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These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: 1 00:00:01,440 --> 00:00:02,220 Meet fit 2 00:00:02,370 --> 00:00:03,900 and experienced poker player. 3 00:00:04,350 --> 00:00:06,360 Phil is starting up his online session 4 00:00:06,480 --> 00:00:09,030 he is calm relaxed and decisive 5 00:00:09,180 --> 00:00:10,830 his game is on point. 6 00:00:11,190 --> 00:00:11,970 Of course 7 00:00:12,150 --> 00:00:15,420 even though he places a game his mind drifts away 8 00:00:15,540 --> 00:00:17,730 and he thinks about random stuff in life 9 00:00:18,090 --> 00:00:20,070 but he can still deploy his a game 10 00:00:20,370 --> 00:00:23,970 the longer the session goes the more bad beats food has to face. 11 00:00:24,330 --> 00:00:29,310 Since he's a very experienced player he can get over it he knows it is part of the game 12 00:00:29,550 --> 00:00:31,740 and he can maintain a very solid a game 13 00:00:32,010 --> 00:00:33,750 on a scale of one to ten 14 00:00:33,900 --> 00:00:35,310 his tune would measure 15 00:00:35,430 --> 00:00:36,450 zero point three 16 00:00:36,570 --> 00:00:38,100 almost non-existing 17 00:00:38,370 --> 00:00:41,520 and the tinnitus not big enough to impact his game in any way. 18 00:00:42,570 --> 00:00:45,480 Dave on the other hand is a less experienced player 19 00:00:45,630 --> 00:00:47,730 that is much more susceptible for toot. 20 00:00:48,270 --> 00:00:52,530 When Davis face was the same amount of bad beats and bad runs 21 00:00:52,650 --> 00:00:53,650 as Phyllis 22 00:00:53,760 --> 00:00:54,870 his tits Gail 23 00:00:55,170 --> 00:00:56,580 would already hit two 24 00:00:56,700 --> 00:00:57,700 and his game 25 00:00:57,930 --> 00:00:59,370 would slip into b game 26 00:00:59,580 --> 00:01:01,560 given that he is less experience. 27 00:01:02,220 --> 00:01:06,390 Both players have to deal with multiple bad beats and cycles in a row 28 00:01:06,570 --> 00:01:09,090 it will be tough for the experience pay US work 29 00:01:09,360 --> 00:01:13,440 but the experience player might only hit one point zero on the two scale. 30 00:01:14,010 --> 00:01:16,500 The inexperienced player is hitting four 31 00:01:16,650 --> 00:01:19,560 and his strategy does not remain profitable anymore. 32 00:01:19,890 --> 00:01:21,150 Emotions to over 33 00:01:21,330 --> 00:01:24,510 and he makes wrong decisions based on his emotions. 34 00:01:25,680 --> 00:01:26,430 Nathan for 35 00:01:26,610 --> 00:01:31,350 have to deal with more bad beats and cycles as long as the session goes and both 36 00:01:31,350 --> 00:01:33,600 players play their b or c game 37 00:01:33,960 --> 00:01:35,010 but the b 38 00:01:35,130 --> 00:01:36,130 or c game 39 00:01:36,180 --> 00:01:39,810 for the experienced player is still good enough to remain profitable. 40 00:01:40,470 --> 00:01:41,580 Phyllis aware of 41 00:01:41,820 --> 00:01:43,080 his negative thoughts 42 00:01:43,290 --> 00:01:47,430 and thus he is able to stop the process of emotions taking over. 43 00:01:47,790 --> 00:01:52,050 It doesn't mean he is pushing them away or resisting them he is aware of them 44 00:01:52,170 --> 00:01:53,670 and able to accept them. 45 00:01:54,090 --> 00:01:58,950 Ultimately the emotions are not taking over and history does not deteriorate 46 00:01:59,190 --> 00:02:00,780 just because of being mad. 47 00:02:01,260 --> 00:02:02,940 Being a little bit mad is fine 48 00:02:03,180 --> 00:02:05,910 as long as you keep a high level of several awareness. 49 00:02:06,390 --> 00:02:07,140 However 50 00:02:07,410 --> 00:02:11,790 Dave is not able to stop the avalanche of negative thoughts and emotions 51 00:02:11,970 --> 00:02:13,200 it is a vicious cycle 52 00:02:13,530 --> 00:02:15,120 and it keeps aggravating. 53 00:02:15,510 --> 00:02:17,340 Do bad beats and cycles 54 00:02:17,550 --> 00:02:18,960 the scale had three 55 00:02:19,170 --> 00:02:22,020 but the lack of self awareness makes it even worse 56 00:02:22,170 --> 00:02:23,310 and he hits four 57 00:02:23,430 --> 00:02:25,260 and then five on the tid scale 58 00:02:25,380 --> 00:02:27,030 which leads to the odometer. 59 00:02:27,990 --> 00:02:32,910 Two or three on the third scale would perhaps 60 00:02:32,910 --> 00:02:33,510 even maintain a break even strategy for Dave 61 00:02:33,810 --> 00:02:37,620 but his low level of self awareness brings him into the unconscious state 62 00:02:37,830 --> 00:02:39,270 of clicking random buttons 63 00:02:39,540 --> 00:02:42,330 not being able to make good lay downs or bluffs. 64 00:02:42,690 --> 00:02:44,880 This is a total natural process 65 00:02:45,000 --> 00:02:48,720 we as human beings are able to have thoughts about thoughts 66 00:02:48,960 --> 00:02:51,840 and if we don't bring awareness into high purchase situation 67 00:02:52,080 --> 00:02:53,280 emotions take over 68 00:02:53,430 --> 00:02:58,350 and these emotions we basically operate and control our decision making system which 69 00:02:58,350 --> 00:03:01,980 is very dangerous in a very rational and mathematical base game 70 00:03:02,400 --> 00:03:06,480 and these thoughts about our thoughts keep reinforcing to. 71 00:03:07,560 --> 00:03:08,560 Dave keeps playing 72 00:03:08,670 --> 00:03:10,110 even though he's already tilting. 73 00:03:10,440 --> 00:03:15,060 Suddenly his heart starts beating faster and faster he gets dead aces 74 00:03:15,210 --> 00:03:19,110 his expectation of winning a big chunk of his losses back gross 75 00:03:19,320 --> 00:03:20,100 suddenly 76 00:03:20,340 --> 00:03:21,340 no action 77 00:03:21,420 --> 00:03:22,500 and he gets a walk 78 00:03:22,800 --> 00:03:27,150 such a loud com pisses some solve years ridiculous saw it's like 79 00:03:27,360 --> 00:03:28,360 poker is rigged. 80 00:03:28,710 --> 00:03:32,880 Of course no I'm getting a walk or this game is so unfair 81 00:03:33,210 --> 00:03:36,390 and he keeps reinforcing to more and more 82 00:03:36,630 --> 00:03:40,050 and his tooth scale keeps rising and he's tilting more and more 83 00:03:40,320 --> 00:03:42,780 such a loud km had such a huge impact. 84 00:03:43,170 --> 00:03:44,760 At the beginning of a session. 85 00:03:45,180 --> 00:03:48,840 It wouldn't have bothered him at all or getting a walk with aces. 86 00:03:49,920 --> 00:03:53,160 Three. 87 00:03:56,460 --> 00:03:58,770 In this video we will be very practical. 88 00:03:59,370 --> 00:04:03,450 I want to show you the methods that helped me and many others to accomplish their 89 00:04:03,450 --> 00:04:04,530 godson poker. 90 00:04:05,040 --> 00:04:07,740 It provides you with a wide range of methods 91 00:04:07,890 --> 00:04:12,210 to fight it and of course also to prevent yourself against it. 92 00:04:13,110 --> 00:04:17,910 And furthermore I'm going to show you why a proper mindset is very important 93 00:04:18,030 --> 00:04:18,750 also 94 00:04:18,930 --> 00:04:20,070 outside of poker. 95 00:04:23,760 --> 00:04:25,800 But before we jump into the topic. 96 00:04:26,220 --> 00:04:28,890 I have to tell you guys something very very important. 97 00:04:29,490 --> 00:04:32,100 You're not gonna find any magic pits here. 98 00:04:32,670 --> 00:04:36,780 And you won't see any change if you only tried them once. 99 00:04:37,200 --> 00:04:39,300 So it is important that your. 100 00:04:40,020 --> 00:04:41,020 Apply. 101 00:04:41,160 --> 00:04:43,470 Key consistency and self reflection 102 00:04:43,950 --> 00:04:47,370 and it really depends where you're coming from how you roll 103 00:04:47,550 --> 00:04:48,870 your education 104 00:04:49,320 --> 00:04:50,460 and so on and so forth. 105 00:04:50,880 --> 00:04:51,880 For some. 106 00:04:52,170 --> 00:04:56,970 The presented methods can bring resides foster and fathers it might take longer. 107 00:04:57,540 --> 00:04:58,590 It is crucial that. 108 00:04:58,980 --> 00:05:01,710 You apply as some kind of beginner her 109 00:05:01,950 --> 00:05:02,950 mindset 110 00:05:03,090 --> 00:05:06,930 so be very open minded and be willing to go beyond your limits. 111 00:05:07,260 --> 00:05:12,030 It might be possible it is very very possible that some of these methods will 112 00:05:12,150 --> 00:05:15,390 bring up some experience from the past 113 00:05:15,630 --> 00:05:19,470 which can of course have a tremendous impact on your emotional well being. 114 00:05:20,100 --> 00:05:21,720 You might start crying and 115 00:05:21,840 --> 00:05:25,230 you might even hit rock bottom before it becomes better 116 00:05:25,380 --> 00:05:28,170 and you slowly realize what actually went wrong 117 00:05:28,530 --> 00:05:32,400 and this is a very very crucial step in order to let go 118 00:05:32,520 --> 00:05:34,050 and accept what happened. 119 00:05:34,440 --> 00:05:38,400 We're not here and I'm not teaching you to to fix something. 120 00:05:38,880 --> 00:05:40,260 Everything is all right 121 00:05:40,620 --> 00:05:41,070 and 122 00:05:41,280 --> 00:05:44,070 I'm teach the you that you have everything within 123 00:05:44,280 --> 00:05:46,380 to achieve whatever you want to accomplish. 124 00:05:46,770 --> 00:05:48,360 The presented methods here 125 00:05:48,510 --> 00:05:51,510 the the purpose is not to make you a better human being 126 00:05:51,750 --> 00:05:53,580 or to optimise something. 127 00:05:54,090 --> 00:05:58,500 These methods and also the entire course the 128 00:05:58,500 --> 00:05:59,040 purpose is to support you in your journey 129 00:05:59,310 --> 00:06:00,310 and remind you 130 00:06:00,480 --> 00:06:02,670 that you have everything thing you need. 131 00:06:03,180 --> 00:06:08,520 But unfortunately in today's society we are so distracted by random bullshit and 132 00:06:08,520 --> 00:06:12,750 there are so many temptations to escape from all real problems so that we not really 133 00:06:12,750 --> 00:06:15,780 follow our visions anymore and we lose our goats. 134 00:06:16,380 --> 00:06:20,250 Again and this is I'm stressing that here a lot we are not fixing 135 00:06:20,550 --> 00:06:22,590 we bring up what we have within 136 00:06:22,830 --> 00:06:28,258 what is already in US unfortunately it is stuffed down very very deep and it takes 137 00:06:28,258 --> 00:06:30,060 some time to bring it up again 138 00:06:30,360 --> 00:06:31,360 to realize 139 00:06:31,440 --> 00:06:32,970 we have all the power within 140 00:06:33,330 --> 00:06:34,330 and. 141 00:06:34,410 --> 00:06:38,160 So we have the best environment possible to accomplish our goals. 