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These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: 1 00:00:06,102 --> 00:00:10,547 Provided by explosiveskull https://twitter.com/kaboomskull 2 00:00:20,482 --> 00:00:22,150 When we are told all of our lives 3 00:00:22,192 --> 00:00:26,483 that there are only two possibilities, either, or, 4 00:00:26,525 --> 00:00:29,150 it can be hard to look beyond that. 5 00:00:29,192 --> 00:00:31,608 Some of us think outside the box. 6 00:00:31,650 --> 00:00:32,691 But for many of us, 7 00:00:32,733 --> 00:00:35,440 the box becomes our world. 8 00:00:35,482 --> 00:00:38,357 There is no outside the box. 9 00:00:49,567 --> 00:00:50,441 If someone had told me 10 00:00:50,483 --> 00:00:53,650 I'd play myself in a movie about my life, 11 00:00:53,692 --> 00:00:55,775 I'd have laughed. 12 00:00:55,817 --> 00:00:57,858 Thank god I did. 13 00:00:57,900 --> 00:01:00,150 I'd been off into the world. 14 00:01:00,191 --> 00:01:02,775 I have become more open to myself. 15 00:01:05,650 --> 00:01:09,525 Watch your step. ♪ Feeling change in the wind ♪ 16 00:01:09,567 --> 00:01:13,232 ♪ Golden fields, tall grass ♪ 17 00:01:13,274 --> 00:01:18,274 ♪ Find the sun here ♪ 18 00:01:19,149 --> 00:01:19,858 Watch out for the wall. 19 00:01:19,900 --> 00:01:21,399 Right here, Miss Birdsall? 20 00:01:21,441 --> 00:01:22,733 Yeah, right there in the middle. 21 00:01:22,775 --> 00:01:23,608 Okay. 22 00:01:25,650 --> 00:01:27,650 Have I transformed? 23 00:01:27,692 --> 00:01:28,858 Not really. 24 00:01:28,900 --> 00:01:32,108 I carry too much of my past with me. 25 00:01:32,149 --> 00:01:34,608 Am I free to be who I am? 26 00:01:34,650 --> 00:01:35,858 Yes. 27 00:01:35,900 --> 00:01:37,566 And with that, 28 00:01:37,608 --> 00:01:42,149 perhaps transformation isn't the central issue after all. 29 00:01:43,149 --> 00:01:48,108 ♪ Reimagine living this time ♪ 30 00:01:51,442 --> 00:01:54,941 ♪ Looking back on where we've been ♪ 31 00:01:54,983 --> 00:01:59,650 ♪ We'll leave them all behind ♪ 32 00:01:59,692 --> 00:02:04,483 ♪ No one has a name for what we'll find ♪ 33 00:02:10,232 --> 00:02:11,650 You know, this is a transition thing 34 00:02:11,692 --> 00:02:14,190 for both of us, actually. 35 00:02:14,232 --> 00:02:14,941 Are you liking it there? 36 00:02:14,983 --> 00:02:17,858 Yes, it's beautiful here. 37 00:02:17,900 --> 00:02:19,566 It's really beautiful. 38 00:02:19,608 --> 00:02:21,441 I think this is a good move. 39 00:02:21,483 --> 00:02:22,816 If you need anything, 40 00:02:24,775 --> 00:02:26,441 let me know. 41 00:02:26,483 --> 00:02:29,775 Well, I really don't even think about that, you know. 42 00:02:29,817 --> 00:02:33,232 Between my age and my background. 43 00:02:33,274 --> 00:02:36,691 I'll be living alone the rest of my life, 44 00:02:36,733 --> 00:02:38,692 and that's okay, you know. 45 00:02:41,357 --> 00:02:42,900 That's, this is nice. 46 00:02:45,525 --> 00:02:47,274 I can learn to be me. 47 00:03:12,358 --> 00:03:13,358 Excuse me. 48 00:03:14,316 --> 00:03:14,942 Hi there. 49 00:03:16,733 --> 00:03:18,400 - Oh hi. - My name is Zoey, 50 00:03:18,442 --> 00:03:19,983 and I live right down here. 51 00:03:20,025 --> 00:03:22,566 I wonder if I could ask you for a favor. 52 00:03:22,608 --> 00:03:23,567 Uh, okay. 53 00:03:25,483 --> 00:03:26,691 What kind of favor? 54 00:03:26,733 --> 00:03:28,525 Well, I have this problem. 55 00:03:28,567 --> 00:03:31,483 I can't reach the top shelf of my kitchen cabinets. 56 00:03:31,525 --> 00:03:34,358 And for some reason, best known to himself, 57 00:03:34,400 --> 00:03:35,733 when my son comes over, 58 00:03:35,775 --> 00:03:37,691 he puts everything up there, 59 00:03:37,733 --> 00:03:39,316 and he doesn't seem to realize 60 00:03:39,358 --> 00:03:41,525 that they're empty for a reason. 61 00:03:41,567 --> 00:03:42,816 He's got a tall wife, 62 00:03:42,858 --> 00:03:45,733 and he seems to forget that he has a short mom. 63 00:03:45,775 --> 00:03:48,650 So I was wondering if you could reach some stuff for me. 64 00:03:48,692 --> 00:03:49,317 Please. 65 00:03:50,608 --> 00:03:52,900 Okay, I'm Kate, by the way. 66 00:03:52,942 --> 00:03:54,858 It's nice to meet you. 67 00:03:54,900 --> 00:03:56,900 And this is my partner Max. 68 00:03:56,942 --> 00:03:59,065 - My best friend. - Hi Max. 69 00:03:59,107 --> 00:04:01,065 Okay let's go down here. 70 00:04:01,107 --> 00:04:01,942 Okay. 71 00:04:03,817 --> 00:04:04,608 I gotta tell you, 72 00:04:04,650 --> 00:04:07,441 I really admire that you're tall. 73 00:04:07,483 --> 00:04:09,941 As a matter of fact, I envy your height. 74 00:04:09,982 --> 00:04:12,566 It's very challenging to be this short. 75 00:04:12,608 --> 00:04:14,900 Oh, I would think so. 76 00:04:14,942 --> 00:04:16,566 Absolutely. 77 00:04:16,608 --> 00:04:18,900 But I don't think I'm gonna grow at this point. 78 00:04:18,942 --> 00:04:20,982 - I think. - Oh probably not. 79 00:04:21,024 --> 00:04:22,858 This is a great place to live. 80 00:04:22,900 --> 00:04:24,816 I think you're gonna like it here. 81 00:04:24,858 --> 00:04:27,358 Everybody cares about everyone else. 82 00:04:27,400 --> 00:04:29,400 It's like we're living among old people, 83 00:04:29,442 --> 00:04:31,900 but we don't realize we're old. 84 00:04:31,942 --> 00:04:34,567 Who are all these old people? 85 00:04:36,858 --> 00:04:37,775 It's right over there. 86 00:04:37,817 --> 00:04:40,066 This cabinet on the top shelf. 87 00:04:42,066 --> 00:04:45,775 So didn't I see you at First Unitarian last week? 88 00:04:45,817 --> 00:04:47,650 No, I just moved in. 89 00:04:48,567 --> 00:04:50,650 Oh, where'd you come from? 90 00:04:50,692 --> 00:04:52,107 Laramie, Wyoming. 91 00:04:52,149 --> 00:04:53,608 Wow, Wyoming. 92 00:04:54,941 --> 00:04:56,858 Does everyone dress like that in Wyoming? 93 00:04:56,900 --> 00:04:58,858 No, most people wear jeans. 94 00:04:58,900 --> 00:05:01,608 Well, that's pretty unique, I'll say that. 95 00:05:01,650 --> 00:05:03,900 - Okay. - Thanks a lot, you know? 96 00:05:03,941 --> 00:05:05,065 I keep meaning to get a stool, 97 00:05:05,107 --> 00:05:06,691 and I keep forgetting. 98 00:05:06,733 --> 00:05:08,316 But now with neighbors like you, 99 00:05:08,358 --> 00:05:10,400 who needs a stool, right? 100 00:05:10,442 --> 00:05:12,900 Right, well, I'm glad to help. 101 00:05:12,941 --> 00:05:14,358 Well how about sticking around 102 00:05:14,400 --> 00:05:15,733 and having a cup of tea? 103 00:05:15,775 --> 00:05:18,024 - I have, I have... - Oh come on, come on come on. 104 00:05:18,066 --> 00:05:19,483 Just say yes. 105 00:05:19,525 --> 00:05:21,733 It's just a cup of tea, no commitment. 106 00:05:21,775 --> 00:05:23,566 Okay, yeah, sure. 107 00:05:23,608 --> 00:05:25,400 Okay, let me get some. 108 00:05:25,442 --> 00:05:27,483 How about some cheese and crackers with that? 109 00:05:27,525 --> 00:05:28,692 Oh, alright. 110 00:05:32,692 --> 00:05:33,940 Mm, now that I think of it, 111 00:05:33,982 --> 00:05:36,525 how about some wine instead? 112 00:05:37,650 --> 00:05:38,733 Sure, why not? 113 00:05:38,775 --> 00:05:41,150 You know, one of the good things about getting old 114 00:05:41,192 --> 00:05:44,358 is that we can drink whenever we want. 115 00:05:44,400 --> 00:05:46,150 We don't have to ask anyone's permissions. 116 00:05:46,192 --> 00:05:47,775 Oh that's plenty. 117 00:05:47,817 --> 00:05:48,858 Thank you. 118 00:05:50,608 --> 00:05:52,400 - Cheers. - Cheers. 119 00:05:56,982 --> 00:05:58,816 So did you come here alone, Kate? 120 00:05:58,858 --> 00:05:59,940 I did. 121 00:05:59,982 --> 00:06:02,858 My partner died four years ago. 122 00:06:02,899 --> 00:06:04,816 I'm really sorry to hear that. 123 00:06:04,858 --> 00:06:06,899 Well yeah, thanks. 124 00:06:08,066 --> 00:06:09,608 But you know, 125 00:06:09,650 --> 00:06:13,483 just in case you might be interested, 126 00:06:13,525 --> 00:06:15,024 I know a lot of single people. 127 00:06:15,066 --> 00:06:17,857 Oh, I don't need that. 128 00:06:17,899 --> 00:06:19,899 Thank you very much. 129 00:06:19,941 --> 00:06:21,733 Well, amen to that. 130 00:06:21,775 --> 00:06:23,191 Have some more wine, Kate. 131 00:06:23,233 --> 00:06:25,191 It's good for you. 132 00:06:27,899 --> 00:06:28,899 Cheers. 133 00:06:28,941 --> 00:06:32,065 Cheers. 134 00:06:39,941 --> 00:06:43,940 ♪ Riding 'round roads I know ♪ 135 00:06:43,982 --> 00:06:48,233 ♪ Feeling change in the wind ♪ 136 00:06:48,275 --> 00:06:52,650 ♪ Golden fields, tall grass ♪ 137 00:06:57,941 --> 00:07:01,191 I had become friends with Albert in fourth grade. 138 00:07:01,233 --> 00:07:02,483 He was my age, 139 00:07:02,525 --> 00:07:03,899 and lived in a brown brick house 140 00:07:03,941 --> 00:07:07,233 on the other end of the next block. 141 00:07:07,275 --> 00:07:09,483 This was the 1950s, 142 00:07:09,525 --> 00:07:12,899 a time when people didn't talk about their bodies. 143 00:07:12,941 --> 00:07:15,733 And my family certainly didn't. 144 00:07:17,150 --> 00:07:20,857 ♪ Imagine me, imagine you ♪ 145 00:07:28,233 --> 00:07:30,233 Hey Danny, here it is. 146 00:07:34,608 --> 00:07:35,857 Said you liked 'em. 147 00:07:35,899 --> 00:07:36,982 That's real neat. 148 00:07:37,024 --> 00:07:38,483 My uncle has one. 149 00:07:57,608 --> 00:08:00,108 ♪ Without your love ♪ 150 00:08:50,941 --> 00:08:51,774 Hey. 151 00:08:57,025 --> 00:08:58,567 What are you doing? 152 00:09:04,317 --> 00:09:06,150 Why did you take that? 153 00:09:13,983 --> 00:09:15,815 Think it's pretty? 154 00:09:15,857 --> 00:09:16,691 Mm-hmm. 155 00:09:20,025 --> 00:09:22,150 What do you like about it? 156 00:09:23,150 --> 00:09:25,732 I like the color, patterns. 157 00:09:29,025 --> 00:09:30,108 It's beautiful. 158 00:09:43,899 --> 00:09:47,066 That's why I like playing down here so much. 159 00:09:47,108 --> 00:09:48,192 There's more. 160 00:10:21,983 --> 00:10:22,816 It's okay. 161 00:10:31,150 --> 00:10:35,857 What's the name? 162 00:10:38,233 --> 00:10:41,108 Thank you for inviting me to this, Zoey. 163 00:10:41,150 --> 00:10:45,317 Any time, Kate. 164 00:11:01,275 --> 00:11:05,025 ♪ As I went down to the river to pray ♪ 165 00:11:05,067 --> 00:11:08,316 ♪ Studying about that good old way ♪ 166 00:11:08,358 --> 00:11:12,066 ♪ And who shall wear the starry crown ♪ 167 00:11:12,108 --> 00:11:16,150 ♪ Good lord, show me the way ♪ 168 00:11:16,192 --> 00:11:19,690 ♪ O sisters, let's go down ♪ 169 00:11:19,732 --> 00:11:23,400 ♪ Let's go down, come on down ♪ 170 00:11:23,442 --> 00:11:27,150 ♪ O sisters, let's go down ♪ 171 00:11:27,192 --> 00:11:32,025 ♪ Down to the river to pray ♪ 172 00:11:32,067 --> 00:11:35,774 ♪ As I went down to the river to pray ♪ 173 00:11:35,816 --> 00:11:39,732 ♪ Studying about that good old way ♪ 174 00:11:54,233 --> 00:11:55,900 Thanks for coming. 