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Thanks for calling the Reynolds.
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Please leave a message.
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Hey there, Zach Reynolds,
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this is Pastor Jim of Life House Church.
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Actually I guess I should say, Pastor Zach Reynolds.
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I’m very pleased to let you know
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that the board meeting just wrapped,
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and they’ve loved your messages on loving your neighbor.
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We cannot wait to hear the rest of the series.
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You’ve been unanimously selected
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for the pastor position, brother.
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So say goodbye to that boring West Coast.
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Anyway, welcome to the beautiful Midwest.
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We’ll see you when you get here, God bless.
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Welcome home, Reynolds family.
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We weren’t expecting you till later tonight.
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Pastor Zach.
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Hey, it’s good to see you.
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- Good to see you.
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Here are the keys.
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I was just tidying up a bit.
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If you have any issues, just let me know.
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- Definitely.
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- You must be Amber. - Hi.
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- Pastor Zach told us so many wonderful things about you.
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- Oh, Pastor Zach.
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- We just love your book.
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We gave a copy to everyone in the church.
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Your story, it’s so inspiring.
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I heard you love to shop.
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Have you been downtown yet?
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- No, we came right here.
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Pastor Zach didn’t wanna make any stops.
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All business, I’m telling you.
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- What can I say?
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- Yours, too.
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My husband practically lives at the church,
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but that doesn’t have to stop us girls from having any fun.
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Do you like shoes?
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- Um, love shoes.
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- Okay, girl, let me tell you, you’re about to find
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your new happy place because Wooded Plains may be small,
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but the shops here are amazing.
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- Isn’t it perfect?
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Didn’t I tell you?
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- It’s a dream.
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I mean, a beautiful home, peace, quiet,
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a huge yard for Alex to run around and play,
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nothing could go wrong in a place like this.
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- How about a tour?
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- Okay, now is that your house?
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- Oh, no, we live down this street here.
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- Oh, well, then who lives there?
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A potential babysitter?
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- Probably not, but we do have plenty
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of young eager babysitters at the church.
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- I don’t remember anyone coming or going when I was here.
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I thought it was vacant.
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Does he attend church?
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- No, he’s actually one of the few people
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in town who doesn’t.
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Pastor James and I, we’ve been over there several times,
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but he won’t answer the door.
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He’s a little strange, but he’s harmless.
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- I’ll stop by and invite him.
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I have a way with people.
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- Oh, well, I love your confidence.
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Maybe you’ll be the one to finally introduce him to God.
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- I hope so.
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- Wanna go inside?
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- Honey, there’s 14 jets in our tub, eight for your feet.
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It’s like a masseuse made out of water.
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- Hey, what are we gonna do
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about getting the neighbor into a service?
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- Well, I think the first thing you need to ask yourself
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is why is it so important to you?
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- Well, it’s important to me because I’m a pastor
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and it’s a pastor’s job to get people into church.
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- Oh, good, I was worried it was a macho ego thing
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to impress your boss.
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- No way, no, no, I’m just being a good Christian neighbor
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who likes a little job security.
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- Well, by all means, get him saved, Pastor.
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I want my grandbabies visiting me in this house.
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I got you a little housewarming gift, Pastor.
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- Uh, I though you were shoe shopping.
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- I’ll be right back.
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- I’ll be right here.
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- Zach, what is that?
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- It’s nothing, it’s nothing, just go get dressed.
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- Is that real?
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- Yes, of course, it’s real, but you don’t need to worry,
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it’s completely safe.
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- Obviously, it just fell out of a box.
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When did you get that?
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- I got it when we lived in the city.
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The South Side wasn’t exactly the safest neighborhood
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and it’s my job to protect you and Alex.
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- Okay, we’re not in South Side anymore.
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You’re a pastor, get rid of the gun.
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- I don’t know, we are not country people.
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I mean, what if we get attacked by a goat.
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A goat. - Or a deer.
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Or a squirrel or a dog.
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- Ha ha, get rid of the gun.
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- I will get rid of the gun
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if you get rid of those sweatpants.
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- Deal. - Deal.
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- Hello, anybody home?
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I guess he’s not here, sweetie.
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It’s okay, we’ll come back later.
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Oh, well, hey there, neighbor.
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My name is Amber, this is my son, Alex.
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We just moved in next door.
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- Hi.
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- I hope you like chocolate chip.
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As far as I know, everyone does,
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so I thought they’d be a good choice.
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Oh my goodness, do you have a nut allergy?
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I am so sorry, I should have brought fruit.
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- No, no, I’ll take them.
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- Oh, great, I hope you like them.
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- Why did you do this?
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- Well, we just moved in next door
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and thought it would be a nice way to get out
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and meet the neighbors.
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- Did your mommy make enough cookies
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for everyone on the street?
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- Nope, just enough for you,
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so you can come to our church and not go to hell.
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- Cute kid.
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Nothing like a gift with a motive to start a friendship.
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- That’s not...
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Alex, that’s not entirely true.
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Of course, we would love for you to come to church,
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but we also just want to get to know you, we’re neighbors.
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- So your husband’s the new pastor over there.
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- Yes, he is.
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- I don’t go to church.
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Pastors bring me down.
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- My husband will do anything but bring you down.
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God is good.
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- All the time.
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- Firing up 1,000 people for Jesus, changing the world,
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sitting in a hot tub with my hot wife.
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Was I right about this place?
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- It’s perfect, everything here is perfect.
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- I told you, I told you.
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You said, "No, no, no, we’re not living the city
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"to move to the country."
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And then you came here, and it’s perfect and it’s amazing.
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And I told you, and I preached a sermon
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about how good change is this morning.
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You should actually check it out.
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You can download ’cause I am officially on a podcast.
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- Careful there, Pastor Zach, pride comes before the fall.
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- Oh, no, no, no, no, no.
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This whole town is gonna know
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that Pastor Zach and his family have arrived!
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- Oh, be quiet.
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- And that’s my first project right next door.
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- He’s not a project, he’s a person.
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You get that, right?
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- You know what I mean.
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Hey, neighbor, I’m Zach Reynolds.
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Me and my family just moved next door.
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I though I’d come over and say hello.
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Have you lived in Wooded Plains long?
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Yes.
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Have you ever been to Life House?
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No.
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- You should come by sometime.
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It’s a great place.
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I’m actually about to start a sermon series
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based on my book.
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I don’t know if you’ve read it.
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It was called "Cutting the Fat."
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It’s about identifying the things in life we need to change.
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I think it’s really important.
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Never been there.
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- Okay, well, if you ever wanna drop by,
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the services are at 9:00 and 11:00,
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and let me know if you ever need anything.
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You can send your wife back over
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with some more cookies.
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- Yeah, she is an amazing chef.
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That’s why I married her.
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But it does make maintaining this waistline a little harder.
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But, yeah, I’ll tell her you enjoyed them.
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You’re gonna tell her to send me more, right?
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You said if I ever needed anything to let you know.
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Or was that an empty promise?
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- I’ll have her make another batch.
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You have a blessed day.
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Once a week, please.
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On Thursdays would be nice.
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And I would very much prefer for her
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to bring them alone in the future.
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Children make me uncomfortable.
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- I’ll see what I can do.
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It was a pleasure getting to know you,
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Pastor Zach Reynolds.
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I look forward to getting to know your family much better.
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- Hey, sweetie.
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I saw you talking to the neighbor.
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How’d it go?
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- Yeah, it was strange.
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Hey, listen, I don’t think it’s a good idea
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for you or Alex to go over there when I’m not around, okay?
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- What, why not?
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- He just seems a little off.
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It’s probably nothing.
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I just think it’s a good idea to keep our distance
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until we know him a little better.
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- Well, how am I supposed to get to know him
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any better if I keep my distance?
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- You know what I mean.
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- Okay, I love you,
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but you sound a little ridiculous right now.
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I mean, is he strange, yes,
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but he’s just lonely and needs some friends,
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and maybe that’s why God brought us into his life.
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- I know, you’re probably right, I just--
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- We are called to be a light in this world, Pastor.
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If we avoid everyone who makes us a little uncomfortable,
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what are we going to illuminate?
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- No, you’re right, we will get to know him.
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Let’s just go it together initially, okay?
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- Okay, weirdo.
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- I love you.
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Hey--oh, and tell Alex that he...
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Oh my goodness, sweetie, are you okay?
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- Yeah, I’m fine.
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Is it broken?
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- No, it’s just sprained, thank God.
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- What happened?
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- Well, the brakes went out on the car.
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You almost hit a little kid.
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Miraculously, everyone’s okay.
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- Oh, thank goodness.
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Okay, well, come on, let’s get you home.
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- Actually, I was gonna get a ride back to church with Jim,
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if that’s all right with you?
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- Hey, I tried, I know,
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but this guy’s got preaching on his heart,
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and I don’t think an injury’s gonna slow him down.
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- Okay, I want you to call me
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if you feel any pain or nauseous or dizzy,
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and make sure he ices it, and don’t get home too late.
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- Okay, I won’t, I promise.
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- I’ll have him home for dinner.
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- You better. - I will, I will.
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- Oh, hey there, neighbor, you startled me.
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- Oh, I’m sorry, I was just coming over to return the plate.
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Thanks for the cookies, they were delicious.
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I ate every one of them.
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- Oh, well, thank you, I’m glad you enjoyed them.
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- Oh, I did, I even asked Pastor Zach
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to tell you to bake me some more.
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Did he tell you I said that?
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- He did not, but I would love to.
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- Oh, well, I guess Pastor Zach is a busy guy.
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That’s a beautiful hot tub.
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- I know, right? - Yeah.
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- We are so blessed to be in this place.
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God is good.
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- All the time, right?
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- Yeah.
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You know, if you ever wanna come hang out
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or take a dip in the hot tub, you’re more than welcome to.
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I mean, God didn’t bless us with this beautiful place
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so we can keep it all to ourselves.
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- Wow, really? - Absolutely.
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- Well, I guess it would be rude of me
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to turn down your invitation.
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I’ve got to say, I’ve never had a neighbor
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be so kind to me before.
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- You know what?
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I was actually just about to head in.
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- Oh, really?
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Well, that’s sad,
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I was kinda hoping to run a few questions by you.
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- About what?
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- About God.
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- I guess I could spare a few minutes.
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- Great.
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So Pastor Zach asked me to visit the church this Sunday,
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and now I’m feeling all this kind of turmoil inside.
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Part of me knows that Christians are rude
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and they’re cliquey and they’re judgmental people
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who only want to make me feel bad about myself.
