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Here you go, baby.
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Oh, thank you.
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- Oh, you're welcome.
- Oh, this looks great.
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Cheers.
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Cheers to you.
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Mm.
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Oh yeah, nice.
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Today was such
a beautiful day.
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We're so blessed with
our beautiful family.
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We are.
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Oh, which reminds me, I
have something for you.
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- You do?
- Yeah.
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- What is it?
- Ah!
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Hey!
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What is it?
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Something corny.
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No, it's a, it's a bunch of our
family photos, my favorites.
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I mean, I've made you a
playlist a thousand times.
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I just thought I'd do
something different for you.
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This is so sweet, I love it.
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Aw, you wanna look at it?
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- Yes.
- Come on.
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- Let's watch it.
- Come on.
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- Oh.
- I'll show you.
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Better there?
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It's so nice.
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Start like this.
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Oh my God.
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These are so great!
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Look at
this, look at this.
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Oh.
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Look at this one.
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Wait, this one's one
of my favorites, right?
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Oh, wow.
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Oh my God.
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Look at your hair.
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Look at my hair!
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Ooh, ooh.
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Awesome!
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Oh my God.
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- Look at you.
- Oh.
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Aw, aw, look at him.
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- Oh, babe.
- Wow.
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Maybe not my best look.
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Aw.
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Look, you're always traveling.
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I just wanted you to know
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that we're always
with you, alright?
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I love it.
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Good, I'm glad.
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Thank you.
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You're welcome.
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Oh my gosh.
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Look at this.
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This is amazing!
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Look at the mess here.
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This is so sweet!
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I'm glad you like it.
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Mm, smells good.
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Mm, it does.
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Are you doing
this salad tomorrow?
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Nope, it's already done.
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Oh, wow.
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You do know what
time it is, don't you?
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Oh, no, no, no, no, no.
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It's time for
the dance!
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You are so silly.
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Stop that.
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Just because you're some
big time music executive,
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doesn't mean you
can make me dance.
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Oh, but I can.
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Oh.
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I love you Abby Thompson.
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And I love you,
Daniel Thompson.
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- Mm, oh, this is great!
- Nice.
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- You guys are gonna love it.
- Ooh.
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Oh yeah, look at this.
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Thank you.
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You're welcome,
you're welcome.
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Alright.
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- That looks so good.
- That looks great.
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Who wants to say grace?
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You know, I'd like
to say it tonight.
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Alright.
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Dear heavenly Father,
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we thank you for the
blessings bestowed upon us,
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for the food before us,
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for the roof above us,
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for our family together,
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and for all the love
we share between us.
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Amen.
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That was beautiful, Mom.
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Thank you.
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It was a beautiful day.
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You're beautiful.
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Uh, thank you, Jay.
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Is there something
you want, Jay?
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No, I mean it.
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I do not want anything.
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Mm hmm.
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Well, unless I
can get something.
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We already have
everything we need.
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Oh, which reminds me.
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Mm hmm?
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Time you leaving for
your trip tomorrow?
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Oh, that's right,
I still have to pack.
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I'm gonna get on the road
at eight tomorrow morning.
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Mm, yikes, you're gonna
hit a lot of city traffic.
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I know.
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How long are
you gonna be gone this time?
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Ah, should just be overnight.
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One meeting, a
couple of signatures,
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and then I'll be headed home.
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Good, I want you to
be here for the dance.
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Oh, I wouldn't miss
it for the world.
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I would, unless I
could be the photographer?
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Jay, when you
get to high school,
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you can be on the
school paper like me,
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and you can be the photographer.
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Great.
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There you go.
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That's it.
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Eat up, guys.
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This looks great.
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Mm, glad you like it.
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Mm, oh, the
macaroni's good.
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- It's very good.
- Good, it is.
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Are you
Daniel Thompson?
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Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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What do you need?
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Sir, there's
been an accident.
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Okay.
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Your wife.
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Whoa, wait, wait,
wait, wait, Abby?
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Mom?
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Wait, wait, yeah, is
she alright, where is she?
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I'm sorry, sir.
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She was in an accident,
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and she was killed on impact.
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What?
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You're lying!
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No!
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Sir, I'm sorry.
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No.
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We found all her
belongings in the car.
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We're gonna need you to
come down and identify her.
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Abby, no, no.
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I need you to come down,
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and call me on your way,
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and I'll meet you there, okay?
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Okay.
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Here's my card.
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Alright.
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I'm sorry again.
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- Abby.
- Mommy.
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- No.
- Mommy.
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Jay, are you okay?
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No.
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Okay, it's gonna be okay.
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You gotta just take
it one day at a time.
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Where's my mom?
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She was so good.
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She loved us.
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I don't know, Josh.
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I don't think there's a God.
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Why would he do this?
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I don't think God did this.
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Okay, this was a
drunk driver, Josh.
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An accident.
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But she didn't have to die.
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Do you think there's a God?
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I don't know what
to think right now.
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I just miss Mom.
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Beautiful.
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You think so?
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My baby girl's all grown up!
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I just miss Mom.
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I do too.
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I know, I know.
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Daniel, I'm so sorry
about what happened.
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She was a beautiful person.
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We all loved her.
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Thank you.
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I'm so sorry.
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Oh, thank you so
much for coming.
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Brandon, please say
hi to the family.
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Thank you.
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The church is there for you,
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your family is there for
you, I'm there for you.
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I know.
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Did you know I
brought your kids back
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from the church?
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Thanks.
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Nice to see you, Jack.
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Jack?
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Hey, hey, Pop?
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Oh, pastor, it was
a beautiful service.
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Well, thank you.
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I'm glad you liked it, Jack.
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You guys wanna go with
me and greet the guests?
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I do.
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We can't, Jay.
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Sorry, Grandpa,
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our dad needs us.
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Okay, but if you
wanna get away,
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I have a getaway car outside.
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If you kids feel you wanna
get away, let me know, okay?
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I'm sure they'll take
you up on the offer.
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- Thank you.
- Thanks, Pop.
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How are you two doing?
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We're not good.
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Lindsey, do you
know Pastor John?
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He runs the youth
group at the church.
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Yeah, I've met him.
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Pastor John runs a grief
support group as well.
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Lindsey, please, we
would like you to join
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our grief support group
when you're ready.
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Jay, you can come too.
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Thanks, pastor.
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I'm not ready yet.
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I know, I know.
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When you are, we're
there for you.
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Thanks, pastor, really.
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And the church is
there for you too,
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and we'll always
be there for you.
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You've been
a lifelong friend.
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We appreciate it, alright?
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Thank you, thank you.
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Alright.
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God bless.
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God bless you.
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Hey, how're you doing?
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Oh, God.
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Oh, God, I'm gonna be late!
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Where is it?
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I thought it was...
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Mom, I can't do
this without you.
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God, why would you
take her away from me?
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Why?
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Hey?
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Is everything alright?
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No, nothing is alright!
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Why can't you understand that?
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I think I might be able to.
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No, you can't, because I'm 16.
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I should still have my Mom!
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Hey, hey!
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Have you forgotten that
your mother was my wife?
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I lost her too!
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I lost her!
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I'm sorry.
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Oh God.
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- I'm sorry, Dad, I didn't...
- No, no, no, no.
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Oh, no, no, no, no, no.
- I'm sorry, Dad.
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I'm sorry.
- I'm sorry, I'm sorry.
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I'm sorry.
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Look, we're all going
through this, alright?
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We all lost her.
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Lindsey, look, do you
remember that group
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the pastor was talking about?
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No, please,
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that's not gonna help.
- No, no, no.
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No, it's not gonna help.
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It won't bring Mom back.
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No, but it can't hurt either.
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Look, no, listen,
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your heart is so pained,
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your mother would never
want you to feel this way.
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Please, just go for me.
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Just go, please,
just once, just once.
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Please, okay?
- Fine.
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But I wanna do this on my own.
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Okay.
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Let me drive, okay?
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- Okay.
- Come on.
276
00:11:27,756 --> 00:11:29,516
How's your
week been, Ava?
277
00:11:29,550 --> 00:11:30,310
Good.
278
00:11:30,344 --> 00:11:31,587
That's good.
279
00:11:31,621 --> 00:11:33,037
We're glad to see
you back again.
280
00:11:33,071 --> 00:11:34,383
Yeah, it's been a, it's
been a wonderful week.
281
00:11:34,417 --> 00:11:36,109
We had a lot going
on with the church.
282
00:11:36,143 --> 00:11:37,835
And, yeah, so we're very excited
283
00:11:37,869 --> 00:11:40,665
to have those special activity
things lined up as well,
284
00:11:40,700 --> 00:11:42,598
so it's always fun with them.
285
00:11:42,632 --> 00:11:43,737
Ricky, how've you
been this week?
286
00:11:43,772 --> 00:11:45,325
For those of you
just joining us,
287
00:11:45,359 --> 00:11:46,913
I'd like to tell you a
bit about what we do here
288
00:11:46,947 --> 00:11:48,569
in the group.
289
00:11:48,604 --> 00:11:52,642
Our grief support group is a
place of healing and of hope.
290
00:11:52,677 --> 00:11:54,644
We like to remember our
loved ones out loud.
291
00:11:54,679 --> 00:11:57,751
We share stories, we share
memories good and bad,
292
00:11:57,786 --> 00:11:59,788
but more importantly,
we support each other
293
00:11:59,822 --> 00:12:01,686
through the sadness of loss,
294
00:12:01,721 --> 00:12:04,171
and we move into the
comfort of knowing
295
00:12:04,206 --> 00:12:08,106
that they remain in our hearts
and our memories forever.
296
00:12:09,280 --> 00:12:10,833
Now, I'd like to
have our new members
297
00:12:10,868 --> 00:12:12,007
go ahead and
introduce themselves,
298
00:12:12,041 --> 00:12:13,698
then we'll share some stories.
299
00:12:14,941 --> 00:12:17,288
Would you like to go first?
300
00:12:18,807 --> 00:12:21,085
Hi, I'm Lindsey.
301
00:12:21,119 --> 00:12:23,432
I lost my mom a few months ago.
302
00:12:25,503 --> 00:12:26,297
Hi, Lindsey.
303
00:12:26,331 --> 00:12:27,677
We're happy to meet you.
304
00:12:27,712 --> 00:12:29,058
Thank you for being here.
305
00:12:29,093 --> 00:12:30,473
And how about you?
306
00:12:31,578 --> 00:12:34,650
Hi, I'm, I'm Andrew.
307
00:12:34,684 --> 00:12:37,342
I lost my brother in a car
accident about a year ago,
308
00:12:37,377 --> 00:12:40,483
and things haven't
really gotten better,
309
00:12:40,518 --> 00:12:42,934
so my mom recommended I
come to a support group.
310
00:12:44,004 --> 00:12:45,626
Well, thank you, Andrew.
311
00:12:45,661 --> 00:12:47,594
At the very least, we hope you
can find some comfort here,
312
00:12:47,628 --> 00:12:49,147
and know you're not alone.
313
00:12:49,182 --> 00:12:50,770
Thank you.
314
00:12:50,804 --> 00:12:53,669
So, would anyone like to
begin by sharing a story?
315
00:12:54,774 --> 00:12:56,120
I'd like to share
my story, John.
316
00:12:56,154 --> 00:12:57,466
Oh, Ava, please.
317
00:12:59,675 --> 00:13:02,989
My husband and I were trying
to have a baby for so long.
318
00:13:04,266 --> 00:13:06,786
We thought after IVF and
for trying for so long
319
00:13:06,820 --> 00:13:08,270
that it would never happen,
320
00:13:09,789 --> 00:13:11,791
but we were happy because
we knew that we had options.
321
00:13:14,517 --> 00:13:19,522
One night we went
to a restaurant with
my husband's boss.
322
00:13:20,869 --> 00:13:23,009
It was this restaurant
on the top of a building,
323
00:13:23,043 --> 00:13:24,320
really high up.
324
00:13:24,355 --> 00:13:25,805
Now, I don't do heights,
325
00:13:25,839 --> 00:13:28,531
so I got really sick.
326
00:13:29,498 --> 00:13:30,913
It was so embarrassing.
327
00:13:33,743 --> 00:13:36,677
The next night I was still sick.
328
00:13:36,712 --> 00:13:39,715
I mean, every smell, just about
anything made me feel sick.
329
00:13:41,475 --> 00:13:43,098
He knew I was pregnant,
330
00:13:43,132 --> 00:13:46,446
but I was like, "No,
I mean, it can't be."
331
00:13:46,480 --> 00:13:48,103
He went out, he
bought me a test,
332
00:13:48,137 --> 00:13:50,484
and it turns out he was
right, I was pregnant.
333
00:13:52,141 --> 00:13:53,833
We were so happy.
334
00:13:56,007 --> 00:13:58,147
I mean, it was probably one
of the second best moments
335
00:13:58,182 --> 00:13:59,010
of our lives.
336
00:14:00,460 --> 00:14:03,325
Our first was when
our baby boy was born.
337
00:14:04,533 --> 00:14:05,879
It was pure joy.
338
00:14:07,605 --> 00:14:08,848
Our family was complete.
339
00:14:12,990 --> 00:14:17,028
A week later, he went
on a business trip,
340
00:14:17,063 --> 00:14:20,445
and the plane crashed,
341
00:14:20,480 --> 00:14:21,584
and he didn't make it.
342
00:14:25,243 --> 00:14:27,211
But he got to meet Ryan Junior.
343
00:14:29,316 --> 00:14:31,836
Ava, thank you so
much for sharing that story.
344
00:14:31,871 --> 00:14:32,699
You're welcome.
345
00:14:34,494 --> 00:14:39,499
It's hard, but I realized
through the process of healing,
346
00:14:43,020 --> 00:14:46,057
there are more good memories
than there could ever be bad.
347
00:14:50,096 --> 00:14:54,238
I just wish that I could
hear him again, or see him.
348
00:14:57,551 --> 00:14:58,345
Thank you.
349
00:15:02,246 --> 00:15:05,249
Would any of our new members
like to share a story?
350
00:15:09,667 --> 00:15:10,668
I'm not ready yet.
351
00:15:11,738 --> 00:15:12,566
That's okay.
352
00:15:13,671 --> 00:15:15,466
When you're ready,
we'll be here.
353
00:15:15,500 --> 00:15:17,157
You know, remembering
our loved ones out loud
354
00:15:17,192 --> 00:15:20,126
is greatly helpful.
355
00:15:21,230 --> 00:15:22,887
It keeps them in our hearts.
356
00:15:24,268 --> 00:15:26,891
Andrew, would you like to share?
357
00:15:27,892 --> 00:15:29,790
I guess, yeah, yeah.
358
00:15:29,825 --> 00:15:30,619
Yeah, I'll go.
359
00:15:32,241 --> 00:15:35,175
But it's kind of hard to
remember things right now.
360
00:15:38,144 --> 00:15:42,424
No good memories, no bad
ones, just, it just all sucks.
361
00:15:45,013 --> 00:15:48,361
You know, I was in that car
accident where my brother died.
362
00:15:50,052 --> 00:15:51,605
Why not me?
363
00:15:51,640 --> 00:15:53,745
What makes me so special?
364
00:15:53,780 --> 00:15:54,574
He was my brother.
365
00:15:54,608 --> 00:15:55,368
He was my twin.
366
00:15:55,402 --> 00:15:56,576
He was a part of me.
367
00:15:59,959 --> 00:16:01,926
We were supposed to
travel the world together,
368
00:16:01,961 --> 00:16:03,341
and now it's just me,
369
00:16:05,171 --> 00:16:06,827
and that ain't right.
370
00:16:08,968 --> 00:16:11,936
Andrew, it's,
it's not just you.
371
00:16:11,971 --> 00:16:14,387
You know, he's
still part of you,
372
00:16:14,421 --> 00:16:16,285
and remembering him
is gonna help you.
373
00:16:18,839 --> 00:16:19,944
Thank you for sharing.
