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Meet fit
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and experienced poker player.
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Phil is starting up
his online session
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he is calm relaxed and decisive
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his game is on point.
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Of course
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even though he places a
game his mind drifts away
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and he thinks about
random stuff in life
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but he can still
deploy his a game
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the longer the session goes the
more bad beats food has to face.
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Since he's a very experienced player he can
get over it he knows it is part of the game
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and he can maintain
a very solid a game
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on a scale of one to ten
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his tune would measure
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zero point three
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almost non-existing
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and the tinnitus not big enough
to impact his game in any way.
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Dave on the other hand is
a less experienced player
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that is much more
susceptible for toot.
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When Davis face was the same
amount of bad beats and bad runs
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as Phyllis
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his tits Gail
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would already hit two
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and his game
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would slip into b game
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given that he is
less experience.
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Both players have to deal with
multiple bad beats and cycles in a row
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it will be tough for the
experience pay US work
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but the experience player might
only hit one point zero on the two scale.
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The inexperienced
player is hitting four
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and his strategy does not
remain profitable anymore.
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Emotions to over
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and he makes wrong
decisions based on his emotions.
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Nathan for
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have to deal with more bad beats and
cycles as long as the session goes and both
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players play their b or c game
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but the b
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or c game
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for the experienced player is still
good enough to remain profitable.
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Phyllis aware of
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his negative thoughts
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and thus he is able to stop the
process of emotions taking over.
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It doesn't mean he is pushing them
away or resisting them he is aware of them
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and able to accept them.
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Ultimately the emotions are not taking
over and history does not deteriorate
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just because of being mad.
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Being a little bit mad is fine
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as long as you keep a high
level of several awareness.
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However
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Dave is not able to stop the avalanche
of negative thoughts and emotions
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it is a vicious cycle
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and it keeps aggravating.
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Do bad beats and cycles
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the scale had three
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but the lack of self
awareness makes it even worse
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and he hits four
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and then five on the tid scale
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which leads to the odometer.
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Two or three on the
third scale would perhaps
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even maintain a break
even strategy for Dave
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but his low level of self awareness
brings him into the unconscious state
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of clicking random buttons
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not being able to make
good lay downs or bluffs.
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This is a total natural process
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we as human beings are able
to have thoughts about thoughts
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and if we don't bring awareness
into high purchase situation
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emotions take over
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and these emotions we basically operate and
control our decision making system which
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is very dangerous in a very
rational and mathematical base game
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and these thoughts about our
thoughts keep reinforcing to.
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Dave keeps playing
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even though
he's already tilting.
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Suddenly his heart starts beating
faster and faster he gets dead aces
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his expectation of winning a
big chunk of his losses back gross
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suddenly
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no action
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and he gets a walk
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such a loud com pisses some
solve years ridiculous saw it's like
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poker is rigged.
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Of course no I'm getting a
walk or this game is so unfair
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and he keeps reinforcing
to more and more
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and his tooth scale keeps rising
and he's tilting more and more
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such a loud km had
such a huge impact.
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At the beginning of a session.
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It wouldn't have bothered him
at all or getting a walk with aces.
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Three.
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In this video we
will be very practical.
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I want to show you the methods that helped
me and many others to accomplish their
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godson poker.
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It provides you with a
wide range of methods
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to fight it and of course also
to prevent yourself against it.
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And furthermore I'm going to show you
why a proper mindset is very important
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also
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outside of poker.
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But before we
jump into the topic.
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I have to tell you guys
something very very important.
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You're not gonna find
any magic pits here.
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And you won't see any change
if you only tried them once.
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So it is important that your.
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Apply.
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Key consistency
and self reflection
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and it really depends where
you're coming from how you roll
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your education
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and so on and so forth.
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For some.
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The presented methods can bring resides
foster and fathers it might take longer.
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It is crucial that.
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You apply as some
kind of beginner her
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mindset
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so be very open minded and be
willing to go beyond your limits.
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It might be possible it is very very
possible that some of these methods will
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bring up some
experience from the past
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which can of course have a tremendous
impact on your emotional well being.
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You might start crying and
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you might even hit rock
bottom before it becomes better
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and you slowly realize
what actually went wrong
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and this is a very very
crucial step in order to let go
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and accept what happened.
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We're not here and I'm not
teaching you to to fix something.
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Everything is all right
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and
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I'm teach the you that
you have everything within
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to achieve whatever
you want to accomplish.
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The presented methods here
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the the purpose is not to
make you a better human being
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or to optimise something.
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These methods and
also the entire course the
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purpose is to support
you in your journey
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and remind you
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that you have
everything thing you need.
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But unfortunately in today's society we
are so distracted by random bullshit and
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there are so many temptations to escape
from all real problems so that we not really
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follow our visions anymore
and we lose our goats.
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Again and this is I'm stressing
that here a lot we are not fixing
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we bring up what we have within
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what is already in US unfortunately it is
stuffed down very very deep and it takes
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some time to bring it up again
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to realize
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we have all the power within
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and.
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So we have the best environment
possible to accomplish our goals.
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This is very important
be clear about that.
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Also the re isn't why I put this video
usually you have theory part and then the end
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methods will be presented
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but I want you guys
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to take action right away
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to work on whatever
you need to work on
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so that's why
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this practical video of.
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Presenting methods and of course
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there will be also
the theory part.
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Is more or less on the
beginning of this course.
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Before you apply.
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Every single method here.
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You have to understand that we always
approach it from two different perspectives.
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The first perspective
is fighting the symptom
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which years took.
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And also preventing
yourself and counter taking tid.
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So I'm going to present
tailored poker warm up routines.
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Or something like in
game awareness reminder
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session goes reminders
of one's a fourth.
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The only fighting
in the short term
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and they have very little
impact on your overall mindset
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so the first prospect active is a
little more than the micro level
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the second perspective
is more on the micro-level
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fighting your beliefs
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frames traits habits.
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Dealing with whatever happened
in the past bringing up again
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meditation.
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Daily mindfulness exercises.
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They have less impact
on your next session
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they of course do
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the impact the short term is
not as big as in the long run.
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It supports
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sustainable strong mindset which will
impact your overall mindset in the long run.
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And make you turd
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less.
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In this video we will focus
more on micro methods
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something you can use for
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warm-up routines
or queued on routines
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and everything that has
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more impact on the long
run saw the micro perspective.
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That for example meditation
will have it's own course because
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those are more
important things which.
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Needed more time to
explain and dive deeper.
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Let's start with the
very first belief that
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had a huge impact.
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My entire poker career
and this is always.
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Applying.
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The frame of
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it is a shared experience.
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Alright
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and I'm really grateful because I grew up
in a poker environment where I always had a
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lot of poker friends.
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So.
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It was never me being alone and I'm really
really grateful for it and I know there
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are many many poker players out there who
don't have such a supportive environment
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they are all by themselves
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so that's why I
encourage everybody.
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To join poker communities to
surround yourself with poker friends
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so.
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You're losing this
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mindset of always thinking
yeah just me it's on me
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and nobody else has to
deal with such problems
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but if you surround
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yourself with people that
have similar problems.
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It will make it
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less impactful.
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And also in general even
though you are alone.
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You are actually
not the only one
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that has to go through something
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or think in a certain
way or feel a certain way
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way.
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That you just alone
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remember we all share the experience of
being a human we share moments of happiness
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and moments of
pain and difficulties
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it reminds US
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that the human condition
is a shared experience
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whenever we share something there's
a greater sense of balance in mind.
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So remember we're
not the only once
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and
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when what most poker
players do wrong is.
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They they always think they're
the only ones facing hardship and
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and.
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Having downswings right
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and
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they
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tell themselves
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nobody's running bad as I do
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nobody gets as
many seconds as I get.
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Why always me.
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You need to forget about the me.
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And you need to
change the perspective.
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We all at altogether share the experience
of downswings and hardships we share
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moments of Chicago
bad beats and coolers
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but also moments of upswings whenever we
share something there's a greater sense of
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balance in the mind.
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So remind yourself.
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That there are millions
of others running ten
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times worse than you
which actually is true
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and not
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thinking of three or
four guys that recently
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got lucky and and won
a million with poker.
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So you need to reverse that.
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Okay.
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I
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don't reinforce to and now I am really
really highly advise you to listen carefully.
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I
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would bet a lot of money
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that.
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Most poker players Ted is actually not as
hard as it actually is if they would stop
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reinforcing tit
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by posting fucking
bed beat hands.
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Actually they're cheered
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again it's not so high but
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they are in charge for
making it even worse.
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And.
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What you can do in order
to get a higher level cef
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level of turd resistance.
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First and foremost stop posting fucking
pepe hands and Skype discord forums.
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And
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bed be cenotes are for losers.
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It's not full fun it's
not for entertaining.
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You don't need that
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it doesn't provide you
with any value doesn't
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provide you with any
supportive feedback.
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I know it feels good
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but
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it doesn't support you at all or
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you only seeking for compassion.