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But then again, you two have been so gosh darn nice
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that I’m almost tempted to give it another shot,
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to see if this church is different.
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- It really is.
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You have to, just once.
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I mean, everyone’s just gonna love on you.
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You’ve never met such a great group of people.
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- All right, I’ll do it, for you.
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But if anyone tells me that I’m a horrible person
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or that I’m going to hell,
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I’m holding you personally responsible
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for my crushed spirit.
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- Deal.
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- Deal.
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You know, huh, it’s true what they say
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about a Christian’s eyes.
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- And what’s that?
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- Well, they say that when a person sees Jesus,
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the eyes become all bright and sparkly.
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Your eyes do that.
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That’s nice.
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You’re so beautiful.
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- That’s why I married her.
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- I thought you married her because she could bake.
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I married her for a lot of reasons.
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- I bet.
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Your lovely young bride asked me to join her in the hot tub.
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I hope you don’t mind.
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- Why would I mind?
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- Exactly.
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What happened to your hand?
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- I bumped it.
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Hey, honey, it’s been a long day, what’s for dinner?
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Um, I thought I’d make some chili.
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Does that sound good?
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- Mm, yummy.
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- The water’s great, pastor, come on in.
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- You know your way home.
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- Please don’t be angry.
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Why do you think I’m angry?
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I’m getting through to him.
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He wants to believe, sweetie, he’s just...
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He’s nervous, he feels like Christians
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are always judging him.
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- Well, maybe his actions warrant the fear.
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- Obviously, nothing happened.
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He just wanted to talk about God.
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- In the hot tub, while I’m at work?
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That’s not okay, Amber.
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- Okay, come on, seriously?
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What do you think happened?
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- I don’t know, but I told you this morning
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not to hang out with him, and I come home to this?
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What am I supposed to think?
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- Wait.
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- What?
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- Are you jealous?
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- No, no, I’m not jealous, I just want you to listen to me.
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- No, I think you’re a little jealous.
351
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Are you worried that I’m into the creepy hermit type?
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- Well, you were into me when I was a big fat guy,
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but you’re married now.
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No more pity crushes.
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- Pity crush?
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That was no pity crush.
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I fell in love with you because I saw the man inside
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underneath all of that.
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I didn’t care what you looked like.
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- Well, they say that love makes you blind as a bat.
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Maybe I should be worried.
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- I wouldn’t be worried.
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I’m blind as a bat and faithful as a penguin.
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You’re stuck with me, pastor.
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- Just don’t hang out with him when I’m not home, okay?
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- Okay.
367
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- Oh, I’m so sorry, I didn’t mean to startle you.
368
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I’m baking zucchini bread.
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I wanted to see if you and Alex wanted to join me?
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- Oh, hi, Evie, sorry, I’m just a little jumpy today.
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I thought you were...
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- The boogeyman?
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- No, it’s silly, it’s just Pastor Zach’s
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a little uncomfortable with the man next door
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and asked that I not let him come around when he’s at work.
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- Oh, that’s good advice for any married woman.
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But I hope he didn’t say anything in front of the neighbor.
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- Oh, no, of course not.
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It’s a non-issue, really.
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- Good, well, whatever it is,
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I hope it doesn’t distract him
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from being an extension of God’s love.
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After all, that is our true calling.
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- Hey, neighbor.
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How’s it going?
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Glad you made it.
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What’d you think of the service?
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- Interesting, a little showy perhaps.
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So you really believe that God can change people?
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- Absolutely, in fact, I think God is the only one who can.
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- See, I have a problem with that.
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If God has the power to change people,
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then why doesn’t he just do it
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instead of waiting around for us to destroy each other?
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- Pastor Zach, I’m so sorry to interrupt,
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but I’ve got Dr. Riley on the phone,
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and he has a terminally ill patient
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that’s requesting a visit from you this afternoon.
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He’s not expected to make it
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through the evening. - Oh, no.
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- Would you be a dear and be able to stop by?
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- Absolutely, yeah, I’ll be there.
403
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- You’re amazing.
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Dr. Riley, he’ll be...
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- Who is she?
406
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- Oh, that’s Britney, my assistant.
407
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I’m pretty sure I told you about her.
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00:26:26,375 --> 00:26:27,625
- I don’t think you have.
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00:26:27,625 --> 00:26:29,125
- Really, she’s great.
410
00:26:29,125 --> 00:26:30,916
Hey, so we should set up a meeting this week.
411
00:26:30,916 --> 00:26:32,541
- Yes, maybe we can meet at your house.
412
00:26:32,583 --> 00:26:35,208
Maybe Amber can cook us dinner.
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You’re an amazing cook, I bet.
414
00:26:37,583 --> 00:26:39,916
- I do know my way around the kitchen.
415
00:26:39,916 --> 00:26:41,375
I bet.
416
00:26:41,375 --> 00:26:42,166
- You know, I think my office might be more appropriate.
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Let’s do it there.
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- Okay, well, it’s a very busy week.
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I can meet on Tuesday.
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- Zach, hon, they’re losing him.
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We need you now.
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00:26:54,583 --> 00:26:57,458
- Okay, set it up, I will be there.
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- I swear, Mr. Popular, right?
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It can be so hard to get him to do what I want sometimes.
425
00:27:08,750 --> 00:27:10,125
- That’s reassuring.
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00:27:27,375 --> 00:27:28,541
- Guess what day it is.
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It’s a beautiful day.
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- It is a beautiful, wonderful, amazing day.
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I just got back from watching someone slip into eternity
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with full certainty of where they are going.
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It was amazing, it was peaceful, it was intoxicating.
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I love my job.
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Congratulations.
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00:27:53,583 --> 00:27:54,416
- What’s wrong?
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00:27:56,291 --> 00:27:57,458
Is it about dinner?
436
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I’m sorry that I missed dinner, but babe,
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if someone’s dying, I have to be there.
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No, I get it, your job is important, whatever.
439
00:28:02,958 --> 00:28:04,208
- Then what is it?
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00:28:11,750 --> 00:28:12,916
- Tell me about Britney.
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- Britney?
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She’s my assistant.
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- Is she why you took the job?
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- I took the job to save souls, that’s it.
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Why would you even go there?
446
00:28:27,625 --> 00:28:29,500
- I don’t know, maybe because she’s blond
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and hot and into you.
448
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Babe, babe.
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I love you, you’re the only one for me.
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You have my heart, you have my soul forever.
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00:28:53,166 --> 00:28:54,000
- Okay.
452
00:28:56,291 --> 00:28:57,625
- You don’t seem convinced.
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Do you want me to fire her?
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00:29:06,916 --> 00:29:08,250
- Yes.
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00:29:08,291 --> 00:29:10,500
Okay, babe, listen.
456
00:29:10,541 --> 00:29:13,125
- No, of course not.
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I love you.
458
00:29:14,291 --> 00:29:17,291
- Of course you do, I’m amazing.
459
00:29:17,291 --> 00:29:19,333
- And the most humble pastor in the history of Life House.
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00:29:19,375 --> 00:29:20,708
- Do you know what, that might be true.
461
00:29:20,750 --> 00:29:23,333
And speaking of unparalleled amazingness,
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guess who got our neighbor to go to a meeting
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at church next Tuesday night?
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- Not you.
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00:29:31,458 --> 00:29:33,000
- Yeah, no, it was me.
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00:29:33,000 --> 00:29:35,458
- Tuesday night? - Yes.
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00:29:35,500 --> 00:29:37,000
- Our anniversary?
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We have dinner reservations, I have a sitter lined up.
469
00:29:39,750 --> 00:29:41,250
- Hey, baby, I’m sorry, I can’t back out on this.
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It’s really important.
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He may never come back again.
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This might be my only chance to reach him.
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We can do it Wednesday.
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00:29:47,416 --> 00:29:49,333
No, I have Wednesday evening service.
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Thursday, Thursday, I will take you out Thursday
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00:29:52,750 --> 00:29:55,750
and we are gonna celebrate. - Bible study.
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00:29:55,750 --> 00:29:59,625
- Okay, listen, I don’t know when we’re gonna do it, okay,
478
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but I promise we will and it’s gonna be amazing.
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We’re gonna celebrate.
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- Yeah, maybe next year.
481
00:30:22,625 --> 00:30:26,500
- Oh, look at that, it is your book.
482
00:30:27,833 --> 00:30:29,000
- Yeah, that’s it.
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00:30:30,541 --> 00:30:31,750
It’s amazing how many lives
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are being touched by those words.
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I put my heart and my soul in this project.
486
00:30:37,166 --> 00:30:38,000
- Yeah, I read it.
487
00:30:39,041 --> 00:30:40,875
- Really, what’d you think?
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00:30:40,916 --> 00:30:42,666
- Eh, I didn’t like it.
489
00:30:43,666 --> 00:30:45,791
It was too preachy for me.
490
00:30:45,791 --> 00:30:48,291
Not that I’m saying you’re a bad writer,
491
00:30:48,291 --> 00:30:52,000
it’s just I don’t like bad books.
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00:30:53,916 --> 00:30:57,541
I did, however, find the parts
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about you and Amber intriguing,
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how she loved and supported you,
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even though you were fat and unappealing.
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00:31:11,083 --> 00:31:15,583
It’s so hard to find a woman that cares so deeply
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regardless of a man’s size.
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00:31:22,375 --> 00:31:25,541
- Well, I had some other things to offer, too.
499
00:31:25,583 --> 00:31:27,041
- Oh yeah, like what, rage?
500
00:31:28,541 --> 00:31:32,208
Because you were a pretty angry man back in the day
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00:31:32,208 --> 00:31:36,083
before Jesus magically transformed you
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00:31:36,125 --> 00:31:40,416
into a sweet and loving pastor.
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00:31:41,875 --> 00:31:44,458
Do you still wrestle with it just once in a while?
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00:31:48,791 --> 00:31:50,083
- You know what, I share some pretty personal things
505
00:31:50,083 --> 00:31:53,250
in the book, and I think it’s important because-
506
00:31:53,250 --> 00:31:57,250
- Because, because anger, anger is a tricky beast.
507
00:31:57,291 --> 00:31:59,333
You know, you can suppress it,
508
00:31:59,375 --> 00:32:04,125
you can cover it up, but it never really goes away.
509
00:32:06,875 --> 00:32:10,083
It just lies there dormant,
510
00:32:11,833 --> 00:32:15,666
waiting for another reason to explode.
