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STEPHANIE: For those continuing
with the second part
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of this course next semester,
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we will explore the
development and evolution
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of social customs.
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For example, the first recorded
marriage contract
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can be traced back
4,000 years.
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Those records were found
primarily in Mesopotamia
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and seem to have only existed
as ways of preserving power
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and furthering lineages.
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I’d like to think times
have changed since then.
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It wasn’t until the
Enlightenment that the notion
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of marrying for love
became widely accepted.
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♪♪ [cello]
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All right, who forgot to
turn their cellphone off
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from the last class?
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STUDENT #1: I think
it’s coming from outside.
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STUDENT #2: That’s so weird.
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♪♪ [continues]
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- Is that Professor Larson?
- What?
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I will be right back.
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What is all of this?
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Happy anniversary!
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Hold that thought.
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So six months ago today
was our very first date,
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and ever since the moment
that you bumped into me
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and spilled my coffee
everywhere,
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I knew you were the one.
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And I never understood
the saying,
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"When you know, you know,"
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till I met you.
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So...
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Dr. Stephanie Bishop,
will you marry me?
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- Yes.
- Yes?
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Yes, a million times, yes.
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Whew!
Ah, it’s a little loose.
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It doesn’t matter.
I love it.
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- And I love you.
- I love you too.
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I love how you basically
highlighted this entire article.
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He makes a lot of good points.
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You know, between his books
and his Ted Talks,
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you’re kind of a fanboy.
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And I am very proud of it.
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Are you almost done?
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We still have to
swing by my apartment.
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Hey, quick question.
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Which color bathing suit conveys
to your family how honored I am
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to spend the summer with them
at their vacation house?
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And also how much I love you,
and I’m excited to marry you?
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I’m not sure you can get all
that from a bathing suit color.
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I think green.
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You know you have nothing
to be nervous about.
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I’m not nervous.
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Okay, I’m a little nervous.
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I met them one time for like
five minutes in passing.
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Now I’m spending a significant
amount of time with them,
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and you are so close.
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I just really want them
to like me.
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They will love you
because I love you.
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Besides, after a few rounds of
golf on the course with my dad,
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you will be best buds.
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I never played golf.
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- Like ever?
- No.
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Don’t worry.
You will be fine.
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Okay, maybe I could
take a few lessons.
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We don’t leave
for a few hours.
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Ben, how many sweaters
did you pack?
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- I like to layer.
- Yes, but it’s Palm Springs,
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and we’re gonna be in
flip-flops most of the time.
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And I was a Boy Scout.
I go prepared.
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See? Now it actually closes,
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and you have room
for other things like...
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a magazine,
some light reading by the pool.
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You make fun, but James Quincy’s
article on emerging markets
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will make you
rethink everything
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you thought you knew
about economics.
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I’m sorry you got passed over
for that job with Quincy.
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I’m not. If I got
the teaching job at Oxford,
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I never would’ve met you.
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Then I guess everything worked
out the way it was supposed to.
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Sure did. Now I’m engaged to
an almost-tenured professor,
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and we’re going
to Palm Springs
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to spend time with people
that you love most.
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I love the sound of that.
"Tenured professor."
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You worked really hard.
I’m proud of you.
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Life is good.
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- How’s it fit?
- It fits perfectly.
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I’m sorry it was
a little loose before,
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but I didn’t wanna
ruin the surprise
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by asking you
what size ring you wear.
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- Thought I guessed right.
- You were close.
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I know you get superstitious
about that kind of stuff,
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so please, for me,
do not read into it.
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You mean how like
in 16th century Persia,
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if the ring didn’t fit,
it was seen as a bad omen?
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It might’ve crossed
my mind for a moment,
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but then I realized
it’s a myth and not at all real.
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Ah, the perks of dating
an anthropology professor.
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Engaged to.
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[ringtone]
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Hi, Dad.
Calling for an ETA?
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Yes, yes, your mom wants to know
how much to make for dinner.
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Uh, we’re gonna leave here
in a few hours,
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so we should be on time.
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Are Tracy and Preston
there yet?
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Uh, no, their flight was
delayed out of San Francisco.
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Listen, Stephanie, uh...
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Yeah?
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Um, drive safe.
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We will. Love you.
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Love you too.
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Okay.
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- Did you tell her?
- I was about to,
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but it didn’t feel like
the right moment.
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It’s a lot to spring on them,
but the girls will understand.
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I hope so.
They love this house
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and all the summers
we’ve spent here.
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It’s hard telling them
we’re selling it.
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I know, but they know
you’re retiring
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and that we’ve always
wanted to travel.
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I know, but it’s big news.
We should tell them in person.
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All right.
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Then somebody better go take the
"For Sale" sign off the lawn.
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Right.
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Good thinking.
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So every summer, Dad would take
a month off from the clinic
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so that we could all be
together at the house
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for some Bishop family
bonding time.
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It’s where I took
my first steps,
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it’s where I learned to swim,
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and the country club hosts
this super fun jamboree
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on the Fourth of July.
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This place sounds like
more than just a house.
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What?
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I have an idea.
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[sighs]
Okay.
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What if we get married
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at the vacation house
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on the Fourth of July?
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Fireworks and all.
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Like this Fourth of July,
in four weeks.
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No, of course not
this Fourth of July.
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Next summer.
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We’ve got the time.
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- I love it.
- You do?
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Yeah, if it’s your dream to get
married on the Fourth of July
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at your family vacation house,
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then it’s mine too.
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Wow. This place is amazing.
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- Home away from home.
- I love it.
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Wait till you see
the backyard.
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- STEPHANIE: Here we are.
- Oh, there she is!
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Hi, Mom!
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Perfect timing.
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And Ben.
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Ben, we’re so glad you are here.
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Come on, everybody, follow me.
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Are you okay?
What’s going on?
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Oh, yeah. Oh, my gosh,
I’m never better.
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I’m so excited, you two.
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- Come on, your Dad’s waiting.
- Okay.
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Hey, hey, hey,
did you tell her already?
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No. Maybe one of my students
posted on social media.
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Maybe.
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Honey, sweetheart,
they’re here.
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They just arrived.
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STEPHANIE: Tracy, Preston,
you made it.
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We’re so excited.
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- Here you go.
- Welcome to the desert.
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Stephanie, Ben,
so glad you’re here.
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Big news.
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What’s going on?
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A soon-to-be wedding.
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Wait, who told you
that we’re engaged?
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You’re engaged?
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- Y-You and, uh...
- Ben.
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Ben, right.
How can you be engaged?
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Didn’t you just start dating?
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Is that not what
this champagne is for?
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I’m so confused.
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No! The champagne is because
Preston and I are engaged.
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No!
[laughing]
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- Congratulations!
- Congratulations to you!
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Can you believe this?
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No, not a bit.
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Congratulations, Preston.
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Thank you.
Congratulations to you as well.
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Stephanie and Ben are engaged.
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So how long have you two
been dating again?
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Six months,
but we knew right away.
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Six mo-- Wow. Fast.
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And when did this happen?
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A couple days ago.
What about you guys?
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Last week.
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Mr. Bishop, thank you for
inviting me into your home.
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Your house is beautiful.
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Technically,
Stephanie invited you.
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I just didn’t say no.
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Um, Steph,
let me see your ring.
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[gasps]
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Obviously,
you’re my maid of honor.
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And obviously you’re mine.
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And since it was always
our favorite holiday,
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Preston and I
decided to get married
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right here at the house
on the Fourth of July.
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I was just telling Ben
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that I wanted to get married
on the Fourth of July.
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No way! Did you guys want
this Fourth of July?
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No. Next year.
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Okay, great,
because Preston and I
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wanna get married this summer.
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Honey, that’s only
four weeks away.
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I know it’s fast, but Preston’s
grandma’s getting older,
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and he really wants her
to be at the wedding.
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The longer we wait, the harder
it is for her to travel,
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and I know how much
it means for Tracy
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that we get married
right here at the house.
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Well, that works for us.
We can have our turn next year.
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Let’s just see
how everything pans out.
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Tracy and Preston were together
quite a long time
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before even considering
an engagement.
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Dad.
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I just don’t want anyone
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rushing into anything.
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A toast... to us.
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- We’re both engaged!
- Yay!
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Toast!
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All right,
let’s give Ben the tour.
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Ah, yes.
So how was the drive out?
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Enjoy!
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They’ve been together
six months.
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Tracy wants to get married
in four weeks.
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Oh, boy.
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Boy is right.
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So where do you want these?
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You’re two doors down from me,
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and it has an amazing view.
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I don’t think your parents
were very thrilled
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about the engagement.
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They just weren’t expecting it.
They’ll come around.
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Hope so. I know you mentioned
you were engaged before.
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You think that’s why
they’re hesitant?
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No, I don’t think that has
anything to do with it.
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It was a long time ago.
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I think it’s just that
Tracy and Preston
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have been together
for like 10 years
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and not used to a relationship
moving this quickly.
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Okay, well,
I won’t worry then.
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Okay, good.
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Morning!
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Hi.
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Morning, morning, welcome.
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Please help yourselves.
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Wow! Waffle and pancakes.
254
00:12:00,045 --> 00:12:01,587
You don’t see that too often.
255
00:12:01,687 --> 00:12:04,190
Well, I know it’s silly,
but it’s a tradition.
256
00:12:04,290 --> 00:12:06,071
When the girls were little,
they couldn’t decide
257
00:12:06,171 --> 00:12:07,633
between waffles and pancakes,
258
00:12:07,733 --> 00:12:10,476
so first breakfast
of every summer, we have both.
259
00:12:10,576 --> 00:12:12,918
You’re in full planning mode,
aren’t you?
260
00:12:13,018 --> 00:12:15,721
Just under four weeks
is not a lot of time.
261
00:12:15,821 --> 00:12:17,283
We’ve gotta be smart
and diligent about this.
262
00:12:17,383 --> 00:12:19,565
Divide and conquer.
Lists are key.
263
00:12:19,665 --> 00:12:21,527
Can you tell Tracy’s a lawyer?
264
00:12:21,627 --> 00:12:23,449
Oh, Ben, please help yourself.
265
00:12:23,549 --> 00:12:25,210
Shouldn’t we wait
for Preston and Robert?
266
00:12:25,310 --> 00:12:27,293
Oh, no, I’m sure they grabbed
something at the club.
267
00:12:27,393 --> 00:12:29,214
I told them to wait to see
if you wanted to go,
268
00:12:29,314 --> 00:12:30,816
but they didn’t wanna
lose their tee time.
269
00:12:30,916 --> 00:12:32,298
Trust me, I do not blame them.
270
00:12:32,398 --> 00:12:34,740
I do not know the first thing
about golf.
271
00:12:34,840 --> 00:12:37,182
Now that you and Stephanie are
engaged, you’ll have to learn.
272
00:12:37,282 --> 00:12:40,666
No, he doesn’t have to learn.
It is not mandatory.
273
00:12:40,766 --> 00:12:42,147
So what’s first?
274
00:12:42,247 --> 00:12:44,630
Mom and I are going to
look at dresses today.
275
00:12:44,730 --> 00:12:46,151
I already sent out
the save-the-date email,
276
00:12:46,251 --> 00:12:48,113
but I need you to order
the invitations face-up.
277
00:12:48,213 --> 00:12:49,955
- Oh, and look into the cake.
- Frankie’s?
278
00:12:50,055 --> 00:12:51,997
- Where else?
- What’s Frankie’s?
279
00:12:52,097 --> 00:12:54,680
It’s a bakery we used to
go to when we were little.
280
00:12:54,780 --> 00:12:56,562
I was thinking layered.
281
00:12:56,662 --> 00:12:58,083
- Obviously.
- With fresh strawberries.
282
00:12:58,183 --> 00:13:00,085
Oh, and blueberries
and cream-filled,
283
00:13:00,185 --> 00:13:01,326
and then it’s red,
white, and blue.
284
00:13:01,426 --> 00:13:02,968
And if we do that,
we might as well
285
00:13:03,068 --> 00:13:05,250
make the whole wedding
coordinate with those colors.
286
00:13:05,350 --> 00:13:06,452
I mean,
it is the Fourth of July.
287
00:13:06,552 --> 00:13:07,813
And my dress will be white.
288
00:13:07,913 --> 00:13:09,334
And mine will be blue.
289
00:13:09,434 --> 00:13:10,816
And that works on two levels
290
00:13:10,916 --> 00:13:12,297
because it will work
with the wedding colors,
291
00:13:12,397 --> 00:13:14,259
but also you can bring me
something blue.
292
00:13:14,359 --> 00:13:15,861
And we can do
red floral arrangements.
293
00:13:15,961 --> 00:13:17,302
Love it!
294
00:13:17,402 --> 00:13:18,984
Here you go, honey.
You’re gonna need it
295
00:13:19,084 --> 00:13:20,706
to keep up with them.
296
00:13:20,806 --> 00:13:22,948
- Thank you.
- You’re welcome.
297
00:13:23,048 --> 00:13:25,030
STEPHANIE: All right,
so cake and invitations.
298
00:13:25,130 --> 00:13:28,353
That’s not too bad, seeing as
Tracy’s list was very long.
299
00:13:28,453 --> 00:13:30,075
BEN: Easily doable.
300
00:13:30,175 --> 00:13:33,078
The best part is we can use
their list for our wedding.
301
00:13:33,178 --> 00:13:35,180
- Easy breezy.
- Mm-hmm.
302
00:13:37,262 --> 00:13:38,323
Good morning!
303
00:13:38,423 --> 00:13:40,045
Good morning.
Can I help you?
304
00:13:40,145 --> 00:13:42,407
I’m guessing you’re
one of the Bishop daughters.
305
00:13:42,507 --> 00:13:44,009
Yes. I am Stephanie.
306
00:13:44,109 --> 00:13:47,532
- And this is my fiancé Ben.
- Nice to meet you.
307
00:13:47,632 --> 00:13:49,695
That’s the first time
I introduced you as my fiancé.
308
00:13:49,795 --> 00:13:50,976
- I like it.
- Me too.
309
00:13:51,076 --> 00:13:52,938
Well, congratulations
to you both.
310
00:13:53,038 --> 00:13:54,499
Your parents said
nothing but great things
311
00:13:54,599 --> 00:13:55,540
about you and your sister.
312
00:13:55,640 --> 00:13:57,102
Thank you.
313
00:13:57,202 --> 00:13:58,984
Um, who are you?
314
00:13:59,084 --> 00:14:02,147
Oh, I’m so sorry.
Where are my manners?
315
00:14:02,247 --> 00:14:04,189
I’m Anna Kim, your parents’
real estate broker.
316
00:14:04,289 --> 00:14:05,190
Their what?
317
00:14:05,290 --> 00:14:07,312
Broker for the house.
318
00:14:07,412 --> 00:14:11,236
I couldn’t wait to tell them.
We have our first offer.
319
00:14:11,336 --> 00:14:13,338
My parents are
selling the house?
320
00:14:18,663 --> 00:14:20,405
We wanted to tell you
last night,
321
00:14:20,505 --> 00:14:21,766
but then you both announced
you were engaged,
322
00:14:21,866 --> 00:14:23,929
and it took us by surprise.
323
00:14:24,029 --> 00:14:26,611
I can’t believe that
you’re selling this house.
324
00:14:26,711 --> 00:14:28,533
Honey, it was
a really hard decision,
325
00:14:28,633 --> 00:14:30,175
but with your dad
about to retire,
326
00:14:30,275 --> 00:14:33,058
selling this house means
we could travel the world.
327
00:14:33,158 --> 00:14:34,739
We got married so young,
328
00:14:34,839 --> 00:14:36,461
and then I went straight
to medical school,
329
00:14:36,561 --> 00:14:38,143
and then you guys came along.
330
00:14:38,243 --> 00:14:42,027
I loved every second of it,
but now we have the time.
331
00:14:42,127 --> 00:14:43,989
I want you guys
to have this opportunity.
332
00:14:44,089 --> 00:14:45,670
You deserve it.
333
00:14:45,770 --> 00:14:48,793
It’s just gonna be hard
not to have this place.
334
00:14:48,893 --> 00:14:50,835
How about a compromise?
335
00:14:50,935 --> 00:14:53,438
Your dad and I put off selling
the house for a year or two,
336
00:14:53,538 --> 00:14:55,920
that way you can still get
married here next summer.
337
00:14:56,020 --> 00:14:57,922
The buyer that put in an offer
338
00:14:58,022 --> 00:15:00,024
wants the house
by the end of the summer.
339
00:15:04,629 --> 00:15:06,651
Well, we’ll just have
to decline the offer.
340
00:15:06,751 --> 00:15:09,214
I highly advise against that.
341
00:15:09,314 --> 00:15:11,616
I mean, it’s well over
the asking price,
342
00:15:11,716 --> 00:15:13,298
and you know the saying:
343
00:15:13,398 --> 00:15:15,980
Your first offer’s
always the best offer.
