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These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: 1 00:01:47,314 --> 00:01:48,108 Here you go, baby. 2 00:01:48,142 --> 00:01:49,143 Oh, thank you. 3 00:01:49,178 --> 00:01:50,248 - Oh, you're welcome. - Oh, this looks great. 4 00:01:51,111 --> 00:01:52,077 Cheers. 5 00:01:52,112 --> 00:01:52,871 Cheers to you. 6 00:01:55,115 --> 00:01:56,219 Mm. 7 00:01:56,254 --> 00:01:57,910 Oh yeah, nice. 8 00:01:57,945 --> 00:01:59,084 Today was such a beautiful day. 9 00:01:59,119 --> 00:02:01,328 We're so blessed with our beautiful family. 10 00:02:01,362 --> 00:02:02,708 We are. 11 00:02:02,743 --> 00:02:05,194 Oh, which reminds me, I have something for you. 12 00:02:05,228 --> 00:02:07,092 - You do? - Yeah. 13 00:02:09,025 --> 00:02:09,784 - What is it? - Ah! 14 00:02:09,819 --> 00:02:10,578 Hey! 15 00:02:11,476 --> 00:02:12,270 What is it? 16 00:02:12,304 --> 00:02:13,823 Something corny. 17 00:02:13,857 --> 00:02:18,138 No, it's a, it's a bunch of our family photos, my favorites. 18 00:02:19,656 --> 00:02:21,002 I mean, I've made you a playlist a thousand times. 19 00:02:21,037 --> 00:02:22,107 I just thought I'd do something different for you. 20 00:02:22,142 --> 00:02:23,488 This is so sweet, I love it. 21 00:02:23,522 --> 00:02:24,420 Aw, you wanna look at it? 22 00:02:24,454 --> 00:02:25,490 - Yes. - Come on. 23 00:02:25,524 --> 00:02:26,387 - Let's watch it. - Come on. 24 00:02:26,422 --> 00:02:27,561 - Oh. - I'll show you. 25 00:02:27,595 --> 00:02:28,320 Better there? 26 00:02:28,355 --> 00:02:29,632 It's so nice. 27 00:02:29,666 --> 00:02:30,840 Start like this. 28 00:02:33,153 --> 00:02:34,015 Oh my God. 29 00:02:35,189 --> 00:02:36,259 These are so great! 30 00:02:36,294 --> 00:02:37,950 Look at this, look at this. 31 00:02:37,985 --> 00:02:38,917 Oh. 32 00:02:38,951 --> 00:02:39,883 Look at this one. 33 00:02:39,918 --> 00:02:40,850 Wait, this one's one of my favorites, right? 34 00:02:40,884 --> 00:02:41,851 Oh, wow. 35 00:02:41,885 --> 00:02:42,714 Oh my God. 36 00:02:42,748 --> 00:02:43,508 Look at your hair. 37 00:02:43,542 --> 00:02:44,509 Look at my hair! 38 00:02:44,543 --> 00:02:45,303 Ooh, ooh. 39 00:02:45,337 --> 00:02:46,476 Awesome! 40 00:02:46,511 --> 00:02:47,339 Oh my God. 41 00:02:47,374 --> 00:02:48,168 - Look at you. - Oh. 42 00:02:48,202 --> 00:02:49,341 Aw, aw, look at him. 43 00:02:49,376 --> 00:02:50,687 - Oh, babe. - Wow. 44 00:02:50,722 --> 00:02:51,654 Maybe not my best look. 45 00:02:51,688 --> 00:02:52,620 Aw. 46 00:02:52,655 --> 00:02:54,139 Look, you're always traveling. 47 00:02:54,174 --> 00:02:55,347 I just wanted you to know 48 00:02:55,382 --> 00:02:57,142 that we're always with you, alright? 49 00:02:57,177 --> 00:02:58,108 I love it. 50 00:02:58,143 --> 00:02:58,868 Good, I'm glad. 51 00:02:58,902 --> 00:02:59,662 Thank you. 52 00:02:59,696 --> 00:03:00,456 You're welcome. 53 00:03:00,490 --> 00:03:01,284 Oh my gosh. 54 00:03:01,319 --> 00:03:02,147 Look at this. 55 00:03:02,182 --> 00:03:03,597 This is amazing! 56 00:03:03,631 --> 00:03:04,391 Look at the mess here. 57 00:03:05,254 --> 00:03:06,634 This is so sweet! 58 00:03:07,463 --> 00:03:09,327 I'm glad you like it. 59 00:03:20,234 --> 00:03:22,271 Mm, smells good. 60 00:03:22,305 --> 00:03:23,927 Mm, it does. 61 00:03:23,962 --> 00:03:25,239 Are you doing this salad tomorrow? 62 00:03:25,274 --> 00:03:26,551 Nope, it's already done. 63 00:03:26,585 --> 00:03:28,000 Oh, wow. 64 00:03:28,035 --> 00:03:29,209 You do know what time it is, don't you? 65 00:03:29,243 --> 00:03:30,382 Oh, no, no, no, no, no. 66 00:03:30,417 --> 00:03:31,245 It's time for the dance! 67 00:03:31,280 --> 00:03:32,902 You are so silly. 68 00:03:32,936 --> 00:03:33,696 Stop that. 69 00:03:35,249 --> 00:03:36,388 Just because you're some big time music executive, 70 00:03:36,423 --> 00:03:37,389 doesn't mean you can make me dance. 71 00:03:37,424 --> 00:03:38,908 Oh, but I can. 72 00:03:38,942 --> 00:03:40,220 Oh. 73 00:03:40,254 --> 00:03:41,359 I love you Abby Thompson. 74 00:03:41,393 --> 00:03:43,223 And I love you, Daniel Thompson. 75 00:03:44,258 --> 00:03:47,123 - Mm, oh, this is great! - Nice. 76 00:03:47,157 --> 00:03:48,228 - You guys are gonna love it. - Ooh. 77 00:03:48,262 --> 00:03:49,263 Oh yeah, look at this. 78 00:03:49,298 --> 00:03:50,437 Thank you. 79 00:03:50,471 --> 00:03:51,265 You're welcome, you're welcome. 80 00:03:51,300 --> 00:03:52,404 Alright. 81 00:03:52,439 --> 00:03:53,578 - That looks so good. - That looks great. 82 00:03:53,612 --> 00:03:54,924 Who wants to say grace? 83 00:03:54,958 --> 00:03:56,926 You know, I'd like to say it tonight. 84 00:03:57,823 --> 00:03:58,617 Alright. 85 00:03:59,791 --> 00:04:01,241 Dear heavenly Father, 86 00:04:01,275 --> 00:04:03,450 we thank you for the blessings bestowed upon us, 87 00:04:04,830 --> 00:04:06,280 for the food before us, 88 00:04:07,247 --> 00:04:08,800 for the roof above us, 89 00:04:08,834 --> 00:04:10,595 for our family together, 90 00:04:10,629 --> 00:04:13,287 and for all the love we share between us. 91 00:04:13,322 --> 00:04:15,255 Amen. 92 00:04:15,289 --> 00:04:16,325 That was beautiful, Mom. 93 00:04:16,359 --> 00:04:17,291 Thank you. 94 00:04:17,326 --> 00:04:18,292 It was a beautiful day. 95 00:04:18,327 --> 00:04:19,535 You're beautiful. 96 00:04:19,569 --> 00:04:21,295 Uh, thank you, Jay. 97 00:04:22,503 --> 00:04:24,919 Is there something you want, Jay? 98 00:04:24,954 --> 00:04:26,369 No, I mean it. 99 00:04:26,404 --> 00:04:27,922 I do not want anything. 100 00:04:27,957 --> 00:04:29,890 Mm hmm. 101 00:04:29,924 --> 00:04:33,721 Well, unless I can get something. 102 00:04:33,756 --> 00:04:36,414 We already have everything we need. 103 00:04:36,448 --> 00:04:38,139 Oh, which reminds me. 104 00:04:38,174 --> 00:04:39,417 Mm hmm? 105 00:04:39,451 --> 00:04:40,970 Time you leaving for your trip tomorrow? 106 00:04:41,004 --> 00:04:42,523 Oh, that's right, I still have to pack. 107 00:04:42,558 --> 00:04:44,180 I'm gonna get on the road at eight tomorrow morning. 108 00:04:44,214 --> 00:04:47,390 Mm, yikes, you're gonna hit a lot of city traffic. 109 00:04:47,425 --> 00:04:48,702 I know. 110 00:04:48,736 --> 00:04:50,048 How long are you gonna be gone this time? 111 00:04:50,082 --> 00:04:51,049 Ah, should just be overnight. 112 00:04:51,083 --> 00:04:52,913 One meeting, a couple of signatures, 113 00:04:52,947 --> 00:04:54,190 and then I'll be headed home. 114 00:04:54,224 --> 00:04:56,192 Good, I want you to be here for the dance. 115 00:04:56,226 --> 00:04:58,608 Oh, I wouldn't miss it for the world. 116 00:04:58,643 --> 00:05:01,818 I would, unless I could be the photographer? 117 00:05:01,853 --> 00:05:03,095 Jay, when you get to high school, 118 00:05:03,130 --> 00:05:04,787 you can be on the school paper like me, 119 00:05:04,821 --> 00:05:06,167 and you can be the photographer. 120 00:05:06,202 --> 00:05:07,272 Great. 121 00:05:07,307 --> 00:05:08,204 There you go. 122 00:05:08,238 --> 00:05:09,274 That's it. 123 00:05:09,309 --> 00:05:10,862 Eat up, guys. 124 00:05:10,896 --> 00:05:11,794 This looks great. 125 00:05:11,828 --> 00:05:13,278 Mm, glad you like it. 126 00:05:13,313 --> 00:05:15,418 Mm, oh, the macaroni's good. 127 00:05:15,453 --> 00:05:16,661 - It's very good. - Good, it is. 128 00:05:21,942 --> 00:05:22,805 Are you Daniel Thompson? 129 00:05:22,839 --> 00:05:24,289 Yeah, yeah, yeah. 130 00:05:24,324 --> 00:05:25,497 What do you need? 131 00:05:25,532 --> 00:05:27,948 Sir, there's been an accident. 132 00:05:27,982 --> 00:05:28,742 Okay. 133 00:05:28,776 --> 00:05:29,984 Your wife. 134 00:05:30,019 --> 00:05:31,296 Whoa, wait, wait, wait, wait, Abby? 135 00:05:31,331 --> 00:05:32,815 Mom? 136 00:05:32,849 --> 00:05:34,161 Wait, wait, yeah, is she alright, where is she? 137 00:05:34,195 --> 00:05:35,231 I'm sorry, sir. 138 00:05:35,265 --> 00:05:36,957 She was in an accident, 139 00:05:36,991 --> 00:05:38,545 and she was killed on impact. 140 00:05:41,651 --> 00:05:42,514 What? 141 00:05:44,585 --> 00:05:45,759 You're lying! 142 00:05:45,793 --> 00:05:46,553 No! 143 00:05:48,486 --> 00:05:49,452 Sir, I'm sorry. 144 00:05:49,487 --> 00:05:50,660 No. 145 00:05:50,695 --> 00:05:53,214 We found all her belongings in the car. 146 00:05:53,249 --> 00:05:58,254 We're gonna need you to come down and identify her. 147 00:05:59,359 --> 00:06:01,222 Abby, no, no. 148 00:06:05,088 --> 00:06:05,951 I need you to come down, 149 00:06:05,986 --> 00:06:08,264 and call me on your way, 150 00:06:09,403 --> 00:06:10,680 and I'll meet you there, okay? 151 00:06:10,715 --> 00:06:11,578 Okay. 152 00:06:11,612 --> 00:06:12,717 Here's my card. 153 00:06:16,410 --> 00:06:17,377 Alright. 154 00:06:17,411 --> 00:06:18,757 I'm sorry again. 155 00:06:23,279 --> 00:06:24,384 - Abby. - Mommy. 156 00:06:25,350 --> 00:06:26,386 - No. - Mommy. 157 00:06:38,225 --> 00:06:39,260 Jay, are you okay? 158 00:06:39,295 --> 00:06:40,261 No. 159 00:06:41,918 --> 00:06:44,265 Okay, it's gonna be okay. 160 00:06:44,300 --> 00:06:46,336 You gotta just take it one day at a time. 161 00:06:47,303 --> 00:06:48,511 Where's my mom? 162 00:06:48,546 --> 00:06:51,272 She was so good. 163 00:06:51,307 --> 00:06:52,101 She loved us. 164 00:06:53,413 --> 00:06:55,380 I don't know, Josh. 165 00:06:55,415 --> 00:06:57,624 I don't think there's a God. 166 00:06:57,658 --> 00:06:59,039 Why would he do this? 167 00:07:00,420 --> 00:07:01,593 I don't think God did this. 168 00:07:01,628 --> 00:07:04,044 Okay, this was a drunk driver, Josh. 169 00:07:04,078 --> 00:07:05,597 An accident. 170 00:07:05,632 --> 00:07:07,427 But she didn't have to die. 171 00:07:09,808 --> 00:07:11,500 Do you think there's a God? 172 00:07:15,262 --> 00:07:18,403 I don't know what to think right now. 173 00:07:18,438 --> 00:07:19,473 I just miss Mom. 174 00:07:20,509 --> 00:07:21,786 Beautiful. 175 00:07:21,820 --> 00:07:23,201 You think so? 176 00:07:23,235 --> 00:07:24,340 My baby girl's all grown up! 177 00:07:26,273 --> 00:07:27,377 I just miss Mom. 178 00:07:27,412 --> 00:07:29,345 I do too. 179 00:07:29,379 --> 00:07:30,726 I know, I know. 180 00:07:32,831 --> 00:07:36,317 Daniel, I'm so sorry about what happened. 181 00:07:36,352 --> 00:07:37,595 She was a beautiful person. 182 00:07:37,629 --> 00:07:38,734 We all loved her. 183 00:07:38,768 --> 00:07:40,425 Thank you. 184 00:07:40,460 --> 00:07:41,495 I'm so sorry. 185 00:07:41,530 --> 00:07:43,463 Oh, thank you so much for coming. 186 00:07:43,497 --> 00:07:45,223 Brandon, please say hi to the family. 187 00:07:45,257 --> 00:07:46,189 Thank you. 188 00:07:46,224 --> 00:07:47,777 The church is there for you, 189 00:07:47,812 --> 00:07:51,022 your family is there for you, I'm there for you. 190 00:07:51,056 --> 00:07:52,264 I know. 191 00:07:52,299 --> 00:07:53,473 Did you know I brought your kids back 192 00:07:53,507 --> 00:07:54,266 from the church? 193 00:07:54,301 --> 00:07:55,060 Thanks. 194 00:07:55,889 --> 00:07:57,477 Nice to see you, Jack. 195 00:07:57,511 --> 00:07:58,408 Jack? 196 00:08:00,514 --> 00:08:02,171 Hey, hey, Pop? 197 00:08:02,205 --> 00:08:05,346 Oh, pastor, it was a beautiful service. 198 00:08:05,381 --> 00:08:06,313 Well, thank you. 199 00:08:06,347 --> 00:08:07,659 I'm glad you liked it, Jack. 200 00:08:07,694 --> 00:08:10,351 You guys wanna go with me and greet the guests? 201 00:08:10,386 --> 00:08:11,145 I do. 202 00:08:11,180 --> 00:08:12,664 We can't, Jay. 203 00:08:12,699 --> 00:08:13,769 Sorry, Grandpa, 204 00:08:13,803 --> 00:08:15,046 our dad needs us. 205 00:08:15,080 --> 00:08:16,461 Okay, but if you wanna get away, 206 00:08:16,496 --> 00:08:18,083 I have a getaway car outside. 207 00:08:18,118 --> 00:08:20,430 If you kids feel you wanna get away, let me know, okay? 208 00:08:20,465 --> 00:08:22,053 I'm sure they'll take you up on the offer. 209 00:08:22,087 --> 00:08:23,468 - Thank you. - Thanks, Pop. 210 00:08:26,195 --> 00:08:27,437 How are you two doing? 211 00:08:28,922 --> 00:08:30,544 We're not good. 212 00:08:31,752 --> 00:08:34,479 Lindsey, do you know Pastor John? 213 00:08:34,514 --> 00:08:38,000 He runs the youth group at the church. 214 00:08:38,034 --> 00:08:39,519 Yeah, I've met him. 215 00:08:41,003 --> 00:08:44,627 Pastor John runs a grief support group as well. 216 00:08:45,835 --> 00:08:50,460 Lindsey, please, we would like you to join 217 00:08:50,495 --> 00:08:53,567 our grief support group when you're ready. 218 00:08:55,535 --> 00:08:58,123 Jay, you can come too. 219 00:08:58,158 --> 00:08:59,262 Thanks, pastor. 220 00:09:01,126 --> 00:09:01,920 I'm not ready yet. 221 00:09:01,955 --> 00:09:04,198 I know, I know. 222 00:09:05,406 --> 00:09:08,548 When you are, we're there for you. 223 00:09:15,555 --> 00:09:17,384 Thanks, pastor, really. 224 00:09:18,592 --> 00:09:20,629 And the church is there for you too, 225 00:09:20,663 --> 00:09:22,838 and we'll always be there for you. 226 00:09:22,872 --> 00:09:24,046 You've been a lifelong friend. 227 00:09:24,080 --> 00:09:25,599 We appreciate it, alright? 228 00:09:25,634 --> 00:09:26,773 Thank you, thank you. 229 00:09:26,807 --> 00:09:27,601 Alright. 230 00:09:27,636 --> 00:09:28,568 God bless. 231 00:09:28,602 --> 00:09:29,879 God bless you. 232 00:09:32,882 --> 00:09:34,677 Hey, how're you doing? 233 00:09:38,474 --> 00:09:40,580 Oh, God. 234 00:09:43,306 --> 00:09:45,585 Oh, God, I'm gonna be late! 235 00:09:47,759 --> 00:09:49,174 Where is it? 236 00:09:49,209 --> 00:09:51,625 I thought it was... 237 00:09:56,906 --> 00:09:59,150 Mom, I can't do this without you. 238 00:10:01,255 --> 00:10:03,119 God, why would you take her away from me? 239 00:10:03,154 --> 00:10:04,431 Why? 240 00:10:04,465 --> 00:10:05,432 Hey? 241 00:10:06,606 --> 00:10:07,537 Is everything alright? 