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[wine pours]
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[clink]
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[ethereal music]
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- I, Donald John Trump will
preserve, protect and defend,
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the Constitution
of the United States.
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- So help me, God.
- So help me, God.
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- Congratulations,
Mr. President.
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[cheering]
- Yeah!
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[triumphant music]
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- You know, everybody
came to me and said,
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"Man, Lynn, you run a
gay bar in Mississippi."
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You know?
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"Geez, aren't you
scared shitless?"
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- This actually shows
where America's at.
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And it's not together.
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Had nothing to do with Trump,
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he just pushed the right
buttons within ourselves.
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America needs one
huge fucking mirror.
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- It's gonna be 20 minutes
before I'm serving again.
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I was gonna buy mayonnaise.
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I don't know what to say about,
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I'm sorry I didn't
buy mayonnaise.
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Where's the pepper,
pepper, pepper, pepper?
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Cheeseburger.
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There you go, and thank y'all
for shopping at the Just Us.
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No, no, I was telling
you to pick that up.
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- She wound up giving me
a bartending job here,
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and she was my boss
for several months
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before we started dating.
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October made a year that
we've been legally married,
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but we had a commitment
ceremony almost 13 years ago.
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- [Woman] Put it on the bottom--
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- [Lynn] Close it
up, close it up.
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- My name is Lisa Brucehard.
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I am straight.
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I am the infamous
twin of Lynn Covalt.
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At times, I don't feel I exist.
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You know, I've been called Lynn
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many times in my life.
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It's frustrating at times.
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We're both Capricorns.
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She wants to be right,
I wanna be right.
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So, you know, we have
that issue sometimes.
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- I was very lucky to be
accepted into this family.
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15 years before I started
working behind the bar,
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I was always doing shows
and production numbers,
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and doing the group
thing with everybody.
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Spent way too many Wednesday,
Friday, Saturdays in here.
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- We do some weird stuff
down at that little building.
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Straight people call us JU
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so they don't have
to say Just Us.
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[laughs]
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Because Biloxi's a small town,
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but we're open 24/7.
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We have a lot of people
that don't get off
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until 2:00 or 3:00
in the morning.
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So when they get off,
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they wanna eat and
have a few drinks.
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Biloxi's very small.
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It's literally an
eight block down,
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eight block across.
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It's a little square.
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Kind of on a little island.
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There's a bridge right there.
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Biloxi's its own little town.
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The Gulf Coast is definitely,
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you have Gulf Port, Biloxi,
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Ocean Springs, Bay St. Louis.
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It's a 20 minute
ride from each one,
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but every little
town's different.
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[soft music]
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New Orleans right down the road.
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- They're family and they
all take care of each other.
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They fight like family,
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but they always
come back together.
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My name is Janna Riley.
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I'm from Vicksburg, Mississippi.
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I moved here in January.
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Met Steph at the bar.
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We started dating at that point.
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[seagulls calling]
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- We don't always get
right to the point,
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sometimes we wanna
talk about grandma,
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and Uncle Ed, and Bobbie Sue,
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before we get to, and so you
got my daughter pregnant.
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[soft music]
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- Anybody that owns a gay bar,
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they need to spiritually think
about what they're doing.
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'Cause the moment
you open your doors,
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there is an immediate need.
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And if you're not gonna
cater to the community
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to which you serve,
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then understand that
it's more than a bar,
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you've missed the mark.
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We're the only gay
bar for many years.
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Back in '96 it
raised some eyebrows.
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There was some push back.
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Back then, the issues
were staying safe,
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and being together.
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We forged the friendships.
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We came out to our neighbors,
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and we mend the fence.
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We did the random
acts of kindness.
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We showed them who we were.
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They need help with rent,
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or they need medication,
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or they need a
doctor's appointment.
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There's no telling
what the need is,
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and they've always come to us.
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- My wife and I come
here all the time.
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And we get treated here so good.
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Miss Lynn, she's
got a heart of gold.
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- It's always been a
place we could come.
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We've never had any issues
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with being able to
express ourselves.
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- Everyone was very accepting.
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And I've had more
fun at this place
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than I've ever had
at any other bar.
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- This is the gays of our lives.
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[laughs]
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And it is all fun and festive.
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We are like the true housewives
of Southern Mississippi.
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- It just progressed
into what it is now,
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because now it's all welcoming.
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We're very welcomed
in the community.
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The bar cleaned the area up.
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A prostitute would be
standing out there,
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and they were doing drug deals,
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breaking into the cars.
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But once Lynn had been out in
this parking lot long enough,
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the people that
lived in this area
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knew that she wasn't
playing around,
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then they kinda
quit a lot of it.
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You know, for many, many years,
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we did one benefit
after another.
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Some of them raising
as much as $20,000.
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Very proud of my sister.
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- She's the mom.
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She takes care of everyone.
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She shoulders
everyone's problems.
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- She wears many hats,
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and sometimes I
have to reel her in,
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I guess you could say.
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- I ended up
meeting Lynn because
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I was bored at
home after Katrina.
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And all these years later--
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She's always been there for me.
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- Lynn is my boss. [laughs]
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I love her to death.
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Sometimes it's like a
family member that you love,
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and you still wanna shake
the shit out of them,
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but you still love
them, no matter what.
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- I've hired people for
many different reasons.
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Like Danielle, you know.
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Danielle has blossomed into a
great little bartender for me.
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But she didn't come this way.
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Danielle was one of the drag
queens that took my stage,
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and she's phenomenal with it,
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but she is also transgender,
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trying to live a life on
the Mississippi Gulf Coast.
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And it was increasingly
hard for her
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to do that and stay employed.
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- They asked me if I'm afraid
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to be in here by myself,
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or if I ever think of it.
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And I don't, until
certain events happened,
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and I really questioned
whether or not
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I should stay here.
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Because, in my daily life,
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I pretty much avoid
any kind of conflict
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or contact with
people I don't know.
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Just because,
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I don't know if it's
because I'm afraid,
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or if it's just because
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I'm terrified.
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Three transgendered
murders this year alone.
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And were just now
getting well into March.
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- Tonight we're
talking about two
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high profile murders
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Both of the victims
were transgender
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and performers in
this community.
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Both very well known.
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Chyna Gibson was shot
and killed one week ago.
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Daphne Dupree, and activist
in the transgender community
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says, even though police
are not linking the deaths,
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both are concerning.
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- Chyna was in the
theater that night.
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[somber music]
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She was, other than
her being beautiful,
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she was very beautiful
inside and out.
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She always loved to smile.
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I've never actually
seen her upset.
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Even when she was upset,
she was laughing about it.
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[somber music]
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That happened to
Chyna, then just days,
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or maybe a week later,
that happened to Ciara.
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Then once that popped up,
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somebody in
Shreveport, Louisiana.
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It was just getting
to be too much.
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- A transgender woman has
been killed in Louisiana.
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The third such
case in one month.
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Jaquarrius Holland was killed
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in Monroe, Louisiana
on Feb. 19th.
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Police responded to
reports of a shooting,
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and found Holland unconscious
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with a gunshot
wound to the head.
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- I felt like a little bit of my
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reality bubble had been pierced.
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- What keeps me
staying is the people
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that I most care about,
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and that I feel
most care about me,
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are in here all the
time to support me,
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and I feel like if they're
here to support me,
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and my bar, and my community,
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I can't just run away from them.
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- They have people that don't
really have their families.
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I mean, if you don't have
other people to turn to
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and you can't turn
to your family,
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where else do you go?
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It's like that's it.
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You know?
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So I'm kinda, oh,
it's bothering me.
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[somber music]
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Chyna, she turned out
to be a very positive
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role model for
young girls herself,
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because she did a lot
of positive things
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with her transition, and
moves she was making,
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name changing, and
being on her hormones,
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and really just working
all her feminine.
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She was very, a lot of people
looked up to her for that.
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[somber music]
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- [Interviewer] When you were
in part of your transitioning,
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did you have to deal a
lot with the black market?
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- Yes.
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Even like my first time
having black market silicone,
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I just thank God that
everything happened all right,
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but I had so many
things done at one time,
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I know I wasn't
supposed to do that.
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Because you put in an
illegal foreign substance
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in your body, your body has to--
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yeah, just get adjusted to that.
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And there are several
of my friends that
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have died because of it.
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It's basically like you're
dying just trying to live.
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Does that make sense?
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- [Interviewer]
Makes perfect sense.
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- Oh wow, I just
thought about that.
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[soft music]
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- The transgender
community don't want to be
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viewed as, you know,
second class woman.
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I'm a woman, no matter
how people view me,
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or how science deemed me.
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[soft music]
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I grew up, I was born here
right on Mississippi Gulf Coast,
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wearing my sister's
clothes, playing with dolls.
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At church, when I
was a kid growing up,
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we did Sunday School.
258
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I found out that my aunt,
259
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who came out as a lesbian,
260
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was going to hell
because she was gay.
261
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And that's when I realized that
262
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I too was gonna
be going to hell,
263
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because I was gay.
264
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Or at least at the time
what I thought was gay.
265
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As long as I faked
it in front of
266
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my family and my church,
267
00:13:02,540 --> 00:13:04,507
then everything would be okay.
268
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But,
269
00:13:07,614 --> 00:13:09,547
that wasn't a very
healthy time for me.
270
00:13:10,755 --> 00:13:13,413
- It's neat to see how
far Danielle has come.
271
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She could live her life
the way she wanted to.
272
00:13:16,865 --> 00:13:19,729
- It felt great to have a
place where I could come to,
273
00:13:19,764 --> 00:13:21,559
and family that
was more accepting
274
00:13:21,593 --> 00:13:23,630
than I've every
been accepted, ever.
275
00:13:24,838 --> 00:13:27,496
I was able to dress
the way I wanted to,
276
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I could act the way I wanted to,
277
00:13:29,015 --> 00:13:33,122
I could be my open,
free self even.
278
00:13:33,157 --> 00:13:37,092
Pretty much the main
factor in letting me be me.
279
00:13:38,818 --> 00:13:41,924
I know it's not as PC, but
I didn't even know tranny
280
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was a bad word to say.
281
00:13:44,202 --> 00:13:47,343
I've only ever been offended
once by the term tranny.
282
00:13:47,378 --> 00:13:52,383
And that's because I
was in a mechanic shop,
283
00:13:53,833 --> 00:13:58,251
and someone turned to the
lady behind me and said,
284
00:13:58,285 --> 00:14:01,668
"Oh I'm sorry, but
that tranny is busted."
285
00:14:01,702 --> 00:14:04,084
And I was almost offended
'cause I thought they meant me,
286
00:14:04,119 --> 00:14:06,431
but then I realized, you
know, it's a mechanic shop,
287
00:14:06,466 --> 00:14:09,572
and they were not talking
about me. [laughing]
288
00:14:11,367 --> 00:14:12,955
- Many years ago,
I chose to invest
289
00:14:12,990 --> 00:14:14,681
in people and not things.
290
00:14:14,715 --> 00:14:16,683
So I definitely
don't have things,
291
00:14:16,717 --> 00:14:20,549
and I have been, over
the last few years,
292
00:14:20,583 --> 00:14:22,137
dealt with a lot of heartbreak.
293
00:14:23,310 --> 00:14:26,313
- I've watched her
lose everything,
294
00:14:27,521 --> 00:14:29,661
and still give,
and give, and give.
295
00:14:30,870 --> 00:14:31,905
If you walk in the
door and you need
296
00:14:31,940 --> 00:14:33,527
$60.00 for your prescription,
297
00:14:33,562 --> 00:14:35,564
and we might need to
pay the water bill,
298
00:14:35,598 --> 00:14:38,912
but you're gonna get the
$60.00 for your prescription.
299
00:14:40,396 --> 00:14:41,984
- I do take a lot of it on.
300
00:14:43,089 --> 00:14:45,367
But it's just because
I see a vision,
301
00:14:45,401 --> 00:14:47,093
and it's my passion.
302
00:14:47,127 --> 00:14:50,372
It is the vessel to which
I work my convictions out.
303
00:14:50,406 --> 00:14:53,271
It is the vessel, it's
the only vessel I have.
304
00:14:53,306 --> 00:14:54,928
It's the only vessel
the community has.
305
00:14:54,963 --> 00:14:57,241
I'm very proud of the gay
community on this coast.
306
00:14:57,275 --> 00:14:58,967
I'm proud of the
community period.
307
00:15:00,589 --> 00:15:03,350
If you ask someone
what pride means,
308
00:15:03,385 --> 00:15:04,524
they'll tell you,
309
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rising about the
physical altercation,
310
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the assault of it all.
311
00:15:11,255 --> 00:15:15,017
So for a minority
community that allowed
312
00:15:15,052 --> 00:15:16,916
a gentleman to
take the presidency
313
00:15:16,950 --> 00:15:20,781
that has enabled an open season
314
00:15:21,679 --> 00:15:25,614
type of mentality on aggression,
315
00:15:25,648 --> 00:15:29,514
it's time, it's time
to have a Gay Pride.
316
00:15:29,549 --> 00:15:30,377
I need it.
317
00:15:36,038 --> 00:15:38,627
This is gonna be
our first Gay Pride.
318
00:15:38,661 --> 00:15:40,146
It's just never been done.
319
00:15:40,180 --> 00:15:42,010
And it's a huge undertaking.
320
00:15:42,044 --> 00:15:45,358
We have six months to pull
it off, and it's exciting.
321
00:15:45,392 --> 00:15:47,567
[laughing]
322
00:15:47,601 --> 00:15:49,431
Mississippi don't
know what's coming.
323
00:15:49,465 --> 00:15:50,984
- I think a Pride
would be great.
324
00:15:51,019 --> 00:15:52,882
I think it's great
for the youth.
325
00:15:52,917 --> 00:15:54,229
It's the only
reason I'm involved.
326
00:15:54,263 --> 00:15:56,472
Show them that we
always stand together.
327
00:15:56,507 --> 00:15:59,303
When I went to Washington
for my first Pride,
328
00:15:59,337 --> 00:16:02,237
there was hundreds of
thousands of people like me,
329
00:16:02,271 --> 00:16:04,791
not just the 30 people I knew.
330
00:16:04,825 --> 00:16:09,002
And ever since then, Pride's
been a meaningful thing for me.
331
00:16:09,037 --> 00:16:12,005
- In this country, all
of a sudden, it's okay.
332
00:16:12,040 --> 00:16:15,008
It's okay to hate someone
for whatever they're doing
333
00:16:15,043 --> 00:16:16,837
that you don't agree with.
334
00:16:16,872 --> 00:16:20,082
So for me, that's why
it's important this year.
335
00:16:20,117 --> 00:16:21,808
- We've never actually
had one right here
336
00:16:21,842 --> 00:16:23,706
for our Coastal community.
337
00:16:23,741 --> 00:16:26,157
- It's imperative that
we have it this year.
338
00:16:26,192 --> 00:16:29,126
So we're working quickly on it,
339
00:16:29,160 --> 00:16:31,956
and it will culminate in
a big meeting tonight.
340
00:16:40,240 --> 00:16:42,242
When you think about what
we're gonna name this,
341
00:16:42,277 --> 00:16:45,556
I want you to think about
the politics of this year.
342
00:16:45,590 --> 00:16:47,868
- I'm not saying that
it has to not say gay,
343
00:16:47,903 --> 00:16:50,561
but does it have to
include it in the title,
344
00:16:50,595 --> 00:16:53,046
can it have a name, and
then underneath it put,
345
00:16:53,081 --> 00:16:54,151
yes, it's our Gay Pride?
346
00:16:54,185 --> 00:16:55,669
- Oh by the way, we're gay.
347
00:16:55,704 --> 00:16:57,188
I mean.