344
00:15:16,080 --> 00:15:18,543
I don’t know if this helps,
but it is a smart time to sell.
345
00:15:18,643 --> 00:15:20,625
I mean, with what you could
save on property taxes alone,
346
00:15:20,725 --> 00:15:22,267
it’d do wonders
for your retirement fund.
347
00:15:22,367 --> 00:15:25,510
Spoken like
a true economics professor.
348
00:15:25,610 --> 00:15:27,472
He’s right.
349
00:15:27,572 --> 00:15:29,914
I don’t want you guys to miss
out on a good deal ’cause of me.
350
00:15:30,014 --> 00:15:32,277
Stephanie, would you
really be okay
351
00:15:32,377 --> 00:15:34,719
not getting married here?
352
00:15:34,819 --> 00:15:36,881
Yeah. Ben and I will
find somewhere else.
353
00:15:36,981 --> 00:15:38,202
Definitely.
354
00:15:38,302 --> 00:15:40,044
Might be a blessing in disguise.
355
00:15:40,144 --> 00:15:42,206
That way you could
take your time
356
00:15:42,306 --> 00:15:44,168
finding the perfect place.
357
00:15:44,268 --> 00:15:47,412
Nothing wrong with
a long engagement.
358
00:15:47,512 --> 00:15:51,095
This just means we’ll have to
make your wedding the best ever
359
00:15:51,195 --> 00:15:54,078
’cause it’ll be
our final hurrah here.
360
00:16:01,165 --> 00:16:02,747
WOMAN: So these are more
traditional ones.
361
00:16:02,847 --> 00:16:04,629
Clean backgrounds.
362
00:16:04,729 --> 00:16:06,431
I like that one.
363
00:16:06,531 --> 00:16:08,473
Okay.
364
00:16:08,573 --> 00:16:09,754
- Stephanie.
- Huh?
365
00:16:09,854 --> 00:16:10,915
What do you think?
366
00:16:11,015 --> 00:16:12,477
Oh, um, it’s nice.
367
00:16:12,577 --> 00:16:15,520
It’s just a little plain.
368
00:16:15,620 --> 00:16:17,522
You okay?
We should pick one soon.
369
00:16:17,622 --> 00:16:19,844
Tracy told me she has a print
shop on standby for tonight.
370
00:16:19,944 --> 00:16:22,326
Right. I’m just
a little distracted. Sorry.
371
00:16:22,426 --> 00:16:24,649
You know what?
Let me go grab the other binder.
372
00:16:24,749 --> 00:16:26,691
There might be something
more your taste in there.
373
00:16:26,791 --> 00:16:28,793
- One sec.
- Thank you.
374
00:16:29,754 --> 00:16:30,855
Still thinking
about the house?
375
00:16:30,955 --> 00:16:34,378
Minor aftershock, I think.
376
00:16:34,478 --> 00:16:36,500
Just wasn’t expecting it.
377
00:16:36,600 --> 00:16:39,343
I completely get
where your dad’s coming from.
378
00:16:39,443 --> 00:16:41,065
Although with that being said,
379
00:16:41,165 --> 00:16:42,426
I didn’t spend
my childhood vacations here.
380
00:16:42,526 --> 00:16:44,228
I mean, I get
why they’re selling it.
381
00:16:44,328 --> 00:16:49,233
I guess I just always envisioned
bringing my own kids here.
382
00:16:49,333 --> 00:16:51,335
Our kids.
383
00:16:53,457 --> 00:16:57,842
What do you think of these?
384
00:16:57,942 --> 00:16:59,203
Ooh, I like this.
385
00:16:59,303 --> 00:17:01,125
I mean, it’s not really
in our theme,
386
00:17:01,225 --> 00:17:04,648
but it is the shade of purple
that is my favorite color.
387
00:17:04,748 --> 00:17:06,410
- Really?
- Oh, totally.
388
00:17:06,510 --> 00:17:08,813
In middle school, I wore the
same purple hoodie every day.
389
00:17:08,913 --> 00:17:10,534
- Drove my mom nuts.
- That’s funny.
390
00:17:10,634 --> 00:17:13,738
Yeah, took my fashion sense
a little bit of time.
391
00:17:13,838 --> 00:17:17,621
No, I mean, it’s funny that I
didn’t know your favorite color.
392
00:17:17,721 --> 00:17:21,866
Well, I guess
it just never came up.
393
00:17:21,966 --> 00:17:23,707
What’s yours?
394
00:17:23,807 --> 00:17:24,708
Orange.
395
00:17:24,808 --> 00:17:27,311
- Orange.
- Yeah.
396
00:17:27,411 --> 00:17:29,413
Yeah, I prefer the burnt tones.
397
00:17:30,694 --> 00:17:32,696
I did not expect that.
398
00:17:34,658 --> 00:17:35,679
- That one.
- This one.
399
00:17:35,779 --> 00:17:37,481
Okay.
400
00:17:37,581 --> 00:17:40,304
You know, you guys make
a very cute couple.
401
00:17:45,269 --> 00:17:47,171
BEN: Where are we off to now?
402
00:17:47,271 --> 00:17:49,793
STEPHANIE: Off to Frankie’s
to get a cake, of course.
403
00:18:01,165 --> 00:18:02,786
- Stephanie!
- Frankie.
404
00:18:02,886 --> 00:18:04,148
It’s been too long.
405
00:18:04,248 --> 00:18:06,230
I know.
Last summer I was in Antigua,
406
00:18:06,330 --> 00:18:08,632
researching the indigenous
people of the Arawak.
407
00:18:08,732 --> 00:18:11,235
As one does.
408
00:18:11,335 --> 00:18:14,398
Hey, I saw that your parents
listed their house.
409
00:18:14,498 --> 00:18:16,160
Yeah, they already
have an offer.
410
00:18:16,260 --> 00:18:18,362
- Wow.
- Mm-hmm.
411
00:18:18,462 --> 00:18:20,324
Oh, this is my fiancé Ben.
412
00:18:20,424 --> 00:18:21,725
Fiancé?
413
00:18:21,825 --> 00:18:23,327
Nice meeting you, Ben.
414
00:18:23,427 --> 00:18:25,929
Nice to meet you too.
It smells amazing in here.
415
00:18:26,029 --> 00:18:27,691
Well, you have to have a sample.
416
00:18:27,791 --> 00:18:30,734
Frankie used to spoil us with
her samples when we were little.
417
00:18:30,834 --> 00:18:32,656
Well, you and your sister
were my favorite customers.
418
00:18:32,756 --> 00:18:35,859
Now, these are
our newest creation.
419
00:18:35,959 --> 00:18:37,341
Okay.
420
00:18:37,441 --> 00:18:39,443
Thanks.
421
00:18:40,284 --> 00:18:41,185
Mmm!
422
00:18:41,285 --> 00:18:42,346
What do you think?
423
00:18:42,446 --> 00:18:44,268
Oh, my gosh, that’s so good.
424
00:18:44,368 --> 00:18:45,829
No wonder we’re getting
the cake from here.
425
00:18:45,929 --> 00:18:47,991
Cake? For your wedding?
426
00:18:48,091 --> 00:18:49,433
No, for Tracy and Preston.
427
00:18:49,533 --> 00:18:51,034
They got engaged
at the same time,
428
00:18:51,134 --> 00:18:53,597
but their wedding is first
on the Fourth of July.
429
00:18:53,697 --> 00:18:56,560
Oh, that’s wonderful!
430
00:18:56,660 --> 00:18:59,323
Wait. Do you mean
this Fourth of July?
431
00:18:59,423 --> 00:19:00,844
Yes.
432
00:19:00,944 --> 00:19:03,407
We’re backed up on orders
for months.
433
00:19:03,507 --> 00:19:06,930
I’m so sorry, but that’s
the busiest time of the year.
434
00:19:07,030 --> 00:19:08,612
Oh, no.
435
00:19:08,712 --> 00:19:10,574
Little Frankie
would be so disappointed
436
00:19:10,674 --> 00:19:13,497
if she knew we couldn’t get
the wedding cake here.
437
00:19:13,597 --> 00:19:17,461
Well, I would never
disappoint Little Frankie.
438
00:19:17,561 --> 00:19:20,183
Let me go check the order book.
I’ll see what I can do.
439
00:19:20,283 --> 00:19:24,027
Little Frankie!
[laughing]
440
00:19:24,127 --> 00:19:26,309
Um, who’s Little Frankie?
441
00:19:26,409 --> 00:19:29,673
When I was like 10 or so,
I wanted an extra cookie,
442
00:19:29,773 --> 00:19:32,315
so I told her that I would name
one of my kids after her.
443
00:19:32,415 --> 00:19:34,598
- Good to know.
- Yeah, so take note.
444
00:19:34,698 --> 00:19:36,920
Number four or five
has to be named Frankie.
445
00:19:37,020 --> 00:19:38,401
Wait, you want
four or five kids?
446
00:19:38,501 --> 00:19:40,443
Try five or six.
You knew that.
447
00:19:40,543 --> 00:19:42,365
I did not know that.
448
00:19:42,465 --> 00:19:43,647
How many do you want?
449
00:19:43,747 --> 00:19:45,328
I don’t know.
One, maybe two.
450
00:19:45,428 --> 00:19:47,290
- Really? That’s it?
- Yeah. I was an only child.
451
00:19:47,390 --> 00:19:49,392
I came from a small family.
452
00:19:50,073 --> 00:19:52,616
Okay, I’m not supposed
to do this,
453
00:19:52,716 --> 00:19:54,778
but I’ve moved things around,
454
00:19:54,878 --> 00:19:57,821
and I will personally see
that your cake gets done.
455
00:19:57,921 --> 00:20:02,365
Thank you so much.
Tracy’s gonna be very excited.
456
00:20:07,010 --> 00:20:08,591
Making some progress
on our to-do list.
457
00:20:08,691 --> 00:20:10,313
Yeah.
458
00:20:10,413 --> 00:20:13,717
Have you given any thought
to our plan B for the wedding?
459
00:20:13,817 --> 00:20:15,478
- Not yet. You?
- Nah.
460
00:20:15,578 --> 00:20:17,400
I was so focused
on the proposal,
461
00:20:17,500 --> 00:20:19,943
I hadn’t thought much
about our next steps.
462
00:20:23,066 --> 00:20:24,327
What?
463
00:20:24,427 --> 00:20:27,250
I just got an email
from James Quincy.
464
00:20:27,350 --> 00:20:31,614
Another riveting article
on emerging markets?
465
00:20:31,714 --> 00:20:35,578
The guy they hired for the
Oxford spot just dropped out.
466
00:20:35,678 --> 00:20:38,341
Apparently they’re going over
my application from last year.
467
00:20:38,441 --> 00:20:41,064
- Wait, really?
- This is amazing.
468
00:20:41,164 --> 00:20:42,345
What does this mean?
469
00:20:42,445 --> 00:20:44,587
That I have another shot
at the job.
470
00:20:44,687 --> 00:20:46,309
I could be teaching
and doing research
471
00:20:46,409 --> 00:20:48,471
at the Oxford School
of Economics.
472
00:20:48,571 --> 00:20:50,233
Under your hero.
473
00:20:50,333 --> 00:20:52,335
I can’t even believe
I have this opportunity.
474
00:20:53,536 --> 00:20:55,838
Well, what does this mean
for us?
475
00:20:55,938 --> 00:20:57,520
We move to England.
476
00:20:57,620 --> 00:21:00,563
I can’t move to England.
I’m about to make tenure,
477
00:21:00,663 --> 00:21:03,166
and you know how rare that is
for a professor my age.
478
00:21:03,266 --> 00:21:04,807
I can’t just walk away.
479
00:21:04,907 --> 00:21:06,769
Right, I’m sorry.
480
00:21:06,869 --> 00:21:09,052
I didn’t mean
to jump ahead like that.
481
00:21:09,152 --> 00:21:12,335
You know, when I applied,
I hadn’t met you yet.
482
00:21:12,435 --> 00:21:14,337
I don’t wanna be responsible
483
00:21:14,437 --> 00:21:16,439
for you missing
something like this.
484
00:21:18,080 --> 00:21:19,982
We don’t have to talk
about this right now.
485
00:21:20,082 --> 00:21:21,464
They already passed on me once.
486
00:21:21,564 --> 00:21:22,605
I’m sure there’s
hundreds of candidates
487
00:21:22,685 --> 00:21:24,187
more qualified than me,
488
00:21:24,287 --> 00:21:26,349
so I doubt they’d even
offer it to me.
489
00:21:26,449 --> 00:21:28,751
Maybe, but none
more hard-working
490
00:21:28,851 --> 00:21:30,753
or talented than you.
491
00:21:30,853 --> 00:21:32,275
Thank you.
492
00:21:32,375 --> 00:21:35,398
I just wanna be spending
some time with my girl.
493
00:21:35,498 --> 00:21:37,500
- We can do that.
- Yeah.
494
00:21:42,545 --> 00:21:44,367
Ooh! So close.
Maybe next time.
495
00:21:44,467 --> 00:21:47,890
I can’t wait for you all
to see my wedding dress.
496
00:21:47,990 --> 00:21:49,572
You know, I really lucked out.
497
00:21:49,672 --> 00:21:51,294
Only a few alterations,
and it will be ready.
498
00:21:51,394 --> 00:21:53,776
We successfully picked out
your cake and invitations,
499
00:21:53,876 --> 00:21:55,818
so creating your dream wedding
in four weeks?
500
00:21:55,918 --> 00:21:57,540
No problem.
501
00:21:57,640 --> 00:21:59,902
Ah-ah-ah.
There’s still a lot to do.
502
00:22:00,002 --> 00:22:01,264
Don’t jinx us.
503
00:22:01,364 --> 00:22:04,086
Mom, don’t worry.
We’ve got this.
504
00:22:08,330 --> 00:22:10,332
Yes!
505
00:22:11,694 --> 00:22:13,556
You guys win again.
506
00:22:13,656 --> 00:22:14,837
Rematch later?
507
00:22:14,937 --> 00:22:16,959
Always.
508
00:22:17,059 --> 00:22:20,563
All right, come and get it!
509
00:22:20,663 --> 00:22:24,006
Here we go.
Ribs a la Robert.
510
00:22:24,106 --> 00:22:27,410
Ah, and my famous
corn on the cob.
511
00:22:27,510 --> 00:22:29,412
TRACY: My favorite.
PRESTON: Ooh-whee!
512
00:22:29,512 --> 00:22:31,514
All right.
513
00:22:32,555 --> 00:22:34,216
This smells amazing,
Mr. Bishop.
514
00:22:34,316 --> 00:22:36,499
Ah, it’s the slow roast method.
515
00:22:36,599 --> 00:22:38,661
The longer it waits,
the better it is.
516
00:22:38,761 --> 00:22:40,302
Should I be at all concerned
517
00:22:40,402 --> 00:22:43,706
that the fire extinguisher
is so close to the grill?
518
00:22:43,806 --> 00:22:45,988
- Dad?
- It’s always been there.
519
00:22:46,088 --> 00:22:47,910
When the girls were little,
520
00:22:48,010 --> 00:22:49,912
Stephanie would use the grill
to roast her marshmallows.
521
00:22:50,012 --> 00:22:51,474
We never had to use it,
522
00:22:51,574 --> 00:22:54,917
but let’s just say
we had a few close calls.
523
00:22:55,017 --> 00:22:56,959
I didn’t like to wait.
It’s always faster
524
00:22:57,059 --> 00:22:58,801
if you just catch ’em on fire
and blow it out.
525
00:22:58,901 --> 00:23:00,042
I’m with her.
526
00:23:00,142 --> 00:23:01,443
Can you tell me more about
527
00:23:01,543 --> 00:23:03,365
Stephanie as a young kid?
528
00:23:03,465 --> 00:23:05,648
She was a little bit
of a troublemaker.
529
00:23:05,748 --> 00:23:06,929
That is not true.
530
00:23:07,029 --> 00:23:09,011
Yes, it is true.
531
00:23:09,111 --> 00:23:11,854
Don’t you remember the time
you gave all my dolls a haircut?
532
00:23:11,954 --> 00:23:13,936
It was trendy.
533
00:23:14,036 --> 00:23:15,497
Or the time
we had to go to the ER
534
00:23:15,597 --> 00:23:17,419
when you thought it was wise
to jump off the roof
535
00:23:17,519 --> 00:23:22,464
with an umbrella
after seeing Mary Poppins.
536
00:23:22,564 --> 00:23:24,747
Tracy was
our practical daughter.
537
00:23:24,847 --> 00:23:27,549
Stephanie, she always moved
to the beat of her own drum.
538
00:23:27,649 --> 00:23:30,312
AKA Tracy was more responsible.
539
00:23:30,412 --> 00:23:32,314
ELEANORE:
Now, I didn’t say that.
540
00:23:32,414 --> 00:23:33,836
Hey, I’ll take it.
541
00:23:33,936 --> 00:23:36,759
Because I’m so responsible,
I met Preston.
