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MICHELLE:
Happy birthday, hon.
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What'd you wish for?I don't want to say.
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It'll jinx it.
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Oh. So secretive.
What a Scorpio.
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Such a Scorpio.
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MICHELLE:
Oh, okay,
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so... astrology, huh?
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Mom...
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No, it's just...
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Well, you just all
accept that stars
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millions of miles away dictate
all of your personality traits?
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Uh, yeah.
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DELIA:
Okay. Yeah, no.
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That-- Yeah, that's
fine. That's fine.
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I just don't know why you
wouldn't turn to things like,
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I don't know, DNA,
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cultural influences,
parenting.
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Come on, Delia.
It's fun.
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Science is fun.
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Your mom
sounds like a Taurus.
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Oh. [laughs]:
That is so ridiculous.
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You are a Taurus.
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I know.
It was a lucky guess.
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[chuckling]It's silly, yes,
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but what's the harm?
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Oh, it's silly, huh?
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Oh, well, then I guess
you wouldn't care
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if your new girlfriend
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also happens to be a Scorpio.
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How did you know that?
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I didn't even know that.
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U-Um...
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Natalie created a fake
social media profile.
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What?
You helped me!
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Ugh. Okay, fine.
Look, we only did it
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so that we could check her out
online without her knowing.
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You-You've been cyberstalking
my girlfriend?
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We were just trying
to make sure
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that she wasn't
some crazy black widow-type
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who preys on single fathers
with two daughters.
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Oh, please.
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But is she?
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No. Though most serial killers
are Scorpios.
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WADE:
Okay. All right,
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now that we know
she's not a murderer,
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no more snooping on Shannon.
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Anything I want to find out,
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I'll do it
the old-fashioned way.
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I'll ask.
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[chuckles]
Okay.
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You got it.Great.
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Wait. Wait.
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So, Scorpio is now?
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So her birthday
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must be soon.
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Yes, it is.
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[chuckling]
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O-Okay. All right.
Wh-When is it?
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Oh, I thought you didn't want me
to tell you anything else.
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You know what, you're right.
I don't.[chuckling]
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Never mind.
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Okay. Uh, damn it,
just tell me.
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In two days.
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What-what? Two days?
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Oh, my God.
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What am I gonna do?
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Indecisive. Ugh.
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Typical Gemini.
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It's not a thing!
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♪
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I can't believe Shannon's
birthday is in two days.
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I mean,
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we just started dating.
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I mean, if I go too big,
will I scare her off?
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If I go too small, what,
am I-- am I a jerk?
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I know.
Big calendar days
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at the start of relationships
are minefields.
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Mm-hmm.Birthdays,
Valentine's Day,
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Presidents' Day.
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'Cause of the mattress sales.
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Very intimate.
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Why are we even having
this conversation?
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'Cause, technically, you
don't know it's her birthday.
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So, no gift.
Problem solved.
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Yeah, but I-I do know.
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But you don't have to.
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Yeah, but I do.
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And if I didn't say anything,
I would feel like I was lying.
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I mean, do I...
[sighs]
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I don't know,
do I take her out?
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Do I get her a gift?
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Okay, just talk to her.
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Okay? Follow her lead.
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If you're really listening,
she'll...
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That I can do.
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I'm a very good listener.
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Really?
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'Cause I wasn't finished.[gasps]
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Ooh...
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See that?
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[indistinct chatter]
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[chuckles]:
Hey.
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Hey.
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What's this?Oh.
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Well, last time you had
one of these things,
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I didn't bring anything
for the non-birthday kids
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and Kai bit me on the nose.
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So, this time, I brought
something for everybody,
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virtually guaranteeing
a bite-free celebration.
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Yeah, let's say that.
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I got to go get
the sandwiches.
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Knock yourself out.
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Taylor children,
I come bearing gifts!
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Heck yeah!Yeah.
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I got something special
for everybody here.
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For Zoe, I got a Frisbee.
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Foqus? Isn't that the name
of the company you work for?
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Yeah. Yes, it is, Noah.
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And that's
what makes it special,
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because you can't find it
in stores. Hmm.
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Catch, Zoe.
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Okay. Really thought
she'd catch that.
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Um... Oh, for Kai,
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I got a stress ball.
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Because being five
can just be so darn hard.
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That also has your
company's name on it.
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I...