348
00:16:57,223 --> 00:16:59,432
- [Man] On a rainbow flag,
it's going to be gay.
349
00:16:59,466 --> 00:17:00,640
- I think we've
blended in enough.
350
00:17:00,674 --> 00:17:01,951
- [Man] I think it's too soon.
351
00:17:01,986 --> 00:17:05,541
- I think the pressured,
blended in lifestyle
352
00:17:05,576 --> 00:17:10,063
that we have had to have,
and live, is enough.
353
00:17:10,098 --> 00:17:12,721
It's time to come out
of the damn closet.
354
00:17:12,755 --> 00:17:13,998
We are gay.
355
00:17:14,033 --> 00:17:16,690
- We can't you have
this organized event
356
00:17:16,725 --> 00:17:19,659
and very quietly say, oh
this is the Gay Pride.
357
00:17:19,693 --> 00:17:21,212
We're either gonna
do it, or we're not.
358
00:17:21,247 --> 00:17:22,834
They're feeling threatened now.
359
00:17:23,973 --> 00:17:26,493
Things, gay rights
have come a long way,
360
00:17:26,528 --> 00:17:30,014
and now it seems like we're
gonna go backwards, you know.
361
00:17:30,049 --> 00:17:32,430
And I can't even say that's
because of the South.
362
00:17:32,465 --> 00:17:35,951
That's politics today.
363
00:17:35,985 --> 00:17:37,159
They're very scary.
364
00:17:37,194 --> 00:17:40,473
- A lot of years went
into obtaining the right
365
00:17:40,507 --> 00:17:45,512
for me to have, and
to call Tammy my wife,
366
00:17:46,720 --> 00:17:49,137
and it be a legal,
binding situation.
367
00:17:51,484 --> 00:17:55,867
To think that all of that
could be erased by a pen
368
00:17:55,902 --> 00:17:59,664
is worrisome, beyond worrisome.
369
00:17:59,699 --> 00:18:01,252
But it goes bigger than that.
370
00:18:01,287 --> 00:18:02,598
- [Man] Well when are we
going to the other people,
371
00:18:02,633 --> 00:18:04,117
when are we gonna know by then?
372
00:18:04,152 --> 00:18:07,327
Who will take care of each task?
373
00:18:07,362 --> 00:18:10,192
[various chatter]
374
00:18:14,955 --> 00:18:16,612
Within an hour, you're
gonna name something
375
00:18:16,647 --> 00:18:17,820
that's so important to us?
376
00:18:17,855 --> 00:18:19,546
- I'll tell you this.
377
00:18:19,581 --> 00:18:20,892
Me and the crew of Just Us,
378
00:18:20,927 --> 00:18:24,586
will be beyond
nervous if at the end
379
00:18:24,620 --> 00:18:26,657
of the next big meeting,
380
00:18:26,691 --> 00:18:30,316
we're not ready to
embark on the journey.
381
00:18:30,350 --> 00:18:31,800
It was driving me nuts
382
00:18:33,008 --> 00:18:34,354
'cause it was all
over the place.
383
00:18:36,667 --> 00:18:37,806
- I don't know what
the first one was.
384
00:18:37,840 --> 00:18:39,187
We need to focus.
385
00:18:39,221 --> 00:18:40,395
We need to focus.
386
00:18:41,844 --> 00:18:44,053
- Does anybody have
anything they wanna say?
387
00:18:46,055 --> 00:18:46,884
- I do.
388
00:18:47,781 --> 00:18:49,162
My name's Jeffrey Mayou.
389
00:18:49,197 --> 00:18:51,302
I don't know if you all
realize as a first year event,
390
00:18:51,337 --> 00:18:52,786
you have banners
that are to be made,
391
00:18:52,821 --> 00:18:55,030
y'all having events,
y'all having taxes,
392
00:18:55,064 --> 00:18:57,136
y'all have insurance
that needs to be paid.
393
00:18:57,170 --> 00:18:59,621
Y'all have to
secure the location.
394
00:18:59,655 --> 00:19:01,036
I would definitely
suggest that y'all
395
00:19:01,070 --> 00:19:03,418
find an organization, or
we find an organization,
396
00:19:03,452 --> 00:19:06,352
if you can carry under
someone else's non-profit,
397
00:19:06,386 --> 00:19:08,077
you would actually
be very beneficial.
398
00:19:08,112 --> 00:19:10,597
- I don't understand all
this technical red tape.
399
00:19:10,632 --> 00:19:11,460
Guys,
400
00:19:15,878 --> 00:19:17,984
if you threw a
party at your house,
401
00:19:20,124 --> 00:19:21,781
would it have all
of this, really?
402
00:19:23,748 --> 00:19:26,268
- Those first two
meetings that we had
403
00:19:26,303 --> 00:19:28,270
were a little all
over the place,
404
00:19:28,305 --> 00:19:31,515
and I was like
oh, I got nervous.
405
00:19:31,549 --> 00:19:32,619
And I kinda even left during
406
00:19:32,654 --> 00:19:34,173
the middle of the second one.
407
00:19:34,207 --> 00:19:35,898
- We bit off a little bit
more than we could chew.
408
00:19:35,933 --> 00:19:37,590
- It has been frustrating.
409
00:19:39,419 --> 00:19:40,593
It was very chaotic.
410
00:19:40,627 --> 00:19:42,698
- After the second
one, me and Janna kinda
411
00:19:42,733 --> 00:19:44,183
put our heads
together and was like,
412
00:19:44,217 --> 00:19:47,082
well, let's try to change
the direction of this.
413
00:19:48,635 --> 00:19:51,190
[upbeat music]
414
00:20:18,217 --> 00:20:19,770
- I love Mardi Gras.
415
00:20:19,804 --> 00:20:21,012
Anything goes.
416
00:20:22,255 --> 00:20:24,533
This is the biggest Coast party.
417
00:20:24,568 --> 00:20:27,571
[upbeat jazz music]
418
00:20:35,406 --> 00:20:38,029
[police sirens]
419
00:20:38,064 --> 00:20:39,859
I haven't attended a parade in
420
00:20:39,893 --> 00:20:41,412
I couldn't tell
you how many years,
421
00:20:41,447 --> 00:20:43,172
but I still love Mardi Gras.
422
00:20:43,207 --> 00:20:45,313
It's a night parade, and
the floats will be lit.
423
00:20:45,347 --> 00:20:47,246
Right up until
the parade passes,
424
00:20:47,280 --> 00:20:49,075
Toni Dee and friends
take the stage,
425
00:20:49,109 --> 00:20:50,007
so it's gonna be a blast.
426
00:20:50,041 --> 00:20:52,181
Anyway, happy Mardi Gras, guys!
427
00:20:53,321 --> 00:20:55,392
- [Announcer] Now Toni
Dee is officially ready
428
00:20:55,426 --> 00:20:58,464
for his next number,
so take it away.
429
00:20:58,498 --> 00:20:59,292
[cheering]
430
00:20:59,327 --> 00:21:01,915
[techno music]
431
00:21:12,616 --> 00:21:13,824
- Is that your perfume,
432
00:21:13,858 --> 00:21:14,756
or did you have a
dog in this car?
433
00:21:14,790 --> 00:21:15,619
- It's--
434
00:21:16,447 --> 00:21:17,276
Mine's Chanel.
435
00:21:18,207 --> 00:21:19,657
- I had my dog in the car,
436
00:21:19,692 --> 00:21:24,697
rushing him to
the emergency vet.
437
00:21:27,320 --> 00:21:29,495
Now what road are you
wanting to get down, guys?
438
00:21:29,529 --> 00:21:31,048
- [Woman] Raynar, right here.
439
00:21:31,082 --> 00:21:33,878
- [Woman] As close to the
Saenger Theater as possible.
440
00:21:33,913 --> 00:21:35,155
- To the what?
441
00:21:35,190 --> 00:21:37,882
- [Woman] Saenger,
if you turn here.
442
00:21:39,228 --> 00:21:40,229
- I gotcha, I gotcha.
443
00:21:41,783 --> 00:21:43,129
- [Woman] Thank you, Lynn.
444
00:21:44,751 --> 00:21:47,823
- It's fun because it turns
you into a little star.
445
00:21:49,618 --> 00:21:50,516
[yells] Filming!
446
00:21:51,724 --> 00:21:53,657
The children here is
the best part of it,
447
00:21:53,691 --> 00:21:55,831
because it's a magic
thing for them.
448
00:21:55,866 --> 00:21:57,350
So we take pictures with them,
449
00:21:57,385 --> 00:21:58,869
and hug them and
give them beads,
450
00:21:58,903 --> 00:22:00,146
and have a good time.
451
00:22:00,180 --> 00:22:02,217
- Mississippi gets
a really bad rap.
452
00:22:02,251 --> 00:22:03,563
When you're below I-10,
453
00:22:03,598 --> 00:22:05,358
it's a completely
different world.
454
00:22:05,393 --> 00:22:07,774
- I had never really experienced
455
00:22:07,809 --> 00:22:09,362
north Mississippi before.
456
00:22:09,397 --> 00:22:11,433
I've driven through
it plenty of times,
457
00:22:11,468 --> 00:22:13,539
but I was born and
raised on the Gulf Coast.
458
00:22:13,573 --> 00:22:15,886
- I go there and eat,
and come right back.
459
00:22:15,920 --> 00:22:20,131
- You hear about all the
conservative Christians.
460
00:22:20,166 --> 00:22:22,341
- I have never
worked above I-10,
461
00:22:22,375 --> 00:22:24,273
because I don't travel.
462
00:22:24,308 --> 00:22:27,725
[upbeat music, cheering]
463
00:22:28,795 --> 00:22:31,315
[blues music]
464
00:22:54,442 --> 00:22:57,030
[techno music]
465
00:22:59,930 --> 00:23:02,864
- People feel uncomfortable
when they go somewhere that,
466
00:23:02,898 --> 00:23:05,418
it's just not their race.
467
00:23:05,453 --> 00:23:07,800
For example, there was
an older white guy,
468
00:23:07,834 --> 00:23:09,284
and a younger guy,
469
00:23:09,318 --> 00:23:11,010
they were just in town working.
470
00:23:11,044 --> 00:23:12,287
They saw it was a bar,
471
00:23:12,321 --> 00:23:14,531
so they just stopped,
you know, get a beer.
472
00:23:14,565 --> 00:23:18,258
And so the guy come up
to me, "Yo, come here."
473
00:23:18,293 --> 00:23:21,572
He was like, "Is my
kind welcome here?"
474
00:23:22,780 --> 00:23:25,990
First thing popped in
my mind was, straight.
475
00:23:26,025 --> 00:23:28,717
But he was actually
talking about his color.
476
00:23:28,752 --> 00:23:32,031
And you know, I've
never been the type to
477
00:23:32,065 --> 00:23:34,551
discriminate against anything,
478
00:23:34,585 --> 00:23:36,207
'cause I wasn't raised that way.
479
00:23:36,242 --> 00:23:37,657
You know what I'm saying?
480
00:23:37,692 --> 00:23:41,972
And so he came in and,
got him a couple a beers.
481
00:23:42,006 --> 00:23:43,974
The other guy went
outside and he told me,
482
00:23:44,008 --> 00:23:45,251
"I don't think it's
his type of party."
483
00:23:45,285 --> 00:23:47,598
He said, "But babe, I
had me a good time."
484
00:23:47,633 --> 00:23:49,220
[techno music]
485
00:23:53,535 --> 00:23:55,019
- People ask me, what
is the Exclusive?
486
00:23:55,054 --> 00:23:56,262
Well it's a gay club.
487
00:23:56,296 --> 00:23:58,091
'Cause I don't like
to point out race.
488
00:23:58,126 --> 00:24:01,267
And I mean, yeah, the majority
of the people are black,
489
00:24:01,301 --> 00:24:03,131
but I don't like
to point that out.
490
00:24:03,165 --> 00:24:04,822
- Black gay bar.
491
00:24:04,857 --> 00:24:05,927
Yeah.
492
00:24:05,961 --> 00:24:08,447
[light music]
493
00:24:16,627 --> 00:24:18,664
- Everyone that I
know, respects Shawn.
494
00:24:18,698 --> 00:24:21,770
Respects what Shawn does,
respects Shawn's business.
495
00:24:21,805 --> 00:24:22,668
- A role model.
496
00:24:22,702 --> 00:24:25,084
A leader, innovator.
497
00:24:25,118 --> 00:24:29,226
Someone who just comes
along and inspires
498
00:24:29,260 --> 00:24:32,540
most of everything that goes
on around in this community.
499
00:24:32,574 --> 00:24:33,817
- That's my dude, man.
500
00:24:33,851 --> 00:24:34,956
[laughs]
501
00:24:34,990 --> 00:24:36,129
That's my dude.
502
00:24:36,164 --> 00:24:37,510
That's my buddy, man.
503
00:24:37,545 --> 00:24:38,787
We've been riding for a minute.
504
00:24:42,204 --> 00:24:44,517
- Jasmine, they
call me DJ Lady J,
505
00:24:44,552 --> 00:24:47,278
which was given to me by Shawn.
506
00:24:47,313 --> 00:24:48,521
She a really sweet person,
507
00:24:48,556 --> 00:24:51,006
and I don't see how
nobody can love her.
508
00:24:52,076 --> 00:24:54,527
This is my first go around,
509
00:24:54,562 --> 00:24:57,392
being a lesbian with Shawn.
510
00:24:58,773 --> 00:25:00,499
She did something to me,
511
00:25:00,533 --> 00:25:01,361
and I'm stuck.
512
00:25:02,293 --> 00:25:05,227
[slow music]
513
00:25:05,262 --> 00:25:07,091
Me coming out didn't matter.
514
00:25:07,126 --> 00:25:07,954
I was scared.
515
00:25:09,162 --> 00:25:11,026
But she taught me
to not worry about
516
00:25:11,061 --> 00:25:12,787
what nobody has to say.
517
00:25:12,821 --> 00:25:14,478
We're all equal.
518
00:25:14,513 --> 00:25:16,894
[slow music]
519
00:25:18,862 --> 00:25:21,174
- I never wanted
to be a club owner.
520
00:25:21,209 --> 00:25:23,314
That wasn't never in my plan.
521
00:25:23,349 --> 00:25:25,972
But you know, when
the opportunity came,
522
00:25:26,007 --> 00:25:30,563
I'm like, okay I need
to make a change.
523
00:25:30,598 --> 00:25:32,289
Because you know, back in 2005,
524
00:25:32,323 --> 00:25:35,430
I got into a little
trouble with the police.
525
00:25:39,641 --> 00:25:41,712
You know, I had a clean record.
526
00:25:41,747 --> 00:25:43,300
Never been in trouble.
527
00:25:43,334 --> 00:25:47,269
I probably had maybe one
traffic ticket, I don't know,
528
00:25:47,304 --> 00:25:49,858
but it was paid, I
had already paid it.
529
00:25:51,273 --> 00:25:52,827
You know, this little weed that
530
00:25:52,861 --> 00:25:54,622
really should've been
just a misdemeanor,
531
00:25:54,656 --> 00:25:57,141
but it was in the
county that it was in.
532
00:25:58,384 --> 00:25:59,937
I gotta go to the state pen,
533
00:26:01,421 --> 00:26:04,528
for this little bit of
marijuana that I had.
534
00:26:04,563 --> 00:26:07,186
I feel like it
was a racist deal.
535
00:26:07,220 --> 00:26:09,050
And that kinda did
something to me.
536
00:26:09,084 --> 00:26:10,085
I like my freedom.
537
00:26:11,259 --> 00:26:14,089
And I don't like being
told when to go to bed,
538
00:26:14,124 --> 00:26:15,781
when I can go outside.