542
00:23:36,859 --> 00:23:38,600
Oh, how’d you guys meet?
543
00:23:38,700 --> 00:23:41,723
It’s my first day of law school,
very first class,
544
00:23:41,823 --> 00:23:44,726
and I read the syllabus
the wrong way
545
00:23:44,826 --> 00:23:46,528
and showed up
with the wrong textbook.
546
00:23:46,628 --> 00:23:49,611
I look over,
and this beautiful girl
547
00:23:49,711 --> 00:23:52,374
is just watching me scramble.
548
00:23:52,474 --> 00:23:55,297
She reaches out,
hands me the correct book,
549
00:23:55,397 --> 00:23:57,459
and that was that.
550
00:23:57,559 --> 00:24:00,262
I cannot believe
you had an extra textbook.
551
00:24:00,362 --> 00:24:01,864
To be fair,
I had two textbooks
552
00:24:01,964 --> 00:24:03,745
because there were
two different editions,
553
00:24:03,845 --> 00:24:06,188
and I didn’t know which one
the professor would teach from.
554
00:24:06,288 --> 00:24:07,950
Been together ever since.
555
00:24:08,050 --> 00:24:11,153
So what about you two?
Was it love at first sight?
556
00:24:11,253 --> 00:24:13,035
It was.
For me, at least.
557
00:24:13,135 --> 00:24:16,078
I mean, from the moment
she gave me a handful of tissues
558
00:24:16,178 --> 00:24:18,440
to clean the coffee
I just spilled all over myself.
559
00:24:18,540 --> 00:24:21,843
And for me, it was that he
didn’t seem that upset at all.
560
00:24:21,943 --> 00:24:23,445
Well, it was iced coffee.
561
00:24:23,545 --> 00:24:24,926
[chuckles]
562
00:24:25,026 --> 00:24:27,969
I met Eleanore in second grade.
563
00:24:28,069 --> 00:24:29,491
Well, that’s incredible.
564
00:24:29,591 --> 00:24:31,413
Yep. Knew her nine years
565
00:24:31,513 --> 00:24:32,614
before I even asked her out.
566
00:24:32,714 --> 00:24:34,816
Twenty-two
before we were engaged.
567
00:24:34,916 --> 00:24:36,698
That is a long time.
568
00:24:36,798 --> 00:24:39,861
I think we knew each other
better than we knew ourselves.
569
00:24:39,961 --> 00:24:43,545
Built a solid friendship first,
then the romance came.
570
00:24:43,645 --> 00:24:46,588
And we had the same values,
the same vision for the future.
571
00:24:46,688 --> 00:24:48,230
That’s the important thing.
572
00:24:48,330 --> 00:24:50,632
ELEANORE: Yes, hey,
but that was our story.
573
00:24:50,732 --> 00:24:52,994
Everybody’s story is different.
574
00:24:53,094 --> 00:24:56,598
And our Stephanie has always
moved at a faster pace.
575
00:24:56,698 --> 00:24:58,860
And it’s worked out so far.
576
00:25:01,943 --> 00:25:03,365
Pass the salad, please.
577
00:25:03,465 --> 00:25:05,467
Who’s ready for
some of this, huh?
578
00:25:10,512 --> 00:25:12,013
Okay, who’s next?
579
00:25:12,113 --> 00:25:15,136
Well, we gotta find
a great spot for Sam and Gary.
580
00:25:15,236 --> 00:25:17,579
- How about table four?
- Great.
581
00:25:17,679 --> 00:25:19,020
Seating chart?
582
00:25:19,120 --> 00:25:20,782
Yeah, it’s a bit tricky though,
583
00:25:20,882 --> 00:25:22,984
as we’re doing it based on
the save-the-date responses,
584
00:25:23,084 --> 00:25:24,546
but we gotta get a jump on it.
585
00:25:24,646 --> 00:25:26,308
Hey, have you seen Stephanie?
586
00:25:26,408 --> 00:25:30,712
She’s outside marking
where the tables will go.
587
00:25:30,812 --> 00:25:33,034
BEN: Oh, when was that taken?
588
00:25:33,134 --> 00:25:37,078
Let’s see, I was 17,
so Stephanie was 15.
589
00:25:37,178 --> 00:25:39,160
It’s definitely
the awkward years.
590
00:25:39,260 --> 00:25:41,723
Like you had awkward years.
No. The only reason
591
00:25:41,823 --> 00:25:43,565
that we’re not having
a slideshow at the wedding
592
00:25:43,665 --> 00:25:47,489
is because I had braces
and headgear for three years.
593
00:25:47,589 --> 00:25:49,591
She still has
that beautiful smile.
594
00:25:51,993 --> 00:25:54,736
Look, anyway, I will let you
guys get back to the chart.
595
00:25:54,836 --> 00:25:56,838
Good luck with that.
596
00:25:58,319 --> 00:26:00,662
Uh, nope, we gotta have
one less at table five.
597
00:26:00,762 --> 00:26:02,864
I just got an email earlier
from my cousin Timothy
598
00:26:02,964 --> 00:26:04,746
that he already has
Fourth of July plans,
599
00:26:04,846 --> 00:26:06,628
so he won’t be able
to make it.
600
00:26:06,728 --> 00:26:11,553
There’s another one of my family
members who’s not able to come.
601
00:26:11,653 --> 00:26:15,356
But the important thing is
that your grandma is coming,
602
00:26:15,456 --> 00:26:18,760
and she’s sitting right here,
front and center.
603
00:26:18,860 --> 00:26:20,862
That’s true.
604
00:26:23,624 --> 00:26:26,147
- Did you just splash me?
- What if I did?
605
00:26:27,348 --> 00:26:29,550
Okay, all right, truce.
Truce?
606
00:26:30,792 --> 00:26:32,794
All right.
607
00:26:33,234 --> 00:26:34,656
Can I ask you something?
608
00:26:34,756 --> 00:26:36,858
Anything.
609
00:26:36,958 --> 00:26:39,500
Do you worry that people think
we moved too fast?
610
00:26:39,600 --> 00:26:41,622
By "people,"
do you mean my dad?
611
00:26:41,722 --> 00:26:42,984
Yeah.
612
00:26:43,084 --> 00:26:46,627
He keeps dropping these
not-so-subtle hints
613
00:26:46,727 --> 00:26:49,090
about us waiting,
taking things slower.
614
00:26:50,171 --> 00:26:51,272
I know.
615
00:26:51,372 --> 00:26:54,195
I’m trying to just let it go.
616
00:26:54,295 --> 00:26:56,717
Just don’t want people thinking
we made a snap decision.
617
00:26:56,817 --> 00:26:58,920
I don’t want
you thinking that.
618
00:26:59,020 --> 00:27:00,922
That’s why, uh...
619
00:27:01,022 --> 00:27:02,964
I thought a lot about this.
620
00:27:03,064 --> 00:27:05,526
Of course I don’t.
And I don’t want you to think
621
00:27:05,626 --> 00:27:08,970
that me saying yes was, okay?
622
00:27:09,070 --> 00:27:11,072
Okay.
623
00:27:11,392 --> 00:27:13,394
Don’t you do it.
624
00:27:14,635 --> 00:27:16,257
Pretty sure we called a truce.
625
00:27:16,357 --> 00:27:18,519
We called a truce,
are you kidding me?
626
00:27:23,724 --> 00:27:25,726
Cheers.
627
00:27:27,408 --> 00:27:30,751
I’m so glad that we’re finally
all doing a double date.
628
00:27:30,851 --> 00:27:33,394
And we should go to the Fourth
of July Jamboree together too.
629
00:27:33,494 --> 00:27:34,795
Oh, yeah, the jamboree.
630
00:27:34,895 --> 00:27:36,797
Tracy and Stephanie
get pretty into it.
631
00:27:36,897 --> 00:27:37,918
That’s because it’s fun.
632
00:27:38,018 --> 00:27:40,161
- This place is so cute.
- Right?
633
00:27:40,261 --> 00:27:41,642
I heard good things
about the band,
634
00:27:41,742 --> 00:27:44,085
and apparently
they play weddings.
635
00:27:44,185 --> 00:27:45,146
PRESTON: Yes!
I’ve been looking forward
636
00:27:45,226 --> 00:27:46,327
to hearing them.
637
00:27:46,427 --> 00:27:48,809
So, Ben,
what’s your go-to music?
638
00:27:48,909 --> 00:27:50,171
- Punk underground.
- Really?
639
00:27:50,271 --> 00:27:52,133
Yeah, I did my undergrad
at Oxford,
640
00:27:52,233 --> 00:27:54,695
and I kinda got wrapped up
in the whole scene.
641
00:27:54,795 --> 00:27:56,537
I didn’t know
you lived in England.
642
00:27:56,637 --> 00:27:58,299
- PRESTON: Did you like it?
- Oh, I loved it, yeah.
643
00:27:58,399 --> 00:28:02,022
Hoping to go back someday,
if the timing were right.
644
00:28:02,122 --> 00:28:04,745
Well, at least your music taste
is better than Stephanie’s here.
645
00:28:04,845 --> 00:28:06,227
She loves techno.
646
00:28:06,327 --> 00:28:08,149
Oh, yeah. I’ve learned
to embrace that one.
647
00:28:08,249 --> 00:28:09,430
It’s fun to dance to.
648
00:28:09,530 --> 00:28:10,711
I don’t know about that.
649
00:28:10,811 --> 00:28:11,992
Pretty good
to work out to though.
650
00:28:12,092 --> 00:28:15,436
Oh, my gosh,
is that Dave Robinson?
651
00:28:15,536 --> 00:28:18,078
- That is Dave Robinson.
- Is this his band?
652
00:28:18,178 --> 00:28:20,201
- Must be.
- Did you guys know?
653
00:28:20,301 --> 00:28:23,244
- No, of course not.
- The Dave you were engaged to?
654
00:28:23,344 --> 00:28:25,646
- That Dave?
- A very long time ago.
655
00:28:25,746 --> 00:28:27,848
I like Dave.
Hey, Dave!
656
00:28:27,948 --> 00:28:29,089
Stop!
657
00:28:29,189 --> 00:28:30,090
Preston, no.
658
00:28:30,190 --> 00:28:32,192
PRESTON: Dave.
659
00:28:33,033 --> 00:28:34,895
Stephanie Bishop.
660
00:28:34,995 --> 00:28:36,997
He’s coming.
661
00:28:37,998 --> 00:28:40,100
- No way.
- Hi, Dave.
662
00:28:40,200 --> 00:28:43,344
Hey, long time, no see.
What are you doing here?
663
00:28:43,444 --> 00:28:45,426
My parents have
a vacation house here.
664
00:28:45,526 --> 00:28:47,388
Ah, I remember that, yeah.
665
00:28:47,488 --> 00:28:49,390
Never got the invite.
666
00:28:49,490 --> 00:28:50,551
Is this your band?
667
00:28:50,651 --> 00:28:51,832
Yeah, for now.
668
00:28:51,932 --> 00:28:53,273
Till something better
comes along.
669
00:28:53,373 --> 00:28:55,396
You remember
Tracy and Preston, right?
670
00:28:55,496 --> 00:28:56,477
Yeah, of course.
671
00:28:56,577 --> 00:28:58,038
You guys are still together.
672
00:28:58,138 --> 00:28:59,319
You should be married
with kids by now.
673
00:28:59,419 --> 00:29:00,881
Actually, I just got engaged.
674
00:29:00,981 --> 00:29:01,842
Congrats.
675
00:29:01,942 --> 00:29:04,725
And this is my fiancé Ben.
676
00:29:04,825 --> 00:29:06,807
Fiancé.
677
00:29:06,907 --> 00:29:10,731
Hopefully you guys make it
further than we did, huh?
678
00:29:10,831 --> 00:29:12,052
We will.
679
00:29:12,152 --> 00:29:13,734
So how’d you guys meet?
680
00:29:13,834 --> 00:29:16,376
Los Angeles College,
where we teach.
681
00:29:16,476 --> 00:29:20,220
You became a professor.
Wow, that’s-- that’s great.
682
00:29:20,320 --> 00:29:21,261
Archeology.
683
00:29:21,361 --> 00:29:22,503
Anthropology.
684
00:29:22,603 --> 00:29:23,904
Ah, close enough, right?
685
00:29:24,004 --> 00:29:25,586
Not really.
686
00:29:25,686 --> 00:29:27,307
Well, I’m gonna finish
setting up,
687
00:29:27,407 --> 00:29:29,830
but, man, it was really good
to see you, Steph.
688
00:29:29,930 --> 00:29:31,191
You too.
689
00:29:31,291 --> 00:29:32,793
Don’t judge me on these guys.
690
00:29:32,893 --> 00:29:34,795
They won’t let me play
my original stuff, so...
691
00:29:34,895 --> 00:29:36,897
PRESTON: See you, Dave.
692
00:29:39,860 --> 00:29:41,521
You okay?
693
00:29:41,621 --> 00:29:43,623
Yeah.
694
00:29:45,986 --> 00:29:48,969
PRESTON: All I’m saying is
I kinda liked the band.
695
00:29:49,069 --> 00:29:51,211
We could at least
see if they’re available.
696
00:29:51,311 --> 00:29:53,774
No, that would be so weird.
697
00:29:53,874 --> 00:29:56,697
I don’t want that guy
at our wedding in any capacity.
698
00:29:56,797 --> 00:29:59,339
I don’t think that you
would’ve gone to grad school
699
00:29:59,439 --> 00:30:01,341
or got your doctorate
if you guys stayed together.
700
00:30:01,441 --> 00:30:03,183
It’s true.
701
00:30:03,283 --> 00:30:06,706
Him leaving you was the best
thing that could’ve happened.
702
00:30:06,806 --> 00:30:09,289
Wait, he left you?
703
00:30:12,292 --> 00:30:13,753
Could you just
give us a minute?
704
00:30:13,853 --> 00:30:14,995
Yeah, we’ll meet you
at the car.
705
00:30:15,095 --> 00:30:17,097
Thanks.
706
00:30:18,818 --> 00:30:20,760
So we dated freshman year,
707
00:30:20,860 --> 00:30:22,923
and the band that
he was with at the time
708
00:30:23,023 --> 00:30:25,245
asked him to go on tour,
709
00:30:25,345 --> 00:30:27,367
so he proposed,
710
00:30:27,467 --> 00:30:29,289
and I thought
it would be so cool
711
00:30:29,389 --> 00:30:32,052
to be engaged to a rock star,
and I said yes.
712
00:30:32,152 --> 00:30:34,774
My mom and dad were not thrilled
when I told them
713
00:30:34,874 --> 00:30:37,017
that I was gonna drop out
of school and follow him,
714
00:30:37,117 --> 00:30:40,360
so they talked me out of it,
thank goodness.
715
00:30:41,761 --> 00:30:43,763
And then he never came back.
716
00:30:45,445 --> 00:30:48,028
But it all worked out
because I was able to figure out
717
00:30:48,128 --> 00:30:50,610
what I wanted
to do with my life.
718
00:30:53,173 --> 00:30:54,674
So we have
your parents to thank.
719
00:30:54,774 --> 00:30:58,358
Yes, my parents were right.
720
00:30:58,458 --> 00:30:59,879
It wasn’t until he was gone
721
00:30:59,979 --> 00:31:03,223
that I realized how much
he was holding me back.
722
00:31:05,385 --> 00:31:07,987
I’d like to think I would’ve
figured it out at some point.
723
00:31:10,950 --> 00:31:13,573
But I’m glad I went
through all of that
724
00:31:13,673 --> 00:31:17,317
because it led me to you.
725
00:31:46,666 --> 00:31:48,688
Wow.
726
00:31:48,788 --> 00:31:51,050
This a 1955 Thunderbird?
727
00:31:51,150 --> 00:31:52,412
It sure is.
728
00:31:52,512 --> 00:31:54,013
I didn’t know
you had this in here.
729
00:31:54,113 --> 00:31:55,695
This is stunning.
730
00:31:55,795 --> 00:31:57,417
My pride and joy.
731
00:31:57,517 --> 00:32:01,341
I may have to sell it soon
to pay for all these weddings.
732
00:32:01,441 --> 00:32:02,982
Oh, you don’t have to do that.
733
00:32:03,082 --> 00:32:05,184
Stephanie and I said
we’d pay for it ourselves.
734
00:32:05,284 --> 00:32:07,387
You don’t think I can pay
for my daughter’s wedding?
735
00:32:07,487 --> 00:32:09,549
What? No, no, no.
I just mean that,
736
00:32:09,649 --> 00:32:11,631
you know, you don’t have to,
if you don’t want to.
737
00:32:11,731 --> 00:32:13,352
Not a traditional guy, huh?
738
00:32:13,452 --> 00:32:15,995
I am with some things.
739
00:32:16,095 --> 00:32:19,439
Not in paying
for the wedding or, say,
740
00:32:19,539 --> 00:32:22,101
asking my permission
before proposing.