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Here, Kai, catch.
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Okay. Ben, you got to teach
your kids how to catch.
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They can catch.
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And, uh,
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last but not least--
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and I know what it says
on the side...
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For Noah, a water gun.
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Oh, wow.
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Thanks, Forrest!
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FORREST:
Yeah.
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I've never had
one of these before!
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FORREST:
Cool!
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That's great.Hey, Forrest,
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did you just give Noah
a water gun?
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Yes, I did.Great.
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Now I have to go
take it away from him.
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Take it away? Why?
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What? He's-- He loves it.
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There's a reason he's
never had one before, Forrest.
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It looks like a gun.
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It doesn't look like a gun.
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It's neon blue.
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What am I missing here?
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Uh, it's not
about the color of the gun.
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It's about the color
of my son.
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Yeah. It's not safe for him to
be out waving that thing around.
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He and I had that talk
a long time ago.
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Mm.
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Hey, Noah.
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Noah. Hey.
Don't you run from me.
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[sighs] God, I should've
just taken the bite on the nose.
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[sighs]:
God.
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How could I have been so stupid,
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especially with everything
that's going on in the world?
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I'm sure it's not as bad
as you think it was
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or Michelle would've
called me to talk about it.
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Well, how can you be
so sure about that?
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Because we talk
about everything.
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[chuckles] You don't know
if you talk about everything,
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because you only talk about
the stuff that you talk about.
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That's absurd.Oh, is it? Is it?
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Mm-hmm. Mm. Mm-hmm.Is it though?
Is it absurd?
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I thought it was absurd, too,
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until I stepped
into a big stinking pile
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of my own white privilege.
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Have I been making
the same mistakes
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with Michelle all these years?
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[stammers]
You may have.
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[gasps]
Oh! Ugh! Mm.
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I just remembered. Every time
I see her, I always go,
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"Hey, girl! What's up?"
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[groans]Oh!
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Is that a microaggression?
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Have I been microaggressing?
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I don't know! I don't--
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This is why I can't sleep![sighs]
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[exhales]
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Well, now I can't sleep!
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Couple glasses of wine.Mm.
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Low lighting.Mm.
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A high-level game of footsie
going on under the table.
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Mr. Felton,
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are you trying
to seduce me?Yes.
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And, I must say,
I am very surprised
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at how strong your feet are.[chuckles]
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Well, I used to be a gymnast.
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You were?Mm-hmm.
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I-I didn't know that. You know,
I also didn't know that y...Sorry.
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Excuse me. Just one
second. Hey, Orlando!
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Could you take the bone broth
off the fire for me?!ORLANDO: Sure.
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Sorry. I'm sorry. It's--
You were saying something.
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Uh, I-I didn't know
you were a gymnast.
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Yes. Yeah.Yeah.
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And, uh...
and I also didn't know
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that, uh, your birthday
was coming up so soon.
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Smooth transition.
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Okay. Okay, who snitched?
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Was it Orlando?
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My girls told me.
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Right after they told me
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they created
a fake social media profile
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to do some
semi-innocent spying on you.
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Oh, I'm impressed.
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And a little bit frightened.
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[exhales] No, they were just
looking out for their daddy.
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Okay, well, look, I--
just so you know,
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I'm not really
a birthday person.
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I just like to stay at home
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and let the day go by
like it was any other day.
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That makes sense, right?
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Uh... sure. Yeah, totally.
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Uh, got it loud and clear.Okay.
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So...
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um, can we rap?
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Rap?Not-not... not rap.
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Um, you know, talk,
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but like in a...
like in a real way.
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Like real talk.
Like, keeping it real.
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Uh, no. Um...
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Is this about the squirt gun?
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Yes, it is. It is.
It is. It is.
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So, um, it just brought up some,
um, uncomfortable feelings...
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for me, and I just
couldn't help but wonder,
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have there been other
microaggressions,
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or macroaggressions, or
mid-size aggressions,
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which I guess are
really just aggressions?
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Uh, so, then, you know, but
can we, you know, talk about it?
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I hear you.Mm-hmm.
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And we can do that.Okay.
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But does it have
to be right now?
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No, no. No.
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Whenever you're
comfortable.
Okay.
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Could be now, could be.
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Or could be later. Could be.
I'm just... I'm easy, girl.
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Friend. Friend.
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Friend. Girlfriend.