175 00:11:55,942 --> 00:11:58,108 - That was so nice. - Yeah. 176 00:11:58,150 --> 00:11:59,025 - Thank you. - That music 177 00:11:59,067 --> 00:11:59,941 was just wonderful. 178 00:11:59,983 --> 00:12:01,900 I saw Sue this morning. 179 00:12:01,942 --> 00:12:03,275 They're back from their trip. 180 00:12:03,317 --> 00:12:04,233 Oh, where'd they go this time? 181 00:12:04,275 --> 00:12:05,358 I forget. 182 00:12:05,400 --> 00:12:06,732 Montana, doesn't matter. 183 00:12:06,774 --> 00:12:09,150 I have to tell you something. 184 00:12:09,192 --> 00:12:12,900 Well, before they went on their trip, 185 00:12:12,942 --> 00:12:14,400 John and I got together, 186 00:12:14,442 --> 00:12:16,192 and we went hiking. 187 00:12:18,275 --> 00:12:20,066 It was wonderful. 188 00:12:20,108 --> 00:12:22,275 We had this fabulous trip, 189 00:12:23,607 --> 00:12:26,774 and we stopped at this perfect spot. 190 00:12:28,400 --> 00:12:32,233 And well, it proceeded and let me tell you, 191 00:12:32,275 --> 00:12:34,275 John has a lot of stamina. 192 00:12:36,108 --> 00:12:38,233 There we were, you know. 193 00:12:38,275 --> 00:12:40,316 Really going at it. 194 00:12:40,358 --> 00:12:41,565 Good grief, woman. 195 00:12:41,607 --> 00:12:43,066 Don't you know you're not supposed 196 00:12:43,108 --> 00:12:45,275 to put your paws on some other woman's husband? 197 00:12:45,317 --> 00:12:47,233 No, he's not married. 198 00:12:47,275 --> 00:12:49,400 Well, then have at it. 199 00:12:49,442 --> 00:12:51,900 You will, anyway. 200 00:12:51,942 --> 00:12:53,816 Oh, Andrea. 201 00:12:55,150 --> 00:12:56,316 Hi. 202 00:12:56,358 --> 00:12:57,316 - That was gorgeous. - Oh thank you. 203 00:12:57,358 --> 00:12:58,358 - Just gorgeous. - Thank you, 204 00:12:58,400 --> 00:12:59,858 thanks very much. 205 00:12:59,900 --> 00:13:01,358 We have some new people. 206 00:13:01,400 --> 00:13:03,275 Yeah, I thought I saw some new faces over here. 207 00:13:03,317 --> 00:13:04,440 Do you know Zoey? 208 00:13:04,482 --> 00:13:06,025 No, no, hi Zoey. 209 00:13:06,067 --> 00:13:07,108 Hi, nice to meet you. 210 00:13:07,150 --> 00:13:08,025 Nice to meet you, too. 211 00:13:08,067 --> 00:13:09,482 And this is Kate. 212 00:13:10,441 --> 00:13:11,565 Hi Kate. 213 00:13:11,607 --> 00:13:12,440 Hi Andrea. 214 00:13:12,482 --> 00:13:13,275 Nice to meet you. 215 00:13:13,317 --> 00:13:15,191 Oh, my pleasure. 216 00:13:15,233 --> 00:13:16,440 - Please stay, have a seat. - Come on, have a seat. 217 00:13:16,482 --> 00:13:18,191 - Join us. - Oh we want to see you. 218 00:13:18,233 --> 00:13:19,983 - Alright. - Have a seat, have a seat. 219 00:13:20,025 --> 00:13:21,025 Meet Kate. 220 00:13:21,067 --> 00:13:24,565 Your public wants you. 221 00:13:24,607 --> 00:13:25,900 Really nice evening, huh? 222 00:13:25,942 --> 00:13:27,108 Yeah, yeah, 223 00:13:27,150 --> 00:13:29,400 it's been a really great evening. 224 00:13:34,358 --> 00:13:36,649 So, I haven't seen you 225 00:13:36,691 --> 00:13:39,316 at one of our concerts before. 226 00:13:39,358 --> 00:13:42,358 Oh yeah, I just moved to Portland. 227 00:13:43,607 --> 00:13:45,358 You were great, by the way. 228 00:13:45,399 --> 00:13:46,482 Oh, thanks. 229 00:13:48,025 --> 00:13:49,482 Maybe you'd like to join us sometime. 230 00:13:49,524 --> 00:13:53,275 Oh no, I ruined my voice years ago. 231 00:13:53,317 --> 00:13:54,941 You don't want to hear me sing. 232 00:13:54,983 --> 00:13:58,275 Oh well, if you ever change your mind, 233 00:13:59,275 --> 00:14:00,524 come on over. 234 00:14:00,566 --> 00:14:01,942 Okay. 235 00:14:02,566 --> 00:14:05,150 So, I noticed you. 236 00:14:05,192 --> 00:14:08,358 I've been admiring your earrings and your necklace. 237 00:14:08,399 --> 00:14:09,275 It's very pretty. 238 00:14:09,317 --> 00:14:10,941 Thank you. 239 00:14:10,983 --> 00:14:14,066 I was afraid maybe I'd dressed too loud for the occasion. 240 00:14:14,108 --> 00:14:14,942 No, no. 241 00:14:15,900 --> 00:14:18,067 Anything goes around here. 242 00:14:19,025 --> 00:14:20,233 So, no problem. 243 00:14:21,358 --> 00:14:23,900 Have you lived in Portland long? 244 00:14:23,942 --> 00:14:25,399 Yeah, I have. 245 00:14:25,441 --> 00:14:28,191 How many years has it been now? 246 00:14:28,233 --> 00:14:29,357 42 years. 247 00:14:29,399 --> 00:14:30,399 Oh wow. 248 00:14:30,441 --> 00:14:31,357 Yeah. 249 00:14:31,399 --> 00:14:32,399 Almost a native. 250 00:14:37,275 --> 00:14:41,108 So what are those guys talking about? 251 00:14:41,150 --> 00:14:43,025 I really don't know them. 252 00:14:43,067 --> 00:14:44,275 You don't know them? 253 00:14:48,692 --> 00:14:52,440 - My favorite subject. - Yeah. 254 00:14:52,482 --> 00:14:53,983 They seem to be enjoying themselves. 255 00:14:54,025 --> 00:14:56,440 They do seem to be enjoying themselves. 256 00:14:56,482 --> 00:14:57,524 I am too. 257 00:14:58,482 --> 00:15:00,399 Oh yeah, me too. 258 00:15:00,441 --> 00:15:02,691 Feeling a little shy, though. 259 00:15:02,733 --> 00:15:05,108 Oh, yeah, me too. 260 00:15:10,441 --> 00:15:12,399 Is Lilly always that way? 261 00:15:12,441 --> 00:15:14,357 - Yeah. - Oh. 262 00:15:16,357 --> 00:15:18,108 When we met the other day, 263 00:15:18,150 --> 00:15:21,691 I thought to myself, what an interesting person. 264 00:15:21,733 --> 00:15:25,399 I'd really like to get to know her. 265 00:15:25,441 --> 00:15:27,191 Oh. 266 00:15:27,233 --> 00:15:30,566 Well, I don't know how interesting I am. 267 00:15:33,108 --> 00:15:37,233 So, Lilly told me you'd been in the Coast Guard. 268 00:15:37,275 --> 00:15:38,357 I was. 269 00:15:38,399 --> 00:15:40,399 - 21 years. - Wow. 270 00:15:40,441 --> 00:15:41,233 I was in the Army, too. 271 00:15:41,275 --> 00:15:44,440 But I liked the Coast Guard, better. 272 00:15:44,482 --> 00:15:46,233 Must have been interesting to be out there 273 00:15:46,275 --> 00:15:48,275 on a ship with all those guys. 274 00:15:48,316 --> 00:15:49,650 Ha, well. 275 00:15:50,733 --> 00:15:53,733 Most of my stations were on shore. 276 00:15:53,775 --> 00:15:56,440 So what brought you to Portland? 277 00:15:56,482 --> 00:15:58,440 Well, I wanted to be closer to my daughter. 278 00:15:58,482 --> 00:16:00,316 She's up in Olympia. 279 00:16:01,482 --> 00:16:02,274 I wanted to be able to see her 280 00:16:02,316 --> 00:16:04,150 more than once a year. 281 00:16:05,441 --> 00:16:09,274 I think I also wanted to be in a bigger place. 282 00:16:10,524 --> 00:16:12,274 So you're starting over. 283 00:16:12,316 --> 00:16:15,357 Yep, 68 years old. 284 00:16:15,399 --> 00:16:18,316 It took me a long time to get here. 285 00:16:22,608 --> 00:16:24,691 Oh gosh, after my divorce, 286 00:16:24,733 --> 00:16:26,608 I moved to Portland. 287 00:16:27,482 --> 00:16:29,816 And I worked as a librarian, 288 00:16:29,858 --> 00:16:32,315 for 15, maybe 20 years. 289 00:16:32,357 --> 00:16:34,315 And then I started my own business. 290 00:16:34,357 --> 00:16:35,524 And here I am. 291 00:16:37,108 --> 00:16:39,482 Well, it seems funny that we can 292 00:16:39,524 --> 00:16:42,608 sum up our lives in just a few sentences. 293 00:16:42,650 --> 00:16:44,025 Yeah. 294 00:16:44,067 --> 00:16:45,691 We all know that there's more to it than that, 295 00:16:45,733 --> 00:16:48,150 - but, yeah. - Yeah. 296 00:16:48,192 --> 00:16:50,566 We've lived long lives, Kate. 297 00:16:50,608 --> 00:16:51,441 Yep. 298 00:16:54,357 --> 00:16:56,399 This is a nice place you got here. 299 00:16:56,441 --> 00:16:57,315 Well thanks. 300 00:16:57,357 --> 00:16:59,191 Do you have it all to yourself? 301 00:16:59,232 --> 00:17:00,274 Yeah, I do. 302 00:17:01,150 --> 00:17:02,525 I don't have any roommates, 303 00:17:02,567 --> 00:17:04,483 and I don't have a boyfriend. 304 00:17:04,525 --> 00:17:07,357 Just some good girlfriends and my business. 305 00:17:07,399 --> 00:17:12,066 Yeah, sometimes relationships can get so complicated. 306 00:17:12,108 --> 00:17:13,315 You want to live life. 307 00:17:13,357 --> 00:17:15,691 I want to live life. 308 00:17:15,733 --> 00:17:18,399 Well, I hope you do. 309 00:17:20,733 --> 00:17:25,441 You're so cute. 310 00:17:25,483 --> 00:17:26,775 You're pretty cute yourself. 311 00:17:26,817 --> 00:17:30,274 Oh thanks. 312 00:17:47,232 --> 00:17:48,399 Hello? 313 00:17:48,441 --> 00:17:51,190 Oh hi, Kate, this is Andrea. 314 00:17:51,232 --> 00:17:52,691 Oh, Andrea. 315 00:17:52,733 --> 00:17:54,190 Good morning. 316 00:17:54,232 --> 00:17:55,691 Hi. 317 00:17:55,733 --> 00:17:58,525 I hope I didn't wake you up. 318 00:17:58,567 --> 00:17:59,775 Oh, no. I'm up. 319 00:18:01,942 --> 00:18:03,315 I was thinking about 320 00:18:03,357 --> 00:18:06,650 going shopping today for some clothes, 321 00:18:06,692 --> 00:18:09,608 and I wondered if you'd like to go with me. 322 00:18:09,650 --> 00:18:11,274 Oh, yeah, sure. 323 00:18:13,483 --> 00:18:15,691 Okay. 324 00:18:15,733 --> 00:18:16,650 I could get some things too. 325 00:18:16,692 --> 00:18:19,232 Well don't sound too excited. 326 00:18:19,274 --> 00:18:21,566 Oh no, I'd like to go with you. 327 00:18:21,608 --> 00:18:23,775 It sounds like fun. 328 00:18:23,817 --> 00:18:25,566 Well you get your breakfast, 329 00:18:25,608 --> 00:18:28,400 and I'll pick you up a little after noon. 330 00:18:28,442 --> 00:18:29,733 Okay, okay, bye. 331 00:18:31,650 --> 00:18:32,858 Bye. 332 00:18:44,232 --> 00:18:45,650 How do you think that works? 333 00:18:45,692 --> 00:18:47,900 It's nice, I like it. 334 00:18:47,942 --> 00:18:48,775 Alright. 335 00:18:50,942 --> 00:18:52,650 I liked it, too. 336 00:18:58,316 --> 00:19:00,274 Well here's one I think 337 00:19:00,316 --> 00:19:01,733 really delivers your message. 338 00:19:05,357 --> 00:19:07,608 Wow, classy and feminine. 339 00:19:29,692 --> 00:19:33,692 Well, I always thought clothes made the woman. 340 00:19:39,817 --> 00:19:42,274 Puberty can be tough. 341 00:19:42,316 --> 00:19:45,775 Getting the wrong puberty can be even worse. 342 00:19:47,400 --> 00:19:50,608 And if you don't have people around you who understand, 343 00:19:50,650 --> 00:19:52,483 it can be devastating. 344 00:20:00,442 --> 00:20:01,775 I made dinner. 