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Attention please!
This is the final call for Flight Nine...
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Um...
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Hi. So we're here
on er, Tues... Wednesday.
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Wednesday, the something of March.
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Um, we've just finished, um, two weeks...
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Our final push,
our last stint of royal engagements.
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It's really hard to look back on it now
and go, "What on earth happened?"
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Like, "How did we end up here?"
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...fair to say
Britain is in shock this morning
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...dramatic
and shocking announcement
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from Prince Harry and Meghan Markle...
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I'm seeing them
taking a step back from royal duties.
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Prince Harry appears
to be on a trajectory of self destruction.
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H is in London and I'm here...
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I don't even know where to begin.
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- Thank you.
- Thanks.
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My job is to keep my family safe.
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But the nature of being born
into this position,
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amid everything else
that comes with it and the level of...
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hate being stirred up in the last
three years, especially against my wife
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and my son.
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Haz, is my mom
outside with Archie?
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I'm generally concerned
for the safety of my family.
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Stay.
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I just really want to...
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get to the other side of all of this.
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Um,
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I don't know what to say anymore.
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This is about duty
and service, and I feel
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as though being part of this family,
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it is my duty to uncover this exploitation
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and bribery that happens within our media.
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Unfortunately, in not standing
for something, they are destroying us.
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This isn't just about our story.
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This has always been
so much bigger than us.
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This does not represent
what London stands for...
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...take back control of this country...
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No one knows the full truth.
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We know the full truth.
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The institution knows the full truth,
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and the media knows the full truth
'cause they've been in on it.
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And I think anybody else in my situation
would have done exactly the same thing.
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Nervous. Why am I nervous?
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I just want to start
with this little moment.
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I don't think you guys
have done this before.
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And I just thought
I would share it with you.
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Thank you so much for tuning in.
Thank you, Meghan, so much.
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Are you looking forward to watching
The South to see more right now?
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Yes.
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- Do you remember?
- No.
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Number one song to pick you up.
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Oh my gosh,
I was just listening to it before I left!
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It's a Nina Simone song
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and it's called,
"How it feels to be free."
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- Oh? No, I don't know it.
- Oh, it's so good.
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- I like this song.
- Okay, I'll look that up for sure.
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Fiercest female character on TV?
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Who do I say? Olivia Pope?
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Olivia Pope.
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Prince William or Prince Harry?
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I don't know.
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Harry.
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Harry? Sure.
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- Sure.
- Sure. I don't...
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What year was that?
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It's October 2015.
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- October 2015?
- Less than a year.
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Before we met?
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- Honey, I'm sorry.
- Less than...
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- I of course choose you.
- Oh okay, great!
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It just again shows how little you knew.
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And look at how far we've come.
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Look at that.
How would you describe it, Archie?
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Well, it's all done beautiful.
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It's so beautiful.
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Archie, you're having fun.
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This is a great love story.
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The craziest thing is that... I think this
love story is only just getting started.
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You know, she sacrificed everything that
she ever knew, the freedom that she had,
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to join me in my world.
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And then pretty soon after that,
I ended up sacrificing everything I know
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to join her in her world.
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Is Noah there?
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Good morning.
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Why did you want to make this documentary?
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Um...
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I'm not gonna say that it's comfortable,
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but when you feel like people haven't got
any sense of who you are for so long,
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it's really nice to just be able
to have the opportunity to
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let people have a bit more of a glimpse
into what's happened and also who we are.
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A friend of ours
actually suggested
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that we document ourselves
through this period of time.
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With all of the misinformation that was
going on out there, especially about us
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and the departure,
it seemed like a really sensible idea.
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Is this the first
video diary? I don't know.
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We've talked about it. We keep talking
about it because we know that
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right now, it might not make sense
but one day, it will make sense.
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So we're here, Friday the,
whatever, 17th April or something...
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Look at the snow.
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We've been really conscious
of protecting our kids as best as we can
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and also understanding
the role that they play
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in this really historical family.
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Vroom!
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As a dad, and as parents, I think
consent is a really key piece to this.
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That if you have children,
it should be your consent
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as to what you share.
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Both the babies are down.
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Nice, calm night.
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Just picking some roses.
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The past six years of my
life, books are written about our story
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from people who I don't know.
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Doesn't it make more sense
to hear our story from us?
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♪ Pretty words come so easy ♪
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♪ Then all good... ♪
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Meghan and I met in July of 2016.
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Right before we met,
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we'd gotten another season
of the show, Suits.
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Then, I was single for a couple of months.
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I was like,
"This is it. We're gonna travel.
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Come on, girls. Let's go."
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♪ Oh, stop,
Don't worry about it. Ooh stop ♪
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In the summer of 2016,
she had a few different trips planned
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and she was just going to be free.
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I was really, like,
intent on being single,
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and just have fun girl-time.
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She had planned
her single-girl summer
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and she had a lot
of plans of going around Europe.
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I had a career, I had my life...
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I had my path.
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And then came H.
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I mean, he literally...
talk about a plot twist.
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♪ Stop stop stop. Don't worry about it.
Oh, stop stop stop Don't... ♪
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Meghan and I met over Instagram.
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I was scrolling through my feed
and someone who was a friend
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had this video of the two of them,
like a Snapchat and um, it's...
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Oh gosh. Isn't that whole thing,
it's got like doggy ears...
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- ...with doggy ears and...
- That's what he saw of me.
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That was the first thing.
I was like, "Who is that?"
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That's ridiculous.
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And then she
sent me an email saying,
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"I know you said you're single and,
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a friend of mine asked about you and,
maybe you'd like to meet him."
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And I said, "Who is it?" And she said,
"It's Prince Haz." I said, "Who's that?"
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I asked if I could see his feed.
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So that's the thing. When
people say, "Did you Google him?" "No."
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But I... that's
your homework. You're like, "Hmm,
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let me see what
they're about in their feed
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not what someone else says about them
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but what they
are putting out about themselves."
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That to me was the best barometer.
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I went through it and it was just like
beautiful photography
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and all these environmental shots
and this time he was spending in Africa...
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Phew.
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Then we got each others'
numbers. We were just constantly in touch,
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and I went, "Let's meet."
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I was in London,
I was going to Wimbledon.
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We were sitting in the Player Box
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and it's diagonal
to the Royal Box at Wimbledon.
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We were talking about different dates and
different people that were possibilities...
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And I remember seeing an adorable actor
sitting next to someone I knew.
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So I'm like, "Hey, how about him?"
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And then I think the next day,
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I found out that
she was going on a date with H.
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Meghan texted me from London
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and said, "Silver,
you're not gonna believe this."
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And basically, told me that
she was going out on a date with him
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and we thought it was really funny.
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We were like, "In what world
does this happen?"
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We met at 76 Dean Street.
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- You were late.
- Mm-hmm.
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And I couldn't understand
why he would be late.
