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["Relax" byFrankie Goes To Hollywood playing]
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[cheers, applause]
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[audience applauding]
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["Relax" continues]
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[indistinct mouthing]
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["Relax" fades out]
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Oh! New York City!
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Yeah, dudes!
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[audience cheering]
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Oh! Thank you guys so much for being here.I'm so happy.
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[audience cheering]
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Ah!
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Ah! I'm so happy to beaway from my family.
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[cheers]
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[chuckles]
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Man, I got two little boys
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and a cisgendered male husband. Boo!
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[laughter]
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Man, it is all dicks, all day.
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[laughter]
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My house has less feminine energythan Sarah Huckabee Sanders.
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Holy shit.
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[audience laughing]
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I am the only clam on the menuat Long Dong Silver.
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Oh my God,and the last baby I pumped out of me
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was ten pounds, ten ounces.
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-[audience cheering]-Yeah.
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Boom!
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Talk about a vag blaster.
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Wrecked my cold cut combo.
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Slayed my sausage wallet.
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Destroyed my whisker biscuit.
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Bloodier than a Mexican townin a drug war.
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Oh, like a goddamn IED went offdown there, folks.
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And here's the deal…
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I have had not one,
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I have had two episiotomies.
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-[audience] Ooh!-Do you know what that is?
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[woman] Yes!
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It's where they cut your taint.
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Now, it's an "ain't."
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[laughter]
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Just a big HOV lane for waste.
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[audience cheering]
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Oh my God, it's so messed up.
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After you have a baby,
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the doctors have the nerve to ask you
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if you think you might havepostpartum depression.
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They go, "It's a mental illness.It's a syndrome." [smacking lips]
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I'm like, "If you're not depressedafter having a baby,
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you're mentally ill."
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[laughter]
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[audience applauding]
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Yeah.
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Because, first of all, okay,
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you're fatter than Bert Kreischer.
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[laughter]
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-That was for you. You, you, you!-[audience cheering]
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[laughing hysterically]
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You're so fucking fat, and--
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and because I've squeezed peopleout of me,
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every time I cough,
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I pee just a tiny little bit.
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Not a lot, it's just a whisper,
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just a dollop, just a mwah!
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Kisses my panty just like,
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"You're gorgeous."Just a little something.
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Not enough to meritan underwear change in my mind…
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[laughter]
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…so instead I walk aroundin piss pants most of the time.
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[applause]
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Thank you.
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And I don't change my underwear
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because I'm exhausted.
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I'm too tiredbecause I have a three-year-old
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and a six-year-old boy,
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and they want too muchfrom parents these days. Too much.
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The school asked meto pack nut-free granola bars.
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Nut
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free
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granola bars.
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I'm like, "Do you mean a KitKat?"
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"Here's a Thermos full of Mountain Dew."
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"Enjoy him today."
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Insanity. They gave my three-year-old,
my three-year-old, a progress report.
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I'm like, "Can we hold off on paperwork'till he knows the difference between
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spaghetti and 'pasketti'? How about that?"
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[laughter]
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And the teacher said,"Julian is a nice boy,
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but he doesn't play with all the kids."
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And I said, "Good."
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[laughter]
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"Have you seenthese goddamn losers in his class?"
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[laughter, cheers]
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[audience applauding, cheering]
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Yeah.
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Well,
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I'd say spotting a loser is more importantthan learning to read, don't you think?
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It's too much. It's too much.
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I want to be an '80s mom. An '80s mom.
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Oh! They had it the best, didn't they?
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There used to be a commercialthat came on at ten o'clock at night
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that said, "It's ten p.m.,do you know where your children are?"
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[cheers]
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They had to remind bitchesthey even had kids.
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[audience applauding]
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Come on.
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Talk about the Golden Age of motherhood.
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Now they tell moms, "Oh, your kidhas to eat the rainbow of vegetables."
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"Eat the rainbow of vegetables."
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Dude, growing up,I ate two colors, red and yellow.
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McDonald's, three times a week at least.
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-At least.-[cheers]
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Those Happy Mealssure make you sad, don't they?
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[audience laughing]
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All the salt and preservatives.
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"Mommy, my left arm is numb."
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[groans]"Is this what delicious feels like? Ah."
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The '80s, man.
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There was no "mindful parenting."
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My mom used to cuss me outin the JCPenney parking lot
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in Hungarian…
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[audience cheering]
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…screaming at me--
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[shouting in Hungarian]
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[laughter]
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Which translates to,
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"I'm gonna hit your head so hard
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you're gonna shit your pants."
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[laughing hysterically]
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Yeah, you could hit your kid.Hell, you could hit other people's kids.
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-[audience laughing]-That wasn't illegal.
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You were doing that mom a favor.
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[belches]
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[audience applauding, cheering]
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You see me. You really, really see me.[chuckles]
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[cheers continue]
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Now, I'm not sayingthat the '80s were perfect
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or that child abuse is right…
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…but here's the thing…
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[laughter]
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…well, you need a little strifein your life,
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a little struggle,
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a little "putting a brick in it."
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Why? To create resilience.
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Resilience!
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Okay? '80s weren't perfect,but I'll tell you what they didn't have.
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There were no uh, safe spaces.[imitating fart]
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There were no trigger warnings.
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[laughter]
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And there wereno fucking peanut allergies.
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[audience cheering, applauding]
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Well…
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Why? Because for thousands of years,
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the only people who could have children
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were ones who could hunt for food,
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build shelter,
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and fight saber-toothed tigers.
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[audience laughing]
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Now, there are people having kids
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who can't eat wheat.
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[laughter continues]
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[audience applauding]
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[mocking] "Uh, but Christina,it's an allergy."
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"You don't know."
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Well, I do know I ain't fucking a guythat's scared of toast.
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Yeah.
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Let me tell you something,my favorite question
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when I go to a restaurantis when a waiter asks me,
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"Ma'am, do you haveany food sensitivities?"
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I can't fucking laugh hard enough.
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[laughing] I'm like, "No, boo-boo, no."
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[snorts] "No, I have…I have zero 'sensitivities'
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"to anything fucking ever…
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[laughter]
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…because I'm Generation X."
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[audience cheering]
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Yeah.
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I'm Gen X, man.
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I grew up playing on scorching hotmetal monkey bars in the middle of summer.
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And when I fell,it wasn't onto foam or mulch,
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I fell onto a dead hobo.
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[audience laughing]
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Yes, I grew up swimming in the L.A. River.
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It's not a river, it's a sewer.
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[laughter]
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And back in the day, everyone got bullied.
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Everyone got bullied.
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And then when you went homeand told your parents about it,
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they would bully youfor not standing up for yourself.
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Fuck it, dude, I'm an '80s mom.I'm an '80s mom.
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I'll tell you what, I let my kids jumpfrom the couch to the coffee table…
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[shouting] …'cause that'swhat baby teeth are for!
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[cheers]
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[audience applauding]
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Yes.
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[audience continues applauding]
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Yes. Yes.
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[imitating preacher] Yes, I believe.I believe…
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[laughter]
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… that eating floor Cheeriosmakes you strong.
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[audience cheering]
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"Better than vaccine!"
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There's a game in my house,
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if there's food on the floorand you can beat the dog to it,
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it's yours.
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I teach my children how to lie properly.
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[cheers]
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Well, that's an important life skill,
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'cause one daythey're gonna grow up and have a boss.
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Oh, honesty is the best policy?
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[laughing]
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Not when I've spenttwo hours of company time on TikTok.
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-[continues laughing]-[cheers]
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Yeah.
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I let my children watch cartoons.
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Old school ones, bros. Old school.
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I go Bugs Bunny, bam!
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[cheers]
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-Woody Woodpecker, boom!-[cheers]
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Pepé Le Pew.
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[audience cheering]
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[mocking] "Oh, but, Christina,Pepé's problematic."
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[audience laughing]
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Well, I talk to my kids and I say,
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"Hey, not all French are rapists."
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[laughter]
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"But they do smell like shit."
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[audience cheering, applauding]
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[chuckling] So…
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Mmm. Back when I lived in California,
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uh, there's a helmet law that says
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every time your kid rides a bicycle,
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you have to put a helmet on them,
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and I did it
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because I'm an amazing fucking mom.
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[cheers]
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But in my heart,
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in my soul,
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I'd be like…
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[tuts] "This fucking pussy shit."
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[laughter]
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Are you joking? A helmet?
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To ride a bicycle?
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Is there anythingmore embarrassing in life?
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Right? 'Cause growing up in school,there was that one kid
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who wore a helmet and didn't ride a bike,
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if you catch my--
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[laughter]
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Maybe tore tickets at the movie theater.
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[audience] Ooh!
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Ooh! Maybe collectedshopping carts in the parking lot.
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[laughter]
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00:13:04,825 --> 00:13:08,287
We had a kid like that at our schooland we called him Double Dare.
271
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[cheers]
272
00:13:10,581 --> 00:13:14,502
Relax, relax, you can laughat Double Dare.
273
00:13:14,585 --> 00:13:16,086
He's totally fine now.
274
00:13:16,587 --> 00:13:18,214
Yeah, he's totally normal.
275
00:13:18,297 --> 00:13:20,508
It turns out, back in the day,
276
00:13:20,591 --> 00:13:22,718
they were just giving him the wrong pills.
277
00:13:22,802 --> 00:13:24,887
-[woman in the audience] Oh my God!-Yeah,
278
00:13:24,970 --> 00:13:27,848
so through the miracle of modern medicine,
279
00:13:27,932 --> 00:13:30,309
they made him detarded.
280
00:13:30,392 --> 00:13:31,602
[laughter]
281
00:13:31,685 --> 00:13:32,937
Thank you so much.
282
00:13:33,020 --> 00:13:34,688
God, that was such a good joke.
283
00:13:35,189 --> 00:13:38,067
[audience applauding, cheering]
284
00:13:38,150 --> 00:13:38,984
Okay.
285
00:13:39,610 --> 00:13:41,195
That's my favorite joke.
286
00:13:41,278 --> 00:13:44,490
[applause continues]
287
00:13:44,573 --> 00:13:46,534
I know you'll say that shit on Monday.
288
00:13:46,617 --> 00:13:49,119
You're gonna be like,"That Cindy, she's detarded."
289
00:13:49,203 --> 00:13:51,205
[audience laughing]
290
00:13:53,123 --> 00:13:53,958
Now,
291
00:13:54,834 --> 00:13:57,086
I like my kids to watch Sesame Street
292
00:13:57,169 --> 00:13:58,879
'cause that's what I grew up on.
293
00:13:58,963 --> 00:14:00,673
Right? Sesame Street. Yeah.
294
00:14:00,756 --> 00:14:03,843
Yeah. But um, have you seen
Sesame Street lately?
295
00:14:05,553 --> 00:14:07,805
Ugh! The neighborhood's gone to shit.
296
00:14:07,888 --> 00:14:10,558
[audience laughing]
297
00:14:10,641 --> 00:14:12,852
You guys are gonna die. You're gonna die.
298
00:14:12,935 --> 00:14:14,103
So, first of all,
299
00:14:15,604 --> 00:14:17,606
Cookie Monster, Cookie Monster,
300
00:14:17,690 --> 00:14:21,360
gluttonous piece of shit that taught younot to overdo it with the sweets,
301
00:14:22,403 --> 00:14:25,781
now eats fruit and vegetables.
302
00:14:25,865 --> 00:14:27,032
[screams]
303
00:14:27,116 --> 00:14:28,951
[audience] Boo!
304
00:14:29,034 --> 00:14:31,453
I know, what's next?
305
00:14:31,954 --> 00:14:35,583
What's next, Big Bird's gone free range?Fuck that!
306
00:14:35,666 --> 00:14:37,001
[laughter]
307
00:14:37,084 --> 00:14:38,168
No!