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You're you're reinforcing your tit by
doing this over and over over again stop
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telling your body's bad beat stories whenever
you feel the urge to tell someone how
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bad you're on.
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Just keep in mind.
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Nobody gives a fuck
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even you the closest friends
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they just do it because of the
nice but deep down they also know.
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He actually doesn't we help him
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but they don't want to be this
dickhead and telling you the truth
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actually a real friend would tell you hey
dude you know like actually it doesn't help
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you stop telling me the stories.
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Focus on studying your
game focusing on on
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breaking down the hand properly
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focusing on receiving
valuable feedback on one hand
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but not.
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Just the feedback of
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a all use you poor little guy you are on
so unlucky x you have such a great player I
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mean that's
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that's what most
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of US want to hear.
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And you're not the only one and this goes
hand in hand with the first point that it's
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always a shared experience
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and you need to
forget about the stuff
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such as yeah I'm the only
one that is running so bad
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so.
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The next time you
have these urge urge
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take a deep breath
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and tell your bed buddy.
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So in order to make it in a productive way
because you might ask yourself hey Ben but
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what what am I going to do then.
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You can still release whatever is
within but do in a productive way
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where you remind
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a high level of self awareness.
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So for example you go to your body like
him and I'm Renee insanely bad lately could
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you join me for a session review
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and then you can
also release the
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fuck that is going on right now.
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Be productive stop complaining.
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If you keep complaining and not being
able to let go even after your session
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you just keep reinforcing to
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you not giving.
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Yours sf the option opportunity
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to lead golf tit.
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It cannot leave your mind.
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At some point of course it is okay to
let go and release all the pain you have
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experienced throughout
the past weeks a month.
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It's not about.
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Fighting it because then
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at the end it will
just become stronger
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but it shouldn't become a habit
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it is the same with nutrition once in
a while it's okay to have a cheat day.
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Take your body by the side and tem in a
very productive way hey man I'm running so
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fucking bad the past weeks
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I don't
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know what I can do better do you have
any advice mentally or even strategically.
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Outright your you can see
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your letting go of
your anger and pain
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but you still maintain a very
rational approach and it's always you.
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You that is seeking
for advice and feedback
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and you try to let go and
accept what happened
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and not your ego that is seeking for validation
there was just an advice how you can.
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Do it.
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There might be
other waste as well
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I I just went to my friends I gave my
friend a car was like fuck I had such an
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insanely bad
session I was running.
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Twenty vs under
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and though my real winnings.
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Can we go over some hands or do we have any
advise what I can do like should I should
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I skip for two days.
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Or should I just keep playing
and then we just have a
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a very very productive
conversation.
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At the beginning it might feel very difficult
since you're so used to complain and
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post bad beat stories
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but again it's just your ego that needs
attention your ego that wants to hear all
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your poor little boy
you will run better soon
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you're such a great poker player
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and you actually deserve more.
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And that's that's
your ego it's not you
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so in these moments remember this and tell
your ego shut the fuck up I'm not going to
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complain.
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And in this very situations you bring
awareness to it and thus the ego starts dying
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it will never completely
die forget about that.
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Fairy tale
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and from time to time
it will almost disappear.
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Again almost and you have
the total control over your mind.
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Even though you are
still there but you will
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be in charge she you
will have the control.
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And
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it will never
completely disappear.
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Or you will always need to quote unquote
work on that and have a high level of self
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awareness.
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And you really need to
understand the following.
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In order to get more to tear
resistance the very first step
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is to get your mindset under
control often before your session.
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Most of this time you spent
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outside of poker.
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What most poker players do is they spend
time on the mindset five minutes before the
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session during the session
five minutes after the session.
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But actually you spend
more time outside of poker
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and even if it's a little bit less
like it's still a huge amount of time
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but most poker players they just
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don't focus at all on their
mindset when they don't play poker.
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Or they're not quote
unquote working on it.
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So
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when you are the biggest complaint are you
seeking for attention and compassion all
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the time posting backbeat
hands multiple times a week
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how do you want to be able to
control your mind when you play poker
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when you are much more
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pressure.
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When you cannot
even control your mind.
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And.
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It leads to such a stupid
behavior such as posting
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your hands.
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And you have zero pressure at
all how you going to be able to
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to to play then under pressure and have
a proper mindset and to remain calm and
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relaxing to play your a game
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when you face five six seven bed beats in a
row when you're caught dead when you get
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crushed when you get murdered.
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It's just not possible.
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So.
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How do you want to bring your mind on a
lever to compete with other poker players
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it's just not possible and
you are playing handicapped
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and nephews as
you have seen in the.
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In the animation
it is like a boxer
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that
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got punched in the face
before the fight even started
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so he's fighting
have not already.
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In fact when you have
your mind under control
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outside the tablets
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you have the huge advantage already since
most players are complainers and even very
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good players are just
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complaining too much and not
focusing on the important things.
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You will have a huge edge
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so the first step is to fix your
mindset outside the tables
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and the next step is to
improving your mindset
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when playing.
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And actually.
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I don't like to use the term
to improve or to fix something
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but I don't know any other terms again we
have everything within everything is right
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we just need to
bring it up again so
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just picture when I use the
terms fixing and optimizing.
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Just think of.
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We want to adapt a
supportive behavior that is
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supportive
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in our journey in order
to accomplish our goals.
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So.
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I want to present you.
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A meditation exercise
you can do when you fear.
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The urge to share
and embed beat hand.
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I want you to do the
following every single time
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and the more often you do it.
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The more it will eradicate the
urge to share backbeat hands.
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So when you really feel ha okay I just need
to post something like ok whatever it is.
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Even you can even
use this method
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for any other kind of behavior
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that interferes with
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your mindset and poker.
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And.
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You do the following.
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You take three deep breath.
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And you visualize mentally
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how you are asked yourself.
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Who is talking.
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You can you can
picture yourself.
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You can you can imagine how your stand in
an empty room or wherever and you literally
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asking yourself
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to that voice.
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That wants to share bad beat hand or do
something else that is pretty stupid and not
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really supportive
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and you ask
yourself who's talking.
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The next question
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if you don't you're not
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you're not trying
to get an answer
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you're not trying to force
yourself to answer those questions
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maybe an answer
will come up maybe not
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who knows.
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Right.
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Just just let it happen.
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You're not forcing yourself
to everything you just
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picture how you
asked zef that question
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who is talking.
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The next question is.
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Who wants to share
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this random bad beat story.
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Again.
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You just
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ask it to an empty room to watch whatever
you don't need to picture second person.
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You what you can do is maybe you
can picture your eagle right because.
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Actually talking to or ego.
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The problem is our ego
is not really tangible.
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So what we do is
we want to bring it up
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we want to face it
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with it's stupid behaviors
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and.
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Non supportive intentions.
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Or for example if you always get envious
if some body when something big and.
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You have this
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till like you're literally tilting even
you're not playing and you you rage and you
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get mad
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you get envious of
somebody wins something big.
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You can also pause
again who's talking.
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And you're asked yourself.
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Who's getting envious
about somebody.
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Making a lot of money.
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And you pause for y
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one two three minutes.
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Again there's no right nor wrong
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and this entire exercise can take five
minutes ten minutes you should give it a bit
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of time you should
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at least wait a bit until
something comes up.
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And then the final question is.
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What do you want.
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You asked yourself again you
picture yourself wherever you
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are right now on the
beach on your chair.
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Doesn't matter.
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And you ask yourself
what do you want.
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Or you you asked the eagle.
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And you will realize then that there's
actually no real rational reason for the the
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behavior of the eagle
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and once you
wrap up this session
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you will never draw
the conclusion that.
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Oh well yeah actually
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that makes little sense eagle
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thank you very
much for being there
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and thank you so
much for being so simple
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so supportive.
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So once you do that and you do it more
often you were slowly realize how non
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supportive the ego actually is and you
will be able to control much more often
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and sometimes
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you will smile about it and were
we able to smile about something it
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it will always make it
easier and lighter for US.
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Again there's no right no wrong whatever
comes up is right we just try to picture
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those questions we try to
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visualize ourselves how we ask.
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Those questions
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and it might even help you
that it's that you speak them out.
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And
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especially.
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If you're someone that likes to keep track
for everything I highly advise you to to
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write it down to keep some
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sort of ego diary.
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And write down the responses whatever you
have received whatever you have observed
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even if there was
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glittery emptiness.
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It's even better because then you see actually
there is nothing that the eager really
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wants for you.
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There's nothing that is going
to suck port you in your journey.
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And I'm always very very curious
what you guys experience so.
519
00:22:58,216 --> 00:23:02,266
At this point in time I'm not really sure
if we going to have an own group for the
520
00:23:02,266 --> 00:23:03,266
mindset course.
521
00:23:03,706 --> 00:23:07,336
And because I don't really
know how it's supposed to work.
522
00:23:08,086 --> 00:23:09,676
In case we don't have
523
00:23:09,826 --> 00:23:12,856
a private group for members
of the mindset course
524
00:23:13,126 --> 00:23:16,876
you can always just send me an email and
share your experience with those methods
525
00:23:16,876 --> 00:23:17,926
whatever came up.