374
00:16:21,049 --> 00:16:22,464
Pastor John?
375
00:16:22,498 --> 00:16:24,155
Yes, Lindsey.
376
00:16:24,190 --> 00:16:26,606
Could I tell a little
about my mom, maybe?
377
00:16:26,640 --> 00:16:27,987
Yes, I think we'd love that.
378
00:16:30,644 --> 00:16:32,025
My last memory of her,
379
00:16:32,060 --> 00:16:33,785
she was helping me
pick out my dress
380
00:16:33,820 --> 00:16:35,373
for my first school dance.
381
00:16:38,135 --> 00:16:41,000
My mom was so sweet,
always loving.
382
00:16:43,623 --> 00:16:46,522
Her dream was to be there
for me at my wedding,
383
00:16:51,044 --> 00:16:53,012
but now she won't be able to.
384
00:16:58,707 --> 00:17:00,778
I'm sorry, I can't
talk about this yet.
385
00:17:01,710 --> 00:17:02,607
And that's okay.
386
00:17:02,642 --> 00:17:04,230
Thank you so much for sharing.
387
00:17:04,264 --> 00:17:06,025
You know, the healing
process takes time.
388
00:17:06,059 --> 00:17:09,373
And Lindsey, when you're
ready, we'll be here to listen.
389
00:17:12,065 --> 00:17:14,964
Well, I think that's a
good place to leave it.
390
00:17:14,999 --> 00:17:17,726
We do have some flyers
over on the table there.
391
00:17:17,760 --> 00:17:20,729
It has some fun activities
to help the healing process.
392
00:17:20,763 --> 00:17:22,351
And before we go,
393
00:17:22,386 --> 00:17:25,389
I'd like you do a
little bit of homework
394
00:17:25,423 --> 00:17:27,080
for this, this next week.
395
00:17:27,115 --> 00:17:30,118
Now, before you look at me
like that, it's nothing hard.
396
00:17:30,152 --> 00:17:33,086
I'd like you to talk to a
relative or a mutual friend,
397
00:17:33,121 --> 00:17:36,917
and have them share a
good memory with you.
398
00:17:36,952 --> 00:17:37,849
I'd like you to write it down,
399
00:17:37,884 --> 00:17:40,059
and if you feel comfortable,
400
00:17:40,093 --> 00:17:41,888
share it when you
come back next week,
401
00:17:41,922 --> 00:17:43,648
and we'll start on
our memory books.
402
00:17:45,133 --> 00:17:46,927
Alright?
403
00:17:46,962 --> 00:17:48,274
Thanks again for
coming everybody.
404
00:17:48,308 --> 00:17:50,759
Remember, there are some
flyers over by the coffee,
405
00:17:50,793 --> 00:17:52,036
that have some
recommended reading.
406
00:17:52,071 --> 00:17:54,073
As always, if you need
to talk to me at all,
407
00:17:55,074 --> 00:17:56,420
feel free to come find me.
408
00:17:57,731 --> 00:17:58,629
Have a wonderful week.
409
00:18:04,462 --> 00:18:06,913
Chocolate chip was
Matthew's favorite cookie.
410
00:18:09,640 --> 00:18:12,160
Hey, I'm sorry
about your brother.
411
00:18:12,194 --> 00:18:13,092
Thanks.
412
00:18:14,127 --> 00:18:16,095
Sorry about your mother too.
413
00:18:16,129 --> 00:18:19,063
Guess we all gotta lose
someone at some point.
414
00:18:19,098 --> 00:18:21,272
Yeah, but it
doesn't feel fair.
415
00:18:21,307 --> 00:18:22,135
I know.
416
00:18:23,930 --> 00:18:26,105
Were you close
to your brother?
417
00:18:26,139 --> 00:18:29,487
Yeah, we were pretty
much like the same person.
418
00:18:31,110 --> 00:18:33,595
We even had our own way
of talking to each other.
419
00:18:33,629 --> 00:18:35,114
Yeah, I've heard that,
420
00:18:35,148 --> 00:18:37,116
that twins can have their
own secret language.
421
00:18:37,150 --> 00:18:38,876
That's actually really cool.
422
00:18:38,910 --> 00:18:41,120
Yeah, yeah, guess so.
423
00:18:42,190 --> 00:18:44,640
Well, I gotta go,
my dad's waiting.
424
00:18:44,675 --> 00:18:46,953
But it was nice to meet you.
425
00:18:46,987 --> 00:18:50,129
Hey, I hope you come back.
426
00:18:52,579 --> 00:18:53,408
I think I will.
427
00:18:59,690 --> 00:19:02,624
Ugh, it's
a hot day today, man.
428
00:19:02,658 --> 00:19:04,108
Hey, you alright?
429
00:19:08,147 --> 00:19:10,045
No, seriously, you okay?
430
00:19:10,079 --> 00:19:15,050
I don't know.
431
00:19:16,120 --> 00:19:17,432
What's wrong?
432
00:19:18,398 --> 00:19:19,606
I don't know.
433
00:19:19,641 --> 00:19:21,470
Alright, you
wanna talk about it?
434
00:19:21,505 --> 00:19:23,092
Why?
435
00:19:23,127 --> 00:19:24,163
It won't bring Mom back!
436
00:19:25,440 --> 00:19:28,891
No, but it's nice
to remember her.
437
00:19:30,203 --> 00:19:32,895
Lindsey says Mom is living
in heaven now with God.
438
00:19:32,930 --> 00:19:34,759
I just wish I could
talk to her, Dad.
439
00:19:34,794 --> 00:19:38,142
It would be so nice if
a text or phone call
440
00:19:38,177 --> 00:19:40,282
could reach all the
way up to heaven.
441
00:19:40,317 --> 00:19:41,180
I know.
442
00:19:42,526 --> 00:19:44,321
Look, I knew someone that
wrote a message in a-
443
00:19:44,355 --> 00:19:46,530
I don't want that, I want Mom!
444
00:19:46,564 --> 00:19:48,704
I want Mom too, okay?
445
00:19:48,739 --> 00:19:50,568
I'm sorry things have changed.
446
00:19:51,845 --> 00:19:54,123
Dad, I don't wanna hike today.
447
00:19:54,158 --> 00:19:55,297
I just wanna go back home.
448
00:19:56,195 --> 00:19:58,093
Right, you don't wanna hike?
449
00:19:58,127 --> 00:19:59,301
You just wanna go home?
450
00:19:59,336 --> 00:20:00,785
Yeah.
451
00:20:00,820 --> 00:20:02,166
Watch a movie with me?
452
00:20:02,201 --> 00:20:03,202
Sure.
453
00:20:04,203 --> 00:20:05,652
It's hot anyway, right?
454
00:20:05,687 --> 00:20:06,860
Come on, come on.
455
00:20:32,300 --> 00:20:34,267
I'm having a real
hard time here, Abby.
456
00:20:40,446 --> 00:20:41,964
The kids are so sad.
457
00:20:44,243 --> 00:20:46,245
I'm just trying to
make them feel loved.
458
00:20:54,045 --> 00:20:57,773
Just don't laugh at me if
I start to cry.
459
00:20:59,223 --> 00:21:00,569
You know, I remember
you saying once
460
00:21:00,604 --> 00:21:03,089
that real men do cry.
461
00:21:06,265 --> 00:21:07,611
Well, this man cries for you.
462
00:21:09,751 --> 00:21:10,545
I love you, Abby.
463
00:21:28,356 --> 00:21:30,012
Oh, man.
464
00:21:30,047 --> 00:21:32,291
Those cookies smell great.
465
00:21:32,325 --> 00:21:34,293
If it's cookies,
you know it's for me.
466
00:21:34,327 --> 00:21:35,328
Every kid loves cookies.
467
00:21:35,363 --> 00:21:37,365
Dad, it's for group.
468
00:21:37,399 --> 00:21:38,262
Oh.
469
00:21:38,297 --> 00:21:39,815
Can we just have one?
470
00:21:39,850 --> 00:21:41,092
Just one?
471
00:21:41,127 --> 00:21:43,750
Not unless you come
to group with me.
472
00:21:43,785 --> 00:21:44,544
Good luck.
473
00:21:47,306 --> 00:21:49,273
This is a real nice
thing you're doing here.
474
00:21:49,308 --> 00:21:50,309
Thanks, Dad.
475
00:21:51,620 --> 00:21:53,312
How about one for the old man?
476
00:21:55,521 --> 00:21:56,315
Want an apple?
477
00:21:59,870 --> 00:22:01,285
Sure.
478
00:22:22,720 --> 00:22:25,171
Andrew, this is my
little brother, Josh.
479
00:22:25,205 --> 00:22:26,172
Josh, meet Andrew.
480
00:22:27,691 --> 00:22:29,071
Hey, Josh.
481
00:22:29,106 --> 00:22:31,142
So, you're the reason
482
00:22:31,177 --> 00:22:34,318
my sister won't let me have
any cookies, aren't you?
483
00:22:34,353 --> 00:22:35,319
Me?
484
00:22:36,562 --> 00:22:38,322
Well, nice to meet
you too, Josh.
485
00:22:40,945 --> 00:22:42,982
I'm gonna go sit down.
486
00:22:43,016 --> 00:22:44,190
You can stop now.
487
00:22:44,224 --> 00:22:45,709
I'm just messing
with you, little man.
488
00:22:45,743 --> 00:22:47,158
Coming to a good spot.
489
00:22:47,193 --> 00:22:48,470
Place helps me out a lot.
490
00:22:48,505 --> 00:22:50,299
Sure.
491
00:22:50,334 --> 00:22:52,232
How's your week been?
492
00:22:52,267 --> 00:22:53,130
I've had a good week.
493
00:22:53,164 --> 00:22:53,889
Did you have a good week?
494
00:22:53,924 --> 00:22:55,304
Yeah, it was.
495
00:22:55,339 --> 00:22:56,996
My dad set up to scholarship
in my mom's name,
496
00:22:57,030 --> 00:22:58,860
and we met a few
of the recipients.
497
00:22:58,894 --> 00:23:00,275
Oh, that's cool.
498
00:23:00,309 --> 00:23:01,966
Yeah, it really was.
499
00:23:05,280 --> 00:23:07,351
Hey, you wanna go
get coffee sometime?
500
00:23:07,386 --> 00:23:11,838
Maybe talk about your mother,
or my brother, or the weather?
501
00:23:11,873 --> 00:23:13,150
Yeah, I'd like that.
502
00:23:13,184 --> 00:23:15,186
Maybe you can meet my
best friend, Katie.
503
00:23:15,221 --> 00:23:16,567
Yeah, yeah, that'd be cool.
504
00:23:17,568 --> 00:23:18,914
Okay, let's go.
505
00:23:18,949 --> 00:23:19,743
Yeah.
506
00:23:22,608 --> 00:23:23,678
Alright, everyone.
507
00:23:23,712 --> 00:23:24,644
Well, let's go ahead
and take our seats,
508
00:23:24,679 --> 00:23:25,438
and we can begin.
509
00:23:27,475 --> 00:23:30,374
It's always nice to see
new faces in the group.
510
00:23:30,409 --> 00:23:31,513
And as a little reminder,
511
00:23:31,548 --> 00:23:34,240
I like to say what it
is we do in this group.
512
00:23:35,552 --> 00:23:38,175
Our grief support group is
a place of healing and hope.
513
00:23:39,418 --> 00:23:42,386
We like to remember our
loved ones out loud.
514
00:23:42,421 --> 00:23:46,045
We share stories, we share
memories, good and bad,
515
00:23:46,079 --> 00:23:48,288
and more importantly, we
like to support each other,
516
00:23:48,323 --> 00:23:50,946
as we move from the
sadness of loss,
517
00:23:50,981 --> 00:23:52,431
to finding the comfort
518
00:23:52,465 --> 00:23:54,916
of knowing that our loved
ones reside in our hearts
519
00:23:54,950 --> 00:23:56,296
and our memories forever.
520
00:23:57,470 --> 00:23:59,438
I'd like the new
faces in the group
521
00:23:59,472 --> 00:24:00,749
to go ahead and
introduce themselves.
522
00:24:00,784 --> 00:24:03,096
And we'll go ahead and
start sharing some stories.
523
00:24:03,131 --> 00:24:08,136
My name's Josh and
my sister made me come.
524
00:24:09,206 --> 00:24:10,138
Well, it's good
to see you, Josh.
525
00:24:10,172 --> 00:24:11,311
Thank you for coming.
526
00:24:11,346 --> 00:24:12,451
Thanks for bringing
him, Lindsey.
527
00:24:12,485 --> 00:24:13,279
And?
528
00:24:15,005 --> 00:24:16,903
Hi, my name is Carrie.
529
00:24:17,801 --> 00:24:19,975
I lost my baby boy.
530
00:24:21,183 --> 00:24:22,426
He had cancer.
531
00:24:23,807 --> 00:24:25,153
Hi, Carrie.
532
00:24:25,187 --> 00:24:26,395
I really hope both of you
533
00:24:26,430 --> 00:24:28,121
can find some comfort
in being here with us.
534
00:24:29,364 --> 00:24:30,641
Carrie, would you like
to share a little more
535
00:24:30,676 --> 00:24:31,884
about your story?
536
00:24:31,918 --> 00:24:33,437
No pressure.
537
00:24:33,472 --> 00:24:35,784
No, I'm not ready.
538
00:24:35,819 --> 00:24:39,616
It's, it's hard to
talk about still.
539
00:24:40,996 --> 00:24:42,204
We're glad you're here.
540
00:24:42,239 --> 00:24:44,483
If you need to talk,
I'm always here.
541
00:24:46,208 --> 00:24:48,970
I lost my mom not too long ago,
542
00:24:49,004 --> 00:24:50,558
and I know it's not the same,
543
00:24:50,592 --> 00:24:53,492
but this group is
really helping me.
544
00:24:55,114 --> 00:24:56,495
Thank you, Lindsey.
545
00:24:56,529 --> 00:24:58,117
Whatever we can do to help,
546
00:24:58,151 --> 00:24:59,290
that's why we're here.
547
00:25:00,395 --> 00:25:02,570
So, everyone, how's
the week been?
548
00:25:06,574 --> 00:25:07,506
It's been better.
549
00:25:11,579 --> 00:25:14,616
My mother and I went
to see my dad's grave.
550
00:25:16,515 --> 00:25:20,519
So, well, she decided
to start a scholarship
551
00:25:24,350 --> 00:25:25,351
in his name, so.
552
00:25:27,560 --> 00:25:28,423
That's wonderful,
553
00:25:28,457 --> 00:25:30,321
and I'm sure he'd be very proud.
554
00:25:30,356 --> 00:25:31,599
Thank you for sharing, Ricky.
555
00:25:32,565 --> 00:25:34,325
How's your week been, Ava?
556
00:25:34,360 --> 00:25:37,501
Oh, mine, mine actually
has been really good.
557
00:25:37,536 --> 00:25:39,365
I've had more good
days than bad,
558
00:25:39,399 --> 00:25:41,160
which I never
thought would happen.
559
00:25:42,575 --> 00:25:44,232
We're actually planning a
trip to see Ryan's parents
560
00:25:44,266 --> 00:25:45,095
this weekend, so.
561
00:25:46,406 --> 00:25:48,547
That sounds
like a wonderful trip.
562
00:25:49,582 --> 00:25:51,895
Yeah, I might be
missing a few meetings.
563
00:25:51,929 --> 00:25:53,655
Oh, well, that's okay.
564
00:25:53,690 --> 00:25:54,863
Certainly a good reason.
565
00:25:54,898 --> 00:25:55,657
Yeah.
566
00:25:56,934 --> 00:25:58,867
Andy, how's your
week been, sir?
567
00:26:01,629 --> 00:26:05,529
You know, I'm still
having a hard time.
568
00:26:05,564 --> 00:26:09,153
You know, sometimes I still
feel angry about it all,
569
00:26:09,188 --> 00:26:11,500
him dying and me surviving.
