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You ready?
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Oh Barb, give
it a fucking rest, please.
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I swear to God
if I didn't have these kids,
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I would jump out of
this car right now.
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Go ahead, don't
let me stop you, woman.
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Stop the fucking car.
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Just once, just once.
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How does it do it, Nathan?
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What do you mean?
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How does the moon
stay in the same place
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while we're moving?
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It's so big, sis.
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It's just that big.
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Oh, there it was.
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- I'm in, I lost.
- He's doing it again.
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God, you're such
a selfish you know what.
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Starts with a C.
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You guys,
that's not where that goes.
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And up and
over and side to side.
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Can I get some more
helping hands, please?
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Abby, this is a
very important achievement.
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- Of course.
- What are we gonna do?
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You know what else is doable?
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We're gonna feed the chicken.
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- Feed the chicken.
- Okay,
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final hugs for dad.
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Hugs, hugs.
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Great.
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All right, outside to play.
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I don't want to.
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Excuse me?
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There's nothing to do.
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Are you kidding me?
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When I was your age,
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I didn't have any of those
jungle gym, fancy things.
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I mean-
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- You want us to have the
same crappy childhood you had?
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Really?
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- Don't encourage it.
- Abigail, it's fine.
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Relax.
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"Abigail, it's fine, relax."
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All right guys outside,
I will call you later.
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You know,
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can you grab that bookcase
at the top of the stairs
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that you've been
meaning to grab?
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Because Davis really
wants it at your house
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and it's heavy and
taking up space,
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and also uniforms,
softball uniforms.
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If you got a pair,
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then I wouldn't have to be
washing them all the time.
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I will do
the bookcase next time.
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Oh, can't talk to Mom.
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Ab, I will do the
bookcase next time.
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I'm kind of in a rush.
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You just did 25 minutes
of handshakes with the boys,
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you can't take,
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Abigail.
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Okay, fine.
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Oh, look at that, it's your mom.
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Nope.
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I take it you still
haven't spoken to her
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about not calling me as
if we aren't divorced.
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I forgot.
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I'll get to it.
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- Please do.
- Mm hm.
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God, relentless.
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Hey, bye, good luck with that.
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Mom.
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I have to
tell you about the pillow.
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No, no, Ma.
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I can't talk about
pillows right now.
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I just got the boys back and
we're getting settled in.
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Okay, okay, okay.
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But we should talk because,
interesting, Dad fell again.
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Again?
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Is he okay?
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Yes, he's okay.
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Why do you sound so
annoyed, Abigail?
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Oh, also interesting,
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he almost drowned during
his pool therapy session,
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so that might've made
him out of sorts.
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Mom, what do you
mean almost drowned?
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Yeah.
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- Yeah?
- What?
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I said almost.
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He's on the floor
and can't get up.
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Interesting.
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- What?
- Well, he's comfortable.
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Do you think I would leave
him there if he wasn't?
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Ma, how long has he
been on the floor for?
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A few hours, maybe more.
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What do you think,
I'm a monster?
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Ma.
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Boys, get inside the house.
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- Hi, JD.
- Hi, JD.
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Hey, boys, I've got ice cream.
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Mom, they don't need ice cream.
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Abigail, I raised two children.
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Do you think I don't know
how to feed children?
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It'd just be nice if
you asked me
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before you pumped
my kids with sugar.
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- Hi, Dad.
- Hi.
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What's going on here?
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Well, I was trying to
sit down and I missed it.
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I see that.
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Let me help you.
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Hold on, hold on, hold on.
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Careful, Abigail,
you'll get another hernia.
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I'm fine, Mom.
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I'm okay.
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Here, you could-
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- Okay.
- Okay, okay.
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Okay.
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- Yup.
- Yeah.
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How's that?
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Feel balanced?
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Will you sit on
the couch with me?
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- Of course.
- Thanks.
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Sometimes I,
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I can't,
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I can't get my balance.
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I don't know what's going on.
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That's what we're
trying to figure out
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with the doctors, okay?
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Get everything moving
the way you want it to.
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Okay.
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How was pool therapy?
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Oh, well I...
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Abby, I couldn't feel my feet.
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Never happened to me before.
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I felt like
I was falling backwards
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and then I tried to right myself
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and I just kind of
tumbled in the pool.
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Okay.
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Ma really shouldn't
be leaving you.
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Oh no, no, no.
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Don't, don't, don't
be hard on her.
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She's doing a
terrific job, Abby.
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Abby, she is the best
wife anyone could have.
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Okay.
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Have you told your
brother about me?
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Euge, he doesn't give a shit.
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Ma.
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- You can tell me.
- I know.
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I just, I haven't
really said much to him
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in the last couple of years.
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He's a son of a bitch.
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Ma.
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I'll be right back, hold on.
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You are not helping.
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Well, when you've had your
son cut you out of their life
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for 20 years, then you can
tell me how to do this.
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- Hey, Hey.
- Yeah,
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- what, honey?
- No, no,
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I want Abby.
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Ah.
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Okay then.
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Knock yourself out.
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- This isn't me.
- I know.
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I love you.
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Thank you.
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- Ow.
- I'm sorry.
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Eugene, I'm home.
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Yoohoo, where are you?
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Be right there, Barb.
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- Who do I love?
- Us.
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Who tastes like sugar?
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We are.
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All right.
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Perfect.
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Good night.
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I love you.
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- Love you.
- Good night.
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Good night, Mama.
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Good night, Grape.
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Say good night to Matthew.
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Good night Matthew.
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All right.
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- Night.
- Night, mama.
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See you in the morning.
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Sweet dreams.
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Boys, breakfast.
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- Ew.
- Here you go.
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What's that smell?
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Is something burning, Mom?
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Oh, shit.
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It's the sausage.
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Fuck, fuck, fuck.
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God dammit.
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Language, Mama.
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I mean, you don't need that.
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You don't need that.
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You have beautiful
pancakes and strawberries
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with lots of anti-oxidants,
great for you.
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- Eat.
- Mama,
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what's that beep, beep, beeping?
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Shit, shit, shit, shit.
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Banana bread.
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- Banana bread.
- Remember last week
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when you burnt it?
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Burned it, not burnt it.
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Daddy never burns breakfast.
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Well, can Dada make banana bread
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that's beautiful like this?
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Yes.
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- Hi.
- Morning.
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Come on in.
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Banana bread?
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Fresh out of the oven.
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- Oh no, I'm good.
- Hey, that's for us.
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Shut it.
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No, I'm good, thank you.
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I need the garage clicker.
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Oh yeah, of course.
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Of course, where is it?
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One of those things
that, you know,
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you should really put in
a safe place every time,
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'cause that is
where you find it.
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But um,
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- ow.
- Careful.
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That's sharp.
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I'm fine, really.
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Right here.
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Here you go.
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Thanks.
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- Great.
- I'll be working
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on the fountain if you need me.
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Of course.
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What?
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Hey, Daddy's here.
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Oh.
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You're early.
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Dada.
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- Traffic was light.
- Mmm.
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Did you boys do your homework?
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- Course it was.
- Did you practice
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- your violin, Dave?
- No, and no.
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And I tried.
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I really tried, so
that's on you now.
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It's all good, buddy.
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Grab your hoodies,
boys, it's zoo day.
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They really ate none
of their breakfast.
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What's up with your mom?
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She's been texting me a ton.
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It's been kind of weird.
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Didn't they make
her start some meds?
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Yeah, well she feels
that she doesn't need them.
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It's everybody
else that's crazy.
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Well, you told her
to stop calling me.
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- Thank you.
- Uh huh.
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00:10:07,366 --> 00:10:09,301
But now she needs
to stop texting me.
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We've been divorced for a year.
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All right, yeah.
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I get it.
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Hey, boychiks, kisses for Mama.
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I'm gonna miss you.
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- Bye, Mama.
- Bye.
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Have so much fun at the zoo.
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- See ya.
- Snacks for them?
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Yes.
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Okay.
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- Bye, mama.
- Of course you have snacks.
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Jesus Christ.
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Ma, what?
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Call the caregiver agency.
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I gotta fire another one.
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No, no, no, no,
no, Mom, not Shawn.
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What's going on?
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Oh, wait till you hear this one.
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00:10:47,573 --> 00:10:52,511
Shawn, you were brought into
this house to protect him,
271
00:10:52,544 --> 00:10:54,847
not to bring him poison.
272
00:10:54,880 --> 00:10:56,348
Mrs. Frey, it's not poison.
273
00:10:56,382 --> 00:10:57,349
- Medicinal marijuana.
- Oh please.
274
00:10:57,383 --> 00:10:58,450
Has been proven to help-
275
00:10:58,484 --> 00:11:01,353
- Who do you think
you're talking to?
276
00:11:01,387 --> 00:11:04,123
I went through the '60s.
277
00:11:05,024 --> 00:11:06,458
Barely.
278
00:11:06,492 --> 00:11:09,495
I was taking mescaline before
you were even in diapers.
279
00:11:09,528 --> 00:11:11,230
So give me a break.
280
00:11:11,263 --> 00:11:12,264
He asked me for it.
281
00:11:12,298 --> 00:11:16,335
It is a drug and I
don't want it in my house.
282
00:11:16,368 --> 00:11:20,005
Mrs. Frey, I care
about your family.
283
00:11:20,039 --> 00:11:21,039
Very deeply.
284
00:11:22,007 --> 00:11:25,978
Spare me the pain.
285
00:11:26,011 --> 00:11:27,579
Just get out, Shawn.
286
00:11:27,613 --> 00:11:31,150
In fact, get out and
take your bears with you.
287
00:11:31,183 --> 00:11:32,351
Whoa, whoa, Mom, stop.
288
00:11:32,384 --> 00:11:34,853
- I want you out.
- Shawn, what's happening?
289
00:11:34,887 --> 00:11:36,889
Mom, stop with the bears.
290
00:11:36,922 --> 00:11:37,856
I can't do this.
291
00:11:37,890 --> 00:11:39,158
- We can talk.
- I'm sorry.
292
00:11:39,191 --> 00:11:40,292
Remember the last time?
293
00:11:40,326 --> 00:11:41,994
Hey, stop it.
294
00:11:42,027 --> 00:11:43,028
I'll call you.
295
00:11:45,597 --> 00:11:47,499
This turnover is killing me.
296
00:11:47,533 --> 00:11:48,533
What did he do?
297
00:11:49,568 --> 00:11:51,003
Well,
298
00:11:51,036 --> 00:11:53,238
he was giving your
father marijuana
299
00:11:53,272 --> 00:11:54,940
in the form of
cute little bears.
300
00:11:54,973 --> 00:11:55,941
Oh my God, mom.
301
00:11:55,974 --> 00:11:57,976
He was one of the good ones.
302
00:11:58,010 --> 00:12:00,346
Call the service,
get another one.
303
00:12:02,514 --> 00:12:05,517
I'm very happy we have
this appointment today
304
00:12:05,551 --> 00:12:10,422
because he's getting worse.
305
00:12:10,456 --> 00:12:12,257
Ma, this is how this works.
306
00:12:12,291 --> 00:12:13,425
It gets worse.
307
00:12:13,459 --> 00:12:16,895
And this morning he fell again,
308
00:12:18,964 --> 00:12:20,933
and I could barely pick him up.
309
00:12:23,102 --> 00:12:27,206
He was like a dead weight.
310
00:12:28,708 --> 00:12:29,708
Shawn?
311
00:12:31,644 --> 00:12:33,512
I need Shawn.
312
00:12:33,545 --> 00:12:35,280
Hey, honey.
313
00:12:36,448 --> 00:12:37,449
Hi, Dad.
314
00:12:39,719 --> 00:12:40,619
Hi.
315
00:12:40,653 --> 00:12:41,653
Hi.
316
00:12:45,524 --> 00:12:46,525
I need to pee.
317
00:12:49,361 --> 00:12:50,361
- Okay.
- Okay.
318
00:12:51,163 --> 00:12:52,464
Abby.
319
00:12:52,498 --> 00:12:54,199
Your dad needs your help.
320
00:12:54,233 --> 00:12:55,401
But I'm in a hurry.
321
00:12:56,468 --> 00:12:57,970
I'll be in the car.
322
00:12:59,672 --> 00:13:01,641
Whoopsy Daisy, too late.
323
00:13:03,208 --> 00:13:06,412
Huh.
324
00:13:06,445 --> 00:13:07,346
Cut it out.
325
00:13:07,379 --> 00:13:08,580
Dad said not to make noise.
326
00:13:08,614 --> 00:13:09,649
Shut up.
327
00:13:13,152 --> 00:13:14,520
I'm serious, Nathan.
328
00:13:14,553 --> 00:13:16,054
Cut it out.
329
00:13:16,088 --> 00:13:17,289
Cut it out.
330
00:13:17,322 --> 00:13:19,002
- He's gonna be mad.
- "He's gonna be mad."
331
00:13:20,492 --> 00:13:22,094
Hey!
332
00:13:22,127 --> 00:13:23,462
Abby, what did I tell ya?
333
00:13:31,303 --> 00:13:34,641
So, I can't seem
to get my balance.
334
00:13:34,674 --> 00:13:36,108
Everything seems to be-
335
00:13:36,141 --> 00:13:37,976
- Follow my finger, please.
- Everything
336
00:13:39,178 --> 00:13:40,312
is failing on me.
337
00:13:42,548 --> 00:13:44,416
I feel a little weak.
338
00:13:44,450 --> 00:13:45,417
Just with the eyes.
339
00:13:45,451 --> 00:13:47,286
- Huh?
- How's work?
340
00:13:47,319 --> 00:13:48,520
It's fine.
341
00:13:48,554 --> 00:13:51,590
When are they going to tell
you about that cover story?
342
00:13:53,258 --> 00:13:55,294
I just don't think they
think I'm quite ready yet.
343
00:13:55,327 --> 00:13:56,995
Well, that's ridiculous.
344
00:13:57,029 --> 00:14:00,432
I mean, you didn't get an MFA
to be writing staff pieces
345
00:14:00,466 --> 00:14:01,300
this long.
346
00:14:01,333 --> 00:14:04,002
Veronica's
daughter-in-law has an MSA
347
00:14:04,036 --> 00:14:07,272
and she says you absolutely
should have a cover now.
348
00:14:07,306 --> 00:14:09,408
Great, well I am not
Veronica's daughter-in-law.
349
00:14:09,441 --> 00:14:12,578
You have to say what
you want, Abigail.
350
00:14:12,611 --> 00:14:15,247
It's not quite like that, Ma.
351
00:14:15,280 --> 00:14:18,484
This point, there's really
nothing else to do, I'm afraid.
352
00:14:23,355 --> 00:14:25,257
Nothing else to do?
353
00:14:25,290 --> 00:14:27,660
Abigail, help me out here.
354
00:14:27,694 --> 00:14:29,595
I don't think Dr.
Ashkenazi understands.
355
00:14:29,629 --> 00:14:31,163
It's Ashkenazi, Mom.
356
00:14:31,196 --> 00:14:32,699
It's fine.
357
00:14:32,732 --> 00:14:34,767
We need another set of tests.
358
00:14:34,801 --> 00:14:37,336
We need, we need a specialist.
359
00:14:37,369 --> 00:14:38,580
- He is a specialist.
- I am a specialist.
360
00:14:38,604 --> 00:14:39,739
Dr. Ashkenazi.
361
00:14:39,772 --> 00:14:41,206
Your next patient's ready.
362
00:14:41,240 --> 00:14:42,675
Excuse me?
363
00:14:42,709 --> 00:14:44,644
- Ma.
- She serious?
364
00:14:44,677 --> 00:14:46,245
I'll be right there.
365
00:14:46,278 --> 00:14:47,388
Doctor, I've been
trying to tell my parents
366
00:14:47,412 --> 00:14:49,816
that it's not safe for them
to be living on their own
367
00:14:49,849 --> 00:14:51,083
without full-time care.
368
00:14:51,116 --> 00:14:52,251
We don't need it.
369
00:14:52,284 --> 00:14:53,686
You call me every time he falls.
370
00:14:53,720 --> 00:14:54,721
Not true.
371
00:14:54,754 --> 00:14:57,623
I called 911 twice this week.
372
00:14:57,657 --> 00:14:58,725
Mrs. Frey,
373
00:14:58,758 --> 00:15:00,727
you need to consider hiring
a full-time caregiver.
374
00:15:00,760 --> 00:15:02,528
You're going to end
up hurting yourself.
375
00:15:02,561 --> 00:15:04,296
We need a fourth opinion.