242 00:10:07,572 --> 00:10:09,470 No, nothing is alright! 243 00:10:09,505 --> 00:10:11,093 Why can't you understand that? 244 00:10:12,163 --> 00:10:13,751 I think I might be able to. 245 00:10:13,785 --> 00:10:15,960 No, you can't, because I'm 16. 246 00:10:15,994 --> 00:10:17,547 I should still have my Mom! 247 00:10:17,582 --> 00:10:18,928 Hey, hey! 248 00:10:18,963 --> 00:10:20,758 Have you forgotten that your mother was my wife? 249 00:10:20,792 --> 00:10:22,622 I lost her too! 250 00:10:22,656 --> 00:10:24,002 I lost her! 251 00:10:24,037 --> 00:10:24,796 I'm sorry. 252 00:10:24,831 --> 00:10:26,211 Oh God. 253 00:10:26,246 --> 00:10:27,765 - I'm sorry, Dad, I didn't... - No, no, no, no. 254 00:10:27,799 --> 00:10:29,318 Oh, no, no, no, no, no. - I'm sorry, Dad. 255 00:10:29,352 --> 00:10:31,734 I'm sorry. - I'm sorry, I'm sorry. 256 00:10:31,769 --> 00:10:33,046 I'm sorry. 257 00:10:33,080 --> 00:10:34,668 Look, we're all going through this, alright? 258 00:10:34,703 --> 00:10:36,497 We all lost her. 259 00:10:36,532 --> 00:10:39,915 Lindsey, look, do you remember that group 260 00:10:39,949 --> 00:10:40,916 the pastor was talking about? 261 00:10:40,950 --> 00:10:42,124 No, please, 262 00:10:42,158 --> 00:10:43,090 that's not gonna help. - No, no, no. 263 00:10:43,125 --> 00:10:43,850 No, it's not gonna help. 264 00:10:43,884 --> 00:10:44,816 It won't bring Mom back. 265 00:10:44,851 --> 00:10:47,094 No, but it can't hurt either. 266 00:10:48,717 --> 00:10:49,649 Look, no, listen, 267 00:10:50,753 --> 00:10:51,961 your heart is so pained, 268 00:10:51,996 --> 00:10:53,169 your mother would never want you to feel this way. 269 00:10:53,204 --> 00:10:54,584 Please, just go for me. 270 00:10:54,619 --> 00:10:56,621 Just go, please, just once, just once. 271 00:10:56,656 --> 00:10:57,657 Please, okay? - Fine. 272 00:10:59,313 --> 00:11:00,660 But I wanna do this on my own. 273 00:11:03,663 --> 00:11:04,456 Okay. 274 00:11:07,011 --> 00:11:08,668 Let me drive, okay? 275 00:11:10,877 --> 00:11:11,843 - Okay. - Come on. 276 00:11:27,756 --> 00:11:29,516 How's your week been, Ava? 277 00:11:29,550 --> 00:11:30,310 Good. 278 00:11:30,344 --> 00:11:31,587 That's good. 279 00:11:31,621 --> 00:11:33,037 We're glad to see you back again. 280 00:11:33,071 --> 00:11:34,383 Yeah, it's been a, it's been a wonderful week. 281 00:11:34,417 --> 00:11:36,109 We had a lot going on with the church. 282 00:11:36,143 --> 00:11:37,835 And, yeah, so we're very excited 283 00:11:37,869 --> 00:11:40,665 to have those special activity things lined up as well, 284 00:11:40,700 --> 00:11:42,598 so it's always fun with them. 285 00:11:42,632 --> 00:11:43,737 Ricky, how've you been this week? 286 00:11:43,772 --> 00:11:45,325 For those of you just joining us, 287 00:11:45,359 --> 00:11:46,913 I'd like to tell you a bit about what we do here 288 00:11:46,947 --> 00:11:48,569 in the group. 289 00:11:48,604 --> 00:11:52,642 Our grief support group is a place of healing and of hope. 290 00:11:52,677 --> 00:11:54,644 We like to remember our loved ones out loud. 291 00:11:54,679 --> 00:11:57,751 We share stories, we share memories good and bad, 292 00:11:57,786 --> 00:11:59,788 but more importantly, we support each other 293 00:11:59,822 --> 00:12:01,686 through the sadness of loss, 294 00:12:01,721 --> 00:12:04,171 and we move into the comfort of knowing 295 00:12:04,206 --> 00:12:08,106 that they remain in our hearts and our memories forever. 296 00:12:09,280 --> 00:12:10,833 Now, I'd like to have our new members 297 00:12:10,868 --> 00:12:12,007 go ahead and introduce themselves, 298 00:12:12,041 --> 00:12:13,698 then we'll share some stories. 299 00:12:14,941 --> 00:12:17,288 Would you like to go first? 300 00:12:18,807 --> 00:12:21,085 Hi, I'm Lindsey. 301 00:12:21,119 --> 00:12:23,432 I lost my mom a few months ago. 302 00:12:25,503 --> 00:12:26,297 Hi, Lindsey. 303 00:12:26,331 --> 00:12:27,677 We're happy to meet you. 304 00:12:27,712 --> 00:12:29,058 Thank you for being here. 305 00:12:29,093 --> 00:12:30,473 And how about you? 306 00:12:31,578 --> 00:12:34,650 Hi, I'm, I'm Andrew. 307 00:12:34,684 --> 00:12:37,342 I lost my brother in a car accident about a year ago, 308 00:12:37,377 --> 00:12:40,483 and things haven't really gotten better, 309 00:12:40,518 --> 00:12:42,934 so my mom recommended I come to a support group. 310 00:12:44,004 --> 00:12:45,626 Well, thank you, Andrew. 311 00:12:45,661 --> 00:12:47,594 At the very least, we hope you can find some comfort here, 312 00:12:47,628 --> 00:12:49,147 and know you're not alone. 313 00:12:49,182 --> 00:12:50,770 Thank you. 314 00:12:50,804 --> 00:12:53,669 So, would anyone like to begin by sharing a story? 315 00:12:54,774 --> 00:12:56,120 I'd like to share my story, John. 316 00:12:56,154 --> 00:12:57,466 Oh, Ava, please. 317 00:12:59,675 --> 00:13:02,989 My husband and I were trying to have a baby for so long. 318 00:13:04,266 --> 00:13:06,786 We thought after IVF and for trying for so long 319 00:13:06,820 --> 00:13:08,270 that it would never happen, 320 00:13:09,789 --> 00:13:11,791 but we were happy because we knew that we had options. 321 00:13:14,517 --> 00:13:19,522 One night we went to a restaurant with my husband's boss. 322 00:13:20,869 --> 00:13:23,009 It was this restaurant on the top of a building, 323 00:13:23,043 --> 00:13:24,320 really high up. 324 00:13:24,355 --> 00:13:25,805 Now, I don't do heights, 325 00:13:25,839 --> 00:13:28,531 so I got really sick. 326 00:13:29,498 --> 00:13:30,913 It was so embarrassing. 327 00:13:33,743 --> 00:13:36,677 The next night I was still sick. 328 00:13:36,712 --> 00:13:39,715 I mean, every smell, just about anything made me feel sick. 329 00:13:41,475 --> 00:13:43,098 He knew I was pregnant, 330 00:13:43,132 --> 00:13:46,446 but I was like, "No, I mean, it can't be." 331 00:13:46,480 --> 00:13:48,103 He went out, he bought me a test, 332 00:13:48,137 --> 00:13:50,484 and it turns out he was right, I was pregnant. 333 00:13:52,141 --> 00:13:53,833 We were so happy. 334 00:13:56,007 --> 00:13:58,147 I mean, it was probably one of the second best moments 335 00:13:58,182 --> 00:13:59,010 of our lives. 336 00:14:00,460 --> 00:14:03,325 Our first was when our baby boy was born. 337 00:14:04,533 --> 00:14:05,879 It was pure joy. 338 00:14:07,605 --> 00:14:08,848 Our family was complete. 339 00:14:12,990 --> 00:14:17,028 A week later, he went on a business trip, 340 00:14:17,063 --> 00:14:20,445 and the plane crashed, 341 00:14:20,480 --> 00:14:21,584 and he didn't make it. 342 00:14:25,243 --> 00:14:27,211 But he got to meet Ryan Junior. 343 00:14:29,316 --> 00:14:31,836 Ava, thank you so much for sharing that story. 344 00:14:31,871 --> 00:14:32,699 You're welcome. 345 00:14:34,494 --> 00:14:39,499 It's hard, but I realized through the process of healing, 346 00:14:43,020 --> 00:14:46,057 there are more good memories than there could ever be bad. 347 00:14:50,096 --> 00:14:54,238 I just wish that I could hear him again, or see him. 348 00:14:57,551 --> 00:14:58,345 Thank you. 349 00:15:02,246 --> 00:15:05,249 Would any of our new members like to share a story? 350 00:15:09,667 --> 00:15:10,668 I'm not ready yet. 351 00:15:11,738 --> 00:15:12,566 That's okay. 352 00:15:13,671 --> 00:15:15,466 When you're ready, we'll be here. 353 00:15:15,500 --> 00:15:17,157 You know, remembering our loved ones out loud 354 00:15:17,192 --> 00:15:20,126 is greatly helpful. 355 00:15:21,230 --> 00:15:22,887 It keeps them in our hearts. 356 00:15:24,268 --> 00:15:26,891 Andrew, would you like to share? 357 00:15:27,892 --> 00:15:29,790 I guess, yeah, yeah. 358 00:15:29,825 --> 00:15:30,619 Yeah, I'll go. 359 00:15:32,241 --> 00:15:35,175 But it's kind of hard to remember things right now. 360 00:15:38,144 --> 00:15:42,424 No good memories, no bad ones, just, it just all sucks. 361 00:15:45,013 --> 00:15:48,361 You know, I was in that car accident where my brother died. 362 00:15:50,052 --> 00:15:51,605 Why not me? 363 00:15:51,640 --> 00:15:53,745 What makes me so special? 364 00:15:53,780 --> 00:15:54,574 He was my brother. 365 00:15:54,608 --> 00:15:55,368 He was my twin. 366 00:15:55,402 --> 00:15:56,576 He was a part of me. 367 00:15:59,959 --> 00:16:01,926 We were supposed to travel the world together, 368 00:16:01,961 --> 00:16:03,341 and now it's just me, 369 00:16:05,171 --> 00:16:06,827 and that ain't right. 370 00:16:08,968 --> 00:16:11,936 Andrew, it's, it's not just you. 371 00:16:11,971 --> 00:16:14,387 You know, he's still part of you, 372 00:16:14,421 --> 00:16:16,285 and remembering him is gonna help you. 373 00:16:18,839 --> 00:16:19,944 Thank you for sharing. 374 00:16:21,049 --> 00:16:22,464 Pastor John? 375 00:16:22,498 --> 00:16:24,155 Yes, Lindsey. 376 00:16:24,190 --> 00:16:26,606 Could I tell a little about my mom, maybe? 377 00:16:26,640 --> 00:16:27,987 Yes, I think we'd love that. 378 00:16:30,644 --> 00:16:32,025 My last memory of her, 379 00:16:32,060 --> 00:16:33,785 she was helping me pick out my dress 380 00:16:33,820 --> 00:16:35,373 for my first school dance. 381 00:16:38,135 --> 00:16:41,000 My mom was so sweet, always loving. 382 00:16:43,623 --> 00:16:46,522 Her dream was to be there for me at my wedding, 383 00:16:51,044 --> 00:16:53,012 but now she won't be able to. 384 00:16:58,707 --> 00:17:00,778 I'm sorry, I can't talk about this yet. 385 00:17:01,710 --> 00:17:02,607 And that's okay. 386 00:17:02,642 --> 00:17:04,230 Thank you so much for sharing. 387 00:17:04,264 --> 00:17:06,025 You know, the healing process takes time. 388 00:17:06,059 --> 00:17:09,373 And Lindsey, when you're ready, we'll be here to listen. 389 00:17:12,065 --> 00:17:14,964 Well, I think that's a good place to leave it. 390 00:17:14,999 --> 00:17:17,726 We do have some flyers over on the table there. 391 00:17:17,760 --> 00:17:20,729 It has some fun activities to help the healing process. 392 00:17:20,763 --> 00:17:22,351 And before we go, 393 00:17:22,386 --> 00:17:25,389 I'd like you do a little bit of homework 394 00:17:25,423 --> 00:17:27,080 for this, this next week. 395 00:17:27,115 --> 00:17:30,118 Now, before you look at me like that, it's nothing hard. 396 00:17:30,152 --> 00:17:33,086 I'd like you to talk to a relative or a mutual friend, 397 00:17:33,121 --> 00:17:36,917 and have them share a good memory with you. 398 00:17:36,952 --> 00:17:37,849 I'd like you to write it down, 399 00:17:37,884 --> 00:17:40,059 and if you feel comfortable, 400 00:17:40,093 --> 00:17:41,888 share it when you come back next week, 401 00:17:41,922 --> 00:17:43,648 and we'll start on our memory books. 402 00:17:45,133 --> 00:17:46,927 Alright? 403 00:17:46,962 --> 00:17:48,274 Thanks again for coming everybody. 404 00:17:48,308 --> 00:17:50,759 Remember, there are some flyers over by the coffee, 405 00:17:50,793 --> 00:17:52,036 that have some recommended reading. 406 00:17:52,071 --> 00:17:54,073 As always, if you need to talk to me at all, 407 00:17:55,074 --> 00:17:56,420 feel free to come find me. 408 00:17:57,731 --> 00:17:58,629 Have a wonderful week. 409 00:18:04,462 --> 00:18:06,913 Chocolate chip was Matthew's favorite cookie. 410 00:18:09,640 --> 00:18:12,160 Hey, I'm sorry about your brother. 411 00:18:12,194 --> 00:18:13,092 Thanks. 412 00:18:14,127 --> 00:18:16,095 Sorry about your mother too. 413 00:18:16,129 --> 00:18:19,063 Guess we all gotta lose someone at some point. 414 00:18:19,098 --> 00:18:21,272 Yeah, but it doesn't feel fair. 415 00:18:21,307 --> 00:18:22,135 I know. 416 00:18:23,930 --> 00:18:26,105 Were you close to your brother? 417 00:18:26,139 --> 00:18:29,487 Yeah, we were pretty much like the same person. 418 00:18:31,110 --> 00:18:33,595 We even had our own way of talking to each other. 419 00:18:33,629 --> 00:18:35,114 Yeah, I've heard that, 420 00:18:35,148 --> 00:18:37,116 that twins can have their own secret language. 421 00:18:37,150 --> 00:18:38,876 That's actually really cool. 422 00:18:38,910 --> 00:18:41,120 Yeah, yeah, guess so. 423 00:18:42,190 --> 00:18:44,640 Well, I gotta go, my dad's waiting. 424 00:18:44,675 --> 00:18:46,953 But it was nice to meet you. 425 00:18:46,987 --> 00:18:50,129 Hey, I hope you come back. 426 00:18:52,579 --> 00:18:53,408 I think I will. 427 00:18:59,690 --> 00:19:02,624 Ugh, it's a hot day today, man. 428 00:19:02,658 --> 00:19:04,108 Hey, you alright? 429 00:19:08,147 --> 00:19:10,045 No, seriously, you okay? 430 00:19:10,079 --> 00:19:15,050 I don't know. 431 00:19:16,120 --> 00:19:17,432 What's wrong? 432 00:19:18,398 --> 00:19:19,606 I don't know. 433 00:19:19,641 --> 00:19:21,470 Alright, you wanna talk about it? 434 00:19:21,505 --> 00:19:23,092 Why? 435 00:19:23,127 --> 00:19:24,163 It won't bring Mom back! 436 00:19:25,440 --> 00:19:28,891 No, but it's nice to remember her. 437 00:19:30,203 --> 00:19:32,895 Lindsey says Mom is living in heaven now with God. 438 00:19:32,930 --> 00:19:34,759 I just wish I could talk to her, Dad. 439 00:19:34,794 --> 00:19:38,142 It would be so nice if a text or phone call 440 00:19:38,177 --> 00:19:40,282 could reach all the way up to heaven. 441 00:19:40,317 --> 00:19:41,180 I know. 442 00:19:42,526 --> 00:19:44,321 Look, I knew someone that wrote a message in a- 443 00:19:44,355 --> 00:19:46,530 I don't want that, I want Mom! 444 00:19:46,564 --> 00:19:48,704 I want Mom too, okay? 445 00:19:48,739 --> 00:19:50,568 I'm sorry things have changed. 446 00:19:51,845 --> 00:19:54,123 Dad, I don't wanna hike today. 