308
00:14:39,003 --> 00:14:41,505
No, Oscar the Grouch, Oscar the Grouch,
309
00:14:41,589 --> 00:14:45,843
the first hoarder you ever knew,lived in his own filth in a trash can,
310
00:14:46,343 --> 00:14:49,638
now lives in a recycling bin.
311
00:14:49,722 --> 00:14:51,932
-[laughter]-[man in the audience] Boo!
312
00:14:52,016 --> 00:14:55,769
Oh my God, you know he's gonna beone of these assholes who wears patchouli.
313
00:14:55,853 --> 00:14:57,313
[audience laughing]
314
00:14:57,396 --> 00:14:59,023
You know those people? And--
315
00:14:59,106 --> 00:15:03,027
They don't buy regular deodorant,instead they buy Tom's.
316
00:15:03,110 --> 00:15:04,695
[audience laughing]
317
00:15:04,778 --> 00:15:06,822
Oh! Then they have to tell you about it.
318
00:15:06,906 --> 00:15:10,117
[mocking] "Oh, well, you know, Christina,the regular deodorant."
319
00:15:10,618 --> 00:15:13,329
"Regular, regular deodorant--"
320
00:15:13,412 --> 00:15:18,876
[laughter]
321
00:15:18,959 --> 00:15:22,463
"The regular deodorant hasaluminum in it…"
322
00:15:22,546 --> 00:15:24,381
[laughter]
323
00:15:24,465 --> 00:15:29,553
"…and the aluminum gives you Alzheimer's."
324
00:15:30,054 --> 00:15:33,265
Like, yeah,we all wish you had Alzheimer's
325
00:15:33,766 --> 00:15:36,852
because you smelllike Dog the Bounty Hunter's cunt…
326
00:15:36,936 --> 00:15:37,770
[laughter]
327
00:15:37,853 --> 00:15:40,189
…with your fake-ass deodorant.
328
00:15:40,272 --> 00:15:43,734
[cheers]
329
00:15:46,320 --> 00:15:48,280
Okay, Bert and Ernie,
330
00:15:48,781 --> 00:15:50,658
still not gay…
331
00:15:50,741 --> 00:15:52,493
[laughter]
332
00:15:52,576 --> 00:15:55,579
…but they are polyamorous.
333
00:15:56,622 --> 00:15:59,625
It's my favorite. I love polyamory.
334
00:16:00,125 --> 00:16:01,585
I… I live for that shit.
335
00:16:02,211 --> 00:16:03,712
I love when somebody is like,
336
00:16:04,213 --> 00:16:06,465
"I'm polyamorous."
337
00:16:07,549 --> 00:16:11,512
[tuts] Like, "Bitch, back in the '90s,you was just a ho." You know what I mean?
338
00:16:11,595 --> 00:16:13,138
[laughter]
339
00:16:13,222 --> 00:16:15,933
Right? You're just horny.That's not an identity.
340
00:16:20,437 --> 00:16:23,607
Okay, but there's-- Okay,there's a new character on the street.
341
00:16:23,691 --> 00:16:25,526
[shrieking]
342
00:16:25,609 --> 00:16:29,238
Um, her name is Julia and she's autistic.
343
00:16:29,321 --> 00:16:31,448
[audience] Aw!
344
00:16:31,949 --> 00:16:37,830
[laughter]
345
00:16:38,872 --> 00:16:39,999
Aw!
346
00:16:40,082 --> 00:16:41,417
[laughter]
347
00:16:42,418 --> 00:16:44,670
No, f-- you guys, that is like--
348
00:16:45,587 --> 00:16:47,881
[laughter]
349
00:16:47,965 --> 00:16:50,718
[laughing] I got so fucking excited
350
00:16:51,218 --> 00:16:54,304
that Sesame Street
put out an autistic puppet.
351
00:16:55,347 --> 00:16:57,224
Dude, I was stoked. I got so happy.
352
00:16:57,307 --> 00:17:00,561
It was like when a newTourette's documentary comes out…
353
00:17:01,729 --> 00:17:04,356
[laughing] …you're all fucking excited,and then you--
354
00:17:04,440 --> 00:17:08,360
you watch it, and two minutes in, you go,"Oh God, these people are suffering."
355
00:17:08,444 --> 00:17:10,529
[laughter]
356
00:17:10,612 --> 00:17:12,698
"I'm a bad person."
357
00:17:15,868 --> 00:17:19,955
[chuckles] So I started watching Julia,the autistic character, and I…
358
00:17:22,416 --> 00:17:24,710
I really like her. I really like her.
359
00:17:24,793 --> 00:17:29,131
I learned about autism, which was cool,and what I like best is that,
360
00:17:29,214 --> 00:17:32,259
sometimes she gets upsetand she hits Elmo…
361
00:17:32,342 --> 00:17:35,137
[laughter]
362
00:17:35,220 --> 00:17:37,306
…which is great 'cause fuck Elmo, right?
363
00:17:37,389 --> 00:17:39,600
He's the worst. He's the worst.
364
00:17:39,683 --> 00:17:41,560
He's always laughing at his own shit.
365
00:17:41,643 --> 00:17:42,978
[laughter]
366
00:17:43,062 --> 00:17:45,272
[mocking] "Elmo loves you." [laughing]
367
00:17:45,355 --> 00:17:46,607
[laughter]
368
00:17:46,690 --> 00:17:49,318
"Elmo goes potty." [laughing]
369
00:17:50,861 --> 00:17:53,363
He sounds like a nervous porno actress.
370
00:17:53,447 --> 00:17:55,074
[laughter]
371
00:17:55,157 --> 00:17:59,912
Like you know when the casting directorwill shoot the interview before the scene?
372
00:17:59,995 --> 00:18:03,082
Don't act like you don't knowwhat the fuck I'm talking about.
373
00:18:03,165 --> 00:18:05,292
[man in the audiencelaughing hysterically]
374
00:18:06,085 --> 00:18:08,170
Right, the scumbag, and he's always like…
375
00:18:08,253 --> 00:18:09,630
[moans]
376
00:18:09,713 --> 00:18:11,548
[laughter]
377
00:18:11,632 --> 00:18:14,718
[in deep voice] "What are you gonnado for us today, sweetie?"
378
00:18:17,346 --> 00:18:19,389
[in high voice] Then she'll be like,
379
00:18:19,473 --> 00:18:25,270
"I'm gonna domy first blow-bang triple anal."
380
00:18:25,354 --> 00:18:27,648
[laughing hysterically]
381
00:18:30,025 --> 00:18:35,114
[laughing turns into crying]
382
00:18:39,827 --> 00:18:41,912
"Sounds hot." [moans]
383
00:18:43,497 --> 00:18:44,915
Oh my God.
384
00:18:45,415 --> 00:18:47,876
And like, here's the deal, man.Here's the deal.
385
00:18:48,752 --> 00:18:49,586
Oh God.
386
00:18:49,670 --> 00:18:50,546
[inhaling deeply]
387
00:18:51,797 --> 00:18:54,466
Here's the deal, is that I, um, I used to,
388
00:18:55,759 --> 00:18:58,220
I used to be able to laughat that girl, you know,
389
00:18:58,303 --> 00:19:01,265
and now I'm a fucking middle-aged mom
390
00:19:01,348 --> 00:19:04,518
and I have all these feelingslike empathy and stuff…
391
00:19:05,018 --> 00:19:06,979
[laughter]
392
00:19:07,062 --> 00:19:09,606
…because you start to realize, like,
393
00:19:09,690 --> 00:19:12,109
how life is just a lot of luck
394
00:19:12,192 --> 00:19:13,861
and then a series of choices,
395
00:19:13,944 --> 00:19:16,905
and like, I could have been that girl.
396
00:19:17,781 --> 00:19:20,325
I should have been that porno girl.
397
00:19:20,409 --> 00:19:22,661
[laughter]
398
00:19:22,744 --> 00:19:24,288
You know, with my childhood,
399
00:19:24,371 --> 00:19:27,541
I should've been that girl,and really, in the scheme of things,
400
00:19:27,624 --> 00:19:31,170
stand-up comedy, not that brightof a choice of life, right?
401
00:19:31,253 --> 00:19:34,923
Like, it goes, fucking, porno actress,stand-up comedian. Not smart. But…
402
00:19:37,926 --> 00:19:40,470
So I became a mom and uh…
403
00:19:42,306 --> 00:19:44,183
How do I put this? I… I just want to,
404
00:19:44,266 --> 00:19:46,518
I want to do betterthan what was given to me.
405
00:19:46,602 --> 00:19:49,563
You know what I mean?I don't blame my parents for anything.
406
00:19:49,646 --> 00:19:50,939
Do I? Yeah, I do.
407
00:19:51,023 --> 00:19:52,941
-But the thing is---[laughter]
408
00:19:53,025 --> 00:19:56,028
Well, you know, I just…I just want to be a better parent
409
00:19:56,111 --> 00:19:58,864
than what I had and, um-- Yeah.
410
00:19:58,947 --> 00:20:00,574
Oh, thanks. One person.
411
00:20:00,657 --> 00:20:01,742
[applause]
412
00:20:01,825 --> 00:20:03,744
Okay, okay, you're on board, yeah.
413
00:20:04,828 --> 00:20:06,205
Um…
414
00:20:06,288 --> 00:20:08,415
Or as my therapist calls it…
415
00:20:08,498 --> 00:20:11,501
[mocking] …"I am breakingthe cycle of--" [chuckles]
416
00:20:13,170 --> 00:20:16,298
"I'm breaking the cycleof generational trauma."
417
00:20:17,674 --> 00:20:22,137
I am breaking the cycleof generational trauma,
418
00:20:22,638 --> 00:20:24,181
and it's a lot of work, okay?
419
00:20:24,264 --> 00:20:28,352
So here's what I've done so far.It's like a decade in therapy,
420
00:20:28,435 --> 00:20:29,728
and then every day,
421
00:20:29,811 --> 00:20:32,564
I wake up, I practice my gratitude,
422
00:20:32,648 --> 00:20:34,399
and then I drink my coffee.
423
00:20:34,483 --> 00:20:35,692
I take a shit.
424
00:20:35,776 --> 00:20:37,444
[laughter]
425
00:20:37,527 --> 00:20:38,820
I exercise,
426
00:20:38,904 --> 00:20:42,616
uh, because the endorphins fromexercise help fight depression,
427
00:20:42,699 --> 00:20:46,828
and then I adhere to a low-carbohydrate,high-protein diet.
428
00:20:46,912 --> 00:20:48,622
I meditate twice a day.
429
00:20:48,705 --> 00:20:51,416
I feel all my dumb feelings…
430
00:20:54,711 --> 00:20:57,714
and I am still so fucked up, like I'm--
431
00:20:57,798 --> 00:20:59,466
[laughing hysterically]
432
00:20:59,549 --> 00:21:01,260
I'm so fucking crazy.
433
00:21:01,343 --> 00:21:03,762
[cheers, applause]
434
00:21:03,845 --> 00:21:04,763
Thank you.
435
00:21:06,223 --> 00:21:08,350
-Whoo!-[cheers continue]
436
00:21:11,478 --> 00:21:13,480
But-- [laughing hysterically]
437
00:21:13,563 --> 00:21:16,566
But I'm trying, and I'm in the game,
438
00:21:16,650 --> 00:21:18,610
and I'm gonna do it, man.
439
00:21:18,694 --> 00:21:21,029
I'm gonna do it. Yeah.
440
00:21:21,113 --> 00:21:23,115
[applause]
441
00:21:24,324 --> 00:21:26,326
Yeah, 'cause my childhood was wacky.
442
00:21:26,410 --> 00:21:29,037
Like, put it this way, like, growing up,
443
00:21:29,955 --> 00:21:33,125
I couldn't understand…I couldn't understand those people
444
00:21:33,208 --> 00:21:35,377
who lived at home in their twenties.
445
00:21:35,460 --> 00:21:38,171
You know, like, dude,I wanted out at six, bro.