511
00:32:17,166 --> 00:32:18,875
- Yeah, well, mine’s gone.
512
00:32:18,875 --> 00:32:21,958
God healed me, and I believe he can do the same for you.
513
00:32:22,000 --> 00:32:23,500
Who said I’m angry?
514
00:32:23,500 --> 00:32:26,250
- No one, but we’ve all got stuff.
515
00:32:28,416 --> 00:32:30,541
Do you know what I see when I look at you?
516
00:32:30,541 --> 00:32:32,541
- No, tell me.
517
00:32:32,583 --> 00:32:34,875
I see someone who’s hurting,
518
00:32:34,875 --> 00:32:37,416
someone’s who’s tried to the right thing and came up short.
519
00:32:42,458 --> 00:32:44,375
That’s what darkness does, it blinds us to the truth
520
00:32:44,375 --> 00:32:47,833
of who he really is and how much he does love us,
521
00:32:47,833 --> 00:32:50,291
even with our mistakes.
522
00:32:50,333 --> 00:32:51,875
He’s a loving and forgiving God
523
00:32:51,875 --> 00:32:53,875
and wants to be in relationship with you.
524
00:32:55,125 --> 00:32:57,625
Would you like to begin that journey?
525
00:32:57,666 --> 00:32:59,333
- So you met Amber in college.
526
00:33:03,250 --> 00:33:06,416
- Yeah, we were in a theology class together,
527
00:33:06,458 --> 00:33:09,958
and she was always asking these deep profound questions
528
00:33:09,958 --> 00:33:13,000
about God and life, and I wanted to be with her.
529
00:33:14,208 --> 00:33:16,541
I wanted to spend every day and hour with her.
530
00:33:16,541 --> 00:33:19,208
- Hmm, so the real reason you married her
531
00:33:19,250 --> 00:33:22,750
was for her spiritual depth.
532
00:33:24,166 --> 00:33:29,041
The baking and the beauty were just nice perks.
533
00:33:33,291 --> 00:33:34,625
- Pretty much.
534
00:33:34,666 --> 00:33:36,166
Speaking of spiritual depth,
535
00:33:36,208 --> 00:33:37,833
you asked an interesting question yesterday at church.
536
00:33:37,833 --> 00:33:40,541
- Do you still love her that way?
537
00:33:45,333 --> 00:33:46,833
- What?
538
00:33:46,833 --> 00:33:51,333
- Do you still long to be with her every second of the day?
539
00:33:53,291 --> 00:33:58,291
Because some men when they get married, they run off.
540
00:34:00,916 --> 00:34:02,291
They build a life for themselves,
541
00:34:02,333 --> 00:34:07,125
and they com-com-completely forget the treasure
542
00:34:09,541 --> 00:34:11,375
that they have at home.
543
00:34:11,375 --> 00:34:13,250
You’re not one of those guys, are you?
544
00:34:16,333 --> 00:34:18,666
- We both have our responsibilities,
545
00:34:18,708 --> 00:34:20,208
but don’t think for a second
546
00:34:20,208 --> 00:34:22,458
that means I don’t love her more every single day.
547
00:34:22,458 --> 00:34:24,125
Well, that’s good to hear,
548
00:34:25,250 --> 00:34:28,416
’cause a woman like Amber
549
00:34:30,333 --> 00:34:35,333
deserves to be loved more than anything in the world.
550
00:34:43,875 --> 00:34:45,708
This guy’s a waste of my time, I’m moving on.
551
00:34:45,750 --> 00:34:48,125
I don’t think that’s an option for a pastor.
552
00:34:48,166 --> 00:34:50,208
- He doesn’t wanna talk about God, Amber.
553
00:34:50,250 --> 00:34:51,708
He wants to talk about you.
554
00:34:51,708 --> 00:34:53,583
- You’re asking him to open up about himself to you.
555
00:34:53,583 --> 00:34:54,750
That’s a big deal, it takes time.
556
00:34:54,791 --> 00:34:56,291
- I’m telling you--
557
00:34:56,291 --> 00:34:57,125
- I don’t know what your problem is with this guy,
558
00:34:57,125 --> 00:34:58,416
but it ends now.
559
00:35:00,083 --> 00:35:02,375
You are a pastor.
560
00:35:02,375 --> 00:35:05,625
You’re supposed to be one person he can’t push away.
561
00:35:05,666 --> 00:35:07,916
Loving people is your job now.
562
00:35:10,541 --> 00:35:11,791
You know, maybe you need to spend
563
00:35:11,833 --> 00:35:13,500
a little bit less time writing your sermons,
564
00:35:13,500 --> 00:35:15,708
and a little bit more time listening to them.
565
00:35:15,708 --> 00:35:17,166
Did you know you can do that now?
566
00:35:17,208 --> 00:35:18,458
You’re on a podcast.
567
00:35:36,791 --> 00:35:38,708
- I’m headed out, I’ll see you later.
568
00:35:38,708 --> 00:35:40,208
- Bye.
569
00:35:40,250 --> 00:35:41,375
- Good morning, pastor.
570
00:35:44,375 --> 00:35:45,625
- Nice pjs.
571
00:35:45,666 --> 00:35:47,250
Don’t you wear those to work?
572
00:35:47,250 --> 00:35:48,875
- Oh, I don’t work.
573
00:35:48,875 --> 00:35:50,375
I’ve been unemployed for years.
574
00:35:50,416 --> 00:35:52,083
It’s a tough market.
575
00:35:52,083 --> 00:35:55,541
Fortunately for me, I came into a little inheritance
576
00:35:55,583 --> 00:35:57,583
when my Grandmamma passed away.
577
00:35:59,375 --> 00:36:02,916
I’d give it all up to have her back though.
578
00:36:05,458 --> 00:36:09,000
She raised me from the time I was seven years old.
579
00:36:10,750 --> 00:36:12,750
Did I ever tell you that?
580
00:36:12,791 --> 00:36:16,041
- No, and it sounds like a super interesting story,
581
00:36:16,041 --> 00:36:18,166
but unfortunately, I have to go, so--
582
00:36:18,208 --> 00:36:19,583
- That’s really sweet.
583
00:36:20,875 --> 00:36:24,333
She sounds like a really special woman.
584
00:36:24,375 --> 00:36:25,541
- Oh, she was.
585
00:36:26,625 --> 00:36:29,416
She was into God, too, like you.
586
00:36:32,125 --> 00:36:34,125
She certainly would have approved of you.
587
00:36:35,958 --> 00:36:40,291
You too make such a perfect couple.
588
00:36:42,875 --> 00:36:46,208
I’m sorry I made you miss your anniversary dinner.
589
00:36:47,500 --> 00:36:49,708
- How did you know it was our anniversary?
590
00:36:49,708 --> 00:36:51,750
- She was really into gardening, too.
591
00:36:53,500 --> 00:36:55,666
I remember planting flowers with her.
592
00:36:57,833 --> 00:36:59,333
Those were happy times.
593
00:37:00,958 --> 00:37:05,291
- Hmm, well, I have to go, babe.
594
00:37:13,666 --> 00:37:14,500
See you tonight.
595
00:37:16,833 --> 00:37:18,833
- I’d better get back to it.
596
00:37:20,291 --> 00:37:22,333
- You have a real gift for gardening.
597
00:37:23,541 --> 00:37:24,375
Don’t move.
598
00:37:30,041 --> 00:37:31,333
I have something for you.
599
00:37:44,416 --> 00:37:45,666
- Those are beautiful.
600
00:37:48,416 --> 00:37:52,208
- Yeah, they’re mums.
601
00:37:54,708 --> 00:37:55,541
Mm.
602
00:37:57,125 --> 00:37:58,666
My favorite kind of flower.
603
00:38:00,041 --> 00:38:04,416
I think it would look beautiful right next to yours.
604
00:38:06,041 --> 00:38:08,375
Does Pastor Zach help you garden?
605
00:38:08,375 --> 00:38:10,958
- Oh, no, it’s not really his thing.
606
00:38:10,958 --> 00:38:14,000
He’s so busy with work and everything.
607
00:38:14,041 --> 00:38:16,916
- Yeah, I understand.
608
00:38:16,958 --> 00:38:18,291
My dad was the same way.
609
00:38:20,125 --> 00:38:24,958
Gone all the time, late nights at the office.
610
00:38:26,458 --> 00:38:28,708
Of course, it turned out he was having an affair
611
00:38:28,708 --> 00:38:31,375
with his secretary.
612
00:38:34,166 --> 00:38:38,291
But I’m sure Pastor Zach is not like that.
613
00:38:38,291 --> 00:38:39,875
You have nothing to worry about.
614
00:38:42,250 --> 00:38:43,750
We should have seen it coming.
615
00:38:45,125 --> 00:38:46,583
He showed us all the signs.
616
00:38:48,583 --> 00:38:53,291
He just became very mysterious and angry,
617
00:38:55,416 --> 00:39:00,375
always accusing mom of having an affair.
618
00:39:02,541 --> 00:39:04,416
Well, you know what they say,
619
00:39:05,875 --> 00:39:07,208
if you’re hung up on the idea of someone cheating,
620
00:39:07,208 --> 00:39:10,541
it’s probably because you are.
621
00:39:17,541 --> 00:39:20,375
- The fact of the matter is the board wants red,
622
00:39:20,375 --> 00:39:22,416
so it’s out of my control.
623
00:39:24,458 --> 00:39:25,791
Hey, can I call you back?
624
00:39:50,250 --> 00:39:51,083
- Hey, Amber?
625
00:39:55,708 --> 00:39:56,791
Oh, hey. - Hi.
626
00:40:01,666 --> 00:40:05,750
You, me, anniversary dinner, 10 minutes, go get dressed.
627
00:40:16,416 --> 00:40:17,583
- Hello, Pastor Zach.
628
00:40:19,791 --> 00:40:21,583
How do you like Amber’s garden?
629
00:40:24,125 --> 00:40:25,958
You know what, I didn’t even notice it.
630
00:40:25,958 --> 00:40:27,625
It looks beautiful.
631
00:40:27,625 --> 00:40:29,166
How do you like the mums?
632
00:40:31,375 --> 00:40:32,250
- They look great.
633
00:40:33,625 --> 00:40:38,041
- Thanks, we spent all afternoon together working on them.
634
00:40:41,083 --> 00:40:42,625
- Well, it looks great.
635
00:40:42,666 --> 00:40:43,625
Thanks.
636
00:40:44,833 --> 00:40:47,500
So you two look fancy.
