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These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: 1 00:00:09,444 --> 00:00:11,359 ♪ Every day an adventure 2 00:00:11,489 --> 00:00:15,015 ♪ And you I have given the best ♪ 3 00:00:18,627 --> 00:00:20,629 ♪ There is magic in time 4 00:00:20,759 --> 00:00:25,199 ♪ And there's magic in love if you feel so... ♪♪ 5 00:00:25,329 --> 00:00:26,896 - I'm really glad you enjoyed it. 6 00:00:27,027 --> 00:00:28,376 - Thank you. 7 00:00:31,683 --> 00:00:32,902 - Hi. 8 00:00:38,995 --> 00:00:40,692 - Thank you for coming. 9 00:00:44,305 --> 00:00:46,568 I should have been happy. 10 00:00:46,698 --> 00:00:49,049 Here I was, a best-selling author, 11 00:00:49,179 --> 00:00:52,095 signing copies of my latest book, 12 00:00:52,226 --> 00:00:55,055 but I couldn't help feeling that something was missing. 13 00:01:07,458 --> 00:01:09,069 That means a lot to me. 14 00:01:12,115 --> 00:01:15,597 - So, how's the celebrity author? 15 00:01:16,859 --> 00:01:18,295 - She feels like a fraud. 16 00:01:18,426 --> 00:01:19,731 - What, why? 17 00:01:21,951 --> 00:01:23,605 - I've only been writing for a couple years. 18 00:01:23,735 --> 00:01:25,433 - Mm-hmm, and what does that tell you? 19 00:01:28,392 --> 00:01:30,916 - That I don't belong here. - Mm-mm. 20 00:01:31,047 --> 00:01:35,225 That you are just as talented as any of these other authors. 21 00:01:35,356 --> 00:01:38,489 And I'm not just saying that 'cause you're my sister. 22 00:01:40,535 --> 00:01:43,277 Why don't we get outta here? Go get something to eat, 23 00:01:43,407 --> 00:01:47,107 get a drink. Celebrate. You deserve it. 24 00:01:49,196 --> 00:01:51,502 - Okay, look, we have a few minutes left. 25 00:01:51,633 --> 00:01:53,896 Why don't you stay here, hold down the fort, 26 00:01:54,026 --> 00:01:56,899 and I'll go find our host and say thank you. 27 00:01:57,029 --> 00:01:58,422 - Okay, I'll start packing up. 28 00:01:58,553 --> 00:01:59,989 All right. 29 00:02:00,381 --> 00:02:01,817 - All right. Hey... 30 00:02:03,210 --> 00:02:04,689 Your readers love you, Nicki. 31 00:02:04,820 --> 00:02:07,257 You are a queen. 32 00:02:08,824 --> 00:02:11,218 Mmm! 33 00:02:31,934 --> 00:02:35,503 - Oh, I'm sorry, I didn't mean to scare you. 34 00:02:37,113 --> 00:02:38,767 I wasn't scared. 35 00:02:38,897 --> 00:02:40,290 - Hmm. 36 00:02:45,295 --> 00:02:47,819 - You come here with your mama? 37 00:02:47,950 --> 00:02:49,995 Your daddy? Your grandma? 38 00:02:50,909 --> 00:02:52,346 - I come here by myself. 39 00:02:52,476 --> 00:02:54,826 Every day after school, and on weekends. 40 00:02:57,351 --> 00:02:58,526 - To do what? 41 00:03:00,528 --> 00:03:01,703 - To read. 42 00:03:06,621 --> 00:03:08,884 - Do you have books at home? 43 00:03:09,014 --> 00:03:11,582 Or at your school library? 44 00:03:11,713 --> 00:03:14,368 - I read everything in there, long ago. 45 00:03:14,498 --> 00:03:16,457 Besides, they don't get anything new. 46 00:03:16,587 --> 00:03:19,068 The books are always old 47 00:03:19,199 --> 00:03:21,636 and usually missing a bunch of pages. 48 00:03:21,766 --> 00:03:22,811 - Hmm. 49 00:03:24,769 --> 00:03:25,727 - Where are your kids? 50 00:03:27,294 --> 00:03:29,121 - My kids? - Mm-hmm. 51 00:03:29,252 --> 00:03:30,514 - My kids are older. 52 00:03:30,645 --> 00:03:32,212 - Then how come you're here? 53 00:03:32,341 --> 00:03:34,518 - I came here for a book signing. 54 00:03:36,128 --> 00:03:39,131 That is when um, you meet the author 55 00:03:39,262 --> 00:03:40,742 of a book you like, 56 00:03:40,872 --> 00:03:43,179 and she signs her name in it for you. 57 00:03:43,310 --> 00:03:44,833 - Did you meet her? 58 00:03:44,963 --> 00:03:47,139 - Who? - The author! 59 00:03:47,270 --> 00:03:49,838 Oh... 60 00:03:49,968 --> 00:03:51,796 I'm actually the author. 61 00:03:51,927 --> 00:03:53,581 - You're an author?! 62 00:03:54,582 --> 00:03:56,323 - Oh... 63 00:03:57,541 --> 00:04:01,023 Unless this is someone impersonating me. 64 00:04:03,068 --> 00:04:06,202 - I've never met an author before. 65 00:04:06,333 --> 00:04:07,986 - We're not so special. 66 00:04:08,117 --> 00:04:11,903 I bet I was a lot like you when I was your age. 67 00:04:12,034 --> 00:04:14,515 - You're messin' with me. - No. 68 00:04:15,646 --> 00:04:16,952 No, I promise. 69 00:04:18,910 --> 00:04:20,911 I grew up in Kingston, Jamaica, 70 00:04:21,043 --> 00:04:22,653 and I spent a lot of time alone. 71 00:04:22,784 --> 00:04:25,090 Reading was my escape, just like you. 72 00:04:25,221 --> 00:04:28,398 You see, I was taught by nuns, 73 00:04:28,529 --> 00:04:32,228 who were the final word on, well... everything. 74 00:04:32,359 --> 00:04:34,926 And the meanest of the bunch was Sister Barbara. 75 00:04:35,057 --> 00:04:36,798 Hmm, I was ordered to write, 76 00:04:36,928 --> 00:04:39,714 which I was happy to do. 77 00:04:39,844 --> 00:04:43,065 After all, it was my favorite subject. 78 00:04:43,195 --> 00:04:46,155 She'd always warn me about writing with my left hand. 79 00:04:47,374 --> 00:04:49,811 In those days, there was a saying, 80 00:04:49,941 --> 00:04:52,379 "The right hand is the right hand." 81 00:04:53,815 --> 00:04:56,426 She told me that if I kept this up, 82 00:04:56,557 --> 00:04:58,820 I would never become a writer. 83 00:05:02,476 --> 00:05:04,652 - But you became an author anyway. 84 00:05:05,914 --> 00:05:08,220 - I learned early on, 85 00:05:08,351 --> 00:05:10,788 if I wait for somebody else to believe in me, 86 00:05:10,919 --> 00:05:12,442 I might be waiting forever. 87 00:05:17,752 --> 00:05:19,710 - Hey, Nicki! - Oh! 88 00:05:19,841 --> 00:05:22,060 - I've been looking for you. You ready to go now? 89 00:05:22,191 --> 00:05:25,063 - Yeah. Yeah, um... 90 00:05:25,194 --> 00:05:26,456 Would you just give me a minute? 91 00:05:26,587 --> 00:05:27,805 - Mm-hmm, sure. 92 00:05:32,419 --> 00:05:34,899 - Can I see? - Mm-hmm. 93 00:05:35,030 --> 00:05:36,292 - Hmm. 94 00:05:38,860 --> 00:05:40,252 Is it good? 95 00:05:40,383 --> 00:05:41,819 - It's great. 96 00:05:42,646 --> 00:05:43,865 - Then you should have it. 97 00:05:45,127 --> 00:05:47,521 - I don't have any money. 98 00:05:49,261 --> 00:05:52,221 - Come on. It'll be my treat. 99 00:05:57,661 --> 00:06:00,751 - You think I can be a writer one day? 100 00:06:01,926 --> 00:06:04,189 I mean, you know, if I work real hard? 101 00:06:05,756 --> 00:06:07,062 - No. 102 00:06:14,156 --> 00:06:15,810 I know you can. 103 00:06:44,926 --> 00:06:46,667 - Thank you. 104 00:06:48,451 --> 00:06:50,888 - Whew! I am so tired! 105 00:06:51,019 --> 00:06:53,151 You're tired? 106 00:06:53,282 --> 00:06:55,937 - Yeah! - You slept the whole way home! 107 00:06:56,067 --> 00:06:58,766 - That's the good thing about you driving, I can get my rest! 108 00:07:00,332 --> 00:07:03,553 - Well, you are the celebrity. 109 00:07:03,684 --> 00:07:06,513 - Celebrity. - Mm-hmm. 110 00:07:08,297 --> 00:07:10,168 - I can't get her out of my mind. 111 00:07:10,299 --> 00:07:12,823 - Who? - Keisha... 112 00:07:12,954 --> 00:07:14,695 the little girl I was talking to. 113 00:07:14,825 --> 00:07:16,871 - Oh, she was a cutie. 114 00:07:17,524 --> 00:07:19,134 - She was so... 115 00:07:22,354 --> 00:07:23,965 so inspiring. 116 00:07:26,097 --> 00:07:27,577 - If you say so. 117 00:07:27,707 --> 00:07:29,666 - I have so much on my plate, 118 00:07:29,797 --> 00:07:31,625 I didn't even wanna go to that signing thing. 119 00:07:31,755 --> 00:07:34,323 I know, I remember. 120 00:07:34,454 --> 00:07:35,977 I had to practically drag you there. 121 00:07:36,107 --> 00:07:38,588 - And then, to meet this little girl? 122 00:07:38,719 --> 00:07:40,677 The way she looked at me. 123 00:07:40,808 --> 00:07:42,462 - Come on. 124 00:07:42,592 --> 00:07:44,028 Let's get some sleep in a real bed-- 125 00:07:44,159 --> 00:07:45,987 - This is the start of something, Nene. 126 00:07:46,117 --> 00:07:47,510 I-I can feel it. 127 00:07:47,641 --> 00:07:50,644 I haven't felt this energized in a long time. 128 00:07:50,774 --> 00:07:52,733 - Another book? 129 00:07:52,863 --> 00:07:56,127 - No. Something new. 130 00:07:56,258 --> 00:07:58,826 Something different. I-I don't know what yet. 131 00:08:01,219 --> 00:08:04,222 I appreciate you comin' with me. You know that? 132 00:08:04,353 --> 00:08:07,356 - Are you kidding? It's an honor. 133 00:08:07,487 --> 00:08:10,490 I am so proud of you. 134 00:08:10,620 --> 00:08:14,276 Your daughters are so proud of you. 135 00:08:15,451 --> 00:08:17,018 Mama would've been proud of you, too. 136 00:08:17,148 --> 00:08:18,410 Hmm. 137 00:08:18,541 --> 00:08:20,282 She would've. 138 00:08:20,412 --> 00:08:23,677 Lord knows she had her problems, 139 00:08:23,807 --> 00:08:26,941 but deep down, she always knew. 140 00:08:27,681 --> 00:08:28,812 - Knew what? 141 00:08:29,944 --> 00:08:33,034 - That you would be a great writer. 142 00:08:39,213 --> 00:08:41,433 - I couldn't stop thinking about Keisha. 143 00:08:41,563 --> 00:08:45,350 We always talk about saving girls like her, 144 00:08:45,481 --> 00:08:49,398 but the truth is, she's the one that saved me. 145 00:08:49,529 --> 00:08:53,968 Two weeks later, I reached out to Phyllis Grantham, 146 00:08:54,098 --> 00:08:56,971 the director of a community center in Charleston. 147 00:08:57,101 --> 00:08:58,755 Hi, Miss Phyllis! 148 00:08:58,886 --> 00:09:00,844 Thank you for taking the time to speak with me. 149 00:09:00,975 --> 00:09:02,019 - It's my pleasure. 150 00:09:02,150 --> 00:09:03,717 When I got your email 151 00:09:03,847 --> 00:09:04,848 about what you were thinking about, 152 00:09:04,979 --> 00:09:07,068 I knew I wanted to get involved. 153 00:09:07,198 --> 00:09:11,376 - Well, um, like I said in that email, 154 00:09:11,507 --> 00:09:13,727 I haven't been able to stop thinking about that little girl 155 00:09:13,857 --> 00:09:15,598 I met at the book signing, Keisha. 156 00:09:15,729 --> 00:09:17,208 - I actually spoke with the principal 157 00:09:17,339 --> 00:09:18,949 at her elementary school. 158 00:09:19,080 --> 00:09:21,212 Apparently, she's quite a special student. 159 00:09:21,996 --> 00:09:23,301 - I could tell. 160 00:09:23,432 --> 00:09:25,347 - It's a shame, though. 161 00:09:25,477 --> 00:09:26,827 She's got it tough at home. 162 00:09:26,957 --> 00:09:29,569 Mother's out of work, father's long gone. 163 00:09:29,699 --> 00:09:31,658 - That's why this is so important. 164 00:09:33,834 --> 00:09:35,879 We can't lose that baby girl. 165 00:09:36,967 --> 00:09:39,230 She has to know that she matters. 166 00:09:39,361 --> 00:09:41,276 - So, why don't you tell me what you're thinking about. 167 00:09:42,233 --> 00:09:45,019 - Well... to be honest, 168 00:09:45,149 --> 00:09:46,716 I'm not exactly sure. 169 00:09:46,847 --> 00:09:50,241 What I do know is that I wanted to create an event 170 00:09:50,372 --> 00:09:52,504 to reach other young girls, 171 00:09:52,635 --> 00:09:55,464 um... at-risk girls, 172 00:09:55,595 --> 00:09:57,814 to make them feel special. 173 00:09:57,945 --> 00:10:00,904 - So, like a book club for young girls. 174 00:10:01,035 --> 00:10:02,950 - Uh, that could be part of it. 175 00:10:03,080 --> 00:10:04,604 Maybe. 176 00:10:06,736 --> 00:10:08,695 But I was thinking something bigger. 177 00:10:10,261 --> 00:10:12,394 Much bigger. 178 00:10:12,524 --> 00:10:15,266 - Well, whatever it is, we wanna be a part of it. 179 00:10:15,397 --> 00:10:18,879 We don't get very many people excited about these girls. 180 00:10:19,009 --> 00:10:21,098 And you can use this space, of course. 181 00:10:21,229 --> 00:10:23,448 And I know the high school wants to get involved. 182 00:10:23,579 --> 00:10:25,712 I spoke with the principal over there, Mr. Flynn, 183 00:10:25,842 --> 00:10:27,322 he's really excited. 