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♫ With no specter to cut off the waves ♫

♫ With no halo bestowed by heaven ♫

♫ I should admit I was born ordinary ♫

♫ But I'm not resigned to the silence on stage ♫

♫ Break it down ♫

♫ I'm taking over now ♫

♫ Tough it out. That's what I'm all about ♫

♫ We are destined to break through a mental wall ♫

♫ To unlock a ray of light ♫

♫ We know there will be infinite waves ♫

♫ Getting in my way ♫

♫ They will build up into roads that enable me to climb high and see far ♫

♫ To test me, inspire me, make me and give me courage ♫

♫ I am the master ♫

♫ Of my own destiny ♫

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Episode 26

You chose to come here in the end.

I can't sleep.

I would stay up all night.

The night has become a slow suffering.

When it's finally dawn,

I hope the night can arrive soon because

I think I might be able
to fall asleep at night.

But again, I still can't fall asleep

when the night arrives.

So how long will you rest within 24 hours?

When I get exhausted,

I will take a 30-minute nap in my office

during lunch break.

How long has this situation lasted?

Four or five days.

Have you ever

encountered a similar situation before?

No.

What do you do

when you can't fall asleep?

Take a bath or wash my hands.

Take a bath?

How many times

will you take a bath on average every night

and how long will it last every time?

Three or four times

and at least half an hour each time.

What does it mean to you

that you repeat the action of taking a bath?

Is there any reason for you to do so?

Li Wei,

I believe that you came here

in the hope that I can

help you make some changes.

But if you won't tell me anything,

it's difficult for me to help you.

I think

my body is dirty.

And does it have anything to do

with what happened a week ago?

Don't worry.

I won't make you feel sick.

That's it?

Miss He,

can I trust you?

Will you understand me?

Certainly.

You can choose to trust me completely.

Now there are just the two of us

in this room.

No one can hurt you here.

We will face

all your problems together.

Okay?

Okay.

It happened

last Friday night.

Drink it.

Wei.

Wei.

Wake up.

Wei.

Wake up.

Have some drink.

Wei.

Wei.

Let's have another glass.

I want to make a toast to you.

Mr. Qi,

I can't drink anymore.

How about this?

If you finish this glass of wine,

I'll sign this contract with your company today.

Really, Mr. Qi?

Of course.

Definitely sign it.

Come on, Mr. Qi.

Let me make a toast to you

on behalf of everyone in my company.

Yes!

Hear, hear.

I like a girl like Wei.

A good drinker,

and a good saleswoman, too.

She's straightforward.

I'd like to sign the contract with you.

I'll pour you some more wine.

I really can't drink anymore.

Come on.

You'll be fine.

Don't worry.

I'll watch for the amount.

A little bit.

Just a little bit.

Don't worry.

I won't make you feel sick.

You alright?

Mr. Qi.

I'm okay.

Let me steady you.

Everyone has left the party.

The party won't be over since you're still here.

I wouldn't overstate my importance.

Mr. Qi,

you must be making jokes.

I'm talking about the party of just the two of us.

Us?

Speaking of which, Mr. Qi,

our project depends on us.

When will we sign that contract?

I'll go to the bathroom.

What was your reaction at that time?

I just felt that

my whole body

was frozen.

I couldn't even move.

Can I take it as that you were

very unwilling to do it,

but you were unable to resist?

Do you mind telling me

what you were thinking at the time?

I have no idea.

I went all blank.

I don't know what I was thinking.

The bathroom was so quiet.

All the sounds were terribly clear.

I will arrange for the next party.

I couldn't make a sound

and I couldn't move either.

I dared not look back at him.

I could only force myself

to stare at the ceiling lights

and I'd been keeping track of time in my heart.

I wished time could pass faster

and this could be over soon.

Did you choose

to call the police immediately after that?

Did you do emergency contraception

and go to the hospital for related checks?

I did.

But I didn't have the courage to call the police.

I felt like I was defiled.

I dared not tell anyone.

And I was really scared

so I returned home immediately.

I kept taking a shower

as if this was the only
way to get myself clean.

This bastard.

Why did he choose me among all people?

Why do I...

Why do I have to be a woman?

Tell me, why did he choose me?

Every day as long as I close my eyes,

I will feel flustered and very scared.

So I can only take a bath.

I guess I will feel better

only during bath time.

So you are blaming yourself and regretting

your choice, right?

I just have this strange feeling.

The more I think about it, the more I feel

uncomfortable.

Because you know,

I didn't want it to happen at all.

But I…

Why couldn't I

say no?

