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[Interviewer] Do you have a name for it?

- I like to call him the weapon of ass destruction.

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- I just thought Jesus Christ, it's gonna kill me.

- [Narrator] Celebrated from poetry to porn.

Size really matters in my line of work.

- [Narrator] Bigger is often seen as better.

- I'm still always on the look for the next big one

that might tick all the boxes.

There is such a thing as too big.

- [Narrator] But for some, it's not always a blessing.

It's either don't go out

or someone stares at your cock really.

- [Narrator] Instead it can even be a curse.

- People just want your attention because of your penis,

not because of who you are.

- I feel like they're looking at me as if, you know,

you should be ashamed of that.

- [Narrator] Driving some to consider taking extreme action.

- Most people are looking for penal enlargement,

and you're looking the opposite.

I have a big, a big penis.

- [Narrator] When size becomes an obsession.

That was like a eleven incher.

BBC isn't the broadcasting company,

it stands for big Black cock.

- I got offered 400 quid for someone to suck me off once.

[Narrator] And the humiliation.

It really makes you feel like,

you know less of a human.

You're always worried, is it big enough?

- What they want is clearly below the waistline,

they don't care about what's up here.

- [Scott] Right let's just do a little warm-up

round the goals then.

Back to a light jog then.

I'm 35 and my cock is about 9.4 inches erect.

(upbeat music)

- They are a bit tight, I know tell me about it.

- [Narrator] Football coach Scott is single

and looking for love, but his mates won't stop teasing him

for his big penis.

Good session, lads.

(men laugh)

I've been joked about quite a lot about my dick,

mainly in the changing rooms.

[Friend] Scotty, how's it looking?

[Scott] Alright mate.

You know guys are always talking about it.

[Friend] Scotty, wash and make it dance.

(friend laughs)

They are the ones who objectify me

and have obviously a bit of a laugh.

It is what it is at the end of the day.

(man laughs)

- [Interviewer] Do you think they're envious?

I think 100% they're envious,

that's why they talk about it all the time,

that's why they take pictures.

That's why they're always asking questions.

First thing they thought was,

he looks like an '80s porn star.

Yeah, I was thinking that.

- And you know that's about five people that I know

who just said that straight away.

I generally take it in good humour.

It can be quite a laugh and I don't mind it at times,

but it gets to a point where it can get a bit,

you know a bit tedious.

[Narrator] But it's not just the lads

that are in the know, word has spread around town.

Randomly I got a message saying,

"Send a pic, the girls wanna see it."

My friend's gift, so I just said, "How many do you want?"

So I've literally pulled four pictures off the group chat,

the video we've done, they couldn't believe it.

Bit of a reputation.

- It's on my phone and I think every single person

has seen your dick.

Seriously?

Oh God.

They're a good bunch of lads

but I think it can affect my dating life around this area

'cause a lot of people know about it.

When you've recorded the size,

do you use metric or imperial?

- It's normally in inches. - yeah?

It's weird when you start measuring stuff,

in Scott's length, fifteen Scott metres.

- Is this how it's gonna be then, like in future?

(sad music)

- [Interviewer] How does that feel to be in there

and just having the piss taken out of you like that?

Well same as usual really, you know?

When you've got your mates speaking about you

and just wanna show it to their mates,

especially people I don't really know.

It does make you feel like, people just want your attention

because of your penis, not because of who you are.

(sad music)

- My favourite word for a penis has to be schlong,

'cause there's so much like, lurr,

there's so much length to it.

Do you know what I mean?

Schlong, like I'm all about that.

- [Teacher] The adolescent boy has other problems too,

I'm talking about his problems in growth and development

which can be as disturbing to him as his sex pressures.

I used to go to a school,

we had to go swimming in the bare.

I was so embarrassed about the size of my penis

that we used to dread the days we had to go swimming.

- But every boy should realise that the size

of his genital organs has nothing to do with fertility

or his capacity as a male.

(bouncy music)

So the average length of a penis

is just over five inches long, and that's for many countries

and many, many studies.

Most men believe penises are longer than that.

- If we're looking at a measurement like eight inches,

probably well under 1% of men in the world

have a penis that long.

[Narrator] And for those 1%,

life can sometimes be a complete nightmare.

I've had people walk past me

or I cross paths with people in the street

and they kinda like stare at it

and look at me in a way like, you know,

why have you got that on display or why would you have that?

You know it's kinda like, nearly as if,

I feel like they're looking at me as if, you know,

you should be ashamed of that, do something about that.

- I've got no choice 'cause you can kind of see

it through whatever.

