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-Mom.
-Yes?
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-Okay. I want
a big party this year.
-Serious?
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-I want a quinceaƱera.
-QuinceaƱera?
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We can't do that.
We're too white for that.
We're not allowed.
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- The Supreme Court today
ruled that abortion
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is completely a private matter
to be decided
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by mother and doctor
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in the first three months
of pregnancy.
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The 7-2 ruling to that effect
will probably result
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in a drastic overhaul
of state laws on abortion.
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Specifically the court today
overturned
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laws in Texas and Georgia
and ruled the government
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has no right to enter...
- I couldn't get any work done.
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- ...into a decision
which should be made
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by the mother and her doctor.
- They're winning.
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- During the second
three months of pregnancy...
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- It's a great decision because
it puts right on the line
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that a woman has the right
to remain pregnant or not.
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It gives freedom of choice.
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- I respect the conscience
of those who oppose abortion
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on moral grounds.
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I do not believe
that they have the right
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to deprive other women
of abortion.
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- Abortion may be
legally permissible.
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It is still morally wrong.
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Rare Earth:
* I just want to celebrate
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* Another day of living
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* I just want to celebrate
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* Another day of life
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* I put my faith in the people
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* But the people let me down
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* So I turned the other way,
and I carry on *
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- I cannot believe it.
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- You heard the news?
- I know.
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Roe v. Wade.
It's the law of the land.
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- I was in the Supreme Court
during oral arguments.
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- Oh, my God.
You're Betty Friedan.
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- I am.
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- Your book--it changed my life.
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Can I hug you?
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- [ laughs ] Well...please.
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[ laughter ]
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Aw.
- Thank you, Gloria Steinem!
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* Don't let it all
get you down, no, no *
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* Don't let it turn you around
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- Oh.
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[ "A Fifth of Beethoven"
by Walter Murphy playing ]
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***
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***
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[ audience laughter ]
- Tomorrow you'll meet
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a crowned head of Europe
and marry.
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I will have a fat attack.
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[ audience laughter ]
- [ laughs ]
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- Eat 300 peanut butter cups
and die.
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- You know, now that you're
my upstairs neighbor,
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I feel like I'm Mary coming up
to visit Rhoda.
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- Oh, Mary never visits Rhoda.
- Never? Why?
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- Why?
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- [ chuckles ]
- Rhoda, I'm running...
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- You're going out
in that blouse?
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- Mom, it's just a blouse.
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- That you can wear
when you turn 18. No, 20.
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Where did you get that?
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- Noreen doesn't wear it
anymore,
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so she gave it to me.
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- Change now, please.
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- Remember what my mother
always said.
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There are millions
of children...
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- They share clothes now.
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- Looked expensive.
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- Carl loves spending money
on his new wife--
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money I made from my book.
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You know,
it makes him feel superior.
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- You know, I may have someone
for you--
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friend of Leon's, divorced,
two children, grown.
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- Oh, maybe. When I get back
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from
the Women's Caucus Convention.
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- You seen any of them
since Miami?
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- I shouldn't have slammed
Gloria and Bella in the press.
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- They slammed you right back.
Didn't they convince Nora Ephron
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to write that bitchy account
of you for "Esquire"?
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- Nora doesn't need convincing
to write something bitchy.
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- Oh, well...
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- And is that what everybody
thinks?
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That I'm the Wicked Witch
of the West,
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and Gloria is Glinda?
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- No one thinks that.
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- You know,
somebody should tell Nora
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that the real Wicked Witch
of the movement
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is that Phyllis "Schafly" woman.
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- She the one that looks like
Dolly Parton?
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What's the name of her group?
Um--
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- No. She's the other one
from Illinois.
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- Oh, the one with the "STOP"
signs and the blonde beehive?
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She is terrifying.
- And I do not buy
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for one second
that she's a real blonde.
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The ERA is in danger,
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and everyone is too busy fawning
over Gloria to listen to me.
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It's absurd! Are they
so blinded by all the hair?
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- So make them listen.
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You're Betty Friedan,
for chrissake.
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[ Bonnie Raitt's "I Know"
playing ]
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***
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* I know
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* You don't love me no more
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* No more
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* No, no more
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[ indistinct conversations ]
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* And it had
to be somebody else *
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* That's loving you more
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- Oh, thanks.
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* Loving you more
[ drink splatters on ground ]
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* Ain't no use
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* In you crying now
after you *
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- Thank you.
- Well, you know who is
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a rising star in the
Republican Party? Audrey here,
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and I have recruited her to run
for Vice President
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of the national caucus.
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- I do not know
if I'm a rising star,
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but I definitely stand out.
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- You were raised Republican?
- No.
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And my folks were not too happy
about it.
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[ laughter ]
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- You know, I told you, you did
not need to bring a fur coat.
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- Well, I hauled it all the way
down here.
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I'm not taking it off.
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- But now you're schvitzing
all over the place.
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- Schvitzing?
- What? I'm trying.
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- Schvitzing?
- [ chuckles ]
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Oh. Oh, we should bring
Betty over.
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- [ groans ]
- You think?
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So she wants to be
Mother Superior.
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She's earned it. We were
in the wilderness for 40 years.
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She lit a match.
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[ indistinct conversations ]
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- [ gasps ] Oh.
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***
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- [ scoffs ]
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Shirley! I wasn't sure
if you were coming.
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Hello, everybody.
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- Shirley.
- Shirley, Betty.
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- Oh.
- This is Audrey.
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- Are you okay?
You don't look yourself.
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- Is it the investigation?
- Ugh. It's been a long year.
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- You need a lawyer,
I can get you some names.
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- It's just outrageous.
It's a witch hunt, you know.
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Investigating you for misuse
of campaign funds
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instead of Nixon.
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I bet you're having a great time
at the White House right now.
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- It isn't dull.
- So can you tell us which
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of his advisors
they'll be calling to testify?
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- Who do you think?
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- Well, my money is on
Haldeman and Erlichman.
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- Of course. German.
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- Yes.
[ laughter ]
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You know who the government
should be looking into--
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Phyllis "Schafly."
- Schlafly.
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- I was inspired
by Woodward and Bernstein
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to do some digging
into the funding
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of her STOP ERA operations,
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and you'll never guess
what I discovered.
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She's a member
of the John Birch Society.
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- Do you think someone like her
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will care if she gets called
a Bircher?
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You'll have to do better
than that.
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- Well, no,
but if she's a Bircher,
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there's a good chance
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that she's got some white sheets
in her closet.
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- But we don't have proof.
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- And they don't exactly share
their membership rolls.
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- Well, we should use
our resources to find evidence.
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Take her down.
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- That is exactly what the men
with money want us to do.
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They use women as a cover
to orchestrate a catfight
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to distract everyone
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so they can sit in dark rooms
and smoke cigars
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and count their money.
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The smartest thing for us to do
is not engage with her at all.
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It'll only create
more headlines.
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- I agree. Gloria's right.
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We should stick to the program,
as they say in Weight Watchers.
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- Like you would know what they
say at Weight Watchers.
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[ chuckles ]
- Can we all make a pact
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right here and now
not to give her the time of day?
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- Huh.
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***
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Betty.
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- Fine. I agree.
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[ mouth full ] I only show up
when my help is needed.
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[ amplified voice ]
Phyllis "Schafly"
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did not get this money
from her housekeeping money.
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I have found evidence that she
and her STOP ERA organization
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received funding
from the John Birch Society,
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and I believe she has ties to...
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the Ku Klux Klan.
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[ camera shutters clicking,
audience murmuring ]
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- Yes, this is she. Yes.
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Who?
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Oh, good morning.
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Funded by the Birch Society?
I'm sorry, what?
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The Klan? Oh, no.
Uh, this charge is ridiculous.
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I have not, uh, received a dime
from any organization,
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unlike--well, that's all--
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No, wait. Here's a quote.
[ exhales deeply ]
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I hope Ms. Friedan
keeps investigating,
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because it keeps her
out of trouble.
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Sorry, when--when's this article
coming out?
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All right.
Thank you for calling.
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This is terrific news.
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Betty Friedan,
the most famous of the libbers,
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is attacking me in the press.
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- I thought Gloria Steinem
was the most famous libber.
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- Well, the point is that they
are acknowledging
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that we are a force to be
reckoned with.
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- But isn't it kind of awful?
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I don't wanna be associated
with the John Birch society
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or the Klan
or any racist groups.
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- No, the John Birch Society
is--is not a-a racist group.
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It's anti-communist.
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- Exactly.
- Anyway, doesn't matter,
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because we're--we're not
affiliated with anybody.
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You're not suggesting
that I'm prejudiced.
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- I...
- No, no, of course not.
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No one thinks that.
The libbers lie all the time.
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- And they're getting
even more desperate
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now that we're winning.
- That's right.
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- If people only knew how close
you are with Willie...
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You taught her daughter
how to read.
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But is it possible some
of the state chapters
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are taking money
from these groups?
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Maybe Mary Frances?
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- Alice, now you know
I run a tight ship.
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- Of course you do.
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- All right. Well, I will, uh,
I will talk to her just in case.
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- Good.
- Now the fact is that
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the libbers are running scared.
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They have not a single good
argument to make for the ERA,
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so they're launching this, uh,
smear campaign.
