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- ♪ Don't care
what you think about it ♪
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♪ Ain't here to
please nobody ♪
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♪ I'm the one
they run for cover♪
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♪ Here comes trouble now
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♪ Mend my wicked ways
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♪ I'll get you
into trouble now ♪
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♪ It's just so
hard to behave ♪
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♪ Got you seeing double now
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♪ I'm the one
your mama told you ♪
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♪ I play the one
as torture ♪
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♪ The risk you can't afford
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♪ Here comes trouble now
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♪ Turn it up all night
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♪ Got you feeling high
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♪ Turn it up all night
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♪ Got you feeling high
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♪ Get you into trouble now
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- Open relationships,
I don't know if I could do it.
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I'm sure it would be
very hard.
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- My true fantasy would be to
have like a group experience
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of diverse people,
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incense burning and
music playing.
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And the lighting is just right.
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- I had a,
like, semi-orgy.
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I did please, like,
eight guys at once one time.
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So that's like a little
low-key orgy.
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- What intrigues me about
the orgy is
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you're in an atmosphere of
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we're there to
have a good time,
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we're there for an adventure.
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Let's light it up, let's
fucking burn this place down.
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- I definitely want
to just watch.
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And just be like, wow,
wait, wait, wait,
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did you just do that?
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Okay. Wait, let me
take notes on this
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because I'm gonna do that.
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- I tried an orgy
when I was younger,
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and I was just like trying
to lick someone's ass,
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because there was nothing else
available, you know what I mean?
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- I'm Matt.
- I'm Pat.
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- I'm Lisa.
- I'm Ainsley.
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- I'm Daniela.
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- And this...
- And this...
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- And this...
- And this is my sex life.
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- Ha.
- Let's get our freak on.
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- For the mushrooms?
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Yeah, it's going to be
for the mushrooms, yeah.
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And might have to add
some butter and oil,
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but we'll know in a few minutes.
- Okay.
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- This is something.
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I don't know how
to describe it.
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I don't know how
to talk about it.
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It's an experience that
we can't find anywhere else.
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[ giggling ]
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- Ooh, look what she has.
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- What about kohlrabi?
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Ah.
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Do you have any with
the stems still attached?
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- No, no.
- Okay, that's too bad.
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Think about one of
the best dinners
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you've ever had in your life.
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Ah, here we go.
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What is one thing that
would improve that dinner?
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My answer is sexy people.
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Almost done.
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Do you know if you have
any whole green cardamom?
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I didn't see any
in the spice rack.
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One of my good friends
got married in Paris.
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Yes, I am a local chef.
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When we got back
we wanted to do something...
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Take care.
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That was comparably
glorious for them.
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We sat down and came up
with the things
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that we knew
that they enjoyed,
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and it was good food, good wine,
and lots of tits.
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All right.
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And it just became
a debauchery for them.
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I was in the kitchen
by myself for hours.
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As the dinner progressed,
it went from being
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like a normal dinner where
you go to somebody's house
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and people are kind of like
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"I only have three more hours
to get through this"
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to "Oh, my fucking God,
this is amazing."
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Let's do this again.
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So, in addition
to the 14 course meal,
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we will have the staff
gradually undressing.
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We don't play below the waist,
but the guests can.
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What you'll see is
adults expressing
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their sensual playful selves
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however the hell they
want to do that.
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You're going to walk out of
here so fucking turned on,
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it's going to be
dangerous to drive.
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- I could wear
something like this.
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I love retro clothes.
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Our Gourmet Life
gives people the opportunity
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to do something that is
out of the box for them.
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And in that they might find
so many possibilities.
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I don't think life
is meant to be comfortable.
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I am trying to, like,
modulate pushing myself
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into that place of fear.
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Finding that sweet spot
where you feel challenged
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but still being true to yourself
and what you want.
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Okay.
Okay, let's see.
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Elissa and I haven't known
each other for that long,
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but we have had a couple
of very hot dates.
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The first time we played,
I left her with
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some really big bruises.
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And so, this'll be
a fun way to, like,
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introduce her to some people
that she doesn't know yet
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and to some things that
she hasn't done yet.
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It's one of those events
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where, like, I don't have
huge expectations,
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but the possibilities
are really hot.
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- I am going to
Our Gourmet Life
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with Laurence, who is my
partner but he's not my husband.
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I am married.
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Laurence is also married
to someone else,
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and we are going together
without our partners.
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I think that you can
still have commitment
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outside of monogamy.
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Like, I like
to have relationships
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with lots of people.
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You can either do that in
a shady way or a not shady way.
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I think it's good to have,
like, different experiences
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with different people.
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When you're in a
committed partnership,
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it's really easy
to get into ruts.
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There's whole facets
of your personality
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that, like, come out
when you meet someone else.
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Having someone else unlock
that can bring that
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to your primary live-in partner
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and bring excitement
to your life.
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Like, that's the fun part.
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- So, option A,
option B.
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- I still like the boots.
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- Yeah, the purple boots best?
- Yeah.
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- Okay.
- Yeah.
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That's what I wanna do.
- Yeah.
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- God, I love you
for picking
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the most comfortable
option, really.
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I met Elissa
not too long ago.
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She's new to the Bay area.
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This is kind of fun.
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And I know that she's interested
in exploring this scene more,
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and she's done some
really intense play.
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Your bruises are distracting
me a little bit.
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- Oh, good, I'm glad.
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- Is there anything that
you felt like
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ooh, I really want that?
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- I'd like to be collared.
- Okay.
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- Yeah.
- I love collaring.
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And collaring rituals, so, like,
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I'm excited that you're
excited for that.
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- Yeah.
- Like, that's gonna
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be really fun.
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- Normally, where would you go
with this dinner?
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Like, how far does it...
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- You know, I have bound
someone to a chair and fed them.
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- Okay.
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- I did think about
how hot it would be
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to, like stretch you out on
the table and spank you there.
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- Getting spanked over
the table is really hot.
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[ laughing ]
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To wherever the night goes.
- Yes.
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- Come on out, let me see.
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I like when we get to get
out away from the children
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and do some adult activities.
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- I can get behind that.
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- That's what we need.
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- Mutually, we agree
to explore other aspects.
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- I think that's it.
Yeah.
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Exploring things.
- Mm-hmm. Yeah.
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- I have a freaky side.
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- I've seen you with women.
- That color.
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- You're acting like
there's no-one else around.
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- We've experimented
with all types of things.
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The only rule is that whatever
we do, we do it together.
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It works for us.
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- So in addition
to the courses,
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the intermediate dinner
tends to be a little bit more
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out of control.
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- Cheers, everyone.
- Cheers.
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- Nice to meet you.
- Lovely to meet you guys.
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- Thank you.
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- I'm Sparrow.
- Hi, Sparrow, I'm Cyphera.
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- Hi.
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- As I was telling you about,
I was hoping she was here.
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- Nice to meet you.
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- Cheers.
- Okay, baby.
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- Tess. And your name?
- Laurence, nice to meet you.
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- Laura, was it?
- Yeah.
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And your name, I'm sorry?
- Laurence.
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- Laurence, nice to meet you.
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- Bless me,
I'm planning to sin.
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[ laughing ]
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- For the build
in the mouth appetizer,
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it's a little homage
to BDSM.
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Position one of the guests
on their knees
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in front of the server,
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and the server
keeps their mouth open
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while you build the appetizer
in the guest's mouth.
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Doesn't let the guest close
their mouth until they're ready.
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- I wonder that churches
might be a bit busier
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if this was the sort of
thing they got.
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- It also gives the server
a chance to express their,
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their dominance,
their power.
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- Bring it in, get a
sneak peek at the menu.
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- Wow, that is a menu.
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I hereby decree that this is
going to be a very tasty dinner.
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[ glass clinking ]
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[ cheering ]
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- Thank you.
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Most of y'all
have been here before,
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but I'll go over the--
you haven't been here before?
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- No.
- Welcome.
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- Thank you.
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- So, those of you who don't
know what you're in for,
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this is an erotic dinner.
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You've got 16 courses
coming you way.
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When we first came up
with these dinners,
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this is the dinner
that we created.
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And, we've been doing
them for nearly 10 years.
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[ applause ]
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So, for those of
you who haven't
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enjoyed one of
our dinners before,
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we break nearly every rule
of dinner service
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that exists on this planet.
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The staff will be
feeding you dinner.
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Enjoy them,
because I promise you,
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they're going to be
enjoying you.
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So, bon apetit.
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[ applause ]
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The first three or four dinners,
there was a lot of sex.
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All of the guests cleared
everything off the table
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and they were just all
on the table, fucking,
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and carrying on and all
that kind of stuff.
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And I was like,
"But I still have lobster."
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- Oh, we're getting
a strip show.
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- You can tell me more.
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- I'm a person that really
enjoys intensity.
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Having an experience
that feels epic.
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What I get from kink
is about that.
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- The goal is to give people
the best erotic experience
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that we can give them.
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- I guess I should leave you
to your food.
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- There's food here?
- Yes.
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- Oh, yeah.
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- I want to produce
an erotic experience
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that is the best erotic
experience that I can create
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for them.
251
00:12:25,309 --> 00:12:27,268
What they do with it,
that's up to them.
252
00:12:35,929 --> 00:12:37,974
- Something about
someone's, like, warm breath
253
00:12:38,018 --> 00:12:39,976
on the side of your neck.
254
00:12:40,020 --> 00:12:41,543
- Mm-hmm.
- Is really nice.
255
00:12:43,327 --> 00:12:46,940
I felt like Elissa
was so present
256
00:12:46,983 --> 00:12:49,072
from the very beginning.
257
00:12:49,116 --> 00:12:51,858
- We're basically the same.
- Yeah, basically the same.
258
00:12:51,901 --> 00:12:53,381
She's looking for pleasure.
259
00:12:53,424 --> 00:12:55,644
She wants it to feel good.
260
00:12:55,687 --> 00:12:58,168
And she wants
to have an adventure.