It's either don't go out

or someone stares at your cock really.

- [Narrator] 22 year old Joe can't hide his problem.

He suffers daily abuse due to his size.

- We usually have a tally to see how many people looked.

Like just back there someone was staring.

I usually wear underwear that's got like a pouch

in the front 'cause if you try and push it down,

you get like a cock hamburger with a ball either side.

(sombre music)

I was about 14, I was playing football

and then one of my mates went to my other mates

and just went, have you seen that thing is despicable,

and then it just started as a whole rumour

around the school about how big it was.

And I was in the showers and was like oh, okay, yes it is.

It's about nine and a half now and I'm 5'6.

So that's 66 inches.

So it's like nearly a 12th of my height.

The scaling is off, quite off.

It's thicker than my forearm.

It's about seven around and I can get my hand around

my wrist quite easily,

but I can't get my hand around my own dick.

(door squeaks)

It's not the best look in the world.

- [Narrator] Joe needs to buy special underwear,

costing him over £200 per year.

- These are the ones where if I take more than 10 steps,

voom, it's fallen out the end.

Yeah.

(door squeaks)

Even getting dressed, balls to one side, cock to the other,

finding the perfect sort of place to put it.

I have to think of my thigh to cock ratio.

(lively music)

This is essentially, it's got an extra pouch.

It's basically for people who have big dicks

and it's the only ones I've got that properly sort of

fit everything in.

The issue is 'cause I'm quite a shower,

people just automatically presume that I've got a boner

'cause like, I can't tuck it round the side.

[Narrator] Despite Joe's special pants,

he still can't hide his bulge.

I went for this interview

and I thought the interview went really well,

but suit trousers are well fitting, very tight.

The response I got was you're not gonna get the job.

We thought you were a good candidate,

but we thought there was inappropriate behaviour happening.

They thought I had an erection

throughout this whole interview

and they were very much like, your attire wasn't right.

They clearly meant you know, we could see your dick.

(sad music)

- [Narrator] Being very well endowed isn't always

what it's cracked up to be, so be careful what you wish for.

- I remember the first time I saw a massive penis.

I was in my late teens and I just thought,

Jesus Christ, it's gonna kill me.

Like there's no way that some magic trick

this is gonna happen.

- That was like a 11 incher, and it was, bloody hell.

That was, there's such a thing as too big.

(Laura laughs)

- I think men are obsessed with their penis sizes,

it's because maybe it's something ingrained

from their childhood you know?

They keep talking about it,

it's sort of and it's something relayed to them

when they're children and they're just like, oh okay,

if I have a big penis, then I am literally a hot guy

whose gonna be desirable to all women,

and they don't understand there's more to it.

There's definitely more to it, because a big penis

is just there, but you need to know how to swing it.

(upbeat music)

But there's always an exception.

[Bonnie] So I'm a size queen.

So that basically means that I prefer to have sex with guys

that have above average or very huge penises.

(upbeat music)

Eight inches and above would be making it

worth my while I think.

[Interviewer] How big are you, Tommy?

- Above average, something like seven and a half inches

but I get most people with my girth,

which is seven inches, so.

- But I'm still always on the look for the next big one

that might tick all the boxes.

(Bonnie laughs)

[Narrator] Bonnie and her partner Tommy

have been together for seven years.

What do you think about this one?

- [Narrator] They're now taking their sex life online

and Bonnie is looking to engage

with the most generously endowed guys in the country.

Big dick energy, what do you think?

We've always filmed our sex life

since the first time we met,

filmed our first sex tape on the first night.

Yeah, I was kinda like,

oh this is a guy that I can be completely honest with.

Nothing that I said to him in the bedroom over that weekend

was like shocking to him.

No, I was actively encouraging.

Yeah.

I know actually I've got someone else

- to show you. - Yeah?

- Looking at his Twitter, he's ticking the size queen box

that's for sure.

That's a big dick.

(Bonnie on Tommy laugh)

(upbeat music)

I'm measuring me cock.

It's 10.5 inches from the base to the tip.

Size really matters in my line of work.

- [Narrator] Ex-plumber Andy Lee is making

his impressive love muscle work for him.

With over 25,000 followers,

he's now raking it in as an adult performer.

He seen me go in the gym,

he saw me in the changing rooms and Jesus,

that's a big old cock.

He said, "Would you ever think about doing porn?"

I said, "I'd do it, I don't care."

There's 21 comments on this one.

"Jesus, it's like a bear cam."

"So big, daddy."

So there's a photo of me with my cock in me hand

and a sledgehammer dressed in work gear.

