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Come on over a minute.

I just had some ideas

that I'd been thinking about
for quite a while...

about modulation.

It seems to me
that there are...

different themes in life.

And one of my main jobs,

it seems to me,

is to help
through the mass media,

for children...

To help children

through some of the difficult
modulations of life.

Because it's easy,
for instance, to go from C...

to F.

But there are some modulations
that aren't so easy.

For instance,
to go from F to F-sharp,

you've got to weave
through all sorts of things.

And it seems to me,
if you've got somebody

to help you as you weave...

Maybe this is just
too philosophical.

Maybe I'm trying to...
to combine, uh, things that...

that can't be combined,
but it makes sense to me.

14 years ago, a television
program for children

made its inauspicious debut
on station WQED in Pittsburgh.

Its host, Fred Rogers,
an ordained minister

with an abiding interest
in children

and an equally abiding belief

that they deserve more
from television.

♪ It's a beautiful day
in this neighborhood ♪

♪ A beautiful day
for a neighbor ♪

♪ Would you be mine? ♪

♪ Could you be mine? ♪

♪ It's a neighborly day
in this beautywood ♪

♪ A neighborly day for a beauty ♪

♪ Would you be mine? ♪

♪ Could you be mine? ♪

♪ I have always wanted
to have a neighbor ♪

♪ Just like you ♪

♪ I've always wanted to
live in a neighborhood ♪

♪ With you, so ♪

♪ Let's make the most
of this beautiful day ♪

♪ Since we're together,
we might as well say ♪

♪ Would you be mine? ♪

♪ Could you be mine? ♪

♪ Won't you be my neighbor? ♪

♪ Won't you please?
Won't you please? ♪

♪ Please, won't you be ♪

♪ My neighbor? ♪

- Mr. Rogers?
- Yes.

Where do you live?

- I live in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania.
- Oh.

Did you want to...

- Pardon me?
- They are gathered

in this television studio
with Fred Rogers,

an adult who cares
just about them.

His reward is the love
of millions of children.

I want to tell you something.

What would you like to tell me?

- I like you.
- I like you, my dear.

Thank you very much
for telling me that.

We had a
director that once said to me,

"If you take
all of the elements

"that make good television

"and do the exact opposite,

you have
Mister Rogers' Neighborhood."

Low production values,
simple set,

unlikely star.

Yet, it worked.

Because he was saying
something really important.

Love is
at the root of everything.

All learning, all parenting,

all relationships.

Love or the lack of it.

And what we see and hear
on the screen

is part of who we become.

He had a singular vision

of kindness and love,

but a question that I think of
a lot, in terms of Fred,

is whether his attempt

to influence America
succeeded or not.

I was all set
to go to the seminary

to become a minister,

but I went home my senior year
for a vacation,

and I saw this new thing
called television.

Tootsie roll!
America's favorite candy...

And I saw people

throwing pies
in each other's faces.

And I thought, "This could be
a wonderful tool.

Why is it being used this way?"

And so I said to my parents,

"You know, I don't think
I'll go to seminary right away.

I think maybe I'll go
into television."

And they said, "Wait,
but you've never even seen it."

Station WQED

is located in the heart
of Pittsburgh.

His father told him
about this new station

that was coming along here.

It was going to be called...

It was called
educational television.

♪ Why, hi, don't I
know you? ♪

Nobody wanted
to do a children's program.

And I said, "Well, we need
a children's program."

And I said,
"Well, I'll produce it

"and play some music
in the background.

"We'll get some free films,

and, Josie,
you can introduce them."

And then we discovered
the awful fact

that when you got free film,

it was often brittle,
and it would break.

And if you were
on the air live,

you had to do something.

Somebody had given me
this little tiger puppet.

I pushed it through
the clock and said,

"Hi, Josie. It's 5:02,

and Columbus
discovered America in 1492,"

and then just went
right back in.

And that's how
the puppetry began.

We never expected
to use puppets.

You know that... so much of it

was the necessity being
the mother of that invention.

My friend,
Daniel Striped Tiger.

How do you do? How do you do?

The interesting thing was...

Dad remembered
being six and seven

and eight and nine years old.

That inner child
never really went away.

I had every imaginable

childhood disease,
even scarlet fever.

Whenever I was, uh,
quarantined,

I would be in bed a lot.

I would put up my knees,

and they would be mountains
covered with the sheet.

And I'd have all these
little figures moving around,

and I'd... I'd make them talk.

I had to make up
a lot of my own fun.

Eh! Take that.

Eh, eh, eh!

What's the matter?

Over time, Fred became

unsatisfied with
The Children's Corner.

He thought that it was

simple and slapstick.

And he said he really wanted
to concentrate

on the seminary, so he wanted
to stop for a while.

His ordination was

as an evangelist
for television.

It was pretty way out there
for the Presbyterian church.

With television,

Fred wanted to focus
on the very young.

What do you think it is?

Lion!

A lion. Great.

Back in the 1950s,
there was a school of people

at the University of Pittsburgh

looking at early childhood
education.

What was it?

They felt that physicians

needed a training ground

so that they had a sense
of where human behavior

was coming from
from the very beginning.

Dr. Benjamin Spock
was part of it.

Berry Brazelton, the famous
pediatrician, was a part of it.

Erik Erikson, the extraordinary
psychologist, was a part of it.

And Fred's part of that group.

He-he became part of the group

as a student
of Margaret McFarland.

Fred, I think,

to the child,
the television program

between you and the child
is a real relationship.

For him to say,

"The feelings of a young child

are every bit as powerful
as our adult feelings,"

he was radical.

I know everyone says that,
but he was radical.

I've always felt that...

That I didn't need
to put on a funny hat

or jump through the hoop

to have a relationship
with a child.

I went to visit
with a new nursery school.

I had never met
these children before.

And I walked in,

and there was a long stare
from most of them.

And one little boy by the name
of Thatcher spoke first.

And all he said was,

"My doggy's ear came off

in the automatic washer."

And there was silence.

Just complete silence.

It was as if,

"This is your test, Mr. Rogers.

Are you still in touch
with childhood?"

And so I said,

"Sometimes that happens
to toys, doesn't it?

"Their ears come off
or their legs come off,

"but that never happens to us.

"Our ears don't come off.

"Our noses don't come off.

Our arms don't come off."

And Thatcher's eyes
were getting bigger

and bigger and bigger,
and he said,

"And our legs don't come off?"

And I said, "No, they don't."

And immediately,
all of the other children

started asking questions,
and poignant questions.

It was just as if, you know,

"We shall now open the door.

"You have passed the test.

You may come in."

And what he wanted to do

was to take all of that
that he learned

in television work,

add to that
the sense of ministry

and the child development
background.

It became
Mister Rogers' Neighborhood.

A neighborhood was a place

where, at times
that you felt worried,

scared, unsafe,

would take care of you,

would provide understanding,
safety.

That's what the neighborhood
was for Fred.

Television has the chance

of building a real community...

out of an entire country.