142 00:06:38,670 --> 00:06:41,040 This is very important be clear about that. 143 00:06:41,610 --> 00:06:46,020 Also the re isn't why I put this video usually you have theory part and then the end 144 00:06:46,080 --> 00:06:47,370 methods will be presented 145 00:06:47,610 --> 00:06:48,900 but I want you guys 146 00:06:49,080 --> 00:06:50,760 to take action right away 147 00:06:51,120 --> 00:06:53,430 to work on whatever you need to work on 148 00:06:53,730 --> 00:06:54,730 so that's why 149 00:06:55,020 --> 00:06:56,610 this practical video of. 150 00:06:57,240 --> 00:06:58,770 Presenting methods and of course 151 00:06:58,890 --> 00:07:00,720 there will be also the theory part. 152 00:07:01,050 --> 00:07:03,150 Is more or less on the beginning of this course. 153 00:07:05,130 --> 00:07:06,960 Before you apply. 154 00:07:07,560 --> 00:07:09,120 Every single method here. 155 00:07:09,630 --> 00:07:13,710 You have to understand that we always approach it from two different perspectives. 156 00:07:14,130 --> 00:07:16,800 The first perspective is fighting the symptom 157 00:07:16,950 --> 00:07:18,060 which years took. 158 00:07:19,320 --> 00:07:22,590 And also preventing yourself and counter taking tid. 159 00:07:23,400 --> 00:07:26,880 So I'm going to present tailored poker warm up routines. 160 00:07:27,630 --> 00:07:31,470 Or something like in game awareness reminder 161 00:07:31,470 --> 00:07:31,860 session goes reminders of one's a fourth. 162 00:07:32,370 --> 00:07:34,500 The only fighting in the short term 163 00:07:34,680 --> 00:07:37,980 and they have very little impact on your overall mindset 164 00:07:38,190 --> 00:07:41,190 so the first prospect active is a little more than the micro level 165 00:07:41,460 --> 00:07:43,620 the second perspective is more on the micro-level 166 00:07:43,920 --> 00:07:45,300 fighting your beliefs 167 00:07:45,480 --> 00:07:47,550 frames traits habits. 168 00:07:47,910 --> 00:07:50,970 Dealing with whatever happened in the past bringing up again 169 00:07:51,270 --> 00:07:52,270 meditation. 170 00:07:52,530 --> 00:07:54,300 Daily mindfulness exercises. 171 00:07:54,660 --> 00:07:57,570 They have less impact on your next session 172 00:07:57,720 --> 00:07:58,740 they of course do 173 00:07:58,920 --> 00:08:02,070 the impact the short term is not as big as in the long run. 174 00:08:02,520 --> 00:08:03,520 It supports 175 00:08:03,629 --> 00:08:08,220 sustainable strong mindset which will impact your overall mindset in the long run. 176 00:08:08,790 --> 00:08:10,560 And make you turd 177 00:08:10,680 --> 00:08:11,680 less. 178 00:08:12,300 --> 00:08:17,730 In this video we will focus more on micro methods 179 00:08:17,998 --> 00:08:19,680 something you can use for 180 00:08:19,890 --> 00:08:22,560 warm-up routines or queued on routines 181 00:08:22,980 --> 00:08:24,300 and everything that has 182 00:08:24,485 --> 00:08:28,200 more impact on the long run saw the micro perspective. 183 00:08:28,770 --> 00:08:32,670 That for example meditation will have it's own course because 184 00:08:32,790 --> 00:08:35,490 those are more important things which. 185 00:08:35,820 --> 00:08:39,180 Needed more time to explain and dive deeper. 186 00:08:39,840 --> 00:08:42,630 Let's start with the very first belief that 187 00:08:42,750 --> 00:08:44,340 had a huge impact. 188 00:08:44,771 --> 00:08:47,190 My entire poker career and this is always. 189 00:08:47,520 --> 00:08:48,520 Applying. 190 00:08:48,840 --> 00:08:49,840 The frame of 191 00:08:49,890 --> 00:08:51,270 it is a shared experience. 192 00:08:51,960 --> 00:08:52,260 Alright 193 00:08:52,620 --> 00:08:58,290 and I'm really grateful because I grew up in a poker environment where I always had a 194 00:08:58,290 --> 00:08:59,640 lot of poker friends. 195 00:09:00,450 --> 00:09:01,450 So. 196 00:09:01,650 --> 00:09:06,480 It was never me being alone and I'm really really grateful for it and I know there 197 00:09:06,480 --> 00:09:10,980 are many many poker players out there who don't have such a supportive environment 198 00:09:11,250 --> 00:09:12,600 they are all by themselves 199 00:09:12,840 --> 00:09:14,970 so that's why I encourage everybody. 200 00:09:15,780 --> 00:09:18,990 To join poker communities to surround yourself with poker friends 201 00:09:19,230 --> 00:09:20,230 so. 202 00:09:20,340 --> 00:09:21,510 You're losing this 203 00:09:21,690 --> 00:09:24,600 mindset of always thinking yeah just me it's on me 204 00:09:24,900 --> 00:09:27,630 and nobody else has to deal with such problems 205 00:09:27,750 --> 00:09:28,530 but if you surround 206 00:09:28,770 --> 00:09:31,200 yourself with people that have similar problems. 207 00:09:31,530 --> 00:09:32,530 It will make it 208 00:09:32,760 --> 00:09:34,200 less impactful. 209 00:09:35,310 --> 00:09:37,770 And also in general even though you are alone. 210 00:09:38,340 --> 00:09:40,470 You are actually not the only one 211 00:09:40,710 --> 00:09:42,540 that has to go through something 212 00:09:42,720 --> 00:09:45,660 or think in a certain way or feel a certain way 213 00:09:45,960 --> 00:09:46,320 way. 214 00:09:46,770 --> 00:09:47,770 That you just alone 215 00:09:47,940 --> 00:09:52,530 remember we all share the experience of being a human we share moments of happiness 216 00:09:52,770 --> 00:09:54,540 and moments of pain and difficulties 217 00:09:54,780 --> 00:09:55,950 it reminds US 218 00:09:56,190 --> 00:09:59,220 that the human condition is a shared experience 219 00:09:59,370 --> 00:10:03,420 whenever we share something there's a greater sense of balance in mind. 220 00:10:04,290 --> 00:10:06,570 So remember we're not the only once 221 00:10:06,990 --> 00:10:07,740 and 222 00:10:08,010 --> 00:10:10,710 when what most poker players do wrong is. 223 00:10:11,130 --> 00:10:14,580 They they always think they're the only ones facing hardship and 224 00:10:14,790 --> 00:10:15,790 and. 225 00:10:16,304 --> 00:10:17,744 Having downswings right 226 00:10:18,074 --> 00:10:18,554 and 227 00:10:18,764 --> 00:10:19,250 they 228 00:10:19,364 --> 00:10:20,144 tell themselves 229 00:10:20,354 --> 00:10:22,274 nobody's running bad as I do 230 00:10:22,454 --> 00:10:24,584 nobody gets as many seconds as I get. 231 00:10:25,124 --> 00:10:26,204 Why always me. 232 00:10:26,744 --> 00:10:28,814 You need to forget about the me. 233 00:10:29,444 --> 00:10:31,334 And you need to change the perspective. 234 00:10:31,754 --> 00:10:35,804 We all at altogether share the experience of downswings and hardships we share 235 00:10:35,804 --> 00:10:37,904 moments of Chicago bad beats and coolers 236 00:10:38,354 --> 00:10:42,494 but also moments of upswings whenever we share something there's a greater sense of 237 00:10:42,494 --> 00:10:43,494 balance in the mind. 238 00:10:45,404 --> 00:10:46,784 So remind yourself. 239 00:10:47,174 --> 00:10:51,254 That there are millions of others running ten 240 00:10:51,254 --> 00:10:51,674 times worse than you which actually is true 241 00:10:52,094 --> 00:10:52,604 and not 242 00:10:52,754 --> 00:10:56,564 thinking of three or four guys that recently 243 00:10:56,564 --> 00:10:57,650 got lucky and and won a million with poker. 244 00:10:57,674 --> 00:10:59,084 So you need to reverse that. 245 00:11:01,484 --> 00:11:01,874 Okay. 246 00:11:02,234 --> 00:11:02,744 I 247 00:11:02,954 --> 00:11:09,284 don't reinforce to and now I am really really highly advise you to listen carefully. 248 00:11:09,854 --> 00:11:10,454 I 249 00:11:10,754 --> 00:11:12,404 would bet a lot of money 250 00:11:12,614 --> 00:11:13,614 that. 251 00:11:14,024 --> 00:11:19,034 Most poker players Ted is actually not as hard as it actually is if they would stop 252 00:11:19,034 --> 00:11:20,174 reinforcing tit 253 00:11:20,414 --> 00:11:22,904 by posting fucking bed beat hands. 254 00:11:23,804 --> 00:11:24,854 Actually they're cheered 255 00:11:25,004 --> 00:11:26,774 again it's not so high but 256 00:11:26,924 --> 00:11:29,894 they are in charge for making it even worse. 257 00:11:30,854 --> 00:11:31,854 And. 258 00:11:32,654 --> 00:11:34,994 What you can do in order to get a higher level cef 259 00:11:35,114 --> 00:11:36,884 level of turd resistance. 260 00:11:37,574 --> 00:11:42,464 First and foremost stop posting fucking pepe hands and Skype discord forums. 261 00:11:42,974 --> 00:11:43,754 And 262 00:11:43,874 --> 00:11:46,394 bed be cenotes are for losers. 263 00:11:47,114 --> 00:11:49,454 It's not full fun it's not for entertaining. 264 00:11:50,294 --> 00:11:51,374 You don't need that 265 00:11:51,554 --> 00:11:55,544 it doesn't provide you with any value doesn't 266 00:11:55,544 --> 00:11:56,174 provide you with any supportive feedback. 267 00:11:56,504 --> 00:11:57,734 I know it feels good 268 00:11:58,064 --> 00:11:58,724 but 269 00:11:58,934 --> 00:12:00,644 it doesn't support you at all or 270 00:12:00,914 --> 00:12:02,714 you only seeking for compassion. 271 00:12:03,644 --> 00:12:08,594 You're you're reinforcing your tit by doing this over and over over again stop 272 00:12:08,714 --> 00:12:13,064 telling your body's bad beat stories whenever you feel the urge to tell someone how 273 00:12:13,064 --> 00:12:14,064 bad you're on. 274 00:12:14,774 --> 00:12:15,824 Just keep in mind. 275 00:12:16,274 --> 00:12:17,384 Nobody gives a fuck 276 00:12:17,504 --> 00:12:19,364 even you the closest friends 277 00:12:19,634 --> 00:12:22,604 they just do it because of the nice but deep down they also know. 278 00:12:22,904 --> 00:12:24,314 He actually doesn't we help him 279 00:12:24,554 --> 00:12:28,184 but they don't want to be this dickhead and telling you the truth 280 00:12:28,424 --> 00:12:32,174 actually a real friend would tell you hey dude you know like actually it doesn't help 281 00:12:32,174 --> 00:12:33,794 you stop telling me the stories. 282 00:12:34,304 --> 00:12:37,514 Focus on studying your game focusing on on 283 00:12:37,694 --> 00:12:39,644 breaking down the hand properly 284 00:12:39,794 --> 00:12:43,214 focusing on receiving valuable feedback on one hand 285 00:12:43,634 --> 00:12:44,634 but not. 286 00:12:45,074 --> 00:12:46,454 Just the feedback of 287 00:12:46,634 --> 00:12:50,924 a all use you poor little guy you are on so unlucky x you have such a great player I 288 00:12:50,924 --> 00:12:51,398 mean that's 289 00:12:51,644 --> 00:12:52,454 that's what most 290 00:12:52,634 --> 00:12:53,634 of US want to hear. 291 00:12:54,134 --> 00:12:57,794 And you're not the only one and this goes hand in hand with the first point that it's 292 00:12:57,794 --> 00:12:59,054 always a shared experience 293 00:12:59,264 --> 00:13:00,944 and you need to forget about the stuff 294 00:13:01,244 --> 00:13:04,334 such as yeah I'm the only one that is running so bad 295 00:13:04,634 --> 00:13:05,174 so. 296 00:13:05,534 --> 00:13:08,054 The next time you have these urge urge 297 00:13:08,204 --> 00:13:09,434 take a deep breath 298 00:13:09,764 --> 00:13:11,024 and tell your bed buddy. 