:04,260
smart but young enough to have fun you
921
00:30:04,260 --> 00:30:06,120
ain't smart but you know
922
00:30:06,120 --> 00:30:07,500
they like that [ __ ]
923
00:30:07,500 --> 00:30:10,200
and I say I'm a very old man I'm 30.
924
00:30:10,200 --> 00:30:11,640
because yes I would like to stay forever
925
00:30:11,640 --> 00:30:13,380
at this age now remember what I said
926
00:30:13,380 --> 00:30:14,640
earlier about 20 minutes ago in this
927
00:30:14,640 --> 00:30:16,500
video we are always aiming for
928
00:30:16,500 --> 00:30:18,419
progression
929
00:30:18,419 --> 00:30:21,059
this girl is now getting my attention so
930
00:30:21,059 --> 00:30:22,799
far this exchange has happened just
931
00:30:22,799 --> 00:30:24,120
about a minute minute and a half long
932
00:30:24,120 --> 00:30:26,340
because once again with women they get
933
00:30:26,340 --> 00:30:28,320
bored quick if I don't reply to her
934
00:30:28,320 --> 00:30:29,640
quickly if I leave her for a couple
935
00:30:29,640 --> 00:30:30,960
hours then try and message her again
936
00:30:30,960 --> 00:30:34,320
she's gonna oh she's forgot about me she
937
00:30:34,320 --> 00:30:35,460
looked at my Instagram an hour and a
938
00:30:35,460 --> 00:30:36,899
half ago she was a little bit intrigued
939
00:30:36,899 --> 00:30:39,059
now she's had six messages since from
940
00:30:39,059 --> 00:30:40,620
new guys and she's forgotten all about
941
00:30:40,620 --> 00:30:41,399
me
942
00:30:41,399 --> 00:30:44,539
so progression what am I aiming to do
943
00:30:44,539 --> 00:30:46,799
from the what's the Instagram
944
00:30:46,799 --> 00:30:48,960
conversation what's the progression the
945
00:30:48,960 --> 00:30:50,220
progression is because we're always
946
00:30:50,220 --> 00:30:52,919
giving our attention in in in exchange
947
00:30:52,919 --> 00:30:55,080
to progress up the ladder and use my
948
00:30:55,080 --> 00:30:56,100
[ __ ] whiteboard even though I don't
949
00:30:56,100 --> 00:30:57,419
have a green marker you can barely see
950
00:30:57,419 --> 00:30:59,340
I'm going to use it
951
00:30:59,340 --> 00:31:01,559
we're progressing we're starting here
952
00:31:01,559 --> 00:31:03,419
with all the other [ __ ] munchers I don't
953
00:31:03,419 --> 00:31:05,220
know if you can see that here's where we
954
00:31:05,220 --> 00:31:07,260
want to be at the at the top because
955
00:31:07,260 --> 00:31:08,700
with the [ __ ] munchers there's lots of
956
00:31:08,700 --> 00:31:11,340
people at the top with their tees there
957
00:31:11,340 --> 00:31:14,340
should be only one man you so you want
958
00:31:14,340 --> 00:31:16,320
to get higher up as you get higher up
959
00:31:16,320 --> 00:31:18,840
there's less and less [ __ ] munchers
960
00:31:18,840 --> 00:31:20,940
hope that makes sense so on her
961
00:31:20,940 --> 00:31:22,200
Instagram
962
00:31:22,200 --> 00:31:25,020
anyone can message her there's loads and
963
00:31:25,020 --> 00:31:26,340
loads and loads of guys
964
00:31:26,340 --> 00:31:28,140
so what we're aiming to do out of the
965
00:31:28,140 --> 00:31:29,580
Instagram conversation is get her
966
00:31:29,580 --> 00:31:31,679
WhatsApp or get her phone number
967
00:31:31,679 --> 00:31:32,880
now you're thinking what's the
968
00:31:32,880 --> 00:31:33,840
difference between messaging her on
969
00:31:33,840 --> 00:31:36,480
Instagram and messaging on her phone the
970
00:31:36,480 --> 00:31:38,640
big difference is everyone can message
971
00:31:38,640 --> 00:31:40,679
on Instagram whereas only a few people
972
00:31:40,679 --> 00:31:42,480
can message her on her phone because not
973
00:31:42,480 --> 00:31:43,860
everyone has a [ __ ] phone number you
974
00:31:43,860 --> 00:31:46,440
dumb [ __ ] so by getting her phone number
975
00:31:46,440 --> 00:31:49,020
we are progressing up and slowly
976
00:31:49,020 --> 00:31:51,899
limiting it to the number one dude at
977
00:31:51,899 --> 00:31:53,880
the top which is you so when you move
978
00:31:53,880 --> 00:31:55,860
from Instagram to phone number you cut
979
00:31:55,860 --> 00:31:57,659
it down from the entire world being able
980
00:31:57,659 --> 00:31:59,700
to message her down to about 100 people
981
00:31:59,700 --> 00:32:02,580
perhaps that's a big jump that is the
982
00:32:02,580 --> 00:32:03,980
aim of the Instagram conversation
983
00:32:03,980 --> 00:32:06,600
progression from the phone number we go
984
00:32:06,600 --> 00:32:08,159
on to the next stage to the next stage
985
00:32:08,159 --> 00:32:10,380
then eventually you end up with titties
986
00:32:10,380 --> 00:32:12,899
that's how it works so that's what we're
987
00:32:12,899 --> 00:32:14,039
trying to do in this conversation here
988
00:32:14,039 --> 00:32:15,600
is get her phone number
989
00:32:15,600 --> 00:32:17,520
so where were we
990
00:32:17,520 --> 00:32:19,799
that's a good age
991
00:32:19,799 --> 00:32:21,960
old enough uh to be smart and young
992
00:32:21,960 --> 00:32:23,399
enough to have fun
993
00:32:23,399 --> 00:32:25,980
I said I'm a very old man I'm 30.
994
00:32:25,980 --> 00:32:28,799
women like age women like you to be
995
00:32:28,799 --> 00:32:30,539
older than them so do not be afraid to
996
00:32:30,539 --> 00:32:32,039
say your age
997
00:32:32,039 --> 00:32:34,020
uh she goes yes I'd like to stay forever
998
00:32:34,020 --> 00:32:35,820
at this age
999
00:32:35,820 --> 00:32:37,260
time to make a joke because I'm so funny
1000
00:32:37,260 --> 00:32:40,080
I said I can make you immortal Jesus Is
1001
00:32:40,080 --> 00:32:43,399
My Friend I'll WhatsApp him
1002
00:32:43,559 --> 00:32:45,779
she put loads of laughing faces she goes
1003
00:32:45,779 --> 00:32:47,399
if he doesn't respond I'll give you his
1004
00:32:47,399 --> 00:32:51,139
Instagram because he likes all my posts
1005
00:32:52,380 --> 00:32:54,480
and I put I bet he does because you're
1006
00:32:54,480 --> 00:32:56,760
beautiful and he's a pervert tunnel face
1007
00:32:56,760 --> 00:32:58,799
so that's the second compliment I've
1008
00:32:58,799 --> 00:33:00,480
given her so she already thinks I'm
1009
00:33:00,480 --> 00:33:01,980
funny she's had a couple compliments
1010
00:33:01,980 --> 00:33:03,480
she's scrolled through my Instagram page
1011
00:33:03,480 --> 00:33:05,039
by now she's talking to me this is about
1012
00:33:05,039 --> 00:33:06,419
two minutes in
1013
00:33:06,419 --> 00:33:08,340
two minutes that's all we I spent two
1014
00:33:08,340 --> 00:33:10,320
minutes of time on this girl and what do
1015
00:33:10,320 --> 00:33:12,659
I do she goes after I said she's
1016
00:33:12,659 --> 00:33:14,700
beautiful she goes well thank you next
1017
00:33:14,700 --> 00:33:17,340
thing I say WhatsApp question mark
1018
00:33:17,340 --> 00:33:19,679
straight to the point hello this is who
1019
00:33:19,679 --> 00:33:21,600
I am if you see my Instagram you're
1020
00:33:21,600 --> 00:33:24,240
beautiful hahaha I'm funny give me your
1021
00:33:24,240 --> 00:33:26,940
number we ain't [ __ ] around we ain't
1022
00:33:26,940 --> 00:33:29,940
playing no three days of messaging can I
1023
00:33:29,940 --> 00:33:31,980
have your number please like some
1024
00:33:31,980 --> 00:33:34,380
[ __ ] [ __ ] two minutes
1025
00:33:34,380 --> 00:33:36,600
two minutes of talk you've seen me
1026
00:33:36,600 --> 00:33:38,279
you're replying to me you know the Big G
1027
00:33:38,279 --> 00:33:40,980
is give me your number if at this point
1028
00:33:40,980 --> 00:33:43,320
she goes oh I prefer to talk on
1029
00:33:43,320 --> 00:33:45,779
Instagram you know what you do I'll tell
1030
00:33:45,779 --> 00:33:46,980
you what you do and you're gonna hear
1031
00:33:46,980 --> 00:33:48,240
this a lot this is a very important
1032
00:33:48,240 --> 00:33:50,519
pimping term you can write this down on
1033
00:33:50,519 --> 00:33:51,360
my board
1034
00:33:51,360 --> 00:33:52,919
if I can write this piece of paper so
1035
00:33:52,919 --> 00:33:54,720
you understand how important it is we're
1036
00:33:54,720 --> 00:33:57,179
going to use this A Lot F
1037
00:33:57,179 --> 00:33:58,860
d
1038
00:33:58,860 --> 00:34:01,519
B
1039
00:34:02,220 --> 00:34:04,200
which means
1040
00:34:04,200 --> 00:34:07,559
[ __ ] that [ __ ] FDB and she wants to
1041
00:34:07,559 --> 00:34:11,219
give you [ __ ] FDB what you do if she
1042
00:34:11,219 --> 00:34:12,418
goes I don't want to talk to you on
1043
00:34:12,418 --> 00:34:13,560
WhatsApp I'd rather talk to an Instagram
1044
00:34:13,560 --> 00:34:16,320
you don't reply you leave her ass on
1045
00:34:16,320 --> 00:34:20,520
scene ignore her FDB I've shown you who
1046
00:34:20,520 --> 00:34:22,080
I am I've spoken to you I proved I'm
1047
00:34:22,080 --> 00:34:23,339
[ __ ] funny if you're gonna give me
1048
00:34:23,339 --> 00:34:25,199
your [ __ ] phone number I'll talk to
1049
00:34:25,199 --> 00:34:27,540
someone else FDB
1050
00:34:27,540 --> 00:34:31,560
message a different girl because by not
1051
00:34:31,560 --> 00:34:33,119
giving you her phone number she's [ __ ]
1052
00:34:33,119 --> 00:34:35,280
testing you she's saying yeah I'll talk
1053
00:34:35,280 --> 00:34:36,599
to you but you don't deserve my number
1054
00:34:36,599 --> 00:34:38,520
and what you're doing by not replying is
1055
00:34:38,520 --> 00:34:39,960
saying I'll talk to someone else saying
1056
00:34:39,960 --> 00:34:41,940
[ __ ] you you can't say that to her
1057
00:34:41,940 --> 00:34:43,980
because if you say it then it shows
1058
00:34:43,980 --> 00:34:45,480
you're emotionally upset and if you get
1059
00:34:45,480 --> 00:34:46,918
upset and she wins because she's
1060
00:34:46,918 --> 00:34:48,899
emotionally affected you men cannot be
1061
00:34:48,899 --> 00:34:51,780
emotionally affected men are tired can't
1062
00:34:51,780 --> 00:34:53,520
affect us you just don't reply because
1063
00:34:53,520 --> 00:34:54,359
you don't care you don't give me your
1064
00:34:54,359 --> 00:34:55,619
number okay I don't care
1065
00:34:55,619 --> 00:34:58,560
do not reply and about 70 of the time
1066
00:34:58,560 --> 00:35:00,359
they'll still message you or say oh so
1067
00:35:00,359 --> 00:35:01,320
you don't want to talk to you don't get
1068
00:35:01,320 --> 00:35:03,540
my number or some [ __ ] they'll come back
1069
00:35:03,540 --> 00:35:05,040
at you and then you can play the game
1070
00:35:05,040 --> 00:35:06,720
again just say well anyone can message
1071
00:35:06,720 --> 00:35:08,580
you on Instagram I'm special so I want
1072
00:35:08,580 --> 00:35:10,380
to WhatsApp to be clear with your
1073
00:35:10,380 --> 00:35:11,400
intention
1074
00:35:11,400 --> 00:35:14,400
give you the number FDB
1075
00:35:14,400 --> 00:35:15,720
because you're doing it remember when
1076
00:35:15,720 --> 00:35:17,160
you're talking to girls like this you're
1077
00:35:17,160 --> 00:35:19,260
not messaging one girl at a time you can
1078
00:35:19,260 --> 00:35:21,780
say Bucharest or Grand Rapids or text
1079
00:35:21,780 --> 00:35:24,960
Houston or whatever to 100 girls you can
1080
00:35:24,960 --> 00:35:26,160
go on Instagram right now and message
1081
00:35:26,160 --> 00:35:27,780
100 girls because you're gonna be doing
1082
00:35:27,780 --> 00:35:29,579
loads of conversations at once so you're
1083
00:35:29,579 --> 00:35:30,839
only interested in the ones we're gonna
1084
00:35:30,839 --> 00:35:32,099
play ball they ain't going to play ball
1085
00:35:32,099 --> 00:35:34,079
and give you their number
1086
00:35:34,079 --> 00:35:38,160
FDB so in this particular case
1087
00:35:38,160 --> 00:35:40,859
we all know what happened
1088
00:35:40,859 --> 00:35:42,540
PhD
1089
00:35:42,540 --> 00:35:45,839
what's that yep smiley face
1090
00:35:45,839 --> 00:35:47,460
what's your number I'll put some
1091
00:35:47,460 --> 00:35:49,320
cherries on there because I'm a G bang
1092
00:35:49,320 --> 00:35:50,700
block out the phone number so many
1093
00:35:50,700 --> 00:35:51,900
[ __ ] will be thinking about my
1094
00:35:51,900 --> 00:35:54,060
student my love bang there's the number
1095
00:35:54,060 --> 00:35:57,480
progression we've moved from here to
1096
00:35:57,480 --> 00:35:58,800
here
1097
00:35:58,800 --> 00:36:01,020
this can happen
1098
00:36:01,020 --> 00:36:03,540
many many different ways I'll give you
1099
00:36:03,540 --> 00:36:04,920
another example it's another screenshot
1100
00:36:04,920 --> 00:36:07,040
example because this is what I do listen
1101
00:36:07,040 --> 00:36:10,260
I have too many girls but if I want some
1102
00:36:10,260 --> 00:36:13,500
chicks I go on Instagram I may because
1103
00:36:13,500 --> 00:36:14,760
because I've got quite a few followers
1104
00:36:14,760 --> 00:36:17,040
about 30 000. I'll scroll through girls
1105
00:36:17,040 --> 00:36:18,540
who've already liked my pictures because
1106
00:36:18,540 --> 00:36:19,980
it's easier then because then I know
1107
00:36:19,980 --> 00:36:21,780
they definitely won't dig
1108
00:36:21,780 --> 00:36:24,660
thing Bucharest question mark I'll I'll
1109
00:36:24,660 --> 00:36:28,140
message 10 girls I'll get five whatsapps
1110
00:36:28,140 --> 00:36:31,020
I'll [ __ ] two girls that's the average
1111
00:36:31,020 --> 00:36:31,980
math
1112
00:36:31,980 --> 00:36:34,440
so any Monday morning I can wake up and
1113
00:36:34,440 --> 00:36:36,540
go you know what I want two new [ __ ]
1114
00:36:36,540 --> 00:36:37,440
this week
1115
00:36:37,440 --> 00:36:40,099
Bucharest copy and paste
1116
00:36:40,099 --> 00:36:44,040
WhatsApp WhatsApp me Tristan call it
1117
00:36:44,040 --> 00:36:46,560
Paul Cicero we call it ciceroing it'd be
1118
00:36:46,560 --> 00:36:47,640
interested especially around our
1119
00:36:47,640 --> 00:36:49,320
girlfriends around we say I'll go Cicero
1120
00:36:49,320 --> 00:36:51,240
we do that because I think it's in good
1121
00:36:51,240 --> 00:36:52,440
photos I can't remember what message I
1122
00:36:52,440 --> 00:36:53,579
can't remember what movie is one of the
1123
00:36:53,579 --> 00:36:54,540
gangster movies there's a guy called
1124
00:36:54,540 --> 00:36:56,400
Paul Cicero and he said he doesn't move
1125
00:36:56,400 --> 00:36:57,900
very fast because Pauline doesn't have
1126
00:36:57,900 --> 00:36:59,520
to move from no one because he used to
1127
00:36:59,520 --> 00:37:00,960
sit there and people used to come and
1128
00:37:00,960 --> 00:37:02,940
deal with him and then leave so me and
1129
00:37:02,940 --> 00:37:04,920
truth and call it call it ciceroing some
1130
00:37:04,920 --> 00:37:05,820
interesting though we're going to sister
1131
00:37:05,820 --> 00:37:07,680
out today we'll go to a coffee shop at
1132
00:37:07,680 --> 00:37:09,720
three o'clock we'll have a date at 3 30
1133
00:37:09,720 --> 00:37:12,300
a date at 4 30 a day at 5 30.
1134
00:37:12,300 --> 00:37:14,280
we'll bring the girls at 3 30 and then
1135
00:37:14,280 --> 00:37:15,839
go oh yeah I'll go now I'm going to go
1136
00:37:15,839 --> 00:37:16,859
in a minute I'll just pay the bill okay
1137
00:37:16,859 --> 00:37:19,020
nice to see you send her away next next
1138
00:37:19,020 --> 00:37:20,900
next I'll do three days in a [ __ ] day
1139
00:37:20,900 --> 00:37:23,460
narrow down the one I want and then
1140
00:37:23,460 --> 00:37:24,660
that's the one I take to the club at the
1141
00:37:24,660 --> 00:37:28,020
weekend Banks gaming so you can get on
1142
00:37:28,020 --> 00:37:29,339
that level if you get as professional as
1143
00:37:29,339 --> 00:37:31,920
you have a PhD you literally just
1144
00:37:31,920 --> 00:37:34,500
10 questions on a Monday Cicero on a
1145
00:37:34,500 --> 00:37:37,619
Wednesday [ __ ] my Friday game over
1146
00:37:37,619 --> 00:37:39,060
let's just let you know where you're
1147
00:37:39,060 --> 00:37:40,740
gonna end up with your study hard enough
1148
00:37:40,740 --> 00:37:43,500
so next [ __ ] I'll give you an example
1149
00:37:43,500 --> 00:37:45,660
book arrest question mark this girl
1150
00:37:45,660 --> 00:37:47,160
tried to play a bit harder with the G
1151
00:37:47,160 --> 00:37:49,380
trying to play harder with a [ __ ] I
1152
00:37:49,380 --> 00:37:50,339
should walk around I should let these
1153
00:37:50,339 --> 00:37:51,420
[ __ ] know I should put on my
1154
00:37:51,420 --> 00:37:53,940
Instagram profile PhD so they know not
1155
00:37:53,940 --> 00:37:57,000
to get too fresh Bucharest her reply was
1156
00:37:57,000 --> 00:37:58,260
a lot less friendly than the last girl
1157
00:37:58,260 --> 00:37:59,880
yes
1158
00:37:59,880 --> 00:38:03,300
yes like I said she probably read it she
1159
00:38:03,300 --> 00:38:04,920
probably has a [ __ ] boyfriend or
1160
00:38:04,920 --> 00:38:05,940
she's
1161
00:38:05,940 --> 00:38:07,680
even if she hasn't got a boyfriend there
1162
00:38:07,680 --> 00:38:09,660
is no female on this planet who's truly
1163
00:38:09,660 --> 00:38:10,980
single this is something that's one of
1164
00:38:10,980 --> 00:38:12,780
the unbreakable rules put unbreakable
1165
00:38:12,780 --> 00:38:14,460
Rule and Flash in red across the top
1166
00:38:14,460 --> 00:38:16,980
unbreakable rule there is no hot
1167
00:38:16,980 --> 00:38:19,380
attractive woman on the planet who is
1168
00:38:19,380 --> 00:38:21,720
completely single they are always at
1169
00:38:21,720 --> 00:38:24,060
least talking to someone they're always
1170
00:38:24,060 --> 00:38:26,280
at least messaging someone or still kind
1171
00:38:26,280 --> 00:38:27,839
of talking to their ex or [ __ ] their
1172
00:38:27,839 --> 00:38:30,359
ex there's no single woman so making a
1173
00:38:30,359 --> 00:38:32,280
woman like you is not about making them
1174
00:38:32,280 --> 00:38:33,900
like you it's about making them like you
1175
00:38:33,900 --> 00:38:35,460
more than the other people they're
1176
00:38:35,460 --> 00:38:38,640
already talking to keep this in mind so
1177
00:38:38,640 --> 00:38:40,140
the reason this girl gave me attitude
1178
00:38:40,140 --> 00:38:41,220
and the reason a lot of girls give you
1179
00:38:41,220 --> 00:38:42,660
attitude is because they're already
1180
00:38:42,660 --> 00:38:44,460
[ __ ] someone else or they're already
1181
00:38:44,460 --> 00:38:46,079
talking to someone else so they're
1182
00:38:46,079 --> 00:38:47,339
thinking well I already if you're
1183
00:38:47,339 --> 00:38:49,800
already full you've been for dinner and
1184
00:38:49,800 --> 00:38:50,940
you're full some goes do you want
1185
00:38:50,940 --> 00:38:53,220
dessert oh I'm already full so that
1186
00:38:53,220 --> 00:38:55,079
dessert has to look good if you don't
1187
00:38:55,079 --> 00:38:56,940
want to take a bite from it so you have
1188
00:38:56,940 --> 00:38:58,740
to look good for them to be interested
1189
00:38:58,740 --> 00:39:00,000
in you because they're already full
1190
00:39:00,000 --> 00:39:01,920
they're full already all the women are
1191
00:39:01,920 --> 00:39:03,300
walking around with full stomachs you
1192
00:39:03,300 --> 00:39:04,859
gotta look [ __ ] amazing doesn't want
1193
00:39:04,859 --> 00:39:07,020
to take a bite keep that [ __ ] in mind so
1194
00:39:07,020 --> 00:39:08,760
this [ __ ] I found out how late your
1195
00:39:08,760 --> 00:39:10,859
date does have a boyfriend [ __ ] her
1196
00:39:10,859 --> 00:39:12,720
anyway but this is why she started off
1197
00:39:12,720 --> 00:39:14,040
so fresh
1198
00:39:14,040 --> 00:39:16,440
Bucharest yes
1199
00:39:16,440 --> 00:39:19,619
same thing why do I never see you where
1200
00:39:19,619 --> 00:39:21,960
are you hiding that's why I said she
1201
00:39:21,960 --> 00:39:24,119
said I don't go out too much I don't
1202
00:39:24,119 --> 00:39:26,160
like the men here I was living in other
1203
00:39:26,160 --> 00:39:28,440
countries or between travels so no time
1204
00:39:28,440 --> 00:39:30,359
or wish to be popular here this is
1205
00:39:30,359 --> 00:39:32,779
Romanian
1206
00:39:34,980 --> 00:39:36,599
all right okay well I'm gonna give you
1207
00:39:36,599 --> 00:39:38,160
another example this [ __ ] knows me she
1208
00:39:38,160 --> 00:39:40,200
goes I just followed you because I saw
1209
00:39:40,200 --> 00:39:41,940
you were very funny in an interview and
1210
00:39:41,940 --> 00:39:44,339
you have some funny things on Insta what
1211
00:39:44,339 --> 00:39:46,859
I say about having your page on point so
1212
00:39:46,859 --> 00:39:49,320
we've been messaging for 30 seconds and
1213
00:39:49,320 --> 00:39:50,460
she's messaged me saying I had some
1214
00:39:50,460 --> 00:39:51,839
funny things on install I messaged her
1215
00:39:51,839 --> 00:39:53,220
she looked at my Instagram she saw
1216
00:39:53,220 --> 00:39:54,119
something that made her laugh or
1217
00:39:54,119 --> 00:39:55,740
something that intrigued her that's why
1218
00:39:55,740 --> 00:39:57,240
it's important your five or six photos
1219
00:39:57,240 --> 00:39:59,099
are interesting because that's your
1220
00:39:59,099 --> 00:40:01,380
chance if my photos were [ __ ] I never
1221
00:40:01,380 --> 00:40:02,579
would have got that message from her
1222
00:40:02,579 --> 00:40:04,380
never would have come it would have been
1223
00:40:04,380 --> 00:40:06,060
game over right then and there but she
1224
00:40:06,060 --> 00:40:08,940
saw something she liked
1225
00:40:08,940 --> 00:40:10,320
so I said where are you living now
1226
00:40:10,320 --> 00:40:11,339
because she talked about she's going to
1227
00:40:11,339 --> 00:40:12,720
be in Bucharest she goes book rest at
1228
00:40:12,720 --> 00:40:14,520
the moment I said good is the best city
1229
00:40:14,520 --> 00:40:17,160
I'm here also which is important so we
1230
00:40:17,160 --> 00:40:19,380
can meet and take over the world I say
1231
00:40:19,380 --> 00:40:21,240
that because women it's authoritarian
1232
00:40:21,240 --> 00:40:24,540
it's authoritarian you uh hi yeah you
1233
00:40:24,540 --> 00:40:25,859
barely know even mean you were gonna
1234
00:40:25,859 --> 00:40:27,480
take over the world they make something
1235
00:40:27,480 --> 00:40:28,740
who the [ __ ] this dude he thinks he
1236
00:40:28,740 --> 00:40:29,880
can conquer the world who is this guy
1237
00:40:29,880 --> 00:40:32,460
wouldn't mean to conquer the robot it's
1238
00:40:32,460 --> 00:40:34,200
better for a woman it doesn't matter
1239
00:40:34,200 --> 00:40:36,060
what emotion you evoke as long as you
1240
00:40:36,060 --> 00:40:38,040
evoke something even if they're a bit
1241
00:40:38,040 --> 00:40:40,440
like Curious or a bit like
1242
00:40:40,440 --> 00:40:42,720
what angry can work if you don't push it
1243
00:40:42,720 --> 00:40:44,460
too far as long as they don't read it
1244
00:40:44,460 --> 00:40:45,900
and think it's boring like I said if
1245
00:40:45,900 --> 00:40:47,040
they read it and they don't feel
1246
00:40:47,040 --> 00:40:48,960
instantly compelled to reply they won't
1247
00:40:48,960 --> 00:40:51,420
reply this is your only shot so so when
1248
00:40:51,420 --> 00:40:52,440
you say like we're gonna take over the
1249
00:40:52,440 --> 00:40:53,820
world they're like they're either gonna
1250
00:40:53,820 --> 00:40:54,839
be like what do you mean take over the
1251
00:40:54,839 --> 00:40:57,180
world or why take over the world or well
1252
00:40:57,180 --> 00:40:58,440
like there's something in they just go
1253
00:40:58,440 --> 00:41:00,240
they just want to reply you've got to be
1254
00:41:00,240 --> 00:41:01,500
careful with what you say
1255
00:41:01,500 --> 00:41:03,900
haha I was thinking you already took
1256
00:41:03,900 --> 00:41:05,160
over the world without me there's
1257
00:41:05,160 --> 00:41:06,540
something left question mark
1258
00:41:06,540 --> 00:41:07,920
and the reason she said that is to my
1259
00:41:07,920 --> 00:41:09,599
Instagram page so [ __ ] G and all
1260
00:41:09,599 --> 00:41:11,400
these cars and [ __ ] once again Instagram
1261
00:41:11,400 --> 00:41:12,900
page
1262
00:41:12,900 --> 00:41:14,760
I said there's a tiny tiny bit that I
1263
00:41:14,760 --> 00:41:17,160
need you for there's one place I cannot
1264
00:41:17,160 --> 00:41:18,180
go
1265
00:41:18,180 --> 00:41:20,760
and she said what place and I said the
1266
00:41:20,760 --> 00:41:23,099
girls bathrooms
1267
00:41:23,099 --> 00:41:25,380
how old are you always ask them how old
1268
00:41:25,380 --> 00:41:27,900
they are they like that [ __ ]
1269
00:41:27,900 --> 00:41:31,200
childish joke she put with a laughing
1270
00:41:31,200 --> 00:41:32,579
face but I didn't like that it pissed me
1271
00:41:32,579 --> 00:41:34,079
off a little bit
1272
00:41:34,079 --> 00:41:36,240
22 you
1273
00:41:36,240 --> 00:41:38,700
22 is probably a little bit too young to
1274
00:41:38,700 --> 00:41:40,140
do the old enough to be smart but you
1275
00:41:40,140 --> 00:41:41,640
could probably get away with it I just
1276
00:41:41,640 --> 00:41:44,280
said I'm an old man 30. now when she
1277
00:41:44,280 --> 00:41:45,960
said childish joke with the laughing
1278
00:41:45,960 --> 00:41:47,400
face that was the beginning of her
1279
00:41:47,400 --> 00:41:48,540
trying to get a little bit fresh and I
1280
00:41:48,540 --> 00:41:49,920
could detect it and that's why I didn't
1281
00:41:49,920 --> 00:41:53,460
reply with uh old enough to be smart you
1282
00:41:53,460 --> 00:41:54,900
know young enough to have fun because I
1283
00:41:54,900 --> 00:41:56,700
thought I've been I've been pretty funny
1284
00:41:56,700 --> 00:41:58,859
to this girl I made some jokes and I
1285
00:41:58,859 --> 00:42:00,300
didn't like it now to you you're sitting
1286
00:42:00,300 --> 00:42:01,500
there going well she just said childish
1287
00:42:01,500 --> 00:42:03,960
joke what's the problem I have a PhD I
1288
00:42:03,960 --> 00:42:05,880
can detect instantly how a woman's
1289
00:42:05,880 --> 00:42:07,740
thinking so she looked she thought I was
1290
00:42:07,740 --> 00:42:09,960
interesting and the rain reason she's
1291
00:42:09,960 --> 00:42:11,160
probably being this way is because she's
1292
00:42:11,160 --> 00:42:13,020
insecure she knows I have shitloads of
1293
00:42:13,020 --> 00:42:15,599
chicks she's seen my Instagram she knows
1294
00:42:15,599 --> 00:42:17,280
who the G is and she's thinking I gotta
1295
00:42:17,280 --> 00:42:19,200
give this guy a bit of [ __ ] because he
1296
00:42:19,200 --> 00:42:21,060
thinks he can get any girl he wants I
1297
00:42:21,060 --> 00:42:22,619
have this problem below so then she
1298
00:42:22,619 --> 00:42:24,960
tries to belittle me
1299
00:42:24,960 --> 00:42:27,359
still a lot to learn and live for you a
1300
00:42:27,359 --> 00:42:29,520
real life for a man starts after 30.
1301
00:42:29,520 --> 00:42:31,140
you'll see she's trying to tell me that
1302
00:42:31,140 --> 00:42:33,780
I'm young and stupid
1303
00:42:33,780 --> 00:42:36,560
I replied
1304
00:42:37,140 --> 00:42:40,320
I know this what's that
1305
00:42:40,320 --> 00:42:43,140
I am [ __ ] around with you hoe tell me
1306
00:42:43,140 --> 00:42:45,420
about man life after 30 or 22 year old
1307
00:42:45,420 --> 00:42:47,040
chick what the [ __ ] you know about a
1308
00:42:47,040 --> 00:42:49,880
man's life after 30. I know this
1309
00:42:49,880 --> 00:42:52,800
WhatsApp because we are trying to
1310
00:42:52,800 --> 00:42:55,020
progress I ain't sitting here handing
1311
00:42:55,020 --> 00:42:57,119
out attention you've already [ __ ] tested
1312
00:42:57,119 --> 00:42:59,040
me to a degree twice your stupid ass
1313
00:42:59,040 --> 00:43:00,720
answers telling me that I don't know
1314
00:43:00,720 --> 00:43:02,040
anything about the world I'm telling
1315
00:43:02,040 --> 00:43:04,079
them my jokes are childish give me your
1316
00:43:04,079 --> 00:43:06,540
[ __ ] number or
1317
00:43:06,540 --> 00:43:09,060
FDB because I'm perfectly prepared to
1318
00:43:09,060 --> 00:43:10,260
never talk to you ever again I don't
1319
00:43:10,260 --> 00:43:12,420
know you I don't give a [ __ ] it's a
1320
00:43:12,420 --> 00:43:13,619
numbers game
1321
00:43:13,619 --> 00:43:16,200
is a lot it's a loss it's a loss so
1322
00:43:16,200 --> 00:43:18,180
basis of waste it's a waste of time for
1323
00:43:18,180 --> 00:43:20,160
you to talk to me
1324
00:43:20,160 --> 00:43:22,020
but then she gave me her number
1325
00:43:22,020 --> 00:43:26,339
here's my number text me when you're 35.
1326
00:43:26,339 --> 00:43:27,900
so she wanted to give me your number
1327
00:43:27,900 --> 00:43:29,700
because she wants me but she's trying to
1328
00:43:29,700 --> 00:43:31,260
[ __ ] give me [ __ ] saying that's a
1329
00:43:31,260 --> 00:43:32,640
waste of time
1330
00:43:32,640 --> 00:43:34,800
I said you think 30 is too young
1331
00:43:34,800 --> 00:43:37,680
she goes I think you're into games and I
1332
00:43:37,680 --> 00:43:39,119
don't like drama and complicate
1333
00:43:39,119 --> 00:43:41,280
complicated
1334
00:43:41,280 --> 00:43:42,420
you see
1335
00:43:42,420 --> 00:43:44,700
yeah where I detected her [ __ ] way
1336
00:43:44,700 --> 00:43:46,500
back at the childish joke and I started
1337
00:43:46,500 --> 00:43:50,460
to reply less nicely the reason I did
1338
00:43:50,460 --> 00:43:52,500
that because if she gave me a little bit
1339
00:43:52,500 --> 00:43:54,240
of [ __ ] and I still replied super nice
1340
00:43:54,240 --> 00:43:55,920
old enough to have fun young enough to
1341
00:43:55,920 --> 00:43:57,599
be smart all this [ __ ] was some
1342
00:43:57,599 --> 00:44:00,119
cherries and was a nice guy all the time
1343
00:44:00,119 --> 00:44:02,040
she would have instinctively thought
1344
00:44:02,040 --> 00:44:03,119
well I've given him some [ __ ] and he's
1345
00:44:03,119 --> 00:44:05,040
still being nice about it he's a [ __ ]
1346
00:44:05,040 --> 00:44:07,319
when she gave me a bit of [ __ ] and I cut
1347
00:44:07,319 --> 00:44:09,839
my replies down I know this what's that
1348
00:44:09,839 --> 00:44:11,579
and start being a bit of a dick head
1349
00:44:11,579 --> 00:44:13,619
back then she thought okay I can't push
1350
00:44:13,619 --> 00:44:16,319
them too tough because she saw
1351
00:44:16,319 --> 00:44:18,000
listen to me carefully watch this part
1352
00:44:18,000 --> 00:44:19,800
of the video again this is important
1353
00:44:19,800 --> 00:44:21,839
Dynamics she tried to give me a bit of
1354
00:44:21,839 --> 00:44:24,119
[ __ ] I limited my attention that's the
1355
00:44:24,119 --> 00:44:25,319
weapon we have that's what we do we give
1356
00:44:25,319 --> 00:44:27,119
attention to get sex you [ __ ] with us we
1357
00:44:27,119 --> 00:44:29,700
take our attention away she got fresh I
1358
00:44:29,700 --> 00:44:30,960
limited my attention down I still
1359
00:44:30,960 --> 00:44:32,940
replied but I remove the friendliness
1360
00:44:32,940 --> 00:44:35,099
straight to the point
1361
00:44:35,099 --> 00:44:36,660
teach her lesson not to get too fresh
1362
00:44:36,660 --> 00:44:37,980
and then when I said what's your
1363
00:44:37,980 --> 00:44:39,839
WhatsApp even though she gave me [ __ ]
1364
00:44:39,839 --> 00:44:42,540
she still gave me her number because she
1365
00:44:42,540 --> 00:44:46,079
knew if she didn't I would
1366
00:44:46,079 --> 00:44:47,700
she knew that would be the end of it but
1367
00:44:47,700 --> 00:44:49,140
she still wants me of course she does
1368
00:44:49,140 --> 00:44:50,220
who doesn't
1369
00:44:50,220 --> 00:44:51,599
so she's like okay well I better give
1370
00:44:51,599 --> 00:44:52,500
him my number but I want to give him
1371
00:44:52,500 --> 00:44:54,359
some sarcastic [ __ ] at the same time
1372
00:44:54,359 --> 00:44:55,920
she goes you lose just a waste time you
1373
00:44:55,920 --> 00:44:57,300
talk to me here's my number but text me
1374
00:44:57,300 --> 00:44:58,560
when you're 35. so she gave me the
1375
00:44:58,560 --> 00:45:00,060
number but she [ __ ] attached a bunch
1376
00:45:00,060 --> 00:45:02,280
of [ __ ] to it said you think 30 is too
1377
00:45:02,280 --> 00:45:03,660
young should I think they're into games
1378
00:45:03,660 --> 00:45:05,339
and only draw my complications
1379
00:45:05,339 --> 00:45:07,020
so I said
1380
00:45:07,020 --> 00:45:10,079
so you want to judge someone who you've
1381
00:45:10,079 --> 00:45:13,040
not even gotten to know
1382
00:45:13,319 --> 00:45:14,640
so you want to judge someone who you've
1383
00:45:14,640 --> 00:45:16,680
not even gotten to know I can tell we're
1384
00:45:16,680 --> 00:45:18,060
only 22.
1385
00:45:18,060 --> 00:45:20,160
2 that's why I said so she said I'm
1386
00:45:20,160 --> 00:45:21,900
young and stupid but I said oh you're
1387
00:45:21,900 --> 00:45:22,800
judging somebody you don't even know I
1388
00:45:22,800 --> 00:45:24,480
can tell you're 22. I'm calling her
1389
00:45:24,480 --> 00:45:27,000
young and stupid flip all no you think
1390
00:45:27,000 --> 00:45:27,900
I'm young and stupid you're the one
1391
00:45:27,900 --> 00:45:29,099
making judgments I ain't judging you
1392
00:45:29,099 --> 00:45:30,599
[ __ ] I don't know you
1393
00:45:30,599 --> 00:45:32,880
she replied I don't judge you
1394
00:45:32,880 --> 00:45:35,520
I said well then you don't know if I'm
1395
00:45:35,520 --> 00:45:39,660
drama or games be nice I'll WhatsApp you
1396
00:45:39,660 --> 00:45:43,500
and she replied okay smiley face
1397
00:45:43,500 --> 00:45:45,660
that's the game she tried to get flush
1398
00:45:45,660 --> 00:45:48,060
to be two or three times I ended up with
1399
00:45:48,060 --> 00:45:49,980
the WhatsApp the [ __ ] has been put in
1400
00:45:49,980 --> 00:45:51,900
place she sent me a little smiley face
1401
00:45:51,900 --> 00:45:54,000
at the end she now knows that she can't
1402
00:45:54,000 --> 00:45:55,680
judge me even though I've got girls all
1403
00:45:55,680 --> 00:45:57,060
over my Instagram and I'm clearly a
1404
00:45:57,060 --> 00:45:58,319
player she ain't allowed to say it
1405
00:45:58,319 --> 00:46:00,660
anymore I put that [ __ ] in her [ __ ]
1406
00:46:00,660 --> 00:46:02,460
place because I didn't take her [ __ ]
1407
00:46:02,460 --> 00:46:04,319
when she called me childish and I would
1408
00:46:04,319 --> 00:46:05,880
have been like yeah I am childish I said
1409
00:46:05,880 --> 00:46:06,960
oh well you're so pretty here's the
1410
00:46:06,960 --> 00:46:08,880
Heart game would have been over
1411
00:46:08,880 --> 00:46:10,980
[ __ ] with me I'll reduce my attention
1412
00:46:10,980 --> 00:46:13,140
give me a pen
1413
00:46:13,140 --> 00:46:15,660
this is the Tower of Power
1414
00:46:15,660 --> 00:46:17,339
attention
1415
00:46:17,339 --> 00:46:20,099
this is a girl behaving I know you love
1416
00:46:20,099 --> 00:46:21,900
my Graphics there's a girl being a
1417
00:46:21,900 --> 00:46:22,920
[ __ ]
1418
00:46:22,920 --> 00:46:24,300
dick
1419
00:46:24,300 --> 00:46:26,339
this is the attention meter
1420
00:46:26,339 --> 00:46:28,680
if they are a [ __ ] you reduce your
1421
00:46:28,680 --> 00:46:31,140
attention if they behave well you
1422
00:46:31,140 --> 00:46:33,119
increase your attention if they reply
1423
00:46:33,119 --> 00:46:35,460
nice things to you you message them lots
1424
00:46:35,460 --> 00:46:37,680
of nice things if they reply [ __ ]
1425
00:46:37,680 --> 00:46:39,660
[ __ ] stuff to you you cut your
1426
00:46:39,660 --> 00:46:42,660
attention right down but remember stay
1427
00:46:42,660 --> 00:46:45,720
emotionless never insult a woman never
1428
00:46:45,720 --> 00:46:47,940
get angry because if you if you get
1429
00:46:47,940 --> 00:46:49,740
angry or you insult them it shows
1430
00:46:49,740 --> 00:46:51,119
they've emotionally affected you and
1431
00:46:51,119 --> 00:46:53,280
then they win it's just an attention
1432
00:46:53,280 --> 00:46:55,440
scale there is no emotion there's no
1433
00:46:55,440 --> 00:46:57,000
anger there's no resentment there's
1434
00:46:57,000 --> 00:46:58,319
nothing even if a girl says you're
1435
00:46:58,319 --> 00:46:59,579
[ __ ] ugly never give my number you're
1436
00:46:59,579 --> 00:47:01,980
too ugly you just reduce your attention
1437
00:47:01,980 --> 00:47:04,619
simple as that attention scale they
1438
00:47:04,619 --> 00:47:06,359
reply like [ __ ] you give them
1439
00:47:06,359 --> 00:47:08,579
[ __ ] answers they reply nicely you
1440
00:47:08,579 --> 00:47:10,020
give them nice answers
1441
00:47:10,020 --> 00:47:11,700
keep the [ __ ] in line to keep the [ __ ]
1442
00:47:11,700 --> 00:47:14,220
in check that's how it goes
1443
00:47:14,220 --> 00:47:16,260
so I can show you 200 examples of this
1444
00:47:16,260 --> 00:47:18,599
in fact I could go on forever because
1445
00:47:18,599 --> 00:47:19,800
this is basically all I do but this is
1446
00:47:19,800 --> 00:47:22,020
just a couple examples of how you can
1447
00:47:22,020 --> 00:47:25,200
write here and now after this PhD course
1448
00:47:25,200 --> 00:47:27,000
start talking to the new girls you never
1449
00:47:27,000 --> 00:47:28,560
spoke to before
1450
00:47:28,560 --> 00:47:31,560
Instagram and start messaging
1451
00:47:31,560 --> 00:47:34,560
the city you live in and the girl now if
1452
00:47:34,560 --> 00:47:35,940
you've got a level of game like I've got
1453
00:47:35,940 --> 00:47:38,460
you can do other cities so if I know I'm
1454
00:47:38,460 --> 00:47:39,960
going to be in Kiev next week I'll do
1455
00:47:39,960 --> 00:47:41,400
Kiev in advance
1456
00:47:41,400 --> 00:47:43,740
I can do that because I'm a [ __ ] G
1457
00:47:43,740 --> 00:47:45,780
for you amateurs I recommend just
1458
00:47:45,780 --> 00:47:47,640
wherever you are stick in your own City
1459
00:47:47,640 --> 00:47:49,740
ask them where they are I'll start with
1460
00:47:49,740 --> 00:47:51,599
there on to the next thing after I take
1461
00:47:51,599 --> 00:47:53,640
a piss
1462
00:47:53,640 --> 00:47:55,500
Right congratulations you've got the
1463
00:47:55,500 --> 00:47:56,880
girl's phone number you've progressed
1464
00:47:56,880 --> 00:47:59,099
from every ship muncher in the world the
1465
00:47:59,099 --> 00:48:00,540
exclusive Club of people who have their
1466
00:48:00,540 --> 00:48:03,000
phone number everything we are doing is
1467
00:48:03,000 --> 00:48:05,400
for progression you give attention for
1468
00:48:05,400 --> 00:48:07,800
progression getting her phone number is
1469
00:48:07,800 --> 00:48:10,140
just one step closer you are now aiming
1470
00:48:10,140 --> 00:48:12,599
for the next goal which is a date with
1471
00:48:12,599 --> 00:48:14,460
the girl you are not getting her phone
1472
00:48:14,460 --> 00:48:15,839
number to give the [ __ ] unlimited
1473
00:48:15,839 --> 00:48:17,460
attention for no reason you're not
1474
00:48:17,460 --> 00:48:18,660
giving her getting her phone number just
1475
00:48:18,660 --> 00:48:21,480
to text and text away for [ __ ] weeks
1476
00:48:21,480 --> 00:48:23,220
on end and get nowhere you're not doing
1477
00:48:23,220 --> 00:48:25,680
that [ __ ] you're aiming to take her on a
1478
00:48:25,680 --> 00:48:27,780
date that's next stage on the Tower of
1479
00:48:27,780 --> 00:48:30,420
Power date so
1480
00:48:30,420 --> 00:48:32,880
texting a chick you have to be yourself
1481
00:48:32,880 --> 00:48:35,220
you can't be me there's only one me
1482
00:48:35,220 --> 00:48:37,319
there's only one you some
1483
00:48:37,319 --> 00:48:39,240
motivationships so you've got to be
1484
00:48:39,240 --> 00:48:42,780
yourself but the basic rules still apply
1485
00:48:42,780 --> 00:48:45,720
you don't take [ __ ] you're a nice guy
1486
00:48:45,720 --> 00:48:48,000
but you're not a [ __ ] pushover little
1487
00:48:48,000 --> 00:48:50,220
piece of [ __ ] wimp in general
1488
00:48:50,220 --> 00:48:52,560
generalization
1489
00:48:52,560 --> 00:48:53,940
in fact it's not generalization it's
1490
00:48:53,940 --> 00:48:56,160
absolute truth everybody loves to talk
1491
00:48:56,160 --> 00:48:59,160
about themselves everybody loves to talk
1492
00:48:59,160 --> 00:49:01,260
about themselves so although you need to
1493
00:49:01,260 --> 00:49:03,119
get some Intrigue remember you work for
1494
00:49:03,119 --> 00:49:04,980
Starbucks you're a [ __ ] Starbucks spy
1495
00:49:04,980 --> 00:49:06,839
who's putting your [ __ ] cousin
1496
00:49:06,839 --> 00:49:09,000
through [ __ ] college or some [ __ ]
1497
00:49:09,000 --> 00:49:11,520
you need to ask her about herself what
1498
00:49:11,520 --> 00:49:13,920
do you do do you work or study oh we did
1499
00:49:13,920 --> 00:49:16,020
a so worker studies what I use alone do
1500
00:49:16,020 --> 00:49:17,819
you work or study oh I'm studying
1501
00:49:17,819 --> 00:49:20,099
economics ah you like money who doesn't
1502
00:49:20,099 --> 00:49:22,680
or oh I'm studying law perfect you can
1503
00:49:22,680 --> 00:49:23,819
get me out of jail
1504
00:49:23,819 --> 00:49:26,220
whatever they say add a little thing on
1505
00:49:26,220 --> 00:49:28,319
it oh yeah I couldn't get you out of
1506
00:49:28,319 --> 00:49:30,839
jail Shut up
1507
00:49:30,839 --> 00:49:33,900
still ask them a lot about themselves
1508
00:49:33,900 --> 00:49:35,940
whatever you do every single thing has
1509
00:49:35,940 --> 00:49:37,740
to come from a position of dominance so
1510
00:49:37,740 --> 00:49:39,300
for example though I'm putting my cousin
1511
00:49:39,300 --> 00:49:40,560
through college thing you can't message
1512
00:49:40,560 --> 00:49:42,359
your girl go oh well I don't have much
1513
00:49:42,359 --> 00:49:43,740
money right now because I'm putting a
1514
00:49:43,740 --> 00:49:45,480
girl my cousin through college that's
1515
00:49:45,480 --> 00:49:48,000
not dominant that's [ __ ] [ __ ] if
1516
00:49:48,000 --> 00:49:48,960
she were to mention something about
1517
00:49:48,960 --> 00:49:50,940
money you could say or let's go here say
1518
00:49:50,940 --> 00:49:52,140
oh that's too expensive for me I'm
1519
00:49:52,140 --> 00:49:53,400
putting my cousin through college wait
1520
00:49:53,400 --> 00:49:55,260
for her to mention something first or
1521
00:49:55,260 --> 00:49:56,819
say I'd rather put my color I'm putting
1522
00:49:56,819 --> 00:49:58,380
my cousin to college it ain't easy but
1523
00:49:58,380 --> 00:50:00,180
I'd rather help family than spend money
1524
00:50:00,180 --> 00:50:01,200
at the moment
1525
00:50:01,200 --> 00:50:03,540
put it from a position of dominance like
1526
00:50:03,540 --> 00:50:05,940
yeah own it you're the [ __ ] man
1527
00:50:05,940 --> 00:50:07,800
everything you do you're the [ __ ] man
1528
00:50:07,800 --> 00:50:09,780
the girl saying to me I seen your
1529
00:50:09,780 --> 00:50:10,800
Instagram page you have all these girls
1530
00:50:10,800 --> 00:50:13,319
yeah I'm a [ __ ] man yeah I'm the man
1531
00:50:13,319 --> 00:50:14,640
doesn't matter what it is I'm the man
1532
00:50:14,640 --> 00:50:15,900
would you work at Starbucks yeah I'm
1533
00:50:15,900 --> 00:50:17,460
[ __ ] I'm the head of Starbucks spy
1534
00:50:17,460 --> 00:50:19,619
operation MI6 and James [ __ ] Bond of
1535
00:50:19,619 --> 00:50:21,200
Starbucks
1536
00:50:21,200 --> 00:50:22,980
in the best
1537
00:50:22,980 --> 00:50:24,359
I'm a [ __ ] I'm like basically an
1538
00:50:24,359 --> 00:50:25,859
undercover agent
1539
00:50:25,859 --> 00:50:27,839
you're gonna own that [ __ ]
1540
00:50:27,839 --> 00:50:29,460
there's a fine line between arrogance
1541
00:50:29,460 --> 00:50:31,200
and owning it don't be too arrogant you
1542
00:50:31,200 --> 00:50:32,760
gotta own that [ __ ] most people think
1543
00:50:32,760 --> 00:50:34,260
girls like arrogance they don't they're
1544
00:50:34,260 --> 00:50:35,880
just like men who own their things you
1545
00:50:35,880 --> 00:50:38,099
can actually own who you are and be
1546
00:50:38,099 --> 00:50:39,599
confident in who you are without being
1547
00:50:39,599 --> 00:50:42,119
arrogant that's how you get laid not
1548
00:50:42,119 --> 00:50:43,980
being Aaron arrogant pisses him off it's
1549
00:50:43,980 --> 00:50:45,180
just being confident with who you are
1550
00:50:45,180 --> 00:50:47,339
and what you do without being married so
1551
00:50:47,339 --> 00:50:49,380
keep that [ __ ] in mind
1552
00:50:49,380 --> 00:50:53,040
you're texting her rules the texting her
1553
00:50:53,040 --> 00:50:55,200
do not double text her
1554
00:50:55,200 --> 00:50:58,440
if she ignores you want leave it maybe a
1555
00:50:58,440 --> 00:51:01,260
day day and a half then try again hey
1556
00:51:01,260 --> 00:51:03,720
how you been she ignores you again game
1557
00:51:03,720 --> 00:51:05,959
over
1558
00:51:06,599 --> 00:51:09,180
forget about it
1559
00:51:09,180 --> 00:51:11,040
in fact I want to mention something
1560
00:51:11,040 --> 00:51:11,819
quickly we're just going to mention
1561
00:51:11,819 --> 00:51:14,220
later I'm going to mention it now the
1562
00:51:14,220 --> 00:51:15,839
whole [ __ ] time you're starting with
1563
00:51:15,839 --> 00:51:17,579
Instagram texting the whole way through
1564
00:51:17,579 --> 00:51:18,780
it's something you have to keep in mind
1565
00:51:18,780 --> 00:51:20,579
there's something called external
1566
00:51:20,579 --> 00:51:22,800
factors that you cannot control
1567
00:51:22,800 --> 00:51:24,359
sometimes
1568
00:51:24,359 --> 00:51:26,700
you just can't win I've had girls so
1569
00:51:26,700 --> 00:51:28,980
I've I've tried something on and it
1570
00:51:28,980 --> 00:51:30,540
completely ignored me and the six months
1571
00:51:30,540 --> 00:51:31,980
later I tried the same thing and it
1572
00:51:31,980 --> 00:51:34,680
worked flawlessly why is that because
1573
00:51:34,680 --> 00:51:36,240
the first time it didn't work is nothing
1574
00:51:36,240 --> 00:51:38,460
to do with me and my system it's because
1575
00:51:38,460 --> 00:51:40,260
there's external factors you cannot
1576
00:51:40,260 --> 00:51:42,240
control every girl you're messaging has
1577
00:51:42,240 --> 00:51:44,280
a life if that girl is completely head
1578
00:51:44,280 --> 00:51:45,420
over heels in love with someone else
1579
00:51:45,420 --> 00:51:47,339
she's not gonna reply to you if her
1580
00:51:47,339 --> 00:51:49,559
granddads just died she ain't just in
1581
00:51:49,559 --> 00:51:51,359
going on a date with you ever dogs just
1582
00:51:51,359 --> 00:51:52,920
died or she just [ __ ] or she's
1583
00:51:52,920 --> 00:51:53,940
failing her homework maybe she's
1584
00:51:53,940 --> 00:51:56,220
suicidal maybe she's overdrawn who the
1585
00:51:56,220 --> 00:51:57,660
[ __ ] knows there's a whole bunch of
1586
00:51:57,660 --> 00:52:00,480
external [ __ ] you cannot control so you
1587
00:52:00,480 --> 00:52:01,800
have to keep in mind the reason it's a
1588
00:52:01,800 --> 00:52:03,599
numbers game is because there's too many
1589
00:52:03,599 --> 00:52:06,119
external factors that can influence the
1590
00:52:06,119 --> 00:52:07,800
end result thank you
1591
00:52:07,800 --> 00:52:10,440
I'm talking about [ __ ] girls
1592
00:52:10,440 --> 00:52:13,619
great exactly just
1593
00:52:13,619 --> 00:52:15,420
too many external factors you cannot
1594
00:52:15,420 --> 00:52:17,460
control that have an influence so when I
1595
00:52:17,460 --> 00:52:19,260
say something like don't double text or
1596
00:52:19,260 --> 00:52:20,520
text her once
1597
00:52:20,520 --> 00:52:22,500
she doesn't reply again don't text her
1598
00:52:22,500 --> 00:52:24,240
again if she doesn't reply don't be one
1599
00:52:24,240 --> 00:52:25,740
of those guys oh you give me your number
1600
00:52:25,740 --> 00:52:27,780
don't get upset don't be a [ __ ] old
1601
00:52:27,780 --> 00:52:29,460
[ __ ] don't start messaging her why'd
1602
00:52:29,460 --> 00:52:30,300
you give me your number you're not going
1603
00:52:30,300 --> 00:52:31,740
to talk don't be a little [ __ ] [ __ ]
1604
00:52:31,740 --> 00:52:33,800
don't sit there and be like Oh I'm upset
1605
00:52:33,800 --> 00:52:36,359
emotionality is not how men act
1606
00:52:36,359 --> 00:52:38,460
you do not care if she replies are gone
1607
00:52:38,460 --> 00:52:40,260
do not be a [ __ ] because it could be an
1608
00:52:40,260 --> 00:52:42,180
external factor maybe your game is
1609
00:52:42,180 --> 00:52:44,160
Flawless and on point maybe her Granddad
1610
00:52:44,160 --> 00:52:46,260
just died you don't know and I don't
1611
00:52:46,260 --> 00:52:47,700
know nobody knows if you just want to
1612
00:52:47,700 --> 00:52:50,160
text you it's fine
1613
00:52:50,160 --> 00:52:52,260
start again with someone else do not be
1614
00:52:52,260 --> 00:52:53,520
start messing your wife give me your
1615
00:52:53,520 --> 00:52:54,540
number if you're not going to reply I'm
1616
00:52:54,540 --> 00:52:55,740
being a little [ __ ] loser because
1617
00:52:55,740 --> 00:52:57,059
then she definitely ain't gonna [ __ ] you
1618
00:52:57,059 --> 00:52:58,500
then she'll reply and call you a
1619
00:52:58,500 --> 00:52:59,640
[ __ ] and then the game's over what's
1620
00:52:59,640 --> 00:53:00,960
the point in that it'll be a [ __ ]
1621
00:53:00,960 --> 00:53:04,319
idiot so don't do that [ __ ] so rules to
1622
00:53:04,319 --> 00:53:06,059
texting girls don't double text told you
1623
00:53:06,059 --> 00:53:08,700
to double texting rules next only
1624
00:53:08,700 --> 00:53:11,700
message women at night do not message
1625
00:53:11,700 --> 00:53:13,680
during the day during the day they're
1626
00:53:13,680 --> 00:53:14,880
busy
1627
00:53:14,880 --> 00:53:17,280
they're working and they're certainly
1628
00:53:17,280 --> 00:53:18,720
not thinking about a relationship women
1629
00:53:18,720 --> 00:53:21,660
are one-tracked women cannot do women
1630
00:53:21,660 --> 00:53:23,819
can multitask no they [ __ ] can't
1631
00:53:23,819 --> 00:53:26,700
that's a lie men multitasking so if a
1632
00:53:26,700 --> 00:53:28,260
woman's at work or she's busy or she's
1633
00:53:28,260 --> 00:53:29,460
gonna she ain't sitting the thing and I
1634
00:53:29,460 --> 00:53:30,839
really want a boyfriend she's thinking I
1635
00:53:30,839 --> 00:53:33,359
really want a boyfriend at night at home
1636
00:53:33,359 --> 00:53:35,760
on the couch in bed unless you through
1637
00:53:35,760 --> 00:53:37,200
some other dude but she might be it's
1638
00:53:37,200 --> 00:53:38,880
very often that she might be another guy
1639
00:53:38,880 --> 00:53:40,740
who all the guarantee right now you're
1640
00:53:40,740 --> 00:53:42,059
texting a girl who you really like and
1641
00:53:42,059 --> 00:53:43,440
she's still banging someone else it's
1642
00:53:43,440 --> 00:53:45,240
normal it's the world we live in now oh
1643
00:53:45,240 --> 00:53:46,440
she's texting me back yeah she's
1644
00:53:46,440 --> 00:53:47,760
probably [ __ ] some other dude so
1645
00:53:47,760 --> 00:53:50,220
that's the world we live in anyway text
1646
00:53:50,220 --> 00:53:51,900
girls at night they are more susceptible
1647
00:53:51,900 --> 00:53:54,480
to flirtatious Notions at night because
1648
00:53:54,480 --> 00:53:56,040
they're [ __ ] sitting around thinking
1649
00:53:56,040 --> 00:53:57,780
about our relationship or they're more
1650
00:53:57,780 --> 00:53:59,700
at home they're comfy they're watching
1651
00:53:59,700 --> 00:54:01,920
[ __ ] on tv they're more susceptible
1652
00:54:01,920 --> 00:54:03,780
to the kind of conversation you want to
1653
00:54:03,780 --> 00:54:05,760
be having do not message girls during
1654
00:54:05,760 --> 00:54:07,619
the day it just doesn't work as well
1655
00:54:07,619 --> 00:54:09,359
unless you know the girl really well or
1656
00:54:09,359 --> 00:54:10,619
you've already met her before or she's
1657
00:54:10,619 --> 00:54:12,059
your girlfriend or some [ __ ] in general
1658
00:54:12,059 --> 00:54:13,380
with the new girls you want to message
1659
00:54:13,380 --> 00:54:15,359
them at night I know you're thinking
1660
00:54:15,359 --> 00:54:17,160
well if I get her number and then I
1661
00:54:17,160 --> 00:54:18,660
don't message her all the way till the
1662
00:54:18,660 --> 00:54:19,559
night
1663
00:54:19,559 --> 00:54:21,300
don't be a little [ __ ] when you first
1664
00:54:21,300 --> 00:54:23,400
get her number say hey it's me
1665
00:54:23,400 --> 00:54:25,680
cherries strawberry whatever oh hey how
1666
00:54:25,680 --> 00:54:26,880
are you so yeah I'm really good I'm just
1667
00:54:26,880 --> 00:54:27,960
about to drive I'm gonna message you in
1668
00:54:27,960 --> 00:54:29,880
a bit say some laughs man don't explain
1669
00:54:29,880 --> 00:54:31,740
yourself don't say oh I'm just about to
1670
00:54:31,740 --> 00:54:33,240
do this and this and this is no I'm
1671
00:54:33,240 --> 00:54:34,980
about to drive or I got a bit of work to
1672
00:54:34,980 --> 00:54:36,540
do or I [ __ ] I'm gonna shoot someone
1673
00:54:36,540 --> 00:54:38,400
in the head I'll be right back keep it
1674
00:54:38,400 --> 00:54:40,440
vague and just [ __ ] hit her up at
1675
00:54:40,440 --> 00:54:43,079
night that's when you text girls
1676
00:54:43,079 --> 00:54:45,180
when you're texting the [ __ ] you should
1677
00:54:45,180 --> 00:54:47,700
be texting her for maximum two days
1678
00:54:47,700 --> 00:54:50,059
before you arrange a date
1679
00:54:50,059 --> 00:54:52,800
maximum two days if you're texting a
1680
00:54:52,800 --> 00:54:54,780
girl for [ __ ] a week and a half and
1681
00:54:54,780 --> 00:54:57,740
she still won't meet you
1682
00:54:59,099 --> 00:55:01,500
we do not have time to waste gentlemen
1683
00:55:01,500 --> 00:55:04,740
we have phds way out here giving away
1684
00:55:04,740 --> 00:55:06,420
our attention for girls who won't even
1685
00:55:06,420 --> 00:55:09,000
meet us for a [ __ ] coffee because if
1686
00:55:09,000 --> 00:55:10,020
you're texting her for a week and she
1687
00:55:10,020 --> 00:55:11,460
won't meet you she's getting attention
1688
00:55:11,460 --> 00:55:12,960
and she ain't giving you anything back
1689
00:55:12,960 --> 00:55:14,520
she's not allowing you to progress at
1690
00:55:14,520 --> 00:55:16,020
the Tower of Power and she's taking all
1691
00:55:16,020 --> 00:55:17,280
your attention for no reason which
1692
00:55:17,280 --> 00:55:19,079
devalues your attention you're
1693
00:55:19,079 --> 00:55:21,059
hyperinflating yourself and the girl is
1694
00:55:21,059 --> 00:55:22,680
sitting there thinking well he'll text
1695
00:55:22,680 --> 00:55:24,000
me all the time with our [ __ ] medium
1696
00:55:24,000 --> 00:55:25,260
or not
1697
00:55:25,260 --> 00:55:29,300
my super lovely brother hello
1698
00:55:31,380 --> 00:55:34,160
filming
1699
00:55:35,040 --> 00:55:36,839
yeah
1700
00:55:36,839 --> 00:55:40,980
no idea I'm filming my PhD course right
1701
00:55:40,980 --> 00:55:44,339
leave that in there I like it anyway
1702
00:55:44,339 --> 00:55:46,079
so you ain't giving your attention for
1703
00:55:46,079 --> 00:55:47,460
no reason because here's why if you
1704
00:55:47,460 --> 00:55:49,140
think of a [ __ ] amazing mind-boggling
1705
00:55:49,140 --> 00:55:50,880
fact to most you [ __ ]
1706
00:55:50,880 --> 00:55:52,500
if you call a girl's number
1707
00:55:52,500 --> 00:55:54,240
and you play it right even if she ain't
1708
00:55:54,240 --> 00:55:56,579
replying sooner or later you might [ __ ]
1709
00:55:56,579 --> 00:55:57,540
her anyway
1710
00:55:57,540 --> 00:55:59,339
it's like Bill it's like if any of you
1711
00:55:59,339 --> 00:56:00,720
ever worked in sales I used to work in
1712
00:56:00,720 --> 00:56:02,819
sales you build up leads and people go
1713
00:56:02,819 --> 00:56:04,680
nah maybe next year maybe next year and
1714
00:56:04,680 --> 00:56:06,180
then eventually you have all these old
1715
00:56:06,180 --> 00:56:07,920
leads you've been talking to foreign for
1716
00:56:07,920 --> 00:56:09,420
ages and ages you start Just Landing
1717
00:56:09,420 --> 00:56:12,240
sales easily girls are the same but that
1718
00:56:12,240 --> 00:56:15,119
won't happen if you [ __ ] it up so if
1719
00:56:15,119 --> 00:56:16,440
you're giving out all your attention too
1720
00:56:16,440 --> 00:56:18,720
easily the girl you're hyper reflecting
1721
00:56:18,720 --> 00:56:20,099
your attention and the girl will lose
1722
00:56:20,099 --> 00:56:21,900
respect for you and she'll never [ __ ]
1723
00:56:21,900 --> 00:56:24,000
you even if she can continue to text you
1724
00:56:24,000 --> 00:56:25,619
you think you're getting somewhere
1725
00:56:25,619 --> 00:56:27,599
been texting for three weeks and she's
1726
00:56:27,599 --> 00:56:29,099
replying to me every time I think we
1727
00:56:29,099 --> 00:56:30,420
were texting for three weeks during
1728
00:56:30,420 --> 00:56:31,859
those three weeks just [ __ ] someone else
1729
00:56:31,859 --> 00:56:33,540
bro she's definitely been on a date with
1730
00:56:33,540 --> 00:56:34,680
someone else she hasn't been at home she
1731
00:56:34,680 --> 00:56:36,839
ain't that busy oh I'm just busy no
1732
00:56:36,839 --> 00:56:38,880
one's that [ __ ] busy don't believe
1733
00:56:38,880 --> 00:56:40,440
that [ __ ] for a second she probably met
1734
00:56:40,440 --> 00:56:43,020
me sucked them on big balls and replies
1735
00:56:43,020 --> 00:56:44,760
to you when I don't text her because
1736
00:56:44,760 --> 00:56:46,319
she's upset that's what's happening
1737
00:56:46,319 --> 00:56:48,599
don't [ __ ] fall for the tricks she's
1738
00:56:48,599 --> 00:56:50,880
losing respect for you what you do is
1739
00:56:50,880 --> 00:56:52,680
keep the value on your attention because
1740
00:56:52,680 --> 00:56:54,660
even if she if you're texting her she
1741
00:56:54,660 --> 00:56:56,160
doesn't want to meet you fine after you
1742
00:56:56,160 --> 00:56:58,200
beat you can text her again in a few
1743
00:56:58,200 --> 00:57:00,780
months oh hey how you been
1744
00:57:00,780 --> 00:57:02,880
oh yeah this is the guy I remember this
1745
00:57:02,880 --> 00:57:04,200
guy yeah yeah but he wouldn't he
1746
00:57:04,200 --> 00:57:05,520
wouldn't just text me for a whole bunch
1747
00:57:05,520 --> 00:57:06,839
of time for no reason he wouldn't just
1748
00:57:06,839 --> 00:57:07,920
text me for no reason because I wouldn't
1749
00:57:07,920 --> 00:57:09,540
meet him then when you say let's go for
1750
00:57:09,540 --> 00:57:11,040
coffee she'll remember the last time I
1751
00:57:11,040 --> 00:57:13,200
said no he stopped texting me oh okay
1752
00:57:13,200 --> 00:57:15,420
let's get the coffee because she knows
1753
00:57:15,420 --> 00:57:16,800
she cannot have your attention for free
1754
00:57:16,800 --> 00:57:19,260
keep your attention valuable do not
1755
00:57:19,260 --> 00:57:22,020
devalue yourself for any female because
1756
00:57:22,020 --> 00:57:23,700
you will definitely not get them you
1757
00:57:23,700 --> 00:57:25,079
stand a better chance getting them
1758
00:57:25,079 --> 00:57:26,819
keeping your attention valuable and
1759
00:57:26,819 --> 00:57:29,700
being patient patience gentlemen is how
1760
00:57:29,700 --> 00:57:31,319
you get a lot of these girls and if
1761
00:57:31,319 --> 00:57:33,180
you're talking to enough girls you don't
1762
00:57:33,180 --> 00:57:35,099
care I'm happy to wait six months to
1763
00:57:35,099 --> 00:57:36,180
[ __ ] a girl cause I got something to
1764
00:57:36,180 --> 00:57:37,859
[ __ ] today and tomorrow and the day
1765
00:57:37,859 --> 00:57:39,660
after and first of my [ __ ] life so I
1766
00:57:39,660 --> 00:57:40,980
don't care if I bang you now or in six
1767
00:57:40,980 --> 00:57:42,839
months it doesn't matter who cares
1768
00:57:42,839 --> 00:57:44,700
patience
1769
00:57:44,700 --> 00:57:47,579
so texture at night your aim for the day
1770
00:57:47,579 --> 00:57:51,300
one or two days then you say now
1771
00:57:51,300 --> 00:57:54,599
you do not ask girls to go on dates
1772
00:57:54,599 --> 00:57:58,260
you tell girls to go on dates if you've
1773
00:57:58,260 --> 00:58:00,300
ever asked a woman anything you'll know
1774
00:58:00,300 --> 00:58:02,220
that they're pretty [ __ ] at deciding
1775
00:58:02,220 --> 00:58:05,460
would you like to maybe go have some
1776
00:58:05,460 --> 00:58:07,619
time some
1777
00:58:07,619 --> 00:58:10,260
I've got a [ __ ] ass are you would you
1778
00:58:10,260 --> 00:58:11,880
like to maybe
1779
00:58:11,880 --> 00:58:15,200
users listen
1780
00:58:16,020 --> 00:58:18,359
who gives a [ __ ] if she wants to or not
1781
00:58:18,359 --> 00:58:22,020
and if you say sometime sometime opens
1782
00:58:22,020 --> 00:58:23,520
up the [ __ ] window for the friend
1783
00:58:23,520 --> 00:58:25,619
zone like you sometime is a [ __ ]
1784
00:58:25,619 --> 00:58:27,839
ticket to the friend zone yeah we'll go
1785
00:58:27,839 --> 00:58:31,339
out sometime what [ __ ] 2019 2025
1786
00:58:31,339 --> 00:58:34,020
sometime sometimes people were all dead
1787
00:58:34,020 --> 00:58:35,400
sometimes it'll be the end of the
1788
00:58:35,400 --> 00:58:36,900
[ __ ] planet Earth there is no
1789
00:58:36,900 --> 00:58:37,859
sometime
1790
00:58:37,859 --> 00:58:39,900
you tell it
1791
00:58:39,900 --> 00:58:41,819
when so you can either say when are we
1792
00:58:41,819 --> 00:58:44,220
having coffee which is a forceful ask or
1793
00:58:44,220 --> 00:58:45,720
you can say we're going for coffee soon
1794
00:58:45,720 --> 00:58:48,740
that's what I always say
1795
00:58:54,619 --> 00:58:56,880
say good night don't over text them
1796
00:58:56,880 --> 00:58:59,160
either don't over text them [ __ ] if you
1797
00:58:59,160 --> 00:59:00,720
text them a little bit 20 minutes 30
1798
00:59:00,720 --> 00:59:02,220
minutes that's enough okay yeah all
1799
00:59:02,220 --> 00:59:03,780
right I've got something to do never say
1800
00:59:03,780 --> 00:59:05,880
you're going to bed another thing like I
1801
00:59:05,880 --> 00:59:07,500
told you with the bakery thing I've got
1802
00:59:07,500 --> 00:59:08,760
so much [ __ ] knowledge in my
1803
00:59:08,760 --> 00:59:10,079
brilliant brain it's actually difficult
1804
00:59:10,079 --> 00:59:11,339
for me to put it linearly so you have to
1805
00:59:11,339 --> 00:59:12,180
watch this video over and over again
1806
00:59:12,180 --> 00:59:13,980
whatever never say you're going to bed
1807
00:59:13,980 --> 00:59:18,780
going to bed is a masculine cowards need
1808
00:59:18,780 --> 00:59:21,180
sleep oh I'm texting you you beautiful
1809
00:59:21,180 --> 00:59:24,180
girl but I'm tired so I'm tired I'm
1810
00:59:24,180 --> 00:59:25,980
gonna go I'm going to bed you know I
1811
00:59:25,980 --> 00:59:27,540
like to say at [ __ ] quarter past one
1812
00:59:27,540 --> 00:59:29,700
in the morning I'm going to work
1813
00:59:29,700 --> 00:59:32,640
work at this time money never sleeps
1814
00:59:32,640 --> 00:59:34,879
baby
1815
00:59:35,220 --> 00:59:37,680
then I go to bed it's fine but the point
1816
00:59:37,680 --> 00:59:40,260
is she's sitting there going to work
1817
00:59:40,260 --> 00:59:42,119
what do you do
1818
00:59:42,119 --> 00:59:44,099
I'll tell you in person
1819
00:59:44,099 --> 00:59:45,660
that's why I say just another little
1820
00:59:45,660 --> 00:59:47,700
thing to add towards the day
1821
00:59:47,700 --> 00:59:49,859
so don't say you're going to sleep so
1822
00:59:49,859 --> 00:59:51,780
never over text a hoe text her for 30
1823
00:59:51,780 --> 00:59:53,160
minutes or so and then you've got
1824
00:59:53,160 --> 00:59:54,599
something to do I've got to go to work
1825
00:59:54,599 --> 00:59:57,599
you work night shift I work 24 25 hours
1826
00:59:57,599 --> 00:59:59,460
a day eight days a week [ __ ] I'm
1827
00:59:59,460 --> 01:00:00,480
getting paid
1828
01:00:00,480 --> 01:00:03,000
so you've got to say things I'm a G
1829
01:00:03,000 --> 01:00:04,680
so keep the Intrigue there that's back
1830
01:00:04,680 --> 01:00:06,059
to the intrigue
1831
01:00:06,059 --> 01:00:07,740
so two nights I've been texting the girl
1832
01:00:07,740 --> 01:00:09,359
I'll say we're going for coffee soon
1833
01:00:09,359 --> 01:00:12,780
they'll usually reply 99 of the time
1834
01:00:12,780 --> 01:00:15,420
yeah sure or yeah we are something good
1835
01:00:15,420 --> 01:00:17,280
enough if they reply some dumb [ __ ] like
1836
01:00:17,280 --> 01:00:19,740
are we I'm trying to [ __ ] test you
1837
01:00:19,740 --> 01:00:21,599
you know what you say because you're a
1838
01:00:21,599 --> 01:00:24,299
full-grown man with clear intentions you
1839
01:00:24,299 --> 01:00:27,000
say yes we are and she goes what if I
1840
01:00:27,000 --> 01:00:28,740
don't want to you know what you replied
1841
01:00:28,740 --> 01:00:30,000
to that
1842
01:00:30,000 --> 01:00:32,780
nothing
1843
01:00:33,480 --> 01:00:36,200
foreign
1844
01:00:38,599 --> 01:00:42,480
drops to zero [ __ ] you let her sit there
1845
01:00:42,480 --> 01:00:44,520
and look
1846
01:00:44,520 --> 01:00:47,099
waiting for that reply
1847
01:00:47,099 --> 01:00:49,260
doesn't come most these hot [ __ ]
1848
01:00:49,260 --> 01:00:52,740
don't get ignored hot girls do not get
1849
01:00:52,740 --> 01:00:55,440
ignored it [ __ ] with their brain no one
1850
01:00:55,440 --> 01:00:57,780
ignores hot girls because hot girls are
1851
01:00:57,780 --> 01:00:59,220
too so valuable they've never been
1852
01:00:59,220 --> 01:01:01,140
ignored let them sit there and go to
1853
01:01:01,140 --> 01:01:02,460
sleep and go oh he'll text me tomorrow
1854
01:01:02,460 --> 01:01:04,980
next day
1855
01:01:04,980 --> 01:01:06,119
[ __ ]
1856
01:01:06,119 --> 01:01:08,040
you still ain't texting me then you'll
1857
01:01:08,040 --> 01:01:09,839
start to notice they start to like your
1858
01:01:09,839 --> 01:01:11,040
Instagram pictures
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like your pictures like every picture
1860
01:01:12,740 --> 01:01:14,819
why she liking pictures try and get your
1861
01:01:14,819 --> 01:01:16,079
attention again because your attention
1862
01:01:16,079 --> 01:01:18,000
is now valuable your attention has gone
1863
01:01:18,000 --> 01:01:19,619
down to zero it's scarce it's like gold
1864
01:01:19,619 --> 01:01:21,299
it's hard to find where's the attention
1865
01:01:21,299 --> 01:01:23,520
go start liking your Instagram pictures
1866
01:01:23,520 --> 01:01:25,980
then maybe they start if they make that
1867
01:01:25,980 --> 01:01:27,180
first move like liking your Instagram
1868
01:01:27,180 --> 01:01:28,680
pictures or they ask how you are or
1869
01:01:28,680 --> 01:01:29,760
something then you can talk to them
1870
01:01:29,760 --> 01:01:31,319
again of course you're like oh hey yeah
1871
01:01:31,319 --> 01:01:33,420
sorry been working
1872
01:01:33,420 --> 01:01:35,339
or say hey sorry I've been busy I was
1873
01:01:35,339 --> 01:01:37,619
out like coffee I like to say that one
1874
01:01:37,619 --> 01:01:38,700
because they're like well you invite me
1875
01:01:38,700 --> 01:01:39,960
for coffee invite another girl for
1876
01:01:39,960 --> 01:01:41,220
coffee then I'll say what with another
1877
01:01:41,220 --> 01:01:43,440
girl say of course not dear
1878
01:01:43,440 --> 01:01:46,559
sarcastic which means yes but I also
1879
01:01:46,559 --> 01:01:48,540
said no so they can't complain about it
1880
01:01:48,540 --> 01:01:50,220
careful with your language
1881
01:01:50,220 --> 01:01:52,319
so [ __ ] flip on the [ __ ] sorry I was
1882
01:01:52,319 --> 01:01:53,940
out on coffee
1883
01:01:53,940 --> 01:01:55,680
talk to her again another couple days
1884
01:01:55,680 --> 01:01:56,880
invite her she doesn't come the second
1885
01:01:56,880 --> 01:01:59,040
time
1886
01:01:59,040 --> 01:02:01,200
that's the basic rules of the game
1887
01:02:01,200 --> 01:02:03,180
progression you are not texting her to
1888
01:02:03,180 --> 01:02:04,920
be your [ __ ] friend or to make sure
1889
01:02:04,920 --> 01:02:06,960
her phone [ __ ] works
1890
01:02:06,960 --> 01:02:08,520
some dumb [ __ ]
1891
01:02:08,520 --> 01:02:11,520
regression day now you're on the dating
1892
01:02:11,520 --> 01:02:13,200
stage
1893
01:02:13,200 --> 01:02:15,480
dating is hard for me to coach because
1894
01:02:15,480 --> 01:02:17,280
really in reality this is something has
1895
01:02:17,280 --> 01:02:18,420
to happen in person if any of you guys
1896
01:02:18,420 --> 01:02:19,559
out there have any kind of serious
1897
01:02:19,559 --> 01:02:21,720
income message me I want to put together
1898
01:02:21,720 --> 01:02:24,839
a a three-day thing where I bring you to
1899
01:02:24,839 --> 01:02:27,240
me or I come to you probably bring you
1900
01:02:27,240 --> 01:02:28,500
to me
1901
01:02:28,500 --> 01:02:30,480
we hit the streets we do the Instagram
1902
01:02:30,480 --> 01:02:32,940
thing we get some dates we organize
1903
01:02:32,940 --> 01:02:34,680
those dates and you can see how I do it
1904
01:02:34,680 --> 01:02:35,819
and you can see in real life then you're
1905
01:02:35,819 --> 01:02:37,319
gonna learn a Next Level game if you're
1906
01:02:37,319 --> 01:02:39,720
interested in that email me but in
1907
01:02:39,720 --> 01:02:41,640
General on a date these are all things
1908
01:02:41,640 --> 01:02:43,200
you would have heard before
1909
01:02:43,200 --> 01:02:44,880
be confident
1910
01:02:44,880 --> 01:02:47,640
not overconfident be confident let her
1911
01:02:47,640 --> 01:02:49,380
talk about herself pretend to give a
1912
01:02:49,380 --> 01:02:50,160
[ __ ]
1913
01:02:50,160 --> 01:02:52,440
keep the Intrigue there
1914
01:02:52,440 --> 01:02:54,599
don't overstay this is the most
1915
01:02:54,599 --> 01:02:56,760
important thing the last thing you can
1916
01:02:56,760 --> 01:02:58,799
do to a woman is bored it's better to
1917
01:02:58,799 --> 01:03:01,440
cut a date short and her at the most
1918
01:03:01,440 --> 01:03:02,700
interesting point
1919
01:03:02,700 --> 01:03:04,920
then bore her imagine you have a movie
1920
01:03:04,920 --> 01:03:06,720
and the end of the movie [ __ ] or the
1921
01:03:06,720 --> 01:03:07,920
movie okay imagine you have a movie it's
1922
01:03:07,920 --> 01:03:10,200
an okay movie but it's five hours long
1923
01:03:10,200 --> 01:03:12,480
but after an hour and a half it's super
1924
01:03:12,480 --> 01:03:14,280
interesting what's gonna happen if you
1925
01:03:14,280 --> 01:03:16,260
cut the movie off there the person
1926
01:03:16,260 --> 01:03:18,059
really really wants to see the end of
1927
01:03:18,059 --> 01:03:20,099
that movie if you let the movie play to
1928
01:03:20,099 --> 01:03:22,380
the end okay it was an okay movie but
1929
01:03:22,380 --> 01:03:24,900
they know what happens no the first date
1930
01:03:24,900 --> 01:03:26,700
should be short and for that reason
1931
01:03:26,700 --> 01:03:28,380
that's why I always organize a coffee
1932
01:03:28,380 --> 01:03:30,599
day because coffee is short
1933
01:03:30,599 --> 01:03:33,720
coffee's 15-20 minutes max all you're
1934
01:03:33,720 --> 01:03:35,280
trying to do with the first day is prove
1935
01:03:35,280 --> 01:03:37,140
you're a real person you look like your
1936
01:03:37,140 --> 01:03:38,940
pictures you're not a [ __ ] psycho
1937
01:03:38,940 --> 01:03:40,500
you're not going to stab her and to
1938
01:03:40,500 --> 01:03:43,980
break the wall of real person from Guy
1939
01:03:43,980 --> 01:03:46,859
online that's the only real gold the
1940
01:03:46,859 --> 01:03:48,059
first day you're not trying to bang on
1941
01:03:48,059 --> 01:03:49,740
the first day you can bang on the first
1942
01:03:49,740 --> 01:03:51,599
date but that's a different kind of date
1943
01:03:51,599 --> 01:03:54,480
that's like if I have loads of girls and
1944
01:03:54,480 --> 01:03:56,220
I've got to the texting stage I mean
1945
01:03:56,220 --> 01:03:57,420
Tristan are going to the club one night
1946
01:03:57,420 --> 01:04:00,000
I'll text all of them hey I'm at the
1947
01:04:00,000 --> 01:04:01,380
club tonight uh I know he's not mad but
1948
01:04:01,380 --> 01:04:02,520
come it's gonna be really fun there's
1949
01:04:02,520 --> 01:04:04,020
lots of people here I say there's lots
1950
01:04:04,020 --> 01:04:05,099
of people so they don't feel like it's
1951
01:04:05,099 --> 01:04:07,020
creepy and we just and then you bring
1952
01:04:07,020 --> 01:04:08,339
them to the table getting drunk back you
1953
01:04:08,339 --> 01:04:09,960
can bang them first date that way I'm
1954
01:04:09,960 --> 01:04:11,099
interested I have a little saying call
1955
01:04:11,099 --> 01:04:12,180
the only thing better than double
1956
01:04:12,180 --> 01:04:14,579
booking is triple booking the reason we
1957
01:04:14,579 --> 01:04:15,839
have that saying is because one time
1958
01:04:15,839 --> 01:04:17,880
Tristan texts all those girls and two of
1959
01:04:17,880 --> 01:04:20,099
them turned up but we have phds so he
1960
01:04:20,099 --> 01:04:21,540
[ __ ] both he [ __ ] won and then a
1961
01:04:21,540 --> 01:04:22,500
couple weeks later [ __ ] the other one
1962
01:04:22,500 --> 01:04:24,180
anyway so these two girls who can text
1963
01:04:24,180 --> 01:04:26,160
and turned up and I text all my girls
1964
01:04:26,160 --> 01:04:27,900
and three turned up
1965
01:04:27,900 --> 01:04:29,280
and when I was drunk I turned to church
1966
01:04:29,280 --> 01:04:30,299
they said the only thing about the
1967
01:04:30,299 --> 01:04:32,579
double booking is triple booking and we
1968
01:04:32,579 --> 01:04:34,079
both laughed and we both [ __ ] because
1969
01:04:34,079 --> 01:04:37,440
we Chase so that's the club game but if
1970
01:04:37,440 --> 01:04:39,000
you're just doing a coffee thing you
1971
01:04:39,000 --> 01:04:40,260
just want a short date to introduce
1972
01:04:40,260 --> 01:04:43,079
yourself short Snappy I'm an interesting
1973
01:04:43,079 --> 01:04:45,540
person I'm a real person I'm not a creep
1974
01:04:45,540 --> 01:04:47,460
and another thing you need to do is
1975
01:04:47,460 --> 01:04:49,380
especially in the modern world is you
1976
01:04:49,380 --> 01:04:50,880
need to [ __ ] check for these catfish
1977
01:04:50,880 --> 01:04:52,140
bro
1978
01:04:52,140 --> 01:04:53,700
there's girls I'm talking to on
1979
01:04:53,700 --> 01:04:55,500
Instagram who are tens and I turn up on
1980
01:04:55,500 --> 01:04:56,760
their sevens now I know that doesn't
1981
01:04:56,760 --> 01:04:57,960
bother you because all you do is [ __ ]
1982
01:04:57,960 --> 01:05:00,599
settings I fought 10s so if I'm putting
1983
01:05:00,599 --> 01:05:02,220
energy into a 10 and I try to shoot a
1984
01:05:02,220 --> 01:05:04,140
[ __ ] seven I get pissed off
1985
01:05:04,140 --> 01:05:05,819
you guys are probably [ __ ] happy as
1986
01:05:05,819 --> 01:05:07,980
hell in episode I am
1987
01:05:07,980 --> 01:05:09,359
so you also gotta check that the girl
1988
01:05:09,359 --> 01:05:10,680
the Girls Gotta [ __ ] prove herself
1989
01:05:10,680 --> 01:05:12,180
too these girls live in catfish land
1990
01:05:12,180 --> 01:05:13,980
sometimes you're sitting there texting
1991
01:05:13,980 --> 01:05:15,599
away with your hard dick
1992
01:05:15,599 --> 01:05:17,160
thinking she's something special and she
1993
01:05:17,160 --> 01:05:19,079
turns up and she's basic anyway most you
1994
01:05:19,079 --> 01:05:20,339
guys are getting upset and worried about
1995
01:05:20,339 --> 01:05:22,920
basic ass hoes these chicks are basic so
1996
01:05:22,920 --> 01:05:24,660
the first date is good because sometimes
1997
01:05:24,660 --> 01:05:26,040
they might be below your standard you
1998
01:05:26,040 --> 01:05:27,059
might want to get rid of them quickly
1999
01:05:27,059 --> 01:05:28,619
I've had dates before where they've
2000
01:05:28,619 --> 01:05:29,579
turned up and go I don't want to hang
2001
01:05:29,579 --> 01:05:30,420
out
2002
01:05:30,420 --> 01:05:32,099
coffee oh yeah coffee oh yeah what do
2003
01:05:32,099 --> 01:05:33,660
you do yeah work study okay yeah we'll
2004
01:05:33,660 --> 01:05:35,220
see each other again okay bye if you
2005
01:05:35,220 --> 01:05:36,599
organize a big thing we'll go for dinner
2006
01:05:36,599 --> 01:05:38,880
and coffee and then we'll go for dinner
2007
01:05:38,880 --> 01:05:41,040
and movies and all this [ __ ] how do
2008
01:05:41,040 --> 01:05:42,660
you get rid of her maybe maybe you want
2009
01:05:42,660 --> 01:05:43,859
to get rid of her maybe she's annoying
2010
01:05:43,859 --> 01:05:46,799
maybe she's a vegan who knows coffee
2011
01:05:46,799 --> 01:05:49,200
it's quick it's to the point you can get
2012
01:05:49,200 --> 01:05:51,240
rid of her quick within 15 minutes you
2013
01:05:51,240 --> 01:05:53,460
can stay 45 minutes if you want make her
2014
01:05:53,460 --> 01:05:55,380
interested in you build her Intrigue
2015
01:05:55,380 --> 01:05:56,880
make her want to see you again do not
2016
01:05:56,880 --> 01:05:58,680
overplay it do not sit there and talk
2017
01:05:58,680 --> 01:06:00,660
for hours about your job and your pets
2018
01:06:00,660 --> 01:06:02,760
she doesn't [ __ ] care she only cares
2019
01:06:02,760 --> 01:06:04,619
about herself because she's a woman ask
2020
01:06:04,619 --> 01:06:06,599
her questions about herself don't give
2021
01:06:06,599 --> 01:06:08,400
her any real answers on you keep your
2022
01:06:08,400 --> 01:06:10,319
[ __ ] vague but be interesting be a
2023
01:06:10,319 --> 01:06:11,579
little bit funny a little bit smart be
2024
01:06:11,579 --> 01:06:14,160
confident 45 minutes okay yeah we'll
2025
01:06:14,160 --> 01:06:16,319
just meet again soon bang bang bye
2026
01:06:16,319 --> 01:06:18,599
that's the goal of the first date
2027
01:06:18,599 --> 01:06:21,119
after the first date
2028
01:06:21,119 --> 01:06:24,660
then the texting game goes into the next
2029
01:06:24,660 --> 01:06:26,640
level now I'm not saying you can message
2030
01:06:26,640 --> 01:06:28,020
her I'm gonna [ __ ] you in your ass
2031
01:06:28,020 --> 01:06:30,119
obviously you can't do that but at this
2032
01:06:30,119 --> 01:06:32,640
point she's met you she knows what you
2033
01:06:32,640 --> 01:06:35,220
look like she knows you're a real person
2034
01:06:35,220 --> 01:06:37,920
if she's replying to you you can be
2035
01:06:37,920 --> 01:06:39,420
quite
2036
01:06:39,420 --> 01:06:41,819
a direct I don't want you [ __ ] losers
2037
01:06:41,819 --> 01:06:45,180
being creepy don't be creepy but you're
2038
01:06:45,180 --> 01:06:48,240
adults there's now no reason for you to
2039
01:06:48,240 --> 01:06:50,760
be texting unless you're gonna [ __ ]
2040
01:06:50,760 --> 01:06:52,740
why are you texting she knows who you
2041
01:06:52,740 --> 01:06:54,839
are she's met you if she's replying to
2042
01:06:54,839 --> 01:06:56,880
you she likes you so it has to be going
2043
01:06:56,880 --> 01:06:59,039
you're Progressive done the day now
2044
01:06:59,039 --> 01:07:00,240
you've got basically now you're
2045
01:07:00,240 --> 01:07:02,579
basically talking about adult things
2046
01:07:02,579 --> 01:07:04,140
and there's no reason to be texting
2047
01:07:04,140 --> 01:07:06,960
otherwise if you if if you text her and
2048
01:07:06,960 --> 01:07:08,039
she doesn't want to talk about adult
2049
01:07:08,039 --> 01:07:09,720
things then what the [ __ ] are you
2050
01:07:09,720 --> 01:07:11,579
talking to her for she's met you she
2051
01:07:11,579 --> 01:07:12,780
knows what you look like and she doesn't
2052
01:07:12,780 --> 01:07:13,980
want to talk about adult things and she
2053
01:07:13,980 --> 01:07:16,880
doesn't want to [ __ ] you so
2054
01:07:17,339 --> 01:07:20,579
simple you're at that point now so I'll
2055
01:07:20,579 --> 01:07:22,020
say things like after the first date
2056
01:07:22,020 --> 01:07:23,819
I'll say things like
2057
01:07:23,819 --> 01:07:27,420
hey we got to I'm just in bed yeah uh
2058
01:07:27,420 --> 01:07:30,359
yeah I've just finished work did uh some
2059
01:07:30,359 --> 01:07:31,619
[ __ ]
2060
01:07:31,619 --> 01:07:33,660
um but you have to be careful I'm saying
2061
01:07:33,660 --> 01:07:34,859
this because most you [ __ ]
2062
01:07:34,859 --> 01:07:37,020
aren't as smooth as me don't don't be
2063
01:07:37,020 --> 01:07:39,000
creepy you gotta be to the point with
2064
01:07:39,000 --> 01:07:40,920
like why you're texting
2065
01:07:40,920 --> 01:07:42,299
you should know where I'm coming from
2066
01:07:42,299 --> 01:07:44,460
with that so don't say anything creepy
2067
01:07:44,460 --> 01:07:46,380
and weird but just be to the point to
2068
01:07:46,380 --> 01:07:48,180
say yeah I'm out working I'm gonna work
2069
01:07:48,180 --> 01:07:49,260
all night tonight probably oh you're
2070
01:07:49,260 --> 01:07:50,460
gonna work all night yeah I'm not gonna
2071
01:07:50,460 --> 01:07:52,140
sleep till you're with me
2072
01:07:52,140 --> 01:07:54,119
some [ __ ] like that which is kind of
2073
01:07:54,119 --> 01:07:57,180
smooth with it LOL might be a long time
2074
01:07:57,180 --> 01:07:59,220
then I'm Superman I don't need sleep I
2075
01:07:59,220 --> 01:08:00,539
don't give a [ __ ] I'll wait
2076
01:08:00,539 --> 01:08:02,819
that can just be cool with it but just
2077
01:08:02,819 --> 01:08:04,140
make it clear
2078
01:08:04,140 --> 01:08:06,480
start talking about adult themes if
2079
01:08:06,480 --> 01:08:08,640
she's still replying everything's good
2080
01:08:08,640 --> 01:08:11,520
from there couple days organize second
2081
01:08:11,520 --> 01:08:13,380
date and from there it's game over you
2082
01:08:13,380 --> 01:08:14,339
should know what to do from there then
2083
01:08:14,339 --> 01:08:15,839
you organize a proper day at night
2084
01:08:15,839 --> 01:08:18,479
dinner is a bit formal
2085
01:08:18,479 --> 01:08:20,698
movies is always a no because you can't
2086
01:08:20,698 --> 01:08:22,920
talk movies are an easy one because you
2087
01:08:22,920 --> 01:08:24,060
don't have to talk to the girl but then
2088
01:08:24,060 --> 01:08:25,319
also you don't get to really get
2089
01:08:25,319 --> 01:08:26,339
anywhere because you don't talk to the
2090
01:08:26,339 --> 01:08:29,219
girl so movies are bad dinners I don't
2091
01:08:29,219 --> 01:08:32,880
really like dinners I like drinks
2092
01:08:32,880 --> 01:08:34,738
and I actually like to keep it super
2093
01:08:34,738 --> 01:08:37,679
informal so I'm lucky I have my brother
2094
01:08:37,679 --> 01:08:39,540
but
2095
01:08:39,540 --> 01:08:42,540
formal situations make things awkward
2096
01:08:42,540 --> 01:08:44,040
so if I gotta bring a girl out for
2097
01:08:44,040 --> 01:08:45,420
drinks I'll say oh yeah we're getting
2098
01:08:45,420 --> 01:08:47,160
some drinks my brother and some people
2099
01:08:47,160 --> 01:08:49,140
are there just come along if there's
2100
01:08:49,140 --> 01:08:51,660
other people around they feel it's less
2101
01:08:51,660 --> 01:08:53,880
like you and me and sitting down and
2102
01:08:53,880 --> 01:08:55,799
we're drinking or talking you don't need
2103
01:08:55,799 --> 01:08:57,600
that intimate [ __ ] you talk one-on-one
2104
01:08:57,600 --> 01:08:59,399
on WhatsApp all the time you can just
2105
01:08:59,399 --> 01:09:01,319
bring her into a fun environment now of
2106
01:09:01,319 --> 01:09:03,120
all your friends are [ __ ] you can't
2107
01:09:03,120 --> 01:09:05,520
do that because your friends need to
2108
01:09:05,520 --> 01:09:06,779
know the game as well your friends have
2109
01:09:06,779 --> 01:09:08,160
to make sure they never hit on your girl
2110
01:09:08,160 --> 01:09:10,859
they never interrupt or try and talk to
2111
01:09:10,859 --> 01:09:12,299
your girl when it's your job to be
2112
01:09:12,299 --> 01:09:13,859
talking to her your friends need to
2113
01:09:13,859 --> 01:09:16,140
participate towards getting you laid if
2114
01:09:16,140 --> 01:09:17,399
you have good quality friends it's
2115
01:09:17,399 --> 01:09:18,839
easier so I'll give you a very quick
2116
01:09:18,839 --> 01:09:21,000
example like me and Tristan are [ __ ]
2117
01:09:21,000 --> 01:09:23,819
smooth survive a girl on a bang it's out
2118
01:09:23,819 --> 01:09:26,520
of 10. a marriage is 10 bank 10. I said
2119
01:09:26,520 --> 01:09:28,799
come for some drinks I say Tristan I
2120
01:09:28,799 --> 01:09:30,179
want to close this one tonight all right
2121
01:09:30,179 --> 01:09:31,799
cool Tristan will bring one of his girls
2122
01:09:31,799 --> 01:09:33,660
so he's already [ __ ] and his girl
2123
01:09:33,660 --> 01:09:35,759
knows the game so not only do I have
2124
01:09:35,759 --> 01:09:38,100
Kristen as a wingman I'm a female
2125
01:09:38,100 --> 01:09:40,738
wingman so like for example we go out
2126
01:09:40,738 --> 01:09:42,359
girl turns off that other girl's saying
2127
01:09:42,359 --> 01:09:43,799
oh yeah I've done Andrew ages yeah these
2128
01:09:43,799 --> 01:09:45,179
brothers are so fun she they took me
2129
01:09:45,179 --> 01:09:46,920
here they took me there my girls listen
2130
01:09:46,920 --> 01:09:48,719
to this girl going well she gets to [ __ ]
2131
01:09:48,719 --> 01:09:50,160
with these guys and she's not there and
2132
01:09:50,160 --> 01:09:52,560
her life's great I want to be like I
2133
01:09:52,560 --> 01:09:54,840
want these things and then was drinking
2134
01:09:54,840 --> 01:09:56,040
drink and drinking and if I say I'll
2135
01:09:56,040 --> 01:09:58,620
come back to my place it's creepy if the
2136
01:09:58,620 --> 01:10:00,300
girl goes let's go back to your house
2137
01:10:00,300 --> 01:10:01,920
your house is fun
2138
01:10:01,920 --> 01:10:03,900
then the other girl will be like oh okay
2139
01:10:03,900 --> 01:10:06,480
the girls want to go back it's so easy
2140
01:10:06,480 --> 01:10:08,699
if you have a [ __ ] chick so this is
2141
01:10:08,699 --> 01:10:09,660
what I'm saying if your friends are
2142
01:10:09,660 --> 01:10:11,820
[ __ ] it's hard I've got a [ __ ]
2143
01:10:11,820 --> 01:10:14,940
support team which are Ironclad I know I
2144
01:10:14,940 --> 01:10:16,260
bring Tristan and one of his female
2145
01:10:16,260 --> 01:10:19,380
soldiers I do not fail getting back to
2146
01:10:19,380 --> 01:10:20,520
the house is going to be guaranteed by
2147
01:10:20,520 --> 01:10:22,140
the girl the girl's gonna say I'll break
2148
01:10:22,140 --> 01:10:23,640
her life then it's just so [ __ ] I
2149
01:10:23,640 --> 01:10:25,860
don't even do anything I don't do I sit
2150
01:10:25,860 --> 01:10:27,420
there on Twitter calling you all idiots
2151
01:10:27,420 --> 01:10:30,060
I don't do [ __ ] and I still get laid
2152
01:10:30,060 --> 01:10:32,040
so if you have a good group of friends
2153
01:10:32,040 --> 01:10:33,840
who aren't [ __ ] pricks
2154
01:10:33,840 --> 01:10:35,580
and what you have to understand is that
2155
01:10:35,580 --> 01:10:38,340
most of you watching this are Pricks
2156
01:10:38,340 --> 01:10:39,840
yourselves losers yourselves between
2157
01:10:39,840 --> 01:10:41,520
your friends are losers but if you're
2158
01:10:41,520 --> 01:10:43,199
going to bring a girl around
2159
01:10:43,199 --> 01:10:45,600
you've got to be clear with your friends
2160
01:10:45,600 --> 01:10:48,239
they can't be like the BET like banter
2161
01:10:48,239 --> 01:10:50,460
for example if my boy were to bring his
2162
01:10:50,460 --> 01:10:52,980
friend a girl I would never like chokily
2163
01:10:52,980 --> 01:10:54,840
insult him or something oh well he's
2164
01:10:54,840 --> 01:10:56,940
[ __ ] he you know like all the dumb
2165
01:10:56,940 --> 01:10:59,580
guy [ __ ] you do calling a guy a loser or
2166
01:10:59,580 --> 01:11:01,500
calling a guy there so that you can't do
2167
01:11:01,500 --> 01:11:03,600
that if a guy's bringing a girl he's
2168
01:11:03,600 --> 01:11:04,920
trying to get laid your friends
2169
01:11:04,920 --> 01:11:06,420
shouldn't be insulting you even as a
2170
01:11:06,420 --> 01:11:07,980
joke your friend shouldn't be trying to
2171
01:11:07,980 --> 01:11:09,480
talk to your girl your friends should
2172
01:11:09,480 --> 01:11:11,580
just be there to Make Some Noise to
2173
01:11:11,580 --> 01:11:13,199
break down the monotony of a formal
2174
01:11:13,199 --> 01:11:16,260
situation say hi be polite offer a drink
2175
01:11:16,260 --> 01:11:18,480
or whatever and that's it so if your
2176
01:11:18,480 --> 01:11:19,920
friends aren't [ __ ] I'd actually
2177
01:11:19,920 --> 01:11:22,020
recommend on the last day to make it a
2178
01:11:22,020 --> 01:11:23,760
group kind of thing if your friends
2179
01:11:23,760 --> 01:11:24,900
aren't [ __ ] if your friends are
2180
01:11:24,900 --> 01:11:26,880
[ __ ] they'll be detrimentals if you
2181
01:11:26,880 --> 01:11:28,380
have to sit here and look and think do I
2182
01:11:28,380 --> 01:11:30,060
have good friends or any events because
2183
01:11:30,060 --> 01:11:31,679
if you were to come out with your girl
2184
01:11:31,679 --> 01:11:34,199
and me and my girl you'd be getting laid
2185
01:11:34,199 --> 01:11:35,520
so if your friends are good do that if
2186
01:11:35,520 --> 01:11:37,260
not it's just you and her it's fine but
2187
01:11:37,260 --> 01:11:38,520
if you've got friends around make it
2188
01:11:38,520 --> 01:11:39,840
informal yeah we'll have some drinks
2189
01:11:39,840 --> 01:11:41,400
that'll come out have some drinks have a
2190
01:11:41,400 --> 01:11:43,860
laugh never kiss at the end of the day
2191
01:11:43,860 --> 01:11:46,199
on the second date don't kiss her at the
2192
01:11:46,199 --> 01:11:48,659
end because kids kissing at the end then
2193
01:11:48,659 --> 01:11:50,219
you want to [ __ ] her but it's the end of
2194
01:11:50,219 --> 01:11:52,140
the day we've just kissed it's a bit
2195
01:11:52,140 --> 01:11:54,360
weird kiss her early on don't be a [ __ ]
2196
01:11:54,360 --> 01:11:56,219
the date let's say she turns up eight
2197
01:11:56,219 --> 01:11:59,340
o'clock for drinks by 8 45 she'll at
2198
01:11:59,340 --> 01:12:00,659
least kiss her
2199
01:12:00,659 --> 01:12:03,600
that's what I do in terms of a drink gin
2200
01:12:03,600 --> 01:12:05,460
and tonic whatever blah talking [ __ ]
2201
01:12:05,460 --> 01:12:07,260
Tris is there but talking [ __ ]
2202
01:12:07,260 --> 01:12:09,540
everyone's laughing having fun give her
2203
01:12:09,540 --> 01:12:12,179
a kiss 8 45 then then she's got her hand
2204
01:12:12,179 --> 01:12:14,580
on your leg by [ __ ] 9 30. then by the
2205
01:12:14,580 --> 01:12:17,040
time it's [ __ ] 12 30 she wants dick
2206
01:12:17,040 --> 01:12:18,420
because she's been comfortable with you
2207
01:12:18,420 --> 01:12:20,100
she's kissed you she's hung out with you
2208
01:12:20,100 --> 01:12:22,020
a few hours since she's been touching
2209
01:12:22,020 --> 01:12:23,460
you a bit now she's comfortable enough
2210
01:12:23,460 --> 01:12:25,620
to [ __ ] if you try and kiss her at 12 30
2211
01:12:25,620 --> 01:12:27,900
we're about to go home now kids want to
2212
01:12:27,900 --> 01:12:30,179
come to my place it's two
2213
01:12:30,179 --> 01:12:33,179
romantic model movie P.S I Love You
2214
01:12:33,179 --> 01:12:35,820
[ __ ] it ain't real it's too formal
2215
01:12:35,820 --> 01:12:38,040
don't do that kiss her in 45 minutes
2216
01:12:38,040 --> 01:12:40,400
have a laugh keep drinking have a joke
2217
01:12:40,400 --> 01:12:42,540
hold her hand or put her hand on your
2218
01:12:42,540 --> 01:12:46,260
leg talk some [ __ ] kiss her again by the
2219
01:12:46,260 --> 01:12:48,060
time it's time to go she'll Wanna [ __ ]
2220
01:12:48,060 --> 01:12:50,880
and you don't ask her you just take her
2221
01:12:50,880 --> 01:12:52,980
taker don't ask her if she wants to come
2222
01:12:52,980 --> 01:12:55,560
to yours ask her if she wants to go home
2223
01:12:55,560 --> 01:12:57,060
so when the taxi turns up I go we're
2224
01:12:57,060 --> 01:12:58,199
going to mine
2225
01:12:58,199 --> 01:13:01,020
and unless she goes no I want to go home
2226
01:13:01,020 --> 01:13:02,699
and she goes okay you want to go home no
2227
01:13:02,699 --> 01:13:04,199
problem cool if you want to go home all
2228
01:13:04,199 --> 01:13:05,760
right cool get you a taxi never take her
2229
01:13:05,760 --> 01:13:07,440
to the same taxi she doesn't get you
2230
01:13:07,440 --> 01:13:08,520
don't ride with me if you're not coming
2231
01:13:08,520 --> 01:13:09,840
to my house I ain't getting in my pack
2232
01:13:09,840 --> 01:13:11,219
somewhere out of my way to drop you off
2233
01:13:11,219 --> 01:13:12,719
today and I said okay cool I'll get you
2234
01:13:12,719 --> 01:13:15,179
a car Uber bang yeah kiss all right yeah
2235
01:13:15,179 --> 01:13:16,500
see you next time nothing wrong with
2236
01:13:16,500 --> 01:13:17,580
that maybe we'll [ __ ] up the day after
2237
01:13:17,580 --> 01:13:19,500
some girls are like that it's no problem
2238
01:13:19,500 --> 01:13:21,480
if you get my car coming to my house
2239
01:13:21,480 --> 01:13:23,100
we're going to mine
2240
01:13:23,100 --> 01:13:26,640
oh really yeah we're gonna get in okay
2241
01:13:26,640 --> 01:13:28,320
women like to be led they don't like to
2242
01:13:28,320 --> 01:13:30,060
be asked if you're asking what she wants
2243
01:13:30,060 --> 01:13:32,400
to eat she doesn't know oh no they want
2244
01:13:32,400 --> 01:13:34,800
to be told what to do come with me if
2245
01:13:34,800 --> 01:13:36,420
she says no that's perfectly fine
2246
01:13:36,420 --> 01:13:38,520
remember you're not [ __ ] psycho I
2247
01:13:38,520 --> 01:13:39,480
don't want any of you [ __ ]
2248
01:13:39,480 --> 01:13:40,679
getting rape charges and the police
2249
01:13:40,679 --> 01:13:42,239
finding this video and coming after me
2250
01:13:42,239 --> 01:13:43,080
for it because I ain't done nothing
2251
01:13:43,080 --> 01:13:45,420
[ __ ] wrong to anybody just saying
2252
01:13:45,420 --> 01:13:47,340
you're clear I'm go we're all going to
2253
01:13:47,340 --> 01:13:48,540
mine or I'm going to mine to come with
2254
01:13:48,540 --> 01:13:51,000
me oh no I really want to go home no
2255
01:13:51,000 --> 01:13:54,000
problem you do not ask twice
2256
01:13:54,000 --> 01:13:55,920
oh I really think you should come to
2257
01:13:55,920 --> 01:13:57,900
mind that's submissive and pathetic no
2258
01:13:57,900 --> 01:13:59,100
you're not pathetic you're a [ __ ]
2259
01:13:59,100 --> 01:14:01,080
full-grown man I want to go to mine no
2260
01:14:01,080 --> 01:14:03,060
problem and in fact a lot of the time
2261
01:14:03,060 --> 01:14:04,679
they don't like that because sometimes
2262
01:14:04,679 --> 01:14:05,699
women are trying to play hard to get
2263
01:14:05,699 --> 01:14:07,260
well maybe I should go home okay you
2264
01:14:07,260 --> 01:14:08,460
want to go home no problem we'll get you
2265
01:14:08,460 --> 01:14:09,600
a car we'll get you a car we'll get the
2266
01:14:09,600 --> 01:14:11,760
taxi
2267
01:14:11,760 --> 01:14:13,800
well I was just thinking I need I need
2268
01:14:13,800 --> 01:14:15,540
my things then they'll try and back out
2269
01:14:15,540 --> 01:14:17,580
of it I was just thinking so all right
2270
01:14:17,580 --> 01:14:18,659
well we're going to mine you don't need
2271
01:14:18,659 --> 01:14:21,179
your things you want to come okay
2272
01:14:21,179 --> 01:14:22,140
Dot
2273
01:14:22,140 --> 01:14:24,060
you did you but as soon as they say they
2274
01:14:24,060 --> 01:14:25,560
want to go go yeah give them what they
2275
01:14:25,560 --> 01:14:28,199
want it's the takeaway Trump said know
2276
01:14:28,199 --> 01:14:29,760
when to walk away from the table the art
2277
01:14:29,760 --> 01:14:31,320
of the deal walk away from the deal
2278
01:14:31,320 --> 01:14:33,360
dealers go to my house oh you want to
2279
01:14:33,360 --> 01:14:34,440
play games all right you're not allowed
2280
01:14:34,440 --> 01:14:36,060
to come okay we'll take you home we'll
2281
01:14:36,060 --> 01:14:37,199
take you home we're gonna go party we'll
2282
01:14:37,199 --> 01:14:38,100
take you home
2283
01:14:38,100 --> 01:14:40,620
they don't want to miss out oh okay I
2284
01:14:40,620 --> 01:14:41,580
was just thinking I don't have a phone
2285
01:14:41,580 --> 01:14:42,900
charger I have a phone charger a phone
2286
01:14:42,900 --> 01:14:45,420
call Samsung I've got Samsung charger no
2287
01:14:45,420 --> 01:14:47,219
you don't no one has a Samsung
2288
01:14:47,219 --> 01:14:49,739
yeah I've got one now somewhere come on
2289
01:14:49,739 --> 01:14:51,480
back dog
2290
01:14:51,480 --> 01:14:54,120
if you know I really go home cool Circle
2291
01:14:54,120 --> 01:14:55,440
car bang all right maybe see you again
2292
01:14:55,440 --> 01:14:57,480
bang kiss bye do another day maybe it
2293
01:14:57,480 --> 01:14:58,380
takes three or four days you
2294
01:14:58,380 --> 01:15:00,420
[ __ ] aren't smooth as me by day
2295
01:15:00,420 --> 01:15:03,360
two I'm [ __ ] I'm a G you guys aren't
2296
01:15:03,360 --> 01:15:05,040
smoothly so you need some more time she
2297
01:15:05,040 --> 01:15:06,900
wants to go homes no problem you have my
2298
01:15:06,900 --> 01:15:09,360
FDB it's all good see you again keep
2299
01:15:09,360 --> 01:15:10,739
texting her keep working it you'll get
2300
01:15:10,739 --> 01:15:11,940
there in the end when you're as smooth
2301
01:15:11,940 --> 01:15:14,520
as me day two game over I don't have
2302
01:15:14,520 --> 01:15:16,739
that same number so I've had girls come
2303
01:15:16,739 --> 01:15:18,000
to my house and not [ __ ] that happens
2304
01:15:18,000 --> 01:15:20,880
but they always send to the house
2305
01:15:20,880 --> 01:15:23,400
so that's the basic progression so I
2306
01:15:23,400 --> 01:15:24,659
told you in this video I'm not going to
2307
01:15:24,659 --> 01:15:26,940
tell you anything about getting a Lambo
2308
01:15:26,940 --> 01:15:28,500
and getting in shape because you know
2309
01:15:28,500 --> 01:15:30,000
all that [ __ ] I'm telling you about
2310
01:15:30,000 --> 01:15:31,860
things you can do right here right now
2311
01:15:31,860 --> 01:15:34,199
to improve your game
2312
01:15:34,199 --> 01:15:38,460
so Instagram progress do a graphic
2313
01:15:38,460 --> 01:15:41,159
Instagram progress WhatsApp progress
2314
01:15:41,159 --> 01:15:44,040
Coffee Day more texting serious day
2315
01:15:44,040 --> 01:15:48,780
aiming to close that is the system now
2316
01:15:48,780 --> 01:15:51,380
Tower of Power here
2317
01:15:51,380 --> 01:15:54,719
king cobra t-shirt [ __ ] it right now
2318
01:15:54,719 --> 01:15:57,260
we're going to talk about
2319
01:15:57,960 --> 01:15:59,699
next
2320
01:15:59,699 --> 01:16:02,640
talk about how you're going to get dates
2321
01:16:02,640 --> 01:16:03,840
we'll talk about
2322
01:16:03,840 --> 01:16:07,100
cold hard truth
2323
01:16:07,140 --> 01:16:09,380
of these females
2324
01:16:09,380 --> 01:16:12,679
truth is this
2325
01:16:13,739 --> 01:16:15,840
there's no such thing as a perfect woman
2326
01:16:15,840 --> 01:16:17,400
if you want a woman who's perfect for
2327
01:16:17,400 --> 01:16:19,500
you you must build her to be perfect for
2328
01:16:19,500 --> 01:16:21,659
you a woman who is understanding and
2329
01:16:21,659 --> 01:16:23,699
kind and who respects you does not exist
2330
01:16:23,699 --> 01:16:25,800
unless you force her to be that way and
2331
01:16:25,800 --> 01:16:27,060
when I say Force when I mean in a
2332
01:16:27,060 --> 01:16:28,980
horrible way I mean in a simple there's
2333
01:16:28,980 --> 01:16:31,320
no other option Like Walter always takes
2334
01:16:31,320 --> 01:16:33,480
the easiest path through the Rocks the
2335
01:16:33,480 --> 01:16:35,699
woman must learn that her man is [ __ ]
2336
01:16:35,699 --> 01:16:37,800
an Iron Mountain and the easiest path is
2337
01:16:37,800 --> 01:16:39,840
to obey any other kind of resistance
2338
01:16:39,840 --> 01:16:41,520
simply doesn't work
2339
01:16:41,520 --> 01:16:43,199
that's how you have to be
2340
01:16:43,199 --> 01:16:46,020
but some women are more moldable than
2341
01:16:46,020 --> 01:16:49,080
others you have I call it blueprints you
2342
01:16:49,080 --> 01:16:51,600
have good Blueprints and bad blueprints
2343
01:16:51,600 --> 01:16:54,840
so you have I I with my skill level can
2344
01:16:54,840 --> 01:16:57,480
make any female do as I say
2345
01:16:57,480 --> 01:16:59,340
and I say that with absolute conviction
2346
01:16:59,340 --> 01:17:02,580
I've never met a woman who will not do
2347
01:17:02,580 --> 01:17:05,400
the basics of what I say bring me coffee
2348
01:17:05,400 --> 01:17:07,739
turn up where I tell her to listen to me
2349
01:17:07,739 --> 01:17:10,800
not talk to other men basic things
2350
01:17:10,800 --> 01:17:12,420
but
2351
01:17:12,420 --> 01:17:14,940
some are better blueprints than others
2352
01:17:14,940 --> 01:17:16,920
so when you read these books these red
2353
01:17:16,920 --> 01:17:18,179
pill books all this [ __ ] talking
2354
01:17:18,179 --> 01:17:20,219
about BPD and all that bollocks firstly
2355
01:17:20,219 --> 01:17:22,500
let's do a very side subject on BPD like
2356
01:17:22,500 --> 01:17:24,540
I said talk about Bakery masterclass my
2357
01:17:24,540 --> 01:17:26,460
brain's full of information
2358
01:17:26,460 --> 01:17:28,560
BPD
2359
01:17:28,560 --> 01:17:30,239
ain't [ __ ] real
2360
01:17:30,239 --> 01:17:31,980
and the reason it ain't real is because
2361
01:17:31,980 --> 01:17:33,659
all these red pill guys talk about
2362
01:17:33,659 --> 01:17:35,940
borderline personality disorder if the
2363
01:17:35,940 --> 01:17:37,440
girl doesn't listen to you or the girl
2364
01:17:37,440 --> 01:17:39,239
acts this way she's got borderline
2365
01:17:39,239 --> 01:17:42,060
personality disorder every single hot
2366
01:17:42,060 --> 01:17:45,960
chick in the world has BPD how can you
2367
01:17:45,960 --> 01:17:48,840
be 16 years old with a hundred thousand
2368
01:17:48,840 --> 01:17:51,060
followers on Instagram and full-grown
2369
01:17:51,060 --> 01:17:53,280
men giving you unlimited attention for
2370
01:17:53,280 --> 01:17:55,679
no reason all the way up until you're 25
2371
01:17:55,679 --> 01:17:58,739
for nearly 10 years men going out of
2372
01:17:58,739 --> 01:18:01,260
their way breaking down crying in voice
2373
01:18:01,260 --> 01:18:03,239
notes being complete little [ __ ]
2374
01:18:03,239 --> 01:18:05,340
doing anything you tell them to do how
2375
01:18:05,340 --> 01:18:07,679
can you live that life and not have an
2376
01:18:07,679 --> 01:18:09,920
ego or a borderline personality disorder
2377
01:18:09,920 --> 01:18:12,420
every single hot chick and trust me I
2378
01:18:12,420 --> 01:18:15,120
[ __ ] more than you to a degree has
2379
01:18:15,120 --> 01:18:16,260
something [ __ ] up in their head
2380
01:18:16,260 --> 01:18:18,000
because the attention they're getting is
2381
01:18:18,000 --> 01:18:20,640
off the [ __ ] scale men have made
2382
01:18:20,640 --> 01:18:22,020
women have BPD
2383
01:18:22,020 --> 01:18:23,760
luckily there's men like me out here who
2384
01:18:23,760 --> 01:18:25,920
puts them back in [ __ ] check
2385
01:18:25,920 --> 01:18:27,900
so BPD ain't real
2386
01:18:27,900 --> 01:18:29,400
let's get that shot your head girl ain't
2387
01:18:29,400 --> 01:18:30,719
listening to you it's either because
2388
01:18:30,719 --> 01:18:32,699
your game [ __ ] or because of external
2389
01:18:32,699 --> 01:18:34,679
factors maybe her Granddad just died she
2390
01:18:34,679 --> 01:18:35,880
doesn't listen to you right now doesn't
2391
01:18:35,880 --> 01:18:38,520
mean she has BPD get that whole excuse
2392
01:18:38,520 --> 01:18:41,580
out your head it ain't a real thing
2393
01:18:41,580 --> 01:18:42,780
so
2394
01:18:42,780 --> 01:18:44,159
you have good Blueprints and bad
2395
01:18:44,159 --> 01:18:45,840
blueprints some women are more
2396
01:18:45,840 --> 01:18:48,000
susceptible to being molded some women
2397
01:18:48,000 --> 01:18:51,060
have better values than others I do
2398
01:18:51,060 --> 01:18:52,380
agree with what the red pill books say
2399
01:18:52,380 --> 01:18:54,000
that if a woman's [ __ ] lots of men
2400
01:18:54,000 --> 01:18:56,280
she's not as good a mold as a woman
2401
01:18:56,280 --> 01:18:58,140
who's [ __ ] less men that's true and
2402
01:18:58,140 --> 01:18:59,219
the reason for that is because if a
2403
01:18:59,219 --> 01:19:00,600
woman's [ __ ] lots and lots and lots of
2404
01:19:00,600 --> 01:19:03,120
guys they don't have a stigma attached
2405
01:19:03,120 --> 01:19:05,219
to getting a new dick so when times get
2406
01:19:05,219 --> 01:19:06,840
hard or you tell them to do something
2407
01:19:06,840 --> 01:19:08,280
they don't want to do they think I'll
2408
01:19:08,280 --> 01:19:09,659
just [ __ ] someone else then they're more
2409
01:19:09,659 --> 01:19:11,520
they're less loyal they're more likely
2410
01:19:11,520 --> 01:19:13,199
to run off and leave if they've slept
2411
01:19:13,199 --> 01:19:14,760
with lots of men they've lost some of
2412
01:19:14,760 --> 01:19:16,080
the few men if you're the second guy or
2413
01:19:16,080 --> 01:19:17,460
first guy ever they don't want to give
2414
01:19:17,460 --> 01:19:20,219
up on you that easy so if you say stop
2415
01:19:20,219 --> 01:19:22,199
texting this dude they're more likely to
2416
01:19:22,199 --> 01:19:23,340
do that and never grow something 20
2417
01:19:23,340 --> 01:19:24,960
bucks a lot of Texas dude to find a new
2418
01:19:24,960 --> 01:19:26,100
kind of [ __ ]
2419
01:19:26,100 --> 01:19:28,140
so that is true so you have good
2420
01:19:28,140 --> 01:19:30,480
Blueprints and bad blueprints now I
2421
01:19:30,480 --> 01:19:31,860
could tell you just like I did with the
2422
01:19:31,860 --> 01:19:33,360
how many men they're cycling I can tell
2423
01:19:33,360 --> 01:19:35,400
you 100 different reasons what makes a
2424
01:19:35,400 --> 01:19:36,900
good blueprint what makes a bad
2425
01:19:36,900 --> 01:19:39,900
blueprint I could waste loads of time or
2426
01:19:39,900 --> 01:19:41,340
I could just give you the [ __ ]
2427
01:19:41,340 --> 01:19:46,140
instant easy to tell iron breakable test
2428
01:19:46,140 --> 01:19:49,080
this test tells you
2429
01:19:49,080 --> 01:19:51,840
concrete if a woman's good quality or
2430
01:19:51,840 --> 01:19:53,219
bad quality
2431
01:19:53,219 --> 01:19:56,000
here's how
2432
01:19:59,219 --> 01:20:01,380
test happens after you sleep with her
2433
01:20:01,380 --> 01:20:03,719
now if you're sitting here thinking
2434
01:20:03,719 --> 01:20:05,100
why do I have to sleep with a woman
2435
01:20:05,100 --> 01:20:06,719
first to see if she's good or not
2436
01:20:06,719 --> 01:20:08,100
because that's how it really goes
2437
01:20:08,100 --> 01:20:09,420
because that's when you really know a
2438
01:20:09,420 --> 01:20:11,880
girl until you sleep with a girl it's
2439
01:20:11,880 --> 01:20:14,640
all just front the game's it's all just
2440
01:20:14,640 --> 01:20:16,199
[ __ ] it's just who they want to be
2441
01:20:16,199 --> 01:20:18,480
instead of pretending it's after you
2442
01:20:18,480 --> 01:20:20,219
sleep with them you see the real then
2443
01:20:20,219 --> 01:20:21,540
so you're gonna have to [ __ ] a whole
2444
01:20:21,540 --> 01:20:24,060
bunch of girls to get a good one
2445
01:20:24,060 --> 01:20:26,520
if you're let's say it's your job to
2446
01:20:26,520 --> 01:20:28,500
find the best apple in the world
2447
01:20:28,500 --> 01:20:31,199
and you have three apples and you say
2448
01:20:31,199 --> 01:20:32,640
this apple is the best apple in the
2449
01:20:32,640 --> 01:20:34,920
world and another guy has a thousand
2450
01:20:34,920 --> 01:20:36,840
apples and he says this apple is the
2451
01:20:36,840 --> 01:20:37,800
best apple
2452
01:20:37,800 --> 01:20:40,380
in the world who knows more about apples
2453
01:20:40,380 --> 01:20:42,480
who's more likely to have chosen an
2454
01:20:42,480 --> 01:20:44,219
exceptional Apple
2455
01:20:44,219 --> 01:20:46,500
the man who has more apples the Thousand
2456
01:20:46,500 --> 01:20:48,179
Apple guy knows more about apples than
2457
01:20:48,179 --> 01:20:50,219
the free apple pie if you want to
2458
01:20:50,219 --> 01:20:52,500
understand women I know what I know
2459
01:20:52,500 --> 01:20:58,140
because I [ __ ] so many women I've had
2460
01:20:58,140 --> 01:21:02,040
Smart Ones stupid Ones hot Ones hot ones
2461
01:21:02,040 --> 01:21:05,580
no uglies you know I've had them all so
2462
01:21:05,580 --> 01:21:07,860
I know I know through experience so if
2463
01:21:07,860 --> 01:21:09,000
you're sitting there going oh I have to
2464
01:21:09,000 --> 01:21:10,380
[ __ ] a whole bunch of girls to find a
2465
01:21:10,380 --> 01:21:11,880
good one and you're worried about that
2466
01:21:11,880 --> 01:21:13,679
then you're a [ __ ] yeah you're gonna
2467
01:21:13,679 --> 01:21:15,960
[ __ ] in the modern world for every five
2468
01:21:15,960 --> 01:21:17,400
girls you [ __ ] one will be a good
2469
01:21:17,400 --> 01:21:18,480
quality
2470
01:21:18,480 --> 01:21:20,580
so what go [ __ ] five girls and get one
2471
01:21:20,580 --> 01:21:22,260
what's the problem you're afraid to use
2472
01:21:22,260 --> 01:21:24,120
your dick your little [ __ ] get it done
2473
01:21:24,120 --> 01:21:26,460
so that's the reality sometimes you get
2474
01:21:26,460 --> 01:21:28,140
lucky you can [ __ ] one girl and you can
2475
01:21:28,140 --> 01:21:29,219
tell she's a good girl right away it
2476
01:21:29,219 --> 01:21:32,100
happens but sometimes I [ __ ] three four
2477
01:21:32,100 --> 01:21:33,300
girls in a row and they've all just been
2478
01:21:33,300 --> 01:21:34,500
trash hoes
2479
01:21:34,500 --> 01:21:37,080
tell ghost it's how it goes sometimes
2480
01:21:37,080 --> 01:21:37,980
you [ __ ] three girls in a row and
2481
01:21:37,980 --> 01:21:40,020
they're all [ __ ] nice and I know that
2482
01:21:40,020 --> 01:21:42,780
from this iron-clad test
2483
01:21:42,780 --> 01:21:44,820
this Ironclad test tells me so I'm
2484
01:21:44,820 --> 01:21:46,920
telling you you cannot tell I don't care
2485
01:21:46,920 --> 01:21:48,420
when you're texting some girl and you're
2486
01:21:48,420 --> 01:21:49,800
sitting there with your little [ __ ]
2487
01:21:49,800 --> 01:21:51,179
penis twitching like a little [ __ ]
2488
01:21:51,179 --> 01:21:53,340
sitting there and late at night WhatsApp
2489
01:21:53,340 --> 01:21:55,440
me away oh she's so beautiful you look
2490
01:21:55,440 --> 01:21:57,179
at her Instagram you're texting her she
2491
01:21:57,179 --> 01:21:59,219
seems so nice and so sweet she ain't
2492
01:21:59,219 --> 01:22:01,199
[ __ ] she ain't [ __ ] and you don't know
2493
01:22:01,199 --> 01:22:02,760
if she's quality or not until you suffer
2494
01:22:02,760 --> 01:22:04,080
so don't get emotionally attached to
2495
01:22:04,080 --> 01:22:05,219
some girl you haven't thought because
2496
01:22:05,219 --> 01:22:06,600
you don't know anything about her until
2497
01:22:06,600 --> 01:22:08,340
you sleep with her and here's how you
2498
01:22:08,340 --> 01:22:09,120
tell
2499
01:22:09,120 --> 01:22:11,520
after you sleep with a girl
2500
01:22:11,520 --> 01:22:17,280
your attention goes to nearly zero
2501
01:22:17,280 --> 01:22:21,120
attention goes right down
2502
01:22:21,120 --> 01:22:22,560
here's why
2503
01:22:22,560 --> 01:22:25,080
we give attention
2504
01:22:25,080 --> 01:22:27,860
to get the sex
2505
01:22:28,280 --> 01:22:32,760
drawing we've had the sex now
2506
01:22:32,760 --> 01:22:34,140
we've had it
2507
01:22:34,140 --> 01:22:36,420
we've had what we wanted
2508
01:22:36,420 --> 01:22:38,940
so the attention has to drop instantly
2509
01:22:38,940 --> 01:22:42,179
to set a standard for the relationship
2510
01:22:42,179 --> 01:22:45,000
and the relationship standard is as
2511
01:22:45,000 --> 01:22:46,020
follows
2512
01:22:46,020 --> 01:22:48,840
you better be nice to me you better [ __ ]
2513
01:22:48,840 --> 01:22:50,699
me when I wanted to you better do as
2514
01:22:50,699 --> 01:22:52,440
you're told to get my attention
2515
01:22:52,440 --> 01:22:56,280
otherwise it's staying down here you
2516
01:22:56,280 --> 01:22:59,159
have now won the game until you sleep
2517
01:22:59,159 --> 01:23:01,199
with a woman she's in charge she's the
2518
01:23:01,199 --> 01:23:03,900
gate she's the lock you're trying to
2519
01:23:03,900 --> 01:23:06,840
break once you've slept with her you are
2520
01:23:06,840 --> 01:23:09,480
now in charge and what most men do after
2521
01:23:09,480 --> 01:23:11,880
they [ __ ] a girl is instantly give away
2522
01:23:11,880 --> 01:23:14,460
their position of power you are finally
2523
01:23:14,460 --> 01:23:16,080
for the first time since you've messaged
2524
01:23:16,080 --> 01:23:17,340
this girl on Instagram
2525
01:23:17,340 --> 01:23:20,699
in the position of power you're above
2526
01:23:20,699 --> 01:23:23,460
her now because you [ __ ] her and if
2527
01:23:23,460 --> 01:23:24,840
you [ __ ] her I never talked to her again
2528
01:23:24,840 --> 01:23:27,780
then she's a stupid [ __ ] and she doesn't
2529
01:23:27,780 --> 01:23:31,440
want that she wants you to want her so
2530
01:23:31,440 --> 01:23:34,199
she wants to keep you for the first up
2531
01:23:34,199 --> 01:23:36,239
until now you wanted to [ __ ] her you
2532
01:23:36,239 --> 01:23:38,219
wanted to get her this is the first time
2533
01:23:38,219 --> 01:23:41,280
she wants to get you and most men [ __ ]
2534
01:23:41,280 --> 01:23:44,219
that up straight away by either saying
2535
01:23:44,219 --> 01:23:45,840
something oh I really like you all could
2536
01:23:45,840 --> 01:23:47,460
I see you again better and just [ __ ]
2537
01:23:47,460 --> 01:23:49,739
being submissive to the woman's whims
2538
01:23:49,739 --> 01:23:52,020
straight away and giving them attention
2539
01:23:52,020 --> 01:23:55,260
you you can't do that you have to drop
2540
01:23:55,260 --> 01:23:57,360
your attention down to absolute zero and
2541
01:23:57,360 --> 01:23:59,280
here's why
2542
01:23:59,280 --> 01:24:01,620
one it sets the standard for the
2543
01:24:01,620 --> 01:24:02,880
relationship
2544
01:24:02,880 --> 01:24:05,040
I [ __ ] you now I'm in charge oh you want
2545
01:24:05,040 --> 01:24:07,140
to see me again do you all right cool
2546
01:24:07,140 --> 01:24:08,820
yeah I'm waiting for a new bank card
2547
01:24:08,820 --> 01:24:10,560
let's go for coffee but you you know my
2548
01:24:10,560 --> 01:24:12,239
my money's low just you have to buy them
2549
01:24:12,239 --> 01:24:13,260
I'll pay you back
2550
01:24:13,260 --> 01:24:16,400
I ain't buying new coffee
2551
01:24:17,239 --> 01:24:19,679
I'll [ __ ] you now I don't care you
2552
01:24:19,679 --> 01:24:20,880
don't buy me a coffee and [ __ ] you I'll
2553
01:24:20,880 --> 01:24:23,040
buy some other coffee I don't care
2554
01:24:23,040 --> 01:24:26,219
all right cool well I'm busy you you
2555
01:24:26,219 --> 01:24:29,520
have Banger you on You've Won you ain't
2556
01:24:29,520 --> 01:24:32,480
got nothing to worry about who care
2557
01:24:34,140 --> 01:24:35,940
that in mind
2558
01:24:35,940 --> 01:24:37,800
okay yeah no problem I don't mind paying
2559
01:24:37,800 --> 01:24:39,000
this time turn up get yourself some
2560
01:24:39,000 --> 01:24:41,280
[ __ ] carrot cake and [ __ ] carrot cake
2561
01:24:41,280 --> 01:24:43,800
when I'm [ __ ] I'm a millionaire I
2562
01:24:43,800 --> 01:24:45,239
still do this you want them [ __ ]
2563
01:24:45,239 --> 01:24:46,739
yogurts from Starbucks with two
2564
01:24:46,739 --> 01:24:48,239
cappuccinos and sparkling water make the
2565
01:24:48,239 --> 01:24:49,739
[ __ ] spend like [ __ ] 20 [ __ ] Euro
2566
01:24:49,739 --> 01:24:50,580
on me
2567
01:24:50,580 --> 01:24:53,520
buy it for me set the standard your man
2568
01:24:53,520 --> 01:24:54,840
told you to buying a coffee buy me a
2569
01:24:54,840 --> 01:24:56,040
[ __ ] coffee
2570
01:24:56,040 --> 01:24:58,860
because you [ __ ] the girl fine but if
2571
01:24:58,860 --> 01:25:00,360
you want a relationship a happy
2572
01:25:00,360 --> 01:25:02,460
relationship you need to be in control
2573
01:25:02,460 --> 01:25:05,219
of that relationship if you [ __ ] it up
2574
01:25:05,219 --> 01:25:06,719
at the beginning it is extremely
2575
01:25:06,719 --> 01:25:09,060
difficult to recover but if you set the
2576
01:25:09,060 --> 01:25:10,739
standard right in the beginning
2577
01:25:10,739 --> 01:25:12,480
is much easier
2578
01:25:12,480 --> 01:25:14,280
so the standard from the second you
2579
01:25:14,280 --> 01:25:15,960
[ __ ] now I'm not saying you become
2580
01:25:15,960 --> 01:25:17,940
rude I'm not saying you become an
2581
01:25:17,940 --> 01:25:20,159
[ __ ] don't do that I'm just saying
2582
01:25:20,159 --> 01:25:22,560
your attention drops you're still nice
2583
01:25:22,560 --> 01:25:24,420
but your attention isn't there so we're
2584
01:25:24,420 --> 01:25:26,699
used to text her every night
2585
01:25:26,699 --> 01:25:28,800
you barely text her or you texted one or
2586
01:25:28,800 --> 01:25:31,080
two times and then you don't make it
2587
01:25:31,080 --> 01:25:33,840
clear she has to clearly see here's the
2588
01:25:33,840 --> 01:25:36,659
Fine Line she has to clearly see that
2589
01:25:36,659 --> 01:25:39,239
you get your attention's dropped but not
2590
01:25:39,239 --> 01:25:41,400
enough for her to call you out on it not
2591
01:25:41,400 --> 01:25:42,900
enough where she can go oh you [ __ ] me
2592
01:25:42,900 --> 01:25:44,219
you don't talk anymore
2593
01:25:44,219 --> 01:25:45,540
she can't say that what do you mean I'm
2594
01:25:45,540 --> 01:25:47,580
texting you I'm just I'm just busy
2595
01:25:47,580 --> 01:25:49,199
so it's gonna be that fine line where
2596
01:25:49,199 --> 01:25:50,400
she feels uncomfortable because she
2597
01:25:50,400 --> 01:25:51,900
knows something's up
2598
01:25:51,900 --> 01:25:54,900
but she can't say anything about it
2599
01:25:54,900 --> 01:25:57,060
that's how you got to do it make her buy
2600
01:25:57,060 --> 01:25:58,860
you some [ __ ] coffee you [ __ ] her now
2601
01:25:58,860 --> 01:26:00,600
you are in charge
2602
01:26:00,600 --> 01:26:03,000
and this is the test
2603
01:26:03,000 --> 01:26:05,760
a quality woman after you sleep with her
2604
01:26:05,760 --> 01:26:08,340
when your attention drops we'll do
2605
01:26:08,340 --> 01:26:09,840
anything it takes
2606
01:26:09,840 --> 01:26:12,540
to get your attention back up to retain
2607
01:26:12,540 --> 01:26:13,860
you as a man
2608
01:26:13,860 --> 01:26:15,900
so you've slept with her you've had sex
2609
01:26:15,900 --> 01:26:16,980
with this girl
2610
01:26:16,980 --> 01:26:19,199
the next day you barely text her then
2611
01:26:19,199 --> 01:26:21,480
you're too busy to meet her then you say
2612
01:26:21,480 --> 01:26:23,760
then when you say yeah okay yeah you
2613
01:26:23,760 --> 01:26:25,320
have to pay probably my back card
2614
01:26:25,320 --> 01:26:28,500
whatever whatever excuse or whatever
2615
01:26:28,500 --> 01:26:30,600
a quality woman will go oh okay no
2616
01:26:30,600 --> 01:26:31,860
problem no problem because they know
2617
01:26:31,860 --> 01:26:34,080
that [ __ ] a guy is a big deal and
2618
01:26:34,080 --> 01:26:35,340
they don't want to [ __ ] you for no
2619
01:26:35,340 --> 01:26:36,960
reason and they don't want to be a hoe
2620
01:26:36,960 --> 01:26:38,400
they don't be a number number another
2621
01:26:38,400 --> 01:26:40,139
random number on your [ __ ] book they
2622
01:26:40,139 --> 01:26:41,400
want to get a relationship out of it
2623
01:26:41,400 --> 01:26:43,260
they want to build it into something so
2624
01:26:43,260 --> 01:26:45,540
a quality woman will bend her normal
2625
01:26:45,540 --> 01:26:48,060
rules a girl who would perhaps never buy
2626
01:26:48,060 --> 01:26:50,520
you coffee is now prepared to do some of
2627
01:26:50,520 --> 01:26:52,860
you will bend her normal rules to get
2628
01:26:52,860 --> 01:26:55,860
your attention back post sex that's what
2629
01:26:55,860 --> 01:26:58,679
a quality woman will do a [ __ ] quality
2630
01:26:58,679 --> 01:27:00,719
woman a crack woman when you say these
2631
01:27:00,719 --> 01:27:02,580
things will be like oh [ __ ] this guy and
2632
01:27:02,580 --> 01:27:04,320
she'll go [ __ ] someone else
2633
01:27:04,320 --> 01:27:06,960
a girl who will rather go have a new
2634
01:27:06,960 --> 01:27:09,840
dick than buy you a coffee is not the
2635
01:27:09,840 --> 01:27:10,980
kind of girl you need a relationship
2636
01:27:10,980 --> 01:27:12,840
with guys because that's only going to
2637
01:27:12,840 --> 01:27:16,380
end bad sooner or later one way or
2638
01:27:16,380 --> 01:27:18,360
another there's gonna be an argument or
2639
01:27:18,360 --> 01:27:19,380
something we're gonna ask her to do
2640
01:27:19,380 --> 01:27:20,400
something she doesn't want to do and
2641
01:27:20,400 --> 01:27:21,540
she's going to end up [ __ ] someone
2642
01:27:21,540 --> 01:27:22,440
else
2643
01:27:22,440 --> 01:27:25,260
this is the test that Cruz good woman
2644
01:27:25,260 --> 01:27:27,659
against Bad Wolf
2645
01:27:27,659 --> 01:27:30,300
literally the next day you conduct this
2646
01:27:30,300 --> 01:27:32,820
test you drop your attention if they
2647
01:27:32,820 --> 01:27:35,340
work hard if they double text you if
2648
01:27:35,340 --> 01:27:37,560
they text you first if they ask to see
2649
01:27:37,560 --> 01:27:39,480
you all these are positive things hey
2650
01:27:39,480 --> 01:27:41,460
maybe we can go out to the that's what
2651
01:27:41,460 --> 01:27:43,860
you want to see that's a woman who wants
2652
01:27:43,860 --> 01:27:46,320
to work hard to keep her man interested
2653
01:27:46,320 --> 01:27:47,880
you're not going to be able to conduct
2654
01:27:47,880 --> 01:27:50,040
this test if after you [ __ ] her you're
2655
01:27:50,040 --> 01:27:50,960
like
2656
01:27:50,960 --> 01:27:52,860
because you're too busy flooding her
2657
01:27:52,860 --> 01:27:54,420
with attention so there's no test
2658
01:27:54,420 --> 01:27:55,620
involved
2659
01:27:55,620 --> 01:27:57,840
if you [ __ ] her and then you drop your
2660
01:27:57,840 --> 01:28:00,239
attention and she doesn't really care or
2661
01:28:00,239 --> 01:28:01,800
she doesn't really try to see you again
2662
01:28:01,800 --> 01:28:04,800
then she's trash do not fall into the
2663
01:28:04,800 --> 01:28:06,780
Trap of going okay I'll ask your
2664
01:28:06,780 --> 01:28:07,980
attention again and [ __ ] remarks I
2665
01:28:07,980 --> 01:28:09,900
want to [ __ ] her that is gonna end bad
2666
01:28:09,900 --> 01:28:13,440
don't waste your time tell you man I was
2667
01:28:13,440 --> 01:28:15,000
with cab Club Christian [ __ ] McQueen
2668
01:28:15,000 --> 01:28:16,739
three months ago
2669
01:28:16,739 --> 01:28:18,420
walked in the club
2670
01:28:18,420 --> 01:28:20,219
was [ __ ] in the zone walk in the club
2671
01:28:20,219 --> 01:28:22,380
two girls at the bar said yeah table
2672
01:28:22,380 --> 01:28:25,620
bang or Glock table Christian big bunny
2673
01:28:25,620 --> 01:28:27,420
big money Christian stuff came start
2674
01:28:27,420 --> 01:28:28,620
paying for the table whatever before I
2675
01:28:28,620 --> 01:28:29,820
even sat at the table went up to the bar
2676
01:28:29,820 --> 01:28:31,260
with this girl hey you're beautiful
2677
01:28:31,260 --> 01:28:32,400
that's why I say in person I do
2678
01:28:32,400 --> 01:28:34,560
different persons excuse me and in
2679
01:28:34,560 --> 01:28:36,120
person I make them pay attention what
2680
01:28:36,120 --> 01:28:37,679
most people do they [ __ ] up in person is
2681
01:28:37,679 --> 01:28:38,880
that they talk to girls and they're not
2682
01:28:38,880 --> 01:28:40,560
paying attention you go to go hey you're
2683
01:28:40,560 --> 01:28:42,960
beautiful they're like what like excuse
2684
01:28:42,960 --> 01:28:45,420
me excuse me I'm making yeah I make them
2685
01:28:45,420 --> 01:28:46,860
pay attention to what I'm saying I'm a
2686
01:28:46,860 --> 01:28:48,179
[ __ ] foreground man talk with you pay
2687
01:28:48,179 --> 01:28:49,020
attention
2688
01:28:49,020 --> 01:28:50,520
so you're absolutely beautiful you're
2689
01:28:50,520 --> 01:28:52,159
staying with me tonight
2690
01:28:52,159 --> 01:28:55,920
drink anyway [ __ ] the same night even
2691
01:28:55,920 --> 01:28:57,540
Christian who's a genie goes that was
2692
01:28:57,540 --> 01:28:59,340
smooth
2693
01:28:59,340 --> 01:29:02,100
so bang you're saying nice [ __ ] 10.