570
00:26:11,535 --> 00:26:15,194
But my mom was actually
going through his stuff,
571
00:26:15,228 --> 00:26:17,541
and she found this dictionary.
572
00:26:17,576 --> 00:26:19,232
It's the dictionary,
we used to use it,
573
00:26:19,267 --> 00:26:21,407
to make our own language.
574
00:26:22,581 --> 00:26:24,548
When I looked at it,
something clicked.
575
00:26:24,583 --> 00:26:26,446
Just realized he
was a part of me.
576
00:26:27,896 --> 00:26:30,278
And how has that
impacted your healing?
577
00:26:30,312 --> 00:26:33,143
Well, I can at
least talk about him.
578
00:26:33,177 --> 00:26:35,455
You know, that's
a big step for me.
579
00:26:35,490 --> 00:26:36,733
That's a great start.
580
00:26:36,767 --> 00:26:41,047
You know, continuing to
remember our loved ones out loud
581
00:26:41,082 --> 00:26:43,671
is always so helpful, you know?
582
00:26:43,705 --> 00:26:45,396
It keeps them right
in our hearts.
583
00:26:45,431 --> 00:26:46,605
Yeah.
584
00:26:46,639 --> 00:26:48,261
It hasn't been easy,
but I've been trying.
585
00:26:49,262 --> 00:26:50,505
Lindsay, how you been?
586
00:26:51,575 --> 00:26:53,473
Honestly, I'm okay.
587
00:26:53,508 --> 00:26:56,235
You know, I know my
mom's always with me,
588
00:26:56,269 --> 00:27:00,619
and my dad and I, we did
some things in her memory.
589
00:27:02,137 --> 00:27:04,277
And I guess I'm just not
as angry as I was before.
590
00:27:07,177 --> 00:27:08,419
That's great to hear.
591
00:27:08,454 --> 00:27:10,180
I'm happy to hear
with your progress.
592
00:27:11,077 --> 00:27:12,527
I'm really proud of all of you.
593
00:27:12,561 --> 00:27:16,289
You know, these, these
reports are great, you know?
594
00:27:16,324 --> 00:27:18,775
I'd actually like to
take a time of prayer.
595
00:27:19,672 --> 00:27:20,846
Bow our heads in prayer.
596
00:27:24,677 --> 00:27:26,921
Heavenly father, we thank you
597
00:27:26,955 --> 00:27:29,130
for this wonderful
night you've given us.
598
00:27:30,200 --> 00:27:31,511
Thank you for reminding us
599
00:27:31,546 --> 00:27:33,755
that your mercies
are new every day.
600
00:27:33,790 --> 00:27:34,791
It says in the book of Matthew,
601
00:27:34,825 --> 00:27:37,345
that blessed are
those who mourn,
602
00:27:37,379 --> 00:27:38,691
for they will be shown mercy.
603
00:27:39,968 --> 00:27:42,695
We pray that your grace
continuously follows us
604
00:27:42,730 --> 00:27:44,317
through our day.
605
00:27:44,352 --> 00:27:46,630
And we pray that
you bless our going
606
00:27:46,665 --> 00:27:48,977
as you blessed our
coming here tonight.
607
00:27:49,012 --> 00:27:49,909
Thank you.
608
00:27:49,944 --> 00:27:51,980
It's in your name we pray.
609
00:27:52,015 --> 00:27:52,809
Amen.
610
00:28:05,062 --> 00:28:06,167
Dad, Dad.
611
00:28:06,201 --> 00:28:07,064
Yeah.
612
00:28:07,099 --> 00:28:08,065
Teach me to play guitar.
613
00:28:09,204 --> 00:28:10,447
What now?
614
00:28:10,481 --> 00:28:11,586
Yeah, I wanna write
songs like you do.
615
00:28:11,620 --> 00:28:12,414
Look.
616
00:28:13,519 --> 00:28:14,520
What have you got?
617
00:28:18,524 --> 00:28:20,560
This is pretty good.
618
00:28:20,595 --> 00:28:23,667
Yeah, it's for Mom.
619
00:28:23,702 --> 00:28:24,668
You know what,
here, you got it.
620
00:28:24,703 --> 00:28:26,394
Here, give me that guitar.
621
00:28:26,428 --> 00:28:27,740
Take the old man's guitar.
622
00:28:27,775 --> 00:28:30,501
Do you remember that E minor
chord that I showed you
623
00:28:30,536 --> 00:28:31,261
a while back?
- Yeah.
624
00:28:31,295 --> 00:28:32,124
Yeah?
625
00:28:32,158 --> 00:28:32,918
Let's see what you got.
626
00:28:34,091 --> 00:28:34,851
Here, take the pick.
627
00:28:34,885 --> 00:28:35,748
Try that.
628
00:28:36,749 --> 00:28:38,061
Yeah, you're right on the mark.
629
00:28:38,095 --> 00:28:38,855
Let's do another one.
630
00:28:38,889 --> 00:28:40,097
Do you remember D7?
631
00:28:41,512 --> 00:28:42,790
Yeah, one there.
632
00:28:42,824 --> 00:28:44,723
Actually, no, put
this finger up here.
633
00:28:45,758 --> 00:28:46,863
Hit that.
634
00:28:46,897 --> 00:28:48,727
See how that works?
635
00:28:48,761 --> 00:28:49,797
Not bad, could be better.
636
00:28:49,831 --> 00:28:52,869
Very good!
637
00:28:57,701 --> 00:28:59,945
Hey, there you go.
638
00:28:59,979 --> 00:29:01,084
Thank you.
639
00:29:01,118 --> 00:29:03,465
Of course, you're welcome.
640
00:29:03,500 --> 00:29:07,746
So, did you enjoy
group last time?
641
00:29:07,780 --> 00:29:09,955
I dunno, I'm starting
to really like it.
642
00:29:09,989 --> 00:29:11,577
Like, it's helping me.
643
00:29:11,611 --> 00:29:12,751
Me too.
644
00:29:12,785 --> 00:29:14,787
I didn't think I could
stop feeling angry
645
00:29:14,822 --> 00:29:15,892
or guilty about it all,
646
00:29:15,926 --> 00:29:18,101
but little by little, I am.
647
00:29:18,135 --> 00:29:19,861
That's good.
648
00:29:19,896 --> 00:29:20,966
Oh, there's Katie.
649
00:29:22,105 --> 00:29:23,002
Katie's here.
650
00:29:23,037 --> 00:29:25,798
Hi.
651
00:29:25,833 --> 00:29:26,799
Hey, Katie.
652
00:29:26,834 --> 00:29:27,627
Hi, hi.
653
00:29:29,940 --> 00:29:32,080
Katie, this is
Andrew from group.
654
00:29:32,115 --> 00:29:35,049
Andrew, this is Katie,
from like my whole life.
655
00:29:35,083 --> 00:29:36,050
Hi,
hi, how you doing?
656
00:29:36,084 --> 00:29:37,327
Hi.
657
00:29:37,361 --> 00:29:39,812
So, you're the one that
eats all the cookies.
658
00:29:39,847 --> 00:29:41,641
Um, how did you know?
659
00:29:47,026 --> 00:29:48,372
Hmm.
660
00:29:53,792 --> 00:29:55,138
Hey, Dad.
661
00:29:55,172 --> 00:29:56,208
Oh hey, pumpkin.
662
00:29:56,242 --> 00:29:57,243
How was your day?
663
00:29:57,278 --> 00:29:58,141
It was great.
664
00:29:58,175 --> 00:29:58,935
Oh, that's right,
665
00:29:58,969 --> 00:29:59,763
it was your third date.
666
00:29:59,798 --> 00:30:00,764
How'd it go?
667
00:30:00,799 --> 00:30:02,248
Dad, it's not a date.
668
00:30:02,283 --> 00:30:06,425
Alright, alright, it
wasn't a date.
669
00:30:06,459 --> 00:30:08,841
Look, I got some dinner in
the fridge for you, alright?
670
00:30:08,876 --> 00:30:10,153
Don't be up too late,
school tomorrow.
671
00:30:10,187 --> 00:30:11,119
I won't.
672
00:30:11,154 --> 00:30:11,913
Thanks, Dad.
- Alright, alright.
673
00:30:11,948 --> 00:30:12,811
Goodnight.
674
00:30:15,020 --> 00:30:16,815
We're gonna be okay, Abby, girl.
675
00:30:23,994 --> 00:30:25,893
So, I was thinking we
could go to Mayfields.
676
00:30:25,927 --> 00:30:27,756
I heard they have a sale, so.
677
00:30:29,655 --> 00:30:31,795
Katie, Katie, are you okay?
678
00:30:33,797 --> 00:30:34,729
Sorry, what?
679
00:30:36,662 --> 00:30:38,284
Is everything alright?
680
00:30:40,735 --> 00:30:41,701
No, not really.
681
00:30:43,842 --> 00:30:46,154
Okay, I can just pull over.
682
00:30:52,851 --> 00:30:53,713
What's going on?
683
00:30:55,163 --> 00:30:56,233
Everything, Lindsey.
684
00:30:57,856 --> 00:30:58,753
Tell me.
685
00:31:02,136 --> 00:31:03,516
My mom has cancer.
686
00:31:04,932 --> 00:31:05,898
Stage four.
687
00:31:07,796 --> 00:31:08,901
What?
688
00:31:08,936 --> 00:31:12,525
I'm trying to be strong.
689
00:31:12,560 --> 00:31:13,664
We just found out.
690
00:31:14,873 --> 00:31:16,875
It's bad, but she said
she's going to fight.
691
00:31:17,979 --> 00:31:19,118
I'm so sorry.
692
00:31:19,153 --> 00:31:20,464
God, I can't even...
693
00:31:20,499 --> 00:31:22,708
I don't know what to do.
694
00:31:23,916 --> 00:31:25,884
I don't want her
to see me crying.
695
00:31:25,918 --> 00:31:26,988
I'm so scared.
696
00:31:28,024 --> 00:31:29,473
Hey, hey, it's gonna be okay.
697
00:31:29,508 --> 00:31:31,855
I'm gonna be here for
you no matter what, okay?
698
00:31:35,824 --> 00:31:36,791
Thank you.
699
00:31:40,070 --> 00:31:41,900
How about we talk
about some happy stuff?
700
00:31:41,934 --> 00:31:43,556
Okay.
701
00:31:43,591 --> 00:31:46,801
Isn't that, what's his face
who's taking you to prom,
702
00:31:46,835 --> 00:31:47,767
that guy?
703
00:31:47,802 --> 00:31:48,837
Brett.
704
00:31:48,872 --> 00:31:52,427
Brett, the
basketball guy, yeah.
705
00:31:52,462 --> 00:31:54,360
He hasn't asked me yet,
706
00:31:54,395 --> 00:31:56,397
but I was thinking it'd be fun
707
00:31:56,431 --> 00:31:59,227
if just a bunch of
us went together.
708
00:31:59,262 --> 00:32:00,435
Yeah, gonna be fine.
709
00:32:00,470 --> 00:32:02,092
We can get a limo,
ride in style.
710
00:32:05,647 --> 00:32:06,925
Love you, girl.
711
00:32:06,959 --> 00:32:07,926
It's gonna be okay.
712
00:32:18,695 --> 00:32:20,628
So, you excited
for prom tonight?
713
00:32:20,662 --> 00:32:21,456
Yeah.
714
00:32:22,837 --> 00:32:23,803
Do you think it's weird,
715
00:32:23,838 --> 00:32:25,012
Lindsey and I decided
not to go with any boys,
716
00:32:25,046 --> 00:32:27,428
and just go with
our girlfriends?
717
00:32:27,462 --> 00:32:28,947
Oh, yeah, it's so weird, Kat,
718
00:32:30,534 --> 00:32:32,467
but better for your dad and I.
719
00:32:32,502 --> 00:32:33,917
Now, we don't have to do
720
00:32:33,952 --> 00:32:37,438
that whole crazy father
parent thing that dads do.
721
00:32:42,512 --> 00:32:44,410
Here's the lovely
Miss Lindsey.
722
00:32:44,445 --> 00:32:45,204
Hi!
723
00:32:46,136 --> 00:32:47,310
I'll be right back.
724
00:32:47,344 --> 00:32:49,105
Hello,
Sara, how are you doing?
725
00:32:49,139 --> 00:32:50,761
I'm fighting hard.
726
00:32:50,796 --> 00:32:52,004
It's good to see you.
727
00:32:52,039 --> 00:32:53,937
It's
good to see you too.
728
00:32:53,972 --> 00:32:55,111
Why don't we go get ready?
729
00:32:55,145 --> 00:32:56,698
Okay, bye.
730
00:32:56,733 --> 00:32:58,079
You girls have fun.
731
00:32:58,114 --> 00:32:59,115
Thank you, Mom.
732
00:33:04,051 --> 00:33:06,846
Sorry, I
left my makeup bag.
733
00:33:06,881 --> 00:33:08,987
Actually, I'm
glad you're here.
734
00:33:09,021 --> 00:33:10,574
Can you sit with
me for a minute?
735
00:33:12,059 --> 00:33:12,991
Yeah, of course.
736
00:33:13,025 --> 00:33:13,992
What's wrong?
737
00:33:14,026 --> 00:33:16,028
I need your help, Lindsey.
738
00:33:16,063 --> 00:33:17,685
I don't have long.
739
00:33:18,927 --> 00:33:20,929
I'm struggling with it.
740
00:33:22,379 --> 00:33:26,004
And I know that Katie is not
gonna do well when I'm gone.
741
00:33:28,006 --> 00:33:29,662
I wanna do something for her,
742
00:33:30,663 --> 00:33:32,010
that'll bring her comfort
743
00:33:33,183 --> 00:33:35,013
you know, during important
times in her life.
744
00:33:36,531 --> 00:33:39,224
Will you help me make a
video message for her?
745
00:33:41,019 --> 00:33:42,192
Yeah.
746
00:33:42,227 --> 00:33:44,022
Yeah, of course.
747
00:33:44,056 --> 00:33:46,231
And don't tell her.
748
00:33:48,026 --> 00:33:49,027
I'll entrust them to you,
749
00:33:50,407 --> 00:33:52,685
and you just make
sure she gets them
750
00:33:52,720 --> 00:33:55,033
when the time's right, okay?
751
00:33:57,069 --> 00:33:59,727
Okay.
752
00:33:59,761 --> 00:34:00,831
You go on, get ready.
753
00:34:02,040 --> 00:34:05,388
I'll contact you to set
up a day and time soon.
754
00:34:07,045 --> 00:34:08,046
I'll see you.
755
00:34:08,908 --> 00:34:09,702
Bye.
756
00:34:14,466 --> 00:34:15,777
- Tom?
- Yes, dear.
757
00:34:15,812 --> 00:34:17,572
Can you bring me
my Bible, please?
758
00:34:20,472 --> 00:34:22,025
Anything for you, my love.
759
00:34:25,132 --> 00:34:26,374
You mind if I read with you?
760
00:34:26,409 --> 00:34:27,203
No.
761
00:34:38,593 --> 00:34:40,181
Oh, oh, thank you.
762
00:34:42,252 --> 00:34:44,530
Katie sure did look
beautiful for the prom tonight,
763
00:34:44,565 --> 00:34:45,324
didn't she?
764
00:34:45,359 --> 00:34:46,118
Oh, she did.
765
00:34:50,364 --> 00:34:51,606
There you go.
766
00:34:56,715 --> 00:34:57,923
Thank you, honey.
767
00:34:57,957 --> 00:34:59,787
Huh, for what?
768
00:34:59,821 --> 00:35:01,168
You know.
769
00:35:01,202 --> 00:35:02,410
What, for loving you?
770
00:35:04,102 --> 00:35:05,448
I love you, Tom.
771
00:35:06,587 --> 00:35:09,935
And I know you're going
to do the right thing,
772
00:35:09,969 --> 00:35:12,213
and raise our daughter right.
773
00:35:13,145 --> 00:35:15,043
I'm not giving
up on you, Sara.