299 00:13:11,924 --> 00:13:15,344 So in order to make it in a productive way because you might ask yourself hey Ben but 300 00:13:15,374 --> 00:13:16,694 what what am I going to do then. 301 00:13:17,114 --> 00:13:21,764 You can still release whatever is within but do in a productive way 302 00:13:21,884 --> 00:13:23,024 where you remind 303 00:13:23,324 --> 00:13:24,944 a high level of self awareness. 304 00:13:25,304 --> 00:13:29,234 So for example you go to your body like him and I'm Renee insanely bad lately could 305 00:13:29,234 --> 00:13:30,734 you join me for a session review 306 00:13:31,184 --> 00:13:33,194 and then you can also release the 307 00:13:33,344 --> 00:13:35,624 fuck that is going on right now. 308 00:13:36,344 --> 00:13:38,354 Be productive stop complaining. 309 00:13:39,314 --> 00:13:43,184 If you keep complaining and not being able to let go even after your session 310 00:13:43,424 --> 00:13:45,283 you just keep reinforcing to 311 00:13:45,464 --> 00:13:46,634 you not giving. 312 00:13:47,684 --> 00:13:49,844 Yours sf the option opportunity 313 00:13:50,054 --> 00:13:51,374 to lead golf tit. 314 00:13:52,634 --> 00:13:54,164 It cannot leave your mind. 315 00:13:54,794 --> 00:13:58,544 At some point of course it is okay to let go and release all the pain you have 316 00:13:58,544 --> 00:14:00,794 experienced throughout the past weeks a month. 317 00:14:01,334 --> 00:14:02,684 It's not about. 318 00:14:03,614 --> 00:14:04,934 Fighting it because then 319 00:14:05,114 --> 00:14:07,214 at the end it will just become stronger 320 00:14:07,574 --> 00:14:09,014 but it shouldn't become a habit 321 00:14:09,254 --> 00:14:12,704 it is the same with nutrition once in a while it's okay to have a cheat day. 322 00:14:13,334 --> 00:14:17,354 Take your body by the side and tem in a very productive way hey man I'm running so 323 00:14:17,354 --> 00:14:18,914 fucking bad the past weeks 324 00:14:19,184 --> 00:14:19,694 I don't 325 00:14:19,814 --> 00:14:23,624 know what I can do better do you have any advice mentally or even strategically. 326 00:14:24,224 --> 00:14:25,964 Outright your you can see 327 00:14:26,174 --> 00:14:28,604 your letting go of your anger and pain 328 00:14:28,724 --> 00:14:32,504 but you still maintain a very rational approach and it's always you. 329 00:14:33,464 --> 00:14:38,384 You that is seeking for advice and feedback 330 00:14:38,384 --> 00:14:38,804 and you try to let go and accept what happened 331 00:14:39,074 --> 00:14:43,094 and not your ego that is seeking for validation there was just an advice how you can. 332 00:14:43,454 --> 00:14:44,454 Do it. 333 00:14:45,284 --> 00:14:47,114 There might be other waste as well 334 00:14:47,264 --> 00:14:51,404 I I just went to my friends I gave my friend a car was like fuck I had such an 335 00:14:51,404 --> 00:14:53,204 insanely bad session I was running. 336 00:14:53,534 --> 00:14:54,914 Twenty vs under 337 00:14:55,394 --> 00:14:57,194 and though my real winnings. 338 00:14:57,824 --> 00:15:01,936 Can we go over some hands or do we have any advise what I can do like should I should 339 00:15:01,936 --> 00:15:03,374 I skip for two days. 340 00:15:03,974 --> 00:15:06,794 Or should I just keep playing and then we just have a 341 00:15:06,914 --> 00:15:09,344 a very very productive conversation. 342 00:15:10,304 --> 00:15:14,444 At the beginning it might feel very difficult since you're so used to complain and 343 00:15:14,444 --> 00:15:15,974 post bad beat stories 344 00:15:16,424 --> 00:15:20,410 but again it's just your ego that needs attention your ego that wants to hear all 345 00:15:20,410 --> 00:15:23,054 your poor little boy you will run better soon 346 00:15:23,324 --> 00:15:24,914 you're such a great poker player 347 00:15:25,214 --> 00:15:27,044 and you actually deserve more. 348 00:15:28,934 --> 00:15:31,604 And that's that's your ego it's not you 349 00:15:31,784 --> 00:15:35,353 so in these moments remember this and tell your ego shut the fuck up I'm not going to 350 00:15:35,353 --> 00:15:36,353 complain. 351 00:15:36,944 --> 00:15:41,984 And in this very situations you bring awareness to it and thus the ego starts dying 352 00:15:42,194 --> 00:15:44,804 it will never completely die forget about that. 353 00:15:45,704 --> 00:15:46,454 Fairy tale 354 00:15:46,724 --> 00:15:49,334 and from time to time it will almost disappear. 355 00:15:49,694 --> 00:15:53,324 Again almost and you have the total control over your mind. 356 00:15:54,224 --> 00:15:58,214 Even though you are still there but you will 357 00:15:58,214 --> 00:15:59,450 be in charge she you will have the control. 358 00:15:59,474 --> 00:16:00,044 And 359 00:16:00,224 --> 00:16:01,874 it will never completely disappear. 360 00:16:02,204 --> 00:16:06,164 Or you will always need to quote unquote work on that and have a high level of self 361 00:16:06,164 --> 00:16:07,164 awareness. 362 00:16:07,694 --> 00:16:09,854 And you really need to understand the following. 363 00:16:10,454 --> 00:16:13,514 In order to get more to tear resistance the very first step 364 00:16:13,634 --> 00:16:17,204 is to get your mindset under control often before your session. 365 00:16:17,684 --> 00:16:19,664 Most of this time you spent 366 00:16:19,904 --> 00:16:21,104 outside of poker. 367 00:16:21,704 --> 00:16:25,964 What most poker players do is they spend time on the mindset five minutes before the 368 00:16:25,964 --> 00:16:28,245 session during the session five minutes after the session. 369 00:16:28,724 --> 00:16:31,064 But actually you spend more time outside of poker 370 00:16:31,544 --> 00:16:34,664 and even if it's a little bit less like it's still a huge amount of time 371 00:16:34,934 --> 00:16:36,734 but most poker players they just 372 00:16:37,004 --> 00:16:40,244 don't focus at all on their mindset when they don't play poker. 373 00:16:40,604 --> 00:16:42,764 Or they're not quote unquote working on it. 374 00:16:44,744 --> 00:16:45,194 So 375 00:16:45,314 --> 00:16:48,464 when you are the biggest complaint are you seeking for attention and compassion all 376 00:16:48,464 --> 00:16:51,194 the time posting backbeat hands multiple times a week 377 00:16:51,404 --> 00:16:55,094 how do you want to be able to control your mind when you play poker 378 00:16:55,334 --> 00:16:56,334 when you are much more 379 00:16:56,474 --> 00:16:57,474 pressure. 380 00:16:57,584 --> 00:16:59,714 When you cannot even control your mind. 381 00:17:00,434 --> 00:17:01,124 And. 382 00:17:01,454 --> 00:17:04,064 It leads to such a stupid behavior such as posting 383 00:17:04,244 --> 00:17:05,244 your hands. 384 00:17:05,564 --> 00:17:08,384 And you have zero pressure at all how you going to be able to 385 00:17:08,804 --> 00:17:13,214 to to play then under pressure and have a proper mindset and to remain calm and 386 00:17:13,214 --> 00:17:14,804 relaxing to play your a game 387 00:17:14,954 --> 00:17:19,094 when you face five six seven bed beats in a row when you're caught dead when you get 388 00:17:19,094 --> 00:17:20,534 crushed when you get murdered. 389 00:17:21,104 --> 00:17:22,574 It's just not possible. 390 00:17:23,384 --> 00:17:24,384 So. 391 00:17:24,974 --> 00:17:28,844 How do you want to bring your mind on a lever to compete with other poker players 392 00:17:29,084 --> 00:17:31,694 it's just not possible and you are playing handicapped 393 00:17:31,964 --> 00:17:33,824 and nephews as you have seen in the. 394 00:17:34,364 --> 00:17:36,884 In the animation it is like a boxer 395 00:17:37,124 --> 00:17:37,634 that 396 00:17:37,844 --> 00:17:41,174 got punched in the face before the fight even started 397 00:17:41,384 --> 00:17:43,394 so he's fighting have not already. 398 00:17:43,904 --> 00:17:46,574 In fact when you have your mind under control 399 00:17:46,694 --> 00:17:47,954 outside the tablets 400 00:17:48,194 --> 00:17:52,964 you have the huge advantage already since most players are complainers and even very 401 00:17:52,964 --> 00:17:54,014 good players are just 402 00:17:54,314 --> 00:17:57,014 complaining too much and not focusing on the important things. 403 00:17:58,184 --> 00:17:59,534 You will have a huge edge 404 00:17:59,744 --> 00:18:03,074 so the first step is to fix your mindset outside the tables 405 00:18:03,284 --> 00:18:05,774 and the next step is to improving your mindset 406 00:18:05,954 --> 00:18:06,954 when playing. 407 00:18:08,354 --> 00:18:08,954 And actually. 408 00:18:09,344 --> 00:18:13,064 I don't like to use the term to improve or to fix something 409 00:18:13,394 --> 00:18:17,504 but I don't know any other terms again we have everything within everything is right 410 00:18:17,534 --> 00:18:19,094 we just need to bring it up again so 411 00:18:19,334 --> 00:18:22,664 just picture when I use the terms fixing and optimizing. 412 00:18:22,994 --> 00:18:24,074 Just think of. 413 00:18:24,434 --> 00:18:27,974 We want to adapt a supportive behavior that is 414 00:18:28,184 --> 00:18:29,184 supportive 415 00:18:29,294 --> 00:18:31,664 in our journey in order to accomplish our goals. 416 00:18:33,104 --> 00:18:34,104 So. 417 00:18:34,394 --> 00:18:35,684 I want to present you. 418 00:18:36,194 --> 00:18:39,524 A meditation exercise you can do when you fear. 419 00:18:40,064 --> 00:18:42,494 The urge to share and embed beat hand. 420 00:18:43,154 --> 00:18:45,254 I want you to do the following every single time 421 00:18:45,644 --> 00:18:46,844 and the more often you do it. 422 00:18:47,444 --> 00:18:50,954 The more it will eradicate the urge to share backbeat hands. 423 00:18:51,944 --> 00:18:56,474 So when you really feel ha okay I just need to post something like ok whatever it is. 424 00:18:56,834 --> 00:18:59,144 Even you can even use this method 425 00:18:59,294 --> 00:19:01,634 for any other kind of behavior 426 00:19:01,844 --> 00:19:03,824 that interferes with 427 00:19:04,124 --> 00:19:05,354 your mindset and poker. 428 00:19:07,484 --> 00:19:08,484 And. 429 00:19:08,534 --> 00:19:09,534 You do the following. 430 00:19:09,824 --> 00:19:12,344 You take three deep breath. 431 00:19:13,034 --> 00:19:14,804 And you visualize mentally 432 00:19:14,954 --> 00:19:16,154 how you are asked yourself. 433 00:19:16,454 --> 00:19:17,534 Who is talking. 434 00:19:18,974 --> 00:19:20,954 You can you can picture yourself. 