Is it because from the bottom of my heart

I wanted

to be violated?

It's not like this, Li Wei.

You know?

Sometimes when people are under pressure

we will have very complicated responses

and emotions towards it.

How about

we sort the whole thing out?

What do you think?

Have some water. Take your time.

Firstly, Firstly,

did you really want to do it with him

so you didn't say no?

That's not true.

I wanted to say no.

But somehow I

just let it happen.

When

he locked the bathroom door from inside,

how did you feel?

He suddenly appeared in the mirror

and I got scared.

And then I was dumbfounded.

When you were dragged to the cubicle by him,

what was in your head?

I felt like I was screwed.

I couldn't get out.

He was so strong.

There was no way for me to break free.

There was no way for me to break free.

Okay.

Now we already know objective factors

of your body and the environment.

Let's think back.

What did the rapist do

that made you so scared

in such a degree that you dared not resist?

He was very strong.

I couldn't get away from him.

Don't make a sound, unless

you want to be heard by people outside.

Guess what they'll think of you

if they hear your voice.

I'll be over soon

as long as you do as I say.

So you didn't dare resist

because you were afraid that others would hear you.

So you thought this is a very bad thing, right?

Yes, Miss He.

You won't understand.

My life would be ruined if someone heard us.

What does "ruined" mean?

Ruined means

my reputation will be discredited

and I'll be fired.

Everyone will despise me.

You were afraid that your life would be ruined.

This is totally normal and reasonable.

It wasn't your fault that you didn't resist.

There were too many things

to make you feel scared.

You even showed a certain stress response.

Stress response?

Yes.

When we face pressure,

most of the time we are hard-wired

to either flee or fight.

But there is another response

called stupor response

which will make people

frozen like you just mentioned.

Fear

makes the brain region

responsible for rational thinking

impossible to function properly.

Actually, it's similar to an animal

when it's in danger.

For example, many animals will play dead

when they are in danger.

Possum will stay totally still.

And rabbits will choose to show their bellies.

So I couldn't make a sound

because of this response?

Yes.

Actually 80%

of victims have the similar situation like you.

So this is not your fault.

Yes.

This is my fault.

How can humans compare themselves to animals?

Humans can control their own behaviors!

Actually, not necessarily.

Sometimes our body's reaction isn't

controlled by our consciousness.

That's not true.

It's my fault.

I could have resisted!

Li Wei,

was there something else back then

which led to the unusually

deep sense of guilt you're having?

Miss He,

is it possible

that

I did not resist

because my body didn't want to resist?

Can you tell me more specifically?

Actually I was sexually aroused.

I can live with the fact that I was raped and I

couldn't resist.

But why would my body betray me

at the most critical time?

It's all my fault!

Why am I so lewd?

Why?

Li Wei, Li Wei!

Li Wei, calm down, okay?

I know that you want to hurt yourself now

because it will make you feel better.

But you listen to me.

You can't solve any problem in this way!

Let's calm down first.

Come on.

Put your hands here for now.

Can you trust me?

Let's calm down, okay?

You know,

actually I had many visitors who came to me

because

they met the similar problem like you have.

It's just that this problem

is rarely mentioned by the public

so not many people are familiar with it.

So you mean

there are many people like me?

Yes.

Li Wei,

the fact that you were sexually aroused

does not mean you are lewd.

It does not mean

you want yourself to get violated, either.

Like I just said,

sometimes our consciousness can not

control our body's reactions.

There are many people

who will get sexually aroused

when they are violated.

Their reaction can be

even more intense than usual.

But this doesn't mean it's their consent.

They just can't control it.

So it's normal that you feel bad

because you're violated.

But you shouldn't blame yourself because of it.

Can you understand what I just said?

Don't touch me!

Don't be afraid.

Come on.

It's already over now.

You are safe now.

It's over.

Miao, I noticed that you're

under the weather recently.

I made you a cup of granule for treating cold.

You have a cold? Thank you.

Kaiyi, we were just talking about you.

Director Pan came to talk to you yesterday, right?

He came to you at this timing.

So it must be

about Time Interview.

I told Director Pan that

I would choose

Night Talk to Your Heart.

Kaiyi,

I think we can also do Time Interview

since we're provided with this opportunity.

Isn't it better for our team

to have two ace shows at the same time?

We already have to stay up late

to have topic selection meetings

for just one show.

You want to do another show at the same time?

What?

You wanna live in the office

and never go home again?

Qian.

We are already practically

spending every night in the station.

But to be honest, I am starting to love

Night Talk to Your Heart.