526
00:23:18,346 --> 00:23:22,216
I'm I'm really a Willie
want to know how it
527
00:23:22,216 --> 00:23:23,937
works for you and what
you have experienced.
528
00:23:27,976 --> 00:23:29,476
Using to it as leverage.
529
00:23:30,916 --> 00:23:31,916
Is something that.
530
00:23:32,296 --> 00:23:34,066
Actually helped me more in life
531
00:23:34,306 --> 00:23:37,126
that's why I wanted to share
with you especially when.
532
00:23:37,456 --> 00:23:42,226
I was working on other stuff and I
had to do tedious work tedious toss
533
00:23:42,676 --> 00:23:45,166
and of course also
in poke her when
534
00:23:45,286 --> 00:23:47,866
I was suffering heart
downswings and
535
00:23:48,076 --> 00:23:49,546
what I mean what I meet what
536
00:23:49,666 --> 00:23:50,716
I mean by that is
537
00:23:50,866 --> 00:23:54,046
use your failures as some
kind of leverage or reminder.
538
00:23:54,496 --> 00:23:54,946
Am
539
00:23:55,306 --> 00:23:56,306
and.
540
00:23:56,536 --> 00:23:57,646
I use this tool
541
00:23:57,913 --> 00:23:58,325
of.
542
00:23:58,846 --> 00:24:01,276
Picturing some sort
of battlefield box.
543
00:24:01,756 --> 00:24:06,346
On your negative experience all this
suffering pp pain you have experience is in
544
00:24:06,346 --> 00:24:07,576
there you put it in there
545
00:24:07,846 --> 00:24:09,586
all the things you have failed
546
00:24:09,826 --> 00:24:10,826
and.
547
00:24:10,876 --> 00:24:13,366
Then you went back and
you've finally succeeded
548
00:24:13,666 --> 00:24:15,736
not only poker
everything in life.
549
00:24:16,216 --> 00:24:19,126
Might be your college
degree you really suffered.
550
00:24:19,486 --> 00:24:21,526
A lot and it took
you a lot of effort
551
00:24:21,916 --> 00:24:25,936
and you had a second job you had promised
with your family but you made your degree.
552
00:24:26,626 --> 00:24:30,916
Can be in sports can be relationships
personal goals whatever it is
553
00:24:31,066 --> 00:24:33,706
we really hide a hard
time to achieve it and you
554
00:24:33,916 --> 00:24:35,836
you were really
proud of yourself.
555
00:24:36,676 --> 00:24:37,816
So in times of hell
556
00:24:38,026 --> 00:24:41,866
when you might forget about how
much pain you already had to go through
557
00:24:42,286 --> 00:24:44,776
and you might forget how
strong you actually are.
558
00:24:45,346 --> 00:24:47,236
You opened this battlefield box
559
00:24:47,536 --> 00:24:49,066
and you realize
560
00:24:49,366 --> 00:24:49,966
ok.
561
00:24:50,296 --> 00:24:51,316
I'm a tough guy
562
00:24:51,496 --> 00:24:52,846
and I will get over this
563
00:24:53,296 --> 00:24:55,366
and whenever you
are in a hard situation
564
00:24:55,576 --> 00:24:57,946
and you think life
sucks I want to crit.
565
00:24:58,336 --> 00:25:00,556
Poker sucks wherever it is.
566
00:25:01,126 --> 00:25:02,146
Take a second
567
00:25:02,356 --> 00:25:03,496
step back
568
00:25:03,676 --> 00:25:05,112
change the perspective I.
569
00:25:05,536 --> 00:25:07,276
Opened that battlefield box
570
00:25:07,426 --> 00:25:11,326
and take out one of these negative
experiences you had to go through.
571
00:25:12,136 --> 00:25:12,886
And
572
00:25:13,096 --> 00:25:15,346
you can tell yourself all this.
573
00:25:15,766 --> 00:25:17,629
Damn tough guy went through.
574
00:25:18,046 --> 00:25:22,216
Fifteen month downswing running three
hundred buy-ins on the Wii and seventy five
575
00:25:22,216 --> 00:25:23,506
thousand dollars on the way
576
00:25:23,626 --> 00:25:24,626
you're a tough guy
577
00:25:24,826 --> 00:25:27,526
that was so what happened
to me and I think two thousand.
578
00:25:28,936 --> 00:25:29,566
Twelfth.
579
00:25:29,926 --> 00:25:32,626
When I moved over from
Florida to pokerstars and
580
00:25:32,746 --> 00:25:35,206
the first two years were
just insanely horrible for me
581
00:25:35,566 --> 00:25:39,166
and I was leery on the words to quit
but I had good friends that were really
582
00:25:39,166 --> 00:25:41,266
supportive and taught
me keep going keep going.
583
00:25:41,626 --> 00:25:44,266
Because they realized
I'm really good and poker
584
00:25:44,416 --> 00:25:45,416
and.
585
00:25:45,466 --> 00:25:46,966
So I didn't quit.
586
00:25:48,106 --> 00:25:49,846
So I put it back.
587
00:25:50,566 --> 00:25:53,836
Into that battlefield box and
remember who I am actually are
588
00:25:54,256 --> 00:25:54,796
and.
589
00:25:55,126 --> 00:25:57,496
You can use the
same for your workouts
590
00:25:57,646 --> 00:25:58,646
I used to
591
00:25:58,786 --> 00:26:03,046
play professional football and
we had a coach he almost killed US.
592
00:26:03,376 --> 00:26:05,746
His summer camps
were the toughest
593
00:26:06,106 --> 00:26:08,836
and I was about to collapse
many may many times
594
00:26:09,196 --> 00:26:13,456
and this memory keeps me going he taught
me when you're not hitting your limits
595
00:26:13,726 --> 00:26:16,996
you real limits that means
almost puking during the training
596
00:26:17,236 --> 00:26:19,936
about to become swimming
and losing consciousness
597
00:26:20,116 --> 00:26:24,166
you won't be able to excel and become
great and go to your limits on match days
598
00:26:24,286 --> 00:26:26,086
he was very very old school
599
00:26:26,506 --> 00:26:28,816
but it was a great
lesson for life
600
00:26:29,086 --> 00:26:31,066
at this point in
time I hated him
601
00:26:31,336 --> 00:26:35,446
today I am love I love him for for
that lesson I'm really really grateful.
602
00:26:35,806 --> 00:26:36,806
That.
603
00:26:37,066 --> 00:26:39,166
Always crossed
at this point in time
604
00:26:39,496 --> 00:26:40,726
and at this point in time
605
00:26:41,086 --> 00:26:41,746
and
606
00:26:41,926 --> 00:26:46,186
we we crushed everything like we
could run ninety minutes and even more.
607
00:26:46,636 --> 00:26:47,636
Straight.
608
00:26:47,746 --> 00:26:50,746
We were the f fittest and
toughest guys and entirely.
609
00:26:51,316 --> 00:26:55,396
And so when it comes to poker I
remind myself that I'm not that tiny box.
610
00:26:55,846 --> 00:26:56,846
I'm not.
611
00:26:56,926 --> 00:27:00,976
This complaining pussy not this mother
fucking lazy idiot chilling on parties.
612
00:27:01,396 --> 00:27:05,026
This is a reminder of who you
truly are at the core of yourself.
613
00:27:05,566 --> 00:27:10,396
And self talk and visualization will help
you huh geared to to overcome obstacles and
614
00:27:10,396 --> 00:27:11,396
hardship.
615
00:27:12,106 --> 00:27:16,366
If you don't have anything in
your life where you can proudly say
616
00:27:16,606 --> 00:27:19,576
okay I managed to Percy
rear and I finally succeed.
617
00:27:21,556 --> 00:27:24,436
You can imagine what
I'm going to say now dude.
618
00:27:25,246 --> 00:27:26,656
It's time to change something.
619
00:27:31,066 --> 00:27:32,476
Let's go through.
620
00:27:33,286 --> 00:27:37,126
Some different methods you can use let's
call it little hags or whatever of course
621
00:27:37,126 --> 00:27:38,326
down on really hex.
622
00:27:39,256 --> 00:27:42,526
But it sounds cool you know
everybody's using hacks in these days.
623
00:27:43,186 --> 00:27:43,756
And
624
00:27:44,056 --> 00:27:45,056
so.
625
00:27:45,796 --> 00:27:47,026
Let's start with the first one
626
00:27:47,206 --> 00:27:48,206
move down.
627
00:27:49,036 --> 00:27:53,326
If you will feel bad if you have
lost self confidence move down
628
00:27:53,806 --> 00:27:55,936
and what happens is
629
00:27:56,146 --> 00:27:59,416
is that it reduces the
complexity of the game.
630
00:27:59,986 --> 00:28:02,506
And you build up
your self confidence
631
00:28:02,656 --> 00:28:05,266
and you can work on
fundamental mistakes.