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But he kept texting. He was like,
"I'm in traffic. I'm so sorry."
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I was panicking. I was freaking out.
I was, like, sweating.
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Then I didn't know him.
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So I was like, "Oh,
is this what he does? Got it.
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Like, this I'm not doing.
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- I'm not gonna sit..."
- What? What's that supposed to mean?
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Like, you're one of those guys
who have so much of an ego
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that you're not gonna... that any girl
would sit waiting for a half hour for you.
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I was just not interested in that.
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And then when I walked in, I...
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- a hot, sweaty, red ball of mess...
- You were just so sweet.
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She's like, "Oh, that's not...
that's not what you are..."
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That's not what you are.
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- I'm so sorry.
- You genuinely were,
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like, so embarrassed and late and...
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♪ Though I'm not a great romancer... ♪
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He was just so... fun.
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Just so refreshingly fun.
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And that was the thing,
we were like childlike together.
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♪ Anything goes ♪
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We had a great chat
for about an hour.
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I left after an hour,
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and um, I told him that I had other plans.
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Then I called him that evening
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and was like,
"I'm leaving the day after tomorrow.
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Do you wanna grab dinner tomorrow night?"
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And I'm sure he thought
it was so forward and American.
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I'm sure he told me
it was so forward and American.
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Then, yeah. We went and had dinner
the next night at the same place.
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She was late.
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I what?
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Actually, you were late.
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- I was late?
- Yeah.
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Remember? You came
rushing in from having a shower.
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- From Wimbledon.
- Yeah. There you go.
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- Yeah.
- Not half an hour.
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- No. Like five, like...
- A mere few minutes.
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- But you were quite flustered.
- I hate being late.
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Well, I had come back from Wimbledon and,
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you know, when you get all dolled up...
I wanted to go home and take a shower
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and then run over
looking more like myself.
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I don't... You could be as late
as you want, I ain't moving.
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I wanna see you again.
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There was one photo.
We just wanted to capture the feeling
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of just sitting in that
little restaurant and going, "Oh my gosh.
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I think we're gonna give it a go."
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♪ Honey, but when you're near me... ♪
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That was when
it just hit me. I was like,
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"Okay, this girl... this woman is amazing,
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is everything that I've been looking for.
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And she's so comfortable
and so relaxed in my company."
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He had a list, apparently,
of what he was looking for.
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Let's not go there.
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An extensive list.
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What were
a few things on that list?
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- Not sharing the list.
- Okay.
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Good, nice try.
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This is the list.
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Good answer.
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She texted me after
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and she was just like,
"Silver, I'm crazy about him."
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Right after they'd met, my
wife, me and him, we had dinner together
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and he sat like that, he looked at us
and he said, "Guys, I met a girl.
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We've just met but
I think this may be the one."
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You could tell right away that those were
the eyes of someone who'd fallen in love.
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It was apparent
to both of them very quickly that
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they wanted it to be something
and they needed to figure that out.
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And she was giddy.
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But I also know that
she was trying to live in the moment.
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She wanted to just get
to know him for him.
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Not for who the public thought he was.
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I think, for so many people in the
family, especially obviously the men,
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there can be a temptation
or an urge to marry someone
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who would fit in the mold
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as opposed to somebody
who you perhaps are destined to be with.
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The difference between making decisions
with your head, or your heart.
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And my mom made most of her decisions,
if not all of them, from her heart.
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And I am my mother's son.
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This afternoon,
The World's Press, the World's Peoples
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have waited
to congratulate the Princess Diana
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who has issued forth with a second child.
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It is a boy.
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Princess Diana
with Prince Charles at her side
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gave birth on Saturday
to their second son,
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a blue-eyed, six-pound, 14-oz boy who
becomes 3rd in line to the British throne.
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More than 200 people,
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some of whom
had waited outside the hospital all day
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gave to Prince Charles the cheers they
couldn't give in person to Princess Diana.
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Everybody seems
to be so happy today.
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Well, thank you very much.
I couldn't be more delighted.
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We think it's smashing.
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Everyone's so over the moon about it.
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I'm very happy for Lady Diana.
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Forty-two hours old
and already driving the ladies wild,
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Prince Harry made his first public outing
wearing a conservative white blanket.
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Do I remember a moment when I suddenly
realized that my family was different?
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Um...
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No, I think it's just...
I just think it's gradual.
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I mean, there's no point that
we're all sat down in the classroom
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and my grandmother stands there with a
long stick, glasses on her nose and goes,
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"Right. So this is what
it means to be in the royal family."
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That doesn't happen.
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Before the Service,
immediate family were alone in the castle
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with just time enough
for the Prince of Wales
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to explain the history
of the celebrated robe...
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Prince Harry behaving impeccably.
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- Harry!
- You be quiet.
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Harry, don't stand on my toes.
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William, he's a typical
three-year-old... very enthusiastic,
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whereas, um, perhaps Harry
is more quiet and just watches.
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- What, louder?
- Louder.
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He's certainly
a different character altogether.
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- Perhaps somewhere...
- Okay, here we go.
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You want it with him over there.
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But you can't
control all of the people all of the time.
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Harry!
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From father, a young
pianist needs a cue on where to look.
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- Tsk.
- Harry.
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My childhood, I remember,
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was filled with laughter, filled
with happiness and filled with adventure.
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In their imaginations,
the children were already off to a fire.
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A fire!
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I don't have many
early memories of my mom.
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It was almost like, internally,
I sort of blocked them out.
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But I always remember
her laugh, her cheeky laugh.
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I always say, "You can
get in trouble, but don't get caught."
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And I'll always be
that cheeky person inside.
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The young prince
made a pair of cardboard binoculars,
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determined to beat
the press at their own game.
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The majority of my memories are
of being swarmed by paparazzi.
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Like many British families,
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the Wales's like to head
for Spanish sun every August.
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Their holiday nightmare
is the World's Press.
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An army of royal watchers
are drawn each year.
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Rarely do we have a holiday
without someone with a camera
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jumping out of the bush or something.
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Within the Family, within the system,
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the advice that's
always given is, "Don't react.
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Don't feed into it."
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There was always public pressure,
with its fair share of drama,
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stress, and also tears.
And witnessing those tears.
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I always see it on my mom's face.
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And I guess those are the moments when
I thought, "Hang on a little. What am I?
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Who am I? What am I part of?"
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The Royal Family are
the most senior figures in the country.
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They are there to represent
everything that is Great Britain.
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If you're British,
it's very difficult to not see them
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almost as part of your extended family.
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Certainly, as I was growing up, if you'd
asked me what it means to be British,
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the institution of the monarchy,
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the palaces, the individual royals,
the history of the Royal Family
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is absolutely intimately linked with
what the symbols of this nation are.
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It's hard to overstate,
I think, the cultural significance
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of the British monarchy,
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partly because it's an ancient monarchy.
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It's existed for over a thousand years.