539
00:26:15,815 --> 00:26:17,921
We're not gonna take a bail.
540
00:26:17,955 --> 00:26:19,163
None of that, you
know what I'm saying,
541
00:26:19,198 --> 00:26:21,545
and that's what goes on there.
542
00:26:21,580 --> 00:26:22,719
I mean, you get used to it.
543
00:26:22,753 --> 00:26:25,169
You can't get out
until your time is up,
544
00:26:25,204 --> 00:26:26,308
you know what I'm saying?
545
00:26:26,343 --> 00:26:29,208
I had good days, I had bad days.
546
00:26:29,242 --> 00:26:32,694
It just, you know bad days
was around holiday times.
547
00:26:36,974 --> 00:26:38,907
I had never been
in trouble before,
548
00:26:38,942 --> 00:26:40,529
and those are the people
they give a chance
549
00:26:40,564 --> 00:26:41,979
to go up for parole.
550
00:26:42,014 --> 00:26:43,878
It's like you're in
court all over again.
551
00:26:43,912 --> 00:26:45,673
You gotta convince these people
552
00:26:48,192 --> 00:26:50,954
that you changed, and
what your plans are
553
00:26:50,988 --> 00:26:53,439
when you get out, you
know what I'm saying?
554
00:26:53,473 --> 00:26:56,856
So I went before them
people again, parole board,
555
00:26:56,891 --> 00:26:59,963
and a week later, they
told me I got approved.
556
00:26:59,997 --> 00:27:00,895
And that's how it was.
557
00:27:00,929 --> 00:27:02,344
And I was just counting those,
558
00:27:03,691 --> 00:27:05,313
I was counting those
weeks down then
559
00:27:05,347 --> 00:27:06,763
until it was time.
560
00:27:06,797 --> 00:27:10,387
I knew I had to do
something legal.
561
00:27:11,595 --> 00:27:14,080
[light music]
562
00:27:17,877 --> 00:27:22,882
- Club Exclusive is the only
LGBT club/bar in Hattiesburg.
563
00:27:24,194 --> 00:27:26,783
Hattiesburg is located
in the Bible Belt.
564
00:27:26,817 --> 00:27:28,750
The people are kinda religious.
565
00:27:28,785 --> 00:27:31,788
- Small towns don't have
these kind of clubs.
566
00:27:31,822 --> 00:27:35,308
- Everything I do, I
try to do for the LGBT.
567
00:27:35,343 --> 00:27:36,551
You know what I'm saying?
568
00:27:36,585 --> 00:27:38,484
And we are actually
in the process of
569
00:27:40,210 --> 00:27:41,694
getting ready for a Pride.
570
00:27:41,729 --> 00:27:43,800
- She really, like
deep down in her heart,
571
00:27:43,834 --> 00:27:46,665
wants the community
to come together,
572
00:27:46,699 --> 00:27:47,873
the whites and the blacks.
573
00:27:47,907 --> 00:27:49,322
- If we do it together,
574
00:27:50,910 --> 00:27:52,118
we gonna have a mixture.
575
00:27:53,395 --> 00:27:54,707
Whether it's the
people you know,
576
00:27:54,742 --> 00:27:55,915
and the people I know,
577
00:27:55,950 --> 00:27:57,123
so now we got a
mixture of people,
578
00:27:57,158 --> 00:27:59,505
and then more people
are seeing that.
579
00:27:59,539 --> 00:28:02,611
That would have
changed the whole scene
580
00:28:02,646 --> 00:28:03,716
here in this town.
581
00:28:05,304 --> 00:28:06,408
But it's not that way.
582
00:28:07,582 --> 00:28:09,722
Am I gonna keep pushing
for it to be that way?
583
00:28:11,586 --> 00:28:12,380
Maybe.
584
00:28:14,485 --> 00:28:15,383
Maybe not.
585
00:28:16,384 --> 00:28:18,075
You know, it just all depends on
586
00:28:20,284 --> 00:28:21,561
how things go.
587
00:28:21,596 --> 00:28:23,184
- Right now, race
is a big thing.
588
00:28:23,218 --> 00:28:25,013
- I have seen race.
589
00:28:25,048 --> 00:28:28,154
But I haven't seen it
this bad in a while.
590
00:28:29,466 --> 00:28:31,192
And I have been experiencing it
591
00:28:31,226 --> 00:28:33,435
for the last three months now.
592
00:28:33,470 --> 00:28:34,264
- USA, USA!
593
00:28:35,506 --> 00:28:37,508
- You wanna fuck with us.
594
00:28:37,543 --> 00:28:39,718
[yelling]
595
00:28:40,235 --> 00:28:42,099
Calling me all kind of niggers,
596
00:28:42,134 --> 00:28:44,446
and flipping me off.
597
00:28:44,481 --> 00:28:45,724
- It's been in these people,
598
00:28:45,758 --> 00:28:46,725
but now they're just not afraid.
599
00:28:47,277 --> 00:28:49,866
It's everywhere, I see it.
600
00:28:49,900 --> 00:28:51,453
My job, what ever else.
601
00:28:51,488 --> 00:28:54,008
USA! USA! USA!
602
00:28:54,042 --> 00:28:55,319
Donald Trump brought a
lot of that out, man,
603
00:28:55,354 --> 00:28:57,045
out of a lot of people.
604
00:29:00,428 --> 00:29:03,396
- I feel like I have
to watch my back here,
605
00:29:03,431 --> 00:29:04,777
watch my back there.
606
00:29:04,812 --> 00:29:07,746
Look out, make sure no
one's gonna attack me.
607
00:29:07,780 --> 00:29:09,368
- The least you wanna do when
you go out and enjoy yourself,
608
00:29:09,402 --> 00:29:11,266
is to have a safe
environment to be around,
609
00:29:11,301 --> 00:29:13,510
and Shawn keeps that
safe with security
610
00:29:13,544 --> 00:29:15,374
at the door before you walk in.
611
00:29:15,408 --> 00:29:16,996
- We need those safe places,
612
00:29:17,031 --> 00:29:18,929
'cause a lot of people
don't feel safe.
613
00:29:18,964 --> 00:29:21,449
When I met her, she
was carrying a knife.
614
00:29:21,483 --> 00:29:22,243
I mean--
615
00:29:23,140 --> 00:29:24,659
- I was scared of everything.
616
00:29:24,693 --> 00:29:26,178
- I said, look, you don't
have to do that with me.
617
00:29:26,212 --> 00:29:27,420
I got you.
618
00:29:27,455 --> 00:29:30,147
- I just pray that
my people be careful.
619
00:29:30,182 --> 00:29:32,356
Always be aware of
your surroundings.
620
00:29:32,391 --> 00:29:35,532
You gotta be, so you
know how to react
621
00:29:35,566 --> 00:29:37,085
when it's time to act.
622
00:29:37,120 --> 00:29:39,708
[radio static]
623
00:29:52,445 --> 00:29:55,172
[peaceful music]
624
00:30:26,928 --> 00:30:30,552
- You know, I never thought
that the possibility
625
00:30:30,587 --> 00:30:33,072
could be that I
could be sitting next
626
00:30:33,107 --> 00:30:35,834
to a die hard Trump
voter in my bar.
627
00:30:39,561 --> 00:30:40,390
But I can be.
628
00:30:41,840 --> 00:30:44,394
- [Interviewer] You
voted for Trump, right?
629
00:30:44,428 --> 00:30:45,671
- Hoo. [sighs]
630
00:30:45,705 --> 00:30:46,534
I did.
631
00:30:48,225 --> 00:30:49,054
I did.
632
00:30:50,572 --> 00:30:51,953
Not gonna lie.
633
00:30:51,988 --> 00:30:54,059
I would not say that in the bar.
634
00:30:55,198 --> 00:30:57,579
- We don't talk
politics with Lisa.
635
00:30:57,614 --> 00:31:00,375
- I don't, I tried to talk
politics with Lisa one time,
636
00:31:00,410 --> 00:31:01,583
a very long time ago.
637
00:31:01,618 --> 00:31:02,895
It just doesn't work out.
638
00:31:04,759 --> 00:31:06,416
- She's a die hard Republican.
639
00:31:06,450 --> 00:31:08,038
- I've been looked at and said,
640
00:31:08,073 --> 00:31:10,385
"Don't you tell me
you're voting for Trump."
641
00:31:11,593 --> 00:31:14,803
And I just looked at
them and said, okay.
642
00:31:14,838 --> 00:31:15,908
And I let it go.
643
00:31:15,943 --> 00:31:18,393
They said that things got better
644
00:31:18,428 --> 00:31:20,154
a couple of years ago.
645
00:31:20,188 --> 00:31:21,707
I don't know where
they got better,
646
00:31:21,741 --> 00:31:22,846
but it wasn't here.
647
00:31:23,985 --> 00:31:27,471
And so, you know, that
was my frustration.
648
00:31:27,506 --> 00:31:31,441
And so that was made
me make that decision.
649
00:31:32,407 --> 00:31:33,684
- It's just kind of ironic
650
00:31:33,719 --> 00:31:37,136
that the reason why
I'm even in this place,
651
00:31:37,171 --> 00:31:39,759
I saw this really cool thing
652
00:31:39,794 --> 00:31:42,762
called the revitalization
of downtown Biloxi,
653
00:31:42,797 --> 00:31:45,800
and I said, I gotta get in
the ground floor of this.
654
00:31:45,834 --> 00:31:48,768
And that revitalization
of downtown Biloxi
655
00:31:48,803 --> 00:31:50,839
has yet to occur,
it never happened.
656
00:31:50,874 --> 00:31:52,462
What we did get was Katrina.
657
00:31:54,326 --> 00:31:56,915
[somber music]
658
00:32:00,608 --> 00:32:03,991
I've only closed twice, both
times was due to hurricanes.
659
00:32:04,025 --> 00:32:05,475
I have been locked since.
660
00:32:05,509 --> 00:32:07,028
We opened up after Katrina.
661
00:32:11,688 --> 00:32:14,346
- Even if a hurricane's
coming here, you know,
662
00:32:14,380 --> 00:32:16,486
they usually come in and out,
663
00:32:16,520 --> 00:32:20,386
nothing serious,
and it just happens.
664
00:32:20,421 --> 00:32:22,561
And Katrina just happened.
665
00:32:23,286 --> 00:32:24,287
It's a [sighs],
666
00:32:25,598 --> 00:32:27,738
it's the biggest wake up call,
667
00:32:27,773 --> 00:32:31,950
and the biggest eye opening
experience of my life.
668
00:32:33,054 --> 00:32:36,920
[somber music, heart beating]
669
00:32:37,472 --> 00:32:41,511
- We got hit with
a 30 foot surge.
670
00:32:41,545 --> 00:32:43,616
The Back Bay met the Gulf.
671
00:32:45,722 --> 00:32:47,310
- The water came up,
672
00:32:47,344 --> 00:32:49,829
and it got pushed
up into the bay.
673
00:32:49,864 --> 00:32:52,246
So it was just one
big push of water,
674
00:32:52,280 --> 00:32:53,523
just come in.
675
00:32:53,557 --> 00:32:54,800
It came back.
676
00:32:54,834 --> 00:32:56,491
It sucked most of it
back into the ocean.
677
00:32:57,458 --> 00:32:59,874
The beach was covered with
678
00:32:59,908 --> 00:33:01,807
anything you could
possibly imagine.
679
00:33:03,222 --> 00:33:05,707
It smelled really bad, it
was hot, it was August.
680
00:33:05,742 --> 00:33:08,124
It was crazy after Katrina.
681
00:33:08,158 --> 00:33:10,367
People, a lot of people
lost their damn minds.
682
00:33:10,402 --> 00:33:11,437
They just went crazy.
683
00:33:14,371 --> 00:33:15,614
A lot of people left.
684
00:33:16,684 --> 00:33:18,686
I got really depressed
after Katrina.
685
00:33:18,720 --> 00:33:20,274
I didn't realize I
was really depressed,
686
00:33:20,308 --> 00:33:22,103
but I left for like two days,
687
00:33:22,138 --> 00:33:23,794
and I came back, I
couldn't get to the house
688
00:33:23,829 --> 00:33:24,968
I was living in at the time.
689
00:33:25,003 --> 00:33:27,039
The house that was
three houses up from me
690
00:33:27,074 --> 00:33:28,213
was in my front yard.
691
00:33:31,216 --> 00:33:32,803
You couldn't find
any place to live
692
00:33:32,838 --> 00:33:34,771
because everything
was wiped out.
693
00:33:34,805 --> 00:33:35,841
So rent shot up.
694
00:33:35,875 --> 00:33:37,360
So we were all living together.
695
00:33:37,394 --> 00:33:39,293
- There had to have been
at least 12, 13 people
696
00:33:39,327 --> 00:33:41,950
that came and stayed at
the house, at my house.
697
00:33:43,642 --> 00:33:46,162
As soon as the winds died
down, we got down here.
698
00:33:46,196 --> 00:33:49,820
Come off the interstate, and
the building looked intact.
699
00:33:49,855 --> 00:33:52,789
Got to the front door
and I saw the pool table
700
00:33:52,823 --> 00:33:54,480
dislodged into the front door.
701
00:33:54,515 --> 00:33:56,724
Everything was just
turned upside down.
702
00:33:56,758 --> 00:33:58,105
It was a wash.
703
00:33:58,139 --> 00:33:59,520
Shocking.
704
00:33:59,554 --> 00:34:00,762
- [Interviewer] Is
that the hardest thing
705
00:34:00,797 --> 00:34:02,557
I guess the bar
has had to endure?
706
00:34:02,592 --> 00:34:04,835
[somber music]
707
00:34:04,870 --> 00:34:07,735
- I think as a
community, yes, yes,
708
00:34:07,769 --> 00:34:09,840
because of the
things and atrocities
709
00:34:09,875 --> 00:34:12,567
we had to see afterwards.
710
00:34:12,602 --> 00:34:14,328
- Everything was destroyed.
711
00:34:14,362 --> 00:34:17,503
There was just slabs
where homes used to be.
712
00:34:17,538 --> 00:34:21,231
There was still dead
bodies in the ditches.
713
00:34:21,266 --> 00:34:23,854
[somber music]
714
00:34:33,692 --> 00:34:35,349
We got, we kinda got forgotten.
715
00:34:37,144 --> 00:34:39,387
You wake up one morning from
being able to go to McDonald's,
716
00:34:39,422 --> 00:34:43,426
and the next morning you
wake up and nothing's open.
717
00:34:44,634 --> 00:34:46,636
Unless you prepared
and you've got food,
718
00:34:46,670 --> 00:34:48,120
you have no food.
719
00:34:48,155 --> 00:34:49,294
You have no toilet tissue,
720
00:34:49,328 --> 00:34:50,847
you have no running water.
721
00:34:50,881 --> 00:34:52,020
We got wiped out.
722
00:34:52,849 --> 00:34:53,677
Wiped out.
723
00:34:55,231 --> 00:35:00,028
- The worst part of it
for me was the silence.
724
00:35:00,063 --> 00:35:02,686
The very loud silence.
725
00:35:03,825 --> 00:35:06,138
How everything can
just turn upside down
726
00:35:06,173 --> 00:35:09,624
and never be the same
again in just a day or two.
727
00:35:11,868 --> 00:35:13,835
It was only about a mile
to my parent's house,
728
00:35:13,870 --> 00:35:16,631
but that mile
seemed like forever.
729
00:35:17,805 --> 00:35:19,289
As I'm climbing
through the trees,
730
00:35:19,324 --> 00:35:21,291
I couldn't think
of anything but,
731
00:35:21,326 --> 00:35:24,777
what am I gonna see when
I walk around the corner?