2694
01:29:02,100 --> 01:29:04,500
10. all you [ __ ] if you [ __ ]
2695
01:29:04,500 --> 01:29:06,840
this girl would fall head over heels in
2696
01:29:06,840 --> 01:29:09,239
love with her because of how she looks I
2697
01:29:09,239 --> 01:29:10,440
[ __ ] her
2698
01:29:10,440 --> 01:29:12,360
next day I didn't text her she didn't
2699
01:29:12,360 --> 01:29:13,260
text me
2700
01:29:13,260 --> 01:29:14,760
next day didn't text her she didn't text
2701
01:29:14,760 --> 01:29:16,860
me third day if she likes one of my
2702
01:29:16,860 --> 01:29:18,000
Instagram
2703
01:29:18,000 --> 01:29:20,100
some basic pathetic attempt and I
2704
01:29:20,100 --> 01:29:21,780
thought there you just bang some dudes
2705
01:29:21,780 --> 01:29:23,460
you barely know and you knew and you're
2706
01:29:23,460 --> 01:29:24,960
not even going to humble yourself to
2707
01:29:24,960 --> 01:29:26,880
text me first you think you're so
2708
01:29:26,880 --> 01:29:27,780
special you're not going to reduce
2709
01:29:27,780 --> 01:29:29,460
yourself to text me first if you're not
2710
01:29:29,460 --> 01:29:30,780
going to humble yourself to text me
2711
01:29:30,780 --> 01:29:32,400
first after you got [ __ ] in one night
2712
01:29:32,400 --> 01:29:33,900
then you're never gonna humble yourself
2713
01:29:33,900 --> 01:29:36,179
for me you're always going to have this
2714
01:29:36,179 --> 01:29:38,340
ego you're always going to be so I don't
2715
01:29:38,340 --> 01:29:40,380
want you I never spoke to that girl
2716
01:29:40,380 --> 01:29:42,179
again no that's not true it is because I
2717
01:29:42,179 --> 01:29:43,500
saw her three weeks later at different
2718
01:29:43,500 --> 01:29:46,080
events she ran up to me oh my god oh how
2719
01:29:46,080 --> 01:29:48,360
you been I spoke for a little bit but I
2720
01:29:48,360 --> 01:29:49,920
could just see and she she talked to me
2721
01:29:49,920 --> 01:29:51,300
a little bit then she walked off and
2722
01:29:51,300 --> 01:29:52,320
tried to talk to another guy in front of
2723
01:29:52,320 --> 01:29:54,360
me to make me jealous where's the proof
2724
01:29:54,360 --> 01:29:56,040
there that's the proof in my lesson
2725
01:29:56,040 --> 01:29:57,719
she's a trash hoe what kind of girl does
2726
01:29:57,719 --> 01:29:59,760
that he talks to another guy from a guy
2727
01:29:59,760 --> 01:30:01,980
trying to make us [ __ ] that's [ __ ]
2728
01:30:01,980 --> 01:30:04,440
[ __ ] she was a [ __ ] hoe and I spot it
2729
01:30:04,440 --> 01:30:05,639
instantly because she didn't humble
2730
01:30:05,639 --> 01:30:07,199
herself when she was supposed to and I'm
2731
01:30:07,199 --> 01:30:08,580
glad I didn't waste any more time on her
2732
01:30:08,580 --> 01:30:09,480
because she's never going to be doing
2733
01:30:09,480 --> 01:30:11,520
like my other girls do living in my
2734
01:30:11,520 --> 01:30:12,900
house letting me [ __ ] other women
2735
01:30:12,900 --> 01:30:15,120
remaining loyal and [ __ ] bringing me
2736
01:30:15,120 --> 01:30:17,100
coffees and doing as I say that's what
2737
01:30:17,100 --> 01:30:18,179
you're looking for gentlemen you're not
2738
01:30:18,179 --> 01:30:20,100
looking for sex sex is easy you're
2739
01:30:20,100 --> 01:30:21,780
looking for a woman who is loyal to you
2740
01:30:21,780 --> 01:30:23,760
fiercely you need a woman that you can
2741
01:30:23,760 --> 01:30:24,960
sit and say I'm going to jail for two
2742
01:30:24,960 --> 01:30:26,520
years in two years and you're not
2743
01:30:26,520 --> 01:30:27,719
worried about her cheating while you're
2744
01:30:27,719 --> 01:30:28,739
in the cell
2745
01:30:28,739 --> 01:30:31,800
now this girl the hoe who ran tried to
2746
01:30:31,800 --> 01:30:33,300
make me jealous and who wouldn't text me
2747
01:30:33,300 --> 01:30:35,760
could I trust her for two years or could
2748
01:30:35,760 --> 01:30:37,260
I trust the girl who next day was like I
2749
01:30:37,260 --> 01:30:38,699
don't normally do that I really want to
2750
01:30:38,699 --> 01:30:40,020
see you again I hope you're nothing bad
2751
01:30:40,020 --> 01:30:41,639
at me please can I see you again that
2752
01:30:41,639 --> 01:30:43,440
kind of humbling [ __ ] that's what
2753
01:30:43,440 --> 01:30:44,520
you want
2754
01:30:44,520 --> 01:30:46,380
that's what you want I hope you
2755
01:30:46,380 --> 01:30:47,580
understand the difference between those
2756
01:30:47,580 --> 01:30:48,840
two women because there's a huge
2757
01:30:48,840 --> 01:30:50,880
difference between those two females I
2758
01:30:50,880 --> 01:30:53,040
do not waste my time even with my PhD
2759
01:30:53,040 --> 01:30:55,260
trying to convert a hoe into a housewife
2760
01:30:55,260 --> 01:30:57,239
there's a reason that old saying exists
2761
01:30:57,239 --> 01:30:59,699
don't waste your time with that [ __ ] now
2762
01:30:59,699 --> 01:31:01,679
I thought girls on the first night and
2763
01:31:01,679 --> 01:31:03,719
the next day they were so desperate for
2764
01:31:03,719 --> 01:31:04,739
my attention
2765
01:31:04,739 --> 01:31:06,360
that they were quality women it doesn't
2766
01:31:06,360 --> 01:31:07,739
matter if you [ __ ] the first day lots
2767
01:31:07,739 --> 01:31:09,000
of these red pill books [ __ ] first
2768
01:31:09,000 --> 01:31:10,500
day she's trash not true I've had
2769
01:31:10,500 --> 01:31:12,000
amazing women who have [ __ ] the first
2770
01:31:12,000 --> 01:31:13,500
day amazing
2771
01:31:13,500 --> 01:31:15,719
because the next day they passed this
2772
01:31:15,719 --> 01:31:19,800
test this test is extremely important
2773
01:31:19,800 --> 01:31:21,600
if you this is why you cannot get
2774
01:31:21,600 --> 01:31:22,920
feelings for a girl before you [ __ ] her
2775
01:31:22,920 --> 01:31:24,540
because you guys are gonna end up liking
2776
01:31:24,540 --> 01:31:26,400
a chick and she's gonna fail this test
2777
01:31:26,400 --> 01:31:27,600
you're gonna abstain with her anyway
2778
01:31:27,600 --> 01:31:29,219
because she's hot and you like her you
2779
01:31:29,219 --> 01:31:30,780
end up in a [ __ ] [ __ ]
2780
01:31:30,780 --> 01:31:32,280
relationship
2781
01:31:32,280 --> 01:31:34,080
reality of the world is this gentleman
2782
01:31:34,080 --> 01:31:35,520
you're walking down the street with your
2783
01:31:35,520 --> 01:31:37,920
woman a man comes up and decides to rape
2784
01:31:37,920 --> 01:31:40,320
her you've punched a guy in the face he
2785
01:31:40,320 --> 01:31:42,480
falls over hits his head and dies very
2786
01:31:42,480 --> 01:31:43,380
possible
2787
01:31:43,380 --> 01:31:45,719
you go to jail for four years you're in
2788
01:31:45,719 --> 01:31:47,219
a [ __ ] jail
2789
01:31:47,219 --> 01:31:49,440
to protect her
2790
01:31:49,440 --> 01:31:52,020
and she's [ __ ] someone else
2791
01:31:52,020 --> 01:31:53,699
that's what women will do they'll do
2792
01:31:53,699 --> 01:31:55,199
that to you they'll go [ __ ] someone well
2793
01:31:55,199 --> 01:31:58,380
I'm lonely I'm lonely I'm in jail yeah
2794
01:31:58,380 --> 01:32:00,360
but I'm lonely because they're selfish
2795
01:32:00,360 --> 01:32:02,820
[ __ ] so do you want to be walking down
2796
01:32:02,820 --> 01:32:04,500
the street with a girl who will do that
2797
01:32:04,500 --> 01:32:06,239
to you or do you only want to walk down
2798
01:32:06,239 --> 01:32:08,100
the street with a girl who you know will
2799
01:32:08,100 --> 01:32:10,679
be crying her [ __ ] eyes out writing
2800
01:32:10,679 --> 01:32:13,080
you letters staff today at every single
2801
01:32:13,080 --> 01:32:15,780
visitation uninterested in every inbox
2802
01:32:15,780 --> 01:32:17,639
she gets on Instagram while you do that
2803
01:32:17,639 --> 01:32:18,900
jail time
2804
01:32:18,900 --> 01:32:20,520
and the only way you're going to know
2805
01:32:20,520 --> 01:32:22,980
that is with this [ __ ] test
2806
01:32:22,980 --> 01:32:25,320
do not waste your time with trash hoes
2807
01:32:25,320 --> 01:32:28,020
it only ends up in one place
2808
01:32:28,020 --> 01:32:30,480
I [ __ ] a whole bunch of women and I
2809
01:32:30,480 --> 01:32:32,280
fought some beautiful women but if they
2810
01:32:32,280 --> 01:32:34,920
fail this test I will not talk to them
2811
01:32:34,920 --> 01:32:36,659
again because I do not have time and
2812
01:32:36,659 --> 01:32:38,280
energy to waste on a woman who will not
2813
01:32:38,280 --> 01:32:39,840
be loyal to me
2814
01:32:39,840 --> 01:32:42,000
that is the most number one most
2815
01:32:42,000 --> 01:32:44,340
important thing the most important thing
2816
01:32:44,340 --> 01:32:46,320
is this test
2817
01:32:46,320 --> 01:32:49,739
people often say to me how tight how
2818
01:32:49,739 --> 01:32:51,719
how do you how does your girlfriend let
2819
01:32:51,719 --> 01:32:53,460
you [ __ ] other girls she lets me [ __ ]
2820
01:32:53,460 --> 01:32:54,960
other girls because she cannot possibly
2821
01:32:54,960 --> 01:32:57,239
leave me she leaves me because she loves
2822
01:32:57,239 --> 01:32:59,280
me and I love her and she loves me with
2823
01:32:59,280 --> 01:33:01,320
all her heart and she cannot imagine her
2824
01:33:01,320 --> 01:33:03,659
world without me if I died she would
2825
01:33:03,659 --> 01:33:07,020
commit suicide I am her everything it
2826
01:33:07,020 --> 01:33:08,159
doesn't matter if I [ __ ] someone else
2827
01:33:08,159 --> 01:33:10,020
because I'm her everything she has
2828
01:33:10,020 --> 01:33:12,600
nowhere else to go
2829
01:33:12,600 --> 01:33:15,179
because this test was implemented and
2830
01:33:15,179 --> 01:33:17,100
she passed it and years have passed
2831
01:33:17,100 --> 01:33:18,780
where I haven't taken her [ __ ] and I've
2832
01:33:18,780 --> 01:33:20,520
kept the position of authority and I've
2833
01:33:20,520 --> 01:33:23,219
just become her Idol in life it's like
2834
01:33:23,219 --> 01:33:24,600
trying to take God away from a Christian
2835
01:33:24,600 --> 01:33:26,580
they're like well if God doesn't exist
2836
01:33:26,580 --> 01:33:28,980
have you ever argued a religious person
2837
01:33:28,980 --> 01:33:31,739
look and now after you've proven wrong a
2838
01:33:31,739 --> 01:33:32,820
bunch of times you go well if God
2839
01:33:32,820 --> 01:33:34,860
doesn't exist then what's the point
2840
01:33:34,860 --> 01:33:36,179
they'll eventually say what's the point
2841
01:33:36,179 --> 01:33:37,260
being alive what's the point in doing
2842
01:33:37,260 --> 01:33:38,340
good what's the point doing bad without
2843
01:33:38,340 --> 01:33:40,260
God that's how your woman has to think
2844
01:33:40,260 --> 01:33:42,120
of you without him
2845
01:33:42,120 --> 01:33:43,980
what's the point you do anything
2846
01:33:43,980 --> 01:33:45,120
when you get to that point you don't
2847
01:33:45,120 --> 01:33:46,560
have the [ __ ] you want
2848
01:33:46,560 --> 01:33:47,940
I can [ __ ] who I want cause she's gonna
2849
01:33:47,940 --> 01:33:49,199
leave
2850
01:33:49,199 --> 01:33:51,179
she ain't gonna leave she doesn't even
2851
01:33:51,179 --> 01:33:52,500
cry about it anymore so I know you're
2852
01:33:52,500 --> 01:33:53,580
gonna do what you do as long as you
2853
01:33:53,580 --> 01:33:54,840
don't love me of course I only love you
2854
01:33:54,840 --> 01:33:57,719
they're just stupid hoes okay done it
2855
01:33:57,719 --> 01:33:59,400
ain't unachievable gentlemen it's very
2856
01:33:59,400 --> 01:34:01,980
achievable if you keep your [ __ ] in
2857
01:34:01,980 --> 01:34:04,800
order remember all these lessons about
2858
01:34:04,800 --> 01:34:05,880
what we're talking about getting the
2859
01:34:05,880 --> 01:34:07,679
girls the attention scale it's the same
2860
01:34:07,679 --> 01:34:09,420
when you're in a relationship
2861
01:34:09,420 --> 01:34:11,520
if your chick's getting fresh
2862
01:34:11,520 --> 01:34:12,900
told you man
2863
01:34:12,900 --> 01:34:14,580
this is the mistake the biggest mistake
2864
01:34:14,580 --> 01:34:17,580
I ever made in my PhD life is when I was
2865
01:34:17,580 --> 01:34:18,780
young and I was grinding I was trying to
2866
01:34:18,780 --> 01:34:19,860
make money trying my money I'd get a
2867
01:34:19,860 --> 01:34:21,719
girlfriend and I'd text her oh I'm
2868
01:34:21,719 --> 01:34:23,880
really busy today love you and then I
2869
01:34:23,880 --> 01:34:24,840
wouldn't text her because I was busy
2870
01:34:24,840 --> 01:34:27,120
working and then she'd reply to me some
2871
01:34:27,120 --> 01:34:28,800
[ __ ] rude [ __ ] and I'd end up text
2872
01:34:28,800 --> 01:34:31,139
her all day arguing and I realized she
2873
01:34:31,139 --> 01:34:32,820
gets the most attention from me when
2874
01:34:32,820 --> 01:34:34,320
she's misbehaving
2875
01:34:34,320 --> 01:34:36,540
she gets constant messages when she
2876
01:34:36,540 --> 01:34:39,540
misbehaves when she acts good I barely
2877
01:34:39,540 --> 01:34:41,639
text her because I'm busy making money
2878
01:34:41,639 --> 01:34:43,980
so you're training her because females
2879
01:34:43,980 --> 01:34:45,840
want the attention that's what they want
2880
01:34:45,840 --> 01:34:47,760
it's all they want you're training her
2881
01:34:47,760 --> 01:34:49,440
to misbehave for your attention
2882
01:34:49,440 --> 01:34:50,940
reverse it
2883
01:34:50,940 --> 01:34:53,159
when your girl's being nice flutter
2884
01:34:53,159 --> 01:34:55,920
let's ask a dick cut that [ __ ] off
2885
01:34:55,920 --> 01:34:57,659
only way to do it
2886
01:34:57,659 --> 01:34:59,100
so it's important that even the lessons
2887
01:34:59,100 --> 01:35:00,480
learned about how to get girls it's the
2888
01:35:00,480 --> 01:35:01,860
same in a relationship
2889
01:35:01,860 --> 01:35:04,260
keep your attention rare even in a
2890
01:35:04,260 --> 01:35:05,699
relationship tell you something man I
2891
01:35:05,699 --> 01:35:06,780
say this to people who don't believe it
2892
01:35:06,780 --> 01:35:08,699
your girl should want sex more than you
2893
01:35:08,699 --> 01:35:09,840
give it
2894
01:35:09,840 --> 01:35:11,820
I say this all the time I've never ever
2895
01:35:11,820 --> 01:35:13,260
ever want sex to my girlfriend I've not
2896
01:35:13,260 --> 01:35:15,480
had it in six years ever
2897
01:35:15,480 --> 01:35:17,340
she's wanting sex with me and not had it
2898
01:35:17,340 --> 01:35:19,380
unlimited times
2899
01:35:19,380 --> 01:35:21,120
unlimited times your girl should want
2900
01:35:21,120 --> 01:35:22,739
sex more than you give it because you
2901
01:35:22,739 --> 01:35:24,120
have to do all the [ __ ] work
2902
01:35:24,120 --> 01:35:25,500
and you got a bunch of other side hoes
2903
01:35:25,500 --> 01:35:27,360
anyway [ __ ] so often on the side
2904
01:35:27,360 --> 01:35:29,100
sometimes you just give me a massage and
2905
01:35:29,100 --> 01:35:31,380
tired your girl that is a sign of a
2906
01:35:31,380 --> 01:35:32,820
healthy relationship and your girl wants
2907
01:35:32,820 --> 01:35:34,380
sex and you don't really want
2908
01:35:34,380 --> 01:35:36,179
that's a healthy relationship shouldn't
2909
01:35:36,179 --> 01:35:37,440
be the other way around because that's
2910
01:35:37,440 --> 01:35:39,000
putting her in a position of power you
2911
01:35:39,000 --> 01:35:40,260
cannot let these women ever be in a
2912
01:35:40,260 --> 01:35:41,400
position of power because women are not
2913
01:35:41,400 --> 01:35:43,620
evolutionarily designed for power and
2914
01:35:43,620 --> 01:35:45,840
they don't want Power
2915
01:35:45,840 --> 01:35:47,880
they think they want it but when they
2916
01:35:47,880 --> 01:35:49,679
get it they just lose respect for you
2917
01:35:49,679 --> 01:35:51,540
and then they get harder and harder on
2918
01:35:51,540 --> 01:35:52,739
you because they start to secretly
2919
01:35:52,739 --> 01:35:55,380
resent that's what happens when a female
2920
01:35:55,380 --> 01:35:56,580
has a position of power they start to
2921
01:35:56,580 --> 01:35:57,420
resent
2922
01:35:57,420 --> 01:35:59,520
you go [ __ ] lay it down and the
2923
01:35:59,520 --> 01:36:03,360
biggest weapon you have as a man is
2924
01:36:03,360 --> 01:36:04,500
I don't care if you're with a girl for
2925
01:36:04,500 --> 01:36:05,699
six months and everything's going well
2926
01:36:05,699 --> 01:36:08,580
but she gets too fresh
2927
01:36:08,580 --> 01:36:10,739
you gotta just get back on Instagram and
2928
01:36:10,739 --> 01:36:12,780
get messaging new ones it's how it's
2929
01:36:12,780 --> 01:36:13,860
gonna be
2930
01:36:13,860 --> 01:36:17,159
so I have a guy who I coach on girls
2931
01:36:17,159 --> 01:36:19,139
he said I've been a girl I've been with
2932
01:36:19,139 --> 01:36:21,120
her five months but she has male friends
2933
01:36:21,120 --> 01:36:22,920
and she talks to these guys and then I
2934
01:36:22,920 --> 01:36:24,540
was like look it's not acceptable he
2935
01:36:24,540 --> 01:36:25,980
goes well how do I stop her I said bro
2936
01:36:25,980 --> 01:36:28,139
you cannot have your woman talking to
2937
01:36:28,139 --> 01:36:29,699
other men those men are trying to [ __ ]
2938
01:36:29,699 --> 01:36:31,920
your girl if you had a car doesn't
2939
01:36:31,920 --> 01:36:33,000
matter trying to [ __ ] your girl let's
2940
01:36:33,000 --> 01:36:34,620
cut the [ __ ] they're friends no
2941
01:36:34,620 --> 01:36:37,020
they're not if your girl was fat with no
2942
01:36:37,020 --> 01:36:38,340
legs in a wheelchair would they be your
2943
01:36:38,340 --> 01:36:40,020
friend would they text her no they
2944
01:36:40,020 --> 01:36:41,280
[ __ ] wouldn't so let's cut the
2945
01:36:41,280 --> 01:36:43,500
[ __ ] [ __ ] right here right now to
2946
01:36:43,500 --> 01:36:45,600
try to [ __ ] your chick if you had a
2947
01:36:45,600 --> 01:36:47,460
[ __ ] car would you let car thieves
2948
01:36:47,460 --> 01:36:49,199
attempt to break into your car no matter
2949
01:36:49,199 --> 01:36:50,880
how good the locks are would you let
2950
01:36:50,880 --> 01:36:52,260
them sit there and just try and break in
2951
01:36:52,260 --> 01:36:53,699
and just watch them do it or would you
2952
01:36:53,699 --> 01:36:56,280
be like get the [ __ ] away from my car
2953
01:36:56,280 --> 01:36:58,139
the same as a chick bro you can't be
2954
01:36:58,139 --> 01:36:59,820
letting these people attempt because no
2955
01:36:59,820 --> 01:37:01,620
matter how good the locks are maybe one
2956
01:37:01,620 --> 01:37:02,880
day they'll find a weakness and they'll
2957
01:37:02,880 --> 01:37:04,080
get it maybe you're arguing with your
2958
01:37:04,080 --> 01:37:06,360
girl you had an argument this guy's been
2959
01:37:06,360 --> 01:37:08,340
particularly [ __ ] generous mood he
2960
01:37:08,340 --> 01:37:09,719
decides to take her somewhere or some
2961
01:37:09,719 --> 01:37:10,520
[ __ ]
2962
01:37:10,520 --> 01:37:13,500
problems you don't need it men should
2963
01:37:13,500 --> 01:37:16,199
not be texting your woman's phone ever
2964
01:37:16,199 --> 01:37:18,179
so he's like well I agree with you how
2965
01:37:18,179 --> 01:37:19,920
do I stop it there's only one thing you
2966
01:37:19,920 --> 01:37:22,320
can do man tell her to [ __ ] stop
2967
01:37:22,320 --> 01:37:25,020
texting them make her choose it's like
2968
01:37:25,020 --> 01:37:28,219
oh you have order she chooses them
2969
01:37:29,820 --> 01:37:33,780
you have to be prepared to walk away
2970
01:37:33,780 --> 01:37:35,820
from a bad relationship and from a bad
2971
01:37:35,820 --> 01:37:38,280
chick Trump said it the art of the deal
2972
01:37:38,280 --> 01:37:40,139
had to be prepared to walk away from the
2973
01:37:40,139 --> 01:37:43,080
table here's some math for you if you
2974
01:37:43,080 --> 01:37:44,580
tell the girl to choose between you and
2975
01:37:44,580 --> 01:37:47,000
her friends and she chooses her friends
2976
01:37:47,000 --> 01:37:49,380
she's gonna [ __ ] one of them eventually
2977
01:37:49,380 --> 01:37:51,960
anyway don't you see how eventually
2978
01:37:51,960 --> 01:37:53,639
she's going to end up banging one if she
2979
01:37:53,639 --> 01:37:55,800
already chooses them above you
2980
01:37:55,800 --> 01:37:57,840
so why would you allow that Dynamic to
2981
01:37:57,840 --> 01:37:59,760
continue instead of Walking Away With
2982
01:37:59,760 --> 01:38:01,679
Honor and reducing your attention to
2983
01:38:01,679 --> 01:38:04,139
zero putting a super high value on your
2984
01:38:04,139 --> 01:38:05,820
attention and then maybe after a couple
2985
01:38:05,820 --> 01:38:07,500
days not hearing from you she might
2986
01:38:07,500 --> 01:38:09,540
think okay now your attention's high
2987
01:38:09,540 --> 01:38:11,639
your attention is high value she might
2988
01:38:11,639 --> 01:38:13,199
reverse her decision go okay I'll stop
2989
01:38:13,199 --> 01:38:14,460
you're right I've taken a thought about
2990
01:38:14,460 --> 01:38:16,320
it then then you stand a chance
2991
01:38:16,320 --> 01:38:18,480
if you allow her to continue and she
2992
01:38:18,480 --> 01:38:19,739
says she wants to choose them you go
2993
01:38:19,739 --> 01:38:21,540
okay and stay with her anyway it's only
2994
01:38:21,540 --> 01:38:23,940
going to end with her [ __ ] one now or
2995
01:38:23,940 --> 01:38:25,980
later are you such a bigger [ __ ] it's
2996
01:38:25,980 --> 01:38:27,840
like ripping off a Band-Aid rip it off
2997
01:38:27,840 --> 01:38:29,880
you're gonna do it slowly she's gonna
2998
01:38:29,880 --> 01:38:32,520
[ __ ] one she's gonna do it do you want
2999
01:38:32,520 --> 01:38:33,900
to be there those extra few months and
3000
01:38:33,900 --> 01:38:35,699
get cheated on or let wait for her to
3001
01:38:35,699 --> 01:38:38,219
message you it just isn't working some
3002
01:38:38,219 --> 01:38:39,719
[ __ ] because you want to [ __ ]
3003
01:38:39,719 --> 01:38:41,280
someone else you know where it's gonna
3004
01:38:41,280 --> 01:38:43,199
end so why are you allowing it to happen
3005
01:38:43,199 --> 01:38:44,940
instead of walking away at a point where
3006
01:38:44,940 --> 01:38:47,159
you can make a difference by attaching
3007
01:38:47,159 --> 01:38:49,260
Super Value to your attention and laying
3008
01:38:49,260 --> 01:38:50,699
it down like a [ __ ] man
3009
01:38:50,699 --> 01:38:53,400
you can't have that [ __ ] as a man we
3010
01:38:53,400 --> 01:38:56,040
have one weapon attention reduction an
3011
01:38:56,040 --> 01:38:58,380
FDB and you're prepared to do that in a
3012
01:38:58,380 --> 01:38:59,760
relationship for important issues almost
3013
01:38:59,760 --> 01:39:00,960
think of a girl won't make you a coffee
3014
01:39:00,960 --> 01:39:02,400
and you know never talk to her again
3015
01:39:02,400 --> 01:39:04,020
that's maybe a bit too much but with
3016
01:39:04,020 --> 01:39:05,639
things like talking to other dudes or
3017
01:39:05,639 --> 01:39:07,980
things that are red lines you have to be
3018
01:39:07,980 --> 01:39:09,780
prepared to walk away if you've been
3019
01:39:09,780 --> 01:39:11,400
with a girl for three months
3020
01:39:11,400 --> 01:39:14,520
and she won't do as you say FDB
3021
01:39:14,520 --> 01:39:16,080
now obviously if you just get with a
3022
01:39:16,080 --> 01:39:17,280
girl shaking a girl of all her friends
3023
01:39:17,280 --> 01:39:19,620
she's just me use your brain but you've
3024
01:39:19,620 --> 01:39:21,179
been with her a while she should [ __ ]
3025
01:39:21,179 --> 01:39:22,739
know the score and if she doesn't like
3026
01:39:22,739 --> 01:39:24,179
it get back on Instagram start by
3027
01:39:24,179 --> 01:39:25,920
sending those messages again it's as
3028
01:39:25,920 --> 01:39:27,120
simple as that
3029
01:39:27,120 --> 01:39:30,060
I've told you how to get laid
3030
01:39:30,060 --> 01:39:31,739
that's what this course was about I said
3031
01:39:31,739 --> 01:39:33,960
how to get girls I've told you how to
3032
01:39:33,960 --> 01:39:36,120
retain girls the most important thing is
3033
01:39:36,120 --> 01:39:37,380
this test
3034
01:39:37,380 --> 01:39:39,900
the post-test if they pass the test to
3035
01:39:39,900 --> 01:39:41,880
always make sure that your attention is
3036
01:39:41,880 --> 01:39:44,100
within the correct parameters her
3037
01:39:44,100 --> 01:39:45,600
behavior and your attention have to be
3038
01:39:45,600 --> 01:39:48,360
explicitly linked you cannot [ __ ] that
3039
01:39:48,360 --> 01:39:50,100
up in any way
3040
01:39:50,100 --> 01:39:51,540
you have to make sure there's no other
3041
01:39:51,540 --> 01:39:53,580
men or outside influences [ __ ] with
3042
01:39:53,580 --> 01:39:54,659
her too much
3043
01:39:54,659 --> 01:39:56,100
you don't want other men messing your
3044
01:39:56,100 --> 01:39:58,020
girl forget the modern world they're
3045
01:39:58,020 --> 01:40:00,179
just friends [ __ ] that is only going
3046
01:40:00,179 --> 01:40:02,280
to lead to a bad relationship good
3047
01:40:02,280 --> 01:40:04,320
relationships are one man one woman no
3048
01:40:04,320 --> 01:40:05,880
sorry
3049
01:40:05,880 --> 01:40:08,340
one man ten women that's my relationship
3050
01:40:08,340 --> 01:40:10,320
it's not a chick a bunch of dudes
3051
01:40:10,320 --> 01:40:12,179
messing her it's not acceptable it's not
3052
01:40:12,179 --> 01:40:13,860
acceptable in any way and if she chooses
3053
01:40:13,860 --> 01:40:15,420
them over you then find someone else
3054
01:40:15,420 --> 01:40:16,560
because it's only going to end one way
3055
01:40:16,560 --> 01:40:18,000
or another anyway
3056
01:40:18,000 --> 01:40:20,280
I've tried to be all-encompassing I know
3057
01:40:20,280 --> 01:40:22,860
I've actually missed a whole bunch of
3058
01:40:22,860 --> 01:40:24,719
things because like I said I know so
3059
01:40:24,719 --> 01:40:26,940
much [ __ ] there's a whole bunch more I I
3060
01:40:26,940 --> 01:40:28,380
need to say so what I'm going to do is
3061
01:40:28,380 --> 01:40:29,460
this is the first video I'm going to
3062
01:40:29,460 --> 01:40:30,719
release for all you guys who purchased
3063
01:40:30,719 --> 01:40:33,420
the video I want you to go out there
3064
01:40:33,420 --> 01:40:35,880
start your Instagram messaging start
3065
01:40:35,880 --> 01:40:38,280
your whatsapping go on some dates do
3066
01:40:38,280 --> 01:40:40,199
what you need to do
3067
01:40:40,199 --> 01:40:42,540
in a week from now I am absolutely not
3068
01:40:42,540 --> 01:40:45,000
only welcoming all your questions any
3069
01:40:45,000 --> 01:40:46,679
questions you have a specific
3070
01:40:46,679 --> 01:40:50,100
conversation screenshot or a scenario or
3071
01:40:50,100 --> 01:40:51,960
any questions or anything I've missed
3072
01:40:51,960 --> 01:40:54,239
email them all to me and I'm gonna do
3073
01:40:54,239 --> 01:40:55,860
another video in a week completely free
3074
01:40:55,860 --> 01:40:58,320
for you guys answering all your specific
3075
01:40:58,320 --> 01:41:00,000
questions another hour and a half of
3076
01:41:00,000 --> 01:41:02,460
knowledge and between this video which
3077
01:41:02,460 --> 01:41:04,199
is the absolute fundamental Basics how
3078
01:41:04,199 --> 01:41:06,300
attention works the easiest way to speak
3079
01:41:06,300 --> 01:41:09,060
to girls how to progression Tower of
3080
01:41:09,060 --> 01:41:10,739
Power how to always progress progress
3081
01:41:10,739 --> 01:41:12,900
progress how to test a girl after you
3082
01:41:12,900 --> 01:41:14,639
slept with her and how to retain the
3083
01:41:14,639 --> 01:41:15,900
control with your attention post
3084
01:41:15,900 --> 01:41:18,659
sleepover with this one video your game
3085
01:41:18,659 --> 01:41:20,940
will be 10 times what it was before
3086
01:41:20,940 --> 01:41:22,139
plus they're going to send me a whole
3087
01:41:22,139 --> 01:41:23,219
bunch of questions I'm gonna do another
3088
01:41:23,219 --> 01:41:25,320
video with specifics another hour and a
3089
01:41:25,320 --> 01:41:28,260
half and with these two videos plus a
3090
01:41:28,260 --> 01:41:29,940
shitload of experience because that's
3091
01:41:29,940 --> 01:41:31,380
what life is it doesn't matter how long
3092
01:41:31,380 --> 01:41:32,820
you read about learning to play piano
3093
01:41:32,820 --> 01:41:34,440
until you get on that piano and start to
3094
01:41:34,440 --> 01:41:35,760
play you don't know how to play piano
3095
01:41:35,760 --> 01:41:38,460
experience is extremely important with
3096
01:41:38,460 --> 01:41:41,100
these three hours of videos plus
3097
01:41:41,100 --> 01:41:43,500
experience you should have everything
3098
01:41:43,500 --> 01:41:46,860
you need to begin the long journey to
3099
01:41:46,860 --> 01:41:48,199
appears
3100
01:41:48,199 --> 01:41:50,520
PhD course part two
3101
01:41:50,520 --> 01:41:52,800
more knowledge for you [ __ ] I
3102
01:41:52,800 --> 01:41:54,840
don't have a whiteboard this time
3103
01:41:54,840 --> 01:41:58,139
well I do it's there but I'm not moving
3104
01:41:58,139 --> 01:41:58,920
it
3105
01:41:58,920 --> 01:42:00,900
so this is as I said the end the first
3106
01:42:00,900 --> 01:42:03,000
PhD if you have any questions you want
3107
01:42:03,000 --> 01:42:04,500
to ask me if there's any information you
3108
01:42:04,500 --> 01:42:06,420
feel like you need that I didn't portray
3109
01:42:06,420 --> 01:42:08,460
just drop me some emails I've had some
3110
01:42:08,460 --> 01:42:09,540
really interesting emails with some
3111
01:42:09,540 --> 01:42:10,679
interesting questions so I'm going to
3112
01:42:10,679 --> 01:42:12,239
answer them here
3113
01:42:12,239 --> 01:42:13,560
I'm going to keep all the names and
3114
01:42:13,560 --> 01:42:14,880
everything Anonymous so no one knows who
3115
01:42:14,880 --> 01:42:16,260
asked what and I'm going to obviously
3116
01:42:16,260 --> 01:42:17,460
this email's gonna go to everyone who
3117
01:42:17,460 --> 01:42:18,600
bought the course
3118
01:42:18,600 --> 01:42:20,159
uh the reason I'm not answering
3119
01:42:20,159 --> 01:42:22,020
specifically to each person who asked me
3120
01:42:22,020 --> 01:42:24,060
the question is because maybe some of
3121
01:42:24,060 --> 01:42:25,500
the points I'm going to mention these
3122
01:42:25,500 --> 01:42:26,940
questions are valid for people who
3123
01:42:26,940 --> 01:42:28,080
didn't particularly ask the question so
3124
01:42:28,080 --> 01:42:29,159
I think there's knowledge and hear from
3125
01:42:29,159 --> 01:42:31,440
everybody so let's get started
3126
01:42:31,440 --> 01:42:33,780
first things first first email I had hi
3127
01:42:33,780 --> 01:42:36,600
Andrew amazing course
3128
01:42:36,600 --> 01:42:39,540
of course of course anyway I've been
3129
01:42:39,540 --> 01:42:41,219
learning a lot from your content of
3130
01:42:41,219 --> 01:42:43,020
course the Lord's been questioned that
3131
01:42:43,020 --> 01:42:44,940
in mind so one aside from Instagram or
3132
01:42:44,940 --> 01:42:46,080
social media what your recommendation
3133
01:42:46,080 --> 01:42:47,699
recommended alternatives for getting
3134
01:42:47,699 --> 01:42:48,659
girls
3135
01:42:48,659 --> 01:42:50,280
social media can be distracting and I've
3136
01:42:50,280 --> 01:42:51,900
almost exposed our lifestyle
3137
01:42:51,900 --> 01:42:53,520
valid point
3138
01:42:53,520 --> 01:42:54,719
if you don't want to use social media
3139
01:42:54,719 --> 01:42:56,460
you have a few choices you have in
3140
01:42:56,460 --> 01:42:58,500
person which is obviously the old school
3141
01:42:58,500 --> 01:42:59,820
way
3142
01:42:59,820 --> 01:43:02,580
very doable but I'd say it's a harder
3143
01:43:02,580 --> 01:43:04,619
it's much harder for me to teach
3144
01:43:04,619 --> 01:43:07,020
difficult for me to teach a course only
3145
01:43:07,020 --> 01:43:09,540
a week ago I was in New York with myself
3146
01:43:09,540 --> 01:43:11,880
Christian McQueen and Goldman Unleashed
3147
01:43:11,880 --> 01:43:13,980
we were all together of its own with one
3148
01:43:13,980 --> 01:43:15,420
guy who's trying to learn from us and he
3149
01:43:15,420 --> 01:43:16,500
learned from all three of us at once
3150
01:43:16,500 --> 01:43:18,420
that lucky [ __ ] but going up the girls
3151
01:43:18,420 --> 01:43:20,159
approaching them really and I know
3152
01:43:20,159 --> 01:43:21,239
there's gonna sound cliche it's about
3153
01:43:21,239 --> 01:43:23,400
confidence it's about not being creepy
3154
01:43:23,400 --> 01:43:25,920
it's about a few basic tips and tricks
3155
01:43:25,920 --> 01:43:27,300
I'll give you some basic tips and tricks
3156
01:43:27,300 --> 01:43:29,580
but it's real it's hard for me to put it
3157
01:43:29,580 --> 01:43:31,440
into a course if you really want to know
3158
01:43:31,440 --> 01:43:33,239
how to approach girls on the street or
3159
01:43:33,239 --> 01:43:35,639
approach girls in a club and have the
3160
01:43:35,639 --> 01:43:37,080
best possible chance of them speaking to
3161
01:43:37,080 --> 01:43:38,159
you that's fine
3162
01:43:38,159 --> 01:43:39,780
email me separately we'll put together
3163
01:43:39,780 --> 01:43:42,000
some training look I'm a real person I'm
3164
01:43:42,000 --> 01:43:43,500
lost I'm doing the internet if you say
3165
01:43:43,500 --> 01:43:45,360
look Tate I really want to learn how to
3166
01:43:45,360 --> 01:43:46,860
do this I say okay look get a flight to
3167
01:43:46,860 --> 01:43:48,179
Paris or get a flight here get flight
3168
01:43:48,179 --> 01:43:50,100
whatever whatever let's meet up and
3169
01:43:50,100 --> 01:43:51,420
let's hit the club and I'll show you how
3170
01:43:51,420 --> 01:43:52,440
I do it
3171
01:43:52,440 --> 01:43:55,739
so tips and tricks for approaching girls
3172
01:43:55,739 --> 01:43:57,540
first things first is you have to get
3173
01:43:57,540 --> 01:43:58,679
their attention
3174
01:43:58,679 --> 01:44:00,900
now I've seen the biggest mistake I've
3175
01:44:00,900 --> 01:44:02,520
probably seen guys make is that they
3176
01:44:02,520 --> 01:44:04,199
don't get a girl's attention before they
3177
01:44:04,199 --> 01:44:06,360
try and talk to her they go up to her
3178
01:44:06,360 --> 01:44:08,520
and they say oh excuse me you're real
3179
01:44:08,520 --> 01:44:10,320
pretty excuse me my name's Kevin or
3180
01:44:10,320 --> 01:44:10,980
whatever
3181
01:44:10,980 --> 01:44:14,400
women are women are female females are
3182
01:44:14,400 --> 01:44:16,199
female meaning their mindsets females
3183
01:44:16,199 --> 01:44:17,400
they're distracted they're thinking
3184
01:44:17,400 --> 01:44:20,760
about [ __ ] [ __ ] and Gossip Girls
3185
01:44:20,760 --> 01:44:23,040
and Sex in the City and their brains are
3186
01:44:23,040 --> 01:44:24,960
a mess they're women or they're thinking
3187
01:44:24,960 --> 01:44:26,340
about me because I [ __ ] them two years
3188
01:44:26,340 --> 01:44:28,679
ago they can't get over it so you have
3189
01:44:28,679 --> 01:44:30,659
to get 100 of their attention you can't
3190
01:44:30,659 --> 01:44:32,159
go up to a girl in a bar while she's on
3191
01:44:32,159 --> 01:44:33,420
her phone or while she's talking to her
3192
01:44:33,420 --> 01:44:34,619
friend and say excuse me my name's Kevin
3193
01:44:34,619 --> 01:44:36,480
because you'll be like what
3194
01:44:36,480 --> 01:44:38,580
her saying what or I don't understand
3195
01:44:38,580 --> 01:44:41,580
you or I can't hear you is a bad first
3196
01:44:41,580 --> 01:44:43,679
response to your approach it's just a
3197
01:44:43,679 --> 01:44:47,100
negative start what what uh well it's
3198
01:44:47,100 --> 01:44:49,139
just a negative so you have to get their
3199
01:44:49,139 --> 01:44:51,960
attention and the way I do that is by
3200
01:44:51,960 --> 01:44:53,340
being supremely confident with the fact
3201
01:44:53,340 --> 01:44:54,600
I want to talk to them so I'll go up to
3202
01:44:54,600 --> 01:44:56,520
a girl I'll say excuse me I'll tap her
3203
01:44:56,520 --> 01:44:58,500
on the shoulder excuse me she'll stop
3204
01:44:58,500 --> 01:45:00,659
she'll look at me and I will literally
3205
01:45:00,659 --> 01:45:03,060
delay for a second or two I'll wait for
3206
01:45:03,060 --> 01:45:04,920
her to give me her full attention and
3207
01:45:04,920 --> 01:45:08,159
fully look at me before I say something
3208
01:45:08,159 --> 01:45:10,380
so this is the most important thing I've
3209
01:45:10,380 --> 01:45:12,179
seen two people [ __ ] that up you have to
3210
01:45:12,179 --> 01:45:14,040
get the girls attention this is in the
3211
01:45:14,040 --> 01:45:16,199
club it's one thing on the street or
3212
01:45:16,199 --> 01:45:17,580
somewhere else is even more important if
3213
01:45:17,580 --> 01:45:19,320
you go to a girl while she's walking oh
3214
01:45:19,320 --> 01:45:20,940
beautiful blue she said what the [ __ ]
3215
01:45:20,940 --> 01:45:22,619
what it's going to be an annoyance to
3216
01:45:22,619 --> 01:45:24,239
her if you say excuse me excuse me you
3217
01:45:24,239 --> 01:45:25,679
make her stop and say sorry I didn't
3218
01:45:25,679 --> 01:45:28,020
mean I didn't want to stop you but and
3219
01:45:28,020 --> 01:45:30,300
then you start to talk when she has when
3220
01:45:30,300 --> 01:45:32,100
you have 100 of her attention she's
3221
01:45:32,100 --> 01:45:34,679
devoting attention to you to compliment
3222
01:45:34,679 --> 01:45:35,580
you're going to give her because that's
3223
01:45:35,580 --> 01:45:37,440
what it effectively is has a lot more
3224
01:45:37,440 --> 01:45:39,360
weight and a lot more value as opposed
3225
01:45:39,360 --> 01:45:40,679
to just throwing it at her while she
3226
01:45:40,679 --> 01:45:42,179
walks down the street
3227
01:45:42,179 --> 01:45:43,560
first things first is get their
3228
01:45:43,560 --> 01:45:45,840
attention make them pay attention to you
3229
01:45:45,840 --> 01:45:49,080
personally I'd cut straight to the point
3230
01:45:49,080 --> 01:45:50,820
I say to her I say you're absolutely
3231
01:45:50,820 --> 01:45:53,040
beautiful I know usually and if you say
3232
01:45:53,040 --> 01:45:55,320
that there's very little bad or wrong
3233
01:45:55,320 --> 01:45:56,940
they can say I mean if they're a
3234
01:45:56,940 --> 01:45:58,500
complete [ __ ] or if they have a
3235
01:45:58,500 --> 01:45:59,940
boyfriend they might go okay thanks and
3236
01:45:59,940 --> 01:46:01,139
turn around
3237
01:46:01,139 --> 01:46:03,179
that's a fine interaction nothing bad's
3238
01:46:03,179 --> 01:46:04,920
happened you haven't been insulted you
3239
01:46:04,920 --> 01:46:06,900
haven't been shot down really so this
3240
01:46:06,900 --> 01:46:08,100
will give you the confidence to approach
3241
01:46:08,100 --> 01:46:09,300
any girl you want if you get her
3242
01:46:09,300 --> 01:46:10,800
attention tell her she's beautiful even
3243
01:46:10,800 --> 01:46:12,900
if she goes oh okay thanks and turns
3244
01:46:12,900 --> 01:46:14,699
around then you can just walk off what
3245
01:46:14,699 --> 01:46:17,219
bad's happened nothing but if she goes
3246
01:46:17,219 --> 01:46:19,320
oh thank you thank you and she continues
3247
01:46:19,320 --> 01:46:21,960
to look at you then you know she wants
3248
01:46:21,960 --> 01:46:24,239
you to keep talking to her so that's my
3249
01:46:24,239 --> 01:46:25,980
opener people have different openers
3250
01:46:25,980 --> 01:46:28,199
that's my personality I've seen a lot of
3251
01:46:28,199 --> 01:46:29,940
guys who go oh my name's Kevin or
3252
01:46:29,940 --> 01:46:31,500
whatever the reason I don't do that is
3253
01:46:31,500 --> 01:46:32,520
because I don't think she gives a [ __ ]
3254
01:46:32,520 --> 01:46:34,020
what her name is bro she doesn't even
3255
01:46:34,020 --> 01:46:35,100
know you
3256
01:46:35,100 --> 01:46:37,560
excuse me yeah my name's Andrew
3257
01:46:37,560 --> 01:46:38,520
so
3258
01:46:38,520 --> 01:46:40,560
who the [ __ ] are you like that that
3259
01:46:40,560 --> 01:46:42,360
internally that's what she's thinking
3260
01:46:42,360 --> 01:46:44,639
whereas if you see saying my name's
3261
01:46:44,639 --> 01:46:46,320
Andrew means all the it's all about me
3262
01:46:46,320 --> 01:46:48,060
the attention's on me here's who I am
3263
01:46:48,060 --> 01:46:49,679
she doesn't care who you are she doesn't
3264
01:46:49,679 --> 01:46:52,080
know me saying you are beautiful means
3265
01:46:52,080 --> 01:46:54,060
the attention's all about her and she's
3266
01:46:54,060 --> 01:46:56,580
more likely to respond positively to a
3267
01:46:56,580 --> 01:46:58,560
compliment which is all about her but an
3268
01:46:58,560 --> 01:46:59,820
introduction from some dude who she
3269
01:46:59,820 --> 01:47:01,020
doesn't [ __ ] know she doesn't care
3270
01:47:01,020 --> 01:47:02,760
about who you are
3271
01:47:02,760 --> 01:47:04,080
so I say you're absolutely beautiful to
3272
01:47:04,080 --> 01:47:05,820
say thanks to say uh social system I'll
3273
01:47:05,820 --> 01:47:08,760
say what's your name and she'll tell me
3274
01:47:08,760 --> 01:47:11,100
and now I'll start talking [ __ ] so what
3275
01:47:11,100 --> 01:47:12,480
do I say when I start talking [ __ ] I
3276
01:47:12,480 --> 01:47:14,100
don't know I'll talk absolute garbage it
3277
01:47:14,100 --> 01:47:15,300
depends where I am depends on the
3278
01:47:15,300 --> 01:47:17,100
situation but like I said in the first
3279
01:47:17,100 --> 01:47:19,320
statement the first uh lesson in the PHD
3280
01:47:19,320 --> 01:47:20,460
course we're always aiming for
3281
01:47:20,460 --> 01:47:23,280
progression so if if we're in
3282
01:47:23,280 --> 01:47:24,840
a bar I'll go up and say excuse me
3283
01:47:24,840 --> 01:47:25,800
you're absolutely beautiful I said oh
3284
01:47:25,800 --> 01:47:28,139
thanks and I said I've got good news
3285
01:47:28,139 --> 01:47:29,760
see I use little things like that I'll
3286
01:47:29,760 --> 01:47:32,639
say if I say if if I say I've got good
3287
01:47:32,639 --> 01:47:34,619
news blah blah blah blah blah she
3288
01:47:34,619 --> 01:47:36,060
doesn't respond as much I'll say I have
3289
01:47:36,060 --> 01:47:37,199
good news
3290
01:47:37,199 --> 01:47:39,179
is a good news what I'll start getting
3291
01:47:39,179 --> 01:47:40,619
her to respond and I'll do that with
3292
01:47:40,619 --> 01:47:41,940
little breaks so I have good news today
3293
01:47:41,940 --> 01:47:43,679
while I said me and you are drinking and
3294
01:47:43,679 --> 01:47:44,820
if she's with other girls they'll say
3295
01:47:44,820 --> 01:47:46,320
all of us we're all drinking we're all
3296
01:47:46,320 --> 01:47:47,520
drinking vodka and I'll just point down
3297
01:47:47,520 --> 01:47:49,440
with a vodka bar and I'll start ordering
3298
01:47:49,440 --> 01:47:51,000
[ __ ] with the poker shops well I don't
3299
01:47:51,000 --> 01:47:53,460
drink Focus that you do with me
3300
01:47:53,460 --> 01:47:55,860
start being assertive drinks tell her
3301
01:47:55,860 --> 01:47:57,659
she's beautiful who's this dude whoa
3302
01:47:57,659 --> 01:47:59,580
vodka's coming oh vodka okay cheers
3303
01:47:59,580 --> 01:48:02,159
everyone cheers bang and your friends
3304
01:48:02,159 --> 01:48:03,960
on the simple another little trick I'll
3305
01:48:03,960 --> 01:48:05,880
give if you've been talking to a girl
3306
01:48:05,880 --> 01:48:07,860
for three or four minutes
3307
01:48:07,860 --> 01:48:10,920
before you've introduced yourself
3308
01:48:10,920 --> 01:48:13,440
a good trick I'll get is if you ask her
3309
01:48:13,440 --> 01:48:15,420
her name and she says it's Katie
3310
01:48:15,420 --> 01:48:16,560
whatever
3311
01:48:16,560 --> 01:48:19,260
leave it a second and wait to see if she
3312
01:48:19,260 --> 01:48:22,500
asks you your name back so let's say
3313
01:48:22,500 --> 01:48:23,460
you've been talking to a girl you meet
3314
01:48:23,460 --> 01:48:24,719
her in a coffee shop you're talking [ __ ]
3315
01:48:24,719 --> 01:48:26,400
oh the line in this coffee Shop's always
3316
01:48:26,400 --> 01:48:28,500
so long yeah I know it's too long that a
3317
01:48:28,500 --> 01:48:30,239
if I owned a coffee shop I'd make sure
3318
01:48:30,239 --> 01:48:32,100
my staff had to run everywhere otherwise
3319
01:48:32,100 --> 01:48:33,659
they'd all get fired because I'm the
3320
01:48:33,659 --> 01:48:36,119
king well you should open a coffee shop
3321
01:48:36,119 --> 01:48:37,920
then I will are you gonna come in yeah
3322
01:48:37,920 --> 01:48:40,199
I'll always buy coffee from you typical
3323
01:48:40,199 --> 01:48:41,880
[ __ ] conversation I have of those
3324
01:48:41,880 --> 01:48:44,400
that I mean in coffee shops oh I don't
3325
01:48:44,400 --> 01:48:46,139
know talk to a few minutes I'll say so
3326
01:48:46,139 --> 01:48:48,480
what's your name Katie after she tells
3327
01:48:48,480 --> 01:48:50,699
me her name I'll pause for a second I
3328
01:48:50,699 --> 01:48:52,860
don't introduce myself I pause and I
3329
01:48:52,860 --> 01:48:55,679
wait to see if she asks me my name
3330
01:48:55,679 --> 01:48:58,380
this is a huge tale and I've heard this
3331
01:48:58,380 --> 01:48:59,580
somewhere else before and I can't
3332
01:48:59,580 --> 01:49:01,199
remember where but it's something I
3333
01:49:01,199 --> 01:49:03,540
observed and something I used before I
3334
01:49:03,540 --> 01:49:04,920
heard it somewhere else and it's true
3335
01:49:04,920 --> 01:49:06,420
you say what's your name Katie and then
3336
01:49:06,420 --> 01:49:07,800
you wait and she goes and you I'll say
3337
01:49:07,800 --> 01:49:09,179
oh my name's Andrew then she's
3338
01:49:09,179 --> 01:49:10,679
interested in you you say what's your
3339
01:49:10,679 --> 01:49:13,139
name she goes Katie
3340
01:49:13,139 --> 01:49:14,880
[ __ ] and she doesn't give a [ __ ] who you
3341
01:49:14,880 --> 01:49:16,440
are after talking to you for a few
3342
01:49:16,440 --> 01:49:17,760
minutes that it's probably not going to
3343
01:49:17,760 --> 01:49:19,080
go anywhere it doesn't mean you have to
3344
01:49:19,080 --> 01:49:20,639
abandon the whole procedure it just
3345
01:49:20,639 --> 01:49:22,139
means be aware that it's probably not
3346
01:49:22,139 --> 01:49:23,940
going to go anywhere so that's a few
3347
01:49:23,940 --> 01:49:26,299
tricks
3348
01:49:26,520 --> 01:49:27,659
tips
3349
01:49:27,659 --> 01:49:29,760
[ __ ] out no edits
3350
01:49:29,760 --> 01:49:32,159
tips and tricks for picking up girls in
3351
01:49:32,159 --> 01:49:34,260
person but a lot of that [ __ ] and that
3352
01:49:34,260 --> 01:49:36,000
Charisma and stuff that's just down to
3353
01:49:36,000 --> 01:49:37,199
practice
3354
01:49:37,199 --> 01:49:39,119
I think I talked about Luke the man in
3355
01:49:39,119 --> 01:49:40,500
the first video do I talk about Luke the
3356
01:49:40,500 --> 01:49:42,600
man in the first PhD video I can't
3357
01:49:42,600 --> 01:49:43,380
remember
3358
01:49:43,380 --> 01:49:45,659
I was talking about Luke the man again
3359
01:49:45,659 --> 01:49:47,580
so when my brother worked in a coffee
3360
01:49:47,580 --> 01:49:49,980
shop there was a a black guy from the
3361
01:49:49,980 --> 01:49:52,560
Ivory Coast of public called Luke
3362
01:49:52,560 --> 01:49:54,420
and he was broke he worked in the coffee
3363
01:49:54,420 --> 01:49:57,119
shop he was African black
3364
01:49:57,119 --> 01:49:59,940
ugly skinny no money
3365
01:49:59,940 --> 01:50:03,239
and he used to try on every girl who
3366
01:50:03,239 --> 01:50:05,040
came in that show if you blame the buy a
3367
01:50:05,040 --> 01:50:06,659
coffee he'd just give it a coffee say
3368
01:50:06,659 --> 01:50:08,639
hey baby you're so beautiful this is
3369
01:50:08,639 --> 01:50:10,320
before that hole this is about this is
3370
01:50:10,320 --> 01:50:12,360
interesting working right so Tristan was
3371
01:50:12,360 --> 01:50:14,040
about 18 about 10 11 years ago before
3372
01:50:14,040 --> 01:50:16,020
this me too it would be fired by now for
3373
01:50:16,020 --> 01:50:18,179
[ __ ] sexual misconduct problem
3374
01:50:18,179 --> 01:50:19,739
hey you're so beautiful you're so
3375
01:50:19,739 --> 01:50:21,659
beautiful you saved every single girl
3376
01:50:21,659 --> 01:50:23,280
and he always call them they say what's
3377
01:50:23,280 --> 01:50:25,260
your name and go look like James Bond
3378
01:50:25,260 --> 01:50:28,679
James James Bond Luke the man she used
3379
01:50:28,679 --> 01:50:30,500
to call himself
3380
01:50:30,500 --> 01:50:33,300
anyway so he's trying every single girl
3381
01:50:33,300 --> 01:50:35,280
and he was so ugly and had no money that
3382
01:50:35,280 --> 01:50:37,739
he used to get shot down 99 times out of
3383
01:50:37,739 --> 01:50:39,659
100 and my brother being young used to
3384
01:50:39,659 --> 01:50:40,860
say to him why do you do that they all
3385
01:50:40,860 --> 01:50:42,960
say no to me he goes yes but some say
3386
01:50:42,960 --> 01:50:43,679
yes
3387
01:50:43,679 --> 01:50:46,260
and one day uh Luke came in with
3388
01:50:46,260 --> 01:50:48,600
pictures about a Hungarian girl must
3389
01:50:48,600 --> 01:50:50,280
have been like some racist Hungarian
3390
01:50:50,280 --> 01:50:52,199
girl whose fathers are strict Christians
3391
01:50:52,199 --> 01:50:53,639
she hasn't fantasy about [ __ ] a black
3392
01:50:53,639 --> 01:50:54,840
dude or something I don't know but she
3393
01:50:54,840 --> 01:50:58,139
was a [ __ ] nine hot and Lucas is ugly
3394
01:50:58,139 --> 01:51:00,119
and as poor as you can get he's in a
3395
01:51:00,119 --> 01:51:01,860
worse position than any of you and he
3396
01:51:01,860 --> 01:51:04,560
[ __ ] this [ __ ] Hungarian supermodel
3397
01:51:04,560 --> 01:51:06,119
and he had pictures of her naked my
3398
01:51:06,119 --> 01:51:07,380
brother's like how the [ __ ] did you do
3399
01:51:07,380 --> 01:51:08,639
that without because I'm Luke the man
3400
01:51:08,639 --> 01:51:11,040
loot the man keeps trying
3401
01:51:11,040 --> 01:51:12,960
and this is an important lesson
3402
01:51:12,960 --> 01:51:14,639
you haven't really gonna have anything
3403
01:51:14,639 --> 01:51:17,280
if you're prepared to do the numbers if
3404
01:51:17,280 --> 01:51:19,199
you're really that militant about it and
3405
01:51:19,199 --> 01:51:20,699
you don't give a [ __ ] about getting shot
3406
01:51:20,699 --> 01:51:23,100
down then you're never gonna fail that's
3407
01:51:23,100 --> 01:51:24,719
the truth if you're that militant with
3408
01:51:24,719 --> 01:51:25,560
your numbers
3409
01:51:25,560 --> 01:51:28,260
but if you're like me I'm selective I'm
3410
01:51:28,260 --> 01:51:30,179
not one of them dudes who's like Day
3411
01:51:30,179 --> 01:51:32,820
game run around the mall all day going
3412
01:51:32,820 --> 01:51:35,460
up to every girl I see I'm not like that
3413
01:51:35,460 --> 01:51:37,440
that's not me I'm calm cool and
3414
01:51:37,440 --> 01:51:39,780
collected I'll approach a [ __ ] once a
3415
01:51:39,780 --> 01:51:43,560
week maybe and she's got me hot fine I
3416
01:51:43,560 --> 01:51:45,659
ain't going to know Basics sevens and
3417
01:51:45,659 --> 01:51:48,000
[ __ ] I have enough girls so if I go to a
3418
01:51:48,000 --> 01:51:49,860
girl it's like when I see a 10 then I'll
3419
01:51:49,860 --> 01:51:51,600
go approach a girl but in reality I
3420
01:51:51,600 --> 01:51:53,280
don't often do it but if I do do it
3421
01:51:53,280 --> 01:51:55,619
that's how it's done
3422
01:51:55,619 --> 01:51:57,540
another way you can do is Tinder
3423
01:51:57,540 --> 01:52:00,060
everyone uses Tinder Tinder is perfectly
3424
01:52:00,060 --> 01:52:01,500
doable you can meet good girls on Tinder
3425
01:52:01,500 --> 01:52:03,179
there's nothing wrong with Tinder so
3426
01:52:03,179 --> 01:52:06,239
tender short answer Tinder but
3427
01:52:06,239 --> 01:52:07,679
whether you're on Tinder or in person
3428
01:52:07,679 --> 01:52:09,360
progression so if I meet a girl in
3429
01:52:09,360 --> 01:52:11,820
person I still get the Instagram and I
3430
01:52:11,820 --> 01:52:13,139
get the Instagram within three to four
3431
01:52:13,139 --> 01:52:15,719
minutes I still do that or I still get
3432
01:52:15,719 --> 01:52:18,060
the WhatsApp exactly the same and if I'm
3433
01:52:18,060 --> 01:52:19,380
talking to him on Tinder you want to get
3434
01:52:19,380 --> 01:52:21,780
them off Tinder ASAP if I'm talking to a
3435
01:52:21,780 --> 01:52:23,699
girl in the club I'll talk to her after
3436
01:52:23,699 --> 01:52:25,980
we've had the shots so what's your
3437
01:52:25,980 --> 01:52:27,239
Instagram I bet you have loads of men
3438
01:52:27,239 --> 01:52:30,239
following you well not that many 25 000
3439
01:52:30,239 --> 01:52:31,560
dude
3440
01:52:31,560 --> 01:52:33,600
like a follower and stuff I get the
3441
01:52:33,600 --> 01:52:34,980
Instagram early on so I have a contact
3442
01:52:34,980 --> 01:52:36,600
details to hit her up later so I get
3443
01:52:36,600 --> 01:52:38,340
that [ __ ] early same with Tinder if
3444
01:52:38,340 --> 01:52:39,480
you're talking to her on Tinder then
3445
01:52:39,480 --> 01:52:40,619
she's talking to loads of dudes on
3446
01:52:40,619 --> 01:52:41,820
Tinder talk to her a little bit just
3447
01:52:41,820 --> 01:52:43,020
like a lesson's in the first page of
3448
01:52:43,020 --> 01:52:44,460
your course talk a little bit [ __ ] four
3449
01:52:44,460 --> 01:52:46,260
or five minutes bang try and get her
3450
01:52:46,260 --> 01:52:48,840
Instagram or Whatsapp get her off Tinder
3451
01:52:48,840 --> 01:52:51,179
gear into a pro a platform to reduce the
3452
01:52:51,179 --> 01:52:52,560
numbers you're always looking to reduce
3453
01:52:52,560 --> 01:52:54,179
the numbers you're talking to her in
3454
01:52:54,179 --> 01:52:55,139
real life
3455
01:52:55,139 --> 01:52:57,000
everyone can talk to her reduce it to
3456
01:52:57,000 --> 01:52:58,260
her Instagram twenty five thousand
3457
01:52:58,260 --> 01:52:59,520
reduce that to our WhatsApp couple
3458
01:52:59,520 --> 01:53:01,260
hundred produce that today and one guy
3459
01:53:01,260 --> 01:53:03,300
always believe to reduce the numbers so
3460
01:53:03,300 --> 01:53:06,420
whether it's Tinder or in person
3461
01:53:06,420 --> 01:53:08,100
progression you're not looking to just
3462
01:53:08,100 --> 01:53:10,199
talk [ __ ] get contact details and
3463
01:53:10,199 --> 01:53:11,280
progress
3464
01:53:11,280 --> 01:53:13,940
next
3465
01:53:13,980 --> 01:53:16,080
big daddy take
3466
01:53:16,080 --> 01:53:17,580
you mentioned that your girl cannot have
3467
01:53:17,580 --> 01:53:19,139
male friends and she'd be interested in
3468
01:53:19,139 --> 01:53:20,760
talking to you and you only
3469
01:53:20,760 --> 01:53:22,320
correct
3470
01:53:22,320 --> 01:53:23,520
how can this be achieved without
3471
01:53:23,520 --> 01:53:25,080
behaving like an insecure beta who is
3472
01:53:25,080 --> 01:53:26,520
mate guarding
3473
01:53:26,520 --> 01:53:28,020
attractive women often have multiple
3474
01:53:28,020 --> 01:53:29,280
guys texting her even when she's not
3475
01:53:29,280 --> 01:53:30,719
interested at all what actions would you
3476
01:53:30,719 --> 01:53:31,980
take
3477
01:53:31,980 --> 01:53:33,540
very good question
3478
01:53:33,540 --> 01:53:35,820
and also the person who said this is
3479
01:53:35,820 --> 01:53:37,980
perspicacious enough to know that you
3480
01:53:37,980 --> 01:53:39,659
don't want to look exactly like you said
3481
01:53:39,659 --> 01:53:42,179
an insecure beta mategory
3482
01:53:42,179 --> 01:53:44,159
so make guarding is when you're like oh
3483
01:53:44,159 --> 01:53:46,500
like just super protective pathetically
3484
01:53:46,500 --> 01:53:48,239
protective over your girl that's not on
3485
01:53:48,239 --> 01:53:49,800
Alpha quality so how do you approach
3486
01:53:49,800 --> 01:53:52,560
this out the stands well it depends if
3487
01:53:52,560 --> 01:53:54,420
it's a girl who you're just seeing and
3488
01:53:54,420 --> 01:53:55,440
dating
3489
01:53:55,440 --> 01:53:57,719
there's not much you can do about it
3490
01:53:57,719 --> 01:54:00,659
you don't have the authority yet
3491
01:54:00,659 --> 01:54:02,520
if it's a girl you've been with for a
3492
01:54:02,520 --> 01:54:04,800
while there's a lot you can do about it
3493
01:54:04,800 --> 01:54:06,960
so if I'm if I'm just dating a girl and
3494
01:54:06,960 --> 01:54:09,119
I know she's dating dudes or talking to
3495
01:54:09,119 --> 01:54:11,040
dudes whatever I do nothing
3496
01:54:11,040 --> 01:54:13,860
I don't give a [ __ ] I'll [ __ ] her I'll
3497
01:54:13,860 --> 01:54:15,300
progress towards banging her I'll let
3498
01:54:15,300 --> 01:54:16,800
her do what she's gonna do
3499
01:54:16,800 --> 01:54:18,840
I'll bang her and I'll and I'll do the
3500
01:54:18,840 --> 01:54:19,980
test we talked about in the first
3501
01:54:19,980 --> 01:54:20,820
episode
3502
01:54:20,820 --> 01:54:22,920
the cut attention test bang cut the
3503
01:54:22,920 --> 01:54:23,940
attention off
3504
01:54:23,940 --> 01:54:25,560
and then we'll see how she reacts from
3505
01:54:25,560 --> 01:54:28,199
there if I [ __ ] her and she chases me
3506
01:54:28,199 --> 01:54:29,940
badly then I'm gonna know the other dude
3507
01:54:29,940 --> 01:54:31,380
she's talking to Shane I interested
3508
01:54:31,380 --> 01:54:32,940
because she's chasing me for my
3509
01:54:32,940 --> 01:54:34,860
attention after having sex with you if I
3510
01:54:34,860 --> 01:54:36,719
have sex with her and I don't hear from
3511
01:54:36,719 --> 01:54:38,639
her and she's a bit annoyed about it by
3512
01:54:38,639 --> 01:54:39,900
it but she starts chasing her other
3513
01:54:39,900 --> 01:54:41,219
dudes and she ain't worth [ __ ] anyway
3514
01:54:41,219 --> 01:54:43,199
once again for that test I'm not saying
3515
01:54:43,199 --> 01:54:44,820
stop talking to the girl completely I'm
3516
01:54:44,820 --> 01:54:46,800
not saying that I'm saying reduce your
3517
01:54:46,800 --> 01:54:47,820
attention
3518
01:54:47,820 --> 01:54:50,100
reduce your attention it has to be it's
3519
01:54:50,100 --> 01:54:51,540
a fine line you have to reduce your
3520
01:54:51,540 --> 01:54:53,699
attention enough so that she can feel
3521
01:54:53,699 --> 01:54:56,460
something's changed but not too much so
3522
01:54:56,460 --> 01:54:58,500
she can call you out on it you've got to
3523
01:54:58,500 --> 01:54:59,880
be just at that line you can play
3524
01:54:59,880 --> 01:55:01,199
innocent but you can say oh you [ __ ]
3525
01:55:01,199 --> 01:55:02,400
you're not talking to me anymore you
3526
01:55:02,400 --> 01:55:03,960
don't want to be able to say that you're
3527
01:55:03,960 --> 01:55:05,159
going to reduce it enough so she doesn't
3528
01:55:05,159 --> 01:55:06,300
feel comfortable
3529
01:55:06,300 --> 01:55:07,500
I don't feel comfortable I don't feel
3530
01:55:07,500 --> 01:55:09,360
like he likes me that's how it's it's
3531
01:55:09,360 --> 01:55:10,980
that fine line I'm gonna say never talk
3532
01:55:10,980 --> 01:55:13,080
to her I'm saying reduce the attention
3533
01:55:13,080 --> 01:55:14,580
that's what I said
3534
01:55:14,580 --> 01:55:16,139
if it's the girl he's been with for a
3535
01:55:16,139 --> 01:55:17,159
while
3536
01:55:17,159 --> 01:55:19,139
you don't [ __ ] lay it down bro
3537
01:55:19,139 --> 01:55:22,020
and what the [ __ ] she doing if she if
3538
01:55:22,020 --> 01:55:24,060
you say to her we've been together a few
3539
01:55:24,060 --> 01:55:26,100
months now I don't like these dudes
3540
01:55:26,100 --> 01:55:29,219
texting you if you had no legs and was
3541
01:55:29,219 --> 01:55:30,600
fat and was in a wheelchair they
3542
01:55:30,600 --> 01:55:32,280
wouldn't text you they're not texting
3543
01:55:32,280 --> 01:55:33,900
you for your personality they're texting
3544
01:55:33,900 --> 01:55:35,760
you because you're attractive I don't
3545
01:55:35,760 --> 01:55:38,159
feel comfortable with that is she I'm
3546
01:55:38,159 --> 01:55:39,840
your man if you want to talk to a man
3547
01:55:39,840 --> 01:55:41,639
you can talk to me stop replying to
3548
01:55:41,639 --> 01:55:43,500
these guys and if you say that to her
3549
01:55:43,500 --> 01:55:44,820
she goes no I really like them they're
3550
01:55:44,820 --> 01:55:46,980
my friends if she's going to choose them
3551
01:55:46,980 --> 01:55:49,320
over you that she's going to cheat on
3552
01:55:49,320 --> 01:55:50,880
you in the end anyway
3553
01:55:50,880 --> 01:55:53,760
this is the harsh reality of the game if
3554
01:55:53,760 --> 01:55:55,500
you lay it down and say it's me or that
3555
01:55:55,500 --> 01:55:58,020
and she chooses that then what's the
3556
01:55:58,020 --> 01:55:59,520
possibility of her being loyal to you in
3557
01:55:59,520 --> 01:56:00,840
the long term
3558
01:56:00,840 --> 01:56:04,560
it's zero it may be a time frame but in
3559
01:56:04,560 --> 01:56:06,960
the end it's zero if her texting these
3560
01:56:06,960 --> 01:56:08,699
dudes who want to [ __ ] her is more
3561
01:56:08,699 --> 01:56:10,800
important than keeping you happy then
3562
01:56:10,800 --> 01:56:12,719
eventually she's going to cheat
3563
01:56:12,719 --> 01:56:14,639
so the question is this
3564
01:56:14,639 --> 01:56:17,639
what do you do well if she chooses them
3565
01:56:17,639 --> 01:56:19,619
it's better to end the relationship
3566
01:56:19,619 --> 01:56:22,440
there and walk off as a hero and to
3567
01:56:22,440 --> 01:56:25,139
upset her and Destroy her heart then to
3568
01:56:25,139 --> 01:56:27,780
let it slowly fade away while she slowly
3569
01:56:27,780 --> 01:56:29,760
falls in love with some new dude so you
3570
01:56:29,760 --> 01:56:31,380
end up catching her cheating on you with
3571
01:56:31,380 --> 01:56:33,360
some other guy and then when you're
3572
01:56:33,360 --> 01:56:35,639
upset she doesn't give a [ __ ] because
3573
01:56:35,639 --> 01:56:37,560
women are ruthless
3574
01:56:37,560 --> 01:56:39,119
so we make that clear to you one more
3575
01:56:39,119 --> 01:56:39,840
time
3576
01:56:39,840 --> 01:56:43,199
you lay it down and you say
3577
01:56:43,199 --> 01:56:44,580
I don't like to touch another man I'm
3578
01:56:44,580 --> 01:56:45,840
your man you don't talk to other men if
3579
01:56:45,840 --> 01:56:47,520
you talk to other men well I'm not going
3580
01:56:47,520 --> 01:56:48,600
to be able to take you seriously so this
3581
01:56:48,600 --> 01:56:50,520
is not going to be a relationship
3582
01:56:50,520 --> 01:56:52,500
she goes oh no well I I want to do that
3583
01:56:52,500 --> 01:56:54,360
so yeah all right cool all right I've
3584
01:56:54,360 --> 01:56:55,560
just told you I'm not comfortable with
3585
01:56:55,560 --> 01:56:56,820
it if you want to keep talking to them
3586
01:56:56,820 --> 01:56:58,080
then talk to them
3587
01:56:58,080 --> 01:56:59,639
that's all you do and then you reduce
3588
01:56:59,639 --> 01:57:01,619
your attention right now
3589
01:57:01,619 --> 01:57:03,540
you do sit completely now are you all
3590
01:57:03,540 --> 01:57:05,460
I'm assume tonight I'm busy reduce your
3591
01:57:05,460 --> 01:57:07,440
engine right now oh fine if you're gonna
3592
01:57:07,440 --> 01:57:08,760
be upset if I'm talking to guys fine
3593
01:57:08,760 --> 01:57:10,560
[ __ ] you then you never gonna control me
3594
01:57:10,560 --> 01:57:12,900
I like to have friends if that's the
3595
01:57:12,900 --> 01:57:14,400
kind of person she is she's going to
3596
01:57:14,400 --> 01:57:16,980
cheat on you eventually anyway so your
3597
01:57:16,980 --> 01:57:19,080
choices are you leave her and she's
3598
01:57:19,080 --> 01:57:21,000
upset or she cheats on you and you're
3599
01:57:21,000 --> 01:57:23,099
upset which one's better well I'll tell
3600
01:57:23,099 --> 01:57:24,360
you the one that's better is up saying
3601
01:57:24,360 --> 01:57:26,760
her not just because it avoids you
3602
01:57:26,760 --> 01:57:28,920
discomfort but also because if you upset
3603
01:57:28,920 --> 01:57:30,300
her you're gonna have an emotional
3604
01:57:30,300 --> 01:57:32,099
hangover that allows you to get her back
3605
01:57:32,099 --> 01:57:34,500
later I've had this exact scenario girls
3606
01:57:34,500 --> 01:57:36,840
exact scenario
3607
01:57:36,840 --> 01:57:38,760
I said wife up in this guy odd numbers
3608
01:57:38,760 --> 01:57:40,560
in school so I don't care how much you
3609
01:57:40,560 --> 01:57:41,520
belong you've done and he still wants to
3610
01:57:41,520 --> 01:57:43,139
[ __ ] you so stop talking to it but I've
3611
01:57:43,139 --> 01:57:44,099
known him forever we've only been
3612
01:57:44,099 --> 01:57:45,540
together a few months tell him you have
3613
01:57:45,540 --> 01:57:47,219
a boyfriend and that you know you're
3614
01:57:47,219 --> 01:57:48,599
still friends you don't you can't really
3615
01:57:48,599 --> 01:57:49,560
meet up with him you've got a boyfriend
3616
01:57:49,560 --> 01:57:52,199
and stop [ __ ] texting me simple oh
3617
01:57:52,199 --> 01:57:53,699
but you know I just think you're trying
3618
01:57:53,699 --> 01:57:54,900
to control me I said all right [ __ ]
3619
01:57:54,900 --> 01:57:56,400
forget it do you want well I'm not
3620
01:57:56,400 --> 01:57:57,659
taking you seriously you're talking to a
3621
01:57:57,659 --> 01:57:58,560
bunch of guys I'm not taking that kind
3622
01:57:58,560 --> 01:58:00,480
of girl serious oh yeah well whatever
3623
01:58:00,480 --> 01:58:02,219
they're gonna cut my attention right
3624
01:58:02,219 --> 01:58:05,400
down she got fresh I dumped her now I'm
3625
01:58:05,400 --> 01:58:07,440
telling you something that girl this was
3626
01:58:07,440 --> 01:58:10,199
a long time ago that girl once every
3627
01:58:10,199 --> 01:58:13,320
four to five months to this day likes a
3628
01:58:13,320 --> 01:58:16,500
picture on my Instagram or [ __ ] drops
3629
01:58:16,500 --> 01:58:18,119
me some [ __ ] meme in my Facebook
3630
01:58:18,119 --> 01:58:20,760
inbox still trying to this days was
3631
01:58:20,760 --> 01:58:22,679
years ago but
3632
01:58:22,679 --> 01:58:25,260
but a guy who dumped her my attention is
3633
01:58:25,260 --> 01:58:27,119
the most valuable remember the lessons
3634
01:58:27,119 --> 01:58:29,159
from the first one my attention is the
3635
01:58:29,159 --> 01:58:30,480
most valuable because my attention is
3636
01:58:30,480 --> 01:58:32,099
hard to get she didn't do what I wanted
3637
01:58:32,099 --> 01:58:34,560
she didn't conform to be the way I want
3638
01:58:34,560 --> 01:58:37,580
her to be so where's my piece of paper
3639
01:58:37,580 --> 01:58:41,699
FDB [ __ ] you bye I found another girl
3640
01:58:41,699 --> 01:58:43,560
you're not in the business of turning a
3641
01:58:43,560 --> 01:58:45,599
hoe into a housewife if someone's meant
3642
01:58:45,599 --> 01:58:47,460
to have a girl's mentality is I need to
3643
01:58:47,460 --> 01:58:49,500
talk to lots of men all the time it's
3644
01:58:49,500 --> 01:58:51,360
not your job to fix her bro that's not
3645
01:58:51,360 --> 01:58:54,360
your job lay it down make it clear and
3646
01:58:54,360 --> 01:58:56,639
make her make a choice it's really as
3647
01:58:56,639 --> 01:58:58,380
simple as that but you have to be
3648
01:58:58,380 --> 01:58:59,760
prepared to walk away if you don't get
3649
01:58:59,760 --> 01:59:01,320
what you want like Trump said the art of
3650
01:59:01,320 --> 01:59:03,239
the deal and it may be it may upset you
3651
01:59:03,239 --> 01:59:04,560
you may be annoyed you may lose a girl
3652
01:59:04,560 --> 01:59:06,119
you don't you like you don't really want
3653
01:59:06,119 --> 01:59:08,639
it but this is the truth you're looking
3654
01:59:08,639 --> 01:59:10,020
for a wife or you're looking for a girl
3655
01:59:10,020 --> 01:59:11,940
you can be with forever shave that girl
3656
01:59:11,940 --> 01:59:13,260
so
3657
01:59:13,260 --> 01:59:14,760
cutting your attention right down and
3658
01:59:14,760 --> 01:59:16,800
find something else if she won't comply
3659
01:59:16,800 --> 01:59:18,119
that's that's how you handle that
3660
01:59:18,119 --> 01:59:20,360
situation
3661
01:59:21,540 --> 01:59:23,400
three you've talked about dropping
3662
01:59:23,400 --> 01:59:24,599
attention after having sex with a woman
3663
01:59:24,599 --> 01:59:26,219
will this increase the girls the risk of
3664
01:59:26,219 --> 01:59:29,580
a false rate accusation EG the girl
3665
01:59:29,580 --> 01:59:32,760
feeling used or manipulated very valid
3666
01:59:32,760 --> 01:59:35,280
question and this is why I said drop the
3667
01:59:35,280 --> 01:59:37,380
attention to a very important fine line
3668
01:59:37,380 --> 01:59:40,560
level where she can feel that the
3669
01:59:40,560 --> 01:59:42,900
attention's dropped but she cannot call
3670
01:59:42,900 --> 01:59:46,260
you out on it it's that perfect level of
3671
01:59:46,260 --> 01:59:48,000
I don't want to say anything I can't say
3672
01:59:48,000 --> 01:59:50,040
he is texting me back
3673
01:59:50,040 --> 01:59:52,980
but it's not doesn't feel the same it's
3674
01:59:52,980 --> 01:59:54,540
just that perfect level
3675
01:59:54,540 --> 01:59:55,920
so that's something you have to do with
3676
01:59:55,920 --> 01:59:57,239
experience you have to cut the attention
3677
01:59:57,239 --> 01:59:59,639
down but she can't be able to call you
3678
01:59:59,639 --> 02:00:01,139
out on this and that handles that that's
3679
02:00:01,139 --> 02:00:03,800
a very good question
3680
02:00:04,020 --> 02:00:06,300
expanding on the approaching stage this
3681
02:00:06,300 --> 02:00:07,920
guy's sorry next question will you be
3682
02:00:07,920 --> 02:00:09,659
expanding on the approaching stage
3683
02:00:09,659 --> 02:00:11,280
approaching girls I'll give you some
3684
02:00:11,280 --> 02:00:13,199
tips in the first question but
3685
02:00:13,199 --> 02:00:15,480
it's really something you have to see if
3686
02:00:15,480 --> 02:00:16,920
I had to break that down to three things
3687
02:00:16,920 --> 02:00:18,239
it would be get their attention first
3688
02:00:18,239 --> 02:00:19,980
it's absolutely not gonna be a numbers
3689
02:00:19,980 --> 02:00:21,119
game especially when you're approaching
3690
02:00:21,119 --> 02:00:22,199
girls you're going up to girls in the
3691
02:00:22,199 --> 02:00:23,639
club they might have done drugs they
3692
02:00:23,639 --> 02:00:24,599
don't want to pay attention they might
3693
02:00:24,599 --> 02:00:25,560
be too drunk they might have their
3694
02:00:25,560 --> 02:00:26,940
boyfriend in the club or an ex-boyfriend
3695
02:00:26,940 --> 02:00:28,380
the club or it might be a bunch of
3696
02:00:28,380 --> 02:00:29,520
people in the club they know and they
3697
02:00:29,520 --> 02:00:30,599
don't want to be seen talking to guys
3698
02:00:30,599 --> 02:00:32,820
there's so many outside influences when
3699
02:00:32,820 --> 02:00:34,320
you're approaching girls that you really
3700
02:00:34,320 --> 02:00:35,639
have to be prepared to do a complete
3701
02:00:35,639 --> 02:00:37,619
numbers game you have to be prepared to
3702
02:00:37,619 --> 02:00:39,780
approach approach approach approach if
3703
02:00:39,780 --> 02:00:41,219
you want to pull same night especially
3704
02:00:41,219 --> 02:00:42,840
in the modern world so it's a numbers
3705
02:00:42,840 --> 02:00:44,760
game absolutely get their attention
3706
02:00:44,760 --> 02:00:46,560
first and whatever you say the first
3707
02:00:46,560 --> 02:00:47,580
thing you say after you get their
3708
02:00:47,580 --> 02:00:49,619
attention should be a compliment that's
3709
02:00:49,619 --> 02:00:52,400
advice
3710
02:00:53,040 --> 02:00:54,239
right
3711
02:00:54,239 --> 02:00:56,159
next question this is a very very long
3712
02:00:56,159 --> 02:00:57,780
question
3713
02:00:57,780 --> 02:00:59,520
but it's about a guy who does his
3714
02:00:59,520 --> 02:01:01,199
approaches
3715
02:01:01,199 --> 02:01:02,040
um
3716
02:01:02,040 --> 02:01:04,260
at colleges during the week and aims to
3717
02:01:04,260 --> 02:01:05,699
take the girls he meets during the week
3718
02:01:05,699 --> 02:01:07,739
to bars at the weekend
3719
02:01:07,739 --> 02:01:09,719
and close the deal so it's a very
3720
02:01:09,719 --> 02:01:11,760
efficient system I agree with that but
3721
02:01:11,760 --> 02:01:13,920
his question is very basically is I
3722
02:01:13,920 --> 02:01:15,119
can't seem to figure out the cold
3723
02:01:15,119 --> 02:01:16,380
approaching during the day because I
3724
02:01:16,380 --> 02:01:17,880
feel it's totally different vibe versus
3725
02:01:17,880 --> 02:01:20,460
approaching in a club or a bar I get a
3726
02:01:20,460 --> 02:01:22,380
few leads during the day but sometimes
3727
02:01:22,380 --> 02:01:23,760
there's something I'm missing in my day
3728
02:01:23,760 --> 02:01:25,440
game I can't seem to figure out I'm not
3729
02:01:25,440 --> 02:01:26,760
hitting the level of leads I should be
3730
02:01:26,760 --> 02:01:28,440
getting during the day versus the leads
3731
02:01:28,440 --> 02:01:30,500
I get at night
3732
02:01:30,500 --> 02:01:32,520
and obviously I don't know the exact
3733
02:01:32,520 --> 02:01:33,900
scenario but I'll tell you what those
3734
02:01:33,900 --> 02:01:35,699
things are I probably answered a lot of
3735
02:01:35,699 --> 02:01:37,380
this question in the previous question
3736
02:01:37,380 --> 02:01:38,340
but
3737
02:01:38,340 --> 02:01:39,840
the reason it's easier at night is
3738
02:01:39,840 --> 02:01:42,000
because one is a more relaxed Vibe two
3739
02:01:42,000 --> 02:01:43,800
girls are drinking and they're more
3740
02:01:43,800 --> 02:01:45,599
sociable that's the reason it's easier
3741
02:01:45,599 --> 02:01:48,480
the music on they're happy they no one
3742
02:01:48,480 --> 02:01:50,280
goes out no one really goes out when
3743
02:01:50,280 --> 02:01:52,139
they're depressed or busy or stressed
3744
02:01:52,139 --> 02:01:54,119
they go out to be happy they're happy
3745
02:01:54,119 --> 02:01:55,739
they're drinking they're with their
3746
02:01:55,739 --> 02:01:57,540
[ __ ] friends talk about more on [ __ ]
3747
02:01:57,540 --> 02:01:59,820
they're receptive so they're more
3748
02:01:59,820 --> 02:02:01,560
receptive at night
3749
02:02:01,560 --> 02:02:03,119
so why are you doing better at night
3750
02:02:03,119 --> 02:02:04,199
than during the day well I do think it's
3751
02:02:04,199 --> 02:02:05,520
easier at night you're probably always
3752
02:02:05,520 --> 02:02:06,719
going to do a little bit better at night
3753
02:02:06,719 --> 02:02:07,500
than you are during the day today
3754
02:02:07,500 --> 02:02:08,639
however
3755
02:02:08,639 --> 02:02:10,020
you're saying if your day game's
3756
02:02:10,020 --> 02:02:11,159
seriously lacking the first thing is
3757
02:02:11,159 --> 02:02:12,840
like I said are you getting her
3758
02:02:12,840 --> 02:02:14,580
attention before you talk to her
3759
02:02:14,580 --> 02:02:16,139
are you doing that properly
3760
02:02:16,139 --> 02:02:18,300
second thing are you complimenting her
3761
02:02:18,300 --> 02:02:20,219
and third thing is how are you getting
3762
02:02:20,219 --> 02:02:21,960
her contact details
3763
02:02:21,960 --> 02:02:24,840
I find
3764
02:02:24,840 --> 02:02:26,460
this is why I use Instagram so much
3765
02:02:26,460 --> 02:02:29,040
Instagram is so useful because even I
3766
02:02:29,040 --> 02:02:30,780
find that a girl who doesn't really want
3767
02:02:30,780 --> 02:02:32,340
to give you her phone number
3768
02:02:32,340 --> 02:02:35,520
will happily give you her Instagram
3769
02:02:35,520 --> 02:02:38,639
so because Instagram is public
3770
02:02:38,639 --> 02:02:40,800
Instagram's for everyone so if you want
3771
02:02:40,800 --> 02:02:42,239
leads during the day instead of trying
3772
02:02:42,239 --> 02:02:44,040
to get the phone number which can be a
3773
02:02:44,040 --> 02:02:45,780
little bit awkward and especially in the
3774
02:02:45,780 --> 02:02:47,639
world we live in now the metoo era all
3775
02:02:47,639 --> 02:02:49,139
these girls are sketchy as [ __ ] they're
3776
02:02:49,139 --> 02:02:50,340
all living on edge you're all nervous
3777
02:02:50,340 --> 02:02:52,020
you talk to a girl for five minutes say
3778
02:02:52,020 --> 02:02:53,460
oh what's your phone number it could be
3779
02:02:53,460 --> 02:02:55,199
a bit like they don't want to give it
3780
02:02:55,199 --> 02:02:57,300
out if we say I'll tell you what it was
3781
02:02:57,300 --> 02:02:58,560
really nice talking to you you're
3782
02:02:58,560 --> 02:02:59,760
beautiful I want to follow you on
3783
02:02:59,760 --> 02:03:02,820
Instagram not give me your Instagram I
3784
02:03:02,820 --> 02:03:04,679
want to follow you on Instagram a girl
3785
02:03:04,679 --> 02:03:06,000
doesn't say no to that because they let
3786
02:03:06,000 --> 02:03:07,860
anyone follow them on Instagram anyone
3787
02:03:07,860 --> 02:03:09,239
can follow on Instagram
3788
02:03:09,239 --> 02:03:10,739
so I'll do is I'll say always really
3789
02:03:10,739 --> 02:03:11,760
nice talking to you yeah you're really
3790
02:03:11,760 --> 02:03:13,139
beautiful I'll tell you what I want to
3791
02:03:13,139 --> 02:03:15,300
see your face again I'm going to follow
3792
02:03:15,300 --> 02:03:17,400
you on Instagram what's your Instagram
3793
02:03:17,400 --> 02:03:20,040
and I'll get I'll give them my phone
3794
02:03:20,040 --> 02:03:21,540
in fact I try to avoid doing that
3795
02:03:21,540 --> 02:03:22,619
because a couple times I've given to my
3796
02:03:22,619 --> 02:03:24,179
phone and like a whatsapp's come up love
3797
02:03:24,179 --> 02:03:27,599
you baby so
3798
02:03:27,780 --> 02:03:28,800
um but I'll say I'll watch your
3799
02:03:28,800 --> 02:03:29,820
Instagram then I'll type your Instagram
3800
02:03:29,820 --> 02:03:33,000
in but before you walk off they'll just
3801
02:03:33,000 --> 02:03:35,760
go okay bye follow them click message
3802
02:03:35,760 --> 02:03:37,500
and then what I'll do is in fact let me
3803
02:03:37,500 --> 02:03:38,820
see if I caught a [ __ ] right here so
3804
02:03:38,820 --> 02:03:40,440
I know you guys know I know live let me
3805
02:03:40,440 --> 02:03:41,760
see if I can find one right an example
3806
02:03:41,760 --> 02:03:44,300
of what I do
3807
02:03:45,599 --> 02:03:48,060
if I did this like two days ago I've got
3808
02:03:48,060 --> 02:03:49,860
so many messages in my inbox
3809
02:03:49,860 --> 02:03:51,420
I'm not able to find it that was New
3810
02:03:51,420 --> 02:03:54,860
York it was after I left from New York
3811
02:03:57,659 --> 02:03:59,400
no edits you guys are going to sit there
3812
02:03:59,400 --> 02:04:01,638
and wait
3813
02:04:08,099 --> 02:04:10,320
[ __ ] those
3814
02:04:10,320 --> 02:04:13,820
all right so anyway I got her Instagram
3815
02:04:14,280 --> 02:04:16,800
and then I while she was watching me
3816
02:04:16,800 --> 02:04:19,320
while she was paying attention I sent
3817
02:04:19,320 --> 02:04:21,540
her a message of cherries cherries in my
3818
02:04:21,540 --> 02:04:23,280
head choose your own fruit
3819
02:04:23,280 --> 02:04:24,900
so I get her Instagram and I clicked
3820
02:04:24,900 --> 02:04:27,239
message and I send her something or you
3821
02:04:27,239 --> 02:04:28,560
can send her a selfie is another good
3822
02:04:28,560 --> 02:04:30,659
idea ask for her Instagram she'll give
3823
02:04:30,659 --> 02:04:32,760
it to you click follow and go oh you
3824
02:04:32,760 --> 02:04:34,199
probably have loads of guys messaging
3825
02:04:34,199 --> 02:04:36,360
you oh no I don't you must do but you've
3826
02:04:36,360 --> 02:04:37,739
had loads of guys I don't want you to
3827
02:04:37,739 --> 02:04:39,780
forget about me here wait wait go camera
3828
02:04:39,780 --> 02:04:41,880
and like get into a selfie a stupid
3829
02:04:41,880 --> 02:04:44,159
picture and send it to her message and
3830
02:04:44,159 --> 02:04:45,659
she'll laugh up and say now you know who
3831
02:04:45,659 --> 02:04:47,340
I am I'm gonna message you later I'll
3832
02:04:47,340 --> 02:04:48,540
also say I'm going to message you later
3833
02:04:48,540 --> 02:04:50,880
to get some kind of verbal agreement oh
3834
02:04:50,880 --> 02:04:52,500
okay and what they'll reply is
3835
02:04:52,500 --> 02:04:54,420
instinctively oh okay and then when you
3836
02:04:54,420 --> 02:04:56,219
message them they feel more compelled
3837
02:04:56,219 --> 02:04:57,900
than to reply well I agreed to message
3838
02:04:57,900 --> 02:04:58,980
it
3839
02:04:58,980 --> 02:05:01,320
now if she messages you a little bit it
3840
02:05:01,320 --> 02:05:03,179
doesn't go anywhere whatever but I'm
3841
02:05:03,179 --> 02:05:04,440
just talking about to make it easier to
3842
02:05:04,440 --> 02:05:06,420
get the leads so don't ask for numbers
3843
02:05:06,420 --> 02:05:08,280
ask for Instagrams message them while
3844
02:05:08,280 --> 02:05:09,719
they or do a selfie or send some fruit
3845
02:05:09,719 --> 02:05:11,340
or some [ __ ] and say something like
3846
02:05:11,340 --> 02:05:12,480
I'm going to message you later I want to
3847
02:05:12,480 --> 02:05:13,320
talk to you
3848
02:05:13,320 --> 02:05:15,780
I'm super forward with what I do would
3849
02:05:15,780 --> 02:05:18,060
say but I'm not over the I'm not creepy
3850
02:05:18,060 --> 02:05:19,679
with it I'm just very clear about my
3851
02:05:19,679 --> 02:05:20,580
objectives
3852
02:05:20,580 --> 02:05:22,619
watch your Instagram you're beautiful
3853
02:05:22,619 --> 02:05:24,540
I'm gonna follow you okay I'm gonna
3854
02:05:24,540 --> 02:05:25,800
message you later I want to talk to you
3855
02:05:25,800 --> 02:05:27,360
I'm going to talk to you later okay okay
3856
02:05:27,360 --> 02:05:29,460
I'm very clear about what I want to
3857
02:05:29,460 --> 02:05:31,139
happen so that's probably the advice I
3858
02:05:31,139 --> 02:05:32,820
give you I'd have to see your approach
3859
02:05:32,820 --> 02:05:34,560
to see if there's anything else missing
3860
02:05:34,560 --> 02:05:36,480
but trying to ask a phone number after
3861
02:05:36,480 --> 02:05:38,820
Instagrams get their attention first and
3862
02:05:38,820 --> 02:05:39,900
the first thing you say needs to be a
3863
02:05:39,900 --> 02:05:41,099
compliment if you do those three things
3864
02:05:41,099 --> 02:05:43,440
you can't really go too wrong especially
3865
02:05:43,440 --> 02:05:44,880
if you're confident with what you're
3866
02:05:44,880 --> 02:05:46,739
saying and etc etc if you can't really
3867
02:05:46,739 --> 02:05:48,060
go too long from there so that's why I
3868
02:05:48,060 --> 02:05:49,380
recommend
3869
02:05:49,380 --> 02:05:52,739
right last question for today gentlemen
3870
02:05:52,739 --> 02:05:54,840
I bet you didn't expect this free PhD
3871
02:05:54,840 --> 02:05:56,099
video in your inbox did you
3872
02:05:56,099 --> 02:05:57,659
[ __ ] they're all sitting there
3873
02:05:57,659 --> 02:05:59,159
going okay that was a good course bang
3874
02:05:59,159 --> 02:06:01,139
more content more [ __ ] Knowledge from
3875
02:06:01,139 --> 02:06:05,159
Tate best purchase you ever made
3876
02:06:05,159 --> 02:06:08,699
I'm too damn nice too nice
3877
02:06:08,699 --> 02:06:10,800
a good video about how nice I am
3878
02:06:10,800 --> 02:06:12,780
right I have a question I thought this
3879
02:06:12,780 --> 02:06:14,280
chick on Lock and she's loyal to me
3880
02:06:14,280 --> 02:06:16,380
congratulations
3881
02:06:16,380 --> 02:06:18,060
what do I say to her if I bang another
3882
02:06:18,060 --> 02:06:20,280
chick and the main one finds out how can
3883
02:06:20,280 --> 02:06:22,020
I get away with having multiple girls
3884
02:06:22,020 --> 02:06:25,440
right sit down with your girl and saying
3885
02:06:25,440 --> 02:06:27,119
I want to [ __ ] other girls
3886
02:06:27,119 --> 02:06:28,679
ain't really a conversation that's going
3887
02:06:28,679 --> 02:06:30,659
to go well it's just an awful
3888
02:06:30,659 --> 02:06:31,679
conversation
3889
02:06:31,679 --> 02:06:34,320
truth of it is you have to be militant
3890
02:06:34,320 --> 02:06:36,360
and I'm smiling because I'm laughing at
3891
02:06:36,360 --> 02:06:38,219
how I do it so I've got my chick who's
3892
02:06:38,219 --> 02:06:39,840
loyal to me and she loves me
3893
02:06:39,840 --> 02:06:42,659
so what do I do I [ __ ] other girls
3894
02:06:42,659 --> 02:06:45,360
sooner or later she's going to catch me
3895
02:06:45,360 --> 02:06:47,580
and this is your chance so you don't
3896
02:06:47,580 --> 02:06:49,560
have the conversation with her women are
3897
02:06:49,560 --> 02:06:51,300
not logical enough you can't approach a
3898
02:06:51,300 --> 02:06:53,159
woman and say this is what's going to
3899
02:06:53,159 --> 02:06:55,560
happen let's do a deal and be logical
3900
02:06:55,560 --> 02:06:57,780
and make a deal they don't work that way
3901
02:06:57,780 --> 02:07:00,119
you go ahead and was shock and awe of
3902
02:07:00,119 --> 02:07:02,460
emotion so you're going to cheat as
3903
02:07:02,460 --> 02:07:03,599
normal you'll do your thing you're going
3904
02:07:03,599 --> 02:07:05,639
to [ __ ] your hoes and maybe she won't
3905
02:07:05,639 --> 02:07:07,440
find out for a year maybe she won't find
3906
02:07:07,440 --> 02:07:08,639
out for two years maybe she'll find out
3907
02:07:08,639 --> 02:07:10,679
after a week but when she finds out
3908
02:07:10,679 --> 02:07:14,099
that's when the Pimpin starts so while I
3909
02:07:14,099 --> 02:07:15,659
get caught cheating I don't worry about
3910
02:07:15,659 --> 02:07:18,360
it I'm like okay now we get to hammer it
3911
02:07:18,360 --> 02:07:19,139
out
3912
02:07:19,139 --> 02:07:21,420
so the key things are this I have the
3913
02:07:21,420 --> 02:07:22,920
girls loyal to me and I [ __ ] want to
3914
02:07:22,920 --> 02:07:23,760
walk
3915
02:07:23,760 --> 02:07:27,060
and I do that by I did it as follows I
3916
02:07:27,060 --> 02:07:29,699
was with her for about a year and two or
3917
02:07:29,699 --> 02:07:32,580
three months before I got called cheat
3918
02:07:32,580 --> 02:07:34,800
in fact
3919
02:07:34,800 --> 02:07:37,800
[ __ ] I've got some screenshots I need to
3920
02:07:37,800 --> 02:07:41,099
find on Facebook from my old phone I got
3921
02:07:41,099 --> 02:07:42,960
an old phone working and I had
3922
02:07:42,960 --> 02:07:44,880
screenshots of that conversation when
3923
02:07:44,880 --> 02:07:46,320
she first caught me cheating I put them
3924
02:07:46,320 --> 02:07:47,880
on Facebook because it was so funny I'm
3925
02:07:47,880 --> 02:07:49,139
gonna find him and trying to serve them
3926
02:07:49,139 --> 02:07:50,580
in this video if they're in this video
3927
02:07:50,580 --> 02:07:52,320
in the following seconds I did a good
3928
02:07:52,320 --> 02:07:53,760
job and I found it for you
3929
02:07:53,760 --> 02:07:55,679
for you so anyway the keys are this you
3930
02:07:55,679 --> 02:07:59,400
just caught your team bang rule one is
3931
02:07:59,400 --> 02:08:01,199
you never
3932
02:08:01,199 --> 02:08:05,880
ever apologize you are not sorry they
3933
02:08:05,880 --> 02:08:07,920
take that weakness and they [ __ ]
3934
02:08:07,920 --> 02:08:10,320
twist it and they use it against you and
3935
02:08:10,320 --> 02:08:11,699
this is not just for cheating this is
3936
02:08:11,699 --> 02:08:14,280
relationships in general you are never
3937
02:08:14,280 --> 02:08:17,639
sorry because once you admit fault a
3938
02:08:17,639 --> 02:08:19,920
woman doesn't sit and go okay he admits
3939
02:08:19,920 --> 02:08:22,440
he's wrong or he admits that this is not
3940
02:08:22,440 --> 02:08:24,480
the best situation he admits that I'll
3941
02:08:24,480 --> 02:08:26,400
be nice to him they think oh he knows
3942
02:08:26,400 --> 02:08:28,739
he's wrong let me just [ __ ] as let me
3943
02:08:28,739 --> 02:08:30,860
squeeze as much uncomfortable
3944
02:08:30,860 --> 02:08:33,780
inconvenience out of this as possible
3945
02:08:33,780 --> 02:08:36,780
so don't do that [ __ ] you're not sorry
3946
02:08:36,780 --> 02:08:39,060
and another thing you don't do is you
3947
02:08:39,060 --> 02:08:42,060
don't lie because lying is cowardice
3948
02:08:42,060 --> 02:08:44,760
so when I get caught cheating sit up
3949
02:08:44,760 --> 02:08:47,099
when I get caught cheating she'll be
3950
02:08:47,099 --> 02:08:49,560
like who the [ __ ] is this that was a
3951
02:08:49,560 --> 02:08:51,500
girl I [ __ ]
3952
02:08:51,500 --> 02:08:53,639
yeah as a girl I slept with but
3953
02:08:53,639 --> 02:08:55,080
obviously you're my girlfriend I love
3954
02:08:55,080 --> 02:08:57,199
you I don't care about her
3955
02:08:57,199 --> 02:09:00,719
but why I'm a full-grown man it's one of
3956
02:09:00,719 --> 02:09:02,099
those things that happens but I don't
3957
02:09:02,099 --> 02:09:04,139
care about her so it doesn't matter
3958
02:09:04,139 --> 02:09:07,500
I've apologized and I haven't lied now
3959
02:09:07,500 --> 02:09:09,420
if she really loves you and she's really
3960
02:09:09,420 --> 02:09:11,820
loyal to you she ain't going nowhere
3961
02:09:11,820 --> 02:09:13,320
now she's going to leave you for that
3962
02:09:13,320 --> 02:09:14,880
for that small thing [ __ ] someone
3963
02:09:14,880 --> 02:09:17,040
else then she's not unlocked so you're
3964
02:09:17,040 --> 02:09:18,480
telling me your girl's on law if your
3965
02:09:18,480 --> 02:09:20,760
girl's on law like my girl is unlocked
3966
02:09:20,760 --> 02:09:22,260
and all my girls are on lock then what
3967
02:09:22,260 --> 02:09:23,699
I'm saying to you is going to work and
3968
02:09:23,699 --> 02:09:25,980
that is yeah I [ __ ] her listen I'm a
3969
02:09:25,980 --> 02:09:28,260
full grown man sometimes I see sometimes
3970
02:09:28,260 --> 02:09:31,199
I you know I do what I do but I only
3971
02:09:31,199 --> 02:09:33,659
love you and one other thing I say is I
3972
02:09:33,659 --> 02:09:35,400
say this is Testament to how much I love
3973
02:09:35,400 --> 02:09:36,960
you most dudes are out there [ __ ]
3974
02:09:36,960 --> 02:09:38,460
other girls falling in love with other
3975
02:09:38,460 --> 02:09:40,320
girls I [ __ ] other girls I don't even
3976
02:09:40,320 --> 02:09:42,360
care about them only girl I care about
3977
02:09:42,360 --> 02:09:44,280
is you I see good girl and I didn't even
3978
02:09:44,280 --> 02:09:45,659
cross my mind anymore
3979
02:09:45,659 --> 02:09:47,580
so this shows I love you more than
3980
02:09:47,580 --> 02:09:49,800
[ __ ] anything most these guys are out
3981
02:09:49,800 --> 02:09:51,060
here and if they [ __ ] someone else they
3982
02:09:51,060 --> 02:09:52,560
fall in love with someone else you know
3983
02:09:52,560 --> 02:09:54,420
me I [ __ ] I [ __ ] 100 girls and I'm still
3984
02:09:54,420 --> 02:09:55,739
here with you you're the only girl I
3985
02:09:55,739 --> 02:09:56,820
care about
3986
02:09:56,820 --> 02:09:58,440
so what are you worried about what's the
3987
02:09:58,440 --> 02:09:59,400
problem
3988
02:09:59,400 --> 02:10:01,739
and then eventually after this long
3989
02:10:01,739 --> 02:10:02,940
conversation because she's gonna cry
3990
02:10:02,940 --> 02:10:04,920
she's gonna complain and all this [ __ ]
3991
02:10:04,920 --> 02:10:07,560
all you do is not back down
3992
02:10:07,560 --> 02:10:09,060
she's going to come at you with things
3993
02:10:09,060 --> 02:10:12,119
like oh is it going to happen again so I
3994
02:10:12,119 --> 02:10:13,980
don't know probably not I don't maybe
3995
02:10:13,980 --> 02:10:16,440
not it really upsets you we can talk
3996
02:10:16,440 --> 02:10:18,119
about it but I don't like you trying to
3997
02:10:18,119 --> 02:10:19,679
control me it's not what to do like I do
3998
02:10:19,679 --> 02:10:21,480
I'm gonna do what I feel like doing I'm
3999
02:10:21,480 --> 02:10:22,560
telling you that I'm loyal to you
4000
02:10:22,560 --> 02:10:25,020
because I only love you so I'm loyal to
4001
02:10:25,020 --> 02:10:26,940
you just the same what you have to do is
4002
02:10:26,940 --> 02:10:29,280
you have to shift their perception of
4003
02:10:29,280 --> 02:10:31,679
loyalty a female's perception of loyalty
4004
02:10:31,679 --> 02:10:34,139
is is he only has sex with me you have
4005
02:10:34,139 --> 02:10:35,699
to change that and he only has sex with
4006
02:10:35,699 --> 02:10:38,460
me till he only loves me if they
4007
02:10:38,460 --> 02:10:39,960
understand that I'm the only one he
4008
02:10:39,960 --> 02:10:41,520
loves but he has sex with lots of people
4009
02:10:41,520 --> 02:10:44,219
then you can do it so that's the real
4010
02:10:44,219 --> 02:10:46,199
aim of the game and you cannot do that
4011
02:10:46,199 --> 02:10:47,760
from a position of weakness or apology
4012
02:10:47,760 --> 02:10:49,260
that's done from a position of strength
4013
02:10:49,260 --> 02:10:50,699
and never backing down
4014
02:10:50,699 --> 02:10:52,020
so
4015
02:10:52,020 --> 02:10:53,580
the individual conversation you're going
4016
02:10:53,580 --> 02:10:54,480
to have is going to be different than
4017
02:10:54,480 --> 02:10:56,460
individual conversations I've had but if
4018
02:10:56,460 --> 02:10:57,900
you're not apologetic for cheating you
4019
02:10:57,900 --> 02:10:59,159
don't lie you should explain look it
4020
02:10:59,159 --> 02:11:01,320
just says you have a dildo you have a
4021
02:11:01,320 --> 02:11:03,480
vibrator I'm not jealous I don't care do
4022
02:11:03,480 --> 02:11:05,580
you love your vibrator no you [ __ ] it
4023
02:11:05,580 --> 02:11:06,719
or you use it and then you don't care
4024
02:11:06,719 --> 02:11:08,580
anymore that's what I did so that's the
4025
02:11:08,580 --> 02:11:10,860
problem well but how do I know you don't
4026
02:11:10,860 --> 02:11:12,540
love her and that's what's going to come
4027
02:11:12,540 --> 02:11:13,739
in that's what's going to eventually
4028
02:11:13,739 --> 02:11:15,000
that's what the conversation is going to
4029
02:11:15,000 --> 02:11:16,199
eventually lead
4030
02:11:16,199 --> 02:11:18,360
who I know I'm special
4031
02:11:18,360 --> 02:11:20,219
It's the final hurdle when you start
4032
02:11:20,219 --> 02:11:22,139
hearing things like that you've won
4033
02:11:22,139 --> 02:11:23,219
because all you have to do is convince
4034
02:11:23,219 --> 02:11:25,940
her she's so special and you do anything
4035
02:11:25,940 --> 02:11:28,440
so once you start saying things like how
4036
02:11:28,440 --> 02:11:29,460
do I know especially like look I only
4037
02:11:29,460 --> 02:11:31,139
love you you know I only love you or I
4038
02:11:31,139 --> 02:11:32,820
only live with you or you're the only
4039
02:11:32,820 --> 02:11:34,739
girl I've taken on holiday or you're the
4040
02:11:34,739 --> 02:11:36,900
only girl who whatever whatever you come
4041
02:11:36,900 --> 02:11:38,400
up with you're the only girl I do these
4042
02:11:38,400 --> 02:11:40,199
things with yeah I [ __ ] some girl I
4043
02:11:40,199 --> 02:11:41,940
was out I [ __ ] some weird hours a lot
4044
02:11:41,940 --> 02:11:43,800
of guys I [ __ ] some girl she's tried to
4045
02:11:43,800 --> 02:11:45,360
see me since and I didn't want to see
4046
02:11:45,360 --> 02:11:46,739
her because I don't care about her or
4047
02:11:46,739 --> 02:11:48,179
she tried to see me since I saw her a
4048
02:11:48,179 --> 02:11:50,219
few times but she's boring I don't like
4049
02:11:50,219 --> 02:11:52,560
any girl but you these girls are boring
4050
02:11:52,560 --> 02:11:54,360
all you have to do is convince her she's
4051
02:11:54,360 --> 02:11:56,760
still special and that you're still
4052
02:11:56,760 --> 02:11:58,619
loyal to her because you love her and
4053
02:11:58,619 --> 02:11:59,880
you do what you want
4054
02:11:59,880 --> 02:12:02,099
my bro's not allowed to say I cheat she
4055
02:12:02,099 --> 02:12:02,940
used to say oh but you're always
4056
02:12:02,940 --> 02:12:04,560
cheating oh you're going out and she's
4057
02:12:04,560 --> 02:12:05,699
making a joke with it oh you're going
4058
02:12:05,699 --> 02:12:07,020
out and I put clothes on she's like oh
4059
02:12:07,020 --> 02:12:07,980
you're dressed up you're going cheating
4060
02:12:07,980 --> 02:12:09,659
tonight I said don't tell me I cheat I
4061
02:12:09,659 --> 02:12:11,340
don't like that line she goes why I said
4062
02:12:11,340 --> 02:12:12,420
because I don't cheat because I love you
4063
02:12:12,420 --> 02:12:13,980
and I only love you oh [ __ ] something
4064
02:12:13,980 --> 02:12:15,540
man it's not cheating because I'm loyal
4065
02:12:15,540 --> 02:12:17,280
to you I got to the point now she
4066
02:12:17,280 --> 02:12:18,840
doesn't even think I cheat I'm [ __ ]
4067
02:12:18,840 --> 02:12:23,460
girl she'll even call it cheating okay
4068
02:12:23,580 --> 02:12:26,639
she doesn't call it g because
4069
02:12:26,639 --> 02:12:28,260
the camera got me shaking his head
4070
02:12:28,260 --> 02:12:31,980
because he knows it's true but
4071
02:12:31,980 --> 02:12:33,960
because my loyalty is not defined by who
4072
02:12:33,960 --> 02:12:35,460
I have sex with my loyalty is defined by
4073
02:12:35,460 --> 02:12:37,440
who I love so by convincing her she's
4074
02:12:37,440 --> 02:12:39,480
special and she's the only one I love
4075
02:12:39,480 --> 02:12:42,420
that I'm allowed to do I want now if
4076
02:12:42,420 --> 02:12:43,739
you're going to try and have multiple
4077
02:12:43,739 --> 02:12:46,020
girlfriends then that's gonna be harder
4078
02:12:46,020 --> 02:12:47,280
because she's gonna think oh you care
4079
02:12:47,280 --> 02:12:49,139
about them and you care about me if
4080
02:12:49,139 --> 02:12:50,159
you're going to try and have different
4081
02:12:50,159 --> 02:12:51,780
girls with me in the same house in the
4082
02:12:51,780 --> 02:12:53,579
same bed like I've done that's going to
4083
02:12:53,579 --> 02:12:55,800
be harder that's a new level but the
4084
02:12:55,800 --> 02:12:57,659
basic level the base level is you've got
4085
02:12:57,659 --> 02:12:59,340
a girl you care about when you [ __ ] who
4086
02:12:59,340 --> 02:13:01,260
you want and as long as she's getting
4087
02:13:01,260 --> 02:13:02,520
attention she feels like she's special
4088
02:13:02,520 --> 02:13:04,860
and she understands that she's she's the
4089
02:13:04,860 --> 02:13:06,179
only one you love and that's where
4090
02:13:06,179 --> 02:13:08,040
loyalty is loyalty is love is not
4091
02:13:08,040 --> 02:13:09,000
through sex
4092
02:13:09,000 --> 02:13:10,320
then you're gonna be able to do it again
4093
02:13:10,320 --> 02:13:12,780
so that's the main aim of the game I
4094
02:13:12,780 --> 02:13:14,040
hope I've answered that question there's
4095
02:13:14,040 --> 02:13:16,260
no very specific formula but that's the
4096
02:13:16,260 --> 02:13:17,760
basis of it have your girl unlocked do
4097
02:13:17,760 --> 02:13:19,380
your thing wait for her to catch you do
4098
02:13:19,380 --> 02:13:21,840
not apologize do not back down change
4099
02:13:21,840 --> 02:13:23,880
her perception shift her thinking to
4100
02:13:23,880 --> 02:13:25,820
understand that love is about loyalty
4101
02:13:25,820 --> 02:13:28,860
loyal loyalty is about love loyalty is
4102
02:13:28,860 --> 02:13:30,480
not about who you have sex with for the
4103
02:13:30,480 --> 02:13:32,340
same reason she'll [ __ ] a toy or
4104
02:13:32,340 --> 02:13:33,960
whatever little [ __ ] girl you don't
4105
02:13:33,960 --> 02:13:35,400
care about and there's nothing more
4106
02:13:35,400 --> 02:13:37,860
natural to get over it uh and and
4107
02:13:37,860 --> 02:13:39,119
usually you're gonna have questions like
4108
02:13:39,119 --> 02:13:40,800
well people girls are going to laugh at
4109
02:13:40,800 --> 02:13:42,000
me say these girls without laughing
4110
02:13:42,000 --> 02:13:43,619
these girls are jealous of you this is
4111
02:13:43,619 --> 02:13:44,880
the number one question I skate well
4112
02:13:44,880 --> 02:13:46,920
girl's gonna laugh
4113
02:13:46,920 --> 02:13:48,239
it's another not
4114
02:13:48,239 --> 02:13:50,099
a single girl I [ __ ] is desperate to be
4115
02:13:50,099 --> 02:13:52,440
in your position every girl I [ __ ] is
4116
02:13:52,440 --> 02:13:54,119
desperate to be my girlfriend they're
4117
02:13:54,119 --> 02:13:55,920
all super jealous of them they all want
4118
02:13:55,920 --> 02:13:57,239
to be you you're the only one I'm going
4119
02:13:57,239 --> 02:13:58,800
on holiday with you're the only one I'm
4120
02:13:58,800 --> 02:13:59,880
in love with you're the only one I
4121
02:13:59,880 --> 02:14:01,440
bought my Instagram page they're all
4122
02:14:01,440 --> 02:14:04,199
completely jealous of you and girls like
4123
02:14:04,199 --> 02:14:06,540
me girls like girls beat Jessica so they
4124
02:14:06,540 --> 02:14:07,920
don't show at the time they think about
4125
02:14:07,920 --> 02:14:10,500
it maybe the girls are jealous if you
4126
02:14:10,500 --> 02:14:11,760
start shifting it like oh These Girls
4127
02:14:11,760 --> 02:14:12,900
Aren't hating on you these girls are
4128
02:14:12,900 --> 02:14:14,639
super jealous you're the best you get to
4129
02:14:14,639 --> 02:14:16,380
be the [ __ ] Queen why treat nicely I
4130
02:14:16,380 --> 02:14:17,460
treat the other girls like hoes and
4131
02:14:17,460 --> 02:14:18,360
they're jealous of you you're the only
4132
02:14:18,360 --> 02:14:19,560
one I love because I'm loyal to you
4133
02:14:19,560 --> 02:14:21,179
they're just stupid you're not stupid
4134
02:14:21,179 --> 02:14:24,179
they're stupid shift the thinking and
4135
02:14:24,179 --> 02:14:27,020
then you'll get away with it
4136
02:14:27,420 --> 02:14:29,340
that's enough for this course I've got
4137
02:14:29,340 --> 02:14:30,780
more questions answered or get this
4138
02:14:30,780 --> 02:14:31,980
video out there
4139
02:14:31,980 --> 02:14:34,260
once again if you watch these answers
4140
02:14:34,260 --> 02:14:35,639
and you have any more questions email
4141
02:14:35,639 --> 02:14:37,560
them to me this is the best [ __ ]
4142
02:14:37,560 --> 02:14:39,780
money you guys ever spent okay hours and
4143
02:14:39,780 --> 02:14:42,060
hours of [ __ ] content you can
4144
02:14:42,060 --> 02:14:43,079
probably get another video at later
4145
02:14:43,079 --> 02:14:45,960
today so if you have any further
4146
02:14:45,960 --> 02:14:47,219
questions feel free to drop me an email
4147
02:14:47,219 --> 02:14:49,020
and we might have another video coming
4148
02:14:49,020 --> 02:14:50,639
out if you guys
4149
02:14:50,639 --> 02:14:53,219
right PhD course gentlemen
4150
02:14:53,219 --> 02:14:55,380
have some questions here
4151
02:14:55,380 --> 02:14:57,119
let me go through them
4152
02:14:57,119 --> 02:14:59,400
question one
4153
02:14:59,400 --> 02:15:01,739
Tate how do you handle how do you how do
4154
02:15:01,739 --> 02:15:02,940
you
4155
02:15:02,940 --> 02:15:05,520
no edits leave it how do you handle
4156
02:15:05,520 --> 02:15:07,199
multiple girlfriends
4157
02:15:07,199 --> 02:15:08,880
do you explicitly tell them about others
4158
02:15:08,880 --> 02:15:09,960
what's the process them invite
4159
02:15:09,960 --> 02:15:12,300
themselves right you can't get a girl
4160
02:15:12,300 --> 02:15:14,280
make her love you and then go out for
4161
02:15:14,280 --> 02:15:15,719
dinner and sit her there and go by the
4162
02:15:15,719 --> 02:15:17,460
way I got loads of girls because it just
4163
02:15:17,460 --> 02:15:19,079
makes you look like a dick
4164
02:15:19,079 --> 02:15:21,480
so what you do is you do you hide it the
4165
02:15:21,480 --> 02:15:24,000
best you can basically you hide it
4166
02:15:24,000 --> 02:15:26,340
until she finds out
4167
02:15:26,340 --> 02:15:28,199
and then when she finds out you just
4168
02:15:28,199 --> 02:15:31,639
super downplay it so actually last night
4169
02:15:31,639 --> 02:15:34,920
last night one of my girls Arena found
4170
02:15:34,920 --> 02:15:36,780
out found she was dark-haired she found
4171
02:15:36,780 --> 02:15:38,040
a blonde hair on my bed she goes who's
4172
02:15:38,040 --> 02:15:39,540
been staying in this bed
4173
02:15:39,540 --> 02:15:41,820
I said well me she said whose hair is
4174
02:15:41,820 --> 02:15:43,800
this I said I don't know I'm always in
4175
02:15:43,800 --> 02:15:46,139
the house people sit on beds maybe they
4176
02:15:46,139 --> 02:15:47,639
didn't sleep in the bed I don't know I'm
4177
02:15:47,639 --> 02:15:49,020
not gonna it's one o'clock in the
4178
02:15:49,020 --> 02:15:49,980
morning I'm not sitting here and talking
4179
02:15:49,980 --> 02:15:51,659
about hair in a bed well I don't know
4180
02:15:51,659 --> 02:15:52,980
you don't have other girls say Don't
4181
02:15:52,980 --> 02:15:54,900
just shut up you're being juvenile we're
4182
02:15:54,900 --> 02:15:57,659
going to sleep and we went to sleep so
4183
02:15:57,659 --> 02:15:59,940
basically the exchange was she knows I
4184
02:15:59,940 --> 02:16:01,920
[ __ ] a girl I said it doesn't matter
4185
02:16:01,920 --> 02:16:03,719
everything's fine we're going to bed
4186
02:16:03,719 --> 02:16:05,699
it's very it's about playing off as
4187
02:16:05,699 --> 02:16:07,199
nothing so when she catches you who's
4188
02:16:07,199 --> 02:16:09,719
this other girl oh some girl I talked to
4189
02:16:09,719 --> 02:16:11,400
well she says you're her boyfriend oh
4190
02:16:11,400 --> 02:16:12,599
yeah I [ __ ] her a few times but it's
4191
02:16:12,599 --> 02:16:13,860
not a big deal you know I'm with you
4192
02:16:13,860 --> 02:16:15,719
well you're cheating on me I'm not
4193
02:16:15,719 --> 02:16:17,820
cheating on you because I love you it's
4194
02:16:17,820 --> 02:16:19,500
not cheating if I only love you it's
4195
02:16:19,500 --> 02:16:20,760
totally cheating if it's emotional it's
4196
02:16:20,760 --> 02:16:22,320
not emotional to us just [ __ ] calm
4197
02:16:22,320 --> 02:16:23,219
down
4198
02:16:23,219 --> 02:16:24,960
if she says she wants to leave and she
4199
02:16:24,960 --> 02:16:27,420
tries to leave you FTB because what
4200
02:16:27,420 --> 02:16:29,639
happens is when drama kicks off girls
4201
02:16:29,639 --> 02:16:31,920
want attention the girls just found out
4202
02:16:31,920 --> 02:16:33,840
you're cheating she wants a big episode
4203
02:16:33,840 --> 02:16:36,000
she wants you to apologize she wants
4204
02:16:36,000 --> 02:16:37,859
sorry she wants all this [ __ ] going on
4205
02:16:37,859 --> 02:16:39,959
if you don't give a [ __ ] then she's
4206
02:16:39,959 --> 02:16:40,920
gonna be like well you don't even seem
4207
02:16:40,920 --> 02:16:41,879
to care it's like well I don't care
4208
02:16:41,879 --> 02:16:42,959
because I don't feel bad because it
4209
02:16:42,959 --> 02:16:44,820
wasn't a big deal I don't and she'll be
4210
02:16:44,820 --> 02:16:46,439
like well why don't you feel bad because
4211
02:16:46,439 --> 02:16:47,700
I didn't have any emotion I don't feel
4212
02:16:47,700 --> 02:16:49,080
bad because I don't feel like I did
4213
02:16:49,080 --> 02:16:50,700
anything wrong because to me it was
4214
02:16:50,700 --> 02:16:52,500
nothing it's like you're using a dildo
4215
02:16:52,500 --> 02:16:53,638
gives a [ __ ]
4216
02:16:53,638 --> 02:16:55,799
just completely trivialize their
4217
02:16:55,799 --> 02:16:58,080
emotionality until under juvenile to
4218
02:16:58,080 --> 02:17:00,240
give a [ __ ] and eventually
4219
02:17:00,240 --> 02:17:01,978
you'll get away with having two now they
4220
02:17:01,978 --> 02:17:03,299
might not be happy about it they might
4221
02:17:03,299 --> 02:17:04,740
cry about it they might moan about it
4222
02:17:04,740 --> 02:17:06,000
they might be like oh you're always with
4223
02:17:06,000 --> 02:17:07,978
that [ __ ] but they ain't gonna leave
4224
02:17:07,978 --> 02:17:09,660
and that's how you have two girlfriends
4225
02:17:09,660 --> 02:17:11,519
that's how you start with it a lot of
4226
02:17:11,519 --> 02:17:13,260
it's experience it depends on the actual
4227
02:17:13,260 --> 02:17:15,179
girl who you're talking about who the
4228
02:17:15,179 --> 02:17:16,500
first girl is or the second girl is like
4229
02:17:16,500 --> 02:17:17,820
everything is experiences let me tell
4230
02:17:17,820 --> 02:17:18,780
you how to punch someone in the face
4231
02:17:18,780 --> 02:17:20,280
it's experience to prevents who they are
4232
02:17:20,280 --> 02:17:21,959
how big they are if they move whatever
4233
02:17:21,959 --> 02:17:23,879
but that's the basis of it you don't sit
4234
02:17:23,879 --> 02:17:26,638
down and just try and explain it with
4235
02:17:26,638 --> 02:17:27,660
women
4236
02:17:27,660 --> 02:17:31,019
you never just try and do I say a
4237
02:17:31,019 --> 02:17:32,939
business deal a business deal you don't
4238
02:17:32,939 --> 02:17:34,439
sit down and appeal to their logic if
4239
02:17:34,439 --> 02:17:36,420
you appeal to their logic you'll fail if
4240
02:17:36,420 --> 02:17:38,040
you sit down and go hi I'm gonna have
4241
02:17:38,040 --> 02:17:39,660
other girls here's why here's why it
4242
02:17:39,660 --> 02:17:41,218
doesn't bother you it's okay it ain't
4243
02:17:41,218 --> 02:17:42,660
gonna work ain't gonna work you cannot
4244
02:17:42,660 --> 02:17:44,459
appeal to their common sense you just
4245
02:17:44,459 --> 02:17:46,379
have to wait for them to find out and
4246
02:17:46,379 --> 02:17:48,660
handle the emotionality correctly limit
4247
02:17:48,660 --> 02:17:51,120
your attention in the correct way so
4248
02:17:51,120 --> 02:17:52,679
that she understands that if she leaves
4249
02:17:52,679 --> 02:17:53,760
you just go back to [ __ ] the other
4250
02:17:53,760 --> 02:17:54,540
girl
4251
02:17:54,540 --> 02:17:56,580
that's it you just say look I really
4252
02:17:56,580 --> 02:17:57,959
like you I wants to be together if you
4253
02:17:57,959 --> 02:17:59,820
leave then I'm just gonna you know I'll
4254
02:17:59,820 --> 02:18:01,978
be single won't I but it's not a big
4255
02:18:01,978 --> 02:18:03,660
deal don't worry about it just don't
4256
02:18:03,660 --> 02:18:04,740
piss me off
4257
02:18:04,740 --> 02:18:07,439
and just be super just completely
4258
02:18:07,439 --> 02:18:09,120
trivialized
4259
02:18:09,120 --> 02:18:10,978
her feelings that's what you have to do
4260
02:18:10,978 --> 02:18:12,299
that's how you play it like I did last
4261
02:18:12,299 --> 02:18:13,799
night oh you found some hair in the bed
4262
02:18:13,799 --> 02:18:14,820
it's two o'clock in the [ __ ] morning
4263
02:18:14,820 --> 02:18:16,679
we're going to sleep or what oh but you
4264
02:18:16,679 --> 02:18:18,359
cheat it's two o'clock I'm going to
4265
02:18:18,359 --> 02:18:20,280
sleep it's hair it gives a [ __ ] you have
4266
02:18:20,280 --> 02:18:21,840
hair eye of Paris hair
4267
02:18:21,840 --> 02:18:24,420
that's in it's not even a thing
4268
02:18:24,420 --> 02:18:25,920
today she hasn't even mentioned it
4269
02:18:25,920 --> 02:18:27,718
because she knows she [ __ ] she ain't
4270
02:18:27,718 --> 02:18:29,519
[ __ ] dumb she seen me with blonde
4271
02:18:29,519 --> 02:18:30,780
girls like my Instagram she knows I'm
4272
02:18:30,780 --> 02:18:32,218
[ __ ] one of them she ain't that
4273
02:18:32,218 --> 02:18:34,200
stupid she just doesn't want to know so
4274
02:18:34,200 --> 02:18:36,359
now she's willfully ignorant
4275
02:18:36,359 --> 02:18:38,939
is fine by me
4276
02:18:38,939 --> 02:18:40,859
how to play it properly when a girl you
4277
02:18:40,859 --> 02:18:43,379
like is a virgin well lucky gentlemen
4278
02:18:43,379 --> 02:18:45,780
you have to play a lot slower same basic
4279
02:18:45,780 --> 02:18:47,760
principles attention blah blah blah blah
4280
02:18:47,760 --> 02:18:49,320
play it slower let her get away with
4281
02:18:49,320 --> 02:18:50,879
more take your time you can't be
4282
02:18:50,879 --> 02:18:52,080
expecting to bang a version on her
4283
02:18:52,080 --> 02:18:54,898
second date that's crazy next
4284
02:18:54,898 --> 02:18:57,058
can you elaborate more on compliance
4285
02:18:57,058 --> 02:18:59,398
after she passed the test
4286
02:18:59,398 --> 02:19:01,859
well she passes the test
4287
02:19:01,859 --> 02:19:03,718
then you're starting a relationship in a
4288
02:19:03,718 --> 02:19:06,000
position of power aren't you you're now
4289
02:19:06,000 --> 02:19:07,799
in a position of power you [ __ ] her
4290
02:19:07,799 --> 02:19:10,500
she's chased you
4291
02:19:10,500 --> 02:19:12,599
which is good she wants your attention
4292
02:19:12,599 --> 02:19:14,340
she's actively shown that you're now
4293
02:19:14,340 --> 02:19:15,240
starting to give her a little bit of
4294
02:19:15,240 --> 02:19:17,160
attention but she [ __ ] up you cut the
4295
02:19:17,160 --> 02:19:18,718
attention quick
4296
02:19:18,718 --> 02:19:20,580
and she should Cave quickly because she
4297
02:19:20,580 --> 02:19:22,978
knows this is not a guy who I can [ __ ]
4298
02:19:22,978 --> 02:19:24,058
with because he'll take all his
4299
02:19:24,058 --> 02:19:25,500
attention away
4300
02:19:25,500 --> 02:19:27,058
so after that it's just a matter of
4301
02:19:27,058 --> 02:19:28,379
managing the relationship I mean if
4302
02:19:28,379 --> 02:19:29,820
she's completely honest and open I've
4303
02:19:29,820 --> 02:19:32,340
had girls after they pass the test
4304
02:19:32,340 --> 02:19:34,439
say to me I really love you I'm
4305
02:19:34,439 --> 02:19:35,879
completely I know I shouldn't say this
4306
02:19:35,879 --> 02:19:37,920
I'm completely in love with you
4307
02:19:37,920 --> 02:19:39,359
someone's gonna be that honest and open
4308
02:19:39,359 --> 02:19:40,439