774
00:35:16,183 --> 00:35:21,153
I know.
775
00:35:37,065 --> 00:35:38,515
Thank you for this, Lindsey.
776
00:35:38,550 --> 00:35:39,723
You're welcome, Sara.
777
00:35:40,897 --> 00:35:43,071
I know how much this
is gonna mean to Katie.
778
00:35:44,280 --> 00:35:45,143
Right.
779
00:35:46,730 --> 00:35:48,146
It means everything to me too.
780
00:35:50,355 --> 00:35:52,874
I don't have much
I can leave her,
781
00:35:54,393 --> 00:35:58,777
but reminders of how
proud I am of her,
782
00:36:00,675 --> 00:36:01,676
how much I love her,
783
00:36:03,678 --> 00:36:05,646
bring me some peace.
784
00:36:05,680 --> 00:36:07,475
She's gonna be here
in about 30 minutes,
785
00:36:07,510 --> 00:36:10,168
so we should get started.
786
00:36:12,204 --> 00:36:15,000
I'm just gonna put
some lipstick on.
787
00:36:15,034 --> 00:36:16,139
Of course,
788
00:36:24,561 --> 00:36:25,666
How does that look?
789
00:36:26,667 --> 00:36:28,186
You look beautiful.
790
00:36:32,224 --> 00:36:34,675
Okay, I'm ready when you are.
791
00:36:38,679 --> 00:36:41,992
Katie, when you
receive this message,
792
00:36:44,167 --> 00:36:48,965
I'll be with God and our
savior, Jesus Christ,
793
00:36:48,999 --> 00:36:51,416
in heaven and free of pain.
794
00:36:55,385 --> 00:36:59,113
I will always be watching
over you in spirit.
795
00:37:02,185 --> 00:37:04,187
And today is such a special day.
796
00:37:05,499 --> 00:37:09,227
You're graduating from
high school with honors,
797
00:37:11,263 --> 00:37:13,231
and I'm so proud of you.
798
00:37:15,440 --> 00:37:17,373
I want you to enjoy it,
799
00:37:21,239 --> 00:37:25,243
and take tons of pictures with
your friends and your dad.
800
00:37:26,830 --> 00:37:28,246
And enjoy that moment,
801
00:37:29,247 --> 00:37:30,455
when you move your tassel,
802
00:37:32,284 --> 00:37:33,803
and throw your hat in the air.
803
00:37:37,185 --> 00:37:41,259
Going to UF is going
to be amazing for you,
804
00:37:44,227 --> 00:37:45,918
and I hope that you have
805
00:37:45,953 --> 00:37:49,163
a memorable college
experience, honey.
806
00:37:51,338 --> 00:37:56,308
Katie, please try and
go to church regularly.
807
00:37:58,310 --> 00:38:01,279
Read your Bible and pray.
808
00:38:04,316 --> 00:38:05,835
I've left my Bible for you,
809
00:38:09,010 --> 00:38:13,429
and I've had Pastor Mark notate
all my favorite Bible verses
810
00:38:14,706 --> 00:38:16,017
for you to reference,
811
00:38:18,917 --> 00:38:20,021
and give you strength.
812
00:38:22,369 --> 00:38:25,095
I will always be with you.
813
00:38:29,376 --> 00:38:30,584
I love you, Katie.
814
00:38:42,009 --> 00:38:43,321
Okay, I got it.
815
00:38:46,496 --> 00:38:48,981
Lindsey, I have
one more favor.
816
00:38:50,397 --> 00:38:51,329
Yeah.
817
00:38:53,883 --> 00:38:54,677
Anything.
818
00:38:56,851 --> 00:38:58,784
I got a graduation
card for Katie.
819
00:39:02,029 --> 00:39:05,170
Can you make sure she gets
it when she graduates?
820
00:39:08,484 --> 00:39:10,348
Yeah, of course.
821
00:39:11,694 --> 00:39:16,354
But you'll be able to
give it to her, right?
822
00:39:20,392 --> 00:39:21,359
Appreciate it.
823
00:39:30,437 --> 00:39:32,162
Thank you so much
for sharing, Rick,
824
00:39:32,197 --> 00:39:34,095
and let's put that
in your memory book.
825
00:39:35,269 --> 00:39:36,374
Hello, Lindsey.
826
00:39:38,376 --> 00:39:39,756
- Hi.
- Hey, Lindsey.
827
00:39:39,791 --> 00:39:41,344
I'm sorry I'm late.
828
00:39:41,379 --> 00:39:43,139
I was helping my friend's
mom with something.
829
00:39:43,173 --> 00:39:44,036
No, that's okay.
830
00:39:44,071 --> 00:39:45,072
Sometimes we have things to do.
831
00:39:45,106 --> 00:39:46,349
Don't worry about it.
832
00:39:46,384 --> 00:39:48,075
Well, it wouldn't be
the same without you.
833
00:39:49,352 --> 00:39:51,630
I'm having a hard
time with this one.
834
00:39:51,665 --> 00:39:52,493
Why?
835
00:39:54,115 --> 00:39:57,843
It's my best friend's
mom, she's dying,
836
00:39:57,878 --> 00:40:00,639
and I'm trying to do
something special for Katie
837
00:40:00,674 --> 00:40:03,401
so she can have something
after she's gone.
838
00:40:03,435 --> 00:40:06,024
Well, that's very
sweet of you to help her.
839
00:40:06,058 --> 00:40:07,128
But are you okay?
840
00:40:08,302 --> 00:40:12,617
I am, but I can't stop
thinking about my mom.
841
00:40:14,204 --> 00:40:16,621
Sometimes, it's just like
I lost her all over again.
842
00:40:18,933 --> 00:40:21,108
Well, I'm sure what
you're doing to help Katie
843
00:40:21,142 --> 00:40:22,454
will bring her great comfort.
844
00:40:24,456 --> 00:40:26,872
Well, I'm helping her mom
make a video message for her,
845
00:40:26,907 --> 00:40:28,287
and I still have to edit it
846
00:40:28,322 --> 00:40:29,565
with some of her mom's
favorite pictures at the end.
847
00:40:29,599 --> 00:40:33,327
But, I don't know.
848
00:40:33,361 --> 00:40:34,155
I like that.
849
00:40:35,536 --> 00:40:37,331
I'd love to see
my brother again.
850
00:40:38,332 --> 00:40:39,816
Or my baby.
851
00:40:39,851 --> 00:40:40,645
Or my husband.
852
00:40:41,818 --> 00:40:42,612
My father.
853
00:40:43,786 --> 00:40:44,580
My mom.
854
00:40:46,513 --> 00:40:48,376
You know, I think
we all have someone
855
00:40:48,411 --> 00:40:50,413
whose voice we'd
love to hear again.
856
00:40:51,794 --> 00:40:54,072
I think it's very sweet of
you to help your friend.
857
00:40:54,106 --> 00:40:56,626
And you know, you could always
invite Katie here, you know?
858
00:40:56,661 --> 00:40:59,249
She doesn't have to wait
until her mother passes
859
00:40:59,284 --> 00:41:00,630
to get support.
860
00:41:00,665 --> 00:41:01,976
I don't know.
861
00:41:02,011 --> 00:41:03,461
She's not ready to deal
with her mom dying yet.
862
00:41:05,463 --> 00:41:07,188
And Sara's still fighting.
863
00:41:08,017 --> 00:41:09,087
Maybe she'll make it.
864
00:41:09,915 --> 00:41:10,675
It's true.
865
00:41:10,709 --> 00:41:11,503
We'll be praying.
866
00:41:12,849 --> 00:41:13,678
Thanks.
867
00:41:15,473 --> 00:41:16,335
Ava would you like
868
00:41:16,370 --> 00:41:17,129
to continue with your story?
869
00:41:17,164 --> 00:41:18,061
Alright.
870
00:41:18,096 --> 00:41:19,028
Oh, why
don't you go ahead
871
00:41:19,062 --> 00:41:19,891
and check that?
872
00:41:19,925 --> 00:41:20,650
It doesn't happen often,
873
00:41:20,685 --> 00:41:22,100
it might be important.
874
00:41:22,134 --> 00:41:22,859
I'm so sorry.
875
00:41:22,894 --> 00:41:24,723
I have to go.
876
00:41:24,758 --> 00:41:25,517
No worries.
877
00:41:33,352 --> 00:41:35,769
Where are you?
878
00:41:40,636 --> 00:41:41,464
Dad, what happened?
879
00:41:41,499 --> 00:41:42,430
You're scaring me.
880
00:41:47,712 --> 00:41:49,507
Katie's mom passed away.
881
00:41:49,541 --> 00:41:50,577
Oh, I need to go see her.
882
00:41:50,611 --> 00:41:51,819
No, no, no, no, no,
listen, you can't.
883
00:41:51,854 --> 00:41:53,441
They're at the hospital.
884
00:41:53,476 --> 00:41:54,926
You're not gonna be able
to see them until tomorrow.
885
00:41:54,960 --> 00:41:55,720
I'm sorry.
886
00:41:57,411 --> 00:42:00,518
We finished just in time.
887
00:42:00,552 --> 00:42:03,210
What, what did you, what?
888
00:42:03,244 --> 00:42:04,487
What?
889
00:42:04,522 --> 00:42:06,385
Her mom and I, we made
this video for Katie
890
00:42:06,420 --> 00:42:07,559
for her graduation.
891
00:42:09,457 --> 00:42:10,528
It's like, she knew.
892
00:42:12,564 --> 00:42:14,670
That's gonna mean
the world to her.
893
00:42:14,704 --> 00:42:17,465
It's like losing
Mom all over again.
894
00:42:17,500 --> 00:42:18,225
Yeah, I know.
895
00:42:18,259 --> 00:42:19,329
That's why I wanted to-
896
00:42:19,364 --> 00:42:20,641
Hey, Dad, I really, I
really need to be alone.
897
00:42:20,676 --> 00:42:22,574
No, no, no just wait.
898
00:42:41,386 --> 00:42:42,732
This is so beautiful, Mom.
899
00:42:44,562 --> 00:42:46,564
I wonder what you
would have said to me.
900
00:42:48,289 --> 00:42:49,774
But I know this will help Katie.
901
00:42:51,569 --> 00:42:52,535
I just know.
902
00:43:21,115 --> 00:43:23,911
I think Mom would
have liked the ceremony.
903
00:43:23,946 --> 00:43:25,603
Yeah, I think so too.
904
00:43:31,609 --> 00:43:32,920
Does the pain ever go away?
905
00:43:34,646 --> 00:43:36,096
Honestly?
906
00:43:36,130 --> 00:43:38,098
It does and it doesn't.
907
00:43:41,101 --> 00:43:42,447
We'll never stop missing them.
908
00:43:44,276 --> 00:43:45,623
I don't know how you did it.
909
00:43:46,624 --> 00:43:47,417
It's so hard.
910
00:43:50,179 --> 00:43:52,906
Time, remember
the good things.
911
00:43:54,770 --> 00:43:56,772
Mom, do you think I can do it?
912
00:43:56,806 --> 00:43:57,669
You can do it, Lindsey.
913
00:43:57,704 --> 00:43:58,739
I believe in you.
914
00:44:04,814 --> 00:44:06,885
I guess
that sometimes helps.
915
00:44:07,852 --> 00:44:09,543
We graduate in one month.
916
00:44:11,649 --> 00:44:13,581
She wanted to be
here so bad for that.
917
00:44:13,616 --> 00:44:15,100
Just one more month.
918
00:44:17,655 --> 00:44:20,381
I know this probably
won't mean much right now,
919
00:44:23,143 --> 00:44:25,386
but I truly believe
that she's here with us.
920
00:44:27,561 --> 00:44:28,666
She's with God now.
921
00:44:31,979 --> 00:44:32,980
It's not the same.
922
00:44:39,677 --> 00:44:40,436
Hey.
923
00:44:47,374 --> 00:44:48,686
Just, I wonder why
she's not here yet.
924
00:44:48,720 --> 00:44:49,997
She's never late.
925
00:44:50,032 --> 00:44:51,240
I don't know.
926
00:44:51,274 --> 00:44:53,104
Maybe call her?
927
00:44:53,138 --> 00:44:54,519
I don't know.
928
00:44:54,553 --> 00:44:55,727
I have a really bad
feeling about this,
929
00:44:55,762 --> 00:44:57,487
like she's not okay.
930
00:44:57,522 --> 00:44:58,868
I'm sure she's alright.
931
00:44:58,903 --> 00:45:00,490
Just call her.
932
00:45:00,525 --> 00:45:01,422
Okay, well.
933
00:45:03,735 --> 00:45:05,047
Oh, I bet that's her now.
934
00:45:11,363 --> 00:45:12,882
Everything okay?
935
00:45:12,917 --> 00:45:14,021
No, it's not.
936
00:45:14,056 --> 00:45:15,713
Katie's not okay.
937
00:45:15,747 --> 00:45:16,817
What happened?
938
00:45:16,852 --> 00:45:17,956
She said she's not coming.
939
00:45:17,991 --> 00:45:19,786
She said she can't stop crying.
940
00:45:20,856 --> 00:45:22,720
It's gonna be alright.
941
00:45:22,754 --> 00:45:24,549
What should I do?
942
00:45:24,583 --> 00:45:26,033
What can you do?
943
00:45:26,068 --> 00:45:28,760
I mean, I can go give her
the message from her mom.
944
00:45:29,899 --> 00:45:31,487
I know it's supposed to
be for the graduation,
945
00:45:31,521 --> 00:45:34,593
but I think she needs it now.
946
00:45:34,628 --> 00:45:35,733
You sure?
947
00:45:35,767 --> 00:45:36,906
I mean, it is your party.
948
00:45:38,494 --> 00:45:40,047
You sure?
949
00:45:40,082 --> 00:45:41,877
I don't know.
950
00:45:41,911 --> 00:45:43,844
Why do bad things
happen to good people?
951
00:45:43,879 --> 00:45:45,259
I just don't understand.
952
00:45:45,294 --> 00:45:46,847
Hey, hey, hey, you know what?
953
00:45:46,882 --> 00:45:49,263
You know what, listen,
954
00:45:49,298 --> 00:45:50,782
I'll finish these
decorations up,
955
00:45:50,817 --> 00:45:52,163
and you go see Katie.
956
00:45:52,197 --> 00:45:53,785
Deliver that message to her.
957
00:45:53,820 --> 00:45:54,717
Are you sure?
958
00:45:54,752 --> 00:45:55,718
I'm sure, alright.
959
00:45:55,753 --> 00:45:57,513
Parties come and go,
960
00:45:57,547 --> 00:45:59,032
but best friends are forever.
961
00:45:59,066 --> 00:46:00,067
Thank you.
962
00:46:17,775 --> 00:46:18,741
Katie.
963
00:46:19,949 --> 00:46:21,364
Lindsey.
964
00:46:21,399 --> 00:46:23,159
Hey, it's gonna be okay.
965
00:46:24,816 --> 00:46:25,679
I'm not so sure.
966
00:46:28,199 --> 00:46:30,304
I'm not ready to
be without my mom.
967
00:46:30,339 --> 00:46:32,790
I know, I know,
but she's with you.
968
00:46:32,824 --> 00:46:33,825
How would you know?
969
00:46:34,861 --> 00:46:36,310
I have something for you?
970
00:46:37,829 --> 00:46:39,831
I was supposed to give it
to you after graduation,
971
00:46:39,866 --> 00:46:40,936
but I don't think
your mom would mind
972
00:46:40,970 --> 00:46:41,868
if I gave it to you now.
973
00:46:41,902 --> 00:46:42,972
What do you mean, my mom?
974
00:46:43,007 --> 00:46:44,767
It's from your mom.
975
00:46:44,802 --> 00:46:45,906
She made it for you.
976
00:46:45,941 --> 00:46:46,907
What is this about?
977
00:46:46,942 --> 00:46:47,977
What is this?
978
00:46:48,012 --> 00:46:48,806
Just trust me.