732
00:35:26,400 --> 00:35:31,370
And when I did, of course, I
saw my mother in a tube top,
733
00:35:31,405 --> 00:35:35,202
and my dad was grilling
outside. [laughs]
734
00:35:35,236 --> 00:35:37,790
And, you know, they acted
like nothing had happened,
735
00:35:37,825 --> 00:35:39,309
other than our roof was gone.
736
00:35:41,173 --> 00:35:47,697
And I cried like an idiot,
737
00:35:48,663 --> 00:35:52,529
with my little
mother holding me.
738
00:35:55,014 --> 00:35:57,189
- The most incredible thing
that I've experienced is,
739
00:35:57,224 --> 00:35:59,571
after the storm, the
community came together.
740
00:35:59,605 --> 00:36:00,882
And this became the point,
741
00:36:00,917 --> 00:36:02,160
everybody came to the building.
742
00:36:02,194 --> 00:36:04,610
We had a big old sign out front,
743
00:36:04,645 --> 00:36:05,542
everybody'd mark their names off
744
00:36:05,577 --> 00:36:07,026
if they were alive or dead.
745
00:36:07,061 --> 00:36:08,338
We were looking for people,
746
00:36:08,373 --> 00:36:10,927
trying to bring us
all back together.
747
00:36:10,961 --> 00:36:15,828
- Some of the best people
I know came and rescued,
748
00:36:15,863 --> 00:36:17,934
and gave everything they had,
749
00:36:19,315 --> 00:36:22,870
just to make sure that
little piece of community
750
00:36:22,904 --> 00:36:24,354
got put back together.
751
00:36:24,389 --> 00:36:25,804
- We all came together
in this community
752
00:36:25,838 --> 00:36:27,599
and started cleaning
up the trash.
753
00:36:27,633 --> 00:36:31,396
The customers, the employees,
they all came together.
754
00:36:31,430 --> 00:36:33,363
- That was more
important to them,
755
00:36:33,398 --> 00:36:34,778
to put us back together,
756
00:36:34,813 --> 00:36:36,780
than it was to put
themselves back together.
757
00:36:36,815 --> 00:36:38,851
This is part of the crew.
758
00:36:38,886 --> 00:36:40,577
This is us taking a break
759
00:36:41,613 --> 00:36:42,890
from gutting it.
760
00:36:42,924 --> 00:36:45,824
[triumphant music]
761
00:36:57,387 --> 00:37:00,597
[intense music]
762
00:37:00,632 --> 00:37:03,048
We are at the Point Cadet,
763
00:37:03,082 --> 00:37:06,500
we're out on the Point
on the water, in Biloxi,
764
00:37:06,534 --> 00:37:08,709
and we are at the staging area
765
00:37:08,743 --> 00:37:10,883
for the first Gay Pride event.
766
00:37:11,988 --> 00:37:14,335
I think the location is great.
767
00:37:14,370 --> 00:37:17,304
It has a pavilion, it has
kitchens, it has bathrooms.
768
00:37:17,338 --> 00:37:20,030
We wouldn't have
to rent porta-lets.
769
00:37:23,827 --> 00:37:25,173
What I need the group to do
770
00:37:25,208 --> 00:37:27,521
is to concentrate on fundraisers
771
00:37:27,555 --> 00:37:31,214
that involve the
utilization of this bar,
772
00:37:31,249 --> 00:37:34,010
and/or its property.
773
00:37:34,044 --> 00:37:34,873
Okay?
774
00:37:36,461 --> 00:37:37,324
Look guys,
775
00:37:39,360 --> 00:37:41,569
I have to run a bar, okay?
776
00:37:41,604 --> 00:37:45,228
And I have kept my
calendar literally opened.
777
00:37:45,263 --> 00:37:46,471
I'm not comfortable with that.
778
00:37:46,505 --> 00:37:49,612
I usually book three and
four months in advance.
779
00:37:49,646 --> 00:37:51,441
You know, my summer
months are coming.
780
00:37:51,476 --> 00:37:53,616
I'm looking at bands,
I'm looking at comedians,
781
00:37:53,650 --> 00:37:57,171
I'm looking at shows, I've
gotta get those booked.
782
00:37:57,205 --> 00:37:59,760
[upbeat music]
783
00:38:06,939 --> 00:38:09,148
- [Interviewer] What do you
wanna achieve here today?
784
00:38:09,183 --> 00:38:10,149
- Awareness.
785
00:38:11,358 --> 00:38:12,635
- [Interviewer]
Awareness to what?
786
00:38:12,669 --> 00:38:15,810
- To Gay Pride in June,
and the Pride event,
787
00:38:15,845 --> 00:38:19,055
the first one ever on the
Mississippi Gulf Coast,
788
00:38:19,089 --> 00:38:23,991
and just promote the
community in a positive way,
789
00:38:25,199 --> 00:38:28,685
and I suspect that in
introducing ourselves
790
00:38:28,720 --> 00:38:29,997
to some people
throughout the day
791
00:38:30,031 --> 00:38:32,379
that we may even
change opinions.
792
00:38:33,759 --> 00:38:34,967
Are you nervous?
793
00:38:35,002 --> 00:38:36,210
- No, I'm not nervous.
794
00:38:36,244 --> 00:38:38,281
I'm hanging the fucking
flag in North Biloxi.
795
00:38:39,869 --> 00:38:42,561
- I'm a little confused,
are you joking with me?
796
00:38:42,596 --> 00:38:45,771
Are you honestly leery of
hanging up a flag out here?
797
00:38:47,670 --> 00:38:48,912
Be honest with me.
798
00:38:48,947 --> 00:38:51,570
- Pardon my proper
upbringing, but--
799
00:38:51,605 --> 00:38:54,780
- [Lynn] [laughing] Shit.
800
00:39:04,376 --> 00:39:06,758
- [Woman] He said the flag's
hanging the wrong way.
801
00:39:06,792 --> 00:39:09,864
- You know, I kept
looking at that,
802
00:39:09,899 --> 00:39:13,903
but we were so
miserable this morning
803
00:39:13,937 --> 00:39:16,077
when we put it up, and
the wind was blowing.
804
00:39:16,112 --> 00:39:17,424
We were just trying
to get it up.
805
00:39:17,458 --> 00:39:18,666
But you know, you're right.
806
00:39:18,701 --> 00:39:21,393
And wow, I can't believe
we didn't nail that.
807
00:39:21,428 --> 00:39:23,257
- You know what, no
worries, no worries.
808
00:39:25,086 --> 00:39:28,573
- We're throwing the
first outdoor Pride event.
809
00:39:28,607 --> 00:39:30,437
What's your name sir?
810
00:39:30,471 --> 00:39:31,610
- Matthew.
811
00:39:31,645 --> 00:39:32,956
- My name is Lynn,
nice to meet you, baby.
812
00:39:32,991 --> 00:39:34,510
- Nice to meet you too.
813
00:39:34,544 --> 00:39:36,512
- I'm with Just
Us, and I'm part of
814
00:39:36,546 --> 00:39:38,306
throwing the first Pride event.
815
00:39:38,341 --> 00:39:39,238
- [Matthew] Cool.
816
00:39:39,273 --> 00:39:40,619
- It's gonna be great, honey.
817
00:39:40,654 --> 00:39:42,138
Be looking for us.
818
00:39:42,172 --> 00:39:42,897
- [Matthew] I'm looking
forward to it, thank you.
819
00:39:42,932 --> 00:39:43,760
- Please do.
820
00:39:46,211 --> 00:39:47,177
That was a big one.
821
00:39:54,461 --> 00:39:56,394
I think we left them
with more questions,
822
00:39:56,428 --> 00:39:58,568
but excited that it's coming so,
823
00:39:58,603 --> 00:39:59,776
I'm off to the sunset.
824
00:40:05,299 --> 00:40:07,370
Steph didn't wanna
work my barbecue.
825
00:40:07,405 --> 00:40:09,821
The only thing I can
say about that is
826
00:40:09,855 --> 00:40:12,651
I opened 21 years ago,
and invited the community
827
00:40:12,686 --> 00:40:14,550
to work out their convictions.
828
00:40:14,584 --> 00:40:15,827
She should've
played a role in it,
829
00:40:15,861 --> 00:40:18,174
and to make damn sure
it was a positive role.
830
00:40:19,934 --> 00:40:21,142
- [Interviewer] You
didn't feel completely
831
00:40:21,177 --> 00:40:23,800
100% behind coming here
and doing this today.
832
00:40:23,835 --> 00:40:25,043
- I did not, I didn't.
833
00:40:26,354 --> 00:40:27,666
- [Interviewer] Why not?
834
00:40:27,701 --> 00:40:29,910
- I was afraid there
would be a lot of folks
835
00:40:29,944 --> 00:40:32,947
that some issues would come up.
836
00:40:32,982 --> 00:40:34,811
There'd be a little bit of
resistance or something.
837
00:40:34,846 --> 00:40:37,987
But there wasn't, I
was completely wrong.
838
00:40:38,021 --> 00:40:40,023
- Part of the reason
that Lynn felt
839
00:40:40,058 --> 00:40:42,474
like everything was on her,
840
00:40:42,509 --> 00:40:46,996
was that she wanted every update
841
00:40:48,584 --> 00:40:52,208
on every detail that
everybody was doing.
842
00:40:52,242 --> 00:40:54,590
So I just kinda stepped back.
843
00:40:56,177 --> 00:41:01,182
Lynn has this huge
sense of responsibility,
844
00:41:02,149 --> 00:41:06,187
along with just a control,
845
00:41:06,222 --> 00:41:09,846
a need to control everything.
846
00:41:09,881 --> 00:41:12,297
If something happens
the wrong way,
847
00:41:13,574 --> 00:41:15,231
she's the face of it.
848
00:41:15,265 --> 00:41:17,647
[airy music]
849
00:41:18,510 --> 00:41:21,133
- Today's the benefit,
well one of the benefits.
850
00:41:21,168 --> 00:41:23,964
What we're doing is we're
gonna sell plates of crawfish.
851
00:41:25,344 --> 00:41:26,622
That's the way to do it.
852
00:41:26,656 --> 00:41:27,485
Crawfish.
853
00:41:30,453 --> 00:41:31,281
Got it?
854
00:41:32,800 --> 00:41:35,216
I don't know if I should
start drinking now or,
855
00:41:35,251 --> 00:41:36,321
now.
856
00:41:36,355 --> 00:41:38,841
[light music]
857
00:41:40,774 --> 00:41:42,430
Where are the potatoes gonna go?
858
00:41:44,260 --> 00:41:46,331
- I don't know, ask Gene?
859
00:41:47,988 --> 00:41:51,439
- Gene, I don't know why
he needs his bag back,
860
00:41:51,474 --> 00:41:52,371
but he doesn't know what you
861
00:41:52,406 --> 00:41:53,649
wanna do with these potatoes?
862
00:41:53,683 --> 00:41:54,684
- Where's the trays?
863
00:41:56,859 --> 00:41:58,377
- Lisa, trays!
864
00:41:58,412 --> 00:42:01,311
- The hardest thing about
begin Lynn's sister,
865
00:42:01,346 --> 00:42:03,279
is to be standing
there and watching her
866
00:42:03,313 --> 00:42:05,039
twirling around
and trying to say,
867
00:42:05,074 --> 00:42:06,903
please stop, please stop.
868
00:42:08,526 --> 00:42:09,906
- I should get painted
869
00:42:09,941 --> 00:42:12,391
so it encourages everybody
else to get painted.
870
00:42:12,426 --> 00:42:14,186
So let's do it, get it done.
871
00:42:14,221 --> 00:42:15,636
All right, yeah.
872
00:42:15,671 --> 00:42:17,949
- So if I put a
flag in his hand--
873
00:42:17,983 --> 00:42:20,158
- Try a spicy one out.
874
00:42:20,192 --> 00:42:23,126
[suspenseful music]
875
00:42:24,334 --> 00:42:26,544
[coughing]
876
00:42:33,551 --> 00:42:35,207
Thank you, thank you.
877
00:42:38,210 --> 00:42:40,558
If you feel like, I don't know,
878
00:42:40,592 --> 00:42:43,112
working social media, trying
to get people down here,
879
00:42:43,146 --> 00:42:44,147
that would be great.
880
00:42:45,632 --> 00:42:47,116
So we only need to sell what,
881
00:42:47,150 --> 00:42:49,049
20 plates for me to break even?
882
00:42:50,395 --> 00:42:52,777
Is there a place where
they're all conjugating today?
883
00:42:54,399 --> 00:42:55,434
It's Black Spring Break.
884
00:42:55,469 --> 00:42:56,815
Where is everybody right now?
885
00:42:56,850 --> 00:42:59,818
It's Black Spring Break,
where is everybody?
886
00:42:59,853 --> 00:43:02,614
Where are the Black
Spring Breakers?
887
00:43:02,649 --> 00:43:03,788
- Down on the beach.
888
00:43:04,616 --> 00:43:06,584
[dance music]
889
00:43:11,416 --> 00:43:13,418
- Black Beach is Spring
Break for all black colleges.
890
00:43:15,593 --> 00:43:18,078
- It is called Black Spring
Break, it is, I know,
891
00:43:18,112 --> 00:43:19,493
it's a little shocking to me.
892
00:43:19,527 --> 00:43:21,978
It's all over the radio,
it's in the newspaper.
893
00:43:22,013 --> 00:43:23,014
It's like a big deal.
894
00:43:24,187 --> 00:43:26,189
- People tell me that this
is the newest destination
895
00:43:26,224 --> 00:43:28,778
for Spring Break because
this just keeps on
896
00:43:28,813 --> 00:43:31,022
getting better and better.
897
00:43:31,056 --> 00:43:32,679
- Black Spring Break, this
is what it's all about,
898
00:43:32,713 --> 00:43:34,335
baby, we're out here having fun.
899
00:43:34,370 --> 00:43:36,855
[dance music]
900
00:43:42,033 --> 00:43:44,242
- There are locals that
are totally against it,
901
00:43:44,276 --> 00:43:47,935
don't want it, because
they leave a mess behind,
902
00:43:47,970 --> 00:43:50,558
and the put the
city in gridlock.
903
00:43:50,593 --> 00:43:53,700
- The traffic, you just,
I mean, it's unbelievable.
904
00:43:53,734 --> 00:43:56,392
[honking]
905
00:43:56,426 --> 00:43:58,843
[slow music]
906
00:44:07,368 --> 00:44:09,129
- This shit ain't,
it's not spicy, Lisa,
907
00:44:09,163 --> 00:44:11,441
it's so salty it's
not even funny.
908
00:44:11,476 --> 00:44:12,339
- The last one?
909
00:44:12,373 --> 00:44:13,547
- Fuck, yeah.
910
00:44:13,581 --> 00:44:16,412
They're so salty, Lisa, that.
911
00:44:18,310 --> 00:44:19,553
- [Lisa] I didn't
find them to be salty.
912
00:44:19,587 --> 00:44:22,590
- I found them to
be extremely salty.
913
00:44:22,625 --> 00:44:25,490
Not spicy, extremely salty.
914
00:44:25,524 --> 00:44:26,733
And it worried me.
915
00:44:28,182 --> 00:44:32,773
To the point where, [gags]
it choked me, you know?
916
00:44:33,118 --> 00:44:35,293
That's how much
salt was in them.
917
00:44:35,327 --> 00:44:37,675
And I sucked the
head, so I know.
918
00:44:38,745 --> 00:44:40,263
What the fuck?
919
00:44:40,298 --> 00:44:43,957
Aw, shit, Lisa I, beer.
920
00:44:43,991 --> 00:44:45,303
It's all in your backseat.