345 00:20:02,692 --> 00:20:04,358 Looks nice. 346 00:20:12,274 --> 00:20:13,358 How is it? 347 00:20:13,400 --> 00:20:14,567 Really good. 348 00:20:15,733 --> 00:20:16,817 It's perfect. 349 00:20:19,692 --> 00:20:20,567 No, let me. 350 00:20:35,775 --> 00:20:36,775 Thank you. 351 00:21:27,900 --> 00:21:29,317 Are you okay? 352 00:21:30,817 --> 00:21:31,733 I'm fine. 353 00:21:37,149 --> 00:21:37,982 No. 354 00:21:38,817 --> 00:21:40,525 Something's wrong. 355 00:21:43,107 --> 00:21:44,358 Not really. 356 00:21:48,358 --> 00:21:48,982 Sorry. 357 00:21:53,941 --> 00:21:55,567 Give me some more. 358 00:22:24,525 --> 00:22:25,358 Al? 359 00:22:56,817 --> 00:22:57,608 Al. 360 00:23:00,567 --> 00:23:02,899 Your father's on his way home. 361 00:23:02,941 --> 00:23:05,899 So you two should get cleaned up. 362 00:23:40,899 --> 00:23:43,024 Why didn't you tell me? 363 00:23:43,066 --> 00:23:44,442 You're moving? 364 00:23:46,857 --> 00:23:49,441 My dad told me you're moving. 365 00:23:49,483 --> 00:23:51,192 Why didn't you tell me? 366 00:23:52,150 --> 00:23:54,150 I didn't know, either. 367 00:23:55,525 --> 00:23:58,941 Not until my mother told me like a week ago. 368 00:24:02,941 --> 00:24:05,692 But, my dad got a job in Indiana. 369 00:24:07,108 --> 00:24:08,941 So we have to go, too. 370 00:24:11,024 --> 00:24:12,066 I'm sorry. 371 00:24:16,108 --> 00:24:20,483 I'm never gonna have a friend like you again, am I? 372 00:24:35,899 --> 00:24:36,733 Listen. 373 00:24:40,733 --> 00:24:43,982 They're gonna tear the house down. 374 00:24:44,024 --> 00:24:45,067 So... 375 00:24:49,067 --> 00:24:51,774 Let's go downstairs one more time. 376 00:24:51,816 --> 00:24:54,650 Okay. 377 00:25:39,108 --> 00:25:40,732 Albert was leaving. 378 00:25:40,774 --> 00:25:44,025 His house was getting torn down for the freeway. 379 00:25:44,067 --> 00:25:48,025 Our secret haven was being taken away. 380 00:25:48,067 --> 00:25:49,732 It's just so unfair. 381 00:26:38,108 --> 00:26:42,067 ♪ I think myself a lucky man ♪ 382 00:26:54,108 --> 00:26:57,108 I never saw Albert again. 383 00:26:57,150 --> 00:26:59,400 And it would be more than 50 years 384 00:26:59,442 --> 00:27:01,108 before I told anyone 385 00:27:01,150 --> 00:27:03,275 about playing in his basement. 386 00:27:08,317 --> 00:27:10,191 Over the winter of 1983, 387 00:27:10,233 --> 00:27:12,941 I was an engineer in the Coast Guard. 388 00:27:12,983 --> 00:27:14,233 I was divorced, 389 00:27:14,275 --> 00:27:16,150 and my daughter Casey was nine, 390 00:27:16,192 --> 00:27:17,815 living with her mother. 391 00:27:17,857 --> 00:27:19,400 I was alone and lonely, 392 00:27:19,442 --> 00:27:20,774 and I had begun to dress 393 00:27:20,816 --> 00:27:22,441 in women's clothes in private 394 00:27:22,483 --> 00:27:24,150 to comfort myself. 395 00:28:57,858 --> 00:29:01,816 ♪ Happy birthday to you ♪ 396 00:29:01,858 --> 00:29:05,983 ♪ Happy birthday to you ♪ 397 00:29:06,025 --> 00:29:11,025 ♪ Happy birthday dear Andrea ♪ 398 00:29:12,150 --> 00:29:17,150 ♪ Happy birthday to you ♪ 399 00:29:18,275 --> 00:29:21,441 ♪ And many more ♪ 400 00:29:23,150 --> 00:29:25,025 Make a wish! 401 00:29:26,358 --> 00:29:28,858 Oh yes! 402 00:29:28,900 --> 00:29:30,191 Happy birthday! 403 00:29:30,233 --> 00:29:33,233 ♪ Father and child ♪ 404 00:29:33,275 --> 00:29:38,275 ♪ Holy infant so tender and mild ♪ 405 00:29:39,942 --> 00:29:44,942 ♪ Sleep in heavenly peace ♪ 406 00:29:45,482 --> 00:29:47,983 ♪ Sleep in heavenly ♪ 407 00:29:48,025 --> 00:29:49,316 When I met Linda, 408 00:29:49,358 --> 00:29:51,233 I saw that she liked her wine, 409 00:29:51,275 --> 00:29:53,275 but didn't think much about it. 410 00:29:53,317 --> 00:29:57,191 Her father and older brother were alcoholics. 411 00:29:57,233 --> 00:30:00,191 And Linda was okay with my cross-dressing. 412 00:30:00,233 --> 00:30:01,358 At least at first. 413 00:30:01,400 --> 00:30:03,316 How are the potatoes? 414 00:30:03,358 --> 00:30:05,150 - They're good. - Yeah? 415 00:30:05,192 --> 00:30:06,400 Just right. 416 00:30:06,441 --> 00:30:08,275 I made 'em the way you like 'em. 417 00:30:08,317 --> 00:30:11,191 She was jealous of the other woman. 418 00:30:11,233 --> 00:30:13,941 Even though that was me. 419 00:30:13,983 --> 00:30:16,482 Oh, you're probably really tired, huh? 420 00:30:16,524 --> 00:30:18,233 I don't really get that. 421 00:30:18,275 --> 00:30:21,316 When people are tired after traveling. 422 00:30:21,358 --> 00:30:23,607 All I did was sit on a train. 423 00:30:27,317 --> 00:30:31,316 Well, you must be looking forward to Christmas. 424 00:30:31,358 --> 00:30:32,275 Excited about it? 425 00:30:32,317 --> 00:30:33,399 Not really. 426 00:30:33,441 --> 00:30:36,440 I can't fit my presents in my suitcase. 427 00:30:36,482 --> 00:30:38,607 So I can't take them home. 428 00:30:40,275 --> 00:30:42,565 Well, maybe that's okay. 429 00:30:42,607 --> 00:30:45,150 Maybe they'll just be here for you 430 00:30:45,192 --> 00:30:47,650 when you come to visit. 431 00:30:47,692 --> 00:30:49,316 What do you mean? 432 00:30:49,358 --> 00:30:50,983 Well, we were thinking that 433 00:30:51,025 --> 00:30:52,150 if you had your own room 434 00:30:52,192 --> 00:30:53,482 and some of your own things, 435 00:30:53,524 --> 00:30:57,233 that maybe you'd feel more comfortable to come visit, 436 00:30:57,275 --> 00:30:59,358 maybe a little more often. 437 00:30:59,399 --> 00:31:00,358 Oh. 438 00:31:02,275 --> 00:31:03,607 You know, your father wanted to get you something 439 00:31:03,649 --> 00:31:05,399 really special, 440 00:31:05,441 --> 00:31:08,316 and we thought you'd like it. 441 00:31:08,357 --> 00:31:09,524 You know, when I was little, 442 00:31:09,566 --> 00:31:13,482 I was lucky to get a good job from my parents once a year, 443 00:31:13,524 --> 00:31:15,524 much less a new bicycle. 444 00:31:17,399 --> 00:31:19,317 You should be grateful. 445 00:31:23,399 --> 00:31:24,399 Casey. 446 00:31:26,233 --> 00:31:28,066 Oh, just let her cool down, Dan. 447 00:31:28,108 --> 00:31:31,942 She's just tired. 448 00:31:33,607 --> 00:31:36,233 What are you doing? 449 00:31:36,275 --> 00:31:38,357 You said yourself that divorce is hard on children. 450 00:31:38,399 --> 00:31:42,900 But she doesn't need to punish you for it. 451 00:31:42,942 --> 00:31:46,357 You just, you let me handle this, okay? 452 00:31:50,357 --> 00:31:54,524 ♪ Merry merry merry Christmas ♪ 453 00:31:55,441 --> 00:31:57,608 Casey, this is hard on both of us. 454 00:31:57,650 --> 00:32:00,608 Can we just try to not make it worse? 455 00:32:01,983 --> 00:32:03,566 I came here to see you, 456 00:32:03,608 --> 00:32:05,942 not your wino girlfriend! 457 00:32:38,775 --> 00:32:40,399 Fly like an eagle. 458 00:32:40,441 --> 00:32:42,108 Just like an eagle. 459 00:32:42,150 --> 00:32:44,566 What are you watching? 460 00:32:44,608 --> 00:32:47,357 Oh it's just this old cop show. 461 00:32:49,482 --> 00:32:50,482 I like these. 462 00:32:52,150 --> 00:32:53,150 Justice, loyal, and German soldiers. 463 00:32:53,192 --> 00:32:54,399 Any prisoner here is- 464 00:32:54,441 --> 00:32:56,066 - You want to watch something else? 465 00:32:56,108 --> 00:32:57,441 No, this is fine. 466 00:33:06,482 --> 00:33:07,608 Why'd you leave? 467 00:33:15,274 --> 00:33:16,108 Well, 468 00:33:18,692 --> 00:33:19,524 sweetie. 469 00:33:22,482 --> 00:33:23,650 Your mother and I, 470 00:33:23,692 --> 00:33:26,483 we decided that we would, 471 00:33:26,525 --> 00:33:29,232 well, it'd be better for you, 472 00:33:29,274 --> 00:33:31,191 and it'd be better for her, 473 00:33:31,232 --> 00:33:32,566 if you stayed. 474 00:33:32,608 --> 00:33:36,192 Well you know, your school, your friends. 475 00:33:40,192 --> 00:33:42,441 But why did you leave me? 476 00:33:45,150 --> 00:33:45,775 Sweetie, 477 00:33:48,733 --> 00:33:51,357 I wish it had been different. 478 00:33:56,191 --> 00:33:57,650 I don't know, hon. 479 00:33:59,525 --> 00:34:01,150 It's just, I'm sorry. 480 00:34:02,733 --> 00:34:04,483 I am Major Hoffman. 481 00:34:04,525 --> 00:34:06,357 Of the funeral staff. 482 00:34:06,399 --> 00:34:07,608 Oh you are? 483 00:34:07,650 --> 00:34:10,525 And why didn't you bring your funeral with you? 484 00:34:14,232 --> 00:34:15,525 Were my relationships difficult 485 00:34:15,567 --> 00:34:18,190 because I didn't know who I was? 486 00:34:18,232 --> 00:34:20,067 Couldn't be who I was. 487 00:34:21,232 --> 00:34:24,190 Or did I just not know how to love another? 488 00:34:24,232 --> 00:34:27,399 When I didn't know how to love myself. 489 00:34:29,525 --> 00:34:32,232 It was fun spending time with your friends. 490 00:34:32,274 --> 00:34:33,566 Thanks for including me. 491 00:34:33,608 --> 00:34:34,691 Oh, you're welcome. 492 00:34:34,733 --> 00:34:36,357 I'm glad you could come over. 493 00:34:36,399 --> 00:34:37,274 They're fun. 494 00:34:37,316 --> 00:34:38,733 Yeah, they are. 495 00:34:42,692 --> 00:34:44,608 So this is on me. 496 00:34:44,650 --> 00:34:45,691 - Yeah? - Yeah. 497 00:34:45,733 --> 00:34:47,232 You don't have to do that. 498 00:34:47,274 --> 00:34:48,525 I want to. 499 00:34:48,567 --> 00:34:51,232 Okay, well I'll get the next time. 500 00:34:51,274 --> 00:34:51,942 Okay. 501 00:34:54,274 --> 00:34:57,274 So what sounds good to you? 502 00:34:57,316 --> 00:35:01,108 If I get the dead guy wings, will you share with me? 503 00:35:01,149 --> 00:35:02,650 No. 504 00:35:02,692 --> 00:35:04,733 No, that's entirely too messy. 505 00:35:04,775 --> 00:35:06,400 Oh, yeah. 506 00:35:06,442 --> 00:35:07,566 You could get 'em. 507 00:35:07,608 --> 00:35:10,232 Yeah, but you're probably right. 508 00:35:10,274 --> 00:35:11,692 Maybe I'll get the, 509 00:35:12,983 --> 00:35:14,775 well, I don't know. 510 00:35:19,399 --> 00:35:20,441 Casey's coming soon. 511 00:35:20,483 --> 00:35:23,650 I'd love for you to meet her. 512 00:35:23,692 --> 00:35:26,608 I would very much like to meet her, too. 513 00:35:26,650 --> 00:35:28,149 She sounds like a wonderful girl. 514 00:35:28,191 --> 00:35:29,608 Oh, I think so. 515 00:35:29,650 --> 00:35:31,733 I'm very lucky. 516 00:35:31,775 --> 00:35:34,900 Are you still in touch with Casey's... 517 00:35:40,692 --> 00:35:41,525 I... 518 00:35:45,191 --> 00:35:46,483 Not very often. 519 00:35:47,733 --> 00:35:51,232 They were with me through the tough times. 520 00:35:54,817 --> 00:35:56,191 We're friends. 521 00:35:57,442 --> 00:35:58,608 That's nice. 522 00:36:02,525 --> 00:36:05,650 So, since we're telling each other stories 523 00:36:05,692 --> 00:36:08,775 about our past relationships, 524 00:36:08,817 --> 00:36:11,858 I'll tell you about my first marriage. 