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These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: 1 00:00:03,833 --> 00:00:05,125 Thanks for calling the Reynolds. 2 00:00:05,160 --> 00:00:06,625 Please leave a message. 3 00:00:08,166 --> 00:00:09,548 Hey there, Zach Reynolds, 4 00:00:09,583 --> 00:00:12,666 this is Pastor Jim of Life House Church. 5 00:00:12,708 --> 00:00:17,375 Actually I guess I should say, Pastor Zach Reynolds. 6 00:00:17,416 --> 00:00:19,187 I’m very pleased to let you know 7 00:00:19,222 --> 00:00:20,958 that the board meeting just wrapped, 8 00:00:21,000 --> 00:00:24,583 and they’ve loved your messages on loving your neighbor. 9 00:00:24,618 --> 00:00:27,250 We cannot wait to hear the rest of the series. 10 00:00:27,291 --> 00:00:28,958 You’ve been unanimously selected 11 00:00:28,993 --> 00:00:30,590 for the pastor position, brother. 12 00:00:30,625 --> 00:00:33,625 So say goodbye to that boring West Coast. 13 00:00:35,250 --> 00:00:37,416 Anyway, welcome to the beautiful Midwest. 14 00:00:37,458 --> 00:00:41,125 We’ll see you when you get here, God bless. 15 00:02:25,708 --> 00:02:27,340 Welcome home, Reynolds family. 16 00:02:27,375 --> 00:02:29,666 We weren’t expecting you till later tonight. 17 00:02:29,708 --> 00:02:30,881 Pastor Zach. 18 00:02:30,916 --> 00:02:31,708 Hey, it’s good to see you. 19 00:02:31,750 --> 00:02:33,041 Good to see you. 20 00:02:33,076 --> 00:02:34,298 Here are the keys. 21 00:02:34,333 --> 00:02:35,666 I was just tidying up a bit. 22 00:02:35,708 --> 00:02:37,416 If you have any issues, just let me know. 23 00:02:37,451 --> 00:02:38,416 Definitely. 24 00:02:38,458 --> 00:02:39,333 You must be Amber. - Hi. 25 00:02:40,791 --> 00:02:42,958 Pastor Zach told us so many wonderful things about you. 26 00:02:42,993 --> 00:02:44,090 Oh, Pastor Zach. 27 00:02:44,125 --> 00:02:45,256 We just love your book. 28 00:02:45,291 --> 00:02:47,250 We gave a copy to everyone in the church. 29 00:02:47,291 --> 00:02:49,458 Your story, it’s so inspiring. 30 00:02:49,500 --> 00:02:50,875 I heard you love to shop. 31 00:02:50,910 --> 00:02:52,475 Have you been downtown yet? 32 00:02:52,510 --> 00:02:54,006 No, we came right here. 33 00:02:54,041 --> 00:02:56,416 Pastor Zach didn’t wanna make any stops. 34 00:02:56,458 --> 00:02:57,958 All business, I’m telling you. 35 00:02:57,993 --> 00:02:59,121 What can I say? 36 00:02:59,156 --> 00:03:00,250 Yours, too. 37 00:03:00,291 --> 00:03:02,173 My husband practically lives at the church, 38 00:03:02,208 --> 00:03:05,041 but that doesn’t have to stop us girls from having any fun. 39 00:03:05,083 --> 00:03:06,583 Do you like shoes? 40 00:03:06,618 --> 00:03:08,048 Um, love shoes. 41 00:03:08,083 --> 00:03:10,631 Okay, girl, let me tell you, you’re about to find 42 00:03:10,666 --> 00:03:13,750 your new happy place because Wooded Plains may be small, 43 00:03:13,791 --> 00:03:15,791 but the shops here are amazing. 44 00:03:15,826 --> 00:03:17,079 Isn’t it perfect? 45 00:03:17,114 --> 00:03:18,682 Didn’t I tell you? 46 00:03:18,717 --> 00:03:20,250 It’s a dream. 47 00:03:20,291 --> 00:03:23,291 I mean, a beautiful home, peace, quiet, 48 00:03:23,333 --> 00:03:26,500 a huge yard for Alex to run around and play, 49 00:03:27,708 --> 00:03:29,875 nothing could go wrong in a place like this. 50 00:03:31,750 --> 00:03:32,666 How about a tour? 51 00:03:34,291 --> 00:03:36,625 Okay, now is that your house? 52 00:03:36,666 --> 00:03:39,375 Oh, no, we live down this street here. 53 00:03:39,416 --> 00:03:41,000 Oh, well, then who lives there? 54 00:03:41,035 --> 00:03:42,208 A potential babysitter? 55 00:03:43,416 --> 00:03:46,006 Probably not, but we do have plenty 56 00:03:46,041 --> 00:03:48,916 of young eager babysitters at the church. 57 00:03:48,958 --> 00:03:51,291 I don’t remember anyone coming or going when I was here. 58 00:03:51,326 --> 00:03:52,583 I thought it was vacant. 59 00:03:52,625 --> 00:03:54,458 Does he attend church? 60 00:03:54,500 --> 00:03:56,833 No, he’s actually one of the few people 61 00:03:56,868 --> 00:03:58,340 in town who doesn’t. 62 00:03:58,375 --> 00:04:00,541 Pastor James and I, we’ve been over there several times, 63 00:04:00,583 --> 00:04:03,416 but he won’t answer the door. 64 00:04:03,458 --> 00:04:06,583 He’s a little strange, but he’s harmless. 65 00:04:06,618 --> 00:04:08,083 I’ll stop by and invite him. 66 00:04:08,125 --> 00:04:09,333 I have a way with people. 67 00:04:09,375 --> 00:04:11,631 Oh, well, I love your confidence. 68 00:04:11,666 --> 00:04:14,500 Maybe you’ll be the one to finally introduce him to God. 69 00:04:14,535 --> 00:04:15,548 I hope so. 70 00:04:15,583 --> 00:04:17,083 Wanna go inside? 71 00:04:36,875 --> 00:04:40,208 Honey, there’s 14 jets in our tub, eight for your feet. 72 00:04:40,250 --> 00:04:42,458 It’s like a masseuse made out of water. 73 00:04:44,041 --> 00:04:45,173 Hey, what are we gonna do 74 00:04:45,208 --> 00:04:47,166 about getting the neighbor into a service? 75 00:04:55,083 --> 00:04:58,250 Well, I think the first thing you need to ask yourself 76 00:04:58,291 --> 00:05:00,625 is why is it so important to you? 77 00:05:00,666 --> 00:05:03,645 Well, it’s important to me because I’m a pastor 78 00:05:03,680 --> 00:05:06,819 and it’s a pastor’s job to get people into church. 79 00:05:06,854 --> 00:05:09,958 Oh, good, I was worried it was a macho ego thing 80 00:05:09,993 --> 00:05:11,340 to impress your boss. 81 00:05:11,375 --> 00:05:14,500 No way, no, no, I’m just being a good Christian neighbor 82 00:05:14,541 --> 00:05:16,673 who likes a little job security. 83 00:05:16,708 --> 00:05:20,041 Well, by all means, get him saved, Pastor. 84 00:05:20,083 --> 00:05:22,958 I want my grandbabies visiting me in this house. 85 00:05:31,291 --> 00:05:33,375 I got you a little housewarming gift, Pastor. 86 00:05:33,416 --> 00:05:36,416 Uh, I though you were shoe shopping. 87 00:05:36,458 --> 00:05:37,791 I’ll be right back. 88 00:05:37,826 --> 00:05:39,125 I’ll be right here. 89 00:05:43,041 --> 00:05:44,375 Zach, what is that? 90 00:05:44,416 --> 00:05:46,250 It’s nothing, it’s nothing, just go get dressed. 91 00:05:46,291 --> 00:05:47,791 Is that real? 92 00:05:47,833 --> 00:05:49,500 Yes, of course, it’s real, but you don’t need to worry, 93 00:05:49,541 --> 00:05:50,756 it’s completely safe. 94 00:05:50,791 --> 00:05:52,791 Obviously, it just fell out of a box. 95 00:05:52,833 --> 00:05:54,256 When did you get that? 96 00:05:54,291 --> 00:05:55,791 I got it when we lived in the city. 97 00:05:59,291 --> 00:06:01,166 The South Side wasn’t exactly the safest neighborhood 98 00:06:01,208 --> 00:06:04,124 and it’s my job to protect you and Alex. 99 00:06:04,159 --> 00:06:06,683 Okay, we’re not in South Side anymore. 100 00:06:06,718 --> 00:06:09,208 You’re a pastor, get rid of the gun. 101 00:06:10,416 --> 00:06:13,333 I don’t know, we are not country people. 102 00:06:14,500 --> 00:06:17,208 I mean, what if we get attacked by a goat. 103 00:06:17,250 --> 00:06:18,666 A goat. - Or a deer. 104 00:06:18,708 --> 00:06:20,875 Or a squirrel or a dog. 105 00:06:22,083 --> 00:06:23,916 Ha ha, get rid of the gun. 106 00:06:25,625 --> 00:06:26,958 I will get rid of the gun 107 00:06:28,208 --> 00:06:29,458 if you get rid of those sweatpants. 108 00:06:30,916 --> 00:06:31,750 Deal. - Deal. 109 00:07:01,791 --> 00:07:03,291 Hello, anybody home? 110 00:07:10,791 --> 00:07:11,791 I guess he’s not here, sweetie. 111 00:07:11,833 --> 00:07:13,500 It’s okay, we’ll come back later. 112 00:07:16,250 --> 00:07:18,458 Oh, well, hey there, neighbor. 113 00:07:18,500 --> 00:07:21,500 My name is Amber, this is my son, Alex. 114 00:07:21,535 --> 00:07:23,666 We just moved in next door. 115 00:07:23,701 --> 00:07:24,500 Hi. 116 00:07:27,541 --> 00:07:29,041 I hope you like chocolate chip. 117 00:07:29,083 --> 00:07:30,416 As far as I know, everyone does, 118 00:07:30,458 --> 00:07:32,291 so I thought they’d be a good choice. 119 00:07:37,166 --> 00:07:38,750 Oh my goodness, do you have a nut allergy? 120 00:07:38,791 --> 00:07:41,333 I am so sorry, I should have brought fruit. 121 00:07:41,368 --> 00:07:43,333 No, no, I’ll take them. 122 00:07:44,458 --> 00:07:45,875 Oh, great, I hope you like them. 123 00:07:47,000 --> 00:07:48,083 Why did you do this? 124 00:07:49,291 --> 00:07:51,298 Well, we just moved in next door 125 00:07:51,333 --> 00:07:53,166 and thought it would be a nice way to get out 126 00:07:53,201 --> 00:07:54,333 and meet the neighbors. 127 00:07:56,083 --> 00:07:58,583 Did your mommy make enough cookies 128 00:07:58,618 --> 00:08:00,392 for everyone on the street? 129 00:08:00,427 --> 00:08:02,166 Nope, just enough for you, 130 00:08:02,208 --> 00:08:05,166 so you can come to our church and not go to hell. 131 00:08:06,375 --> 00:08:07,798 Cute kid. 132 00:08:07,833 --> 00:08:12,416 Nothing like a gift with a motive to start a friendship. 133 00:08:12,458 --> 00:08:13,590 That’s not... 134 00:08:13,625 --> 00:08:16,833 Alex, that’s not entirely true. 135 00:08:18,875 --> 00:08:22,250 Of course, we would love for you to come to church, 136 00:08:22,291 --> 00:08:26,291 but we also just want to get to know you, we’re neighbors. 137 00:08:27,500 --> 00:08:31,666 So your husband’s the new pastor over there. 138 00:08:31,708 --> 00:08:32,583 Yes, he is. 139 00:08:33,583 --> 00:08:36,062 I don’t go to church. 140 00:08:36,097 --> 00:08:38,541 Pastors bring me down. 141 00:08:39,916 --> 00:08:42,208 My husband will do anything but bring you down. 142 00:09:36,375 --> 00:09:37,708 God is good. 143 00:09:37,750 --> 00:09:38,916 All the time. 144 00:09:40,375 --> 00:09:44,041 Firing up 1,000 people for Jesus, changing the world, 145 00:09:44,076 --> 00:09:45,958 sitting in a hot tub with my hot wife. 146 00:09:49,458 --> 00:09:50,916 Was I right about this place? 147 00:09:52,250 --> 00:09:55,250 It’s perfect, everything here is perfect. 148 00:09:55,285 --> 00:09:56,673 I told you, I told you. 149 00:09:56,708 --> 00:09:58,375 You said, "No, no, no, we’re not living the city 150 00:09:58,416 --> 00:09:59,881 "to move to the country." 151 00:09:59,916 --> 00:10:03,083 And then you came here, and it’s perfect and it’s amazing. 152 00:10:04,375 --> 00:10:06,250 And I told you, and I preached a sermon 153 00:10:06,285 --> 00:10:08,125 about how good change is this morning. 