you know you don't have to be a [ __ ]
4309
02:19:40,439 --> 02:19:42,179
to them you'll be like okay good I love
4310
02:19:42,179 --> 02:19:43,320
you you love me everything's fine
4311
02:19:43,320 --> 02:19:45,000
obviously you don't take [ __ ] you
4312
02:19:45,000 --> 02:19:46,620
haven't got to be a [ __ ] anyway then
4313
02:19:46,620 --> 02:19:47,700
you get the girls who still want to play
4314
02:19:47,700 --> 02:19:48,840
the games if they still want to play the
4315
02:19:48,840 --> 02:19:50,160
games even after they paid the test then
4316
02:19:50,160 --> 02:19:52,500
okay cool fdbm it's just a repeating
4317
02:19:52,500 --> 02:19:53,580
cycle
4318
02:19:53,580 --> 02:19:56,939
it the the PHD system and relationships
4319
02:19:56,939 --> 02:19:59,160
it never ends you never get to a point
4320
02:19:59,160 --> 02:20:00,960
where it's like okay she's now
4321
02:20:00,960 --> 02:20:03,120
programmed as a robot slave I'm done
4322
02:20:03,120 --> 02:20:05,280
I've been with my girl six years and
4323
02:20:05,280 --> 02:20:07,560
still to this day I use game otherwise
4324
02:20:07,560 --> 02:20:09,840
guitar control if I'm too nice to my
4325
02:20:09,840 --> 02:20:12,060
girl now after six years she still gets
4326
02:20:12,060 --> 02:20:13,020
out of control
4327
02:20:13,020 --> 02:20:15,660
so it's a never-ending philosophy
4328
02:20:15,660 --> 02:20:17,880
sometimes hoes need to be ignored
4329
02:20:17,880 --> 02:20:19,620
no matter how long you've been with them
4330
02:20:19,620 --> 02:20:21,060
sometimes you have to FDB them sometimes
4331
02:20:21,060 --> 02:20:22,080
you have to show them you don't take
4332
02:20:22,080 --> 02:20:23,820
[ __ ] no matter how long you be with them
4333
02:20:23,820 --> 02:20:26,100
that is a universal truth
4334
02:20:26,100 --> 02:20:28,560
so you start a relationship in a
4335
02:20:28,560 --> 02:20:29,820
dominant position
4336
02:20:29,820 --> 02:20:31,800
which of course is important
4337
02:20:31,800 --> 02:20:33,300
from the position of dominance you
4338
02:20:33,300 --> 02:20:34,439
maintain it
4339
02:20:34,439 --> 02:20:36,180
very much like a poker game or a chess
4340
02:20:36,180 --> 02:20:38,399
game you had the advantage you just play
4341
02:20:38,399 --> 02:20:41,460
your advantage it's as simple as that
4342
02:20:41,460 --> 02:20:44,060
next question
4343
02:20:44,399 --> 02:20:46,020
how do you manage hierarchies let's say
4344
02:20:46,020 --> 02:20:48,060
with two girls does the first girl have
4345
02:20:48,060 --> 02:20:51,420
seniority over the second girl no
4346
02:20:51,420 --> 02:20:53,700
girls won't take that if you have one
4347
02:20:53,700 --> 02:20:55,319
girl who's clearly better than the other
4348
02:20:55,319 --> 02:20:57,300
one you're gonna struggle massively the
4349
02:20:57,300 --> 02:20:58,979
second girl is just not going to stick
4350
02:20:58,979 --> 02:21:00,899
around for very long I've had it where
4351
02:21:00,899 --> 02:21:02,700
I've had girls who say oh I know you're
4352
02:21:02,700 --> 02:21:04,380
with Vivian I know you've been with her
4353
02:21:04,380 --> 02:21:06,000
a long time I don't mind I'll stay out
4354
02:21:06,000 --> 02:21:07,620
tonight you too stay alone all that [ __ ]
4355
02:21:07,620 --> 02:21:09,359
but it never lasts long because the ones
4356
02:21:09,359 --> 02:21:10,620
who are really in love with you won't do
4357
02:21:10,620 --> 02:21:12,120
that so the only girls who do that
4358
02:21:12,120 --> 02:21:14,040
aren't really in love with you you have
4359
02:21:14,040 --> 02:21:16,500
to be such an imposing dominating force
4360
02:21:16,500 --> 02:21:18,359
that there's no room for hierarchy
4361
02:21:18,359 --> 02:21:20,100
underneath you
4362
02:21:20,100 --> 02:21:22,200
you have to be like
4363
02:21:22,200 --> 02:21:23,700
you want to say imposing the dominating
4364
02:21:23,700 --> 02:21:25,500
I'm not talking about being a psycho I
4365
02:21:25,500 --> 02:21:27,000
assuming your personality has to be so
4366
02:21:27,000 --> 02:21:28,200
large that you're in charge of
4367
02:21:28,200 --> 02:21:29,580
everything there is no hierarchy how can
4368
02:21:29,580 --> 02:21:31,500
it be a hierarchy
4369
02:21:31,500 --> 02:21:32,939
you just have to be like okay I need a
4370
02:21:32,939 --> 02:21:35,040
coffee you make me a coffee and you cook
4371
02:21:35,040 --> 02:21:37,020
me something if you send one to make the
4372
02:21:37,020 --> 02:21:39,060
coffee then there's a hierarchy either
4373
02:21:39,060 --> 02:21:40,979
way if you send one to make the coffee
4374
02:21:40,979 --> 02:21:42,780
it can either be it can either be seen
4375
02:21:42,780 --> 02:21:44,640
as you trust her more and want her more
4376
02:21:44,640 --> 02:21:46,560
or she's lower than the other one she's
4377
02:21:46,560 --> 02:21:48,780
a slave women will always just make up a
4378
02:21:48,780 --> 02:21:50,520
reason so it doesn't matter which one
4379
02:21:50,520 --> 02:21:52,859
you choose they'll decide it's negative
4380
02:21:52,859 --> 02:21:55,319
so you have to send them both go make me
4381
02:21:55,319 --> 02:21:57,600
a coffee who both of you go
4382
02:21:57,600 --> 02:21:59,760
you have to be like that you have to be
4383
02:21:59,760 --> 02:22:01,439
dominant to a point where there's no
4384
02:22:01,439 --> 02:22:04,260
room for hierarchy it's just you and
4385
02:22:04,260 --> 02:22:05,880
everyone else
4386
02:22:05,880 --> 02:22:07,620
now that's easy for my personality for
4387
02:22:07,620 --> 02:22:08,939
other people can be slightly harder but
4388
02:22:08,939 --> 02:22:11,399
there's a whole bunch of stupid fiddly
4389
02:22:11,399 --> 02:22:13,020
[ __ ] you need to learn to do if you want
4390
02:22:13,020 --> 02:22:15,720
to truly have two girls in the long term
4391
02:22:15,720 --> 02:22:17,040
you gotta learn to sleep on your back
4392
02:22:17,040 --> 02:22:18,600
you can't sleep on your side
4393
02:22:18,600 --> 02:22:20,460
if you sleep on your right side
4394
02:22:20,460 --> 02:22:21,720
I'm telling you now whichever girl
4395
02:22:21,720 --> 02:22:22,859
you're looking at when you're sleeping
4396
02:22:22,859 --> 02:22:24,780
the other one's gonna be pissed maybe
4397
02:22:24,780 --> 02:22:26,880
not the first night but by Night 10 she
4398
02:22:26,880 --> 02:22:28,680
will and you're always facing her and
4399
02:22:28,680 --> 02:22:30,020
you're hugging her
4400
02:22:30,020 --> 02:22:32,160
this is a little dumb [ __ ] you have to
4401
02:22:32,160 --> 02:22:34,140
deal with but basically you have to be
4402
02:22:34,140 --> 02:22:35,640
big large enough personality that you
4403
02:22:35,640 --> 02:22:37,380
handle it there is no hierarchy you
4404
02:22:37,380 --> 02:22:38,760
can't clearly have women below women
4405
02:22:38,760 --> 02:22:40,680
they don't like that [ __ ]
4406
02:22:40,680 --> 02:22:42,120
what you do when you're in my situation
4407
02:22:42,120 --> 02:22:44,819
where you have a girlfriend of six years
4408
02:22:44,819 --> 02:22:46,620
and you try and bring a new girl in you
4409
02:22:46,620 --> 02:22:47,760
actually have to downplay your
4410
02:22:47,760 --> 02:22:48,899
relationship with the girl of six years
4411
02:22:48,899 --> 02:22:50,640
which is difficult and not only get away
4412
02:22:50,640 --> 02:22:51,840
with that because the girl of six years
4413
02:22:51,840 --> 02:22:54,000
plays along so Vivian's gonna be six
4414
02:22:54,000 --> 02:22:55,020
years she's completely head over heels
4415
02:22:55,020 --> 02:22:56,580
and loving me she wants kids with me
4416
02:22:56,580 --> 02:22:58,979
everything everything and we met and we
4417
02:22:58,979 --> 02:23:00,479
thought whatever we're in love but when
4418
02:23:00,479 --> 02:23:02,100
a new girl comes she'll go oh yeah I
4419
02:23:02,100 --> 02:23:03,540
started off working for him and you know
4420
02:23:03,540 --> 02:23:05,340
it's just how it worked out she'll super
4421
02:23:05,340 --> 02:23:08,280
downplay us so that the new girl feels
4422
02:23:08,280 --> 02:23:09,780
like ah well they're just kind of
4423
02:23:09,780 --> 02:23:11,399
working sex and now I'm here and he
4424
02:23:11,399 --> 02:23:14,040
likes me and and she can believe in her
4425
02:23:14,040 --> 02:23:14,880
mind
4426
02:23:14,880 --> 02:23:16,800
that she can be equal
4427
02:23:16,800 --> 02:23:19,080
if you were on if Vivian was completely
4428
02:23:19,080 --> 02:23:20,280
honest well he's been with me six years
4429
02:23:20,280 --> 02:23:21,359
and we're gonna be together forever so
4430
02:23:21,359 --> 02:23:22,620
you're just a side [ __ ] then it's not
4431
02:23:22,620 --> 02:23:23,880
gonna ever work
4432
02:23:23,880 --> 02:23:25,500
so it also depends how much control you
4433
02:23:25,500 --> 02:23:26,640
have over your bottom [ __ ] because you
4434
02:23:26,640 --> 02:23:28,200
have to be able to have her on side
4435
02:23:28,200 --> 02:23:29,640
playing the game
4436
02:23:29,640 --> 02:23:32,160
that's super important so the key is
4437
02:23:32,160 --> 02:23:34,080
it's you and everyone else there is no
4438
02:23:34,080 --> 02:23:36,979
hierarchy below you
4439
02:23:38,040 --> 02:23:40,920
can you break down your own situation so
4440
02:23:40,920 --> 02:23:42,260
I got
4441
02:23:42,260 --> 02:23:45,359
two main [ __ ] I'm gonna deal with my
4442
02:23:45,359 --> 02:23:46,800
fire gentlemen
4443
02:23:46,800 --> 02:23:49,920
I got two main girls
4444
02:23:49,920 --> 02:23:51,780
I've got Melissa
4445
02:23:51,780 --> 02:23:54,479
and Vivian
4446
02:23:54,479 --> 02:23:57,240
now Melissa
4447
02:23:57,240 --> 02:24:00,300
and Vivian started off together
4448
02:24:00,300 --> 02:24:02,340
after two years of slamming them every
4449
02:24:02,340 --> 02:24:04,680
day together tensions were getting a bit
4450
02:24:04,680 --> 02:24:06,300
crazy I mean I could have held it
4451
02:24:06,300 --> 02:24:07,680
together forever but it was just to a
4452
02:24:07,680 --> 02:24:10,560
point where it's just like oh shut up so
4453
02:24:10,560 --> 02:24:12,180
everyone made a happy agreement that
4454
02:24:12,180 --> 02:24:13,740
they'd be separate I'd still be with
4455
02:24:13,740 --> 02:24:14,640
both of them but they don't want to live
4456
02:24:14,640 --> 02:24:17,599
together anymore that's fine
4457
02:24:19,140 --> 02:24:21,600
when I bring on new girls I usually pair
4458
02:24:21,600 --> 02:24:23,700
them with Vivian because Vivian's
4459
02:24:23,700 --> 02:24:25,979
younger Melissa's like 28 Vivian's like
4460
02:24:25,979 --> 02:24:29,160
21. Vivian's younger she's more fun more
4461
02:24:29,160 --> 02:24:31,260
outgoing Melissa's really quite not in a
4462
02:24:31,260 --> 02:24:33,540
bad way she's more homey boring sits at
4463
02:24:33,540 --> 02:24:34,319
home
4464
02:24:34,319 --> 02:24:36,479
so it's if you're gonna pair a girl with
4465
02:24:36,479 --> 02:24:38,220
a girl it's much easier if the girl is
4466
02:24:38,220 --> 02:24:40,680
fun let's all go to the club let's all
4467
02:24:40,680 --> 02:24:42,120
drinks champagne let's all do this let's
4468
02:24:42,120 --> 02:24:43,560
go here let's go here that's what it
4469
02:24:43,560 --> 02:24:45,660
does so since I've had Vivian I've had
4470
02:24:45,660 --> 02:24:47,700
five other girlfriends who I've shared
4471
02:24:47,700 --> 02:24:49,620
with Vivian some last a couple weeks
4472
02:24:49,620 --> 02:24:51,479
some last a couple months one lasted a
4473
02:24:51,479 --> 02:24:52,380
year
4474
02:24:52,380 --> 02:24:54,120
so I've had Jenny the dark-haired one
4475
02:24:54,120 --> 02:24:56,160
I've had andrada the other one up these
4476
02:24:56,160 --> 02:24:57,660
are all on my Instagrams or my Twitter
4477
02:24:57,660 --> 02:24:58,680
you would have seen them at some point
4478
02:24:58,680 --> 02:25:01,800
I've had loads of hot girls who come in
4479
02:25:01,800 --> 02:25:04,260
Vivian's already there they join like I
4480
02:25:04,260 --> 02:25:06,420
said Vivian downplays it blah blah blah
4481
02:25:06,420 --> 02:25:07,920
blah and first and for different reasons
4482
02:25:07,920 --> 02:25:09,540
it breaks up like you've seen some of my
4483
02:25:09,540 --> 02:25:11,040
threads about the dark hair girl tried
4484
02:25:11,040 --> 02:25:12,780
to give me an ultimate him or Jenny who
4485
02:25:12,780 --> 02:25:14,220
went to the festival against the rules
4486
02:25:14,220 --> 02:25:16,319
sometimes they rebel I have to FDB him
4487
02:25:16,319 --> 02:25:17,760
but that's basically how it works I've
4488
02:25:17,760 --> 02:25:20,640
got my main [ __ ] my bottom [ __ ] Vivian
4489
02:25:20,640 --> 02:25:23,220
I could do a Melissa too but she's you
4490
02:25:23,220 --> 02:25:24,540
know I just do with Vivian for some
4491
02:25:24,540 --> 02:25:26,040
reason is how it's worked out my main
4492
02:25:26,040 --> 02:25:28,140
[ __ ] Vivian and I bring in new
4493
02:25:28,140 --> 02:25:30,420
girlfriends and they're temporary I get
4494
02:25:30,420 --> 02:25:32,399
one that sticks forever whatever good I
4495
02:25:32,399 --> 02:25:33,720
had one recently that stayed for a very
4496
02:25:33,720 --> 02:25:34,920
long time
4497
02:25:34,920 --> 02:25:36,600
but um if they leave they leave because
4498
02:25:36,600 --> 02:25:37,979
you should find a new one that's my
4499
02:25:37,979 --> 02:25:39,660
basic situation I got a girl calling me
4500
02:25:39,660 --> 02:25:40,740
right now I'm gonna hang up on her
4501
02:25:40,740 --> 02:25:43,340
because I'm filming
4502
02:25:43,680 --> 02:25:46,080
right
4503
02:25:46,080 --> 02:25:47,520
so a description of your relationship
4504
02:25:47,520 --> 02:25:49,319
process with Vivian so yeah that's how
4505
02:25:49,319 --> 02:25:52,140
it started I met Vivian
4506
02:25:52,140 --> 02:25:55,020
in in Slovakia we had a long-term
4507
02:25:55,020 --> 02:25:56,160
relationship thing I was living in
4508
02:25:56,160 --> 02:25:57,000
England
4509
02:25:57,000 --> 02:25:58,560
it's a really long story I don't want to
4510
02:25:58,560 --> 02:26:00,180
tell you the whole story I moved her to
4511
02:26:00,180 --> 02:26:01,979
England to be with me to start doing my
4512
02:26:01,979 --> 02:26:03,720
webcam company which I started if you
4513
02:26:03,720 --> 02:26:05,100
don't have a webcam company you need to
4514
02:26:05,100 --> 02:26:06,180
look into it because as soon as you have
4515
02:26:06,180 --> 02:26:07,680
a couple girls in love with you it's the
4516
02:26:07,680 --> 02:26:09,899
[ __ ] easiest money in the world no I
4517
02:26:09,899 --> 02:26:11,880
take that back it's not easy money you
4518
02:26:11,880 --> 02:26:13,439
gotta build up but once you get girls
4519
02:26:13,439 --> 02:26:15,780
built up then it's free money like every
4520
02:26:15,780 --> 02:26:17,580
other business you're gonna build up by
4521
02:26:17,580 --> 02:26:18,960
the start I decided I want to start
4522
02:26:18,960 --> 02:26:20,640
webcam business Vivian's beautiful I
4523
02:26:20,640 --> 02:26:21,720
said look you're stopping a waitress
4524
02:26:21,720 --> 02:26:24,240
come here live with me she came
4525
02:26:24,240 --> 02:26:25,920
everything was fine for a couple weeks
4526
02:26:25,920 --> 02:26:27,420
Melissa obviously lived in England they
4527
02:26:27,420 --> 02:26:28,620
didn't know about each other they found
4528
02:26:28,620 --> 02:26:30,240
out they tried to have a big argument
4529
02:26:30,240 --> 02:26:31,620
with me I did exactly as I said
4530
02:26:31,620 --> 02:26:32,819
downplayed it didn't give a [ __ ]
4531
02:26:32,819 --> 02:26:33,960
everyone moved in together everyone
4532
02:26:33,960 --> 02:26:35,580
started doing webcam I was making loads
4533
02:26:35,580 --> 02:26:37,260
of money then we agreed to the split
4534
02:26:37,260 --> 02:26:39,180
like we said and that's basically been
4535
02:26:39,180 --> 02:26:40,680
it since then new girls have come along
4536
02:26:40,680 --> 02:26:42,420
Vivian understands that I'm [ __ ]
4537
02:26:42,420 --> 02:26:43,560
These Hoes but I don't care about these
4538
02:26:43,560 --> 02:26:46,140
hoes I've seen I've done it
4539
02:26:46,140 --> 02:26:48,780
when I do it I prove it to her this is
4540
02:26:48,780 --> 02:26:50,939
another important thing guys if you're
4541
02:26:50,939 --> 02:26:52,319
gonna say to one girl if you're the only
4542
02:26:52,319 --> 02:26:53,520
one I care about and she's going to see
4543
02:26:53,520 --> 02:26:55,319
you [ __ ] these other girls when those
4544
02:26:55,319 --> 02:26:57,240
other girls eventually leave or you FDB
4545
02:26:57,240 --> 02:26:59,399
them you gotta use that
4546
02:26:59,399 --> 02:27:00,899
to your advantage
4547
02:27:00,899 --> 02:27:02,580
so I'll come home sometimes to Vivian
4548
02:27:02,580 --> 02:27:04,380
and say Jenny's gone she'll go what what
4549
02:27:04,380 --> 02:27:05,819
do you mean Jenny's gone oh she annoyed
4550
02:27:05,819 --> 02:27:07,140
me so I'll get rid of her what do you
4551
02:27:07,140 --> 02:27:08,399
mean she annoyed you oh she's just
4552
02:27:08,399 --> 02:27:09,600
something small but she annoyed me so
4553
02:27:09,600 --> 02:27:12,300
bye and they like that she's like well
4554
02:27:12,300 --> 02:27:13,800
you got rid of her over nothing I was oh
4555
02:27:13,800 --> 02:27:16,319
yeah she annoyed me FDB
4556
02:27:16,319 --> 02:27:17,880
and that makes her feel secure that
4557
02:27:17,880 --> 02:27:19,260
these other girls he really doesn't give
4558
02:27:19,260 --> 02:27:20,939
a [ __ ] like he'll just get rid of him
4559
02:27:20,939 --> 02:27:23,040
for no reason so use that to your
4560
02:27:23,040 --> 02:27:24,780
advantage as well and that's the basic
4561
02:27:24,780 --> 02:27:25,979
Dynamic of my relationship with Vivian
4562
02:27:25,979 --> 02:27:28,680
she now knows what I do last night I
4563
02:27:28,680 --> 02:27:30,899
just put in the War Room telegram if
4564
02:27:30,899 --> 02:27:31,920
you're not in the war room as well
4565
02:27:31,920 --> 02:27:33,120
[ __ ] you've got to get in on
4566
02:27:33,120 --> 02:27:34,439
there there's too much [ __ ] happening
4567
02:27:34,439 --> 02:27:36,060
you're missing out on I was put in the
4568
02:27:36,060 --> 02:27:37,439
War Room telegram my text conversation
4569
02:27:37,439 --> 02:27:38,939
with her last night she goes you come at
4570
02:27:38,939 --> 02:27:40,200
home I said no she goes what girl are
4571
02:27:40,200 --> 02:27:42,240
you staying with Vivian now is just nosy
4572
02:27:42,240 --> 02:27:44,040
she isn't jealous she's just nosy she's
4573
02:27:44,040 --> 02:27:46,319
curious so I'm staying with Ellen Elena
4574
02:27:46,319 --> 02:27:48,780
or Elena or whoever okay all right see
4575
02:27:48,780 --> 02:27:49,680
you tomorrow
4576
02:27:49,680 --> 02:27:52,200
so it's there's no secrets no hiding she
4577
02:27:52,200 --> 02:27:53,220
knows I'm [ __ ] all these girls she
4578
02:27:53,220 --> 02:27:55,200
doesn't care
4579
02:27:55,200 --> 02:27:57,180
so and if I want to [ __ ] her with a girl
4580
02:27:57,180 --> 02:27:58,979
I'll say look we're going out I'll just
4581
02:27:58,979 --> 02:28:00,479
introduce booze
4582
02:28:00,479 --> 02:28:02,340
so like the first time I threw some a
4583
02:28:02,340 --> 02:28:03,479
lot of girls I'll say oh yeah we're
4584
02:28:03,479 --> 02:28:04,859
going out some other girls are coming
4585
02:28:04,859 --> 02:28:07,680
what girls girls I know
4586
02:28:07,680 --> 02:28:09,359
and Viv will turn off and it'll just be
4587
02:28:09,359 --> 02:28:10,500
there I'm gonna be drinking I'll just
4588
02:28:10,500 --> 02:28:11,580
say I'll just say I have to throw him
4589
02:28:11,580 --> 02:28:13,920
and [ __ ] you both no you're not it's not
4590
02:28:13,920 --> 02:28:15,060
gonna [ __ ] you both and Vivian will just
4591
02:28:15,060 --> 02:28:17,340
like laugh just play off hahaha very
4592
02:28:17,340 --> 02:28:19,140
funny all getting the taxi at the end
4593
02:28:19,140 --> 02:28:21,300
we're going my house
4594
02:28:21,300 --> 02:28:23,700
just [ __ ] just own it oh I don't want
4595
02:28:23,700 --> 02:28:25,680
to see both okay bye
4596
02:28:25,680 --> 02:28:28,620
see y'all I'll [ __ ] Vivian then what the
4597
02:28:28,620 --> 02:28:30,120
who says I thought she just worked for
4598
02:28:30,120 --> 02:28:31,560
you who's this girl you're supposed to
4599
02:28:31,560 --> 02:28:33,240
be my boyfriend look stop being [ __ ]
4600
02:28:33,240 --> 02:28:35,460
boring we're going to my house shut up
4601
02:28:35,460 --> 02:28:36,720
let's see you just got your [ __ ] own
4602
02:28:36,720 --> 02:28:40,140
it say Come suck dick
4603
02:28:40,140 --> 02:28:42,240
all right
4604
02:28:42,240 --> 02:28:44,160
I'm not saying to be a rapist I feel
4605
02:28:44,160 --> 02:28:45,540
like I always have to [ __ ] clarify
4606
02:28:45,540 --> 02:28:47,280
myself because to me it's super obvious
4607
02:28:47,280 --> 02:28:48,479
but there's some weirdos out there that
4608
02:28:48,479 --> 02:28:50,340
don't [ __ ] thing you cannot force a
4609
02:28:50,340 --> 02:28:51,840
girl to do anything you just have to
4610
02:28:51,840 --> 02:28:54,420
make it clear of your objective you're a
4611
02:28:54,420 --> 02:28:57,479
train a train stays on the track I'm a
4612
02:28:57,479 --> 02:28:59,399
train on this track you either get on
4613
02:28:59,399 --> 02:29:00,899
the train and go to the destination or
4614
02:29:00,899 --> 02:29:02,120
you get off the train and you don't
4615
02:29:02,120 --> 02:29:04,920
trains don't go off tracks
4616
02:29:04,920 --> 02:29:07,260
it's that simple I'm [ __ ] Vivian
4617
02:29:07,260 --> 02:29:08,040
tonight
4618
02:29:08,040 --> 02:29:09,840
you're coming with me and you're helping
4619
02:29:09,840 --> 02:29:12,120
me [ __ ] Vivian or you're not but this is
4620
02:29:12,120 --> 02:29:13,680
where the Train's headed
4621
02:29:13,680 --> 02:29:15,420
that's how you have to be don't be a
4622
02:29:15,420 --> 02:29:17,939
creepy weirdo please
4623
02:29:17,939 --> 02:29:20,340
right one more question I'm gonna do for
4624
02:29:20,340 --> 02:29:22,640
this video
4625
02:29:22,740 --> 02:29:24,359
I have a lot of questions I need to
4626
02:29:24,359 --> 02:29:26,520
handle but
4627
02:29:26,520 --> 02:29:29,660
I'm gonna do one more for this
4628
02:29:31,620 --> 02:29:35,240
do I believe in negging girls
4629
02:29:38,340 --> 02:29:40,740
nagging girls is calling them names or
4630
02:29:40,740 --> 02:29:42,180
saying something negative to them that's
4631
02:29:42,180 --> 02:29:43,800
some pickup artist [ __ ] that the red
4632
02:29:43,800 --> 02:29:45,720
pill guys do no I don't believe in that
4633
02:29:45,720 --> 02:29:48,180
I believe you need to tease them have a
4634
02:29:48,180 --> 02:29:49,620
joke with them like you know everyone
4635
02:29:49,620 --> 02:29:51,060
knows how to tease a girl like she's a
4636
02:29:51,060 --> 02:29:52,380
kid sister have a joke but don't be
4637
02:29:52,380 --> 02:29:54,120
negative don't be aggressive I've seen
4638
02:29:54,120 --> 02:29:55,859
loads of dudes on dates just talking to
4639
02:29:55,859 --> 02:29:57,240
a girl like [ __ ] like it's super like
4640
02:29:57,240 --> 02:29:59,460
they're the man and it's not cool you
4641
02:29:59,460 --> 02:30:01,439
don't look cool you look like a [ __ ] if
4642
02:30:01,439 --> 02:30:03,240
you're deaf if you're genuinely an alpha
4643
02:30:03,240 --> 02:30:04,800
you don't need to impose your
4644
02:30:04,800 --> 02:30:07,560
superiority by insulting her so what
4645
02:30:07,560 --> 02:30:08,760
you're trying to do by insulting her is
4646
02:30:08,760 --> 02:30:09,960
bring her down a peg well if you're
4647
02:30:09,960 --> 02:30:10,859
already above her you don't need to
4648
02:30:10,859 --> 02:30:12,120
bring her down
4649
02:30:12,120 --> 02:30:13,620
so I don't think it's Alpha to be out
4650
02:30:13,620 --> 02:30:14,939
there assaulting girls but obviously you
4651
02:30:14,939 --> 02:30:16,200
can tease or make fun of her a little
4652
02:30:16,200 --> 02:30:17,280
bit of course
4653
02:30:17,280 --> 02:30:18,780
but once again this comes to experience
4654
02:30:18,780 --> 02:30:20,340
this is down to experience depends on
4655
02:30:20,340 --> 02:30:22,020
the girl you're talking to you have to
4656
02:30:22,020 --> 02:30:24,120
gauge the conversation gauge who she is
4657
02:30:24,120 --> 02:30:26,760
and play accordingly
4658
02:30:26,760 --> 02:30:28,020
so that's it for this episode another
4659
02:30:28,020 --> 02:30:29,520
video coming soon
4660
02:30:29,520 --> 02:30:33,060
right questions I can't build uh High
4661
02:30:33,060 --> 02:30:35,100
Senior PhD course blow you the man blah
4662
02:30:35,100 --> 02:30:36,780
blah blah I can't build a very
4663
02:30:36,780 --> 02:30:38,760
interesting Instagram
4664
02:30:38,760 --> 02:30:41,100
what should I do well you need to build
4665
02:30:41,100 --> 02:30:42,359
an interesting one but you don't need to
4666
02:30:42,359 --> 02:30:44,100
have that many pictures if you were to
4667
02:30:44,100 --> 02:30:46,920
take one day out of your life and get a
4668
02:30:46,920 --> 02:30:49,560
good camera and put on some good clothes
4669
02:30:49,560 --> 02:30:53,280
and take four or five good pictures
4670
02:30:53,280 --> 02:30:55,620
that's enough put them at the top and
4671
02:30:55,620 --> 02:30:57,120
even if a girl ever says to you oh you
4672
02:30:57,120 --> 02:30:58,260
don't have much on Instagram just say
4673
02:30:58,260 --> 02:31:00,420
yeah I don't use social media very much
4674
02:31:00,420 --> 02:31:02,460
it's not really my thing
4675
02:31:02,460 --> 02:31:04,560
and if she tries to [ __ ] test you she'll
4676
02:31:04,560 --> 02:31:05,939
say Well why'd you message me then so I
4677
02:31:05,939 --> 02:31:06,899
thought you were beautiful so I thought
4678
02:31:06,899 --> 02:31:08,280
I'd message you but it doesn't mean I
4679
02:31:08,280 --> 02:31:10,200
have to post on Instagram all the time
4680
02:31:10,200 --> 02:31:12,060
just play it off like I'm a cool cat I'm
4681
02:31:12,060 --> 02:31:14,640
on Instagram dude you know I'm just Mr
4682
02:31:14,640 --> 02:31:16,859
normal dude I'm not a [ __ ] Mr show
4683
02:31:16,859 --> 02:31:18,479
off so you haven't gotta do you haven't
4684
02:31:18,479 --> 02:31:20,399
gotta have like me pages and pages of
4685
02:31:20,399 --> 02:31:22,560
supercars you see that four or five good
4686
02:31:22,560 --> 02:31:24,359
pictures if you can't find four or five
4687
02:31:24,359 --> 02:31:25,859
good pictures well something wrong with
4688
02:31:25,859 --> 02:31:27,780
you ain't that hard I'm sure you've been
4689
02:31:27,780 --> 02:31:29,220
on holiday once in your life take some
4690
02:31:29,220 --> 02:31:31,260
good pictures on the beach dog
4691
02:31:31,260 --> 02:31:33,000
get a picture of you in the gym
4692
02:31:33,000 --> 02:31:34,620
get it from far away so you look muscly
4693
02:31:34,620 --> 02:31:36,840
or some [ __ ] it ain't that difficult
4694
02:31:36,840 --> 02:31:38,939
make it happen I shouldn't have
4695
02:31:38,939 --> 02:31:40,140
explained this to you like this is a
4696
02:31:40,140 --> 02:31:41,700
common sense stuff don't be stupid five
4697
02:31:41,700 --> 02:31:42,899
or six good pictures you can make it
4698
02:31:42,899 --> 02:31:43,920
happen
4699
02:31:43,920 --> 02:31:46,500
next do you answer texts whenever you
4700
02:31:46,500 --> 02:31:48,060
want or do you have rules for when you
4701
02:31:48,060 --> 02:31:50,100
respond I answer texts in real time I
4702
02:31:50,100 --> 02:31:51,120
don't believe in making girls wait
4703
02:31:51,120 --> 02:31:53,399
message me I message back if they start
4704
02:31:53,399 --> 02:31:55,800
making you wait well then it's different
4705
02:31:55,800 --> 02:31:56,939
then you're gonna have to you know
4706
02:31:56,939 --> 02:31:58,500
return the favor or FD beat them or
4707
02:31:58,500 --> 02:31:59,760
whatever but if a girl is messaging me
4708
02:31:59,760 --> 02:32:01,979
yeah message him the [ __ ] is normal
4709
02:32:01,979 --> 02:32:03,960
a lot of these little dominance tricks
4710
02:32:03,960 --> 02:32:05,460
that people are taught make or wait and
4711
02:32:05,460 --> 02:32:07,020
all this [ __ ] or just trying to
4712
02:32:07,020 --> 02:32:08,580
feign dominance if you have genuine
4713
02:32:08,580 --> 02:32:10,140
dominance you don't need to do that you
4714
02:32:10,140 --> 02:32:11,460
message me I message you everything's
4715
02:32:11,460 --> 02:32:13,020
fine yeah let's go for coffee okay yeah
4716
02:32:13,020 --> 02:32:14,280
I'll message you later everything's
4717
02:32:14,280 --> 02:32:15,600
normal there's no need for any of those
4718
02:32:15,600 --> 02:32:17,460
things if I have a girl who ignores me
4719
02:32:17,460 --> 02:32:19,020
every time I message her and that
4720
02:32:19,020 --> 02:32:20,939
eventually decides to message me well
4721
02:32:20,939 --> 02:32:22,200
then yeah I'm going to take my time on
4722
02:32:22,200 --> 02:32:23,399
it
4723
02:32:23,399 --> 02:32:25,319
if she does message me first I will
4724
02:32:25,319 --> 02:32:26,880
reply but I'll probably wait the second
4725
02:32:26,880 --> 02:32:28,200
amount of time she made me wait but in
4726
02:32:28,200 --> 02:32:30,620
general no
4727
02:32:30,780 --> 02:32:33,120
do you have a call to set up dates this
4728
02:32:33,120 --> 02:32:34,740
is actually interesting
4729
02:32:34,740 --> 02:32:36,420
what I do when I'm texting girls on
4730
02:32:36,420 --> 02:32:39,000
WhatsApp is you okay Tower of Power
4731
02:32:39,000 --> 02:32:40,620
you're progressing so you met her on the
4732
02:32:40,620 --> 02:32:42,000
street or Tinder or Instagram wherever
4733
02:32:42,000 --> 02:32:43,140
you got their WhatsApp now you're
4734
02:32:43,140 --> 02:32:45,660
whatsapping them after a day or after a
4735
02:32:45,660 --> 02:32:47,100
day or even an hour depending how long
4736
02:32:47,100 --> 02:32:48,540
you've spoken of what's happening to
4737
02:32:48,540 --> 02:32:50,880
them I go on to voice notes
4738
02:32:50,880 --> 02:32:52,620
because voice notes are that little bit
4739
02:32:52,620 --> 02:32:53,760
more personal because they get to hear
4740
02:32:53,760 --> 02:32:54,960
your voice
4741
02:32:54,960 --> 02:32:56,939
so I'll move from texting into voice
4742
02:32:56,939 --> 02:32:59,220
notes it's that tiny bit upgrade of
4743
02:32:59,220 --> 02:33:01,020
personality I don't do phone calls if
4744
02:33:01,020 --> 02:33:02,340
you've seen my tape speech videos I
4745
02:33:02,340 --> 02:33:04,200
don't like phone calls but I'll move
4746
02:33:04,200 --> 02:33:05,880
into voice notes the good thing about
4747
02:33:05,880 --> 02:33:07,260
voice notes is well they're not the
4748
02:33:07,260 --> 02:33:08,640
answer if you call her she might ignore
4749
02:33:08,640 --> 02:33:09,720
the call
4750
02:33:09,720 --> 02:33:11,700
I'm busy or whatever I'm driving I
4751
02:33:11,700 --> 02:33:13,140
should ignore you if you give her a
4752
02:33:13,140 --> 02:33:15,000
voice note she'll listen to it so I
4753
02:33:15,000 --> 02:33:16,380
actually do recommend after a little bit
4754
02:33:16,380 --> 02:33:17,939
of texting to upgrade to voice notes
4755
02:33:17,939 --> 02:33:19,740
there's nothing wrong with at all
4756
02:33:19,740 --> 02:33:21,780
smoke a cigar drink a little bit of
4757
02:33:21,780 --> 02:33:23,640
whiskey get your voice deep sound like a
4758
02:33:23,640 --> 02:33:25,260
g and send her some voice notes because
4759
02:33:25,260 --> 02:33:26,700
once again it's a tiny bit more personal
4760
02:33:26,700 --> 02:33:28,500
and she might start sending them back to
4761
02:33:28,500 --> 02:33:29,700
you she starts sending you voice notes
4762
02:33:29,700 --> 02:33:32,460
back 100 she wants to bang hundred
4763
02:33:32,460 --> 02:33:34,699
percent
4764
02:33:35,040 --> 02:33:37,740
so do I call this updates no I use voice
4765
02:33:37,740 --> 02:33:39,600
notes or I don't know I sometimes I
4766
02:33:39,600 --> 02:33:40,740
organize a date by text it doesn't
4767
02:33:40,740 --> 02:33:42,240
really matter but in general I use voice
4768
02:33:42,240 --> 02:33:43,620
notes that's just something that came to
4769
02:33:43,620 --> 02:33:44,580
my mind that I haven't mentioned before
4770
02:33:44,580 --> 02:33:46,920
you can use voice notes it's really good
4771
02:33:46,920 --> 02:33:48,899
um or send pictures
4772
02:33:48,899 --> 02:33:50,340
what you do and should be like oh hey
4773
02:33:50,340 --> 02:33:52,080
how are you so I'm just saying I'm fine
4774
02:33:52,080 --> 02:33:53,460
you I'll take a picture of my coffee
4775
02:33:53,460 --> 02:33:56,280
picture dang yeah I'm good thanks how
4776
02:33:56,280 --> 02:33:58,140
are you just more here's where I am
4777
02:33:58,140 --> 02:34:00,420
here's who I am just to break the ice
4778
02:34:00,420 --> 02:34:01,500
that a little bit more to try and get
4779
02:34:01,500 --> 02:34:02,939
her to agree to me all about the Tower
4780
02:34:02,939 --> 02:34:05,040
of Power remember progression at all
4781
02:34:05,040 --> 02:34:05,819
times
4782
02:34:05,819 --> 02:34:07,319
don't do it as soon as you get your
4783
02:34:07,319 --> 02:34:08,580
number don't get your number be like hey
4784
02:34:08,580 --> 02:34:10,620
hey hi how are you to talk to her a
4785
02:34:10,620 --> 02:34:11,880
little bit first I'll be a weirdo after
4786
02:34:11,880 --> 02:34:13,500
you spoke to her a little bit then you
4787
02:34:13,500 --> 02:34:14,760
can hit her with it
4788
02:34:14,760 --> 02:34:17,340
next question
4789
02:34:17,340 --> 02:34:19,080
tips for trying to close the deal once
4790
02:34:19,080 --> 02:34:21,120
you got the girl alone at your place now
4791
02:34:21,120 --> 02:34:22,080
this is actually a really interesting
4792
02:34:22,080 --> 02:34:24,180
question because if the girls come to
4793
02:34:24,180 --> 02:34:25,620
your place alone
4794
02:34:25,620 --> 02:34:27,960
he knows what's going down
4795
02:34:27,960 --> 02:34:29,399
like
4796
02:34:29,399 --> 02:34:31,319
she's not stupid unless she's really
4797
02:34:31,319 --> 02:34:33,000
stupid she knows what's going down so
4798
02:34:33,000 --> 02:34:34,500
the only reason it's not gonna happen is
4799
02:34:34,500 --> 02:34:36,240
if she changes her mind which might
4800
02:34:36,240 --> 02:34:38,280
happen she might change her mind she'll
4801
02:34:38,280 --> 02:34:39,540
be prepared for that
4802
02:34:39,540 --> 02:34:43,280
but if a girl comes to my house
4803
02:34:43,979 --> 02:34:46,439
yeah
4804
02:34:46,439 --> 02:34:48,720
hello this is why I don't do phone calls
4805
02:34:48,720 --> 02:34:51,780
I [ __ ] hate phone calls hello
4806
02:34:51,780 --> 02:34:54,000
[ __ ]
4807
02:34:54,000 --> 02:34:56,520
I don't do phone calls
4808
02:34:56,520 --> 02:34:59,000
anyway
4809
02:35:04,800 --> 02:35:06,920
um
4810
02:35:15,899 --> 02:35:17,280
if a girl comes to your house she wants
4811
02:35:17,280 --> 02:35:20,340
to bang so she might change her mind
4812
02:35:20,340 --> 02:35:22,200
so the girl comes to my house my routine
4813
02:35:22,200 --> 02:35:23,819
is very simple what I do is I go up to
4814
02:35:23,819 --> 02:35:26,760
my cinema you may have a cinema maybe TV
4815
02:35:26,760 --> 02:35:29,399
I put on a movie I always put on a
4816
02:35:29,399 --> 02:35:30,720
horror movie
4817
02:35:30,720 --> 02:35:32,580
don't put on music I've seen a lot of
4818
02:35:32,580 --> 02:35:34,200
people go let's put on music if you put
4819
02:35:34,200 --> 02:35:35,760
on music and the girl's drinking and
4820
02:35:35,760 --> 02:35:37,560
drunk she wants to party she wants to
4821
02:35:37,560 --> 02:35:40,080
have fun yay she wants to stay up you
4822
02:35:40,080 --> 02:35:41,580
don't want her to stay up you want her
4823
02:35:41,580 --> 02:35:42,600
in bed
4824
02:35:42,600 --> 02:35:44,280
so after the club if we come home we've
4825
02:35:44,280 --> 02:35:46,260
got girls and they come in they go let's
4826
02:35:46,260 --> 02:35:48,120
put music on I say no no no no music to
4827
02:35:48,120 --> 02:35:49,620
put on a movie because I've noticed
4828
02:35:49,620 --> 02:35:51,479
before you start putting music on you
4829
02:35:51,479 --> 02:35:53,280
get a bowl of all cow it's another three
4830
02:35:53,280 --> 02:35:57,300
hours of partying it's just like please
4831
02:35:57,300 --> 02:36:00,780
boring so no music you can't go to
4832
02:36:00,780 --> 02:36:02,100
action movies it's the wrong Vibe you
4833
02:36:02,100 --> 02:36:04,020
can't put on a rom-com you're not gay so
4834
02:36:04,020 --> 02:36:06,600
it's got to be a horror movie horror
4835
02:36:06,600 --> 02:36:08,520
movies you're quiet during you sit
4836
02:36:08,520 --> 02:36:10,200
you're quiet horrible
4837
02:36:10,200 --> 02:36:12,660
so we come in upon a horror movie offer
4838
02:36:12,660 --> 02:36:14,280
a drink get some wine whatever whatever
4839
02:36:14,280 --> 02:36:16,380
pour a couple glasses of wine usually I
4840
02:36:16,380 --> 02:36:17,819
come downstairs to pour it I usually
4841
02:36:17,819 --> 02:36:19,439
pour her wine I pour myself water
4842
02:36:19,439 --> 02:36:21,060
because I don't like being I don't like
4843
02:36:21,060 --> 02:36:22,800
having sex when I'm super drunk if I've
4844
02:36:22,800 --> 02:36:23,939
been drinking all night in the club and
4845
02:36:23,939 --> 02:36:25,020
then we go back
4846
02:36:25,020 --> 02:36:26,760
I don't want to be like getting really
4847
02:36:26,760 --> 02:36:29,100
hammered and be sloppy so by that I know
4848
02:36:29,100 --> 02:36:29,880
what's going to happen I just start
4849
02:36:29,880 --> 02:36:31,920
drinking water give them wine whatever
4850
02:36:31,920 --> 02:36:32,819
whatever
4851
02:36:32,819 --> 02:36:36,300
sit upstairs I'll watch the movie for
4852
02:36:36,300 --> 02:36:39,600
five to six minutes
4853
02:36:39,600 --> 02:36:41,640
before I start to kiss her on the couch
4854
02:36:41,640 --> 02:36:43,140
that's it because she doesn't give a
4855
02:36:43,140 --> 02:36:44,100
[ __ ] she didn't come to my house to
4856
02:36:44,100 --> 02:36:45,120
watch no movie
4857
02:36:45,120 --> 02:36:46,740
she ain't stupid
4858
02:36:46,740 --> 02:36:48,600
five to six minutes we'll start kissing
4859
02:36:48,600 --> 02:36:50,760
for a minute or so I'll Stand Up get her
4860
02:36:50,760 --> 02:36:52,439
hand and walk towards the bedroom and
4861
02:36:52,439 --> 02:36:54,120
she either follows me or she doesn't she
4862
02:36:54,120 --> 02:36:55,979
comes with me she wants to bang she goes
4863
02:36:55,979 --> 02:36:57,840
oh no I can't I can't I say oh you want
4864
02:36:57,840 --> 02:36:59,939
to watch the horror movie oh yeah so
4865
02:36:59,939 --> 02:37:01,260
you're not gonna be scared I'll make a
4866
02:37:01,260 --> 02:37:03,060
joke out of it I'll play it down we'll
4867
02:37:03,060 --> 02:37:04,260
know if you're here I said all right
4868
02:37:04,260 --> 02:37:05,100
well
4869
02:37:05,100 --> 02:37:07,439
I watch it for a little bit sit down
4870
02:37:07,439 --> 02:37:09,660
more wine kiss her again then say look
4871
02:37:09,660 --> 02:37:10,920
I'm going to bed you want to go home do
4872
02:37:10,920 --> 02:37:11,880
you want to come to bed oh I'm going to
4873
02:37:11,880 --> 02:37:14,040
leave okay no problem get taxi bye I'm
4874
02:37:14,040 --> 02:37:15,359
playing games the whole the whole
4875
02:37:15,359 --> 02:37:17,520
thing's about 20 minutes 30 minutes I'm
4876
02:37:17,520 --> 02:37:19,439
very clear with my intention she ain't
4877
02:37:19,439 --> 02:37:21,000
stupid she's an adult she came to my
4878
02:37:21,000 --> 02:37:23,340
house at four in the morning the [ __ ] we
4879
02:37:23,340 --> 02:37:24,420
there to do
4880
02:37:24,420 --> 02:37:26,460
play chess even though I'd enjoy that
4881
02:37:26,460 --> 02:37:27,899
none of these [ __ ] are good enough so
4882
02:37:27,899 --> 02:37:28,740
no
4883
02:37:28,740 --> 02:37:30,000
we're not there to play each I swear to
4884
02:37:30,000 --> 02:37:30,780
[ __ ]
4885
02:37:30,780 --> 02:37:32,640
so that's basically it I mean I don't
4886
02:37:32,640 --> 02:37:34,500
think it's difficult to close a deal if
4887
02:37:34,500 --> 02:37:35,399
they come to your house saying you
4888
02:37:35,399 --> 02:37:36,420
should know what's going down unless
4889
02:37:36,420 --> 02:37:37,979
you're in the friend zone if you're in
4890
02:37:37,979 --> 02:37:39,479
the friend zone or some [ __ ] then
4891
02:37:39,479 --> 02:37:41,580
it's hard let me get some more wood for
4892
02:37:41,580 --> 02:37:43,439
my fire but if you're in the friend zone
4893
02:37:43,439 --> 02:37:46,100
hold up
4894
02:37:46,859 --> 02:37:48,780
if you're in the friend zone
4895
02:37:48,780 --> 02:37:50,880
and you can't close the deal and then
4896
02:37:50,880 --> 02:37:52,020
you're out then you're asking stupid
4897
02:37:52,020 --> 02:37:53,160
questions because you're in the friend
4898
02:37:53,160 --> 02:37:55,560
zone you [ __ ] up already you already
4899
02:37:55,560 --> 02:37:56,819
haven't been doing the Tower of Power
4900
02:37:56,819 --> 02:37:58,200
you already haven't been doing your
4901
02:37:58,200 --> 02:37:59,399
progression
4902
02:37:59,399 --> 02:38:00,720
and now you're asking me well how are
4903
02:38:00,720 --> 02:38:02,160
you gonna [ __ ] your friends well you can
4904
02:38:02,160 --> 02:38:04,080
that's why the friend Zone's so toxic
4905
02:38:04,080 --> 02:38:05,220
that's why you caught off your attention
4906
02:38:05,220 --> 02:38:06,960
if they don't want to bang but if you
4907
02:38:06,960 --> 02:38:08,880
meet a girl you get her number you meet
4908
02:38:08,880 --> 02:38:11,280
a girl on Instagram you get her WhatsApp
4909
02:38:11,280 --> 02:38:12,960
you start whatsapping her then you start
4910
02:38:12,960 --> 02:38:14,520
voice noting her you agree to go for
4911
02:38:14,520 --> 02:38:15,960
coffee you go for coffee you're greeting
4912
02:38:15,960 --> 02:38:17,280
over dinner you go for dinner you say
4913
02:38:17,280 --> 02:38:18,600
come over chill out mine she comes over
4914
02:38:18,600 --> 02:38:20,399
to chill
4915
02:38:20,399 --> 02:38:22,439
she knows what's going down now maybe
4916
02:38:22,439 --> 02:38:23,640
she may not want to [ __ ] you the first
4917
02:38:23,640 --> 02:38:25,020
night she comes over to chill maybe the
4918
02:38:25,020 --> 02:38:26,399
first night she'll want to go home cool
4919
02:38:26,399 --> 02:38:28,439
but the second night she will it's not a
4920
02:38:28,439 --> 02:38:30,600
big rush it's cooling you haven't you
4921
02:38:30,600 --> 02:38:31,979
don't want to come across needy you
4922
02:38:31,979 --> 02:38:33,540
don't want to come across desperate so
4923
02:38:33,540 --> 02:38:34,920
if a girl ever says to you oh No not
4924
02:38:34,920 --> 02:38:36,780
tonight the instant answer is yeah all
4925
02:38:36,780 --> 02:38:39,780
right cool you don't try do not be the
4926
02:38:39,780 --> 02:38:42,420
guy like oh stay uh it's super
4927
02:38:42,420 --> 02:38:45,660
unattractive it's super desperate never
4928
02:38:45,660 --> 02:38:47,819
do that if a girl goes to me oh I can't
4929
02:38:47,819 --> 02:38:50,100
stay with you tonight cool
4930
02:38:50,100 --> 02:38:51,600
and then they get pissed off that you
4931
02:38:51,600 --> 02:38:53,939
don't care it's like well it's a subtle
4932
02:38:53,939 --> 02:38:57,260
form of FDB
4933
02:38:57,500 --> 02:38:59,580
in her head she's thinking I came here
4934
02:38:59,580 --> 02:39:00,899
thinking I was going to bang and I
4935
02:39:00,899 --> 02:39:02,160
wasn't sure and now I told him I don't
4936
02:39:02,160 --> 02:39:03,780
want to bang and he doesn't give a [ __ ]
4937
02:39:03,780 --> 02:39:05,700
does he even like me
4938
02:39:05,700 --> 02:39:07,620
I'll flip it on him flip on him like I
4939
02:39:07,620 --> 02:39:08,760
told you in the first
4940
02:39:08,760 --> 02:39:10,560
the first course
4941
02:39:10,560 --> 02:39:12,120
we get a taxi come to mind no I'm gonna
4942
02:39:12,120 --> 02:39:13,080
go home all right cool I'll get your
4943
02:39:13,080 --> 02:39:16,800
taxi instantly bang flip it on him give
4944
02:39:16,800 --> 02:39:18,000
him what they want and watch them lose
4945
02:39:18,000 --> 02:39:20,280
their minds so you don't try then maybe
4946
02:39:20,280 --> 02:39:21,479
the second time you'll [ __ ] her whatever
4947
02:39:21,479 --> 02:39:24,000
but just be clear with your intention
4948
02:39:24,000 --> 02:39:25,680
and she's coming over for a reason so
4949
02:39:25,680 --> 02:39:27,300
that ain't that difficult
4950
02:39:27,300 --> 02:39:31,859
there hello my name is Tristan Tate now
4951
02:39:31,859 --> 02:39:34,140
you've purchased the Andrew Tate how to
4952
02:39:34,140 --> 02:39:36,420
be a g course so I imagine many of you
4953
02:39:36,420 --> 02:39:37,859
know who I am
4954
02:39:37,859 --> 02:39:39,780
I'm Andrew's younger brother and a very
4955
02:39:39,780 --> 02:39:41,520
good friend of Christians
4956
02:39:41,520 --> 02:39:43,439
now there are very few things about game
4957
02:39:43,439 --> 02:39:44,939
that you could teach a man like
4958
02:39:44,939 --> 02:39:47,460
Christian McQueen however when guys like
4959
02:39:47,460 --> 02:39:49,920
us get together we talk we exchange tips
4960
02:39:49,920 --> 02:39:52,920
and I hit him with the genius way I
4961
02:39:52,920 --> 02:39:55,140
organize the contacts in my phone he's
4962
02:39:55,140 --> 02:39:57,420
now using the same system and as people
4963
02:39:57,420 --> 02:39:59,819
who have bought how to be a g course he
4964
02:39:59,819 --> 02:40:02,160
thought I should share it with you
4965
02:40:02,160 --> 02:40:04,380
the way I organize my phone
4966
02:40:04,380 --> 02:40:06,899
is very complex because I'm a man who
4967
02:40:06,899 --> 02:40:08,700
does a lot of different approaches I use
4968
02:40:08,700 --> 02:40:10,319
a lot of dating apps I meet a lot of
4969
02:40:10,319 --> 02:40:11,100
women
4970
02:40:11,100 --> 02:40:13,260
so I need a way of filing them in a way
4971
02:40:13,260 --> 02:40:15,600
that I don't lose track
4972
02:40:15,600 --> 02:40:17,819
I first developed the system some years
4973
02:40:17,819 --> 02:40:18,780
ago
4974
02:40:18,780 --> 02:40:20,460
what happened was I had approached a
4975
02:40:20,460 --> 02:40:22,859
beautiful girl I got her number and I
4976
02:40:22,859 --> 02:40:24,600
was messaging her very hard on WhatsApp
4977
02:40:24,600 --> 02:40:26,700
for a day or two
4978
02:40:26,700 --> 02:40:28,620
I was then messaging too many other
4979
02:40:28,620 --> 02:40:31,080
girls too many other people and I lost
4980
02:40:31,080 --> 02:40:34,260
track of her nine days later she hit me
4981
02:40:34,260 --> 02:40:36,240
with a message I guess you don't really
4982
02:40:36,240 --> 02:40:37,800
want to meet up then
4983
02:40:37,800 --> 02:40:40,200
no matter how I try to explain my way
4984
02:40:40,200 --> 02:40:42,240
out of it and say baby it's okay let's
4985
02:40:42,240 --> 02:40:44,160
still go out she said you've been on
4986
02:40:44,160 --> 02:40:46,560
WhatsApp for nine days online every day
4987
02:40:46,560 --> 02:40:48,899
and you haven't written me once you're
4988
02:40:48,899 --> 02:40:50,819
obviously a player I'm tired of guys
4989
02:40:50,819 --> 02:40:54,180
like you and I never met her again
4990
02:40:54,180 --> 02:40:56,399
the way I organize my phone is based on
4991
02:40:56,399 --> 02:40:58,680
three different elements
4992
02:40:58,680 --> 02:41:01,800
one the priority of the girl in question
4993
02:41:01,800 --> 02:41:04,380
how important she is to me now this is
4994
02:41:04,380 --> 02:41:06,240
either based on looks or her commitment
4995
02:41:06,240 --> 02:41:08,580
level to you your main chick and your
4996
02:41:08,580 --> 02:41:10,080
girlfriends for example are more
4997
02:41:10,080 --> 02:41:11,760
important than the girls you'll call
4998
02:41:11,760 --> 02:41:13,920
late night after the club
4999
02:41:13,920 --> 02:41:16,740
the second element is the name
5000
02:41:16,740 --> 02:41:19,439
now the name isn't just what their name
5001
02:41:19,439 --> 02:41:20,399
is
5002
02:41:20,399 --> 02:41:23,460
for example here in Romania Andrea is a
5003
02:41:23,460 --> 02:41:25,500
very popular name my phone has seven
5004
02:41:25,500 --> 02:41:27,600
Andreas in it so you need to way of
5005
02:41:27,600 --> 02:41:30,600
knowing which Andrea is which the third
5006
02:41:30,600 --> 02:41:32,700
is the location
5007
02:41:32,700 --> 02:41:35,100
it's good to know where the girls in
5008
02:41:35,100 --> 02:41:37,620
your phone are located for example if
5009
02:41:37,620 --> 02:41:39,479
you go to a city once every six months
5010
02:41:39,479 --> 02:41:41,819
or once every three months it's good to
5011
02:41:41,819 --> 02:41:43,500
know who you have in that city that you
5012
02:41:43,500 --> 02:41:45,660
could potentially meet up with
5013
02:41:45,660 --> 02:41:48,359
if I were to store a contact in my phone
5014
02:41:48,359 --> 02:41:50,640
this is how it's done
5015
02:41:50,640 --> 02:41:53,819
first a number between one and three
5016
02:41:53,819 --> 02:41:56,040
the number between one and three is the
5017
02:41:56,040 --> 02:41:57,359
girl's priority
5018
02:41:57,359 --> 02:41:59,399
for example when I wake up every morning
5019
02:41:59,399 --> 02:42:02,819
I press one in my phone book and all the
5020
02:42:02,819 --> 02:42:04,500
girls that appear with the number one
5021
02:42:04,500 --> 02:42:06,240
next to their name are the ones I
5022
02:42:06,240 --> 02:42:09,359
message first thing the hey baby I was
5023
02:42:09,359 --> 02:42:11,399
had a dream about you last night I hope
5024
02:42:11,399 --> 02:42:12,960
to see you real soon now these are your
5025
02:42:12,960 --> 02:42:15,359
main chicks your girlfriends the girls
5026
02:42:15,359 --> 02:42:17,040
that you really love banging and you see
5027
02:42:17,040 --> 02:42:18,960
three or four times a week these are
5028
02:42:18,960 --> 02:42:20,220
your ones
5029
02:42:20,220 --> 02:42:22,979
your twos are the girls that you care
5030
02:42:22,979 --> 02:42:24,720
about but not as much as your number
5031
02:42:24,720 --> 02:42:26,760
ones the girls who think you're busier
5032
02:42:26,760 --> 02:42:28,380
than you are but you see once every 10
5033
02:42:28,380 --> 02:42:30,180
days every two weeks there's something
5034
02:42:30,180 --> 02:42:31,740
about her you really appreciate and you
5035
02:42:31,740 --> 02:42:33,359
really like but she's never going to be
5036
02:42:33,359 --> 02:42:35,760
a main chick when a two sends you a
5037
02:42:35,760 --> 02:42:37,680
message you reply to it too immediately
5038
02:42:37,680 --> 02:42:39,300
but you don't necessarily have to
5039
02:42:39,300 --> 02:42:40,859
message her every morning when you wake
5040
02:42:40,859 --> 02:42:42,899
up you have to take care of your tubes
5041
02:42:42,899 --> 02:42:44,460
because you don't want to lose them
5042
02:42:44,460 --> 02:42:46,620
because they matter to you somewhat but
5043
02:42:46,620 --> 02:42:48,000
you don't have to maintain them
5044
02:42:48,000 --> 02:42:49,859
constantly like you do with your most
5045
02:42:49,859 --> 02:42:51,359
important girls
5046
02:42:51,359 --> 02:42:53,520
your threes are the kind of girls that
5047
02:42:53,520 --> 02:42:55,920
you call after a night out it's five
5048
02:42:55,920 --> 02:42:59,160
o'clock you're in the club you're bored
5049
02:42:59,160 --> 02:43:00,780
that's when you message your threes if
5050
02:43:00,780 --> 02:43:02,160
they message you at a time like that
5051
02:43:02,160 --> 02:43:04,560
reply but a three is not so important
5052
02:43:04,560 --> 02:43:06,420
that when she messages you she can
5053
02:43:06,420 --> 02:43:08,700
instantly demand your time you manage
5054
02:43:08,700 --> 02:43:11,399
your threes on your own terms when you
5055
02:43:11,399 --> 02:43:12,540
get bored and you're sitting on your
5056
02:43:12,540 --> 02:43:13,920
phone for three hours waiting at the
5057
02:43:13,920 --> 02:43:15,960
airport message your ones twos and
5058
02:43:15,960 --> 02:43:17,819
threes keep all your girls entertained
5059
02:43:17,819 --> 02:43:20,220
keep all of them interested now this
5060
02:43:20,220 --> 02:43:22,740
priority system would have stopped me
5061
02:43:22,740 --> 02:43:24,479
from making the mistake that I made with
5062
02:43:24,479 --> 02:43:26,280
that girl I would have saved her as a
5063
02:43:26,280 --> 02:43:28,620
one because she was stunningly hot I was
5064
02:43:28,620 --> 02:43:30,300
actively pursuing her and trying to bang
5065
02:43:30,300 --> 02:43:32,640
her so for those nine days I ignored her
5066
02:43:32,640 --> 02:43:33,840
she would have got a good morning
5067
02:43:33,840 --> 02:43:37,800
message every single morning
5068
02:43:37,800 --> 02:43:40,620
saving a girl's name is very important
5069
02:43:40,620 --> 02:43:42,180
to do correctly
5070
02:43:42,180 --> 02:43:43,800
and there are many girls who have the
5071
02:43:43,800 --> 02:43:46,020
same name if you do a lot of approaches
5072
02:43:46,020 --> 02:43:47,580
and you're trying to meet lots of
5073
02:43:47,580 --> 02:43:48,660
different women you're going to
5074
02:43:48,660 --> 02:43:50,220
encounter some girls that you don't even
5075
02:43:50,220 --> 02:43:51,840
remember meeting especially when you're
5076
02:43:51,840 --> 02:43:53,939
out in clubs drunk so when you save
5077
02:43:53,939 --> 02:43:56,160
their contact details make it as clear
5078
02:43:56,160 --> 02:43:59,160
as you like what I like to do is her
5079
02:43:59,160 --> 02:44:01,319
name followed by her Instagram handle so
5080
02:44:01,319 --> 02:44:03,180
I can always check how hot she is and
5081
02:44:03,180 --> 02:44:04,859
follow up on how good she looks to make
5082
02:44:04,859 --> 02:44:06,240
sure that my eyes weren't deceiving me
5083
02:44:06,240 --> 02:44:08,760
after 20 bottles of vodka
5084
02:44:08,760 --> 02:44:10,500
the girl's name
5085
02:44:10,500 --> 02:44:13,680
is Andrea for example her Instagram tag
5086
02:44:13,680 --> 02:44:16,319
or Andrea the blonde that I met in this
5087
02:44:16,319 --> 02:44:17,160
club
5088
02:44:17,160 --> 02:44:19,140
that's the way to save your girls names
5089
02:44:19,140 --> 02:44:20,939
that way you can't make a mistake and
5090
02:44:20,939 --> 02:44:23,100
you can't do what I've done Christian
5091
02:44:23,100 --> 02:44:24,960
has done and and you have done many
5092
02:44:24,960 --> 02:44:27,120
times before which is confused a girl
5093
02:44:27,120 --> 02:44:28,800
for somebody else you instantly lose
5094
02:44:28,800 --> 02:44:30,120
them
5095
02:44:30,120 --> 02:44:31,979
the third most important thing to put
5096
02:44:31,979 --> 02:44:34,200
when you're saving your contact in your
5097
02:44:34,200 --> 02:44:37,020
phone is the city name now this takes a
5098
02:44:37,020 --> 02:44:38,760
very long time for it to actually become
5099
02:44:38,760 --> 02:44:41,280
useful but as you slowly build up your
5100
02:44:41,280 --> 02:44:43,380
contacts list as a man who travels and
5101
02:44:43,380 --> 02:44:45,660
does approaches worldwide like me you
5102
02:44:45,660 --> 02:44:48,600
slowly accumulate a list of girls in
5103
02:44:48,600 --> 02:44:49,859
various cities
5104
02:44:49,859 --> 02:44:51,960
so there are cities you visit once every
5105
02:44:51,960 --> 02:44:54,600
six months or once every three months me
5106
02:44:54,600 --> 02:44:57,060
Marbella for example I can go to
5107
02:44:57,060 --> 02:44:59,700
Marbella type Marbella into my phone
5108
02:44:59,700 --> 02:45:01,979
book and the six or seven numbers I have
5109
02:45:01,979 --> 02:45:04,380
in Marbella will appear you can then hit
5110
02:45:04,380 --> 02:45:06,600
that girl with a hey babe just came to
5111
02:45:06,600 --> 02:45:08,160
Marbella you're the first person I
5112
02:45:08,160 --> 02:45:10,500
thought of she'll reply oh my God I
5113
02:45:10,500 --> 02:45:11,700
didn't know you still remembered me
5114
02:45:11,700 --> 02:45:13,740
doesn't matter if you remembered her you
5115
02:45:13,740 --> 02:45:15,600
know she lives in Marbella because the
5116
02:45:15,600 --> 02:45:18,120
contact is saved as Marbella so to recap
5117
02:45:18,120 --> 02:45:19,859
every time you save a girl's number in
5118
02:45:19,859 --> 02:45:22,380
your phone if I'm in New York City and I
5119
02:45:22,380 --> 02:45:23,880
approach a beautiful brunette named
5120
02:45:23,880 --> 02:45:26,399
Samantha she's not that good looking but
5121
02:45:26,399 --> 02:45:27,840
I definitely want to see her if I'm
5122
02:45:27,840 --> 02:45:31,620
there I'd save her as three Samantha her
5123
02:45:31,620 --> 02:45:34,260
Instagram handle and New York City
5124
02:45:34,260 --> 02:45:36,180
when I'm in New York six months down the
5125
02:45:36,180 --> 02:45:38,460
line and I take New York City I could
5126
02:45:38,460 --> 02:45:40,859
see Samantha's numbers there if Samantha
5127
02:45:40,859 --> 02:45:43,260
was a 10 out of 10 gorgeous girl who
5128
02:45:43,260 --> 02:45:44,939
lived here in my city of Bucharest I'd
5129
02:45:44,939 --> 02:45:49,500
say her as one Samantha Bucharest
5130
02:45:49,500 --> 02:45:52,200
that way every day when I wake up I type
5131
02:45:52,200 --> 02:45:54,420
number one in my phone Samantha appears
5132
02:45:54,420 --> 02:45:56,520
along with my other priority girls the
5133
02:45:56,520 --> 02:45:58,859
girls I have the girls I badly want and
5134
02:45:58,859 --> 02:46:00,540
she gets messaged every single day
5135
02:46:00,540 --> 02:46:03,359
there's no chance I forget
5136
02:46:03,359 --> 02:46:04,859
disclaimer
5137
02:46:04,859 --> 02:46:07,560
the one two and three depending on the
5138
02:46:07,560 --> 02:46:09,359
operating system of your phone you have
5139
02:46:09,359 --> 02:46:12,060
to be careful with my phone the tanino
5140
02:46:12,060 --> 02:46:14,700
Lamborghini typing the number one comes
5141
02:46:14,700 --> 02:46:16,319
up with my contacts that start with one
5142
02:46:16,319 --> 02:46:18,720
I do realize that with some phones if
5143
02:46:18,720 --> 02:46:20,819
you press one it will start to dial a
5144
02:46:20,819 --> 02:46:23,160
number one or show every number with a
5145
02:46:23,160 --> 02:46:25,200
one in it in which case you simply save
5146
02:46:25,200 --> 02:46:28,859
it as o n e phonetically spell the
5147
02:46:28,859 --> 02:46:30,960
number one two and three but it is the
5148
02:46:30,960 --> 02:46:33,000
same system whether you're new to the
5149
02:46:33,000 --> 02:46:34,740
game of approaching and dating multiple
5150
02:46:34,740 --> 02:46:37,560
women or it's something you already do I
5151
02:46:37,560 --> 02:46:39,540
hope you find this system useful
5152
02:46:39,540 --> 02:46:41,720
thanks for listening
5153
02:46:41,720 --> 02:46:43,979
[Music]
5154
02:46:43,979 --> 02:46:45,960
welcome to the six week iron mind
5155
02:46:45,960 --> 02:46:48,600
training if you bought this course you
5156
02:46:48,600 --> 02:46:50,520
may have seen one of my first videos if
5157
02:46:50,520 --> 02:46:51,840
not the link is going to be below here
5158
02:46:51,840 --> 02:46:53,700
where I explain the secrets to having an
5159
02:46:53,700 --> 02:46:55,620
iron mindset so I'm going to preach the
5160
02:46:55,620 --> 02:46:57,359
virtues of an iron mindset I know all of
5161
02:46:57,359 --> 02:46:59,000
you bought this because you understand
5162
02:46:59,000 --> 02:47:01,560
how important it is to have a mindset of
5163
02:47:01,560 --> 02:47:03,120
iron but I'm going to sit here and once
5164
02:47:03,120 --> 02:47:04,859
again explain to you how different the
5165
02:47:04,859 --> 02:47:07,020
world is when you have a mind which
5166
02:47:07,020 --> 02:47:09,479
isn't worked and affected easily by
5167
02:47:09,479 --> 02:47:11,340
outside influences you are never going
5168
02:47:11,340 --> 02:47:13,200
to become a robot this has nothing to do
5169
02:47:13,200 --> 02:47:15,240
with not feeling emotions it's nothing
5170
02:47:15,240 --> 02:47:17,700
to do with just becoming an empty
5171
02:47:17,700 --> 02:47:19,740
emotionless void of a person that's not
5172
02:47:19,740 --> 02:47:21,780
what this is this is about understanding
5173
02:47:21,780 --> 02:47:23,819
that you're a human being you're going
5174
02:47:23,819 --> 02:47:25,560
to feel emotions this is a beautiful
5175
02:47:25,560 --> 02:47:27,899
thing and making sure that you use them
5176
02:47:27,899 --> 02:47:29,520
in the correct way
5177
02:47:29,520 --> 02:47:32,340
A and B you do not ever let them stop
5178
02:47:32,340 --> 02:47:34,500
you doing what you're supposed to do I
5179
02:47:34,500 --> 02:47:36,180
say to people often I haven't felt like
5180
02:47:36,180 --> 02:47:38,040
going to the gym in two years I'm
5181
02:47:38,040 --> 02:47:39,420
wearing my gym clothes right now I just
5182
02:47:39,420 --> 02:47:41,280
finished training I haven't felt like
5183
02:47:41,280 --> 02:47:43,979
training in two years I after 10 years
5184
02:47:43,979 --> 02:47:45,780
of professional fighting after giving my
5185
02:47:45,780 --> 02:47:48,600
life to exercise genuinely I have not
5186
02:47:48,600 --> 02:47:50,580
woke up and felt like oh I really want
5187
02:47:50,580 --> 02:47:52,080
to train I haven't felt that way in a
5188
02:47:52,080 --> 02:47:53,160
long time that's why I retired from
5189
02:47:53,160 --> 02:47:55,200
fighting but I have still gone and I
5190
02:47:55,200 --> 02:47:56,819
have still trained regardless of how I
5191
02:47:56,819 --> 02:47:57,600
feel
5192
02:47:57,600 --> 02:47:59,939
so this is one of the tenants and
5193
02:47:59,939 --> 02:48:00,840
there's going to be a lot of things
5194
02:48:00,840 --> 02:48:02,640
you're going to learn of an iron mindset
5195
02:48:02,640 --> 02:48:03,720
it's the ability to not let your
5196
02:48:03,720 --> 02:48:05,399
feelings affect you and sometimes to do
5197
02:48:05,399 --> 02:48:06,840
the complete opposite of how you feel
5198
02:48:06,840 --> 02:48:08,580
because you're not going to very often
5199
02:48:08,580 --> 02:48:10,020
feel like working hard you're not going
5200
02:48:10,020 --> 02:48:11,280
to always feel like doing the right
5201
02:48:11,280 --> 02:48:12,840
thing you're not always going to be
5202
02:48:12,840 --> 02:48:15,000
motivated the idea that you need to be
5203
02:48:15,000 --> 02:48:17,640
constantly motivated shows how weak your
5204
02:48:17,640 --> 02:48:19,620
mindset is I don't need motivation to go
5205
02:48:19,620 --> 02:48:21,720
to the gym I cannot want to go with
5206
02:48:21,720 --> 02:48:23,460
every fiber of my being I will still be
5207
02:48:23,460 --> 02:48:26,880
there because I use my cerebral ability
5208
02:48:26,880 --> 02:48:28,620
I use my mind and I logically decide
5209
02:48:28,620 --> 02:48:29,640
what I'm going to do with my day
5210
02:48:29,640 --> 02:48:31,800
regardless of how I feel regardless of
5211
02:48:31,800 --> 02:48:33,300
whether I'm motivated or not this course
5212
02:48:33,300 --> 02:48:35,340
is going to be six weeks that's going to
5213
02:48:35,340 --> 02:48:37,140
teach you how to put together a mindset
5214
02:48:37,140 --> 02:48:38,220
that allows you to get things done
5215
02:48:38,220 --> 02:48:40,080
because that's all life is and that's
5216
02:48:40,080 --> 02:48:42,060
all the world is life is just getting
5217
02:48:42,060 --> 02:48:44,040
things done doing the right things doing
5218
02:48:44,040 --> 02:48:45,359
the important things making sure they're
5219
02:48:45,359 --> 02:48:47,580
done efficiently and thoroughly so you
5220
02:48:47,580 --> 02:48:49,319
live the best possible life it's as
5221
02:48:49,319 --> 02:48:50,580
simple as that it's not particularly
5222
02:48:50,580 --> 02:48:52,740
complicated a lot of the lessons that
5223
02:48:52,740 --> 02:48:54,600
you would need to learn I gave out in my
5224
02:48:54,600 --> 02:48:56,399
free video so if you've not seen that
5225
02:48:56,399 --> 02:48:58,380
video once again the link is below watch
5226
02:48:58,380 --> 02:49:00,180
that video for a start because that
5227
02:49:00,180 --> 02:49:01,380
teaches you some very very important
5228
02:49:01,380 --> 02:49:02,760
things about where your mind should be
5229
02:49:02,760 --> 02:49:05,340
to begin and this six-week training is
5230
02:49:05,340 --> 02:49:06,899
going to be about exercises you can do
5231
02:49:06,899 --> 02:49:09,240
to teach yourself slowly over time to
5232
02:49:09,240 --> 02:49:11,040
put together a mindset that prevents you
5233
02:49:11,040 --> 02:49:12,780
from failure because if you have a
5234
02:49:12,780 --> 02:49:14,399
mindset that doesn't allow you to fail
5235
02:49:14,399 --> 02:49:15,960
then you're simply going to win there's
5236
02:49:15,960 --> 02:49:17,700
no other option so that's what this is
5237
02:49:17,700 --> 02:49:19,319
all about so in the first week we're
5238
02:49:19,319 --> 02:49:20,220
going to learn something which is
5239
02:49:20,220 --> 02:49:22,380
extremely basic but it's extremely
5240
02:49:22,380 --> 02:49:24,240
important I'm not going to be and I
5241
02:49:24,240 --> 02:49:25,800
don't want to be one of those guys who's
5242
02:49:25,800 --> 02:49:26,939
like
5243
02:49:26,939 --> 02:49:29,399
motivation inspirational that I've never
5244
02:49:29,399 --> 02:49:31,140
been one of them people I don't believe
5245
02:49:31,140 --> 02:49:32,700
in motivation inspiration I don't
5246
02:49:32,700 --> 02:49:33,840
believe in that crap I don't believe
5247
02:49:33,840 --> 02:49:35,160
that you need motivation to get things
5248
02:49:35,160 --> 02:49:36,960
done I'm not going to sit here and just
5249
02:49:36,960 --> 02:49:38,280
talk a whole bunch of motivational
5250
02:49:38,280 --> 02:49:39,960
things to make you feel good what I'm
5251
02:49:39,960 --> 02:49:40,800
going to do is I'm going to tell you the
5252
02:49:40,800 --> 02:49:42,720
things I always did that allowed me to
5253
02:49:42,720 --> 02:49:43,979
put together the mindset I currently
5254
02:49:43,979 --> 02:49:46,260
have so
5255
02:49:46,260 --> 02:49:49,380
if you look at any story literally any
5256
02:49:49,380 --> 02:49:51,660
story with a hero in it they all have
5257
02:49:51,660 --> 02:49:53,580
one thing in common and that thing is
5258
02:49:53,580 --> 02:49:56,160
that there's always a villain you cannot
5259
02:49:56,160 --> 02:49:57,840
have a hero without a villain it doesn't
5260
02:49:57,840 --> 02:49:59,340
matter you can think of any superhero
5261
02:49:59,340 --> 02:50:01,979
any comic book any any book you can
5262
02:50:01,979 --> 02:50:03,840
think of any movie there's always a good
5263
02:50:03,840 --> 02:50:05,760
guy and there's a bad guy so for the
5264
02:50:05,760 --> 02:50:08,460
good guy to exist there has to be a bad
5265
02:50:08,460 --> 02:50:10,800
guy there's no other way for the duality
5266
02:50:10,800 --> 02:50:12,660
of the universe to continue without this
5267
02:50:12,660 --> 02:50:14,700
basic tenet so you want to be the good
5268
02:50:14,700 --> 02:50:16,740
guy in your story you want and in every
5269
02:50:16,740 --> 02:50:18,960
I've said this before actually as a man
5270
02:50:18,960 --> 02:50:20,460
life is going to be difficult it's more
5271
02:50:20,460 --> 02:50:21,660
difficult than being a woman it's more
5272
02:50:21,660 --> 02:50:23,040
difficult than anything else so it's
5273
02:50:23,040 --> 02:50:24,960
very easy to see yourself life is
5274
02:50:24,960 --> 02:50:26,160
actually easier as a whole if you see
5275
02:50:26,160 --> 02:50:27,600
yourself as a hero because in every
5276
02:50:27,600 --> 02:50:29,760
single hero story the hero suffers he
5277
02:50:29,760 --> 02:50:31,800
has a hard time and if you understand
5278
02:50:31,800 --> 02:50:33,120
that you're suffering because you're a
5279
02:50:33,120 --> 02:50:34,500
hero then the suffering begins to make
5280
02:50:34,500 --> 02:50:35,340
sense
5281
02:50:35,340 --> 02:50:36,540
so you can be sitting here right now
5282
02:50:36,540 --> 02:50:38,460
going my woman doesn't respect me I have
5283
02:50:38,460 --> 02:50:40,080
no money in the bank this is difficult
5284
02:50:40,080 --> 02:50:42,000
I'm struggling here I'm struggling there
5285
02:50:42,000 --> 02:50:43,439
you can feel sorry for yourself or you
5286
02:50:43,439 --> 02:50:44,819
can say yeah my woman doesn't respect me
5287
02:50:44,819 --> 02:50:46,260
I'm struggling I can't make money but
5288
02:50:46,260 --> 02:50:47,340
you know what that's that's because I'm
5289
02:50:47,340 --> 02:50:49,140
a [ __ ] superhero and my life's gonna
5290
02:50:49,140 --> 02:50:51,300
be hard because I'm a man and as a hero
5291
02:50:51,300 --> 02:50:52,439
it's going to be difficult these are the
5292
02:50:52,439 --> 02:50:53,939
tests and the trials and tribulations I
5293
02:50:53,939 --> 02:50:55,080
have to go through to become someone
5294
02:50:55,080 --> 02:50:57,420
every single male superhero went through
5295
02:50:57,420 --> 02:50:59,520
a whole ton of [ __ ] before he became
5296
02:50:59,520 --> 02:51:01,500
superhero you've seen the Batman movies
5297
02:51:01,500 --> 02:51:04,380
he was his parents died he was he was
5298
02:51:04,380 --> 02:51:06,420
locked up in jail all these bad things
5299
02:51:06,420 --> 02:51:08,220
happen and then they emerge as a hero
5300
02:51:08,220 --> 02:51:09,660
and this is done for a reason because
5301
02:51:09,660 --> 02:51:11,399
it's the reality of life especially as a
5302
02:51:11,399 --> 02:51:13,020
man so right now you have to understand
5303
02:51:13,020 --> 02:51:14,760
that you're the hero in this movie and
5304
02:51:14,760 --> 02:51:15,960
if you're struggling you're struggling
5305
02:51:15,960 --> 02:51:18,120
for a very important reason and how you
5306
02:51:18,120 --> 02:51:19,859
handle these struggles and how you deal
5307
02:51:19,859 --> 02:51:21,420
with these struggles are going to decide
5308
02:51:21,420 --> 02:51:22,439
the kind of person you're going to be
5309
02:51:22,439 --> 02:51:23,340
afterwards you're going to be a
5310
02:51:23,340 --> 02:51:24,780
superhero or you're going to succumb to
5311
02:51:24,780 --> 02:51:26,399
them you're going to fail so be happy
5312
02:51:26,399 --> 02:51:27,359
that you're struggling because that's
5313
02:51:27,359 --> 02:51:29,460
important the first thing second thing
5314
02:51:29,460 --> 02:51:31,740
is there has to be a villain now most
5315
02:51:31,740 --> 02:51:33,180
people think their villain is someone
5316
02:51:33,180 --> 02:51:34,319
else
5317
02:51:34,319 --> 02:51:36,180
you see this all the time the villain's
5318
02:51:36,180 --> 02:51:37,500
the opposite the hero so if you're
5319
02:51:37,500 --> 02:51:38,640
sitting at home and you haven't got much
5320
02:51:38,640 --> 02:51:40,020
money and you're and you're broke and
5321
02:51:40,020 --> 02:51:41,160
you're pissed off and you're depressed
5322
02:51:41,160 --> 02:51:42,780
and you look at me and I have four
5323
02:51:42,780 --> 02:51:44,160
supercars and all these girls I'm
5324
02:51:44,160 --> 02:51:45,479
traveling the world I Go Everywhere I
5325
02:51:45,479 --> 02:51:47,100
want you may think I'm your villain
5326
02:51:47,100 --> 02:51:48,899
people look at other people and say oh
5327
02:51:48,899 --> 02:51:50,520
that guy has this this guy has this and
5328
02:51:50,520 --> 02:51:51,600
they become envious they think that's
5329
02:51:51,600 --> 02:51:53,399
the villain that's not true that's not
5330
02:51:53,399 --> 02:51:55,020
the case because every single person has
5331
02:51:55,020 --> 02:51:57,180
different circumstances there are things
5332
02:51:57,180 --> 02:51:58,439
you have that I don't have and there's
5333
02:51:58,439 --> 02:52:01,260
things I have that you don't have so I
5334
02:52:01,260 --> 02:52:03,359
may have had a genetic gift over you for
5335
02:52:03,359 --> 02:52:04,800
example because I'm a fantastic
5336
02:52:04,800 --> 02:52:06,660
kickboxer but you may have been born
5337
02:52:06,660 --> 02:52:08,279
more wealthy than me I was born a very
5338
02:52:08,279 --> 02:52:10,859
very poor family so I had advantages and
5339
02:52:10,859 --> 02:52:12,420
disadvantages you had advantages and
5340
02:52:12,420 --> 02:52:13,800
disadvantages so comparing yourself to
5341
02:52:13,800 --> 02:52:15,720
other people is asinine and it's a name
5342
02:52:15,720 --> 02:52:16,859
because it's not a level Fair playing
5343
02:52:16,859 --> 02:52:18,420
Ground there are some people who are
5344
02:52:18,420 --> 02:52:20,460
born to millionaire parents who are
5345
02:52:20,460 --> 02:52:23,040
gorgeous model good looking and have six
5346
02:52:23,040 --> 02:52:25,020
packs without trying some people are
5347
02:52:25,020 --> 02:52:26,700
lucky like that that's just how it is so
5348
02:52:26,700 --> 02:52:27,840
comparing yourself to these people is
5349
02:52:27,840 --> 02:52:29,460
not going to help you your villain is
5350
02:52:29,460 --> 02:52:31,080
nobody else your villain is someone
5351
02:52:31,080 --> 02:52:32,880
you're going to create and you'll create
5352
02:52:32,880 --> 02:52:33,840
your villain because he's going to
5353
02:52:33,840 --> 02:52:35,220
motivate you to be the most powerful
5354
02:52:35,220 --> 02:52:37,319
hero you can possibly be so you're going
5355
02:52:37,319 --> 02:52:39,300
to create your villain and this is the
5356
02:52:39,300 --> 02:52:41,160
task for the first week this is a
5357
02:52:41,160 --> 02:52:43,080
six-week training course and over each
5358
02:52:43,080 --> 02:52:44,819
week you have a very important task and
5359
02:52:44,819 --> 02:52:46,319
the task for this week is to create your
5360
02:52:46,319 --> 02:52:48,120
villain to make sure that there was no
5361
02:52:48,120 --> 02:52:49,740
disadvantages involved your villain is
5362
02:52:49,740 --> 02:52:51,420
going to be a clone of you
5363
02:52:51,420 --> 02:52:52,740
but what your villain is going to have
5364
02:52:52,740 --> 02:52:54,000
is he's going to have some things you
5365
02:52:54,000 --> 02:52:55,140
don't have
5366
02:52:55,140 --> 02:52:56,460
and your villain is going to be the
5367
02:52:56,460 --> 02:52:59,700
person who basically without requirement
5368
02:52:59,700 --> 02:53:01,680
for motivation without requirement
5369
02:53:01,680 --> 02:53:03,779
without being no matter how he feels
5370
02:53:03,779 --> 02:53:06,060
that day or how stressed he is from work
5371
02:53:06,060 --> 02:53:08,100
regardless of what happens to him your
5372
02:53:08,100 --> 02:53:09,420
villain is going to be the guy who
5373
02:53:09,420 --> 02:53:13,140
always does exactly what he wants to do
5374
02:53:13,140 --> 02:53:14,340
so your villain is going to be the guy
5375
02:53:14,340 --> 02:53:16,620
who goes to the gym regardless of how he
5376
02:53:16,620 --> 02:53:17,580
feels
5377
02:53:17,580 --> 02:53:19,740
your villain's going to be the guy who
5378
02:53:19,740 --> 02:53:21,600
approaches every beautiful girl he ever
5379
02:53:21,600 --> 02:53:23,700
sees and says hey I really think you're
5380
02:53:23,700 --> 02:53:25,260
beautiful goes over to him and talks to
5381
02:53:25,260 --> 02:53:26,700
them your village is going to be the guy
5382
02:53:26,700 --> 02:53:28,380
who asks for a raise at work your
5383
02:53:28,380 --> 02:53:29,939
villain's going to be the guy who does
5384
02:53:29,939 --> 02:53:32,220
everything he wants regardless of how he
5385
02:53:32,220 --> 02:53:33,600
feels regardless if he's not motivated
5386
02:53:33,600 --> 02:53:35,040
or not regardless if he's shy to talk
5387
02:53:35,040 --> 02:53:36,540
that girl or people are watching or his
5388
02:53:36,540 --> 02:53:37,800
ankle hurts he doesn't want to go to the
5389
02:53:37,800 --> 02:53:40,260
gym whatever or his boss is he thinks
5390
02:53:40,260 --> 02:53:41,580
his boss is going to fire him your
5391
02:53:41,580 --> 02:53:43,620
villain is that dude who does anything
5392
02:53:43,620 --> 02:53:45,960
he wants to do so for this week you have
5393
02:53:45,960 --> 02:53:47,460
to sit and you have to make a list of
5394
02:53:47,460 --> 02:53:49,560
all the things you sit there and say if
5395
02:53:49,560 --> 02:53:51,720
I did everything I want to do if I were
5396
02:53:51,720 --> 02:53:52,680
to be the best version of myself
5397
02:53:52,680 --> 02:53:54,359
possible what would I do okay well I go
5398
02:53:54,359 --> 02:53:56,100
to the gym every day I get up at 6am and
5399
02:53:56,100 --> 02:53:57,479
I go to the gym every day you'll write
5400
02:53:57,479 --> 02:53:59,040
that down I'd approach every beautiful
5401
02:53:59,040 --> 02:54:00,540
girl I ever see and I'd introduce myself
5402
02:54:00,540 --> 02:54:01,979
and try and get their Instagram on their
5403
02:54:01,979 --> 02:54:03,840
number you'd write that down for example
5404
02:54:03,840 --> 02:54:05,700
I'd start a side business even though I
5405
02:54:05,700 --> 02:54:07,319
don't know anything about it I'd learn
5406
02:54:07,319 --> 02:54:08,880
how to make websites my villain's the
5407
02:54:08,880 --> 02:54:10,200
kind of guy who would sit there and he'd
5408
02:54:10,200 --> 02:54:12,180
learn how to do it by himself I need to
5409
02:54:12,180 --> 02:54:13,800
start his own online business write that
5410
02:54:13,800 --> 02:54:15,180
down my villain's the kind of guy who
5411
02:54:15,180 --> 02:54:17,580
reads really important books I'm I say I
5412
02:54:17,580 --> 02:54:19,560
don't have time but my enemy this
5413
02:54:19,560 --> 02:54:21,779
villain he reads books he finds time he
5414
02:54:21,779 --> 02:54:23,819
doesn't watch TV ever he doesn't waste
5415
02:54:23,819 --> 02:54:25,620
time ever he doesn't eat junk food he
5416
02:54:25,620 --> 02:54:27,840
reads books writes it now I needed to
5417
02:54:27,840 --> 02:54:29,939
make a list now this list at first
5418
02:54:29,939 --> 02:54:31,380
should be easy for you but then you're
5419
02:54:31,380 --> 02:54:32,580
gonna get to about seven or eight things
5420
02:54:32,580 --> 02:54:34,140
you're gonna stop no this list needs to
5421
02:54:34,140 --> 02:54:37,800
be 25 to 30 points long minimum this guy
5422
02:54:37,800 --> 02:54:39,660
you're building your arch nemesis you
5423
02:54:39,660 --> 02:54:41,640
have to write down every single quality
5424
02:54:41,640 --> 02:54:43,740
about this guy what he does it goes to
5425
02:54:43,740 --> 02:54:46,080
the gym every day 6 a.m he doesn't watch
5426
02:54:46,080 --> 02:54:48,120
TV he doesn't eat junk food he goes up
5427
02:54:48,120 --> 02:54:49,260
to beautiful girls
5428
02:54:49,260 --> 02:54:51,779
etc etc etc 25 are 30 points long
5429
02:54:51,779 --> 02:54:53,520
because this is going to become your
5430
02:54:53,520 --> 02:54:55,620
enemy for the next six weeks of training
5431
02:54:55,620 --> 02:54:57,120
you want to become a hero you need
5432
02:54:57,120 --> 02:54:58,319
someone to battle against this is who
5433
02:54:58,319 --> 02:54:59,340
you're battling against you're battling
5434
02:54:59,340 --> 02:55:00,779
against a better version of yourself a
5435
02:55:00,779 --> 02:55:02,220
version of yourself that doesn't succumb
5436
02:55:02,220 --> 02:55:04,080
to how he feels but does what he's
5437
02:55:04,080 --> 02:55:06,000
supposed to do anyway so this is who
5438
02:55:06,000 --> 02:55:08,100
your villain's going to be and when
5439
02:55:08,100 --> 02:55:10,979
you're writing down this list
5440
02:55:10,979 --> 02:55:12,540
all the qualities your villain has
5441
02:55:12,540 --> 02:55:15,420
imagine what this person looks like you
5442
02:55:15,420 --> 02:55:17,160
have to put genuine effort into this you
5443
02:55:17,160 --> 02:55:18,420
have to imagine what he looks like
5444
02:55:18,420 --> 02:55:20,399
imagine how he walks imagine how he
5445
02:55:20,399 --> 02:55:22,200
talks imagine what people think when
5446
02:55:22,200 --> 02:55:24,359
they see him imagine how different you
5447
02:55:24,359 --> 02:55:25,680
would be if you had been going to the
5448
02:55:25,680 --> 02:55:27,600
gym every single day for an hour and a
5449
02:55:27,600 --> 02:55:29,580
half every single day for the last two
5450
02:55:29,580 --> 02:55:32,279
three four years imagine it imagine how
5451
02:55:32,279 --> 02:55:33,300
differently people would look at you
5452
02:55:33,300 --> 02:55:34,680
imagine how differently females would
5453
02:55:34,680 --> 02:55:36,600
would treat you if you were a jack like
5454
02:55:36,600 --> 02:55:38,399
that guy would be you have to sit and
5455
02:55:38,399 --> 02:55:39,540
you have to put down all these qualities
5456
02:55:39,540 --> 02:55:41,100
and then once the qualities Are there 25
5457
02:55:41,100 --> 02:55:42,840
or 30 minimum then you have to imagine
5458
02:55:42,840 --> 02:55:44,760
what kind of person this is you have to
5459
02:55:44,760 --> 02:55:46,020
imagine what he looks like what he talks
5460
02:55:46,020 --> 02:55:47,819
like what he thinks like imagine how he
5461
02:55:47,819 --> 02:55:49,319
views the world because this is who
5462
02:55:49,319 --> 02:55:51,000
you're going to be battling against so
5463
02:55:51,000 --> 02:55:52,319
you have to put genuine effort into
5464
02:55:52,319 --> 02:55:53,399
constructing this person and
5465
02:55:53,399 --> 02:55:55,560
understanding this person the reason I'm
5466
02:55:55,560 --> 02:55:57,060
saying do this because this is what
5467
02:55:57,060 --> 02:55:59,640
motivates me every single day
5468
02:55:59,640 --> 02:56:01,260
when I was training for a fight the
5469
02:56:01,260 --> 02:56:02,520
reason I'd always go train is because I
5470
02:56:02,520 --> 02:56:04,500
knew my enemy was training but when I
5471
02:56:04,500 --> 02:56:05,640
stopped fighting professionally I
5472
02:56:05,640 --> 02:56:08,460
thought well what enemy do I have and I
5473
02:56:08,460 --> 02:56:10,260
realized I had to create my own
5474
02:56:10,260 --> 02:56:12,300
so when I don't feel like going to the
5475
02:56:12,300 --> 02:56:15,779
gym I imagine I've built my own enemy I
5476
02:56:15,779 --> 02:56:17,580
won't even list all the things that my
5477
02:56:17,580 --> 02:56:19,140
enemy has he has a whole bunch of [ __ ] I
5478
02:56:19,140 --> 02:56:21,180
don't have and he's a it would be an
5479
02:56:21,180 --> 02:56:22,859
impossible nearly impossible person to
5480
02:56:22,859 --> 02:56:23,520
be
5481
02:56:23,520 --> 02:56:24,899
but when I sit and I don't feel like
5482
02:56:24,899 --> 02:56:26,279
going to the gym I know my enemy's
5483
02:56:26,279 --> 02:56:27,779
training because he trains no matter
5484
02:56:27,779 --> 02:56:29,220
what regardless of how he feels
5485
02:56:29,220 --> 02:56:30,899
regardless if he's pissed off or if
5486
02:56:30,899 --> 02:56:32,760
there's traffic or it's raining or he's
5487
02:56:32,760 --> 02:56:35,520
tired my enemy trains when I see a girl
5488
02:56:35,520 --> 02:56:36,720
and she's beautiful but all her friends
5489
02:56:36,720 --> 02:56:37,680
are there I'm afraid they're gonna laugh
5490
02:56:37,680 --> 02:56:39,359
at me my enemy wouldn't give a [ __ ] he'd
5491
02:56:39,359 --> 02:56:40,859
go over there anyway that's who he is
5492
02:56:40,859 --> 02:56:41,880
he's the man
5493
02:56:41,880 --> 02:56:44,220
so when I understood who I was truly
5494
02:56:44,220 --> 02:56:45,300
battling against and you have two
5495
02:56:45,300 --> 02:56:46,740
choices you either rise up to try and
5496
02:56:46,740 --> 02:56:48,120
take him on or you become a little [ __ ]
5497
02:56:48,120 --> 02:56:50,399
you have the choice do I want to lose to
5498
02:56:50,399 --> 02:56:52,620
this man this man I've created
5499
02:56:52,620 --> 02:56:54,300
and I've built do I want to lose to him
5500
02:56:54,300 --> 02:56:55,920
or do I want to beat him or compete with
5501
02:56:55,920 --> 02:56:56,640
him
5502
02:56:56,640 --> 02:56:57,779
and you have to make a choice and you
5503
02:56:57,779 --> 02:56:59,279
sit there and go well I know that the
5504
02:56:59,279 --> 02:57:01,020
person I created in my mind my arch
5505
02:57:01,020 --> 02:57:02,100
nemesis would go over there and he
5506
02:57:02,100 --> 02:57:03,660
talked to all the girls and he'd [ __ ]
5507
02:57:03,660 --> 02:57:06,420
two of them let alone one
5508
02:57:06,420 --> 02:57:09,000
this is an extremely important facet and
5509
02:57:09,000 --> 02:57:10,200
for the next six weeks I'm going to be
5510
02:57:10,200 --> 02:57:11,399
doing lots of things that are going to
5511
02:57:11,399 --> 02:57:13,859
revert back to the enemy that you've
5512
02:57:13,859 --> 02:57:15,300
created so you'd have to put genuine
5513
02:57:15,300 --> 02:57:16,979
effort into putting together this person
5514
02:57:16,979 --> 02:57:18,180
you have to imagine everything about
5515
02:57:18,180 --> 02:57:19,979
them from start to finish you have to
5516
02:57:19,979 --> 02:57:22,140
imagine standing next to them if you
5517
02:57:22,140 --> 02:57:23,640
were standing next to this guy right now
5518
02:57:23,640 --> 02:57:25,680
with no shirt on who would girls want to
5519
02:57:25,680 --> 02:57:27,840
[ __ ] who would people respect
5520
02:57:27,840 --> 02:57:30,240
and the crazy thing about all of this
5521
02:57:30,240 --> 02:57:32,340
is that this person is you
5522
02:57:32,340 --> 02:57:34,740
this person is you it's just you with a
5523
02:57:34,740 --> 02:57:37,080
little bit of a different path or a
5524
02:57:37,080 --> 02:57:38,700
different take on life it's you who's
5525
02:57:38,700 --> 02:57:40,080
the person who does whatever he's
5526
02:57:40,080 --> 02:57:41,279
supposed to do regardless of how he
5527
02:57:41,279 --> 02:57:43,740
feels it's you with an iron mind this is
5528
02:57:43,740 --> 02:57:45,359
the exact point of it the reason
5529
02:57:45,359 --> 02:57:46,859
creating this enemy is so important and
5530
02:57:46,859 --> 02:57:49,800
the reason viewing how he's viewing him
5531
02:57:49,800 --> 02:57:51,899
and seeing how he sees the world and and
5532
02:57:51,899 --> 02:57:53,939
understanding how important and Powerful
5533
02:57:53,939 --> 02:57:55,740
this person is is important is because
5534
02:57:55,740 --> 02:57:57,960
that person is you that person is you
5535
02:57:57,960 --> 02:57:59,279
who does what he's supposed to do
5536
02:57:59,279 --> 02:58:01,680
without fail that's all it is
5537
02:58:01,680 --> 02:58:03,540
and when you truly truly put this person
5538
02:58:03,540 --> 02:58:04,800
together and you truly truly understand
5539
02:58:04,800 --> 02:58:06,720
him and you find out what you could be
5540
02:58:06,720 --> 02:58:07,859
and you find out what you're battling
5541
02:58:07,859 --> 02:58:10,319
against you're going to become far more
5542
02:58:10,319 --> 02:58:12,479
difficult to demotivate it's going to be
5543
02:58:12,479 --> 02:58:13,800
much harder for someone to say to you
5544
02:58:13,800 --> 02:58:15,000
don't go to the gym because you're going
5545
02:58:15,000 --> 02:58:18,060
to know well my my enemy this guy give
5546
02:58:18,060 --> 02:58:20,760
him a name whatever this dude's going to
5547
02:58:20,760 --> 02:58:21,600
the gym
5548
02:58:21,600 --> 02:58:23,700
that's why he looks how he looks and
5549
02:58:23,700 --> 02:58:25,620
that's who I'm being compared to
5550
02:58:25,620 --> 02:58:27,779
so I have to go to the gym oh yeah but
5551
02:58:27,779 --> 02:58:29,220
you know I'm tired well you don't go
5552
02:58:29,220 --> 02:58:30,540
then my training Partners want to go
5553
02:58:30,540 --> 02:58:32,399
fine you don't go I am going
5554
02:58:32,399 --> 02:58:34,140
I'm not the guy who's gonna let this man
5555
02:58:34,140 --> 02:58:36,420
beat me and you have to start comparing
5556
02:58:36,420 --> 02:58:38,760
yourself to this guy in every single
5557
02:58:38,760 --> 02:58:40,859
facet I still do it to this day I
5558
02:58:40,859 --> 02:58:42,479
compare my bank balance to this guys and
5559
02:58:42,479 --> 02:58:44,220
he's killing me I compare my body to
5560
02:58:44,220 --> 02:58:46,620
this guys he's killing me I compare so
5561
02:58:46,620 --> 02:58:48,359
many things about myself you guys may
5562
02:58:48,359 --> 02:58:49,800
look at me and go I'll take millionaire
5563
02:58:49,800 --> 02:58:51,899
girls this that that I'm still comparing
5564
02:58:51,899 --> 02:58:53,880
myself to this person I've created
5565
02:58:53,880 --> 02:58:55,740
and I know that I'm losing
5566
02:58:55,740 --> 02:58:57,180
and that's what drives me forward that's
5567
02:58:57,180 --> 02:58:59,100
why I don't miss the gym that's how I
5568
02:58:59,100 --> 02:59:01,200
find a way to make money that's how I do
5569
02:59:01,200 --> 02:59:02,880
whatever it takes to succeed because I
5570
02:59:02,880 --> 02:59:04,620
know who I'm battling against most you
5571
02:59:04,620 --> 02:59:07,140
guys have no enemy you have no enemy or
5572
02:59:07,140 --> 02:59:08,640
you have an enemy which is somebody else
5573
02:59:08,640 --> 02:59:10,380
you're looking at Justin Bieber or Drake
5574
02:59:10,380 --> 02:59:12,120
or some [ __ ] that that's not going to
5575
02:59:12,120 --> 02:59:14,340
motivate you that's pointless it's not
5576
02:59:14,340 --> 02:59:15,960
going to help you or you have no enemy
5577
02:59:15,960 --> 02:59:17,160
at all you have a support structure
5578
02:59:17,160 --> 02:59:18,779
around you and you have people say oh
5579
02:59:18,779 --> 02:59:20,460
you're great just the way you are you
5580
02:59:20,460 --> 02:59:21,660
know you're beautiful just the way you
5581
02:59:21,660 --> 02:59:22,800
are and you're sitting there and living
5582
02:59:22,800 --> 02:59:23,939
in your little comfort zone like a
5583
02:59:23,939 --> 02:59:26,640
little [ __ ] [ __ ] put this enemy
5584
02:59:26,640 --> 02:59:29,100
together from start to finish feel free
5585
02:59:29,100 --> 02:59:31,200
to email me the list email me the list
5586
02:59:31,200 --> 02:59:32,100
I'll see if there's anything you've
5587
02:59:32,100 --> 02:59:32,939
missed out
5588
02:59:32,939 --> 02:59:34,200
my email address is at the bottom of the
5589
02:59:34,200 --> 02:59:35,580
screen feel free to email me your list
5590
02:59:35,580 --> 02:59:37,260
I'll compare it to my list and we'll see
5591
02:59:37,260 --> 02:59:38,040
if there's anything you've missed out
5592
02:59:38,040 --> 02:59:39,180
but this is gonna be the most important
5593
02:59:39,180 --> 02:59:40,439
thing across the next six weeks we're
5594
02:59:40,439 --> 02:59:42,120
going to keep referring back to and when
5595
02:59:42,120 --> 02:59:43,560
you truly put this list together you
5596
02:59:43,560 --> 02:59:44,939
truly create this person and truly
5597
02:59:44,939 --> 02:59:47,819
understand that it could be you
5598
02:59:47,819 --> 02:59:49,740
it's going to be far more difficult to
5599
02:59:49,740 --> 02:59:50,880
stop you doing what you need to do in
5600
02:59:50,880 --> 02:59:52,620
the future
5601
02:59:52,620 --> 02:59:55,100
so
5602
02:59:55,380 --> 02:59:57,000
your enemy is the version of you which
5603
02:59:57,000 --> 02:59:58,439
doesn't take [ __ ] your enemy is a
5604
02:59:58,439 --> 02:59:59,640
version of you which goes to the gym
5605
02:59:59,640 --> 03:00:01,020
every single day and if you've done this
5606
03:00:01,020 --> 03:00:02,580
correctly then what you should be doing
5607
03:00:02,580 --> 03:00:04,920
by now is thinking of him permanently
5608
03:00:04,920 --> 03:00:07,260
every single time you go to the gym and
5609
03:00:07,260 --> 03:00:09,000
you haven't done that one extra rep he
5610
03:00:09,000 --> 03:00:10,560
did every single time you don't feel
5611
03:00:10,560 --> 03:00:11,760
like doing something you have to think
5612
03:00:11,760 --> 03:00:13,620
yeah but he would do it if you truly
5613
03:00:13,620 --> 03:00:15,600
constructed him the way you should he
5614
03:00:15,600 --> 03:00:18,000
should be crossing your mind with every
5615
03:00:18,000 --> 03:00:20,580
single thing you do and this is why it's
5616
03:00:20,580 --> 03:00:22,500
important to develop an ego this is
5617
03:00:22,500 --> 03:00:24,720
lesson two the Iron Mine course is to
5618
03:00:24,720 --> 03:00:27,359
develop an ego egos are extremely
5619
03:00:27,359 --> 03:00:29,700
important egos have always existed
5620
03:00:29,700 --> 03:00:32,580
throughout ancient history Men Kings
5621
03:00:32,580 --> 03:00:35,340
went to war and millions of people died
5622
03:00:35,340 --> 03:00:37,500
because someone insulted him because of
5623
03:00:37,500 --> 03:00:39,720
his ego egos are a natural human thing
5624
03:00:39,720 --> 03:00:41,040
and they're extremely important and the
5625
03:00:41,040 --> 03:00:43,020
modern world tells men to not have an
5626
03:00:43,020 --> 03:00:44,939
ego and they do that because it makes
5627
03:00:44,939 --> 03:00:47,100
you weak and easy to control you can
5628
03:00:47,100 --> 03:00:49,260
only have an iron mind if you are so
5629
03:00:49,260 --> 03:00:51,540
sure of yourself so egotistical that
5630
03:00:51,540 --> 03:00:53,760
nobody can break it so an ego is
5631
03:00:53,760 --> 03:00:56,399
extremely important now first lesson we
5632
03:00:56,399 --> 03:00:58,380
built your enemy and we built this
5633
03:00:58,380 --> 03:00:59,279
perfect person you're going to be
5634
03:00:59,279 --> 03:01:00,720
battling against and there's a very
5635
03:01:00,720 --> 03:01:02,819
specific reason we did it based on a
5636
03:01:02,819 --> 03:01:04,979
version of you one because it shows who
5637
03:01:04,979 --> 03:01:06,720
you could be but the other reason is
5638
03:01:06,720 --> 03:01:08,939
also because if your ego is based around
5639
03:01:08,939 --> 03:01:10,800
beating this person you get to go
5640
03:01:10,800 --> 03:01:12,000
through life and be a nice guy to
5641
03:01:12,000 --> 03:01:13,200
everyone else
5642
03:01:13,200 --> 03:01:14,760
people say don't have an ego because if
5643
03:01:14,760 --> 03:01:16,380
they think that if you they give you an
5644
03:01:16,380 --> 03:01:17,700
ego you have an ego you're gonna be
5645
03:01:17,700 --> 03:01:19,200
egotistical
5646
03:01:19,200 --> 03:01:20,880
I'm a nice guy
5647
03:01:20,880 --> 03:01:22,800
because they're not my enemy I'm not
5648
03:01:22,800 --> 03:01:24,420
combating against them I'm a nice guy to
5649
03:01:24,420 --> 03:01:25,560
every person I'm a nice guy to every
5650
03:01:25,560 --> 03:01:27,300
woman I say please and thank you I'm a
5651
03:01:27,300 --> 03:01:29,819
nice person but I do have a massive ego
5652
03:01:29,819 --> 03:01:32,279
but my ego comes into play when I'm
5653
03:01:32,279 --> 03:01:35,760
fighting against my enemy listen
5654
03:01:35,760 --> 03:01:37,560
did you [ __ ] your wife yesterday maybe
5655
03:01:37,560 --> 03:01:39,420
you did so imagine this guy [ __ ] your
5656
03:01:39,420 --> 03:01:40,319
wife he would have [ __ ] her better
5657
03:01:40,319 --> 03:01:42,359
than you did and this should Inspire
5658
03:01:42,359 --> 03:01:44,399
your ego the person you're battling
5659
03:01:44,399 --> 03:01:46,439
against is beating you
5660
03:01:46,439 --> 03:01:48,899
and this person is who you could be
5661
03:01:48,899 --> 03:01:50,580
that's what's the most annoying thing
5662
03:01:50,580 --> 03:01:52,140
about it this person's outlifting you in
5663
03:01:52,140 --> 03:01:53,160
the gym they're making more money
5664
03:01:53,160 --> 03:01:54,180
they're [ __ ] their wife better
5665
03:01:54,180 --> 03:01:55,979
they've got more girls they're rolling
5666
03:01:55,979 --> 03:01:58,620
around a nicer car this could be you but
5667
03:01:58,620 --> 03:01:59,939
it's not you
5668
03:01:59,939 --> 03:02:01,319
only because you don't have the
5669
03:02:01,319 --> 03:02:02,460
motivation to do with this individual
5670
03:02:02,460 --> 03:02:04,560
does nothing to do with genetics nothing
5671
03:02:04,560 --> 03:02:06,660
to do with luck this person is you and
5672
03:02:06,660 --> 03:02:08,160
they're beating you and this should
5673
03:02:08,160 --> 03:02:10,680
Inspire your ego most people's egos work
5674
03:02:10,680 --> 03:02:11,819
against them and the way it works
5675
03:02:11,819 --> 03:02:14,040
against them is they feel entitled they
5676
03:02:14,040 --> 03:02:15,540
wake up and they think oh I deserve a
5677
03:02:15,540 --> 03:02:17,220
nice car I'm a special person I deserve
5678
03:02:17,220 --> 03:02:18,779
a nice car and then when they don't get
5679
03:02:18,779 --> 03:02:20,279
a nice car they get disheartened and
5680
03:02:20,279 --> 03:02:22,200
annoyed that is not the right way to use
5681
03:02:22,200 --> 03:02:25,380
an ego an ego should be used as in I
5682
03:02:25,380 --> 03:02:26,580
deserve a nice car so I'm gonna go
5683
03:02:26,580 --> 03:02:27,779
[ __ ] get one
5684
03:02:27,779 --> 03:02:29,700
that's an ego
5685
03:02:29,700 --> 03:02:31,439
so this person who you've built your
5686
03:02:31,439 --> 03:02:33,720
enemy he has a nice car because he has
5687
03:02:33,720 --> 03:02:35,640
worked harder than you have so he has a
5688
03:02:35,640 --> 03:02:37,439
nice car and you don't have one whose
5689
03:02:37,439 --> 03:02:40,020
fault is that there should be no reason
5690
03:02:40,020 --> 03:02:42,240
no excuse for you to not do everything
5691
03:02:42,240 --> 03:02:44,040
that you believe you need to do
5692
03:02:44,040 --> 03:02:46,020
the best person you can be if you've
5693
03:02:46,020 --> 03:02:48,060
properly created this enemy you've
5694
03:02:48,060 --> 03:02:50,160
looked at this list 25 to 30 points long
5695
03:02:50,160 --> 03:02:52,319
on everything this guy does and you
5696
03:02:52,319 --> 03:02:53,939
should look at that list and think [ __ ]
5697
03:02:53,939 --> 03:02:56,160
this is who I'm competing against I need
5698
03:02:56,160 --> 03:02:58,319
to start getting my [ __ ] together
5699
03:02:58,319 --> 03:03:00,840
and and your ego should stop you from
5700
03:03:00,840 --> 03:03:03,300
wanting to lose otherwise day after day
5701
03:03:03,300 --> 03:03:04,680
after day you are losing to this
5702
03:03:04,680 --> 03:03:06,600
individual this individual is beating
5703
03:03:06,600 --> 03:03:10,080
you day after day after day
5704
03:03:10,080 --> 03:03:12,359
you can't let that happen your ego is
5705
03:03:12,359 --> 03:03:14,580
extremely important and you only have
5706
03:03:14,580 --> 03:03:16,260
one person you're competing against and
5707
03:03:16,260 --> 03:03:17,640
it's the person who created which is
5708
03:03:17,640 --> 03:03:19,020
nothing more than a better version of
5709
03:03:19,020 --> 03:03:19,859
yourself
5710
03:03:19,859 --> 03:03:21,540
so day by day you're losing this battle
5711
03:03:21,540 --> 03:03:23,100
I'm that should make you uncomfortable
5712
03:03:23,100 --> 03:03:24,180
you should make you nervous it should
5713
03:03:24,180 --> 03:03:25,319
make you anxious
5714
03:03:25,319 --> 03:03:26,880
so you start to feel that way because
5715
03:03:26,880 --> 03:03:28,020
this is the truth if you've truly
5716
03:03:28,020 --> 03:03:29,880
imagined your enemy is and you truly
5717
03:03:29,880 --> 03:03:31,560
imagine them being you you should not be
5718
03:03:31,560 --> 03:03:33,420
able to relax the fact that you can
5719
03:03:33,420 --> 03:03:35,040
still sit and watch TV means you need to
5720
03:03:35,040 --> 03:03:36,600
go back to the first video of this
5721
03:03:36,600 --> 03:03:38,640
course and start again and do it
5722
03:03:38,640 --> 03:03:40,260
properly and do it well enough so that
5723
03:03:40,260 --> 03:03:42,840
you can no longer sit still you look at
5724
03:03:42,840 --> 03:03:44,040
yourself in the mirror and go okay yeah
5725
03:03:44,040 --> 03:03:45,660
I've got some muscle but this guy he's
5726
03:03:45,660 --> 03:03:47,340
got real muscle I've got a little bit of
5727
03:03:47,340 --> 03:03:49,200
money this guy he hustles non-stop he's
5728
03:03:49,200 --> 03:03:50,700
on Twitter non-stop he's starting
5729
03:03:50,700 --> 03:03:51,720
businesses he's learned how to make
5730
03:03:51,720 --> 03:03:53,700
websites he's trading crypto he's got
5731
03:03:53,700 --> 03:03:55,260
all of takes programs he's got this he's
5732
03:03:55,260 --> 03:03:57,359
got that you need to get your [ __ ]
5733
03:03:57,359 --> 03:03:59,160
together and if you do that properly
5734
03:03:59,160 --> 03:04:00,899
you'll start to feel nervous you'll
5735
03:04:00,899 --> 03:04:02,939
imagine the version of you that is as
5736
03:04:02,939 --> 03:04:04,500
amazing as they could be and you look at
5737
03:04:04,500 --> 03:04:05,819
yourself and realize that you're failing
5738
03:04:05,819 --> 03:04:08,460
it's the reality sit there and go [ __ ]
5739
03:04:08,460 --> 03:04:09,899
now when you feel anxious there's only
5740
03:04:09,899 --> 03:04:11,100
one thing you can do you can either sit
5741
03:04:11,100 --> 03:04:13,080
there and be anxious of a little girl
5742
03:04:13,080 --> 03:04:14,700
don't be worried about it or you can put
5743
03:04:14,700 --> 03:04:16,200
some things in action
5744
03:04:16,200 --> 03:04:18,000
I was nervous for every single fight and
5745
03:04:18,000 --> 03:04:19,680
that's my fault the best because I was
5746
03:04:19,680 --> 03:04:21,779
afraid it's afraid of losing and you
5747
03:04:21,779 --> 03:04:23,819
need to be afraid of losing day by day
5748
03:04:23,819 --> 03:04:25,740
throughout your life you know your
5749
03:04:25,740 --> 03:04:27,540
enemies you know what he's doing and
5750
03:04:27,540 --> 03:04:29,880
you're losing day by day now if you go
5751
03:04:29,880 --> 03:04:32,100
to the gym and you beat your personal
5752
03:04:32,100 --> 03:04:33,720
best let's say the most you've ever
5753
03:04:33,720 --> 03:04:35,939
benched is 100 kilo you go there you
5754
03:04:35,939 --> 03:04:38,760
bench 105 Q the days you beat your
5755
03:04:38,760 --> 03:04:40,500
personal best are the days you've beaten
5756
03:04:40,500 --> 03:04:42,000
this individual that's the only day
5757
03:04:42,000 --> 03:04:44,040
you're allowed to claim a victory if you
5758
03:04:44,040 --> 03:04:45,600
beat your personal best you can claim a
5759
03:04:45,600 --> 03:04:47,040
victory I went there I did more than
5760
03:04:47,040 --> 03:04:49,020
I've ever done I beat this guy but if
5761
03:04:49,020 --> 03:04:50,279
you're not beating your personal best he
5762
03:04:50,279 --> 03:04:51,720
is beating you and that should inspire
5763
03:04:51,720 --> 03:04:53,580
you to try and smash through your own
5764
03:04:53,580 --> 03:04:56,100
records day after day after day the most
5765
03:04:56,100 --> 03:04:58,020
money you've ever made in a month the
5766
03:04:58,020 --> 03:04:59,760
most weight you've ever lifted the most
5767
03:04:59,760 --> 03:05:01,080
girls you've ever spoke to it doesn't
5768
03:05:01,080 --> 03:05:03,720
matter what goals you set you have to
5769
03:05:03,720 --> 03:05:04,979
understand you're going to spend a lot
5770
03:05:04,979 --> 03:05:07,200
of time losing and all this time you're
5771
03:05:07,200 --> 03:05:08,460
spending losing is going to damage your
5772
03:05:08,460 --> 03:05:09,720
ego and that's going to make you anxious
5773
03:05:09,720 --> 03:05:11,460
and unhappy and nervous and you're gonna
5774
03:05:11,460 --> 03:05:12,600
put all that nervous energy into
5775
03:05:12,600 --> 03:05:14,340
smashing your personal records you have
5776
03:05:14,340 --> 03:05:15,779
those days of victory
5777
03:05:15,779 --> 03:05:18,300
everything compounds what most people
5778
03:05:18,300 --> 03:05:19,680
don't understand is they think that life
5779
03:05:19,680 --> 03:05:20,760
just changed overnight everything
5780
03:05:20,760 --> 03:05:22,800
compounds people say to me I'll tell you
5781
03:05:22,800 --> 03:05:24,479
how did you become successful I can't
5782
03:05:24,479 --> 03:05:25,680
tell you the one thing that made me
5783
03:05:25,680 --> 03:05:27,840
successful I was always driven motivated
5784
03:05:27,840 --> 03:05:28,979
I understood how to make good
5785
03:05:28,979 --> 03:05:30,060
connections I looked after the people
5786
03:05:30,060 --> 03:05:31,560
who looked after me I always knew what
5787
03:05:31,560 --> 03:05:33,060
the right thing to do was I didn't drink
5788
03:05:33,060 --> 03:05:34,560
for many years of my life I didn't do
5789
03:05:34,560 --> 03:05:36,300
this I didn't do that I did do this and
5790
03:05:36,300 --> 03:05:38,040
it all comes together to success it's
5791
03:05:38,040 --> 03:05:40,080
not about one thing a lot of people go
5792
03:05:40,080 --> 03:05:41,520
through life with a very average
5793
03:05:41,520 --> 03:05:42,960
attitude to life and they wait for their
5794
03:05:42,960 --> 03:05:44,939
one big break yeah maybe you'll get it
5795
03:05:44,939 --> 03:05:46,200
but that's not the reality if you're
5796
03:05:46,200 --> 03:05:47,460
hoping for a big break you may as well
5797
03:05:47,460 --> 03:05:49,200
just keep buying the lottery tickets you
5798
03:05:49,200 --> 03:05:50,880
have to build your big break and you're
5799
03:05:50,880 --> 03:05:53,100
going to do that with a thousand tiny
5800
03:05:53,100 --> 03:05:55,319
victories it's a change of mindset it's
5801
03:05:55,319 --> 03:05:56,520
gonna allow you to put together a
5802
03:05:56,520 --> 03:05:58,080
thousand tiny victories and the change
5803
03:05:58,080 --> 03:05:59,520
in mind says simply understanding that
5804
03:05:59,520 --> 03:06:01,200
there is a version of you that exists
5805
03:06:01,200 --> 03:06:02,939
somewhere in the Multiverse which is
5806
03:06:02,939 --> 03:06:04,319
much better than you are right now
5807
03:06:04,319 --> 03:06:06,660
they're the same star the same genetic
5808
03:06:06,660 --> 03:06:08,939
composition but they are destroying you
5809
03:06:08,939 --> 03:06:10,800
in every measurable metric purely
5810
03:06:10,800 --> 03:06:13,800
because they don't get lazy don't get
5811
03:06:13,800 --> 03:06:16,200
tired don't watch TV don't waste
5812
03:06:16,200 --> 03:06:18,180
they have an iron mind and that person
5813
03:06:18,180 --> 03:06:19,979
is going to become you now that is who
5814
03:06:19,979 --> 03:06:21,540
you are fighting against
5815
03:06:21,540 --> 03:06:23,819
in this lesson of the iron mind course
5816
03:06:23,819 --> 03:06:26,340
is going to be a happy lesson all of our
5817
03:06:26,340 --> 03:06:28,439
previous lessons were about creating
5818
03:06:28,439 --> 03:06:30,000
enemies and understanding that you have
5819
03:06:30,000 --> 03:06:32,160
to fight a battle against the enemy you
5820
03:06:32,160 --> 03:06:34,560
create and how difficult life can be
5821
03:06:34,560 --> 03:06:36,359
and in this lesson we're going to do
5822
03:06:36,359 --> 03:06:37,200
something that's a little bit more
5823
03:06:37,200 --> 03:06:39,600
positive so you can smile
5824
03:06:39,600 --> 03:06:40,740
and what we're going to do is we'll talk
5825
03:06:40,740 --> 03:06:42,479
about gratitude
5826
03:06:42,479 --> 03:06:45,600
I have learned the hard way that it is
5827
03:06:45,600 --> 03:06:47,580
impossible to be grateful for things
5828
03:06:47,580 --> 03:06:49,140
that you have in abundance
5829
03:06:49,140 --> 03:06:52,500
everybody knows this I'm saying the
5830
03:06:52,500 --> 03:06:54,180
obvious here everyone talks about how if
5831
03:06:54,180 --> 03:06:55,680
you were born a millionaire kid you
5832
03:06:55,680 --> 03:06:57,300
wouldn't appreciate money it's
5833
03:06:57,300 --> 03:06:58,380
absolutely the same with absolutely
5834
03:06:58,380 --> 03:07:00,240
everything else and no matter how hard
5835
03:07:00,240 --> 03:07:01,800
you try no matter how hard you try and
5836
03:07:01,800 --> 03:07:03,540
check yourself and appreciate your
5837
03:07:03,540 --> 03:07:04,979
current situation
5838
03:07:04,979 --> 03:07:06,600
you're never going to appreciate it if
5839
03:07:06,600 --> 03:07:09,180
you have an abundance the easiest way to
5840
03:07:09,180 --> 03:07:11,279
be grateful for your life and appreciate
5841
03:07:11,279 --> 03:07:14,760
things is to self-censor now this takes
5842
03:07:14,760 --> 03:07:16,920
self-control but we've already discussed
5843
03:07:16,920 --> 03:07:18,899
how your enemy has self-control and how
5844
03:07:18,899 --> 03:07:19,979
you're going to compete against him
5845
03:07:19,979 --> 03:07:22,020
you're going to need self-control so for
5846
03:07:22,020 --> 03:07:23,700
this reason you now have self-control
5847
03:07:23,700 --> 03:07:25,800
I'm going to tell you something by
5848
03:07:25,800 --> 03:07:27,479
reducing
5849
03:07:27,479 --> 03:07:30,240
your time spent or money spent or energy
5850
03:07:30,240 --> 03:07:32,520
spent on the things you like not only do
5851
03:07:32,520 --> 03:07:33,779
you become a more productive worker and
5852
03:07:33,779 --> 03:07:36,180
you get more stuff done but two you
5853
03:07:36,180 --> 03:07:37,979
appreciate those things more and you end
5854
03:07:37,979 --> 03:07:39,720
up genuinely happier
5855
03:07:39,720 --> 03:07:41,520
so I'll give you some examples
5856
03:07:41,520 --> 03:07:43,380
it's a sunny day today
5857
03:07:43,380 --> 03:07:44,880
on sunny days I like drive my
5858
03:07:44,880 --> 03:07:47,160
Lamborghini around and show it off
5859
03:07:47,160 --> 03:07:49,140
and sometimes when I really feel like
5860
03:07:49,140 --> 03:07:50,700
driving it I don't allow myself I'll
5861
03:07:50,700 --> 03:07:52,200
take a bike and I'll go pedal my bike
5862
03:07:52,200 --> 03:07:53,939
instead or I'll train extra hours in the
5863
03:07:53,939 --> 03:07:55,800
gym or I'll do some work so when I
5864
03:07:55,800 --> 03:07:57,899
really want to drive it even though I
5865
03:07:57,899 --> 03:07:59,100
have the time to drive it even though I
5866
03:07:59,100 --> 03:08:01,080
could drive it I do not drive it and the
5867
03:08:01,080 --> 03:08:02,640
reason I do that is I deliberately
5868
03:08:02,640 --> 03:08:04,080
prevent myself from doing something I
5869
03:08:04,080 --> 03:08:06,779
want so when I get back in that car
5870
03:08:06,779 --> 03:08:09,960
the next day or a couple days later I
5871
03:08:09,960 --> 03:08:12,720
appreciate it if I drove the car anytime
5872
03:08:12,720 --> 03:08:14,880
I wanted to I might still even like it I
5873
03:08:14,880 --> 03:08:16,020
might still enjoy it but I will never
5874
03:08:16,020 --> 03:08:17,819
appreciate it now when I get in that car
5875
03:08:17,819 --> 03:08:19,859
I appreciate my car
5876
03:08:19,859 --> 03:08:21,600
and that's because I stopped myself from
5877
03:08:21,600 --> 03:08:23,460
using it as often as I want to use it
5878
03:08:23,460 --> 03:08:25,620
humans were never built for the
5879
03:08:25,620 --> 03:08:27,660
abundance we live in today we live in an
5880
03:08:27,660 --> 03:08:29,220
abundance which we were never designed
5881
03:08:29,220 --> 03:08:31,260
to have we were designed to barely
5882
03:08:31,260 --> 03:08:33,359
barely scrape enough calories from the
5883
03:08:33,359 --> 03:08:36,600
surroundings to survive and sit around
5884
03:08:36,600 --> 03:08:38,460
in the dirt wishing for more than what
5885
03:08:38,460 --> 03:08:39,720
we had we were not designed to be able
5886
03:08:39,720 --> 03:08:42,779
to get food anytime we wanted that's why
5887
03:08:42,779 --> 03:08:45,000
people are fat to get satisfaction
5888
03:08:45,000 --> 03:08:46,800
entertainment anytime we wanted that's
5889
03:08:46,800 --> 03:08:48,060
why people can't pay attention anymore
5890
03:08:48,060 --> 03:08:50,100
the human mind has not evolved to live
5891
03:08:50,100 --> 03:08:52,260
the life we're living so you have two
5892
03:08:52,260 --> 03:08:53,580
choices you either cave to that
5893
03:08:53,580 --> 03:08:55,380
completely and you give into consumerism
5894
03:08:55,380 --> 03:08:57,779
and you end up obese and have attention
5895
03:08:57,779 --> 03:08:59,340
deficit disorder because you're too busy
5896
03:08:59,340 --> 03:09:00,960
watching YouTube videos to concentrate
5897
03:09:00,960 --> 03:09:03,540
anything important or you sense yourself
5898
03:09:03,540 --> 03:09:05,040
and you prevent yourself from having as
5899
03:09:05,040 --> 03:09:06,779
much as you want and that's how you
5900
03:09:06,779 --> 03:09:09,180
build an iron mindset so
5901
03:09:09,180 --> 03:09:10,800
let me give you a few examples of things
5902
03:09:10,800 --> 03:09:12,479
you can do because now I've known all of
5903
03:09:12,479 --> 03:09:13,920
you have Lamborghinis that was a pretty
5904
03:09:13,920 --> 03:09:16,140
first world example but I'll give you
5905
03:09:16,140 --> 03:09:17,340
some other examples of things that I
5906
03:09:17,340 --> 03:09:19,560
have done now I actually developed this
5907
03:09:19,560 --> 03:09:21,720
and learned this tactic when I was
5908
03:09:21,720 --> 03:09:23,760
fighting because fighting makes you
5909
03:09:23,760 --> 03:09:25,620
sense yourself when you're training for
5910
03:09:25,620 --> 03:09:27,180
a fight you can't drink alcohol you have
5911
03:09:27,180 --> 03:09:28,620
to eat correctly you have to sleep
5912
03:09:28,620 --> 03:09:30,960
correctly so when my fight Camp would be
5913
03:09:30,960 --> 03:09:33,479
over the idea of staying up late and
5914
03:09:33,479 --> 03:09:35,460
having a beer and eating an ice cream
5915
03:09:35,460 --> 03:09:38,460
was amazing to most people that's every
5916
03:09:38,460 --> 03:09:39,840