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- My husband and I are
John Birch Society members.
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- Well, I...
Well, that--that's your right,
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and I think maybe you should
just keep that to yourself.
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Now this article is coming out
tomorrow,
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so we need to make
a few hundred copies
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and send them out
to all our chapters
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and every radio news program,
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'cause we need to let them know
that the, uh,
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women's lib leaders are making
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these ludicrous attacks
against me.
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I'll just go and fill this up.
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- All right.
Let's get to it, huh?
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***
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[ water draining ]
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***
259
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- Oh.
- No, I can--I can wait.
260
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[ faucet turns off ]
- Please. Go ahead.
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[ faucet turns on ]
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- The article will call
attention to the fact
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that even though thousands
of lives will be saved,
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abortion isn't affordable
for poor women.
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- My pitch is also
about abortion.
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- [ chuckles ] I know we're all
eager to write about Roe,
267
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but we should at least have
a couple of articles
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about other areas
of the movement.
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- But it's all
I can think about.
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- Margaret, you have something?
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- I would like to explore
the idea
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of tokenism in the workplace.
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This phenomenon that happens
where one minority
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is propped up to cover
the experience
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of an entire population.
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Like the white population,
we are diverse within ourselves.
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- What does that mean,
diverse within ourselves?
278
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- There is not
a monolithic black experience.
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- Wait. Sorry, you're not
saying you feel that way here.
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- Uh, look at our latest issue.
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- No. No, not at all.
282
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- If you ever feel that way,
you should say something.
283
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There's no hierarchy here.
- Right.
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- I've been doing
a lot of research
285
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about a new organization
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that just sprang up--
STOP ERA.
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Phyllis Schlafly
and a bunch of housewives
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take bread to legislators.
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- God, yes, we know
about the bread. [ scoffs ]
290
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- [ baby crying ]
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- My feelings exactly.
[ laughs ]
292
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- I know, but now--
293
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- I don't think we should
give her any airtime at all.
294
00:13:10,290 --> 00:13:13,326
- I know, but now that Betty's
been invited to debate her...
295
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[ telephones ringing ]
- What?
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- "Ms." Magazine.
- At Illinois State University.
297
00:13:16,964 --> 00:13:18,431
- Excuse me?
- "Ms." Magazine.
298
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How can I help you?
[ ringing continues ]
299
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- "Ms." Magazine.
How can I help you?
300
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- You want me to do what?
301
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- What's going on
with the phones?
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[ ringing continues ]
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- "Ms." Magazine.
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What?
305
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Where did you get
this number?
306
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Which magazine?
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00:13:39,386 --> 00:13:42,789
No, you're not gonna find
anyone to lick your balls.
308
00:13:42,822 --> 00:13:43,957
[ slams down receiver ]
309
00:13:43,991 --> 00:13:45,959
- Sorry, what?
[ ringing continues ]
310
00:13:45,993 --> 00:13:47,961
- I'm wearing a...
311
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I guess you could say
it's a coral sweater.
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Excuse me?
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Oh.
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[ ringing continues ]
315
00:13:57,905 --> 00:14:00,673
- [ lowered voice ] Can we get
a copy of "Screw" Magazine?
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[ ringing continues ]
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[ hangers clacking ]
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***
319
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- I was leading the same kind
of life
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that all of us were supposed
to be leading at that time.
321
00:14:24,731 --> 00:14:26,499
You know,
I had my three children.
322
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- Mm-hmm.
- And I'd had a newspaper job
323
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and been fired because
I was pregnant,
324
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and I wasn't even aware
or conscious
325
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of the women's problem.
326
00:14:36,609 --> 00:14:38,912
I thought there was
something wrong with me because
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00:14:38,946 --> 00:14:41,848
I-I didn't have an orgasm
waxing the kitchen floor.
328
00:14:41,881 --> 00:14:43,750
[ laughter ]
I'm--
329
00:14:43,783 --> 00:14:46,253
- How did you come to write
"The Feminine Mystique"?
330
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- I was feeling
that my education at Smith
331
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hadn't prepared me for being
just a housewife.
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So I decided to send out
a questionnaire
333
00:14:55,728 --> 00:14:58,531
to my fellow Smith alumni
to find out if anyone else
334
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felt like freaks in the suburbs.
335
00:14:59,967 --> 00:15:01,768
- Did you have any idea
that your book
336
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would have the effect it did?
337
00:15:03,636 --> 00:15:05,538
- You know, it was like
everybody was waiting
338
00:15:05,572 --> 00:15:09,209
to have it put into words--
the problem that has no name.
339
00:15:09,242 --> 00:15:11,078
And so what--
- Well, seems like you got
340
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a runaway best-seller
on your hands.
341
00:15:12,779 --> 00:15:14,214
- And it seems like you have
a habit of interrupting.
342
00:15:14,247 --> 00:15:16,049
[ audience laughter ]
343
00:15:16,083 --> 00:15:18,551
Do you know what I do if
my husband interrupts me?
344
00:15:18,585 --> 00:15:22,455
I say the word "orgasm"
10 times in a row, and it gets--
345
00:15:22,489 --> 00:15:23,890
so it shuts him right up.
[ laughter ]
346
00:15:23,923 --> 00:15:25,125
- Well, I think it--
347
00:15:25,158 --> 00:15:27,560
- Orgasm.
[ laughter ]
348
00:15:27,594 --> 00:15:29,396
Orgasm.
[ laughter ]
349
00:15:29,429 --> 00:15:34,601
Orgasm. Orgasm. Orgasm. Orgasm.
[ laughter ]
350
00:15:34,634 --> 00:15:38,972
Orgasm. Orgasm. Orgasm. Orgasm.
[ laughter ]
351
00:15:39,006 --> 00:15:41,274
[ voices fade ]
352
00:15:43,943 --> 00:15:48,248
[ Dionne Warwick's "This Girl's
in Love With You" playing ]
353
00:15:48,281 --> 00:15:49,582
And I'm growing
even more impassioned,
354
00:15:49,616 --> 00:15:54,754
completely unaware that
the strap of my dress had broken
355
00:15:54,787 --> 00:15:57,590
and my boob was hanging out.
356
00:15:57,624 --> 00:16:00,593
And... [ laughs ] Well,
you can imagine the pictures
357
00:16:00,627 --> 00:16:02,429
that ran in the press
the next day.
358
00:16:02,462 --> 00:16:03,930
- Oh, I can.
- You know?
359
00:16:03,963 --> 00:16:06,099
- And I am.
- [ chuckles ]
360
00:16:06,133 --> 00:16:08,935
So I will say that
that kind of press
361
00:16:08,968 --> 00:16:10,637
was invaluable
in getting out the word.
362
00:16:10,670 --> 00:16:14,274
- Oh, I will never forget
watching that march
363
00:16:14,307 --> 00:16:18,345
down 5th Avenue,
women, arms linked.
364
00:16:18,378 --> 00:16:22,515
- Yes. When I got up to speak
to the crowd at Bryant Park,
365
00:16:22,549 --> 00:16:24,851
it suddenly hit me that
down through the generations
366
00:16:24,884 --> 00:16:28,188
through history,
our ancestors prayed,
367
00:16:28,221 --> 00:16:31,958
"I thank thee, Lord,
I was not created a woman,"
368
00:16:31,991 --> 00:16:34,461
and I said,
from this day forward,
369
00:16:34,494 --> 00:16:36,863
women all over the world
will be able to say,
370
00:16:36,896 --> 00:16:40,467
"I thank thee, Lord,
I was created a woman."
371
00:16:40,500 --> 00:16:44,471
- You know, there's a saying
in Pirkei Avot--
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00:16:44,504 --> 00:16:47,974
"Every assembly that is
for a hallowed purpose
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shall in the end
be established."
374
00:16:53,012 --> 00:16:55,982
- I feel that mission strongly,
yeah.
375
00:16:56,015 --> 00:16:58,218
***
376
00:16:58,251 --> 00:17:02,889
Uh, well, I'm gonna
have another. You want another?
377
00:17:02,922 --> 00:17:05,525
[ sighs ]
378
00:17:05,558 --> 00:17:08,495
***
379
00:17:08,528 --> 00:17:11,231
Next week, I'm going all the way
to Bloomington
380
00:17:11,264 --> 00:17:13,166
to debate Phyllis "Schafly."
381
00:17:13,200 --> 00:17:15,335
You've heard of her, yeah?
- No.
382
00:17:15,368 --> 00:17:18,405
- Well, you will soon.
She's very media-savvy.
383
00:17:18,438 --> 00:17:20,173
Everyone else underestimates her
384
00:17:20,207 --> 00:17:21,674
because she looks like
a Barbie doll,
385
00:17:21,708 --> 00:17:25,011
but she opens her mouth
and sounds like George Wallace.
386
00:17:25,044 --> 00:17:26,746
- [ laughs ]
- So it's up to me
387
00:17:26,779 --> 00:17:30,683
to go save the ERA
from her specious arguments.
388
00:17:30,717 --> 00:17:33,186
And I'm sure Gloria thinks
it's a mistake.
389
00:17:33,220 --> 00:17:35,188
- Gloria Steinem--
I have heard of her.
390
00:17:35,222 --> 00:17:37,890
- Yeah.