The neighborhood
is not a fantasy place

where all these
different people got together

and everything
was happily ever after.

When you have diverse people
together

with their different opinions,

you have conflict.

And that's what happens
in the neighborhood.

You have conflict,
real conflict.

Halt, trolley.

Give me your name, rank
and serial number.

"King Friday XIII

"establishes border guard.

King against change."

The parallels between what
is happening in the real world

and what is happening
inside the neighborhood

are uncanny and undeniable.

In 1968, the country is at war.

He can go on fighting

longer than we can.

Frightened, meow,
frightened, meow.

There's nothing
to be frightened about

until somebody
starts shooting, Henrietta.

Meow, meow,
start shooting, meow!

That was the first time
he knew that he was

producing something
for a national audience.

King Friday
was really irritated

that people
were changing things.

So his reaction as the authority

was to build a wall.

♪ Oh, it's very sharp,
it's very sharp ♪

♪ Oh, my,
barbed wire is very sharp ♪

Remember our battle cry, Edgar?

Down with the changers!

♪ Down with the changers,
down with the changers ♪

♪ We don't want anything to change ♪

- 'Cause we're on top.
- That's right.

♪ 'Cause we're ♪

♪ At least, you're, on top ♪

I can't believe
what a broad area we covered.

- Oh, dear.
- Edgar, Edgar,

wh-what do you think he means
by "any trouble"?

Fred didn't want you ad-libbing,

putzing around with the words,

because he was always trying
to get a message across

in every show.

I want there to be peace
in this neighborhood.

It's been a hard time
for everyone.

Well, I really do hope
that what you say will work.

Do you have the tags
on the bottom?

Yes, I... I put 'em on.

- Look, see if you like them.
- Good.

"Love," this one says.

And then we float them over
into the castle

so that Great Uncle Friday
will know

that the whole neighborhood
wants peace.

Paratroopers!

Fire the cannon!

Hold it, King Friday.

- Well, what is it?
- They're not paratroopers.

They're...
They're messages of peace.

Look at this: "Tenderness."

Messages of peace?

"Peaceful co-existence."

- Wait.
- You see, that one was...

They're peaceful messages, sir.

Let us stop all fighting.

Stop all fighting now.

Oh, superb! Superb!

Meow, wonderful, meow.

That was the first week.

That's how it got started.

♪ It's a beautiful day
in this neighborhood ♪

♪ A beautiful day for a neighbor ♪

♪ Would you be mine? ♪

♪ Could you be mine? ♪

From the early days

of Mister Rogers' Neighborhood

until the end of that program,
he came in the door

every day the same way.

Hi.

Hello.

And he changed to the sweater

to give a sense
that we are gonna have

this relaxing time together.

Whoop.

Change the shoes.

Some food for the fish.

Picture picture on the wall,

would you kindly tell us all,

is Mr. McFeely on his way here?

My job was
to be the prop person.

And then he said, "Oh,

"I know you've done
some... some acting.

"I'd like you
to play the character

of the delivery man."

I must go off, Mr. Rogers.

I have a lot of deliveries
today in the neighborhood.

So I became Mr. McFeely
on the spot.

The trolley left for its house

into the Neighborhood
of Make-Believe.

Boomerang, toomerang,
soomerang!

Anything could
happen in Make-Believe.

Oh!

But Make-Believe was not real.

I mean, there was
a distinction.

Fred never appeared
in Make-Believe.

Actors did. The puppets did.

There's the clock

where Daniel Striped Tiger
lives.

Next you see
King Friday XIII's castle.

King Friday XIII
is one of the few remaining

benevolent despots.

These characters are...
Were people in his life.

Queen Sara

would obviously be my mom.

I'd just like to say

what a fine person
my husband is.

Why, Sara.

None of us
like to think of Lady Elaine

as my aunt,
but we wonder about that.

In the beginning,
she was a witch.

I heard that.

Here's a squirt.

What can I say?

In a beautiful tree

lived X the Owl
and Henrietta Pussycat.

Meow, meow, beautiful day,
meow, meow, neighborhood.

And then,
at the end of every program,

we came back to Fred's
television house.

And to help children understand
all of these experiences,

he put that into a song.

♪ I like you as you are ♪

♪ Exactly and precisely ♪

♪ I think you turned out nicely ♪

♪ And I like you as you are ♪

And children need to hear that.

I don't think
that anybody can grow

unless he really is accepted
exactly as he is.

I think he was
one of those people

who would do their work
seriously

and they hope that someone
will pick up on the seriousness

of what they're about.

There were times
when he thought,

"Will people ever understand
that I'm not just a klutzy guy

"who's fumbling around
in a '50s living room with...

with weird curtains?"

WGBH in Boston decided to have

something called
a Mr. Rogers day.

There was just a woman
in... in GBH

who was in their PR department
who loved the program,

and I think
her colleagues said...

You know, I think they thought
it was really simple,

kind of '50s, square.

And she said, "No, I really
want to bring him here,

and I want families to be able
to come and see him."

And the line to get in

was blocks and blocks long

before they even
opened the doors.

And the word got around
really quickly

that there's something
going on with this guy.

Mr. Rogers, Mr. Rogers.

I like you as you are.

A little boy came up

to him and said, "Mr. Rogers,
how did you get out?"

And so he talked
to the little boy,

explained what television
was all about.

And the little boy's just

taking it all in, going,
"Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. Mm."

And he...
When Fred finished, he said...

The little boy said,

"How are you gonna
get back in?"

There was a whole

spiritual dimension to his work
in the television business

to be inclusive.

He did this without ever

identifying himself
as a minister.

He didn't wear a collar.
He wore a sweater.

And he preached in that context

in a way more effective
than anyone I've ever seen,

because it wasn't a sermon
like, uh, an oratorical thing.

It was a communication
right into their hearts.

He was a life-long
registered Republican,

and if you look at the values
that Mr. Rogers represented,

it's influenced by his faith.

His Christianity was this kind
of wide open Christianity

that was accepting thinking
from all other places

while never departing
from the Christian faith.

Fred's theology was:

Love your neighbor
and love yourself.

And he saw that communication

as the most deeply
spiritual thing

that he could be doing.

When I look at the camera,

I think of one person.

Not any specific person,
but one person.

It's very, very personal.

The space between
the television screen

and whoever happens
to be receiving it,

I consider that
very holy ground.

A lot happens.

A lot happens there.

For somebody
who was in television,

he was just...
He hated television.

Here, buddy. It's all yours.

Wow, look at this!

Hey! What about me?

In this country, the child

is appreciated
for what he will be.

He will be
a great consumer someday.

The quicker we can get them
to go out and buy, the better.

There's so much of that
in this country.

Mr. Ellison, I think you
have felt strongly

about some aspects of this.

Public television
could make a contribution.

As the American people

becomes aware of itself,
it discovers itself.

We do not know
as much as we should know

about who we are, what we are
and how we differ.

How will man use his miracles?

The answer just begins
with public television.

We want most of all

to enrich man's spirit,

and that is the purpose
of this act.