184 00:10:27,452 --> 00:10:29,890 - Thank you so much, Miss Phyllis. 185 00:10:30,020 --> 00:10:31,543 - Just to be clear, 186 00:10:31,674 --> 00:10:34,155 you have done something like this before, right? 187 00:10:36,592 --> 00:10:38,725 - Not even close. 188 00:10:45,122 --> 00:10:46,167 Nene! 189 00:10:47,777 --> 00:10:49,518 - You taking a break from all of this? 190 00:10:51,825 --> 00:10:54,349 - But I have good news. They liked it. 191 00:10:54,479 --> 00:10:56,830 - Who? - The people from Charleston. 192 00:10:56,960 --> 00:10:58,745 They liked the idea. - Oh. 193 00:10:58,875 --> 00:11:00,311 - I've been thinking about this nonstop. 194 00:11:00,442 --> 00:11:02,357 - Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. - Obviously. 195 00:11:04,098 --> 00:11:06,361 We know what we want to do, 196 00:11:06,491 --> 00:11:10,191 reach at-risk girls and inspire them. 197 00:11:10,321 --> 00:11:12,715 But how to do it, that's the question. 198 00:11:12,846 --> 00:11:14,543 - Okay. 199 00:11:14,674 --> 00:11:17,154 Okay. 200 00:11:17,285 --> 00:11:18,939 So, it-it occurred to me... 201 00:11:21,289 --> 00:11:22,812 why reinvent the wheel? 202 00:11:22,943 --> 00:11:25,293 Why don't we do what we already know works? 203 00:11:25,423 --> 00:11:27,034 - Sure. What is that? 204 00:11:28,688 --> 00:11:30,124 - What do you always say I'm best at? 205 00:11:30,254 --> 00:11:33,040 - Writing. - Well... 206 00:11:33,170 --> 00:11:35,869 there are a lot of wonderful writers. 207 00:11:35,999 --> 00:11:38,872 What do you always say I do better than anybody else? 208 00:11:40,134 --> 00:11:41,744 - Book launches. 209 00:11:41,875 --> 00:11:43,485 Promoting it and promoting the authors. 210 00:11:43,615 --> 00:11:46,183 - Exactly. A book launch. 211 00:11:46,314 --> 00:11:48,925 We use the format of our launches, 212 00:11:49,056 --> 00:11:52,320 but instead of a single book, we do an entire event. 213 00:11:52,450 --> 00:11:53,974 - What kind of event? 214 00:11:55,410 --> 00:11:57,847 - Instead of authors, we'll bring in speakers 215 00:11:57,978 --> 00:12:01,198 to talk about the issues that our girls care about, 216 00:12:01,329 --> 00:12:04,767 um... education, self-esteem, 217 00:12:04,898 --> 00:12:08,815 issues at home, drug abuse, nutrition. 218 00:12:08,945 --> 00:12:10,817 - Okay, no offense, Nicki, but you can't lecture 219 00:12:10,947 --> 00:12:13,254 at these girls. You're gonna bore them to death. 220 00:12:14,342 --> 00:12:16,561 - Yep. Lame-o. - Oh. 221 00:12:16,692 --> 00:12:18,215 - Hey, Sleepyhead. - Morning. 222 00:12:18,346 --> 00:12:19,956 Morning Tete. 223 00:12:20,087 --> 00:12:22,132 - Oh, morning, Diamond. Mm! 224 00:12:25,657 --> 00:12:27,703 - Diamond, don't you have guest speakers at school? 225 00:12:27,834 --> 00:12:29,749 - Mm, yeah. So? 226 00:12:30,706 --> 00:12:33,448 - Um, don't you find anything 227 00:12:33,578 --> 00:12:35,015 that they have to say interesting? 228 00:12:35,145 --> 00:12:37,931 - Hmm. I dunno. 229 00:12:38,061 --> 00:12:39,497 I listen to music while they're talking, 230 00:12:39,628 --> 00:12:42,370 Diamond, seriously? 231 00:12:44,589 --> 00:12:47,462 Well... what could they talk about 232 00:12:47,592 --> 00:12:49,638 that would be of interest to you? 233 00:12:51,161 --> 00:12:53,207 - Clothes! - Mm-mm. 234 00:12:53,337 --> 00:12:56,384 The purpose of this is to make these girls feel seen. 235 00:12:56,514 --> 00:12:58,125 It's not a fashion show. 236 00:13:01,781 --> 00:13:02,999 - But why couldn't they dress up? 237 00:13:03,130 --> 00:13:04,348 - Mm-hmm! 238 00:13:06,220 --> 00:13:08,309 - I mean, why couldn't we help them with their makeup? 239 00:13:08,439 --> 00:13:10,093 There's nothing frivolous about that. 240 00:13:10,224 --> 00:13:12,400 - Yeah, when you look good, you feel good. 241 00:13:12,530 --> 00:13:16,404 - Exactly. Our girls deserve to love on themselves. 242 00:13:16,534 --> 00:13:19,276 For one day, they'll know they're something special. 243 00:13:19,407 --> 00:13:21,801 - But just for one day. 244 00:13:21,931 --> 00:13:23,933 Then they go back to their lives. 245 00:13:24,064 --> 00:13:26,109 What impact can we really have? 246 00:13:26,240 --> 00:13:27,154 - You're right. 247 00:13:28,633 --> 00:13:31,288 But if they know we believe in them, 248 00:13:31,419 --> 00:13:33,334 they'll believe in themselves. 249 00:13:34,726 --> 00:13:37,077 And there's nothing more powerful than that. 250 00:13:42,473 --> 00:13:44,171 Junior high school in Las Vegas 251 00:13:44,301 --> 00:13:46,782 was a lot different than Jamaica. 252 00:13:46,913 --> 00:13:49,219 But some things never change. 253 00:13:49,350 --> 00:13:52,179 There's always people trying to keep you down. 254 00:13:52,309 --> 00:13:55,095 - Hey, weirdo! Where're you goin'? 255 00:13:56,052 --> 00:13:58,011 - Home. - Home? 256 00:13:58,141 --> 00:14:00,404 Oh, you mean... 257 00:14:00,535 --> 00:14:02,276 Back to Jamaica? 258 00:14:05,235 --> 00:14:06,846 - This kind of bullying was happening every day. 259 00:14:06,976 --> 00:14:08,848 - Hey, I'm talking to you. 260 00:14:09,979 --> 00:14:11,154 - Please just leave me alone. 261 00:14:11,285 --> 00:14:12,634 - P-p-please just leave me... 262 00:14:12,764 --> 00:14:14,462 How come you talk so funny? 263 00:14:14,592 --> 00:14:16,594 That how everyone in Jamaica talks, or are you just dumb? 264 00:14:16,725 --> 00:14:18,118 And if you're so dumb, how come you're already 265 00:14:18,248 --> 00:14:19,684 the teacher's pet? 266 00:14:19,815 --> 00:14:22,339 - I just wanna go 'ome. - And I just want an answer! 267 00:14:22,470 --> 00:14:24,646 - I had finally had enough. 268 00:14:24,776 --> 00:14:27,605 Touch me again and you'll be going home in an ambulance. 269 00:14:27,736 --> 00:14:28,955 - Hey, calm down, I was just jokin' around. 270 00:14:29,085 --> 00:14:31,218 - You even look at me, 271 00:14:31,348 --> 00:14:33,176 I'll show you how we do things in Jamaica. 272 00:14:36,049 --> 00:14:38,181 The funny thing is, he was right. 273 00:14:38,312 --> 00:14:40,009 Miss Davis did like me. 274 00:14:40,140 --> 00:14:43,360 She believed in me, and that gave me strength. 275 00:14:47,277 --> 00:14:49,105 - Great story, Mama. 276 00:14:49,236 --> 00:14:52,500 - It lets you know you need to stick up for yourself. 277 00:14:52,630 --> 00:14:54,284 - No, it lets me know 278 00:14:54,415 --> 00:14:56,896 that you were a little weirdo growing up. 279 00:14:57,026 --> 00:14:58,114 Hey! 280 00:15:00,987 --> 00:15:03,337 - Now we have to come up with the most important part. 281 00:15:04,468 --> 00:15:06,253 - How to pay for all of this. - Yes. 282 00:15:06,383 --> 00:15:09,343 - Where to find time to do it. - No! 283 00:15:10,474 --> 00:15:11,954 A name. 284 00:15:12,085 --> 00:15:13,564 - A name? 285 00:15:13,695 --> 00:15:15,131 - Has to be something catchy, 286 00:15:15,262 --> 00:15:17,133 something people remember, 287 00:15:17,264 --> 00:15:19,135 something our girls even want to be a part of. 288 00:15:19,266 --> 00:15:20,354 - Nicki's girls. 289 00:15:24,358 --> 00:15:26,099 The light that guides? 290 00:15:26,838 --> 00:15:28,449 - That sounds creepy. 291 00:15:28,579 --> 00:15:29,624 - Uh-huh. 292 00:15:31,321 --> 00:15:32,888 - How about 293 00:15:33,019 --> 00:15:36,239 "Helping Girls Reach Their Full Potential"? 294 00:15:36,370 --> 00:15:38,198 Uh...'kay. 295 00:15:40,635 --> 00:15:42,463 - I'm sorry, I don't know where that came from. 296 00:15:45,118 --> 00:15:46,162 - Diamond! 297 00:15:47,642 --> 00:15:49,731 - What about that program that you were a part of years ago? 298 00:15:49,861 --> 00:15:51,428 - Upward Bound. 299 00:15:51,559 --> 00:15:53,909 - Ah... now that is a good name. 300 00:15:54,040 --> 00:15:55,693 - Too bad that one's already taken. 301 00:15:55,824 --> 00:15:57,652 - Yeah. - Can we take a break? 302 00:15:57,782 --> 00:15:58,827 I'm hungry. 303 00:15:58,958 --> 00:16:00,220 - Yeah, you want some lunch, baby? 304 00:16:00,350 --> 00:16:01,656 - Lunch? I just woke up! 305 00:16:02,744 --> 00:16:05,181 - Brunch, then. - Brunch! 306 00:16:11,318 --> 00:16:12,797 - That's it. 307 00:16:13,973 --> 00:16:14,930 - What's it? 308 00:16:17,324 --> 00:16:18,499 - Brunch. 309 00:16:23,417 --> 00:16:25,419 "Girls Who Brunch". 310 00:16:25,549 --> 00:16:27,464 - Now, that's not bad. 311 00:16:27,595 --> 00:16:29,292 - Yeah, I've heard worse. 312 00:16:30,206 --> 00:16:32,252 - Girls Who Brunch. 313 00:16:32,382 --> 00:16:33,949 - Girls Who Brunch. 314 00:16:34,080 --> 00:16:36,082 - Girls Who Brunch. I like it. 315 00:16:36,212 --> 00:16:37,692 - Girls Who Brunch. 316 00:16:39,259 --> 00:16:40,129 Yeah. 317 00:16:42,479 --> 00:16:44,568 What you want? Eggs? Okay. 318 00:16:44,699 --> 00:16:46,788 - Pancakes. Mmm! 319 00:16:46,918 --> 00:16:48,529 - Lemme see what I got. 320 00:16:48,659 --> 00:16:50,357 - No, seriously, pancakes. 321 00:16:57,451 --> 00:16:59,322 - I had the idea, 322 00:16:59,453 --> 00:17:02,325 and now I had the name. 323 00:17:02,456 --> 00:17:04,762 That left one big problem: 324 00:17:04,893 --> 00:17:06,895 how to get the word out. 325 00:17:07,026 --> 00:17:09,506 Luckily, thanks to my background in publishing, 326 00:17:09,637 --> 00:17:12,509 I knew exactly what I had to do. 327 00:17:12,640 --> 00:17:15,991 I bought royalty-free photos of African American girls 328 00:17:16,122 --> 00:17:18,950 doing all sorts of fun things. 329 00:17:19,080 --> 00:17:22,214 Then, I plastered them all over social media, 330 00:17:22,345 --> 00:17:24,955 and I marketed the hell out of it. 331 00:17:25,087 --> 00:17:27,742 I started reaching out to inspiring women 332 00:17:27,872 --> 00:17:30,484 and local leaders to mentor girls 333 00:17:30,614 --> 00:17:34,096 and encourage them to dream bigger than their circumstances. 334 00:17:35,402 --> 00:17:37,621 I kept calling this a red carpet event, 335 00:17:37,752 --> 00:17:40,015 because I wanted the girls to feel special. 336 00:17:41,843 --> 00:17:44,585 So, we put together some swag, 337 00:17:44,715 --> 00:17:47,979 and we did our best to give them some things they might want... 338 00:17:48,110 --> 00:17:50,721 and need, because they deserved it. 339 00:17:54,943 --> 00:17:58,860 Before I knew it, I was back in Charleston. 340 00:17:59,730 --> 00:18:01,776 The moment of truth was upon us. 341 00:18:05,693 --> 00:18:09,566 - What's wrong, Mama? - Nothing. Really! 342 00:18:09,697 --> 00:18:10,915 - Hey, tell me. 343 00:18:14,571 --> 00:18:18,836 - Phyllis spoke to all those people, 344 00:18:18,967 --> 00:18:22,057 the doctors, the lawyers, businessmen. 345 00:18:22,188 --> 00:18:23,580 - I remember you telling me. 346 00:18:23,711 --> 00:18:26,235 - Yeah, uh, they each pledged 347 00:18:26,366 --> 00:18:28,368 to give money for this event. 348 00:18:28,498 --> 00:18:31,066 - Mm-hmm. That's great. 349 00:18:31,197 --> 00:18:32,241 - It is. 350 00:18:33,373 --> 00:18:35,897 The problem is... 351 00:18:36,027 --> 00:18:38,378 I fronted the money for all of this. 352 00:18:40,597 --> 00:18:42,121 - They didn't donate ahead of time. 353 00:18:44,340 --> 00:18:46,168 - And it was a lot more than I thought. 354 00:18:50,129 --> 00:18:51,565 - Hey, 355 00:18:51,695 --> 00:18:53,871 we will be okay, Mama. 356 00:18:54,002 --> 00:18:55,438 Once this takes off... 357 00:18:57,658 --> 00:18:59,007 we'll be okay. 358 00:19:06,319 --> 00:19:07,233 - Here. 359 00:19:07,363 --> 00:19:09,496 Everyone was asleep, 360 00:19:09,626 --> 00:19:11,498 but I still had work to do. 361 00:19:12,542 --> 00:19:15,066 If we were calling this a red carpet event, 362 00:19:15,197 --> 00:19:18,244 the gift bags had to be something special. 363 00:19:18,374 --> 00:19:20,681 So, there was some last-minute shopping. 