- What's she like in real life?
391
00:17:38,791 --> 00:17:44,531
- [ sighs ] Oh, why is everyone
so infatuated with her?
392
00:17:44,564 --> 00:17:48,535
- I think it is because
she's very pretty.
393
00:17:48,568 --> 00:17:52,038
- Mm. Eh.
394
00:17:52,071 --> 00:17:53,706
[ sets glass down ]
395
00:17:53,740 --> 00:17:55,542
So have you ever been
to Bloomington?
396
00:17:55,575 --> 00:17:59,446
It's a shithole. I can say that
because I'm from Peoria.
397
00:17:59,479 --> 00:18:02,715
- Peoria.
Peoria is very goyish.
398
00:18:02,749 --> 00:18:05,452
I bet you grew up
drinking lime soda.
399
00:18:05,485 --> 00:18:06,953
- Yeah, yeah. [ laughs ]
- [ laughs ]
400
00:18:06,986 --> 00:18:10,723
- All--All my friends got into
the sorority in high school,
401
00:18:10,757 --> 00:18:15,061
and I didn't, of course,
being Jewish.
402
00:18:15,094 --> 00:18:16,729
So they dropped me.
403
00:18:16,763 --> 00:18:23,403
***
404
00:18:23,436 --> 00:18:26,406
[ telephone ringing
in distance ]
405
00:18:26,439 --> 00:18:29,742
[ indistinct conversations ]
406
00:18:29,776 --> 00:18:32,312
[ ringing continues ]
407
00:18:34,847 --> 00:18:37,317
- You might wanna look at it
in your office.
408
00:18:42,289 --> 00:18:44,090
- It's okay.
409
00:18:44,123 --> 00:18:46,159
[ paper rustling ]
410
00:19:00,473 --> 00:19:03,543
[ indistinct conversations
continue ]
411
00:19:19,359 --> 00:19:22,495
[ birds chirping ]
412
00:19:40,079 --> 00:19:42,048
- Oh.
413
00:19:42,081 --> 00:19:43,316
- Thanks, Dad.
[ keys jingle ]
414
00:19:43,350 --> 00:19:44,651
I won't be home for dinner.
415
00:19:44,684 --> 00:19:47,019
- Oh, you've been out
every night this week.
416
00:19:47,053 --> 00:19:48,488
Where are you going?
417
00:19:48,521 --> 00:19:50,990
- Sweetheart,
the man has got plans.
418
00:19:51,023 --> 00:19:52,525
- Thanks.
- Have fun.
419
00:19:52,559 --> 00:19:56,195
- If you are seeing someone that
you have to sneak around with,
420
00:19:56,229 --> 00:19:58,331
the chances are you shouldn't be
seeing her in the first place.
421
00:19:58,365 --> 00:20:00,166
- I'm not.
422
00:20:00,199 --> 00:20:01,668
- Well, then where are
you going?
423
00:20:01,701 --> 00:20:05,538
- Church, okay? Tommy asked me
to play at his wedding.
424
00:20:05,572 --> 00:20:07,740
I've been practicing
on the church's organ at night
425
00:20:07,774 --> 00:20:11,177
when no one's there.
426
00:20:11,210 --> 00:20:12,712
[ door opens ]
- Ready?
427
00:20:12,745 --> 00:20:14,381
[ door closes ]
428
00:20:16,115 --> 00:20:19,252
- Oh. You think they'll have us
facing each other.
429
00:20:19,286 --> 00:20:22,855
- Well, that's how we did it
at Harvard.
430
00:20:22,889 --> 00:20:25,692
- All right, what--what do I do
if, uh,
431
00:20:25,725 --> 00:20:29,362
Ms. Friedan brings up
the John Birch Society?
432
00:20:29,396 --> 00:20:32,532
- Deny and deflect,
just like you did in '67.
433
00:20:32,565 --> 00:20:34,867
Even better, go on the attack
and accuse her
434
00:20:34,901 --> 00:20:37,537
of being a...a member
of the, uh, Radicalesbians...
435
00:20:37,570 --> 00:20:38,771
- Mm-hmm.
- Or whatever they're
436
00:20:38,805 --> 00:20:41,441
calling themselves these days,
and using the ERA
437
00:20:41,474 --> 00:20:43,276
to make it legal
for homosexuals to marry.
438
00:20:43,310 --> 00:20:47,380
- Well, that's good, but she's
actually the only one of them
439
00:20:47,414 --> 00:20:49,716
who has disavowed
the homosexuals.
440
00:20:49,749 --> 00:20:51,284
- Hmm.
- And she called them the, uh,
441
00:20:51,318 --> 00:20:52,952
"Lavender Menace."
442
00:20:52,985 --> 00:20:54,086
- [ laughs ] That's clever.
443
00:20:54,120 --> 00:20:56,923
- But I could accuse her
of pushing the ERA
444
00:20:56,956 --> 00:21:00,092
to enshrine abortion on demand
in the Constitution.
445
00:21:00,126 --> 00:21:02,061
- Not the right crowd.
446
00:21:02,094 --> 00:21:03,563
- It's important.
447
00:21:03,596 --> 00:21:05,898
- Not the right crowd.
448
00:21:05,932 --> 00:21:08,401
So I'll be Betty.
449
00:21:08,435 --> 00:21:12,071
- Oh. Betty, you're--
you're quite handsome.
450
00:21:12,104 --> 00:21:14,574
- [ chuckles, clears throat ]
451
00:21:14,607 --> 00:21:17,910
First, you'll each get
an opening statement.
452
00:21:17,944 --> 00:21:21,648
- Well, I have a-a good, uh,
joke, uh, to start.
453
00:21:21,681 --> 00:21:23,916
It's, uh, comparing the ERA
454
00:21:23,950 --> 00:21:26,319
to trying to kill a fly
with a sledgehammer.
455
00:21:26,353 --> 00:21:28,087
[ clears throat ]
So you're probably not
456
00:21:28,120 --> 00:21:31,090
going to kill a fly,
but you almost surely will
457
00:21:31,123 --> 00:21:33,526
break up some of the furniture.
458
00:21:35,194 --> 00:21:37,430
You don't think that's funny?
459
00:21:37,464 --> 00:21:39,332
- I do, uh, but Betty doesn't.
460
00:21:39,366 --> 00:21:41,267
- Oh.
461
00:21:41,300 --> 00:21:42,935
- So let's start with the draft.
462
00:21:42,969 --> 00:21:46,172
- Right, well, Congress, uh,
currently has the power
463
00:21:46,205 --> 00:21:50,777
to exempt women from the draft,
but the ERA would unfairly
464
00:21:50,810 --> 00:21:53,179
take away that power, and, uh,
send our daughters
465
00:21:53,212 --> 00:21:55,948
into the front lines,
uh, into combat duty, allow--
466
00:21:55,982 --> 00:21:59,118
- But, uh, earlier this year,
the Secretary of Defense
467
00:21:59,151 --> 00:22:00,853
announced the end of the draft.
468
00:22:00,887 --> 00:22:02,622
- Yes, but there are
already bills in Congress
469
00:22:02,655 --> 00:22:04,791
to reinstate the draft.
470
00:22:04,824 --> 00:22:08,961
Now, um, I don't know anybody
who has the solution
471
00:22:08,995 --> 00:22:10,463
to any wars for all time.
472
00:22:10,497 --> 00:22:12,832
So the question is,
473
00:22:12,865 --> 00:22:15,968
do we want women to be treated
just like men?
474
00:22:16,002 --> 00:22:17,804
Uh, Vietnam, uh,
475
00:22:17,837 --> 00:22:20,840
did you see any women running
to the draft board, saying,
476
00:22:20,873 --> 00:22:23,342
"I want my equal rights to be
drafted just like the men"?
477
00:22:23,376 --> 00:22:24,811
- Well,
that's a distracting argument.
478
00:22:24,844 --> 00:22:26,145
- No, I think it's
a crucial argument, because--
479
00:22:26,178 --> 00:22:29,649
- If the ERA passes, and they
do reinstate the draft...
480
00:22:29,682 --> 00:22:30,883
- Mm-hmm?
- Women would not be forced
481
00:22:30,917 --> 00:22:33,052
to go to war
because the military
482
00:22:33,085 --> 00:22:35,655
has the right to determine
who goes into combat.
483
00:22:35,688 --> 00:22:37,690
- Yes, but they wouldn't be able
to make those determinations
484
00:22:37,724 --> 00:22:40,192
on the basis of sex.
It would be unconstitutional.
485
00:22:40,226 --> 00:22:42,061
- Fine.
486
00:22:42,094 --> 00:22:46,666
Let's, uh...you say that
the ERA will take away
487
00:22:46,699 --> 00:22:48,835
the rights of, uh,
full-time homemakers.
488
00:22:48,868 --> 00:22:50,670
- That's right.
- But--
489
00:22:50,703 --> 00:22:52,338
- Since it is the woman who has
the baby.
490
00:22:52,371 --> 00:22:54,206
so our current law recognizes
this fact,
491
00:22:54,240 --> 00:22:56,843
and it allows the woman
her right to stay in her home
492
00:22:56,876 --> 00:22:59,679
with her baby and be supported
by the husband. Now--
493
00:22:59,712 --> 00:23:01,581
- That is not the law.