154 00:10:08,166 --> 00:10:09,631 You should actually check it out. 155 00:10:09,666 --> 00:10:13,416 You can download ’cause I am officially on a podcast. 156 00:10:14,916 --> 00:10:17,583 Careful there, Pastor Zach, pride comes before the fall. 157 00:10:17,618 --> 00:10:18,500 Oh, no, no, no, no, no. 158 00:10:18,541 --> 00:10:19,923 This whole town is gonna know 159 00:10:19,958 --> 00:10:23,125 that Pastor Zach and his family have arrived! 160 00:10:23,166 --> 00:10:24,000 Oh, be quiet. 161 00:10:28,291 --> 00:10:30,375 And that’s my first project right next door. 162 00:10:34,458 --> 00:10:36,458 He’s not a project, he’s a person. 163 00:10:38,666 --> 00:10:40,166 You get that, right? 164 00:10:40,201 --> 00:10:41,666 You know what I mean. 165 00:11:06,875 --> 00:11:09,750 Hey, neighbor, I’m Zach Reynolds. 166 00:11:09,791 --> 00:11:11,458 Me and my family just moved next door. 167 00:11:11,493 --> 00:11:13,125 I though I’d come over and say hello. 168 00:11:15,875 --> 00:11:17,708 Have you lived in Wooded Plains long? 169 00:11:19,125 --> 00:11:22,590 Yes. 170 00:11:22,625 --> 00:11:23,583 Have you ever been to Life House? 171 00:11:23,618 --> 00:11:24,416 No. 172 00:11:25,875 --> 00:11:26,916 You should come by sometime. 173 00:11:26,951 --> 00:11:28,166 It’s a great place. 174 00:11:28,208 --> 00:11:29,333 I’m actually about to start a sermon series 175 00:11:29,368 --> 00:11:30,590 based on my book. 176 00:11:30,625 --> 00:11:31,541 I don’t know if you’ve read it. 177 00:11:31,583 --> 00:11:33,131 It was called "Cutting the Fat." 178 00:11:33,166 --> 00:11:35,875 It’s about identifying the things in life we need to change. 179 00:11:35,916 --> 00:11:37,458 I think it’s really important. 180 00:11:37,493 --> 00:11:39,000 Never been there. 181 00:11:41,541 --> 00:11:43,541 Okay, well, if you ever wanna drop by, 182 00:11:43,576 --> 00:11:45,541 the services are at 9:00 and 11:00, 183 00:11:45,583 --> 00:11:47,625 and let me know if you ever need anything. 184 00:11:49,083 --> 00:11:50,583 You can send your wife back over 185 00:11:50,625 --> 00:11:51,875 with some more cookies. 186 00:11:54,000 --> 00:11:55,833 Yeah, she is an amazing chef. 187 00:11:57,208 --> 00:11:58,375 That’s why I married her. 188 00:12:00,166 --> 00:12:03,625 But it does make maintaining this waistline a little harder. 189 00:12:05,958 --> 00:12:07,791 But, yeah, I’ll tell her you enjoyed them. 190 00:12:07,833 --> 00:12:10,708 You’re gonna tell her to send me more, right? 191 00:12:12,208 --> 00:12:14,916 You said if I ever needed anything to let you know. 192 00:12:16,541 --> 00:12:18,708 Or was that an empty promise? 193 00:12:19,875 --> 00:12:22,250 I’ll have her make another batch. 194 00:12:22,291 --> 00:12:23,923 You have a blessed day. 195 00:12:23,958 --> 00:12:26,291 Once a week, please. 196 00:12:27,875 --> 00:12:29,625 On Thursdays would be nice. 197 00:12:31,041 --> 00:12:33,103 And I would very much prefer for her 198 00:12:33,138 --> 00:12:35,166 to bring them alone in the future. 199 00:12:35,208 --> 00:12:39,708 Children make me uncomfortable. 200 00:12:42,541 --> 00:12:44,125 I’ll see what I can do. 201 00:12:45,458 --> 00:12:46,291 It was a pleasure getting to know you, 202 00:12:46,333 --> 00:12:47,708 Pastor Zach Reynolds. 203 00:12:49,250 --> 00:12:52,166 I look forward to getting to know your family much better. 204 00:12:58,458 --> 00:12:59,375 Hey, sweetie. 205 00:13:01,291 --> 00:13:02,958 I saw you talking to the neighbor. 206 00:13:03,000 --> 00:13:04,423 How’d it go? 207 00:13:04,458 --> 00:13:06,625 Yeah, it was strange. 208 00:13:06,666 --> 00:13:08,048 Hey, listen, I don’t think it’s a good idea 209 00:13:08,083 --> 00:13:11,125 for you or Alex to go over there when I’m not around, okay? 210 00:13:11,166 --> 00:13:13,756 What, why not? 211 00:13:13,791 --> 00:13:15,208 He just seems a little off. 212 00:13:15,250 --> 00:13:16,715 It’s probably nothing. 213 00:13:16,750 --> 00:13:18,833 I just think it’s a good idea to keep our distance 214 00:13:18,868 --> 00:13:20,208 until we know him a little better. 215 00:13:20,250 --> 00:13:21,458 Well, how am I supposed to get to know him 216 00:13:21,500 --> 00:13:23,000 any better if I keep my distance? 217 00:13:23,958 --> 00:13:25,416 You know what I mean. 218 00:13:25,451 --> 00:13:26,840 Okay, I love you, 219 00:13:26,875 --> 00:13:28,875 but you sound a little ridiculous right now. 220 00:13:28,910 --> 00:13:32,666 I mean, is he strange, yes, 221 00:13:32,708 --> 00:13:35,673 but he’s just lonely and needs some friends, 222 00:13:35,708 --> 00:13:38,833 and maybe that’s why God brought us into his life. 223 00:13:38,875 --> 00:13:41,375 I know, you’re probably right, I just-- 224 00:13:41,416 --> 00:13:44,548 We are called to be a light in this world, Pastor. 225 00:13:44,583 --> 00:13:47,375 If we avoid everyone who makes us a little uncomfortable, 226 00:13:47,410 --> 00:13:49,041 what are we going to illuminate? 227 00:13:49,083 --> 00:13:51,250 No, you’re right, we will get to know him. 228 00:13:51,291 --> 00:13:54,125 Let’s just go it together initially, okay? 229 00:13:54,160 --> 00:13:54,958 Okay, weirdo. 230 00:13:56,875 --> 00:13:57,666 I love you. 231 00:13:58,000 --> 00:14:00,416 Hey-- oh, and tell Alex that he... 232 00:14:12,541 --> 00:14:14,666 Oh my goodness, sweetie, are you okay? 233 00:14:14,701 --> 00:14:15,875 Yeah, I’m fine. 234 00:14:17,583 --> 00:14:18,750 Is it broken? 235 00:14:18,791 --> 00:14:20,833 No, it’s just sprained, thank God. 236 00:14:20,875 --> 00:14:22,083 What happened? 237 00:14:22,125 --> 00:14:23,916 Well, the brakes went out on the car. 238 00:14:23,951 --> 00:14:25,413 You almost hit a little kid. 239 00:14:25,448 --> 00:14:26,875 Miraculously, everyone’s okay. 240 00:14:27,833 --> 00:14:29,965 Oh, thank goodness. 241 00:14:30,000 --> 00:14:32,006 Okay, well, come on, let’s get you home. 242 00:14:32,041 --> 00:14:34,041 Actually, I was gonna get a ride back to church with Jim, 243 00:14:34,076 --> 00:14:35,458 if that’s all right with you? 244 00:14:36,375 --> 00:14:38,958 Hey, I tried, I know, 245 00:14:39,000 --> 00:14:40,673 but this guy’s got preaching on his heart, 246 00:14:40,708 --> 00:14:43,083 and I don’t think an injury’s gonna slow him down. 247 00:14:44,000 --> 00:14:45,375 Okay, I want you to call me 248 00:14:45,416 --> 00:14:48,548 if you feel any pain or nauseous or dizzy, 249 00:14:48,583 --> 00:14:50,916 and make sure he ices it, and don’t get home too late. 250 00:14:50,951 --> 00:14:53,083 Okay, I won’t, I promise. 251 00:14:53,416 --> 00:14:54,583 I’ll have him home for dinner. 252 00:14:54,666 --> 00:14:56,500 You better. - I will, I will. 253 00:15:23,041 --> 00:15:28,208 Oh, hey there, neighbor, you startled me. 254 00:15:29,125 --> 00:15:33,333 Oh, I’m sorry, I was just coming over to return the plate. 255 00:15:34,375 --> 00:15:37,166 Thanks for the cookies, they were delicious. 256 00:15:37,201 --> 00:15:38,958 I ate every one of them. 257 00:15:39,416 --> 00:15:42,375 Oh, well, thank you, I’m glad you enjoyed them. 258 00:15:42,410 --> 00:15:45,330 Oh, I did, I even asked Pastor Zach 259 00:15:45,365 --> 00:15:48,250 to tell you to bake me some more. 260 00:15:48,291 --> 00:15:50,666 Did he tell you I said that? 261 00:15:50,708 --> 00:15:53,798 He did not, but I would love to. 262 00:15:53,833 --> 00:15:57,833 Oh, well, I guess Pastor Zach is a busy guy. 263 00:16:04,250 --> 00:16:05,583 That’s a beautiful hot tub. 264 00:16:06,791 --> 00:16:08,833 I know, right? - Yeah. 265 00:16:10,166 --> 00:16:12,750 We are so blessed to be in this place. 266 00:16:13,875 --> 00:16:14,833 God is good. 267 00:16:16,708 --> 00:16:18,000 All the time, right? 268 00:16:19,875 --> 00:16:20,708 Yeah. 269 00:16:24,708 --> 00:16:28,131 You know, if you ever wanna come hang out 270 00:16:28,166 --> 00:16:30,541 or take a dip in the hot tub, you’re more than welcome to. 271 00:16:30,583 --> 00:16:32,750 I mean, God didn’t bless us with this beautiful place 272 00:16:32,785 --> 00:16:34,750 so we can keep it all to ourselves. 273 00:16:34,791 --> 00:16:37,381 Wow, really? - Absolutely. 274 00:16:37,416 --> 00:16:40,916 Well, I guess it would be rude of me 275 00:16:40,951 --> 00:16:43,666 to turn down your invitation. 276 00:16:46,666 --> 00:16:49,750 I’ve got to say, I’ve never had a neighbor 277 00:16:49,791 --> 00:16:52,125 be so kind to me before. 278 00:16:52,160 --> 00:16:53,333 You know what? 279 00:16:53,375 --> 00:16:55,375 I was actually just about to head in. 280 00:16:55,410 --> 00:16:57,590 Oh, really? 281 00:16:57,625 --> 00:16:59,090 Well, that’s sad, 282 00:16:59,125 --> 00:17:02,875 I was kinda hoping to run a few questions by you. 283 00:17:04,833 --> 00:17:05,625 About what? 284 00:17:07,291 --> 00:17:08,458 About God. 285 00:17:14,125 --> 00:17:16,750 I guess I could spare a few minutes. 286 00:17:16,791 --> 00:17:17,625 Great. 287 00:17:27,250 --> 00:17:31,583 So Pastor Zach asked me to visit the church this Sunday, 288 00:17:33,000 --> 00:17:37,166 and now I’m feeling all this kind of turmoil inside. 289 00:17:38,333 --> 00:17:42,333 Part of me knows that Christians are rude 290 00:17:42,375 --> 00:17:45,875 and they’re cliquey and they’re judgmental people 291 00:17:45,916 --> 00:17:48,250 who only want to make me feel bad about myself. 292 00:17:52,208 --> 00:17:56,916 But then again, you two have been so gosh darn nice 293 00:17:56,958 --> 00:18:01,625 that I’m almost tempted to give it another shot, 294 00:18:01,660 --> 00:18:04,291 to see if this church is different. 295 00:18:04,326 --> 00:18:05,090 It really is. 296 00:18:05,125 --> 00:18:06,791 You have to, just once. 297 00:18:07,916 --> 00:18:10,208 I mean, everyone’s just gonna love on you. 298 00:18:10,250 --> 00:18:12,333 You’ve never met such a great group of people. 299 00:18:15,083 --> 00:18:18,291 All right, I’ll do it, for you. 300 00:18:19,958 --> 00:18:22,833 But if anyone tells me that I’m a horrible person 301 00:18:22,868 --> 00:18:24,333 or that I’m going to hell, 302 00:18:25,958 --> 00:18:27,500 I’m holding you personally responsible 303 00:18:27,535 --> 00:18:29,375 for my crushed spirit. 304 00:18:30,500 --> 00:18:31,333 Deal. 305 00:18:33,250 --> 00:18:34,083 Deal. 306 00:18:42,833 --> 00:18:47,541 You know, huh, it’s true what they say 307 00:18:47,583 --> 00:18:49,916 about a Christian’s eyes. 308 00:18:51,041 --> 00:18:52,465 And what’s that? 309 00:18:52,500 --> 00:18:56,333 Well, they say that when a person sees Jesus, 310 00:19:00,166 --> 00:19:03,708 the eyes become all bright and sparkly. 