447 00:19:54,158 --> 00:19:55,297 I just wanna go back home. 448 00:19:56,195 --> 00:19:58,093 Right, you don't wanna hike? 449 00:19:58,127 --> 00:19:59,301 You just wanna go home? 450 00:19:59,336 --> 00:20:00,785 Yeah. 451 00:20:00,820 --> 00:20:02,166 Watch a movie with me? 452 00:20:02,201 --> 00:20:03,202 Sure. 453 00:20:04,203 --> 00:20:05,652 It's hot anyway, right? 454 00:20:05,687 --> 00:20:06,860 Come on, come on. 455 00:20:32,300 --> 00:20:34,267 I'm having a real hard time here, Abby. 456 00:20:40,446 --> 00:20:41,964 The kids are so sad. 457 00:20:44,243 --> 00:20:46,245 I'm just trying to make them feel loved. 458 00:20:54,045 --> 00:20:57,773 Just don't laugh at me if I start to cry. 459 00:20:59,223 --> 00:21:00,569 You know, I remember you saying once 460 00:21:00,604 --> 00:21:03,089 that real men do cry. 461 00:21:06,265 --> 00:21:07,611 Well, this man cries for you. 462 00:21:09,751 --> 00:21:10,545 I love you, Abby. 463 00:21:28,356 --> 00:21:30,012 Oh, man. 464 00:21:30,047 --> 00:21:32,291 Those cookies smell great. 465 00:21:32,325 --> 00:21:34,293 If it's cookies, you know it's for me. 466 00:21:34,327 --> 00:21:35,328 Every kid loves cookies. 467 00:21:35,363 --> 00:21:37,365 Dad, it's for group. 468 00:21:37,399 --> 00:21:38,262 Oh. 469 00:21:38,297 --> 00:21:39,815 Can we just have one? 470 00:21:39,850 --> 00:21:41,092 Just one? 471 00:21:41,127 --> 00:21:43,750 Not unless you come to group with me. 472 00:21:43,785 --> 00:21:44,544 Good luck. 473 00:21:47,306 --> 00:21:49,273 This is a real nice thing you're doing here. 474 00:21:49,308 --> 00:21:50,309 Thanks, Dad. 475 00:21:51,620 --> 00:21:53,312 How about one for the old man? 476 00:21:55,521 --> 00:21:56,315 Want an apple? 477 00:21:59,870 --> 00:22:01,285 Sure. 478 00:22:22,720 --> 00:22:25,171 Andrew, this is my little brother, Josh. 479 00:22:25,205 --> 00:22:26,172 Josh, meet Andrew. 480 00:22:27,691 --> 00:22:29,071 Hey, Josh. 481 00:22:29,106 --> 00:22:31,142 So, you're the reason 482 00:22:31,177 --> 00:22:34,318 my sister won't let me have any cookies, aren't you? 483 00:22:34,353 --> 00:22:35,319 Me? 484 00:22:36,562 --> 00:22:38,322 Well, nice to meet you too, Josh. 485 00:22:40,945 --> 00:22:42,982 I'm gonna go sit down. 486 00:22:43,016 --> 00:22:44,190 You can stop now. 487 00:22:44,224 --> 00:22:45,709 I'm just messing with you, little man. 488 00:22:45,743 --> 00:22:47,158 Coming to a good spot. 489 00:22:47,193 --> 00:22:48,470 Place helps me out a lot. 490 00:22:48,505 --> 00:22:50,299 Sure. 491 00:22:50,334 --> 00:22:52,232 How's your week been? 492 00:22:52,267 --> 00:22:53,130 I've had a good week. 493 00:22:53,164 --> 00:22:53,889 Did you have a good week? 494 00:22:53,924 --> 00:22:55,304 Yeah, it was. 495 00:22:55,339 --> 00:22:56,996 My dad set up to scholarship in my mom's name, 496 00:22:57,030 --> 00:22:58,860 and we met a few of the recipients. 497 00:22:58,894 --> 00:23:00,275 Oh, that's cool. 498 00:23:00,309 --> 00:23:01,966 Yeah, it really was. 499 00:23:05,280 --> 00:23:07,351 Hey, you wanna go get coffee sometime? 500 00:23:07,386 --> 00:23:11,838 Maybe talk about your mother, or my brother, or the weather? 501 00:23:11,873 --> 00:23:13,150 Yeah, I'd like that. 502 00:23:13,184 --> 00:23:15,186 Maybe you can meet my best friend, Katie. 503 00:23:15,221 --> 00:23:16,567 Yeah, yeah, that'd be cool. 504 00:23:17,568 --> 00:23:18,914 Okay, let's go. 505 00:23:18,949 --> 00:23:19,743 Yeah. 506 00:23:22,608 --> 00:23:23,678 Alright, everyone. 507 00:23:23,712 --> 00:23:24,644 Well, let's go ahead and take our seats, 508 00:23:24,679 --> 00:23:25,438 and we can begin. 509 00:23:27,475 --> 00:23:30,374 It's always nice to see new faces in the group. 510 00:23:30,409 --> 00:23:31,513 And as a little reminder, 511 00:23:31,548 --> 00:23:34,240 I like to say what it is we do in this group. 512 00:23:35,552 --> 00:23:38,175 Our grief support group is a place of healing and hope. 513 00:23:39,418 --> 00:23:42,386 We like to remember our loved ones out loud. 514 00:23:42,421 --> 00:23:46,045 We share stories, we share memories, good and bad, 515 00:23:46,079 --> 00:23:48,288 and more importantly, we like to support each other, 516 00:23:48,323 --> 00:23:50,946 as we move from the sadness of loss, 517 00:23:50,981 --> 00:23:52,431 to finding the comfort 518 00:23:52,465 --> 00:23:54,916 of knowing that our loved ones reside in our hearts 519 00:23:54,950 --> 00:23:56,296 and our memories forever. 520 00:23:57,470 --> 00:23:59,438 I'd like the new faces in the group 521 00:23:59,472 --> 00:24:00,749 to go ahead and introduce themselves. 522 00:24:00,784 --> 00:24:03,096 And we'll go ahead and start sharing some stories. 523 00:24:03,131 --> 00:24:08,136 My name's Josh and my sister made me come. 524 00:24:09,206 --> 00:24:10,138 Well, it's good to see you, Josh. 525 00:24:10,172 --> 00:24:11,311 Thank you for coming. 526 00:24:11,346 --> 00:24:12,451 Thanks for bringing him, Lindsey. 527 00:24:12,485 --> 00:24:13,279 And? 528 00:24:15,005 --> 00:24:16,903 Hi, my name is Carrie. 529 00:24:17,801 --> 00:24:19,975 I lost my baby boy. 530 00:24:21,183 --> 00:24:22,426 He had cancer. 531 00:24:23,807 --> 00:24:25,153 Hi, Carrie. 532 00:24:25,187 --> 00:24:26,395 I really hope both of you 533 00:24:26,430 --> 00:24:28,121 can find some comfort in being here with us. 534 00:24:29,364 --> 00:24:30,641 Carrie, would you like to share a little more 535 00:24:30,676 --> 00:24:31,884 about your story? 536 00:24:31,918 --> 00:24:33,437 No pressure. 537 00:24:33,472 --> 00:24:35,784 No, I'm not ready. 538 00:24:35,819 --> 00:24:39,616 It's, it's hard to talk about still. 539 00:24:40,996 --> 00:24:42,204 We're glad you're here. 540 00:24:42,239 --> 00:24:44,483 If you need to talk, I'm always here. 541 00:24:46,208 --> 00:24:48,970 I lost my mom not too long ago, 542 00:24:49,004 --> 00:24:50,558 and I know it's not the same, 543 00:24:50,592 --> 00:24:53,492 but this group is really helping me. 544 00:24:55,114 --> 00:24:56,495 Thank you, Lindsey. 545 00:24:56,529 --> 00:24:58,117 Whatever we can do to help, 546 00:24:58,151 --> 00:24:59,290 that's why we're here. 547 00:25:00,395 --> 00:25:02,570 So, everyone, how's the week been? 548 00:25:06,574 --> 00:25:07,506 It's been better. 549 00:25:11,579 --> 00:25:14,616 My mother and I went to see my dad's grave. 550 00:25:16,515 --> 00:25:20,519 So, well, she decided to start a scholarship 551 00:25:24,350 --> 00:25:25,351 in his name, so. 552 00:25:27,560 --> 00:25:28,423 That's wonderful, 553 00:25:28,457 --> 00:25:30,321 and I'm sure he'd be very proud. 554 00:25:30,356 --> 00:25:31,599 Thank you for sharing, Ricky. 555 00:25:32,565 --> 00:25:34,325 How's your week been, Ava? 556 00:25:34,360 --> 00:25:37,501 Oh, mine, mine actually has been really good. 557 00:25:37,536 --> 00:25:39,365 I've had more good days than bad, 558 00:25:39,399 --> 00:25:41,160 which I never thought would happen. 559 00:25:42,575 --> 00:25:44,232 We're actually planning a trip to see Ryan's parents 560 00:25:44,266 --> 00:25:45,095 this weekend, so. 561 00:25:46,406 --> 00:25:48,547 That sounds like a wonderful trip. 562 00:25:49,582 --> 00:25:51,895 Yeah, I might be missing a few meetings. 563 00:25:51,929 --> 00:25:53,655 Oh, well, that's okay. 564 00:25:53,690 --> 00:25:54,863 Certainly a good reason. 565 00:25:54,898 --> 00:25:55,657 Yeah. 566 00:25:56,934 --> 00:25:58,867 Andy, how's your week been, sir? 567 00:26:01,629 --> 00:26:05,529 You know, I'm still having a hard time. 568 00:26:05,564 --> 00:26:09,153 You know, sometimes I still feel angry about it all, 569 00:26:09,188 --> 00:26:11,500 him dying and me surviving. 570 00:26:11,535 --> 00:26:15,194 But my mom was actually going through his stuff, 571 00:26:15,228 --> 00:26:17,541 and she found this dictionary. 572 00:26:17,576 --> 00:26:19,232 It's the dictionary, we used to use it, 573 00:26:19,267 --> 00:26:21,407 to make our own language. 574 00:26:22,581 --> 00:26:24,548 When I looked at it, something clicked. 575 00:26:24,583 --> 00:26:26,446 Just realized he was a part of me. 576 00:26:27,896 --> 00:26:30,278 And how has that impacted your healing? 577 00:26:30,312 --> 00:26:33,143 Well, I can at least talk about him. 578 00:26:33,177 --> 00:26:35,455 You know, that's a big step for me. 579 00:26:35,490 --> 00:26:36,733 That's a great start. 580 00:26:36,767 --> 00:26:41,047 You know, continuing to remember our loved ones out loud 581 00:26:41,082 --> 00:26:43,671 is always so helpful, you know? 582 00:26:43,705 --> 00:26:45,396 It keeps them right in our hearts. 583 00:26:45,431 --> 00:26:46,605 Yeah. 584 00:26:46,639 --> 00:26:48,261 It hasn't been easy, but I've been trying. 585 00:26:49,262 --> 00:26:50,505 Lindsay, how you been? 586 00:26:51,575 --> 00:26:53,473 Honestly, I'm okay. 587 00:26:53,508 --> 00:26:56,235 You know, I know my mom's always with me, 588 00:26:56,269 --> 00:27:00,619 and my dad and I, we did some things in her memory. 589 00:27:02,137 --> 00:27:04,277 And I guess I'm just not as angry as I was before. 590 00:27:07,177 --> 00:27:08,419 That's great to hear. 591 00:27:08,454 --> 00:27:10,180 I'm happy to hear with your progress. 592 00:27:11,077 --> 00:27:12,527 I'm really proud of all of you. 593 00:27:12,561 --> 00:27:16,289 You know, these, these reports are great, you know? 594 00:27:16,324 --> 00:27:18,775 I'd actually like to take a time of prayer. 595 00:27:19,672 --> 00:27:20,846 Bow our heads in prayer. 596 00:27:24,677 --> 00:27:26,921 Heavenly father, we thank you 597 00:27:26,955 --> 00:27:29,130 for this wonderful night you've given us. 598 00:27:30,200 --> 00:27:31,511 Thank you for reminding us 599 00:27:31,546 --> 00:27:33,755 that your mercies are new every day. 600 00:27:33,790 --> 00:27:34,791 It says in the book of Matthew, 601 00:27:34,825 --> 00:27:37,345 that blessed are those who mourn, 602 00:27:37,379 --> 00:27:38,691 for they will be shown mercy. 603 00:27:39,968 --> 00:27:42,695 We pray that your grace continuously follows us 604 00:27:42,730 --> 00:27:44,317 through our day. 605 00:27:44,352 --> 00:27:46,630 And we pray that you bless our going 606 00:27:46,665 --> 00:27:48,977 as you blessed our coming here tonight. 607 00:27:49,012 --> 00:27:49,909 Thank you. 608 00:27:49,944 --> 00:27:51,980 It's in your name we pray. 609 00:27:52,015 --> 00:27:52,809 Amen. 610 00:28:05,062 --> 00:28:06,167 Dad, Dad. 611 00:28:06,201 --> 00:28:07,064 Yeah. 612 00:28:07,099 --> 00:28:08,065 Teach me to play guitar. 613 00:28:09,204 --> 00:28:10,447 What now? 614 00:28:10,481 --> 00:28:11,586 Yeah, I wanna write songs like you do. 615 00:28:11,620 --> 00:28:12,414 Look. 616 00:28:13,519 --> 00:28:14,520 What have you got? 617 00:28:18,524 --> 00:28:20,560 This is pretty good. 618 00:28:20,595 --> 00:28:23,667 Yeah, it's for Mom. 619 00:28:23,702 --> 00:28:24,668 You know what, here, you got it. 620 00:28:24,703 --> 00:28:26,394 Here, give me that guitar. 621 00:28:26,428 --> 00:28:27,740 Take the old man's guitar. 622 00:28:27,775 --> 00:28:30,501 Do you remember that E minor chord that I showed you 623 00:28:30,536 --> 00:28:31,261 a while back? - Yeah. 624 00:28:31,295 --> 00:28:32,124 Yeah? 625 00:28:32,158 --> 00:28:32,918 Let's see what you got. 626 00:28:34,091 --> 00:28:34,851 Here, take the pick. 627 00:28:34,885 --> 00:28:35,748 Try that. 628 00:28:36,749 --> 00:28:38,061 Yeah, you're right on the mark. 629 00:28:38,095 --> 00:28:38,855 Let's do another one. 630 00:28:38,889 --> 00:28:40,097 Do you remember D7? 631 00:28:41,512 --> 00:28:42,790 Yeah, one there. 632 00:28:42,824 --> 00:28:44,723 Actually, no, put this finger up here. 633 00:28:45,758 --> 00:28:46,863 Hit that. 634 00:28:46,897 --> 00:28:48,727 See how that works? 635 00:28:48,761 --> 00:28:49,797 Not bad, could be better. 636 00:28:49,831 --> 00:28:52,869 Very good! 637 00:28:57,701 --> 00:28:59,945 Hey, there you go. 638 00:28:59,979 --> 00:29:01,084 Thank you. 639 00:29:01,118 --> 00:29:03,465 Of course, you're welcome. 640 00:29:03,500 --> 00:29:07,746 So, did you enjoy group last time? 641 00:29:07,780 --> 00:29:09,955 I dunno, I'm starting to really like it. 642 00:29:09,989 --> 00:29:11,577 Like, it's helping me. 643 00:29:11,611 --> 00:29:12,751 Me too. 644 00:29:12,785 --> 00:29:14,787 I didn't think I could stop feeling angry 645 00:29:14,822 --> 00:29:15,892 or guilty about it all, 646 00:29:15,926 --> 00:29:18,101 but little by little, I am. 647 00:29:18,135 --> 00:29:19,861 That's good. 648 00:29:19,896 --> 00:29:20,966 Oh, there's Katie. 649 00:29:22,105 --> 00:29:23,002 Katie's here. 650 00:29:23,037 --> 00:29:25,798 Hi. 651 00:29:25,833 --> 00:29:26,799 Hey, Katie. 652 00:29:26,834 --> 00:29:27,627 Hi, hi. 653 00:29:29,940 --> 00:29:32,080 Katie, this is Andrew from group. 654 00:29:32,115 --> 00:29:35,049 Andrew, this is Katie, from like my whole life. 655 00:29:35,083 --> 00:29:36,050 Hi, hi, how you doing? 656 00:29:36,084 --> 00:29:37,327 Hi. 657 00:29:37,361 --> 00:29:39,812 So, you're the one that eats all the cookies. 658 00:29:39,847 --> 00:29:41,641 Um, how did you know? 659 00:29:47,026 --> 00:29:48,372 Hmm. 660 00:29:53,792 --> 00:29:55,138 Hey, Dad. 661 00:29:55,172 --> 00:29:56,208 Oh hey, pumpkin. 662 00:29:56,242 --> 00:29:57,243 How was your day? 663 00:29:57,278 --> 00:29:58,141 It was great. 664 00:29:58,175 --> 00:29:58,935 Oh, that's right, 665 00:29:58,969 --> 00:29:59,763 it was your third date. 666 00:29:59,798 --> 00:30:00,764 How'd it go? 667 00:30:00,799 --> 00:30:02,248 Dad, it's not a date. 668 00:30:02,283 --> 00:30:06,425 Alright, alright, it wasn't a date. 669 00:30:06,459 --> 00:30:08,841 Look, I got some dinner in the fridge for you, alright? 