741
00:32:24,263 --> 00:32:26,425
[chuckling]
742
00:32:28,547 --> 00:32:30,549
So Thunderbird, huh?
743
00:32:31,991 --> 00:32:33,493
Where’d you get her?
744
00:32:33,593 --> 00:32:35,815
My dad used to own one.
745
00:32:35,915 --> 00:32:37,737
Few years ago,
I found this one online.
746
00:32:37,837 --> 00:32:39,859
- Been restoring it.
- Does it run?
747
00:32:39,959 --> 00:32:41,941
Almost.
748
00:32:42,041 --> 00:32:43,823
I restored it
with all original parts,
749
00:32:43,923 --> 00:32:45,945
but I still need an idler arm.
750
00:32:46,045 --> 00:32:47,667
Can’t find
an authentic one anywhere,
751
00:32:47,767 --> 00:32:49,308
and I don’t wanna risk
putting something in
752
00:32:49,408 --> 00:32:51,230
that wasn’t made specifically
for this model,
753
00:32:51,330 --> 00:32:54,053
so still on the hunt.
754
00:32:55,414 --> 00:32:57,416
Do you mind if I take a look?
755
00:32:59,298 --> 00:33:01,300
- Yeah, sure.
- Thanks.
756
00:33:03,582 --> 00:33:06,165
You got a 292 cubic inch OHV.
757
00:33:06,265 --> 00:33:09,528
You got a 292 wide block
V8 engine.
758
00:33:09,628 --> 00:33:11,650
This is all first of its kind
stuff, sir.
759
00:33:11,750 --> 00:33:14,293
I didn’t realize
you’re into classic cars.
760
00:33:14,393 --> 00:33:16,335
- My dad was a mechanic.
- Ah.
761
00:33:16,435 --> 00:33:20,499
Some of my best memories are
him picking me up from school,
762
00:33:20,599 --> 00:33:23,342
taking me to the shop,
showing me all the cool cars.
763
00:33:23,442 --> 00:33:25,024
But this?
764
00:33:25,124 --> 00:33:27,947
This was my favorite.
All Thunderbirds.
765
00:33:28,047 --> 00:33:30,950
Is that all
original interior as well?
766
00:33:31,050 --> 00:33:33,052
Oh, yeah, you bet.
767
00:33:33,772 --> 00:33:34,954
Here, come, come.
768
00:33:35,054 --> 00:33:36,755
Come sit.
769
00:33:36,855 --> 00:33:38,517
- Really?
- Yeah.
770
00:33:38,617 --> 00:33:40,619
Check it out.
771
00:33:42,821 --> 00:33:44,823
Ohh!
772
00:33:46,105 --> 00:33:47,406
Ohh!
773
00:33:47,506 --> 00:33:49,848
Now this is how a car’s
supposed to feel.
774
00:33:49,948 --> 00:33:51,810
[chuckles]
775
00:33:51,910 --> 00:33:54,333
Ben, you should hit the green
with Preston and me tomorrow
776
00:33:54,433 --> 00:33:55,854
before the food tasting.
777
00:33:55,954 --> 00:33:57,536
I would love to hit the green
with you guys.
778
00:33:57,636 --> 00:33:59,738
You’re talking
about golf, right?
779
00:33:59,838 --> 00:34:01,380
Yes.
780
00:34:01,480 --> 00:34:03,302
But I have to warn you
I’m not very good,
781
00:34:03,402 --> 00:34:06,705
seeing as I’ve actually
never played before.
782
00:34:06,805 --> 00:34:08,347
That’s all right.
You seem like a sharp guy.
783
00:34:08,447 --> 00:34:10,469
I’m sure you’ll pick it up
in no time.
784
00:34:10,569 --> 00:34:12,571
Hope so.
785
00:34:23,582 --> 00:34:25,484
Why are you smiling?
786
00:34:25,584 --> 00:34:27,966
Your dad just asked me
to play golf with him tomorrow.
787
00:34:28,066 --> 00:34:29,128
That’s great.
788
00:34:29,228 --> 00:34:31,130
I’m pretty sure
we just bonded.
789
00:34:31,230 --> 00:34:33,652
I knew you would.
790
00:34:33,752 --> 00:34:36,735
He did make a comment about me
not asking his permission
791
00:34:36,835 --> 00:34:38,217
before I proposed.
792
00:34:38,317 --> 00:34:41,900
Hmm. I didn’t even really
consider that.
793
00:34:42,000 --> 00:34:44,303
He’s kind of old school,
but he can be swayed.
794
00:34:44,403 --> 00:34:46,225
When I told him
that I was taking a year off
795
00:34:46,325 --> 00:34:48,227
between high school and college,
I thought he’d freak out,
796
00:34:48,327 --> 00:34:50,869
but after a six-hour
conversation about my future,
797
00:34:50,969 --> 00:34:52,391
he was totally cool.
798
00:34:52,491 --> 00:34:54,393
Don’t worry.
799
00:34:54,493 --> 00:34:58,036
It’s an archaic tradition.
Trust me, I would know.
800
00:34:58,136 --> 00:34:59,558
Who wants some fresh lemonade?
801
00:34:59,658 --> 00:35:01,660
Oh, yes, thank you.
802
00:35:03,742 --> 00:35:05,444
That is amazing.
803
00:35:05,544 --> 00:35:07,085
Isn’t it?
It’s the cucumber.
804
00:35:07,185 --> 00:35:09,207
My secret weapon.
805
00:35:09,307 --> 00:35:12,170
Hey, Steph, did you look at the
photographers that I sent you?
806
00:35:12,270 --> 00:35:14,733
Yes, I think we should go
with this one,
807
00:35:14,833 --> 00:35:17,576
since your first choice
is hard to get in touch with.
808
00:35:17,676 --> 00:35:19,137
You know what, I’m gonna
leave this to you guys.
809
00:35:19,237 --> 00:35:20,579
I’m gonna go watch
some YouTube videos
810
00:35:20,679 --> 00:35:22,841
- on how to hit a golf ball.
- Good luck.
811
00:35:28,366 --> 00:35:29,748
I like him.
812
00:35:29,848 --> 00:35:31,850
Me too.
813
00:35:45,423 --> 00:35:47,425
[sighs]
814
00:35:53,391 --> 00:35:55,173
Setting the bar high
like always, sir.
815
00:35:55,273 --> 00:35:56,895
My axis is slightly off.
816
00:35:56,995 --> 00:35:59,818
Couldn’t tell.
Your downswing was perfect.
817
00:35:59,918 --> 00:36:01,920
Yeah, great downswing.
818
00:36:07,605 --> 00:36:09,307
Hey, did you ask
for Robert’s permission
819
00:36:09,407 --> 00:36:10,749
before you proposed to Tracy?
820
00:36:10,849 --> 00:36:12,150
I did.
821
00:36:12,250 --> 00:36:13,631
You didn’t, I presume?
822
00:36:13,731 --> 00:36:15,073
I honestly didn’t even
think about it.
823
00:36:15,173 --> 00:36:16,715
I mean, we’re not that close,
824
00:36:16,815 --> 00:36:19,597
and Stephanie’s more modern
with that kind of stuff.
825
00:36:19,697 --> 00:36:21,639
He didn’t say anything
to you, did he?
826
00:36:21,739 --> 00:36:23,681
- No.
- Okay, good.
827
00:36:23,781 --> 00:36:25,323
I figure that’s why
he’s being so rough on me.
828
00:36:25,423 --> 00:36:27,766
Hey, look,
he was rough on me, too,
829
00:36:27,866 --> 00:36:29,407
when I first started
dating Tracy,
830
00:36:29,507 --> 00:36:30,809
but just give him
a little while.
831
00:36:30,909 --> 00:36:31,850
He’ll warm up.
832
00:36:31,950 --> 00:36:33,211
What’s a little while?
833
00:36:33,311 --> 00:36:35,313
About six years.
834
00:36:36,514 --> 00:36:38,516
Hey, you’re up, Ben!
835
00:36:45,083 --> 00:36:48,386
Oh, hey, I wouldn’t go
with that one.
836
00:36:48,486 --> 00:36:49,627
- No?
- You don’t wanna go
837
00:36:49,727 --> 00:36:51,189
with a high iron
on this first drive.
838
00:36:51,289 --> 00:36:53,031
You want a driver.
839
00:36:53,131 --> 00:36:54,552
Yeah, here you go.
840
00:36:54,652 --> 00:36:55,553
Driver.
841
00:36:55,653 --> 00:36:57,715
- Thank you.
- Yeah.
842
00:36:57,815 --> 00:36:59,817
Here we go.
843
00:37:08,146 --> 00:37:10,148
Easy peasy.
844
00:37:24,962 --> 00:37:26,584
Sorry.
845
00:37:26,684 --> 00:37:28,686
Okay.
846
00:37:35,533 --> 00:37:39,837
Look, golf is a game of time,
patience, and precision.
847
00:37:39,937 --> 00:37:42,360
Try looking at the ball
the entire time.
848
00:37:42,460 --> 00:37:44,462
Okay.
849
00:37:47,665 --> 00:37:49,667
Wha--
850
00:37:51,909 --> 00:37:53,331
I-I’m so sorry.
851
00:37:53,431 --> 00:37:55,613
I have no idea what happened.
852
00:37:55,713 --> 00:37:58,015
That was my dad’s favorite club.
853
00:37:58,115 --> 00:37:59,617
Are you serious?
854
00:37:59,717 --> 00:38:01,939
Sir, I’ll go get it right now.
I am so sorry.
855
00:38:02,039 --> 00:38:04,181
Careful not to swallow
any of that water.
856
00:38:04,281 --> 00:38:06,283
No clue what’s in it.
857
00:38:08,726 --> 00:38:10,348
Ben, Ben, Ben, Ben.
858
00:38:10,448 --> 00:38:12,750
Stop, stop, I’m kidding.
859
00:38:12,850 --> 00:38:14,832
It’s an old set
from a yard sale.
860
00:38:14,932 --> 00:38:16,934
You don’t have to go in there.
861
00:38:21,739 --> 00:38:23,361
All right.
862
00:38:23,461 --> 00:38:25,082
I’m so sorry.
863
00:38:25,182 --> 00:38:27,324
I didn’t think
you’d really go in.
864
00:38:27,424 --> 00:38:32,329
May not be a great golfer,
but you’ve got, uh, zest.
865
00:38:32,429 --> 00:38:35,152
- Gonna be a long day.
- Mm-hmm.
866
00:38:36,473 --> 00:38:38,475
It’s all right.
867
00:38:40,798 --> 00:38:43,621
And you’re sure that we can’t
just have one of everything?
868
00:38:43,721 --> 00:38:46,063
We do have to narrow it down
a little bit.
869
00:38:46,163 --> 00:38:48,345
I wanted you all here
to get your feedback,
870
00:38:48,445 --> 00:38:50,347
so please be honest.
871
00:38:50,447 --> 00:38:51,869
Well, of the salads,
872
00:38:51,969 --> 00:38:53,671
I’m liking
the spinach goat cheese.
873
00:38:53,771 --> 00:38:55,913
- That’s a really good dressing.
- Okay.
874
00:38:56,013 --> 00:38:58,075
Oh, my dear,
I think the mixed spring greens
875
00:38:58,175 --> 00:39:00,958
with the crumbled bleu cheese
is the way to go.
876
00:39:01,058 --> 00:39:03,801
I don’t know. I think that
the simple iceberg with bacon
877
00:39:03,901 --> 00:39:05,442
is always the best choice.
878
00:39:05,542 --> 00:39:07,284
So everyone likes
something different.
879
00:39:07,384 --> 00:39:10,407
Great. That should
make things easier.
880
00:39:10,507 --> 00:39:13,450
Salads are the safe choice
for appetizers,
881
00:39:13,550 --> 00:39:15,773
but if this was my wedding,
I’d do the coconut shrimp.
882
00:39:15,873 --> 00:39:17,695
Yeah, me too.
I mean, it’s really good.
883
00:39:17,795 --> 00:39:20,497
Oh, but, honey, you have
to have a salad at a wedding.
884
00:39:20,597 --> 00:39:22,059
Why? Can’t mix it up?
885
00:39:22,159 --> 00:39:24,381
Because there’s a reason
for traditions,
886
00:39:24,481 --> 00:39:26,463
like having salad
before a meal.
887
00:39:26,563 --> 00:39:28,265
Yeah, sure.
888
00:39:28,365 --> 00:39:30,527
I mean, because, you know,
that’s what people expect.
889
00:39:33,811 --> 00:39:34,912
Thoughts on main dishes.
890
00:39:35,012 --> 00:39:36,754
Chicken, hands down.
891
00:39:36,854 --> 00:39:39,356
I say pot roast.
The sauce on top is incredible.
892
00:39:39,456 --> 00:39:42,800
No! I know pot roast. I--
893
00:39:42,900 --> 00:39:44,962
I make an old family recipe
every Christmas.
894
00:39:45,062 --> 00:39:48,445
Girls, you have to admit
mine’s way better.
895
00:39:48,545 --> 00:39:49,767
Oh, yeah, how do you make it?
896
00:39:49,867 --> 00:39:51,528
Sorry, Ben, secret recipe.
897
00:39:51,628 --> 00:39:53,490
Only for family members.
898
00:39:53,590 --> 00:39:56,773
Well, then I guess you’re gonna
have to let me know pretty soon.
899
00:39:56,873 --> 00:39:57,975
We’ll see how it goes.
900
00:39:58,075 --> 00:39:59,656
- Dad!
- Robert!
901
00:39:59,756 --> 00:40:01,018
I’m kidding!
902
00:40:01,118 --> 00:40:02,779
[phone ringing]
903
00:40:02,879 --> 00:40:05,822
Excuse me real quick.
I have to take this.
904
00:40:05,922 --> 00:40:07,945
Well, we should probably
eat the rest of the food.
905
00:40:08,045 --> 00:40:09,666
We don’t want it
to go to waste.
906
00:40:09,766 --> 00:40:11,428
TRACY: You just want
the rest of mine, don’t you?
907
00:40:11,528 --> 00:40:12,789
BEN: Are you serious?
PRESTON: If you don’t want it.
908
00:40:12,889 --> 00:40:15,592
ELEANORE: Okay,
take the rest of this too.
909
00:40:15,692 --> 00:40:17,714
Yeah, yeah.
910
00:40:17,814 --> 00:40:20,958
Yeah, thank you so much.
Okay.
911
00:40:21,058 --> 00:40:24,401
Preston will finish all of them.
The shrimp was so good.
912
00:40:24,501 --> 00:40:26,203
Who was it?
913
00:40:26,303 --> 00:40:27,644
That was James Quincy.
914
00:40:27,744 --> 00:40:30,667
He just offered me
the job at Oxford.
915
00:40:32,349 --> 00:40:33,650
That is great.
916
00:40:33,750 --> 00:40:35,132
Wow.
917
00:40:35,232 --> 00:40:36,453
Congratulations.
918
00:40:36,553 --> 00:40:38,555
BEN: Thank you, sir.
919
00:40:44,681 --> 00:40:48,585
Okay, so how many chairs
does that package come with?
920
00:40:48,685 --> 00:40:53,390
So can we do half the amount
for a little less of the cost?
921
00:40:53,490 --> 00:40:54,671
I see.
922
00:40:54,771 --> 00:40:57,794
Okay, thank you.
I’ll let you know.
923
00:40:57,894 --> 00:40:59,035
Everything okay?
924
00:40:59,135 --> 00:41:00,637
I never realized
how complicated
925
00:41:00,737 --> 00:41:02,599
chair and table rentals
could be.
926
00:41:02,699 --> 00:41:04,241
Well, you think you’ll have
time for a little break?
927
00:41:04,341 --> 00:41:05,402
I’d love to talk.
928
00:41:05,502 --> 00:41:07,244
I’d love a break.
929
00:41:07,344 --> 00:41:08,805
Good, ’cause I have
the perfect place.
930
00:41:08,905 --> 00:41:10,006
Where?
931
00:41:10,106 --> 00:41:11,328
It’s a surprise.
932
00:41:11,428 --> 00:41:13,430
Hmm. Intriguing.
933
00:41:16,272 --> 00:41:18,615
Ben, you did all this?
934
00:41:18,715 --> 00:41:20,297
I did. Tracy mentioned it,
935
00:41:20,397 --> 00:41:22,699
and I figured
this was the perfect spot.
936
00:41:22,799 --> 00:41:23,940
What’s all this for?
937
00:41:24,040 --> 00:41:25,342
Us.
938
00:41:25,442 --> 00:41:27,344
I figured we could talk
about the job offer
939
00:41:27,444 --> 00:41:30,747
and just get away
for a minute.
940
00:41:30,847 --> 00:41:32,268
Have a seat.
941
00:41:32,368 --> 00:41:34,370
- Thank you.
- Yeah.
942
00:41:38,495 --> 00:41:42,799
So did you find out when you
have to give your decision?