311 00:19:08,125 --> 00:19:10,125 Your eyes do that. 312 00:19:11,583 --> 00:19:12,791 That’s nice. 313 00:19:16,583 --> 00:19:17,625 You’re so beautiful. 314 00:19:19,416 --> 00:19:20,750 That’s why I married her. 315 00:19:22,166 --> 00:19:24,375 I thought you married her because she could bake. 316 00:19:25,625 --> 00:19:26,833 I married her for a lot of reasons. 317 00:19:26,868 --> 00:19:27,666 I bet. 318 00:19:29,166 --> 00:19:31,458 Your lovely young bride asked me to join her in the hot tub. 319 00:19:31,493 --> 00:19:32,833 I hope you don’t mind. 320 00:19:34,250 --> 00:19:35,208 Why would I mind? 321 00:19:37,791 --> 00:19:38,625 Exactly. 322 00:19:39,875 --> 00:19:41,208 What happened to your hand? 323 00:19:43,833 --> 00:19:44,666 I bumped it. 324 00:19:46,083 --> 00:19:47,625 Hey, honey, it’s been a long day, what’s for dinner? 325 00:19:47,660 --> 00:19:49,958 Um, I thought I’d make some chili. 326 00:19:49,993 --> 00:19:51,000 Does that sound good? 327 00:19:52,250 --> 00:19:53,416 Mm, yummy. 328 00:19:55,625 --> 00:19:59,208 The water’s great, pastor, come on in. 329 00:20:01,916 --> 00:20:03,250 You know your way home. 330 00:20:16,541 --> 00:20:18,041 Please don’t be angry. 331 00:20:36,666 --> 00:20:38,416 Why do you think I’m angry? 332 00:20:40,416 --> 00:20:41,958 I’m getting through to him. 333 00:20:42,000 --> 00:20:44,562 He wants to believe, sweetie, he’s just... 334 00:20:44,597 --> 00:20:47,125 He’s nervous, he feels like Christians 335 00:20:47,166 --> 00:20:48,715 are always judging him. 336 00:20:48,750 --> 00:20:50,875 Well, maybe his actions warrant the fear. 337 00:20:52,875 --> 00:20:55,708 Obviously, nothing happened. 338 00:20:55,750 --> 00:20:57,465 He just wanted to talk about God. 339 00:20:57,500 --> 00:20:59,416 In the hot tub, while I’m at work? 340 00:20:59,451 --> 00:21:00,625 That’s not okay, Amber. 341 00:21:00,666 --> 00:21:02,083 Okay, come on, seriously? 342 00:21:02,125 --> 00:21:03,340 What do you think happened? 343 00:21:03,375 --> 00:21:05,416 I don’t know, but I told you this morning 344 00:21:05,458 --> 00:21:08,166 not to hang out with him, and I come home to this? 345 00:21:08,201 --> 00:21:09,750 What am I supposed to think? 346 00:21:17,416 --> 00:21:18,250 Wait. 347 00:21:19,625 --> 00:21:20,458 What? 348 00:21:21,625 --> 00:21:22,708 Are you jealous? 349 00:21:25,125 --> 00:21:28,125 No, no, I’m not jealous, I just want you to listen to me. 350 00:21:29,291 --> 00:21:32,548 No, I think you’re a little jealous. 351 00:21:32,583 --> 00:21:35,916 Are you worried that I’m into the creepy hermit type? 352 00:21:35,958 --> 00:21:38,041 Well, you were into me when I was a big fat guy, 353 00:21:38,083 --> 00:21:39,437 but you’re married now. 354 00:21:39,472 --> 00:21:40,791 No more pity crushes. 355 00:21:41,916 --> 00:21:42,750 Pity crush? 356 00:21:44,541 --> 00:21:46,916 That was no pity crush. 357 00:21:46,958 --> 00:21:49,791 I fell in love with you because I saw the man inside 358 00:21:49,833 --> 00:21:51,083 underneath all of that. 359 00:21:52,291 --> 00:21:53,958 I didn’t care what you looked like. 360 00:21:55,708 --> 00:21:58,250 Well, they say that love makes you blind as a bat. 361 00:21:59,458 --> 00:22:00,750 Maybe I should be worried. 362 00:22:01,833 --> 00:22:03,756 I wouldn’t be worried. 363 00:22:03,791 --> 00:22:06,333 I’m blind as a bat and faithful as a penguin. 364 00:22:06,375 --> 00:22:07,791 You’re stuck with me, pastor. 365 00:22:14,916 --> 00:22:17,625 Just don’t hang out with him when I’m not home, okay? 366 00:22:17,666 --> 00:22:18,500 Okay. 367 00:23:09,208 --> 00:23:11,958 Oh, I’m so sorry, I didn’t mean to startle you. 368 00:23:11,993 --> 00:23:13,423 I’m baking zucchini bread. 369 00:23:13,458 --> 00:23:15,423 I wanted to see if you and Alex wanted to join me? 370 00:23:15,458 --> 00:23:18,250 Oh, hi, Evie, sorry, I’m just a little jumpy today. 371 00:23:18,291 --> 00:23:19,875 I thought you were... 372 00:23:21,250 --> 00:23:22,548 The boogeyman? 373 00:23:22,583 --> 00:23:25,791 No, it’s silly, it’s just Pastor Zach’s 374 00:23:25,826 --> 00:23:28,965 a little uncomfortable with the man next door 375 00:23:29,000 --> 00:23:33,250 and asked that I not let him come around when he’s at work. 376 00:23:33,291 --> 00:23:36,583 Oh, that’s good advice for any married woman. 377 00:23:38,125 --> 00:23:39,666 But I hope he didn’t say anything in front of the neighbor. 378 00:23:39,708 --> 00:23:40,673 Oh, no, of course not. 379 00:23:40,708 --> 00:23:42,729 It’s a non-issue, really. 380 00:23:42,764 --> 00:23:44,715 Good, well, whatever it is, 381 00:23:44,750 --> 00:23:46,048 I hope it doesn’t distract him 382 00:23:46,083 --> 00:23:48,083 from being an extension of God’s love. 383 00:23:49,291 --> 00:23:51,666 After all, that is our true calling. 384 00:25:26,750 --> 00:25:28,083 Hey, neighbor. 385 00:25:30,916 --> 00:25:31,750 How’s it going? 386 00:25:31,791 --> 00:25:32,625 Glad you made it. 387 00:25:33,875 --> 00:25:35,458 What’d you think of the service? 388 00:25:35,500 --> 00:25:39,250 Interesting, a little showy perhaps. 389 00:25:40,666 --> 00:25:44,333 So you really believe that God can change people? 390 00:25:46,041 --> 00:25:49,666 Absolutely, in fact, I think God is the only one who can. 391 00:25:49,708 --> 00:25:50,881 See, I have a problem with that. 392 00:25:50,916 --> 00:25:54,208 If God has the power to change people, 393 00:25:54,250 --> 00:25:57,298 then why doesn’t he just do it 394 00:25:57,333 --> 00:26:01,125 instead of waiting around for us to destroy each other? 395 00:26:02,291 --> 00:26:04,166 Pastor Zach, I’m so sorry to interrupt, 396 00:26:04,208 --> 00:26:06,041 but I’ve got Dr. Riley on the phone, 397 00:26:06,083 --> 00:26:08,131 and he has a terminally ill patient 398 00:26:08,166 --> 00:26:10,791 that’s requesting a visit from you this afternoon. 399 00:26:10,833 --> 00:26:12,541 He’s not expected to make it 400 00:26:12,576 --> 00:26:14,215 through the evening. - Oh, no. 401 00:26:14,250 --> 00:26:16,208 Would you be a dear and be able to stop by? 402 00:26:16,243 --> 00:26:17,708 Absolutely, yeah, I’ll be there. 403 00:26:17,750 --> 00:26:18,916 You’re amazing. 404 00:26:20,041 --> 00:26:21,708 Dr. Riley, he’ll be... 405 00:26:21,750 --> 00:26:22,840 Who is she? 406 00:26:22,875 --> 00:26:24,604 Oh, that’s Britney, my assistant. 407 00:26:24,639 --> 00:26:26,333 I’m pretty sure I told you about her. 408 00:26:26,375 --> 00:26:27,750 I don’t think you have. 409 00:26:27,785 --> 00:26:29,090 Really, she’s great. 410 00:26:29,125 --> 00:26:30,916 Hey, so we should set up a meeting this week. 411 00:26:30,951 --> 00:26:32,541 Yes, maybe we can meet at your house. 412 00:26:32,583 --> 00:26:35,062 Maybe Amber can cook us dinner. 413 00:26:35,097 --> 00:26:37,541 You’re an amazing cook, I bet. 414 00:26:37,583 --> 00:26:39,916 I do know my way around the kitchen. 415 00:26:39,951 --> 00:26:41,340 I bet. 416 00:26:41,375 --> 00:26:42,166 You know, I think my office might be more appropriate. 417 00:26:42,201 --> 00:26:43,041 Let’s do it there. 418 00:26:44,291 --> 00:26:46,958 Okay, well, it’s a very busy week. 419 00:26:47,000 --> 00:26:49,708 I can meet on Tuesday. 420 00:26:51,416 --> 00:26:53,083 Zach, hon, they’re losing him. 421 00:26:53,118 --> 00:26:54,548 We need you now. 422 00:26:54,583 --> 00:26:57,458 Okay, set it up, I will be there. 423 00:27:01,833 --> 00:27:04,333 I swear, Mr. Popular, right? 424 00:27:04,375 --> 00:27:07,416 It can be so hard to get him to do what I want sometimes. 425 00:27:08,750 --> 00:27:10,125 That’s reassuring. 426 00:27:27,375 --> 00:27:28,541 Guess what day it is. 427 00:27:30,541 --> 00:27:31,708 It’s a beautiful day. 428 00:27:31,750 --> 00:27:34,090 It is a beautiful, wonderful, amazing day. 429 00:27:34,125 --> 00:27:36,958 I just got back from watching someone slip into eternity 430 00:27:37,000 --> 00:27:39,416 with full certainty of where they are going. 431 00:27:40,791 --> 00:27:45,375 It was amazing, it was peaceful, it was intoxicating. 432 00:27:47,083 --> 00:27:48,333 I love my job. 433 00:27:49,458 --> 00:27:51,416 Congratulations. 434 00:27:53,583 --> 00:27:54,416 What’s wrong? 435 00:27:56,291 --> 00:27:57,423 Is it about dinner? 436 00:27:57,458 --> 00:27:59,166 I’m sorry that I missed dinner, but babe, 437 00:27:59,201 --> 00:28:00,875 if someone’s dying, I have to be there. 438 00:28:00,916 --> 00:28:02,916 No, I get it, your job is important, whatever. 439 00:28:02,958 --> 00:28:04,208 Then what is it? 440 00:28:11,750 --> 00:28:12,916 Tell me about Britney. 441 00:28:15,291 --> 00:28:16,125 Britney? 442 00:28:17,083 --> 00:28:18,840 She’s my assistant. 443 00:28:18,875 --> 00:28:20,375 Is she why you took the job? 444 00:28:22,750 --> 00:28:26,083 I took the job to save souls, that’s it. 445 00:28:26,118 --> 00:28:27,583 Why would you even go there? 446 00:28:27,625 --> 00:28:29,500 I don’t know, maybe because she’s blond 447 00:28:29,535 --> 00:28:30,833 and hot and into you. 448 00:28:40,291 --> 00:28:42,500 Babe, babe. 449 00:28:45,250 --> 00:28:47,958 I love you, you’re the only one for me. 450 00:28:48,000 --> 00:28:51,333 You have my heart, you have my soul forever. 451 00:28:53,166 --> 00:28:54,000 Okay. 452 00:28:56,291 --> 00:28:57,625 You don’t seem convinced. 453 00:29:00,208 --> 00:29:01,166 Do you want me to fire her? 454 00:29:06,916 --> 00:29:08,250 Yes. 455 00:29:08,291 --> 00:29:10,500 Okay, babe, listen. 456 00:29:10,541 --> 00:29:13,125 No, of course not. 457 00:29:13,160 --> 00:29:14,256 I love you. 458 00:29:14,291 --> 00:29:17,256 Of course you do, I’m amazing. 459 00:29:17,291 --> 00:29:19,333 And the most humble pastor in the history of Life House. 460 00:29:19,375 --> 00:29:20,708 Do you know what, that might be true. 461 00:29:20,750 --> 00:29:23,208 And speaking of unparalleled amazingness, 462 00:29:23,243 --> 00:29:25,666 guess who got our neighbor to go to a meeting 463 00:29:25,701 --> 00:29:27,625 at church next Tuesday night? 464 00:29:28,833 --> 00:29:29,833 Not you. 465 00:29:31,458 --> 00:29:33,458 Yeah, no, it was me. 466 00:29:33,493 --> 00:29:35,458 Tuesday night? - Yes. 467 00:29:35,500 --> 00:29:36,965 Our anniversary? 