328
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And that longevity is multiplied
329
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by the sheer longevity
of the Queen herself.
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Now follows
the supreme climax of the ancient ritual.
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With the Crown of England,
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the archbishop performs the simple
333
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yet the most significant
ceremony of the queen's coronation.
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Long live the Queen!
335
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I declare before you all,
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that my whole life
shall be devoted to your service
337
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and to the service
of our great Imperial Family,
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to which we all belong.
339
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She has been Queen
for more than 70 years,
340
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and that's the longest reign
we've ever known in our history.
341
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We're in a very
different generation now.
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As new generations come through,
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people may start to question it.
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And I say this
with absolute pure adoration
345
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for the family,
for the people that I work with.
346
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But when you actually
put it up to pressure,
347
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and you say that there is
a family anointed by God, by blood,
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to rule over this country
349
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and other countries around the world,
350
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it is a difficult conversation to have.
351
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And so in order
for the institution to survive,
352
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it has to modernize
353
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but it also needs mass popular support.
354
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They typically have popularity
ratings between 60 and 80 percent.
355
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These are rankings
that politicians would die for.
356
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But in order to survive in the future,
357
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they need to maintain that popularity.
358
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Each year, they make between
two thousand and three thousand visits.
359
00:25:17,849 --> 00:25:21,770
And all the royal
households have press offices
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to ensure that there is pretty constant
publicity about the royal family.
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And that it is
pretty constantly good publicity.
362
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The Family is dependent
upon the British media
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to communicate its message
364
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to continue guaranteeing its relevance
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and presence in
the British imagination, and the world.
366
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...thought he was going
straight in the river.
367
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Prince William
led the royal children
368
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to a photo call
arranged by palace officials.
369
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Prince Harry, Princess Beatrice
march behind the future king
370
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although Prince Andrew's
other daughter, Princess Eugenie
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makes somewhat slower progress.
372
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The photographers and cameramen
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took pictures
of all the four children together.
374
00:26:15,907 --> 00:26:18,451
Prince William was then asked
how he was enjoying the skiing.
375
00:26:18,535 --> 00:26:22,580
Um, yes. I went fine.
Very good. I enjoy it.
376
00:26:26,209 --> 00:26:28,089
Paparazzi used to
harass us to the point
377
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where we had to be forced into smiling
378
00:26:30,755 --> 00:26:33,550
and answering questions
to the travelling press pack.
379
00:26:34,134 --> 00:26:36,303
Would you look
at this camera please?
380
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Just keep this one
on hold for a little bit.
381
00:26:38,138 --> 00:26:39,282
William, will you help us?
382
00:26:39,306 --> 00:26:41,946
And that made me feel
really uncomfortable from the get-go.
383
00:26:41,975 --> 00:26:44,695
Can you look this way?
384
00:26:45,562 --> 00:26:47,731
Hello. Just look at this.
385
00:26:47,814 --> 00:26:48,732
You alright, Eugenie?
386
00:26:48,815 --> 00:26:50,575
- Beatrice, you alright?
- Mm-hmm.
387
00:26:50,650 --> 00:26:52,461
Hello.
Can we do something different?
388
00:26:52,485 --> 00:26:55,631
And then the deal was, we put our
skis on, and then they'd leave us alone.
389
00:26:55,655 --> 00:26:57,699
Well, yeah, some of them would.
390
00:27:02,704 --> 00:27:04,682
But then the other ones would
just follow us around,
391
00:27:04,706 --> 00:27:06,976
either taking photographs or
just waiting for an accident to happen
392
00:27:07,000 --> 00:27:08,460
and then pull out their cameras.
393
00:27:08,543 --> 00:27:10,462
So it was never fair and it never worked.
394
00:27:13,340 --> 00:27:15,967
Stories about
the British Royal Family
395
00:27:16,051 --> 00:27:19,512
make for very good copy,
not just in Britain but around the world.
396
00:27:20,513 --> 00:27:24,642
So there's a very
strong incentive for photographers
397
00:27:24,726 --> 00:27:29,814
to try to get unauthorized shots
of members of the Royal Family
398
00:27:30,565 --> 00:27:33,902
because they can sell it
for tens of thousands of dollars.
399
00:27:39,699 --> 00:27:42,285
My mom did such
a good job in trying to protect us.
400
00:27:43,244 --> 00:27:48,166
She took it upon herself
to basically confront these people.
401
00:27:50,251 --> 00:27:51,419
Please leave.
402
00:27:53,838 --> 00:27:59,344
As a parent, could I ask you
to respect my children's space?
403
00:27:59,427 --> 00:28:02,764
Yes, certainly.
Yes. No problem at all.
404
00:28:02,847 --> 00:28:05,850
Because I brought
the children out here for a holiday.
405
00:28:05,934 --> 00:28:06,768
Right.
406
00:28:06,851 --> 00:28:08,686
And we'd
really appreciate the space.
407
00:28:08,770 --> 00:28:09,813
I understand, ma'am.
408
00:28:09,896 --> 00:28:10,730
And I'm sure as a...
409
00:28:10,814 --> 00:28:12,416
Is it possible
to just get a picture of...
410
00:28:12,440 --> 00:28:13,667
- No.
- ...this afternoon,
411
00:28:13,691 --> 00:28:15,086
and then we could totally leave you alone.
412
00:28:15,110 --> 00:28:17,404
If you just move over there, you're skiing
413
00:28:17,487 --> 00:28:18,923
- and I'll leave you alone.
- No.
414
00:28:18,947 --> 00:28:21,449
We've had 15 cameras following us today.
415
00:28:21,533 --> 00:28:23,653
- I haven't been one of those.
- No but,
416
00:28:24,369 --> 00:28:28,498
as a parent, I want
to protect the children. Thank you.
417
00:28:30,041 --> 00:28:31,876
Thanks. Cheers.
418
00:28:32,669 --> 00:28:34,349
I think she had to live experience
419
00:28:34,421 --> 00:28:38,133
of how she was struggling,
living that life.
420
00:28:38,716 --> 00:28:40,236
She felt compelled to talk about it...
421
00:28:40,927 --> 00:28:44,514
Tonight on Panorama,
the Princess of Wales.
422
00:28:44,597 --> 00:28:46,517
...especially in that
Panorama interview.
423
00:28:47,308 --> 00:28:50,437
I think we all now know
she was deceived into giving the interview
424
00:28:51,271 --> 00:28:54,524
but at the same time,
she spoke the truth of her experience.
425
00:28:54,607 --> 00:28:58,403
How do you feel about the way
the press behaves towards you now?
426
00:29:00,280 --> 00:29:06,035
I still to this day find the interest
daunting and phenomenal
427
00:29:06,119 --> 00:29:08,538
because I actually don't like
being the center of attention.
428
00:29:08,621 --> 00:29:10,373
When I have my public duties,
429
00:29:10,457 --> 00:29:13,710
I understand when I get out
of the car, I'm being photographed.