That is the norm.
494
00:23:01,614 --> 00:23:04,250
- Yes, but the law clearly
places the financial burden
495
00:23:04,283 --> 00:23:05,852
on the husband.
496
00:23:05,885 --> 00:23:09,255
- When your father lost his job,
did the law protect your mother?
497
00:23:09,288 --> 00:23:12,859
- Fred...
498
00:23:12,892 --> 00:23:15,027
Betty Friedan doesn't know
about that--
499
00:23:15,061 --> 00:23:16,696
- Didn't she have to go out
and get two jobs
500
00:23:16,729 --> 00:23:19,699
just to keep food on the table?
- You're not being fair.
501
00:23:19,732 --> 00:23:21,267
- It's--I'm making a point.
It's a debate. Fight back.
502
00:23:21,300 --> 00:23:22,535
- Stop--
503
00:23:22,569 --> 00:23:23,770
- Did the law protect
your mother?
504
00:23:23,803 --> 00:23:25,705
- Stop it.
- Who took her privileges away?
505
00:23:25,738 --> 00:23:27,707
- I said stop it. You're just
trying to make me emotional.
506
00:23:27,740 --> 00:23:30,443
- See, that's how you win
a debate.
507
00:23:30,477 --> 00:23:45,391
***
508
00:23:45,424 --> 00:23:51,130
***
509
00:23:51,163 --> 00:23:52,565
- Why aren't you at your lesson?
510
00:23:52,599 --> 00:23:55,735
- Aunt Eleanor said
I didn't have to go in.
511
00:23:55,768 --> 00:23:57,970
- Well, it's not up
to Aunt Eleanor.
512
00:23:58,004 --> 00:23:59,405
Come on.
Your swim teacher's waiting.
513
00:23:59,438 --> 00:24:01,908
- Well, Anne wasn't up for it
today.
514
00:24:01,941 --> 00:24:05,745
When you were in Philadelphia,
she had a scare in the pool.
515
00:24:05,778 --> 00:24:09,448
- Well, the longer she waits,
the harder it will be.
516
00:24:12,519 --> 00:24:14,587
***
517
00:24:14,621 --> 00:24:18,124
- [ grunts ] I don't want to.
- Let her take her time.
518
00:24:18,157 --> 00:24:20,927
- Fear will not be something
that stops my child.
519
00:24:20,960 --> 00:24:23,963
Now fear is not gonna stop you.
520
00:24:23,996 --> 00:24:24,997
- [ cries ]
521
00:24:25,031 --> 00:24:26,933
***
522
00:24:26,966 --> 00:24:29,435
[ whimpering ]
523
00:24:29,468 --> 00:24:32,104
- All right.
524
00:24:32,138 --> 00:24:33,606
- Aah!
525
00:24:33,640 --> 00:24:44,951
***
526
00:24:44,984 --> 00:24:46,619
[ coughs ]
527
00:24:46,653 --> 00:24:51,457
***
528
00:24:51,490 --> 00:24:56,462
- [ gasps ] See? Now it's done.
529
00:24:56,495 --> 00:24:59,131
You did great, sweetheart.
530
00:24:59,165 --> 00:25:00,633
[ gasping ]
531
00:25:00,667 --> 00:25:04,136
Yeah. You really did.
532
00:25:04,170 --> 00:25:07,006
[ gasps ]
533
00:25:12,344 --> 00:25:13,379
[ indistinct conversations,
telephone ringing ]
534
00:25:13,412 --> 00:25:15,314
- It's not even you.
535
00:25:15,347 --> 00:25:19,485
- That is me. She has my hair.
She has my face, my aviators.
536
00:25:19,518 --> 00:25:20,887
- And my labia.
537
00:25:20,920 --> 00:25:23,890
[ laughter ]
538
00:25:23,923 --> 00:25:25,658
- Well, I had
a few blissful months
539
00:25:25,692 --> 00:25:28,160
of feeling I had control
over my body.
540
00:25:28,194 --> 00:25:30,229
- Hi. It's the copy of
the cease and desist letter
541
00:25:30,262 --> 00:25:32,164
I sent to Al Goldstein's office.
542
00:25:32,198 --> 00:25:34,166
That should shut him up.
543
00:25:34,200 --> 00:25:35,835
- The damage is done. He can't
take back that I saw it.
544
00:25:35,868 --> 00:25:38,070
- Could you also send
a cease and desist letter
545
00:25:38,104 --> 00:25:39,839
to Betty's apartment?
546
00:25:39,872 --> 00:25:41,708
- I don't understand how
a respected university
547
00:25:41,741 --> 00:25:45,011
invites Betty Friedan to share
the stage with a woman
548
00:25:45,044 --> 00:25:46,746
who gets her funding
from the Birchers and the Klan.
549
00:25:46,779 --> 00:25:48,848
- She couldn't prove it,
and no one cares.
550
00:25:48,881 --> 00:25:51,884
It could go well.
Betty's a force of nature.
551
00:25:51,918 --> 00:25:54,353
She will terrorize her.
552
00:25:54,386 --> 00:25:56,689
- The problem is the press
follows Betty wherever she is.
553
00:25:56,723 --> 00:25:58,591
Phyllis will get
media attention,
554
00:25:58,625 --> 00:26:00,860
which is what she's after.
It's a mistake.
555
00:26:00,893 --> 00:26:04,063
- So stop her.
- Me? You stop her.
556
00:26:04,096 --> 00:26:06,032
- It's not my attention
she's after.
557
00:26:06,065 --> 00:26:08,935
- We're a political movement,
not a sorority.
558
00:26:10,102 --> 00:26:12,538
Every time I reach a hand
out to her,
559
00:26:12,571 --> 00:26:14,206
I pull back a bloody stump.
560
00:26:14,240 --> 00:26:15,775
- Well, get used to it. Men are
gonna try and tear you down,
561
00:26:15,808 --> 00:26:17,543
and women are gonna compete
with you,
562
00:26:17,576 --> 00:26:20,112
and you have to deal with both.
563
00:26:20,146 --> 00:26:22,548
- What I would give
to write a book that women
564
00:26:22,581 --> 00:26:26,285
talk about like they talk about
"The Feminine Mystique."
565
00:26:26,318 --> 00:26:27,887
I would retire to the Hamptons
566
00:26:27,920 --> 00:26:29,388
and listen to the waves
crashing.
567
00:26:29,421 --> 00:26:30,723
[ knock on door ]
568
00:26:30,757 --> 00:26:32,224
- You're gonna be late
for your lunch.
569
00:26:32,258 --> 00:26:34,761
- [ sighs ] Can you try and get
Betty Friedan on the phone
570
00:26:34,794 --> 00:26:37,396
when I get back?
- Sure.
571
00:26:37,429 --> 00:26:39,999
- Don't try too hard.
572
00:26:42,601 --> 00:26:44,136
[ birds chirping ]
573
00:26:44,170 --> 00:26:45,772
[ engine turns off ]
574
00:26:49,942 --> 00:26:51,678
[ car door closes ]
575
00:26:53,279 --> 00:26:54,446
- Mom?
- Hmm?
576
00:26:54,480 --> 00:26:55,982
- Please don't make a scene.
577
00:26:56,015 --> 00:26:57,416
- If she didn't want a scene,
578
00:26:57,449 --> 00:26:58,918
then she shouldn't have
given you a blouse
579
00:26:58,951 --> 00:27:00,252
that's only appropriate
580
00:27:00,286 --> 00:27:03,089
for a certain type
of grown-up woman.
581
00:27:03,122 --> 00:27:04,791
- [ sighs ]
582
00:27:12,531 --> 00:27:14,967
- Betty,
it's so nice to see you.
583
00:27:15,001 --> 00:27:17,603
Loved your last column.
584
00:27:17,636 --> 00:27:21,473
Who is this mystery man
you went on a blind date with?
585
00:27:21,507 --> 00:27:22,842
- Oh, it was just
a one-time thing.
586
00:27:22,875 --> 00:27:25,444
You know, he hasn't called.
[ clears throat ]
587
00:27:25,477 --> 00:27:26,846
Anyway, he wasn't my type.
588
00:27:26,879 --> 00:27:30,449
- Men. I'm so happy you came
to the door this time.
589
00:27:30,482 --> 00:27:33,853
I've been meaning to tell you,
you hear these horror stories.
590
00:27:33,886 --> 00:27:36,122
The kids always hate
the new wife,
591
00:27:36,155 --> 00:27:40,326
but Emily has been wonderful,
and I know that comes from you.
592
00:27:40,359 --> 00:27:43,162
I hope it's okay I said that.
593
00:27:47,333 --> 00:27:50,903
[ indistinct conversation ]
594
00:27:54,573 --> 00:27:56,175
- Mom?
595
00:27:59,378 --> 00:28:00,847
I love you.
596
00:28:02,681 --> 00:28:04,516
- I love you more.
597
00:28:04,550 --> 00:28:19,498
***
598
00:28:19,531 --> 00:28:25,337
***
599
00:28:25,371 --> 00:28:28,207
[ horns honking ]
600
00:28:30,542 --> 00:28:32,879
[ knock on door ]
601
00:28:36,248 --> 00:28:37,516
- Natalie.