921
00:44:47,823 --> 00:44:50,101
Do you have anything
that can soak up,
922
00:44:50,135 --> 00:44:51,516
anything in your trunk?
923
00:44:51,550 --> 00:44:52,897
I dropped my beer.
924
00:44:52,931 --> 00:44:54,070
Hi guys.
925
00:44:54,105 --> 00:44:56,970
I have 20 boxes of
crawfish, $10.00 a box.
926
00:44:57,004 --> 00:44:59,213
- [Man] Make it $5.00,
we're gonna buy them all.
927
00:44:59,248 --> 00:45:01,733
- Oh, we're doing a benefit
at the bar down the street.
928
00:45:01,768 --> 00:45:03,148
This is for a benefit.
929
00:45:03,183 --> 00:45:03,977
- [Man] $5.00.
930
00:45:04,011 --> 00:45:05,323
- Nah.
931
00:45:05,357 --> 00:45:08,498
We're doing a benefit,
we got $8.00 a box.
932
00:45:08,533 --> 00:45:09,948
$8.00 a box.
933
00:45:11,053 --> 00:45:11,881
Did you get that?
934
00:45:13,503 --> 00:45:14,781
I let them try one of these,
935
00:45:14,815 --> 00:45:18,577
and the woman said,
immediately, too fucking salty.
936
00:45:18,612 --> 00:45:21,166
I'm doing $8.00 a box, we
don't got no ones, do we?
937
00:45:23,203 --> 00:45:24,687
Fuck me.
938
00:45:24,722 --> 00:45:26,068
We didn't bring change.
939
00:45:26,965 --> 00:45:28,795
You got any dollars?
940
00:45:28,829 --> 00:45:30,762
We're gonna have to go back
to the bar and get change,
941
00:45:30,797 --> 00:45:32,488
we're gonna have to get
ones and everything,
942
00:45:32,522 --> 00:45:34,973
so that we can
sell all this shit.
943
00:45:38,218 --> 00:45:42,256
Hey guys, $5.00 a box.
944
00:45:42,291 --> 00:45:43,775
$5.00 a box.
945
00:45:43,810 --> 00:45:45,535
$5.00 a box.
946
00:45:47,399 --> 00:45:48,262
Is it just me?
947
00:45:57,824 --> 00:45:59,791
- [Lisa] This is why
I wanna be aggressive.
948
00:45:59,826 --> 00:46:02,276
- Well, then go at them, Lisa.
949
00:46:04,658 --> 00:46:07,143
They obviously
could give a fuck,
950
00:46:07,178 --> 00:46:08,524
because none of them can.
951
00:46:09,525 --> 00:46:11,216
They're the most
rudest, fucking,
952
00:46:11,251 --> 00:46:13,218
you know, they wanna know why,
953
00:46:14,495 --> 00:46:19,500
you know, we're not
happy about all this?
954
00:46:20,674 --> 00:46:22,365
'Cause they're rude,
they're fucking rude.
955
00:46:25,299 --> 00:46:27,163
I'm sure there's people
that like to make it
956
00:46:27,198 --> 00:46:29,234
a black thing, but it's not.
957
00:46:29,269 --> 00:46:31,650
I'm just breaking
even, you know.
958
00:46:31,685 --> 00:46:34,274
I'm just trying to
get my money back
959
00:46:34,308 --> 00:46:37,173
so I don't bounce checks
first thing in the morning.
960
00:46:37,208 --> 00:46:39,727
So every bit of
this was for naught.
961
00:46:41,005 --> 00:46:42,006
We didn't make a dollar.
962
00:46:42,040 --> 00:46:43,731
And guess what's gonna happen?
963
00:46:43,766 --> 00:46:46,804
I'm gonna have to choke
out the thousand, $1500.00,
964
00:46:46,838 --> 00:46:48,529
whatever the city
wants this week.
965
00:46:49,496 --> 00:46:51,291
'Cause it didn't happen.
966
00:46:51,325 --> 00:46:55,191
- She can be, even to a fault,
967
00:46:56,641 --> 00:47:01,128
she will do her damnedest
to make everyone else happy.
968
00:47:02,992 --> 00:47:06,064
Even if it screws
her over in the end.
969
00:47:07,410 --> 00:47:11,794
- I have spent 20
years doing nothing
970
00:47:11,829 --> 00:47:14,728
but looking at the gay
and lesbian community,
971
00:47:14,762 --> 00:47:18,042
and never saying no.
972
00:47:18,076 --> 00:47:20,251
Working under the
idea that I don't
973
00:47:20,285 --> 00:47:22,667
need to know what you need,
974
00:47:22,701 --> 00:47:25,463
I just need to
know that you need.
975
00:47:25,497 --> 00:47:27,948
So yeah, it's going audacity.
976
00:47:29,467 --> 00:47:31,779
To think that I
can't get support.
977
00:47:33,229 --> 00:47:34,955
This is where we stand.
978
00:47:37,785 --> 00:47:41,237
I am about $80.00
in the negative
979
00:47:41,272 --> 00:47:43,308
from trying to get the word out
980
00:47:43,343 --> 00:47:44,931
from the free booth that we got.
981
00:47:47,899 --> 00:47:49,452
Hadn't put the numbers to it,
982
00:47:49,487 --> 00:47:52,179
but not all the
investment came back
983
00:47:52,214 --> 00:47:54,078
on the crawfish boil,
984
00:47:54,112 --> 00:47:56,080
and we did not make one dollar.
985
00:47:56,114 --> 00:47:57,598
I could blame it
on a lot of things.
986
00:47:57,633 --> 00:48:02,086
I did wish I had foreseen
and thought to see
987
00:48:03,294 --> 00:48:05,296
that it was going
to be Spring Break,
988
00:48:06,538 --> 00:48:08,402
and that could've
been a deterrent.
989
00:48:10,542 --> 00:48:12,061
But I don't know.
990
00:48:12,096 --> 00:48:13,511
[static]
991
00:48:13,545 --> 00:48:15,927
- Mississippi Gulf Coast
Spring Break weekend backlash.
992
00:48:15,962 --> 00:48:17,411
- And I want some protection,
993
00:48:17,446 --> 00:48:20,345
'cause I can't go
through this every year.
994
00:48:20,380 --> 00:48:22,934
I'm not going through
it every year.
995
00:48:22,969 --> 00:48:25,937
- A little racist that
they take and make
996
00:48:25,972 --> 00:48:27,835
a Spring Break just
for black people.
997
00:48:27,870 --> 00:48:29,320
I'm not against
it, but then again,
998
00:48:29,354 --> 00:48:31,598
I think it should be a
Spring Break for everybody.
999
00:48:31,632 --> 00:48:33,117
- They think we
owe them something.
1000
00:48:33,151 --> 00:48:34,670
I owe them shit.
1001
00:48:34,704 --> 00:48:35,602
- [Interviewer] Okay.
1002
00:48:35,636 --> 00:48:36,948
- I don't owe nobody nothing.
1003
00:48:36,983 --> 00:48:38,432
- From what I see in the news,
1004
00:48:38,467 --> 00:48:41,366
there has been a
negative connotation
1005
00:48:41,401 --> 00:48:44,335
put on it from some locals.
1006
00:48:45,439 --> 00:48:47,579
But I think you could
say the same for
1007
00:48:48,753 --> 00:48:50,962
Cruisin' the Coast,
all of those other
1008
00:48:50,997 --> 00:48:54,586
celebrations that bring
revenue to the Coast.
1009
00:48:54,621 --> 00:48:56,174
It depends on who you ask.
1010
00:48:58,418 --> 00:49:01,455
- Put me in something for me.
1011
00:49:01,490 --> 00:49:02,629
It's in there.
1012
00:49:03,802 --> 00:49:05,735
I don't even go to Black Beach.
1013
00:49:05,770 --> 00:49:06,598
I don't go.
1014
00:49:06,633 --> 00:49:07,979
I could.
1015
00:49:08,014 --> 00:49:10,395
You know, but if I went,
1016
00:49:10,430 --> 00:49:12,777
I would be going
to set up a tent
1017
00:49:12,811 --> 00:49:15,469
and stuff for the gays.
1018
00:49:19,577 --> 00:49:21,613
- Like I said, with
that Black Beach,
1019
00:49:21,648 --> 00:49:24,133
I don't even see why they give
them nice folks they money.
1020
00:49:24,168 --> 00:49:25,479
Me personally,
especially somebody
1021
00:49:25,514 --> 00:49:26,825
that doesn't appreciate you.
1022
00:49:26,860 --> 00:49:28,517
- Some people have
signs on they bathrooms
1023
00:49:28,551 --> 00:49:30,519
where they say no blacks.
1024
00:49:32,555 --> 00:49:34,040
Now this is what they
told me this morning,
1025
00:49:34,074 --> 00:49:36,180
I said I didn't go,
1026
00:49:36,214 --> 00:49:38,699
but if I woulda seen that,
1027
00:49:38,734 --> 00:49:39,631
you know what I'm saying?
1028
00:49:39,666 --> 00:49:41,081
Man, they said they had signs up
1029
00:49:41,116 --> 00:49:44,740
saying no blacks, like no
blacks can use this restroom.
1030
00:49:46,017 --> 00:49:47,743
Man, you think I'm lying.
1031
00:49:47,777 --> 00:49:49,193
- [Newscaster] Crews
continue to sweep
1032
00:49:49,227 --> 00:49:51,505
and clean up the roadways
and beaches in Biloxi
1033
00:49:51,540 --> 00:49:54,025
after the large turn out
for Spring Break weekend.
1034
00:49:55,164 --> 00:49:57,304
- They wanna put out
pitches on social media
1035
00:49:57,339 --> 00:49:58,961
like how the beach look,
1036
00:49:58,996 --> 00:50:01,308
it always look like
that after something.
1037
00:50:01,343 --> 00:50:03,621
This goes on every year.
1038
00:50:03,655 --> 00:50:04,794
Be prepared for it.
1039
00:50:04,829 --> 00:50:06,313
You have a lot of people
1040
00:50:06,348 --> 00:50:08,005
that come from
everywhere to come here.
1041
00:50:08,039 --> 00:50:09,247
You know what I'm saying?
1042
00:50:09,282 --> 00:50:11,560
And I feel like, if
you're gonna feel,
1043
00:50:11,594 --> 00:50:13,182
if you feel some
type of way about it,
1044
00:50:13,217 --> 00:50:14,632
beef up on your security,
1045
00:50:14,666 --> 00:50:16,772
but not treat them like animals.
1046
00:50:16,806 --> 00:50:18,705
There's a way to
say stuff to people,
1047
00:50:18,739 --> 00:50:20,707
you don't have to
come at people wrong.
1048
00:50:20,741 --> 00:50:22,157
That's just like if
somebody come at you
1049
00:50:22,191 --> 00:50:23,399
in a way that you don't like,
1050
00:50:23,434 --> 00:50:25,022
you're gonna retaliate.
1051
00:50:25,056 --> 00:50:28,749
That's another reason
why we need to do this,
1052
00:50:28,784 --> 00:50:31,787
as far as the Pride,
and Black Gay Pride.
1053
00:50:31,821 --> 00:50:33,064
You know what I'm saying?
1054
00:50:33,996 --> 00:50:36,274
- [Woman] It goes beyond LGBT.
1055
00:50:36,309 --> 00:50:37,896
- Yeah, black period.
1056
00:50:37,931 --> 00:50:40,520
[upbeat music]
1057
00:50:42,177 --> 00:50:46,077
It's the Unapologetic Black
Pride, Black Gay Pride.
1058
00:50:48,942 --> 00:50:52,877
Well you know, of course
I had seen earlier that,
1059
00:50:52,911 --> 00:50:54,189
we used to do it together.
1060
00:50:55,569 --> 00:50:59,366
So I just feel like it's
something that we need to do,
1061
00:50:59,401 --> 00:51:03,163
because we always against
each other, the blacks.
1062
00:51:03,198 --> 00:51:05,717
[light music]
1063
00:51:13,139 --> 00:51:15,624
[dance music]
1064
00:51:26,013 --> 00:51:27,981
- Well thanks to everyone here,
1065
00:51:28,015 --> 00:51:29,569
and our special Easter Bunny,
1066
00:51:29,603 --> 00:51:31,847
would you please come
out Mr. Easter Bunny?
1067
00:51:34,056 --> 00:51:35,471
Mr. Easter Bunny.
1068
00:51:37,439 --> 00:51:39,544
[laughs]
1069
00:51:46,448 --> 00:51:47,587
- I'm not gonna sit here and say
1070
00:51:47,621 --> 00:51:48,829
that the fundraiser
was successful
1071
00:51:48,864 --> 00:51:50,797
by any stretch of
the imagination.
1072
00:51:50,831 --> 00:51:53,144
Certainly not compared
to what I know
1073
00:51:53,179 --> 00:51:54,732
we have done and achieved.
1074
00:51:54,766 --> 00:51:56,458
- I have been a little
1075
00:52:00,186 --> 00:52:03,810
set back at the lack
of participation
1076
00:52:04,983 --> 00:52:06,364
by a good portion
of the community
1077
00:52:06,399 --> 00:52:07,986
that I really expected to
1078
00:52:08,021 --> 00:52:11,680
step up and join in.
1079
00:52:11,714 --> 00:52:13,958
- The last time I
heard from Janna,
1080
00:52:13,992 --> 00:52:16,581
they, I, look, I can
show you messages.
1081
00:52:16,616 --> 00:52:18,307
Hello, what's going on?
1082
00:52:18,342 --> 00:52:21,517
And she never called me,
never picked up the phone,
1083
00:52:21,552 --> 00:52:23,140
never answered my call.
1084
00:52:23,174 --> 00:52:24,589
I sent them both messages.
1085
00:52:24,624 --> 00:52:27,144
This lasted for over a week.
1086
00:52:28,524 --> 00:52:30,561
- Everybody got really
1087
00:52:33,840 --> 00:52:36,877
disheartened really quickly.
1088
00:52:36,912 --> 00:52:38,362
[light music]
1089
00:52:38,396 --> 00:52:40,260
No progress was being made.
1090
00:52:40,295 --> 00:52:43,574
So at that point, it
was just kinda natural
1091
00:52:43,608 --> 00:52:46,128
for me to take the
things that I knew
1092
00:52:46,163 --> 00:52:48,303
I was ultimately responsible for
1093
00:52:50,063 --> 00:52:52,962
away from the group.
1094
00:52:52,997 --> 00:52:55,172
- [sighs]
1095
00:52:56,449 --> 00:52:58,934
I started this trying
to shine a light
1096
00:52:58,968 --> 00:53:00,418
on something that felt good.
1097
00:53:01,557 --> 00:53:04,491
You know, I had, we
had done it for so long
1098
00:53:04,526 --> 00:53:07,701
that I was actually at a place
where I turned around and,
1099
00:53:07,736 --> 00:53:09,876
and I stopped for
a moment in life,
1100
00:53:09,910 --> 00:53:11,326
and I looked back,
1101
00:53:11,360 --> 00:53:12,327
and I was proud.
1102
00:53:14,846 --> 00:53:16,952
You know, the community
grew old together.
1103
00:53:16,986 --> 00:53:19,541
And I say old, I'm
have the same people
1104
00:53:19,575 --> 00:53:21,612
around me for 20 plus years.
1105
00:53:21,646 --> 00:53:23,993
In some instances,
we grew apart,
1106
00:53:24,028 --> 00:53:26,548
and I'm still on the same track.
1107
00:53:26,582 --> 00:53:29,689
And a few of them
left the track,
1108
00:53:29,723 --> 00:53:31,000
chose another direction.