261
00:12:58,212 --> 00:13:03,086
And I feel good
mentoring her a little bit.
262
00:13:04,131 --> 00:13:06,133
[ laughing ]
263
00:13:06,176 --> 00:13:08,483
Is she your favorite so far?
264
00:13:08,526 --> 00:13:10,050
- I think so.
- Yeah.
265
00:13:10,093 --> 00:13:12,400
- She has a self-possessed
sensuality.
266
00:13:12,443 --> 00:13:14,968
- Yeah, self-possessed
is a good word for it.
267
00:13:15,011 --> 00:13:16,578
- Mm-hmm.
- Mm-hmm.
268
00:13:16,621 --> 00:13:18,188
- Lots to think about.
269
00:13:18,232 --> 00:13:20,408
If you're lucky enough...
270
00:13:20,451 --> 00:13:23,019
- Mm-hmm.
- To be less warm.
271
00:13:23,063 --> 00:13:24,673
You're going to have
to suffer.
272
00:13:28,068 --> 00:13:30,548
Because we're both in
open relationships
273
00:13:30,592 --> 00:13:32,333
outside of monogamy,
we're approaching
274
00:13:32,376 --> 00:13:34,117
our boundaries really carefully
275
00:13:34,161 --> 00:13:36,250
because we want to be sensitive
to each other's partners.
276
00:13:36,293 --> 00:13:40,907
For me, my husband
is still my life partner.
277
00:13:40,950 --> 00:13:43,866
I believe I can have
another intimate partner
278
00:13:43,910 --> 00:13:46,390
and that doesn't take away
any of the good aspects
279
00:13:46,434 --> 00:13:47,870
of my life partnership.
280
00:13:47,914 --> 00:13:49,524
In fact, like, I think
it strengthens them.
281
00:13:53,789 --> 00:13:55,182
- She certainly likes to dust.
282
00:13:55,225 --> 00:13:57,010
- She does like to dust.
- Yeah.
283
00:13:57,053 --> 00:13:59,926
- Are there people who shouldn't
come to the dinner? Yeah.
284
00:13:59,969 --> 00:14:03,494
Nearly every intro dinner,
there's at least one couple...
285
00:14:03,538 --> 00:14:06,410
to say they were reserved
would be generous.
286
00:14:06,454 --> 00:14:08,804
By the end of the dinner,
they're just as blissed out
287
00:14:08,848 --> 00:14:10,066
as everybody else.
288
00:14:15,811 --> 00:14:17,334
- Put it in the other hand.
289
00:14:17,378 --> 00:14:19,597
- In the other hand?
- Yeah.
290
00:14:20,903 --> 00:14:23,427
- You are so funny.
291
00:14:23,471 --> 00:14:27,040
- We display
our affection publicly.
292
00:14:27,083 --> 00:14:29,259
We're not overtly sexual,
293
00:14:29,303 --> 00:14:32,915
but we don't hide
the sexuality.
294
00:14:32,959 --> 00:14:35,787
- Seeing him excited excites me.
- Yeah.
295
00:14:35,831 --> 00:14:37,833
- And he's the same way,
he sees I'm excited...
296
00:14:37,877 --> 00:14:39,356
- Yeah.
- Then he gets excited.
297
00:14:39,400 --> 00:14:43,012
- May I run this up
the center of your belly?
298
00:14:43,056 --> 00:14:46,407
- Of course. Ooh!
Nice and chill.
299
00:14:46,450 --> 00:14:47,930
- Should we
Lady and the Tramp it?
300
00:14:47,974 --> 00:14:49,453
- Yes.
- Okay.
301
00:14:49,497 --> 00:14:50,933
I think this is a...
- Which side do you want?
302
00:14:50,977 --> 00:14:52,456
- I'll go to the far side.
303
00:14:52,500 --> 00:14:54,850
- Oh, thank you for making it
easier on us.
304
00:14:54,894 --> 00:14:56,286
- Oh, of course.
305
00:14:57,984 --> 00:14:59,550
[ laughs ]
306
00:14:59,594 --> 00:15:01,291
- Sorry, I shoved...
I shoved my boobs in your face.
307
00:15:01,335 --> 00:15:04,251
- I think that's a plus.
- I don't mind at all.
308
00:15:04,294 --> 00:15:05,295
[ laughing ]
309
00:15:07,210 --> 00:15:10,735
- That is a beautiful ass.
- Mmm. Mmm.
310
00:15:12,650 --> 00:15:16,002
- You have a beautiful ass.
- Thank you.
311
00:15:16,045 --> 00:15:17,873
- It's amazing.
312
00:15:17,917 --> 00:15:22,138
Yes. It is.
313
00:15:22,182 --> 00:15:23,923
Gorgeous.
314
00:15:25,272 --> 00:15:28,101
- It's got a little
warmer in here.
315
00:15:36,109 --> 00:15:37,240
- Yeah, it's...
316
00:15:49,600 --> 00:15:51,080
- What's that?
317
00:15:51,124 --> 00:15:53,213
- Light speed.
- Oh, quick.
318
00:15:53,256 --> 00:15:54,475
- Oh my gosh.
319
00:15:54,518 --> 00:15:57,043
- As the dinner
starts to unfold,
320
00:15:57,086 --> 00:16:01,612
we will have the staff
invite the guests
321
00:16:01,656 --> 00:16:04,050
to move to a different
part of the room
322
00:16:04,093 --> 00:16:06,835
where they'll do
a caviar service.
323
00:16:06,878 --> 00:16:09,620
Guests can do caviar
off the nipple.
324
00:16:09,664 --> 00:16:13,407
Whether it's their own
or their partner's nipple,
325
00:16:13,450 --> 00:16:17,585
or one of the servers
or somebody else's,
326
00:16:17,628 --> 00:16:21,632
then the guests and server
start to change the dynamic
327
00:16:21,676 --> 00:16:22,807
of their interactions.
328
00:16:24,940 --> 00:16:26,681
- Thank you.
329
00:16:26,724 --> 00:16:29,162
- Wait, let me take you on
tour to the bathroom.
330
00:16:29,205 --> 00:16:30,598
- Okay.
- Yes.
331
00:16:34,080 --> 00:16:35,516
[ laughs ]
332
00:16:35,559 --> 00:16:37,909
- I did not expect it to
go this much further.
333
00:16:37,953 --> 00:16:39,346
- I know, I love it.
334
00:16:39,389 --> 00:16:42,349
Part of me just wanted
to move and stretch.
335
00:16:42,392 --> 00:16:45,047
And it was a way of
making sure, like,
336
00:16:45,091 --> 00:16:46,483
"Okay, you having fun?
337
00:16:46,527 --> 00:16:47,876
Is this good for you?"
338
00:16:47,919 --> 00:16:49,660
As soon as we went
in there, I knew
339
00:16:49,704 --> 00:16:51,880
all those answers were,
"Yes, yes, yes."
340
00:16:51,923 --> 00:16:54,709
See, now, everyone's
gonna see your ass.
341
00:16:54,752 --> 00:16:56,058
[ chuckles ]
342
00:16:56,102 --> 00:16:57,625
When we were in the bathroom,
343
00:16:57,668 --> 00:17:03,152
I felt like I could really
feel her in that moment.
344
00:17:03,196 --> 00:17:05,459
I had her hands
on the counter.
345
00:17:07,939 --> 00:17:11,900
And I'm spanking her
at a good medium.
346
00:17:11,943 --> 00:17:14,337
Let's say, a solid five.
347
00:17:18,080 --> 00:17:20,735
Maybe this would be a good
time to put a collar on you.
348
00:17:20,778 --> 00:17:22,780
- That would be fantastic.
- Yeah.
349
00:17:22,824 --> 00:17:26,045
Let's go to the toy wagon,
see what I can grab.
350
00:17:30,310 --> 00:17:32,486
Some of the kind of like
sensual attention
351
00:17:32,529 --> 00:17:35,532
that the servers are giving,
not everyone's gonna like it.
352
00:17:35,576 --> 00:17:37,491
- Free yourself.
353
00:17:37,534 --> 00:17:39,493
- Which doesn't mean that
they're not getting something
354
00:17:39,536 --> 00:17:42,452
really erotic and sensual
from the experience.
355
00:17:44,324 --> 00:17:45,977
- Ules and Tanisha,
356
00:17:46,021 --> 00:17:48,676
we can't tell
what their experience is
357
00:17:48,719 --> 00:17:49,981
by looking at them.
358
00:17:50,025 --> 00:17:51,896
- Would you like some chocolate?
359
00:17:51,940 --> 00:17:54,116
- All of your senses
are being stimulated.
360
00:17:54,160 --> 00:17:56,379
The sight, the sound,
the smells,
361
00:17:56,423 --> 00:17:58,120
the taste, everything...
the touch...
362
00:17:58,164 --> 00:17:59,774
everything is
being stimulated.
363
00:17:59,817 --> 00:18:03,691
And it is, for some people,
extremely confronting.
364
00:18:03,734 --> 00:18:08,391
Even people who don't express
themselves in ways
365
00:18:08,435 --> 00:18:11,264
that we expect can be having
366
00:18:11,307 --> 00:18:14,615
exactly the experience
that they want to have.
367
00:18:14,658 --> 00:18:17,835
If you're willing to just
enjoy being alive,
368
00:18:17,879 --> 00:18:19,620
if only for three hours,
369
00:18:19,663 --> 00:18:21,535
it's a good place for you.
370
00:18:31,197 --> 00:18:34,156
- Let me unveil this ass.
- Go for it.
371
00:18:34,200 --> 00:18:38,726
- When people say, oh, that
makes me really uncomfortable,
372
00:18:38,769 --> 00:18:41,598
I recognize that it's coming
from a place of fear.
373
00:18:41,642 --> 00:18:45,776
And so I don't want
to be ruled by that.
374
00:18:45,820 --> 00:18:49,084
We're not supposed to stay
in our comfort zone.