Says, "Looks like demolition."

"Tool in each hand, laying pipes,

smashing doors and filling cracks."

So I just got a message off this couple, Bonnie and Tommy.

I've seen some of their stuff before,

I've seen some of their TikTok videos and stuff.

They look pretty cool.

Bonnie comes across as a,

like a cock destroyer.

Hopefully arrange something for this week,

then we can organise a video and we can fuck hard.

- [Matt] It's made me a lot of a focus of attention.

Often my reputation has preceded me in terms of my size.

- [Narrator] 39 year old Cambridge graduate Matt

hasn't been able to hold down a relationship

as a result of his 10.5 inch penis.

♪ Love me all out ♪

- [Narrator] His previous attempts to find a partner online

have left him feeling fetishised.

- I'm not an attention seeker, I'm not an extrovert,

I'm not a particularly social person.

Any attention I get 'cause of my size, you know,

unless it's from the right person,

then I'm generally not interested in it.

You always have the issue that people will think

you're aroused when you're not in a regular swimming pool.

I'm always you know,

quite a conservative and considerate guy.

So I try to make sure if I do feel the need to

cast off the shackles of the usual nine to five,

I can go somewhere a bit more peaceful.

(sad music)

Being well endowed gets you attention,

it doesn't get you affection.

Women are very curious,

it doesn't mean they're gonna

suddenly fall in love with you.

If anything it's more of a handicap

to actually getting a relationship

because it's something you can't really bring up

in the courtship process.

If you bring it up, you're a bit sleazy

and if you don't bring it up, then it causes complications.

But really you kind of want that nice compromise

between someone who likes you for your mind

and for your body,

but it's very hard to get that perfect match.

Generally, I'll use these condoms.

They are the sort of the biggest on the market.

These are supposedly about nine and a half inches around.

So it doesn't cover everything.

For comparison, here is a regular sized condom.

I've been lightheaded before

certainly at my most engorged.

It can be difficult to concentrate.

- [Narrator] Matt has felt objectified in the past

and his penis can attract the wrong kind of interest.

- There was one girl who made a replica of my erect penis

and then next day, ghosted me,

left me without any warning.

Most baffled I've been.

(sad music)

Maybe not the most charming person in the universe,

but it still hurts when what they want

is clearly below the waistline.

They don't care about what's up here.

It's very difficult to get your self-esteem

when you get that level of rejection.

- [Narrator] Matt's extreme size has led him

to take drastic measures.

He's considering a rare and extremely complicated surgery.

- I've always wondered whether it would be a good idea

to have a reduction.

It could help if I could lose three or four inches

and be fine, then I don't see why I wouldn't consider it.

(cars rumble)

- [Joe] So this is the kit that you basically make

a replica of your own penis.

[Narrator] Shower Joe is unable to hide

his trouser torpedo,

but has found a way to tackle the attention through art.

- Well I'm making a mould because, well I'm an artist

and everyone talks about my cock constantly.

It's everywhere.

Why not make an art piece out of it, a sculpture?

Let's do something fun.

This is disgusting.

[Interviewer] Does it feel really weird?

Err it is horrible.

I'm gonna use it as decoration no doubt,

or someone can have it as a birthday present.

(calm music)

It's all dry.

- [Interviewer] Is that a good representation

of you would you say?

Yeah, that's pretty much identical.

It not actually being attached to me

is weird actually feeling the scale of it.

So yeah, it's actually come out pretty decent.

There's been a lot of times where people talk to me

kind of just like a, ah, you've got a massive cock.

I kind of wanna try that, let's just fuck it, let's just go.

But a couple of times where people have been like,

nah, like you're a nice guy,

but I won't have sex in case I die.

My mates specifically think it's hilarious

on birthdays, anything, is to just send me cards

with pictures of my cock on.

Every birthday, I'm inundated with like 40 cards

or something, just at a party.

Drunk boner, they're like, ha, you're in the shower, photo.

And then that was bad 'cause I was sending nudes on Snapchat

and accidentally sent it to our um,

sent it to our group chat.

so I had about 30 notifications

of screenshot, screenshot, screenshot, screenshot.

The level of subtlety in a cockney friendship group

is that they like, you know just re-emphasis the point.

(lively music)

- [Narrator] Joe has decided to surprise his friends

with his new masterpiece,

which he's taking down the pub.

- [Joe] I hope they're not horrified or traumatised, I mean.

Uh, yeah, that's my dick, that.

Oh my gosh.

'Cause you can't look away from it.

[Narrator] Our survey reveals

that one third of the population have problems

with penis size in the bedroom

and this effects women more than men.