430
00:29:17,172 --> 00:29:20,383
But actually, it's now when I go
out of my door, my front door,
431
00:29:20,467 --> 00:29:23,428
I'm being photographed. I never know
where a lens is going to be.
432
00:29:28,433 --> 00:29:30,870
- Yeah, I know her.
- Alright.
433
00:29:30,894 --> 00:29:35,356
My mom was harassed
throughout her life with my dad.
434
00:29:36,483 --> 00:29:40,904
But after they separated,
the harassment went to new levels.
435
00:29:41,946 --> 00:29:44,783
It is announced from
Buckingham Palace that, with regret,
436
00:29:44,866 --> 00:29:48,703
the Prince and Princess of Wales
have decided to separate.
437
00:29:48,787 --> 00:29:51,247
This decision has been reached amicably
438
00:29:51,331 --> 00:29:55,752
and they will both continue to participate
fully in the upbringing of their children.
439
00:29:55,835 --> 00:29:59,047
Everything changed after we separated.
440
00:29:59,130 --> 00:30:02,050
And life became
very difficult then for me.
441
00:30:04,594 --> 00:30:07,764
The moment that she divorced,
the moment she left the Institution,
442
00:30:07,847 --> 00:30:09,390
then she was by herself.
443
00:30:09,474 --> 00:30:12,936
Yeah, she may have been one of the most
influential, powerful women in the world,
444
00:30:13,019 --> 00:30:17,649
but she was... completely exposed to this.
445
00:30:19,859 --> 00:30:22,904
I saw things,
I experienced things, I learned things.
446
00:30:24,989 --> 00:30:28,993
The pain and suffering
of women marrying into this institution.
447
00:30:31,871 --> 00:30:35,416
I remember thinking,
"How can I ever find someone
448
00:30:35,500 --> 00:30:39,170
who is willing and capable
449
00:30:40,296 --> 00:30:44,801
to be able to withstand all the baggage
that comes with being with me?"
450
00:30:49,013 --> 00:30:53,977
Every relationship that I had,
within a matter of weeks or months,
451
00:30:54,060 --> 00:30:55,687
were splattered all over the newspapers
452
00:30:55,770 --> 00:30:58,314
and that person's family harassed
453
00:30:58,398 --> 00:31:00,191
and their lives turned upside-down.
454
00:31:00,984 --> 00:31:04,988
So, you know, I mean,
after one or two girlfriends,
455
00:31:05,071 --> 00:31:08,241
the third or fourth girlfriend
will be like, "Hang on a second.
456
00:31:09,284 --> 00:31:10,952
I don't know if I want this."
457
00:31:13,872 --> 00:31:17,125
So when I got to meet M, I was terrified
458
00:31:17,208 --> 00:31:19,127
of her being driven away by the media.
459
00:31:19,752 --> 00:31:23,006
The same media that had driven
so many other people away from me.
460
00:31:30,221 --> 00:31:33,308
I knew the only way
that this could possibly work
461
00:31:33,391 --> 00:31:35,310
is by keeping it quiet
for as long as possible.
462
00:31:37,979 --> 00:31:41,524
At the beginning,
our relationship was this guarded little...
463
00:31:43,067 --> 00:31:44,527
guarded treasure.
464
00:31:46,362 --> 00:31:48,282
It was long-distance
from the beginning.
465
00:31:49,532 --> 00:31:53,161
Everything was just texts and Facetimes
466
00:31:53,244 --> 00:31:57,582
and we just talked for hours
and it just felt exciting,
467
00:31:57,665 --> 00:32:00,084
which is so weird
because it wasn't exciting...
468
00:32:02,295 --> 00:32:04,797
in the way that I think
people would assume that it would be.
469
00:32:06,633 --> 00:32:09,260
It was just relaxed and easy.
470
00:32:17,060 --> 00:32:18,660
We just got to know each other.
471
00:32:20,939 --> 00:32:23,316
Truly, like any other couple,
we were figuring out, like,
472
00:32:23,399 --> 00:32:26,759
"What do you like to eat? What do you like
to cook? What kind of movies do you like?"
473
00:32:27,820 --> 00:32:29,798
When I got to know
Meghan more and more. I was like,
474
00:32:29,822 --> 00:32:32,283
"Now, I'm really, like,
falling in love with this girl."
475
00:32:34,911 --> 00:32:37,271
- Oh no!
- So despite my own fear,
476
00:32:39,332 --> 00:32:45,088
I just opened my heart...
to see what's going to happen.
477
00:32:49,384 --> 00:32:50,510
We've gone rogue.
478
00:32:50,593 --> 00:32:51,594
We've gone rogue.
479
00:32:54,430 --> 00:32:56,909
Like, I feel like
we're doing something so naughty.
480
00:33:01,437 --> 00:33:05,191
Oh my goodness. My love.
481
00:33:06,067 --> 00:33:09,570
So much
of what Meghan is, and how she is
482
00:33:09,654 --> 00:33:11,614
is so similar to my mom.
483
00:33:15,159 --> 00:33:17,662
She has the same compassion,
she has the same empathy,
484
00:33:17,745 --> 00:33:19,706
she has the same confidence.
485
00:33:19,789 --> 00:33:22,333
She has this warmth about her.
486
00:33:31,592 --> 00:33:32,593
Who's that?
487
00:33:37,515 --> 00:33:39,743
I accept that there'll
be people around the world
488
00:33:39,767 --> 00:33:41,269
who fundamentally disagree
489
00:33:41,352 --> 00:33:43,354
with what I've done and how I've done it,
490
00:33:44,856 --> 00:33:47,900
but I knew that I had
to do everything I could
491
00:33:47,984 --> 00:33:50,069
- to protect my family.
- Hey, Grandma.
492
00:33:51,904 --> 00:33:53,239
Yeah.
493
00:33:53,322 --> 00:33:55,867
Especially after
what happened to my mom.
494
00:33:55,950 --> 00:34:00,538
Yeah.
That's your Grandma Diana. Yeah.
495
00:34:00,621 --> 00:34:02,861
You know, I didn't want
history to repeat itself.
496
00:34:16,637 --> 00:34:20,850
Diana, Princess of Wales,
has died in a car crash in Paris.
497
00:34:20,933 --> 00:34:23,269
According to some reports, paparazzi
498
00:34:23,352 --> 00:34:27,023
photographers were chasing
the car in which the princess was riding
499
00:34:27,106 --> 00:34:30,234
apparently in an effort
to get her photograph.
500
00:34:31,110 --> 00:34:34,197
Across the world,
millions are trying to come to terms
501
00:34:34,280 --> 00:34:37,533
with the awful tragedy
of Diana's untimely death.