And I want to do this show.

Actually what we are doing now

is something more meaningful.

But still, it's a pity.

I understand how you must feel now.

Frankly speaking, just like you guys,

I don't wanna drop Time Interview, either.

But did you forget that
Night Talk to Your Heart

was liked by the audience

because of its excellent content at the beginning?

You need to make a choice if you want to

make the show better.

Then why didn't you choose

to drop Night Talk to Your Heart?

Miao,

there is no difference which show to do

as long as we can do it together.

Yes, Miao.

I believe that Qian loves Time Interview

as much as anyone else here.

Yes, Miao.

Night Talk to Your Heart's so popular now.

We've already gotten a good hand.

What we need to do now

is focusing on what we have at present.

We have ups and downs in life.

We can go further

not to be obsessed with the past.

Yes, you can doubt anyone.

But you have to believe in Qian.

Okay.

Everyone has worked hard recently.

Get off work earlier today

to go home and have some good rest.

Ok, let's go.

Time to punch out.

Finally I can get off work.

Go, go.

Don't cry.

Don't cry, son.

Don't cry.

Good boy.

Don't cry, son.

Doudou is a good boy, right?

Don't cry.

Mom needs to answer the phone.

Hello?

Hello.

Is it Ms. Zhan Lu?

I'm.

I am from the human resource Department of Youwen Company.

You had a video interview with us

through 58. com.

The interviewer believes that

you are very suitable for this post.

Would you like to take our offer?

I, yes! Of course.

Zhan Lu.

Miss He,

I want to tell you that

I passed the interview!

Congratulations.

What's the job?

Copywriting.

That's great.

This is your dream job.

Miss He,

thank you.

I wouldn't have received this offer

without your help.

That's not true.

Actually I didn't help you that much.

You earned it with your own effort.

Miss He, don't be so humble.

I wouldn't have become who I am today

without you.

No one understands how painful I was

at that time better than you.

You saved my life.

I just assisted you in analyzing

how you felt and what you were thinking.

The rest is thanks to your own hard work.

What happened after our last session?

Did you communicate with your husband?

He…

He still doesn't like
psychological counselling.

He doesn't want to come with me to the counselling.

But Miss He, ever since I started to observe

my emotions, I've realized that

my communication with my husband

has become smoother and he has changed a lot.

This is great!

I think you are gradually getting better now.

Do you still remember the cognitive triad

I told you the first time you came to visit me?

Yes.

Environment,

and future.

At that time

I felt like I couldn't do anything right.

Yes.

But look at you now.

You are rarely in such a mental state now,

right?

Miss He,

so do you think I can be completely

healed one day?

Certainly.

Actually depression is like a whirlpool.

The more you are depressed and feel like

nothing in this world can make you happy,

the more you will be down in spirits.

Look at you now.

I think you've improved by a lot.

You start to do what you once liked.

This is a behavioral activation.

Whether you're at home or go to work,

you can try to write down what you're doing and

observe the relationship

between what you're doing and how you feel.

Stick to this habit for a week or two.

I believe that when you have self-fulfillment

and get a sense of accomplishment,

your mood will get better and better.

Miss He, I am so high in morale

by your words.

Your life will get better and better.

Miss He, thank you.

What are you doing here?

I brought you some medicine.

Thanks.

That's so sweet.

Actually I've gotten better

after the acupuncture you gave me this morning.

Look at me.

I can peel apples now.

By the way, where's He Dun?

Why isn't she home?

Didn't she have an appointment today?

It was over.

She just got a call and hurried out.

Fang Zhongyi
Lily, I'll arrive at your place soon.

Give me a second chance, will you?

Can we talk?

Where's Tang Lili?

Who are you?

I am her neighbor.

Lili, it's okay.

Qian Kaiyi and I will come to pick you up.

Excuse me, sir.

Officer.

You are quite well dressed.

Do you have to get physical when you guys have a dispute?

I will teach you something about the law today.

According to Article 43

of Law of the People's Republic of China

on Penalties for Administration of Public Security,

whoever assaults

or deliberately hurts other people physically

will be subject to detention
of five to ten days

and a fine of between two hundred yuan

and five hundred yuan.

Even if it is not serious enough,

you'll still be detained for less than five days

or a fine of less than five hundred yuan.

Although you guys reconciled privately,

if something like this happens again,

I'll detain you,

understand?

Yes, sir.

What are you laughing at?

Come here.

I'll need to take your statement, too.

Make yourself at home.

Do you have something to drink?

I am thirsty.