364 00:19:20,811 --> 00:19:22,639 I hate you! 365 00:19:22,770 --> 00:19:24,380 I hate you! 366 00:19:26,643 --> 00:19:28,863 - Excuse me, are you okay? 367 00:19:37,872 --> 00:19:39,308 Who was that? 368 00:19:39,439 --> 00:19:41,049 - No one. 369 00:19:42,485 --> 00:19:43,878 My boyfriend. 370 00:19:44,008 --> 00:19:45,706 Ex-boyfriend. 371 00:19:48,404 --> 00:19:49,710 - Did he hurt you? 372 00:19:50,537 --> 00:19:52,191 - Nah. 373 00:19:52,321 --> 00:19:54,062 Just yelled at me. 374 00:19:54,193 --> 00:19:55,890 That's what he does. 375 00:19:57,065 --> 00:19:58,545 - I'm sorry. 376 00:20:04,290 --> 00:20:06,205 - Left me stranded here. 377 00:20:09,469 --> 00:20:10,905 - You wanna call your mother? 378 00:20:15,344 --> 00:20:17,912 Uh, your brother or your sister? 379 00:20:20,828 --> 00:20:22,003 You wanna call a cab? 380 00:20:22,133 --> 00:20:23,831 - I don't got no money. 381 00:20:26,050 --> 00:20:27,226 - Come. 382 00:20:27,965 --> 00:20:29,402 - Where? 383 00:20:30,664 --> 00:20:32,100 - I'll take you home. 384 00:20:33,580 --> 00:20:36,583 - Yeah, what's the catch? - Catch? 385 00:20:36,713 --> 00:20:38,237 - Yeah, what do you want from me? 386 00:20:39,412 --> 00:20:41,327 - Nothin'. 387 00:20:41,457 --> 00:20:42,676 Nothin' at all. 388 00:20:45,113 --> 00:20:47,376 I just wanna make sure you get home safe. 389 00:20:52,076 --> 00:20:53,121 Actually... 390 00:20:57,517 --> 00:20:59,258 What are you doing tomorrow? 391 00:21:04,437 --> 00:21:06,656 I didn't get much sleep that night. 392 00:21:06,787 --> 00:21:09,224 Or I should say, I got less than usual. 393 00:21:20,801 --> 00:21:21,976 This was it. 394 00:21:22,106 --> 00:21:24,065 Both the culmination of my plans 395 00:21:24,195 --> 00:21:26,328 and the very beginning. 396 00:21:26,459 --> 00:21:29,288 I didn't know if I would succeed or fail. 397 00:21:29,418 --> 00:21:31,594 But I knew, from this point on, 398 00:21:31,725 --> 00:21:33,030 there was no turning back. 399 00:22:03,496 --> 00:22:06,499 Come on! Keep giving Aisha a big hand! 400 00:22:09,893 --> 00:22:12,331 All right, ladies, if I could get your attention, 401 00:22:12,461 --> 00:22:15,029 just for a moment, please. 402 00:22:15,899 --> 00:22:18,467 I want to thank you all 403 00:22:18,598 --> 00:22:22,428 for coming to the very first 404 00:22:22,558 --> 00:22:24,952 Girls Who Brunch event! 405 00:22:31,698 --> 00:22:35,441 Now, we are going to have a lot of fun today. 406 00:22:35,571 --> 00:22:36,877 Do you know why? 407 00:22:37,007 --> 00:22:37,965 - Why? 408 00:22:39,183 --> 00:22:41,011 - Because... 409 00:22:41,142 --> 00:22:45,451 you, you, you, all of you, 410 00:22:45,581 --> 00:22:47,148 you deserve it. 411 00:22:47,278 --> 00:22:49,498 That's right! 412 00:22:49,629 --> 00:22:51,239 - You hear me? 413 00:22:54,851 --> 00:22:57,550 So, continue to have fun. 414 00:22:57,680 --> 00:23:00,553 I want you all to make new friends. 415 00:23:00,683 --> 00:23:02,903 And I want y'all to take some time 416 00:23:03,033 --> 00:23:05,122 to talk to our special guests, 417 00:23:05,253 --> 00:23:09,039 inspiring women, who started out just like you. 418 00:23:09,170 --> 00:23:13,304 Now, when you came in, you were given a bag. 419 00:23:13,435 --> 00:23:15,611 It's got plenty of goodies in it. 420 00:23:15,742 --> 00:23:18,832 But guess what? You will have more opportunities 421 00:23:18,962 --> 00:23:20,660 to win more prizes! 422 00:23:20,790 --> 00:23:22,183 - Oh! 423 00:23:22,313 --> 00:23:23,619 - That's right! 424 00:23:25,491 --> 00:23:26,840 If... 425 00:23:26,970 --> 00:23:29,799 you're willing to dance! 426 00:23:35,892 --> 00:23:37,677 DJ! 427 00:23:39,287 --> 00:23:41,202 ♪ How many of you believe your dreams are real ♪ 428 00:23:41,332 --> 00:23:43,639 ♪ How many times have you been misled the way you feel ♪ 429 00:23:43,770 --> 00:23:46,250 ♪ I'm speaking from a place I'm amazed from a stand point ♪ 430 00:23:46,381 --> 00:23:48,992 ♪ How do you feel knowing my place is in plan, boy ♪ 431 00:23:49,123 --> 00:23:51,212 ♪ Stand with me, I don't plan to be decieved... ♪ 432 00:23:51,342 --> 00:23:52,779 It was clear that the girls 433 00:23:52,909 --> 00:23:55,999 all had a ton of fun. 434 00:23:56,130 --> 00:23:58,741 But it was also the start of something bigger. 435 00:23:58,872 --> 00:24:02,919 We were empowering these girls to believe in themselves. 436 00:24:03,050 --> 00:24:04,834 To believe that they could do anything. 437 00:24:04,965 --> 00:24:06,227 ♪ I make dreams turn to moments ♪ 438 00:24:06,357 --> 00:24:08,185 ♪ And we turn to leaders 439 00:24:08,316 --> 00:24:10,536 ♪ To free us from opponents I hold us to a higher measure ♪ 440 00:24:10,666 --> 00:24:12,755 ♪ Defy pressure The five single format's alive ♪ 441 00:24:12,886 --> 00:24:14,627 ♪ It's my pleasure, yes 442 00:24:14,757 --> 00:24:16,977 ♪ It takes real talent to say this ♪ 443 00:24:17,107 --> 00:24:19,370 ♪ So make room on your playlist ♪ 444 00:24:19,501 --> 00:24:22,330 ♪ We get it in that we're positively dope ♪ 445 00:24:22,461 --> 00:24:24,201 ♪ But we still have far to go 446 00:24:24,332 --> 00:24:27,030 ♪ Remember when we were lost and often broke ♪ 447 00:24:27,161 --> 00:24:28,771 ♪ But we still have far to go 448 00:24:28,902 --> 00:24:30,120 I'll be right back. 449 00:24:31,948 --> 00:24:33,472 You came! 450 00:24:35,735 --> 00:24:37,258 Come on! 451 00:24:39,956 --> 00:24:42,437 - Uh... I don't think I should be here. 452 00:24:43,482 --> 00:24:44,439 - Why not? 453 00:24:49,400 --> 00:24:51,011 I want you to meet someone. 454 00:24:51,141 --> 00:24:52,447 Diamond! 455 00:24:52,578 --> 00:24:54,493 - I'll talk to you later. 456 00:24:55,494 --> 00:24:57,234 - This is my daughter, Diamond. 457 00:24:57,365 --> 00:24:58,975 - Oh, hey! - Hi. 458 00:24:59,106 --> 00:25:00,760 - It's nice to meet you. 459 00:25:02,413 --> 00:25:03,806 - Diamond, this is Shana. 460 00:25:03,937 --> 00:25:06,330 We met last night at the store. 461 00:25:08,028 --> 00:25:11,335 Why don't you get her a bag and something to eat? 462 00:25:11,466 --> 00:25:13,163 - Okay. - Oh, uh... 463 00:25:13,294 --> 00:25:14,687 I don't have any money. 464 00:25:14,817 --> 00:25:15,818 - Do you have an appetite? 465 00:25:17,167 --> 00:25:18,168 Well, that's all you need! 466 00:25:19,996 --> 00:25:20,780 - Come on! 467 00:25:26,394 --> 00:25:28,178 - So, what do you think? 468 00:25:28,309 --> 00:25:30,267 - I think it's a start! 469 00:25:30,398 --> 00:25:32,008 - Well, for you, maybe, 470 00:25:32,139 --> 00:25:34,707 but for these girls, it's everything. 471 00:25:34,837 --> 00:25:37,187 These girls may lack a lot of things, 472 00:25:37,318 --> 00:25:39,189 but the most tragic is hope, 473 00:25:39,320 --> 00:25:41,670 and you gave that to them today. 474 00:25:41,801 --> 00:25:43,759 You made them feel special. 475 00:25:43,890 --> 00:25:45,065 - Good. 476 00:25:46,283 --> 00:25:47,850 I want you to know, 477 00:25:47,981 --> 00:25:51,637 if these girls or their mothers 478 00:25:51,767 --> 00:25:53,334 need to talk to me, 479 00:25:53,464 --> 00:25:56,424 need my support, I'm here for them. 480 00:25:56,555 --> 00:25:59,470 - Ni'Cola, that's a very generous offer, 481 00:25:59,601 --> 00:26:02,082 but there's a lot of girls in here today. 482 00:26:02,212 --> 00:26:04,693 And I'm sure all of them 483 00:26:04,824 --> 00:26:06,260 would like to talk to you. 484 00:26:06,390 --> 00:26:07,827 - Well then, I'll talk to all of them. 485 00:26:08,871 --> 00:26:10,177 - It's just not practical. 486 00:26:12,440 --> 00:26:13,920 - You said I gave them hope, right? 487 00:26:14,050 --> 00:26:15,356 - More than they ever had. 488 00:26:16,139 --> 00:26:17,750 - I won't desert them. 489 00:26:18,664 --> 00:26:20,317 I'm not gonna give them hope 490 00:26:20,448 --> 00:26:22,102 and then just walk away. 491 00:26:23,494 --> 00:26:26,236 If they need me, they can reach me. 492 00:26:28,412 --> 00:26:30,023 - God bless you. 493 00:26:31,851 --> 00:26:34,767 - But there's one more thing I need from you. 494 00:26:36,377 --> 00:26:38,640 For this to work, 495 00:26:38,771 --> 00:26:41,991 Girls Who Brunch can't be a single event. 496 00:26:42,122 --> 00:26:45,168 The spirit of the event has to live on. 497 00:26:45,299 --> 00:26:47,562 - Well, how do we do that, without you, I mean? 498 00:26:47,693 --> 00:26:48,998 - In every city, 499 00:26:49,129 --> 00:26:51,305 following a Girls Who Brunch event, 500 00:26:51,435 --> 00:26:53,263 we need volunteers, right? 501 00:26:53,394 --> 00:26:55,091 Teachers, coaches, 502 00:26:55,222 --> 00:26:57,441 community leaders like yourself, 503 00:26:57,572 --> 00:26:59,487 to hold smaller events. 504 00:26:59,618 --> 00:27:02,490 - I mean, I'd do it, absolutely, but... 505 00:27:02,621 --> 00:27:04,100 I don't know if we have the resources. 506 00:27:04,231 --> 00:27:05,580 - We don't need much! 507 00:27:05,711 --> 00:27:09,105 Remember, these are just the smaller events. 508 00:27:09,236 --> 00:27:11,542 Speakers could talk about... 509 00:27:11,673 --> 00:27:13,414 bullying, right? 510 00:27:13,544 --> 00:27:16,025 Financial literacy, 511 00:27:16,156 --> 00:27:17,505 self-esteem. 512 00:27:17,636 --> 00:27:20,639 The key is to keep these girls engaged. 513 00:27:21,640 --> 00:27:23,816 We need to make them feel safe. 514 00:27:23,946 --> 00:27:26,296 We need to make them feel special. 515 00:27:26,427 --> 00:27:29,212 - Well, at least for Charleston, 516 00:27:29,343 --> 00:27:30,561 you can count on me. 517 00:27:30,692 --> 00:27:32,825 - Oh, Phyllis! 518 00:28:01,549 --> 00:28:04,421 - So, you glad you came? 519 00:28:04,552 --> 00:28:06,554 - I am. Thank you. 520 00:28:12,386 --> 00:28:15,215 - Shana, what is it? 521 00:28:20,699 --> 00:28:22,222 You can tell me. 522 00:28:25,138 --> 00:28:27,227 - Today was great. 523 00:28:27,357 --> 00:28:31,405 And I do appreciate it. But uh... 524 00:28:32,885 --> 00:28:33,842 - But? 525 00:28:36,192 --> 00:28:39,413 - But... after this, I still go home. 526 00:28:40,501 --> 00:28:42,068 And you know what that means? 527 00:28:45,636 --> 00:28:47,160 Means I have to make sure my mom isn't too hungover 528 00:28:47,290 --> 00:28:48,596 to go to work. 529 00:28:50,032 --> 00:28:51,817 Means I have to make sure I'm quiet, 530 00:28:51,947 --> 00:28:53,819 so I don't wake her up boyfriend and get the belt. 531 00:29:02,479 --> 00:29:04,220 - I'm sorry. 532 00:29:05,439 --> 00:29:07,441 I didn't know. 533 00:29:07,571 --> 00:29:08,747 - How could you? 534 00:29:10,009 --> 00:29:11,924 You're a famous writer. 535 00:29:13,055 --> 00:29:16,450 - Hmm. Shana, trust me... 536 00:29:18,974 --> 00:29:21,281 I'm a lot more like you than you think. 537 00:29:23,109 --> 00:29:24,240 - How do you mean? 538 00:29:34,555 --> 00:29:36,426 - When I was your age, 539 00:29:36,557 --> 00:29:38,907 Saving Grace Methodist Church 540 00:29:39,038 --> 00:29:42,128 was right down the street from my house. 541 00:29:42,258 --> 00:29:44,173 It became my refuge 542 00:29:44,304 --> 00:29:46,915 when I needed to escape things at home. 543 00:29:47,046 --> 00:29:49,352 I was in the choir. Mmm... 544 00:29:49,483 --> 00:29:51,224 I loved it. 545 00:29:51,354 --> 00:29:54,183 Singing, performing, 546 00:29:54,314 --> 00:29:56,795 it was right up my alley. 547 00:29:56,925 --> 00:30:01,538 And then, we got a new choir director, Marc. 548 00:30:17,293 --> 00:30:18,817 - Ni'Cola. 549 00:30:20,166 --> 00:30:21,384 You're a very pretty girl. 550 00:30:21,515 --> 00:30:23,169 - Oh, I am... 551 00:30:23,299 --> 00:30:24,692 I just came to church. 