502
00:34:39,118 --> 00:34:40,870
Every proprietor and editor
503
00:34:40,953 --> 00:34:43,456
of every publication
that has paid for intrusive
504
00:34:43,539 --> 00:34:45,708
and exploitative photographs of her,
505
00:34:45,792 --> 00:34:49,212
encouraging greedy and ruthless
individuals to risk everything,
506
00:34:49,295 --> 00:34:53,007
in pursuit of Diana's image,
has blood on his hands today.
507
00:35:00,139 --> 00:35:04,393
When my mom died,
we had two hats to wear.
508
00:35:05,812 --> 00:35:09,941
One was two grieving sons
wanting to cry, grieve,
509
00:35:10,024 --> 00:35:13,152
and process that grief
because of losing our mom.
510
00:35:15,363 --> 00:35:19,742
And two was the royal hat, no emotion,
get out there, meet people, shake hands.
511
00:35:19,826 --> 00:35:21,786
Thank you so much, thank you.
512
00:35:21,869 --> 00:35:23,680
- Harry, I'm so sorry.
- I'm so sorry.
513
00:35:23,704 --> 00:35:25,414
William.
514
00:35:26,415 --> 00:35:28,251
Thank you so much. Thank you.
515
00:35:28,334 --> 00:35:31,295
Oh God, I'm going to cry.
516
00:35:31,379 --> 00:35:34,423
The UK literally swept me
and William up as their children.
517
00:35:34,507 --> 00:35:36,509
Sorry.
518
00:35:36,592 --> 00:35:39,846
An expectation to see
myself and William out and about
519
00:35:39,929 --> 00:35:41,472
was really hard for the two of us.
520
00:35:45,893 --> 00:35:50,857
I remember being told
by my mother the news of her passing
521
00:35:52,024 --> 00:35:56,487
And then, I think like us all,
we watched that funeral
522
00:35:56,571 --> 00:36:01,242
and watched him walking behind the coffin
523
00:36:16,966 --> 00:36:20,303
That's when you first
really got to know him
524
00:36:20,386 --> 00:36:24,056
or saw an insight
beyond a snap or a picture
525
00:36:24,140 --> 00:36:28,561
and felt that you knew him
better than you did.
526
00:36:33,524 --> 00:36:36,903
I met Harry at Eton at age 13.
527
00:36:38,863 --> 00:36:42,074
We were actually in
the rooms next door to each other,
528
00:36:42,158 --> 00:36:45,953
so we could lean out
the window and talk after lights out. But
529
00:36:46,996 --> 00:36:50,666
I think as a young kid,
you don't have the language
530
00:36:50,750 --> 00:36:53,961
to necessarily have that
complicated mental health chat
531
00:36:54,045 --> 00:36:57,173
beyond, like, "How are you?" "Fine." or...
532
00:36:57,256 --> 00:37:02,303
And maybe as well, you probably
veer away from having that discussion
533
00:37:02,386 --> 00:37:05,806
because it's such an emotional hot potato,
534
00:37:05,890 --> 00:37:07,576
like, if you don't know
the right things to say,
535
00:37:07,600 --> 00:37:10,061
are you gonna make it worse
rather than make it better?
536
00:37:10,144 --> 00:37:11,729
If you say nothing,
537
00:37:11,812 --> 00:37:14,774
you know,
you're not at least making it worse.
538
00:37:16,442 --> 00:37:21,739
I believe that there was
an agreement in place with the media
539
00:37:21,822 --> 00:37:26,202
that while they were at school,
Will and Harry would be left a bit alone.
540
00:37:32,124 --> 00:37:37,964
But Day One we left the house
to a scrum, nothing I'd ever seen,
541
00:37:38,047 --> 00:37:41,259
of flashing lights
and the media all there.
542
00:37:43,302 --> 00:37:44,428
Harry!
543
00:37:46,097 --> 00:37:47,265
Harry!
544
00:37:50,226 --> 00:37:54,480
That's when all of the stuff
that had happened to our mom
545
00:37:54,563 --> 00:37:56,232
started happening to us.
546
00:37:57,692 --> 00:37:59,068
Harry!
547
00:37:59,151 --> 00:38:01,964
Since Prince Harry
has been at Eton, his father has tried
548
00:38:01,988 --> 00:38:05,074
to ensure he can have
as normal a life as possible.
549
00:38:05,157 --> 00:38:07,493
But this latest story
about Prince Harry is the third time
550
00:38:07,576 --> 00:38:11,789
the 14-year old has made headlines
in the mirror since he started at Eton.
551
00:38:11,872 --> 00:38:13,374
Not every story was false.
552
00:38:13,457 --> 00:38:17,545
But there was a lot
of typical exaggeration and rehashing.
553
00:38:17,628 --> 00:38:20,482
He's bouncing between the walls, he's
taking drugs, drinking, he's out late,
554
00:38:20,506 --> 00:38:22,901
he's night-clubbing, he's got
a girlfriend here, got a girlfriend there
555
00:38:22,925 --> 00:38:24,844
What's going on?
556
00:38:27,388 --> 00:38:30,850
You know, there's a difference
between having to accept,
557
00:38:30,933 --> 00:38:33,728
Okay, we have this position in this family
558
00:38:33,811 --> 00:38:35,980
and therefore there'll be
a level of interest,
559
00:38:36,063 --> 00:38:40,568
and being swarmed by paparazzi,
chasing you in cars through red lights.
560
00:38:41,610 --> 00:38:44,572
And then chasing you down the road
on foot, which is what happened
561
00:38:44,655 --> 00:38:46,991
probably about 30
or 40 times when I was younger.
562
00:38:51,329 --> 00:38:52,580
It was too much.
563
00:38:53,372 --> 00:38:56,167
Prince Harry got
into a scuffle with photographers
564
00:38:56,250 --> 00:38:58,377
after he left
a nightclub early this morning.
565
00:38:58,461 --> 00:39:01,839
Within hours of the
scuffle it was headlining the tabloids.
566
00:39:01,922 --> 00:39:05,676
Harry lashed out yelling,
"Why don't you just leave me alone?!"
567
00:39:09,096 --> 00:39:13,559
Everything that was happening
in the UK was so intense.
568
00:39:17,063 --> 00:39:21,984
I was trying to balance
the whole experience of being a young boy,
569
00:39:22,068 --> 00:39:25,654
who was trying to deal
with the loss of his mom
570
00:39:25,738 --> 00:39:28,115
without much support or help or guidance.
571
00:39:29,283 --> 00:39:31,160
It didn't seem right. It didn't seem fair.
572
00:39:45,383 --> 00:39:48,761
Harry came to Lesotho in 2004.
573
00:39:48,844 --> 00:39:52,223
In the beginning,
he was a young man straight from Eton,
574
00:39:52,306 --> 00:39:56,602
having had massive
negative headlines about him.
575
00:39:56,685 --> 00:39:57,978
I didn't know the boy
576
00:39:58,854 --> 00:40:02,525
but I thought, "Well, let's see
what we can do with this young man."