375
00:18:49,128 --> 00:18:50,433
- Mmm.
376
00:18:50,477 --> 00:18:52,914
- God, I'm gonna put
my hand on you.
377
00:18:52,957 --> 00:18:54,568
- I love the blindfolds.
378
00:18:54,611 --> 00:18:56,309
- I want you to
bring her head up.
379
00:18:57,919 --> 00:18:59,094
That's perfect.
380
00:18:59,138 --> 00:19:00,617
Good, hold her there.
381
00:19:00,661 --> 00:19:02,750
How's everything going
for you so far?
382
00:19:02,793 --> 00:19:04,186
- It's so good.
- Yeah?
383
00:19:04,230 --> 00:19:05,840
- Yeah.
384
00:19:05,883 --> 00:19:09,713
- So, we're going to move
slowly and carefully.
385
00:19:09,757 --> 00:19:11,106
- Thank you.
386
00:19:11,150 --> 00:19:12,325
- Just listen to the
sound of my voice.
387
00:19:12,368 --> 00:19:14,544
Come towards me.
Good.
388
00:19:14,588 --> 00:19:16,851
Do you still hear me?
- Yes.
389
00:19:16,894 --> 00:19:18,374
- Keep coming.
390
00:19:18,418 --> 00:19:21,116
You're going really fast now,
you brave girl.
391
00:19:21,160 --> 00:19:22,509
Stop.
392
00:19:22,552 --> 00:19:26,165
I knew that Elissa was
enjoying herself.
393
00:19:26,208 --> 00:19:29,037
There were moments later when
we started to play
394
00:19:29,080 --> 00:19:32,258
where I just wanted to
make sure that she is
395
00:19:32,301 --> 00:19:35,130
into it in every moment
going forward.
396
00:19:35,174 --> 00:19:37,567
And she was like,
"Yes, please."
397
00:19:37,611 --> 00:19:39,961
Let's see what's going on
over here. Come with me.
398
00:19:40,004 --> 00:19:41,092
[ clicks tongue ]
399
00:19:43,530 --> 00:19:47,577
Is there anything you want
before I close us
400
00:19:47,621 --> 00:19:49,840
and tell you to get in
the cab and go home
401
00:19:49,884 --> 00:19:51,015
so you can work?
402
00:19:51,059 --> 00:19:52,495
[ laughs ]
403
00:19:52,539 --> 00:19:54,976
Knowing Elissa had a great
time at the dinner
404
00:19:55,019 --> 00:19:58,109
is exactly what I wanted.
405
00:19:58,153 --> 00:20:00,373
I wanted to enjoy myself,
406
00:20:00,416 --> 00:20:03,027
but I get more enjoyment
from knowing
407
00:20:03,071 --> 00:20:05,073
that she enjoyed herself.
408
00:20:05,116 --> 00:20:07,206
Elissa was amazing.
409
00:20:07,249 --> 00:20:09,208
- That was so good.
410
00:20:09,251 --> 00:20:11,558
The cheesecake, mmm.
411
00:20:12,950 --> 00:20:14,387
- I'm power struggling.
412
00:20:19,522 --> 00:20:20,480
Thanks, you two.
413
00:20:20,523 --> 00:20:22,177
- Thank you.
414
00:20:22,221 --> 00:20:24,614
There's a freedom that comes
along with exploring
415
00:20:24,658 --> 00:20:26,399
your sexuality.
416
00:20:26,442 --> 00:20:28,879
That was nice.
417
00:20:28,923 --> 00:20:30,925
Anything is possible.
418
00:20:30,968 --> 00:20:32,013
- Oh, please.
- I hope you enjoyed it.
419
00:20:32,056 --> 00:20:33,710
- Yeah, that was great.
420
00:20:33,754 --> 00:20:37,236
- I personally find the way
to have fun at sex parties
421
00:20:37,279 --> 00:20:39,368
is to not have
any expectations.
422
00:20:39,412 --> 00:20:41,631
To be open to experiences,
423
00:20:41,675 --> 00:20:44,721
and to focus on
individual interactions.
424
00:20:44,765 --> 00:20:47,333
Then anything else that
happens is fun and exciting.
425
00:20:47,376 --> 00:20:51,032
But those other things
are really what excites me.
426
00:20:51,075 --> 00:20:53,295
That opportunity to form, like,
427
00:20:53,339 --> 00:20:57,125
closeness even if it's
for a small bit of intimacy.
428
00:20:57,168 --> 00:20:58,909
Even if it's with someone
you don't know.
429
00:20:58,953 --> 00:21:00,520
- Here we go.
430
00:21:01,999 --> 00:21:04,915
- So what do I get
out of the dinners?
431
00:21:04,959 --> 00:21:08,571
I get to see people
grow and play
432
00:21:08,615 --> 00:21:11,182
in ways that I wish
I could have done in my 20s.
433
00:21:11,226 --> 00:21:15,317
'Cause that venue
didn't exist for me.
434
00:21:15,361 --> 00:21:17,711
And I get to learn how to
be an amazing chef.
435
00:21:19,060 --> 00:21:20,975
In my fantasy,
436
00:21:21,018 --> 00:21:23,194
and truly just fantasy,
437
00:21:23,238 --> 00:21:26,067
we would all be having sex
with each other all the time
438
00:21:26,110 --> 00:21:28,765
like we shake hands or
like we hug.
439
00:21:28,809 --> 00:21:30,724
Ah!
440
00:21:30,767 --> 00:21:32,247
If money were no object,
441
00:21:32,291 --> 00:21:34,423
where would I want to take
Our Gourmet Life?
442
00:21:34,467 --> 00:21:36,860
[ chuckles ]
443
00:21:36,904 --> 00:21:38,688
The world is not
ready for that.
444
00:21:40,647 --> 00:21:42,562
[ laughing, spanking ]
445
00:21:46,087 --> 00:21:48,176
- ♪ Don't you want to
make some more ♪
446
00:21:48,219 --> 00:21:50,570
♪ Don't you want to
make some more ♪
447
00:21:50,613 --> 00:21:52,572
- He has a fetish.
- I, yeah.
448
00:21:52,615 --> 00:21:54,095
- It's gonna be something
really crazy.
449
00:21:54,138 --> 00:21:55,444
- No, don't do that.
Okay, fine, I guess.
450
00:21:55,488 --> 00:21:57,403
- It's Cholula sauce.
451
00:21:57,446 --> 00:22:00,667
- We would go through, like,
a bottle. Like, in one night.
452
00:22:00,710 --> 00:22:02,277
- Cholula's not just
for the kitchen.
453
00:22:02,321 --> 00:22:03,365
- It goes quick.
454
00:22:03,409 --> 00:22:05,367
- Oh, uh, years ago,
455
00:22:05,411 --> 00:22:06,934
you know, it was,
like the chocolate,
456
00:22:06,977 --> 00:22:08,327
and of course, the...
- Whipping cream.
457
00:22:08,370 --> 00:22:09,371
- Whipped cream.
458
00:22:09,415 --> 00:22:12,113
Eating out of the navel...
459
00:22:12,156 --> 00:22:14,507
- But we were getting fat.
- That was kind of...
460
00:22:14,550 --> 00:22:16,726
- I had a friend who
had to go to the hospital.
461
00:22:16,770 --> 00:22:19,381
She had to get the
strawberries removed
462
00:22:19,425 --> 00:22:21,601
'cause she couldn't get it.
463
00:22:21,644 --> 00:22:23,603
- I've never been
naked on a cake.
464
00:22:23,646 --> 00:22:26,780
However, if there was
an opportunity to do something
465
00:22:26,823 --> 00:22:29,913
like that for my husband
privately, absolutely.
466
00:22:29,957 --> 00:22:31,959
Why not?
It's not like spaghetti.
467
00:22:32,002 --> 00:22:33,482
- Right.
468
00:22:33,526 --> 00:22:35,571
- ♪ Don't you want to
make some more ♪
469
00:22:35,615 --> 00:22:38,487
♪ Don't you want to
make some more ♪
470
00:22:39,923 --> 00:22:40,881
[ cheering ]
471
00:22:40,924 --> 00:22:42,622
- Burlesque is magic.
472
00:22:42,665 --> 00:22:46,365
- Burlesque is sexuality
and femininity.
473
00:22:46,408 --> 00:22:49,411
- Burlesque is fucking crazy.
474
00:22:49,455 --> 00:22:51,282
[ cheering ]
475
00:22:51,326 --> 00:22:52,719
- Burlesque in its modern form
476
00:22:52,762 --> 00:22:54,373
has taken on new life
and meaning.
477
00:22:54,416 --> 00:22:57,158
You make it voluptuous,
voluminous.
478
00:22:57,201 --> 00:22:58,594
You blow it up,
you make fun of it.
479
00:22:58,638 --> 00:23:00,640
It's a really good form
of entertainment.
480
00:23:00,683 --> 00:23:03,033
- I figured out a way
with burlesque
481
00:23:03,077 --> 00:23:04,818
to show my butt without
getting arrested.
482
00:23:04,861 --> 00:23:07,386
[ cheering ]
483
00:23:12,608 --> 00:23:14,436
- Spread your legs
and make some noise,
484
00:23:14,480 --> 00:23:18,658
the legend and icon, Mosh!
485
00:23:18,701 --> 00:23:20,834
[ cheering ]
486
00:23:25,142 --> 00:23:28,537
- Burlesque, by definition,
is a satire
487
00:23:28,581 --> 00:23:32,498
that had stars, the strippers.
488
00:23:34,630 --> 00:23:36,763
I say that all the time,
I'm just a stripper.
489
00:23:36,806 --> 00:23:39,418
But just a stripper
just has a lot
490
00:23:39,461 --> 00:23:40,854
packed into it.
491
00:23:42,072 --> 00:23:44,466
What makes
burlesque sexy
492
00:23:44,510 --> 00:23:46,947
to the public really depends
on the viewer.