And then Nixon
became president,

and he wanted
to cut the funding.

The beginnings of PBS

was gonna probably be
dismantled by Richard Nixon,

whose approach to media
was to threaten stations

if they didn't behave
politically.

Nixon had a problem
with his budget.

He had to find money
for the Vietnam war.

It wasn't a lot of money
in today's terms,

but he wanted
to cut the budget.

In the midst of all this,

Fred Rogers gets

to go before Congress,

argue for $20 million of funding

to sort of solidify PBS,

in front of John Pastore,

who's a senator who had already

sort of made
his congressional bones

by attacking television.

This is going to be
a thorough hearing.

This is going to be a hearing
not to reach for a headline,

but to reach for a result.

There had been
two days of hearings,

and he hasn't been
very impressed.

If you'd been watching
those hearings

and you had to bet
on whether or not

PBS was going to keep going...
no.

That educational television
should permanently

struggle for subsistence
is intolerable.

All right,
who's the next witness?

Senator Pastore told the group,

"I've heard everybody read
your testimonies.

"I don't want anyone
to read anymore.

I'm tired of hearing
the reading."

When I heard about that,
I thought, "Uh-oh, Fred."

All right, Rogers,
you've got the floor.

- May I use this?
- And I could hear

in his voice the... the nerves.

Senator Pastore,

this is a philosophical
statement

and would take
about ten minutes to read.

So I'll not do that. Uh...

One of the first things
that a child learns

in a healthy family is trust.

And I trust what you have said,
that you will read this.

It's very important to me.

I care deeply about children.

My first children...

Will it make you happy
if you read it?

I'd just like to talk about it,

- if it's all right.
- All right, sir.

This is what I give.

I give an expression of care
every day to each child

to help him realize
that he is unique.

I end the program by saying,

"You've made this day
a special day

"by just your being you.

"There's no person
in the whole world like you.

And I like you
just the way you are."

And I feel that if we
in public television

can only make it clear

that feelings are mentionable
and manageable,

we will have done
a great service.

Uh, could I tell you the words

of one of the songs,
which I feel is very important?

Yes.

This has to do with
that good feeling of control,

which I feel that...

That children need to know
is there.

And it starts out, "What do you
do with the mad that you feel?"

And that first line came
straight from a child.

I work with children,
doing puppets in...

In very personal communication
with small groups.

"What do you do
with the mad that you feel

"when you feel so mad
you could bite?

"When the whole wide world
seems oh so wrong

"and nothing you do
seems very right?

"It's great to be able to stop

"when you've planned
a thing that's wrong

"and be able to do
something else instead

"and think this song.

"I can stop when I want to,
can stop when I wish,

"can stop, stop, stop anytime.

"Know that there's something
deep inside

that helps us become
what we can."

I think it's wonderful.
I think it's wonderful.

Looks like you just earned
the $20 million.

♪ Zoopity doo bee doo ♪

♪ A zoopity doo bee doo ♪

Fred Rogers is
easily the star of the show,

and if children had votes,

public television would be
on easy street tomorrow.

♪ Do do do do
Da do da do ♪

♪ Da do da do
Da do bee do wee ♪

Oh, wow.

Everything just
sort of exploded.

You know,
suddenly there was press

beating a path to our door.

Good evening.
I was in Pittsburgh

a few days ago

doing a bit
of investigative reporting

on a man named Fred Rogers.

Meow, meow, meow, meow.

Wonderful. Meow!

Mr. Rogers
does ten different voices

for ten different puppets.

Well, a copperhead
is poisonous, is it not?

He writes, he's the producer,

he is the chief performer,
and he is a marvel.

Fred Rogers,
as best I can tell,

has managed to escape
the calloused, the embittered,

the negative aspects
of being a public performer.

He is doing the one thing
in the world

that he wishes to do, and he is
by any definition a happy man.

I sometimes wonder
myself how he ticked.

It's a little tough
for me to have the...

Almost the second Christ
as my dad.

If we were
at the dinner table

and he would want
to say something

that wasn't necessarily

Mr. Rogers-like,
he would say it in

Lady Elaine Fairchilde's voice.

Get out here, Friday.

I need to speak with you.

That was our cue
that this is the alter-ego

speaking now, you know,

and just letting off
a little steam.

He and I both had childhoods

that you weren't allowed
to be angry.

You weren't allowed
to show your anger.

And we were never able
to do it.

It scared us.

Music was my first language.

I was scared to use words.

I didn't want to be a bad boy.

I didn't want to tell people
that I was angry.

But I could show it through...

The way I would play
on the piano.

I could literally laugh or cry

or be very angry
through the ends of my fingers.

I've always felt that you were
someone who could understand

the deep feelings
or thoughts of people.

Well, it took me so long
to get tame.

I try to understand
how everybody else

is working at it.

Sometimes it isn't easy.

No, but it's worth a try.

Daniel was pretty much Fred.

He did all the voices,
but, uh...

But I think Daniel
was the real Fred.

Maybe I could talk about clocks

and loving...

And things like that.

A, b, c, d,

f, g, j, k,

l, m, s...

Oh, Lady Aberlin, I just
can't go to school tomorrow.

Why not, Daniel?

Because I don't know
everything.

Daniel is articulating

the fears and anxieties
and feelings

that Fred had as a child,

but that many children have.

He never forgot how
vulnerable it was to be a kid.

You know,
you're this little thing.

Everything else in the world
is bigger than you are,

and you have to learn everything

that helps you
get through in life.

I think that it just
never left him.

Whatever those scars
of his life were,

he wanted to help heal
that wound, maybe?

It's a lot easier,
even as an adult,

for me to have Daniel say...

"I'm really scared.

Do you think maybe
you could give me a hug?"

You know?

That would be hard for me
to say, "I'm really scared.

Do you think
you could give me a hug?"

So the difference from the...
From here to here,

that doesn't seem
very far, but...

It was efficacious,
to say the least.

A car ran over
the jaw of your cat?

- Mm-hmm.
- And what happened?

It was bleeding.

Oh.

They tried and fixed it,

but they fixed it
for a half a day,

but then it died.

- But then it died?
- Mm-hmm.

Oh, I think that's scary.

All you had to do
was see Fred

inhabit Daniel to...

really kind of figure it out.

I mean, they were symbiotic.

As strange as it is
to see a grown man

have a symbiotic relationship
with kind of a dingy, you know,

worn-out little sock puppet,
he definitely had that.

Would you give me a hug?

Mm-hmm.

Thank you.

'Cause I needed that.

I better go back in the case,
Mr. Rogers.

Okay, Daniel.

He's really nice.

You could talk to him.

Okay, Daniel.

Just a minute.
I want to show you something.

Okay.

Wonder what.

It's a balloon.

Oh, a balloon.

Could you blow it up for me?

Surely.

So, this is the first year

of Mister Rogers' Neighborhood.

Daniel Striped Tiger
is there with Lady Aberlin,

asking her to blow
a balloon up

and then let the air out.

You wonder why this
is in there.