446
00:21:38,255 --> 00:21:39,923
-I was like---[laughter]
447
00:21:40,007 --> 00:21:43,010
"Where's my letter to Hogwarts?Get me the fuck out of this."
448
00:21:43,093 --> 00:21:43,927
[laughter]
449
00:21:44,011 --> 00:21:45,929
You know, I would have rather lived
450
00:21:46,013 --> 00:21:48,223
with those bitches from The Facts of Life
451
00:21:49,891 --> 00:21:53,061
and get scissored by that lesbo, Jo,remember Jo?
452
00:21:53,937 --> 00:21:57,316
-You guys know Jo was a lesbo, right?-[man in the audience] Yeah.
453
00:21:57,399 --> 00:21:59,776
Yeah, 'cause she had a ponytail.
454
00:22:02,529 --> 00:22:04,823
And she was a mechanic.
455
00:22:04,906 --> 00:22:06,491
[laughter]
456
00:22:06,575 --> 00:22:11,830
-A pussy mechanic, am I right? Yeah!-[cheers]
457
00:22:14,708 --> 00:22:17,085
No, I hated my mom. I hated her so much.
458
00:22:17,169 --> 00:22:20,172
She was… oh, just the worst.
459
00:22:20,255 --> 00:22:23,884
Borderline and schizophrenic,which wouldn't have been so bad,
460
00:22:23,967 --> 00:22:25,260
but she was mean.
461
00:22:25,344 --> 00:22:29,056
I mean, even bin Laden would be like,"Oh, this bitch is evil. This--"
462
00:22:29,139 --> 00:22:30,682
[laughter]
463
00:22:30,766 --> 00:22:34,644
I'll give you an example, when I was five,I was singing in the kitchen,
464
00:22:34,728 --> 00:22:37,189
and she goes, "Oh, Christica,
465
00:22:38,774 --> 00:22:40,275
you should never sing."
466
00:22:40,776 --> 00:22:41,818
[laughter]
467
00:22:41,902 --> 00:22:43,737
I know, and people today are like,
468
00:22:43,820 --> 00:22:48,241
"Christina, is it hardbeing a woman in comedy?"
469
00:22:48,867 --> 00:22:51,703
"I'm like, no, dude.I was raised by Simon Cowell."
470
00:22:51,787 --> 00:22:53,789
[laughter]
471
00:22:56,833 --> 00:22:58,210
"Shit don't phase me, bro."
472
00:23:00,170 --> 00:23:02,798
When I was 12,when I was 12-years-old,
473
00:23:02,881 --> 00:23:05,842
she stole my identityand bought fur coats.
474
00:23:07,427 --> 00:23:09,054
Fur coats!
475
00:23:09,137 --> 00:23:10,680
I'm from Los Angeles,
476
00:23:10,764 --> 00:23:14,059
it is 85 degrees Christmas day.
477
00:23:16,103 --> 00:23:18,855
Forget it.Here's the thing, I've forgiven her,
478
00:23:18,939 --> 00:23:22,192
and lately,we've been getting along so well.
479
00:23:22,275 --> 00:23:24,694
In 2015, she died.
480
00:23:24,778 --> 00:23:26,363
[laughter]
481
00:23:26,446 --> 00:23:27,531
Thank you.
482
00:23:27,614 --> 00:23:29,699
[applause, cheers]
483
00:23:31,451 --> 00:23:32,285
Yeah.
484
00:23:33,495 --> 00:23:36,206
And now I wear fur coats to get Froyo.
485
00:23:36,289 --> 00:23:37,249
It's a win-win.
486
00:23:37,332 --> 00:23:38,917
[cheers]
487
00:23:39,751 --> 00:23:40,919
God, she was so angry.
488
00:23:41,002 --> 00:23:43,588
Ever know somebodythat could get angry at anything?
489
00:23:43,672 --> 00:23:47,342
Yes, like a retail worker would be like,"Have a nice day."
490
00:23:47,426 --> 00:23:49,219
"You have a nice fucking day!"
491
00:23:49,302 --> 00:23:50,637
[laughter]
492
00:23:50,720 --> 00:23:52,514
[singing "Entry of the Gladiators"]
493
00:23:56,184 --> 00:23:58,562
'Cause her first language was Hungarian,
494
00:23:58,645 --> 00:24:01,189
she couldn't pronouncecertain words in English,
495
00:24:01,690 --> 00:24:04,776
and um, you ever hate somebody so much,
496
00:24:05,277 --> 00:24:08,071
you don't correct their Englishfor like 40 years?
497
00:24:09,865 --> 00:24:13,118
Dude, I would let hersay things wrong all the time.
498
00:24:13,618 --> 00:24:16,746
She couldn't say the word "aluminum foil."
499
00:24:17,831 --> 00:24:20,208
She would call it "alufolia."
500
00:24:20,292 --> 00:24:22,294
[laughter]
501
00:24:22,377 --> 00:24:25,422
I'd say, "Yeah, pass me the 'alufolia.'Wrap that shit."
502
00:24:25,922 --> 00:24:28,675
"Wrap that chicken in 'alufolia,' bitch.Come on, let's go."
503
00:24:30,844 --> 00:24:35,640
If it was cold outside,she would say, "It's very crispy outside."
504
00:24:35,724 --> 00:24:37,726
[laughter]
505
00:24:38,477 --> 00:24:42,147
I'd be like, "Yeah, crispy, crunchy,like a potato chip. You got this."
506
00:24:42,731 --> 00:24:45,358
"Go say that at your job interview.Go ahead, bitch."
507
00:24:46,943 --> 00:24:49,154
Fucking hated her.Then every now and then,
508
00:24:49,237 --> 00:24:51,490
she'd get frustrated with meand kick me out,
509
00:24:51,573 --> 00:24:55,744
and then I'd go live with my dad,and my dad was a party.
510
00:24:56,286 --> 00:24:59,122
-[woman] Yeah!-You guys, he is 75-years-old
511
00:24:59,206 --> 00:25:01,416
and still slanging that dick.
512
00:25:01,917 --> 00:25:03,001
[cheers]
513
00:25:03,084 --> 00:25:04,085
Yeah.
514
00:25:05,587 --> 00:25:07,297
Recently, I asked him, I was like,
515
00:25:07,380 --> 00:25:10,175
"Dad, how many womendo you think you've been with?"
516
00:25:10,675 --> 00:25:13,011
He goes, "Not enough."
517
00:25:13,512 --> 00:25:15,388
[cheers, laughter]
518
00:25:16,556 --> 00:25:17,599
[laughing]
519
00:25:17,682 --> 00:25:19,768
Now, there's a cool guy.
520
00:25:19,851 --> 00:25:21,686
[imitating guitar]
521
00:25:21,770 --> 00:25:24,314
The coolest.
522
00:25:24,397 --> 00:25:27,108
[audience applauding]
523
00:25:27,192 --> 00:25:28,109
Yeah, dog.
524
00:25:28,818 --> 00:25:34,032
In 1985, more women sawmy dad's dick than Ghostbusters.
525
00:25:34,115 --> 00:25:36,201
[laughter]
526
00:25:38,161 --> 00:25:42,123
And I loved living with him becauseon a school night, I was eight-years-old,
527
00:25:42,207 --> 00:25:45,293
and he would take me outto bars and nightclubs.
528
00:25:45,794 --> 00:25:46,836
Oh, and I loved it.
529
00:25:46,920 --> 00:25:48,964
I loved dancing. I just loved it.
530
00:25:49,047 --> 00:25:50,715
But I was so young.
531
00:25:50,799 --> 00:25:54,094
I thought the song "White Lines"was about coloring.
532
00:25:54,177 --> 00:25:56,179
[laughter]
533
00:25:59,808 --> 00:26:01,810
But my favorite song to dance to
534
00:26:01,893 --> 00:26:05,063
in the whole world was
Frankie Goes to Hollywood.
535
00:26:05,146 --> 00:26:09,025
-[audience cheering]
-Relax. Do you guys remember that?
536
00:26:09,109 --> 00:26:11,361
♪ Relax, don't do it ♪
537
00:26:11,444 --> 00:26:12,779
♪ When you want… ♪
Yeah.
538
00:26:12,862 --> 00:26:14,823
Do you know what that song is about?
539
00:26:16,324 --> 00:26:19,411
It's about gay guys doing it…
540
00:26:19,494 --> 00:26:21,371
[laughter]
541
00:26:21,454 --> 00:26:25,542
…and trying not to finish too soon. Now--
542
00:26:26,042 --> 00:26:28,837
Meanwhile, my eight-year-old ass is like,
543
00:26:28,920 --> 00:26:30,547
♪ When you wanna come… ♪
544
00:26:30,630 --> 00:26:33,091
[audience laughing]
545
00:26:33,174 --> 00:26:37,345
[moaning] ♪ Come! ♪
546
00:26:37,429 --> 00:26:38,555
♪ Yeah! ♪
547
00:26:38,638 --> 00:26:42,767
♪ Whoa… ♪
548
00:26:43,268 --> 00:26:45,312
[vocalizing]
549
00:26:45,395 --> 00:26:46,646
[laughing hysterically]
550
00:26:48,440 --> 00:26:51,109
[chuckles] Um, so, a while ago,
551
00:26:51,735 --> 00:26:52,819
my husband was like,
552
00:26:52,902 --> 00:26:56,698
"Babe, babe, I think your dadmight be an alcoholic."
553
00:26:56,781 --> 00:26:58,158
[laughter]
554
00:26:58,241 --> 00:27:00,869
I was like, "That makes so much sense."
555
00:27:01,911 --> 00:27:04,456
When you grow up around weird,you don't know it's weird.
556
00:27:04,539 --> 00:27:09,544
You think that everybody's dad takes themto bars and nightclubs on a school night
557
00:27:09,628 --> 00:27:13,757
at eight-years-old and lets them danceto a hardcore gay sex anthems.
558
00:27:13,840 --> 00:27:15,467
[laughter]
559
00:27:18,511 --> 00:27:23,350
Uh, but I'm super stoked you guysbecause recently, he got remarried.
560
00:27:23,850 --> 00:27:25,769
-[cheers]-Yes.
561
00:27:25,852 --> 00:27:28,396
Yes, for the fifth time.
562
00:27:28,480 --> 00:27:31,524
[applause, cheers]
563
00:27:31,608 --> 00:27:35,403
He's 75-years-oldand he married a 34-year-old…
564
00:27:35,487 --> 00:27:39,240
[audience cheering]
565
00:27:39,324 --> 00:27:41,701
…Vietnamese lady…
566
00:27:41,785 --> 00:27:43,119
[cheers]
567
00:27:43,745 --> 00:27:45,246
…he met online.
568
00:27:45,330 --> 00:27:46,790
[chuckling] Yeah.
569
00:27:46,873 --> 00:27:50,001
[audience applauding, cheering]
570
00:27:50,085 --> 00:27:53,630
I don't know… I don't knowif that's a marriage or an adoption…
571
00:27:53,713 --> 00:27:55,256
[laughter]
572
00:27:57,425 --> 00:28:00,762
but that bitch came with a receipt,you know that.
573
00:28:01,554 --> 00:28:04,224
Could you imagine?I don't know what's going on.
574
00:28:04,307 --> 00:28:09,771
I mean, maybe she wants the Green Card,and he wants free mani-pedis.
575
00:28:09,854 --> 00:28:10,730
I don't know.
576
00:28:10,814 --> 00:28:15,610
Oh, shut the fuck up, she's my Viet mom,I can say what I want. Shut up.
577
00:28:19,447 --> 00:28:21,741
But let me tell you, I'm so--
578
00:28:21,825 --> 00:28:24,327
I'm so gratefulto have this woman in my life
579
00:28:24,411 --> 00:28:26,830
because otherwise,I would have to listen to him.
580
00:28:28,373 --> 00:28:32,043
Oh God. Is there anything worsethan a phone call from your toxic parent?