670 00:30:08,876 --> 00:30:10,153 Don't be up too late, school tomorrow. 671 00:30:10,187 --> 00:30:11,119 I won't. 672 00:30:11,154 --> 00:30:11,913 Thanks, Dad. - Alright, alright. 673 00:30:11,948 --> 00:30:12,811 Goodnight. 674 00:30:15,020 --> 00:30:16,815 We're gonna be okay, Abby, girl. 675 00:30:23,994 --> 00:30:25,893 So, I was thinking we could go to Mayfields. 676 00:30:25,927 --> 00:30:27,756 I heard they have a sale, so. 677 00:30:29,655 --> 00:30:31,795 Katie, Katie, are you okay? 678 00:30:33,797 --> 00:30:34,729 Sorry, what? 679 00:30:36,662 --> 00:30:38,284 Is everything alright? 680 00:30:40,735 --> 00:30:41,701 No, not really. 681 00:30:43,842 --> 00:30:46,154 Okay, I can just pull over. 682 00:30:52,851 --> 00:30:53,713 What's going on? 683 00:30:55,163 --> 00:30:56,233 Everything, Lindsey. 684 00:30:57,856 --> 00:30:58,753 Tell me. 685 00:31:02,136 --> 00:31:03,516 My mom has cancer. 686 00:31:04,932 --> 00:31:05,898 Stage four. 687 00:31:07,796 --> 00:31:08,901 What? 688 00:31:08,936 --> 00:31:12,525 I'm trying to be strong. 689 00:31:12,560 --> 00:31:13,664 We just found out. 690 00:31:14,873 --> 00:31:16,875 It's bad, but she said she's going to fight. 691 00:31:17,979 --> 00:31:19,118 I'm so sorry. 692 00:31:19,153 --> 00:31:20,464 God, I can't even... 693 00:31:20,499 --> 00:31:22,708 I don't know what to do. 694 00:31:23,916 --> 00:31:25,884 I don't want her to see me crying. 695 00:31:25,918 --> 00:31:26,988 I'm so scared. 696 00:31:28,024 --> 00:31:29,473 Hey, hey, it's gonna be okay. 697 00:31:29,508 --> 00:31:31,855 I'm gonna be here for you no matter what, okay? 698 00:31:35,824 --> 00:31:36,791 Thank you. 699 00:31:40,070 --> 00:31:41,900 How about we talk about some happy stuff? 700 00:31:41,934 --> 00:31:43,556 Okay. 701 00:31:43,591 --> 00:31:46,801 Isn't that, what's his face who's taking you to prom, 702 00:31:46,835 --> 00:31:47,767 that guy? 703 00:31:47,802 --> 00:31:48,837 Brett. 704 00:31:48,872 --> 00:31:52,427 Brett, the basketball guy, yeah. 705 00:31:52,462 --> 00:31:54,360 He hasn't asked me yet, 706 00:31:54,395 --> 00:31:56,397 but I was thinking it'd be fun 707 00:31:56,431 --> 00:31:59,227 if just a bunch of us went together. 708 00:31:59,262 --> 00:32:00,435 Yeah, gonna be fine. 709 00:32:00,470 --> 00:32:02,092 We can get a limo, ride in style. 710 00:32:05,647 --> 00:32:06,925 Love you, girl. 711 00:32:06,959 --> 00:32:07,926 It's gonna be okay. 712 00:32:18,695 --> 00:32:20,628 So, you excited for prom tonight? 713 00:32:20,662 --> 00:32:21,456 Yeah. 714 00:32:22,837 --> 00:32:23,803 Do you think it's weird, 715 00:32:23,838 --> 00:32:25,012 Lindsey and I decided not to go with any boys, 716 00:32:25,046 --> 00:32:27,428 and just go with our girlfriends? 717 00:32:27,462 --> 00:32:28,947 Oh, yeah, it's so weird, Kat, 718 00:32:30,534 --> 00:32:32,467 but better for your dad and I. 719 00:32:32,502 --> 00:32:33,917 Now, we don't have to do 720 00:32:33,952 --> 00:32:37,438 that whole crazy father parent thing that dads do. 721 00:32:42,512 --> 00:32:44,410 Here's the lovely Miss Lindsey. 722 00:32:44,445 --> 00:32:45,204 Hi! 723 00:32:46,136 --> 00:32:47,310 I'll be right back. 724 00:32:47,344 --> 00:32:49,105 Hello, Sara, how are you doing? 725 00:32:49,139 --> 00:32:50,761 I'm fighting hard. 726 00:32:50,796 --> 00:32:52,004 It's good to see you. 727 00:32:52,039 --> 00:32:53,937 It's good to see you too. 728 00:32:53,972 --> 00:32:55,111 Why don't we go get ready? 729 00:32:55,145 --> 00:32:56,698 Okay, bye. 730 00:32:56,733 --> 00:32:58,079 You girls have fun. 731 00:32:58,114 --> 00:32:59,115 Thank you, Mom. 732 00:33:04,051 --> 00:33:06,846 Sorry, I left my makeup bag. 733 00:33:06,881 --> 00:33:08,987 Actually, I'm glad you're here. 734 00:33:09,021 --> 00:33:10,574 Can you sit with me for a minute? 735 00:33:12,059 --> 00:33:12,991 Yeah, of course. 736 00:33:13,025 --> 00:33:13,992 What's wrong? 737 00:33:14,026 --> 00:33:16,028 I need your help, Lindsey. 738 00:33:16,063 --> 00:33:17,685 I don't have long. 739 00:33:18,927 --> 00:33:20,929 I'm struggling with it. 740 00:33:22,379 --> 00:33:26,004 And I know that Katie is not gonna do well when I'm gone. 741 00:33:28,006 --> 00:33:29,662 I wanna do something for her, 742 00:33:30,663 --> 00:33:32,010 that'll bring her comfort 743 00:33:33,183 --> 00:33:35,013 you know, during important times in her life. 744 00:33:36,531 --> 00:33:39,224 Will you help me make a video message for her? 745 00:33:41,019 --> 00:33:42,192 Yeah. 746 00:33:42,227 --> 00:33:44,022 Yeah, of course. 747 00:33:44,056 --> 00:33:46,231 And don't tell her. 748 00:33:48,026 --> 00:33:49,027 I'll entrust them to you, 749 00:33:50,407 --> 00:33:52,685 and you just make sure she gets them 750 00:33:52,720 --> 00:33:55,033 when the time's right, okay? 751 00:33:57,069 --> 00:33:59,727 Okay. 752 00:33:59,761 --> 00:34:00,831 You go on, get ready. 753 00:34:02,040 --> 00:34:05,388 I'll contact you to set up a day and time soon. 754 00:34:07,045 --> 00:34:08,046 I'll see you. 755 00:34:08,908 --> 00:34:09,702 Bye. 756 00:34:14,466 --> 00:34:15,777 - Tom? - Yes, dear. 757 00:34:15,812 --> 00:34:17,572 Can you bring me my Bible, please? 758 00:34:20,472 --> 00:34:22,025 Anything for you, my love. 759 00:34:25,132 --> 00:34:26,374 You mind if I read with you? 760 00:34:26,409 --> 00:34:27,203 No. 761 00:34:38,593 --> 00:34:40,181 Oh, oh, thank you. 762 00:34:42,252 --> 00:34:44,530 Katie sure did look beautiful for the prom tonight, 763 00:34:44,565 --> 00:34:45,324 didn't she? 764 00:34:45,359 --> 00:34:46,118 Oh, she did. 765 00:34:50,364 --> 00:34:51,606 There you go. 766 00:34:56,715 --> 00:34:57,923 Thank you, honey. 767 00:34:57,957 --> 00:34:59,787 Huh, for what? 768 00:34:59,821 --> 00:35:01,168 You know. 769 00:35:01,202 --> 00:35:02,410 What, for loving you? 770 00:35:04,102 --> 00:35:05,448 I love you, Tom. 771 00:35:06,587 --> 00:35:09,935 And I know you're going to do the right thing, 772 00:35:09,969 --> 00:35:12,213 and raise our daughter right. 773 00:35:13,145 --> 00:35:15,043 I'm not giving up on you, Sara. 774 00:35:16,183 --> 00:35:21,153 I know. 775 00:35:37,065 --> 00:35:38,515 Thank you for this, Lindsey. 776 00:35:38,550 --> 00:35:39,723 You're welcome, Sara. 777 00:35:40,897 --> 00:35:43,071 I know how much this is gonna mean to Katie. 778 00:35:44,280 --> 00:35:45,143 Right. 779 00:35:46,730 --> 00:35:48,146 It means everything to me too. 780 00:35:50,355 --> 00:35:52,874 I don't have much I can leave her, 781 00:35:54,393 --> 00:35:58,777 but reminders of how proud I am of her, 782 00:36:00,675 --> 00:36:01,676 how much I love her, 783 00:36:03,678 --> 00:36:05,646 bring me some peace. 784 00:36:05,680 --> 00:36:07,475 She's gonna be here in about 30 minutes, 785 00:36:07,510 --> 00:36:10,168 so we should get started. 786 00:36:12,204 --> 00:36:15,000 I'm just gonna put some lipstick on. 787 00:36:15,034 --> 00:36:16,139 Of course, 788 00:36:24,561 --> 00:36:25,666 How does that look? 789 00:36:26,667 --> 00:36:28,186 You look beautiful. 790 00:36:32,224 --> 00:36:34,675 Okay, I'm ready when you are. 791 00:36:38,679 --> 00:36:41,992 Katie, when you receive this message, 792 00:36:44,167 --> 00:36:48,965 I'll be with God and our savior, Jesus Christ, 793 00:36:48,999 --> 00:36:51,416 in heaven and free of pain. 794 00:36:55,385 --> 00:36:59,113 I will always be watching over you in spirit. 795 00:37:02,185 --> 00:37:04,187 And today is such a special day. 796 00:37:05,499 --> 00:37:09,227 You're graduating from high school with honors, 797 00:37:11,263 --> 00:37:13,231 and I'm so proud of you. 798 00:37:15,440 --> 00:37:17,373 I want you to enjoy it, 799 00:37:21,239 --> 00:37:25,243 and take tons of pictures with your friends and your dad. 800 00:37:26,830 --> 00:37:28,246 And enjoy that moment, 801 00:37:29,247 --> 00:37:30,455 when you move your tassel, 802 00:37:32,284 --> 00:37:33,803 and throw your hat in the air. 803 00:37:37,185 --> 00:37:41,259 Going to UF is going to be amazing for you, 804 00:37:44,227 --> 00:37:45,918 and I hope that you have 805 00:37:45,953 --> 00:37:49,163 a memorable college experience, honey. 806 00:37:51,338 --> 00:37:56,308 Katie, please try and go to church regularly. 807 00:37:58,310 --> 00:38:01,279 Read your Bible and pray. 808 00:38:04,316 --> 00:38:05,835 I've left my Bible for you, 809 00:38:09,010 --> 00:38:13,429 and I've had Pastor Mark notate all my favorite Bible verses 810 00:38:14,706 --> 00:38:16,017 for you to reference, 811 00:38:18,917 --> 00:38:20,021 and give you strength. 812 00:38:22,369 --> 00:38:25,095 I will always be with you. 813 00:38:29,376 --> 00:38:30,584 I love you, Katie. 814 00:38:42,009 --> 00:38:43,321 Okay, I got it. 815 00:38:46,496 --> 00:38:48,981 Lindsey, I have one more favor. 816 00:38:50,397 --> 00:38:51,329 Yeah. 817 00:38:53,883 --> 00:38:54,677 Anything. 818 00:38:56,851 --> 00:38:58,784 I got a graduation card for Katie. 819 00:39:02,029 --> 00:39:05,170 Can you make sure she gets it when she graduates? 820 00:39:08,484 --> 00:39:10,348 Yeah, of course. 821 00:39:11,694 --> 00:39:16,354 But you'll be able to give it to her, right? 822 00:39:20,392 --> 00:39:21,359 Appreciate it. 823 00:39:30,437 --> 00:39:32,162 Thank you so much for sharing, Rick, 824 00:39:32,197 --> 00:39:34,095 and let's put that in your memory book. 825 00:39:35,269 --> 00:39:36,374 Hello, Lindsey. 826 00:39:38,376 --> 00:39:39,756 - Hi. - Hey, Lindsey. 827 00:39:39,791 --> 00:39:41,344 I'm sorry I'm late. 828 00:39:41,379 --> 00:39:43,139 I was helping my friend's mom with something. 829 00:39:43,173 --> 00:39:44,036 No, that's okay. 830 00:39:44,071 --> 00:39:45,072 Sometimes we have things to do. 831 00:39:45,106 --> 00:39:46,349 Don't worry about it. 832 00:39:46,384 --> 00:39:48,075 Well, it wouldn't be the same without you. 833 00:39:49,352 --> 00:39:51,630 I'm having a hard time with this one. 834 00:39:51,665 --> 00:39:52,493 Why? 835 00:39:54,115 --> 00:39:57,843 It's my best friend's mom, she's dying, 836 00:39:57,878 --> 00:40:00,639 and I'm trying to do something special for Katie 837 00:40:00,674 --> 00:40:03,401 so she can have something after she's gone. 838 00:40:03,435 --> 00:40:06,024 Well, that's very sweet of you to help her. 839 00:40:06,058 --> 00:40:07,128 But are you okay? 840 00:40:08,302 --> 00:40:12,617 I am, but I can't stop thinking about my mom. 841 00:40:14,204 --> 00:40:16,621 Sometimes, it's just like I lost her all over again. 842 00:40:18,933 --> 00:40:21,108 Well, I'm sure what you're doing to help Katie 843 00:40:21,142 --> 00:40:22,454 will bring her great comfort. 844 00:40:24,456 --> 00:40:26,872 Well, I'm helping her mom make a video message for her, 845 00:40:26,907 --> 00:40:28,287 and I still have to edit it 846 00:40:28,322 --> 00:40:29,565 with some of her mom's favorite pictures at the end. 847 00:40:29,599 --> 00:40:33,327 But, I don't know. 848 00:40:33,361 --> 00:40:34,155 I like that. 849 00:40:35,536 --> 00:40:37,331 I'd love to see my brother again. 850 00:40:38,332 --> 00:40:39,816 Or my baby. 851 00:40:39,851 --> 00:40:40,645 Or my husband. 852 00:40:41,818 --> 00:40:42,612 My father. 853 00:40:43,786 --> 00:40:44,580 My mom. 854 00:40:46,513 --> 00:40:48,376 You know, I think we all have someone 855 00:40:48,411 --> 00:40:50,413 whose voice we'd love to hear again. 856 00:40:51,794 --> 00:40:54,072 I think it's very sweet of you to help your friend. 857 00:40:54,106 --> 00:40:56,626 And you know, you could always invite Katie here, you know? 858 00:40:56,661 --> 00:40:59,249 She doesn't have to wait until her mother passes 859 00:40:59,284 --> 00:41:00,630 to get support. 860 00:41:00,665 --> 00:41:01,976 I don't know. 861 00:41:02,011 --> 00:41:03,461 She's not ready to deal with her mom dying yet. 862 00:41:05,463 --> 00:41:07,188 And Sara's still fighting. 863 00:41:08,017 --> 00:41:09,087 Maybe she'll make it. 864 00:41:09,915 --> 00:41:10,675 It's true. 865 00:41:10,709 --> 00:41:11,503 We'll be praying. 866 00:41:12,849 --> 00:41:13,678 Thanks. 867 00:41:15,473 --> 00:41:16,335 Ava would you like 868 00:41:16,370 --> 00:41:17,129 to continue with your story? 869 00:41:17,164 --> 00:41:18,061 Alright. 870 00:41:18,096 --> 00:41:19,028 Oh, why don't you go ahead 871 00:41:19,062 --> 00:41:19,891 and check that? 872 00:41:19,925 --> 00:41:20,650 It doesn't happen often, 873 00:41:20,685 --> 00:41:22,100 it might be important. 874 00:41:22,134 --> 00:41:22,859 I'm so sorry. 875 00:41:22,894 --> 00:41:24,723 I have to go. 876 00:41:24,758 --> 00:41:25,517 No worries. 877 00:41:33,352 --> 00:41:35,769 Where are you? 878 00:41:40,636 --> 00:41:41,464 Dad, what happened? 879 00:41:41,499 --> 00:41:42,430 You're scaring me. 880 00:41:47,712 --> 00:41:49,507 Katie's mom passed away. 881 00:41:49,541 --> 00:41:50,577 Oh, I need to go see her. 882 00:41:50,611 --> 00:41:51,819 No, no, no, no, no, listen, you can't. 883 00:41:51,854 --> 00:41:53,441 They're at the hospital. 884 00:41:53,476 --> 00:41:54,926 You're not gonna be able to see them until tomorrow. 885 00:41:54,960 --> 00:41:55,720 I'm sorry. 886 00:41:57,411 --> 00:42:00,518 We finished just in time. 887 00:42:00,552 --> 00:42:03,210 What, what did you, what? 888 00:42:03,244 --> 00:42:04,487 What? 889 00:42:04,522 --> 00:42:06,385 Her mom and I, we made this video for Katie 890 00:42:06,420 --> 00:42:07,559 for her graduation. 891 00:42:09,457 --> 00:42:10,528 It's like, she knew. 892 00:42:12,564 --> 00:42:14,670 That's gonna mean the world to her. 893 00:42:14,704 --> 00:42:17,465 It's like losing Mom all over again. 894 00:42:17,500 --> 00:42:18,225 Yeah, I know. 895 00:42:18,259 --> 00:42:19,329 That's why I wanted to- 896 00:42:19,364 --> 00:42:20,641 Hey, Dad, I really, I really need to be alone. 