943
00:41:42,899 --> 00:41:45,682
I did. Two weeks.
July third.
944
00:41:45,782 --> 00:41:47,764
That’s right before
the wedding.
945
00:41:47,864 --> 00:41:51,928
If I did take the job,
would you come with me?
946
00:41:52,028 --> 00:41:55,131
Me moving to England
would be such a fun adventure,
947
00:41:55,231 --> 00:42:00,096
and there’s a part of me that
would say yes in a heartbeat.
948
00:42:00,196 --> 00:42:02,018
But I’m scared.
949
00:42:02,118 --> 00:42:05,221
If I leave my job,
I have to start all over.
950
00:42:05,321 --> 00:42:08,424
I’ve built this great career
at Los Angeles College
951
00:42:08,524 --> 00:42:11,788
that no one really expected.
952
00:42:11,888 --> 00:42:15,692
And I can’t let that go.
I have to see it through.
953
00:42:18,454 --> 00:42:20,116
I won’t take the job.
954
00:42:20,216 --> 00:42:22,679
Then there’s that other side.
I can’t live with myself
955
00:42:22,779 --> 00:42:24,921
if I know you didn’t take it
because of me.
956
00:42:25,021 --> 00:42:28,004
What if we don’t
talk about it right now?
957
00:42:28,104 --> 00:42:30,006
I have two weeks before
I have to give them an answer,
958
00:42:30,106 --> 00:42:32,568
and it is a beautiful day.
959
00:42:32,668 --> 00:42:35,051
It’s a beautiful lake.
960
00:42:35,151 --> 00:42:37,153
A beautiful woman.
961
00:42:38,474 --> 00:42:40,536
This decision
won’t just go away.
962
00:42:40,636 --> 00:42:42,939
I know but maybe we don’t have
to make a decision
963
00:42:43,039 --> 00:42:44,781
right this second.
964
00:42:44,881 --> 00:42:46,542
We can hold off,
965
00:42:46,642 --> 00:42:49,385
and maybe it’ll change
if we don’t harp on it.
966
00:42:49,485 --> 00:42:52,388
I think I can try to do that.
967
00:42:52,488 --> 00:42:53,870
- Yeah?
- Yeah.
968
00:42:53,970 --> 00:42:56,873
Besides, we’ve got some
fun stuff coming up.
969
00:42:56,973 --> 00:42:58,274
Got the jamboree.
970
00:42:58,374 --> 00:43:01,758
Oh, yes, I cannot wait
for this jamboree.
971
00:43:01,858 --> 00:43:06,242
Please tell me there’s
a charcuterie plate in there.
972
00:43:06,342 --> 00:43:08,344
Oh, you mean this?
973
00:43:13,869 --> 00:43:15,091
I love you.
974
00:43:15,191 --> 00:43:16,812
I love you too.
975
00:43:16,912 --> 00:43:19,315
♪♪ [march]
976
00:43:25,561 --> 00:43:28,384
I wish I could tell him to stay,
forget about the job.
977
00:43:28,484 --> 00:43:31,027
- So why don’t you?
- I’m worried he’ll listen.
978
00:43:31,127 --> 00:43:32,468
And then later,
when it’s too late,
979
00:43:32,568 --> 00:43:34,870
he’ll realize
what he missed out on.
980
00:43:34,970 --> 00:43:36,912
Should I just go with him?
981
00:43:37,012 --> 00:43:39,435
I don’t think that
there’s an easy answer here.
982
00:43:39,535 --> 00:43:41,077
What are you ladies
talking about?
983
00:43:41,177 --> 00:43:42,278
Nothing.
984
00:43:42,378 --> 00:43:44,360
Today is a fun day.
No stress.
985
00:43:44,460 --> 00:43:46,402
No talking about
the wedding or England.
986
00:43:46,502 --> 00:43:48,044
That’s gonna be
a little difficult,
987
00:43:48,144 --> 00:43:50,526
considering this is
an Independence Day celebration,
988
00:43:50,626 --> 00:43:52,688
and England had a little
something to do with that.
989
00:43:52,788 --> 00:43:53,849
You know what I mean.
990
00:43:53,949 --> 00:43:55,371
Look at this.
991
00:43:55,471 --> 00:43:59,095
Guess how many jelly beans
to win a free dinner.
992
00:43:59,195 --> 00:44:01,337
There’s at least 200 in there.
993
00:44:01,437 --> 00:44:04,059
What? No.
There’s over a thousand.
994
00:44:04,159 --> 00:44:05,341
Hey, how many are you putting?
995
00:44:05,441 --> 00:44:07,443
I’m not telling.
996
00:44:08,924 --> 00:44:10,926
Fine.
997
00:44:12,888 --> 00:44:14,550
See, Ben?
Isn’t this fun?
998
00:44:14,650 --> 00:44:16,192
- Be honest.
- It is.
999
00:44:16,292 --> 00:44:18,234
It’s my first jamboree.
1000
00:44:18,334 --> 00:44:20,516
This was always Tracy and I’s
favorite part of the summer.
1001
00:44:20,616 --> 00:44:22,238
Especially the balloon pop.
1002
00:44:22,338 --> 00:44:24,520
Yes, the balloon pop.
We have to do that.
1003
00:44:24,620 --> 00:44:26,722
- What is the balloon pop?
- Don’t ask.
1004
00:44:26,822 --> 00:44:28,604
Preston’s just bitter
because we always win.
1005
00:44:28,704 --> 00:44:30,005
I always let you win!
1006
00:44:30,105 --> 00:44:31,767
Tracy, that sounds like
a challenge.
1007
00:44:31,867 --> 00:44:33,849
It does sound like a challenge.
1008
00:44:33,949 --> 00:44:36,211
- We accept.
- Good.
1009
00:44:36,311 --> 00:44:38,313
[cheering]
1010
00:44:41,757 --> 00:44:43,819
So the team that pops
the most balloons
1011
00:44:43,919 --> 00:44:45,701
after throwing
all the darts wins.
1012
00:44:45,801 --> 00:44:46,782
Sounds easy enough.
1013
00:44:46,882 --> 00:44:47,903
Not as easy as you think.
1014
00:44:48,003 --> 00:44:49,264
Boys versus girls?
1015
00:44:49,364 --> 00:44:50,906
Oh, it’s on.
1016
00:44:51,006 --> 00:44:54,390
Careful, Ben, the Bishop girls
get very competitive.
1017
00:44:54,490 --> 00:44:55,951
We’ll see.
1018
00:44:56,051 --> 00:44:58,053
Ladies first.
1019
00:44:58,974 --> 00:45:00,976
- Yeah!
- Okay, lucky shot.
1020
00:45:02,097 --> 00:45:04,079
Where is this coming from?
1021
00:45:04,179 --> 00:45:05,761
Played a lot of darts
in college.
1022
00:45:05,861 --> 00:45:07,863
Wait till you see Tracy’s arm
at the dunk tank.
1023
00:45:16,592 --> 00:45:18,333
You guys put up a good fight.
1024
00:45:18,433 --> 00:45:19,775
We didn’t stand a chance,
did we?
1025
00:45:19,875 --> 00:45:21,777
You guys won every game
at the jamboree.
1026
00:45:21,877 --> 00:45:23,579
That’s how we roll.
1027
00:45:23,679 --> 00:45:25,541
Well, at least we didn’t
come out totally empty-handed.
1028
00:45:25,641 --> 00:45:26,542
Ben won.
1029
00:45:26,642 --> 00:45:28,183
In Constitution trivia.
1030
00:45:28,283 --> 00:45:30,706
Yeah, and he got
that super cool flag.
1031
00:45:30,806 --> 00:45:33,669
Which makes no sense at
an Independence Day celebration.
1032
00:45:33,769 --> 00:45:36,471
- Maybe it’s a sign.
- Maybe.
1033
00:45:36,571 --> 00:45:38,393
MAN ON P.A.:
Ladies and gentlemen,
1034
00:45:38,493 --> 00:45:41,236
may I have
your attention, please?
1035
00:45:41,336 --> 00:45:44,880
The winner of the guess the
number of jelly beans contest
1036
00:45:44,980 --> 00:45:50,005
with a guess of 1,776 is...
1037
00:45:50,105 --> 00:45:51,486
Tracy Bishop!
1038
00:45:51,586 --> 00:45:54,229
PRESTON: 1776! Of course!
1039
00:45:57,352 --> 00:45:59,895
- Redheads? No way.
- Yes.
1040
00:45:59,995 --> 00:46:01,136
I’m telling you,
there’s no way.
1041
00:46:01,236 --> 00:46:02,858
Studies have shown
1042
00:46:02,958 --> 00:46:05,180
that a significant amount
of Neanderthals were redheads.
1043
00:46:05,280 --> 00:46:07,823
All right, yeah,
and who’s doing these studies?
1044
00:46:07,923 --> 00:46:08,944
Scientists.
1045
00:46:09,044 --> 00:46:11,666
TRACY: Okay, I got it.
1046
00:46:11,766 --> 00:46:13,388
You okay?
1047
00:46:13,488 --> 00:46:15,270
No. That was our firm
on the phone.
1048
00:46:15,370 --> 00:46:16,912
They’ve been trying
to reach us all day.
1049
00:46:17,012 --> 00:46:18,593
Apparently there was an issue
1050
00:46:18,693 --> 00:46:20,315
with the paperwork
Preston and I submitted
1051
00:46:20,415 --> 00:46:22,117
for the case we were just
working on before we left.
1052
00:46:22,217 --> 00:46:25,560
Now we have to go refile
back in San Francisco ASAP,
1053
00:46:25,660 --> 00:46:27,162
or our client could
go into bankruptcy.
1054
00:46:27,262 --> 00:46:28,683
What? Don’t they know
you’re on vacation,
1055
00:46:28,783 --> 00:46:30,285
or that you’re
planning your wedding?
1056
00:46:30,385 --> 00:46:31,887
It doesn’t matter.
It has to get done.
1057
00:46:31,987 --> 00:46:33,328
So what are you gonna do?
1058
00:46:33,428 --> 00:46:35,090
Preston’s looking up
flights right now.
1059
00:46:35,190 --> 00:46:37,172
I’m hoping we can sort it out
in a day or two.
1060
00:46:37,272 --> 00:46:40,295
But that means I need you to
take over all of the planning.
1061
00:46:40,395 --> 00:46:42,457
Of course.
Whatever you need.
1062
00:46:42,557 --> 00:46:43,818
Thanks. You’re a lifesaver.
1063
00:46:43,918 --> 00:46:46,141
Mom says she and Dad
will help out too.
1064
00:46:46,241 --> 00:46:47,662
The most important thing
1065
00:46:47,762 --> 00:46:49,464
is that my dress
needs to be picked up tomorrow.
1066
00:46:49,564 --> 00:46:50,745
- Done.
- We also have to figure out
1067
00:46:50,845 --> 00:46:53,308
- something with centerpieces.
- On it.
1068
00:46:53,408 --> 00:46:56,411
And make sure that all of the
rentals are arriving on time.
1069
00:46:57,572 --> 00:46:59,714
No problem.
1070
00:46:59,814 --> 00:47:01,116
Thank you so much.
1071
00:47:01,216 --> 00:47:02,557
Mom said it would be
a lot for you to handle,
1072
00:47:02,657 --> 00:47:04,699
but I told her
that you got this.
1073
00:47:20,395 --> 00:47:22,337
- Hi. Welcome.
- Hi.
1074
00:47:22,437 --> 00:47:24,819
I’m Becky.
Would you like to try that on?
1075
00:47:24,919 --> 00:47:26,421
Oh, no, thank you.
I’m actually here
1076
00:47:26,521 --> 00:47:29,424
picking up for my sister,
Tracy Bishop.
1077
00:47:29,524 --> 00:47:31,426
Yes! It just came in.
1078
00:47:31,526 --> 00:47:33,528
- I’ll go grab it.
- Thanks.
1079
00:47:44,258 --> 00:47:47,802
I’m so glad we were able to get
it sized correctly in time.
1080
00:47:47,902 --> 00:47:50,485
- Wow, it’s stunning.
- It is.
1081
00:47:50,585 --> 00:47:53,568
And so is the one you have
in your hand there.
1082
00:47:53,668 --> 00:47:55,410
Huge misconception
in my line of work
1083
00:47:55,510 --> 00:47:57,732
that only brides-to-be
can try dresses on.
1084
00:47:57,832 --> 00:48:00,735
Well, ironically
I am also a bride-to-be.
1085
00:48:00,835 --> 00:48:03,618
- Even better!
- I shouldn’t.
1086
00:48:03,718 --> 00:48:06,901
Lots to do, and I don’t even
have a date picked out yet.
1087
00:48:07,001 --> 00:48:08,863
No date means no pressure.
1088
00:48:08,963 --> 00:48:12,066
That’s the best way
to try these things on.
1089
00:48:12,166 --> 00:48:14,148
True.
And in Roman times,
1090
00:48:14,248 --> 00:48:15,830
the bridesmaids
were actually required
1091
00:48:15,930 --> 00:48:19,153
to wear the same dress
as the bride to pose as decoys
1092
00:48:19,253 --> 00:48:20,995
in case enemy kingdoms
or evil spirits
1093
00:48:21,095 --> 00:48:22,837
tried kidnapping the bride.
1094
00:48:22,937 --> 00:48:25,159
So really it’s tradition.
1095
00:48:25,259 --> 00:48:27,482
Oh, I’m an anthropology
professor.
1096
00:48:27,582 --> 00:48:30,404
Oh, okay.
That makes more sense.
1097
00:48:30,504 --> 00:48:32,166
Yes.
1098
00:48:32,266 --> 00:48:35,169
I mean, I guess
I could try one on.
1099
00:48:35,269 --> 00:48:37,371
What’s the harm in that?
1100
00:48:37,471 --> 00:48:40,394
♪♪ [upbeat]
1101
00:49:13,267 --> 00:49:14,889
See, I like this one.
1102
00:49:14,989 --> 00:49:19,493
The neckline and the waist,
it’s exactly what I want.
1103
00:49:19,593 --> 00:49:21,936
You look beautiful.
1104
00:49:22,036 --> 00:49:23,257
Hmm.
1105
00:49:23,357 --> 00:49:25,820
- Trying on dresses already.
- Hi, Mom.
1106
00:49:25,920 --> 00:49:28,903
I was picking up Tracy’s,
and I got a little carried away.
1107
00:49:29,003 --> 00:49:30,344
It fits you perfectly.
1108
00:49:30,444 --> 00:49:31,866
It does, doesn’t it?
1109
00:49:31,966 --> 00:49:33,467
I love it.
1110
00:49:33,567 --> 00:49:35,569
You look beautiful, honey.
1111
00:49:36,370 --> 00:49:37,791
Why don’t we go get
an iced coffee?
1112
00:49:37,891 --> 00:49:39,073
What do you say?
1113
00:49:39,173 --> 00:49:41,175
Sure. I’ll go change.
1114
00:49:48,902 --> 00:49:51,565
Just don’t want you
to rush into this marriage,
1115
00:49:51,665 --> 00:49:53,047
at least until we find out
1116
00:49:53,147 --> 00:49:54,688
where Ben’s job
is gonna take him
1117
00:49:54,788 --> 00:49:56,330
and where that
leaves you both.
1118
00:49:56,430 --> 00:49:58,572
Mom, I’m not like everybody else
in this family,
1119
00:49:58,672 --> 00:50:00,294
and I don’t plan things
right away,
1120
00:50:00,394 --> 00:50:02,376
but that doesn’t mean
I don’t know what I want.
1121
00:50:02,476 --> 00:50:05,339
Sweetheart, you’ve only
known Ben for six months.
1122
00:50:05,439 --> 00:50:09,263
Marriage is for life.
It’s okay to take your time.
1123
00:50:09,363 --> 00:50:12,146
Maybe we did jump in
a little quickly,
1124
00:50:12,246 --> 00:50:15,309
and we didn’t think out
every single future decision,
1125
00:50:15,409 --> 00:50:18,612
but I have never been so sure
of anything in my life.
1126
00:50:20,574 --> 00:50:23,197
I just don’t want it
to be like with Dave,
1127
00:50:23,297 --> 00:50:26,320
with you wanting to follow him
without thinking things through.
1128
00:50:26,420 --> 00:50:28,402
I don’t wanna see you
get hurt.
1129
00:50:28,502 --> 00:50:31,205
This is a completely
different situation,
1130
00:50:31,305 --> 00:50:33,247
and I’ve grown so much
since then.
1131
00:50:33,347 --> 00:50:34,368
You’re right.
1132
00:50:34,468 --> 00:50:36,330
You have.
1133
00:50:36,430 --> 00:50:40,013
And I am so proud
of the woman you’ve become.
1134
00:50:40,113 --> 00:50:42,176
But you’re still
my baby girl,
1135
00:50:42,276 --> 00:50:44,178
and I reserve
the right to worry.