525 00:36:11,900 --> 00:36:14,274 It was really quite awful. 526 00:36:18,733 --> 00:36:19,650 A couple years into it, 527 00:36:19,692 --> 00:36:21,358 I met another teacher, 528 00:36:21,400 --> 00:36:22,942 and we had an affair. 529 00:36:24,650 --> 00:36:25,941 Turned out to be seven of the nine years 530 00:36:25,983 --> 00:36:27,775 that I was married. 531 00:36:29,650 --> 00:36:30,691 When I was 29, 532 00:36:30,733 --> 00:36:33,650 I realized that I couldn't stay married to two guys 533 00:36:33,692 --> 00:36:35,692 for the rest of my life. 534 00:36:36,942 --> 00:36:41,650 And so, I divorced 'em both and moved to Oregon. 535 00:36:41,692 --> 00:36:43,442 Oh, good for you. 536 00:36:44,942 --> 00:36:47,316 Well, that was a long time ago. 537 00:36:47,358 --> 00:36:48,608 Yeah, it was. 538 00:36:50,817 --> 00:36:53,816 You know, I think we make 539 00:36:53,858 --> 00:36:56,358 the best decisions that we can at the time. 540 00:36:56,400 --> 00:36:57,691 Yeah. 541 00:36:57,733 --> 00:37:00,858 And they end up being our stories. 542 00:37:02,400 --> 00:37:03,691 And without them, 543 00:37:03,733 --> 00:37:06,483 we wouldn't be where we are now. 544 00:37:06,525 --> 00:37:07,692 That's true. 545 00:37:08,858 --> 00:37:11,733 I like where we are today. 546 00:37:12,942 --> 00:37:14,567 Yeah, I do too. 547 00:37:16,567 --> 00:37:19,400 I'll just get my keys. 548 00:37:19,442 --> 00:37:20,900 After we'd lived in Laramie 549 00:37:20,942 --> 00:37:22,775 for a couple of years, 550 00:37:22,817 --> 00:37:24,733 Linda got sick. 551 00:37:24,775 --> 00:37:26,858 Now, I'll be right back. 552 00:37:26,900 --> 00:37:30,900 The diagnosis was that it was terminal. 553 00:37:31,858 --> 00:37:34,441 Unless she could stop drinking. 554 00:37:34,483 --> 00:37:37,024 After several tries, she gave up, 555 00:37:37,066 --> 00:37:38,817 resigned to her fate. 556 00:37:51,775 --> 00:37:52,608 Oh... 557 00:38:01,817 --> 00:38:02,650 Where is it, where is it, 558 00:38:02,692 --> 00:38:04,024 where is it, where is it, where is it? 559 00:38:04,066 --> 00:38:08,608 God damn it! 560 00:38:09,858 --> 00:38:12,900 No no, no no, no no no no no no no, no no. 561 00:38:16,567 --> 00:38:18,024 Where is the opener? 562 00:38:18,982 --> 00:38:20,400 I threw it away. 563 00:38:20,442 --> 00:38:21,775 Well then I'll just push the cork down. 564 00:38:21,817 --> 00:38:22,816 I've done it plenty! 565 00:38:22,858 --> 00:38:24,858 That's pathetic! 566 00:38:24,900 --> 00:38:26,608 You're pathetic! 567 00:38:28,483 --> 00:38:31,733 What would Casey think if she knew about you? 568 00:38:31,775 --> 00:38:34,940 If she knew you liked to wear women's clothes! 569 00:38:34,982 --> 00:38:36,566 - You're killing yourself! - I bet she'd love 570 00:38:36,608 --> 00:38:37,775 to know that! 571 00:38:37,817 --> 00:38:40,858 Linda, you are killing yourself. 572 00:38:42,107 --> 00:38:42,941 You are. 573 00:39:45,192 --> 00:39:46,940 As she became sicker, 574 00:39:46,982 --> 00:39:50,525 I had to spend more and more time taking care of her. 575 00:39:50,567 --> 00:39:51,899 She resented that. 576 00:40:08,982 --> 00:40:09,899 Is it too hot? 577 00:40:09,941 --> 00:40:11,024 Well it's, a little bit. 578 00:40:11,066 --> 00:40:12,982 - It'll be okay. - Okay. 579 00:41:03,233 --> 00:41:04,233 Thank you. 580 00:41:15,692 --> 00:41:18,650 After Linda died in '07, 581 00:41:18,692 --> 00:41:21,774 I worked to put my life back together. 582 00:41:21,816 --> 00:41:23,940 She and I had been good together, 583 00:41:23,982 --> 00:41:28,857 but her decline had stretched me all too close to breaking. 584 00:41:28,899 --> 00:41:30,316 I blamed her and her drinking 585 00:41:30,358 --> 00:41:33,608 for the misery of the last few years. 586 00:41:33,650 --> 00:41:38,024 And I blamed myself for my inadequacies in helping her. 587 00:41:57,692 --> 00:41:59,899 Your succulents are fake. 588 00:42:08,150 --> 00:42:10,150 I'm sorry for your loss. 589 00:42:14,150 --> 00:42:17,316 I don't know what to say at these things. 590 00:42:17,358 --> 00:42:19,150 It's okay, Bruce. 591 00:42:22,650 --> 00:42:24,108 She was too young. 592 00:42:26,233 --> 00:42:28,899 But, you're gonna feel better. 593 00:42:31,941 --> 00:42:33,691 You're gonna be okay. 594 00:42:36,025 --> 00:42:38,191 Thank you, it's nice of you to say that. 595 00:42:38,233 --> 00:42:40,067 I needed to hear it. 596 00:42:44,067 --> 00:42:47,108 Oh, and thank you for all of your help today. 597 00:42:47,150 --> 00:42:49,650 And if you need anything else, you know, 598 00:42:49,691 --> 00:42:51,067 I'll do whatever. 599 00:42:52,067 --> 00:42:53,816 Right, thank you. 600 00:42:55,941 --> 00:42:57,400 Thanks for coming. 601 00:42:57,442 --> 00:42:58,608 Of course. 602 00:43:00,983 --> 00:43:01,816 Okay. 603 00:43:08,899 --> 00:43:10,191 Let us know if you need anything, okay? 604 00:43:10,233 --> 00:43:11,066 I will, thank you for coming. 605 00:43:11,108 --> 00:43:12,108 No problem. 606 00:43:12,150 --> 00:43:12,941 See you in church, okay? 607 00:43:12,983 --> 00:43:14,108 Okay, alright. 608 00:43:27,025 --> 00:43:28,108 Doing okay? 609 00:43:29,108 --> 00:43:30,108 Yeah. 610 00:43:35,317 --> 00:43:38,857 Did you at least get something to eat? 611 00:43:40,150 --> 00:43:42,108 I'm just glad it's over. 612 00:43:47,983 --> 00:43:49,066 Well, it was a beautiful service. 613 00:43:49,108 --> 00:43:51,233 You did a great job. 614 00:43:51,275 --> 00:43:52,067 Thank you. 615 00:43:54,816 --> 00:43:58,066 I'm glad you could come up for this. 616 00:43:58,108 --> 00:43:59,774 Me too. 617 00:43:59,816 --> 00:44:01,233 I wanted to be here. 618 00:44:04,317 --> 00:44:06,150 Is that your old bike? 619 00:44:08,983 --> 00:44:09,816 Yeah. 620 00:44:10,732 --> 00:44:12,191 Yeah. 621 00:44:12,233 --> 00:44:13,067 The... 622 00:44:14,983 --> 00:44:17,691 Brings back memories, doesn't it? 623 00:44:19,358 --> 00:44:21,857 Linda and I rode everywhere. 624 00:44:23,192 --> 00:44:25,275 That's how we found Laramie. 625 00:44:25,317 --> 00:44:26,150 We went out to the Rocky Mountains, 626 00:44:26,192 --> 00:44:29,858 and just started thinking of moving West. 627 00:44:32,275 --> 00:44:33,317 Dad. 628 00:44:36,317 --> 00:44:40,192 I'm sorry that Linda and I were never that close. 629 00:44:44,108 --> 00:44:46,316 Look, I know that was a difficult relationship 630 00:44:46,358 --> 00:44:47,691 for you both. 631 00:44:49,067 --> 00:44:51,316 I wanted to like her. 632 00:44:51,358 --> 00:44:53,441 I did, I just... 633 00:44:53,483 --> 00:44:55,317 It was a tough time. 634 00:44:58,566 --> 00:44:59,900 There is this. 635 00:45:00,774 --> 00:45:02,025 Well, I hate to even say this, 636 00:45:02,067 --> 00:45:03,358 but there's a small part of me 637 00:45:03,400 --> 00:45:05,233 that's relived that... 638 00:45:07,900 --> 00:45:10,025 I feel guilty for even thinking that. 639 00:45:10,067 --> 00:45:11,317 I mean, that's... 640 00:45:12,358 --> 00:45:13,358 That's bad, isn't it? 641 00:45:13,400 --> 00:45:14,233 No. 642 00:45:16,233 --> 00:45:18,358 You loved her so much. 643 00:45:18,400 --> 00:45:21,858 You took care of her for so long. 644 00:45:21,900 --> 00:45:24,400 Now it's time to live your life. 645 00:45:26,524 --> 00:45:28,983 Can I tell you something? 646 00:45:30,233 --> 00:45:32,858 I need to tell you something. 647 00:45:32,900 --> 00:45:34,192 Yeah, of course. 648 00:45:35,566 --> 00:45:40,025 I wish I had mentioned it a long time ago. 649 00:45:40,067 --> 00:45:40,900 Okay. 650 00:45:47,358 --> 00:45:51,233 I find comfort in wearing women's clothes. 651 00:46:09,233 --> 00:46:11,900 Some of this still doesn't make sense to me, 652 00:46:11,942 --> 00:46:14,275 but I've grown to accept it. 653 00:46:15,275 --> 00:46:18,150 Some things just don't make sense. 654 00:46:19,025 --> 00:46:19,858 Here. 655 00:46:35,150 --> 00:46:36,441 What do you think? 656 00:46:42,358 --> 00:46:43,400 Well, 657 00:46:45,441 --> 00:46:47,524 it's age appropriate. 658 00:46:53,317 --> 00:46:54,817 I suppose it is. 659 00:47:22,482 --> 00:47:23,317 I'm sorry. 660 00:47:24,192 --> 00:47:25,358 No, it's okay. 661 00:47:26,566 --> 00:47:28,358 I'm sorry, I'm sorry. 662 00:47:30,358 --> 00:47:31,399 Are you okay? 663 00:47:31,441 --> 00:47:33,108 I'm okay, I'm okay. 664 00:47:33,150 --> 00:47:34,565 - Okay. - Are you okay? 665 00:47:34,607 --> 00:47:36,317 Yeah, I will be. 666 00:47:37,399 --> 00:47:39,025 - Okay. - Alright. 667 00:47:41,275 --> 00:47:44,399 Come on, let's forget this. 668 00:47:44,441 --> 00:47:46,607 Okay, show me that bike. 669 00:48:05,233 --> 00:48:06,608 Hey Kate. 670 00:48:06,650 --> 00:48:07,942 Are you okay? 671 00:48:09,275 --> 00:48:10,399 Oh yeah. 672 00:48:10,441 --> 00:48:11,399 I'm fine. 673 00:48:11,441 --> 00:48:15,275 I just, I'm a little in my head this afternoon. 674 00:48:17,441 --> 00:48:21,150 Would you like me to let you go home to take a nap? 675 00:48:21,192 --> 00:48:22,025 Oh, no. 676 00:48:24,233 --> 00:48:27,733 No, no, I'm having a wonderful time. 677 00:48:27,775 --> 00:48:28,607 So am I. 678 00:48:29,733 --> 00:48:30,566 So am I. 679 00:48:35,482 --> 00:48:38,233 This is really, really pretty. 680 00:48:38,275 --> 00:48:40,233 It is a pretty place. 681 00:48:55,983 --> 00:48:57,440 Beautiful picture. 682 00:48:57,482 --> 00:48:59,108 Looks like Wyoming. 683 00:48:59,150 --> 00:49:00,357 It is. 684 00:49:00,399 --> 00:49:02,150 I love that painting. 685 00:49:15,150 --> 00:49:17,108 Great, appreciate it. 686 00:49:20,482 --> 00:49:21,733 It's nice to be here. 687 00:49:21,775 --> 00:49:24,399 Well, I'm glad you're here. 688 00:49:34,608 --> 00:49:36,066 This must be Casey. 689 00:49:36,108 --> 00:49:37,482 Yeah, that's her. 690 00:49:38,524 --> 00:49:39,567 Yeah... 691 00:49:40,482 --> 00:49:43,608 I loved her the moment she appeared. 692 00:49:45,482 --> 00:49:49,650 And I wasn't always there when she was crying out. 693 00:49:53,650 --> 00:49:56,692 I had a little growing up to do myself. 694 00:49:58,274 --> 00:50:00,315 Want to see my flutes? 695 00:50:04,650 --> 00:50:05,482 Yeah. 696 00:50:10,608 --> 00:50:12,192 That's beautiful. 697 00:50:46,525 --> 00:50:48,150 So that's what I was saying. 698 00:50:48,191 --> 00:50:51,525 What makes it unusual is that it's white oak, 699 00:50:51,567 --> 00:50:53,608 almost all the floors you see are red oak, 700 00:50:53,650 --> 00:50:56,566 and those are white, white oak. 701 00:50:59,692 --> 00:51:00,357 God, did I tell you about 702 00:51:00,399 --> 00:51:02,608 trying to permit my greenhouse? 