552 00:30:25,780 --> 00:30:28,000 I can see that. 553 00:30:31,264 --> 00:30:32,743 Come on in. 554 00:30:35,529 --> 00:30:38,837 Come on. Let's go. 555 00:30:49,848 --> 00:30:50,979 You know that, don't you? 556 00:30:52,459 --> 00:30:54,287 I think you do. 557 00:30:54,417 --> 00:30:55,854 But you're a good girl. 558 00:30:57,290 --> 00:31:00,032 So, you know the Lord considers pride a sin. 559 00:31:01,555 --> 00:31:04,819 I... really have to g-go. 560 00:31:04,950 --> 00:31:07,735 - Don't worry. It's our little secret. 561 00:31:08,779 --> 00:31:10,738 - Please, don't! 562 00:31:31,890 --> 00:31:35,371 Sometimes when the people we trust hurt us, 563 00:31:35,502 --> 00:31:37,678 we repeat the pattern, 564 00:31:37,808 --> 00:31:39,419 choosing people who are wrong for us 565 00:31:39,549 --> 00:31:41,725 and treat us badly. 566 00:31:41,856 --> 00:31:44,380 We think it's what we deserve. 567 00:31:44,511 --> 00:31:46,078 But we deserve better. 568 00:31:48,819 --> 00:31:50,473 - Huh. 569 00:31:50,604 --> 00:31:53,259 I'm... I'm so sorry. 570 00:31:55,304 --> 00:31:56,610 - Don't be sorry. 571 00:31:57,741 --> 00:31:59,091 Come here. 572 00:32:01,397 --> 00:32:03,269 No matter what happens, 573 00:32:05,053 --> 00:32:10,102 never let anybody make you feel bad about yourself. 574 00:32:11,320 --> 00:32:12,408 Ever. 575 00:32:14,062 --> 00:32:16,630 Baby girl, you are so special. 576 00:32:18,632 --> 00:32:19,981 You understand? 577 00:32:24,768 --> 00:32:26,553 There was no doubt about it, 578 00:32:26,683 --> 00:32:29,295 the event was a success. 579 00:32:29,425 --> 00:32:32,211 And although I knew we had plenty of hard work ahead, 580 00:32:32,341 --> 00:32:35,823 tonight, mm-hmm! Tonight was for celebrating. 581 00:32:37,259 --> 00:32:38,739 Oh! 582 00:32:38,869 --> 00:32:40,349 Here you go. 583 00:32:40,480 --> 00:32:43,222 - What's this? - Champagne. 584 00:32:43,352 --> 00:32:44,353 For me? 585 00:32:44,484 --> 00:32:46,094 - Mm... sparkling apple juice. 586 00:32:47,139 --> 00:32:47,966 - Wait. 587 00:32:50,229 --> 00:32:51,317 To you, Mama. 588 00:32:53,536 --> 00:32:54,842 - To us. 589 00:32:55,930 --> 00:32:57,932 To Girls Who Brunch! 590 00:32:58,063 --> 00:33:00,674 Ah! 591 00:33:01,849 --> 00:33:03,155 Hmm. 592 00:33:05,766 --> 00:33:07,115 Okay. 593 00:33:07,246 --> 00:33:08,551 Give it to me straight. 594 00:33:08,682 --> 00:33:10,989 What could we have done better? 595 00:33:11,728 --> 00:33:13,252 - Are you playin', Mama? 596 00:33:13,382 --> 00:33:16,472 It was amazing! Everybody says so! 597 00:33:16,603 --> 00:33:20,955 - If we rest on our laurels, Diamond, we will never grow. 598 00:33:21,086 --> 00:33:23,958 - How about we rest on our bottoms just for tonight? 599 00:33:26,482 --> 00:33:27,744 They loved the linen napkins. 600 00:33:27,875 --> 00:33:30,095 - Hmm! - It made it all so bougie. 601 00:33:30,225 --> 00:33:32,880 And everyone kept going on about the food. 602 00:33:34,621 --> 00:33:35,926 - I was spending so much time talking to the girls, you know, 603 00:33:36,057 --> 00:33:37,232 I didn't eat anything. 604 00:33:37,363 --> 00:33:38,842 - Your loss. I'm telling you, 605 00:33:38,973 --> 00:33:41,019 that fried chicken they had... 606 00:33:41,149 --> 00:33:42,585 gives yours a run for its money. 607 00:33:42,716 --> 00:33:45,110 Watch your mouth. 608 00:33:45,240 --> 00:33:48,504 And everyone was dancing. 609 00:33:48,635 --> 00:33:50,941 - The music, right? - Mm-hmm! 610 00:33:51,072 --> 00:33:53,857 - It gave it a vibe! - Definitely. 611 00:33:53,988 --> 00:33:57,078 - I bet we could get musicians to volunteer. 612 00:33:57,209 --> 00:33:58,645 - Professionals? 613 00:33:58,775 --> 00:34:02,518 - No, no, just girls who perform their own music, 614 00:34:02,649 --> 00:34:04,564 in the spirit of the event. 615 00:34:04,694 --> 00:34:06,609 We can give them exposure, you know, 616 00:34:06,740 --> 00:34:09,221 girls who never would've thought they had a chance. 617 00:34:09,351 --> 00:34:11,484 - You know, I bet I could find these girls online. 618 00:34:12,398 --> 00:34:14,052 They definitely post their music. 619 00:34:14,965 --> 00:34:15,922 - Good idea. 620 00:34:18,317 --> 00:34:20,101 - Hey, Mama? - Hmm? 621 00:34:20,232 --> 00:34:22,277 - What was the deal with that um, 622 00:34:22,408 --> 00:34:24,409 girl you introduced me to, Shana? 623 00:34:25,324 --> 00:34:26,368 - Shana. 624 00:34:29,110 --> 00:34:30,806 She's just a girl who needed my help. 625 00:34:30,938 --> 00:34:32,244 - Okay... 626 00:34:36,248 --> 00:34:39,380 - I gotta keep their confidentiality, Diamond. 627 00:34:39,512 --> 00:34:40,774 These girls... 628 00:34:42,993 --> 00:34:45,431 they need to know that they can trust me. 629 00:34:49,870 --> 00:34:51,784 - Is she gonna be all right? 630 00:34:52,960 --> 00:34:54,570 - I hope so! 631 00:34:58,313 --> 00:34:59,880 You know what? 632 00:35:00,010 --> 00:35:01,751 I really do think it's time for us to hit the sack. 633 00:35:01,882 --> 00:35:04,493 It has been a long day. 634 00:35:04,624 --> 00:35:06,626 - M'kay. I get the side with the AC. 635 00:35:06,756 --> 00:35:08,149 - Oh! 636 00:35:09,150 --> 00:35:10,760 All right, I'm gonna take a shower. 637 00:35:19,465 --> 00:35:20,335 Diamond. 638 00:35:20,466 --> 00:35:21,989 - Hmm? 639 00:35:22,120 --> 00:35:23,425 - Thank you. 640 00:35:23,556 --> 00:35:24,818 - For what? 641 00:35:26,385 --> 00:35:27,734 - For being you. 642 00:35:34,958 --> 00:35:37,222 Uh, yes, you know, I'm so sorry. 643 00:35:37,352 --> 00:35:41,095 Charleston, it was really crazy after that. Uh-huh. 644 00:35:41,226 --> 00:35:44,316 After Charleston, the word spread like wildfire. 645 00:35:44,446 --> 00:35:46,840 Yeah, I...I promise. 646 00:35:46,970 --> 00:35:49,582 And I truly appreciate your interest. 647 00:35:49,712 --> 00:35:51,801 Okay, bye-bye. 648 00:35:51,932 --> 00:35:54,413 People all across the country began to reach out to us. 649 00:35:54,543 --> 00:35:56,023 - Whew, okay. 650 00:35:56,154 --> 00:35:57,590 - But what I learned very quickly 651 00:35:57,720 --> 00:36:00,201 was that without the support of my Charleston team, 652 00:36:00,332 --> 00:36:02,160 Phyllis, Principal Flynn, 653 00:36:02,290 --> 00:36:04,640 other volunteers from the community center, 654 00:36:04,771 --> 00:36:07,556 it was nearly impossible to plan other events. 655 00:36:07,687 --> 00:36:09,297 The emails? 656 00:36:09,428 --> 00:36:11,125 - They are coming in faster than I can get to them, 657 00:36:11,256 --> 00:36:12,648 from all over the country. 658 00:36:12,779 --> 00:36:14,389 - What? - Mm-hmm. 659 00:36:14,520 --> 00:36:17,087 - Just do your best. - I am, Nicki, 660 00:36:17,218 --> 00:36:18,524 but you need help! 661 00:36:19,699 --> 00:36:21,483 I have help. 662 00:36:21,614 --> 00:36:23,181 - Real help. 663 00:36:23,311 --> 00:36:25,792 This thing is blowin' up. 664 00:36:25,922 --> 00:36:27,141 - Hey, Mama! 665 00:36:27,272 --> 00:36:28,664 Hi, Tete Nene! 666 00:36:28,795 --> 00:36:30,884 Hey! 667 00:36:31,014 --> 00:36:32,929 - Um, baby, what're you doin' home? 668 00:36:33,060 --> 00:36:36,063 - Mm-hmm? - It's 3:30. School's over. 669 00:36:40,067 --> 00:36:42,330 - It is 3:30. - I lost track of time. 670 00:36:42,461 --> 00:36:44,332 - So... 671 00:36:44,463 --> 00:36:46,813 anyone else call about hosting Girls Who Brunch? 672 00:36:53,820 --> 00:36:55,691 - That is all we've been doing. 673 00:36:55,822 --> 00:36:58,346 Fielding calls from people who are interested. 674 00:36:58,477 --> 00:36:59,913 - That's great! 675 00:37:03,351 --> 00:37:05,092 - Okay... 676 00:37:05,223 --> 00:37:06,746 What's wrong, Mama? - Hmm. 677 00:37:08,051 --> 00:37:09,879 Charleston was hard enough 678 00:37:10,010 --> 00:37:12,491 with Phyllis' help, and everyone at the community center. 679 00:37:12,621 --> 00:37:13,709 - Oh, I'll help again. 680 00:37:14,797 --> 00:37:16,451 - You don't understand. 681 00:37:16,582 --> 00:37:19,715 Just collecting the money that was promised us 682 00:37:19,846 --> 00:37:21,456 was a full-time job. 683 00:37:21,587 --> 00:37:23,371 And even when we did get it, 684 00:37:23,502 --> 00:37:25,199 it still wasn't enough. 685 00:37:26,374 --> 00:37:28,115 I just can't afford to do that again. 686 00:37:28,942 --> 00:37:29,943 - Okay. 687 00:37:31,423 --> 00:37:33,425 Then... 688 00:37:33,555 --> 00:37:35,253 we'll just have to raise some more. 689 00:37:41,476 --> 00:37:43,391 Okay. 690 00:37:46,655 --> 00:37:49,267 - Hmm. She's just like you. 691 00:37:53,967 --> 00:37:57,710 - Oh, thank goodness, I've been on hold for about half an hour. 692 00:37:57,840 --> 00:37:59,451 - You've reached the sponsorship department. 693 00:37:59,581 --> 00:38:01,061 No one is here to take your call. 694 00:38:07,720 --> 00:38:11,027 - No, I have not submitted a request form. 695 00:38:11,158 --> 00:38:13,247 No, I-I'm sitting with it here in front of me, 696 00:38:13,378 --> 00:38:15,423 I just have a-a question that I-- 697 00:38:19,601 --> 00:38:21,299 That's right, that's right, ma'am, it's called 698 00:38:21,429 --> 00:38:24,824 Girls Who Brunch. Not lunch, brunch. 699 00:38:24,954 --> 00:38:27,000 Girl-Girls Who Brunch. 700 00:38:28,958 --> 00:38:30,786 Right, but we don't have a national headquarters. 701 00:38:32,527 --> 00:38:33,833 We don't even have a headquarters. 702 00:38:51,938 --> 00:38:53,287 - Mama? - What? 703 00:38:53,418 --> 00:38:56,638 What, um... what time is it? 704 00:38:56,769 --> 00:38:58,336 - No, you're not working too hard. 705 00:39:04,080 --> 00:39:05,473 - I just fell asleep. 706 00:39:10,870 --> 00:39:12,350 Thank you. 707 00:39:14,395 --> 00:39:17,267 - What were you doing? - Fundraising calls. 708 00:39:17,398 --> 00:39:20,053 And I just put my head down for a minute. 709 00:39:20,183 --> 00:39:21,359 - Any luck? 710 00:39:24,840 --> 00:39:26,059 Know what you need? 711 00:39:27,669 --> 00:39:29,628 - About half a dozen wealthy donors 712 00:39:29,758 --> 00:39:32,718 who have a burning desire to support young women? 713 00:39:32,848 --> 00:39:33,719 - No. 714 00:39:37,897 --> 00:39:40,073 - Mm-mm. Diamond, I'm tired. 715 00:39:40,203 --> 00:39:42,815 - Come on! Dancing makes everything better. 716 00:39:42,945 --> 00:39:44,425 I got work to do. 717 00:39:44,556 --> 00:39:46,384 - Isn't that what you always tell me? 718 00:39:46,514 --> 00:39:47,994 How when I was little and wouldn't stop crying, 719 00:39:48,124 --> 00:39:49,996 it was the only thing that worked. 720 00:39:50,126 --> 00:39:51,737 - Diamond, you had colic. 721 00:39:51,867 --> 00:39:53,695 - Same principle. 722 00:39:54,696 --> 00:39:56,524 What? 723 00:39:56,655 --> 00:39:59,005 Who is this? - Remember Aisha? 724 00:39:59,135 --> 00:40:01,573 Her older sister moved to New York and recorded this. 725 00:40:01,703 --> 00:40:04,358 She got a manager and everything! 726 00:40:04,489 --> 00:40:06,316 It's all over social media. I'm obsessed. 727 00:40:06,447 --> 00:40:09,102 - Mm-hmm. - Come on! 728 00:40:09,232 --> 00:40:11,800 - I mean, it sounds good. - I know! 729 00:40:11,931 --> 00:40:14,150 ♪ Hit the roof, don't need to light candles ♪ 730 00:40:14,281 --> 00:40:16,675 - Okay, show me how it's done! 731 00:40:16,805 --> 00:40:20,026 ♪ Who wrote the book of love for the people ♪ 732 00:40:20,156 --> 00:40:22,637 ♪ Who writes out the themes of the steeple ♪ 733 00:40:22,768 --> 00:40:24,639 ♪ In attempts to get closer 734 00:40:24,770 --> 00:40:27,642 ♪ All we have is a happy gold rosary ♪♪ 735 00:40:28,556 --> 00:40:30,471 I thought this was gonna be a lot easier. 736 00:40:30,602 --> 00:40:33,822 I thought I would call up these companies, 737 00:40:33,953 --> 00:40:36,477 tell them about Girls Who Brunch, 738 00:40:36,608 --> 00:40:38,348 and they would wanna contribute. 739 00:40:39,567 --> 00:40:41,874 - I don't understand. Who is getting all this money 740 00:40:42,004 --> 00:40:43,789 that they're bragging about donating? 