435 00:19:21,464 --> 00:19:25,604 You can you can imagine how your stand in an empty room or wherever and you literally 436 00:19:25,618 --> 00:19:26,774 asking yourself 437 00:19:26,984 --> 00:19:28,154 to that voice. 438 00:19:29,174 --> 00:19:34,484 That wants to share bad beat hand or do something else that is pretty stupid and not 439 00:19:34,484 --> 00:19:35,484 really supportive 440 00:19:35,864 --> 00:19:37,574 and you ask yourself who's talking. 441 00:19:38,714 --> 00:19:39,714 The next question 442 00:19:39,824 --> 00:19:41,024 if you don't you're not 443 00:19:41,234 --> 00:19:43,454 you're not trying to get an answer 444 00:19:43,694 --> 00:19:47,174 you're not trying to force yourself to answer those questions 445 00:19:47,444 --> 00:19:50,474 maybe an answer will come up maybe not 446 00:19:50,744 --> 00:19:51,744 who knows. 447 00:19:52,004 --> 00:19:52,364 Right. 448 00:19:52,874 --> 00:19:54,224 Just just let it happen. 449 00:19:54,734 --> 00:19:57,014 You're not forcing yourself to everything you just 450 00:19:57,314 --> 00:19:59,924 picture how you asked zef that question 451 00:20:00,104 --> 00:20:01,274 who is talking. 452 00:20:01,814 --> 00:20:03,224 The next question is. 453 00:20:03,764 --> 00:20:05,114 Who wants to share 454 00:20:05,234 --> 00:20:07,274 this random bad beat story. 455 00:20:08,084 --> 00:20:09,084 Again. 456 00:20:09,134 --> 00:20:09,734 You just 457 00:20:09,884 --> 00:20:14,744 ask it to an empty room to watch whatever you don't need to picture second person. 458 00:20:15,224 --> 00:20:18,704 You what you can do is maybe you can picture your eagle right because. 459 00:20:19,456 --> 00:20:21,196 Actually talking to or ego. 460 00:20:21,856 --> 00:20:25,366 The problem is our ego is not really tangible. 461 00:20:25,816 --> 00:20:27,916 So what we do is we want to bring it up 462 00:20:28,186 --> 00:20:29,506 we want to face it 463 00:20:29,626 --> 00:20:31,816 with it's stupid behaviors 464 00:20:31,966 --> 00:20:32,966 and. 465 00:20:33,496 --> 00:20:35,326 Non supportive intentions. 466 00:20:36,346 --> 00:20:41,326 Or for example if you always get envious if some body when something big and. 467 00:20:41,896 --> 00:20:42,916 You have this 468 00:20:43,186 --> 00:20:47,236 till like you're literally tilting even you're not playing and you you rage and you 469 00:20:47,236 --> 00:20:48,236 get mad 470 00:20:48,376 --> 00:20:51,166 you get envious of somebody wins something big. 471 00:20:51,736 --> 00:20:54,046 You can also pause again who's talking. 472 00:20:55,036 --> 00:20:56,206 And you're asked yourself. 473 00:20:56,536 --> 00:20:58,606 Who's getting envious about somebody. 474 00:20:59,116 --> 00:21:00,196 Making a lot of money. 475 00:21:01,606 --> 00:21:02,806 And you pause for y 476 00:21:02,956 --> 00:21:04,756 one two three minutes. 477 00:21:05,146 --> 00:21:07,216 Again there's no right nor wrong 478 00:21:07,486 --> 00:21:11,416 and this entire exercise can take five minutes ten minutes you should give it a bit 479 00:21:11,416 --> 00:21:12,196 of time you should 480 00:21:12,316 --> 00:21:14,656 at least wait a bit until something comes up. 481 00:21:15,316 --> 00:21:17,446 And then the final question is. 482 00:21:18,046 --> 00:21:19,096 What do you want. 483 00:21:20,116 --> 00:21:23,386 You asked yourself again you picture yourself wherever you 484 00:21:23,596 --> 00:21:26,356 are right now on the beach on your chair. 485 00:21:26,836 --> 00:21:27,836 Doesn't matter. 486 00:21:28,486 --> 00:21:30,736 And you ask yourself what do you want. 487 00:21:31,996 --> 00:21:33,346 Or you you asked the eagle. 488 00:21:34,096 --> 00:21:40,036 And you will realize then that there's actually no real rational reason for the the 489 00:21:40,036 --> 00:21:41,476 behavior of the eagle 490 00:21:41,686 --> 00:21:43,906 and once you wrap up this session 491 00:21:44,146 --> 00:21:46,036 you will never draw the conclusion that. 492 00:21:46,426 --> 00:21:47,806 Oh well yeah actually 493 00:21:48,076 --> 00:21:49,666 that makes little sense eagle 494 00:21:49,876 --> 00:21:51,466 thank you very much for being there 495 00:21:51,646 --> 00:21:53,356 and thank you so much for being so simple 496 00:21:53,566 --> 00:21:54,566 so supportive. 497 00:21:54,706 --> 00:21:59,056 So once you do that and you do it more often you were slowly realize how non 498 00:21:59,056 --> 00:22:02,806 supportive the ego actually is and you will be able to control much more often 499 00:22:03,166 --> 00:22:03,916 and sometimes 500 00:22:04,036 --> 00:22:07,396 you will smile about it and were we able to smile about something it 501 00:22:07,576 --> 00:22:10,186 it will always make it easier and lighter for US. 502 00:22:11,356 --> 00:22:15,856 Again there's no right no wrong whatever comes up is right we just try to picture 503 00:22:15,856 --> 00:22:17,416 those questions we try to 504 00:22:17,596 --> 00:22:19,876 visualize ourselves how we ask. 505 00:22:20,206 --> 00:22:21,316 Those questions 506 00:22:21,676 --> 00:22:25,216 and it might even help you that it's that you speak them out. 507 00:22:26,146 --> 00:22:26,866 And 508 00:22:26,986 --> 00:22:27,986 especially. 509 00:22:28,696 --> 00:22:33,886 If you're someone that likes to keep track for everything I highly advise you to to 510 00:22:33,886 --> 00:22:35,206 write it down to keep some 511 00:22:35,326 --> 00:22:36,916 sort of ego diary. 512 00:22:37,606 --> 00:22:41,536 And write down the responses whatever you have received whatever you have observed 513 00:22:41,536 --> 00:22:42,556 even if there was 514 00:22:42,856 --> 00:22:44,236 glittery emptiness. 515 00:22:44,596 --> 00:22:48,466 It's even better because then you see actually there is nothing that the eager really 516 00:22:48,466 --> 00:22:49,466 wants for you. 517 00:22:49,576 --> 00:22:52,726 There's nothing that is going to suck port you in your journey. 518 00:22:53,506 --> 00:22:57,586 And I'm always very very curious what you guys experience so. 519 00:22:58,216 --> 00:23:02,266 At this point in time I'm not really sure if we going to have an own group for the 520 00:23:02,266 --> 00:23:03,266 mindset course. 521 00:23:03,706 --> 00:23:07,336 And because I don't really know how it's supposed to work. 522 00:23:08,086 --> 00:23:09,676 In case we don't have 523 00:23:09,826 --> 00:23:12,856 a private group for members of the mindset course 524 00:23:13,126 --> 00:23:16,876 you can always just send me an email and share your experience with those methods 525 00:23:16,876 --> 00:23:17,926 whatever came up. 526 00:23:18,346 --> 00:23:22,216 I'm I'm really a Willie want to know how it 527 00:23:22,216 --> 00:23:23,937 works for you and what you have experienced. 528 00:23:27,976 --> 00:23:29,476 Using to it as leverage. 529 00:23:30,916 --> 00:23:31,916 Is something that. 530 00:23:32,296 --> 00:23:34,066 Actually helped me more in life 531 00:23:34,306 --> 00:23:37,126 that's why I wanted to share with you especially when. 532 00:23:37,456 --> 00:23:42,226 I was working on other stuff and I had to do tedious work tedious toss 533 00:23:42,676 --> 00:23:45,166 and of course also in poke her when 534 00:23:45,286 --> 00:23:47,866 I was suffering heart downswings and 535 00:23:48,076 --> 00:23:49,546 what I mean what I meet what 536 00:23:49,666 --> 00:23:50,716 I mean by that is 537 00:23:50,866 --> 00:23:54,046 use your failures as some kind of leverage or reminder. 538 00:23:54,496 --> 00:23:54,946 Am 539 00:23:55,306 --> 00:23:56,306 and. 540 00:23:56,536 --> 00:23:57,646 I use this tool 541 00:23:57,913 --> 00:23:58,325 of. 542 00:23:58,846 --> 00:24:01,276 Picturing some sort of battlefield box. 543 00:24:01,756 --> 00:24:06,346 On your negative experience all this suffering pp pain you have experience is in 544 00:24:06,346 --> 00:24:07,576 there you put it in there 545 00:24:07,846 --> 00:24:09,586 all the things you have failed 546 00:24:09,826 --> 00:24:10,826 and. 547 00:24:10,876 --> 00:24:13,366 Then you went back and you've finally succeeded 548 00:24:13,666 --> 00:24:15,736 not only poker everything in life. 549 00:24:16,216 --> 00:24:19,126 Might be your college degree you really suffered. 550 00:24:19,486 --> 00:24:21,526 A lot and it took you a lot of effort 551 00:24:21,916 --> 00:24:25,936 and you had a second job you had promised with your family but you made your degree. 552 00:24:26,626 --> 00:24:30,916 Can be in sports can be relationships personal goals whatever it is 553 00:24:31,066 --> 00:24:33,706 we really hide a hard time to achieve it and you 554 00:24:33,916 --> 00:24:35,836 you were really proud of yourself. 555 00:24:36,676 --> 00:24:37,816 So in times of hell 556 00:24:38,026 --> 00:24:41,866 when you might forget about how much pain you already had to go through 557 00:24:42,286 --> 00:24:44,776 and you might forget how strong you actually are. 558 00:24:45,346 --> 00:24:47,236 You opened this battlefield box 559 00:24:47,536 --> 00:24:49,066 and you realize 560 00:24:49,366 --> 00:24:49,966 ok. 561 00:24:50,296 --> 00:24:51,316 I'm a tough guy 562 00:24:51,496 --> 00:24:52,846 and I will get over this 563 00:24:53,296 --> 00:24:55,366 and whenever you are in a hard situation 564 00:24:55,576 --> 00:24:57,946 and you think life sucks I want to crit. 565 00:24:58,336 --> 00:25:00,556 Poker sucks wherever it is. 566 00:25:01,126 --> 00:25:02,146 Take a second 567 00:25:02,356 --> 00:25:03,496 step back 568 00:25:03,676 --> 00:25:05,112 change the perspective I. 569 00:25:05,536 --> 00:25:07,276 Opened that battlefield box 570 00:25:07,426 --> 00:25:11,326 and take out one of these negative experiences you had to go through. 571 00:25:12,136 --> 00:25:12,886 And 572 00:25:13,096 --> 00:25:15,346 you can tell yourself all this. 573 00:25:15,766 --> 00:25:17,629 Damn tough guy went through. 574 00:25:18,046 --> 00:25:22,216 Fifteen month downswing running three hundred buy-ins on the Wii and seventy five 575 00:25:22,216 --> 00:25:23,506 thousand dollars on the way 576 00:25:23,626 --> 00:25:24,626 you're a tough guy 577 00:25:24,826 --> 00:25:27,526 that was so what happened to me and I think two thousand. 578 00:25:28,936 --> 00:25:29,566 Twelfth. 579 00:25:29,926 --> 00:25:32,626 When I moved over from Florida to pokerstars and 580 00:25:32,746 --> 00:25:35,206 the first two years were just insanely horrible for me 581 00:25:35,566 --> 00:25:39,166 and I was leery on the words to quit but I had good friends that were really 582 00:25:39,166 --> 00:25:41,266 supportive and taught me keep going keep going. 