376
00:15:04,329 --> 00:15:07,099
The thing about life is that
there are no second chances
377
00:15:07,132 --> 00:15:09,401
to be the you that
you're meant to be.
378
00:15:09,434 --> 00:15:11,603
What's holding you back?
379
00:15:11,638 --> 00:15:14,641
Now is the time for you to
break through those limits.
380
00:15:16,475 --> 00:15:17,475
Whoa.
381
00:15:18,410 --> 00:15:20,579
Shit.
382
00:15:20,612 --> 00:15:21,613
You're good.
383
00:15:22,614 --> 00:15:23,850
You're good.
384
00:15:23,883 --> 00:15:25,685
You have to be
willing to take a risk
385
00:15:25,718 --> 00:15:27,386
and take that step.
386
00:15:27,419 --> 00:15:30,389
'Cause no one else is
going to do it for you.
387
00:15:30,422 --> 00:15:32,157
You have to work.
388
00:15:32,190 --> 00:15:33,559
Now is the time.
389
00:15:34,526 --> 00:15:37,797
It's all about you
taking that next step.
390
00:15:38,798 --> 00:15:43,135
Visualize yourself and
who you wanna become.
391
00:15:43,168 --> 00:15:45,270
You have to take control.
392
00:15:50,710 --> 00:15:52,477
You've reached the
voicemail of Hannah White,
393
00:15:52,511 --> 00:15:54,446
Editor-in-Chief of Modern Jew.
394
00:15:54,479 --> 00:15:56,148
Leave a message, I'll
return your call.
395
00:15:56,181 --> 00:15:58,216
Hey, boss lady.
396
00:15:58,250 --> 00:15:59,819
Hannah Banana.
397
00:15:59,852 --> 00:16:03,555
I'm sorry, but you
know, just little busy.
398
00:16:03,589 --> 00:16:06,391
This is Abigail
Frey, by the way.
399
00:16:06,425 --> 00:16:09,328
So listen, so many
things to say,
400
00:16:09,361 --> 00:16:10,529
my dad's dying.
401
00:16:10,562 --> 00:16:12,497
I mean, everybody is dying,
402
00:16:12,531 --> 00:16:16,703
but some quicker than others.
403
00:16:16,736 --> 00:16:19,772
And my mom is not,
404
00:16:20,673 --> 00:16:21,908
I mean,
405
00:16:24,176 --> 00:16:27,446
can I petition for a new mom?
406
00:16:27,479 --> 00:16:30,515
There's some fun
stuff to talk about.
407
00:16:30,549 --> 00:16:33,452
There's this guy, a man,
408
00:16:33,485 --> 00:16:38,891
gardening my garden
and he is delightful.
409
00:16:40,292 --> 00:16:42,361
So we can talk about that.
410
00:16:42,394 --> 00:16:43,730
About haircuts.
411
00:16:43,763 --> 00:16:45,230
I need one.
412
00:16:45,263 --> 00:16:46,264
Bangs,
413
00:16:47,199 --> 00:16:48,266
no bangs?
414
00:16:48,300 --> 00:16:49,300
I mean...
415
00:16:54,439 --> 00:16:57,677
So, give me a call
416
00:16:57,710 --> 00:16:58,778
whenever.
417
00:16:58,811 --> 00:16:59,811
I'm here.
418
00:17:04,483 --> 00:17:07,252
Dance clubs just
giving it their all today.
419
00:17:07,285 --> 00:17:09,722
Whoa, look at those kicks.
420
00:17:09,756 --> 00:17:11,758
These girls
worked so hard all year
421
00:17:11,791 --> 00:17:14,393
just to get a chance to walk.
422
00:17:20,432 --> 00:17:21,432
Ma.
423
00:17:22,300 --> 00:17:23,300
Ma.
424
00:17:24,771 --> 00:17:25,771
Ma?
425
00:17:28,540 --> 00:17:29,809
What?
426
00:17:29,842 --> 00:17:32,344
- What, I'm fine.
- We're almost ready.
427
00:17:32,377 --> 00:17:34,479
I needed to take a little nap.
428
00:17:35,347 --> 00:17:36,716
Where's your father?
429
00:17:37,616 --> 00:17:38,851
He's not up yet.
430
00:17:38,885 --> 00:17:40,953
Eugene, what are you doing?
431
00:17:43,321 --> 00:17:46,726
Your brother said he
would call with Karen.
432
00:17:46,759 --> 00:17:49,862
I told him, you know,
come have a meal with us,
433
00:17:49,896 --> 00:17:54,767
but she's sure has her
claws in him, doesn't she?
434
00:17:54,801 --> 00:17:55,968
Mom, can we just go one day
435
00:17:56,002 --> 00:17:58,437
without you tearing into Karen?
436
00:17:58,470 --> 00:18:00,405
Excuse me.
437
00:18:00,439 --> 00:18:02,240
Look, who's a Saint.
438
00:18:12,819 --> 00:18:14,553
What do you think?
439
00:18:14,586 --> 00:18:15,922
Why are you wearing those shoes?
440
00:18:15,955 --> 00:18:16,956
I'm in a good mood.
441
00:18:16,989 --> 00:18:18,457
Can't I be in a good mood?
442
00:18:18,490 --> 00:18:19,792
It's a new year.
443
00:18:19,826 --> 00:18:21,661
- Oh man.
- What?
444
00:18:21,694 --> 00:18:24,030
All right, here's why
I'm in a good mood.
445
00:18:24,063 --> 00:18:26,598
It's New Year's, it's vacation,
446
00:18:26,632 --> 00:18:29,769
I don't have to work tomorrow,
and I just got stoned.
447
00:18:29,802 --> 00:18:31,269
Happy New Year, Barbara.
448
00:18:32,939 --> 00:18:34,006
What?
449
00:18:34,040 --> 00:18:35,440
- What?
- No.
450
00:18:35,474 --> 00:18:36,709
What?
451
00:18:36,743 --> 00:18:38,310
I've been denying
this for 20 years.
452
00:18:38,343 --> 00:18:39,611
I am so sick and tired.
453
00:18:39,645 --> 00:18:41,681
I ain't going to
deny it anymore.
454
00:18:41,714 --> 00:18:42,982
I smoke weed.
455
00:18:43,015 --> 00:18:43,950
Come on, let's eat.
456
00:18:43,983 --> 00:18:44,984
Abby, sit down.
457
00:18:45,017 --> 00:18:46,719
Abigail, do
not touch that chair.
458
00:18:46,753 --> 00:18:48,988
Abby, sit down, let's eat.
459
00:18:49,021 --> 00:18:50,288
- Right.
- Ooh.
460
00:18:50,322 --> 00:18:51,456
Ooh.
461
00:18:51,490 --> 00:18:53,793
Ooh, look what
you've made for me.
462
00:18:53,826 --> 00:18:54,961
It's my favorite.
463
00:18:54,994 --> 00:18:56,662
It's pasta primavera.
464
00:18:56,696 --> 00:18:57,596
Oh, oh.
465
00:18:57,630 --> 00:18:58,640
- Thank you.
- I know that.
466
00:18:58,664 --> 00:18:59,664
What?
467
00:19:01,433 --> 00:19:02,902
- Aw, shit.
- Now you can
468
00:19:02,935 --> 00:19:05,638
make your own dinner for the
rest of your fucking life.
469
00:19:05,671 --> 00:19:07,305
Oh, Barbie,
give it a fucking break.
470
00:19:07,339 --> 00:19:10,877
You drink, you drink, you
drink, I smoke a joint.
471
00:19:10,910 --> 00:19:11,944
What?
472
00:19:17,683 --> 00:19:20,953
Peter, this stupid
fucking bookcase.
473
00:19:38,704 --> 00:19:40,438
- Hi, Dad.
- Hi.
474
00:19:41,140 --> 00:19:43,608
- How are you?
- Okay.
475
00:19:44,543 --> 00:19:45,978
What are you doing out here?
476
00:19:46,012 --> 00:19:46,813
Where's Darrin?
477
00:19:46,846 --> 00:19:47,947
Darrin?
478
00:19:47,980 --> 00:19:51,017
Meeting, I think,
us at the doctor.
479
00:19:51,050 --> 00:19:51,984
Okay.
480
00:19:52,018 --> 00:19:55,054
Your mother said
that I should stay here
481
00:19:55,087 --> 00:19:56,923
'cause I was too
much in the way.
482
00:19:56,956 --> 00:19:58,691
I hate being such a burden.
483
00:19:58,724 --> 00:20:00,358
Abigail, you're here already.
484
00:20:00,392 --> 00:20:02,394
- Here I am.
- Do you know
485
00:20:02,427 --> 00:20:05,998
I have just made the most
incredible flatbread?
486
00:20:06,032 --> 00:20:09,902
I used those dry chickpeas
from the Armenian market.
487
00:20:09,936 --> 00:20:12,939
The one the seamstress at the
dry cleaner told us about,
488
00:20:12,972 --> 00:20:16,508
the dry cleaner who's having
an affair with her hairdresser,
489
00:20:16,541 --> 00:20:18,678
but who still reads your column.
490
00:20:18,711 --> 00:20:19,979
That is so kind.
491
00:20:20,012 --> 00:20:23,883
All right, let's get
Dad to this appointment.
492
00:20:23,916 --> 00:20:25,127
We're gonna do it in the Walker.
493
00:20:25,151 --> 00:20:26,484
Why?
494
00:20:26,518 --> 00:20:27,920
Well, he's got to try it.
495
00:20:27,954 --> 00:20:29,889
- I can try it.
- Yeah.
496
00:20:29,922 --> 00:20:31,523
Let me take this.
497
00:20:31,556 --> 00:20:32,901
Dad, I think you should
use the wheelchair.
498
00:20:32,925 --> 00:20:34,994
- He can try the Walker.
- I could try it.
499
00:20:35,027 --> 00:20:37,730
Ma, he's very weak.
500
00:20:37,763 --> 00:20:39,165
Honey, it's okay.
501
00:20:39,198 --> 00:20:40,666
I'm okay.
502
00:20:40,700 --> 00:20:41,868
I know what I'm doing.
503
00:20:42,902 --> 00:20:44,070
Okay, let's try the Walker.
504
00:20:44,103 --> 00:20:45,905
- Okay.
- All right.
505
00:20:47,974 --> 00:20:48,774
Not too fast.
506
00:20:48,808 --> 00:20:50,076
Yeah, that's it.
507
00:20:51,077 --> 00:20:52,577
Uh oh.
508
00:20:52,611 --> 00:20:53,946
- Uh oh.
- How you feel?
509
00:20:53,980 --> 00:20:54,914
Not too good.
510
00:20:54,947 --> 00:20:55,815
Come on, we'll go back down.
511
00:20:55,848 --> 00:20:57,415
Okay.
512
00:20:57,449 --> 00:20:59,151
- There.
- Okay, Abigail.
513
00:21:03,789 --> 00:21:05,858
Whoa, hey.
514
00:21:05,892 --> 00:21:07,660
I will take care of this.
515
00:21:09,128 --> 00:21:11,097
This stupid thing.
516
00:21:11,130 --> 00:21:12,131
All right.
517
00:21:17,103 --> 00:21:18,671
Want me to do this?
518
00:21:18,704 --> 00:21:19,704
No, I can do it.
519
00:21:20,840 --> 00:21:23,109
Yeah, but I don't
have my feet ready.
520
00:21:23,142 --> 00:21:24,442
Oh.
521
00:21:24,476 --> 00:21:26,544
Oh, shoot.
522
00:21:26,578 --> 00:21:27,445
Sorry.
523
00:21:27,479 --> 00:21:28,479
Sorry.
524
00:21:29,782 --> 00:21:30,782
Oh God.
525
00:21:34,987 --> 00:21:36,488
I don't like you to bend.
526
00:21:36,521 --> 00:21:37,589
I know, I'm sorry.
527
00:21:38,758 --> 00:21:40,126
Okay, great.
528
00:21:40,159 --> 00:21:41,426
Don't let her bend.
529
00:21:42,728 --> 00:21:43,728
Okay, Dad.
530
00:21:44,630 --> 00:21:45,497
You sure you don't want-
531
00:21:45,530 --> 00:21:46,666
- No, I'm good.
- Okay.
532
00:21:48,200 --> 00:21:52,570
You know, Darrin's girlfriend
is 20 and she's pregnant.
533
00:21:52,604 --> 00:21:56,008
How are we going to
stop this endless cycle?
534
00:21:56,042 --> 00:21:58,443
- Watch out.
- Whoopsy Daisy.
535
00:22:00,545 --> 00:22:01,714
I'm fine, Abigail.
536
00:22:01,747 --> 00:22:02,982
I'm fine.
537
00:22:03,015 --> 00:22:04,016
Everybody's fine.
538
00:22:22,969 --> 00:22:26,072
Did you get a chance to
look at that dating app?
539
00:22:26,105 --> 00:22:27,073
'Cause it's time.
540
00:22:27,106 --> 00:22:29,008
Peter's already seeing people.
541
00:22:29,041 --> 00:22:30,743
How on earth do
you know that, Ma?
542
00:22:30,776 --> 00:22:32,645
Well, you told me
I couldn't call him
543
00:22:32,678 --> 00:22:33,846
and I couldn't text him,
544
00:22:33,879 --> 00:22:36,882
but you didn't say I couldn't
follow him on Facebook.
545
00:22:36,916 --> 00:22:38,284
Can we just pay attention
546
00:22:38,317 --> 00:22:39,885
to what the doctor is saying?
547
00:22:39,919 --> 00:22:41,553
Sorry.
548
00:22:41,586 --> 00:22:42,755
Okay. Mr. Frey,
549
00:22:42,788 --> 00:22:44,166
let's see how you
can walk on your own.
550
00:22:44,190 --> 00:22:45,825
Walking is hard for me.
551
00:22:45,858 --> 00:22:48,094
Dad, it's okay,
we're all here for you.
552
00:22:48,127 --> 00:22:49,862
Let me get you started Mr. F.
553
00:22:51,063 --> 00:22:52,665
- Whoa.
- Whoa.
554
00:22:52,698 --> 00:22:55,634
He's like the
Leaning Tower of Pisa.
555
00:22:55,668 --> 00:22:56,969
Ma.
556
00:22:57,003 --> 00:22:59,038
Okay, Mr. Frey,
let's try that again.
557
00:22:59,071 --> 00:23:00,538
You're all right.
558
00:23:00,572 --> 00:23:01,573
I got you, Mr. F.
559
00:23:01,606 --> 00:23:02,606
Now.
560
00:23:11,817 --> 00:23:13,185
How are you, Mrs. Frey?
561
00:23:13,219 --> 00:23:15,855
How should I be, Dr. Pastel?
562
00:23:15,888 --> 00:23:17,289
It's Dr. Patel, Mom.
563
00:23:17,323 --> 00:23:18,324
It's fine.
564
00:23:18,357 --> 00:23:21,160
Abigail. I would like
you to tell Dr. Patel
565
00:23:21,193 --> 00:23:22,294
about your father.
566
00:23:22,328 --> 00:23:25,031
She has training in medicine.
567
00:23:25,064 --> 00:23:26,866
I took a couple of
courses in college,
568
00:23:26,899 --> 00:23:29,001
just basic stuff.
569
00:23:29,035 --> 00:23:30,236
Now she's writing.
570
00:23:30,269 --> 00:23:32,238
She's writing a column
for the Modern Jew.
571
00:23:32,271 --> 00:23:33,806
It's very popular,
572
00:23:33,839 --> 00:23:36,275
but because she doesn't
ask for what she wants,
573
00:23:36,308 --> 00:23:38,911
she hasn't been given
a cover story yet.
574
00:23:38,944 --> 00:23:40,212
- Ma.
- Right.
575
00:23:42,214 --> 00:23:44,050
He's not been eating.
576
00:23:44,083 --> 00:23:46,852
He wets the bed most nights.
577
00:23:46,886 --> 00:23:48,220
He's really not very lucid.
578
00:23:48,254 --> 00:23:52,291
And he is getting
worse day by day.
579
00:23:54,326 --> 00:23:58,164
His chiropractor thinks
maybe meditation would help.
580
00:23:59,231 --> 00:24:00,232
Mm-hmm.
581
00:24:01,200 --> 00:24:02,935
Mrs. Frey,
582
00:24:02,968 --> 00:24:04,804
I'm going to be blunt.
583
00:24:04,837 --> 00:24:06,815
I know you're continuing to
make appointments weekly,
584
00:24:06,839 --> 00:24:09,175
but your husband is not
going to get better.