741 00:40:43,919 --> 00:40:46,400 - Organizations that have staff, 742 00:40:46,531 --> 00:40:48,881 that know how to do this. 743 00:40:49,011 --> 00:40:50,665 I'm telling you, you need a Ph.D. to be able 744 00:40:50,796 --> 00:40:52,624 to fill out these applications. 745 00:40:52,754 --> 00:40:54,408 - I wish I could help, Nicki, but I have to-- 746 00:40:54,539 --> 00:40:56,192 - No. No, no, no. 747 00:40:56,323 --> 00:40:57,455 I know. 748 00:40:58,804 --> 00:41:00,893 You've been so wonderful, Nene. - Hmm. 749 00:41:01,023 --> 00:41:03,243 - And these volunteers, they're doing such a great job 750 00:41:03,373 --> 00:41:05,288 on all of the smaller events. 751 00:41:05,419 --> 00:41:08,248 Ignite Master Classes. 752 00:41:08,378 --> 00:41:09,989 That's what we're calling them. - Hmm. 753 00:41:11,381 --> 00:41:15,037 - No. I need a team of full-time people 754 00:41:15,168 --> 00:41:16,996 on the Girls Who Brunch tour. 755 00:41:21,653 --> 00:41:23,829 - You workin' on any new books? 756 00:41:26,440 --> 00:41:29,748 - Honestly, this has been taking up most of my time. 757 00:41:31,140 --> 00:41:35,928 - Nicki, I know how much this idea means to you, 758 00:41:36,058 --> 00:41:39,366 and I know why. Believe me, I was there. 759 00:41:39,497 --> 00:41:43,022 But at the end of the day, you're a writer. 760 00:41:43,936 --> 00:41:45,503 Don't ever forget that. 761 00:41:48,680 --> 00:41:52,422 - Oh, to what do we owe this honor? 762 00:41:52,553 --> 00:41:53,859 - What? - Mm! 763 00:41:53,989 --> 00:41:55,861 - A-a woman can't prepare a nice meal 764 00:41:55,991 --> 00:41:58,037 for her sister and her daughter? 765 00:41:58,167 --> 00:42:00,909 - Okay! - Well, this is nice. 766 00:42:01,040 --> 00:42:05,697 Feel like I'm at a restaurant. 767 00:42:05,827 --> 00:42:07,437 But seriously, what is this all about? 768 00:42:07,568 --> 00:42:09,657 - I-I just wanted to say thank you. 769 00:42:09,788 --> 00:42:11,920 - Oh! - That's all. 770 00:42:12,051 --> 00:42:15,315 I wouldn't have been able to do any of this without you. 771 00:42:15,445 --> 00:42:18,057 - Yeah, well, I mean, it's not like I had much of a choice. 772 00:42:18,187 --> 00:42:19,493 Girl! 773 00:42:21,451 --> 00:42:25,064 - Yes, you did. And I appreciate you. 774 00:42:29,938 --> 00:42:31,461 - Well, I do think you're working too hard. 775 00:42:31,592 --> 00:42:32,550 - Mm-hmm. 776 00:42:33,681 --> 00:42:35,204 - Hard work never killed anyone. 777 00:42:35,335 --> 00:42:36,336 Besides, I like most of it. 778 00:42:38,468 --> 00:42:42,124 - Oh, but I do love getting those emails and texts 779 00:42:42,255 --> 00:42:44,257 from the girls saying how much fun they had. 780 00:42:44,387 --> 00:42:46,694 - Mm, you're like a mama to them. 781 00:42:46,825 --> 00:42:48,348 - They're my babies. 782 00:42:48,478 --> 00:42:49,784 You know what I think? 783 00:42:49,915 --> 00:42:51,090 - Mm-mm. 784 00:42:51,220 --> 00:42:53,658 - I think you suddenly started cooking 785 00:42:53,788 --> 00:42:55,660 because you're afraid the food at the events 786 00:42:55,790 --> 00:42:57,662 is putting you to shame! 787 00:42:57,792 --> 00:43:00,839 - Ooh, that delicious spread they made for us! 788 00:43:00,969 --> 00:43:03,232 - At the last event? - Mm-hmm, mm-hmm. 789 00:43:03,363 --> 00:43:05,365 - Every bite. - Every bite. 790 00:43:05,495 --> 00:43:07,802 I was licking my fingers. They were so good! 791 00:43:07,933 --> 00:43:09,717 - Oh, okay, okay! - That was really good. 792 00:43:09,848 --> 00:43:12,198 - All right, both of you, calm. 793 00:43:12,328 --> 00:43:15,549 Okay, okay, okay. 794 00:43:15,680 --> 00:43:17,595 Both of you go ahead and eat. 795 00:43:21,686 --> 00:43:23,905 How's the dressing? It's good? - Mmm! 796 00:43:24,036 --> 00:43:26,908 - Delicious! - Mm-hmm. 797 00:43:27,039 --> 00:43:28,257 - Oh, just promise me you're not gonna start catering 798 00:43:28,388 --> 00:43:29,737 the events yourself. 799 00:43:29,868 --> 00:43:31,434 - I know how to delegate. 800 00:43:34,263 --> 00:43:35,482 - A little. 801 00:43:57,330 --> 00:43:59,854 - Hey, baby. How ya doin'? 802 00:43:59,985 --> 00:44:01,726 Hey, Tete Nene. 803 00:44:01,856 --> 00:44:04,163 Where's Mama? - She fell asleep upstairs. 804 00:44:05,468 --> 00:44:07,122 What're you doing? 805 00:44:07,253 --> 00:44:08,254 - What do you think? 806 00:44:13,825 --> 00:44:16,741 I hope you're not taking on too much. 807 00:44:16,871 --> 00:44:18,220 Your mom wouldn't like it if you were falling behind 808 00:44:18,351 --> 00:44:19,700 in school. 809 00:44:19,831 --> 00:44:21,441 - Well, I figure it's the least I could do, 810 00:44:21,571 --> 00:44:23,095 considering how much she's helping everyone else. 811 00:44:23,225 --> 00:44:24,618 Hmm. 812 00:44:24,749 --> 00:44:27,403 - And I don't wanna hear about everything you two did 813 00:44:27,534 --> 00:44:28,927 when you were my age. 814 00:44:29,057 --> 00:44:30,711 How you did the dishes. - Oh, we did. 815 00:44:30,842 --> 00:44:32,017 - Cleaned the house. - Yes. 816 00:44:32,147 --> 00:44:33,540 - Walked to school. - That's true. 817 00:44:33,671 --> 00:44:35,890 - Walked to school barefoot. - Yep. 818 00:44:36,021 --> 00:44:37,805 - If there was snow in Jamaica, 819 00:44:37,936 --> 00:44:40,416 I'm sure you would've walked barefoot in the snow. 820 00:44:43,158 --> 00:44:44,682 - Okay, I'm taking over. 821 00:44:44,812 --> 00:44:46,074 Go and do your homework. 822 00:44:46,205 --> 00:44:48,163 And just so you know... 823 00:44:49,425 --> 00:44:51,036 we did have it tough. 824 00:44:52,602 --> 00:44:54,343 Tougher than you, at least. 825 00:44:54,474 --> 00:44:56,781 But your mom, 826 00:44:56,911 --> 00:44:58,565 she was different. 827 00:44:58,696 --> 00:45:00,872 - How do you mean? - Well... 828 00:45:01,002 --> 00:45:02,525 anything that she did, 829 00:45:02,656 --> 00:45:05,093 she needed to be the best at it. 830 00:45:05,224 --> 00:45:06,834 - Is that why she's spending every second 831 00:45:06,965 --> 00:45:08,314 on Girls Who Brunch? 832 00:45:08,444 --> 00:45:10,142 - Don't get me wrong, 833 00:45:10,272 --> 00:45:13,362 she cares about those girls, she cares about them a lot, 834 00:45:13,493 --> 00:45:17,279 but she could have joined another organization, 835 00:45:17,410 --> 00:45:20,065 given them her money, her time. 836 00:45:20,195 --> 00:45:21,283 - So, why didn't she? 837 00:45:22,415 --> 00:45:25,548 - Because she saw something that could be different. 838 00:45:27,115 --> 00:45:29,074 Something better. 839 00:45:31,076 --> 00:45:35,384 If you want your mom to succeed at something, 840 00:45:35,515 --> 00:45:38,126 just tell her it can't be done. 841 00:45:40,781 --> 00:45:42,304 - Good night, Tete Nene. 842 00:45:42,435 --> 00:45:44,567 - Mmm. 843 00:45:46,613 --> 00:45:49,921 Good night. I love you, Diamond. 844 00:45:50,660 --> 00:45:52,010 - I love you, too. 845 00:45:52,140 --> 00:45:53,576 - Okay. 846 00:45:58,407 --> 00:46:00,714 With a lot of hard work and perseverance, 847 00:46:00,845 --> 00:46:03,412 we finally raised enough money for our next event 848 00:46:03,543 --> 00:46:04,979 in Birmingham, Alabama. 849 00:46:05,110 --> 00:46:06,415 - Thank you. 850 00:46:09,549 --> 00:46:11,464 I hope they have a pool. 851 00:46:11,594 --> 00:46:13,248 Maybe a sauna. 852 00:46:13,379 --> 00:46:14,859 - I could use a nap. 853 00:46:14,989 --> 00:46:16,251 - So, take one. 854 00:46:17,383 --> 00:46:19,559 Why not? We're all set for tomorrow. 855 00:46:19,689 --> 00:46:21,387 Space is reserved, the volunteers are ready. 856 00:46:21,517 --> 00:46:23,084 - The goody bags. 857 00:46:23,215 --> 00:46:25,608 I'm gonna go to the stores, pick up all the items, 858 00:46:25,739 --> 00:46:26,958 and I'll make them tonight. 859 00:46:29,612 --> 00:46:32,180 - But you have a few hundred to make. 860 00:46:32,311 --> 00:46:34,182 Double what we made last time. 861 00:46:34,313 --> 00:46:35,618 - Exactly! 862 00:46:51,156 --> 00:46:54,028 I'd fly into town the day before the event. 863 00:46:54,159 --> 00:46:56,770 Spend that night going from store to store. 864 00:46:56,901 --> 00:46:59,860 Then stay up, sometimes 'til dawn, 865 00:46:59,991 --> 00:47:01,775 putting the gift bags together. 866 00:47:01,906 --> 00:47:03,690 It wasn't easy, 867 00:47:03,821 --> 00:47:06,258 but the girls had to have them. 868 00:47:06,388 --> 00:47:07,650 They deserved it. 869 00:47:11,829 --> 00:47:15,136 I remember when my girls were born. 870 00:47:15,267 --> 00:47:18,009 I didn't know you could love anyone that much. 871 00:47:19,619 --> 00:47:21,621 I had made some bad choices about men 872 00:47:21,751 --> 00:47:23,449 who didn't treat me right, 873 00:47:23,579 --> 00:47:25,016 and before I knew it, 874 00:47:25,146 --> 00:47:26,887 I was about to become a single mother 875 00:47:27,018 --> 00:47:29,194 when I was about Diamond's age. 876 00:47:34,373 --> 00:47:35,678 - It's not too late, you know. 877 00:47:35,809 --> 00:47:38,768 - Oh, don't start! 878 00:47:38,899 --> 00:47:40,335 Mama, please! 879 00:47:40,466 --> 00:47:42,294 - I'm just sayin'! 880 00:47:42,424 --> 00:47:44,035 It's not even like you need to give her to a stranger! 881 00:47:44,165 --> 00:47:45,688 Your sister will take her. 882 00:47:46,776 --> 00:47:48,735 - This is my child. 883 00:47:49,475 --> 00:47:51,216 My responsibility. 884 00:47:56,264 --> 00:47:59,180 I'm not gonna give her up for adoption. 885 00:47:59,311 --> 00:48:01,574 - What kind of life do you think you can give her? 886 00:48:02,488 --> 00:48:03,750 - The best I can! 887 00:48:04,664 --> 00:48:06,231 - And that's good enough? 888 00:48:09,060 --> 00:48:10,191 - It will be. 889 00:48:11,758 --> 00:48:13,891 - I hope you know what you're doin'. 890 00:48:25,206 --> 00:48:28,993 - After enduring a 23-hour labor, 891 00:48:29,123 --> 00:48:33,084 my daughter, Destani, mercifully arrived. 892 00:48:36,348 --> 00:48:37,871 I knew... 893 00:48:38,002 --> 00:48:40,091 I knew I was her mama. 894 00:48:50,971 --> 00:48:53,887 Hey, Miss Popular! 895 00:48:54,018 --> 00:48:55,106 Where're your friends at? 896 00:48:55,236 --> 00:48:56,324 Mama! 897 00:48:58,979 --> 00:49:00,850 - Hi! - What're you doing here? 898 00:49:00,981 --> 00:49:04,028 - Oh! Well, you're always telling me to come visit, 899 00:49:04,158 --> 00:49:05,507 so I'm visiting! 900 00:49:05,638 --> 00:49:07,292 - Well, why didn't you tell me you were coming? 901 00:49:07,422 --> 00:49:09,685 - What, and ruin the surprise? 902 00:49:10,382 --> 00:49:11,818 - Here, sit down, sit down. 903 00:49:16,997 --> 00:49:18,433 You look tired. 904 00:49:22,872 --> 00:49:24,570 - You've been talking to Diamond. 905 00:49:24,700 --> 00:49:26,702 - Well, you've been working too hard. 906 00:49:26,833 --> 00:49:28,791 Diamond's just worried about you, that's all. 907 00:49:29,879 --> 00:49:31,316 - The truth is, 908 00:49:31,446 --> 00:49:33,666 as exhausted as I am, 909 00:49:33,796 --> 00:49:36,147 I have never felt more alive. 910 00:49:36,277 --> 00:49:37,104 - Tell me about it. 911 00:49:39,280 --> 00:49:41,282 - Tell you? No, I wanna show you! 912 00:49:41,413 --> 00:49:43,371 We have an event here in Houston. 913 00:49:43,502 --> 00:49:45,069 - Oh, so that's why you're really here. 914 00:49:45,199 --> 00:49:47,332 - No! No, no, no, no. 915 00:49:48,420 --> 00:49:49,943 I'm an entrepreneur now. 916 00:49:50,074 --> 00:49:52,685 There's no reason I can't combine business and pleasure. 917 00:49:54,861 --> 00:49:57,081 - Ugh, I'd love to, Mama, I really would, 918 00:49:57,211 --> 00:49:59,126 but I have tests coming up in two classes 919 00:49:59,257 --> 00:50:00,562 and a paper due tomorrow. 