581
00:28:32,627 --> 00:28:35,547
Ugh! Ugh! They don't even ask youanything about you.
582
00:28:35,630 --> 00:28:36,756
No questions, nothing.
583
00:28:36,840 --> 00:28:38,425
All my dad wants to talk about
584
00:28:38,508 --> 00:28:41,386
is the achievementsof the Hungarian people.
585
00:28:41,469 --> 00:28:43,596
[audience laughing]
586
00:28:43,680 --> 00:28:45,098
Oh my God, he's so slick.
587
00:28:45,181 --> 00:28:46,182
"Christica,
588
00:28:47,892 --> 00:28:50,270
you know who invented Rubik's Cube?"
589
00:28:50,353 --> 00:28:52,355
[laughter]
590
00:28:52,856 --> 00:28:54,023
"A Hungarian."
591
00:28:56,276 --> 00:28:58,695
"You know who invented the ballpoint pen?"
592
00:28:59,904 --> 00:29:01,156
"A Hungarian."
593
00:29:01,239 --> 00:29:03,366
I'm like,"Did a Hungarian invent suicide?"
594
00:29:03,450 --> 00:29:06,953
"I'm gonna blow my brains out.I can't. I can't."
595
00:29:07,036 --> 00:29:07,912
"I can't."
596
00:29:07,996 --> 00:29:09,330
[audience laughing]
597
00:29:11,624 --> 00:29:14,002
But then he drinks a little on the call,
598
00:29:15,628 --> 00:29:16,838
and then it gets better.
599
00:29:16,921 --> 00:29:18,882
[laughter]
600
00:29:19,382 --> 00:29:20,300
He'll be like,
601
00:29:20,800 --> 00:29:21,926
"Christica,
602
00:29:23,511 --> 00:29:26,973
every time you burp,
603
00:29:28,433 --> 00:29:30,435
you are cheating your asshole."
604
00:29:30,518 --> 00:29:33,271
[laughter]
605
00:29:35,940 --> 00:29:38,860
[audience continues laughing]
606
00:29:38,943 --> 00:29:39,861
What?
607
00:29:41,446 --> 00:29:43,698
[groans] Then I'm back in. I'm back in.
608
00:29:43,782 --> 00:29:45,283
[laughter]
609
00:29:47,368 --> 00:29:49,412
But then he drinks too much on the call.
610
00:29:51,039 --> 00:29:52,415
[mimicking deflation]
611
00:29:52,499 --> 00:29:56,836
Now, I have a theorythat all dads know one historical fact
612
00:29:57,879 --> 00:30:00,340
that they like to repeat over and over.
613
00:30:00,840 --> 00:30:05,261
Now, my father escapedfrom Communist Hungary in 1969,
614
00:30:05,345 --> 00:30:07,889
so his fact is a little dark.
615
00:30:09,349 --> 00:30:10,183
Here it goes.
616
00:30:12,435 --> 00:30:13,686
"Christica…
617
00:30:15,730 --> 00:30:16,689
you know,
618
00:30:18,191 --> 00:30:23,404
everybody thinksHitler killed the most people."
619
00:30:23,488 --> 00:30:24,531
[scoffs]
620
00:30:24,614 --> 00:30:25,782
"This is not true."
621
00:30:27,075 --> 00:30:29,160
"Stalin killed
622
00:30:29,994 --> 00:30:31,663
the most people,
623
00:30:31,746 --> 00:30:34,290
but everybody gives Hitler all the credit
624
00:30:34,374 --> 00:30:36,543
like he's some kind of special guy."
625
00:30:36,626 --> 00:30:38,628
[laughter]
626
00:30:38,711 --> 00:30:41,005
"He's no fucking special guy."
627
00:30:41,089 --> 00:30:42,841
[laughter]
628
00:30:42,924 --> 00:30:44,467
I'm like, "What?"
629
00:30:46,469 --> 00:30:48,888
"Are you jealous of Hitler? Is this--"
630
00:30:48,972 --> 00:30:50,139
[laughter]
631
00:30:50,223 --> 00:30:53,560
"You saying Hitler's the genocide champ?Is that what I'm hearing?"
632
00:30:53,643 --> 00:30:54,894
[laughter]
633
00:30:56,271 --> 00:30:57,105
So crazy.
634
00:30:57,188 --> 00:30:59,983
And then meanwhile,cut to me at a dinner party
635
00:31:00,066 --> 00:31:02,402
and somebody will bring up World War II…
636
00:31:02,485 --> 00:31:04,153
[laughter]
637
00:31:04,237 --> 00:31:06,698
…and I'll be like,"Actually Stalin killed…
638
00:31:06,781 --> 00:31:08,449
[laughter]
639
00:31:08,533 --> 00:31:09,909
…more people than Hitler."
640
00:31:10,660 --> 00:31:12,912
[applause, cheers]
641
00:31:12,996 --> 00:31:14,247
Yeah.
642
00:31:14,330 --> 00:31:17,792
"Why do you think Hitler's a special guy?He's not such a special fucking guy."
643
00:31:20,587 --> 00:31:22,797
[inhaling deeply] Ugh!
644
00:31:22,881 --> 00:31:25,216
It's such a drag'cause I gotta listen to him.
645
00:31:25,300 --> 00:31:27,635
I gotta listen to him'cause I'm an only child,
646
00:31:27,719 --> 00:31:29,178
and it's times like this
647
00:31:29,262 --> 00:31:33,391
I wish I hada 400-pound codependent sister.
648
00:31:33,474 --> 00:31:35,143
[laughter]
649
00:31:35,226 --> 00:31:37,270
You know, just 400 pounds,
650
00:31:39,063 --> 00:31:41,274
always watching the ID channel,
651
00:31:41,357 --> 00:31:44,360
convinced she's gonna getmurdered and raped.
652
00:31:46,070 --> 00:31:48,281
I'm like, "Murdered, maybe." [chuckling]
653
00:31:48,364 --> 00:31:51,326
[audience laughing]
654
00:31:59,751 --> 00:32:02,503
Because, New York, I'm a good person.
655
00:32:04,797 --> 00:32:06,007
I'm not a great one.
656
00:32:06,090 --> 00:32:07,884
[cheers]
657
00:32:07,967 --> 00:32:11,387
I might fake pick updog shit from time to time.
658
00:32:11,471 --> 00:32:12,931
[laughter]
659
00:32:13,014 --> 00:32:16,976
Every time my dog takes a shit,that's when the neighbor has to come out,
660
00:32:17,060 --> 00:32:19,562
and I always forget bags,and I gotta do theater.
661
00:32:19,646 --> 00:32:21,230
[mocking] "Hold on, I got it
662
00:32:22,649 --> 00:32:25,068
somewhere, I don't know."
663
00:32:25,151 --> 00:32:27,153
[laughter]
664
00:32:28,655 --> 00:32:31,658
The minute she walks away,"Fuck your lawn, bitch."
665
00:32:31,741 --> 00:32:34,118
[audience applauding]
666
00:32:34,786 --> 00:32:37,622
You got a gardener, you got that.
667
00:32:39,540 --> 00:32:41,125
[audience cheering]
668
00:32:41,209 --> 00:32:43,544
Good person, not a great one.
669
00:32:45,713 --> 00:32:49,342
I refuse to give people my age
670
00:32:49,425 --> 00:32:50,885
rides to the airport.
671
00:32:53,012 --> 00:32:56,099
Oh my God.Listen, if you're in your mid-forties
672
00:32:56,182 --> 00:32:57,850
and you can't get yourself
673
00:32:59,268 --> 00:33:04,399
to the airport, bro,that means you don't have like $50.
674
00:33:04,482 --> 00:33:06,234
[laughter]
675
00:33:06,317 --> 00:33:08,736
You don't have $50.
676
00:33:09,779 --> 00:33:12,281
You should stay homeand work on that resume, okay?
677
00:33:12,365 --> 00:33:14,325
[laughter]
678
00:33:14,826 --> 00:33:17,370
Good person, not a great one.
679
00:33:17,453 --> 00:33:18,746
[audience applauding]
680
00:33:19,789 --> 00:33:21,124
I never
681
00:33:21,624 --> 00:33:25,169
want to hearabout the triathlon you're preparing for.
682
00:33:25,253 --> 00:33:26,421
[laughter]
683
00:33:27,046 --> 00:33:29,549
Oh my God,is there anything worse than that?
684
00:33:29,632 --> 00:33:31,843
The person has to tell you,"No, Christina."
685
00:33:31,926 --> 00:33:34,387
[mocking] "First I swim two kilometers,
686
00:33:34,470 --> 00:33:36,472
and then I bike 90 kilometers,
687
00:33:36,556 --> 00:33:38,891
and then I run 20 kilometers."
688
00:33:38,975 --> 00:33:40,852
And I'm like, "What the fuck?"
689
00:33:40,935 --> 00:33:43,312
[audience applauding, cheering]
690
00:33:43,396 --> 00:33:45,106
"What the fuck?"
691
00:33:49,527 --> 00:33:51,320
"What the fuck
692
00:33:52,280 --> 00:33:53,740
is a kilometer, dude?"
693
00:33:53,823 --> 00:33:56,200
"I don't do math."
694
00:33:58,995 --> 00:34:00,747
Good person, not a great one.
695
00:34:02,415 --> 00:34:03,583
Not a great one.
696
00:34:03,666 --> 00:34:06,169
-[audience applauding, cheering]-Not perfect.
697
00:34:09,464 --> 00:34:10,715
[sighs]
698
00:34:10,798 --> 00:34:13,926
Just trying to break the cycleof generational trauma.
699
00:34:14,010 --> 00:34:15,720
[laughter]
700
00:34:15,803 --> 00:34:18,389
So when I became a mother,I didn't know what to do.
701
00:34:18,473 --> 00:34:20,099
Nobody has a blueprint for that.
702
00:34:20,933 --> 00:34:23,478
Yeah, so I did what everybody should do
703
00:34:23,561 --> 00:34:26,314
and I looked to social media.
704
00:34:26,397 --> 00:34:27,648
[cheers]
705
00:34:27,732 --> 00:34:29,942
Oh my God, everybody lies on social media,
706
00:34:30,026 --> 00:34:32,779
but moms, those bitches lie the most.
707
00:34:34,363 --> 00:34:36,491
Right? What do the moms always say?
708
00:34:36,574 --> 00:34:41,204
"Being a mom,it's the best job in the world."
709
00:34:42,246 --> 00:34:44,749
And look, I love my children
710
00:34:45,249 --> 00:34:46,501
more than life,
711
00:34:47,001 --> 00:34:50,546
but the job of being a mom,
712
00:34:50,630 --> 00:34:53,049
it is not the best.
713
00:34:53,716 --> 00:34:58,471
In fact, I would arguehaving no job is the best job.
714
00:34:58,554 --> 00:35:01,265
[applause, cheers]
715
00:35:03,434 --> 00:35:06,104
Or Instagram model, that's a job.
716
00:35:06,187 --> 00:35:07,396
[audience cheering]
717
00:35:07,480 --> 00:35:09,482
You guys, there is a man on Instagram
718
00:35:09,565 --> 00:35:11,818
who makes millions of dollars
719
00:35:11,901 --> 00:35:15,113
as an adult baby diaper wearer.
720
00:35:16,739 --> 00:35:18,449
Let me rephrase that.
721
00:35:19,867 --> 00:35:22,620
I follow a guy on Instagram.
722
00:35:22,703 --> 00:35:24,664
[laughter]
723
00:35:24,747 --> 00:35:26,290
He's so great.
724
00:35:26,374 --> 00:35:29,252
He's so fat and sweaty,
725
00:35:29,335 --> 00:35:31,629
and his chest looks like a pork chop,
726
00:35:31,712 --> 00:35:35,800
like a raw pork chop, that's been droppedon a barber shop floor.