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That's worse. Yeah. Okay.
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So maybe I'll just
put it in an e-mail.
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Looking forward to it.Okay.
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[knocking]Hey, hey.
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Hey, Wade.
Girls, your dad's here!
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Hey. So...
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I listened to Shannon.
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All right.Good. And?
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And she hates birthdays.
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She does?NATALIE:
Hmm. That's odd.
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She never mentioned that
on Facebook.
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Or Instagram.Or LinkedIn.
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You have a profile
on LinkedIn?
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I'm a chief operating officer
in Milwaukee.
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[laughs]
259
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Well, she knows you know.
260
00:08:53,794 --> 00:08:56,666
And she said that you don't have
to do anything.
261
00:08:56,710 --> 00:08:58,146
Case closed.
262
00:08:58,189 --> 00:09:00,670
Yeah. Yeah, case closed.Mm-hmm.
263
00:09:00,714 --> 00:09:02,063
DELIA:
Mm. Right.No.
264
00:09:02,106 --> 00:09:04,674
No. No, case open.DELIA:
No.
265
00:09:04,718 --> 00:09:07,155
Yeah, it's open.
No. No, it's open.
266
00:09:07,198 --> 00:09:08,765
It's op-- I just opened it.
267
00:09:08,809 --> 00:09:11,028
No, I-I can't let her do nothing
for her birthday.
268
00:09:11,072 --> 00:09:12,769
Yes, you can.Uh...
269
00:09:12,813 --> 00:09:14,771
Because she said
so explicitly.
270
00:09:14,815 --> 00:09:18,035
No. I can't. It's sad. I...
271
00:09:18,079 --> 00:09:19,820
No, I ha...
I have to do something.
272
00:09:19,863 --> 00:09:22,083
I have to.
Come-come on, girls.
273
00:09:22,126 --> 00:09:23,693
No, you think you do,
but you don't!
274
00:09:23,737 --> 00:09:25,782
Bye.
275
00:09:27,218 --> 00:09:29,046
What a softy.Ugh.
276
00:09:29,090 --> 00:09:30,831
Classic Gemini.
277
00:09:30,874 --> 00:09:32,615
Oh, you people.
278
00:09:33,877 --> 00:09:35,183
Astrology people.
279
00:09:35,226 --> 00:09:37,664
I meant astrology people.
280
00:09:37,707 --> 00:09:40,580
I meant astrology people. You
know I meant astrology people.
281
00:09:44,845 --> 00:09:46,760
Shannon will love a plant.
I mean, everybody loves a plant.
282
00:09:46,803 --> 00:09:48,892
It's thoughtful,
but not extravagant.
283
00:09:48,936 --> 00:09:51,982
And, hey, what, I'm just a...
I'm just a plant guy, right,
284
00:09:52,026 --> 00:09:53,680
just dropping off
a plant on a day
285
00:09:53,723 --> 00:09:55,812
that happens to
be her birthday.
286
00:09:55,856 --> 00:09:57,814
I mean, it's the perfect
non-gift gift.
287
00:09:57,858 --> 00:10:00,643
Yeah, why didn't I just
give Noah a plant?
288
00:10:00,687 --> 00:10:02,906
Because he's 11.
Stop beating yourself up.
289
00:10:02,950 --> 00:10:04,778
God, I just
didn't know, man.
290
00:10:04,821 --> 00:10:07,737
I just didn't know
you can't give a water gun
291
00:10:07,781 --> 00:10:09,739
to a B-L-A-C-K boy.
292
00:10:09,783 --> 00:10:11,611
Why did you spell "Black"?
293
00:10:11,654 --> 00:10:13,656
I don't know.
I don't know.
294
00:10:13,700 --> 00:10:15,136
I don't know where
the line is anymore,
295
00:10:15,179 --> 00:10:17,225
and I don't want
to screw anything else up.
296
00:10:17,268 --> 00:10:19,836
You'll be fine.
Ben's our friend.
297
00:10:19,880 --> 00:10:22,883
I work in HR.
[laughs]
298
00:10:22,926 --> 00:10:25,712
I train people
in implicit bias
299
00:10:25,755 --> 00:10:27,670
and respecting others.
300
00:10:27,714 --> 00:10:29,890
I thought I was woke.
301
00:10:29,933 --> 00:10:33,154
But my blind spot was thinking
that I didn't have a blind spot.