979
00:46:51,981 --> 00:46:53,155
Watch it.
980
00:46:53,189 --> 00:46:57,193
Katie, when you
receive this message,
981
00:46:58,850 --> 00:47:03,682
I'll be with God and our
savior, Jesus Christ,
982
00:47:03,717 --> 00:47:06,444
in heaven and free of pain.
983
00:47:10,034 --> 00:47:13,831
I will always be watching
over you in spirit.
984
00:47:17,006 --> 00:47:18,974
Today is such a special day.
985
00:47:20,423 --> 00:47:23,495
You're graduating from
high school with honors,
986
00:47:26,257 --> 00:47:27,879
and I'm so proud of you.
987
00:47:30,917 --> 00:47:32,711
I want you to enjoy it.
988
00:47:32,746 --> 00:47:33,851
I'm sorry, Katie.
989
00:47:33,885 --> 00:47:35,853
I didn't mean to make
you cry like this.
990
00:47:35,887 --> 00:47:37,164
- Take tons of pictures
- No.
991
00:47:37,199 --> 00:47:38,890
with your
friends and your dad.
992
00:47:38,925 --> 00:47:40,512
No, it's just so beautiful.
993
00:47:41,582 --> 00:47:43,446
And enjoy that moment.
994
00:47:43,481 --> 00:47:44,723
I miss her so much.
995
00:47:44,758 --> 00:47:45,586
When you
move your tassel.
996
00:47:45,621 --> 00:47:46,829
Thank you.
997
00:47:46,864 --> 00:47:47,726
- Yeah.
- And throw your hat
998
00:47:47,761 --> 00:47:49,349
in the air.
999
00:47:49,383 --> 00:47:51,213
Kat, you should come to
group with me sometime.
1000
00:47:51,247 --> 00:47:52,007
Maybe.
1001
00:47:52,041 --> 00:47:53,077
Going to you UF,
1002
00:47:54,078 --> 00:47:55,251
- I'll just take it
- is going to be
1003
00:47:55,286 --> 00:47:56,494
- one day at a time.
- amazing for you.
1004
00:47:56,528 --> 00:47:57,322
Okay.
1005
00:47:57,357 --> 00:47:58,116
Katie.
1006
00:47:58,151 --> 00:48:00,808
Oh, open your card.
1007
00:48:00,843 --> 00:48:03,777
Please try and
go to church regularly.
1008
00:48:04,951 --> 00:48:05,883
Read your Bible.
1009
00:48:07,885 --> 00:48:12,717
I, I've left my Bible for you.
1010
00:48:14,719 --> 00:48:15,858
Thank you.
1011
00:48:15,893 --> 00:48:17,032
And I've
had Pastor Mark,
1012
00:48:17,066 --> 00:48:18,378
I have to go and show
Dad, but thank you!
1013
00:48:18,412 --> 00:48:19,586
- notate all my favorite
- Thank you so much.
1014
00:48:19,620 --> 00:48:20,794
- readings,
- I really needed this.
1015
00:48:21,760 --> 00:48:22,692
for you to reference
1016
00:48:24,971 --> 00:48:26,248
and give you strength.
1017
00:48:28,836 --> 00:48:31,356
Dad, Dad, look, you
have to come watch!
1018
00:48:31,391 --> 00:48:32,185
What's happening?
1019
00:48:32,219 --> 00:48:33,324
Look, just come watch.
1020
00:48:36,016 --> 00:48:36,879
What is it?
1021
00:48:36,914 --> 00:48:38,777
Just watch, trust me.
1022
00:48:38,812 --> 00:48:40,918
And I'm
so proud of you.
1023
00:48:43,921 --> 00:48:45,301
I want you to enjoy it.
1024
00:48:46,820 --> 00:48:47,614
That's...
1025
00:48:48,787 --> 00:48:49,685
Mom.
1026
00:48:49,719 --> 00:48:50,893
Take tons of pictures.
1027
00:48:50,928 --> 00:48:53,585
She left it me
for my graduation.
1028
00:48:53,620 --> 00:48:54,897
She remembered me.
1029
00:48:54,932 --> 00:48:56,968
And enjoy that moment,
1030
00:48:57,003 --> 00:48:58,280
when you move your tassel.
1031
00:48:58,314 --> 00:49:00,075
She's here with us.
1032
00:49:00,109 --> 00:49:01,421
And throw
your hat in the air.
1033
00:49:01,455 --> 00:49:04,976
And she's with God
watching over us.
1034
00:49:05,011 --> 00:49:06,633
Going to UF
1035
00:49:06,667 --> 00:49:08,842
is going to be amazing
- She loves us.
1036
00:49:08,876 --> 00:49:10,395
for you.
1037
00:49:10,430 --> 00:49:11,224
Katie.
1038
00:49:19,404 --> 00:49:20,267
Hey, honey.
1039
00:49:20,302 --> 00:49:21,165
Hey, Dad.
1040
00:49:22,787 --> 00:49:23,995
Okay, I was just thinking,
1041
00:49:24,030 --> 00:49:26,998
you know that video that
Sara made for Katie?
1042
00:49:27,033 --> 00:49:27,930
Yeah.
1043
00:49:27,965 --> 00:49:29,311
I mean, it really helped her.
1044
00:49:29,345 --> 00:49:30,898
You know, I thought it was
gonna make her more sad,
1045
00:49:30,933 --> 00:49:32,693
but she was excited,
1046
00:49:32,728 --> 00:49:34,488
and she ran and told her dad.
1047
00:49:34,523 --> 00:49:36,145
Oh, I'm happy to hear that.
1048
00:49:36,180 --> 00:49:38,251
You know, I've
been researching,
1049
00:49:38,285 --> 00:49:40,667
and I wanna do this for
more people, you know?
1050
00:49:40,701 --> 00:49:44,050
Do you think I'm too young
to start a nonprofit?
1051
00:49:44,084 --> 00:49:46,121
No, no, I don't think so.
1052
00:49:46,155 --> 00:49:47,639
Let's do a little research.
1053
00:49:48,951 --> 00:49:50,332
With a little faith,
1054
00:49:50,366 --> 00:49:52,541
I'm pretty sure you're
the one that can do that.
1055
00:49:52,575 --> 00:49:53,438
Thanks, Dad.
1056
00:49:54,267 --> 00:49:55,199
Goodnight, alright?
1057
00:49:55,233 --> 00:49:56,027
Night.
1058
00:50:08,350 --> 00:50:09,627
Hey, come sit by me.
1059
00:50:11,077 --> 00:50:13,148
Katie, it's good
to see you again.
1060
00:50:13,182 --> 00:50:14,011
Thank you.
1061
00:50:15,495 --> 00:50:17,531
Katie, you're
Lindsey's friend?
1062
00:50:17,566 --> 00:50:19,947
Yeah, since elementary school.
1063
00:50:19,982 --> 00:50:22,157
Oh, well it's great
to have you here with us.
1064
00:50:22,191 --> 00:50:23,020
Thank you.
1065
00:50:24,469 --> 00:50:27,058
I'm not sure I'm ready
to talk about it yet,
1066
00:50:27,093 --> 00:50:28,991
but thank you.
1067
00:50:29,026 --> 00:50:29,992
That's quite alright.
1068
00:50:30,027 --> 00:50:31,028
Thank you for being here.
1069
00:50:31,062 --> 00:50:31,994
Alright, everyone,
1070
00:50:32,029 --> 00:50:32,995
let's go ahead and get started.
1071
00:50:33,030 --> 00:50:34,307
You know, as always,
1072
00:50:34,341 --> 00:50:35,549
I like to just put a
little reminder out there,
1073
00:50:35,584 --> 00:50:37,275
about what we do
here in this group.
1074
00:50:37,310 --> 00:50:40,554
Our grief support group is
a place of healing and hope.
1075
00:50:40,589 --> 00:50:43,350
We like to remember our
loved ones out loud.
1076
00:50:43,385 --> 00:50:44,627
You know, we share stories,
1077
00:50:44,662 --> 00:50:47,078
we share memories good and bad,
1078
00:50:47,113 --> 00:50:48,873
and more importantly,
we support each other
1079
00:50:48,907 --> 00:50:51,324
and move through
the sadness of loss
1080
00:50:51,358 --> 00:50:53,015
to find the comfort
1081
00:50:53,050 --> 00:50:55,569
in knowing that our loved
ones remain in our heart,
1082
00:50:55,604 --> 00:50:57,502
and in our memories forever.
1083
00:50:57,537 --> 00:50:58,814
Now, before we get started,
1084
00:50:58,848 --> 00:51:01,092
I'd like to have our
guest introduce herself,
1085
00:51:01,127 --> 00:51:03,094
and then we'll go ahead
and share some stories.
1086
00:51:03,129 --> 00:51:05,545
Hi, everyone, I'm Katie.
1087
00:51:07,926 --> 00:51:10,101
I lost my mom to cancer.
1088
00:51:10,136 --> 00:51:11,965
I'm just taking it
one day at a time.
1089
00:51:13,242 --> 00:51:14,692
Well, thank you for
being here, Katie.
1090
00:51:14,726 --> 00:51:16,418
This is a great
place of healing,
1091
00:51:16,452 --> 00:51:18,523
and to know you're not
alone in this process.
1092
00:51:18,558 --> 00:51:21,561
Pastor, Katie's the one I
helped make the video for.
1093
00:51:21,595 --> 00:51:22,734
Oh, that's great.
1094
00:51:22,769 --> 00:51:24,253
We've heard great things.
1095
00:51:24,288 --> 00:51:25,910
How did it make you feel, Katie?
1096
00:51:27,222 --> 00:51:30,535
Honestly, until Lindsey
showed me that video,
1097
00:51:30,570 --> 00:51:33,055
I didn't know I was
going to be okay.
1098
00:51:33,090 --> 00:51:35,713
But seeing my mom and
hearing her voice,
1099
00:51:35,747 --> 00:51:38,543
I felt so close to
her, close to God.
1100
00:51:38,578 --> 00:51:40,338
I was angry until that moment.
1101
00:51:41,305 --> 00:51:42,375
I showed my dad right away,
1102
00:51:42,409 --> 00:51:44,101
and we laughed and cried
1103
00:51:44,135 --> 00:51:48,277
and pulled out the family
videos and photo albums.
1104
00:51:49,175 --> 00:51:51,108
And I mean, it helped us realize
1105
00:51:51,142 --> 00:51:53,627
that my mom was always
going to be with us.
1106
00:51:55,112 --> 00:51:56,699
I just wish Lindsey would've
gotten a video like that
1107
00:51:56,734 --> 00:51:57,666
from her mom.
1108
00:51:58,632 --> 00:51:59,461
Me too.
1109
00:52:02,119 --> 00:52:03,603
Yeah.
1110
00:52:03,637 --> 00:52:07,124
Well, I mean, I bet everyone
would like to hear a message
1111
00:52:07,158 --> 00:52:08,263
from their loved ones.
1112
00:52:12,508 --> 00:52:14,579
I think that's a
wonderful legacy to leave,
1113
00:52:14,614 --> 00:52:18,135
you know, for
anyone's loved one.
1114
00:52:18,169 --> 00:52:20,965
Yeah, I think getting a
message from your loved one
1115
00:52:20,999 --> 00:52:22,484
can be really comforting.
1116
00:52:22,518 --> 00:52:24,141
- The legacy of love.
- Yeah.
1117
00:52:24,175 --> 00:52:25,970
Pastor, I've been
thinking about this a lot,
1118
00:52:26,004 --> 00:52:27,316
and I think there's a way
1119
00:52:27,351 --> 00:52:30,423
that we can channel all of
our pain and our suffering,
1120
00:52:30,457 --> 00:52:32,010
into something that
can help others
1121
00:52:32,045 --> 00:52:34,116
who are grieving
like us one day.
1122
00:52:34,151 --> 00:52:35,186
What do you mean?
1123
00:52:35,221 --> 00:52:36,636
Well, I've been researching,
1124
00:52:36,670 --> 00:52:39,156
and I think a nonprofit
could be created.
1125
00:52:39,190 --> 00:52:41,399
Call it the Living
Legacy of Love.
1126
00:52:41,434 --> 00:52:44,022
We can reach out to those who
soon may be transitioning,
1127
00:52:44,057 --> 00:52:46,853
and help them leave messages
for their loved ones.
1128
00:52:46,887 --> 00:52:48,026
I'd be down.
1129
00:52:48,061 --> 00:52:48,993
You could help out
a lot of people.
1130
00:52:49,027 --> 00:52:50,788
- Yeah.
- I'd be game.
1131
00:52:50,822 --> 00:52:52,169
We should do it.
1132
00:52:52,203 --> 00:52:53,170
Wait, what?
1133
00:52:54,550 --> 00:52:57,657
Do you really think that
you can help these people?
1134
00:52:57,691 --> 00:53:00,211
What if you cause more pain?
1135
00:53:00,246 --> 00:53:02,662
Like, are you really
thinking this through?
1136
00:53:02,696 --> 00:53:03,835
I hadn't thought about that.
1137
00:53:03,870 --> 00:53:06,286
I just know what I
witnessed with Katie.
1138
00:53:06,321 --> 00:53:09,220
Yeah, I mean, I get
what you're saying,
1139
00:53:09,255 --> 00:53:13,086
but what if it actually
does provide comfort?
1140
00:53:13,120 --> 00:53:14,087
What if?
1141
00:53:15,192 --> 00:53:16,607
You don't know that.
1142
00:53:16,641 --> 00:53:17,849
I understand where
you're coming from,
1143
00:53:17,884 --> 00:53:19,713
but I think it could
bring more love,
1144
00:53:19,748 --> 00:53:21,715
and a reminder to
a deeper connection
1145
00:53:21,750 --> 00:53:23,027
with those who passed on.
1146
00:53:23,061 --> 00:53:24,477
Yeah, that's what
I was thinking.
1147
00:53:24,511 --> 00:53:25,892
Well, I'd
like to know more.
1148
00:53:25,926 --> 00:53:26,755
Yeah.
1149
00:53:28,619 --> 00:53:30,862
I'm not saying I
don't approve of this,
1150
00:53:32,209 --> 00:53:37,214
but what if you're reminding
them of what they lost?
1151
00:53:38,284 --> 00:53:39,526
I can't speak
for other people,
1152
00:53:39,561 --> 00:53:42,909
but that message
gave me strength.
1153
00:53:42,943 --> 00:53:43,737
It gave me hope.
1154
00:53:44,945 --> 00:53:46,706
I mean,
it's worth a shot.
1155
00:53:46,740 --> 00:53:49,018
Losing someone you love
is just too painful.
1156
00:53:50,848 --> 00:53:52,159
How do we start?
1157
00:53:52,194 --> 00:53:54,231
Well, we start where
there's the most need.
1158
00:53:54,265 --> 00:53:58,200
Hospice, hospitals,
assisted living, you know,
1159
00:53:58,235 --> 00:53:59,581
things like that.
1160
00:53:59,615 --> 00:54:02,342
Yeah, and we can, we can,
1161
00:54:02,377 --> 00:54:03,930
We could make flyers!
1162
00:54:03,964 --> 00:54:05,863
Yeah, and we can let
them know it's free, and-
1163
00:54:05,897 --> 00:54:06,829
That'd be so cool.
1164
00:54:06,864 --> 00:54:07,968
And I bet a lot of
people would help out.
1165
00:54:08,003 --> 00:54:08,797
Yeah, totally.
1166
00:54:09,798 --> 00:54:11,420
I'm not crazy about the idea,
1167
00:54:13,250 --> 00:54:16,045
but I work at an
assisted living facility.
1168
00:54:17,288 --> 00:54:19,635
I can ask if you can
speak with the residents.
1169
00:54:19,670 --> 00:54:21,119
You can bring your flyers.
1170
00:54:21,154 --> 00:54:23,260
That would be so awesome.
1171
00:54:23,294 --> 00:54:25,296
I do know that
the community center
1172
00:54:25,331 --> 00:54:27,264
rents out camera equipment
from time to time.