920 00:50:00,693 --> 00:50:02,303 - Good! 921 00:50:02,434 --> 00:50:03,522 That's what college is for. 922 00:50:04,958 --> 00:50:06,264 - I'm proud of you, Mama. 923 00:50:06,394 --> 00:50:07,787 Diamond sends me links to all the articles 924 00:50:07,917 --> 00:50:09,615 about Girls Who Brunch. 925 00:50:09,745 --> 00:50:11,530 - I'm proud of you. 926 00:50:13,097 --> 00:50:15,925 Well, you don't have time to go to the event, 927 00:50:16,056 --> 00:50:17,927 but you still have time to eat, don't you? 928 00:50:18,058 --> 00:50:19,625 In the mood for anything? 929 00:50:19,755 --> 00:50:21,975 - Well, we are in Texas. 930 00:50:22,106 --> 00:50:24,543 Anything other than barbeque would be sacrilegious. 931 00:50:24,673 --> 00:50:26,153 Good thing I know 932 00:50:26,284 --> 00:50:27,154 the best place in town. 933 00:50:27,285 --> 00:50:28,721 - Ooh! Okay! 934 00:50:30,288 --> 00:50:32,768 - So, after Houston, where are you off to? 935 00:50:34,074 --> 00:50:36,685 - Baby, if I told you, 936 00:50:36,816 --> 00:50:38,035 you would never believe me. 937 00:50:46,695 --> 00:50:49,698 That first year, we went to so many different cities 938 00:50:49,829 --> 00:50:51,744 that it's almost a blur. 939 00:51:16,508 --> 00:51:17,813 - Hey, Mama! 940 00:51:17,944 --> 00:51:19,554 - Hey! 941 00:51:20,903 --> 00:51:23,254 - Are you okay? - Of course, I'm okay! 942 00:51:24,559 --> 00:51:26,605 - You sure? - Yeah, I just um... 943 00:51:27,910 --> 00:51:30,348 I need some water. Just go get me some water. 944 00:51:30,478 --> 00:51:31,653 - Okay, stay right here. 945 00:51:54,372 --> 00:51:56,461 Thank you. 946 00:51:56,983 --> 00:51:57,897 - Ugh! - Okay, Mom, we need 947 00:51:58,027 --> 00:51:59,290 to get you to a doctor. 948 00:52:00,769 --> 00:52:02,293 - Okay, okay. 949 00:52:15,088 --> 00:52:16,307 - Ni'Cola Mitchell? 950 00:52:18,222 --> 00:52:21,138 I'm Dr. Freeman. How are you feeling? 951 00:52:22,617 --> 00:52:24,053 - I would feel a lot better 952 00:52:24,184 --> 00:52:25,664 if I knew what was wrong with me. 953 00:52:25,794 --> 00:52:27,492 - I'm sure. 954 00:52:27,622 --> 00:52:29,842 And we're gonna get to the bottom of it, I promise you. 955 00:52:29,972 --> 00:52:31,974 Has this ever happened to you before? 956 00:52:32,105 --> 00:52:33,193 - The bleeding? - Mm-hmm. 957 00:52:33,324 --> 00:52:34,151 - No. 958 00:52:35,543 --> 00:52:37,284 What could cause it? 959 00:52:37,415 --> 00:52:39,025 - Could be a lot of things. 960 00:52:39,156 --> 00:52:40,853 Menorrhagia, 961 00:52:40,983 --> 00:52:43,856 an infection, ovarian cysts-- - Cancer? 962 00:52:50,036 --> 00:52:52,821 - Let's not get ahead of ourselves, okay? 963 00:52:52,952 --> 00:52:54,780 Vaginal bleeding is not uncommon, 964 00:52:54,910 --> 00:52:56,651 and as I said before, there could be a lot 965 00:52:56,782 --> 00:53:00,177 of reasons for it. Most of them perfectly harmless. 966 00:53:02,831 --> 00:53:04,833 Have you been under a lot of stress recently? 967 00:53:07,009 --> 00:53:09,055 - I'm always under a lot of stress. 968 00:53:09,186 --> 00:53:11,536 More than usual? 969 00:53:13,973 --> 00:53:16,018 Could be it, of course. 970 00:53:16,149 --> 00:53:17,977 A thousand years of medicine and we're just learning 971 00:53:18,107 --> 00:53:20,849 about the effect that stress has on the human body. 972 00:53:22,851 --> 00:53:24,375 So, we're gonna do some blood work, 973 00:53:24,505 --> 00:53:25,985 gonna run some tests. 974 00:53:26,115 --> 00:53:28,683 Don't worry, we're gonna find out what's going on. 975 00:53:28,814 --> 00:53:32,861 But until then, I want you to take it easy. 976 00:53:32,992 --> 00:53:34,341 Can you do that for me? 977 00:53:36,038 --> 00:53:37,823 - I'll try. 978 00:53:38,737 --> 00:53:42,262 - Good. And as much as possible, 979 00:53:42,393 --> 00:53:44,569 try to eliminate the stress around you. 980 00:53:47,224 --> 00:53:48,747 Okay. 981 00:54:16,557 --> 00:54:20,169 - Yes, we've done plenty of events in Alabama. 982 00:54:20,300 --> 00:54:21,649 Mm-hmm, all over the South, really. 983 00:54:21,780 --> 00:54:23,172 - Mm-hmm, anything helps, of course. 984 00:54:23,303 --> 00:54:25,218 School supplies are greatly needed. 985 00:54:25,349 --> 00:54:26,567 - Yeah, we can do that. 986 00:54:26,698 --> 00:54:28,700 - Anywhere from a few dozen to a few hundred. 987 00:54:28,830 --> 00:54:30,615 It all just really depends on how long we have and-- 988 00:54:30,745 --> 00:54:31,920 - Okay, that sounds good, thank you. 989 00:54:32,051 --> 00:54:33,531 Bye, bye. I'll call back. 990 00:54:37,186 --> 00:54:39,058 Hello, Girls Who Brunch. 991 00:54:39,188 --> 00:54:40,973 - Ni'Cola Mitchell? - Yes. 992 00:54:43,889 --> 00:54:45,804 I'm sorry. - Hi! 993 00:54:45,934 --> 00:54:48,720 Thank you for taking my call. Uh, this is Girls Who Brunch... 994 00:54:48,850 --> 00:54:50,374 - This is she. 995 00:54:50,504 --> 00:54:51,810 - Ni'Cola... 996 00:54:54,247 --> 00:54:56,467 I'm afraid I have some bad news. 997 00:54:58,077 --> 00:54:59,470 - It's cancer, isn't it? 998 00:55:01,559 --> 00:55:02,908 - Yes, it is. 999 00:55:07,913 --> 00:55:10,263 - Okay, tell me everything. 1000 00:55:11,656 --> 00:55:13,266 - The cancer's in the uterus and in the cervix, 1001 00:55:13,397 --> 00:55:16,008 but thankfully, we caught it early. 1002 00:55:18,358 --> 00:55:19,751 - Am I gonna die? 1003 00:55:21,274 --> 00:55:23,363 - Ni'Cola, in medicine, there are several variables 1004 00:55:23,494 --> 00:55:25,278 that go into consideration when we're-- 1005 00:55:25,409 --> 00:55:28,368 - Am I... going to die? 1006 00:55:28,499 --> 00:55:30,327 - The cancer's treatable. 1007 00:55:30,457 --> 00:55:33,721 There's no reason not to expect a full recovery. 1008 00:55:33,852 --> 00:55:36,245 The procedure is called EBT, 1009 00:55:36,376 --> 00:55:38,509 External Beam Therapy. 1010 00:55:38,639 --> 00:55:42,556 A machine delivers electron beams directly into the tumor. 1011 00:55:42,687 --> 00:55:44,428 They destroy the cancer cells 1012 00:55:44,558 --> 00:55:46,343 while sparing the surrounding tissue. 1013 00:55:49,302 --> 00:55:50,869 - Is it gonna hurt? 1014 00:55:50,999 --> 00:55:52,305 - While you're receiving the treatment, 1015 00:55:52,436 --> 00:55:54,133 you won't feel a thing, but afterward, 1016 00:55:54,263 --> 00:55:55,787 you're going to be tired. 1017 00:55:55,917 --> 00:55:58,267 Very tired. 1018 00:55:58,398 --> 00:56:00,139 Fatigue is the most common side effect. 1019 00:56:01,053 --> 00:56:02,837 Okay. 1020 00:56:02,968 --> 00:56:05,666 - So, you must get your rest. 1021 00:56:05,797 --> 00:56:07,538 I mean it. 1022 00:56:23,467 --> 00:56:24,946 In that moment, 1023 00:56:25,077 --> 00:56:27,384 all I knew was that we had less than a month 1024 00:56:27,514 --> 00:56:28,907 until the next event. 1025 00:56:30,212 --> 00:56:32,911 And nothing was gonna keep me away. 1026 00:56:35,348 --> 00:56:37,089 Hey, baby. - Hey. 1027 00:56:43,791 --> 00:56:47,055 - There's never a good time to receive this kind of news. 1028 00:56:47,186 --> 00:56:49,406 It felt like some cosmic joke. 1029 00:56:50,494 --> 00:56:52,539 Everything I had been through, 1030 00:56:52,670 --> 00:56:55,324 from my childhood until today, 1031 00:56:55,455 --> 00:56:59,154 every challenge, every roadblock, 1032 00:56:59,285 --> 00:57:01,722 things were finally starting to look up. 1033 00:57:02,984 --> 00:57:05,813 And now, cancer. 1034 00:57:05,944 --> 00:57:06,945 - Mama? 1035 00:57:08,250 --> 00:57:09,426 - Hey. 1036 00:57:20,437 --> 00:57:21,786 - Mama? 1037 00:57:23,788 --> 00:57:25,137 - Yeah, baby? 1038 00:57:29,315 --> 00:57:30,795 - How bad is it? 1039 00:57:35,539 --> 00:57:36,975 - I have cancer. 1040 00:57:38,846 --> 00:57:41,327 I start radiation treatment right away, 1041 00:57:41,458 --> 00:57:44,809 and then surgery, and I'm gonna be fine. 1042 00:57:44,939 --> 00:57:46,898 I promise. 1043 00:57:47,028 --> 00:57:49,466 No, come here. Shh, shh, shh. 1044 00:57:52,904 --> 00:57:56,298 No. Mm-mm. 1045 00:57:56,429 --> 00:57:57,604 - I don't want you to die. 1046 00:57:59,563 --> 00:58:03,044 - Who said I'm gonna die?! I'm not goin' anywhere! 1047 00:58:03,175 --> 00:58:04,959 I'm not gonna die! 1048 00:58:05,090 --> 00:58:07,353 - You promise? - I promise! 1049 00:58:08,746 --> 00:58:11,313 Uh-uh. Okay. 1050 00:58:19,191 --> 00:58:20,366 Diamond... 1051 00:58:24,413 --> 00:58:26,024 I need you to be... 1052 00:58:27,721 --> 00:58:31,116 strong for me. Okay? 1053 00:58:31,246 --> 00:58:32,509 Okay. 1054 00:58:35,033 --> 00:58:36,817 - Don't be scared. I'm not scared. Come here. 1055 00:58:36,948 --> 00:58:39,211 Okay. 1056 00:58:43,694 --> 00:58:46,784 - I needed to be strong for myself, too, 1057 00:58:46,914 --> 00:58:49,961 so I went to see the one person in my life 1058 00:58:50,091 --> 00:58:51,919 who had always been there for me. 1059 00:58:53,225 --> 00:58:54,008 No matter what. 1060 00:58:54,139 --> 00:58:55,444 - Ni'Cola Mitchell, 1061 00:58:55,575 --> 00:58:57,490 as I live and breathe. 1062 00:59:15,769 --> 00:59:17,031 - Come in? 1063 00:59:17,815 --> 00:59:19,817 - Dr. Sullivan? 1064 00:59:19,947 --> 00:59:21,514 I'm Ni'Cola Mitchell. 1065 00:59:21,645 --> 00:59:23,995 - Ni'Cola. Come in, come in. 1066 00:59:24,125 --> 00:59:25,562 Please, sit down. 1067 00:59:30,871 --> 00:59:33,091 So, tell me, Ni'Cola, 1068 00:59:33,221 --> 00:59:35,267 how much do you know about Upward Bound? 1069 00:59:35,397 --> 00:59:37,878 - Just what Candace Williams told me. 1070 00:59:38,009 --> 00:59:40,054 We go to the same church. 1071 00:59:41,882 --> 00:59:44,493 - So then, you know what we help girls like you... 1072 00:59:44,624 --> 00:59:46,321 girls that haven't had the same advantages 1073 00:59:46,452 --> 00:59:48,976 as some other girls have. - Yes, Sir. 1074 00:59:49,107 --> 00:59:51,196 - And it's true you'd like to be a part of Upward Bound? 1075 00:59:51,326 --> 00:59:53,677 - Very much. 1076 00:59:53,807 --> 00:59:57,506 However, I... I know you have to live in the dorm 1077 00:59:57,637 --> 00:59:59,857 and attend all the weekly sessions. 1078 00:59:59,987 --> 01:00:01,249 And I... 1079 01:00:02,642 --> 01:00:04,731 I won't be able to. 1080 01:00:04,862 --> 01:00:07,168 - You do know it's a prerequisite? 1081 01:00:07,299 --> 01:00:08,605 - Yes, Sir. 1082 01:00:12,434 --> 01:00:14,306 - May I ask why you're unable to? 1083 01:00:15,699 --> 01:00:18,484 - My daughter. - Ah, you have a daughter. 1084 01:00:18,615 --> 01:00:21,356 A toddler. Destani. 1085 01:00:21,487 --> 01:00:24,142 She's... my world. 1086 01:00:25,404 --> 01:00:27,232 - And you live with her? 1087 01:00:27,362 --> 01:00:29,974 - Yes, with my mother. 1088 01:00:37,459 --> 01:00:38,635 - Well... 1089 01:00:41,115 --> 01:00:43,552 let's just see if there isn't something we can do about that. 1090 01:00:43,683 --> 01:00:45,946 - There was something he did about it. 1091 01:00:46,077 --> 01:00:47,992 He allowed me in the program 1092 01:00:48,122 --> 01:00:50,734 and made plenty of concessions for me. 1093 01:00:50,864 --> 01:00:52,953 And still, I pushed back against him. 1094 01:00:53,084 --> 01:00:55,608 - I told you, I don't wanna go! 1095 01:00:55,739 --> 01:00:58,437 - Well, I'm afraid you don't have much of a choice, Ni'Cola. 1096 01:00:58,567 --> 01:01:00,265 Do you know what "in loco parentis" means? 1097 01:01:00,395 --> 01:01:01,701 - I don't speak Spanish. 1098 01:01:01,832 --> 01:01:03,007 - It's Latin. 1099 01:01:03,137 --> 01:01:05,574 And it means "In place of parent". 1100 01:01:05,705 --> 01:01:08,621 When you're with me, you're my responsibility. 1101 01:01:08,752 --> 01:01:11,842 - It was just a little asthma attack! 1102 01:01:11,972 --> 01:01:14,018 - That was more than a little. - I've had worse! 1103 01:01:14,148 --> 01:01:16,020 - Oh, good for you! 1104 01:01:17,804 --> 01:01:20,677 I just wish you would stop being so damn selfish. 