1136
00:50:44,278 --> 00:50:47,341
And you also need to trust
that I can make my own choices,
1137
00:50:47,441 --> 00:50:50,504
like getting engaged,
moving to England.
1138
00:50:50,604 --> 00:50:51,945
Ben is a good guy,
1139
00:50:52,045 --> 00:50:54,308
and I can see how much
you care for each other.
1140
00:50:54,408 --> 00:50:56,750
Just promise me when
you’re making those choices
1141
00:50:56,850 --> 00:50:59,393
that you’ll think about
what’s right for you, too,
1142
00:50:59,493 --> 00:51:02,876
’cause that’s what’s gonna
be best for both of you.
1143
00:51:02,976 --> 00:51:05,098
I promise.
1144
00:51:06,700 --> 00:51:08,282
That dress was gorgeous.
1145
00:51:08,382 --> 00:51:10,404
- Wasn’t it?
- Oh, my God.
1146
00:51:10,504 --> 00:51:12,506
I love it.
1147
00:51:38,812 --> 00:51:41,134
[ringtone]
1148
00:51:44,537 --> 00:51:45,719
Hey, how’s it going?
1149
00:51:45,819 --> 00:51:48,441
TRACY: Not good.
Things are snowballing.
1150
00:51:48,541 --> 00:51:50,924
And Preston just received
some really bad news.
1151
00:51:51,024 --> 00:51:53,607
- Oh, no, what happened?
- His grandmother fell,
1152
00:51:53,707 --> 00:51:55,168
and she’s not gonna be able
to make it to the wedding.
1153
00:51:55,268 --> 00:51:57,490
Oh, my God, that’s horrible.
1154
00:51:57,590 --> 00:52:00,293
I know, and he was so looking
forward to her being there.
1155
00:52:00,393 --> 00:52:01,895
When do you guys think
you’ll be here?
1156
00:52:01,995 --> 00:52:03,857
Hopefully soon.
1157
00:52:03,957 --> 00:52:05,779
Look, I know you’re already
doing a million things.
1158
00:52:05,879 --> 00:52:08,341
I haven’t received confirmation
from the florist yet.
1159
00:52:08,441 --> 00:52:09,863
Can you go check on the order?
1160
00:52:09,963 --> 00:52:11,264
Absolutely.
First thing tomorrow.
1161
00:52:11,364 --> 00:52:13,146
Okay, thanks.
You’re a lifesaver.
1162
00:52:13,246 --> 00:52:14,507
Of course. Good luck.
1163
00:52:14,607 --> 00:52:16,389
Thanks. Love you.
1164
00:52:16,489 --> 00:52:18,511
Love you.
Give Preston my love too.
1165
00:52:18,611 --> 00:52:20,613
Bye.
1166
00:52:34,828 --> 00:52:38,291
But my sister placed the order
on the website two weeks ago.
1167
00:52:38,391 --> 00:52:41,454
I am so sorry. I’m not seeing
anything under that name.
1168
00:52:41,554 --> 00:52:42,455
Could it be under Preston?
1169
00:52:42,555 --> 00:52:44,217
We just updated our website.
1170
00:52:44,317 --> 00:52:46,379
It might just be
an unfortunate glitch.
1171
00:52:46,479 --> 00:52:48,822
- What were you looking for?
- We’re doing red rose bouquets.
1172
00:52:48,922 --> 00:52:51,084
Oh, that shouldn’t be a problem.
Let me start a new order.
1173
00:52:53,326 --> 00:52:55,748
Now, when’s the wedding?
1174
00:52:55,848 --> 00:52:56,870
July Fourth.
1175
00:52:56,970 --> 00:52:58,351
This year?
1176
00:52:58,451 --> 00:52:59,672
Yes.
1177
00:52:59,772 --> 00:53:00,793
That’s next week.
1178
00:53:00,893 --> 00:53:03,236
Technically, six days.
1179
00:53:03,336 --> 00:53:05,278
I’m not sure we can fill
such a big order
1180
00:53:05,378 --> 00:53:06,759
in such short time.
1181
00:53:06,859 --> 00:53:09,042
That’s why she placed the order
two weeks ago.
1182
00:53:09,142 --> 00:53:11,524
Right. Hmm.
1183
00:53:11,624 --> 00:53:13,846
Let me see what I can do.
1184
00:53:13,946 --> 00:53:15,948
Thank you.
1185
00:53:17,390 --> 00:53:18,571
Of course
Tracy puts me in charge,
1186
00:53:18,671 --> 00:53:20,213
and it’s already
falling apart.
1187
00:53:20,313 --> 00:53:22,695
It’s not falling apart.
It’s a minor hiccup.
1188
00:53:22,795 --> 00:53:24,177
I just feel like this wedding
1189
00:53:24,277 --> 00:53:25,438
is getting closer
and closer by the minute.
1190
00:53:25,518 --> 00:53:26,939
I know.
1191
00:53:27,039 --> 00:53:29,982
And so is this decision
you have to make about the job.
1192
00:53:30,082 --> 00:53:31,424
I know.
1193
00:53:31,524 --> 00:53:33,426
- We need to discuss it soon.
- And we will,
1194
00:53:33,526 --> 00:53:35,768
as soon as we finish
all the wedding errands, okay?
1195
00:53:38,331 --> 00:53:40,473
We probably won’t be able
to do all roses.
1196
00:53:40,573 --> 00:53:42,315
Are you okay
with other flowers?
1197
00:53:42,415 --> 00:53:44,437
Yeah, we’re going with
red, white, and blue,
1198
00:53:44,537 --> 00:53:45,838
so as long as they’re red.
1199
00:53:45,938 --> 00:53:47,560
We can totally do that.
1200
00:53:47,660 --> 00:53:53,085
Ranunculus, sugarbushes,
dahlias, anthurium, peonies.
1201
00:53:53,185 --> 00:53:54,927
There are so many beautiful
flowers that come in red.
1202
00:53:55,027 --> 00:53:56,449
Great.
1203
00:53:56,549 --> 00:53:58,611
Hey, it may even be better
than plain roses anyway.
1204
00:53:58,711 --> 00:53:59,812
Problem solved.
1205
00:53:59,912 --> 00:54:01,914
One problem solved.
1206
00:54:15,888 --> 00:54:17,189
Stephanie, Ben!
1207
00:54:17,289 --> 00:54:19,111
Hi, Frankie!
1208
00:54:19,211 --> 00:54:21,514
Tracy’s cake is looking great.
1209
00:54:21,614 --> 00:54:22,995
Oh, that’s so good to hear.
1210
00:54:23,095 --> 00:54:25,438
Come decorate
some Fourth of July tarts.
1211
00:54:25,538 --> 00:54:27,600
We really shouldn’t.
We still have so much to do.
1212
00:54:27,700 --> 00:54:30,022
I think we can make time.
Plus, they smell amazing.
1213
00:54:31,624 --> 00:54:33,746
Okay, why not?
1214
00:54:37,550 --> 00:54:40,372
Why, uh, why tarts?
1215
00:54:40,472 --> 00:54:43,496
This was the favorite food
of our founding fathers.
1216
00:54:43,596 --> 00:54:46,018
That actually makes sense
because raspberry tarts
1217
00:54:46,118 --> 00:54:48,661
were very popular
in the late 1700s.
1218
00:54:48,761 --> 00:54:50,763
Decorate.
1219
00:54:52,084 --> 00:54:56,589
Oh, you both started
with the same color icing.
1220
00:54:56,689 --> 00:54:58,691
A sign it’s meant to be.
1221
00:55:01,173 --> 00:55:03,175
All right.
1222
00:55:03,495 --> 00:55:05,317
What are you making?
1223
00:55:05,417 --> 00:55:10,963
The original flag with the stars
for the original colonies.
1224
00:55:11,063 --> 00:55:13,485
- I love it.
- What about you?
1225
00:55:13,585 --> 00:55:16,729
Obviously
a very detailed portrait
1226
00:55:16,829 --> 00:55:20,312
of Thomas Jefferson
with spiky hair.
1227
00:55:32,084 --> 00:55:35,587
STEPHANIE: So the chairs
will be in rows over here.
1228
00:55:35,687 --> 00:55:37,349
And where’s the band gonna go?
1229
00:55:37,449 --> 00:55:39,712
Well, there’s no band,
but the DJ will be over here.
1230
00:55:39,812 --> 00:55:41,714
- Ah.
- Oh, hi!
1231
00:55:41,814 --> 00:55:44,837
You guys can put those on the
side of the house for storage.
1232
00:55:44,937 --> 00:55:47,079
Thank you.
1233
00:55:47,179 --> 00:55:49,601
It’s coming along great.
I’m very proud of you.
1234
00:55:49,701 --> 00:55:52,084
For being able to direct
people where to store chairs?
1235
00:55:52,184 --> 00:55:54,767
No, no, because, uh...
1236
00:55:54,867 --> 00:55:56,688
well, for helping your sister
plan this wedding,
1237
00:55:56,788 --> 00:55:58,050
for, uh,
1238
00:55:58,150 --> 00:56:01,093
for being on track for tenure.
1239
00:56:01,193 --> 00:56:03,976
For just being
an amazing daughter.
1240
00:56:04,076 --> 00:56:05,337
Thanks, Dad.
1241
00:56:05,437 --> 00:56:07,379
You deserve the best.
1242
00:56:07,479 --> 00:56:08,500
Always.
1243
00:56:08,600 --> 00:56:11,083
Are you talking about Ben?
1244
00:56:13,845 --> 00:56:15,847
[sighs]
1245
00:56:18,890 --> 00:56:20,072
Look, Stephanie,
1246
00:56:20,172 --> 00:56:22,114
the first date
I ever took your mom on
1247
00:56:22,214 --> 00:56:24,116
was to grab a cheeseburger
at a diner
1248
00:56:24,216 --> 00:56:26,158
when we were just teenagers.
1249
00:56:26,258 --> 00:56:28,480
Oh, I was worried
it wasn’t nice enough,
1250
00:56:28,580 --> 00:56:32,724
not good enough for someone
as special as she was,
1251
00:56:32,824 --> 00:56:35,927
but it was all I could afford.
1252
00:56:36,027 --> 00:56:38,710
Your mom didn’t care at all.
She loved it.
1253
00:56:40,552 --> 00:56:43,535
Anyway, we spent that whole date
1254
00:56:43,635 --> 00:56:45,697
talking plans for our future,
1255
00:56:45,797 --> 00:56:49,501
dreaming about things
we wanted out of life,
1256
00:56:49,601 --> 00:56:51,063
and we quickly discovered
1257
00:56:51,163 --> 00:56:54,406
we pretty much wanted
the same things.
1258
00:56:56,208 --> 00:56:59,351
I left knowing I’d marry her.
1259
00:56:59,451 --> 00:57:04,316
Years later,
after I’d become a doctor,
1260
00:57:04,416 --> 00:57:06,358
I took her to this
very fancy restaurant
1261
00:57:06,458 --> 00:57:08,640
for our 15th anniversary.
1262
00:57:08,740 --> 00:57:11,203
She looked at the menu
and was sad.
1263
00:57:11,303 --> 00:57:13,385
There were
no cheeseburgers on it.
1264
00:57:14,826 --> 00:57:16,328
She asked if we could leave
1265
00:57:16,428 --> 00:57:19,371
and go back to the diner
where we had our first date.
1266
00:57:19,471 --> 00:57:21,333
I asked her why.
1267
00:57:21,433 --> 00:57:24,135
She told me the cheeseburger
reminded her
1268
00:57:24,235 --> 00:57:27,259
that we had, in fact,
made our lives
1269
00:57:27,359 --> 00:57:31,362
what we wanted together.
1270
00:57:32,764 --> 00:57:35,066
I like that.
1271
00:57:35,166 --> 00:57:36,508
If you love someone
1272
00:57:36,608 --> 00:57:37,829
you wanna spend the rest
of your life with,
1273
00:57:37,929 --> 00:57:40,352
the only thing that matters
1274
00:57:40,452 --> 00:57:43,395
is that you have the same
vision for the future.
1275
00:57:43,495 --> 00:57:46,398
Well, why on earth did you
wait so long to marry her
1276
00:57:46,498 --> 00:57:48,440
after that first date?
1277
00:57:48,540 --> 00:57:51,422
Seems like you could’ve
eloped that night.
1278
00:57:52,864 --> 00:57:54,406
Stephanie...
1279
00:57:54,506 --> 00:57:57,969
that is not at all the point
I was trying to make.
1280
00:57:58,069 --> 00:57:59,971
I know.
1281
00:58:00,071 --> 00:58:02,774
My point is that you knew
1282
00:58:02,874 --> 00:58:06,618
Mom was the woman for you
right away,
1283
00:58:06,718 --> 00:58:10,361
and I know that Ben
is the man for me.
1284
00:58:11,843 --> 00:58:14,846
He’s so kind and thoughtful.
1285
00:58:16,367 --> 00:58:18,029
We laugh every day,
1286
00:58:18,129 --> 00:58:22,313
and he cheers me on
in every part of my life.
1287
00:58:22,413 --> 00:58:24,796
So you may think
that this is fast,
1288
00:58:24,896 --> 00:58:30,381
but in 10 years
or 20 or 30, whatever,
1289
00:58:32,103 --> 00:58:35,506
he’s the one I wanna have
the cheeseburger with.
1290
00:58:39,230 --> 00:58:42,133
Well, everything seems
to be coming in on time,
1291
00:58:42,233 --> 00:58:43,735
which is a good sign.
1292
00:58:43,835 --> 00:58:46,738
Just talked to Tracy,
and they are wrapping things up.
1293
00:58:46,838 --> 00:58:49,861
They’ll be home tomorrow,
so we are on track.
1294
00:58:49,961 --> 00:58:52,223
I know she’s so grateful to you
for taking over.
1295
00:58:52,323 --> 00:58:55,426
Well, I know she’d do the same
if the tables were reversed.
1296
00:58:55,526 --> 00:58:57,768
[ringtone]
1297
00:58:58,930 --> 00:59:00,932
Hello?
1298
00:59:02,773 --> 00:59:04,195
Oh, my gosh.
1299
00:59:04,295 --> 00:59:06,297
Tell her congratulations.
1300
00:59:07,378 --> 00:59:08,920
No, I totally understand.
1301
00:59:09,020 --> 00:59:11,022
Thanks for letting me know.
1302
00:59:12,623 --> 00:59:14,525
The photographer
can’t make it anymore.
1303
00:59:14,625 --> 00:59:16,007
- Oh, no.
- BEN: What happened?
1304
00:59:16,107 --> 00:59:17,128
She had a baby.
1305
00:59:17,228 --> 00:59:19,230
What?
1306
00:59:19,910 --> 00:59:21,252
Okay, um...
1307
00:59:21,352 --> 00:59:23,614
- We’ll find another one.
- Four days out?
1308
00:59:23,714 --> 00:59:25,376
Do you know how hard it was
to book her?
1309
00:59:25,476 --> 00:59:27,418
If anybody can do it, you can.
1310
00:59:27,518 --> 00:59:29,340
I’m sure they’re out there.
1311
00:59:29,440 --> 00:59:31,442
Okay, I’ll help you look.
1312
00:59:33,324 --> 00:59:35,906
Yeah, this July Fourth.
1313
00:59:36,006 --> 00:59:38,409
Yes, as in four days from now.
1314
00:59:40,051 --> 00:59:42,233
Hello?
1315
00:59:42,333 --> 00:59:45,196
Yeah, so it’d just be
for the basic package.
1316
00:59:45,296 --> 00:59:48,579
Great. The wedding
is this Tuesday.
1317
00:59:50,261 --> 00:59:52,263
Oh, you’re already booked.
1318
00:59:53,664 --> 00:59:55,666
Okay, thank you.
1319
00:59:58,909 --> 00:59:59,930
Hey, have you tried this guy?
1320
01:00:00,030 --> 01:00:01,772
Renaldo Salks.
1321
01:00:01,872 --> 01:00:04,014
Says he’s the best wedding
photographer in Palm Springs.
1322
01:00:04,114 --> 01:00:05,376
Oh, yeah, I tried him
a couple weeks ago
1323
01:00:05,476 --> 01:00:07,178
before we booked
this other one,
1324
01:00:07,278 --> 01:00:09,780
but his messages were full,
and I couldn’t get through.
1325
01:00:09,880 --> 01:00:11,662
Well, his social media says
1326
01:00:11,762 --> 01:00:13,704
he’s working
an engagement party tomorrow
1327
01:00:13,804 --> 01:00:15,146
at the country club.
1328
01:00:15,246 --> 01:00:17,708
It’s too bad
we can’t go ask him.
1329
01:00:17,808 --> 01:00:19,109
Why can’t we?
1330
01:00:19,209 --> 01:00:21,852
Uh, because we’re not invited.
1331
01:00:27,458 --> 01:00:31,982
♪♪
1332
01:00:37,668 --> 01:00:39,089
Just act like
you’ve been invited
1333
01:00:39,189 --> 01:00:40,811
and nobody knows the difference.