897 00:42:20,676 --> 00:42:22,574 No, no, no just wait. 898 00:42:41,386 --> 00:42:42,732 This is so beautiful, Mom. 899 00:42:44,562 --> 00:42:46,564 I wonder what you would have said to me. 900 00:42:48,289 --> 00:42:49,774 But I know this will help Katie. 901 00:42:51,569 --> 00:42:52,535 I just know. 902 00:43:21,115 --> 00:43:23,911 I think Mom would have liked the ceremony. 903 00:43:23,946 --> 00:43:25,603 Yeah, I think so too. 904 00:43:31,609 --> 00:43:32,920 Does the pain ever go away? 905 00:43:34,646 --> 00:43:36,096 Honestly? 906 00:43:36,130 --> 00:43:38,098 It does and it doesn't. 907 00:43:41,101 --> 00:43:42,447 We'll never stop missing them. 908 00:43:44,276 --> 00:43:45,623 I don't know how you did it. 909 00:43:46,624 --> 00:43:47,417 It's so hard. 910 00:43:50,179 --> 00:43:52,906 Time, remember the good things. 911 00:43:54,770 --> 00:43:56,772 Mom, do you think I can do it? 912 00:43:56,806 --> 00:43:57,669 You can do it, Lindsey. 913 00:43:57,704 --> 00:43:58,739 I believe in you. 914 00:44:04,814 --> 00:44:06,885 I guess that sometimes helps. 915 00:44:07,852 --> 00:44:09,543 We graduate in one month. 916 00:44:11,649 --> 00:44:13,581 She wanted to be here so bad for that. 917 00:44:13,616 --> 00:44:15,100 Just one more month. 918 00:44:17,655 --> 00:44:20,381 I know this probably won't mean much right now, 919 00:44:23,143 --> 00:44:25,386 but I truly believe that she's here with us. 920 00:44:27,561 --> 00:44:28,666 She's with God now. 921 00:44:31,979 --> 00:44:32,980 It's not the same. 922 00:44:39,677 --> 00:44:40,436 Hey. 923 00:44:47,374 --> 00:44:48,686 Just, I wonder why she's not here yet. 924 00:44:48,720 --> 00:44:49,997 She's never late. 925 00:44:50,032 --> 00:44:51,240 I don't know. 926 00:44:51,274 --> 00:44:53,104 Maybe call her? 927 00:44:53,138 --> 00:44:54,519 I don't know. 928 00:44:54,553 --> 00:44:55,727 I have a really bad feeling about this, 929 00:44:55,762 --> 00:44:57,487 like she's not okay. 930 00:44:57,522 --> 00:44:58,868 I'm sure she's alright. 931 00:44:58,903 --> 00:45:00,490 Just call her. 932 00:45:00,525 --> 00:45:01,422 Okay, well. 933 00:45:03,735 --> 00:45:05,047 Oh, I bet that's her now. 934 00:45:11,363 --> 00:45:12,882 Everything okay? 935 00:45:12,917 --> 00:45:14,021 No, it's not. 936 00:45:14,056 --> 00:45:15,713 Katie's not okay. 937 00:45:15,747 --> 00:45:16,817 What happened? 938 00:45:16,852 --> 00:45:17,956 She said she's not coming. 939 00:45:17,991 --> 00:45:19,786 She said she can't stop crying. 940 00:45:20,856 --> 00:45:22,720 It's gonna be alright. 941 00:45:22,754 --> 00:45:24,549 What should I do? 942 00:45:24,583 --> 00:45:26,033 What can you do? 943 00:45:26,068 --> 00:45:28,760 I mean, I can go give her the message from her mom. 944 00:45:29,899 --> 00:45:31,487 I know it's supposed to be for the graduation, 945 00:45:31,521 --> 00:45:34,593 but I think she needs it now. 946 00:45:34,628 --> 00:45:35,733 You sure? 947 00:45:35,767 --> 00:45:36,906 I mean, it is your party. 948 00:45:38,494 --> 00:45:40,047 You sure? 949 00:45:40,082 --> 00:45:41,877 I don't know. 950 00:45:41,911 --> 00:45:43,844 Why do bad things happen to good people? 951 00:45:43,879 --> 00:45:45,259 I just don't understand. 952 00:45:45,294 --> 00:45:46,847 Hey, hey, hey, you know what? 953 00:45:46,882 --> 00:45:49,263 You know what, listen, 954 00:45:49,298 --> 00:45:50,782 I'll finish these decorations up, 955 00:45:50,817 --> 00:45:52,163 and you go see Katie. 956 00:45:52,197 --> 00:45:53,785 Deliver that message to her. 957 00:45:53,820 --> 00:45:54,717 Are you sure? 958 00:45:54,752 --> 00:45:55,718 I'm sure, alright. 959 00:45:55,753 --> 00:45:57,513 Parties come and go, 960 00:45:57,547 --> 00:45:59,032 but best friends are forever. 961 00:45:59,066 --> 00:46:00,067 Thank you. 962 00:46:17,775 --> 00:46:18,741 Katie. 963 00:46:19,949 --> 00:46:21,364 Lindsey. 964 00:46:21,399 --> 00:46:23,159 Hey, it's gonna be okay. 965 00:46:24,816 --> 00:46:25,679 I'm not so sure. 966 00:46:28,199 --> 00:46:30,304 I'm not ready to be without my mom. 967 00:46:30,339 --> 00:46:32,790 I know, I know, but she's with you. 968 00:46:32,824 --> 00:46:33,825 How would you know? 969 00:46:34,861 --> 00:46:36,310 I have something for you? 970 00:46:37,829 --> 00:46:39,831 I was supposed to give it to you after graduation, 971 00:46:39,866 --> 00:46:40,936 but I don't think your mom would mind 972 00:46:40,970 --> 00:46:41,868 if I gave it to you now. 973 00:46:41,902 --> 00:46:42,972 What do you mean, my mom? 974 00:46:43,007 --> 00:46:44,767 It's from your mom. 975 00:46:44,802 --> 00:46:45,906 She made it for you. 976 00:46:45,941 --> 00:46:46,907 What is this about? 977 00:46:46,942 --> 00:46:47,977 What is this? 978 00:46:48,012 --> 00:46:48,806 Just trust me. 979 00:46:51,981 --> 00:46:53,155 Watch it. 980 00:46:53,189 --> 00:46:57,193 Katie, when you receive this message, 981 00:46:58,850 --> 00:47:03,682 I'll be with God and our savior, Jesus Christ, 982 00:47:03,717 --> 00:47:06,444 in heaven and free of pain. 983 00:47:10,034 --> 00:47:13,831 I will always be watching over you in spirit. 984 00:47:17,006 --> 00:47:18,974 Today is such a special day. 985 00:47:20,423 --> 00:47:23,495 You're graduating from high school with honors, 986 00:47:26,257 --> 00:47:27,879 and I'm so proud of you. 987 00:47:30,917 --> 00:47:32,711 I want you to enjoy it. 988 00:47:32,746 --> 00:47:33,851 I'm sorry, Katie. 989 00:47:33,885 --> 00:47:35,853 I didn't mean to make you cry like this. 990 00:47:35,887 --> 00:47:37,164 - Take tons of pictures - No. 991 00:47:37,199 --> 00:47:38,890 with your friends and your dad. 992 00:47:38,925 --> 00:47:40,512 No, it's just so beautiful. 993 00:47:41,582 --> 00:47:43,446 And enjoy that moment. 994 00:47:43,481 --> 00:47:44,723 I miss her so much. 995 00:47:44,758 --> 00:47:45,586 When you move your tassel. 996 00:47:45,621 --> 00:47:46,829 Thank you. 997 00:47:46,864 --> 00:47:47,726 - Yeah. - And throw your hat 998 00:47:47,761 --> 00:47:49,349 in the air. 999 00:47:49,383 --> 00:47:51,213 Kat, you should come to group with me sometime. 1000 00:47:51,247 --> 00:47:52,007 Maybe. 1001 00:47:52,041 --> 00:47:53,077 Going to you UF, 1002 00:47:54,078 --> 00:47:55,251 - I'll just take it - is going to be 1003 00:47:55,286 --> 00:47:56,494 - one day at a time. - amazing for you. 1004 00:47:56,528 --> 00:47:57,322 Okay. 1005 00:47:57,357 --> 00:47:58,116 Katie. 1006 00:47:58,151 --> 00:48:00,808 Oh, open your card. 1007 00:48:00,843 --> 00:48:03,777 Please try and go to church regularly. 1008 00:48:04,951 --> 00:48:05,883 Read your Bible. 1009 00:48:07,885 --> 00:48:12,717 I, I've left my Bible for you. 1010 00:48:14,719 --> 00:48:15,858 Thank you. 1011 00:48:15,893 --> 00:48:17,032 And I've had Pastor Mark, 1012 00:48:17,066 --> 00:48:18,378 I have to go and show Dad, but thank you! 1013 00:48:18,412 --> 00:48:19,586 - notate all my favorite - Thank you so much. 1014 00:48:19,620 --> 00:48:20,794 - readings, - I really needed this. 1015 00:48:21,760 --> 00:48:22,692 for you to reference 1016 00:48:24,971 --> 00:48:26,248 and give you strength. 1017 00:48:28,836 --> 00:48:31,356 Dad, Dad, look, you have to come watch! 1018 00:48:31,391 --> 00:48:32,185 What's happening? 1019 00:48:32,219 --> 00:48:33,324 Look, just come watch. 1020 00:48:36,016 --> 00:48:36,879 What is it? 1021 00:48:36,914 --> 00:48:38,777 Just watch, trust me. 1022 00:48:38,812 --> 00:48:40,918 And I'm so proud of you. 1023 00:48:43,921 --> 00:48:45,301 I want you to enjoy it. 1024 00:48:46,820 --> 00:48:47,614 That's... 1025 00:48:48,787 --> 00:48:49,685 Mom. 1026 00:48:49,719 --> 00:48:50,893 Take tons of pictures. 1027 00:48:50,928 --> 00:48:53,585 She left it me for my graduation. 1028 00:48:53,620 --> 00:48:54,897 She remembered me. 1029 00:48:54,932 --> 00:48:56,968 And enjoy that moment, 1030 00:48:57,003 --> 00:48:58,280 when you move your tassel. 1031 00:48:58,314 --> 00:49:00,075 She's here with us. 1032 00:49:00,109 --> 00:49:01,421 And throw your hat in the air. 1033 00:49:01,455 --> 00:49:04,976 And she's with God watching over us. 1034 00:49:05,011 --> 00:49:06,633 Going to UF 1035 00:49:06,667 --> 00:49:08,842 is going to be amazing - She loves us. 1036 00:49:08,876 --> 00:49:10,395 for you. 1037 00:49:10,430 --> 00:49:11,224 Katie. 1038 00:49:19,404 --> 00:49:20,267 Hey, honey. 1039 00:49:20,302 --> 00:49:21,165 Hey, Dad. 1040 00:49:22,787 --> 00:49:23,995 Okay, I was just thinking, 1041 00:49:24,030 --> 00:49:26,998 you know that video that Sara made for Katie? 1042 00:49:27,033 --> 00:49:27,930 Yeah. 1043 00:49:27,965 --> 00:49:29,311 I mean, it really helped her. 1044 00:49:29,345 --> 00:49:30,898 You know, I thought it was gonna make her more sad, 1045 00:49:30,933 --> 00:49:32,693 but she was excited, 1046 00:49:32,728 --> 00:49:34,488 and she ran and told her dad. 1047 00:49:34,523 --> 00:49:36,145 Oh, I'm happy to hear that. 1048 00:49:36,180 --> 00:49:38,251 You know, I've been researching, 1049 00:49:38,285 --> 00:49:40,667 and I wanna do this for more people, you know? 1050 00:49:40,701 --> 00:49:44,050 Do you think I'm too young to start a nonprofit? 1051 00:49:44,084 --> 00:49:46,121 No, no, I don't think so. 1052 00:49:46,155 --> 00:49:47,639 Let's do a little research. 1053 00:49:48,951 --> 00:49:50,332 With a little faith, 1054 00:49:50,366 --> 00:49:52,541 I'm pretty sure you're the one that can do that. 1055 00:49:52,575 --> 00:49:53,438 Thanks, Dad. 1056 00:49:54,267 --> 00:49:55,199 Goodnight, alright? 1057 00:49:55,233 --> 00:49:56,027 Night. 1058 00:50:08,350 --> 00:50:09,627 Hey, come sit by me. 1059 00:50:11,077 --> 00:50:13,148 Katie, it's good to see you again. 1060 00:50:13,182 --> 00:50:14,011 Thank you. 1061 00:50:15,495 --> 00:50:17,531 Katie, you're Lindsey's friend? 1062 00:50:17,566 --> 00:50:19,947 Yeah, since elementary school. 1063 00:50:19,982 --> 00:50:22,157 Oh, well it's great to have you here with us. 1064 00:50:22,191 --> 00:50:23,020 Thank you. 1065 00:50:24,469 --> 00:50:27,058 I'm not sure I'm ready to talk about it yet, 1066 00:50:27,093 --> 00:50:28,991 but thank you. 1067 00:50:29,026 --> 00:50:29,992 That's quite alright. 1068 00:50:30,027 --> 00:50:31,028 Thank you for being here. 1069 00:50:31,062 --> 00:50:31,994 Alright, everyone, 1070 00:50:32,029 --> 00:50:32,995 let's go ahead and get started. 1071 00:50:33,030 --> 00:50:34,307 You know, as always, 1072 00:50:34,341 --> 00:50:35,549 I like to just put a little reminder out there, 1073 00:50:35,584 --> 00:50:37,275 about what we do here in this group. 1074 00:50:37,310 --> 00:50:40,554 Our grief support group is a place of healing and hope. 1075 00:50:40,589 --> 00:50:43,350 We like to remember our loved ones out loud. 1076 00:50:43,385 --> 00:50:44,627 You know, we share stories, 1077 00:50:44,662 --> 00:50:47,078 we share memories good and bad, 1078 00:50:47,113 --> 00:50:48,873 and more importantly, we support each other 1079 00:50:48,907 --> 00:50:51,324 and move through the sadness of loss 1080 00:50:51,358 --> 00:50:53,015 to find the comfort 1081 00:50:53,050 --> 00:50:55,569 in knowing that our loved ones remain in our heart, 1082 00:50:55,604 --> 00:50:57,502 and in our memories forever. 1083 00:50:57,537 --> 00:50:58,814 Now, before we get started, 1084 00:50:58,848 --> 00:51:01,092 I'd like to have our guest introduce herself, 1085 00:51:01,127 --> 00:51:03,094 and then we'll go ahead and share some stories. 1086 00:51:03,129 --> 00:51:05,545 Hi, everyone, I'm Katie. 1087 00:51:07,926 --> 00:51:10,101 I lost my mom to cancer. 1088 00:51:10,136 --> 00:51:11,965 I'm just taking it one day at a time. 1089 00:51:13,242 --> 00:51:14,692 Well, thank you for being here, Katie. 1090 00:51:14,726 --> 00:51:16,418 This is a great place of healing, 1091 00:51:16,452 --> 00:51:18,523 and to know you're not alone in this process. 1092 00:51:18,558 --> 00:51:21,561 Pastor, Katie's the one I helped make the video for. 1093 00:51:21,595 --> 00:51:22,734 Oh, that's great. 1094 00:51:22,769 --> 00:51:24,253 We've heard great things. 1095 00:51:24,288 --> 00:51:25,910 How did it make you feel, Katie? 1096 00:51:27,222 --> 00:51:30,535 Honestly, until Lindsey showed me that video, 1097 00:51:30,570 --> 00:51:33,055 I didn't know I was going to be okay. 1098 00:51:33,090 --> 00:51:35,713 But seeing my mom and hearing her voice, 1099 00:51:35,747 --> 00:51:38,543 I felt so close to her, close to God. 1100 00:51:38,578 --> 00:51:40,338 I was angry until that moment. 1101 00:51:41,305 --> 00:51:42,375 I showed my dad right away, 1102 00:51:42,409 --> 00:51:44,101 and we laughed and cried 1103 00:51:44,135 --> 00:51:48,277 and pulled out the family videos and photo albums. 1104 00:51:49,175 --> 00:51:51,108 And I mean, it helped us realize 1105 00:51:51,142 --> 00:51:53,627 that my mom was always going to be with us. 1106 00:51:55,112 --> 00:51:56,699 I just wish Lindsey would've gotten a video like that 1107 00:51:56,734 --> 00:51:57,666 from her mom. 1108 00:51:58,632 --> 00:51:59,461 Me too. 1109 00:52:02,119 --> 00:52:03,603 Yeah. 1110 00:52:03,637 --> 00:52:07,124 Well, I mean, I bet everyone would like to hear a message 1111 00:52:07,158 --> 00:52:08,263 from their loved ones. 1112 00:52:12,508 --> 00:52:14,579 I think that's a wonderful legacy to leave, 1113 00:52:14,614 --> 00:52:18,135 you know, for anyone's loved one. 1114 00:52:18,169 --> 00:52:20,965 Yeah, I think getting a message from your loved one 1115 00:52:20,999 --> 00:52:22,484 can be really comforting. 