632
00:28:06,376 --> 00:28:07,126
Sometimes
633
00:28:07,336 --> 00:28:09,496
you might have expert
since then when you play.
634
00:28:10,066 --> 00:28:14,828
A wide range of violence may be low mid
stakes high stakes and you get cyclists on
635
00:28:14,857 --> 00:28:19,366
low stakes what what happens more than
you smile over it you're okay with it so.
636
00:28:19,816 --> 00:28:23,026
You have a higher level of self
confidence because you know ok.
637
00:28:23,386 --> 00:28:26,416
Just a cooler just a bad
beat but the higher we play
638
00:28:26,566 --> 00:28:30,226
or the less experienced we are
sir the limit we're not really sure.
639
00:28:30,586 --> 00:28:32,536
Whether we
played it right or not
640
00:28:32,776 --> 00:28:36,466
so the complexity of the game
often or higher stakes is much higher.
641
00:28:37,006 --> 00:28:37,456
And
642
00:28:37,636 --> 00:28:42,046
we want to reduce the complexity of
the game if we really lost self confidence.
643
00:28:44,656 --> 00:28:48,916
Worst case scenario visit
visualizations while I love this one
644
00:28:49,096 --> 00:28:50,096
and.
645
00:28:50,416 --> 00:28:54,466
It teaches you to be grateful and to
appreciate what you ever have in life.
646
00:28:54,976 --> 00:28:55,976
And.
647
00:28:56,026 --> 00:28:58,456
A real story when
I lived in Brighton
648
00:28:58,606 --> 00:28:59,606
and
649
00:28:59,686 --> 00:29:01,456
I was etching on
running that bat.
650
00:29:02,086 --> 00:29:04,996
And just forth few weeks
I was not running sola
651
00:29:05,116 --> 00:29:05,566
but at this
652
00:29:05,806 --> 00:29:07,576
point in time my
computer crashed.
653
00:29:08,086 --> 00:29:11,206
Like literally everything
my heart drives
654
00:29:11,596 --> 00:29:12,596
and.
655
00:29:12,706 --> 00:29:16,516
I got even scammed by someone
who wanted to help me I paid him.
656
00:29:16,966 --> 00:29:18,496
I had to order
657
00:29:18,646 --> 00:29:22,996
the hardware and it didn't fit into
my tower so I had to order it again
658
00:29:23,296 --> 00:29:25,486
and I didn't have a
proper computer for like.
659
00:29:25,816 --> 00:29:28,486
Three or four weeks and I even
660
00:29:28,606 --> 00:29:29,986
lost some of my.
661
00:29:30,526 --> 00:29:35,566
Courses which I or some some key elements
of the project when I started ratio edge at
662
00:29:35,566 --> 00:29:36,566
this point in time
663
00:29:36,766 --> 00:29:38,656
which was of course
very very annoying.
664
00:29:39,166 --> 00:29:40,166
And.
665
00:29:40,426 --> 00:29:41,836
So every single time.
666
00:29:42,286 --> 00:29:43,286
I am
667
00:29:43,336 --> 00:29:44,416
running really bad.
668
00:29:45,136 --> 00:29:47,056
I just picture myself ok.
669
00:29:48,166 --> 00:29:51,166
What would happen now if
also my computer would crash.
670
00:29:51,526 --> 00:29:51,916
Right
671
00:29:52,216 --> 00:29:53,216
and I had this
672
00:29:53,356 --> 00:29:55,066
fucking pain in the ass
673
00:29:55,366 --> 00:29:55,936
to
674
00:29:56,206 --> 00:30:01,216
hire someone or to
take care of that to
675
00:30:01,216 --> 00:30:01,606
install everything new
to set up everything new
676
00:30:02,026 --> 00:30:03,026
and
677
00:30:03,136 --> 00:30:06,076
to to ought to do all
these tedious tasks which.
678
00:30:06,916 --> 00:30:10,636
Which is yeah just a pain in the ass
and you can go even further than that
679
00:30:10,906 --> 00:30:12,706
even if that happens.
680
00:30:13,216 --> 00:30:17,236
Guys it's just a matter of
perspective as long as you're healthy
681
00:30:17,536 --> 00:30:20,296
as long as you can lurie
just just picture yourself.
682
00:30:20,716 --> 00:30:21,136
You're.
683
00:30:21,466 --> 00:30:23,176
Your best friend is dying.
684
00:30:23,656 --> 00:30:24,016
I mean.
685
00:30:24,512 --> 00:30:28,652
It's really just it's the sounds very brutal
what I'm telling you right now but it's
686
00:30:28,682 --> 00:30:29,942
it is the truth.
687
00:30:30,482 --> 00:30:32,222
And I like to be
straightforward.
688
00:30:32,972 --> 00:30:33,972
And.
689
00:30:34,052 --> 00:30:38,762
Of course I never want this happened
to you but it's just again a matter of
690
00:30:38,762 --> 00:30:39,812
perspective and.
691
00:30:40,682 --> 00:30:44,432
This really helped me especially went out
when I hit rock bottom I was running really
692
00:30:44,432 --> 00:30:47,432
bad bed or something else in
life happen I just go one step
693
00:30:47,672 --> 00:30:48,932
further and think.
694
00:30:49,322 --> 00:30:50,852
Okay what would happen if
695
00:30:50,972 --> 00:30:51,632
that and that
696
00:30:51,872 --> 00:30:54,992
or how would I react or how
would I feel if that happens so that
697
00:30:55,232 --> 00:30:57,752
would make the situation
even worse and my.
698
00:30:58,472 --> 00:31:00,602
Entire well being
would deteriorate
699
00:31:00,902 --> 00:31:03,632
but unfortunately didn't happen
so actually I can be happen
700
00:31:03,812 --> 00:31:05,312
so there's always so someone.
701
00:31:05,642 --> 00:31:06,642
That.
702
00:31:06,902 --> 00:31:08,342
Has it much worse than you
703
00:31:08,492 --> 00:31:09,722
so don't only
704
00:31:09,842 --> 00:31:12,782
think about all the people that
have it better than you because.
705
00:31:13,172 --> 00:31:15,482
There will always be people
that have it better than you
706
00:31:15,842 --> 00:31:17,612
and you're just chasing.
707
00:31:18,002 --> 00:31:21,722
A feeling of happiness which is not
achievable if you always compare yourself to
708
00:31:21,722 --> 00:31:23,492
someone that is
better than you that is.
709
00:31:24,332 --> 00:31:26,882
Healthier or has more
money or more Sussex
710
00:31:27,002 --> 00:31:28,502
successful or whatever.
711
00:31:29,402 --> 00:31:30,662
And as long as you have.
712
00:31:30,992 --> 00:31:34,412
Do you live in peace you have
enough food you are healthy and.
713
00:31:34,832 --> 00:31:37,862
You can afford this course
yeah you can afford to play poker
714
00:31:38,102 --> 00:31:40,562
I think we all have
a very lucky life.
715
00:31:42,272 --> 00:31:46,832
And what you can do here again take take
four five deep breath close your eyes and
716
00:31:46,832 --> 00:31:47,832
Willie picture.
717
00:31:48,632 --> 00:31:52,292
Something that is worse than
the extra situation and and witty.
718
00:31:52,772 --> 00:31:55,622
Visualizes have it
in front of your eyes
719
00:31:56,042 --> 00:31:57,042
and.
720
00:31:57,962 --> 00:31:58,472
Just
721
00:31:58,622 --> 00:32:01,652
just be there stay in that
moment for for five minutes.
722
00:32:02,222 --> 00:32:05,072
Then again take a few deep
breaths bring your moment
723
00:32:05,222 --> 00:32:07,052
at bringing awareness
to the present moment.
724
00:32:07,562 --> 00:32:11,402
And open your eyes again and I will
promise you you will feel much better.
725
00:32:12,122 --> 00:32:13,122
Than before.
726
00:32:14,342 --> 00:32:17,252
Furthermore I what
I also do is I keep
727
00:32:17,432 --> 00:32:20,402
I have a mindfulness
and or a gratefulness
728
00:32:20,762 --> 00:32:21,762
and.
729
00:32:21,932 --> 00:32:22,682
How he caught a
730
00:32:22,862 --> 00:32:24,002
book where I
731
00:32:24,302 --> 00:32:25,302
write down.
732
00:32:25,622 --> 00:32:29,672
Things and grateful for things I appreciate
in my life every single day three things
733
00:32:30,092 --> 00:32:32,522
and it has been
scientifically proven
734
00:32:32,642 --> 00:32:34,982
that this makes US US happier
735
00:32:35,282 --> 00:32:36,282
period.
736
00:32:37,322 --> 00:32:41,162
The next one recording your
game is something I have not tried
737
00:32:41,552 --> 00:32:46,322
but I have heard it from several
players that it is extremely powerful and
738
00:32:46,622 --> 00:32:49,292
I mean it has been proven
that body language has.