[ __ ] day and they don't give a [ __ ]
5917
03:09:39,840 --> 03:09:41,640
but to me the idea of just cracking open
5918
03:09:41,640 --> 03:09:43,140
a beer and drinking it and not thinking
5919
03:09:43,140 --> 03:09:44,880
about it as anything other than oh I
5920
03:09:44,880 --> 03:09:45,660
want
5921
03:09:45,660 --> 03:09:48,479
when I did that after a fight camp I was
5922
03:09:48,479 --> 03:09:50,880
smiling ear to ear genuinely because I
5923
03:09:50,880 --> 03:09:52,740
had a touchdown call for eight weeks
5924
03:09:52,740 --> 03:09:54,540
so by preventing myself from having
5925
03:09:54,540 --> 03:09:56,939
alcohol Not only was I more grateful in
5926
03:09:56,939 --> 03:09:58,920
the end like people had beer all the
5927
03:09:58,920 --> 03:10:00,240
time it doesn't make them happy this is
5928
03:10:00,240 --> 03:10:01,680
something they do not only was I more
5929
03:10:01,680 --> 03:10:02,819
grateful in the end Not only was I
5930
03:10:02,819 --> 03:10:04,319
happier I was also a better physical
5931
03:10:04,319 --> 03:10:06,540
condition I also didn't spend money on
5932
03:10:06,540 --> 03:10:07,439
beer
5933
03:10:07,439 --> 03:10:09,120
and this is the exact point if you
5934
03:10:09,120 --> 03:10:10,500
restrict yourself from the things you
5935
03:10:10,500 --> 03:10:12,479
want not only do you enjoy them more in
5936
03:10:12,479 --> 03:10:14,279
the end all you end up happier you
5937
03:10:14,279 --> 03:10:15,479
usually end up in better physical and
5938
03:10:15,479 --> 03:10:16,920
financial shape for it
5939
03:10:16,920 --> 03:10:18,600
so there's a whole bunch of stuff you do
5940
03:10:18,600 --> 03:10:20,640
right now that you enjoy everyone has
5941
03:10:20,640 --> 03:10:22,080
things they enjoy and that's fine you
5942
03:10:22,080 --> 03:10:23,399
absolutely should have things you enjoy
5943
03:10:23,399 --> 03:10:26,340
you've made your list of of your enemy
5944
03:10:26,340 --> 03:10:28,680
obviously he's a machine he's a robot he
5945
03:10:28,680 --> 03:10:30,240
doesn't waste much time but we're all
5946
03:10:30,240 --> 03:10:31,920
humans you're competing with him but
5947
03:10:31,920 --> 03:10:33,060
there's still some things you enjoy
5948
03:10:33,060 --> 03:10:34,920
which aren't completely essential you
5949
03:10:34,920 --> 03:10:36,479
need to learn to restrict those things
5950
03:10:36,479 --> 03:10:38,520
or delay those things so that you
5951
03:10:38,520 --> 03:10:41,520
appreciate them more happiness and
5952
03:10:41,520 --> 03:10:43,020
gratefulness are basically the same
5953
03:10:43,020 --> 03:10:44,640
thing if you're grateful for what you
5954
03:10:44,640 --> 03:10:46,080
have you're going to be a pretty happy
5955
03:10:46,080 --> 03:10:48,960
person and a happy mind is an iron mind
5956
03:10:48,960 --> 03:10:51,960
the idea of being a robot and being I've
5957
03:10:51,960 --> 03:10:53,460
got an iron mine nothing affects me
5958
03:10:53,460 --> 03:10:55,439
that's not that's not a good life a good
5959
03:10:55,439 --> 03:10:57,720
life is a happy person who when the
5960
03:10:57,720 --> 03:10:59,340
struggles of Life come they can just
5961
03:10:59,340 --> 03:11:00,840
Glide over the bums that's the kind of
5962
03:11:00,840 --> 03:11:02,340
person you want to be and you're going
5963
03:11:02,340 --> 03:11:03,479
to do that by making yourself more
5964
03:11:03,479 --> 03:11:04,500
grateful and you make yourself more
5965
03:11:04,500 --> 03:11:07,080
grateful to scarcity so across the next
5966
03:11:07,080 --> 03:11:08,160
couple of days here's what I want you to
5967
03:11:08,160 --> 03:11:08,939
do
5968
03:11:08,939 --> 03:11:11,819
I want you to choose each day if you're
5969
03:11:11,819 --> 03:11:13,200
going to allow yourself to eat or to
5970
03:11:13,200 --> 03:11:14,520
drink
5971
03:11:14,520 --> 03:11:16,740
have to make a choice because these are
5972
03:11:16,740 --> 03:11:18,060
things you do every day you eat some
5973
03:11:18,060 --> 03:11:19,439
food you drink some water and you don't
5974
03:11:19,439 --> 03:11:20,880
care about it and you're not grateful
5975
03:11:20,880 --> 03:11:22,680
for either one so each day you're going
5976
03:11:22,680 --> 03:11:23,700
to wake up and you're going to decide
5977
03:11:23,700 --> 03:11:24,960
I'm either going to drink whatever I
5978
03:11:24,960 --> 03:11:27,420
want today coffee water orange juice
5979
03:11:27,420 --> 03:11:29,100
smoothie whatever
5980
03:11:29,100 --> 03:11:30,660
or I'm gonna eat whatever I want today
5981
03:11:30,660 --> 03:11:33,359
and I'm gonna be thirsty at the end of
5982
03:11:33,359 --> 03:11:35,340
either one of those days you're going to
5983
03:11:35,340 --> 03:11:36,899
be pissed off you made the choice you
5984
03:11:36,899 --> 03:11:38,100
made and you would wish you made the
5985
03:11:38,100 --> 03:11:40,380
other one and you'd be grateful for all
5986
03:11:40,380 --> 03:11:41,760
the times you've had a meal with a nice
5987
03:11:41,760 --> 03:11:43,800
cold glass of water with it or all the
5988
03:11:43,800 --> 03:11:45,120
time she got a cold glass of water with
5989
03:11:45,120 --> 03:11:47,220
a nice meal with it for the next three
5990
03:11:47,220 --> 03:11:48,899
or four days you have to make a choice
5991
03:11:48,899 --> 03:11:51,720
each morning stick to it don't be a
5992
03:11:51,720 --> 03:11:53,640
[ __ ] we've had enough of the other
5993
03:11:53,640 --> 03:11:54,840
lessons if you're struggling to stick to
5994
03:11:54,840 --> 03:11:56,760
it watch the other videos don't be a
5995
03:11:56,760 --> 03:11:58,500
[ __ ] and choose
5996
03:11:58,500 --> 03:12:00,540
next three or four days choose food or
5997
03:12:00,540 --> 03:12:03,180
War at the end of the four days you can
5998
03:12:03,180 --> 03:12:04,740
allow yourself to have both together and
5999
03:12:04,740 --> 03:12:06,720
you'll feel a whole new appreciation for
6000
03:12:06,720 --> 03:12:08,700
the most basic thing in the world a meal
6001
03:12:08,700 --> 03:12:10,319
and a cold glass of water I guarantee
6002
03:12:10,319 --> 03:12:12,060
you because for three or four days it
6003
03:12:12,060 --> 03:12:13,260
was always a choice you're waking up in
6004
03:12:13,260 --> 03:12:15,060
the morning you wake up your mouth's dry
6005
03:12:15,060 --> 03:12:17,700
but you're hungry as [ __ ] from yesterday
6006
03:12:17,700 --> 03:12:19,319
so which one is it
6007
03:12:19,319 --> 03:12:21,840
you have to make the choice so when you
6008
03:12:21,840 --> 03:12:23,100
get to a situation where you can have
6009
03:12:23,100 --> 03:12:24,660
two things together two very basic
6010
03:12:24,660 --> 03:12:26,100
simple things together you're going to
6011
03:12:26,100 --> 03:12:28,380
appreciate both of them more so this is
6012
03:12:28,380 --> 03:12:29,399
the first exercise you're going to do
6013
03:12:29,399 --> 03:12:30,720
across the next three or four years
6014
03:12:30,720 --> 03:12:33,600
the idea being is you need to learn how
6015
03:12:33,600 --> 03:12:35,819
to remember that feeling
6016
03:12:35,819 --> 03:12:37,200
now I know this sounds stupid but
6017
03:12:37,200 --> 03:12:39,600
feelings can be remembered if you listen
6018
03:12:39,600 --> 03:12:42,180
to a sad song or if you think about a
6019
03:12:42,180 --> 03:12:44,520
sad event the feeling comes back you
6020
03:12:44,520 --> 03:12:46,979
remember the feeling people very rarely
6021
03:12:46,979 --> 03:12:49,319
remember gratefulness they don't
6022
03:12:49,319 --> 03:12:51,899
remember feeling content with something
6023
03:12:51,899 --> 03:12:53,460
so what you're going to do is you're
6024
03:12:53,460 --> 03:12:54,420
going to put yourself in a position of
6025
03:12:54,420 --> 03:12:55,800
stress you're going to relieve that
6026
03:12:55,800 --> 03:12:57,120
stress you're going to feel content and
6027
03:12:57,120 --> 03:12:58,620
then you're going to try and remember
6028
03:12:58,620 --> 03:13:00,600
that feeling everything about it
6029
03:13:00,600 --> 03:13:02,160
remember how you're sitting remember
6030
03:13:02,160 --> 03:13:03,960
where you are remember that feeling and
6031
03:13:03,960 --> 03:13:05,040
give yourself a memory that you can
6032
03:13:05,040 --> 03:13:07,620
Resort revert back to any time in the
6033
03:13:07,620 --> 03:13:09,180
future and you will automatically feel
6034
03:13:09,180 --> 03:13:11,939
grateful so I have this from fighting I
6035
03:13:11,939 --> 03:13:14,040
can literally right now I can think back
6036
03:13:14,040 --> 03:13:16,620
to that time when I just lost 10 kilos
6037
03:13:16,620 --> 03:13:18,359
and been in the sauna for two days and
6038
03:13:18,359 --> 03:13:19,979
hadn't had a drop of war and lost all
6039
03:13:19,979 --> 03:13:22,200
that weight and I had my first glass of
6040
03:13:22,200 --> 03:13:23,580
water I can remember that and I'm
6041
03:13:23,580 --> 03:13:25,979
smiling already literally genuinely I
6042
03:13:25,979 --> 03:13:28,140
can remember how that felt because I've
6043
03:13:28,140 --> 03:13:30,000
had these extreme situations super
6044
03:13:30,000 --> 03:13:31,979
extreme situations whereas when they
6045
03:13:31,979 --> 03:13:35,160
were relieved I remember how thankful I
6046
03:13:35,160 --> 03:13:35,880
was
6047
03:13:35,880 --> 03:13:38,580
so I have countless memories in my life
6048
03:13:38,580 --> 03:13:41,100
that I can revert back to that allow me
6049
03:13:41,100 --> 03:13:43,319
to instantly feel grateful for what I
6050
03:13:43,319 --> 03:13:44,939
have right now for the most basic things
6051
03:13:44,939 --> 03:13:47,160
in the world money is another fantastic
6052
03:13:47,160 --> 03:13:48,660
thing to do this right now check your
6053
03:13:48,660 --> 03:13:49,740
bank account
6054
03:13:49,740 --> 03:13:51,240
hopefully you're broke if you're broke
6055
03:13:51,240 --> 03:13:52,500
this will be really easy check your bank
6056
03:13:52,500 --> 03:13:54,660
right now you're broke okay good when
6057
03:13:54,660 --> 03:13:56,040
you get some money in your bank and you
6058
03:13:56,040 --> 03:13:58,319
smile remember that feeling this video
6059
03:13:58,319 --> 03:13:59,760
is a short video but this is very very
6060
03:13:59,760 --> 03:14:01,859
important you can email me now after
6061
03:14:01,859 --> 03:14:03,180
watching this video and tell me what
6062
03:14:03,180 --> 03:14:04,319
you're going to do to put yourself in a
6063
03:14:04,319 --> 03:14:05,880
position of stress how are you going to
6064
03:14:05,880 --> 03:14:08,040
relieve it and then once you've relieved
6065
03:14:08,040 --> 03:14:10,140
it once you are sitting there and you're
6066
03:14:10,140 --> 03:14:11,819
feeling content and happy you need to
6067
03:14:11,819 --> 03:14:13,140
remember that feeling and I want you to
6068
03:14:13,140 --> 03:14:15,240
email it to me and describe it to me now
6069
03:14:15,240 --> 03:14:16,380
this isn't going to work if you don't
6070
03:14:16,380 --> 03:14:17,640
put yourself in a situation of extreme
6071
03:14:17,640 --> 03:14:19,740
stress if you're thirsty for 30 minutes
6072
03:14:19,740 --> 03:14:21,660
then have a glass of water you're not
6073
03:14:21,660 --> 03:14:23,520
going to be happy enough to be able to
6074
03:14:23,520 --> 03:14:25,319
hack your brain to truly remember that
6075
03:14:25,319 --> 03:14:28,500
feeling you need to suffer gentlemen you
6076
03:14:28,500 --> 03:14:30,060
need to be two hours sleep a night for
6077
03:14:30,060 --> 03:14:32,520
two days in a row or the no food no war
6078
03:14:32,520 --> 03:14:34,620
or back and forth and I don't care if it
6079
03:14:34,620 --> 03:14:35,819
takes a week two weeks until you
6080
03:14:35,819 --> 03:14:37,979
literally can't handle it anymore and
6081
03:14:37,979 --> 03:14:40,200
when you're on absolute Edge that's when
6082
03:14:40,200 --> 03:14:41,939
you give in because only then you'll be
6083
03:14:41,939 --> 03:14:43,200
able to hack your brain to remember that
6084
03:14:43,200 --> 03:14:45,840
memory you need a plethora of memories
6085
03:14:45,840 --> 03:14:47,700
in your mind that you can revert to that
6086
03:14:47,700 --> 03:14:49,319
will instantly make you happy and
6087
03:14:49,319 --> 03:14:51,420
grateful and feel gratitude for what you
6088
03:14:51,420 --> 03:14:53,340
have if you have those things that you
6089
03:14:53,340 --> 03:14:54,840
can reserve work to anytime you want
6090
03:14:54,840 --> 03:14:58,080
it's almost like being a uh
6091
03:14:58,080 --> 03:15:00,899
like Popeye you can bust out the spinach
6092
03:15:00,899 --> 03:15:03,240
anytime you need it and that's genuinely
6093
03:15:03,240 --> 03:15:04,979
the way I live my life if I I'm a happy
6094
03:15:04,979 --> 03:15:06,540
person but if I'm ever pissed off or
6095
03:15:06,540 --> 03:15:08,040
really really stressed or I'm working
6096
03:15:08,040 --> 03:15:09,720
going right and my Lamborghini won't
6097
03:15:09,720 --> 03:15:11,640
start and girls one of my girlfriends is
6098
03:15:11,640 --> 03:15:14,760
being a dick and the electricity bill
6099
03:15:14,760 --> 03:15:16,200
that's six grand and whatever whatever
6100
03:15:16,200 --> 03:15:17,520
whatever whatever whatever I can sit
6101
03:15:17,520 --> 03:15:19,920
there and go yeah but at least I'm not
6102
03:15:19,920 --> 03:15:21,060
broke
6103
03:15:21,060 --> 03:15:22,740
it was when I was broke and I could
6104
03:15:22,740 --> 03:15:24,120
think about that exact memory or I could
6105
03:15:24,120 --> 03:15:25,800
sit and go at least I have War
6106
03:15:25,800 --> 03:15:27,240
I can think about that exact memory and
6107
03:15:27,240 --> 03:15:29,700
I will smile regardless for Walter I can
6108
03:15:29,700 --> 03:15:31,260
be in the most [ __ ] up situation in
6109
03:15:31,260 --> 03:15:32,640
the world like I'm a glass of water and
6110
03:15:32,640 --> 03:15:33,779
I'll be happy
6111
03:15:33,779 --> 03:15:35,100
and that's what we're going to learn to
6112
03:15:35,100 --> 03:15:37,439
do so put together your scenarios I've
6113
03:15:37,439 --> 03:15:38,760
given you the scenario with sleep that's
6114
03:15:38,760 --> 03:15:41,520
an easy one I've given you the one with
6115
03:15:41,520 --> 03:15:43,200
food and water that's another easy one
6116
03:15:43,200 --> 03:15:45,120
in general this is a good habit to learn
6117
03:15:45,120 --> 03:15:46,620
to restrict yourself from doing the
6118
03:15:46,620 --> 03:15:47,939
things you really want to do because
6119
03:15:47,939 --> 03:15:49,560
you're going to appreciate them more and
6120
03:15:49,560 --> 03:15:50,580
you're also going to be financially
6121
03:15:50,580 --> 03:15:52,620
importantly healthier so you should also
6122
03:15:52,620 --> 03:15:53,700
look at what you're doing with your
6123
03:15:53,700 --> 03:15:55,560
spare time in general and reduce it next
6124
03:15:55,560 --> 03:15:57,060
time you want to do something next time
6125
03:15:57,060 --> 03:15:58,439
you want to watch a YouTube video or you
6126
03:15:58,439 --> 03:15:59,819
want to do something stupid go no I'm
6127
03:15:59,819 --> 03:16:00,899
not going to do it today I'm going to do
6128
03:16:00,899 --> 03:16:02,880
it tomorrow make yourself wait because
6129
03:16:02,880 --> 03:16:04,439
you'll appreciate it more when you do it
6130
03:16:04,439 --> 03:16:06,180
and I want you to put yourself in a
6131
03:16:06,180 --> 03:16:08,220
situation of extreme stress gentlemen it
6132
03:16:08,220 --> 03:16:10,560
has to be extreme when you lay in bed
6133
03:16:10,560 --> 03:16:13,260
after being that tired for that long and
6134
03:16:13,260 --> 03:16:15,180
you feel completely just you don't give
6135
03:16:15,180 --> 03:16:16,560
a [ __ ] about anything else you're so
6136
03:16:16,560 --> 03:16:18,779
happy to just be in bed remember that
6137
03:16:18,779 --> 03:16:19,740
feeling because that's the memory you're
6138
03:16:19,740 --> 03:16:22,380
gonna be able to go back to anytime feel
6139
03:16:22,380 --> 03:16:24,000
free to email me your ideas feel free to
6140
03:16:24,000 --> 03:16:25,800
email me and what I want you to do is
6141
03:16:25,800 --> 03:16:28,380
email me how it feels if you email me
6142
03:16:28,380 --> 03:16:30,660
how it feels when you finally get that
6143
03:16:30,660 --> 03:16:31,740
relief and you finally feel that
6144
03:16:31,740 --> 03:16:33,720
gratitude email that to me because if
6145
03:16:33,720 --> 03:16:35,700
you write out an email and explain it to
6146
03:16:35,700 --> 03:16:37,740
me then you're gonna do far better at
6147
03:16:37,740 --> 03:16:39,840
memorizing the memory you can do far
6148
03:16:39,840 --> 03:16:41,700
better at hacking your brain and this
6149
03:16:41,700 --> 03:16:43,140
can be a far better attempt at having
6150
03:16:43,140 --> 03:16:44,960
something to revert to at any time
6151
03:16:44,960 --> 03:16:48,180
that'll instantly lighten your mood now
6152
03:16:48,180 --> 03:16:49,380
we're going to talk about rewards
6153
03:16:49,380 --> 03:16:51,960
because people have this impression that
6154
03:16:51,960 --> 03:16:53,580
to have an iron mind you need to be in
6155
03:16:53,580 --> 03:16:55,979
constant god mode and that life needs to
6156
03:16:55,979 --> 03:16:58,260
be struggled permanently and you need to
6157
03:16:58,260 --> 03:16:59,279
be able to deal with that struggle
6158
03:16:59,279 --> 03:17:01,260
permanently and it's all just Doom and
6159
03:17:01,260 --> 03:17:03,720
Gloom which is not the case at all you
6160
03:17:03,720 --> 03:17:05,100
need to have goals you've obviously
6161
03:17:05,100 --> 03:17:06,359
you've created your enemy you know who
6162
03:17:06,359 --> 03:17:07,979
you're battling against but life should
6163
03:17:07,979 --> 03:17:09,600
be a happy experience
6164
03:17:09,600 --> 03:17:12,300
so making sure that completing your
6165
03:17:12,300 --> 03:17:14,520
goals makes your life better and more
6166
03:17:14,520 --> 03:17:17,040
positive makes you feel more happy is
6167
03:17:17,040 --> 03:17:18,779
certainly going to encourage you to set
6168
03:17:18,779 --> 03:17:21,779
larger goals and to complete them
6169
03:17:21,779 --> 03:17:24,359
so what I do when it comes to rewarding
6170
03:17:24,359 --> 03:17:25,560
myself because every single one of us
6171
03:17:25,560 --> 03:17:27,720
needs to reward ourselves is I very
6172
03:17:27,720 --> 03:17:31,439
simply pin My Rewards to an objective so
6173
03:17:31,439 --> 03:17:32,760
what people normally do is they go
6174
03:17:32,760 --> 03:17:34,500
through life and they go I feel like
6175
03:17:34,500 --> 03:17:36,359
having an ice cream and then they buy an
6176
03:17:36,359 --> 03:17:38,040
ice cream then they eat the ice cream
6177
03:17:38,040 --> 03:17:40,920
the end even on such a small level what
6178
03:17:40,920 --> 03:17:42,720
they're saying is I do what I want I do
6179
03:17:42,720 --> 03:17:44,819
what I feel like at the time and I don't
6180
03:17:44,819 --> 03:17:46,859
feel like I have to earn that tree for
6181
03:17:46,859 --> 03:17:49,020
example so even on a very very small
6182
03:17:49,020 --> 03:17:51,000
level let's say I'm walking down the
6183
03:17:51,000 --> 03:17:52,200
street and I feel like having an ice
6184
03:17:52,200 --> 03:17:54,240
cream I will sit and think I really want
6185
03:17:54,240 --> 03:17:55,500
ice cream but I'm not going to have one
6186
03:17:55,500 --> 03:17:58,500
tomorrow I'm going to do x amount extra
6187
03:17:58,500 --> 03:18:01,080
in the gym I'm doing extra 100 burpees
6188
03:18:01,080 --> 03:18:02,700
I'm gonna do an extra set of bench press
6189
03:18:02,700 --> 03:18:04,740
just one extra and tomorrow afternoon I
6190
03:18:04,740 --> 03:18:05,700
have an ice cream
6191
03:18:05,700 --> 03:18:08,100
and even something small like that this
6192
03:18:08,100 --> 03:18:10,020
is a genuine example you spend the whole
6193
03:18:10,020 --> 03:18:11,520
day thinking about ice cream you're
6194
03:18:11,520 --> 03:18:13,260
going to be anticipating ice cream
6195
03:18:13,260 --> 03:18:14,939
getting excited for ice cream you go to
6196
03:18:14,939 --> 03:18:17,279
the gym you do extra you earn the ice
6197
03:18:17,279 --> 03:18:18,960
cream and then you know the crazy thing
6198
03:18:18,960 --> 03:18:21,600
is the ice cream tastes better after
6199
03:18:21,600 --> 03:18:23,100
going through that process than if I
6200
03:18:23,100 --> 03:18:24,479
would have just bought it when I kind of
6201
03:18:24,479 --> 03:18:26,340
wanted one the first time and it's the
6202
03:18:26,340 --> 03:18:28,080
same with absolutely everything if I had
6203
03:18:28,080 --> 03:18:29,279
somebody in my bank and I decide to buy
6204
03:18:29,279 --> 03:18:30,660
a Lambo
6205
03:18:30,660 --> 03:18:33,240
sure be a fun happy day but if I set
6206
03:18:33,240 --> 03:18:35,100
myself a series of objectives I have to
6207
03:18:35,100 --> 03:18:36,899
complete first not even just to be able
6208
03:18:36,899 --> 03:18:38,160
to afford the land though sure you can
6209
03:18:38,160 --> 03:18:39,600
say once I make x amount of money I'm
6210
03:18:39,600 --> 03:18:41,100
going to treat myself to this that's
6211
03:18:41,100 --> 03:18:42,779
fine but you can also pin to a bunch of
6212
03:18:42,779 --> 03:18:43,920
other objectives so I had the money for
6213
03:18:43,920 --> 03:18:45,420
a Lambo I wouldn't allow myself to buy
6214
03:18:45,420 --> 03:18:47,700
one until I completed other things in
6215
03:18:47,700 --> 03:18:49,920
the gym for example Jim is the one I use
6216
03:18:49,920 --> 03:18:51,420
all the time if I want to do something
6217
03:18:51,420 --> 03:18:53,220
which I know is stupid
6218
03:18:53,220 --> 03:18:56,939
what makes me happy like booze like eat
6219
03:18:56,939 --> 03:18:59,580
some bad food like buy something I
6220
03:18:59,580 --> 03:19:02,700
shouldn't buy etc etc I make myself work
6221
03:19:02,700 --> 03:19:04,859
for it and I do that to alleviate the
6222
03:19:04,859 --> 03:19:06,120
guilt of having it because what's going
6223
03:19:06,120 --> 03:19:07,920
to happen is if you've done the first
6224
03:19:07,920 --> 03:19:09,420
two parts of this correctly and you
6225
03:19:09,420 --> 03:19:10,800
understand the enemy you're combating
6226
03:19:10,800 --> 03:19:12,420
you're gonna know that that person
6227
03:19:12,420 --> 03:19:14,460
doesn't give in to those kind of
6228
03:19:14,460 --> 03:19:17,640
desires doesn't give in to urges if he
6229
03:19:17,640 --> 03:19:19,080
wants ice cream he just goes without
6230
03:19:19,080 --> 03:19:20,880
well that that's who you're battling
6231
03:19:20,880 --> 03:19:22,020
against but it's fine if you have an ice
6232
03:19:22,020 --> 03:19:23,399
cream because you're going to work extra
6233
03:19:23,399 --> 03:19:25,319
hard so the next thing you need to do is
6234
03:19:25,319 --> 03:19:26,760
you put together a list of objectives
6235
03:19:26,760 --> 03:19:28,620
you need two lists
6236
03:19:28,620 --> 03:19:30,240
you need a list of things you can
6237
03:19:30,240 --> 03:19:32,580
already do and afford a list of things
6238
03:19:32,580 --> 03:19:35,340
you can't do and afford so
6239
03:19:35,340 --> 03:19:37,260
the first listings you can do and afford
6240
03:19:37,260 --> 03:19:39,420
you need to sit there and think even
6241
03:19:39,420 --> 03:19:41,460
basic [ __ ] junk food I want to have a
6242
03:19:41,460 --> 03:19:43,380
cheat day of junk food to allow myself
6243
03:19:43,380 --> 03:19:45,300
to have that cheat day I've done food on
6244
03:19:45,300 --> 03:19:47,399
the seventh day of the week on the six
6245
03:19:47,399 --> 03:19:48,720
days of the week I'm gonna get up at six
6246
03:19:48,720 --> 03:19:49,979
o'clock I'm gonna go to the gym on a
6247
03:19:49,979 --> 03:19:51,180
train for an hour and a half I'm not
6248
03:19:51,180 --> 03:19:53,040
going to leave the gym until 7 30. I'm
6249
03:19:53,040 --> 03:19:54,359
going to be there at six o'clock every
6250
03:19:54,359 --> 03:19:56,399
day and unless you complete those six
6251
03:19:56,399 --> 03:19:58,080
days unless you complete the objectives
6252
03:19:58,080 --> 03:19:59,819
you're not going to give in and allow
6253
03:19:59,819 --> 03:20:01,859
yourself to seven and I'm telling you
6254
03:20:01,859 --> 03:20:03,899
the seventh day if you finally do
6255
03:20:03,899 --> 03:20:05,100
complete the objectives and then you're
6256
03:20:05,100 --> 03:20:06,300
sitting there eating the junk food it
6257
03:20:06,300 --> 03:20:07,680
will be so much better once you've
6258
03:20:07,680 --> 03:20:09,420
earned it the greatest thing about this
6259
03:20:09,420 --> 03:20:12,359
is it the the reward is actually better
6260
03:20:12,359 --> 03:20:14,100
not only do you work harder but the
6261
03:20:14,100 --> 03:20:15,720
reward is so much better knowing you
6262
03:20:15,720 --> 03:20:17,220
worked for it
6263
03:20:17,220 --> 03:20:18,960
so that's one example junk food for
6264
03:20:18,960 --> 03:20:21,479
example or let's say you want new shoes
6265
03:20:21,479 --> 03:20:24,000
basic [ __ ] all the [ __ ] you're doing
6266
03:20:24,000 --> 03:20:25,740
anyway now without thinking you're to a
6267
03:20:25,740 --> 03:20:27,180
mall you'll buy yourself something
6268
03:20:27,180 --> 03:20:29,279
you'll want it for 10 minutes by the
6269
03:20:29,279 --> 03:20:30,300
time you get home and take out the bag
6270
03:20:30,300 --> 03:20:31,920
you don't want anymore that's because
6271
03:20:31,920 --> 03:20:33,060
you haven't trained yourself to earn it
6272
03:20:33,060 --> 03:20:34,439
you're going to be a happier person when
6273
03:20:34,439 --> 03:20:35,460
you look at something you want and go
6274
03:20:35,460 --> 03:20:36,300
all right I'm gonna come back and get
6275
03:20:36,300 --> 03:20:37,979
that in two days and the next two days
6276
03:20:37,979 --> 03:20:40,620
I'm gonna do X I'm gonna do that x that
6277
03:20:40,620 --> 03:20:41,580
you don't want to do it's going to be
6278
03:20:41,580 --> 03:20:42,720
difficult and you're going to achieve it
6279
03:20:42,720 --> 03:20:43,740
and then you're going to get what you
6280
03:20:43,740 --> 03:20:44,819
want and you're going to be happier that
6281
03:20:44,819 --> 03:20:46,380
you got the thing that's the first thing
6282
03:20:46,380 --> 03:20:48,540
and second thing is all these small
6283
03:20:48,540 --> 03:20:49,800
little objectives these small little
6284
03:20:49,800 --> 03:20:50,939
missions you're setting yourself around
6285
03:20:50,939 --> 03:20:52,620
a compound especially when it comes to
6286
03:20:52,620 --> 03:20:54,060
physical fitness physical fitness is
6287
03:20:54,060 --> 03:20:55,260
easy
6288
03:20:55,260 --> 03:20:56,399
because you can say I'll do 500
6289
03:20:56,399 --> 03:20:57,779
press-ups and then I'll get it
6290
03:20:57,779 --> 03:20:59,100
done
6291
03:20:59,100 --> 03:21:00,899
so this list of things you could already
6292
03:21:00,899 --> 03:21:03,240
easily afford you're going to do you're
6293
03:21:03,240 --> 03:21:04,439
going to write it out and you're going
6294
03:21:04,439 --> 03:21:06,660
to set an objective for each one so if
6295
03:21:06,660 --> 03:21:07,680
right now you're thinking of going
6296
03:21:07,680 --> 03:21:09,540
holiday you need to set an objective for
6297
03:21:09,540 --> 03:21:10,800
completing the holiday if you want to
6298
03:21:10,800 --> 03:21:12,479
have a day of junk food if you want to
6299
03:21:12,479 --> 03:21:14,520
buy something cheap etc etc that's the
6300
03:21:14,520 --> 03:21:16,680
first list the second list is a list of
6301
03:21:16,680 --> 03:21:18,060
things you cannot yet afford or things
6302
03:21:18,060 --> 03:21:20,520
you do not yet have and that's very easy
6303
03:21:20,520 --> 03:21:23,040
because what you're doing is the the
6304
03:21:23,040 --> 03:21:24,600
punishment or the mission you're trying
6305
03:21:24,600 --> 03:21:25,680
to complete
6306
03:21:25,680 --> 03:21:27,720
is actually necessary it's vital to
6307
03:21:27,720 --> 03:21:29,580
having the objective so if you want a
6308
03:21:29,580 --> 03:21:31,680
Ferrari you write down Ferrari well then
6309
03:21:31,680 --> 03:21:33,000
you have to make the money first don't
6310
03:21:33,000 --> 03:21:34,500
you of course if you want to have a
6311
03:21:34,500 --> 03:21:35,640
six-pack well then you've got to do the
6312
03:21:35,640 --> 03:21:37,920
work a separate list of things with the
6313
03:21:37,920 --> 03:21:39,359
objectives yet to be a completed which
6314
03:21:39,359 --> 03:21:40,859
you will need to finish before you can
6315
03:21:40,859 --> 03:21:42,300
even purchase them so you have two lists
6316
03:21:42,300 --> 03:21:44,399
things you can do right now and you're
6317
03:21:44,399 --> 03:21:46,140
going to delay gratification on purpose
6318
03:21:46,140 --> 03:21:48,840
to check to train your mind to earn
6319
03:21:48,840 --> 03:21:50,279
things so you're going to train your
6320
03:21:50,279 --> 03:21:51,779
mind to earn things with the first list
6321
03:21:51,779 --> 03:21:53,040
and the second list is obviously going
6322
03:21:53,040 --> 03:21:54,420
to be all your life goals all the things
6323
03:21:54,420 --> 03:21:55,620
you're aiming to get
6324
03:21:55,620 --> 03:21:57,359
the first list is actually the most
6325
03:21:57,359 --> 03:21:58,560
important the second list is just going
6326
03:21:58,560 --> 03:21:59,819
to be a general motivation everyone
6327
03:21:59,819 --> 03:22:01,380
wants to have a Ferrari and a mansion of
6328
03:22:01,380 --> 03:22:02,340
course it's good to write those things
6329
03:22:02,340 --> 03:22:03,779
down you may never even get them it's
6330
03:22:03,779 --> 03:22:05,220
the reality of the world you know you
6331
03:22:05,220 --> 03:22:06,720
may get halfway there and still be a
6332
03:22:06,720 --> 03:22:08,399
very happy contented person so this is a
6333
03:22:08,399 --> 03:22:10,859
dream list but that that that's good to
6334
03:22:10,859 --> 03:22:12,479
have but the first list is the most
6335
03:22:12,479 --> 03:22:13,319
important because you're going to learn
6336
03:22:13,319 --> 03:22:14,700
to delay gratification you're going to
6337
03:22:14,700 --> 03:22:16,560
learn to train yourself to make yourself
6338
03:22:16,560 --> 03:22:18,180
work for the things you want things you
6339
03:22:18,180 --> 03:22:19,800
already can do you're going to start
6340
03:22:19,800 --> 03:22:21,060
putting an objective you're going to
6341
03:22:21,060 --> 03:22:22,800
start putting a goal in the way so
6342
03:22:22,800 --> 03:22:24,180
people say to me often how do you find
6343
03:22:24,180 --> 03:22:25,500
the motivation to do this it's like well
6344
03:22:25,500 --> 03:22:26,760
if I don't do that I won't allow myself
6345
03:22:26,760 --> 03:22:28,439
to do it and why how do you find the
6346
03:22:28,439 --> 03:22:30,540
motivation to do X if I don't do X I
6347
03:22:30,540 --> 03:22:32,520
won't allow myself to do y so for
6348
03:22:32,520 --> 03:22:35,279
example I train seven days a week some
6349
03:22:35,279 --> 03:22:37,620
days I wake up and I cannot be asked I
6350
03:22:37,620 --> 03:22:39,899
ache I'm tired I've got a super busy day
6351
03:22:39,899 --> 03:22:41,700
I don't want to go to the gym my phone's
6352
03:22:41,700 --> 03:22:43,080
already going off I've got [ __ ] to do
6353
03:22:43,080 --> 03:22:44,939
but if I don't go to the gym I will not
6354
03:22:44,939 --> 03:22:46,859
allow myself to drive my fast cars which
6355
03:22:46,859 --> 03:22:47,939
I enjoy doing
6356
03:22:47,939 --> 03:22:49,920
and I've set that in stone if I don't
6357
03:22:49,920 --> 03:22:52,859
gym I'm not driving the cars so I'll end
6358
03:22:52,859 --> 03:22:54,180
up you know what well [ __ ] it the
6359
03:22:54,180 --> 03:22:55,800
lambo's looking nice it's sunny okay I
6360
03:22:55,800 --> 03:22:57,359
have to
6361
03:22:57,359 --> 03:22:58,740
do it you have to learn to put
6362
03:22:58,740 --> 03:23:00,420
objectives in the way of the things you
6363
03:23:00,420 --> 03:23:02,040
want and if you're completely objectives
6364
03:23:02,040 --> 03:23:03,960
and you can have what you want now the
6365
03:23:03,960 --> 03:23:05,160
most important thing about this list is
6366
03:23:05,160 --> 03:23:06,240
also you need to write down all the
6367
03:23:06,240 --> 03:23:08,700
times you fail so let's say you've
6368
03:23:08,700 --> 03:23:11,100
decided that on this on one of these
6369
03:23:11,100 --> 03:23:13,560
days I'm using very simple examples you
6370
03:23:13,560 --> 03:23:14,640
can think of the examples you do for
6371
03:23:14,640 --> 03:23:15,660
yourself you need to go through your
6372
03:23:15,660 --> 03:23:16,739
life over the next couple days and
6373
03:23:16,739 --> 03:23:18,120
realize how often you actually give in
6374
03:23:18,120 --> 03:23:19,560
to your impulses you're driving you see
6375
03:23:19,560 --> 03:23:21,180
McDonald's [ __ ] out McDonald's
6376
03:23:21,180 --> 03:23:22,979
when you see Jean through [ __ ] you see
6377
03:23:22,979 --> 03:23:24,359
some shoes you want [ __ ] it you're
6378
03:23:24,359 --> 03:23:25,680
watching TV you want to watch Game of
6379
03:23:25,680 --> 03:23:27,239
Thrones [ __ ] it [ __ ] it [ __ ] it you give
6380
03:23:27,239 --> 03:23:29,520
in tons more than you realize and if you
6381
03:23:29,520 --> 03:23:30,600
actually be conscious about it you'll
6382
03:23:30,600 --> 03:23:32,399
realize oh [ __ ] I want to watch the new
6383
03:23:32,399 --> 03:23:33,720
series of Game of Thrones that's
6384
03:23:33,720 --> 03:23:35,819
effectively wasting my time purely for
6385
03:23:35,819 --> 03:23:37,380
entertainment if I'm gonna do that I
6386
03:23:37,380 --> 03:23:39,359
have to do XML work first
6387
03:23:39,359 --> 03:23:40,800
so you can always find them objective
6388
03:23:40,800 --> 03:23:42,060
you always find an objective to put in
6389
03:23:42,060 --> 03:23:43,859
before so it should be very easy for you
6390
03:23:43,859 --> 03:23:45,120
over the next couple days to look at all
6391
03:23:45,120 --> 03:23:46,500
the times you've given to impulses and
6392
03:23:46,500 --> 03:23:48,239
do things which your opponent wouldn't
6393
03:23:48,239 --> 03:23:49,859
be doing your opponent would not waste
6394
03:23:49,859 --> 03:23:51,479
time on Game of Thrones Thrones you
6395
03:23:51,479 --> 03:23:52,739
would not sit in a McDonald's
6396
03:23:52,739 --> 03:23:54,720
drive-through you would not buy those
6397
03:23:54,720 --> 03:23:56,460
shoes just for the sake because you saw
6398
03:23:56,460 --> 03:23:58,140
him and he liked them so all the things
6399
03:23:58,140 --> 03:24:00,060
your opponent wouldn't do over the next
6400
03:24:00,060 --> 03:24:01,560
couple days you can write down you need
6401
03:24:01,560 --> 03:24:02,880
to set an objective in front of each one
6402
03:24:02,880 --> 03:24:04,859
you also need to realize and need to
6403
03:24:04,859 --> 03:24:06,720
keep track of how often you fail the
6404
03:24:06,720 --> 03:24:08,700
objective so let's say we chose Game of
6405
03:24:08,700 --> 03:24:09,720
Thrones you want to watch Game of
6406
03:24:09,720 --> 03:24:11,640
Thrones on Sunday and you've decided
6407
03:24:11,640 --> 03:24:13,439
you're going to go to the gym six days
6408
03:24:13,439 --> 03:24:15,239
from Monday to Saturday every single day
6409
03:24:15,239 --> 03:24:16,620
before you'll allow yourself to watch
6410
03:24:16,620 --> 03:24:18,180
Game of Thrones and for some reason on
6411
03:24:18,180 --> 03:24:19,680
Thursday you [ __ ] it up and you don't go
6412
03:24:19,680 --> 03:24:21,239
you need to write down next to that
6413
03:24:21,239 --> 03:24:22,800
objective yeah I [ __ ] up I need to try
6414
03:24:22,800 --> 03:24:24,660
the week after if you give in and just
6415
03:24:24,660 --> 03:24:25,800
watch Game of Thrones anyway then
6416
03:24:25,800 --> 03:24:28,020
everything start out the window but if
6417
03:24:28,020 --> 03:24:29,399
you're truly listening to the first two
6418
03:24:29,399 --> 03:24:31,140
lessons we've laid out then you should
6419
03:24:31,140 --> 03:24:33,239
feel too guilty to watch Game of Thrones
6420
03:24:33,239 --> 03:24:35,939
I couldn't sit there knowing I failed
6421
03:24:35,939 --> 03:24:38,460
the task and give myself the reward I
6422
03:24:38,460 --> 03:24:40,140
wouldn't enjoy the reward I'd feel
6423
03:24:40,140 --> 03:24:43,140
genuinely guilty genuinely if I was
6424
03:24:43,140 --> 03:24:44,100
supposed to go to the gym and I didn't
6425
03:24:44,100 --> 03:24:45,840
go to the gym and I had the ice cream
6426
03:24:45,840 --> 03:24:47,399
anyway I wouldn't enjoy the ice cream
6427
03:24:47,399 --> 03:24:48,779
because I'd feel guilty
6428
03:24:48,779 --> 03:24:49,859
you have to learn to take yourself
6429
03:24:49,859 --> 03:24:51,479
accountable make yourself accountable
6430
03:24:51,479 --> 03:24:53,340
and if you make this list like I said
6431
03:24:53,340 --> 03:24:54,840
over the next couple days keep track of
6432
03:24:54,840 --> 03:24:56,160
all the times you give in put an
6433
03:24:56,160 --> 03:24:57,600
objective in front of each one and you
6434
03:24:57,600 --> 03:24:59,279
shouldn't be able to do you shouldn't be
6435
03:24:59,279 --> 03:25:00,479
able to give in and do these things
6436
03:25:00,479 --> 03:25:02,100
because you should feel guilty if you're
6437
03:25:02,100 --> 03:25:03,600
not completely objective which means the
6438
03:25:03,600 --> 03:25:04,800
only way to do it is to complete the
6439
03:25:04,800 --> 03:25:06,060
objective and before you know you're
6440
03:25:06,060 --> 03:25:07,739
gonna have a shitload more work done
6441
03:25:07,739 --> 03:25:09,779
than you could have ever imagined
6442
03:25:09,779 --> 03:25:10,979
especially when it comes to physical
6443
03:25:10,979 --> 03:25:12,899
fitness is the easiest one what will
6444
03:25:12,899 --> 03:25:14,340
happen when you truly implement this
6445
03:25:14,340 --> 03:25:16,380
mindset is you'll start this is what
6446
03:25:16,380 --> 03:25:17,580
will happen is this what happens to me
6447
03:25:17,580 --> 03:25:19,439
you'll start realizing and you'll start
6448
03:25:19,439 --> 03:25:22,080
noticing how much other people give in
6449
03:25:22,080 --> 03:25:23,399
so I'll be sitting there at dinner and
6450
03:25:23,399 --> 03:25:25,020
I'll eat my dinner I'm so the person I'm
6451
03:25:25,020 --> 03:25:26,939
with and they'll go oh I want dessert
6452
03:25:26,939 --> 03:25:29,520
I'm on a diet ah [ __ ] it yeah [ __ ] it
6453
03:25:29,520 --> 03:25:31,920
dessert menu and you'll start realizing
6454
03:25:31,920 --> 03:25:33,779
how quickly and how easily other people
6455
03:25:33,779 --> 03:25:35,279
give in to impulses they'll be in the
6456
03:25:35,279 --> 03:25:37,140
mall or look at something I want it yeah
6457
03:25:37,140 --> 03:25:39,359
I'll buy it okay yeah [ __ ] it did it and
6458
03:25:39,359 --> 03:25:41,040
you'll also notice how how it doesn't
6459
03:25:41,040 --> 03:25:42,899
fulfill them whatsoever the first thing
6460
03:25:42,899 --> 03:25:44,100
that happens when you take this step
6461
03:25:44,100 --> 03:25:45,420
back and put these objectives in places
6462
03:25:45,420 --> 03:25:47,100
one you know is how people give in so
6463
03:25:47,100 --> 03:25:49,680
easily until you know this how much it
6464
03:25:49,680 --> 03:25:51,300
doesn't actually fulfill them they want
6465
03:25:51,300 --> 03:25:52,920
the dessert they eat the dessert are
6466
03:25:52,920 --> 03:25:55,080
they happy afterwards are they smiling
6467
03:25:55,080 --> 03:25:57,120
are they ecstatic or they feel the same
6468
03:25:57,120 --> 03:25:58,560
as you do except they brought a [ __ ]
6469
03:25:58,560 --> 03:26:00,479
stomach full of sugar and you don't most
6470
03:26:00,479 --> 03:26:01,500
people because they give into their
6471
03:26:01,500 --> 03:26:03,060
impulses so easily they're not even
6472
03:26:03,060 --> 03:26:04,979
happy with them this is the reality of
6473
03:26:04,979 --> 03:26:06,120
the world people buy [ __ ] they don't
6474
03:26:06,120 --> 03:26:07,680
want do [ __ ] that they don't even
6475
03:26:07,680 --> 03:26:09,960
[ __ ] like doing eat crap because I
6476
03:26:09,960 --> 03:26:11,100
really want that and they eat and they
6477
03:26:11,100 --> 03:26:12,420
feel like [ __ ] afterwards it's all
6478
03:26:12,420 --> 03:26:14,939
asinine it's all a name when you truly
6479
03:26:14,939 --> 03:26:16,080
implement this system you're going to
6480
03:26:16,080 --> 03:26:17,880
start noticing how easily others give in
6481
03:26:17,880 --> 03:26:19,680
and what it's going to start to do is it
6482
03:26:19,680 --> 03:26:21,359
should motivate you further when I'm
6483
03:26:21,359 --> 03:26:22,680
walking to the mall and someone gives in
6484
03:26:22,680 --> 03:26:24,359
does some dumb [ __ ] they shouldn't do it
6485
03:26:24,359 --> 03:26:25,859
motivates me to make sure I'm never like
6486
03:26:25,859 --> 03:26:27,960
that literally when they buy that
6487
03:26:27,960 --> 03:26:29,220
T-shirt and then they go home by the
6488
03:26:29,220 --> 03:26:30,239
time they get home they start on the
6489
03:26:30,239 --> 03:26:31,439
couch and throw the bag on the couch
6490
03:26:31,439 --> 03:26:32,700
throw in the wardrobe it's carry on
6491
03:26:32,700 --> 03:26:33,840
playing video games or whatever they're
6492
03:26:33,840 --> 03:26:35,580
doing what a waste of money they don't
6493
03:26:35,580 --> 03:26:36,479
even [ __ ] up they don't give a [ __ ]
6494
03:26:36,479 --> 03:26:37,920
about that t-shirt they made them happy
6495
03:26:37,920 --> 03:26:41,160
for maybe six minutes maybe
6496
03:26:41,160 --> 03:26:43,140
if if you only got six minutes of
6497
03:26:43,140 --> 03:26:45,000
Happiness out of a T-shirt but it
6498
03:26:45,000 --> 03:26:46,560
inspired you to go to the gym beforehand
6499
03:26:46,560 --> 03:26:48,720
then it's worthwhile then the T-shirt
6500
03:26:48,720 --> 03:26:50,580
now has a purpose but just to buy it for
6501
03:26:50,580 --> 03:26:51,660
the sake of feeling a little bit happier
6502
03:26:51,660 --> 03:26:52,979
for a few minutes to throw in a wardrobe
6503
03:26:52,979 --> 03:26:55,380
absolutely not worthwhile so there's a
6504
03:26:55,380 --> 03:26:57,060
huge difference between the two
6505
03:26:57,060 --> 03:26:58,979
so the second part of this objective
6506
03:26:58,979 --> 03:27:00,720
after you've done everything we've
6507
03:27:00,720 --> 03:27:02,520
discussed with the two lists and you're
6508
03:27:02,520 --> 03:27:04,319
understanding after a couple days of
6509
03:27:04,319 --> 03:27:05,819
analyzing all the things your opponent
6510
03:27:05,819 --> 03:27:07,080
wouldn't do to realize how often you
6511
03:27:07,080 --> 03:27:08,819
give them yourself is to also become
6512
03:27:08,819 --> 03:27:11,279
super perspicacious and pay attention to
6513
03:27:11,279 --> 03:27:13,020
how often other people give in to their
6514
03:27:13,020 --> 03:27:15,000
whims because that should motivate you
6515
03:27:15,000 --> 03:27:16,140
more than anything
6516
03:27:16,140 --> 03:27:18,239
make your list put all your objectives
6517
03:27:18,239 --> 03:27:19,260
down it doesn't matter what your
6518
03:27:19,260 --> 03:27:20,580
objectives are objectives can be super
6519
03:27:20,580 --> 03:27:22,200
simple and they can be super basic to
6520
03:27:22,200 --> 03:27:22,979
start
6521
03:27:22,979 --> 03:27:25,319
you know I want to make my first fifty
6522
03:27:25,319 --> 03:27:26,580
dollars online I've never made money
6523
03:27:26,580 --> 03:27:28,380
online before I want to find a way to
6524
03:27:28,380 --> 03:27:29,580
get someone to pay pound me fifty
6525
03:27:29,580 --> 03:27:30,899
dollars I make my first fifty dollars
6526
03:27:30,899 --> 03:27:32,580
online and after I do that I'm gonna
6527
03:27:32,580 --> 03:27:34,920
allow myself to go and blow it or go
6528
03:27:34,920 --> 03:27:36,720
blow 200 it doesn't matter it's the
6529
03:27:36,720 --> 03:27:37,979
principle that I managed to make money
6530
03:27:37,979 --> 03:27:39,660
online and if I do that I'm going to go
6531
03:27:39,660 --> 03:27:41,279
and go shopping on Sunday
6532
03:27:41,279 --> 03:27:42,660
and then you're sitting there on Twitter
6533
03:27:42,660 --> 03:27:43,859
and you're sitting there going how the
6534
03:27:43,859 --> 03:27:45,420
[ __ ] can I make some money because I
6535
03:27:45,420 --> 03:27:46,319
want to go shopping I want to go
6536
03:27:46,319 --> 03:27:47,880
shopping if I don't do this I can't go
6537
03:27:47,880 --> 03:27:49,620
shopping and you're gonna see how
6538
03:27:49,620 --> 03:27:51,420
quickly this compounds to a complete
6539
03:27:51,420 --> 03:27:54,180
change of Lifestyle these are some small
6540
03:27:54,180 --> 03:27:55,979
mind hacks this will be a quick video to
6541
03:27:55,979 --> 03:27:57,720
do some small mind hacks you can do that
6542
03:27:57,720 --> 03:28:00,180
will change your entire perspective near
6543
03:28:00,180 --> 03:28:01,380
instantly
6544
03:28:01,380 --> 03:28:03,120
and the first one I alluded to a couple
6545
03:28:03,120 --> 03:28:04,200
of these on Twitter but this is the
6546
03:28:04,200 --> 03:28:06,540
first one the first one is a very very
6547
03:28:06,540 --> 03:28:07,560
important one probably the most
6548
03:28:07,560 --> 03:28:10,560
important one and it's changing I have
6549
03:28:10,560 --> 03:28:11,399
to
6550
03:28:11,399 --> 03:28:13,560
the sentence I have to or the saying I
6551
03:28:13,560 --> 03:28:16,200
have to into I get to
6552
03:28:16,200 --> 03:28:18,239
a lot of people are extremely stressed
6553
03:28:18,239 --> 03:28:20,460
about things that they have to do and
6554
03:28:20,460 --> 03:28:22,080
because they have to do them or they
6555
03:28:22,080 --> 03:28:23,399
understand the importance of doing them
6556
03:28:23,399 --> 03:28:25,080
they forget that it's actually a
6557
03:28:25,080 --> 03:28:26,160
blessing to do them in the first place
6558
03:28:26,160 --> 03:28:27,779
because they're obligated when you're
6559
03:28:27,779 --> 03:28:29,640
obligated to do something you forget
6560
03:28:29,640 --> 03:28:31,859
that it's actually a good thing if I
6561
03:28:31,859 --> 03:28:33,960
like for example going to the gym is
6562
03:28:33,960 --> 03:28:36,000
something people can enjoy when I was a
6563
03:28:36,000 --> 03:28:38,340
fighter and I had to go to the gym twice
6564
03:28:38,340 --> 03:28:40,739
a day every day like anything in life
6565
03:28:40,739 --> 03:28:42,960
once you're obligated once you have to a
6566
03:28:42,960 --> 03:28:46,439
lot of the fun disappears so I have to
6567
03:28:46,439 --> 03:28:49,080
implicates an obligation whereas I get
6568
03:28:49,080 --> 03:28:51,540
to implicates a choice so I'll give you
6569
03:28:51,540 --> 03:28:53,040
an example if you wake up and you're
6570
03:28:53,040 --> 03:28:54,359
really busy you think I have to take the
6571
03:28:54,359 --> 03:28:56,760
kids to school I have to go to work I
6572
03:28:56,760 --> 03:28:58,920
have to take the car to be repaired
6573
03:28:58,920 --> 03:29:00,540
those are three things which are not
6574
03:29:00,540 --> 03:29:01,859
necessarily fun to do they're not
6575
03:29:01,859 --> 03:29:03,779
necessarily they're everyday activities
6576
03:29:03,779 --> 03:29:05,160
the things you could be stressed about
6577
03:29:05,160 --> 03:29:06,840
you're low on time you've got to get the
6578
03:29:06,840 --> 03:29:07,859
kids ready for school you've got to get
6579
03:29:07,859 --> 03:29:08,880
to work and there's a problem with the
6580
03:29:08,880 --> 03:29:10,800
car if you change I have to do those
6581
03:29:10,800 --> 03:29:12,720
three things and to I get to do those
6582
03:29:12,720 --> 03:29:14,760
three things the mentality around the
6583
03:29:14,760 --> 03:29:18,000
actions change so I get to take the kids
6584
03:29:18,000 --> 03:29:19,140
to school
6585
03:29:19,140 --> 03:29:20,880
a lot of people don't have kids a lot of
6586
03:29:20,880 --> 03:29:22,140
people want kids and can't get them
6587
03:29:22,140 --> 03:29:23,700
there's a lot of kids who can't go to
6588
03:29:23,700 --> 03:29:25,680
school you get to take your children to
6589
03:29:25,680 --> 03:29:28,020
school which is which is which is the
6590
03:29:28,020 --> 03:29:29,640
blessing in itself forget I have to take
6591
03:29:29,640 --> 03:29:30,899
the kids to school you get to take them
6592
03:29:30,899 --> 03:29:32,460
to school aren't you lucky
6593
03:29:32,460 --> 03:29:34,140
I have to go to work well you get to go
6594
03:29:34,140 --> 03:29:36,000
to work imagine you didn't have a job
6595
03:29:36,000 --> 03:29:38,939
imagine right now you lost your job if
6596
03:29:38,939 --> 03:29:40,380
you lost your job right now overnight
6597
03:29:40,380 --> 03:29:42,300
and you've got no income your whole life
6598
03:29:42,300 --> 03:29:44,399
would be a upside down it'd be a turmoil
6599
03:29:44,399 --> 03:29:45,779
and you'd miss your job very much and
6600
03:29:45,779 --> 03:29:47,399
you wish you had your job back so you
6601
03:29:47,399 --> 03:29:48,720
get to go to work you don't have to go
6602
03:29:48,720 --> 03:29:50,340
to work you get to go to work that's
6603
03:29:50,340 --> 03:29:52,080
what's a get a good thing even something
6604
03:29:52,080 --> 03:29:54,420
as annoying as a car person I'd take the
6605
03:29:54,420 --> 03:29:55,859
cartoon mechanics well at least you get
6606
03:29:55,859 --> 03:29:57,359
to take the car to the mechanics imagine
6607
03:29:57,359 --> 03:29:59,580
you didn't have a car imagine there was
6608
03:29:59,580 --> 03:30:02,100
no mechanic so next time you're sitting
6609
03:30:02,100 --> 03:30:03,540
there looking at your day or looking at
6610
03:30:03,540 --> 03:30:05,220
a list of things or jobs you have to
6611
03:30:05,220 --> 03:30:06,660
complete or you're stressed or low on
6612
03:30:06,660 --> 03:30:07,620
time and all these things are happening
6613
03:30:07,620 --> 03:30:09,180
I have to this I'll get this done I have
6614
03:30:09,180 --> 03:30:11,040
to do this I have to do this change the
6615
03:30:11,040 --> 03:30:14,100
language I get to do x y z and I
6616
03:30:14,100 --> 03:30:15,420
guarantee you'll feel better about the
6617
03:30:15,420 --> 03:30:17,220
activities near instantly and this is
6618
03:30:17,220 --> 03:30:18,300
something you can do very very quickly
6619
03:30:18,300 --> 03:30:19,620
this is the first thing you need to do
6620
03:30:19,620 --> 03:30:21,239
and this is the second little mind hack
6621
03:30:21,239 --> 03:30:22,680
and this video is short because I want
6622
03:30:22,680 --> 03:30:24,239
you to implement these I want you to
6623
03:30:24,239 --> 03:30:26,880
take time to genuinely make sure you
6624
03:30:26,880 --> 03:30:29,460
implement these two things change I have
6625
03:30:29,460 --> 03:30:32,340
to to I get to and the second one is and
6626
03:30:32,340 --> 03:30:34,380
then I can so when you have to do
6627
03:30:34,380 --> 03:30:36,840
something difficult add uh and then I
6628
03:30:36,840 --> 03:30:39,000
can on the end for example with me with
6629
03:30:39,000 --> 03:30:40,859
the gym I I'm being honest with you I
6630
03:30:40,859 --> 03:30:42,239
don't like the gym anymore I'm doing it
6631
03:30:42,239 --> 03:30:43,680
for too long but I understand its
6632
03:30:43,680 --> 03:30:44,819
importance and I don't want to miss it
6633
03:30:44,819 --> 03:30:46,260
so I think you know what I'm gonna go
6634
03:30:46,260 --> 03:30:48,120
train I'm gonna train hard because then
6635
03:30:48,120 --> 03:30:50,520
I can relax so adding and then I get to
6636
03:30:50,520 --> 03:30:52,439
onto the end of basically anything can
6637
03:30:52,439 --> 03:30:54,180
give you a lot of motivation so even the
6638
03:30:54,180 --> 03:30:56,640
simple activities we labeled earlier the
6639
03:30:56,640 --> 03:30:58,739
I have two things I have to get the kids
6640
03:30:58,739 --> 03:31:01,319
ready for school I have to go to work I
6641
03:31:01,319 --> 03:31:03,300
have to fix the car if you change it to
6642
03:31:03,300 --> 03:31:05,340
I get to take the kids to school I get
6643
03:31:05,340 --> 03:31:07,800
to go to work I get to get the car fixed
6644
03:31:07,800 --> 03:31:10,439
and then I can relax or and then I'm
6645
03:31:10,439 --> 03:31:11,580
going to give myself I'm going to treat
6646
03:31:11,580 --> 03:31:13,439
myself and allow myself to have a glass
6647
03:31:13,439 --> 03:31:16,319
of wine or some ice cream whatever add
6648
03:31:16,319 --> 03:31:18,840
and then on to the end of every single
6649
03:31:18,840 --> 03:31:21,239
difficult task and change I have to to I
6650
03:31:21,239 --> 03:31:23,399
get to try that for a week and you'll
6651
03:31:23,399 --> 03:31:24,720
see exactly how your entire world
6652
03:31:24,720 --> 03:31:27,000
changes language body language is how
6653
03:31:27,000 --> 03:31:28,680
people communicate without speaking
6654
03:31:28,680 --> 03:31:32,160
since the dawn of human time people have
6655
03:31:32,160 --> 03:31:34,020
always communicated with our speaking
6656
03:31:34,020 --> 03:31:36,120
and a man's role and I'm assuming you're
6657
03:31:36,120 --> 03:31:37,620
a man because I doubt a female would
6658
03:31:37,620 --> 03:31:40,200
have bought this a man's role is very
6659
03:31:40,200 --> 03:31:42,840
very specific in his body language
6660
03:31:42,840 --> 03:31:45,300
in this course you're going to see a
6661
03:31:45,300 --> 03:31:46,739
video where I kind of do an overview on
6662
03:31:46,739 --> 03:31:49,500
body language and I basically say
6663
03:31:49,500 --> 03:31:52,500
be combative but I'm gonna I'm gonna go
6664
03:31:52,500 --> 03:31:54,060
into that into more detail in this video
6665
03:31:54,060 --> 03:31:55,920
the reason I say being combative is
6666
03:31:55,920 --> 03:31:57,239
because being combative is the most
6667
03:31:57,239 --> 03:31:59,040
important body language which exists
6668
03:31:59,040 --> 03:32:01,859
which you can portray to other men and
6669
03:32:01,859 --> 03:32:04,620
to women because this is the only body
6670
03:32:04,620 --> 03:32:06,239
language which was important for
6671
03:32:06,239 --> 03:32:07,859
millennia
6672
03:32:07,859 --> 03:32:10,500
for human EX in the human existence the
6673
03:32:10,500 --> 03:32:11,939
only important body language was the
6674
03:32:11,939 --> 03:32:13,200
body language that you are not an easy
6675
03:32:13,200 --> 03:32:15,300
target it attracted women
6676
03:32:15,300 --> 03:32:18,000
and it made men respect you
6677
03:32:18,000 --> 03:32:19,859
so we're going to talk about the broad
6678
03:32:19,859 --> 03:32:21,300
basics of body language and we're going
6679
03:32:21,300 --> 03:32:22,640
to do some little tips and tricks
6680
03:32:22,640 --> 03:32:25,020
overall so the first thing I want you to
6681
03:32:25,020 --> 03:32:26,399
understand is
6682
03:32:26,399 --> 03:32:28,200
combative does not mean walking around
6683
03:32:28,200 --> 03:32:30,180
swaying shoulders like this combative
6684
03:32:30,180 --> 03:32:32,939
means looking alert
6685
03:32:32,939 --> 03:32:34,500
I think Jordan Peterson says something
6686
03:32:34,500 --> 03:32:36,420
about this but I don't think his body
6687
03:32:36,420 --> 03:32:38,819
language is particularly Alpha in fact I
6688
03:32:38,819 --> 03:32:40,859
don't think the world has many Alpha
6689
03:32:40,859 --> 03:32:42,840
Role Models sure if you name the right
6690
03:32:42,840 --> 03:32:44,819
wing Role Models like Milo and Jordan
6691
03:32:44,819 --> 03:32:46,140
Peterson and all these people are just
6692
03:32:46,140 --> 03:32:47,819
weirdos none of them are particularly
6693
03:32:47,819 --> 03:32:51,060
overtly Alpha besides Trump himself but
6694
03:32:51,060 --> 03:32:52,680
Trump is a great guy to study body
6695
03:32:52,680 --> 03:32:54,899
language wise you want a body language
6696
03:32:54,899 --> 03:32:58,680
lesson watch Trump he doesn't play games
6697
03:32:58,680 --> 03:33:00,300
anyway
6698
03:33:00,300 --> 03:33:02,340
you have to look combative so the look
6699
03:33:02,340 --> 03:33:04,979
combative it's basic things it means be
6700
03:33:04,979 --> 03:33:07,200
ready for a fight that does not mean
6701
03:33:07,200 --> 03:33:09,779
project aggression it means be ready for
6702
03:33:09,779 --> 03:33:11,340
a fight so if you were walking down the
6703
03:33:11,340 --> 03:33:14,100
road you're walking down the road are
6704
03:33:14,100 --> 03:33:15,660
you more ready for a fight with your
6705
03:33:15,660 --> 03:33:17,220
hands in your pockets
6706
03:33:17,220 --> 03:33:19,680
or your hands outside your pockets
6707
03:33:19,680 --> 03:33:21,120
or you're more ready for a fight if
6708
03:33:21,120 --> 03:33:22,500
you're staring at your phone with your
6709
03:33:22,500 --> 03:33:25,319
head down or with your head up with your
6710
03:33:25,319 --> 03:33:27,540
shoulders back with your posture correct
6711
03:33:27,540 --> 03:33:29,520
while I teach you in this course is not
6712
03:33:29,520 --> 03:33:31,140
just going to be do this do this do this
6713
03:33:31,140 --> 03:33:33,479
it's how to think about body language so
6714
03:33:33,479 --> 03:33:35,700
that you're over you're overtly aware of
6715
03:33:35,700 --> 03:33:38,040
how you're acting you need to be aware
6716
03:33:38,040 --> 03:33:39,359
of how you act
6717
03:33:39,359 --> 03:33:41,040
so you need to have a correct posture
6718
03:33:41,040 --> 03:33:43,140
you need to sit up straight sit properly
6719
03:33:43,140 --> 03:33:44,760
you need to have your hands out of your
6720
03:33:44,760 --> 03:33:46,140
pockets you need to look where you're
6721
03:33:46,140 --> 03:33:48,239
going and not look down not be
6722
03:33:48,239 --> 03:33:51,359
distracted not look like a victim
6723
03:33:51,359 --> 03:33:52,800
this is extremely important in
6724
03:33:52,800 --> 03:33:54,060
projecting to men and it's also
6725
03:33:54,060 --> 03:33:55,140
important when protecting to women so
6726
03:33:55,140 --> 03:33:56,520
we're going to go in that in detail in
6727
03:33:56,520 --> 03:33:58,680
this course so
6728
03:33:58,680 --> 03:34:00,420
I know I just mentioned Trump but we
6729
03:34:00,420 --> 03:34:01,500
also can't forget about Putin because
6730
03:34:01,500 --> 03:34:04,680
Putin's KGB trained he knows exactly how
6731
03:34:04,680 --> 03:34:05,640
to act
6732
03:34:05,640 --> 03:34:08,040
so when someone's talking to him and
6733
03:34:08,040 --> 03:34:09,720
he's wants to make it clear he doesn't
6734
03:34:09,720 --> 03:34:11,760
give a [ __ ] what they say
6735
03:34:11,760 --> 03:34:13,859
he will for example lean back in his
6736
03:34:13,859 --> 03:34:14,640
chair
6737
03:34:14,640 --> 03:34:16,680
so Putin will sit there and you'll start
6738
03:34:16,680 --> 03:34:19,080
talking to him and he'll sit with this
6739
03:34:19,080 --> 03:34:22,380
this is Putin's I don't give a [ __ ] this
6740
03:34:22,380 --> 03:34:24,660
is Putin's I'm not listening
6741
03:34:24,660 --> 03:34:26,399
many traditional body language courses
6742
03:34:26,399 --> 03:34:28,680
will teach you ah if you cross your arms
6743
03:34:28,680 --> 03:34:31,680
you're not receptive this is true you
6744
03:34:31,680 --> 03:34:33,000
know like this shows you're not open
6745
03:34:33,000 --> 03:34:34,680
you're not receptive you're crossing
6746
03:34:34,680 --> 03:34:36,899
your arms Etc but as much more subtle
6747
03:34:36,899 --> 03:34:38,819
moves like leaning back in your chair
6748
03:34:38,819 --> 03:34:40,439
in the back of your chair is a great one
6749
03:34:40,439 --> 03:34:42,239
I use it all the time so I'm gonna sit
6750
03:34:42,239 --> 03:34:43,500
there and start talking to me if I don't
6751
03:34:43,500 --> 03:34:45,359
like what I have to sell lean back
6752
03:34:45,359 --> 03:34:46,739
I'll still look at them I was lean back
6753
03:34:46,739 --> 03:34:49,979
in my chair I'll look directly at them
6754
03:34:49,979 --> 03:34:51,960
and they'll know oh [ __ ]
6755
03:34:51,960 --> 03:34:53,880
upset him somehow
6756
03:34:53,880 --> 03:34:55,439
so I'll make that clear
6757
03:34:55,439 --> 03:34:56,700
so we're gonna go over a few things the
6758
03:34:56,700 --> 03:34:57,660
first thing we're talking about is being
6759
03:34:57,660 --> 03:35:00,060
trusted and listened to
6760
03:35:00,060 --> 03:35:01,560
now if you've bought my other courses
6761
03:35:01,560 --> 03:35:05,899
you know that my brain is a mega Hive of
6762
03:35:05,899 --> 03:35:08,540
unlimited potential
6763
03:35:08,540 --> 03:35:10,859
petrabytes of is petrabyte even a thing
6764
03:35:10,859 --> 03:35:13,020
no okay
6765
03:35:13,020 --> 03:35:14,760
if you've bought my other courses you'll
6766
03:35:14,760 --> 03:35:16,439
know that my brain is unrivaled by
6767
03:35:16,439 --> 03:35:18,540
anyone else on this planet terabytes on
6768
03:35:18,540 --> 03:35:21,000
Palm terabytes of information from [ __ ]
6769
03:35:21,000 --> 03:35:23,279
knows where I'm just a genius so like
6770
03:35:23,279 --> 03:35:24,660
all my other videos I'm just going to be
6771
03:35:24,660 --> 03:35:26,819
talking bang information should be
6772
03:35:26,819 --> 03:35:28,500
coming at you you need to sit there slow
6773
03:35:28,500 --> 03:35:29,760
it down watch it over and over again
6774
03:35:29,760 --> 03:35:31,800
decipher it and put some things in
6775
03:35:31,800 --> 03:35:33,120
action because I guarantee there's a lot
6776
03:35:33,120 --> 03:35:34,859
you're doing wrong already
6777
03:35:34,859 --> 03:35:36,300
right now
6778
03:35:36,300 --> 03:35:37,560
don't move
6779
03:35:37,560 --> 03:35:39,420
your posture right now where are your
6780
03:35:39,420 --> 03:35:41,880
hands are you sitting up straight do you
6781
03:35:41,880 --> 03:35:44,100
even look are you sitting correctly or
6782
03:35:44,100 --> 03:35:46,319
are you all like in your chair maybe
6783
03:35:46,319 --> 03:35:47,520
you're already making mistakes you don't
6784
03:35:47,520 --> 03:35:49,319
know so the first things we'll talk
6785
03:35:49,319 --> 03:35:50,819
about is how to be listened to and
6786
03:35:50,819 --> 03:35:53,939
trustworthy I have been to court six
6787
03:35:53,939 --> 03:35:55,560
times and every time I've walked and
6788
03:35:55,560 --> 03:35:56,580
I've never used a lawyer and I've
6789
03:35:56,580 --> 03:35:58,080
represented myself and the reason for
6790
03:35:58,080 --> 03:36:00,000
that is because I one I speak very
6791
03:36:00,000 --> 03:36:02,760
clearly very precisely and I know
6792
03:36:02,760 --> 03:36:04,140
exactly how to use the human language
6793
03:36:04,140 --> 03:36:06,779
but secondly is my body language so
6794
03:36:06,779 --> 03:36:08,460
sometimes in court
6795
03:36:08,460 --> 03:36:11,760
you need to look believable you need to
6796
03:36:11,760 --> 03:36:14,880
look innocent and to do this you make
6797
03:36:14,880 --> 03:36:17,100
yourself appear less aggressive
6798
03:36:17,100 --> 03:36:19,800
big men have this problem small men are
6799
03:36:19,800 --> 03:36:21,720
very concerned about looking big whereas
6800
03:36:21,720 --> 03:36:23,520
a big man in many situations you need to
6801
03:36:23,520 --> 03:36:25,680
look less intimidating if my car breaks
6802
03:36:25,680 --> 03:36:28,020
down and I want to knock on someone's
6803
03:36:28,020 --> 03:36:30,359
door to use the phone I know that's
6804
03:36:30,359 --> 03:36:32,100
super old school and I know that's how
6805
03:36:32,100 --> 03:36:33,300
people get murdered in every single
6806
03:36:33,300 --> 03:36:35,100
movie but it's just an example
6807
03:36:35,100 --> 03:36:37,080
but if I knock on the door people don't
6808
03:36:37,080 --> 03:36:38,520
answer the door to me
6809
03:36:38,520 --> 03:36:40,319
when me and Tristan knock on doors they
6810
03:36:40,319 --> 03:36:42,479
look outside and go what the [ __ ] who
6811
03:36:42,479 --> 03:36:46,020
the [ __ ] is two six foot five dudes no
6812
03:36:46,020 --> 03:36:48,180
no chick is opening that door me and my
6813
03:36:48,180 --> 03:36:49,319
brother used to have a job where we used
6814
03:36:49,319 --> 03:36:51,060
to do door-to-door sales a long time ago
6815
03:36:51,060 --> 03:36:53,100
and we had to quit the job because no
6816
03:36:53,100 --> 03:36:55,260
one would answer the door to us but to
6817
03:36:55,260 --> 03:36:57,540
find these two massive guys just be like
6818
03:36:57,540 --> 03:36:59,040
what the [ __ ] no one answered out the
6819
03:36:59,040 --> 03:37:02,040
window well can I sell you nah get the
6820
03:37:02,040 --> 03:37:03,620
[ __ ] away from my house
6821
03:37:03,620 --> 03:37:05,399
you have to try and change your
6822
03:37:05,399 --> 03:37:06,479
Borderlands should appear less
6823
03:37:06,479 --> 03:37:09,359
aggressive so we'd actively slunk or
6824
03:37:09,359 --> 03:37:12,120
hold a clipboard or something to just
6825
03:37:12,120 --> 03:37:15,060
make yourself seem smaller so when I was
6826
03:37:15,060 --> 03:37:16,620
in court and they were accusing me of
6827
03:37:16,620 --> 03:37:18,479
things I didn't [ __ ] do but even
6828
03:37:18,479 --> 03:37:20,340
though I was innocent of course you have
6829
03:37:20,340 --> 03:37:22,020
to look and say so you don't look
6830
03:37:22,020 --> 03:37:23,819
innocent by looking aggressive you're
6831
03:37:23,819 --> 03:37:25,560
looking to sit by looking smaller you
6832
03:37:25,560 --> 03:37:28,560
make yourself seem smaller you'd add in
6833
03:37:28,560 --> 03:37:30,660
stammering to your language so I I never
6834
03:37:30,660 --> 03:37:33,960
say I'm an uh ever I'm like oh yeah well
6835
03:37:33,960 --> 03:37:36,840
I don't think it's fair uh uh uh and you
6836
03:37:36,840 --> 03:37:38,580
almost in many ways see yourself appear
6837
03:37:38,580 --> 03:37:40,620
less intelligent not less intelligent in
6838
03:37:40,620 --> 03:37:43,380
a stupid he's dumb he did it way in a
6839
03:37:43,380 --> 03:37:46,020
very like I couldn't hurt anyone women
6840
03:37:46,020 --> 03:37:48,600
are experts at this women do this the
6841
03:37:48,600 --> 03:37:50,220
best watch a female get pulled over by
6842
03:37:50,220 --> 03:37:51,359
the police
6843
03:37:51,359 --> 03:37:53,640
watch Richard start going oh oh really
6844
03:37:53,640 --> 03:37:55,920
oh playing stupid is a great way to play
6845
03:37:55,920 --> 03:37:58,560
innocent and it's very very effective
6846
03:37:58,560 --> 03:38:00,000
what you'll find in one language
6847
03:38:00,000 --> 03:38:01,859
sometimes the biggest result is when you
6848
03:38:01,859 --> 03:38:03,960
can juxtapose them against each other so
6849
03:38:03,960 --> 03:38:06,120
I was in court they'd ask me questions
6850
03:38:06,120 --> 03:38:08,040
I'd be like oh no I don't even really
6851
03:38:08,040 --> 03:38:09,899
know how that works to be honest but I
6852
03:38:09,899 --> 03:38:10,739
don't
6853
03:38:10,739 --> 03:38:12,000
don't really know
6854
03:38:12,000 --> 03:38:14,040
but add in these little delays I
6855
03:38:14,040 --> 03:38:16,020
deliberately slow my speech down but
6856
03:38:16,020 --> 03:38:17,460
then when I had to make a point I'd
6857
03:38:17,460 --> 03:38:19,020
completely flip it
6858
03:38:19,020 --> 03:38:21,000
and I'd be very adamant and direct with
6859
03:38:21,000 --> 03:38:23,220
my words even now and even in all my
6860
03:38:23,220 --> 03:38:24,660
pink speech videos you'll notice how I
6861
03:38:24,660 --> 03:38:26,939
use my hands if I have a point to make I
6862
03:38:26,939 --> 03:38:29,340
use my hands to make the point I direct
6863
03:38:29,340 --> 03:38:30,899
the point with my hands you're going to
6864
03:38:30,899 --> 03:38:32,160
notice me doing all the time now
6865
03:38:32,160 --> 03:38:34,260
something I do on accident
6866
03:38:34,260 --> 03:38:36,420
but if I want to make a point I'll say
6867
03:38:36,420 --> 03:38:38,220
something like and the reason for this
6868
03:38:38,220 --> 03:38:40,620
the reason your mom has a big ass is
6869
03:38:40,620 --> 03:38:42,239
because she eats too much
6870
03:38:42,239 --> 03:38:43,859
I'll do things like this I'll explain
6871
03:38:43,859 --> 03:38:45,540
the reason I'll get your attention on my
6872
03:38:45,540 --> 03:38:46,979
hands and then I'll directly give you
6873
03:38:46,979 --> 03:38:48,420
the reason and I'll put it into your
6874
03:38:48,420 --> 03:38:50,399
brain I'll put it in with my hands this
6875
03:38:50,399 --> 03:38:52,200
is something I do completely by natural
6876
03:38:52,200 --> 03:38:53,340
I don't have to think about it anymore
6877
03:38:53,340 --> 03:38:54,899
but it's something I did learn
6878
03:38:54,899 --> 03:38:57,300
and it's amazing with women it's great
6879
03:38:57,300 --> 03:38:58,560
with women when you're arguing with them
6880
03:38:58,560 --> 03:39:00,540
and they sit there and be like blah blah
6881
03:39:00,540 --> 03:39:02,939
blah I didn't [ __ ] [ __ ] her
6882
03:39:02,939 --> 03:39:05,720
be quiet
6883
03:39:06,000 --> 03:39:09,060
I'm here but the physical action makes
6884
03:39:09,060 --> 03:39:12,060
them sit there and go okay just be very
6885
03:39:12,060 --> 03:39:14,640
aware very avert with your hands like I
6886
03:39:14,640 --> 03:39:15,899
said this course is just going to be
6887
03:39:15,899 --> 03:39:18,660
knowledge flying at you so when you talk
6888
03:39:18,660 --> 03:39:21,779
where are your hands where are they how
6889
03:39:21,779 --> 03:39:23,939
do you use them your hands you should be
6890
03:39:23,939 --> 03:39:25,140
extremely expressive with your hands
6891
03:39:25,140 --> 03:39:27,239
especially if you're a man when I before
6892
03:39:27,239 --> 03:39:28,859
I was a kickboxing or check and I worked
6893
03:39:28,859 --> 03:39:30,060
in sales
6894
03:39:30,060 --> 03:39:31,739
and I have the best sales record in the
6895
03:39:31,739 --> 03:39:34,380
[ __ ] company obviously and a lot of
6896
03:39:34,380 --> 03:39:36,000
that was down to body language
6897
03:39:36,000 --> 03:39:38,100
sit there in front of somebody I sold TV
6898
03:39:38,100 --> 03:39:39,899
advertising I'll sit there and say you
6899
03:39:39,899 --> 03:39:41,520
need TV advertising oh we do pretty good
6900
03:39:41,520 --> 03:39:43,200
I said yeah you do good now but in the
6901
03:39:43,200 --> 03:39:44,220
future you're going to need you're going
6902
03:39:44,220 --> 03:39:45,960
to need TV advertising it's the future
6903
03:39:45,960 --> 03:39:48,239
of advertising you're going to need it
6904
03:39:48,239 --> 03:39:49,859
I'll tell people you ain't got a choice
6905
03:39:49,859 --> 03:39:53,040
you better buy it today you need this
6906
03:39:53,040 --> 03:39:55,020
if they're okay well let me look at your
6907
03:39:55,020 --> 03:39:56,700
current strategy and then maybe I can
6908
03:39:56,700 --> 03:39:59,460
improve it no [ __ ] that garbage if
6909
03:39:59,460 --> 03:40:00,720
you're a Salesman you're watching this
6910
03:40:00,720 --> 03:40:01,859
now you better start telling people they
6911
03:40:01,859 --> 03:40:04,260
need it you can't live without this you
6912
03:40:04,260 --> 03:40:05,520
need this today
6913
03:40:05,520 --> 03:40:07,739
I understand my industry no disrespect
6914
03:40:07,739 --> 03:40:09,899
you're a diaper company or you're a
6915
03:40:09,899 --> 03:40:11,340
[ __ ] worker company you understand
6916
03:40:11,340 --> 03:40:13,560
War you know more about war than me I
6917
03:40:13,560 --> 03:40:15,779
understand advertising
6918
03:40:15,779 --> 03:40:17,939
see what I've done there you understand
6919
03:40:17,939 --> 03:40:20,520
War that's your thing advertising is my
6920
03:40:20,520 --> 03:40:22,260
thing you don't tell me about your
6921
03:40:22,260 --> 03:40:23,399
advertising strategy because I don't
6922
03:40:23,399 --> 03:40:25,620
[ __ ] care advertising is my thing
6923
03:40:25,620 --> 03:40:28,739
it's mine I own it and if I say you need
6924
03:40:28,739 --> 03:40:30,779
something you better buy it so you
6925
03:40:30,779 --> 03:40:32,580
understand war war is your industry
6926
03:40:32,580 --> 03:40:34,080
advertising my industry but in this
6927
03:40:34,080 --> 03:40:35,460
industry for a long time I'm telling you
6928
03:40:35,460 --> 03:40:37,319
with your current strategy you're having
6929
03:40:37,319 --> 03:40:38,640
success now but you won't have success
6930
03:40:38,640 --> 03:40:40,380
in the future and you're going to need a
6931
03:40:40,380 --> 03:40:42,300
different form of advertising that's
6932
03:40:42,300 --> 03:40:43,739
exactly how I've been people sitting
6933
03:40:43,739 --> 03:40:47,279
there going oh okay sorry should be very
6934
03:40:47,279 --> 03:40:49,140
very careful with your hands and how you
6935
03:40:49,140 --> 03:40:52,020
use things I am I am very good at that
6936
03:40:52,020 --> 03:40:55,560
you me this all these things are learned
6937
03:40:55,560 --> 03:40:57,300
you have to adapt your own style but you
6938
03:40:57,300 --> 03:40:58,739
need to sit there and think consciously
6939
03:40:58,739 --> 03:40:59,939
when you speak what are you doing with
6940
03:40:59,939 --> 03:41:01,439
your hands if you're gonna sit there and
6941
03:41:01,439 --> 03:41:03,899
talk with your hands in your pockets
6942
03:41:03,899 --> 03:41:06,239
you're not gonna be nearly as convincing
6943
03:41:06,239 --> 03:41:08,340
if I want to sit there and I want to
6944
03:41:08,340 --> 03:41:10,920
come across as there's the old mafia
6945
03:41:10,920 --> 03:41:12,720
boss you know you can sit and be like
6946
03:41:12,720 --> 03:41:15,720
with your hands in one place
6947
03:41:15,720 --> 03:41:18,300
and just use your eyes instead that
6948
03:41:18,300 --> 03:41:21,540
works but that's a far more that's the
6949
03:41:21,540 --> 03:41:23,640
kind of body language you use when you
6950
03:41:23,640 --> 03:41:25,200
don't really want to talk anymore
6951
03:41:25,200 --> 03:41:26,880
if I'm about to if I'm about to have
6952
03:41:26,880 --> 03:41:27,899
someone shot
6953
03:41:27,899 --> 03:41:29,819
and they come in to apologize to me
6954
03:41:29,819 --> 03:41:32,160
before I have them shot in the head I
6955
03:41:32,160 --> 03:41:33,420
won't be moving my hands I'll be
6956
03:41:33,420 --> 03:41:35,279
listening to them like this because I
6957
03:41:35,279 --> 03:41:36,420
don't want to listen to them and I don't
6958
03:41:36,420 --> 03:41:37,859
want to talk this is I don't really give
6959
03:41:37,859 --> 03:41:40,080
a [ __ ] anymore like this saying friends
6960
03:41:40,080 --> 03:41:41,939
of course you don't really care
6961
03:41:41,939 --> 03:41:43,800
when I met Donald Trump Jr in the Trump
6962
03:41:43,800 --> 03:41:45,180
Tower I was super aware of his body
6963
03:41:45,180 --> 03:41:46,380
language what Trump did it's something
6964
03:41:46,380 --> 03:41:48,779
I've never seen before Trump Jr we sat
6965
03:41:48,779 --> 03:41:50,399
down and we started talking he sat like
6966
03:41:50,399 --> 03:41:52,319
this
6967
03:41:52,319 --> 03:41:55,140
with his hands open on the table
6968
03:41:55,140 --> 03:41:56,700
I don't know where he learned that from
6969
03:41:56,700 --> 03:41:59,100
I'm sure he was tall we're having a
6970
03:41:59,100 --> 03:42:00,420
normal conversation we had coffees we
6971
03:42:00,420 --> 03:42:01,920
sitting on the table there's a round
6972
03:42:01,920 --> 03:42:03,540
table not like this and he sat down and
6973
03:42:03,540 --> 03:42:05,640
he said this
6974
03:42:05,640 --> 03:42:06,899
which I thought was quite interesting
6975
03:42:06,899 --> 03:42:09,060
I've actually never seen anyone else do
6976
03:42:09,060 --> 03:42:10,680
that before so it kind of threw me a bit
6977
03:42:10,680 --> 03:42:12,239
and I thought maybe the reason he was
6978
03:42:12,239 --> 03:42:13,500
taught that is because it's so unusual
6979
03:42:13,500 --> 03:42:15,000
because I read people's body language
6980
03:42:15,000 --> 03:42:17,100
and every other position this that you
6981
03:42:17,100 --> 03:42:18,899
see now I've never seen this
6982
03:42:18,899 --> 03:42:20,399
really ever
6983
03:42:20,399 --> 03:42:22,020
so that was interesting
6984
03:42:22,020 --> 03:42:23,939
so first thing to do is be very overtly
6985
03:42:23,939 --> 03:42:25,560
aware of how you use your hands when you
6986
03:42:25,560 --> 03:42:26,460
speak
6987
03:42:26,460 --> 03:42:28,140
if you want to direct something if you
6988
03:42:28,140 --> 03:42:29,279
want to be believed you want to be
6989
03:42:29,279 --> 03:42:30,960
convincing your hands have to be
6990
03:42:30,960 --> 03:42:32,580
involved in that process
6991
03:42:32,580 --> 03:42:34,620
when I was in my police interviews once
6992
03:42:34,620 --> 03:42:37,260
again I would use my hands overtly
6993
03:42:37,260 --> 03:42:39,359
and I would sit there and say I actually
6994
03:42:39,359 --> 03:42:40,979
said in some of my police tapes and when
6995
03:42:40,979 --> 03:42:43,620
I get them back when I'm finally cleared
6996
03:42:43,620 --> 03:42:44,880
of all charges he must have been gone
6997
03:42:44,880 --> 03:42:47,160
for four years I get the tapes back and
6998
03:42:47,160 --> 03:42:48,180
I'm gonna release them on Twitter it's
6999
03:42:48,180 --> 03:42:49,200
gonna be the best thing ever because I
7000
03:42:49,200 --> 03:42:51,540
made these pieces like [ __ ] fools
7001
03:42:51,540 --> 03:42:53,340
but I would say to them
7002
03:42:53,340 --> 03:42:56,340
in the tape I would say
7003
03:42:56,340 --> 03:42:58,979
very hard I said I said do you have a
7004
03:42:58,979 --> 03:43:00,720
camera in here and they'll be like oh
7005
03:43:00,720 --> 03:43:02,100
yeah we do I say okay I want this for
7006
03:43:02,100 --> 03:43:03,120
the camera I don't want this for the
7007
03:43:03,120 --> 03:43:05,100
tape I want this for the camera I am
7008
03:43:05,100 --> 03:43:07,859
innocent I am innocent me I've done
7009
03:43:07,859 --> 03:43:09,840
nothing wrong I'm saying anything with
7010
03:43:09,840 --> 03:43:11,279
your hands up
7011
03:43:11,279 --> 03:43:13,319
I'm innocent I'm innocent they're
7012
03:43:13,319 --> 03:43:15,000
different things I'm innocent I want
7013
03:43:15,000 --> 03:43:17,100
this on camera for the tape reference to
7014
03:43:17,100 --> 03:43:18,479
time what time is it
7015
03:43:18,479 --> 03:43:19,979
point at someone when you need something
7016
03:43:19,979 --> 03:43:21,180
uh
7017
03:43:21,180 --> 03:43:24,720
5 15 5 15. look at the day 5 15 24th of
7018
03:43:24,720 --> 03:43:27,300
November look I've done nothing wrong I
7019
03:43:27,300 --> 03:43:28,560
said that [ __ ] directly to the camera
7020
03:43:28,560 --> 03:43:31,020
and reference off the tape
7021
03:43:31,020 --> 03:43:32,939
body language makes a huge huge
7022
03:43:32,939 --> 03:43:34,800
difference and basically if you want to
7023
03:43:34,800 --> 03:43:36,779
be believed or trusted in my experience
7024
03:43:36,779 --> 03:43:38,819
which is [ __ ] vast you need to use
7025
03:43:38,819 --> 03:43:40,859
your hands effectively I've given you
7026
03:43:40,859 --> 03:43:42,840
some tips on how I do it you have to
7027
03:43:42,840 --> 03:43:45,120
adapt your own style like everything in
7028
03:43:45,120 --> 03:43:47,040
the world if you completely replicate
7029
03:43:47,040 --> 03:43:48,720
someone else's style it comes across as
7030
03:43:48,720 --> 03:43:50,880
unnatural and it doesn't work you need
7031
03:43:50,880 --> 03:43:52,859
your own style you can't be the exactly
7032
03:43:52,859 --> 03:43:54,359
the same as me and I can't be exactly
7033
03:43:54,359 --> 03:43:56,399
the same as you same as boxing or
7034
03:43:56,399 --> 03:43:58,020
fighting I could teach you how to do jab
7035
03:43:58,020 --> 03:43:59,399
cross but everyone does it a little bit
7036
03:43:59,399 --> 03:44:00,720
different everyone has a slightly
7037
03:44:00,720 --> 03:44:02,220
different style
7038
03:44:02,220 --> 03:44:03,899
so you have to adapt your own style what
7039
03:44:03,899 --> 03:44:06,300
you need to do is be overtly aware
7040
03:44:06,300 --> 03:44:09,479
if you're aware of things you'll pick up
7041
03:44:09,479 --> 03:44:11,340
on things and you'll change things
7042
03:44:11,340 --> 03:44:13,380
so the first thing is you use your hands
7043
03:44:13,380 --> 03:44:14,880
more effectively especially to be
7044
03:44:14,880 --> 03:44:17,778
trusted and listened to
7045
03:44:20,660 --> 03:44:23,939
how to speak convincingly
7046
03:44:23,939 --> 03:44:25,380
to speak convincing the laws you
7047
03:44:25,380 --> 03:44:26,760
probably already know these things you
7048
03:44:26,760 --> 03:44:28,439
have to talk loud you have to talk clear
7049
03:44:28,439 --> 03:44:30,180
and this is another thing you need to
7050
03:44:30,180 --> 03:44:33,420
learn I'm I'm actually tempted to do a
7051
03:44:33,420 --> 03:44:35,939
course specifically on oration but you
7052
03:44:35,939 --> 03:44:38,640
need to learn to speak effectively the
7053
03:44:38,640 --> 03:44:40,260
way you interact with the world outside
7054
03:44:40,260 --> 03:44:41,700
of your little digital keyboard and your
7055
03:44:41,700 --> 03:44:44,700
Twitter [ __ ] is with your voice
7056
03:44:44,700 --> 03:44:45,899
I know you're paying attention to my
7057
03:44:45,899 --> 03:44:46,979
hands now
7058
03:44:46,979 --> 03:44:48,899
is with your voice
7059
03:44:48,899 --> 03:44:51,720
if your voice is Meek or if your words
7060
03:44:51,720 --> 03:44:53,700
aren't clear or if you don't say what
7061
03:44:53,700 --> 03:44:55,260
you mean effectively then you're not
7062
03:44:55,260 --> 03:44:57,120
going to be taken seriously people take
7063
03:44:57,120 --> 03:44:58,380
me seriously because when I speak I
7064
03:44:58,380 --> 03:44:59,580
speak with a conviction they sit there
7065
03:44:59,580 --> 03:45:01,439
and go this [ __ ] knows
7066
03:45:01,439 --> 03:45:03,479
the way he's talking he knows what he's
7067
03:45:03,479 --> 03:45:04,560
talking about
7068
03:45:04,560 --> 03:45:06,060
and I do
7069
03:45:06,060 --> 03:45:09,000
let's sit here and go okay well um
7070
03:45:09,000 --> 03:45:12,540
so for um [ __ ] that
7071
03:45:12,540 --> 03:45:14,220
um and ah is something that you need to
7072
03:45:14,220 --> 03:45:15,840
forget instantly I don't care if you
7073
03:45:15,840 --> 03:45:17,279
have to train yourself I don't even have
7074
03:45:17,279 --> 03:45:19,800
to look in the mirror get rid of um get
7075
03:45:19,800 --> 03:45:22,680
rid of ah get rid of gaps it just
7076
03:45:22,680 --> 03:45:24,899
completely destroys your entire image
7077
03:45:24,899 --> 03:45:27,180
that [ __ ] needs to go and if something
7078
03:45:27,180 --> 03:45:28,920
can be learned and when I sit there and
7079
03:45:28,920 --> 03:45:32,399
listen to people oh well yeah uh well
7080
03:45:32,399 --> 03:45:34,439
yesterday we went out and then um it's
7081
03:45:34,439 --> 03:45:36,239
like what the [ __ ] you mean um I went
7082
03:45:36,239 --> 03:45:37,439
out and then um you don't remember what
7083
03:45:37,439 --> 03:45:38,939
you did yesterday I'll slow your [ __ ]
7084
03:45:38,939 --> 03:45:41,100
brain you look at the [ __ ] 99 people
7085
03:45:41,100 --> 03:45:42,540
look like idiots because they don't pay
7086
03:45:42,540 --> 03:45:43,979
attention to how they speak
7087
03:45:43,979 --> 03:45:45,420
so with our ration is extremely
7088
03:45:45,420 --> 03:45:47,160
important you get rid of um odds you're
7089
03:45:47,160 --> 03:45:48,540
in this [ __ ] it's one of the first
7090
03:45:48,540 --> 03:45:49,560
things you have to do to speak
7091
03:45:49,560 --> 03:45:51,479
convincingly second things is with the
7092
03:45:51,479 --> 03:45:53,100
hands the body language the third thing
7093
03:45:53,100 --> 03:45:54,660
is you have to be if you're standing or
7094
03:45:54,660 --> 03:45:56,160
you're sitting regardless you have to
7095
03:45:56,160 --> 03:45:57,960
have a presence as a person
7096
03:45:57,960 --> 03:46:00,840
nobody believes in nobody
7097
03:46:00,840 --> 03:46:02,640
so if you're sitting in a room you need
7098
03:46:02,640 --> 03:46:05,220
to be overtly taking up space as a man
7099
03:46:05,220 --> 03:46:07,080
especially they call it man sling that's
7100
03:46:07,080 --> 03:46:08,580
all the feminists call it he's
7101
03:46:08,580 --> 03:46:10,739
mansplaining he's taking up space I'm a
7102
03:46:10,739 --> 03:46:13,680
man I'm a [ __ ] man I got space my
7103
03:46:13,680 --> 03:46:16,020
space it's mine and I have something to
7104
03:46:16,020 --> 03:46:17,460
say in here to listen
7105
03:46:17,460 --> 03:46:19,200
you want to be believed It's a
7106
03:46:19,200 --> 03:46:20,580
combination of things but a lot of
7107
03:46:20,580 --> 03:46:21,600
people just want to sit in a little
7108
03:46:21,600 --> 03:46:24,060
chair oh well I was thinking that for
7109
03:46:24,060 --> 03:46:26,819
the progress report maybe it's garbage
7110
03:46:26,819 --> 03:46:28,380
also there's nothing wrong with talking
7111
03:46:28,380 --> 03:46:30,479
too loud outside of shouting [ __ ]
7112
03:46:30,479 --> 03:46:32,460
talk loud conquer the room you're gonna
7113
03:46:32,460 --> 03:46:33,840
piss some people off but guess you're
7114
03:46:33,840 --> 03:46:34,859
gonna piss off you're gonna piss off the
7115
03:46:34,859 --> 03:46:36,540
betas you're never gonna piss off the
7116
03:46:36,540 --> 03:46:37,800
boss
7117
03:46:37,800 --> 03:46:39,600
like I said when I used to have a job
7118
03:46:39,600 --> 03:46:41,580
boss loved me
7119
03:46:41,580 --> 03:46:43,680
I'd sit in a meeting and just like look
7120
03:46:43,680 --> 03:46:45,420
here's how I sell
7121
03:46:45,420 --> 03:46:47,340
I was half yelling I don't know about
7122
03:46:47,340 --> 03:46:48,660
what the other guys are doing but what I
7123
03:46:48,660 --> 03:46:50,220
do is I tell them they better buy it
7124
03:46:50,220 --> 03:46:51,540
today
7125
03:46:51,540 --> 03:46:52,859
the boss is sitting there and go this
7126
03:46:52,859 --> 03:46:54,239
[ __ ] guy
7127
03:46:54,239 --> 03:46:56,580
but I had the best sales record if I sat
7128
03:46:56,580 --> 03:46:58,439
there and go um well I don't know how
7129
03:46:58,439 --> 03:47:00,540
you do it but what what I uh sometimes
7130
03:47:00,540 --> 03:47:03,840
do is uh this is [ __ ] [ __ ] scream
7131
03:47:03,840 --> 03:47:06,120
at people sit there go no this that
7132
03:47:06,120 --> 03:47:07,739
thing Direct
7133
03:47:07,739 --> 03:47:09,420
don't be afraid of the attention you're
7134
03:47:09,420 --> 03:47:11,279
gonna get if you had Alpha body language
7135
03:47:11,279 --> 03:47:12,779
if you have serious body language and
7136
03:47:12,779 --> 03:47:14,100
you project you're gonna attract a whole
7137
03:47:14,100 --> 03:47:16,140
bunch of attention if you're shy you're
7138
03:47:16,140 --> 03:47:17,100
not going to want the attention it's
7139
03:47:17,100 --> 03:47:18,660
going to impact your psyche it's going
7140
03:47:18,660 --> 03:47:20,160
to impact how you portray yourself
7141
03:47:20,160 --> 03:47:22,620
forget the attention don't worry about
7142
03:47:22,620 --> 03:47:24,120
it it's coming there's no other way to
7143
03:47:24,120 --> 03:47:25,800
project yourself project yourself in a
7144
03:47:25,800 --> 03:47:28,140
way where you attract attention be loud
7145
03:47:28,140 --> 03:47:30,060
[ __ ] all wrong with it be loud
7146
03:47:30,060 --> 03:47:32,939
it's exactly the same with lion
7147
03:47:32,939 --> 03:47:34,620
learning how to be convincing and how to
7148
03:47:34,620 --> 03:47:36,899
be believable is the same when you lie
7149
03:47:36,899 --> 03:47:38,760
now people say when you lie people look
7150
03:47:38,760 --> 03:47:41,399
away from the eyes in my experience what
7151
03:47:41,399 --> 03:47:44,040
happens when people lie is they actually
7152
03:47:44,040 --> 03:47:45,960
know this that everyone's been told they
7153
03:47:45,960 --> 03:47:48,300
look away and they look at you more
7154
03:47:48,300 --> 03:47:50,640
try to prove they're not lying
7155
03:47:50,640 --> 03:47:53,220
the easiest way to lie is to not change
7156
03:47:53,220 --> 03:47:54,540
your body language in any way from when
7157
03:47:54,540 --> 03:47:56,100
you're telling the truth a polygraph
7158
03:47:56,100 --> 03:47:58,080
test the only how does a polygraph test
7159
03:47:58,080 --> 03:48:00,120
work you can't just plug yourself in and
7160
03:48:00,120 --> 03:48:02,100
say lie or true It Only Knows by
7161
03:48:02,100 --> 03:48:04,319
comparing you to a baseline first they
7162
03:48:04,319 --> 03:48:06,300
ask you your name they ask you questions
7163
03:48:06,300 --> 03:48:07,739
you tell the truth to and then they
7164
03:48:07,739 --> 03:48:09,479
compare it when you lie and they see the
7165
03:48:09,479 --> 03:48:11,220
difference well body language is no
7166
03:48:11,220 --> 03:48:12,660
[ __ ] different if you know you're
7167
03:48:12,660 --> 03:48:14,580
gonna have to lie to somebody
7168
03:48:14,580 --> 03:48:16,739
you need to sit there before the
7169
03:48:16,739 --> 03:48:18,239
conversation even starts and talk about
7170
03:48:18,239 --> 03:48:19,620
something which is easy for you to talk
7171
03:48:19,620 --> 03:48:21,840
about and be smart enough to be speaking
7172
03:48:21,840 --> 03:48:23,460
with one side of your brain and with the
7173
03:48:23,460 --> 03:48:25,140
other side of your brain measuring where
7174
03:48:25,140 --> 03:48:27,000
are my eyes where are my hands how am I
7175
03:48:27,000 --> 03:48:28,680
standing how am I sitting and then when
7176
03:48:28,680 --> 03:48:30,120
it starts coming to lie you don't alter
7177
03:48:30,120 --> 03:48:31,979
[ __ ] if you're already looking in the
7178
03:48:31,979 --> 03:48:33,060
eyes continue to look them in the eyes
7179
03:48:33,060 --> 03:48:35,160
if you're not looking at them if your
7180
03:48:35,160 --> 03:48:36,779
hands are a certain way keep them there
7181
03:48:36,779 --> 03:48:38,760
you only get detected on Lies when you
7182
03:48:38,760 --> 03:48:40,439
alter your body language it doesn't
7183
03:48:40,439 --> 03:48:42,060
matter what body language you have you
7184
03:48:42,060 --> 03:48:44,460
can be like I am now Alpha projecting
7185
03:48:44,460 --> 03:48:46,739
trying to make a point Ultra convincing
7186
03:48:46,739 --> 03:48:48,840
or you can sit there like a Meek it
7187
03:48:48,840 --> 03:48:50,640
doesn't matter if that is the default
7188
03:48:50,640 --> 03:48:52,500
and you retain the default when you're
7189
03:48:52,500 --> 03:48:54,300
telling the LIE then you have nothing to
7190
03:48:54,300 --> 03:48:55,680
lose
7191
03:48:55,680 --> 03:48:58,260
so would you tell a lie it's not about
7192
03:48:58,260 --> 03:49:00,420
you how do I act when I tell a lie it's
7193
03:49:00,420 --> 03:49:03,300
not changing how you acted before
7194
03:49:03,300 --> 03:49:05,340
this is the most important thing but
7195
03:49:05,340 --> 03:49:07,140
most of you guys are so unaware of your
7196
03:49:07,140 --> 03:49:08,819
body language you're so unaware of where
7197
03:49:08,819 --> 03:49:10,800
your hands go unaware of where you're
7198
03:49:10,800 --> 03:49:12,540
looking think of your last conversation
7199
03:49:12,540 --> 03:49:14,160
with someone where were you looking
7200
03:49:14,160 --> 03:49:18,960
think about it uh act then I guess I
7201
03:49:18,960 --> 03:49:21,180
don't I don't know you're going to like
7202
03:49:21,180 --> 03:49:23,640
ignorant you don't [ __ ] know if you
7203
03:49:23,640 --> 03:49:25,800
learn your own [ __ ] and you adapt your
7204
03:49:25,800 --> 03:49:27,300
own [ __ ] to have a style which is
7205
03:49:27,300 --> 03:49:28,739
favorable to you and favorable to your
7206
03:49:28,739 --> 03:49:30,300
outcomes that's gonna be very very easy
7207
03:49:30,300 --> 03:49:32,160
for you to lie because you can replicate
7208
03:49:32,160 --> 03:49:34,319
your own style so that's how you [ __ ]
7209
03:49:34,319 --> 03:49:36,420
lie I will pass any lie detector test
7210
03:49:36,420 --> 03:49:39,380
there is in fact
7211
03:49:39,779 --> 03:49:41,700
writing that down for a tape speech we
7212
03:49:41,700 --> 03:49:43,680
get a lie detector company in here I'm
7213
03:49:43,680 --> 03:49:45,180
gonna [ __ ] do it I'm gonna pass it
7214
03:49:45,180 --> 03:49:46,500
and the reason I'm gonna pass it is
7215
03:49:46,500 --> 03:49:47,939
because I don't give a [ __ ]
7216
03:49:47,939 --> 03:49:49,620
ask me a question take me the greatest
7217
03:49:49,620 --> 03:49:51,660
amount of Life yes true
7218
03:49:51,660 --> 03:49:53,100
that's the Baseline questions everyone
7219
03:49:53,100 --> 03:49:54,660
knows it's [ __ ] true
7220
03:49:54,660 --> 03:49:57,420
hey do you give a [ __ ] about these hoes
7221
03:49:57,420 --> 03:50:00,000
no true
7222
03:50:00,000 --> 03:50:02,520
they're gonna ask me a lie like tank is
7223
03:50:02,520 --> 03:50:04,500
Meghan Markle a good princess I'm gonna
7224
03:50:04,500 --> 03:50:05,520
say yes
7225
03:50:05,520 --> 03:50:07,620
just obviously a [ __ ] lie it's still
7226
03:50:07,620 --> 03:50:09,120
gonna come up as true hope that [ __ ]
7227
03:50:09,120 --> 03:50:10,140
doesn't get hold of that piece of paper
7228
03:50:10,140 --> 03:50:12,300
and use it as proof daddy tape validated
7229
03:50:12,300 --> 03:50:14,760
me [ __ ] hate that hoe when we're
7230
03:50:14,760 --> 03:50:16,439
talking about
7231
03:50:16,439 --> 03:50:18,359
the correct way to be we're not talking
7232
03:50:18,359 --> 03:50:20,460
about things like hands seat positioning
7233
03:50:20,460 --> 03:50:23,640
Etc this is universal across Texas the
7234
03:50:23,640 --> 03:50:25,620
same way you can make a man like you and
7235
03:50:25,620 --> 03:50:27,120
you can sell products in a business
7236
03:50:27,120 --> 03:50:28,859
meeting it's the same way you can make a
7237
03:50:28,859 --> 03:50:31,020
girl [ __ ] you it's no different
7238
03:50:31,020 --> 03:50:33,620
all of it is based around primary
7239
03:50:33,620 --> 03:50:36,479
evolutionary human instincts around
7240
03:50:36,479 --> 03:50:39,540
confidence confidence trustworthiness
7241
03:50:39,540 --> 03:50:42,300
these are things that is a dawn of time
7242
03:50:42,300 --> 03:50:43,859
they look at dude and go this is a
7243
03:50:43,859 --> 03:50:45,180
competent guy
7244
03:50:45,180 --> 03:50:46,859
if a man looks at you and thinks this is
7245
03:50:46,859 --> 03:50:48,180
a competent guy they want to be your
7246
03:50:48,180 --> 03:50:49,859
friend in a business relationship if
7247
03:50:49,859 --> 03:50:50,880
they look at you and think this is a
7248
03:50:50,880 --> 03:50:52,020
competent guy they want to give you
7249
03:50:52,020 --> 03:50:53,580
money and if a girl looks at you and
7250
03:50:53,580 --> 03:50:54,840
thinks this is a competent guy she wants
7251
03:50:54,840 --> 03:50:57,239
to suck your dick it's the same there's
7252
03:50:57,239 --> 03:50:58,800
no difference in your body language for
7253
03:50:58,800 --> 03:51:00,420
a woman or for a man or for business or
7254
03:51:00,420 --> 03:51:02,040
something else it's project it's
7255
03:51:02,040 --> 03:51:05,279
projecting competence and confidence
7256
03:51:05,279 --> 03:51:07,859
and combat ability in all of the
7257
03:51:07,859 --> 03:51:08,939
situations
7258
03:51:08,939 --> 03:51:11,100
you need to learn to walk into a room
7259
03:51:11,100 --> 03:51:14,220
like I am the fattest [ __ ] in
7260
03:51:14,220 --> 03:51:15,239
the room
7261
03:51:15,239 --> 03:51:17,520
well the best [ __ ] on Earth
7262
03:51:17,520 --> 03:51:19,560
you're gonna walk in like that
7263
03:51:19,560 --> 03:51:22,080
just walk in like a [ __ ] G
7264
03:51:22,080 --> 03:51:23,279
doesn't matter what you're doing don't
7265
03:51:23,279 --> 03:51:25,140
worry about the [ __ ] a [ __ ] or [ __ ]
7266
03:51:25,140 --> 03:51:28,739
sell sell a [ __ ] window who gives a
7267
03:51:28,739 --> 03:51:31,140
[ __ ] you walk in like I'm the [ __ ] yeah
7268
03:51:31,140 --> 03:51:33,200
sit down yeah coffee please thanks
7269
03:51:33,200 --> 03:51:35,700
[ __ ] man's here but [ __ ] my man's
7270
03:51:35,700 --> 03:51:38,399
here you sucking dick well obviously
7271
03:51:38,399 --> 03:51:40,620
you're gonna be like that so I know a
7272
03:51:40,620 --> 03:51:41,399
lot of you guys are going to come back
7273
03:51:41,399 --> 03:51:43,200
to me go okay thanks for the course but
7274
03:51:43,200 --> 03:51:44,640
what do I do with this girl you do with
7275
03:51:44,640 --> 03:51:45,899
the girl the same [ __ ] you do with the
7276
03:51:45,899 --> 03:51:48,180
guys it's the same thing
7277
03:51:48,180 --> 03:51:50,460
because it's the same general attributes
7278
03:51:50,460 --> 03:51:52,620
which are seen as attractive
7279
03:51:52,620 --> 03:51:56,220
keep that in mind how to intimidate well
7280
03:51:56,220 --> 03:51:58,560
I don't really like
7281
03:51:58,560 --> 03:52:01,020
the idea of intimidating unless I mean
7282
03:52:01,020 --> 03:52:02,460
what I say
7283
03:52:02,460 --> 03:52:04,140
the easiest way to intimidate someone is
7284
03:52:04,140 --> 03:52:05,880
to mean what you say
7285
03:52:05,880 --> 03:52:09,720
but just like lying in most of my
7286
03:52:09,720 --> 03:52:12,840
personal experiences you intimidate by
7287
03:52:12,840 --> 03:52:14,640
changing your body language
7288
03:52:14,640 --> 03:52:18,840
humans are amazing at detecting change
7289
03:52:18,840 --> 03:52:22,200
if something stays still
7290
03:52:22,200 --> 03:52:23,939
it's not nearly as attractive to the
7291
03:52:23,939 --> 03:52:25,979
human eye as if something moves
7292
03:52:25,979 --> 03:52:27,779
something about your corner derive still
7293
03:52:27,779 --> 03:52:29,239
it's fine when it moves
7294
03:52:29,239 --> 03:52:32,100
humans detect changes in velocities
7295
03:52:32,100 --> 03:52:34,920
changes in speeds so how the human eye
7296
03:52:34,920 --> 03:52:37,380
works detecting changes
7297
03:52:37,380 --> 03:52:40,080
and it's very similar with body language
7298
03:52:40,080 --> 03:52:42,060
so let's say I'm out
7299
03:52:42,060 --> 03:52:43,620
and let's say three guys are going to
7300
03:52:43,620 --> 03:52:44,700
attack me
7301
03:52:44,700 --> 03:52:46,380
and I don't want to fight the guys
7302
03:52:46,380 --> 03:52:48,000
because I might lose so I want to
7303
03:52:48,000 --> 03:52:49,260
intimidate them
7304
03:52:49,260 --> 03:52:50,819
so let's say at first I'm like hey get
7305
03:52:50,819 --> 03:52:52,859
the [ __ ] [ __ ] off and then we go outside
7306
03:52:52,859 --> 03:52:54,540
and go you don't [ __ ] do it and I go
7307
03:52:54,540 --> 03:52:56,819
and I and I've been overtly I've been
7308
03:52:56,819 --> 03:52:58,380
aggressive I've been the big man I'm
7309
03:52:58,380 --> 03:53:00,000
like look at the [ __ ] away from me and
7310
03:53:00,000 --> 03:53:01,080
they come outside they want to fight me
7311
03:53:01,080 --> 03:53:02,700
anyway I'll change my body language
7312
03:53:02,700 --> 03:53:04,439
completely I'll say
7313
03:53:04,439 --> 03:53:05,460
okay
7314
03:53:05,460 --> 03:53:08,279
okay we're gonna find out okay
7315
03:53:08,279 --> 03:53:09,920
and then they'll be available
7316
03:53:09,920 --> 03:53:12,120
we're gonna fight I tried to tell you
7317
03:53:12,120 --> 03:53:13,439
not to and you want to fight so I tried
7318
03:53:13,439 --> 03:53:15,060
to be reasonable it's done so we're
7319
03:53:15,060 --> 03:53:16,620
gonna fight now so let's go and I'll
7320
03:53:16,620 --> 03:53:18,060
start walking towards them
7321
03:53:18,060 --> 03:53:20,279
and that Sudden Change in body language
7322
03:53:20,279 --> 03:53:22,800
is what makes people think what the [ __ ]
7323
03:53:22,800 --> 03:53:24,300
you have to change your body language
7324
03:53:24,300 --> 03:53:26,340
typically people intimidate by screaming
7325
03:53:26,340 --> 03:53:29,520
because they start low and they go high
7326
03:53:29,520 --> 03:53:31,979
to intimidate so they'll start like
7327
03:53:31,979 --> 03:53:33,779
trying to be sensible and reasonable and
7328
03:53:33,779 --> 03:53:35,040
the person doesn't listen and they'll go
7329
03:53:35,040 --> 03:53:36,840
you know what [ __ ] did it and they'll
7330
03:53:36,840 --> 03:53:38,880
change it but it's not the shouting
7331
03:53:38,880 --> 03:53:40,380
which is intimidating it's the change in
7332
03:53:40,380 --> 03:53:42,300
body language but everyone's accustomed
7333
03:53:42,300 --> 03:53:44,040
to that
7334
03:53:44,040 --> 03:53:45,960
I do it the other way around
7335
03:53:45,960 --> 03:53:47,939
the other right round for me is far more
7336
03:53:47,939 --> 03:53:49,680
effective let's say you're arguing with
7337
03:53:49,680 --> 03:53:52,800
your girl you're a stupid [ __ ] oh I'm
7338
03:53:52,800 --> 03:53:54,180
tired of your [ __ ] you're always [ __ ]
7339
03:53:54,180 --> 03:53:56,100
These Hoes boo I said yeah I [ __ ] hoes
7340
03:53:56,100 --> 03:53:58,500
watch shut the [ __ ] up cook follow the
7341
03:53:58,500 --> 03:54:00,420
argument argument eventually she won't
7342
03:54:00,420 --> 03:54:01,500
shut up you at the point and go you know
7343
03:54:01,500 --> 03:54:02,939
what you know what
7344
03:54:02,939 --> 03:54:04,979
we've argued enough we've all good
7345
03:54:04,979 --> 03:54:05,880
enough
7346
03:54:05,880 --> 03:54:07,620
and you get you get your keys she goes
7347
03:54:07,620 --> 03:54:08,700
where are you going just go oh no I'm
7348
03:54:08,700 --> 03:54:10,439
gonna go out don't worry no I don't want
7349
03:54:10,439 --> 03:54:11,340
to argue with you I'm just going to go
7350
03:54:11,340 --> 03:54:12,840
out I'm just gonna go out I take the
7351
03:54:12,840 --> 03:54:14,399
keys she's gonna be more worried about
7352
03:54:14,399 --> 03:54:16,979
you being sensible and calm and nice
7353
03:54:16,979 --> 03:54:18,600
that if that if you're shouted anymore
7354
03:54:18,600 --> 03:54:21,359
because it's the change in body language
7355
03:54:21,359 --> 03:54:22,800
you have to understand more language
7356
03:54:22,800 --> 03:54:25,319
isn't about do this to be this way it's
7357
03:54:25,319 --> 03:54:27,540
about being able to flip it
7358
03:54:27,540 --> 03:54:30,000
and it's having that sudden deceleration
7359
03:54:30,000 --> 03:54:32,399
that massive change suddenly is what
7360
03:54:32,399 --> 03:54:34,080
makes people think
7361
03:54:34,080 --> 03:54:35,580
when I've been attacked before that
7362
03:54:35,580 --> 03:54:36,779
story I just told you is a completely
7363
03:54:36,779 --> 03:54:39,300
true story this was only one guy
7364
03:54:39,300 --> 03:54:40,979
I had a guy who's talking [ __ ] from the
7365
03:54:40,979 --> 03:54:42,540
other side of the [ __ ] room so I bro
7366
03:54:42,540 --> 03:54:44,340
stay the [ __ ] over there he was talking
7367
03:54:44,340 --> 03:54:46,800
[ __ ] you ain't nothing new nothing I
7368
03:54:46,800 --> 03:54:47,640
said bro I'm not trying to fight you if
7369
03:54:47,640 --> 03:54:49,760
you come around and [ __ ] hurt you
7370
03:54:49,760 --> 03:54:52,439
anyway he gets up
7371
03:54:52,439 --> 03:54:54,000
because I was walking over I stand up
7372
03:54:54,000 --> 03:54:55,439
and say okay we're gonna fight this
7373
03:54:55,439 --> 03:54:57,060
let's at least let's at least do outside
7374
03:54:57,060 --> 03:55:00,120
he goes yeah we're gonna go outside
7375
03:55:00,120 --> 03:55:01,620
walk downstairs like you know what and
7376
03:55:01,620 --> 03:55:03,660
[ __ ]
7377
03:55:03,660 --> 03:55:05,220
[ __ ] it's how he felt comfortable
7378
03:55:05,220 --> 03:55:06,660
because take you know I'm just sick of
7379
03:55:06,660 --> 03:55:09,060
your [ __ ] say no it's fine you're sick
7380
03:55:09,060 --> 03:55:10,680
we're going outside
7381
03:55:10,680 --> 03:55:12,300
I'm done shouting I'm not a girl I don't
7382
03:55:12,300 --> 03:55:13,260
Shout
7383
03:55:13,260 --> 03:55:15,180
out my thing I don't Shout by females
7384
03:55:15,180 --> 03:55:16,620
emails spoke I told you to stay away
7385
03:55:16,620 --> 03:55:17,760
from me you didn't want to listen so
7386
03:55:17,760 --> 03:55:19,859
let's go
7387
03:55:19,859 --> 03:55:22,020
I wasn't being intimidating in any way I
7388
03:55:22,020 --> 03:55:23,819
wasn't active intimidating it's the
7389
03:55:23,819 --> 03:55:25,380
change in body language you made him
7390
03:55:25,380 --> 03:55:27,359
think what the [ __ ] this guy
7391
03:55:27,359 --> 03:55:29,399
he didn't want to fight anymore because
7392
03:55:29,399 --> 03:55:31,680
I became nicer all of a sudden he's like
7393
03:55:31,680 --> 03:55:33,540
this guy's too calm [ __ ] are
7394
03:55:33,540 --> 03:55:35,760
shooting me or some [ __ ] oh this guy's
7395
03:55:35,760 --> 03:55:38,279
crazy so it's not about being a certain
7396
03:55:38,279 --> 03:55:40,560
way it's about being overtly aware of
7397
03:55:40,560 --> 03:55:42,180
your body language in a way that allows
7398
03:55:42,180 --> 03:55:44,040
you to switch it on people
7399
03:55:44,040 --> 03:55:45,960
most of you are so unaware of your own
7400
03:55:45,960 --> 03:55:47,399
body language you can't effectively
7401
03:55:47,399 --> 03:55:49,560
change it okay you can go from happy to
7402
03:55:49,560 --> 03:55:52,020
angry or from normal to shall we those
7403
03:55:52,020 --> 03:55:54,000
are basic things a kid can do that but
7404
03:55:54,000 --> 03:55:55,979
you can't do it on a very conscious
7405
03:55:55,979 --> 03:55:58,739
level with tiny details you can't flip
7406
03:55:58,739 --> 03:56:00,779
reverse it and go from Angry to nice you
7407
03:56:00,779 --> 03:56:04,080
can't mix it up nobody in this world has
7408
03:56:04,080 --> 03:56:05,760
dealt with someone a full-grown man
7409
03:56:05,760 --> 03:56:08,640
going from crazy screaming to nice
7410
03:56:08,640 --> 03:56:10,380
inside of two seconds
7411
03:56:10,380 --> 03:56:13,380
that comes across a psychopath that
7412
03:56:13,380 --> 03:56:15,420
scares people when you come across says
7413
03:56:15,420 --> 03:56:17,880
you [ __ ] didn't [ __ ] you know what
7414
03:56:17,880 --> 03:56:19,920
it's okay it's okay I agree we should we
7415
03:56:19,920 --> 03:56:21,420
should hurt each other
7416
03:56:21,420 --> 03:56:22,979
that's what makes people think what the
7417
03:56:22,979 --> 03:56:25,500
[ __ ] is God's [ __ ] to us
7418
03:56:25,500 --> 03:56:27,720
that's how you intimidate someone the
7419
03:56:27,720 --> 03:56:30,000
sudden [ __ ] change everyone's dealt
7420
03:56:30,000 --> 03:56:32,699
with it from happy to angry or normal to
7421
03:56:32,699 --> 03:56:34,199
angry no one's done with the other way
7422
03:56:34,199 --> 03:56:36,540
[ __ ] rap I'll reverse on people I
7423
03:56:36,540 --> 03:56:37,859
start shouting
7424
03:56:37,859 --> 03:56:39,720
you come near my car I [ __ ] start
7425
03:56:39,720 --> 03:56:42,540
shouting but then once I know it's
7426
03:56:42,540 --> 03:56:44,040
violence time I dropped the whole
7427
03:56:44,040 --> 03:56:45,720
shouting act I go straight into the
7428
03:56:45,720 --> 03:56:47,040
nicest man in the world I'll smash his
7429
03:56:47,040 --> 03:56:48,600
[ __ ] face
7430
03:56:48,600 --> 03:56:49,979
so you'd be aware of your body language
7431
03:56:49,979 --> 03:56:52,140
and able to change it this is extremely
7432
03:56:52,140 --> 03:56:53,819
important a lot of people talk about
7433
03:56:53,819 --> 03:56:55,560
mirrored body language I don't like this
7434
03:56:55,560 --> 03:56:56,340
[ __ ]
7435
03:56:56,340 --> 03:56:57,899
people go oh if you mirror someone's
7436
03:56:57,899 --> 03:56:59,460
body language they like you more now
7437
03:56:59,460 --> 03:57:00,779
[ __ ] that
7438
03:57:00,779 --> 03:57:02,939
it's [ __ ] [ __ ] oh so someone crosses
7439
03:57:02,939 --> 03:57:05,479
their arms
7440
03:57:06,080 --> 03:57:09,060
as Simon says it's a little [ __ ] punk
7441
03:57:09,060 --> 03:57:11,160
I say how I want to say I call him in
7442
03:57:11,160 --> 03:57:14,399
the other room I sit like this what I
7443
03:57:14,399 --> 03:57:16,020
sit like this if everyone changes the
7444
03:57:16,020 --> 03:57:17,580
boy language I don't [ __ ] care this
7445
03:57:17,580 --> 03:57:18,899
is how I see it because I'm in charge
7446
03:57:18,899 --> 03:57:20,460
Alphas don't change their body language
7447
03:57:20,460 --> 03:57:23,040
look at orangutans look at [ __ ] Apes
7448
03:57:23,040 --> 03:57:24,960
we've got a closest relative we've got
7449
03:57:24,960 --> 03:57:26,580
the alpha doesn't change for [ __ ]
7450
03:57:26,580 --> 03:57:28,620
everyone else changes when he's around
7451
03:57:28,620 --> 03:57:30,600
so don't believe that mirroring crap
7452
03:57:30,600 --> 03:57:32,100
well if you go out with a girl and you
7453
03:57:32,100 --> 03:57:34,199
mirror her body language shut the [ __ ]
7454
03:57:34,199 --> 03:57:36,180
up man I'm gonna sit there with a girl
7455
03:57:36,180 --> 03:57:38,220
she crossed her arms and I cross my arms
7456
03:57:38,220 --> 03:57:39,660
and then we should suck my dick never
7457
03:57:39,660 --> 03:57:41,040
never
7458
03:57:41,040 --> 03:57:43,620
I sat down I was the [ __ ] man so I
7459
03:57:43,620 --> 03:57:44,760
should suck this dick I'm the dude
7460
03:57:44,760 --> 03:57:46,020
[ __ ] me cross my arms when she did
7461
03:57:46,020 --> 03:57:47,819
[ __ ] that [ __ ] it's garbage forget that
7462
03:57:47,819 --> 03:57:48,899
mirroring
7463
03:57:48,899 --> 03:57:51,060
now we're going to move on
7464
03:57:51,060 --> 03:57:52,500
smiley
7465
03:57:52,500 --> 03:57:54,600
smiling is effective but it's only
7466
03:57:54,600 --> 03:57:57,300
effective if it's used selectively
7467
03:57:57,300 --> 03:57:58,859
people tell me take you never smile
7468
03:57:58,859 --> 03:58:01,439
that's not true I do smile I smile
7469
03:58:01,439 --> 03:58:04,620
selectively my smile has a value
7470
03:58:04,620 --> 03:58:06,180
if you guys are watching this I'm
7471
03:58:06,180 --> 03:58:08,220
trusting you've seen the PHD course how
7472
03:58:08,220 --> 03:58:10,500
do you give your attention a value by
7473
03:58:10,500 --> 03:58:12,779
making it rare why is gold valuable
7474
03:58:12,779 --> 03:58:15,720
because it's scarce my smile has a value
7475
03:58:15,720 --> 03:58:18,540
because I rarely smile if you walk
7476
03:58:18,540 --> 03:58:21,140
through life
7477
03:58:21,239 --> 03:58:24,840
one you have a [ __ ] [ __ ] won and two
7478
03:58:24,840 --> 03:58:26,220
who gives a [ __ ] if you're smiling at
7479
03:58:26,220 --> 03:58:27,120
all
7480
03:58:27,120 --> 03:58:30,540
if I smile my smile has value has weight
7481
03:58:30,540 --> 03:58:32,279
has currency
7482
03:58:32,279 --> 03:58:35,279
I've had girl my girl been six years
7483
03:58:35,279 --> 03:58:36,899
she'll messaged me I made you smile
7484
03:58:36,899 --> 03:58:40,020
today she's happy that she made me smile
7485
03:58:40,020 --> 03:58:41,819
because it's hard to do there's
7486
03:58:41,819 --> 03:58:43,620
achievement in it oh my God I made him
7487
03:58:43,620 --> 03:58:44,580
smile
7488
03:58:44,580 --> 03:58:46,140
he woke up and I'd already cooked dinner
7489
03:58:46,140 --> 03:58:47,939
and uh he woke up and I'm cooking
7490
03:58:47,939 --> 03:58:49,260
breakfast and I had coffee in his
7491
03:58:49,260 --> 03:58:50,460
favorite mug and I brought it to him and
7492
03:58:50,460 --> 03:58:51,779
I told him I loved him and he smiled a
7493
03:58:51,779 --> 03:58:52,859
little bit
7494
03:58:52,859 --> 03:58:55,859
she got her reward which is my smile if
7495
03:58:55,859 --> 03:58:58,260
she woke up and I was like hey baby hey
7496
03:58:58,260 --> 03:59:00,120
hey what if you give a [ __ ] am I smiling
7497
03:59:00,120 --> 03:59:01,140
off
7498
03:59:01,140 --> 03:59:03,600
I smile what it's deserved and you're a
7499
03:59:03,600 --> 03:59:04,859
[ __ ] full-grown man you should be
7500
03:59:04,859 --> 03:59:06,479
walking through life smiling
7501
03:59:06,479 --> 03:59:08,220
you just smile at people when something
7502
03:59:08,220 --> 03:59:10,080
of Merit happens I'm not saying come
7503
03:59:10,080 --> 03:59:11,880
across as a miserable [ __ ] I'm not
7504
03:59:11,880 --> 03:59:13,319
saying that I'm not saying sitting there
7505
03:59:13,319 --> 03:59:14,279
look like you're gonna [ __ ] kill
7506
03:59:14,279 --> 03:59:16,439
yourself you're not Eeyore I'm saying
7507
03:59:16,439 --> 03:59:19,080
you need to smile selectively once again
7508
03:59:19,080 --> 03:59:20,699
you need to adapt your own body language
7509
03:59:20,699 --> 03:59:23,699
style you need to decide when you're
7510
03:59:23,699 --> 03:59:25,020
going to use your smile when you're not
7511
03:59:25,020 --> 03:59:27,479
you don't say trying to hold it in I'm
7512
03:59:27,479 --> 03:59:29,160
saying you've probably learned to smile
7513
03:59:29,160 --> 03:59:31,319
instinctively you're smiling at things
7514
03:59:31,319 --> 03:59:32,640
that don't really make you smile and
7515
03:59:32,640 --> 03:59:33,660
you're smiling at things that you don't
7516
03:59:33,660 --> 03:59:36,239
find funny to be polite but let me tell
7517
03:59:36,239 --> 03:59:38,880
you what smiling is smiling is a sign of
7518
03:59:38,880 --> 03:59:41,100
submission
7519
03:59:41,100 --> 03:59:44,040
look at Apes on our all our closest
7520
03:59:44,040 --> 03:59:45,540
relative