637
00:40:47,541 --> 00:40:48,541
What’s the occasion?
638
00:40:50,333 --> 00:40:52,166
- You know, I think you already know.
639
00:40:55,083 --> 00:40:57,583
- Wow, really?
640
00:40:57,583 --> 00:41:01,250
You mean, I can’t believe it.
641
00:41:01,291 --> 00:41:03,166
I’ll get my tie, just-- - Whoa, whoa.
642
00:41:04,625 --> 00:41:06,583
It’s really weird that you would think it’s okay
643
00:41:06,583 --> 00:41:09,541
to invite yourself to our anniversary dinner.
644
00:41:09,541 --> 00:41:12,708
Besides, don’t you think you’re a little under dressed?
645
00:41:14,166 --> 00:41:17,541
Why don’t you plant some begonias in your own yard?
646
00:41:19,000 --> 00:41:19,833
Don’t wait up.
647
00:41:29,291 --> 00:41:31,083
That’s what darkness does,
648
00:41:31,083 --> 00:41:32,583
it blinds us to the truth of who he really is.
649
00:41:32,583 --> 00:41:35,458
How much he does love us even when we make mistakes.
650
00:41:36,958 --> 00:41:38,666
He’s a loving and forgiving God
651
00:41:38,666 --> 00:41:40,916
and wants to be in a relationship with you.
652
00:41:41,833 --> 00:41:44,125
Would you like to recognize him?
653
00:41:50,583 --> 00:41:52,041
- What time is it?
654
00:41:53,250 --> 00:41:54,458
- 6:30.
655
00:42:03,083 --> 00:42:03,875
- Why?
656
00:42:05,375 --> 00:42:06,708
- Good morning, Pastor Zach.
657
00:42:06,708 --> 00:42:07,541
Did I wake you?
658
00:42:08,958 --> 00:42:13,500
Oh, I’m sorry, I know you were out till 1:37 this morning,
659
00:42:13,541 --> 00:42:16,083
but you’re usually up by now.
660
00:42:16,125 --> 00:42:18,083
That is really weird that you know that, man.
661
00:42:18,083 --> 00:42:20,458
- Yeah, I wanted to apologize for yesterday.
662
00:42:20,500 --> 00:42:23,291
I hope I didn’t ruin your anniversary dinner
663
00:42:23,291 --> 00:42:25,875
by asking to come along.
664
00:42:25,875 --> 00:42:27,125
Nope, don’t worry about it.
665
00:42:27,166 --> 00:42:28,458
Just go back to bed, okay?
666
00:42:28,458 --> 00:42:30,458
- It’s just that yesterday was a...
667
00:42:30,500 --> 00:42:32,166
It was a special day for me, too.
668
00:42:33,541 --> 00:42:35,041
- Really? - Yeah.
669
00:42:35,041 --> 00:42:38,583
It was the 10-year anniversary of my Grandmamma’s passing.
670
00:42:39,791 --> 00:42:41,500
- Oh, I’m so sorry.
671
00:42:41,541 --> 00:42:44,375
- It’s okay, it’s okay, there’s no way
672
00:42:44,375 --> 00:42:46,750
that you two could have known, and I feel bad,
673
00:42:46,791 --> 00:42:48,291
and I wanna give you something.
674
00:42:51,250 --> 00:42:54,166
Listen, we can’t take anything from you.
675
00:42:54,166 --> 00:42:58,041
- Oh, no, please, I would want you to have it.
676
00:42:58,083 --> 00:43:00,250
Grandmamma would have loved the two of you,
677
00:43:01,458 --> 00:43:02,250
and she would want you to have this.
678
00:43:02,250 --> 00:43:03,500
I wanna do this for her.
679
00:43:04,541 --> 00:43:07,875
Will you be home this afternoon?
680
00:43:09,250 --> 00:43:11,791
- Well, we have church at seven, but yeah,
681
00:43:11,791 --> 00:43:14,041
we should be home most of the afternoon.
682
00:43:14,083 --> 00:43:16,916
- Good, good, all right, I’ll bring it over after lunch.
683
00:43:18,666 --> 00:43:21,166
Congratulations on your anniversary.
684
00:43:23,708 --> 00:43:26,583
That’s really special.
685
00:43:33,833 --> 00:43:36,458
Okay, well, I’m a jerk face.
686
00:43:36,458 --> 00:43:38,166
- I’ll go make coffee, jerk face.
687
00:43:49,458 --> 00:43:50,291
Hey, babe.
688
00:43:54,500 --> 00:43:55,333
How’s it going?
689
00:43:56,416 --> 00:43:57,916
- Oh, I just...
690
00:44:00,916 --> 00:44:02,750
Why did I ever start a sermon series
691
00:44:02,750 --> 00:44:04,791
on loving your neighbor?
692
00:44:04,833 --> 00:44:07,416
- Do you really want me to answer that?
693
00:44:07,416 --> 00:44:09,791
- Yes. - Maybe because you need it.
694
00:44:14,750 --> 00:44:15,875
It’s show time.
695
00:44:19,375 --> 00:44:21,000
- Hey, neighbor.
696
00:44:21,000 --> 00:44:23,833
Sorry it took so long, it was pretty dusty.
697
00:44:23,875 --> 00:44:27,291
I wanted to shine it up before I brought it over.
698
00:44:27,291 --> 00:44:28,875
I’ve been working on it all day.
699
00:44:28,916 --> 00:44:30,583
- Oh my goodness, it’s beautiful.
700
00:44:30,583 --> 00:44:33,583
- Yeah, yeah, it was Grandmamma’s.
701
00:44:33,625 --> 00:44:37,041
Her and Pops, they were married 62 years.
702
00:44:38,708 --> 00:44:40,166
You two remind me of them.
703
00:44:41,291 --> 00:44:43,625
Well, the hook is damaged,
704
00:44:43,625 --> 00:44:48,041
so it’s kind of difficult to hang,
705
00:44:48,083 --> 00:44:49,291
but I know how to do it.
706
00:44:49,291 --> 00:44:51,791
It shouldn’t take me more than a half hour.
707
00:44:53,083 --> 00:44:55,166
What do you think, Pastor Zach?
708
00:44:55,208 --> 00:44:56,458
- It’s beautiful,
709
00:44:56,458 --> 00:44:58,125
but we can’t take your grandmother’s mirror.
710
00:44:58,125 --> 00:45:00,791
- Oh, yes, you can, I want you to have it.
711
00:45:00,833 --> 00:45:02,375
- It is amazing, but we are actually
712
00:45:02,416 --> 00:45:03,666
just headed out the door.
713
00:45:03,666 --> 00:45:05,208
Could you come back after nine sometime?
714
00:45:06,458 --> 00:45:08,041
Well, it’s pretty heavy.
715
00:45:09,958 --> 00:45:11,291
- Why don’t you just leave it here,
716
00:45:11,291 --> 00:45:13,541
and I’ll put it up when I have some time?
717
00:45:13,541 --> 00:45:16,541
- Um, well, it’s difficult to hang.
718
00:45:16,541 --> 00:45:19,041
You have to know exactly what you’re doing
719
00:45:19,083 --> 00:45:21,583
or it could fall and break.
720
00:45:21,583 --> 00:45:23,583
- Okay, quick kidding around, Zach.
721
00:45:23,583 --> 00:45:26,333
We love the mirror, it’s beautiful.
722
00:45:26,375 --> 00:45:27,916
Listen, we’re on our way out,
723
00:45:27,958 --> 00:45:30,541
but would you be willing to hang it for us while we’re gone?
724
00:45:30,541 --> 00:45:31,750
- Of course.
725
00:45:31,791 --> 00:45:33,875
- That’s perfect, some on in, right, Zach?
726
00:45:35,208 --> 00:45:37,000
Alex, time to go.
727
00:45:37,916 --> 00:45:39,416
- Knock ’em dead, Pastor Zach.
728
00:45:42,208 --> 00:45:43,416
- Lock up when you leave.
729
00:45:45,291 --> 00:45:46,125
- Will do.
730
00:45:56,125 --> 00:45:59,250
Here it is.
731
00:45:59,250 --> 00:46:01,958
Oh my goodness, it’s amazing.
732
00:46:02,000 --> 00:46:03,666
- Great, so he was in here.
733
00:46:03,666 --> 00:46:06,083
- Oh, would you stop it?
734
00:46:06,125 --> 00:46:08,666
Look at this, is it not gorgeous?
735
00:46:08,666 --> 00:46:09,500
- It’s pretty.
736
00:46:12,000 --> 00:46:14,708
DeBrand’s Fine Chocolates? - Oh.
737
00:46:14,750 --> 00:46:16,333
- He’s not such a bad guy after all.
738
00:46:18,250 --> 00:46:20,791
Amber, now you can enjoy the beauty
739
00:46:20,833 --> 00:46:22,625
that the rest of us see in you.
740
00:46:23,791 --> 00:46:25,416
Not super thrilled about the note.
741
00:46:26,875 --> 00:46:29,666
- No way, honey, it’s a skinny mirror.
742
00:46:29,666 --> 00:46:31,125
I just lost 10 pounds, ha!
743
00:46:32,916 --> 00:46:36,333
Oh, mm, mm-hmm, I could get used to this.
744
00:47:05,916 --> 00:47:06,916
- Hey, good morning. - Hi.
745
00:47:06,916 --> 00:47:08,333
- Good to see you again.
746
00:47:08,333 --> 00:47:10,083
How did you enjoy your neighbor’s message this morning?
747
00:47:10,125 --> 00:47:11,291
- I enjoyed it very much.
748
00:47:11,291 --> 00:47:12,833
I like this series.
749
00:47:12,833 --> 00:47:16,333
I think it’s important to be a good neighbor.
750
00:47:18,041 --> 00:47:20,250
And thank you for inviting me here.
751
00:47:20,291 --> 00:47:22,791
You were right about these people.
752
00:47:22,833 --> 00:47:27,833
It feels so good to be a part of a church family.
753
00:47:28,541 --> 00:47:30,000
- Sure thing, buddy.
754
00:47:30,041 --> 00:47:32,541
Hey, do you mind if I grab a quick word with you real quick?
755
00:47:32,541 --> 00:47:33,583
- Sure. - Be right back.
756
00:47:36,625 --> 00:47:38,500
So, yeah, I wanted to talk to you about the mirror.
757
00:47:38,541 --> 00:47:40,708
First of all, thank you so much, it’s beautiful.
758
00:47:40,750 --> 00:47:42,083
I know it must have meant a lot to you.