Yeah, it's the sort of thing,

especially when I was younger and you know,

first lose virginity that sort of thing.

People who I was hooking up with,

they'd never seen a cock before.

So we'd have sex and then they'd be like,

is sex meant to hurt like that?

And I was like oh I hope not, oh no.

But because I was 15, 16,

- I also didn't know. - Yeah, yeah, yeah.

So, I was like oh this is just,

this is just a normal dick, oh these poor people.

[Friend] Yeah, yeah, yeah.

(calm music)

- Honest, I never knew that I had a big dick.

And obviously me being very young and not knowing about sex,

but when you're very new to the gay world,

I feel like everything is quite scary.

So I started seeing this guy, the lights were off,

and we were fucking and it was good, it was okay.

It was just very wet, like, everywhere.

So I turned the light on

and there was just blood everywhere.

It was bad.

I just remember sitting there dick in hand in the bath,

covered in blood crying, like, like uh,

and he's there, like it's normal, it's fine.

I'm like, it's not fucking normal.

I never had sex for a year after that.

(calm music)

Sometimes you do get a bit of guilt.

It is a very harsh thing to expect someone

to be able to take all of you,

like well take your entire length.

Especially if you know that someone's struggling to take it

and still trying to take it, and just like, in pure pain.

If I put myself in that situation,

I wouldn't want that to be me.

- I have had an experience with a big penis.

So as I like moved the pubic hair

and I saw the big penis hanging there I'm just like,

oh my god, I am tiny, I am not gonna be able to handle this.

- [Interviewer] So you didn't do it, you didn't cover?

- No I didn't because it was a little intimidating for me

and it was really big, really, really big.

- So I'm just hoping that he lives up to my expectations

from everything that I've seen on his Twitter.

- [Narrator] Size queen Bonnie and partner Tommy

are meeting up for a threesome with big boy, Andy Lee.

Andy is 10.5 inches erect,

double the size of an average penis

but even he's having doubts.

To be honest I am a bit nervous today.

I'm not normally but today,

I'm a little bit nervous, you know?

- [Interviewer] Why are you nervous today do you think?

What if I don't perform?

What if I took out my dick and she was like,

oh it's not actually that big?

(calm music)

She seems like a lovely girl, she's very attractive so.

And I'm sure Tommy's gonna be a great sideman.

(lively music)

[Bonnie] Okay then.

(calm music)

(door clanks)

(bird twitters)

- [Interviewer] Was she impressed by the size?

[Andy] She was impressed yeah.

[Interviewer] She was happy with that?

Yeah, she seemed very happy.

She seemed very, very happy, so.

(lively music)

- [Narrator] Bonnie's appetite for larger sized men

means she's always looking for the next big thing.

[Bonnie] Continue to look for more

'cause I'm greedy like that.

- [Interviewer] And how does that make you feel?

- Like as a guy you're always worried, is it big enough?

Sure there's guys with you know much bigger dicks than me

that are still like is it big enough, is it big enough?

'Cause I think it's like, it's a guy thing, innit.?

- I'm not sorry about saying that I want guys

that have got big dicks.

- No. - No.

Just saying what you want, innit?

- Yeah, just saying - Like plenty of men say

- what I want. what they want,

- and ah, I wouldn't shag her - Yeah, I get it all the time.

- and stuff like that. - Oh like, your boobs

aren't big enough.

I think women's bodies are constantly fetishised

and men definitely don't get it to the same degree

as what a woman does.

You cannot control your anatomy.

- No. - Which I suppose is me

being a bit contradictory like,

a guy can't control his anatomy

and like what size his dick is, but.

I think for guys it's a really,

- it's a touchy subject. - It's a touchy subject yeah.

It doesn't matter who you are.

- I appreciate that but then what I would say is,

like do something and work on your ego, like.

(calm music)

[Narrator] Scott is looking for love,

but has previously had problems with intimacy

due to his size.

- Been a couple of times where we've been dating for a while

and then when it gets to the sex,

that's when things struggle.

You know you try, and you try and you keep trying

until you try, you know, till it works, but it just doesn't.

(lively music)

- [Narrator] Tonight, he's going on a date with Malina,

who doesn't know about his size,

which means that Scott can break the news himself.

- It's not something I'd normally reveal on the first date.

But I think I'm at that point in my life now

where I don't wanna mess around,

I wanna get things right and get things out in the open.

(lively music)

Applying something that's good for the shaft.

It's a sort of penile moisturiser.

I do this quite regularly to be honest.