727
00:35:37,009 --> 00:35:40,721
-[man in the audience] Oh my God!-I love it. He does the best poses, dude.
728
00:35:40,805 --> 00:35:43,558
It's always him like against a brick wall.
729
00:35:45,059 --> 00:35:47,520
He does these coquettish little poses.
730
00:35:47,603 --> 00:35:48,437
He'll be like,
731
00:35:48,521 --> 00:35:49,689
"No."
732
00:35:49,772 --> 00:35:51,065
[laughter]
733
00:35:53,526 --> 00:35:55,444
Love it. I love him.
734
00:35:55,945 --> 00:35:57,113
I love him.
735
00:35:57,196 --> 00:35:58,948
Do you think, growing up as a kid,
736
00:35:59,031 --> 00:36:01,617
every time he cried, his dad was like,
737
00:36:01,701 --> 00:36:03,161
"Don't be a baby."
738
00:36:03,244 --> 00:36:06,873
[laughter]
739
00:36:06,956 --> 00:36:09,417
"Look who's crying now, Daddy."
740
00:36:09,500 --> 00:36:10,334
[laughter]
741
00:36:13,838 --> 00:36:16,048
Anyway, I was such an idiotwhen I became a mom.
742
00:36:16,132 --> 00:36:19,969
I believed all those sayingspeople throw around about children,
743
00:36:20,052 --> 00:36:23,306
you know like,"Kids say the darndest things."
744
00:36:24,765 --> 00:36:25,600
Not mine.
745
00:36:27,018 --> 00:36:29,353
Mine say the meanest shit all the time.
746
00:36:29,437 --> 00:36:31,314
[audience laughing]
747
00:36:31,397 --> 00:36:34,025
Last week Ellis called me a "dishbag."
748
00:36:34,108 --> 00:36:37,612
[laughter]
749
00:36:39,280 --> 00:36:42,033
I was like, "Uh, no, it's douchebag."
750
00:36:42,116 --> 00:36:44,619
"Open your mouth when you speak, son."
751
00:36:44,702 --> 00:36:45,745
[laughter]
752
00:36:45,828 --> 00:36:47,205
"Show some respect."
753
00:36:47,288 --> 00:36:48,915
[applause]
754
00:36:49,999 --> 00:36:51,792
Yeah. Yeah.
755
00:36:52,293 --> 00:36:53,127
Douche.
756
00:36:53,211 --> 00:36:56,464
[audience applauding]
757
00:36:56,547 --> 00:36:59,634
Then my little one,I was changing the three-year-old's diaper
758
00:36:59,717 --> 00:37:01,552
and he had a big old doody in there,
759
00:37:02,595 --> 00:37:03,512
and he goes,
760
00:37:03,596 --> 00:37:05,806
"Do you see your family in there?"
761
00:37:05,890 --> 00:37:09,227
[laughter]
762
00:37:11,229 --> 00:37:14,148
[audience continues laughing]
763
00:37:14,232 --> 00:37:15,733
I go, "Yeah, my mom."
764
00:37:15,816 --> 00:37:17,151
[laughter]
765
00:37:19,987 --> 00:37:22,031
Uh! They're so abusive.
766
00:37:22,114 --> 00:37:25,952
They're like abusive husbandswith the questions all the time.
767
00:37:26,035 --> 00:37:29,288
"Where are you going?What are you doing? What's Lexapro?"
768
00:37:29,372 --> 00:37:30,873
[laughter]
769
00:37:34,293 --> 00:37:35,878
Oh my God.
770
00:37:35,962 --> 00:37:37,797
They walked in on me naked,
771
00:37:37,880 --> 00:37:39,799
just started laughing.
772
00:37:39,882 --> 00:37:42,218
[laughter]
773
00:37:43,386 --> 00:37:45,471
The little one pointed. That's fucked up.
774
00:37:45,554 --> 00:37:47,056
[laughter]
775
00:37:47,139 --> 00:37:49,475
I taught him that one.I taught him that one.
776
00:37:49,976 --> 00:37:51,269
Oh my God.
777
00:37:51,352 --> 00:37:54,063
They've destroyed my house, okay?
778
00:37:54,146 --> 00:37:56,190
So far, I've replaced two toilets
779
00:37:56,274 --> 00:37:58,192
'cause they flush cars down those.
780
00:37:59,318 --> 00:38:05,574
I walked in on the six-year-oldcoloring in the grouting in between tiles
781
00:38:06,534 --> 00:38:08,828
in permanent marker.
782
00:38:09,954 --> 00:38:13,040
And there's piss everywhere.
783
00:38:14,083 --> 00:38:17,712
Everywhere. I walk in on them peeinglike they're being arrested, just--
784
00:38:17,795 --> 00:38:21,716
[laughter]
785
00:38:26,387 --> 00:38:29,265
Oh! I'm like a piss sommeliernow, you know?
786
00:38:29,765 --> 00:38:31,517
I walk through the house, I'm like,
787
00:38:31,600 --> 00:38:35,021
Oh, yeah. [sniffs]"That's three-year-old boy, very good."
788
00:38:35,104 --> 00:38:36,856
[sniffs] "That's six-year-old."
789
00:38:36,939 --> 00:38:40,609
[sniffs] "Oh, forty-two-year-oldmale comic, that's an interesting one."
790
00:38:40,693 --> 00:38:41,777
[laughter]
791
00:38:41,861 --> 00:38:44,363
-[applause]-Oh!
792
00:38:47,158 --> 00:38:47,992
Ah.
793
00:38:48,492 --> 00:38:52,204
And let me tell you somethingif you don't have kids yet, okay?
794
00:38:52,288 --> 00:38:53,372
Marriage,
795
00:38:53,873 --> 00:38:56,667
I used to believe that marriage was 50/50.
796
00:38:58,627 --> 00:39:00,338
And then you have kids.
797
00:39:00,421 --> 00:39:03,466
That shit ain't 50/50, okay?Fuck what you heard.
798
00:39:03,549 --> 00:39:05,843
It is the Mom Show, all day, every day.
799
00:39:05,926 --> 00:39:06,761
Fucking, Mommy.
800
00:39:06,844 --> 00:39:09,930
Mommy. Mommy. Mommy. Mommy. Mommy.
801
00:39:10,014 --> 00:39:12,725
Mom. Mom. Mom. Mom.
802
00:39:13,225 --> 00:39:14,477
I know.
803
00:39:14,560 --> 00:39:17,104
I'm like,"I'm gonna change my name to Daddy."
804
00:39:18,105 --> 00:39:20,816
'Cause nobody expects shit from that guy.
805
00:39:20,900 --> 00:39:22,318
[cheers]
806
00:39:22,401 --> 00:39:25,446
Daddy gets to take a dump by himself.
807
00:39:25,946 --> 00:39:27,615
Me, when I go to the bathroom,
808
00:39:27,698 --> 00:39:30,910
I got a six-year-old playingLegos on the ground,
809
00:39:31,410 --> 00:39:34,288
a dog making intense eye contact.
810
00:39:34,372 --> 00:39:36,374
[laughter]
811
00:39:44,340 --> 00:39:46,175
Why do they wink at you, like--
812
00:39:46,258 --> 00:39:49,136
[laughter]
813
00:39:49,220 --> 00:39:50,638
"What's the secret, girl?"
814
00:39:51,722 --> 00:39:53,599
♪ I watch you poopYou watch me poop ♪
815
00:39:53,682 --> 00:39:55,684
-♪ I watch you poop ♪
-[laughter]
816
00:39:57,812 --> 00:40:01,774
Ugh. Every time I go to the bathroom,I got the six-year-old playing Legos,
817
00:40:01,857 --> 00:40:06,237
the dog making eye contact,and a baby sitting on my lap.
818
00:40:07,530 --> 00:40:10,491
Bonus pointsif you breastfeed at the same time.
819
00:40:10,574 --> 00:40:12,243
[cheers]
820
00:40:12,326 --> 00:40:15,204
That's called "The Milwaukee Milkshake."You're welcome.
821
00:40:16,122 --> 00:40:20,793
[audience laughing, applauding]
822
00:40:20,876 --> 00:40:26,215
Oh, gosh, so, okay,so I broke my ankle in June…
823
00:40:28,217 --> 00:40:30,719
and some people thinkit was my husband's fault.
824
00:40:30,803 --> 00:40:32,888
[laughter]
825
00:40:32,972 --> 00:40:35,474
And in some ways, it was.
826
00:40:35,558 --> 00:40:36,517
[laughter]
827
00:40:36,600 --> 00:40:39,228
Alright, I'll tell you the story.Here's what happened.
828
00:40:39,311 --> 00:40:43,232
So, it's in the middle of the night.I'd just come home off the road.
829
00:40:43,315 --> 00:40:46,193
I was exhausted.I had the baby monitor next to me.
830
00:40:46,277 --> 00:40:48,446
The babies used to sleepon the first floor,
831
00:40:48,529 --> 00:40:50,698
we used to sleep on the second.Not anymore.
832
00:40:50,781 --> 00:40:53,993
But anyway,so the baby screams in the monitor,
833
00:40:54,493 --> 00:40:55,911
and if you're a mother,
834
00:40:55,995 --> 00:40:59,331
you know that when your baby cries,you could be in a dead sleep
835
00:41:00,458 --> 00:41:01,834
and you will feel that,
836
00:41:02,334 --> 00:41:06,714
you'll feel the baby cryin every cell of your being, right?
837
00:41:06,797 --> 00:41:08,048
It's like Uma Thurman
838
00:41:09,675 --> 00:41:11,010
in Pulp Fiction.
839
00:41:11,552 --> 00:41:14,555
[wailing] The baby! The baby!
840
00:41:14,638 --> 00:41:15,473
Okay.
841
00:41:15,556 --> 00:41:17,308
[laughter]
842
00:41:18,058 --> 00:41:19,393
That's my reaction.
843
00:41:20,436 --> 00:41:21,812
My husband…
844
00:41:21,896 --> 00:41:25,691
[snoring]
845
00:41:28,486 --> 00:41:31,113
Now, my husband claims
846
00:41:31,614 --> 00:41:33,115
he can't hear…
847
00:41:35,910 --> 00:41:37,953
babies crying in the night.
848
00:41:38,454 --> 00:41:41,832
Can't seem to hearbabies crying in the night.
849
00:41:41,916 --> 00:41:44,752
Meanwhile, 20 houses down,
850
00:41:44,835 --> 00:41:47,630
the Monday Night Football themecan be playing…
851
00:41:48,714 --> 00:41:50,174
[vocalizing]
852
00:41:50,257 --> 00:41:53,219
…and his dad boner can't get harder…
853
00:41:53,302 --> 00:41:54,553
[audience laughing]
854
00:41:54,637 --> 00:41:55,554
…or higher.
855
00:41:55,638 --> 00:41:57,181
[applause]
856
00:41:57,932 --> 00:41:58,974
[cheers]
857
00:41:59,475 --> 00:42:02,061
So anyway, I fell down the stairs
858
00:42:02,937 --> 00:42:04,647
getting to my baby in a hurry,
859
00:42:04,730 --> 00:42:08,317
and that's how I broke my ankle,and see, that's a mother's love.
860
00:42:08,400 --> 00:42:10,444
That's a fucking mother's love.
861
00:42:12,154 --> 00:42:15,616
Nobody tells you this, but being a momis an emotional roller coaster.
862
00:42:15,699 --> 00:42:18,536
Like, I go from joy, to rage,
863
00:42:18,619 --> 00:42:21,080
to exhaustion, to exhilaration,
864
00:42:21,163 --> 00:42:23,499
every six seconds, every day.
865
00:42:23,582 --> 00:42:24,542
[laughter]
866
00:42:24,625 --> 00:42:27,878
And just when I'm readyto throw that baby in the river…
867
00:42:27,962 --> 00:42:29,672
[laughter]
868
00:42:33,008 --> 00:42:34,301
…he smiles at me.