703 00:51:02,650 --> 00:51:03,816 And you know what, that's invasive. 704 00:51:03,858 --> 00:51:06,232 You should tear that out. 705 00:51:06,274 --> 00:51:07,399 I don't know plants. 706 00:51:07,441 --> 00:51:08,816 Well, it shouldn't be there. 707 00:51:08,858 --> 00:51:10,399 It looks nice what you did with it, 708 00:51:10,441 --> 00:51:11,399 but it should go. 709 00:51:11,441 --> 00:51:14,190 So between the setbacks from the property line, 710 00:51:14,232 --> 00:51:16,483 and the minimum distance between buildings, 711 00:51:16,525 --> 00:51:19,441 I don't have a greenhouse big enough to do anything, 712 00:51:19,483 --> 00:51:21,232 and let alone, do all my research. 713 00:51:21,274 --> 00:51:22,608 But you know, 714 00:51:22,650 --> 00:51:23,733 well what the heck? 715 00:51:23,775 --> 00:51:25,650 Who are they to say? 716 00:51:25,692 --> 00:51:26,566 And the thing is, 717 00:51:26,608 --> 00:51:28,190 you don't even need a permit 718 00:51:28,232 --> 00:51:29,691 for an agricultural building out in the county. 719 00:51:29,733 --> 00:51:32,441 But in the city, you can't get an agricultural permit. 720 00:51:32,483 --> 00:51:34,441 - Hey Bruce, Bruce. - What? 721 00:51:34,483 --> 00:51:35,733 Bruce, can I, 722 00:51:36,692 --> 00:51:39,900 look, can I talk to you for a second? 723 00:51:39,942 --> 00:51:40,775 Yeah. 724 00:51:42,608 --> 00:51:46,608 I'd like to tell you something about myself. 725 00:51:47,733 --> 00:51:48,733 Okay. 726 00:51:52,692 --> 00:51:54,357 I'm transgender. 727 00:51:56,900 --> 00:51:59,232 What does that mean? 728 00:51:59,274 --> 00:51:59,817 Well, 729 00:52:01,442 --> 00:52:03,441 when I was little, 730 00:52:03,483 --> 00:52:05,316 I wanted to be a girl. 731 00:52:06,608 --> 00:52:08,608 But I didn't know how it worked. 732 00:52:08,650 --> 00:52:12,316 I just thought my body would heal itself. 733 00:52:13,608 --> 00:52:14,442 Shut up. 734 00:52:17,733 --> 00:52:21,900 I've dressed in women's clothes most of my life. 735 00:52:24,733 --> 00:52:27,900 I don't know how far I'll pursue this, 736 00:52:29,525 --> 00:52:33,357 but it's time for me to be more open about it. 737 00:53:10,733 --> 00:53:12,983 How much time do you think you have left? 738 00:53:13,025 --> 00:53:14,483 Maybe 30 years? 739 00:53:16,525 --> 00:53:18,441 - Well... - 20? 740 00:53:18,483 --> 00:53:20,358 Yeah, yeah I hope so. 741 00:53:21,817 --> 00:53:24,900 That's a long time to not be happy. 742 00:53:30,358 --> 00:53:31,733 - Yeah. - Right? 743 00:53:31,775 --> 00:53:33,274 I suppose it is. 744 00:53:35,817 --> 00:53:38,858 You're gonna stay though, right? 745 00:53:39,775 --> 00:53:42,275 You're not gonna move off somewhere. 746 00:53:42,317 --> 00:53:46,733 Yeah, I need my home, and my friends, my community. 747 00:53:49,066 --> 00:53:50,816 Okay, okay. 748 00:53:50,858 --> 00:53:53,525 Those will be imperative for me 749 00:53:53,567 --> 00:53:56,358 to feel like I can move forward. 750 00:53:56,400 --> 00:53:58,858 'Cause I got your back here. 751 00:54:01,942 --> 00:54:03,733 If you go off to... 752 00:54:05,775 --> 00:54:07,775 - Right. - San Francisco. 753 00:54:09,942 --> 00:54:11,775 I don't know. 754 00:54:11,817 --> 00:54:12,900 Thanks Bruce. 755 00:54:16,942 --> 00:54:17,941 You know, when you pull that out, 756 00:54:17,982 --> 00:54:20,400 you gotta get the roots, too. 757 00:54:20,442 --> 00:54:22,525 You gotta take it all the way down, 758 00:54:22,567 --> 00:54:23,566 and you gotta watch it, 759 00:54:23,608 --> 00:54:24,858 and if it comes back, 760 00:54:24,900 --> 00:54:27,358 you gotta pull every bit of it. 761 00:54:27,400 --> 00:54:29,941 Maybe you ought to burn it. 762 00:54:29,982 --> 00:54:31,733 - Okay. - I'll do it. 763 00:54:31,775 --> 00:54:33,858 - Okay. - I'll do it tonight. 764 00:54:33,900 --> 00:54:35,858 Do it, I'll go make more cookies right now. 765 00:54:38,900 --> 00:54:39,733 Alright. 766 00:54:42,692 --> 00:54:43,608 It seems like everyone 767 00:54:43,650 --> 00:54:47,441 has always wanted me to be something else. 768 00:54:47,483 --> 00:54:49,733 Even I have wanted it. 769 00:54:49,775 --> 00:54:53,066 But Andrea seems to want me to just be me. 770 00:54:56,483 --> 00:54:57,525 There's a bench over here. 771 00:54:57,567 --> 00:54:58,775 Do you mind if we sit down? 772 00:54:58,817 --> 00:55:00,733 No, that'd be fine. 773 00:55:11,692 --> 00:55:13,483 Beautiful here. 774 00:55:13,525 --> 00:55:15,442 Oh, it sure is, Kate. 775 00:55:29,817 --> 00:55:30,858 So, Kate. 776 00:55:41,442 --> 00:55:45,442 I have the sense you were born into a male body. 777 00:55:55,775 --> 00:55:57,525 Well, you're right. 778 00:56:02,400 --> 00:56:05,150 I thought of it as being out of register. 779 00:56:05,192 --> 00:56:09,899 You know, like when the colors of an image don't line up. 780 00:56:12,066 --> 00:56:14,899 Somehow, wearing women's clothes 781 00:56:17,192 --> 00:56:20,857 gave me a break from pretending to be a man. 782 00:56:26,567 --> 00:56:28,733 The pressure kept building 783 00:56:29,733 --> 00:56:30,857 to do something. 784 00:56:46,857 --> 00:56:50,024 When I was finally able to transition, 785 00:56:52,941 --> 00:56:53,941 it was just, 786 00:56:55,941 --> 00:56:56,941 amazing. 787 00:56:58,692 --> 00:57:00,108 It was so wonderful. 788 00:57:14,816 --> 00:57:16,650 I'm so proud of you. 789 00:57:21,483 --> 00:57:22,108 Bless you. 790 00:57:26,608 --> 00:57:28,442 You're just wonderful. 791 00:57:29,774 --> 00:57:30,608 Am I? 792 00:57:57,317 --> 00:58:01,941 Kate, you're such an interesting and complex person. 793 00:58:03,108 --> 00:58:03,982 Am I? 794 00:58:04,024 --> 00:58:05,567 Yeah, you are. 795 00:58:08,275 --> 00:58:12,191 It's funny, I was always so forgettable as this guy, 796 00:58:12,233 --> 00:58:15,150 but people seem to remember me now. 797 00:58:17,192 --> 00:58:18,982 You're wonderful. 798 00:58:20,025 --> 00:58:22,857 Well, I don't know about that. 799 00:58:23,982 --> 00:58:28,025 Well, I think you're wonderful. 800 00:58:28,067 --> 00:58:29,815 Thank you. 801 00:58:29,857 --> 00:58:34,025 There's something I've wanted to tell you today. 802 00:58:36,233 --> 00:58:38,691 You remember a couple weeks ago, 803 00:58:38,732 --> 00:58:41,774 we got to sit next to each other in church 804 00:58:41,816 --> 00:58:43,815 for the first time. 805 00:58:43,857 --> 00:58:46,774 ♪ Sing in my heart ♪ 806 00:58:48,025 --> 00:58:51,983 Well, we were singing "Spirit of Life," 807 00:58:52,025 --> 00:58:53,899 and at some point, 808 00:58:53,941 --> 00:58:58,233 your voice dropped into its natural baritone register. 809 00:58:59,650 --> 00:59:04,108 ♪ Lies in the sea ♪ 810 00:59:04,150 --> 00:59:08,899 ♪ Move in the hand ♪ 811 00:59:08,941 --> 00:59:13,941 ♪ Giving life the shape of justice ♪ 812 00:59:14,899 --> 00:59:19,899 ♪ Truth hold me close ♪ 813 00:59:20,650 --> 00:59:23,067 ♪ Grace, set me free ♪ 814 00:59:26,150 --> 00:59:30,025 I literally felt my heart crack open. 815 00:59:30,067 --> 00:59:32,815 It was a physical sensation. 816 00:59:32,857 --> 00:59:36,067 And I looked at you and I said to myself, 817 00:59:38,691 --> 00:59:42,608 "You have just fallen in love with this woman." 818 00:59:45,732 --> 00:59:46,983 Really? 819 00:59:47,025 --> 00:59:50,608 Yeah, really. 820 00:59:53,649 --> 00:59:56,066 But you've always been with men. 821 00:59:56,108 --> 00:59:56,942 I know. 822 00:59:58,983 --> 01:00:02,108 I know. I've been married to two men. 823 01:00:04,067 --> 01:00:06,774 But now I find that I have fallen in love 824 01:00:06,816 --> 01:00:08,942 with a transgender woman. 825 01:00:11,108 --> 01:00:13,191 I think I've scared you. 826 01:00:13,233 --> 01:00:15,025 Well, well, I, I, 827 01:00:16,233 --> 01:00:18,316 I didn't expect this, Andrea. 828 01:00:18,358 --> 01:00:20,108 Well, Kate, I didn't expect it either, 829 01:00:20,150 --> 01:00:21,691 but here we are. 830 01:00:23,816 --> 01:00:26,815 Let's just see where this goes. 831 01:00:26,857 --> 01:00:28,108 Oh, okay, okay. 832 01:00:33,857 --> 01:00:36,400 You don't need to say anything. 833 01:00:40,108 --> 01:00:41,358 Take care. 834 01:00:41,400 --> 01:00:42,275 I love you. 835 01:00:47,108 --> 01:00:48,108 Ah. 836 01:00:51,691 --> 01:00:53,816 See if my knees will work. 837 01:00:57,233 --> 01:00:59,316 It's easy to love Andrea. 838 01:00:59,358 --> 01:01:03,150 She's just so smart and kind and confident. 839 01:01:03,192 --> 01:01:07,150 It's harder to accept that she loves me. 840 01:01:07,192 --> 01:01:09,025 But I need to be free. 841 01:01:10,317 --> 01:01:13,108 Do I dare to try to love someone, 842 01:01:13,150 --> 01:01:15,900 to make space for her to love me? 843 01:01:23,275 --> 01:01:26,233 Oh gosh, what's, what's up? 844 01:01:29,858 --> 01:01:30,691 Uh oh. 845 01:01:32,858 --> 01:01:33,691 Hello? 846 01:01:34,942 --> 01:01:37,316 Oh hi Zoey, it's Andrea. 847 01:01:37,358 --> 01:01:39,358 Andrea, hi, what's up? 848 01:01:40,358 --> 01:01:42,983 Well, it's about Kate. 849 01:01:43,025 --> 01:01:43,858 Kate? 850 01:01:45,025 --> 01:01:46,275 What happened to Kate, what's wrong? 851 01:01:46,317 --> 01:01:48,400 She's fine, she's fine. 852 01:01:53,275 --> 01:01:57,150 It's just that I told her tonight that I love her. 853 01:01:57,192 --> 01:02:00,025 So wow, do you love her? 854 01:02:00,067 --> 01:02:01,108 Yeah, I do. 855 01:02:03,524 --> 01:02:04,858 Well, that's cool. 856 01:02:04,900 --> 01:02:07,066 So what's the problem? 857 01:02:07,108 --> 01:02:10,316 Well, I'm not supposed to fall in love with a woman. 858 01:02:10,358 --> 01:02:12,900 Oh baloney, come on. 859 01:02:12,942 --> 01:02:13,858 Man, woman. 860 01:02:14,942 --> 01:02:16,358 You know, it doesn't really matter. 861 01:02:16,400 --> 01:02:18,150 The big gift is love. 862 01:02:18,192 --> 01:02:20,732 You find love, you gotta go for it. 863 01:02:23,358 --> 01:02:24,442 Oh my gosh. 864 01:02:27,108 --> 01:02:28,400 But what if I scared her? 865 01:02:28,442 --> 01:02:29,400 Really? 866 01:02:29,442 --> 01:02:31,275 Kate's been in the Army, 867 01:02:31,317 --> 01:02:32,441 she's been in the Coast Guard. 868 01:02:32,482 --> 01:02:34,565 I doubt that she scares so easily. 869 01:02:37,400 --> 01:02:39,858 Well, she sure didn't say anything back. 870 01:02:39,900 --> 01:02:42,400 I think she just didn't know what to say. 871 01:02:42,442 --> 01:02:45,400 She didn't know what to do with that. 872 01:02:45,442 --> 01:02:48,316 Well, you know she's more reserved. 