How about beer?

Sure.

How much do you want?

Bring me a lot of beer.

One bottle is not enough.

I can booze it up with you tonight

since you came to pick us up.

You did make yourself at home.

Seriously,

you can really fight

although you look so prim normally.

I can't compare with you.

You're more suitable to be the bad boy.

Come on.

Cheers.

We built our bond

in fighting and misunderstanding, right?

I kind of like your personality.

You are

a good person.

Very kind.

Let me tell you,

let me tell you this,

don't act like a staid scholar.

You are so eloquent

when you talk about psychiatry

but you're so quiet and private

in daily life. You can't be like this!

You will be at a disadvantage

when you try to hit on girls.

Do your handsome face justice.

Come on.

You're so lame, Qian Kaiyi.

You started to gibber

when you just drank a little beer.

Let me tell you,

I can drink like a fish!

No, you can't.

Come for a drink.

I need to lie down for a while.

Come on, Qian Kaiyi!

Come here to drink with me.

Let me take a break.

I won't go home.

I'll crash here for the night.

He Dun,

sorry.

I used to say many things

that hurt your feelings because of him.

It's water under the bridge.

If you still feel sorry, just drink it.

Come on.

I didn't ask you to drink it up!

Don't go to extreme.

Take it easy.

Sometimes you really look like a fool.

You know,

sometimes I envy you so much.

I think you can talk to other people

about your feelings when you're down

and you will apologize

when you think you were wrong.

These things are easy for you.

But if it were me,

I couldn't just do it so naturally.

You're silly.

I can't think of anyone else

in this world who would make me do these things

willingly and happily except you.

You said you envy me?

I am the one who envies you.

Why?

Because

you believe in yourself

from the bottom of your heart

and you never

have the slightest desperation and doubt

on your future.

You are always so persistent and so sure.

You silly girl.

Unlike me, I got myself in a hot mess

just by dating someone.

I'm not silly.

Anyone will get frustrated now and then.

I also have my moments of desperation.

Don't worry.

One day there will be a very handsome guy

who loves you and cares very much about you.

At that time I will not stop you

when you want to move out.

Why are you crying?

Don't cry.

Thank you, He Dun.

If I am to move out,

I'll be doing it only to make room for you and him.

Look at you cry like this.

Let me tell you a secret.

I turned Jiahui down.

He asked you out?

When?

But I think it's a pity.

I remember that when you two first met

you had a high opinion of him.

Black symbolizes prestige,

elegance, low-key, and creativeness.

But it also means this person can be obsessed,

indifferent, and defensive.

This kind of person is like a predator.

He's always at the top of the food chain

in the crowd.

It's ok.

I will support you whatever your decision is.

What about the one who's in an aloha shirt?

Dear audience, good evening.

Night Talk to Your Heart is livestreaming now.

Let's welcome my partner,

He Dun.

Yes, smile.

Keep it.

He Dun.

What now?

Nothing.

I just want to call your name.

Why are you staring at me?

You are more important than the painted stars.

Do I look

a little more mature and stable in this outfit?

I still prefer the way you are

in an aloha shirt.

I thought you liked it this way.

So do you like the way I look like a boy

or a grown-up man?

I don't hate neither of them.

If you don't hate it, you like it.

It symbolizes optimism and cheerfulness,

who always brings warmth to people around him.

At the same time, a man like this is attractive

to ordinary women.

What about you?

I am also an ordinary woman.

Stop your sniggering.

Don't pretend like you didn't how I feel!

I did find out.

Find out what?

You're crying and laughing at the same time. Cheers.

♫ I see your eyes as bright as a star ♫

Interview with renowned professor of psychology

There's a new bakery downstairs which is quite nice.

I bought some bread.

Come on. Try it.

What's going on?

Where's Miao?

Miao…

He's out of office.

Are there any street interview today?

Right.

He still keeps the photo?

Qian.

Actually, Miao…

You're back, Miao.

I bought you bread.

It's your favorite flavor, durian.

Thank you, Qian.

Why are you carrying such a big box?

What's in it?

New files?

Qian

I have something to tell you.

I'm quitting Night Talk to Your Heart.

It's okay. Take a seat.

What happened Talk to me.

Did Dong roast you again?

No.

It's not the first time

Dong and I roast each other.

It's my own reason.

It has nothing to do with other people.

How can it have nothing to do with them?

We are a team.

So we face problems together.

How can we help you

if you don't tell me what problem you have?

Don't bother, Qian.

Director Pan and Director Fei

have approved my application.