Uh, they can't hear.
Can you hear on any of these?

There's something
I want to ask you.

What does "assassination" mean?

What happened? Do you know?

Somebody said he's been shot.

Let's roll some videotape
on this out here, friends.

Ha-have you heard
that word a lot today?

Yes.

And I didn't know
what it meant.

Well...

It means...

Somebody getting killed...

in a...
A sort of surprise way.

That's what happened, you know.

That man killed that other man.

A lot of people are sad
and scared about it, you know.

I'd rather talk about it
some other day.

Whenever you like.

I felt that I had to speak

to the families of our country
about grief.

A plea not to leave
the children isolated

and at the mercy
of their own fantasies

of loss and destruction.

Children have
very deep feelings

just the way parents do,

just the way everybody does.

And our striving
to understand those feelings

and to better respond to them

is what I feel is a most
important task in our world.

He realized
that if he really wanted

to communicate,
the most important thing

is to listen.

'Cause there's so many people
who will just

lump 'em all together and say,
"Hey, kids, come along.

We'll see the next cartoon."

And they couldn't
care less about

what that cartoon
is saying to the child

about such things
as human dignity.

♪ Tra-la-la, la-la-la-la ♪

♪ Tra-la-la, la-la-la-la ♪

Remember what was happening

for children's television.

It was speeding up.

Fred was pretty radical
in television for that day

in that he used time

totally differently.

To Fred, silence

was his delight.

Fred took
an egg timer and said,

"Do you want to know
how long a minute is?

Here. We're going to show you."

And we just sat there
for the whole minute.

There's a lot of slow space.

There's no wasted space.

In.

Out.

I think silence
is one of the greatest gifts

that we have.

His questions are direct,

simple, short,

and then he waits.

He interviewed me,
and he put his face

about three inches away
from my face,

says, "It's so nice

to see you and to be with you."

It scared the living daylights
out of me.

But I realized this is what
children do with adults.

And sometimes after

they answer,
he doesn't say anything else.

So they say a little bit more.

It's-it's a... it's a perfect
interviewing trick.

Very funny. Very funny.

Very funny.

I'm not falling for it.

Very good.

Handyman Negri and
Officer Clemmons, I presume.

Correct as always,
your highness.

Could we take a close look

at, uh, your badge here,
Officer Clemmons?

My friends, I think,
can read it.

P-o-l-i-c-e.

I have always felt
policemen to be

the most dangerous person
in the neighborhood.

So, to have me playing
a police officer,

I was tremendously hesitant.

But there was something
reluctant about Fred to let go.

And I said, "Mr. Rogers,

"I would be very happy
to be on your program

as long as it doesn't
interfere with my singing."

♪ We've had it
and now it can go ♪

♪ We don't want
the snow anymore ♪

And he teased me.

He teased me about that
for 20 years.

He'd say, "Officer Clemmons,

"are we interfering
with your career?

Are we interfering?"

He was relentless.

But he also told me, he said,

"That was the moment
I loved you."

He said, "Because you were not
going to kiss my ass."

Those are Mr. Rogers' words.

Mm, that feels good.

Oh, there's Officer Clemmons.

Hi, Officer Clemmons.
Come in.

Hello, Mr. Rogers. How are you?

Come on.
Why don't you sit down?

Oh, sure. Just for a moment.

It's so warm, I was just, uh,

putting some water on my feet.

Oh, it sure is.

Would you like to join me?

That looks awfully enjoyable,

but I don't have
a towel or anything.

Oh, you share mine.

Okay, sure.

Around the country,
they didn't want black people

to come and swim
in their swimming pools.

And Fred said, "That is
absolutely ridiculous."

Today,
trouble under a noon sun.

Negroes and white rabbis
marched to a segregated hotel

with these results.

The manager, James Brock,

told them to get off
his private property,

tossed, uh, cleaning chemicals
inside the pool

in an effort
to get the negroes to leave.

My being on the program
was a statement for Fred.

Cool water on a hot day.

I think that will is the great

unseen and unacknowledged
ingredient in Fred's story.

The level of will
that this guy brought

to really almost
all phases of his life,

physical and spiritual...

there's no better
manifestation of that than...

143.

Is that your address here?

Oh, no.

It-it means something special.

1-4-3?

Mm-hmm. You see,

"I" is one letter,

and "love"... l-o-v-e...
is four letters,

and "you"... y-o-u...
is three letters.

Fred would go to
the Pittsburgh Athletic Club,

and he swam a mile.

He swam at a unhurried

but deliberate
and determined pace.

And then he got on the scale,

and the needle of the scale
jumped to 143.

And he came off it

with kind of a little smile
on his face,

and he told me that he
had weighed 143 pounds

every day of his life
since, like,

the late '50s or early '60s.

Now, I've thought
about this a lot.

What, that... that 143-pound
thing drives me insane.

Try that.

I can't do that.

In Fred's private numerology,

"I love you" is "1-4-3."

So, when the needle
jumps to 143,

there's, like,
this confirming quality.

There are so many weird things

that I'm not gonna tell you.

No.

Freddy was like
the little rich kid

that lived in the big house.

And we were all the...

The goofball kids
that lived across the alley.

We could be ourselves
around Fred.

We were crazies.

We all had long hair,
and we were always

having fun,
we were always making jokes.

♪ It's such a good... ♪

Those aren't mine.

Whose are these?

If we ever
saw a camera laying around,

we'd grab it,
I'd pull my pants down,

I'd take a picture of my ass
and put their camera back.

And, like, then it was film,
so, like, three weeks later,

you'd go to the fotomat,

and you'd get
your pictures back,

and there's Aunt Judy,
and there's Uncle Fred,

and there's some guy's ass,
you know.

And one day, Fred brought
his camera into the studio,

and he was taking pictures
with it.

And we went behind the set,
took a picture of my butt

and put his camera back.

He never said anything,
and, like, months later...

I think it was around
Christmastime...

he said to somebody, "Did you
give Nick his present?"

And it was a poster
of that picture

of me and my butt.

Thank you very much.

You're welcome.

- Did you make these yourself?
- Mm-hmm.

I... I, um...

I thought...
I-I thought of X the Owl,

so I... so I, um...

I drew him in his house
and his little door.

Oh, these are real treasures.

- Thank you very much.
- You're welcome.

Would you like
to see X the Owl?

You're a little happy.

That makes you
just a little bit happy, huh?

Oh, hello there.

Hello, everybody.

Hi.

I'm X the Owl.

I hear you drew
a picture of me.

This is a book

on all of the different tapes
that we have.

Here are the tapes. Here.

At that point, he thought

he had done enough programs

that they could be repeated.

Those are all
different visits...

Television visits
that we have on tape.

He was writing, he was hosting,

he was singing,
he was composing.

And it took a lot out of him.

I think he wanted a breather.

Well, next week, we'll start
to show all of these visits

so everybody can see them
the whole way through.

Well, I'll look forward
to that.

Let's take a look at this one.

When you think
about all of those episodes,

there's only so many stories
you can tell, right?