873 01:02:48,358 --> 01:02:52,025 But I think she's got the hots for you. 874 01:02:52,067 --> 01:02:54,108 Do you think so? 875 01:02:54,150 --> 01:02:55,358 It's obvious. 876 01:02:55,400 --> 01:02:58,316 You'd have to be blind not to notice it. 877 01:02:58,358 --> 01:02:59,150 Wow. 878 01:03:00,233 --> 01:03:05,066 Well, it's sure taken my by surprise. 879 01:03:05,108 --> 01:03:06,316 Well, we gave you some space. 880 01:03:06,358 --> 01:03:08,440 The rest is up to you. 881 01:03:08,482 --> 01:03:10,565 I should let you go to sleep. 882 01:03:10,607 --> 01:03:13,317 I think, I think I'll be fine, 883 01:03:14,482 --> 01:03:16,275 and I think that I'll get a good night's sleep, 884 01:03:16,317 --> 01:03:17,317 and I think, 885 01:03:18,942 --> 01:03:20,317 I think I love her. 886 01:03:21,649 --> 01:03:23,440 No worries. 887 01:03:23,482 --> 01:03:25,900 I got a really good feeling about this, 888 01:03:25,942 --> 01:03:28,816 so just want you to know that. 889 01:03:28,858 --> 01:03:30,358 Goodnight, dear. 890 01:03:49,983 --> 01:03:52,441 Now what, Max? These people... 891 01:03:54,524 --> 01:03:56,358 Hello? 892 01:03:56,399 --> 01:03:58,399 Hey Zoey, it's Kate. 893 01:03:58,441 --> 01:04:00,858 Ah Kate, what's up? 894 01:04:00,900 --> 01:04:03,316 I didn't wake you up, did I? 895 01:04:03,358 --> 01:04:04,399 Wake me? 896 01:04:04,441 --> 01:04:05,316 Nah, I was just reading, 897 01:04:05,358 --> 01:04:07,607 like I always do in the middle of the night. 898 01:04:07,649 --> 01:04:09,025 Oh, oh good. 899 01:04:10,441 --> 01:04:12,150 Well, it's Andrea. 900 01:04:13,150 --> 01:04:14,066 What about Andrea? 901 01:04:14,108 --> 01:04:15,900 Is something wrong? 902 01:04:15,942 --> 01:04:18,358 Oh, everything's fantastic. 903 01:04:19,358 --> 01:04:22,317 She told me she loved me tonight. 904 01:04:23,524 --> 01:04:24,357 Oh wow. 905 01:04:26,025 --> 01:04:27,150 That's cool. 906 01:04:27,192 --> 01:04:28,440 So what'd you do? 907 01:04:28,482 --> 01:04:30,900 Well I didn't know what to say. 908 01:04:30,942 --> 01:04:33,357 I was just, I was floored. 909 01:04:33,399 --> 01:04:34,399 I mean, it was, 910 01:04:35,983 --> 01:04:39,067 I didn't know that was a possibility. 911 01:04:41,692 --> 01:04:43,316 Well, you know, 912 01:04:43,357 --> 01:04:46,440 I hope I didn't screw anything up. 913 01:04:46,482 --> 01:04:49,191 Oh, I'm sure you didn't screw up. 914 01:04:49,233 --> 01:04:50,524 Andrea's a smart cookie. 915 01:04:50,566 --> 01:04:52,357 She'll get it. 916 01:04:52,399 --> 01:04:53,399 Yeah, well I, 917 01:04:55,566 --> 01:04:56,941 I'm a woman now. 918 01:04:56,983 --> 01:04:59,357 I thought I'd fall in love with a man, 919 01:04:59,399 --> 01:05:01,067 but here's Andrea. 920 01:05:01,942 --> 01:05:03,608 She's wonderful. 921 01:05:03,650 --> 01:05:06,357 You know, as you always tell me, 922 01:05:06,399 --> 01:05:08,191 what's so great about men? 923 01:05:08,233 --> 01:05:09,315 Yeah. 924 01:05:09,357 --> 01:05:11,233 But, just so you know, 925 01:05:11,275 --> 01:05:12,650 I have a really good feeling about this. 926 01:05:12,692 --> 01:05:14,399 I want you to know that. 927 01:05:14,441 --> 01:05:16,942 Oh, oh thank you. I hope so. 928 01:05:17,733 --> 01:05:20,066 So can I go back to sleep now? 929 01:05:20,108 --> 01:05:21,441 Oh, okay Zoey. 930 01:05:22,441 --> 01:05:23,482 Thanks. 931 01:05:24,441 --> 01:05:25,399 Relax. 932 01:05:25,441 --> 01:05:26,441 Bye. 933 01:05:28,733 --> 01:05:29,608 Geeze, Max. 934 01:05:30,482 --> 01:05:33,566 Really, these people, they're nuts. 935 01:05:33,608 --> 01:05:35,566 Not like my dog. 936 01:05:35,608 --> 01:05:37,316 You're a wise boy. 937 01:06:08,608 --> 01:06:10,691 These are for you, mom. 938 01:06:10,733 --> 01:06:13,482 I know you don't like flowers, dad. 939 01:06:13,524 --> 01:06:15,441 I didn't bring you any. 940 01:06:19,067 --> 01:06:20,983 The trees have grown a lot 941 01:06:21,025 --> 01:06:22,650 since I was here last. 942 01:06:25,692 --> 01:06:27,233 I didn't really want to come by. 943 01:06:27,274 --> 01:06:28,733 Not because, well... 944 01:06:32,482 --> 01:06:33,440 If you could see me, 945 01:06:33,482 --> 01:06:36,232 you would see things are 946 01:06:36,274 --> 01:06:37,650 a little different. 947 01:06:43,482 --> 01:06:45,108 When I was young, 948 01:06:46,482 --> 01:06:48,482 you told me I was a boy. 949 01:06:49,650 --> 01:06:52,650 Though I didn't doubt that I was male, 950 01:06:52,692 --> 01:06:54,692 I could see that, but... 951 01:06:58,567 --> 01:07:00,608 Somehow I knew that I should be a girl. 952 01:07:00,650 --> 01:07:03,482 That I would be happier as a girl. 953 01:07:05,108 --> 01:07:08,525 That I would fit into the world better as a girl. 954 01:07:12,067 --> 01:07:15,482 I didn't know how bodies worked, of course. 955 01:07:18,567 --> 01:07:20,232 I remember when I was little, 956 01:07:20,274 --> 01:07:24,399 being always so hopeful each night when I went to bed. 957 01:07:27,316 --> 01:07:29,108 Before falling asleep, I would just, 958 01:07:29,150 --> 01:07:31,525 I would think, well, perhaps tonight is the night 959 01:07:31,567 --> 01:07:34,650 when this extra stuff just falls off. 960 01:07:38,567 --> 01:07:43,567 Like how a scab falls off when the skin underneath heals. 961 01:07:44,733 --> 01:07:47,567 Well then everyone would see that I'm a girl. 962 01:07:51,608 --> 01:07:54,691 But I want to tell you both now that, 963 01:07:54,733 --> 01:07:57,274 I've finally figured it out. 964 01:07:58,567 --> 01:08:00,149 I'm just sorry that 965 01:08:01,316 --> 01:08:03,441 I wasn't able to get it all together 966 01:08:03,483 --> 01:08:05,483 soon enough to show you. 967 01:08:07,608 --> 01:08:08,566 'Cause I think your reaction would be, 968 01:08:08,608 --> 01:08:11,775 "Well, now it all makes sense." 969 01:08:19,733 --> 01:08:22,858 I just want you to know that 970 01:08:22,900 --> 01:08:26,608 your troubled and troublesome third child, 971 01:08:27,567 --> 01:08:30,858 who could never really quite find himself, 972 01:08:30,900 --> 01:08:31,733 well, 973 01:08:33,608 --> 01:08:35,858 she has turned out alright. 974 01:08:54,692 --> 01:08:56,733 So I was finally done. 975 01:08:56,775 --> 01:09:00,691 I didn't know if this day would ever come. 976 01:09:00,733 --> 01:09:04,442 I was ready to move on to my life as Kate. 977 01:11:24,941 --> 01:11:26,816 Sometimes it's easier if I act 978 01:11:26,858 --> 01:11:28,775 as if you'd never been. 979 01:11:30,483 --> 01:11:33,775 But I wouldn't have gotten here without you, Danny. 980 01:11:33,817 --> 01:11:34,692 I love you. 981 01:11:40,817 --> 01:11:42,982 Are you feeling okay? 982 01:11:43,024 --> 01:11:44,400 Yeah. 983 01:11:44,442 --> 01:11:45,816 I feel pretty good, actually. 984 01:11:45,858 --> 01:11:48,940 - Yeah? - All things considered. 985 01:11:48,982 --> 01:11:51,900 I even took a few steps around the room, 986 01:11:51,941 --> 01:11:52,982 and that's... 987 01:11:54,817 --> 01:11:55,941 That's good. 988 01:11:57,525 --> 01:11:59,900 Well, Dr. Bauer said that she did a great job, 989 01:11:59,941 --> 01:12:02,816 and that the surgery was a success. 990 01:12:02,858 --> 01:12:04,400 Yeah. 991 01:12:04,442 --> 01:12:07,858 - Yeah, she told me that too. - That's good. 992 01:12:09,858 --> 01:12:12,692 Casey, I know this is hard on you. 993 01:12:15,817 --> 01:12:18,400 But I'll always be your father. 994 01:12:25,024 --> 01:12:25,858 You know, 995 01:12:28,817 --> 01:12:30,358 a few months ago, 996 01:12:30,400 --> 01:12:32,566 I went to visit my friends down in the South, 997 01:12:32,608 --> 01:12:34,941 and it was just so wonderful 998 01:12:36,692 --> 01:12:39,567 to walk down the street as a woman. 999 01:12:41,442 --> 01:12:42,899 No hiding, no shame. 1000 01:12:48,066 --> 01:12:50,525 Sometimes a man would open, 1001 01:12:50,567 --> 01:12:52,733 hold the door open for me. 1002 01:12:54,941 --> 01:12:58,733 And it felt real nice to be treated as a lady. 1003 01:13:02,066 --> 01:13:04,857 People have been so kind to me. 1004 01:13:06,066 --> 01:13:10,899 And I know, I know that not everyone's journey is like mine. 1005 01:13:14,107 --> 01:13:16,441 But it just seems like 1006 01:13:16,483 --> 01:13:19,400 this secret that I held so tightly, 1007 01:13:21,692 --> 01:13:23,775 hid so well for 65 years, 1008 01:13:27,483 --> 01:13:29,150 was far more interesting to me 1009 01:13:29,192 --> 01:13:30,857 than to anyone else. 1010 01:13:39,608 --> 01:13:42,066 It's been two years since I got to be Kate. 1011 01:13:42,108 --> 01:13:46,525 It's been wonderful, beyond my wildest dreams. 1012 01:13:46,567 --> 01:13:48,192 Andrea sure is a gift. 1013 01:13:49,608 --> 01:13:50,899 Maybe certain people come into our lives 1014 01:13:50,941 --> 01:13:53,024 to help us be who we are, 1015 01:13:54,233 --> 01:13:57,692 and to help us get to be who we can be. 1016 01:14:43,982 --> 01:14:46,774 You're beautiful, Kate. 1017 01:14:46,816 --> 01:14:48,816 I'm glad you think so. 1018 01:14:51,982 --> 01:14:56,275 I wish you could see yourself as beautiful. 1019 01:14:56,317 --> 01:14:57,192 I'll try. 1020 01:14:59,024 --> 01:15:00,983 You say it. 1021 01:15:01,025 --> 01:15:02,192 I'm beautiful? 1022 01:15:06,732 --> 01:15:08,941 Say it like you mean it. 1023 01:15:11,608 --> 01:15:12,941 I'm beautiful. 1024 01:15:14,067 --> 01:15:15,941 You are beautiful. 1025 01:15:17,067 --> 01:15:19,815 I don't think you would've 1026 01:15:19,857 --> 01:15:21,857 gone through all of this 1027 01:15:23,025 --> 01:15:26,108 if you didn't think you were beautiful. 1028 01:15:27,108 --> 01:15:27,941 Well, 1029 01:15:30,941 --> 01:15:33,983 it became more a matter of survival. 1030 01:15:34,025 --> 01:15:36,940 I didn't know how much longer I'd make it as, 1031 01:15:36,982 --> 01:15:38,525 what's his name. 1032 01:15:40,691 --> 01:15:43,567 I like you just as you are, Kate. 1033 01:15:47,067 --> 01:15:49,608 Well, I sure didn't expect this. 1034 01:15:49,650 --> 01:15:52,567 Oh, I didn't expect this, either. 1035 01:16:04,233 --> 01:16:07,192 You want to take your jacket off? 1036 01:16:23,442 --> 01:16:26,192 I haven't done this in a while. 1037 01:16:27,233 --> 01:16:28,983 I haven't either. 1038 01:16:30,358 --> 01:16:33,400 You might have questions. 1039 01:16:33,442 --> 01:16:35,608 Whatever is just fine. 1040 01:16:57,067 --> 01:16:58,108 Stuck. 1041 01:17:02,317 --> 01:17:04,025 You have a tattoo. 