302
00:10:33,197 --> 00:10:34,895
Yeah. It's tough.
303
00:10:34,938 --> 00:10:36,940
It's like when I realized
304
00:10:36,984 --> 00:10:39,769
that Ben won't even go
for a walk without his I.D.
305
00:10:39,813 --> 00:10:41,075
Of course. He might get stopped.
306
00:10:41,118 --> 00:10:42,772
Yeah.Oh, wow.
307
00:10:42,816 --> 00:10:46,950
Wait. How can you be
more woke than me?
308
00:10:46,994 --> 00:10:48,952
You drive a pickup truck
full of dirt.
309
00:10:48,996 --> 00:10:50,824
It's potting soil, and
you shouldn't judge people
310
00:10:50,867 --> 00:10:52,826
by the kind of
car they drive.
311
00:10:52,869 --> 00:10:55,829
Oh. You're right. You're right.
312
00:10:55,872 --> 00:10:58,005
Whoa. Hey, hey,
look at this!
313
00:10:58,048 --> 00:10:59,920
A key lime tree.
314
00:10:59,963 --> 00:11:04,272
She works with food, I work
with plants. This is both.
315
00:11:04,315 --> 00:11:06,709
And maybe I'll even get
a pie out of the deal.
316
00:11:06,753 --> 00:11:11,932
Damn. Maybe if I had put
as much thought into my gifts,
317
00:11:11,975 --> 00:11:14,151
instead of just randomly
grabbing them out
318
00:11:14,195 --> 00:11:15,936
of my office swag closet,
319
00:11:15,979 --> 00:11:17,981
I wouldn't have
messed things up with Ben.
320
00:11:18,025 --> 00:11:19,940
You know what?
Ben'll be fine.
321
00:11:19,983 --> 00:11:21,158
If I were you, I'd try
to make it up to Noah.
322
00:11:21,202 --> 00:11:23,117
That kid holds a grudge.
323
00:11:23,160 --> 00:11:25,162
[knocking]
324
00:11:26,860 --> 00:11:29,079
Hey, Ben... my friend.
325
00:11:29,123 --> 00:11:31,734
Hey.Um...
326
00:11:31,778 --> 00:11:33,083
you know,
I was thinking.
327
00:11:33,127 --> 00:11:37,305
It must be awful to
have to tell your kids
328
00:11:37,348 --> 00:11:38,959
that-that they can't
have something
329
00:11:39,002 --> 00:11:40,830
that other kids can have.
330
00:11:40,874 --> 00:11:44,007
Thanks?And, uh, you know, I know
I can't go back in time,
331
00:11:44,051 --> 00:11:48,185
and-and keep my ignorance from
doing the damage that it did,
332
00:11:48,229 --> 00:11:51,841
but I can look to the future
and try to heal the rift
333
00:11:51,885 --> 00:11:54,061
that I caused between
you and your boy.
334
00:11:54,104 --> 00:11:57,325
So many words, Forrest.Yeah, hold this for a second.
335
00:11:57,368 --> 00:11:59,806
Hey, Noah, come down
here for a second!
336
00:11:59,849 --> 00:12:01,721
Your dad got you something!
337
00:12:03,984 --> 00:12:06,943
What the hell, man?!
Get out of here with this thing!
338
00:12:06,987 --> 00:12:08,031
[shushing]
339
00:12:09,903 --> 00:12:11,861
Is that a Nintendo Switch?
340
00:12:11,905 --> 00:12:13,123
I don't know, don't ask me.
I didn't get it, your dad did.
341
00:12:13,167 --> 00:12:15,822
Don't ask me.
342
00:12:15,865 --> 00:12:19,042
Every mean name
I called you yesterday,
343
00:12:19,086 --> 00:12:20,957
I take them all back.
344
00:12:21,001 --> 00:12:22,916
Aw, that's so sweet.
345
00:12:22,959 --> 00:12:24,961
Mean names? What mean names?
346
00:12:25,005 --> 00:12:26,920
Oh, what do you have there?
347
00:12:26,963 --> 00:12:30,924
My father's love, Mama.
My father's love.
348
00:12:34,101 --> 00:12:36,886
How and why does our son
have a new video game?
349
00:12:38,453 --> 00:12:41,761
Well, uh, because I'm
rededicating myself.
To what?