What's in
the future for Fred Rogers?

I understand that you are
ceasing production this spring

of the Neighborhood shows.

Well, it's going to give us
time to make some things

that I've wanted to do
for a long time.

- Hi, Katie.
- Hi, Fred.

And, John, wait till
you see this quilt.

He wanted to do
some prime-time stuff

for adults, and so he got
funding to do a show

called Old Friends...
New friends.

I wonder what it is
that makes one person

push on in the face
of difficulty

and makes someone else crumble
in helplessness.

What does tomorrow feel like?

That big. I feel...

I feel that big.

There's no feeling
for tomorrow.

Feeling is dead for me in here.

He was incredibly open.

He was scarily open.

He wanted to speak to adults.

He kind of put
the puppets away.

But have you watched
some of these?

The feeling that...

This instrument is a place,

that it is a country,

that it's somewhere that you go

to say something.

What... what does this

have to do with our world?

I don't know any store
that's like this.

Any television program
that's like this.

A flower is like this.

A child is like this.

Nobody but Fred
would have thought

of doing that for adults.

Take number 19.

Thank you for your poems
and your thoughts

about loving poetry and music.

You really inspired us
to make this program.

I'll be with you next time.

But he wasn't making

the kind of connections
with adults on television

that he thought
he might be able to make.

I remember opening the paper

and reading about a child

jumping off a roof
with a towel around his neck

because he was
playing Superman.

And there had been a lot
of stories like that.

Some children died
because of the injuries.

I read it to Fred.

It hit him, because he thought
he had covered

all that there was to say
in child development,

but this was new.

Fred didn't become angry a lot,

but he just became so angry
about the fact

that people would mislead
a small child.

And angry
that it was his medium

that was doing this.

Yeah, Superman.

I am tired of hearing people
who have long ago

set aside the concerns
of childhood,

telling everybody
what children really need.

I'll tell you
what children need.

They need adults
who will protect them

from the ever-ready molders
of their world.

That was the moment Fred said,

"I wonder if we could do
a week on superheroes,

talking about
the pretend-ness of it."

Very quickly,

we came back with the show.

Mm-hmm.

Uh, careful, Ana.

- I don't want you to...
- I think I'm flying.

- I am! I'm flying!
- No, you're falling!

What is going on here?

Oh, Ana was trying to fly.

I was using my super-skirt,

and I was going
through the air.

Yes, but you were going down,
and you might have gotten hurt.

That's right, Ana.

You have to be really careful

with super-things.

He was cool with every kid.

That's the whole thing.
I mean, there were little...

Kids that were...
They were little bastards.

They were just rowdy,
and Fred never said,

"This kid's a dick.
Get him out of here."

You know, I mean,
I sure would've.

Fred used to say

that the outside world
of children's lives

has changed,
but their insides haven't.

He realized that his work
wasn't through.

I'm Fred Rogers,
and I'd like to talk

with you about Make-Believe.

When it goes to the next level

is in the 1980s when he goes

to the theme weeks.

I mean, to... to do

a week on death...

"Oh, hi, kids.

We're gonna
do a week on death."

On divorce.

Some people
get married, and after a while,

they're so unhappy
with each other

that they don't want
to be married anymore.

On children getting lost.

Man, that's guts.

Help! Help, help!

Help, please, everybody!

There's a piece of paper
that I accidentally ran into.

And he typed in this little
sheet of paper

about how he couldn't do it,

that he didn't think
he was up to the task.

"Am I kidding myself

"that I'm able to write
a script again?

"Am I really just
whistling Dixie?

"I wonder.

"If I don't get down to it,
I'll never really know.

"Why don't I trust myself?

"After all these years,

"it's just as bad as ever.

"The hour cometh, and now
is when I've got to do it.

"Get to it, Fred. Get to it.

"But don't let anybody
ever tell anybody else

"that it was easy.

It wasn't."

The time that I was with him

going on a New York City
subway, all the children

in that crowded subway car

began singing
the Neighborhood song.

♪ I said a hip hop
the hippie the hippie ♪

♪ To the hip hip hop
and you don't stop ♪

♪ The rock it to the
bang bang boogie ♪

♪ Say up jump the boogie to the
rhythm of the boogie, the beat ♪

♪ Now, what you hear
is not a test ♪

♪ I'm rapping to the beat ♪

He might as well
have been an animated figure

stepped into real life.

Could I try that?

I brought my skates with me.

I can try.

Whoa.

♪ But first, I gotta bang bang
the boogie to the boogie ♪

♪ Say up jump the boogie
to the bang ♪

- What else do you like to do?
- Moonwalk.

- Moonwalk?
- You got it. Yeah.

People thought he was

such an important
American figure,

they wanted him to speak out

on the issues of the day.

And so Fred grew
pretty comfortably

into more of a public role.

You know, the Earth is a name

for the place
where everybody lives.

And the moon

is the name for the place

where the astronauts go.

Every time we went through

a national
or international tragedy,

my impulse was always
to call Fred

and put him on the radio.

What shall we tell our children

about the things
that are in the news

that seem so difficult,
so tragic?

Pilot Mike Smith,

followed by Christa McAuliffe,
teacher in space.

Christa has been rehearsing

the lessons she'll teach
from space.

Good morning.

This is Christa McAuliffe,
live from the Challenger.

The lessons will be seen

nationwide
on public television.

Five, four, three...

Two, one...

And liftoff!

Liftoff of the 25th
space shuttle mission,

and it has cleared the tower.

Challenger,
go at throttle up.

Roger. Go at throttle up.

God, no!

How do we put it to children

so they will understand?

And part of Fred's answer
was always to tell children

that we, the parents,
would take care of them.

Sometimes I found that
a difficult message myself

as the parent of a young child.

Sometimes I felt I was lying.

I knew that there were things
in this world

that I couldn't protect
my child from.

Sometimes we need to struggle

with a tragedy
to feel the gravity of love.

Love is what keeps us
together and afloat.

♪ It's a beautiful day
in the neighborhood ♪

♪ A beautiful day for a neighbor ♪

♪ Would you be mine? ♪

You know, it must
be tough to be Fred Rogers...

with your mission in mind

and then to have parodies.

♪ I always want to live in a
house like yours, my friend ♪

♪ Maybe when there's nobody
home, I'll break in ♪

♪ I married a woman
who said she was rich ♪

♪ Spent all our money,
walked out on the bitch ♪

♪ Would you be my,
won't you be my ♪

♪ Won't you be my neighbor? ♪

Eddie Murphy did that

Mister Robinson's Neighborhood,

and I remember meeting him,

and he just threw his arms
around me

the first time he saw me,

and he said,
"The real Mr. Rogers."

That's, uh,
Mr. Rogers there in the, uh...

- On the left.
- On the left, yeah.

Uh, now, how do you react
to that?

Well, some of them
aren't very funny.

But I think that, uh...
That a lot of them

are done with real kindness

- in their hearts.
- Mm-hmm.

I'm moving to a new
neighborhood

where I've made a...
A new friend.