1116 00:52:22,518 --> 00:52:24,141 - The legacy of love. - Yeah. 1117 00:52:24,175 --> 00:52:25,970 Pastor, I've been thinking about this a lot, 1118 00:52:26,004 --> 00:52:27,316 and I think there's a way 1119 00:52:27,351 --> 00:52:30,423 that we can channel all of our pain and our suffering, 1120 00:52:30,457 --> 00:52:32,010 into something that can help others 1121 00:52:32,045 --> 00:52:34,116 who are grieving like us one day. 1122 00:52:34,151 --> 00:52:35,186 What do you mean? 1123 00:52:35,221 --> 00:52:36,636 Well, I've been researching, 1124 00:52:36,670 --> 00:52:39,156 and I think a nonprofit could be created. 1125 00:52:39,190 --> 00:52:41,399 Call it the Living Legacy of Love. 1126 00:52:41,434 --> 00:52:44,022 We can reach out to those who soon may be transitioning, 1127 00:52:44,057 --> 00:52:46,853 and help them leave messages for their loved ones. 1128 00:52:46,887 --> 00:52:48,026 I'd be down. 1129 00:52:48,061 --> 00:52:48,993 You could help out a lot of people. 1130 00:52:49,027 --> 00:52:50,788 - Yeah. - I'd be game. 1131 00:52:50,822 --> 00:52:52,169 We should do it. 1132 00:52:52,203 --> 00:52:53,170 Wait, what? 1133 00:52:54,550 --> 00:52:57,657 Do you really think that you can help these people? 1134 00:52:57,691 --> 00:53:00,211 What if you cause more pain? 1135 00:53:00,246 --> 00:53:02,662 Like, are you really thinking this through? 1136 00:53:02,696 --> 00:53:03,835 I hadn't thought about that. 1137 00:53:03,870 --> 00:53:06,286 I just know what I witnessed with Katie. 1138 00:53:06,321 --> 00:53:09,220 Yeah, I mean, I get what you're saying, 1139 00:53:09,255 --> 00:53:13,086 but what if it actually does provide comfort? 1140 00:53:13,120 --> 00:53:14,087 What if? 1141 00:53:15,192 --> 00:53:16,607 You don't know that. 1142 00:53:16,641 --> 00:53:17,849 I understand where you're coming from, 1143 00:53:17,884 --> 00:53:19,713 but I think it could bring more love, 1144 00:53:19,748 --> 00:53:21,715 and a reminder to a deeper connection 1145 00:53:21,750 --> 00:53:23,027 with those who passed on. 1146 00:53:23,061 --> 00:53:24,477 Yeah, that's what I was thinking. 1147 00:53:24,511 --> 00:53:25,892 Well, I'd like to know more. 1148 00:53:25,926 --> 00:53:26,755 Yeah. 1149 00:53:28,619 --> 00:53:30,862 I'm not saying I don't approve of this, 1150 00:53:32,209 --> 00:53:37,214 but what if you're reminding them of what they lost? 1151 00:53:38,284 --> 00:53:39,526 I can't speak for other people, 1152 00:53:39,561 --> 00:53:42,909 but that message gave me strength. 1153 00:53:42,943 --> 00:53:43,737 It gave me hope. 1154 00:53:44,945 --> 00:53:46,706 I mean, it's worth a shot. 1155 00:53:46,740 --> 00:53:49,018 Losing someone you love is just too painful. 1156 00:53:50,848 --> 00:53:52,159 How do we start? 1157 00:53:52,194 --> 00:53:54,231 Well, we start where there's the most need. 1158 00:53:54,265 --> 00:53:58,200 Hospice, hospitals, assisted living, you know, 1159 00:53:58,235 --> 00:53:59,581 things like that. 1160 00:53:59,615 --> 00:54:02,342 Yeah, and we can, we can, 1161 00:54:02,377 --> 00:54:03,930 We could make flyers! 1162 00:54:03,964 --> 00:54:05,863 Yeah, and we can let them know it's free, and- 1163 00:54:05,897 --> 00:54:06,829 That'd be so cool. 1164 00:54:06,864 --> 00:54:07,968 And I bet a lot of people would help out. 1165 00:54:08,003 --> 00:54:08,797 Yeah, totally. 1166 00:54:09,798 --> 00:54:11,420 I'm not crazy about the idea, 1167 00:54:13,250 --> 00:54:16,045 but I work at an assisted living facility. 1168 00:54:17,288 --> 00:54:19,635 I can ask if you can speak with the residents. 1169 00:54:19,670 --> 00:54:21,119 You can bring your flyers. 1170 00:54:21,154 --> 00:54:23,260 That would be so awesome. 1171 00:54:23,294 --> 00:54:25,296 I do know that the community center 1172 00:54:25,331 --> 00:54:27,264 rents out camera equipment from time to time. 1173 00:54:27,298 --> 00:54:28,437 I can talk to them. 1174 00:54:28,472 --> 00:54:29,749 And, you know, I mean, you know, 1175 00:54:29,783 --> 00:54:31,164 I think we should do this, you know? 1176 00:54:31,198 --> 00:54:33,408 But we have to make sure we do it the right way. 1177 00:54:33,442 --> 00:54:35,375 Okay, well, my dad's already set up. 1178 00:54:35,410 --> 00:54:37,343 He's trying to get the nonprofit rolling. 1179 00:54:37,377 --> 00:54:39,931 And it'd be great if you all wanted to join. 1180 00:54:41,036 --> 00:54:41,968 I wanna help. 1181 00:54:43,003 --> 00:54:44,936 It's brought me so much comfort. 1182 00:54:44,971 --> 00:54:45,765 I want to. 1183 00:54:47,145 --> 00:54:48,319 You know, I'll go ahead 1184 00:54:48,354 --> 00:54:49,803 and get in contact with your father. 1185 00:54:49,838 --> 00:54:52,254 That way we can kind of have this thing all taken care of. 1186 00:54:52,289 --> 00:54:54,256 And you know, I'd like to talk about it more in depth 1187 00:54:54,291 --> 00:54:55,844 after the, after group, okay? 1188 00:54:56,983 --> 00:54:58,260 Thank you. 1189 00:55:07,649 --> 00:55:09,582 Pastor John, I have good news. 1190 00:55:09,616 --> 00:55:10,997 Well, you must have with that smile. 1191 00:55:11,031 --> 00:55:12,309 Go ahead and tell me. 1192 00:55:12,343 --> 00:55:14,138 My dad says a Living Legacy of Love 1193 00:55:14,172 --> 00:55:15,933 is ready to begin helping people. 1194 00:55:15,967 --> 00:55:17,279 Well, that is good news. 1195 00:55:17,314 --> 00:55:18,349 Okay, well, let's let everybody know 1196 00:55:18,384 --> 00:55:20,213 to get ready to distribute these flyers, 1197 00:55:20,247 --> 00:55:22,077 and we can start spreading the word. 1198 00:55:22,111 --> 00:55:24,321 Well here, what do you think of this? 1199 00:55:25,563 --> 00:55:27,185 I love it. 1200 00:55:27,220 --> 00:55:28,255 Well, good. 1201 00:55:28,290 --> 00:55:29,360 Call Katie and Andy, 1202 00:55:29,395 --> 00:55:30,465 let them know the flyers are ready, 1203 00:55:30,499 --> 00:55:31,742 and the shirts will be done in a few days. 1204 00:55:31,776 --> 00:55:32,536 I will. 1205 00:55:32,570 --> 00:55:34,296 We need to put these everywhere. 1206 00:55:34,331 --> 00:55:36,160 I hope people will respond. 1207 00:55:36,194 --> 00:55:37,506 I believe they will. 1208 00:55:37,541 --> 00:55:38,335 I do too. 1209 00:55:43,995 --> 00:55:46,343 Hey, Pastor John, I put flyers everywhere. 1210 00:55:46,377 --> 00:55:47,171 Oh, good work, Andy. 1211 00:55:47,205 --> 00:55:48,172 Thank you. 1212 00:55:48,206 --> 00:55:48,966 Now what? 1213 00:55:49,000 --> 00:55:50,692 Do we do more flyers? 1214 00:55:50,726 --> 00:55:52,970 Guys, why hasn't anyone called yet? 1215 00:55:53,004 --> 00:55:54,661 Maybe I'm wrong. 1216 00:55:54,696 --> 00:55:56,387 No, you're not wrong. 1217 00:55:56,422 --> 00:55:57,871 Ladies, have faith, you know? 1218 00:55:57,906 --> 00:55:58,838 We're meant to help people. 1219 00:55:58,872 --> 00:56:00,391 Just give it some time. 1220 00:56:08,365 --> 00:56:10,574 Hi, this is the Living Legacy of Love. 1221 00:56:12,092 --> 00:56:14,301 Hi, can I talk to Lindsey? 1222 00:56:14,336 --> 00:56:15,372 This is Lindsey. 1223 00:56:16,407 --> 00:56:18,513 Well, Lindsey, I just got your flyer, 1224 00:56:18,547 --> 00:56:21,032 and I would like to record a message 1225 00:56:21,067 --> 00:56:22,344 for my daughter. 1226 00:56:22,379 --> 00:56:23,380 Yeah, of course. 1227 00:56:23,414 --> 00:56:25,174 What time do you want us to come? 1228 00:56:26,590 --> 00:56:28,177 Wednesday at six? 1229 00:56:28,212 --> 00:56:29,903 Okay, we'll be there. 1230 00:56:29,938 --> 00:56:31,077 Thank you so much. 1231 00:56:32,768 --> 00:56:35,564 Guys, we just got our first client. 1232 00:56:35,599 --> 00:56:37,014 Wow. 1233 00:56:37,048 --> 00:56:38,429 - Let's go! - That's awesome. 1234 00:56:38,464 --> 00:56:39,292 Go! 1235 00:56:40,707 --> 00:56:42,019 That's very awesome. 1236 00:56:48,888 --> 00:56:50,614 Hey, Brian, nice to meet you. 1237 00:56:50,648 --> 00:56:51,649 Hey, how you doing, man? 1238 00:56:51,684 --> 00:56:52,926 - Good, good. - Hey, Brian. 1239 00:56:52,961 --> 00:56:54,169 - Pleased to meet you. - How are you guys? 1240 00:56:54,203 --> 00:56:56,654 - Good. - Oh man, I've been better. 1241 00:56:56,689 --> 00:56:58,449 I love what you guys do here. 1242 00:56:58,484 --> 00:56:59,381 Well, we're glad you're here. 1243 00:56:59,416 --> 00:57:00,313 Thank you. 1244 00:57:00,347 --> 00:57:01,348 We'll give you a hand with- 1245 00:57:01,383 --> 00:57:02,315 Oh, thank you, thank you. 1246 00:57:02,349 --> 00:57:03,350 Yeah, I got it, I got it. 1247 00:57:03,385 --> 00:57:04,628 Thank you, you're too kind. 1248 00:57:08,425 --> 00:57:09,391 How you doing, man? 1249 00:57:09,426 --> 00:57:10,772 Oh, I've been a little better. 1250 00:57:10,806 --> 00:57:13,913 But, one day at a time. 1251 00:57:13,947 --> 00:57:17,295 But hey, I was wondering, 1252 00:57:18,435 --> 00:57:20,471 can you visit my little brother for me? 1253 00:57:20,506 --> 00:57:22,059 He's gonna need someone 1254 00:57:22,093 --> 00:57:24,406 to teach him how to ride his board. 1255 00:57:24,441 --> 00:57:25,718 - Yeah. - You know, 1256 00:57:25,752 --> 00:57:29,100 it was only the beginning before this happened. 1257 00:57:29,135 --> 00:57:30,412 Yeah, yeah, I got you. 1258 00:57:30,447 --> 00:57:32,103 What's his name? 1259 00:57:32,138 --> 00:57:33,588 His name is Jake. 1260 00:57:33,622 --> 00:57:36,073 Yeah, yeah, I'll deliver it myself. 1261 00:57:36,107 --> 00:57:37,419 Oh, thank you, man, thank you. 1262 00:57:37,454 --> 00:57:40,077 Oh, one more thing? 1263 00:57:40,111 --> 00:57:41,043 Yeah, what is it? 1264 00:57:42,597 --> 00:57:43,977 50, actually. 1265 00:57:44,012 --> 00:57:45,772 What do you mean? 1266 00:57:45,807 --> 00:57:47,429 It's, it's for my dad. 1267 00:57:49,673 --> 00:57:51,847 Yeah, there's a few notes and whatnot for my mom, 1268 00:57:51,882 --> 00:57:54,367 but his birthday is next month. 1269 00:57:58,785 --> 00:58:00,200 That's so sweet. 1270 00:58:01,547 --> 00:58:02,617 Thanks. 1271 00:58:02,651 --> 00:58:05,205 Hopefully he can get some laughs out of it. 1272 00:58:06,552 --> 00:58:07,932 You know, we are pretty close, 1273 00:58:07,967 --> 00:58:10,901 and he hasn't been taking this very well. 1274 00:58:16,803 --> 00:58:19,530 Well, Brian, we're actually just about ready. 1275 00:58:19,565 --> 00:58:20,497 How you doing? 1276 00:58:21,532 --> 00:58:22,982 Oh, I've been better, 1277 00:58:23,016 --> 00:58:24,293 but I'm gonna say, 1278 00:58:24,328 --> 00:58:26,641 this is, this is great. 1279 00:58:28,470 --> 00:58:31,093 I'm just thankful I could even do this. 1280 00:58:31,128 --> 00:58:33,440 Hopefully it brings me some peace. 1281 00:58:33,475 --> 00:58:35,235 Well, before we all start crying, 1282 00:58:36,202 --> 00:58:37,755 Brian, you ready? 1283 00:58:39,067 --> 00:58:42,898 Just tell me when. 1284 00:58:42,933 --> 00:58:45,487 Whenever you're ready, the camera's rolling. 1285 00:58:45,522 --> 00:58:46,350 Alright. 1286 00:58:48,490 --> 00:58:53,426 So, Dad, I hear you're turning 50 next month, man. 1287 00:58:56,153 --> 00:58:57,499 Oh, geez. 1288 00:58:57,534 --> 00:58:59,536 Looks like you're heading over that hill, huh? 1289 00:59:01,089 --> 00:59:03,540 Look, I just, I just wanted to wish you happy birthday. 1290 00:59:04,782 --> 00:59:09,200 Mom, give the old man a hug from me, yeah? 1291 00:59:13,411 --> 00:59:18,209 Look, Mom, I'm sure when you had children, you know, 1292 00:59:20,108 --> 00:59:25,113 this wasn't exactly what you had in mind for our future 1293 00:59:25,320 --> 00:59:26,114 or anything. 1294 00:59:28,288 --> 00:59:33,328 But I just want to let you know, 1295 00:59:39,058 --> 00:59:42,061 even though my time here is short, 1296 00:59:48,136 --> 00:59:49,620 I had a wonderful life. 1297 00:59:50,863 --> 00:59:52,865 I couldn't have asked for a better family. 1298 00:59:55,902 --> 00:59:58,077 I'm always gonna be watching over you, kid. 1299 00:59:59,147 --> 01:00:00,493 Because God has a plan. 1300 01:00:02,840 --> 01:00:04,566 So, remember these two things, 1301 01:00:08,605 --> 01:00:09,640 keep your faith, 1302 01:00:11,504 --> 01:00:12,678 and I will always love you. 1303 01:00:17,510 --> 01:00:22,066 Thank you for giving me such a wonderful life. 1304 01:00:39,705 --> 01:00:40,878 He was really sweet. 1305 01:00:42,639 --> 01:00:43,398 He was. 1306 01:00:45,193 --> 01:00:47,333 It must be hard for them, 1307 01:00:47,367 --> 01:00:49,197 not having their parents know who they are. 1308 01:00:51,026 --> 01:00:52,994 I mean, at least they have each other. 1309 01:00:54,858 --> 01:00:56,549 Yeah. 1310 01:00:56,583 --> 01:00:58,551 Me and Josh really needed each other when my mom died. 1311 01:00:59,690 --> 01:01:01,450 I never realized just how much. 1312 01:01:02,624 --> 01:01:05,662 No, it isn't easy what we're doing. 1313 01:01:05,696 --> 01:01:10,667 It, you know, it doesn't make the pain and loss go away. 1314 01:01:12,151 --> 01:01:14,360 But I hope that it makes them feel less alone. 1315 01:01:15,326 --> 01:01:18,157 Yeah, me too. 1316 01:01:27,338 --> 01:01:29,651 I can't believe we've already helped 50 people. 1317 01:01:29,686 --> 01:01:30,721 Yeah, I know, it's crazy. 1318 01:01:30,756 --> 01:01:32,309 We've helped a lot of people out. 1319 01:01:32,343 --> 01:01:34,760 Like, I was thinking people, like, wouldn't like my idea, 1320 01:01:34,794 --> 01:01:37,728 but it's helped people so much to see their loved ones, 1321 01:01:37,763 --> 01:01:38,833 you know? - Yeah, yeah, 1322 01:01:38,867 --> 01:01:40,835 I mean, we're impacting a lot of lives. 1323 01:01:40,869 --> 01:01:43,734 A lot of people are gonna be impacted by what we're doing. 1324 01:01:43,769 --> 01:01:44,977 And there's hundreds more. 1325 01:01:45,011 --> 01:01:46,703 It can never end. 1326 01:01:46,737 --> 01:01:47,807 We could do this forever. 