577
00:40:03,984 --> 00:40:08,697
- The herds graze on the common land.
- Common land, yeah.
578
00:40:08,781 --> 00:40:10,699
We were feeling each other out,
579
00:40:10,783 --> 00:40:13,702
finding out where
we were comfortable with each other.
580
00:40:14,829 --> 00:40:17,748
The first time I met
Prince Seeiso, he was amazing.
581
00:40:17,832 --> 00:40:20,501
We jumped on horses
and rode off to his cattle post.
582
00:40:22,294 --> 00:40:26,924
I think he came here
wanting to have time out
583
00:40:27,007 --> 00:40:29,385
from that very aggressive treadmill.
584
00:40:30,511 --> 00:40:33,848
I felt a warmth and acceptance that,
585
00:40:33,931 --> 00:40:36,183
"Okay, I'm here in Lesotho.
586
00:40:36,267 --> 00:40:40,563
I may not know about Lesotho,
and I'm here to learn.
587
00:40:41,147 --> 00:40:42,440
I'm not here to tell."
588
00:40:50,072 --> 00:40:55,161
That kind of immediate reaction,
not only to me but to the community.
589
00:40:55,244 --> 00:40:59,081
I could see that Harry
is very much his mother.
590
00:40:59,665 --> 00:41:01,226
How much of
an inspiration has your mother been
591
00:41:01,250 --> 00:41:02,501
in what you're doing here?
592
00:41:02,585 --> 00:41:06,755
Um, massively. Mine,
as well as Seeiso's mother.
593
00:41:07,465 --> 00:41:10,050
Both our mothers
were hugely connected with AIDS,
594
00:41:10,134 --> 00:41:13,846
especially the orphan
children from that itself.
595
00:41:14,972 --> 00:41:17,558
His mother died
shortly before I met him.
596
00:41:18,225 --> 00:41:21,395
So, bearing in mind we both lost our moms
597
00:41:21,479 --> 00:41:24,523
it didn't take very long
until we became like brothers.
598
00:41:24,607 --> 00:41:26,192
Hey, everyone.
599
00:41:26,275 --> 00:41:29,612
Harry visited almost
on a yearly basis after that.
600
00:41:32,406 --> 00:41:37,578
I was 18 years old
and wanted to carry my mom's torch
601
00:41:37,661 --> 00:41:41,332
and try to keep her legacy alive
and try to make her proud.
602
00:41:41,415 --> 00:41:45,753
...officially opened
by Prince Seeiso and Prince Harry,
603
00:41:45,836 --> 00:41:47,588
the founders of Sentebale.
604
00:41:48,506 --> 00:41:51,258
Being allowed to
come here and be himself,
605
00:41:51,342 --> 00:41:55,679
for me, I've seen a boy
grow into a solid man.
606
00:41:55,763 --> 00:41:58,766
We even gave him
a name, actually. A Sosotho name.
607
00:41:59,350 --> 00:42:01,977
Mahale, which means "warrior."
608
00:42:03,521 --> 00:42:05,814
Harry is a warrior in spirit,
609
00:42:06,440 --> 00:42:08,067
and he's a warrior in character.
610
00:42:10,194 --> 00:42:13,155
Lesotho gave me
the space and the freedom...
611
00:42:14,782 --> 00:42:18,953
to breathe, to live... and to grow.
612
00:42:25,834 --> 00:42:28,587
I went to Africa,
sometimes three months at a time.
613
00:42:29,755 --> 00:42:31,966
Botswana is a country
very close to my heart.
614
00:42:32,049 --> 00:42:36,387
The fact that I spend more time
here than at home worries my father a lot.
615
00:42:39,723 --> 00:42:41,451
I've got
a second family out there. A group
616
00:42:41,475 --> 00:42:44,228
of friends that literally brought me up.
617
00:42:48,440 --> 00:42:50,442
For me, it's always been quite special.
618
00:42:52,403 --> 00:42:56,657
So it was absolutely
critical to share it with Meg.
619
00:43:02,454 --> 00:43:03,581
That summer,
620
00:43:03,664 --> 00:43:06,875
I was going to be on hiatus
from work but I had travel plans.
621
00:43:06,959 --> 00:43:11,922
And a cast mate of mind had said,
"Make sure you leave room for magic."
622
00:43:13,007 --> 00:43:15,527
And as we were talking about,
"When are we gonna see each other next?"
623
00:43:15,551 --> 00:43:18,304
He said, "I have to go to Africa
to do some conservation work."
624
00:43:18,387 --> 00:43:21,707
He said, "I have one week off." I said, "I
have one week off." It was the same week.
625
00:43:22,182 --> 00:43:24,101
So he said, "Do you want
to come to Botswana?"
626
00:43:25,060 --> 00:43:29,106
I said, "Let me think
about it." And then I did.
627
00:43:34,320 --> 00:43:36,572
I was astonished
that she said yes.
628
00:43:37,406 --> 00:43:39,700
This woman that
I've only met twice. She's coming
629
00:43:39,783 --> 00:43:43,829
to Botswana and we're going
to be living in a tent for five days. Wow.
630
00:43:47,458 --> 00:43:51,545
They were both gonna go
to Africa and spend real time together.
631
00:43:51,629 --> 00:43:54,381
So he said, "This is
either going to work or not
632
00:43:54,465 --> 00:43:57,343
because we're going
to be together twenty four seven.
633
00:44:00,304 --> 00:44:03,641
I'm getting on the plane
and I'm going to the middle of the bush?
634
00:44:04,308 --> 00:44:07,102
What? What am I doing?
635
00:44:07,186 --> 00:44:09,063
Like, what if we don't like each other...
636
00:44:09,980 --> 00:44:12,399
and then we're stuck
in the middle of the bush in a tent?
637
00:44:16,820 --> 00:44:18,072
It was a leap.
638
00:44:18,906 --> 00:44:24,244
But I think in her heart she just knew
that she had to do that with him.
639
00:44:30,709 --> 00:44:34,129
So I get there. This is
the first time I've seen him in a month.
640
00:44:36,048 --> 00:44:39,635
It was very awkward at first.
Like, "Oh God, do we kiss? Do we...?"
641
00:44:39,718 --> 00:44:41,821
And I just remembered
he handed me a chicken sandwich.
642
00:44:42,930 --> 00:44:44,250
Like, oh God. [laughing[
643
00:44:44,390 --> 00:44:46,470
Then we jumped
into the Land Cruiser and off we went.
644
00:44:48,852 --> 00:44:50,772
To start with,
we were seated next to each other.
645
00:44:50,813 --> 00:44:52,439
And then we progressed to holding hands.
646
00:44:53,065 --> 00:44:56,527
And then we squeeze in a kiss.
And amid the bumps,
647
00:44:56,610 --> 00:44:59,822
and then, everything felt
totally normal and natural.
648
00:45:05,285 --> 00:45:10,165
We had to know each other before the rest
of the world and the media joined in.