739
00:32:49,712 --> 00:32:51,512
A huge impact on our mood
740
00:32:51,812 --> 00:32:55,652
so what you do is you don't record your
poker game you will record your demeanor
741
00:32:56,132 --> 00:32:57,132
and.
742
00:32:57,302 --> 00:32:58,412
Your body language
743
00:32:58,682 --> 00:32:59,282
and.
744
00:32:59,612 --> 00:33:01,832
Your posture your
breathing your smile
745
00:33:02,312 --> 00:33:06,572
and what you have to take into account is
that emotions are the conscious observance
746
00:33:06,572 --> 00:33:08,102
of reactions in our body.
747
00:33:09,182 --> 00:33:12,452
So the weaker your body language
the worse your body language
748
00:33:12,572 --> 00:33:13,592
and you sit like a.
749
00:33:14,222 --> 00:33:17,912
Like a monkey in front of the computer
almost on the ground like the foods on the
750
00:33:17,912 --> 00:33:20,072
table you are you
just you look grumpy.
751
00:33:20,642 --> 00:33:24,212
Your mood it's very likely that you mood
will also not be the best you won't be the
752
00:33:24,212 --> 00:33:27,422
best states in order to
achieve the best game possible.
753
00:33:28,262 --> 00:33:31,232
And then if you if your
study of the footage
754
00:33:31,592 --> 00:33:33,542
and of course it should
be there should be.
755
00:33:35,192 --> 00:33:40,142
Allow a gap between the session and the
analyze session while analyzing session.
756
00:33:40,502 --> 00:33:44,132
Because otherwise you won't remember
the situation if you wait a week or so so
757
00:33:44,252 --> 00:33:47,282
optimally do it like one
day after Max two days after
758
00:33:47,522 --> 00:33:51,512
we go through the footage and then you
tried to connect those situations where.
759
00:33:52,382 --> 00:33:55,202
You felt good to where you
were in a good state and all.
760
00:33:55,802 --> 00:34:00,212
Observe your body language how
did you breathe shallow or deep.
761
00:34:00,992 --> 00:34:01,992
The frequency of your
762
00:34:02,222 --> 00:34:05,732
breath your eyes your
smile your posture.
763
00:34:06,062 --> 00:34:07,062
Everything that
764
00:34:07,112 --> 00:34:08,112
comes.
765
00:34:08,192 --> 00:34:09,272
Comes to your I.
766
00:34:09,662 --> 00:34:10,662
Write it down
767
00:34:10,832 --> 00:34:14,402
and try to remember what kind of
emotions you felt at this point in time.
768
00:34:15,482 --> 00:34:17,762
So that you find
out for yourself
769
00:34:18,032 --> 00:34:19,032
which.
770
00:34:19,562 --> 00:34:23,102
Which parts of the body are
attached to positive emotions.
771
00:34:23,432 --> 00:34:27,182
So if you feel calm if you
feel relax if you decisive.
772
00:34:27,722 --> 00:34:32,222
What is your body language so once you're
in a similar situation again and you might
773
00:34:32,222 --> 00:34:34,712
not have sold
positive emotions and.
774
00:34:35,312 --> 00:34:36,542
You will be suffer
775
00:34:36,782 --> 00:34:39,572
and then you just recognize
776
00:34:39,752 --> 00:34:40,262
that.
777
00:34:40,682 --> 00:34:42,332
You are for example just take a
778
00:34:42,482 --> 00:34:43,482
deeper breath
779
00:34:43,592 --> 00:34:45,782
just smile just sit upright.
780
00:34:46,382 --> 00:34:48,332
Straight posture shoulders up.
781
00:34:48,677 --> 00:34:51,812
Whatever it was
that you observed
782
00:34:52,022 --> 00:34:53,852
try to apply it in
the next session.
783
00:34:55,262 --> 00:34:58,382
I'm for exam was
someone that always tries to
784
00:34:58,592 --> 00:35:02,492
when I don't feel good or whatever I am
I'm really into that anyway I was reading a
785
00:35:02,492 --> 00:35:03,152
lot of books.
786
00:35:03,482 --> 00:35:07,712
I tried to educate myself
what what we can do
787
00:35:07,712 --> 00:35:08,162
in order to put
ourselves in better states.
788
00:35:08,672 --> 00:35:12,062
I mean it's weedy on the
words to self manipulation but.
789
00:35:12,812 --> 00:35:16,832
I dunno like this is not up to it it's not
up to you to judge whether this is right
790
00:35:16,832 --> 00:35:17,942
or not again it's just
791
00:35:18,182 --> 00:35:21,782
bringing something up that is already
within I have a happiness I have greatness
792
00:35:21,782 --> 00:35:24,422
within I don't need external
stuff in order to get that
793
00:35:24,692 --> 00:35:28,590
so I use my body language which is
natural and everything that is natural
794
00:35:28,772 --> 00:35:30,062
cannot be too bad.
795
00:35:30,512 --> 00:35:31,512
So
796
00:35:31,592 --> 00:35:34,262
I know what I need
in order to to be.
797
00:35:34,772 --> 00:35:36,152
Not nest sorry happy
798
00:35:36,482 --> 00:35:39,482
but to be more relaxed
to be bit more calm
799
00:35:39,932 --> 00:35:40,932
to bring my.
800
00:35:41,672 --> 00:35:44,372
Awareness back to the
present moment in order to to
801
00:35:44,522 --> 00:35:46,082
really play my a game
802
00:35:46,382 --> 00:35:50,042
so this was something I was not
really focusing on recording my game
803
00:35:50,282 --> 00:35:50,822
but
804
00:35:50,972 --> 00:35:52,532
if you're somebody that
805
00:35:52,682 --> 00:35:56,822
has zero idea about that what what he needs
in order to have a good body language.
806
00:35:57,212 --> 00:35:59,192
Just just recall your
game just put a.
807
00:35:59,852 --> 00:36:02,312
Camera in front of
your computer and just
808
00:36:02,462 --> 00:36:02,762
re
809
00:36:02,942 --> 00:36:04,562
ct try to record.
810
00:36:04,982 --> 00:36:08,312
As much as possible of your body
probably the feeds are not possible
811
00:36:08,702 --> 00:36:09,332
and
812
00:36:09,542 --> 00:36:12,902
and the legs but at least the
posture your face of course and
813
00:36:13,202 --> 00:36:14,222
then just observed
814
00:36:14,342 --> 00:36:17,492
just recorded thirty forty
five sixty minute session
815
00:36:17,912 --> 00:36:20,642
and then you
analyze the footage.
816
00:36:21,602 --> 00:36:23,852
The next one is not
really a hack but.
817
00:36:24,212 --> 00:36:28,112
Knowing it is some kind of a
hack that especially for beginners.
818
00:36:28,472 --> 00:36:30,302
That you guys who
just need to be patient
819
00:36:30,452 --> 00:36:30,962
and
820
00:36:31,262 --> 00:36:35,432
the more experience you have it also reduces
the complexity of the game and you can
821
00:36:35,432 --> 00:36:35,790
see
822
00:36:35,912 --> 00:36:37,682
very often it's
really just about
823
00:36:37,982 --> 00:36:40,892
reducing the
complexity of the game.
824
00:36:41,420 --> 00:36:46,232
I mentioned at the re earlier that chess
players they don't tip because they almost
825
00:36:46,250 --> 00:36:46,712
always
826
00:36:46,892 --> 00:36:51,362
get the feedback when they played good
or bad and if they play bad and they are
827
00:36:51,422 --> 00:36:52,712
consciously aware of it.
828
00:36:53,072 --> 00:36:56,822
They cannot win heated because
they know it's there bad I mean
829
00:36:57,062 --> 00:36:58,472
they can still the bullet.
830
00:36:58,952 --> 00:37:03,752
Playing bad but they cannot we blame bad
luck or their opponents or something eds
831
00:37:03,872 --> 00:37:08,342
so you always get that immediate feedback
about what went wrong we often tip because
832
00:37:08,342 --> 00:37:10,082
we actually don't
know what went wrong
833
00:37:10,262 --> 00:37:11,942
whether we played
a hand good or not.
834
00:37:12,332 --> 00:37:13,332
So.
835
00:37:13,502 --> 00:37:16,622
The complexity of the game
very often needs attitude.
836
00:37:16,952 --> 00:37:21,122
Of course we will never be able to
reduce the complexity of the game entirely
837
00:37:21,302 --> 00:37:22,472
so we just tried to come
838
00:37:22,832 --> 00:37:25,232
to reduce it step
by step little by little
839
00:37:25,502 --> 00:37:27,782
and this would of course
also have a positive
840
00:37:27,992 --> 00:37:29,672
impact on our mindset.
841
00:37:34,382 --> 00:37:39,032
And mental challenges
I really like this one I
842
00:37:39,212 --> 00:37:40,212
do that.
843
00:37:40,622 --> 00:37:42,062
On a regular basis.
844
00:37:42,932 --> 00:37:46,982
Cold showers ice bath I do
weekly like core chores I do daily.