585
00:24:11,143 --> 00:24:15,714
So, do you mean we
brought him to a doctor,
586
00:24:15,748 --> 00:24:18,084
to a hospital, where
they can't fix him?
587
00:24:18,117 --> 00:24:19,285
Mom.
588
00:24:19,318 --> 00:24:21,329
He's gonna continue to decline
at a more rapid rate now.
589
00:24:21,353 --> 00:24:23,756
And we need to
talk about hospice.
590
00:24:23,789 --> 00:24:24,690
Hospice.
591
00:24:24,723 --> 00:24:25,658
What is that?
592
00:24:25,691 --> 00:24:27,693
Hospice means we
don't think he can live
593
00:24:27,726 --> 00:24:29,662
longer than six months.
594
00:24:29,695 --> 00:24:32,198
He's gotta eat more.
595
00:24:32,231 --> 00:24:34,166
Maybe if you gave him an enema,
596
00:24:34,200 --> 00:24:37,069
it would make room
for more food.
597
00:24:37,103 --> 00:24:39,004
No, Mrs. Frey.
598
00:24:39,038 --> 00:24:41,307
You have to stop trying
to force him to eat.
599
00:24:41,340 --> 00:24:44,276
If he doesn't
eat, he's gonna die.
600
00:24:44,310 --> 00:24:46,178
Yes, Ma, he's going to die.
601
00:24:52,351 --> 00:24:55,620
Oh my God.
602
00:24:59,091 --> 00:25:02,328
We just figured out his Lipitor.
603
00:25:03,429 --> 00:25:04,429
Ma, what?
604
00:25:05,931 --> 00:25:08,934
We finally figured
out the dosage
605
00:25:08,968 --> 00:25:11,137
and now he's going to die.
606
00:25:11,170 --> 00:25:13,005
Ma, now is not
the time to be thinking
607
00:25:13,038 --> 00:25:14,807
about his Lipitor, okay?
608
00:25:25,217 --> 00:25:27,953
Nathan used to work
in that building.
609
00:25:30,156 --> 00:25:31,156
Remember?
610
00:25:33,292 --> 00:25:35,361
We visited him once,
611
00:25:35,394 --> 00:25:40,232
and I think we took a very
nice walk in the garden there.
612
00:25:46,505 --> 00:25:48,140
- Remember?
- Yeah.
613
00:25:51,944 --> 00:25:53,312
I remember.
614
00:26:32,117 --> 00:26:34,119
Get back here.
615
00:26:34,420 --> 00:26:35,721
Cut it out.
616
00:26:36,355 --> 00:26:37,790
Do you wanna tap out?
617
00:26:37,823 --> 00:26:40,059
No, I do not wanna tap out.
618
00:26:40,092 --> 00:26:41,794
Guys, take this in another room.
619
00:26:43,229 --> 00:26:45,264
If you really love
him, then you'll save him.
620
00:26:45,297 --> 00:26:46,799
She does love me.
621
00:26:46,832 --> 00:26:48,400
And she will save me.
622
00:26:48,434 --> 00:26:51,003
Guys, other room, please.
623
00:26:53,839 --> 00:26:55,450
- Get back here, you troll.
- Don't call me a troll,
624
00:26:55,474 --> 00:26:57,977
- you troll.
- I'm not done with you.
625
00:27:00,312 --> 00:27:01,480
Hey, Abbs.
626
00:27:01,513 --> 00:27:03,215
Sorry I haven't
answered your calls.
627
00:27:03,249 --> 00:27:04,249
Here's the thing.
628
00:27:05,251 --> 00:27:05,951
I don't know if I
want Mom and Dad
629
00:27:05,985 --> 00:27:07,786
at my birthday party next week.
630
00:27:09,188 --> 00:27:13,392
No matter what I do,
I can't get space from them.
631
00:27:13,425 --> 00:27:15,394
- Get what?
- What, space?
632
00:27:15,427 --> 00:27:16,795
What does that mean?
633
00:27:16,829 --> 00:27:18,330
You know what it means.
634
00:27:18,364 --> 00:27:20,032
Remember when we sent the thing.
635
00:27:20,065 --> 00:27:21,367
Oh, yes, yes, yes.
636
00:27:21,400 --> 00:27:23,302
Such disrespect
when he did that.
637
00:27:23,335 --> 00:27:25,137
If I would have told my father-
638
00:27:25,170 --> 00:27:27,539
- Oh, Eugene, stop
with the father.
639
00:27:27,573 --> 00:27:30,476
It's not always
about your father.
640
00:27:30,509 --> 00:27:33,145
Okay, hey, do you want
me to finish or not?
641
00:27:33,178 --> 00:27:34,380
Yeah, go.
642
00:27:34,413 --> 00:27:36,015
Okay.
643
00:27:36,048 --> 00:27:37,049
Karen's parents
644
00:27:37,082 --> 00:27:39,985
so generously offered
to throw me this party.
645
00:27:40,019 --> 00:27:42,054
Oh, I know what's comin'.
646
00:27:42,087 --> 00:27:43,255
- You do?
- Oh yeah.
647
00:27:43,289 --> 00:27:44,590
Just listen, go ahead.
648
00:27:44,623 --> 00:27:48,460
I think you all coming
to my party without mom
649
00:27:48,494 --> 00:27:50,229
apologizing to Karen
650
00:27:50,262 --> 00:27:52,031
- for what happened.
- What?
651
00:27:52,064 --> 00:27:52,965
Is not gonna work.
652
00:27:52,998 --> 00:27:53,565
There it is, I knew it.
653
00:27:53,599 --> 00:27:55,134
Are you kidding?
654
00:27:55,167 --> 00:27:56,368
- That's it.
- Ma,
655
00:27:56,402 --> 00:27:57,336
what happened with Karen?
656
00:27:57,369 --> 00:27:58,537
Oh please.
657
00:27:58,570 --> 00:28:01,307
Her grandmother turned 100.
658
00:28:01,340 --> 00:28:03,942
I didn't go to the celebration
659
00:28:03,976 --> 00:28:08,447
because I can't be all things
to all people, Abigail.
660
00:28:08,480 --> 00:28:09,481
You're absolutely right.
661
00:28:09,515 --> 00:28:10,883
Thank you.
662
00:28:10,916 --> 00:28:13,352
Okay, Ma, can you
just apologize to Karen?
663
00:28:13,385 --> 00:28:14,420
Apologize?
664
00:28:14,453 --> 00:28:16,488
Wh, why?
665
00:28:16,522 --> 00:28:17,489
We're not apologizing.
666
00:28:17,523 --> 00:28:19,024
It was a busy week.
667
00:28:19,058 --> 00:28:20,125
Sue me.
668
00:28:20,159 --> 00:28:21,927
Over my dead fuckin' body.
669
00:28:21,960 --> 00:28:24,863
Over my dead fuckin' body
is anyone in this family
670
00:28:24,897 --> 00:28:28,033
fucking apologizing to
go to that fucking party?
671
00:28:33,439 --> 00:28:35,607
I think we should say hello.
672
00:28:35,642 --> 00:28:37,409
- Now?
- Yeah.
673
00:28:37,443 --> 00:28:38,577
I talked to them.
674
00:28:38,610 --> 00:28:39,611
- I told them.
- And?
675
00:28:39,646 --> 00:28:40,879
They had to be polite.
676
00:28:40,913 --> 00:28:41,913
Okay.
677
00:28:46,151 --> 00:28:49,621
- Hello, family.
- Happy birthday.
678
00:28:49,656 --> 00:28:51,957
- Okay, thank you.
- Hi, Karen.
679
00:28:51,990 --> 00:28:54,126
Mom, Dad.
680
00:28:54,159 --> 00:28:55,994
Nathan, happy birthday.
681
00:28:57,129 --> 00:28:58,129
Thanks.
682
00:29:06,171 --> 00:29:07,171
Dad?
683
00:29:18,984 --> 00:29:21,620
Have you put on a little weight?
684
00:29:29,629 --> 00:29:31,530
You're still a troll.
685
00:29:31,563 --> 00:29:34,099
I swear if you ask
me one more time,
686
00:29:34,133 --> 00:29:36,468
I am going to throw
you into a wall.
687
00:29:36,502 --> 00:29:37,436
Just cut it out.
688
00:29:37,469 --> 00:29:38,537
You're so annoying.
689
00:29:40,038 --> 00:29:44,176
Can you bring
us a snack please, Mom?
690
00:29:44,209 --> 00:29:45,544
Yes, I'll be right there.
691
00:29:45,577 --> 00:29:46,445
I'll be right there.
692
00:29:46,478 --> 00:29:48,046
Okay.
693
00:29:48,080 --> 00:29:53,085
God, I-
694
00:29:58,223 --> 00:29:59,223
Hello?
695
00:30:00,592 --> 00:30:02,961
Hey, what's up?
696
00:30:05,364 --> 00:30:06,666
I just, uh,
697
00:30:08,500 --> 00:30:10,637
I wanted to talk
to you about Dad.
698
00:30:10,670 --> 00:30:13,005
He has a degenerative condition
699
00:30:13,038 --> 00:30:14,973
and we've had to
put him on hospice.
700
00:30:16,542 --> 00:30:18,711
Oh, okay.
701
00:30:20,647 --> 00:30:21,681
Yeah.
702
00:30:23,582 --> 00:30:25,551
I don't really know
what else to say.
703
00:30:26,653 --> 00:30:27,687
Well,
704
00:30:31,223 --> 00:30:32,357
I'm glad you told me.
705
00:30:34,159 --> 00:30:37,029
If you wanted to
start thinking about,
706
00:30:37,062 --> 00:30:38,163
you know um,
707
00:30:39,064 --> 00:30:40,064
if you,
708
00:30:41,634 --> 00:30:42,468
I don't know.
709
00:30:42,501 --> 00:30:44,570
It might be the last.
710
00:30:44,603 --> 00:30:46,639
Yeah, no, I get it.
711
00:30:46,673 --> 00:30:47,673
I get it.
712
00:30:48,574 --> 00:30:49,508
I am sorry.
713
00:30:49,541 --> 00:30:51,043
I know you're probably at work
714
00:30:51,076 --> 00:30:54,046
and so you probably need
time to think about this.
715
00:30:54,079 --> 00:30:56,248
No, no, it's fine.
716
00:30:56,281 --> 00:30:58,685
I mean, I kind of have a
good amount of distance
717
00:30:58,718 --> 00:30:59,718
from all of this.
718
00:31:00,653 --> 00:31:02,588
It's been so long, so.
719
00:31:06,659 --> 00:31:09,061
I'll be down there
in a couple of weeks.
720
00:31:09,094 --> 00:31:09,796
- What?
- Yeah.
721
00:31:09,829 --> 00:31:11,230
I'm the distinguished lecturer
722
00:31:11,263 --> 00:31:12,799
at the College of
Art and Design,
723
00:31:12,832 --> 00:31:15,467
the horticulture
of the Meiji era.
724
00:31:15,501 --> 00:31:17,670
Being a specialist
matters, I guess.
725
00:31:17,704 --> 00:31:19,271
Yeah, I'm sure.
726
00:31:21,607 --> 00:31:27,579
So, I mean, I don't want
to commit to anything, but-
727
00:31:27,613 --> 00:31:30,249
- But there's a
chance you might come see him?
728
00:31:30,282 --> 00:31:31,450
Well, I don't know, Abigail.
729
00:31:31,483 --> 00:31:32,494
I'm just saying
I'll be down there.
730
00:31:32,518 --> 00:31:33,418
It's a long drive.
731
00:31:33,452 --> 00:31:35,387
So it depends on timing and-
732
00:31:35,420 --> 00:31:38,691
- Yeah, okay.
- Bunch of stuff I have to do.
733
00:31:38,725 --> 00:31:40,158
Should I come?
734
00:31:40,192 --> 00:31:41,260
What?
735
00:31:41,293 --> 00:31:43,595
You know, to your lecture?
736
00:31:43,630 --> 00:31:44,764
Should I come?
737
00:31:46,231 --> 00:31:47,165
What?
738
00:31:47,199 --> 00:31:48,233
No, nevermind.
739
00:31:49,601 --> 00:31:50,737
No, yeah.
740
00:31:50,770 --> 00:31:51,770
Come.
741
00:31:52,672 --> 00:31:53,740
That's cool.
742
00:31:53,773 --> 00:31:55,407
Yeah?
743
00:31:55,440 --> 00:31:57,777
Yeah, I'll
send you the information.
744
00:31:57,810 --> 00:31:58,810
Okay.
745
00:32:00,747 --> 00:32:01,747
Okay, bye.
746
00:32:02,581 --> 00:32:03,581
Bye.
747
00:32:07,720 --> 00:32:08,788
Mom?
748
00:32:10,622 --> 00:32:11,658
Yes, I'm coming.
749
00:32:12,692 --> 00:32:14,593
Yeah, we have had conversation.
750
00:32:14,626 --> 00:32:17,764
This is what, my job is
an hour away from here.
751
00:32:17,797 --> 00:32:20,465
It makes no sense for me
to live at home anymore.
752
00:32:20,499 --> 00:32:21,701
Come on.
753
00:32:21,734 --> 00:32:23,201
Oh, don't come on with me, kid.
754
00:32:23,235 --> 00:32:25,437
I worked my ass off so you
can live here rent-free.
755
00:32:25,470 --> 00:32:26,271
- Dad.
- What?
756
00:32:26,305 --> 00:32:27,205
Calm down.
757
00:32:27,239 --> 00:32:28,140
Don't tell me to calm down.
758
00:32:28,173 --> 00:32:29,341
I'm fuckin' calm, Abby.
759
00:32:29,374 --> 00:32:30,552
- This is calm.
- You want things to be
760
00:32:30,576 --> 00:32:31,620
like they were when
you were my age.
761
00:32:31,644 --> 00:32:33,646
And it's just not
like that anymore.
762
00:32:33,680 --> 00:32:35,624
Well, when I was your age,
if I would've told my father
763
00:32:35,648 --> 00:32:38,651
I want to live on my own, but
he should keep paying my rent,
764
00:32:38,685 --> 00:32:39,762
he would have smacked me so hard
765
00:32:39,786 --> 00:32:41,520
I'd have lost all
the teeth in my head
766
00:32:41,553 --> 00:32:42,755
and I woulda deserved it, kid.
767
00:32:42,789 --> 00:32:43,866
Karen and I are getting serious.
768
00:32:43,890 --> 00:32:45,490
- Karen!
- Karen, who?
769
00:32:45,524 --> 00:32:46,258
Who is?
770
00:32:46,291 --> 00:32:47,402
- My girlfriend.
- Is she behind
771
00:32:47,426 --> 00:32:48,728
the whole moving thing?
772
00:32:48,761 --> 00:32:50,630
- What?
- You think that we don't
773
00:32:50,663 --> 00:32:52,564
get what's going on, Nate?
774
00:32:52,598 --> 00:32:53,398
We do.
775
00:32:53,432 --> 00:32:54,533
We know you want to live
776
00:32:54,566 --> 00:32:58,270
in some bachelor pleasure den.
777
00:32:58,303 --> 00:32:59,438
Oh, Ma, stop.
778
00:32:59,471 --> 00:33:00,606
Shut up, Abby.
779
00:33:00,640 --> 00:33:02,642
You think I want to
move out so I can have sex
780
00:33:02,675 --> 00:33:04,309
- with Karen?
- Yeah.
781
00:33:04,343 --> 00:33:06,646
Well, news flash,
we already have.
782
00:33:06,679 --> 00:33:08,447
- What?
- Oh Jesus.
783
00:33:08,480 --> 00:33:09,281
Oh God.
784
00:33:09,314 --> 00:33:10,783
Everyone has sex.
785
00:33:10,817 --> 00:33:12,761
You're the only people who
refuse to acknowledge that
786
00:33:12,785 --> 00:33:15,253
because you're so out
of touch with reality.
787
00:33:15,287 --> 00:33:16,865
It's like you're living
in the Dark Ages.
788
00:33:16,889 --> 00:33:18,490
Do not yell at your mother.
789
00:33:18,523 --> 00:33:20,860
I'm so Sick of your
authoritarian bullshit, Dad!
790
00:33:20,893 --> 00:33:21,928
I'm warning you.
791
00:33:21,961 --> 00:33:23,295
Nathan, your father is
792
00:33:23,328 --> 00:33:24,372
- busting his ass-
- Stop, stop,
793
00:33:24,396 --> 00:33:25,564
stop defending him.