7521
03:59:45,540 --> 03:59:48,779
Apes smiled to submit when the alpha
7522
03:59:48,779 --> 03:59:51,540
appears the beta males they show their
7523
03:59:51,540 --> 03:59:53,520
teeth they go
7524
03:59:53,520 --> 03:59:55,920
it's it's like don't hurt me
7525
03:59:55,920 --> 03:59:57,660
it's this is what this is not so you can
7526
03:59:57,660 --> 03:59:59,580
study this today Google YouTube right
7527
03:59:59,580 --> 04:00:02,100
now they show their teeth in a sign of
7528
04:00:02,100 --> 04:00:03,779
submission that's what smiling is if
7529
04:00:03,779 --> 04:00:04,739
you're going through life every person
7530
04:00:04,739 --> 04:00:06,720
you meet you're like hey hey hey hey hey
7531
04:00:06,720 --> 04:00:09,180
hey hey hey hey hey hey you're busy
7532
04:00:09,180 --> 04:00:10,800
saves your world no one hurt me please
7533
04:00:10,800 --> 04:00:13,439
please now I'm a nice guy
7534
04:00:13,439 --> 04:00:16,560
how are you fine you yeah good yeah does
7535
04:00:16,560 --> 04:00:17,819
Trump smile at every [ __ ] he
7536
04:00:17,819 --> 04:00:21,660
sees no it's Trump [ __ ] it yeah yeah all
7537
04:00:21,660 --> 04:00:23,040
right okay yeah
7538
04:00:23,040 --> 04:00:24,660
yeah [ __ ] there's someone who acts
7539
04:00:24,660 --> 04:00:26,699
like a real G turns up someone who's
7540
04:00:26,699 --> 04:00:28,500
done a fantastic job that week he'll
7541
04:00:28,500 --> 04:00:30,120
give him a little bit of a smile though
7542
04:00:30,120 --> 04:00:31,920
smile
7543
04:00:31,920 --> 04:00:33,960
why does Trump smile Max he doesn't walk
7544
04:00:33,960 --> 04:00:35,520
through life looking like a [ __ ]
7545
04:00:35,520 --> 04:00:38,100
happy clown and neither should you your
7546
04:00:38,100 --> 04:00:40,140
smile is a selective tool it must be
7547
04:00:40,140 --> 04:00:42,300
rare it must be used effectively you
7548
04:00:42,300 --> 04:00:43,500
smile at a girl she used to [ __ ]
7549
04:00:43,500 --> 04:00:45,600
deserve that [ __ ] you smile at a guy he
7550
04:00:45,600 --> 04:00:46,800
needs to deserve that [ __ ] let me walk
7551
04:00:46,800 --> 04:00:48,660
through like [ __ ] smiling life's all
7552
04:00:48,660 --> 04:00:50,160
about just being as happy as possible
7553
04:00:50,160 --> 04:00:51,899
this is the [ __ ] the media is trying
7554
04:00:51,899 --> 04:00:53,580
to sell you they're purporting this idea
7555
04:00:53,580 --> 04:00:56,279
if you're happy smile be nice to
7556
04:00:56,279 --> 04:00:58,020
everyone who's happy all the time smile
7557
04:00:58,020 --> 04:00:59,399
all the time nice all the time he's a
7558
04:00:59,399 --> 04:01:01,500
[ __ ] loser you know it and I know it
7559
04:01:01,500 --> 04:01:03,300
so you don't want to be that guy you're
7560
04:01:03,300 --> 04:01:04,680
going to be [ __ ] smiling use your
7561
04:01:04,680 --> 04:01:06,180
smile selectively
7562
04:01:06,180 --> 04:01:08,160
I use my smile selectively especially in
7563
04:01:08,160 --> 04:01:09,840
dates and girls
7564
04:01:09,840 --> 04:01:11,220
if I'm sitting there it's a little bit
7565
04:01:11,220 --> 04:01:12,960
Frosty whatever whatever I don't allow
7566
04:01:12,960 --> 04:01:14,939
awkward science silences because I'm too
7567
04:01:14,939 --> 04:01:16,319
efficient for those things I've got a
7568
04:01:16,319 --> 04:01:20,340
PhD a pimpanos degree but if uh we're
7569
04:01:20,340 --> 04:01:21,960
talking and the Talk's just very general
7570
04:01:21,960 --> 04:01:24,540
I'm I'm very neutral I'm like this oh
7571
04:01:24,540 --> 04:01:26,939
yeah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah
7572
04:01:26,939 --> 04:01:28,620
when she starts to flirt with me a
7573
04:01:28,620 --> 04:01:30,120
little bit or if she starts to be a
7574
04:01:30,120 --> 04:01:31,800
little bit more open or I know for sure
7575
04:01:31,800 --> 04:01:33,300
she's going to get dick
7576
04:01:33,300 --> 04:01:36,000
then I might smile a little bit i'm like
7577
04:01:36,000 --> 04:01:39,000
[ __ ] you crazy I'll smile
7578
04:01:39,000 --> 04:01:40,319
she'll say something and I'll smile
7579
04:01:40,319 --> 04:01:42,720
before I answer say oh I didn't expect
7580
04:01:42,720 --> 04:01:43,800
you to be like this I thought you'd be
7581
04:01:43,800 --> 04:01:47,040
more arrogant like why I'll smile but
7582
04:01:47,040 --> 04:01:48,600
she says at the beginning I didn't
7583
04:01:48,600 --> 04:01:51,120
expect to be more arrogant I'm like why
7584
04:01:51,120 --> 04:01:53,040
I'm very different I decide to smile
7585
04:01:53,040 --> 04:01:54,779
when she's receptive to me you're
7586
04:01:54,779 --> 04:01:56,520
receptive to me and you're gonna [ __ ]
7587
04:01:56,520 --> 04:01:58,319
do what I want you can have a smile in
7588
04:01:58,319 --> 04:02:01,080
return smile is a weapon like like your
7589
04:02:01,080 --> 04:02:02,460
attention is a weapon like everything
7590
04:02:02,460 --> 04:02:03,899
you have is a weapon you're a walking
7591
04:02:03,899 --> 04:02:05,880
bag of weapons so much you men don't
7592
04:02:05,880 --> 04:02:08,160
understand your attention has a value
7593
04:02:08,160 --> 04:02:10,680
your smile has value you're you're
7594
04:02:10,680 --> 04:02:13,080
replying to somebody all has value and
7595
04:02:13,080 --> 04:02:14,100
you guys are just running through life
7596
04:02:14,100 --> 04:02:15,960
throwing it away every single chick
7597
04:02:15,960 --> 04:02:17,399
giving them attention for no reason even
7598
04:02:17,399 --> 04:02:18,779
though they don't suck dick messaging
7599
04:02:18,779 --> 04:02:20,279
girls all the time friend zoning
7600
04:02:20,279 --> 04:02:21,899
yourself smiling at everyone just
7601
04:02:21,899 --> 04:02:23,580
throwing your weapons away
7602
04:02:23,580 --> 04:02:24,779
then how the [ __ ] you're gonna do
7603
04:02:24,779 --> 04:02:27,120
something exclusive how do you show me
7604
04:02:27,120 --> 04:02:28,620
I've made you happy if you're already
7605
04:02:28,620 --> 04:02:30,120
smiling every [ __ ] you've ever met
7606
04:02:30,120 --> 04:02:32,040
it's stupid
7607
04:02:32,040 --> 04:02:34,800
now you don't have to come across as a
7608
04:02:34,800 --> 04:02:37,260
horrible person I don't have to I don't
7609
04:02:37,260 --> 04:02:40,020
I don't smile often at all but let's say
7610
04:02:40,020 --> 04:02:41,880
I'm in the store and I'm buying
7611
04:02:41,880 --> 04:02:43,739
something and the guy goes I'll say yeah
7612
04:02:43,739 --> 04:02:45,779
this much Holly thank you thanks I'll
7613
04:02:45,779 --> 04:02:48,000
not a lot in fact if I'm walking past
7614
04:02:48,000 --> 04:02:49,739
the security guard he looks at me I will
7615
04:02:49,739 --> 04:02:53,040
smile on mod I know it is a
7616
04:02:53,040 --> 04:02:54,779
you and I both know who the men the bad
7617
04:02:54,779 --> 04:02:56,520
men in the room are all the big men know
7618
04:02:56,520 --> 04:02:59,160
the big men nod all the big men know if
7619
04:02:59,160 --> 04:03:00,180
you're not a big man you're watching
7620
04:03:00,180 --> 04:03:01,319
this show what's he talking about you're
7621
04:03:01,319 --> 04:03:03,180
a big guy right now you know when big
7622
04:03:03,180 --> 04:03:04,859
men walk in the club and there's another
7623
04:03:04,859 --> 04:03:07,560
big man in the club you instantly human
7624
04:03:07,560 --> 04:03:10,319
instinct you catch eyes like okay he's
7625
04:03:10,319 --> 04:03:11,520
the only person in this club who can
7626
04:03:11,520 --> 04:03:12,960
match me physically if there's gonna be
7627
04:03:12,960 --> 04:03:13,979
a fight that's the only guy I have to
7628
04:03:13,979 --> 04:03:16,560
worry about and you always link eyes and
7629
04:03:16,560 --> 04:03:18,960
you always kind of do this
7630
04:03:18,960 --> 04:03:20,880
thing it's like yeah all right cool
7631
04:03:20,880 --> 04:03:22,560
we've clocked each other we decided
7632
04:03:22,560 --> 04:03:24,180
we're cool is done
7633
04:03:24,180 --> 04:03:25,500
big man
7634
04:03:25,500 --> 04:03:28,199
it's a thing big men know
7635
04:03:28,199 --> 04:03:29,939
but not as far more effective than a
7636
04:03:29,939 --> 04:03:31,260
smile you want to be polite notice
7637
04:03:31,260 --> 04:03:32,279
somebody
7638
04:03:32,279 --> 04:03:35,699
yeah thank you cheers thanks bye
7639
04:03:35,699 --> 04:03:37,819
thanks
7640
04:03:40,020 --> 04:03:42,899
happy over skills little [ __ ] smile
7641
04:03:42,899 --> 04:03:45,000
over skills [ __ ] wrong with you if I
7642
04:03:45,000 --> 04:03:46,199
have to tell you to give a firm
7643
04:03:46,199 --> 04:03:47,340
handshake
7644
04:03:47,340 --> 04:03:48,899
then I don't know what the [ __ ] you're
7645
04:03:48,899 --> 04:03:50,160
doing here because you should know that
7646
04:03:50,160 --> 04:03:51,840
already if I have to tell you that
7647
04:03:51,840 --> 04:03:54,239
fidgeting makes you appear bored you
7648
04:03:54,239 --> 04:03:55,680
should know that already if you want to
7649
04:03:55,680 --> 04:03:58,220
look bored
7650
04:03:58,979 --> 04:04:01,080
this is obvious [ __ ] you know this one
7651
04:04:01,080 --> 04:04:02,819
if a girl if you're sitting with a girl
7652
04:04:02,819 --> 04:04:04,260
and she crosses her legs she's basically
7653
04:04:04,260 --> 04:04:05,520
saying you're going nowhere near my
7654
04:04:05,520 --> 04:04:08,580
[ __ ] that's like an anti-rape
7655
04:04:08,580 --> 04:04:11,460
[ __ ] instant reaction you know how to
7656
04:04:11,460 --> 04:04:12,899
read these things you know these things
7657
04:04:12,899 --> 04:04:13,739
because you know how to read them
7658
04:04:13,739 --> 04:04:15,060
instinctively if you sit with a girl and
7659
04:04:15,060 --> 04:04:17,279
she starts this and she does this you
7660
04:04:17,279 --> 04:04:19,020
know you ain't back you know it and I
7661
04:04:19,020 --> 04:04:21,060
know it all those pickup artist students
7662
04:04:21,060 --> 04:04:22,500
they teach what they call a keynote or
7663
04:04:22,500 --> 04:04:25,439
something [ __ ] gay [ __ ] I hate pickup
7664
04:04:25,439 --> 04:04:27,660
artists I hate pickup artists because I
7665
04:04:27,660 --> 04:04:29,580
know I'm the baddest I'm the best so
7666
04:04:29,580 --> 04:04:31,620
annoys me there's all these guys red
7667
04:04:31,620 --> 04:04:34,560
pill Mr Lucario Bad Boy The Dating Game
7668
04:04:34,560 --> 04:04:36,779
all these all these dudes and every time
7669
04:04:36,779 --> 04:04:38,160
I see the girls they're [ __ ] I'm like
7670
04:04:38,160 --> 04:04:40,800
what the [ __ ] is this bro these guys are
7671
04:04:40,800 --> 04:04:42,720
[ __ ] girls I wouldn't even [ __ ] I
7672
04:04:42,720 --> 04:04:43,979
wouldn't even touch their girls and
7673
04:04:43,979 --> 04:04:45,180
they're bragging about them like yeah I
7674
04:04:45,180 --> 04:04:46,800
went out and I game to this chick she's
7675
04:04:46,800 --> 04:04:48,960
the [ __ ] fine your nine is my five
7676
04:04:48,960 --> 04:04:50,699
you call her a knife is a [ __ ] five
7677
04:04:50,699 --> 04:04:52,620
my girls look like [ __ ] Playboy
7678
04:04:52,620 --> 04:04:54,000
bunnies my girl got two million photos
7679
04:04:54,000 --> 04:04:56,340
on Insta my girls have billionaire exes
7680
04:04:56,340 --> 04:04:58,380
my guess is my girls are actually hot
7681
04:04:58,380 --> 04:05:01,199
your girls are basic I hate pickup
7682
04:05:01,199 --> 04:05:02,939
artists anyway they're all [ __ ] they're
7683
04:05:02,939 --> 04:05:04,319
all [ __ ] idiots all of them none of
7684
04:05:04,319 --> 04:05:06,000
them are good for me but they talk about
7685
04:05:06,000 --> 04:05:07,680
this keynote thing where you need to do
7686
04:05:07,680 --> 04:05:09,600
some touching on the girl and I agree
7687
04:05:09,600 --> 04:05:11,220
that that I do that myself that can help
7688
04:05:11,220 --> 04:05:13,680
I have two things I do one is when I
7689
04:05:13,680 --> 04:05:15,420
first meet uh it depends I don't really
7690
04:05:15,420 --> 04:05:16,920
do the hug and kiss kissing when I first
7691
04:05:16,920 --> 04:05:18,239
meet girl I don't really do that unless
7692
04:05:18,239 --> 04:05:19,319
I know her quite well
7693
04:05:19,319 --> 04:05:20,939
but once we're talking [ __ ] one of the
7694
04:05:20,939 --> 04:05:22,800
things I get to do is I say I kickboxer
7695
04:05:22,800 --> 04:05:24,779
like all your books are I say yeah I'm
7696
04:05:24,779 --> 04:05:25,859
going to teach you I'm gonna train you
7697
04:05:25,859 --> 04:05:27,359
I'm gonna make you a little ninja
7698
04:05:27,359 --> 04:05:28,620
because you're beautiful No One's Gonna
7699
04:05:28,620 --> 04:05:30,000
expect you to kill them
7700
04:05:30,000 --> 04:05:31,560
and I give that compliment there and I'm
7701
04:05:31,560 --> 04:05:34,260
like oh like yeah you're gonna work for
7702
04:05:34,260 --> 04:05:36,120
me so really who do I have to kill I say
7703
04:05:36,120 --> 04:05:37,439
well are you strong enough and they'll
7704
04:05:37,439 --> 04:05:39,060
always go yeah I'll say go let me see
7705
04:05:39,060 --> 04:05:40,560
and then they'll tense their [ __ ]
7706
04:05:40,560 --> 04:05:41,880
muscles of them
7707
04:05:41,880 --> 04:05:44,699
got work to do that's how I first do my
7708
04:05:44,699 --> 04:05:47,100
the keynote break the ice touch them
7709
04:05:47,100 --> 04:05:49,199
thing I do the feeling their arms thing
7710
04:05:49,199 --> 04:05:51,660
but that only works designs huge arms if
7711
04:05:51,660 --> 04:05:52,979
I did that and she looked at my skinny
7712
04:05:52,979 --> 04:05:54,300
ass arms back and goes well where's your
7713
04:05:54,300 --> 04:05:55,439
[ __ ] muscle it doesn't work that
7714
04:05:55,439 --> 04:05:57,120
doesn't it so you have to choose your
7715
04:05:57,120 --> 04:05:59,460
own style but yeah they're all Crossing
7716
04:05:59,460 --> 04:06:00,420
off and they don't want you to touch
7717
04:06:00,420 --> 04:06:01,560
them whatever whatever then that's
7718
04:06:01,560 --> 04:06:02,819
obviously a bad sign you know these
7719
04:06:02,819 --> 04:06:04,080
things already
7720
04:06:04,080 --> 04:06:06,000
tell you super fun
7721
04:06:06,000 --> 04:06:07,439
if you've watched this at this point you
7722
04:06:07,439 --> 04:06:09,120
haven't taken any notes I doubt
7723
04:06:09,120 --> 04:06:10,680
definitely told you some [ __ ] you should
7724
04:06:10,680 --> 04:06:11,760
[ __ ] you probably don't know yet
7725
04:06:11,760 --> 04:06:14,580
especially changing it from from Angry
7726
04:06:14,580 --> 04:06:16,020
to calm I know none of you [ __ ] do
7727
04:06:16,020 --> 04:06:17,160
that because I've never seen anyone else
7728
04:06:17,160 --> 04:06:21,600
pull off from me Eyes eye contact
7729
04:06:21,600 --> 04:06:23,580
a lot of you are very unaware where
7730
04:06:23,580 --> 04:06:24,420
you're looking especially when you're
7731
04:06:24,420 --> 04:06:27,540
talking to somebody I look in people's
7732
04:06:27,540 --> 04:06:30,180
eyes I do that very very specifically
7733
04:06:30,180 --> 04:06:32,399
not in a creepy way I don't want none of
7734
04:06:32,399 --> 04:06:34,979
you [ __ ] to take my videos sometimes
7735
04:06:34,979 --> 04:06:37,140
I say things which are so nuanced
7736
04:06:37,140 --> 04:06:38,399
and I'm worried that people are gonna be
7737
04:06:38,399 --> 04:06:40,020
like okay Tate said this so I have to do
7738
04:06:40,020 --> 04:06:42,479
this I'm gonna go and be like hi
7739
04:06:42,479 --> 04:06:44,880
you have a [ __ ] psycho like you have
7740
04:06:44,880 --> 04:06:47,340
to keep things into perspective but
7741
04:06:47,340 --> 04:06:48,779
especially if you want to drive a point
7742
04:06:48,779 --> 04:06:51,479
home you look at someone's eyes like I
7743
04:06:51,479 --> 04:06:53,880
said before the biggest theme behind
7744
04:06:53,880 --> 04:06:55,979
this program which core the ability to
7745
04:06:55,979 --> 04:06:59,220
change your language it's the change of
7746
04:06:59,220 --> 04:07:01,319
language that people perceive more than
7747
04:07:01,319 --> 04:07:02,760
the language itself
7748
04:07:02,760 --> 04:07:05,040
so if I'm talking to a girl and I'm like
7749
04:07:05,040 --> 04:07:06,899
blah blah blah doesn't matter what I
7750
04:07:06,899 --> 04:07:07,920
said let me think of a sense it doesn't
7751
04:07:07,920 --> 04:07:08,880
matter what I'm saying but when I want
7752
04:07:08,880 --> 04:07:10,979
to drive the point home only then we're
7753
04:07:10,979 --> 04:07:12,180
looking to rise
7754
04:07:12,180 --> 04:07:14,040
yeah actually I'm really glad I met you
7755
04:07:14,040 --> 04:07:15,779
because you are beautiful
7756
04:07:15,779 --> 04:07:17,699
I'll say the beautiful part and look in
7757
04:07:17,699 --> 04:07:19,080
her eyes before I say that I'm looking
7758
04:07:19,080 --> 04:07:20,340
away
7759
04:07:20,340 --> 04:07:22,140
and that's what makes it more effective
7760
04:07:22,140 --> 04:07:23,760
it's more effective because I've gone
7761
04:07:23,760 --> 04:07:25,800
from looking away to looking at her if I
7762
04:07:25,800 --> 04:07:27,180
just looked at her and said I'm glad I
7763
04:07:27,180 --> 04:07:28,080
met you because I really think you're
7764
04:07:28,080 --> 04:07:30,300
beautiful it's not for me it's far more
7765
04:07:30,300 --> 04:07:31,380
effective for me to say yeah well I'm
7766
04:07:31,380 --> 04:07:32,399
glad I met you because I really think
7767
04:07:32,399 --> 04:07:33,300
you're beautiful
7768
04:07:33,300 --> 04:07:35,100
I'll look away and I'll look at them
7769
04:07:35,100 --> 04:07:37,140
when I say something I mean
7770
04:07:37,140 --> 04:07:39,180
and that change in body language is what
7771
04:07:39,180 --> 04:07:40,739
they perceive and that makes you far
7772
04:07:40,739 --> 04:07:42,779
more convincing
7773
04:07:42,779 --> 04:07:43,979
you see where I'm coming from don't tell
7774
04:07:43,979 --> 04:07:44,939
a girl she's beautiful we'll make sure
7775
04:07:44,939 --> 04:07:45,779
you're not looking at her and look her
7776
04:07:45,779 --> 04:07:47,100
in the eyes directly as you say like a
7777
04:07:47,100 --> 04:07:48,420
[ __ ] man
7778
04:07:48,420 --> 04:07:50,640
eye contact eye contact needs to be used
7779
04:07:50,640 --> 04:07:52,020
as punctuation
7780
04:07:52,020 --> 04:07:54,840
this is punctuation everything is
7781
04:07:54,840 --> 04:07:57,660
punctuation make them understand a point
7782
04:07:57,660 --> 04:07:59,040
that's how your eye contact should be
7783
04:07:59,040 --> 04:08:00,660
used unless you have to lock eyes every
7784
04:08:00,660 --> 04:08:02,520
[ __ ] you meet but needs to be
7785
04:08:02,520 --> 04:08:05,580
used as punctuation same with men
7786
04:08:05,580 --> 04:08:07,560
blah blah blah blah dude get the [ __ ]
7787
04:08:07,560 --> 04:08:09,720
away from me get the [ __ ] away from me
7788
04:08:09,720 --> 04:08:11,520
when I look in his eyes it's what I mean
7789
04:08:11,520 --> 04:08:12,239
it
7790
04:08:12,239 --> 04:08:13,439
when you're saying that you're knocking
7791
04:08:13,439 --> 04:08:14,760
his eyes you don't mean it say I live in
7792
04:08:14,760 --> 04:08:16,920
his eyes I mean it and if you guys watch
7793
04:08:16,920 --> 04:08:18,060
any of my other videos you understand
7794
04:08:18,060 --> 04:08:19,319
how important it is to never say
7795
04:08:19,319 --> 04:08:20,880
something you don't mean if you've not
7796
04:08:20,880 --> 04:08:22,260
watched my
7797
04:08:22,260 --> 04:08:23,939
video on tape speech it's completely
7798
04:08:23,939 --> 04:08:26,520
free tricks on depression it's about 25
7799
04:08:26,520 --> 04:08:28,680
minutes long watch that one and I talk
7800
04:08:28,680 --> 04:08:29,939
about how important it is to say what
7801
04:08:29,939 --> 04:08:32,399
you mean and mean what you say
7802
04:08:32,399 --> 04:08:33,779
don't tell somebody to knock them out
7803
04:08:33,779 --> 04:08:35,279
and she's going to do it they'll be one
7804
04:08:35,279 --> 04:08:36,120
of those people who walk through the
7805
04:08:36,120 --> 04:08:37,500
Earth talking [ __ ]
7806
04:08:37,500 --> 04:08:39,000
unless they look bro you don't got my
7807
04:08:39,000 --> 04:08:40,620
face to the I'm Gonna Knock You the [ __ ]
7808
04:08:40,620 --> 04:08:41,520
out
7809
04:08:41,520 --> 04:08:43,500
it's the first time I look in his eyes I
7810
04:08:43,500 --> 04:08:44,580
said I'm gonna knock him out you know
7811
04:08:44,580 --> 04:08:45,540
it's the first time I've looked at him
7812
04:08:45,540 --> 04:08:47,040
he knows I'm gonna mean it that's how
7813
04:08:47,040 --> 04:08:48,840
eye contact should be used to use power
7814
04:08:48,840 --> 04:08:52,080
poses is a thing
7815
04:08:52,080 --> 04:08:53,939
I had a lot of people send me lots of
7816
04:08:53,939 --> 04:08:55,380
emails about this course asking me
7817
04:08:55,380 --> 04:08:56,580
questions so I got asked about power
7818
04:08:56,580 --> 04:08:58,260
poses they say like if you sit there and
7819
04:08:58,260 --> 04:09:00,300
you do the Superman pose you're starting
7820
04:09:00,300 --> 04:09:01,800
to get more you naturally release more
7821
04:09:01,800 --> 04:09:03,300
testosterone you start to feel stronger
7822
04:09:03,300 --> 04:09:04,500
I believe that's true I do think that
7823
04:09:04,500 --> 04:09:06,540
works right it's definitely a thing you
7824
04:09:06,540 --> 04:09:07,979
know that certainly a thing do I walk
7825
04:09:07,979 --> 04:09:09,420
through life of the Superman pose no
7826
04:09:09,420 --> 04:09:11,580
should you know what the [ __ ]
7827
04:09:11,580 --> 04:09:12,899
when you look in the mirror you look in
7828
04:09:12,899 --> 04:09:14,460
the mirror like I'm a [ __ ] man
7829
04:09:14,460 --> 04:09:16,920
yeah you need to do that of course but
7830
04:09:16,920 --> 04:09:18,720
that's more here than a power pose so
7831
04:09:18,720 --> 04:09:20,279
I'm only answering this thing now so I
7832
04:09:20,279 --> 04:09:21,120
know some of the fucker's gonna come
7833
04:09:21,120 --> 04:09:23,220
back but what about my power pose if you
7834
04:09:23,220 --> 04:09:24,300
want to walk through life doing this it
7835
04:09:24,300 --> 04:09:25,439
makes you feel a little bit stronger go
7836
04:09:25,439 --> 04:09:26,640
for it how about you just get strong as
7837
04:09:26,640 --> 04:09:27,779
[ __ ] anyway you don't worry about
7838
04:09:27,779 --> 04:09:29,160
walking around looking like a [ __ ]
7839
04:09:29,160 --> 04:09:31,140
superhero a dork
7840
04:09:31,140 --> 04:09:33,300
so that's that [ __ ] I've told you a lot
7841
04:09:33,300 --> 04:09:34,020
about
7842
04:09:34,020 --> 04:09:37,020
being domineering and conquering however
7843
04:09:37,020 --> 04:09:39,060
a lot of you guys will know one of the
7844
04:09:39,060 --> 04:09:41,279
48 rules of power is never to outshine
7845
04:09:41,279 --> 04:09:43,620
the master so a lot of you may have a
7846
04:09:43,620 --> 04:09:45,600
boss and you can't act that way because
7847
04:09:45,600 --> 04:09:46,680
it's going to piss your boss off too
7848
04:09:46,680 --> 04:09:49,080
much if you're too overpowering I
7849
04:09:49,080 --> 04:09:50,460
managed to be overpowering my sales
7850
04:09:50,460 --> 04:09:52,260
meetings because I was such a [ __ ]
7851
04:09:52,260 --> 04:09:53,819
fantastic salesman the boss wouldn't say
7852
04:09:53,819 --> 04:09:55,020
[ __ ] to me because I made him so much
7853
04:09:55,020 --> 04:09:56,580
[ __ ] money but if you're middle of
7854
04:09:56,580 --> 04:09:57,600
the road or something you can't come
7855
04:09:57,600 --> 04:09:58,620
across that way you're going to annoy
7856
04:09:58,620 --> 04:09:59,819
people too much if you haven't got the
7857
04:09:59,819 --> 04:10:01,319
results to back it up
7858
04:10:01,319 --> 04:10:02,580
so one of the key things you can do if
7859
04:10:02,580 --> 04:10:04,680
you want to make people like you
7860
04:10:04,680 --> 04:10:05,939
two things you want to make you're like
7861
04:10:05,939 --> 04:10:07,319
you one's a body language trick one's
7862
04:10:07,319 --> 04:10:08,699
not a boy language trip
7863
04:10:08,699 --> 04:10:11,640
what is if you want people like you ask
7864
04:10:11,640 --> 04:10:13,380
them lots of questions
7865
04:10:13,380 --> 04:10:15,660
because everyone loves to talk about
7866
04:10:15,660 --> 04:10:17,939
themselves if I have if I'm meeting
7867
04:10:17,939 --> 04:10:19,140
someone extremely important which
7868
04:10:19,140 --> 04:10:21,180
happens all the [ __ ] time Trump
7869
04:10:21,180 --> 04:10:23,939
leaders anyone else I think okay I need
7870
04:10:23,939 --> 04:10:25,800
this person to like me I don't sit there
7871
04:10:25,800 --> 04:10:27,180
and try and impress me I don't sit there
7872
04:10:27,180 --> 04:10:28,620
and go okay agitate some of the chest
7873
04:10:28,620 --> 04:10:30,359
guard Master genius IQ 400 people's
7874
04:10:30,359 --> 04:10:31,319
world champion I've got lots of girls
7875
04:10:31,319 --> 04:10:33,300
lots of [ __ ] and money and a Lambo they
7876
04:10:33,300 --> 04:10:36,120
don't care nobody cares I sit and go
7877
04:10:36,120 --> 04:10:37,260
yeah okay it's really good to meet you
7878
04:10:37,260 --> 04:10:38,399
yeah I've always I've always been
7879
04:10:38,399 --> 04:10:39,359
interested in
7880
04:10:39,359 --> 04:10:41,640
ask them things because if you ask
7881
04:10:41,640 --> 04:10:43,439
people questions then they have to talk
7882
04:10:43,439 --> 04:10:44,460
they have to answer them and they have
7883
04:10:44,460 --> 04:10:45,359
to answer them by talking about
7884
04:10:45,359 --> 04:10:47,279
themselves and everyone loves themselves
7885
04:10:47,279 --> 04:10:48,779
so if you sit there with someone and
7886
04:10:48,779 --> 04:10:50,220
they only talk about themselves for an
7887
04:10:50,220 --> 04:10:52,199
hour they're gonna love the conversation
7888
04:10:52,199 --> 04:10:53,699
yeah it was really good to talk to you
7889
04:10:53,699 --> 04:10:56,580
because I got to brag for an hour this
7890
04:10:56,580 --> 04:10:58,319
is especially effective with women women
7891
04:10:58,319 --> 04:11:00,479
love this [ __ ] if you sit there and try
7892
04:11:00,479 --> 04:11:02,399
and make a woman impressive
7893
04:11:02,399 --> 04:11:05,340
I'm this I'm that boy now sit and go
7894
04:11:05,340 --> 04:11:06,840
you're different than I expect so what
7895
04:11:06,840 --> 04:11:08,220
do you do I'm here for a hairdresser
7896
04:11:08,220 --> 04:11:09,840
don't you get bored of like talking to
7897
04:11:09,840 --> 04:11:11,580
people all the time well no actually I
7898
04:11:11,580 --> 04:11:12,600
don't mind because something would be
7899
04:11:12,600 --> 04:11:13,739
really nice and it's going to be my best
7900
04:11:13,739 --> 04:11:15,840
customer to uh oh really okay yeah well
7901
04:11:15,840 --> 04:11:17,340
I don't even go to hairdresser as you
7902
04:11:17,340 --> 04:11:18,779
can tell because I'm already beautiful
7903
04:11:18,779 --> 04:11:20,399
so how long have you been haircut so far
7904
04:11:20,399 --> 04:11:22,080
I've been here for this long I went to
7905
04:11:22,080 --> 04:11:24,120
college and did it added little bits of
7906
04:11:24,120 --> 04:11:25,680
your own dialogue but basically just ask
7907
04:11:25,680 --> 04:11:26,699
them questions
7908
04:11:26,699 --> 04:11:29,760
I took one guy on uh
7909
04:11:29,760 --> 04:11:31,859
pickup coaching I don't normally do this
7910
04:11:31,859 --> 04:11:33,720
but I had one guy who paid me money to
7911
04:11:33,720 --> 04:11:34,800
go out with him for a weekend and pick
7912
04:11:34,800 --> 04:11:36,660
up girls and he said to me I'm really
7913
04:11:36,660 --> 04:11:38,399
nervous I'm really nervous like bro
7914
04:11:38,399 --> 04:11:40,020
ask them questions
7915
04:11:40,020 --> 04:11:41,340
say hello here's how you introduce
7916
04:11:41,340 --> 04:11:43,140
yourself here's you say hello ask them
7917
04:11:43,140 --> 04:11:45,239
questions and if you do that you're 75
7918
04:11:45,239 --> 04:11:47,040
there because they're just gonna talk
7919
04:11:47,040 --> 04:11:49,319
about themselves it doesn't matter what
7920
04:11:49,319 --> 04:11:51,180
they reply who gives a [ __ ] you're a
7921
04:11:51,180 --> 04:11:53,279
hairdresser you're a nurse You're A
7922
04:11:53,279 --> 04:11:55,319
Stripper it's all the same [ __ ] who
7923
04:11:55,319 --> 04:11:58,439
cares oh really that's interesting same
7924
04:11:58,439 --> 04:12:00,960
answer to them all ask them let them
7925
04:12:00,960 --> 04:12:03,479
talk [ __ ] about themselves this is super
7926
04:12:03,479 --> 04:12:05,520
effective to make people like you super
7927
04:12:05,520 --> 04:12:07,199
effective because everyone loves to talk
7928
04:12:07,199 --> 04:12:08,399
about themselves so keep that in mind
7929
04:12:08,399 --> 04:12:10,739
and then the body language trick is to
7930
04:12:10,739 --> 04:12:12,600
really look like you're listening
7931
04:12:12,600 --> 04:12:14,100
most people don't look like they're
7932
04:12:14,100 --> 04:12:16,140
listening if I want someone to like me I
7933
04:12:16,140 --> 04:12:18,300
really look like I'm listening so if I
7934
04:12:18,300 --> 04:12:19,739
need a boss to like me or a girl for
7935
04:12:19,739 --> 04:12:22,020
like me I'll make sure it's clear I'm
7936
04:12:22,020 --> 04:12:23,100
paying attention
7937
04:12:23,100 --> 04:12:25,560
so if you've ever been in like a group
7938
04:12:25,560 --> 04:12:27,840
of people and there's one girl you want
7939
04:12:27,840 --> 04:12:29,520
to [ __ ] and everyone's kind of talking
7940
04:12:29,520 --> 04:12:32,399
amongst themselves but when that girl's
7941
04:12:32,399 --> 04:12:33,779
talking people are half listening but
7942
04:12:33,779 --> 04:12:36,180
when that girl's talking not Nuance
7943
04:12:36,180 --> 04:12:38,580
don't look like a [ __ ] creep but make
7944
04:12:38,580 --> 04:12:40,080
it clear you're listening if other
7945
04:12:40,080 --> 04:12:41,279
people are all talking to you and she
7946
04:12:41,279 --> 04:12:43,140
starts talking to you go okay yeah
7947
04:12:43,140 --> 04:12:46,140
look at her I'm listening to you
7948
04:12:46,140 --> 04:12:48,120
because then oh he thinks I'm important
7949
04:12:48,120 --> 04:12:50,580
he thinks what I say matters and the
7950
04:12:50,580 --> 04:12:52,500
boss is the same he listens when I talk
7951
04:12:52,500 --> 04:12:54,120
to him he thinks I'm important he thinks
7952
04:12:54,120 --> 04:12:55,319
why I say matters
7953
04:12:55,319 --> 04:12:57,660
in a corporate situation
7954
04:12:57,660 --> 04:12:59,699
what I used to do I see this all the
7955
04:12:59,699 --> 04:13:01,859
time bosses love this [ __ ] I used to
7956
04:13:01,859 --> 04:13:03,840
walk around a little notepad pen
7957
04:13:03,840 --> 04:13:05,279
so if I got called into the boss's
7958
04:13:05,279 --> 04:13:07,439
office I'd go into the notepad and pen
7959
04:13:07,439 --> 04:13:09,540
and sit there and when they were talking
7960
04:13:09,540 --> 04:13:12,479
to me I just randomly write things down
7961
04:13:12,479 --> 04:13:14,040
and I feel he said why you got that she
7962
04:13:14,040 --> 04:13:17,359
said I don't want to miss any key points
7963
04:13:17,479 --> 04:13:20,580
but they like that [ __ ] like I'm talking
7964
04:13:20,580 --> 04:13:22,680
and he's writing it down to not miss my
7965
04:13:22,680 --> 04:13:25,260
key points yeah well Mr Andrew you are
7966
04:13:25,260 --> 04:13:26,819
the best salesman you have sold three
7967
04:13:26,819 --> 04:13:28,620
times more than everybody else but I'm a
7968
04:13:28,620 --> 04:13:30,840
greedy CEO come so I want you to sell
7969
04:13:30,840 --> 04:13:32,939
more so I was just wondering if you
7970
04:13:32,939 --> 04:13:34,739
could possibly do this or if you tried
7971
04:13:34,739 --> 04:13:36,779
doing this because you're my cash cow
7972
04:13:36,779 --> 04:13:37,979
and I want to milk you for all your
7973
04:13:37,979 --> 04:13:40,319
worth yeah you're right I did try that
7974
04:13:40,319 --> 04:13:41,640
actually I did try that but I'm gonna
7975
04:13:41,640 --> 04:13:42,779
I'm gonna find the email I'm gonna send
7976
04:13:42,779 --> 04:13:44,819
it to you I mean okay yeah
7977
04:13:44,819 --> 04:13:46,920
you sit there and you I'm listening to
7978
04:13:46,920 --> 04:13:49,199
you sir well you have to say matters I'm
7979
04:13:49,199 --> 04:13:50,699
writing it down but they're gonna
7980
04:13:50,699 --> 04:13:52,920
[ __ ] love you they're gonna love you
7981
04:13:52,920 --> 04:13:54,660
and I'm like who the [ __ ] this guy and
7982
04:13:54,660 --> 04:13:55,800
then they call the [ __ ] jackass
7983
04:13:55,800 --> 04:13:58,020
salesman and hi where's your sales yeah
7984
04:13:58,020 --> 04:13:59,760
I've tried
7985
04:13:59,760 --> 04:14:01,680
that's how you be light
7986
04:14:01,680 --> 04:14:03,359
making people make it clear you listen
7987
04:14:03,359 --> 04:14:04,560
to people most of you don't make it
7988
04:14:04,560 --> 04:14:06,180
clear you're listening to someone make
7989
04:14:06,180 --> 04:14:08,460
it clear you are listening to them the
7990
04:14:08,460 --> 04:14:10,500
notepad and Pen example is fantastic for
7991
04:14:10,500 --> 04:14:13,439
the boss they [ __ ] love that [ __ ]
7992
04:14:13,439 --> 04:14:14,880
they're missing they go this dude is
7993
04:14:14,880 --> 04:14:16,680
[ __ ] miss takes his [ __ ] seriously
7994
04:14:16,680 --> 04:14:18,840
because a boss hires you to make them
7995
04:14:18,840 --> 04:14:20,399
money they're always going to pay you
7996
04:14:20,399 --> 04:14:22,020
less than they make out of you otherwise
7997
04:14:22,020 --> 04:14:23,340
they wouldn't have a business
7998
04:14:23,340 --> 04:14:24,779
so if you're sitting there taking them
7999
04:14:24,779 --> 04:14:26,160
seriously you're taking their money
8000
04:14:26,160 --> 04:14:27,600
seriously wouldn't you love it if you
8001
04:14:27,600 --> 04:14:28,500
have someone who came into your house
8002
04:14:28,500 --> 04:14:29,699
with a pen and paper and goes how can I
8003
04:14:29,699 --> 04:14:31,739
make you more money tell me what to do
8004
04:14:31,739 --> 04:14:34,260
people that [ __ ] like this guy who
8005
04:14:34,260 --> 04:14:35,340
wouldn't
8006
04:14:35,340 --> 04:14:36,420
so he doesn't make it clear you're
8007
04:14:36,420 --> 04:14:38,699
listening to people and ask lots of
8008
04:14:38,699 --> 04:14:41,100
questions all the time
8009
04:14:41,100 --> 04:14:42,479
especially once again with the boss they
8010
04:14:42,479 --> 04:14:43,979
love to ask questions
8011
04:14:43,979 --> 04:14:46,859
so even if I knew the correct answer I'd
8012
04:14:46,859 --> 04:14:48,479
ask them a question
8013
04:14:48,479 --> 04:14:51,359
so I'd say uh something like you know I
8014
04:14:51,359 --> 04:14:52,560
have my pen and my paper I'm sitting
8015
04:14:52,560 --> 04:14:53,340
there
8016
04:14:53,340 --> 04:14:54,960
I'm always trying to get a job again
8017
04:14:54,960 --> 04:14:56,520
because it was so easy you know I never
8018
04:14:56,520 --> 04:14:58,920
failed a job interview ever I'd go for
8019
04:14:58,920 --> 04:15:00,779
Jaws that were that required a degree I
8020
04:15:00,779 --> 04:15:02,640
didn't even have a degree I just walk in
8021
04:15:02,640 --> 04:15:05,160
there goes Mr Tate uh your degree I'm
8022
04:15:05,160 --> 04:15:07,560
going to agree didn't need one I didn't
8023
04:15:07,560 --> 04:15:09,060
need one because I'm the best I'm
8024
04:15:09,060 --> 04:15:10,739
prepared to prove I'm the best I'll work
8025
04:15:10,739 --> 04:15:12,779
for a week for free and I guarantee
8026
04:15:12,779 --> 04:15:14,640
within a six months I'm gonna smash any
8027
04:15:14,640 --> 04:15:16,260
sales Target you set me I don't have
8028
04:15:16,260 --> 04:15:17,819
time to go to university and sit there
8029
04:15:17,819 --> 04:15:19,800
for four years I'm here to get paid I'm
8030
04:15:19,800 --> 04:15:21,300
here to get you rich I'm here to make me
8031
04:15:21,300 --> 04:15:24,800
Rich I'm the best there's ever been
8032
04:15:24,800 --> 04:15:27,000
well he's gonna work for free is at
8033
04:15:27,000 --> 04:15:28,260
least try him out
8034
04:15:28,260 --> 04:15:30,960
I never failed a job interview ever ever
8035
04:15:30,960 --> 04:15:33,359
I got every [ __ ] job
8036
04:15:33,359 --> 04:15:35,340
tempted to go back it was so fun but
8037
04:15:35,340 --> 04:15:37,080
sick of my pen and paper
8038
04:15:37,080 --> 04:15:39,300
and I'd ask him questions knowing the
8039
04:15:39,300 --> 04:15:40,439
answers already
8040
04:15:40,439 --> 04:15:41,880
I'm like okay sir well I've been trying
8041
04:15:41,880 --> 04:15:43,439
two different types of proposal emails
8042
04:15:43,439 --> 04:15:45,540
one of them is getting about 20 more
8043
04:15:45,540 --> 04:15:47,460
responses than the other so it's the one
8044
04:15:47,460 --> 04:15:49,020
I think is the best but I want to send
8045
04:15:49,020 --> 04:15:50,640
both to you so if you have time I know
8046
04:15:50,640 --> 04:15:51,600
you're busy if you could just read them
8047
04:15:51,600 --> 04:15:53,399
and just confirm that's the process I
8048
04:15:53,399 --> 04:15:54,600
should be going that's the path I should
8049
04:15:54,600 --> 04:15:55,859
be going now that's the process of the
8050
04:15:55,859 --> 04:15:57,359
emails I'm going to be sending you'll be
8051
04:15:57,359 --> 04:15:59,100
like okay yeah send them across to me as
8052
04:15:59,100 --> 04:16:02,100
if he's gonna say no the other one where
8053
04:16:02,100 --> 04:16:04,140
it's not as effective of course you're
8054
04:16:04,140 --> 04:16:05,699
going to choose the effective one if
8055
04:16:05,699 --> 04:16:07,319
he's if he's a clever cat which he
8056
04:16:07,319 --> 04:16:09,120
probably is the CEO he's gonna come back
8057
04:16:09,120 --> 04:16:10,620
with the odd amendment to try and make
8058
04:16:10,620 --> 04:16:12,120
it look like he knows something so come
8059
04:16:12,120 --> 04:16:13,560
back and go yeah that's really good
8060
04:16:13,560 --> 04:16:15,300
that's good Andrew try and add this and
8061
04:16:15,300 --> 04:16:16,920
this and I think you'll be about there
8062
04:16:16,920 --> 04:16:20,100
and I'll pretend I didn't think of that
8063
04:16:20,100 --> 04:16:22,020
good idea I didn't think that's going to
8064
04:16:22,020 --> 04:16:23,460
add it right away we'll update you
8065
04:16:23,460 --> 04:16:25,080
shortly I'll pretend I didn't [ __ ]
8066
04:16:25,080 --> 04:16:26,880
know and pretend that it's important
8067
04:16:26,880 --> 04:16:28,439
even though it doesn't matter he'll
8068
04:16:28,439 --> 04:16:31,020
think he tricked me ah Andrew he's a
8069
04:16:31,020 --> 04:16:32,220
[ __ ] smart [ __ ] but I'm still the
8070
04:16:32,220 --> 04:16:33,540
smartest I'm the boss
8071
04:16:33,540 --> 04:16:35,040
bam
8072
04:16:35,040 --> 04:16:36,840
that's how they like you then when you
8073
04:16:36,840 --> 04:16:38,279
walk in there and go excuse me sir I've
8074
04:16:38,279 --> 04:16:39,300
been working really really hard for you
8075
04:16:39,300 --> 04:16:40,439
and I do my very very best in this
8076
04:16:40,439 --> 04:16:41,760
company's Corporation I respect you
8077
04:16:41,760 --> 04:16:43,439
absolutely but I'm unfortunately in a
8078
04:16:43,439 --> 04:16:44,460
situation where I need to get paid more
8079
04:16:44,460 --> 04:16:46,698
money
8080
04:16:47,580 --> 04:16:50,279
who was it gonna be that's what I used
8081
04:16:50,279 --> 04:16:52,739
to do I used to smash sales records and
8082
04:16:52,739 --> 04:16:54,359
then they were sitting there like this
8083
04:16:54,359 --> 04:16:56,100
tank guy's gonna make a company Rich I'd
8084
04:16:56,100 --> 04:16:57,680
walk into three months later and say
8085
04:16:57,680 --> 04:17:00,239
unfortunately I'm in a situation where I
8086
04:17:00,239 --> 04:17:02,520
need more money
8087
04:17:02,520 --> 04:17:04,920
not could you please consider not the
8088
04:17:04,920 --> 04:17:09,180
the the the no unfortunately
8089
04:17:09,180 --> 04:17:10,979
situation where I need more money and
8090
04:17:10,979 --> 04:17:12,840
their answer would be okay uh well we
8091
04:17:12,840 --> 04:17:14,819
have a courtly review coming up and we
8092
04:17:14,819 --> 04:17:16,140
need to make sure your sales stay on
8093
04:17:16,140 --> 04:17:18,060
track they try and delay it and say okay
8094
04:17:18,060 --> 04:17:19,500
I'll wait for the courtly review no
8095
04:17:19,500 --> 04:17:20,699
problem I'm very very excited about
8096
04:17:20,699 --> 04:17:22,380
smashing records I'm no longer
8097
04:17:22,380 --> 04:17:23,520
interested in sales targets I'm
8098
04:17:23,520 --> 04:17:24,899
interested in beating the company's
8099
04:17:24,899 --> 04:17:26,279
sales records I know they're already
8100
04:17:26,279 --> 04:17:28,140
mine not going to beat them again
8101
04:17:28,140 --> 04:17:30,300
I'd say that and the reason I say all
8102
04:17:30,300 --> 04:17:32,340
that knowing that the courtly reviews
8103
04:17:32,340 --> 04:17:33,899
two three weeks away is because
8104
04:17:33,899 --> 04:17:36,120
basically I've said you better give me a
8105
04:17:36,120 --> 04:17:37,620
pay rise in that review
8106
04:17:37,620 --> 04:17:39,899
or I'm leaving
8107
04:17:39,899 --> 04:17:41,399
the CEO is sitting there go [ __ ] this
8108
04:17:41,399 --> 04:17:43,319
[ __ ] I can't let him go he's the best
8109
04:17:43,319 --> 04:17:44,580
we got
8110
04:17:44,580 --> 04:17:46,739
to put his money out and with the court
8111
04:17:46,739 --> 04:17:48,000
review come say oh yeah hi Sarah
8112
04:17:48,000 --> 04:17:49,640
obviously I've been doing fantastic
8113
04:17:49,640 --> 04:17:52,439
sometimes I had a couple of them try it
8114
04:17:52,439 --> 04:17:53,460
unfortunately we're not going to
8115
04:17:53,460 --> 04:17:55,199
increase your pay at this time I'd say
8116
04:17:55,199 --> 04:17:56,939
okay no problem I appreciate that I just
8117
04:17:56,939 --> 04:17:58,080
want to make it clear with you I'm going
8118
04:17:58,080 --> 04:17:59,520
to do my utmost I'm going to continue
8119
04:17:59,520 --> 04:18:01,380
doing my job effectively I believe that
8120
04:18:01,380 --> 04:18:02,160
we're going to do something I'm going to
8121
04:18:02,160 --> 04:18:03,720
do it properly but I am in a position
8122
04:18:03,720 --> 04:18:05,640
where I unfortunately do require more
8123
04:18:05,640 --> 04:18:07,080
money so I'm not
8124
04:18:07,080 --> 04:18:08,760
term of employment
8125
04:18:08,760 --> 04:18:10,680
I'm going to leave that
8126
04:18:10,680 --> 04:18:13,260
every time I know within two days
8127
04:18:13,260 --> 04:18:15,060
some [ __ ] offer
8128
04:18:15,060 --> 04:18:16,620
even if I didn't need the money take the
8129
04:18:16,620 --> 04:18:18,479
money the [ __ ] even with only a little
8130
04:18:18,479 --> 04:18:20,580
bit money who cares take it thanks
8131
04:18:20,580 --> 04:18:21,779
it's a principal thing you're gonna
8132
04:18:21,779 --> 04:18:23,520
[ __ ] reward me [ __ ] what
8133
04:18:23,520 --> 04:18:25,920
dessert I got a company car that exact
8134
04:18:25,920 --> 04:18:27,420
same way
8135
04:18:27,420 --> 04:18:29,520
okay and I sat down and I said excuse me
8136
04:18:29,520 --> 04:18:30,720
sir I did an unfortunately position
8137
04:18:30,720 --> 04:18:31,859
where I can no longer use my own
8138
04:18:31,859 --> 04:18:33,779
personal vehicle he said we don't do
8139
04:18:33,779 --> 04:18:35,399
company cars but so I understand that
8140
04:18:35,399 --> 04:18:37,380
and I know you're paying me 20 cents per
8141
04:18:37,380 --> 04:18:39,660
mile but the car I have it's been
8142
04:18:39,660 --> 04:18:41,279
damaged on the car also my brother needs
8143
04:18:41,279 --> 04:18:43,080
to use the car I am a very good salesman
8144
04:18:43,080 --> 04:18:45,300
I can I intend to continue to sell
8145
04:18:45,300 --> 04:18:47,279
effectively I guarantee I will continue
8146
04:18:47,279 --> 04:18:48,840
to break every single company record but
8147
04:18:48,840 --> 04:18:50,460
I can no longer do it in my vehicle I
8148
04:18:50,460 --> 04:18:52,260
need to be provided with a vehicle or I
8149
04:18:52,260 --> 04:18:54,199
can no longer work for this company
8150
04:18:54,199 --> 04:18:56,479
boo give me a car
8151
04:18:56,479 --> 04:18:58,859
most you [ __ ] are afraid to say [ __ ]
8152
04:18:58,859 --> 04:19:03,600
walk in there give me a car I want a car
8153
04:19:03,600 --> 04:19:04,859
literally me and my brother sitting in
8154
04:19:04,859 --> 04:19:06,120
our apartment one day he said I need the
8155
04:19:06,120 --> 04:19:07,319
car tomorrow I was like I need to go to
8156
04:19:07,319 --> 04:19:09,300
a meeting [ __ ] this they give me a
8157
04:19:09,300 --> 04:19:10,859
[ __ ] car
8158
04:19:10,859 --> 04:19:13,319
next day had a car we don't do company
8159
04:19:13,319 --> 04:19:15,239
cars yeah you do renting a [ __ ] car
8160
04:19:15,239 --> 04:19:16,500
because your number one salesman makes
8161
04:19:16,500 --> 04:19:18,420
you all your money [ __ ] said so I
8162
04:19:18,420 --> 04:19:20,220
guarantee you do that don't you went
8163
04:19:20,220 --> 04:19:21,600
down to Hertz and picked me up a [ __ ]
8164
04:19:21,600 --> 04:19:23,460
nice car of course you did BMW 3 Series
8165
04:19:23,460 --> 04:19:25,380
thanks let's go coffee all over the
8166
04:19:25,380 --> 04:19:26,640
[ __ ] seats ain't mine I don't give a
8167
04:19:26,640 --> 04:19:29,819
[ __ ] so you're gonna be mean your [ __ ]
8168
04:19:29,819 --> 04:19:31,920
but with CEOs sometimes you have to
8169
04:19:31,920 --> 04:19:33,000
pretend you're listening but pretend
8170
04:19:33,000 --> 04:19:34,020
you're listening to people they like
8171
04:19:34,020 --> 04:19:36,479
that [ __ ] give you a little Notepad
8172
04:19:36,479 --> 04:19:38,460
your [ __ ] together this can also work
8173
04:19:38,460 --> 04:19:39,479
with women
8174
04:19:39,479 --> 04:19:41,880
sometimes when one of my girlfriends I
8175
04:19:41,880 --> 04:19:44,340
say one of because all you Real G's know
8176
04:19:44,340 --> 04:19:46,020
how else Realties live
8177
04:19:46,020 --> 04:19:47,699
they're like oh I've really gonna call
8178
04:19:47,699 --> 04:19:49,319
problem I need your Tylenol they're
8179
04:19:49,319 --> 04:19:50,819
complaining man say look listen I'm busy
8180
04:19:50,819 --> 04:19:51,720
right now
8181
04:19:51,720 --> 04:19:53,279
I'm gonna come around later I'm gonna
8182
04:19:53,279 --> 04:19:54,420
throw it out
8183
04:19:54,420 --> 04:19:56,100
if I said okay it's almost matter and I
8184
04:19:56,100 --> 04:19:57,540
have to listen no no I'm coming I'll
8185
04:19:57,540 --> 04:19:58,920
turn up later okay you have all my
8186
04:19:58,920 --> 04:20:00,359
attention what's the problem
8187
04:20:00,359 --> 04:20:02,640
blah blah blah blah blah okay all right
8188
04:20:02,640 --> 04:20:04,380
okay I'm gonna do something about it
8189
04:20:04,380 --> 04:20:08,539
yeah but listen I'm a [ __ ]
8190
04:20:08,939 --> 04:20:10,140
[ __ ] then you do nothing and then
8191
04:20:10,140 --> 04:20:12,239
they forget about it
8192
04:20:12,239 --> 04:20:13,680
just giving someone your undivided
8193
04:20:13,680 --> 04:20:16,319
attention and a short burst can be
8194
04:20:16,319 --> 04:20:18,120
extremely effective extremely effective
8195
04:20:18,120 --> 04:20:20,160
leaning forward implies you're paying
8196
04:20:20,160 --> 04:20:21,120
attention
8197
04:20:21,120 --> 04:20:22,739
keep that in mind as opposed to leaning
8198
04:20:22,739 --> 04:20:23,699
back we've already discussed this
8199
04:20:23,699 --> 04:20:24,600
already
8200
04:20:24,600 --> 04:20:26,520
I've got a long list of questions from
8201
04:20:26,520 --> 04:20:27,899
you [ __ ] leaning forward
8202
04:20:27,899 --> 04:20:29,460
implies your opinion this one goes how
8203
04:20:29,460 --> 04:20:30,779
do I make it clear that I'm paying
8204
04:20:30,779 --> 04:20:31,739
attention to them we'll make it clear
8205
04:20:31,739 --> 04:20:32,699
you're listening to them we just
8206
04:20:32,699 --> 04:20:34,080
discussed all this but also lean forward
8207
04:20:34,080 --> 04:20:36,479
and lean forward sometimes yes tell me
8208
04:20:36,479 --> 04:20:38,939
it matters so much I don't actually
8209
04:20:38,939 --> 04:20:40,500
recommend this for women but it is
8210
04:20:40,500 --> 04:20:41,580
something you can do
8211
04:20:41,580 --> 04:20:43,380
also we're talking about women there's a
8212
04:20:43,380 --> 04:20:44,880
lot of body language with pictures of
8213
04:20:44,880 --> 04:20:47,399
women that people talk about like don't
8214
04:20:47,399 --> 04:20:49,080
lean in towards the girl
8215
04:20:49,080 --> 04:20:50,580
we just talked about leaning in because
8216
04:20:50,580 --> 04:20:51,720
leading in shows that you're listening
8217
04:20:51,720 --> 04:20:53,640
shows you're attentive
8218
04:20:53,640 --> 04:20:55,380
they have every single picture is of you
8219
04:20:55,380 --> 04:20:57,180
leaning into your girlfriend then it
8220
04:20:57,180 --> 04:20:58,199
shows that basically she's in charge
8221
04:20:58,199 --> 04:20:59,880
because you listen to Tara
8222
04:20:59,880 --> 04:21:02,340
as opposed to her leaning into you so it
8223
04:21:02,340 --> 04:21:04,140
is a sign of submission for the same
8224
04:21:04,140 --> 04:21:06,300
reason it's a sign of listening it's a
8225
04:21:06,300 --> 04:21:08,040
sign of submission so keep that in mind
8226
04:21:08,040 --> 04:21:09,359
if you want a picture of you and your
8227
04:21:09,359 --> 04:21:10,680
girl you know I brought an Instagram
8228
04:21:10,680 --> 04:21:12,660
whatever whatever
8229
04:21:12,660 --> 04:21:15,120
this is a picture of you I'm the man I
8230
04:21:15,120 --> 04:21:16,979
am the I am the oak tree
8231
04:21:16,979 --> 04:21:18,779
she's hugging the oak tree the oak tree
8232
04:21:18,779 --> 04:21:19,920
doesn't bend over to the people who
8233
04:21:19,920 --> 04:21:21,660
loves it I'm the [ __ ] G she enters
8234
04:21:21,660 --> 04:21:23,399
your world you don't enter hers most you
8235
04:21:23,399 --> 04:21:25,319
guys already know this stuff so it's not
8236
04:21:25,319 --> 04:21:26,819
that complicated but yeah you know it
8237
04:21:26,819 --> 04:21:28,859
hasn't got to be conscious the reason
8238
04:21:28,859 --> 04:21:30,479
body language is so effective is because
8239
04:21:30,479 --> 04:21:32,160
it's unconscious that's why it's
8240
04:21:32,160 --> 04:21:33,540
effective that's what people read it
8241
04:21:33,540 --> 04:21:35,819
because it happens by accident
8242
04:21:35,819 --> 04:21:37,560
so you have to consciously alter yours
8243
04:21:37,560 --> 04:21:38,520
but when you're going through life you
8244
04:21:38,520 --> 04:21:39,720
can't be sitting there going how do I do
8245
04:21:39,720 --> 04:21:40,739
this how to do that you've got to just
8246
04:21:40,739 --> 04:21:42,000
start thinking about it and practice a
8247
04:21:42,000 --> 04:21:43,319
little bit and become natural with your
8248
04:21:43,319 --> 04:21:44,699
hands etc etc
8249
04:21:44,699 --> 04:21:46,800
so body language for women is never
8250
04:21:46,800 --> 04:21:49,199
appear submissive women don't want to
8251
04:21:49,199 --> 04:21:51,359
[ __ ] a man they don't respect
8252
04:21:51,359 --> 04:21:54,779
women don't have to like you to [ __ ] you
8253
04:21:54,779 --> 04:21:56,939
they have to respect you
8254
04:21:56,939 --> 04:21:58,199
do you know how many times I've
8255
04:21:58,199 --> 04:21:59,460
retweeted check my Twitter I've
8256
04:21:59,460 --> 04:22:01,140
retweeted a girl saying I can't stand
8257
04:22:01,140 --> 04:22:02,880
this Tate speech guy but something about
8258
04:22:02,880 --> 04:22:04,979
him I have to follow him or on my
8259
04:22:04,979 --> 04:22:06,960
YouTube video I hate you you're such a
8260
04:22:06,960 --> 04:22:08,760
dick and I almost want to meet you or I
8261
04:22:08,760 --> 04:22:10,680
retweet the girl today I almost want to
8262
04:22:10,680 --> 04:22:12,420
slap I kind of want to slap him kind of
8263
04:22:12,420 --> 04:22:14,279
want to [ __ ] him and that's because they
8264
04:22:14,279 --> 04:22:15,720
don't like me
8265
04:22:15,720 --> 04:22:18,479
but they respect me so like this [ __ ]
8266
04:22:18,479 --> 04:22:21,000
[ __ ] yeah I guess that's true well
8267
04:22:21,000 --> 04:22:22,560
yeah I guess that's they respect me
8268
04:22:22,560 --> 04:22:24,479
women don't gotta like you we gotta
8269
04:22:24,479 --> 04:22:27,000
respect you so I I [ __ ] loads of girls
8270
04:22:27,000 --> 04:22:28,979
who hate me in fact every day some
8271
04:22:28,979 --> 04:22:30,239
girl's telling me she hates me every
8272
04:22:30,239 --> 04:22:32,279
[ __ ] dad [ __ ] hate you
8273
04:22:32,279 --> 04:22:34,620
dick comes along she's happy to take it
8274
04:22:34,620 --> 04:22:35,880
so you have to act in a way that's
8275
04:22:35,880 --> 04:22:37,500
respected women don't respect men who
8276
04:22:37,500 --> 04:22:39,840
are submissive to them women respect men
8277
04:22:39,840 --> 04:22:42,359
who are in control
8278
04:22:42,359 --> 04:22:45,359
that's what happens women try to take
8279
04:22:45,359 --> 04:22:47,399
control because it's natural for them to
8280
04:22:47,399 --> 04:22:49,500
attempt it and if you let them succeed
8281
04:22:49,500 --> 04:22:51,720
they'll just become worse and worse now
8282
04:22:51,720 --> 04:22:53,279
a spiral of just becoming a bigger and
8283
04:22:53,279 --> 04:22:54,660
bigger [ __ ] because they're waiting
8284
04:22:54,660 --> 04:22:56,160
for you to take control back that's what
8285
04:22:56,160 --> 04:22:56,819
happens
8286
04:22:56,819 --> 04:22:58,680
so it's the same as your body language
8287
04:22:58,680 --> 04:23:00,720
so if you're always leaning in and she's
8288
04:23:00,720 --> 04:23:01,739
the boss
8289
04:23:01,739 --> 04:23:03,000
she's not going to be happy with those
8290
04:23:03,000 --> 04:23:04,979
photos she wants a photo where you look
8291
04:23:04,979 --> 04:23:06,840
in control and basically uninterested in
8292
04:23:06,840 --> 04:23:07,620
her
8293
04:23:07,620 --> 04:23:10,439
if you look at photos I recommend go to
8294
04:23:10,439 --> 04:23:12,660
at Cobra tape we'll put a few examples
8295
04:23:12,660 --> 04:23:14,160
in this video we'll go to Atco protect
8296
04:23:14,160 --> 04:23:15,540
and find pictures of me with girls
8297
04:23:15,540 --> 04:23:17,340
there's one of me with a cigar and it's
8298
04:23:17,340 --> 04:23:19,560
a girl either side am I staring at the
8299
04:23:19,560 --> 04:23:20,760
girls
8300
04:23:20,760 --> 04:23:23,040
do I give a [ __ ] they even exist I'm
8301
04:23:23,040 --> 04:23:25,979
having a cigar bro I'm busy I'm smoking
8302
04:23:25,979 --> 04:23:28,560
these are just some hoes what natural
8303
04:23:28,560 --> 04:23:30,779
because I don't care about the girls so
8304
04:23:30,779 --> 04:23:32,520
who's in control there me
8305
04:23:32,520 --> 04:23:34,319
by not showing them attention the number
8306
04:23:34,319 --> 04:23:35,580
of the most important body language for
8307
04:23:35,580 --> 04:23:36,660
a picture with a girl is basically to
8308
04:23:36,660 --> 04:23:39,180
come across like I don't give a [ __ ]
8309
04:23:39,180 --> 04:23:40,319
someone goes you're about to take a
8310
04:23:40,319 --> 04:23:41,640
picture with a girl how did you come
8311
04:23:41,640 --> 04:23:43,500
across as an alpha you don't give a [ __ ]
8312
04:23:43,500 --> 04:23:45,960
about the girl simple you don't care
8313
04:23:45,960 --> 04:23:47,520
about the girl that's a close enough
8314
04:23:47,520 --> 04:23:48,720
take a picture that you take it she
8315
04:23:48,720 --> 04:23:51,359
wasn't even [ __ ] there bang smoking
8316
04:23:51,359 --> 04:23:53,340
well there's a hoe there's a hoe there
8317
04:23:53,340 --> 04:23:56,160
take life whatever that's one it's
8318
04:23:56,160 --> 04:23:57,420
another one of me with sunglasses on
8319
04:23:57,420 --> 04:23:59,100
with two blondes on the side and in this
8320
04:23:59,100 --> 04:24:02,160
one I'm smiling why am I smiling I'm
8321
04:24:02,160 --> 04:24:03,359
smiling because of what I'm looking at
8322
04:24:03,359 --> 04:24:05,699
just agreed to get [ __ ] with the other
8323
04:24:05,699 --> 04:24:07,560
one two seconds before that so you're
8324
04:24:07,560 --> 04:24:09,600
both stand with me tonight oh I don't
8325
04:24:09,600 --> 04:24:10,680
know I'm nervous it's like look we're
8326
04:24:10,680 --> 04:24:12,779
gonna go drinking she goes oh oh maybe
8327
04:24:12,779 --> 04:24:14,100
and I smile it's like all right good
8328
04:24:14,100 --> 04:24:15,359
we're gonna go out
8329
04:24:15,359 --> 04:24:17,279
I was smiling because she agreed like I
8330
04:24:17,279 --> 04:24:19,680
said earlier positive reinforcement I'm
8331
04:24:19,680 --> 04:24:21,720
miserable you said what I wanted you to
8332
04:24:21,720 --> 04:24:24,239
say now I'll smile if I just smiled her
8333
04:24:24,239 --> 04:24:25,140
because I knew she was about to be
8334
04:24:25,140 --> 04:24:26,279
licking the other one's [ __ ] in about
8335
04:24:26,279 --> 04:24:27,540
four hours time
8336
04:24:27,540 --> 04:24:29,939
that's what that one was but in general
8337
04:24:29,939 --> 04:24:31,560
I'm sitting there if I wasn't looking at
8338
04:24:31,560 --> 04:24:32,399
her and smiling and I was looking
8339
04:24:32,399 --> 04:24:34,500
forward I'd go [ __ ] I'm a dude who
8340
04:24:34,500 --> 04:24:36,660
doesn't care women are always attracted
8341
04:24:36,660 --> 04:24:38,279
to [ __ ] people go why do girls like
8342
04:24:38,279 --> 04:24:40,199
[ __ ] they don't like [ __ ] they
8343
04:24:40,199 --> 04:24:43,140
like men who overt who display overtly
8344
04:24:43,140 --> 04:24:45,180
masculine qualities men who don't
8345
04:24:45,180 --> 04:24:47,340
succumb to their wishes men who don't
8346
04:24:47,340 --> 04:24:49,739
bend to their will mend her in charge
8347
04:24:49,739 --> 04:24:52,500
men who retain control men who can't be
8348
04:24:52,500 --> 04:24:54,540
influenced or complain now or nag that
8349
04:24:54,540 --> 04:24:56,460
and those kind of men are [ __ ] it's
8350
04:24:56,460 --> 04:24:57,899
all about the fact that he's an [ __ ]
8351
04:24:57,899 --> 04:24:59,040
it's about the fact that they can't
8352
04:24:59,040 --> 04:25:00,600
control him for the fact that they're
8353
04:25:00,600 --> 04:25:01,739
trying to take a picture with him he
8354
04:25:01,739 --> 04:25:03,060
doesn't give a [ __ ] if she's there or
8355
04:25:03,060 --> 04:25:05,279
not and those are overtly masculine
8356
04:25:05,279 --> 04:25:07,859
overtly attractive qualities to a woman
8357
04:25:07,859 --> 04:25:10,380
even she doesn't understand why but
8358
04:25:10,380 --> 04:25:11,640
that's the reality of it so if you're
8359
04:25:11,640 --> 04:25:12,660
sitting there going how do I picture
8360
04:25:12,660 --> 04:25:14,040
with a girl take a picture with a girl
8361
04:25:14,040 --> 04:25:16,020
if she doesn't exist
8362
04:25:16,020 --> 04:25:18,359
I'll pop another picture here of me and
8363
04:25:18,359 --> 04:25:19,680
my girlfriend in Thailand the last
8364
04:25:19,680 --> 04:25:21,840
picture of me taking
8365
04:25:21,840 --> 04:25:23,939
there you just seen it
8366
04:25:23,939 --> 04:25:25,800
do I look like I give a [ __ ] that she's
8367
04:25:25,800 --> 04:25:28,260
there now I am looking at her a lot of
8368
04:25:28,260 --> 04:25:30,180
body language every pill guys go don't
8369
04:25:30,180 --> 04:25:31,439
even look at the girl don't look at the
8370
04:25:31,439 --> 04:25:33,120
girl this bad bloody language
8371
04:25:33,120 --> 04:25:35,760
come on you're a human look at things
8372
04:25:35,760 --> 04:25:37,199
this is the [ __ ] woman dude look away
8373
04:25:37,199 --> 04:25:39,359
all the time an idiot but you can tell
8374
04:25:39,359 --> 04:25:40,800
by my body language I don't give a [ __ ]
8375
04:25:40,800 --> 04:25:43,500
her hands on my knee she's smiling I'm
8376
04:25:43,500 --> 04:25:45,560
not
8377
04:25:45,560 --> 04:25:49,199
is so a lot of the red pill stuff is
8378
04:25:49,199 --> 04:25:51,180
super specific like I've told you guys
8379
04:25:51,180 --> 04:25:52,680
when I'm teaching in the PHD course
8380
04:25:52,680 --> 04:25:54,060
there's no such thing as an exact
8381
04:25:54,060 --> 04:25:55,439
formula so this thing is an exact
8382
04:25:55,439 --> 04:25:56,760
specific thing because understanding
8383
04:25:56,760 --> 04:25:59,100
general rules General themes and
8384
04:25:59,100 --> 04:26:00,960
implementing them that's why everything
8385
04:26:00,960 --> 04:26:03,120
I teach is quite generalized I'm waiting
8386
04:26:03,120 --> 04:26:04,979
for you guys to see it ingest it
8387
04:26:04,979 --> 04:26:07,260
understand it and implement it in your
8388
04:26:07,260 --> 04:26:09,060
own unique style because then it comes
8389
04:26:09,060 --> 04:26:10,979
across as it comes across as authentic
8390
04:26:10,979 --> 04:26:13,739
if I say do this with your hands exactly
8391
04:26:13,739 --> 04:26:16,260
do this you look like a little [ __ ]
8392
04:26:16,260 --> 04:26:18,960
robots no I'm telling you to be aware of
8393
04:26:18,960 --> 04:26:21,420
certain things like chess you know the
8394
04:26:21,420 --> 04:26:23,580
rules and you make your own moves based
8395
04:26:23,580 --> 04:26:25,920
on the rules to win you have to develop
8396
04:26:25,920 --> 04:26:28,739
your own style but in general the key
8397
04:26:28,739 --> 04:26:30,239
for women is to just make it clear you
8398
04:26:30,239 --> 04:26:31,979
don't give a [ __ ]
8399
04:26:31,979 --> 04:26:33,659
because women like that
8400
04:26:33,659 --> 04:26:35,640
and also what's actually super
8401
04:26:35,640 --> 04:26:37,680
beneficial is if you genuinely don't
8402
04:26:37,680 --> 04:26:40,020
give a [ __ ] then it's super easy
8403
04:26:40,020 --> 04:26:41,520
why you have to act like you don't give
8404
04:26:41,520 --> 04:26:43,620
a [ __ ] if you actually don't do a [ __ ] I
8405
04:26:43,620 --> 04:26:46,260
actually don't care I've been around so
8406
04:26:46,260 --> 04:26:48,720
many chicks that picture of me with a
8407
04:26:48,720 --> 04:26:49,979
cigar and there's two girls hanging off
8408
04:26:49,979 --> 04:26:52,080
me I was when I was smoking a cigar you
8409
04:26:52,080 --> 04:26:53,460
can look carefully and you'll see my
8410
04:26:53,460 --> 04:26:54,720
eyes my eyes have been done I'm looking
8411
04:26:54,720 --> 04:26:56,880
at some guy and the guy's face is
8412
04:26:56,880 --> 04:26:58,739
literally
8413
04:26:58,739 --> 04:27:00,960
he was literally like his world was
8414
04:27:00,960 --> 04:27:03,540
blown because he saw me with two tens
8415
04:27:03,540 --> 04:27:05,760
not these other pickup artist versions
8416
04:27:05,760 --> 04:27:06,779
of tens
8417
04:27:06,779 --> 04:27:08,640
actual tens
8418
04:27:08,640 --> 04:27:12,199
Two Smoking Hall big booty big Kitty
8419
04:27:12,199 --> 04:27:16,859
Hawk ass young 20 year old chicks and he
8420
04:27:16,859 --> 04:27:18,899
was here to say
8421
04:27:18,899 --> 04:27:21,899
who the [ __ ] is this guy Mr cigar just
8422
04:27:21,899 --> 04:27:23,340
walked up and these chicks are hanging
8423
04:27:23,340 --> 04:27:25,859
all over him see a pimp is he famous who
8424
04:27:25,859 --> 04:27:26,819
is he
8425
04:27:26,819 --> 04:27:29,880
he was just blown away
8426
04:27:29,880 --> 04:27:32,819
I didn't give a [ __ ] he gave a [ __ ]
8427
04:27:32,819 --> 04:27:36,140
that's the difference don't give a [ __ ]
8428
04:27:36,140 --> 04:27:39,120
FDB we talked about smiling a little bit
8429
04:27:39,120 --> 04:27:40,319
when we talked about smiling we said how
8430
04:27:40,319 --> 04:27:42,239
was the sign of submission also you guys
8431
04:27:42,239 --> 04:27:44,159
will know on Twitter soy face
8432
04:27:44,159 --> 04:27:46,080
that's a sign of submission as well if
8433
04:27:46,080 --> 04:27:47,220
you're not comfortable within your own
8434
04:27:47,220 --> 04:27:48,420
skin you see a lot of people they take
8435
04:27:48,420 --> 04:27:50,520
pictures and they pull stupid faces
8436
04:27:50,520 --> 04:27:52,199
they're gonna like
8437
04:27:52,199 --> 04:27:53,520
or
8438
04:27:53,520 --> 04:27:55,680
or when they're with someone in the back
8439
04:27:55,680 --> 04:27:57,120
all that [ __ ] is submission all that
8440
04:27:57,120 --> 04:28:00,300
[ __ ] is evolutionary primate submission
8441
04:28:00,300 --> 04:28:01,439
or
8442
04:28:01,439 --> 04:28:03,659
he was broadcasting to the world that
8443
04:28:03,659 --> 04:28:05,939
you're a [ __ ] loser don't do that you
8444
04:28:05,939 --> 04:28:07,260
either smile in a picture because you're
8445
04:28:07,260 --> 04:28:08,279
happy
8446
04:28:08,279 --> 04:28:11,279
or you just look at the camera
8447
04:28:11,279 --> 04:28:13,279
done
8448
04:28:13,279 --> 04:28:15,479
you're not a [ __ ] clown and you're
8449
04:28:15,479 --> 04:28:17,880
not [ __ ] 15. you're making stupid ass
8450
04:28:17,880 --> 04:28:20,159
[ __ ] faces it's dumb don't do that
8451
04:28:20,159 --> 04:28:21,420
ever
8452
04:28:21,420 --> 04:28:23,159
especially not with a chick sometimes
8453
04:28:23,159 --> 04:28:25,699
chicks do that a lot
8454
04:28:25,699 --> 04:28:27,920
and you're next door
8455
04:28:27,920 --> 04:28:29,939
I guarantee you're not [ __ ] her to do
8456
04:28:29,939 --> 04:28:30,840
that
8457
04:28:30,840 --> 04:28:33,540
I've had girls do that next to me I'm
8458
04:28:33,540 --> 04:28:35,279
just like looking like the [ __ ] they
8459
04:28:35,279 --> 04:28:37,859
are because I don't give a [ __ ] [ __ ]
8460
04:28:37,859 --> 04:28:40,319
stupid ass faces for [ __ ] off
8461
04:28:40,319 --> 04:28:42,300
suck this
8462
04:28:42,300 --> 04:28:43,920
so don't do that [ __ ] so you're pulling
8463
04:28:43,920 --> 04:28:45,120
weird faces and photographs that's
8464
04:28:45,120 --> 04:28:46,260
because you're insecure and you're
8465
04:28:46,260 --> 04:28:47,279
trying to broadcast the world that
8466
04:28:47,279 --> 04:28:49,140
you're a little liberal coward and
8467
04:28:49,140 --> 04:28:50,460
you're hoping that no one destroys you
8468
04:28:50,460 --> 04:28:51,720
you're hoping Big Daddy tape doesn't
8469
04:28:51,720 --> 04:28:53,699
come along and squash you in the palm of
8470
04:28:53,699 --> 04:28:56,399
this awesomely huge hand that'd be like
8471
04:28:56,399 --> 04:28:57,899
that [ __ ] I [ __ ] hate that [ __ ] I
8472
04:28:57,899 --> 04:28:58,920
don't hang around with people who do
8473
04:28:58,920 --> 04:29:02,000
that [ __ ] don't do that
8474
04:29:02,159 --> 04:29:03,540
I'll put a picture of my brother now
8475
04:29:03,540 --> 04:29:05,520
with his girl
8476
04:29:05,520 --> 04:29:07,439
bank and decide
8477
04:29:07,439 --> 04:29:09,060
that girl there is called Bianca
8478
04:29:09,060 --> 04:29:12,120
dragashonda she has a million followers
8479
04:29:12,120 --> 04:29:13,979
Graham look her up you can Google her
8480
04:29:13,979 --> 04:29:16,260
she's the most famous girl in Romania
8481
04:29:16,260 --> 04:29:18,260
she's like oh [ __ ] her own TV show
8482
04:29:18,260 --> 04:29:22,080
legitimately A-list in Romania very rich
8483
04:29:22,080 --> 04:29:24,899
as well most men would be intimidated by
8484
04:29:24,899 --> 04:29:27,899
a famous woman who's that Hall who's
8485
04:29:27,899 --> 04:29:29,460
rich
8486
04:29:29,460 --> 04:29:31,080
Tristan went up to her in a [ __ ]
8487
04:29:31,080 --> 04:29:32,640
petrol station
8488
04:29:32,640 --> 04:29:36,180
went up to her start talking [ __ ]
8489
04:29:36,180 --> 04:29:39,060
just the way me and him do it call her
8490
04:29:39,060 --> 04:29:42,180
number progression PhD guys Tower of
8491
04:29:42,180 --> 04:29:44,040
Power introduced himself blah blah blah
8492
04:29:44,040 --> 04:29:46,020
confident bang bang bang you can get
8493
04:29:46,020 --> 04:29:46,739
your number you got her Instagram
8494
04:29:46,739 --> 04:29:48,899
message her there on the spot so she saw
8495
04:29:48,899 --> 04:29:51,000
it even amongst a million messages ended
8496
04:29:51,000 --> 04:29:52,560
up getting her number anyway he ends up
8497
04:29:52,560 --> 04:29:54,779
[ __ ] this chick she's married
8498
04:29:54,779 --> 04:29:56,520
just [ __ ] married
8499
04:29:56,520 --> 04:29:58,260
whole thing comes out in the papers me
8500
04:29:58,260 --> 04:29:59,399
interested in them to pay the stars and
8501
04:29:59,399 --> 04:30:00,779
remain next or the guys who [ __ ]
8502
04:30:00,779 --> 04:30:02,580
Bianca I'm the brother but he's the guy
8503
04:30:02,580 --> 04:30:04,380
who [ __ ] Bianco and
8504
04:30:04,380 --> 04:30:06,720
she's married everything complete crazy
8505
04:30:06,720 --> 04:30:09,180
anyway the point of this picture is this
8506
04:30:09,180 --> 04:30:10,680
most men when they get a girl like that
8507
04:30:10,680 --> 04:30:11,819
they're all over
8508
04:30:11,819 --> 04:30:13,979
she's famous she's Rich she's important
8509
04:30:13,979 --> 04:30:15,480
she's special
8510
04:30:15,480 --> 04:30:16,620
[Music]
8511
04:30:16,620 --> 04:30:18,180
look at Tristan's body language in that
8512
04:30:18,180 --> 04:30:21,120
picture does he looks like he gives one
8513
04:30:21,120 --> 04:30:23,760
[ __ ] about that chick
8514
04:30:23,760 --> 04:30:26,399
he doesn't give a [ __ ] about that hoe he
8515
04:30:26,399 --> 04:30:30,080
doesn't care he doesn't care somehow
8516
04:30:30,080 --> 04:30:32,939
how many hoes have I [ __ ] who cares
8517
04:30:32,939 --> 04:30:34,920
you dudes are out here caring too damn
8518
04:30:34,920 --> 04:30:37,859
much it's garbage like all of my courses
8519
04:30:37,859 --> 04:30:39,960
what I'm going to do is I'm going to
8520
04:30:39,960 --> 04:30:43,080
update them forever for free so if
8521
04:30:43,080 --> 04:30:44,580
you've bought the PHD courses bought the
8522
04:30:44,580 --> 04:30:46,260
webcam course you've bought this course
8523
04:30:46,260 --> 04:30:47,699
your money has been well spent because
8524
04:30:47,699 --> 04:30:49,199
you're making new videos every couple of
8525
04:30:49,199 --> 04:30:51,060
weeks for free
8526
04:30:51,060 --> 04:30:52,620
forever
8527
04:30:52,620 --> 04:30:54,840
so this is the basis of my theory on
8528
04:30:54,840 --> 04:30:56,159
body language
8529
04:30:56,159 --> 04:30:57,899
if I've missed anything or something you
8530
04:30:57,899 --> 04:30:59,040
want me to talk about send me an email
8531
04:30:59,040 --> 04:31:00,540
because guess what another video will
8532
04:31:00,540 --> 04:31:01,680
come out and I'll answer your questions
8533
04:31:01,680 --> 04:31:03,180
specifically
8534
04:31:03,180 --> 04:31:05,399
so if you've watched this and you feel
8535
04:31:05,399 --> 04:31:06,659
like you have alert anything you're
8536
04:31:06,659 --> 04:31:08,760
[ __ ] lying because I guarantee you
8537
04:31:08,760 --> 04:31:10,680
don't have everything I've said to you I
8538
04:31:10,680 --> 04:31:11,819
guarantee you don't have under control
8539
04:31:11,819 --> 04:31:14,819
understood analyzed and implemented you
8540
04:31:14,819 --> 04:31:16,439
haven't so [ __ ] go away and do that
8541
04:31:16,439 --> 04:31:18,239
[ __ ] get your things together put your
8542
04:31:18,239 --> 04:31:19,859
hands in the right [ __ ] place look
8543
04:31:19,859 --> 04:31:22,199
like a g get your [ __ ] right
8544
04:31:22,199 --> 04:31:24,359
learn how to go from [ __ ] crazy to
8545
04:31:24,359 --> 04:31:26,640
calm not from calm to Crazy put your
8546
04:31:26,640 --> 04:31:28,260
[ __ ] together if you have any further
8547
04:31:28,260 --> 04:31:29,939
questions email them to me because it'll
8548
04:31:29,939 --> 04:31:31,859
be another body language video in the
8549
04:31:31,859 --> 04:31:33,659
next week or so and I'll answer some
8550
04:31:33,659 --> 04:31:34,680
more
8551
04:31:34,680 --> 04:31:36,720
right we've been over the mindset the
8552
04:31:36,720 --> 04:31:38,399
mindset the four tenets of the mindset
8553
04:31:38,399 --> 04:31:39,420
are
8554
04:31:39,420 --> 04:31:41,880
believe you can do absolutely anything
8555
04:31:41,880 --> 04:31:43,739
to be pissed off you haven't done it yet
8556
04:31:43,739 --> 04:31:45,960
three absolutely nobody is coming to
8557
04:31:45,960 --> 04:31:47,699
save you and four your word has to be
8558
04:31:47,699 --> 04:31:49,920
Iron willed and use that for unlimited
8559
04:31:49,920 --> 04:31:50,939
motivation
8560
04:31:50,939 --> 04:31:53,520
this is about body language
8561
04:31:53,520 --> 04:31:55,080
I like to look at humans from an
8562
04:31:55,080 --> 04:31:56,399
evolutionary standpoint I like to look
8563
04:31:56,399 --> 04:31:58,020
at us as a species because like I said
8564
04:31:58,020 --> 04:31:59,699
I'm an atheist I do not believe that God
8565
04:31:59,699 --> 04:32:01,080
put us here we're no special we're not
8566
04:32:01,080 --> 04:32:02,159
special we're no different than any
8567
04:32:02,159 --> 04:32:03,720
other animal here okay we're more
8568
04:32:03,720 --> 04:32:05,580
intelligent but there's always going to
8569
04:32:05,580 --> 04:32:06,899
be a smartest you know we're not the
8570
04:32:06,899 --> 04:32:08,159
fastest or the strongest or anything
8571
04:32:08,159 --> 04:32:09,720
else so
8572
04:32:09,720 --> 04:32:11,399
we're an animal species and if you look
8573
04:32:11,399 --> 04:32:14,100
at humans uh from that perspective and
8574
04:32:14,100 --> 04:32:16,260
you look at men males and I'm assuming
8575
04:32:16,260 --> 04:32:17,699
like I said previously most of you are
8576
04:32:17,699 --> 04:32:20,819
men males for a very long period of time
8577
04:32:20,819 --> 04:32:24,180
had a very physical role our role was
8578
04:32:24,180 --> 04:32:26,699
combatants our role was a combative role
8579
04:32:26,699 --> 04:32:28,739
our role was to protect or to destroy or
8580
04:32:28,739 --> 04:32:31,260
to dominate or to conquer this was a
8581
04:32:31,260 --> 04:32:32,880
male's role
8582
04:32:32,880 --> 04:32:34,680
so in the modern society where we
8583
04:32:34,680 --> 04:32:36,479
pretend physicality isn't important and
8584
04:32:36,479 --> 04:32:38,340
we deny physicality and people say it
8585
04:32:38,340 --> 04:32:40,020
doesn't matter it absolutely does matter
8586
04:32:40,020 --> 04:32:41,699
for cook because since the dawn of human
8587
04:32:41,699 --> 04:32:43,979
time my favorite saying everyone mocks
8588
04:32:43,979 --> 04:32:45,840
me for us it's a dawn of human time for
8589
04:32:45,840 --> 04:32:48,420
95 of our existence a man's roles
8590
04:32:48,420 --> 04:32:51,479
primarily a physical role so physicality
8591
04:32:51,479 --> 04:32:52,920
is extremely important
8592
04:32:52,920 --> 04:32:54,840
and when you're looking at body language
8593
04:32:54,840 --> 04:32:56,939
it's quite difficult to have the body
8594
04:32:56,939 --> 04:33:00,659
language of an alpha what is an alpha
8595
04:33:00,659 --> 04:33:02,640
let me Diverse quickly what is an alpha
8596
04:33:02,640 --> 04:33:05,039
if you look in the alliance Pride who's
8597
04:33:05,039 --> 04:33:06,359
the alpha the alpha is the biggest
8598
04:33:06,359 --> 04:33:07,859
strongest lion
8599
04:33:07,859 --> 04:33:10,561
this is the alpha alpha is the badass
8600
04:33:10,561 --> 04:33:13,320
so can you mimic the body language of
8601
04:33:13,320 --> 04:33:14,820
the biggest longest strongest line yeah
8602
04:33:14,820 --> 04:33:16,799
of course but if you're not the biggest
8603
04:33:16,799 --> 04:33:18,240
strongest lion
8604
04:33:18,240 --> 04:33:20,039
you know it's not as easy to pull off
8605
04:33:20,039 --> 04:33:21,900
and someone might call your Bluffs so
8606
04:33:21,900 --> 04:33:24,419
this is actually a very easy video body
8607
04:33:24,419 --> 04:33:26,278
language is down to your physicality as
8608
04:33:26,278 --> 04:33:29,278
a whole the body language of a g is a
8609
04:33:29,278 --> 04:33:31,561
combative body language I'm not saying
8610
04:33:31,561 --> 04:33:33,778
you walk through life like this like
8611
04:33:33,778 --> 04:33:35,879
looking for a fight not at all but you
8612
04:33:35,879 --> 04:33:37,340
have to have a presence about you
8613
04:33:37,340 --> 04:33:40,680
whereas you're not an easy target
8614
04:33:40,680 --> 04:33:43,080
it's quite funny actually because
8615
04:33:43,080 --> 04:33:45,061
when you're a fighter you can spall
8616
04:33:45,061 --> 04:33:47,278
other Fighters a mile off like and it's
8617
04:33:47,278 --> 04:33:49,020
not just big muscly guys like you can
8618
04:33:49,020 --> 04:33:51,359
put me in a room with 30 guys who go to
8619
04:33:51,359 --> 04:33:53,160
the gym or Fitness Experts can come in
8620
04:33:53,160 --> 04:33:56,340
and walk through and if one of them is a
8621
04:33:56,340 --> 04:33:58,020
high level combatant if one of them's a
8622
04:33:58,020 --> 04:34:00,480
professional fighter like me I can I can
8623
04:34:00,480 --> 04:34:02,641
tell by the way he moves
8624
04:34:02,641 --> 04:34:05,039
probably the same way a dancer can sense
8625
04:34:05,039 --> 04:34:07,020
another dancer I can sense another
8626
04:34:07,020 --> 04:34:09,359
fighter and it's something instinctual
8627
04:34:09,359 --> 04:34:10,740
or something I can't even tell you how I
8628
04:34:10,740 --> 04:34:12,539
do it I can just tell by the way someone
8629
04:34:12,539 --> 04:34:14,400
moves if they can fight or if they can't
8630
04:34:14,400 --> 04:34:16,618
fight it doesn't matter the best body in
8631
04:34:16,618 --> 04:34:19,199
the world it can be ripped but it's the
8632
04:34:19,199 --> 04:34:21,061
way they move I know I've seen guys who
8633
04:34:21,061 --> 04:34:22,379
don't have a body like that and I can
8634
04:34:22,379 --> 04:34:24,299
sense it and I've seen guys who are
8635
04:34:24,299 --> 04:34:25,680
built like that and I could just tell it
8636
04:34:25,680 --> 04:34:27,118
they would crumble
8637
04:34:27,118 --> 04:34:29,219
it really is an amazing thing and I
8638
04:34:29,219 --> 04:34:31,020
think this is something that you become
8639
04:34:31,020 --> 04:34:33,480
more tuned into more honed on when
8640
04:34:33,480 --> 04:34:34,680
you're a fighter yourself but it's
8641
04:34:34,680 --> 04:34:35,699
obviously something that humans
8642
04:34:35,699 --> 04:34:37,561
naturally possess we naturally possess
8643
04:34:37,561 --> 04:34:40,141
the ability to spawn another male and
8644
04:34:40,141 --> 04:34:43,320
think that guy's a dangerous guy
8645
04:34:43,320 --> 04:34:46,259
so I can tell you tips and tricks in an
8646
04:34:46,259 --> 04:34:48,299
attempt to mimic the body language of a
8647
04:34:48,299 --> 04:34:49,500
dangerous person or you can become a
8648
04:34:49,500 --> 04:34:50,520
dangerous person
8649
04:34:50,520 --> 04:34:53,340
this course is not a short cut course
8650
04:34:53,340 --> 04:34:55,199
this is not tips and tricks this is not
8651
04:34:55,199 --> 04:34:58,199
[ __ ] this is about how to become a g
8652
04:34:58,199 --> 04:35:00,660
how to become a genuine
8653
04:35:00,660 --> 04:35:03,840
ass a genuine male of substance and to
8654
04:35:03,840 --> 04:35:05,641
become a genuine male of substance you
8655
04:35:05,641 --> 04:35:08,039
need to know how to fight it's very
8656
04:35:08,039 --> 04:35:09,240
difficult to be a g if you're going
8657
04:35:09,240 --> 04:35:11,340
through life and you crumble at at
8658
04:35:11,340 --> 04:35:13,500
physical confrontation because when you
8659
04:35:13,500 --> 04:35:15,118
get to a certain point in your life you
8660
04:35:15,118 --> 04:35:16,859
will encounter physical confrontations
8661
04:35:16,859 --> 04:35:18,778
if you're going to go and travel the
8662
04:35:18,778 --> 04:35:21,900
world and drive fast cars and wear
8663
04:35:21,900 --> 04:35:24,480
expensive things and attempt to [ __ ]
8664
04:35:24,480 --> 04:35:26,520
beautiful women all over this planet
8665
04:35:26,520 --> 04:35:28,740
sooner or later you're going to attract
8666
04:35:28,740 --> 04:35:31,618
negative intention from either jealous
8667
04:35:31,618 --> 04:35:34,320
man or an ex-boyfriend or a brother or
8668
04:35:34,320 --> 04:35:36,118
who a [ __ ] robber who wants your car
8669
04:35:36,118 --> 04:35:38,400
who knows are you really a g if you
8670
04:35:38,400 --> 04:35:41,520
mimic every single aspect
8671
04:35:41,520 --> 04:35:43,859
of a high quality man and then when that
8672
04:35:43,859 --> 04:35:46,438
situation happens you you fold no of
8673
04:35:46,438 --> 04:35:48,660
course you're not you need to learn how
8674
04:35:48,660 --> 04:35:50,278
to fight I don't need to teach you how
8675
04:35:50,278 --> 04:35:51,480
to fight I don't need to sit here in
8676
04:35:51,480 --> 04:35:52,799
this course to say do this do that that
8677
04:35:52,799 --> 04:35:53,820
I don't even teach you any of that
8678
04:35:53,820 --> 04:35:55,379
because you can go and it doesn't matter
8679
04:35:55,379 --> 04:35:57,299
what city you are on earth there's an
8680
04:35:57,299 --> 04:35:58,919
MMA class so there's a boxing class that
8681
04:35:58,919 --> 04:36:00,900
will teach you how to fight you need to
8682
04:36:00,900 --> 04:36:03,840
dedicate substantial periods and and and
8683
04:36:03,840 --> 04:36:05,160
and
8684
04:36:05,160 --> 04:36:08,400
portions of your time to learning how to
8685
04:36:08,400 --> 04:36:10,020
fight and to get hit you need to have
8686
04:36:10,020 --> 04:36:11,820
your ass kicked you'd learn how to kick
8687
04:36:11,820 --> 04:36:13,919
someone's ass and this is absolutely
8688
04:36:13,919 --> 04:36:16,141
essential to want the mindset and to the
8689
04:36:16,141 --> 04:36:17,400
physicality
8690
04:36:17,400 --> 04:36:19,020
the first thing mindset wise fighting is
8691
04:36:19,020 --> 04:36:20,580
a brilliant thing
8692
04:36:20,580 --> 04:36:22,980
because fighting is 100 accountable
8693
04:36:22,980 --> 04:36:25,259
even if you play soccer for example even
8694
04:36:25,259 --> 04:36:27,240
if your team wins maybe you didn't do
8695
04:36:27,240 --> 04:36:28,980
very much or maybe you kicked the ball
8696
04:36:28,980 --> 04:36:31,259
and the wind helped you who knows but
8697
04:36:31,259 --> 04:36:33,539
fight if you got punched in the face you
8698
04:36:33,539 --> 04:36:35,160
didn't move and if you punched him in
8699
04:36:35,160 --> 04:36:37,320
the face you threw your hand and
8700
04:36:37,320 --> 04:36:38,520
fighting we always say there's no such
8701
04:36:38,520 --> 04:36:40,320
thing as a lucky punch and it's true you
8702
04:36:40,320 --> 04:36:42,061
know if I dedicate my life to learning
8703
04:36:42,061 --> 04:36:43,561
how to punch and then I knock someone
8704
04:36:43,561 --> 04:36:46,561
out is it a lucky punch no I knocked him
8705
04:36:46,561 --> 04:36:48,000
out as well as I've been training to do
8706
04:36:48,000 --> 04:36:50,938
no such thing as a lucky punch so
8707
04:36:50,938 --> 04:36:52,799
mindset wise is perfect for your
8708
04:36:52,799 --> 04:36:53,938
accountability
8709
04:36:53,938 --> 04:36:56,278
secondly it's a huge challenge learning
8710
04:36:56,278 --> 04:36:57,958
how to fight is extremely difficult it's
8711
04:36:57,958 --> 04:36:59,039
more difficult than learning how to
8712
04:36:59,039 --> 04:37:00,240
dance and learn how to do anything else
8713
04:37:00,240 --> 04:37:01,859
and the reason for this is because
8714
04:37:01,859 --> 04:37:04,320
learning how to fight all humans have an
8715
04:37:04,320 --> 04:37:07,020
instinctual way of fighting we don't
8716
04:37:07,020 --> 04:37:08,699
have an instinctual way to dance as much
8717
04:37:08,699 --> 04:37:11,219
all humans basically are pre-programmed
8718
04:37:11,219 --> 04:37:12,180
to fight but the way we're
8719
04:37:12,180 --> 04:37:13,618
pre-programmed to fight is completely
8720
04:37:13,618 --> 04:37:15,660
wrong we're pre-programmed to lift our
8721
04:37:15,660 --> 04:37:17,580
head up so we look big and we can see
8722
04:37:17,580 --> 04:37:19,561
and to swing with our hands low for
8723
04:37:19,561 --> 04:37:21,840
maximum power and these are completely
8724
04:37:21,840 --> 04:37:23,759
wrong in terms of traditional chin down
8725
04:37:23,759 --> 04:37:26,039
hands up fighting so
8726
04:37:26,039 --> 04:37:27,980
when you're learning to fight your
8727
04:37:27,980 --> 04:37:30,419
reprogramming your Basic Instincts and
8728
04:37:30,419 --> 04:37:31,618
this is why it's so difficult this is
8729
04:37:31,618 --> 04:37:32,879
why it takes more practice than any
8730
04:37:32,879 --> 04:37:35,759
other sport I could learn to dance much
8731
04:37:35,759 --> 04:37:37,141
easier than a dancer could learn to
8732
04:37:37,141 --> 04:37:39,359
fight at high level
8733
04:37:39,359 --> 04:37:41,099
um and that's because fighting is
8734
04:37:41,099 --> 04:37:42,840
extremely chaotic it's extremely quick
8735
04:37:42,840 --> 04:37:45,180
it hurts and on top of that you're
8736
04:37:45,180 --> 04:37:47,219
trying to reprogram a Basic Instinct so
8737
04:37:47,219 --> 04:37:49,500
it's a very difficult thing to do but if
8738
04:37:49,500 --> 04:37:51,000
you want to become a g for real you need
8739
04:37:51,000 --> 04:37:53,938
to learn how to fight and once you learn
8740
04:37:53,938 --> 04:37:56,340
how to fight your body language when I
8741
04:37:56,340 --> 04:37:57,840
say once you learn how to fight learning
8742
04:37:57,840 --> 04:38:00,000
how to fight takes years once you start
8743
04:38:00,000 --> 04:38:02,400
to begin to learn how to fight it's a
8744
04:38:02,400 --> 04:38:04,500
lifestyle choice this is not a I do a
8745
04:38:04,500 --> 04:38:05,759
six-week course and I know how to fight
8746
04:38:05,759 --> 04:38:08,160
no this is a lifestyle choice where you
8747
04:38:08,160 --> 04:38:09,778
start to dedicate a certain period of
8748
04:38:09,778 --> 04:38:12,599
your time every single week to being a
8749
04:38:12,599 --> 04:38:13,980
combative individual and it's something
8750
04:38:13,980 --> 04:38:16,500
that you never really give up on because
8751
04:38:16,500 --> 04:38:18,840
you never completely learn how to fight
8752
04:38:18,840 --> 04:38:20,520
so it's something you're gonna have to
8753
04:38:20,520 --> 04:38:21,900
change your lifestyle and base it around
8754
04:38:21,900 --> 04:38:23,219
but when you start to do that your body
8755
04:38:23,219 --> 04:38:25,141
language is going to change and once
8756
04:38:25,141 --> 04:38:26,879
again just like in the first lesson when
8757
04:38:26,879 --> 04:38:28,320
you start to do that the way you
8758
04:38:28,320 --> 04:38:29,938
interact and view the world will start
8759
04:38:29,938 --> 04:38:31,680
to change the way you view other people
8760
04:38:31,680 --> 04:38:33,599
will start to change this is a great
8761
04:38:33,599 --> 04:38:35,160
thing about especially when I had
8762
04:38:35,160 --> 04:38:36,778
Twitter and the internet
8763
04:38:36,778 --> 04:38:38,641
I wasn't I wasn't big on Twitter until
8764
04:38:38,641 --> 04:38:40,561
Trump was Trump was elected and that's
8765
04:38:40,561 --> 04:38:41,580
when I started to tweet and they
8766
04:38:41,580 --> 04:38:42,900
verified me straight away and I got
8767
04:38:42,900 --> 04:38:45,419
mixed up and everything went crazy but
8768
04:38:45,419 --> 04:38:46,141
um
8769
04:38:46,141 --> 04:38:48,359
you realize that 99 of people on there
8770
04:38:48,359 --> 04:38:49,859
with their opinions who are being rude
8771
04:38:49,859 --> 04:38:52,259
would never speak to you that way in in
8772
04:38:52,259 --> 04:38:54,958
real life it never bothered me it didn't
8773
04:38:54,958 --> 04:38:57,118
ever upset me but when I was on Twitter
8774
04:38:57,118 --> 04:38:59,039
I was I've never been spoken to that way
8775
04:38:59,039 --> 04:39:01,259
in real life nobody ever spoke to me
8776
04:39:01,259 --> 04:39:02,820
that way no one ever
8777
04:39:02,820 --> 04:39:05,099
argued with me that way and I thought
8778
04:39:05,099 --> 04:39:07,438
why is that and I thought because I have
8779
04:39:07,438 --> 04:39:09,000
a physical presence that even I wasn't
8780
04:39:09,000 --> 04:39:11,458
aware of if I sit with someone who hates
8781
04:39:11,458 --> 04:39:14,340
Trump in real in the real world the way
8782
04:39:14,340 --> 04:39:16,199
they speak to me is completely different
8783
04:39:16,199 --> 04:39:18,778
than they do on Twitter because even
8784
04:39:18,778 --> 04:39:21,061
subconsciously they're thinking this
8785
04:39:21,061 --> 04:39:23,820
guy's a dangerous guy and even even if
8786
04:39:23,820 --> 04:39:24,900
they know I'd never attacked them
8787
04:39:24,900 --> 04:39:26,820
because I'm not an idiot I'm an animal I
8788
04:39:26,820 --> 04:39:28,859
don't have a criminal record I'm not a
8789
04:39:28,859 --> 04:39:29,820
thug
8790
04:39:29,820 --> 04:39:32,278
but instinctually inside of their mind
8791
04:39:32,278 --> 04:39:33,660
from an evolutionary standpoint they're
8792
04:39:33,660 --> 04:39:35,039
thinking this is not the kind of guy you
8793
04:39:35,039 --> 04:39:36,900
call names it's not the kind of guy you
8794
04:39:36,900 --> 04:39:39,298
talk to in that manner
8795
04:39:39,298 --> 04:39:40,920
and this is that was a really great
8796
04:39:40,920 --> 04:39:43,020
experiment for me to see the way that
8797
04:39:43,020 --> 04:39:44,280
people talk to you through a computer
8798
04:39:44,280 --> 04:39:45,540
and the way that I've never been
8799
04:39:45,540 --> 04:39:46,798
interacting with that weight in real
8800
04:39:46,798 --> 04:39:48,120
life and it's like well why is that
8801
04:39:48,120 --> 04:39:49,860
because I said to someone else to go oh
8802
04:39:49,860 --> 04:39:51,180
people talk to me like that all the time
8803
04:39:51,180 --> 04:39:52,260
and say well yeah it's because you're
8804
04:39:52,260 --> 04:39:53,580
you and I'm me
8805
04:39:53,580 --> 04:39:56,878
so a physical presence is a real thing
8806
04:39:56,878 --> 04:39:59,040
and it's a real thing one with other
8807
04:39:59,040 --> 04:40:00,600
males is certainly a real thing with
8808
04:40:00,600 --> 04:40:02,520
females absolutely a real thing with
8809
04:40:02,520 --> 04:40:04,378
females and this is something that
8810
04:40:04,378 --> 04:40:06,180
either I can teach you to imitate I can
8811
04:40:06,180 --> 04:40:07,860
tell you tips and tricks or you can just
8812
04:40:07,860 --> 04:40:09,718
go and [ __ ] do it if you go and do it
8813
04:40:09,718 --> 04:40:11,400
for real you don't need tips and tricks
8814
04:40:11,400 --> 04:40:13,200
are you going to be world champion no
8815
04:40:13,200 --> 04:40:15,120
because I'm in the top not point one
8816
04:40:15,120 --> 04:40:17,700
percent of physical athletes but can you
8817
04:40:17,700 --> 04:40:20,640
be good sure you can be good and is it
8818
04:40:20,640 --> 04:40:22,560
going to damage your life in any way to
8819
04:40:22,560 --> 04:40:23,940
dedicate
8820
04:40:23,940 --> 04:40:25,620
specific time learning how to fight of
8821
04:40:25,620 --> 04:40:26,700
course no you're gonna be invisible
8822
04:40:26,700 --> 04:40:28,920
better physical condition better mental
8823
04:40:28,920 --> 04:40:30,120
condition you're gonna have a better
8824
04:40:30,120 --> 04:40:32,218
body language because a male's body
8825
04:40:32,218 --> 04:40:33,900
language is a combative body language
8826
04:40:33,900 --> 04:40:35,940
that's what men are meant to do we are
8827
04:40:35,940 --> 04:40:38,400
meant to fight We're Meant To Conquer
8828
04:40:38,400 --> 04:40:40,740
this is why men have been men since the
8829
04:40:40,740 --> 04:40:42,600
dawn of human time this is why the
8830
04:40:42,600 --> 04:40:46,200
Romans got some rocks melted the rocks
8831
04:40:46,200 --> 04:40:48,420
made swords these [ __ ] they
8832
04:40:48,420 --> 04:40:49,798
didn't have Google Maps didn't know
8833
04:40:49,798 --> 04:40:51,060
where they were going they said let's
8834
04:40:51,060 --> 04:40:53,218
just walk in this direction and then
8835
04:40:53,218 --> 04:40:54,900
we're gonna find some people and we're
8836
04:40:54,900 --> 04:40:56,340
gonna kill him we're gonna take all our
8837
04:40:56,340 --> 04:40:57,660
women and we're going to conquer them
8838
04:40:57,660 --> 04:40:59,878
say because we want this is what men
8839
04:40:59,878 --> 04:41:01,260
have been built to do since the dawn of
8840
04:41:01,260 --> 04:41:02,760
human time men are combative individuals
8841
04:41:02,760 --> 04:41:04,620
so to pretend that combat's not real
8842
04:41:04,620 --> 04:41:06,000
anymore we live in society and you don't
8843
04:41:06,000 --> 04:41:08,700
have to do the all garbage you know and
8844
04:41:08,700 --> 04:41:10,378
this is Western Society [ __ ] anyway
8845
04:41:10,378 --> 04:41:12,000
if you've been I've been to 71 countries
8846
04:41:12,000 --> 04:41:14,760
if you go to the places I've been you'll
8847
04:41:14,760 --> 04:41:16,440
realize that physical presence is still
8848
04:41:16,440 --> 04:41:18,360
a very real thing absolutely a very real
8849
04:41:18,360 --> 04:41:20,040
thing in many parts of this planet still
8850
04:41:20,040 --> 04:41:20,820
today
8851
04:41:20,820 --> 04:41:22,980
so body language of the G is very very
8852
04:41:22,980 --> 04:41:25,378
short simple lesson one go and learn to
8853
04:41:25,378 --> 04:41:26,940
fight because
8854
04:41:26,940 --> 04:41:28,740
a man's body language needs to be a
8855
04:41:28,740 --> 04:41:29,940
combative body language and there's no
8856
04:41:29,940 --> 04:41:31,138
point in me teaching you how to imitate
8857
04:41:31,138 --> 04:41:32,340
that we can go and learn it for real
8858
04:41:32,340 --> 04:41:34,138
that's the first person go and learn how
8859
04:41:34,138 --> 04:41:34,980
to fight
8860
04:41:34,980 --> 04:41:36,958
and that's it it's really that simple if
8861
04:41:36,958 --> 04:41:38,580
you want
8862
04:41:38,580 --> 04:41:41,340
a body language which really does
8863
04:41:41,340 --> 04:41:43,138
display your values a high value male
8864
04:41:43,138 --> 04:41:44,638
then go and become one and learning how
8865
04:41:44,638 --> 04:41:47,160
to fight is the easiest way
8866
04:41:47,160 --> 04:41:49,680
my name is Tristan Tate congratulations
8867
04:41:49,680 --> 04:41:51,660
on buying the body language course my
8868
04:41:51,660 --> 04:41:53,638
brother's body language as it's been
8869
04:41:53,638 --> 04:41:55,798
commented on by many many people is
8870
04:41:55,798 --> 04:41:59,820
always on point but I'm here today to
8871
04:41:59,820 --> 04:42:02,400
talk about how you and your best friend
8872
04:42:02,400 --> 04:42:04,260
your brother your companion whoever you
8873
04:42:04,260 --> 04:42:06,120
like to hang out with how your body
8874
04:42:06,120 --> 04:42:08,700
language can complement each other
8875
04:42:08,700 --> 04:42:12,600
now the main reason for this isn't to be
8876
04:42:12,600 --> 04:42:15,000
combat ready as Andrew touched on in a
8877
04:42:15,000 --> 04:42:17,340
previous video but it's more to avoid
8878
04:42:17,340 --> 04:42:19,138
confrontation
8879
04:42:19,138 --> 04:42:21,000
now me and Andrew are very controversial
8880
04:42:21,000 --> 04:42:23,638
characters almost nobody who knows who
8881
04:42:23,638 --> 04:42:27,020
we are likes us you are one of the
8882
04:42:27,020 --> 04:42:30,240
few people you're one of the elite the
8883
04:42:30,240 --> 04:42:31,378
people who actually understand what
8884
04:42:31,378 --> 04:42:33,240
we're talking about and like what we
8885
04:42:33,240 --> 04:42:35,520
have to say but most people don't
8886
04:42:35,520 --> 04:42:39,958
that said we are never started on in the
8887
04:42:39,958 --> 04:42:42,718
real world now of course now we're well
8888
04:42:42,718 --> 04:42:44,820
renowned uh kickboxing Champions but
8889
04:42:44,820 --> 04:42:47,458
we've always had the same principles and
8890
04:42:47,458 --> 04:42:48,900
the same body language and the same
8891
04:42:48,900 --> 04:42:51,360
mannerisms and we've noticed that people
8892
04:42:51,360 --> 04:42:54,120
do not start on us very often
8893
04:42:54,120 --> 04:42:56,580
and the best way to avoid conflict and
8894
04:42:56,580 --> 04:43:01,440
to avoid combat is to be perceptive
8895
04:43:01,440 --> 04:43:03,060
there was a very famous experiment
8896
04:43:03,060 --> 04:43:06,060
actually done in India where uh
8897
04:43:06,060 --> 04:43:10,440
tiger attacks on Indian miners or
8898
04:43:10,440 --> 04:43:12,480
completely going crazy the the numbers
8899
04:43:12,480 --> 04:43:13,740
are through the roof and you can look
8900
04:43:13,740 --> 04:43:15,780
this up please look it up and the
8901
04:43:15,780 --> 04:43:18,718
solution they came to to avoid tigers
8902
04:43:18,718 --> 04:43:20,940
attacking the miners with these miners
8903
04:43:20,940 --> 04:43:24,180
would take human faced masks and wear
8904
04:43:24,180 --> 04:43:26,218
them on the back of their heads
8905
04:43:26,218 --> 04:43:28,860
so they'd do their mining go down their
8906
04:43:28,860 --> 04:43:30,660
boats drive around in their trucks be
8907
04:43:30,660 --> 04:43:32,940
out in the open with this mask on the
8908
04:43:32,940 --> 04:43:34,980
back of their head and if you look it up
8909
04:43:34,980 --> 04:43:36,900
on Google Images I'm for sure you'll be
8910
04:43:36,900 --> 04:43:38,218
able to find exactly what I'm talking
8911
04:43:38,218 --> 04:43:40,260
about you'll see that the masks look
8912
04:43:40,260 --> 04:43:43,020
stupid it looks ridiculous it was only a
8913
04:43:43,020 --> 04:43:44,638
very minor touch
8914
04:43:44,638 --> 04:43:46,740
that these guys thought about the
8915
04:43:46,740 --> 04:43:48,958
problem and uh actually applied
8916
04:43:48,958 --> 04:43:50,160
something
8917
04:43:50,160 --> 04:43:52,080
but tiger attacks essentially dropped to
8918
04:43:52,080 --> 04:43:56,400
zero now men very much like tigers are
8919
04:43:56,400 --> 04:43:58,920
big [ __ ] too I just thought of that I
8920
04:43:58,920 --> 04:44:00,560
didn't actually write this
8921
04:44:00,560 --> 04:44:04,378
but um what you'll find is
8922
04:44:04,378 --> 04:44:06,420
everyone's a coward and no one wants to
8923
04:44:06,420 --> 04:44:08,280
fight one-on-one so even if there's only
8924
04:44:08,280 --> 04:44:09,420
two of you
8925
04:44:09,420 --> 04:44:11,760
your body language how you stand and
8926
04:44:11,760 --> 04:44:13,560
where you place yourself
8927
04:44:13,560 --> 04:44:16,200
can be a massive deterrent to being
8928
04:44:16,200 --> 04:44:18,240
started on or having any kind of
8929
04:44:18,240 --> 04:44:20,638
physical confrontation
8930
04:44:20,638 --> 04:44:24,180
now in school they teach you uh things
8931
04:44:24,180 --> 04:44:26,940
like a strong handshake and I'm sure the
8932
04:44:26,940 --> 04:44:29,878
basis of this is in every single course
8933
04:44:29,878 --> 04:44:31,920
or guide to body language in the world
8934
04:44:31,920 --> 04:44:35,160
but they teach it for the wrong reasons
8935
04:44:35,160 --> 04:44:37,200
in school I was taught that a strong
8936
04:44:37,200 --> 04:44:39,600
handshake makes the person who I want to
8937
04:44:39,600 --> 04:44:42,480
employ me like me more or take me more
8938
04:44:42,480 --> 04:44:43,500
seriously
8939
04:44:43,500 --> 04:44:46,760
but you could convey many different
8940
04:44:46,760 --> 04:44:49,260
expressions and emotions with something
8941
04:44:49,260 --> 04:44:52,020
as simple as a handshake if I'm in a
8942
04:44:52,020 --> 04:44:53,820
room with a group of people who may or
8943
04:44:53,820 --> 04:44:56,218
may not be hostile if I'm in a room with
8944
04:44:56,218 --> 04:44:58,080
a group of people who may or may not be
8945
04:44:58,080 --> 04:44:59,100
hostile
8946
04:44:59,100 --> 04:45:01,378
the standard good handshake they'll
8947
04:45:01,378 --> 04:45:03,180
teach you to give with the right
8948
04:45:03,180 --> 04:45:05,120
expression on your face can also mean
8949
04:45:05,120 --> 04:45:08,940
don't [ __ ] with me it can say I'm
8950
04:45:08,940 --> 04:45:12,060
stronger than you it could say I'm not a
8951
04:45:12,060 --> 04:45:13,320
push-up
8952
04:45:13,320 --> 04:45:15,000
these are things that people don't think
8953
04:45:15,000 --> 04:45:16,700
about because it's never taught
8954
04:45:16,700 --> 04:45:19,320
everyone's taught how to shake hands to
8955
04:45:19,320 --> 04:45:21,180
say please employ me please give me a
8956
04:45:21,180 --> 04:45:23,340
job but many other things can be
8957
04:45:23,340 --> 04:45:26,400
conveyed with just a handshake
8958
04:45:26,400 --> 04:45:29,040
now when me and Andrew are out in public
8959
04:45:29,040 --> 04:45:31,440
we're always watching each other's backs
8960
04:45:31,440 --> 04:45:36,000
now paranoia isn't cool it isn't sexy uh
8961
04:45:36,000 --> 04:45:38,160
and it isn't really Alpha to be paranoid
8962
04:45:38,160 --> 04:45:40,260
all the time that somebody's gonna start
8963
04:45:40,260 --> 04:45:41,280
on you
8964
04:45:41,280 --> 04:45:42,840
um I know people who walk through the
8965
04:45:42,840 --> 04:45:45,240
world in this way they're scared of
8966
04:45:45,240 --> 04:45:47,760
everything and everybody the the police
8967
04:45:47,760 --> 04:45:49,260
the person walking behind them they're
8968
04:45:49,260 --> 04:45:51,540
jumpy that's not what I'm talking about
8969
04:45:51,540 --> 04:45:54,120
and that is not the way men like me and
8970
04:45:54,120 --> 04:45:55,378
Andrew behave
8971
04:45:55,378 --> 04:45:57,180
when I talk about watching each other's
8972
04:45:57,180 --> 04:45:59,700
backs it's the small things that me and
8973
04:45:59,700 --> 04:46:01,200
Andrew do that people who hang around
8974
04:46:01,200 --> 04:46:03,840
with us pick up on you guys at home
8975
04:46:03,840 --> 04:46:05,280
won't see these things because they're
8976
04:46:05,280 --> 04:46:06,780
never recorded and they're never on
8977
04:46:06,780 --> 04:46:09,060
camera me and Andrew always sit for
8978
04:46:09,060 --> 04:46:11,040
example across the table from one
8979
04:46:11,040 --> 04:46:11,820
another
8980
04:46:11,820 --> 04:46:14,280
just in case somebody decides to come up
8981
04:46:14,280 --> 04:46:16,080
from behind and attack us it's very much
8982
04:46:16,080 --> 04:46:18,420
like the tiger analogy wearing the mask
8983
04:46:18,420 --> 04:46:20,520
on the back of your head I am in his
8984
04:46:20,520 --> 04:46:22,560
other set of eyes if Andrew's on a date
8985
04:46:22,560 --> 04:46:24,540
with a beautiful woman and I'm sitting
8986
04:46:24,540 --> 04:46:26,040
with my back against the wall and I can
8987
04:46:26,040 --> 04:46:28,620
see what's going on behind Andrew
8988
04:46:28,620 --> 04:46:31,020
can relax Andrew can have his good time
8989
04:46:31,020 --> 04:46:34,200
he cannot worry about looking over his
8990
04:46:34,200 --> 04:46:35,400
shoulder because you know me and Andrew
8991
04:46:35,400 --> 04:46:37,378
do have a few enemies um everywhere
8992
04:46:37,378 --> 04:46:39,420
including the city where we live this
8993
04:46:39,420 --> 04:46:41,400
doesn't just apply when you're with
8994
04:46:41,400 --> 04:46:43,378
somebody else but it can very much apply
8995
04:46:43,378 --> 04:46:46,080
to yourself are you by yourself are you
8996
04:46:46,080 --> 04:46:47,820
in Starbucks getting a coffee about to
8997
04:46:47,820 --> 04:46:50,760
do some work on your laptop fine be very
8998
04:46:50,760 --> 04:46:52,920
careful about where you sit choose
8999
04:46:52,920 --> 04:46:54,180
somewhere where your back is against the
9000
04:46:54,180 --> 04:46:55,560
wall like right now I'm sitting in a
9001
04:46:55,560 --> 04:46:56,940
corner I can see everything that's going
9002
04:46:56,940 --> 04:46:58,920
on in the room in front of me this is
9003
04:46:58,920 --> 04:47:01,138
the place you want to sit not because
9004
04:47:01,138 --> 04:47:02,700
you think somebody's going to come up
9005
04:47:02,700 --> 04:47:04,378
and attack you not because you are
9006
04:47:04,378 --> 04:47:07,320
scared of uh assailants or muggers or
9007
04:47:07,320 --> 04:47:09,298
robbers just being able to see
9008
04:47:09,298 --> 04:47:10,920
everything that goes on in the room
9009
04:47:10,920 --> 04:47:13,440
gives you the chance to react to
9010
04:47:13,440 --> 04:47:15,780
situations I guarantee if you were to
9011
04:47:15,780 --> 04:47:17,760
look at some of the violent crazy things
9012
04:47:17,760 --> 04:47:19,138
that have happened in Europe from
9013
04:47:19,138 --> 04:47:21,180
bombings to terrorist attacks in the
9014
04:47:21,180 --> 04:47:22,980
last few years some of the people who
9015
04:47:22,980 --> 04:47:25,500
survived survived because of where they
9016
04:47:25,500 --> 04:47:28,440
were sitting and it wasn't chance a few
9017
04:47:28,440 --> 04:47:32,100
of people I'm sure were self-aware
9018
04:47:32,100 --> 04:47:35,638
enough to be perspicacious about their
9019
04:47:35,638 --> 04:47:37,620
environment to sit in the corner to
9020
04:47:37,620 --> 04:47:39,420
watch what's going on to be able to
9021
04:47:39,420 --> 04:47:41,458
react to the environment around them now
9022
04:47:41,458 --> 04:47:42,900
when I see people with headphones in
9023
04:47:42,900 --> 04:47:44,878
slouched over a table with their coffee
9024
04:47:44,878 --> 04:47:47,580
typing away away on their laptop and the
9025
04:47:47,580 --> 04:47:48,780
whole room's behind them and they're
9026
04:47:48,780 --> 04:47:52,560
facing a wall they look like a Target to
9027
04:47:52,560 --> 04:47:54,420
me you don't have to be a tiger to know
9028
04:47:54,420 --> 04:47:56,638
that that person is a target if anything
9029
04:47:56,638 --> 04:47:58,378
goes down in that coffee shop if
9030
04:47:58,378 --> 04:47:59,700
anything goes down in that restaurant
9031
04:47:59,700 --> 04:48:01,860
that person is going to be one of the
9032
04:48:01,860 --> 04:48:04,260
first to die so watch each other's backs
9033
04:48:04,260 --> 04:48:05,700
and sit across the table from one
9034
04:48:05,700 --> 04:48:09,000
another always I have had people who
9035
04:48:09,000 --> 04:48:12,000
I've invited over to Eastern Europe who
9036
04:48:12,000 --> 04:48:13,620
assume that me and Andrew are the kings
9037
04:48:13,620 --> 04:48:16,560
of everywhere we go mostly because me
9038
04:48:16,560 --> 04:48:18,298
and Andrew are very Adept Fighters and
9039
04:48:18,298 --> 04:48:20,280
we can handle ourselves very well
9040
04:48:20,280 --> 04:48:22,080
but you need to understand in most
9041
04:48:22,080 --> 04:48:23,638
situations from Western Europe to
9042
04:48:23,638 --> 04:48:25,798
Eastern Europe when you go to very
9043
04:48:25,798 --> 04:48:29,040
expensive exclusive places nightclubs
9044
04:48:29,040 --> 04:48:31,560
first class lounges at airports the
9045
04:48:31,560 --> 04:48:34,680
people around you are your equals or
9046
04:48:34,680 --> 04:48:36,840
your veterans in some respect
9047
04:48:36,840 --> 04:48:39,718
financially or or some in one way or
9048
04:48:39,718 --> 04:48:40,440
another
9049
04:48:40,440 --> 04:48:42,660
now if I'm in a club and I'm sitting in
9050
04:48:42,660 --> 04:48:44,520
the VIP section there are six tables
9051
04:48:44,520 --> 04:48:46,680
only in an entire club that has maybe 2
9052
04:48:46,680 --> 04:48:48,900
000 people in it I know those other
9053
04:48:48,900 --> 04:48:49,860
people
9054
04:48:49,860 --> 04:48:51,840
are somebody's too
9055
04:48:51,840 --> 04:48:54,120
there very rarely will a club just let
9056
04:48:54,120 --> 04:48:55,740
some loser and just sit around and drink
9057
04:48:55,740 --> 04:48:57,480
their super expensive alcohol and even
9058
04:48:57,480 --> 04:48:59,700
then it's a promoter who knows people or
9059
04:48:59,700 --> 04:49:01,440
who's friends with the owner or
9060
04:49:01,440 --> 04:49:02,760
something like that
9061
04:49:02,760 --> 04:49:04,138
now me and Edge were hanging out in
9062
04:49:04,138 --> 04:49:05,878
Eastern Europe a lot so watching each
9063
04:49:05,878 --> 04:49:08,638
other's backs isn't just actually
9064
04:49:08,638 --> 04:49:10,320
viewing your surroundings and knowing
9065
04:49:10,320 --> 04:49:11,520
what's going on around you your
9066
04:49:11,520 --> 04:49:13,378
self-awareness it's also how you
9067
04:49:13,378 --> 04:49:15,660
interact with the people who surround
9068
04:49:15,660 --> 04:49:16,860
you
9069
04:49:16,860 --> 04:49:19,378
to give you an example if I sit down at
9070
04:49:19,378 --> 04:49:20,218
a table
9071
04:49:20,218 --> 04:49:22,980
and there are three or four Dudes a
9072
04:49:22,980 --> 04:49:25,440
number of dudes who outnumber us to my
9073
04:49:25,440 --> 04:49:27,420
right now this has happened plenty of
9074
04:49:27,420 --> 04:49:29,400
times where there are six or seven girls
9075
04:49:29,400 --> 04:49:32,580
on my table now how you assert yourself
9076
04:49:32,580 --> 04:49:35,878
is going to determine whether or not
9077
04:49:35,878 --> 04:49:37,920
those guys try to roll up on your women
9078
04:49:37,920 --> 04:49:40,020
you're only two guys you're with six
9079
04:49:40,020 --> 04:49:43,138
girls they assume that these girls are
9080
04:49:43,138 --> 04:49:45,120
friends of my girlfriend that they don't
9081
04:49:45,120 --> 04:49:46,620
know I'm [ __ ] three and Andrew's
9082
04:49:46,620 --> 04:49:48,120
[ __ ] three so of course it's natural
9083
04:49:48,120 --> 04:49:49,980
and normal for other guys to at least
9084
04:49:49,980 --> 04:49:52,080
think about talking to the girls who
9085
04:49:52,080 --> 04:49:53,820
come with you to the club
9086
04:49:53,820 --> 04:49:55,740
that doesn't happen to me in Andrew
9087
04:49:55,740 --> 04:49:57,900
because of the way we assert ourselves
9088
04:49:57,900 --> 04:50:00,360
what you'll typically find is the most
9089
04:50:00,360 --> 04:50:03,060
confident amongst them works as a scout
9090
04:50:03,060 --> 04:50:05,218
will say hi we'll say can I borrow a
9091
04:50:05,218 --> 04:50:07,560
lighter from one of the girls when that
9092
04:50:07,560 --> 04:50:11,100
happens always ask the girl if she's
9093
04:50:11,100 --> 04:50:12,958
okay afterwards I do it all the time
9094
04:50:12,958 --> 04:50:15,120
girl a guy will be like excuse me do you
9095
04:50:15,120 --> 04:50:16,620
have a life to two of my girls I'll say
9096
04:50:16,620 --> 04:50:19,560
hey you okay and touch her arm gently so
9097
04:50:19,560 --> 04:50:21,240
the guy says oh I was just asking for a
9098
04:50:21,240 --> 04:50:23,638
lighter no problem my friend handshake
9099
04:50:23,638 --> 04:50:25,920
eye contact you know you have to assert
9100
04:50:25,920 --> 04:50:29,040
don't [ __ ] with me with the initial
9101
04:50:29,040 --> 04:50:31,200
contact with the guy if I just turn my
9102
04:50:31,200 --> 04:50:33,480
back and ignore him after the light has
9103
04:50:33,480 --> 04:50:35,100
been borrowed and he gives it back he's
9104
04:50:35,100 --> 04:50:36,900
going to say where are you from who are
9105
04:50:36,900 --> 04:50:39,480
you what's up you know you have to cut
9106
04:50:39,480 --> 04:50:41,458
things off the moment they happen you
9107
04:50:41,458 --> 04:50:42,900
have to nip it in the bun
9108
04:50:42,900 --> 04:50:45,180
so the way you conduct yourself within
9109
04:50:45,180 --> 04:50:46,920
your own group of people will stop
9110
04:50:46,920 --> 04:50:49,440
others trying to come over and invade
9111
04:50:49,440 --> 04:50:51,718
your space so the key is always to put
9112
04:50:51,718 --> 04:50:53,700
yourself in a position of power don't
9113
04:50:53,700 --> 04:50:55,560
just sit down and start guzzling away on
9114
04:50:55,560 --> 04:50:57,600
drinks I don't typically sit next to
9115
04:50:57,600 --> 04:50:59,400
Andrew and talk away and let our girls
9116
04:50:59,400 --> 04:51:01,500
mind their own business we're mixed in
9117
04:51:01,500 --> 04:51:03,660
with them two or three girls divided by
9118
04:51:03,660 --> 04:51:06,240
one of us at any stage around a round
9119
04:51:06,240 --> 04:51:08,520
table uh if you know what I mean so
9120
04:51:08,520 --> 04:51:10,620
we're always in control of our group in
9121
04:51:10,620 --> 04:51:12,900
control of our herd if you like so the
9122
04:51:12,900 --> 04:51:14,700
way you position yourself lets others
9123
04:51:14,700 --> 04:51:17,400
know not to creep up on you not to try
9124
04:51:17,400 --> 04:51:20,218
to talk to your women and especially not
9125
04:51:20,218 --> 04:51:22,740
to start some sort of stupid argument
9126
04:51:22,740 --> 04:51:25,740
that said in clubs also combat Readiness
9127
04:51:25,740 --> 04:51:28,320
I always like to keep at least one of my
9128
04:51:28,320 --> 04:51:30,900
hands free if my hand isn't free it's
9129
04:51:30,900 --> 04:51:32,700
something that can be used as a weapon
9130
04:51:32,700 --> 04:51:36,420
now I've in my life been in maybe two
9131
04:51:36,420 --> 04:51:38,760
fights inside of nightclubs none of them
9132
04:51:38,760 --> 04:51:40,080
in Eastern Europe it's more of an
9133
04:51:40,080 --> 04:51:42,660
England thing and I avoid conflict at
9134
04:51:42,660 --> 04:51:45,900
all costs but the way you stand can mean
9135
04:51:45,900 --> 04:51:48,060
the difference between getting your ass
9136
04:51:48,060 --> 04:51:50,280
kicked and winning a fight
9137
04:51:50,280 --> 04:51:52,378
typically even if I'm smoking a cigar
9138