845
00:37:47,492 --> 00:37:49,262
And challenging work on
846
00:37:49,412 --> 00:37:51,512
I just want to share
here Mike experience
847
00:37:51,812 --> 00:37:54,752
so for example a challenging
workout can be something like
848
00:37:55,142 --> 00:37:55,742
and
849
00:37:55,958 --> 00:37:58,262
it also goes hand in
hand like once you.
850
00:37:58,952 --> 00:38:00,572
Hand in hand with
a battlefield box.
851
00:38:00,902 --> 00:38:01,982
Once you have.
852
00:38:02,882 --> 00:38:05,282
Finished such a
challenging workout.
853
00:38:05,972 --> 00:38:11,222
Or you do something very quote unquote
extreme on a daily basis what happens is is
854
00:38:11,522 --> 00:38:14,792
that you always have that
reminder okay I do such things
855
00:38:14,912 --> 00:38:16,532
on a regular basis
856
00:38:16,712 --> 00:38:17,732
I'm not a pussy.
857
00:38:18,902 --> 00:38:19,902
That straight up
858
00:38:19,982 --> 00:38:22,622
and go back and attack again.
859
00:38:23,522 --> 00:38:24,522
And.
860
00:38:25,802 --> 00:38:30,842
For example I do body workouts and a
wheelie hate burpees and sometimes their
861
00:38:30,842 --> 00:38:32,432
workouts where have to do.
862
00:38:33,152 --> 00:38:34,152
A certain amount of.
863
00:38:34,412 --> 00:38:38,492
Burpees says really brings
me to my boundary to my limits
864
00:38:38,942 --> 00:38:39,942
and.
865
00:38:41,012 --> 00:38:42,572
Once I compete those.
866
00:38:42,992 --> 00:38:43,992
I really
867
00:38:44,132 --> 00:38:49,112
of course I not feel better in terms of
physiology but I also feel much better in
868
00:38:49,112 --> 00:38:52,652
terms of my mental state
also even days and week after
869
00:38:52,802 --> 00:38:55,592
because I remember while
I finish this tough workout
870
00:38:55,892 --> 00:38:57,242
and I was able to quit.
871
00:38:57,932 --> 00:38:58,412
And.
872
00:38:58,892 --> 00:39:02,732
What I used to do and I still
do is for thirty days I set myself
873
00:39:03,002 --> 00:39:04,002
this challenge
874
00:39:04,292 --> 00:39:06,932
and if you various very
sportive guy any way
875
00:39:07,202 --> 00:39:10,382
you will know what I mean
you will you will have exercises.
876
00:39:10,952 --> 00:39:13,052
Or records which
you really don't like
877
00:39:13,442 --> 00:39:16,052
and for silva and
football we had this.
878
00:39:16,442 --> 00:39:17,822
So called Cooper test.
879
00:39:18,272 --> 00:39:21,152
Where you were running for
twelve minutes and you had to.
880
00:39:21,512 --> 00:39:24,962
Try to achieve the
highest distance possible
881
00:39:25,382 --> 00:39:29,672
and this was really really really exhausting
because you were running in a group and
882
00:39:29,672 --> 00:39:30,932
of course you wanted to.
883
00:39:31,262 --> 00:39:34,652
Achieve with a good time
and twelve minutes full pace.
884
00:39:34,982 --> 00:39:36,782
That was extremely hard.
885
00:39:37,142 --> 00:39:39,092
What I do right
now is fixed at war.
886
00:39:39,482 --> 00:39:40,142
The plank
887
00:39:40,382 --> 00:39:42,542
I find this one also
extremely challenging.
888
00:39:43,022 --> 00:39:44,162
Every single morning
889
00:39:44,612 --> 00:39:45,612
and.
890
00:39:45,992 --> 00:39:48,392
You start with
whatever you you you
891
00:39:48,542 --> 00:39:51,992
you can kennewick you can achieve maybe
a minute maybe thirty seconds maybe two
892
00:39:51,992 --> 00:39:52,352
minutes
893
00:39:52,532 --> 00:39:53,672
make a first try
894
00:39:53,972 --> 00:39:54,972
and really
895
00:39:55,082 --> 00:39:59,732
set the starting time we start the
first dot day as highest possible.
896
00:40:00,332 --> 00:40:02,942
So you are ready go to
your limits let's say after
897
00:40:03,152 --> 00:40:04,502
ninety minutes you you
898
00:40:04,712 --> 00:40:05,192
break
899
00:40:05,462 --> 00:40:05,642
you
900
00:40:05,805 --> 00:40:05,985
you
901
00:40:06,093 --> 00:40:07,652
you cannot continue any more
902
00:40:07,802 --> 00:40:11,702
this way you start day one ninety
seconds day two fifty nine seconds.
903
00:40:12,152 --> 00:40:12,662
Ass or
904
00:40:12,782 --> 00:40:14,672
ninety five seconds
and so on and so forth
905
00:40:14,942 --> 00:40:18,662
and you increase the time five
seconds per day for thirty days
906
00:40:19,022 --> 00:40:20,102
and also gives you
907
00:40:20,222 --> 00:40:22,172
puts you in the
right state for the day
908
00:40:22,502 --> 00:40:26,972
and you can do the same with pushups you
started with thirty push ups next day thirty
909
00:40:26,972 --> 00:40:28,292
one next day thirty two.
910
00:40:28,982 --> 00:40:31,442
Pull ups whatever it is running
911
00:40:31,742 --> 00:40:32,742
and.
912
00:40:33,002 --> 00:40:36,962
And you will realize what you
will recognizes if you do that.
913
00:40:37,532 --> 00:40:41,732
Just compare the resides you accomplish
with polka the amount of study or whatever.
914
00:40:42,330 --> 00:40:43,050
Benefit
915
00:40:43,260 --> 00:40:45,990
tremendously all
other areas of your life.
916
00:40:46,800 --> 00:40:48,660
You will have a huge boost
917
00:40:48,780 --> 00:40:50,220
in your self confidence.
918
00:40:51,450 --> 00:40:55,380
And you will of course not only do you
a favor for your poker game for years.
919
00:40:55,800 --> 00:40:56,800
For studying.
920
00:40:57,120 --> 00:41:00,240
You will also do your favor
for your health for your body
921
00:41:00,360 --> 00:41:01,470
and for your mind.
922
00:41:02,910 --> 00:41:04,860
This will make you
a strong as fuck and.
923
00:41:05,640 --> 00:41:09,480
And you can even put those to
your to your battlefield box and.
924
00:41:09,900 --> 00:41:13,530
Once you suffer hardship you
open it you take it out and you realize.
925
00:41:13,920 --> 00:41:16,320
You're actually a tough guys
and all straighten up and.
926
00:41:17,070 --> 00:41:18,420
Let's get back onto the field.
927
00:41:20,351 --> 00:41:25,500
The next one is extremely
powerful but it also takes a
928
00:41:25,800 --> 00:41:27,000
bit more time.
929
00:41:27,570 --> 00:41:28,290
And
930
00:41:28,410 --> 00:41:33,510
it means creating a list of emotions
which support your decision making process.
931
00:41:33,990 --> 00:41:37,110
I will explain you what I mean
by that and what you have to
932
00:41:37,230 --> 00:41:38,230
do here.
933
00:41:38,700 --> 00:41:41,190
You basically crew
creating the ideal
934
00:41:41,310 --> 00:41:42,310
environment.
935
00:41:43,890 --> 00:41:44,890
Do.
936
00:41:45,030 --> 00:41:48,270
You make a list of emotions
which support your decisions.
937
00:41:48,840 --> 00:41:51,630
So for example
calmness Serenity.
938
00:41:51,960 --> 00:41:55,350
My joy vocals self awareness.
939
00:41:55,920 --> 00:41:57,540
And whatever whatever
940
00:41:57,660 --> 00:42:00,750
kind of positive emotions you
have there are very supportive
941
00:42:00,900 --> 00:42:01,900
ride them down.
942
00:42:02,190 --> 00:42:06,210
Again if they're just if there's
just one so far to start with it.
943
00:42:06,510 --> 00:42:09,180
This is also lists
you gonna adjust
944
00:42:09,450 --> 00:42:13,500
you're going to add you're going to maybe
even erase things you want to exchange them
945
00:42:13,500 --> 00:42:14,520
or whatever it is.
946
00:42:14,970 --> 00:42:19,050
If your life also doesn't give enough
examples you can also use your fantasy.
947
00:42:19,590 --> 00:42:24,060
Or picture your raw Moritz picture the
emotions when making good decision nz.
948
00:42:24,600 --> 00:42:25,080
And.
949
00:42:25,440 --> 00:42:26,440
You use it
950
00:42:26,520 --> 00:42:29,010
before the session to prevented
951
00:42:29,280 --> 00:42:31,170
but you can also use that list
952
00:42:31,410 --> 00:42:32,410
during.
953
00:42:32,730 --> 00:42:34,950
During the session
if tid or cures
954
00:42:35,250 --> 00:42:36,250
to cure to it.