Can you say "hooker"?

There were some that...

Were not as kind

in nature, and if they
made fun of the philosophy,

that was the only thing

that offended him, I think.

The battle of the PBS stars.

The crowd is literally buzzing
with excitement

as Mr. Rogers enters the ring.

Oh, look out there, Fred!

Fred had such
a great sense of humor,

for the most part.

There's Child,
obviously in shape

- and ready for this fight.
- Thank you.

But what about Rogers?

Experts have cast aspersions
on his manhood itself.

Fred would watch them
with the rest of us,

and everybody would be
laughing, and I just wonder...

If a little bit
of fat Freddy came back.

Just before
getting to adolescence,

he didn't have an easy time
making friends, I don't think.

He got a good taste of what
bullying was all about.

I've often wondered,

if there hadn't been
a fat Freddy,

would there have been
a Mr. Rogers?

You can feel the momentum

actually swinging toward Child.

And what just happened there?

He grabbed a puppet!

Oh, look at this!

He's hitting Child
with the lovable King Friday!

And the French chef is down.

A laughter record.

Used to play one like this
when I was a young boy.

You see, I felt
that the adults around me

were pressuring me to be
what I couldn't be yet.

"Act like a grown-up,"
I'd hear them say.

Well, I was afraid they'd laugh
at me when I tried.

So I found a record like this,

and I could make
the laughs start

and make them stop
whenever I wanted to.

For someone who hated
to be laughed at,

it was a good feeling
to be in charge

of at least this laughter.

I think that those
who would try

to make you feel less
than who you are...

I think that's
the greatest evil.

♪ With you, so ♪

Mm!

♪ Since we're together,
we might as well say ♪

♪ Would you be mine,
could you be mine? ♪

There was
a wonderful quote from Fred.

Oh, that's hard.

The most important learning...

it's the ability to accept
and expect mistakes

and deal with the
disappointment that they bring.

Hi, neighbor.

Had a little trouble
with my zipper there.

I'll get these shoes tied
and then...

Try the zipper again.

And Fred also understood

that there's a deeper level.

You know something,

- Lady Aberlin?
- What, Daniel?

I've been wondering
about something myself.

Something about Mr. Skunk?

Something about mistakes.

What is it?

I've been wondering
if I was a mistake.

If you were a mistake?

And I will tell you,

sitting in the studio
listening to that, that day,

I said to myself,

"I can't believe Fred
had the courage

to put that into words."

Sometimes I wonder
if I'm too tame.

♪ Sometimes I wonder ♪

♪ If I'm a mistake ♪

♪ I'm not like anyone else
I know ♪

♪ When I'm asleep ♪

♪ Or even awake ♪

♪ Sometimes I get to dreaming ♪

♪ That I'm just a fake ♪

♪ I'm not like anyone else ♪

♪ I think ♪

♪ You are just fine as you are ♪

You do?

♪ I really must tell you ♪

♪ I do like... ♪

Lady Aberlin
is saying to Daniel

what Fred himself
wanted to say,

not only to his childhood self,
but to all children.

♪ You're not a fake ♪

♪ You're no mistake ♪

♪ You are my friend ♪

And then you think, "Okay,
then Daniel's going to say,

'Oh, thank you.
That helped me a lot.'"

♪ - I think
- I wonder ♪

♪ - You are just fine as you are
- If I'm a mistake ♪

♪ - I really must tell you
- I'm not like anyone else ♪

And I thought to myself,

"Thank you, Fred,
for reminding us

that it's not so easy
to quiet a doubt."

But make it a duet

so that it's not just
your fears,

but you'll hear my support.

♪ Isn't it true ♪

♪ - That the strong never break?
- When you are sleeping ♪

♪ - I'm not like
- When you're awake ♪

♪ - Anyone else
- You're not a fake ♪

♪ - No, I'm not like
- You're no mistake ♪

♪ - Anyone else
- You're my friend ♪

I think you are just fine

exactly the way you are.

The way I look?

Yes.

The way I talk?

Well, yes.

The way I love?

Especially that.

Oh!

♪ Every valley ♪

♪ Every valley shall be exhalted... ♪

There were black kids
watching the show.

They needed a black figure
who would not let them down.

So, if I came out as gay

and there was some kind
of scandal,

that would not serve the race.

I carried that all the time.

♪ The feeling you know
you're alive ♪

Really nice, François.

I went to a gay bar
downtown called the Play Pen.

Oh, God, did I have
a lot of fun.

But somebody, uh, told the

Mister Rogers' Neighborhood
people about it,

and he asked me, "Did you...
Were you downtown at that bar?"

And I said, "Yes."

He said, "You can't go
back there anymore."

I wanted to show this film
to you.

Okay, on picture picture.

Here's Mrs. Clemmons at home.

In '68, I got married.

I'm not stupid.

There's the
portrait of the king and queen.

If I came out publicly,
he said,

"You cannot be
on the show anymore."

The sponsors,
Johnson & Johnson, and Sears,

they are not going to support
an openly gay man.

Fred was not prepared
to lose that market.

My marriage failed miserably.

And I discovered
you can't pray it away.

Eventually,
Fred came around to it.

I think François

just came a little too soon,
maybe, you know?

Oh, yes. Oh, my, yes.
Heavens.

Um...

You gotta forgive me for this,
but I have to ask you something

that may sound impertinent,
and I don't mean for it to

for a second.

Are-are...

Are you square?

I mean, are you a straight guy?
I mean, you're just...

Are you really the way you are?

First of all, no, he's not gay.

I tell everyone who asks me,
"No, he's not gay."

But the, uh...
the other part is

I spent enough time with him
that if he had the...

If there was a gay vibe,
I would've picked it up.

Nope, not as far as I know.

I mean, I think that anybody
who looked at Fred

looked at somebody
that they couldn't compare

with anybody else.

There's something inside you

that hasn't been lost.

Thank you, Daniel.

- Your childhood.
- Mm-hmm.

Okay.

I like him.

I know.

- Bye.
- Bye-bye. Okay.

That was one of the things

that I responded to.

That's terrific.

Wow.

I definitely saw another way
of... of being a man.

I'm sure you've heard
all these rumors

about Fred being a Navy SEAL
and killing people.

Was Fred a Navy SEAL?

Did Fred have tattoos?

And that, you know, he wore...

He wore the sweater

to cover the tattoos.

Fred was born a rich kid.

He didn't know how to use
a screwdriver,

let alone kill a bunch
of people.

That, to me, is just, like,

a classic example
of people looking at Fred

in all his eccentricity
and singularity,

and trying to basically say,
"Well, that can't be.

He has to be this way."

The universal question
about Fred is...

was he that way in real life?

And the answer is yes.

François Clemmons, hi.
Welcome.

Thank you. How you doing?

- I'm fine. How are you today?
- Fine.

My feet were tired,
so I thought I'd just

soak them for a while
in this water.

- Does it make 'em feel better?
- It does.

- Would you like to try?
- Sure.

On the show,

he would say, "I love you
just the way you are."