1334
01:00:40,911 --> 01:00:42,653
Why do I feel like
you’ve crashed a party before?
1335
01:00:42,753 --> 01:00:43,934
It was a long time ago,
1336
01:00:44,034 --> 01:00:45,536
and I was writing
a dissertation.
1337
01:00:45,636 --> 01:00:47,338
Okay.
1338
01:00:47,438 --> 01:00:49,219
Relax your shoulders a bit.
1339
01:00:49,319 --> 01:00:51,181
Oh, there he is.
1340
01:00:51,281 --> 01:00:52,423
Can I get you to--
Yeah, beautiful.
1341
01:00:52,523 --> 01:00:53,824
Smile a little bit. Yeah!
1342
01:00:53,924 --> 01:00:56,547
Okay, so what’s the plan?
1343
01:00:56,647 --> 01:00:58,028
We’re just gonna wing it.
1344
01:00:58,128 --> 01:00:59,590
He’s gonna work his way
through the guests,
1345
01:00:59,690 --> 01:01:01,311
and then we wait for
our chance to talk to him.
1346
01:01:01,411 --> 01:01:03,153
Okay, and what do we do
till then?
1347
01:01:03,253 --> 01:01:05,676
Enjoy a party
we didn’t have to plan.
1348
01:01:05,776 --> 01:01:07,778
I like that.
1349
01:01:11,021 --> 01:01:12,523
You’re right.
1350
01:01:12,623 --> 01:01:14,685
When you act like you belong,
no one even notices.
1351
01:01:14,785 --> 01:01:16,787
It’s a bizarre human trait.
1352
01:01:17,588 --> 01:01:18,489
Listen, about the job--
1353
01:01:18,589 --> 01:01:20,651
Before you say anything,
1354
01:01:20,751 --> 01:01:22,653
I’ve been thinking about it,
1355
01:01:22,753 --> 01:01:24,535
and I want you to take it.
1356
01:01:24,635 --> 01:01:25,976
What about you?
1357
01:01:26,076 --> 01:01:29,540
Lovely couple.
May I take your picture?
1358
01:01:29,640 --> 01:01:31,261
- You may.
- Yes...
1359
01:01:31,361 --> 01:01:33,263
if we can ask you
a question.
1360
01:01:33,363 --> 01:01:35,025
I don’t use filters,
if that’s your question.
1361
01:01:35,125 --> 01:01:37,067
No, that’s not it.
Are you available
1362
01:01:37,167 --> 01:01:41,271
to shoot a wedding
on the Fourth of July?
1363
01:01:41,371 --> 01:01:43,674
This Fourth of July,
as in a few days from now?
1364
01:01:43,774 --> 01:01:47,598
Yes, here in Palm Springs
at our vacation home.
1365
01:01:47,698 --> 01:01:50,000
Are you friends
of John or Ellie?
1366
01:01:50,100 --> 01:01:51,241
Um...
1367
01:01:51,341 --> 01:01:52,442
Neither.
1368
01:01:52,542 --> 01:01:54,084
I don’t understand.
1369
01:01:54,184 --> 01:01:56,566
Well, we weren’t able
to get in touch with you,
1370
01:01:56,666 --> 01:01:58,648
and we knew you’d be here.
1371
01:01:58,748 --> 01:02:00,851
I think this is
the first time
1372
01:02:00,951 --> 01:02:02,893
I’ve been stalked
for my services.
1373
01:02:02,993 --> 01:02:04,294
Flattered?
1374
01:02:04,394 --> 01:02:05,896
A little scared.
1375
01:02:05,996 --> 01:02:07,457
It’s for my sister.
1376
01:02:07,557 --> 01:02:09,219
Our photographer had a baby
and can’t make it,
1377
01:02:09,319 --> 01:02:11,321
and we are desperate.
1378
01:02:12,362 --> 01:02:14,584
Normally I’d say no
because this is weird,
1379
01:02:14,684 --> 01:02:16,186
but since you’ve gone
to all this trouble
1380
01:02:16,286 --> 01:02:17,908
of tracking me down,
1381
01:02:18,008 --> 01:02:19,950
and you’ve been at this party
for half an hour
1382
01:02:20,050 --> 01:02:22,392
without being noticed,
1383
01:02:22,492 --> 01:02:23,633
I guess okay.
1384
01:02:23,733 --> 01:02:24,875
- Yes!
- Thank you so much!
1385
01:02:24,975 --> 01:02:25,916
Thank you.
1386
01:02:26,016 --> 01:02:27,357
You’re welcome.
1387
01:02:27,457 --> 01:02:29,679
Better not take any
photos of you at this.
1388
01:02:29,779 --> 01:02:31,441
Yeah, it’s probably best
you don’t.
1389
01:02:31,541 --> 01:02:33,743
People are starting to stare,
so we should probably head out.
1390
01:02:35,225 --> 01:02:36,326
Thank you again.
1391
01:02:36,426 --> 01:02:37,647
You’re welcome.
1392
01:02:37,747 --> 01:02:39,409
Thank you.
1393
01:02:39,509 --> 01:02:41,511
May I take your photo?
1394
01:02:53,563 --> 01:02:54,544
- You’re back!
- Oh, hey.
1395
01:02:54,644 --> 01:02:55,905
Yes, finally.
1396
01:02:56,005 --> 01:02:57,787
Every time we were
close to finishing,
1397
01:02:57,887 --> 01:02:59,309
something else came up.
1398
01:02:59,409 --> 01:03:00,710
TRACY: Where were you guys?
1399
01:03:00,810 --> 01:03:03,393
Oh, you know,
just getting Renaldo Salks
1400
01:03:03,493 --> 01:03:04,794
to photograph your wedding.
1401
01:03:04,894 --> 01:03:07,037
- No way.
- That’s great.
1402
01:03:07,137 --> 01:03:08,918
TRACY: But what about
the other photographer?
1403
01:03:09,018 --> 01:03:11,161
She had a baby,
but the important thing
1404
01:03:11,261 --> 01:03:13,563
is that we are on track with
everything for the wedding.
1405
01:03:13,663 --> 01:03:15,245
I know.
It’s so incredible.
1406
01:03:15,345 --> 01:03:17,347
Oh, you’re the best.
1407
01:03:31,401 --> 01:03:34,384
See, now you wanna keep
your shoulders, waist, and knees
1408
01:03:34,484 --> 01:03:35,945
all parallel to the ground
1409
01:03:36,045 --> 01:03:37,307
so that when you swing,
1410
01:03:37,407 --> 01:03:40,430
you get the full momentum
of the twist.
1411
01:03:40,530 --> 01:03:41,951
- Okay.
- Okay?
1412
01:03:42,051 --> 01:03:44,053
Okay.
1413
01:03:53,703 --> 01:03:55,885
Better, nice.
1414
01:03:55,985 --> 01:03:57,206
Now just make sure
1415
01:03:57,306 --> 01:03:59,048
that you curve that club
around your body.
1416
01:03:59,148 --> 01:04:00,610
You don’t hit the club
straight
1417
01:04:00,710 --> 01:04:02,251
in order to make the ball
go straight.
1418
01:04:02,351 --> 01:04:04,293
- Okay.
- All right.
1419
01:04:04,393 --> 01:04:05,735
Hey, I appreciate your help.
1420
01:04:05,835 --> 01:04:07,937
If Robert actually ever
invites me back out,
1421
01:04:08,037 --> 01:04:09,499
I wanna show off
my golfing skills
1422
01:04:09,599 --> 01:04:12,382
and not my ability
to chuck a club into the lake.
1423
01:04:12,482 --> 01:04:16,466
Of course. Besides, it helps
keep my mind off things, so...
1424
01:04:16,566 --> 01:04:17,587
The wedding?
1425
01:04:17,687 --> 01:04:19,829
Yeah.
1426
01:04:19,929 --> 01:04:21,270
Is everything okay?
1427
01:04:21,370 --> 01:04:23,553
No, not exactly.
1428
01:04:23,653 --> 01:04:25,074
Cold feet?
1429
01:04:25,174 --> 01:04:26,636
No, no, it’s nothing like that.
1430
01:04:26,736 --> 01:04:28,518
I can’t wait to marry Tracy,
1431
01:04:28,618 --> 01:04:31,280
but once I found out that
my grandma couldn’t make it,
1432
01:04:31,380 --> 01:04:33,282
along with pretty much
half of my family,
1433
01:04:33,382 --> 01:04:36,205
I started to wonder if we should
have the wedding now at all.
1434
01:04:36,305 --> 01:04:39,809
I wanna share the most
important day of my life
1435
01:04:39,909 --> 01:04:41,210
with the ones that I love,
1436
01:04:41,310 --> 01:04:44,053
and I know that
Tracy has her heart set
1437
01:04:44,153 --> 01:04:47,797
on having this wedding here
at the vacation house and--
1438
01:04:49,358 --> 01:04:50,860
I’m sorry.
1439
01:04:50,960 --> 01:04:52,341
I didn’t mean
to dump this all on you.
1440
01:04:52,441 --> 01:04:53,743
I just don’t know what to do.
1441
01:04:53,843 --> 01:04:54,984
Look, it’s fine.
1442
01:04:55,084 --> 01:04:56,666
I get it.
1443
01:04:56,766 --> 01:04:59,789
I’d say your best bet
is just go talk to Tracy.
1444
01:04:59,889 --> 01:05:01,350
Tell her how you’re feeling.
1445
01:05:01,450 --> 01:05:03,592
But she is so excited
about this wedding.
1446
01:05:03,692 --> 01:05:05,514
I can’t ask her
not to have it.
1447
01:05:05,614 --> 01:05:07,316
Look, you love
each other, right?
1448
01:05:07,416 --> 01:05:09,939
Then she’ll understand
how important it is.
1449
01:05:13,342 --> 01:05:14,643
What?
1450
01:05:14,743 --> 01:05:16,726
Just realizing I should
be taking my own advice.
1451
01:05:16,826 --> 01:05:18,768
I have to give an answer
on the job tomorrow,
1452
01:05:18,868 --> 01:05:23,232
and Stephanie and I
have a lot to talk about.
1453
01:05:25,594 --> 01:05:28,657
I’m just not sure what jewelry
to wear with the dress.
1454
01:05:28,757 --> 01:05:29,779
You should do an earring.
1455
01:05:29,879 --> 01:05:31,100
[doorbell rings]
1456
01:05:31,200 --> 01:05:32,301
Dad, can you get that?
1457
01:05:32,401 --> 01:05:34,383
You guys expecting
more deliveries?
1458
01:05:34,483 --> 01:05:36,485
Not until tomorrow.
1459
01:05:37,686 --> 01:05:38,667
Hi.
1460
01:05:38,767 --> 01:05:40,809
Oh, thank you, thank you.
1461
01:05:42,731 --> 01:05:43,913
Has my name on it.
1462
01:05:44,013 --> 01:05:45,995
Did you order something?
1463
01:05:46,095 --> 01:05:48,097
Nope.
1464
01:05:54,343 --> 01:05:56,345
- Can’t be.
- What is it?
1465
01:05:58,027 --> 01:06:00,609
It’s the idler arm I need
for my Thunderbird.
1466
01:06:00,709 --> 01:06:02,711
Who sent it to you?
1467
01:06:04,473 --> 01:06:06,475
There’s a note.
1468
01:06:08,357 --> 01:06:10,579
"Robert, Ben told me
you could use one of these.
1469
01:06:10,679 --> 01:06:11,820
Enjoy.
1470
01:06:11,920 --> 01:06:13,502
Thomas Larson."
1471
01:06:13,602 --> 01:06:15,344
That’s Ben’s dad.
1472
01:06:15,444 --> 01:06:17,106
Ben did this.
1473
01:06:17,206 --> 01:06:19,208
Told you he was thoughtful.
1474
01:06:20,048 --> 01:06:22,090
I can’t believe
he did this for me.
1475
01:06:30,379 --> 01:06:32,381
This looks beautiful.
1476
01:06:35,103 --> 01:06:37,105
Thank you.
1477
01:06:40,869 --> 01:06:42,871
Thank you.
1478
01:06:44,313 --> 01:06:45,734
I can’t believe that
guessing the right number
1479
01:06:45,834 --> 01:06:48,056
of jelly beans in a jar
got us a dinner here.
1480
01:06:48,156 --> 01:06:49,738
I’m glad it did.
1481
01:06:49,838 --> 01:06:54,583
It gives us a chance to take
a step back from work and from--
1482
01:06:54,683 --> 01:06:56,685
From wedding planning.
1483
01:06:57,726 --> 01:06:59,748
Tracy...
1484
01:06:59,848 --> 01:07:02,611
I wanna talk to you
about the wedding.
1485
01:07:06,495 --> 01:07:08,076
Give it a try.
1486
01:07:08,176 --> 01:07:09,598
Oh, you bet your life.
1487
01:07:09,698 --> 01:07:11,800
[engine starts, revs]
1488
01:07:11,900 --> 01:07:13,802
- [engine idling]
- That sounds good.
1489
01:07:13,902 --> 01:07:15,524
Thanks to you.
1490
01:07:15,624 --> 01:07:17,326
I’m gonna take it for a spin.
You wanna come along?
1491
01:07:17,426 --> 01:07:20,208
Stephanie and I have some
stuff to do, but maybe later.
1492
01:07:20,308 --> 01:07:22,210
All right, later it is.
1493
01:07:22,310 --> 01:07:24,212
[laughing]
1494
01:07:24,312 --> 01:07:26,314
Enjoy! Bye-bye.
1495
01:07:29,277 --> 01:07:31,420
You know you just validated
his obsession, right?
1496
01:07:31,520 --> 01:07:32,821
Oh, you mean his hobby.
1497
01:07:32,921 --> 01:07:34,923
Same thing.
1498
01:07:36,284 --> 01:07:38,547
Look, I have to tell Quincy
an answer tomorrow,
1499
01:07:38,647 --> 01:07:41,269
so we should probably
talk about it.
1500
01:07:41,369 --> 01:07:43,371
I’ll go to England with you.
1501
01:07:46,454 --> 01:07:47,956
I was gonna tell you
I’m not gonna take the job,
1502
01:07:48,056 --> 01:07:50,358
but you would move to England?
1503
01:07:50,458 --> 01:07:51,680
You don’t wanna take the job?
1504
01:07:51,780 --> 01:07:53,361
No, I do.
1505
01:07:53,461 --> 01:07:55,403
To work with Quincy would be
a highlight of my career,
1506
01:07:55,503 --> 01:07:58,186
but without you,
then it doesn’t mean anything.
1507
01:07:59,828 --> 01:08:02,050
You would really move?
1508
01:08:02,150 --> 01:08:04,152
I would for you.
1509
01:08:05,633 --> 01:08:07,635
I can’t ask you to do that.
1510
01:08:09,357 --> 01:08:11,219
I know how hard
you’ve worked for everything,
1511
01:08:11,319 --> 01:08:13,662
and I couldn’t live with myself
1512
01:08:13,762 --> 01:08:15,764
if I knew I made you
give it all up.
1513
01:08:17,766 --> 01:08:19,868
Maybe if we’d been together
for a couple years
1514
01:08:19,968 --> 01:08:23,271
and were actually on the same
page about what we wanted,
1515
01:08:23,371 --> 01:08:26,314
but we haven’t even
talked about this.
1516
01:08:26,414 --> 01:08:29,417
And we don’t actually know if we
want the same amount of kids.
1517
01:08:34,462 --> 01:08:36,464
Maybe we did rush into this.
1518
01:08:40,668 --> 01:08:42,670
So what now?
1519
01:08:43,992 --> 01:08:45,994
You take the job,
and I stay here.
1520
01:08:48,116 --> 01:08:50,118
And us?
1521
01:08:50,518 --> 01:08:53,341
Put a pin in it,
take a break.
1522
01:08:53,441 --> 01:08:55,443
You could really do that?
1523
01:08:57,765 --> 01:08:59,968
If it meant
you following your dreams.
1524
01:09:01,849 --> 01:09:03,851
And you following yours.
1525
01:09:43,651 --> 01:09:45,593
Glad I caught you
before you left.
1526
01:09:45,693 --> 01:09:47,955
Mr. Bishop,
what are you doing here?
1527
01:09:48,055 --> 01:09:51,239
Thought I’d take
another drive in the T-Bird,
1528
01:09:51,339 --> 01:09:52,400
brought me here.
1529
01:09:52,500 --> 01:09:54,522
Which brings me
to my next point.
1530
01:09:54,622 --> 01:09:56,564
What are you doing here?
1531
01:09:56,664 --> 01:09:58,666
Stephanie thought
this was for the best.