602
00:28:37,549 --> 00:28:39,551
- Hi.
[ laughter ]
603
00:28:39,585 --> 00:28:43,589
- Uh, oh, I sneak up here
sometimes to water the plants.
604
00:28:43,622 --> 00:28:46,025
Betty has a black thumb.
- [ laughs ]
605
00:28:46,058 --> 00:28:49,528
- I live in the apartment below.
We're--We're good friends.
606
00:28:49,561 --> 00:28:50,763
- Are you still at "Harper's"?
607
00:28:50,797 --> 00:28:53,699
- Yes, but if you ever start
a style section,
608
00:28:53,732 --> 00:28:55,101
I would be happy to consult.
609
00:28:55,134 --> 00:28:58,037
Just know that I am
a very expensive hire.
610
00:28:58,070 --> 00:29:00,907
- I...I really need
to speak to Betty.
611
00:29:00,940 --> 00:29:03,409
I've been calling and calling.
612
00:29:03,442 --> 00:29:05,778
- Oh, she's traveling
to the debate.
613
00:29:05,812 --> 00:29:09,715
- Do you know which hotel she--
- Well, she didn't mention.
614
00:29:09,748 --> 00:29:14,053
- Okay, well...thanks.
615
00:29:14,086 --> 00:29:17,123
- Betty knows what she's doing.
616
00:29:21,760 --> 00:29:24,897
- It's just we all agreed on a--
617
00:29:24,931 --> 00:29:28,100
- Who agreed? You and...
and Bella?
618
00:29:29,601 --> 00:29:33,139
- We try and work with her,
but she can be...
619
00:29:33,172 --> 00:29:34,740
She has a difficult personality.
620
00:29:34,773 --> 00:29:37,243
Maybe you don't see that side
of her because you're friends.
621
00:29:37,276 --> 00:29:39,145
- Oh, no.
No, Betty is impossible.
622
00:29:39,178 --> 00:29:41,914
But without her, there's no NOW,
623
00:29:41,948 --> 00:29:45,084
no Women's Political Caucus,
no NARAL.
624
00:29:45,117 --> 00:29:50,422
We get to do what we do
because she risked everything.
625
00:29:50,456 --> 00:29:55,094
So before you tell her what
she can and cannot do,
626
00:29:55,127 --> 00:29:59,498
consider just saying...
thank you.
627
00:30:02,801 --> 00:30:06,438
- I'd better get back
to the office.
628
00:30:06,472 --> 00:30:09,275
It was good to run into you.
629
00:30:09,308 --> 00:30:11,310
- Yeah.
630
00:30:12,211 --> 00:30:16,448
[ The Staple Singers'
"I'll Take You There" playing ]
631
00:30:16,482 --> 00:30:18,017
[ indistinct conversations,
laughter ]
632
00:30:18,050 --> 00:30:19,952
* Oh
633
00:30:19,986 --> 00:30:23,122
***
634
00:30:23,155 --> 00:30:26,125
* I know a place
635
00:30:26,158 --> 00:30:27,693
[ laughter,
indistinct conversations ]
636
00:30:27,726 --> 00:30:28,961
* Ain't nobody crying
637
00:30:28,995 --> 00:30:31,463
- It's 15 of y'all.
Tell me I'm wrong.
638
00:30:31,497 --> 00:30:32,965
I don't want nobody crying that
they didn't get a slice.
639
00:30:32,999 --> 00:30:35,968
- Can I have mine
with vanilla frosting?
640
00:30:36,002 --> 00:30:39,005
- What are you teaching
this little girl?
641
00:30:39,038 --> 00:30:40,472
- [ laughs ]
- You know what, honey?
642
00:30:40,506 --> 00:30:43,142
You go with your mom to "Ms."
and have all
643
00:30:43,175 --> 00:30:44,977
the vanilla frosting you want,
okay?
644
00:30:45,011 --> 00:30:47,379
- Then we'll listen to a record
by The Beatles.
645
00:30:47,413 --> 00:30:49,982
- Why?
- Well, hey there, Carol Brady.
646
00:30:50,016 --> 00:30:51,317
- Oh.
[ laughter ]
647
00:30:51,350 --> 00:30:54,053
- So how are things
at the magazine?
648
00:30:54,086 --> 00:30:56,655
- Ah. [ laughs ]
Gloria says they're struggling.
649
00:30:56,688 --> 00:30:59,158
They have an East Side office
with outdoor carpeting
650
00:30:59,191 --> 00:31:02,028
so your feet can feel good
before going inside.
651
00:31:02,061 --> 00:31:04,830
- Mm! I wanna struggle
like that.
652
00:31:04,863 --> 00:31:06,732
- You want some milk, honey?
653
00:31:06,765 --> 00:31:08,334
- Yes, ma'am.
654
00:31:08,367 --> 00:31:11,003
[ laughter ]
- Now look, she's so precious.
655
00:31:11,037 --> 00:31:12,404
- Isn't she good?
[ laughter ]
656
00:31:12,438 --> 00:31:14,373
- Oh, thanks, girl.
657
00:31:14,406 --> 00:31:17,676
- Hey, girl.
We got cake out there.
658
00:31:17,709 --> 00:31:19,211
Hey, y'all.
- Hi.
659
00:31:19,245 --> 00:31:22,081
- I just cut the cake.
- All right.
660
00:31:22,114 --> 00:31:24,383
- 'Cause we don't want
white women to align with us.
661
00:31:24,416 --> 00:31:26,018
- Ugh. Here she goes again.
- Don't start.
662
00:31:26,052 --> 00:31:27,853
- Would you like a slice?
663
00:31:27,886 --> 00:31:29,721
- Thanks, girl.
- Oh, no, thank you.
664
00:31:29,755 --> 00:31:31,523
***
665
00:31:31,557 --> 00:31:36,528
- Don't get duped into working
with an alien political project.
666
00:31:36,562 --> 00:31:40,766
- You know, I never confuse
a lawn mower with a shoe.
667
00:31:40,799 --> 00:31:44,036
Hmm? Both are useful
668
00:31:44,070 --> 00:31:47,539
as long as you don't mistake one
for the other.
669
00:31:47,573 --> 00:31:48,874
- [ chuckles ]
- Hmm?
670
00:31:48,907 --> 00:31:52,044
We can get along
with white feminists.
671
00:31:52,078 --> 00:31:54,046
***
672
00:31:54,080 --> 00:31:55,547
- You know, I don't have
a problem with Margaret
673
00:31:55,581 --> 00:31:57,216
and her kind,
but their kind of talk
674
00:31:57,249 --> 00:31:59,218
puts gender before race.
675
00:31:59,251 --> 00:32:01,387
- Wait a minute.
Margaret's kind?
676
00:32:01,420 --> 00:32:03,255
- If we include lesbians,
we're not gonna get support
677
00:32:03,289 --> 00:32:05,224
from the Black Power movement.
678
00:32:05,257 --> 00:32:07,459
- You've got to be kidding me.
679
00:32:07,493 --> 00:32:12,064
[ indistinct conversations,
laughter ]
680
00:32:12,098 --> 00:32:13,899
***
681
00:32:13,932 --> 00:32:15,767
[ indistinct conversations
continue ]
682
00:32:15,801 --> 00:32:18,470
- You wanna talk about it?
Let's talk about it.
683
00:32:18,504 --> 00:32:22,741
- There will be no
"Lavender Menace" bullshit here.
684
00:32:22,774 --> 00:32:24,643
Lesbians are welcome.
685
00:32:24,676 --> 00:32:28,414
Horizontal hostility is not.
686
00:32:28,447 --> 00:32:30,816
* I'll take you there
687
00:32:30,849 --> 00:32:32,751
* Ain't nobody crying
688
00:32:32,784 --> 00:32:33,986
* I'll take you there
689
00:32:34,020 --> 00:32:36,755
- Where's my milk?
[ door opens and closes ]
690
00:32:36,788 --> 00:32:38,790
- Oh, shit, I'm sorry, baby.
691
00:32:38,824 --> 00:32:41,093
- Tell everybody what you say
whenever the kids at school
692
00:32:41,127 --> 00:32:42,428
ask you why your mama is gay.
693
00:32:42,461 --> 00:32:45,097
- I say,
"Why is your mom straight?"
694
00:32:45,131 --> 00:32:47,466
[ laughter ]
695
00:32:47,499 --> 00:32:48,767
- Gimme five.
696
00:32:48,800 --> 00:32:51,137
- Oh, Doris can start
her own damn organization
697
00:32:51,170 --> 00:32:54,306
because we embrace everyone
in this one.
698
00:32:54,340 --> 00:32:56,775
- That's right.
- You call this an organization?
699
00:32:56,808 --> 00:32:59,278
It's just this--
Sundays at Flo's.
700
00:32:59,311 --> 00:33:01,280
- Well, you think you can
do better?
701
00:33:01,313 --> 00:33:03,615
I am sick and tired
of y'all bitches
702
00:33:03,649 --> 00:33:06,285
always talking 'bout y'all
need to form somethin'.
703
00:33:06,318 --> 00:33:10,789
You wanna form somethin'?
Go on then. Form it.