350
00:12:43,937 --> 00:12:45,068
To exploring our differences.
351
00:12:45,112 --> 00:12:47,810
This must be about
that water gun.
352
00:12:47,854 --> 00:12:49,943
See, you told her.
353
00:12:49,986 --> 00:12:52,032
I-I knew it was a
big deal. I knew it.
354
00:12:52,075 --> 00:12:53,381
It wasn't a big deal in the way
355
00:12:53,424 --> 00:12:54,904
that you're making it
a big deal.
356
00:12:54,948 --> 00:12:55,818
Well, any time
you take a toy away
357
00:12:55,862 --> 00:12:58,734
from a child,
it's a big deal.
358
00:12:58,778 --> 00:13:01,519
But if you're serious about
rededicating yourself,
359
00:13:01,563 --> 00:13:04,522
it's gonna take
a whole lot more than...
360
00:13:04,566 --> 00:13:06,394
You know what?
361
00:13:06,437 --> 00:13:07,917
I'm gonna stay out
of this one.
362
00:13:07,961 --> 00:13:12,095
'Cause I just had this talk
last week with my study group,
363
00:13:12,139 --> 00:13:15,011
and after Zoe's gymnastics,
364
00:13:15,055 --> 00:13:17,840
and I'm only halfway through
Delia's mile-long
365
00:13:17,884 --> 00:13:21,104
"how can I help you?" e-mail.
366
00:13:21,148 --> 00:13:23,063
I am exhausted.
367
00:13:23,106 --> 00:13:24,412
My Black hurts.
368
00:13:24,455 --> 00:13:27,415
Did she just say...
369
00:13:27,458 --> 00:13:29,243
her back hurts or
her Black hurts?
370
00:13:29,286 --> 00:13:31,114
B-L-A-C-K.
371
00:13:31,158 --> 00:13:32,942
I knew you had to spell it.
372
00:13:34,814 --> 00:13:36,946
Oh, boy. Come with me.
We need to talk.
373
00:13:38,426 --> 00:13:40,863
You're breaking up with me,
aren't you?
374
00:13:40,907 --> 00:13:43,083
[sighs heavily]
375
00:13:43,126 --> 00:13:45,781
This better be a stripper,
otherwise, you guys
376
00:13:45,825 --> 00:13:49,002
don't know me at all.
377
00:13:49,045 --> 00:13:50,481
Oh, hello.[loud chatter]
378
00:13:50,525 --> 00:13:52,179
I know this looks bad.
379
00:14:00,491 --> 00:14:02,493
This is not what it looks like.
I mean, yes, it is,
380
00:14:02,537 --> 00:14:04,147
it's a party.You don't have to explain,
honestly.
381
00:14:04,191 --> 00:14:05,322
I-I shouldn't have come,
really.
382
00:14:05,366 --> 00:14:09,457
It's-- Oh, uh, this is--
This is for you.
383
00:14:09,500 --> 00:14:10,980
Uh, thank you. Thanks.
384
00:14:11,024 --> 00:14:13,026
But-but please don't go.
385
00:14:13,069 --> 00:14:14,331
MAN:
Shannon, shots!
386
00:14:14,375 --> 00:14:16,116
Would you... would you come in?
387
00:14:16,159 --> 00:14:17,465
Please. I feel terrible.
388
00:14:17,508 --> 00:14:19,119
No, really, it's-it's okay.
389
00:14:19,162 --> 00:14:20,250
ERIN:
I'm drinking your shot, bitch!
390
00:14:20,294 --> 00:14:21,425
Oh, one drink, okay?
One drink.
391
00:14:21,469 --> 00:14:22,862
Please, so I can explain.
392
00:14:22,905 --> 00:14:24,385
Okay.
Okay.
393
00:14:24,428 --> 00:14:26,169
Yeah, uh, one-one drink.
394
00:14:26,213 --> 00:14:28,084
Okay. Thank you, thank you.
Come on, come on, come on.
395
00:14:29,477 --> 00:14:31,174
[exhales sharply]
396
00:14:32,915 --> 00:14:35,439
You bought Noah a $300
gaming system.
397
00:14:35,483 --> 00:14:38,138
$350... with the
extended warranty.
398
00:14:38,181 --> 00:14:40,923
I-I got that because
he's so clumsy.
399
00:14:40,967 --> 00:14:42,142
You're doing too much, man.