So why do you still keep your work permit?

As something to remember by?

Actually I'll still be working in this radio station.

I'll just change to another office.

I knew it.

Mr. Qian.

You're so grumpy.

Zhang Miao, are you ready?

Meeting will start soon.

How could you poach him from my team?

I poached him from your team?

Do you mean Zhang Miao?

It's not my decision.

I'm asking you why you poached him from me!

Qian Kaiyi,

don't try to make a fuse here.

You couldn't let him stay in your team

and now you're blaming it on me?

You got desperate

because Night Talk to Your Heart ranked first, right?

You didn't dare have a heads-on battle with me.

So you played it dirty.

I used to think although you were shameless,

at least you'd like to

abide by professional ethics.

But now you're capable of doing anything.

Watch your attitude!

Firstly,

Our Time Interview

ranked first for so many times

I already lose count.

Night Talk to Your Heart just got lucky

to rank first once.

Secondly,

I'll tell you one last time,

Zhang Miao asked to join us himself.

Bullshit!

I asked to join his team!

Zhang Miao, deal with it.

We'll be waiting for you to start the meeting.

Say it. Why?

I always wanted to do Time Interview.

You promised us that

the only reason we did Night Talk to Your Heart

was to get Time Interview back to our team.

So we followed you to the project of Night Talk

and we worked together towards that goal.

Now we are capable of having it back

and yet you gave up on it.

No stars

and no gimmicks.

We ranked first once this time.

But can you guarantee we can win again?

I really don't understand

why you are so insist on doing

Night Talk to Your Heart.

What's the point anyway?

This show has helped so many people.

It means nothing to you at all?

There are so many audience waiting for us.

How can we give up on them?

I'm sorry.

I am not so selfless and kind.

My current job

can't arouse my enthusiasm for work.

We just come up with ideas

and do research every day.

We don't have the opportunity

to make our voiced heard.

Besides,

don't you already have an expert to help you

solve everything?

Why would you still need us.

Spit it out. Don't be so subtle.

Let me ask you,

do you have the guts to say that you didn't choose Night Talk for a selfish reason?

You are always like this.

You get dates through work

and you use your dates to help you in work.

If this continues,

can you still tell

if you really mean it by what you say?

Now if you excuse me,

I have a meeting to attend.

Try it.

I'll try some.

There seems to be something missing.

Are you crazy from all the teaching?

How dare you question me in my field?

If you don't think it tastes good,

go home and ask your wife to cook for you!

Come on.

I just told you

I have a domestic problem with my wife.

She'll distain me if I go home now.

Who said that

he didn't need to worry about what to eat

as long he got married?

Why does he

still have to go to someone else's house

to get a meal?

I can't outspeak you.

Ye Jiahui

Hello, Professor Ji?

Is it a good time to call you?

Sure. Go ahead.

When I had a meal with you the other day at your house,

I saw that your fingers looked numb

and a little uncomfortable.

I once studied acupuncture.

I can give you acupuncture when you are free.

You will be better soon after a few treatments.

It's a chronic illness and

not worthy of your time.

Your chronic illness is high blood pressure, right?

It seems that you have a profound

study on acupuncture.

You often feel dizzy

and suffer from insomnia.

OK, I will contact you then.

Thank you for your concern.

Okay.

I'll go pick you up by then.

It's okay.

Send me the address.

I'll go find you.

Sure.

See you later.

Goodbye.

Who is it?

None of your business.

Okay, I'll just mine my own business

as long as I get free food.

Sorry that I'm late.

It's okay.

It was a little hard to find this place.

This driver got the

wrong route by the navigation.

He circled around for a long time

and then I found out

it's actually not far from my home.

Right here.

Professor.

Okay.

You should go to bed early.

The psychological counseling cases in this TV series are artistically stylized for visual presentation purposes. Please seek help from professional psychological counseling institutions if you encounter similar cases or have other psychological distress.

♫ Each dawn blooms with a word of flowers ♫

♫ Here is an aroma of coffee and you ♫

♫ Whether the haze turns into a rain or the weather suddenly clears up ♫

♫ I wish to be with you ♫

♫ A shower of rain gently floats far out of the sky ♫

♫ Taking with it my blue and cloudy memories ♫

♫ I bloom a scenery as clear as a song ♫

♫ I see your eyes as bright as a star ♫

♫ They warm my smile and listen to my true voice ♫

♫ Giving me the gentlest response ♫

♫ I see the sudden arrival ♫

♫ Of beautiful love ♫

♫ Holding you hand, I can feel your heart ♫

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