1173
00:54:27,298 --> 00:54:28,437
I can talk to them.
1174
00:54:28,472 --> 00:54:29,749
And, you know, I mean, you know,
1175
00:54:29,783 --> 00:54:31,164
I think we should
do this, you know?
1176
00:54:31,198 --> 00:54:33,408
But we have to make sure
we do it the right way.
1177
00:54:33,442 --> 00:54:35,375
Okay, well, my
dad's already set up.
1178
00:54:35,410 --> 00:54:37,343
He's trying to get
the nonprofit rolling.
1179
00:54:37,377 --> 00:54:39,931
And it'd be great if
you all wanted to join.
1180
00:54:41,036 --> 00:54:41,968
I wanna help.
1181
00:54:43,003 --> 00:54:44,936
It's brought me so much comfort.
1182
00:54:44,971 --> 00:54:45,765
I want to.
1183
00:54:47,145 --> 00:54:48,319
You know, I'll go ahead
1184
00:54:48,354 --> 00:54:49,803
and get in contact
with your father.
1185
00:54:49,838 --> 00:54:52,254
That way we can kind of have
this thing all taken care of.
1186
00:54:52,289 --> 00:54:54,256
And you know, I'd like to
talk about it more in depth
1187
00:54:54,291 --> 00:54:55,844
after the, after group, okay?
1188
00:54:56,983 --> 00:54:58,260
Thank you.
1189
00:55:07,649 --> 00:55:09,582
Pastor John, I have good news.
1190
00:55:09,616 --> 00:55:10,997
Well, you must
have with that smile.
1191
00:55:11,031 --> 00:55:12,309
Go ahead and tell me.
1192
00:55:12,343 --> 00:55:14,138
My dad says a
Living Legacy of Love
1193
00:55:14,172 --> 00:55:15,933
is ready to begin
helping people.
1194
00:55:15,967 --> 00:55:17,279
Well, that is good news.
1195
00:55:17,314 --> 00:55:18,349
Okay, well, let's
let everybody know
1196
00:55:18,384 --> 00:55:20,213
to get ready to
distribute these flyers,
1197
00:55:20,247 --> 00:55:22,077
and we can start
spreading the word.
1198
00:55:22,111 --> 00:55:24,321
Well here, what do
you think of this?
1199
00:55:25,563 --> 00:55:27,185
I love it.
1200
00:55:27,220 --> 00:55:28,255
Well, good.
1201
00:55:28,290 --> 00:55:29,360
Call Katie and Andy,
1202
00:55:29,395 --> 00:55:30,465
let them know the
flyers are ready,
1203
00:55:30,499 --> 00:55:31,742
and the shirts will
be done in a few days.
1204
00:55:31,776 --> 00:55:32,536
I will.
1205
00:55:32,570 --> 00:55:34,296
We need to put these everywhere.
1206
00:55:34,331 --> 00:55:36,160
I hope people will respond.
1207
00:55:36,194 --> 00:55:37,506
I believe they will.
1208
00:55:37,541 --> 00:55:38,335
I do too.
1209
00:55:43,995 --> 00:55:46,343
Hey, Pastor John, I
put flyers everywhere.
1210
00:55:46,377 --> 00:55:47,171
Oh, good work, Andy.
1211
00:55:47,205 --> 00:55:48,172
Thank you.
1212
00:55:48,206 --> 00:55:48,966
Now what?
1213
00:55:49,000 --> 00:55:50,692
Do we do more flyers?
1214
00:55:50,726 --> 00:55:52,970
Guys, why hasn't
anyone called yet?
1215
00:55:53,004 --> 00:55:54,661
Maybe I'm wrong.
1216
00:55:54,696 --> 00:55:56,387
No, you're not wrong.
1217
00:55:56,422 --> 00:55:57,871
Ladies, have faith, you know?
1218
00:55:57,906 --> 00:55:58,838
We're meant to help people.
1219
00:55:58,872 --> 00:56:00,391
Just give it some time.
1220
00:56:08,365 --> 00:56:10,574
Hi, this is the
Living Legacy of Love.
1221
00:56:12,092 --> 00:56:14,301
Hi, can
I talk to Lindsey?
1222
00:56:14,336 --> 00:56:15,372
This is Lindsey.
1223
00:56:16,407 --> 00:56:18,513
Well, Lindsey, I
just got your flyer,
1224
00:56:18,547 --> 00:56:21,032
and I would like
to record a message
1225
00:56:21,067 --> 00:56:22,344
for my daughter.
1226
00:56:22,379 --> 00:56:23,380
Yeah, of course.
1227
00:56:23,414 --> 00:56:25,174
What time do you
want us to come?
1228
00:56:26,590 --> 00:56:28,177
Wednesday at six?
1229
00:56:28,212 --> 00:56:29,903
Okay, we'll be there.
1230
00:56:29,938 --> 00:56:31,077
Thank you so much.
1231
00:56:32,768 --> 00:56:35,564
Guys, we just got
our first client.
1232
00:56:35,599 --> 00:56:37,014
Wow.
1233
00:56:37,048 --> 00:56:38,429
- Let's go!
- That's awesome.
1234
00:56:38,464 --> 00:56:39,292
Go!
1235
00:56:40,707 --> 00:56:42,019
That's very awesome.
1236
00:56:48,888 --> 00:56:50,614
Hey, Brian, nice to meet you.
1237
00:56:50,648 --> 00:56:51,649
Hey, how
you doing, man?
1238
00:56:51,684 --> 00:56:52,926
- Good, good.
- Hey, Brian.
1239
00:56:52,961 --> 00:56:54,169
- Pleased to meet you.
- How are you guys?
1240
00:56:54,203 --> 00:56:56,654
- Good.
- Oh man, I've been better.
1241
00:56:56,689 --> 00:56:58,449
I love what you guys do here.
1242
00:56:58,484 --> 00:56:59,381
Well, we're
glad you're here.
1243
00:56:59,416 --> 00:57:00,313
Thank you.
1244
00:57:00,347 --> 00:57:01,348
We'll give you a hand with-
1245
00:57:01,383 --> 00:57:02,315
Oh, thank you, thank you.
1246
00:57:02,349 --> 00:57:03,350
Yeah, I got it, I got it.
1247
00:57:03,385 --> 00:57:04,628
Thank you, you're too kind.
1248
00:57:08,425 --> 00:57:09,391
How you doing, man?
1249
00:57:09,426 --> 00:57:10,772
Oh, I've been a little better.
1250
00:57:10,806 --> 00:57:13,913
But, one day at a time.
1251
00:57:13,947 --> 00:57:17,295
But hey, I was wondering,
1252
00:57:18,435 --> 00:57:20,471
can you visit my
little brother for me?
1253
00:57:20,506 --> 00:57:22,059
He's gonna need someone
1254
00:57:22,093 --> 00:57:24,406
to teach him how
to ride his board.
1255
00:57:24,441 --> 00:57:25,718
- Yeah.
- You know,
1256
00:57:25,752 --> 00:57:29,100
it was only the beginning
before this happened.
1257
00:57:29,135 --> 00:57:30,412
Yeah, yeah, I got you.
1258
00:57:30,447 --> 00:57:32,103
What's his name?
1259
00:57:32,138 --> 00:57:33,588
His name is Jake.
1260
00:57:33,622 --> 00:57:36,073
Yeah, yeah, I'll
deliver it myself.
1261
00:57:36,107 --> 00:57:37,419
Oh, thank you, man, thank you.
1262
00:57:37,454 --> 00:57:40,077
Oh, one more thing?
1263
00:57:40,111 --> 00:57:41,043
Yeah, what is it?
1264
00:57:42,597 --> 00:57:43,977
50, actually.
1265
00:57:44,012 --> 00:57:45,772
What do you mean?
1266
00:57:45,807 --> 00:57:47,429
It's, it's for my dad.
1267
00:57:49,673 --> 00:57:51,847
Yeah, there's a few notes
and whatnot for my mom,
1268
00:57:51,882 --> 00:57:54,367
but his birthday is next month.
1269
00:57:58,785 --> 00:58:00,200
That's so sweet.
1270
00:58:01,547 --> 00:58:02,617
Thanks.
1271
00:58:02,651 --> 00:58:05,205
Hopefully he can get
some laughs out of it.
1272
00:58:06,552 --> 00:58:07,932
You know, we are pretty close,
1273
00:58:07,967 --> 00:58:10,901
and he hasn't been
taking this very well.
1274
00:58:16,803 --> 00:58:19,530
Well, Brian, we're
actually just about ready.
1275
00:58:19,565 --> 00:58:20,497
How you doing?
1276
00:58:21,532 --> 00:58:22,982
Oh, I've been better,
1277
00:58:23,016 --> 00:58:24,293
but I'm gonna say,
1278
00:58:24,328 --> 00:58:26,641
this is, this is great.
1279
00:58:28,470 --> 00:58:31,093
I'm just thankful I
could even do this.
1280
00:58:31,128 --> 00:58:33,440
Hopefully it brings
me some peace.
1281
00:58:33,475 --> 00:58:35,235
Well, before we
all start crying,
1282
00:58:36,202 --> 00:58:37,755
Brian, you ready?
1283
00:58:39,067 --> 00:58:42,898
Just tell me when.
1284
00:58:42,933 --> 00:58:45,487
Whenever you're
ready, the camera's rolling.
1285
00:58:45,522 --> 00:58:46,350
Alright.
1286
00:58:48,490 --> 00:58:53,426
So, Dad, I hear you're
turning 50 next month, man.
1287
00:58:56,153 --> 00:58:57,499
Oh, geez.
1288
00:58:57,534 --> 00:58:59,536
Looks like you're heading
over that hill, huh?
1289
00:59:01,089 --> 00:59:03,540
Look, I just, I just wanted
to wish you happy birthday.
1290
00:59:04,782 --> 00:59:09,200
Mom, give the old man a
hug from me, yeah?
1291
00:59:13,411 --> 00:59:18,209
Look, Mom, I'm sure when
you had children, you know,
1292
00:59:20,108 --> 00:59:25,113
this wasn't exactly what you
had in mind for our future
1293
00:59:25,320 --> 00:59:26,114
or anything.
1294
00:59:28,288 --> 00:59:33,328
But I just want to
let you know,
1295
00:59:39,058 --> 00:59:42,061
even though my
time here is short,
1296
00:59:48,136 --> 00:59:49,620
I had a wonderful life.
1297
00:59:50,863 --> 00:59:52,865
I couldn't have asked
for a better family.
1298
00:59:55,902 --> 00:59:58,077
I'm always gonna be
watching over you, kid.
1299
00:59:59,147 --> 01:00:00,493
Because God has a plan.
1300
01:00:02,840 --> 01:00:04,566
So, remember these two things,
1301
01:00:08,605 --> 01:00:09,640
keep your faith,
1302
01:00:11,504 --> 01:00:12,678
and I will always love you.
1303
01:00:17,510 --> 01:00:22,066
Thank you for giving me
such a wonderful life.
1304
01:00:39,705 --> 01:00:40,878
He was really sweet.
1305
01:00:42,639 --> 01:00:43,398
He was.
1306
01:00:45,193 --> 01:00:47,333
It must be hard for them,
1307
01:00:47,367 --> 01:00:49,197
not having their parents
know who they are.
1308
01:00:51,026 --> 01:00:52,994
I mean, at least
they have each other.
1309
01:00:54,858 --> 01:00:56,549
Yeah.
1310
01:00:56,583 --> 01:00:58,551
Me and Josh really needed
each other when my mom died.
1311
01:00:59,690 --> 01:01:01,450
I never realized just how much.
1312
01:01:02,624 --> 01:01:05,662
No, it isn't easy
what we're doing.
1313
01:01:05,696 --> 01:01:10,667
It, you know, it doesn't make
the pain and loss go away.
1314
01:01:12,151 --> 01:01:14,360
But I hope that it makes
them feel less alone.
1315
01:01:15,326 --> 01:01:18,157
Yeah, me too.
1316
01:01:27,338 --> 01:01:29,651
I can't believe we've
already helped 50 people.
1317
01:01:29,686 --> 01:01:30,721
Yeah, I know, it's crazy.
1318
01:01:30,756 --> 01:01:32,309
We've helped a
lot of people out.
1319
01:01:32,343 --> 01:01:34,760
Like, I was thinking people,
like, wouldn't like my idea,
1320
01:01:34,794 --> 01:01:37,728
but it's helped people so
much to see their loved ones,
1321
01:01:37,763 --> 01:01:38,833
you know?
- Yeah, yeah,
1322
01:01:38,867 --> 01:01:40,835
I mean, we're impacting
a lot of lives.
1323
01:01:40,869 --> 01:01:43,734
A lot of people are gonna be
impacted by what we're doing.
1324
01:01:43,769 --> 01:01:44,977
And there's hundreds more.
1325
01:01:45,011 --> 01:01:46,703
It can never end.
1326
01:01:46,737 --> 01:01:47,807
We could do this forever.
1327
01:01:47,842 --> 01:01:49,257
Yeah.
1328
01:01:49,291 --> 01:01:50,085
I can't.
1329
01:01:52,363 --> 01:01:53,537
Hey Linds?
1330
01:01:53,571 --> 01:01:55,090
Yeah?
1331
01:01:55,125 --> 01:01:58,991
I was thinking maybe, maybe
we can go to dinner sometime?
1332
01:01:59,025 --> 01:02:00,164
Hang out a bit.
- That'd be fun.
1333
01:02:00,199 --> 01:02:02,719
We can invite Katie.
1334
01:02:02,753 --> 01:02:03,685
Hey.
1335
01:02:03,720 --> 01:02:04,548
Hey, Ricky.
1336
01:02:05,445 --> 01:02:06,861
- Got my camera.
- What's up?
1337
01:02:07,724 --> 01:02:09,518
Yeah, we're good.
1338
01:02:09,553 --> 01:02:12,073
Yeah, but I was
thinking more me and you,
1339
01:02:12,107 --> 01:02:13,246
more of a me and you thing.
1340
01:02:13,281 --> 01:02:14,834
Not really all of us.
1341
01:02:14,869 --> 01:02:16,594
Like a date?
1342
01:02:16,629 --> 01:02:18,148
Yeah, if you want to.
1343
01:02:18,182 --> 01:02:19,356
- No, no, yeah, of course.
- I'm not trying
1344
01:02:19,390 --> 01:02:20,115
to pressure you but-
1345
01:02:20,150 --> 01:02:22,393
Yeah, I can call Katie later.
1346
01:02:22,428 --> 01:02:23,463
Okay, yeah.
1347
01:02:25,120 --> 01:02:26,294
You ready to?
1348
01:02:27,571 --> 01:02:28,710
Let's get out of here.
1349
01:02:28,745 --> 01:02:33,542
Mikey, Michael, by
the time you see this,
1350
01:02:34,889 --> 01:02:36,442
you'll be heading off to
college, or you better be.
1351
01:02:38,340 --> 01:02:40,342
But I'll be proud of
you no matter what.
1352
01:02:41,792 --> 01:02:43,380
Cut.
1353
01:02:43,414 --> 01:02:44,761
One down, two to go.
1354
01:02:46,555 --> 01:02:48,074
You're strong, man.
1355
01:02:48,109 --> 01:02:49,766
It must be hard doing
this so many times.
1356
01:02:49,800 --> 01:02:51,146
Yeah, it is.
1357
01:02:51,181 --> 01:02:53,873
But hey, maybe we'll get
lucky and we won't need them.
1358
01:02:53,908 --> 01:02:55,772
They say I got some time.
1359
01:02:55,806 --> 01:02:56,773
I'm starting chemo.
1360
01:02:58,119 --> 01:03:00,224
But I knew that when I saw this,
1361
01:03:00,259 --> 01:03:02,468
that it was a great opportunity
1362
01:03:02,502 --> 01:03:05,022
to leave something
beautiful for my family,
1363
01:03:05,057 --> 01:03:06,990
just in case.