It just feels, just feels good.

(bouncy music)

- You look great. - Thank you, you too.

- Cheers. - Cheers, thanks for

- inviting me out tonight. - Good to see you.

- No, my pleasure. - Great to see you too.

What job are you doing now?

I am going into property development.

Oh, are you?

[Narrator] With the evening going well,

Scott decides to flag up what's on his mind.

- So partly you know I struggle for dating,

if I'm being completely honest is that um,

I have a...

I have a, I have...

I have a big, a big penis.

Okay.

So in all seriousness, so for example

if I'm dating somebody and it goes further

and then they see it, and they're like, oh,

like that's a real problem then

and it causes problems.

And it's just like well maybe that should have

been mentioned before.

Well thank you for

- sharing that with me. - I'd rather,

might not just be a problem for me,

could also be a problem for women

who maybe can't accept the size as well.

And the fact that it might upset you,

that you can't handle it,

and I don't mean you specifically, but you know--

- I know what you're saying, like females in general

- who are interested - Yeah, yeah, yeah.

[Malina] in a romantic, yeah.

I think we connected really well

because she was able to have that conversation with me

and I felt like, wow that's something different.

Something's not really been,

not really been able to talk about that before.

So just went really well and we were laughing.

I'd say there's a bit of a connection there, yeah.

It's not a topic that you'd necessarily

bring up with people.

Like, I mean if I was to bring up elements

of my private anatomy it is quite private, isn't it?

But I thought if he thought

that things could progress romantically,

is an important thing to bring up.

It's just hard to know really what would happen.

[Interviewer] But never say never.

Well yeah as they say, never say never.

- [Interviewer] So are you gonna ask her on another date?

(Scott laughs)

Am I gonna ask her on another date?

Yeah, yeah, I'd like to.

Tonight went really well, so I'm really happy.

I didn't know my one was bigger

until in my early 20s to be honest

because I'm not really actively looking at hard penises.

Until people started actually commenting on it

and women that I know who had slept with a lot of Black guys

and they're categorically telling me, you're bigger,

that's when I'm thinking hmm.

That's when I realised okay, maybe I'm bigger than average.

(upbeat music)

[Narrator] 27 year old YouTuber Cam,

has felt objectified for his size all his adult life.

Something that has led him to create videos

exploring these taboos.

- The main reason why I actually started my YouTube channel

was because I actually wanted to tackle

difficult and controversial topics.

The first topic that I felt I had to address

was race related and specifically the fetishisation

of Black men.

Is it true that all Black men seem to have

a bigger penis than other races for example?

Between me and my friends, we've got thousands of examples.

It usually kind of shows itself

when you're talking to a girl

and they always make it known what their preference is.

And they seem to think that's a compliment,

but it really isn't.

For example, I was talking to a girl.

The white girl made it very, very clear,

she categorically said, "Oh you know,

I don't date white guys, I only go for Black guys."

That is obviously an example of fetishisation.

(calm music)

Framing, that's perfect.

What's going on people?

Did 'ya miss you boy, Cam Topical Juice

and I'm back with another video for y'all.

Talking about the fetishisation of Black men.

Believe that a lot of this does come from pornography.

- [Narrator] Fed up with the depiction of Black men in porn,

Cam decides to make a new video

exploring the big Black cock fetish.

- BBC isn't the broadcasting company, it is,

it stands for big Black cock.

Just, I basically just tapped in BBC.

This is just on one random porn site

and it's got 85,101 results.

So you've got related search, BBC rough, BBC orgasm,

Black cock, BBC gangbang, BBC threesomes, blat.

Oh how I didn't mention this in my videos, blat.

And look at the common theme, it's all,

it's Black men but look at the women.

It's not ebony women, what they call it,

that's a porn character, ebony's, not Black women,

it's white women all being drilled by big Black cocks,

you know by BBCs'.

It really kind of makes you feel like, you know,

less of a human type thing

because I feel like a lot of women

should be able to empathise with this a lot

because women are sexualised heavily in society.

You know the male gaze.

We're just looking at women as sexual objects.

Women don't like that, they kinda feel used.

I feel exactly the same.

(sad music)

- Yeah, yeah, yeah, I get objectified all the time.

It's happened to me a few times,

like I'd fall out with someone

and then they'll like hollah back at me

and like get in touch.

It's not to know how I'm doing, do you know what I mean?

But because of what's down there,

and then you're just like, ah.

- The fetishisation of the willy is in my head,

I'm like right okay, we can't let the team down

because obviously you know it's not true.

Like they say oh yeah, Black men have bigger willies.