493
00:23:46,990 --> 00:23:49,645
Could be the way you
took off that garment,
494
00:23:49,689 --> 00:23:52,300
that glance you gave somebody
in the front row.
495
00:23:52,343 --> 00:23:54,868
Maybe whatever moment
you shared between
496
00:23:54,911 --> 00:23:57,436
somebody you hit
on the head with your bra,
497
00:23:57,479 --> 00:23:59,655
and you let the sensual
nature of it
498
00:23:59,699 --> 00:24:01,744
kind of move you.
499
00:24:11,145 --> 00:24:13,147
So I was born in
Moscow, Russia,
500
00:24:13,190 --> 00:24:14,757
then the Soviet Union.
501
00:24:14,801 --> 00:24:18,152
My parents were
elite-level gymnasts,
502
00:24:18,195 --> 00:24:20,328
and they became my coaches.
503
00:24:21,851 --> 00:24:24,288
And as soon as
I hit level 10,
504
00:24:24,332 --> 00:24:28,510
I injured my elbow and
I couldn't go back.
505
00:24:28,554 --> 00:24:30,730
When I create a performance,
I never sit down and think,
506
00:24:30,773 --> 00:24:32,601
I'm gonna make something new.
507
00:24:32,645 --> 00:24:35,082
No, it's usually something
that sparks it.
508
00:24:35,125 --> 00:24:37,476
It could be a piece
of clothing I see,
509
00:24:37,519 --> 00:24:39,434
it could be a little
clip that I see.
510
00:24:39,478 --> 00:24:43,525
And the way that it
comes into my head,
511
00:24:43,569 --> 00:24:46,093
I'll try to sketch that out
as quickly as I can.
512
00:24:46,136 --> 00:24:49,139
From there I'll start building
the cohesive show with it.
513
00:24:50,140 --> 00:24:51,446
Pretty great, too.
514
00:24:54,405 --> 00:24:57,844
I ripped off kind of a version
of this for a costume.
515
00:24:59,541 --> 00:25:00,673
I get to wear
the original, too.
516
00:25:00,716 --> 00:25:02,022
It's very fun.
517
00:25:02,065 --> 00:25:04,372
This was a souvenir piece,
518
00:25:04,415 --> 00:25:07,462
but it's supposedly the dressing
room keys to Jean Harlow's
519
00:25:07,506 --> 00:25:09,464
dressing room at MGM.
520
00:25:09,508 --> 00:25:11,684
A lot of the stuff, yeah,
I collect because
521
00:25:11,727 --> 00:25:14,730
um, in some way, shape,
or form it may
522
00:25:14,774 --> 00:25:17,559
inspire a shoot or a show.
523
00:25:17,603 --> 00:25:20,693
I collect things that kind
of flip a switch in my brain.
524
00:25:22,172 --> 00:25:24,131
I believe that everybody
has their own art form.
525
00:25:25,915 --> 00:25:26,916
That's where it started.
526
00:25:27,917 --> 00:25:29,179
[ camera shutter clicks ]
527
00:25:29,223 --> 00:25:30,703
- Come over this way
just a little.
528
00:25:30,746 --> 00:25:31,704
Right there.
529
00:25:31,747 --> 00:25:33,619
And then out the window.
530
00:25:33,662 --> 00:25:35,098
- Burlesque is, in some ways,
531
00:25:35,142 --> 00:25:37,231
one of the purest
forms of celebration
532
00:25:37,274 --> 00:25:39,886
of ultimate female freedom.
533
00:25:39,929 --> 00:25:41,975
It glorifies
the female form
534
00:25:42,018 --> 00:25:44,630
to its utmost potential.
535
00:25:44,673 --> 00:25:46,240
I love it.
536
00:25:49,330 --> 00:25:52,463
- It's time we saw some
man meat here tonight.
537
00:25:52,507 --> 00:25:54,074
[ cheering ]
538
00:25:54,117 --> 00:25:55,379
- That's right!
539
00:25:55,423 --> 00:25:57,338
Behind this curtain right now
540
00:25:57,381 --> 00:26:00,646
we have a superstar
of "boylesque".
541
00:26:00,689 --> 00:26:01,821
[ cheering ]
542
00:26:01,864 --> 00:26:03,910
- Ready to come out here...
543
00:26:03,953 --> 00:26:09,176
- So many people have this idea
of what classic burlesque is.
544
00:26:09,219 --> 00:26:12,919
Women in ball gowns taking
their clothes off.
545
00:26:12,962 --> 00:26:17,532
Boylesque to me is very simply
male burlesque.
546
00:26:17,576 --> 00:26:20,622
Performing masculinity
onstage through striptease.
547
00:26:20,666 --> 00:26:22,755
[ Spanish music ]
548
00:26:30,676 --> 00:26:32,112
[ electronic music ]
549
00:26:34,070 --> 00:26:36,812
- I think people come
to see my performances
550
00:26:36,856 --> 00:26:39,554
just to laugh
and be titillated.
551
00:26:39,598 --> 00:26:42,426
It's sexy and edgy.
552
00:26:42,470 --> 00:26:45,168
But it's infused with
enough humor and joy
553
00:26:45,212 --> 00:26:47,518
that you don't walk away
feeling like you just
554
00:26:47,562 --> 00:26:50,826
downloaded a whole bunch of
porn off of Xtube or something.
555
00:26:52,219 --> 00:26:54,134
[ audience whooping ]
556
00:26:54,177 --> 00:26:55,875
I think performing gives me
557
00:26:55,918 --> 00:26:58,442
that immediate sense
of gratification.
558
00:26:58,486 --> 00:27:00,662
The reality is I don't
think we'd be
559
00:27:00,706 --> 00:27:03,143
taking our clothes off
onstage if we didn't feel like
560
00:27:03,186 --> 00:27:05,711
we needed people to
acknowledge us or cheer for us
561
00:27:05,754 --> 00:27:07,669
or love us.
562
00:27:07,713 --> 00:27:11,281
And performing in burlesque is
a way for me to create work
563
00:27:11,325 --> 00:27:15,938
that I'm proud of,
this joy of sexual expression
564
00:27:15,982 --> 00:27:17,636
and share with people.
565
00:27:21,727 --> 00:27:24,468
The two essential components
to burlesque are
566
00:27:24,512 --> 00:27:25,687
the strip and the tease.
567
00:27:27,036 --> 00:27:28,647
I love creating my costumes.
568
00:27:30,257 --> 00:27:32,738
It helps me really kind
of personalize the number
569
00:27:32,781 --> 00:27:35,218
and get into the bones
of the number
570
00:27:35,262 --> 00:27:36,698
that I'm going to be doing.
571
00:27:38,744 --> 00:27:42,443
You're trying to always be
one step ahead of the audience.
572
00:27:42,486 --> 00:27:46,316
We all know that you're going
to take your clothes off.
573
00:27:46,360 --> 00:27:48,710
It's the journey
of that, though,
574
00:27:48,754 --> 00:27:50,451
that we actually
find interesting.
575
00:27:50,494 --> 00:27:54,629
Sex is what attracts
the audience to begin with.
576
00:27:54,673 --> 00:27:57,763
It's that promise
of the forbidden.
577
00:27:57,806 --> 00:28:01,505
The fear about
enjoying one's body
578
00:28:01,549 --> 00:28:04,683
is for some reason,
you know, extreme.
579
00:28:06,554 --> 00:28:08,121
- You're gonna be great.
You're gonna be great.
580
00:28:08,164 --> 00:28:09,775
I don't know why you're...
581
00:28:09,818 --> 00:28:13,169
♪ Us, us, us, us us
Us, us ♪
582
00:28:13,213 --> 00:28:14,388
♪ Us
583
00:28:14,431 --> 00:28:16,956
This is me just practicing
584
00:28:16,999 --> 00:28:18,914
the things that I'm gonna
do after the show.
585
00:28:20,873 --> 00:28:22,701
Hi, my name is
Tito Bonito,
586
00:28:22,744 --> 00:28:25,660
and I'm known as the Cuban
Missile Crisis of burlesque.
587
00:28:25,704 --> 00:28:27,531
You want to see my apartment?
588
00:28:27,575 --> 00:28:31,361
You want to see the magic
that is the Bay of Pigs?
589
00:28:31,405 --> 00:28:33,755
So, I have a lot of Cuban
influences everywhere
590
00:28:33,799 --> 00:28:37,454
because I'm trying to, you know,
have respect to my culture.
591
00:28:37,498 --> 00:28:39,152
I grew up in Miami, Florida.
592
00:28:39,195 --> 00:28:41,154
I was super sexually repressed,
593
00:28:41,197 --> 00:28:43,504
especially just being in
the closet in a different time
594
00:28:43,547 --> 00:28:45,767
where it was just not
as accepting.
595
00:28:45,811 --> 00:28:49,728
I have a little petri dish
of pasties.
596
00:28:49,771 --> 00:28:52,905
A little suit and tie.
597
00:28:52,948 --> 00:28:55,081
A little heart
for when I do Tin Man.
598
00:28:55,124 --> 00:28:58,345
Stop. Oh my God.
These are so messed up.
599
00:28:58,388 --> 00:29:00,434
When I was first thinking
about doing burlesque,
600
00:29:00,477 --> 00:29:02,479
I went straight to my family.
601
00:29:02,523 --> 00:29:04,220
For when I perform tonight.
602
00:29:04,264 --> 00:29:06,745
My family, tremendo Cuban,
just like,
603
00:29:06,788 --> 00:29:08,964
super just like judgmental,
604
00:29:09,008 --> 00:29:11,184
they were always like,
what is he doing?
605
00:29:11,227 --> 00:29:13,926
He's performing porn,
but he's dancing?
606
00:29:13,969 --> 00:29:15,623
Is he a drag queen?
607
00:29:15,666 --> 00:29:18,017
Not even understanding
what it is until they saw it.