704
00:33:10,822 --> 00:33:13,292
[ indistinct conversations ]
705
00:33:13,325 --> 00:33:16,495
[ footsteps depart ]
706
00:33:21,667 --> 00:33:25,003
[ toilet flushes,
footsteps approach ]
707
00:33:28,207 --> 00:33:32,544
- You must be Betty Friedan.
Phyllis Schlafly.
708
00:33:34,546 --> 00:33:36,982
- How do the Birches feel about
you powdering your nose
709
00:33:37,015 --> 00:33:39,651
in an integrated bathroom?
710
00:33:39,685 --> 00:33:43,021
- Well, I imagine the same way
that the militant lesbians
711
00:33:43,055 --> 00:33:46,825
feel about you
even powdering yours.
712
00:33:46,858 --> 00:33:48,527
- Just think if we had
the ERA.
713
00:33:48,560 --> 00:33:52,198
All the pedophiles and perverts
lurking in those stalls
714
00:33:52,231 --> 00:33:55,167
would get to witness
this special moment.
715
00:33:55,201 --> 00:33:57,536
[ clatter ]
716
00:34:03,575 --> 00:34:05,177
- Oh!
- Oh!
717
00:34:05,211 --> 00:34:06,678
- [ laughs ]
- Oh, are you here
718
00:34:06,712 --> 00:34:08,547
to escort me to the stage?
719
00:34:08,580 --> 00:34:13,051
- I'm here with my wife.
- My good luck charm.
720
00:34:16,222 --> 00:34:18,056
- You'll need it.
721
00:34:21,893 --> 00:34:24,196
- [ amplified voice ]
Ms. Friedan is, as you know,
722
00:34:24,230 --> 00:34:25,697
the author
of "The Feminine Mystique"
723
00:34:25,731 --> 00:34:28,200
and the mother
of the women's movement.
724
00:34:28,234 --> 00:34:29,568
[ loud cheers and applause ]
725
00:34:29,601 --> 00:34:31,870
- Thank you.
Thank you very much.
726
00:34:31,903 --> 00:34:34,540
- And is, as I recently
found out, a Peorian.
727
00:34:34,573 --> 00:34:37,042
- Yes.
- Welcome back to Illinois.
728
00:34:37,075 --> 00:34:38,210
- Thank you.
729
00:34:38,244 --> 00:34:39,711
[ cheers and applause
continue ]
730
00:34:39,745 --> 00:34:41,713
- Mrs. Schlafly,
who is going to speak
731
00:34:41,747 --> 00:34:44,416
from the STOP ERA position,
is a Republican,
732
00:34:44,450 --> 00:34:47,953
active in politics,
and lives here in Illinois.
733
00:34:47,986 --> 00:34:50,622
[ scattered applause ]
She is going to speak first.
734
00:34:50,656 --> 00:34:53,091
[ applause recedes ]
735
00:34:54,926 --> 00:34:57,095
- [ amplified voice ]
Well, before I start, girls,
736
00:34:57,129 --> 00:35:00,899
uh, I'd like to thank
my husband Fred
737
00:35:00,932 --> 00:35:03,302
for letting me come here today.
738
00:35:03,335 --> 00:35:06,272
He never interferes
with my, uh, civil liberties.
739
00:35:06,305 --> 00:35:09,408
Whenever we have an argument,
he always reminds me
740
00:35:09,441 --> 00:35:12,478
of my constitutional right
to remain silent.
741
00:35:12,511 --> 00:35:16,448
- [ chuckles ]
- [ audience murmuring ]
742
00:35:16,482 --> 00:35:20,452
- Now let me see a show of hands
of how many girls here...
743
00:35:20,486 --> 00:35:21,920
- Women!
- ...want to be drafted.
744
00:35:21,953 --> 00:35:24,590
- We're women!
- Into combat duty. How many?
745
00:35:24,623 --> 00:35:25,991
- We're women!
- I want to say to the women...
746
00:35:26,024 --> 00:35:27,259
- And I think that to speak to
a certain degree of hypocrisy.
747
00:35:27,293 --> 00:35:29,127
- ...they are too old to
be called girls.
748
00:35:29,161 --> 00:35:30,629
Men are called men.
- Thank you, Betty!
749
00:35:30,662 --> 00:35:33,332
- Then in a few months, we will
have an all-volunteer army,
750
00:35:33,365 --> 00:35:36,502
and I do believe that if we want
the same rights as men,
751
00:35:36,535 --> 00:35:40,105
we have to be able to accept
the same responsibilities.
752
00:35:40,138 --> 00:35:42,774
[ loud cheers and applause ]
753
00:35:42,808 --> 00:35:46,445
- Well, uh, you see, this is
a fundamental difference
754
00:35:46,478 --> 00:35:48,947
between the proponents
and the opponents,
755
00:35:48,980 --> 00:35:51,617
is I don't want my daughters
killed in combat.
756
00:35:51,650 --> 00:35:53,018
- Oh, but your sons
you're okay with?
757
00:35:53,051 --> 00:35:55,654
- And the ERA will positively--
- Because I have two sons,
758
00:35:55,687 --> 00:35:57,122
and I don't want them
killed in war
759
00:35:57,155 --> 00:35:58,624
any more than my daughters.
760
00:35:58,657 --> 00:36:00,292
- Ms. Friedan, it is still
Mrs. Schlafly's time.
761
00:36:00,326 --> 00:36:01,627
- Thank you.
- How about we don't send
762
00:36:01,660 --> 00:36:03,529
any of our children
into combat?
763
00:36:03,562 --> 00:36:06,031
[ loud cheers and applause ]
764
00:36:06,064 --> 00:36:08,967
- No, no, no, no, no.
765
00:36:09,000 --> 00:36:10,369
No, you see, uh...
766
00:36:10,402 --> 00:36:14,172
a lot of, uh, naive people
said that after Korea.
767
00:36:14,206 --> 00:36:15,341
You know,
we'll never get involved
768
00:36:15,374 --> 00:36:17,476
in another war in, uh, Asia.
769
00:36:17,509 --> 00:36:20,346
But, uh, unfortunately,
I don't know anybody
770
00:36:20,379 --> 00:36:23,315
who has a solution
for ending wars for all time.
771
00:36:23,349 --> 00:36:25,851
You know, I don't have
a crystal ball. Do you?
772
00:36:25,884 --> 00:36:27,653
- [ murmuring ]
773
00:36:27,686 --> 00:36:31,323
- You keep insisting that
a woman's place is in the home,
774
00:36:31,357 --> 00:36:33,725
but you waltz around the country
decrying us
775
00:36:33,759 --> 00:36:37,663
for trying to open
career opportunities to women,
776
00:36:37,696 --> 00:36:41,367
and this is what I can't stand--
the hypocrisy.
777
00:36:41,400 --> 00:36:46,738
[ cheers and applause ]
778
00:36:46,772 --> 00:36:49,508
- I have always maintained
that women today
779
00:36:49,541 --> 00:36:52,010
have true freedom of choice.
780
00:36:52,043 --> 00:36:55,847
Now we can choose to be
a full-time wife and a mother,
781
00:36:55,881 --> 00:36:57,683
or you can choose to go
into the workforce
782
00:36:57,716 --> 00:36:59,585
on the basis of equal pay
for equal work,
783
00:36:59,618 --> 00:37:01,853
or you can do both
at the same time,
784
00:37:01,887 --> 00:37:05,223
because your life is what
you make it.
785
00:37:05,257 --> 00:37:07,859
- Oh, is that what you say...
- Now on the American women--
786
00:37:07,893 --> 00:37:09,861
- ...to the woman who chooses
to be a full-time wife
787
00:37:09,895 --> 00:37:11,096
and mother?
- Mm-hmm.
788
00:37:11,129 --> 00:37:13,198
- The housewife that you claim
to care so much about?
789
00:37:13,231 --> 00:37:14,533
Because they are the ones
790
00:37:14,566 --> 00:37:16,034
that are really
discriminated against.
791
00:37:16,067 --> 00:37:19,371
- American women today are
the luckiest class of people
792
00:37:19,405 --> 00:37:21,540
on the face of the Earth.
We can do anything
793
00:37:21,573 --> 00:37:23,709
we want to do.
- The law does not enforce
794
00:37:23,742 --> 00:37:26,878
a woman's right to be provided
for so long as she's married.
795
00:37:26,912 --> 00:37:29,415
That is a fairy tale.
- I'm sorry, uh, uh, Chairman,
796
00:37:29,448 --> 00:37:30,949
I thought we were having
a debate, not a free-for-all.
797
00:37:30,982 --> 00:37:33,719
- A woman cannot be insured
in her own right
798
00:37:33,752 --> 00:37:37,122
for Social Security, and if
her marriage ends in divorce,
799
00:37:37,155 --> 00:37:39,558
all the work she did in the home
for all those years
800
00:37:39,591 --> 00:37:42,227
is not taken into account
in the settlement.
801
00:37:42,260 --> 00:37:44,896
There is no provision
in existing law
802
00:37:44,930 --> 00:37:48,066
to enforce alimony
and child support.
803
00:37:48,099 --> 00:37:52,304
But, hey, your life
is what you make of it, right?