1105 01:01:22,287 --> 01:01:24,419 If something, God forbid, would've have happened to you, 1106 01:01:24,550 --> 01:01:26,117 what do you think would happen to Destani? 1107 01:01:27,248 --> 01:01:30,121 - I don't know. My mother? My sisters. 1108 01:01:30,251 --> 01:01:33,472 - She doesn't need another grandmother or an aunt, 1109 01:01:33,602 --> 01:01:35,561 what she needs is her mother. 1110 01:01:36,867 --> 01:01:38,869 When we first met, you said there was nothing 1111 01:01:38,999 --> 01:01:42,133 more important to you in this world than your daughter. 1112 01:01:42,263 --> 01:01:43,700 Start acting like it. 1113 01:01:44,613 --> 01:01:47,181 - I'm fine, really. 1114 01:01:47,312 --> 01:01:49,009 I just took my inhaler. 1115 01:01:51,620 --> 01:01:53,274 - This is about so much more 1116 01:01:53,405 --> 01:01:55,276 than just an asthma attack, Ni'Cola. 1117 01:01:58,410 --> 01:01:59,977 I've been meaning to ask you about college. 1118 01:02:00,107 --> 01:02:02,109 - What about it? 1119 01:02:02,240 --> 01:02:04,503 - Have you given it any more thought? 1120 01:02:04,633 --> 01:02:06,505 - I don't have the time or the money. 1121 01:02:07,724 --> 01:02:10,901 - There's always a million excuses, Ni'Cola, 1122 01:02:11,031 --> 01:02:12,816 but you owe it to your daughter, 1123 01:02:12,946 --> 01:02:14,600 you owe it to yourself. 1124 01:02:15,688 --> 01:02:16,907 - I'll think about it. 1125 01:02:17,821 --> 01:02:18,909 - Waste. 1126 01:02:20,301 --> 01:02:21,607 - Excuse me? 1127 01:02:29,658 --> 01:02:32,052 - I've seen hundreds, thousands of girls 1128 01:02:32,183 --> 01:02:34,533 come through this program. 1129 01:02:34,663 --> 01:02:36,535 I know I can't help them all. 1130 01:02:36,665 --> 01:02:39,494 I know I won't help them all. 1131 01:02:39,625 --> 01:02:42,106 Some, it's too late. 1132 01:02:42,236 --> 01:02:45,413 But do you know how many are as bright as you, 1133 01:02:45,544 --> 01:02:47,459 who can write like you can? 1134 01:02:47,589 --> 01:02:52,072 Face it, kid, you're special. 1135 01:02:52,203 --> 01:02:53,639 And if you don't go to college, 1136 01:02:53,770 --> 01:02:56,424 if you don't be all that you can be, 1137 01:02:56,555 --> 01:03:00,037 then yeah, it's a waste! 1138 01:03:12,963 --> 01:03:14,094 Okay. 1139 01:03:15,922 --> 01:03:17,663 Let's get you taken care of. 1140 01:03:41,992 --> 01:03:44,211 You don't know how good it is to see you. 1141 01:03:44,342 --> 01:03:46,039 - You too. 1142 01:03:46,170 --> 01:03:49,173 - I wish I could've come to one of your events. 1143 01:03:49,303 --> 01:03:51,610 It's just so hard for me to get away. 1144 01:03:51,740 --> 01:03:54,874 Seems the older I get, the busier I am. 1145 01:03:55,005 --> 01:03:57,181 - It's okay. 1146 01:03:57,311 --> 01:04:01,141 - Although, I have read every article you've sent me. 1147 01:04:01,272 --> 01:04:03,796 Watched every news story. 1148 01:04:03,927 --> 01:04:05,929 I think we're friends on that Facebook. 1149 01:04:12,936 --> 01:04:14,198 Why are you here, Ni'Cola? 1150 01:04:15,503 --> 01:04:17,723 You're too busy to just stop in to say hi. 1151 01:04:19,290 --> 01:04:20,857 - I need advice. 1152 01:04:26,427 --> 01:04:28,081 From the outside, 1153 01:04:28,212 --> 01:04:31,041 Girls Who Brunch looks like a huge success. 1154 01:04:31,171 --> 01:04:32,564 - And from the inside? 1155 01:04:36,742 --> 01:04:38,962 - Some things are really good. 1156 01:04:39,092 --> 01:04:42,400 You know we are... we are reaching these girls, 1157 01:04:42,530 --> 01:04:45,403 and I stay in touch with them. 1158 01:04:45,533 --> 01:04:48,710 They know that they can contact me if they need anything. 1159 01:04:50,843 --> 01:04:52,018 I call them my babies. 1160 01:04:55,543 --> 01:04:58,764 But financially, we're suffering. 1161 01:05:00,157 --> 01:05:02,028 I could never have imagined it would be so hard 1162 01:05:02,159 --> 01:05:03,595 to get donations. 1163 01:05:05,205 --> 01:05:07,599 And I've already spent too much of my own money... 1164 01:05:07,729 --> 01:05:10,036 money that I need for Destani's college, 1165 01:05:10,167 --> 01:05:12,996 and for Diamond's medicine. 1166 01:05:13,126 --> 01:05:15,650 - Diamond, is she okay? - She's fine. 1167 01:05:15,781 --> 01:05:18,131 It's just her asthma. 1168 01:05:18,262 --> 01:05:20,220 The apple doesn't fall too far from the tree. 1169 01:05:20,351 --> 01:05:22,657 So, tell me, 1170 01:05:22,788 --> 01:05:24,094 what do you need? 1171 01:05:24,224 --> 01:05:26,618 - I told you, advice! 1172 01:05:28,620 --> 01:05:29,882 What should I do? 1173 01:05:31,318 --> 01:05:33,407 - I could never tell you what to do. 1174 01:05:40,762 --> 01:05:42,286 - I have cancer. 1175 01:05:45,419 --> 01:05:47,117 - And? 1176 01:05:50,511 --> 01:05:51,817 - Excuse me? 1177 01:05:51,948 --> 01:05:54,167 - What do you want me to say? 1178 01:05:54,298 --> 01:05:55,473 I'm sorry? 1179 01:05:56,474 --> 01:05:57,866 - Well, yes. 1180 01:05:57,997 --> 01:05:59,433 - You know I'm sorry. 1181 01:06:00,957 --> 01:06:02,654 My heart breaks for you, Ni'Cola, 1182 01:06:04,264 --> 01:06:06,484 but you don't need my sympathy. 1183 01:06:07,615 --> 01:06:09,400 What you need is a reminder. 1184 01:06:13,230 --> 01:06:14,840 - A reminder? 1185 01:06:25,285 --> 01:06:27,374 - A reminder... 1186 01:06:27,505 --> 01:06:30,638 that even though you're tired, 1187 01:06:30,769 --> 01:06:33,511 you're beyond exhausted, 1188 01:06:33,641 --> 01:06:36,340 that you are a fighter, Ni'Cola. 1189 01:06:37,950 --> 01:06:40,822 You've overcome worse, 1190 01:06:40,953 --> 01:06:43,347 and this too shall pass. 1191 01:06:46,567 --> 01:06:49,527 - It's so ha-- It's just so hard! 1192 01:06:51,746 --> 01:06:53,705 - I know it's hard. 1193 01:06:56,099 --> 01:07:00,364 Cancer is no walk in the park for anyone, 1194 01:07:00,494 --> 01:07:02,714 but you are made of tough stuff. 1195 01:07:04,455 --> 01:07:06,718 And you have so much to fight for. 1196 01:07:08,676 --> 01:07:11,331 You've built a beautiful life 1197 01:07:11,462 --> 01:07:14,204 although these cards have been stacked against you. 1198 01:07:15,727 --> 01:07:18,034 Look at everything you've had to overcome. 1199 01:07:19,905 --> 01:07:22,560 Going to school as a teenage mother. 1200 01:07:24,518 --> 01:07:26,216 Writing your first novel. 1201 01:07:28,348 --> 01:07:31,047 Becoming a publishing success. 1202 01:07:33,266 --> 01:07:35,051 You're resilient. 1203 01:07:37,401 --> 01:07:39,925 You defy the odds. 1204 01:07:44,495 --> 01:07:46,062 - I don't know about that. 1205 01:07:51,154 --> 01:07:52,590 - Well, I do. 1206 01:08:02,513 --> 01:08:04,080 There's your advice. 1207 01:08:23,185 --> 01:08:24,056 - Hey! 1208 01:08:24,187 --> 01:08:25,405 - Is it true? 1209 01:08:25,536 --> 01:08:26,754 - Sweetheart... 1210 01:08:26,885 --> 01:08:29,670 - I said, is it true? 1211 01:08:29,800 --> 01:08:32,064 - I guess you've been talking to your sister. 1212 01:08:32,194 --> 01:08:33,978 - How could you not tell me, Mama? 1213 01:08:35,546 --> 01:08:36,676 - Destani... 1214 01:08:36,808 --> 01:08:38,940 you know, I just found out myself. 1215 01:08:39,071 --> 01:08:40,333 - This is the kind of news 1216 01:08:40,464 --> 01:08:42,770 where you call me from the doctor's office. 1217 01:08:42,901 --> 01:08:45,643 - For what? To worry you? 1218 01:08:46,992 --> 01:08:48,298 - I'm coming home. 1219 01:08:48,428 --> 01:08:50,908 - Destani, you stay at school. 1220 01:08:51,039 --> 01:08:52,606 - You're always helping everyone else! 1221 01:08:52,737 --> 01:08:54,304 Why can't you let us help you? 1222 01:08:56,871 --> 01:08:58,830 - Listen, baby... 1223 01:09:00,353 --> 01:09:02,138 I'm not even home. 1224 01:09:02,268 --> 01:09:04,487 - What? Where are you? 1225 01:09:04,618 --> 01:09:07,665 - I'm in Reno. I was just visiting a... 1226 01:09:09,145 --> 01:09:10,407 an old friend. 1227 01:09:12,235 --> 01:09:16,021 - Should you be t-traveling in your... condition? 1228 01:09:16,152 --> 01:09:18,675 Well, I'm not an invalid! 1229 01:09:19,503 --> 01:09:21,374 Look... 1230 01:09:21,505 --> 01:09:23,289 at the end of the semester, 1231 01:09:23,420 --> 01:09:26,074 I will buy a ticket, okay? 1232 01:09:26,205 --> 01:09:27,946 Then you come home, and you'll see... 1233 01:09:28,076 --> 01:09:30,035 I'm doing just fine. 1234 01:09:32,515 --> 01:09:33,647 - Mama? 1235 01:09:33,778 --> 01:09:35,171 - Yeah, baby? 1236 01:09:36,172 --> 01:09:37,303 - I love you. 1237 01:09:40,915 --> 01:09:42,874 - I love you, too! 1238 01:09:51,273 --> 01:09:53,406 I was always a fighter. 1239 01:09:53,537 --> 01:09:56,800 Ready to face any challenge head on. 1240 01:09:56,931 --> 01:09:58,933 And I'd always been a good writer. 1241 01:09:59,064 --> 01:10:01,371 So, when Nene dared me to actually try 1242 01:10:01,501 --> 01:10:04,591 and write a novel, I couldn't resist. 1243 01:10:04,722 --> 01:10:07,072 They say write what you know. 1244 01:10:07,202 --> 01:10:09,553 And that's exactly what I did. 1245 01:10:09,683 --> 01:10:12,295 The story was inspired by all my past 1246 01:10:12,425 --> 01:10:14,471 romantic relationships. 1247 01:10:14,601 --> 01:10:16,647 Like everything else in my life, 1248 01:10:16,777 --> 01:10:18,648 it wasn't easy, 1249 01:10:18,779 --> 01:10:21,217 but I won that bet. 1250 01:10:21,347 --> 01:10:23,871 I guess you could say that I won it two-fold. 1251 01:10:24,002 --> 01:10:27,179 My book "Over and Over Again" 1252 01:10:27,309 --> 01:10:29,355 became a best-seller. 1253 01:10:32,445 --> 01:10:35,666 - I... can't believe it. 1254 01:10:35,796 --> 01:10:37,798 My sister, an author. 1255 01:10:37,929 --> 01:10:39,670 A real author! 1256 01:10:39,800 --> 01:10:41,411 Of course! 1257 01:10:41,541 --> 01:10:43,151 I had to win that bet. 1258 01:10:43,282 --> 01:10:44,501 - Well, I knew you needed a little something 1259 01:10:44,630 --> 01:10:46,198 to inspire you. 1260 01:10:46,329 --> 01:10:48,505 - Nothing like a little sisterly competition. 1261 01:10:48,635 --> 01:10:51,116 Exactly. 1262 01:10:51,246 --> 01:10:52,596 And this is just the beginning, you know. 1263 01:10:52,726 --> 01:10:54,250 - Hmm. 1264 01:10:55,990 --> 01:10:58,341 - Come on, Nicki, I know you better than you know yourself. 1265 01:10:58,471 --> 01:11:01,169 You are not gonna stop at a single book. 1266 01:11:01,300 --> 01:11:03,520 - Well, I do have some other ideas. 1267 01:11:03,650 --> 01:11:04,956 - Mm-hmm! 1268 01:11:05,085 --> 01:11:07,350 And when this one becomes a success, 1269 01:11:07,480 --> 01:11:10,788 you will have more time to work on the next one. 1270 01:11:11,484 --> 01:11:13,050 - Yeah but... 1271 01:11:13,181 --> 01:11:15,793 I don't only want it to be my success. 1272 01:11:15,923 --> 01:11:16,968 - What do you mean? 1273 01:11:18,361 --> 01:11:20,537 - I wanna help other writers. 1274 01:11:20,666 --> 01:11:22,452 - Help them how? 1275 01:11:22,582 --> 01:11:24,932 - Get them in print. 1276 01:11:25,063 --> 01:11:28,893 I could start a publishing company for women like me. 1277 01:11:29,023 --> 01:11:30,982 - I gotta say, Nicki, 1278 01:11:31,112 --> 01:11:35,246 when you dream, you certainly dream big. 1279 01:11:35,378 --> 01:11:37,510 Hey! 1280 01:11:37,641 --> 01:11:40,252 - And I was dreaming if I thought my battle 1281 01:11:40,383 --> 01:11:42,646 with cancer could be fought alone. 1282 01:11:42,776 --> 01:11:45,996 Turns out I needed my family now more than ever. 1283 01:11:47,737 --> 01:11:49,522 - I was thinking... 1284 01:11:50,958 --> 01:11:54,048 that we could have jambalaya for dinner tonight. 1285 01:11:54,179 --> 01:11:55,615 But maybe something a little lighter? 