794
00:33:25,597 --> 00:33:27,599
You gave up your life
to be his servant.
795
00:33:27,634 --> 00:33:28,500
And I am tired of
shutting up about the fact
796
00:33:28,533 --> 00:33:30,670
that you love him
more than you love us.
797
00:33:30,703 --> 00:33:31,603
Stop, stop, Dad, please.
798
00:33:31,638 --> 00:33:32,805
Where are you goin'?
799
00:33:32,839 --> 00:33:34,741
Where are you goin'?
800
00:33:34,774 --> 00:33:36,375
Get out of here!
801
00:33:36,408 --> 00:33:37,810
Talking to your
mother like that.
802
00:33:37,844 --> 00:33:38,844
Get out.
803
00:33:39,846 --> 00:33:41,480
Get out of here,
get out of here.
804
00:33:41,513 --> 00:33:43,650
- You're not so smart, Nathan.
- Get outta here.
805
00:33:43,683 --> 00:33:44,760
- Fuckin' dicks, man.
- You don't know anything.
806
00:33:44,784 --> 00:33:46,194
- You're flinchin', huh?
- Get out of,
807
00:33:46,218 --> 00:33:47,252
get the hell out.
808
00:33:47,285 --> 00:33:48,688
Where you goin'?
809
00:33:48,721 --> 00:33:50,188
- I just-
- No,
810
00:33:50,222 --> 00:33:52,222
you're not goin' anywhere,
we're gonna have dinner.
811
00:33:54,861 --> 00:33:55,861
Okay.
812
00:33:56,595 --> 00:33:58,263
So, what should we talk about?
813
00:33:58,296 --> 00:33:59,296
Abby?
814
00:34:00,232 --> 00:34:01,734
Have a nice day today?
815
00:34:03,736 --> 00:34:04,871
Ah.
816
00:34:14,579 --> 00:34:15,782
Hello.
817
00:34:15,815 --> 00:34:16,916
Hi.
818
00:34:16,949 --> 00:34:17,750
You're early.
819
00:34:17,784 --> 00:34:18,951
Hello, Miss Abigail.
820
00:34:20,352 --> 00:34:22,254
You could call me
Abby at this point.
821
00:34:22,287 --> 00:34:23,287
Abby.
822
00:34:24,289 --> 00:34:26,391
- Short for Abigail.
- Yeah, no, I got it.
823
00:34:26,425 --> 00:34:27,860
Of course you do.
824
00:34:27,894 --> 00:34:30,730
I mean, I'm pretty sure
I said it'd be around noon.
825
00:34:31,864 --> 00:34:32,864
And look at that.
826
00:34:33,900 --> 00:34:35,434
It is noon.
827
00:34:35,467 --> 00:34:36,936
- It is.
- Thought it was not,
828
00:34:36,969 --> 00:34:38,638
but it is.
829
00:34:38,671 --> 00:34:40,272
Can I take this out for you?
830
00:34:40,305 --> 00:34:42,642
Trade you my empty water
bottle for the trash?
831
00:34:42,675 --> 00:34:46,813
Sure, but I can fill
this with water for you.
832
00:34:46,846 --> 00:34:48,848
That is the thing
that could happen.
833
00:34:48,881 --> 00:34:49,982
- Mm-hm.
- Mm-hm.
834
00:34:50,016 --> 00:34:51,383
- Yup.
- Yup.
835
00:34:52,517 --> 00:34:54,486
Well, I will be right back.
836
00:34:54,519 --> 00:34:55,519
Okay.
837
00:34:56,656 --> 00:34:57,656
All right.
838
00:35:09,068 --> 00:35:10,870
Here you go.
839
00:35:10,903 --> 00:35:12,404
- Thank you.
- No problem.
840
00:35:14,473 --> 00:35:16,876
So, cupcakes.
841
00:35:16,909 --> 00:35:17,909
Uh huh.
842
00:35:18,610 --> 00:35:22,414
Yup, that is what I am doing.
843
00:35:26,853 --> 00:35:29,021
Uh, Mom, I can't
really talk right now
844
00:35:29,055 --> 00:35:30,823
- because I have people over.
- Oh my God,
845
00:35:30,857 --> 00:35:33,793
did you know if you sleep
with your mouth open
846
00:35:33,826 --> 00:35:37,063
and don't swallow enough,
you get sores in your mouth?
847
00:35:37,096 --> 00:35:38,030
Mom.
848
00:35:38,064 --> 00:35:39,031
Your father has so many sores.
849
00:35:39,065 --> 00:35:39,832
Mom, Mom.
850
00:35:39,866 --> 00:35:42,534
- Mom.
- Because his swallow reflex
851
00:35:42,567 --> 00:35:43,770
is so messed up.
852
00:35:43,803 --> 00:35:45,403
Ma I can't talk right now.
853
00:35:45,437 --> 00:35:46,571
I have somebody over here.
854
00:35:46,605 --> 00:35:47,874
- Okay?
- Oh.
855
00:35:47,907 --> 00:35:49,842
Since, when do you
have people there?
856
00:35:49,876 --> 00:35:51,077
- Ma, I was just.
- Hey.
857
00:35:51,110 --> 00:35:53,746
Hello there, muscles.
858
00:35:53,780 --> 00:35:54,680
Hello yourself.
859
00:35:54,714 --> 00:35:55,915
I'm Jay, the landscaper.
860
00:35:55,948 --> 00:35:56,816
You really don't
have to do this.
861
00:35:56,849 --> 00:35:58,084
Oh, I don't mind.
862
00:35:58,117 --> 00:35:59,919
I see where Abigail
gets her good looks.
863
00:35:59,952 --> 00:36:01,020
- Oh wow.
- Jay,
864
00:36:01,053 --> 00:36:03,656
flattery will get
you everywhere.
865
00:36:03,689 --> 00:36:06,092
I've got some landscaping
I could use some help with.
866
00:36:06,125 --> 00:36:08,527
Oh my God, I want to die.
867
00:36:08,560 --> 00:36:10,362
- Just a sec.
- Okay, okay.
868
00:36:10,395 --> 00:36:12,597
Abigail, your father
needs that stuff
869
00:36:12,632 --> 00:36:14,734
that makes water
easier to swallow.
870
00:36:14,767 --> 00:36:16,535
He's gagging and drooling.
871
00:36:16,568 --> 00:36:18,871
Ma, I'm gonna
call you back later.
872
00:36:18,905 --> 00:36:19,939
Okay?
873
00:36:22,607 --> 00:36:23,910
Mm.
874
00:36:23,943 --> 00:36:25,745
Moms, right?
875
00:36:25,778 --> 00:36:27,847
Yeah, that's one way to put it.
876
00:36:27,880 --> 00:36:29,548
Ma, are our cupcakes done yet?
877
00:36:29,581 --> 00:36:31,483
Yeah. I'm working on it.
878
00:36:31,516 --> 00:36:33,518
- Sorry.
- Don't be.
879
00:36:33,552 --> 00:36:34,452
I'll get outta here.
880
00:36:34,486 --> 00:36:35,554
- Get to work.
- Okay.
881
00:36:37,657 --> 00:36:38,758
Jay?
882
00:36:38,791 --> 00:36:40,960
- Yeah?
- I,
883
00:36:40,993 --> 00:36:44,864
huh, you might not
want to do this,
884
00:36:44,897 --> 00:36:48,734
but I have some extra
tickets to this lecture
885
00:36:48,768 --> 00:36:51,904
on magical Japanese gardens.
886
00:36:51,938 --> 00:36:54,506
You know, you are a landscaper.
887
00:36:54,539 --> 00:36:56,909
Meiji era is what this is about.
888
00:36:56,943 --> 00:36:59,846
And you know, maybe you might-
889
00:36:59,879 --> 00:37:03,049
- Wow, that is a
very specific topic.
890
00:37:03,082 --> 00:37:04,082
I know.
891
00:37:05,718 --> 00:37:06,919
Yeah, sure, sounds good.
892
00:37:06,953 --> 00:37:08,420
When is it?
893
00:37:08,453 --> 00:37:09,689
Tomorrow?
894
00:37:09,722 --> 00:37:10,923
Tomorrow?
895
00:37:10,957 --> 00:37:12,397
What, you think I
had no other plans?
896
00:37:13,726 --> 00:37:14,694
Yeah, I'm sure you do.
897
00:37:14,727 --> 00:37:17,997
No, I don't
have any other plans.
898
00:37:19,598 --> 00:37:20,598
Okay.
899
00:37:21,734 --> 00:37:22,935
Okay.
900
00:37:22,969 --> 00:37:25,171
I should also tell you that
the lecturer is my brother.
901
00:37:25,204 --> 00:37:28,107
He's a professor and
this is his specialty.
902
00:37:28,140 --> 00:37:31,443
So it is going to be him there.
903
00:37:31,476 --> 00:37:32,621
I haven't seen him
in a long time,
904
00:37:32,645 --> 00:37:34,947
so it's kind of a big deal.
905
00:37:34,981 --> 00:37:36,849
Wow, so first I
flirt with your mom,
906
00:37:36,883 --> 00:37:38,093
now you want me to
meet your brother?
907
00:37:38,117 --> 00:37:39,628
Yeah, I'd like you
to forget about that.
908
00:37:39,652 --> 00:37:43,089
But this might be a
terrible idea as well.
909
00:37:43,122 --> 00:37:44,132
So just don't worry about it.
910
00:37:44,156 --> 00:37:45,091
You know what?
911
00:37:45,124 --> 00:37:48,060
Let's add in Sushi
before and it's a deal.
912
00:37:49,996 --> 00:37:51,030
Okay.
913
00:37:51,063 --> 00:37:52,064
Okay.
914
00:37:52,098 --> 00:37:53,398
- Great.
- Cool.
915
00:37:55,067 --> 00:37:56,468
- Okay.
- Okay.
916
00:38:06,712 --> 00:38:08,814
The forest
917
00:38:10,149 --> 00:38:11,149
was caps.
918
00:38:14,921 --> 00:38:16,155
You're talking silly talk.
919
00:38:35,141 --> 00:38:36,776
I worked so goddamn hard,
920
00:38:36,809 --> 00:38:39,577
for every day of
my fuckin' life,
921
00:38:39,611 --> 00:38:41,113
and this is the thanks I get?
922
00:38:41,147 --> 00:38:42,748
Abby.
923
00:38:42,782 --> 00:38:44,183
Abby, Abby, honey.
924
00:38:44,216 --> 00:38:45,617
Sweetie, sweetie pie, wake up.
925
00:38:45,651 --> 00:38:47,053
Wake up, wake up.
926
00:38:47,086 --> 00:38:47,853
Come on, we gotta get up.
927
00:38:47,887 --> 00:38:50,522
- What's goin' on?
- We gotta go.
928
00:38:50,555 --> 00:38:52,058
We gotta go, put your shoes on.
929
00:38:52,091 --> 00:38:53,092
Why?
930
00:38:53,125 --> 00:38:53,926
Come on.
931
00:38:53,960 --> 00:38:54,760
'Cause we have to.
932
00:38:54,794 --> 00:38:55,928
Hurry up.
933
00:38:55,962 --> 00:38:56,862
I'm gonna get Nathan.
934
00:38:56,896 --> 00:38:57,763
Come on, sweetie, come on.
935
00:38:57,797 --> 00:38:58,798
- Okay.
- Okay.
936
00:38:58,831 --> 00:39:01,566
Barbara, you
are such a selfish cunt.
937
00:39:03,102 --> 00:39:06,038
I don't need any of this shit.
938
00:39:06,072 --> 00:39:08,207
Oh, you're taking them away.
939
00:39:08,240 --> 00:39:09,275
Go ahead.
940
00:39:09,308 --> 00:39:12,712
Go ahead, see if I fuckin' care.
941
00:39:19,218 --> 00:39:21,087
Daddy just needs to cool off.
942
00:39:21,120 --> 00:39:22,121
You know how he gets.
943
00:39:22,154 --> 00:39:24,556
He's under a lot
of stress at work.
944
00:39:36,102 --> 00:39:38,037
Okay, you guys,
945
00:39:38,070 --> 00:39:39,147
I'll see you in the
morning, sweetie.
946
00:39:39,171 --> 00:39:40,940
- No.
- I love you.
947
00:39:40,973 --> 00:39:41,973
No.
948
00:39:42,975 --> 00:39:44,176
Don't go.
949
00:39:44,210 --> 00:39:45,210
Love you.
950
00:39:57,356 --> 00:39:59,258
- Nate?
- What?
951
00:40:01,160 --> 00:40:03,662
- Where's the moon?
- What?
952
00:40:04,897 --> 00:40:05,731
Where is it?
953
00:40:05,765 --> 00:40:07,299
It's not in the sky.
954
00:40:07,333 --> 00:40:08,634
Oh.
955
00:40:08,667 --> 00:40:09,802
It's called a new moon.
956
00:40:12,271 --> 00:40:13,271
Go to sleep.
957
00:40:18,144 --> 00:40:20,079
Are Mom and Dad gonna be okay?
958
00:40:25,151 --> 00:40:26,952
I don't know, sis.
959
00:40:26,986 --> 00:40:27,987
I don't know.
960
00:40:28,020 --> 00:40:29,288
Go to sleep.
961
00:40:46,672 --> 00:40:47,740
Hey, there you are.
962
00:40:47,773 --> 00:40:49,108
Hi.
963
00:40:49,141 --> 00:40:50,976
I am so sorry that I am late.
964
00:40:51,010 --> 00:40:52,654
I'd like to tell you that
I'm not typically late,
965
00:40:52,678 --> 00:40:55,281
but I am always late and it
is not because I value my time
966
00:40:55,314 --> 00:40:56,248
more than yours.
967
00:40:56,282 --> 00:40:58,284
It's just, I put things places,
968
00:40:58,317 --> 00:40:59,617
and then I can't find them,
969
00:40:59,652 --> 00:41:02,221
things that are
important like the keys.
970
00:41:02,254 --> 00:41:03,222
I'm sorry.
971
00:41:03,255 --> 00:41:04,757
It's okay.
972
00:41:04,790 --> 00:41:05,991
- Hi.
- Hi.
973
00:41:18,904 --> 00:41:20,139
I'm gonna get started here.
974
00:41:20,172 --> 00:41:21,407
Please take your seats.
975
00:41:23,142 --> 00:41:25,744
Well, feel like
I'm back in college.
976
00:41:27,313 --> 00:41:29,248
Thought you didn't
go to college.
977
00:41:29,281 --> 00:41:31,784
Wow, not used to
dates who listen.
978
00:41:31,817 --> 00:41:33,018
Here today.
979
00:41:33,052 --> 00:41:36,188
You can you can hear me, right?
980
00:41:36,222 --> 00:41:38,257
- This is on-
- God.
981
00:41:38,290 --> 00:41:39,892
I'm Nathaniel Frey.
982
00:41:39,925 --> 00:41:41,393
I mean, he looks
exactly like my dad.
983
00:41:41,427 --> 00:41:45,431
The College of Art and Design
is very close to my heart.
984
00:41:45,464 --> 00:41:47,433
So let's just jump in.
985
00:41:47,466 --> 00:41:49,201
If we can get the lights.
986
00:41:51,036 --> 00:41:53,205
The Meiji Period
is one which has.
987
00:41:54,740 --> 00:41:55,674
Okay, so what do we do?
988
00:41:55,708 --> 00:41:56,442
This is who they are.
989
00:41:56,475 --> 00:41:57,843
Nathan, you should have heard
990
00:41:57,877 --> 00:41:59,111
what she was saying in there.
991
00:41:59,145 --> 00:42:01,247
Abby, you have to get
yourself out of there.
992
00:42:02,348 --> 00:42:03,348
- Nate.
- One sec.
993
00:42:06,752 --> 00:42:08,287
Abbs, I gotta go.
994
00:42:08,320 --> 00:42:09,321
Get out of there.
995
00:42:09,355 --> 00:42:10,256
What am I suppose to do?
996
00:42:10,289 --> 00:42:12,224
How am I supposed to?
997
00:42:14,326 --> 00:42:15,127
- Nathan.
- Do what you need to,
998
00:42:15,161 --> 00:42:16,095
do what you need to.
999
00:42:16,128 --> 00:42:17,163
- I gotta go.
- Nathan.
1000
00:42:17,196 --> 00:42:21,967
Is best left to the gods
and not the gardeners.
1001
00:42:30,910 --> 00:42:32,378
I'll meet you at the car?