804
00:37:52,338 --> 00:37:58,644
[ loud cheers and applause ]
805
00:37:58,677 --> 00:38:03,582
- Now we have heard a lot
of, uh, emotional oratory
806
00:38:03,615 --> 00:38:07,252
from my, uh, opponent,
but not one single fact
807
00:38:07,285 --> 00:38:09,421
about what
the Equal Rights Amendment
808
00:38:09,455 --> 00:38:11,757
will do to benefit women.
- My opponent accuses me
809
00:38:11,790 --> 00:38:13,091
of emotional oratory when she...
- You see, it won't give them
810
00:38:13,124 --> 00:38:15,126
any rights or privileges that
they don't already have.
811
00:38:15,160 --> 00:38:17,262
- ...scares women that they
should stop the likes of us
812
00:38:17,295 --> 00:38:20,098
as if we're a communist
for asking that the government
813
00:38:20,131 --> 00:38:22,267
fund childcare centers.
814
00:38:22,300 --> 00:38:23,669
[ laughter ]
- I don't believe
815
00:38:23,702 --> 00:38:25,270
that we should look
to the government
816
00:38:25,303 --> 00:38:29,508
and our--our Constitution
to solve our personal problems.
817
00:38:29,541 --> 00:38:32,844
- [ murmuring ]
818
00:38:32,878 --> 00:38:35,781
- You see,
this is the false lure
819
00:38:35,814 --> 00:38:39,951
of the women's liberation
movement--happiness.
820
00:38:39,985 --> 00:38:41,987
Because the fact is, girls,
821
00:38:42,020 --> 00:38:46,825
the ERA will not solve
your personal problems.
822
00:38:46,858 --> 00:38:50,362
It will not hand you
a happy home life.
823
00:38:50,396 --> 00:38:53,198
It won't give you
a Sunday kind of love,
824
00:38:53,231 --> 00:38:57,035
as the, uh, popular song goes,
and it certainly will not, uh,
825
00:38:57,068 --> 00:39:00,672
keep your husband from being
jealous or petty
826
00:39:00,706 --> 00:39:02,974
or dumping you
in your middle age
827
00:39:03,008 --> 00:39:06,478
for a new, younger model after
you have, uh, devoted yourself
828
00:39:06,512 --> 00:39:09,681
to keeping his home
for 20 or 30 years,
829
00:39:09,715 --> 00:39:13,151
because you simply cannot
legislate
830
00:39:13,184 --> 00:39:16,888
universal sympathy
for the middle-aged woman.
831
00:39:16,922 --> 00:39:21,159
Now remember this,
before you throw away your youth
832
00:39:21,192 --> 00:39:23,829
and your beauty and your virtue
833
00:39:23,862 --> 00:39:27,533
to join in this new sisterhood
of misery--
834
00:39:27,566 --> 00:39:30,536
- You are a traitor to your sex.
You're an Aunt Tom.
835
00:39:30,569 --> 00:39:32,838
- Now, uh, you are correct
on one count.
836
00:39:32,871 --> 00:39:34,840
I do leave my home on occasion,
837
00:39:34,873 --> 00:39:36,007
and I travel
all over the country,
838
00:39:36,041 --> 00:39:37,375
and I meet women
from all walks of life,
839
00:39:37,409 --> 00:39:38,844
and you, Ms. Friedan,
840
00:39:38,877 --> 00:39:41,346
are the unhappiest woman
I have ever met.
841
00:39:41,379 --> 00:39:42,748
- And you are a witch!
842
00:39:42,781 --> 00:39:45,517
God, I'd like to burn you
at the stake!
843
00:39:45,551 --> 00:39:47,553
- [ audience gasps loudly ]
844
00:39:47,586 --> 00:39:52,023
[ murmuring ]
845
00:39:52,057 --> 00:39:53,892
- [ chuckles ]
846
00:39:56,227 --> 00:39:57,563
[ chuckles ]
847
00:39:57,596 --> 00:39:59,097
Oh, no. Well, on the contrary,
I'm pleased
848
00:39:59,130 --> 00:40:01,232
that, uh, Ms. Friedan made
that comment
849
00:40:01,266 --> 00:40:03,034
because maybe now people
will realize
850
00:40:03,068 --> 00:40:05,571
just how intolerant
and intemperate
851
00:40:05,604 --> 00:40:08,540
the proponents of the ERA
really are.
852
00:40:08,574 --> 00:40:09,875
- Thanks so much for your time.
853
00:40:09,908 --> 00:40:11,042
- Oh.
- Really appreciate it.
854
00:40:11,076 --> 00:40:13,879
- Betty.
- Yes. Uh...
855
00:40:13,912 --> 00:40:15,614
- [ women speaking at once ]
- Ms. Friedan...
856
00:40:15,647 --> 00:40:18,083
- I...I...I can't.
- [ all speaking at once ]
857
00:40:20,486 --> 00:40:23,221
- [ exhales deeply ]
858
00:40:23,254 --> 00:40:26,224
[ coughs ]
859
00:40:26,257 --> 00:40:28,426
[ inhales and exhales deeply ]
860
00:40:30,996 --> 00:40:34,566
[ coughing ]
861
00:40:34,600 --> 00:40:40,405
[ breathing heavily ]
862
00:40:40,438 --> 00:40:42,273
[ wheezes ]
863
00:40:42,307 --> 00:40:44,810
[ inhaling sharply ]
864
00:40:47,613 --> 00:40:53,919
[ exhaling deeply ]
865
00:40:53,952 --> 00:40:55,420
[ sniffles ]
866
00:40:55,453 --> 00:40:57,422
[ exhales deeply ]
867
00:40:57,455 --> 00:41:02,628
[ inhales sharply ]
868
00:41:02,661 --> 00:41:05,997
[ exhales deeply ]
869
00:41:09,701 --> 00:41:11,637
- There she is.
870
00:41:15,306 --> 00:41:16,975
You're in it, huh?
871
00:41:19,310 --> 00:41:21,279
But you and Conrad are good.
872
00:41:21,312 --> 00:41:24,783
- The investigation's taking
a toll on us both.
873
00:41:24,816 --> 00:41:28,520
- If you wanna be happy,
if you wanna be sad,
874
00:41:28,554 --> 00:41:31,156
I'm right here...
875
00:41:31,189 --> 00:41:33,124
and I got cake.
876
00:41:33,158 --> 00:41:34,693
- [ chuckles ]
877
00:41:38,664 --> 00:41:40,566
- We missed you.
878
00:41:44,202 --> 00:41:46,204
We're doing it.
879
00:41:46,237 --> 00:41:51,710
We're calling it the National
Black Feminist Organization.
880
00:41:51,743 --> 00:41:53,645
- Hmm.
- And we put "National"
881
00:41:53,679 --> 00:41:55,814
in the title
just to get folks hooked,
882
00:41:55,847 --> 00:41:59,150
and then they'll break off
and do their own thing.
883
00:41:59,184 --> 00:42:02,020
Two years, they'll be done
with all of it.
884
00:42:02,053 --> 00:42:04,656
- Two years?
- That's all the time folks got
885
00:42:04,690 --> 00:42:06,491
to be into this shit.
886
00:42:06,524 --> 00:42:09,494
Not me, though. I'm a lifer.
887
00:42:09,527 --> 00:42:11,663
[ grunts ]
888
00:42:11,697 --> 00:42:14,733
The one thing that everybody
could agree on
889
00:42:14,766 --> 00:42:19,037
is that you should be
our first keynote speaker.
890
00:42:23,074 --> 00:42:24,876
- Maybe.
891
00:42:24,910 --> 00:42:27,045
- Yeah.
892
00:42:29,247 --> 00:42:31,182
[ indistinct conversations ]
893
00:42:31,216 --> 00:42:34,185
- Oh, I can't accept you boys
are old enough to drive,
894
00:42:34,219 --> 00:42:35,721
much less get married.
895
00:42:35,754 --> 00:42:39,090
- Oh. Don't worry. I'm perfectly
happy living at home,
896
00:42:39,124 --> 00:42:41,092
running around with commies
and floozies.
897
00:42:41,126 --> 00:42:42,728
- Oh. [ chuckles ]
898
00:42:42,761 --> 00:42:44,395
- Phyllis!
- [ gasps ]
899
00:42:44,429 --> 00:42:46,364
[ indistinct conversations ]
900
00:42:46,397 --> 00:42:49,034
- I just wanna say thank you
for the work you're doing.
901
00:42:49,067 --> 00:42:50,201
- Oh.
902
00:42:50,235 --> 00:42:51,703
- You put Betty Friedan
in her place.
903
00:42:51,737 --> 00:42:53,905
Finally,
we have our own champion.
904
00:42:53,939 --> 00:42:55,607
- Well, thank you so much.
905
00:42:55,641 --> 00:43:00,045
[ indistinct conversations ]
906
00:43:00,078 --> 00:43:03,114
- I know. I should shut my mouth
and wear beige,
907
00:43:03,148 --> 00:43:04,215
but my personal
color analysis says...
908
00:43:04,249 --> 00:43:05,617
- Sit down.
- ...I'm a winter person.
909
00:43:05,651 --> 00:43:09,087
- Oh.
- Go. Come on.
910
00:43:12,958 --> 00:43:16,762
- You look absolutely stunning.
- Thank you.
911
00:43:16,795 --> 00:43:19,397
- I'd marry her again right now.
- Aw.