1327 01:01:47,842 --> 01:01:49,257 Yeah. 1328 01:01:49,291 --> 01:01:50,085 I can't. 1329 01:01:52,363 --> 01:01:53,537 Hey Linds? 1330 01:01:53,571 --> 01:01:55,090 Yeah? 1331 01:01:55,125 --> 01:01:58,991 I was thinking maybe, maybe we can go to dinner sometime? 1332 01:01:59,025 --> 01:02:00,164 Hang out a bit. - That'd be fun. 1333 01:02:00,199 --> 01:02:02,719 We can invite Katie. 1334 01:02:02,753 --> 01:02:03,685 Hey. 1335 01:02:03,720 --> 01:02:04,548 Hey, Ricky. 1336 01:02:05,445 --> 01:02:06,861 - Got my camera. - What's up? 1337 01:02:07,724 --> 01:02:09,518 Yeah, we're good. 1338 01:02:09,553 --> 01:02:12,073 Yeah, but I was thinking more me and you, 1339 01:02:12,107 --> 01:02:13,246 more of a me and you thing. 1340 01:02:13,281 --> 01:02:14,834 Not really all of us. 1341 01:02:14,869 --> 01:02:16,594 Like a date? 1342 01:02:16,629 --> 01:02:18,148 Yeah, if you want to. 1343 01:02:18,182 --> 01:02:19,356 - No, no, yeah, of course. - I'm not trying 1344 01:02:19,390 --> 01:02:20,115 to pressure you but- 1345 01:02:20,150 --> 01:02:22,393 Yeah, I can call Katie later. 1346 01:02:22,428 --> 01:02:23,463 Okay, yeah. 1347 01:02:25,120 --> 01:02:26,294 You ready to? 1348 01:02:27,571 --> 01:02:28,710 Let's get out of here. 1349 01:02:28,745 --> 01:02:33,542 Mikey, Michael, by the time you see this, 1350 01:02:34,889 --> 01:02:36,442 you'll be heading off to college, or you better be. 1351 01:02:38,340 --> 01:02:40,342 But I'll be proud of you no matter what. 1352 01:02:41,792 --> 01:02:43,380 Cut. 1353 01:02:43,414 --> 01:02:44,761 One down, two to go. 1354 01:02:46,555 --> 01:02:48,074 You're strong, man. 1355 01:02:48,109 --> 01:02:49,766 It must be hard doing this so many times. 1356 01:02:49,800 --> 01:02:51,146 Yeah, it is. 1357 01:02:51,181 --> 01:02:53,873 But hey, maybe we'll get lucky and we won't need them. 1358 01:02:53,908 --> 01:02:55,772 They say I got some time. 1359 01:02:55,806 --> 01:02:56,773 I'm starting chemo. 1360 01:02:58,119 --> 01:03:00,224 But I knew that when I saw this, 1361 01:03:00,259 --> 01:03:02,468 that it was a great opportunity 1362 01:03:02,502 --> 01:03:05,022 to leave something beautiful for my family, 1363 01:03:05,057 --> 01:03:06,990 just in case. 1364 01:03:07,853 --> 01:03:09,475 Well, why this park? 1365 01:03:10,303 --> 01:03:11,166 I've always been a runner. 1366 01:03:11,201 --> 01:03:13,203 It's the only way I can unwind. 1367 01:03:14,480 --> 01:03:16,793 I bring the kids with me on shorter runs, 1368 01:03:16,827 --> 01:03:19,450 and we always stop here, right at this bench. 1369 01:03:20,693 --> 01:03:24,352 We just, you know, talk and laugh and goof off. 1370 01:03:25,560 --> 01:03:27,769 That's a great reason to pick this place. 1371 01:03:29,115 --> 01:03:31,842 Ready for another? 1372 01:03:31,877 --> 01:03:33,326 Ready. 1373 01:03:33,361 --> 01:03:34,465 Camera's rolling. 1374 01:03:35,363 --> 01:03:36,847 I just want you to know 1375 01:03:36,882 --> 01:03:40,264 that you have always amazed me with your brilliance, 1376 01:03:40,299 --> 01:03:42,853 your ability to solve problems. 1377 01:03:42,888 --> 01:03:44,682 You are such a kind soul. 1378 01:03:46,339 --> 01:03:48,031 I did a good job with you. 1379 01:03:48,065 --> 01:03:49,964 Ah, your mom helped a little. 1380 01:03:52,000 --> 01:03:54,831 What I'm saying is I love you. 1381 01:03:56,315 --> 01:03:57,799 And as you graduate, 1382 01:03:57,834 --> 01:04:01,044 know that I am with you and watching over you always. 1383 01:04:02,459 --> 01:04:03,667 So, say your prayers, 1384 01:04:03,701 --> 01:04:05,842 and believe that great things can happen, 1385 01:04:07,050 --> 01:04:09,017 because they can and they do. 1386 01:04:11,468 --> 01:04:14,747 And keep me in your life by remembering me out loud. 1387 01:04:16,369 --> 01:04:18,647 Go with your mom to church. 1388 01:04:18,682 --> 01:04:19,856 Seek comfort in God, 1389 01:04:19,890 --> 01:04:23,860 because God and I, we got you. 1390 01:04:26,621 --> 01:04:27,415 I love you, kid. 1391 01:04:28,899 --> 01:04:29,866 You did good. 1392 01:04:46,952 --> 01:04:50,196 I can't believe how many people we've helped so far. 1393 01:04:50,231 --> 01:04:52,405 It's a blessing for us and for them. 1394 01:04:52,440 --> 01:04:54,856 I feel like this is my purpose, you know, 1395 01:04:54,891 --> 01:04:55,961 to help these people. 1396 01:04:55,995 --> 01:04:56,858 I don't- 1397 01:04:56,893 --> 01:04:58,584 Excuse me. 1398 01:04:58,618 --> 01:05:00,862 Hi, yes, how many we help you? 1399 01:05:00,897 --> 01:05:02,588 My name's Rebecca Alton. 1400 01:05:02,622 --> 01:05:03,865 I got a call from someone 1401 01:05:03,900 --> 01:05:05,867 that my mother left something for me here? 1402 01:05:05,902 --> 01:05:07,006 Yes, hi, Rebecca. 1403 01:05:07,041 --> 01:05:08,870 Yeah, hi, I'm Lindsey. 1404 01:05:08,905 --> 01:05:10,872 We do have something from you, 1405 01:05:10,907 --> 01:05:12,770 actually from your mother. 1406 01:05:14,186 --> 01:05:16,913 My mom passed away a few weeks ago, so how can you? 1407 01:05:16,947 --> 01:05:18,569 Well, Rebecca, we met your mother two months ago, 1408 01:05:18,604 --> 01:05:20,917 and she left you a message. 1409 01:05:20,951 --> 01:05:22,090 Would you like to watch it now? 1410 01:05:22,125 --> 01:05:23,920 Please, it'll bring you comfort. 1411 01:05:23,954 --> 01:05:24,921 She loves you. 1412 01:05:26,267 --> 01:05:28,510 I'm not sure that I understand that, but okay. 1413 01:05:33,412 --> 01:05:34,758 My darling little girl, 1414 01:05:36,967 --> 01:05:38,141 when you watch this, 1415 01:05:38,175 --> 01:05:40,246 I will have moved on to be with the Lord, 1416 01:05:41,627 --> 01:05:43,767 but I will always be with you 1417 01:05:44,871 --> 01:05:46,321 on the journey through this life. 1418 01:05:48,013 --> 01:05:50,532 I want you to know, I love you, 1419 01:05:51,430 --> 01:05:53,363 I'm so proud of you, 1420 01:05:53,397 --> 01:05:56,504 and you will never be alone. 1421 01:05:56,538 --> 01:06:00,163 I'm always be with you in your heart. 1422 01:06:01,371 --> 01:06:02,510 I'm watching over you. 1423 01:06:04,581 --> 01:06:06,583 I love you, Mom. 1424 01:06:06,617 --> 01:06:07,964 I love you, Rebecca. 1425 01:06:33,920 --> 01:06:35,992 Excuse me, sir. 1426 01:06:38,063 --> 01:06:39,719 What do you want? 1427 01:06:39,754 --> 01:06:40,997 I'm sorry to bother you. 1428 01:06:41,031 --> 01:06:42,895 I'm from a Living Legacy of Love. 1429 01:06:42,929 --> 01:06:45,070 Your son, Brian, sent me. 1430 01:06:45,104 --> 01:06:48,073 Robert, Robert? 1431 01:06:50,040 --> 01:06:51,179 What's going on here? 1432 01:06:51,214 --> 01:06:54,182 This guy, he said that Brian sent him. 1433 01:06:56,529 --> 01:06:57,530 Why? 1434 01:06:57,565 --> 01:06:58,876 Brian's dead, leave! 1435 01:06:58,911 --> 01:07:00,671 Jake, Jake, please. 1436 01:07:00,706 --> 01:07:01,983 Brian sent us for you. 1437 01:07:02,018 --> 01:07:03,053 Why? 1438 01:07:03,088 --> 01:07:05,297 He said you needed a big brother figure. 1439 01:07:05,331 --> 01:07:06,953 He wanted me to teach you. 1440 01:07:06,988 --> 01:07:09,473 I don't need anything from you. 1441 01:07:09,508 --> 01:07:11,475 Jake, please just listen to me. 1442 01:07:12,614 --> 01:07:14,168 I understand what you're going through. 1443 01:07:14,202 --> 01:07:15,410 I lost my brother too. 1444 01:07:16,894 --> 01:07:20,001 We just wanna share the message that Brian left for you. 1445 01:07:20,036 --> 01:07:22,072 I can leave this here and go? 1446 01:07:22,107 --> 01:07:23,867 Come on, let's go. 1447 01:07:23,901 --> 01:07:24,902 Come inside. 1448 01:07:24,937 --> 01:07:25,731 Let's talk. 1449 01:07:32,841 --> 01:07:34,015 I don't understand. 1450 01:07:34,050 --> 01:07:36,017 What is it that Brian did? 1451 01:07:36,052 --> 01:07:38,261 Here, this is for you all. 1452 01:07:38,295 --> 01:07:39,331 What is this? 1453 01:07:40,504 --> 01:07:44,922 It's a message from your son, Brian. 1454 01:07:44,957 --> 01:07:45,716 What does it say? 1455 01:07:45,751 --> 01:07:46,855 I can't say. 1456 01:07:46,890 --> 01:07:47,994 Just, just watch. 1457 01:07:49,099 --> 01:07:50,859 Go on. 1458 01:07:50,894 --> 01:07:53,655 Son, it's, go ahead and hit play. 1459 01:07:55,140 --> 01:07:57,314 Looks like you're heading over that hill, huh? 1460 01:07:57,349 --> 01:08:00,593 Look, I just, I just wanted to wish you a happy birthday. 1461 01:08:01,870 --> 01:08:04,080 Mom, give the old man a hug from me, yeah? 1462 01:08:07,945 --> 01:08:11,087 Even though my time here is short, 1463 01:08:16,954 --> 01:08:21,856 I had a wonderful life, and support, 1464 01:08:24,652 --> 01:08:27,689 and I want, I want you to feel the same as well. 1465 01:08:30,658 --> 01:08:32,591 I hope this message brings you comfort. 1466 01:08:36,836 --> 01:08:41,013 Even though I'd much rather be here in my own body, 1467 01:08:45,880 --> 01:08:48,054 I'm always gonna be watching over you, kid, 1468 01:08:49,194 --> 01:08:50,298 because God has a plan. 1469 01:08:52,887 --> 01:08:54,337 So, remember these two things, 1470 01:08:58,375 --> 01:09:02,276 keep your faith and I will always love you. 1471 01:09:04,174 --> 01:09:05,313 Thank you for listening. 1472 01:09:06,211 --> 01:09:07,212 Jake, whenever you're ready, 1473 01:09:07,246 --> 01:09:08,420 just give me a call, 1474 01:09:08,454 --> 01:09:10,456 and I'll teach you how to use that thing. 1475 01:09:10,491 --> 01:09:11,630 Okay. 1476 01:09:11,664 --> 01:09:13,183 Thank you. 1477 01:09:13,218 --> 01:09:14,184 Of course. 1478 01:09:14,219 --> 01:09:15,116 Thank you so much. 1479 01:09:15,151 --> 01:09:16,152 This was so beautiful. 1480 01:09:17,118 --> 01:09:18,568 You're welcome. 1481 01:10:00,817 --> 01:10:02,991 Seriously, don't push me in again. 1482 01:10:03,026 --> 01:10:04,890 I'm sorry, I couldn't resist. 1483 01:10:04,924 --> 01:10:05,753 You're so bad. 1484 01:10:07,203 --> 01:10:09,791 Oh, yeah, how'd it go with Brian's family? 1485 01:10:09,826 --> 01:10:11,207 I wish you were there, 1486 01:10:11,241 --> 01:10:12,415 but it went pretty well. 1487 01:10:13,864 --> 01:10:16,212 The mom seemed to be really moved by the message. 1488 01:10:16,246 --> 01:10:19,111 You can, you can tell the family's still hurt by it all. 1489 01:10:20,354 --> 01:10:22,735 But I think seeing Brian's message brought them some hope. 1490 01:10:22,770 --> 01:10:24,220 So glad we're doing this together. 1491 01:10:24,254 --> 01:10:25,117 It just feels right. 1492 01:10:25,151 --> 01:10:26,394 It does. 1493 01:10:26,429 --> 01:10:27,740 Yeah, me too, me too. 1494 01:10:29,294 --> 01:10:30,571 Hey, I'll give you two seconds to swim. 1495 01:10:43,066 --> 01:10:44,343 Dad, it's 24! 1496 01:10:44,378 --> 01:10:45,241 I knew you'd get it. 1497 01:10:45,275 --> 01:10:46,172 Very good. 1498 01:10:47,381 --> 01:10:48,623 What else do we have here? 1499 01:10:48,658 --> 01:10:50,453 Hello, this is Lindsey. 1500 01:10:50,487 --> 01:10:51,902 Hi, Lindsey. 1501 01:10:51,937 --> 01:10:53,110 We'd like to send our news reporter, 1502 01:10:53,145 --> 01:10:54,111 to interview you 1503 01:10:54,146 --> 01:10:55,941 about a Legacy of Love. 1504 01:10:55,975 --> 01:10:57,287 Yes, yes, when? 1505 01:10:58,633 --> 01:11:00,601 How about Monday at 6 p.m.? 1506 01:11:00,635 --> 01:11:03,673 Okay, I'll be there, Monday at six. 1507 01:11:03,707 --> 01:11:04,777 Thank you so much. 1508 01:11:06,262 --> 01:11:08,229 Dad, Dad, I need to tell you something! 1509 01:11:16,341 --> 01:11:18,722 This message really hit me hard. 1510 01:11:18,757 --> 01:11:19,965 So much heart. 1511 01:11:21,346 --> 01:11:23,969 Dean really did love his wife. 1512 01:11:24,003 --> 01:11:24,797 I know. 1513 01:11:27,248 --> 01:11:30,320 I'm glad he called us to record him. 1514 01:11:30,355 --> 01:11:33,254 It doesn't get easier, doing what we're doing, 1515 01:11:33,289 --> 01:11:34,704 making these videos, 1516 01:11:34,738 --> 01:11:38,294 but there's a genuine comfort in knowing 1517 01:11:38,328 --> 01:11:40,572 that even a little bit of their loved ones 1518 01:11:40,606 --> 01:11:41,469 are gonna come back to them 1519 01:11:41,504 --> 01:11:43,368 through what we're doing. 1520 01:11:43,402 --> 01:11:44,714 It's something for them 1521 01:11:44,748 --> 01:11:46,302 that will live on through generations. 1522 01:11:46,336 --> 01:11:48,614 A living legacy of love. 1523 01:11:49,960 --> 01:11:51,479 So, that's where the name comes from. 1524 01:11:51,514 --> 01:11:52,825 It all makes sense now. 1525 01:11:59,384 --> 01:12:00,385 Living Legacy of Love. 1526 01:12:00,419 --> 01:12:01,351 How can I help you? 1527 01:12:03,353 --> 01:12:05,769 Okay, yeah, we can come to you, 1528 01:12:05,804 --> 01:12:07,184 or you can come to us. 1529 01:12:09,221 --> 01:12:10,464 Okay, perfect. 1530 01:12:10,498 --> 01:12:11,637 What's the address? 1531 01:12:15,365 --> 01:12:17,505 Okay, Wednesday at six. 1532 01:12:20,232 --> 01:12:21,371 We'll be there. 1533 01:12:21,406 --> 01:12:22,372 Thank you. 1534 01:12:25,410 --> 01:12:28,033 Hey, you know what'd be nice? 1535 01:12:29,655 --> 01:12:31,243 If we invited everyone we gave the videos to, 1536 01:12:31,277 --> 01:12:32,451 to come to group. 1537 01:12:34,660 --> 01:12:35,592 We could do that. 1538 01:12:35,627 --> 01:12:36,800 Yeah, that's a great idea. 1539 01:12:36,835 --> 01:12:38,319 We can prepare a special invitation, 1540 01:12:38,354 --> 01:12:40,563 and bring it with the messages when we deliver them. 1541 01:12:42,530 --> 01:12:43,428 I love it. 1542 01:12:47,777 --> 01:12:49,261 Here they come, let's go. 1543 01:12:50,089 --> 01:12:51,332 Fantastic, okay we'll do that. 1544 01:12:51,367 --> 01:12:53,023 Yeah. 1545 01:12:53,058 --> 01:12:54,439 Are you the Living Legacy of Love group? 