869
00:42:34,802 --> 00:42:39,598
[sighs] Yeah, yeah, they smile at youwith those little jack-o'-lantern teeth…
870
00:42:39,682 --> 00:42:41,809
[high-pitched dinging]
871
00:42:42,309 --> 00:42:45,604
…and you're filled with so much joy,you have crazy thoughts.
872
00:42:45,688 --> 00:42:46,897
You're like-- [groaning]
873
00:42:47,690 --> 00:42:49,233
"I want ten more!"
874
00:42:49,316 --> 00:42:50,943
[laughter]
875
00:42:51,026 --> 00:42:53,445
"Come on, Tommy. We're fucking tonight!"
876
00:42:53,529 --> 00:42:56,907
[laughter]
877
00:42:56,991 --> 00:42:59,660
-Yes.-[audience cheering]
878
00:42:59,743 --> 00:43:00,786
Yes.
879
00:43:00,869 --> 00:43:03,455
Until you watch TLC, The Learning Channel,
880
00:43:04,748 --> 00:43:07,126
and you seethose Duggar assholes with their…
881
00:43:07,209 --> 00:43:08,419
[laughter]
882
00:43:08,502 --> 00:43:11,046
…twenty kids, you're like,"How are you having 20?"
883
00:43:11,130 --> 00:43:12,548
"How is this legal?"
884
00:43:13,424 --> 00:43:16,510
Animal Serviceswon't let you have but six cats.
885
00:43:16,594 --> 00:43:18,012
[laughter]
886
00:43:20,806 --> 00:43:21,932
I love TLC.
887
00:43:22,016 --> 00:43:25,269
My favorite showis Little People, Big World.
888
00:43:25,352 --> 00:43:26,937
[cheers]
889
00:43:27,563 --> 00:43:31,150
Wouldn't it be great if they couldmerge Little People, Big World
890
00:43:31,650 --> 00:43:33,152
with tiny houses?
891
00:43:33,235 --> 00:43:37,740
[laughter]
892
00:43:38,324 --> 00:43:40,951
Little People, Appropriately Sized Houses.
893
00:43:41,035 --> 00:43:42,953
Come on, TLC, do better!
894
00:43:43,037 --> 00:43:44,038
[laughter]
895
00:43:50,002 --> 00:43:51,920
Everybody talks about a mother's love,
896
00:43:52,004 --> 00:43:54,340
but nobody talks about a mother's rage,
897
00:43:55,299 --> 00:43:57,718
and for me, that's bedtime. Oh!
898
00:43:57,801 --> 00:44:00,054
Yeah, bedtime. Oh my God.
899
00:44:00,137 --> 00:44:03,474
And the experts tell youto have a routine, right?
900
00:44:03,557 --> 00:44:06,644
Okay. Good. Boom.Noon, we're in pajamas. Let's go.
901
00:44:06,727 --> 00:44:08,896
[laughter]
902
00:44:08,979 --> 00:44:11,649
I do it all, right?I got blackout curtains,
903
00:44:11,732 --> 00:44:13,776
I got the sound machine, I got stories,
904
00:44:13,859 --> 00:44:15,027
and then what happens?
905
00:44:15,819 --> 00:44:16,987
[footsteps approaching]
906
00:44:18,197 --> 00:44:19,657
[in low voice] "I'm thirsty."
907
00:44:19,740 --> 00:44:20,783
[laughter]
908
00:44:21,617 --> 00:44:25,329
Dude, I don't know what it isabout this generation's hydration needs.
909
00:44:25,829 --> 00:44:29,750
I swear my parentsgave me water once a week, tops.
910
00:44:30,250 --> 00:44:33,045
We drank Fresca, I think.I dunno. I was dehydrated.
911
00:44:34,254 --> 00:44:37,591
-So that's pop up number one. Number two---[footsteps approaching]
912
00:44:37,675 --> 00:44:41,136
-[in low voice] "I gotta go poop."-[laughter]
913
00:44:41,220 --> 00:44:42,638
-[sighs]-And the third one…
914
00:44:42,721 --> 00:44:45,349
-[footsteps approaching]-"There's a monster under my bed."
915
00:44:45,432 --> 00:44:48,060
"Good, tell him I said hi.I dunno what to tell you."
916
00:44:48,143 --> 00:44:49,436
[laughter]
917
00:44:50,312 --> 00:44:51,271
One night,
918
00:44:51,772 --> 00:44:54,608
my older boy popped up eight times.
919
00:44:55,401 --> 00:44:57,152
Eight times.
920
00:44:57,236 --> 00:45:00,531
And the rage that welled up inside of me--
921
00:45:01,031 --> 00:45:03,617
And you can't tell a six-year-old boy--
922
00:45:03,701 --> 00:45:04,785
I can't be like,
923
00:45:06,036 --> 00:45:09,206
"Dude, bro, homie,
924
00:45:09,998 --> 00:45:12,126
fuck outta here, man, what are you doing?"
925
00:45:12,209 --> 00:45:13,460
[audience laughing]
926
00:45:13,544 --> 00:45:16,088
"Scram. Kick rocks. Listen, son,
927
00:45:17,423 --> 00:45:20,968
your dad and I have justan hour and a half free time every night,
928
00:45:21,051 --> 00:45:23,971
just an hour and a half to get high…"
929
00:45:24,471 --> 00:45:27,474
[cheers]
930
00:45:27,558 --> 00:45:29,476
…watch 90 Day Fiancé…
931
00:45:29,560 --> 00:45:31,854
[audience cheering]
932
00:45:32,479 --> 00:45:36,316
…hurry fuck, and fall asleep beforewe have to do this shit all over again."
933
00:45:36,859 --> 00:45:37,860
[laughter]
934
00:45:37,943 --> 00:45:42,698
"And, son, it is not good sex,it is sad married sex."
935
00:45:42,781 --> 00:45:43,866
[laughter]
936
00:45:43,949 --> 00:45:46,910
"We don't even face each other anymore."
937
00:45:48,287 --> 00:45:50,247
"I just kind of lay on my side,
938
00:45:51,623 --> 00:45:54,001
and then your dad walruses up behind me."
939
00:45:54,084 --> 00:45:56,295
-[audience laughing]-[grunting]
940
00:45:56,378 --> 00:46:02,968
[continues grunting]
941
00:46:03,051 --> 00:46:06,013
[audience laughing]
942
00:46:06,930 --> 00:46:10,184
-"I don't even get naked anymore, I just…-[laughter]
943
00:46:10,267 --> 00:46:12,269
…I pull my sweatpants down."
944
00:46:12,352 --> 00:46:14,855
[laughter]
945
00:46:14,938 --> 00:46:20,319
[cheers, applause]
946
00:46:24,448 --> 00:46:27,326
Just let it happen. Just let it happen.
947
00:46:29,536 --> 00:46:30,496
Goddamnit.
948
00:46:30,996 --> 00:46:33,499
[laughter]
949
00:46:33,999 --> 00:46:35,959
"I know there is no such thing
950
00:46:36,043 --> 00:46:39,004
-as nut-free granola bars. I know it."-[laughter]
951
00:46:39,087 --> 00:46:40,881
"That is bullshit."
952
00:46:46,220 --> 00:46:49,598
"When is the next seasonof Bridgerton coming out?"
953
00:46:49,681 --> 00:46:50,849
[laughter, cheers]
954
00:46:50,933 --> 00:46:52,976
"I mean, how long does this shit take?"
955
00:46:54,353 --> 00:46:55,896
[laughter]
956
00:46:55,979 --> 00:46:58,982
"Did I buy the organic turkey slices?"I really…
957
00:46:59,066 --> 00:47:00,275
[audience laughing]
958
00:47:01,944 --> 00:47:02,945
That's my life.
959
00:47:03,028 --> 00:47:04,822
[inhaling deeply]
960
00:47:05,447 --> 00:47:09,993
That's me,breaking the cycle of generational trauma.
961
00:47:11,245 --> 00:47:12,621
[applause, cheers]
962
00:47:12,704 --> 00:47:14,289
That's what it is.
963
00:47:14,373 --> 00:47:18,836
[audience applauding]
964
00:47:19,920 --> 00:47:23,924
That's what it is. I stay in the game.You just gotta stay in the game, right?
965
00:47:24,007 --> 00:47:25,342
That's all you're doing.
966
00:47:25,843 --> 00:47:28,929
And I work on my perfectionism.That's a huge problem with me.
967
00:47:29,012 --> 00:47:32,015
You know, 'cause I compare myselfto those perfect moms.
968
00:47:32,099 --> 00:47:33,684
Oh. You know those bitches?
969
00:47:34,685 --> 00:47:36,103
Those perfect moms?
970
00:47:36,186 --> 00:47:38,897
Oh, they got four kidsand somehow they're a size zero?
971
00:47:40,023 --> 00:47:42,818
What does she say?"Oh, I do intermittent fasting."
972
00:47:44,486 --> 00:47:47,447
"Yeah, so does half the world,it's called starvation, bitch."
973
00:47:47,531 --> 00:47:48,866
[laughter]
974
00:47:49,616 --> 00:47:54,037
The worst is when she's like,"My husband is my best friend."
975
00:47:55,539 --> 00:47:57,165
[laughter]
976
00:47:57,666 --> 00:48:01,253
Gross. These are the same peoplethat mouth-kiss their moms and dads.
977
00:48:01,336 --> 00:48:02,421
I know it.
978
00:48:02,504 --> 00:48:03,922
[audience laughing]
979
00:48:05,257 --> 00:48:07,676
No, your husband is not your best friend.
980
00:48:07,759 --> 00:48:11,138
Your best friend is the personyou talk shit about your husband to.
981
00:48:11,221 --> 00:48:13,181
[laughter, cheers]
982
00:48:14,099 --> 00:48:14,933
No.
983
00:48:15,434 --> 00:48:17,895
Well, anyway,I will say the one thing I did right
984
00:48:17,978 --> 00:48:20,480
is I've been marriedto the same dude for 17 years.
985
00:48:20,564 --> 00:48:22,149
[audience cheering]
986
00:48:22,232 --> 00:48:23,066
That's right.
987
00:48:23,150 --> 00:48:24,735
[applause]
988
00:48:24,818 --> 00:48:27,404
Seventeen years.
989
00:48:27,487 --> 00:48:29,907
[cheers]
990
00:48:31,325 --> 00:48:33,911
I married a psychopath.
991
00:48:34,411 --> 00:48:36,121
[audience laughing]
992
00:48:36,204 --> 00:48:38,498
Here's how you knowyou're with a psychopath.
993
00:48:38,582 --> 00:48:39,917
In the middle of winter,
994
00:48:40,000 --> 00:48:43,003
he sleeps with a fan blowing on him.
995
00:48:43,086 --> 00:48:44,463
[laughter]
996
00:48:44,546 --> 00:48:47,174
[angrily] "I'm hot! I'm hot!"
997
00:48:48,967 --> 00:48:50,677
"Yeah, because you're a psycho,
998
00:48:50,761 --> 00:48:53,847
and psychos havea higher core body temperature
999
00:48:54,848 --> 00:48:58,936
that allows them to stand outside nakedin the freezing rain with a meat cleaver."
1000
00:48:59,019 --> 00:49:00,020
[laughter]
1001
00:49:02,439 --> 00:49:05,609
I told our adorable cleaning lady about itand she goes,
1002
00:49:05,692 --> 00:49:09,196
"Well, maybe it's because he's so hairy."
1003
00:49:09,696 --> 00:49:10,989
[laughter]
1004
00:49:11,073 --> 00:49:13,241
I'm like, "How do you know, bitch?"
1005
00:49:13,325 --> 00:49:15,535
[laughter]
1006
00:49:16,036 --> 00:49:18,038
Then I remembered she cleans our drains.