468 00:29:37,000 --> 00:29:39,125 We have dinner reservations, I have a sitter lined up. 469 00:29:39,160 --> 00:29:41,250 Hey, baby, I’m sorry, I can’t back out on this. 470 00:29:41,285 --> 00:29:42,250 It’s really important. 471 00:29:42,291 --> 00:29:43,500 He may never come back again. 472 00:29:43,541 --> 00:29:46,166 This might be my only chance to reach him. 473 00:29:46,201 --> 00:29:47,381 We can do it Wednesday. 474 00:29:47,416 --> 00:29:49,333 No, I have Wednesday evening service. 475 00:29:50,750 --> 00:29:52,708 Thursday, Thursday, I will take you out Thursday 476 00:29:52,750 --> 00:29:55,715 and we are gonna celebrate. - Bible study. 477 00:29:55,750 --> 00:29:59,625 Okay, listen, I don’t know when we’re gonna do it, okay, 478 00:29:59,660 --> 00:30:01,958 but I promise we will and it’s gonna be amazing. 479 00:30:02,000 --> 00:30:03,083 We’re gonna celebrate. 480 00:30:03,958 --> 00:30:05,958 Yeah, maybe next year. 481 00:30:22,625 --> 00:30:26,500 Oh, look at that, it is your book. 482 00:30:27,833 --> 00:30:29,000 Yeah, that’s it. 483 00:30:30,541 --> 00:30:31,750 It’s amazing how many lives 484 00:30:31,791 --> 00:30:33,125 are being touched by those words. 485 00:30:34,291 --> 00:30:37,125 I put my heart and my soul in this project. 486 00:30:37,166 --> 00:30:38,000 Yeah, I read it. 487 00:30:39,041 --> 00:30:40,875 Really, what’d you think? 488 00:30:40,916 --> 00:30:42,666 Eh, I didn’t like it. 489 00:30:43,666 --> 00:30:45,756 It was too preachy for me. 490 00:30:45,791 --> 00:30:48,291 Not that I’m saying you’re a bad writer, 491 00:30:48,326 --> 00:30:52,000 it’s just I don’t like bad books. 492 00:30:53,916 --> 00:30:57,645 I did, however, find the parts 493 00:30:57,680 --> 00:31:01,375 about you and Amber intriguing, 494 00:31:02,291 --> 00:31:05,000 how she loved and supported you, 495 00:31:06,208 --> 00:31:09,666 even though you were fat and unappealing. 496 00:31:11,083 --> 00:31:15,583 It’s so hard to find a woman that cares so deeply 497 00:31:15,625 --> 00:31:19,125 regardless of a man’s size. 498 00:31:22,375 --> 00:31:25,541 Well, I had some other things to offer, too. 499 00:31:25,583 --> 00:31:27,041 Oh yeah, like what, rage? 500 00:31:28,541 --> 00:31:32,208 Because you were a pretty angry man back in the day 501 00:31:32,243 --> 00:31:36,083 before Jesus magically transformed you 502 00:31:36,125 --> 00:31:40,416 into a sweet and loving pastor. 503 00:31:41,875 --> 00:31:44,458 Do you still wrestle with it just once in a while? 504 00:31:48,791 --> 00:31:51,020 You know what, I share some pretty personal things 505 00:31:51,055 --> 00:31:54,152 in the book, and I think it’s important because- 506 00:31:54,187 --> 00:31:57,250 Because, because anger, anger is a tricky beast. 507 00:31:57,291 --> 00:31:59,333 You know, you can suppress it, 508 00:31:59,375 --> 00:32:04,125 you can cover it up, but it never really goes away. 509 00:32:06,875 --> 00:32:10,083 It just lies there dormant, 510 00:32:11,833 --> 00:32:15,666 waiting for another reason to explode. 511 00:32:17,166 --> 00:32:18,840 Yeah, well, mine’s gone. 512 00:32:18,875 --> 00:32:21,958 God healed me, and I believe he can do the same for you. 513 00:32:22,000 --> 00:32:23,465 Who said I’m angry? 514 00:32:23,500 --> 00:32:26,250 No one, but we’ve all got stuff. 515 00:32:28,416 --> 00:32:30,541 Do you know what I see when I look at you? 516 00:32:30,576 --> 00:32:32,541 No, tell me. 517 00:32:32,583 --> 00:32:34,840 I see someone who’s hurting, 518 00:32:34,875 --> 00:32:37,416 someone’s who’s tried to the right thing and came up short. 519 00:32:42,458 --> 00:32:44,375 That’s what darkness does, it blinds us to the truth 520 00:32:44,410 --> 00:32:47,833 of who he really is and how much he does love us, 521 00:32:47,868 --> 00:32:50,291 even with our mistakes. 522 00:32:50,333 --> 00:32:51,840 He’s a loving and forgiving God 523 00:32:51,875 --> 00:32:53,875 and wants to be in relationship with you. 524 00:32:55,125 --> 00:32:57,625 Would you like to begin that journey? 525 00:32:57,666 --> 00:32:59,333 So you met Amber in college. 526 00:33:03,250 --> 00:33:06,416 Yeah, we were in a theology class together, 527 00:33:06,458 --> 00:33:09,958 and she was always asking these deep profound questions 528 00:33:09,993 --> 00:33:13,000 about God and life, and I wanted to be with her. 529 00:33:14,208 --> 00:33:16,541 I wanted to spend every day and hour with her. 530 00:33:16,576 --> 00:33:19,208 Hmm, so the real reason you married her 531 00:33:19,250 --> 00:33:22,750 was for her spiritual depth. 532 00:33:24,166 --> 00:33:29,041 The baking and the beauty were just nice perks. 533 00:33:33,291 --> 00:33:34,625 Pretty much. 534 00:33:34,666 --> 00:33:36,166 Speaking of spiritual depth, 535 00:33:36,208 --> 00:33:37,833 you asked an interesting question yesterday at church. 536 00:33:37,868 --> 00:33:40,541 Do you still love her that way? 537 00:33:45,333 --> 00:33:46,798 What? 538 00:33:46,833 --> 00:33:51,333 Do you still long to be with her every second of the day? 539 00:33:53,291 --> 00:33:58,291 Because some men when they get married, they run off. 540 00:34:00,916 --> 00:34:02,291 They build a life for themselves, 541 00:34:02,333 --> 00:34:07,125 and they com-com-completely forget the treasure 542 00:34:09,541 --> 00:34:11,340 that they have at home. 543 00:34:11,375 --> 00:34:13,250 You’re not one of those guys, are you? 544 00:34:16,333 --> 00:34:18,666 We both have our responsibilities, 545 00:34:18,708 --> 00:34:20,173 but don’t think for a second 546 00:34:20,208 --> 00:34:22,458 that means I don’t love her more every single day. 547 00:34:22,493 --> 00:34:24,125 Well, that’s good to hear, 548 00:34:25,250 --> 00:34:28,416 ’cause a woman like Amber 549 00:34:30,333 --> 00:34:35,333 deserves to be loved more than anything in the world. 550 00:34:43,875 --> 00:34:45,708 This guy’s a waste of my time, I’m moving on. 551 00:34:45,750 --> 00:34:48,125 I don’t think that’s an option for a pastor. 552 00:34:48,166 --> 00:34:50,208 He doesn’t wanna talk about God, Amber. 553 00:34:50,250 --> 00:34:51,673 He wants to talk about you. 554 00:34:51,708 --> 00:34:53,583 You’re asking him to open up about himself to you. 555 00:34:53,618 --> 00:34:54,750 That’s a big deal, it takes time. 556 00:34:54,791 --> 00:34:56,256 I’m telling you-- 557 00:34:56,291 --> 00:34:57,125 I don’t know what your problem is with this guy, 558 00:34:57,160 --> 00:34:58,416 but it ends now. 559 00:35:00,083 --> 00:35:02,340 You are a pastor. 560 00:35:02,375 --> 00:35:05,625 You’re supposed to be one person he can’t push away. 561 00:35:05,666 --> 00:35:07,916 Loving people is your job now. 562 00:35:10,541 --> 00:35:11,791 You know, maybe you need to spend 563 00:35:11,833 --> 00:35:13,770 a little bit less time writing your sermons, 564 00:35:13,805 --> 00:35:15,708 and a little bit more time listening to them. 565 00:35:15,743 --> 00:35:17,166 Did you know you can do that now? 566 00:35:17,208 --> 00:35:18,458 You’re on a podcast. 567 00:35:36,791 --> 00:35:38,708 I’m headed out, I’ll see you later. 568 00:35:38,743 --> 00:35:40,208 Bye. 569 00:35:40,250 --> 00:35:41,375 Good morning, pastor. 570 00:35:44,375 --> 00:35:45,625 Nice pjs. 571 00:35:45,666 --> 00:35:47,250 Don’t you wear those to work? 572 00:35:47,285 --> 00:35:48,840 Oh, I don’t work. 573 00:35:48,875 --> 00:35:50,375 I’ve been unemployed for years. 574 00:35:50,416 --> 00:35:52,048 It’s a tough market. 575 00:35:52,083 --> 00:35:55,541 Fortunately for me, I came into a little inheritance 576 00:35:55,583 --> 00:35:57,583 when my Grandmamma passed away. 577 00:35:59,375 --> 00:36:02,916 I’d give it all up to have her back though. 578 00:36:05,458 --> 00:36:09,000 She raised me from the time I was seven years old. 579 00:36:10,750 --> 00:36:12,750 Did I ever tell you that? 580 00:36:12,791 --> 00:36:16,041 No, and it sounds like a super interesting story, 581 00:36:16,076 --> 00:36:18,166 but unfortunately, I have to go, so-- 582 00:36:18,208 --> 00:36:19,583 That’s really sweet. 583 00:36:20,875 --> 00:36:24,333 She sounds like a really special woman. 584 00:36:24,375 --> 00:36:25,541 Oh, she was. 585 00:36:26,625 --> 00:36:29,416 She was into God, too, like you. 586 00:36:32,125 --> 00:36:34,125 She certainly would have approved of you. 587 00:36:35,958 --> 00:36:40,291 You too make such a perfect couple. 588 00:36:42,875 --> 00:36:46,208 I’m sorry I made you miss your anniversary dinner. 589 00:36:47,500 --> 00:36:49,625 How did you know it was our anniversary? 590 00:36:49,660 --> 00:36:51,750 She was really into gardening, too. 591 00:36:53,500 --> 00:36:55,666 I remember planting flowers with her. 592 00:36:57,833 --> 00:36:59,333 Those were happy times. 593 00:37:00,958 --> 00:37:05,291 Hmm, well, I have to go, babe. 594 00:37:13,666 --> 00:37:14,500 See you tonight. 595 00:37:16,833 --> 00:37:18,833 I’d better get back to it. 596 00:37:20,291 --> 00:37:22,333 You have a real gift for gardening. 597 00:37:23,541 --> 00:37:24,375 Don’t move. 598 00:37:30,041 --> 00:37:31,333 I have something for you. 599 00:37:44,416 --> 00:37:45,666 Those are beautiful. 600 00:37:48,416 --> 00:37:52,208 Yeah, they’re mums. 601 00:37:54,708 --> 00:37:55,541 Mm. 602 00:37:57,125 --> 00:37:58,666 My favorite kind of flower. 603 00:38:00,041 --> 00:38:04,416 I think it would look beautiful right next to yours. 604 00:38:06,041 --> 00:38:08,340 Does Pastor Zach help you garden? 605 00:38:08,375 --> 00:38:11,187 Oh, no, it’s not really his thing. 606 00:38:11,222 --> 00:38:14,000 He’s so busy with work and everything. 607 00:38:14,041 --> 00:38:16,916 Yeah, I understand. 608 00:38:16,958 --> 00:38:18,291 My dad was the same way. 609 00:38:20,125 --> 00:38:24,958 Gone all the time, late nights at the office. 610 00:38:26,458 --> 00:38:28,708 Of course, it turned out he was having an affair 611 00:38:28,743 --> 00:38:31,375 with his secretary. 612 00:38:34,166 --> 00:38:38,291 But I’m sure Pastor Zach is not like that. 613 00:38:38,326 --> 00:38:39,875 You have nothing to worry about. 614 00:38:42,250 --> 00:38:43,750 We should have seen it coming. 615 00:38:45,125 --> 00:38:46,583 He showed us all the signs. 616 00:38:48,583 --> 00:38:53,291 He just became very mysterious and angry, 617 00:38:55,416 --> 00:39:00,375 always accusing mom of having an affair. 