1042 01:17:23,275 --> 01:17:24,358 Come with me. 1043 01:17:50,067 --> 01:17:54,025 I'm not that heavy. 1044 01:17:59,358 --> 01:18:00,317 Here I come. 1045 01:19:02,275 --> 01:19:03,275 Hi Kate. 1046 01:19:03,317 --> 01:19:04,900 Hi Andrea. 1047 01:19:04,942 --> 01:19:06,816 I have a Yoga class first thing Monday morning, 1048 01:19:06,858 --> 01:19:08,233 so I just took off. 1049 01:19:09,566 --> 01:19:12,025 Oh, I had wondered where you'd gone. 1050 01:19:12,067 --> 01:19:14,358 Yeah, I'm sorry to worry you. 1051 01:19:14,400 --> 01:19:15,900 Oh, that's okay. 1052 01:19:18,400 --> 01:19:19,983 Would you like to come in? 1053 01:19:20,025 --> 01:19:21,400 Oh, no thanks. 1054 01:19:21,442 --> 01:19:24,275 I can only stay for just a second. 1055 01:19:26,067 --> 01:19:27,191 Everything okay? 1056 01:19:27,233 --> 01:19:28,275 Well... 1057 01:19:31,858 --> 01:19:33,275 Yeah, I guess so. 1058 01:19:35,150 --> 01:19:38,983 But, would you be okay if we took a break here 1059 01:19:39,942 --> 01:19:41,358 for a little bit? 1060 01:19:45,983 --> 01:19:48,191 What kind of break? 1061 01:19:48,233 --> 01:19:50,192 Well, I don't know. 1062 01:19:52,482 --> 01:19:56,316 One of my brothers is in town for a little while, 1063 01:19:56,358 --> 01:20:00,317 so I'd like to at least wait until he's gone, and, 1064 01:20:01,983 --> 01:20:03,482 see how I'm feeling. 1065 01:20:04,317 --> 01:20:06,025 Okay. 1066 01:20:06,067 --> 01:20:07,067 I'm sorry. 1067 01:20:08,108 --> 01:20:09,108 It's okay. 1068 01:20:11,317 --> 01:20:12,317 I'm sorry. 1069 01:20:13,317 --> 01:20:15,192 I'll be in touch, okay? 1070 01:20:22,399 --> 01:20:25,150 Actually, that's not it at all. 1071 01:20:29,108 --> 01:20:31,275 I'm struggling here, Kate. 1072 01:20:37,441 --> 01:20:42,441 I'm not supposed to have fallen in love with a woman. 1073 01:20:43,067 --> 01:20:43,482 But I have. 1074 01:20:47,900 --> 01:20:50,983 And I'm not sure what to do about it. 1075 01:20:54,108 --> 01:20:57,358 I need some time to sit with that, and, 1076 01:20:59,275 --> 01:21:00,067 I'm sorry. 1077 01:21:04,399 --> 01:21:05,399 It's okay. 1078 01:21:09,441 --> 01:21:10,941 Thank you. 1079 01:21:10,983 --> 01:21:12,524 I will be in touch. 1080 01:21:12,566 --> 01:21:14,524 I'll call you. 1081 01:21:14,566 --> 01:21:16,317 - Okay. - Okay, bye. 1082 01:21:39,067 --> 01:21:40,524 Hello, this is Andrea. 1083 01:21:40,566 --> 01:21:42,191 Please leave a message, 1084 01:21:42,233 --> 01:21:43,025 - and I will call you back. - Andrea opened 1085 01:21:43,067 --> 01:21:44,524 the door to love. 1086 01:21:44,566 --> 01:21:48,565 Loving me has to be way outside her comfort zone. 1087 01:21:48,607 --> 01:21:50,399 But whatever happens, 1088 01:21:50,441 --> 01:21:51,650 it was really wonderful 1089 01:21:51,692 --> 01:21:53,399 to have that little glimpse 1090 01:21:53,441 --> 01:21:57,357 of the sweet, powerful love that she offered. 1091 01:22:17,524 --> 01:22:20,524 Oh Katie, where did you come from? 1092 01:22:23,524 --> 01:22:25,524 Where did you come from? 1093 01:22:56,441 --> 01:22:58,191 You sure you live here? 1094 01:22:58,233 --> 01:22:59,316 This is it. 1095 01:23:00,524 --> 01:23:01,357 Wow. 1096 01:23:05,150 --> 01:23:05,983 I love it. 1097 01:23:08,192 --> 01:23:12,025 Yeah, it's the first time I used a designer. 1098 01:23:14,482 --> 01:23:15,316 Alright. 1099 01:23:16,775 --> 01:23:17,733 Can I? 1100 01:23:17,775 --> 01:23:19,399 Sure, go ahead. 1101 01:23:32,482 --> 01:23:34,483 So do you want to go somewhere tomorrow, 1102 01:23:34,525 --> 01:23:37,274 or do you just want to hang out? 1103 01:23:37,316 --> 01:23:39,357 I'm okay with whatever. 1104 01:23:43,357 --> 01:23:46,525 How are you and Thomas doing? 1105 01:23:46,567 --> 01:23:48,691 He's gone back to school. 1106 01:23:48,733 --> 01:23:50,441 Oh, that's good. 1107 01:23:51,274 --> 01:23:52,274 That's good. 1108 01:24:06,567 --> 01:24:10,150 Mama Kate, you're acting more like my father today. 1109 01:24:10,191 --> 01:24:14,525 It's weird, but I'm kinda happy to have him back. 1110 01:24:14,567 --> 01:24:15,525 You said a few months ago 1111 01:24:15,567 --> 01:24:18,232 that I'm pretty much the same. 1112 01:24:18,274 --> 01:24:20,274 Well, Papa had this... 1113 01:24:23,650 --> 01:24:25,608 I don't know, I guess you'd call it, like, 1114 01:24:25,650 --> 01:24:27,816 an underlying sadness. 1115 01:24:27,858 --> 01:24:29,190 And when you got to me, Mama Kate, 1116 01:24:29,232 --> 01:24:30,525 I didn't see that anymore, 1117 01:24:30,567 --> 01:24:32,733 but today, I see it again. 1118 01:24:39,316 --> 01:24:40,149 Well, 1119 01:24:43,692 --> 01:24:44,608 these last few weeks, 1120 01:24:44,650 --> 01:24:48,442 I've just been bolling over with happiness. 1121 01:24:49,650 --> 01:24:53,650 I didn't know one person could even be that happy. 1122 01:24:56,525 --> 01:24:57,567 I met a friend, 1123 01:24:58,817 --> 01:25:01,775 and she's become more than a friend. 1124 01:25:04,483 --> 01:25:05,316 And I, 1125 01:25:08,942 --> 01:25:12,149 I'm waiting for her to come to her senses, 1126 01:25:12,191 --> 01:25:13,274 and leave me. 1127 01:25:15,483 --> 01:25:17,274 Why would you say that? 1128 01:25:19,692 --> 01:25:23,650 Well, I bring a lot of baggage with me, 1129 01:25:23,692 --> 01:25:27,525 and maybe I'm too old to start all this again. 1130 01:25:34,775 --> 01:25:36,900 I can be happy living alone. 1131 01:25:47,442 --> 01:25:51,274 Mama Kate, I'm on my second marriage, right? 1132 01:25:52,775 --> 01:25:55,442 And I'm going to make this work. 1133 01:25:56,650 --> 01:25:59,775 I am going to give everything I have 1134 01:25:59,817 --> 01:26:01,650 to make this one work. 1135 01:26:05,274 --> 01:26:06,775 And if it doesn't, 1136 01:26:10,442 --> 01:26:12,983 'cause they don't always, 1137 01:26:13,025 --> 01:26:15,733 at least I will know that I tried, 1138 01:26:15,775 --> 01:26:17,817 and it sounds so dumb, 1139 01:26:18,817 --> 01:26:21,483 but I know that I would love again. 1140 01:26:21,525 --> 01:26:22,650 We can't help it, you know? 1141 01:26:22,692 --> 01:26:24,692 It's like, how we're built. 1142 01:26:27,817 --> 01:26:29,566 I'm glad for you, Casey. 1143 01:26:29,608 --> 01:26:31,775 You've been through a lot. 1144 01:26:37,817 --> 01:26:40,358 You know how your neighbor has a love bird? 1145 01:26:40,400 --> 01:26:41,733 I thought it was a parrot. 1146 01:26:41,775 --> 01:26:43,566 Mama, that's what love birds are. 1147 01:26:43,608 --> 01:26:44,483 Oh. 1148 01:26:44,525 --> 01:26:46,441 Anyways, they only have one of them, 1149 01:26:46,483 --> 01:26:48,900 and they're not supposed to be alone. 1150 01:26:48,942 --> 01:26:49,858 They don't do well. 1151 01:26:49,900 --> 01:26:53,275 They get erratic in captivity. 1152 01:26:53,317 --> 01:26:56,483 Some people are just meant to pair up. 1153 01:26:58,066 --> 01:27:00,733 If you really like this person, 1154 01:27:00,775 --> 01:27:03,232 as much as it seems you do, 1155 01:27:03,900 --> 01:27:06,733 then I think that you should try 1156 01:27:07,733 --> 01:27:11,608 and give everything you can to be with them. 1157 01:27:14,733 --> 01:27:15,608 It's funny, Mama Kate. 1158 01:27:15,650 --> 01:27:16,691 I feel like I can talk to you 1159 01:27:16,733 --> 01:27:19,483 more than I ever could with Papa. 1160 01:27:21,775 --> 01:27:22,608 Yeah. 1161 01:27:23,650 --> 01:27:24,691 It's nice. 1162 01:27:24,733 --> 01:27:26,232 Yeah. 1163 01:27:27,608 --> 01:27:30,525 Oh Casey and her talk of love birds. 1164 01:27:30,567 --> 01:27:32,608 Actually, all birds shed their feathers 1165 01:27:32,650 --> 01:27:34,900 and replace them with new ones. 1166 01:27:34,942 --> 01:27:37,733 Maybe that's what I've needed to do 1167 01:27:37,775 --> 01:27:39,691 so that I could find love. 1168 01:27:39,733 --> 01:27:41,733 And let myself be loved. 1169 01:27:46,733 --> 01:27:47,775 So Tom. 1170 01:27:49,442 --> 01:27:50,275 Yeah? 1171 01:27:53,400 --> 01:27:55,566 And Tom Flynn, down. 1172 01:27:55,608 --> 01:27:57,024 I've met someone. 1173 01:27:58,650 --> 01:28:01,442 And I believe I've fallen in love. 1174 01:28:02,608 --> 01:28:03,733 He was 10 for 14. 1175 01:28:03,775 --> 01:28:04,691 Under 10 yards. 1176 01:28:04,733 --> 01:28:06,691 That's the patience part we talked about. 1177 01:28:06,733 --> 01:28:08,442 Did you hear me? 1178 01:28:09,358 --> 01:28:11,691 Yeah, I heard you. 1179 01:28:11,733 --> 01:28:12,900 You fell in love. 1180 01:28:12,941 --> 01:28:15,483 Yeah, I've fallen in love. 1181 01:28:16,733 --> 01:28:17,941 Her name is Kate. 1182 01:28:20,817 --> 01:28:22,024 Really? 1183 01:28:22,066 --> 01:28:22,900 Yep. 1184 01:28:25,024 --> 01:28:26,691 You know, it seemed like 1185 01:28:26,733 --> 01:28:29,567 you might be happier with a woman. 1186 01:28:30,692 --> 01:28:33,775 Well Tom, it sure feels that way. 1187 01:28:33,817 --> 01:28:37,316 I don't think I've ever been in love. 1188 01:28:37,358 --> 01:28:40,691 Someone knocked it away. 1189 01:28:40,733 --> 01:28:42,733 John Elway, he did a quarrel on that. 1190 01:28:42,775 --> 01:28:45,024 There's a little more to the story. 1191 01:28:45,066 --> 01:28:46,899 He's gonna spin right around. 1192 01:28:46,941 --> 01:28:48,982 She was born transgender. 1193 01:28:50,066 --> 01:28:51,733 - Really? - Yeah. 1194 01:28:51,775 --> 01:28:53,941 Okay I'm gonna sit down. 1195 01:28:55,941 --> 01:28:58,940 I better sit down for this, I can see. 1196 01:29:00,899 --> 01:29:01,941 Oh Tom. 1197 01:29:04,858 --> 01:29:06,858 She's just wonderful. 1198 01:29:09,192 --> 01:29:13,858 One handed catch by Van Johnson. 1199 01:29:13,899 --> 01:29:14,858 You know, 1200 01:29:18,982 --> 01:29:22,982 the message I got from Dad, I'm sure it was Dad, 1201 01:29:24,608 --> 01:29:27,024 was that I was supposed to fall in love with a man, 1202 01:29:27,066 --> 01:29:28,941 be married to a man, 1203 01:29:30,400 --> 01:29:32,982 and be taken care of by a man. 1204 01:29:33,024 --> 01:29:34,650 Johnson makes the tackle, 1205 01:29:34,692 --> 01:29:37,108 or the catch when he's down. 1206 01:29:37,150 --> 01:29:40,566 So to fall in love with a woman 1207 01:29:40,608 --> 01:29:43,066 has presented a challenge to me. 1208 01:29:45,442 --> 01:29:47,775 You know, do I listen to my heart, 1209 01:29:47,817 --> 01:29:50,400 do I listen to the message in my head? 1210 01:29:50,442 --> 01:29:52,940 That's why Dan Reeves was so upset. 1211 01:29:52,982 --> 01:29:55,940 And it's been a struggle, 1212 01:29:55,982 --> 01:29:58,899 but it just comes down to my heart. 