608
00:29:18,060 --> 00:29:19,540
That's when they were like,
609
00:29:19,583 --> 00:29:21,498
"Oh, there's nothing
wrong with this."
610
00:29:21,542 --> 00:29:23,674
You like that?
611
00:29:23,718 --> 00:29:25,111
That chubby butty.
612
00:29:25,154 --> 00:29:26,765
Chubby butt.
613
00:29:26,808 --> 00:29:29,419
My favorite part of burlesque
as a performer
614
00:29:29,463 --> 00:29:32,422
is understanding that we're
going to see all kinds of bodies
615
00:29:32,466 --> 00:29:33,772
no matter what they look like,
616
00:29:33,815 --> 00:29:35,425
and we're going
to appreciate them.
617
00:29:35,469 --> 00:29:37,514
You can see this pimple
that's happening right now?
618
00:29:37,558 --> 00:29:40,604
I don't have to put makeup on,
I can just cover it
619
00:29:40,648 --> 00:29:42,389
with a tassel.
620
00:29:42,432 --> 00:29:43,999
That's called genius.
621
00:29:44,043 --> 00:29:46,610
Because I'm not ripped,
I'm not, like, shredded.
622
00:29:46,654 --> 00:29:48,699
I'm not in shape.
My chest, like, caves in.
623
00:29:48,743 --> 00:29:52,573
But allowing myself to just own
my body and be in that space
624
00:29:52,616 --> 00:29:54,923
and that in itself, that's my
favorite part about burlesque
625
00:29:54,967 --> 00:29:56,577
for sure.
626
00:29:56,620 --> 00:29:59,710
I think we're pretty much
ready to put on a show.
627
00:29:59,754 --> 00:30:01,364
[ sighs ]
628
00:30:01,408 --> 00:30:03,845
[ burlesque music plays ]
629
00:30:08,937 --> 00:30:11,113
- With my stage shows,
I like
630
00:30:11,157 --> 00:30:14,073
peeling layers because
there's more outfit you can see.
631
00:30:14,116 --> 00:30:17,250
So, I'll have the gown on top,
the separate parts underneath.
632
00:30:17,293 --> 00:30:19,208
Underneath that,
I'll have the undergarments.
633
00:30:19,252 --> 00:30:20,993
Underneath that,
I'll have more crystals.
634
00:30:21,036 --> 00:30:25,040
It's like a four piece
fashion show.
635
00:30:25,084 --> 00:30:26,520
For me, it's really fun.
636
00:30:34,441 --> 00:30:37,705
What I find sexy is
somebody who finds
637
00:30:37,748 --> 00:30:40,490
their art form in life,
638
00:30:40,534 --> 00:30:45,408
have a very good
sense of humor about it,
639
00:30:45,452 --> 00:30:49,282
and about the things that
they're interested in.
640
00:30:49,325 --> 00:30:51,937
And being very grounded
in themselves
641
00:30:51,980 --> 00:30:54,940
and their attitude.
642
00:30:54,983 --> 00:30:58,334
Everything else is
just a facade.
643
00:30:59,683 --> 00:31:00,684
[ audience cheering ]
644
00:31:00,728 --> 00:31:02,425
- Mosh, ladies and gentlemen.
645
00:31:02,469 --> 00:31:04,384
[ cheering ]
646
00:31:11,782 --> 00:31:16,048
- I draw a lot of inspiration
from these archetypes
647
00:31:16,091 --> 00:31:19,355
of Village People
and Liberace,
648
00:31:19,399 --> 00:31:22,358
performers that sold
this idea of masculinity
649
00:31:22,402 --> 00:31:23,359
with a twist.
650
00:31:23,403 --> 00:31:24,578
[ hip hop music plays ]
651
00:31:24,621 --> 00:31:26,232
[ cheering ]
652
00:31:32,891 --> 00:31:35,110
- I love that
I'm a part of this scene
653
00:31:35,154 --> 00:31:38,940
that isn't
Broadway, it's its own inclusive
654
00:31:38,984 --> 00:31:42,988
but weird
off-kilter, pretty,
655
00:31:43,031 --> 00:31:45,904
but also kind
of deranged atmosphere.
656
00:31:45,947 --> 00:31:48,863
[ cheering ]
657
00:31:48,907 --> 00:31:50,604
- When I moved to New York,
658
00:31:50,647 --> 00:31:54,390
I found something that
makes me feel good in my body,
659
00:31:54,434 --> 00:31:57,045
especially when I'm on stage.
660
00:31:57,089 --> 00:31:59,961
Owning your body and
owning what you do
661
00:32:00,005 --> 00:32:02,224
with your body publicly,
662
00:32:02,268 --> 00:32:05,271
is a really freeing
expression for yourself,
663
00:32:05,314 --> 00:32:07,490
but it's also freeing
for people to experience.
664
00:32:07,534 --> 00:32:08,970
[ audience cheering ]
665
00:32:09,014 --> 00:32:10,841
- Give it up for
Chris Harder, everybody!
666
00:32:19,807 --> 00:32:22,027
- I find my inspiration
for my performances
667
00:32:22,070 --> 00:32:24,986
all over the place.
668
00:32:25,030 --> 00:32:26,727
I do the Cuban immigrant number
669
00:32:26,770 --> 00:32:29,643
to really show
my family story.
670
00:32:29,686 --> 00:32:31,036
And kind of tap into that.
671
00:32:31,079 --> 00:32:32,994
And just have like
a part of my heritage
672
00:32:33,038 --> 00:32:35,170
be on stage.
673
00:32:35,214 --> 00:32:37,477
And when I'm dressed
like a Cuban immigrant,
674
00:32:37,520 --> 00:32:39,958
I have a glove reveal, but
instead of it being gloves,
675
00:32:40,001 --> 00:32:42,003
it's a flotation device.
676
00:32:42,047 --> 00:32:44,963
So it's traditional
but it's also not.
677
00:32:47,617 --> 00:32:50,881
That's what make it an art.
678
00:32:50,925 --> 00:32:53,623
It's inherently political
just to be getting on stage
679
00:32:53,667 --> 00:32:55,190
and taking off your clothing.
680
00:32:55,234 --> 00:32:57,671
Poking fun at that
really allows people
681
00:32:57,714 --> 00:33:00,717
to not take sex so seriously,
682
00:33:00,761 --> 00:33:02,981
to the point where they are
just like repressing
683
00:33:03,024 --> 00:33:05,070
just being themselves.
684
00:33:07,028 --> 00:33:09,161
When you hear
everyone scream,
685
00:33:09,204 --> 00:33:10,684
they're screaming
not only for you,
686
00:33:10,727 --> 00:33:12,381
but they're also screaming
for themselves,
687
00:33:12,425 --> 00:33:15,123
so it's just this like feeling
of unison that you have
688
00:33:15,167 --> 00:33:16,995
with everyone in the show.
689
00:33:19,040 --> 00:33:22,783
And whether it's because they
saw something that was so crazy
690
00:33:22,826 --> 00:33:24,741
that it makes them just be like,
691
00:33:24,785 --> 00:33:26,656
"Wow, I handled that
and that was okay,
692
00:33:26,700 --> 00:33:29,311
and I survived."
693
00:33:29,355 --> 00:33:32,706
The idea of making sure that
that audience walks out of there
694
00:33:32,749 --> 00:33:34,795
a little more enlightened
then when they walked in.
695
00:33:34,838 --> 00:33:37,058
[ audience cheering ]
696
00:33:37,102 --> 00:33:41,062
- Sexuality, sex, drives
everything we do in life.
697
00:33:41,106 --> 00:33:43,630
We should glorify it.
698
00:33:43,673 --> 00:33:47,068
We're alive on earth for
a very short amount of time.
699
00:33:47,112 --> 00:33:49,288
Just be yourself.
700
00:33:50,550 --> 00:33:53,727
- You can explore
your sexuality
701
00:33:53,770 --> 00:33:56,121
in a lot of surprising ways.
702
00:33:56,164 --> 00:33:59,907
You can own your body,
703
00:33:59,950 --> 00:34:02,214
and be good enough.
704
00:34:02,257 --> 00:34:04,955
- I think it's beautiful
and the actual
705
00:34:04,999 --> 00:34:07,480
sexual liberation of it,
706
00:34:07,523 --> 00:34:10,961
that to me is what especially
today burlesque is about.
707
00:34:17,229 --> 00:34:18,534
- How would we spice up
our sex life?
708
00:34:18,578 --> 00:34:20,406
That's a great question.
709
00:34:20,449 --> 00:34:22,886
It's, uh, I don't think
there's much left to be explored
710
00:34:22,930 --> 00:34:26,673
until we, you know, completely
turn things on their ear.
711
00:34:26,716 --> 00:34:29,545
- Yeah, you know,
when you get older things just,
712
00:34:29,589 --> 00:34:31,112
we did a lot of stuff
when we were younger
713
00:34:31,156 --> 00:34:32,853
we just probably don't
do anymore.
714
00:34:36,900 --> 00:34:38,728
- No.
- Yes.
715
00:34:40,687 --> 00:34:43,994
- Vibrators, and we used...
- Plugs.
716
00:34:44,038 --> 00:34:45,257
- Plugs, we used a lot
of butt plugs.
717
00:34:45,300 --> 00:34:46,954
- Got her a tail for,
like, Christmas.
718
00:34:46,997 --> 00:34:48,825
I got you last year?
719
00:34:48,869 --> 00:34:50,523
- Oh yeah, I have a pretty
purple fox tail.
720
00:34:50,566 --> 00:34:53,265
- One of my girlfriends,
she got me something that
721
00:34:53,308 --> 00:34:55,745
I was like, I didn't even
know that these existed.
722
00:34:55,789 --> 00:34:58,618
So, they're like
vibrating underwear?
723
00:34:58,661 --> 00:35:03,710
- We got a ring,
it holds the penis.
724
00:35:03,753 --> 00:35:06,582
- Just being open and being
with somebody who's also open
725
00:35:06,626 --> 00:35:07,844
is really awesome.