1002
00:42:32,411 --> 00:42:33,345
Okay.
1003
00:42:33,379 --> 00:42:34,379
Good luck.
1004
00:42:35,314 --> 00:42:37,216
- Okay.
- So thank you guys.
1005
00:42:48,327 --> 00:42:49,327
Hey.
1006
00:42:51,130 --> 00:42:52,798
Do we hug?
1007
00:42:52,831 --> 00:42:53,831
Okay.
1008
00:42:55,834 --> 00:42:57,245
That was so cool to
see you in action.
1009
00:42:57,269 --> 00:42:58,237
You're so passionate.
1010
00:42:58,270 --> 00:42:59,805
Thank you, thank you.
1011
00:42:59,838 --> 00:43:02,041
You're just really
well versed and all.
1012
00:43:02,074 --> 00:43:04,052
Yeah, they asked me to do
this lecture and I was like,
1013
00:43:04,076 --> 00:43:06,378
I just did this at the
University of Tokyo.
1014
00:43:06,412 --> 00:43:08,380
So I wasn't even sure
I wanted to come.
1015
00:43:08,414 --> 00:43:12,251
But there's not many of us
with this level of expertise.
1016
00:43:12,284 --> 00:43:13,419
Of course.
1017
00:43:16,121 --> 00:43:17,121
So,
1018
00:43:19,992 --> 00:43:23,495
is now a good time
to talk about Dad?
1019
00:43:24,997 --> 00:43:25,997
Sure.
1020
00:43:26,498 --> 00:43:27,498
- Yeah.
- Okay.
1021
00:43:47,286 --> 00:43:48,454
So just so we're clear here,
1022
00:43:48,487 --> 00:43:53,158
I'm not generally curious
about our parents.
1023
00:43:53,192 --> 00:43:54,970
If I was, I wouldn't have chosen
to stay out of their lives
1024
00:43:54,994 --> 00:43:56,328
for the past 20 years.
1025
00:44:02,468 --> 00:44:03,936
But, um,
1026
00:44:06,505 --> 00:44:11,310
do you want to
tell me how he is?
1027
00:44:11,343 --> 00:44:13,512
Like for you?
1028
00:44:17,283 --> 00:44:19,151
So much has happened
since you left.
1029
00:44:21,854 --> 00:44:23,889
Dad was hospitalized
a few years ago,
1030
00:44:26,258 --> 00:44:27,393
mental breakdown,
1031
00:44:28,327 --> 00:44:29,495
diagnosis bipolar.
1032
00:44:30,396 --> 00:44:32,097
And Mom,
1033
00:44:33,332 --> 00:44:35,301
I mean, she's never
been formally diagnosed,
1034
00:44:35,334 --> 00:44:38,437
but you know it's very
borderline personality disorder.
1035
00:44:38,470 --> 00:44:40,539
Okay, so now these
things have names.
1036
00:44:44,209 --> 00:44:45,878
He's like bad, Nathan.
1037
00:44:48,113 --> 00:44:51,917
I mean, he can't
stand up on his own.
1038
00:44:51,950 --> 00:44:53,352
He's refusing to eat.
1039
00:44:55,387 --> 00:44:58,590
This really is it.
1040
00:44:58,624 --> 00:45:01,393
So if there's any part of
you that wants to see him,
1041
00:45:03,395 --> 00:45:06,899
now would be the time.
1042
00:45:14,540 --> 00:45:16,408
I don't think I can go see him.
1043
00:45:18,210 --> 00:45:19,545
Yeah.
1044
00:45:19,578 --> 00:45:20,512
- I'm sorry.
- Okay.
1045
00:45:20,546 --> 00:45:21,880
No.
1046
00:45:21,914 --> 00:45:22,915
Thanks for coming.
1047
00:45:23,549 --> 00:45:24,583
Yeah.
1048
00:45:30,489 --> 00:45:32,091
It's because of her.
1049
00:45:34,593 --> 00:45:36,328
- What?
- I don't want to see her.
1050
00:45:37,196 --> 00:45:40,165
I don't, I really
don't want to see her.
1051
00:45:40,199 --> 00:45:41,199
Okay.
1052
00:45:42,000 --> 00:45:43,602
Can I ask you why?
1053
00:45:49,341 --> 00:45:50,341
Yeah.
1054
00:45:52,411 --> 00:45:54,113
His wreckage was
1055
00:45:56,315 --> 00:45:57,315
tangible.
1056
00:45:59,952 --> 00:46:03,455
Hers was so insidious
and disturbing.
1057
00:46:06,125 --> 00:46:07,526
I just can't go there.
1058
00:46:09,361 --> 00:46:10,361
Okay.
1059
00:46:12,531 --> 00:46:13,999
What if she wasn't there?
1060
00:46:16,502 --> 00:46:17,970
What?
1061
00:46:18,003 --> 00:46:19,706
What if she wasn't there?
1062
00:46:19,739 --> 00:46:21,206
- Wow.
- Yeah.
1063
00:46:22,241 --> 00:46:23,643
That's a good start for you.
1064
00:46:25,043 --> 00:46:26,478
So your life is just always
1065
00:46:26,512 --> 00:46:29,548
kind of like this
emotion, this intensity?
1066
00:46:29,581 --> 00:46:32,151
You havin' to fix everything?
1067
00:46:32,184 --> 00:46:33,184
Yeah.
1068
00:46:34,453 --> 00:46:35,487
Yeah, it's all I know.
1069
00:46:37,156 --> 00:46:40,492
But this, I mean, how am I
supposed to tell my mother
1070
00:46:40,526 --> 00:46:42,227
that she can't be
there when her son,
1071
00:46:42,261 --> 00:46:43,663
who she hasn't
seen for 20 years,
1072
00:46:43,696 --> 00:46:46,398
visits her husband who is dying.
1073
00:46:47,634 --> 00:46:48,668
I just,
1074
00:46:50,102 --> 00:46:52,104
I don't know how to
tackle that one yet.
1075
00:46:54,440 --> 00:46:55,574
But I've got to fix it.
1076
00:46:57,109 --> 00:46:58,109
I said I'd fix it.
1077
00:47:01,648 --> 00:47:03,716
Well, I kind of
fix for a living.
1078
00:47:03,750 --> 00:47:05,417
And I can tell you this,
1079
00:47:06,518 --> 00:47:09,555
things will keep breaking.
1080
00:47:13,158 --> 00:47:14,727
So what are you gonna do?
1081
00:47:22,669 --> 00:47:23,736
I'm so sorry.
1082
00:47:23,770 --> 00:47:25,772
- It's okay.
- I really wanna do this.
1083
00:47:25,805 --> 00:47:27,206
It's okay.
1084
00:47:27,239 --> 00:47:28,407
Just in case something.
1085
00:47:28,440 --> 00:47:30,042
Oh, say hi for me.
1086
00:47:30,075 --> 00:47:31,109
- Who's that?
- Nobody.
1087
00:47:31,143 --> 00:47:32,544
It's me, the landscaper.
1088
00:47:32,578 --> 00:47:34,146
Oh, Jed.
1089
00:47:34,179 --> 00:47:35,380
Jay.
1090
00:47:35,414 --> 00:47:36,783
What are you crazy kids up to?
1091
00:47:36,816 --> 00:47:38,651
I'm not,
1092
00:47:38,685 --> 00:47:39,762
Ma, let me call you tomorrow.
1093
00:47:39,786 --> 00:47:41,453
- Okay?
- Okay.
1094
00:47:41,487 --> 00:47:44,791
And Jeff, make sure to come
to Eugene's birthday party
1095
00:47:44,824 --> 00:47:46,258
next week.
1096
00:47:46,291 --> 00:47:47,803
It's likely the last
one he'll ever have.
1097
00:47:47,827 --> 00:47:49,629
- Mom.
- I would love to,
1098
00:47:49,662 --> 00:47:52,231
but my parents are going
to be in town from Oakland.
1099
00:47:52,264 --> 00:47:53,365
So he has plans.
1100
00:47:53,398 --> 00:47:54,500
- Plans.
- Great.
1101
00:47:54,533 --> 00:47:55,467
Bring them too.
1102
00:47:55,501 --> 00:47:57,078
- The more, the merrier.
- Oh, God in heaven.
1103
00:47:57,102 --> 00:47:58,604
No, Ma.
1104
00:47:58,638 --> 00:48:01,106
It's a party, Abigail.
1105
00:48:01,139 --> 00:48:04,142
Don't you want to celebrate
your father's last birthday
1106
00:48:04,176 --> 00:48:07,412
and let him see you
finally got a date?
1107
00:48:07,446 --> 00:48:11,316
Okay, Ma, I'm
calling you tomorrow.
1108
00:48:11,350 --> 00:48:12,117
- Bye, love you.
- Goodbye.
1109
00:48:12,150 --> 00:48:13,150
Bye.
1110
00:48:17,222 --> 00:48:19,659
What are you doing?
1111
00:48:19,692 --> 00:48:22,662
Securing the weirdest
second date ever.
1112
00:48:22,695 --> 00:48:23,763
- Truly.
- Truly.
1113
00:48:24,797 --> 00:48:26,265
Like being around you.
1114
00:48:30,502 --> 00:48:32,337
This isn't too much?
1115
00:48:33,873 --> 00:48:35,407
It's so messy.
1116
00:48:36,876 --> 00:48:38,510
That's not how I see it.
1117
00:48:56,796 --> 00:48:58,597
My mom gets weird at parties.
1118
00:48:58,631 --> 00:49:01,466
Her behavior is not
a reflection on me.
1119
00:49:01,500 --> 00:49:03,670
Today is about my dad.
1120
00:49:03,703 --> 00:49:07,640
I can do for an hour, what I
couldn't do for a lifetime.
1121
00:49:07,674 --> 00:49:09,241
I am not her.
1122
00:49:09,274 --> 00:49:10,342
She is not me.
1123
00:49:15,147 --> 00:49:16,415
Okay, party people.
1124
00:49:16,883 --> 00:49:18,417
Let's do this.
1125
00:49:21,688 --> 00:49:23,188
Where is the...
1126
00:49:24,356 --> 00:49:25,190
birthday boy?
1127
00:49:25,223 --> 00:49:26,291
Hi.
1128
00:49:26,325 --> 00:49:27,660
Hello.
1129
00:49:27,694 --> 00:49:28,861
- How are you?
- Good.
1130
00:49:30,162 --> 00:49:32,699
Darrin, Dad, this is Jay.
1131
00:49:32,732 --> 00:49:34,199
Hello, Mr. Frey.
1132
00:49:34,801 --> 00:49:36,368
Hi.
1133
00:49:36,401 --> 00:49:37,870
- Hi.
- Sup.
1134
00:49:37,904 --> 00:49:40,172
All high fives
and handshakes and.
1135
00:49:40,907 --> 00:49:44,343
This is Billy and Marge,
1136
00:49:44,376 --> 00:49:46,244
sorry, Marge and Billy.
1137
00:49:46,278 --> 00:49:48,547
These are Jay's parents and
they're celebrating with us
1138
00:49:48,580 --> 00:49:49,716
because they are in town.
1139
00:49:49,749 --> 00:49:50,759
- How are you, Mr. Frey?
- Happy birthday.
1140
00:49:50,783 --> 00:49:52,284
Where's the dad?
1141
00:49:53,619 --> 00:49:55,187
- Hi, Ma.
- Hi.
1142
00:49:55,220 --> 00:49:56,254
Hello.
1143
00:49:57,289 --> 00:49:58,658
Hello, welcome.
1144
00:49:58,691 --> 00:49:59,892
Can I get you a drink?
1145
00:49:59,926 --> 00:50:01,894
We have mimosas.
1146
00:50:01,928 --> 00:50:03,462
Come on, Jed.
1147
00:50:03,495 --> 00:50:04,764
Jay, Mom.
1148
00:50:04,797 --> 00:50:05,765
I'm sorry.
1149
00:50:05,798 --> 00:50:06,798
It's okay.
1150
00:50:08,400 --> 00:50:09,400
Okay.
1151
00:50:10,870 --> 00:50:13,405
- The father didn't come?
- Dad.
1152
00:50:14,707 --> 00:50:16,174
So how is your day?
1153
00:50:16,208 --> 00:50:16,809
Oh.
1154
00:50:16,843 --> 00:50:18,276
It's been up and down.
1155
00:50:18,310 --> 00:50:19,888
We took a nice walk in
the park, right Mr. F?
1156
00:50:19,912 --> 00:50:20,947
Okay.
1157
00:50:20,980 --> 00:50:22,414
Just okay?
1158
00:50:22,447 --> 00:50:23,382
Come on, we saw a
three legged dog.
1159
00:50:23,415 --> 00:50:24,616
We checked out the ladies.
1160
00:50:24,651 --> 00:50:25,928
We saw the little kid
who fell on his face
1161
00:50:25,952 --> 00:50:27,386
when he tripped
on that sprinkler.
1162
00:50:27,419 --> 00:50:28,955
We laughed a little bit.
1163
00:50:30,723 --> 00:50:31,658
What?
1164
00:50:31,691 --> 00:50:33,558
- It was funny.
- Oh my God.
1165
00:50:33,592 --> 00:50:35,327
Laughing at little
kids falling down.
1166
00:50:35,360 --> 00:50:36,739
- Speaking of little kids.
- Hi, Mom.
1167
00:50:36,763 --> 00:50:37,797
Hello.
1168
00:50:37,830 --> 00:50:40,198
Oh, are you having a good day?
1169
00:50:40,232 --> 00:50:40,967
Missed you.
1170
00:50:41,000 --> 00:50:42,467
- Hi.
- Hi.
1171
00:50:42,501 --> 00:50:43,803
Hiding in the back room?
1172
00:50:43,836 --> 00:50:45,772
Your mom was having
a moment or three.
1173
00:50:45,805 --> 00:50:46,806
Uh-huh, yeah.
1174
00:50:46,839 --> 00:50:48,908
Along with her mimosa or three.
1175
00:50:49,876 --> 00:50:50,876
I'm sorry.
1176
00:50:52,310 --> 00:50:53,421
You're supposed to talk
to her about drinking
1177
00:50:53,445 --> 00:50:54,814
- in front of the boys.
- I know.
1178
00:50:54,847 --> 00:50:56,381
I just.
1179
00:50:56,415 --> 00:50:57,282
It needs to happen.
1180
00:50:57,315 --> 00:50:58,851
I will do it.
1181
00:50:58,885 --> 00:50:59,686
Hi, Jay.
1182
00:50:59,719 --> 00:51:00,519
Hey, Peter.
1183
00:51:00,552 --> 00:51:01,754
Good to see ya.
1184
00:51:01,788 --> 00:51:02,755
Hey fellas.
1185
00:51:02,789 --> 00:51:04,356
When is cake time?
1186
00:51:04,824 --> 00:51:09,829
♪ Happy birthday to you ♪
1187
00:51:10,029 --> 00:51:13,900
♪ Happy birthday to you ♪
1188
00:51:13,933 --> 00:51:18,905
♪ Happy birthday, dear Eugene ♪
1189
00:51:19,839 --> 00:51:22,809
♪ Happy birthday to you ♪
1190
00:51:22,842 --> 00:51:25,712
- Happy birthday, dad.
- Blow 'em out, Mr. F.
1191
00:51:31,283 --> 00:51:33,251
I'd say it went pretty well.
1192
00:51:33,285 --> 00:51:35,788
I wish Nathan was here.
1193
00:51:41,493 --> 00:51:42,795
All right.
1194
00:51:42,829 --> 00:51:47,399
Let's get this cake served.
1195
00:51:47,432 --> 00:51:49,635
Nice piece for you, Eugene.
1196
00:51:49,669 --> 00:51:51,269
- I don't want it.
- Yes, you do.
1197
00:51:51,303 --> 00:51:53,405
- You love this cake.
- No, I don't want it.
1198
00:51:53,438 --> 00:51:55,407
- You do.
- I don't.
1199
00:51:55,440 --> 00:51:56,575
I don't want it.
1200
00:51:56,608 --> 00:51:57,686
- Yes you do, Eugene.
- No, I don't.
1201
00:51:57,710 --> 00:51:58,510
Yes, you do.
1202
00:51:58,543 --> 00:51:59,444
Come on, Eugene.
1203
00:51:59,478 --> 00:52:00,278
God dammit.
1204
00:52:00,312 --> 00:52:01,681
I don't, please.
1205
00:52:01,714 --> 00:52:02,514
- Ma.
- Mommy,
1206
00:52:02,547 --> 00:52:03,950
maybe he's not hungry.