1546 01:12:54,473 --> 01:12:56,061 Yeah. 1547 01:12:56,095 --> 01:12:59,098 Lindsey, the Living Legacy of Love was your brain child. 1548 01:12:59,133 --> 01:13:01,377 Now, that you've helped over a hundred people, 1549 01:13:01,411 --> 01:13:02,378 how do you feel? 1550 01:13:03,275 --> 01:13:05,001 Well, I'm at peace with it, 1551 01:13:05,035 --> 01:13:07,659 but there are hundreds more and it will never end. 1552 01:13:07,693 --> 01:13:10,247 As long as we can keep bringing love and peace to people, 1553 01:13:10,282 --> 01:13:13,561 then the Living Legacy of Love will have a place. 1554 01:13:13,596 --> 01:13:15,011 It's never ending. 1555 01:13:15,045 --> 01:13:16,461 That's beautiful. 1556 01:13:16,495 --> 01:13:20,430 Lindsey, how was the name Living Legacy of Love chosen? 1557 01:13:20,465 --> 01:13:22,398 Was there something that inspired you? 1558 01:13:22,432 --> 01:13:23,399 Yeah. 1559 01:13:23,433 --> 01:13:24,710 Well, our loved ones are alive 1560 01:13:24,745 --> 01:13:26,160 when they record their message. 1561 01:13:26,194 --> 01:13:28,196 And their message is a gift of love, 1562 01:13:28,231 --> 01:13:30,406 and it's a legacy they leave for us. 1563 01:13:31,407 --> 01:13:32,787 I mean, it's priceless, 1564 01:13:32,822 --> 01:13:35,756 worth more than any material thing could ever be. 1565 01:13:35,790 --> 01:13:37,654 It can be shared with the loved ones left behind, 1566 01:13:37,689 --> 01:13:39,967 and even with future family members. 1567 01:13:40,001 --> 01:13:41,865 It's a living legacy of love, 1568 01:13:41,900 --> 01:13:44,420 as it brings them back to us, 1569 01:13:44,454 --> 01:13:46,422 even if it's just for a few moments at a time. 1570 01:13:46,456 --> 01:13:48,734 Yeah, the name just felt right. 1571 01:13:48,769 --> 01:13:49,770 I can see that. 1572 01:13:49,804 --> 01:13:51,185 It's so powerful to know 1573 01:13:51,219 --> 01:13:53,187 that when someone's hurting so much, 1574 01:13:53,221 --> 01:13:55,189 that they can be touched by a loved one's message. 1575 01:13:55,223 --> 01:13:58,434 What would you want us to take away from your experiences 1576 01:13:58,468 --> 01:14:00,608 and path of giving that? 1577 01:14:00,643 --> 01:14:02,438 When my mom died, I was so lost. 1578 01:14:02,472 --> 01:14:05,510 I didn't think my life could have a purpose, 1579 01:14:05,544 --> 01:14:08,409 or a direction without her in it. 1580 01:14:08,444 --> 01:14:10,894 But slowly I realized that we all have a purpose, 1581 01:14:10,929 --> 01:14:12,896 and we're never alone. 1582 01:14:12,931 --> 01:14:14,622 God is with us always. 1583 01:14:14,657 --> 01:14:16,452 Our loved ones are always with us. 1584 01:14:16,486 --> 01:14:17,970 And I really want people to know 1585 01:14:18,005 --> 01:14:20,628 that even though their loved one has crossed over, 1586 01:14:20,663 --> 01:14:22,630 they're always with you, 1587 01:14:22,665 --> 01:14:24,252 and that love never dies. 1588 01:14:25,461 --> 01:14:27,152 I think she said it perfectly, folks. 1589 01:14:27,186 --> 01:14:29,948 If you'd like to learn more about Living Legacy of Love, 1590 01:14:29,982 --> 01:14:32,813 go to our website and you can find their information 1591 01:14:32,847 --> 01:14:35,954 and their links. 1592 01:14:35,988 --> 01:14:37,749 Alright, thank you so much. 1593 01:14:51,625 --> 01:14:53,109 Dad? 1594 01:14:53,143 --> 01:14:53,903 Yeah. 1595 01:14:55,180 --> 01:14:56,422 Don't you think Grandpa's dementia 1596 01:14:56,457 --> 01:14:58,666 is getting kind of bad? 1597 01:14:58,701 --> 01:15:00,357 I mean... 1598 01:15:00,392 --> 01:15:03,429 Yeah, look, you know how Grandma's in the hospital 1599 01:15:03,464 --> 01:15:04,258 for hip surgery, 1600 01:15:06,294 --> 01:15:11,299 well when she's not around, his memory begins to fade and... 1601 01:15:11,817 --> 01:15:13,474 Yeah. 1602 01:15:13,509 --> 01:15:16,512 I don't know, maybe we could play a video of her, 1603 01:15:16,546 --> 01:15:18,548 see if he remembers? 1604 01:15:18,583 --> 01:15:19,515 Yeah, do you have one? 1605 01:15:19,549 --> 01:15:20,792 Yeah, I have multiple. 1606 01:15:22,207 --> 01:15:23,311 We could play that one? 1607 01:15:23,346 --> 01:15:25,037 That was a good day. 1608 01:15:25,072 --> 01:15:26,245 Give it a shot. 1609 01:15:26,280 --> 01:15:27,039 Right. 1610 01:15:27,074 --> 01:15:28,316 Hey, Grandpa. 1611 01:15:28,351 --> 01:15:29,110 Hey, Pop. 1612 01:15:29,145 --> 01:15:29,939 Hey, we- 1613 01:15:29,973 --> 01:15:30,836 Pop, Pop. 1614 01:15:30,871 --> 01:15:32,804 We have a video of Grandma. 1615 01:15:32,838 --> 01:15:34,081 Oh, let me see. 1616 01:15:35,289 --> 01:15:36,048 You remember Grandma? 1617 01:15:36,083 --> 01:15:36,980 Grandma? 1618 01:15:37,015 --> 01:15:37,981 Okay, open it. 1619 01:15:38,016 --> 01:15:39,155 Where is she? 1620 01:15:39,189 --> 01:15:40,501 - Are you ready? - She's in the hospital. 1621 01:15:40,536 --> 01:15:42,503 She's in the hospital for her hip surgery. 1622 01:15:45,541 --> 01:15:48,164 Hey, look, it's her. 1623 01:15:48,198 --> 01:15:49,337 - Really? - Really. 1624 01:15:49,372 --> 01:15:51,616 Really? 1625 01:15:51,650 --> 01:15:54,550 You know I love wine and chocolate. 1626 01:15:54,584 --> 01:15:56,517 She is so beautiful. 1627 01:15:56,552 --> 01:15:57,518 I miss her. 1628 01:15:58,519 --> 01:16:00,590 She's, look at her. 1629 01:16:00,625 --> 01:16:01,833 Oh, well, what a beautiful, 1630 01:16:01,867 --> 01:16:03,420 her smile just radiates. 1631 01:16:03,455 --> 01:16:05,077 - Aw. - I love her, oh. 1632 01:16:05,112 --> 01:16:06,216 Oh, look at that. 1633 01:16:06,251 --> 01:16:07,528 Oh my goodness, that's... 1634 01:16:07,563 --> 01:16:09,841 Yeah, that's the best. 1635 01:16:09,875 --> 01:16:10,911 You used to give a fig, Grandpa. 1636 01:16:10,945 --> 01:16:11,843 Oh my goodness. 1637 01:16:11,877 --> 01:16:13,914 I do love it. 1638 01:16:13,948 --> 01:16:16,606 We could be twinsies 1639 01:16:21,369 --> 01:16:22,750 Cookies, again? 1640 01:16:22,785 --> 01:16:24,372 Yeah! 1641 01:16:24,407 --> 01:16:26,512 You know I wouldn't mind being with you. 1642 01:16:27,513 --> 01:16:28,514 I gotta go though. 1643 01:16:28,549 --> 01:16:30,378 My dad says we have to be home. 1644 01:16:30,413 --> 01:16:32,726 Linds, before we go, 1645 01:16:32,760 --> 01:16:34,762 could I talk to you about something? 1646 01:16:34,797 --> 01:16:36,522 Yeah, of course, babe, what's up? 1647 01:16:38,041 --> 01:16:40,078 I brought you something. 1648 01:16:40,112 --> 01:16:42,563 It's little, but it means a lot to me. 1649 01:16:44,910 --> 01:16:46,947 Linds, you mean the world to me. 1650 01:16:46,981 --> 01:16:49,190 Since we met at the church, 1651 01:16:49,225 --> 01:16:52,124 you fully restored faith in my life. 1652 01:16:52,159 --> 01:16:53,609 And not only in my life, 1653 01:16:53,643 --> 01:16:56,577 but we've helped so many people restore their hope 1654 01:16:56,612 --> 01:16:57,992 and their love. 1655 01:16:59,476 --> 01:17:02,203 Most importantly, we brought love back to them. 1656 01:17:03,480 --> 01:17:06,587 Mom, how do you know when it's true love? 1657 01:17:06,622 --> 01:17:09,072 Well, you just know, 1658 01:17:09,107 --> 01:17:10,626 like your dad and I. 1659 01:17:10,660 --> 01:17:13,629 The right person will represent hope and faith and love. 1660 01:17:15,458 --> 01:17:16,632 I wouldn't worry about that. 1661 01:17:18,634 --> 01:17:21,222 You look so beautiful. 1662 01:17:21,257 --> 01:17:22,707 I don't know what to say. 1663 01:17:22,741 --> 01:17:26,124 Linds, when you wear this necklace, 1664 01:17:27,608 --> 01:17:29,645 I want you to be reminded of three things. 1665 01:17:31,267 --> 01:17:32,648 The cross represents faith, 1666 01:17:35,133 --> 01:17:36,652 the anchor represents hope, 1667 01:17:38,481 --> 01:17:39,827 and the heart represents love, 1668 01:17:41,001 --> 01:17:42,588 which is everything you are to me. 1669 01:18:01,746 --> 01:18:03,920 It's beautiful, Andrew. 1670 01:18:03,955 --> 01:18:05,094 You look great in it. 1671 01:18:10,789 --> 01:18:11,859 Thank you, I love it. 1672 01:18:11,894 --> 01:18:14,068 You're welcome. 1673 01:18:36,815 --> 01:18:38,644 I would give anything 1674 01:18:38,679 --> 01:18:40,232 to have my mom here with me. 1675 01:18:44,927 --> 01:18:48,413 For a long time, I was angry with my own pain. 1676 01:18:49,448 --> 01:18:52,486 Sometimes people grieving, well, 1677 01:18:52,520 --> 01:18:54,074 we get caught up in our own pain, 1678 01:18:57,802 --> 01:18:59,769 so much so, we can't see 1679 01:18:59,804 --> 01:19:02,807 how serving others in pain would help, 1680 01:19:02,841 --> 01:19:04,947 or why we should even do it. 1681 01:19:06,224 --> 01:19:10,642 I was just so angry with life, with God, 1682 01:19:12,782 --> 01:19:15,474 but I grew in my faith. 1683 01:19:19,271 --> 01:19:23,379 I realized that helping people also helped me heal. 1684 01:19:24,794 --> 01:19:29,074 For me, being able to help people heal and have faith 1685 01:19:29,109 --> 01:19:32,457 has been the greatest gift from God. 1686 01:19:39,913 --> 01:19:42,708 I know that a Living Legacy of Love 1687 01:19:42,743 --> 01:19:44,780 has brought hope to so many people, 1688 01:19:45,781 --> 01:19:47,265 and it will for years to come. 1689 01:19:48,818 --> 01:19:49,923 Never feel alone. 1690 01:19:51,062 --> 01:19:54,824 Know that God is always with you. 1691 01:21:51,389 --> 01:21:52,252 Hey, Mom. 1692 01:21:56,635 --> 01:21:59,190 First off, I wanna say thank you 1693 01:21:59,224 --> 01:22:02,572 for finally sharing that secret lasagna recipe with me. 1694 01:22:03,780 --> 01:22:06,783 You made Tony and my boys so happy. 1695 01:22:08,440 --> 01:22:10,304 Maybe you could make it for them too. 1696 01:22:13,583 --> 01:22:14,930 I also, I just, 1697 01:22:16,276 --> 01:22:18,450 I wanna say that, that being your daughter, 1698 01:22:19,969 --> 01:22:21,419 has been such an honor. 1699 01:22:23,455 --> 01:22:24,940 You've always been my hero. 1700 01:22:26,976 --> 01:22:28,322 I hope I've made you proud. 1701 01:22:33,500 --> 01:22:35,605 I'm gonna miss your hugs. 1702 01:22:36,744 --> 01:22:37,607 I'm gonna miss your hugs 1703 01:22:37,642 --> 01:22:40,438 and your weird mom jokes. 1704 01:22:41,818 --> 01:22:44,373 Please tell them to my boys. 1705 01:22:44,407 --> 01:22:46,651 Help them remember who I am. 1706 01:22:46,685 --> 01:22:48,825 And remember that they're your family too. 1707 01:22:52,070 --> 01:22:56,972 Don't be sad and don't be alone. 1708 01:22:59,008 --> 01:23:00,320 I love you, Mom. 1709 01:23:02,494 --> 01:23:03,426 I love you. 1710 01:23:05,014 --> 01:23:09,605 Carla, this message means that I'm watching over you. 1711 01:23:12,504 --> 01:23:13,781 Please don't be sad. 1712 01:23:15,438 --> 01:23:17,854 We had 20 beautiful years, 1713 01:23:18,821 --> 01:23:20,650 and three beautiful children. 1714 01:23:23,308 --> 01:23:28,313 I want you to laugh, feel joy, and tell stories about me, 1715 01:23:29,556 --> 01:23:32,455 so that our children and our grandchildren 1716 01:23:32,490 --> 01:23:35,044 would know how much I love you and our family. 1717 01:23:38,737 --> 01:23:41,637 Until we meet again, I love you, my sweet wife. 1718 01:23:44,502 --> 01:23:47,229 Thank you for so many wonderful years. 1719 01:23:51,888 --> 01:23:55,754 Oh, honey, I know you're hurting without me. 1720 01:23:55,789 --> 01:23:57,791 That's why I wanted to try to do this, a tape, 1721 01:23:57,825 --> 01:23:58,930 while I still could. 1722 01:24:01,726 --> 01:24:03,693 I can't thank you enough 1723 01:24:03,728 --> 01:24:06,627 for being there for me all these years, 1724 01:24:06,662 --> 01:24:09,044 and facing the big C with me. 1725 01:24:10,079 --> 01:24:11,322 I know it wasn't easy. 1726 01:24:14,118 --> 01:24:15,050 How could it be? 1727 01:24:16,879 --> 01:24:21,573 I wasn't always myself and I'm sorry for that. 1728 01:24:23,575 --> 01:24:24,576 It just wasn't fair. 1729 01:24:27,096 --> 01:24:28,580 But I want you to know 1730 01:24:28,615 --> 01:24:31,687 that you weren't just the love of my life, 1731 01:24:31,721 --> 01:24:33,171 you were my life, 1732 01:24:33,206 --> 01:24:37,244 and you brought so much joy and laughter into this family. 1733 01:24:37,279 --> 01:24:40,903 But now it's time for you to live, baby, 1734 01:24:40,937 --> 01:24:44,009 and share that big, beautiful light inside of yours, 1735 01:24:44,044 --> 01:24:45,045 with the world. 1736 01:24:46,288 --> 01:24:50,913 Hey, Megs, I know everyone says this in the movies, 1737 01:24:51,741 --> 01:24:53,329 but if you are watching this, 1738 01:24:56,125 --> 01:24:57,402 I have left this world. 1739 01:25:02,304 --> 01:25:04,237 I wanted to leave you something 1740 01:25:05,652 --> 01:25:10,277 that not only would inspire you, but comfort you. 1741 01:25:11,727 --> 01:25:13,177 And even though I'm not in this world with you physically, 1742 01:25:15,213 --> 01:25:17,664 I will always be with you here. 1743 01:25:23,014 --> 01:25:23,808 No tears. 1744 01:25:32,472 --> 01:25:35,544 You have to keep your chin up, okay? 1745 01:25:35,578 --> 01:25:37,684 You have to be strong for Scotty, alright? 1746 01:25:42,344 --> 01:25:46,762 Promise me you'll fill yours and Scotty's life 1747 01:25:46,796 --> 01:25:49,627 with as much love as this world can give you. 1748 01:25:57,531 --> 01:26:01,328 In this life, the afterlife, 1749 01:26:01,363 --> 01:26:02,812 and in the lives to follow, 1750 01:26:07,058 --> 01:26:08,163 together forever. 1751 01:26:12,581 --> 01:26:14,272 Until we are together again, 1752 01:26:18,380 --> 01:26:20,140 I love you so much. 112122

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