1109
00:53:31,035 --> 00:53:32,381
And that's heartbreaking.
1110
00:53:32,416 --> 00:53:34,866
[soft music]
1111
00:54:00,789 --> 00:54:03,723
- Machetta, Mississippi,
home of where, well,
1112
00:54:03,757 --> 00:54:05,311
what used to be Rumors.
1113
00:54:05,345 --> 00:54:06,312
My name is Rick Gladdish.
1114
00:54:06,346 --> 00:54:11,075
I owned the place from
1998-2005.
1115
00:54:12,041 --> 00:54:13,491
Now it's a church.
1116
00:54:13,526 --> 00:54:14,768
It's a Baptist Church.
1117
00:54:15,976 --> 00:54:17,530
I would actually like to
come down for a service
1118
00:54:17,564 --> 00:54:20,257
just to see what the building
looks like on the inside.
1119
00:54:20,291 --> 00:54:21,672
Sit there and think
about what all went on
1120
00:54:21,706 --> 00:54:23,432
in different places
and different areas
1121
00:54:23,467 --> 00:54:25,503
inside that bar while
it was a gay bar.
1122
00:54:25,538 --> 00:54:27,954
[soft music]
1123
00:54:38,861 --> 00:54:40,311
- There's two great days,
1124
00:54:40,346 --> 00:54:43,245
like a shrimp boat in a
bar owner's life, you know.
1125
00:54:43,280 --> 00:54:45,074
And then don't even
add the gay bar,
1126
00:54:45,109 --> 00:54:46,490
but in a bar owners life.
1127
00:54:46,524 --> 00:54:47,422
That's the day they buy it
1128
00:54:47,456 --> 00:54:49,562
and the day they sell it, right.
1129
00:54:50,494 --> 00:54:52,806
What is the most compelling,
1130
00:54:52,841 --> 00:54:54,946
most successful
day you ever had?
1131
00:54:54,981 --> 00:54:57,742
- My last night
there, and I was like,
1132
00:54:57,777 --> 00:55:00,124
it'll just be a normal
night, people coming in.
1133
00:55:00,158 --> 00:55:02,333
No, there was probably,
I think we had to
1134
00:55:02,368 --> 00:55:05,129
turn people away, there was
200 people that showed up,
1135
00:55:05,163 --> 00:55:08,305
that were just like, this
bar has been our life.
1136
00:55:08,339 --> 00:55:10,928
You've been part of
our life for 10 years.
1137
00:55:10,962 --> 00:55:13,827
Bartending, running,
owning this bar.
1138
00:55:13,862 --> 00:55:15,070
I sat there, it was
amazing to see that.
1139
00:55:15,104 --> 00:55:16,278
- So you had an
overwhelming day,
1140
00:55:16,313 --> 00:55:19,350
you had 200 plus
people show up for you.
1141
00:55:19,385 --> 00:55:20,178
- To show up for me.
1142
00:55:20,213 --> 00:55:21,387
- Wow.
1143
00:55:21,421 --> 00:55:22,353
- I cannot believe
people actually
1144
00:55:22,388 --> 00:55:24,113
felt this way and thought this.
1145
00:55:24,148 --> 00:55:26,012
I want a bar, I
wanna do a bar again.
1146
00:55:27,462 --> 00:55:32,432
- I have a fear of
being where you are.
1147
00:55:32,467 --> 00:55:35,297
I'm not gonna say I'm
there, okay, because--
1148
00:55:38,024 --> 00:55:39,991
It's such a life thing with me.
1149
00:55:40,026 --> 00:55:41,338
- [Rick] It is.
1150
00:55:41,372 --> 00:55:42,718
- I never thought past it.
1151
00:55:42,753 --> 00:55:44,271
That is what it was going to be.
1152
00:55:44,306 --> 00:55:46,791
- When the bar closed, it
was always there going,
1153
00:55:48,897 --> 00:55:51,313
someone needs to step in,
somebody needs to do something.
1154
00:55:51,348 --> 00:55:52,935
That's the thing,
Tupelo has Missy.
1155
00:55:52,970 --> 00:55:54,385
And I said Tupelo
has no gay bar,
1156
00:55:54,420 --> 00:55:57,215
has no gay community center.
1157
00:55:57,250 --> 00:55:59,356
- So you're telling me
there's no gay bars in Tupelo.
1158
00:56:00,840 --> 00:56:01,599
- No.
1159
00:56:01,634 --> 00:56:02,842
- That's interesting.
1160
00:56:02,876 --> 00:56:04,326
I mean, I'm just
now realizing that
1161
00:56:04,361 --> 00:56:06,570
unless there's a bar that
I just don't know of,
1162
00:56:06,604 --> 00:56:12,541
and you might, but I'm
open 20 plus years now,
1163
00:56:12,990 --> 00:56:16,821
so I am now the oldest running
gay bar in the entire state.
1164
00:56:16,856 --> 00:56:18,064
- Yeah.
1165
00:56:18,098 --> 00:56:19,203
As far as I know,
there was for years,
1166
00:56:19,237 --> 00:56:20,411
there was the bar in Shannon,
1167
00:56:20,446 --> 00:56:21,619
and there was the
bar in Meridian,
1168
00:56:21,654 --> 00:56:22,896
there were the
bars on the coast,
1169
00:56:22,931 --> 00:56:24,139
that was it, that's
all Mississippi had.
1170
00:56:24,173 --> 00:56:27,211
- I had heard that there
was something going on
1171
00:56:27,245 --> 00:56:31,042
up in Hattiesburg, but it's
been brought to my attention
1172
00:56:31,077 --> 00:56:34,805
very recently that it's
been open for nine years.
1173
00:56:34,839 --> 00:56:37,359
[blues music]
1174
00:56:51,822 --> 00:56:53,271
- I'm focused on the blacks,
1175
00:56:53,306 --> 00:56:54,721
but I never wanna see it
1176
00:56:54,756 --> 00:56:56,378
that you can't come and support.
1177
00:56:57,724 --> 00:57:00,555
If I'm trying to run an
Unapologetic Black Gay Pride,
1178
00:57:00,589 --> 00:57:04,869
I need to keep everything
in the black community.
1179
00:57:04,904 --> 00:57:07,044
So if you want to come support,
1180
00:57:07,078 --> 00:57:09,598
you can come to us
sometime and support us.
1181
00:57:09,633 --> 00:57:11,186
We come all the time to y'all
1182
00:57:11,220 --> 00:57:12,601
to support whatever you do.
1183
00:57:13,775 --> 00:57:15,915
I had a guy, he put
the question of like,
1184
00:57:15,949 --> 00:57:18,055
why put black in
it, take that out.
1185
00:57:18,089 --> 00:57:19,505
You know, he was a black guy.
1186
00:57:19,539 --> 00:57:22,231
And I was like, what's
wrong with the word black?
1187
00:57:23,440 --> 00:57:25,925
You don't know what we
go through in my city.
1188
00:57:25,959 --> 00:57:28,375
You in another town.
1189
00:57:28,410 --> 00:57:31,137
So if I'm trying to
pull my city together
1190
00:57:31,171 --> 00:57:34,968
to where we can be,
have unity with us,
1191
00:57:35,003 --> 00:57:38,834
and stop all the
fighting with each other,
1192
00:57:38,869 --> 00:57:41,699
stop all the, we need to
start doing stuff together,
1193
00:57:41,734 --> 00:57:44,633
and uplifting each other
instead of all the time
1194
00:57:44,668 --> 00:57:47,325
slapping each other in the
face, it don't make sense.
1195
00:57:49,569 --> 00:57:52,607
This is my first time
doing this like this.
1196
00:57:52,641 --> 00:57:53,884
You know what I'm saying?
1197
00:57:53,918 --> 00:57:55,126
It's nothing to have
a little Pride party,
1198
00:57:55,161 --> 00:57:57,335
I can have a little
Pride party next month,
1199
00:57:57,370 --> 00:57:59,096
just call it a Pride party.
1200
00:57:59,130 --> 00:58:01,926
No, this is bigger than that.
1201
00:58:01,961 --> 00:58:03,825
'Cause not only do the,
1202
00:58:03,859 --> 00:58:06,172
we don't have unity in LGBT,
1203
00:58:06,206 --> 00:58:08,761
the blacks don't
have unity period.
1204
00:58:10,210 --> 00:58:12,592
If a lot of the older
ones like me will step up,
1205
00:58:12,627 --> 00:58:14,421
everything will be fine.
1206
00:58:14,456 --> 00:58:17,252
Because you got younger ones
coming up out of school,
1207
00:58:17,286 --> 00:58:20,911
If you don't teach them
how it's supposed to be,
1208
00:58:20,945 --> 00:58:23,189
that's where it's coming from.
1209
00:58:23,223 --> 00:58:26,468
They start cliquing
up in small groups,
1210
00:58:26,503 --> 00:58:29,816
hanging out, doing this and
that, people gonna talk.
1211
00:58:29,851 --> 00:58:31,611
It's a lot of he said she said,
1212
00:58:31,646 --> 00:58:33,164
and now you ready to fight.
1213
00:58:33,199 --> 00:58:34,821
You go, go, Mike!
1214
00:58:34,856 --> 00:58:37,444
Come on, go, Mike!
Go, go, Mike!
1215
00:58:37,479 --> 00:58:39,377
- I don't do violence.
1216
00:58:39,412 --> 00:58:41,172
I may look like it, but I don't.
1217
00:58:41,207 --> 00:58:42,104
You know what I'm saying,
1218
00:58:42,139 --> 00:58:43,968
but I don't get with that.
1219
00:58:44,003 --> 00:58:46,177
If I see somebody
arguing in my club
1220
00:58:46,212 --> 00:58:48,732
and I know them, you
best believe I'm in their
1221
00:58:48,766 --> 00:58:51,976
inbox contacting them,
they gonna come here,
1222
00:58:52,011 --> 00:58:53,978
and we gonna talk
about the problem.
1223
00:58:54,013 --> 00:58:56,084
We talk about the problem,
1224
00:58:56,118 --> 00:58:58,604
and see how can we
fix the problem,
1225
00:58:58,638 --> 00:59:00,053
and then we move on.
1226
00:59:00,088 --> 00:59:01,607
Life is too short for all that.
1227
00:59:01,641 --> 00:59:05,576
That may be why we've been
around as long as we have.
1228
00:59:07,405 --> 00:59:11,996
During the week, I'm
mostly either promoting,
1229
00:59:12,031 --> 00:59:15,966
doing flyers, or
stuff like that.
1230
00:59:17,623 --> 00:59:18,831
- [Interviewer] Do
you get stressed?
1231
00:59:18,865 --> 00:59:20,798
- Sometimes, 'cause
I'm constantly going.
1232
00:59:21,972 --> 00:59:24,940
You know, sometimes if
you stressed and tired,
1233
00:59:24,975 --> 00:59:26,528
your body will shut down.
1234
00:59:26,563 --> 00:59:28,116
You just gotta sleep.
1235
00:59:30,739 --> 00:59:31,947
I never get a break.
1236
00:59:31,982 --> 00:59:34,778
That's why, like
maybe it'll change
1237
00:59:34,812 --> 00:59:38,264
when I hire somebody to be
here everyday working for me.
1238
00:59:39,437 --> 00:59:43,303
And I won't have to
open every night.
1239
00:59:43,338 --> 00:59:45,892
For the last 10 years,
that's what I did.
1240
00:59:45,927 --> 00:59:48,723
It was fun at first,
but I'm older now.
1241
00:59:48,757 --> 00:59:50,794
I look at it a whole
'nother way.
1242
00:59:50,828 --> 00:59:52,761
Because I see how everybody is,
1243
00:59:52,796 --> 00:59:54,107
and so that's when I start
1244
00:59:55,281 --> 00:59:57,628
involving myself
with the community.
1245
00:59:57,663 --> 01:00:00,044
[slow music]
1246
01:00:15,163 --> 01:00:16,371
Here in Hattiesburg,
1247
01:00:16,405 --> 01:00:18,304
why we can't get along
and get stuff together?
1248
01:00:18,338 --> 01:00:21,238
I'm just trying to bring
unity with us first.
1249
01:00:21,272 --> 01:00:23,240
'Cause if I bring
unity with us first,
1250
01:00:23,274 --> 01:00:25,276
then we can go unify
with somebody else.
1251
01:00:25,311 --> 01:00:26,795
We can't go unify
with somebody else
1252
01:00:26,830 --> 01:00:27,831
if we ain't got unity.
1253
01:00:27,865 --> 01:00:29,246
That don't work.
1254
01:00:29,280 --> 01:00:30,730
'Cause I see a lot of stuff.
1255
01:00:30,765 --> 01:00:32,836
I see a lot of
things that go on,
1256
01:00:32,870 --> 01:00:35,597
that the other races may not see
1257
01:00:35,632 --> 01:00:37,772
that goes on with my people.
1258
01:00:37,806 --> 01:00:38,704
You see what I'm saying?
1259
01:00:38,738 --> 01:00:40,913
So if I could reach out to them,
1260
01:00:42,121 --> 01:00:44,710
and get them to see
there's another way,
1261
01:00:44,744 --> 01:00:47,333
we don't have to be this way.
1262
01:00:47,367 --> 01:00:48,196
You see what I'm saying?
1263
01:00:48,230 --> 01:00:49,542
That's my only goal.
1264
01:00:50,577 --> 01:00:53,235
[intense music]
1265
01:00:58,240 --> 01:01:00,415
- Now we have HB1523.
1266
01:01:00,449 --> 01:01:03,556
It sounds like some type
of disease, and it is.
1267
01:01:03,590 --> 01:01:07,146
- It is somebody's
lawful right now,
1268
01:01:08,250 --> 01:01:10,701
if I go with my
girlfriend out to eat,
1269
01:01:12,047 --> 01:01:15,844
and let's say the owner doesn't
agree with my lifestyle.
1270
01:01:17,052 --> 01:01:18,916
They do not have
to serve me at all.
1271
01:01:18,951 --> 01:01:20,124
I will be put out.
1272
01:01:20,711 --> 01:01:22,679
- [Newscaster] On Thursday,
a US Appeals Court
1273
01:01:22,713 --> 01:01:25,682
lifted an injunction that
blocked a Mississippi law
1274
01:01:25,716 --> 01:01:27,822
allowing businesses and
government employees
1275
01:01:27,856 --> 01:01:30,928
to deny services
to lesbian, gay,
1276
01:01:30,963 --> 01:01:35,070
bisexual and transgender people
by citing religious beliefs.
1277
01:01:35,105 --> 01:01:37,210
- It's not right,
period, it's not right,
1278
01:01:38,729 --> 01:01:40,386
that you can do that to me.
1279
01:01:41,767 --> 01:01:45,011
- This bill brings up a
whole nother set of issues,
1280
01:01:45,978 --> 01:01:48,497
and it brings out division.
1281
01:01:48,532 --> 01:01:51,155
And Pride is one
of the mechanisms
1282
01:01:51,190 --> 01:01:56,195
that we as a community are
gonna use to eradicate it.
1283
01:01:57,644 --> 01:02:00,440
- The representatives of
the LGBT community say
1284
01:02:00,475 --> 01:02:01,718
they're not giving up.
1285
01:02:01,752 --> 01:02:03,029
- [All] [chanting]
No hate in our state!
1286
01:02:03,064 --> 01:02:04,859
No hate in our state!
1287
01:02:04,893 --> 01:02:06,895
[crowd yelling]
Jesus loves everybody!
1288
01:02:07,862 --> 01:02:13,143
We are ready to start more
of a media campaign.
1289
01:02:13,177 --> 01:02:14,109
[static]
1290
01:02:14,144 --> 01:02:15,697
- Joining me now in
studio to talk about
1291
01:02:15,732 --> 01:02:17,734
a National Pride Day
are Janna and Lynn.