759
00:47:42,083 --> 00:47:44,541
- Well, you and Amber mean a lot to me, too.
760
00:47:46,041 --> 00:47:47,791
Mostly Amber.
761
00:47:47,791 --> 00:47:50,250
- Yeah, that’s what I wanted to talk to you about.
762
00:47:51,291 --> 00:47:54,375
The note, what was that?
763
00:47:54,375 --> 00:47:56,625
- Oh, I’m sorry, was there a typo?
764
00:47:56,666 --> 00:47:58,708
I’m a terrible speller.
765
00:47:58,708 --> 00:48:00,833
- Oh, I think you know what I mean.
766
00:48:00,875 --> 00:48:02,416
It’s inappropriate for you to be writing
767
00:48:02,416 --> 00:48:04,666
flirty notes to a married woman, yeah?
768
00:48:04,708 --> 00:48:07,458
- Oh, I see, but it’s okay for you
769
00:48:07,458 --> 00:48:12,250
to write flirty notes to a single woman.
770
00:48:12,250 --> 00:48:14,083
- What are you talking about?
771
00:48:14,125 --> 00:48:16,875
I see the way she looks at you.
772
00:48:16,916 --> 00:48:21,125
Clearly, your many late nights have not been lonely ones.
773
00:48:22,750 --> 00:48:24,041
- Don’t even go there, bro.
774
00:48:24,041 --> 00:48:25,250
Well, I can certainly understand
775
00:48:25,291 --> 00:48:30,125
the attraction, she’s very pretty, very, very.
776
00:48:31,583 --> 00:48:33,041
- All right, listen, you might not even get this
777
00:48:33,041 --> 00:48:34,500
coming from a jacked up family.
778
00:48:34,541 --> 00:48:35,833
- Oh, jacked up now, huh? - But Amber and I are in love.
779
00:48:35,833 --> 00:48:37,333
- Are you? - We’re in love in every way.
780
00:48:37,333 --> 00:48:39,333
- Really, really? - I will fight anyone--
781
00:48:39,333 --> 00:48:40,583
- Oh, you wanna fight me?
782
00:48:40,583 --> 00:48:41,916
- Or anything that comes between, bf.
783
00:48:42,916 --> 00:48:44,208
- Well, don’t get so angry, Pastor Zach.
784
00:48:44,208 --> 00:48:45,958
I know how violent you can become.
785
00:48:46,000 --> 00:48:47,958
It’s not very neighborly.
786
00:48:48,208 --> 00:48:50,250
Oh my goodness. - Hi.
787
00:48:50,291 --> 00:48:52,208
- Thank you so much for the mirror, we love it.
788
00:48:52,208 --> 00:48:55,875
- Oh, wow, really, thank you, it feels so good to hear.
789
00:48:55,875 --> 00:48:57,750
- Get away from him, get away!
790
00:48:57,791 --> 00:48:59,625
You’re done, you’re done!
791
00:49:00,541 --> 00:49:02,833
Don’t touch my wife, don’t touch me,
792
00:49:02,833 --> 00:49:05,291
don’t come to my house, and don’t come back to church.
793
00:49:05,333 --> 00:49:07,041
- What is your problem?
794
00:49:07,041 --> 00:49:08,541
- I’m sorry, Pastor Zach,
795
00:49:08,541 --> 00:49:13,458
I forgot that the house of God is no place for sinners.
796
00:49:14,083 --> 00:49:14,791
- Are you okay?
797
00:49:15,875 --> 00:49:18,625
- The back of my head is kinda hurting.
798
00:49:37,000 --> 00:49:40,041
- I’m trying to protect you, you have to understand that.
799
00:49:42,708 --> 00:49:45,458
- You’re the only one who has a problem with him, Zach.
800
00:49:48,250 --> 00:49:49,375
- Maybe I shouldn’t be.
801
00:49:56,375 --> 00:49:58,041
Doesn’t he ever give up?
802
00:49:58,041 --> 00:50:01,041
- Great, he probably wants his mirror back.
803
00:50:05,250 --> 00:50:07,583
- Evie, where’s James?
804
00:50:08,500 --> 00:50:09,833
- He’s in his shop.
805
00:50:09,833 --> 00:50:11,916
I bet he’d love some company.
806
00:50:15,083 --> 00:50:16,166
Here you go.
807
00:50:17,875 --> 00:50:22,416
So Zach has been very angry lately.
808
00:50:23,583 --> 00:50:26,333
I mean, the man brings us a gift,
809
00:50:26,375 --> 00:50:29,250
and the next day he kicks him out of church.
810
00:50:29,291 --> 00:50:30,125
- Thank you.
811
00:50:31,541 --> 00:50:34,833
- He’s reminding me of old Zach, and it scares me.
812
00:50:35,291 --> 00:50:36,458
Why is he so upset?
813
00:50:36,500 --> 00:50:37,750
- He has this irrational fear
814
00:50:37,750 --> 00:50:39,875
that there’s something going on between us.
815
00:50:41,166 --> 00:50:42,291
- Is it irrational?
816
00:50:43,541 --> 00:50:46,625
- Yes, obviously, I mean, maybe the guy
817
00:50:46,666 --> 00:50:48,000
has a little crush on me,
818
00:50:48,000 --> 00:50:50,291
but I’m not attracted to him at all.
819
00:50:51,500 --> 00:50:55,000
I just wanna be a good neighbor.
820
00:50:57,625 --> 00:51:00,291
- So you’re not enjoying how this crush
821
00:51:00,333 --> 00:51:03,333
might be making Pastor Zach a little jealous?
822
00:51:03,375 --> 00:51:04,208
- No!
823
00:51:08,291 --> 00:51:10,375
I don’t know, maybe.
824
00:51:12,625 --> 00:51:14,875
Zach is always a superstar.
825
00:51:14,875 --> 00:51:17,708
I mean, everyone loves Pastor Zach,
826
00:51:17,750 --> 00:51:19,791
which they should, he’s an amazing man,
827
00:51:19,833 --> 00:51:22,541
when he’s not acting like a crazy person.
828
00:51:22,541 --> 00:51:26,041
And where am I?
829
00:51:28,333 --> 00:51:32,666
In his shadow, always, and nobody even knows who I am.
830
00:51:32,666 --> 00:51:34,791
- That is not true. - It feels true.
831
00:51:36,833 --> 00:51:41,833
So I guess it was nice to be noticed for once,
832
00:51:43,000 --> 00:51:44,375
and I’ve never seen Zach jealous ever.
833
00:51:45,750 --> 00:51:47,625
It made me feel wanted.
834
00:51:50,208 --> 00:51:55,166
- Amber, be careful about using jealousy
835
00:51:56,541 --> 00:51:58,375
to gain the attention of your husband.
836
00:51:59,875 --> 00:52:01,125
It only backfires.
837
00:52:03,166 --> 00:52:06,083
Look, I get it, as women it makes us feel
838
00:52:06,083 --> 00:52:07,625
like our husbands are fighting for us,
839
00:52:07,666 --> 00:52:10,416
but really it just pushes them away,
840
00:52:11,625 --> 00:52:13,541
and sometimes into the arms of someone
841
00:52:13,541 --> 00:52:17,166
who they might find more trustworthy.
842
00:52:21,916 --> 00:52:23,375
- Okay, why do I feel like I’m supposed
843
00:52:23,375 --> 00:52:24,541
to be reading into that?
844
00:52:28,541 --> 00:52:31,666
- How well do you know Pastor Zach’s assistant, Britney?
845
00:52:40,083 --> 00:52:42,166
We recently found out that he’s been sending her
846
00:52:42,208 --> 00:52:44,041
little gifts and notes on occasion.
847
00:52:47,583 --> 00:52:48,666
- What kinds of gifts?
848
00:52:50,541 --> 00:52:52,000
Flowers, chocolates.
849
00:52:53,125 --> 00:52:54,583
We did have a conversation with her,
850
00:52:54,583 --> 00:52:56,791
and she said it hadn’t gone any further than that.
851
00:52:58,000 --> 00:53:00,000
James is gonna have a talk with Zach.
852
00:53:02,416 --> 00:53:03,583
- What did the note say?
853
00:53:07,208 --> 00:53:09,000
- It’s not important.
854
00:53:09,000 --> 00:53:10,666
- Oh, but it is important.
855
00:53:10,708 --> 00:53:13,041
Are we talking, thanks for doing a great job,
856
00:53:13,041 --> 00:53:14,875
or thanks for being so pretty?
857
00:53:18,458 --> 00:53:23,458
- Amber, guard your heart and your family.
858
00:53:26,083 --> 00:53:27,625
You’re on the front lines
859
00:53:27,666 --> 00:53:30,583
and you’re doing important work for the kingdom,
860
00:53:30,583 --> 00:53:33,375
and sometimes that puts you in way of attack.
861
00:53:35,208 --> 00:53:40,166
All this, it’s just a distraction.
862
00:55:43,958 --> 00:55:44,791
- Amber.
863
00:55:47,166 --> 00:55:48,958
I just need my tablet.
864
00:55:50,125 --> 00:55:53,291
- Okay, um, okay.
865
00:56:03,083 --> 00:56:04,333
It’s a beautiful bouquet.
866
00:56:05,708 --> 00:56:09,166
- Amber, I...
867
00:56:09,166 --> 00:56:12,625
- We have a son, Alex.
868
00:56:14,333 --> 00:56:15,166
You know that.
869
00:56:18,458 --> 00:56:21,583
He’s seven, he’ll be eight in January.
870
00:56:25,958 --> 00:56:28,041
- Alex is a very sweet boy.
871
00:56:28,083 --> 00:56:29,250
- Yeah, like his daddy.
872
00:56:31,750 --> 00:56:36,750
He needs his daddy, and I need his daddy.
873
00:56:40,375 --> 00:56:41,208
You’re beautiful.
874
00:56:46,500 --> 00:56:49,791
There’s gonna be a single man out there
875
00:56:49,791 --> 00:56:51,375
who’s very lucky to be with you.
876
00:56:53,333 --> 00:56:55,041
Please don’t ruin my marriage.
877
00:56:56,958 --> 00:56:57,791
- I won’t.
878
00:57:00,666 --> 00:57:02,250
We never did anything.
879
00:57:05,791 --> 00:57:10,625
He sent some gifts, but it never went anywhere, I swear.
880
00:57:14,958 --> 00:57:18,125
He’s actually not flirty around me at all.
881
00:57:19,416 --> 00:57:21,541
He’s all business.