955
00:42:37,230 --> 00:42:37,830
Alternatively
956
00:42:38,010 --> 00:42:40,770
you can even draw a
picture you associate
957
00:42:40,980 --> 00:42:44,520
with these positive emotions
so for example calmness
958
00:42:45,000 --> 00:42:45,840
and
959
00:42:45,990 --> 00:42:46,990
you
960
00:42:47,070 --> 00:42:48,540
you associate commerce
961
00:42:48,810 --> 00:42:53,550
commerce with the sundown on the beach with
your girlfriend or boyfriend or whatever.
962
00:42:54,120 --> 00:42:57,210
And emotions off connected
with pictures we have.
963
00:42:57,630 --> 00:42:59,010
Often half from others.
964
00:42:59,580 --> 00:43:00,120
Do
965
00:43:00,570 --> 00:43:01,950
and it often has
966
00:43:02,100 --> 00:43:05,160
something to do with others
that's why if you draw a picture.
967
00:43:05,790 --> 00:43:08,190
Put a second person
into that picture.
968
00:43:10,170 --> 00:43:14,130
I mean we're not getting angry
about a pen or shoe or any other items
969
00:43:14,340 --> 00:43:17,160
we are off we often get angry
with other people we feel.
970
00:43:18,120 --> 00:43:22,530
Very often better when we surround ourselves
with other people so very often emotions
971
00:43:22,530 --> 00:43:24,930
I attached with other
persons or people
972
00:43:25,350 --> 00:43:27,600
and not with items.
973
00:43:28,260 --> 00:43:29,260
So.
974
00:43:29,760 --> 00:43:34,320
Maybe Don picture is
unknown rather something
975
00:43:34,320 --> 00:43:35,496
that has something
to do with other people.
976
00:43:35,520 --> 00:43:38,670
You associate positive
emotions with walking.
977
00:43:39,090 --> 00:43:43,560
Along the beach why observing the sundial
but you don't necessarily need to draw a
978
00:43:43,560 --> 00:43:44,560
picture.
979
00:43:44,790 --> 00:43:46,890
But it it makes it stronger.
980
00:43:48,120 --> 00:43:50,280
The next step once you have.
981
00:43:50,760 --> 00:43:52,650
Created a list of emotions
982
00:43:52,920 --> 00:43:56,700
you connect those emotions
with specific situations in poker.
983
00:43:57,390 --> 00:43:58,950
Again here's no right or wrong
984
00:43:59,310 --> 00:44:01,080
and for example.
985
00:44:01,440 --> 00:44:04,620
I am extremely focused when
approaching the bullet in order
986
00:44:04,740 --> 00:44:05,970
to not make bis make
987
00:44:06,450 --> 00:44:07,530
to make big mistakes.
988
00:44:07,950 --> 00:44:12,330
I am I'm extremely
calm on finding tablets to
989
00:44:12,330 --> 00:44:13,386
not get overwhelmed
by the big prize money.
990
00:44:13,410 --> 00:44:17,520
I am extremely self aware when
things go wrong and I'm about to it.
991
00:44:18,240 --> 00:44:20,310
So you connect
specific situation
992
00:44:20,490 --> 00:44:22,260
it can also be in a certain spot
993
00:44:22,470 --> 00:44:23,550
possible preflop.
994
00:44:24,360 --> 00:44:28,290
So you you connect specific situations
with positive emotions attached.
995
00:44:28,620 --> 00:44:32,370
Again if you Charlie don't connect positive
emotions with the specific situation
996
00:44:32,640 --> 00:44:34,200
then use your imagination
997
00:44:34,410 --> 00:44:38,100
use a role model and picture
how they would tackle these spots.
998
00:44:38,580 --> 00:44:42,180
It can be three four five or even
ten different positive emotions.
999
00:44:42,780 --> 00:44:43,860
Write them down.
1000
00:44:44,580 --> 00:44:45,580
And then.
1001
00:44:45,870 --> 00:44:48,690
Before every single session
you do the follow when
1002
00:44:48,930 --> 00:44:50,610
you take three deep breath
1003
00:44:50,910 --> 00:44:53,100
and you visualize the situation.
1004
00:44:53,430 --> 00:44:55,650
Plus the positive
emotion attached.
1005
00:44:56,460 --> 00:44:58,890
Then you go to the
next one again you just
1006
00:44:59,100 --> 00:45:00,810
maybe you just see all yourself.
1007
00:45:01,170 --> 00:45:02,460
Sitting on the chair.
1008
00:45:02,760 --> 00:45:05,430
The table opening
opening you grinding
1009
00:45:05,730 --> 00:45:06,750
and maybe.
1010
00:45:07,650 --> 00:45:10,530
You're playing a final
tabor and you're playing for
1011
00:45:10,800 --> 00:45:12,210
insane amount of money
1012
00:45:12,690 --> 00:45:15,300
and you see how you
remain calm while you remain.
1013
00:45:15,630 --> 00:45:16,630
Relax
1014
00:45:16,680 --> 00:45:18,060
or the same if you.
1015
00:45:18,840 --> 00:45:21,990
Face a lot of bad beats
downswings and you
1016
00:45:22,110 --> 00:45:23,160
you see how
1017
00:45:23,370 --> 00:45:23,730
you.
1018
00:45:24,060 --> 00:45:25,530
So self confident
1019
00:45:25,650 --> 00:45:28,680
you remain even though you
suffered so many bad beats
1020
00:45:28,950 --> 00:45:32,790
and how are you going to be able to stow
deploy your a game and even make really good
1021
00:45:32,790 --> 00:45:33,870
plays good
1022
00:45:34,200 --> 00:45:37,320
and lay downs good blas and
your game is not affected at all.
1023
00:45:39,990 --> 00:45:42,480
So you clues close
your eyes three d breath.
1024
00:45:43,080 --> 00:45:46,050
Visualize the first emotion
with the situation attached
1025
00:45:46,380 --> 00:45:47,380
and.
1026
00:45:48,330 --> 00:45:51,150
Stay there for thirty
seconds one minute.
1027
00:45:51,750 --> 00:45:53,970
And then you can open your eyes
1028
00:45:54,090 --> 00:45:57,450
but if you can remember all of the emotion
situations you can keep your eyes close
1029
00:45:57,450 --> 00:45:59,100
but then you open
the eyes just shorty
1030
00:45:59,400 --> 00:46:01,290
take a quick look at
emotion number two
1031
00:46:01,770 --> 00:46:02,770
and then you open your.
1032
00:46:03,000 --> 00:46:03,120
Eyes
1033
00:46:03,240 --> 00:46:05,220
close your eyes again
three deep breath
1034
00:46:05,520 --> 00:46:07,380
and the same procedure again.
1035
00:46:07,770 --> 00:46:09,630
Then for this third
fourth and fifth.
1036
00:46:09,990 --> 00:46:13,140
After the last one against three
deep breath bring your moment
1037
00:46:13,390 --> 00:46:15,510
bring your awareness
back to the present moment.
1038
00:46:16,110 --> 00:46:17,340
And then open your eyes.
1039
00:46:18,480 --> 00:46:22,710
Always adjust that list at the beginning if
you only find one or two that's fine over
1040
00:46:22,710 --> 00:46:24,270
time and especially
when you grind
1041
00:46:24,480 --> 00:46:28,350
your experience situations way
recognize that negative emotion arises
1042
00:46:28,650 --> 00:46:29,650
and then
1043
00:46:29,790 --> 00:46:31,950
you want to exchange
it with a positive
1044
00:46:32,190 --> 00:46:33,210
added to your list.
1045
00:46:33,900 --> 00:46:34,590
So let's say
1046
00:46:34,710 --> 00:46:38,730
on your list as commerce my joy forgoes
and then you play for seventy days yeah
1047
00:46:39,120 --> 00:46:42,720
and then you are in a spot where we
regular wins a big pot and it makes you
1048
00:46:42,960 --> 00:46:43,380
tit
1049
00:46:43,680 --> 00:46:44,370
and.
1050
00:46:44,700 --> 00:46:45,990
You feel envious
1051
00:46:46,170 --> 00:46:47,430
write it down immediately
1052
00:46:47,550 --> 00:46:48,550
so you.
1053
00:46:48,660 --> 00:46:50,970
You write down
when I lose a big pot.
1054
00:46:51,870 --> 00:46:55,590
Or I deploy acceptance when a weak
opponent wins against wins a big pot
1055
00:46:55,830 --> 00:46:57,390
against me this
is part of the game
1056
00:46:57,660 --> 00:46:58,660
boom.
1057
00:46:58,950 --> 00:47:01,890
You have edit another spot
another emotion on your list.
1058
00:47:09,030 --> 00:47:10,890
Okay guys I have some.
1059
00:47:11,400 --> 00:47:13,350
I don't want to call
it homework again.
1060
00:47:13,680 --> 00:47:14,910
If there are certain.
1061
00:47:15,690 --> 00:47:17,520
Things that might.