583 00:25:41,626 --> 00:25:44,266 Because they realized I'm really good and poker 584 00:25:44,416 --> 00:25:45,416 and. 585 00:25:45,466 --> 00:25:46,966 So I didn't quit. 586 00:25:48,106 --> 00:25:49,846 So I put it back. 587 00:25:50,566 --> 00:25:53,836 Into that battlefield box and remember who I am actually are 588 00:25:54,256 --> 00:25:54,796 and. 589 00:25:55,126 --> 00:25:57,496 You can use the same for your workouts 590 00:25:57,646 --> 00:25:58,646 I used to 591 00:25:58,786 --> 00:26:03,046 play professional football and we had a coach he almost killed US. 592 00:26:03,376 --> 00:26:05,746 His summer camps were the toughest 593 00:26:06,106 --> 00:26:08,836 and I was about to collapse many may many times 594 00:26:09,196 --> 00:26:13,456 and this memory keeps me going he taught me when you're not hitting your limits 595 00:26:13,726 --> 00:26:16,996 you real limits that means almost puking during the training 596 00:26:17,236 --> 00:26:19,936 about to become swimming and losing consciousness 597 00:26:20,116 --> 00:26:24,166 you won't be able to excel and become great and go to your limits on match days 598 00:26:24,286 --> 00:26:26,086 he was very very old school 599 00:26:26,506 --> 00:26:28,816 but it was a great lesson for life 600 00:26:29,086 --> 00:26:31,066 at this point in time I hated him 601 00:26:31,336 --> 00:26:35,446 today I am love I love him for for that lesson I'm really really grateful. 602 00:26:35,806 --> 00:26:36,806 That. 603 00:26:37,066 --> 00:26:39,166 Always crossed at this point in time 604 00:26:39,496 --> 00:26:40,726 and at this point in time 605 00:26:41,086 --> 00:26:41,746 and 606 00:26:41,926 --> 00:26:46,186 we we crushed everything like we could run ninety minutes and even more. 607 00:26:46,636 --> 00:26:47,636 Straight. 608 00:26:47,746 --> 00:26:50,746 We were the f fittest and toughest guys and entirely. 609 00:26:51,316 --> 00:26:55,396 And so when it comes to poker I remind myself that I'm not that tiny box. 610 00:26:55,846 --> 00:26:56,846 I'm not. 611 00:26:56,926 --> 00:27:00,976 This complaining pussy not this mother fucking lazy idiot chilling on parties. 612 00:27:01,396 --> 00:27:05,026 This is a reminder of who you truly are at the core of yourself. 613 00:27:05,566 --> 00:27:10,396 And self talk and visualization will help you huh geared to to overcome obstacles and 614 00:27:10,396 --> 00:27:11,396 hardship. 615 00:27:12,106 --> 00:27:16,366 If you don't have anything in your life where you can proudly say 616 00:27:16,606 --> 00:27:19,576 okay I managed to Percy rear and I finally succeed. 617 00:27:21,556 --> 00:27:24,436 You can imagine what I'm going to say now dude. 618 00:27:25,246 --> 00:27:26,656 It's time to change something. 619 00:27:31,066 --> 00:27:32,476 Let's go through. 620 00:27:33,286 --> 00:27:37,126 Some different methods you can use let's call it little hags or whatever of course 621 00:27:37,126 --> 00:27:38,326 down on really hex. 622 00:27:39,256 --> 00:27:42,526 But it sounds cool you know everybody's using hacks in these days. 623 00:27:43,186 --> 00:27:43,756 And 624 00:27:44,056 --> 00:27:45,056 so. 625 00:27:45,796 --> 00:27:47,026 Let's start with the first one 626 00:27:47,206 --> 00:27:48,206 move down. 627 00:27:49,036 --> 00:27:53,326 If you will feel bad if you have lost self confidence move down 628 00:27:53,806 --> 00:27:55,936 and what happens is 629 00:27:56,146 --> 00:27:59,416 is that it reduces the complexity of the game. 630 00:27:59,986 --> 00:28:02,506 And you build up your self confidence 631 00:28:02,656 --> 00:28:05,266 and you can work on fundamental mistakes. 632 00:28:06,376 --> 00:28:07,126 Sometimes 633 00:28:07,336 --> 00:28:09,496 you might have expert since then when you play. 634 00:28:10,066 --> 00:28:14,828 A wide range of violence may be low mid stakes high stakes and you get cyclists on 635 00:28:14,857 --> 00:28:19,366 low stakes what what happens more than you smile over it you're okay with it so. 636 00:28:19,816 --> 00:28:23,026 You have a higher level of self confidence because you know ok. 637 00:28:23,386 --> 00:28:26,416 Just a cooler just a bad beat but the higher we play 638 00:28:26,566 --> 00:28:30,226 or the less experienced we are sir the limit we're not really sure. 639 00:28:30,586 --> 00:28:32,536 Whether we played it right or not 640 00:28:32,776 --> 00:28:36,466 so the complexity of the game often or higher stakes is much higher. 641 00:28:37,006 --> 00:28:37,456 And 642 00:28:37,636 --> 00:28:42,046 we want to reduce the complexity of the game if we really lost self confidence. 643 00:28:44,656 --> 00:28:48,916 Worst case scenario visit visualizations while I love this one 644 00:28:49,096 --> 00:28:50,096 and. 645 00:28:50,416 --> 00:28:54,466 It teaches you to be grateful and to appreciate what you ever have in life. 646 00:28:54,976 --> 00:28:55,976 And. 647 00:28:56,026 --> 00:28:58,456 A real story when I lived in Brighton 648 00:28:58,606 --> 00:28:59,606 and 649 00:28:59,686 --> 00:29:01,456 I was etching on running that bat. 650 00:29:02,086 --> 00:29:04,996 And just forth few weeks I was not running sola 651 00:29:05,116 --> 00:29:05,566 but at this 652 00:29:05,806 --> 00:29:07,576 point in time my computer crashed. 653 00:29:08,086 --> 00:29:11,206 Like literally everything my heart drives 654 00:29:11,596 --> 00:29:12,596 and. 655 00:29:12,706 --> 00:29:16,516 I got even scammed by someone who wanted to help me I paid him. 656 00:29:16,966 --> 00:29:18,496 I had to order 657 00:29:18,646 --> 00:29:22,996 the hardware and it didn't fit into my tower so I had to order it again 658 00:29:23,296 --> 00:29:25,486 and I didn't have a proper computer for like. 659 00:29:25,816 --> 00:29:28,486 Three or four weeks and I even 660 00:29:28,606 --> 00:29:29,986 lost some of my. 661 00:29:30,526 --> 00:29:35,566 Courses which I or some some key elements of the project when I started ratio edge at 662 00:29:35,566 --> 00:29:36,566 this point in time 663 00:29:36,766 --> 00:29:38,656 which was of course very very annoying. 664 00:29:39,166 --> 00:29:40,166 And. 665 00:29:40,426 --> 00:29:41,836 So every single time. 666 00:29:42,286 --> 00:29:43,286 I am 667 00:29:43,336 --> 00:29:44,416 running really bad. 668 00:29:45,136 --> 00:29:47,056 I just picture myself ok. 669 00:29:48,166 --> 00:29:51,166 What would happen now if also my computer would crash. 670 00:29:51,526 --> 00:29:51,916 Right 671 00:29:52,216 --> 00:29:53,216 and I had this 672 00:29:53,356 --> 00:29:55,066 fucking pain in the ass 673 00:29:55,366 --> 00:29:55,936 to 674 00:29:56,206 --> 00:30:01,216 hire someone or to take care of that to 675 00:30:01,216 --> 00:30:01,606 install everything new to set up everything new 676 00:30:02,026 --> 00:30:03,026 and 677 00:30:03,136 --> 00:30:06,076 to to ought to do all these tedious tasks which. 678 00:30:06,916 --> 00:30:10,636 Which is yeah just a pain in the ass and you can go even further than that 679 00:30:10,906 --> 00:30:12,706 even if that happens. 680 00:30:13,216 --> 00:30:17,236 Guys it's just a matter of perspective as long as you're healthy 681 00:30:17,536 --> 00:30:20,296 as long as you can lurie just just picture yourself. 682 00:30:20,716 --> 00:30:21,136 You're. 683 00:30:21,466 --> 00:30:23,176 Your best friend is dying. 684 00:30:23,656 --> 00:30:24,016 I mean. 685 00:30:24,512 --> 00:30:28,652 It's really just it's the sounds very brutal what I'm telling you right now but it's 686 00:30:28,682 --> 00:30:29,942 it is the truth. 687 00:30:30,482 --> 00:30:32,222 And I like to be straightforward. 688 00:30:32,972 --> 00:30:33,972 And. 689 00:30:34,052 --> 00:30:38,762 Of course I never want this happened to you but it's just again a matter of 690 00:30:38,762 --> 00:30:39,812 perspective and. 691 00:30:40,682 --> 00:30:44,432 This really helped me especially went out when I hit rock bottom I was running really 692 00:30:44,432 --> 00:30:47,432 bad bed or something else in life happen I just go one step 693 00:30:47,672 --> 00:30:48,932 further and think. 694 00:30:49,322 --> 00:30:50,852 Okay what would happen if 695 00:30:50,972 --> 00:30:51,632 that and that 696 00:30:51,872 --> 00:30:54,992 or how would I react or how would I feel if that happens so that 697 00:30:55,232 --> 00:30:57,752 would make the situation even worse and my. 698 00:30:58,472 --> 00:31:00,602 Entire well being would deteriorate 699 00:31:00,902 --> 00:31:03,632 but unfortunately didn't happen so actually I can be happen 700 00:31:03,812 --> 00:31:05,312 so there's always so someone. 701 00:31:05,642 --> 00:31:06,642 That. 702 00:31:06,902 --> 00:31:08,342 Has it much worse than you 703 00:31:08,492 --> 00:31:09,722 so don't only 704 00:31:09,842 --> 00:31:12,782 think about all the people that have it better than you because. 705 00:31:13,172 --> 00:31:15,482 There will always be people that have it better than you 706 00:31:15,842 --> 00:31:17,612 and you're just chasing. 707 00:31:18,002 --> 00:31:21,722 A feeling of happiness which is not achievable if you always compare yourself to 708 00:31:21,722 --> 00:31:23,492 someone that is better than you that is. 709 00:31:24,332 --> 00:31:26,882 Healthier or has more money or more Sussex 710 00:31:27,002 --> 00:31:28,502 successful or whatever. 711 00:31:29,402 --> 00:31:30,662 And as long as you have. 712 00:31:30,992 --> 00:31:34,412 Do you live in peace you have enough food you are healthy and. 713 00:31:34,832 --> 00:31:37,862 You can afford this course yeah you can afford to play poker 714 00:31:38,102 --> 00:31:40,562 I think we all have a very lucky life. 715 00:31:42,272 --> 00:31:46,832 And what you can do here again take take four five deep breath close your eyes and 716 00:31:46,832 --> 00:31:47,832 Willie picture. 717 00:31:48,632 --> 00:31:52,292 Something that is worse than the extra situation and and witty. 718 00:31:52,772 --> 00:31:55,622 Visualizes have it in front of your eyes 719 00:31:56,042 --> 00:31:57,042 and. 720 00:31:57,962 --> 00:31:58,472 Just 721 00:31:58,622 --> 00:32:01,652 just be there stay in that moment for for five minutes. 722 00:32:02,222 --> 00:32:05,072 Then again take a few deep breaths bring your moment 723 00:32:05,222 --> 00:32:07,052 at bringing awareness to the present moment. 724 00:32:07,562 --> 00:32:11,402 And open your eyes again and I will promise you you will feel much better. 725 00:32:12,122 --> 00:32:13,122 Than before. 