1292
01:02:17,768 --> 01:02:18,735
So can you guys just tell me
1293
01:02:18,769 --> 01:02:19,666
a little bit about this event?
1294
01:02:19,701 --> 01:02:20,875
How did it come together?
1295
01:02:20,909 --> 01:02:23,291
- To be honest, when
Trump made office,
1296
01:02:23,325 --> 01:02:25,742
we just found it was
imperative for this year.
1297
01:02:25,776 --> 01:02:28,434
- Our event starts at noon
at Point Cadet.
1298
01:02:28,468 --> 01:02:30,988
We have Gia Gunn, from
RuPaul's Drag Race
1299
01:02:31,023 --> 01:02:33,232
to start our drag show.
1300
01:02:33,266 --> 01:02:37,719
We hope that that's
gonna draw interest from
1301
01:02:37,754 --> 01:02:41,758
some of the surrounding
areas, not just Gulf Coast.
1302
01:02:50,939 --> 01:02:53,045
- We're fixing to, I've called,
1303
01:02:53,079 --> 01:02:55,047
tried to get ahold
of the beer company,
1304
01:02:55,081 --> 01:02:58,050
the guy's mailbox
is not set up so,
1305
01:02:58,084 --> 01:02:58,982
I can't leave a message.
1306
01:02:59,016 --> 01:03:01,191
So I'm gonna continue to try.
1307
01:03:01,225 --> 01:03:05,920
So it may be, it may
end up being this.
1308
01:03:07,093 --> 01:03:08,612
We're gonna have
to prioritize it.
1309
01:03:08,646 --> 01:03:09,578
And, hold on.
1310
01:03:11,166 --> 01:03:12,650
- I have a massive
amount of people
1311
01:03:12,685 --> 01:03:14,445
that are gonna be
here Saturday night.
1312
01:03:14,480 --> 01:03:16,654
All points of entry--
1313
01:03:16,689 --> 01:03:18,208
- They'll be opened up for you.
1314
01:03:19,381 --> 01:03:21,349
- If you can kinda clean
it up around the area,
1315
01:03:21,383 --> 01:03:24,041
and present it the
best you can for me,
1316
01:03:24,076 --> 01:03:26,906
then that's all I can ask at
this point and time, you know.
1317
01:03:33,533 --> 01:03:36,260
I still have not started my day,
1318
01:03:36,295 --> 01:03:38,297
and a deposit needs to be made,
1319
01:03:38,331 --> 01:03:40,264
and stuff needs to be picked up.
1320
01:03:42,439 --> 01:03:44,648
And I'm tired, you know.
1321
01:03:44,682 --> 01:03:45,511
Tired.
1322
01:03:46,684 --> 01:03:50,757
I just wanna stay on task.
1323
01:03:50,792 --> 01:03:51,931
- Do you want me to go ahead
1324
01:03:51,966 --> 01:03:53,657
and make the deposit
and pick the permit up,
1325
01:03:53,691 --> 01:03:55,141
or do you want me to stay here.
1326
01:03:55,176 --> 01:03:57,626
- No, go make the
deposit real quick.
1327
01:03:57,661 --> 01:03:58,765
And then get back.
1328
01:03:58,800 --> 01:04:00,457
And screw the permit for now,
1329
01:04:00,491 --> 01:04:01,838
I'll get it picked up later.
1330
01:04:04,495 --> 01:04:06,152
But it's the deposit that--
1331
01:04:10,812 --> 01:04:12,918
maybe it's me, I'm
losing my fucking mind.
1332
01:04:14,264 --> 01:04:15,092
Wow.
1333
01:04:18,199 --> 01:04:20,339
Lisa, give me the money, please.
1334
01:04:20,373 --> 01:04:21,616
Give me the money.
1335
01:04:21,650 --> 01:04:22,548
I gotta go.
1336
01:04:22,582 --> 01:04:23,583
- [Lisa] All right, be careful.
1337
01:04:23,618 --> 01:04:26,207
[upbeat music]
1338
01:04:29,727 --> 01:04:31,143
- Son of a bitch.
1339
01:04:41,981 --> 01:04:43,500
Is Max around?
1340
01:04:46,952 --> 01:04:48,263
Let me ask you something.
1341
01:04:49,230 --> 01:04:51,542
Are y'all tearing it all up?
1342
01:04:51,577 --> 01:04:53,027
Give me the inside scoop,
1343
01:04:53,061 --> 01:04:55,477
when are they gonna tear
this road up, do you know?
1344
01:04:58,584 --> 01:05:01,690
Now they've come
to me and told me
1345
01:05:01,725 --> 01:05:03,071
that it's gonna get worse,
1346
01:05:03,106 --> 01:05:05,522
they're fixing to
take the street out,
1347
01:05:05,556 --> 01:05:09,077
because it's a major line
they gotta do in here,
1348
01:05:09,112 --> 01:05:13,979
and it's gonna be out front
for six to eight months.
1349
01:05:14,876 --> 01:05:16,947
While this is still going on.
1350
01:05:16,982 --> 01:05:19,536
So literally what they're doing,
1351
01:05:19,570 --> 01:05:22,297
is they're cutting me
off, my entire business.
1352
01:05:22,332 --> 01:05:23,989
- [Interviewer] How do you get
into this bar at this point?
1353
01:05:24,023 --> 01:05:25,922
- You're not gonna be able to.
1354
01:05:28,165 --> 01:05:29,339
Five days.
1355
01:05:30,305 --> 01:05:31,548
Five days from now,
1356
01:05:31,582 --> 01:05:34,033
this place is gonna be
mercifully packed out.
1357
01:05:34,068 --> 01:05:36,001
This field is gonna be full,
1358
01:05:36,035 --> 01:05:37,519
that parking lot's
gonna be full,
1359
01:05:37,554 --> 01:05:40,039
it's gonna be full, they're
gonna be down the street.
1360
01:05:41,351 --> 01:05:43,111
And all I've got to say is
1361
01:05:43,146 --> 01:05:46,183
they better put Humpty
Dumpty back together again.
1362
01:05:48,254 --> 01:05:50,118
Make it a smooth ride for me.
1363
01:05:52,051 --> 01:05:54,881
I'm so pissed, I can't
even talk right now.
1364
01:05:54,916 --> 01:05:55,744
I'm, I'm--
1365
01:06:01,060 --> 01:06:04,719
I can't take this shit no more.
1366
01:06:11,312 --> 01:06:12,899
They're killing me.
1367
01:06:12,934 --> 01:06:13,900
Fucking killing me.
1368
01:06:23,600 --> 01:06:24,842
Y'all had a rough night?
1369
01:06:26,465 --> 01:06:28,363
- We would've been
here at 10:00.
1370
01:06:28,398 --> 01:06:29,330
We would've been here at 10:00.
1371
01:06:29,364 --> 01:06:31,263
- I thought we agreed on 10:00.
1372
01:06:31,297 --> 01:06:34,024
- We just, I think
we misunderstood.
1373
01:06:34,059 --> 01:06:35,405
- So we've got it 10:00,
1374
01:06:35,439 --> 01:06:38,028
and you were rushing
out the door,
1375
01:06:38,063 --> 01:06:39,719
the dog was jumping up around,
1376
01:06:39,754 --> 01:06:43,792
so I can see where
it got missed.
1377
01:06:43,827 --> 01:06:46,071
I got confused that y'all
might've thought it was 11:00.
1378
01:06:46,105 --> 01:06:47,796
I just had no idea
that y'all didn't know
1379
01:06:47,831 --> 01:06:49,177
it was today period.
1380
01:06:49,212 --> 01:06:51,421
- It has not been easy at all.
1381
01:06:51,455 --> 01:06:53,630
It has been stressful,
1382
01:06:53,664 --> 01:06:55,701
and I don't deal with
stress very well.
1383
01:06:55,735 --> 01:06:58,221
And sometimes I just
have to pull back,
1384
01:06:58,255 --> 01:07:00,119
and get stuff done
behind the scenes.
1385
01:07:00,154 --> 01:07:02,639
And that's what I felt like
I had to do at the moment,
1386
01:07:02,673 --> 01:07:05,331
was just, I had to
get some shit done.
1387
01:07:06,884 --> 01:07:08,817
And the best way to
do that was on my own,
1388
01:07:08,852 --> 01:07:11,130
making decisions by myself.
1389
01:07:11,165 --> 01:07:13,443
I'd run it by her, or
she'd run it by me.
1390
01:07:13,477 --> 01:07:17,274
- I will tell you that yeah,
it frustrated me, you know.
1391
01:07:17,309 --> 01:07:18,793
Can I be difficult to work with?
1392
01:07:18,827 --> 01:07:20,036
Of course I can be.
1393
01:07:21,106 --> 01:07:23,556
Yeah, I can be a raving
lunatic at times.
1394
01:07:23,591 --> 01:07:25,420
- I've wanted to strangle
her through this process,
1395
01:07:25,455 --> 01:07:27,353
but there have been
so many moments that
1396
01:07:27,388 --> 01:07:30,874
I was so proud of her
for having my back,
1397
01:07:30,908 --> 01:07:34,774
or for just saying,
okay, I trust you, Steph.
1398
01:07:34,809 --> 01:07:35,982
That meant a lot for me,
1399
01:07:36,017 --> 01:07:38,088
for my friend that I
know is a control freak
1400
01:07:38,123 --> 01:07:40,228
to look at me and
say, I trust you.
1401
01:07:40,263 --> 01:07:43,749
- I think we developed,
and we are going to show
1402
01:07:43,783 --> 01:07:47,097
just an incredible
product come Saturday.
1403
01:07:47,132 --> 01:07:47,925
- [Interviewer] Has anybody
looked at the weather?
1404
01:07:47,960 --> 01:07:49,306
- Rain or shine.
1405
01:07:49,341 --> 01:07:51,377
- I give it to
God, or my higher,
1406
01:07:51,412 --> 01:07:52,896
I give it to my higher power.
1407
01:07:52,930 --> 01:07:56,727
The day is going to be
what the day needs to be.
1408
01:07:57,418 --> 01:07:58,074
[thunder rolls]
1409
01:08:00,110 --> 01:08:01,974
Well everybody else is
freaked out about it.
1410
01:08:02,008 --> 01:08:03,389
I refuse to look at it.
1411
01:08:03,424 --> 01:08:05,736
I haven't looked at
one weather report,
1412
01:08:05,771 --> 01:08:07,428
nor one projection.
1413
01:08:08,118 --> 01:08:10,120
- [Newscaster] Overnight,
Tropical Storm Cindy moving in,
1414
01:08:10,155 --> 01:08:13,089
and dumping heavy rain
along the Gulf Coast.
1415
01:08:13,123 --> 01:08:15,367
Flooding concerns prompting
the Governor of Alabama
1416
01:08:15,401 --> 01:08:17,403
to declare a state of emergency.
1417
01:08:17,438 --> 01:08:19,888
[thundering]
1418
01:08:21,511 --> 01:08:23,133
- Where is just
starts moving west,
1419
01:08:23,168 --> 01:08:24,272
it just needs to start
moving.
1420
01:08:24,307 --> 01:08:27,551
It really is stationary,
it has to start moving soon.
1421
01:08:27,586 --> 01:08:30,761
- Yeah, 'cause if it just hangs
around out there over the water
1422
01:08:30,796 --> 01:08:31,797
it gets stronger.
1423
01:08:32,211 --> 01:08:34,144
- Tropical Storm Cindy
has winds of up to
1424
01:08:34,179 --> 01:08:37,458
45 miles per hour, but
it is nearly stationary
1425
01:08:37,492 --> 01:08:39,632
over the Gulf of
Mexico right now.
1426
01:08:39,667 --> 01:08:42,463
In Mississippi, they're
expecting up to 12 inches
1427
01:08:42,497 --> 01:08:46,122
of rainfall over the
next 48 hours in Biloxi.
1428
01:08:47,261 --> 01:08:50,436
[raining, thundering]
1429
01:08:53,405 --> 01:08:54,406
[soft music plays]
1430
01:08:54,923 --> 01:08:56,580
- I've been out in it
for the last two days.
1431
01:08:56,615 --> 01:08:59,169
I have been in every
store on this coast
1432
01:08:59,204 --> 01:09:00,653
checking the list off.
1433
01:09:00,688 --> 01:09:02,690
I've been put in charge
of all the small details.
1434
01:09:04,036 --> 01:09:06,176
It's so unpredictable.
1435
01:09:06,211 --> 01:09:08,351
I'm hoping today
was the worst of it,
1436
01:09:08,385 --> 01:09:11,457
but you know, some people
are asking lots of questions.
1437
01:09:11,492 --> 01:09:13,563
What if it rains, and what
if this, what if that.
1438
01:09:13,597 --> 01:09:16,082
I'm like pavilion,
pavilion, pavilion.
1439
01:09:16,117 --> 01:09:19,120
We have, I think a
90% chance tomorrow.
1440
01:09:23,918 --> 01:09:25,368
- It's blowing bad out here.
1441
01:09:25,402 --> 01:09:26,783
- [Reporter] Oil
companies quick to get
1442
01:09:26,817 --> 01:09:28,888
workers off those rigs.
1443
01:09:28,923 --> 01:09:30,856
The big fear, flooding.
1444
01:09:30,890 --> 01:09:32,961
People racing to protect homes.
1445
01:09:38,588 --> 01:09:42,316
[raining, suspenseful music]
1446
01:09:48,874 --> 01:09:49,875
- Tell me.
1447
01:09:49,909 --> 01:09:53,775
- I'm telling you, by
Friday morning 8:00 am,
1448
01:09:53,810 --> 01:09:56,882
the shit hits the fan in
Memphis, and we're drying out.
1449
01:09:56,916 --> 01:09:58,470
- You know how much
I trust you, do not.
1450
01:09:58,504 --> 01:10:01,162
- You should, I know
what I'm talking about.
1451
01:10:01,197 --> 01:10:02,646
I know what I'm talking about.
1452
01:10:02,681 --> 01:10:03,923
- Oh, Jesus.
1453
01:10:03,958 --> 01:10:06,961
[suspenseful music]
1454
01:10:18,006 --> 01:10:19,249
- Yeah, it's tomorrow.
1455
01:10:19,284 --> 01:10:21,872
It started two and
a half months ago.
1456
01:10:21,907 --> 01:10:23,046
- It's a--
1457
01:10:23,080 --> 01:10:24,427
- This is the rat race.
1458
01:10:24,461 --> 01:10:26,187
- It's the dreaded countdown.
1459
01:10:26,222 --> 01:10:27,223
I wanna throw up.
1460
01:10:29,777 --> 01:10:32,435
[intense music]
1461
01:10:36,266 --> 01:10:38,234
[inspiring music plays]
1462
01:10:45,379 --> 01:10:47,967
[lovely music]
1463
01:11:11,784 --> 01:11:14,270
- Somebody's gotta pay for it.
1464
01:11:26,040 --> 01:11:27,731
- The rain finally stopped.
1465
01:11:29,630 --> 01:11:30,631
- [Interviewer]
Can you believe it?
1466
01:11:30,665 --> 01:11:31,494
- I know.
1467
01:11:32,840 --> 01:11:33,910
- [Interviewer] Happy Pride!
1468
01:11:33,944 --> 01:11:35,256
- Happy Pride!
1469
01:11:35,291 --> 01:11:36,568
- [Interviewer] What
are you doing for pride?
1470
01:11:36,602 --> 01:11:38,121
- I'm working.
1471
01:11:38,155 --> 01:11:40,641
[light music]
1472
01:11:53,964 --> 01:11:55,725
- What y'all want?