1062
00:47:18,300 --> 00:47:20,970
Be more important
for you focus on that.
1063
00:47:21,570 --> 00:47:22,620
If you already
1064
00:47:22,920 --> 00:47:27,240
have your own battlefield box and you're
totally aware of what you have accomplished
1065
00:47:27,240 --> 00:47:30,360
and you're not alive and you
can use it as some kind of leverage
1066
00:47:30,600 --> 00:47:32,970
for situations when
you face hardship
1067
00:47:33,090 --> 00:47:34,090
then skip that
1068
00:47:34,260 --> 00:47:37,800
but if you're someone that
really strides and has no idea
1069
00:47:38,070 --> 00:47:40,740
I highly encourage
you to try it out
1070
00:47:41,010 --> 00:47:44,370
be open minded give it a try and
then see how it goes so first of all.
1071
00:47:44,730 --> 00:47:46,620
What is your battlefield
box what have you
1072
00:47:46,890 --> 00:47:50,370
accomplished in life where you
can be very very proud of yourself.
1073
00:47:51,000 --> 00:47:53,700
That was not that easy i'm
not talking about easy thanks.
1074
00:47:55,470 --> 00:47:58,380
Something where will he
suffered that it was really not easy.
1075
00:47:59,160 --> 00:48:00,600
To find a mind's a challenge
1076
00:48:00,780 --> 00:48:03,690
it has to be difficult yet
achievable it can be something like
1077
00:48:03,810 --> 00:48:05,220
cold shower every single day
1078
00:48:05,490 --> 00:48:07,260
where it started
with once a week.
1079
00:48:07,980 --> 00:48:09,150
For at least a minute.
1080
00:48:09,450 --> 00:48:12,450
I will work or if you're
a take cold showers
1081
00:48:12,570 --> 00:48:14,400
next step take an ice bath.
1082
00:48:14,700 --> 00:48:15,990
Buy some ice cube oops
1083
00:48:16,230 --> 00:48:16,800
I.
1084
00:48:17,100 --> 00:48:19,740
Fill in your hut at
your hotel pure
1085
00:48:19,920 --> 00:48:22,410
your bathtub with
with cold water.
1086
00:48:23,010 --> 00:48:25,620
And add the ice type
so that it's will record
1087
00:48:25,860 --> 00:48:28,020
stay in there for
these five minutes.
1088
00:48:28,920 --> 00:48:31,680
And tried to breathe
as deep as possible.
1089
00:48:33,150 --> 00:48:34,710
And or.
1090
00:48:35,070 --> 00:48:39,150
A work on that is very challenging
or something else can be something.
1091
00:48:39,780 --> 00:48:42,300
Like a difficult
language whatever it is
1092
00:48:42,450 --> 00:48:44,400
and that is achievable
1093
00:48:44,520 --> 00:48:46,830
yet it should be
very difficult to.
1094
00:48:47,550 --> 00:48:51,630
To achieve and once you look back it can
be very very proud of yourself maybe you
1095
00:48:51,630 --> 00:48:53,370
have something on
your bucket list what you
1096
00:48:53,670 --> 00:48:55,680
will eat what you always
wanted to try out but.
1097
00:48:56,790 --> 00:48:59,250
You always had
this fear of failure or
1098
00:48:59,490 --> 00:49:00,870
you felt like okay
1099
00:49:00,990 --> 00:49:03,450
it might not be
possible to succeed.
1100
00:49:03,780 --> 00:49:05,820
Yet you postponed you delayed it
1101
00:49:05,940 --> 00:49:07,740
now it's the time to attack it.
1102
00:49:08,400 --> 00:49:12,360
And try on these little hacks which one
works for you how do you feel afterwards
1103
00:49:12,600 --> 00:49:13,050
and
1104
00:49:13,260 --> 00:49:13,950
don't
1105
00:49:14,250 --> 00:49:17,220
don't try to do everything
at once give yourself time
1106
00:49:17,580 --> 00:49:18,120
and
1107
00:49:18,240 --> 00:49:20,820
focus a one or two
different types of.
1108
00:49:21,480 --> 00:49:23,580
Of these exercises
1109
00:49:24,000 --> 00:49:27,240
and try them out for several
months weeks and then
1110
00:49:27,480 --> 00:49:29,220
recapped at its hub what
1111
00:49:29,400 --> 00:49:30,570
what did you feel and.
1112
00:49:31,050 --> 00:49:35,340
I do that and I know
many other very soon
1113
00:49:35,340 --> 00:49:35,610
accessible poker not
even poker players I mean.
1114
00:49:36,060 --> 00:49:40,350
I'm as you see now also very
very active in the business what.
1115
00:49:40,660 --> 00:49:42,630
I mean that sounds so.
1116
00:49:43,320 --> 00:49:48,060
So stupid actually but but I have a
business here and I I met a lot of very
1117
00:49:48,270 --> 00:49:50,160
successful people along the way
1118
00:49:50,580 --> 00:49:51,580
and
1119
00:49:51,660 --> 00:49:52,950
common sense was always
1120
00:49:53,100 --> 00:49:54,810
tried to keep track
of everything and
1121
00:49:54,960 --> 00:49:56,580
have your little minds a journey
1122
00:49:57,000 --> 00:49:58,000
and.
1123
00:49:58,200 --> 00:50:02,430
You don't need to do it every single day
but just recap after four five six seven
1124
00:50:02,430 --> 00:50:03,510
days maybe once a week
1125
00:50:03,780 --> 00:50:04,780
okay what.
1126
00:50:04,950 --> 00:50:07,380
How'd what do I recognize or.
1127
00:50:08,520 --> 00:50:11,250
What is the progress of the
last week is this something.
1128
00:50:11,610 --> 00:50:12,960
That comes to my mind.
1129
00:50:13,710 --> 00:50:14,710
Because.
1130
00:50:14,940 --> 00:50:18,240
Progress otherwise is not
measurable I mean how do you want to
1131
00:50:18,480 --> 00:50:22,440
measure progress right and this
is the best way to keep track of it.
1132
00:50:22,800 --> 00:50:23,800
In order to.
1133
00:50:24,210 --> 00:50:27,270
Ascertain whether you
make progress or not.
1134
00:50:28,050 --> 00:50:32,400
And then once you realize what
routines work best for you build a habit.
1135
00:50:33,090 --> 00:50:34,170
Stick to it it
1136
00:50:34,320 --> 00:50:37,200
and it has to come
or it has to become.
1137
00:50:37,530 --> 00:50:40,140
A routine such as
brushing your teeth.
1138
00:50:42,120 --> 00:50:43,140
Give yourself time.
1139
00:50:43,530 --> 00:50:45,750
Nice Patience don't rush it
1140
00:50:46,020 --> 00:50:47,940
especially if you're
someone that is
1141
00:50:48,120 --> 00:50:51,900
not really experienced in that area of
mindset and you didn't really had the focus
1142
00:50:51,900 --> 00:50:52,590
there or.
1143
00:50:52,920 --> 00:50:57,270
It did never really take care of your
mindset that can even take longer.
1144
00:50:57,780 --> 00:50:58,980
So don't worry
1145
00:50:59,100 --> 00:51:01,440
and again it might
even happen then.
1146
00:51:01,888 --> 00:51:02,998
It's worse
1147
00:51:03,148 --> 00:51:04,148
because.
1148
00:51:04,378 --> 00:51:06,178
You put now so much.
1149
00:51:07,145 --> 00:51:10,318
Focus on your mindset that.
1150
00:51:10,888 --> 00:51:13,798
Maybe there was cause
to come stuff up that
1151
00:51:13,978 --> 00:51:16,048
was buried for a very long time.
1152
00:51:16,558 --> 00:51:17,558
And.
1153
00:51:17,878 --> 00:51:22,528
It takes you wanted two weeks two x she
get over it and to accept into three allies
1154
00:51:22,528 --> 00:51:24,928
okay there's actually a
lot of bad stuff in there.
1155
00:51:25,438 --> 00:51:26,098
And
1156
00:51:26,218 --> 00:51:30,628
why it is and what it is I will
also explain in one of the next.
1157
00:51:30,928 --> 00:51:33,478
Videos when we will
go deeper and we also.
1158
00:51:34,210 --> 00:51:35,210
Will also.
1159
00:51:35,548 --> 00:51:39,868
Explain you what is about them the subconscious
mind how does it interfere with our
1160
00:51:39,868 --> 00:51:40,868
mindset
1161
00:51:40,948 --> 00:51:45,508
and some vr very very
deep and very valuable stuff.
1162
00:51:46,198 --> 00:51:48,238
If you have any questions again.
1163
00:51:48,628 --> 00:51:50,488
Share your experience
of that was me.
1164
00:51:51,088 --> 00:51:52,088
Send me an email.
1165
00:51:52,738 --> 00:51:56,368
And then I'm looking forward to seeing
the next video that was meant to be for
1166
00:51:56,368 --> 00:51:57,658
research Jarvis.
1167
00:51:58,768 --> 00:52:02,788
And.
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