They really don't, but in my head,

I'm like since I'm gonna represent this,

let's keep the stereotype going.

(sombre music)

[Narrator] Matt feels he has been used

only for his large penis in previous relationships.

There was one girl who was very into me

being at my biggest.

So she found online, she ordered me a custom penis pump

that I could use to be basically as hard

as long as she wanted it to be.

You know I want to see it fully erect and obviously that,

the only way to do that is with pumping.

It's something to maintain an erection.

Creates a vacuum seal

and then even if you're not particularly aroused,

you end up filling up the tube.

She'd be doing the cooking,

I would be encouraged to fill this up

and then you can unplug it

and then you can go about your daily business.

She'd be able to sort of look at me

like some sort of phallic totem pole

while we were you know watching TV or playing scrabble

or doing whatever mundane evening activities she wanted.

And when you're in that situation,

obviously you're very exposed

and it's perhaps flattering to get that level of attention

but also, it's very, degrading to be you know,

expected to perform like that.

(calm music)

She was a size obsessed woman obviously

and she ended up just showing my pictures around

without my consent

and that was obviously pretty hurtful as well.

Like you know, no one wants to be treated

like a piece of meat.

(calm music)

- [Narrator] To find true love, Matt is considering

a drastic solution for his problem

and has plucked up the courage to visit a surgeon

specialising in penis reduction surgery.

He's meeting Dr. Jakovich, a specialist in urology.

- Exciting but I don't know what he can do.

I always feel a bit you know,

am I big enough for a reduction?

I guess just to know what the options are realistically

at this point.

I mean if he can just take you know an inch off,

that might be life changing.

Obviously nervous because you get a bit squeamish

when you're thinking about what could be happening.

I just wanna know what it entails.

Hello, hi.

Can you explain to me what the reason is for this

well let's say unusual request

because most people are looking for penal enlargement

and you're looking the opposite?

I've had a lot of issues in my life.

I think I've never had, I know I'll never you know

find a partner who is that perfect fit,

I think at the current size.

And it would be good just to maybe just have

a slight reduction.

- What we can offer to you is a reasonable reduction

in length and girth if this is what you're looking for.

[Matt] Yes.

- And then the surgery will be done in erection

and then we do the amputation of that amount

what is your desire.

- 'Cause I'm definitely at the point where I don't know

how much I would sensibly want to remove.

I'm assuming you couldn't just take a little bit off

and then a little bit more off the surgery theoretically?

Don't know if you'd do that but--

We can't do the salami technique,

we can't cut a little bit

- each year to cut a little bit. - Yeah, yeah, I figured, yeah.

So once we've done it, that's it.

Is it possible, can I see your penis?

[Matt] Yes.

- [Dr. Jakovich] What size do you have an erection?

[Matt] It's about 10.5, yeah.

- [Dr. Jakovich] What would be the appropriate length

of your penis?

I don't know, I think of going down

to even just like nine or eight and a half.

Nine inches and reduction in girth is,

how much, what do you think?

[Matt] Probably about an inch or two?

- An inch on circumference? - Yeah.

- This is definitely possible. - Yeah.

- We put it in erection, the corporal body, you see here?

We fill it completely and then the measures are taken,

then this will be amputated,

take off this part and then put everything together

and this is now in complete erection.

First of all you should know

that they are performed very seldomly

because there is no clear statistics regarding success rate

and more clear statistic regarding the complication rate.

But we have for year, two or three of these patients

performing this type of surgery.

Thank you.

I did not realise the sheer number of complications,

the possible difficulties, the lack of an exact removal.

Just having spoken to someone who knows the subject so well,

give me that reassurance.

It's definitely an extreme solution,

but it is certainly something I could be considering.

(calm music)

- So sometimes, I do wish I was a little bit smaller.

I would probably still be in one or two of my relationships

from the past if I had a smaller penis, you know?

So, yeah, sometimes I do wish I had,

I was a smaller size, yeah.

It's not difficult to attract love.

Might be somewhat difficult

keeping it, you know?

Like, just depending on how that partner,

in how sex is affected with that partner for example.

If it's something that you know,

if you know she loves, you know the situation that's there,

then incredible.

But if it's a problem, then that's,

I don't wanna say oh red flag, she can't take dick.

You know what I mean like that's not what I'd say,

but it's more like a, it's definitely amber.

(calm music)

- The date with Malina, it went really well,

but there just wasn't quite that connection

in the end I think, so we've parted ways.

[Narrator] Scott's very large penis

has often meant sex has been difficult in his relationships

but at last, things are looking up.