1532
01:10:01,228 --> 01:10:02,770
When Stephanie
was a little girl,
1533
01:10:02,870 --> 01:10:04,452
she dug a hole in the wall
1534
01:10:04,552 --> 01:10:06,814
and thought the fiberglass
insulation was cotton candy
1535
01:10:06,914 --> 01:10:08,776
and that it led
to a magical land,
1536
01:10:08,876 --> 01:10:11,078
so no, Stephanie doesn’t
always know what’s best.
1537
01:10:12,880 --> 01:10:15,823
She thought I’d be happy
taking my dream job,
1538
01:10:15,923 --> 01:10:19,587
but Stephanie doesn’t
realize that I can’t be happy
1539
01:10:19,687 --> 01:10:21,689
without her in my life.
1540
01:10:23,290 --> 01:10:26,534
Then I think there’s something
you’ve been meaning to ask me.
1541
01:10:27,935 --> 01:10:30,077
My blessing
to marry my daughter.
1542
01:10:30,177 --> 01:10:33,841
I didn’t think you liked me,
Mr. Bishop.
1543
01:10:33,941 --> 01:10:35,943
Isn’t about time
you called me Robert?
1544
01:10:37,865 --> 01:10:39,867
Look, I admit I...
1545
01:10:41,348 --> 01:10:43,491
I didn’t get you at first.
1546
01:10:43,591 --> 01:10:45,453
But now I see how thoughtful
you are about my daughter,
1547
01:10:45,553 --> 01:10:48,055
how you put her needs
before your own,
1548
01:10:48,155 --> 01:10:52,179
how you went above and beyond
to get me a little car part.
1549
01:10:52,279 --> 01:10:54,622
Bottom line, I’ve never seen
Stephanie smile more
1550
01:10:54,722 --> 01:10:56,063
than when she’s with you.
1551
01:10:56,163 --> 01:10:58,405
And I wish
we could be together.
1552
01:11:01,168 --> 01:11:03,631
Sometimes when I’m working
on the car,
1553
01:11:03,731 --> 01:11:06,233
and it’s just not doing
what I want it to,
1554
01:11:06,333 --> 01:11:08,996
I stop, I breathe,
1555
01:11:09,096 --> 01:11:12,720
I look at it
from a different angle,
1556
01:11:12,820 --> 01:11:14,802
try to see my other options.
1557
01:11:14,902 --> 01:11:17,945
There’s always another way
to go about things.
1558
01:11:22,629 --> 01:11:25,112
Parked in a loading zone.
I’d better get going.
1559
01:11:27,835 --> 01:11:29,296
So anyway, you have it.
1560
01:11:29,396 --> 01:11:31,098
Have what?
1561
01:11:31,198 --> 01:11:33,180
My blessing.
1562
01:11:33,280 --> 01:11:35,642
For whenever you need it.
1563
01:11:38,806 --> 01:11:41,088
Thank you, Robert.
1564
01:11:46,974 --> 01:11:49,016
- [car door closes]
- BUS DRIVER: All aboard.
1565
01:11:51,778 --> 01:11:53,780
[engine starts]
1566
01:11:57,104 --> 01:11:59,106
ROBERT: Take care.
1567
01:12:17,364 --> 01:12:18,585
You’re up early.
1568
01:12:18,685 --> 01:12:21,428
Couldn’t sleep.
1569
01:12:21,528 --> 01:12:23,350
There’s something
that I have to tell you.
1570
01:12:23,450 --> 01:12:25,953
- Me too.
- Do you wanna go first?
1571
01:12:26,053 --> 01:12:28,055
No, you go.
1572
01:12:29,536 --> 01:12:31,238
Preston and I
are calling off the wedding.
1573
01:12:31,338 --> 01:12:32,559
What?
1574
01:12:32,659 --> 01:12:33,880
Preston doesn’t wanna
get married
1575
01:12:33,980 --> 01:12:35,282
unless all of his family
can be there,
1576
01:12:35,382 --> 01:12:37,284
especially his grandmother.
1577
01:12:37,384 --> 01:12:38,645
And I agree.
1578
01:12:38,745 --> 01:12:40,247
I was just on such a whirlwind
1579
01:12:40,347 --> 01:12:42,889
with getting the wedding
ready in time.
1580
01:12:42,989 --> 01:12:46,653
I never realized how he was
feeling till last night.
1581
01:12:46,753 --> 01:12:48,014
I get it.
1582
01:12:48,114 --> 01:12:49,576
It’d be really hard
to get married
1583
01:12:49,676 --> 01:12:51,338
without all the people
that you love most there.
1584
01:12:51,438 --> 01:12:55,021
Thank you for being
so understanding.
1585
01:12:55,121 --> 01:12:57,984
I know you’ve worked so hard
on this wedding,
1586
01:12:58,084 --> 01:13:00,647
and I was terrified
to tell you that it’s off.
1587
01:13:02,209 --> 01:13:04,791
I have to follow my heart.
1588
01:13:04,891 --> 01:13:06,473
Where’s Ben?
1589
01:13:06,573 --> 01:13:08,875
At the bus station.
1590
01:13:08,975 --> 01:13:10,757
Why? What happened?
1591
01:13:10,857 --> 01:13:14,761
I told him to take the job
and to put a pin in us.
1592
01:13:14,861 --> 01:13:18,805
Stephanie, you and I both know
you’re supposed to be with Ben.
1593
01:13:18,905 --> 01:13:20,327
- Go after him.
- I can’t.
1594
01:13:20,427 --> 01:13:22,649
I have to let him
go after what he wants.
1595
01:13:22,749 --> 01:13:24,891
Do you love him?
1596
01:13:24,991 --> 01:13:26,333
With all my heart.
1597
01:13:26,433 --> 01:13:28,214
I’ve seen the way
that he talks about you,
1598
01:13:28,314 --> 01:13:29,896
the way he looks at you.
1599
01:13:29,996 --> 01:13:31,738
You think some job
is more important
1600
01:13:31,838 --> 01:13:34,220
than what the two of you have?
1601
01:13:34,320 --> 01:13:36,863
It just all happened too fast.
1602
01:13:36,963 --> 01:13:38,905
I didn’t even know
his favorite color
1603
01:13:39,005 --> 01:13:40,266
until a couple weeks ago.
1604
01:13:40,366 --> 01:13:41,628
Who cares about that?
1605
01:13:41,728 --> 01:13:45,151
That’s not important,
and you know it.
1606
01:13:45,251 --> 01:13:48,194
I can’t give up what I’ve
been working for for some guy.
1607
01:13:48,294 --> 01:13:50,637
I didn’t do it with Dave,
and I’m not gonna do it now.
1608
01:13:50,737 --> 01:13:55,662
Ben is not some guy,
and he is definitely not Dave.
1609
01:13:57,463 --> 01:13:59,245
You need to ask yourself
1610
01:13:59,345 --> 01:14:02,589
what is best for you and Ben
as a couple.
1611
01:14:04,270 --> 01:14:07,454
You need to be honest
with each other.
1612
01:14:07,554 --> 01:14:08,575
I wanna be.
1613
01:14:08,675 --> 01:14:10,537
Well?
1614
01:14:10,637 --> 01:14:12,639
What is your heart
telling you?
1615
01:14:30,256 --> 01:14:32,438
He wasn’t at the bus stop.
1616
01:14:32,538 --> 01:14:34,120
I missed him.
1617
01:14:34,220 --> 01:14:36,222
Maybe check outside?
1618
01:14:36,903 --> 01:14:37,804
Why?
1619
01:14:37,904 --> 01:14:40,106
Trust me.
1620
01:14:54,480 --> 01:14:55,661
Hello, beautiful.
1621
01:14:55,761 --> 01:14:57,223
Hi.
1622
01:14:57,323 --> 01:14:59,545
So I just got off the phone
with Quincy,
1623
01:14:59,645 --> 01:15:05,151
and I told him that
I’m not taking the position.
1624
01:15:05,251 --> 01:15:07,754
But I did pitch him
a new one.
1625
01:15:07,854 --> 01:15:10,997
One where I can stay in LA,
do my research,
1626
01:15:11,097 --> 01:15:13,279
and for once a year
for a couple of weeks,
1627
01:15:13,379 --> 01:15:16,202
I go to Oxford,
and I teach my findings.
1628
01:15:16,302 --> 01:15:18,885
And I thought for those
couple weeks, maybe...
1629
01:15:18,985 --> 01:15:20,446
that you’d come with me,
1630
01:15:20,546 --> 01:15:23,009
as long as I schedule it
over the summer.
1631
01:15:23,109 --> 01:15:26,372
I like this plan.
What’d he say?
1632
01:15:26,472 --> 01:15:28,954
He said he thought
it would work.
1633
01:15:30,356 --> 01:15:33,059
And as far as kids go,
1634
01:15:33,159 --> 01:15:34,620
we’ll figure it out.
1635
01:15:34,720 --> 01:15:37,143
Maybe I’ll want six kids.
1636
01:15:37,243 --> 01:15:41,347
Maybe I could just do four
with like two dogs.
1637
01:15:41,447 --> 01:15:44,510
I don’t care how long
we’ve known each other
1638
01:15:44,610 --> 01:15:46,392
or that we don’t know
every single thing
1639
01:15:46,492 --> 01:15:47,833
about each other yet
1640
01:15:47,933 --> 01:15:51,157
because, Stephanie,
what we have is real,
1641
01:15:51,257 --> 01:15:54,600
and it’s lasting.
1642
01:15:54,700 --> 01:15:56,762
I’m here for you,
1643
01:15:56,862 --> 01:16:00,286
and I wanna be here for you
for the rest of my life
1644
01:16:00,386 --> 01:16:02,388
’cause my only dream is you.
1645
01:16:06,472 --> 01:16:08,374
So I’m gonna ask you
a familiar question
1646
01:16:08,474 --> 01:16:11,137
that’s all about
what you want,
1647
01:16:11,237 --> 01:16:15,621
not what you think is right or
what you think is best for me.
1648
01:16:15,721 --> 01:16:17,823
Do you think you could
answer it honestly?
1649
01:16:17,923 --> 01:16:19,925
Mm-hmm.
1650
01:16:23,329 --> 01:16:26,472
Stephanie, will you
still marry me?
1651
01:16:26,572 --> 01:16:28,574
With all my heart.
1652
01:16:41,387 --> 01:16:42,768
What is this?
1653
01:16:42,868 --> 01:16:44,850
Stephanie,
I wanna give this to you.
1654
01:16:44,950 --> 01:16:46,952
Mom bought it for you.
1655
01:16:47,673 --> 01:16:49,775
With it comes a wedding.
1656
01:16:49,875 --> 01:16:53,419
A perfect Fourth of July
dream wedding.
1657
01:16:53,519 --> 01:16:55,521
Are you sure?
1658
01:16:56,121 --> 01:16:57,102
It’s your wedding.
1659
01:16:57,202 --> 01:16:59,204
It always really was.
1660
01:17:01,006 --> 01:17:02,508
Well, I guess I’m gonna
have to get my parents
1661
01:17:02,608 --> 01:17:03,629
on the next flight out.
1662
01:17:03,729 --> 01:17:05,110
- [laughing]
- Yeah!
1663
01:17:05,210 --> 01:17:07,673
[clapping]
1664
01:17:07,773 --> 01:17:11,617
♪♪ ["Wedding March"]
1665
01:17:43,208 --> 01:17:44,469
Hey.
1666
01:17:44,569 --> 01:17:46,571
Good luck.
1667
01:17:48,774 --> 01:17:50,776
Thank you, sir.
1668
01:17:56,982 --> 01:17:59,264
You may now all be seated.
1669
01:18:02,868 --> 01:18:04,970
Ben...
1670
01:18:05,070 --> 01:18:07,693
you are my everything.
1671
01:18:07,793 --> 01:18:11,696
I am so lucky
that I found you,
1672
01:18:11,796 --> 01:18:14,399
and there’s no one else
I’d rather grow old with.
1673
01:18:16,281 --> 01:18:18,583
I know what I want.
1674
01:18:18,683 --> 01:18:20,685
It’s you.
1675
01:18:21,246 --> 01:18:23,248
Now and forever.
1676
01:18:29,975 --> 01:18:32,117
Stephanie...
1677
01:18:32,217 --> 01:18:34,719
no matter what roadblocks
come our way,
1678
01:18:34,819 --> 01:18:39,044
I will always support
and love you.
1679
01:18:39,144 --> 01:18:42,327
You are the most amazing
woman that I ever met.
1680
01:18:42,427 --> 01:18:44,749
I’m so lucky
that I found you.
1681
01:18:47,152 --> 01:18:49,154
Thank you.
1682
01:18:50,475 --> 01:18:53,258
Do you, Stephanie, take Ben to
be your lawfully wedded husband?
1683
01:18:53,358 --> 01:18:54,980
I do.
1684
01:18:55,080 --> 01:18:58,183
Do you, Ben, take Stephanie
to be your lawfully wedded wife?
1685
01:18:58,283 --> 01:18:59,344
I do.
1686
01:18:59,444 --> 01:19:01,446
You may now kiss the bride.
1687
01:19:22,387 --> 01:19:27,051
♪ The first time I saw you,
I knew ♪
1688
01:19:27,151 --> 01:19:32,137
♪ The spark
that I couldn’t undo ♪
1689
01:19:32,237 --> 01:19:37,782
♪ Not even if I wanted to ♪
1690
01:19:37,882 --> 01:19:42,667
♪ And in this moment ♪
1691
01:19:42,767 --> 01:19:47,392
♪ I saw my life
pass before me ♪
1692
01:19:47,492 --> 01:19:49,073
♪ And I knew
that it was love ♪
1693
01:19:49,173 --> 01:19:51,236
Ben is such
a lovely young man.
1694
01:19:51,336 --> 01:19:53,197
Go get yourself a drink, Tom.
1695
01:19:53,297 --> 01:19:54,919
- Mom, Dad.
- Yeah.
1696
01:19:55,019 --> 01:19:57,021
There’s something
we wanna tell you.
1697
01:19:58,783 --> 01:20:01,326
- Good news?
- Very.
1698
01:20:01,426 --> 01:20:04,128
We just got off the phone
with the realtor.
1699
01:20:04,228 --> 01:20:06,891
Preston and I have decided
to buy the house from you.
1700
01:20:06,991 --> 01:20:08,453
What? Oh, my--
1701
01:20:08,553 --> 01:20:10,775
W-What about the other buyer?
1702
01:20:10,875 --> 01:20:12,176
Well, it took
a little convincing,
1703
01:20:12,276 --> 01:20:13,378
but we got him to drop out.
1704
01:20:13,478 --> 01:20:14,739
Did I just hear this right?
1705
01:20:14,839 --> 01:20:16,541
- Are you guys buying the house?
- We are!
1706
01:20:16,641 --> 01:20:20,304
- You sure you wanna do this?
- Yes.
1707
01:20:20,404 --> 01:20:23,107
We can’t imagine not having
this house in our family.
1708
01:20:23,207 --> 01:20:26,190
Besides, when Preston’s grandma
feels better,
1709
01:20:26,290 --> 01:20:28,793
we still wanna have our wedding
right here in the backyard.
1710
01:20:28,893 --> 01:20:31,516
Ah, well, that’s
just wonderful, honey.
1711
01:20:31,616 --> 01:20:33,317
Oh, you’re gonna
make me cry again.
1712
01:20:33,417 --> 01:20:36,561
Hey, would you mind
if I have this dance?
1713
01:20:36,661 --> 01:20:38,803
This one and every one.
1714
01:20:38,903 --> 01:20:44,408
♪ And in this moment ♪
1715
01:20:44,508 --> 01:20:48,813
♪ I see our dreams
coming true ♪
1716
01:20:48,913 --> 01:20:50,615
What?
1717
01:20:50,715 --> 01:20:53,297
I was just thinking how they
found proof of humans dancing
1718
01:20:53,397 --> 01:20:55,379
on cave paintings
from 9,000 years ago.
1719
01:20:55,479 --> 01:20:56,581
That’s what you were
thinking about?
1720
01:20:56,681 --> 01:20:59,463
Yeah. I like how
it’s in our DNA
1721
01:20:59,563 --> 01:21:01,465
to wanna connect like this.
1722
01:21:01,565 --> 01:21:05,069
- I like it.
- Me too.
1723
01:21:05,169 --> 01:21:10,034
♪ Come on, let’s find a way,
find a way home ♪
1724
01:21:10,134 --> 01:21:15,519
♪ I’ll paint you a sky
full of rainbows ♪
1725
01:21:15,619 --> 01:21:20,725
♪ Come on, let’s find a way ♪
1726
01:21:20,825 --> 01:21:24,068
♪ Home ♪
1727
01:21:25,830 --> 01:21:28,412
♪ Come on, let’s find a way ♪
1728
01:21:28,512 --> 01:21:33,998
♪ Find a way home ♪
1729
01:21:36,280 --> 01:21:38,702
♪ Home ♪
1730
01:21:38,802 --> 01:21:42,166
♪ Find a way home ♪
1731
01:21:43,968 --> 01:21:49,013
♪ Ooh ♪
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