1364
01:03:07,853 --> 01:03:09,475
Well, why this park?
1365
01:03:10,303 --> 01:03:11,166
I've always been a runner.
1366
01:03:11,201 --> 01:03:13,203
It's the only way I can unwind.
1367
01:03:14,480 --> 01:03:16,793
I bring the kids with
me on shorter runs,
1368
01:03:16,827 --> 01:03:19,450
and we always stop here,
right at this bench.
1369
01:03:20,693 --> 01:03:24,352
We just, you know, talk
and laugh and goof off.
1370
01:03:25,560 --> 01:03:27,769
That's a great reason
to pick this place.
1371
01:03:29,115 --> 01:03:31,842
Ready for another?
1372
01:03:31,877 --> 01:03:33,326
Ready.
1373
01:03:33,361 --> 01:03:34,465
Camera's rolling.
1374
01:03:35,363 --> 01:03:36,847
I just want you to know
1375
01:03:36,882 --> 01:03:40,264
that you have always amazed
me with your brilliance,
1376
01:03:40,299 --> 01:03:42,853
your ability to solve problems.
1377
01:03:42,888 --> 01:03:44,682
You are such a kind soul.
1378
01:03:46,339 --> 01:03:48,031
I did a good job with you.
1379
01:03:48,065 --> 01:03:49,964
Ah, your mom helped a little.
1380
01:03:52,000 --> 01:03:54,831
What I'm saying is I love you.
1381
01:03:56,315 --> 01:03:57,799
And as you graduate,
1382
01:03:57,834 --> 01:04:01,044
know that I am with you and
watching over you always.
1383
01:04:02,459 --> 01:04:03,667
So, say your prayers,
1384
01:04:03,701 --> 01:04:05,842
and believe that great
things can happen,
1385
01:04:07,050 --> 01:04:09,017
because they can and they do.
1386
01:04:11,468 --> 01:04:14,747
And keep me in your life
by remembering me out loud.
1387
01:04:16,369 --> 01:04:18,647
Go with your mom to church.
1388
01:04:18,682 --> 01:04:19,856
Seek comfort in God,
1389
01:04:19,890 --> 01:04:23,860
because God and I, we got you.
1390
01:04:26,621 --> 01:04:27,415
I love you, kid.
1391
01:04:28,899 --> 01:04:29,866
You did good.
1392
01:04:46,952 --> 01:04:50,196
I can't believe how many
people we've helped so far.
1393
01:04:50,231 --> 01:04:52,405
It's a blessing
for us and for them.
1394
01:04:52,440 --> 01:04:54,856
I feel like this is
my purpose, you know,
1395
01:04:54,891 --> 01:04:55,961
to help these people.
1396
01:04:55,995 --> 01:04:56,858
I don't-
1397
01:04:56,893 --> 01:04:58,584
Excuse me.
1398
01:04:58,618 --> 01:05:00,862
Hi, yes,
how many we help you?
1399
01:05:00,897 --> 01:05:02,588
My name's Rebecca Alton.
1400
01:05:02,622 --> 01:05:03,865
I got a call from someone
1401
01:05:03,900 --> 01:05:05,867
that my mother left
something for me here?
1402
01:05:05,902 --> 01:05:07,006
Yes, hi, Rebecca.
1403
01:05:07,041 --> 01:05:08,870
Yeah, hi, I'm Lindsey.
1404
01:05:08,905 --> 01:05:10,872
We do have something from you,
1405
01:05:10,907 --> 01:05:12,770
actually from your mother.
1406
01:05:14,186 --> 01:05:16,913
My mom passed away a few
weeks ago, so how can you?
1407
01:05:16,947 --> 01:05:18,569
Well, Rebecca, we met
your mother two months ago,
1408
01:05:18,604 --> 01:05:20,917
and she left you a message.
1409
01:05:20,951 --> 01:05:22,090
Would you like to watch it now?
1410
01:05:22,125 --> 01:05:23,920
Please, it'll
bring you comfort.
1411
01:05:23,954 --> 01:05:24,921
She loves you.
1412
01:05:26,267 --> 01:05:28,510
I'm not sure that I
understand that, but okay.
1413
01:05:33,412 --> 01:05:34,758
My darling little girl,
1414
01:05:36,967 --> 01:05:38,141
when you watch this,
1415
01:05:38,175 --> 01:05:40,246
I will have moved on
to be with the Lord,
1416
01:05:41,627 --> 01:05:43,767
but I will always be with you
1417
01:05:44,871 --> 01:05:46,321
on the journey
through this life.
1418
01:05:48,013 --> 01:05:50,532
I want you to know, I love you,
1419
01:05:51,430 --> 01:05:53,363
I'm so proud of you,
1420
01:05:53,397 --> 01:05:56,504
and you will never be alone.
1421
01:05:56,538 --> 01:06:00,163
I'm always be with
you in your heart.
1422
01:06:01,371 --> 01:06:02,510
I'm watching over you.
1423
01:06:04,581 --> 01:06:06,583
I love you, Mom.
1424
01:06:06,617 --> 01:06:07,964
I love you, Rebecca.
1425
01:06:33,920 --> 01:06:35,992
Excuse me, sir.
1426
01:06:38,063 --> 01:06:39,719
What do you want?
1427
01:06:39,754 --> 01:06:40,997
I'm sorry to bother you.
1428
01:06:41,031 --> 01:06:42,895
I'm from a Living
Legacy of Love.
1429
01:06:42,929 --> 01:06:45,070
Your son, Brian, sent me.
1430
01:06:45,104 --> 01:06:48,073
Robert, Robert?
1431
01:06:50,040 --> 01:06:51,179
What's going on here?
1432
01:06:51,214 --> 01:06:54,182
This guy, he said
that Brian sent him.
1433
01:06:56,529 --> 01:06:57,530
Why?
1434
01:06:57,565 --> 01:06:58,876
Brian's dead, leave!
1435
01:06:58,911 --> 01:07:00,671
Jake, Jake, please.
1436
01:07:00,706 --> 01:07:01,983
Brian sent us for you.
1437
01:07:02,018 --> 01:07:03,053
Why?
1438
01:07:03,088 --> 01:07:05,297
He said you needed
a big brother figure.
1439
01:07:05,331 --> 01:07:06,953
He wanted me to teach you.
1440
01:07:06,988 --> 01:07:09,473
I don't need
anything from you.
1441
01:07:09,508 --> 01:07:11,475
Jake, please
just listen to me.
1442
01:07:12,614 --> 01:07:14,168
I understand what
you're going through.
1443
01:07:14,202 --> 01:07:15,410
I lost my brother too.
1444
01:07:16,894 --> 01:07:20,001
We just wanna share the message
that Brian left for you.
1445
01:07:20,036 --> 01:07:22,072
I can leave this here and go?
1446
01:07:22,107 --> 01:07:23,867
Come on, let's go.
1447
01:07:23,901 --> 01:07:24,902
Come inside.
1448
01:07:24,937 --> 01:07:25,731
Let's talk.
1449
01:07:32,841 --> 01:07:34,015
I don't understand.
1450
01:07:34,050 --> 01:07:36,017
What is it that Brian did?
1451
01:07:36,052 --> 01:07:38,261
Here,
this is for you all.
1452
01:07:38,295 --> 01:07:39,331
What is this?
1453
01:07:40,504 --> 01:07:44,922
It's a message
from your son, Brian.
1454
01:07:44,957 --> 01:07:45,716
What does it say?
1455
01:07:45,751 --> 01:07:46,855
I can't say.
1456
01:07:46,890 --> 01:07:47,994
Just, just watch.
1457
01:07:49,099 --> 01:07:50,859
Go on.
1458
01:07:50,894 --> 01:07:53,655
Son, it's, go
ahead and hit play.
1459
01:07:55,140 --> 01:07:57,314
Looks like you're heading
over that hill, huh?
1460
01:07:57,349 --> 01:08:00,593
Look, I just, I just wanted
to wish you a happy birthday.
1461
01:08:01,870 --> 01:08:04,080
Mom, give the old man
a hug from me, yeah?
1462
01:08:07,945 --> 01:08:11,087
Even though my
time here is short,
1463
01:08:16,954 --> 01:08:21,856
I had a wonderful
life, and support,
1464
01:08:24,652 --> 01:08:27,689
and I want, I want you
to feel the same as well.
1465
01:08:30,658 --> 01:08:32,591
I hope this message
brings you comfort.
1466
01:08:36,836 --> 01:08:41,013
Even though I'd much rather
be here in my own body,
1467
01:08:45,880 --> 01:08:48,054
I'm always gonna be
watching over you, kid,
1468
01:08:49,194 --> 01:08:50,298
because God has a plan.
1469
01:08:52,887 --> 01:08:54,337
So, remember these two things,
1470
01:08:58,375 --> 01:09:02,276
keep your faith and I
will always love you.
1471
01:09:04,174 --> 01:09:05,313
Thank you for listening.
1472
01:09:06,211 --> 01:09:07,212
Jake, whenever you're ready,
1473
01:09:07,246 --> 01:09:08,420
just give me a call,
1474
01:09:08,454 --> 01:09:10,456
and I'll teach you
how to use that thing.
1475
01:09:10,491 --> 01:09:11,630
Okay.
1476
01:09:11,664 --> 01:09:13,183
Thank you.
1477
01:09:13,218 --> 01:09:14,184
Of course.
1478
01:09:14,219 --> 01:09:15,116
Thank you so much.
1479
01:09:15,151 --> 01:09:16,152
This was so beautiful.
1480
01:09:17,118 --> 01:09:18,568
You're welcome.
1481
01:10:00,817 --> 01:10:02,991
Seriously, don't
push me in again.
1482
01:10:03,026 --> 01:10:04,890
I'm sorry, I couldn't resist.
1483
01:10:04,924 --> 01:10:05,753
You're so bad.
1484
01:10:07,203 --> 01:10:09,791
Oh, yeah, how'd it go
with Brian's family?
1485
01:10:09,826 --> 01:10:11,207
I wish you were there,
1486
01:10:11,241 --> 01:10:12,415
but it went pretty well.
1487
01:10:13,864 --> 01:10:16,212
The mom seemed to be really
moved by the message.
1488
01:10:16,246 --> 01:10:19,111
You can, you can tell the
family's still hurt by it all.
1489
01:10:20,354 --> 01:10:22,735
But I think seeing Brian's
message brought them some hope.
1490
01:10:22,770 --> 01:10:24,220
So glad we're
doing this together.
1491
01:10:24,254 --> 01:10:25,117
It just feels right.
1492
01:10:25,151 --> 01:10:26,394
It does.
1493
01:10:26,429 --> 01:10:27,740
Yeah, me too, me too.
1494
01:10:29,294 --> 01:10:30,571
Hey, I'll give you
two seconds to swim.
1495
01:10:43,066 --> 01:10:44,343
Dad, it's 24!
1496
01:10:44,378 --> 01:10:45,241
I knew you'd get it.
1497
01:10:45,275 --> 01:10:46,172
Very good.
1498
01:10:47,381 --> 01:10:48,623
What else do we have here?
1499
01:10:48,658 --> 01:10:50,453
Hello, this is Lindsey.
1500
01:10:50,487 --> 01:10:51,902
Hi, Lindsey.
1501
01:10:51,937 --> 01:10:53,110
We'd like to send
our news reporter,
1502
01:10:53,145 --> 01:10:54,111
to interview you
1503
01:10:54,146 --> 01:10:55,941
about a Legacy of Love.
1504
01:10:55,975 --> 01:10:57,287
Yes, yes, when?
1505
01:10:58,633 --> 01:11:00,601
How about
Monday at 6 p.m.?
1506
01:11:00,635 --> 01:11:03,673
Okay, I'll be
there, Monday at six.
1507
01:11:03,707 --> 01:11:04,777
Thank you so much.
1508
01:11:06,262 --> 01:11:08,229
Dad, Dad, I need to
tell you something!
1509
01:11:16,341 --> 01:11:18,722
This message
really hit me hard.
1510
01:11:18,757 --> 01:11:19,965
So much heart.
1511
01:11:21,346 --> 01:11:23,969
Dean really did love his wife.
1512
01:11:24,003 --> 01:11:24,797
I know.
1513
01:11:27,248 --> 01:11:30,320
I'm glad he called
us to record him.
1514
01:11:30,355 --> 01:11:33,254
It doesn't get easier,
doing what we're doing,
1515
01:11:33,289 --> 01:11:34,704
making these videos,
1516
01:11:34,738 --> 01:11:38,294
but there's a genuine
comfort in knowing
1517
01:11:38,328 --> 01:11:40,572
that even a little bit
of their loved ones
1518
01:11:40,606 --> 01:11:41,469
are gonna come back to them
1519
01:11:41,504 --> 01:11:43,368
through what we're doing.
1520
01:11:43,402 --> 01:11:44,714
It's something for them
1521
01:11:44,748 --> 01:11:46,302
that will live on
through generations.
1522
01:11:46,336 --> 01:11:48,614
A living legacy of love.
1523
01:11:49,960 --> 01:11:51,479
So, that's where
the name comes from.
1524
01:11:51,514 --> 01:11:52,825
It all makes sense now.
1525
01:11:59,384 --> 01:12:00,385
Living Legacy of Love.
1526
01:12:00,419 --> 01:12:01,351
How can I help you?
1527
01:12:03,353 --> 01:12:05,769
Okay, yeah, we can come to you,
1528
01:12:05,804 --> 01:12:07,184
or you can come to us.
1529
01:12:09,221 --> 01:12:10,464
Okay, perfect.
1530
01:12:10,498 --> 01:12:11,637
What's the address?
1531
01:12:15,365 --> 01:12:17,505
Okay, Wednesday at six.
1532
01:12:20,232 --> 01:12:21,371
We'll be there.
1533
01:12:21,406 --> 01:12:22,372
Thank you.
1534
01:12:25,410 --> 01:12:28,033
Hey, you know what'd be nice?
1535
01:12:29,655 --> 01:12:31,243
If we invited everyone
we gave the videos to,
1536
01:12:31,277 --> 01:12:32,451
to come to group.
1537
01:12:34,660 --> 01:12:35,592
We could do that.
1538
01:12:35,627 --> 01:12:36,800
Yeah, that's a great idea.
1539
01:12:36,835 --> 01:12:38,319
We can prepare a
special invitation,
1540
01:12:38,354 --> 01:12:40,563
and bring it with the
messages when we deliver them.
1541
01:12:42,530 --> 01:12:43,428
I love it.
1542
01:12:47,777 --> 01:12:49,261
Here they come, let's go.
1543
01:12:50,089 --> 01:12:51,332
Fantastic, okay we'll do that.
1544
01:12:51,367 --> 01:12:53,023
Yeah.
1545
01:12:53,058 --> 01:12:54,439
Are you the
Living Legacy of Love group?
1546
01:12:54,473 --> 01:12:56,061
Yeah.
1547
01:12:56,095 --> 01:12:59,098
Lindsey, the Living Legacy
of Love was your brain child.
1548
01:12:59,133 --> 01:13:01,377
Now, that you've helped
over a hundred people,
1549
01:13:01,411 --> 01:13:02,378
how do you feel?
1550
01:13:03,275 --> 01:13:05,001
Well, I'm at peace with it,
1551
01:13:05,035 --> 01:13:07,659
but there are hundreds
more and it will never end.
1552
01:13:07,693 --> 01:13:10,247
As long as we can keep bringing
love and peace to people,
1553
01:13:10,282 --> 01:13:13,561
then the Living Legacy of
Love will have a place.
1554
01:13:13,596 --> 01:13:15,011
It's never ending.
1555
01:13:15,045 --> 01:13:16,461
That's beautiful.
1556
01:13:16,495 --> 01:13:20,430
Lindsey, how was the name
Living Legacy of Love chosen?
1557
01:13:20,465 --> 01:13:22,398
Was there something
that inspired you?