1286 01:12:00,141 --> 01:12:02,579 Nicki... - I don't... I don't think 1287 01:12:02,709 --> 01:12:04,842 I can keep anything down. 1288 01:12:05,712 --> 01:12:07,148 - Hmm. 1289 01:12:08,672 --> 01:12:10,326 Here. 1290 01:12:18,508 --> 01:12:19,987 Better? 1291 01:12:23,425 --> 01:12:25,514 - I don't know how long I can do this for. 1292 01:12:29,040 --> 01:12:31,521 I know I just feel weaker and weaker. 1293 01:12:34,088 --> 01:12:36,047 - You are gonna be okay. 1294 01:12:38,876 --> 01:12:40,834 I promise. 1295 01:12:43,228 --> 01:12:44,534 - I love you. 1296 01:12:45,883 --> 01:12:47,493 - I love you. 1297 01:14:49,789 --> 01:14:51,008 - The tests are back. 1298 01:14:52,096 --> 01:14:54,794 They're looking good. Very good. 1299 01:14:57,188 --> 01:14:59,016 - You serious? 1300 01:14:59,146 --> 01:15:00,365 - I'm serious. 1301 01:15:02,323 --> 01:15:04,064 What does this mean? 1302 01:15:04,195 --> 01:15:06,153 - Well, we'll continue to monitor you, of course, 1303 01:15:06,284 --> 01:15:07,677 with annual tests, 1304 01:15:09,112 --> 01:15:11,985 but I see no reason to anticipate a setback. 1305 01:15:14,379 --> 01:15:16,512 Ni'Cola... - Yeah? 1306 01:15:17,425 --> 01:15:18,818 - You beat this. 1307 01:15:50,241 --> 01:15:52,286 - You're looking a lot better. 1308 01:15:52,416 --> 01:15:53,809 - I'm feeling a lot better. 1309 01:16:00,120 --> 01:16:02,688 - I still can't believe we did all this. 1310 01:16:02,818 --> 01:16:04,298 You did this all this! 1311 01:16:04,429 --> 01:16:05,952 - Mm-mm. - Mm-hmm. 1312 01:16:06,083 --> 01:16:08,999 - No. I would not have been able to do this 1313 01:16:09,129 --> 01:16:13,133 without you, Diamond, and the whole team. 1314 01:16:15,353 --> 01:16:17,529 - We've come a long way. 1315 01:16:17,660 --> 01:16:19,705 If those teachers... 1316 01:16:19,835 --> 01:16:23,361 if those kids from Las Vegas could see you now? 1317 01:16:23,491 --> 01:16:25,102 They wouldn't believe it. 1318 01:16:25,232 --> 01:16:27,626 - No, they wouldn't. 1319 01:16:31,978 --> 01:16:34,415 - Nicki, I always knew that you'd be fine. 1320 01:16:34,546 --> 01:16:36,112 I knew it in my heart. 1321 01:16:36,243 --> 01:16:37,593 - Mm-hmm. 1322 01:16:39,072 --> 01:16:41,248 - The things that you are doing for these girls... 1323 01:16:42,859 --> 01:16:45,165 if we had something like this when we were kids. 1324 01:16:45,296 --> 01:16:46,602 - Mm. 1325 01:16:48,255 --> 01:16:50,475 - I am so proud of you. 1326 01:16:54,871 --> 01:16:56,481 I love you. 1327 01:16:57,700 --> 01:16:59,223 - I love you. 1328 01:17:28,077 --> 01:17:29,340 - Mama? 1329 01:17:31,734 --> 01:17:33,300 Mama! 1330 01:17:34,300 --> 01:17:35,607 - Yes? 1331 01:17:37,478 --> 01:17:38,827 What are you hollering about? 1332 01:17:38,958 --> 01:17:40,786 I was about to take a shower. 1333 01:17:40,916 --> 01:17:42,179 - L'Oréal Paris just named you 1334 01:17:42,309 --> 01:17:44,007 one of this year's Women of Worth! 1335 01:17:53,886 --> 01:17:56,672 - I'll be honest, it was nice to win, 1336 01:17:56,802 --> 01:17:59,978 but it wasn't the award itself that meant so much to me. 1337 01:18:00,110 --> 01:18:02,373 People were finally beginning to understand 1338 01:18:02,503 --> 01:18:05,332 and appreciate what we were doing. 1339 01:18:05,463 --> 01:18:07,160 And coming up, we had a chance 1340 01:18:07,291 --> 01:18:10,120 to show the world what we were really about. 1341 01:18:19,303 --> 01:18:21,174 Since I was still recovering, 1342 01:18:21,305 --> 01:18:24,221 the doctors wanted me to rest. 1343 01:18:24,351 --> 01:18:27,050 I didn't want anyone to know how sore and exhausted I was 1344 01:18:27,180 --> 01:18:28,791 after the cancer treatment, 1345 01:18:28,921 --> 01:18:30,662 because I needed to be at the gala. 1346 01:18:30,793 --> 01:18:33,577 So, I forced myself to attend. 1347 01:18:53,380 --> 01:18:55,252 - How you feeling, Mama? 1348 01:18:55,382 --> 01:18:56,732 - Fine. 1349 01:18:56,862 --> 01:18:59,038 - You know, I think... 1350 01:18:59,169 --> 01:19:02,781 that this is our most successful event yet. 1351 01:19:05,349 --> 01:19:06,742 - Is the STEM speaker here? 1352 01:19:06,871 --> 01:19:08,395 - Yep, she's getting set up now. 1353 01:19:10,005 --> 01:19:12,573 - What about the dance crew? - They're on the way. 1354 01:19:12,704 --> 01:19:14,358 They're just ahead of schedule, so we're gonna have them 1355 01:19:14,487 --> 01:19:17,013 chill out in one of the rooms for a while. 1356 01:19:17,143 --> 01:19:20,668 - Okay. And uh... 1357 01:19:20,799 --> 01:19:23,019 you know, there was supposed to be a snow cone maker. 1358 01:19:23,148 --> 01:19:26,022 - Yeah, it blew a fuse. But it's being replaced. 1359 01:19:26,152 --> 01:19:28,415 It's gonna be up and running soon. Do not worry. 1360 01:19:30,548 --> 01:19:32,115 - Okay, how are the girls? 1361 01:19:32,245 --> 01:19:33,464 - Are you kidding me? 1362 01:19:34,726 --> 01:19:36,641 Mom, they're loving every minute of it. 1363 01:19:39,905 --> 01:19:42,603 - I'm just gonna check-- - No! No, Mama! Just relax. 1364 01:20:06,192 --> 01:20:06,976 - Shana! 1365 01:20:07,933 --> 01:20:09,978 - Miss Ni'Cola. 1366 01:20:10,109 --> 01:20:12,068 I didn't think you'd remember me. 1367 01:20:12,198 --> 01:20:15,114 - Of course, I remember you, baby, how are you? 1368 01:20:15,245 --> 01:20:17,246 - I'm good. I'm real good. 1369 01:20:17,377 --> 01:20:20,511 - Come here! Oh! 1370 01:20:22,077 --> 01:20:24,471 You look good! 1371 01:20:24,602 --> 01:20:25,995 How are things at home? 1372 01:20:26,909 --> 01:20:27,996 - I moved out. 1373 01:20:33,175 --> 01:20:35,656 - Well, I am so happy you're here. 1374 01:20:35,787 --> 01:20:37,615 - Well, I saw on your website that you'd be in town. 1375 01:20:37,745 --> 01:20:39,182 And it's really not that far. 1376 01:20:41,010 --> 01:20:42,968 I didn't know how to thank you. 1377 01:20:43,099 --> 01:20:45,144 So, I figured, what better way than in person? 1378 01:20:45,275 --> 01:20:46,362 - Thank me? 1379 01:20:47,755 --> 01:20:49,844 For a ride home? 1380 01:20:50,846 --> 01:20:52,543 - For everything I am today. 1381 01:20:53,587 --> 01:20:55,546 I'm going to college. 1382 01:20:55,675 --> 01:20:57,416 The first in my family to do so. 1383 01:20:57,548 --> 01:20:59,724 Hell, the first on my block 1384 01:20:59,855 --> 01:21:00,943 to do so. 1385 01:21:02,727 --> 01:21:04,860 And if it wasn't for the event in Charleston, 1386 01:21:04,990 --> 01:21:07,471 I never would've had the courage. 1387 01:21:07,601 --> 01:21:09,125 I would've never even had the desire. 1388 01:21:11,954 --> 01:21:14,173 - I am so proud of you. 1389 01:21:22,834 --> 01:21:25,750 - Uh... hello. Hello, everyone. 1390 01:21:25,880 --> 01:21:28,709 If Ni'Cola Mitchell is out there? 1391 01:21:28,840 --> 01:21:30,581 Uh, Ni'Cola Mitchell? 1392 01:21:30,710 --> 01:21:32,888 - I will be right back. Okay? 1393 01:21:33,018 --> 01:21:34,280 - Ni'Cola Mitchell? 1394 01:21:34,411 --> 01:21:36,195 - Have fun. Talk to the girls. 1395 01:21:43,072 --> 01:21:44,769 There she is. 1396 01:21:49,208 --> 01:21:51,514 I would like to introduce a woman 1397 01:21:51,645 --> 01:21:54,039 I have known a long time. 1398 01:21:54,170 --> 01:21:57,782 In fact, my entire life. 1399 01:21:59,001 --> 01:22:01,438 The woman responsible for all of this, 1400 01:22:01,568 --> 01:22:04,136 and who I am proud to call Mama. 1401 01:22:05,442 --> 01:22:07,879 I know she has a few words she would love to say to you. 1402 01:22:08,010 --> 01:22:09,576 Ni'Cola Mitchell. 1403 01:22:18,889 --> 01:22:20,457 - Thank you, Diamond. 1404 01:22:21,719 --> 01:22:23,939 And thank you, everyone. 1405 01:22:25,636 --> 01:22:28,246 And to our partners, 1406 01:22:28,378 --> 01:22:31,337 and our sponsors, 1407 01:22:31,468 --> 01:22:35,559 we appreciate you more than you could ever imagine. 1408 01:22:44,394 --> 01:22:46,222 When I came up 1409 01:22:46,352 --> 01:22:49,834 with the concept for Girls Who Brunch... 1410 01:22:52,141 --> 01:22:55,187 I never dreamed it could be this big. 1411 01:22:55,318 --> 01:22:57,929 To date, 1412 01:22:58,059 --> 01:23:01,019 we've traveled to dozens of cities, 1413 01:23:01,150 --> 01:23:04,109 and reached thousands of girls. 1414 01:23:11,987 --> 01:23:14,511 But no matter how big we become, 1415 01:23:17,688 --> 01:23:20,907 what's most important to me is that 1416 01:23:21,039 --> 01:23:26,436 we have never strayed from our core mission 1417 01:23:26,566 --> 01:23:29,091 to show girls 1418 01:23:29,221 --> 01:23:31,832 all across the world... 1419 01:23:33,486 --> 01:23:36,184 that no matter who you are... 1420 01:23:37,664 --> 01:23:40,710 No matter where you come from... 1421 01:23:43,757 --> 01:23:45,150 you matter. 1422 01:23:47,196 --> 01:23:49,198 You matter! 1423 01:23:51,068 --> 01:23:52,809 And if you believe in yourself... 1424 01:23:55,334 --> 01:23:58,555 there is nothing... 1425 01:23:58,684 --> 01:24:03,299 nothing that you can't accomplish! 1426 01:24:06,693 --> 01:24:08,043 - Woo! 1427 01:24:23,536 --> 01:24:25,277 - Excuse me, Ni'Cola? 1428 01:24:25,407 --> 01:24:26,844 - Yes? 1429 01:24:26,974 --> 01:24:29,064 - I am Jacqueline Nelson. 1430 01:24:29,193 --> 01:24:31,109 I'm the Senior Vice-President of The Home Store. 1431 01:24:31,240 --> 01:24:33,416 I handle all the sponsorships. 1432 01:24:33,546 --> 01:24:35,460 - Oh. - Mm-hmm. 1433 01:24:35,592 --> 01:24:37,376 I can't tell you how impressed I am 1434 01:24:37,507 --> 01:24:39,900 with all of this. It's incredible! 1435 01:24:40,031 --> 01:24:41,467 - Thank you. - Mm-hmm. 1436 01:24:41,598 --> 01:24:43,687 - Um... I don't mean to cut you off, 1437 01:24:43,817 --> 01:24:46,516 but um, I actually reached out to The Home Store 1438 01:24:46,646 --> 01:24:48,735 when I was first getting Girls Who Brunch off the ground. 1439 01:24:48,866 --> 01:24:51,651 - Oh, I had no idea! - Yeah. 1440 01:24:51,782 --> 01:24:54,567 I was actually looking for sponsorship dollars, 1441 01:24:54,698 --> 01:24:57,788 but The Home Store told me they would not be interested. 1442 01:24:58,441 --> 01:24:59,790 - Hmm. 1443 01:25:00,921 --> 01:25:02,619 I don't know who you spoke to, 1444 01:25:02,749 --> 01:25:04,316 but I can tell you this, 1445 01:25:04,447 --> 01:25:06,362 The Home Store is very interested 1446 01:25:06,492 --> 01:25:08,625 in working with you and your organization. 1447 01:25:10,105 --> 01:25:11,802 - Well, what do you have in mind? 1448 01:25:13,499 --> 01:25:16,502 - For starters, we'd like for you to accept this donation. 1449 01:25:16,633 --> 01:25:19,114 And when it's convenient for you, 1450 01:25:19,244 --> 01:25:21,377 perhaps we can, you know, brainstorm for creative ways 1451 01:25:21,507 --> 01:25:22,856 to collaborate. 1452 01:25:22,987 --> 01:25:24,641 - Okay. Thank you. 1453 01:25:24,771 --> 01:25:26,121 - Mm-hmm. 1454 01:25:27,600 --> 01:25:29,994 Is this for real? 1455 01:25:30,125 --> 01:25:33,084 - Like I said, we're very interested in working with you. 1456 01:25:46,141 --> 01:25:48,273 I guess they did wanna work with me, 1457 01:25:48,404 --> 01:25:51,798 because the check was for more than I could've imagined. 1458 01:25:51,929 --> 01:25:53,626 And it went to good use. 1459 01:25:53,757 --> 01:25:56,934 Girls Who Brunch is now bigger than ever. 1460 01:25:57,064 --> 01:25:59,371 We have more recognition, 1461 01:25:59,502 --> 01:26:02,983 more partnerships, and more money. 1462 01:26:03,114 --> 01:26:06,943 And yet, people ask me why I still do it. 1463 01:26:07,074 --> 01:26:09,425 So, I tell them... 1464 01:26:09,555 --> 01:26:12,123 I tell them what I've always believed, 1465 01:26:12,254 --> 01:26:15,300 if you can save one girl, 1466 01:26:15,431 --> 01:26:17,520 you've saved the world. 1467 01:26:36,843 --> 01:26:39,541 Subtitling: difuze 102099

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