726
00:35:07,888 --> 00:35:10,238
Because then,
you can just like,
727
00:35:10,282 --> 00:35:12,327
say "Yo, okay, jam something
in my ass now."
728
00:35:12,371 --> 00:35:13,589
It's like, "let's do this."
729
00:35:19,508 --> 00:35:22,207
- Sex dolls are,
like, the next wave
730
00:35:22,250 --> 00:35:24,470
of interacting sexually.
731
00:35:26,124 --> 00:35:29,866
Because you're creating
an imagination and fantasy
732
00:35:29,910 --> 00:35:33,435
with your doll that
you don't get in other toys.
733
00:35:33,479 --> 00:35:36,090
Sex dolls is
a really great way
734
00:35:36,134 --> 00:35:37,700
to kind of bring back the fun...
735
00:35:37,744 --> 00:35:38,919
[ woman moans ]
736
00:35:38,962 --> 00:35:41,182
The playfulness.
737
00:35:41,226 --> 00:35:42,618
And laughter.
738
00:35:42,662 --> 00:35:44,664
And pleasure.
739
00:35:44,707 --> 00:35:46,579
Bringing in any type of toy
740
00:35:46,622 --> 00:35:48,929
enhances that eroticism
741
00:35:48,972 --> 00:35:50,191
and creates more pleasure.
742
00:35:59,069 --> 00:36:00,375
- Hey.
- What's up?
743
00:36:00,419 --> 00:36:01,768
- What'd you do with
the ketchup?
744
00:36:01,811 --> 00:36:03,204
- Say what?
745
00:36:03,248 --> 00:36:04,945
- Did you really just
give me one package?
746
00:36:04,988 --> 00:36:06,686
- I saw that hello.
- I'm not a baby.
747
00:36:06,729 --> 00:36:08,253
- Never said you
was a baby.
748
00:36:08,296 --> 00:36:09,689
But you don't use
a lot of ketchup like me.
749
00:36:09,732 --> 00:36:12,866
Bra, I pay attention to you
for eight years.
750
00:36:12,909 --> 00:36:14,172
If I don't know you
by now,
751
00:36:14,215 --> 00:36:15,564
then something wrong.
752
00:36:15,608 --> 00:36:18,088
- Corey and I met in Florida.
753
00:36:18,132 --> 00:36:20,569
I was really attracted
to all the muscles.
754
00:36:20,613 --> 00:36:22,005
He was really buff then.
755
00:36:22,049 --> 00:36:24,051
I don't know what
happened, but...
756
00:36:26,314 --> 00:36:28,708
- That's a lot of ass.
757
00:36:28,751 --> 00:36:32,059
- When we first met,
the sex life was amazing.
758
00:36:32,102 --> 00:36:34,192
I was just truly
addicted to him.
759
00:36:34,235 --> 00:36:36,411
And vice versa.
It was fireworks.
760
00:36:37,412 --> 00:36:39,109
I talked to my Mama today.
761
00:36:39,153 --> 00:36:42,112
And I was telling her,
I know I'm your wild child.
762
00:36:42,156 --> 00:36:43,636
- What is wild about you?
763
00:36:43,679 --> 00:36:45,115
- I have tattoos.
- What that mean?
764
00:36:45,159 --> 00:36:46,595
- I have piercings.
- What that mean?
765
00:36:46,639 --> 00:36:47,596
- Nobody in my family
has that.
766
00:36:47,640 --> 00:36:49,163
- That's not wild.
767
00:36:49,207 --> 00:36:52,253
If they only knew the shit
that we done together...
768
00:36:52,297 --> 00:36:54,734
- Our sex life changed,
I would definitely say
769
00:36:54,777 --> 00:36:56,997
after we had our daughter.
770
00:36:57,040 --> 00:36:58,694
I went through
a little post-partum.
771
00:36:58,738 --> 00:37:02,132
I didn't have the sex drive
like he did.
772
00:37:02,176 --> 00:37:05,266
And that's when everything
kind of went down south.
773
00:37:05,310 --> 00:37:09,096
- My level of freak,
your level of freak.
774
00:37:09,139 --> 00:37:11,577
- What?
- Exactly.
775
00:37:11,620 --> 00:37:13,535
- When we tried to
rekindle it,
776
00:37:13,579 --> 00:37:16,059
we started going to hang out
at the swinger's clubs.
777
00:37:16,103 --> 00:37:19,106
And I have found that
to be a turn on for me,
778
00:37:19,149 --> 00:37:20,977
just kind of watching
other people have sex.
779
00:37:21,021 --> 00:37:24,677
And then we talked about
having a threesome
780
00:37:24,720 --> 00:37:25,808
or would I be interested,
781
00:37:25,852 --> 00:37:27,419
and I was just
kind of like
782
00:37:27,462 --> 00:37:28,942
that's not something
I've ever thought about.
783
00:37:28,985 --> 00:37:30,596
[ laughs ]
784
00:37:30,639 --> 00:37:33,163
So we've been trying
to figure out ways to
785
00:37:33,207 --> 00:37:36,166
have a threesome and kind
of getting me comfortable with
786
00:37:36,210 --> 00:37:38,168
having another woman
in the room.
787
00:37:44,174 --> 00:37:45,611
- We gotta go to the app.
788
00:37:45,654 --> 00:37:48,091
- I got this. Just chill.
- All right.
789
00:37:48,135 --> 00:37:49,571
- See? Here she goes right here.
790
00:37:49,615 --> 00:37:51,399
See, I like her
all day long.
791
00:37:51,443 --> 00:37:53,053
But look how real she looks.
792
00:37:56,361 --> 00:37:58,276
- If a couple wants
to open their relationship
793
00:37:58,319 --> 00:38:00,408
to more partners,
but there is a concern,
794
00:38:00,452 --> 00:38:03,759
a sex doll might be
a really good middle ground
795
00:38:03,803 --> 00:38:05,718
for that couple
to play with
796
00:38:05,761 --> 00:38:08,982
and to explore without putting
the relationship at risk.
797
00:38:09,025 --> 00:38:10,984
- She could be thick,
just find a different one.
798
00:38:11,027 --> 00:38:12,551
I'm not vibing with this one.
799
00:38:12,594 --> 00:38:14,683
- As a sex therapist,
I've used sex dolls
800
00:38:14,727 --> 00:38:17,251
in the therapeutic context
for a long time.
801
00:38:17,295 --> 00:38:19,297
Incorporating a sex doll
can really enhance
802
00:38:19,340 --> 00:38:21,299
the erotic excitement
that goes on.
803
00:38:21,342 --> 00:38:22,909
- She even got a little...
- She got a landing strip.
804
00:38:22,952 --> 00:38:24,345
- Landing strip.
805
00:38:24,389 --> 00:38:25,694
- You never want to
hurt your relationship.
806
00:38:25,738 --> 00:38:27,174
And when somebody means
the world to you,
807
00:38:27,217 --> 00:38:29,437
you want them to feel
like they make you feel
808
00:38:29,481 --> 00:38:31,309
like you're the greatest
thing on earth, and she does.
809
00:38:31,352 --> 00:38:34,660
I'm never, like, not satisfied
when I have sex with her.
810
00:38:34,703 --> 00:38:36,226
Just don't have that
drive no more
811
00:38:36,270 --> 00:38:37,706
that we had
at the beginning.
812
00:38:37,750 --> 00:38:39,752
- I just want you to look
at shape and size
813
00:38:39,795 --> 00:38:41,014
cause you can customize
the color.
814
00:38:41,057 --> 00:38:42,407
- Okay.
815
00:38:42,450 --> 00:38:44,322
Oh my God!
816
00:38:44,365 --> 00:38:47,673
Why she ain't got no head?
Who thinks of shit like this?
817
00:38:47,716 --> 00:38:49,283
Who does that?
818
00:38:49,327 --> 00:38:51,633
Nothing can replace
the real deal.
819
00:38:51,677 --> 00:38:53,940
But I'm gonna try it
because
820
00:38:53,983 --> 00:38:55,855
I never want to lose Ashley.
821
00:38:55,898 --> 00:38:57,291
It's crazy to say
love at first sight,
822
00:38:57,335 --> 00:38:59,293
like as soon as I saw her,
823
00:38:59,337 --> 00:39:01,077
I knew that's where
I wanted to be.
824
00:39:01,121 --> 00:39:03,645
- Oh, look at this one.
- Oh, shit.
825
00:39:03,689 --> 00:39:05,647
Jameson.
826
00:39:05,691 --> 00:39:07,432
When we first started
having sex,
827
00:39:07,475 --> 00:39:08,911
man, we was
like rabbits.
828
00:39:08,955 --> 00:39:10,913
Now it's like turtles.
829
00:39:10,957 --> 00:39:12,611
[ chuckles ]
830
00:39:12,654 --> 00:39:15,309
Hold on, hold on. Jameson.
Is she a sister? Is she Spanish?
831
00:39:15,353 --> 00:39:17,224
- She looks like
she's from Brazil.
832
00:39:17,267 --> 00:39:19,269
- That would be my
ideal situation is to keep Ash
833
00:39:19,313 --> 00:39:21,881
and have somebody
that she respects.
834
00:39:21,924 --> 00:39:25,319
- You could have a threesome
right here with that ass.
835
00:39:25,363 --> 00:39:29,279
- That's why these dolls,
I'm hoping is a good situation.
836
00:39:32,587 --> 00:39:34,502
- Mom, do you want
it darker than this?
837
00:39:34,546 --> 00:39:36,461
- Yeah, I can't even see it.
838
00:39:36,504 --> 00:39:38,158
- How's that?
- That looks great.
839
00:39:38,201 --> 00:39:40,508
- Tell me when you are ready.
- Ready when you are.
840
00:39:40,552 --> 00:39:42,380
- Okay, and go.
841
00:39:42,423 --> 00:39:46,819
- I'm going to show you how
to insert a replaceable vagina.