04:51:52,378 --> 04:51:54,000
the cigar can be easily dropped I'll
9139
04:51:54,000 --> 04:51:56,100
keep it in my left hand my right hand is
9140
04:51:56,100 --> 04:51:57,120
the hand that I'm going to strike with
9141
04:51:57,120 --> 04:51:58,680
first that's where I'll hold my glass
9142
04:51:58,680 --> 04:52:01,440
because a glass can be used as a weapon
9143
04:52:01,440 --> 04:52:03,298
just as much as a fist can be used as a
9144
04:52:03,298 --> 04:52:06,060
weapon and I always stand left foot in
9145
04:52:06,060 --> 04:52:08,340
front of right foot ever so slightly
9146
04:52:08,340 --> 04:52:10,680
just so I can't be caught off guard just
9147
04:52:10,680 --> 04:52:12,780
so that I'm not off balance just so that
9148
04:52:12,780 --> 04:52:15,180
at any one time with my glass my cigar
9149
04:52:15,180 --> 04:52:16,560
in one hand if someone approaches really
9150
04:52:16,560 --> 04:52:18,000
quickly which is how these things always
9151
04:52:18,000 --> 04:52:20,340
start you're always good to throw a
9152
04:52:20,340 --> 04:52:22,920
strike throw the glass or throw a punch
9153
04:52:22,920 --> 04:52:25,560
before people even come over and try to
9154
04:52:25,560 --> 04:52:27,718
talk to girls you're with or try to
9155
04:52:27,718 --> 04:52:29,100
start a fight with you people will
9156
04:52:29,100 --> 04:52:31,200
always Scout you out they'll always
9157
04:52:31,200 --> 04:52:34,500
stare at you for a little period of time
9158
04:52:34,500 --> 04:52:36,180
they'll ask their friends what do you
9159
04:52:36,180 --> 04:52:37,980
think these two are doing with all those
9160
04:52:37,980 --> 04:52:39,480
girls where do you think these guys are
9161
04:52:39,480 --> 04:52:41,638
from so when you catch them looking at
9162
04:52:41,638 --> 04:52:43,798
you don't stare them out don't put an
9163
04:52:43,798 --> 04:52:45,360
aggressive look on your face because
9164
04:52:45,360 --> 04:52:46,740
that just makes them want to fight you
9165
04:52:46,740 --> 04:52:48,060
more especially if you're outnumbered
9166
04:52:48,060 --> 04:52:50,100
that's going to encourage a physical
9167
04:52:50,100 --> 04:52:51,420
altercation
9168
04:52:51,420 --> 04:52:53,040
so you don't sit there looking angry at
9169
04:52:53,040 --> 04:52:55,620
them and what you absolutely don't do is
9170
04:52:55,620 --> 04:52:56,940
when they catch you looking at them look
9171
04:52:56,940 --> 04:52:59,940
away instantly that shows calories what
9172
04:52:59,940 --> 04:53:02,340
I do I'm a very confident guy Andrew as
9173
04:53:02,340 --> 04:53:03,120
well
9174
04:53:03,120 --> 04:53:05,280
keep in mind that when we're in a
9175
04:53:05,280 --> 04:53:06,900
high-class establishment the people who
9176
04:53:06,900 --> 04:53:09,958
are with us are you know successful guys
9177
04:53:09,958 --> 04:53:12,180
rich guys Mafia guys dangerous guys
9178
04:53:12,180 --> 04:53:14,160
they're somebody's to be sitting there
9179
04:53:14,160 --> 04:53:16,138
so if I'm holding my drink typically if
9180
04:53:16,138 --> 04:53:17,760
I catch them looking and I catch eye
9181
04:53:17,760 --> 04:53:19,740
contact I was not at home or I'll go
9182
04:53:19,740 --> 04:53:21,180
like this I'll raise my glasses slightly
9183
04:53:21,180 --> 04:53:22,680
and continue drinking they'll typically
9184
04:53:22,680 --> 04:53:24,540
do the same thing back and that eases
9185
04:53:24,540 --> 04:53:26,820
all tension nobody after that is going
9186
04:53:26,820 --> 04:53:28,260
to come over and start trying to throw
9187
04:53:28,260 --> 04:53:30,060
punches to your face
9188
04:53:30,060 --> 04:53:32,760
so if you sit confidently and assert
9189
04:53:32,760 --> 04:53:35,100
yourself just with your eyes and the
9190
04:53:35,100 --> 04:53:36,420
looks that you give the people around
9191
04:53:36,420 --> 04:53:40,200
you you can avoid basically all types of
9192
04:53:40,200 --> 04:53:42,480
of Confrontation no one's going to come
9193
04:53:42,480 --> 04:53:44,340
over and try and talk to your women no
9194
04:53:44,340 --> 04:53:45,600
one's going to come over and try to
9195
04:53:45,600 --> 04:53:48,840
assault you try to insult you
9196
04:53:48,840 --> 04:53:50,940
um you have to set an atmosphere and set
9197
04:53:50,940 --> 04:53:53,638
a vibe that you're friendly
9198
04:53:53,638 --> 04:53:56,040
but you're not to be [ __ ] with and one
9199
04:53:56,040 --> 04:53:57,360
more time that takes me back to the
9200
04:53:57,360 --> 04:53:58,740
handshake that's what you need to say
9201
04:53:58,740 --> 04:54:00,360
when you introduce yourself to people
9202
04:54:00,360 --> 04:54:01,860
especially if they come over to your
9203
04:54:01,860 --> 04:54:03,298
table and try to do something you don't
9204
04:54:03,298 --> 04:54:04,860
like or talk to your girlfriend
9205
04:54:04,860 --> 04:54:08,100
now I know I may look big and scary and
9206
04:54:08,100 --> 04:54:09,718
some people watching me think oh well
9207
04:54:09,718 --> 04:54:11,878
you know it's all right for you you're
9208
04:54:11,878 --> 04:54:14,160
big and mean looking so nobody's gonna
9209
04:54:14,160 --> 04:54:16,560
start a fight on you nobody's gonna want
9210
04:54:16,560 --> 04:54:19,320
to engage in conflict with you that's
9211
04:54:19,320 --> 04:54:21,000
not necessarily true
9212
04:54:21,000 --> 04:54:23,878
you can assert yourself with confidence
9213
04:54:23,878 --> 04:54:26,160
alone the way you Scout the room
9214
04:54:26,160 --> 04:54:28,138
everything I was saying earlier sitting
9215
04:54:28,138 --> 04:54:29,520
in the corner watching everybody around
9216
04:54:29,520 --> 04:54:31,920
you gives you the chance to see exactly
9217
04:54:31,920 --> 04:54:33,298
what's going on
9218
04:54:33,298 --> 04:54:35,760
now that reminds me of a clip I saw on
9219
04:54:35,760 --> 04:54:37,620
the internet of a man I believe it was
9220
04:54:37,620 --> 04:54:39,020
in Australia
9221
04:54:39,020 --> 04:54:42,540
where 10 to 15 guys ran into a bar I
9222
04:54:42,540 --> 04:54:43,500
think they were trying to attack
9223
04:54:43,500 --> 04:54:45,420
somebody or Rob the place I'm not sure
9224
04:54:45,420 --> 04:54:47,520
what these assailants were doing this
9225
04:54:47,520 --> 04:54:49,500
guy was standing his back was to a
9226
04:54:49,500 --> 04:54:51,120
pillar in the middle of the room so no
9227
04:54:51,120 --> 04:54:52,440
one could necessarily run it behind him
9228
04:54:52,440 --> 04:54:54,900
and he was standing at the bar he wasn't
9229
04:54:54,900 --> 04:54:56,760
a very big guy or necessarily scary
9230
04:54:56,760 --> 04:54:59,820
looking guy but he stood there with one
9231
04:54:59,820 --> 04:55:01,320
of his hands on his glass and the other
9232
04:55:01,320 --> 04:55:03,600
hand completely free and as each person
9233
04:55:03,600 --> 04:55:05,820
rushed by him and rushed up to him he
9234
04:55:05,820 --> 04:55:07,920
glanced at them slightly
9235
04:55:07,920 --> 04:55:10,260
now the ccdv footage is a little grainy
9236
04:55:10,260 --> 04:55:12,180
I can't see exactly how he looked at
9237
04:55:12,180 --> 04:55:13,620
these people but he didn't look down at
9238
04:55:13,620 --> 04:55:15,360
the floor he didn't stare at him with
9239
04:55:15,360 --> 04:55:16,560
fear and he didn't sit there with an
9240
04:55:16,560 --> 04:55:19,798
angry look on his face he must have by
9241
04:55:19,798 --> 04:55:22,200
process of elimination 10 10 guys around
9242
04:55:22,200 --> 04:55:24,240
by him they all glanced at him and
9243
04:55:24,240 --> 04:55:26,160
nobody started on him
9244
04:55:26,160 --> 04:55:28,798
he must have conveyed some of the tips
9245
04:55:28,798 --> 04:55:30,480
I've been talking to you about in this
9246
04:55:30,480 --> 04:55:32,820
video now why does nobody start on this
9247
04:55:32,820 --> 04:55:33,540
guy
9248
04:55:33,540 --> 04:55:35,878
he doesn't panic he doesn't flee he
9249
04:55:35,878 --> 04:55:38,400
doesn't run that portrays somebody who
9250
04:55:38,400 --> 04:55:41,040
can handle themselves certainly his
9251
04:55:41,040 --> 04:55:43,080
hands are free he's calm he's confident
9252
04:55:43,080 --> 04:55:45,000
and he's looking at what's going on
9253
04:55:45,000 --> 04:55:47,280
around him the people who rushed into
9254
04:55:47,280 --> 04:55:51,000
that bar were 10 to 15 individuals they
9255
04:55:51,000 --> 04:55:54,298
were not confident men nobody who wants
9256
04:55:54,298 --> 04:55:56,638
to go and rob somebody or attack
9257
04:55:56,638 --> 04:55:58,980
somebody has to bring 10 to 15 of their
9258
04:55:58,980 --> 04:56:02,100
friends if they're not cowards it's like
9259
04:56:02,100 --> 04:56:05,100
splitting up a pack of sheep you know
9260
04:56:05,100 --> 04:56:06,600
the Herd on its own can look
9261
04:56:06,600 --> 04:56:08,400
intimidating coming towards you when you
9262
04:56:08,400 --> 04:56:10,200
get one on their own they're absolutely
9263
04:56:10,200 --> 04:56:12,540
terrified and that's exactly how this
9264
04:56:12,540 --> 04:56:14,160
guy handled the situation he looked at
9265
04:56:14,160 --> 04:56:15,958
each one of them as a one-on-one
9266
04:56:15,958 --> 04:56:18,718
situation a one-on-one man-on-man
9267
04:56:18,718 --> 04:56:20,520
confrontation and when they got that
9268
04:56:20,520 --> 04:56:22,080
look and when the guys made on eye
9269
04:56:22,080 --> 04:56:23,700
contact with him or when they brushed
9270
04:56:23,700 --> 04:56:26,160
past him none of those people wanted to
9271
04:56:26,160 --> 04:56:27,718
fight him and that's the way the real
9272
04:56:27,718 --> 04:56:30,060
world is
9273
04:56:30,060 --> 04:56:32,700
this takes me back to my original point
9274
04:56:32,700 --> 04:56:35,760
what those Indian Miners did by putting
9275
04:56:35,760 --> 04:56:37,740
the masks on the back of their head may
9276
04:56:37,740 --> 04:56:38,760
seem
9277
04:56:38,760 --> 04:56:41,160
so insignificant and so stupid and by
9278
04:56:41,160 --> 04:56:42,958
all means please google it they look
9279
04:56:42,958 --> 04:56:44,100
ridiculous
9280
04:56:44,100 --> 04:56:46,680
but all it takes is the tiniest of
9281
04:56:46,680 --> 04:56:48,240
little steps in the tiniest of little
9282
04:56:48,240 --> 04:56:50,820
details to deter physical confrontation
9283
04:56:50,820 --> 04:56:53,580
and to stay out of conflict the reason
9284
04:56:53,580 --> 04:56:56,040
behind this is because most men are
9285
04:56:56,040 --> 04:56:58,500
cowards most men don't want to fight you
9286
04:56:58,500 --> 04:57:00,900
one-on-one occasionally you'll meet that
9287
04:57:00,900 --> 04:57:03,718
guy every once in a while who thinks he
9288
04:57:03,718 --> 04:57:05,580
can handle himself has a problem with
9289
04:57:05,580 --> 04:57:07,740
you and wants to deal with you and will
9290
04:57:07,740 --> 04:57:09,540
actually come forward wanting to fight
9291
04:57:09,540 --> 04:57:11,400
you head on but that's not the way the
9292
04:57:11,400 --> 04:57:15,180
world is 99.9 of men cannot throw a
9293
04:57:15,180 --> 04:57:17,340
punch they can't throw a punch they
9294
04:57:17,340 --> 04:57:19,440
can't take a punch and deep down they
9295
04:57:19,440 --> 04:57:23,100
know it that's why tiny little details
9296
04:57:23,100 --> 04:57:26,280
can completely avoid conflict now in the
9297
04:57:26,280 --> 04:57:28,440
last 10 years me and Andrew have had
9298
04:57:28,440 --> 04:57:31,798
maybe five or six physical altercations
9299
04:57:31,798 --> 04:57:33,420
where hitting someone has become a
9300
04:57:33,420 --> 04:57:35,760
necessity and every single time they've
9301
04:57:35,760 --> 04:57:38,100
been very easy to deal with but on top
9302
04:57:38,100 --> 04:57:40,680
of those there have been at least 200
9303
04:57:40,680 --> 04:57:43,320
times where somebody has wanted to hit
9304
04:57:43,320 --> 04:57:44,940
me or Andrew or somebody has thought
9305
04:57:44,940 --> 04:57:46,378
something negative about me around you
9306
04:57:46,378 --> 04:57:47,638
and it could have spiraled into a
9307
04:57:47,638 --> 04:57:49,500
physical altercation had I been in the
9308
04:57:49,500 --> 04:57:51,900
wrong company or had I displayed the
9309
04:57:51,900 --> 04:57:54,000
wrong body language that's a massive
9310
04:57:54,000 --> 04:57:56,458
part of conflict avoidance
9311
04:57:56,458 --> 04:57:58,740
Network Brilliance every time I start
9312
04:57:58,740 --> 04:58:00,120
one of these courses I feel like I need
9313
04:58:00,120 --> 04:58:01,740
to do some kind of intro and not just
9314
04:58:01,740 --> 04:58:02,878
jump straight into it but I don't know
9315
04:58:02,878 --> 04:58:04,320
what the [ __ ] you want me to do
9316
04:58:04,320 --> 04:58:06,600
or do a dance or some [ __ ] so we're
9317
04:58:06,600 --> 04:58:08,520
going to get straight to it I have met
9318
04:58:08,520 --> 04:58:10,860
Hollywood actors Idris Elba I've met
9319
04:58:10,860 --> 04:58:12,540
Donald Trump Jr
9320
04:58:12,540 --> 04:58:14,820
the son of the president
9321
04:58:14,820 --> 04:58:16,920
um I've met basically every big person
9322
04:58:16,920 --> 04:58:20,520
in politics on the right from Twitter
9323
04:58:20,520 --> 04:58:23,458
uh I've met here in Romania absolutely
9324
04:58:23,458 --> 04:58:25,378
everybody who's anybody actors singers
9325
04:58:25,378 --> 04:58:26,458
etc etc
9326
04:58:26,458 --> 04:58:27,718
and I've done this very very
9327
04:58:27,718 --> 04:58:29,820
deliberately and it's one of those
9328
04:58:29,820 --> 04:58:30,600
things
9329
04:58:30,600 --> 04:58:32,580
very similar to let's say girls where
9330
04:58:32,580 --> 04:58:35,040
once you get started once you begin the
9331
04:58:35,040 --> 04:58:37,980
process it becomes easier once you start
9332
04:58:37,980 --> 04:58:39,360
and you start getting a few girls you
9333
04:58:39,360 --> 04:58:40,680
end up with lots and lots of girls once
9334
04:58:40,680 --> 04:58:41,940
you start meeting important and
9335
04:58:41,940 --> 04:58:43,920
influential people you'll meet lots and
9336
04:58:43,920 --> 04:58:46,080
lots of important influential people but
9337
04:58:46,080 --> 04:58:48,120
there are lots of mistakes that most
9338
04:58:48,120 --> 04:58:49,500
people make
9339
04:58:49,500 --> 04:58:51,958
when it comes to networking themselves
9340
04:58:51,958 --> 04:58:53,638
to the top
9341
04:58:53,638 --> 04:58:55,860
and that's what this course is going to
9342
04:58:55,860 --> 04:58:57,540
be about it's gonna be a long list of
9343
04:58:57,540 --> 04:58:59,820
mistakes not to make and it's also going
9344
04:58:59,820 --> 04:59:01,920
to explain the psychology of networking
9345
04:59:01,920 --> 04:59:03,540
what most people don't understand is as
9346
04:59:03,540 --> 04:59:05,820
follows there's huge psychology involved
9347
04:59:05,820 --> 04:59:08,100
in networking and there's three elements
9348
04:59:08,100 --> 04:59:11,760
the first element is you don't know who
9349
04:59:11,760 --> 04:59:13,860
I know so if you go to meet somebody
9350
04:59:13,860 --> 04:59:15,180
let's say you're at an event and you
9351
04:59:15,180 --> 04:59:17,400
meet someone and that person happens to
9352
04:59:17,400 --> 04:59:19,080
know the president
9353
04:59:19,080 --> 04:59:22,500
unless they are obviously overtly in the
9354
04:59:22,500 --> 04:59:24,360
white house unless they're overtly a
9355
04:59:24,360 --> 04:59:26,280
member of the White House staff or
9356
04:59:26,280 --> 04:59:28,378
they're allowed mouth you may have no
9357
04:59:28,378 --> 04:59:30,500
idea they know the president if I didn't
9358
04:59:30,500 --> 04:59:32,878
advertise to fact just now I'll put the
9359
04:59:32,878 --> 04:59:35,100
picture on Instagram nobody would have a
9360
04:59:35,100 --> 04:59:37,560
clue that Donald Trump Jr and I speak to
9361
04:59:37,560 --> 04:59:39,780
each other no one would have a clue so
9362
04:59:39,780 --> 04:59:42,000
firstly a lot of people don't overtly
9363
04:59:42,000 --> 04:59:43,940
advertise who they know
9364
04:59:43,940 --> 04:59:48,060
secondly most people when they do get a
9365
04:59:48,060 --> 04:59:49,920
connection of influence that's important
9366
04:59:49,920 --> 04:59:52,320
they don't want to give that away
9367
04:59:52,320 --> 04:59:53,820
so most people don't want to give that
9368
04:59:53,820 --> 04:59:56,280
away for a variety of reasons one
9369
04:59:56,280 --> 04:59:57,900
because they're afraid of getting
9370
04:59:57,900 --> 05:00:00,180
sidetracked or cut out and two because
9371
05:00:00,180 --> 05:00:01,680
people are Petty and jealous that's how
9372
05:00:01,680 --> 05:00:04,138
people are so if I have a very important
9373
05:00:04,138 --> 05:00:06,480
connection and I know that introducing
9374
05:00:06,480 --> 05:00:08,280
you to that connection is going to
9375
05:00:08,280 --> 05:00:09,958
improve your life
9376
05:00:09,958 --> 05:00:12,540
what's my motivation to do that why
9377
05:00:12,540 --> 05:00:14,040
would I want to do that that's the first
9378
05:00:14,040 --> 05:00:14,878
thing
9379
05:00:14,878 --> 05:00:17,520
uh and the second thing is if I do do
9380
05:00:17,520 --> 05:00:18,958
that and it works out particularly well
9381
05:00:18,958 --> 05:00:21,420
on YouTube become best buddies then I've
9382
05:00:21,420 --> 05:00:23,100
just been cut out the picture perhaps
9383
05:00:23,100 --> 05:00:24,958
and that important person has one more
9384
05:00:24,958 --> 05:00:26,878
friend he's doing business with you I'm
9385
05:00:26,878 --> 05:00:28,200
not getting anything so what's what's
9386
05:00:28,200 --> 05:00:29,340
the advantage to it so you have to
9387
05:00:29,340 --> 05:00:30,180
understand that people are very
9388
05:00:30,180 --> 05:00:32,580
secretive about who they know and even
9389
05:00:32,580 --> 05:00:33,840
if they do tell you who they know
9390
05:00:33,840 --> 05:00:35,940
they're very guarding of it and thirdly
9391
05:00:35,940 --> 05:00:38,100
and it's the largest reason is it's
9392
05:00:38,100 --> 05:00:41,218
impossible to refer someone without also
9393
05:00:41,218 --> 05:00:43,500
referring your reputation
9394
05:00:43,500 --> 05:00:45,420
so if I were to go to someone who I know
9395
05:00:45,420 --> 05:00:47,700
is important and say ah this guy can do
9396
05:00:47,700 --> 05:00:51,740
this and I refer you and you [ __ ] up
9397
05:00:51,740 --> 05:00:54,120
that impacts me
9398
05:00:54,120 --> 05:00:56,160
even if I say oh I don't know the guy
9399
05:00:56,160 --> 05:00:57,958
that well but you know I've heard he's
9400
05:00:57,958 --> 05:01:00,120
okay even if I try and disassociate
9401
05:01:00,120 --> 05:01:03,660
myself if you do a [ __ ] job that impacts
9402
05:01:03,660 --> 05:01:04,560
me
9403
05:01:04,560 --> 05:01:06,420
so when people are referring you and
9404
05:01:06,420 --> 05:01:07,740
you're trying to network what's really
9405
05:01:07,740 --> 05:01:09,180
happening is
9406
05:01:09,180 --> 05:01:11,400
people are recommending you but they
9407
05:01:11,400 --> 05:01:12,840
really recommend they're they're putting
9408
05:01:12,840 --> 05:01:14,940
their trust on the line to recommend you
9409
05:01:14,940 --> 05:01:17,040
so once again they need a motivator to
9410
05:01:17,040 --> 05:01:19,680
do that the whole networking scene is
9411
05:01:19,680 --> 05:01:21,900
down to motivators and what most people
9412
05:01:21,900 --> 05:01:23,638
make a mistake of doing is they run
9413
05:01:23,638 --> 05:01:25,020
around trying to talk to everybody
9414
05:01:25,020 --> 05:01:28,620
without motivating anybody ever to refer
9415
05:01:28,620 --> 05:01:29,340
them
9416
05:01:29,340 --> 05:01:31,980
and that's the biggest mistake so we
9417
05:01:31,980 --> 05:01:33,600
have two ways we can look at this
9418
05:01:33,600 --> 05:01:35,940
everybody you meet it doesn't matter if
9419
05:01:35,940 --> 05:01:37,260
you meet the president or you meet
9420
05:01:37,260 --> 05:01:38,940
somebody at the bottom of the chain you
9421
05:01:38,940 --> 05:01:41,100
need to do the same things with so if
9422
05:01:41,100 --> 05:01:42,540
you're very lucky and you walk into the
9423
05:01:42,540 --> 05:01:43,860
room and you see the president there
9424
05:01:43,860 --> 05:01:46,320
that's fantastic but most likely you're
9425
05:01:46,320 --> 05:01:48,180
going to see somebody far less important
9426
05:01:48,180 --> 05:01:50,040
and if you do a very good job you can
9427
05:01:50,040 --> 05:01:51,780
Network your way to the top when I met
9428
05:01:51,780 --> 05:01:53,400
Idris and I was put on that TV show I
9429
05:01:53,400 --> 05:01:55,320
didn't meet him first I knew a lot of
9430
05:01:55,320 --> 05:01:56,580
people knew a lot of people and I ended
9431
05:01:56,580 --> 05:01:58,260
up there so it's going to be very
9432
05:01:58,260 --> 05:01:59,520
unlikely you're going to meet the person
9433
05:01:59,520 --> 05:02:01,680
you want to meet straight away by
9434
05:02:01,680 --> 05:02:03,298
assuming that's the cases a few very
9435
05:02:03,298 --> 05:02:05,040
basic rules and these are super basic
9436
05:02:05,040 --> 05:02:06,780
and these are things I shouldn't have to
9437
05:02:06,780 --> 05:02:09,958
say introduce yourself be confident body
9438
05:02:09,958 --> 05:02:11,280
language is all explained in the body
9439
05:02:11,280 --> 05:02:14,160
language course be sure of yourself
9440
05:02:14,160 --> 05:02:16,560
don't be arrogant and third and one of
9441
05:02:16,560 --> 05:02:18,298
the most important things important
9442
05:02:18,298 --> 05:02:20,700
people especially super important people
9443
05:02:20,700 --> 05:02:22,680
they're not really that interested in
9444
05:02:22,680 --> 05:02:24,900
you you have to understand that it's a
9445
05:02:24,900 --> 05:02:26,340
very fine balance people think oh I'm
9446
05:02:26,340 --> 05:02:27,900
going to meet this guy I need to prove
9447
05:02:27,900 --> 05:02:30,540
to this guy I'm worth something but also
9448
05:02:30,540 --> 05:02:32,580
you don't want to sit there and tell the
9449
05:02:32,580 --> 05:02:34,560
president about what you do for a job he
9450
05:02:34,560 --> 05:02:35,820
doesn't give a [ __ ] he's the president
9451
05:02:35,820 --> 05:02:39,060
compared to him you're a nobody so you
9452
05:02:39,060 --> 05:02:40,740
have to really understand the balance of
9453
05:02:40,740 --> 05:02:43,560
asking them questions while also
9454
05:02:43,560 --> 05:02:45,958
validating yourself so instead of saying
9455
05:02:45,958 --> 05:02:47,400
if I were to be an important person and
9456
05:02:47,400 --> 05:02:48,840
not say that important person was in
9457
05:02:48,840 --> 05:02:50,940
banking for example
9458
05:02:50,940 --> 05:02:52,920
if I sit there no I'm a millionaire I
9459
05:02:52,920 --> 05:02:55,500
did this and he died I made money and he
9460
05:02:55,500 --> 05:02:56,820
ain't gonna give a [ __ ] the dude could
9461
05:02:56,820 --> 05:02:58,560
be getting a million pound a week
9462
05:02:58,560 --> 05:03:01,740
as far as I know so instead I'd say ah
9463
05:03:01,740 --> 05:03:03,360
yeah I'm actually looking for a banking
9464
05:03:03,360 --> 05:03:04,620
solution when I'm trying to move large
9465
05:03:04,620 --> 05:03:06,480
sums of money I'm struggling to get it
9466
05:03:06,480 --> 05:03:08,760
done what is the best banking solution
9467
05:03:08,760 --> 05:03:09,660
what would you recommend for someone
9468
05:03:09,660 --> 05:03:11,580
living in Europe so what I've done there
9469
05:03:11,580 --> 05:03:13,680
is validate me as a person I've
9470
05:03:13,680 --> 05:03:15,660
explained that I make large sums of
9471
05:03:15,660 --> 05:03:17,940
money but I've also stroked his ego by
9472
05:03:17,940 --> 05:03:19,620
asking him a question and engaging him
9473
05:03:19,620 --> 05:03:21,480
in the conversation that is completely
9474
05:03:21,480 --> 05:03:22,680
different from me sitting there and
9475
05:03:22,680 --> 05:03:24,420
talking [ __ ] and it's completing from
9476
05:03:24,420 --> 05:03:26,638
only asking him questions so you have to
9477
05:03:26,638 --> 05:03:28,620
find a way to validate yourself while
9478
05:03:28,620 --> 05:03:30,900
also engaging him and asking questions
9479
05:03:30,900 --> 05:03:33,180
and stroking his ego important people
9480
05:03:33,180 --> 05:03:35,580
are arrogant you're never going to meet
9481
05:03:35,580 --> 05:03:37,080
an important person who's not arrogant
9482
05:03:37,080 --> 05:03:39,840
all of them are so stroking their ego is
9483
05:03:39,840 --> 05:03:42,718
always a good idea not a no not in a
9484
05:03:42,718 --> 05:03:44,100
pathetic way because I'm not going to
9485
05:03:44,100 --> 05:03:46,500
respect you but just respecting their
9486
05:03:46,500 --> 05:03:48,360
position and their intelligence and
9487
05:03:48,360 --> 05:03:50,340
their knowledge and asking for some of
9488
05:03:50,340 --> 05:03:52,020
it that's it there's a whole bunch of
9489
05:03:52,020 --> 05:03:53,400
[ __ ] these people know that you don't
9490
05:03:53,400 --> 05:03:54,718
know that's the whole reason you want to
9491
05:03:54,718 --> 05:03:56,280
network with them in the first place
9492
05:03:56,280 --> 05:03:59,160
so that's an important point next
9493
05:03:59,160 --> 05:04:01,200
and this is very key
9494
05:04:01,200 --> 05:04:02,760
and this could be a whole section on
9495
05:04:02,760 --> 05:04:05,218
itself but we'll start now
9496
05:04:05,218 --> 05:04:07,860
networking is expensive
9497
05:04:07,860 --> 05:04:09,780
the key to networking is having money
9498
05:04:09,780 --> 05:04:12,958
and I say this all the time if you meet
9499
05:04:12,958 --> 05:04:14,218
someone who's more important than you
9500
05:04:14,218 --> 05:04:15,600
you're paying for everything
9501
05:04:15,600 --> 05:04:17,700
it doesn't matter how expensive the
9502
05:04:17,700 --> 05:04:19,260
drinks are how expensive the dinner is
9503
05:04:19,260 --> 05:04:21,298
you need to pay for it you need to
9504
05:04:21,298 --> 05:04:23,520
absolutely insist no please no it was a
9505
05:04:23,520 --> 05:04:24,900
pleasure to meet you it's on me it's on
9506
05:04:24,900 --> 05:04:25,620
me
9507
05:04:25,620 --> 05:04:27,600
they don't give a [ __ ] about money but
9508
05:04:27,600 --> 05:04:29,458
it just proves a point it allows you to
9509
05:04:29,458 --> 05:04:30,718
have some kind of dominance and hold
9510
05:04:30,718 --> 05:04:32,638
your own as a man if you go to dinner
9511
05:04:32,638 --> 05:04:34,620
with a really important person
9512
05:04:34,620 --> 05:04:37,138
and that person pays for the dinner
9513
05:04:37,138 --> 05:04:38,940
do you think that same person is going
9514
05:04:38,940 --> 05:04:40,500
to trust you with thousands and
9515
05:04:40,500 --> 05:04:42,240
thousands of dollars when you're sitting
9516
05:04:42,240 --> 05:04:43,440
there taking a free dinner with a little
9517
05:04:43,440 --> 05:04:46,260
dork no so you have to pay for dinner
9518
05:04:46,260 --> 05:04:48,180
that's the first thing you gotta look
9519
05:04:48,180 --> 05:04:49,980
good when you turn up you gotta turn up
9520
05:04:49,980 --> 05:04:51,540
in these very expensive places like
9521
05:04:51,540 --> 05:04:52,740
you've been there a thousand times
9522
05:04:52,740 --> 05:04:54,958
before you cannot be impressed by
9523
05:04:54,958 --> 05:04:56,520
anything you can't be like oh wow this
9524
05:04:56,520 --> 05:04:58,680
food's great oh this wine oh yeah this
9525
05:04:58,680 --> 05:05:00,240
is a really nice restaurant it's just a
9526
05:05:00,240 --> 05:05:01,980
[ __ ] restaurant it doesn't matter if
9527
05:05:01,980 --> 05:05:03,600
you end up on a private jet for the
9528
05:05:03,600 --> 05:05:04,680
first time in your life you don't say a
9529
05:05:04,680 --> 05:05:07,260
word you're completely unimpressed like
9530
05:05:07,260 --> 05:05:08,760
you've done it a thousand times these
9531
05:05:08,760 --> 05:05:10,500
are the basic things if you're gonna sit
9532
05:05:10,500 --> 05:05:12,660
there go wow wow wow then he's going to
9533
05:05:12,660 --> 05:05:13,860
show that you're much lower down the
9534
05:05:13,860 --> 05:05:16,020
name people at the top they don't really
9535
05:05:16,020 --> 05:05:17,340
want to do business or network with
9536
05:05:17,340 --> 05:05:19,440
people below them why would they
9537
05:05:19,440 --> 05:05:21,420
they want to do business with people on
9538
05:05:21,420 --> 05:05:23,520
the same level of them as them or people
9539
05:05:23,520 --> 05:05:25,440
maybe slightly below but they have a
9540
05:05:25,440 --> 05:05:26,940
good motivator to elevate you as an
9541
05:05:26,940 --> 05:05:28,500
individual if you're making it super
9542
05:05:28,500 --> 05:05:29,820
clear you've never lived this kind of
9543
05:05:29,820 --> 05:05:31,440
Lifestyle then you're going to struggle
9544
05:05:31,440 --> 05:05:33,600
so you're not impressed by anything
9545
05:05:33,600 --> 05:05:35,520
you're paying for everything when you're
9546
05:05:35,520 --> 05:05:36,718
around something more important than you
9547
05:05:36,718 --> 05:05:38,638
when Idris and I were in Thailand
9548
05:05:38,638 --> 05:05:40,440
training for a spike
9549
05:05:40,440 --> 05:05:42,840
every time we go out I pay
9550
05:05:42,840 --> 05:05:44,400
I was like I do it even because I
9551
05:05:44,400 --> 05:05:46,260
wouldn't even it wouldn't be offering
9552
05:05:46,260 --> 05:05:47,878
just to build with comments put the
9553
05:05:47,878 --> 05:05:49,920
money down we'd walk off now interests
9554
05:05:49,920 --> 05:05:52,200
have more money than me but I just just
9555
05:05:52,200 --> 05:05:53,580
whatever just
9556
05:05:53,580 --> 05:05:55,740
it's a point of dominance it's a point
9557
05:05:55,740 --> 05:05:56,760
of yeah you're the Hollywood actor
9558
05:05:56,760 --> 05:05:57,780
you're not the only [ __ ] around
9559
05:05:57,780 --> 05:05:59,400
here who has some money
9560
05:05:59,400 --> 05:06:00,900
and at the time I didn't even have that
9561
05:06:00,900 --> 05:06:02,400
much money but I'm a little [ __ ] I'm
9562
05:06:02,400 --> 05:06:04,260
not gonna let him pay for me because
9563
05:06:04,260 --> 05:06:07,020
he's the more important one than I am so
9564
05:06:07,020 --> 05:06:08,638
that's a very important thing secondly
9565
05:06:08,638 --> 05:06:10,320
when it comes to money is super
9566
05:06:10,320 --> 05:06:12,180
important because networking is about
9567
05:06:12,180 --> 05:06:15,420
chances it is super rare that someone's
9568
05:06:15,420 --> 05:06:17,400
going to say to you come here this time
9569
05:06:17,400 --> 05:06:19,798
and you're guaranteed to meet X
9570
05:06:19,798 --> 05:06:21,420
that's not how networking Works
9571
05:06:21,420 --> 05:06:23,878
networking is about taking a chance and
9572
05:06:23,878 --> 05:06:26,218
Taking Chances is expensive when I met
9573
05:06:26,218 --> 05:06:28,020
Donald Trump Jr he said if you're around
9574
05:06:28,020 --> 05:06:31,260
on these dates I might be free for half
9575
05:06:31,260 --> 05:06:32,160
an hour
9576
05:06:32,160 --> 05:06:35,340
and I was in Romania how many people fly
9577
05:06:35,340 --> 05:06:38,520
from Romania to New York three thousand
9578
05:06:38,520 --> 05:06:41,820
miles and sit there for a week for a
9579
05:06:41,820 --> 05:06:45,060
maybe on 30 minutes most people go ah
9580
05:06:45,060 --> 05:06:47,700
I can't do that or they'll say oh uh can
9581
05:06:47,700 --> 05:06:49,798
we guarantee what about this and they
9582
05:06:49,798 --> 05:06:51,480
pressure the dude and then the dude's
9583
05:06:51,480 --> 05:06:52,560
gonna say well I can't guarantee I've
9584
05:06:52,560 --> 05:06:54,360
got a very busy schedule how can I
9585
05:06:54,360 --> 05:06:55,860
guarantee you anything I'm the son of
9586
05:06:55,860 --> 05:06:57,000
the president I've got a super busy
9587
05:06:57,000 --> 05:06:59,218
schedule I've never met you I don't know
9588
05:06:59,218 --> 05:07:01,200
you meeting you is really not going to
9589
05:07:01,200 --> 05:07:02,520
benefit me that much I don't give a [ __ ]
9590
05:07:02,520 --> 05:07:03,540
about you I'm not going to guarantee you
9591
05:07:03,540 --> 05:07:06,240
a thing if I tried to pressure him and
9592
05:07:06,240 --> 05:07:08,160
said okay what about this day this time
9593
05:07:08,160 --> 05:07:09,900
this day this time to try and get my
9594
05:07:09,900 --> 05:07:12,360
guarantee he would obey it so instead I
9595
05:07:12,360 --> 05:07:13,860
said yeah okay I'm around
9596
05:07:13,860 --> 05:07:16,560
and I flew there and I spent x amount of
9597
05:07:16,560 --> 05:07:18,660
thousands of dollars and it paid off
9598
05:07:18,660 --> 05:07:20,638
there's been times I've done similar
9599
05:07:20,638 --> 05:07:22,200
things for other important people and it
9600
05:07:22,200 --> 05:07:24,420
hasn't paid off but this is the reality
9601
05:07:24,420 --> 05:07:26,638
of networking networking is never going
9602
05:07:26,638 --> 05:07:29,218
to be guaranteed so because it's not
9603
05:07:29,218 --> 05:07:30,600
guaranteed you have to have the ability
9604
05:07:30,600 --> 05:07:31,860
to take your chances and that is
9605
05:07:31,860 --> 05:07:33,600
expensive I'm not going to sit here and
9606
05:07:33,600 --> 05:07:34,860
lie to you and pretend that networking
9607
05:07:34,860 --> 05:07:37,860
is cheap it's absolutely not cheap you
9608
05:07:37,860 --> 05:07:39,840
have to be prepared to go somewhere at a
9609
05:07:39,840 --> 05:07:42,420
win turn up and see if that person has
9610
05:07:42,420 --> 05:07:44,700
time and maybe they don't but you have
9611
05:07:44,700 --> 05:07:46,320
to be there right place right time and
9612
05:07:46,320 --> 05:07:47,760
be in the right place at the right time
9613
05:07:47,760 --> 05:07:49,680
is certainly expensive to do so that's
9614
05:07:49,680 --> 05:07:51,000
the monetary element
9615
05:07:51,000 --> 05:07:53,458
now we're talking about motivations
9616
05:07:53,458 --> 05:07:55,860
and like all my courses this is lots of
9617
05:07:55,860 --> 05:07:57,360
information just like the PHD course
9618
05:07:57,360 --> 05:07:58,620
there's lots of information coming at
9619
05:07:58,620 --> 05:07:59,638
you I don't care how many times you have
9620
05:07:59,638 --> 05:08:01,020
to watch this and I'm curious to take
9621
05:08:01,020 --> 05:08:03,060
notes break it down whatever I don't sit
9622
05:08:03,060 --> 05:08:05,040
and do little chapters I speak what
9623
05:08:05,040 --> 05:08:06,660
comes from my mind through experience
9624
05:08:06,660 --> 05:08:08,940
that's why so [ __ ] golden so you just
9625
05:08:08,940 --> 05:08:10,400
have to pay attention
9626
05:08:10,400 --> 05:08:13,620
motivators there's only two in fact
9627
05:08:13,620 --> 05:08:16,320
three genuine motivators that are going
9628
05:08:16,320 --> 05:08:18,360
to allow someone to refer you because
9629
05:08:18,360 --> 05:08:20,218
that's all networking is it's referrals
9630
05:08:20,218 --> 05:08:21,840
if you meet someone for the first time
9631
05:08:21,840 --> 05:08:23,218
who've just explained you have to pay
9632
05:08:23,218 --> 05:08:24,180
for it you have to introduce yourself
9633
05:08:24,180 --> 05:08:26,760
don't waste the person's time make sure
9634
05:08:26,760 --> 05:08:28,080
you stroke their ego with your questions
9635
05:08:28,080 --> 05:08:30,120
validate yourself while also allowing
9636
05:08:30,120 --> 05:08:32,040
them to validate themselves so they're
9637
05:08:32,040 --> 05:08:33,958
happy being the dominant person being Mr
9638
05:08:33,958 --> 05:08:36,958
important those are the key things most
9639
05:08:36,958 --> 05:08:38,458
networking is Gonna Come From referrals
9640
05:08:38,458 --> 05:08:40,440
someone is going to recommend you
9641
05:08:40,440 --> 05:08:42,958
so look at me here you know who I am I
9642
05:08:42,958 --> 05:08:44,940
have access to the president's son why
9643
05:08:44,940 --> 05:08:46,500
do I not recommend you to the
9644
05:08:46,500 --> 05:08:47,700
president's son
9645
05:08:47,700 --> 05:08:49,500
well the reason for that is one because
9646
05:08:49,500 --> 05:08:51,298
I'm putting my reputation on the line
9647
05:08:51,298 --> 05:08:54,240
and two the other three motivators have
9648
05:08:54,240 --> 05:08:55,740
not been fulfilled so there's three
9649
05:08:55,740 --> 05:08:58,080
motivators I'm only going to recommend
9650
05:08:58,080 --> 05:08:59,940
you to somebody else the president's son
9651
05:08:59,940 --> 05:09:03,718
or anyone for a money
9652
05:09:03,718 --> 05:09:07,440
B because I really like you or C because
9653
05:09:07,440 --> 05:09:10,440
it raises my status
9654
05:09:10,440 --> 05:09:12,600
so these are the only three motivators
9655
05:09:12,600 --> 05:09:14,520
that are gonna take someone and make
9656
05:09:14,520 --> 05:09:16,798
them put conscious effort into taking
9657
05:09:16,798 --> 05:09:18,780
into taking one of their relationships
9658
05:09:18,780 --> 05:09:21,180
and sharing it with you so talk about
9659
05:09:21,180 --> 05:09:23,160
the first one money
9660
05:09:23,160 --> 05:09:25,740
it's very easy to to go through the
9661
05:09:25,740 --> 05:09:27,000
world and think oh I've got the people
9662
05:09:27,000 --> 05:09:28,200
and I promise and they'll make lots of
9663
05:09:28,200 --> 05:09:29,520
money and everyone's gonna network with
9664
05:09:29,520 --> 05:09:31,040
me because I've got this great business
9665
05:09:31,040 --> 05:09:33,900
it's all [ __ ] because one your great
9666
05:09:33,900 --> 05:09:35,280
business is not nearly as great as you
9667
05:09:35,280 --> 05:09:37,320
think it is two telling people about
9668
05:09:37,320 --> 05:09:39,120
your great business most people don't
9669
05:09:39,120 --> 05:09:40,680
give a [ __ ] and most people aren't going
9670
05:09:40,680 --> 05:09:43,020
to believe in you I mean the the thing
9671
05:09:43,020 --> 05:09:44,280
is about businesses none of them are
9672
05:09:44,280 --> 05:09:46,500
really that sexy Starbucks is a coffee
9673
05:09:46,500 --> 05:09:48,060
shop if you were to walk around and say
9674
05:09:48,060 --> 05:09:49,320
oh I'm gonna start this coffee shop
9675
05:09:49,320 --> 05:09:51,420
people like oh whatever now it's a super
9676
05:09:51,420 --> 05:09:54,000
is successful it's a successful business
9677
05:09:54,000 --> 05:09:56,580
but if you're if before it started if
9678
05:09:56,580 --> 05:09:57,780
you're walking around trying to pitch it
9679
05:09:57,780 --> 05:09:59,940
to people try to network and we're gonna
9680
05:09:59,940 --> 05:10:01,440
have this coffee shop we're gonna sell
9681
05:10:01,440 --> 05:10:03,420
carrot cake No One's Gonna Give A [ __ ]
9682
05:10:03,420 --> 05:10:05,160
No One's Gonna be interested so business
9683
05:10:05,160 --> 05:10:06,900
ideas are really not that sexy you're
9684
05:10:06,900 --> 05:10:08,040
talking about even though you think they
9685
05:10:08,040 --> 05:10:09,900
are they're not and the ones that are
9686
05:10:09,900 --> 05:10:11,400
are usually complicated and different
9687
05:10:11,400 --> 05:10:13,320
and you gotta have someone's attention
9688
05:10:13,320 --> 05:10:15,660
and they have to trust you and know who
9689
05:10:15,660 --> 05:10:17,160
you are as a person to really take you
9690
05:10:17,160 --> 05:10:19,260
seriously so money is quite a difficult
9691
05:10:19,260 --> 05:10:20,940
one because if you think
9692
05:10:20,940 --> 05:10:23,340
who's going to go and email me now and
9693
05:10:23,340 --> 05:10:26,400
say Tay I have an idea if you introduced
9694
05:10:26,400 --> 05:10:28,500
me to the president and he buys it and
9695
05:10:28,500 --> 05:10:30,060
I'll give you 25 percent
9696
05:10:30,060 --> 05:10:31,560
I'm not gonna I'm not gonna recommend
9697
05:10:31,560 --> 05:10:32,280
you
9698
05:10:32,280 --> 05:10:34,378
so money is is actually one of the
9699
05:10:34,378 --> 05:10:35,760
things that probably becomes later on
9700
05:10:35,760 --> 05:10:37,560
they have people have to trust you first
9701
05:10:37,560 --> 05:10:39,060
they have to know you first they have to
9702
05:10:39,060 --> 05:10:41,160
like you first and then you can add in a
9703
05:10:41,160 --> 05:10:42,718
monetary motivation if I've done
9704
05:10:42,718 --> 05:10:43,980
business with you for four or five years
9705
05:10:43,980 --> 05:10:45,480
and I know you very well and I know
9706
05:10:45,480 --> 05:10:46,680
you're competent I know you don't make
9707
05:10:46,680 --> 05:10:48,240
mistakes you don't [ __ ] up I know I can
9708
05:10:48,240 --> 05:10:50,040
trust you I know that I recommend you
9709
05:10:50,040 --> 05:10:51,718
you're not going to embarrass me and
9710
05:10:51,718 --> 05:10:54,060
then you say look do you know any people
9711
05:10:54,060 --> 05:10:56,638
who could achieve X Y and Z because that
9712
05:10:56,638 --> 05:10:58,440
would allow me to make x amount of money
9713
05:10:58,440 --> 05:10:59,878
and you're gonna get a percent of it
9714
05:10:59,878 --> 05:11:02,458
then you can motivate me with money so
9715
05:11:02,458 --> 05:11:04,138
that's the monetary motivation next is
9716
05:11:04,138 --> 05:11:06,060
because I really like you this can
9717
05:11:06,060 --> 05:11:09,000
happen you can be liked by important
9718
05:11:09,000 --> 05:11:10,560
people and if you're liked by important
9719
05:11:10,560 --> 05:11:11,580
people you're gonna be you're gonna be
9720
05:11:11,580 --> 05:11:13,320
invited places by important people and
9721
05:11:13,320 --> 05:11:14,760
to be introduced
9722
05:11:14,760 --> 05:11:17,400
to other important people being liked is
9723
05:11:17,400 --> 05:11:19,440
a skill within itself I've just
9724
05:11:19,440 --> 05:11:20,820
basically explained to you how to be
9725
05:11:20,820 --> 05:11:22,560
liked by important people is as simple
9726
05:11:22,560 --> 05:11:25,320
as that you validate yourself while
9727
05:11:25,320 --> 05:11:27,360
allowing them to talk about themselves
9728
05:11:27,360 --> 05:11:29,520
because important people love themselves
9729
05:11:29,520 --> 05:11:31,798
because important people have spent a
9730
05:11:31,798 --> 05:11:34,980
lot of time and energy and effort in
9731
05:11:34,980 --> 05:11:36,298
building themselves
9732
05:11:36,298 --> 05:11:38,580
unless you're born in Portland which a
9733
05:11:38,580 --> 05:11:41,400
few are morons in general important
9734
05:11:41,400 --> 05:11:42,840
people have put in a lot of work to
9735
05:11:42,840 --> 05:11:44,400
becoming themselves and even if they
9736
05:11:44,400 --> 05:11:46,260
haven't put in a lot of work they think
9737
05:11:46,260 --> 05:11:47,520
they have
9738
05:11:47,520 --> 05:11:50,760
look at [ __ ] pitbull the worst singer
9739
05:11:50,760 --> 05:11:51,840
in the world
9740
05:11:51,840 --> 05:11:54,540
a loser basically but if you were to ask
9741
05:11:54,540 --> 05:11:56,760
him how he got there how did you become
9742
05:11:56,760 --> 05:11:58,320
a famous recording artist do you think
9743
05:11:58,320 --> 05:11:59,940
he'd say luck or would he say I just
9744
05:11:59,940 --> 05:12:01,440
really worked at it
9745
05:12:01,440 --> 05:12:03,660
people believe they work hard Everyone
9746
05:12:03,660 --> 05:12:05,820
likes to believe that their success is
9747
05:12:05,820 --> 05:12:07,920
down to work and nothing to do with luck
9748
05:12:07,920 --> 05:12:10,680
so everyone who's important believes
9749
05:12:10,680 --> 05:12:12,540
they're a hard worker so with this in
9750
05:12:12,540 --> 05:12:15,060
mind they are egotistical so you have to
9751
05:12:15,060 --> 05:12:17,100
stroke that ego because it's about a
9752
05:12:17,100 --> 05:12:19,020
long time building themselves up but you
9753
05:12:19,020 --> 05:12:20,100
have to do it in a way that you don't
9754
05:12:20,100 --> 05:12:22,740
embarrass yourself this is Nuance I
9755
05:12:22,740 --> 05:12:24,298
can't teach you this this is something
9756
05:12:24,298 --> 05:12:26,340
that's going to take some skill get the
9757
05:12:26,340 --> 05:12:27,480
body language course it's going to help
9758
05:12:27,480 --> 05:12:28,680
with it's going to certainly help you
9759
05:12:28,680 --> 05:12:30,360
but second is going to take some skill I
9760
05:12:30,360 --> 05:12:32,280
gave you one example earlier validate
9761
05:12:32,280 --> 05:12:34,080
yourself while also asking them
9762
05:12:34,080 --> 05:12:35,760
questions make sure you look like you're
9763
05:12:35,760 --> 05:12:37,440
paying attention try and be a little bit
9764
05:12:37,440 --> 05:12:39,060
witty a little bit funny
9765
05:12:39,060 --> 05:12:41,040
and just validate yourself and use your
9766
05:12:41,040 --> 05:12:42,840
own personality I can't give you my
9767
05:12:42,840 --> 05:12:44,878
personality when I met important people
9768
05:12:44,878 --> 05:12:46,560
the conversations were always
9769
05:12:46,560 --> 05:12:48,660
free-flowing they always went well I
9770
05:12:48,660 --> 05:12:50,280
always validated myself while allowing
9771
05:12:50,280 --> 05:12:51,718
them to talk and allowing them to
9772
05:12:51,718 --> 05:12:53,040
basically stroke their own ego because
9773
05:12:53,040 --> 05:12:54,600
they love themselves and there's nothing
9774
05:12:54,600 --> 05:12:56,100
wrong with them loving themselves
9775
05:12:56,100 --> 05:12:58,138
there's nothing wrong with it at all
9776
05:12:58,138 --> 05:13:00,000
two examples we use Music example I'm
9777
05:13:00,000 --> 05:13:02,660
living that important
9778
05:13:02,700 --> 05:13:04,020
anyway
9779
05:13:04,020 --> 05:13:06,420
um if you were to email me and say
9780
05:13:06,420 --> 05:13:08,820
Tate teach me how to punch
9781
05:13:08,820 --> 05:13:10,680
I'll give you and then I'm gonna fight
9782
05:13:10,680 --> 05:13:12,180
and I'll give you a percent I'm trying
9783
05:13:12,180 --> 05:13:13,920
to motivate me with money it's [ __ ]
9784
05:13:13,920 --> 05:13:15,420
if you were to mention me and say hey
9785
05:13:15,420 --> 05:13:17,160
I've watched your videos and I genuinely
9786
05:13:17,160 --> 05:13:18,780
believe you're the best Striker there's
9787
05:13:18,780 --> 05:13:20,820
ever been but then you have to validate
9788
05:13:20,820 --> 05:13:22,500
yourself they have to say I've been
9789
05:13:22,500 --> 05:13:24,540
training for 10 or 10 10 or 12 years and
9790
05:13:24,540 --> 05:13:26,040
I really enjoy it but there's some
9791
05:13:26,040 --> 05:13:28,020
things you do that I can't quite do I
9792
05:13:28,020 --> 05:13:29,160
was wondering if I could ask you a few
9793
05:13:29,160 --> 05:13:30,000
questions
9794
05:13:30,000 --> 05:13:32,580
that one validates you two strokes my
9795
05:13:32,580 --> 05:13:34,138
ego and you're far more likely to get
9796
05:13:34,138 --> 05:13:36,180
reply than if you just emailed me teach
9797
05:13:36,180 --> 05:13:37,798
me how to punch or teach me how to punch
9798
05:13:37,798 --> 05:13:38,820
for money
9799
05:13:38,820 --> 05:13:41,160
because it's making me like you this is
9800
05:13:41,160 --> 05:13:44,218
an important thing and thirdly is status
9801
05:13:44,218 --> 05:13:47,040
if in certain situations especially if
9802
05:13:47,040 --> 05:13:49,860
you're a cool enough dude as I am
9803
05:13:49,860 --> 05:13:52,138
people who may have high level
9804
05:13:52,138 --> 05:13:54,840
connections will feel more comfortable
9805
05:13:54,840 --> 05:13:57,180
or feel like it's going to raise their
9806
05:13:57,180 --> 05:13:59,878
status if they introduce you to their
9807
05:13:59,878 --> 05:14:01,500
connections and this is going to happen
9808
05:14:01,500 --> 05:14:03,360
as you elevate this is not going to
9809
05:14:03,360 --> 05:14:05,340
happen at the bottom but as you elevate
9810
05:14:05,340 --> 05:14:07,138
this is going to happen so with me for
9811
05:14:07,138 --> 05:14:09,000
example now because I'm I've got some
9812
05:14:09,000 --> 05:14:10,378
money because I've got some nice cars
9813
05:14:10,378 --> 05:14:11,580
because I'm always with hot girls
9814
05:14:11,580 --> 05:14:14,638
there's people who think ah this guy's
9815
05:14:14,638 --> 05:14:16,260
in town and I'm going to meet him at the
9816
05:14:16,260 --> 05:14:17,700
club you know I'm going to bring tape
9817
05:14:17,700 --> 05:14:20,218
because if I bring a tape I roll up in a
9818
05:14:20,218 --> 05:14:22,200
Lambo and there's gonna be 10 chicks
9819
05:14:22,200 --> 05:14:23,218
with us
9820
05:14:23,218 --> 05:14:25,200
so he's using me
9821
05:14:25,200 --> 05:14:27,298
for it to raise his status and just
9822
05:14:27,298 --> 05:14:29,340
going on his own and that's fine because
9823
05:14:29,340 --> 05:14:31,020
I'm using him to meet the dude
9824
05:14:31,020 --> 05:14:32,940
so if you become start becoming
9825
05:14:32,940 --> 05:14:34,440
important yourself you're going to have
9826
05:14:34,440 --> 05:14:36,298
people who use you to raise their status
9827
05:14:36,298 --> 05:14:37,740
and that happens
9828
05:14:37,740 --> 05:14:40,500
so those are the three motivators status
9829
05:14:40,500 --> 05:14:43,620
money and because people like you now
9830
05:14:43,620 --> 05:14:45,180
you're only going to be able to pull off
9831
05:14:45,180 --> 05:14:47,638
any of these three either status people
9832
05:14:47,638 --> 05:14:49,920
liking you or even money if you have
9833
05:14:49,920 --> 05:14:52,138
genuine relationships with people
9834
05:14:52,138 --> 05:14:55,020
the idea of walking through a business
9835
05:14:55,020 --> 05:14:56,160
conference
9836
05:14:56,160 --> 05:14:58,680
with your business card hi yeah Hi
9837
05:14:58,680 --> 05:15:01,020
here's my card I do I do accounting I'm
9838
05:15:01,020 --> 05:15:02,700
an accountant I'm the best accountant
9839
05:15:02,700 --> 05:15:04,378
I'm really good accountant I guarantee
9840
05:15:04,378 --> 05:15:05,458
I'll save you money yeah here's an
9841
05:15:05,458 --> 05:15:07,500
account hi I'm a really good account
9842
05:15:07,500 --> 05:15:10,320
yeah you might get some it's basically
9843
05:15:10,320 --> 05:15:12,298
cold calling you might get some calls
9844
05:15:12,298 --> 05:15:13,680
I'm not saying it's a completely
9845
05:15:13,680 --> 05:15:14,878
terrible idea it's better than doing
9846
05:15:14,878 --> 05:15:16,740
nothing but that's not nearly as
9847
05:15:16,740 --> 05:15:18,298
effective as building a genuine
9848
05:15:18,298 --> 05:15:19,378
relationship with somebody you already
9849
05:15:19,378 --> 05:15:21,060
know this you know that if you were to
9850
05:15:21,060 --> 05:15:22,440
go around that conference take a little
9851
05:15:22,440 --> 05:15:23,580
bit more time with each individual
9852
05:15:23,580 --> 05:15:25,500
person make them like you make them
9853
05:15:25,500 --> 05:15:28,378
remember you that's the key to it and
9854
05:15:28,378 --> 05:15:30,298
once you have that connection
9855
05:15:30,298 --> 05:15:32,280
once you have that connection then you
9856
05:15:32,280 --> 05:15:33,840
have to nurture it look at email
9857
05:15:33,840 --> 05:15:35,400
marketing email marketing does this
9858
05:15:35,400 --> 05:15:36,420
perfectly
9859
05:15:36,420 --> 05:15:38,100
you sign up to an email list to try and
9860
05:15:38,100 --> 05:15:39,900
sell you something you ignore it another
9861
05:15:39,900 --> 05:15:42,060
email to try and sell you something you
9862
05:15:42,060 --> 05:15:43,440
ignore it if they keep trying to sell
9863
05:15:43,440 --> 05:15:45,718
you things every day you unsubscribe if
9864
05:15:45,718 --> 05:15:47,638
they tell you things of value a long
9865
05:15:47,638 --> 05:15:49,200
email a story something that made you
9866
05:15:49,200 --> 05:15:51,060
laugh something that's funny etc etc
9867
05:15:51,060 --> 05:15:53,280
going on and on and then eventually try
9868
05:15:53,280 --> 05:15:54,360
and sell you something again you might
9869
05:15:54,360 --> 05:15:56,400
buy it that's nurturing a relationship
9870
05:15:56,400 --> 05:15:57,780
and it's exactly the same with
9871
05:15:57,780 --> 05:15:59,878
networking so if I I have some very
9872
05:15:59,878 --> 05:16:02,040
important friends and I'll message them
9873
05:16:02,040 --> 05:16:03,660
now and again these are not I say
9874
05:16:03,660 --> 05:16:05,700
friends is the wrong word I know some
9875
05:16:05,700 --> 05:16:06,958
important people
9876
05:16:06,958 --> 05:16:08,700
and I may not speak to them for two or
9877
05:16:08,700 --> 05:16:10,680
three months at a time but I will
9878
05:16:10,680 --> 05:16:12,240
consciously I have a list of people I
9879
05:16:12,240 --> 05:16:14,160
know who are important a list of people
9880
05:16:14,160 --> 05:16:16,080
I know who are high value and I'll
9881
05:16:16,080 --> 05:16:17,820
consciously contact them with things I
9882
05:16:17,820 --> 05:16:19,860
really find irrelevant so let's I'll
9883
05:16:19,860 --> 05:16:21,480
give you I'm not gonna
9884
05:16:21,480 --> 05:16:23,160
like we said earlier in the course most
9885
05:16:23,160 --> 05:16:24,480
people don't give away everyone they
9886
05:16:24,480 --> 05:16:26,040
know I've only told you about the people
9887
05:16:26,040 --> 05:16:27,120
I have pictures with there's a whole
9888
05:16:27,120 --> 05:16:28,200
bunch of other people I know I'm not
9889
05:16:28,200 --> 05:16:29,760
going to tell you about but let me give
9890
05:16:29,760 --> 05:16:32,280
you an example let's say I know somebody
9891
05:16:32,280 --> 05:16:34,500
who's a multi-millionaire in England and
9892
05:16:34,500 --> 05:16:36,060
they do business in Europe
9893
05:16:36,060 --> 05:16:39,180
so I will literally each month go
9894
05:16:39,180 --> 05:16:41,340
through my list of people who I know are
9895
05:16:41,340 --> 05:16:43,260
high value and I want to stay in touch
9896
05:16:43,260 --> 05:16:45,060
with and I'll see that person and I'll
9897
05:16:45,060 --> 05:16:46,680
I'll Google up something about brexit
9898
05:16:46,680 --> 05:16:48,060
exports
9899
05:16:48,060 --> 05:16:49,798
and I'll email him the link and say Hey
9900
05:16:49,798 --> 05:16:50,820
you might find this interesting don't
9901
05:16:50,820 --> 05:16:52,920
know this affects you uh I'll be back in
9902
05:16:52,920 --> 05:16:54,360
in the country in a few weeks maybe we
9903
05:16:54,360 --> 05:16:55,500
should catch up back
9904
05:16:55,500 --> 05:16:57,958
so I provided value it's not just me
9905
05:16:57,958 --> 05:16:59,280
trying to get something from him not
9906
05:16:59,280 --> 05:17:01,320
just hey can we have a coffee I provided
9907
05:17:01,320 --> 05:17:02,940
him some value I sent him a link he's
9908
05:17:02,940 --> 05:17:04,020
probably already seen the link he
9909
05:17:04,020 --> 05:17:05,100
probably doesn't care about the link but
9910
05:17:05,100 --> 05:17:07,080
it's the gesture oh something about
9911
05:17:07,080 --> 05:17:08,700
breaks out maybe that maybe that does
9912
05:17:08,700 --> 05:17:10,500
affect it or even if it doesn't affect
9913
05:17:10,500 --> 05:17:12,420
them at all he'll reply ah no we've got
9914
05:17:12,420 --> 05:17:13,798
all that handled actually thanks yeah
9915
05:17:13,798 --> 05:17:15,780
Andrew be good to see you that's a
9916
05:17:15,780 --> 05:17:17,280
perfect example of how I'm adding value
9917
05:17:17,280 --> 05:17:19,138
it's not just a matter of hey can I talk
9918
05:17:19,138 --> 05:17:20,700
to you hey can I talk to you hey can I
9919
05:17:20,700 --> 05:17:22,378
talk to you no one wants that because if
9920
05:17:22,378 --> 05:17:23,820
you keep doing that hey can I talk to
9921
05:17:23,820 --> 05:17:25,680
you you're not adding any value at any
9922
05:17:25,680 --> 05:17:28,138
point you become annoying important
9923
05:17:28,138 --> 05:17:30,180
people are busy so you have to add some
9924
05:17:30,180 --> 05:17:31,740
value in your correspondence with them
9925
05:17:31,740 --> 05:17:34,920
they're they're extremely busy people so
9926
05:17:34,920 --> 05:17:36,420
that little that's a little example of
9927
05:17:36,420 --> 05:17:38,160
what you'll do so I guarantee you
9928
05:17:38,160 --> 05:17:39,958
sitting here right now
9929
05:17:39,958 --> 05:17:41,580
if I were to tell you to make a list of
9930
05:17:41,580 --> 05:17:43,620
the five richest people you know you
9931
05:17:43,620 --> 05:17:45,180
probably know five people who are quite
9932
05:17:45,180 --> 05:17:46,860
well off you probably know a few
9933
05:17:46,860 --> 05:17:48,060
millionaires
9934
05:17:48,060 --> 05:17:49,980
but how often do you interact with them
9935
05:17:49,980 --> 05:17:51,780
and when you interact with them do you
9936
05:17:51,780 --> 05:17:53,218
provide them any value in your
9937
05:17:53,218 --> 05:17:55,260
interactions because if you start to do
9938
05:17:55,260 --> 05:17:56,878
that they're going to start to like you
9939
05:17:56,878 --> 05:17:58,200
more and they're certainly going to
9940
05:17:58,200 --> 05:17:59,878
start to trust you more and it's going
9941
05:17:59,878 --> 05:18:02,100
to display competence and let's say
9942
05:18:02,100 --> 05:18:04,440
let's take a completely random example
9943
05:18:04,440 --> 05:18:06,600
let's say you know a banker who has six
9944
05:18:06,600 --> 05:18:08,638
or seven bakery shops and he had he's
9945
05:18:08,638 --> 05:18:10,378
making some good money it's a six seven
9946
05:18:10,378 --> 05:18:12,180
bakery shops whatever and you send an
9947
05:18:12,180 --> 05:18:15,480
article on the the cake that one cake of
9948
05:18:15,480 --> 05:18:16,798
the year there's all this shits off the
9949
05:18:16,798 --> 05:18:18,420
top of my head say hey man you think you
9950
05:18:18,420 --> 05:18:20,218
could hey I just saw this do you think
9951
05:18:20,218 --> 05:18:21,298
you could even bake something like this
9952
05:18:21,298 --> 05:18:22,500
you should go have one cake of the year
9953
05:18:22,500 --> 05:18:23,878
it was really good promotion for that
9954
05:18:23,878 --> 05:18:25,820
maybe you should do something like this
9955
05:18:25,820 --> 05:18:27,780
and just send it to them straight away
9956
05:18:27,780 --> 05:18:30,360
when they reply to you oh yeah and
9957
05:18:30,360 --> 05:18:31,500
they're gonna sit there and think oh
9958
05:18:31,500 --> 05:18:33,298
this dude's thinking about producing
9959
05:18:33,298 --> 05:18:34,798
business for me this the guys thinking
9960
05:18:34,798 --> 05:18:36,780
about raising my profile he's asking
9961
05:18:36,780 --> 05:18:38,638
questions he's doing things he's giving
9962
05:18:38,638 --> 05:18:40,080
me some value he's giving me some ideas
9963
05:18:40,080 --> 05:18:42,900
so then let's say that Bakery Company
9964
05:18:42,900 --> 05:18:44,340
decides that he wants to up its
9965
05:18:44,340 --> 05:18:45,298
marketing
9966
05:18:45,298 --> 05:18:47,940
you're gonna cross their mind oh that
9967
05:18:47,940 --> 05:18:49,500
dude he emailed me about replicating
9968
05:18:49,500 --> 05:18:50,940
cake of the year or trying to enter a
9969
05:18:50,940 --> 05:18:52,740
case of the year that guy yeah we want a
9970
05:18:52,740 --> 05:18:54,180
marketing strategy and he's been
9971
05:18:54,180 --> 05:18:56,218
emailing me on and off every couple of
9972
05:18:56,218 --> 05:18:58,020
months not annoying me every couple of
9973
05:18:58,020 --> 05:19:00,000
months for like six seven months now he
9974
05:19:00,000 --> 05:19:01,680
had a few good ideas let's bring him in
9975
05:19:01,680 --> 05:19:04,500
for a meeting bam so you've gone from
9976
05:19:04,500 --> 05:19:06,900
knowing a baker to now going and sitting
9977
05:19:06,900 --> 05:19:09,180
in a meeting with a baker and that Baker
9978
05:19:09,180 --> 05:19:10,680
is looking to make more money and you
9979
05:19:10,680 --> 05:19:12,840
can sit there and go I can guarantee you
9980
05:19:12,840 --> 05:19:15,120
I'll double your money I guarantee you
9981
05:19:15,120 --> 05:19:17,580
I'll double your money as long as I get
9982
05:19:17,580 --> 05:19:20,700
x amount of money or I have or I get I
9983
05:19:20,700 --> 05:19:22,320
get a company car or I get this percent
9984
05:19:22,320 --> 05:19:24,840
whatever whatever I'm guaranteeing you I
9985
05:19:24,840 --> 05:19:26,218
will double your money that's how
9986
05:19:26,218 --> 05:19:27,780
networking is done it's not about
9987
05:19:27,780 --> 05:19:29,940
knowing the baker it's about building a
9988
05:19:29,940 --> 05:19:32,520
relationship with that Baker of value so
9989
05:19:32,520 --> 05:19:34,378
that they trust you and that they like
9990
05:19:34,378 --> 05:19:35,580
you and that you prove yourself
9991
05:19:35,580 --> 05:19:37,740
competent this is the same with
9992
05:19:37,740 --> 05:19:39,540
everything most people go through life
9993
05:19:39,540 --> 05:19:42,120
never proving themselves competent at
9994
05:19:42,120 --> 05:19:43,080
anything
9995
05:19:43,080 --> 05:19:45,360
and I mean this when I meet people I'm
9996
05:19:45,360 --> 05:19:46,440
never late
9997
05:19:46,440 --> 05:19:48,780
I'm early of course you have to be early
9998
05:19:48,780 --> 05:19:50,638
I make sure I pay like I've said before
9999
05:19:50,638 --> 05:19:52,500
I make sure I pay for the bill I make
10000
05:19:52,500 --> 05:19:54,480
sure I don't look tired I make sure I
10001
05:19:54,480 --> 05:19:56,280
never complain about my problems hey
10002
05:19:56,280 --> 05:19:58,798
take how are you yeah I'm really good oh
10003
05:19:58,798 --> 05:20:01,440
I'm fine yeah the traffic was a mess
10004
05:20:01,440 --> 05:20:04,020
dude doesn't give a [ __ ] God doesn't
10005
05:20:04,020 --> 05:20:06,660
care oh I'm tired
10006
05:20:06,660 --> 05:20:08,940
I was out last night yeah I'm really
10007
05:20:08,940 --> 05:20:12,180
good because people want positivity in
10008
05:20:12,180 --> 05:20:13,860
their lives
10009
05:20:13,860 --> 05:20:15,900
if you're really good they want to be
10010
05:20:15,900 --> 05:20:17,100
really good why are you really good
10011
05:20:17,100 --> 05:20:18,540
maybe they want to know more about you
10012
05:20:18,540 --> 05:20:19,798
this person is really good well I want
10013
05:20:19,798 --> 05:20:21,420
to be really good what the secret what
10014
05:20:21,420 --> 05:20:22,500
they're so good for
10015
05:20:22,500 --> 05:20:24,740
you have to you have to display
10016
05:20:24,740 --> 05:20:27,000
competence and you have to display the
10017
05:20:27,000 --> 05:20:28,560
attributes that people want to connect
10018
05:20:28,560 --> 05:20:30,840
with and these are always positive
10019
05:20:30,840 --> 05:20:32,700
attributes you know what they are not
10020
05:20:32,700 --> 05:20:34,680
just about being rich it's about being a
10021
05:20:34,680 --> 05:20:36,840
positive person living a happy life
10022
05:20:36,840 --> 05:20:38,940
these are things that have to appear
10023
05:20:38,940 --> 05:20:41,100
effortless when you go and you sit down
10024
05:20:41,100 --> 05:20:42,298
at a table and you're happy and you're
10025
05:20:42,298 --> 05:20:44,638
smiling you're positive and you have
10026
05:20:44,638 --> 05:20:48,600
this Aura of competence about you you're
10027
05:20:48,600 --> 05:20:49,620
gonna have people who want to do
10028
05:20:49,620 --> 05:20:51,298
business with you and the baker example
10029
05:20:51,298 --> 05:20:52,920
is a perfect example because I guarantee
10030
05:20:52,920 --> 05:20:55,620
you all know people right now let's say
10031
05:20:55,620 --> 05:20:57,000
you work a normal job
10032
05:20:57,000 --> 05:20:59,700
you work a normal job let's say you're a
10033
05:20:59,700 --> 05:21:01,378
[ __ ] truck driver
10034
05:21:01,378 --> 05:21:03,540
I you know your boss you know the boss
10035
05:21:03,540 --> 05:21:05,040
of the trucking company there's nothing
10036
05:21:05,040 --> 05:21:06,840
he's he's worth a shitloads of money
10037
05:21:06,840 --> 05:21:09,420
what's stopping you googling up a whole
10038
05:21:09,420 --> 05:21:10,980
bunch of stuff about Trucking or
10039
05:21:10,980 --> 05:21:12,600
Googling up the biggest trucking
10040
05:21:12,600 --> 05:21:13,860
companies in the world how they
10041
05:21:13,860 --> 05:21:16,020
advertise or Googling what they do and
10042
05:21:16,020 --> 05:21:17,280
just emailing them saying hey he was
10043
05:21:17,280 --> 05:21:18,360
reading this last night you might find
10044
05:21:18,360 --> 05:21:20,040
this interesting and building a closer
10045
05:21:20,040 --> 05:21:21,600
relationship with your boss
10046
05:21:21,600 --> 05:21:24,180
or the richest person you know nothing's
10047
05:21:24,180 --> 05:21:25,378
stopping you dude
10048
05:21:25,378 --> 05:21:28,080
you need to build value they need to
10049
05:21:28,080 --> 05:21:30,298
believe you're competent I need to learn
10050
05:21:30,298 --> 05:21:31,440
to trust you
10051
05:21:31,440 --> 05:21:33,900
so action list make a list of the most
10052
05:21:33,900 --> 05:21:35,700
important people or most rich people you
10053
05:21:35,700 --> 05:21:36,420
know
10054
05:21:36,420 --> 05:21:38,040
start finding a way to provide them
10055
05:21:38,040 --> 05:21:40,440
value without annoying them get some
10056
05:21:40,440 --> 05:21:42,480
money together so that you can be at the
10057
05:21:42,480 --> 05:21:44,280
right place at the right time that's the
10058
05:21:44,280 --> 05:21:45,420
beginning
10059
05:21:45,420 --> 05:21:48,240
next A lot of people are only interested
10060
05:21:48,240 --> 05:21:50,218
in networking up
10061
05:21:50,218 --> 05:21:52,200
whereas you can do a lot of networking
10062
05:21:52,200 --> 05:21:54,480
down there's a whole bunch of people out
10063
05:21:54,480 --> 05:21:56,040
there looking for a chance and if you
10064
05:21:56,040 --> 05:21:58,378
network that way correctly you can also
10065
05:21:58,378 --> 05:22:00,600
do very very well I've said this loads
10066
05:22:00,600 --> 05:22:01,798
of times people say to me how do I get
10067
05:22:01,798 --> 05:22:03,540
rich and I say find someone who will pay
10068
05:22:03,540 --> 05:22:05,400
you ten dollars to do a job
10069
05:22:05,400 --> 05:22:07,020
and find someone who do it for nine
10070
05:22:07,020 --> 05:22:08,040
dollars
10071
05:22:08,040 --> 05:22:11,520
because that way you de-link your time
10072
05:22:11,520 --> 05:22:13,680
to your money time is finite you only
10073
05:22:13,680 --> 05:22:15,840
have certain amount of hours in the day
10074
05:22:15,840 --> 05:22:19,138
money is is infinite effectively so if
10075
05:22:19,138 --> 05:22:21,060
you find a way to make money without it
10076
05:22:21,060 --> 05:22:23,458
requiring your time then you can scale
10077
05:22:23,458 --> 05:22:25,560
it infinitely there's no reason why you
10078
05:22:25,560 --> 05:22:28,020
can't scale it infinitely so if you know
10079
05:22:28,020 --> 05:22:29,160
a whole bunch of people who are looking
10080
05:22:29,160 --> 05:22:30,840
for money or looking for a job or
10081
05:22:30,840 --> 05:22:32,580
looking for a break what you have to do
10082
05:22:32,580 --> 05:22:33,780
is you have to vet them and make sure
10083
05:22:33,780 --> 05:22:35,520
they're competent and that's what I mean
10084
05:22:35,520 --> 05:22:37,560
by networking down so everything I've
10085
05:22:37,560 --> 05:22:39,180
just told you about networking up you
10086
05:22:39,180 --> 05:22:40,560
have to reverse and do it the other way
10087
05:22:40,560 --> 05:22:41,400
around
10088
05:22:41,400 --> 05:22:43,260
so you may have a younger brother you
10089
05:22:43,260 --> 05:22:45,298
may have some kids in college you may
10090
05:22:45,298 --> 05:22:46,740
know this guy you may know a dude who
10091
05:22:46,740 --> 05:22:48,298
works in [ __ ]
10092
05:22:48,298 --> 05:22:49,620
I was about to say Blockbusters
10093
05:22:49,620 --> 05:22:51,240
Blockbusters isn't even normal open for
10094
05:22:51,240 --> 05:22:51,958
years
10095
05:22:51,958 --> 05:22:53,878
Blockbusters he's the only guy storage
10096
05:22:53,878 --> 05:22:56,160
Blockbuster standing there on his own
10097
05:22:56,160 --> 05:22:57,840
working Blockbusters and he wants a
10098
05:22:57,840 --> 05:22:58,980
chance
10099
05:22:58,980 --> 05:23:00,298
some member goes to you let's say you're
10100
05:23:00,298 --> 05:23:01,798
driving a half nice car or something
10101
05:23:01,798 --> 05:23:02,940
they say oh they know you make money
10102
05:23:02,940 --> 05:23:04,798
online well how do you make money online
10103
05:23:04,798 --> 05:23:06,540
say oh yeah well you know I've got a few
10104
05:23:06,540 --> 05:23:07,980
things I've got this business going
10105
05:23:07,980 --> 05:23:09,718
maybe we could work together sometime
10106
05:23:09,718 --> 05:23:11,878
but and then you have to you have to get
10107
05:23:11,878 --> 05:23:14,280
them to validate themselves you'd say
10108
05:23:14,280 --> 05:23:15,240
yeah maybe I might work together
10109
05:23:15,240 --> 05:23:17,100
sometime have you heard about this have
10110
05:23:17,100 --> 05:23:18,660
you heard about this course or you heard
10111
05:23:18,660 --> 05:23:20,040
about this kind of marketing or have you
10112
05:23:20,040 --> 05:23:21,600
you're looking to drop shipping yeah
10113
05:23:21,600 --> 05:23:23,940
send me an email about it and see how
10114
05:23:23,940 --> 05:23:26,280
how much they apply themselves and what
10115
05:23:26,280 --> 05:23:29,280
you're going to find out is maybe nine
10116
05:23:29,280 --> 05:23:30,958
out of ten are time wasters they're
10117
05:23:30,958 --> 05:23:32,520
gonna have the one guy who really wants
10118
05:23:32,520 --> 05:23:34,500
it and now you have someone who's
10119
05:23:34,500 --> 05:23:36,660
prepared to basically work for free in
10120
05:23:36,660 --> 05:23:39,600
many cases work for free in many cases
10121
05:23:39,600 --> 05:23:41,760
just to have a chance at life and that's
10122
05:23:41,760 --> 05:23:42,958
the kind of thing that can be valuable
10123
05:23:42,958 --> 05:23:44,940
networking up is fantastic but
10124
05:23:44,940 --> 05:23:46,980
networking down is just as good
10125
05:23:46,980 --> 05:23:49,860
I had a I knew a guy who said you need
10126
05:23:49,860 --> 05:23:51,120
friends in high places and you need
10127
05:23:51,120 --> 05:23:52,740
Friends in Low Places and he was
10128
05:23:52,740 --> 05:23:54,420
absolutely correct we could go through
10129
05:23:54,420 --> 05:23:55,980
in his town we go through any McDonald's
10130
05:23:55,980 --> 05:23:58,020
drive-through is free go to any liquor
10131
05:23:58,020 --> 05:23:59,820
store the Vodka was free he knew
10132
05:23:59,820 --> 05:24:02,160
everyone at the Low Places and he knew
10133
05:24:02,160 --> 05:24:04,560
the mayor of the town so having people
10134
05:24:04,560 --> 05:24:06,360
in Low Places it's just as important as
10135
05:24:06,360 --> 05:24:08,458
high places so you're sitting here
10136
05:24:08,458 --> 05:24:09,600
trying to make a list of all the people
10137
05:24:09,600 --> 05:24:11,400
you know who are important you now have
10138
05:24:11,400 --> 05:24:12,780
an action list you have to provide those
10139
05:24:12,780 --> 05:24:15,120
guys value fine but you also have a
10140
05:24:15,120 --> 05:24:16,200
whole bunch of people looking for a
10141
05:24:16,200 --> 05:24:18,120
chance and if you're a higher value than
10142
05:24:18,120 --> 05:24:20,760
them you're the value now you're the
10143
05:24:20,760 --> 05:24:22,680
prize you gotta find a way to motivate
10144
05:24:22,680 --> 05:24:24,600
them to work for you and this is one of
10145
05:24:24,600 --> 05:24:25,920
the biggest keys to networking because
10146
05:24:25,920 --> 05:24:27,718
if you do this effectively then you're
10147
05:24:27,718 --> 05:24:29,580
going to be more and more you're going
10148
05:24:29,580 --> 05:24:31,138
to push yourself higher up the ladder
10149
05:24:31,138 --> 05:24:32,760
you can find a whole bunch of college
10150
05:24:32,760 --> 05:24:35,340
students let's say you have
10151
05:24:35,340 --> 05:24:36,840
I'll give an example you can go on
10152
05:24:36,840 --> 05:24:38,520
Fiverr right now
10153
05:24:38,520 --> 05:24:40,378
you could you could invent a graphic
10154
05:24:40,378 --> 05:24:42,420
design company I own a graphic design
10155
05:24:42,420 --> 05:24:44,760
company you can make a website you can
10156
05:24:44,760 --> 05:24:46,020
lie on the website and say you turn over
10157
05:24:46,020 --> 05:24:48,180
millions of dollars you can go to a
10158
05:24:48,180 --> 05:24:50,458
graphic design college or know some kids
10159
05:24:50,458 --> 05:24:52,260
to do graphic design you can go to them
10160
05:24:52,260 --> 05:24:53,100
and say you're going to give them all
10161
05:24:53,100 --> 05:24:54,718
interviews they've designed three logos
10162
05:24:54,718 --> 05:24:56,458
you can go on Fiverr and say Your Design
10163
05:24:56,458 --> 05:24:58,560
logos for 50 bucks each and when people
10164
05:24:58,560 --> 05:25:00,120
pay you 50 bucks you'll get them to do
10165
05:25:00,120 --> 05:25:01,378
it for free and you keep the money
10166
05:25:01,378 --> 05:25:03,718
that's just a very basic idea but it's a
10167
05:25:03,718 --> 05:25:04,798
very basic example of how you can
10168
05:25:04,798 --> 05:25:07,860
Network lower by just fainting when I
10169
05:25:07,860 --> 05:25:09,000
say failing company this is not even
10170
05:25:09,000 --> 05:25:10,260
fainting competence you're competent
10171
05:25:10,260 --> 05:25:11,280
enough to make a website you're
10172
05:25:11,280 --> 05:25:12,660
competent enough to get the jobs on fire
10173
05:25:12,660 --> 05:25:15,540
so by just being competent and and just
10174
05:25:15,540 --> 05:25:17,700
coming across as a more higher value
10175
05:25:17,700 --> 05:25:20,100
person you can Network down and get
10176
05:25:20,100 --> 05:25:21,958
people lower than you to do work for you
10177
05:25:21,958 --> 05:25:23,458
and that's another thing that a lot of
10178
05:25:23,458 --> 05:25:25,200
people don't do and there's absolutely
10179
05:25:25,200 --> 05:25:27,000
nothing wrong with that because if the
10180
05:25:27,000 --> 05:25:28,860
people below you prove themselves to be
10181
05:25:28,860 --> 05:25:30,240
especially competent and prove
10182
05:25:30,240 --> 05:25:31,920
themselves doing a very good job then
10183
05:25:31,920 --> 05:25:33,480
you're going to elevate them if you have
10184
05:25:33,480 --> 05:25:35,580
one guy who does fantastic logos he does
10185
05:25:35,580 --> 05:25:36,900
them in 20 minutes he gets them straight
10186
05:25:36,900 --> 05:25:39,240
across you and he's ready to work like a
10187
05:25:39,240 --> 05:25:40,620
dog well then you're gonna have a real
10188
05:25:40,620 --> 05:25:41,638
company aren't you because you're gonna
10189
05:25:41,638 --> 05:25:43,920
hire say okay you're the guy I'm gonna
10190
05:25:43,920 --> 05:25:45,120
use you all the time I'm gonna put more
10191
05:25:45,120 --> 05:25:46,500
ads on Fiverr and get more jobs you're
10192
05:25:46,500 --> 05:25:47,820
going to do them all I'll give you x
10193
05:25:47,820 --> 05:25:49,378
amount of money per logo I'll keep the
10194
05:25:49,378 --> 05:25:52,260
rest back done so networking down is a
10195
05:25:52,260 --> 05:25:53,520
fantastic thing it doesn't make you a
10196
05:25:53,520 --> 05:25:54,780
bad person because if you find someone
10197
05:25:54,780 --> 05:25:55,980
of competence you're going to elevate
10198
05:25:55,980 --> 05:25:58,500
them and that and that elevates you you
10199
05:25:58,500 --> 05:26:00,360
now own a graphic design company you've
10200
05:26:00,360 --> 05:26:02,400
known [ __ ] no now you're on a graphic
10201
05:26:02,400 --> 05:26:04,860
design company now you can be emailing
10202
05:26:04,860 --> 05:26:06,660
all the five important people I told you
10203
05:26:06,660 --> 05:26:08,820
on your list the five important ones and
10204
05:26:08,820 --> 05:26:10,920
you can be saying hey uh just looked at
10205
05:26:10,920 --> 05:26:12,298
your logo yeah it's really good but I've
10206
05:26:12,298 --> 05:26:14,040
got this graphic design company and I
10207
05:26:14,040 --> 05:26:16,080
just had my guys have a look here's a
10208
05:26:16,080 --> 05:26:17,458
few proofs I don't know if you'd be
10209
05:26:17,458 --> 05:26:19,138
interested something to take to think
10210
05:26:19,138 --> 05:26:20,458
about let's catch up soon in the back
10211
05:26:20,458 --> 05:26:22,500
set a couple free logos to an important
10212
05:26:22,500 --> 05:26:24,600
person let them sit there and go hmm
10213
05:26:24,600 --> 05:26:26,340
that's interesting so you've networked
10214
05:26:26,340 --> 05:26:27,900
down and now you're providing value to
10215
05:26:27,900 --> 05:26:30,120
people hiring you the whole thing about
10216
05:26:30,120 --> 05:26:32,700
networking is providing value walking
10217
05:26:32,700 --> 05:26:34,320
around in a suit and handing out your
10218
05:26:34,320 --> 05:26:36,240
business card and saying your name isn't
10219
05:26:36,240 --> 05:26:38,400
providing value to anybody
10220
05:26:38,400 --> 05:26:40,620
you need to provide value and if you
10221
05:26:40,620 --> 05:26:42,240
can't do that you need to at least
10222
05:26:42,240 --> 05:26:44,218
promise to provide value and if you
10223
05:26:44,218 --> 05:26:46,020
promise to provide value it has to be a
10224
05:26:46,020 --> 05:26:48,298
genuine genuine promise because the
10225
05:26:48,298 --> 05:26:49,740
world's full of promises nowadays and
10226
05:26:49,740 --> 05:26:51,900
the world's full of lies so if I was an
10227
05:26:51,900 --> 05:26:53,040
accountant
10228
05:26:53,040 --> 05:26:54,360
and I was doing a networking event
10229
05:26:54,360 --> 05:26:56,820
everyone I introduce myself to I would
10230
05:26:56,820 --> 05:26:58,920
give them some ridiculous guarantee I'd
10231
05:26:58,920 --> 05:27:01,020
say how high yeah I'm I'm the accountant
10232
05:27:01,020 --> 05:27:04,080
that that guarantees a lower tax bill
10233
05:27:04,080 --> 05:27:06,060
guarantees yeah I guarantee a lower tax
10234
05:27:06,060 --> 05:27:08,458
bill if you if there's no I've never had
10235
05:27:08,458 --> 05:27:10,320
a single client who didn't lower the
10236
05:27:10,320 --> 05:27:13,020
taxes with me ever
10237
05:27:13,020 --> 05:27:15,360
and it would be so Brash and sort of the
10238
05:27:15,360 --> 05:27:17,340
top of the sit and go really really
10239
05:27:17,340 --> 05:27:18,660
doesn't matter what company you're in
10240
05:27:18,660 --> 05:27:20,218
doesn't matter who you use doesn't
10241
05:27:20,218 --> 05:27:22,200
matter if you use PWC or Deloitte or the
10242
05:27:22,200 --> 05:27:24,360
best accounts in the world I guarantee
10243
05:27:24,360 --> 05:27:27,240
you with one thousand percent certainty
10244
05:27:27,240 --> 05:27:30,840
any of my clients I lower their tax bill
10245
05:27:30,840 --> 05:27:32,760
now that person will probably talk to
10246
05:27:32,760 --> 05:27:34,200
you because you're giving you you
10247
05:27:34,200 --> 05:27:35,940
haven't provided value but you've
10248
05:27:35,940 --> 05:27:38,400
assured them you've promised insane
10249
05:27:38,400 --> 05:27:40,798
value now you have to predicament now
10250
05:27:40,798 --> 05:27:43,080
you have to fulfill it but a verbal
10251
05:27:43,080 --> 05:27:45,298
contract isn't a contract if if this
10252
05:27:45,298 --> 05:27:46,980
person emails you and goes okay lower my
10253
05:27:46,980 --> 05:27:48,360
tax bill and you look through his stuff
10254
05:27:48,360 --> 05:27:51,060
and you work out you can you say oh okay
10255
05:27:51,060 --> 05:27:52,620
um uh we're really busy at the moment
10256
05:27:52,620 --> 05:27:54,000
we'll be back in touch in a couple weeks
10257
05:27:54,000 --> 05:27:55,200
I'm sure we can work together and you
10258
05:27:55,200 --> 05:27:56,820
just never email them again he'll forget
10259
05:27:56,820 --> 05:27:58,798
he ain't gonna go he's gonna go to court
10260
05:27:58,798 --> 05:28:01,260
and say I met this guy in a pub this guy
10261
05:28:01,260 --> 05:28:02,700
in a bar who promised to lower my tax
10262
05:28:02,700 --> 05:28:04,740
bill and he didn't email me back and sue
10263
05:28:04,740 --> 05:28:06,298
you he's gonna take what's gonna happen
10264
05:28:06,298 --> 05:28:08,700
nothing but at least you had the chance
10265
05:28:08,700 --> 05:28:11,520
maybe you can lower his tax bill now
10266
05:28:11,520 --> 05:28:12,900
you've got yourself a client
10267
05:28:12,900 --> 05:28:14,820
so you need to be providing value but if
10268
05:28:14,820 --> 05:28:16,080
you're going to promise value which is
10269
05:28:16,080 --> 05:28:17,580
what a lot of people try and do but
10270
05:28:17,580 --> 05:28:19,860
people do it like [ __ ] people walk
10271
05:28:19,860 --> 05:28:22,020
around oh hi yeah hi I'm an accountant
10272
05:28:22,020 --> 05:28:23,878
yeah I'm certified accountant yeah I've
10273
05:28:23,878 --> 05:28:25,680
got some big clients and yeah I'm sure
10274
05:28:25,680 --> 05:28:27,000
we could take a look there might be
10275
05:28:27,000 --> 05:28:28,740
something we can do
10276
05:28:28,740 --> 05:28:30,718
what does that mean I've already got an
10277
05:28:30,718 --> 05:28:32,040
account you're coming up to me saying
10278
05:28:32,040 --> 05:28:33,060
you could take a look there might be
10279
05:28:33,060 --> 05:28:34,138
something you could do that sounds like
10280
05:28:34,138 --> 05:28:35,520
it's going to take time I have to get
10281
05:28:35,520 --> 05:28:37,798
all my records all my files send them
10282
05:28:37,798 --> 05:28:40,200
across to you maybe we can do something
10283
05:28:40,200 --> 05:28:41,940
I've already got an accountant who I've
10284
05:28:41,940 --> 05:28:43,260
been with for five years it does a
10285
05:28:43,260 --> 05:28:45,240
perfectly fine job and now you want to
10286
05:28:45,240 --> 05:28:46,860
[ __ ] around me I'm not going to bother
10287
05:28:46,860 --> 05:28:48,180
if you would have come up to me and said
10288
05:28:48,180 --> 05:28:51,180
I guarantee you Andrew you're paying too
10289
05:28:51,180 --> 05:28:53,400
much tax you're getting ripped off with
10290
05:28:53,400 --> 05:28:55,798
me I guarantee you I'll lower it by
10291
05:28:55,798 --> 05:28:58,260
minimum 10 minimum
10292
05:28:58,260 --> 05:29:01,440
now I'm going to talk to you
10293
05:29:01,440 --> 05:29:03,000
that's how networking started I'm
10294
05:29:03,000 --> 05:29:04,320
certainly going to talk to you now if I
10295
05:29:04,320 --> 05:29:05,580
send you all my files and you look
10296
05:29:05,580 --> 05:29:07,080
through all and you realize that my
10297
05:29:07,080 --> 05:29:09,180
accountant is actually fantastic and you
10298
05:29:09,180 --> 05:29:11,458
can't lower my tax bill at all then you
10299
05:29:11,458 --> 05:29:13,020
just black it off black is an English
10300
05:29:13,020 --> 05:29:14,878
word for you Americans black means just
10301
05:29:14,878 --> 05:29:17,160
like it's blank it off okay yeah
10302
05:29:17,160 --> 05:29:19,500
fantastic having a look here uh I'll be
10303
05:29:19,500 --> 05:29:21,718
I'll be back in touch in a few weeks
10304
05:29:21,718 --> 05:29:23,760
if and you know what's going to happen
10305
05:29:23,760 --> 05:29:25,440
because I'm a busy guy and I've already
10306
05:29:25,440 --> 05:29:26,820
got an accountant and I've probably
10307
05:29:26,820 --> 05:29:28,138
forgot about it in a few weeks I'm not
10308
05:29:28,138 --> 05:29:29,878
even gonna chase you and if I do chase
10309
05:29:29,878 --> 05:29:31,500
you hey if there's anything we can do
10310
05:29:31,500 --> 05:29:33,180
yeah but we'll have to do it at the
10311
05:29:33,180 --> 05:29:34,200
beginning of the next financial Year
10312
05:29:34,200 --> 05:29:35,400
I'll be in touch a couple weeks in
10313
05:29:35,400 --> 05:29:36,840
advance take care
10314
05:29:36,840 --> 05:29:40,080
just just black it off delay it I'll
10315
05:29:40,080 --> 05:29:42,480
forget you'll move on no one's going to
10316
05:29:42,480 --> 05:29:44,700
court nothing bad happened at least you
10317
05:29:44,700 --> 05:29:46,980
had a chance to get my business you had
10318
05:29:46,980 --> 05:29:48,958
a chance to look through my accounts if
10319
05:29:48,958 --> 05:29:50,340
you would have come up to me and said oh
10320
05:29:50,340 --> 05:29:52,440
hi yeah maybe we can do something I'm
10321
05:29:52,440 --> 05:29:54,240
gonna I'm an accredited accountant you
10322
05:29:54,240 --> 05:29:56,100
wouldn't have even got that far
10323
05:29:56,100 --> 05:29:58,200
so you got either provide value or
10324
05:29:58,200 --> 05:30:00,540
promise value and this is the mistake
10325
05:30:00,540 --> 05:30:01,798
that people make with networking you
10326
05:30:01,798 --> 05:30:03,660
have to promise value I said to Idris
10327
05:30:03,660 --> 05:30:05,638
with me you'll win
10328
05:30:05,638 --> 05:30:08,280
you go so really I said no no with me
10329
05:30:08,280 --> 05:30:10,860
you're guaranteed to win so if you get
10330
05:30:10,860 --> 05:30:12,240
other people I don't know but with me
10331
05:30:12,240 --> 05:30:14,520
you're absolutely guaranteed to win yeah
10332
05:30:14,520 --> 05:30:15,718
there's a lot of good Fighters out there
10333
05:30:15,718 --> 05:30:18,180
but I know how it was as an amateur I
10334
05:30:18,180 --> 05:30:19,440
know the mistakes you'll be making I
10335
05:30:19,440 --> 05:30:20,458
know the mistakes he's going to make
10336
05:30:20,458 --> 05:30:23,280
with me Idris with me you are guaranteed
10337
05:30:23,280 --> 05:30:24,660
to win
10338
05:30:24,660 --> 05:30:27,378
and he did win
10339
05:30:27,378 --> 05:30:30,840
so I pulled it off but if I didn't say
10340
05:30:30,840 --> 05:30:32,520
that I wouldn't have got the chance now
10341
05:30:32,520 --> 05:30:35,040
imagine he lost what's he gonna do we're
10342
05:30:35,040 --> 05:30:37,080
going to sue me you got knocked out bro
10343
05:30:37,080 --> 05:30:38,878
you can't stop me it's not my fault you
10344
05:30:38,878 --> 05:30:40,320
should have blocked I told you to block
10345
05:30:40,320 --> 05:30:42,120
that punch you didn't listen I gave you
10346
05:30:42,120 --> 05:30:43,920
the right instructions you didn't enact
10347
05:30:43,920 --> 05:30:46,260
them correctly that's not my fault but I
10348
05:30:46,260 --> 05:30:48,120
networked myself to the talk with
10349
05:30:48,120 --> 05:30:50,760
guarantees she really need to show value
10350
05:30:50,760 --> 05:30:52,138
which is a guarantee because it's
10351
05:30:52,138 --> 05:30:54,120
something you've already done or you
10352
05:30:54,120 --> 05:30:56,458
need to promise insane value and this is
10353
05:30:56,458 --> 05:30:58,378
the mistake people make with networking
10354
05:30:58,378 --> 05:31:00,900
when someone comes to me and because I
10355
05:31:00,900 --> 05:31:02,400
get this all the time I get emails all
10356
05:31:02,400 --> 05:31:03,480
the time from people saying I'm gonna
10357
05:31:03,480 --> 05:31:04,680
make you more money I'm gonna do this
10358
05:31:04,680 --> 05:31:07,320
you're gonna do that pay me up front I
10359
05:31:07,320 --> 05:31:08,820
don't want to hear that [ __ ] I'm gonna
10360
05:31:08,820 --> 05:31:11,218
say no okay do it if you come to me and
10361
05:31:11,218 --> 05:31:13,138
say tape I'm gonna sell 10 of your
10362
05:31:13,138 --> 05:31:14,580
courses
10363
05:31:14,580 --> 05:31:16,680
okay I'm gonna sell 10 of your courses
10364
05:31:16,680 --> 05:31:18,240
if I sell 10-year courses can we Skype
10365
05:31:18,240 --> 05:31:20,280
and talk business yeah all right and
10366
05:31:20,280 --> 05:31:22,020
then just say okay every everyone every
10367
05:31:22,020 --> 05:31:23,458
one of my courses I sell the reference
10368
05:31:23,458 --> 05:31:25,378
is going to be this and I get 10 course
10369
05:31:25,378 --> 05:31:27,000
sales and in the Box it says this
10370
05:31:27,000 --> 05:31:29,700
person's name then I'm gonna be like
10371
05:31:29,700 --> 05:31:31,560
all right let's Skype what the [ __ ] does
10372
05:31:31,560 --> 05:31:34,020
this dude know that's providing value if
10373
05:31:34,020 --> 05:31:35,100
you're gonna promise me you're gonna
10374
05:31:35,100 --> 05:31:36,480
sell shitloads of my courses you better
10375
05:31:36,480 --> 05:31:38,160
come at me with some some convincing
10376
05:31:38,160 --> 05:31:40,138
[ __ ] come out and you go well maybe we
10377
05:31:40,138 --> 05:31:43,138
could try maybe this could have you
10378
05:31:43,138 --> 05:31:44,218
thought of
10379
05:31:44,218 --> 05:31:45,718
not interested because I've thought of
10380
05:31:45,718 --> 05:31:47,940
it all yeah I could try blah blah no you
10381
05:31:47,940 --> 05:31:50,100
have to come to me with pow
10382
05:31:50,100 --> 05:31:51,540
now I know all you're watching this is
10383
05:31:51,540 --> 05:31:52,560
probably going to try that exact thing
10384
05:31:52,560 --> 05:31:54,120
that's a bad idea because I'm a hard guy
10385
05:31:54,120 --> 05:31:56,280
to sell to it but in to other people
10386
05:31:56,280 --> 05:31:58,440
that's what people want especially
10387
05:31:58,440 --> 05:31:59,520
important people who are running
10388
05:31:59,520 --> 05:32:01,260
businesses and making money you need to
10389
05:32:01,260 --> 05:32:02,638
either show them you can make the money
10390
05:32:02,638 --> 05:32:05,340
or you need to promise them insanely you
10391
05:32:05,340 --> 05:32:06,718
can make the money but here's what's
10392
05:32:06,718 --> 05:32:08,040
gonna happen
10393
05:32:08,040 --> 05:32:09,900
the smart people
10394
05:32:09,900 --> 05:32:11,820
you'll get the audience who will agree
10395
05:32:11,820 --> 05:32:13,740
and pay you up front most smart people
10396
05:32:13,740 --> 05:32:15,480
will want to see some work first
10397
05:32:15,480 --> 05:32:17,760
promise the value and then they'll say
10398
05:32:17,760 --> 05:32:19,980
okay now show me the value and then I'll
10399
05:32:19,980 --> 05:32:21,420
give you what you want that's what's
10400
05:32:21,420 --> 05:32:23,160
going to happen and this is where the
10401
05:32:23,160 --> 05:32:25,080
competence comes in but isn't it better
10402
05:32:25,080 --> 05:32:27,480
to be talking to Millionaires and then
10403
05:32:27,480 --> 05:32:30,000
replying to your emails and and them
10404
05:32:30,000 --> 05:32:31,560
going okay we're gonna give you a chance
10405
05:32:31,560 --> 05:32:33,600
and then you might be able to pull off a
10406
05:32:33,600 --> 05:32:35,280
miracle isn't that better than them
10407
05:32:35,280 --> 05:32:37,138
never emailing you at all this is the
10408
05:32:37,138 --> 05:32:39,840
key to networking I promise Idris he'd
10409
05:32:39,840 --> 05:32:41,520
never lose and he didn't lose it worked
10410
05:32:41,520 --> 05:32:42,900
out for me it could have not worked out
10411
05:32:42,900 --> 05:32:44,760
for me but isn't it better that I
10412
05:32:44,760 --> 05:32:46,320
promised him and took the chance that
10413
05:32:46,320 --> 05:32:48,480
never took the chance at all so the
10414
05:32:48,480 --> 05:32:49,920
bakery example you want to start
10415
05:32:49,920 --> 05:32:52,020
emailing that Baker and saying you could
10416
05:32:52,020 --> 05:32:55,138
sell double the cakes I guarantee you I
10417
05:32:55,138 --> 05:32:57,120
can sell double your cakes and he'll go
10418
05:32:57,120 --> 05:32:59,100
and be smart he'll go okay do it then
10419
05:32:59,100 --> 05:33:00,540
and then you're gonna sit there and go
10420
05:33:00,540 --> 05:33:02,458
[ __ ] how do I sell double the Kings but
10421
05:33:02,458 --> 05:33:04,080
at least you have a chance now you have
10422
05:33:04,080 --> 05:33:05,820
a chance imagine you pull off double
10423
05:33:05,820 --> 05:33:08,218
cakes for a [ __ ] two days imagine you
10424
05:33:08,218 --> 05:33:10,860
get some hot chick to stand outside with
10425
05:33:10,860 --> 05:33:12,900
a tray she's your girlfriend so she's
10426
05:33:12,900 --> 05:33:15,060
free with a cake and you've given her a
10427
05:33:15,060 --> 05:33:16,440
little bit of a script and she convinces
10428
05:33:16,440 --> 05:33:18,060
people that these are these cakes are
10429
05:33:18,060 --> 05:33:19,620
made with some special flour or some
10430
05:33:19,620 --> 05:33:21,780
[ __ ] and doubles to cake sales when
10431
05:33:21,780 --> 05:33:23,218
you go back in there now and say okay
10432
05:33:23,218 --> 05:33:25,620
that's just the beginning of what I can
10433
05:33:25,620 --> 05:33:28,260
do I can triple this I can quadruple
10434
05:33:28,260 --> 05:33:29,160
that
10435
05:33:29,160 --> 05:33:31,138
I want x amount of money now you're
10436
05:33:31,138 --> 05:33:33,298
going to be having serious conversations
10437
05:33:33,298 --> 05:33:35,820
and that's what networking is show value
10438
05:33:35,820 --> 05:33:38,580
or absolutely promise value stroke
10439
05:33:38,580 --> 05:33:40,798
people's Egos and have enough cash to be
10440
05:33:40,798 --> 05:33:42,360
in the right place at the right time the
10441
05:33:42,360 --> 05:33:44,218
guy who owns that Bakery he might own
10442
05:33:44,218 --> 05:33:46,080
bakeries all over the world he might say
10443
05:33:46,080 --> 05:33:47,760
okay yeah I'm interested in talking to
10444
05:33:47,760 --> 05:33:50,520
you come to our head office in Singapore
10445
05:33:50,520 --> 05:33:52,560
now what you're gonna do oh sorry I
10446
05:33:52,560 --> 05:33:54,718
can't afford the ticket look a dick if
10447
05:33:54,718 --> 05:33:56,218
you're so good at selling things and
10448
05:33:56,218 --> 05:33:57,600
doubling people's turnovers you're gonna
10449
05:33:57,600 --> 05:33:59,940
be able to afford the ticket you have to
10450
05:33:59,940 --> 05:34:02,580
so money is absolutely an element but
10451
05:34:02,580 --> 05:34:04,560
the key to networking is you have to
10452
05:34:04,560 --> 05:34:06,958
come across a super high value
10453
05:34:06,958 --> 05:34:08,820
another great thing about this is this
10454
05:34:08,820 --> 05:34:11,218
is also how you get referrals
10455
05:34:11,218 --> 05:34:13,138
if you start doing good jobs for people
10456
05:34:13,138 --> 05:34:14,878
and you do a good job and you prove
10457
05:34:14,878 --> 05:34:16,560
yourself trustworthy or even if you're
10458
05:34:16,560 --> 05:34:18,360
at least promising to do a good job and
10459
05:34:18,360 --> 05:34:20,160
people see this that they're going to be
10460
05:34:20,160 --> 05:34:22,560
the ones who refer you because it raises
10461
05:34:22,560 --> 05:34:25,740
their status so I'm the bakery owner I
10462
05:34:25,740 --> 05:34:27,600
own the bakery you've come to me and
10463
05:34:27,600 --> 05:34:28,860
promised a double my sales you've
10464
05:34:28,860 --> 05:34:31,138
managed to pull it off I'm out with my
10465
05:34:31,138 --> 05:34:32,820
other friend who owns a [ __ ] car wash
10466
05:34:32,820 --> 05:34:34,560
and we're sitting there having beers and
10467
05:34:34,560 --> 05:34:36,660
I'm talking about this this person and I
10468
05:34:36,660 --> 05:34:39,298
now I get to say you know what I could
10469
05:34:39,298 --> 05:34:40,798
double your turn over your car washes
10470
05:34:40,798 --> 05:34:42,900
and the guy goes can you he goes yeah I
10471
05:34:42,900 --> 05:34:45,060
know a guy and this guy can double your
10472
05:34:45,060 --> 05:34:47,638
car wash turn over now I get to look
10473
05:34:47,638 --> 05:34:50,520
cool for recommending you so remember I
10474
05:34:50,520 --> 05:34:52,500
was talking earlier about motivators now
10475
05:34:52,500 --> 05:34:54,420
I am motivated to recommend you because
10476
05:34:54,420 --> 05:34:56,820
it raises my status with the car wash
10477
05:34:56,820 --> 05:34:59,520
guy even if he's a good friend I won't
10478
05:34:59,520 --> 05:35:00,840
ask him for money he's not a good friend
10479
05:35:00,840 --> 05:35:02,580
I might say I'll raise it give me this
10480
05:35:02,580 --> 05:35:04,560
amount if I'm a particularly Savvy
10481
05:35:04,560 --> 05:35:06,180
[ __ ] I'll say I want to double
10482
05:35:06,180 --> 05:35:08,218
your car wash turnover you give me 20
10483
05:35:08,218 --> 05:35:10,920
I'll send in a guy who works for me
10484
05:35:10,920 --> 05:35:12,780
who's really good you could they could
10485
05:35:12,780 --> 05:35:14,280
do it for money but in general people
10486
05:35:14,280 --> 05:35:15,660
don't even work that way people just
10487
05:35:15,660 --> 05:35:17,940
just like to feel important especially
10488
05:35:17,940 --> 05:35:19,620
important people the head of the bakery
10489
05:35:19,620 --> 05:35:20,940
is going to sit there and sit at the car
10490
05:35:20,940 --> 05:35:22,560
wash time you know what you've got some
10491
05:35:22,560 --> 05:35:24,420
good car washes you're washing some cars
10492
05:35:24,420 --> 05:35:26,520
but you could be making a lot more money
10493
05:35:26,520 --> 05:35:28,378
I know a guy who would help you make a
10494
05:35:28,378 --> 05:35:30,540
lot more money yeah he works for me I I
10495
05:35:30,540 --> 05:35:33,540
found him I trained him he'll talk he'll
10496
05:35:33,540 --> 05:35:36,240
lie but he's really good and you know
10497
05:35:36,240 --> 05:35:37,798
what I'm thinking maybe you should talk
10498
05:35:37,798 --> 05:35:40,020
to him because now the car wash guy
10499
05:35:40,020 --> 05:35:42,718
thinks the bakery guy is a hero oh wow
10500
05:35:42,718 --> 05:35:45,958
okay so the bakery guy's motivation for
10501
05:35:45,958 --> 05:35:49,200
recommending you is raising a status and
10502
05:35:49,200 --> 05:35:50,700
this is the most elevator for most
10503
05:35:50,700 --> 05:35:52,260
people this is how networking is done
10504
05:35:52,260 --> 05:35:54,120
you do a fantastic job for one person
10505
05:35:54,120 --> 05:35:57,240
they want to share your business they
10506
05:35:57,240 --> 05:35:59,160
want to tell others if someone came
10507
05:35:59,160 --> 05:36:01,620
along to me and did a fantastic job I
10508
05:36:01,620 --> 05:36:04,260
want to tell other people I do this all
10509
05:36:04,260 --> 05:36:05,638
the time the people who wrapped my
10510
05:36:05,638 --> 05:36:07,138
Lamborghini for example did a [ __ ]
10511
05:36:07,138 --> 05:36:09,840
amazing job cheap quick beautiful
10512
05:36:09,840 --> 05:36:12,298
rainbow rap psychedelic looks amazing
10513
05:36:12,298 --> 05:36:14,100
I'm happy to tell everyone where'd you
10514
05:36:14,100 --> 05:36:15,240
get that done I got done here they're
10515
05:36:15,240 --> 05:36:16,520
really good
10516
05:36:16,520 --> 05:36:20,878
that's that's human nature so you'd have
10517
05:36:20,878 --> 05:36:22,260
to be providing the same value or
10518
05:36:22,260 --> 05:36:24,420
promising and same value a lot of the
10519
05:36:24,420 --> 05:36:26,400
people you network with
10520
05:36:26,400 --> 05:36:29,458
especially at a lower level
10521
05:36:29,458 --> 05:36:32,700
they're going to want things from you
10522
05:36:32,700 --> 05:36:35,638
and because Mutual relationships we all
10523
05:36:35,638 --> 05:36:37,020
understand what Mutual relationships are
10524
05:36:37,020 --> 05:36:39,060
and how they work people are going to
10525
05:36:39,060 --> 05:36:42,780
want things from you so I know that 99
10526
05:36:42,780 --> 05:36:45,420
of the emails I get are people who want
10527
05:36:45,420 --> 05:36:47,520
things from me nobody's trying to give
10528
05:36:47,520 --> 05:36:49,200
me nothing no one's emailing me and
10529
05:36:49,200 --> 05:36:51,540
going hey take one or Ferrari everyone's
10530
05:36:51,540 --> 05:36:54,480
like oh hi do you want to invest in they
10531
05:36:54,480 --> 05:36:56,638
want my money do you have the time to
10532
05:36:56,638 --> 05:36:58,320
help me with they want my acknowledge
10533
05:36:58,320 --> 05:37:00,298
expertise or connections they want me to
10534
05:37:00,298 --> 05:37:01,138
[ __ ] Network
10535
05:37:01,138 --> 05:37:02,820
I've got an email today from some dude
10536
05:37:02,820 --> 05:37:06,420
hey uh my my girlfriend is struggling to
10537
05:37:06,420 --> 05:37:07,980
get Schengen visa
10538
05:37:07,980 --> 05:37:09,420
and I know you can do these kind of
10539
05:37:09,420 --> 05:37:10,620
things
10540
05:37:10,620 --> 05:37:13,980
okay cool if you would have said hi Tay
10541
05:37:13,980 --> 05:37:15,298
good to see you I know you're really
10542
05:37:15,298 --> 05:37:16,920
well connected I'm having a very
10543
05:37:16,920 --> 05:37:17,878
particular problem and I'm thinking
10544
05:37:17,878 --> 05:37:19,798
maybe you can help with it in return I
10545
05:37:19,798 --> 05:37:20,820
think maybe we could make some money
10546
05:37:20,820 --> 05:37:22,620
together make it at least more
10547
05:37:22,620 --> 05:37:24,000
interesting not just hey get my
10548
05:37:24,000 --> 05:37:25,440
girlfriend a shame your pizza
10549
05:37:25,440 --> 05:37:27,420
even know you
10550
05:37:27,420 --> 05:37:29,580
crazy anyway
10551
05:37:29,580 --> 05:37:31,260
can I get his girlfriend Schengen visa
10552
05:37:31,260 --> 05:37:35,280
yeah but am I motivated to no but 99 of
10553
05:37:35,280 --> 05:37:37,798
the time people want things from you and
10554
05:37:37,798 --> 05:37:39,718
that's fine so what you have to do is
10555
05:37:39,718 --> 05:37:41,638
turn those walks into something Mutual
10556
05:37:41,638 --> 05:37:46,440
so if someone comes to you and says hey
10557
05:37:46,440 --> 05:37:49,320
uh can I use your email list
10558
05:37:49,320 --> 05:37:51,718
I want to promote my product
10559
05:37:51,718 --> 05:37:54,600
that'll happen a lot the correct reply
10560
05:37:54,600 --> 05:37:55,560
is
10561
05:37:55,560 --> 05:37:58,200
my email list you can't use but when you
10562
05:37:58,200 --> 05:37:59,700
build your own I'll teach you how to
10563
05:37:59,700 --> 05:38:01,860
monetize yours correctly
10564
05:38:01,860 --> 05:38:04,138
we'll work together on it
10565
05:38:04,138 --> 05:38:06,780
he'll go oh okay thanks he'll be happy
10566
05:38:06,780 --> 05:38:09,120
with that reply so what's happened
10567
05:38:09,120 --> 05:38:11,760
what's he gained from you nothing what
10568
05:38:11,760 --> 05:38:13,320
have you gained from him a percent of
10569
05:38:13,320 --> 05:38:14,218
his sales
10570
05:38:14,218 --> 05:38:15,958
done he'll come back to you and go okay
10571
05:38:15,958 --> 05:38:17,340
I got my email let's say okay here's how
10572
05:38:17,340 --> 05:38:19,200
we're gonna do it I'll send emails blah
10573
05:38:19,200 --> 05:38:21,060
blah blah x amount percent goes to me
10574
05:38:21,060 --> 05:38:22,320
this amount go to you we're gonna sell a
10575
05:38:22,320 --> 05:38:23,700
whole bunch of products
10576
05:38:23,700 --> 05:38:25,920
simple when people come to you and they
10577
05:38:25,920 --> 05:38:27,240
want something from you that's a
10578
05:38:27,240 --> 05:38:29,820
fantastic chance to change it round to
10579
05:38:29,820 --> 05:38:32,218
put it on its head and allow you to take
10580
05:38:32,218 --> 05:38:33,718
something from them there's another key
10581
05:38:33,718 --> 05:38:35,700
element from networking and also if
10582
05:38:35,700 --> 05:38:37,138
you're particularly Savvy especially
10583
05:38:37,138 --> 05:38:38,580
with important people
10584
05:38:38,580 --> 05:38:40,740
is this is how smart and important
10585
05:38:40,740 --> 05:38:42,840
people think so you can be you can be
10586
05:38:42,840 --> 05:38:44,878
aware it's happening
10587
05:38:44,878 --> 05:38:46,740
pretend you don't know
10588
05:38:46,740 --> 05:38:48,660
so it's like one of the one of the laws
10589
05:38:48,660 --> 05:38:50,218
of power for you Laws of Power is never
10590
05:38:50,218 --> 05:38:52,200
outshine the master it's true so if you
10591
05:38:52,200 --> 05:38:53,520
go meet with a really important person
10592
05:38:53,520 --> 05:38:55,500
to go oh you know what I'm going to give
10593
05:38:55,500 --> 05:38:57,540
you a chance if you double my sales for
10594
05:38:57,540 --> 05:38:58,680
a week I'm going to give you a chance
10595
05:38:58,680 --> 05:39:00,180
you'll be like oh yeah okay fantastic
10596
05:39:00,180 --> 05:39:01,500
and you can sit there and pretend you
10597
05:39:01,500 --> 05:39:02,760
don't realize this dude just about to
10598
05:39:02,760 --> 05:39:05,638
make lots of money off you okay great
10599
05:39:05,638 --> 05:39:07,500
you don't be too smart you're smarter
10600
05:39:07,500 --> 05:39:08,878
than the dude it's going to piss him off
10601
05:39:08,878 --> 05:39:10,680
I've had this a few times myself I've
10602
05:39:10,680 --> 05:39:12,180
had people come to me and say this and I
10603
05:39:12,180 --> 05:39:13,920
say well let's do it this way they go no
10604
05:39:13,920 --> 05:39:16,860
this this and this like bro you're the
10605
05:39:16,860 --> 05:39:18,840
one approaching me I've got more money
10606
05:39:18,840 --> 05:39:20,160
from you you're trying to do business
10607
05:39:20,160 --> 05:39:21,600
don't come at me and tell me how things
10608
05:39:21,600 --> 05:39:22,620
are
10609
05:39:22,620 --> 05:39:24,000
you have to be super careful with that
10610
05:39:24,000 --> 05:39:25,560
because people's egos
10611
05:39:25,560 --> 05:39:27,840
an ego is more than enough to stop
10612
05:39:27,840 --> 05:39:29,340
someone doing business with you they'd
10613
05:39:29,340 --> 05:39:31,260
rather lose money than damage your ego
10614
05:39:31,260 --> 05:39:34,080
people are in jail over their ego Jail's
10615
05:39:34,080 --> 05:39:35,820
full of egos you insult someone they
10616
05:39:35,820 --> 05:39:36,958
shoot you in the head that's so
10617
05:39:36,958 --> 05:39:39,060
important a man's ego is to it so you
10618
05:39:39,060 --> 05:39:40,260
want to come along and start insulting
10619
05:39:40,260 --> 05:39:42,600
people and go no this or no you're gonna
10620
05:39:42,600 --> 05:39:44,040
be making lots of money off me then what
10621
05:39:44,040 --> 05:39:46,138
am I going to get that's not that's not
10622
05:39:46,138 --> 05:39:47,700
how you network you've got to play the
10623
05:39:47,700 --> 05:39:49,740
fools sometimes yeah great that's a
10624
05:39:49,740 --> 05:39:51,120
really good idea I'm happy to do that
10625
05:39:51,120 --> 05:39:52,740
for you yeah great
10626
05:39:52,740 --> 05:39:55,260
so be careful so very often people who
10627
05:39:55,260 --> 05:39:56,520
come to you they want something from you
10628
05:39:56,520 --> 05:39:59,100
if they're lower down you have to change
10629
05:39:59,100 --> 05:40:00,958
that to your favor
10630
05:40:00,958 --> 05:40:02,580
consciously think about how to do that
10631
05:40:02,580 --> 05:40:04,500
if they're higher up
10632
05:40:04,500 --> 05:40:06,120
they're going to try and get when you're
10633
05:40:06,120 --> 05:40:07,260
when you're offering something they're
10634
05:40:07,260 --> 05:40:08,700
going to try and exploit you to a degree
10635
05:40:08,700 --> 05:40:10,440
and that's fine because you have to
10636
05:40:10,440 --> 05:40:12,840
prove competence being exploited to a
10637
05:40:12,840 --> 05:40:14,400
comfortable degree to prove confident
10638
05:40:14,400 --> 05:40:16,798
confidence and make yourself likable is
10639
05:40:16,798 --> 05:40:18,660
once again fine be very aware of that
10640
05:40:18,660 --> 05:40:20,520
Dynamic everyone is in everything from
10641
05:40:20,520 --> 05:40:22,798
themselves every relationship is for
10642
05:40:22,798 --> 05:40:24,378
themselves you're with your girlfriend
10643
05:40:24,378 --> 05:40:26,520
for yourself
10644
05:40:26,520 --> 05:40:29,040
your love for her is nothing to do with
10645
05:40:29,040 --> 05:40:30,600
her it's for yourself it's for your own
10646
05:40:30,600 --> 05:40:32,218
sexual needs so you're not listening
10647
05:40:32,218 --> 05:40:34,080
you're not lonely it's completely
10648
05:40:34,080 --> 05:40:36,060
selfish you're with her for selfish
10649
05:40:36,060 --> 05:40:37,860
reasons she's with you for selfish
10650
05:40:37,860 --> 05:40:39,958
reasons and together you're both selfish
10651
05:40:39,958 --> 05:40:42,000
and you're both mutually benefit
10652
05:40:42,000 --> 05:40:44,218
the reason I talk to the bus driver is
10653
05:40:44,218 --> 05:40:46,260
because he'll drive me and I give money
10654
05:40:46,260 --> 05:40:47,760
to the boss which keeps the company
10655
05:40:47,760 --> 05:40:49,560
running That Pays His wages Mutual
10656
05:40:49,560 --> 05:40:51,840
benefit that's how interactions work
10657
05:40:51,840 --> 05:40:53,458
around the world there's no such thing
10658
05:40:53,458 --> 05:40:55,680
as selflessness it doesn't exist you
10659
05:40:55,680 --> 05:40:57,000
have to completely understand this and
10660
05:40:57,000 --> 05:40:58,798
understand the mutual benefits nobody's
10661
05:40:58,798 --> 05:41:00,360
going to do anything with you if there's
10662
05:41:00,360 --> 05:41:02,218
not a benefit for them
10663
05:41:02,218 --> 05:41:04,680
so at the beginning of someone's really
10664
05:41:04,680 --> 05:41:07,080
high value sure let them exploit you to
10665
05:41:07,080 --> 05:41:08,820
a degree make sure the benefit is in
10666
05:41:08,820 --> 05:41:10,920
their core but once you've proved
10667
05:41:10,920 --> 05:41:13,320
competence that can change quickly once
10668
05:41:13,320 --> 05:41:14,700
you've proved yourself to be competent
10669
05:41:14,700 --> 05:41:16,620
then they're gonna want you then things
10670
05:41:16,620 --> 05:41:18,480
change if you're the dude who doubled
10671
05:41:18,480 --> 05:41:21,060
sales they're going to want you around
10672
05:41:21,060 --> 05:41:22,798
absolutely
10673
05:41:22,798 --> 05:41:26,040
I prefer to stay in touch with my
10674
05:41:26,040 --> 05:41:28,260
important people via email I don't
10675
05:41:28,260 --> 05:41:29,638
really like to use LinkedIn because
10676
05:41:29,638 --> 05:41:32,100
LinkedIn is a professional platform and
10677
05:41:32,100 --> 05:41:33,240
that means that relationships are
10678
05:41:33,240 --> 05:41:34,920
professional that's fine for your
10679
05:41:34,920 --> 05:41:36,360
professional relationships but for your
10680
05:41:36,360 --> 05:41:38,638
genuine networking referrals it's all
10681
05:41:38,638 --> 05:41:40,620
about status and whether they like you
10682
05:41:40,620 --> 05:41:43,620
or not the money one money may be
10683
05:41:43,620 --> 05:41:45,660
LinkedIn but in general if you only
10684
05:41:45,660 --> 05:41:47,700
speak to someone through Linkedin are
10685
05:41:47,700 --> 05:41:49,020
they really going to be like this guy's
10686
05:41:49,020 --> 05:41:50,820
great they're gonna be like oh there's a
10687
05:41:50,820 --> 05:41:52,680
guy on my LinkedIn Maybe
10688
05:41:52,680 --> 05:41:54,718
so it's it's very it's very clinical
10689
05:41:54,718 --> 05:41:57,120
it's kind of like Tinder you know like
10690
05:41:57,120 --> 05:41:59,100
the girl you might want to bang her but
10691
05:41:59,100 --> 05:42:00,480
do you like her you know you don't know
10692
05:42:00,480 --> 05:42:03,120
her so it's very clinical so I don't
10693
05:42:03,120 --> 05:42:04,680
even have a LinkedIn page I don't even
10694
05:42:04,680 --> 05:42:06,958
have one I don't really use it for
10695
05:42:06,958 --> 05:42:09,718
networking and also if someone's super
10696
05:42:09,718 --> 05:42:12,000
important are they really on LinkedIn
10697
05:42:12,000 --> 05:42:13,440
like I mean you're going to meet some
10698
05:42:13,440 --> 05:42:15,360
mid-level dudes on LinkedIn but if
10699
05:42:15,360 --> 05:42:18,000
there's a multi-millionaire who has his
10700
05:42:18,000 --> 05:42:20,400
own company he has a coconut business in
10701
05:42:20,400 --> 05:42:22,138
Greece and he has all these boats he's
10702
05:42:22,138 --> 05:42:23,218
making millions and millions he's
10703
05:42:23,218 --> 05:42:24,660
[ __ ] all these models he's private
10704
05:42:24,660 --> 05:42:26,160
jets is he really gonna go oh let me
10705
05:42:26,160 --> 05:42:27,180
just let me just quickly log into
10706
05:42:27,180 --> 05:42:29,520
LinkedIn and oh I got an email from Mr
10707
05:42:29,520 --> 05:42:32,160
random yeah hi
10708
05:42:32,160 --> 05:42:34,080
gonna I mean that's my experience with
10709
05:42:34,080 --> 05:42:37,138
LinkedIn but yeah that's fine
10710
05:42:37,138 --> 05:42:39,000
I use email try and get people's email
10711
05:42:39,000 --> 05:42:41,100
addresses try and have an interesting
10712
05:42:41,100 --> 05:42:42,780
business card like mine don't copy it
10713
05:42:42,780 --> 05:42:45,600
and like I said provide value every
10714
05:42:45,600 --> 05:42:47,638
couple of months don't flood them don't
10715
05:42:47,638 --> 05:42:49,500
annoy them people are busy
10716
05:42:49,500 --> 05:42:51,240
next is protecting yourself from
10717
05:42:51,240 --> 05:42:53,520
networking so what a lot of you are
10718
05:42:53,520 --> 05:42:54,420
going to be thinking after watching this
10719
05:42:54,420 --> 05:42:55,798
is well how do I make sure I don't get
10720
05:42:55,798 --> 05:42:58,798
exploited how do I know that the baker
10721
05:42:58,798 --> 05:43:02,520
is not going to see my ideas I did to
10722
05:43:02,520 --> 05:43:05,280
double sales take the ideas and tell me
10723
05:43:05,280 --> 05:43:06,420
to [ __ ] off
10724
05:43:06,420 --> 05:43:09,540
and that is a genuine very real risk and
10725
05:43:09,540 --> 05:43:12,298
to be honest with you that risk is very
10726
05:43:12,298 --> 05:43:15,480