1207
00:52:03,983 --> 00:52:05,718
No, that is not an option.
1208
00:52:05,752 --> 00:52:06,953
It's his birthday.
1209
00:52:06,986 --> 00:52:08,988
He has to eat his cake.
1210
00:52:09,021 --> 00:52:09,922
Okay, you know what, Mrs. F?
1211
00:52:09,956 --> 00:52:10,857
Maybe you should back off.
1212
00:52:10,890 --> 00:52:11,791
Let's just take a walk.
1213
00:52:11,824 --> 00:52:13,760
It's his favorite cake.
1214
00:52:13,793 --> 00:52:14,761
He loves it.
1215
00:52:14,794 --> 00:52:18,430
We're all going to enjoy
it together, God dammit.
1216
00:52:18,463 --> 00:52:19,364
You know what, Mrs. F?
1217
00:52:19,397 --> 00:52:20,565
I'm just asking you to stop.
1218
00:52:20,599 --> 00:52:23,703
Darrin, I don't recall
asking your opinion.
1219
00:52:23,736 --> 00:52:25,638
Just know your place.
1220
00:52:25,671 --> 00:52:27,740
- Okay, know your place.
- Oh, hell no.
1221
00:52:27,774 --> 00:52:28,941
Darrin, I'll handle this.
1222
00:52:28,975 --> 00:52:30,408
- Abigail?
- Yes?
1223
00:52:30,442 --> 00:52:31,754
I think we're just
gonna grab a ride,
1224
00:52:31,778 --> 00:52:32,678
but I'll call you.
1225
00:52:32,712 --> 00:52:33,880
All right, I'll call you.
1226
00:52:33,913 --> 00:52:35,848
That's just, okay.
1227
00:52:35,882 --> 00:52:37,449
- Thank you.
- Honey, hush.
1228
00:52:37,482 --> 00:52:38,885
Let's just get out of here.
1229
00:52:38,918 --> 00:52:41,319
We can talk about this later.
1230
00:52:42,354 --> 00:52:43,923
Why are you sending them away?
1231
00:52:43,956 --> 00:52:44,991
Because, Ma.
1232
00:52:45,024 --> 00:52:46,391
You know what, Dad?
1233
00:52:46,424 --> 00:52:48,326
Let's get you down
to take a nap.
1234
00:52:48,360 --> 00:52:49,461
You've had a big day.
1235
00:52:49,494 --> 00:52:50,763
Let's get you down okay.
1236
00:52:50,797 --> 00:52:51,731
You just broke up the party.
1237
00:52:51,764 --> 00:52:54,000
Hey Darrin, can I
borrow you for a second?
1238
00:52:54,033 --> 00:52:54,901
Yeah, of course.
1239
00:52:54,934 --> 00:52:55,735
- Can you help?
- Yeah.
1240
00:52:55,768 --> 00:52:57,402
Thanks, I got the chair.
1241
00:52:57,435 --> 00:52:58,805
- I got ya, Mr. F.
- Hey, hey, hey.
1242
00:52:58,838 --> 00:53:02,407
No one naps until they
eat their cake, Darrin.
1243
00:53:02,440 --> 00:53:03,943
We're gonna go.
1244
00:53:03,976 --> 00:53:05,011
Come on, Dad.
1245
00:53:15,788 --> 00:53:17,990
If it were my last
birthday on Earth,
1246
00:53:19,692 --> 00:53:20,893
I would eat this cake.
1247
00:53:38,911 --> 00:53:39,946
Daddy.
1248
00:54:36,102 --> 00:54:37,069
Sit down, sit down.
1249
00:54:37,103 --> 00:54:38,204
I need to talk to you.
1250
00:54:38,237 --> 00:54:41,207
Dad, I really don't-
1251
00:54:41,240 --> 00:54:44,710
- You know your mom and
I had a big fight, right?
1252
00:54:44,744 --> 00:54:46,846
She doesn't like me smoking pot.
1253
00:54:46,879 --> 00:54:48,948
You know, it's not like
I'm hurting anybody.
1254
00:54:48,981 --> 00:54:52,118
It's not like something I don't
have complete control over.
1255
00:54:53,252 --> 00:54:55,154
I'm thinking of moving
back to the city.
1256
00:54:55,187 --> 00:54:56,856
What?
1257
00:54:56,889 --> 00:54:59,959
No, but I came out here
because your mom wanted to,
1258
00:54:59,992 --> 00:55:03,129
I wanted to stay there because
that's where the energy is.
1259
00:55:03,930 --> 00:55:05,765
I'm an artist, Abby.
1260
00:55:05,798 --> 00:55:08,801
I'm a writer, I want to write
the great American novel.
1261
00:55:08,834 --> 00:55:11,103
- Dad.
- But there's no energy here.
1262
00:55:11,137 --> 00:55:12,537
Dad, just-
1263
00:55:12,570 --> 00:55:14,640
- My psychiatrist says
that if he were me,
1264
00:55:14,674 --> 00:55:16,541
he would blow his
fuckin' brains out
1265
00:55:16,574 --> 00:55:18,144
if he had a wife
who was this frigid
1266
00:55:18,177 --> 00:55:20,146
and a son who
wouldn't talk to him.
1267
00:55:21,814 --> 00:55:23,683
There's no love
for me here, Abby.
1268
00:55:27,053 --> 00:55:29,088
How could you say that to me?
1269
00:55:29,121 --> 00:55:30,056
I'm here.
1270
00:55:30,089 --> 00:55:31,190
I love you.
1271
00:55:33,960 --> 00:55:35,661
Have you spoken to your brother?
1272
00:55:39,832 --> 00:55:40,832
No.
1273
00:55:45,137 --> 00:55:48,606
My Abby, my Abby, my Abby.
1274
00:55:50,009 --> 00:55:51,509
You know me better than anybody.
1275
00:55:51,543 --> 00:55:52,945
You always have.
1276
00:55:52,979 --> 00:55:54,914
You know me better
than your mother.
1277
00:55:56,148 --> 00:55:57,183
That's for sure.
1278
00:55:58,050 --> 00:55:59,051
Thank you.
1279
00:55:59,085 --> 00:56:01,087
I gotta go to the bathroom.
1280
00:56:16,702 --> 00:56:17,770
Hey.
1281
00:56:17,803 --> 00:56:19,205
Hey.
1282
00:56:19,238 --> 00:56:21,040
He's asleep.
1283
00:56:21,073 --> 00:56:21,874
He's asleep?
1284
00:56:21,907 --> 00:56:23,109
He is, yeah.
1285
00:56:25,144 --> 00:56:26,178
Okay.
1286
00:56:28,047 --> 00:56:29,015
I didn't know my cake
1287
00:56:29,048 --> 00:56:32,284
would become such a big
part of the evening.
1288
00:56:35,354 --> 00:56:36,789
The cake was delicious, Ma.
1289
00:56:36,822 --> 00:56:37,822
I know it was.
1290
00:56:41,093 --> 00:56:42,228
I spoke to Nathan.
1291
00:56:45,698 --> 00:56:46,698
You called him?
1292
00:56:48,734 --> 00:56:49,734
I did.
1293
00:56:51,971 --> 00:56:53,039
He wants to see Dad.
1294
00:56:56,909 --> 00:56:57,909
Wow.
1295
00:57:01,814 --> 00:57:05,851
Wow, wow, wow, wow,
wow, wow, wow, wow.
1296
00:57:05,885 --> 00:57:06,885
Yeah.
1297
00:57:09,255 --> 00:57:11,724
When, wh, when
does he want to come?
1298
00:57:16,362 --> 00:57:17,630
He can come tomorrow.
1299
00:57:17,663 --> 00:57:18,631
Oh God.
1300
00:57:18,664 --> 00:57:21,967
Oh, well, huh, soon.
1301
00:57:25,337 --> 00:57:26,337
But, uh,
1302
00:57:29,675 --> 00:57:30,675
here's the thing.
1303
00:57:31,811 --> 00:57:34,280
He is not ready to see you yet.
1304
00:57:41,654 --> 00:57:45,324
Huh.
1305
00:57:45,357 --> 00:57:46,357
Hah.
1306
00:57:50,162 --> 00:57:54,300
And, and why would that be?
1307
00:57:57,303 --> 00:57:58,303
I don't know.
1308
00:58:01,307 --> 00:58:03,909
'Cause he just wants to
keep things really simple.
1309
00:58:03,943 --> 00:58:04,943
Yeah, sure.
1310
00:58:07,213 --> 00:58:09,215
I know this is hard for you.
1311
00:58:10,316 --> 00:58:13,185
Hah.
1312
00:58:13,219 --> 00:58:14,219
Yeah.
1313
00:58:15,254 --> 00:58:17,323
This is something
that you would do for Dad.
1314
00:58:17,356 --> 00:58:18,356
Yeah.
1315
00:58:22,061 --> 00:58:23,262
Are you good?
1316
00:58:23,295 --> 00:58:25,698
Oh, good, I'm feeling good.
1317
00:58:25,731 --> 00:58:26,832
Fine, fine.
1318
00:58:29,301 --> 00:58:30,302
And you're
1319
00:58:32,805 --> 00:58:35,107
gonna let him see-
1320
00:58:35,141 --> 00:58:36,175
- Oh yeah.
1321
00:58:36,208 --> 00:58:39,979
I wouldn't stand in his way.
1322
00:58:42,081 --> 00:58:43,081
Sure.
1323
00:59:02,401 --> 00:59:03,702
Hey Abby, Hannah White.
1324
00:59:03,736 --> 00:59:06,038
Listen, I got your message.
1325
00:59:06,071 --> 00:59:08,741
You don't really sound like
you're stable right now.
1326
00:59:08,774 --> 00:59:10,709
Hey Abby, it's Jay.
1327
00:59:10,743 --> 00:59:14,180
So, I know you're in
a really rough place.
1328
00:59:14,213 --> 00:59:15,381
Time off.
1329
00:59:15,414 --> 00:59:17,225
I think you should take that
sabbatical we talked about.
1330
00:59:17,249 --> 00:59:20,319
After the
whole party cake thing,
1331
00:59:20,352 --> 00:59:21,787
you just gotta-
1332
00:59:21,820 --> 00:59:22,931
- Let me know
when you're ready to talk
1333
00:59:22,955 --> 00:59:24,456
from a more centered
perspective.
1334
00:59:24,490 --> 00:59:25,891
Hit pause for a minute.
1335
00:59:25,925 --> 00:59:27,102
The garden's at a
good stopping place,
1336
00:59:27,126 --> 00:59:29,728
so let's touch base
in a bit, okay?
1337
00:59:29,762 --> 00:59:31,263
- Take care of yourself.
- Take care.
1338
00:59:31,297 --> 00:59:33,232
Abbs, I gotta go.
1339
00:59:33,265 --> 00:59:34,133
Get out of there!
1340
00:59:34,166 --> 00:59:37,970
You have to get
yourself out of there!
1341
00:59:38,003 --> 00:59:38,904
- Nathan.
- Do what you need to,
1342
00:59:38,938 --> 00:59:40,139
do what you need to.
1343
00:59:40,172 --> 00:59:42,775
- I have to go.
- Nathan.
1344
00:59:42,808 --> 00:59:43,808
You ready?
1345
00:59:45,211 --> 00:59:46,211
Mm-hm.
1346
01:00:00,492 --> 01:00:02,461
All right, Mr. F?
1347
01:00:02,494 --> 01:00:03,362
It's the moment you've
been waiting for.
1348
01:00:03,395 --> 01:00:04,897
Thanks for the shower.
1349
01:00:04,930 --> 01:00:06,098
I got you.
1350
01:00:06,131 --> 01:00:07,509
Your little man's all grown
up and he comin' to see you.
1351
01:00:07,533 --> 01:00:08,367
Nathan.
1352
01:00:08,400 --> 01:00:10,336
Yeah, we got you
looking pretty fly
1353
01:00:10,369 --> 01:00:12,071
if I do say so myself.
1354
01:00:12,104 --> 01:00:13,339
Give me some.
1355
01:00:13,372 --> 01:00:14,340
There you go.
1356
01:00:14,373 --> 01:00:15,441
That was good enough.
1357
01:00:17,076 --> 01:00:18,377
Don't you look handsome?
1358
01:00:18,410 --> 01:00:19,410
You're welcome.
1359
01:00:20,412 --> 01:00:21,914
- Hi.
- Hey, Dad.
1360
01:00:23,983 --> 01:00:24,917
How are you feeling?
1361
01:00:24,950 --> 01:00:26,285
Nervous.
1362
01:00:26,318 --> 01:00:27,319
Good though.
1363
01:00:28,354 --> 01:00:30,489
- Nerve is good.
- You ready?
1364
01:00:36,495 --> 01:00:37,495
Oh.
1365
01:00:38,364 --> 01:00:39,465
Hello, Nathan.
1366
01:00:41,000 --> 01:00:42,000
Hello.
1367
01:01:01,954 --> 01:01:04,089
I never thought I'd live to see
1368
01:01:05,090 --> 01:01:06,959
the two of you together again.
1369
01:01:09,495 --> 01:01:11,597
I'll leave you two to catch up.
1370
01:01:11,631 --> 01:01:12,431
No.
1371
01:01:12,464 --> 01:01:14,300
- Stay.
- Stay.
1372
01:01:14,333 --> 01:01:15,801
- Stay.
- Okay.
1373
01:01:16,602 --> 01:01:18,003
So Nate,
1374
01:01:19,972 --> 01:01:20,972
how is,
1375
01:01:23,409 --> 01:01:24,943
how are you?
1376
01:01:24,977 --> 01:01:25,978
And how is,
1377
01:01:26,979 --> 01:01:29,882
it's, I know, don't tell me.
1378
01:01:31,517 --> 01:01:32,584
- Karen.
- Karen.
1379
01:01:32,618 --> 01:01:33,618
How's Karen?
1380
01:01:34,420 --> 01:01:36,055
Good.
1381
01:01:36,088 --> 01:01:37,556
Everything is really good.
1382
01:01:38,257 --> 01:01:39,391
Good.
1383
01:01:39,425 --> 01:01:42,394
I came down to give a lecture
on the Meiji Restoration
1384
01:01:42,428 --> 01:01:44,496
at the College of
Art and Design.
1385
01:01:44,530 --> 01:01:46,031
- Oh.
- He was wonderful.
1386
01:01:48,967 --> 01:01:52,071
We actually just got
back from a road trip
1387
01:01:52,104 --> 01:01:54,406
to all the national
parks of Utah.
1388
01:01:55,274 --> 01:01:56,875
Utah?
1389
01:01:56,909 --> 01:01:58,110
Yeah.
1390
01:01:58,143 --> 01:02:00,579
Bryce, Zion, Arches.
1391
01:02:02,014 --> 01:02:07,953
I had great memories from
those trips you took us on,
1392
01:02:10,489 --> 01:02:11,489
like Yosemite.
1393
01:02:13,025 --> 01:02:15,394
You got me the T-shirt
with the space,
1394
01:02:15,427 --> 01:02:18,897
it looked like yo-semite.
1395
01:02:26,105 --> 01:02:27,406
- Dad?
- Yeah?
1396
01:02:29,608 --> 01:02:31,910
Everything good about
me is because of you.
1397
01:02:34,113 --> 01:02:35,481
You encouraged me to love art
1398
01:02:35,514 --> 01:02:38,016
and to make a living
surrounded by art.
1399
01:02:38,050 --> 01:02:39,050
Thank you.
1400
01:02:41,220 --> 01:02:42,220
Nate.
1401
01:02:48,026 --> 01:02:51,897
You got to live a
life I never could.
1402
01:02:56,034 --> 01:02:57,436
I,
1403
01:02:57,469 --> 01:03:01,073
I tried to give you
the best life I could.
1404
01:03:04,644 --> 01:03:05,644
I tried.
1405
01:03:06,478 --> 01:03:07,513
You tried.
1406
01:03:07,546 --> 01:03:08,546
Yes.
1407
01:03:20,125 --> 01:03:22,094
- Dad.
- What?
1408
01:03:22,494 --> 01:03:24,530
What else do you
want to say to Nathan?
1409
01:03:26,565 --> 01:03:28,934
When do I get to see him again?
1410
01:03:33,105 --> 01:03:35,574
I don't know, Dad.
1411
01:03:35,607 --> 01:03:36,643
What?
1412
01:03:39,679 --> 01:03:42,581
I'd love a
photo of the three of us.