618 00:39:02,541 --> 00:39:04,416 Well, you know what they say, 619 00:39:05,875 --> 00:39:07,208 if you’re hung up on the idea of someone cheating, 620 00:39:07,243 --> 00:39:10,541 it’s probably because you are. 621 00:39:17,541 --> 00:39:20,375 The fact of the matter is the board wants red, 622 00:39:20,410 --> 00:39:22,416 so it’s out of my control. 623 00:39:24,458 --> 00:39:25,791 Hey, can I call you back? 624 00:39:50,250 --> 00:39:51,083 Hey, Amber? 625 00:39:55,708 --> 00:39:56,791 Oh, hey. - Hi. 626 00:40:01,666 --> 00:40:05,750 You, me, anniversary dinner, 10 minutes, go get dressed. 627 00:40:16,416 --> 00:40:17,583 Hello, Pastor Zach. 628 00:40:19,791 --> 00:40:21,583 How do you like Amber’s garden? 629 00:40:24,125 --> 00:40:25,958 You know what, I didn’t even notice it. 630 00:40:25,993 --> 00:40:27,590 It looks beautiful. 631 00:40:27,625 --> 00:40:29,166 How do you like the mums? 632 00:40:31,375 --> 00:40:32,250 They look great. 633 00:40:33,625 --> 00:40:38,041 Thanks, we spent all afternoon together working on them. 634 00:40:41,083 --> 00:40:42,625 Well, it looks great. 635 00:40:42,666 --> 00:40:43,625 Thanks. 636 00:40:44,833 --> 00:40:47,500 So you two look fancy. 637 00:40:47,541 --> 00:40:48,541 What’s the occasion? 638 00:40:50,333 --> 00:40:52,166 You know, I think you already know. 639 00:40:55,083 --> 00:40:57,548 Wow, really? 640 00:40:57,583 --> 00:41:01,250 You mean, I can’t believe it. 641 00:41:01,291 --> 00:41:03,166 I’ll get my tie, just-- - Whoa, whoa. 642 00:41:04,625 --> 00:41:06,583 It’s really weird that you would think it’s okay 643 00:41:06,618 --> 00:41:09,506 to invite yourself to our anniversary dinner. 644 00:41:09,541 --> 00:41:12,708 Besides, don’t you think you’re a little under dressed? 645 00:41:14,166 --> 00:41:17,541 Why don’t you plant some begonias in your own yard? 646 00:41:19,000 --> 00:41:19,833 Don’t wait up. 647 00:41:29,291 --> 00:41:31,048 That’s what darkness does, 648 00:41:31,083 --> 00:41:32,548 it blinds us to the truth of who he really is. 649 00:41:32,583 --> 00:41:35,458 How much he does love us even when we make mistakes. 650 00:41:36,958 --> 00:41:38,631 He’s a loving and forgiving God 651 00:41:38,666 --> 00:41:40,916 and wants to be in a relationship with you. 652 00:41:41,833 --> 00:41:44,125 Would you like to recognize him? 653 00:41:50,583 --> 00:41:52,041 What time is it? 654 00:41:53,250 --> 00:41:54,458 6:30. 655 00:42:03,083 --> 00:42:03,875 Why? 656 00:42:05,375 --> 00:42:06,708 Good morning, Pastor Zach. 657 00:42:06,743 --> 00:42:07,541 Did I wake you? 658 00:42:08,958 --> 00:42:13,500 Oh, I’m sorry, I know you were out till 1:37 this morning, 659 00:42:13,541 --> 00:42:16,083 but you’re usually up by now. 660 00:42:16,125 --> 00:42:18,291 That is really weird that you know that, man. 661 00:42:18,326 --> 00:42:20,458 Yeah, I wanted to apologize for yesterday. 662 00:42:20,500 --> 00:42:23,291 I hope I didn’t ruin your anniversary dinner 663 00:42:23,326 --> 00:42:25,840 by asking to come along. 664 00:42:25,875 --> 00:42:27,125 Nope, don’t worry about it. 665 00:42:27,166 --> 00:42:28,423 Just go back to bed, okay? 666 00:42:28,458 --> 00:42:30,458 It’s just that yesterday was a... 667 00:42:30,500 --> 00:42:32,166 It was a special day for me, too. 668 00:42:33,541 --> 00:42:35,006 Really? - Yeah. 669 00:42:35,041 --> 00:42:38,583 It was the 10-year anniversary of my Grandmamma’s passing. 670 00:42:39,791 --> 00:42:41,500 Oh, I’m so sorry. 671 00:42:41,541 --> 00:42:44,145 It’s okay, it’s okay, there’s no way 672 00:42:44,180 --> 00:42:46,750 that you two could have known, and I feel bad, 673 00:42:46,791 --> 00:42:48,291 and I wanna give you something. 674 00:42:51,250 --> 00:42:54,645 Listen, we can’t take anything from you. 675 00:42:54,680 --> 00:42:58,041 Oh, no, please, I would want you to have it. 676 00:42:58,083 --> 00:43:00,250 Grandmamma would have loved the two of you, 677 00:43:01,458 --> 00:43:02,250 and she would want you to have this. 678 00:43:02,285 --> 00:43:03,500 I wanna do this for her. 679 00:43:04,541 --> 00:43:07,875 Will you be home this afternoon? 680 00:43:09,250 --> 00:43:11,645 Well, we have church at seven, but yeah, 681 00:43:11,680 --> 00:43:14,041 we should be home most of the afternoon. 682 00:43:14,083 --> 00:43:16,916 Good, good, all right, I’ll bring it over after lunch. 683 00:43:18,666 --> 00:43:21,166 Congratulations on your anniversary. 684 00:43:23,708 --> 00:43:26,583 That’s really special. 685 00:43:33,833 --> 00:43:36,423 Okay, well, I’m a jerk face. 686 00:43:36,458 --> 00:43:38,166 I’ll go make coffee, jerk face. 687 00:43:49,458 --> 00:43:50,291 Hey, babe. 688 00:43:54,500 --> 00:43:55,333 How’s it going? 689 00:43:56,416 --> 00:43:57,916 Oh, I just... 690 00:44:00,916 --> 00:44:02,750 Why did I ever start a sermon series 691 00:44:02,785 --> 00:44:04,791 on loving your neighbor? 692 00:44:04,833 --> 00:44:07,312 Do you really want me to answer that? 693 00:44:07,347 --> 00:44:09,791 Yes. - Maybe because you need it. 694 00:44:14,750 --> 00:44:15,875 It’s show time. 695 00:44:19,375 --> 00:44:20,965 Hey, neighbor. 696 00:44:21,000 --> 00:44:23,833 Sorry it took so long, it was pretty dusty. 697 00:44:23,875 --> 00:44:27,291 I wanted to shine it up before I brought it over. 698 00:44:27,326 --> 00:44:28,875 I’ve been working on it all day. 699 00:44:28,916 --> 00:44:31,249 Oh my goodness, it’s beautiful. 700 00:44:31,284 --> 00:44:33,583 Yeah, yeah, it was Grandmamma’s. 701 00:44:33,625 --> 00:44:37,041 Her and Pops, they were married 62 years. 702 00:44:38,708 --> 00:44:40,166 You two remind me of them. 703 00:44:41,291 --> 00:44:43,590 Well, the hook is damaged, 704 00:44:43,625 --> 00:44:48,041 so it’s kind of difficult to hang, 705 00:44:48,083 --> 00:44:49,256 but I know how to do it. 706 00:44:49,291 --> 00:44:51,791 It shouldn’t take me more than a half hour. 707 00:44:53,083 --> 00:44:55,166 What do you think, Pastor Zach? 708 00:44:55,208 --> 00:44:56,423 It’s beautiful, 709 00:44:56,458 --> 00:44:58,125 but we can’t take your grandmother’s mirror. 710 00:44:58,160 --> 00:45:00,791 Oh, yes, you can, I want you to have it. 711 00:45:00,833 --> 00:45:02,375 It is amazing, but we are actually 712 00:45:02,416 --> 00:45:03,631 just headed out the door. 713 00:45:03,666 --> 00:45:05,208 Could you come back after nine sometime? 714 00:45:06,458 --> 00:45:08,041 Well, it’s pretty heavy. 715 00:45:09,958 --> 00:45:11,256 Why don’t you just leave it here, 716 00:45:11,291 --> 00:45:13,541 and I’ll put it up when I have some time? 717 00:45:13,576 --> 00:45:16,506 Um, well, it’s difficult to hang. 718 00:45:16,541 --> 00:45:19,041 You have to know exactly what you’re doing 719 00:45:19,083 --> 00:45:21,548 or it could fall and break. 720 00:45:21,583 --> 00:45:23,958 Okay, quick kidding around, Zach. 721 00:45:23,993 --> 00:45:26,333 We love the mirror, it’s beautiful. 722 00:45:26,375 --> 00:45:27,916 Listen, we’re on our way out, 723 00:45:27,958 --> 00:45:30,541 but would you be willing to hang it for us while we’re gone? 724 00:45:30,576 --> 00:45:31,750 Of course. 725 00:45:31,791 --> 00:45:33,875 That’s perfect, some on in, right, Zach? 726 00:45:35,208 --> 00:45:37,000 Alex, time to go. 727 00:45:37,916 --> 00:45:39,416 Knock ’em dead, Pastor Zach. 728 00:45:42,208 --> 00:45:43,416 Lock up when you leave. 729 00:45:45,291 --> 00:45:46,125 Will do. 730 00:45:56,125 --> 00:45:59,215 Here it is. 731 00:45:59,250 --> 00:46:01,958 Oh my goodness, it’s amazing. 732 00:46:02,000 --> 00:46:04,041 Great, so he was in here. 733 00:46:04,076 --> 00:46:06,083 Oh, would you stop it? 734 00:46:06,125 --> 00:46:08,666 Look at this, is it not gorgeous? 735 00:46:08,701 --> 00:46:09,500 It’s pretty. 736 00:46:12,000 --> 00:46:14,708 DeBrand’s Fine Chocolates? - Oh. 737 00:46:14,750 --> 00:46:16,333 He’s not such a bad guy after all. 738 00:46:18,250 --> 00:46:20,791 Amber, now you can enjoy the beauty 739 00:46:20,833 --> 00:46:22,625 that the rest of us see in you. 740 00:46:23,791 --> 00:46:25,416 Not super thrilled about the note. 741 00:46:26,875 --> 00:46:29,666 No way, honey, it’s a skinny mirror. 742 00:46:29,701 --> 00:46:31,125 I just lost 10 pounds, ha! 743 00:46:32,916 --> 00:46:36,333 Oh, mm, mm-hmm, I could get used to this. 744 00:47:05,916 --> 00:47:07,124 Hey, good morning. - Hi. 745 00:47:07,159 --> 00:47:08,298 Good to see you again. 746 00:47:08,333 --> 00:47:10,083 How did you enjoy your neighbor’s message this morning? 747 00:47:10,125 --> 00:47:11,479 I enjoyed it very much. 748 00:47:11,514 --> 00:47:12,798 I like this series. 749 00:47:12,833 --> 00:47:16,333 I think it’s important to be a good neighbor. 750 00:47:18,041 --> 00:47:20,250 And thank you for inviting me here. 751 00:47:20,291 --> 00:47:22,791 You were right about these people. 752 00:47:22,833 --> 00:47:27,833 It feels so good to be a part of a church family. 753 00:47:28,541 --> 00:47:30,000 Sure thing, buddy. 754 00:47:30,041 --> 00:47:32,541 Hey, do you mind if I grab a quick word with you real quick? 755 00:47:32,576 --> 00:47:33,583 Sure. - Be right back. 756 00:47:36,625 --> 00:47:38,500 So, yeah, I wanted to talk to you about the mirror. 757 00:47:38,541 --> 00:47:40,708 First of all, thank you so much, it’s beautiful. 758 00:47:40,750 --> 00:47:42,048 I know it must have meant a lot to you. 759 00:47:42,083 --> 00:47:44,541 Well, you and Amber mean a lot to me, too. 760 00:47:46,041 --> 00:47:47,756 Mostly Amber. 761 00:47:47,791 --> 00:47:50,250 Yeah, that’s what I wanted to talk to you about. 762 00:47:51,291 --> 00:47:54,340 The note, what was that? 763 00:47:54,375 --> 00:47:56,625 Oh, I’m sorry, was there a typo? 764 00:47:56,666 --> 00:47:58,673 I’m a terrible speller. 765 00:47:58,708 --> 00:48:00,833 Oh, I think you know what I mean. 766 00:48:00,875 --> 00:48:02,770 It’s inappropriate for you to be writing 767 00:48:02,805 --> 00:48:04,666 flirty notes to a married woman, yeah? 768 00:48:04,708 --> 00:48:07,423 Oh, I see, but it’s okay for you 769 00:48:07,458 --> 00:48:12,250 to write flirty notes to a single woman. 770 00:48:12,285 --> 00:48:14,083 What are you talking about? 771 00:48:14,125 --> 00:48:16,875 I see the way she looks at you. 772 00:48:16,916 --> 00:48:21,125 Clearly, your many late nights have not been lonely ones. 773 00:48:22,750 --> 00:48:24,006 Don’t even go there, bro. 774 00:48:24,041 --> 00:48:25,250 Well, I can certainly understand 775 00:48:25,291 --> 00:48:30,125 the attraction, she’s very pretty, very, very. 776 00:48:31,583 --> 00:48:33,041 All right, listen, you might not even get this 777 00:48:33,076 --> 00:48:34,500 coming from a jacked up family. 