hard to negate you negate that primarily
10727
05:43:15,480 --> 05:43:17,520
through making the dude like you and
10728
05:43:17,520 --> 05:43:18,900
this is my completely honest experience
10729
05:43:18,900 --> 05:43:20,280
because I've been screwed this way
10730
05:43:20,280 --> 05:43:23,400
exactly the same if I've done work for
10731
05:43:23,400 --> 05:43:25,560
someone and it's been work and I've done
10732
05:43:25,560 --> 05:43:27,480
a really good job and at the end of it I
10733
05:43:27,480 --> 05:43:29,638
said look I want some money XYZ and they
10734
05:43:29,638 --> 05:43:30,900
don't particularly like me as a person
10735
05:43:30,900 --> 05:43:32,878
they are far more likely to disappear
10736
05:43:32,878 --> 05:43:34,798
than if they go you know what this guy's
10737
05:43:34,798 --> 05:43:36,540
all right and I know this sounds like
10738
05:43:36,540 --> 05:43:38,280
[ __ ] advice but it's the absolute truth
10739
05:43:38,280 --> 05:43:39,958
this is why I do business without
10740
05:43:39,958 --> 05:43:42,180
contracts because if you need a contract
10741
05:43:42,180 --> 05:43:43,378
with someone to try and stop them
10742
05:43:43,378 --> 05:43:45,180
screwing you they're going to screw you
10743
05:43:45,180 --> 05:43:47,340
if you need a piece of paper and a core
10744
05:43:47,340 --> 05:43:49,200
to try and stop someone from screwing
10745
05:43:49,200 --> 05:43:50,340
you over they're going to do it
10746
05:43:50,340 --> 05:43:52,200
eventually anyway and you're going to
10747
05:43:52,200 --> 05:43:53,218
waste a whole bunch of time in court
10748
05:43:53,218 --> 05:43:54,958
with lawyers and even if you win the
10749
05:43:54,958 --> 05:43:57,600
case they're going to claim bankruptcy
10750
05:43:57,600 --> 05:44:00,420
my chest connection claim bankruptcy and
10751
05:44:00,420 --> 05:44:01,558
it's all over
10752
05:44:01,558 --> 05:44:03,180
the way it works is you have to make
10753
05:44:03,180 --> 05:44:04,740
people like you you have friendships
10754
05:44:04,740 --> 05:44:06,058
with people and people don't want to
10755
05:44:06,058 --> 05:44:07,440
[ __ ] over their friends because everyone
10756
05:44:07,440 --> 05:44:09,600
has a conscience there's very few people
10757
05:44:09,600 --> 05:44:11,580
out there who are truly sociopathic
10758
05:44:11,580 --> 05:44:12,900
enough that they're going to screw over
10759
05:44:12,900 --> 05:44:14,700
somebody who they like
10760
05:44:14,700 --> 05:44:17,218
for a few few for a few dollars I
10761
05:44:17,218 --> 05:44:19,558
wouldn't do that people who I know who
10762
05:44:19,558 --> 05:44:20,820
could easily do that would never do that
10763
05:44:20,820 --> 05:44:23,580
to me because if you like people but
10764
05:44:23,580 --> 05:44:25,320
there's a there's a few people on the
10765
05:44:25,320 --> 05:44:26,400
planet you like and there's a whole
10766
05:44:26,400 --> 05:44:27,958
bunch of people you don't like so you
10767
05:44:27,958 --> 05:44:29,100
don't want to really [ __ ] up those
10768
05:44:29,100 --> 05:44:30,420
relationships with the people you do
10769
05:44:30,420 --> 05:44:31,558
like for money
10770
05:44:31,558 --> 05:44:33,000
especially if you're making good money
10771
05:44:33,000 --> 05:44:35,400
it's very rare so let's say the bakery
10772
05:44:35,400 --> 05:44:37,378
example if you're gonna do that for five
10773
05:44:37,378 --> 05:44:39,000
people one person's gonna screw you over
10774
05:44:39,000 --> 05:44:40,920
you just have to eat that loss there's
10775
05:44:40,920 --> 05:44:42,780
no other way to do it but the other four
10776
05:44:42,780 --> 05:44:46,980
will probably give you some kind of uh
10777
05:44:46,980 --> 05:44:49,320
recuperation for your efforts and on top
10778
05:44:49,320 --> 05:44:50,400
of that
10779
05:44:50,400 --> 05:44:52,260
especially if you have more to show so
10780
05:44:52,260 --> 05:44:53,458
the bakery example is perfect because
10781
05:44:53,458 --> 05:44:55,138
you can say okay I doubled your cake
10782
05:44:55,138 --> 05:44:58,740
sales but I've shown nothing yet I know
10783
05:44:58,740 --> 05:45:00,718
X I know this I know that even if you
10784
05:45:00,718 --> 05:45:01,680
don't know it
10785
05:45:01,680 --> 05:45:04,378
say you've seen a taste of what I can do
10786
05:45:04,378 --> 05:45:05,700
well now they definitely want to do
10787
05:45:05,700 --> 05:45:06,660
business with you because they've seen
10788
05:45:06,660 --> 05:45:08,280
your efforts and validated yourself and
10789
05:45:08,280 --> 05:45:09,240
you're saying you know a whole bunch
10790
05:45:09,240 --> 05:45:10,680
more but they're going to continue to
10791
05:45:10,680 --> 05:45:12,298
work with you so if you're worried about
10792
05:45:12,298 --> 05:45:13,440
safeguarding yourself you're worried
10793
05:45:13,440 --> 05:45:15,000
about being exploited I wouldn't worry
10794
05:45:15,000 --> 05:45:16,680
about that worry about getting the
10795
05:45:16,680 --> 05:45:18,240
opportunities
10796
05:45:18,240 --> 05:45:20,280
more opportunities you have the better
10797
05:45:20,280 --> 05:45:22,440
it may take three or four opportunities
10798
05:45:22,440 --> 05:45:24,000
for one to pay off but one it will
10799
05:45:24,000 --> 05:45:26,280
eventually pay off it's better to have
10800
05:45:26,280 --> 05:45:28,320
tried something and had an opportunity
10801
05:45:28,320 --> 05:45:30,600
and [ __ ] it up or try that something had
10802
05:45:30,600 --> 05:45:32,520
an opportunity you did a fantastic job
10803
05:45:32,520 --> 05:45:35,100
and then that person screw you over then
10804
05:45:35,100 --> 05:45:37,260
never had the opportunity at all that's
10805
05:45:37,260 --> 05:45:39,000
my genuine view because I've been
10806
05:45:39,000 --> 05:45:40,558
screwed over I've been robbed for money
10807
05:45:40,558 --> 05:45:42,058
I've been through all that [ __ ] that's
10808
05:45:42,058 --> 05:45:43,980
happened to everyone else but I never
10809
05:45:43,980 --> 05:45:45,540
deterred me from making relationships
10810
05:45:45,540 --> 05:45:47,218
and trying to get to high value places
10811
05:45:47,218 --> 05:45:49,138
and do high value work for high ticket
10812
05:45:49,138 --> 05:45:51,840
numbers because sometimes they pay off
10813
05:45:51,840 --> 05:45:53,520
so you can't be too worried about it and
10814
05:45:53,520 --> 05:45:54,718
this is what happens when I was saying
10815
05:45:54,718 --> 05:45:56,878
earlier about uh the people who are
10816
05:45:56,878 --> 05:45:59,400
arrogant and insults people egos I've
10817
05:45:59,400 --> 05:46:01,320
had people email me going tight
10818
05:46:01,320 --> 05:46:03,840
your email strategy [ __ ] and they're
10819
05:46:03,840 --> 05:46:05,520
right I agree my email strategy probably
10820
05:46:05,520 --> 05:46:06,840
is a bit [ __ ]
10821
05:46:06,840 --> 05:46:09,540
it's disconjointed you need to do this
10822
05:46:09,540 --> 05:46:11,458
this this this and this and this if you
10823
05:46:11,458 --> 05:46:13,138
do this you sell this much more
10824
05:46:13,138 --> 05:46:16,020
I say okay let's do it ten thousand
10825
05:46:16,020 --> 05:46:17,040
dollars a month
10826
05:46:17,040 --> 05:46:19,020
I say I'm not gonna pay
10827
05:46:19,020 --> 05:46:20,040
attention you haven't even done it yet
10828
05:46:20,040 --> 05:46:22,260
yeah but how do I know I'm not going to
10829
05:46:22,260 --> 05:46:25,458
implement it and You're Gonna Roll me
10830
05:46:25,620 --> 05:46:27,000
but it would have been better for them
10831
05:46:27,000 --> 05:46:28,980
to have implemented it
10832
05:46:28,980 --> 05:46:31,200
start making me a whole bunch of money
10833
05:46:31,200 --> 05:46:32,520
and then there's two things that can
10834
05:46:32,520 --> 05:46:34,860
happen I'm either gonna run off with the
10835
05:46:34,860 --> 05:46:38,160
ideas and and and skank them and they're
10836
05:46:38,160 --> 05:46:39,540
not going to get any money
10837
05:46:39,540 --> 05:46:41,700
and then my reputation will be soured
10838
05:46:41,700 --> 05:46:42,718
and they're going to go all over Twitter
10839
05:46:42,718 --> 05:46:44,400
and all over everywhere and say I'm a
10840
05:46:44,400 --> 05:46:46,200
bad person or I'm going to say you know
10841
05:46:46,200 --> 05:46:47,458
what I'm making so much money from this
10842
05:46:47,458 --> 05:46:50,040
person now and they want this I'm making
10843
05:46:50,040 --> 05:46:51,718
20 a month I wasn't making before they
10844
05:46:51,718 --> 05:46:53,458
want 10 okay cool
10845
05:46:53,458 --> 05:46:56,218
cool there's two choices now if you
10846
05:46:56,218 --> 05:46:58,440
obviously you want them to pay most
10847
05:46:58,440 --> 05:46:59,700
people are protective of their
10848
05:46:59,700 --> 05:47:01,200
reputations most people aren't that
10849
05:47:01,200 --> 05:47:03,298
sociopathic and second thirdly if I
10850
05:47:03,298 --> 05:47:05,400
actually kind of liked that guy
10851
05:47:05,400 --> 05:47:07,320
I wouldn't have done it so let me give
10852
05:47:07,320 --> 05:47:08,520
an example
10853
05:47:08,520 --> 05:47:11,280
let's say he agreed to do the work first
10854
05:47:11,280 --> 05:47:13,200
let's say you start doing the work I
10855
05:47:13,200 --> 05:47:14,580
never really heard from him he just did
10856
05:47:14,580 --> 05:47:17,760
the work and I sold products and the end
10857
05:47:17,760 --> 05:47:19,440
he goes okay where's my money that's
10858
05:47:19,440 --> 05:47:21,540
fine if he did the work and he was he
10859
05:47:21,540 --> 05:47:23,100
sent me email hey man I'm up really late
10860
05:47:23,100 --> 05:47:24,480
but I've got this idea and this idea
10861
05:47:24,480 --> 05:47:26,638
also after this one week trial we can do
10862
05:47:26,638 --> 05:47:28,558
this and this uh I'm really excited
10863
05:47:28,558 --> 05:47:30,120
about our partnership
10864
05:47:30,120 --> 05:47:32,638
bang email me that or something else or
10865
05:47:32,638 --> 05:47:33,958
something else and something else to
10866
05:47:33,958 --> 05:47:36,600
make me make himself more humanized then
10867
05:47:36,600 --> 05:47:38,040
when it comes to paying I'm going to be
10868
05:47:38,040 --> 05:47:39,120
like okay well he's told me there's more
10869
05:47:39,120 --> 05:47:40,680
ideas he was up working really late that
10870
05:47:40,680 --> 05:47:42,298
night I'm not gonna [ __ ] this dude
10871
05:47:42,298 --> 05:47:45,240
I'm with that guy so that's that's a key
10872
05:47:45,240 --> 05:47:46,798
element to it and that's the same with
10873
05:47:46,798 --> 05:47:48,058
all networking is being likable
10874
05:47:48,058 --> 05:47:49,200
likability
10875
05:47:49,200 --> 05:47:51,298
and I can't teach you personalities I
10876
05:47:51,298 --> 05:47:52,558
can't teach you how to be likable but
10877
05:47:52,558 --> 05:47:54,120
coming across as human and making it
10878
05:47:54,120 --> 05:47:55,860
clear how much you work much work you're
10879
05:47:55,860 --> 05:47:57,180
doing for someone there's nothing wrong
10880
05:47:57,180 --> 05:47:58,080
with that there's absolutely nothing
10881
05:47:58,080 --> 05:47:58,920
wrong with that if you're doing a
10882
05:47:58,920 --> 05:48:01,020
positive life don't complain they'll be
10883
05:48:01,020 --> 05:48:02,580
like oh I have to work so hard uh
10884
05:48:02,580 --> 05:48:03,958
because then I'm like well [ __ ] move
10885
05:48:03,958 --> 05:48:04,980
down
10886
05:48:04,980 --> 05:48:06,240
but if you're doing a very positive
10887
05:48:06,240 --> 05:48:07,680
light look I really believe we can do
10888
05:48:07,680 --> 05:48:09,180
XYZ we're going to take over the world
10889
05:48:09,180 --> 05:48:11,160
blah blah blah you're gonna do fantastic
10890
05:48:11,160 --> 05:48:13,558
one of my last time I had a job was
10891
05:48:13,558 --> 05:48:15,240
about
10892
05:48:15,240 --> 05:48:18,780
seven years ago and after I can tell you
10893
05:48:18,780 --> 05:48:21,420
the story I started I went to a meeting
10894
05:48:21,420 --> 05:48:24,240
to sell a website our market rate was
10895
05:48:24,240 --> 05:48:27,958
1500 pounds for the website I tried to
10896
05:48:27,958 --> 05:48:29,400
sell it for three grand
10897
05:48:29,400 --> 05:48:31,260
and I did that because I'm a risk taker
10898
05:48:31,260 --> 05:48:33,780
and everyone told me all the salesmen in
10899
05:48:33,780 --> 05:48:35,160
the company said that's too much he's
10900
05:48:35,160 --> 05:48:37,980
not going to buy it and I said well I
10901
05:48:37,980 --> 05:48:39,718
believe that we can sell our websites
10902
05:48:39,718 --> 05:48:40,920
for more
10903
05:48:40,920 --> 05:48:43,440
and they said okay whatever and the guy
10904
05:48:43,440 --> 05:48:46,500
bought it within a week I was giving a
10905
05:48:46,500 --> 05:48:48,058
presentation to the other salesman
10906
05:48:48,058 --> 05:48:50,760
because the [ __ ] managing director
10907
05:48:50,760 --> 05:48:52,500
couldn't believe I'd sold this for
10908
05:48:52,500 --> 05:48:54,360
double sold for double and after I sold
10909
05:48:54,360 --> 05:48:55,680
it I sent an email to managing director
10910
05:48:55,680 --> 05:48:57,180
saying hey I know I'm new I know you
10911
05:48:57,180 --> 05:48:58,620
don't know me I've just pulled off this
10912
05:48:58,620 --> 05:49:00,660
sale for double I want to sell all the
10913
05:49:00,660 --> 05:49:02,878
products for double is that okay
10914
05:49:02,878 --> 05:49:04,680
was if he's gonna say [ __ ] nut but
10915
05:49:04,680 --> 05:49:06,298
just pull off I just pulled off she's
10916
05:49:06,298 --> 05:49:08,700
gonna say I was gonna say yeah that's
10917
05:49:08,700 --> 05:49:10,980
fine why do you believe that and I'm and
10918
05:49:10,980 --> 05:49:12,600
I gave my reasons I said there's only so
10919
05:49:12,600 --> 05:49:13,798
many people in the world who want a
10920
05:49:13,798 --> 05:49:15,600
website if they don't need a website
10921
05:49:15,600 --> 05:49:17,218
they're not going to buy one if they do
10922
05:49:17,218 --> 05:49:19,320
need one then they're susceptible we
10923
05:49:19,320 --> 05:49:20,878
need to get as much money as possible
10924
05:49:20,878 --> 05:49:22,020
from them that's how we're going to
10925
05:49:22,020 --> 05:49:23,040
increase the turnover of this business
10926
05:49:23,040 --> 05:49:25,320
and I believe that we do a few things to
10927
05:49:25,320 --> 05:49:27,840
add some value small things
10928
05:49:27,840 --> 05:49:29,580
another meeting halfway through the
10929
05:49:29,580 --> 05:49:31,860
website being made a few more updates
10930
05:49:31,860 --> 05:49:35,458
fancier PDF updates small things that I
10931
05:49:35,458 --> 05:49:37,138
believe we can really increase our value
10932
05:49:37,138 --> 05:49:38,638
and that means we really increase our
10933
05:49:38,638 --> 05:49:39,840
prices even though we're providing the
10934
05:49:39,840 --> 05:49:40,740
same product
10935
05:49:40,740 --> 05:49:42,480
and I sent this back and forth to the
10936
05:49:42,480 --> 05:49:44,700
managing director one Monday night and
10937
05:49:44,700 --> 05:49:46,020
Wednesday I was gonna be a presentation
10938
05:49:46,020 --> 05:49:47,580
to all the top all the salesmen had been
10939
05:49:47,580 --> 05:49:50,160
there for years and everyone hated me
10940
05:49:50,160 --> 05:49:52,378
but I was the G now the best thing about
10941
05:49:52,378 --> 05:49:54,540
the story is at the same time I was
10942
05:49:54,540 --> 05:49:55,798
working this business I had my own
10943
05:49:55,798 --> 05:49:58,260
business selling websites so I'll
10944
05:49:58,260 --> 05:50:00,120
stealing missiles stealing customers
10945
05:50:00,120 --> 05:50:02,280
from this company and doing it myself
10946
05:50:02,280 --> 05:50:04,020
with my friend
10947
05:50:04,020 --> 05:50:06,540
but what great was after I did this and
10948
05:50:06,540 --> 05:50:07,980
I sold two or three more at Double the
10949
05:50:07,980 --> 05:50:10,200
price I had so much leniency in that
10950
05:50:10,200 --> 05:50:12,480
business that even when for like one
10951
05:50:12,480 --> 05:50:14,040
month or one month and a half at the end
10952
05:50:14,040 --> 05:50:15,360
when I sold nothing because I was
10953
05:50:15,360 --> 05:50:17,520
planning to leave no one questioned me
10954
05:50:17,520 --> 05:50:19,860
because I was the genius I was the guru
10955
05:50:19,860 --> 05:50:21,780
pulled it off and I just saw all the
10956
05:50:21,780 --> 05:50:24,600
things myself kit on but
10957
05:50:24,600 --> 05:50:26,820
that's an example but that's a short
10958
05:50:26,820 --> 05:50:29,340
story if you want people to like you no
10959
05:50:29,340 --> 05:50:30,540
sorry that's a short story if you want
10960
05:50:30,540 --> 05:50:31,860
to make sure you don't get ripped off
10961
05:50:31,860 --> 05:50:34,440
make sure people like you trying to get
10962
05:50:34,440 --> 05:50:36,660
contracts involved trying to get
10963
05:50:36,660 --> 05:50:39,540
legality involved all that [ __ ] is not
10964
05:50:39,540 --> 05:50:42,298
the way to go make people like you make
10965
05:50:42,298 --> 05:50:44,040
people respect the work you do for them
10966
05:50:44,040 --> 05:50:46,980
and be a nice person and no one's really
10967
05:50:46,980 --> 05:50:48,840
out to screw you someone might screw you
10968
05:50:48,840 --> 05:50:50,700
I'm not saying it's not going to happen
10969
05:50:50,700 --> 05:50:52,620
I'm saying it's still better to take
10970
05:50:52,620 --> 05:50:53,940
those chances and to not take the
10971
05:50:53,940 --> 05:50:55,080
chances at all
10972
05:50:55,080 --> 05:50:58,558
now all of you watching this know people
10973
05:50:58,558 --> 05:51:00,540
right now who you could contact and make
10974
05:51:00,540 --> 05:51:02,760
money with I don't say make money from I
10975
05:51:02,760 --> 05:51:04,378
make money with you make them more money
10976
05:51:04,378 --> 05:51:06,058
you get a percentage all of you know
10977
05:51:06,058 --> 05:51:07,680
people but you're just sitting there
10978
05:51:07,680 --> 05:51:09,000
going well how do I do it how do I
10979
05:51:09,000 --> 05:51:10,440
approach it because if I email this
10980
05:51:10,440 --> 05:51:12,000
person or I said to this person I want
10981
05:51:12,000 --> 05:51:12,958
to make more money they might think I'm
10982
05:51:12,958 --> 05:51:14,700
an idiot well maybe but what are you
10983
05:51:14,700 --> 05:51:15,840
worried about what's the worst it can
10984
05:51:15,840 --> 05:51:18,240
say it's no who cares promise them
10985
05:51:18,240 --> 05:51:20,400
something insane and then find a way to
10986
05:51:20,400 --> 05:51:21,420
deliver
10987
05:51:21,420 --> 05:51:24,240
finding a way to deliver is the key I'm
10988
05:51:24,240 --> 05:51:25,740
going to finish this first video off
10989
05:51:25,740 --> 05:51:26,878
because we've got two more videos coming
10990
05:51:26,878 --> 05:51:28,320
for this course
10991
05:51:28,320 --> 05:51:31,500
but my business card which I think a lot
10992
05:51:31,500 --> 05:51:33,058
of you have seen if not I'll get it here
10993
05:51:33,058 --> 05:51:35,100
my business card is a perfect example of
10994
05:51:35,100 --> 05:51:36,600
this and people always laugh when they
10995
05:51:36,600 --> 05:51:37,860
see my business cards they think it's a
10996
05:51:37,860 --> 05:51:40,080
joke but it's zero percent a joke maybe
10997
05:51:40,080 --> 05:51:42,000
we should we'll put a picture in what my
10998
05:51:42,000 --> 05:51:46,440
card is my card and it says in the back
10999
05:51:46,440 --> 05:51:49,260
I specialize in the following Wars Fall
11000
05:51:49,260 --> 05:51:51,660
assassinations plot uprisings quelled
11001
05:51:51,660 --> 05:51:53,580
whiskey Merchant helicopter hire all
11002
05:51:53,580 --> 05:51:54,540
this stuff
11003
05:51:54,540 --> 05:51:56,520
I made a laugh and go oh you don't do
11004
05:51:56,520 --> 05:51:58,080
those things wrong
11005
05:51:58,080 --> 05:52:00,900
I do do those things because I'm a
11006
05:52:00,900 --> 05:52:03,120
promiser I will promise you these things
11007
05:52:03,120 --> 05:52:05,218
and if I believe that it's worth my
11008
05:52:05,218 --> 05:52:08,580
while I will pull off if NASA come to me
11009
05:52:08,580 --> 05:52:11,100
and say put a probe on the moon I ain't
11010
05:52:11,100 --> 05:52:13,500
gonna [ __ ] clue how to put Probe on
11011
05:52:13,500 --> 05:52:16,138
the moon but if I believe if I do that
11012
05:52:16,138 --> 05:52:18,058
I'm going to get x amount of dollars 10
11013
05:52:18,058 --> 05:52:20,218
billion well if I believe it's worth my
11014
05:52:20,218 --> 05:52:21,780
while I believe it's going to save my
11015
05:52:21,780 --> 05:52:22,740
life or it's going to give me
11016
05:52:22,740 --> 05:52:25,260
superpowers whatever if I'm motivated to
11017
05:52:25,260 --> 05:52:28,378
do it I will do it I don't give a [ __ ]
11018
05:52:28,378 --> 05:52:30,540
what I have to do I don't care about to
11019
05:52:30,540 --> 05:52:32,700
go and learn how to do it myself I don't
11020
05:52:32,700 --> 05:52:34,200
care if I have to hire someone else to
11021
05:52:34,200 --> 05:52:36,058
do it I don't care if I have to go to
11022
05:52:36,058 --> 05:52:39,180
the Chinese and defect and and get them
11023
05:52:39,180 --> 05:52:41,280
I don't know what I'll do but I will get
11024
05:52:41,280 --> 05:52:43,200
it done and that is the key to
11025
05:52:43,200 --> 05:52:45,840
networking in most spheres promising The
11026
05:52:45,840 --> 05:52:47,040
Impossible
11027
05:52:47,040 --> 05:52:49,020
finding a way to pull off when you have
11028
05:52:49,020 --> 05:52:50,160
the opportunity
11029
05:52:50,160 --> 05:52:51,840
and doing so in a way that makes you
11030
05:52:51,840 --> 05:52:53,878
come across likable come across as
11031
05:52:53,878 --> 05:52:55,200
someone people want to work with
11032
05:52:55,200 --> 05:52:57,780
building up competence and value and
11033
05:52:57,780 --> 05:52:59,218
then that's going to spread and it's
11034
05:52:59,218 --> 05:53:01,020
going to spread it quickly
11035
05:53:01,020 --> 05:53:02,520
another example I'll tell you the best
11036
05:53:02,520 --> 05:53:03,900
example of where this has happened for
11037
05:53:03,900 --> 05:53:06,058
me personally is with girls
11038
05:53:06,058 --> 05:53:07,920
this has happened for me I can talk
11039
05:53:07,920 --> 05:53:09,958
about all the high net all of high value
11040
05:53:09,958 --> 05:53:12,120
people but the thing that illustrates my
11041
05:53:12,120 --> 05:53:13,860
point the best is with girls
11042
05:53:13,860 --> 05:53:16,020
whenever I'm with people
11043
05:53:16,020 --> 05:53:18,180
and they see me go up to girl I get a
11044
05:53:18,180 --> 05:53:19,558
girl or I turn up with hot girls there's
11045
05:53:19,558 --> 05:53:22,500
always hot girls around me people think
11046
05:53:22,500 --> 05:53:24,360
I want to bring these people I want to
11047
05:53:24,360 --> 05:53:25,620
introduce this person to other people
11048
05:53:25,620 --> 05:53:27,058
because he's the guy he's the one who
11049
05:53:27,058 --> 05:53:28,860
raises the status he's the guy who can
11050
05:53:28,860 --> 05:53:30,298
do this he's the guy and that's
11051
05:53:30,298 --> 05:53:32,100
networking all over just purely because
11052
05:53:32,100 --> 05:53:34,558
I've displayed competence or I promise
11053
05:53:34,558 --> 05:53:36,298
things if people have seen me turn up
11054
05:53:36,298 --> 05:53:37,920
with two super hot girls I'm not trying
11055
05:53:37,920 --> 05:53:39,420
to get on my own next time I say oh yeah
11056
05:53:39,420 --> 05:53:41,280
I could get us unlimited yeah we can go
11057
05:53:41,280 --> 05:53:43,260
get chips any club in this town will go
11058
05:53:43,260 --> 05:53:45,180
get girls any
11059
05:53:45,180 --> 05:53:47,580
they're like wow this guy I've shown
11060
05:53:47,580 --> 05:53:49,798
value and I'm promising value if you do
11061
05:53:49,798 --> 05:53:50,878
one of those two things they want to
11062
05:53:50,878 --> 05:53:52,500
invite you so the next time those two
11063
05:53:52,500 --> 05:53:54,120
dudes go out especially if those dudes
11064
05:53:54,120 --> 05:53:55,260
are millionaires and they're going to a
11065
05:53:55,260 --> 05:53:57,000
club or they're going to Miami or a
11066
05:53:57,000 --> 05:53:58,320
different town they're going to start
11067
05:53:58,320 --> 05:54:00,600
inviting me I've had that happen I've
11068
05:54:00,600 --> 05:54:02,280
had guys with me oh we're going to this
11069
05:54:02,280 --> 05:54:03,900
we're going to Miami you want to come
11070
05:54:03,900 --> 05:54:05,700
I'm a bit busy oh we'll pay your flight
11071
05:54:05,700 --> 05:54:07,020
bro because they're sitting there
11072
05:54:07,020 --> 05:54:09,420
thinking this dude gets [ __ ]
11073
05:54:09,420 --> 05:54:11,340
I have something they want
11074
05:54:11,340 --> 05:54:13,680
I can provide I've shown value and I've
11075
05:54:13,680 --> 05:54:15,600
shown competence or I've promised value
11076
05:54:15,600 --> 05:54:17,160
your competition before you know you get
11077
05:54:17,160 --> 05:54:18,540
invites before you know it you're
11078
05:54:18,540 --> 05:54:19,620
networking before you know it people
11079
05:54:19,620 --> 05:54:20,700
want to introduce you to other people
11080
05:54:20,700 --> 05:54:22,740
that's all networking is whether it's
11081
05:54:22,740 --> 05:54:23,878
money whether it's girls whether it's
11082
05:54:23,878 --> 05:54:25,740
anything else come across as competent
11083
05:54:25,740 --> 05:54:28,558
either get people richer make people
11084
05:54:28,558 --> 05:54:31,440
like you or raise their status for them
11085
05:54:31,440 --> 05:54:32,760
introducing you
11086
05:54:32,760 --> 05:54:34,320
and you're going to find yourself with a
11087
05:54:34,320 --> 05:54:35,878
lot of friends very quickly and then you
11088
05:54:35,878 --> 05:54:37,798
need to be selective about who's worth
11089
05:54:37,798 --> 05:54:39,540
your time and who isn't like I said
11090
05:54:39,540 --> 05:54:40,798
there's nothing wrong with networking
11091
05:54:40,798 --> 05:54:42,540
down but that person you're networking
11092
05:54:42,540 --> 05:54:44,700
down with has been motivated there's a
11093
05:54:44,700 --> 05:54:46,200
whole bunch of time wasters especially
11094
05:54:46,200 --> 05:54:47,700
people at the Vault people the ball most
11095
05:54:47,700 --> 05:54:48,900
of them are there because they're lazy
11096
05:54:48,900 --> 05:54:50,160
because people were motivated they
11097
05:54:50,160 --> 05:54:51,718
wouldn't be at the ball but there are a
11098
05:54:51,718 --> 05:54:53,940
few gems you can find but that's the
11099
05:54:53,940 --> 05:54:55,500
those are the basic elements to
11100
05:54:55,500 --> 05:54:56,820
networking watch this video over and
11101
05:54:56,820 --> 05:54:57,958
over again we've got two more videos
11102
05:54:57,958 --> 05:54:59,700
coming feel free to email me with any
11103
05:54:59,700 --> 05:55:01,920
questions okay
11104
05:55:01,920 --> 05:55:04,620
welcome to God mode
11105
05:55:04,620 --> 05:55:07,200
my name is Tristan Tate now if you
11106
05:55:07,200 --> 05:55:08,940
bought this course you already know who
11107
05:55:08,940 --> 05:55:11,878
I am I assume but who am I to be
11108
05:55:11,878 --> 05:55:14,280
teaching anyone how to get and retain
11109
05:55:14,280 --> 05:55:15,540
beautiful women well let me tell you
11110
05:55:15,540 --> 05:55:18,480
something everybody who has ever met me
11111
05:55:18,480 --> 05:55:20,878
who has ever visited me certainly in the
11112
05:55:20,878 --> 05:55:23,400
last five or six years has commented on
11113
05:55:23,400 --> 05:55:26,638
how many beautiful girls I have so
11114
05:55:26,638 --> 05:55:27,958
before we get into the course material
11115
05:55:27,958 --> 05:55:30,360
let me tell you my credentials I used to
11116
05:55:30,360 --> 05:55:32,160
run one of Europe's largest webcam
11117
05:55:32,160 --> 05:55:35,280
Studios I had 75 women employed by me
11118
05:55:35,280 --> 05:55:37,980
working to working for me and following
11119
05:55:37,980 --> 05:55:39,900
every single order I gave them
11120
05:55:39,900 --> 05:55:42,780
but right now I no longer have my webcam
11121
05:55:42,780 --> 05:55:44,340
Studio I just have a few models who work
11122
05:55:44,340 --> 05:55:48,000
for me but I have a few girlfriends this
11123
05:55:48,000 --> 05:55:50,600
is one of them
11124
05:55:50,820 --> 05:55:53,780
this is the next
11125
05:55:54,000 --> 05:55:56,878
you get the picture number three
11126
05:55:56,878 --> 05:55:58,558
all of these women
11127
05:55:58,558 --> 05:56:01,320
are loyal to me and exclusive to me
11128
05:56:01,320 --> 05:56:03,540
number four
11129
05:56:03,540 --> 05:56:05,780
five
11130
05:56:06,000 --> 05:56:07,620
I have
11131
05:56:07,620 --> 05:56:11,520
six girlfriends six now I'm not talking
11132
05:56:11,520 --> 05:56:13,620
about girls I sleep with sometimes I'm
11133
05:56:13,620 --> 05:56:15,058
not talking about girls who will come to
11134
05:56:15,058 --> 05:56:16,740
see me when I'm drunk or when I'm bored
11135
05:56:16,740 --> 05:56:19,860
I'm talking six relationships women who
11136
05:56:19,860 --> 05:56:22,020
love me women who want families with me
11137
05:56:22,020 --> 05:56:23,400
women who are not going to leave me
11138
05:56:23,400 --> 05:56:25,920
women who are loyal to me I'm not even
11139
05:56:25,920 --> 05:56:27,540
going to waste your time by naming how
11140
05:56:27,540 --> 05:56:29,400
many side chicks I have come and hang
11141
05:56:29,400 --> 05:56:31,138
out with me for a week or so I don't
11142
05:56:31,138 --> 05:56:32,700
know if you're in the war room or not if
11143
05:56:32,700 --> 05:56:34,920
I know you personally or not but if you
11144
05:56:34,920 --> 05:56:38,340
hang out with me you will see my life is
11145
05:56:38,340 --> 05:56:39,480
crazy
11146
05:56:39,480 --> 05:56:41,940
now how do I do it my pretend my
11147
05:56:41,940 --> 05:56:44,520
credentials are are Beyond doubt but
11148
05:56:44,520 --> 05:56:47,160
there's methodology to my Badness and
11149
05:56:47,160 --> 05:56:49,320
that's why you bought this course let me
11150
05:56:49,320 --> 05:56:51,660
explain something to you there's no
11151
05:56:51,660 --> 05:56:54,660
trick there's no life hack there's no
11152
05:56:54,660 --> 05:56:56,940
being in a position where all the women
11153
05:56:56,940 --> 05:56:59,218
you meet or come into contact with want
11154
05:56:59,218 --> 05:57:01,440
to have sex with you that doesn't exist
11155
05:57:01,440 --> 05:57:03,780
for any man on the planet besides Brad
11156
05:57:03,780 --> 05:57:06,660
Pitt and a few others if you want to be
11157
05:57:06,660 --> 05:57:09,240
an elite level player an elite level
11158
05:57:09,240 --> 05:57:12,360
Playboy like me you have to work at it
11159
05:57:12,360 --> 05:57:14,160
this is what I explained to everybody
11160
05:57:14,160 --> 05:57:16,558
why is Floyd Mayweather the best boxer
11161
05:57:16,558 --> 05:57:18,840
in the world why is Roger Federer the
11162
05:57:18,840 --> 05:57:21,020
best tennis player in the world because
11163
05:57:21,020 --> 05:57:24,540
they train and worked and perfect their
11164
05:57:24,540 --> 05:57:26,580
skills and that's why they are the best
11165
05:57:26,580 --> 05:57:29,700
in their field I am exactly the same I'm
11166
05:57:29,700 --> 05:57:32,400
not some guy who women just all want and
11167
05:57:32,400 --> 05:57:33,958
they chase me and message me on
11168
05:57:33,958 --> 05:57:35,340
Instagram and want to come over to my
11169
05:57:35,340 --> 05:57:38,340
house no I make a conscious effort every
11170
05:57:38,340 --> 05:57:41,760
single day I wake up I plan I make my
11171
05:57:41,760 --> 05:57:43,620
moves like I'm on a chessboard and I
11172
05:57:43,620 --> 05:57:45,718
keep not only my six relationships going
11173
05:57:45,718 --> 05:57:49,080
but I have plenty of time to meet new
11174
05:57:49,080 --> 05:57:50,218
women
11175
05:57:50,218 --> 05:57:51,900
so that brings me into module one in
11176
05:57:51,900 --> 05:57:53,700
this course we're going to talk about
11177
05:57:53,700 --> 05:57:55,320
meeting women
11178
05:57:55,320 --> 05:57:57,980
and dating
11179
05:58:00,360 --> 05:58:03,780
now guys what I'm not gonna go into in
11180
05:58:03,780 --> 05:58:06,900
this course is how to dress how to
11181
05:58:06,900 --> 05:58:09,958
behave generally you know the answer to
11182
05:58:09,958 --> 05:58:11,580
the question how to dress I don't know
11183
05:58:11,580 --> 05:58:13,680
what's your style are you a rugged guy
11184
05:58:13,680 --> 05:58:15,058
with a lumberjack t-shirt and a big
11185
05:58:15,058 --> 05:58:17,520
beard good look that way are you a black
11186
05:58:17,520 --> 05:58:20,218
guy with dreadlocks good look that way I
11187
05:58:20,218 --> 05:58:22,500
can't tell you how to dress how to style
11188
05:58:22,500 --> 05:58:24,840
style yourself or how to act and behave
11189
05:58:24,840 --> 05:58:28,378
that's all individual to you so you be
11190
05:58:28,378 --> 05:58:30,600
yourself and play the game the best way
11191
05:58:30,600 --> 05:58:33,840
that you can and you know how to how to
11192
05:58:33,840 --> 05:58:36,000
behave don't be a woman hater don't be
11193
05:58:36,000 --> 05:58:38,100
sour don't be bitter don't be unpleasant
11194
05:58:38,100 --> 05:58:40,680
don't be rude these are very basic
11195
05:58:40,680 --> 05:58:42,420
things and I'm not even going to bother
11196
05:58:42,420 --> 05:58:44,820
covering these if you can't get a single
11197
05:58:44,820 --> 05:58:46,620
girl to talk to you this is probably the
11198
05:58:46,620 --> 05:58:48,540
wrong course for you I'm teaching you
11199
05:58:48,540 --> 05:58:50,638
how to up your game from a guy with one
11200
05:58:50,638 --> 05:58:53,638
or two girlfriends to five or six like
11201
05:58:53,638 --> 05:58:56,878
me and a harem of side chicks a question
11202
05:58:56,878 --> 05:58:59,638
I'm asked a lot is how do you meet women
11203
05:58:59,638 --> 05:59:01,500
so before before we get into the digital
11204
05:59:01,500 --> 05:59:02,760
side of things we're going to talk about
11205
05:59:02,760 --> 05:59:06,000
how to meet women in the real world now
11206
05:59:06,000 --> 05:59:07,378
the best way to meet women in the real
11207
05:59:07,378 --> 05:59:09,540
world is not what a lot of people on the
11208
05:59:09,540 --> 05:59:12,420
internet will tell you approaches now
11209
05:59:12,420 --> 05:59:15,360
the guys who do approaches number their
11210
05:59:15,360 --> 05:59:17,160
approaches they Count Their statistics
11211
05:59:17,160 --> 05:59:19,798
oh I had sex with 10 of them I did 100
11212
05:59:19,798 --> 05:59:22,680
approaches today are you a nerd are you
11213
05:59:22,680 --> 05:59:24,958
a geek what kind of person are you where
11214
05:59:24,958 --> 05:59:27,900
you have all day to walk around trying
11215
05:59:27,900 --> 05:59:30,240
to talk to women on the off chance that
11216
05:59:30,240 --> 05:59:32,580
one might have sex with you approaches
11217
05:59:32,580 --> 05:59:35,820
my way is completely completely
11218
05:59:35,820 --> 05:59:38,218
different you see I don't March around
11219
05:59:38,218 --> 05:59:40,260
trying to get women to have sex with me
11220
05:59:40,260 --> 05:59:43,378
by talking to them I have built a
11221
05:59:43,378 --> 05:59:46,138
lifestyle I have built a life which puts
11222
05:59:46,138 --> 05:59:48,660
me in contact with beautiful women I'm
11223
05:59:48,660 --> 05:59:50,218
around them I'm in the bit I'm in the
11224
05:59:50,218 --> 05:59:51,900
best clubs I'm in the best restaurants
11225
05:59:51,900 --> 05:59:53,580
I'm in the best bars I'm in the best
11226
05:59:53,580 --> 05:59:55,200
spots in the world I'm flying all over
11227
05:59:55,200 --> 05:59:57,000
the place the highest level women in the
11228
05:59:57,000 --> 05:59:58,680
world are not in your local mall
11229
05:59:58,680 --> 06:00:01,860
gentlemen they're in some are in can or
11230
06:00:01,860 --> 06:00:03,780
Monte Carlo and if you're not there
11231
06:00:03,780 --> 06:00:06,180
you're not going to get them so the key
11232
06:00:06,180 --> 06:00:07,920
to approaches is to keep your number of
11233
06:00:07,920 --> 06:00:10,558
approaches very very low aim like a
11234
06:00:10,558 --> 06:00:12,840
sniper not a flamethrower if you see a
11235
06:00:12,840 --> 06:00:14,400
beautiful girl you're in a high-end spot
11236
06:00:14,400 --> 06:00:16,138
you want to add her to your Harem you
11237
06:00:16,138 --> 06:00:17,400
want to add her to your collection even
11238
06:00:17,400 --> 06:00:19,320
if you're in your local bar she could be
11239
06:00:19,320 --> 06:00:21,058
a beautiful barmaid you make your one
11240
06:00:21,058 --> 06:00:22,740
approach you try to get her contact
11241
06:00:22,740 --> 06:00:25,340
details and you then work on that lead
11242
06:00:25,340 --> 06:00:27,900
Mass approaching every woman who you
11243
06:00:27,900 --> 06:00:30,420
could talk to is the enemy of an elite
11244
06:00:30,420 --> 06:00:32,580
Playboy like myself because you need the
11245
06:00:32,580 --> 06:00:35,040
hours of the day you need your hours in
11246
06:00:35,040 --> 06:00:38,218
the day to work to do business to do
11247
06:00:38,218 --> 06:00:40,080
other things that are important that add
11248
06:00:40,080 --> 06:00:41,940
to the lifestyle that attracts beautiful
11249
06:00:41,940 --> 06:00:45,000
women you can't afford to waste all your
11250
06:00:45,000 --> 06:00:47,580
day walking around walking up to girls
11251
06:00:47,580 --> 06:00:49,500
asking for their Facebooks asking for
11252
06:00:49,500 --> 06:00:50,700
their Instagrams asking for their
11253
06:00:50,700 --> 06:00:53,520
numbers it's pathetic you need to make
11254
06:00:53,520 --> 06:00:55,558
your approaches when it's approaching
11255
06:00:55,558 --> 06:00:56,878
time you're out with your friends you're
11256
06:00:56,878 --> 06:00:58,740
at a nice restaurant you see a group of
11257
06:00:58,740 --> 06:01:00,780
girls you're out at a nice bar you see a
11258
06:01:00,780 --> 06:01:02,280
girl by the bar she catches your eye
11259
06:01:02,280 --> 06:01:04,138
then you go over and you make your
11260
06:01:04,138 --> 06:01:06,058
approach I make no more than two or
11261
06:01:06,058 --> 06:01:08,820
three approaches a week if that and I'm
11262
06:01:08,820 --> 06:01:10,980
a very social guy and I get more women
11263
06:01:10,980 --> 06:01:13,378
than all the people you see on the
11264
06:01:13,378 --> 06:01:16,138
internet every single one of them so
11265
06:01:16,138 --> 06:01:18,420
meeting women in the real world is very
11266
06:01:18,420 --> 06:01:20,820
possible and relatively easy be
11267
06:01:20,820 --> 06:01:22,200
confident I'm not going to teach you how
11268
06:01:22,200 --> 06:01:23,878
to approach women because every guy has
11269
06:01:23,878 --> 06:01:26,160
their own methodology I'll usually walk
11270
06:01:26,160 --> 06:01:27,958
up and I'll start with a compliment I'll
11271
06:01:27,958 --> 06:01:31,138
open with something as cheesy as you're
11272
06:01:31,138 --> 06:01:32,638
really pretty or you're beautiful
11273
06:01:32,638 --> 06:01:35,040
because if she says oh thank you then
11274
06:01:35,040 --> 06:01:36,540
she's interested if she looks at you
11275
06:01:36,540 --> 06:01:38,760
funny or says I have a boyfriend or says
11276
06:01:38,760 --> 06:01:40,740
anything negative you say okay no
11277
06:01:40,740 --> 06:01:41,638
problem I just want to say You're
11278
06:01:41,638 --> 06:01:44,100
beautiful have a nice day goodbye and
11279
06:01:44,100 --> 06:01:45,840
you leave them whereas any kind of
11280
06:01:45,840 --> 06:01:47,878
positive response to the compliment you
11281
06:01:47,878 --> 06:01:49,620
have your foot in the door and you can
11282
06:01:49,620 --> 06:01:51,840
make your clothes in you can get the
11283
06:01:51,840 --> 06:01:52,680
telephone
11284
06:01:52,680 --> 06:01:55,320
a WhatsApp number which you then later
11285
06:01:55,320 --> 06:01:58,320
work on So speaking of WhatsApp we're
11286
06:01:58,320 --> 06:02:02,218
going to go into the online dating game
11287
06:02:02,218 --> 06:02:04,378
now let me tell you the world has
11288
06:02:04,378 --> 06:02:06,718
changed the world has shifted
11289
06:02:06,718 --> 06:02:09,360
from many years ago when all Playboys
11290
06:02:09,360 --> 06:02:11,040
made their approaches person to person
11291
06:02:11,040 --> 06:02:13,020
there was no other way of doing it the
11292
06:02:13,020 --> 06:02:14,638
internet didn't exist Instagram didn't
11293
06:02:14,638 --> 06:02:17,760
exist and the best dating app that
11294
06:02:17,760 --> 06:02:20,040
exists right now is
11295
06:02:20,040 --> 06:02:21,620
Instagram
11296
06:02:21,620 --> 06:02:24,480
match.com Tinder this is where the ugly
11297
06:02:24,480 --> 06:02:26,580
girls hang out girls who can't get a
11298
06:02:26,580 --> 06:02:28,320
boyfriend they might download Tinder a
11299
06:02:28,320 --> 06:02:30,000
hot girl might download Tinder and mess
11300
06:02:30,000 --> 06:02:31,798
around with it for five minutes but
11301
06:02:31,798 --> 06:02:34,798
dating apps are nowhere near as powerful
11302
06:02:34,798 --> 06:02:38,100
as Instagram everyone who's anyone every
11303
06:02:38,100 --> 06:02:40,798
attractive girl in the world is on
11304
06:02:40,798 --> 06:02:43,080
Instagram and every guy who's an elite
11305
06:02:43,080 --> 06:02:45,360
level guy every guy with some clout some
11306
06:02:45,360 --> 06:02:48,000
presents some money some Talent some
11307
06:02:48,000 --> 06:02:50,760
skill something to offer is on Instagram
11308
06:02:50,760 --> 06:02:52,680
too Instagram is the most powerful
11309
06:02:52,680 --> 06:02:54,600
dating app in the world
11310
06:02:54,600 --> 06:02:56,878
now if you've ever had a girlfriend what
11311
06:02:56,878 --> 06:02:59,040
you should do next time you do is get
11312
06:02:59,040 --> 06:03:01,260
access to her Instagram inbox I have
11313
06:03:01,260 --> 06:03:02,820
Instagram inbox
11314
06:03:02,820 --> 06:03:04,798
um passwords to all of my girlfriends
11315
06:03:04,798 --> 06:03:06,540
all six of them so I could see the
11316
06:03:06,540 --> 06:03:09,900
messages they get every single day 20 or
11317
06:03:09,900 --> 06:03:12,660
30 people are messaging them hi babe hi
11318
06:03:12,660 --> 06:03:15,420
you look good now they don't read the
11319
06:03:15,420 --> 06:03:18,000
messages this is the problem and this is
11320
06:03:18,000 --> 06:03:19,798
why Instagram is important if you
11321
06:03:19,798 --> 06:03:21,660
understand Instagram game and you
11322
06:03:21,660 --> 06:03:23,820
understand how it works you could be the
11323
06:03:23,820 --> 06:03:25,378
most handsome guy in the world
11324
06:03:25,378 --> 06:03:29,520
you could be a Ferrari driver you could
11325
06:03:29,520 --> 06:03:31,680
be in super yachts in all your pictures
11326
06:03:31,680 --> 06:03:35,218
and private jets if you have a boring
11327
06:03:35,218 --> 06:03:37,620
profile picture and 200 people following
11328
06:03:37,620 --> 06:03:40,500
you it's not that the girl likes you for
11329
06:03:40,500 --> 06:03:43,200
the number of followers it's you are not
11330
06:03:43,200 --> 06:03:45,360
going to be seen you're going to send a
11331
06:03:45,360 --> 06:03:46,740
message to this beautiful girl she's
11332
06:03:46,740 --> 06:03:48,420
going to scroll down her messages oh
11333
06:03:48,420 --> 06:03:50,100
who's this this guy has 20 000 followers
11334
06:03:50,100 --> 06:03:52,500
let me read this guy's messages she's
11335
06:03:52,500 --> 06:03:54,660
going to skip right past you the
11336
06:03:54,660 --> 06:03:57,180
importance of building up a nice
11337
06:03:57,180 --> 06:04:00,000
Instagram page when it comes to game is
11338
06:04:00,000 --> 06:04:02,218
exceptionally important in today's world
11339
06:04:02,218 --> 06:04:04,980
right now I'm 40 something thousand
11340
06:04:04,980 --> 06:04:07,620
followers I have a verified tick now I'm
11341
06:04:07,620 --> 06:04:09,180
uglier I'm sure than lots of guys who
11342
06:04:09,180 --> 06:04:10,440
are messaging these models and these
11343
06:04:10,440 --> 06:04:12,780
girls who I do meet on Instagram however
11344
06:04:12,780 --> 06:04:14,638
when I send a message it could be
11345
06:04:14,638 --> 06:04:17,040
something as mundane as hello or a love
11346
06:04:17,040 --> 06:04:18,660
heart reaction to one of her stories
11347
06:04:18,660 --> 06:04:21,000
she's scrolling down her page guy more
11348
06:04:21,000 --> 06:04:22,620
handsome than me guy more handsome than
11349
06:04:22,620 --> 06:04:25,020
me billionaire ugly guy and then there's
11350
06:04:25,020 --> 06:04:27,120
me there's a little blue tick next to my
11351
06:04:27,120 --> 06:04:28,200
name it says I have 40 something
11352
06:04:28,200 --> 06:04:30,120
thousand followers oh who's this guy
11353
06:04:30,120 --> 06:04:32,100
she'll then click on my page and look at
11354
06:04:32,100 --> 06:04:34,080
my page she doesn't look at anyone else
11355
06:04:34,080 --> 06:04:36,058
she'll look at my page and think oh this
11356
06:04:36,058 --> 06:04:37,320
guy decided to send me a message you
11357
06:04:37,320 --> 06:04:39,240
know what I'm gonna message back or I
11358
06:04:39,240 --> 06:04:41,400
won't message back but my messages are
11359
06:04:41,400 --> 06:04:43,680
getting opened and that is the key to
11360
06:04:43,680 --> 06:04:46,320
Instagram game you need to have a
11361
06:04:46,320 --> 06:04:48,718
powerful profile you know if you need to
11362
06:04:48,718 --> 06:04:50,520
post photos of cars do it you need to
11363
06:04:50,520 --> 06:04:52,020
post photos with other girls do whatever
11364
06:04:52,020 --> 06:04:54,480
it takes to build up your likes to build
11365
06:04:54,480 --> 06:04:57,000
up your online presence because it's
11366
06:04:57,000 --> 06:04:58,378
almost as important when meeting women
11367
06:04:58,378 --> 06:05:00,180
as your real life presence which we're
11368
06:05:00,180 --> 06:05:01,558
going to get into later in this course
11369
06:05:01,558 --> 06:05:04,558
so Instagram is the most powerful dating
11370
06:05:04,558 --> 06:05:06,600
app in the world
11371
06:05:06,600 --> 06:05:10,378
I made uh headlines National headlines
11372
06:05:10,378 --> 06:05:12,180
um by stealing one of the most famous
11373
06:05:12,180 --> 06:05:14,878
women in my country Romania from her
11374
06:05:14,878 --> 06:05:16,378
husband over a million followers
11375
06:05:16,378 --> 06:05:18,480
verified on Instagram this girl how did
11376
06:05:18,480 --> 06:05:19,980
I meet her I sent her an Instagram
11377
06:05:19,980 --> 06:05:22,320
message now she gets thousands of
11378
06:05:22,320 --> 06:05:24,660
messages every day but very few from
11379
06:05:24,660 --> 06:05:26,820
guys of my caliber very few from guys
11380
06:05:26,820 --> 06:05:28,740
with that many followers a blue check
11381
06:05:28,740 --> 06:05:30,840
mark she obviously was curious to see
11382
06:05:30,840 --> 06:05:34,558
who I am I made a nationwide Scandal by
11383
06:05:34,558 --> 06:05:36,120
stealing this woman from her husband so
11384
06:05:36,120 --> 06:05:39,298
if Instagram you have to treat it like a
11385
06:05:39,298 --> 06:05:41,400
job as I said in the introduction to
11386
06:05:41,400 --> 06:05:43,260
this why are why is Floyd Mayweather the
11387
06:05:43,260 --> 06:05:44,340
best boxer in the world because he
11388
06:05:44,340 --> 06:05:46,378
trains if you want to be one of the best
11389
06:05:46,378 --> 06:05:48,240
Playboys in the world and operate on my
11390
06:05:48,240 --> 06:05:51,000
level you have to think daily you have
11391
06:05:51,000 --> 06:05:52,980
to make a conscious effort to be more
11392
06:05:52,980 --> 06:05:55,680
attractive more out there more in the
11393
06:05:55,680 --> 06:05:58,680
face of of the women around you so every
11394
06:05:58,680 --> 06:06:00,900
day if you see a cool scene you see a
11395
06:06:00,900 --> 06:06:02,280
cool restaurant you're in a cool place
11396
06:06:02,280 --> 06:06:03,958
get someone to take a picture of you
11397
06:06:03,958 --> 06:06:05,700
yeah it's narcissistic I hate pictures
11398
06:06:05,700 --> 06:06:07,920
I'm not even photogenic I'm ugly in
11399
06:06:07,920 --> 06:06:10,138
pictures but I take these cool pictures
11400
06:06:10,138 --> 06:06:11,760
and I put them online because I know
11401
06:06:11,760 --> 06:06:13,940
it's money in the bank it's going to
11402
06:06:13,940 --> 06:06:16,920
grow with interest and it's going to pay
11403
06:06:16,920 --> 06:06:19,260
off in the long run so absolutely you
11404
06:06:19,260 --> 06:06:21,540
have to apply yourself to your online
11405
06:06:21,540 --> 06:06:23,400
presence and nothing is more important
11406
06:06:23,400 --> 06:06:25,080
than Instagram
11407
06:06:25,080 --> 06:06:28,080
there is a time and a place for dating
11408
06:06:28,080 --> 06:06:31,500
apps dating apps really do work I'm
11409
06:06:31,500 --> 06:06:35,458
filming this on April the 11th 2020. in
11410
06:06:35,458 --> 06:06:37,500
the middle of a quarantine
11411
06:06:37,500 --> 06:06:39,000
which sucks
11412
06:06:39,000 --> 06:06:42,240
however one country is not quarantined
11413
06:06:42,240 --> 06:06:44,760
Stockholm Sweden the capital of Sweden
11414
06:06:44,760 --> 06:06:47,700
was open for business so I decided to
11415
06:06:47,700 --> 06:06:49,020
head over to Sweden with my brother and
11416
06:06:49,020 --> 06:06:51,180
have a bit of fun play The Playboy game
11417
06:06:51,180 --> 06:06:53,820
over in Stockholm see how it goes now if
11418
06:06:53,820 --> 06:06:56,100
I had showed up in Stockholm which was a
11419
06:06:56,100 --> 06:06:57,660
lot quieter than usual where would I
11420
06:06:57,660 --> 06:06:58,680
meet the beautiful girls I wouldn't
11421
06:06:58,680 --> 06:07:00,600
really know where to hang out I wouldn't
11422
06:07:00,600 --> 06:07:03,360
know where to go or what to do so I set
11423
06:07:03,360 --> 06:07:05,878
my Tinder location yeah I pay for Tinder
11424
06:07:05,878 --> 06:07:08,458
I pay for the premium Tinder I set my
11425
06:07:08,458 --> 06:07:10,798
location to Sweden I don't bother
11426
06:07:10,798 --> 06:07:13,980
swiping I pay for those boost things and
11427
06:07:13,980 --> 06:07:15,540
I have the Tinder gold to see who swipes
11428
06:07:15,540 --> 06:07:17,638
me first I run three or four boosts then
11429
06:07:17,638 --> 06:07:19,980
I take my pick again like with Instagram
11430
06:07:19,980 --> 06:07:22,320
my Tinder pictures are me next to my
11431
06:07:22,320 --> 06:07:24,600
supercars me by the pool me looking good
11432
06:07:24,600 --> 06:07:27,000
having trained hard I try to get all the
11433
06:07:27,000 --> 06:07:29,400
attention I can from the social media
11434
06:07:29,400 --> 06:07:31,080
and my Tinder pictures are my Instagram
11435
06:07:31,080 --> 06:07:32,160
pictures
11436
06:07:32,160 --> 06:07:34,378
I then look at the best girls that have
11437
06:07:34,378 --> 06:07:36,540
swiped me I picked one her name was
11438
06:07:36,540 --> 06:07:39,058
Philippa absolutely beautiful girl
11439
06:07:39,058 --> 06:07:40,920
absolutely beautiful girl in fact here's
11440
06:07:40,920 --> 06:07:42,000
a picture I'm including a picture of
11441
06:07:42,000 --> 06:07:44,520
Philippa right now this is her
11442
06:07:44,520 --> 06:07:46,920
now Tinder is great for one thing and
11443
06:07:46,920 --> 06:07:48,660
one thing only
11444
06:07:48,660 --> 06:07:51,840
finding the best places in the city to
11445
06:07:51,840 --> 06:07:52,558
go
11446
06:07:52,558 --> 06:07:55,378
now years ago if you were a Playboy and
11447
06:07:55,378 --> 06:07:57,120
you would land in a new city land in
11448
06:07:57,120 --> 06:08:00,180
Singapore it's 1988.
11449
06:08:00,180 --> 06:08:02,340
what you do is you get in a taxi and you
11450
06:08:02,340 --> 06:08:03,958
tell the taxi driver hey brother you
11451
06:08:03,958 --> 06:08:05,280
know where's the coolest spot in town
11452
06:08:05,280 --> 06:08:07,200
where's the where's the hot joint
11453
06:08:07,200 --> 06:08:09,000
where's the where's the cool restaurants
11454
06:08:09,000 --> 06:08:10,440
the cool bars where the pretty girls
11455
06:08:10,440 --> 06:08:12,180
hang out and the taxi driver would give
11456
06:08:12,180 --> 06:08:13,920
you all the information you needed maybe
11457
06:08:13,920 --> 06:08:16,500
a hotel concierge today taxi drivers
11458
06:08:16,500 --> 06:08:19,260
don't know [ __ ] they're bitter they're
11459
06:08:19,260 --> 06:08:21,420
upset they the world has changed the
11460
06:08:21,420 --> 06:08:23,878
rich poor divide is wider than ever taxi
11461
06:08:23,878 --> 06:08:25,378
drivers aren't going to the expensive
11462
06:08:25,378 --> 06:08:27,660
places but you know who knows the best
11463
06:08:27,660 --> 06:08:29,760
places in every city
11464
06:08:29,760 --> 06:08:33,480
beautiful girls that's what Tinder is
11465
06:08:33,480 --> 06:08:35,340
for if you use Tinder trying to get your
11466
06:08:35,340 --> 06:08:38,340
pee pee sucked you're doing it wrong you
11467
06:08:38,340 --> 06:08:40,500
need to use Tinder to find the best
11468
06:08:40,500 --> 06:08:42,298
places to go matched with a really
11469
06:08:42,298 --> 06:08:44,100
beautiful girl and say hey what's the
11470
06:08:44,100 --> 06:08:45,600
best place to go in Stockholm on a
11471
06:08:45,600 --> 06:08:48,240
Friday night oh what was the name of the
11472
06:08:48,240 --> 06:08:49,798
place now can't remember the name but
11473
06:08:49,798 --> 06:08:51,660
this girl Philippa replies to me oh it's
11474
06:08:51,660 --> 06:08:53,760
here I say okay we're going I'm going to
11475
06:08:53,760 --> 06:08:55,260
take you out bring your friends because
11476
06:08:55,260 --> 06:08:57,120
I was with my friends I'm gonna take you
11477
06:08:57,120 --> 06:08:59,700
out let's have fun now she said yes and
11478
06:08:59,700 --> 06:09:02,940
if she had said no who cares I now know
11479
06:09:02,940 --> 06:09:05,400
the best place in town I know where
11480
06:09:05,400 --> 06:09:08,280
girls like her hang out
11481
06:09:08,280 --> 06:09:10,558
so Stockholm are all worked out
11482
06:09:10,558 --> 06:09:12,240
exceptionally well I ended up sleeping
11483
06:09:12,240 --> 06:09:13,440
with this girl Philippa she's still
11484
06:09:13,440 --> 06:09:14,638
messaging me now I've been home for
11485
06:09:14,638 --> 06:09:16,798
weeks and weeks that's what Tinder is
11486
06:09:16,798 --> 06:09:18,958
good for finding the best places to hang
11487
06:09:18,958 --> 06:09:19,980
out in town
11488
06:09:19,980 --> 06:09:21,718
and when you get to these places make
11489
06:09:21,718 --> 06:09:23,280
sure you check in on Instagram take a
11490
06:09:23,280 --> 06:09:24,780
picture tag yourself on Instagram
11491
06:09:24,780 --> 06:09:27,840
because if you do that I tag myself at
11492
06:09:27,840 --> 06:09:30,180
the Stockholm Grand Hotel the best hotel
11493
06:09:30,180 --> 06:09:32,400
in the city that's where I was staying I
11494
06:09:32,400 --> 06:09:34,740
had three or four girls message me
11495
06:09:34,740 --> 06:09:36,780
simply because I tagged myself at that
11496
06:09:36,780 --> 06:09:40,320
hotel girls from Sweden they all are
11497
06:09:40,320 --> 06:09:42,180
obsessed with Instagram hot girls are
11498
06:09:42,180 --> 06:09:44,940
obsessed with Instagram and how do I
11499
06:09:44,940 --> 06:09:46,320
find out that the Stockholm Grand Hotel
11500
06:09:46,320 --> 06:09:48,298
was the best place in town to stay from
11501
06:09:48,298 --> 06:09:50,820
a chick on Tinder who I never even met
11502
06:09:50,820 --> 06:09:52,558
I said oh yeah I'm thinking I don't know
11503
06:09:52,558 --> 06:09:53,580
where to stay she goes all the best
11504
06:09:53,580 --> 06:09:55,020
hotels the Stockholm Grand Hotel I
11505
06:09:55,020 --> 06:09:57,900
Googled it it was boom booked it then at
11506
06:09:57,900 --> 06:09:59,280
the end of the night when I was done in
11507
06:09:59,280 --> 06:10:01,500
that club or whatever with Philippa oh
11508
06:10:01,500 --> 06:10:03,840
where are you staying the Stockholm
11509
06:10:03,840 --> 06:10:05,160
Grand Hotel
11510
06:10:05,160 --> 06:10:06,600
of course it's the best hotel in the
11511
06:10:06,600 --> 06:10:10,020
city like I knew and I didn't oh wow
11512
06:10:10,020 --> 06:10:11,280
yeah it is the best hotel in the city
11513
06:10:11,280 --> 06:10:12,600
you know I've got a killer mini bar
11514
06:10:12,600 --> 06:10:13,798
let's go and have some drinks come on
11515
06:10:13,798 --> 06:10:16,020
it's not like I know everything here
11516
06:10:16,020 --> 06:10:17,400
closed at three that's weird you know in
11517
06:10:17,400 --> 06:10:18,900
my in my country the parking goes until
11518
06:10:18,900 --> 06:10:21,240
five true or not I would have used that
11519
06:10:21,240 --> 06:10:24,240
line let's go back to the hotel that's
11520
06:10:24,240 --> 06:10:26,520
what dating apps are useful for
11521
06:10:26,520 --> 06:10:28,860
if you're there trying to get laid
11522
06:10:28,860 --> 06:10:30,298
trying to talk trying to make your
11523
06:10:30,298 --> 06:10:31,798
girlfriend and stuff forget about it man
11524
06:10:31,798 --> 06:10:35,040
forget about it these girls get every
11525
06:10:35,040 --> 06:10:38,040
dude they swipe is a match after a day
11526
06:10:38,040 --> 06:10:40,020
or two of talking to them you're they're
11527
06:10:40,020 --> 06:10:41,820
gonna stop replying regardless of who
11528
06:10:41,820 --> 06:10:43,558
you are if you think she's really hot
11529
06:10:43,558 --> 06:10:45,240
and you met her on Tinder get her off
11530
06:10:45,240 --> 06:10:48,360
Tinder ASAP get her onto Instagram get
11531
06:10:48,360 --> 06:10:50,160
her onto WhatsApp because at least if
11532
06:10:50,160 --> 06:10:51,900
you get onto Instagram and you send
11533
06:10:51,900 --> 06:10:54,120
messages back and forth hey it's me you
11534
06:10:54,120 --> 06:10:55,980
are now out of her other inbox and in
11535
06:10:55,980 --> 06:10:58,080
her main inbox you're a guy she knows a
11536
06:10:58,080 --> 06:10:59,700
guy she swiped in since she's attracted
11537
06:10:59,700 --> 06:11:01,440
to and she will always read your
11538
06:11:01,440 --> 06:11:03,540
messages that's a good lead
11539
06:11:03,540 --> 06:11:05,160
forget about Tinder
11540
06:11:05,160 --> 06:11:07,138
terrible that's its only use now
11541
06:11:07,138 --> 06:11:08,458
depending on the culture of the country
11542
06:11:08,458 --> 06:11:11,400
you're in another way you can meet women
11543
06:11:11,400 --> 06:11:12,660
is
11544
06:11:12,660 --> 06:11:15,180
by having a group of women with you now
11545
06:11:15,180 --> 06:11:17,458
I know this sounds insane guys I know
11546
06:11:17,458 --> 06:11:20,040
this sounds crazy but if you know two or
11547
06:11:20,040 --> 06:11:21,420
three girls and you're heading over to a
11548
06:11:21,420 --> 06:11:22,980
nightclub or a bar and you invite them
11549
06:11:22,980 --> 06:11:25,440
with you having a group of women with
11550
06:11:25,440 --> 06:11:27,840
you in a town or city where these women
11551
06:11:27,840 --> 06:11:32,100
are from it acts like a magnet this is
11552
06:11:32,100 --> 06:11:34,138
Elite level stuff that you will not hear
11553
06:11:34,138 --> 06:11:37,138
anywhere else if you have three or four
11554
06:11:37,138 --> 06:11:39,958
girls from New York with you while you
11555
06:11:39,958 --> 06:11:41,638
are in New York and you're taking to the
11556
06:11:41,638 --> 06:11:43,138
best clubs and the best bars and the
11557
06:11:43,138 --> 06:11:45,680
best spots the girls they know
11558
06:11:45,680 --> 06:11:48,780
congregate around you they come to talk
11559
06:11:48,780 --> 06:11:50,340
to their friends you can make your brief
11560
06:11:50,340 --> 06:11:52,020
introduction hello my name is Tristan oh
11561
06:11:52,020 --> 06:11:53,280
really nice to meet you yeah I'm just
11562
06:11:53,280 --> 06:11:55,260
out with these girls right now but I'll
11563
06:11:55,260 --> 06:11:56,160
tell you what if you've got Instagram
11564
06:11:56,160 --> 06:11:58,020
yeah you know you come out with us next
11565
06:11:58,020 --> 06:11:59,458
time right you know stay here stay at
11566
06:11:59,458 --> 06:12:00,900
our table screw those guys
11567
06:12:00,900 --> 06:12:04,378
having girls with you acts like a magnet
11568
06:12:04,378 --> 06:12:06,180
now when I was much younger if I went
11569
06:12:06,180 --> 06:12:08,100
out trying to look for women it was a
11570
06:12:08,100 --> 06:12:09,540
different world but I'd go out by myself
11571
06:12:09,540 --> 06:12:12,180
to crappy bars and clubs and try to talk
11572
06:12:12,180 --> 06:12:13,740
to girls you know I learned things the
11573
06:12:13,740 --> 06:12:17,280
hard way however now I do not go out
11574
06:12:17,280 --> 06:12:20,638
with just men I go out with women every
11575
06:12:20,638 --> 06:12:22,138
single time I don't care if they're my
11576
06:12:22,138 --> 06:12:24,600
friends my girlfriends girls I'm
11577
06:12:24,600 --> 06:12:27,660
sleeping with I bring women when I go
11578
06:12:27,660 --> 06:12:29,280
out because they're friends their
11579
06:12:29,280 --> 06:12:30,958
girlfriends their mates they all want to
11580
06:12:30,958 --> 06:12:33,180
come over and talk oh hi oh you're at
11581
06:12:33,180 --> 06:12:34,558
Tristan's table or maybe they don't even
11582
06:12:34,558 --> 06:12:36,420
know me maybe I can make an introduction
11583
06:12:36,420 --> 06:12:38,458
and that is a way that I meet a lot of
11584
06:12:38,458 --> 06:12:40,138
women the friends of the women who I
11585
06:12:40,138 --> 06:12:42,360
[ __ ] you better believe I've been
11586
06:12:42,360 --> 06:12:44,340
through a lot of them especially my side
11587
06:12:44,340 --> 06:12:46,320
chicks when it comes to keeping my
11588
06:12:46,320 --> 06:12:48,000
girlfriends I don't really [ __ ] their
11589
06:12:48,000 --> 06:12:49,558
friends that's a bit of a
11590
06:12:49,558 --> 06:12:52,080
a line I tend not to cross because I'm
11591
06:12:52,080 --> 06:12:54,360
spoiled for choice but yeah having women
11592
06:12:54,360 --> 06:12:55,378
with you
11593
06:12:55,378 --> 06:12:57,420
attracts women don't let anyone tell you
11594
06:12:57,420 --> 06:12:58,980
that it doesn't because I know better
11595
06:12:58,980 --> 06:13:00,958
than anyone else another way to meet
11596
06:13:00,958 --> 06:13:03,420
women is reputation
11597
06:13:03,420 --> 06:13:05,218
especially in your home City I don't
11598
06:13:05,218 --> 06:13:08,160
care you if you live in South Africa or
11599
06:13:08,160 --> 06:13:09,780
Johannesburg I don't care if you live in
11600
06:13:09,780 --> 06:13:11,760
Mozambique I don't care if you live in
11601
06:13:11,760 --> 06:13:15,420
uh Sydney La wherever you're from your
11602
06:13:15,420 --> 06:13:17,520
reputation matters especially in the
11603
06:13:17,520 --> 06:13:19,980
city you live especially in the city you
11604
06:13:19,980 --> 06:13:23,400
live in now this is when being a
11605
06:13:23,400 --> 06:13:25,860
gentleman comes in kissing and telling
11606
06:13:25,860 --> 06:13:27,718
bragging about girls you fought showing
11607
06:13:27,718 --> 06:13:30,660
their nudes to people it's just not cool
11608
06:13:30,660 --> 06:13:33,240
now guys who do this when I meet a guy
11609
06:13:33,240 --> 06:13:34,920
and he's oh I [ __ ] this car [ __ ] this
11610
06:13:34,920 --> 06:13:36,420
girl it's a bunch of naked titty
11611
06:13:36,420 --> 06:13:38,520
pictures I'm like okay yeah cool yeah I
11612
06:13:38,520 --> 06:13:40,320
do all right myself I don't brag that's
11613
06:13:40,320 --> 06:13:42,240
an amateur tactic because what they're
11614
06:13:42,240 --> 06:13:43,980
doing is they're ruining their
11615
06:13:43,980 --> 06:13:45,120
reputation
11616
06:13:45,120 --> 06:13:47,280
now I can meet a girl
11617
06:13:47,280 --> 06:13:48,780
and she'll be like yeah you actually met
11618
06:13:48,780 --> 06:13:50,218
my friend before and I'll say who's your
11619
06:13:50,218 --> 06:13:51,540
friend it's a girl I used to sleep with
11620
06:13:51,540 --> 06:13:54,660
for a little while but I was nice I was
11621
06:13:54,660 --> 06:13:56,760
polite I was kind I took her to nice
11622
06:13:56,760 --> 06:13:59,458
places you know I I bought her some nice
11623
06:13:59,458 --> 06:14:01,500
cocktails I was always a good host we
11624
06:14:01,500 --> 06:14:03,240
had sex a few times I let her know that
11625
06:14:03,240 --> 06:14:05,160
it wasn't anything serious and her
11626
06:14:05,160 --> 06:14:06,660
friends want a piece of the action her
11627
06:14:06,660 --> 06:14:08,218
friends will hear this
11628
06:14:08,218 --> 06:14:12,298
and and actually want to date me or want
11629
06:14:12,298 --> 06:14:14,638
the same kind of setup with me than she
11630
06:14:14,638 --> 06:14:17,340
had so reputation is another way to meet
11631
06:14:17,340 --> 06:14:19,558
women don't let anyone tell you that it
11632
06:14:19,558 --> 06:14:22,080
doesn't work as I said these guys on the
11633
06:14:22,080 --> 06:14:24,298
internet who pretend to be Playboys they
11634
06:14:24,298 --> 06:14:25,638
don't know what they're talking about
11635
06:14:25,638 --> 06:14:28,200
they won't believe in a million years
11636
06:14:28,200 --> 06:14:29,940
you could meet a woman because you met
11637
06:14:29,940 --> 06:14:31,558
their friend yeah that's because they're
11638
06:14:31,558 --> 06:14:33,420
butthur they're losers when a girl
11639
06:14:33,420 --> 06:14:35,520
breaks up with them they throw insults
11640
06:14:35,520 --> 06:14:37,860
at them and cry and scream and threaten
11641
06:14:37,860 --> 06:14:39,540
to kill themselves because they're nerds
11642
06:14:39,540 --> 06:14:41,580
me when I break up with a woman or she
11643
06:14:41,580 --> 06:14:43,020
breaks up with me God forbid especially
11644
06:14:43,020 --> 06:14:45,058
side chicks side Chicks leave me because
11645
06:14:45,058 --> 06:14:46,378
I find out about my girlfriends they say
11646
06:14:46,378 --> 06:14:48,000
you know what well I had a lot of fun
11647
06:14:48,000 --> 06:14:49,680
with you you're an awesome girl I wish
11648
06:14:49,680 --> 06:14:51,780
you all the best yeah cool that's the
11649
06:14:51,780 --> 06:14:54,180
way to do it reputation is another way
11650
06:14:54,180 --> 06:14:55,920
of meeting women
11651
06:14:55,920 --> 06:14:57,900
and so is
11652
06:14:57,900 --> 06:15:01,020
being scouted out being actively
11653
06:15:01,020 --> 06:15:02,940
searched out so when I talk about
11654
06:15:02,940 --> 06:15:05,040
Instagram game from a man's perspective
11655
06:15:05,040 --> 06:15:07,138
actually approaching women and trying to
11656
06:15:07,138 --> 06:15:09,480
talk to them I very briefly mentioned
11657
06:15:09,480 --> 06:15:11,760
tagging myself at the Grand Hotel in
11658
06:15:11,760 --> 06:15:15,840
Stockholm women will seek UL not just in
11659
06:15:15,840 --> 06:15:17,580
the real world but in the online World
11660
06:15:17,580 --> 06:15:20,820
more so than ever before young women who
11661
06:15:20,820 --> 06:15:22,320
have never lived a life without
11662
06:15:22,320 --> 06:15:26,280
Instagram or 18 19 20 21 if you take a
11663
06:15:26,280 --> 06:15:28,440
very good picture as of this day I
11664
06:15:28,440 --> 06:15:30,240
recently uploaded one of me sitting in a
11665
06:15:30,240 --> 06:15:32,820
hot tub which is full of money with a
11666
06:15:32,820 --> 06:15:35,218
girl in a bikini lighting my cigar while
11667
06:15:35,218 --> 06:15:36,900
I'm drinking a glass of whiskey that
11668
06:15:36,900 --> 06:15:38,520
picture went viral thousands and
11669
06:15:38,520 --> 06:15:39,840
thousands of likes people who didn't
11670
06:15:39,840 --> 06:15:41,638
know who I was people who had never
11671
06:15:41,638 --> 06:15:43,500
interacted with my profile saw it on
11672
06:15:43,500 --> 06:15:45,420
their news feed because I planned out
11673
06:15:45,420 --> 06:15:47,340
the good picture and I took it I had
11674
06:15:47,340 --> 06:15:50,218
lots of women message me haha I'd never
11675
06:15:50,218 --> 06:15:52,500
light your cigar for you but she
11676
06:15:52,500 --> 06:15:54,660
messaged me that means she would you
11677
06:15:54,660 --> 06:15:56,638
actively get searched out when you're an
11678
06:15:56,638 --> 06:15:59,100
elite level guy and this is what I mean
11679
06:15:59,100 --> 06:16:00,718
one more time when I say you have to
11680
06:16:00,718 --> 06:16:03,360
train and you have to work at being an
11681
06:16:03,360 --> 06:16:06,958
elite Playboy that's the key that way
11682
06:16:06,958 --> 06:16:08,520
you do get searched out if you're a
11683
06:16:08,520 --> 06:16:10,320
normal guy marching around the mall
11684
06:16:10,320 --> 06:16:12,480
trying to collect phone numbers no girl
11685
06:16:12,480 --> 06:16:15,298
in the universe is ever gonna say to her
11686
06:16:15,298 --> 06:16:17,940
friend hey that guy who marches around
11687
06:16:17,940 --> 06:16:19,620
the mall asking every girl's number yeah
11688
06:16:19,620 --> 06:16:22,440
he's hot do you know his name or no one
11689
06:16:22,440 --> 06:16:23,458
is going to message you on Instagram
11690
06:16:23,458 --> 06:16:25,138
aren't you that guy who marches around
11691
06:16:25,138 --> 06:16:27,058
the mall asking girls for her number wow
11692
06:16:27,058 --> 06:16:28,798
you know what why don't you take me on a
11693
06:16:28,798 --> 06:16:31,920
date no you get searched out and you get
11694
06:16:31,920 --> 06:16:34,558
scouted and hunted when you're a top one
11695
06:16:34,558 --> 06:16:36,180
percent man
11696
06:16:36,180 --> 06:16:39,360
so if you're not being scoured out if
11697
06:16:39,360 --> 06:16:40,378
you're not being hunted if you're not
11698
06:16:40,378 --> 06:16:42,780
being searched for what exactly are you
11699
06:16:42,780 --> 06:16:45,540
missing guys stand up look down can you
11700
06:16:45,540 --> 06:16:47,100
see your dick no then you're too fat
11701
06:16:47,100 --> 06:16:48,900
lose some weight women care about looks
11702
06:16:48,900 --> 06:16:50,638
too I'm not the best looking guy in the
11703
06:16:50,638 --> 06:16:53,400
world sure but I make an effort I try I
11704
06:16:53,400 --> 06:16:55,680
work out I get into shape all these
11705
06:16:55,680 --> 06:16:57,540
women wouldn't like me as much if I was
11706
06:16:57,540 --> 06:17:00,120
20 pounds heavier or 30 pounds heavier
11707
06:17:00,120 --> 06:17:02,298
of course they wouldn't
11708
06:17:02,298 --> 06:17:05,280
so you do get searched out when you're a
11709
06:17:05,280 --> 06:17:07,558
top level guy so absolutely invest your
11710
06:17:07,558 --> 06:17:09,000
time in that get a gym membership
11711
06:17:09,000 --> 06:17:11,218
obviously make some money drive a nice
11712
06:17:11,218 --> 06:17:14,218
car do something productive maybe you
11713
06:17:14,218 --> 06:17:15,780
play the guitar very well I don't play
11714
06:17:15,780 --> 06:17:17,280
the guitar maybe you're an amazing
11715
06:17:17,280 --> 06:17:19,860
Surfer these things get women too I
11716
06:17:19,860 --> 06:17:21,958
myself was a kickboxer didn't attract as
11717
06:17:21,958 --> 06:17:23,340
many women as many women as you think
11718
06:17:23,340 --> 06:17:25,138
but when I was young and I didn't have
11719
06:17:25,138 --> 06:17:27,058
any money and I couldn't do fun things
11720
06:17:27,058 --> 06:17:28,798
and I couldn't go to nice bars or nice
11721
06:17:28,798 --> 06:17:30,780
clubs the fact that I was a kickboxer I
11722
06:17:30,780 --> 06:17:32,160
got a lot of attention I could beat
11723
06:17:32,160 --> 06:17:34,020
another man up sure I was broke but
11724
06:17:34,020 --> 06:17:35,878
girls like that I always had pretty
11725
06:17:35,878 --> 06:17:38,218
girlfriends so what are you doing right
11726
06:17:38,218 --> 06:17:40,260
now if you're just a normal guy with a
11727
06:17:40,260 --> 06:17:42,240
normal job doing nothing you don't
11728
06:17:42,240 --> 06:17:43,980
produce any content you're not talented
11729
06:17:43,980 --> 06:17:46,440
you can't do gymnastics or play the
11730
06:17:46,440 --> 06:17:49,620
guitar do something because every man in
11731
06:17:49,620 --> 06:17:51,540
the world has a dick that he wants to
11732
06:17:51,540 --> 06:17:53,638
get sucked every dude on Earth and
11733
06:17:53,638 --> 06:17:55,378
you're just another one of them unless
11734
06:17:55,378 --> 06:17:57,180
you make yourself different in some way
11735
06:17:57,180 --> 06:17:59,638
you will never get scouted out but it
11736
06:17:59,638 --> 06:18:01,860
certainly is a way to meet women believe
11737
06:18:01,860 --> 06:18:04,620
me happens to me all the time that's how
11738
06:18:04,620 --> 06:18:07,680
top level guys meet women so essentially
11739
06:18:07,680 --> 06:18:11,400
all the same ways most other guys do but
11740
06:18:11,400 --> 06:18:13,200
there are little twists and little spins
11741
06:18:13,200 --> 06:18:14,580
on everything I'm going to very briefly
11742
06:18:14,580 --> 06:18:16,558
cover what not to do obviously I've gone
11743
06:18:16,558 --> 06:18:19,558
into Day game don't do that you need
11744
06:18:19,558 --> 06:18:21,900
your time you need your time to work out
11745
06:18:21,900 --> 06:18:23,458
you need your time to make money you
11746
06:18:23,458 --> 06:18:25,200
need your hours of your day you can't go
11747
06:18:25,200 --> 06:18:27,058
marching around malls or marching around
11748
06:18:27,058 --> 06:18:28,920
Parks trying to go up to every woman who
11749
06:18:28,920 --> 06:18:31,860
you speak to do not send pictures of
11750
06:18:31,860 --> 06:18:34,200
your dick if you're watching this if
11751
06:18:34,200 --> 06:18:35,458
you're watching this and you send
11752
06:18:35,458 --> 06:18:37,200
pictures of your dick what are you doing
11753
06:18:37,200 --> 06:18:39,600
women don't want to see your dick bro
11754
06:18:39,600 --> 06:18:41,940
don't send random [ __ ] dick pictures
11755
06:18:41,940 --> 06:18:43,740
to girls that's obviously a [ __ ] red
11756
06:18:43,740 --> 06:18:48,420
line that's more women see my dick than
11757
06:18:48,420 --> 06:18:50,458
the guys who send their dick to all the
11758
06:18:50,458 --> 06:18:52,020
women on the internet and you know why
11759
06:18:52,020 --> 06:18:54,120
because women actually want to have sex
11760
06:18:54,120 --> 06:18:55,500
with me don't send pictures of your dick
11761
06:18:55,500 --> 06:18:57,660
guys that's an obviously uh a big thing
11762
06:18:57,660 --> 06:18:59,638
not to do do not spam messages if you
11763
06:18:59,638 --> 06:19:01,680
message a girl once and she does not
11764
06:19:01,680 --> 06:19:03,958
reply do not send her another message
11765
06:19:03,958 --> 06:19:05,760
even if you have her number and your
11766
06:19:05,760 --> 06:19:08,280
message her once twice three times no
11767
06:19:08,280 --> 06:19:10,980
reply give up quit delete her number
11768
06:19:10,980 --> 06:19:12,540
move on to the next Target message
11769
06:19:12,540 --> 06:19:14,580
spamming isn't cool
11770
06:19:14,580 --> 06:19:17,040
these are the basic things of what not
11771
06:19:17,040 --> 06:19:20,520
to do but that is in essence how I meet
11772
06:19:20,520 --> 06:19:22,020
my women
11773
06:19:22,020 --> 06:19:24,120
now I'm going to go into dating
11774
06:19:24,120 --> 06:19:25,860
because dating is the important part
11775
06:19:25,860 --> 06:19:28,920
dating is how I add women to my
11776
06:19:28,920 --> 06:19:30,540
collection
11777
06:19:30,540 --> 06:19:33,780
the most important part of dating when
11778
06:19:33,780 --> 06:19:36,180
you are an elite Playboy is something
11779
06:19:36,180 --> 06:19:38,638
that you guys probably wouldn't guess if
11780
06:19:38,638 --> 06:19:41,458
you've bought this course it is time
11781
06:19:41,458 --> 06:19:44,400
management when do you go on dates in
11782
06:19:44,400 --> 06:19:46,440
the evening what do you do dinner after
11783
06:19:46,440 --> 06:19:48,780
dinner drinks after drinks you try to
11784
06:19:48,780 --> 06:19:49,980
have sex with her maybe she goes home
11785
06:19:49,980 --> 06:19:51,718
maybe she comes back to your place wrong
11786
06:19:51,718 --> 06:19:54,360
wrong you don't do that
11787
06:19:54,360 --> 06:19:56,218
how are you going to have six
11788
06:19:56,218 --> 06:19:59,700
girlfriends and 10 side chicks if you
11789
06:19:59,700 --> 06:20:04,138
commit an entire evening of dinner and
11790
06:20:04,138 --> 06:20:06,298
drinks ignoring your other girls on your
11791
06:20:06,298 --> 06:20:08,580
phone to try to have sex with a single
11792
06:20:08,580 --> 06:20:11,638
girl that is not possible if that is
11793
06:20:11,638 --> 06:20:13,020
your method you're gonna have two girls
11794
06:20:13,020 --> 06:20:15,660
or three girls on the go maximum that is
11795
06:20:15,660 --> 06:20:18,900
it six girlfriends I see them all more
11796
06:20:18,900 --> 06:20:21,298
than once a week how does that work out
11797
06:20:21,298 --> 06:20:23,760
well it's not magic I can't add hours of
11798
06:20:23,760 --> 06:20:25,980
the day and I can't make time but time
11799
06:20:25,980 --> 06:20:29,520
management is the key to dating multiple
11800
06:20:29,520 --> 06:20:32,340
women to having a harem of women you
11801
06:20:32,340 --> 06:20:34,798
have to manage your time
11802
06:20:34,798 --> 06:20:36,718
so I'm going to give you an example
11803
06:20:36,718 --> 06:20:40,020
you need to turn things that you have to
11804
06:20:40,020 --> 06:20:44,400
do anyway in to dates you can't commit a
11805
06:20:44,400 --> 06:20:46,680
whole evening to a new girl so I've met
11806
06:20:46,680 --> 06:20:48,420
a new girl at a club I have her phone
11807
06:20:48,420 --> 06:20:50,458
number all of my girlfriends want to see
11808
06:20:50,458 --> 06:20:52,378
me let's say I've picked one of them for
11809
06:20:52,378 --> 06:20:54,120
tonight I know which girlfriend is
11810
06:20:54,120 --> 06:20:55,798
coming over to my house and which girl
11811
06:20:55,798 --> 06:20:57,840
I'm having sex with tonight
11812
06:20:57,840 --> 06:21:00,740
I meet my new girl when I do something
11813
06:21:00,740 --> 06:21:02,878
mundane that I have to do anyway I'm
11814
06:21:02,878 --> 06:21:05,040
running errands in the city I'll say you
11815
06:21:05,040 --> 06:21:06,360
know baby I'll tell you what I'll pick
11816
06:21:06,360 --> 06:21:08,160
you up we'll go for a little drive we'll
11817
06:21:08,160 --> 06:21:09,540
go for a coffee
11818
06:21:09,540 --> 06:21:12,058
I'll pick her up at 3 or 4 P.M
11819
06:21:12,058 --> 06:21:14,458
I'll do my errands drop the things off
11820
06:21:14,458 --> 06:21:17,040
that I have to drop off you know have a
11821
06:21:17,040 --> 06:21:19,020
coffee with the girl for 20 minutes make
11822
06:21:19,020 --> 06:21:21,780
her laugh make her smile two hours only
11823
06:21:21,780 --> 06:21:24,000
then I'll take her home
11824
06:21:24,000 --> 06:21:25,440
now
11825
06:21:25,440 --> 06:21:27,480
something different has happened to this
11826
06:21:27,480 --> 06:21:29,878
girl when she's been with me then she's
11827
06:21:29,878 --> 06:21:31,680
been with the typical guy made her laugh
11828
06:21:31,680 --> 06:21:33,120
made her smile she had a wonderful time
11829
06:21:33,120 --> 06:21:35,340
but there was no drinking there was no
11830
06:21:35,340 --> 06:21:36,958
getting her drunk there was no me trying
11831
06:21:36,958 --> 06:21:38,280
to have sex with her there was no me
11832
06:21:38,280 --> 06:21:40,740
leaning in for a kiss she's back at home
11833
06:21:40,740 --> 06:21:42,600
at 5 PM like
11834
06:21:42,600 --> 06:21:45,900
oh okay well that was fun and she's
11835
06:21:45,900 --> 06:21:47,400
alone in the evening who's she thinking
11836
06:21:47,400 --> 06:21:51,360
about me I can then commit my evening to
11837
06:21:51,360 --> 06:21:52,980
my girlfriend I can finish my work
11838
06:21:52,980 --> 06:21:55,020
around nine o'clock spend a few hours
11839
06:21:55,020 --> 06:21:57,058
watching a movie with my girl [ __ ] her I
11840
06:21:57,058 --> 06:21:58,440
could text on my phone my girlfriends
11841
06:21:58,440 --> 06:22:00,180
don't look at my phone and the girl who
11842
06:22:00,180 --> 06:22:03,840
I went on a date with was mine all day
11843
06:22:03,840 --> 06:22:06,298
she was mine in the afternoon after I
11844
06:22:06,298 --> 06:22:07,680
left her home she was mine in the
11845
06:22:07,680 --> 06:22:09,958
evening she was mine at night when I
11846
06:22:09,958 --> 06:22:11,100
said good night to her and she went to
11847
06:22:11,100 --> 06:22:13,020
sleep thinking about me I didn't try to
11848
06:22:13,020 --> 06:22:15,540
[ __ ] her but I spent enough time with
11849
06:22:15,540 --> 06:22:20,218
her to implant myself into her mind I
11850
06:22:20,218 --> 06:22:22,798
owned her thoughts for 12 hours by
11851
06:22:22,798 --> 06:22:24,360
investing a little bit of time in the
11852
06:22:24,360 --> 06:22:26,040
afternoon and still had my evening free
11853
06:22:26,040 --> 06:22:27,660
to have sex with my girlfriend keep her
11854
06:22:27,660 --> 06:22:28,378
happy
11855
06:22:28,378 --> 06:22:30,660
that's how you do dates that's how you
11856
06:22:30,660 --> 06:22:32,218
time manage
11857
06:22:32,218 --> 06:22:34,740
[ __ ] this evening go out for drinks go
11858
06:22:34,740 --> 06:22:36,600
out for dinner try and bang them cool
11859
06:22:36,600 --> 06:22:38,580
you want to get a girlfriend do that
11860
06:22:38,580 --> 06:22:40,980
that's that's all you but if you want to
11861
06:22:40,980 --> 06:22:43,200
play the game On My Level you cannot
11862
06:22:43,200 --> 06:22:46,020
afford to waste your evenings you have
11863
06:22:46,020 --> 06:22:49,080
to manage your time now
11864
06:22:49,080 --> 06:22:51,120
this was money well spent I'm going to
11865
06:22:51,120 --> 06:22:55,400
let you guys in on the most exclusive
11866
06:22:55,400 --> 06:22:59,340
Elite player tactic that exists in the
11867
06:22:59,340 --> 06:23:02,940
world I have never seen another man Even
11868
06:23:02,940 --> 06:23:05,100
do it I've never heard of another man
11869
06:23:05,100 --> 06:23:08,000
doing it I've never heard of another man
11870
06:23:08,000 --> 06:23:09,780
attempting it
11871
06:23:09,780 --> 06:23:14,280
and that is having two dates or three at
11872
06:23:14,280 --> 06:23:17,820
the exact same time in the exact same
11873
06:23:17,820 --> 06:23:20,780
place a system my brother and I call
11874
06:23:20,780 --> 06:23:23,280
double booking
11875
06:23:23,280 --> 06:23:25,378
what is double booking how is this
11876
06:23:25,378 --> 06:23:26,340
possible
11877
06:23:26,340 --> 06:23:29,100
I'm going to tell you how only the
11878
06:23:29,100 --> 06:23:31,680
elitist of the elite can pull this off
11879
06:23:31,680 --> 06:23:34,740
but once again I can date three or four
11880
06:23:34,740 --> 06:23:39,000
women in a night in the same place have
11881
06:23:39,000 --> 06:23:41,580
them all thinking about me go home to
11882
06:23:41,580 --> 06:23:43,500
one of my girlfriends and spend the next
11883
06:23:43,500 --> 06:23:45,718
two or three days cleaning up the mess
11884
06:23:45,718 --> 06:23:47,638
and [ __ ] the girls who I went on a
11885
06:23:47,638 --> 06:23:48,480
date with
11886
06:23:48,480 --> 06:23:51,120
how does one do this now
11887
06:23:51,120 --> 06:23:52,680
I'm going to tell you double booking
11888
06:23:52,680 --> 06:23:54,660
does not work in certain settings you
11889
06:23:54,660 --> 06:23:57,058
cannot double book at the cinema you
11890
06:23:57,058 --> 06:23:59,218
cannot invite three girls to the cinema
11891
06:23:59,218 --> 06:24:01,440
all to meet you in the same place and
11892
06:24:01,440 --> 06:24:03,000
take them all out for a movie who when
11893
06:24:03,000 --> 06:24:05,638
they don't know each other that doesn't
11894
06:24:05,638 --> 06:24:07,080
work
11895
06:24:07,080 --> 06:24:09,718
double booking works when there's a Vibe
11896
06:24:09,718 --> 06:24:12,298
when there's a party atmosphere
11897
06:24:12,298 --> 06:24:14,160
and you have to understand that in
11898
06:24:14,160 --> 06:24:16,138
parties and clubs and bars women will
11899
06:24:16,138 --> 06:24:17,878
put on their makeup put on their dress
11900
06:24:17,878 --> 06:24:20,638
do their hair come out and see you they
11901
06:24:20,638 --> 06:24:22,200
haven't got any money they're hanging
11902
06:24:22,200 --> 06:24:24,058
out on my table your table drinking your
11903
06:24:24,058 --> 06:24:25,138
drinks
11904
06:24:25,138 --> 06:24:26,760
they're not going to storm off and go
11905
06:24:26,760 --> 06:24:28,080
home because there are some other girls
11906
06:24:28,080 --> 06:24:29,700
around especially when you're out with a
11907
06:24:29,700 --> 06:24:30,840
crew of your friends yeah you know
11908
06:24:30,840 --> 06:24:33,660
everyone they're all your friends it
11909
06:24:33,660 --> 06:24:36,840
relies on a poker face
11910
06:24:36,840 --> 06:24:39,120
these girls do not say to each other oh
11911
06:24:39,120 --> 06:24:41,280
hi I came here for a date with Tristan
11912
06:24:41,280 --> 06:24:43,378
so when I go to a club on a Friday this
11913
06:24:43,378 --> 06:24:45,718
is an example of double booking I'll
11914
06:24:45,718 --> 06:24:48,360
bring one of my girlfriends why not
11915
06:24:48,360 --> 06:24:49,740
I love my girlfriends they're wonderful
11916
06:24:49,740 --> 06:24:52,080
people maybe two but let's let's say one
11917
06:24:52,080 --> 06:24:53,700
one of my girlfriends and then I'll take
11918
06:24:53,700 --> 06:24:55,138
three of the women I've been texting who
11919
06:24:55,138 --> 06:24:56,820
I have yet to meet
11920
06:24:56,820 --> 06:24:58,320
I'll know I'll say you know baby I'm
11921
06:24:58,320 --> 06:24:59,340
going out to the club tonight I'm
11922
06:24:59,340 --> 06:25:00,780
hitting this club you know why don't you
11923
06:25:00,780 --> 06:25:03,480
come with me bring your friends yeah
11924
06:25:03,480 --> 06:25:04,860
it's a group Vibe I'm out with some
11925
06:25:04,860 --> 06:25:08,280
people I know I repeat that times three
11926
06:25:08,280 --> 06:25:11,940
three women get done up they shave their
11927
06:25:11,940 --> 06:25:14,218
legs they wax their [ __ ] eyebrows
11928
06:25:14,218 --> 06:25:15,900
they do their makeup they do their hair
11929
06:25:15,900 --> 06:25:17,878
they paint their fingernails they put on
11930
06:25:17,878 --> 06:25:19,200
their lipstick they put on their high
11931
06:25:19,200 --> 06:25:21,480
heels and they come to the club to meet
11932
06:25:21,480 --> 06:25:24,920
me to impress me I give each one of them
11933
06:25:24,920 --> 06:25:27,180
maximum 20 minutes of my time oh hey
11934
06:25:27,180 --> 06:25:29,040
baby kiss on the cheek kiss on the cheek
11935
06:25:29,040 --> 06:25:30,540
I'm really glad you could make it yeah
11936
06:25:30,540 --> 06:25:33,298
you know have a drink it's way too loud
11937
06:25:33,298 --> 06:25:35,218
for anyone to hear any conversation that
11938
06:25:35,218 --> 06:25:38,100
isn't one-on-one you buy champagne you
11939
06:25:38,100 --> 06:25:40,080
keep the party going everyone's doing
11940
06:25:40,080 --> 06:25:42,718
shots everyone's yelling shouting
11941
06:25:42,718 --> 06:25:44,700
celebrating having a good time you're
11942
06:25:44,700 --> 06:25:46,620
all in a big group and the part in the
11943
06:25:46,620 --> 06:25:49,638
atmosphere drowns out
11944
06:25:49,638 --> 06:25:53,040
the room for difficult conversation
11945
06:25:53,040 --> 06:25:54,958
these girls then don't say to each other
11946
06:25:54,958 --> 06:25:57,058
hi why are you here did you come here to
11947
06:25:57,058 --> 06:25:58,798
see which one of the guys Tristan yeah I
11948
06:25:58,798 --> 06:26:00,298
came here to see Tristan that doesn't
11949
06:26:00,298 --> 06:26:02,340
happen they literally introduced
11950
06:26:02,340 --> 06:26:04,320
themselves to each other hi my name's
11951
06:26:04,320 --> 06:26:07,080
Andrea oh hi my name's Christine hi they
11952
06:26:07,080 --> 06:26:08,638
kiss each other on the cheek hey girls
11953
06:26:08,638 --> 06:26:10,680
would you like some champagne I hand
11954
06:26:10,680 --> 06:26:12,058
them both a glass and the party
11955
06:26:12,058 --> 06:26:13,260
continues
11956
06:26:13,260 --> 06:26:16,020
I call it double booking now you'll see
11957
06:26:16,020 --> 06:26:19,798
these guys on the internet Playboys
11958
06:26:19,798 --> 06:26:22,138
um so-called who have tables full of
11959
06:26:22,138 --> 06:26:23,760
girls these girls are either not
11960
06:26:23,760 --> 06:26:25,320
interested in them not [ __ ] them or
11961
06:26:25,320 --> 06:26:26,878
their escorts prostitutes girls who are
11962
06:26:26,878 --> 06:26:29,520
being paid girls who are being hired to
11963
06:26:29,520 --> 06:26:32,520
uh hang out that's not how I do it at
11964
06:26:32,520 --> 06:26:34,378
all I don't think Elite level Playboys
11965
06:26:34,378 --> 06:26:38,400
ever play that game so I have women all
11966
06:26:38,400 --> 06:26:39,660
coming for a date with me they've all
11967
06:26:39,660 --> 06:26:40,980
bought one or two friends my friends
11968
06:26:40,980 --> 06:26:43,260
talk to their friends in a huge mix
11969
06:26:43,260 --> 06:26:46,320
group and if I want one at the end of
11970
06:26:46,320 --> 06:26:47,520
the night if one's made it clear she
11971
06:26:47,520 --> 06:26:48,718
wants to stay with me I can sneak off
11972
06:26:48,718 --> 06:26:50,100
with her leave 20 minutes before my
11973
06:26:50,100 --> 06:26:51,600
friends my friends will give me covering
11974
06:26:51,600 --> 06:26:52,620
fire
11975
06:26:52,620 --> 06:26:54,000
if not
11976
06:26:54,000 --> 06:26:55,320
then I'll go home with one of my
11977
06:26:55,320 --> 06:26:56,700
girlfriends I'll go home to one of my
11978
06:26:56,700 --> 06:26:58,500
girlfriends I'll go home to two of my
11979
06:26:58,500 --> 06:27:00,718
girlfriends but all of these women as
11980
06:27:00,718 --> 06:27:02,580
far as they're concerned I went to the
11981
06:27:02,580 --> 06:27:05,340
club and I took them with me they were
11982
06:27:05,340 --> 06:27:06,900
my date for that evening the evening
11983
06:27:06,900 --> 06:27:08,940
when all the champagne comes over
11984
06:27:08,940 --> 06:27:10,320
everyone's looking at the party that's
11985
06:27:10,320 --> 06:27:11,520
being had
11986
06:27:11,520 --> 06:27:13,200
they were my date
11987
06:27:13,200 --> 06:27:15,360
so yeah double booking Elite Playboy
11988
06:27:15,360 --> 06:27:18,420
tactic nobody I know does this
11989
06:27:18,420 --> 06:27:21,058
only me and my brother and we have a
11990
06:27:21,058 --> 06:27:22,740
good saying the only thing better than
11991
06:27:22,740 --> 06:27:24,058
double booking
11992
06:27:24,058 --> 06:27:26,638
is triple booking which sounds stupid
11993
06:27:26,638 --> 06:27:28,440
but now you understand how the tactic
11994
06:27:28,440 --> 06:27:32,040
works the more there are the less room
11995
06:27:32,040 --> 06:27:34,260
there is for any difficult conversation
11996
06:27:34,260 --> 06:27:36,660
to happen or any mistakes to be made you
11997
06:27:36,660 --> 06:27:38,340
couldn't pull this off at the cinema you
11998
06:27:38,340 --> 06:27:39,360
couldn't pull this off at the restaurant
11999
06:27:39,360 --> 06:27:41,040
but next time you're going to a club and
12000
06:27:41,040 --> 06:27:43,620
taking a date invite more girls double
12001
06:27:43,620 --> 06:27:46,378
book yourself try it out and then
12002
06:27:46,378 --> 06:27:47,638
message me on Instagram and tell me
12003
06:27:47,638 --> 06:27:49,200
Tristan thank you because it [ __ ]
12004
06:27:49,200 --> 06:27:51,480
works
12005
06:27:51,480 --> 06:27:53,638
so you know when I go to clubs and when
12006
06:27:53,638 --> 06:27:55,260
I go to bars I'm usually double booked
12007
06:27:55,260 --> 06:27:57,780
or triple booked my table has lots of
12008
06:27:57,780 --> 06:27:58,980
women on it
12009
06:27:58,980 --> 06:28:00,660
now I'm going to talk to you about Club
12010
06:28:00,660 --> 06:28:03,718
game how I run game inside of the club
12011
06:28:03,718 --> 06:28:05,940
now of course I'm spending some money I
12012
06:28:05,940 --> 06:28:07,260
have some bottles of vodka some bottles
12013
06:28:07,260 --> 06:28:08,400
of champagne depending on what your
12014
06:28:08,400 --> 06:28:09,540
budget is as long as you have enough
12015
06:28:09,540 --> 06:28:10,920
alcohol to get everyone at the table
12016
06:28:10,920 --> 06:28:13,260
drunk and partying that's enough you
12017
06:28:13,260 --> 06:28:14,520
don't need to be a millionaire to pull
12018
06:28:14,520 --> 06:28:15,958
off these this double booking technique
12019
06:28:15,958 --> 06:28:18,540
any club any bar or restaurant that has
12020
06:28:18,540 --> 06:28:21,000
a party atmosphere you could do it at
12021
06:28:21,000 --> 06:28:22,680
but when I'm there
12022
06:28:22,680 --> 06:28:26,878
as I said if you want to be elite you
12023
06:28:26,878 --> 06:28:29,940
have to make the effort I can't go out
12024
06:28:29,940 --> 06:28:31,620
there with three or four women and a
12025
06:28:31,620 --> 06:28:33,958
girlfriend and think you know what wow
12026
06:28:33,958 --> 06:28:35,820
this is wonderful I can have any of
12027
06:28:35,820 --> 06:28:37,798
these girls I choose this is great
12028
06:28:37,798 --> 06:28:40,798
that's enough It's never enough
12029
06:28:40,798 --> 06:28:43,138
so when you're in that position the
12030
06:28:43,138 --> 06:28:44,820
winning position you're the man in the
12031
06:28:44,820 --> 06:28:46,500
club with the women
12032
06:28:46,500 --> 06:28:50,340
how do you capitalize on it to meet more
12033
06:28:50,340 --> 06:28:52,378
women this is when you do your
12034
06:28:52,378 --> 06:28:54,600
approaches gentlemen you're the guy
12035
06:28:54,600 --> 06:28:56,820
you're dressed nicely you're looking
12036
06:28:56,820 --> 06:28:58,680
your best you're surrounded by women
12037
06:28:58,680 --> 06:29:00,600
you're on the table you're drinking your
12038
06:29:00,600 --> 06:29:03,840
champagne if you think that other women
12039
06:29:03,840 --> 06:29:06,180
in the in the club don't notice this you
12040
06:29:06,180 --> 06:29:09,240
are wrong you need to expand your
12041
06:29:09,240 --> 06:29:10,680
horizons you don't just look at your
12042
06:29:10,680 --> 06:29:13,320
table what you have there look further
12043
06:29:13,320 --> 06:29:15,180
look deeper into the crowd look at the
12044
06:29:15,180 --> 06:29:15,958
bar
12045
06:29:15,958 --> 06:29:17,638
who are the two girls standing on the
12046
06:29:17,638 --> 06:29:19,440
bar they're looking at you of course
12047
06:29:19,440 --> 06:29:20,580
they are you're the guy with all the
12048
06:29:20,580 --> 06:29:23,878
girls in the club now they're looking at
12049
06:29:23,878 --> 06:29:26,340
you who in their right mind if they're
12050
06:29:26,340 --> 06:29:27,718
with their girlfriends and on dates
12051
06:29:27,718 --> 06:29:29,218
would walk over and approach the two
12052
06:29:29,218 --> 06:29:31,620
girls at the bar surely nobody
12053
06:29:31,620 --> 06:29:33,660
that's why you do it
12054
06:29:33,660 --> 06:29:36,120
you walk over to the girls and say hey
12055
06:29:36,120 --> 06:29:37,020
girls
12056
06:29:37,020 --> 06:29:38,520
hey I saw you look at you look familiar
12057
06:29:38,520 --> 06:29:40,860
have I met you before Oh no maybe you
12058
06:29:40,860 --> 06:29:41,940
just have one of those faces no I'll
12059
06:29:41,940 --> 06:29:43,260
tell you what me and my friends are all
12060
06:29:43,260 --> 06:29:44,760
having a drink don't stand over here by
12061
06:29:44,760 --> 06:29:45,958
the bar it's letting all these dorks
12062
06:29:45,958 --> 06:29:47,100
trying to talk to you come over with me
12063
06:29:47,100 --> 06:29:48,958
come have a drink with me uh let's go
12064
06:29:48,958 --> 06:29:51,420
maybe it's a yes maybe it's a no but you
12065
06:29:51,420 --> 06:29:52,860
have to make your approaches it doesn't
12066
06:29:52,860 --> 06:29:55,500
matter what crowd you're in they may say
12067
06:29:55,500 --> 06:29:57,540
yes they come over they'll introduce
12068
06:29:57,540 --> 06:29:59,040
themselves to the other girls they won't
12069
06:29:59,040 --> 06:30:01,260
say oh are you on a date with Tristan
12070
06:30:01,260 --> 06:30:04,500
are you not they are blinded by how fun
12071
06:30:04,500 --> 06:30:06,420
the party situation is and you've added
12072
06:30:06,420 --> 06:30:08,520
two more to your triple booked
12073
06:30:08,520 --> 06:30:11,340
girlfriend date situation
12074
06:30:11,340 --> 06:30:14,638
that is Club game also as I said if
12075
06:30:14,638 --> 06:30:16,200
you're out with women from a certain
12076
06:30:16,200 --> 06:30:18,660
city their friends come over when they
12077
06:30:18,660 --> 06:30:20,520
come over they're like magnets the more
12078
06:30:20,520 --> 06:30:22,980
of them congregate in one area the more
12079
06:30:22,980 --> 06:30:25,980
flow in make your approaches then talk
12080
06:30:25,980 --> 06:30:28,320
to their friends introduce yourself tell
12081
06:30:28,320 --> 06:30:31,620
them your name if nothing else oh hey no
12082
06:30:31,620 --> 06:30:33,958
hi my name is Tristan really nice to
12083
06:30:33,958 --> 06:30:35,218
meet you would you like a drink cool
12084
06:30:35,218 --> 06:30:37,620
have whatever you like bye you'd be
12085
06:30:37,620 --> 06:30:39,120
surprised you do that with every single
12086
06:30:39,120 --> 06:30:41,100
girl a few times a year you're gonna get
12087
06:30:41,100 --> 06:30:43,980
an Instagram follow the very next day oh
12088
06:30:43,980 --> 06:30:46,920
hi it's it's Cynthia no hi Tristan yeah
12089
06:30:46,920 --> 06:30:50,280
we met in the club it's that simple you
12090
06:30:50,280 --> 06:30:53,218
need to run game on top of game
12091
06:30:53,218 --> 06:30:54,900
there's no Universe when you try to get
12092
06:30:54,900 --> 06:30:57,058
10 women and you get all 10. to get as
12093
06:30:57,058 --> 06:31:00,240
many women as me you have to try with
12094
06:31:00,240 --> 06:31:01,500
hundreds you have to make yourself
12095
06:31:01,500 --> 06:31:03,900
available and out there for hundreds of
12096
06:31:03,900 --> 06:31:05,340
women to know and hundreds of women to
12097
06:31:05,340 --> 06:31:07,378
see so when you're in the club you can
12098
06:31:07,378 --> 06:31:10,080
get into the minds of 50 you can have 15
12099
06:31:10,080 --> 06:31:11,878
or 20 women thinking about you and you
12100
06:31:11,878 --> 06:31:14,040
can get six or seven of their details on
12101
06:31:14,040 --> 06:31:15,958
top of your own situation which you're
12102
06:31:15,958 --> 06:31:18,540
already running that is why nerds who do
12103
06:31:18,540 --> 06:31:21,540
Day game are never Elite level Playboys
12104
06:31:21,540 --> 06:31:24,480
I do not approach women all day long
12105
06:31:24,480 --> 06:31:26,878
I've built a beautiful life and put
12106
06:31:26,878 --> 06:31:29,580
myself in a wonderful situation where my
12107
06:31:29,580 --> 06:31:32,218
situation attracts the women they are
12108
06:31:32,218 --> 06:31:34,980
they come to me for me then to attack
12109
06:31:34,980 --> 06:31:37,798
I'm a Trapper I'm not a hunter that's
12110
06:31:37,798 --> 06:31:39,958
the way to do it and that's why I have
12111
06:31:39,958 --> 06:31:42,360
so many women but yeah Club game don't
12112
06:31:42,360 --> 06:31:44,638
just look at what's on your table maybe
12113
06:31:44,638 --> 06:31:46,680
maybe your girlfriend will break up with
12114
06:31:46,680 --> 06:31:48,298
you tomorrow and none of those four
12115
06:31:48,298 --> 06:31:49,680
girls will want to [ __ ] maybe they just
12116
06:31:49,680 --> 06:31:50,878
wanted to drink some champagne maybe
12117
06:31:50,878 --> 06:31:52,440
they don't like it in the maybe they
12118
06:31:52,440 --> 06:31:53,580
don't like you they just want to hang
12119
06:31:53,580 --> 06:31:54,900
out at the club cool what are you gonna
12120
06:31:54,900 --> 06:31:57,540
do then go home and jerk off no
12121
06:31:57,540 --> 06:31:59,400
no you're going to talk you're going to
12122
06:31:59,400 --> 06:32:00,600
get one of the girls he went and
12123
06:32:00,600 --> 06:32:01,860
approached the bar
12124
06:32:01,860 --> 06:32:04,138
always over stretch and always be
12125
06:32:04,138 --> 06:32:05,580
thinking on how to capitalize your
12126
06:32:05,580 --> 06:32:07,980
situation and add more women to the
12127
06:32:07,980 --> 06:32:09,120
harim
12128
06:32:09,120 --> 06:32:11,638
that's the end of module one how to meet
12129
06:32:11,638 --> 06:32:14,820
women if you apply all these things the
12130
06:32:14,820 --> 06:32:16,980
way that I've taught you you should meet
12131
06:32:16,980 --> 06:32:19,200
women and be ready for the next stage
12132
06:32:19,200 --> 06:32:23,240
which is dating module two
12133
06:32:24,020 --> 06:32:28,558
nobody covers this topic nobody
12134
06:32:28,558 --> 06:32:31,680
but I'm going to talk to you about how
12135
06:32:31,680 --> 06:32:34,680
to have sex with virgins
12136
06:32:34,680 --> 06:32:38,820
virgins now Elite level Playboys these
12137
06:32:38,820 --> 06:32:40,558
dorks who take these pictures with all
12138
06:32:40,558 --> 06:32:43,020
these girls they are usually paid
12139
06:32:43,020 --> 06:32:44,940
they're models they're actresses they're
12140
06:32:44,940 --> 06:32:47,040
they're sent there by their agency
12141
06:32:47,040 --> 06:32:48,600
I
12142
06:32:48,600 --> 06:32:51,120
do not pay for sex I've never hired a
12143
06:32:51,120 --> 06:32:52,798
prostitute in my life and I won't I
12144
06:32:52,798 --> 06:32:54,000
don't need to
12145
06:32:54,000 --> 06:32:57,600
but when you don't pay for sex there are
12146
06:32:57,600 --> 06:33:00,718
advantages to that you get the women no
12147
06:33:00,718 --> 06:33:04,200
one else gets any Shake in Dubai can
12148
06:33:04,200 --> 06:33:06,298
hire the hottest to buy escort and bang
12149
06:33:06,298 --> 06:33:08,100
her I could go to Dubai and bang the
12150
06:33:08,100 --> 06:33:09,558
exact same escort why would I want to
12151
06:33:09,558 --> 06:33:12,958
that's disgusting however
12152
06:33:12,958 --> 06:33:15,558
in my situation you get access to girls
12153
06:33:15,558 --> 06:33:18,840
that no one else has access to when you
12154
06:33:18,840 --> 06:33:21,058
run game like me and meet the women who
12155
06:33:21,058 --> 06:33:23,280
I meet and roll in the circles I meet
12156
06:33:23,280 --> 06:33:27,120
you meet beautiful virgins sometimes
12157
06:33:27,120 --> 06:33:28,260
me
12158
06:33:28,260 --> 06:33:30,780
I'll do two or three virgins a year now
12159
06:33:30,780 --> 06:33:33,180
how do you date a virgin when you're a
12160
06:33:33,180 --> 06:33:36,600
when you're a ice cold player there is a
12161
06:33:36,600 --> 06:33:38,400
tactic which I'm going to share with you
12162
06:33:38,400 --> 06:33:41,040
on how to date a virgin and how to take
12163
06:33:41,040 --> 06:33:43,558
a girl's virginity
12164
06:33:43,558 --> 06:33:45,718
typically the first girl's virginity I
12165
06:33:45,718 --> 06:33:46,558
took
12166
06:33:46,558 --> 06:33:49,080
I was 16 years old she was a virgin I
12167
06:33:49,080 --> 06:33:52,138
was a virgin it was rubbish and what I
12168
06:33:52,138 --> 06:33:54,780
did was this I dated her she was my
12169
06:33:54,780 --> 06:33:57,058
girlfriend for three months then we had
12170
06:33:57,058 --> 06:33:59,280
very boring sex that's how I had sex
12171
06:33:59,280 --> 06:34:02,240
with my first virgin Now the recipe
12172
06:34:02,240 --> 06:34:05,400
hasn't changed but the tactics and the
12173
06:34:05,400 --> 06:34:08,878
implementation has certainly changed be
12174
06:34:08,878 --> 06:34:11,040
their boyfriend for three months and be
12175
06:34:11,040 --> 06:34:13,500
in a nice relationship with them that is
12176
06:34:13,500 --> 06:34:15,600
the recipe I'm sorry guys
12177
06:34:15,600 --> 06:34:17,160
you want to run into a virgin and [ __ ]
12178
06:34:17,160 --> 06:34:19,558
her the next day don't ask me how I
12179
06:34:19,558 --> 06:34:20,458
don't know
12180
06:34:20,458 --> 06:34:22,080
I don't think anyone knows I don't even
12181
06:34:22,080 --> 06:34:23,580
think it's possible
12182
06:34:23,580 --> 06:34:25,558
you have to be their boyfriend for an
12183
06:34:25,558 --> 06:34:28,558
extended period of time you then have to
12184
06:34:28,558 --> 06:34:30,298
take a virginity on the second month
12185
06:34:30,298 --> 06:34:31,740
anniversary or something along those
12186
06:34:31,740 --> 06:34:33,058
lines and I'm going to teach you how to
12187
06:34:33,058 --> 06:34:33,840
do it
12188
06:34:33,840 --> 06:34:35,878
while still being
12189
06:34:35,878 --> 06:34:39,718
in a Playboy lifestyle scenario
12190
06:34:39,718 --> 06:34:42,718
what you do with your virgin is you turn
12191
06:34:42,718 --> 06:34:44,638
everything into a date
12192
06:34:44,638 --> 06:34:46,558
I need to go have a business lunch with
12193
06:34:46,558 --> 06:34:48,240
my brother or my friends
12194
06:34:48,240 --> 06:34:51,180
I make sure she's there I Uber her in I
12195
06:34:51,180 --> 06:34:53,878
Uber her out if I have to go for a drive
12196
06:34:53,878 --> 06:34:55,860
I make sure she's with me I go and pick
12197
06:34:55,860 --> 06:34:58,500
her up do my drive drop her off go back
12198
06:34:58,500 --> 06:35:01,558
home if I have to go to a a club she's
12199
06:35:01,558 --> 06:35:03,840
part of my double booking scenario she's
12200
06:35:03,840 --> 06:35:06,420
always with me at least three or four
12201
06:35:06,420 --> 06:35:08,218
times a week irregardless of what I'm
12202
06:35:08,218 --> 06:35:10,020
doing I go to a lot of lunches and a lot
12203
06:35:10,020 --> 06:35:12,298
of dinners I eat at restaurants a lot I
12204
06:35:12,298 --> 06:35:14,400
take her to the restaurant nothing about
12205
06:35:14,400 --> 06:35:16,440
my life has changed I'm not going out of
12206
06:35:16,440 --> 06:35:18,480
my way I'm not making a specific time
12207
06:35:18,480 --> 06:35:20,638
for her I'm not trying my best to take
12208
06:35:20,638 --> 06:35:21,840
her on dates and show her a good time
12209
06:35:21,840 --> 06:35:26,520
what I'm doing is I'm adding her into my
12210
06:35:26,520 --> 06:35:28,138
normal everyday life
12211
06:35:28,138 --> 06:35:32,040
now to me I'm [ __ ] my girls I have my
12212
06:35:32,040 --> 06:35:33,360
girlfriends my relationships I'm getting
12213
06:35:33,360 --> 06:35:35,878
my sex I'm having my drinks hanging out
12214
06:35:35,878 --> 06:35:38,040
with my friends nothing has changed in
12215
06:35:38,040 --> 06:35:39,360
my life apart from there's some quiet
12216
06:35:39,360 --> 06:35:41,580
girl next to me half the time when I'm
12217
06:35:41,580 --> 06:35:44,280
out and I would otherwise be alone
12218
06:35:44,280 --> 06:35:48,058
but to her in her mindset Tristan is my
12219
06:35:48,058 --> 06:35:50,400
boyfriend he took me to lunch today and
12220
06:35:50,400 --> 06:35:52,558
he dropped me home he took me to the bar
12221
06:35:52,558 --> 06:35:53,940
today he was with his friends and he
12222
06:35:53,940 --> 06:35:55,680
took me with him and then he sent me
12223
06:35:55,680 --> 06:35:58,558
home Tristan is my boyfriend in her mind
12224
06:35:58,558 --> 06:36:01,440
we've been dating and then one day that
12225
06:36:01,440 --> 06:36:03,540
day will come when she's ready and
12226
06:36:03,540 --> 06:36:05,820
you'll know you'll know because she'll
12227
06:36:05,820 --> 06:36:07,558
make it obvious to you no matter what
12228
06:36:07,558 --> 06:36:09,180
you do with virgins don't get pushy
12229
06:36:09,180 --> 06:36:11,040
don't take them to your bed and try and
12230
06:36:11,040 --> 06:36:12,058
sleep with them and get your dick hard
12231
06:36:12,058 --> 06:36:14,940
and no matter what do not violate my
12232
06:36:14,940 --> 06:36:17,400
Golden Rule with virgins if she won't
12233
06:36:17,400 --> 06:36:20,100
[ __ ] you do not let her touch you oh
12234
06:36:20,100 --> 06:36:21,900
you're a virgin maybe you can suck my
12235
06:36:21,900 --> 06:36:24,900
dick no no no no it's desperate or maybe
12236
06:36:24,900 --> 06:36:27,600
you can wank me off it's it smells of
12237
06:36:27,600 --> 06:36:30,660
desperation do not do this baby you're
12238
06:36:30,660 --> 06:36:33,360
not ready I understand let's go to sleep
12239
06:36:33,360 --> 06:36:36,058
go to sleep like a [ __ ] man without a
12240
06:36:36,058 --> 06:36:37,620
sex for one day if she stays with you
12241
06:36:37,620 --> 06:36:39,958
for [ __ ] sake have some dignity well
12242
06:36:39,958 --> 06:36:41,700
some virgin giving you the worst [ __ ]
12243
06:36:41,700 --> 06:36:43,320
in the world trying to explain to her
12244
06:36:43,320 --> 06:36:45,420
guys grow the [ __ ] up
12245
06:36:45,420 --> 06:36:47,520
if you're with a virgin in bed she's not
12246
06:36:47,520 --> 06:36:50,100
ready Cool go to sleep
12247
06:36:50,100 --> 06:36:52,500
nothing will make her want you more than
12248
06:36:52,500 --> 06:36:53,400
this
12249
06:36:53,400 --> 06:36:54,900
so I've come
12250
06:36:54,900 --> 06:36:56,580
into situations where I've been seeing
12251
06:36:56,580 --> 06:36:58,860
these virgins for a month two months
12252
06:36:58,860 --> 06:37:01,200
nothing about my life has changed and
12253
06:37:01,200 --> 06:37:02,638
then they'll come to me and say oh maybe
12254
06:37:02,638 --> 06:37:04,340
we can do something special this weekend
12255
06:37:04,340 --> 06:37:07,680
boom I book a hotel we have a few drinks
12256
06:37:07,680 --> 06:37:08,760
at the hotel bar take her upstairs
12257
06:37:08,760 --> 06:37:11,520
virginity gone as far as she's concerned
12258
06:37:11,520 --> 06:37:13,080
I've been her boyfriend for three months
12259
06:37:13,080 --> 06:37:15,000
she's in a long-term committed
12260
06:37:15,000 --> 06:37:18,120
relationship and all it's taken is me to
12261
06:37:18,120 --> 06:37:20,280
order some Ubers when I'm having my free
12262
06:37:20,280 --> 06:37:22,980
time with my friends that is how I have
12263
06:37:22,980 --> 06:37:25,260
added virgins to my list two of the
12264
06:37:25,260 --> 06:37:27,840
girls of my six were virgins when I met
12265
06:37:27,840 --> 06:37:30,058
them they're not anymore but now they're
12266
06:37:30,058 --> 06:37:31,440
mine
12267
06:37:31,440 --> 06:37:33,900
now when it comes to dating
12268
06:37:33,900 --> 06:37:36,058
I know what some of you think
12269
06:37:36,058 --> 06:37:39,120
women love money no
12270
06:37:39,120 --> 06:37:40,920
[ __ ] love money
12271
06:37:40,920 --> 06:37:44,820
women love fun and fun costs money if
12272
06:37:44,820 --> 06:37:46,378
you're broke you're not going to get as
12273
06:37:46,378 --> 06:37:49,860
many women why you don't pay the women I
12274
06:37:49,860 --> 06:37:52,500
don't give women money women very rarely
12275
06:37:52,500 --> 06:37:53,940
see my money and think oh maybe I can
12276
06:37:53,940 --> 06:37:55,500
get some money from him only if they're
12277
06:37:55,500 --> 06:37:57,058
real [ __ ] or real [ __ ] or
12278
06:37:57,058 --> 06:37:59,700
prostitutes good girls don't care if you
12279
06:37:59,700 --> 06:38:01,440
have money they're not going to ask you
12280
06:38:01,440 --> 06:38:03,298
for money but if you don't have any
12281
06:38:03,298 --> 06:38:04,138
money
12282
06:38:04,138 --> 06:38:06,058
all you can do is invite them to your
12283
06:38:06,058 --> 06:38:07,620
apartment money is important because
12284
06:38:07,620 --> 06:38:10,138
money facilitates fun you could take a
12285
06:38:10,138 --> 06:38:12,298
girl out in your nice car that's fun for
12286
06:38:12,298 --> 06:38:14,400
her you want to take her out in my house
12287
06:38:14,400 --> 06:38:17,100
I have a Jacuzzi that's nice I have a
12288
06:38:17,100 --> 06:38:19,500
fully stocked bar in my cigar lounge in
12289
06:38:19,500 --> 06:38:20,760
my house they can come here they can
12290
06:38:20,760 --> 06:38:23,100
have some drinks money facilitates fun
12291
06:38:23,100 --> 06:38:25,620
so when it comes to dating yes you need
12292
06:38:25,620 --> 06:38:26,760
money
12293
06:38:26,760 --> 06:38:29,820
now there's an old fallacy when they say
12294
06:38:29,820 --> 06:38:31,860
oh well you pay for it one way or the
12295
06:38:31,860 --> 06:38:33,540
other you're paying for it if you hire a
12296
06:38:33,540 --> 06:38:34,980
hooker you're paying for it if you go to
12297
06:38:34,980 --> 06:38:37,740
the club no one
12298
06:38:37,740 --> 06:38:39,900
go into clubs bars and restaurants is
12299
06:38:39,900 --> 06:38:41,700
much more expensive than paying a hooker
12300
06:38:41,700 --> 06:38:44,878
one it costs more two it costs more
12301
06:38:44,878 --> 06:38:48,000
because it's better
12302
06:38:48,000 --> 06:38:52,020
it's better you can't pay for the sex
12303
06:38:52,020 --> 06:38:56,218
that I have you can't buy the sex that I
12304
06:38:56,218 --> 06:38:58,378