400
00:14:42,185 --> 00:14:44,013
I don't think I'm
doing enough.
401
00:14:44,057 --> 00:14:45,275
I mean, tell me,
402
00:14:45,319 --> 00:14:48,017
what books can I read,
what organizations can I join?
403
00:14:48,061 --> 00:14:49,366
I want to do better.
404
00:14:49,410 --> 00:14:51,847
But this, what you're doing now,
this isn't better.
405
00:14:51,891 --> 00:14:54,937
Come on, man, you're putting
all your guilt on me,
406
00:14:54,981 --> 00:14:57,287
because you want me
to make you feel better
407
00:14:57,331 --> 00:14:59,028
about the things
I have to deal with.
408
00:15:02,249 --> 00:15:05,078
I-I don't know if I'd put
it exactly like that, but...
409
00:15:05,121 --> 00:15:08,081
Forrest, I love you,
and I know you mean well,
410
00:15:08,124 --> 00:15:11,345
but I cannot do
your work for you.
411
00:15:11,388 --> 00:15:13,173
I know it's hard out there
for Black people,
412
00:15:13,216 --> 00:15:18,047
but I didn't think it
was like that for you.
413
00:15:18,091 --> 00:15:21,050
Why not?
Because I know you.
414
00:15:21,094 --> 00:15:25,315
Oh, so you think the struggle
with racial injustice
415
00:15:25,359 --> 00:15:27,578
only applies to the Black people
you don't know.
416
00:15:27,622 --> 00:15:29,885
Apparently I did, yeah.
417
00:15:29,929 --> 00:15:33,367
Okay, I couldn't help
but overhear...
418
00:15:33,410 --> 00:15:35,108
Screw it, I was eavesdropping.
419
00:15:35,151 --> 00:15:38,024
Now, this type of thing
might be new to you,
420
00:15:38,067 --> 00:15:40,156
but this is all we've
ever known.
421
00:15:40,200 --> 00:15:42,550
It's our life every single day.
422
00:15:42,593 --> 00:15:45,988
Do you know how often I-I am
followed around a store,
423
00:15:46,032 --> 00:15:49,209
or somebody touches my hair
without my permission?!
424
00:15:49,252 --> 00:15:51,167
Ooh, don't get me started.
425
00:15:51,211 --> 00:15:53,213
I was about to get started.
426
00:15:53,256 --> 00:15:55,041
Don't get started, babe.
427
00:15:55,084 --> 00:15:57,130
[whispers]:
I'm glad she didn't
get started.
428
00:15:59,436 --> 00:16:01,177
You really want to know
what you can do?
429
00:16:01,221 --> 00:16:04,006
Yes.
Listen.
430
00:16:05,486 --> 00:16:08,010
Listen. Yeah. Great.
431
00:16:08,054 --> 00:16:11,274
Ah, good, good,
good. Listen.
432
00:16:11,318 --> 00:16:13,189
Mm.
Listen...
433
00:16:13,233 --> 00:16:15,148
to...
434
00:16:15,191 --> 00:16:16,410
Me!
Right.
435
00:16:16,453 --> 00:16:18,368
Black people.
Black people.
436
00:16:18,412 --> 00:16:20,153
And believe us.
437
00:16:20,196 --> 00:16:22,242
Because we get told that
we're imagining things
438
00:16:22,285 --> 00:16:25,027
when we talk about
our own experiences.
439
00:16:25,071 --> 00:16:28,204
Yeah. Or that when we protest,
we shouldn't.
440
00:16:28,248 --> 00:16:30,119
Or that we're doing it wrong.
441
00:16:30,163 --> 00:16:32,556
Even though
that is the only way
442
00:16:32,600 --> 00:16:34,558
anything has ever changed
for us.
443
00:16:34,602 --> 00:16:37,126
[exhales sharply]
I believe you.
444
00:16:37,170 --> 00:16:39,215
Thank you.
445
00:16:39,259 --> 00:16:43,045
Because I've got a lot
on my plate right now.
446
00:16:45,047 --> 00:16:48,268
Lately, I've been really busy,
taking away toys from my kids.
447
00:16:48,311 --> 00:16:50,487
Oh, man, too soon.