1413
01:03:42,614 --> 01:03:44,516
Darrin, can you help
us for a second?
1414
01:03:46,618 --> 01:03:47,687
Wouldn't that be great?
1415
01:04:21,587 --> 01:04:23,690
How long do you think
he's going to sleep for?
1416
01:04:25,123 --> 01:04:26,458
That was a lot for him.
1417
01:04:26,492 --> 01:04:27,593
I know.
1418
01:04:27,626 --> 01:04:29,161
He'll be out for a while.
1419
01:04:34,099 --> 01:04:35,501
He's sleeping more and more.
1420
01:04:38,705 --> 01:04:40,372
Hey.
1421
01:04:40,405 --> 01:04:42,285
You know, I'm gonna go
ahead and sit with Mr. F.
1422
01:04:46,679 --> 01:04:47,679
Hey.
1423
01:04:51,083 --> 01:04:51,684
How'd it go?
1424
01:04:51,718 --> 01:04:52,752
It went well.
1425
01:04:54,453 --> 01:04:55,487
Took a picture.
1426
01:04:55,521 --> 01:04:56,521
Do you want to see?
1427
01:04:58,123 --> 01:04:59,123
Sure.
1428
01:05:04,697 --> 01:05:05,732
There you go.
1429
01:05:06,799 --> 01:05:09,134
Wow, ooh.
1430
01:05:09,167 --> 01:05:10,167
Whew.
1431
01:05:11,570 --> 01:05:14,674
That is totally weird.
1432
01:05:14,707 --> 01:05:16,174
What's weird?
1433
01:05:16,208 --> 01:05:19,144
Your brother, he's all bloated.
1434
01:05:19,177 --> 01:05:20,813
Why did he get so bloated?
1435
01:05:20,847 --> 01:05:22,247
What?
1436
01:05:22,281 --> 01:05:24,684
Oh God, and his eyes are puffy.
1437
01:05:27,286 --> 01:05:29,689
That's not what I see in it, Ma.
1438
01:05:29,722 --> 01:05:32,558
Well, no, but I see him here,
1439
01:05:33,893 --> 01:05:36,763
he looks like somebody
who's on that medication
1440
01:05:36,796 --> 01:05:41,133
for the inflamed kishkas,
what is that thing called?
1441
01:05:41,166 --> 01:05:42,669
- The kishkas.
- Colitis.
1442
01:05:42,702 --> 01:05:44,136
Yeah, colitis is what,
1443
01:05:44,169 --> 01:05:47,640
exactly, he looks like
someone with colitis.
1444
01:05:47,674 --> 01:05:49,274
He probably has colitis.
1445
01:05:49,308 --> 01:05:51,610
Okay, well that
is our photo and,
1446
01:05:53,713 --> 01:05:55,414
yeah it went well.
1447
01:05:55,447 --> 01:05:56,783
Good.
1448
01:05:56,816 --> 01:05:57,717
Glad to hear it.
1449
01:05:57,750 --> 01:05:59,652
What have you been up to?
1450
01:05:59,686 --> 01:06:01,119
Oh, well,
1451
01:06:01,921 --> 01:06:05,490
I have been on a toilet
seat at a coffee shop.
1452
01:06:05,524 --> 01:06:06,859
Fun.
1453
01:06:07,794 --> 01:06:08,828
Okay.
1454
01:06:09,696 --> 01:06:10,730
Okay.
1455
01:06:11,898 --> 01:06:14,634
Did he mention me?
1456
01:06:17,469 --> 01:06:18,805
It didn't really come up.
1457
01:06:20,873 --> 01:06:21,873
Ah.
1458
01:06:23,175 --> 01:06:24,677
Let me see that picture again.
1459
01:06:25,544 --> 01:06:26,612
Let me see it.
1460
01:06:28,447 --> 01:06:29,447
Okay.
1461
01:06:37,389 --> 01:06:38,658
Hmm.
1462
01:06:38,691 --> 01:06:39,892
Well, you look beautiful,
1463
01:06:39,926 --> 01:06:45,230
but he does not look
like your brother.
1464
01:06:45,263 --> 01:06:46,264
I mean, really.
1465
01:06:47,199 --> 01:06:50,602
It's like a interloper.
1466
01:06:51,436 --> 01:06:52,571
Okay.
1467
01:06:52,604 --> 01:06:53,604
Okay.
1468
01:07:02,547 --> 01:07:03,883
Abbs?
1469
01:07:03,916 --> 01:07:05,183
Yeah, Dad?
1470
01:07:11,824 --> 01:07:16,829
Sometimes when I close
my eyes, I see things.
1471
01:07:19,799 --> 01:07:20,867
What do you see?
1472
01:07:20,900 --> 01:07:22,434
I see your boys.
1473
01:07:25,270 --> 01:07:26,270
I see.
1474
01:07:28,340 --> 01:07:31,443
Davis running the
bases in softball.
1475
01:07:32,645 --> 01:07:35,414
I never got to see
him play one game.
1476
01:07:35,447 --> 01:07:36,615
That's okay.
1477
01:07:37,616 --> 01:07:39,986
I see him running the bases
1478
01:07:40,019 --> 01:07:44,724
and Finn is running
right behind him.
1479
01:07:48,427 --> 01:07:49,662
Sometimes I see
1480
01:07:55,034 --> 01:07:56,034
your mother.
1481
01:07:57,036 --> 01:07:58,838
Yeah?
1482
01:07:58,871 --> 01:08:04,409
She looks the way she
did when we first met.
1483
01:08:05,945 --> 01:08:06,979
How's that?
1484
01:08:07,013 --> 01:08:08,648
When she was 16.
1485
01:08:10,515 --> 01:08:12,617
She looks beautiful,
she's so beautiful.
1486
01:08:17,824 --> 01:08:19,357
I worry about her.
1487
01:08:21,994 --> 01:08:22,994
Why is that?
1488
01:08:25,732 --> 01:08:27,800
That she won't be okay, that
1489
01:08:32,839 --> 01:08:33,940
she'll miss me.
1490
01:08:42,481 --> 01:08:45,952
I never meant that I could
do anything without her.
1491
01:08:50,089 --> 01:08:52,925
And now I'm gonna
die without her.
1492
01:08:56,528 --> 01:08:58,664
All I want is to be with her
1493
01:09:01,801 --> 01:09:02,801
forever.
1494
01:09:05,504 --> 01:09:06,939
Do you ever tell her that?
1495
01:09:08,641 --> 01:09:10,676
Oh, I couldn't tell her that.
1496
01:09:14,981 --> 01:09:16,281
You just did.
1497
01:09:21,854 --> 01:09:23,022
Is that you?
1498
01:09:27,459 --> 01:09:28,795
You're my world.
1499
01:09:32,932 --> 01:09:33,932
You know?
1500
01:09:35,968 --> 01:09:37,003
Do you know?
1501
01:09:57,156 --> 01:09:58,156
Hey.
1502
01:09:59,959 --> 01:10:01,459
How's he doing today?
1503
01:10:04,429 --> 01:10:05,429
Has he eaten?
1504
01:10:09,534 --> 01:10:11,804
Ice chips.
1505
01:10:16,175 --> 01:10:17,877
He's startin' his transition
1506
01:10:19,779 --> 01:10:21,848
to a place where you
won't need any food,
1507
01:10:23,916 --> 01:10:25,383
he won't feel any pain.
1508
01:10:27,653 --> 01:10:29,021
It's a place of the spirit.
1509
01:10:31,190 --> 01:10:32,390
Come here.
1510
01:10:36,829 --> 01:10:38,496
You've been so good to him.
1511
01:10:38,530 --> 01:10:39,832
No, it's okay.
1512
01:10:39,866 --> 01:10:40,866
Thank you.
1513
01:10:43,535 --> 01:10:45,004
You're such a good daughter.
1514
01:10:47,505 --> 01:10:48,975
He's so loved.
1515
01:10:50,676 --> 01:10:51,676
It's okay.
1516
01:11:28,114 --> 01:11:30,182
To begin with, no.
1517
01:11:30,216 --> 01:11:32,018
Let me call
attention to the fact
1518
01:11:32,051 --> 01:11:36,055
that the ones hunting us
are young male adults.
1519
01:11:40,693 --> 01:11:42,728
- I'm thirsty.
- Thirsty?
1520
01:11:46,132 --> 01:11:46,899
Of his culture.
1521
01:11:46,933 --> 01:11:48,200
You caught me.
1522
01:11:50,136 --> 01:11:50,836
Do you get it?
1523
01:11:50,870 --> 01:11:52,104
No.
1524
01:12:21,734 --> 01:12:22,534
How's that?
1525
01:12:22,567 --> 01:12:23,235
Little more.
1526
01:12:23,269 --> 01:12:24,837
- Okay.
- Little more.
1527
01:12:24,870 --> 01:12:26,072
Okay.
1528
01:12:26,105 --> 01:12:27,105
Okay.
1529
01:12:29,208 --> 01:12:30,876
Abbs.
1530
01:12:30,910 --> 01:12:32,178
Abbs.
1531
01:12:38,985 --> 01:12:41,988
Athan.
1532
01:12:44,056 --> 01:12:45,056
Nathan?
1533
01:12:49,996 --> 01:12:50,996
No.
1534
01:12:54,200 --> 01:12:55,735
- No?
- No.
1535
01:13:04,910 --> 01:13:06,045
Hi, this is Nathan,
1536
01:13:06,078 --> 01:13:08,180
leave a message after the beep.
1537
01:13:08,214 --> 01:13:09,214
Wait for the beep.
1538
01:13:10,049 --> 01:13:11,150
Wait for the beep.
1539
01:13:12,752 --> 01:13:15,187
Hold on, here it comes.
1540
01:13:16,588 --> 01:13:17,790
Beep, that wasn't it.
1541
01:13:40,713 --> 01:13:42,580
I can go get it.
1542
01:13:42,614 --> 01:13:44,083
I'll get it.
1543
01:13:44,116 --> 01:13:47,119
No, honey, you shouldn't
be getting his morphine.
1544
01:13:47,153 --> 01:13:48,988
- I'll be right back, Ma.
- That's his job.
1545
01:13:50,322 --> 01:13:52,091
Ma, I'd like Darrin to be here
1546
01:13:52,124 --> 01:13:54,760
in case anything happens, okay?
1547
01:13:54,794 --> 01:13:55,795
Okay.
1548
01:13:55,828 --> 01:13:56,929
Can I have a minute?
1549
01:14:16,649 --> 01:14:17,649
Hey, Dad.
1550
01:14:20,686 --> 01:14:21,854
I'm gonna go.
1551
01:14:24,290 --> 01:14:26,158
I'm gonna be right back.
1552
01:14:28,661 --> 01:14:30,229
I know how much pain you're in.
1553
01:14:33,666 --> 01:14:36,268
If you wanna go while I'm gone,
1554
01:14:39,338 --> 01:14:40,339
that's okay.
1555
01:14:51,717 --> 01:14:52,718
That's okay.
1556
01:14:55,287 --> 01:14:56,956
I promise it's okay.
1557
01:15:06,999 --> 01:15:08,667
I love you the most.
1558
01:15:17,476 --> 01:15:19,211
I know you know that.
1559
01:15:34,860 --> 01:15:36,295
Hey.
1560
01:15:36,328 --> 01:15:38,097
It's good you called.
1561
01:15:39,131 --> 01:15:40,432
I'm happy to help.
1562
01:15:46,805 --> 01:15:47,973
Hey, what's going on?
1563
01:15:48,007 --> 01:15:49,117
Abigail, he isn't breathing.
1564
01:15:49,141 --> 01:15:50,776
Abigail, he
was breathing a minute ago.
1565
01:15:50,809 --> 01:15:52,111
Should we call 911?
1566
01:15:52,144 --> 01:15:53,245
No.
1567
01:15:53,279 --> 01:15:54,389
No, that's not how this works.
1568
01:15:54,413 --> 01:15:56,148
We don't call 911.
1569
01:15:56,182 --> 01:15:57,716
That's not how this works.
1570
01:15:58,817 --> 01:16:00,786
We do nothing.
1571
01:16:03,789 --> 01:16:04,990
Ma, can you hear me?
1572
01:16:06,025 --> 01:16:07,326
Okay.
1573
01:16:07,359 --> 01:16:09,261
Have you recited the Shema?
1574
01:16:09,295 --> 01:16:10,362
No.
1575
01:16:11,363 --> 01:16:12,865
Repeat three times,
1576
01:16:14,099 --> 01:16:17,269
Sh'ma Yisrael Adonai
Eloheinu Adonai Echad.
1577
01:16:17,303 --> 01:16:22,107
Sh'ma Yisrael
Adonai Eloheinu Adonai Echad.
1578
01:16:22,141 --> 01:16:26,412
Sh'ma Yisrael Adonai
Eloheinu Adonai Echad.
1579
01:16:26,445 --> 01:16:30,115
Sh'ma Yisrael Adonai
Eloheinu Adonai Echad.
1580
01:16:30,149 --> 01:16:33,152
Baruch shem kevod
malchuto le'olam va'ed.
1581
01:16:33,185 --> 01:16:37,856
Baruch shem
kevod malchuto le'olam va'ed.
1582
01:16:37,890 --> 01:16:40,759
Baruch dayan ha-emet.
1583
01:16:40,793 --> 01:16:43,996
Baruch dayan ha-emet.
1584
01:16:44,029 --> 01:16:46,398
All right, I'll see you soon.
1585
01:16:49,001 --> 01:16:50,536
Turn around.
1586
01:17:27,940 --> 01:17:30,109
What do you mean
they have to take him away?
1587
01:17:30,142 --> 01:17:31,377
Can't he sleep here?
1588
01:17:32,578 --> 01:17:34,513
Ma, they have to take him.
1589
01:18:03,075 --> 01:18:05,411
Our wedding color was green.
1590
01:19:13,512 --> 01:19:15,547
Abby, what was that?
1591
01:19:15,581 --> 01:19:17,049
The power, Ma.
1592
01:19:18,317 --> 01:19:19,317
For the hairdryer.
1593
01:19:20,452 --> 01:19:21,487
I don't think so.
1594
01:19:21,520 --> 01:19:23,288
It's never happened before.
1595
01:19:24,189 --> 01:19:25,290
I think it was him.
1596
01:19:27,259 --> 01:19:28,594
Ma, it's not him.
1597
01:19:28,627 --> 01:19:31,463
That's not how this works, okay?
1598
01:19:31,497 --> 01:19:33,465
What else could it have been?
1599
01:19:35,100 --> 01:19:36,468
Is Nathan coming today?
1600
01:19:36,502 --> 01:19:37,536
Ma,
1601
01:19:39,571 --> 01:19:42,408
I'm gonna the fix fucking power
for your fucking hairdryer,
1602
01:19:42,441 --> 01:19:43,375
okay?
1603
01:19:43,409 --> 01:19:45,010
No Nathan.
1604
01:19:45,043 --> 01:19:46,512
Abigail, I was just asking.
1605
01:19:46,545 --> 01:19:48,013
And watch your mouth.
1606
01:19:48,748 --> 01:19:50,482
I'm sorry. I just,
1607
01:19:52,418 --> 01:19:53,552
I haven't heard from him
1608
01:19:53,585 --> 01:19:56,221
and I'm dealing with a lot
of things and I just don't,
1609
01:19:57,523 --> 01:19:58,523
sorry.
1610
01:20:01,994 --> 01:20:03,462
It's okay, Eugene.
1611
01:20:03,495 --> 01:20:05,364
Oh my God.
1612
01:20:12,538 --> 01:20:14,606
Is that what
you're going to wear?
1613
01:20:17,075 --> 01:20:18,075
What?
1614
01:20:19,077 --> 01:20:20,412
Do you want to borrow something?
1615
01:20:20,446 --> 01:20:23,615
Or are you good like this?
1616
01:20:24,616 --> 01:20:26,051
Yes.
1617
01:20:26,084 --> 01:20:28,020
Do you want me to help
you blow dry your hair?
1618
01:20:28,053 --> 01:20:29,521
- No.
- Okay, just asking.
1619
01:20:30,657 --> 01:20:31,691
Thank you.
1620
01:20:41,801 --> 01:20:44,203
You want me to look nice.
1621
01:21:04,623 --> 01:21:06,158
It's time for Keriah.
1622
01:21:07,292 --> 01:21:09,495
We are going to
tear a cloth ribbon.
1623
01:21:09,528 --> 01:21:11,698
Did you want to tear
your ribbon instead?
1624
01:21:12,632 --> 01:21:13,565
No.