have do not hire escorts and do not hire
12305
06:38:58,378 --> 06:39:00,480
prostitutes if a woman
12306
06:39:00,480 --> 06:39:03,240
comes to bed with me she has a genuine
12307
06:39:03,240 --> 06:39:05,520
desire for me I may have bought
12308
06:39:05,520 --> 06:39:07,920
champagne I may have bought dinner I may
12309
06:39:07,920 --> 06:39:09,660
have bought movie tickets it doesn't
12310
06:39:09,660 --> 06:39:11,638
matter she comes into my bed with me
12311
06:39:11,638 --> 06:39:14,700
thinking wow I want this man I'm going
12312
06:39:14,700 --> 06:39:16,020
to [ __ ] with this guy I'm going to let
12313
06:39:16,020 --> 06:39:18,000
this guy inside of me I'm crazy about
12314
06:39:18,000 --> 06:39:20,580
him he seduced me I want to have sex
12315
06:39:20,580 --> 06:39:21,600
with him
12316
06:39:21,600 --> 06:39:23,580
any situation where you are paying for
12317
06:39:23,580 --> 06:39:27,420
sex eliminates that spark and that spark
12318
06:39:27,420 --> 06:39:29,700
is what makes male female interaction
12319
06:39:29,700 --> 06:39:32,820
beautiful I love having women around me
12320
06:39:32,820 --> 06:39:35,218
but I would hate women sitting around me
12321
06:39:35,218 --> 06:39:37,860
charging me by the hour looking at their
12322
06:39:37,860 --> 06:39:40,080
watches oop that's another 300 that's
12323
06:39:40,080 --> 06:39:43,378
another 200 that's another 100 I would
12324
06:39:43,378 --> 06:39:45,480
teach them who the [ __ ] do you think you
12325
06:39:45,480 --> 06:39:46,920
are sitting around me charging me by the
12326
06:39:46,920 --> 06:39:50,040
hour to be in my company no so yes it is
12327
06:39:50,040 --> 06:39:51,780
more expensive you do pay one way or the
12328
06:39:51,780 --> 06:39:53,218
other if you date them or if you pay
12329
06:39:53,218 --> 06:39:55,680
them but paying for them you don't get
12330
06:39:55,680 --> 06:39:56,638
them
12331
06:39:56,638 --> 06:39:58,500
you're giving her money she thinks ah
12332
06:39:58,500 --> 06:40:01,320
okay I better go [ __ ] this loser I
12333
06:40:01,320 --> 06:40:02,878
better go [ __ ] this guy because he gave
12334
06:40:02,878 --> 06:40:04,980
me some money that's very different to a
12335
06:40:04,980 --> 06:40:07,558
woman thinking I want to be in bed with
12336
06:40:07,558 --> 06:40:10,080
this man Elite Playboys do not pay for
12337
06:40:10,080 --> 06:40:12,420
sex because anybody could teach that
12338
06:40:12,420 --> 06:40:15,480
ready I'm gonna give you the Playboy
12339
06:40:15,480 --> 06:40:17,160
paid for sex course
12340
06:40:17,160 --> 06:40:20,340
make lots of money hire hookers have sex
12341
06:40:20,340 --> 06:40:22,680
with them dumb anyone with money can do
12342
06:40:22,680 --> 06:40:23,400
that
12343
06:40:23,400 --> 06:40:25,860
but as I said with the virgins with the
12344
06:40:25,860 --> 06:40:27,120
good girls with the girls looking for
12345
06:40:27,120 --> 06:40:28,558
long-term relationships if you're smart
12346
06:40:28,558 --> 06:40:30,900
enough and your tactics are solid you
12347
06:40:30,900 --> 06:40:32,638
can play the game
12348
06:40:32,638 --> 06:40:34,860
and you get access to women that the
12349
06:40:34,860 --> 06:40:37,320
guys who pay Simply can never touch
12350
06:40:37,320 --> 06:40:39,600
another important aspect of dating your
12351
06:40:39,600 --> 06:40:41,280
women is when you have your guy time
12352
06:40:41,280 --> 06:40:43,740
when you're an elite level Playboy like
12353
06:40:43,740 --> 06:40:45,360
me and you have all the women that I do
12354
06:40:45,360 --> 06:40:47,280
you need to maximize your hours in your
12355
06:40:47,280 --> 06:40:49,798
day but what you can do is you can't eat
12356
06:40:49,798 --> 06:40:52,320
into guide Time by replacing it to date
12357
06:40:52,320 --> 06:40:54,360
women your guide time is when you hang
12358
06:40:54,360 --> 06:40:55,740
around with your friends maybe you drink
12359
06:40:55,740 --> 06:40:58,860
beers I drink whiskey maybe you I don't
12360
06:40:58,860 --> 06:41:00,480
know smoke your cigarettes I smoke
12361
06:41:00,480 --> 06:41:02,400
cigars regardless of what you do in your
12362
06:41:02,400 --> 06:41:05,458
guide time you need it men need to be
12363
06:41:05,458 --> 06:41:07,200
around other men you can't just be
12364
06:41:07,200 --> 06:41:09,900
around women exclusively so a very good
12365
06:41:09,900 --> 06:41:12,058
test to whether women are relationship
12366
06:41:12,058 --> 06:41:14,040
quality or friend qualities how are they
12367
06:41:14,040 --> 06:41:16,920
around your friends now my women are all
12368
06:41:16,920 --> 06:41:19,138
the same all six of my girlfriends are
12369
06:41:19,138 --> 06:41:20,940
the ones who passed my test and they get
12370
06:41:20,940 --> 06:41:23,820
to be around me when I have my guy time
12371
06:41:23,820 --> 06:41:25,138
now when they're around me what do they
12372
06:41:25,138 --> 06:41:27,298
do they make sure the ice stays cold
12373
06:41:27,298 --> 06:41:29,340
they bring the beers over they make us
12374
06:41:29,340 --> 06:41:31,740
coffee they make us tea and they remain
12375
06:41:31,740 --> 06:41:35,218
quiet your guide time is important date
12376
06:41:35,218 --> 06:41:36,540
time especially when you're hanging
12377
06:41:36,540 --> 06:41:38,400
around with virgins or girls who need to
12378
06:41:38,400 --> 06:41:40,080
put a lot of hours in with you can
12379
06:41:40,080 --> 06:41:41,820
happily invite them around introduce
12380
06:41:41,820 --> 06:41:43,020
them to your friends and make sure they
12381
06:41:43,020 --> 06:41:45,360
sit there and stay silent do not eat
12382
06:41:45,360 --> 06:41:47,638
into your guide time and replace it with
12383
06:41:47,638 --> 06:41:49,680
women time but you can absolutely use
12384
06:41:49,680 --> 06:41:52,200
that when dating as well basic things
12385
06:41:52,200 --> 06:41:54,840
you shouldn't do when dating now we're
12386
06:41:54,840 --> 06:41:56,040
wrapping up dating I'm gonna tell you
12387
06:41:56,040 --> 06:41:58,320
one not to do I already covered do not
12388
06:41:58,320 --> 06:42:01,558
waste evenings do not commit Mass
12389
06:42:01,558 --> 06:42:04,440
amounts of time to a single female you
12390
06:42:04,440 --> 06:42:06,660
can commit the time by living inside of
12391
06:42:06,660 --> 06:42:08,760
her mind I can do a date at one o'clock
12392
06:42:08,760 --> 06:42:11,218
a date at three o'clock a date at five
12393
06:42:11,218 --> 06:42:12,840
o'clock and then I can [ __ ] my
12394
06:42:12,840 --> 06:42:15,480
girlfriend I'm with four women all night
12395
06:42:15,480 --> 06:42:18,298
four women all night I have turned 12
12396
06:42:18,298 --> 06:42:21,660
hours into 48 somehow
12397
06:42:21,660 --> 06:42:25,500
why because all they think about is me
12398
06:42:25,500 --> 06:42:27,120
the one on a date today his name was
12399
06:42:27,120 --> 06:42:28,378
Tristan he was nice he took me for
12400
06:42:28,378 --> 06:42:30,000
coffee he made me laugh he made me smile
12401
06:42:30,000 --> 06:42:32,100
I could run the same script on all of
12402
06:42:32,100 --> 06:42:34,200
them tell them all the same joke
12403
06:42:34,200 --> 06:42:35,700
I'm gonna [ __ ] two or three of them
12404
06:42:35,700 --> 06:42:37,980
probably of the girls I dated that's the
12405
06:42:37,980 --> 06:42:40,500
way to manage your time do not waste
12406
06:42:40,500 --> 06:42:43,320
massive hours dozens of hours with the
12407
06:42:43,320 --> 06:42:44,820
same girl that's never going to get you
12408
06:42:44,820 --> 06:42:47,218
to the point where I'm at because you
12409
06:42:47,218 --> 06:42:49,680
only have 24 hours in a day other things
12410
06:42:49,680 --> 06:42:51,780
not to do do not sideline important
12411
06:42:51,780 --> 06:42:53,580
business for women
12412
06:42:53,580 --> 06:42:56,700
you need your money you need your
12413
06:42:56,700 --> 06:42:59,580
vehicle you need your agency you need
12414
06:42:59,580 --> 06:43:01,500
your presence as a man
12415
06:43:01,500 --> 06:43:04,020
to have your women if you saw start
12416
06:43:04,020 --> 06:43:06,600
sidelining important business for [ __ ]
12417
06:43:06,600 --> 06:43:07,920
you're going to end up without your
12418
06:43:07,920 --> 06:43:09,120
important business which means you end
12419
06:43:09,120 --> 06:43:10,740
up without your money which means you
12420
06:43:10,740 --> 06:43:12,058
end up without your lifestyle and
12421
06:43:12,058 --> 06:43:13,740
without your lifestyle
12422
06:43:13,740 --> 06:43:15,298
you're gonna end up without your [ __ ]
12423
06:43:15,298 --> 06:43:16,138
too
12424
06:43:16,138 --> 06:43:17,760
so never ever sideline important
12425
06:43:17,760 --> 06:43:19,920
business for [ __ ] and don't try to [ __ ]
12426
06:43:19,920 --> 06:43:21,420
women too fast
12427
06:43:21,420 --> 06:43:23,580
guys get their you know the typical
12428
06:43:23,580 --> 06:43:25,860
Dating Game of meeting one girl it's all
12429
06:43:25,860 --> 06:43:28,260
about when are we finally gonna [ __ ] it
12430
06:43:28,260 --> 06:43:30,000
doesn't matter guys
12431
06:43:30,000 --> 06:43:33,360
build up your collection of women very
12432
06:43:33,360 --> 06:43:34,680
much if you've ever worked a sales job
12433
06:43:34,680 --> 06:43:36,840
like you build up your sales leads it's
12434
06:43:36,840 --> 06:43:39,480
a bunch of maybes and they all come
12435
06:43:39,480 --> 06:43:41,458
crashing in eventually and when they all
12436
06:43:41,458 --> 06:43:42,840
come crashing and you won't care that
12437
06:43:42,840 --> 06:43:44,400
the new girl you just met isn't [ __ ]
12438
06:43:44,400 --> 06:43:45,958
you yet because you're getting your dick
12439
06:43:45,958 --> 06:43:47,820
sucked that night irregardless of her
12440
06:43:47,820 --> 06:43:49,980
and what she does however you can meet
12441
06:43:49,980 --> 06:43:52,440
her show her a good time make her smile
12442
06:43:52,440 --> 06:43:54,420
make her laugh have your nice afternoon
12443
06:43:54,420 --> 06:43:57,540
go and get your dick sucked anyway
12444
06:43:57,540 --> 06:43:59,160
doesn't matter if she wants to [ __ ] yet
12445
06:43:59,160 --> 06:44:00,540
but she's gonna lay in bed thinking oh
12446
06:44:00,540 --> 06:44:01,798
he didn't even try to [ __ ] me I wonder
12447
06:44:01,798 --> 06:44:04,020
if he's into me do not try to [ __ ] too
12448
06:44:04,020 --> 06:44:06,120
fast that's a mistake too many guys make
12449
06:44:06,120 --> 06:44:08,878
and it's amateur and it's desperate now
12450
06:44:08,878 --> 06:44:10,080
I'm going to talk a little bit about
12451
06:44:10,080 --> 06:44:12,860
toys and when I mean toys I mean
12452
06:44:12,860 --> 06:44:16,378
supercars jacuzzis jet skis I don't know
12453
06:44:16,378 --> 06:44:18,480
what you have surfboards I don't know
12454
06:44:18,480 --> 06:44:20,520
who you are or what you have but all of
12455
06:44:20,520 --> 06:44:22,138
us men have our toys
12456
06:44:22,138 --> 06:44:25,080
now trying to impress a woman with a
12457
06:44:25,080 --> 06:44:26,760
Supercar doesn't work if you're trying
12458
06:44:26,760 --> 06:44:28,860
to impress a 12 year old boy yeah it
12459
06:44:28,860 --> 06:44:31,440
might work I'm going to tell you how to
12460
06:44:31,440 --> 06:44:32,878
handle
12461
06:44:32,878 --> 06:44:36,780
toys so a Ferrari can make an amazing
12462
06:44:36,780 --> 06:44:40,138
date but you don't a Jacuzzi can make an
12463
06:44:40,138 --> 06:44:42,120
amazing date uh I don't know what else
12464
06:44:42,120 --> 06:44:43,740
you have a guitar a surfboard whatever
12465
06:44:43,740 --> 06:44:46,260
your talents are they can add to a date
12466
06:44:46,260 --> 06:44:48,360
massively if you're talented I don't
12467
06:44:48,360 --> 06:44:50,218
have a surfboard or a car or I don't
12468
06:44:50,218 --> 06:44:51,420
know what type of girl would like that
12469
06:44:51,420 --> 06:44:53,940
kind of stuff quite a few but I mean not
12470
06:44:53,940 --> 06:44:56,820
the girls I typically date but
12471
06:44:56,820 --> 06:44:58,138
for example
12472
06:44:58,138 --> 06:45:00,540
if you have a Lamborghini like I do
12473
06:45:00,540 --> 06:45:03,058
you don't say oh you want to go out with
12474
06:45:03,058 --> 06:45:05,100
my Lamborghini talking about money is
12475
06:45:05,100 --> 06:45:07,920
narcissistic talking about money is not
12476
06:45:07,920 --> 06:45:09,958
attractive when it's one-on-one with a
12477
06:45:09,958 --> 06:45:11,940
female it's not cool do your boasting on
12478
06:45:11,940 --> 06:45:13,440
Instagram do you're boasting on Twitter
12479
06:45:13,440 --> 06:45:15,540
tell guys you have money make them feel
12480
06:45:15,540 --> 06:45:18,180
bad you know but boasting to women is
12481
06:45:18,180 --> 06:45:20,160
stupid it's asinine no woman has a
12482
06:45:20,160 --> 06:45:21,718
Lamborghini what are you boasting for
12483
06:45:21,718 --> 06:45:23,218
you look like a [ __ ] what you just
12484
06:45:23,218 --> 06:45:25,020
say is let's go for a drive
12485
06:45:25,020 --> 06:45:26,218
I'll tell you what you know you want to
12486
06:45:26,218 --> 06:45:27,360
come over to my place yeah cool come
12487
06:45:27,360 --> 06:45:29,520
over make sure you bring a bikini then
12488
06:45:29,520 --> 06:45:31,080
you say let's get in the jacuzzi you
12489
06:45:31,080 --> 06:45:32,458
take it for a drive then you're in the
12490
06:45:32,458 --> 06:45:36,080
Lamborghini all it is is a extra
12491
06:45:36,080 --> 06:45:38,280
surprise on top of things never approach
12492
06:45:38,280 --> 06:45:40,920
a girl say hi I have a Lamborghini uh
12493
06:45:40,920 --> 06:45:42,180
would you like to come for a drive with
12494
06:45:42,180 --> 06:45:43,740
me say you know what you're really cool
12495
06:45:43,740 --> 06:45:45,298
you know let's go for a drive sometime
12496
06:45:45,298 --> 06:45:47,638
never talk about your assets never talk
12497
06:45:47,638 --> 06:45:50,280
about your toys never say uh here come
12498
06:45:50,280 --> 06:45:51,900
to my house and I'm gonna play the
12499
06:45:51,900 --> 06:45:54,180
guitar and sing a song for you that
12500
06:45:54,180 --> 06:45:55,440
sounds gay
12501
06:45:55,440 --> 06:45:57,360
however if you have your guitar on
12502
06:45:57,360 --> 06:45:58,980
display in your room and you take her
12503
06:45:58,980 --> 06:46:00,360
back to your house and she sees your
12504
06:46:00,360 --> 06:46:01,860
guitar and goes oh play me something
12505
06:46:01,860 --> 06:46:04,440
okay you know what cool I'll play you a
12506
06:46:04,440 --> 06:46:05,760
little something then bust out the
12507
06:46:05,760 --> 06:46:07,798
guitar I can't even play guitar but if
12508
06:46:07,798 --> 06:46:09,420
you can that's your game and the guitar
12509
06:46:09,420 --> 06:46:10,920
analogy I don't know what else you want
12510
06:46:10,920 --> 06:46:12,360
to apply it to but there's something
12511
06:46:12,360 --> 06:46:14,700
that you have that they don't something
12512
06:46:14,700 --> 06:46:16,440
you have to impress her but never
12513
06:46:16,440 --> 06:46:19,860
mention it understate these things
12514
06:46:19,860 --> 06:46:22,020
let them they already know who you are
12515
06:46:22,020 --> 06:46:23,760
they like you enough to meet you cool
12516
06:46:23,760 --> 06:46:26,340
everything else is a bonus on top if
12517
06:46:26,340 --> 06:46:27,660
they're meeting you you don't have to
12518
06:46:27,660 --> 06:46:29,580
say oh I could play the guitar and I
12519
06:46:29,580 --> 06:46:32,280
have a Ferrari and I have a jet ski at
12520
06:46:32,280 --> 06:46:33,780
my lake house but if they want to meet
12521
06:46:33,780 --> 06:46:35,840
you hang out with them first have coffee
12522
06:46:35,840 --> 06:46:39,240
then add these things in they're just
12523
06:46:39,240 --> 06:46:40,558
bonuses things that are going to make
12524
06:46:40,558 --> 06:46:41,878
her smile things that are going to
12525
06:46:41,878 --> 06:46:43,440
excite her and things aren't going to
12526
06:46:43,440 --> 06:46:45,958
lock her in to you even further than
12527
06:46:45,958 --> 06:46:47,458
she's already invested
12528
06:46:47,458 --> 06:46:50,218
vacations
12529
06:46:50,218 --> 06:46:53,160
do you take a girl on vacation
12530
06:46:53,160 --> 06:46:55,680
why take sand to a beach people always
12531
06:46:55,680 --> 06:46:59,580
say vacations can be used but they
12532
06:46:59,580 --> 06:47:02,580
should never be used on new women
12533
06:47:02,580 --> 06:47:06,058
see in the 1960s the elite Playboys I
12534
06:47:06,058 --> 06:47:07,680
don't know I won't say Elite Playboys
12535
06:47:07,680 --> 06:47:09,660
actually in the 1960s
12536
06:47:09,660 --> 06:47:12,478
the womanizers had their fast cars you
12537
06:47:12,478 --> 06:47:13,920
had a Mustang you pick up your girl in
12538
06:47:13,920 --> 06:47:15,780
your fast car you drive around she'll
12539
06:47:15,780 --> 06:47:17,218
want to suck your dick that doesn't work
12540
06:47:17,218 --> 06:47:18,620
today
12541
06:47:18,620 --> 06:47:21,958
uh various things about in the 1980s you
12542
06:47:21,958 --> 06:47:23,638
take it to the luxury casinos you get
12543
06:47:23,638 --> 06:47:25,798
all dressed up in your tuxedo she wear
12544
06:47:25,798 --> 06:47:27,660
her nice dress you know take it to the
12545
06:47:27,660 --> 06:47:29,458
nice parties drink buyer champagne she'd
12546
06:47:29,458 --> 06:47:30,978
want to have sex with you yeah cool
12547
06:47:30,978 --> 06:47:34,440
today is change today it's flight
12548
06:47:34,440 --> 06:47:36,780
tickets flight tickets and plane tickets
12549
06:47:36,780 --> 06:47:39,120
will get you in a girl's pants if you're
12550
06:47:39,120 --> 06:47:41,700
a customer if you're a dork if you're a
12551
06:47:41,700 --> 06:47:43,558
loser if you're gonna go on vacation and
12552
06:47:43,558 --> 06:47:45,900
bring a woman cool take one of your
12553
06:47:45,900 --> 06:47:47,280
girlfriends a girl you've been with a
12554
06:47:47,280 --> 06:47:49,620
while a girl whose loyalty you've tested
12555
06:47:49,620 --> 06:47:52,798
a girl whose loyalty you want to reward
12556
06:47:52,798 --> 06:47:55,020
people see me on vacation
12557
06:47:55,020 --> 06:47:56,580
and there are some vacation pictures of
12558
06:47:56,580 --> 06:47:58,200
me in Dubai and I'm with some beautiful
12559
06:47:58,200 --> 06:47:59,040
women
12560
06:47:59,040 --> 06:48:02,218
and losers haters will come at me huh
12561
06:48:02,218 --> 06:48:03,718
yeah you're taking women on vacation
12562
06:48:03,718 --> 06:48:05,700
yeah it's the same as hiring escorts no
12563
06:48:05,700 --> 06:48:08,040
no no no the women I take on vacation
12564
06:48:08,040 --> 06:48:10,138
have been my girlfriend for years
12565
06:48:10,138 --> 06:48:13,200
they've been my girlfriends through me
12566
06:48:13,200 --> 06:48:15,540
cheating through catching me doing all
12567
06:48:15,540 --> 06:48:17,580
sorts of bad [ __ ] they've been loyal to
12568
06:48:17,580 --> 06:48:19,440
me they've been respectful around me and
12569
06:48:19,440 --> 06:48:21,058
my friends they've been faithful to me
12570
06:48:21,058 --> 06:48:22,260
yeah cool you want to come on vacation
12571
06:48:22,260 --> 06:48:24,360
I'm coming I'll go for two weeks I'll
12572
06:48:24,360 --> 06:48:26,218
bring them out for four or five days do
12573
06:48:26,218 --> 06:48:28,620
not use vacations for dating guys do not
12574
06:48:28,620 --> 06:48:30,180
you're gonna attract the wrong type of
12575
06:48:30,180 --> 06:48:31,620
woman and you're gonna set a precedent
12576
06:48:31,620 --> 06:48:33,180
with these girls who are going to expect
12577
06:48:33,180 --> 06:48:34,740
you to take them everywhere
12578
06:48:34,740 --> 06:48:36,718
and really they're just they'd [ __ ]
12579
06:48:36,718 --> 06:48:38,700
anyone for a plane ticket girls who are
12580
06:48:38,700 --> 06:48:40,138
eager to go on vacations with guys
12581
06:48:40,138 --> 06:48:41,760
they'd never met you want to stay away
12582
06:48:41,760 --> 06:48:43,798
from them so do not use vacations as
12583
06:48:43,798 --> 06:48:46,978
dates vacations are not dates do not use
12584
06:48:46,978 --> 06:48:48,540
them in your dating game use them as
12585
06:48:48,540 --> 06:48:50,100
rewards for a long time long-term
12586
06:48:50,100 --> 06:48:52,260
girlfriends obviously when you're on
12587
06:48:52,260 --> 06:48:54,718
vacation all the rules to the game the
12588
06:48:54,718 --> 06:48:57,360
Tinder uh the Instagram that all applies
12589
06:48:57,360 --> 06:48:59,218
by all means meet new women when you're
12590
06:48:59,218 --> 06:49:00,660
there leave your girlfriend in your
12591
06:49:00,660 --> 06:49:02,760
house in her in your hotel room for the
12592
06:49:02,760 --> 06:49:04,260
night go and stay in a different hotel
12593
06:49:04,260 --> 06:49:08,100
if you get lucky cool but do not as a
12594
06:49:08,100 --> 06:49:08,878
rule
12595
06:49:08,878 --> 06:49:12,478
go on vacations as dates golden wall
12596
06:49:12,478 --> 06:49:13,920
don't do that
12597
06:49:13,920 --> 06:49:15,900
text game
12598
06:49:15,900 --> 06:49:18,000
now your text game is very important
12599
06:49:18,000 --> 06:49:20,100
because after meeting a woman your text
12600
06:49:20,100 --> 06:49:22,680
game is what gets her
12601
06:49:22,680 --> 06:49:24,420
to actually being in a relationship with
12602
06:49:24,420 --> 06:49:26,100
you or being a girl who shares a bed
12603
06:49:26,100 --> 06:49:27,298
with you
12604
06:49:27,298 --> 06:49:30,900
text game is intensely important
12605
06:49:30,900 --> 06:49:33,718
the one mistake guys make that Elite
12606
06:49:33,718 --> 06:49:37,200
level players do not is they text too
12607
06:49:37,200 --> 06:49:39,420
much let me explain to you it's a very
12608
06:49:39,420 --> 06:49:41,820
simple mathematical problem if I spend
12609
06:49:41,820 --> 06:49:44,040
three or four hours a day talking to a
12610
06:49:44,040 --> 06:49:46,260
girl on WhatsApp how many girls can I
12611
06:49:46,260 --> 06:49:47,638
maintain that level of conversation with
12612
06:49:47,638 --> 06:49:50,340
two three I need to be talking to 15
12613
06:49:50,340 --> 06:49:53,218
girls at a time I keep a numerical
12614
06:49:53,218 --> 06:49:55,200
system if you've got Andrew's PhD course
12615
06:49:55,200 --> 06:49:56,820
my numerical system is explained in
12616
06:49:56,820 --> 06:49:58,978
there and I have all my girls filed in
12617
06:49:58,978 --> 06:50:00,540
my phone I need to talk to all of them
12618
06:50:00,540 --> 06:50:03,360
all the time how do I do it
12619
06:50:03,360 --> 06:50:06,840
a few messages a day every two hours
12620
06:50:06,840 --> 06:50:08,580
I'll open WhatsApp I'll reply to every
12621
06:50:08,580 --> 06:50:10,740
single girl another two hours passes
12622
06:50:10,740 --> 06:50:12,180
I'll reply to every single girl it's
12623
06:50:12,180 --> 06:50:13,740
only a couple minutes every two hours
12624
06:50:13,740 --> 06:50:16,080
you don't lock yourself down into huge
12625
06:50:16,080 --> 06:50:17,280
conversations
12626
06:50:17,280 --> 06:50:18,840
for two reasons
12627
06:50:18,840 --> 06:50:21,600
one the conversation should simply be
12628
06:50:21,600 --> 06:50:23,700
trying to secure a date
12629
06:50:23,700 --> 06:50:25,860
secure a time and a date to go for
12630
06:50:25,860 --> 06:50:27,718
coffee and when she's happy you put it
12631
06:50:27,718 --> 06:50:29,218
in your calendar and you make sure you
12632
06:50:29,218 --> 06:50:31,320
text her a few hours before or a day
12633
06:50:31,320 --> 06:50:32,580
before can't wait to see you tomorrow
12634
06:50:32,580 --> 06:50:34,138
I'm really looking forward to tomorrow
12635
06:50:34,138 --> 06:50:35,820
and you confirm the date before you go
12636
06:50:35,820 --> 06:50:38,340
that's all text game is
12637
06:50:38,340 --> 06:50:40,860
if you and I know lots of guys do it so
12638
06:50:40,860 --> 06:50:42,900
don't feel bad for making this mistake
12639
06:50:42,900 --> 06:50:45,780
are talking on text about her interests
12640
06:50:45,780 --> 06:50:48,600
What She Likes doing uh why are you
12641
06:50:48,600 --> 06:50:52,020
single uh her life story where the any
12642
06:50:52,020 --> 06:50:55,620
of this [ __ ] is date material you want
12643
06:50:55,620 --> 06:50:57,180
to be sitting at a dinner table or
12644
06:50:57,180 --> 06:50:59,638
sitting at a coffee bar having that
12645
06:50:59,638 --> 06:51:02,160
conversation she's met you she finds you
12646
06:51:02,160 --> 06:51:04,020
moderately attractive at least she gave
12647
06:51:04,020 --> 06:51:06,540
you her contact details the whole text
12648
06:51:06,540 --> 06:51:09,360
game is aiming at closing a date
12649
06:51:09,360 --> 06:51:11,100
hey how are you it's good to see you the
12650
06:51:11,100 --> 06:51:12,718
other night
12651
06:51:12,718 --> 06:51:13,978
continue with your business a couple
12652
06:51:13,978 --> 06:51:16,440
hours past she's replied yeah yeah it
12653
06:51:16,440 --> 06:51:18,900
was really good night out you know I'd
12654
06:51:18,900 --> 06:51:19,978
like to see you again and get to know
12655
06:51:19,978 --> 06:51:21,360
you a bit better you're free tomorrow
12656
06:51:21,360 --> 06:51:22,978
let's go for coffee
12657
06:51:22,978 --> 06:51:26,878
boom that's it that's all you need if
12658
06:51:26,878 --> 06:51:29,100
you set the precedent we are talking for
12659
06:51:29,100 --> 06:51:31,138
hours and hours a day on WhatsApp you
12660
06:51:31,138 --> 06:51:33,900
probably do it now what you're doing is
12661
06:51:33,900 --> 06:51:36,120
when you do become her boyfriend when
12662
06:51:36,120 --> 06:51:37,920
you are in a relationship with her and
12663
06:51:37,920 --> 06:51:39,600
you start texting her less and less to
12664
06:51:39,600 --> 06:51:41,520
message your new girls she's gonna think
12665
06:51:41,520 --> 06:51:44,160
you're ignoring her however I'm always
12666
06:51:44,160 --> 06:51:46,620
the guy who texts five times a day I'm
12667
06:51:46,620 --> 06:51:48,180
always the guy who replies five or six
12668
06:51:48,180 --> 06:51:50,100
replies a day over the course of 24
12669
06:51:50,100 --> 06:51:52,260
hours and that's it that's always been
12670
06:51:52,260 --> 06:51:54,840
me I'm not the guy who has huge long
12671
06:51:54,840 --> 06:51:57,058
conversations all day on WhatsApp and I
12672
06:51:57,058 --> 06:52:00,360
set that since day one
12673
06:52:00,360 --> 06:52:02,100
now since day one that's been the case
12674
06:52:02,100 --> 06:52:03,718
course he's not gonna ever expect any
12675
06:52:03,718 --> 06:52:05,638
more from me then our interaction could
12676
06:52:05,638 --> 06:52:07,978
be the kind of interaction I like do you
12677
06:52:07,978 --> 06:52:09,360
get excited talking to girls on WhatsApp
12678
06:52:09,360 --> 06:52:13,440
that's gay that's lame as loser [ __ ] the
12679
06:52:13,440 --> 06:52:15,240
interaction I want with women I want
12680
06:52:15,240 --> 06:52:16,760
them sitting across the table for me
12681
06:52:16,760 --> 06:52:19,378
smiling rubbing my shoulders while we
12682
06:52:19,378 --> 06:52:21,840
watch a movie eating popcorn together in
12683
06:52:21,840 --> 06:52:24,000
bed waking up together that's what I
12684
06:52:24,000 --> 06:52:25,020
want I don't want to be talking on
12685
06:52:25,020 --> 06:52:27,000
WhatsApp all day so text game keep it
12686
06:52:27,000 --> 06:52:29,458
minimal and keep it to the point however
12687
06:52:29,458 --> 06:52:31,500
you do it I I don't speak maybe you
12688
06:52:31,500 --> 06:52:32,580
don't speak English as your first
12689
06:52:32,580 --> 06:52:34,138
language maybe you're doing what
12690
06:52:34,138 --> 06:52:37,080
regardless of what your game is and how
12691
06:52:37,080 --> 06:52:38,700
well your text game
12692
06:52:38,700 --> 06:52:41,580
uh comes together the goal is simple
12693
06:52:41,580 --> 06:52:44,280
make sure it's all orientated to getting
12694
06:52:44,280 --> 06:52:46,260
her on a date what kind of food you like
12695
06:52:46,260 --> 06:52:48,900
perfectly okay question oh I like this I
12696
06:52:48,900 --> 06:52:50,040
like that oh you like Japanese but
12697
06:52:50,040 --> 06:52:51,180
that's cool I know a really great
12698
06:52:51,180 --> 06:52:52,440
Japanese restaurant in town have you
12699
06:52:52,440 --> 06:52:54,180
ever been to this yeah it's my favorite
12700
06:52:54,180 --> 06:52:55,978
restaurant okay I'll take you there
12701
06:52:55,978 --> 06:52:57,718
tomorrow or no I've never been there oh
12702
06:52:57,718 --> 06:52:59,280
you gotta try it I'll take you there
12703
06:52:59,280 --> 06:53:01,920
tomorrow everything has to be a slow
12704
06:53:01,920 --> 06:53:04,260
closing process to getting that date and
12705
06:53:04,260 --> 06:53:05,638
if she really won't go on a date with
12706
06:53:05,638 --> 06:53:07,260
you because you're not texting enough
12707
06:53:07,260 --> 06:53:09,240
[ __ ] her there's plenty of girls who
12708
06:53:09,240 --> 06:53:10,020
will
12709
06:53:10,020 --> 06:53:13,200
that's text game summed up
12710
06:53:13,200 --> 06:53:15,600
and that is the end of module two that
12711
06:53:15,600 --> 06:53:17,580
is everything you need to know about
12712
06:53:17,580 --> 06:53:21,058
dating to be an elite Playboy but dating
12713
06:53:21,058 --> 06:53:24,298
isn't the end goal which is why we have
12714
06:53:24,298 --> 06:53:26,040
module three I'm going to talk about
12715
06:53:26,040 --> 06:53:29,040
relationships
12716
06:53:29,100 --> 06:53:31,320
I've covered meeting women
12717
06:53:31,320 --> 06:53:33,660
and I've covered dating women
12718
06:53:33,660 --> 06:53:36,420
but that's not all you want
12719
06:53:36,420 --> 06:53:38,280
now there are guys
12720
06:53:38,280 --> 06:53:41,580
on Twitter there are guys on the
12721
06:53:41,580 --> 06:53:43,378
internet who are like yeah women ain't
12722
06:53:43,378 --> 06:53:44,820
nothing I just [ __ ] them and leave them
12723
06:53:44,820 --> 06:53:47,638
I just hit it and quit it nah you're
12724
06:53:47,638 --> 06:53:49,200
missing out on something
12725
06:53:49,200 --> 06:53:52,080
they're missing out on the fundamental
12726
06:53:52,080 --> 06:53:54,000
enjoyable experience of being with women
12727
06:53:54,000 --> 06:53:56,100
women aren't just sex objects yeah
12728
06:53:56,100 --> 06:53:58,320
that's coming from me one of the baddest
12729
06:53:58,320 --> 06:54:00,900
Playboys in the world women are not just
12730
06:54:00,900 --> 06:54:03,120
sex objects
12731
06:54:03,120 --> 06:54:04,320
women
12732
06:54:04,320 --> 06:54:07,440
have a special type of energy around
12733
06:54:07,440 --> 06:54:09,780
them they're fascinating they're
12734
06:54:09,780 --> 06:54:12,660
wonderful in their own special way I'll
12735
06:54:12,660 --> 06:54:14,218
never trust a woman like I'll Trust a
12736
06:54:14,218 --> 06:54:16,920
man if I if I need backup in a situation
12737
06:54:16,920 --> 06:54:18,360
or if I have problems I'm never going to
12738
06:54:18,360 --> 06:54:20,820
call a woman or call a man like my
12739
06:54:20,820 --> 06:54:24,058
brother however women are unique and
12740
06:54:24,058 --> 06:54:26,638
they make life beautiful you're taking a
12741
06:54:26,638 --> 06:54:28,320
walk on the beach it's better with a
12742
06:54:28,320 --> 06:54:30,000
woman you're laying in the park looking
12743
06:54:30,000 --> 06:54:31,740
up at the sky it's better with a woman
12744
06:54:31,740 --> 06:54:34,020
you're at dinner it's better with a
12745
06:54:34,020 --> 06:54:35,760
woman you're at a club with your male
12746
06:54:35,760 --> 06:54:38,820
friends you want women around women are
12747
06:54:38,820 --> 06:54:42,540
the seasoning to life they make it more
12748
06:54:42,540 --> 06:54:44,580
special if you're sick you're in bed
12749
06:54:44,580 --> 06:54:46,798
you're not feeling well you want a woman
12750
06:54:46,798 --> 06:54:48,298
to look after you don't want a man
12751
06:54:48,298 --> 06:54:50,280
bringing your soup and rubbing your back
12752
06:54:50,280 --> 06:54:53,340
that's gay I mean maybe you're gay you
12753
06:54:53,340 --> 06:54:54,660
wouldn't buy this course if you were but
12754
06:54:54,660 --> 06:54:56,400
in which case you would want a man but
12755
06:54:56,400 --> 06:54:58,860
women have a special type of energy and
12756
06:54:58,860 --> 06:54:59,940
I love women
12757
06:54:59,940 --> 06:55:02,100
so these hit it and quit it guys
12758
06:55:02,100 --> 06:55:03,660
they don't have serious relationships
12759
06:55:03,660 --> 06:55:05,700
like I do I have six serious
12760
06:55:05,700 --> 06:55:08,760
relationships why because the love and
12761
06:55:08,760 --> 06:55:10,680
the relationship is maybe the most
12762
06:55:10,680 --> 06:55:14,340
rewarding part of being an elite Playboy
12763
06:55:14,340 --> 06:55:16,920
collecting the relationships not just
12764
06:55:16,920 --> 06:55:18,780
the notches on the bedpost but the women
12765
06:55:18,780 --> 06:55:20,520
who would cry their eyes out if I
12766
06:55:20,520 --> 06:55:23,218
stopped speaking to them that is power
12767
06:55:23,218 --> 06:55:26,218
and that is truly having Affinity with
12768
06:55:26,218 --> 06:55:27,000
women
12769
06:55:27,000 --> 06:55:28,378
so now we're going to go into the
12770
06:55:28,378 --> 06:55:31,500
details of how to have relationships
12771
06:55:31,500 --> 06:55:33,718
first and foremost in any relationship
12772
06:55:33,718 --> 06:55:35,458
you have to establish if she's
12773
06:55:35,458 --> 06:55:37,260
relationship material
12774
06:55:37,260 --> 06:55:38,878
now there are people who will talk about
12775
06:55:38,878 --> 06:55:41,040
how to find the right partner for you
12776
06:55:41,040 --> 06:55:44,340
how to navigate the sexual Marketplace I
12777
06:55:44,340 --> 06:55:46,138
see them all the time I look at their
12778
06:55:46,138 --> 06:55:48,900
videos and I laugh because these guys
12779
06:55:48,900 --> 06:55:51,000
have never navigated the sexual
12780
06:55:51,000 --> 06:55:52,138
Marketplace
12781
06:55:52,138 --> 06:55:55,020
to be a man who knows what a good apple
12782
06:55:55,020 --> 06:55:57,420
is and what a bad apple is you have to
12783
06:55:57,420 --> 06:55:59,638
try thousands of apples
12784
06:55:59,638 --> 06:56:01,920
every day taking bites of new apples
12785
06:56:01,920 --> 06:56:03,298
knowing what tastes good knowing what
12786
06:56:03,298 --> 06:56:07,260
doesn't this is why I have such
12787
06:56:07,260 --> 06:56:09,958
wonderful women in my life because I
12788
06:56:09,958 --> 06:56:12,298
have met the Psychopaths and the
12789
06:56:12,298 --> 06:56:13,798
terrible women that men warn you about
12790
06:56:13,798 --> 06:56:16,260
I've met the women who would divorce
12791
06:56:16,260 --> 06:56:19,558
rate me or try to have my baby or upset
12792
06:56:19,558 --> 06:56:21,180
my life or try to ruin my business I've
12793
06:56:21,180 --> 06:56:23,100
met them I [ __ ] them once I never
12794
06:56:23,100 --> 06:56:25,080
talked to him again because I can spot a
12795
06:56:25,080 --> 06:56:27,718
good one from a bad one from a mile off
12796
06:56:27,718 --> 06:56:30,120
so that is the key to having
12797
06:56:30,120 --> 06:56:31,860
relationships you have to differentiate
12798
06:56:31,860 --> 06:56:34,978
which girls you [ __ ] from which girls
12799
06:56:34,978 --> 06:56:38,040
you want to stay with the best way to do
12800
06:56:38,040 --> 06:56:41,340
this is as hard as it is guys we all
12801
06:56:41,340 --> 06:56:44,040
think with our dicks sometimes you have
12802
06:56:44,040 --> 06:56:47,340
to eliminate Beauty in your mind
12803
06:56:47,340 --> 06:56:49,740
the hottest girl in the world can be a
12804
06:56:49,740 --> 06:56:51,660
horrible backstabbing money-grabbing
12805
06:56:51,660 --> 06:56:54,600
gold digging [ __ ] and most dudes will
12806
06:56:54,600 --> 06:56:57,600
stay with her oh but she's so nice what
12807
06:56:57,600 --> 06:57:01,020
exactly is nice about her me
12808
06:57:01,020 --> 06:57:03,660
when I'm trying to differentiate which
12809
06:57:03,660 --> 06:57:05,280
kind of women I want to love and which
12810
06:57:05,280 --> 06:57:07,740
women I want to just sleep with I
12811
06:57:07,740 --> 06:57:09,718
usually close my eyes and I think about
12812
06:57:09,718 --> 06:57:14,280
them as a asexual blackened figurine
12813
06:57:14,280 --> 06:57:16,620
I think of what their qualities are
12814
06:57:16,620 --> 06:57:18,120
I wake up in the morning she makes me
12815
06:57:18,120 --> 06:57:18,958
coffee
12816
06:57:18,958 --> 06:57:20,700
my injured shoulder is playing up she
12817
06:57:20,700 --> 06:57:22,440
gives me a massage
12818
06:57:22,440 --> 06:57:24,958
she leaves her phone around unlocked
12819
06:57:24,958 --> 06:57:26,520
doesn't matter it doesn't care if I look
12820
06:57:26,520 --> 06:57:27,360
in it
12821
06:57:27,360 --> 06:57:29,280
never goes out of the room to make to
12822
06:57:29,280 --> 06:57:31,500
take a phone call is respectful to my
12823
06:57:31,500 --> 06:57:33,600
friends cleans up my house cooks my
12824
06:57:33,600 --> 06:57:35,458
meals
12825
06:57:35,458 --> 06:57:38,340
if these things are adding up
12826
06:57:38,340 --> 06:57:40,558
then I'll usually uh turn it into
12827
06:57:40,558 --> 06:57:42,058
something serious I'll tell her she's
12828
06:57:42,058 --> 06:57:44,400
exclusive with me I'll tell her the
12829
06:57:44,400 --> 06:57:45,718
truth I'm a busy man I'll see her as
12830
06:57:45,718 --> 06:57:47,700
much as I can I'll tell her that I love
12831
06:57:47,700 --> 06:57:49,500
her even I'll tell her I have respect
12832
06:57:49,500 --> 06:57:50,820
for her I'll tell her I care about her
12833
06:57:50,820 --> 06:57:52,798
all of it's true
12834
06:57:52,798 --> 06:57:54,900
yeah I have other women and a lot of
12835
06:57:54,900 --> 06:57:56,700
them know that
12836
06:57:56,700 --> 06:58:00,180
but women would rather share the king
12837
06:58:00,180 --> 06:58:02,458
than marry the jester
12838
06:58:02,458 --> 06:58:04,620
and when I say about training yourself
12839
06:58:04,620 --> 06:58:07,020
to be in that Elite level position
12840
06:58:07,020 --> 06:58:10,260
whether it be Fitness income maybe
12841
06:58:10,260 --> 06:58:11,520
you're the most handsome dude in the
12842
06:58:11,520 --> 06:58:13,680
world one of my friends Alexander Cortez
12843
06:58:13,680 --> 06:58:16,080
is the most handsome guy I've ever seen
12844
06:58:16,080 --> 06:58:18,000
I'm sure he could have a collection of
12845
06:58:18,000 --> 06:58:19,320
women if he chose to if you want to live
12846
06:58:19,320 --> 06:58:20,940
this lifestyle based on looks alone I
12847
06:58:20,940 --> 06:58:23,040
don't know what your attributes are
12848
06:58:23,040 --> 06:58:25,740
but whatever you they are understand
12849
06:58:25,740 --> 06:58:28,500
that women would rather share a top one
12850
06:58:28,500 --> 06:58:31,200
percent guy than be with some fat dork
12851
06:58:31,200 --> 06:58:33,958
who's exclusive to them believe me and
12852
06:58:33,958 --> 06:58:35,820
fat dorks come with their own set of
12853
06:58:35,820 --> 06:58:37,860
problems anyway now I meet the type of
12854
06:58:37,860 --> 06:58:40,138
women all the time who are no good
12855
06:58:40,138 --> 06:58:43,740
and I just know that men would fall in
12856
06:58:43,740 --> 06:58:45,718
love with them because men are weak and
12857
06:58:45,718 --> 06:58:47,340
men are stupid you have to be better
12858
06:58:47,340 --> 06:58:49,080
than most men to have a collection like
12859
06:58:49,080 --> 06:58:51,000
mine you have to be better than most men
12860
06:58:51,000 --> 06:58:53,940
because the good girls are the ones who
12861
06:58:53,940 --> 06:58:55,740
are willing to share you this is what
12862
06:58:55,740 --> 06:58:57,120
people don't understand and this is what
12863
06:58:57,120 --> 06:58:58,520
people don't teach
12864
06:58:58,520 --> 06:59:02,458
my wife would never tolerate me talking
12865
06:59:02,458 --> 06:59:04,440
to other women yeah great great your
12866
06:59:04,440 --> 06:59:06,298
wife's a [ __ ] let me tell you something
12867
06:59:06,298 --> 06:59:09,058
I know women who are so invested in my
12868
06:59:09,058 --> 06:59:10,798
happiness that they know when they're
12869
06:59:10,798 --> 06:59:12,420
not around there may be another woman in
12870
06:59:12,420 --> 06:59:13,740
my bed I don't know if they know the
12871
06:59:13,740 --> 06:59:16,080
true extent of it but they love me so
12872
06:59:16,080 --> 06:59:16,920
much
12873
06:59:16,920 --> 06:59:18,718
that they allow me to have other women
12874
06:59:18,718 --> 06:59:21,180
when you meet a horrible nasty
12875
06:59:21,180 --> 06:59:24,298
vindictive jealous [ __ ] and she's like
12876
06:59:24,298 --> 06:59:25,440
oh you better not go out with your
12877
06:59:25,440 --> 06:59:27,298
friends you better not oh you think
12878
06:59:27,298 --> 06:59:28,500
that's the woman who really loves you
12879
06:59:28,500 --> 06:59:29,820
because you wouldn't tolerate you with
12880
06:59:29,820 --> 06:59:31,740
another woman no the woman who really
12881
06:59:31,740 --> 06:59:33,780
loves you is like look I know you have
12882
06:59:33,780 --> 06:59:35,280
another girl tears streaming down her
12883
06:59:35,280 --> 06:59:37,020
face but I really love you please don't
12884
06:59:37,020 --> 06:59:38,340
leave me just tell me I'm different from
12885
06:59:38,340 --> 06:59:40,200
the rest that's the woman who loves you
12886
06:59:40,200 --> 06:59:42,058
so you have to differentiate which girls
12887
06:59:42,058 --> 06:59:43,798
you [ __ ] and which girls you want to
12888
06:59:43,798 --> 06:59:46,440
love simple as that a good way of doing
12889
06:59:46,440 --> 06:59:48,660
this is testing their loyalty
12890
06:59:48,660 --> 06:59:54,600
now I'm not uh obsessive stalker I'm not
12891
06:59:54,600 --> 06:59:57,840
a jealous guy I know my girlfriends
12892
06:59:57,840 --> 07:00:00,840
don't cheat on me sure do I sleep with
12893
07:00:00,840 --> 07:00:02,878
some side hoes that may have a boyfriend
12894
07:00:02,878 --> 07:00:05,520
I may be their side guy do I sleep with
12895
07:00:05,520 --> 07:00:07,500
side hoes who may do that every weekend
12896
07:00:07,500 --> 07:00:09,900
maybe maybe but my girlfriend certainly
12897
07:00:09,900 --> 07:00:11,520
don't cheat on me but you have to test
12898
07:00:11,520 --> 07:00:14,638
their loyalty now don't even look
12899
07:00:14,638 --> 07:00:16,860
through their phone don't even look
12900
07:00:16,860 --> 07:00:18,478
through their phone hey baby give me
12901
07:00:18,478 --> 07:00:20,280
your phone unlock it I want to do
12902
07:00:20,280 --> 07:00:23,820
something on it unlocks hands it over
12903
07:00:23,820 --> 07:00:26,520
don't do [ __ ] take a selfie give it back
12904
07:00:26,520 --> 07:00:28,620
to her if she'll hand you her unlocked
12905
07:00:28,620 --> 07:00:30,780
phone she ain't cheating because believe
12906
07:00:30,780 --> 07:00:32,340
me these girls get hundreds and hundreds
12907
07:00:32,340 --> 07:00:34,320
of messages every day on Instagram on
12908
07:00:34,320 --> 07:00:36,360
Facebook they're replying in a way that
12909
07:00:36,360 --> 07:00:38,218
they know you won't like they will not
12910
07:00:38,218 --> 07:00:40,020
unlock their phone so if they won't
12911
07:00:40,020 --> 07:00:41,340
unlock your phone and hand it to you
12912
07:00:41,340 --> 07:00:43,500
then that is a very good loyalty test
12913
07:00:43,500 --> 07:00:45,478
she's probably not girlfriend material
12914
07:00:45,478 --> 07:00:47,218
by all means get her to suck your dick
12915
07:00:47,218 --> 07:00:48,718
have your fun with her but she's
12916
07:00:48,718 --> 07:00:49,740
probably not the girl you want to be
12917
07:00:49,740 --> 07:00:50,580
with
12918
07:00:50,580 --> 07:00:53,820
and I hear a lot about harim's about how
12919
07:00:53,820 --> 07:00:55,320
to have multiple women let me tell you
12920
07:00:55,320 --> 07:00:57,478
something I don't enjoy group sex I
12921
07:00:57,478 --> 07:00:59,520
don't enjoy threesomes I don't enjoy
12922
07:00:59,520 --> 07:01:01,558
foursomes I don't think they're
12923
07:01:01,558 --> 07:01:03,540
enjoyable sex is a lot more intimate and
12924
07:01:03,540 --> 07:01:05,940
a lot more fun one-on-one you only have
12925
07:01:05,940 --> 07:01:08,700
one dick that's it so you can only it's
12926
07:01:08,700 --> 07:01:10,978
taking turns one way or the other so I
12927
07:01:10,978 --> 07:01:13,200
don't enjoy groups group sex so my harem
12928
07:01:13,200 --> 07:01:15,000
game is different
12929
07:01:15,000 --> 07:01:16,740
um than a lot of guys now on the
12930
07:01:16,740 --> 07:01:19,978
internet there are very few people who
12931
07:01:19,978 --> 07:01:22,500
have multiple women uh I know one I'm
12932
07:01:22,500 --> 07:01:24,058
not going to name him and shame him in
12933
07:01:24,058 --> 07:01:25,978
my course but he's a Muslim guy black
12934
07:01:25,978 --> 07:01:28,620
guy American lives in Germany a very
12935
07:01:28,620 --> 07:01:30,478
smart guy he legitimately has a harem he
12936
07:01:30,478 --> 07:01:32,700
has multiple wives uh respect respect to
12937
07:01:32,700 --> 07:01:34,020
him and he's a good friend of mine
12938
07:01:34,020 --> 07:01:37,620
almost no one you see talk about having
12939
07:01:37,620 --> 07:01:38,940
multiple women has multiple women
12940
07:01:38,940 --> 07:01:41,820
besides my brother and myself now
12941
07:01:41,820 --> 07:01:43,978
how do I run my harem game it's
12942
07:01:43,978 --> 07:01:44,878
different
12943
07:01:44,878 --> 07:01:47,760
than most people you see women behave
12944
07:01:47,760 --> 07:01:50,040
better and take this from an elite level
12945
07:01:50,040 --> 07:01:52,740
guy women behave better when they know
12946
07:01:52,740 --> 07:01:55,200
you have other options if you have one
12947
07:01:55,200 --> 07:01:57,840
girl one girl only she'll try to stop
12948
07:01:57,840 --> 07:01:59,520
you talking to other women stop you
12949
07:01:59,520 --> 07:02:01,920
meeting other women and she'll
12950
07:02:01,920 --> 07:02:04,620
aggressively try to interject in your
12951
07:02:04,620 --> 07:02:07,200
life but when you have other women and
12952
07:02:07,200 --> 07:02:08,520
she knows that you have other women
12953
07:02:08,520 --> 07:02:11,340
maybe she turns a blind eye maybe she
12954
07:02:11,340 --> 07:02:12,840
doesn't want to hear about it but she
12955
07:02:12,840 --> 07:02:14,820
knows maybe she's seen you tagged on
12956
07:02:14,820 --> 07:02:16,860
your Instagram with them maybe she's
12957
07:02:16,860 --> 07:02:17,940
seen them in the background of your
12958
07:02:17,940 --> 07:02:19,440
Instagram story when she knows you have
12959
07:02:19,440 --> 07:02:23,280
other women women up their game I'm
12960
07:02:23,280 --> 07:02:26,100
telling you the truth good women don't
12961
07:02:26,100 --> 07:02:29,700
leave they try to make you happier now
12962
07:02:29,700 --> 07:02:30,958
when you have a harem all living
12963
07:02:30,958 --> 07:02:33,240
together I've lived with two or three
12964
07:02:33,240 --> 07:02:35,760
women maximum at any one point
12965
07:02:35,760 --> 07:02:38,340
very unpleasant experience because
12966
07:02:38,340 --> 07:02:39,600
sleeping Arrangements were always
12967
07:02:39,600 --> 07:02:41,400
difficult sex I didn't enjoy that much
12968
07:02:41,400 --> 07:02:42,600
because there was always too many girls
12969
07:02:42,600 --> 07:02:46,620
however the women behaved very well one
12970
07:02:46,620 --> 07:02:47,700
woman didn't want to be the one who
12971
07:02:47,700 --> 07:02:50,340
[ __ ] up out of three because she knows
12972
07:02:50,340 --> 07:02:51,540
that she's sleeping on the couch and
12973
07:02:51,540 --> 07:02:53,280
you're [ __ ] those two that night it
12974
07:02:53,280 --> 07:02:55,680
was always a game of one-upmanship the
12975
07:02:55,680 --> 07:02:57,900
women try to up their game to out
12976
07:02:57,900 --> 07:03:01,320
compete one another now my harem game is
12977
07:03:01,320 --> 07:03:03,000
very similar to this however the women
12978
07:03:03,000 --> 07:03:05,160
are never in the same place at the same
12979
07:03:05,160 --> 07:03:07,798
time they know each other's names they
12980
07:03:07,798 --> 07:03:09,900
know who they are they know that these
12981
07:03:09,900 --> 07:03:12,780
girls are around me even one of my
12982
07:03:12,780 --> 07:03:14,340
girlfriends isn't quite sure if I'm
12983
07:03:14,340 --> 07:03:15,478
sleeping with these women but she
12984
07:03:15,478 --> 07:03:18,660
heavily suspects that I am and she
12985
07:03:18,660 --> 07:03:21,000
checks their stories all the time she
12986
07:03:21,000 --> 07:03:22,620
knows they're at my house
12987
07:03:22,620 --> 07:03:24,360
and that does not make her flip out and
12988
07:03:24,360 --> 07:03:25,798
cause arguments because she knows she'll
12989
07:03:25,798 --> 07:03:27,420
get blocked and she knows when she's
12990
07:03:27,420 --> 07:03:29,040
blocked I'm going to be around these
12991
07:03:29,040 --> 07:03:31,680
other women it makes her up her game so
12992
07:03:31,680 --> 07:03:33,660
my women are not in the same place but
12993
07:03:33,660 --> 07:03:35,160
they're fully aware of each other's
12994
07:03:35,160 --> 07:03:36,600
presence they're fully aware that the
12995
07:03:36,600 --> 07:03:38,700
other ones exist and they up their
12996
07:03:38,700 --> 07:03:42,120
behavior and they check themselves
12997
07:03:42,120 --> 07:03:43,798
so I don't have to check them and end up
12998
07:03:43,798 --> 07:03:45,600
with these other women so my harem game
12999
07:03:45,600 --> 07:03:47,520
is is what I call distance game they're
13000
07:03:47,520 --> 07:03:49,260
far away from each other
13001
07:03:49,260 --> 07:03:51,540
but they know each other exists and
13002
07:03:51,540 --> 07:03:53,520
that's what makes them behave
13003
07:03:53,520 --> 07:03:55,138
I'm going to be honest with you there's
13004
07:03:55,138 --> 07:03:57,298
a refreshing moment of honesty
13005
07:03:57,298 --> 07:04:01,080
it is hard to have six girlfriends I
13006
07:04:01,080 --> 07:04:03,180
have six I didn't know the exact number
13007
07:04:03,180 --> 07:04:04,620
I had until I started filming this
13008
07:04:04,620 --> 07:04:06,958
course I had to actually count I didn't
13009
07:04:06,958 --> 07:04:08,400
know I thought it was five six seven it
13010
07:04:08,400 --> 07:04:09,120
could have been one of those numbers
13011
07:04:09,120 --> 07:04:11,820
it's difficult because time management
13012
07:04:11,820 --> 07:04:13,200
is a problem
13013
07:04:13,200 --> 07:04:15,540
luckily for me I live a lifestyle and
13014
07:04:15,540 --> 07:04:16,978
you need to set your lifestyle up in the
13015
07:04:16,978 --> 07:04:20,280
same way where you are busy
13016
07:04:20,280 --> 07:04:23,100
all hours of the day but no hours of the
13017
07:04:23,100 --> 07:04:25,680
day I can be busy anytime I like I have
13018
07:04:25,680 --> 07:04:28,500
a very busy hectic work schedule which
13019
07:04:28,500 --> 07:04:31,080
is usually my excuse but you do have to
13020
07:04:31,080 --> 07:04:32,700
see your girlfriends
13021
07:04:32,700 --> 07:04:34,500
now I'll take a girlfriend on a date
13022
07:04:34,500 --> 07:04:36,840
I'll date a new girl and I'll see a
13023
07:04:36,840 --> 07:04:38,700
second girlfriend in the evening I'll
13024
07:04:38,700 --> 07:04:39,860
usually wake up with that girlfriend
13025
07:04:39,860 --> 07:04:42,180
Uber and a girl for lunch and see
13026
07:04:42,180 --> 07:04:43,558
another girlfriend that the second
13027
07:04:43,558 --> 07:04:46,978
evening I see my girls about two times a
13028
07:04:46,978 --> 07:04:49,620
week maybe three times a week each
13029
07:04:49,620 --> 07:04:51,840
but instead of having one relationship
13030
07:04:51,840 --> 07:04:53,638
you can have six relationships where the
13031
07:04:53,638 --> 07:04:55,080
girl thinks you're a busier man than you
13032
07:04:55,080 --> 07:04:57,420
are it is possible but you have to
13033
07:04:57,420 --> 07:05:01,020
manage your time very very closely which
13034
07:05:01,020 --> 07:05:03,180
makes meeting new girls difficult
13035
07:05:03,180 --> 07:05:05,700
now whatever you do when you're in a
13036
07:05:05,700 --> 07:05:08,700
relationship never ever concede to
13037
07:05:08,700 --> 07:05:10,378
having enough women never think you know
13038
07:05:10,378 --> 07:05:11,700
what I've got my three girlfriends
13039
07:05:11,700 --> 07:05:14,400
that's wonderful I'm not gonna I'm gonna
13040
07:05:14,400 --> 07:05:17,218
delete Tinder I'm gonna stop posting on
13041
07:05:17,218 --> 07:05:19,378
Instagram I'm gonna stop going to clubs
13042
07:05:19,378 --> 07:05:20,940
I'm gonna stop doing my approaches I've
13043
07:05:20,940 --> 07:05:22,200
got three girlfriends they're all
13044
07:05:22,200 --> 07:05:23,458
smoking hot
13045
07:05:23,458 --> 07:05:25,558
you know why because I've lived it I've
13046
07:05:25,558 --> 07:05:27,180
been in that situation and I've been
13047
07:05:27,180 --> 07:05:28,440
content
13048
07:05:28,440 --> 07:05:30,058
one girl has an argument with another
13049
07:05:30,058 --> 07:05:32,040
girl they find out about each other they
13050
07:05:32,040 --> 07:05:33,600
both break up with you maybe you only
13051
07:05:33,600 --> 07:05:35,280
get one back boom you're down to two
13052
07:05:35,280 --> 07:05:37,020
same thing happens again boom you're
13053
07:05:37,020 --> 07:05:39,420
down to one [ __ ] suddenly you're the guy
13054
07:05:39,420 --> 07:05:41,520
who's happily married you got one China
13055
07:05:41,520 --> 07:05:43,860
you're stuck there with one chick now
13056
07:05:43,860 --> 07:05:46,260
you've done no legwork you've put in
13057
07:05:46,260 --> 07:05:48,660
zero hours in terms of getting new women
13058
07:05:48,660 --> 07:05:50,700
so you have to start from scratch build
13059
07:05:50,700 --> 07:05:52,920
up your collection again it's months
13060
07:05:52,920 --> 07:05:54,958
before you have three again then four
13061
07:05:54,958 --> 07:05:57,240
then five and six never ever be content
13062
07:05:57,240 --> 07:05:59,638
but in relationships it's very important
13063
07:05:59,638 --> 07:06:02,878
to be kind people think players
13064
07:06:02,878 --> 07:06:04,260
especially guys who worked in the
13065
07:06:04,260 --> 07:06:06,718
industry that I have are horrible people
13066
07:06:06,718 --> 07:06:09,540
that I'm rude to women that my house is
13067
07:06:09,540 --> 07:06:11,040
a revolving door with women and like
13068
07:06:11,040 --> 07:06:13,138
okay that bit is a bit true but you
13069
07:06:13,138 --> 07:06:16,100
think they leave unhappy no they do not
13070
07:06:16,100 --> 07:06:19,680
be polite buy them flowers sometimes buy
13071
07:06:19,680 --> 07:06:21,958
them chocolates you don't have to go out
13072
07:06:21,958 --> 07:06:24,478
of your way to make a woman smile I stop
13073
07:06:24,478 --> 07:06:27,120
at the gas station all the time look at
13074
07:06:27,120 --> 07:06:29,160
my cars every time I stop at the gas
13075
07:06:29,160 --> 07:06:30,360
station I'll buy a box of chocolates
13076
07:06:30,360 --> 07:06:32,280
it's the thought that will make a
13077
07:06:32,280 --> 07:06:34,260
woman's day if you have lunch with a
13078
07:06:34,260 --> 07:06:35,580
woman and you've bought her a teddy bear
13079
07:06:35,580 --> 07:06:37,620
and a bouquet of flowers girlfriends
13080
07:06:37,620 --> 07:06:39,360
only obviously
13081
07:06:39,360 --> 07:06:41,100
she'll go home in the evening and she
13082
07:06:41,100 --> 07:06:43,138
won't think about what I'm doing who my
13083
07:06:43,138 --> 07:06:45,298
dick's in she's like oh Tristan loves me
13084
07:06:45,298 --> 07:06:46,558
he bought me flowers and a teddy bear
13085
07:06:46,558 --> 07:06:48,180
and she'll be posting photos to her
13086
07:06:48,180 --> 07:06:49,978
Instagram of the flower and the teddy
13087
07:06:49,978 --> 07:06:51,298
bears I bought her which makes my other
13088
07:06:51,298 --> 07:06:53,638
girls see they suspect that I bought
13089
07:06:53,638 --> 07:06:56,400
them they upped their game hatred when
13090
07:06:56,400 --> 07:06:58,680
am I seeing you it's a beautiful system
13091
07:06:58,680 --> 07:07:01,620
but be nice to your girlfriends in your
13092
07:07:01,620 --> 07:07:05,218
relationships but being nice also
13093
07:07:05,218 --> 07:07:08,280
includes not engaging in [ __ ]
13094
07:07:08,280 --> 07:07:10,378
arguments if a girl wants to argue with
13095
07:07:10,378 --> 07:07:13,558
you all the time she's not a girl that's
13096
07:07:13,558 --> 07:07:16,320
cohesive with the elite player lifestyle
13097
07:07:16,320 --> 07:07:18,000
you need to stay away from those women
13098
07:07:18,000 --> 07:07:20,820
engaging in needless arguments is a
13099
07:07:20,820 --> 07:07:22,620
tactic women use they're smarter than
13100
07:07:22,620 --> 07:07:25,680
you think to eat away the hours of your
13101
07:07:25,680 --> 07:07:27,540
day and the hours of time you could be
13102
07:07:27,540 --> 07:07:29,638
using to pursue other women I recently
13103
07:07:29,638 --> 07:07:31,620
had to let a girlfriend of mine go
13104
07:07:31,620 --> 07:07:34,020
beautiful I'm not going to show her a
13105
07:07:34,020 --> 07:07:35,638
picture here she's long gone
13106
07:07:35,638 --> 07:07:38,760
I don't reminisce over old news however
13107
07:07:38,760 --> 07:07:41,520
absolutely stunning but every moment I
13108
07:07:41,520 --> 07:07:43,020
wasn't with her you're with other girls
13109
07:07:43,020 --> 07:07:45,478
blah blah blah starting arguments with
13110
07:07:45,478 --> 07:07:48,780
me complaining moaning I was engaging on
13111
07:07:48,780 --> 07:07:51,600
WhatsApp for an extra 30 40 minutes a
13112
07:07:51,600 --> 07:07:53,400
day that I didn't have
13113
07:07:53,400 --> 07:07:55,138
stay away from women who make arguments
13114
07:07:55,138 --> 07:07:57,718
so be nice be kind but don't take [ __ ]
13115
07:07:57,718 --> 07:07:59,160
if they want to start arguments stop
13116
07:07:59,160 --> 07:08:01,200
talking to them if you can't say
13117
07:08:01,200 --> 07:08:02,878
something nice don't say anything at all
13118
07:08:02,878 --> 07:08:04,620
so they're arguing with you and you have
13119
07:08:04,620 --> 07:08:07,440
no nice response to them cut them off do
13120
07:08:07,440 --> 07:08:10,080
not invest hours in that [ __ ] in
13121
07:08:10,080 --> 07:08:11,760
relationships a good way to keep your
13122
07:08:11,760 --> 07:08:13,500
relationship fresh and a good way to
13123
07:08:13,500 --> 07:08:16,260
keep your relationship happy is to make
13124
07:08:16,260 --> 07:08:20,400
demands of women women love to serve men
13125
07:08:20,400 --> 07:08:23,160
they really do if a Woman Cooks you a
13126
07:08:23,160 --> 07:08:25,260
meal and it's good she's going to be
13127
07:08:25,260 --> 07:08:26,580
happy she can spend an hour in the
13128
07:08:26,580 --> 07:08:28,558
kitchen sweating toiling she can burn
13129
07:08:28,558 --> 07:08:30,360
her hand if she brings you a plate of
13130
07:08:30,360 --> 07:08:32,000
food and you eat it and you're satisfied
13131
07:08:32,000 --> 07:08:35,520
she is happy believe me women are
13132
07:08:35,520 --> 07:08:38,878
servile good women are servile and a
13133
07:08:38,878 --> 07:08:40,378
good way to keep your relationship happy
13134
07:08:40,378 --> 07:08:42,900
is to make demands of your women
13135
07:08:42,900 --> 07:08:46,200
I have a ritual every morning I drink a
13136
07:08:46,200 --> 07:08:48,420
Black Coffee in Bed I never make it
13137
07:08:48,420 --> 07:08:50,580
myself whichever girl I wake up next to
13138
07:08:50,580 --> 07:08:53,400
goes downstairs makes my coffee she
13139
07:08:53,400 --> 07:08:54,780
knows how I like it she brings it
13140
07:08:54,780 --> 07:08:57,478
upstairs I sip it now I don't just sip
13141
07:08:57,478 --> 07:08:59,218
it I'll add something in
13142
07:08:59,218 --> 07:09:00,718
you know
13143
07:09:00,718 --> 07:09:02,638
I love when you make me coffee your
13144
07:09:02,638 --> 07:09:04,378
coffee is the best because I can tell
13145
07:09:04,378 --> 07:09:06,900
it's made with love it's a joke real
13146
07:09:06,900 --> 07:09:09,900
laugh it's cheesy it's corny but that
13147
07:09:09,900 --> 07:09:12,660
will set the mood for the day that will
13148
07:09:12,660 --> 07:09:14,878
set the pace for the day it's a
13149
07:09:14,878 --> 07:09:16,680
wonderful thing women are very servile
13150
07:09:16,680 --> 07:09:18,360
creatures so do not be afraid to make
13151
07:09:18,360 --> 07:09:21,240
demands of them so if you hang around me
13152
07:09:21,240 --> 07:09:22,978
or you know people who have hung around
13153
07:09:22,978 --> 07:09:24,958
me you'll know how it goes I'm sitting
13154
07:09:24,958 --> 07:09:26,700
with the boys I'm drinking some whiskeys
13155
07:09:26,700 --> 07:09:29,638
hey baby uh Bobby wants a refill hey
13156
07:09:29,638 --> 07:09:32,520
Iggy wants another few ice cubes uh
13157
07:09:32,520 --> 07:09:34,440
darling excuse me Jonathan's beer is out
13158
07:09:34,440 --> 07:09:36,298
and you're in the house like I mean get
13159
07:09:36,298 --> 07:09:38,580
him a lighter as well cigars out come on
13160
07:09:38,580 --> 07:09:41,340
they love it they really do if you have
13161
07:09:41,340 --> 07:09:42,420
a good woman
13162
07:09:42,420 --> 07:09:45,600
so that is certainly an important part
13163
07:09:45,600 --> 07:09:48,240
of having a relationship make demands be
13164
07:09:48,240 --> 07:09:51,120
the man be assertive be Alpha be
13165
07:09:51,120 --> 07:09:52,200
dominant
13166
07:09:52,200 --> 07:09:55,020
it helps when you're maintaining
13167
07:09:55,020 --> 07:09:56,760
relationships like I am
13168
07:09:56,760 --> 07:09:59,700
and your time is limited you have to be
13169
07:09:59,700 --> 07:10:02,638
sure not to burn your time I call it
13170
07:10:02,638 --> 07:10:04,020
burning time
13171
07:10:04,020 --> 07:10:05,700
you're with your girlfriend for three
13172
07:10:05,700 --> 07:10:07,260
hours all you have is three hours
13173
07:10:07,260 --> 07:10:11,458
Netflix no no [ __ ] Netflix why would
13174
07:10:11,458 --> 07:10:12,958
you sit there and burn three hours away
13175
07:10:12,958 --> 07:10:14,760
on Netflix you have other girls to see
13176
07:10:14,760 --> 07:10:17,760
and other things to do now
13177
07:10:17,760 --> 07:10:19,340
admission
13178
07:10:19,340 --> 07:10:22,558
I am a guy I [ __ ] every day I do not
13179
07:10:22,558 --> 07:10:24,478
masturbate I do not watch porn Elite
13180
07:10:24,478 --> 07:10:26,340
level Playboys do not do these things
13181
07:10:26,340 --> 07:10:29,218
because you can so I'm gonna have sex
13182
07:10:29,218 --> 07:10:30,780
with three different women a day and I
13183
07:10:30,780 --> 07:10:33,958
still need to jerk off no I'm fine I
13184
07:10:33,958 --> 07:10:35,340
haven't jerked off in a year and a half
13185
07:10:35,340 --> 07:10:37,200
yeah I was in India last time because
13186
07:10:37,200 --> 07:10:38,400
there were no girls around I remember
13187
07:10:38,400 --> 07:10:40,920
the exact [ __ ] date so I'm telling
13188
07:10:40,920 --> 07:10:43,860
you porn masturbation throw them out the
13189
07:10:43,860 --> 07:10:44,760
window you want to be an elite level
13190
07:10:44,760 --> 07:10:46,620
Playboy be a [ __ ] man you don't get
13191
07:10:46,620 --> 07:10:48,298
sex for one day cool you'll live do 50
13192
07:10:48,298 --> 07:10:50,040
press-ups before you go to sleep go out
13193
07:10:50,040 --> 07:10:52,080
the next day hungrier I'm gonna tell you
13194
07:10:52,080 --> 07:10:55,620
women need sex just like men do
13195
07:10:55,620 --> 07:10:59,400
now it's very easy for me if I wanted to
13196
07:10:59,400 --> 07:11:01,740
to not have sex with my women for a week
13197
07:11:01,740 --> 07:11:05,400
two weeks for an individual girl because
13198
07:11:05,400 --> 07:11:07,320
say I only see her three times in a week
13199
07:11:07,320 --> 07:11:08,760
and it's all during the afternoon I've
13200
07:11:08,760 --> 07:11:10,138
already had sex that morning I know I
13201
07:11:10,138 --> 07:11:11,280
have another girl to see in the evening
13202
07:11:11,280 --> 07:11:14,760
it's easy for me to just spend time burn
13203
07:11:14,760 --> 07:11:17,520
the hours watching Netflix but she will
13204
07:11:17,520 --> 07:11:20,218
not be as happy guys
13205
07:11:20,218 --> 07:11:22,920
Tiger Woods isn't the best golf player
13206
07:11:22,920 --> 07:11:24,780
in the world because he sits on his
13207
07:11:24,780 --> 07:11:27,478
couch watching Netflix Floyd Muhammad
13208
07:11:27,478 --> 07:11:29,218
Ali was not the best heavyweight boxer
13209
07:11:29,218 --> 07:11:31,138
of all time because he sat on his couch
13210
07:11:31,138 --> 07:11:33,840
watching TV you want to be an elite
13211
07:11:33,840 --> 07:11:35,520
level Playboy you want to collect these
13212
07:11:35,520 --> 07:11:37,740
women then you have to keep them happy
13213
07:11:37,740 --> 07:11:39,900
you know what it's the middle of the
13214
07:11:39,900 --> 07:11:41,340
afternoon I've already had sex three
13215
07:11:41,340 --> 07:11:43,138
hours ago or four hours ago a girl
13216
07:11:43,138 --> 07:11:44,638
sucked my dick because I woke up in the
13217
07:11:44,638 --> 07:11:47,100
morning ah my girlfriend's over you know
13218
07:11:47,100 --> 07:11:48,900
what grab her by the [ __ ] tits till
13219
07:11:48,900 --> 07:11:51,478
your dick gets hard and make sure you
13220
07:11:51,478 --> 07:11:54,360
[ __ ] her make sure you do there is no
13221
07:11:54,360 --> 07:11:56,120
maintaining a relationship without sex
13222
07:11:56,120 --> 07:11:58,200
maintaining a healthy relationship and
13223
07:11:58,200 --> 07:12:00,540
never having sex with a woman is not
13224
07:12:00,540 --> 07:12:02,820
real doesn't matter who she is doesn't
13225
07:12:02,820 --> 07:12:04,798
matter how loyal she is if she's really
13226
07:12:04,798 --> 07:12:07,260
loyal she'll bring it up to you uh why
13227
07:12:07,260 --> 07:12:08,580
aren't we having sex oh you never want
13228
07:12:08,580 --> 07:12:10,080
to have sex with me and she'll get mad
13229
07:12:10,080 --> 07:12:12,298
if she's disloyal she'll seem fine and
13230
07:12:12,298 --> 07:12:14,280
she'll she's [ __ ] someone else
13231
07:12:14,280 --> 07:12:16,320
if you're going to collect these women
13232
07:12:16,320 --> 07:12:19,620
they're not Cars you can't park them all
13233
07:12:19,620 --> 07:12:21,540
in your driveway for months and sit
13234
07:12:21,540 --> 07:12:23,580
there triumphantly and say ah look at my
13235
07:12:23,580 --> 07:12:25,080
collection of cars aren't they beautiful
13236
07:12:25,080 --> 07:12:28,020
you've got to drive them if you don't
13237
07:12:28,020 --> 07:12:30,058
drive them they'll disappear someone
13238
07:12:30,058 --> 07:12:31,500
else will take them off your driveway
13239
07:12:31,500 --> 07:12:33,780
that's the way women are so you
13240
07:12:33,780 --> 07:12:35,520
absolutely have to keep your woman happy
13241
07:12:35,520 --> 07:12:37,680
man up I'm not going to tell you how to
13242
07:12:37,680 --> 07:12:39,780
[ __ ] your girl you know how to [ __ ] your
13243
07:12:39,780 --> 07:12:40,798
girl I'm not going to go into sex
13244
07:12:40,798 --> 07:12:42,420
tactics that's not what this course is
13245
07:12:42,420 --> 07:12:44,580
about but if you have multiple women
13246
07:12:44,580 --> 07:12:46,378
make sure you [ __ ] them you got to keep
13247
07:12:46,378 --> 07:12:49,378
them happy what women really crave is
13248
07:12:49,378 --> 07:12:51,240
attention they love the attention
13249
07:12:51,240 --> 07:12:53,280
because they love feeling in demand they
13250
07:12:53,280 --> 07:12:55,680
love feeling desired now if you hang out
13251
07:12:55,680 --> 07:12:57,058
with a girl three times in a week and
13252
07:12:57,058 --> 07:12:59,160
you don't [ __ ] her once now you can brag
13253
07:12:59,160 --> 07:13:00,540
to your friends early I was tired I
13254
07:13:00,540 --> 07:13:02,340
[ __ ] too many other girls that's cool
13255
07:13:02,340 --> 07:13:04,200
but she doesn't feel desired and she's
13256
07:13:04,200 --> 07:13:05,878
going to be unfulfilled in your
13257
07:13:05,878 --> 07:13:08,218
relationship when your hours are scarce
13258
07:13:08,218 --> 07:13:10,440
you have to invest your hours doing
13259
07:13:10,440 --> 07:13:12,840
things that make her feel wanted take
13260
07:13:12,840 --> 07:13:14,700
some pictures together say you know baby
13261
07:13:14,700 --> 07:13:16,080
hair to get in your underwear I'm gonna
13262
07:13:16,080 --> 07:13:17,160
take some photos if you take some photos
13263
07:13:17,160 --> 07:13:19,798
of her what do you do with them nothing
13264
07:13:19,798 --> 07:13:21,840
make her feel special then get your dick
13265
07:13:21,840 --> 07:13:23,878
out make sure you [ __ ] it right there's
13266
07:13:23,878 --> 07:13:25,620
no excuse
13267
07:13:25,620 --> 07:13:27,540
for women leaving you even if you have
13268
07:13:27,540 --> 07:13:30,240
six or seven I have more girlfriends and
13269
07:13:30,240 --> 07:13:33,058
less time than most guys who get dumped
13270
07:13:33,058 --> 07:13:35,520
and I don't get dumped why because even
13271
07:13:35,520 --> 07:13:37,740
when I'm not in the mood I man up and I
13272
07:13:37,740 --> 07:13:39,240
understand what I have to do to keep my
13273
07:13:39,240 --> 07:13:40,978
women happy I'm often not in the mood
13274
07:13:40,978 --> 07:13:43,020
often I've been training often I've been
13275
07:13:43,020 --> 07:13:44,520
[ __ ] other women but you got to get
13276
07:13:44,520 --> 07:13:46,378
it done now I've covered how to maintain
13277
07:13:46,378 --> 07:13:48,600
a healthy relationship when you have
13278
07:13:48,600 --> 07:13:50,280
multiple girls but I'm going to touch on
13279
07:13:50,280 --> 07:13:53,400
what not to do the basics of what not to
13280
07:13:53,400 --> 07:13:57,780
do never admit that you're wrong for
13281
07:13:57,780 --> 07:13:59,520
doing something that you wanted to do
13282
07:13:59,520 --> 07:14:01,558
I'll give you an example another girl
13283
07:14:01,558 --> 07:14:03,660
sucks your dick another girl you [ __ ]
13284
07:14:03,660 --> 07:14:05,580
her your girlfriend finds out two of
13285
07:14:05,580 --> 07:14:07,440
your girlfriend's girlfriends find out
13286
07:14:07,440 --> 07:14:10,798
don't even say sorry you you're not
13287
07:14:10,798 --> 07:14:13,080
sorry one why are you not sorry because
13288
07:14:13,080 --> 07:14:14,820
you want to do it at the time so you're
13289
07:14:14,820 --> 07:14:16,138
sorry you got caught you're not really
13290
07:14:16,138 --> 07:14:18,240
sorry and she knows it
13291
07:14:18,240 --> 07:14:21,360
you know you have to hold the line the
13292
07:14:21,360 --> 07:14:22,978
moment you start apologizing you're
13293
07:14:22,978 --> 07:14:25,260
making a concession oh I'm sorry
13294
07:14:25,260 --> 07:14:26,940
I'm sorry means I shouldn't have done it
13295
07:14:26,940 --> 07:14:29,160
it means I won't do it again many things
13296
07:14:29,160 --> 07:14:32,160
are implied by your sorry I never engage
13297
07:14:32,160 --> 07:14:34,320
in this kind of behavior this girl was
13298
07:14:34,320 --> 07:14:35,458
at your house this girl's at your house
13299
07:14:35,458 --> 07:14:36,540
hey
13300
07:14:36,540 --> 07:14:38,760
the [ __ ] haven't you got a life stay off
13301
07:14:38,760 --> 07:14:39,840
of Instagram are you watching this
13302
07:14:39,840 --> 07:14:41,580
girl's story for anyway it's really
13303
07:14:41,580 --> 07:14:42,600
embarrassing what you're gonna stalk
13304
07:14:42,600 --> 07:14:44,280
everyone who comes into my house but
13305
07:14:44,280 --> 07:14:45,900
don't look through my phone why are you
13306
07:14:45,900 --> 07:14:47,400
looking through my phone now you know
13307
07:14:47,400 --> 07:14:48,780
what I was having a really nice day with
13308
07:14:48,780 --> 07:14:50,580
you and now we're arguing because you
13309
07:14:50,580 --> 07:14:51,840
want to look to my phone this is so
13310
07:14:51,840 --> 07:14:53,820
stupid how old are you 16 you're
13311
07:14:53,820 --> 07:14:55,798
obsession with with social media quit
13312
07:14:55,798 --> 07:14:57,958
[ __ ] looking at Instagram never admit
13313
07:14:57,958 --> 07:15:00,180
you're wrong Hold the Line say whatever
13314
07:15:00,180 --> 07:15:03,058
it is you can but never concede and
13315
07:15:03,058 --> 07:15:04,920
never admit mistakes because they're not
13316
07:15:04,920 --> 07:15:07,440
mistakes you are on your way to being an
13317
07:15:07,440 --> 07:15:10,020
elite level Playboy I am an elite level
13318
07:15:10,020 --> 07:15:12,298
player I don't make mistakes I [ __ ] them
13319
07:15:12,298 --> 07:15:14,400
because I want to [ __ ] them it isn't a
13320
07:15:14,400 --> 07:15:17,160
mistake no I'm not sorry now this isn't
13321
07:15:17,160 --> 07:15:20,340
an act I mean it I don't apologize and I
13322
07:15:20,340 --> 07:15:22,500
[ __ ] mean it I'm really not sorry
13323
07:15:22,500 --> 07:15:24,900
so Jesus they can't break me down they
13324
07:15:24,900 --> 07:15:26,160
can't squeeze an apology out of me
13325
07:15:26,160 --> 07:15:29,218
because I really really mean it when I
13326
07:15:29,218 --> 07:15:32,400
say that I'm not sorry never concede
13327
07:15:32,400 --> 07:15:34,260
in a relationship another thing not to
13328
07:15:34,260 --> 07:15:36,478
do I've covered this basically but do
13329
07:15:36,478 --> 07:15:38,580
not engage in pointless arguments and do
13330
07:15:38,580 --> 07:15:41,160
not engage in pointless conversation
13331
07:15:41,160 --> 07:15:42,660
um if you have a relationship if you're
13332
07:15:42,660 --> 07:15:44,820
going to get caught cheating don't let
13333
07:15:44,820 --> 07:15:46,798
it be with some girl who lives in
13334
07:15:46,798 --> 07:15:49,138
California that you're flirting with
13335
07:15:49,138 --> 07:15:51,780
online for no reason it makes you look
13336
07:15:51,780 --> 07:15:53,400
like a simp makes you look like a fan
13337
07:15:53,400 --> 07:15:56,100
makes you look like a customer makes you
13338
07:15:56,100 --> 07:15:57,478
look around like a nerd if you're gonna
13339
07:15:57,478 --> 07:15:59,520
get caught get caught [ __ ] something
13340
07:15:59,520 --> 07:16:02,700
do not burn your hours cheating on your
13341
07:16:02,700 --> 07:16:04,798
girlfriend emotionally with girls far
13342
07:16:04,798 --> 07:16:06,660
away with girls you haven't got a chance
13343
07:16:06,660 --> 07:16:08,458
with with girls with boyfriends who
13344
07:16:08,458 --> 07:16:10,020
don't take you seriously don't waste
13345
07:16:10,020 --> 07:16:12,000
your time with this stuff man you only
13346
07:16:12,000 --> 07:16:13,860
have 24 hours in the day and you need to
13347
07:16:13,860 --> 07:16:15,840
see three or four women minimum if you
13348
07:16:15,840 --> 07:16:17,280
want to operate on my level
13349
07:16:17,280 --> 07:16:18,958
so do not waste your time with girls
13350
07:16:18,958 --> 07:16:19,920
that are far away because there's
13351
07:16:19,920 --> 07:16:21,660
nothing worse than getting caught and
13352
07:16:21,660 --> 07:16:23,820
having your girlfriend all strung up on
13353
07:16:23,820 --> 07:16:25,320
some nonsense with some girl Who's
13354
07:16:25,320 --> 07:16:27,600
hotter than her but she's in Singapore
13355
07:16:27,600 --> 07:16:29,700
anyway what are you doing
13356
07:16:29,700 --> 07:16:31,740
so absolutely do not do that one of the
13357
07:16:31,740 --> 07:16:33,360
most fundamental mistakes when you get
13358
07:16:33,360 --> 07:16:35,520
attention like I do as a man make sure
13359
07:16:35,520 --> 07:16:37,620
it's localized make sure you have an
13360
07:16:37,620 --> 07:16:39,298
opportunity to [ __ ] her an opportunity
13361
07:16:39,298 --> 07:16:41,280
to see her and don't get caught by your
13362
07:16:41,280 --> 07:16:43,860
girlfriend doing nonsense [ __ ] don't get
13363
07:16:43,860 --> 07:16:45,780
caught watching porn it makes women feel
13364
07:16:45,780 --> 07:16:47,940
undesirable cut porn out of your life if
13365
07:16:47,940 --> 07:16:49,620
you want to operate on my level do not
13366
07:16:49,620 --> 07:16:51,840
get caught masturbating that's super
13367
07:16:51,840 --> 07:16:53,878
embarrassing these are very basic things
13368
07:16:53,878 --> 07:16:55,500
but I think if you if you are on your
13369
07:16:55,500 --> 07:16:57,360
way to being an elite level guy you
13370
07:16:57,360 --> 07:16:58,798
should know these things already those
13371
07:16:58,798 --> 07:17:01,978
are the don'ts in relationships no Elite
13372
07:17:01,978 --> 07:17:03,718
Playboy lives without girlfriends or the
13373
07:17:03,718 --> 07:17:06,180
respective women relationships are
13374
07:17:06,180 --> 07:17:08,340
essentially important to every single
13375
07:17:08,340 --> 07:17:10,820
man it's not enough to just have sex
13376
07:17:10,820 --> 07:17:13,200
relationships are intensely important so
13377
07:17:13,200 --> 07:17:15,420
use everything I taught you and maintain
13378
07:17:15,420 --> 07:17:17,520
your relationships the way that I do it
13379
07:17:17,520 --> 07:17:19,440
believe me some of these things may not
13380
07:17:19,440 --> 07:17:21,840
seem like they work test them and hit me
13381
07:17:21,840 --> 07:17:23,340
back with some feedback because I know
13382
07:17:23,340 --> 07:17:26,160
from personal experience they do that's
13383
07:17:26,160 --> 07:17:29,120
the end of module three
13384
07:17:29,160 --> 07:17:31,320
now
13385
07:17:31,320 --> 07:17:33,058
there's a part to this
13386
07:17:33,058 --> 07:17:36,180
no one wants to hear everyone
13387
07:17:36,180 --> 07:17:39,058
most guys are looking for a quick fix
13388
07:17:39,058 --> 07:17:40,680
you're looking for a secret something
13389
07:17:40,680 --> 07:17:42,780
I'm going to tell you a magic word a
13390
07:17:42,780 --> 07:17:45,240
spell an incantation
13391
07:17:45,240 --> 07:17:47,820
that's going to make you be surrounded
13392
07:17:47,820 --> 07:17:49,080
with women who want to have sex with you
13393
07:17:49,080 --> 07:17:50,878
all the time it doesn't exist
13394
07:17:50,878 --> 07:17:53,520
it does not exist it's a recipe
13395
07:17:53,520 --> 07:17:57,180
it's a recipe which includes lots of
13396
07:17:57,180 --> 07:17:58,440
hard work
13397
07:17:58,440 --> 07:18:00,298
and this is B this is this is something
13398
07:18:00,298 --> 07:18:04,320
I call being a man in demand or the five
13399
07:18:04,320 --> 07:18:09,120
F's I've got five F's they are Fitness
13400
07:18:09,120 --> 07:18:13,500
Finance fun free time and [ __ ]
13401
07:18:13,500 --> 07:18:16,860
those are the five F's and that is the
13402
07:18:16,860 --> 07:18:20,218
recipe of what makes you a man who women
13403
07:18:20,218 --> 07:18:22,740
want to [ __ ] if you're not a man who
13404
07:18:22,740 --> 07:18:26,160
women want to [ __ ] if you are lazy and
13405
07:18:26,160 --> 07:18:28,440
you're broke and your Instagram looks
13406
07:18:28,440 --> 07:18:30,840
terrible and you're fat as [ __ ] and you
13407
07:18:30,840 --> 07:18:32,878
look like [ __ ] and you're not smart
13408
07:18:32,878 --> 07:18:35,160
you're not interesting you're not funny
13409
07:18:35,160 --> 07:18:38,100
you're busy all the time how many women
13410
07:18:38,100 --> 07:18:40,378
do you think you're gonna get zero it
13411
07:18:40,378 --> 07:18:42,420
doesn't matter what you apply of what I
13412
07:18:42,420 --> 07:18:45,958
know you have to be a man who has some
13413
07:18:45,958 --> 07:18:48,180
level of demand about him
13414
07:18:48,180 --> 07:18:50,400
to be an elite level Playboy
13415
07:18:50,400 --> 07:18:52,080
so we're going to take these five vets
13416
07:18:52,080 --> 07:18:53,638
in a row the first one
13417
07:18:53,638 --> 07:18:55,080
Fitness
13418
07:18:55,080 --> 07:18:57,440
now I don't mean just physical fitness
13419
07:18:57,440 --> 07:19:01,200
but how well do you look women care
13420
07:19:01,200 --> 07:19:03,478
about looks they do I'm not the best
13421
07:19:03,478 --> 07:19:05,160
looking guy in the world but I try my
13422
07:19:05,160 --> 07:19:08,100
hardest right now as we film April the
13423
07:19:08,100 --> 07:19:10,798
11th I'm in quarantine my beard isn't
13424
07:19:10,798 --> 07:19:13,320
trimmed my hair isn't cut nicely but
13425
07:19:13,320 --> 07:19:14,940
most of the time I'm walking around with
13426
07:19:14,940 --> 07:19:18,120
a nice trimmed razored beard my haircut
13427
07:19:18,120 --> 07:19:19,920
is always on point I've gelled my hair
13428
07:19:19,920 --> 07:19:21,780
I've dressed nicely I'm wearing a
13429
07:19:21,780 --> 07:19:24,600
designer shirt nice watch nice shoes I'm
13430
07:19:24,600 --> 07:19:27,478
presentable to the world I work out I'm
13431
07:19:27,478 --> 07:19:30,180
physically fit uh I'm always I'm not
13432
07:19:30,180 --> 07:19:32,218
always in the best shape but you know I
13433
07:19:32,218 --> 07:19:34,260
do my push-ups every morning I do my
13434
07:19:34,260 --> 07:19:35,400
boxing I do my training whatever
13435
07:19:35,400 --> 07:19:36,900
training you do you have to do it
13436
07:19:36,900 --> 07:19:40,080
Fitness is important how fit do you look
13437
07:19:40,080 --> 07:19:43,320
it is basic human evolutionary biology
13438
07:19:43,320 --> 07:19:46,260
oh look this big strong handsome guy
13439
07:19:46,260 --> 07:19:48,420
he'll give me nice children women may
13440
07:19:48,420 --> 07:19:50,160
not think that exactly in their heads
13441
07:19:50,160 --> 07:19:51,780
but it's a big part of what makes women
13442
07:19:51,780 --> 07:19:53,100
want to have sex with you if you
13443
07:19:53,100 --> 07:19:55,200
disregard it if you think oh well I'm
13444
07:19:55,200 --> 07:19:56,280
rich
13445
07:19:56,280 --> 07:19:58,320
uh it doesn't matter I'm a big fat ugly
13446
07:19:58,320 --> 07:20:00,058
[ __ ] I've got loads of money women will
13447
07:20:00,058 --> 07:20:01,740
want to [ __ ] me they won't they won't
13448
07:20:01,740 --> 07:20:03,478
they may [ __ ] you if you pay them but
13449
07:20:03,478 --> 07:20:05,218
that isn't what this is about that's not
13450
07:20:05,218 --> 07:20:06,840
being a Playboy that's being a customer
13451
07:20:06,840 --> 07:20:08,878
and I'm not teaching you how to be a
13452
07:20:08,878 --> 07:20:10,680
customer so yes you do have to be
13453
07:20:10,680 --> 07:20:12,600
presentable you have to look your best
13454
07:20:12,600 --> 07:20:14,820
train as much as you can
13455
07:20:14,820 --> 07:20:17,760
make sure your hair is the way that you
13456
07:20:17,760 --> 07:20:19,138
like it I don't know don't get your hair
13457
07:20:19,138 --> 07:20:20,520
cut if you have long hair whatever do
13458
07:20:20,520 --> 07:20:22,798
whatever makes you look good Fitness is
13459
07:20:22,798 --> 07:20:25,320
essential because it's something that
13460
07:20:25,320 --> 07:20:28,620
women desire and there are general rules
13461
07:20:28,620 --> 07:20:33,420
to women no woman on earth thinks oh I
13462
07:20:33,420 --> 07:20:35,820
love big fat ugly guys I mean there are
13463
07:20:35,820 --> 07:20:38,520
guys who like fat chicks maybe no woman
13464
07:20:38,520 --> 07:20:40,740
on earth wants a big fat ugly dude who
13465
07:20:40,740 --> 07:20:42,000
gets out of breath when he walks up the
13466
07:20:42,000 --> 07:20:45,058
stairs not a single one so you take that
13467
07:20:45,058 --> 07:20:47,400
general rule and you think okay I want
13468
07:20:47,400 --> 07:20:49,558
to be as attractive as I can
13469
07:20:49,558 --> 07:20:52,138
to as many women as possible
13470
07:20:52,138 --> 07:20:55,920
don't be a fat lazy [ __ ] rule number one
13471
07:20:55,920 --> 07:20:57,900
if you're a fat lazy [ __ ] get to the gym
13472
07:20:57,900 --> 07:20:58,978
you're not going to be able to live like
13473
07:20:58,978 --> 07:21:00,240
me until you do
13474
07:21:00,240 --> 07:21:02,520
get into reasonable shape at least being
13475
07:21:02,520 --> 07:21:04,260
the fat lazy [ __ ] is not attractive to
13476
07:21:04,260 --> 07:21:04,978
women
13477
07:21:04,978 --> 07:21:08,280
Fitness is essential now with these
13478
07:21:08,280 --> 07:21:09,958
general rules
13479
07:21:09,958 --> 07:21:11,940
when I say women don't like guys who are
13480
07:21:11,940 --> 07:21:13,620
big fat and ugly you could take
13481
07:21:13,620 --> 07:21:15,958
everything else I say in the five F's
13482
07:21:15,958 --> 07:21:19,320
and apply them exactly the same way I am
13483
07:21:19,320 --> 07:21:21,540
not every woman's type a lot of women
13484
07:21:21,540 --> 07:21:23,520
look at me and think you know what I
13485
07:21:23,520 --> 07:21:25,138
don't like him I don't like the way he
13486
07:21:25,138 --> 07:21:27,180
looks don't like the way he's shaped
13487
07:21:27,180 --> 07:21:29,520
don't like his height I'm Too Tall maybe
13488
07:21:29,520 --> 07:21:32,040
for some women yeah they're short uh I
13489
07:21:32,040 --> 07:21:33,360
don't like this I don't like that cool
13490
07:21:33,360 --> 07:21:35,340
I'm not every woman's type neither are
13491
07:21:35,340 --> 07:21:38,520
you nobody is I know some handsome dudes
13492
07:21:38,520 --> 07:21:40,740
they're not every woman's type they
13493
07:21:40,740 --> 07:21:44,100
can't be however Being Fit makes it far
13494
07:21:44,100 --> 07:21:45,780
more likely that you are going to be the
13495
07:21:45,780 --> 07:21:48,958
type of the women you meet so absolutely
13496
07:21:48,958 --> 07:21:51,478
this is an essential rule the first of
13497
07:21:51,478 --> 07:21:55,320
the five F's being a man in demand is
13498
07:21:55,320 --> 07:21:58,320
Fitness look your best train hard women
13499
07:21:58,320 --> 07:22:00,240
like to feel safe they like to feel
13500
07:22:00,240 --> 07:22:02,040
protected they like when you put your
13501
07:22:02,040 --> 07:22:03,600
big arms around them they like if you
13502
07:22:03,600 --> 07:22:05,878
can pick them up women love that [ __ ]
13503
07:22:05,878 --> 07:22:09,058
get to the gym now some people have
13504
07:22:09,058 --> 07:22:11,340
further to go than others yes some
13505
07:22:11,340 --> 07:22:13,320
people are genetically blessed if this
13506
07:22:13,320 --> 07:22:14,760
is you you may work out once a week and
13507
07:22:14,760 --> 07:22:16,080
have an iron six pack I don't have a
13508
07:22:16,080 --> 07:22:18,900
six-pack right now that may be you cool
13509
07:22:18,900 --> 07:22:22,080
lucky you you may work out five times a
13510
07:22:22,080 --> 07:22:26,040
week and still look like [ __ ] then you
13511
07:22:26,040 --> 07:22:28,320
simply have to try harder than the other
13512
07:22:28,320 --> 07:22:29,458
guys
13513
07:22:29,458 --> 07:22:32,160
being a top one percent guy everyone's
13514
07:22:32,160 --> 07:22:34,080
born with different attributes you're
13515
07:22:34,080 --> 07:22:35,820
born smarter okay it's easier to get
13516
07:22:35,820 --> 07:22:38,340
rich you're born with better genetics
13517
07:22:38,340 --> 07:22:40,320
okay it's easier to get fit
13518
07:22:40,320 --> 07:22:43,020
you're born you're born uh Wittier
13519
07:22:43,020 --> 07:22:45,298
you're right you're raised in a better
13520
07:22:45,298 --> 07:22:47,100
environment okay it's better to be funny
13521
07:22:47,100 --> 07:22:49,378
and and make them laugh everyone has
13522
07:22:49,378 --> 07:22:50,940
advantages and disadvantages but you
13523
07:22:50,940 --> 07:22:52,920
need to maximize all of these as much as
13524
07:22:52,920 --> 07:22:56,040
you can as much as you can regardless of
13525
07:22:56,040 --> 07:22:57,958
who you are and some have further to go
13526
07:22:57,958 --> 07:23:00,180
than others but if you're not taking
13527
07:23:00,180 --> 07:23:03,240
into account your Fitness at all
13528
07:23:03,240 --> 07:23:05,458
you're not going to get the girls I get
13529
07:23:05,458 --> 07:23:07,378
number two
13530
07:23:07,378 --> 07:23:09,180
Finance
13531
07:23:09,180 --> 07:23:11,580
Finance is important
13532
07:23:11,580 --> 07:23:13,860
Finance gives you the ability to do
13533
07:23:13,860 --> 07:23:17,458
things if all of the hottest women were
13534
07:23:17,458 --> 07:23:18,718
in a building
13535
07:23:18,718 --> 07:23:20,638
and it cost five hundred dollars to go
13536
07:23:20,638 --> 07:23:23,340
inside that building to have drinks and
13537
07:23:23,340 --> 07:23:24,840
you only had a hundred dollars to your
13538
07:23:24,840 --> 07:23:27,180
name you're not gonna meet any beautiful
13539
07:23:27,180 --> 07:23:28,080
women
13540
07:23:28,080 --> 07:23:30,120
that's the way the world is it sounds
13541
07:23:30,120 --> 07:23:32,878
like such a crazy example but the world
13542
07:23:32,878 --> 07:23:35,820
works that way all of the most beautiful
13543
07:23:35,820 --> 07:23:37,740
women in the world with very few
13544
07:23:37,740 --> 07:23:40,500
exceptions are in high-end luxurious
13545
07:23:40,500 --> 07:23:41,638
places
13546
07:23:41,638 --> 07:23:45,120
they attract women and if you're not
13547
07:23:45,120 --> 07:23:46,558
there you're not going to meet them
13548
07:23:46,558 --> 07:23:49,500
Finance is very important you do not
13549
07:23:49,500 --> 07:23:51,718
give women money ever you do not give
13550
07:23:51,718 --> 07:23:53,520
them money for sex you do not give them
13551
07:23:53,520 --> 07:23:55,440
money to show off you don't give women
13552
07:23:55,440 --> 07:23:58,138
money that's [ __ ] however
13553
07:23:58,138 --> 07:24:00,780
your financial situation
13554
07:24:00,780 --> 07:24:05,218
creates an aura of fun women love fun I
13555
07:24:05,218 --> 07:24:07,080
have a swimming pool in my house women
13556
07:24:07,080 --> 07:24:08,520
love that in the summer they're coming
13557
07:24:08,520 --> 07:24:10,260
here jumping in the pool taking their
13558
07:24:10,260 --> 07:24:12,780
bikinis off now are they thinking ah
13559
07:24:12,780 --> 07:24:16,978
this pool 28 000 Euros this cost oh this
13560
07:24:16,978 --> 07:24:18,780
pool costs so much money Tristan has
13561
07:24:18,780 --> 07:24:21,780
money wonderful no they're thinking wow
13562
07:24:21,780 --> 07:24:25,620
swimming pool that's it finance and your
13563
07:24:25,620 --> 07:24:27,360
financial situation makes you fun now
13564
07:24:27,360 --> 07:24:30,298
this is something else that you are not
13565
07:24:30,298 --> 07:24:32,340
going to hear anywhere else but this
13566
07:24:32,340 --> 07:24:34,400
course
13567
07:24:34,400 --> 07:24:36,240
investing
13568
07:24:36,240 --> 07:24:38,878
investing you say investing your money
13569
07:24:38,878 --> 07:24:40,798
to get women that doesn't make any sense
13570
07:24:40,798 --> 07:24:43,138
you don't understand
13571
07:24:43,138 --> 07:24:47,340
you can invest in a city you can invest
13572
07:24:47,340 --> 07:24:50,340
in a club in a bar you can invest in
13573
07:24:50,340 --> 07:24:52,260
your location that doesn't mean buy
13574
07:24:52,260 --> 07:24:54,718
shares I'm talking about wasting your
13575
07:24:54,718 --> 07:24:59,100
money I call wasting my money investing
13576
07:24:59,100 --> 07:25:00,540
why
13577
07:25:00,540 --> 07:25:02,700
I was once asked what the best
13578
07:25:02,700 --> 07:25:04,920
investment I ever made was
13579
07:25:04,920 --> 07:25:07,020
I looked straight at my cousin I said
13580
07:25:07,020 --> 07:25:08,700
you know what
13581
07:25:08,700 --> 07:25:11,100
are the best investments I ever made was
13582
07:25:11,100 --> 07:25:13,020
blowing hundreds of thousands of dollars
13583
07:25:13,020 --> 07:25:16,260
right here in Bucharest champagne shows
13584
07:25:16,260 --> 07:25:18,540
for drinks I don't drink getting all the
13585
07:25:18,540 --> 07:25:20,218
sparklers come over my name put up on
13586
07:25:20,218 --> 07:25:22,260
the wall tipping really heavily in
13587
07:25:22,260 --> 07:25:24,240
restaurants ordering Lobster and
13588
07:25:24,240 --> 07:25:26,458
champagne when I go out being out in
13589
07:25:26,458 --> 07:25:28,500
clubs and bars all the time buying
13590
07:25:28,500 --> 07:25:31,440
coffees all the time being cheap isn't
13591
07:25:31,440 --> 07:25:34,200
cool now me throwing all this money
13592
07:25:34,200 --> 07:25:35,040
around
13593
07:25:35,040 --> 07:25:38,458
I am the man that everybody knows when I
13594
07:25:38,458 --> 07:25:40,798
go into the club everything is made
13595
07:25:40,798 --> 07:25:43,260
possible for me I do no smoking allowed
13596
07:25:43,260 --> 07:25:44,520
have you ever seen a picture of me in a
13597
07:25:44,520 --> 07:25:46,440
club with that cigar in my mouth I have
13598
07:25:46,440 --> 07:25:48,660
special privileges special rights
13599
07:25:48,660 --> 07:25:50,458
everyone treats me with respect if I'm
13600
07:25:50,458 --> 07:25:52,440
with a girl the security shake my hand
13601
07:25:52,440 --> 07:25:54,058
the manager comes over with a free
13602
07:25:54,058 --> 07:25:55,500
bottle of champagne every time I go
13603
07:25:55,500 --> 07:25:58,320
anywhere because I've invested in
13604
07:25:58,320 --> 07:26:01,978
becoming a somebody in this city nobody
13605
07:26:01,978 --> 07:26:04,138
will give you this advice the advice you
13606
07:26:04,138 --> 07:26:06,660
read on the internet be cheap save three
13607
07:26:06,660 --> 07:26:08,520
pounds 15 and don't buy that coffee make
13608
07:26:08,520 --> 07:26:10,500
a coffee at home no don't make a coffee
13609
07:26:10,500 --> 07:26:12,420
at home go to a cool cafe and drink
13610
07:26:12,420 --> 07:26:14,458
their fancy coffees every day tip the
13611
07:26:14,458 --> 07:26:15,718
weight or heavily then you're that guy
13612
07:26:15,718 --> 07:26:18,240
you go there on a date Tristan how are
13613
07:26:18,240 --> 07:26:20,280
you doing sir good to see you again Mr
13614
07:26:20,280 --> 07:26:22,200
Tate has someone parked your car for you
13615
07:26:22,200 --> 07:26:25,378
nicely investing in your city
13616
07:26:25,378 --> 07:26:27,660
is important and it's what most people
13617
07:26:27,660 --> 07:26:29,458
would call wasting money
13618
07:26:29,458 --> 07:26:32,160
what does wasting money even mean what
13619
07:26:32,160 --> 07:26:35,458
is money for you can't hold on to money
13620
07:26:35,458 --> 07:26:37,860
you never really even own money even if
13621
07:26:37,860 --> 07:26:39,840
you have it in your pocket money is just
13622
07:26:39,840 --> 07:26:41,760
to be interchanged with other people you
13623
07:26:41,760 --> 07:26:43,558
got it because you sold something they
13624
07:26:43,558 --> 07:26:45,718
want you want good service you throw it
13625
07:26:45,718 --> 07:26:47,160
to someone else you're just passing it
13626
07:26:47,160 --> 07:26:48,958
around don't waste all your money
13627
07:26:48,958 --> 07:26:50,520
obviously but you live in Atlanta
13628
07:26:50,520 --> 07:26:53,160
Georgia I was in Atlanta and there's a
13629
07:26:53,160 --> 07:26:54,718
cigar bar where they would recognize me
13630
07:26:54,718 --> 07:26:57,240
right now if I went there same in uh
13631
07:26:57,240 --> 07:26:59,400
Hollywood in California there's a cigar
13632
07:26:59,400 --> 07:27:00,660
lounge where they'd recognize me right
13633
07:27:00,660 --> 07:27:02,280
now because I went there for two weeks I
13634
07:27:02,280 --> 07:27:04,138
was there four or five times bought the
13635
07:27:04,138 --> 07:27:05,580
most expensive cigars tipped heavily
13636
07:27:05,580 --> 07:27:07,558
ordered some nice drinks they know me
13637
07:27:07,558 --> 07:27:08,520
today
13638
07:27:08,520 --> 07:27:11,340
so there are a few parts in the world uh
13639
07:27:11,340 --> 07:27:13,378
Moscow Slovakia some parts in the United
13640
07:27:13,378 --> 07:27:15,478
States certainly where I would be no
13641
07:27:15,478 --> 07:27:17,580
Stockholm now where I'd be known on a
13642
07:27:17,580 --> 07:27:19,020
first name basis if I walked into the
13643
07:27:19,020 --> 07:27:21,540
establishment but within my city
13644
07:27:21,540 --> 07:27:25,740
yes I am a celebrity I mean I'm in the
13645
07:27:25,740 --> 07:27:27,360
newspapers all the time I'm actually a
13646
07:27:27,360 --> 07:27:30,478
celebrity here but again that stems from
13647
07:27:30,478 --> 07:27:32,940
my initial investment the club owner is
13648
07:27:32,940 --> 07:27:34,620
knowing me the barman knowing me
13649
07:27:34,620 --> 07:27:36,540
everyone knowing who I was before the
13650
07:27:36,540 --> 07:27:38,040
newspaper has got a sniff of who was
13651
07:27:38,040 --> 07:27:40,860
this Tristan Tate I'd invested so
13652
07:27:40,860 --> 07:27:43,320
Finance is important blow your money in
13653
07:27:43,320 --> 07:27:44,400
the city you're in you want to be a
13654
07:27:44,400 --> 07:27:46,620
somebody it's not free you make good
13655
07:27:46,620 --> 07:27:48,180
money great good for you there are
13656
07:27:48,180 --> 07:27:49,680
millionaires on Twitter people who claim
13657
07:27:49,680 --> 07:27:51,240
to be millionaires who also talk about
13658
07:27:51,240 --> 07:27:52,860
oh save all your money don't spend it
13659
07:27:52,860 --> 07:27:54,420
yeah cool that's all right yeah you want
13660
07:27:54,420 --> 07:27:56,100
you want you want no one to know who you
13661
07:27:56,100 --> 07:27:57,958
are and have a big number in your bank
13662
07:27:57,958 --> 07:27:59,700
account yeah that's cool I invest my
13663
07:27:59,700 --> 07:28:01,260
money by blowing it in my city it was
13664
07:28:01,260 --> 07:28:03,360
the best investment I ever made and one
13665
07:28:03,360 --> 07:28:05,100
of the most famous faces in this city I
13666
07:28:05,100 --> 07:28:07,200
walk down the street I I get asked for
13667
07:28:07,200 --> 07:28:09,298
photos all the time girls know who I am
13668
07:28:09,298 --> 07:28:10,978
I get hit up on Instagram by random
13669
07:28:10,978 --> 07:28:13,320
females yeah you want to be a playboy
13670
07:28:13,320 --> 07:28:15,600
throw some money around Finance is the
13671
07:28:15,600 --> 07:28:17,700
second of the five F's exceptionally
13672
07:28:17,700 --> 07:28:20,700
important number three
13673
07:28:20,700 --> 07:28:22,378
fun
13674
07:28:22,378 --> 07:28:25,080
you have to be entertaining
13675
07:28:25,080 --> 07:28:27,600
now there are ways
13676
07:28:27,600 --> 07:28:29,878
that nerds think you could be
13677
07:28:29,878 --> 07:28:31,680
entertaining that don't work having a
13678
07:28:31,680 --> 07:28:33,540
Lamborghini for example
13679
07:28:33,540 --> 07:28:35,820
having a Lamborghini does not make women
13680
07:28:35,820 --> 07:28:37,740
want to have sex with you it makes
13681
07:28:37,740 --> 07:28:39,420
little boys want to drive around in your
13682
07:28:39,420 --> 07:28:41,878
car women don't give a [ __ ] about
13683
07:28:41,878 --> 07:28:43,620
driving around in your Lamborghini that
13684
07:28:43,620 --> 07:28:46,200
much unless they like you you have to
13685
07:28:46,200 --> 07:28:48,180
make it fun
13686
07:28:48,180 --> 07:28:50,280
having a Supercar gets you an opening
13687
07:28:50,280 --> 07:28:51,780
conversation you park at the club you
13688
07:28:51,780 --> 07:28:54,000
walk inside is that your car
13689
07:28:54,000 --> 07:28:58,440
if you reply yeah that's my car uh it
13690
07:28:58,440 --> 07:29:01,860
has 600 horsepower and I got the tires
13691
07:29:01,860 --> 07:29:04,798
custom from from Germany and and the
13692
07:29:04,798 --> 07:29:08,218
body kit is actually from a custom body
13693
07:29:08,218 --> 07:29:10,320
shop and Bucharest and I changed the
13694
07:29:10,320 --> 07:29:13,080
color and I've got a special steering
13695
07:29:13,080 --> 07:29:15,958
wheel the girls come out cool see you
13696
07:29:15,958 --> 07:29:19,440
later if you're a boring [ __ ] it doesn't
13697
07:29:19,440 --> 07:29:21,540
matter what car you drive
13698
07:29:21,540 --> 07:29:23,820
it doesn't matter what car you drive
13699
07:29:23,820 --> 07:29:26,820
hi is that your car no it's yours I'm
13700
07:29:26,820 --> 07:29:27,958
gonna get drunk tonight you're driving
13701
07:29:27,958 --> 07:29:29,820
me home yeah cool obviously you don't
13702
07:29:29,820 --> 07:29:31,500
really let her drive your car say
13703
07:29:31,500 --> 07:29:33,058
something funny I just came off up
13704
07:29:33,058 --> 07:29:34,620
without the top of my head say something
13705
07:29:34,620 --> 07:29:36,840
witty say something entertaining being a
13706
07:29:36,840 --> 07:29:38,100
millionaire having nice things having
13707
07:29:38,100 --> 07:29:39,780
cool things it doesn't get you [ __ ] it
13708
07:29:39,780 --> 07:29:42,478
gets you a five second opener and if you
13709
07:29:42,478 --> 07:29:44,458
squander that if you waste it it was all
13710
07:29:44,458 --> 07:29:45,540
for nothing
13711
07:29:45,540 --> 07:29:47,940
you have to be fun women don't care
13712
07:29:47,940 --> 07:29:49,558
about money they care about what's
13713
07:29:49,558 --> 07:29:51,900
entertaining now when I was broke
13714
07:29:51,900 --> 07:29:54,180
I used to have no money
13715
07:29:54,180 --> 07:29:56,280
I would be funny I'd take girls on a
13716
07:29:56,280 --> 07:29:59,040
date I'd say uh oh you didn't wear high
13717
07:29:59,040 --> 07:30:01,740
heels on our date in my Volkswagen Golf
13718
07:30:01,740 --> 07:30:03,780
they'd be like ah no we're even going
13719
07:30:03,780 --> 07:30:04,920
well you know what you're not wearing
13720
07:30:04,920 --> 07:30:06,180
high heels I'm gonna take you I'm gonna
13721
07:30:06,180 --> 07:30:07,978
take you to somewhere suitable bro
13722
07:30:07,978 --> 07:30:09,478
McDonald's
13723
07:30:09,478 --> 07:30:12,360
this was my routine I go to McDonald's I
13724
07:30:12,360 --> 07:30:14,040
had a few pounds to my name I rolled on
13725
07:30:14,040 --> 07:30:16,080
the window hi I need a ice cream at
13726
07:30:16,080 --> 07:30:17,218
flurry yeah bring me an ice cream and
13727
07:30:17,218 --> 07:30:19,378
flurry but put extra love in it what
13728
07:30:19,378 --> 07:30:22,020
what do you what did you say extra love
13729
07:30:22,020 --> 07:30:24,240
extra toppings no no extra love I'm on a
13730
07:30:24,240 --> 07:30:25,200
date I need to make her fall in love
13731
07:30:25,200 --> 07:30:28,080
with me oh okay the girl's laughing her
13732
07:30:28,080 --> 07:30:29,520
ass off she thinks it's hilarious I give
13733
07:30:29,520 --> 07:30:31,138
her ice cream oh is it working are you
13734
07:30:31,138 --> 07:30:32,760
in love with me yet why'd you take me to
13735
07:30:32,760 --> 07:30:34,080
McDonald's well you weren't wearing high
13736
07:30:34,080 --> 07:30:37,020
shoes I didn't have any money make them
13737
07:30:37,020 --> 07:30:39,360
laugh make them enjoy their time with
13738
07:30:39,360 --> 07:30:40,798
you and this is what I said about dating
13739
07:30:40,798 --> 07:30:42,440
earlier you have to
13740
07:30:42,440 --> 07:30:46,138
implant yourselves in their mind wow I
13741
07:30:46,138 --> 07:30:48,058
had a wonderful time that could be on
13742
07:30:48,058 --> 07:30:49,558
her mind for two days while you're
13743
07:30:49,558 --> 07:30:50,580
[ __ ] your girlfriends and your
13744
07:30:50,580 --> 07:30:52,378
[ __ ] other women that can be on her
13745
07:30:52,378 --> 07:30:54,718
mind all week while she's working maybe
13746
07:30:54,718 --> 07:30:56,160
she's busy and she can't wait to see you
13747
07:30:56,160 --> 07:30:59,218
again you have to be fun
13748
07:30:59,218 --> 07:31:01,920
fun is important now this is very
13749
07:31:01,920 --> 07:31:03,000
subjective
13750
07:31:03,000 --> 07:31:04,978
it varies from man to man I don't know
13751
07:31:04,978 --> 07:31:06,718
where you are I don't know where you
13752
07:31:06,718 --> 07:31:08,280
live I don't know who you are I don't
13753
07:31:08,280 --> 07:31:10,320
know what you know I don't know who you
13754
07:31:10,320 --> 07:31:13,020
know but you know
13755
07:31:13,020 --> 07:31:16,378
kill the mosquito see boom I'm a ninja
13756
07:31:16,378 --> 07:31:18,900
but you know how to have fun in your own
13757
07:31:18,900 --> 07:31:21,120
City I'm sure or your own town you know
13758
07:31:21,120 --> 07:31:23,878
how to show a girl a good time don't be
13759
07:31:23,878 --> 07:31:26,940
boring yeah that is essential and if
13760
07:31:26,940 --> 07:31:29,458
you're a boring guy work on it if you're
13761
07:31:29,458 --> 07:31:32,160
broke work on it if you're unfit work on
13762
07:31:32,160 --> 07:31:34,740
it those are the first three of the five
13763
07:31:34,740 --> 07:31:37,040
F's
13764
07:31:37,040 --> 07:31:39,000
free time
13765
07:31:39,000 --> 07:31:41,700
free time is essential
13766
07:31:41,700 --> 07:31:43,620
it kind of links to finance because what
13767
07:31:43,620 --> 07:31:46,440
money buys you is free time you need to
13768
07:31:46,440 --> 07:31:49,320
have free time I was watching a dork who
13769
07:31:49,320 --> 07:31:51,180
was a former Goldman Sachs Trader who's
13770
07:31:51,180 --> 07:31:53,878
saying yeah well I used to go to bed at
13771
07:31:53,878 --> 07:31:55,500
midnight wake up at four in the morning
13772
07:31:55,500 --> 07:31:58,798
and I had one girlfriend and one day she
13773
07:31:58,798 --> 07:32:00,120
left me she got up in the middle of the
13774
07:32:00,120 --> 07:32:01,798
night at four when I woke up and started
13775
07:32:01,798 --> 07:32:03,600
screaming at me saying are you kidding
13776
07:32:03,600 --> 07:32:06,660
you're never home okay you're a Goldman
13777
07:32:06,660 --> 07:32:09,000
Sachs Trader
13778
07:32:09,000 --> 07:32:11,280
maybe you're a Goldman Sachs Trader I
13779
07:32:11,280 --> 07:32:12,840
don't know what you do but you're
13780
07:32:12,840 --> 07:32:16,860
working 70 80 hours a week find a better
13781
07:32:16,860 --> 07:32:19,440
way if you really want to be an elite
13782
07:32:19,440 --> 07:32:21,840
level Playboy you need to be working 40
13783
07:32:21,840 --> 07:32:26,160
hours a week Max 45 at the very very
13784
07:32:26,160 --> 07:32:28,920
upper limit you can't do it any other
13785
07:32:28,920 --> 07:32:31,138
way all of my women all of my
13786
07:32:31,138 --> 07:32:32,820
girlfriends all the sex that I have all
13787
07:32:32,820 --> 07:32:34,680
the dates that I go on there's no
13788
07:32:34,680 --> 07:32:36,360
70-hour week where I can accommodate
13789
07:32:36,360 --> 07:32:38,700
that I'd have to cut my women I'd love
13790
07:32:38,700 --> 07:32:42,540
to cut them in half literally so yeah
13791
07:32:42,540 --> 07:32:44,760
free time is essential it really is
13792
07:32:44,760 --> 07:32:46,680
essential and you need to be flexible
13793
07:32:46,680 --> 07:32:49,320
with your time as well the flexibility
13794
07:32:49,320 --> 07:32:50,940
of time is just important as your free
13795
07:32:50,940 --> 07:32:52,620
time because if a woman says oh well
13796
07:32:52,620 --> 07:32:54,478
there's this place I want to go or
13797
07:32:54,478 --> 07:32:56,760
there's this lunch event at this
13798
07:32:56,760 --> 07:32:58,680
restaurant or I you know I want to go to
13799
07:32:58,680 --> 07:33:00,840
a swimming pool or in the middle of the
13800
07:33:00,840 --> 07:33:02,160
day when most dudes are out there nine
13801
07:33:02,160 --> 07:33:03,420
to five you need to be like yay okay
13802
07:33:03,420 --> 07:33:05,458
cool yeah let's go I'm gonna come pick
13803
07:33:05,458 --> 07:33:07,620
you up it sets you aside for most men
13804
07:33:07,620 --> 07:33:09,840
being available whenever you want the
13805
07:33:09,840 --> 07:33:11,400
flexibility is very important as well
13806
07:33:11,400 --> 07:33:14,040
most guys work nine to fives
13807
07:33:14,040 --> 07:33:15,660
at one o'clock in the afternoon you know
13808
07:33:15,660 --> 07:33:17,040
I'm gonna take you out for a spin let's
13809
07:33:17,040 --> 07:33:18,320
go for a drive let's go for a coffee
13810
07:33:18,320 --> 07:33:20,760
being free at those hours when no one
13811
07:33:20,760 --> 07:33:22,378
else is free is important so yeah you
13812
07:33:22,378 --> 07:33:24,900
absolutely have to maximize your income
13813
07:33:24,900 --> 07:33:27,120
but minimize your hours worked that's
13814
07:33:27,120 --> 07:33:28,920
super important if you're working a a
13815
07:33:28,920 --> 07:33:30,900
wage job where you're getting paid per
13816
07:33:30,900 --> 07:33:32,760
hour no shame in it Brothers I used to
13817
07:33:32,760 --> 07:33:34,080
do the same thing
13818
07:33:34,080 --> 07:33:35,638
but a way to get women don't start
13819
07:33:35,638 --> 07:33:37,798
working more hours no cut your workload
13820
07:33:37,798 --> 07:33:40,138
in half do budget dates you'll get more
13821
07:33:40,138 --> 07:33:41,218
women than if you up your work hours
13822
07:33:41,218 --> 07:33:43,458
trust me free time
13823
07:33:43,458 --> 07:33:47,520
immensely important number five
13824
07:33:47,520 --> 07:33:49,440
the f word
13825
07:33:49,440 --> 07:33:51,058
[ __ ]
13826
07:33:51,058 --> 07:33:54,600
you have to [ __ ] your women right
13827
07:33:54,600 --> 07:33:57,120
not just for them I've covered about how
13828
07:33:57,120 --> 07:33:59,580
it keeps relationships together but [ __ ]
13829
07:33:59,580 --> 07:34:01,620
relationships I'm talking about [ __ ]
13830
07:34:01,620 --> 07:34:04,260
[ __ ] girls who are at your table one
13831
07:34:04,260 --> 07:34:05,580
night stands
13832
07:34:05,580 --> 07:34:07,260
put the work in
13833
07:34:07,260 --> 07:34:08,878
I'm not going to tell you how to [ __ ]
13834
07:34:08,878 --> 07:34:10,200
I'm not going to tell you how to please
13835
07:34:10,200 --> 07:34:12,180
a woman if you don't know then you're
13836
07:34:12,180 --> 07:34:13,798
never going to be an elite Playboy you
13837
07:34:13,798 --> 07:34:15,600
never will be if you can't [ __ ]
13838
07:34:15,600 --> 07:34:19,680
but when you do it right it gets you
13839
07:34:19,680 --> 07:34:22,860
more women it really does women talk
13840
07:34:22,860 --> 07:34:25,798
about this [ __ ] on a scale you have no
13841
07:34:25,798 --> 07:34:28,680
idea believe me if you [ __ ] a girl
13842
07:34:28,680 --> 07:34:30,360
ignore your girlfriends you don't you
13843
07:34:30,360 --> 07:34:31,320
don't want to be messing around with
13844
07:34:31,320 --> 07:34:32,940
your girlfriend's friends anyway
13845
07:34:32,940 --> 07:34:34,500
but let's say you meet a girl for one
13846
07:34:34,500 --> 07:34:36,298
night you don't see her for four weeks
13847
07:34:36,298 --> 07:34:37,798
oh her friends now following me on
13848
07:34:37,798 --> 07:34:40,080
Instagram why is that because this [ __ ]
13849
07:34:40,080 --> 07:34:42,120
has been talking about yeah I met this
13850
07:34:42,120 --> 07:34:43,620
guy Tristan yeah he took me for a drink
13851
07:34:43,620 --> 07:34:45,180
it's a bit of an [ __ ] oh my God he
13852
07:34:45,180 --> 07:34:47,100
[ __ ] me so good yeah he [ __ ] me so
13853
07:34:47,100 --> 07:34:48,478
good I can't be mad at him I'd like to
13854
07:34:48,478 --> 07:34:49,558
see him again actually but he's not
13855
07:34:49,558 --> 07:34:52,020
really texting me boom her friend hears
13856
07:34:52,020 --> 07:34:53,638
you her friend's on it
13857
07:34:53,638 --> 07:34:56,100
sex is immensely important that is the
13858
07:34:56,100 --> 07:34:58,558
most important one of the five F's
13859
07:34:58,558 --> 07:35:00,660
because if you have everything else on
13860
07:35:00,660 --> 07:35:02,520
point and you [ __ ] your girl and you
13861
07:35:02,520 --> 07:35:04,378
only last 30 seconds and then you fall
13862
07:35:04,378 --> 07:35:06,478
asleep you're a joke you're never going
13863
07:35:06,478 --> 07:35:08,280
to secure her into a relationship you're
13864
07:35:08,280 --> 07:35:09,718
never gonna get the love you're never
13865
07:35:09,718 --> 07:35:11,400
gonna get the respect and you're never
13866
07:35:11,400 --> 07:35:13,558
gonna have the reputation that leads to
13867
07:35:13,558 --> 07:35:16,378
residual women coming in those are the
13868
07:35:16,378 --> 07:35:18,500
five F's remember Fitness
13869
07:35:18,500 --> 07:35:22,620
Finance fun free time [ __ ] you cannot
13870
07:35:22,620 --> 07:35:25,558
neglect any one of these if you wish to
13871
07:35:25,558 --> 07:35:27,298
be an elite you want to be a guy with
13872
07:35:27,298 --> 07:35:29,218
one girlfriend maybe two you want to
13873
07:35:29,218 --> 07:35:30,840
have sex once a month maybe twice cool
13874
07:35:30,840 --> 07:35:33,478
neglect as many as you like you can't
13875
07:35:33,478 --> 07:35:37,260
live like me if you neglect these things
13876
07:35:37,260 --> 07:35:39,000
and there we have it short and sweet
13877
07:35:39,000 --> 07:35:41,820
module four the five F's immensely
13878
07:35:41,820 --> 07:35:44,638
important stuff you have to put the work
13879
07:35:44,638 --> 07:35:46,740
in this is the most important part of
13880
07:35:46,740 --> 07:35:49,558
the course do not neglect module four do
13881
07:35:49,558 --> 07:35:51,600
not neglect the five F's if you do
13882
07:35:51,600 --> 07:35:53,100
you're going to be very lonely and
13883
07:35:53,100 --> 07:35:56,057
you're never going to pull it off
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