448
00:16:50,531 --> 00:16:52,011
[laughing]
449
00:16:52,968 --> 00:16:56,319
If you do the work, I will be
right here with you,
450
00:16:56,363 --> 00:16:58,191
because you're my friend.
451
00:16:58,234 --> 00:17:00,323
You know what, Forrest,
452
00:17:00,367 --> 00:17:02,543
there is one thing
you can do for us.
453
00:17:02,586 --> 00:17:04,110
But you can't take it.
454
00:17:04,153 --> 00:17:06,286
It was a gift from my dad.
455
00:17:06,329 --> 00:17:09,637
Uh, yeah, um, about that.
456
00:17:09,680 --> 00:17:13,075
You see, I lied.
It was from me.
457
00:17:13,119 --> 00:17:16,513
So I have to suffer
because you lied?
458
00:17:16,557 --> 00:17:19,168
Yeah. Yeah.
459
00:17:21,692 --> 00:17:24,043
I'm sorry, I got to go.
460
00:17:29,657 --> 00:17:33,052
Wade, here you go.
All right,
461
00:17:33,095 --> 00:17:34,314
please let me explain.Shannon,
462
00:17:34,357 --> 00:17:36,272
it's okay.
[sighs]
463
00:17:36,316 --> 00:17:37,708
Look, I know. I-I should
have taken a hint.
464
00:17:37,752 --> 00:17:40,450
You don't want me here,
and that's-that's totally cool.
465
00:17:40,494 --> 00:17:42,104
Is that what you think
is going on?
466
00:17:42,148 --> 00:17:43,323
Well, isn't it?
467
00:17:43,366 --> 00:17:45,151
Hey, guys.
468
00:17:47,501 --> 00:17:50,156
This is Wade.
ERIN:
Hey, Wade.
469
00:17:50,199 --> 00:17:52,332
Oh, my God.
Hey, hey, it's Wade.
470
00:17:52,375 --> 00:17:53,507
It's the guy that
Shannon's been dating
471
00:17:53,550 --> 00:17:55,639
and refuses to
shut the hell up about.
472
00:17:55,683 --> 00:17:58,338
ERIN:
Well, turn around so we can see
473
00:17:58,381 --> 00:18:01,689
if that ass is half as amazing
as Shannon swears it is.
474
00:18:01,732 --> 00:18:03,604
Okay, don't do that.
Don't do that.
475
00:18:03,647 --> 00:18:05,432
This is why I lied to you.
476
00:18:05,475 --> 00:18:09,305
I mean, it's so early on
in this... thing we're doing,
477
00:18:09,349 --> 00:18:12,743
and I didn't want you
to feel pressure.
478
00:18:12,787 --> 00:18:14,223
I mean, it's, you know,
a big party,
479
00:18:14,267 --> 00:18:16,225
and my knucklehead friends
would be poking on you.
480
00:18:16,269 --> 00:18:18,358
And I just-- I didn't want
to scare you away.
481
00:18:18,401 --> 00:18:20,316
Wow.
482
00:18:20,360 --> 00:18:22,318
I-I totally get it.
483
00:18:22,362 --> 00:18:24,407
You do?
484
00:18:24,451 --> 00:18:27,106
Boy, wait till you
meet my friends.
485
00:18:27,149 --> 00:18:30,109
[chuckles]
Um, so you're not scared away?
486
00:18:30,152 --> 00:18:33,590
Uh... No, no.
I don't scare that easy.
487
00:18:33,634 --> 00:18:37,246
Look, I-I don't know
what this is yet,
488
00:18:37,290 --> 00:18:40,119
but I know that I like you,
489
00:18:40,162 --> 00:18:42,382
and I think about you.
490
00:18:43,644 --> 00:18:45,428
And I just wanted
you to know that
491
00:18:45,472 --> 00:18:48,039
on your birthday
or-or any other day.
492
00:18:55,699 --> 00:18:57,788
I like the key lime tree.
493
00:18:57,832 --> 00:18:59,486
I'm gonna make you
a pie, obviously.
494
00:18:59,529 --> 00:19:02,184
Oh, well, that was
my secret agenda.
495
00:19:02,228 --> 00:19:03,185
Yeah, I know. I know.Clearly.
496
00:19:03,229 --> 00:19:04,534
[chuckles]
I, uh...
497
00:19:04,578 --> 00:19:07,450
I better get home
to the girls.
Why? No.