1473
01:11:55,759 --> 01:11:58,175
Coffee, tea, or meat?
1474
01:11:58,210 --> 01:12:00,695
[light music]
1475
01:12:05,769 --> 01:12:07,219
- How y'all doing?
1476
01:12:07,253 --> 01:12:08,738
[cheering]
1477
01:12:08,772 --> 01:12:12,362
Oh yes, I am feeling
the love, my friends.
1478
01:12:12,397 --> 01:12:14,882
[light music]
1479
01:12:20,991 --> 01:12:22,545
- We have several campaigns
that we're working on.
1480
01:12:22,579 --> 01:12:25,064
Of course, against HB1523.
1481
01:12:25,099 --> 01:12:28,861
- We work for social
justice and racial equality,
1482
01:12:28,896 --> 01:12:32,589
and equality for LGBT
people in the community.
1483
01:12:32,624 --> 01:12:35,143
[light music]
1484
01:12:40,597 --> 01:12:42,116
- We come to support.
1485
01:12:42,150 --> 01:12:43,428
Come to support the Pride.
1486
01:12:44,636 --> 01:12:46,603
You know, they
trying to reach out.
1487
01:12:46,638 --> 01:12:48,087
So you know.
1488
01:12:48,122 --> 01:12:49,986
I come down to support that.
1489
01:12:50,020 --> 01:12:54,646
And also to promote my
Pride that's coming up.
1490
01:12:57,096 --> 01:12:59,582
[blues music]
1491
01:13:01,929 --> 01:13:02,999
- [Interviewer] This is Shawn.
1492
01:13:03,033 --> 01:13:04,759
- Hey Shawn, how
you doing, Baby.
1493
01:13:04,794 --> 01:13:07,866
It's finally good
to, I recognize you
from somewhere, Boo.
1494
01:13:07,900 --> 01:13:09,385
Do you wanna beer?
1495
01:13:10,800 --> 01:13:12,491
I'm gonna drink one too.
1496
01:13:12,526 --> 01:13:14,148
I don't know what this
day's gonna bring,
1497
01:13:14,182 --> 01:13:15,805
but we gonna do
it together, baby.
1498
01:13:15,839 --> 01:13:17,151
- It's good.
1499
01:13:17,185 --> 01:13:19,187
- I think it's the
most ingenious Pride
1500
01:13:19,222 --> 01:13:20,775
that you came up with.
1501
01:13:20,810 --> 01:13:24,538
- Vendors and
basketball children did.
1502
01:13:24,572 --> 01:13:25,470
- I'm coming.
1503
01:13:25,504 --> 01:13:26,919
We're coming, we're coming.
1504
01:13:26,954 --> 01:13:27,817
- I'm gonna need
you to come now.
1505
01:13:27,851 --> 01:13:29,128
- We coming.
1506
01:13:29,163 --> 01:13:30,060
- From my understanding,
1507
01:13:30,095 --> 01:13:32,028
we're trying to diverse things.
1508
01:13:32,062 --> 01:13:32,960
Right?
1509
01:13:32,994 --> 01:13:34,237
- Yeah.
- Diversity.
1510
01:13:34,271 --> 01:13:35,859
- It's all inclusive, it
always has been for me.
1511
01:13:35,894 --> 01:13:40,416
- But you got to have the
right people to do that.
1512
01:13:40,450 --> 01:13:43,902
It gonna have to be
blacks and whites
1513
01:13:43,936 --> 01:13:44,903
putting it together.
1514
01:13:44,937 --> 01:13:45,835
- Right.
1515
01:13:45,869 --> 01:13:46,801
- You see what I'm saying?
1516
01:13:46,836 --> 01:13:47,733
- Exactly.
- Yeah.
1517
01:13:47,768 --> 01:13:49,045
- Especially here in the South,
1518
01:13:49,079 --> 01:13:51,219
we need to make that
other line go away,
1519
01:13:51,254 --> 01:13:54,257
which is a line
that you can't see,
1520
01:13:54,291 --> 01:13:55,534
but everybody assumes,
1521
01:13:55,569 --> 01:13:58,330
and puts it there
between she and I.
1522
01:13:58,364 --> 01:13:59,711
Puts that line there.
1523
01:13:59,745 --> 01:14:01,644
We gotta work to make
that line go away.
1524
01:14:01,678 --> 01:14:02,472
- Mm-hmm.
1525
01:14:02,507 --> 01:14:03,335
- Don't you agree?
1526
01:14:03,369 --> 01:14:04,163
- Yeah.
1527
01:14:04,198 --> 01:14:05,026
And I'm all for it.
1528
01:14:07,995 --> 01:14:08,996
How you doing?
1529
01:14:10,031 --> 01:14:13,172
I got a Pride going on in July.
1530
01:14:13,207 --> 01:14:15,036
We are in search for vendors.
1531
01:14:16,244 --> 01:14:18,557
You can email us,
saying Exclusive,
1532
01:14:18,592 --> 01:14:20,490
and I will gladly email you
1533
01:14:20,525 --> 01:14:23,044
all the information
that you need.
1534
01:14:23,079 --> 01:14:24,494
I met a lot of great people,
1535
01:14:24,529 --> 01:14:26,807
and a lot of people
that understands,
1536
01:14:26,841 --> 01:14:28,809
and you know,
basically telling me
1537
01:14:28,843 --> 01:14:31,121
it's a good thing
that I'm doing.
1538
01:14:31,156 --> 01:14:32,778
I thought they were
gonna look at it like
1539
01:14:32,813 --> 01:14:34,262
she's being racist, no.
1540
01:14:35,332 --> 01:14:36,230
No.
1541
01:14:36,264 --> 01:14:37,818
This Pride here motivated me.
1542
01:14:37,852 --> 01:14:41,235
My Pride is not
called anything about
1543
01:14:41,269 --> 01:14:44,480
diversity or anything,
we will get up to that.
1544
01:14:44,514 --> 01:14:47,897
Then we can unify with this.
1545
01:14:47,931 --> 01:14:50,313
I gotta link up
with these people.
1546
01:14:50,347 --> 01:14:52,902
I feel like I gotta get a
good, strong committee board,
1547
01:14:52,936 --> 01:14:54,420
but it gotta be equal.
1548
01:14:55,663 --> 01:14:56,837
- [Interviewer] Absolutely.
1549
01:14:56,871 --> 01:14:58,390
- It gotta be equal
to make it work.
1550
01:14:58,424 --> 01:15:00,910
[blues music]
1551
01:15:09,263 --> 01:15:11,817
[upbeat music]
1552
01:15:22,552 --> 01:15:25,106
[cheering]
1553
01:15:25,141 --> 01:15:27,695
[upbeat music]
1554
01:15:30,422 --> 01:15:32,320
- Here we go, I'm
headed to the main stage
1555
01:15:32,355 --> 01:15:35,047
for the very first Pride
here in Mississippi.
1556
01:15:35,082 --> 01:15:36,773
Can't wait to see you guys.
1557
01:15:36,808 --> 01:15:38,326
[kisses]
1558
01:15:38,361 --> 01:15:39,845
Perfect.
1559
01:15:39,880 --> 01:15:44,194
Momma Rue has opened
so many doors
1560
01:15:44,229 --> 01:15:47,508
and really opened up
their minds to accept
1561
01:15:47,543 --> 01:15:51,270
that drag is an art form,
and this is for everyone.
1562
01:15:51,305 --> 01:15:51,961
[static]
1563
01:15:52,513 --> 01:15:54,515
[techno music]
1564
01:16:01,211 --> 01:16:04,905
The South, you hear all
these stories and things,
1565
01:16:04,939 --> 01:16:09,254
so I was a little
bit nervous, as I am.
1566
01:16:09,288 --> 01:16:11,083
I like it, the food is great,
1567
01:16:11,118 --> 01:16:13,499
the people are really sweet,
1568
01:16:13,534 --> 01:16:18,263
and it's really hot, but
that's why we have AC.
1569
01:16:19,505 --> 01:16:22,578
[cheering, applause]
1570
01:16:24,890 --> 01:16:26,961
[light upbeat music]
1571
01:16:37,454 --> 01:16:39,595
- One thing that I noticed,
1572
01:16:39,629 --> 01:16:41,942
definitely was the
outstanding amount of children
1573
01:16:41,976 --> 01:16:43,840
that were there, as
well as their parents,
1574
01:16:43,875 --> 01:16:46,360
and that's definitely
something that is
1575
01:16:46,394 --> 01:16:48,155
a big inspiration for me.
1576
01:16:48,189 --> 01:16:50,951
[light upbeat music]
1577
01:16:50,985 --> 01:16:53,505
The young people are the
ones that boost us up,
1578
01:16:53,539 --> 01:16:56,508
and I can only hope
to open more doors
1579
01:16:56,542 --> 01:16:58,959
for younger people to
continue this legacy,
1580
01:16:58,993 --> 01:17:02,100
and to continue to
break down these doors,
1581
01:17:02,134 --> 01:17:06,449
and make it as accepted
as we can as a community,
1582
01:17:06,483 --> 01:17:08,693
and as a whole world, really.
1583
01:17:14,733 --> 01:17:17,356
- I think it's great
that the young'uns,
1584
01:17:18,668 --> 01:17:20,705
all the kids I'm seeing.
1585
01:17:20,739 --> 01:17:22,879
Kids out here
playing in the water.
1586
01:17:24,156 --> 01:17:25,502
You know.
1587
01:17:25,537 --> 01:17:26,434
Kids.
1588
01:17:26,469 --> 01:17:27,332
Families.
1589
01:17:29,265 --> 01:17:31,647
Whew, what an incredible day.
1590
01:17:31,681 --> 01:17:34,822
[group chatter]
1591
01:17:34,857 --> 01:17:36,272
- The kids that showed up today,
1592
01:17:36,306 --> 01:17:38,688
the whole reason I wanted
to be a part of it,
1593
01:17:38,723 --> 01:17:40,034
they were here.
1594
01:17:40,069 --> 01:17:42,209
All this work, and
everything that's happened,
1595
01:17:42,243 --> 01:17:45,039
when the protesters showed up,
1596
01:17:45,074 --> 01:17:47,524
they has their signs,
they were ready for it,
1597
01:17:47,559 --> 01:17:48,940
and they ran out there,
1598
01:17:48,974 --> 01:17:50,389
and they were just
so peaceful about it.
1599
01:17:50,424 --> 01:17:51,736
And that one little girl,
1600
01:17:51,770 --> 01:17:54,083
she stood next to the
protester for like
1601
01:17:54,117 --> 01:17:56,533
two hours in this heat,
with her little flag.
1602
01:18:07,924 --> 01:18:09,615
- God loves everybody,
1603
01:18:09,650 --> 01:18:12,515
you ain't going to hell,
you ain't going to hell.
1604
01:18:12,549 --> 01:18:13,689
- It gave me hope.
1605
01:18:13,723 --> 01:18:15,483
The fact that I didn't
have to preempt.
1606
01:18:15,518 --> 01:18:16,899
The fact that
someone made signs,
1607
01:18:16,933 --> 01:18:18,521
and it just, you know,
1608
01:18:18,555 --> 01:18:20,799
my world just got huge today.
1609
01:18:20,834 --> 01:18:23,043
I came out of my
little world today.
1610
01:18:25,321 --> 01:18:27,599
- It was a good Pride.
1611
01:18:27,633 --> 01:18:29,532
It was a good turn out.
1612
01:18:29,566 --> 01:18:33,225
- Now we have a whole
younger generation
1613
01:18:33,260 --> 01:18:37,643
that is ready to start
fighting the fight with us.
1614
01:18:37,678 --> 01:18:39,956
- That might have got a little
bit on confidence today,
1615
01:18:39,991 --> 01:18:41,613
outside there,
'cause they all come
1616
01:18:41,647 --> 01:18:42,856
in a little circle of friends,
1617
01:18:42,890 --> 01:18:44,754
they're four or
five little friends.
1618
01:18:44,789 --> 01:18:46,583
And now they know,
1619
01:18:48,344 --> 01:18:49,655
there's a community here.
1620
01:18:49,690 --> 01:18:51,692
[music plays]
1621
01:20:03,419 --> 01:20:06,008
- We are done until next year.
1622
01:20:49,292 --> 01:20:51,743
[music fades]
1623
01:21:00,890 --> 01:21:02,927
- Pride is going great.
1624
01:21:02,961 --> 01:21:05,343
Everybody been working hard,
my team been working hard.
1625
01:21:05,377 --> 01:21:08,898
Staying up late, not only
getting the event together,
1626
01:21:08,933 --> 01:21:10,900
I'm talking to people every day,
1627
01:21:10,935 --> 01:21:13,385
you do the canned good
drive and stuff like that.
1628
01:21:13,420 --> 01:21:15,871
Back to school drives together.
1629
01:21:15,905 --> 01:21:19,081
So with this situation,
and this Pride,
1630
01:21:19,115 --> 01:21:21,048
I feel like I'm
doing what's right.
1631
01:21:21,083 --> 01:21:22,532
Now if somebody have
a problem with it,
1632
01:21:22,567 --> 01:21:25,018
I can explain to them, I'm not,
1633
01:21:25,052 --> 01:21:27,503
this is not about racism.
1634
01:21:27,537 --> 01:21:32,094
It's not about the white people.
1635
01:21:32,128 --> 01:21:33,129
It's not about the Mexicans,
1636
01:21:33,164 --> 01:21:35,235
or any other race.
1637
01:21:35,269 --> 01:21:39,135
It's about my people, because
I am black, and I'm proud.
1638
01:21:39,170 --> 01:21:42,035
- Black Pride is just
so, so, so, so important,
1639
01:21:42,069 --> 01:21:45,072
just because we're already
so divided as a people.
1640
01:21:45,107 --> 01:21:47,764
It gives this marginalized
community an opportunity
1641
01:21:47,799 --> 01:21:49,559
to come together and
do something positive.
1642
01:21:49,594 --> 01:21:51,941
- Black Pride is
important to me because
1643
01:21:51,976 --> 01:21:56,566
I think it expresses
freedom in every sexuality.
1644
01:21:56,601 --> 01:21:59,604
I feel like everybody should
be able to express they self,
1645
01:21:59,638 --> 01:22:02,055
in whatever color,
whatever way they want to.
1646
01:22:02,089 --> 01:22:04,678
- Events like this which brings
1647
01:22:04,712 --> 01:22:07,681
the LGBT community closer,
just spreads the love,
1648
01:22:07,715 --> 01:22:09,648
not only within
the LGBT community,
1649
01:22:09,683 --> 01:22:11,581
but the black
community as a whole.
1650
01:22:11,616 --> 01:22:15,137
It shows that we all can come
together and have a good time
1651
01:22:15,171 --> 01:22:18,071
without there being any
drama, or any mess involved.
1652
01:22:18,105 --> 01:22:19,382
- It don't stop at the Pride,
1653
01:22:19,417 --> 01:22:20,970
it's not gonna stop with me.
1654
01:22:21,005 --> 01:22:22,696
'Cause you know what,
it gonna be up to me
1655
01:22:22,730 --> 01:22:25,423
to bring us and
and them together.
1656
01:22:25,457 --> 01:22:27,425
They're not gonna come to me.
1657
01:22:27,459 --> 01:22:30,290
[light fun music]
1658
01:22:56,178 --> 01:22:58,180
[indistinct chatter]
1659
01:23:20,754 --> 01:23:21,410
[indistinct chatter]
1660
01:23:24,068 --> 01:23:26,035
[cheers]
1661
01:23:46,159 --> 01:23:48,161
[music continues]
1662
01:24:59,059 --> 01:25:01,061
[music plays]
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