One day, I said,

"Fred, were you talking to me?"

And he looked at me,
and he said,

"Yes, I've been talking
to you for two years,

and you finally
heard me today."

And I just collapsed
into his arms.

I was... I started crying. I...

That's when I knew
that I loved him.

♪ There are may ways
to say "I love you" ♪

♪ There are many ways
to say "I care about you" ♪

No man had ever told me

that he loved me like that.

I needed to hear it
all my life.

My dad never told me.

My step-father never told me.

So, from then on,
he became my surrogate father.

I'm so proud of you, François.

Oh, thank you, Fred.

- Thank you.
- May I help you here?

Thank you.

The people who have had

a lot of struggle
in their lives,

those are the people
who really impress me.

There was an interview
with a little boy

by the name of Jeff Erlanger.

We wrote because Jeff was
going to have a spinal fusion

and be in a...
What they call a halo, uh...

- Cast. A halo cast.
- Metal rim, and then cast

on his shoulders
and bolted all together and...

- All the way down his trunk.
- Yeah.

- We weren't sure...
- He may not have

survived the surgery,
and so we said, you know,

"What would you like to do?

"Uh, this is going to be
a really big task for you,

"and so we want
to kick it off with something

that would be really special."

Mr. Rogers?

Hey, Jeff.

- I'm glad to see you.
- Hi.

Thank you very much
for coming by.

Can you tell my friends
what it is

that made you need
this wheelchair?

Sure.

Well, when I was about
seven months old,

I had, um...

I had a tumor,

and it broke the nerves

to tell my hands
and legs what to do.

I see.

And I got a wheelchair

when I was four years old.

- That was your first one?
- Mm-hmm.

- When you were four.
- Uh-huh.

He told Jeff before
they started that they would

have a chat and then sing
a song together.

I think he said,
"We might sing a song."

- I remember.
- Yeah.

'Cause, I mean,
I was sort of surprised.

"What? He's going
to start singing a song?"

Well, you know,
this is totally...

Not even what song.

♪ It's you I like ♪

♪ It's not the things you wear ♪

♪ It's not the way
you do your hair ♪

♪ But it's you I like ♪

♪ - The way you are right now
- Now. ♪

♪ The way down deep inside you ♪

♪ Not the things that hide you ♪

♪ - Not your fancy chair
- Chair ♪

♪ That's just beside you ♪

♪ But it's you I like ♪

♪ Every part of you ♪

♪ Your skin, your eyes ♪

♪ Your feelings ♪

♪ Whether old or new ♪

♪ I hope that you'll remember ♪

♪ Even when ♪

♪ You're feeling blue ♪

♪ That it's you I like ♪

♪ It's really yourself ♪

♪ It's you ♪

♪ It's you... ♪

♪ I... ♪

♪ Like ♪

- And it is you I like, Jeff.
- Thanks.

And there must be times
when you do feel blue.

Uh-huh.

I'm not feeling blue
right now, though.

Me, neither.

I'm so glad
that you came today.

Thanks.

I remember asking one of the...

One of the staff people
that was there,

"Well, you know,
what do you think?

Did it go okay?"

"Oh, this is good.
This is good."

He had his surgery.

He survived.

Certainly, Mr. Rogers had
an impact on who Jeff became.

His sense of self.

You obviously have a power now.

I mean, that you wouldn't
have had

when you first
started the show.

Well, it might sound
very ingenuous,

but I don't feel that.

Behold.
These shall be your minions.

I would hope that anybody

who sets himself or herself out

to produce mass programming
for children...

could have the kind
of respect

of childhood that I have.

Because it's not all clowns
and balloons.

What do you mean,
you don't agree with me?!

Some television programs
are loud and scary,

with people shooting
and hitting other people.

You know, you can do
something about that.

When you see scary television,
you can turn it off.

We need to help our children

become more and more aware

that what is essential in life

is invisible to the eye.

Thank you.

Thank you very much.

As he got older, it was

more important for him
to be strong in his beliefs.

Maybe that was how
he was getting his anger out.

His anger that people

didn't take him seriously.

They didn't get him.

They didn't get
the depth of the show.

He started out being Daniel,

soft and quiet and shy...

developed into King Friday.

That is not correct.

Now do it again
and do it perfectly.

Wasn't King Friday

a wonderful insight
into his character?

His determination

and his ambitions.

As a king, I must see
that the world runs smoothly.

Farewell to you both.

That gruffness was his way

of getting what he wanted
across.

Fred Rogers wanted something
very badly

and would do what he felt
was necessary

in order to get it.

Let's take the gauntlet

and make goodness attractive

in this so-called
next millennium.

That's the real...

That's the real job
that we have.

I'm not talking about
Pollyanna-ish kind of stuff.

I'm talking about
down-to-earth,

actual goodness.

People caring for each other

in a myriad of ways,

rather than people knocking
each other off all the time.

I mean, I don't find that
funny at all.

What changes the world?

The only thing that ever
really changes the world

is when somebody gets the idea

that love can abound

and can be shared.

You're doing a great job.

Dad never stood up and said,

"Look at what I've done.
Look at this.

Isn't this wonderful?"

The only time I ever saw him
come even close

to anything like that
was when he did the interview

with Koko the gorilla.

Great.

That's a happy sound.

Is it?

That's a purr.

Like that?

Can you teach me
how to do that?

Isn't that a nice way
to welcome someone

and say that you're happy?

It's... it was
a weird kind of a...

kind of a thing, but, uh...

You realize there was something
kind of magical going on there.

What? Love?

"Love you," she said.

- Oh, is that...? Oh.
- "Love you. Visit. Love."

- Oh.
- Well, that was very nice.

Thank you, Koko.

There's so much
to think about, isn't there?

Let me ask you something about
what we've been discussing

- for the last three hours.
- Yeah.

- Yeah.
- Mr. Rogers and the

narcissistic society
that he gave birth to

because he told every kid
that they were important.

Do you believe his philosophy
destroyed a generation?

This evil, evil man.

The criticism goes like this:

"You told everyone
they're special.

"They don't have to do anything
to earn that special.

"That's what's wrong
with our country.

That's what's wrong with
children today."

He didn't say,
"If you want to be special,

you're gonna have
to work hard."

And now all these kids
are growing up,

and they're realizing,
"Hey, wait a minute.

Mr. Rogers lied to me.
I'm not special."

I'm sure by then Fred
had heard the criticisms,

but he's not talking
about entitlement.

And if you don't believe

that everyone
has inherent value,

you might as well go against

the fundamental notion
of Christianity

that you are the beloved son
or daughter of God.

- Hi, Mr. Rogers.
- Hi.

It's a pleasure to meet you.

I'm glad to meet you.
Thank you.

I watched your show
as a youngster.

I wasn't allowed to go
to preschool

'cause I had a disability,

and my mom made me
watch your show every day.

So thank you.

Bless your heart,
and here you are.

Thank you for
my preschool education.

And thank you
for inspiring me today.

At the very end of Fred's

very last commencement speech,
he said

what he meant when he'd say,
"You're special."