498
00:19:07,494 --> 00:19:10,149
Well, I didn't know that
there was a party going on.
499
00:19:10,192 --> 00:19:13,326
Oh, oh, okay.
Okay, bye.
Okay. Bye-bye.
500
00:19:13,369 --> 00:19:14,544
ERIN:
There it is!
501
00:19:14,588 --> 00:19:16,372
Walk that around.
502
00:19:16,416 --> 00:19:18,418
Come on, ladies,
you're better than that.
503
00:19:18,461 --> 00:19:21,203
No, they're not. They're not.
504
00:19:21,247 --> 00:19:23,727
ERIN:
Show it, baby!
Show it to me, baby!
505
00:19:23,771 --> 00:19:25,425
[trilling]
506
00:19:25,468 --> 00:19:28,254
[all shouting, clamoring]
507
00:19:28,297 --> 00:19:29,559
COLEMAN:
Dollar bills, yes!
508
00:19:29,603 --> 00:19:32,171
ERIN:
I've got a whole bunch
in my purse, baby.
509
00:19:32,214 --> 00:19:34,477
COLEMAN: Wait, come back.ERIN: It's burning a hole
in my pocket. Ow!
510
00:19:38,829 --> 00:19:40,396
Michelle.
I just wanted to tell you
511
00:19:40,440 --> 00:19:42,790
that I'm having my book club
read White Fragility,
512
00:19:42,833 --> 00:19:45,401
and I just really want
to get your take on it.
513
00:19:45,445 --> 00:19:46,707
Why would I read that?
514
00:19:46,750 --> 00:19:50,189
What? Oh, oh, you must.
515
00:19:50,232 --> 00:19:52,713
It is, like, so eye-opening.
516
00:19:52,756 --> 00:19:54,584
Each page, I'm like, what?
517
00:19:54,628 --> 00:19:57,718
Okay, we're gonna talk.Good. Because I have
so many things
518
00:19:57,761 --> 00:19:59,415
I want to talk out with you,
I just...
519
00:19:59,459 --> 00:20:01,374
You know what,
this time I'll talk
520
00:20:01,417 --> 00:20:03,376
and you can listen.
521
00:20:03,419 --> 00:20:05,334
Of course.
522
00:20:05,378 --> 00:20:07,684
Mm-hmm.Okay, that's a good idea.
523
00:20:07,728 --> 00:20:09,469
So much better.
524
00:20:11,427 --> 00:20:13,299
Can't be it. Oh!I don't know...
525
00:20:13,342 --> 00:20:15,649
So, she didn't invite you
to the party
526
00:20:15,692 --> 00:20:17,651
becauseshe likes you too much?Apparently.
527
00:20:17,694 --> 00:20:21,263
[scoffs] That's what passes
for game these days?
528
00:20:21,307 --> 00:20:23,439
And yeah, man, sure,
you've got a great ass.
529
00:20:23,483 --> 00:20:24,440
Thank you.
You're welcome.
530
00:20:24,484 --> 00:20:26,268
I mean, literally, you
could be a butt model.
531
00:20:26,312 --> 00:20:28,618
It's fantastic. I mean,
I would love to just
532
00:20:28,662 --> 00:20:30,707
bounce a quarter off it.Whoa.
533
00:20:30,751 --> 00:20:33,319
But cheering is
gratuitous, right?
534
00:20:33,362 --> 00:20:34,624
GRACE:
Hey, Dad?
535
00:20:34,668 --> 00:20:37,192
Where you going?
Hey.
536
00:20:37,236 --> 00:20:39,281
Shannon just DM'd us
on our fake Instagram.
537
00:20:39,325 --> 00:20:41,544
Did she? What did she say?
538
00:20:41,588 --> 00:20:43,242
"Dear Grace and Natalie,
539
00:20:43,285 --> 00:20:45,766
"thank you for telling your
father about my birthday.
540
00:20:45,809 --> 00:20:48,421
I love my key lime tree."
541
00:20:48,464 --> 00:20:50,249
Ah.She had to get
the last word.
542
00:20:50,292 --> 00:20:52,294
How Scorpio of her.
543
00:20:52,338 --> 00:20:53,817
Oh, stop it. Stop.
544
00:20:53,861 --> 00:20:57,256
There's nothing wrong with
Scorpios; Scorpios are amazing.
545
00:21:01,695 --> 00:21:05,655
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