726 00:32:14,342 --> 00:32:17,252 Furthermore I what I also do is I keep 727 00:32:17,432 --> 00:32:20,402 I have a mindfulness and or a gratefulness 728 00:32:20,762 --> 00:32:21,762 and. 729 00:32:21,932 --> 00:32:22,682 How he caught a 730 00:32:22,862 --> 00:32:24,002 book where I 731 00:32:24,302 --> 00:32:25,302 write down. 732 00:32:25,622 --> 00:32:29,672 Things and grateful for things I appreciate in my life every single day three things 733 00:32:30,092 --> 00:32:32,522 and it has been scientifically proven 734 00:32:32,642 --> 00:32:34,982 that this makes US US happier 735 00:32:35,282 --> 00:32:36,282 period. 736 00:32:37,322 --> 00:32:41,162 The next one recording your game is something I have not tried 737 00:32:41,552 --> 00:32:46,322 but I have heard it from several players that it is extremely powerful and 738 00:32:46,622 --> 00:32:49,292 I mean it has been proven that body language has. 739 00:32:49,712 --> 00:32:51,512 A huge impact on our mood 740 00:32:51,812 --> 00:32:55,652 so what you do is you don't record your poker game you will record your demeanor 741 00:32:56,132 --> 00:32:57,132 and. 742 00:32:57,302 --> 00:32:58,412 Your body language 743 00:32:58,682 --> 00:32:59,282 and. 744 00:32:59,612 --> 00:33:01,832 Your posture your breathing your smile 745 00:33:02,312 --> 00:33:06,572 and what you have to take into account is that emotions are the conscious observance 746 00:33:06,572 --> 00:33:08,102 of reactions in our body. 747 00:33:09,182 --> 00:33:12,452 So the weaker your body language the worse your body language 748 00:33:12,572 --> 00:33:13,592 and you sit like a. 749 00:33:14,222 --> 00:33:17,912 Like a monkey in front of the computer almost on the ground like the foods on the 750 00:33:17,912 --> 00:33:20,072 table you are you just you look grumpy. 751 00:33:20,642 --> 00:33:24,212 Your mood it's very likely that you mood will also not be the best you won't be the 752 00:33:24,212 --> 00:33:27,422 best states in order to achieve the best game possible. 753 00:33:28,262 --> 00:33:31,232 And then if you if your study of the footage 754 00:33:31,592 --> 00:33:33,542 and of course it should be there should be. 755 00:33:35,192 --> 00:33:40,142 Allow a gap between the session and the analyze session while analyzing session. 756 00:33:40,502 --> 00:33:44,132 Because otherwise you won't remember the situation if you wait a week or so so 757 00:33:44,252 --> 00:33:47,282 optimally do it like one day after Max two days after 758 00:33:47,522 --> 00:33:51,512 we go through the footage and then you tried to connect those situations where. 759 00:33:52,382 --> 00:33:55,202 You felt good to where you were in a good state and all. 760 00:33:55,802 --> 00:34:00,212 Observe your body language how did you breathe shallow or deep. 761 00:34:00,992 --> 00:34:01,992 The frequency of your 762 00:34:02,222 --> 00:34:05,732 breath your eyes your smile your posture. 763 00:34:06,062 --> 00:34:07,062 Everything that 764 00:34:07,112 --> 00:34:08,112 comes. 765 00:34:08,192 --> 00:34:09,272 Comes to your I. 766 00:34:09,662 --> 00:34:10,662 Write it down 767 00:34:10,832 --> 00:34:14,402 and try to remember what kind of emotions you felt at this point in time. 768 00:34:15,482 --> 00:34:17,762 So that you find out for yourself 769 00:34:18,032 --> 00:34:19,032 which. 770 00:34:19,562 --> 00:34:23,102 Which parts of the body are attached to positive emotions. 771 00:34:23,432 --> 00:34:27,182 So if you feel calm if you feel relax if you decisive. 772 00:34:27,722 --> 00:34:32,222 What is your body language so once you're in a similar situation again and you might 773 00:34:32,222 --> 00:34:34,712 not have sold positive emotions and. 774 00:34:35,312 --> 00:34:36,542 You will be suffer 775 00:34:36,782 --> 00:34:39,572 and then you just recognize 776 00:34:39,752 --> 00:34:40,262 that. 777 00:34:40,682 --> 00:34:42,332 You are for example just take a 778 00:34:42,482 --> 00:34:43,482 deeper breath 779 00:34:43,592 --> 00:34:45,782 just smile just sit upright. 780 00:34:46,382 --> 00:34:48,332 Straight posture shoulders up. 781 00:34:48,677 --> 00:34:51,812 Whatever it was that you observed 782 00:34:52,022 --> 00:34:53,852 try to apply it in the next session. 783 00:34:55,262 --> 00:34:58,382 I'm for exam was someone that always tries to 784 00:34:58,592 --> 00:35:02,492 when I don't feel good or whatever I am I'm really into that anyway I was reading a 785 00:35:02,492 --> 00:35:03,152 lot of books. 786 00:35:03,482 --> 00:35:07,712 I tried to educate myself what what we can do 787 00:35:07,712 --> 00:35:08,162 in order to put ourselves in better states. 788 00:35:08,672 --> 00:35:12,062 I mean it's weedy on the words to self manipulation but. 789 00:35:12,812 --> 00:35:16,832 I dunno like this is not up to it it's not up to you to judge whether this is right 790 00:35:16,832 --> 00:35:17,942 or not again it's just 791 00:35:18,182 --> 00:35:21,782 bringing something up that is already within I have a happiness I have greatness 792 00:35:21,782 --> 00:35:24,422 within I don't need external stuff in order to get that 793 00:35:24,692 --> 00:35:28,590 so I use my body language which is natural and everything that is natural 794 00:35:28,772 --> 00:35:30,062 cannot be too bad. 795 00:35:30,512 --> 00:35:31,512 So 796 00:35:31,592 --> 00:35:34,262 I know what I need in order to to be. 797 00:35:34,772 --> 00:35:36,152 Not nest sorry happy 798 00:35:36,482 --> 00:35:39,482 but to be more relaxed to be bit more calm 799 00:35:39,932 --> 00:35:40,932 to bring my. 800 00:35:41,672 --> 00:35:44,372 Awareness back to the present moment in order to to 801 00:35:44,522 --> 00:35:46,082 really play my a game 802 00:35:46,382 --> 00:35:50,042 so this was something I was not really focusing on recording my game 803 00:35:50,282 --> 00:35:50,822 but 804 00:35:50,972 --> 00:35:52,532 if you're somebody that 805 00:35:52,682 --> 00:35:56,822 has zero idea about that what what he needs in order to have a good body language. 806 00:35:57,212 --> 00:35:59,192 Just just recall your game just put a. 807 00:35:59,852 --> 00:36:02,312 Camera in front of your computer and just 808 00:36:02,462 --> 00:36:02,762 re 809 00:36:02,942 --> 00:36:04,562 ct try to record. 810 00:36:04,982 --> 00:36:08,312 As much as possible of your body probably the feeds are not possible 811 00:36:08,702 --> 00:36:09,332 and 812 00:36:09,542 --> 00:36:12,902 and the legs but at least the posture your face of course and 813 00:36:13,202 --> 00:36:14,222 then just observed 814 00:36:14,342 --> 00:36:17,492 just recorded thirty forty five sixty minute session 815 00:36:17,912 --> 00:36:20,642 and then you analyze the footage. 816 00:36:21,602 --> 00:36:23,852 The next one is not really a hack but. 817 00:36:24,212 --> 00:36:28,112 Knowing it is some kind of a hack that especially for beginners. 818 00:36:28,472 --> 00:36:30,302 That you guys who just need to be patient 819 00:36:30,452 --> 00:36:30,962 and 820 00:36:31,262 --> 00:36:35,432 the more experience you have it also reduces the complexity of the game and you can 821 00:36:35,432 --> 00:36:35,790 see 822 00:36:35,912 --> 00:36:37,682 very often it's really just about 823 00:36:37,982 --> 00:36:40,892 reducing the complexity of the game. 824 00:36:41,420 --> 00:36:46,232 I mentioned at the re earlier that chess players they don't tip because they almost 825 00:36:46,250 --> 00:36:46,712 always 826 00:36:46,892 --> 00:36:51,362 get the feedback when they played good or bad and if they play bad and they are 827 00:36:51,422 --> 00:36:52,712 consciously aware of it. 828 00:36:53,072 --> 00:36:56,822 They cannot win heated because they know it's there bad I mean 829 00:36:57,062 --> 00:36:58,472 they can still the bullet. 830 00:36:58,952 --> 00:37:03,752 Playing bad but they cannot we blame bad luck or their opponents or something eds 831 00:37:03,872 --> 00:37:08,342 so you always get that immediate feedback about what went wrong we often tip because 832 00:37:08,342 --> 00:37:10,082 we actually don't know what went wrong 833 00:37:10,262 --> 00:37:11,942 whether we played a hand good or not. 834 00:37:12,332 --> 00:37:13,332 So. 835 00:37:13,502 --> 00:37:16,622 The complexity of the game very often needs attitude. 836 00:37:16,952 --> 00:37:21,122 Of course we will never be able to reduce the complexity of the game entirely 837 00:37:21,302 --> 00:37:22,472 so we just tried to come 838 00:37:22,832 --> 00:37:25,232 to reduce it step by step little by little 839 00:37:25,502 --> 00:37:27,782 and this would of course also have a positive 840 00:37:27,992 --> 00:37:29,672 impact on our mindset. 841 00:37:34,382 --> 00:37:39,032 And mental challenges I really like this one I 842 00:37:39,212 --> 00:37:40,212 do that. 843 00:37:40,622 --> 00:37:42,062 On a regular basis. 844 00:37:42,932 --> 00:37:46,982 Cold showers ice bath I do weekly like core chores I do daily. 845 00:37:47,492 --> 00:37:49,262 And challenging work on 846 00:37:49,412 --> 00:37:51,512 I just want to share here Mike experience 847 00:37:51,812 --> 00:37:54,752 so for example a challenging workout can be something like 848 00:37:55,142 --> 00:37:55,742 and 849 00:37:55,958 --> 00:37:58,262 it also goes hand in hand like once you. 850 00:37:58,952 --> 00:38:00,572 Hand in hand with a battlefield box. 851 00:38:00,902 --> 00:38:01,982 Once you have. 852 00:38:02,882 --> 00:38:05,282 Finished such a challenging workout. 853 00:38:05,972 --> 00:38:11,222 Or you do something very quote unquote extreme on a daily basis what happens is is 854 00:38:11,522 --> 00:38:14,792 that you always have that reminder okay I do such things 855 00:38:14,912 --> 00:38:16,532 on a regular basis 856 00:38:16,712 --> 00:38:17,732 I'm not a pussy. 857 00:38:18,902 --> 00:38:19,902 That straight up 858 00:38:19,982 --> 00:38:22,622 and go back and attack again. 859 00:38:23,522 --> 00:38:24,522 And. 860 00:38:25,802 --> 00:38:30,842 For example I do body workouts and a wheelie hate burpees and sometimes their 861 00:38:30,842 --> 00:38:32,432 workouts where have to do. 862 00:38:33,152 --> 00:38:34,152 A certain amount of. 863 00:38:34,412 --> 00:38:38,492 Burpees says really brings me to my boundary to my limits 864 00:38:38,942 --> 00:38:39,942 and. 865 00:38:41,012 --> 00:38:42,572 Once I compete those. 866 00:38:42,992 --> 00:38:43,992 I really 867 00:38:44,132 --> 00:38:49,112 of course I not feel better in terms of physiology but I also feel much better in 868 00:38:49,112 --> 00:38:52,652 terms of my mental state also even days and week after 869 00:38:52,802 --> 00:38:55,592 because I remember while I finish this tough workout 870 00:38:55,892 --> 00:38:57,242 and I was able to quit. 871 00:38:57,932 --> 00:38:58,412 And. 872 00:38:58,892 --> 00:39:02,732 What I used to do and I still do is for thirty days I set myself 873 00:39:03,002 --> 00:39:04,002 this challenge 874 00:39:04,292 --> 00:39:06,932 and if you various very sportive guy any way 875 00:39:07,202 --> 00:39:10,382 you will know what I mean you will you will have exercises. 