1007
00:49:18,121 --> 00:49:19,164
[laughter]
1008
00:49:19,247 --> 00:49:21,124
Poor woman, I know. I know.
1009
00:49:21,208 --> 00:49:24,127
Here's how you knowyou're with a psycho, okay? Okay?
1010
00:49:24,962 --> 00:49:26,630
Look at their Netflix queue.
1011
00:49:27,130 --> 00:49:28,632
[audience laughing]
1012
00:49:28,715 --> 00:49:32,970
Look at what Netflixis suggesting they watch next
1013
00:49:33,053 --> 00:49:35,764
'cause that's somebody's total interests.That's it.
1014
00:49:36,264 --> 00:49:40,060
Apparently,my husband only has two areas of interest,
1015
00:49:41,269 --> 00:49:43,772
it's either serial killers…
1016
00:49:43,855 --> 00:49:45,315
[cheers]
1017
00:49:45,399 --> 00:49:46,566
…or World War II.
1018
00:49:46,650 --> 00:49:48,652
[laughter]
1019
00:49:49,653 --> 00:49:53,740
And he likes to watch his showsas I'm drifting off to sleep at night,
1020
00:49:54,992 --> 00:49:56,535
so, I get to hear either,
1021
00:49:57,035 --> 00:50:01,331
"And the murderer only killed blond women,mothers of two."
1022
00:50:01,415 --> 00:50:05,544
[laughter]
1023
00:50:07,796 --> 00:50:08,672
Or--
1024
00:50:09,172 --> 00:50:13,635
-[shouting in German]-[laughter]
1025
00:50:16,138 --> 00:50:19,224
Did you guys knowthat Stalin actually killed…
1026
00:50:19,307 --> 00:50:20,559
[laughter]
1027
00:50:20,642 --> 00:50:22,060
…more people than Hitler?
1028
00:50:22,144 --> 00:50:23,186
Did you know that?
1029
00:50:23,270 --> 00:50:27,482
[audience cheering, applauding]
1030
00:50:30,652 --> 00:50:32,904
What do they always say about psychos?
1031
00:50:32,988 --> 00:50:35,949
About psychopaths likethat Brian Laundrie? Remember him?
1032
00:50:36,033 --> 00:50:40,787
What do they always say?They say, "Oh, he was just a regular guy."
1033
00:50:41,288 --> 00:50:44,166
"Just a regular guy."
1034
00:50:44,249 --> 00:50:47,794
Let me tell you something,my husband is regular as fuck.
1035
00:50:48,295 --> 00:50:50,714
[laughter]
1036
00:50:50,797 --> 00:50:53,133
Super regular, okay?
1037
00:50:53,216 --> 00:50:55,677
He doesn't know what a duvet cover is.
1038
00:50:57,012 --> 00:50:58,221
Or a pergola.
1039
00:50:58,305 --> 00:51:00,057
He thinks that doing a cleanse
1040
00:51:00,140 --> 00:51:03,060
is scrubbinghis butthole extra in the shower.
1041
00:51:03,143 --> 00:51:05,604
[laughter]
1042
00:51:08,565 --> 00:51:12,360
Regular guysdon't understand subtlety or hints,
1043
00:51:12,444 --> 00:51:15,572
so when they ask, "Babe,what do you want for your birthday?"
1044
00:51:15,655 --> 00:51:17,115
Don't go, "Oh, nothing."
1045
00:51:18,742 --> 00:51:20,827
'Cause that's what you gonna fucking get.
1046
00:51:20,911 --> 00:51:21,787
[laughter]
1047
00:51:21,870 --> 00:51:23,872
[audience applauding]
1048
00:51:25,082 --> 00:51:26,917
But here's the deal, man. I love it.
1049
00:51:27,000 --> 00:51:30,504
I love being married to regular guy.It's the best.
1050
00:51:30,587 --> 00:51:34,091
It's so fucking easy 'cause theyonly require three things to be happy.
1051
00:51:34,174 --> 00:51:36,551
Three things. Number one, sandwiches.
1052
00:51:36,635 --> 00:51:38,136
[laughter]
1053
00:51:38,220 --> 00:51:41,098
Sandwiches. Just feed hima sandwich every now and then.
1054
00:51:41,598 --> 00:51:43,600
Don't get fancy. No cucumbers.
1055
00:51:43,683 --> 00:51:45,227
No hummus. None of that shit.
1056
00:51:46,728 --> 00:51:50,148
Two pieces of bread and somethingthat had a heartbeat in the middle.
1057
00:51:50,232 --> 00:51:51,817
That's it. That's all he needs.
1058
00:51:54,528 --> 00:51:56,780
Easy peasy, lemon squeezy. Number two,
1059
00:51:57,280 --> 00:51:58,323
sports.
1060
00:51:58,824 --> 00:52:00,242
They gotta like sports.
1061
00:52:01,243 --> 00:52:03,370
My husband likes football. Football.
1062
00:52:03,453 --> 00:52:05,163
The game is four hours long,
1063
00:52:05,664 --> 00:52:08,208
followed by the two hour after show
1064
00:52:08,708 --> 00:52:11,586
where the severely out of shaperetired players…
1065
00:52:11,670 --> 00:52:14,798
-[laughter]-…sit around and talk about the game
1066
00:52:14,881 --> 00:52:16,800
we just all saw…
1067
00:52:16,883 --> 00:52:18,093
[audience laughing]
1068
00:52:18,176 --> 00:52:19,970
…because they have brain damage
1069
00:52:20,053 --> 00:52:23,306
and it takesfive of their collective memories…
1070
00:52:23,390 --> 00:52:24,683
[laughter]
1071
00:52:24,766 --> 00:52:26,768
…to form one coherent memory.
1072
00:52:31,731 --> 00:52:34,192
I love it.And then they have um, their dad jokes.
1073
00:52:34,276 --> 00:52:35,152
They're like…
1074
00:52:35,235 --> 00:52:38,113
[in deep voice] "That cheerleader looksmore like a tight-end to me, Rick."
1075
00:52:38,196 --> 00:52:39,114
[mock laughing]
1076
00:52:39,197 --> 00:52:40,949
[laughter]
1077
00:52:41,032 --> 00:52:44,661
It's like the male version of The View.
They love that shit.
1078
00:52:44,744 --> 00:52:46,413
[laughter]
1079
00:52:46,496 --> 00:52:47,831
And they're so ugly.
1080
00:52:47,914 --> 00:52:49,749
All the men are so--
1081
00:52:49,833 --> 00:52:52,085
Oh my God, they would never let a woman
1082
00:52:52,169 --> 00:52:54,171
as ugly as Lou Holtz--
1083
00:52:54,838 --> 00:52:58,466
-[laughter]-The guy can barely talk. He's like--
1084
00:52:58,550 --> 00:53:00,802
[mocking Lou Holtz]
1085
00:53:00,886 --> 00:53:02,053
[laughter]
1086
00:53:03,138 --> 00:53:06,099
"You're right, Lou,salami is an underrated meat."
1087
00:53:06,183 --> 00:53:07,392
[laughter]
1088
00:53:07,475 --> 00:53:10,437
[mocking Lou Holtz]
1089
00:53:11,354 --> 00:53:12,189
"Mm-hmm."
1090
00:53:12,272 --> 00:53:14,941
"Oatmeal's easy on the gums, Lou.You got that right."
1091
00:53:15,025 --> 00:53:16,860
[audience laughing]
1092
00:53:18,737 --> 00:53:21,198
But whatever.I don't bust his balls for all that.
1093
00:53:21,281 --> 00:53:23,533
Why? Because he's home
1094
00:53:24,034 --> 00:53:27,287
on the couch with the dog and the kids
1095
00:53:27,370 --> 00:53:30,373
and one lady who fucking gets itbecause that's a good man.
1096
00:53:31,917 --> 00:53:33,919
That's right, lady. Clap for that.
1097
00:53:34,002 --> 00:53:35,086
[audience applauding]
1098
00:53:35,170 --> 00:53:36,171
That's a good man.
1099
00:53:36,254 --> 00:53:39,591
[audience continues applauding]
1100
00:53:40,300 --> 00:53:44,012
That's the guy you marry.The sports guy, the sandwich guy.
1101
00:53:44,095 --> 00:53:45,305
Now, lastly.
1102
00:53:47,224 --> 00:53:48,767
Number three on the list.
1103
00:53:51,228 --> 00:53:52,270
Sex.
1104
00:53:52,979 --> 00:53:55,232
[cheers]
1105
00:53:55,315 --> 00:53:56,733
You have to have sex
1106
00:53:57,859 --> 00:53:59,027
with your husband. Now…
1107
00:53:59,110 --> 00:53:59,945
[sighing]
1108
00:54:00,028 --> 00:54:03,990
[laughter]
1109
00:54:06,785 --> 00:54:10,997
I don't pretend to be some sexed-up,hot cool wife. Like I'm not, dude.
1110
00:54:11,081 --> 00:54:11,915
I'm really not.
1111
00:54:12,874 --> 00:54:13,750
I mean honestly,
1112
00:54:14,251 --> 00:54:17,963
after spending a daywith my three and six-year-old boys,
1113
00:54:19,256 --> 00:54:20,632
I am dryer…
1114
00:54:20,715 --> 00:54:23,260
[laughter]
1115
00:54:23,343 --> 00:54:25,428
…than Ruth Bader Ginsburg's pussy.
1116
00:54:25,512 --> 00:54:27,305
[laughter]
1117
00:54:27,389 --> 00:54:30,183
[applause]
1118
00:54:30,267 --> 00:54:33,937
She's dead, so that is a dusty puss.
1119
00:54:37,899 --> 00:54:40,151
I know. I don't, I don't feel sexy.
1120
00:54:40,235 --> 00:54:43,905
I feel like giving up, like just gettingmy haircut at the dog groomer's,
1121
00:54:45,156 --> 00:54:47,284
buy all my clothes at the AutoZone,
1122
00:54:47,367 --> 00:54:49,786
like one mechanic's onesie.
1123
00:54:51,246 --> 00:54:52,580
So here's what I do, okay?
1124
00:54:52,664 --> 00:54:56,293
I put my husbandon a 72-hour milking schedule.
1125
00:54:58,169 --> 00:55:01,423
Every 72 hours.'Cause here's what I noticed.
1126
00:55:01,506 --> 00:55:04,926
Around 72 hours is when the rage builds.
1127
00:55:05,427 --> 00:55:07,637
It's like the 60 Minutes clock,and then it--
1128
00:55:07,721 --> 00:55:09,055
[clock ticking]
1129
00:55:09,139 --> 00:55:12,058
And then somewhere around here…
1130
00:55:14,227 --> 00:55:15,979
"This ice cream is too cold!"
1131
00:55:16,062 --> 00:55:17,731
[laughter]
1132
00:55:17,814 --> 00:55:19,816
"This salt is too salty!" [groaning]
1133
00:55:19,899 --> 00:55:22,444
[laughter]
1134
00:55:22,527 --> 00:55:25,071
And then I got a milk the bear.I gotta milk him.
1135
00:55:26,364 --> 00:55:28,325
And I don't do it for him,
1136
00:55:28,408 --> 00:55:31,119
I do it for meand the safety of our children.
1137
00:55:31,202 --> 00:55:33,204
[laughter]
1138
00:55:34,998 --> 00:55:37,334
And I know the moms watching this,you're like,
1139
00:55:37,417 --> 00:55:40,670
"I don't, I don't really feellike doing intercourse." Well, yeah.
1140
00:55:41,296 --> 00:55:42,797
You can just give him a handy.
1141
00:55:44,049 --> 00:55:45,508
Or as I like to call it,
1142
00:55:45,592 --> 00:55:46,843
two percent milked.