1558
01:13:22,432 --> 01:13:23,399
Yeah.
1559
01:13:23,433 --> 01:13:24,710
Well, our loved ones are alive
1560
01:13:24,745 --> 01:13:26,160
when they record their message.
1561
01:13:26,194 --> 01:13:28,196
And their message
is a gift of love,
1562
01:13:28,231 --> 01:13:30,406
and it's a legacy
they leave for us.
1563
01:13:31,407 --> 01:13:32,787
I mean, it's priceless,
1564
01:13:32,822 --> 01:13:35,756
worth more than any material
thing could ever be.
1565
01:13:35,790 --> 01:13:37,654
It can be shared with the
loved ones left behind,
1566
01:13:37,689 --> 01:13:39,967
and even with future
family members.
1567
01:13:40,001 --> 01:13:41,865
It's a living legacy of love,
1568
01:13:41,900 --> 01:13:44,420
as it brings them back to us,
1569
01:13:44,454 --> 01:13:46,422
even if it's just for a
few moments at a time.
1570
01:13:46,456 --> 01:13:48,734
Yeah, the name just felt right.
1571
01:13:48,769 --> 01:13:49,770
I can see that.
1572
01:13:49,804 --> 01:13:51,185
It's so powerful to know
1573
01:13:51,219 --> 01:13:53,187
that when someone's
hurting so much,
1574
01:13:53,221 --> 01:13:55,189
that they can be touched
by a loved one's message.
1575
01:13:55,223 --> 01:13:58,434
What would you want us to take
away from your experiences
1576
01:13:58,468 --> 01:14:00,608
and path of giving that?
1577
01:14:00,643 --> 01:14:02,438
When my mom died,
I was so lost.
1578
01:14:02,472 --> 01:14:05,510
I didn't think my life
could have a purpose,
1579
01:14:05,544 --> 01:14:08,409
or a direction
without her in it.
1580
01:14:08,444 --> 01:14:10,894
But slowly I realized that
we all have a purpose,
1581
01:14:10,929 --> 01:14:12,896
and we're never alone.
1582
01:14:12,931 --> 01:14:14,622
God is with us always.
1583
01:14:14,657 --> 01:14:16,452
Our loved ones are
always with us.
1584
01:14:16,486 --> 01:14:17,970
And I really want people to know
1585
01:14:18,005 --> 01:14:20,628
that even though their
loved one has crossed over,
1586
01:14:20,663 --> 01:14:22,630
they're always with you,
1587
01:14:22,665 --> 01:14:24,252
and that love never dies.
1588
01:14:25,461 --> 01:14:27,152
I think she said
it perfectly, folks.
1589
01:14:27,186 --> 01:14:29,948
If you'd like to learn more
about Living Legacy of Love,
1590
01:14:29,982 --> 01:14:32,813
go to our website and you
can find their information
1591
01:14:32,847 --> 01:14:35,954
and their links.
1592
01:14:35,988 --> 01:14:37,749
Alright, thank you so much.
1593
01:14:51,625 --> 01:14:53,109
Dad?
1594
01:14:53,143 --> 01:14:53,903
Yeah.
1595
01:14:55,180 --> 01:14:56,422
Don't you think
Grandpa's dementia
1596
01:14:56,457 --> 01:14:58,666
is getting kind of bad?
1597
01:14:58,701 --> 01:15:00,357
I mean...
1598
01:15:00,392 --> 01:15:03,429
Yeah, look, you know how
Grandma's in the hospital
1599
01:15:03,464 --> 01:15:04,258
for hip surgery,
1600
01:15:06,294 --> 01:15:11,299
well when she's not around, his
memory begins to fade and...
1601
01:15:11,817 --> 01:15:13,474
Yeah.
1602
01:15:13,509 --> 01:15:16,512
I don't know, maybe we
could play a video of her,
1603
01:15:16,546 --> 01:15:18,548
see if he remembers?
1604
01:15:18,583 --> 01:15:19,515
Yeah, do you have one?
1605
01:15:19,549 --> 01:15:20,792
Yeah, I have multiple.
1606
01:15:22,207 --> 01:15:23,311
We could play that one?
1607
01:15:23,346 --> 01:15:25,037
That was a good day.
1608
01:15:25,072 --> 01:15:26,245
Give it a shot.
1609
01:15:26,280 --> 01:15:27,039
Right.
1610
01:15:27,074 --> 01:15:28,316
Hey, Grandpa.
1611
01:15:28,351 --> 01:15:29,110
Hey, Pop.
1612
01:15:29,145 --> 01:15:29,939
Hey, we-
1613
01:15:29,973 --> 01:15:30,836
Pop, Pop.
1614
01:15:30,871 --> 01:15:32,804
We have a video of Grandma.
1615
01:15:32,838 --> 01:15:34,081
Oh, let me see.
1616
01:15:35,289 --> 01:15:36,048
You remember Grandma?
1617
01:15:36,083 --> 01:15:36,980
Grandma?
1618
01:15:37,015 --> 01:15:37,981
Okay, open it.
1619
01:15:38,016 --> 01:15:39,155
Where is she?
1620
01:15:39,189 --> 01:15:40,501
- Are you ready?
- She's in the hospital.
1621
01:15:40,536 --> 01:15:42,503
She's in the hospital
for her hip surgery.
1622
01:15:45,541 --> 01:15:48,164
Hey, look, it's her.
1623
01:15:48,198 --> 01:15:49,337
- Really?
- Really.
1624
01:15:49,372 --> 01:15:51,616
Really?
1625
01:15:51,650 --> 01:15:54,550
You know I love
wine and chocolate.
1626
01:15:54,584 --> 01:15:56,517
She is so beautiful.
1627
01:15:56,552 --> 01:15:57,518
I miss her.
1628
01:15:58,519 --> 01:16:00,590
She's, look at her.
1629
01:16:00,625 --> 01:16:01,833
Oh, well, what a beautiful,
1630
01:16:01,867 --> 01:16:03,420
her smile just radiates.
1631
01:16:03,455 --> 01:16:05,077
- Aw.
- I love her, oh.
1632
01:16:05,112 --> 01:16:06,216
Oh, look at that.
1633
01:16:06,251 --> 01:16:07,528
Oh my goodness, that's...
1634
01:16:07,563 --> 01:16:09,841
Yeah, that's the best.
1635
01:16:09,875 --> 01:16:10,911
You used to give
a fig, Grandpa.
1636
01:16:10,945 --> 01:16:11,843
Oh my goodness.
1637
01:16:11,877 --> 01:16:13,914
I do love it.
1638
01:16:13,948 --> 01:16:16,606
We could be twinsies
1639
01:16:21,369 --> 01:16:22,750
Cookies, again?
1640
01:16:22,785 --> 01:16:24,372
Yeah!
1641
01:16:24,407 --> 01:16:26,512
You know I wouldn't
mind being with you.
1642
01:16:27,513 --> 01:16:28,514
I gotta go though.
1643
01:16:28,549 --> 01:16:30,378
My dad says we have to be home.
1644
01:16:30,413 --> 01:16:32,726
Linds, before we go,
1645
01:16:32,760 --> 01:16:34,762
could I talk to you
about something?
1646
01:16:34,797 --> 01:16:36,522
Yeah, of course,
babe, what's up?
1647
01:16:38,041 --> 01:16:40,078
I brought you something.
1648
01:16:40,112 --> 01:16:42,563
It's little, but it
means a lot to me.
1649
01:16:44,910 --> 01:16:46,947
Linds, you mean the world to me.
1650
01:16:46,981 --> 01:16:49,190
Since we met at the church,
1651
01:16:49,225 --> 01:16:52,124
you fully restored
faith in my life.
1652
01:16:52,159 --> 01:16:53,609
And not only in my life,
1653
01:16:53,643 --> 01:16:56,577
but we've helped so many
people restore their hope
1654
01:16:56,612 --> 01:16:57,992
and their love.
1655
01:16:59,476 --> 01:17:02,203
Most importantly, we
brought love back to them.
1656
01:17:03,480 --> 01:17:06,587
Mom, how do you know
when it's true love?
1657
01:17:06,622 --> 01:17:09,072
Well, you just know,
1658
01:17:09,107 --> 01:17:10,626
like your dad and I.
1659
01:17:10,660 --> 01:17:13,629
The right person will represent
hope and faith and love.
1660
01:17:15,458 --> 01:17:16,632
I wouldn't worry about that.
1661
01:17:18,634 --> 01:17:21,222
You look so beautiful.
1662
01:17:21,257 --> 01:17:22,707
I don't know what to say.
1663
01:17:22,741 --> 01:17:26,124
Linds, when you
wear this necklace,
1664
01:17:27,608 --> 01:17:29,645
I want you to be
reminded of three things.
1665
01:17:31,267 --> 01:17:32,648
The cross represents faith,
1666
01:17:35,133 --> 01:17:36,652
the anchor represents hope,
1667
01:17:38,481 --> 01:17:39,827
and the heart represents love,
1668
01:17:41,001 --> 01:17:42,588
which is everything
you are to me.
1669
01:18:01,746 --> 01:18:03,920
It's beautiful, Andrew.
1670
01:18:03,955 --> 01:18:05,094
You look great in it.
1671
01:18:10,789 --> 01:18:11,859
Thank
you, I love it.
1672
01:18:11,894 --> 01:18:14,068
You're welcome.
1673
01:18:36,815 --> 01:18:38,644
I
would give anything
1674
01:18:38,679 --> 01:18:40,232
to have my mom here with me.
1675
01:18:44,927 --> 01:18:48,413
For a long time, I was
angry with my own pain.
1676
01:18:49,448 --> 01:18:52,486
Sometimes people grieving, well,
1677
01:18:52,520 --> 01:18:54,074
we get caught up
in our own pain,
1678
01:18:57,802 --> 01:18:59,769
so much so, we can't see
1679
01:18:59,804 --> 01:19:02,807
how serving others
in pain would help,
1680
01:19:02,841 --> 01:19:04,947
or why we should even do it.
1681
01:19:06,224 --> 01:19:10,642
I was just so angry
with life, with God,
1682
01:19:12,782 --> 01:19:15,474
but I grew in my faith.
1683
01:19:19,271 --> 01:19:23,379
I realized that helping
people also helped me heal.
1684
01:19:24,794 --> 01:19:29,074
For me, being able to help
people heal and have faith
1685
01:19:29,109 --> 01:19:32,457
has been the greatest
gift from God.
1686
01:19:39,913 --> 01:19:42,708
I know that a Living
Legacy of Love
1687
01:19:42,743 --> 01:19:44,780
has brought hope
to so many people,
1688
01:19:45,781 --> 01:19:47,265
and it will for years to come.
1689
01:19:48,818 --> 01:19:49,923
Never feel alone.
1690
01:19:51,062 --> 01:19:54,824
Know that God is
always with you.
1691
01:21:51,389 --> 01:21:52,252
Hey, Mom.
1692
01:21:56,635 --> 01:21:59,190
First off, I wanna say thank you
1693
01:21:59,224 --> 01:22:02,572
for finally sharing that
secret lasagna recipe with me.
1694
01:22:03,780 --> 01:22:06,783
You made Tony and
my boys so happy.
1695
01:22:08,440 --> 01:22:10,304
Maybe you could make
it for them too.
1696
01:22:13,583 --> 01:22:14,930
I also, I just,
1697
01:22:16,276 --> 01:22:18,450
I wanna say that, that
being your daughter,
1698
01:22:19,969 --> 01:22:21,419
has been such an honor.
1699
01:22:23,455 --> 01:22:24,940
You've always been my hero.
1700
01:22:26,976 --> 01:22:28,322
I hope I've made you proud.
1701
01:22:33,500 --> 01:22:35,605
I'm gonna miss your hugs.
1702
01:22:36,744 --> 01:22:37,607
I'm gonna miss your hugs
1703
01:22:37,642 --> 01:22:40,438
and your weird mom jokes.
1704
01:22:41,818 --> 01:22:44,373
Please tell them to my boys.
1705
01:22:44,407 --> 01:22:46,651
Help them remember who I am.
1706
01:22:46,685 --> 01:22:48,825
And remember that
they're your family too.
1707
01:22:52,070 --> 01:22:56,972
Don't be sad and don't be alone.
1708
01:22:59,008 --> 01:23:00,320
I love you, Mom.
1709
01:23:02,494 --> 01:23:03,426
I love you.
1710
01:23:05,014 --> 01:23:09,605
Carla, this message means
that I'm watching over you.
1711
01:23:12,504 --> 01:23:13,781
Please don't be sad.
1712
01:23:15,438 --> 01:23:17,854
We had 20 beautiful years,
1713
01:23:18,821 --> 01:23:20,650
and three beautiful children.
1714
01:23:23,308 --> 01:23:28,313
I want you to laugh, feel joy,
and tell stories about me,
1715
01:23:29,556 --> 01:23:32,455
so that our children
and our grandchildren
1716
01:23:32,490 --> 01:23:35,044
would know how much I
love you and our family.
1717
01:23:38,737 --> 01:23:41,637
Until we meet again, I
love you, my sweet wife.
1718
01:23:44,502 --> 01:23:47,229
Thank you for so
many wonderful years.
1719
01:23:51,888 --> 01:23:55,754
Oh, honey, I know
you're hurting without me.
1720
01:23:55,789 --> 01:23:57,791
That's why I wanted to
try to do this, a tape,
1721
01:23:57,825 --> 01:23:58,930
while I still could.
1722
01:24:01,726 --> 01:24:03,693
I can't thank you enough
1723
01:24:03,728 --> 01:24:06,627
for being there for
me all these years,
1724
01:24:06,662 --> 01:24:09,044
and facing the big C with me.
1725
01:24:10,079 --> 01:24:11,322
I know it wasn't easy.
1726
01:24:14,118 --> 01:24:15,050
How could it be?
1727
01:24:16,879 --> 01:24:21,573
I wasn't always myself
and I'm sorry for that.
1728
01:24:23,575 --> 01:24:24,576
It just wasn't fair.
1729
01:24:27,096 --> 01:24:28,580
But I want you to know
1730
01:24:28,615 --> 01:24:31,687
that you weren't just
the love of my life,
1731
01:24:31,721 --> 01:24:33,171
you were my life,
1732
01:24:33,206 --> 01:24:37,244
and you brought so much joy
and laughter into this family.
1733
01:24:37,279 --> 01:24:40,903
But now it's time for
you to live, baby,
1734
01:24:40,937 --> 01:24:44,009
and share that big, beautiful
light inside of yours,
1735
01:24:44,044 --> 01:24:45,045
with the world.
1736
01:24:46,288 --> 01:24:50,913
Hey, Megs, I know everyone
says this in the movies,
1737
01:24:51,741 --> 01:24:53,329
but if you are watching this,
1738
01:24:56,125 --> 01:24:57,402
I have left this world.
1739
01:25:02,304 --> 01:25:04,237
I wanted to leave you something
1740
01:25:05,652 --> 01:25:10,277
that not only would inspire
you, but comfort you.
1741
01:25:11,727 --> 01:25:13,177
And even though I'm not in
this world with you physically,
1742
01:25:15,213 --> 01:25:17,664
I will always be with you here.
1743
01:25:23,014 --> 01:25:23,808
No tears.
1744
01:25:32,472 --> 01:25:35,544
You have to keep
your chin up, okay?
1745
01:25:35,578 --> 01:25:37,684
You have to be strong
for Scotty, alright?
1746
01:25:42,344 --> 01:25:46,762
Promise me you'll fill
yours and Scotty's life
1747
01:25:46,796 --> 01:25:49,627
with as much love as
this world can give you.
1748
01:25:57,531 --> 01:26:01,328
In this life, the afterlife,
1749
01:26:01,363 --> 01:26:02,812
and in the lives to follow,
1750
01:26:07,058 --> 01:26:08,163
together forever.
1751
01:26:12,581 --> 01:26:14,272
Until we are together again,
1752
01:26:18,380 --> 01:26:20,140
I love you so much.
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