912
00:43:19,430 --> 00:43:21,967
- What a special day.
- My son may be getting married,
913
00:43:22,000 --> 00:43:23,434
but all anyone wants to know
914
00:43:23,468 --> 00:43:25,570
is when the Phyllis Schlafly
is arriving.
915
00:43:25,603 --> 00:43:26,738
- Oh.
916
00:43:26,772 --> 00:43:27,906
- You must be on top
of the world.
917
00:43:27,939 --> 00:43:30,976
- Congratulations.
- Thank you.
918
00:43:31,009 --> 00:43:34,579
[ organ playing processional ]
919
00:43:34,612 --> 00:43:49,494
***
920
00:43:49,527 --> 00:44:04,475
***
921
00:44:04,475 --> 00:44:09,514
***
922
00:44:09,547 --> 00:44:23,695
***
923
00:44:27,565 --> 00:44:28,834
[ switch clicks ]
924
00:45:00,365 --> 00:45:02,033
[ thud ]
925
00:45:06,872 --> 00:45:08,940
[ horns honking in distance ]
926
00:45:40,806 --> 00:45:42,740
- I didn't mean to scare you.
927
00:45:45,911 --> 00:45:48,079
We got to talking at Flo's.
928
00:45:51,917 --> 00:45:55,253
- If you ever need a place
for meetings or anything,
929
00:45:55,286 --> 00:45:58,256
you're welcome to use
our offices here.
930
00:45:59,657 --> 00:46:02,894
- Thanks.
931
00:46:02,928 --> 00:46:05,396
We'll find something.
932
00:46:05,430 --> 00:46:18,576
***
933
00:46:18,609 --> 00:46:20,745
[ cereal rattles ]
934
00:46:20,778 --> 00:46:23,281
[ telephone rings ]
935
00:46:23,314 --> 00:46:26,484
- [ crunching ]
936
00:46:26,517 --> 00:46:31,022
[ ring ]
937
00:46:32,490 --> 00:46:34,759
Natalie, I'll come down
to watch "Maude,"
938
00:46:34,792 --> 00:46:37,462
but I'm not hungry, and I don't
wanna talk about the--
939
00:46:37,495 --> 00:46:39,130
- It's Gloria.
940
00:46:42,800 --> 00:46:45,503
- Oh. Hello, Gloria.
941
00:46:45,536 --> 00:46:49,640
- If I had to be on
the same stage as that woman...
942
00:46:49,674 --> 00:46:51,642
[ sighs ]
943
00:46:51,676 --> 00:46:54,312
I would've called her something
worse than "witch."
944
00:46:54,345 --> 00:46:59,017
- Yeah, that was restrained
for me.
945
00:46:59,050 --> 00:47:01,452
[ horn honks in distance ]
946
00:47:01,486 --> 00:47:03,054
- You were right.
947
00:47:05,190 --> 00:47:08,826
We don't get to decide how
the battle lines are drawn
948
00:47:08,860 --> 00:47:12,964
or how the male press
portrays us.
949
00:47:12,998 --> 00:47:14,299
I've been thinking
about the first time
950
00:47:14,332 --> 00:47:16,634
I read "The Feminine Mystique."
951
00:47:16,667 --> 00:47:21,306
"Why should women accept
this picture of a half-life,
952
00:47:21,339 --> 00:47:25,810
instead of a share in the whole
of human destiny?"
953
00:47:25,843 --> 00:47:30,515
I don't know if I ever told you.
954
00:47:30,548 --> 00:47:33,218
Your book changed my life.
955
00:47:33,251 --> 00:47:36,487
***
956
00:47:36,521 --> 00:47:38,156
Thank you.
957
00:47:38,189 --> 00:47:42,493
[ Jackie DeShannon's "What
the World Needs Now" playing ]
958
00:47:42,527 --> 00:47:43,861
[ line disconnects ]
959
00:47:43,895 --> 00:47:47,832
* What the world needs now
960
00:47:47,865 --> 00:47:51,836
* Is love, sweet love
961
00:47:51,869 --> 00:47:54,072
* It's the only thing
962
00:47:54,105 --> 00:47:57,875
* That there's just
too little of *
963
00:47:57,909 --> 00:48:01,913
* What the world needs now
964
00:48:01,947 --> 00:48:05,850
* Is love, sweet love
965
00:48:05,883 --> 00:48:07,852
* No, not just for some
966
00:48:07,885 --> 00:48:13,224
* But for everyone
967
00:48:13,258 --> 00:48:17,695
* Lord, we don't need
another mountain *
968
00:48:17,728 --> 00:48:21,699
* There are mountains
and hillsides *
969
00:48:21,732 --> 00:48:24,235
* Enough to climb
970
00:48:24,269 --> 00:48:28,573
* There are oceans and rivers
971
00:48:28,606 --> 00:48:30,275
* Enough to cross
972
00:48:30,308 --> 00:48:32,243
* Enough to last
973
00:48:32,277 --> 00:48:36,047
* Till the end of time
974
00:48:36,081 --> 00:48:40,218
* What the world needs now
975
00:48:40,251 --> 00:48:43,721
* Is love, sweet love
976
00:48:43,754 --> 00:48:46,391
* It's the only thing
977
00:48:46,424 --> 00:48:50,895
* That there's just
too little of *
978
00:48:50,928 --> 00:48:53,398
* What the world needs now
979
00:48:53,431 --> 00:48:56,901
* Is love, sweet love
980
00:48:56,934 --> 00:48:59,237
* No, not just for some
981
00:48:59,270 --> 00:49:06,577
* Oh, but just
for every, every *
982
00:49:06,611 --> 00:49:09,114
* Everyone
983
00:49:09,147 --> 00:49:16,487
***
984
00:49:16,521 --> 00:49:18,923
- * What the world needs now
985
00:49:18,956 --> 00:49:20,758
- * Whoa, oh
986
00:49:20,791 --> 00:49:22,960
- * Is love, sweet love
- * Is love
987
00:49:22,994 --> 00:49:27,332
- * What the world needs now
- * Oh, oh, oh
988
00:49:27,365 --> 00:49:29,834
- * Is love, sweet love
- * Is love
989
00:49:29,867 --> 00:49:33,671
- * What the world needs now
- * Oh, oh
990
00:49:33,704 --> 00:49:37,175
- * Is love, sweet love
- * Is love
991
00:49:48,086 --> 00:49:49,320
(laughter)
992
00:49:49,354 --> 00:49:51,356
How did you come to write
The Feminine Mystique?
993
00:49:51,389 --> 00:49:53,124
I thought there was
something wrong with me
994
00:49:53,158 --> 00:49:56,294
because I didn't have
an orgasm waxing
the kitchen floor.
995
00:49:56,327 --> 00:49:57,595
-(laughing)
-(audience claps)
996
00:50:04,569 --> 00:50:07,238
[woman] Cause precedes effect.
997
00:50:07,272 --> 00:50:09,006
Effect leads to cause.
998
00:50:09,874 --> 00:50:13,344
The future is fixed
in exactly the same way
as the past.
999
00:50:21,519 --> 00:50:23,821
Pulling hair is wrong, mate.
1000
00:50:23,854 --> 00:50:27,092
I mean, all violence is wrong,
but at least punching's a sport.
1001
00:50:27,125 --> 00:50:28,693
-Is it?
-Yes, boxing.
1002
00:50:28,726 --> 00:50:30,795
Boxing's in the Olympics.
Hair pulling isn't.
1003
00:50:32,029 --> 00:50:35,066
-It would be funny if it was.
-It really would be.
1004
00:50:41,406 --> 00:50:44,209
We are Nadja and Laszlo,
the human music group.
1005
00:50:44,242 --> 00:50:45,876
She's a superb lyricist.
1006
00:50:45,910 --> 00:50:51,382
* We're feeling horny for blood
We're feeling horny for love *
1007
00:50:51,416 --> 00:50:54,119
It's the painting in which
you invented the portrait pose.
1008
00:50:54,152 --> 00:50:56,387
There I am,
behind this dead chap.
1009
00:50:56,421 --> 00:50:58,256
This was the first time
that was ever done.
1010
00:50:58,289 --> 00:51:01,092
-(shrieking)
-COLIN: I'm changing.
I'm becoming stronger.
1011
00:51:01,126 --> 00:51:03,328
(shouting)
1012
00:51:04,129 --> 00:51:06,097
Oh, hey. Don't sit on that.
1013
00:51:06,131 --> 00:51:08,466
(up-tempo music plays)
1014
00:51:08,499 --> 00:51:09,500
VOCALISTS: Hey!
1015
00:51:12,270 --> 00:51:13,771
Aren't you Lil Dicky?
1016
00:51:13,804 --> 00:51:15,573
* Yes, I know
That I'm a rapper *
1017
00:51:15,606 --> 00:51:17,408
-* At the end of the day *
-(gasping)
1018
00:51:17,442 --> 00:51:20,978
* But I think
It's time you knew me
By my government name *
1019
00:51:21,011 --> 00:51:23,248
-* Hi, I'm Dave *
-ANNOUNCER: Dave.
1020
00:51:23,281 --> 00:51:25,049
All-new Wednesday at 10:00
on FXX.
1021
00:51:25,082 --> 00:51:27,084
And next day, FX on Hulu.
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