649
00:45:20,259 --> 00:45:23,095
It was all so overwhelming...
650
00:45:26,765 --> 00:45:28,809
to be out there in our little tent
651
00:45:28,892 --> 00:45:31,437
and in the middle of the night, and hear
this rustling
652
00:45:31,520 --> 00:45:33,415
and look and see a shadow
and go like, "What's that?"
653
00:45:33,439 --> 00:45:36,608
It's like an elephant munching leaves
above the tent in the shadows.
654
00:45:36,692 --> 00:45:39,153
I'm like, "Are we safe?
Is it fine..." He's like, "We're fine.
655
00:45:39,236 --> 00:45:40,821
Promise I'll keep you safe."
656
00:45:41,989 --> 00:45:43,157
And I believed him.
657
00:45:43,240 --> 00:45:45,200
You put a lot of faith
and a lot of trust in me.
658
00:45:45,284 --> 00:45:46,785
- I did.
- True.
659
00:45:48,454 --> 00:45:53,167
It just felt so right
and felt so normal.
660
00:45:55,752 --> 00:45:57,880
We could both
just be completely ourselves.
661
00:45:58,589 --> 00:46:01,425
There's no distraction.
There's no cellphone reception.
662
00:46:03,427 --> 00:46:05,471
There's no mirror.
There's no bathroom.
663
00:46:05,554 --> 00:46:08,348
There was no, "How do I look?"
664
00:46:10,559 --> 00:46:13,729
Thankfully, we really liked each other.
665
00:46:24,573 --> 00:46:28,535
It was 2016.
Meghan and I met up in New York.
666
00:46:30,871 --> 00:46:35,501
We really enjoyed going to have tea
and champagne at Bergdorf Goodman.
667
00:46:35,584 --> 00:46:38,024
That would be like,
"Let's meet at the tearoom at Bergdorf's."
668
00:46:40,380 --> 00:46:45,052
She's like, "Um... yeah, I er...
669
00:46:47,763 --> 00:46:50,599
I think I met someone and I'm in love."
670
00:46:50,682 --> 00:46:54,978
It's Prince Harry. And I...
671
00:46:55,062 --> 00:46:58,982
I mean, I could just feel
everything in her body vibrating.
672
00:47:00,442 --> 00:47:02,444
We have a photo from that moment.
673
00:47:02,528 --> 00:47:05,989
And I was screaming
because I could tell it was different.
674
00:47:08,075 --> 00:47:10,911
It was very clear from the moment
that she told me about him
675
00:47:10,994 --> 00:47:11,828
that they were in love
676
00:47:11,912 --> 00:47:14,831
and that they were going to go
to the ends of the earth to be together.
677
00:47:14,915 --> 00:47:19,253
We knew up until then
that we really connected
678
00:47:19,336 --> 00:47:20,522
and really drawn to each other.
679
00:47:20,546 --> 00:47:24,758
But what we were practicalities
of how this was actually going to work?
680
00:47:24,841 --> 00:47:27,594
At that point in time, I thought,
"Is he allowed to fly?
681
00:47:27,678 --> 00:47:31,557
Can he come visit her?"
How does this work logistically?
682
00:47:31,640 --> 00:47:33,267
I think they just invented it.
683
00:47:33,850 --> 00:47:35,936
They invented a way for it to work.
684
00:47:38,564 --> 00:47:41,358
She had a two-week rule,
which is very smart,
685
00:47:41,441 --> 00:47:46,071
that said we had
to see each other in or around two weeks.
686
00:47:46,154 --> 00:47:48,824
I said, "How is that even possible
with the stuff that I'm doing?
687
00:47:48,907 --> 00:47:50,747
I'm not going to be able
to see you that much."
688
00:47:50,826 --> 00:47:53,787
It's much easier for me
to go see him in the UK.
689
00:47:54,496 --> 00:47:58,625
I could still just get on a commercial
flight and go and see him under the radar.
690
00:47:59,668 --> 00:48:01,548
Those first few months
when no one knew,
691
00:48:01,587 --> 00:48:03,547
it made more sense for her to come to me.
692
00:48:03,630 --> 00:48:07,718
So that she could come and stay
with me on Kensington Palace grounds.
693
00:48:07,801 --> 00:48:09,529
We could jump in the car.
We could head up to Windsor
694
00:48:09,553 --> 00:48:11,179
and go for walks around Frogmore
695
00:48:12,222 --> 00:48:13,724
and do all these things together.
696
00:48:13,807 --> 00:48:15,726
So that we could get to know each other
697
00:48:15,809 --> 00:48:20,022
without someone taking your photograph
then it becoming like news.
698
00:48:24,401 --> 00:48:25,837
Everything had to be so secretive
699
00:48:25,861 --> 00:48:28,614
so it just accelerates
your level of getting to know each other
700
00:48:28,697 --> 00:48:32,326
when you're not out in the world
in courtship, you're just together.
701
00:48:46,548 --> 00:48:49,801
Getting her through the
police barrier and onto Kensington Palace
702
00:48:49,885 --> 00:48:51,637
was a risk in itself
703
00:48:51,720 --> 00:48:53,472
because people talk, right?
704
00:48:53,555 --> 00:48:56,433
It's not about who you trust.
It's about who they trust.
705
00:48:56,516 --> 00:48:57,716
That's literally how it works.
706
00:49:02,481 --> 00:49:04,083
For ordinary members of the public,
707
00:49:04,107 --> 00:49:09,738
we like to think that the Royal Family
live extraordinarily privileged lives
708
00:49:09,821 --> 00:49:12,240
with lots of servants
and they live in palaces
709
00:49:12,324 --> 00:49:13,700
and they have it very easy.
710
00:49:15,243 --> 00:49:17,496
I don't envy them for one moment.
711
00:49:19,456 --> 00:49:22,668
They live, for me, in a gilded cage.
712
00:49:22,751 --> 00:49:27,130
They lack most of the freedoms
that the rest of us take for granted.
713
00:49:28,548 --> 00:49:32,636
They have very little autonomy
in choosing their own futures.
714
00:49:33,929 --> 00:49:36,932
Formally, they lack freedom
to choose their own religion.
715
00:49:37,015 --> 00:49:39,976
The first half dozen
in the line of succession
716
00:49:40,060 --> 00:49:43,897
have to get the queen's permission
before they get married.
717
00:49:43,980 --> 00:49:47,234
They don't really have
any free choice over their own career.
718
00:49:47,317 --> 00:49:51,655
And the modern media are very intrusive.
719
00:49:57,035 --> 00:50:01,498
Part of the currency
of talking about the Royal Family
720
00:50:01,581 --> 00:50:03,417
is to share secrets.
721
00:50:05,419 --> 00:50:06,586
Bigger headline.
722
00:50:08,755 --> 00:50:13,343
A more exposing photograph.
A more shocking story.