1625
01:21:13,599 --> 01:21:14,600
Okay.
1626
01:21:14,634 --> 01:21:15,702
Okay.
1627
01:21:15,735 --> 01:21:18,036
I would like to tear a ribbon.
1628
01:21:18,070 --> 01:21:19,070
Of course.
1629
01:21:20,707 --> 01:21:22,508
It goes over here.
1630
01:21:22,541 --> 01:21:23,676
Not over the heart?
1631
01:21:24,644 --> 01:21:26,478
Only for the child.
1632
01:21:26,512 --> 01:21:28,748
Spouses tear over
the right side.
1633
01:21:28,781 --> 01:21:31,483
Well, I'm in as
much grief as she is.
1634
01:23:20,592 --> 01:23:24,162
Eugene said when he saw this
dress, "That is so depressing.
1635
01:23:24,196 --> 01:23:27,466
It looks like something you're
gonna wear to my service."
1636
01:23:27,499 --> 01:23:28,701
And here I am.
1637
01:23:28,735 --> 01:23:31,671
Hyman, thank you for coming.
1638
01:23:33,706 --> 01:23:36,743
- Oh dear.
- Does Nathan know?
1639
01:23:36,776 --> 01:23:37,644
Oh, I think so.
1640
01:23:37,677 --> 01:23:39,244
But he did not come.
1641
01:23:39,946 --> 01:23:41,546
That's horrible.
1642
01:23:53,492 --> 01:23:54,393
You're really committing
1643
01:23:54,426 --> 01:23:55,527
to those chin pubes, huh?
1644
01:23:55,560 --> 01:23:57,362
I am all testosterone.
1645
01:23:57,396 --> 01:23:58,396
Disgusting.
1646
01:23:59,666 --> 01:24:00,867
Talking 'bout you?
1647
01:24:00,900 --> 01:24:01,834
I agree.
1648
01:24:01,868 --> 01:24:03,602
- Hi, guys.
- Hi, Mom.
1649
01:24:04,904 --> 01:24:05,904
Oh.
1650
01:24:06,706 --> 01:24:09,541
You look so pretty.
1651
01:24:09,574 --> 01:24:10,710
- Thank you.
- You think so?
1652
01:24:10,743 --> 01:24:12,745
Nate.
1653
01:24:12,779 --> 01:24:14,613
You want more eye shadow?
1654
01:24:14,647 --> 01:24:15,882
You think I need it?
1655
01:24:15,915 --> 01:24:16,749
No.
1656
01:24:16,783 --> 01:24:17,582
I think you look perfect.
1657
01:24:17,616 --> 01:24:19,351
- Thanks, Ma.
- Oh, there you are.
1658
01:24:19,384 --> 01:24:20,585
Barb, I was looking for you.
1659
01:24:20,619 --> 01:24:21,821
Hi, guys.
1660
01:24:21,854 --> 01:24:23,588
- Good morning.
- What's going on?
1661
01:24:23,622 --> 01:24:24,523
This isn't a party.
1662
01:24:24,556 --> 01:24:27,526
- Ah!
- Oh, Eug!
1663
01:24:27,559 --> 01:24:29,004
Don't say anything,
I'll take the blame.
1664
01:24:29,028 --> 01:24:29,829
Oh, come on.
1665
01:24:29,862 --> 01:24:31,764
That was so violent.
1666
01:24:31,798 --> 01:24:32,899
Get out of here.
1667
01:24:32,932 --> 01:24:34,299
- Dad!
- On the double.
1668
01:24:38,303 --> 01:24:41,974
And how about Suzy Lifla?
1669
01:24:42,008 --> 01:24:45,577
Could you believe the
weight she put on?
1670
01:24:45,610 --> 01:24:47,612
She's become a beluga,
1671
01:24:47,647 --> 01:24:50,817
and she doesn't even
dress to help herself.
1672
01:24:51,818 --> 01:24:53,920
And Albert Gold
1673
01:24:54,821 --> 01:24:57,690
with the goiter on his neck.
1674
01:24:57,724 --> 01:24:58,825
- Oh.
- Ma.
1675
01:24:58,858 --> 01:24:59,959
- What?
- Could you stop?
1676
01:25:01,894 --> 01:25:02,795
We just buried Dad.
1677
01:25:02,829 --> 01:25:04,931
And you're gossiping
about all the people
1678
01:25:04,964 --> 01:25:07,265
who came here to support you.
1679
01:25:07,299 --> 01:25:11,336
How dare you speak to a
mourner like that, Abigail.
1680
01:25:11,369 --> 01:25:12,705
I'm mourning too.
1681
01:25:13,906 --> 01:25:16,743
Yes, but you are not his wife.
1682
01:25:16,776 --> 01:25:17,810
There's a difference.
1683
01:25:17,844 --> 01:25:19,779
You hardly acted like one.
1684
01:25:20,947 --> 01:25:21,947
What?
1685
01:25:23,082 --> 01:25:24,784
I hardly acted like a wife?
1686
01:25:24,817 --> 01:25:26,919
You don't know the
half of what went on.
1687
01:25:28,453 --> 01:25:31,490
Stay out of other people's
business, Abigail.
1688
01:25:31,523 --> 01:25:34,359
You are constantly dragging
me into your business.
1689
01:25:34,392 --> 01:25:36,796
And I am happy to fix
everything that you break.
1690
01:25:36,829 --> 01:25:39,297
I have no time for myself ever
1691
01:25:39,331 --> 01:25:40,967
to do anything.
1692
01:25:41,000 --> 01:25:43,803
Oh, but you had time
to ruin your marriage.
1693
01:25:46,773 --> 01:25:48,607
Look at you, Abigail.
1694
01:25:48,641 --> 01:25:50,308
You are a wreck.
1695
01:25:52,011 --> 01:25:53,011
Yeah, Ma.
1696
01:25:54,747 --> 01:25:57,049
How else do you expect me to be?
1697
01:25:57,083 --> 01:25:58,083
Hmm?
1698
01:25:59,351 --> 01:26:00,896
How do you expect me
to take care of myself
1699
01:26:00,920 --> 01:26:04,056
when you never give
me any room to do it?
1700
01:26:04,090 --> 01:26:04,957
Oh, room?
1701
01:26:04,991 --> 01:26:06,926
You want room?
1702
01:26:06,959 --> 01:26:10,595
Oh, well go learn
from your brother.
1703
01:27:13,993 --> 01:27:18,931
Nathan.
1704
01:27:19,497 --> 01:27:20,900
What?
1705
01:27:20,933 --> 01:27:22,101
She's mad at me.
1706
01:27:22,134 --> 01:27:23,602
Abby, go away.
1707
01:27:24,971 --> 01:27:25,971
Nathan.
1708
01:27:26,939 --> 01:27:27,807
Please.
1709
01:27:27,840 --> 01:27:30,542
I made her mad and
she won't feed me.
1710
01:27:31,576 --> 01:27:32,576
Please.
1711
01:27:34,113 --> 01:27:37,049
I'm hungry and my hair's a mess.
1712
01:27:37,083 --> 01:27:38,416
I need your help.
1713
01:27:38,450 --> 01:27:39,752
Why can't Dad help you?
1714
01:27:41,888 --> 01:27:43,421
I don't know where he is.
1715
01:27:46,092 --> 01:27:47,092
Come here.
1716
01:28:05,244 --> 01:28:07,713
Nathan.
1717
01:28:15,154 --> 01:28:16,154
Abby.
1718
01:28:17,622 --> 01:28:19,524
What are you doing here?
1719
01:28:21,127 --> 01:28:23,062
I had to Bury our father today.
1720
01:28:24,163 --> 01:28:25,163
I know.
1721
01:28:26,799 --> 01:28:28,043
I shouldn't have
had to do that alone.
1722
01:28:28,067 --> 01:28:29,735
Abby, I couldn't do it.
1723
01:28:29,769 --> 01:28:31,179
I shouldn't have had to
deal with all of the things
1724
01:28:31,203 --> 01:28:32,570
that I've had to
deal with alone.
1725
01:28:32,604 --> 01:28:34,740
Yeah, but the
question is not why.
1726
01:28:34,774 --> 01:28:36,151
I didn't stick around
to deal with that shit.
1727
01:28:36,175 --> 01:28:38,744
- Why did you?
- Because I had to.
1728
01:28:38,778 --> 01:28:40,179
Somebody had to, Nathan.
1729
01:28:40,212 --> 01:28:42,148
You know that
somebody had to stay.
1730
01:28:42,181 --> 01:28:43,581
- Shhh.
- And I,
1731
01:28:45,184 --> 01:28:47,987
I have slept with all
the responsibility.
1732
01:28:48,020 --> 01:28:49,264
I had to make all
the big decisions,
1733
01:28:49,288 --> 01:28:52,624
I had to fix, solve, mend every
fucking thing that they did.
1734
01:28:52,658 --> 01:28:53,993
- I needed you.
- Going to some
1735
01:28:54,026 --> 01:28:56,729
ancient ritual with a bunch
of bullshit in Aramaic
1736
01:28:56,762 --> 01:28:58,040
- does not matter.
- That's not it.
1737
01:28:58,064 --> 01:28:59,641
- That's not it.
- Dad wasn't even religious.
1738
01:28:59,665 --> 01:29:00,967
You lost the plot.
1739
01:29:02,835 --> 01:29:03,936
You're a martyr.
1740
01:29:05,237 --> 01:29:06,973
You're a fucking punching bag.
1741
01:29:07,006 --> 01:29:07,907
That's what you fucking are.
1742
01:29:07,940 --> 01:29:08,975
You're a fucking doormat.
1743
01:29:10,176 --> 01:29:11,253
And you want me to
be that too, huh?
1744
01:29:11,277 --> 01:29:12,812
I freed myself.
1745
01:29:13,746 --> 01:29:15,147
Oh.
1746
01:29:15,181 --> 01:29:18,483
Oh, you know what?
1747
01:29:20,052 --> 01:29:21,586
I know what you carry.
1748
01:29:22,888 --> 01:29:23,888
What I carry?
1749
01:29:24,957 --> 01:29:26,225
You're as sick as I am.
1750
01:29:27,693 --> 01:29:29,829
You're as sick as they made us.
1751
01:29:31,130 --> 01:29:32,597
I see it all over you.
1752
01:29:34,166 --> 01:29:35,234
I just-
1753
01:29:35,267 --> 01:29:36,267
- Hey.
1754
01:30:04,196 --> 01:30:05,631
I need those days, Abigail.
1755
01:30:05,664 --> 01:30:07,967
Yeah, but that was
gonna be my weekend.
1756
01:30:08,000 --> 01:30:10,102
I know, but we pride
ourselves on being flexible
1757
01:30:10,136 --> 01:30:12,138
with our schedule, and
I'm asking this year.
1758
01:30:13,339 --> 01:30:14,874
I'll think about it.
1759
01:30:14,907 --> 01:30:15,775
What's to think about?
1760
01:30:15,808 --> 01:30:16,709
It's no big deal.
1761
01:30:16,742 --> 01:30:17,309
I'm asking for your help here.
1762
01:30:17,343 --> 01:30:18,944
Peter, I have plans.
1763
01:30:19,879 --> 01:30:22,214
I'm not gonna change my plans.
1764
01:30:22,248 --> 01:30:22,982
Hey guys, come on.
1765
01:30:23,015 --> 01:30:24,917
- Mom.
- Show her the flowers.
1766
01:30:24,950 --> 01:30:26,152
We got flowers.
1767
01:30:27,820 --> 01:30:30,089
Oh, you did such a good job.
1768
01:30:30,122 --> 01:30:31,757
Thank you.
1769
01:30:31,791 --> 01:30:32,758
My little garden gnomes.
1770
01:30:32,792 --> 01:30:34,060
- Hi, Dad.
- Hi, Dad.
1771
01:30:34,093 --> 01:30:35,593
Hey guys, let's wash your hands,
1772
01:30:35,627 --> 01:30:37,163
because I see the food's ready.
1773
01:30:37,196 --> 01:30:43,335
And if you guys would like
any help in washing up,
1774
01:30:44,136 --> 01:30:45,871
I'm here.
1775
01:30:45,905 --> 01:30:46,972
- Ma.
- Yeah.
1776
01:30:47,006 --> 01:30:48,674
I can't with you.
1777
01:30:52,044 --> 01:30:52,978
- Shut it.
- Listen.
1778
01:30:53,012 --> 01:30:54,847
I know.
1779
01:30:54,880 --> 01:30:55,781
I can't with her.
1780
01:30:55,815 --> 01:30:57,249
She's just...
1781
01:30:59,185 --> 01:31:00,886
- Oh wow.
- What?
1782
01:31:00,920 --> 01:31:02,721
Is your mom texting
you from the bathroom?
1783
01:31:06,192 --> 01:31:07,359
It's Nathan.
1784
01:31:10,329 --> 01:31:12,164
He sent me an invitation.
1785
01:31:16,235 --> 01:31:19,205
Some very creative combing.
1786
01:31:20,072 --> 01:31:21,072
Whoa.
1787
01:31:21,774 --> 01:31:23,142
Finn, ew!
1788
01:31:23,175 --> 01:31:24,944
You are disgusting.
1789
01:31:24,977 --> 01:31:25,778
God.
1790
01:31:25,811 --> 01:31:27,012
Oh my God.
1791
01:31:28,314 --> 01:31:31,817
Did I ever tell you
what Zaide likes to say?
1792
01:31:31,851 --> 01:31:33,752
Don't say anything,
I'll take the blame.
1793
01:31:33,786 --> 01:31:35,020
He used to think
1794
01:31:35,054 --> 01:31:37,423
it was the most hilarious thing.
1795
01:31:37,456 --> 01:31:39,024
He never told you that?
1796
01:31:39,058 --> 01:31:40,192
- No.
- I don't think so.
1797
01:31:40,226 --> 01:31:41,727
You're missing out.
1798
01:31:41,760 --> 01:31:42,760
It was a good one.
1799
01:31:43,729 --> 01:31:45,798
Come on, let's go.
1800
01:31:47,199 --> 01:31:48,267
Don't want to be late.
1801
01:31:59,778 --> 01:32:01,113
Who are those people?
1802
01:32:01,147 --> 01:32:02,047
That's my brother, Nathan.
1803
01:32:02,081 --> 01:32:04,383
Remember I showed you his photo?
1804
01:32:04,416 --> 01:32:06,252
His wife, Karen, son Dylan,
1805
01:32:06,285 --> 01:32:09,088
and his daughter, Amelia,
whose party it is,
1806
01:32:09,121 --> 01:32:11,290
and they are coming over.
1807
01:32:14,326 --> 01:32:15,327
- Hi.
- Hi.
1808
01:32:18,397 --> 01:32:19,397
This is Dylan.
1809
01:32:20,366 --> 01:32:22,201
Dylan, this is my sister.
1810
01:32:22,234 --> 01:32:24,170
Hi Dylan, it's nice to meet you.
1811
01:32:25,237 --> 01:32:27,439
These are my sons,
Finn and Davis.
1812
01:32:28,807 --> 01:32:29,942
Say hi, boys.
1813
01:32:29,975 --> 01:32:31,377
- Handshakes.
- Hi.
1814
01:32:31,410 --> 01:32:32,410
It's okay.
1815
01:32:33,312 --> 01:32:35,047
Hi.
1816
01:32:35,080 --> 01:32:36,215
I'm Nathan.
1817
01:32:36,248 --> 01:32:37,283
- Hi.
- Hello.
1818
01:32:38,350 --> 01:32:40,019
- Hi, Abigail.
- Hi, Karen.
1819
01:32:40,052 --> 01:32:41,220
Karen, Amelia.
1820
01:32:41,253 --> 01:32:42,988
Amelia, congratulations.
1821
01:32:44,290 --> 01:32:45,291
Come on, boys.
1822
01:32:45,324 --> 01:32:46,458
Let me show you around.
1823
01:32:48,394 --> 01:32:49,728
- Come on in.
- Go ahead.
1824
01:32:49,762 --> 01:32:50,762
It's okay.
1825
01:32:56,468 --> 01:32:57,469
Nice party.
1826
01:32:57,503 --> 01:32:58,503
Yeah.
1827
01:33:19,124 --> 01:33:20,492
What, is this awkward?
1828
01:33:20,526 --> 01:33:22,428
Nathan.
1829
01:33:22,461 --> 01:33:23,829
No, it's awkward.
1830
01:33:25,397 --> 01:33:27,199
You'll get there.
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