Had a new date since.

I just met somebody on a random night out,

we went on a date last night

and it went really well, I think anyway.

I'd like to see where things go with that, if I'm honest.

(calm music)

But while I was with her, dancing with her,

one of the guys went up to her and just basically said,

"Yeah Scott's got a big cock."

I was quite annoyed about it

'cause again I don't want people to know me because of that,

I want people to know me for my personality.

[Narrator] As well as ruining his date,

the videos of Scott's penis continue to do the rounds

and it's getting him down.

- One of the guys created something recently,

a new group on WhatsApp.

He goes, "Oh the video came out."

And then one of the guys asked, "Which video?".

He replied, "Weymouth one,

where he comes out of the shower."

And one of the guys goes, "Oh I've got it."

and the other guy goes,

"Oh yeah, I've got that in my prank wank bank."

They've taken it without me knowing,

just there casually having a shower,

come out afterwards, getting changed and that happens.

So that sort of stuff just gets sent around.

That's not what I wanna be known for.

- [Interviewer] Why have you put up with it for so long?

Why have you not said anything?

- Maybe I don't say it enough that actually,

come on guys, let's put a stop for the, you know?

Don't take it without my consent.

You know enough's enough really.

So I've gotta give my mate a call and have a chat with him.

(intense music)

Would it be okay to catch up with you?

Bye.

(intense music)

So we'll see what happens.

[Narrator] YouTuber Cam is exploring

the fetishisation of Black men

for a new video for his channel.

I'm expecting big dicks,

expecting women to be throwing themselves

at these Black men on the stage.

Let's see what happens.

[Narrator] Tonight he's visiting

and all male Black strip show

to find out what's so fascinating

to the women in the audience.

This the whole shit.

Let's go.

Two, one.

(women cheer)

- [Narrator] To keep the audience satisfied

and to live up to the stereotype of the Black man,

the performers go to great lengths.

It's just like an air vacuum

because there's nothing here to arouse us,

like women or whatever,

we have to stimulate that effect somehow.

So we use these pumps to get all the blood in the penis

and then tie off the base so the blood stays in

'cause if your performance is 20 minutes, 25 minutes,

nobody's really looking to see a soft penis.

(upbeat music)

♪ Not with a ladder, can't reach me ♪

♪ That has done better on the Davey ♪

♪ Stop, one more game on the best V ♪

- [Narrator] Having felt fetishised himself in the past,

Cam wants to know what the appeal is.

- This idea of BBC, the fetishisation of things,

what's your opinion on it?

Black mean having big dicks for example,

is that true?

- I must say they're not all the same size.

[Cam] Ah cool, cool, cool, cool,

- cool, cool, cool, cool. - They're not all massive,

I think it is very much a stereotype.

[Cam] Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,

- no I agree. - But for me personally,

I've been with some guys that have got small penises.

- [Cam] They've got small, and they're Black as well, yeah?

What's the pros and cons of a big penis?

I mean pros is to say that yeah,

you took a big, big penis.

- Oh, okay, okay. - You can handle that I guess.

- So now to be fair because the reason I ask

is because what's your opinion on say for example,

white women that only go for Black men for instance?

I feel like if you're,

the only reason you're going for Black men

is 'cause you think they got a big dick,

then you need to educate yourself.

[Cam] Okay.

(upbeat music)

Being a white woman for example,

what is it like about Black men

that you are attracted to now?

- I mean you saw what was on the stage, right?

If I had to choose between a lot,

like a medium to a larger size than a small,

- then I probably would go - You're gonna go

- for a medium to large size. - for the bigger, okay, yeah.

(women cheer)

If for example a Black guy doesn't have

a big penis for example,

do you think it's a bit of fun to him, for example,

that there's this narrative that all Black men

must have big dicks, but actually there's a lot of men

out there that don't have big dicks?

- As a woman, you have to take responsibility

to support your man

and say you know I like you the way you are,

but if you don't like the guy the way he is,

then you have to move on.

(upbeat music)

One of the major things I've learnt

is that people who have a preference for example,

especially if they kind of fetishise a certain race,

they'll always do mental hula hoops

to kind of rationalise it and justify it in their minds.

A lot of these women, I think secretly they do like the idea

of this BBC type thing, but not all of them do.

One of the white women that I actually interviewed,

she made about actually,

it's just about making men feel comfortable

no matter what their size.

(upbeat music)

This belief is much more common amongst younger Brits.

- [Tracy] I think it's a really good way to judge

the honesty of a man, to actually say what is your size?

Now prove it.

So that one's for girth.