876 00:39:10,952 --> 00:39:13,052 Or records which you really don't like 877 00:39:13,442 --> 00:39:16,052 and for silva and football we had this. 878 00:39:16,442 --> 00:39:17,822 So called Cooper test. 879 00:39:18,272 --> 00:39:21,152 Where you were running for twelve minutes and you had to. 880 00:39:21,512 --> 00:39:24,962 Try to achieve the highest distance possible 881 00:39:25,382 --> 00:39:29,672 and this was really really really exhausting because you were running in a group and 882 00:39:29,672 --> 00:39:30,932 of course you wanted to. 883 00:39:31,262 --> 00:39:34,652 Achieve with a good time and twelve minutes full pace. 884 00:39:34,982 --> 00:39:36,782 That was extremely hard. 885 00:39:37,142 --> 00:39:39,092 What I do right now is fixed at war. 886 00:39:39,482 --> 00:39:40,142 The plank 887 00:39:40,382 --> 00:39:42,542 I find this one also extremely challenging. 888 00:39:43,022 --> 00:39:44,162 Every single morning 889 00:39:44,612 --> 00:39:45,612 and. 890 00:39:45,992 --> 00:39:48,392 You start with whatever you you you 891 00:39:48,542 --> 00:39:51,992 you can kennewick you can achieve maybe a minute maybe thirty seconds maybe two 892 00:39:51,992 --> 00:39:52,352 minutes 893 00:39:52,532 --> 00:39:53,672 make a first try 894 00:39:53,972 --> 00:39:54,972 and really 895 00:39:55,082 --> 00:39:59,732 set the starting time we start the first dot day as highest possible. 896 00:40:00,332 --> 00:40:02,942 So you are ready go to your limits let's say after 897 00:40:03,152 --> 00:40:04,502 ninety minutes you you 898 00:40:04,712 --> 00:40:05,192 break 899 00:40:05,462 --> 00:40:05,642 you 900 00:40:05,805 --> 00:40:05,985 you 901 00:40:06,093 --> 00:40:07,652 you cannot continue any more 902 00:40:07,802 --> 00:40:11,702 this way you start day one ninety seconds day two fifty nine seconds. 903 00:40:12,152 --> 00:40:12,662 Ass or 904 00:40:12,782 --> 00:40:14,672 ninety five seconds and so on and so forth 905 00:40:14,942 --> 00:40:18,662 and you increase the time five seconds per day for thirty days 906 00:40:19,022 --> 00:40:20,102 and also gives you 907 00:40:20,222 --> 00:40:22,172 puts you in the right state for the day 908 00:40:22,502 --> 00:40:26,972 and you can do the same with pushups you started with thirty push ups next day thirty 909 00:40:26,972 --> 00:40:28,292 one next day thirty two. 910 00:40:28,982 --> 00:40:31,442 Pull ups whatever it is running 911 00:40:31,742 --> 00:40:32,742 and. 912 00:40:33,002 --> 00:40:36,962 And you will realize what you will recognizes if you do that. 913 00:40:37,532 --> 00:40:41,732 Just compare the resides you accomplish with polka the amount of study or whatever. 914 00:40:42,330 --> 00:40:43,050 Benefit 915 00:40:43,260 --> 00:40:45,990 tremendously all other areas of your life. 916 00:40:46,800 --> 00:40:48,660 You will have a huge boost 917 00:40:48,780 --> 00:40:50,220 in your self confidence. 918 00:40:51,450 --> 00:40:55,380 And you will of course not only do you a favor for your poker game for years. 919 00:40:55,800 --> 00:40:56,800 For studying. 920 00:40:57,120 --> 00:41:00,240 You will also do your favor for your health for your body 921 00:41:00,360 --> 00:41:01,470 and for your mind. 922 00:41:02,910 --> 00:41:04,860 This will make you a strong as fuck and. 923 00:41:05,640 --> 00:41:09,480 And you can even put those to your to your battlefield box and. 924 00:41:09,900 --> 00:41:13,530 Once you suffer hardship you open it you take it out and you realize. 925 00:41:13,920 --> 00:41:16,320 You're actually a tough guys and all straighten up and. 926 00:41:17,070 --> 00:41:18,420 Let's get back onto the field. 927 00:41:20,351 --> 00:41:25,500 The next one is extremely powerful but it also takes a 928 00:41:25,800 --> 00:41:27,000 bit more time. 929 00:41:27,570 --> 00:41:28,290 And 930 00:41:28,410 --> 00:41:33,510 it means creating a list of emotions which support your decision making process. 931 00:41:33,990 --> 00:41:37,110 I will explain you what I mean by that and what you have to 932 00:41:37,230 --> 00:41:38,230 do here. 933 00:41:38,700 --> 00:41:41,190 You basically crew creating the ideal 934 00:41:41,310 --> 00:41:42,310 environment. 935 00:41:43,890 --> 00:41:44,890 Do. 936 00:41:45,030 --> 00:41:48,270 You make a list of emotions which support your decisions. 937 00:41:48,840 --> 00:41:51,630 So for example calmness Serenity. 938 00:41:51,960 --> 00:41:55,350 My joy vocals self awareness. 939 00:41:55,920 --> 00:41:57,540 And whatever whatever 940 00:41:57,660 --> 00:42:00,750 kind of positive emotions you have there are very supportive 941 00:42:00,900 --> 00:42:01,900 ride them down. 942 00:42:02,190 --> 00:42:06,210 Again if they're just if there's just one so far to start with it. 943 00:42:06,510 --> 00:42:09,180 This is also lists you gonna adjust 944 00:42:09,450 --> 00:42:13,500 you're going to add you're going to maybe even erase things you want to exchange them 945 00:42:13,500 --> 00:42:14,520 or whatever it is. 946 00:42:14,970 --> 00:42:19,050 If your life also doesn't give enough examples you can also use your fantasy. 947 00:42:19,590 --> 00:42:24,060 Or picture your raw Moritz picture the emotions when making good decision nz. 948 00:42:24,600 --> 00:42:25,080 And. 949 00:42:25,440 --> 00:42:26,440 You use it 950 00:42:26,520 --> 00:42:29,010 before the session to prevented 951 00:42:29,280 --> 00:42:31,170 but you can also use that list 952 00:42:31,410 --> 00:42:32,410 during. 953 00:42:32,730 --> 00:42:34,950 During the session if tid or cures 954 00:42:35,250 --> 00:42:36,250 to cure to it. 955 00:42:37,230 --> 00:42:37,830 Alternatively 956 00:42:38,010 --> 00:42:40,770 you can even draw a picture you associate 957 00:42:40,980 --> 00:42:44,520 with these positive emotions so for example calmness 958 00:42:45,000 --> 00:42:45,840 and 959 00:42:45,990 --> 00:42:46,990 you 960 00:42:47,070 --> 00:42:48,540 you associate commerce 961 00:42:48,810 --> 00:42:53,550 commerce with the sundown on the beach with your girlfriend or boyfriend or whatever. 962 00:42:54,120 --> 00:42:57,210 And emotions off connected with pictures we have. 963 00:42:57,630 --> 00:42:59,010 Often half from others. 964 00:42:59,580 --> 00:43:00,120 Do 965 00:43:00,570 --> 00:43:01,950 and it often has 966 00:43:02,100 --> 00:43:05,160 something to do with others that's why if you draw a picture. 967 00:43:05,790 --> 00:43:08,190 Put a second person into that picture. 968 00:43:10,170 --> 00:43:14,130 I mean we're not getting angry about a pen or shoe or any other items 969 00:43:14,340 --> 00:43:17,160 we are off we often get angry with other people we feel. 970 00:43:18,120 --> 00:43:22,530 Very often better when we surround ourselves with other people so very often emotions 971 00:43:22,530 --> 00:43:24,930 I attached with other persons or people 972 00:43:25,350 --> 00:43:27,600 and not with items. 973 00:43:28,260 --> 00:43:29,260 So. 974 00:43:29,760 --> 00:43:34,320 Maybe Don picture is unknown rather something 975 00:43:34,320 --> 00:43:35,496 that has something to do with other people. 976 00:43:35,520 --> 00:43:38,670 You associate positive emotions with walking. 977 00:43:39,090 --> 00:43:43,560 Along the beach why observing the sundial but you don't necessarily need to draw a 978 00:43:43,560 --> 00:43:44,560 picture. 979 00:43:44,790 --> 00:43:46,890 But it it makes it stronger. 980 00:43:48,120 --> 00:43:50,280 The next step once you have. 981 00:43:50,760 --> 00:43:52,650 Created a list of emotions 982 00:43:52,920 --> 00:43:56,700 you connect those emotions with specific situations in poker. 983 00:43:57,390 --> 00:43:58,950 Again here's no right or wrong 984 00:43:59,310 --> 00:44:01,080 and for example. 985 00:44:01,440 --> 00:44:04,620 I am extremely focused when approaching the bullet in order 986 00:44:04,740 --> 00:44:05,970 to not make bis make 987 00:44:06,450 --> 00:44:07,530 to make big mistakes. 988 00:44:07,950 --> 00:44:12,330 I am I'm extremely calm on finding tablets to 989 00:44:12,330 --> 00:44:13,386 not get overwhelmed by the big prize money. 990 00:44:13,410 --> 00:44:17,520 I am extremely self aware when things go wrong and I'm about to it. 991 00:44:18,240 --> 00:44:20,310 So you connect specific situation 992 00:44:20,490 --> 00:44:22,260 it can also be in a certain spot 993 00:44:22,470 --> 00:44:23,550 possible preflop. 994 00:44:24,360 --> 00:44:28,290 So you you connect specific situations with positive emotions attached. 995 00:44:28,620 --> 00:44:32,370 Again if you Charlie don't connect positive emotions with the specific situation 996 00:44:32,640 --> 00:44:34,200 then use your imagination 997 00:44:34,410 --> 00:44:38,100 use a role model and picture how they would tackle these spots. 998 00:44:38,580 --> 00:44:42,180 It can be three four five or even ten different positive emotions. 999 00:44:42,780 --> 00:44:43,860 Write them down. 1000 00:44:44,580 --> 00:44:45,580 And then. 1001 00:44:45,870 --> 00:44:48,690 Before every single session you do the follow when 1002 00:44:48,930 --> 00:44:50,610 you take three deep breath 1003 00:44:50,910 --> 00:44:53,100 and you visualize the situation. 1004 00:44:53,430 --> 00:44:55,650 Plus the positive emotion attached. 1005 00:44:56,460 --> 00:44:58,890 Then you go to the next one again you just 1006 00:44:59,100 --> 00:45:00,810 maybe you just see all yourself. 1007 00:45:01,170 --> 00:45:02,460 Sitting on the chair. 1008 00:45:02,760 --> 00:45:05,430 The table opening opening you grinding 1009 00:45:05,730 --> 00:45:06,750 and maybe. 1010 00:45:07,650 --> 00:45:10,530 You're playing a final tabor and you're playing for 1011 00:45:10,800 --> 00:45:12,210 insane amount of money 1012 00:45:12,690 --> 00:45:15,300 and you see how you remain calm while you remain. 1013 00:45:15,630 --> 00:45:16,630 Relax 1014 00:45:16,680 --> 00:45:18,060 or the same if you. 1015 00:45:18,840 --> 00:45:21,990 Face a lot of bad beats downswings and you 1016 00:45:22,110 --> 00:45:23,160 you see how 1017 00:45:23,370 --> 00:45:23,730 you. 1018 00:45:24,060 --> 00:45:25,530 So self confident 1019 00:45:25,650 --> 00:45:28,680 you remain even though you suffered so many bad beats 1020 00:45:28,950 --> 00:45:32,790 and how are you going to be able to stow deploy your a game and even make really good 1021 00:45:32,790 --> 00:45:33,870 plays good 1022 00:45:34,200 --> 00:45:37,320 and lay downs good blas and your game is not affected at all. 1023 00:45:39,990 --> 00:45:42,480 So you clues close your eyes three d breath. 