And what that ultimately means,
of course,

is that you don't ever
have to do

anything sensational

for people to love you.

It is really a matter

of believing that

you're endowed
by your Creator with good.

You know,
there are many different ways

of saying, "I love you."

In fact, I like
to think about times

when I've seen people
showing their love.

Okay.

Mm-hmm.

Show 1765.

This is the last scene

of the last show
of the last day,

the last taping day
of the interior

of Mister Rogers' Neighborhood.

♪ It's such a good feeling ♪

♪ To know you're alive ♪

♪ It's such a happy feeling ♪

♪ You're growing inside ♪

♪ And when you wake up ♪

♪ Ready to say ♪

♪ I think I'll make a snappy
new day ♪

♪ It's such a good feeling ♪

♪ A very good feeling ♪

This place has been condemned.

Oh, it's been condemned.
Oh, well.

- You got two days to move out.
- Okay, thanks. See you.

That was wonderful.

Years ago, it wasn't so weird

that... that somebody
as nice as Fred was around.

Now there-there isn't room
for a nice person on TV.

So, we must have, uh,
regular reunions.

Yeah.

How about Tuesday?

Yeah, I'll have forgotten by...

About everyone by Monday,
so Tuesday will...

- bring it all back.
- Bring it all back.

- We did it.
- We did it.

- Can you believe it?
- We did it!

Ooh, mercy.

When he did stop
making the programs,

I felt that he was depressed.

I mentioned it to him,

and he said,

"Well, I miss my playmates."

- Mm-hmm.
- Okay.

That's fine.

Okay. Okay, slate out.

We decided to have Fred back

to do some promos about 9/11.

He was very troubled,
and I said,

"Fred, what's wrong?"
And he said,

"I just don't know what good
these are gonna do."

And I just remember saying,

"Fred, how can you say that?"

When the horror of 9/11
really hit him,

I-I think it was
a real eye-opener.

He was realizing that...

It was just so big.

It's always going to be
an ongoing struggle

to overcome evil.

I remember thinking, "Okay,

"this is the time
that you need to pump him up

"because he doesn't understand

"this... this is really
important.

People listen to you."

Okay.

No matter what
our particular job,

especially in our world today,

we all are called
to be tikkun olam,

"repairers of creation."

Thank you for whatever you do,
wherever you are,

to bring joy and light

and hope and faith

and pardon and love

to your neighbor
and to yourself.

Fred didn't like going
to the doctor's office.

He had stomach problems
for a long time.

I mean, for several years.

Oh, what's that
right down there?

Take a look at the aquarium.

Do you see a dead fish?

A dead fish would be one
that isn't swimming

or breathing
or anything at all.

Look down there and see,
will you?

See if you see any.

Oh, yes, right there, isn't it?

He told me that he was sick.

I played a Bach sarabande
for him over the phone.

It's like sending
a little loving message.

When he was very ill,

he talked a lot
about dying well.

To die with the hopes in...

With the hopes intact.

Before he became comatose,
he said,

"Do you think I'm a sheep?"

And we knew what he
was talking about

because he had been reading
in the Bible

about the last days,
with the... with the judgment.

It will be decided at the end

who is a sheep
and who is a goat.

And I think the need was
always there for being loved,

for being capable
of being loved.

There was a...
A little silence,

and then I said, "Fred,

if ever there was a sheep,
you're one."

Well, I suppose
it's an invitation,

"Won't you be my neighbor?"

Uh, it's an invitation for...

Uh, somebody
to be close to you.

You know, I think everybody
longs to be loved

and longs to know
that he or she is lovable.

And consequently, the greatest
thing that we can do

is to help somebody know

that they're loved
and capable of loving.

Across the street
from Fred's funeral,

there's this hubbub,
and there's all these people

holding up signs saying,
"God hates fags."

And I went and talked to them

because Fred would have it
no other way.

I said,
"Are you condemning Fred?

"Are you saying
that he was gay?

Wh-what's... what's happening?"

And they were saying that,
"No, no, he just...

He-he tolerated gays."

And so they were... they were
intolerant of the tolerance.

And the thing that... the thing
that struck me that day,

uh, more than anything else

was the children
that were there.

Children that had been drafted
into doing this work,

into standing there
with their parents

and holding up signs
and screaming.

And those kids
looked so unhappy.

Those kids looked so exhausted.

Those kids looked
so ill-treated.

It was just heart-breaking.

And I... and I knew
that if Fred had seen that,

that that's where his heart
would have gone.

I can't think how he would feel

about the things
that have come out

that seem to set us back
so far.

And I wonder
if he wouldn't simply

put down his tiger
and just stay home,

forget about even trying.

He's not a person
who would have given up,

but this is daunting.

I... I think he would be
trying to mend...

Mend the...

the split.

He would be trying
to find some way

to find something positive.

When I was a boy

and I would hear
about something scary,

my mother would tell us,

"Always look for the people
who are helping.

You'll always find somebody
who's trying to help."

I think there are
a lot of people

out there like Fred Rogers.

A lot more than we really
want to believe.

In response to the question,

"What would Fred Rogers do?"

It's not a question
that you can answer.

The most important question is:

"What are you going to do?"

From the time
you were very little,

you've had people who have
smiled you into smiling,

people who have talked you
into talking,

sung you into singing,

loved you into loving.

When he was
giving speeches, he would say,

"Now, think about somebody
who's helped you along the way

"for one minute.

I'm going to time you."

Let's just take some time

to think of those
extra special people.

Hmm.

Some of them may be right here.

Some may be far away.

Some may even be in heaven.

No matter where they are,

deep down,
you know they've always wanted

what was best for you.

They've always cared about you
beyond measure

and have encouraged you
to be true

to the best within you.

Thank you.

My mother.

How I got to this point,

because it was
my grandfather's doing.

There was this woman
named Viola

who used to take care of me
when I was little.

She was our babysitter.

I thought about Fred.

How about you?

Yeah.

Mm.

Thank you.

♪ It's such a good feeling ♪

♪ To know you're alive ♪

♪ It's such a happy feeling ♪

♪ You're growing inside ♪

♪ And when you wake up,
ready to say ♪

♪ I think I'll make a snappy
new day ♪

♪ It's such a good feeling ♪

♪ A very good feeling ♪

♪ The feeling you know
that we're friends ♪

Please welcome
Jeffrey Erlanger.

Oh, my.

Hi.

I am so glad to see you.

- Thank you. You, too.
- Oh!

What a surprise.

♪ It's such a good feeling ♪

♪ To know you're alive ♪

♪ It's such a happy feeling ♪

♪ You're growing inside ♪

♪ And when you wake up,
ready to say ♪

♪ I think I'll make a snappy
new day ♪

♪ It's such a good feeling ♪

♪ A very good feeling ♪

♪ The feeling you know
that we're friends ♪

You help to make each day
a special day

by just your being yourself.

There's nobody else
in the whole world

who's exactly like you.

And people can like you
exactly as you are.

You are special.

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