842
00:39:46,862 --> 00:39:49,561
You'll need our
premium renewal powder,
843
00:39:49,604 --> 00:39:52,607
and then when you open it up,
it just will stretch right open
844
00:39:52,651 --> 00:39:55,567
and then you'll just insert it
in with one hand
845
00:39:55,610 --> 00:39:57,525
seat it all the way back.
846
00:39:57,569 --> 00:40:00,267
We're the number one seller of
realistic life-size sex dolls
847
00:40:00,310 --> 00:40:01,355
in the United States.
848
00:40:01,399 --> 00:40:03,052
And she's ready to go.
849
00:40:03,096 --> 00:40:06,273
And I sell sex dolls
with my mom.
850
00:40:06,316 --> 00:40:07,274
It's pretty exciting.
851
00:40:07,317 --> 00:40:09,232
- Just get her cleaned up.
852
00:40:09,276 --> 00:40:12,758
Quite a few years ago,
I saw a sex doll
853
00:40:12,801 --> 00:40:14,542
and I didn't know
anything about them.
854
00:40:14,586 --> 00:40:16,675
Oh, that's great.
855
00:40:16,718 --> 00:40:18,546
But I fell in love with them.
856
00:40:18,590 --> 00:40:20,069
There we go.
857
00:40:20,113 --> 00:40:24,204
They're so finely crafted
and gorgeous,
858
00:40:24,247 --> 00:40:26,728
I just knew that I had to
bring them to the world.
859
00:40:28,382 --> 00:40:30,297
What really makes us
love what we do
860
00:40:30,340 --> 00:40:33,605
is the fulfillment that these
dolls bring to people's lives.
861
00:40:33,648 --> 00:40:35,737
- I think she's good.
862
00:40:35,781 --> 00:40:39,045
There's a lot of misconceptions
about who's buying sex dolls.
863
00:40:43,397 --> 00:40:46,226
- Some people have
maybe some medical issues
864
00:40:46,269 --> 00:40:49,838
like ED, or they've had
limited sexual experience.
865
00:40:49,882 --> 00:40:51,361
Limited sexual partners.
866
00:40:51,405 --> 00:40:53,146
They may be
later in life virgins,
867
00:40:53,189 --> 00:40:55,453
or they have
performance anxiety.
868
00:40:55,496 --> 00:40:57,672
- She is thick!
869
00:40:57,716 --> 00:40:59,979
- But for a lot of other people,
870
00:41:00,022 --> 00:41:01,589
it's more than that.
871
00:41:01,633 --> 00:41:04,723
It's such a fun way
for men and women
872
00:41:04,766 --> 00:41:08,683
to experience sex in a safe
and meaningful way.
873
00:41:08,727 --> 00:41:10,555
Uh-oh, uh-oh.
874
00:41:10,598 --> 00:41:11,817
Knocked your hat off.
875
00:41:11,860 --> 00:41:13,296
- Oh, she's so large.
876
00:41:13,340 --> 00:41:15,603
- It became easier once
I became educated.
877
00:41:15,647 --> 00:41:18,171
It became empowering to be
able to help people
878
00:41:18,214 --> 00:41:20,260
achieve sexual experiences
879
00:41:20,303 --> 00:41:22,001
that they didn't anticipate
that they could have.
880
00:41:22,044 --> 00:41:24,482
- These eyes are
really green, aren't they?
881
00:41:26,135 --> 00:41:28,137
- She looks so happy
to be here.
882
00:41:28,181 --> 00:41:30,096
If I can help people
enjoy sex,
883
00:41:30,139 --> 00:41:32,664
what's better than that?
884
00:41:32,707 --> 00:41:33,969
Oh, yeah, she looks
really pretty.
885
00:41:38,844 --> 00:41:41,673
- I've been, like, anticipating
this doll all week.
886
00:41:41,716 --> 00:41:43,936
Jameson.
887
00:41:43,979 --> 00:41:49,115
So, I'm curious what
it's going to look like.
888
00:41:49,158 --> 00:41:52,988
I'm ready to see,
see, touch and feel.
889
00:41:53,032 --> 00:41:55,556
Goodness, that box.
So big.
890
00:41:57,166 --> 00:41:58,385
I'm sure my neighbors
are going to be like,
891
00:41:58,428 --> 00:42:00,169
"What the hell?"
892
00:42:00,213 --> 00:42:01,693
It's huge!
893
00:42:01,736 --> 00:42:04,130
There's Jameson.
894
00:42:04,173 --> 00:42:06,567
She's here.
895
00:42:06,611 --> 00:42:08,221
Oh, it is kind of heavy.
896
00:42:08,264 --> 00:42:10,136
Oh.
897
00:42:10,179 --> 00:42:11,877
It's almost like
a dead body or something.
898
00:42:16,229 --> 00:42:18,623
When Corey gets here,
it's game time.
899
00:42:18,666 --> 00:42:21,147
- Hey, I gotta go, I gotta go.
You in the way, move.
900
00:42:21,190 --> 00:42:23,018
I gotta get to Jameson.
901
00:42:23,062 --> 00:42:25,586
I'm curious,
I'm interested, you know?
902
00:42:25,630 --> 00:42:27,109
It's just new.
It's new territory.
903
00:42:27,153 --> 00:42:28,894
So I'm all for it.
904
00:42:28,937 --> 00:42:30,809
I never want to lose Ashley,
905
00:42:30,852 --> 00:42:32,811
and that's why I'm like,
I'm gonna try a sex doll out.
906
00:42:35,204 --> 00:42:36,292
- Babe.
907
00:42:38,033 --> 00:42:39,078
She came.
908
00:42:39,121 --> 00:42:40,819
[ laughing ]
909
00:42:42,124 --> 00:42:43,169
- Yo.
910
00:42:43,212 --> 00:42:44,997
- Look how big it is.
911
00:42:45,040 --> 00:42:47,434
I'm opening this little box.
- It better not be the head.
912
00:42:47,477 --> 00:42:50,655
I just feel like
it's a dead body.
913
00:42:50,698 --> 00:42:52,178
If it's the head,
I'm gonna scream.
914
00:42:52,221 --> 00:42:53,919
- It's not the head.
- Okay.
915
00:42:53,962 --> 00:42:55,877
- It's the accessories.
916
00:42:55,921 --> 00:42:58,097
Vibrator.
- For the doll?
917
00:42:58,140 --> 00:43:00,839
- Smart warming wand.
It looked like a vibrator.
918
00:43:00,882 --> 00:43:02,928
Warming wand.
919
00:43:02,971 --> 00:43:05,191
I guess you're supposed
to warm the coochie with that.
920
00:43:05,234 --> 00:43:07,410
[ laughs ]
921
00:43:07,454 --> 00:43:11,240
- When relationships invite
a sex doll into their sex play,
922
00:43:11,284 --> 00:43:14,679
it's really important to
just spend some time with it
923
00:43:14,722 --> 00:43:16,637
before you decide
to have sex with it.
924
00:43:16,681 --> 00:43:19,727
- Oh my God, look how my hands
just kind of...
925
00:43:19,771 --> 00:43:21,860
bleed into her. Like...
926
00:43:21,903 --> 00:43:25,298
- You'll need to get good
at maneuvering them,
927
00:43:25,341 --> 00:43:27,779
so that you can experience
the maximum pleasure
928
00:43:27,822 --> 00:43:30,172
before the erections show up.
929
00:43:30,216 --> 00:43:32,522
- This is crazy.
- Oh.
930
00:43:32,566 --> 00:43:35,613
- What?
The arms and stuff move.
931
00:43:35,656 --> 00:43:37,615
- Oh, shit.
932
00:43:37,658 --> 00:43:39,181
[ laughs ]
933
00:43:39,225 --> 00:43:41,575
I need some lube
and a little warm.
934
00:43:41,619 --> 00:43:43,142
I'll be like this.
935
00:43:43,185 --> 00:43:44,709
[ Ashley laughs ]
936
00:43:44,752 --> 00:43:45,971
- With no head.
937
00:43:46,014 --> 00:43:47,537
- Oh, she got a tongue.
938
00:43:47,581 --> 00:43:49,365
Oh, thank you, Jesus.
939
00:43:49,409 --> 00:43:50,366
So, we gonna go to
a hotel later?
940
00:43:50,410 --> 00:43:52,064
What we gonna do?
941
00:43:52,107 --> 00:43:54,066
- Yeah, let's make it
a date night.
942
00:43:54,109 --> 00:43:56,242
Make this a night
to remember.
943
00:43:59,332 --> 00:44:01,508
Having the sex doll is
going to be interesting.
944
00:44:01,551 --> 00:44:04,859
But I think I'll feel a lot
more comfortable knowing that
945
00:44:04,903 --> 00:44:06,513
she's not going
to come between us
946
00:44:06,556 --> 00:44:08,080
and break up our home.
947
00:44:08,123 --> 00:44:10,778
I'm excited because
it's something new.
948
00:44:10,822 --> 00:44:13,433
And I am very open
to trying new things.
949
00:44:13,476 --> 00:44:15,827
You know, that little dose
that I had
950
00:44:15,870 --> 00:44:18,090
when we went watching
other people have sex
951
00:44:18,133 --> 00:44:21,789
at the swingers club just gave
me, like, this bad girl feeling.
952
00:44:21,833 --> 00:44:23,748
And I just felt real sexy.
953
00:44:23,791 --> 00:44:26,576
I want to have this
freaky, sexy side.
954
00:44:26,620 --> 00:44:30,189
Eventually I do want
to get to having couples
955
00:44:30,232 --> 00:44:32,800
and swingers parties
at my own house.
956
00:44:32,844 --> 00:44:34,715
The doll is definitely
a baby step,
957
00:44:34,759 --> 00:44:37,675
and right now I need to take
all the baby steps I can get.
958
00:44:37,718 --> 00:44:39,807
Ready for date night, babe?