778 00:48:34,541 --> 00:48:35,833 Oh, jacked up now, huh? - But Amber and I are in love. 779 00:48:35,868 --> 00:48:37,600 Are you? - We’re in love in every way. 780 00:48:37,635 --> 00:48:39,333 Really, really? - I will fight anyone-- 781 00:48:39,368 --> 00:48:40,548 Oh, you wanna fight me? 782 00:48:40,583 --> 00:48:41,916 Or anything that comes between, bf. 783 00:48:42,916 --> 00:48:44,208 Well, don’t get so angry, Pastor Zach. 784 00:48:44,243 --> 00:48:45,958 I know how violent you can become. 785 00:48:46,000 --> 00:48:47,958 It’s not very neighborly. 786 00:48:48,208 --> 00:48:50,250 Oh my goodness. - Hi. 787 00:48:50,291 --> 00:48:52,173 Thank you so much for the mirror, we love it. 788 00:48:52,208 --> 00:48:55,875 Oh, wow, really, thank you, it feels so good to hear. 789 00:48:55,910 --> 00:48:57,750 Get away from him, get away! 790 00:48:57,791 --> 00:48:59,625 You’re done, you’re done! 791 00:49:00,541 --> 00:49:02,798 Don’t touch my wife, don’t touch me, 792 00:49:02,833 --> 00:49:05,291 don’t come to my house, and don’t come back to church. 793 00:49:05,333 --> 00:49:07,006 What is your problem? 794 00:49:07,041 --> 00:49:08,506 I’m sorry, Pastor Zach, 795 00:49:08,541 --> 00:49:13,458 I forgot that the house of God is no place for sinners. 796 00:49:14,083 --> 00:49:14,791 Are you okay? 797 00:49:15,875 --> 00:49:18,625 The back of my head is kinda hurting. 798 00:49:37,000 --> 00:49:40,041 I’m trying to protect you, you have to understand that. 799 00:49:42,708 --> 00:49:45,458 You’re the only one who has a problem with him, Zach. 800 00:49:48,250 --> 00:49:49,375 Maybe I shouldn’t be. 801 00:49:56,375 --> 00:49:58,006 Doesn’t he ever give up? 802 00:49:58,041 --> 00:50:01,041 Great, he probably wants his mirror back. 803 00:50:05,250 --> 00:50:07,583 Evie, where’s James? 804 00:50:08,500 --> 00:50:09,798 He’s in his shop. 805 00:50:09,833 --> 00:50:11,916 I bet he’d love some company. 806 00:50:15,083 --> 00:50:16,166 Here you go. 807 00:50:17,875 --> 00:50:22,416 So Zach has been very angry lately. 808 00:50:23,583 --> 00:50:26,333 I mean, the man brings us a gift, 809 00:50:26,375 --> 00:50:29,250 and the next day he kicks him out of church. 810 00:50:29,291 --> 00:50:30,125 Thank you. 811 00:50:31,541 --> 00:50:34,833 He’s reminding me of old Zach, and it scares me. 812 00:50:35,291 --> 00:50:36,458 Why is he so upset? 813 00:50:36,500 --> 00:50:37,715 He has this irrational fear 814 00:50:37,750 --> 00:50:39,875 that there’s something going on between us. 815 00:50:41,166 --> 00:50:42,291 Is it irrational? 816 00:50:43,541 --> 00:50:46,625 Yes, obviously, I mean, maybe the guy 817 00:50:46,666 --> 00:50:47,965 has a little crush on me, 818 00:50:48,000 --> 00:50:50,291 but I’m not attracted to him at all. 819 00:50:51,500 --> 00:50:55,000 I just wanna be a good neighbor. 820 00:50:57,625 --> 00:51:00,291 So you’re not enjoying how this crush 821 00:51:00,333 --> 00:51:03,333 might be making Pastor Zach a little jealous? 822 00:51:03,375 --> 00:51:04,208 No! 823 00:51:08,291 --> 00:51:10,375 I don’t know, maybe. 824 00:51:12,625 --> 00:51:14,840 Zach is always a superstar. 825 00:51:14,875 --> 00:51:17,708 I mean, everyone loves Pastor Zach, 826 00:51:17,750 --> 00:51:19,791 which they should, he’s an amazing man, 827 00:51:19,833 --> 00:51:22,541 when he’s not acting like a crazy person. 828 00:51:22,576 --> 00:51:26,041 And where am I? 829 00:51:28,333 --> 00:51:32,666 In his shadow, always, and nobody even knows who I am. 830 00:51:32,701 --> 00:51:34,791 That is not true. - It feels true. 831 00:51:36,833 --> 00:51:41,833 So I guess it was nice to be noticed for once, 832 00:51:43,000 --> 00:51:44,375 and I’ve never seen Zach jealous ever. 833 00:51:45,750 --> 00:51:47,625 It made me feel wanted. 834 00:51:50,208 --> 00:51:55,166 Amber, be careful about using jealousy 835 00:51:56,541 --> 00:51:58,375 to gain the attention of your husband. 836 00:51:59,875 --> 00:52:01,125 It only backfires. 837 00:52:03,166 --> 00:52:05,395 Look, I get it, as women it makes us feel 838 00:52:05,430 --> 00:52:07,625 like our husbands are fighting for us, 839 00:52:07,666 --> 00:52:10,416 but really it just pushes them away, 840 00:52:11,625 --> 00:52:14,395 and sometimes into the arms of someone 841 00:52:14,430 --> 00:52:17,166 who they might find more trustworthy. 842 00:52:21,916 --> 00:52:23,375 Okay, why do I feel like I’m supposed 843 00:52:23,410 --> 00:52:24,541 to be reading into that? 844 00:52:28,541 --> 00:52:31,666 How well do you know Pastor Zach’s assistant, Britney? 845 00:52:40,083 --> 00:52:42,166 We recently found out that he’s been sending her 846 00:52:42,208 --> 00:52:44,041 little gifts and notes on occasion. 847 00:52:47,583 --> 00:52:48,666 What kinds of gifts? 848 00:52:50,541 --> 00:52:52,000 Flowers, chocolates. 849 00:52:53,125 --> 00:52:54,548 We did have a conversation with her, 850 00:52:54,583 --> 00:52:56,791 and she said it hadn’t gone any further than that. 851 00:52:58,000 --> 00:53:00,000 James is gonna have a talk with Zach. 852 00:53:02,416 --> 00:53:03,583 What did the note say? 853 00:53:07,208 --> 00:53:08,965 It’s not important. 854 00:53:09,000 --> 00:53:10,666 Oh, but it is important. 855 00:53:10,708 --> 00:53:13,041 Are we talking, thanks for doing a great job, 856 00:53:13,076 --> 00:53:14,875 or thanks for being so pretty? 857 00:53:18,458 --> 00:53:23,458 Amber, guard your heart and your family. 858 00:53:26,083 --> 00:53:27,625 You’re on the front lines 859 00:53:27,666 --> 00:53:30,583 and you’re doing important work for the kingdom, 860 00:53:30,618 --> 00:53:33,375 and sometimes that puts you in way of attack. 861 00:53:35,208 --> 00:53:40,166 All this, it’s just a distraction. 862 00:55:43,958 --> 00:55:44,791 Amber. 863 00:55:47,166 --> 00:55:48,958 I just need my tablet. 864 00:55:50,125 --> 00:55:53,291 Okay, um, okay. 865 00:56:03,083 --> 00:56:04,333 It’s a beautiful bouquet. 866 00:56:05,708 --> 00:56:09,131 Amber, I... 867 00:56:09,166 --> 00:56:12,625 We have a son, Alex. 868 00:56:14,333 --> 00:56:15,166 You know that. 869 00:56:18,458 --> 00:56:21,583 He’s seven, he’ll be eight in January. 870 00:56:25,958 --> 00:56:28,041 Alex is a very sweet boy. 871 00:56:28,083 --> 00:56:29,250 Yeah, like his daddy. 872 00:56:31,750 --> 00:56:36,750 He needs his daddy, and I need his daddy. 873 00:56:40,375 --> 00:56:41,208 You’re beautiful. 874 00:56:46,500 --> 00:56:49,791 There’s gonna be a single man out there 875 00:56:49,826 --> 00:56:51,375 who’s very lucky to be with you. 876 00:56:53,333 --> 00:56:55,041 Please don’t ruin my marriage. 877 00:56:56,958 --> 00:56:57,791 I won’t. 878 00:57:00,666 --> 00:57:02,250 We never did anything. 879 00:57:05,791 --> 00:57:10,625 He sent some gifts, but it never went anywhere, I swear. 880 00:57:14,958 --> 00:57:18,125 He’s actually not flirty around me at all. 881 00:57:19,416 --> 00:57:21,541 He’s all business. 882 00:57:24,083 --> 00:57:26,416 It’s actually very confusing. - Thank you. 883 00:57:49,458 --> 00:57:50,416 Hi, Evie. 884 00:57:53,458 --> 00:57:54,958 Yeah, we spoke briefly. 885 00:57:58,125 --> 00:58:00,083 Sorry, yeah, I shouldn’t have done that. 886 00:58:00,118 --> 00:58:03,958 I just needed to know. 887 00:58:05,916 --> 00:58:09,750 No, I understand, I appreciate your friendship. 888 00:58:10,958 --> 00:58:14,125 Alex, come on inside, time for lunch. 889 00:58:17,458 --> 00:58:18,291 Alex! 890 00:58:19,541 --> 00:58:21,750 What, oh, I’m sorry, I just... 891 00:58:22,791 --> 00:58:24,333 I don’t see Alex. 892 00:58:26,583 --> 00:58:27,416 He was just here. 893 00:58:33,500 --> 00:58:35,215 Hey, how’s it going. 894 00:58:35,250 --> 00:58:36,673 Here you go. - Thank you so much. 895 00:58:36,708 --> 00:58:38,291 Would you like cream or sugar with that? 896 00:58:38,326 --> 00:58:39,875 Oh, no, I’m fine, thank you though. 897 00:58:39,910 --> 00:58:41,458 Have a great day! - You, too. 898 00:58:58,375 --> 00:59:00,208 Hey there, young man. - Hey. 899 00:59:00,243 --> 00:59:01,673 Oh, hey, dude. - Yeah. 900 00:59:01,708 --> 00:59:03,833 Can you help me out? - What can I do for you? 901 00:59:03,868 --> 00:59:06,208 Cool, I gotta deliver these flowers 902 00:59:06,250 --> 00:59:08,416 to some chick named Britney. 903 00:59:08,458 --> 00:59:10,791 I was wondering if you knew where she was. 904 00:59:10,833 --> 00:59:12,708 I can take ’em. - Great. 905 00:59:13,958 --> 00:59:15,958 Thanks, bro. - Yeah, you bet. 906 00:59:39,875 --> 00:59:41,083 What can I do for you, boss? 907 00:59:41,125 --> 00:59:42,625 Hey, man, so I totaled my car a few days ago, 908 00:59:42,660 --> 00:59:44,090 and it was dragged here. 909 00:59:44,125 --> 00:59:45,541 I was wondering if I could have a quick look at it. 910 00:59:47,083 --> 00:59:48,666 Any particular reason? 911 00:59:49,666 --> 00:59:51,708 Yeah, my brakes went out and I guess in all the confusion 912 00:59:51,750 --> 00:59:54,250 I didn’t really get a chance to look and see if... 913 00:59:55,708 --> 00:59:58,416 You think somebody snipped ’em, don’t you? 914 00:59:58,458 --> 00:59:59,625 Am I that obvious? 915 00:59:59,666 --> 01:00:01,666 I get people in here every now and then 916 01:00:01,708 --> 01:00:04,187 thinking someone’s trying to knock ’em off, 917 01:00:04,222 --> 01:00:06,666 but I gotta tell you, brother, it doesn’t happen, 918 01:00:06,708 --> 01:00:08,708 unless of course, you know, you’re fooling around 919 01:00:08,750 --> 01:00:09,923 with somebody’s wife. 920 01:00:09,958 --> 01:00:11,895 This was a bad idea, but thank you very much. 921 01:00:11,930 --> 01:00:13,798 Dude, it’s cool, it’s right out back. 922 01:00:13,833 --> 01:00:15,333 If you wanna look at it, we’ll go look at it. 923 01:00:15,375 --> 01:00:16,541 All right, let’s do it. - Are you cool with that? 924 01:00:16,576 --> 01:00:17,500 All right, cool. - Thanks, man. 925 01:00:23,416 --> 01:00:25,250 Sprinkling Can, where we grow memories. 926 01:00:25,291 --> 01:00:28,208 This is Katie, how may I brighten your day? 927 01:00:28,250 --> 01:00:30,083 Yeah, hey there, this is Pastor James 928 01:00:30,118 --> 01:00:31,541 with Life House Church. 929 01:00:31,576 --> 01:00:32,416 How are you doing? 