882
00:57:24,083 --> 00:57:26,416
It’s actually very confusing. - Thank you.
883
00:57:49,458 --> 00:57:50,416
- Hi, Evie.
884
00:57:53,458 --> 00:57:54,958
Yeah, we spoke briefly.
885
00:57:58,125 --> 00:58:00,083
Sorry, yeah, I shouldn’t have done that.
886
00:58:00,083 --> 00:58:03,958
I just needed to know.
887
00:58:05,916 --> 00:58:09,750
No, I understand, I appreciate your friendship.
888
00:58:10,958 --> 00:58:14,125
Alex, come on inside, time for lunch.
889
00:58:17,458 --> 00:58:18,291
Alex!
890
00:58:19,541 --> 00:58:21,750
What, oh, I’m sorry, I just...
891
00:58:22,791 --> 00:58:24,333
I don’t see Alex.
892
00:58:26,583 --> 00:58:27,416
He was just here.
893
00:58:33,500 --> 00:58:35,250
- Hey, how’s it going.
894
00:58:35,250 --> 00:58:36,708
- Here you go. - Thank you so much.
895
00:58:36,708 --> 00:58:38,541
- Would you like cream or sugar with that?
896
00:58:38,541 --> 00:58:39,875
- Oh, no, I’m fine, thank you though.
897
00:58:39,875 --> 00:58:41,458
- Have a great day! - You, too.
898
00:58:58,375 --> 00:59:00,208
- Hey there, young man. - Hey.
899
00:59:00,208 --> 00:59:01,708
Oh, hey, dude. - Yeah.
900
00:59:01,708 --> 00:59:03,833
- Can you help me out? - What can I do for you?
901
00:59:03,833 --> 00:59:06,208
- Cool, I gotta deliver these flowers
902
00:59:06,250 --> 00:59:08,416
to some chick named Britney.
903
00:59:08,458 --> 00:59:10,791
I was wondering if you knew where she was.
904
00:59:10,833 --> 00:59:12,708
- I can take ’em. - Great.
905
00:59:13,958 --> 00:59:15,958
- Thanks, bro. - Yeah, you bet.
906
00:59:39,875 --> 00:59:41,083
- What can I do for you, boss?
907
00:59:41,125 --> 00:59:42,625
- Hey, man, so I totaled my car a few days ago,
908
00:59:42,625 --> 00:59:44,125
and it was dragged here.
909
00:59:44,125 --> 00:59:45,541
I was wondering if I could have a quick look at it.
910
00:59:47,083 --> 00:59:48,666
- Any particular reason?
911
00:59:49,666 --> 00:59:51,708
- Yeah, my brakes went out and I guess in all the confusion
912
00:59:51,750 --> 00:59:54,250
I didn’t really get a chance to look and see if...
913
00:59:55,708 --> 00:59:58,416
You think somebody snipped ’em, don’t you?
914
00:59:58,458 --> 00:59:59,625
- Am I that obvious?
915
00:59:59,666 --> 01:00:01,666
- I get people in here every now and then
916
01:00:01,708 --> 01:00:03,333
thinking someone’s trying to knock ’em off,
917
01:00:03,333 --> 01:00:06,666
but I gotta tell you, brother, it doesn’t happen,
918
01:00:06,708 --> 01:00:08,708
unless of course, you know, you’re fooling around
919
01:00:08,750 --> 01:00:09,958
with somebody’s wife.
920
01:00:09,958 --> 01:00:11,666
- This was a bad idea, but thank you very much.
921
01:00:11,666 --> 01:00:13,833
- Dude, it’s cool, it’s right out back.
922
01:00:13,833 --> 01:00:15,333
If you wanna look at it, we’ll go look at it.
923
01:00:15,375 --> 01:00:16,541
- All right, let’s do it. - Are you cool with that?
924
01:00:16,541 --> 01:00:17,500
All right, cool. - Thanks, man.
925
01:00:23,416 --> 01:00:25,250
- Sprinkling Can, where we grow memories.
926
01:00:25,291 --> 01:00:28,208
This is Katie, how may I brighten your day?
927
01:00:28,250 --> 01:00:30,083
- Yeah, hey there, this is Pastor James
928
01:00:30,083 --> 01:00:31,541
with Life House Church.
929
01:00:31,541 --> 01:00:32,416
How are you doing?
930
01:00:33,625 --> 01:00:35,333
- Oh hi, Pastor James, how are you?
931
01:00:35,708 --> 01:00:36,875
- Good, good.
932
01:00:37,166 --> 01:00:39,375
Hey, I have a favor to ask of you.
933
01:00:41,125 --> 01:00:43,791
- Yeah, absolutely, I’ll do what I can.
934
01:00:43,791 --> 01:00:45,541
- Yeah, we have a staff member, Britney,
935
01:00:45,541 --> 01:00:48,250
who’s been getting some deliveries from a coworker,
936
01:00:48,291 --> 01:00:50,541
and we’re gonna need that to stop.
937
01:00:52,041 --> 01:00:54,541
Could you please refuse any future orders
938
01:00:54,583 --> 01:00:55,791
from Zach Reynolds?
939
01:00:56,958 --> 01:00:59,500
- Wait, so there really is a Zach Reynolds?
940
01:01:01,083 --> 01:01:05,125
- Yeah, yeah, he’s the guy that’s been ordering the flowers?
941
01:01:05,166 --> 01:01:09,000
Zach Reynolds, 1010 Pleasant Oak Street.
942
01:01:10,166 --> 01:01:12,250
- No, they’re being sent from a Zach Reynolds,
943
01:01:12,291 --> 01:01:15,125
but that is not the name on the credit card,
944
01:01:15,166 --> 01:01:17,416
and I don’t think that’s even the right address here.
945
01:01:17,416 --> 01:01:18,541
Let me take a look.
946
01:01:20,708 --> 01:01:23,875
Yeah, it’s being sent from 1006 Pleasant Oak Street,
947
01:01:23,875 --> 01:01:26,375
which is probably next door.
948
01:01:26,375 --> 01:01:28,666
Do you want me to go ahead and put a block on it?
949
01:01:30,291 --> 01:01:31,083
Hello?
950
01:01:33,958 --> 01:01:38,291
- Yes, yeah, please, thank you.
951
01:01:49,750 --> 01:01:52,541
- Step one, locate the brake line.
952
01:01:52,541 --> 01:01:55,208
Usually, it’ll be right up under here.
953
01:01:56,541 --> 01:01:58,291
Oh, that’s different, okay.
954
01:01:58,333 --> 01:01:59,125
What?
955
01:02:04,625 --> 01:02:05,958
Hey, Evie.
956
01:02:06,000 --> 01:02:07,625
Amber?
957
01:02:07,625 --> 01:02:09,708
No, no, I haven’t seen her.
958
01:02:09,750 --> 01:02:10,583
What’s wrong?
959
01:02:11,666 --> 01:02:13,208
- Well, it’s probably nothing,
960
01:02:13,250 --> 01:02:15,125
but I was just talking to Amber about 10 minutes ago,
961
01:02:15,125 --> 01:02:17,458
and she said she couldn’t find Alex.
962
01:02:17,500 --> 01:02:19,041
She said she’d call me back when she found him,
963
01:02:19,041 --> 01:02:20,750
but I still haven’t heard from her.
964
01:02:21,666 --> 01:02:24,125
I just tried calling her back and she didn’t answer.
965
01:02:24,666 --> 01:02:25,833
Have you heard anything?
966
01:02:25,875 --> 01:02:26,916
- What, no!
967
01:02:31,875 --> 01:02:34,875
- Hey, boss, might you have yourself an enemy?
968
01:02:35,750 --> 01:02:36,958
- No, why?
969
01:02:36,958 --> 01:02:38,166
- Well, I hate to be the one to break it to you,
970
01:02:38,333 --> 01:02:40,291
but this thing’s cut clean.
971
01:02:41,958 --> 01:02:43,583
- Evie, I gotta go.
972
01:02:43,625 --> 01:02:44,541
Thank you for this.
973
01:02:45,208 --> 01:02:47,666
- You better stop messing around with those married women.
974
01:02:47,833 --> 01:02:49,833
There’s a lot of crazy dudes out there.
975
01:02:50,958 --> 01:02:53,208
Wow.
976
01:02:54,125 --> 01:02:56,250
- Alex, Alex!
977
01:03:15,166 --> 01:03:16,458
Hello!
978
01:03:16,458 --> 01:03:18,125
Hello, is anybody...
979
01:03:22,375 --> 01:03:23,250
Alex?
980
01:03:29,708 --> 01:03:30,541
Alex?
981
01:03:50,666 --> 01:03:51,500
Alex?
982
01:04:08,208 --> 01:04:10,083
Alex?
983
01:04:20,083 --> 01:04:20,916
Alex?
984
01:04:49,708 --> 01:04:51,375
- I was hoping you’d come.
985
01:04:55,708 --> 01:04:57,375
- I’m looking for Alex.
986
01:04:59,291 --> 01:05:01,750
- Oh, I wish you hadn’t seen that.
987
01:05:03,458 --> 01:05:06,458
But you won’t tell anyone, will you?
988
01:05:09,833 --> 01:05:11,291
It will be our little secret.
989
01:05:15,541 --> 01:05:16,375
- I won’t.
990
01:05:17,541 --> 01:05:18,333
Have you seen Alex?
991
01:05:18,375 --> 01:05:19,541
- Do you wanna watch?
992
01:05:21,750 --> 01:05:26,750
I caught some great moments of you and Pastor Zach.
993
01:05:30,958 --> 01:05:33,041
You can learn a lot about someone
994
01:05:34,333 --> 01:05:38,000
by watching them when they don’t know it.
995
01:05:39,833 --> 01:05:43,166
Pastor Zach speaks very differently of me
996
01:05:43,166 --> 01:05:45,416
when I’m not there.
997
01:05:47,333 --> 01:05:49,500
I don’t think he likes me very much.
998
01:05:54,666 --> 01:05:55,666
But not you.
999
01:06:02,333 --> 01:06:03,625
You stand up for me.
1000
01:06:06,416 --> 01:06:07,750
Mm, I like that.
1001
01:06:13,333 --> 01:06:14,166
- Alex!
1002
01:06:22,083 --> 01:06:27,083
- 14 minutes and 37 seconds.
1003
01:06:27,541 --> 01:06:30,375
- Alex, we need to go home right now.
1004
01:06:30,666 --> 01:06:32,875
- But mom, we’re watching a movie.