- It's an old fashioned idea that the bigger the cock,

the bigger the man.

And it seems to be that a big cock

equals like a really, really manly person.

- No such thing as an alpha male, that's a complete fad.

There were a lot of positive to having a big penis,

but I don't think having a big penis

should make anyone feel,

we shouldn't be any less of a man if I had a smaller penis.

(calm music)

- [Narrator] Scott's had enough of the banter

and relentless sharing of pictures amongst his teammates.

He's meeting his mate Alec

in the hope that something will change.

(intense music)

It's to do with obviously my penis

and bit of banter about you and the guys

and you are one of the main sort of forefront of it.

And I feel at times, I feel a bit objectified

and it's sort of hampered my dating scene locally

because everyone knows about it.

I think it's more a celebration though.

I think if you're honest Scott,

I think you like a little bit of the notoriety of it.

I can understand it could hamper you,

but I think it could also really benefit you as well.

- How would you feel if that was, you know,

your dick being shown around?

I think I'd love it.

- You'd lap it up? - Yeah.

- It's when pictures are taken and videos are taken

that aren't consented,

that get sent to my mates' work colleagues

and people just know Scott Newman for that

and put all around Dorset and Somerset.

Listen I know that the guys,

it is in good humour.

Just imagine if it was like,

say your wife's tits being sent around.

- No-one would have access to that.

- No, but then why should they have access to me?

You're in a changing room.

If we're honest around the guys, you're not shy,

not that you have to be.

When I'm in that situation,

I try and say look that's enough,

they just keep going with it or just keeps carrying on.

But I think I'm at that point now, where I'm like.

- I still see it as a positive, but I do understand that.

Yeah, no I appreciate that.

You're subject to a lot of conversation.

- Yeah, I am, and I don't want--

- The only thing worse than being spoken about

it not being spoken about.

You know that, Scott.

But I will have a word with the guys

if it will make life in the changing room

a little bit easier on match day.

I would definitely appreciate that.

Yeah?

Think it is all done in good humour,

but I can imagine you know when the match has stopped,

the changing rooms are filled and he goes home that

perhaps it does maybe weigh on him a little bit.

I don't think the guys know, I certainly didn't know

and you know I'm glad he brought it to our attention

and you know I probably will perhaps act

a little bit differently.

I do feel a lot more confident that

he'll put it towards the lads and subtly and sort of say,

yeah, you know this is how Scott feels.

And so I'm hoping that will happen

and maybe just give me a bit more respect

and just, you know, just let me know

if you wanna take a picture or you know

just don't do it without me not knowing, you know?

- Oh my God, names for penises that people have told me,

err little Johnny.

You know whopper, that's it.

destroyer, purple headed destroyer.

Dick, cock.

- I used to call him Jimmy, I don't know why.

I think just old willy or in Scotland they say Bobby.

I think that's just a bit boring, weren't it?

So, I just gave him like a different name.

Jimmy, just to add a bit, I don't know why,

it was a boring name anyway so.

[Matt] The timings have worked out

that I've got to phone the doctor now

to let him know my decision.

- [Narrator] It's been 20 days since his visit

to the surgeon to discuss a penis reduction

and Matt has been carefully considering his options.

Hello this is Matt calling

about the recent reduction appointment.

[Dr. Jakovich] Yeah mate, yeah?

- Yes, I just wanted to say thank you for your time,

it was really enlightening,

but I think you made it very clear, all of the risks

and until I'm 100% sure,

I don't think I can really go along with it.

It's a very severe procedure.

- [Dr. Jakovich] Yes, and I think it is a good idea

just because you're not sure now.

- Thank you, bye. - Cheers, bye.

(calm music)

I think what you want is to be good side of average,

but you should be proud of yourself for who you are,

what your personality is, what your accomplishments are,

not for what's between your legs.

You don't wanna give up too much, still a romantic at heart.

So you've gotta think there's someone out there for me,

whether that is a reduced me or not.

Hopefully I can find enough peace in myself

with whatever conclusion I come to

that I will find that person.

(calm music)

- That's why it's really important to the carrier

of a big penis to understand that you know your value

of self should not be attributed to your penis.

Like there's a lot more to you than your penis.

So that's not something that you wanna go,

bigging up, you know in a conversation.

There's 1,000 things to bring up

before bringing up the size of your penis.

(calm music)

(calm music continues)

♪ Ohh ♪

(upbeat music)

♪ Ohh, ohh, ohh ♪

♪ Ohh, ohh ♪

(calm upbeat music)

♪ Ohh, ohh ♪

(calm music)