930 01:00:33,625 --> 01:00:35,333 Oh hi, Pastor James, how are you? 931 01:00:35,708 --> 01:00:36,875 Good, good. 932 01:00:37,166 --> 01:00:39,375 Hey, I have a favor to ask of you. 933 01:00:41,125 --> 01:00:43,333 Yeah, absolutely, I’ll do what I can. 934 01:00:43,368 --> 01:00:45,506 Yeah, we have a staff member, Britney, 935 01:00:45,541 --> 01:00:48,250 who’s been getting some deliveries from a coworker, 936 01:00:48,291 --> 01:00:50,541 and we’re gonna need that to stop. 937 01:00:52,041 --> 01:00:54,541 Could you please refuse any future orders 938 01:00:54,583 --> 01:00:55,791 from Zach Reynolds? 939 01:00:56,958 --> 01:00:59,500 Wait, so there really is a Zach Reynolds? 940 01:01:01,083 --> 01:01:05,125 Yeah, yeah, he’s the guy that’s been ordering the flowers? 941 01:01:05,166 --> 01:01:09,000 Zach Reynolds, 1010 Pleasant Oak Street. 942 01:01:10,166 --> 01:01:12,250 No, they’re being sent from a Zach Reynolds, 943 01:01:12,291 --> 01:01:15,125 but that is not the name on the credit card, 944 01:01:15,166 --> 01:01:17,416 and I don’t think that’s even the right address here. 945 01:01:17,451 --> 01:01:18,541 Let me take a look. 946 01:01:20,708 --> 01:01:23,875 Yeah, it’s being sent from 1006 Pleasant Oak Street, 947 01:01:23,910 --> 01:01:26,340 which is probably next door. 948 01:01:26,375 --> 01:01:28,666 Do you want me to go ahead and put a block on it? 949 01:01:30,291 --> 01:01:31,083 Hello? 950 01:01:33,958 --> 01:01:38,291 Yes, yeah, please, thank you. 951 01:01:49,750 --> 01:01:52,506 Step one, locate the brake line. 952 01:01:52,541 --> 01:01:55,208 Usually, it’ll be right up under here. 953 01:01:56,541 --> 01:01:58,291 Oh, that’s different, okay. 954 01:01:58,333 --> 01:01:59,125 What? 955 01:02:04,625 --> 01:02:05,958 Hey, Evie. 956 01:02:06,000 --> 01:02:07,590 Amber? 957 01:02:07,625 --> 01:02:09,708 No, no, I haven’t seen her. 958 01:02:09,750 --> 01:02:10,583 What’s wrong? 959 01:02:11,666 --> 01:02:13,208 Well, it’s probably nothing, 960 01:02:13,250 --> 01:02:15,125 but I was just talking to Amber about 10 minutes ago, 961 01:02:15,160 --> 01:02:17,458 and she said she couldn’t find Alex. 962 01:02:17,500 --> 01:02:19,041 She said she’d call me back when she found him, 963 01:02:19,076 --> 01:02:20,750 but I still haven’t heard from her. 964 01:02:21,666 --> 01:02:24,125 I just tried calling her back and she didn’t answer. 965 01:02:24,666 --> 01:02:25,833 Have you heard anything? 966 01:02:25,875 --> 01:02:26,916 What, no! 967 01:02:31,875 --> 01:02:34,875 Hey, boss, might you have yourself an enemy? 968 01:02:35,750 --> 01:02:36,923 No, why? 969 01:02:36,958 --> 01:02:38,166 Well, I hate to be the one to break it to you, 970 01:02:38,333 --> 01:02:40,291 but this thing’s cut clean. 971 01:02:41,958 --> 01:02:43,583 Evie, I gotta go. 972 01:02:43,625 --> 01:02:44,541 Thank you for this. 973 01:02:45,208 --> 01:02:47,666 You better stop messing around with those married women. 974 01:02:47,833 --> 01:02:49,833 There’s a lot of crazy dudes out there. 975 01:02:50,958 --> 01:02:53,208 Wow. 976 01:02:54,125 --> 01:02:56,250 Alex, Alex! 977 01:03:15,166 --> 01:03:16,423 Hello! 978 01:03:16,458 --> 01:03:18,125 Hello, is anybody... 979 01:03:22,375 --> 01:03:23,250 Alex? 980 01:03:29,708 --> 01:03:30,541 Alex? 981 01:03:50,666 --> 01:03:51,500 Alex? 982 01:04:08,208 --> 01:04:10,083 Alex? 983 01:04:20,083 --> 01:04:20,916 Alex? 984 01:04:49,708 --> 01:04:51,375 I was hoping you’d come. 985 01:04:55,708 --> 01:04:57,375 I’m looking for Alex. 986 01:04:59,291 --> 01:05:01,750 Oh, I wish you hadn’t seen that. 987 01:05:03,458 --> 01:05:06,458 But you won’t tell anyone, will you? 988 01:05:09,833 --> 01:05:11,291 It will be our little secret. 989 01:05:15,541 --> 01:05:16,375 I won’t. 990 01:05:17,541 --> 01:05:18,333 Have you seen Alex? 991 01:05:18,375 --> 01:05:19,541 Do you wanna watch? 992 01:05:21,750 --> 01:05:26,750 I caught some great moments of you and Pastor Zach. 993 01:05:30,958 --> 01:05:33,041 You can learn a lot about someone 994 01:05:34,333 --> 01:05:38,000 by watching them when they don’t know it. 995 01:05:39,833 --> 01:05:43,166 Pastor Zach speaks very differently of me 996 01:05:43,201 --> 01:05:45,416 when I’m not there. 997 01:05:47,333 --> 01:05:49,500 I don’t think he likes me very much. 998 01:05:54,666 --> 01:05:55,666 But not you. 999 01:06:02,333 --> 01:06:03,625 You stand up for me. 1000 01:06:06,416 --> 01:06:07,750 Mm, I like that. 1001 01:06:13,333 --> 01:06:14,166 Alex! 1002 01:06:22,083 --> 01:06:27,083 14 minutes and 37 seconds. 1003 01:06:27,541 --> 01:06:30,375 Alex, we need to go home right now. 1004 01:06:30,666 --> 01:06:32,875 But mom, we’re watching a movie. 1005 01:06:32,916 --> 01:06:34,631 Can we stay, please? 1006 01:06:34,666 --> 01:06:39,333 It’s important to always know where Alex is. 1007 01:06:40,500 --> 01:06:45,708 They say it takes as little as six minutes 1008 01:06:46,833 --> 01:06:52,250 alone with a stranger for a child to be abused. 1009 01:06:53,375 --> 01:06:56,458 Alex, come up the stairs now! 1010 01:06:56,500 --> 01:06:58,416 You know where I heard that? 1011 01:06:59,250 --> 01:07:00,041 The news. 1012 01:07:01,916 --> 01:07:04,708 You know how I know it’s true? 1013 01:07:06,416 --> 01:07:08,125 Because they were talking about me. 1014 01:07:11,708 --> 01:07:13,270 Isn’t that funny? 1015 01:07:13,305 --> 01:07:14,798 Alex, let’s go. 1016 01:07:14,833 --> 01:07:16,750 Just a minute. - Now! 1017 01:07:16,791 --> 01:07:22,375 Six minutes away from my mother, 1018 01:07:24,208 --> 01:07:26,125 I was six years old at the time. 1019 01:07:27,333 --> 01:07:32,000 Six days away from my seventh birthday. 1020 01:07:34,458 --> 01:07:38,583 Six, six, six. 1021 01:07:40,500 --> 01:07:43,250 I always figured that’s why they called it 1022 01:07:43,291 --> 01:07:44,791 the devil’s number. 1023 01:07:48,416 --> 01:07:51,541 I don’t like talking about it much, 1024 01:07:53,833 --> 01:07:57,541 but I feel so close to you, 1025 01:07:59,833 --> 01:08:02,000 like I can tell you anything, 1026 01:08:06,500 --> 01:08:08,666 and you’ll still love me. 1027 01:08:11,250 --> 01:08:12,291 Bye, Alex. 1028 01:08:14,666 --> 01:08:16,041 Come back soon. 1029 01:08:51,166 --> 01:08:53,208 I don’t want you to ever go over to a stranger’s house 1030 01:08:53,250 --> 01:08:55,291 without me again, do you understand? 1031 01:08:55,326 --> 01:08:56,583 He’s not a stranger. 1032 01:08:56,625 --> 01:08:59,708 Don’t go to anyone’s house without me. 1033 01:08:59,743 --> 01:09:00,791 Why? 1034 01:09:02,125 --> 01:09:02,958 Come here. 1035 01:09:07,541 --> 01:09:09,958 I want you to lock this door and don’t open it for anyone, 1036 01:09:10,000 --> 01:09:12,000 including me, okay? 1037 01:09:12,041 --> 01:09:13,666 But why? 1038 01:09:14,958 --> 01:09:15,791 I love you. 1039 01:09:34,250 --> 01:09:35,083 Who is it? 1040 01:09:39,291 --> 01:09:40,166 Who’s there? 1041 01:09:56,000 --> 01:09:56,833 Hello? 1042 01:10:07,750 --> 01:10:09,298 Hi, Amber! 1043 01:10:09,333 --> 01:10:12,291 I’m sorry I startled you. 1044 01:10:12,333 --> 01:10:14,791 Please open the door, we need to talk. 1045 01:10:15,958 --> 01:10:17,458 My husband’s on his way home from work. 1046 01:10:17,500 --> 01:10:18,458 He’ll be here any minute. 1047 01:10:18,493 --> 01:10:19,625 You need to go. 1048 01:10:19,666 --> 01:10:21,770 I just really need to talk to you. 1049 01:10:21,805 --> 01:10:23,875 You really need to go home now. 1050 01:10:45,833 --> 01:10:47,166 Mommy? 1051 01:10:47,208 --> 01:10:48,208 It’s okay, Alex! 1052 01:10:56,416 --> 01:10:59,708 I know you keep an extra key in the kitchen, 1053 01:10:59,750 --> 01:11:02,375 so I made a copy while you were out. 1054 01:11:02,410 --> 01:11:04,205 I hope you don’t mind. 1055 01:11:04,240 --> 01:11:06,000 Please leave us alone. 1056 01:11:06,041 --> 01:11:09,791 Okay, but you know, Amber, you don’t have to worry. 1057 01:11:09,826 --> 01:11:12,958 I would never hurt you, I just wanna talk. 1058 01:11:13,000 --> 01:11:15,833 I don’t feel like talking, please go now. 1059 01:11:15,868 --> 01:11:18,631 Okay, but we’re still friends, right? 1060 01:11:18,666 --> 01:11:22,875 I hope this doesn’t make things awkward between us. 1061 01:11:22,916 --> 01:11:24,083 Sure, yes, of course. 1062 01:11:25,208 --> 01:11:30,090 Okay, okay, good, good. 1063 01:11:30,125 --> 01:11:33,958 I’ll leave, I’ll leave, okay. 1064 01:11:36,791 --> 01:11:41,416 Oh, I did, I brought you something. 1065 01:11:41,451 --> 01:11:43,750 It’s right... 1066 01:11:59,000 --> 01:12:03,208 Yes, I’d love to come in, 1067 01:12:05,083 --> 01:12:05,916 thank you. 1068 01:12:18,041 --> 01:12:20,291 Come on, come on. 1069 01:12:20,333 --> 01:12:21,708 Thanks for calling the Reynolds. 1070 01:12:21,743 --> 01:12:23,125 Please leave a message. 1071 01:12:24,250 --> 01:12:25,458 Amber, Amber, 1072 01:12:25,500 --> 01:12:28,291 please, if you’re there, pick up now. 1073 01:12:28,326 --> 01:12:31,083 Sorry, Pastor Zach, she’s unavailable. 1074 01:12:33,166 --> 01:12:35,833 Amber, I need you to pick up the phone right now. 1075 01:12:38,041 --> 01:12:39,875 Okay, Amber, I’m gonna be there in five minutes. 1076 01:12:39,916 --> 01:12:40,916 I’ll be right there. 1077 01:12:42,416 --> 01:12:43,916 Thanks for the tip. 1078 01:12:43,951 --> 01:12:45,416 Don’t wait up. 1079 01:13:01,583 --> 01:13:06,791 Hey, I gotta a crazy idea, 1080 01:13:08,083 --> 01:13:09,166 you wanna get married? 1081 01:13:11,791 --> 01:13:15,750 We can do it in the old city church 1082 01:13:16,958 --> 01:13:23,750 where Grandmamma and Pops got married. 1083 01:13:24,291 --> 01:13:26,083 They would like that very much. 1084 01:13:28,458 --> 01:13:29,291 You want to? 1085 01:13:31,083 --> 01:13:34,666 Yeah, me, too. 1086 01:13:42,208 --> 01:13:43,958 Amber, Alex, Amber! 1087 01:13:46,333 --> 01:13:47,333 Amber, Alex! 1088 01:13:48,041 --> 01:13:49,208 Daddy? - Yes. 1089 01:13:51,625 --> 01:13:53,208 Oh, thank God, you’re okay. 1090 01:13:53,250 --> 01:13:54,500 Where is mommy? 1091 01:13:56,000 --> 01:13:58,208 He took her to the old church. 1092 01:13:58,243 --> 01:13:59,333 Who took her? 1093 01:14:00,125 --> 01:14:01,083 The man next door. 1094 01:14:03,000 --> 01:14:04,125 Okay, come on, come on, come on. 1095 01:14:06,041 --> 01:14:07,541 Alex, you had us a little worried. 1096 01:14:07,576 --> 01:14:08,215 Where’s Amber? 