1005
01:06:32,916 --> 01:06:34,666
Can we stay, please?
1006
01:06:34,666 --> 01:06:39,333
- It’s important to always know where Alex is.
1007
01:06:40,500 --> 01:06:45,708
They say it takes as little as six minutes
1008
01:06:46,833 --> 01:06:52,250
alone with a stranger for a child to be abused.
1009
01:06:53,375 --> 01:06:56,458
- Alex, come up the stairs now!
1010
01:06:56,500 --> 01:06:58,416
- You know where I heard that?
1011
01:06:59,250 --> 01:07:00,041
The news.
1012
01:07:01,916 --> 01:07:04,708
You know how I know it’s true?
1013
01:07:06,416 --> 01:07:08,125
Because they were talking about me.
1014
01:07:11,708 --> 01:07:13,166
Isn’t that funny?
1015
01:07:13,166 --> 01:07:14,833
- Alex, let’s go.
1016
01:07:14,833 --> 01:07:16,750
- Just a minute. - Now!
1017
01:07:16,791 --> 01:07:22,375
- Six minutes away from my mother,
1018
01:07:24,208 --> 01:07:26,125
I was six years old at the time.
1019
01:07:27,333 --> 01:07:32,000
Six days away from my seventh birthday.
1020
01:07:34,458 --> 01:07:38,583
Six, six, six.
1021
01:07:40,500 --> 01:07:43,250
I always figured that’s why they called it
1022
01:07:43,291 --> 01:07:44,791
the devil’s number.
1023
01:07:48,416 --> 01:07:51,541
I don’t like talking about it much,
1024
01:07:53,833 --> 01:07:57,541
but I feel so close to you,
1025
01:07:59,833 --> 01:08:02,000
like I can tell you anything,
1026
01:08:06,500 --> 01:08:08,666
and you’ll still love me.
1027
01:08:11,250 --> 01:08:12,291
Bye, Alex.
1028
01:08:14,666 --> 01:08:16,041
Come back soon.
1029
01:08:51,166 --> 01:08:53,208
- I don’t want you to ever go over to a stranger’s house
1030
01:08:53,250 --> 01:08:55,291
without me again, do you understand?
1031
01:08:55,291 --> 01:08:56,583
- He’s not a stranger.
1032
01:08:56,625 --> 01:08:59,708
- Don’t go to anyone’s house without me.
1033
01:08:59,708 --> 01:09:00,791
- Why?
1034
01:09:02,125 --> 01:09:02,958
- Come here.
1035
01:09:07,541 --> 01:09:09,958
I want you to lock this door and don’t open it for anyone,
1036
01:09:10,000 --> 01:09:12,000
including me, okay?
1037
01:09:12,041 --> 01:09:13,666
- But why?
1038
01:09:14,958 --> 01:09:15,791
- I love you.
1039
01:09:34,250 --> 01:09:35,083
Who is it?
1040
01:09:39,291 --> 01:09:40,166
Who’s there?
1041
01:09:56,000 --> 01:09:56,833
Hello?
1042
01:10:07,750 --> 01:10:09,333
- Hi, Amber!
1043
01:10:09,333 --> 01:10:12,291
I’m sorry I startled you.
1044
01:10:12,333 --> 01:10:14,791
Please open the door, we need to talk.
1045
01:10:15,958 --> 01:10:17,458
- My husband’s on his way home from work.
1046
01:10:17,500 --> 01:10:18,458
He’ll be here any minute.
1047
01:10:18,458 --> 01:10:19,625
You need to go.
1048
01:10:19,666 --> 01:10:21,666
- I just really need to talk to you.
1049
01:10:21,666 --> 01:10:23,875
- You really need to go home now.
1050
01:10:45,833 --> 01:10:47,166
- Mommy?
1051
01:10:47,208 --> 01:10:48,208
- It’s okay, Alex!
1052
01:10:56,416 --> 01:10:59,708
- I know you keep an extra key in the kitchen,
1053
01:10:59,750 --> 01:11:02,375
so I made a copy while you were out.
1054
01:11:02,375 --> 01:11:04,125
I hope you don’t mind.
1055
01:11:04,125 --> 01:11:06,000
- Please leave us alone.
1056
01:11:06,041 --> 01:11:09,791
- Okay, but you know, Amber, you don’t have to worry.
1057
01:11:09,791 --> 01:11:12,958
I would never hurt you, I just wanna talk.
1058
01:11:13,000 --> 01:11:15,708
- I don’t feel like talking, please go now.
1059
01:11:15,708 --> 01:11:18,666
- Okay, but we’re still friends, right?
1060
01:11:18,666 --> 01:11:22,875
I hope this doesn’t make things awkward between us.
1061
01:11:22,916 --> 01:11:24,083
- Sure, yes, of course.
1062
01:11:25,208 --> 01:11:30,125
- Okay, okay, good, good.
1063
01:11:30,125 --> 01:11:33,958
I’ll leave, I’ll leave, okay.
1064
01:11:36,791 --> 01:11:41,416
Oh, I did, I brought you something.
1065
01:11:41,416 --> 01:11:43,750
It’s right...
1066
01:11:59,000 --> 01:12:03,208
- Yes, I’d love to come in,
1067
01:12:05,083 --> 01:12:05,916
thank you.
1068
01:12:18,041 --> 01:12:20,291
- Come on, come on.
1069
01:12:20,333 --> 01:12:21,708
Thanks for calling the Reynolds.
1070
01:12:21,708 --> 01:12:23,125
Please leave a message.
1071
01:12:24,250 --> 01:12:25,458
Amber, Amber,
1072
01:12:25,500 --> 01:12:28,375
please, if you’re there, pick up now.
1073
01:12:28,375 --> 01:12:31,083
- Sorry, Pastor Zach, she’s unavailable.
1074
01:12:33,166 --> 01:12:35,833
- Amber, I need you to pick up the phone right now.
1075
01:12:38,041 --> 01:12:39,875
Okay, Amber, I’m gonna be there in five minutes.
1076
01:12:39,916 --> 01:12:40,916
I’ll be right there.
1077
01:12:42,416 --> 01:12:43,750
- Thanks for the tip.
1078
01:12:43,750 --> 01:12:45,416
Don’t wait up.
1079
01:13:01,583 --> 01:13:06,791
Hey, I gotta a crazy idea,
1080
01:13:08,083 --> 01:13:09,166
you wanna get married?
1081
01:13:11,791 --> 01:13:15,750
We can do it in the old city church
1082
01:13:16,958 --> 01:13:23,750
where Grandmamma and Pops got married.
1083
01:13:24,291 --> 01:13:26,083
They would like that very much.
1084
01:13:28,458 --> 01:13:29,291
You want to?
1085
01:13:31,083 --> 01:13:34,666
Yeah, me, too.
1086
01:13:42,208 --> 01:13:43,958
- Amber, Alex, Amber!
1087
01:13:46,333 --> 01:13:47,333
Amber, Alex!
1088
01:13:48,041 --> 01:13:49,208
- Daddy? - Yes.
1089
01:13:51,625 --> 01:13:53,208
Oh, thank God, you’re okay.
1090
01:13:53,250 --> 01:13:54,500
Where is mommy?
1091
01:13:56,000 --> 01:13:58,208
- He took her to the old church.
1092
01:13:58,208 --> 01:13:59,333
- Who took her?
1093
01:14:00,125 --> 01:14:01,083
- The man next door.
1094
01:14:03,000 --> 01:14:04,125
- Okay, come on, come on, come on.
1095
01:14:06,041 --> 01:14:07,541
- Alex, you had us a little worried.
1096
01:14:07,541 --> 01:14:08,250
Where’s Amber?
1097
01:14:08,250 --> 01:14:09,291
- I’m going to pick her up right now.
1098
01:14:09,291 --> 01:14:10,333
If you could just watch Alex-- - Yeah, sure.
1099
01:14:10,333 --> 01:14:10,958
- That would just be great.
1100
01:14:10,958 --> 01:14:12,125
- You know what, it’s a little cold out here,
1101
01:14:12,125 --> 01:14:13,875
how about we go get some hot chocolate, okay?
1102
01:14:46,583 --> 01:14:47,750
- Isn’t this beautiful?
1103
01:14:50,916 --> 01:14:54,375
Come on, there’s more.
1104
01:14:56,125 --> 01:15:00,250
Grandmamma used to bring me every Sunday.
1105
01:15:06,875 --> 01:15:08,958
This was my classroom.
1106
01:15:13,875 --> 01:15:15,708
I liked the stories of Jesus.
1107
01:15:17,083 --> 01:15:18,166
They said he loved me,
1108
01:15:21,875 --> 01:15:24,208
but his people didn’t.
1109
01:15:25,250 --> 01:15:26,541
They said I was strange,
1110
01:15:29,916 --> 01:15:33,083
everyone except for Miss Hanson, my Sunday School teacher.
1111
01:15:36,000 --> 01:15:36,875
She was nice,
1112
01:15:39,833 --> 01:15:40,666
like you.
1113
01:15:44,666 --> 01:15:50,333
Then she got married, she moved away.
1114
01:15:53,791 --> 01:15:55,666
I didn’t wanna come back here anymore.
1115
01:16:21,958 --> 01:16:24,083
They used to chase me down these hallways.
1116
01:16:27,875 --> 01:16:28,791
I can still...
1117
01:16:31,208 --> 01:16:32,958
I can still hear them laughing at me.
1118
01:16:36,250 --> 01:16:39,208
I don’t know why they didn’t like me.
1119
01:16:42,291 --> 01:16:43,958
I guess I just didn’t fit in.
1120
01:16:56,541 --> 01:17:03,666
Oh yeah, imagine what people would think
1121
01:17:04,166 --> 01:17:06,041
if they saw me here with you.
1122
01:17:07,250 --> 01:17:09,750
They’d be so jealous!
1123
01:17:14,208 --> 01:17:16,000
Ready, you ready?
1124
01:17:16,458 --> 01:17:21,375
Come on, it’s okay, don’t worry.
1125
01:17:21,416 --> 01:17:23,333
It’s okay, it’s okay.
1126
01:17:23,333 --> 01:17:24,916
You don’t have to be scared.
1127
01:17:27,583 --> 01:17:28,416
- Let her go!
1128
01:17:32,583 --> 01:17:34,583
Amber, are you okay, has he hurt you?
1129
01:17:34,625 --> 01:17:35,833
- She doesn’t wanna be with you.