723
00:50:15,762 --> 00:50:18,306
That's going to get business.
That's going to get advertising.
724
00:50:18,932 --> 00:50:22,227
Tabloid culture is
a real cut-throat business.
725
00:50:22,310 --> 00:50:26,690
And it creates a real unsettled,
paranoid environment.
726
00:50:30,193 --> 00:50:34,781
This idea that,
basically, we allow royals to exist,
727
00:50:34,865 --> 00:50:36,742
albeit extravagantly,
728
00:50:36,825 --> 00:50:43,248
on the condition that we're entitled to
constant information about their lives.
729
00:50:44,040 --> 00:50:48,378
And I think that particularly
affects women in the Royal Family.
730
00:50:50,172 --> 00:50:52,340
I remember someone saying to Meghan,
731
00:50:53,216 --> 00:50:57,137
"If you want to go to the Tate,
if you want to see a bit of London,
732
00:50:57,804 --> 00:51:01,141
you better do it now
because your life's going to change."
733
00:51:05,020 --> 00:51:09,232
We'd been dating
secretly since July.
734
00:51:10,692 --> 00:51:13,320
We'd been so petrified
of when it would break.
735
00:51:14,070 --> 00:51:15,906
H tried to prepare me
736
00:51:15,989 --> 00:51:18,950
for what that might be like
knowing what he'd experienced in the past.
737
00:51:21,703 --> 00:51:25,624
And then, he and his brother's
Communications Secretary, Jason,
738
00:51:25,707 --> 00:51:29,544
called him to let him know
that the story was scooped by a tabloid.
739
00:51:30,253 --> 00:51:33,548
He said, "Well, if it's gonna come out
tomorrow, let's go and have fun tonight!"
740
00:51:38,220 --> 00:51:41,473
We went to
this Halloween party together,
741
00:51:41,556 --> 00:51:43,996
where we could be completely
dressed up and no one would know.
742
00:51:44,267 --> 00:51:46,621
- I had a bandana and goggles.
- You borrowed a great costume.
743
00:51:46,645 --> 00:51:48,104
Borrowed a great costume.
744
00:51:48,188 --> 00:51:51,468
And we were like, "Well, this
might be our last shot to just go out and...
745
00:51:52,609 --> 00:51:54,378
- have fun out in the world.
- Pull the pin on the fun grenade,
746
00:51:54,402 --> 00:51:55,237
which we did.
747
00:51:56,738 --> 00:51:59,699
His cousin, Eugenie, and
her boyfriend at the time, Jack,
748
00:51:59,783 --> 00:52:01,910
and my friend, Marcus, were there too.
749
00:52:04,788 --> 00:52:07,499
It was so great. Just silly fun.
750
00:52:07,582 --> 00:52:08,750
And then...
751
00:52:08,834 --> 00:52:12,087
♪ Don't let this be a final song ♪
752
00:52:13,964 --> 00:52:15,149
You hear that? That is the sound
753
00:52:15,173 --> 00:52:16,800
of hearts breaking all around the world.
754
00:52:16,883 --> 00:52:20,262
It is reported that Prince Harry
is dating actress, Meghan Markle.
755
00:52:20,345 --> 00:52:22,532
- Harry's rumored to have a girlfriend...
- ...the world's most eligible bachelor...
756
00:52:22,556 --> 00:52:24,992
- ...transatlantic alliance...
- ...It is believed they met last summer...
757
00:52:25,016 --> 00:52:27,769
Next morning,
it was so overwhelming.
758
00:52:27,853 --> 00:52:30,081
...the Prince and his American sweetheart...
759
00:52:30,105 --> 00:52:33,358
I said, "Okay. Well then,
I'll just treat it like we're in the bush.
760
00:52:33,441 --> 00:52:35,068
Because, like, it's all foreign to me
761
00:52:35,652 --> 00:52:37,612
but I trust that you'll keep me safe,
762
00:52:37,696 --> 00:52:38,947
and you'll get me through it."
763
00:52:39,030 --> 00:52:41,717
- She describes herself as mixed-race...
- ...straight outta Compton...
764
00:52:41,741 --> 00:52:42,659
...from the wrong side of the tracks...
765
00:52:42,742 --> 00:52:44,554
She's just a very different
type of person that I don't think
766
00:52:44,578 --> 00:52:48,540
your average member of the public thinks
of when they think of "Royal Family."
767
00:52:49,124 --> 00:52:52,961
Naively, I didn't know
what I was walking into.
768
00:52:56,006 --> 00:52:58,717
But in October of 2016,
769
00:52:58,800 --> 00:53:01,428
when suddenly, everything changed.
770
00:53:01,511 --> 00:53:03,805
Meghan is
very much a deviation...
771
00:53:03,889 --> 00:53:06,742
- ...lured Harry away from us
- Meghan seems to be
772
00:53:06,766 --> 00:53:09,227
a version of the Antichrist...
773
00:53:13,940 --> 00:53:20,572
♪ You're all... I need... to get by ♪
774
00:53:24,409 --> 00:53:30,332
- ♪ You're all... I need... to get by ♪
- ♪ Like morning dew I took a look at you ♪
775
00:53:30,415 --> 00:53:35,420
♪ And it was plain to see
You were my destiny ♪
776
00:53:35,503 --> 00:53:40,550
♪ With arms open wide
I threw away my pride ♪
777
00:53:40,634 --> 00:53:45,180
♪ I sacrificed for you,
Dedicate my life to you ♪
778
00:53:45,263 --> 00:53:50,143
♪ I will go where you lead
Always there in time of need ♪
779
00:53:50,226 --> 00:53:54,773
♪ And when I lose my will
You'll be there to push me up the hill ♪
780
00:53:54,856 --> 00:53:59,986
♪ There's no, no looking back for us ♪
781
00:54:00,070 --> 00:54:04,282
♪ We got love sure 'nough, that's enough ♪
782
00:54:04,366 --> 00:54:10,872
♪ You're all you're all I need to get by ♪
783
00:54:11,581 --> 00:54:16,294
- ♪ Oh baby oh baby ♪
- ♪ Ooh ooh ♪
784
00:54:16,378 --> 00:54:20,840
- ♪ Honey, honey, honey, honey, yeah ♪
- ♪ Yeah ♪
785
00:54:20,924 --> 00:54:27,472
- ♪ I need you darling. Oh, I need you ♪
- ♪ Ooh ooh, you're all, all I need ♪
786
00:54:27,555 --> 00:54:32,852
- ♪ Oh, oh, oh I love you darling ♪
- ♪ Oh, baby ♪
787
00:54:32,936 --> 00:54:36,690
- ♪ All I need I need your love ♪
- ♪ You're all I need ♪
788
00:54:36,773 --> 00:54:40,443
- ♪ You're all I want. Ooh... ♪
- ♪ Ooh... ♪
789
00:54:43,238 --> 00:54:49,661
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