1213 01:30:00,107 --> 01:30:01,483 I, I love her. 1214 01:30:05,150 --> 01:30:06,733 And she loves me. 1215 01:30:12,567 --> 01:30:14,899 What can be wrong with that? 1216 01:30:27,275 --> 01:30:29,024 Would you get that? 1217 01:30:30,816 --> 01:30:31,650 Sure? 1218 01:30:37,899 --> 01:30:39,024 Oh, hi. 1219 01:30:39,066 --> 01:30:40,899 You must be Casey. 1220 01:30:40,941 --> 01:30:41,982 Are you Andrea? 1221 01:30:42,024 --> 01:30:43,024 I am. 1222 01:30:44,024 --> 01:30:45,483 Come in, please. 1223 01:30:49,192 --> 01:30:51,982 Mama Kate's just putting some things away in the back. 1224 01:30:52,024 --> 01:30:54,233 Let me get her for you. 1225 01:30:54,275 --> 01:30:56,857 Hey Mama Kate, Andrea's here. 1226 01:30:58,067 --> 01:30:59,191 She'll be really happy to see you. 1227 01:30:59,233 --> 01:31:00,899 I'll be happy to see her, too. 1228 01:31:00,941 --> 01:31:02,525 It's very nice to meet you. 1229 01:31:02,567 --> 01:31:03,192 You too. 1230 01:31:09,192 --> 01:31:10,192 Hi Andrea. 1231 01:31:11,899 --> 01:31:12,733 Hi Kate. 1232 01:31:15,067 --> 01:31:16,067 How are you? 1233 01:31:18,150 --> 01:31:19,067 I'm okay. 1234 01:31:19,982 --> 01:31:20,982 How are you? 1235 01:31:24,650 --> 01:31:27,525 I think I'm gonna go lay down for a little bit. 1236 01:31:27,567 --> 01:31:28,940 It was really nice to meet you. 1237 01:31:28,982 --> 01:31:30,108 Nice to meet you too, Casey. 1238 01:31:30,150 --> 01:31:31,108 Love you. 1239 01:31:31,150 --> 01:31:31,982 Good luck. 1240 01:31:35,899 --> 01:31:37,525 Can we sit down? 1241 01:31:37,567 --> 01:31:38,150 Sure. 1242 01:31:54,025 --> 01:31:56,567 Kate, the words to love songs 1243 01:31:58,732 --> 01:32:01,108 have never made any sense to me. 1244 01:32:02,650 --> 01:32:06,608 It was just like a language I didn't understand. 1245 01:32:07,732 --> 01:32:09,067 Until I met you. 1246 01:32:10,567 --> 01:32:11,982 And now I get it. 1247 01:32:13,025 --> 01:32:14,650 I love you, Kate. 1248 01:32:19,358 --> 01:32:23,066 Well, I feel like my life has just started, 1249 01:32:23,108 --> 01:32:25,525 and I'm already pushing 70. 1250 01:32:27,983 --> 01:32:32,774 Sometimes, I wonder if I'll even make it another 10 years. 1251 01:32:34,358 --> 01:32:38,732 I want to make most of these years that I do have. 1252 01:32:39,732 --> 01:32:41,690 Once I got to be Kate, 1253 01:32:41,732 --> 01:32:44,650 I was living just the perfect life. 1254 01:32:47,691 --> 01:32:51,233 I didn't think it was possible to be happier. 1255 01:32:52,774 --> 01:32:54,150 But with you, I am. 1256 01:32:55,941 --> 01:32:57,275 I love you, Andrea. 1257 01:32:59,816 --> 01:33:01,108 I love you, Kate. 1258 01:33:15,150 --> 01:33:18,150 I feel like such a mess sometimes. 1259 01:33:18,192 --> 01:33:19,732 Oh, we all do. 1260 01:33:22,816 --> 01:33:26,816 And I worry that I might lose my mind someday. 1261 01:33:29,067 --> 01:33:33,025 If that happened, would you take care of me? 1262 01:33:33,067 --> 01:33:35,358 I'd take care of you. 1263 01:33:35,400 --> 01:33:38,150 We could take care of each other. 1264 01:33:44,732 --> 01:33:47,025 Do you wish I hadn't transitioned? 1265 01:33:47,067 --> 01:33:50,900 That I was still pretending to be a man? 1266 01:33:50,942 --> 01:33:52,233 Oh Kate. 1267 01:33:52,275 --> 01:33:53,900 I wouldn't have given you a second look, 1268 01:33:53,942 --> 01:33:55,275 'cause you're too short. 1269 01:33:58,233 --> 01:33:59,067 Well. 1270 01:34:01,816 --> 01:34:04,316 Hey, do you like road trips? 1271 01:34:04,358 --> 01:34:08,108 I think a road trip with you would be fantastic. 1272 01:34:08,150 --> 01:34:11,108 Do you know that Johnny Cash song, "I've Been Everywhere." 1273 01:34:11,150 --> 01:34:12,900 ♪ I've been everywhere, man ♪ 1274 01:34:12,942 --> 01:34:14,316 Yeah, I like Johnny Cash. 1275 01:34:14,358 --> 01:34:15,941 Yeah, how'd you like to go 1276 01:34:15,983 --> 01:34:17,774 to all those places in the song? 1277 01:34:17,816 --> 01:34:20,191 All those places? How many are there? 1278 01:34:20,233 --> 01:34:21,941 There are 92 of 'em. 1279 01:34:21,983 --> 01:34:25,233 - They're all over the place. - Oh my gosh. 1280 01:34:25,275 --> 01:34:27,108 Well, what's the closest one? 1281 01:34:27,150 --> 01:34:29,192 I think Crater Lake. 1282 01:34:31,025 --> 01:34:34,066 Well, that's just down the road. 1283 01:34:34,108 --> 01:34:35,316 Do you want to go? 1284 01:34:35,358 --> 01:34:36,192 I do. 1285 01:34:37,732 --> 01:34:39,358 How about next week? 1286 01:34:40,400 --> 01:34:43,108 Let's go, Katie bird. 1287 01:35:01,025 --> 01:35:02,233 I love you, Andrea. 1288 01:35:02,275 --> 01:35:03,233 I love you, Kate. 1289 01:35:03,275 --> 01:35:06,774 ♪ Something inside of me that had to be said ♪ 1290 01:35:06,816 --> 01:35:10,441 ♪ Like a sunburn burning in the back of my head ♪ 1291 01:35:10,483 --> 01:35:15,691 ♪ Like a needle pulling an unseen thread all my life ♪ 1292 01:35:18,983 --> 01:35:20,983 ♪ I can see it coming ♪ 1293 01:35:21,025 --> 01:35:22,983 ♪ But I just couldn't say ♪ 1294 01:35:23,025 --> 01:35:24,858 ♪ What tomorrow brought ♪ 1295 01:35:24,900 --> 01:35:26,983 ♪ 'Cause I was stuck in today ♪ 1296 01:35:27,025 --> 01:35:29,108 ♪ Was a light so bright ♪ 1297 01:35:29,150 --> 01:35:34,150 ♪ It would shine my way to you ♪ 1298 01:35:35,566 --> 01:35:39,400 ♪ It was always there, it was written that way ♪ 1299 01:35:39,442 --> 01:35:43,858 ♪ It was always there, it was written that way ♪ 1300 01:35:43,900 --> 01:35:46,108 ♪ It was always there ♪ 1301 01:35:46,150 --> 01:35:50,317 ♪ Just something that I had to do ♪ 1302 01:35:56,400 --> 01:35:58,358 ♪ It was always there ♪ 1303 01:35:58,400 --> 01:36:00,358 ♪ It was written that way ♪ 1304 01:36:00,400 --> 01:36:02,400 ♪ It was always there ♪ 1305 01:36:02,442 --> 01:36:04,775 ♪ It was written that way ♪ 1306 01:36:04,817 --> 01:36:07,025 ♪ It was always there ♪ 1307 01:36:07,067 --> 01:36:11,233 ♪ Just something that I had to do ♪ 1308 01:36:11,333 --> 01:36:16,333 Provided by explosiveskull https://twitter.com/kaboomskull 1309 01:36:22,858 --> 01:36:27,858 ♪ I was toting my pack along a dusty Winnemucca road ♪ 1310 01:36:30,233 --> 01:36:35,400 ♪ When along came a semi with a high and canvas covered load ♪ 1311 01:36:35,441 --> 01:36:38,316 ♪ If you're going to Winnemucca, Mac ♪ 1312 01:36:38,358 --> 01:36:40,233 ♪ With me you can ride ♪ 1313 01:36:40,275 --> 01:36:42,565 ♪ And so I climbed into the cab ♪ 1314 01:36:42,607 --> 01:36:45,858 ♪ And then I settled down inside ♪ 1315 01:36:45,900 --> 01:36:48,275 ♪ He asked me if I'd seen a road ♪ 1316 01:36:48,317 --> 01:36:50,565 ♪ With so much dust and sand ♪ 1317 01:36:50,607 --> 01:36:53,233 ♪ And I said, listen ♪ 1318 01:36:53,275 --> 01:36:57,275 ♪ I've traveled every road in this here land ♪ 1319 01:37:00,441 --> 01:37:03,233 ♪ I've been everywhere, man ♪ 1320 01:37:03,275 --> 01:37:06,399 ♪ I've been everywhere, man ♪ 1321 01:37:06,441 --> 01:37:10,191 ♪ I crossed the deserts bare, man ♪ 1322 01:37:10,233 --> 01:37:12,983 ♪ I've breathed the mountain air, man ♪ 1323 01:37:13,025 --> 01:37:16,233 ♪ I traveled, I had my share, man ♪ 1324 01:37:16,275 --> 01:37:20,983 ♪ I've been everywhere ♪ 1325 01:37:21,025 --> 01:37:24,440 ♪ I've been to Reno, Chicago, Fargo, Minnesota ♪ 1326 01:37:24,482 --> 01:37:27,565 ♪ Buffalo, Toronto, Winslow, Sarasota ♪ 1327 01:37:27,607 --> 01:37:30,983 ♪ Wichita, Tulsa, Ottowa, Oklahoma ♪ 1328 01:37:31,025 --> 01:37:34,316 ♪ Napa, Panama, Mattawa, La Paloma ♪ 1329 01:37:34,358 --> 01:37:37,275 ♪ Bangor, Baltimore, Salvador, Amarillo ♪ 1330 01:37:37,317 --> 01:37:40,275 ♪ Tocopilla, Barranquilla, and Padilla ♪ 1331 01:37:40,317 --> 01:37:41,358 ♪ I'm a killer ♪ 1332 01:37:41,399 --> 01:37:43,983 ♪ I've been everywhere, man ♪ 1333 01:37:44,025 --> 01:37:47,025 ♪ I've been everywhere, man ♪ 1334 01:37:47,067 --> 01:37:50,357 ♪ I crossed the deserts bare, man ♪ 1335 01:37:50,399 --> 01:37:53,482 ♪ I breathed the mountain air, man ♪ 1336 01:37:53,524 --> 01:37:56,858 ♪ I traveled, I had my share, man ♪ 1337 01:37:56,900 --> 01:38:01,399 ♪ I've been everywhere ♪ 1338 01:38:01,441 --> 01:38:04,983 ♪ I've been to Boston, Charleston, Dayton, Louisiana ♪ 1339 01:38:05,025 --> 01:38:08,482 ♪ Washington, Houston, Kingston, Texarkana ♪ 1340 01:38:08,524 --> 01:38:11,524 ♪ Monterey, Faraday, Santa Fe, Tallapoosa ♪ 1341 01:38:11,566 --> 01:38:14,983 ♪ Glen Rock, Black Rock, Little Rock, Oskaloosa ♪ 1342 01:38:15,025 --> 01:38:18,191 ♪ Tennessee to Hennessey and Chicopee, Spirit Lake ♪ 1343 01:38:18,233 --> 01:38:21,357 ♪ Grand Lake, Devil's Lake, Crater Lake, for Pete's sake ♪ 1344 01:38:21,399 --> 01:38:24,315 ♪ I've been everywhere, man ♪ 1345 01:38:24,357 --> 01:38:27,440 ♪ I've been everywhere, man ♪ 1346 01:38:27,482 --> 01:38:30,941 ♪ I crossed the deserts bare, man ♪ 1347 01:38:30,983 --> 01:38:34,191 ♪ I breathed the mountain air, man ♪ 1348 01:38:34,233 --> 01:38:37,315 ♪ I traveled, I had my share, man ♪ 1349 01:38:37,357 --> 01:38:42,150 ♪ I've been everywhere ♪ 1350 01:38:42,192 --> 01:38:45,482 ♪ I been to Louisville, Nashville, Knoxville, Ombabika ♪ 1351 01:38:45,524 --> 01:38:48,566 ♪ Shefferville, Jacksonville, Waterville, Costa Rica ♪ 1352 01:38:48,608 --> 01:38:52,066 ♪ Pittsfield, Springfield, Bakersfield, Shreveport ♪ 1353 01:38:52,108 --> 01:38:55,233 ♪ Hackensack, Cadillac, Fond Du Lac, Davenport ♪ 1354 01:38:55,275 --> 01:38:59,440 ♪ Idaho, Jellicoe, Argentina Diamontina, Pasadena ♪ 1355 01:38:59,482 --> 01:39:01,399 ♪ Catalina, see what I mean, man ♪ 1356 01:39:01,441 --> 01:39:04,733 ♪ I've been everywhere, man ♪ 1357 01:39:04,775 --> 01:39:08,066 ♪ I've been everywhere, man ♪ 1358 01:39:08,108 --> 01:39:11,233 ♪ I crossed the deserts bare, man ♪ 1359 01:39:11,274 --> 01:39:14,482 ♪ I breathed the mountain air, man ♪ 1360 01:39:14,524 --> 01:39:17,399 ♪ I traveled, I had my share, man ♪ 1361 01:39:17,441 --> 01:39:21,733 ♪ I've been everywhere ♪ 1362 01:39:21,775 --> 01:39:24,233 ♪ I've been to Pittsburgh, Parkersburg ♪ 1363 01:39:24,274 --> 01:39:25,650 ♪ Gravellburg, Colorado ♪ 1364 01:39:25,692 --> 01:39:29,108 ♪ Ellensburg, Rexburg, Vicksburg, Eldorado ♪ 1365 01:39:29,150 --> 01:39:32,566 ♪ Larrimore, Atmore, Haverstraw, Chattanika ♪ 1366 01:39:32,608 --> 01:39:35,440 ♪ Chaska, Nebraska, Alaska, Opelika ♪ 1367 01:39:35,482 --> 01:39:39,274 ♪ Baraboo, Waterloo, Kalamazoo, Kansas City ♪ 1368 01:39:39,316 --> 01:39:42,440 ♪ Sioux City, Cedar City, Dodge City, what a pity ♪ 1369 01:39:42,482 --> 01:39:47,399 ♪ I've been everywhere, man ♪91918