1130
01:17:35,875 --> 01:17:37,458
She doesn’t wanna be with you anymore
1131
01:17:37,458 --> 01:17:40,541
’cause she doesn’t like mean people.
1132
01:17:41,958 --> 01:17:43,333
We’re gonna be happy together.
1133
01:17:43,375 --> 01:17:44,541
We’re gonna have a happy life.
1134
01:17:44,583 --> 01:17:45,583
Go ahead, tell him.
1135
01:17:47,333 --> 01:17:48,333
Tell him.
1136
01:17:51,250 --> 01:17:52,500
You don’t wanna be with me?
1137
01:17:54,291 --> 01:17:55,625
Then nobody does.
1138
01:18:03,125 --> 01:18:04,583
You win, Pastor Zach.
1139
01:18:06,875 --> 01:18:08,375
You always win.
1140
01:18:09,583 --> 01:18:12,916
Go ahead, I’d do it if the tables were turned.
1141
01:18:12,916 --> 01:18:14,083
There’s no witnesses.
1142
01:18:14,083 --> 01:18:17,083
No one will even know I’m gone.
1143
01:18:18,916 --> 01:18:20,583
- I’m not gonna shoot you.
1144
01:18:20,583 --> 01:18:23,541
- Oh, come on, drop the pastor act.
1145
01:18:23,541 --> 01:18:26,500
We both know who you really are.
1146
01:18:28,083 --> 01:18:30,625
- No, you know who I was.
1147
01:18:30,666 --> 01:18:32,166
That’s not me anymore.
1148
01:18:32,166 --> 01:18:33,833
God changed me, he can change you, too.
1149
01:18:33,875 --> 01:18:36,000
- You wanna change me so badly,
1150
01:18:36,000 --> 01:18:37,541
you don’t even know who I am.
1151
01:18:38,916 --> 01:18:40,125
- Of course, I do.
1152
01:18:40,166 --> 01:18:41,333
- Really?
1153
01:18:41,375 --> 01:18:42,541
What’s my name?
1154
01:18:47,041 --> 01:18:49,041
- I don’t think you ever told me.
1155
01:18:50,458 --> 01:18:51,625
- You never asked.
1156
01:18:52,750 --> 01:18:54,458
Nobody ever asks.
1157
01:18:56,166 --> 01:18:57,416
You didn’t care about me.
1158
01:18:57,458 --> 01:18:58,750
I wasn’t a person, I was just a project,
1159
01:18:58,750 --> 01:19:01,916
just another notch on your pulpit.
1160
01:19:04,375 --> 01:19:07,125
- I’m not perfect, you’re right,
1161
01:19:08,583 --> 01:19:10,458
but that doesn’t mean that God doesn’t love you perfectly.
1162
01:19:11,791 --> 01:19:13,583
He knows your name and he loves you.
1163
01:19:16,250 --> 01:19:17,333
- No, he doesn’t.
1164
01:19:19,916 --> 01:19:21,791
- He does love you.
1165
01:19:21,958 --> 01:19:24,708
I know it doesn’t always feel like he does, but it’s true.
1166
01:19:24,708 --> 01:19:26,000
- No, he doesn’t. - Zach.
1167
01:19:29,750 --> 01:19:30,916
- It’s okay.
1168
01:19:34,083 --> 01:19:36,916
No, no, no.
1169
01:19:37,416 --> 01:19:38,416
He wants to be
1170
01:19:38,416 --> 01:19:39,291
in a relationship with you.
1171
01:19:39,291 --> 01:19:41,166
- No, nobody does.
1172
01:19:41,166 --> 01:19:42,416
- Run!
1173
01:20:19,458 --> 01:20:25,458
- Hey, are we getting married today or what?
1174
01:20:26,833 --> 01:20:30,416
Pastor Zach is out of the picture.
1175
01:20:31,958 --> 01:20:34,291
There’s nothing holding us back now.
1176
01:20:37,375 --> 01:20:39,750
- What did you do to Zach?
1177
01:20:39,750 --> 01:20:40,916
What did you do to him?
1178
01:20:50,458 --> 01:20:51,250
Zach?
1179
01:20:56,041 --> 01:20:56,833
Zach?
1180
01:21:31,583 --> 01:21:33,583
- Wake up, dear friend, come on, please.
1181
01:21:37,250 --> 01:21:39,916
- Do you think God is mad at me?
1182
01:21:50,708 --> 01:21:52,875
- No, come on, come on.
1183
01:21:52,875 --> 01:21:56,500
No, no, no, hey, come on, just breathe.
1184
01:21:56,541 --> 01:21:58,500
Keep breathing, come on, keep breathing.
1185
01:22:37,416 --> 01:22:39,166
Rob Thompson is gone.
1186
01:22:40,666 --> 01:22:42,583
This is where I’m supposed to celebrate
1187
01:22:43,791 --> 01:22:45,875
or feel some sense of relief, but I don’t.
1188
01:22:47,291 --> 01:22:50,958
I was right about him, but he was right about me, too.
1189
01:22:52,041 --> 01:22:53,208
I didn’t care about him.
1190
01:22:54,416 --> 01:22:58,875
I thought I did, but I didn’t, not really.
1191
01:22:59,583 --> 01:23:01,500
He was a project to me.
1192
01:23:02,375 --> 01:23:05,000
Everyone always has been to some degree.
1193
01:23:06,125 --> 01:23:09,416
Do I even know how to love someone for real, like Jesus?
1194
01:23:10,791 --> 01:23:12,458
Or has my whole life been a show?
1195
01:23:30,666 --> 01:23:33,375
- You can’t keep beating yourself up forever over this.
1196
01:23:34,416 --> 01:23:35,541
Don’t go.
1197
01:23:36,625 --> 01:23:39,291
Let us love you and Amber back to restoration.
1198
01:23:40,166 --> 01:23:41,333
- No, I can’t.
1199
01:23:44,375 --> 01:23:45,583
How can I teach?
1200
01:23:45,583 --> 01:23:46,916
How can I tell them to love their neighbors
1201
01:23:46,958 --> 01:23:47,958
after what I did?
1202
01:23:48,666 --> 01:23:50,916
- What happened that night was not your fault.
1203
01:23:51,625 --> 01:23:53,166
You didn’t have a choice, Zach.
1204
01:23:54,500 --> 01:23:56,958
- No, but I made a lot of choices that led up to that.
1205
01:23:58,416 --> 01:24:00,250
I didn’t love my neighbor.
1206
01:24:00,833 --> 01:24:03,375
I’m not a good person, not good enough to preach.
1207
01:24:04,500 --> 01:24:08,250
- Neither am I, none of us are, you get that?
1208
01:24:09,125 --> 01:24:11,583
I mean, we’re all in need of God’s grace.
1209
01:24:14,208 --> 01:24:19,041
- I’m the pastor, I’m not supposed to need his grace.
1210
01:24:19,583 --> 01:24:22,958
- You’re not getting into heaven without it, brother.
1211
01:24:26,083 --> 01:24:27,250
- Take it easy, pastor.
1212
01:24:51,250 --> 01:24:54,625
Break time.
1213
01:25:24,708 --> 01:25:25,916
- What’s up, brother?
1214
01:25:25,916 --> 01:25:26,875
My name’s Jonas.
1215
01:25:29,708 --> 01:25:30,541
- Zach.
1216
01:25:30,916 --> 01:25:33,041
- What you got there, Zach, baloney?
1217
01:25:33,750 --> 01:25:36,083
Man, I haven’t had a baloney sandwich in years.
1218
01:25:37,875 --> 01:25:39,750
You know, I been watching you, brother.
1219
01:25:39,791 --> 01:25:41,208
You’re the hardest working dude in this place,
1220
01:25:41,208 --> 01:25:43,750
but I never see you smile or talk to anybody.
1221
01:25:43,791 --> 01:25:44,666
What’s your story?
1222
01:25:47,625 --> 01:25:49,750
- I don’t really have one.
1223
01:25:49,958 --> 01:25:52,208
- I doubt that, we all got a story.
1224
01:25:53,583 --> 01:25:55,166
You know what I see when I look at you?
1225
01:25:57,083 --> 01:25:58,083
- No.
1226
01:25:58,458 --> 01:26:00,416
- I see someone who’s hurting,
1227
01:26:00,416 --> 01:26:02,125
someone who’s tried to do the right thing with their life,
1228
01:26:02,166 --> 01:26:05,250
but for some reason, you just keep coming up short.
1229
01:26:05,958 --> 01:26:07,583
You know, maybe you’ve missed the mark
1230
01:26:07,625 --> 01:26:09,458
and now you feel hopeless and lost,
1231
01:26:09,458 --> 01:26:11,625
like God couldn’t possibly love you anymore.
1232
01:26:12,750 --> 01:26:14,583
Yeah, I’ve felt that way, too.
1233
01:26:16,416 --> 01:26:18,958
But you know, God doesn’t love like we do.
1234
01:26:20,125 --> 01:26:23,250
He doesn’t disown us, he doesn’t cheat on us,
1235
01:26:23,250 --> 01:26:26,166
he doesn’t divorce us when we let him down.
1236
01:26:26,208 --> 01:26:27,375
His love is greater than that.
1237
01:26:27,375 --> 01:26:28,541
- No, you don’t know me.
1238
01:26:29,500 --> 01:26:30,500
You don’t know what I’ve done.
1239
01:26:30,500 --> 01:26:32,166
God couldn’t use me.
1240
01:26:32,166 --> 01:26:35,750
- Zach, I’m looking at me and I’m looking at you.
1241
01:26:38,875 --> 01:26:41,375
I bet my peanut butter sandwich against your baloney
1242
01:26:41,416 --> 01:26:42,916
that I’ve done a lot worse,
1243
01:26:44,625 --> 01:26:46,291
and he uses me every day.
1244
01:26:47,291 --> 01:26:48,541
You don’t have to be perfect
1245
01:26:48,541 --> 01:26:50,916
to be loved by God and to serve him.
1246
01:26:51,625 --> 01:26:54,541
You just have to be willing and obedient.
1247
01:26:57,875 --> 01:26:59,375
- Why are you telling me this?
1248
01:27:00,875 --> 01:27:02,666
- Because you’re my neighbor,
1249
01:27:02,958 --> 01:27:04,416
and God’s real big on his kids
1250
01:27:04,416 --> 01:27:05,916
reaching out to our neighbors.
1251
01:27:09,208 --> 01:27:11,375
You just got the call back brother.
1252
01:27:11,375 --> 01:27:15,541
The question is, what are you gonna do about it?
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