959
00:44:39,851 --> 00:44:41,461
- I was made for this.
960
00:44:44,551 --> 00:44:46,596
I think Ashley would
be okay with me
961
00:44:46,640 --> 00:44:49,338
having sex with the doll
as much as I want.
962
00:44:52,211 --> 00:44:55,083
I'm hoping the experience
from the sex doll
963
00:44:55,127 --> 00:44:56,868
eventually moves to something
that, you know,
964
00:44:56,911 --> 00:44:59,653
there being another
person involved
965
00:44:59,697 --> 00:45:01,568
sexually with us both.
966
00:45:04,005 --> 00:45:05,659
- Corey's always
stressed to me,
967
00:45:05,703 --> 00:45:07,661
he's a very touchy, feely person
968
00:45:07,705 --> 00:45:10,011
and sex is what makes him
feel appreciated.
969
00:45:10,055 --> 00:45:13,232
So, of course, I want to
fulfill every fantasy for him.
970
00:45:13,275 --> 00:45:16,626
Just like I would want him
to fulfill my fantasies
971
00:45:16,670 --> 00:45:19,542
which he really does
a great job on doing.
972
00:45:19,586 --> 00:45:20,892
- Oh, that was easy.
973
00:45:20,935 --> 00:45:23,416
Watch a little TV.
974
00:45:24,460 --> 00:45:25,853
[ knocking ]
975
00:45:30,379 --> 00:45:31,685
[ Ashley giggles ]
976
00:45:31,729 --> 00:45:34,906
- Hey, babe.
977
00:45:34,949 --> 00:45:36,777
What are you smiling cheesy big?
978
00:45:36,821 --> 00:45:38,213
- Because somebody
want to meet you.
979
00:45:38,257 --> 00:45:40,215
- Oh, Lord.
- Somebody been waiting on you.
980
00:45:40,259 --> 00:45:42,522
[ laughs ]
981
00:45:42,565 --> 00:45:43,828
- You did good, poppy.
982
00:45:43,871 --> 00:45:45,220
[ chuckles ]
983
00:45:45,264 --> 00:45:47,222
I'm really really curious
984
00:45:47,266 --> 00:45:49,790
to see what it's going
to do for us
985
00:45:49,834 --> 00:45:51,966
to excite us, so it
may be like
986
00:45:52,010 --> 00:45:54,099
a nightly thing where we're
just having sex all the time,
987
00:45:54,142 --> 00:45:56,101
just the three of us.
988
00:45:56,144 --> 00:45:57,450
You gotta warm her up.
989
00:45:58,930 --> 00:46:00,235
There you go.
990
00:46:00,279 --> 00:46:01,584
This is so nice.
991
00:46:03,282 --> 00:46:05,850
Oh.
992
00:46:05,893 --> 00:46:09,723
[ laughs ]
993
00:46:09,767 --> 00:46:12,204
You got to let
her warm up.
994
00:46:12,247 --> 00:46:14,032
- What the fuck?
995
00:46:14,075 --> 00:46:18,036
- I'ma go to the bathroom.
Put on this shirt real quick.
996
00:46:18,079 --> 00:46:21,909
- When couples use sex dolls
as a way to sort of practice
997
00:46:21,953 --> 00:46:23,955
or to see what
it might look like
998
00:46:23,998 --> 00:46:26,871
if their partner would have
sex with someone else,
999
00:46:26,914 --> 00:46:29,874
it's actually its own
erotic experience.
1000
00:46:32,441 --> 00:46:33,399
- Suck my finger.
1001
00:46:33,442 --> 00:46:35,618
[ laughs ]
1002
00:46:35,662 --> 00:46:38,447
Can you feel it?
- Yeah, I feel it.
1003
00:46:41,929 --> 00:46:44,410
[ laughing ]
- Can you feel it?
1004
00:46:44,453 --> 00:46:47,021
- A sex doll brings back
kind of that view
1005
00:46:47,065 --> 00:46:49,763
of sexuality we had
when we didn't forget
1006
00:46:49,807 --> 00:46:51,286
that it was supposed to be fun.
1007
00:46:54,681 --> 00:46:56,596
So we will turn
her around.
1008
00:46:58,903 --> 00:47:01,209
- Okay.
- Hold up.
1009
00:47:01,253 --> 00:47:02,863
Pull her legs up more
so that way...
1010
00:47:04,909 --> 00:47:06,693
- Oh my God.
1011
00:47:17,704 --> 00:47:19,706
Oh my God.
1012
00:47:19,749 --> 00:47:21,186
Oh my God,
I killed the bitch.
1013
00:47:22,448 --> 00:47:24,667
I killed the bitch!
1014
00:47:24,711 --> 00:47:26,104
I'm sorry.
1015
00:47:26,147 --> 00:47:27,583
- You pulled her head off!
1016
00:47:27,627 --> 00:47:29,890
[ laughing ]
1017
00:47:29,934 --> 00:47:32,327
- Damn! I'm not happy.
1018
00:47:32,371 --> 00:47:33,328
- Come on.
1019
00:47:33,372 --> 00:47:35,417
- Wait, I can't...
1020
00:47:35,461 --> 00:47:37,245
Can't get into this shit.
1021
00:47:37,289 --> 00:47:40,335
I'm not aroused,
I'm not excited.
1022
00:47:40,379 --> 00:47:42,729
I'm, like, excited
before I got to it.
1023
00:47:42,772 --> 00:47:43,773
I'm not excited.
1024
00:47:46,602 --> 00:47:47,690
Looking at you
can get me hard.
1025
00:47:47,734 --> 00:47:49,257
I don't need nothing.
1026
00:47:49,301 --> 00:47:51,520
Soon as I see you
I get hard, you know this.
1027
00:47:51,564 --> 00:47:54,349
- So why do we need
another woman?
1028
00:47:54,393 --> 00:47:56,003
- We don't need another woman.
1029
00:47:56,047 --> 00:47:59,833
I get turned on by, like
the energy I get back, you know.
1030
00:48:00,878 --> 00:48:02,662
That's how I finish.
1031
00:48:02,705 --> 00:48:06,361
- Will you be turned on if you
see my practicing eating her?
1032
00:48:09,103 --> 00:48:11,062
- Anything's better than
what's been happening.
1033
00:48:11,105 --> 00:48:12,933
- Okay, well, we'll
try this way first,
1034
00:48:12,977 --> 00:48:14,587
and I'll, like, get on her,
1035
00:48:14,630 --> 00:48:15,631
and, like, have my ass up.
1036
00:48:15,675 --> 00:48:17,068
- Put your ass on her face.
1037
00:48:17,111 --> 00:48:18,721
Let's try.
- Let's try.
1038
00:48:21,159 --> 00:48:22,508
That works.
1039
00:48:24,379 --> 00:48:26,077
Put her hand on my ass.
1040
00:48:28,209 --> 00:48:29,471
- All right.
1041
00:48:31,343 --> 00:48:33,127
There we go.
1042
00:48:33,171 --> 00:48:34,520
- We figured it out.
1043
00:48:34,563 --> 00:48:35,825
- Feeling some shit.
1044
00:48:35,869 --> 00:48:39,351
- Watching him have sex
with Jameson,
1045
00:48:39,394 --> 00:48:42,006
it was actually a turn-on.
1046
00:48:46,314 --> 00:48:48,795
I thought I would
feel some type of way
1047
00:48:48,838 --> 00:48:51,319
but like I'm truly,
truly turned on.
1048
00:48:56,759 --> 00:48:58,326
- You want to put the
strawberry stuff on her?
1049
00:48:58,370 --> 00:49:00,111
- Oh, yeah, for taste.
1050
00:49:00,154 --> 00:49:01,721
Yeah.
1051
00:49:04,593 --> 00:49:06,291
[ Ashley moans ]
1052
00:49:06,334 --> 00:49:10,077
- Seeing Ashley perform
oral on Jameson
1053
00:49:10,121 --> 00:49:11,949
This is what I want.
1054
00:49:11,992 --> 00:49:13,559
That's what I signed up for.
1055
00:49:17,041 --> 00:49:18,390
- Yeah.
1056
00:49:20,522 --> 00:49:23,264
[ moaning ]
1057
00:49:23,308 --> 00:49:25,005
- You didn't leave
nothing for Jameson!
1058
00:49:29,836 --> 00:49:31,359
That was a good experience.
1059
00:49:31,403 --> 00:49:34,754
- I'm not gonna lie.
That was actually good.
1060
00:49:34,797 --> 00:49:36,843
At first I was just like,
eh, what is this?
1061
00:49:36,886 --> 00:49:38,018
You know, this is
too much work.
1062
00:49:38,062 --> 00:49:39,367
But then once we got into it,
1063
00:49:39,411 --> 00:49:40,586
I could see the potential.
1064
00:49:40,629 --> 00:49:42,501
I could see this
becoming more so.
1065
00:49:42,544 --> 00:49:44,851
I think that we should,
uh, attempt
1066
00:49:44,894 --> 00:49:46,896
to have somebody come
join us for real.
1067
00:49:46,940 --> 00:49:50,552
- I could see us actually
bringing in another chick.
1068
00:49:50,596 --> 00:49:52,641
It's like a little
threesome with...
1069
00:49:52,685 --> 00:49:55,035
- The three of y'all,
you, Jameson.
1070
00:49:55,079 --> 00:49:57,820
- Me, another chick and Jameson
and instead of him
1071
00:49:57,864 --> 00:50:00,432
fucking the other woman,
1072
00:50:00,475 --> 00:50:02,825
he can fuck me
and Jameson. Only.
1073
00:50:02,869 --> 00:50:04,653
[ laughs ]
1074
00:50:04,697 --> 00:50:05,785
That way no other chick
will get dickmetized.
1075
00:50:05,828 --> 00:50:08,396
Jameson can't get dickmetized.
1076
00:50:08,440 --> 00:50:10,877
Nobody's getting dickmetized
over here but me.
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