1143
00:55:46,926 --> 00:55:50,138
[laughter, applause]
1144
00:55:50,221 --> 00:55:54,100
[audience applauding, cheering]
1145
00:55:56,728 --> 00:55:59,898
So, I'll tell you a little personal story.So the other night…
1146
00:56:01,900 --> 00:56:03,401
yeah, the other night, uh,
1147
00:56:03,485 --> 00:56:05,862
my husband and I made sweet marital love,
1148
00:56:07,447 --> 00:56:09,366
and he rolls over and he goes,
1149
00:56:09,866 --> 00:56:11,076
"Are you proud of me?"
1150
00:56:11,159 --> 00:56:15,538
[laughter]
1151
00:56:15,622 --> 00:56:17,165
I'm like, "Yeah, sure."
1152
00:56:18,833 --> 00:56:22,420
He goes, "No, are you proud of me because
1153
00:56:22,504 --> 00:56:24,881
I had to fart that whole time…
1154
00:56:24,964 --> 00:56:27,634
[laughter]
1155
00:56:27,717 --> 00:56:30,345
…but I didn't out of respect for you."
1156
00:56:32,972 --> 00:56:35,892
I'm like, "Do you even see meas a woman anymore?"
1157
00:56:35,975 --> 00:56:36,976
[laughter]
1158
00:56:37,060 --> 00:56:39,687
I said, "Go ahead and fart.The fan's on. Who cares?"
1159
00:56:39,771 --> 00:56:42,107
[audience laughing]
1160
00:56:47,821 --> 00:56:49,364
But that's marriage.
1161
00:56:50,615 --> 00:56:51,950
And that's what it is.
1162
00:56:52,450 --> 00:56:55,620
And being an adultand having a family life,
1163
00:56:55,703 --> 00:56:56,913
it's not easy,
1164
00:56:57,414 --> 00:56:58,832
but it's a marathon.
1165
00:56:58,915 --> 00:57:01,126
Not a fucking triathlon, but a marathon.
1166
00:57:01,209 --> 00:57:02,919
[laughter]
1167
00:57:04,879 --> 00:57:07,715
And what I've learned is,I just have to take breaks.
1168
00:57:07,799 --> 00:57:09,676
Just take a break, come back later.
1169
00:57:09,759 --> 00:57:11,261
So what I like to do
1170
00:57:11,344 --> 00:57:13,513
is I get my nails done,and I've been going
1171
00:57:13,596 --> 00:57:15,390
to the same lady for years, right?
1172
00:57:15,473 --> 00:57:17,851
So five months afterI had my second child,
1173
00:57:17,934 --> 00:57:19,561
five months after I gave birth,
1174
00:57:19,644 --> 00:57:20,770
I went to see her.
1175
00:57:21,271 --> 00:57:22,522
She looks at me and goes,
1176
00:57:23,356 --> 00:57:24,232
"Oh,
1177
00:57:25,525 --> 00:57:26,943
did you have the baby yet?"
1178
00:57:27,444 --> 00:57:29,737
[cheers]
1179
00:57:29,821 --> 00:57:32,407
Yeah, she goes,"You look fat. You look fat."
1180
00:57:33,658 --> 00:57:37,287
Like, "Is that any way to talkto your stepdaughter, you fucking bitch?"
1181
00:57:37,370 --> 00:57:40,540
-"Is that any way?"-[laughter, applause]
1182
00:57:40,623 --> 00:57:45,128
[audience cheering, applauding]
1183
00:57:49,799 --> 00:57:53,511
And look,I know I'm not supposed to do that accent…
1184
00:57:53,595 --> 00:57:55,096
[laughter]
1185
00:57:55,722 --> 00:57:59,642
…but it was so much funnier, right?It was so much better. Come on!
1186
00:57:59,726 --> 00:58:01,394
[audience cheering]
1187
00:58:01,478 --> 00:58:02,896
You gotta do that shit.
1188
00:58:03,521 --> 00:58:06,441
[audience applauding]
1189
00:58:06,524 --> 00:58:10,069
Okay, so, okay, so, when I broke my ankle,
1190
00:58:10,570 --> 00:58:12,447
I had like a major
1191
00:58:12,530 --> 00:58:14,824
life realization. Here's what happened.
1192
00:58:14,908 --> 00:58:16,951
I broke my ankle in four places,
1193
00:58:17,035 --> 00:58:18,328
and it was dislocated.
1194
00:58:18,828 --> 00:58:20,830
Yeah, so I'm in the emergency room,
1195
00:58:20,914 --> 00:58:25,043
and the doctor goes,"We have to reset your bones."
1196
00:58:25,126 --> 00:58:28,087
"I'm gonna give you ketamineso that you don't remember it."
1197
00:58:28,171 --> 00:58:30,298
[laughter]
1198
00:58:30,381 --> 00:58:31,216
Yeah.
1199
00:58:31,299 --> 00:58:33,510
And then he says…
1200
00:58:33,593 --> 00:58:36,387
He's like,"You may go on a little journey."
1201
00:58:36,471 --> 00:58:38,473
[laughter]
1202
00:58:40,350 --> 00:58:42,477
I was like, "Yeah, dog, that's what's up."
1203
00:58:42,560 --> 00:58:44,521
[audience cheering]
1204
00:58:44,604 --> 00:58:45,772
"Call me."
1205
00:58:45,855 --> 00:58:47,440
[applause]
1206
00:58:47,524 --> 00:58:48,441
You know, like,
1207
00:58:49,400 --> 00:58:51,778
I've been preparingfor this shit my whole life.
1208
00:58:52,278 --> 00:58:54,197
"Who's a loser now, Mom? Okay."
1209
00:58:54,280 --> 00:58:55,448
[laughter]
1210
00:58:55,532 --> 00:58:59,369
Okay. So they give me the ketamine and--
1211
00:58:59,452 --> 00:59:00,912
[humming in falling tone]
1212
00:59:00,995 --> 00:59:03,790
Like, I slip into the fourth dimension,
1213
00:59:05,124 --> 00:59:06,417
and then I go
1214
00:59:06,501 --> 00:59:08,545
on a vision quest, bros, like…
1215
00:59:08,628 --> 00:59:09,754
[cheers]
1216
00:59:09,837 --> 00:59:12,840
…like a serious vision quest.So I'm in the fourth dimension,
1217
00:59:12,924 --> 00:59:14,300
and Pac-Man shows up,
1218
00:59:16,219 --> 00:59:17,845
and he's wearing a saddle
1219
00:59:17,929 --> 00:59:21,182
because I live in Texas nowand I think that's where it came from.
1220
00:59:22,141 --> 00:59:25,270
And Pac-Man's like, "Hop on, little lady."
1221
00:59:26,396 --> 00:59:28,356
And I'm like, "Alright, Pac-Man."
1222
00:59:28,856 --> 00:59:31,359
So I get on and we're riding, right?
1223
00:59:31,442 --> 00:59:33,444
[imitating Pac-Man]
1224
00:59:33,528 --> 00:59:35,530
[audience laughing]
1225
00:59:36,906 --> 00:59:38,116
And I see my father,
1226
00:59:39,784 --> 00:59:41,452
but I'm full of compassion…
1227
00:59:43,788 --> 00:59:44,914
and love,
1228
00:59:45,415 --> 00:59:48,042
and I forgive him. I forgive him for him
1229
00:59:48,126 --> 00:59:50,920
not being able to be the dadI wanted him to be.
1230
00:59:52,088 --> 00:59:55,341
And then I thanked himfor the cool historical facts…
1231
00:59:55,425 --> 00:59:57,594
[laughter]
1232
01:00:02,307 --> 01:00:06,519
…and I thanked himfor teaching me how to dance through life.
1233
01:00:07,770 --> 01:00:09,564
[applause]
1234
01:00:09,647 --> 01:00:12,734
[audience continues applauding]
1235
01:00:12,817 --> 01:00:13,651
And then,
1236
01:00:14,986 --> 01:00:16,237
so I get back on Pac-Man.
1237
01:00:16,321 --> 01:00:18,323
[imitating Pac-Man]
1238
01:00:19,449 --> 01:00:21,159
Now I see my mother,
1239
01:00:22,827 --> 01:00:25,455
and I'm fullof compassion for her and love,
1240
01:00:25,955 --> 01:00:30,001
and I forgive her for not being ableto be the mother I wanted her to be.
1241
01:00:31,377 --> 01:00:33,338
And then I thank her for the fur coats…
1242
01:00:33,421 --> 01:00:35,423
[laughter]
1243
01:00:38,426 --> 01:00:41,137
…and for making me resilient.
1244
01:00:42,305 --> 01:00:45,391
[applause]
1245
01:00:47,393 --> 01:00:48,645
Resilient.
1246
01:00:48,728 --> 01:00:52,982
[audience continues applauding]
1247
01:00:53,066 --> 01:00:55,109
Because, by the time I was seven,
1248
01:00:55,193 --> 01:00:56,736
I could use the stove…
1249
01:00:56,819 --> 01:00:58,946
[laughter]
1250
01:00:59,572 --> 01:01:01,699
…to light my own cigarettes.
1251
01:01:01,783 --> 01:01:04,160
[laughter, cheers]
1252
01:01:04,243 --> 01:01:05,203
Yeah.
1253
01:01:05,286 --> 01:01:07,872
[audience applauding]
1254
01:01:08,831 --> 01:01:10,124
And then I ride on.
1255
01:01:10,208 --> 01:01:11,376
[imitating Pac-Man]
1256
01:01:12,835 --> 01:01:14,879
And now I see my children,
1257
01:01:16,464 --> 01:01:18,007
my beautiful boys,
1258
01:01:19,384 --> 01:01:22,929
[inhaling] and I'm overcomewith love and gratitude
1259
01:01:24,347 --> 01:01:27,684
that they existand they've given me this purpose,
1260
01:01:28,184 --> 01:01:31,896
and they've made me wanna be a bettermother and human being every day.
1261
01:01:33,272 --> 01:01:34,148
[inhaling deeply]
1262
01:01:34,982 --> 01:01:37,110
[exhaling]And then the ketamine wears off…
1263
01:01:37,193 --> 01:01:39,195
[laughter]
1264
01:01:46,786 --> 01:01:47,620
[chuckles]
1265
01:01:48,996 --> 01:01:51,249
[audience laughing]
1266
01:01:53,334 --> 01:01:55,712
…and my husband is next to me and he's--
1267
01:01:57,171 --> 01:01:58,256
he's holding my hand.
1268
01:01:59,924 --> 01:02:02,927
Yeah, and I grab himand I pull him close to me,
1269
01:02:03,594 --> 01:02:05,847
and his face is right here and I go,
1270
01:02:07,181 --> 01:02:08,141
I know
1271
01:02:09,267 --> 01:02:11,853
you can hear babies crying in the night.
1272
01:02:11,936 --> 01:02:13,479
[laughter]
1273
01:02:13,563 --> 01:02:15,648
-[audience applauding]-Thank you, guys.
1274
01:02:15,732 --> 01:02:18,067
I love you very much. Thank you so much.
1275
01:02:18,151 --> 01:02:19,944
["Relax" byFrankie Goes To Hollywood playing]
1276
01:02:20,027 --> 01:02:22,155
♪ Relax, don't do it ♪
1277
01:02:22,238 --> 01:02:24,073
♪ When you want to go to it ♪
1278
01:02:24,157 --> 01:02:26,409
♪ Relax, don't do it ♪
1279
01:02:26,492 --> 01:02:28,453
♪ When you want to come ♪
1280
01:02:28,536 --> 01:02:30,580
{\an8}♪ Relax, don't do it ♪
1281
01:02:30,663 --> 01:02:32,665
{\an8}♪ When you want to sock into it ♪
1282
01:02:32,749 --> 01:02:34,792
{\an8}♪ Relax, don't do it ♪
1283
01:02:35,793 --> 01:02:37,503
{\an8}♪ When you want to come ♪
1284
01:02:40,006 --> 01:02:41,716
{\an8}♪ When you want to come ♪
1285
01:02:41,799 --> 01:02:43,426
{\an8}[cheers]
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