1097 01:14:08,250 --> 01:14:09,256 I’m going to pick her up right now. 1098 01:14:09,291 --> 01:14:10,333 If you could just watch Alex-- - Yeah, sure. 1099 01:14:10,368 --> 01:14:10,923 That would just be great. 1100 01:14:10,958 --> 01:14:12,416 You know what, it’s a little cold out here, 1101 01:14:12,451 --> 01:14:13,875 how about we go get some hot chocolate, okay? 1102 01:14:46,583 --> 01:14:47,750 Isn’t this beautiful? 1103 01:14:50,916 --> 01:14:54,375 Come on, there’s more. 1104 01:14:56,125 --> 01:15:00,250 Grandmamma used to bring me every Sunday. 1105 01:15:06,875 --> 01:15:08,958 This was my classroom. 1106 01:15:13,875 --> 01:15:15,708 I liked the stories of Jesus. 1107 01:15:17,083 --> 01:15:18,166 They said he loved me, 1108 01:15:21,875 --> 01:15:24,208 but his people didn’t. 1109 01:15:25,250 --> 01:15:26,541 They said I was strange, 1110 01:15:29,916 --> 01:15:33,083 everyone except for Miss Hanson, my Sunday School teacher. 1111 01:15:36,000 --> 01:15:36,875 She was nice, 1112 01:15:39,833 --> 01:15:40,666 like you. 1113 01:15:44,666 --> 01:15:50,333 Then she got married, she moved away. 1114 01:15:53,791 --> 01:15:55,666 I didn’t wanna come back here anymore. 1115 01:16:21,958 --> 01:16:24,083 They used to chase me down these hallways. 1116 01:16:27,875 --> 01:16:28,791 I can still... 1117 01:16:31,208 --> 01:16:32,958 I can still hear them laughing at me. 1118 01:16:36,250 --> 01:16:39,208 I don’t know why they didn’t like me. 1119 01:16:42,291 --> 01:16:43,958 I guess I just didn’t fit in. 1120 01:16:56,541 --> 01:17:03,666 Oh yeah, imagine what people would think 1121 01:17:04,166 --> 01:17:06,041 if they saw me here with you. 1122 01:17:07,250 --> 01:17:09,750 They’d be so jealous! 1123 01:17:14,208 --> 01:17:16,000 Ready, you ready? 1124 01:17:16,458 --> 01:17:21,375 Come on, it’s okay, don’t worry. 1125 01:17:21,416 --> 01:17:23,298 It’s okay, it’s okay. 1126 01:17:23,333 --> 01:17:24,916 You don’t have to be scared. 1127 01:17:27,583 --> 01:17:28,416 Let her go! 1128 01:17:32,583 --> 01:17:34,583 Amber, are you okay, has he hurt you? 1129 01:17:34,625 --> 01:17:35,833 She doesn’t wanna be with you. 1130 01:17:35,875 --> 01:17:38,208 She doesn’t wanna be with you anymore 1131 01:17:38,243 --> 01:17:40,541 ’cause she doesn’t like mean people. 1132 01:17:41,958 --> 01:17:43,333 We’re gonna be happy together. 1133 01:17:43,375 --> 01:17:44,541 We’re gonna have a happy life. 1134 01:17:44,583 --> 01:17:45,583 Go ahead, tell him. 1135 01:17:47,333 --> 01:17:48,333 Tell him. 1136 01:17:51,250 --> 01:17:52,500 You don’t wanna be with me? 1137 01:17:54,291 --> 01:17:55,625 Then nobody does. 1138 01:18:03,125 --> 01:18:04,583 You win, Pastor Zach. 1139 01:18:06,875 --> 01:18:08,375 You always win. 1140 01:18:09,583 --> 01:18:12,916 Go ahead, I’d do it if the tables were turned. 1141 01:18:12,951 --> 01:18:14,048 There’s no witnesses. 1142 01:18:14,083 --> 01:18:17,083 No one will even know I’m gone. 1143 01:18:18,916 --> 01:18:20,548 I’m not gonna shoot you. 1144 01:18:20,583 --> 01:18:23,541 Oh, come on, drop the pastor act. 1145 01:18:23,576 --> 01:18:26,500 We both know who you really are. 1146 01:18:28,083 --> 01:18:30,625 No, you know who I was. 1147 01:18:30,666 --> 01:18:32,131 That’s not me anymore. 1148 01:18:32,166 --> 01:18:33,833 God changed me, he can change you, too. 1149 01:18:33,875 --> 01:18:35,708 You wanna change me so badly, 1150 01:18:35,743 --> 01:18:37,541 you don’t even know who I am. 1151 01:18:38,916 --> 01:18:40,125 Of course, I do. 1152 01:18:40,166 --> 01:18:41,333 Really? 1153 01:18:41,375 --> 01:18:42,541 What’s my name? 1154 01:18:47,041 --> 01:18:49,041 I don’t think you ever told me. 1155 01:18:50,458 --> 01:18:51,625 You never asked. 1156 01:18:52,750 --> 01:18:54,458 Nobody ever asks. 1157 01:18:56,166 --> 01:18:57,416 You didn’t care about me. 1158 01:18:57,458 --> 01:18:58,750 I wasn’t a person, I was just a project, 1159 01:18:58,785 --> 01:19:01,916 just another notch on your pulpit. 1160 01:19:04,375 --> 01:19:07,125 I’m not perfect, you’re right, 1161 01:19:08,583 --> 01:19:10,458 but that doesn’t mean that God doesn’t love you perfectly. 1162 01:19:11,791 --> 01:19:13,583 He knows your name and he loves you. 1163 01:19:16,250 --> 01:19:17,333 No, he doesn’t. 1164 01:19:19,916 --> 01:19:21,791 He does love you. 1165 01:19:21,958 --> 01:19:24,708 I know it doesn’t always feel like he does, but it’s true. 1166 01:19:24,743 --> 01:19:26,000 No, he doesn’t. - Zach. 1167 01:19:29,750 --> 01:19:30,916 It’s okay. 1168 01:19:34,083 --> 01:19:36,916 No, no, no. 1169 01:19:37,416 --> 01:19:38,381 He wants to be 1170 01:19:38,416 --> 01:19:39,291 in a relationship with you. 1171 01:19:39,326 --> 01:19:41,166 No, nobody does. 1172 01:19:41,201 --> 01:19:42,416 Run! 1173 01:20:19,458 --> 01:20:25,458 Hey, are we getting married today or what? 1174 01:20:26,833 --> 01:20:30,416 Pastor Zach is out of the picture. 1175 01:20:31,958 --> 01:20:34,291 There’s nothing holding us back now. 1176 01:20:37,375 --> 01:20:39,145 What did you do to Zach? 1177 01:20:39,180 --> 01:20:40,916 What did you do to him? 1178 01:20:50,458 --> 01:20:51,250 Zach? 1179 01:20:56,041 --> 01:20:56,833 Zach? 1180 01:21:31,583 --> 01:21:33,583 Wake up, dear friend, come on, please. 1181 01:21:37,250 --> 01:21:39,916 Do you think God is mad at me? 1182 01:21:50,708 --> 01:21:52,840 No, come on, come on. 1183 01:21:52,875 --> 01:21:56,500 No, no, no, hey, come on, just breathe. 1184 01:21:56,541 --> 01:21:58,500 Keep breathing, come on, keep breathing. 1185 01:22:37,416 --> 01:22:39,166 Rob Thompson is gone. 1186 01:22:40,666 --> 01:22:42,583 This is where I’m supposed to celebrate 1187 01:22:43,791 --> 01:22:45,875 or feel some sense of relief, but I don’t. 1188 01:22:47,291 --> 01:22:50,958 I was right about him, but he was right about me, too. 1189 01:22:52,041 --> 01:22:53,208 I didn’t care about him. 1190 01:22:54,416 --> 01:22:58,875 I thought I did, but I didn’t, not really. 1191 01:22:59,583 --> 01:23:01,500 He was a project to me. 1192 01:23:02,375 --> 01:23:05,000 Everyone always has been to some degree. 1193 01:23:06,125 --> 01:23:09,416 Do I even know how to love someone for real, like Jesus? 1194 01:23:10,791 --> 01:23:12,458 Or has my whole life been a show? 1195 01:23:30,666 --> 01:23:33,375 You can’t keep beating yourself up forever over this. 1196 01:23:34,416 --> 01:23:35,541 Don’t go. 1197 01:23:36,625 --> 01:23:39,291 Let us love you and Amber back to restoration. 1198 01:23:40,166 --> 01:23:41,333 No, I can’t. 1199 01:23:44,375 --> 01:23:45,548 How can I teach? 1200 01:23:45,583 --> 01:23:46,916 How can I tell them to love their neighbors 1201 01:23:46,958 --> 01:23:47,958 after what I did? 1202 01:23:48,666 --> 01:23:50,916 What happened that night was not your fault. 1203 01:23:51,625 --> 01:23:53,166 You didn’t have a choice, Zach. 1204 01:23:54,500 --> 01:23:56,958 No, but I made a lot of choices that led up to that. 1205 01:23:58,416 --> 01:24:00,250 I didn’t love my neighbor. 1206 01:24:00,833 --> 01:24:03,375 I’m not a good person, not good enough to preach. 1207 01:24:04,500 --> 01:24:08,250 Neither am I, none of us are, you get that? 1208 01:24:09,125 --> 01:24:11,583 I mean, we’re all in need of God’s grace. 1209 01:24:14,208 --> 01:24:19,041 I’m the pastor, I’m not supposed to need his grace. 1210 01:24:19,583 --> 01:24:22,958 You’re not getting into heaven without it, brother. 1211 01:24:26,083 --> 01:24:27,250 Take it easy, pastor. 1212 01:24:51,250 --> 01:24:54,625 Break time. 1213 01:25:24,708 --> 01:25:25,791 What’s up, brother? 1214 01:25:25,826 --> 01:25:26,875 My name’s Jonas. 1215 01:25:29,708 --> 01:25:30,541 Zach. 1216 01:25:30,916 --> 01:25:33,041 What you got there, Zach, baloney? 1217 01:25:33,750 --> 01:25:36,083 Man, I haven’t had a baloney sandwich in years. 1218 01:25:37,875 --> 01:25:39,750 You know, I been watching you, brother. 1219 01:25:39,791 --> 01:25:41,770 You’re the hardest working dude in this place, 1220 01:25:41,805 --> 01:25:43,750 but I never see you smile or talk to anybody. 1221 01:25:43,791 --> 01:25:44,666 What’s your story? 1222 01:25:47,625 --> 01:25:49,750 I don’t really have one. 1223 01:25:49,958 --> 01:25:52,208 I doubt that, we all got a story. 1224 01:25:53,583 --> 01:25:55,166 You know what I see when I look at you? 1225 01:25:57,083 --> 01:25:58,083 No. 1226 01:25:58,458 --> 01:26:00,381 I see someone who’s hurting, 1227 01:26:00,416 --> 01:26:02,125 someone who’s tried to do the right thing with their life, 1228 01:26:02,166 --> 01:26:05,250 but for some reason, you just keep coming up short. 1229 01:26:05,958 --> 01:26:07,583 You know, maybe you’ve missed the mark 1230 01:26:07,625 --> 01:26:09,423 and now you feel hopeless and lost, 1231 01:26:09,458 --> 01:26:11,625 like God couldn’t possibly love you anymore. 1232 01:26:12,750 --> 01:26:14,583 Yeah, I’ve felt that way, too. 1233 01:26:16,416 --> 01:26:18,958 But you know, God doesn’t love like we do. 1234 01:26:20,125 --> 01:26:23,145 He doesn’t disown us, he doesn’t cheat on us, 1235 01:26:23,180 --> 01:26:26,166 he doesn’t divorce us when we let him down. 1236 01:26:26,208 --> 01:26:27,374 His love is greater than that. 1237 01:26:27,409 --> 01:26:28,541 No, you don’t know me. 1238 01:26:29,500 --> 01:26:30,500 You don’t know what I’ve done. 1239 01:26:30,535 --> 01:26:32,131 God couldn’t use me. 1240 01:26:32,166 --> 01:26:35,750 Zach, I’m looking at me and I’m looking at you. 1241 01:26:38,875 --> 01:26:41,375 I bet my peanut butter sandwich against your baloney 1242 01:26:41,416 --> 01:26:42,916 that I’ve done a lot worse, 1243 01:26:44,625 --> 01:26:46,291 and he uses me every day. 1244 01:26:47,291 --> 01:26:48,506 You don’t have to be perfect 1245 01:26:48,541 --> 01:26:50,916 to be loved by God and to serve him. 1246 01:26:51,625 --> 01:26:54,541 You just have to be willing and obedient. 1247 01:26:57,875 --> 01:26:59,375 Why are you telling me this? 1248 01:27:00,875 --> 01:27:02,666 Because you’re my neighbor, 1249 01:27:02,958 --> 01:27:04,437 and God’s real big on his kids 1250 01:27:04,472 --> 01:27:05,916 reaching out to our neighbors. 1251 01:27:09,208 --> 01:27:11,340 You just got the call back brother. 1252 01:27:11,375 --> 01:27:15,541 The question is, what are you gonna do about it? 90930

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