1024 00:45:43,080 --> 00:45:46,050 Visualize the first emotion with the situation attached 1025 00:45:46,380 --> 00:45:47,380 and. 1026 00:45:48,330 --> 00:45:51,150 Stay there for thirty seconds one minute. 1027 00:45:51,750 --> 00:45:53,970 And then you can open your eyes 1028 00:45:54,090 --> 00:45:57,450 but if you can remember all of the emotion situations you can keep your eyes close 1029 00:45:57,450 --> 00:45:59,100 but then you open the eyes just shorty 1030 00:45:59,400 --> 00:46:01,290 take a quick look at emotion number two 1031 00:46:01,770 --> 00:46:02,770 and then you open your. 1032 00:46:03,000 --> 00:46:03,120 Eyes 1033 00:46:03,240 --> 00:46:05,220 close your eyes again three deep breath 1034 00:46:05,520 --> 00:46:07,380 and the same procedure again. 1035 00:46:07,770 --> 00:46:09,630 Then for this third fourth and fifth. 1036 00:46:09,990 --> 00:46:13,140 After the last one against three deep breath bring your moment 1037 00:46:13,390 --> 00:46:15,510 bring your awareness back to the present moment. 1038 00:46:16,110 --> 00:46:17,340 And then open your eyes. 1039 00:46:18,480 --> 00:46:22,710 Always adjust that list at the beginning if you only find one or two that's fine over 1040 00:46:22,710 --> 00:46:24,270 time and especially when you grind 1041 00:46:24,480 --> 00:46:28,350 your experience situations way recognize that negative emotion arises 1042 00:46:28,650 --> 00:46:29,650 and then 1043 00:46:29,790 --> 00:46:31,950 you want to exchange it with a positive 1044 00:46:32,190 --> 00:46:33,210 added to your list. 1045 00:46:33,900 --> 00:46:34,590 So let's say 1046 00:46:34,710 --> 00:46:38,730 on your list as commerce my joy forgoes and then you play for seventy days yeah 1047 00:46:39,120 --> 00:46:42,720 and then you are in a spot where we regular wins a big pot and it makes you 1048 00:46:42,960 --> 00:46:43,380 tit 1049 00:46:43,680 --> 00:46:44,370 and. 1050 00:46:44,700 --> 00:46:45,990 You feel envious 1051 00:46:46,170 --> 00:46:47,430 write it down immediately 1052 00:46:47,550 --> 00:46:48,550 so you. 1053 00:46:48,660 --> 00:46:50,970 You write down when I lose a big pot. 1054 00:46:51,870 --> 00:46:55,590 Or I deploy acceptance when a weak opponent wins against wins a big pot 1055 00:46:55,830 --> 00:46:57,390 against me this is part of the game 1056 00:46:57,660 --> 00:46:58,660 boom. 1057 00:46:58,950 --> 00:47:01,890 You have edit another spot another emotion on your list. 1058 00:47:09,030 --> 00:47:10,890 Okay guys I have some. 1059 00:47:11,400 --> 00:47:13,350 I don't want to call it homework again. 1060 00:47:13,680 --> 00:47:14,910 If there are certain. 1061 00:47:15,690 --> 00:47:17,520 Things that might. 1062 00:47:18,300 --> 00:47:20,970 Be more important for you focus on that. 1063 00:47:21,570 --> 00:47:22,620 If you already 1064 00:47:22,920 --> 00:47:27,240 have your own battlefield box and you're totally aware of what you have accomplished 1065 00:47:27,240 --> 00:47:30,360 and you're not alive and you can use it as some kind of leverage 1066 00:47:30,600 --> 00:47:32,970 for situations when you face hardship 1067 00:47:33,090 --> 00:47:34,090 then skip that 1068 00:47:34,260 --> 00:47:37,800 but if you're someone that really strides and has no idea 1069 00:47:38,070 --> 00:47:40,740 I highly encourage you to try it out 1070 00:47:41,010 --> 00:47:44,370 be open minded give it a try and then see how it goes so first of all. 1071 00:47:44,730 --> 00:47:46,620 What is your battlefield box what have you 1072 00:47:46,890 --> 00:47:50,370 accomplished in life where you can be very very proud of yourself. 1073 00:47:51,000 --> 00:47:53,700 That was not that easy i'm not talking about easy thanks. 1074 00:47:55,470 --> 00:47:58,380 Something where will he suffered that it was really not easy. 1075 00:47:59,160 --> 00:48:00,600 To find a mind's a challenge 1076 00:48:00,780 --> 00:48:03,690 it has to be difficult yet achievable it can be something like 1077 00:48:03,810 --> 00:48:05,220 cold shower every single day 1078 00:48:05,490 --> 00:48:07,260 where it started with once a week. 1079 00:48:07,980 --> 00:48:09,150 For at least a minute. 1080 00:48:09,450 --> 00:48:12,450 I will work or if you're a take cold showers 1081 00:48:12,570 --> 00:48:14,400 next step take an ice bath. 1082 00:48:14,700 --> 00:48:15,990 Buy some ice cube oops 1083 00:48:16,230 --> 00:48:16,800 I. 1084 00:48:17,100 --> 00:48:19,740 Fill in your hut at your hotel pure 1085 00:48:19,920 --> 00:48:22,410 your bathtub with with cold water. 1086 00:48:23,010 --> 00:48:25,620 And add the ice type so that it's will record 1087 00:48:25,860 --> 00:48:28,020 stay in there for these five minutes. 1088 00:48:28,920 --> 00:48:31,680 And tried to breathe as deep as possible. 1089 00:48:33,150 --> 00:48:34,710 And or. 1090 00:48:35,070 --> 00:48:39,150 A work on that is very challenging or something else can be something. 1091 00:48:39,780 --> 00:48:42,300 Like a difficult language whatever it is 1092 00:48:42,450 --> 00:48:44,400 and that is achievable 1093 00:48:44,520 --> 00:48:46,830 yet it should be very difficult to. 1094 00:48:47,550 --> 00:48:51,630 To achieve and once you look back it can be very very proud of yourself maybe you 1095 00:48:51,630 --> 00:48:53,370 have something on your bucket list what you 1096 00:48:53,670 --> 00:48:55,680 will eat what you always wanted to try out but. 1097 00:48:56,790 --> 00:48:59,250 You always had this fear of failure or 1098 00:48:59,490 --> 00:49:00,870 you felt like okay 1099 00:49:00,990 --> 00:49:03,450 it might not be possible to succeed. 1100 00:49:03,780 --> 00:49:05,820 Yet you postponed you delayed it 1101 00:49:05,940 --> 00:49:07,740 now it's the time to attack it. 1102 00:49:08,400 --> 00:49:12,360 And try on these little hacks which one works for you how do you feel afterwards 1103 00:49:12,600 --> 00:49:13,050 and 1104 00:49:13,260 --> 00:49:13,950 don't 1105 00:49:14,250 --> 00:49:17,220 don't try to do everything at once give yourself time 1106 00:49:17,580 --> 00:49:18,120 and 1107 00:49:18,240 --> 00:49:20,820 focus a one or two different types of. 1108 00:49:21,480 --> 00:49:23,580 Of these exercises 1109 00:49:24,000 --> 00:49:27,240 and try them out for several months weeks and then 1110 00:49:27,480 --> 00:49:29,220 recapped at its hub what 1111 00:49:29,400 --> 00:49:30,570 what did you feel and. 1112 00:49:31,050 --> 00:49:35,340 I do that and I know many other very soon 1113 00:49:35,340 --> 00:49:35,610 accessible poker not even poker players I mean. 1114 00:49:36,060 --> 00:49:40,350 I'm as you see now also very very active in the business what. 1115 00:49:40,660 --> 00:49:42,630 I mean that sounds so. 1116 00:49:43,320 --> 00:49:48,060 So stupid actually but but I have a business here and I I met a lot of very 1117 00:49:48,270 --> 00:49:50,160 successful people along the way 1118 00:49:50,580 --> 00:49:51,580 and 1119 00:49:51,660 --> 00:49:52,950 common sense was always 1120 00:49:53,100 --> 00:49:54,810 tried to keep track of everything and 1121 00:49:54,960 --> 00:49:56,580 have your little minds a journey 1122 00:49:57,000 --> 00:49:58,000 and. 1123 00:49:58,200 --> 00:50:02,430 You don't need to do it every single day but just recap after four five six seven 1124 00:50:02,430 --> 00:50:03,510 days maybe once a week 1125 00:50:03,780 --> 00:50:04,780 okay what. 1126 00:50:04,950 --> 00:50:07,380 How'd what do I recognize or. 1127 00:50:08,520 --> 00:50:11,250 What is the progress of the last week is this something. 1128 00:50:11,610 --> 00:50:12,960 That comes to my mind. 1129 00:50:13,710 --> 00:50:14,710 Because. 1130 00:50:14,940 --> 00:50:18,240 Progress otherwise is not measurable I mean how do you want to 1131 00:50:18,480 --> 00:50:22,440 measure progress right and this is the best way to keep track of it. 1132 00:50:22,800 --> 00:50:23,800 In order to. 1133 00:50:24,210 --> 00:50:27,270 Ascertain whether you make progress or not. 1134 00:50:28,050 --> 00:50:32,400 And then once you realize what routines work best for you build a habit. 1135 00:50:33,090 --> 00:50:34,170 Stick to it it 1136 00:50:34,320 --> 00:50:37,200 and it has to come or it has to become. 1137 00:50:37,530 --> 00:50:40,140 A routine such as brushing your teeth. 1138 00:50:42,120 --> 00:50:43,140 Give yourself time. 1139 00:50:43,530 --> 00:50:45,750 Nice Patience don't rush it 1140 00:50:46,020 --> 00:50:47,940 especially if you're someone that is 1141 00:50:48,120 --> 00:50:51,900 not really experienced in that area of mindset and you didn't really had the focus 1142 00:50:51,900 --> 00:50:52,590 there or. 1143 00:50:52,920 --> 00:50:57,270 It did never really take care of your mindset that can even take longer. 1144 00:50:57,780 --> 00:50:58,980 So don't worry 1145 00:50:59,100 --> 00:51:01,440 and again it might even happen then. 1146 00:51:01,888 --> 00:51:02,998 It's worse 1147 00:51:03,148 --> 00:51:04,148 because. 1148 00:51:04,378 --> 00:51:06,178 You put now so much. 1149 00:51:07,145 --> 00:51:10,318 Focus on your mindset that. 1150 00:51:10,888 --> 00:51:13,798 Maybe there was cause to come stuff up that 1151 00:51:13,978 --> 00:51:16,048 was buried for a very long time. 1152 00:51:16,558 --> 00:51:17,558 And. 1153 00:51:17,878 --> 00:51:22,528 It takes you wanted two weeks two x she get over it and to accept into three allies 1154 00:51:22,528 --> 00:51:24,928 okay there's actually a lot of bad stuff in there. 1155 00:51:25,438 --> 00:51:26,098 And 1156 00:51:26,218 --> 00:51:30,628 why it is and what it is I will also explain in one of the next. 1157 00:51:30,928 --> 00:51:33,478 Videos when we will go deeper and we also. 1158 00:51:34,210 --> 00:51:35,210 Will also. 1159 00:51:35,548 --> 00:51:39,868 Explain you what is about them the subconscious mind how does it interfere with our 1160 00:51:39,868 --> 00:51:40,868 mindset 1161 00:51:40,948 --> 00:51:45,508 and some vr very very deep and very valuable stuff. 1162 00:51:46,198 --> 00:51:48,238 If you have any questions again. 1163 00:51:48,628 --> 00:51:50,488 Share your experience of that was me. 1164 00:51:51,088 --> 00:51:52,088 Send me an email. 1165 00:51:52,738 --> 00:51:56,368 And then I'm looking forward to seeing the next video that was meant to be for 1166 00:51:56,368 --> 00:51:57,658 research Jarvis. 1167 00:51:58,768 --> 00:52:02,788 And. 91351

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